[woman] Previously, on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way...
Okay, do or die.
I'm nervous because I never met Oussama's parents before.
Hi.
- Nice to meet you, sir. - Sit down, sit down.
You know, that age difference thing,
it's like, "Who's in a hurry to meet Mom and Dad? Not me."
I'd like to know how old Mom and Dad is?
I'm glad Dad is, oh, a little bit older than me.
[all laugh]
[in Spanish]
[in English] Today, I'm leaving to go back to Florida.
[in Spanish]
[sighs]
[Mahmoud in English]
You think the boobs are there just to turn guys on?
[Nouran] If I was Nicole...
I would leave.
Are your parents actively trying to find you a wife?
They are looking, but I... Did I give the consent?
[Jen] How many did they present to you, roughly?
[Rishi] Two or three at once.
- Two or three? - Uh-huh. In a one--
And yet, you didn't know they were looking for you?
Do you see how that's a total lie?
Hmm, he's shady.
[in Spanish]
[Daniele in English] Yohan thinks that my relationship with my ex, Taylan,
is more important than my relationship with him.
[in Spanish]
[Yohan speaking]
[Jeymi in English]
I'm working to send you money.
[Jeymi speaking]
[sniffles]
[Arabic music playing]
[cat purring]
[Debbie] After spending one night at Oussama's family's home,
today when I woke up,
I felt I aged 10 years and I look like I aged 10 years.
You know, it's very primitive here.
The bathroom downstairs, yes, it... it has a regular toilet,
but they put upholstery on the toilet seat.
It's like, "No, no, no, no, no, no.
I can't have that."
I've been in third world countries before,
and, you know, was able to make do.
I'm good at making do, but this is making don't, honey.
The shower is like a hole in the ground
with a whole garden hose, it's like...
It took an act of God for me to get ready.
There's no railings on the stairs, I don't know why everyone's
not walking around with a neck brace
from falling down the damn stairs.
This ain't my nest, I'm telling you that right now.
I got to shake Oussama somehow,
bribe him, do whatever it takes,
but get me the hell out of Khemisset.
[Oussama] Morning!
- [Debbie] Hey, Oussama. - Did you sleep well last night?
Oh, I think I just crashed.
- I shut down hard. - [Oussama] Yep. [chuckles]
- [Debbie] But, uh, what I wanted to do-- - Yeah? What?
- You know, your family's been extra special to me. - [Oussama] Thank you.
- [Debbie] And I've got special gifts for everyone. - Really?
Okay.
[Oussama] Okay? We'll go now?
Let's go.
[Debbie] Hi, Dad.
- Good to see you. - [Oussama chuckles]
- [Oussama] Hi. - [Debbie chuckles]
[Mohammed] Good morning.
[Debbie] I wanted to express my appreciation
for having me here, so I got you a little something.
[in Arabic]
[mutters]
- [in English] This is for you. - [Mohammed in Arabic.]
[in English]
- [Debbie] This is for you, something special. - Yes, thank you very much.
- [chuckles] - [Debbie] You're welcome.
[in Arabic]
- [Mohammed speaking] - [in English] Ah. [chuckles]
[Mohammed in Arabic]
[in English]
Ah. [chuckles]
- He's happy now. - Pencil.
- Yes, yes. - [Mohammed chuckles]
[Mohammed] Ah.
- [Debbie] You're welcome. - [Oussama] He said, "Thank you."
I like... I like that. [chuckles]
- [Oussama] Yeah, he like the gift. - [Debbie] Good.
- Good, good, good. - [Mohammed in Arabic]
[Oussama in English]
[Debbie] This is good.
And you're gonna paint me one special one for me.
I would appreciate it very much.
[in Arabic]
- Insha Allah. - [Oussama chuckles]
- [in English] Oh, Asmaa, good to see you. - [Asmaa exclaims]
- What's up? - [Asmaa speaks indistinctly]
[Debbie and Asmaa chuckle]
You're my little princess.
- You're so beautiful. - [Asmaa speaks indistinctly]
[Oussama speaking]
Pour the tea first because...
Oh, somebody else can be elegant
- pouring the tea, too. - [Asmaa] Oh, yeah.
- [Debbie] I'm impressed. - [Oussama] Thanks, Father.
- [Mohammed chuckles] - [Debbie] I haven't seen this before.
It's kind of like bartending skills,
except with tea.
[Mohammed clears throat]
[in Arabic]
[Oussama and Mohammed chuckle]
[in English]
Well, I wanted to explain clearly
so everyone's on the same page,
everyone knows I am moving here permanently.
I brought all my things in suitcases to live here forever, you know?
This is neither the time nor place to argue with Oussama...
but it's obvious to me that his family were under the assumption
that I was gonna take Oussama to the States and get him a visa.
And that's not the reality of the situation.
Well, I'm here to stay here with Oussama, you know, in Rabat.
- I didn't know if this guy... - [slight chuckles]
- ...mmm, mmm, explained it well to you... - [Oussama chuckles]
...about what's going on with us.
Forever.
I don't plan on living here.
I plan on living in Rabat, and coming here
- for, you know, a weekend here and there. - Hmm.
I mean, are you okay with this? [in Arabic]
[in English] I am surprised that Debbie and Oussama
decided to live here in Morocco.
[in Arabic]
[in English] Okay.
I'm getting big-time mixed signals.
I can tell by their facial expressions
that they're shocked that I'm moving here.
It's like, what kind of song and dance did Oussama tell them?
I just want you to know that it was a very, very big decision
to drop everything in the USA, and just start a new life here.
Things are contradicting each other again and again. When I arrived in Morocco,
he said he wanted me to go home after one or two months.
And now they're saying, oh, I'm taking their son to the United States, too.
Oussama isn't going to the United States, and that wasn't our plan,
and now, all of a sudden, everything is going ass-backwards.
- We still have a lot of talking to do... - Yeah.
[Debbie] ...as far as our plans go.
Because I don't like secrets, you know?
[Jen] I'm not trying to, like, run away from the situation.
It is what it is, but I'm so frustrated that I'm getting...
messed up answers.
When they knew, when he supposedly found out
that they were looking, and he didn't know,
it... To me, it sounds like blatant lying.
This confusion about how many women
and when his family's tried to match him with is infuriating.
[Rishi speaking]
- Mmm-hmm-- - And you told them, "No, stop looking"?
Yeah.
[Myra] But if they knew about her being your fiancee,
they wouldn't have any...
more suggestions for you.
[Rishi] But the thing is, I'm not, uh, hiding something.
[Myra] I just think it's... it's complicated, you know.
[Rishi speaking]
I think one of us should go check on Jen.
I'm surprised that you haven't, but I'll do it.
- It's like, why does he feel the need to keep lying? - [Randi] Exactly.
His story keeps changing.
You're not crazy.
You know what, I came back here to do what I wanted to do,
which was to try to get the truth out of him,
and obviously, it's not coming out.
I'm done with this.
I don't wanna ask him any more questions
because I'm... I can't talk in circles anymore.
So, why don't we go somewhere and chill out?
Don't make any harsh decisions yet.
But, come on, like, this is exactly what you guys
- thought was gonna happen. - [Randi] I know.
I don't think he's able to be direct.
- You okay? - [Randi and Jen] Hey.
[Jen] Uh, I was just telling Randi I want a [bleep] diagram,
and with a timeline, and how many women they've been looking for him,
and when exactly he knew, and when he told what to me or to them.
I want, like, the full [bleep] story.
Only then am I gonna be, like, satisfied. Otherwise...
And he acts like he's getting frustrated that...
It's like, "No! And why are you frustrated,
dude, like..."
But, uh...
[Myra] Let's take a deep breath.
You're just getting a little overwhelmed and ahead of yourself.
You've traveled half way around the world
for this guy that you love.
And so, we need to get back on track,
get some answers, and figure this stuff out.
If not today, maybe tomorrow.
[Randi] Yes.
I support and understand where Jen is coming from 100%.
I don't fully trust Rishi, but our role as Jen's besties...
we're just gonna make sure that she's happy, and encourage her
to get the answers that she needs.
- [Myra] It's gonna be okay. - Okay.
[Myra] It's gonna be okay.
Gonna be okay.
- [Jen sighs] - Oh. Well, it's gonna be okay.
So, how are things with Isabel?
Um...
Don't do that with your eyes.
I haven't told them about the wedding yet
because I'm worried about their reactions.
But I just gotta get it over with already.
I'm not really sure how much longer I can actually...
[Nicole] I rely on Mahmoud and his family for everything.
I just feel just like kind of helpless.
[upbeat music playing]
I'm excited to see him.
- [Monica] Hey, Gabe. - What's up, Monica?
- Glad you made it. - [Gabriel] Well, thanks.
I see you guys started without me. Nice.
Yeah, just a little bit. We were kind of thirsty.
The mimosas are good.
I've been in Florida for about two weeks
getting the documents that I need so I can marry Isabel.
It has been a big pain in the ass
trying to change my birth certificate from female to male,
and it's gonna take over a month to finish everything.
Good. Um, can I get a mimosa also?
- [waiter] Yes, you can. - Thank you.
I kept things really vague
with my mom and my sister why I'm back home.
I haven't told them about the wedding yet
because I'm worried about their reactions.
So, how are things with Isabel?
Um, we're doing good.
That's good to hear because I... I assumed since you were back so soon,
things weren't going so well.
Regardless, I want you here, so I was like, "Oh, he's back? Great, I'll take it."
I know Monica, in particular, is gonna have some negative comments
about me wanting to marry Isabel.
And this is why I waited so long to tell them,
but I just gotta get it over with already.
So, what had happened was, is I... I had fix my birth certificate
- because it still said female. Everything is fine. - For what?
Well, um...
because...
Don't do that with your eyes.
So basically...
I'm gonna get married.
You're getting married?
Yes.
[Gabriel] Well, sorry, guys.
- [Marie] Did you propose? - Yes.
Wow, [bleep], you didn't even tell us.
Yeah, you didn't tell us.
[Monica] Did you give her a ring?
- [Gabriel] Yes. - Okay.
Are you serious?
[chuckles] Yeah.
I...
- Well, congratulations. - Yeah.
Thanks.
[Monica] It kind of hurt.
Like, I'm gonna get emotional. It kind of hurts.
Because, from my point of view, me and Gabe are best friends,
and the fact that Gabe is hiding his proposal from me
makes me feel as though he doesn't value our relationship.
And so, it hurts because obviously I love him so much,
and I want to be there for him and I wanna be a part of it.
[Marie] I would think that you getting engaged
would be a really important thing
that you would wanna tell us.
And we're both super excited about it. We're happy for you.
I do feel bad that I was, like, hiding this from you,
but I was worried because...
I didn't want you guys to think that, "Oh, here goes Gabe
doing something crazy again."
- [Gabriel] I know, I know, I know. - Whatever.
- Whatever, so what? We love you. - Yeah, we still love you.
- [Gabriel] It's like-- - [Marie] I mean...
it's always been me, you and Monica.
- I know, but-- Okay, but-- - All together. You know,
- this is our family. - Even you, when you have--
- [Marie] Let us know. - When you have internal problems
you don't tell us, you keep it to yourself.
- So I get that from you. - [Monica] What?
[Marie] My son's marrying a woman
that I've never met before, so I do have worries and concerns.
Because I wanna make sure
if I'm losing my son to her, that she is the right person.
- [Gabriel] Are you excited? - Do you have a date planned?
[Gabriel] Yeah, I think it's gonna be, like, next month.
We actually set a wedding date.
So while I've been here, Isabel's been planning the wedding,
getting caterers, the location.
So, the moment I get to Colombia,
everything for the wedding will be ready.
[Monica] Am I gonna be in it?
Am I gonna be your best man, best woman? Like--
- Do you wanna be my best man or woman? - Like-- Yes!
- I do. - [Gabriel] Okay, yeah.
Uh, there's no template for this wedding
because I don't even know how weddings go in Colombia.
- Is it the same as here? I have no idea. - [Monica] I don't know.
- Is she helping you plan it? - [Gabriel] Yes. She's been looking
at the venues, and whatnot, so...
- Wow. - [Gabriel] Sending pictures.
I feel like I kind of disappointed them, so I kind of feel bad.
Because it's always been us three,
and I want them to be a part of my life all the time,
and I feel like I kind of excluded them from that.
[Marie] Do her parents know that you're transgender?
Her parents know now.
So, how did they respond to it?
They actually responded pretty well.
- I'm happy about that... - I'm very happy
- about that, too. - ...because I was very concerned.
- Yeah. - That was my main concern also
because I want them to know...
the real you, the true you, how special you really are.
[Gabriel] How do you feel?
I'm happy for you if you have genuinely found someone that you love,
and that's there for you.
- She will defend me to the end of the Earth... - [Monica] Cool.
- ...yeah. - [Marie] Good.
- [Gabriel] Nobody talks to her in a rude or disrespectful-- - Good.
- People are afraid of her, they-- - They know, they know.
- [laughs] - Okay, I'm... Now I'm scared to meet her
because... And it's like, uh,
- I hope... I hope we get along. - Yeah, no, she--
She... No. That is my biggest fear, honestly.
'Cause... [sighs]
maybe your personality and her personality
is gonna be, like, one and the same.
You're very aggressive sometimes.
Uh, you know the overprotective little sister.
Also, like, I don't know her and I know that, like,
you've dated people before who have taken advantage of you.
Me knowing that Isabel is a little bit more tough and resilient
makes me feel good because I know that he has someone in his corner.
But, like, my main concerns with him getting married
are I still want him to have his financial freedom in case this doesn't work out.
No, because remember? She got a kid to take care of, too.
- I'm not... - [Monica] Okay.
Okay?
[Marie] But she's also helping you
- with your business, too? - Exactly.
Oh. Well, actually, that's interesting
because I don't know if there's any type of, like,
Colombian prenup,
but are you doing that or...
Just in case.
Just in case it doesn't work out.
But I feel like once you get a prenup,
then it's like, I feel like,
it's setting it up for failure.
Yeah, but it's more like an insurance policy.
It's a protection plan.
Honestly, I don't want to have that conversation.
But, maybe, you should think twice, just in case.
[Marie] Because you've worked really hard
for your business for many, many years, you know.
To bring it to where it is right now.
What if she gets bored?
What if she finds someone else?
What if she wants more kids?
You know, I mean, you have to think about that.
- So it's a risk. - Yeah, I know, but...
But...
I feel like there's no nice way to say this,
but I'm just going to say it. Like...
- I feel like you're the hardest part-- - Geez.
How critical are you with everybody I dated?
- How? - And, Gabe, how did those
relationships end up?
[Gabriel] I'm getting frustrated because
Monica tends to overanalyze everything,
and tries to find things wrong with the women that I'm with.
In the past, my sister has affected my relationships.
So I'm scared she's going to cause problems
for me and Isabel when she gets to Colombia.
I'm critical but I'm accurate.
I can never do this.
There.
[Mahmoud speaking]
I'm just making some tea.
Yeah.
That sounds fun.
[Mahmoud speaking]
[knock on door]
[Mahmoud in Arabic]
[speaking in Arabic]
[all in English] Bye.
[Fatima in English]
No.
- By myself? - Yeah?
With just me and a friend, yeah.
- Just, this is the first time. - Okay, okay.
With Nouran, I saw that I could actually
have a life in Egypt
in a way that I could be happy.
[Nicole] But then, at the same time,
with Mahmoud,
[sighs] I thought she was a little aggressive,
and he said she attacked him.
She did.
I don't know if it's worth the drama
that would ensue if I were to
hang out with her and become her friend.
[horn blaring]
[people clamoring]
So many people...
So many people out tonight.
- Oh, chicken? - Yes.
[Nicole] Okay.
- This one? - [Fatima speaking]
- [Nicole] Baladi? - Yes, baladi, you know, it's a...
- Home chicken? - Yes.
[speaking in Arabic]
- [speaking in English] - Oh.
Too high, too high?
- Yeah, for us. - Oh.
Okay, okay. [continues in Arabic]
[in English] Let's go.
[Fatima] Yes.
[Nicole] In LA, I go to the farmers' market,
but I don't know if I've ever seen, like, live chickens.
Is it a cr-- Can you have something like that
at the farmers' market in the US?
It was really, like, shocking to me.
[chuckles]
[Nicole] It's like really intense.
Like, overstimulating and the Egypt...
Yes.
- [exhales] It's not relaxing. - It's not relaxing.
There's just mix of people and cars and animals and...
it's really chaotic.
[people talking loudly]
Oh, it's so stressful.
Like freaking cars everywhere. [chuckles]
[Fatima] Okay, come here.
[Nicole] Okay.
[Fatima speaking]
- [Nicole] Oh, okay. - [Fatima speaking]
Small?
Not this one? [chuckles] Okay.
Just so weird. I have to, like, be, [chuckles]
kind of, like, trained
how to go grocery shopping.
But it's true. I do.
I don't know how to get a good deal or anything,
or speak Arabic.
- [Nicole] Not fresh? So let's go. - Yes.
- [Fatima in Arabic] - [Nicole] Okay.
[Nicole] In my life in LA,
I'm, like, an independent,
fairly self-sufficient person.
And then, coming to Egypt,
I rely on Mahmoud and his family for everything.
Yeah?
[Nicole] It's like some of my self-worth
is tied into being independent,
and so, now that, like, that's gone
from me, I just feel, just like, kind of helpless
and I feel just like kind of gross
and like, worthless a little bit.
[Fatima speaking]
Oh, that's a good deal.
- Too high. [chuckles] - Yes.
All right.
[Nicole] We got a big bag of vegetables.
Fatima has adjusted to life in Egypt
with grace and with ease.
She speaks fluent Arabic.
She goes out shopping.
And I really admire her for that,
but I'm not sure why my transition
has been so difficult.
Or why it's so much harder for me.
[Nicole] Okay.
[Nicole] I can't help but worry
that, maybe, I won't ever feel at home in this country.
- [in Arabic] - [Fatima sighs]
- [in English] Glad to be off that crazy street. - Yeah.
How long was it before you could
go shopping by yourself?
Do you miss China?
Yes.
I understand.
It's, sort of, really, really hard for me to live here.
- [indistinct] - Yeah.
But I...
I can't.
Do you want... Do you want to use a Translate?
- Yes. - Here you go.
- [beeps] - [speaking Mandarin]
[translator in English] Like what aspects?
Trying to do simple things
like even go shopping,
is really, really hard.
[translator in Mandarin]
- [in English] - [phone beeps]
I'm not really sure
how much longer I can actually
stay here in Egypt.
Stay in Egypt?
I want to want to live here. I do.
I keep trying.
But, I just... I can't.
I don't know. It's just not my place.
I want to live in America.
[translator in Mandarin]
Mahmoud should come with me.
[Nicole] Before I left to move to Egypt,
I re-applied for Mahmoud's spousal visa.
To have the option so that Mahmoud can come to the US.
And, also, my back-up plan,
in case moving to Egypt didn't work out.
Mahmoud agreed but I don't know.
It feels like he doesn't really want to
go to America and live.
Of course, we don't know exactly when
the visa will be approved
or when he'll have his interview or anything.
But I hope that it will be soon.
It's hard for me. It's going to be hard for him.
It's not an easy thing to do.
- Oh, I'm sure. - You sure?
I'm sure, yeah.
But I think that it will be
a good opportunity for him.
And if he doesn't like it,
then we'll have to do something else. Right?
[speaking in Arabic]
[phone beeps]
[speaking in Mandarin]
[translator in English] I suggest you talk to him.
Oh, I will. For sure.
- For sure? - Mm-hmm.
Even though we've applied for this spousal visa,
we haven't really spoken much to each other about it.
I'm just worried that he's going to react poorly,
and not want to go to America and live.
But I feel like,
it really is the only way that
we can be together moving forward.
Because I can't stay in Egypt.
The last time I had sent her $1,000,
she was mad because
it wasn't enough.
I feel unappreciated,
unloved.
You're a sugar mama.
It's really disturbing.
I know.
He doesn't want to tell his family
for another two months.
Maybe we could tell his family.
And if they don't accept you,
and he is willing to not accept you because of them,
then that will be very telling
on the man that you're in love with.
I just... [sighs]
[Kris] Hey, Mom.
How was work?
Ah, it was pretty good.
Typical Monday. [chuckles]
Mondays are always rough.
Yup.
[exhales]
Everything's crashing and burning.
I laugh to keep from crying.
Crashing and Burning in Bogota.
That sounds like a good title.
[Kris] Since my videocall with Jeymi,
things have not gotten any better.
I just don't know about this
marriage between two drama queens.
I couldn't agree with you more.
[Kris] We haven't been talking, hardly at all
and she is still angry that I haven't come back.
But I still have to work.
I have to pay the bills,
because she's not got a job, yet.
You know, people who are newly married,
they usually don't want to be
away from each other so long.
I want to be there.
But I want to be able to pay the bills,
and she won't be realistic
to the financial aspect of it.
As your mama,
I'm very doubtful about some things, you know.
Because she was working before.
And when she got the more expensive apartment,
she said that she would go to work,
so that you could pay for that.
But then, Jeymi hasn't worked
- since she got married, has she? - Exactly. [sighs]
So that means, me working more.
But this is not enough.
The last time I had sent her $1,000,
she was mad because
it wasn't enough to pay all the bills,
and pay for her gym membership.
So she was going to sell
my necklace that has my locket
with my dad's ashes in it.
[Kris] I want you to keep this.
You know how important this is to me.
That way you know I'm coming back.
[giggles softly]
When she said that, I told her,
"I can't keep doing this."
- I can't, you know-- - It seems to me
right now, you have a kept woman.
You're her sugar mama.
It's really disturbing.
You know? Because this could go on forever.
I know.
[Kris' mother] I've had a fear since day one
that Jeymi was going to be just a user.
I feel like she did not have a real good life before Kris
and she wants the stability
that she so desires.
And doesn't realize that
she has to be a participant in that.
Every time she's mad,
she says that I don't love her.
I'm not there for her.
That she wants me there for her.
To me, she's panicking because you've been here so long.
You know, she needs to understand
that for you not to go down there,
get your stuff, get back on the plane and leave,
she's going to have to do something.
To show that she really means it.
And if she doesn't even try,
then you're going to know.
Right now, I am seeing Jeymi in a different light.
I am seeing that
she's not going to help
at all.
She's not putting forth any effort to even
attempt to help with anything.
For our relationship to survive, at all,
Jeymi is going to have to put forth some effort.
Actions speak louder than words.
There better be some actions.
I love her
and I want it to work,
but she won't give,
a little... She won't give at all.
Mmm. That's tough.
♪ I wanna feel this way forever ♪
♪ Give me, I wanna dance together ♪
[Jen] Arrival. We're here.
- [Myra] We're here, my God! - Yes.
[Randi] Everywhere we've gone, it's so pretty.
[Jen] Yey! I'm so glad you're seeing the beauty of India.
[Randi] Oh, nice.
I want to take some time
with my friends away from Rishi.
So they can appreciate India.
I want them to actually enjoy themselves,
rather than just dealing with
my tumultuous relationship.
So I'm taking my friends
to a traditional Indian dance class.
Oh, wow!
[Myra] This is so cool!
It's different from the type of class
you might expect in the US because
they don't actually give you steps to follow.
It's not like, "Okay! And a one and a two!"
It's more like, they take your hands
and start spinning you around.
And there's, like, a live band.
[men singing]
It's very bold and lots of color and life.
It's very India.
Oh, my...
Oh, pick it up with their teeth.
[all cheering]
[Jen] I've never seen this dance move
with the picking up money with their teeth,
except for, pretty much
every strip club I've ever been to
in the United States, so...
Not what I was expecting.
[Myra] You have to do it, Jen.
- Let's go. - All right.
[Randi laughs]
[all laughing]
[both] Oh!
It's so great to see Jen smiling right now.
[Myra] I think she was so upset
since lunch with Rishi went south.
[Randi] So, it's awesome to see her just let lose
and just get down on that floor
and grab that dollar bill.
No worries.
[all three] Thank you.
[Jen] Thank you so much.
Baskets on their heads, like...
Yeah. That's a true art form.
It's amazing.
It seems like challenging.
- Yet, they make it look easy. - I know.
[Myra] Ooh, they are bringing our tea!
Thank you.
Yes.
[Myra] So, have you heard from Rishi?
Yeah, he is leaving me messages
and texting me.
And he is all about wanting to talk
and visit with his family.
All of us.
[Jen] Yesterday at the restaurant,
I wasn't understanding
Rishi's timeline of events
regarding his family arranging a marriage.
All of it was so confusing.
It just makes me think so much
has been lost in translation.
Either that or he's lying about everything.
What did you guys think?
I think he was trying to
explain without giving you the right words.
He just couldn't get his point across to you.
And when you walk away,
he didn't really know what he was
saying that was so wrong.
I think you're right
and I want to give him the benefit of the doubt
because, you know, he's already made it clear
that we are all welcome in his house,
to ask questions.
So, I think, we should
set up a time, to go in there.
Meet with his family.
I'll have a list prepared.
I think it might be a good idea
to have a translator there.
So, everybody will get clarity.
I need that.
- So you won't miss a thing. - [Jen] Yeah.
You'll get all your answers to these questions.
- Yeah. - [Myra] I think that's a good idea.
I think, with clarity and the translator,
I think that will fix some things.
Yeah, yeah.
- I love that plan. - Okay.
Let me ask you this.
Don't you think it's interesting that he's like,
all about me coming over,
and us coming over,
and talking to his family.
Yet, he doesn't want to tell his family
for another two months, roughly,
about us being engaged.
I think that's the biggest issue.
It's not like you guys just met. You've been
together for three years.
I just... [sighs]
So frustrating.
Well, I think...
I know he's, like, set on August 2nd at 4:00 p.m.
But how would you feel about
maybe, we could tell his family about you guys.
I mean...
This is something that's weighing on you every single day.
Every minute of the day.
You wake up and you're anxious.
And I think
it would just be a relief.
Absolutely.
And a loophole for
someone else,
not him, not you,
to let them know before August 2nd.
I am a certified interventionist.
So, I know how to break
news to people
in a way that sounds appealing.
I've gone through extensive training
to deliver difficult information to people.
So it's really not that different,
except Rishi doesn't have a drug problem.
He just loves an American woman.
And we could present it in such a way,
we could say, "Hey, good news!
Your son is not doing drugs.
- [Jen] Right. - Your son is not
- participating in any illegal activities. - Right.
He's not even having sex.
- He's not having sex. - Oh, my God.
Your son's in love with an older woman.
- [laughs] - [Randi] He's in love with this amazing woman
that he is engaged to.
I love that.
It would be a huge relief for his family to know
so that I can know what their reaction is gonna be.
You deserve that.
For a minute, I have to ask myself, like,
"Wait. Are we really doing this?"
I don't think Rishi's gonna be happy
when we blindside him with this,
but I honestly think it's for his own good.
Because, now, he doesn't have this burden to tell his family.
It's, basically, being done for him.
And, you know, anything bad that could come out of this...
Like, let's say they don't accept me,
or they're not happy about it, whatever,
I'll just find out a little sooner.
And if they don't accept you and he is willing to
not accept you because of them, then he doesn't deserve you.
- Yeah. - But if he says,
"You know what? You don't accept the woman that I love?
"I'm sorry. I'm picking her."
Then that will be very telling on the man that you're in love with.
Yeah.
I love Rishi.
But I don't like drama.
I want peace.
The biggest problem that I have right now is that there is no peace,
because everything's in the dark.
At this point, his time is up.
I just need everything out on the table now,
so we can get this figured out today.
Time is up. I want to know now,
from the family,
is it a go, or is it a hard pass?
[Daniele] I made plans with my ex, Taylan,
and Yohan isn't happy about it.
So, am I gonna get to meet Yohan?
I mean, that's the goal.
But he is really pissed that I'm sitting down
with someone that I had a relationship with in the past.
I'm surprised you can even be with someone like that.
I'm not sure if Yohan's the right guy for Daniele.
[Daniele] Last night was Yohan's birthday party
and we ended up getting into a huge fight.
I was really expecting for Yohan to just apologize.
But this morning, Yohan is acting
so childish over something that's so insignificant.
[Yohan in Spanish]
[Daniele in Spanish]
[in English] Go. [continues in Spanish]
[in English] Okay. No problem.
- Hi! - [Taylan] Daniele!
- [Daniele] How are you? - It's good to see you.
[Daniele] I made plans with my ex, Taylan,
and even though I know Yohan isn't happy about it,
he's gonna have to learn to accept my life.
And the easiest way for that to happen is for me to live it.
- [Taylan] What's going on? - [Daniele] Nothing.
- [Taylan] Everything good? - I'm so... Yeah, everything's chillin'.
- [Taylan] Yo, this is a cool setup. - Yeah, yeah.
I'm psyched about this.
Taylan booked a river cruise for today.
It'll be nice to be out in nature,
and not have to be stuck in the house in conflict.
- This is so beautiful. - [Taylan] Yo, isn't this cool?
- [Daniele] What's up? - [Taylan] Nothing, yo. How's it going?
- What's the word? - What's the word?
- I don't know-- - How's you and Yohan?
[chuckles] Um, normally good. This week has been rough.
- Has it? - This has been a really rough week.
Taylan was the last person I dated before Yohan.
We met on the beach, kind of in the beginning of the pandemic.
And we ended up living together in Miami for five months.
But we know it was gonna be temporary,
because Taylan is a semi-pro basketball player,
and he was planning on traveling the world playing basketball,
and I was eventually gonna have to go back to New York,
back to my in classroom teaching job.
We were kind of hanging out until the next stage of our lives.
[Taylan] So, am I gonna get to meet Yohan?
[Daniele] I mean, that's the goal.
I would really love for you to be able to meet Yohan,
but he is really pissed that I'm here right now.
- [Taylan] Is he really? - Yeah.
- Damn. - [Daniele] Yeah, he's like, not thrilled
about the idea that I'm sitting down with,
you know, someone that I had a relationship with in the past.
I'm surprised you can even be with someone like that, knowing you.
I tried to get him to come, and he's just like,
"No. Absolutely not."
[in English]
As soon as I made this decision that I was moving here
and I got off that [bleep] plane,
he was like a completely different person.
[Taylan] How old is Yohan?
- 32. - [Taylan] 32, okay.
[Daniele] And he's got a lot to learn--
- Word. - [Daniele] ...you know?
[Taylan] Being around someone that's older and more mature,
I think it's gonna be huge for him.
- Like what I did with you? - [Taylan] Yeah.
- Yeah. - [Daniele] I mean...
He's not as open.
[Taylan] Me and Daniele's relationship started as a friendship.
Obviously, it turned into a sexual thing.
But, honestly, I'd seen her more as a mentor at times.
She's, by far, the most mature woman I've ever been with.
[in English]
[Daniele] One of the things that I'm struggling with is maybe I'm tired
of teaching all the time.
- You know? - [Taylan] Yeah.
- And maybe, I-- - It's constant teach mode.
[Daniele] Yeah, it's like I do it for a living,
and then I have to do it in my relationship,
so, like, I wonder if,
you know, this pattern isn't serving me.
At this stage in my life,
maybe that's not the move.
Maybe the move is to find someone who can teach me something.
[Taylan] It's tough to hear
that she's having these difficulties,
just because I got so much love for her, and I wanna see her happy.
I'm not sure if Yohan's the right guy for Daniele.
I think I really need to see them in person to get a full grasp of it.
But I hope he is.
You deserve the best, obviously,
so I hope you get what you want out of this relationship.
[Daniele] I would love for him to sit down with you.
I feel like, if he met you, and he actually had a conversation with you,
he would see that, like, you're not a threat.
- Yeah. - [Daniele] You know?
Like, I have a relationship with someone,
and we're not romantically interested in each other anymore,
that doesn't mean they don't add value to my life.
Were you able to, like, explain our relationship to him?
I tried. I think he's been hurt in relationships before.
Like, he's had girls cheat on him.
- And, so, like-- - Okay, so it's past trauma.
- [Daniele] Yeah. - That's a big part of it.
- Okay. - It's coming from a place of trauma.
[Taylan] Well, I would love to have that convo with him,
but, obviously, that's gonna be tough--
- [Daniele] Yeah. - ...you know?
Yeah.
I thought that
Yohan was better than this,
and that he was more mature than this,
and more secure in who he was.
I'm just not having it, you know? Like,
I would rather him work on his trust issues
so that we can have a better relationship.
Obviously, I want him to meet me and understand that,
like, I don't wanna try to rekindle what we had or anything, but...
It's still gonna be tough, regardless.
- [Daniele] Yeah. - Yeah, so...
[Daniele] The last 48 hours,
I have met a version of my husband
that I don't like and don't wanna live with.
And I'm afraid that this is the person that he really is
and he's been hiding that for the last year.
So, has it hit you that your wedding is two weeks from today?
Bro, I'm so stressed.
If I was gonna tie myself to someone,
legally and financially,
I would be very stressed, too.
You want it to last forever, but at the end of the day, you don't know.
After being gone for a month,
my paperwork is in order,
and I'm getting married to Isabel in Colombia in two weeks.
[Monica] So, has it hit you that your wedding is, literally,
two weeks from today?
- That's crazy. - [Monica] Fourteen days.
I'm, like, "Bro, I'm gonna have a wife." That's weird.
- [chuckles] - Yeah.
She's been doing everything, honestly.
I haven't done anything at all.
- 'Cause I'm like-- - Yeah.
[Gabriel] She was naming things, "Oh, photographer,
"this, that, oh. And we gotta get the cake,
"and we gotta do this." I'm like, Oh, my gosh."
Do you think that maybe you're having a little bit of, like, cold feet?
Um, no, not right now. Maybe, like, the day before, or something,
when it feels real.
It's okay if you are feeling this way,
because it's completely understandable.
If I was gonna tie myself to someone,
legally and financially, I would be very stressed, too.
Because what if?
Have you decided on the, um, prenup situation?
- Yeah. - You gonna do it?
- No. - [exclaims] Stupid.
[chuckles]
You want it to last forever, but at the end of the day, you don't know.
- And, like-- - [Gabriel] Exactly.
And since you don't know,
sign on the dotted line.
Monica is being a little pushy when she's, like, insisting on we get a prenup.
But I feel like she just doesn't understand how I feel.
That's why I never go to Monica for anything
'cause she's just gonna criticize me.
I mean, all the girls that you
typically date, they're, they're, like,
all shades of, like, the same person essentially.
- [laughs] - [Monica] They are.
And then, there's always that one thing,
- like, "Okay, this one..." - [Gabriel chuckles]
-"This one's a witch." - [both laugh]
"This one never wants to work."
You know what I mean?
- So, I'm kind of nervous, because it's like... - [laughs]
"Oh, ooh, what am I gonna get with this one?"
Typically, Gabe goes for women
that are very needy, very jealous, and a little stupid.
And he's worked very hard throughout all of his life to build up his business,
and I would hate to see someone take it from him.
I'm happy you guys can come to the wedding.
I feel like it's official. I'm so happy.
Good.
I know I give you a hard time sometimes, but...
I do love you. You're my brother. You're my best friend.
So, yeah. I am sad that you're leaving.
Do you think that
you getting married is going to affect our closeness?
I don't think so. 'Cause I've been there for already a lot of time,
and I feel like we're just the same.
If anything, I think it helps us a little bit more, because
when I do come, then we're nicer to each other.
That's like, me and you living together, never a great idea.
- I think it's a great idea. - [Gabriel] And now, we like each other.
No, it's... That'd be the worst idea in the world.
This is very interesting, that you'd say that.
What, Monica. Every time that we live together
at our mom's house, how is it?
We hate each other.
- No, I never-- - [Gabriel] We don't--
- I never hate you. - [Gabriel] We won't even talk to each other.
Well, not hate each...
Oh, Mon... Oh, my gosh.
I rather enjoy it. I told Malcolm we should all move in together.
It'll take like two days--
- We are having-- - [Gabriel] ...Monica.
It'll take, like, two days.
- We're having two, totally different experiences. - [Gabriel] Yes, we are.
Uh, what is it, they say?
Distance makes the heart grow fonder or something?
- Absence makes the heart-- - Absence. Yeah.
...grow fonder. Whatever that means.
Yeah, but we're all gonna miss you.
You getting married, you know, it stings a bit more because
I feel like we're losing you, losing you.
Like, you have your own family now.
Next time I see Monica, it's going to be with Isabel.
[Monica in sing song voice] We're here.
[Gabriel] And I'm worried about
what's gonna happen when Monica and Isabel meet
because of the past history that Monica didn't like any of my girlfriends.
[in normal voice] We're gonna miss you.
- All right. - Give me a hug.
- Mmm. - [Gabriel] I'll miss you, too.
- Have a safe flight. - Thanks so much.
- I'll see you in two weeks. - All right.
I really love my sister.
We're always gonna be there for each other,
we're family, but Isabel is the love of my life.
So, it's like two people coming together. So...
It feels like I'm falling, I'm falling, I'm falling, I'm falling, but it's like
I'm still scared, and I'm nervous,
and my heart is like... [mimics heartbeat]
I mean, I'm just waiting to see if they get along.
[in Spanish]
[replies in Spanish]
[Jeymi in Spanish]
[Alex in Spanish]
[Jeymi in Spanish]
[Alex speaking]
[Jeymi speaking]
[Alex speaking]
[Jeymi sniffs]
[Alex speaking]
[Nicole] I've been struggling to tell you,
but I... I'm ready to leave Egypt.
[in English]
I think so.
[Mahmoud in English]
[Nicole] So, where are you taking me today, honey?
[in English]
That could be anything. [chuckles] You say no a lot. [chuckles]
[Mahmoud in English]
[meows]
- You brought me to get a cat, honey? - Yes, honey.
[both speaking in Arabic]
- [in English] They have 77 cats here. - [Nicole] They do?
- [Mahmoud] Yeah. - [meows]
[in English]
- [Nicole] Yeah. - [Mahmoud in English]
[Nicole] Aw.
- Free massage? [chuckles] - [Mahmoud] Yeah.
[cats meowing]
- [Nicole] Yeah. - [Mahmoud mumbles indistinctly]
- [Nicole] Oh, look, the fluffy one? - Yeah.
Yeah, I like him too.
I love cats, so Mahmoud is like the sweetest,
sweetest guy. Surprising me with one of these cats.
[Nicole] Yeah, I like all of them.
- [Nicole] Yeah. - [Mahmoud speaking]
[Nicole] When I was back in LA,
he was sending me little, uh, cat gifs and they're, like, kissing.
He's so cute. [laughing]
- [meowing] - [Nicole] Oh, hi.
[chuckles]
But then, like, seeing them and thinking about, like,
the possibility of getting a cat, which I'm super tempted to do.
Oh, you're super sweet.
I'm, like, wait a second, like,
I don't know if I'm gonna stay in Egypt, like,
what are we gonna do with a cat?
I like the white one, yeah.
I don't know. We, we need to talk about it.
- Let's go sit in the shade. - Okay.
It's not right to get the cat
and then not, not keep the cat
for, for the rest of its life.
So, I need to talk to Mahmoud right now about this.
It's so sweet that you brought me here
and let me pet the cats
and you're okay with me getting one.
[Mahmoud speaking]
[Nicole] Well, of course I love the cats, honey.
I just don't know how--
I just don't know if it's, like, a good time for me to get one, you know.
I've been struggling to tell you, but I,
I'm ready to leave Egypt.
I think so.
[Mahmoud speaking]
That was the original plan,
Mahmoud, you know, I'm so unhappy here.
[Nicole] I know.
[dog barking in distance]
I know, honey. I know you, like, tried really hard
to make things comfortable and good here for me.
But for all the reasons we've
fought endlessly about all of this stuff, like, I can't...
Things change, like...
[Mahmoud speaking]
Believe me, it's not, like, an easy decision for me.
I don't wanna leave you.
Why?
I don't foresee that happening but,
um, I love you.
Okay.
I'm not sure yet when I'm gonna go back.
But I, I definitely don't want to leave you.
So, if I go and set up our-- my life
and get an apartment for us, will you join me?
Right.
Even though we've applied for the spousal visa,
we don't know when that's going to be approved.
But, since I'm not happy in Egypt,
then I think it's worth trying
a new life together in the US
and see if that will work.
If you're able to come and your visa's approved,
are you gonna be willing to try building a life
together in the United States?
I don't want you to do it just to make me happy.
I want it, you know, to be something that you actually want to do.
Mmm-hmm.
[Nicole] Well, I know for sure that I'll be happier
in the United States.
And that, uh, you know, ideally you would be happy too.
And maybe we can, you know,
our relationship will be stronger.
You know, when we're both happy.
I just wanted you to sketch an outline of our future.
[Oussama speaking]
[Debbie] Yes.
[Debbie] Today, Oussama's showing me around
his family's farm.
I'm real excited. It's like,
this is everything I've been lookin' forward to.
It's so beautiful.
- [Oussama] Yeah. - [Debbie] This is a painting.
[Oussama] I told you.
[Debbie] Even though this morning his parents
were being so accepting and kind,
they're also saying that I'm taking their son to the United States,
and I'm like, "Now, how is this coming into the picture?"
We need to have a sit-down, serious talk
before we can move forward.
It's like, "Who is this guy?"
And I've got a new friend over there.
- Do you want to see him? - They want to see Ms. Debbie.
Aw! Look at his ears!
[in baby voice] You wanna play with me?
Come see mama.
Mama love you.
♪ Purty ♪
♪ My purty ♪
[singing "Irish Lullaby"]
♪ Too-ra-loo-ra-loo-ral ♪
♪ Too-ra-loo-ra-li ♪
♪ Too-ra-loo-ra-loo-ral ♪
♪ That's an Irish lullaby ♪
[continues in baby voice] You're gonna let Ms. Debbie ride you?
[in normal voice] I saw that sweet donkey
and something came over.
"Oh, please, let me ride that donkey."
[in baby voice] Maybe you love me a little bit?
Just a little bit. Oh, I got a kiss!
Oussama he kissed me.
I speak the language of donkey, I think.
Let me try.
[Debbie in normal voice] But I wanna ride the donkey.
I have always had an affinity for animals.
And I connect with them.
Not too fast.
[worriedly] Oh, Oussama!
Okay, Oussama, slow down, please. My--
- I don't have a butt. - Okay.
[yells worriedly] God didn't give me a butt.
[screaming] Oussama!
[both laughing]
- You did that on purpose! - [Oussama laughing] I don't do this, no.
- Damn it, Oussama. - Okay.
It's not the donkey, it's you.
Yeah, it's you man.
Lord have mercy.
Why do I always do something clumsy and podunk.
It's like, let me retain my dignity
and gather myself up off the ground.
But I love animals.
I have to give myself some nice lips.
- [laughs] - I never like to be an old lady in my paintings.
I'm always young in my paintings.
Can you make it quiet? I can't think.
And Oussama-- Okay, I'll shut up. Okay.
[vocalizing]
[continues vocalizing softly]
[singing indistinctly]
It feels like a relief.
Yup, it's like, far away from the noises.
Yes, far away from everything.
What's your idea of what comes next for you and me?
[birds chirping]
Our plans.
What are Oussama's plans?
Look, it's not the right time to talk about plans now.
- Well-- - It's time for creating.
You can do both at the same time.
It's been difficult, bringing this up to Oussama.
But, this is important.
He needs to, like, put his input in that,
"Yeah, we're gonna look for apartments.
Yes, we're going to Rabat."
And this is the best possible
place that we can have this conversation.
- We need to have plans for our future. - Yup.
But--
No, 'cause I need to talk about the plan.
Well-- But when I talk about the future
and needing security,
you always kind of say, "Well, we'll talk about it later."
- I don't wanna push you, at all... - No--
- ...but I feel I need to make plans. - I know.
- Okay, go ahead. - I just want a little bit--
Okay, it's okay.
Little bit, like, can we look at apartments online tonight?
[Debbie] The odd thing is,
me and Oussama have these wonderful, deep conversations
via texting.
And now, it's like,
do I have to get out my phone and text him to have these
honest heart-to-heart conversations?
Now that I'm here large, in-person,
I'm gettin' nothin', man, I'm gettin' nothin'.
You said that I would come here
and you would love me and take care of me
and you would prove it.
And now it's like you're just kind of like,
"Oh, shut up, Debbie I don't wanna-- Talk to the hand."
Why?
You think I'm not patient?
I--
I didn't want you to do it right now.
I just wanted you to sketch an outline of our future.
[incredulously] What?
[Oussama speaking]
Phew. I don't get it, man.
So, you think I'm mentally ill?
You're acting real cold-blooded right now.
[salat playing in background]
And--
You, and you, you don't think I'm feeling hurt right now?
You don't think I hear my kids saying,
"Mom, I told you so? This guy can't take care of you.
This guy is not gonna be straight and honest with you."
You don't think I can hear them saying that,
"Mom, be careful."
[angrily] I wanna talk about serious things
and you act like, "Oh, you're crazy.
You're mentally ill."
[Oussama speaking]
So, the family does know you.
But, not the fiancee part?
No idea.
- But, it could come out. - Okay.
[Jen] I'm done hiding,
I'm done keeping them in the dark.
Okay, guys.
- Ooh, what do you have? - I've got some options here.
- Okay. - [Jen] Kind of a lot.
Let's see.
- Now, this is like a super comfy... - [Myra] No.
- No. - Did you say, "No"?
- [Myra] No. - You're, like, hard pass.
- It has pockets though. - [Myra and Randi] No.
- [Randi] No, no, no, no. - No, it's like, it, you need-- Just wear that to bed.
[all laughing]
Today, my friends and I are going to
take Rishi up on his offer to meet with his family,
and ask them questions
about them looking for a bride for him.
Like, I wanna look cute, and I also...
- I don't know. - You wanna be yourself.
- Yes. - [Myra] But you still kind of wanna have a little bit
- of respect towards his family, you know. - [Jen] Exactly.
- Yeah, exactly. - Yeah.
[Jen] It's gonna be a big day.
Not only do I hope to get the truth,
about the arranged marriage situation,
but my friends are gonna drop the bomb
on his family about our engagement.
- [Myra] Oh, I like that. - [Randi] Ohh!
What about this and jeans?
- Because-- - That's really pretty.
That could work.
All right, I will be right back.
- Get ready for the fashion show. - Let's see.
I realize that going behind Rishi's back
is not the ideal way to do things.
But, I wasn't doing myself or him any favors
by being patient.
- Perfection. - [Jen] Yeah?
- I like it. - Yeah, I really like it.
[Jen] So far, it's just created problem after problem.
So, ultimately, I'm not doing this to upset him.
This is to benefit the both of us.
So-- All right. So, you guys, I'm, I'm feeling
positive about going to see his family today.
I love the plan that we came up with.
I got a translator.
I talked to her on the phone.
I gave her a little bit of a heads-up
on what's going on,
so she knows what she's walking into.
I'm gonna make it clear that this is gonna be a translation,
not an interpretation.
- Good. - Do not filter.
- Yeah, just say, "I wanna hear it all." - [Jen] I wanna hear it all.
- Good, bad, ugly. - Give, give it to me.
First question is,
-"How long have you been looking for a wife?" - [knocking on door]
[Myra] Oh.
- [Randi] Oh. - Think that's her. I'll be right back.
Mmm.
[both] Hi!
Hello, hi.
- I'm Jen. - Oh, Jen, nice to meet you.
- I'm Bindiya. - Nice to-- Bindiya!
- Yes. - Okay, you're beautiful!
- Thank you, so are you. Lovely to see you. - Come on in.
Come on in.
When I see how beautiful the translator is,
I'm already thinking,
"Maybe the family will want to arrange
a marriage between she and Rishi."
I'm sure Rishi's mom would approve of her.
How are you guys doing?
- Good. - [Myra] Very good.
I'm so happy I found you.
- Yes. - [Bindiya] I'm, I'm just so glad to help.
But I also kind of have some questions
- just to get, uh-- - Yes.
First of all, so the family does know you...
- [Jen] They do know me. - ...but as a friend. As a friend.
- [Jen] Correct. - Okay.
[Bindiya] But, not the fiancee part? They have no idea.
- No idea. - Okay.
[Jen] I talked to him about some things the other day
having to do with his family looking for a wife for him,
an arranged marriage.
And I feel like he told me some things
that were inconsistent.
[chuckles nervously] Obviously, I love him
or I wouldn't be here going through this.
But, I want to make sure that
things aren't getting lost in translation.
- I understand. - [Jen] That he--
- You know? - The cultural barrier.
[Jen] Yes.
And so that's where we are right now.
- Okay. - She needs answers.
I don't know what is going to happen today.
- Okay. - [Jen] But, I just kinda wanna prepare you
it could come out,
the fact that we're engaged.
And I don't, I don't want you to be caught off-guard.
- Okay. - I just wanna prepare you...
- [Bindiya] Okay. - ...that that might-- that that might happen.
And it might happen from us.
Which is okay with her, but we don't you to be, like,
-"Oh, what's happening?" - [Jen] Yeah.
- Okay. - But we may say,
"We want to tell you that your son is engaged to her,
and this is a wonderful thing."
Okay, you guys are gonna disclose it to--
- Yes. - [Myra] Mmm, maybe.
- Maybe. - [Jen laughs]
Um, we're gonna see how everyone reacts.
[Bindiya] Okay.
I was hired by Jen to translate for her
and I was happy to do the job.
But, when I got to know the context,
I understand this is just a totally twisted situation.
I have never done a translation like this before.
Now, I'm nervous.
Do you want me to translate word-for-word?
[emphatically] Yes, please.
- [Randi] Tell her everything. - Okay.
- [Randi] Even if it's not good. - [Myra] Yes.
- Okay. - She needs to know before she makes this
huge life-changing decision of moving across the world
to-- for this guy, and we don't even know
if he's serious about being with her.
[Jen] As long as Rishi's family does not know about us,
we are in limbo.
I'm done hiding,
I'm done keeping them in the dark.
- [Myra] Let's do this! - [Jen] Oh, my gosh.
[Jen] Rishi's not gonna like this,
but he is the one who asked me to marry him.
I mean, let's be honest, it's been three years.
He's not telling them,
so I am making this happen.
[exhales heavily]
[woman] Next time on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way.
You kind of have us under the impression that
she's very controlling and very jealous.
[Gabriel] She's overstepping to where it's, like,
only hurting me.
[Monica] I'm very over-protective of Gabe.
And so we want to know that
he's taken care of while he's in Colombia.
[Yohan speaking Spanish]
Whoa! Did I hear that right?
[Daniele] I'm not gonna tolerate this behavior.
And I don't have any guarantee that Yohan is gonna change.
[angrily] You should be ashamed of yourself
the way you treated me.
We were planning to go to the USA. Yes or no?
- No, no, it's not about a visa. - You're a liar.
You're a cold-blooded snake.
[Randi] I am here to support Jen,
and I have something to say,
uh, to everyone in the room.
[Rishi] I don't know what is going on.