[man] Previously on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way...
The boys are about to meet a man.
They have no idea who he is,
and they're about to find out that that's their stepfather.
[Sean] Hey, what's up?
What's up, brother? How are you? All right?
I thought that you didn't really, like, have any extra money.
So, I told you I still had money from my car.
These intrusive thoughts come in that are like,
"Yeah, she said that she loves you, but, like, this is all a scam."
[both exclaiming]
[in other language]
[Meitalia speaking]
[woman in other language]
Last night, Sarper and I got into a huge fight.
That side he showed me last night,
I can never see that side of him again.
[Sarper] I am so regretful.
I texted her.
If she replies, I am ready to do everything for her.
I don't know if I even wanna see him again.
[singer vocalizing]
♪♪ Take it day to day
♪♪ I'm trying
♪♪ Trying to block The memories ♪
♪♪ In my head
Dempsey.
Didn't mean to make you cry.
I'm sorry.
[Dempsey speaking]
[Statler] But I do trust you.
There's just always this nagging voice at the back of my head
saying, "Hey, every time you trust a person, they let you down."
Every relationship I've had, I've just... I'm just always waiting
for someone to lie or not mean what they say
or let me down in some way.
And my insecurities are higher
with the stakes being higher.
-[Statler] You do? -Yeah.
That's good. I'm glad.
It still hurts.
I don't want to hurt you,
but I also don't wanna be dishonest with you.
I'm just brutally honest.
I hope you can appreciate that.
[Dempsey] To have it thrown in my face that she doesn't trust me
with things is, like, a massive insult.
I love you. Thank you.
I love you, too.
[Dempsey] But on the other hand,
I understand Statler's trust issues.
I know that she's got a good heart,
and I know that she doesn't want to feel the way that she does.
So, I am willing to give it a go and be patient.
So, we're not going to Dover straight away.
I have something planned...
-[Statler] What? -...on, like, on the way down for you,
a surprise.
A surprise?
-Could I have a hint? -You can guess.
Does it have eyes?
It does have eyes.
It's not a cat, is it?
No, but you-- We're gonna pet a cat as a surprise.
I mean, that would be a great surprise.
[Dempsey] No, we're here!
[exhales] So...
-[gasps] Really? -Yeah.
-No [bleep]. -[Dempsey chuckles]
Really?
[Dempsey] Yeah. Are you excited?
Yes, I'm excited.
There's a guy coming.
-[Dempsey] Hi. -[Luke] Lovely to meet you.
-Nice to meet you. -[Luke] I'm Luke.
-[Dempsey] Luke, Dempsey. And Statler. -[Statler] Hello.
-Nice to meet you. -Hi, yeah. Lovely to meet you.
Welcome to Bramble Farm.
Thank you. We're really excited.
Statler absolutely loves bees,
so I thought I'd, you know, surprise her with her first beekeeping experience.
I'm so excited. This is, like, a life dream of mine.
-[Luke] Really? -Yes.
The fact that Dempsey came up with this idea
makes me feel like she actually does care,
and maybe I shouldn't have been so harsh on her.
-Yay! -[chuckles] Oh.
Bees are one of my favorite insects of all time.
They're, like, one of the coolest creatures on this entire planet.
So, the fact that I get to, like, see them in their community
is freaking amazing. Ha-ha!
-How exciting. -[Dempsey and Luke laugh]
-[Dempsey] Are you excited? -[Luke] So, have you been this close
to a beehive before?
-[Statler] No, never. -[Dempsey] Nope, never.
[Luke] Well, there's nothing to worry about.
-So, I'm gonna take the top off. -[Statler] Yeah.
[Luke] And underneath the lid, there's what we call a crown board.
-[Statler] Yeah. -[Luke] So, if you put a little bit
-puff of smoke in the top-- -[Dempsey] You go.
-[Statler] In there? -[Luke] Yes, please.
[Dempsey] Okay.
[Luke] So, they'll go in and they'll start, uh,
-eating the honey. -[Dempsey] Whoa.
[Luke] And that will calm them down and make them very mellow.
[bees buzzing]
[Luke] Eighty percent of the population of the hive will be female worker bees,
and the male drones, uh,
their only purpose in life is to--
[Statler] Impregnate the queen.
[Luke] That's right.
Yeah, and then they kill off the males during the winter
because all they do is eat.
[Luke] That's right.
♪♪ Honey bee
♪♪ Honey, honey bee
♪♪ Won't you be with me?
[Luke] Lift straight up.
[Statler] That's amazing.
-Hello, everyone. -Got, like, a healing frequency, don't they?
-[Statler] Yeah. -[Luke] It's, uh, yeah, it's lovely sound,
-isn't it? -[Dempsey] Yeah.
[laughs]
It's nice to see you, like, actually just being present in the moment.
I feel like for the first time on this whole everything,
I feel calm and at peace.
I appreciate you for understanding me and accepting me as I am,
because it feels like nobody ever does.
-[Dempsey chuckles] -It's cute that you get me.
[Dempsey chuckles]
[Statler speaking]
[Dempsey laughs]
I love you.
This looks like a good place to pull over.
-Yeah? -[Statler] Yes.
-This could be hot. -[Dempsey laughs]
[Statler] Look, a view of the ocean, in a way.
-[Dempsey] Yeah? -Let's hop in the back.
Are you feeling kinky at the moment?
-You are. [laughs] -[Statler] I am?
-Follow me. -[Dempsey chuckles]
[both chuckle]
Would you like to hop into my humble abode?
[Dempsey] Yeah.
[dance pop song playing]
[Statler and Dempsey kissing]
[singer vocalizing]
[Shekinah] I've been staying at the hotel for two nights,
and I keep thinking about what it is
that caused this situation with me wanting a vanity
to turn into something so big.
And I just really think that Sarper needs
to work on managing his anger
and letting go of his need for control.
But I do still love him, and I'm not gonna walk away
from this relationship without talking to him one more time.
So, I've agreed to go meet with him.
I'm feeling a little bit of anxiety
about seeing Sarper.
Usually, I'm excited to see him.
But this is totally different.
If he doesn't take this experience
as, you know, a big learning opportunity,
then I don't know how this relationship can continue,
and that's scary.
Like, I will walk away from this
if I don't feel like he's sincere,
so he really needs to come with the right attitude and say the right things.
Thank you.
Hello.
[Shekinah sighs]
[sighs]
He's fine.
How is your place?
-Fine. -Comfortable?
Do you have anything to say
besides, like, making small talk?
'Cause that's not what I'm here for.
I mean, I can't sleep.
I'm taking sleeping pills and...
Can I just stop you right there?
I do not care about all of your ailments
that are a result of your actions.
You don't feel it.
I don't feel what?
Any sorry for me.
I don't feel sorry for you. You're right.
[Meitalia in other language]
[in English]
[in other language]
[Meitalia in other language]
[in English] I just hope that his answer
doesn't break my heart.
[Sean groans softly] That was good, bro.
I'm glad I was finally able to meet you after three years.
I mean, your relationship,
I haven't heard much about it.
[James] Mmm. Oh, that spot. Oh, that spot.
Oh, yeah.
Aw!
[chuckles and groans softly]
[Meitalia speaking]
[James] Oh, that hurts.
[Meitalia] But it will make you feel better.
[James] Yeah. How come you have to hurt before it feels better?
Aw!
[Meitalia] James, he's not feeling well,
so I decided to give him traditional coin massage.
-After this, you'll be farting and burping. -[James] What?
I was like, "Oh, she's gonna give me a nice, tender massage."
This is really tender.
Then she starts scraping me
across my back with this thing.
It scarred me and deformed my body. [chuckles]
It's an Indonesian torture device.
[James] Hmm.
[James groaning] Oh, man.
[Meitalia] Okay, you're done.
[Dicee in other language]
[Meitalia] While James is resting,
I decided to go to park with my sister, Dicee,
my two nephew, Kensi and Quiano.
They're so cute. [chuckles]
-[Dicee speaking] -[in other language]
[boys] Yeah. Yeah.
[Dicee speaking]
[Meitalia speaking]
[in English] Yeah.
-Yeah. -[Dicee speaking in other language]
[Meitalia in other language]
[Dicee speaking]
[Meitalia speaking]
[Meitalia in English] Knowing him don't wanna have a kid already upset me,
but it's so wrong...
that you let Adele know, but not me.
Ugh!
-[Meitalia in other language] -[in English] Yeah.
[Meitalia speaking]
[Dicee in other language]
[Meitalia speaking]
[in English] I need to know why he don't wanna have a kid.
Because I wanna be mom, so...
Yeah.
[Meitalia speaking]
I just hope that his answer
doesn't break my heart or our relationship.
[Joanne groans]
[Joanne] Oh, God. [laughs]
-[Sean groans] It was so cold out there. -[Joanne chuckles]
[Sean] How did you sleep?
[chuckling] I mean, I feel I slept fine.
[Joanne laughing]
-Ah. -[Sean speaking]
-[laughs] -Oh, my goodness.
[Sean] I live with my mother, and my house is way too small to fit everybody.
So, I rented a house out in the country
just so as we'd all have our own rooms,
our own space.
[Joanne chuckles]
I like it.
[Sean] You wanna go, eh, pick your rooms, please?
[Bella] Yeah! Let's go! Let's go! Let's go! Let's go!
I picked mine!
[Joanne] We were all so exhausted
that we just picked rooms and went to bed.
Okay.
Go settle in.
Sean and I slept separately
because Bella does not know that we're together as of yet.
So, he sleeps on the couch and I get the bed.
Do you wanna go get the kids up and get... get some breakfast?
Yeah.
-Anytime today. -Oh, shut up!
Guys, yous ready for breakfast?
-[Bella] Yeah, I'm starving. -[Sean] Come on.
-[Joanne] Smells good. -[Noelle] What are you making?
Sausages, eggs.
[Joanne] After breakfast, the plan is for the boys
and Sean to bond without me present
so that they get to know one another better.
-Without any es-- estrogen aruond. -[Joanne] Women? [laughs]
So, just three boys.
What up, bro?
-What up, bro? [smacks lips] -[laughs]
-I guess, I just-- -[both laughing]
-But why? -Well, as opposed to, "Hi. How are you?
-Nice to meet you. I'm your daddy." -[chuckles] Yeah.
[both laughing]
"You can call me Big Poppa if you wish."
-[Joanne] Just-- -[both laughing]
-Eat away, kid. -[Jesse] Yum!
-[Joanne] With your hands. -Yeah.
[Noelle] Really?
That means you're enjoying it more, I-- I think.
-It-- [laughs] -[grunts]
-Yeah. -[Joanne] Yeah, it's the best way to eat.
[Noelle] So, is this a typical Irish breakfast?
Yeah, yeah, typical Irish breakfast would be sausage, pudding,
bacon, fried sourdough bread.
-Ooh! -Pudding?
[Joanne] Yeah.
[Joanne] Yeah, that sounds--
-[Sean] You gotta taste it. -Okay, surprise.
[in American accent] Taste the sausage.
[Noelle] I'll taste the sausage.
-Taste the sausage. -[Noelle] All right.
-Oh, this is yum! -[Sean in normal accent] Isn't it good?
It's very important for the boys to get to know Sean
before I let them know that we are married
and that I'm thinking about moving,
and I only say thinking because they-- I need their thumbs-up.
-[James] Ready? -[Jesse] Yeah.
[James groans]
-[grunting] -You can't be old.
-Kick a ball about, yeah? -Yeah.
There's a... a lot of pressure on my shoulders.
But I think it's important to get to spend some alone time with them.
Hopefully, they'll like me. Hopefully, we get along.
All right, let's see what you're made of, Jess.
[Jesse chuckles]
[Sean] All these superstar stories I've heard about you.
Let's go, Jesse! [grunts]
[groans softly]
-That was good, bro! That was good! -[Joey] Pretty good.
-It was pretty good. -[Sean] Your mother wasn't lying.
Oh, the pressure is on, bro.
He's out to smoke me.
[Joey groaning] Oh, it wasn't that good.
[Sean speaking]
We'll have a bit of fun,
and I think it's an easy... an easy way
to get to know them, playing a bit of ball.
[Joey] Hey, take a shot.
-Me? -[Joey] Yeah.
Oh, come on, bro. [mumbling indistinctly]
He's gonna kick it, and he's gonna hit you
and you'll go flying back.
-[Joey] Come on, give me more credit than that. -Well, let's go, Jesse.
[Joey] Let me cook that.
[Sean laughs]
You're just making him run.
Good one, Jesse. Nice!
What a shot!
[Sean] Come on, big bro.
[net swishes]
[all exclaiming]
-[Sean] Let's go! -All right.
[Sean imitating Elvis] Thank you very much.
Okay, good.
They were good shots, Jess.
That was good.
Can I continue on this one?
[Sean] Yeah. Yeah. Go kick away, bro.
Have fun.
That was a good kick-about, wasn't it?
-Yeah, no, I'm glad... -It was good.
I was finally able to meet you after three years.
I mean, I feel like it's, uh, your relationship,
it's been, I don't know,
I haven't heard much about it from my mom.
Yeah, but you knew-- you knew we were together though.
No, I knew you were together.
But it's just, like,
it's my first time meeting you now
-after three years, you know what I mean? -Oh, well, yeah.
Yeah, no, so am I. I mean...
Yeah, I mean, you seem pretty genuine.
You know, it just, uh,
my mom deserves the best.
-She does. -You know what I mean?
She's like, I don't know,
I feel like she's kind of looking for me for a...
for an opinion on you.
Yeah. I'll hold you to it.
[Sean chuckles] Yeah, we will.
All right. Let's just grab Jesse and head out.
-I'm freezing. -Let's get out of here.
Jess.
[Sean speaking]
[laughs]
Yeah. I don't know how that one's gonna go.
I just want you to make you happy.
No, you're a grown man.
You don't make a woman happy by lashing out in anger.
Sarper has never been held accountable for his actions,
and that is gonna end here.
I just feel so stupid, being here.
I actually can.
Why do you want me to feel sorry for you?
-I'm not-- -You want me to feel sorry for you?
I feel sorry that you did what you did.
Shekinah...
Sarper, you ripped my hair extension out of my head.
Have you even asked me one time
-if my head is okay? -Completely accident, babe.
-I can't-- I don't harm-- -I don't care. You did that.
Every time I see this side of you that's angry,
every time I see that, it changes how I see you.
And eventually my emotions and feelings towards you
are going to completely change.
And I don't want that to happen,
but I'm just telling you, like, it can happen
in one night.
Did it?
I don't know. That's why I'm here.
I want to see what you have to say.
Yeah, I overreacted.
What was so overwhelming for you?
First of all.
That I wanted a vanity?
Everything, Shekinah.
I mean, the K1,
the future plans,
telling to my family.
So much tension I had.
I just want you to make you happy.
Well, that's not the way to make me happy.
Yes, it's not. I know.
Then why would you do that to me if you just want--
No, you're a grown man.
You need to know that you don't make a woman happy
by lashing out in anger.
I just feel so stupid, being here.
I feel like I made a mistake,
and I feel like all my friends and family were right.
And I thought that you were gonna
show me something different.
I actually can.
-Yes, you can. -That's what you need to know.
But don't do it.
You need to give me a real reason not to.
-You need to show me-- -I love you.
That's the reason.
Love is not enough.
I actually was in a relationship with someone...
And you're gonna listen to me, by the way.
So don't roll your eyes
and act like you're gonna zone out right now,
because I'm talking about my past.
-Okay. I'm listening. -You need to hear this.
I'm listening.
He was perfect.
He opened every door.
He pulled out every chair.
He served me hand and foot.
But guess what. He had a bad temper,
so he would lash out.
And it got to the point where he was touching me in anger,
like, lashing out, pushing me, restraining me,
tormenting me, literally frightening me.
[Sarper speaking]
That's my fault, which makes me more regret.
I've never loved somebody as much as I love you.
But if certain things that you're doing are hurting me--
What do you mean think you?
Think of how you're feeling right now?
Yes. [sniffles]
Not right now.
I mean think how I feel about you.
I mean, I love you more than myself.
[Shekinah] Sarper is 43 years old,
and he's never been held accountable
for his actions in a relationship.
And that is gonna end here.
He's lucky that I love him enough
to give him a second chance.
But one thing that I've learned
through all of the toxic relationships
that I've been through
is that unconditional love
does not mean unconditional tolerance.
And so I'm putting my foot down.
And I'm also doing so because I'm a mother, you know.
And I always think about what I would be okay with
my daughter allowing for herself,
and I would never want her
to tolerate this kind of disrespect.
Thank you for saying that.
I hope you really mean it.
And I don't just want you to say the words.
I really want to see...
a change.
I need you to go to therapy.
You're not in control of your own emotions.
And our relationship will actually stand a chance
if you can work through these things.
Okay.
You're going to commit to therapy?
-Yes. I will. -Every week?
-Yes. -Therapy for yourself?
Will you be with me?
I will be with you sometimes, but not every time.
Because you also need individual therapy.
I want to believe that he can do this.
And the way that he can show me
that he learned anything is by changing.
And I think he will
if he loves me as much as he says he does.
I want you to work on yourself.
I'm not going to come back to the house
with you until I know you've changed.
Once you have a kid, that's the rest of your life.
It changes everything.
I don't want to wait and hope forever.
[James] This must be a place people come down
and do lots of fishing,
so people probably definitely dropped something.
The coin massage from Tatha did get the job done.
I'm feeling so much better today.
Everything lately has just been so hard and stressful.
We need a moment to just breathe.
I miss doing this back home.
Finding rings, earrings, necklaces.
I think we got-- Oh, we got something right here.
Let's see if there's something here.
Not really much of a depth reading on this thing,
so it's hard to tell.
That's what it was.
It's the nail inside the wood
that we pulled out of the ground.
I'm gonna put it in my bag.
That way, we don't leave a nail on the beach.
Yeah.
[James] How are you feeling today?
What about?
Okay.
She told you that?
Yeah.
Okay.
Why you tell her...
but you not tell me?
I mean...
-I'm kind of a little upset that she, uh... -[detector beeps]
...said that.
I mean, I might have mentioned it to her
in passing at some point.
I don't know, that's kind of strange to just, like,
throw at me out of nowhere.
I wasn't like really ready for that conversation.
Well, let's sit. Sit and talk about it.
I'm just curious.
I am sorry that I talked to Adele about it
without bringing it up to you first.
But she's the one you're the closest to...
so...
I'm just trying to understand, you know,
if you had talked to her about wanting to have kids
or when you wanted to have kids.
Do you think you just don't wanna have a kid?
Period? Or like...
I haven't really completely
made up my mind about that yet.
It's...
leaning more in that direction for sure though, yeah, lately.
That's...
kind of been my mindset.
It's just the way the world is today.
We got wars everywhere.
I just feel it's a very toxic place
to raise a kid right now.
Maybe it's selfish of me to just be thinking that way.
Because I know it's something that you really...
You know, you really, really want to be a mother.
I do.
I know you'd be a wonderful mother.
You're gonna be the best dad.
Yeah, and I mean, I love kids.
I love hanging out with them and spending time with them.
I think I'm just scared of it.
Because once you-- once you have a kid,
there's no-- you can't just stop being a parent.
Like, that's the rest of your life.
It changes everything.
And, right now, I can't give them a great life.
I don't even know if I can take care of us here.
In Indonesia,
it's like you're supposed to have a kid
to make your relationship strong.
But I don't believe that we need to have a child
to make our relationship stronger.
I mean, I love you...
deeper than there's words for.
How would you feel
if I didn't feel like I wanted to have kids one day?
Is that something you could stay with me for?
It hurt me like so much.
Because before we are married,
we're talking about we're going to have a kid.
The last thing I want to do is hurt you.
I mean, I wish I could give you a solid answer
one way or the other, but I think, right now,
what we need to be focusing on is...
get ourselves settled here.
Once we've got our feet underneath us,
I'll be able to start thinking further down the road.
I feel a little better because I hear it from him.
But I still didn't get an answer
that we can have a kid or not.
[crying] If he doesn't want to have kids...
um...
I will still love him.
But waiting to know is like killing me.
I don't want to wait and hope forever.
I have very high anxiety.
I wish I could just snap my fingers
and be who you want me to be, but I can't.
When the anxiety hits, I'm in zero control of it.
It's a ship with no captain.
You don't have to be in my ear
-like this. -[Dempsey] I'm not in your ear.
♪♪ Come on, come on
♪♪ Get out of control
♪♪ But you feel like you know too much ♪
♪♪ You know nothing at all
[Dempsey] We're pressed for time.
I think the ferry is at 12:00.
I'm excited to finally be on the way to Europe.
Me too.
I'm feeling much better about things with Dempsey
after the beekeeping yesterday.
It just kind of lets me know that she is trying.
And, today, Dempsey and I
are taking the ferry from England into France.
This is our first border crossing,
so this is a big deal.
This is where we kind of pop the cherry on the Europe journey.
I'm nervous about the ferry
because I don't want to be on a boat.
It's only a short ride.
Yeah, you said 30 minutes.
That's not a short ride.
-That's a lifetime. -No, it's 100 minutes.
-What? -It's 100 minutes.
I thought it was 30 minutes.
It's 100 minutes.
[Statler] 100 minutes is a lot of minutes.
It's a huge boat. You won't even know you're on it.
I'm excited to see the rest of Europe,
but, honestly, I've been dreading this the whole time.
Like, I knew this was coming at some point.
I hate boats.
The awful thing about boats is you can't get off.
I've only been on a boat once before,
and that was at a lesbian boat party,
which I thought was going to be amazing.
Uh, and I spent the entire time sitting on a bucket.
[bleep] myself.
[exclaims in excitement]
Oh, boy.
[Dempsey in singsong voice] We're on a boat.
We're on a boat.
We're going to France.
[squeals]
[Statler] Oh, God.
[bleep]
Babes, good?
Yeah.
Your energy is a little high, though.
I'm excited.
-Yeah. -[laughs]
-Hello? -Yeah.
I just don't want to talk right now.
Okay.
[Statler] And I'm full of anxiety
because not only do I have a fear of being on boats,
but I have a fear of vomiting.
I can't even say it.
I have to like knock three times.
And so the idea of being on a boat
and then potentially getting seasick
like freaks me the [bleep] out.
Go outside. You'll feel a bit better.
Hey? This is nice.
-Hey? -I can't do this.
-What, you can't sit outside? -This is too much.
-Yeah. -Well, where do you want to sit?
You're supposed to be facing the front.
So I need to be looking at the horizon.
The seagulls are following us.
Yeah.
[Statler] When the anxiety hits,
I'm in zero control of it.
It's a ship with no captain.
I am just hanging on for dear life.
And do I want to be having this reaction?
Absolutely not.
Am I probably going to throw up?
Probably not.
But it's like my brain thinks that I will
unless I look at the horizon.
So I have to look at the horizon.
You don't wanna...
-No. -You don't wanna sit?
Stop.
I'm just trying to help.
You don't need to be rude to me.
Do you actually feel sick?
No.
What's wrong, then?
I have to be looking at the horizon
so I don't feel sick.
Okay.
[Statler] And I've even like sent her articles
about how to kind of handle somebody
who's going through a panic attack.
And in this moment,
I'm just like she's read none of that.
If anything, she's making my anxiety
even higher than it was before.
I just wanna get off the boat.
[laughs]
Yeah. God, I'd just like to sit somewhere else, really.
It's just a bit...
I-- Yeah. [laughs]
I didn't think that she would be freaking out
as much as she is.
I feel that every time I'm excited,
I have to like just push it to the side
to make sure she's okay.
And sometimes I just feel like I wanna scream.
You're being, like, rude to me.
Like, just allow me to need my space.
-Allow me to-- -Yeah, okay. I'll leave you over there.
And we just won't speak the whole time
because you don't want to.
-So then when we get over there, it's just-- -That's actually perfect.
Enjoy yourself.
-I'm not trying to hinder your enjoyment of this. -No, but you are.
You're affecting me when I'm trying to be nice.
-I'm not. Like, I will stay here... -And I'm trying to look--
-...and be by myself. -But you can--
-But you can talk-- -Just let me be by myself in silence.
Okay. You can-- you can talk about this,
but you can't be nice to me
when I'm like opening the door for you
and asking you where you want to go.
"Do you want to go outside for some fresh air?"
And you're just like rude.
I have very high anxiety.
I wish I could just, you know, snap my fingers
and be who you want me to be, but I can't.
I'm not saying that. You can be--
-That is what you're saying. -You can still be anxious,
but you don't need to--
If you look at the CliffsNotes of what you're saying,
that's it.
[laughs]
Honestly.
Sometimes you get irritable when you have a panic attack.
That's how it is. Like...
But you're not having a panic attack.
-I'm feeling panicked! -You wasn't having a panic attack.
-I'm feeling panicked. -Okay.
-But I was trying to be there for you. -It doesn't have to be
-an attack to not feel well. -And you're just-- and you're rude to me.
Like, I'm taking you outside,
-I'm trying-- -I'm not trying to be rude to you,
but you don't have to be in my ear
-like this. -I'm not in your ear.
[sighs]
[Statler] I think she just thinks my anxiety will be cured
because it's a nice moment, and it's like, no.
She knew that going into this.
The reality of it might be a bit much for her.
[Dempsey sighs] Oh, my God.
[narrator] Next time on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way...
[bottles clinking]
To leave my past.
[Shekinah] Sarper has known for a long time
that him keeping all of these bottles has bothered me.
Oh, my God.
[digital voice translating]
Now that we are all here together,
we, uh, have some news to share with you guys.
We can't put this off any longer.
-All right... -Spit it out.
We-- We-- [laughs]
Um...
We're married.
[Dempsey speaking]
I love life. I enjoy life.
I define it by the small things--
-I'm begging you to please stop talking about this... -The small things in life.
-...right now. -No, I won't.
[Statler] Am I going to get broken up with
while I'm in the middle of a panic attack?
This is too [bleep] much, man.
Because you've not enjoyed any of it.
Holy [bleep]!