[narrator] Previously on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way.
Oh, I just stepped in a big pile.
I met Rishi in a hotel lobby
while I was on a solo trip to India.
Yes, do that again.
Within a month of us meeting, he proposed.
And I'm moving to India in one week.
-[upbeat music playing] -Whoo!
-[car honking] -I'm trans.
Once upon a time, I was a girl,
and now I'm a whole man.
Well, I'm happy for you, bro.
The best for you in Colombia.
I'm moving to Colombia in under a week
to marry the love of my life, Isabel.
So what about like the family?
Any questions or anything like that?
Her mom and dad, they don't know.
And I'm trying to marry their daughter.
I never was happy in my relationships.
So, I decided to go online and found my soulmate.
My girlfriend's name is Jeymi.
She lives in Bogota, Colombia.
You know, she's really special for me
to leave my kids and everything to be with her.
Someone you've never met face to face.
[chuckles]
That's a biggie.
Yo, bike lane!
So about a year ago, I decided to take a trip
to the Dominican Republic.
And that's where I met Yohan,
my prince charming.
I did tell Yohan that I would apply for the spousal visa
so that we can live in the US.
-[in Spanish] -Hi, baby.
But Yohan is not gonna be happy
once he learns that my plan is to live
in the Dominican Republic forever.
[Yohan in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[upbeat music playing]
[Daniele in Spanish]
I land in the Dominican Republic
earlier today,
and I told Yohan that I wanted
to live here for longer than a year.
He didn't take the news very well.
But Yohan and I are now arriving at his family home
but I'm not gonna argue in front of his family.
So, we really have to table this conversation
till later.
Hi.
-[both in Spanish] -[Yohan] Hi.
[woman in Spanish]
[man in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Yohan in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[laughter]
[Yohan in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -Okay, okay.
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[Daniele in Spanish]
Okay.
[in Spanish]
[Daniele in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[woman in Spanish]
[laughter]
[Yohan in Spanish]
Okay.
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[woman] Okay. [in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
I have a great relationship with Yohan's family.
Everybody is super sweet and welcoming.
But usually, we only stay at Yohan's house
for a night or two
because it's a lot of people.
It's hot. There's no air conditioning
and after, like, 24 hours,
I start to get mean and no one wants
to be around me when I'm mean.
So tomorrow, we're gonna go and check into a hotel
and we'll stay there for the rest of the trip.
-[Yohan in Spanish] -[Daniel laughs]
-[Yohan in Spanish] -[Daniele in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[Daniele in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[tense music playing]
[in Spanish]
[Daniele in Spanish]
[Yohan in Spanish]
[Daniele in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[dramatic music playing]
[Yohan in Spanish]
High five. Go team.
[Yohan in Spanish]
[Daniele in Spanish]
Let's get ready for bed.
Okay?
[in Spanish]
[Daniele in Spanish]
[upbeat music playing]
[singer] ♪ I like them Hollywood, girls ♪
♪ The girls, the girls ♪
♪ I like them Hollywood, girls ♪
♪ Girls whoa ♪
[knocks on door]
-Hi. -[customer] Hi.
-Here's your pizza. -[customer] Thank you.
-You're welcome. Goodnight. -[customer] Goodnight.
["How Do We Feel" playing]
It's actually a very difficult job.
I'll... I get, uh, lost a lot.
My name is Nicole.
I'm 38 and I live in Los Angeles, California.
Driving all over the town, and it's hot or it's cold
or it's whatever.
It's, uh,
it's actually more difficult than you think.
["Hard Way" playing]
[Nicole] I currently work two jobs.
I deliver food.
And I resell clothes.
So I think this one is a vintage from Poland.
I got it for, like, $20 and I think,
you know, I think I can... I can maybe get $40 for it.
I've always loved clothes since the time
I was a little kid.
I love dresses. I love fabric.
I love the way it feels on my skin.
I love expressing myself through fashion.
Whatever story you want to tell, then you can.
[pop music playing]
[Nicole] I'm from a small town in Idaho called Council.
It's nestled in the mountains.
I mean, I think I graduated high school
with 22 other people, maybe.
Living in Council was a little boring.
I knew there was a lot out there
that I didn't have access to.
I just wanted more.
I went to college.
I lived in several different states.
And I was just sort of, uh, trying to find out who I was.
After about a decade of traveling around,
I finally settled in LA
and went to fashion design school.
And I worked a few fashion design jobs,
and I hated it. It was awful.
I guess I just, like, don't have
the personality for it.
So I started studying meditation
and spirituality.
And then three years ago,
I was on a Spiritual Singles website,
and I saw an ad
for a soul journey to Egypt.
[dramatic music playing]
[Nicole] We were going to all these spiritual sites.
We're, like, doing these pretty deep meditations.
And we went inside the pyramids.
Egypt was so magical.
And I didn't know it was gonna change my life forever.
On the last day of my trip, I was shopping for fabric,
and I wandered into the fabric store.
There's this, like, this super cute
boy with like these big brown eyes
and his big sexy muscles.
[singer] ♪ There you are Looking at me ♪
♪ I'mma see you later That's how it starts boy ♪
♪ I know how to spot A player ♪
[Nicole] His name was Mahmoud.
He was 26 years old.
And he was from Cairo.
He asked me if I like Egypt.
And I said, well, I love Egypt.
I wanna stay in Egypt. It's amazing.
And he said, "You should, you should stay in Egypt
and be my wife."
And I was like, oh, ha, ha, ha. So funny.
[singer] ♪ Coming from a while away ♪
♪ You could be A big mistake ♪
We exchanged social media,
and then hung out later that night.
The following day, I had a flight around 10 o'clock
at night, but we spent most of the day together.
But I thought about just staying there,
but I didn't.
I was like, no, you gotta go home.
Be wise here. Think.
[dramatic music playing]
After I got back,
Mahmoud and I, we were talking
like every single chance we could.
We really started to fall in love.
Couldn't have been more than five days
after I was back in America
where he asked me
if I really would come to Egypt and marry him.
I don't even know if I've ever even
actually thought about being a wife before.
I've always just been single and independent.
I said, yes, of course. Yes.
Seven days after that,
I was on a plane back to Egypt
to marry him and be with him forever.
I married him at the Justice Department.
Not long after that, we had
like an actual wedding party.
[upbeat music playing]
[Nicole] I told no one.
I was so madly in love with Mahmoud.
And I was so excited about this new life
that I was about to be living.
I thought that the magic was just gonna be
like that always living in Egypt.
But I was in for a rude awakening.
It was much different than I thought.
I was there for two months. And I just needed to go.
I needed to get out of there back to America.
I love this. It's like my blanket.
-Mmm-hmm. -Janine.
-Emmalyn. Hey. -Hey.
-It's so good to see you.
Oh, my gosh, Nicole.
Oh, my God. It's so good to see you.
-Good to see you. Good to see you. -Wow.
I've asked my friends Emmalyn and Janine
to meet me at the flea market.
You've made some pants like that.
Yeah. Yeah. I... You taught me, remember?
[Nicole] There are certain things
I still need to tell them
about my future with Mahmoud.
I don't know what they're gonna say.
[tense music playing]
I'm glad I got to see you guys before I go to Egypt.
-What? -You're going what? Where?
I'm going to live with Mahmoud in Egypt.
But I thought you're separating?
-Hi. -[laughs]
There's my beautiful baby.
We are planning to be married
nine days after I arrive there.
Everybody thinks I'm crazy.
[chuckles]
Maybe you're right. Maybe I am. I don't care.
-[laughs] -[in Spanish]
My name is Isabel.
I'm from El Carmen, Colombia.
[in Spanish]
[upbeat music playing]
Hi.
There's my beautiful baby.
You look beautiful today.
Thank you.
Are you ready for coming?
Oh, heck yeah.
I've been ready to come there for...
a year.
[Jeymi speaking]
I'm so happy for you.
And touch you and to hug you.
[Kris] All right. Finally. Yes.
Tomorrow is the big day
that I get to move to Bogota, Colombia,
to be with my beautiful girlfriend, Jeymi
who I'm meeting for the first time
and I can't wait.
-Now, have we got... -[Jeymi] Yes.
everything for the wedding?
[Kris] Yeah.
[Jeymi speaking]
So, you know, everybody thinks
that we're rushing to get married, right?
Nah.
We are planning to be married
nine days after I arrive there.
Everybody thinks I'm crazy
for giving up everything and moving to Colombia
to be with the woman I've never met.
Maybe you're right, maybe I am.
I don't care.
You're my person.
For sure. You're my heart.
My soulmate.
And now, I finally get to be there.
No more.
[Kris] No more waiting. No more waiting.
-[Jeymi] All right. -I love you, baby.
Okay. Bye.
[Kris] Bye.
[country music playing]
[man grunts]
[Kris] Come on, babe. We got to go.
I am on my way to the airport.
Me and Jeymi have talked about his day for a year.
So for us to finally be able to be here
and finally get to hold each other is...
I can't remember ever being this excited before.
So you're ready to leave us behind, huh? [chuckles]
I'm ready to have a new adventure.
That's not leaving you all behind.
It's definitely gonna be a difference.
[Kris] I've never done anything like this before.
Never leaving, never been anywhere.
Even though I'm going with excitement,
you know how scary it is to be...
dependent on somebody else that I've never met in person?
The closer and closer we get to the airport,
I guess the more and more I...
start feeling sad
about leaving you guys
and wondering if I'm doing the right thing or not.
It's gonna feel a lot different, you know.
When you get on that plane and just,
I'll be sitting there by myself, you know?
This is my first time leaving the country ever.
I'm nervous about leaving a small town
and moving to a huge city
with people speaking a language I don't speak.
It is a big deal.
Parking like, parking, parking, parking.
It's gonna be really hard
to say goodbye to my kids
because I can't be there
within a few minutes if they need me.
But my kids are both adults
and they have their own lives
and it's time for me to have mine.
Oh, gosh. My heart's racing and I did nothing.
Is it excitement, or fear, or all of the above?
-All of the above. -[woman] All of the above?
I'm gonna miss you and I love you.
[Kris] I love you, too.
She doesn't have anyone really to fall back on
if she gets into any trouble or if something
doesn't go right and she really needs one.
There's no one there for her.
-I love you. -I'll miss you.
It is a foreign country that she's never been to.
Going to see someone she's never met in person,
you know.
Mmm-hmm.
My mom sacrificing all the things she has here
because, I mean, she's leaving her home,
she's leaving her family.
So, I definitely hope Jeymi is worth it.
-[Kris] I love you all. -I love you, Mom.
[Kris] I'll message you when I'm there.
-Okay. -All right.
[Kris] I definitely have concerns
meeting Jeymi in person for the first time.
Our relationship has entirely been
over the phone, over social media.
You never know what could happen
when you're face to face with each other.
My narcolepsy is a lot for anybody to handle.
And I am completely terrified
at whether our sexual chemistry
is going to be great or not.
Oh, Lord, have mercy.
[singer] ♪ I lose my way ♪
Taking a big risk can end up going either way
but the reward that I see is immaculate.
And that reward is spending the rest of my life
with the woman I love.
[Kris speaking]
[singer] ♪ Letting you go out there ♪
[upbeat music playing]
[Gabriel] Mom, have you seen my other duffle bag?
[Marie] Is this bag big enough?
[Gabriel] Well, I'll just make it work.
Do you think this is gonna break if I go like this
in the airport?
I don't know. That looks kind of, ugh.
Tomorrow is the big day.
I'm moving to Colombia to be with Isabel.
I'm super excited, like, when I wake up,
it's gonna be time to go.
This is different this time.
Now that you're taking
your sewing machines, it's like...
-It's getting real? -Yeah.
At the same time,
I'm feeling so anxious
and nervous because I'm leaving my family behind
to move to a foreign country
that I've just got acquainted with.
Are you gonna miss me when I leave?
[Marie] Of course, I am.
You know, you and your sister
are my whole entire world,
like it's always been us.
Well, yeah, but what do you want me to do?
Do you want me to just stay here just for you?
If you're happy and you truly think that she's the one,
then I'm behind you a hundred percent.
I always support you no matter what.
Always.
Like, let's say that
next time I talk to you,
I'm like, "Oh, well,
I'm gonna get married in a month from now."
I don't even know what to say.
Why are you rushing?
Like, is there a purpose for that?
Yeah, because I have only, like, 94 days
on my visa before I got to be back here.
[suspenseful music playing]
I feel the time pressure
to marry Isabel so quickly
because I do wanna stay in Colombia.
You're only permitted a hundred and eighty days
in the country per calendar year.
And I've used half of these days
already this year.
I'm done traveling back-and-forth, back-and-forth.
I wanna just live I guess the "American Dream" in Colombia.
I really don't know her. I've never seen her in person.
I've never had a conversation with her.
I just hope that it's real.
-[dramatic music playing] -[dogs barking]
[Isabel in Spanish]
[laughter]
[Isabel in Spanish]
My name is Isabel.
I'm 34.
I'm from El Carmen, Colombia.
[shouts]
[boy in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[laughing]
[in Spanish]
[Sara in Spanish]
-[shouts] -[laughter]
[Isabel in Spanish]
[Spanish music playing]
[in Spanish]
[speaking Spanish]
[Sara in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Sara in Spanish]
[Isabel in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Isabel in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Isabel in Spanish]
[mellow music playing]
[Gabe] So the first picture that you see here,
this was like probably one month on testosterone
and then the last picture is me currently.
Today is my one, two, three, four, five, six, seven,
eight years on testosterone.
[Isabel in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Isabel in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Isabel in Spanish]
[Yohan in Spanish]
I have a 10-step skincare routine.
[in Spanish]
[chuckles]
It's really hard for me to complete
all those steps at Yohan's house.
So, I'm doing the best that I can.
[Yohan in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
There's something that I haven't told you guys.
Um, his family doesn't know about our engagement.
[groans]
Do they even know you're his girlfriend?
[mellow music playing]
[Donna] Jennifer, where is your plate?
[Jen] Is that right? You always taught me
to put the fork on the left, correct?
You always taught me to do it like this.
[utensils clinking]
And with the knife facing in in them.
[Donna] Okay. Then, you are right.
-I see-- -I don't know.
Hey, I've gotten old enough
that I forgot.
After waiting two years
for the border to open,
I'm finally moving to India in one week.
See, that's another reason for you not to go to India.
-What? -Who's gonna help me
remember which side the silverware goes on?
[Jen] [laughs] I think you'll manage.
I've been living with my mom,
my brother, and my sister-in-law
while I waited to move.
And this is probably the closest we've ever been.
So, it's gonna be really hard to say goodbye.
Heavenly Father, bless this food,
and guide and direct Jennifer as she goes to India.
These things we ask, in Christ's sake. Amen.
[Jen] Amen.
[Tarra] So this is like our last dinner together
before you leave for India.
[Jen] I know.
I'm very excited that this could potentially be, like,
your lifemate because it's very special thing to have
and you deserve that.
And then, I'm also sad because you're leaving.
-I wanna cry. -[laughter]
[Donna] I'm gonna cry.
I don't want you to be sad.
I mean, it's 'cause I love you.
I know. You and I have a really strong bond
and it is really gonna be hard for me
to be really far away from you.
Mmm-hmm.
Yeah.
Dear, hey, hey.
I knew you were gonna go
from the age of three.
[laughs]
I knew you were gonna go far.
Jennifer has been traveling since she was 10 years old.
And she's never been one to hold back.
I mean, she's experienced what she can experience
in America and she's always wanted to be loved.
And if this is where she has to go to get it,
then I'm fine with it.
Am I gonna be a little teary-eyed?
Of course,
but I would never keep her from finding love.
I want you guys to know that I do love you a lot
and, like, me leaving,
it's not, like, something that I take lightly
or that I'm, like, running away.
He can't live in the US
Rishi's like the main support
for his brother, his younger cousin,
and his mom.
So, there's potential there for you
to have a solid support system with his family?
Yeah, absolutely, absolutely.
So, what does his mom think of you?
Um, so I didn't bring this up earlier
because I... With COVID and stuff, like,
I didn't know when this was gonna happen or how.
And it's one of the reasons I think
that he has not done this but I...
There's something that I haven't told you guys.
And I just have to say it.
Um, his family doesn't know about our engagement.
You're kidding, right?
[tense music playing]
Doesn't know that you guys are engaged?
No.
[groans]
Do they even know you're his girlfriend?
He introduced me as a friend.
Why doesn't he want his mom to know?
Okay. So, some years ago,
he told them that he wasn't...
He didn't want to do an arranged marriage.
That he was doing a love marriage.
But a love marriage
and a love marriage with someone
that's not Indian is like two different things.
And it's just like... It's gonna be...
it's gonna be a shocker, I think.
In India, it's a huge deal for you
to have a love marriage not an arranged marriage.
It's not something easily understood.
Thankfully, Rishi's family has agreed
to let him choose his own wife and I hope that
they will accept me.
What's your plan to tell his mom?
We haven't talked about that.
Really, we haven't gone there.
Why?
Gives me anxiety just, like, thinking about...
bringing it up.
But you're his fiancee.
I know.
So, if... When Rishi tells his family,
and if they're not okay with it?
Is he still going to go ahead and marry you
against his family's wishes?
[sighs] I would like to say yes absolutely.
But culturally, I know he wants to do
right by his family and he doesn't wanna disappoint them.
So, it would be really devastating
if he chose his family over me.
In the past, I've put timelines on things
and pushed guys but it's backfired.
So, I'm treading lightly
and letting Rishi set the pace with this thing.
But I'm uprooting my entire life for him.
So, I'm counting on him to marry me
no matter what his family or anyone else says.
It will be the true test,
I guess, of whether he loves me or not
because I don't believe that you could love someone,
ask them to marry you and then, be like, "Oh,
you know what, my family's not going for it.
And I'm not gonna fight for you."
[tense music playing]
He wants me to cover my body.
He wanted me to cover my hair.
No, uh, hugs from men.
Every time I turn around
there was like a new rule
that I was breaking.
Like if you Facetime him right now, right?
What would he say, you got a beer--
-[Janine] Would he freak out? -Yes, yes.
Stricter than Asians?
[upbeat music playing]
I'm glad I got to see you guys before I go to Egypt.
-What? -You're going what? Where?
I'm going to live with Mahmoud in Egypt.
But I thought you're...
separating?
[Nicole] I'm moving back to Egypt
in two weeks to be with my husband.
This is my second time moving to Egypt, yeah.
You wanna go get a drink or something.
-[Emmalyn] I'll fill you in. -Okay, cool.
-All right. Let's go. -Yeah, let's go.
Let's go.
The first time I moved, within a week
I realized how different
it is to live in Egypt than it is to visit.
I don't drive. I don't speak the language,
I was just really struggling there with culture shock.
Can I get a Rose?
After two months, Mahmoud and I decided
to apply for a spousal visa
so he could come to the US
and in the meantime, I would go back and forth.
Thank you.
[Nicole] I went back and forth
to Egypt about six times,
and things started to fall apart.
I mean, we fought all the time about everything.
This a nice shade.
We were married for about 11 months
when I told Mahmoud that I wanted a divorce.
I cancelled Mahmoud's visa application
and I blocked him.
[Janine] So, how did you get back together because
-we haven't even heard anything about that. -Wait, yeah. Does he--
I didn't realize I didn't tell you.
Last time we spoke, you were, like,
thinking about it, right?
I've met Nicole probably more than five years.
[Janine] She's so fun but she's very secretive.
You don't hear from her and then, all of a sudden,
like, I get this message from her.
She's like going through divorce
and then, now back again.
That's a big red flag.
We don't even know, like, why were you divorcing anyway?
Like, what happened, what were the reasons?
It was just he only wanted
to be married to somebody who lives up to his standards
of, like, who a wife should be.
And so, he set forth
and then, changing everything about me.
And that I said yes
on a bunch of things I shouldn't have.
What were some of the things that you agreed to?
He wants me to cover my body
and without thinking I said, "Okay, okay."
And then, he wanted me to cover my hair,
and I said okay. No hugs from men, no--
Not even your own dad?
[Nicole] My dad, that's fine. Yeah.
-Your cousins? -No. Oh, no, no.
-Not the cousins. No, no cousins. -[Emmalyn] Cousins, no?
[Emmalyn] Oh, what about his family?
-Like males-- -Oh, no. Oh, no, no, no, no.
-What? -Anybody I could potentially
marry and in their culture they do marry the cousins, so.
Stricter than Asians?
I know.
I do respect where Mahmoud is coming from
because in his culture, they're not as open,
and that everything that they do
seems to be religious.
But every time I turn around, there's, like, a new rule
that I didn't know existed but that I was breaking.
[Janine] How much does he know about your L.A. life?
Like if you Facetime him right now, right?
What would he say, you got a beer and you got a--
-[Janine] Would he freak out? -Yes. Yes, he would.
-[Emmalyn] This dress. -With your friends
-drinking with you in public. -[Nicole] Oh, yeah, this is--
-So this is bad, right? -Yeah. Uh-huh.
I feel like he should be open to, like, receiving this.
You know, you, just being yourself.
I feel the same way.
And believe me we've had fight after fight
about the same... the same thing.
That's why we were going to divorce,
but then we decided to, kind of, to get back together,
and then we'll see how it goes.
[Emmalyn] Why? [chuckles]
You have to, like, change into this...
-Yeah. -completely different person.
-I know. -From your clothing to, like,
how you socialize with people. That's just...
I just miss him like crazy.
It was awful being away from him, yeah.
After six months had passed of not being with him,
I still thought about Mahmoud every single day.
Mahmoud is totally different than anybody I've ever dated.
He's not a tortured-poet-art kind of guy.
He's just like such a pure, honest person
who stands up for what he believes.
And he loves me like I've never been loved before.
[Emmalyn] How are you gonna do this, Nicole? How? Like...
I mean, I don't know. It's not gonna be easy,
that's for sure. And I have, like,
a whole list of concerns myself.
We've got a hard road ahead of us,
for sure, right?
I have concerns. But this time,
I know what I'm headed into.
I won't have as much culture shock.
We both just really wanna be together,
and so we're gonna try to be together.
Well, you must really love him, huh?
I love him. Yeah, I do.
I love him.
Keep your passport. That's all I'm saying.
[Nicole] Okay. All right. I will.
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
I am really excited to see his butcher shop.
Because I have business experience,
I might be able to offer him some support.
Wow.
Ooh.
[tense music playing]
[upbeat music playing]
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -Hmm?
[in Spanish]
Last night, Yohan and I talked about the plan
that we are going to be living in the Dominican Republic
for longer than we initially discussed.
So this week is gonna be all about
building our life for the future.
[in Spanish]
[Yohan in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
To move the lymph in your face
so that you don't have inflammation.
That's not puffy.
At home I have a 10-step skincare routine
every morning and night.
It's really hard for me to complete all of those steps
at Yohan's house so I have to do the best that I can.
[in Spanish]
-Uh... -[in Spanish]
[laughs]
It's rose quartz.
[in Spanish]
[quirky music playing]
[Yohan in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[laughs]
[in Spanish]
[laughs]
[upbeat music playing]
[dog barking]
[in Spanish]
A few months after Yohan and I got married,
he told me that he opened up a butcher shop.
[in Spanish]
[Daniele laughs]
I am really excited to see his butcher shop
because I'm so proud of him.
He can do anything he wants.
He's six-foot-seven and has really big hands.
He can cut up some meat.
Sure, why not.
And I am willing to help him
in any way that I can as long as
I don't have to deal with any of the meat.
Wow.
Ooh.
[in Spanish]
[tense music playing]
[Daniele] I'm, like, really torn because
I don't wanna be like, "What the [bleep] is this?"
But I also, I'm like, "What the [bleep] is this?"
That can't be good.
There's bugs.
How do you eat food with bugs on it?
[Yohan in Spanish]
Okay.
You need meat to be cold.
I don't know how to say that in Spanish
-but meat needs to be cold. -[in Spanish]
-I... If I see meat... -[Yohan in Spanish]
that it has bugs on it,
I'm not going to buy it.
-[in Spanish] -Bugs. Bugs. Bugs.
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
I'm not gonna touch it.
[in Spanish]
Yohan is really upset by my reaction
but I'm not sure that he knows how to manage a business.
I can't believe that this is how everybody buys meat.
Like, even rich people?
Like, everybody buys their meat this way?
Just, like, sitting out unrefrigerated
with flies on it?
This doesn't make sense.
I have questions.
[in Spanish]
[Yohan in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
...do you have, like, a book
where you write things down?
[in Spanish]
-[Yohan in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Daniele in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
-[Daniele] Uh-huh. -[in Spanish]
Okay.
[in Spanish]
To explain it easier, so you can put all of this
in a computer and understand how much money you are making
and how much money you are spending
so you can see if this business makes sense.
I don't know how to say that in Spanish.
But this doesn't make sense to me.
[in Spanish]
I can't breathe in here.
I need to go outside.
[tense music playing]
It is extremely frustrating that he is trying
to run a business without understanding
how much is coming in and how much is going out.
[sighs]
You know, like, one of the things
that I want was for him to open a business
so that he can make more money,
and it seems like he's now
taking all of the money
from the job that he already had
to pay for this business.
And so, like, how is he gonna pay for an apartment?
How is he gonna pay for food?
How are we gonna have a baby?
I'm afraid for the day where's he's like,
"Yeah. By the way, I can't pay all of this
because I don't make enough money
so I need you to give me money."
Because that's not gonna be an option.
[dramatic music playing]
I say this with love,
but your relationships,
I swear to God, it's, like,
if you wanna look up insanity
in the dictionary, there's a picture of you.
-Okay. Y'all, come on. -[Randi] No, no wait, listen.
Because you're doing the same thing over
and over again except now you're going to India.
Are you nervous about anything?
We fight endlessly about what I can and cannot wear.
I thought there would be some, like, wiggle room.
All of the problems that have existed
between us are still there.
[singer] ♪ Run away, run away ♪
♪ Wave goodbye to yesterday ♪
♪ Run, run fast as you can ♪
♪ Try to find a way To get there ♪
-Hey. -Oh, my God!
-[Jen] Oh, my God. You guys. -How are you?
I'm moving to India in a few days,
and before I go, I'm meeting up
with my friends, Randi and Myra.
-Cheers, ladies. -Cheers.
-Oh, yes. Cheers. -Cheers.
-So good. -To good friends.
-Yes. Yes. -And seeing you both again.
I met Randi and Myra when I was in college
and we've stayed really tight ever since.
They both live in different states
but since I don't know
when I'm gonna be seeing them again,
they both agreed to come out and see me.
So wait a minute, is this the ring that Rishi gave you?
No. So actually,
I lost the ring that he gave me.
Uh...
Okay. Y'all know I'm so bad about losing stuff.
-[Randi] Does he know? -Yeah.
He knows. He knows, right?
So, what did he have to say about that?
He was just like, "You know what?
I'll get you a new one."
It was just a simple, silver ring.
If he was really disappointed, he didn't show it.
Totally not the typical guy that I would go for
because y'all know I go for good-looking--
-Jerks? -Yeah.
-[Randi] Yeah. -[Jen] And...
She didn't go to your first wedding
-but I went to your first... -[Jen] I know.
wedding, and I didn't even speak
one sentence to your first husband.
-[indistinct] -Be glad.
In my early 20s, I rushed into marrying a guy
that I only dated for a few months.
And neither Randi nor Myra liked him.
They didn't think he treated me well
and I was blind to it.
And it put a huge strain on our friendship.
You cried and begged me not to marry him.
I did.
-He was a jerk. -I know.
I'm glad I didn't go to the wedding.
That relationship was a big life lesson,
and I was divorced in less than two years.
Did you feel like you had to do it
because you had already gone through the motions
-and you felt like-- -Yes. I felt like--
So is that gonna happen with this guy?
Rishi is like totally different.
I... I'm telling you. When we were just friends,
we had talked about things like--
Friends for five minutes?
-[laughs] -I know... Okay. Yeah.
Granted, yes. Not that long.
That's called a honeymoon phase.
-Yeah. -You don't think it's gonna tell you
everything you wanna hear.
Just kind of woo you, you know?
I think you are giving too much too fast
in all your relationships.
I don't mean to hurt you, but your heart want to love
so bad that you're willing to freaking settle
for whatever cute, tall guy that comes you way.
No. No. I...
Honestly, I don't feel like I'm settling.
But I love this guy.
Why not, like, expect that maybe
somebody is actually not too good to be true.
Because your picker is off.
How many men have broken you heart?
[Randi] A lot. This is the thing, okay?
And I say this with love.
But with your... Like, your relationships,
I swear to God, with you,
it's like if you wanna look up insanity in the dictionary,
there's a picture of you in there.
-Oh, my God. It is-- -[Randi] Just regarding men.
-Just regarding men. -Okay. Y'all, come on.
-We love you. -No wait, listen.
Because you're doing the same thing over
and over again, except now you're going to India.
[dramatic music playing]
[Randi] This is the cycle with Jen.
She moves somewhere for a guy.
Once it was from Texas to D.C.
Once it was from Florida to Texas.
Now, Oklahoma to India?
She keeps repeating the same relationship patterns
with different men.
She deserves for someone
to bend over backwards for her
because she's doing all the work here.
What about his family culture-wise?
Isn't it kind of not...
-It's very different. -approve to marrying someone
who's not from India?
His family doesn't actually know.
-Yet. -Blazing red flag.
You don't care that he's not proud to introduce you?
-No, no. He did introduce me. -Maybe he's ashamed of you.
I don't know. What does that do?
-But as what? Your friend? -As a friend, yeah.
That's messed up.
I would not be okay with that.
[Myra] You don't deserve to be hidden.
You're basically his concubine in America
and his Green Card ticket.
And I'm sorry if it sounds harsh,
but I'd rather tell you now
than before you go all the way out there.
This last lunch before I go
is not the lunch that I had in mind.
I was just trying to see my girlfriends
before I left the country.
But I realized I should have done the Irish goodbye.
Like, what the hell was I thinking?
I think it's a bad idea, unless, I...
-I think you're setting yourself up... -[Jen] But I do...
-I do like-- -for failure and another heartache.
[Jen] I feel like I need to make this move.
I mean, I know it's a huge risk.
It's... But I need to do this.
I need to this for me, like, I want this
to be for real like the love of my life.
Like, I feel like it is.
I mean, I've never talked to somebody consistently
for two years even though the majority of it,
I will admit, has been long distance.
I know, I know.
I don't understand, like,
how things could even be the same.
Because you guys have been separated for so long.
Do you know if he's even dated anybody in between?
-Yeah. -[Myra] How would you even know that?
[Randi] Do you trust him?
[Jen] Honestly, yes, I do.
-I trust him, I-- -I don't.
-Really? -[Randi] One thing that really bothers me
is his social media.
He's got over 11,000 followers.
None of the pictures indicate that he's with you
and that makes me wonder how quick would he be
to respond to a message from, like, an attractive woman.
I feel like he is completely committed to our engagement.
-You feel that strongly? -[Jen] Yeah, I trust him.
[Randi] So how about this?
We can, like, catfish him.
Like how? Like in what way?
I'm gonna send Rishi a message
and see if he responds and how he responds.
Get to know who you're really engaged to.
Okay. I'm comfortable with that.
They've definitely been right about some bad choices
that I've made in the past,
but I'm fine to go along with catfishing Rishi
because honestly, I'm happy to have the opportunity
to show my friends how much I trust Rishi.
You have a lot of faith in this guy.
I feel confident that our relationship is strong.
Well, I love you and I hope that I can say I was wrong
and that he doesn't write back to me.
Uh, yeah. Um, I'd say...
Hope not either
and I don't think that he will.
[singer] ♪ La la la ♪
♪ La la la ♪
♪ Oh oh oh ♪
♪ La la la ♪
♪ Oh oh oh ♪
♪ La la la ♪
♪ Oh oh oh ♪
[ringtone playing]
Hi, my love. How are you?
Good. Are you finished working?
Mmm-hmm. Did you have coffee?
I did, yeah, before I get home.
So are you excited, uh, that I'm coming to Egypt soon?
I'm moving to Egypt in two weeks,
but Mahmoud and I still have a number of issues
that we have to work through when I get there.
-Are you nervous about anything? -[Mahmoud] Yeah.
We'll, I'm kind of nervous.
-I'm just going to Egypt to give you trouble? -[Mahmoud] Listen here.
I'm just nervous because, uh,
the last time when I went there,
we just fought all the time.
You're Mr. Jokester today.
You don't start any fights?
Mahmoud and I argue about everything.
Certain friends that I hang out with,
drinking or anything that has to do with men.
He doesn't really want me to be anywhere near men.
He wants, you know, me to live on
like a planet full of only women.
What about, uh...
What about last time
when we were fighting
about the clothes?
But the biggest thing and the strangest thing
that we fight about constantly is my clothes.
We fight endlessly for hours
about what I can and cannot wear.
We need to make sure that I know
what the expectations are because I remember
you saying you just need to cover your body.
That was... That was what you told me,
I thought that was the rule.
So now you're saying like tight is an issue?
No, I thought it was just that you...
There needed to be, like, fabric covering,
like, my skin.
Mmm-hmm.
No, you said we could find something
that would make us both comfortable and happy.
No, we're gonna talk about it until I get there
because I want to get it right.
Like I don't want to get there
and have it be a huge issue.
The day I landed in Egypt to marry Mahmoud.
He points at a girl who is wearing a short skirt.
And he says, "You know,
you're never gonna be able to wear that style."
Then he sees a girl who's wearing
a much longer skirt and totally like buttoned up.
And he says, "That... This is beautiful,
and this is what you will wear."
I had a sick, uh, feeling in my stomach
at that point because I never had anybody tell me
what I was and wasn't going to wear.
I said yes because I thought there would be some,
like, wiggle room, but there is none.
-Like there is-- -[Mahmoud] So...
It's completely like very rigid.
No, I didn't.
I didn't.
And I didn't think about it.
I really didn't give it any...
I didn't ask any questions.
Mmm-hmm.
Yeah, I know. I didn't think very hard about it
and I really regret that,
but I don't regret marrying you
because I absolutely love you
and I can't imagine not being married to you
so that's why I'm going alone with this whole thing.
I know it's hard for you, I know.
I know that he's trapped in his cultural conditioning.
And for him to fully cover my body,
that's just what a wife does.
Well, we're just gonna have to keep, uh,
thinking about this and, uh,
how to kind of, like, manage the fights a little better
so it don't, uh, get too out of hand.
I have a one-way ticket to Egypt
and I am super nervous about just staying there again.
Especially since the last time
it didn't work out.
[dramatic music playing]
I've never experienced such a challenging situation ever.
And like all of the problems that have existed
between us are still there.
It's scary.
You're gonna give me a kiss? Come here.
We have to find a way, like, to deal
with what comes our way and put,
like, everything we have into this.
So we could just be two people in love.
Bye-bye.
-[Mahmoud] Bye love. -Bye-bye.
[Alex in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Alex in Spanish]
[upbeat music playing]
Kris is coming to Columbia tonight.
I'm so happy. I can't... I can't believe it.
[in Spanish]
[Leo] Alex.
[in Spanish]
[Jeymi screaming]
[Leo in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
This is my moment.
She looking me for first time.
I need impress her and say, "Oh, my God. She is beautiful.
Yes, she is."
[in Spanish]
[Jeymi in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Jeymi in Spanish]
Ah, okay.
[Leo in Spanish]
[Jeymi in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
[Leo in Spanish]
[Alex in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Leo in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Jeymi in Spanish]
[Alex in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[dramatic music playing]
It's difficult for the narcolepsy
because sometime...
So I really have no idea
what it's like when she's here.
-[Jeymi in Spanish] -[Leo] Okay.
[Jeymi in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Jeymi in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
No.
[Jeymi in Spanish]
[Alex in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Yes.
[Jeymi in Spanish]
[Leo in Spanish]
-[Alex speaks Spanish] -[Leo in Spanish]
[Alex in Spanish]
[Leo in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[Leo in Spanish]
-[Alex in Spanish] -No.
[Jeymi speaking]
All is possibility. All.
Maybe she look at me and say, "Oh, my gosh.
She is so short."
Maybe she no feel comfortable here.
I hope she loves me is all.
[in Spanish]
-[Alex in Spanish] -[Leo in Spanish]
[Randi] Do you remember how we talked about
me possibly sending Rishi a message
on social media to see if he would grab the bait?
Yes.
Well, he responded.
[serene music playing]
Hey, that was such a great time yesterday.
I know. It's so nice seeing you.
Yes.
Randi messaged me, asking if we do a video call
which I thought was kind of unusual,
'cause I actually just had lunch with her the other day.
I'm so glad I got to see you.
Um, do you remember how we talked about
me possibly sending Rishi
a message on social media to see if he would,
you know, grab the bait?
Yes.
Well, he responded.
Okay.
I think it's kind of concerning.
Okay.
So I said, "Hi.
I've been looking through your posts
and I like what I see.
How do you feel about me?"
Rishi says, "Do we know each other?"
I say, "I know you from seeing your pics
and I think you're attractive."
Rishi writes back, "Okay. Well, where are you from?"
And I say, "I'm in London right now."
Hmm.
That was the last...
Like he didn't say anything after you said,
"I'm in London right now"?
No.
I feel like he didn't say anything incriminating.
Why is he asking where am I from,
and how did we know each other?
Yeah, I get that that's like weird.
Shady. It's a huge... It's a red flag.
Do you... Do you not... Like, do you not want to see that?
I don't know. I mean, I just think that he's confused.
His English isn't great.
What? No. So...
No, you're making excuses for him.
Why is he even responding to my messages?
Asking me, a female,
a pretty attractive female,
who I am and where I'm from?
Why?
This guy seems shady as...
As a [bleep]
You are sacrificing so much.
And he is willing to talk to any random girl online.
That's how I see it.
Look at the people he follows.
How many are female?
They're mostly females?
[chuckles]
I think you know the answer to the question.
He's a model and a trainer.
I know in relationships,
I tend to be jealous and possessive.
In the past, I have seen things on social media
about exes and I've gotten
more upset about it than I should have.
So, I made a conscious decision
not to follow Rishi on social media when I met him.
Because I don't want to do anything
that would sort of...
tip me over the edge.
You're in denial.
You want this to work.
You want your fairy tale marriage.
You don't want to see
all the signs that maybe this isn't a good idea.
I'm sorry that...
I'm sorry that you feel that way,
but I don't think anything you say
is going to change my mind.
Well, good luck with our move and, um,
I hope that you have a great time in India.
Okay.
I still love you and I'll talk to you soon.
I love you too. I'm sorry, I'm just overprotective.
I'm trying to help you to not ruin your life.
-Okay. Bye. -[Randi] All right.
Bye.
I don't... I don't care that he's...
I mean,
I think it was really unclear,
the communication that went on.
Now, I'll keep it in mind
and it's not like I want him
to be talking to random women
on social media.
But I'm not going to
not take a risk of to...
For my potential happiness because he made a few comments
that my friend didn't feel like
were appropriate.
I'm trying to be patient,
but I don't understand
how I'm supposed to build a life with someone
who can't even be bothered to do basic math.
[in Spanish]
My idea is where is the money coming from.
[in Spanish]
[pensive music playing]
[Danielle in Spanish]
[flies buzzing]
[pensive music playing]
[flies buzzing]
[in Spanish]
[Daniele] Now I'm going to put all of March in here.
-[in Spanish] -[speaks Spanish]
[Yohan in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
I'm feeling really just...
I don't even know what the word is.
Like I was just taken aback, I was really grossed out,
and I feel like he's running a business
the way that I would run a lemonade stand.
But I've been running a yoga
and wellness business since 2018.
That motivates me to break out my computer
and show him how to use the spreadsheet.
This way, he could start keeping track
of how much he's making every month
and how the income column needs
to be much larger than the expense column.
[Danielle in Spanish]
-[Yohan in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Okay. So...
[in Spanish]
Okay. [in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
So... [in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Yohan in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
I'm have a question. I'm asking where is...
[in Spanish]
My idea is where is the money coming from?
It's my question, where did you get the money?
[in Spanish]
[Danielle chuckles]
I feel like I'm playing Who's on First.
-[in Spanish] -I don't know how to ask
a question in any other way,
-so we're... -[in Spanish]
Okay.
I'm trying to be patient but I don't understand
how I'm supposed to build a life with someone
who can't even be bothered to do basic math.
Either that or he's just being really stubborn
and won't admit that he's making a mistake.
But Yohan and I are now a married couple,
so any debt that he takes on is also my debt.
So, I hope he doesn't think
that I'm gonna be his sugar mama
because that's not my plan.
[in Spanish]
Maybe the first problem you may have,
because it looks like in the beginning,
you had a lot more clients.
[in Spanish]
But that's not what this says.
This says something different.
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -You know what, babe?
I think you are doing an amazing job
with this business,
-you clearly... -[speaking Spanish]
have manifested 20,000 pesos
and whatever you did, you did it well
and I'm really proud of you. Because I don't...
Even my magic is not this good.
-Like I couldn't do that. -[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
You're doing a great job.
[in Spanish]
We're done.
[pensive music playing]
[Nicole] Next time
on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way...
I'm excited to be with him
but I'm not looking forward to living in Egypt.
I know what it's like there and I don't like it.
Let's do it.
I will be in Columbia in four hours.
Moving to Columbia for a woman...
I feel guilty because I'm voluntarily
leaving my family.
It's just crazy.
[both laughs]
Tonight is so big
because this is first night.
I can have night terrors,
hallucinations,
so you might end up
getting karate kicks in the sleep.
[Jen] Bye-bye Oklahoma. Hello, India.
I can't believe it. I'm here.
[woman in Hindi]
[Rishi] Jen is finally moving to India
but my family doesn't know about our relationship.
[woman] [in Hindi]
[in Spanish]
[upbeat music playing]
Yeah.
I found the right person
that suits my personality.
I'm 67-years-old.
I'm moving to Morocco to marry Osama.
He's 24-years-old, but I love him.
How do you know he's not scamming you?
Look, I'm old. Let me have my fun.
You may be in love but this guy is young.
He has nothing to lose.
You have everything to lose by this.