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[narrator]
Previously on90 Day Fiancé:
The Other Way...

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Wayne and Holly,
you may seal your marriage
with a long kiss.

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[man] Woah.

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Mmm. What's that?

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Um, this is like your
engagement ring.

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I didn't expect it right now,
because like,

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we're stressing so much.

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I know that we're
not ready yet,

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because I'm still
really stressing so much.

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You know, marriage is
not like a joke.

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I'm just saying yes
because I need to.

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Namaste.

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The wedding ceremony start
tomorrow so I really hope we
don't have any more issues.

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I just want everybody
to be supportive,

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of Kim as I am of TJ.

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[speaking in Hindi]

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[Kimberly in English]
I feel like this conversation
is more like

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a temporary truce
than a solution.

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Buying a car
with 30,000 dollars is not
a sound financial decision.

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[in Spanish]

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[in English] If Yohan thinks
that he has an American wife
that's going to

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support him, then he
has picked the wrong American.

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It's not your [bleep] money.

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[in Spanish]

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[music playing
in other language]

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[in Hindi]

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[Tejaswi speaking in English]

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[Photographer in English]

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What are we doing?

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[Somya in English]

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[Kimberly] Okay.

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It's the first day of my
wedding and I am in a
[bleep] mood.

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Literally.

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My stomach was upset from
the moment I woke up.

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And I [bleep] my pants.

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I woke up early,
I was very proud of myself for
waking up early, number one.

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One point for Kim.

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Then I go to the bathroom
like, I typically do in
the morning

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and I feel like I'm
gotta fart.

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But before I made it
to the bathroom.
I [bleep] my pants.

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Who wants to start their
wedding that way?

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Nobody.

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[Kimberly] Okay.

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Is there anybody else?
I'm just gonna talk to myself
all day.

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Okay.

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The first ceremony of the day
is the mehndi ceremony.

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And that's were they paint
henna on your hands,
for the brides.

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And on their feet too.

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My Dad and stepmom
are running a little bit late.

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So, I'm just here
hanging out with a
bunch of people that

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I don't know and I can't
communicate with.

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And it's really awkward.

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[speaking in Hindi]

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[speaking in Hindi]

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[in English]

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I don't want to be a bitch
of a bride right now.

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And I really do appreciate all
of these rituals that
we're doing.

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But, I'm not feeling well.
My stomach is still upset,

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and I feel so lonely.

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It's not really the feeling
that I thought I would have
on my wedding day.

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I've been sick all day.

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First thing that happens
tomorrow is [bleep].

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And I've been throwing
up all day.

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No, I'm freezing.

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[Tejaswi speaking]

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I appreciate that.

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[Tejaswi] But sometimes
Kimberly can be difficult.

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So, I'm really worried
and I don't know what's
gonna happen.

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[speaking in other language]

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[in English] Brandan proposed
to me a weeks ago and

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after that I told me Lola
that I was pregnant.

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[speaking in other language]

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[Mary speaking in English]

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[Mary]
Brandan, please lower it.

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Can you lower the volume?

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You are not alone here,
you need to lower the volume
but you're turning it up.

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[Mary] I said, lower
but you're turning it up.

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[Mary] Just lower the volume.

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He's telling me,
you know

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the bad words like [bleep]
Mary things like that.

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And everybody can hear.

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After that he just walk away
and won't come back
to the house.

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And, he's always doing that.

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[Brandan] What's up?

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Sort of... Sort of
really bad fight.

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With Mary.

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Things got heated,

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I just felt like I really
had to just get out
of the house

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and escape
that environment.

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I thought we were
gonna get married and get
a family and all that stuff.

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But instead of being happy,
me and Mary are fighting
more and more.

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I don't know, like
what to say? What to do?

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For the most part, I just like
walk away because that's how
I grew up.

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And sometimes I'll go to
town square and I'll just
sleep on the stone bench.

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I come to this spot,
a few times.

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And I go back usually
in a couple of hours.

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And then,

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we're coming off to not
yell at each other

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but to talk to each other
with normal attitude.

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We fight more about,

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If I'm sleeping in
or if I'm

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playing a game too much and

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yeah you know, maybe I could
try harder around the house.

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But, I'm not just
doing nothing.

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If she's hungry I'm trying
to get her food.

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If she wants her back scrubbed
I help out.

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And we'd still end up like
yelling and arguing.

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I know Mary hates it
when I come out here,

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I'm the only foreigner
here and

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everyone sees it.
They're like, "Oh, where's
Mary?"

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"Why is he walking alone?"

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Everyone's gossiping
and rumors spread.

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Like, Oh, maybe he's going
to meet somebody or

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maybe they had a falling out
who knows.

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But I don't do it to punish
Mary, I do it to get away.

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For my sake.
For me to calm down.

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[speaking in other language]

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[Mary in English]

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[speaking in other language]

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[Mary speaking in English]

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[speaking in other language]

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[Mary in English]
It's scary but,

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I should go to Lolo
and talk to him with Brandan.

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I really hope that talking
to Lolo will help us a lot.

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And Brandan will change,
because this is life.
It's not a game.

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We'll see what happens.

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[speaking in Hindi]

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[in English]

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No, I'm okay.

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I didn't know I needed
to sit on your Mom's lap.

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It would've been good to know.

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You know where
is the mehndi ceremony?

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Okay, thank you.

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How you doing?

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Okay.

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[Kimberly] I started
throwing up earlier.

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-Are you nervous now?
-No, I'm both nauseous
and nervous.

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But, I'm trying to stay
positive right now.

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[Lisa] well, it's
really beautiful.

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-There's a lot to this.
-Yep.

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I'm so happy that my
parents are here. It makes
me a feel a lot less alone.

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And now, I'm really looking
forward to getting
my mehndi done.

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This is one of my favorite
things about, uh, traditional
Hindu weddings.

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Yeah, sure.

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Yeah.

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[speaking in Hindi]

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[in English]

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Yeah.

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[Kimberly] I think it was
really important too.

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I'm a handful
and I know it, so.

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Good. Now you know.

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But I'm not gonna lie,
it hurt my feelings whenever
you called me stupid.

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Because I know,
I'm... I'm stubborn.

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I know I'm outspoken
and a lot of things.
But I'm not stupid.

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Even in fighting.

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I do, yes.

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I feel like we're both
mature enough
to respect each other.

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And if somebody gets
angry, we can just be like,

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"Hey, chill out."

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[Kimberly] I got this
apology from Yash.

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So that's good and
my stomach is starting
to settle down.

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So, now that everything'
is smoothed over,

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I'm super excited about
the rest of the day.

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I like that smokey eye.

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One of the best parts
of this wedding is,

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how many different outfits
I get to wear.

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How many looks I get to show.

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[speaking in Hindi]

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[Tejaswi in English]

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We have come for the bride.

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Okay.

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[Tejaswi in English]

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So, whatever gifts
you're getting you're
placing it on your lap.

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I'm just following what
you're doing, 'cause I have
no idea what...

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You and me both, sister.

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[man speaking in Hindi]

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[photographer in English]

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[speaking in Hindi]

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[speaking in English]

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Okay.

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-This is for you.
-Thank you.

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[Kimberly] People are putting
stuff on me.

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And smiling, taking pictures
and someone's taking it away.

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And then just
happening again and again.

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I feel like one of those
cardboard cut outs

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stuff like, those people
at the movies like,

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the super star and
everybody just

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you know comes up to it,
takes a picture, puts a finger
up their nose

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something like that
and then leaves.

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[speaking in Hindi]

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[Kimberly in English] Okay.

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[speaking in Hindi]

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[in English] Sit on her lap.

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No, I'm okay.

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[speaking in Hindi]

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[in English]

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I didn't know I needed
to sit on your Mom's lap.

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It would've been good to know.

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[Tejaswi in English]

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[woman speaking in Hindi]

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[Kimberly in English]
It was so weird.

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They just said, and
that was the thing.

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She's not Santa Claus.

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You'll get used to it.

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I'm not ready for my Mom
to leave South Africa.

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Because I still
don't feel safe.

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It's scary for me.

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[speaking in Spanish]

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I never thought that he ahs
this in him.

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[music playing]

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♪ Oh, my man, we're same ♪

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♪ Somewhat
Thank you ♪

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♪ And you made me go crazy ♪

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♪ Cause you are beautiful ♪

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[Wayne] You're married
to me now.
I can't believe it.

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You looked so pretty
last night.

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[Holly] Did you like my dress?

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I loved your dress. Gorgeous.

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[Holly laughs]

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-It's hard to walk
in a dress that big.
-Yeah.

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[continues laughing] Yeah.

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A wedding day is just one day,

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but, you know,
marriage is forever.

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Yesterday,
I married my forever person,

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and that was the most
important thing to me.

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But there was a few hiccups
along the way.

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[indistinct yell]

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[Wayne] Are you all right?

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-Yeah, my veil got stuck.
-Yeah? [laughs]

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-Are you okay?
-[Holly] Yeah.

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[laughing] I was done.
I was down for the count.

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So, how do you feel
about last night?

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[Holly chuckles softly] Good.

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It was fun.

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-[Holly] Yeah.
-Yeah?

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-Head lost, huh?
-Mmm-hmm.

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[Wayne speaking]

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You feel like
you've won the wife lottery?

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'Cause I kinda
feel like you did.

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I kinda think you won
the husband lottery.

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[Holly] You definitely won,
like, the wife lottery,
like...

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Let's see if I say that
in two years' time,

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then we'll talk again, okay?

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-Mmm.
-Well, I thought it was better
than I imagined it to be,

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to be honest with you.

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-Yeah?
-Yeah.

247
00:22:03,206 --> 00:22:06,517
[laughing]

248
00:22:06,551 --> 00:22:08,724
Remember that lingerie
you said you were gonna bring?

249
00:22:08,758 --> 00:22:13,551
-[continues laughing]
-When's that happening?

250
00:22:13,586 --> 00:22:16,137
-So, did I satisfy you?
-[chuckles] Oh, stop it.

251
00:22:16,172 --> 00:22:19,310
-I need to know these things.
-Can you stop it? Stop.

252
00:22:19,344 --> 00:22:21,517
[laughing softly]

253
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,172
I feel like we have
a closeness now,

254
00:22:31,206 --> 00:22:33,137
uh, sexually,
that we didn't have before,

255
00:22:33,172 --> 00:22:35,068
because we weren't
sexual before.

256
00:22:35,103 --> 00:22:37,551
People would probably think,
you know, we're very
conservative

257
00:22:37,586 --> 00:22:39,689
because of the way
we were both raised,

258
00:22:39,724 --> 00:22:41,310
but he's kinky.

259
00:22:41,344 --> 00:22:44,724
You know, he's into bondage,
he's into weird stuff.

260
00:22:44,758 --> 00:22:46,586
Like, that's good, though.
That's what I like.

261
00:22:46,620 --> 00:22:48,724
It's, he's not, like,
vanilla in the bedroom.

262
00:22:48,758 --> 00:22:50,379
So, I was glad about that.

263
00:22:50,413 --> 00:22:53,000
I wouldn't... You know,
I wouldn't wanna be
with someone vanilla.

264
00:22:53,034 --> 00:22:54,413
Like, that's boring.

265
00:22:54,448 --> 00:22:56,068
We enjoyed it, and it was fun.

266
00:23:03,310 --> 00:23:04,620
Yeah, I thought it was good.

267
00:23:04,655 --> 00:23:06,551
I think your mom
cried the most,

268
00:23:06,586 --> 00:23:08,793
because, like,
it was happy tears.

269
00:23:11,275 --> 00:23:13,000
Yeah, it's like...

270
00:23:18,275 --> 00:23:20,413
Yeah. Does your mom
make you feel safe?

271
00:23:20,448 --> 00:23:23,275
No, I think just, like,
having another person that...

272
00:23:23,310 --> 00:23:26,413
-Yeah.
-You know what I mean?

273
00:23:26,448 --> 00:23:29,103
Yeah, but, I think you'll
find you way, eventually.

274
00:23:29,137 --> 00:23:30,310
[Holly] Mmm-hmm.

275
00:23:30,344 --> 00:23:31,586
[Wayne speaking]

276
00:23:33,413 --> 00:23:34,275
[Holly] I know.

277
00:23:43,137 --> 00:23:45,655
I'm not ready for my mom
to leave South Africa.

278
00:23:46,931 --> 00:23:49,034
It's nice having my mom
here with me.

279
00:23:49,068 --> 00:23:50,931
I haven't made
any friends here.

280
00:23:50,965 --> 00:23:55,275
My mom is 100% the only
comfort from home
I have right now.

281
00:23:55,310 --> 00:23:57,482
And, I don't know

282
00:23:57,517 --> 00:23:59,862
how long it's gonna take
for me to get settled,

283
00:23:59,896 --> 00:24:02,206
because I still
don't feel safe.

284
00:24:02,241 --> 00:24:03,931
I wish I did.

285
00:24:03,965 --> 00:24:05,137
It's scary for me.

286
00:24:10,344 --> 00:24:12,689
[upbeat song playing]

287
00:24:24,689 --> 00:24:26,172
[Yohan speaking Spanish]

288
00:24:32,517 --> 00:24:35,517
Yohan and I are having
a hard time communicating,

289
00:24:35,551 --> 00:24:37,965
so we're seeking out
a life coach.

290
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,551
I will take
all the therapy I can get.

291
00:24:40,586 --> 00:24:41,965
[chuckles] I would sit
in front of someone

292
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,620
and talk to them
about my problems
all day every day if I could.

293
00:24:46,241 --> 00:24:50,000
But, we need a third party
to help mediate.

294
00:24:55,482 --> 00:24:57,482
So, are you excited
about the life coach?

295
00:25:04,965 --> 00:25:07,344
[Daniele] Yohan and I
were seeing a therapist
for a little bit,

296
00:25:07,379 --> 00:25:10,413
but that kind of fell apart
and he stopped agreeing to go.

297
00:25:10,448 --> 00:25:12,413
He doesn't like to have
hard conversations,

298
00:25:12,448 --> 00:25:15,241
and he definitely
doesn't like to talk about
feelings or emotions.

299
00:25:15,275 --> 00:25:19,448
I feel like there's also
a stigma in Dominican Republic
around therapy,

300
00:25:19,482 --> 00:25:23,344
so I'm hoping that
because this person
is considered a life coach,

301
00:25:23,379 --> 00:25:25,551
Yohan will be
more open to him.

302
00:25:35,793 --> 00:25:37,206
[in Spanish]

303
00:26:04,137 --> 00:26:06,896
[in English] You wanted
$20,000 from me

304
00:26:06,931 --> 00:26:09,758
to invest in a house
in your neighborhood

305
00:26:09,793 --> 00:26:12,793
in order to rent it
for $100 a month.

306
00:26:12,827 --> 00:26:15,344
To me, that is not
a sound investment.

307
00:26:15,379 --> 00:26:19,482
I am thinking long term.
You are thinking with ego.

308
00:26:19,517 --> 00:26:21,793
You're thinking,
"I need to own a thing,

309
00:26:21,827 --> 00:26:25,137
I don't care
what the thing is,"
because you wanna show off.

310
00:26:25,172 --> 00:26:27,620
I am not funding your flex.

311
00:26:27,655 --> 00:26:29,241
I'm not funding that for you.

312
00:27:03,586 --> 00:27:05,517
[in Spanish]

313
00:27:05,551 --> 00:27:06,551
[Yohan speaks]

314
00:27:06,586 --> 00:27:09,000
[Daniele speaks]

315
00:27:17,896 --> 00:27:19,379
[laughing]

316
00:27:19,413 --> 00:27:20,310
[in English] No.

317
00:27:22,172 --> 00:27:23,172
[Daniele sarcastically] Okay.

318
00:27:29,379 --> 00:27:33,068
I honestly think that
Yohan is confused about
what he's paying for,

319
00:27:33,103 --> 00:27:36,310
because he hands me cash
for half of the rent,

320
00:27:36,344 --> 00:27:38,724
and I then wire that money
from my bank account

321
00:27:38,758 --> 00:27:41,310
and use Yohan's cash
to pay for other things.

322
00:27:41,344 --> 00:27:45,137
So, when he sees me spending
his cash on other stuff,

323
00:27:45,172 --> 00:27:48,655
he sees that as
him paying for everything.

324
00:27:48,689 --> 00:27:51,689
I pay to rent the cars
to go shopping, the light,

325
00:27:51,724 --> 00:27:54,586
all of the trips we take,
everything that Gizmo needs,

326
00:27:54,620 --> 00:27:56,413
all of that
is my responsibility.

327
00:27:57,896 --> 00:28:00,000
You wanna be a kept man.

328
00:28:00,034 --> 00:28:01,965
You don't feel like
you should have to

329
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:03,896
pay for anything
because we live here.

330
00:28:03,931 --> 00:28:05,551
I can live
anywhere in the world.

331
00:28:05,586 --> 00:28:07,758
I have a year-long lease
in my apartment,

332
00:28:07,793 --> 00:28:09,241
I don't need you
to live there.

333
00:28:09,275 --> 00:28:10,379
I can live there alone.

334
00:28:52,103 --> 00:28:55,551
When we met, we were so happy,
and there was just, like...

335
00:28:55,586 --> 00:28:59,034
[voice breaking] I understand
the beginning of relationship
is bull [bleep],

336
00:28:59,068 --> 00:29:03,551
but I never thought that
he had this in him.

337
00:29:03,586 --> 00:29:05,862
You know,
not willing to contribute,

338
00:29:05,896 --> 00:29:07,896
not willing to be
an equal partner,

339
00:29:07,931 --> 00:29:10,172
punishing me because
I can't have a child, like,

340
00:29:10,206 --> 00:29:12,827
any one of those
individual things,

341
00:29:12,862 --> 00:29:15,034
you know,
ever happened to one of
my friends' relationship,

342
00:29:15,068 --> 00:29:16,517
I would be like,
"Get the [bleep] out."

343
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:22,896
[in Spanish]

344
00:29:33,482 --> 00:29:34,482
[in English]

345
00:29:34,517 --> 00:29:36,000
[resumes speaking Spanish]

346
00:29:38,241 --> 00:29:39,724
[in English]
You don't deserve it.

347
00:29:41,551 --> 00:29:43,379
You don't deserve
anything from me.

348
00:29:43,413 --> 00:29:45,344
Nothing. Not a thing. So...

349
00:29:47,137 --> 00:29:48,206
That's it.

350
00:29:51,310 --> 00:29:53,482
Do you understand the word,
"relationship"?

351
00:29:55,379 --> 00:29:56,275
Relationship.

352
00:29:57,310 --> 00:29:58,724
[Daniele] Yes.

353
00:29:58,758 --> 00:30:01,000
Is this the relationship
that you want?

354
00:30:02,827 --> 00:30:04,379
[Daniele] Yeah.

355
00:30:04,413 --> 00:30:06,896
Because this is not
the relationship that I want.

356
00:30:17,827 --> 00:30:20,344
[upbeat music playing]

357
00:30:22,827 --> 00:30:25,344
[Kimberly] Dancing
isn't really my forte.

358
00:30:25,379 --> 00:30:26,655
I do a lot of...

359
00:30:27,448 --> 00:30:29,965
[TJ speaking]

360
00:30:31,068 --> 00:30:31,965
[laughs]

361
00:30:36,241 --> 00:30:39,724
[Indian music playing]

362
00:30:55,448 --> 00:30:57,000
[Emcee speaking]

363
00:31:13,689 --> 00:31:16,310
[upbeat Indian song playing]

364
00:31:30,448 --> 00:31:31,793
[TJ speaking]

365
00:31:37,068 --> 00:31:38,379
[laughing]

366
00:31:40,344 --> 00:31:43,137
Some of these dancers
are really fun.

367
00:31:43,172 --> 00:31:45,689
Like, they are so into this.

368
00:31:45,724 --> 00:31:47,482
It's hard not to enjoy it.

369
00:31:47,517 --> 00:31:49,517
[indistinct
background chatter]

370
00:31:49,551 --> 00:31:52,482
[scattered applause]

371
00:31:52,517 --> 00:31:54,206
I wasn't expecting
to dance tonight,

372
00:31:54,241 --> 00:31:56,344
because we hadn't
prepared anything.

373
00:31:56,379 --> 00:31:58,137
[TJ speaks]

374
00:32:04,068 --> 00:32:07,103
But TJ convinces me
to just get on the stage.

375
00:32:07,137 --> 00:32:09,068
[applause]

376
00:32:09,103 --> 00:32:10,275
So I suck it up. [sighs]

377
00:32:10,310 --> 00:32:13,172
[Indian music resumes]

378
00:32:16,896 --> 00:32:20,275
[Kimberly] I'm just
looking at TJ and hoping that

379
00:32:20,310 --> 00:32:23,000
if I start to make
a fool of myself,
he's got me.

380
00:32:24,275 --> 00:32:25,620
[TJ speaking]

381
00:32:27,448 --> 00:32:30,379
It's just like,
one, two, one, two.

382
00:32:30,413 --> 00:32:32,379
[chuckles] One, two, one, two.

383
00:32:32,413 --> 00:32:33,758
Or like this.

384
00:32:35,448 --> 00:32:38,379
[Kimberly] Dancing
isn't really my forte.

385
00:32:38,413 --> 00:32:40,448
I can do the one-two step.

386
00:32:40,482 --> 00:32:42,931
I've got whatever
this was called.

387
00:32:42,965 --> 00:32:44,379
[humming]

388
00:32:44,413 --> 00:32:47,344
And then I do a lot of, too.

389
00:32:47,379 --> 00:32:50,689
Anything with
a funny face move,
I can do that.

390
00:32:50,724 --> 00:32:52,896
[laughing]

391
00:32:54,896 --> 00:32:57,379
[TJ speaking]

392
00:33:03,965 --> 00:33:05,137
[laughing]

393
00:33:05,172 --> 00:33:08,310
[applause, cheering]

394
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:11,793
[laughing]

395
00:33:11,827 --> 00:33:15,000
[cheering, applause]

396
00:33:19,482 --> 00:33:22,586
No, he's not. [laughs]

397
00:33:22,620 --> 00:33:25,103
I think all of the traditions
are very different than ours.

398
00:33:26,448 --> 00:33:28,689
It's beautiful, but it was

399
00:33:28,724 --> 00:33:31,241
overwhelming, I believe,
to Kimberly.

400
00:33:31,931 --> 00:33:33,344
[TJ speaks]

401
00:33:33,379 --> 00:33:35,896
You're a good dancer too.
You guys did great out there.

402
00:33:35,931 --> 00:33:37,586
I don't feel prepared
for tomorrow.

403
00:33:37,620 --> 00:33:39,172
I don't know what to expect.

404
00:33:41,620 --> 00:33:45,103
-Oh. [laughs]
-Oh, my God.

405
00:33:45,137 --> 00:33:47,344
-[shrieks]
-[TJ continues laughing]

406
00:33:58,620 --> 00:34:01,655
[Kimberly] Everything
around me was hectic.

407
00:34:18,688 --> 00:34:19,655
[Kimberly] Hmm?

408
00:34:20,757 --> 00:34:21,827
[slowly] Yes.

409
00:34:24,172 --> 00:34:25,688
-[Kimberly chuckles]
-Yeah.

410
00:34:27,757 --> 00:34:32,206
Despite today starting out
in the absolute worst way
possible,

411
00:34:32,241 --> 00:34:33,827
I ended up having
a lot of fun,

412
00:34:33,862 --> 00:34:35,516
and I'm super excited
for tomorrow

413
00:34:35,551 --> 00:34:37,034
to marry the man of my dreams.

414
00:34:38,206 --> 00:34:40,068
[TJ] I love you, okay?

415
00:34:40,862 --> 00:34:42,206
[Kimberly] Love you.

416
00:34:45,688 --> 00:34:49,655
I'm sorry for
me and Mary's fighting.

417
00:34:49,688 --> 00:34:52,757
[in other language]

418
00:34:58,448 --> 00:35:01,275
Would it be better
if I just go back
to America then?

419
00:35:28,103 --> 00:35:29,551
[both] Hey.

420
00:35:35,655 --> 00:35:37,896
[Mary] I talk to Lola,

421
00:35:37,931 --> 00:35:41,034
and they're, like,
worried about our fight.

422
00:35:42,413 --> 00:35:44,000
Okay, what did they say?

423
00:35:44,034 --> 00:35:48,655
[Mary] Uh, Lolatold me that
she's really upset about it

424
00:35:48,689 --> 00:35:51,034
and that we should
talk to Lolo

425
00:35:51,068 --> 00:35:55,034
because we are
fighting too much,
and I agree.

426
00:35:56,379 --> 00:35:59,137
We shouldn't avoid
Loloanymore.

427
00:35:59,172 --> 00:36:00,482
Of course.

428
00:36:03,655 --> 00:36:06,275
I'm really nervous
to talk to Lolo.

429
00:36:06,310 --> 00:36:08,827
I wasn't thinking
about his rules

430
00:36:08,862 --> 00:36:12,310
when me and Mary
expressed our love
to each other physically,

431
00:36:12,344 --> 00:36:13,965
and I know he's gonna be

432
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:16,275
even more upset
with this conversation

433
00:36:16,310 --> 00:36:18,137
because of our fighting
and arguments.

434
00:36:20,344 --> 00:36:21,758
[Mary speaking other language]

435
00:36:23,620 --> 00:36:25,620
[speaking other language]

436
00:36:25,655 --> 00:36:26,965
[Mary] Hmm.

437
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:28,413
[in other language]

438
00:36:33,241 --> 00:36:34,862
I just hope that

439
00:36:34,896 --> 00:36:37,758
talking to him,
it's not going to

440
00:36:37,793 --> 00:36:40,655
end in a fight
between me and Mary.

441
00:36:46,448 --> 00:36:47,724
Um...

442
00:36:49,413 --> 00:36:51,034
First, I just wanna say,

443
00:36:53,103 --> 00:36:55,000
I'm sorry for

444
00:36:57,344 --> 00:36:58,931
me and Mary's fighting.

445
00:37:01,068 --> 00:37:03,000
I want you to know
that I do respect you

446
00:37:03,034 --> 00:37:05,482
and I appreciate
everything you do.

447
00:37:05,517 --> 00:37:07,655
[in other language]

448
00:37:25,586 --> 00:37:30,137
[in English] He's like,
"The house is now a warzone."

449
00:38:03,965 --> 00:38:05,586
[Brandan softly]
It's okay, you can tell me.

450
00:38:06,965 --> 00:38:07,896
Okay?

451
00:38:08,896 --> 00:38:12,241
Lola, Lolosaid that
all the people here

452
00:38:12,275 --> 00:38:14,172
talk [bleep] about us, like...

453
00:38:14,206 --> 00:38:16,448
[voice breaking]
Gossiping about this family

454
00:38:16,482 --> 00:38:18,586
because of me being pregnant.

455
00:38:19,620 --> 00:38:24,379
And the fights here, like,

456
00:38:24,413 --> 00:38:28,000
the neighbors there and there
can hear it.

457
00:38:32,965 --> 00:38:35,172
[Grandfather speaking]

458
00:38:45,482 --> 00:38:50,172
[Mary] He's, like,
not okay with me being
pregnant because of you

459
00:38:50,206 --> 00:38:54,241
and the way you show
your attitude to this house.

460
00:38:58,103 --> 00:38:59,379
Okay.

461
00:39:01,206 --> 00:39:04,482
This conversation
really makes me feel like

462
00:39:04,517 --> 00:39:07,000
I'm just not a good person.

463
00:39:07,034 --> 00:39:12,103
But, I've been feeling
lot of anxiety and,
uh, stress.

464
00:39:12,137 --> 00:39:15,517
I try to fight it
as much as possible,

465
00:39:15,551 --> 00:39:19,344
and sometimes
I don't fight it.

466
00:39:25,862 --> 00:39:27,827
Would you be mad at me
if I assure you

467
00:39:27,862 --> 00:39:28,931
that I'm gonna
try and get better?

468
00:39:28,965 --> 00:39:30,344
[loudly] Then be better!

469
00:39:30,379 --> 00:39:32,689
Okay, well, it's not gonna
happen in one minute.

470
00:39:32,724 --> 00:39:34,172
[sarcastically] Mmm.
Okay, Brandan.

471
00:39:34,206 --> 00:39:37,827
-It takes time.
-[Mary] You're doing it
continuously.

472
00:39:37,862 --> 00:39:40,448
Like, nonstop, even though
you know that I'm pregnant.

473
00:39:47,172 --> 00:39:48,586
You don't care.

474
00:39:53,034 --> 00:39:56,482
So, would it better
if I just go back
to America then?

475
00:39:57,310 --> 00:39:58,827
Did I say that?

476
00:39:58,862 --> 00:40:00,827
-If you want that, then go.
-Did you not say that?
Did you not say that?

477
00:40:00,862 --> 00:40:02,758
Then go, go, go back.

478
00:40:06,931 --> 00:40:09,241
You think it's better
for everyone here

479
00:40:09,275 --> 00:40:12,103
-if I'm, if I'm just not here?
-Maybe.

480
00:40:12,137 --> 00:40:14,655
Maybe, because you
can't change your attitude.

481
00:40:18,275 --> 00:40:21,965
If Brandan won't change
and be better person,

482
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:24,965
like, really man enough
to be a father,

483
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:26,827
maybe he should leave,

484
00:40:28,034 --> 00:40:29,896
because I don't want our baby

485
00:40:29,931 --> 00:40:33,689
to suffer with
all those problems.

486
00:40:33,724 --> 00:40:35,448
What do you
want me to do
at this point, Mary?

487
00:40:35,482 --> 00:40:36,517
I don't know, Brandan.

488
00:40:43,379 --> 00:40:46,965
[woman] Next time on
90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way.

489
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,620
I feel like I'm just
running late all the time,

490
00:40:49,655 --> 00:40:52,310
-and nobody's telling me
what's going on.
-Right.

491
00:40:52,344 --> 00:40:54,275
[Hindu priest chanting]

492
00:40:54,310 --> 00:40:56,758
I don't feel like anybody's
keeping me in the loop

493
00:40:56,793 --> 00:40:58,344
of my own wedding.

494
00:40:58,379 --> 00:41:00,000
-[crying] This is
supposed to be a happy day.
-[Lisa speaks indistinctly]

495
00:41:00,034 --> 00:41:02,482
Nobody seems to give
a [bleep] about me, though.

496
00:41:05,275 --> 00:41:09,413
We've been looking to see
if you can have a brother
or sister.

497
00:41:12,172 --> 00:41:14,689
[Armando] I don't want her
to be upset

498
00:41:14,724 --> 00:41:16,448
because she's gonna be
affected the most.

499
00:41:16,482 --> 00:41:19,000
[speaks Spanish]

500
00:41:21,724 --> 00:41:23,379
[speaks Spanish]

501
00:41:23,413 --> 00:41:24,724
[Daniele in Spanish]

502
00:41:24,758 --> 00:41:26,379
[in English]
Yohan and I are meeting
with a life coach today

503
00:41:26,413 --> 00:41:28,586
so that we can
work on our communication.

504
00:41:37,172 --> 00:41:39,724
The fact that my husband
can sit next to me

505
00:41:39,758 --> 00:41:42,206
and speak this way to me
is really heartbreaking.

506
00:41:42,241 --> 00:41:44,758
You want what you want,

507
00:41:44,793 --> 00:41:48,034
you want it now,
and you want it
to be given to you.

508
00:41:50,241 --> 00:41:51,310
[Shariyah] Hello.

509
00:41:51,344 --> 00:41:52,448
-Welcome.
-[Shekinah] This is my sister,
Shariyah.

510
00:41:52,482 --> 00:41:54,068
-Hi, Nice to meet you.
-[Sarper speaks indistinctly]

511
00:41:54,103 --> 00:41:56,172
[Shekinah] My sister
just arrived in Istanbul,

512
00:41:56,206 --> 00:41:59,068
and I'm a little apprehensive
of how this night is gonna go.

513
00:41:59,103 --> 00:42:02,482
So, if Shekinah
wanted to see your DMs...

514
00:42:02,517 --> 00:42:04,413
I never, I never let her.

515
00:42:04,448 --> 00:42:06,965
-I never--
-That's because he's hiding
something from you.

516
00:42:07,827 --> 00:42:10,448
If it doesn't alarm Shekinah

517
00:42:10,482 --> 00:42:12,655
and raise red flags to her,

518
00:42:12,689 --> 00:42:15,862
then I kinda feel like
I'm wasting my time here.

519
00:42:15,896 --> 00:42:18,206
Sarper, get your phone.

520
00:42:18,241 --> 00:42:19,758
[Sarper speaking]