[Statler] Previously on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way...
Is it common for men in China not to work?
[in other language]
[chuckles]
[bleep]
Dempsey texted me just now and said we can't afford the van.
I did not need this extra stress.
And I am having second thoughts, like, "Maybe this is a bad idea."
[Dempsey on computer]
I didn't know we were depending on that money.
[Dempsey] That's not true.
[James] It's been about a month since Tata moved to Indonesia
and I'm getting ready to move there in about a week.
When is she coming back?
So, she's actually not planning on coming back
because I'm gonna go over and join her.
And Mom and Dad do not know.
So...
I mean, you gotta tell 'em.
These bottles represent women he's been with in his past.
Make peace with it, it's not a big deal.
[Shekinah] "Make peace with it?"
[Sarper] Yes.
[Shekinah] You make peace with this.
This is a love letter that my ex-boyfriend wrote me.
[crashes]
[intense music playing]
- I don't wanna talk anymore. - I'm sure you don't.
[upbeat music playing]
I'm so excited.
Thank you.
[Lily] Oh, my God!
Oh, baby!
- [Josh laughs] - [Lily] Oh, happy--
- [Josh] Oh. - [Lily speaking]
[Josh] Yes.
- [kissing] - [Josh] Love you.
[Lily speaking]
[Josh moaning] You're so cute.
[Lily speaking]
- [kissing] - [whispers] Love you.
- Oh. Yes. - Love the little bow.
[Lily speaking]
- [laughing] - [kissing]
here, you take these. I'll get the bag.
Thank you so much. I like.
[soft music playing]
- Pink flowers. Favorite color. - Uh, yes. Pink flowers.
- You understand me. - Yes.
- Always you know me. - Yes.
[laughing]
- I love you. - I love you more.
[chuckles]
Love you forever, baby. Oh!
- [kissing] - I love you.
Don't worry about it, okay?
I'm so happy.
Finally together.
- [kissing] - [Josh sniffing]
Ah.
[Lily] Welcome to your home.
- [laughs] - [Josh] It's so beautiful.
- [Lily] Let me show you our home, okay. - [Josh] Okay.
- [laughs] - It's so much different in person.
[Lily] Okay, honey.
[Lily speaking]
because it can make, uh...
- Ice? - Icy.
- Ice. - Ice.
[Josh] Oh!
[gasps] No ice cream.
- [Josh laughs] - [Lily speaking]
Baby, follow me.
Oh... [Lily speaking]
- [Lily speaking] - Oh. No, you first.
- You first. - Okay, thank you.
- [Josh] Second floor. - [Lily] Second floor.
[laughs]
[Josh] That is so cool.
- [Lily] So cool, huh? - [elevator music playing]
- [Josh gasps] There's music. - [Lily] Yes.
[Josh] There's elevator music.
Okay... [Lily speaking]
- Our bedroom? - [Lily speaking]
- [Josh] Okay. - [Lily speaking]
[Josh] Cool.
[laughing]
[Lily speaking, laughs]
Your phone control lights in whole house?
[Lily] Yes.
- [Lily speaking] - Ah!
[Josh] Oh, English.
Oh, yes. English for you, honey.
- I love you. You're so sweet. - Mmm-hmm.
- [Lily speaking] - [Josh] Aw.
- For us. - Oh, for us.
[Josh] Love the toilet.
[Lily speaking]
[Josh] Shoot water.
- [laughs] - Yes.
[Lily speaking]
[laughing] Yes.
- You like? - [laughs] Yes.
[Lily speaking]
[Josh laughs] Okay.
[Lily speaking]
- Hmm. - [Lily speaking]
- Well, I'm proud of you. - [chuckles]
Thank you.
- Do you like our house? - I love it.
The little things you did...
- Mmm. - ...like the English.
- English. - Yes. That English.
- It shows me that you care. - Yeah. Mmm-hmm.
So, thank you.
Uh...
I know you put a lot into it.
- Yes. - And I appreciate it.
Lily always, you know, reminds me
of how much money she spends for the house.
It's exhausting.
You know, I don't need to hear it.
I just got here.
I don't wanna be reminded of how much money she spends on me.
[pleasant music playing]
[James] Go get your toy.
[whispers] Hey, be a good boy.
Never thought I'd be saying goodbye to you, little man.
[James speaking]
[pleasant music continues]
[James speaking]
Today, I will be finally leaving to Indonesia.
And it's sad to be leaving Jojo behind
and I don't know how long these rabies restrictions are gonna be in place.
He is part of mine and Tata's family.
He's our fur baby.
So, having to separate ourselves and split up our family like this,
is just the last thing I wanted to have happen.
[poignant music playing]
- [kisses] - [James speaking]
But, he is gonna be staying with some very close friends I have that came to get him.
And I know that they will take very good care of him.
and love all over him all the time.
[James speaking]
It was really difficult to say goodbye to Jojo.
That was the last little bit of family I had here right now.
My parents... our relationship is, right now, it's strained.
It's definitely strained.
[takes deep breath]
I ended up telling my parents that I am leaving for Indonesia
after I told my brother, Jimmy.
My family, right now, not my biggest fan.
[Meitalia over phone]
[James] It went about as bad as it could go.
Mom was just saying [exhales] how she's not happy about it.
It's really short and last minute.
She was crying and...
Dad never said anything the whole time.
That means I hurt him.
[Meitalia over phone]
Yeah...
- I'm sorry that we did it this way. - [Meitalia sniffing]
It was zero warning and I've done this before in the past.
That was just a move to Florida.
But this is outside of the country.
And I said I wouldn't do it again.
So, it's hurtful.
[door opens]
[Josh] Hello?
[James] Hey, hey, Josh.
- James, what's going on, dude? - [James] Hey, man.
[Josh] Holy cow!
- Big day, huh? - [James] Oh, yes.
Pretty big day, for sure.
It's crazy, I got like a long flight.
Uh, it's like 32 hours, but I have an 11-hour layover in Istanbul.
Wow.
[James] Josh is a very close friend of mine.
He was the only one who could drive me to the bus station.
But I'll be taking that to the airport.
Boarding my first flight to Turkiye.
After that, I fly straight to Jakarta.
And then to Yogyakarta.
So, it's gonna be about two to two and a half days of travel.
[grunts] All right.
Here we go.
[Josh] So, you're gonna be staying, you know,
- with her family this time, right? - Yeah.
At their house. Seven people live in that house.
- I didn't know that. - [James] Yeah.
Holy cow.
I'd be second-guessing this.
- [laughs] I mean, I'd be like, "Oh, my goodness." - Yeah.
- I mean, I've been second guessing it every day. - Yup.
I've had days when I wanted to just quit.
I wanted to just stop everything and say, "Let's just stay here."
- Yeah. - [James] "Let's just give this another go.
Maybe we just didn't try or maybe move somewhere else in the US."
If everything was to go completely down the drain
once I get to Indonesia,
coming back to the States would be just emotionally traumatizing.
I have no house, no home.
The only thing I would have is my family
and I'm sure, even them,
they're not gonna be super supportive.
I abandoned them. Again.
So, if I have to come back,
I would be coming back to nothing.
- [Josh] Yeah. - [James speaking]
[Josh exhales]
Oh... [Josh speaking]
All right, brother.
Go get 'em.
[James] I have a lot of anxiety.
"Will I be able to take care of us when we get there?
Is the banana chip business gonna work for us?
Will I be able to communicate with anybody over there?"
Uh, I'm gonna be having to adjust to a lot.
[upbeat music playing]
[James] But, at the same time,
there's no absolutely no turning back for me because,
that's where my wife is.
That's where, you know, my heart is.
[music slows down, then fades]
[sighs] Goodbye, water machine.
- I'm going to miss you the most. - [refrigerator beeps]
Will you miss me too?
- [refrigerator beeps] - [Statler gasps]
Today, I'm moving out of my apartment
and tomorrow, I'm going to England.
[chuckles]
[inhales deeply] Nervous chuckle.
[Sarper speaking]
Don't change the subject.
[Shekinah] It's my first morning back in Istanbul
and last night did not go as I hoped.
What those bottles represent is like, kind of trophies.
So, now it's just up to you.
[guitar music playing]
Do you mean like after last night?
[Sarper speaking]
I think anybody would be.
Yeah.
It's my first morning back in Istanbul
and last night did not go as I hoped.
But, our sex life is never affected by our fights
and Sarper's not the only one who went without sex for three and half months
and I find him so hard to resist.
But, even though we may have sex
and it might be amazing and great,
it doesn't mean that once it's over,
I'm just not gonna talk about the problems anymore.
[Sarper speaking]
Don't change the subject.
No girl wants to see a book like that from her boyfriend, you know.
It's not that I'm so sensitive.
It's like, you just don't do that.
And what those bottles represent is like, kind of trophies.
So, I do want you to get rid of them,
but you already know that, so...
Now, it's just up to you.
You are my trophy, as a whole.
- Well then, get rid of them. - I mean, you are my trophy in this life.
- Then make me feel that. - [Sarper] It's like...
What do you want?
Come on, let me show you something.
- Okay. Okay. - It's better to show you.
You know what this is, babe?
- A really dirty wall? - [Sarper] Yeah.
And this is the proof of my loyalty to you.
- Okay? - What am I doing right now?
Scratching your back?
- Yeah, like a-- - Why does that prove your loyalty?
[Sarper] Because...
look at this, babe.
[Shekinah] Yeah, your back is very hairy.
[Sarper speaking]
The lengths of these hairs
are proof of my love to you, you know.
You are my... It's the loyalty.
- You have the most interesting way... - Look at--
- ...of proving your love to me. - Look at this.
He's saying, "My back is hairy so it itches.
So, this is what I do instead of having someone else itch my back for me."
This place is just so dirty, it just like blended in
with all the other, like, dirty spots on the walls. I didn't actually notice.
[chuckles softly]
- [Sarper] All right? - So, now it's my job?
- Instead of other girls? - Do you mind? Do you mind?
Sure, I'll do it.
- Come on. - Kiss?
- [kisses] - Are we okay?
Yeah. Let's do it.
By the way, did you know I'm a speed waxer?
No.
I used to work across from a Navy base
and wax Navy guys all day, every day.
[in other language]
[Shekinah in English] Yeah, think on that.
- Make peace with my past. [chuckles] - [Sarper sighs]
Okay. Are you ready for a little pain?
Are you disgusted?
[Shekinah] No, of course not.
That means you love me, no?
[Shekinah] Nothing about you physically disgusts me.
[Sarper speaking]
Oh, really?
Yeah...
[chuckles]
I even find that [bleep] and farting jokes so gross
but, uh, when I picture you like that,
- I never get disgusted. - You are so weird.
- I never get disgusted of you. - [Shekinah] Okay, well, that's good. That's good.
The same with the period.
Be quiet.
- [pulls wax strip] - [groaning]
[Sarper groans sharply]
I have an application on my phone
tracking your period, you know that?
Can you stop talking about my period?
- [pulls wax strip] - Ahhh!
[Shekinah] I should put one of these over your mouth.
- [pulls wax strip] - Ahhh!
[pulls wax strips]
That was a good one.
Anytime that I'm annoyed, Sarper just turns on the charm
and it usually works.
But, I still need him to show me
that he's ready to be in an adult relationship.
If I'm gonna marry him and bring him to the States,
he needs to grow up.
[Shekinah rubs strip] So, babe.
How is your family feeling about the K-1?
[Sarper speaking]
- You haven't told them that we applied for it? - Yeah.
- No. - Why?
I don't know, babe. It's a big decision, you know?
Wait. So, you haven't decided?
- [pulls wax strip] - Ahhh!
Shekinah and I applied for K-1 visa.
[pulls wax strip]
Baby, it was an option for us.
I mean, we applied, if it's approved
and we check the situation and we can use it.
It will take time because, you know.
Do you really wanna go to the US?
No.
- No, you don't wanna go? - Uh, I want to be with you.
If I come there without enough savings
and if you make any expenditures for us...
- [Shekinah] Uh-huh. - ...I feel indebted to you.
And if I feel indebted to anyone,
I can't even sleep. I mean...
- What is your solution? - But we can survive here, babe.
- And then-- - I have a daughter.
I know that you don't know what that's like,
but like, seriously,
I can't just not see her on her breaks and just see her in the summer.
I... I just... I...
We're already coming to a place in our relationship
where the going back and forth,
we're realizing it's not very sustainable.
Like, it's too difficult, babe.
I am really taken aback because this was our solution.
I've committed to living in Turkiye with Sarper,
but going back and forth every five weeks has been difficult.
So, if the visa's approved, what are we gonna do?
I don't have any clue.
[Shekinah] If he's having doubts and hesitations about moving to the US,
it makes me wonder
if I should be investing all of this time being here.
[groans softly]
[sighs softly]
[upbeat music playing]
This is the desk that I need taken apart.
- Okay. Yeah. - So...
- Grab the middle. - Yup.
[grunts softly] Perfect.
[upbeat music continues]
[Statler] That's it. Completely empty.
Today, I'm moving out of my apartment
and tomorrow, I'm going to England.
Not only am I saying goodbye to the home I've lived in,
but I'm also kind of just saying goodbye to the idea of having a home
that isn't on four wheels.
[sighs] Goodbye, water machine.
- I'm going to miss you the most. - [refrigerator beeps]
Will you miss me too?
- [refrigerator beeps] - [Statler gasps]
I know.
Dempsey and I still have to wire the money to purchase the van.
But luckily, I was able to get an advance from work
for the £6,000 that we were short.
So, as soon as I arrive in England tomorrow,
we're picking up the van and we're starting our new life together.
Goodbye, apartment.
There's a lot of stability here
and I'm giving that all up for love. [chuckles softly]
I hope. [chuckles nervously]
[inhales deeply] Nervous chuckle.
[country music playing]
- Hey! What's up? - Hi. Good to see you.
- You too. - Uh, you know. Whew.
- Hello. [chuckles] - This is all your [bleep]?
This is what I'm taking to England.
These two, uh, suitcases.
Okay.
Can you help me build a storage rack?
- Yeah. Let's do it. - Okay, cool.
[Statler] Natali and I have known each other for about four years.
And she's helping me store some stuff
that I don't wanna get rid off
and won't fit in the van.
Natali has seen me go through a few heartbreaks,
so she's protective of me
and I think Natali has quite a few concerns about Dempsey.
Does she usually move very quickly?
[Natali] Yes, almost always.
So, what makes Dempsey special?
I'm not 100% sure that Dempsey is special to be honest.
[chuckles] Her opinion is invalid to me.
[plastic tube knocking]
[Natali] So, you're down to two suitcases?
[Statler] Yeah, two suitcases and a backpack
'cause the space is... non-existent.
- Super limited? - [Statler] Yeah.
I can't even wrap my head around how's the shower. What?
Well, it has a shower and it has a kitchen.
Okay.
- An expensive van, yeah. - [Natali] Oh, did y'all buy it?
Yes.
I took out a loan.
- You took out a loan? In your name? - [Statler] I took out a loan.
- [Natali] By yourself? - In my name, by my lonesome.
- For this whole thing? - [Statler] Mmm-hmm.
Not the whole thing,
- but a portion of it. - How much of it?
I took out a $20,000 loan.
Mmm-kay!
- And she sold her caravan. - [Natali] Okay.
- And so that made a pretty penny. - [Natali] Yeah.
- Less that what I'm contributing but, um... - [plastic pieces falling]
[Natali] You're keeping your job, right?
- Yes. Yeah. - [Natali] All right.
- [Statler] Since I can work remote. - What's she gonna do?
She's given up her job.
[Natali] So, how is she planning to contribute?
Like, is she just gonna be, like, living it up while you're working?
Well, she did say she's gonna make dinner.
[both laughing]
Okay!
I don't love being the sole bread winner, no. [laughs]
I would prefer double the income.
But I agreed to this because I want to be with the love off my life.
I do feel a bit jealous and I'm hoping I don't feel resentful.
Because while I'm working, Dempsey is going to be free as a bird
and able to really explore Europe.
So, that's gonna suck.
[Natali] I worry about you.
You make yourself small in a lot of your relationships
and you accommodate so much for people,
who give you so little, historically.
Because I think you expect rejection.
[Statler] I do expect rejection.
Because I was rejected from day one...
- [Natali] Yeah. - ...when I was given up for adoption.
From my personal experience,
it's not so much being adopted but I think, being relinquished.
It definitely affected my self-worth.
[poignant music playing]
[Statler] My very first relationship
was with my mom
and then, she rejects me.
So, if the one person who's supposed to, like,
love me, doesn't,
then of course, everyone else isn't going to.
I just constantly feel like I'm going to be rejected at the drop of a hat.
And it's affected every relationship that I've had since.
I'm really worried that you're taking on everything financially
and she's just kind of getting to like, kick back and relax.
- And enjoy Europe. - [Natali] And enjoy.
[sighs] I'm just afraid that like because you've lacked
so much love, that you're just so grateful that someone will move into a van with you,
that you're willing to overlook a lot.
Damn! [chuckles]
Statler, she has a tendency to jump into situations
without really thinking it through.
It's just this willingness to put aside common sense
for a chance at love.
I've just seen how badly it can turn out,
so... it makes me worried about her.
You deserve love and I hope that it is her.
But, you deserve to be taken care of, too.
You don't have to earn her love by taking care of her financially.
Dang, yeah.
I mean, I would just say like, kind of, maybe,
just think like, "What am I giving to this?"
- [Statler] Yeah. -"And what is she giving to this?"
Yeah. Geez, okay.
This is a lot.
[suspenseful music playing]
I feel like an emperor.
[Lily speaking]
[in other language]
[laughs]
[Chinese music playing]
[clicking]
[Josh in English] This is my first morning in China.
I can't believe I'm here.
It's like a dream. I need someone to pinch me.
I'm trying to get the stovetop working.
From the looks of it, I don't think the gas line is connected.
So, last night, I fell asleep pretty quick.
As soon as Lily and I were in bed, lights out,
I was out.
I was too exhausted. She understood.
So, I'll have to make it up to her.
[Lily speaking]
The stove doesn't have gas.
I'm trying to make it work.
Oh...
- Oh, for the fitting? - [Lily speaking]
- [Josh laughs] Okay. - Okay. Go, go, go, honey.
[Josh chuckles] Okay.
The wedding Lily and I had in the US
was just her and I. It was pretty spontaneous.
We wanted to get married before she had to go back to China.
[car reversing and beeping]
[Lily] Oh, my God. Where?
[Josh] But now, we're gonna have this awesome wedding ceremony
for her friends, her family.
So, how many people will be at our wedding?
Maybe 30 people.
[Josh] I'm as excited as can be
because I love traditional Chinese clothing.
And the food.
So, she actually ordered turtle soup.
That was one of the dishes that, you know, I requested.
So, I'm looking forward to that day.
[shop assistant in other language]
[Lily in other language]
[shop assistant speaking]
[Lily] Mmm-hmm.
[shop assistant speaking]
[Lily speaking]
[shop assistant speaking]
[Lily] Oh!
[continues in other language]
[shop assistant speaking]
[Lily] Oh!
[Lily speaking]
[shop assistant speaking]
- [Lily speaking] - [store assistant chuckles]
- [in English] Honey, do you think this one? - It's beautiful.
[Lily speaking]
I am letting you decide.
- Okay. Uh... - [Josh] I'm just kind of following you.
- We will decide. - [Josh] Yes.
We will try on.
- Okay. - Okay.
[in other language]
[Lily in English]
[laughing]
[Josh] I'm glad we decided to do this ceremony for your family and friends
because they could not make it to ours.
So it's special.
Because you mentioned it.
You said you want a wedding, so I said, "Okay."
I was happy. I like to save money. [laughs]
- I design leads. - Honey, you said...
- Okay. If you... - You said you wanted to...
uh...
- If you say so. - Oh.
[Lily in other language]
[in English] Okay, we try on.
[Josh] Yes.
[in other language]
- [in English] So, so beautiful. - [Josh] Looks good.
I love it.
[in other language]
[chuckles softly]
[in other language]
[Lily in English] Okay, you try on, honey.
Wow!
[Lily speaking]
[chuckles happily]
[Josh] Ooh, the hat.
[laughs] I love it.
Hand.
[kisses]
I feel like an emperor.
- You feel this one better? - Yeah.
[Lily] Mmm...
Yeah, I like it better though.
- You like better? - Mmm-hmm.
- So... - [Josh] I will pay difference.
Uh, you will pay?
I can take care of it.
Lily has not asked for any, you know, financial help for this wedding ceremony.
But, when I sold my house,
I had a little money on the side.
So, the least I can do is give her the dress that she wanted.
- So, you want too this one? - Yeah.
- You will pay money? - Yes.
Because I have no money.
- Yes, I know. You always say that. - [laughs]
[laughs]
My money, you know, pay house a lot.
- A lot of money. - Yes, you always tell me.
- Oh. [laughs] - I know. [laughs]
It hasn't even been 24 hours yet
and Lily is constantly mentioning she has no money.
It's a stab in the heart because she knows that I can't work while I'm here.
I don't know if she's just stressed financially,
but it's scary because one of my fears coming to China,
that she's gonna keep throwing it in my face every day.
And it's coming true.
If it's only day one,
what's gonna happen as time goes on?
I like this so we will get this.
[in other language, laughs]
[in English]
[in other language]
[in English]
[in other language]
[other language music playing]
[motor whirring]
[upbeat music playing]
[in other language, laughs]
[song playing in other language]
[in English]
[in other language]
[in English]
[chuckles]
[in other language]
[Meitalia in English] The best thing, I'm able to see my family.
Mama!
[both shouting and greeting]
[Meitalia speaking]
Everybody worry about me
because they still think that I'm just little. [laughs]
[kid in other language]
[Meitalia in other language]
[kids in other language]
[in English]
[in other language]
[Heri speaking]
[Meitalia speaking]
[Heri speaking]
[Meitalia in English]
[Heri in other language]
Um...
[Meitalia in other language]
[laughs]
[Heri speaking]
[Meitalia speaking]
[in English] I thought when I tell her about our plan,
it will make her excited.
But now, I worry if she have a good point.
James don't like being told what to do
and my dad like to tell people what to do.
My dad so disciplined with everything
and then he like to do things his way.
But, we need to stay with my parents
because we don't have so much money right now.
[Heri in other language]
[in English]
I hope that they will just get along really well.
Because I just don't want to go back to the US at all.
You're right.
Maybe she's only in it
because I can offer her a van life.
All of my fears and insecurities are coming up.
I don't know anything about anything is what I'm realizing.
I'm hoping I can not have a panic attack.
[country music playing]
[Statler] I spent last night at my friend Natali's house
because I gave up my apartment yesterday.
And today, I'm moving to another country
or countries.
Uh, I didn't sleep well last night.
And, um...
I'm not sure I'm happy about this decision, honestly.
[solemn music playing]
This morning, I woke up with a panic attack
at 3:00 a.m.
It just hit me that I don't really have a home to go back to now.
[Natali] Perfect. Boom! Plenty of room.
- You don't have to scoot that far up. - [Statler chuckles]
[Statler speaking]
All of my fears and insecurities are coming up.
Like, I'm going to live in this tiny space with this girl
who I've only spent three weeks with in person.
[Natali] Are you excited to see Dempsey in less than 24 hours?
Right now, I'm not.
- Really? - [Statler] Yeah.
When you gave me that advice about like weighing
what she's giving me versus what I'm putting in.
Yeah.
You're right,
in the sense that I do give up everything to a person
- to try to keep their love. - Yeah.
[Statler] And it's making me worry.
Maybe she's only in it
because I can offer her a van life
traveling around Europe.
Like, she couldn't do this on her own.
She couldn't afford this on her own.
Hmm.
[Statler] I've been thinking non-stop about Natali's advice
because I've been in relationships
where I've been taken advantage of financially
One example is,
I was renting an apartment with this girl,
and she told me that the cost was X amount of dollars
and it turns out I was basically paying almost the entire rent.
She got to save money to buy a house
and I was broke by the end of it.
I'm hoping I can not have a panic attack.
Just breathe, breathe, breathe.
[Statler] On top of all of my fears
about my relationship with Dempsey,
I don't think I'm ready for leaving my little hermit cave.
I've traveled to, what, two countries before this?
I'm not super familiar with like different cultures.
I don't know anything about anything is what I'm realizing.
- [Statler] It's time. - I know you're freaking out
and you're breathing really hard.
- But, just deep, deep breaths. - Yeah.
I'm like 50% that it's gonna work out, 50% that it's not.
It's just...
- Well... - [Statler] I don't know where it's gonna land.
I 100% believe that whatever happens, you'll hand on your feet.
Natali, stop crying.
[Natali] I just... I love you.
- [Statler] Appreciate that. - [laughs, then sniffles]
- I love you. I am gonna miss you. - [Statler] I love you too.
And I feel like I was very negative and suspicious yesterday
and I feel like now,
I need to tell you that it could go amazing.
[uplifting music playing]
Not everything goes badly.
You deserve good, wonderful things
and you deserve good, wonderful people in your life.
You're gonna have the adventure of a lifetime.
You really are.
- I love you. - I love you too.
[Statler] I'm taking a massive risk.
I'm taking the biggest risk of my entire frigging life.
And if things go bad,
I'm going to have a [bleep] ton of debt,
no home to go back to and a severely broken heart.
♪ This is once in a lifetime
[Statler speaking]
♪ Once in a lifetime
[Statler] But, I'm taking this risk because
I'm hoping that on the other side of all this panic and chaos and anxiety
there's the potential for a lifetime of love.
The love I've been searching for my whole life.
[Josh] Next time on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way...
[Josh chuckles] What is she doing?
[Lily speaking]
[Josh] It tickles a lot.
[Lily laughs]
[Ingi] Ah... Hey, baby!
- [Corona giggling] Hey. - Ah, good to see you.
- I missed you. How are you? - Good to see... Really good.
What I expected was a big, romantic gesture
and then what I got was kind of like,
how I reckon he probably kisses his grandma.
I gotta go get on this flight.
I am finally on my way to Indonesia.
[in other language]
[in English] They want a grandkid so badly.
But now, I don't even know if James wants a kid.
[in other language]
[in English] Some of these women
are reaching out to me on social media.
[woman] No, no, no, no, no.
The fact that Sarper was so adamant
that he didn't want me to go meet her,
makes me wanna hear what she has to say even more.
He said he loved you also?
[in other language]
[Shekinah in English] So, he's a liar.