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[speaking Spanish]
[both laughing]
[Kris, in English] I'm really not ready to go back home yet.
I truly hope I can get everything done super, super fast,
so I can get straight back over there to her.
[Jeymi] My biggest scare is she no come back.
[in English]
[Debbie] He's not ashamed of me.
It's erasing the rough start we had.
And it's like I'm believing in him again.
[speaking Hindi]
[speaking English]
[speaking Hindi]
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] He is unwilling to even sit down
and have a conversation with my ex.
I feel like that is really childish.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] When you're on social media
do you get a lot of girls that contact you?
No.
That's bull [bleep].
-Shall I show you my phone? -Yeah.
[Jen] What is that?
This could be the end of things right now.
You just lie.
[Arabic music playing]
-Well, is everything gonna fit, you know? -Yup, yup.
-Are you sure? -Yup.
-Let's go. Follow me. Yup. -[Debbie] Well, as long as we got everything.
After spending a couple of days in Rabat,
Oussama and I are finally headed
to Khemisset to meet his family.
Just push that baby in there at a angle.
Think geometry.
Angle. Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
Perfect.
I told you, yup.
[Oussama] Yup. You got me.
-Miss Debbie likes to say, "I told you so!" -[chuckles]
[Debbie] Wow. Who the man? Who the man?
Who the man in charge? Yeah.
[chuckling]
You large and in charge, Oussama.
Okay.
[Oussama speaking]
[Debbie] Oh, boy.
Yeah, like, I... Well, it's like...
I'm trying to steel myself, make myself strong.
Well, I'll tell you, right now I'd like to have
a bag over my head when I meet your parents.
[Debbie] I'm extremely nervous
to meet Oussama's parents.
It's the big "age difference."
You know, I'm thinking they're gonna think
I'm some terrible American
trying to steal their son.
[Oussama speaking]
I hope it's true.
They know I'm American?
Right.
I hope they can understand, you know, where I'm coming from.
That I'm not stealing their son.
[Oussama speaking]
And they know that my intention is good.
That's what I'm... Yeah.
We're not in Atlanta, and this sure in the heck ain't Sugar Hill.
-Some crazy American woman coming to Khemisset. -[Oussama] Right. Yup.
It's like,
yee-hah, Miss Debbie's here.
Here's something I thought about.
Does your mom and dad know I'm moved here permanently now?
You didn't tell 'em?
Oh, my God!
-Oh, you want me to tell. -Yup.
-Oh, Go... Thanks a lot for the warning, man. -Like, it's...
It's like, we're here and it's like, you didn't tell 'em?
-[chuckling] -Like, that Miss Debbie's coming with
the army of suitcases to be here permanent?
[Debbie] I'm already nervous enough about meeting mom and dad.
And then he's dumping this stuff on me!
It's like, come on, Oussama.
You supposed to have my back.
-I'm not telling them right away. -Okay.
-No. -Okay, I know.
Tell later. Not now.
Right now, I'm thinking
that Oussama... doesn't have
all his cards on the table with me.
And I don't like that feeling.
This is a warning sign of some sort.
Whew!
[Indian music playing]
Why would you send a girl a picture of you half naked?
Naked?
It's already posted on the social media, on my page.
It's still there.
Do you know how embarrassing this is for me?
That a friend has to tell me, "Look what your fiance has been sending"?
Why... Why are you sending that person roses?
Look, how would you feel
if I sent pictures of myself like that to random dudes?
It's for the person that you sent the roses to.
-Mm-hmm. -Uh-huh.
I don't know.
Rishi's excuse is him thinking that it was joke
or pulling his leg,
it's just... It doesn't make any sense.
He is just [bleep] talking in circles.
I mean, I'm already not believing
what's coming out of his mouth
because I happen to know that he was trying to meet up with her.
Just say, "Yes, I flirted,"
or "Yes, I sent these messages."
If you knew that Randi was my friend,
then why did you respond to her?
If... if you thought she was messing with you,
why didn't you just respond with, like, "Haha," like...
you know?
"Obviously you know I'm with Jen."
It would've looked better if you had just ignored it.
And... When you block it, it looks really suspicious.
-Suspicious? -[Jen] Yeah, and like,
"Oh, I don't want her to see what I'm doing on here."
No.
[Rishi speaking]
[Jen] You're not even sorry. You don't care.
[Jen] It doesn't seem like you're sorry.
-Well... -You don't think you did anything wrong.
What will I say?
I'm having a really hard time trusting you right now.
I can say, like, I'm...
You can just check my mobile, so you can see.
Okay, yeah. Get your phone.
It's inside.
Okay, go get it.
I'm calling his bluff to say, "Let me see your phone."
But the problem is, when I look at his phone,
everything's in Hindi.
So I have no idea if he's flirting with anybody, talking to any other girls.
[Rishi] She asked for my mobile.
I just showed her that you can see.
[sighs]
She scrolled for a moment and she find nothing.
[Jen] Of what?
It still doesn't explain
why you're sending pictures of roses to people.
[Jen] I don't know what to believe anymore.
The message made me question everything.
There's a lot of stuff that you said you were gonna do
and you still haven't done any of it.
-Like? -Telling your family about me.
[sighs] Did I say I will not say?
No, you just keep putting it off.
I'm not keep putting it off.
[Rishi speaking]
I just want a little... little time.
I just want a little more time, like,
to tell everything to my family.
You've had, like, three years.
[Rishi sighs]
-Are you serious? -Yeah.
You wanna wait until August to tell 'em?
[Jen] Sounds like bull [bleep].
Yeah, three years later.
[Jen] I'm really frustrated
that Rishi wants to wait another two months
to tell his family about us
after it's already been three years.
And, on top of that, I've been stressing
about having this conversation with Rishi
about the messages.
And his excuses were total bull [bleep].
If he knew that she was my friend
why wouldn't he just call her out on it? Or...
tell me about it?
It's so hard because I want to believe him.
I mean, I'm really invested in this relationship.
I love him. I want things to work out
and...
I wanna believe he's a good person.
But I don't know how else to make sense of this.
[sighs]
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] I have less than a month left on my visa.
My birth certificate, [whispers] it says "female" on it.
[Gabriel] All my evidence of transitioning is gone.
[speaking Spanish]
[Kris] I was only supposed to be in Alabama for two weeks.
And here it's been three months.
[Jeymi speaking]
[Latin American music playing]
[Isabel speaking Spanish]
[Gabriel speaking Spanish]
[Gabriel, in English] Last night Isabel and I told her parents
that we're engaged, and they were very excited for us.
Ah!
-[man] Si. -[Isabel laughing]
[Isabel speaking indistinctly]
[mother speaking Spanish]
[in English] I feel like now we can finally keep moving forward.
[Isabel speaking Spanish]
[Gabriel] Si, si.
[Gabriel] We're going to go to a lawyer because...
at this point, I believe I have about...
less than a month left on my visa.
So we need to make sure we can get married quickly before my visa expires.
Because, if not, I have to leave the country
for six months until the next calendar year.
Ugh.
[sighs]
That'd literally be my worst fear
because there's no way that I'm gonna go six months
without seeing Isabel.
[Gabriel speaking Spanish]
[imitating writing sound]
[in mocking tone]
[Isabel speaking]
[woman speaking]
[Diana speaking]
[Isabel speaking]
[in English] I'm going to try to explain in Spanish and English too.
Oh, that's so great, you speak English.
Okay. Ah.
I feel better. Okay.
I'm not... Yes. [laughs]
We need your passport...
[Gabriel] Mmm-hmm.
And your birth certificate
and birth certificate of your future wife.
-Yes. -[both chuckling]
And is something like...
seven, eight days that we can have, um...
-date for you, um, marry. -[Gabriel] Mmm-hmm.
[speaking Spanish]
[Gabriel, in English] So, I have another question.
Because... So... [sighs]
I'm trans, so I was born a girl.
Now I look like this.
So, my passport, it says "male"
and my Florida ID, it says "male."
But my birth certificate, [whispers] it says "female" on it.
[Diana] So...
It have to say the same, your passport,
-your birth certificate. -[Gabriel] Yeah.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] How many long it takes you that change?
It'll be... It could be months.
'Cause I have to go back to US maybe, like, next week.
So I can go to change my birth certificate
and then I have to wait until that's done and then I can come back.
[Diana] Why you don't change that?
[Gabriel] Because when I got my passport, um...
the US government asked me
for all my documentation and my evidence
and they never gave it back to me.
So all my evidence of transitioning is gone.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] I... It was, like, ten years ago.
I was young. I didn't think that I was gonna...
That somebody was gonna take them
and I'd never see them ever again.
It's devastating that, after everything me and Isabel went through,
to get to this point,
now I have to go back to the US.
And I don't know how long I'm gonna be gone from Isabel
and I just hope that our relationship can survive the distance.
No, it's better that you go
-and you-- Yeah. Yeah. -Now, like next week.
[speaking Spanish]
[sighs]
[Gabriel speaking]
[Isabel] Mmm.
[country music playing]
[train horn blowing]
[chuckling]
[Kris] Hi, baby.
[inhales]
Oh, you look so pretty.
It's not the makeup.
I am back in Alabama because I needed to take care
of some bank issues,
and I also need to pick up my narcolepsy medication.
So Jeymi and I agreed that I should return.
How are you feeling?
It's like, "Oh, my God, I can't."
Almost exactly a year.
[Kris] When Jeymi told me
that she had COVID again,
my heart just sank.
Because Jeymi had such complications having COVID the first time.
It put her in the hospital and she almost died.
So, of course I'm absolutely concerned that this is gonna happen again.
I know you're scared to death.
I am too.
But we'll get through this,
just like we did last time.
[Kris] It's difficult here too.
I would be there right now
if financially we could live,
but we can't.
[Kris] I was only supposed to be in Alabama for two weeks
and here it's been three months.
At first, I had to extend my trip
because I had some medical issues that I had to get taken care of.
And then, I realized that
we were running out of money faster than even I thought.
So I ended up staying longer so I could work and make money.
You know, it kills me because I don't think you realize just how bad this is for me.
I don't enjoy this at all.
I wanna be there
just as much as you want me there.
But I'm having to work here, because I can work here,
no problem.
[Kris] Jeymi took some time off work
when I moved to Colombia.
But then she gets a phone call from her boss saying,
"You come to work now or quit."
At the time, I told her
that if she wanted to quit, she could.
But she would need to go out and search for another job.
But that never happened.
And that put everything on me
to have to take care of.
So our only real option was
for me to go to work here in Alabama.
The money?
You eating and you having a roof over your head
and you're talking about money's more important to me?
If money was important to me,
I would be spending the money on myself.
But I spend every dime
sending money to you.
Every penny I make goes to you.
[Jeymi speaking]
That's a lie.
When I don't answer the phone, do you know what I'm doing?
I'm working to send you money.
[Kris] At first,
me and Jeymi talked all the time.
But very quickly,
that changed from talking to fighting.
On top of that,
I am doing any and every odd job
I can get my hands on.
Yard work, painting houses,
pressure washing driveways.
So I'm not able to answer the phone every time she calls.
I don't have my phone on me. I don't keep it strapped to my face.
I work. I don't keep my phone on me when I'm working.
Sweetheart, every time I talk to you,
this is what you're doing.
You know, nothing's ever enough.
So why would I want to talk to you?
Because that's what you're doing, bitching.
All the time.
If you want things to be different,
find a job,
start working,
and then that stability will be there,
so I can come there and not have to worry about us
being kicked out on the street and not having anything.
Wow.
I mean, I gave up everything to be there with you.
Everything I do is never enough for you.
And you just proved that saying that right there.
I'm done with this conversation.
[speaking Spanish]
I'm not gonna listen to her say that
she don't think I love her.
It's never enough.
It's the same conversations every time.
Do this right now
or pay.
No matter how unrealistic it would be.
[Kris] I feel completely defeated.
If I go back to Colombia right now,
Jeymi will be happy.
But we won't have money to live.
But if I stay here to make more money,
our relationship is going to suffer.
Because Jeymi is just gonna get madder and madder.
So, at this point,
I really have no idea what to do.
[Jen] Randi and Myra
traveled a long way to see me.
-Oh, my God, I'm so excited to see her. -I am too.
Oh, my gosh, I can't wait to meet Rishi.
It's gonna take a lot for Rishi to show that he
really is committed to Jen.
Because of how he responded to me reaching out to him on social media.
-Hi. Hello. -Hi.
[Indian music playing]
[Jen] Ah.
Going to meet Randi and Myra.
Oh, I can't believe it.
They've traveled a long way to see me.
[Jen] Since I arrived in India, things with Rishi have been
not great.
Randi and Myra had been planning to come to India for a while
to see where I
uprooted my life and moved to.
And, honestly, the timing of this trip could not be any better.
Because things with Rishi have been a total [bleep] show.
I am at the end of my rope.
So having my friends come all this way to help me sort it out
means the world to me.
I'm so excited to see them.
I would like some girl time before they meet Rishi.
I want to talk to them about the fact that I did confront him
about the nude messages on social media.
Um, I'm not exactly happy with his explanation, but
it's out there it's done, I did it.
And today I actually brought it up with him again.
I don't think that you understand, like, how embarrassing and upsetting
that is for me.
Why would you send my friend a shirtless picture?
It just doesn't make any sense.
I think everything seems kinda like a joke to you.
Like it's not serious.
The thing is,
because it was not a big issue, that's why I'm taking it very lightly.
But it is a big issue for me.
You're just making
that issue bigger and bigger every day.
I don't know when it's going to be finished.
Like, uh...
[Jen] When I'm gonna let it go.
You know when I'm gonna let it go?
When you express to me that you understand.
[Rishi sighs]
I love Rishi and I want it to work out.
But I'm having the same conversation over and over
and I'm starting to question my intuition,
just everything about how I'm feeling about this relationship.
So I'm so glad that Randi and Myra are gonna come
and give me an objective perspective on this relationship
and what's going on.
[horns honking]
[exciting music playing]
Oh, thank you.
Oh, my God.
-[Myra] You got it? -Oh.
[Myra laughs]
We have been traveling for three days.
We're here, we're in India, finally.
[Myra] Last time I traveled this far
was for Jen as well at her first wedding.
So, yes, I went to Jamaica.
I hated her first husband.
And she still got married to him.
[Myra] She's already made the mistake once
and I don't wanna see her make the mistake again.
-I'm so excited to see her. -I am too.
Oh, my gosh. I can't wait to meet Rishi.
I wonder if Jen said anything to him about the DMs I got.
I don't think she has.
-I think she honestly doesn't wanna know the truth. -Yeah.
That's the issue.
Yeah.
It's gonna take a lot for Rishi to show that he really is committed to Jen.
Because of how he responded to me reaching out to him on social media.
I think I'll be able to tell within five minutes
who he really is and what his intentions really are.
[Myra] He has no idea what he's getting himself into.
He really doesn't know.
[Myra] Oh, is that her?
Is that her?
-Hi. Hello. -Hi.
[Myra] Oh, my God.
-[Jen] You made it! -Oh, my God.
Oh, my gosh. It's like Planes, Trains and Automobiles.
How are you?
-Oh, my God. -[all squealing]
You look fabulous.
Oh, my God.
-Finally, oh, my God. -I know.
[Jen] I'm so happy you came.
-[Myra] We told you we were gonna come. -I know.
I didn't not believe you, but it was like hard to wrap my brain around it.
Because it's, like, across the world.
-Y'all wanna get the hell out of here? -[both] Let's go.
It's hot, I'm hungry, I'm thirsty, let's go.
Thank you.
-[Jen] And this one too, right? -[both] Yes.
-[Jen] Do you want me to... -Give you this?
[Jen] Yeah.
-So this is tight quarters in these things, but, you know. -[Myra] Tight quarters.
-[reverse alarm blares] -Oh.
[everyone laughs]
-Bye. -Oh, my God.
[Indian music playing]
[Randi] It's kinda cool. It's like we're in a motorcade.
[yells] Oh, my God!
[Myra speaking]
[Jen speaking]
[bus honks]
Oh, my God!
[Jen] Wow.
I'm having some sensory overload.
It's hot, noisy.
Cars are honking everywhere.
It's very...
[Myra] Different?
Different.
-Not bad, just different. -[horn honking]
-Exactly. -Yeah.
-Oh! Oh, my God! -What? What happened?
He just puked on the side.
Some dude puked out of the bus?
Shut up. Shut up!
Oh!
I'm sorry, that's not funny.
[laughter continues]
[Jen] Oh, no.
[Randi] Are you okay?
[Myra] The true experience.
[speaks Spanish]
[Daniele, in English] I'm kicking a coconut.
[Yohan speaking Spanish]
[Yohan speaking]
[Daniele speaking]
[Caribbean music playing]
Last night I told Yohan that my ex, Taylan, was in town,
and I wanted Yohan to meet him.
He did not respond very well.
But this morning, he's acting as if nothing happened.
I feel like
Yohan and I have been fighting since I got off the plane.
He also seems to be like,
I don't know, just really different. A lot more angry.
Today is Yohan's birthday.
I don't wanna fight with him today.
I wanna show him that I'm invested in making this relationship work.
So I'm doing this ritual to try to bring some peace into this day,
so that we can enjoy it and spend our time together.
Baba, my spiritual mentor,
gave me a ritual that might help bring some peace into my home.
We're gonna take a coconut
and cover it with cascarilla,
which is like ground-up eggshells.
It's a cleansing substance that's used a lot in the Ifa tradition.
And coconut is very powerful in spreading light and peace.
And kicking this coconut around my apartment will, kind of, create a peaceful
perimeter around my living space.
[Daniele laughs]
I'm not a soccer player.
I don't know what it is that called me to Ifa,
but as soon as I started listening to what my teachers were telling me,
everything in my life started to improve.
Hopefully, this will bring us some tranquility.
[speaking Spanish]
[Daniele, in English] I'm kicking a coconut.
[Daniele speaking Spanish]
[Yohan speaking]
[Daniele speaking]
[Yohan speaking]
[Daniele speaking]
[Yohan speaking]
[Daniele speaking]
[Daniele, in English] Thank you for giving me peace and love in my house,
no more fighting.
[speaking Spanish]
[Yohan speaking]
[Daniele] Okay.
[Daniele speaking Spanish]
[Daniele speaking]
[Yohan] Wow. [laughs]
[in English] It's actually validating for me that Yohan is willing to
kick the coconut around the house and
make affirmations about the things that
he's trying to manifest in this relationship,
because it feels finally like we're on the same page.
[Daniele speaking Spanish]
[upbeat music playing]
These last few days with Yohan has been really challenging.
But today's his birthday,
and I wanna make sure that I celebrate him in whatever way I can.
So I wanted to throw Yohan a surprise party tonight with his family.
And so Yohan thinks that we're just going out to dinner,
but actually I planned a party for him.
[Daniele] This is the first time that I'm able
to give Yohan the birthday that I think he deserves.
[speaking Spanish]
[Daniele speaking]
[clerk speaking]
[Daniele speaking]
[in English] If we were in New York,
I would get a cake that looks like Yohan.
Like, I would get it as his upper body, 'cause he's so obsessed with his body.
These cakes are way too basic for my husband.
This guy's telling me that he can't write on the cake, he can't decorate on the cake.
He says he has no icing for me to write with.
Which makes no sense, 'cause there's clearly cakes in the window
that have lots of decorations and writing
and, like, icing drizzled on them.
So, why can everybody have their cake and I can't have mine?
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] He just wants to get me out of the bakery.
You know, he knows I'm not gonna leave until he lets me write on this cake
So the faster he gives into what I'm asking for,
the faster he's gonna get me out of the store.
So, eventually, he's just like, "Fine, go ahead, lady."
I'm always gonna get what I want.
It's not even a question.
[clerk speaking Spanish]
[Daniele speaking Spanish]
[clerk speaking]
[in English] Planning a nice birthday for Yohan is important to me
because I feel like we've waited a long time to actually be together in the same place
and to celebrate our life together.
So I just hope that both Yohan and I are able to have as much fun
and as much celebration as possible in our lives,
instead of fighting nonstop.
[clerk] Bye.
[Gabriel speaking Spanish]
[both sigh]
[dogs barking]
[Isabel speaking]
Hmm.
[Gabriel in English] Isabel is pissed.
She's upset and,
like, it is my fault, but,
seeing as how my passport says male
and my license says male,
I didn't think that I was ever gonna, you know,
really find the need for my birth certificate
but here we are today.
[speaking Spanish]
[Gabriel in English] I'm upset too, but, 10 years ago,
when I transitioned, I was just so happy and
Isabel doesn't understand that this is all I cared about.
[speaking Spanish]
Hmm. Okay.
[sighs deeply]
You're not going to be intimate
with him until you get married?
Yeah, I'm not.
[Myra] So, when is that gonna be?
[Jen] His friend said, based on astrology
there's a certain date
that Rishi should tell his family,
and it's a couple months from now.
I'm not happy at all.
-That just sounds like a BS excuse. -That's so,
[Indian music playing]
[Jen] Okay, this is mine, this black gate.
Here we are.
[Myra] Oh, my God, I'm so excited to see.
[Randi] Uh.
-[Jen] Come in. -Wow.
It's not bad, right?
-No, it's not. -This is huge.
-[Myra] It's not. -[Randi] Okay, it's like...
Wow!
My friends Myra and Randi arrived in India today,
and while I'm...
dying for them to meet Rishi,
I'd like to have some time alone with them first.
This is my room.
-[Myra] I love that you have burglar bars. -[Jen] Yes.
-[Randi] That's safe? -[Jen] Right? Yeah.
My bathroom, it's like all the bathrooms here
where you basically shower
and you also, like, shower the entire room.
Oh, my God!
-[Myra] Wow. -[Randi] This is very interesting.
[Myra] Do you scrub your butt with that?
-[Jen] Oh, yeah... oh, no. -[Myra laughs]
[Jen] But this you do wash your butt with this and your, you know,
-hoohah. Um... -[Myra chuckles]
So, it's like glamping, like...
It is kind of like glamping
-but it... with air conditioning. -[Randi] So, it's like
-forever? -[Jen] Yeah!
[Randi and Myra laughing]
Come out.
-Now... -[Myra] Nice.
So... Oh, you know what, you guys?
I wanna show you the rooftop.
-Oh! -Yeah.
Um, let me grab some drinks.
-Awesome. -[Jen] And then we'll go on up there.
[Myra] Yes, let's go.
-Ooh. -Yeah.
-[Myra] Got it? All right -That's good. Yes.
-All right, let's do this. -[Randi] Very good.
-So, this is my magnificent rooftop. -[Randi] Oh.
-Oh, very nice. -[Myra] Wow.
-[Jen] Yes. Do you like my little strings? -[Randi] I like it.
[Jen] It's very festive.
[Randi] This is my favorite part of your
-little place. -Yes?
-[Myra] I love it. -I'm so glad.
[Randi] So, when are we gonna get to meet Rishi?
[Jen] Sometime tomorrow.
-Yeah. -[Myra] I'm looking forward to it.
Does he ever stay here with you?
No, he doesn't, actually.
Like, I have not been intimate with him for...
Going on three years, I guess.
And he hasn't pushed me on it
but if he does, I mean, I'm...
I'm sticking to that.
You're not going to be intimate with him
-until you get married. That's what you're saying. -Yeah, I'm not.
-[Myra] So when is that gonna be? -[Randi] When... Yeah.
Uh, we'll see, because
he is...
basically depending on this friend of his,
who does this astrology,
which is based on a lot of different things.
But his friend said
there's a certain date that Rishi should tell his family.
And it's a couple months from now,
okay?
I'm not happy at all.
-This is just crap. -[Jen] Yeah, I...
-I agree, I agree. -That is just such...
-[Jen] I agree. -That is laughable.
-No, no. -[Myra] That's just like, you're like
-the ultimate excuse. -[Randi] Yeah.
-Aren't you [bleep] annoyed? It's really... -Oh, I'm so annoyed.
I'm so annoyed with him right now.
I think it's bull [bleep].
His mom is either gonna
-accept me or not gonna accept me. -[Myra] Exactly.
It should be now or never.
I mean, obviously there's a problem
if he's not wanting to tell her now.
-That just sounds like a BS excuse. -That's so,
-so bad. -I'm sorry.
That's, like, so bad.
And then the whole, I can't get over the sex thing,
I mean, I'm a married woman,
and men have needs, and I just can't imagine.
-I mean, if he's not getting it from you, maybe... -[Randi] Yeah.
...is he getting it somewhere else?
I'm just saying, I don't know.
-Okay. -[Randi] I mean,
Rishi was willing to meet up with me.
He sent me a... a topless photo of himself.
-So... -I know,
-I know. -And that's okay?
-No, I confronted him about it. -And what did he say?
His thing was, "I thought you were pulling my leg,"
like, "I thought you were..."
-That she was pulling his leg? -[Jen] Yeah.
I'm like, "But that doesn't make any sense
'cause, if you knew it was my friend,
why would you send that picture?" He's like,
"But it's out there on social media already.
It doesn't matter"
-Like, that's really scary. -And if you did find out that he was
cheating on you, what would you do?
I'd be done.
-[Randi] He is. -I think you have your answers.
I just...
I'm not sure if you're willing to accept that answer,
that's the issue.
I just don't... I don't know where to go from here.
Well, that's why we're here.
We'll help you figure that out.
We're not here to...
to break y'all up.
We just want you to open your eyes to what's in front of you
and... and for you to not be blinded by
him or his intentions.
-Think we're gonna get some clarity... -[Randi] Yeah.
[Myra] ...on a lot of these things.
[Randi] As soon as we meet him,
-we'll have a better idea. -I hope so.
[Jen] I really do hope so.
[Myra] I am so ready to meet Rishi.
I wanna give him a chance to explain himself.
I think Rishi's excuses are
BS. He blocked me on social media
because he knew what he was doing was wrong.
I mean, I hate to say this,
but, from personal experience,
if a man is not asking you to have sex with him,
he's asking someone else.
He's putting things off,
he's trying to think of excuses to not tell his parents.
Which is just a load of crap,
in my opinion, I'm sorry.
It just doesn't... Something doesn't feel right.
Yeah, something's off in this
and... and I think that that's the main reason that we wanted
to come over here, so that we could kind of
put a finger on it
and open her eyes to the BS.
I realize that
I do need to know for sure.
We're gonna get down to the bottom of it.
What did I get myself into?
Oussama and I have just arrived in Khemisset
and we're gonna stay with his family for a few days.
-[Debbie] Just put a bag over my head. -[Oussama] Okay.
You know, that age difference thing,
it's, like, who's in a hurry to meet Mom and Dad? Not me.
[Arabic music playing]
[Debbie] Oh, my gosh, we're here.
-[Oussama] We're here. -[Debbie] I don't feel so good.
No, no, no, Debbie, I told you,
it's okay.
Oussama and I have just arrived in Khemisset
and we're gonna stay with his family for a few days.
I'm nervous because I never met Oussama's parents before.
I wanna make a good impression.
You know, that age difference thing,
it's, like, who's in a hurry to meet Mom and Dad? Not me.
-[Debbie] What did I get myself into? -[Oussama] Follow me.
Don't worry and follow me.
-[Debbie] Just put a bag over my head. -[Oussama] Okay [laughs]
[Oussama speaking]
Okay, do or die.
[Debbie] Is it upstairs?
-[Oussama] Yep, upstairs. Yep. [laughs] -[Debbie] Upstairs.
[Asmaa speaking Arabic]
[Fatima speaking Arabic]
[Oussama speaking English]
Hey, let's go. [chuckles]
-[Debbie] Hi. -[Oussama laughs]
-[Fatima laughing] -[Debbie] Hi.
Thank you. Oh, it's good to see you.
-[Asmaa] Hello. -[Debbie] I'm happy to be here,
but I'm nervous.
God bless you.
-Thank you for letting me into your home. -[Mohammed] Sit down
Nice to meet you, sir.
[Debbie] They're smiling,
they look normal, they look kind,
and I feel like an honored guest
and I'm... I'm really rather surprised,
to be honest with you.
-Oh, Oussama, we made it. It's like... -[Oussama] Yeah.
I was very nervous, very nervous.
-[Debbie] Thank you. -Yeah, we are so ner... ner...
-a little bit nervous too. -Yeah.
[Debbie] Wow, it's beautiful. You pour...
-[Asmaa] It's Moroccan tea. -[Debbie] Wow.
Look at that.
Special.
Wow, your dad's cool.
[chuckles] I told you.
-[Debbie] You learned from your daddy. Always... -[Oussama] Yeah.
-[Debbie] Always act like Daddy. Good man, okay? -[Oussama] Yeah.
Okay?
[all laughing]
Thank you. Bravo.
I feel like I just saw a show.
[Debbie and Oussama laugh]
Thank you so much.
Thank you.
-At home, yes. -[Debbie] Oh, it's very beautiful.
-Very beautiful home. -[Oussama] Yeah.
I appreciate you two welcoming me
-into your home. -You're welcome, Debbie.
-You're welcome. -[Debbie] Yeah.
Oussama always talks of how wonderful and he loves
his mother and father and sister so much.
That's what I find attractive about Oussama
is he's a family man,
and I wanted to reassure
Mom and Dad
that my intent is good.
[Oussama speaking Arabic]
[Oussama chuckles]
[Debbie, in English] You must think your son is unusual, huh?
[Oussama in Arabic]
Ah.
[in English] You know, it was really, really hard for me to accept
the age difference between Oussama and myself,
but because of his heart and, you know, his words were beautiful.
We have an unusual relationship,
but it's connected in art and honesty
and good intention.
[Oussama speaking Arabic]
[Debbie, in English] How did they feel about the age difference?
Did they feel bad, like me, at first, about it? And...
[Oussama, in Arabic]
[Oussama, in English]
Well, thank you, sir.
[speaking Arabic]
[Debbie in English] I... I... I... I'm curious.
I never asked Oussama,
but I like to know how old Mom and Dad is.
[Oussama in Arabic]
[Mohammed in English]
-Sixty-eight. -You're 68?
-Sixty-eight, yeah. -You look younger than that.
[Oussama] Yeah. [laughs]
-[Debbie] He looks good. -[Oussama] Yes.
[Mohammed in Arabic]
-[Oussama in English] Yes, always because he's bald. -Sixty-eight.
I'm glad Dad is ol... A little bit older than me.
[all laughing]
[Debbie] Makes me feel so good.
-[Asmaa] He's older, right? -[Debbie] Yeah.
I kept thinking, "Maybe I'm older than Dad is."
[Oussama in Arabic]
[Debbie in English] Yeah, you the old man now.
[all laughing]
A part of me is giving a big sigh of relief,
when the said they accept the age difference.
Even though there's been a few bumps
in the road since I arrived here.
After meeting Oussama's family,
my dream of marrying Oussama
is starting to become more of a reality,
and I'm starting to feel like,
"Okay, we're headed in the right direction now."
But I still gotta break the news to them
that I'm moving to Morocco for good.
Quite the first impression I'm making.
I'm just glad to be here
and I'm still alive.
I was so nervous,
-you can understand. -[Asmaa] Yeah, yeah.
It's normal in a strange way.
[all laughing]
[speaking Spanish]
[Gabriel in English] Today, I'm leaving to go back to Florida.
[speaking Spanish]
[Latin American music playing]
[Isabel in Spanish]
[Gabriel in English] Today, I'm leaving to go back to Florida.
And I'm feeling defeated because
we met with a lawyer and I found out that
I needed to get an amended birth certificate,
so me and Isabel could get married.
[speaking Spanish]
[Isabel speaking]
[Gabriel in English] I haven't told my mom or sister about the engagement yet
because they have doubts and I really
don't wanna deal with any drama.
[speaking Spanish]
[Isabel sighs deeply]
[Isabel speaking]
[Gabriel in English] I don't know if this process is gonna
days or weeks
but also I'm so scared that they won't let me
back in the country because I have so few days left on my visa
and it looks very suspicious
coming back and forth into the country so many times.
[speaking Spanish]
Okay.
Si.
Okay.
[speaking Spanish]
[both speaking Spanish]
[sniffles]
-[Isabel] Bye. -Mmm.
[laughs]
[blows kiss]
[Isabel speaking]
[laughs]
[blows kiss]
[Rishi] Hi.
[Myra] We don't really have the best...
-Impression of him. -...impression of what he's gonna be like.
I led you to believe that I was in London,
and coming to India.
You were being kind of flirtatious.
And the real question is,
why did you send me a photo of you with no shirt on?
[Indian music playing]
So, where are we going?
Actually, yes. Rishi said it was nice.
But I have not been there before.
I'm excited. This should be fun.
[Jen] I'm nervous.
-Like, I really want you guys to like Rishi. -[horn honking]
And I really want Rishi to like you guys.
I mean, that's obvious. He's gonna like you. No doubt.
-Oh, you never know... [laughs] -Oh.
Well, I think, he liked me briefly
-on social media. -[laughs]
[Jen] Today I'm taking Myra and Randi to meet Rishi.
Since I've been back,
I've confronted him. We've talked about things.
I do love him
and we could have a really good thing.
But something isn't feeling right about his excuses
for his social media messages
and him wanting to wait even longer to tell his family about us.
I want to know what your actual reaction and your feeling is.
Like, I'm hoping that you're gonna get a good vibe.
[Myra] We're about to meet Rishi.
All we know of him is what we've seen on social media.
-Which hasn't been great. -I know.
And so we don't really have the best...
-Impression of him. -...impression of what he's gonna be like.
[Randi] I'm asking Rishi out the gate why he blocked me.
Because I don't wanna waste anyone's time.
I don't wanna waste my time.
I don't wanna waste any more of Jen's time.
I wanna know if this guy
is the real deal or if he's a faker.
[Myra] Whoa.
-Cool. -[Randi] It's so beautiful.
[Jen] Yeah. So nice.
[Rishi] I'm little nervous to meet Jen's friends
because I just want to make a good impression on them.
Yo.
Hi. How's you?
-Thank you. -[kisses]
-Hi. Hi, Myra. How's you? -Hi. How are you?
-Nice to meet you. -[laughs]
-Hi! -Hi, how are you?
[both laugh]
-Good to see you. -[Rishi] Nice to see you.
[all laugh]
-[Myra] Where are we sitting? -Yeah. Here.
-Oh, okay. -[Jen] Oh, nice
Thank you. I love it.
-It's so nice. -Wow.
[Jen] Thank you.
-[Myra] Oh, my goodness. -[Randi] Oh, thank you so much.
Okay.
Do you wanna order for us?
Would you guys be okay with that?
-[Myra] Sure. -[Randi] Yeah.
Like, maybe, like a variety?
[Rishi] Yeah, yeah, yeah. Uh-huh.
[in Hindi]
[both speaking Hindi]
He said, "One platter.
"Non-vegetarian."
Yes.
-[sighs] -So...
[in English] How's your journey, basically?
-It was good. It was good. -It was good.
-It's jut been a long journey. But it's okay. -Yeah.
-[Myra] We made it. We're here. -Yeah.
-[Randi] Yeah. -Yeah.
Well, I'm surprised, like, I'm, uh,
first time, like, I'm meeting you in person.
In person.
Um, yeah, I guess so.
Basically...
I led you to believe that I was in London
and coming to India.
And then you were being kind of flirtatious.
And I guess, the real question is,
why did you send me a photo of you with no shirt on?
But you sent it to me.
It felt, to me, I felt that that was inappropriate.
You agreed to meet up with me.
[Rishi speaking]
And, uh...
Okay.
-[Randi] Okay. -Yeah.
But you didn't call me. You just blocked me.
-Uh-huh. -You didn't say, "Oh! L-O-L.
-This was just, you know, joke's on me." -Mmm-hmm.
-So, like, why did you block me? -[Rishi] Okay.
-I didn't... Yeah. -And you deleted all of our chat history,
which is a little shady.
So you're block list is when you feel something's inappropriate?
-Yeah. Yeah. -[Myra] Or not going the right way?
-Okay. -But do you message other girls?
-[Rishi] No. -Okay.
But I get the messages from the girls.
You do get a lot of females messaging you?
Yeah. Still in the request.
-"Still in the request"? -[Rishi laughs]
Yeah. Let me show you. I've...
It's all in request.
So male and female.
[Jen] "You have such a unique and sexy look.
-"I'm in London A-T-M." At the moment. -[laughs]
-Oh. Who is that? -Interesting.
-But did you respond to that person? -No. I blocked them.
[Myra] Well, if he had something to hide
-he wouldn't have shown you that. -That's true.
Yeah.
[Jen] Even though his explanations
are still not totally adding up for me,
I'm feeling better about
the fact that he has a block list
and he's showing us these messages
and being open about things.
Thank you.
[Jen] Even my friends are seeming to warm up to him
So, I don't know, maybe
things are just getting lost in translation.
[Randi] So, I guess, what I wanna say is,
what are you intentions... with Jen?
I'd like to introduce her as my fiancee
at my home, basically.
-And, and... -So what do you think your family's gonna say?
Do you think they would accept her?
They are okay in the first conversation
when she was at my home.
-He didn't know about it, supposedly. -So...
Are your parents actively trying to find you a wife,
here right now?
-Not now. -[Randi] "Not now"?
When was the last time, your family tried to... set you up?
[Rishi speaking]
And once they asked me. I just rejected...
Why did you not...
-You weren't curious to meet her? -No.
-[Randi] Why... -So they did find somebody?
No. Means they find someone,
but I just said no
-and I just walk away. -When was this?
It was when, uh, before you reach here.
[Jen] When I met them,
I said, "How long have you been looking?"
And they said, "For the past two years."
[Rishi] They wanted to show me different girls' picture,
but always I was like,
-"I don't want to see." -So more, they found more than one?
-I'm saying... No... -[Jen] How many did they find?
I'm so confused now.
That's not the point.
[Rishi speaking]
[Jen] How many did they present to you, roughly?
[Rishi] Two or three at once.
-Two or three? -Uh-huh.
-In a one go. -And yet, you didn't know they were looking for you.
Do you see how that's a total lie?
I mean, I'm sorry.
Am I confused here?
Mmm, he's [chewing] shady.
[Rishi speaking]
[Jen] I'm so...
I'm sorry.
-You okay? -Yeah, I'm fine. I'll be right back.
Okay.
-[Rishi] You like the food? -Yeah.
Spicy?
-It's really good. -It's great.
I'm so frustrated. I'm like...
He originally said he didn't know
that his family has been looking for a bride for him
until recently.
Hello! You just found out they're looking for you,
yet you rejected a variety of options
for the last two years? Like...
I really don't understand Rishi's timeline of events.
But it's clear to me that he's known about this the whole time.
We can't go forward to a future,
if he, if I find out he's lying about everything in the past.
To me, it sounds like just...
So many lies. I feel like I'm just now figuring out
that he is just,
I don't know, some kind of pathological liar.
And I'm questioning my judgment.
I'm questioning everything.
[all singing "Happy Birthday"]
I've invited every member of his family
to come to dinner along with us.
[in Spanish]
[laughs]
[Daniele] Excuse me.
[dramatic music playing]
[Caribbean music playing]
[Yohan in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Ow!
[in English] For this birthday, Yohan thinks
that he and I are going to dinner on the beach,
but, actually, I've invited every member of his family
to come to dinner along with us.
There'll be dancing. There'll be a bonfire.
There'll be cake. [laughs]
There'll be candles. It'll be a lot of fun.
[Daniele in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Mount Everest.
[laughs]
[Daniele in English] Yohan told me yesterday
that he thinks that my relationship with my ex, Taylan
is more important than my relationship with him.
I'm hoping that once he sees
how much I'm willing to do to celebrate him
that he understands that he is my first priority.
And there's nothing that comes before him.
[in Spanish]
[Daniele laughs]
[all singing "Happy Birthday"]
[all cheering, applaud]
[all laughing]
[Daniele speaking]
[woman speaking]
[laughing]
[upbeat song playing]
[Daniele speaking]
[Yohan speaking]
[glass clinking]
[people laughing]
[all clapping]
[Guillermo speaking]
[Yohan speaking]
[woman speaking]
[laughs]
[in English] Excuse me.
[dramatic music playing]
Yohan is a man of few words,
but the fact that he's willing to completely ignore
that I exist,
in front of his entire family in public
is really humiliating.
[in Spanish]
[waves crashing]
[in English] Am I allowed to speak?
[Yohan speaking]
[crying]
[in English] And now...
[in Spanish]
[Daniele speaking]
[Daniele in English] I feel like I've made a lot of choices
to make Yohan's life better.
And he doesn't appreciate them,
and he is very, "It's either my way or the highway."
And he's very ungrateful.
And it's like I'm realizing that I've had this relationship before,
and it always ends badly.
And so, I need to go home
and figure out what I wanna do with my life.
Because I'm not gonna live like this.
It's not worth it for me.
[all singing in Spanish]
[Yohan cheering]
[all cheering]
[Gabe speaking]
90 Day Fiance: The Other Way...
[Nicole] I've been struggling to tell you,
I'm ready to leave Egypt.
I think so.
I can't keep doing this.
I can't give everything I have.
You're a sugar mama. It's really disturbing.
[Kris] I am seeing Jeymi in a different light.
She is not putting forth any effort to even attempt to help with anything.
[in Spanish]
He doesn't want to tell his family
for another two months
about us being engaged.
Maybe we could tell his family.
It would be a huge relief.
[Jen] I want to know now.
Is it a go or is it a hard pass?
I wanna talk about serious things
and you act like, "Oh, you're crazy.
You're mentally ill."