[Daniele] Previously on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way...
This guy, he's already manipulated my mom to move over there.
I thought it was important to get a prenup
between me and Oussama.
Suppose this happens like a fairy tale,
and which I anticipate.
Well, you anticipated that with two other husbands.
[speaking Spanish]
[Daniele in English] Today, we're gonna look at apartments
so that I have a place set up to move into in a few months.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] But these apartments are more expensive.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] If I'm doing all the investing, both financially and physically,
I'm gonna feel really resentful.
[Gabriel] We're gonna make lots of penises.
Ta-da!
I created a brand called Get More Proud wear.
It is underwear for female-to-male transgender people
who have not had their bottom surgery yet.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English]
I said yes to things I thought I could handle.
But I made a mistake
when I said yes right away to all of this nonsense.
I have to deal with significant pain in my neck.
Eventually, I won't be able to do this.
I will have to have that surgery.
This is the first time Kris tell me about the surgery.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] How bad could it be if you introduced me as your fiancee?
You're telling me your family is gonna keep you under house arrest?
Yeah, maybe.
You let me know when you wanna be honest with your family about us.
-But, very soon, but-- -Bye.
[Arabic music playing]
[speaking Arabic]
[Mahmoud speaking English]
[speaking Arabic]
[in English] In the mornings, I take my shower
and then I squeegee the floor.
And it just goes into this drain.
I worry that I'm not getting it dry enough,
and that somebody will slip and fall.
But from what I understand that this is what all Egyptian bathrooms are like.
And then, uh...
I am kind of finding I like to take a long time
to get ready. It's just, like, me time.
But I'm always conscious of the fact that there are other people
who need in here.
So, if Mahmoud and I could have our own apartment,
then, maybe I could just, uh, you know,
not have to worry about that so much,
but I guess in the meantime,
I will just, you know, be a good roommate. [chuckles]
[speaking Arabic]
[Nicole] Yes? I'm fine. I'm just finishing up.
So, there are things in our relationship
that definitely need to be addressed, and I feel like, uh...
It's, it's been... It's always hard to, kind of, do it, like, calmly
because they are so emotionally charged.
And that's what makes what happened last night very hard,
and I feel really bad about it.
Sorry.
It's just, like, really... [crying]
I'm already really homesick.
[Mahmoud speaking]
[speaking Arabic]
We don't know how to, like, just, like, come...
come to any conclusions that are right for both of us, it seems like,
and it's just this endless, uh...
this endless battle between us.
-[Mahmoud speaking] -Hi, sweetie.
Nothing, my love.
Nothing. I was just taking a shower.
I'm just worried about us.
You know, I just think I'm, like, homesick already.
You know, I don't have an apartment anymore in L.A.
I know, but, like, we fight all the time
and it's just, like, I just hope that we can figure it out, that's all.
To have nothing to return to,
now I just, I have to, I have to make it work, and it's not like,
I mean, it's not like I don't want that. I did that intentionally,
so we could try to be together and make it work,
but it just feels weird.
I know.
I think it's, like, fairly natural to have some tears once in a while.
Sometimes, when, like, you have to let something go,
it hurts a little. The situation is tough.
But I want to be here.
I chose to be here. That's not, like,
I'm blaming you for anything. I did that to be with you.
But don't feel like you're to blame.
It makes me even sadder than I already am
to realize that Mahmoud thinks he is to blame.
Not everything that I'm upset about is his fault.
I'm, like, grieving the death of my old life that I loved so much.
Okay, well, I am going to try to be happy.
Okay?
[Nicole] I know that Mahmoud wants this relationship to work
just as badly as I do,
but I don't know if that will be enough.
Me too.
I love you so much.
[French music playing]
I've got to get this dress up, I keep stepping on it.
Okay, this goes in there.
But this has to fit in here, too.
It's, like, dang, man, why they don't make these carry-ons
a little bit bigger?
Packing has been a freaking nightmare.
I hope it doesn't bust.
And I feel sorry for the TSA agents going through my suitcases.
They're gonna say, "What is wrong with this woman?"
I overdo my carry-on.
I said to myself, "Oh, I'm gonna do it better. I'm gonna make it lighter."
Well, guess what?
It's even heavier than it was last time
because this is an important big move for me.
There we go.
Today, I'm moving to Morocco
to be with the man of my dreams,
my Oussama.
My name is Oussama, my age is 24 years old...
[chuckles]
[laughing]
How are you? How're you doing?
My family has a farm, it is a small one...
[speaking Arabic]
[Oussama continues in English]
I'm writing a poem about Debbie.
Well, Debbie.
That's it. [chuckles]
♪ The one ♪
♪ He really gets Where we're coming from ♪
♪ That's right ♪
[Oussama speaking]
Just, I mean, wanted to be alone.
[continues in Arabic]
Can I see this knife right here?
I have always carried some sort of weapon.
[Jeymi] Oh, my God. I'm nervous right now.
Right now, they're looking for a wife for him?
[Colombian music playing]
Sugar.
Ah, yes. Thank you.
So, I'm feeling better today.
Okay, good.
I really, I wanna get out,
I wanna see the city a little bit.
Um...
It's my second day with Kris, and I notice
understanding her in person is hard because...
[device beeps]
I'm so excited to finally be here
and I want to go out and see everything that we can.
Um...
I want to go to a store where they have weapons.
I want to buy something to keep us safe.
[device beeps]
[translator speaking Spanish]
[speaking Spanish]
[translator speaking English] I don't really like the idea.
I know it scares you, but it's part of who I am.
I have always had weapons in my home.
Okay.
[Kris] In Alabama,
it's very common to walk around with knives, guns.
One of the best joys in down south, redneck fun
is knives.
I really have no idea how many I have. [chuckles]
But obviously, I wasn't allowed to bring any of my weapons.
And everything I have ever heard about this place
has been very bad.
From drug lords to kidnappings,
I have been told that Americans are in danger just to come here.
So I knew that I was going to immediately buy something to protect myself with.
[speaking Spanish]
[translator speaking English] We can see,
but we can keep it open for discussion.
Thank you, God. [laughs]
Bye, Zoe. Bye, baby!
I have always carried some sort of weapon
to protect myself.
But this country, it is safe.
You no need to worry about that.
You were punched on a bus
and your cell phone was stolen from you.
That's not safe.
As a one time
in five years.
[Kris] Yes.
[Jeymi and shopkeeper speaking Spanish]
[Jeymi in English] Go look.
[Kris] Um...
[shopkeeper in Spanish]
[Kris in English] Can I see this knife right here?
[shopkeeper] I like.
[Jeymi speaking Spanish]
[translator speaking English] I imagined
that I was talking about the knife was something small,
not something so big we can kill a cow.
[laughing]
You don't have to worry around me with knives.
I'm very comfortable with them
and I know how to use them safely.
[Kris] Oh.
[Jeymi] Wait, wait, wait.
Let me see.
[Kris] Keep 'em at bay.
[Jeymi] Oh, my God. I'm nervous right now.
[laughs nervously]
This is crazy.
Us in the store and say, this use and this and say...
What? Really?
[device beeps]
[Kris] That big knife?
I received one just like that
for my birthday when I turned eight.
[translator speaking Spanish]
[speaking Spanish]
-[in English] You got a Barbie? -[Jeymi] Yeah.
I got a knife. [laughs]
[device beeps]
[Kris] See, these things
are what we have to learn about each other.
We were raised completely different.
[speaking Spanish]
[translator speaking English] If you want, we can have it for the house,
not in the room.
-But we can take it. -[Kris] Thank you.
-Yes, definitely. -[Jeymi] Yes.
You're welcome.
-[laughs] -I'll put it in a case to make you happy.
[Jeymi] Yes, please.
[Jeymi speaking Spanish]
[shopkeeper speaking Spanish]
[Jeymi speaking]
[Kris] Yay!
[cow mooing]
[blow dryer buzzing]
Okay.
Blow dryer is not blowing hot.
Might need to flat iron.
I've been living in India for three days now
and things aren't exactly going the way I thought they would.
Last night was the first time I heard Rishi say that
he could be forced into a marriage
and I didn't like that.
I was frustrated and I walked out.
Uh, left him in a store.
Not my best moment.
I'm still confused about everything that happened yesterday.
[knock on door]
But Rishi called me and asked me
if I would still go meet his family today
and told me he got an outfit.
So I told him to come over, bring the outfit
and I will go meet his family.
-[Jen] Hey. -[Rishi] Hi.
-How's you? -I'm okay.
[Jen] After sleeping on it,
I've cooled down a bit and I'm ready to talk.
Rishi and I haven't gone through all this
and been together this long
to just give up on the relationship.
So, as I told you that,
I'll bring something for you.
As you like, the solid color
with no print.
I love it.
You nailed it. Like, that's awesome.
I love that. I will totally wear that.
[Rishi speaking]
[sighs]
-Can we talk some more? -Yeah.
[Rishi speaking]
Um...
So, today you are coming to meet my family?
Because yesterday you were in a different mood.
-Yeah. -Why you walk out, like, suddenly over there?
I got confused because you told me
that your family could, potentially,
force you into an arranged marriage,
if they found out about us.
I'm not, uh, saying that it will be happen.
Maybe, everything will be fine,
because I know my mom, I know my family.
They don't have a bad heart.
So, most probably, they will not push me,
but I'm just giving you an example.
Worst case scenario,
they are like, "No.
We don't like her,
we do not want you to marry her."
I will tell them, "I just want her, or not.
-There is no other option." -Or nothing.
Or nothing.
[Jen] I obviously don't like
the idea of Rishi's family pushing him into
an arranged marriage, potentially.
But it is reassuring to have Rishi tell me
that he would choose me over his family.
You just try all the stuff,
and my friend Sanjeet is coming
in any minute, so...
Oh, I didn't realize somebody else was coming with us.
Sanjeet, you know... You know him very well.
[both] Yeah.
If I show them, like,
two friends instead of one,
just a girl, so...
It's a great idea.
Wow, okay.
So, I will do my best
to get ready. So, get out.
[Rishi] Okay.
-[Rishi] Hi! -Hey!
[Rishi] Come, come, come from this side.
Yeah, on the first floor.
[Rishi] Sanjeet is my closest friend.
I know him since my childhood.
[Sanjeet and Rishi speaking Hindi]
[in English] You're looking handsome, man.
[Rishi speaking in English] Sanjeet is only a few people
who knows about my relationship with Jen.
[Sanjeet speaking Hindi]
[Rishi speaking Hindi]
[Rishi speaking English]
[Sanjeet and Jen] Hey!
[Sanjeet in English] How are you doing? Good to see you again.
-[Jen] I'm good. -[Sanjeet] And you're looking pretty cool.
What do you think?
Nice!
You like it?
-My God. -Yeah?
You look so good.
So, how's the plan?
[Jen] Um, I don't know. What is the plan?
[Rishi] So, I told them that
you are visiting the place, basically.
So you're not telling them that I moved here.
-No. I didn't tell them that you have moved. -Okay, okay.
So, Sanjeet, like honestly,
do you think that that seems suspicious,
like, I would be more than a friend?
This sort of meeting or...
do you think it's normal?
No, it's not normal.
[Sanjeet speaking]
So...
[Jen] Are you saying that right now
they are even looking for a wife for him?
We talked about total honesty
and you telling me everything.
I mean, I'm sorry, Sanjeet.
I don't want to put you in the middle of this,
but I'm really glad that you brought that up.
Because, obviously, you didn't plan to tell me that
they started looking for someone.
[Rishi] But it's a natural thing.
After a certain age you have to, like,
find someone for your children.
They are doing their job.
But I still don't understand,
did they start looking, I don't know,
-three months ago, two months ago. -No.
-[Jen] One month-- -It's just recent. It's just recent.
-[Jen] How recent? -A month, only.
You told me, "I told them
I would not do an arranged marriage."
-[Rishi] Because-- -[Jen] And they were okay with it.
I told them that I will not marry
anyone until I find someone.
So, day by day, I will make the things better
and finally I'll tell them that
I make my choice and you are mine.
Okay?
Let's go, come.
[Jen] Lying, even if it's a lie of omission
is a bad move.
But, regardless of how angry I might be,
I'm still proceeding with the plan
to meet Rishi's family
because we already made the commitment
and they are expecting us to come over.
[Jen] Sanjeet, I'm really happy you're here
because I didn't want to have to sit next to him.
[Rishi] I'm doing all those things
just because for us.
I'm not... I'm putting all those efforts for us.
I know but the fact remains that you lied.
Can I meet your friend sometime?
No?
[Nicole] Why the secrecy?
Like, why can't I know who you hang out with?
[Latino music playing]
[Yohan speaking Spanish]
[Daniele speaking Spanish]
[Yohan speaking]
[in English] I only have a few days left
on my trip to the Dominican Republic
before I have to go back home.
We still haven't found an apartment,
which is really stressing me out.
But today, we're kind of taking a break
and we're meeting up with my friend Sophy
who is from New York.
She happens to be visiting the Dominican Republic this week.
Ah... [continues in Spanish]
[in English] Hi!
-Almost. -[Yohan speaking Spanish]
[Sophy speaking Spanish]
-[in English] So happy to see you! -You, too.
[Daniele] How has your trip been?
Rough, but we're here.
[speaking Spanish]
[Sophy groans]
[Yohan speaking]
Sophy has shared in the past
that she was concerned about my ability
to live in the Dominican Republic
and that Yohan's using me for a visa,
or using me for money.
Have you ever heard of the term...
Sanky-panky is a man who works at a resort
and is looking for tourists
to come and, you know, provide them with money.
[Sophy] That's a huge leap of faith, Daniele.
-Yeah. -Are you ready?
I don't know.
[Sophy speaking Spanish]
[Sophy speaking English] I had to meet Yohan
because Daniele has been through a lot
and I think she's very trusting
and she wants to see the best in people
in every single scenario.
So I have some questions about his intentions,
to see and, like, make sure that
he is everything that she's manifested
and that he will take care of her.
[speaking Spanish]
[Daniele laughs]
[Yohan speaking]
[Sophy speaking]
[in English] He's saying that they want grandchildren from him.
Yeah, working on that.
[in Spanish]
[Yohan speaking]
[in English] I really want to have a family with Yohan
but we've been trying to get pregnant
since we got engaged a year ago
and we haven't been successful.
We visited a fertility specialist
and they said that the chance of me
getting pregnant naturally was 5%
but Yohan thinks that we have much better chances.
[Sophy speaking Spanish]
Mmm... [speaking Spanish]
[in English] He's basically saying that,
there's a voice inside of him that says
that you will be able to
and God blesses you with a miracle.
[Daniele] My fear is, at my age,
I could get pregnant but there's a good chance
I'm going to lose a couple.
Like, that happens pretty often.
And I think that...
I don't know that I can handle that.
That's what I'm really worried about.
So, like, I almost would rather plan
to use science rather than go through that process.
Like, last month I thought I was pregnant,
and I was, like, so excited.
-Aw. -And I, like, felt it in my body.
And, like, when I got my period, I was so upset.
Like, I'm going to get upset right now thinking about it.
I was so upset, I'm like, "Oh, I can't [bleep] do this every month."
-Aw. -There is no way.
So...
[Daniele] All of the weight of child-bearing is on me
and to have to do that month after month
is really nerve-wracking.
I feel like that stress alone
is going to [bleep] my cycle
and make it harder for me to get pregnant.
So, I don't think he realizes,
like, how much pressure that is on me,
especially because I'm not young.
[Sophy speaking Spanish]
[Yohan speaking]
[Sophy] Oh.
[Sophy speaking English] So he's saying that
women have gotten pregnant
-but they haven't been able to sustain the baby. -[speaking Spanish]
[in English] And that some have aborted the babies on purpose.
Wow. That's the first time I'm hearing that.
Like, he's told me that
his partners have lost children.
He's never told me that.
This is, like, so difficult.
I 100% believe in a woman's right to choose.
I think that we have to make decisions about our own body.
But this is the first time I'm hearing this story.
He had told me that she lost the baby and had a miscarriage.
Like, why would you lie about something like that?
That doesn't make any sense to me.
Like, why did you not say that before?
[Daniele] I'm not upset about the abortion.
I'm upset that Yohan hasn't been honest with me.
And my full faith in this relationship
is about my faith in him and his honesty
and if I lose that, then what do we have?
[man whistles]
[Nicole] I'm ready.
Is this okay?
-[Mahmoud speaking] -Okay.
[Nicole] Actually, these shoes, I don't think they look good.
So, maybe I'm going to get a different pair. Is that okay?
[Nicole] All right, sorry.
-Get your shoes on. -[Mahmoud speaking]
[Mahmoud] Nicole back to Egypt two days ago...
[speaking Arabic]
Sweetheart, do you know where this other shoe is?
[Mahmoud speaking English]
Oh!
[Mahmoud chuckles softly]
[Nicole giggles] No, I didn't, I didn't.
I didn't have time to unpack, so...
Let's just go.
[Nicole] Yesterday, I was really sad
but today, I'm going to try
and be more present here in Egypt
and loosen up and feel more comfortable
and just enjoy myself, actually, a little bit and...
I hope I can do it.
[Nicole and Mahmoud in Arabic]
-[Mahmoud in English] -I love you.
[Mahmoud speaking]
Thank you.
-[Mahmoud] How are you feeling now? -I feel good.
[Nicole] What's this, honey?
[Nicole] Ah, it's cool. Look at those, like, chandelier things.
-[Mahmoud] Yeah. -Can we go in?
[Mahmoud speaking]
Let's just try.
I just want to sit down.
Is that okay?
[Mahmoud speaking]
[Mahmoud speaking Arabic]
[server speaking Arabic]
[Mahmoud speaking]
[in English]
Okay, all right. That was nice of him.
Is it, like, really serious? I mean, is it...
Just for men. But, why?
You say that?
Can I meet your friend sometime?
Uh...
Really?
I just want to, like, know who you go out with
and hang out with and that kind of thing.
No?
Part of my struggle in Egypt
is I don't have any friends,
and I've never met any of his friends.
I think I've seen their faces
at our wedding before.
But the wedding was sort of a blur.
I don't really remember. It's not like I spoke to them.
Really?
Oh, that's it.
Will they, like, kill you if you called and said
you wanted to meet their wife?
Don't call...
Oh, the wife is a red line.
It's just different, you know?
All my friends, I know their boyfriends
and their husbands and things like this
and, you know, you want to meet their boyfriend
and make sure it's like a good match for them, or like...
Yeah.
Private.
I just think that maybe we could still...
we could have dinner at least, like, one time,
since I'm new to Egypt and everything.
Like, I don't want you to pressure them,
of course, but like,
it is important to me to know your friends,
like, just to meet them.
I don't know why you're freaking out.
If you were American,
and you wouldn't let me meet your friends,
I would think you were hiding something from me.
[Nicole] Yes.
[chuckles]
[Nicole] I just love you so much,
and I just wanna know, you know,
how your life is,
and like, what you do, and like...
-[Mahmoud speaking] -Who... Who is is that you--
-[Mahmoud speaking] -You value in your life.
[Nicole] Everything about you, I just wanna know.
[Mahmoud speaking]
Okay, honey.
Thank you.
-[Mahmoud speaking] -Okay.
[Gabriel speaking Spanish]
[Isabel speaking Spanish]
Okay...
[scoffs]
[Isabel speaking Spanish]
[speaking Spanish]
[Isabel] Mmm-hmm.
[Gabriel in English] I need to start working ASAP, because
my website has had pre-orders for about a month now,
and I literally have no inventory.
I don't have any underwear to sell.
So, I'm getting e-mails constantly.
I'm having mini heart-attacks,
all day, every day.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] String.
Need to buy string.
[in Spanish]
-[Gabriel in English] String. -String.
-Black string. -Black string.
[Gabriel speaking Spanish]
[Isabel scoffs]
[in English] I've worked so hard to get my business off the ground,
for years in the US.
Now, I'm starting over, and I don't know what to do.
I don't know how I'm gonna start shipping things,
I don't know where I'm gonna get the foam.
I'm not fluent in Spanish,
and so I'm relying on Isabel working with me
for my business to succeed.
[speaking Spanish]
Okay... [continues in Spanish]
[scoffs]
[Gabriel speaking]
[Isabel speaking]
[conversing in Spanish]
[shopkeeper speaking]
[Gabriel in English] I definitely like to be in control,
and ever since Isabel's been working with me,
I feel like...
My, I'm an assistant.
I... I feel like I'm working for her.
[both speaking Spanish]
[Isabel in English] Okay.
[Gabriel in English] It's emasculating, a little bit, but...
I would not be able to run my business without her.
[Gabriel speaking Spanish]
[speaking Spanish]
[shopkeeper speaking]
[sighs]
[Gabriel in English] I don't know how much a meter is
a kilogram,
I don't even know how much I weigh here.
I don't know what anything is.
-[shopkeeper speaking Spanish] -[Isabel] Mmm-hmm.
[Gabriel in English] Okay.
[Gabriel and shopkeeper speaking Spanish]
[Gabriel in English] Okay.
-[Isabel speaking Spanish] -[Gabriel] Si.
[speaking Spanish]
[Isabel speaking]
[chuckles]
[all continue in Spanish]
[groans]
[Isabel speaking]
[Gabriel speaking]
[in English] Like, the logo?
[both continue in Spanish]
[sighs wearily]
[Gabriel in English] I'm freaking out because without the stamps,
I can't sell my product.
It's... That's like...
Having your brand.
It's... it's invisible, nobody's gonna know.
It's a little detail that needs to be on there.
-Oh, my God. -And this is a great problem,
because it's not gonna be here for a month.
Already, it's gonna take a month, because...
United States to Colombia takes a month,
for anything to get here.
And you pay, like, $300.
[both speaking Spanish]
[in English] Having a business is difficult already,
and moving everything from the US to Colombia
has been a lot harder than I thought it was gonna be.
I'm relying on my business to take care of my family,
and so, I feel like...
My whole life in Colombia is depending on my business doing well.
[Isabel speaking Spanish]
[in English] Crap.
[sighs]
-[in English] I'm so angry. -[speaking Spanish]
Let's rock and roll.
I'm flying to Morocco, and I'm getting married.
And I admit, it's extremely risky.
He's young, Mom.
I'm scared something bad might happen.
Nothing bad's gonna happen.
[Julian] She's so infatuated with this fairy tale,
that she's willing to go around the world to get it.
[Debbie] Julian, can you help?
Purse here.
Okay, let me make sure I remembered everything.
Today's my last day in the United States of America,
and I'm on the road to Morocco. [chuckles]
[Julian] You don't need five bags, Mom.
Six, how many you got in here?
[Debbie] Even though I'm moving to Morocco,
I'm keeping my townhouse for my kids.
And once Oussama and I get our apartment,
I'm having Julian send over the rest of my stuff.
This is the stupidest thing I've ever heard in my entire life.
I think my mom's making a horrible decision,
and she's not...
She's not thinking like a normal person.
She's so...
infatuated with this fairy tale,
and someone loving her, and someone showing her attention,
that's she's willing to go, uh...
around the world to get it.
[Debbie] This is it, Julian.
I'm so excited!
[Julian speaking]
-I'm telling you, this is... -[cell phone ringing]
-You gotta- -It's Sandy, be quiet.
Hello.
We're on the way to the airport.
-Put her on speaker. -[Debbie] Okay.
[Julian] You hear me, Sandy?
[Sandy speaking]
Sandy, uh, naturally, I'm gonna come back
and visit, and I'd like for you to come to Morocco and visit too.
[Sandy speaking]
Well--
Well, I love you, and I appreciate your care and concern,
but I think that you kids should have a little more faith in me.
[Sandy speaking]
Yes!
You kids are my everything, you know that.
I love you, Sandy,
-and I'll talk to you later. -[Sandy speaking]
-Bye-bye. -[Sandy speaking]
Uh-huh.
-See, Sandy's civil and nice. -[Julian] Oh.
You know damn well she's not civil and nice.
-[Debbie] She is. -[Julian] Yeah, right.
[Debbie] Let's just make this a nice,
mother and son ride to the airport, please.
-[Julian] You're sure you wanna do this? -[Debbie] Yes.
-I am determined-- -There's nothing I can do to say or,
or make you change your mind?
That's my new nickname,
Determined Debbie.
And I like that.
Leaving the United States,
is a mixture of emotions.
When Sandy and Julian
expressed their doubts and concerns,
naturally,
some of that seeps in,
to the cracks of my soul.
You know, those scary parts.
We're afraid of rejection.
But, I'm flying to Morocco, and I'm getting married.
I want that "happily ever after."
Ready? Let's go.
Let's rock and roll.
This is what it takes,
and I've got to be courageous.
I'm excited, I'm excited!
I'm excited. [laughs]
Here we come, Morocco.
Momma's gonna miss you a whole lot.
[Julian] I'm gonna miss you too.
This is... I'm gonna miss you, I mean, it's not...
-It's not cool, you know? -It's gonna be okay, Julian.
[Julian] I'm scared.
I'm scared you're gonna get hurt,
I'm scared something bad might happen.
Nothing bad's gonna happen.
-I want you to be happy for me. -I mean...
In a different situation, I'd be super ecstatic for you.
But just to me, it doesn't add up right.
He's young, Mom.
Mom's like, my best friend, you know?
I mean, Mom is kinda like the...
She's the crazy glue of the family.
And, I know,
when I have issues, or if I need to
blow-off steam, I can just go to Mom's house, you know.
Or, if I just need a break from everything,
stay at Mom's house, you know, and, uh...
Now, that's not gonna happen, you know.
Some, somebody stole our mom from us.
You got your medicines?
-[Debbie] Yes, yes. -I'm gonna, see,
we're gonna worry about you all the time.
-I'm-- -I'll be extra safe.
I will, I promise.
-You know-- -But what if it's the last time
-we see each other? -It's gonna be okay.
-What if it's like,
something bad happens to you over there?
-Nothing bad's gonna happen-- -You never know,
you could fall down and get hurt.
I really don't want you to go.
Is there anything I can do, or pay you money, to stay?
-No. -Nothing I can do?
This, my mind is made up.
Momma's just a plane ride away.
That's all you gotta think of it, a plane trip away.
All right, I'm not good at goodbye, so,
-I love you, and I just... -I love you.
...don't want nothing bad to happen to you.
-Nothing bad's gonna happen-- -[Julian] Okay.
-I'm... I'm gonna be okay. -[Julian] I know.
[kisses] Be good.
I know my family doesn't support my move to Morocco,
or my relationship with Oussama,
and my plans to marry him.
And I admit, it's extremely risky.
But I am motivated by love, and determination,
that this is gonna be a good thing
for the rest of my life.
I just wish I was in Morocco right now.
The anticipation, the airport...
it's just...
Oh, God, Oussama,
do you realize all this stuff I'm going through for you?
It's like...
[flight announcement over PA]
[Daniele speaking Spanish]
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] My problem is not with your past,
my problem is that you're a liar.
Once the trust is broken,
it's broken forever.
[speaking Spanish]
[Daniele speaking Spanish]
[in English] It was nice to have Yohan meet my friend Sophy, but,
I was blown-off when he shared something
I didn't know about his past.
I didn't say anything about it at the time because,
I didn't feel like the setting was appropriate,
and I didn't wanna argue with him in front of my friend.
But, Yohan lied to me about something
that's actually really important.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] I know we needed to talk about it,
but right now, I'm putting it on the backburner.
[Yohan and Daniele speaking Spanish]
[Daniele speaking]
[in English] Yohan and I decided
that we would keep his butcher shop open
for the next nine months,
to see if he can try to make up for some of his losses.
So, we're gonna stop at a botanica today,
so that I can help him be more prosperous.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] I don't even know how to describe what a botanica is,
a botanica is, like...
I don't know.
[laughs] A Spanish magic store?
Like, it's like where you get
oils, and colognes, and herbs,
and things that I use in my spiritual practice
in the Ifa tradition.
[speaking Spanish]
[snickers]
[Daniele speaking English] Yohan is
like a child, when he is in the botanica,
he's acting like everything is stupid.
[speaking Spanish]
[Yohan snickers]
[snickering]
[Daniele speaking]
[Yohan speaking]
[Daniele grunts]
[car locks]
[Daniele speaking English] Yohan's behavior in the botanica
is so immature.
And it's like, even more frustrating
because I'm still upset about last night.
[speaking Spanish]
[Yohan speaking]
[Yohan speaking indistinctly]
[in English] Because you're a liar.
My problem is not with your past,
-my problem is that you're a liar. -[Yohan speaking Spanish]
I have a problem with liars.
I have had a lot of ex's from my past
who have lied to me about various things,
I even had an ex who had a family
that I didn't know about.
And one of the reasons I love Yohan so much
is because I trust him, and I really believe in his heart.
You know, when I'm getting, like, all these partial truths,
it makes me question everything he's ever told me.
I have zero tolerance for dishonesty.
With me, once the trust is broken,
it's broken forever.
[Yohan speaking Spanish]
[Mahmoud speaking English]
[Nicole] What would be good to talk about?
[Nicole] Thank you so much for doing this. I am so excited.
[Mahmoud speaking]
Okay.
Sure.
[chuckles]
-[Mahmoud] Well-- -[Nicole] Are you okay?
[Mahmoud] I'm--
Mahmoud has been nervous all day.
Like, freaking out.
And I am not nervous at all. I'm actually, like, looking forward to it.
I wanna see who he's hung out with his whole life and,
see who he loves and see who he cares for.
There's no need for you to, to get nervous.
We're just normal. Like, we're having dinner with some friends.
[Mahmoud speaking]
Well, is there anything I just should not do?
Don't shake any hands. Okay.
Just... I just want you to relax a little bit, okay?
Yeah, just try... Just, like,
take some breaths. Yeah.
-[people talking indistinctly] -Okay.
[speaking]
Hi!
-[in Arabic] -Say "salaam alaikum."
-[friend greets in Arabic] -[in Arabic]
[all in Arabic]
[Amr speaking]
[in Arabic]
[Ahmed in Arabic]
[Mahmoud speaking]
[in English]
[in Arabic]
[in English]
-[Mahmoud chuckles] No problem. -[Nicole] Okay.
[Magdy in Arabic]
[Mostafa in Arabic]
[in Arabic]
How do you feel?
I feel okay.
-You feel okay? -Yeah.
Okay. Is it okay if I ask your friends
how they know you?
Yeah, okay. Go ahead, honey.
[Nicole] Uh, how do you all know each other?
[Magdy in Arabic]
[Mahmoud in English] Uh, friends we are from--
[in English]
-Same city. -Same city, same area.
-Brother. Oh, okay. -Yeah.
Okay, good. Good.
-This why I-- -That's nice. I'm so happy to meet all of you.
What did you all think when Mahmoud, uh, decided to marry an American,
like, 30 days or something after he met one?
-Okay? Yeah. -Oh, okay.
I'm sorry, I won't do that.
[Mahmoud in Arabic]
[Amr speaking in Arabic]
[Mahmoud in English]
Oh. Ask Mahmoud about that if you really want that.
[in Arabic]
[Mahmoud speaking]
It's okay.
Oh, did you just--
[in English]
[chuckles] Oh, that's what I thought you said.
[in Arabic]
-[in Arabic] -[in English]
-[Mahmoud in English] Not me? -[Nicole speaking]
Oh, my wife is not crazy.
[in Arabic]
Yeah.
[Ahmed] Hmm.
-[in Arabic] -[friends chuckle]
[Mahmoud in English]
Just trying to think of more questions.
Oh, okay.
[Mahmoud speaking]
-I said I-- What? -What happened?
Nothing. I love you.
-[Nicole] Nothing. What? -[Mahmoud speaking]
I mean, it's fine. I mean, I feel, like, kind of, a little, like, uncomfortable.
-[Mahmoud speaking] -[Nicole] Yeah.
I wasn't nervous at all before I got here.
Now, I'm... I'm so nervous.
[Mahmoud speaking]
[Nicole] I just wanna leave, actually.
I am feeling very shy right now but I don't even know what's even appropriate to ask
because I don't-- I don't wanna offend anybody
or, like, cross any cultural boundaries.
[Mahmoud speaking]
[both in Arabic]
[all in Arabic]
[Mahmoud in English]
[in English] Aw. Okay, good.
Yeah.
[Nicole] I feel more... Yeah. I feel better now.
-Okay, good. -Yeah. It's good.
Yeah.
Now I know that I need to listen to my husband when he says that,
you know, these things are normal.
'Cause he's right. It was awkward and, and now I don't...
I don't think we need to do that again.
[Nicole speaking]
[Mahmoud speaking]
And so much.
I'm still worried that, uh, my time in Egypt
will be isolating.
And I really need to find a way to be myself here.
'Cause otherwise I need to leave.
Have you found any potential wives for Rishi yet?
[in Hindi]
[Jen] At this point, I am tempted to
[Rishi in Hindi]
[Jen in Hindi]
[Shimla in Hindi]
-[Jen in English] Aw. -[in English] Feels like a friend came in.
-Yeah. -[Jen laughs]
[in Hindi]
-[Shimla] Hmm. -Eh?
[Shimla speaking]
-[Jen in Hindi] -[greets in Hindi]
[Jen in English] As we arrive at Rishi's house, I'm still angry
but I'm also really curious.
I've met Rishi's family once before but it was only briefly so,
I wanna see what they're like,
how they react to me. I mean,
these could be my future in-laws.
-[in English] He's my brother. -Okay.
[Rishi] So, we can sit over there and we can have talk.
[Jen] Okay.
[Rishi] Sit here.
Yeah.
Hmm.
My family doesn't know about Jen, that she moved here for me,
and, uh, we are already got engaged.
-Yes, yes. -[chuckles]
-[Jen] Beautiful as always. -[Rishi laughs]
So, um, do...
You live with your husband, right?
-He's not here right now. -[Priyanka] Yeah.
Oh.
Agra. Okay.
[in Hindi]
She's asking, uh,
why you are... why you are here.
-[chuckles] -Oh, um...
So, uh,
I recently, uh, moved here.
Um, I really...
I love Jaipur. It's such a beautiful city and...
-So, yeah. [chuckles] -[in English] Okay, okay.
[Shimla speaking]
[Jen] Um,
so, uh, Priyanka, it's been two years since she got married.
And you need to find this one a wife.
Maybe find this one a wife.
Like, how quickly are you looking to find wives for your sons?
'Cause maybe I can attend two weddings in your family.
[Rishi in Hindi]
[in English] She want, like, uh, as soon as possible.
Have you found any potential wives for Rishi yet?
Jen! Just shut up your mouth. [laughs]
Don't make this kind of question.
Don't make things worse.
[in Hindi]
So, she's saying that, uh, we have, uh, in conversation with, uh, someone.
[in Hindi]
So, they-- they were looking but
it will not fit with me because of, uh,
the education, height, or, uh--
[Jen] Height is an option?
[Rishi] Height is also an option in that.
-[laughs] -[Jen] They want short or tall?
Tall.
Is it okay if he marries a girl who is Muslim or
Jewish or Christian?
[Rishi in Hindi]
[in English] She's saying that, uh, she don't have any problem
that, uh, the girl belongs, uh, from any religion.
[Jen] So, since when did you start looking for a match for him?
[Rishi in Hindi]
[in English] It's, uh, quite awkward for me to translate the question
that Jen asking.
But, honesty is the best policy.
So, she's saying that, um,
she has been looking from, uh, one and a half year.
Mmm. Okay.
[Rishi] But she didn't find anyone.
[Jen] Okay.
That's interesting.
I am disgusted.
They've been looking for a fiancee for him for the past two years.
Hello, he gained a fiancee two years ago.
[Jen in Arabic]
[in English] You will find him a bride.
-[laughs] -Yeah!
Yeah.
I have no tolerance for someone who lies to me.
At this point, I am tempted to tell his family the truth.
But if I tell them,
I'm actually doing his job for him.
That takes a lot of responsibility off of him
and I'm not about to let him off the hook.
I want a man who's willing to move mountains for me.
I'm not the one that's gonna move the mountains.
[Daniele] I'm not sure what kind of relationship you want.
But this is not the kind of relationship that I want.
When I'm getting, like, all these partial truths,
it makes me question everything he's ever told me.
[in Spanish]
[dog barks]
[Daniele] Trust is so important to me.
And I've had it violated so much in the past that
I have to work hard to be able to trust someone.
But now that I know that Yohan has been dishonest about this one thing,
I just have this tape running in my mind of all the things that he has told me,
and wondering how much of them are not true.
I...
[dog barks]
I'm not sure what kind of relationship you want.
But this is not the kind of relationship that I want.
[dog barking]
You can stare at me all day.
[in Spanish]
[producer in Spanish]
[Yohan speaking]
-[sighs] -[dog barking]
I can't do this in Spanish.
Because what I need to say is too important.
You did not say that they terminated the pregnancy.
Those are two different things.
Neither of them make me upset or angry with you.
What makes me angry with you
is the fact that you lied about it.
You said that she lost a child.
That is different than you telling my friend that she terminated a child.
Those are different things. And when I ask you about it,
you flip out like I've done something wrong.
[Yohan speaking]
It's a different story to me.
He is not taking ownership of the fact that he has been dishonest.
So, I'm really upset about that.
It feels like I'm dealing with a child.
When he gets to a place where he's defensive,
it's like the conversation goes nowhere.
No.
[in Spanish]
[Daniele speaking]
[Yohan speaking]
[Daniele in English] I feel like if my husband sees me crying
and he is like a brick wall and doesn't clearly feel any sympathy for me,
it makes me really nervous that
this is the kind of support I'm gonna receive from my husband long-term.
Yohan knows how important trust and honesty is to me.
And he knows how emotional I am around the idea
of whether or not I can have a child.
So, why is he so unwilling to have some sympathy for me?
I want you to be a different person.
I just answered you. I want you to be a different person.
This is who you... Is that what you're saying?
-That you're saying this is who you are? -[Yohan speaking]
You're saying this is who you are?
You're a toxic human.
-[Yohan speaking] -You are a toxic human.
[in Spanish]
[in English] Because this isn't who you were.
[Yohan speaking]
If I have a problem with something that you do,
I need you to engage in a conversation.
You can't be like, "Okay, I'm a liar. Then leave me."
Like, that's just... That's childish. That's high school [bleep].
I don't really know what to say to this so I guess I'm going back to the hotel.
I don't know what the way forward is from here.
Like, I don't know if I go back to the hotel if he'll just disappear.
And be like, "Okay, this marriage is over."
Like, I don't even know what goes on inside his head sometimes.
I really want a child and I really wanted it with him
because of who I believed he was.
And it's like, if that's not actually who he is,
then what am I fighting for?
[car engine starts]
[Debbie] Next time on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way...
[Oussama speaking]
[laughing] He looks handsome.
[Gabriel] Well, I didn't have surgery yet but it--
It-- it makes me feel uncomfortable.
Okay.
[in Spanish]
[Gabriel in English] Everybody says, "Don't do it. Don't do it."
But for me, I need to do it.
Yohan still clearly has a long way to go when it comes to
having a mature, adult relationship.
This isn't just like a boyfriend-girlfriend situation. This is a husband.
And I shouldn't be sleeping alone without my husband
while he stays at his parents' house.
I may have to leave
back to Alabama.
[in Spanish]
What are the chances that your family will ever accept me?
They'd been trying to matchmake you--
They were... They were in talk.
They were not confirmed.
[Jen] Why didn't you tell me that?
I just keep saying, over and over,
"Just be honest with me.
Just be honest!"
You say you don't want me anymore.
[bleep] you.
[Mahmoud speaking]
Okay, good.