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[Meitalia] Today I gonna meet James again.
And I'm just so scared he will feel homesick.
[Meitalia laughing]
I would never want us spending a lot of money.
It bothers me.
I can't financially contribute.
[speaking foreign language]
[in English]
Maybe she's only in it
because I can offer her a van life.
I'm taking the biggest risk of my entire frickin' life.
And if things to go bad, I'm going to have no home to go back to
and a severely broken heart.
I am meeting with your ex. Noor.
Women have been reaching out to tell me
that he is manipulative, that he's a liar.
How long in total that you and Sarper were seeing each other?
[in foreign language]
[in English] He said he loved you also?
[in foreign language]
[in English] He has told me that he's never said I love you
to another woman besides me.
-[Shekinah] Hi. -[Sarper] Hello.
-How are you? -[Sarper] Fine, and you?
[Shekinah] This morning I met up with one of Sarper's exes,
and I want to confront him about everything that she told me.
Because I do feel foolish at the end of the day, um,
with the things that she told me today.
I want to come here because it's an affordable furniture house
that we can look at something that you want.
[Shekinah] Okay.
On the way home, Sarper told me to meet up with him at a furniture store.
I've been asking Sarper to get me a vanity for months,
and it feels like he's finally doing it today
because he's concerned about what I've learned from Noor.
Honestly, Sarper should be concerned
because she was very transparent.
My mind is spinning from everything I just learned,
and shopping is not gonna fix it.
This would be so nice to get ready.
-You like it? -I don't like this one.
I don't think this is our style, really.
I'm barely looking at vanities right now.
All I'm thinking about, "She's coming from meeting one of my exes."
I don't have any clue what she says to Shekinah.
That really...
[sighs] makes me nervous.
Yes.
What can she tell you?
Come, let's go sit on the couch, babe.
[Sarper speaking]
What did she say?
She was very affected by the way you treated her.
In a good way or in a bad way?
A bad way, of course.
In a bad way, I treated her?
I'm sure you were charming and sweet and charismatic and made her feel special.
I think that's what you do.
Did you ever tell her you love her?
[chuckles softly] Never.
-She say that I say I-- -[Shekinah] She did.
She said that you told her that you loved her.
[Shekinah] I don't know if I can believe Sarper when he tells me
he did not tell this woman that he loved her.
First of all, the way that he reacted right away is really alarming to me.
His laugh is totally fake and forced.
I've never heard him laugh like that before.
And I don't know why she would make something like that up.
This is your pattern.
After I met you, you told me you loved me three days in.
Yeah.
And I thought, "He must say this to everyone
because, like, how can he love me? He just met me."
[Sarper] Okay, tell me...
I don't know why. I used to.
I mean, in three days, I texted you that I love you.
But not like that, you know?
"I love to being with you," kind of it is.
Okay, you made me believe that you weren't seeing other people.
And then when I came to visit you for a week on my second trip here,
you said, "Now this is real.
And, you know, from now on, you know, I'm gonna be faithful to you."
Yeah. I said--
But I thought you were already being faithful to me.
And I wasn't seeing other people because of that.
I really don't remember that time.
But the real thing was after that one week...
You tell me you have the best memory all the time
until it's convenient for you not to.
-[both] Okay. -[man speaking]
[Shekinah speaking]
The old Sarper was totally careless [bleep], you know?
But I changed totally, I mean, as a person.
[Shekinah] Well, I definitely want to finish this conversation.
You know, that girl, as I remembered...
Nothing more.
She described you as her boyfriend
and you were in a, like...
what was turning into a serious relationship to her.
Absolutely not. I mean...
Believe in me about that.
She didn't seem like somebody that had any reason to make this up
and she seemed sincere wanting to warn me.
And you are very good at what you do.
You have certain tactics that make women fall for you very easily.
They are not tactics, babe.
-They are, though. -That's mean.
[Shekinah] I loves Sarper so much,
so of course I wanna believe everything he tells me.
But I'm feeling doubt, I'm feeling afraid.
I wonder if I have been vulnerable
and opened myself up to the wrong person.
If he can't own up to his mistakes,
he does not have the type of character that I need in a man,
and I can't be with him.
You better be ready for an endless supply of those.
You're on, like, a kiss buffet now.
I'm so excited to here in Indonesia with Tatha.
These bags don't roll so well on these roads.
[Meitalia] I know. [chuckles softly]
[James] Me and Tatha are going to be staying at a hotel
for at least two nights.
Obviously, we haven't seen each other
in about a month and seven days.
So we definitely wanna be able to get really close.
Probably a few times.
Actually... touchy each other, if you know what I mean.
What am I supposed to do?
-So, you just wave. -Okay.
But we're not going straight to the hotel
because Tatha wants me to meet her family first.
Where am I gonna put the luggage?
That's very small.
Tatha's family still doesn't know
that we are moving here permanently,
and I'm really not sure how they're gonna take that news
or what it's gonna be like for me living here with them.
If they're anything like my wife,
it's gonna be a very loud household.
So I feel like I'm stepping into a war zone
and I'm not dressed for combat.
You sure this is all gonna fit?
-Yes. -Okay.
[speaking foreign language]
[speaking English]
[James] Yeah, I know.
[coughs]
[James] So this is where you grew up, huh?
[Meitalia speaking]
[James] Oh, my goodness.
[sniffing] Okay, that smells good.
Oh, do you smell all the flowers?
No, the flowers are so different.
[Meitalia] James come here five years ago
to meet my parents first before we got engaged.
But he never been to my hometown
So we are met somewhere else.
So now it is his first time.
I'm just beyond excited.
So nervous.
[James] I've never been to your house!
But I'm also scared of, like, making sure I do everything right,
like, respectfully greet everybody the way I'm supposed to do.
-Without this. -Yeah, I'll take the hat off when I get there.
[speaking foreign language]
-[in English] Are we here? -Yeah.
Feels like I'm going to the Indonesian White House.
It's got these giant pillars that just go up, up, up.
It's a big place and it's intimidating.
Hello, Pa! [chuckles nervously]
[Meitalia] The house is under construction,
but I don't know why my dad keep building.
He wants to be president of Indonesia.
-[James and Sugirah exclaiming] -Ma!
Oh!
This is so nice. So big.
[speaking foreign language]
-[Meitalia in English] "I'm working so hard." -I see. I see.
-I know. -[Meitalia in foreign language]
You are always. Always.
[Ratiman speaking]
[in English] Okay? Okay, Pa.
[all laughing]
[speaking foreign language]
[Meitalia in English] This is for frying the banana.
So to cook it. Yeah, stirring it up, yeah?
[speaking foreign language]
-[in English] This is for, like-- -Lay it here?
Yeah, put a cheese or chocolate--
-Ah, so this is where you flavor it. Okay. -Yeah.
[Ratiman in foreign language]
[Meitalia in English] Let's go up.
[Ratiman in foreign language]
-[Meitalia in English] Let's go up to the terrace. -[James] Yeah.
[James] Pa, so big.
[Meitalia in foreign language]
[Ratiman speaking]
[Meitalia in English] "Because I have six kid."
[James speaking]
[Ratiman in foreign language]
[in English] This is gonna be your future room.
[Ratiman in foreign language]
-[Meitalia in English] Almost done. -Almost done? Oh!
[Meitalia speaking]
For a visit? Or for...
For a visit or for just for stay.
[James] Ah, okay. Okay.
[Ratiman in foreign language]
[Meitalia in English] You still need floor.
[speaking foreign language]
-[Meitalia in English] Air conditioner. -Yeah? Right there?
There's nothing done in this room.
It looks like I'm stepping into a prison.
Right now, I would never be able to sleep. Not in this room.
[Sugirah in foreign language]
[Meitalia in English] "I'm just a little upset that we can't talk
because you can't speak Bahasa Indonesia."
[James] I know. Ma, I'm sorry.
[speaking foreign language]
[Ratiman in foreign language]
Pa.
[in English] Oh, yeah.
It's a lizard.
[Ratiman in foreign language]
-[James] Cicak? -[Ratiman] Yeah.
[Sugirah and Ratiman] Cicak.
-Cicak. -Yeah.
[in English] I'm going to try to learn. I want to learn.
[speaking foreign language]
-[Ratiman] Yeah. -[Sugirah speaking]
[Sugirah speaking]
[in English] You remember that you promised...
Yeah, I do. Yeah.
I need to make it happen. I need to do it.
[speaking foreign language]
[Meitalia in English] That was five years ago.
Too long, too long.
It's disturbingly clear that the three promises are still important to them.
They realize now that I don't speak the language.
I will do my best now and I will learn.
And I'm not sure how they're gonna handle the other two
when they find out how my feelings are about having children.
And I still have no way
and don't know how I'm going to take care of Tatha.
So the pressure is on and it's stressful right now.
[speaking foreign language]
So just one more flight, the last leg of the journey.
I've spent most of the flight panicking about what I'm doing.
There's no backup plan.
Holy [bleep], what the [bleep] am I doing?
I know you love me.
You're not in love with me.
♪♪ I just wanna
♪♪ Feel ya
♪♪ I just wanna
♪♪ Feel ya
♪♪ I just wanna...
[Statler speaking]
Glad that that portion of it is done.
After about ten hours on the plane,
I'm finally across the pond
and I've spent most of the flight panicking about what I'm doing.
So just one more flight. Just a 45-minute flight.
The last leg of the journey.
What I'm doing is definitely a big risk.
I have nowhere to go, nothing to do.
I don't know.
My new home is a van. Like, on wheels.
I'm in so much debt.
My friend has me doubting if Dempsey is using me and there's no backup plan.
Holy [bleep], what the [bleep] am I doing?
This is a lot for just a normal person,
but for someone with ADHD, and anxiety and autism,
this is just next level.
This is, you know, neurospicy comfort.
Where I am.
Not even anywhere remotely close.
I'm doing my best to stay positive,
but when I'm feeling this way, all I wanna do is shut down.
This isn't a good way to start the rest of our lives together.
Ooh.
Honey, this way.
[speaking foreign language]
-[in English] This is my husband. -[Josh] Hi.
[Lily] Josh.
-Nice to meet you. -[Josh] My pleasure.
[Lily speaking]
-Youzi. -Use?
-Youzi. -Youzi.
[Lily] Okay. Changing my shoes.
-[Josh] I'm gonna go back to change, okay? -[Lily] Okay.
I'm not one for sports. I never really liked competition.
But I know Lily enjoys badminton.
Ooh! Oh! [speaks foreign language]
[Josh in English] I've played a few times, you know, growing up,
but it's like ping-pong in China.
It's a very popular sport.
[all exclaiming]
[Lily in foreign language]
Oh! [speaks English]
-Are you ready? -[Josh] Of course.
-Hello. -We are lost. They are win.
[Josh] Are these the boys you always play with?
Yes. Two boy.
I'm Josh.
Josh.
Tiger.
[Josh] Lily's talked about the guys she's played badminton with before.
That always just made me wonder, you know,
"Who are these guys that she's playing with?"
So it's just nice to finally meet them.
Come on. My husband.
[speaking foreign language] Okay.
[in English] You're gonna have to show me, but I'm ready.
-Okay. -Let's get this going.
[Lily speaking]
Good. [speaks foreign language]
[Lily in English]
[Josh] Sorry.
-[all exclaiming] -[Youzi in foreign language]
-[all exclaim] -[Youzi in English] Nice!
-Yay! -Wow.
-[Josh] I need some water. -Okay. Just take a break.
-Okay. [speaks foreign language] -Just tell them thank you.
[Youzi and Panghu speaking]
[Youzi in English]
Oh, I am.
She's cute, adorable.
[Lily speaking]
[all laughing]
[Lily] Bye-bye.
[both] Bye-bye.
[Josh] Yeah, that's exhausting.
-It's fun, though. -Yes, it's so fun, honey.
And your friends are nice.
Yes, all our friends are so nice.
So sometimes I would ask you, I'm like,
"Can we video call?" You know? "Can I see who you play with?"
And when you would say no, it made me wonder why.
Why can't I see who you're playing with?
That made me jealous.
Oh, fake?
Oh, fake... Oh... Fake, fake, fake... Yeah.
[speaking foreign language]
[Josh] You know, if we message
and you, you know, take hours...
-[Lily] Mm. -...but yet I see that
the message is read,
so when I feel ignored,
sometimes I will say,
"I know you love me,
but you're not in love with me."
That is the fear I have. I don't...
I do fear...
one day... You know, if you left me...
-Mmm-hmm. -...I would feel lost.
In the past,
I've been in relationships where I've been abandoned,
and I just don't want to ever feel you'll abandon me.
Being apart does cause doubts,
and I get frustrated easily,
and it stresses me out,
thinking, "Okay, she's not in love with me."
Do you understand?
[Josh] I'm sorry.
Of course.
So, I'm glad you told me.
Not easy to hear...
-[Lily] Mmm-hmm. -...but I'm glad you told me.
Lily and I are no strangers to arguments.
I was hoping when I got here
that all the arguments would go away.
But instead, I'm realizing
we have more problems than I thought we did.
I know.
-I love you. -[Josh] I love you.
[Sarper speaking]
He was that way for so many years
that it's kind of hard to believe that
he just changed overnight.
I just don't want to get played by you.
[music playing]
[gasps] Adonis.
Hi, buddy.
[kisses]
Hi, sweetie.
We were missing you.
-Little cutie. -[Sarper] Boy.
I know I didn't deceive anyone, but...
I know I made upset many girls in my past.
I just wanna talk.
[Shekinah] So do I.
[Sarper] But people change.
I would never treat Shekinah like that, the...
the way that I treated the other girls, for sure.
[Shekinah] Yeah. Well, I mean,
the way that you've potentially treated women,
you know, affects me,
and this is serious to me
'cause I know that you admit to being a player,
but I just...
I just don't want to get played by you.
Mm.
But with you, I expose myself in social media everywhere.
I said, "This is my girlfriend.
This is the woman that I love."
Everyone knows that. My family knows.
Everyone knows that.
I just want you to believe that.
I mean,
at least see the progression I have made for you.
-Allow to-- -[Shekinah] I do. I see it.
I see it, and it makes me so hopeful,
but that also is so scary.
I just don't want it to blow up in my face, you know?
He always is telling me
he's changed his whole life for me,
and I do believe that.
But there's always the possibility
that he could fall back into his old ways.
He was that way for so many years
that it's kind of hard to believe that
he just changed overnight.
How do I really know that I am
this one special woman in his life
that he's going to change all of his ways for?
-Can I ask you something? -Sure.
You never said to her that you love her.
Never.
You know how sometimes I say I love you and you say, "Me too?"
-Yeah. -[Shekinah] Did you do that?
-No. -Really?
[Sarper] Because if she said that,
I would...
disconnect all the relations that I have.
If a girl told you she loved you,
-you would stop talking to her? -[Sarper] Yes.
Because it's something going serious...
-[Shekinah] Mmm-hmm. -...and I don't want.
I didn't want it. With none of them.
You can be sure about one thing,
I didn't play with anyone.
Okay?
And I'm so regretful about those,
but I didn't play intentionally with anyone.
Okay. Well, I believe you.
[sighs]
[Shekinah] I'm choosing to believe Sarper
because I don't have proof otherwise.
It's her word against his,
and maybe I do trust him blindly.
I don't know.
It sounds like I'm giving him so many passes.
But I have, like, a gut feeling
that he can be a good man.
I know that he can.
I see that in him.
I just hope that this is not a huge mistake
that I'm making.
I will leave him for good
if I find out that he's been lying to me,
Baby...
What?
You're so funny.
[chuckles]
[Meitalia] My parents didn't know at all
that we are going to move here.
When do you want to tell them, though?
Probably tonight.
That's really fast.
It's been one day.
I want to at least have a couple of days to rest.
Why we need to wait?
[serene music playing]
[James] Oh, God.
Babe.
Why is there water everywhere?
[groans]
I mean, it's a bathroom.
It's supposed to be wet.
[James] My first night here in Indonesia was great,
but I definitely feel we could've gotten more sleep.
-It was great. -[James] Mmm-hmm.
I like when you annoy me.
Annoying is our, uh...
word for...
making love.
[Meitalia speaking]
[James] You're the reason why there's so much water in there.
-No. -Every time you go in there,
you'll be just like... [mimics spraying]
...using the bidet.
-No! -It's like a shower.
[Meitalia] You will get used to it.
I don't know if I will.
I don't like bidets.
I had one bad experience,
and that was enough to make me be like,
"Never again."
It hit my magic button.
I didn't wash my booty hole,
it washed the insides of my booty hole.
This was a deep clean.
I'm still probably not gonna use it,
but you can show me.
[Meitalia] So, you're...
just sitting here...
Do you... Do you see that water?
Do you see how much water is on the floor?
[Meitalia] You do your thing, right?
And then, done.
Use this.
Put it down and spray it.
[laughs] Okay. What...
What about the back side?
How are you gonna get the back?
Open bigger.
Go back.
I got things down there.
If I spray, it's gonna hit, like...
Hold it up.
Okay, so now I'm supposed to reach down,
grab everything, pull it up,
-and then spray. -[Meitalia] Yeah.
Next time when you poop, let me know.
[James] What are you gonna do?
Come in here and spray me down?
[Meitalia] In Indonesia,
it's so rare for people who have toilet paper.
Toilet paper is expensive.
It's a worthwhile cost.
No.
Let's get ready.
-All right. -Okay.
[Meitalia speaking]
[speaking foreign language]
[James] Okay, that's different.
No, we definitely don't have this in the U.S.
[Meitalia laughs]
[James] It's a relaxing ride.
There you go.
[Meitalia in foreign language]
[James in English] So, we need to find underwear and socks.
-[Meitalia] Yeah. -[James] That's really all I need right now.
Socks.
Lots of socks.
[James] This... This will work. Cool.
[Meitalia] Okay. Anything else you want?
Before we help Mom and Dad.
[James] I mean, I know it's good
that Dad wants to teach me how to make the banana chips.
Do you think that's a positive thing,
that he wants to do that?
Like, do you think that will change his mind about paying?
[Meitalia] I don't know. I just want to talk to him...
and Mom.
Tatha's dad has reached out
and let me know that he wants us to come over
and teach us how to make banana chips today.
He's always wanted me to understand
what it is he does,
and I know Tatha's told me that
her parents don't pay family members
to help with the banana chips,
but in our situation, I'm really hoping
they're willing to make an exception.
[Meitalia] Or maybe,
if he didn't pay for us,
we can sell the banana chips and then we get a commission.
That we'd have to sell how many banana chips
to make
-what we need to make? -I don't know.
We need to do calculations.
Yeah.
Those are things we really need to figure out,
'cause we can't just live at their house
and not ever make money.
And with the car right now, we're still paying for that.
That alone is, like, $700.
A month. That's gonna just wipe us out real fast.
I had every intention
to come here with at least $10,000 in the bank,
and, you know, that would have lasted us at least two years,
but our car before we left broke down,
and we ended up getting stuck with an $8,000 bill.
It wiped us out.
On top of that,
we still owe money on the vehicle as well,
and we tried to sell the car before we left,
but no one's buying.
I wish I could say
it wasn't as big of a deal as it is,
but as far as what we intended to have for savings here,
we are in a really bad spot.
Is that even something that we could make here,
$700 a month?
Especially selling banana chips for your dad.
Yeah, it's hard.
So, that's gonna be a stressful thing.
I know. That's why we need to talk about it
with my parents.
He didn't know at all that we are
going to move here.
So, we... we need to tell him the truth.
Maybe he have good advice.
We don't know.
When do you want to tell them, though?
Probably tonight.
That's really fast.
It's been one day.
[Meitalia] Are you still in the same page, right,
that we are moving here?
We're here now, aren't we?
Yeah, but...
like, why...
you don't want to tell my...
-parents? -It's not that I don't want to tell them.
I just don't want to rush into everything so fast.
Well, maybe the problem will solve
and then we'd just not stress about it.
[James] I'm still too tired.
I want to at least have a couple of days to rest
-before we have this-- -But that's the thing,
like, we give them, like, a good news.
Why we need to wait?
I don't feel like it's a real thing 100% yet.
[Meitalia] It is. We are moving.
I think we can try to talk to them tonight.
And you know him better than me,
so I'm following your lead on this.
[James] I hope you're right.
Well, if you're not excited, you're not excited. You...
Fine, I'll be excited on my own.
Then be excited on your own.
Don't let me take it from you.
[bleep]
Cool.
[upbeat music playing]
[Dempsey] It's been about two months
since Statler left England,
and I've really missed her.
I wasn't nervous before now,
I've just felt, like, complete excitement.
Um, but now,
I'm here,
I feel like I'm actually seeing Statler again
for the first time.
Like, I'm super excited
for, you know, going traveling
and moving in the van together.
I know the pressure of the move and everything
has gotten to Statler more than it's got to me,
but Statler said to me that
she'll be excited when she gets here,
so I'm just waiting for her to be excited
when she gets here.
That's what's on my mind.
[upbeat music playing]
[sighs]
-Hey. -Hey!
[chuckles]
Ooh.
[Statler] Yes.
You look nice.
-Tanned. -You too.
I'm tanned?
-No, you look red. -No, I'm pale.
[giggles]
Where's your bag?
They lost it.
But it'll be delivered tomorrow.
Okay.
It's not a big deal.
It's less [bleep] I have to carry,
-so I'm happy about it. -Yeah?
Yay! I'm here.
Yes, I'm excited to see you.
[Statler] Just wanna go.
We can.
We have to get to taxis.
Yeah. Why?
Oh, because of all of your [bleep]?
It's got a bike in it and everything.
Yeah. It's...
It's, like, a 50-minute drive?
[Dempsey] Yeah.
You're not happy.
-No. -[Dempsey] It makes me sad.
Why?
You have no reason to be sad.
I'm here.
Great.
Um...
I wish she was a little bit more excited to see me,
if I'm being completely honest.
I am excited. I just don't have energy.
My battery level is depleted completely,
so I just...
I don't even have energy to smile right now,
like, I just don't.
Even if, uh, my battery level was so low,
I would still be excited to see you.
I would still, like, want to hug you and, you know,
smile and be, like, up, like...
But we're just obviously very different
in that respect.
I'm not gonna try to force myself to...
fake it. Like, that's one part of me that you like,
that I'm real.
I'm always honest and real, so...
I'm being real. [scoffs]
That way, I think.
[Statler] Okay.
What? Like...
Are you for real?
I've not seen you for two months.
We're going on this amazing journey and nothing.
I honestly, at this point, don't know
what's going on with Statler.
The plan right now is
to go and get the van.
If we can, like, put off,
do the whole camper van tomorrow,
like, I just don't want to do it today.
[Statler] I don't know why this was planned
immediately after the flight.
Because we're on a schedule, Statler.
[Statler] Dempsey's expecting me
to just be super excited and super bubbly,
um, but...
I think it makes sense that I'm not.
When I'm terrified and uncomfortable,
I'm not like, "Yay!"
You know, I'm like,
"Holy [bleep]! What have I done?"
All I want to do is check into a hotel room
and maybe take a bath and sleep.
So, maybe I'll start feeling better
about this massive life change.
Uh, but the...
The real option is go get the van
and start living in it.
Gee.
[sighs]
I don't want to be stood out in the cold for forever figuring this out.
-Oh, you go somewhere else? -[Statler] That's bad.
I'll sort the camper van out on my own?
No, 'cause you're gonna...
do it all how you want to do it.
Put me in one little cabinet.
Oh, my God, why would I do that?
Statler didn't want to be involved
in any of the planning.
I've literally put months of time
finding the van,
planning a whole trip.
All we need to do is get the van,
get in it and go.
In my eyes,
she doesn't really have anything to worry about.
If this is how she's acting on day one,
I really don't know if we're going to work.
Dude, I'm just done for the day.
Like, I'm just done for the day.
Well, if you're not excited, you're not excited. You...
Fine, I'll be excited on my own.
-I'm not gonna suppress... -Then be excited on your own.
-...how I feel... -And don't let me take it from you.
I'm not in charge of your happiness.
You're in charge of your happiness.
Let me be in charge of my misery.
I'm enjoying it just fine. Thank you.
What did you call me?
Cool.
[man] Next time on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way...
[speaking foreign language]
[woman] What the [bleep]?
[in English]
Iceland's such a weird place.
I think you've only seen me in, like, vacation mode.
-You've never seen me, like... -Yeah.
...pop the [bleep] off on you.
Because I consider myself soft partnering.
If you pop off,
I'm just gonna try to make you laugh.
That's a mistake.
[rock music playing]
Yeah, I'm not your typical Irish man.
I like...
[woman] This is gonna be interesting
'cause this is the first time you guys are gonna meet
a man that I am dating.
Everyone knows Shawn as my boyfriend,
but Shawn and I are actually married.
[Dempsey speaking]
I'm surprised tires that small can hold it.
[Dempsey] This is, like,
a life-changing moment,
but instead it's just, like, flat.
No excitement there.
[Meitalia in foreign language]
[in English] I don't think we're ready to have this conversation.
Things have escalated very, very quickly.
I have no idea what's happening anymore.
[Meitalia sobbing]