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[Grunting]
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[Panting]
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[Grunting]
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Before, when I first started,
I thought I was invincible
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and untouchable, and
I could never get hurt.
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[Grunting]
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And I knew this was probably
like one of the hardest things
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my family had to go through.
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But I'll be damned if
they have to bury me.
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Domestic violence
and pro wrestling
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are not one and the same.
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You know, my situation, I didn't
talk about it for 20 years.
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Nobody knew.
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I didn't tell anyone.
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My husband was the
only person that knew.
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[Grunting]
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♪
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[Cheering]
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DAMIAN: Women's wrestling is
experiencing a revolution,
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and independent promotions
everywhere are rising to the
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occasion by showcasing female
talent from around the world.
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We're gonna visit two
very different places
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to show how women are
quickly evolving their sport
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beyond stereotypes and misogyny.
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The rise of the Fighting
Cholitas in Bolivia marks
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a distinct and important point
in their cultural resurgence.
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And in America, Shimmer Women
Athletes has created a league
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that focuses on the best
technical wrestling
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from across the globe.
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For the last 13 years, they've
fought to place female athletes
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like Mia Yim at the forefront
of the independent scene.
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In both countries, many of the
women involved have overcome
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violence in their own lives to
fight to create an atmosphere
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that promotes
female empowerment.
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Every ring and stage, women
wrestlers are fighting hard,
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developing and perfecting their
craft and telling stories
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that transcend mere match.
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And the fans are noticing.
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[Cheering]
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So why don't we do
that for the shine,
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where like you give
me a head scissors,
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I'll sell into the corner.
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Charge after me, I'll
move, I'll charge after you.
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You could do the thing.
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If you wanna do a victory
earlier so we don't have to
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blow it up, we could do that
victory, maybe roll up,
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one, two, spear,
boom, one, two, aah.
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That probably wasn't
English at all to you,
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but that totally
made sense to us.
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You know what, I
don't need to know.
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All I need to know
is that you get it,
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and then it's gonna be
awesome when I get to see it.
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[Laughing]
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That's all I need to
know about that exchange.
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[Yelling]
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[Cheering]
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Mia Yim is one of the
most accomplished women
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on the indie circuit.
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She trained in Japan,
was on television with both
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Total Nonstop Action
Wrestling and Ring of Honor,
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and has worked for
many of the top indies,
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including CZW,
Shine, and Shimmer.
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Wrestling is a form of dance.
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So one person will do, say,
a move to another person,
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but they're both
taking care of each other.
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[Cheering]
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Although it is violent, in
wrestling everything is consent,
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and there's proper
training behind it.
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So if I'm in a
ring with somebody,
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I'll put them in the
headlock, but I'm not
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purposefully hurting them.
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[Yelling]
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♪
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One, two, three!
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[Cheering]
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There's a lot of
people that think oh,
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well she got muscle,
she wrestles guys,
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she can handle her own.
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But just because I'm a wrestler,
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don't mean it's okay for
me to get beat up at home.
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♪
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At a time in her career when
everything was going right
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and Mia was solidifying her
place on the big stage,
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it was a very
different story at home.
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Mia began experiencing
domestic abuse at
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the hands of her boyfriend,
also a working wrestler.
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I was completely blinded by it,
and I didn't realize the flags,
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but looking back on it,
it was all there.
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The jealousy, the control.
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He was overprotective,
which I thought at that time
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was flattering because
oh, he cares so much.
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He's scared somebody's
gonna take me away.
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But then it became restricting.
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We had an argument,
and I mentioned my ex,
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which he always had a problem
with as far as I couldn't be on
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the same show as him,
we couldn't be friends.
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And then during the argument,
he put me in a headlock.
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Me and my ex, we
had matches together,
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so to me it was...
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okay, I've been in this move
my whole wrestling career.
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The only difference
is why is this hurting
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and why can't I breathe?
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And that's just because I've
never been in a proper headlock.
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And then the next day, it was
just like nothing ever happened.
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Then it would become
more and more regular,
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where every argument, he
would choke me just because,
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you know, I'm not...
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he doesn't want me walking
around with a black eye.
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There's no marks on me,
so he would choke me
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whether it's in
the headlock again
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or with his bare hands,
with a towel.
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It was a million
thoughts going on at once.
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It was confusion.
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The guy that tells me he loves
me every day and he wants to
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marry me, why is he
pitting me through this pain?
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Why does he keep hurting me
and telling me it's never gonna
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happen again, but then two
weeks later it happens again?
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What did I do?
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What am I doing wrong?
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[Thudding]
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It's a lot easier
said than done to just...
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"Why didn't you leave?"
or, "Why did you stay?"
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"Why didn't you fight back?"
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Like of course I fought
back, but he's a man.
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Like I can't-- I can't
knock him out with one punch.
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Like he can easily
just overpower me.
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[Thudding]
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I decided to come
public with it when,
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after talking to several of my
other female wrestling friends,
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I was... pretty much just
needed a shoulder to cry on,
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so I talked to them.
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And a lot of them said,
"This is what you need to do.
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This is what happened with me,
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and this is how
I got out of it."
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And it was like...
wait a minute.
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So we have been sharing the
same locker room for X amount of
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years, you went through the
same challenges I went through
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as a female wrestler,
and you're telling me
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that you've been
through this as well?
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And it wasn't just
one other woman,
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it was multiple wrestling
women that has told me.
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And it was like
this has got to stop.
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Like this is exactly why
domestic violence is happening,
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because nobody's
talking about it.
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I couldn't-- I
couldn't stay quiet.
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♪
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- That's Maria's belt?
- Si, si.
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I guess like any proud parent
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displaying their children's
trophies, a proud luchadore
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with display their
Fighting Cholita's belt.
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How did it make you feel
the first time you saw your...
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your babies, your
children in the ring?
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[Laughing]
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El Alto, Bolivia sits
13,000 feet above sea level,
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overlooking the
capital city of La Paz.
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It's home to over
a million residents,
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most of whom are of the
Indigenous Aymara or Quechua.
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For decades, Bolivia has
had a style of wrestling
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highly derivative of
Mexican Lucha Libre,
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but around 15 years ago
in a rapidly changing
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political climate, the Fighting
Cholitas came into being.
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I'm meeting with my local guide
and Bolivian historian Valeria
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to show me around and to
find out who these women are,
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and how they came
to be wrestlers.
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Most of the people in Bolivia,
it's a mix between Indigenous
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and all our roots from Spanish,
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but we have like 75% of our
population right now Indigenous.
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But all of the Cholitas and
all of the Indigenous people
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were not identifying
themselves as Bolivians,
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because even just 15 years ago,
Cholitas would not be able to go
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on an airplane
dressed as Cholitas.
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They would be asked
to dress differently
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in order to board a flight.
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♪
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Where is this
discrimination coming from?
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♪
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[Whirring]
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[Laughing]
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What goes inside.
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Oh, like an underskirt?
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Ohhh.
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At the time that she's wrestling
is what you'll see the most.
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That's true, you want
it to look beautiful.
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♪
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Ah!
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What were people's
like to seeing you?
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'Cause you're the
first women luchadores.
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It's amazing looking at the
rise of the Fighting Cholitas
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and Bolivia as a country,
and just how much it's changed
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during that period.
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Because when you started, it was
a really tense time politically.
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It was a civil war.
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DAMIAN: The Bolivian
Gas War took place in 2003
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with the government's plan
to sell off the country's
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newly discovered gas reserves.
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Fuelled by a deep history
of colonial exploitation
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of natural resources such as
silver and gold, along with
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a weakened economy and
impoverished living conditions,
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Bolivians took to the streets
to strike in protest...
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[Gunshots]
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...but were met with
a violent response.
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[Gunshots]
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60 people, mostly from
El Alto, were killed,
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and many more were wounded.
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[Shouting]
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[Shouting]
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[Yelling]
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[Cheering]
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Domestic abuse is
prevalent in Bolivia,
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with 53% of Bolivian women
having experienced physical
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or sexual violence at
the hands of a partner,
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one of the highest rates of
any country in South America.
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Helen, how did you first
find out about this space?
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[Children laughing]
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One, two. Good, find the two.
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Two three two.
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Good, good work, shake it out.
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You know, when we talk
about domestic violence,
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there's always this idea
of the perfect victim.
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Somebody who is a model citizen,
someone who doesn't curse,
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someone who doesn't
initiate violence,
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someone who doesn't partake
in violence, right?
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Wrestling's a violent sport.
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When you think of
the perfect victims,
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those are the kind of
labels we put on people that
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if they can subscribe
to all of those things,
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right, if they can
just be perfect,
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then they're
deserving of support.
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And so you look at
someone like Mia,
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who's a professional wrestler,
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and the element of victim
blaming comes in, right?
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"She could've fought back,"
or, "Maybe if she didn't date
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a wrestler, she wouldn't find
herself in this situation."
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[Smacking]
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So what about
connecting with her though?
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You kind of, I guess
at some point though,
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crossed that line, right?
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- From fan to friend.
- To friend.
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I mean, I think the world
of Mia, she's great.
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You know, I think that's
the power of social media.
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I'm someone who has had friends
and family who've been impacted
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by domestic violence.
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But then I saw that she was
retweeting a bunch of different
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domestic violence campaigns.
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The Put The Nail In It campaign
is a campaign that aims to end
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the silence around
domestic violence.
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You know, the idea was that
if you painted your left ring
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fingernail purple, hopefully
somebody would spot it
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and ask you a question like,
"What's that about?"
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And so being a
wrestling fan, I saw Mia,
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and I saw that she
had the painted nail.
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And so I said hmm, you know,
let me just reach out to Mia
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and see if she'd feel
comfortable speaking.
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He would cry, he
would apologize,
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he was a changed man,
he learned his lesson.
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A week later, we'd
get into an argument,
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he just scoops me up,
tossed me in the closet.
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And that was my first
time I fought back,
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'cause I broke down the door,
and then I came out swinging
260
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'cause he just stood there
like he couldn't believe
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I got through the door.
262
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So...
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It's okay.
264
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I thought about my
family, and how...
265
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I will be damned if my
parents have to bury me.
266
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So I broke down the closet,
first time I fought back.
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Um...
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And of course, he just easily
just... scooped me up,
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put me down, he mounted me
and started choking me.
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♪
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I want to be an advocate,
I want to help others
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that's been in my situation.
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I just don't know how.
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And so for Mia, I wanted to let
her know that I was interested
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in exploring the story with
her, and getting it out there,
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and that she also had final
approval on the piece that
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we did submit for
The Huffington Post.
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And I was a little scared.
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Would she be met with that same
hyper-masculinity victim blaming
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that's so common when
women come forward?
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But I was surprised.
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♪
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DAMIAN: Annabelle
is the youngest of
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the Fighting
Cholitas in El Alto.
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Still in high school,
she represents
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a new generation of wrestlers.
287
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[Cheering]
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[Thudding]
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[Grunting]
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[Grunting]
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Oh!
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♪
293
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It seems to me the part
that's missing is educating men,
294
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'cause the men are the
perpetrators of this violence.
295
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What kind of changes
are happening there?
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Is there any efforts being
made to kinda adjust society?
297
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I'm to understand that you've
gone out and actually formed
298
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your own federation, a women's
federation now, right?
299
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[Shouting]
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The Fighting Cholita's
league is still in its infancy,
301
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and has to rely on male
promoters for access
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to both a ring and a venue.
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00:28:57,300 --> 00:28:59,090
If they're able to
become fully independent,
304
00:28:59,128 --> 00:29:00,868
it will mark an
important point in history
305
00:29:00,913 --> 00:29:02,923
for women's wrestling.
306
00:29:02,958 --> 00:29:05,438
Outside of Japan and a few
short-lived promotions in
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00:29:05,482 --> 00:29:08,792
the UK, the Cholitas would be
the first promotion to be fully
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00:29:08,834 --> 00:29:12,054
owned and controlled by the
female wrestlers themselves.
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♪
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Pen!
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Thanks for that, Howard.
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♪
313
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[Applause]
314
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Shimmer is the WrestleMania of
women's independent wrestling.
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It is women from all over
the world that are known for
316
00:29:51,224 --> 00:29:54,534
their work, rather than
just being sexy or whatnot.
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00:29:55,706 --> 00:30:00,536
This is pro wrestling
with female athletes.
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00:30:00,581 --> 00:30:02,801
We're giving them
more of an opportunity.
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00:30:02,844 --> 00:30:05,724
We're allowing them to
showcase their athleticism.
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00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:09,330
We're not here for a
bunch of goofy stories.
321
00:30:09,372 --> 00:30:12,032
We're not here for
showing you the goods.
322
00:30:12,071 --> 00:30:13,511
We're not gonna
give that to you.
323
00:30:13,550 --> 00:30:14,900
[Cheering]
324
00:30:14,943 --> 00:30:17,213
We're not the side dish,
we're the main dish.
325
00:30:17,250 --> 00:30:20,990
We are the meat and
potatoes of women's wrestling.
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00:30:21,036 --> 00:30:23,516
[Cheering]
327
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,820
You're gonna see brawling,
you're gonna see technical
328
00:30:25,867 --> 00:30:28,167
wrestling, you're gonna see
high flying, and you're gonna
329
00:30:28,217 --> 00:30:31,997
see women in a capacity
you might not normally see.
330
00:30:32,047 --> 00:30:41,057
[Cheering]
331
00:30:41,100 --> 00:30:46,890
CROWD: Mia! Mia! Mia!
Mia! Mia! Mia! Mia! Mia!
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00:30:46,932 --> 00:30:50,542
[Yelling]
333
00:30:50,587 --> 00:30:52,367
[Crowd gasping]
334
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:57,590
DAMIAN: Shimmer is the only
league of its kind in America.
335
00:30:57,638 --> 00:31:00,248
While there are other
women-centric promotions,
336
00:31:00,293 --> 00:31:01,903
they don't have the same mandate
337
00:31:01,947 --> 00:31:04,297
to specifically highlight
female athleticism.
338
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:08,390
Within the American wrestling
system, there's been
339
00:31:08,431 --> 00:31:11,701
a lot of talk recently
about a women's revolution.
340
00:31:11,739 --> 00:31:14,439
The buzz has grown so popular
that even the large corporate
341
00:31:14,481 --> 00:31:16,881
wrestling companies have
had to take notice and change
342
00:31:16,918 --> 00:31:18,958
the presentation of
women's wrestling.
343
00:31:21,575 --> 00:31:25,185
A great deal of responsibility
for this changing tide is owed
344
00:31:25,231 --> 00:31:28,841
to the organizers of Shimmer,
and the women they feature.
345
00:31:28,887 --> 00:31:31,797
Without them, the world of
pro wrestling would still be
346
00:31:31,846 --> 00:31:33,496
living in the past.
347
00:31:33,543 --> 00:31:38,163
♪
348
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:40,640
I think out of all the wrestling
shows I've been to lately -
349
00:31:40,681 --> 00:31:42,941
and I've been to a lot lately -
this is one of the most
350
00:31:42,988 --> 00:31:46,558
respectful audiences,
certainly in America or Canada,
351
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:48,170
that I've ever seen.
352
00:31:48,210 --> 00:31:50,560
Is that something that was like
that from the very beginning,
353
00:31:50,604 --> 00:31:52,524
or is that something
you've had to cultivate here?
354
00:31:52,562 --> 00:31:56,002
Back when we first
started this in 2005,
355
00:31:56,044 --> 00:31:59,134
women were facing the problem,
particularly on the indies.
356
00:31:59,178 --> 00:32:02,658
When we would hit the ring
at any kind of "regular" show
357
00:32:02,703 --> 00:32:04,793
I would say, like
a mostly male show,
358
00:32:04,835 --> 00:32:08,135
fans would openly get
up and go to the bar,
359
00:32:08,187 --> 00:32:10,147
get something to
drink, get a snack.
360
00:32:10,189 --> 00:32:13,189
I've done shows where the
fans pick their chairs up,
361
00:32:13,235 --> 00:32:16,105
turned them around, and sat
like this with their backs to us
362
00:32:16,151 --> 00:32:19,681
to make us know that we
weren't welcome, that we were
363
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:23,510
taking away from male matches
that they wanted to watch.
364
00:32:23,550 --> 00:32:25,990
[Shouting]
365
00:32:26,031 --> 00:32:27,771
Where do you think
that animosity
366
00:32:27,815 --> 00:32:29,985
towards women's
wrestling comes from?
367
00:32:30,035 --> 00:32:31,815
It's just straight up misogyny.
368
00:32:31,862 --> 00:32:35,392
And it goes back to the
old school mentality of
369
00:32:35,431 --> 00:32:37,131
men are the leaders.
370
00:32:37,172 --> 00:32:38,832
Men do the heavy lifting.
371
00:32:38,869 --> 00:32:40,999
Women just stay in the
background and do this.
372
00:32:41,046 --> 00:32:43,476
And I think deep down,
it's engrained in
373
00:32:43,526 --> 00:32:47,096
a lot of fans' heads that
this isn't what women do.
374
00:32:47,139 --> 00:32:49,749
And a lot of fans
just didn't like it.
375
00:32:49,793 --> 00:32:52,013
They felt we were encroaching on
376
00:32:52,057 --> 00:32:54,797
the territory of
something they loved.
377
00:32:54,842 --> 00:32:57,762
We've had women's
wrestling over the years,
378
00:32:57,801 --> 00:33:00,801
and then we had GLOW
which openly acknowledged
379
00:33:00,848 --> 00:33:04,158
most of those people were
actresses playing a part.
380
00:33:04,199 --> 00:33:08,029
So they're used to seeing these
amazing athletics from the men,
381
00:33:08,073 --> 00:33:10,383
and then the women
are trying to catch up
382
00:33:10,423 --> 00:33:11,823
and given that opportunity.
383
00:33:11,859 --> 00:33:14,299
And the women who could
wrestle were held back
384
00:33:14,340 --> 00:33:15,520
for not being pretty enough.
385
00:33:15,558 --> 00:33:18,648
♪
386
00:33:18,692 --> 00:33:21,702
Back then, women's
wrestling in my experience,
387
00:33:21,738 --> 00:33:24,568
from what I've been through,
it was just sexualized.
388
00:33:24,611 --> 00:33:27,401
Bra and panty matches, mud
matches, specialty matches,
389
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:31,050
and I'm sure it was a lot
worse before I started.
390
00:33:31,096 --> 00:33:34,056
[Cheering]
391
00:33:34,099 --> 00:33:37,889
So when we started Shimmer
and Prazak pitched the idea,
392
00:33:37,928 --> 00:33:42,848
we really wanted to find that
niche and find the people who
393
00:33:42,890 --> 00:33:46,070
believed in women's wrestling,
and believed in the athletes
394
00:33:46,111 --> 00:33:48,161
that we have and
that we present.
395
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:51,250
And we started getting
away from the cat fights,
396
00:33:51,290 --> 00:33:53,210
and the evening gown matches.
397
00:33:53,248 --> 00:33:55,338
And no matter who
told us it was wrong,
398
00:33:55,381 --> 00:33:57,601
we knew here and
here it was right,
399
00:33:57,644 --> 00:33:59,174
and so we just kept going.
400
00:33:59,211 --> 00:34:00,691
We're like alright,
they don't like it,
401
00:34:00,734 --> 00:34:02,524
let's move to the next person.
402
00:34:02,562 --> 00:34:04,092
CROWD: Mia! Mia!
403
00:34:04,129 --> 00:34:06,609
We weren't gonna be able to
change everybody's minds,
404
00:34:06,653 --> 00:34:09,403
but if we worked really hard,
we would be able to educate
405
00:34:09,438 --> 00:34:12,348
some people on what we do,
and change minds that way.
406
00:34:18,534 --> 00:34:21,414
Everywhere you go that
I've been so far around,
407
00:34:21,450 --> 00:34:24,060
you see signs of Evo Morales.
408
00:34:24,105 --> 00:34:25,975
Can you explain a little
bit about his presidency
409
00:34:26,020 --> 00:34:27,460
and how he became elected?
410
00:34:27,500 --> 00:34:29,200
He was a natural leader.
411
00:34:29,241 --> 00:34:32,641
He was president of all of
the unions in our central area
412
00:34:32,679 --> 00:34:36,069
that we call Chapare, where
they produce the coca leaves.
413
00:34:36,117 --> 00:34:40,857
And then he started
getting involved in politics,
414
00:34:40,904 --> 00:34:44,304
and he decided to
found his own party
415
00:34:44,343 --> 00:34:47,743
that is a movement
towards socialism.
416
00:34:49,043 --> 00:34:51,483
So not only was Evo a
very progressive force
417
00:34:51,524 --> 00:34:53,004
when it comes to labour
and things like that,
418
00:34:53,047 --> 00:34:55,137
but he was also the first
Indigenous president, right?
419
00:34:55,180 --> 00:34:56,570
Yes, actually.
420
00:34:56,616 --> 00:34:59,656
How did that affect the
psychology of people here?
421
00:34:59,706 --> 00:35:03,006
It created a new identity,
422
00:35:03,057 --> 00:35:08,717
because we have like 75% of our
population right now Indigenous.
423
00:35:08,758 --> 00:35:14,678
So during the '70s, people who
have Indigenous last names
424
00:35:14,721 --> 00:35:17,461
would not be able
to go to university,
425
00:35:17,506 --> 00:35:21,546
but now they are free
to do whatever they want.
426
00:35:21,597 --> 00:35:25,687
What Evo Morales has done
is that he has created
427
00:35:25,732 --> 00:35:28,522
a new identity of a country.
428
00:35:28,561 --> 00:35:33,261
And part of that identity is the
Cholitas as an icon of the city
429
00:35:33,305 --> 00:35:35,515
and of our country.
430
00:35:35,568 --> 00:35:40,658
♪
431
00:35:40,703 --> 00:35:44,233
[Thudding]
432
00:35:44,272 --> 00:35:46,842
[Yelling]
433
00:35:46,883 --> 00:35:48,673
[Grunting]
434
00:35:50,191 --> 00:35:51,541
[Laughing]
435
00:35:51,584 --> 00:35:54,804
Watching you two work
together, it's amazing,
436
00:35:54,848 --> 00:35:57,978
the trust that you must have and
the faith you put in each other.
437
00:35:58,025 --> 00:36:01,025
Is that something that
transcends the ring?
438
00:36:01,071 --> 00:36:02,511
- Absolutely!
- Yeah.
439
00:36:02,551 --> 00:36:03,771
Half of the stuff we do,
440
00:36:03,813 --> 00:36:05,423
whether we're fighting
against each other
441
00:36:05,467 --> 00:36:10,337
or teaming up together,
it's all just us being us.
442
00:36:10,385 --> 00:36:12,945
So we don't call any of it,
we don't plan any of it.
443
00:36:12,996 --> 00:36:15,346
A majority of it
is legit just us.
444
00:36:15,390 --> 00:36:16,830
It's just us being like...
445
00:36:16,870 --> 00:36:18,790
When we got close...
446
00:36:18,828 --> 00:36:20,658
I moved to Florida for my ex.
447
00:36:20,700 --> 00:36:23,530
So then we had our own clique,
and that's how we got to bond
448
00:36:23,572 --> 00:36:25,142
and get to know each other.
449
00:36:25,183 --> 00:36:28,713
So not only is she
my wrestling friend,
450
00:36:28,751 --> 00:36:30,141
she's my real friend.
451
00:36:31,667 --> 00:36:35,317
So when I finally left,
she was there when
452
00:36:35,367 --> 00:36:38,497
all of our mutual friends
thought I was exaggerating
453
00:36:38,544 --> 00:36:40,114
or lying or just making it up.
454
00:36:40,154 --> 00:36:43,294
She was there to tell me you do
what you gotta do to be safe,
455
00:36:43,331 --> 00:36:44,851
and I'll be there for you.
456
00:36:44,898 --> 00:36:46,768
[Yelling]
457
00:36:46,813 --> 00:36:48,293
[Laughing]
458
00:36:48,336 --> 00:36:51,026
When Mia first was able to
come forward about the abuse
459
00:36:51,078 --> 00:36:54,648
she experienced, there was
people around her that went to
460
00:36:54,690 --> 00:36:58,090
the abuser and just protected
him, and tried to protect him.
461
00:36:58,128 --> 00:37:02,308
Sometimes I think people protect
the abuser because they can't
462
00:37:02,350 --> 00:37:06,010
fathom that the abuser
would've actually done that.
463
00:37:06,049 --> 00:37:08,179
"Oh, you're just
being hysterical."
464
00:37:08,226 --> 00:37:11,186
"Oh, calm down, that
couldn't have really happened."
465
00:37:11,229 --> 00:37:15,449
And they almost
gaslight you in a way of
466
00:37:15,494 --> 00:37:17,414
they make you second guess.
467
00:37:17,452 --> 00:37:19,412
Was it really that bad?
468
00:37:19,454 --> 00:37:21,894
And so that's
extremely frustrating.
469
00:37:21,935 --> 00:37:23,455
[Shouting]
470
00:37:23,502 --> 00:37:26,852
I couldn't stay quiet and
let it keep happening because
471
00:37:26,896 --> 00:37:29,326
the abusers think that oh,
well they-- if they talk,
472
00:37:29,377 --> 00:37:31,287
then we're gonna
beat them up some more.
473
00:37:32,685 --> 00:37:37,035
It wasn't until when I came out
with my story that I realized
474
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,170
how many people were supportive.
475
00:37:40,606 --> 00:37:44,646
It was just crazy that not only
is it just like my friends
476
00:37:44,697 --> 00:37:47,737
at Shimmer, or my
friends at Impact,
477
00:37:47,787 --> 00:37:50,527
it was everybody, like people
I've never even met before.
478
00:37:52,357 --> 00:37:55,617
And it was... it was refreshing
to know I'm not crazy.
479
00:37:57,362 --> 00:37:59,932
Some people wanna...
wanna criticize it,
480
00:37:59,973 --> 00:38:03,413
that it was a glory grab,
it was an attention grab.
481
00:38:03,455 --> 00:38:06,845
I think it was
something so unselfish,
482
00:38:06,893 --> 00:38:11,853
because she put
strangers ahead of herself,
483
00:38:11,898 --> 00:38:14,198
because she doesn't want
anyone else to ever be
484
00:38:14,248 --> 00:38:15,948
in that situation.
485
00:38:15,989 --> 00:38:21,779
And she made us in
the locker room feel safe
486
00:38:21,821 --> 00:38:24,301
to start talking
about our own situations.
487
00:38:25,912 --> 00:38:29,262
My situation, I didn't
talk about it for 20 years.
488
00:38:29,307 --> 00:38:31,437
I didn't tell anyone.
489
00:38:31,483 --> 00:38:34,183
My husband was the
only person that knew.
490
00:38:34,224 --> 00:38:37,584
Now I feel better
talking about it because
491
00:38:37,619 --> 00:38:41,059
she put herself out
there for everybody.
492
00:38:41,101 --> 00:38:44,321
Like a lot of people don't
realize what she put on the line
493
00:38:44,365 --> 00:38:45,575
to do that.
494
00:38:45,627 --> 00:38:47,927
That essentially
could've ruined her career,
495
00:38:47,977 --> 00:38:50,197
and she did it.
496
00:38:50,240 --> 00:38:51,630
She did it anyway.
497
00:38:51,677 --> 00:38:57,467
♪
498
00:38:57,509 --> 00:39:00,379
That glass ceiling,
we're shattering it.
499
00:39:00,425 --> 00:39:03,375
You know, granted, still to
this day we're not getting paid
500
00:39:03,428 --> 00:39:06,648
as much as men, and we
still have some obstacles,
501
00:39:06,692 --> 00:39:08,612
but we'll take the
little victories.
502
00:39:11,653 --> 00:39:16,793
I think with the
platform that I am given,
503
00:39:16,832 --> 00:39:19,972
I don't want to be
selfish and just focus on me.
504
00:39:20,009 --> 00:39:22,229
It's not about me,
it's about the issues
505
00:39:22,272 --> 00:39:24,192
that's going on right now.
506
00:39:24,231 --> 00:39:27,451
When I'm done wrestling,
I want people to say,
507
00:39:27,495 --> 00:39:30,625
"She's the one that opened
up about domestic violence.
508
00:39:30,672 --> 00:39:34,552
Now look at what's
happened with that story."
509
00:39:34,589 --> 00:39:38,509
[Cheering]
510
00:39:42,031 --> 00:39:45,691
[Distant shouting]
511
00:40:15,413 --> 00:40:22,293
♪
512
00:40:38,697 --> 00:40:54,447
♪
513
00:40:54,495 --> 00:40:58,275
[Applause]
514
00:41:12,426 --> 00:41:15,296
That's really kind of the other
thing that I found interesting
515
00:41:15,342 --> 00:41:18,432
when talking to people, is how
much what you do in the ring has
516
00:41:18,476 --> 00:41:20,606
affected the world
outside of the ring,
517
00:41:20,652 --> 00:41:23,522
and how much of an important
role you've played in sort of
518
00:41:23,568 --> 00:41:26,478
this... I don't know, this
amazing period of growth
519
00:41:26,527 --> 00:41:28,007
that's happened in this country.
520
00:41:54,990 --> 00:41:57,560
That's why I think the Fighting
Cholitas are so important and
521
00:41:57,602 --> 00:42:02,002
so awesome for all of wrestling,
is because it's not just amazing
522
00:42:02,041 --> 00:42:05,171
wrestling, there's also like
fighting against discrimination,
523
00:42:05,218 --> 00:42:07,258
fighting against oppression,
524
00:42:07,307 --> 00:42:09,607
and fighting against
unfair labour practices.
525
00:42:09,657 --> 00:42:11,827
And that's... you know,
and it's just so much more
526
00:42:11,877 --> 00:42:13,177
than just fighting in the ring.
527
00:42:13,226 --> 00:42:14,396
It's fighting outside
of the ring that you do
528
00:42:14,444 --> 00:42:16,144
that's so inspiring.
529
00:42:16,185 --> 00:42:39,855
♪
530
00:43:14,896 --> 00:43:24,906
♪