1 00:00:01,502 --> 00:00:04,880 [Vittorio] "Previously on 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way." 2 00:00:05,005 --> 00:00:07,132 I consider life to be a permanent vacation. 3 00:00:11,178 --> 00:00:13,639 I was performing a festival and I had a plus-one, 4 00:00:13,722 --> 00:00:15,516 and I was gonna take one of my playmates along, right? 5 00:00:15,641 --> 00:00:17,851 And she was really weirded out by it. 6 00:00:17,976 --> 00:00:19,686 It's kind of annoying that Andi shut that down 7 00:00:19,811 --> 00:00:21,605 because it was something that was well within our agreement. 8 00:00:21,688 --> 00:00:24,983 Ah! [laughs] 9 00:00:27,027 --> 00:00:29,905 [laughing] Oh, my God. 10 00:00:30,030 --> 00:00:33,909 This welcome is really more than I could have hoped for. 11 00:00:34,034 --> 00:00:35,035 [Nigel] Let's go! 12 00:00:37,704 --> 00:00:41,166 [Niles] I don't expect this to be easy, at least, initially. 13 00:00:41,250 --> 00:00:43,502 I've made up my mind. I'm moving to Ghana. 14 00:00:43,585 --> 00:00:44,920 I'm going to be with my wife, 15 00:00:45,045 --> 00:00:48,840 and she has no idea I don't plan to go back home. 16 00:00:50,092 --> 00:00:51,927 She can't be mad forever. 17 00:00:52,052 --> 00:00:53,053 I'm coming to you, Mat. 18 00:00:56,598 --> 00:00:57,683 My name is Zuri. 19 00:00:57,766 --> 00:00:59,851 My name is Benjamin. 20 00:00:59,935 --> 00:01:01,603 [Zuri] When I first saw him, I was like, 21 00:01:01,728 --> 00:01:03,397 "Who's this nerdy guy?" 22 00:01:03,522 --> 00:01:05,774 We was made to be together. 23 00:01:05,899 --> 00:01:07,651 [Zuri] The first time I moved in with Ben, 24 00:01:07,734 --> 00:01:10,904 things in France did not go as planned. 25 00:01:10,988 --> 00:01:13,407 One time, like, his friends threw ice at me. 26 00:01:13,490 --> 00:01:15,867 And I hope, the hell, you threw ice back. 27 00:01:15,951 --> 00:01:18,245 It kind of felt like Ben's friends were just thinking, 28 00:01:18,370 --> 00:01:20,747 "Why can't you just be with a French girl?" 29 00:01:20,831 --> 00:01:22,749 But I'm determined to make this work. 30 00:01:22,874 --> 00:01:24,167 [Zuri speaking] 31 00:01:27,004 --> 00:01:28,755 I should've applied for jobs sooner. 32 00:01:28,839 --> 00:01:30,674 I should've done that. I didn't. 33 00:01:30,757 --> 00:01:32,926 -I need to know why. -[Jonathan] No, you don't. 34 00:01:33,009 --> 00:01:34,803 I have all the success with what I'm doing right now, 35 00:01:34,928 --> 00:01:36,930 and you're telling me to go look for [bleep] jobs? 36 00:01:37,014 --> 00:01:40,017 -I need stability. -Are you suffering right now? 37 00:01:40,100 --> 00:01:42,686 I have been suffering for the past, like, 38 00:01:42,769 --> 00:01:44,187 how many months I've been alone. 39 00:01:44,271 --> 00:01:46,607 [tense music plays] 40 00:01:49,109 --> 00:01:50,944 How far are we from the apartment? 41 00:01:52,904 --> 00:01:55,949 I decided to be not in the city, city center. 42 00:01:56,033 --> 00:01:58,118 So you moved and you didn't tell me? 43 00:01:58,243 --> 00:01:59,328 [Jessy] My blood is boiling. 44 00:01:59,453 --> 00:02:01,622 I'm so upset that he lied to me. 45 00:02:01,747 --> 00:02:02,914 [Vittorio] We are pulling up. 46 00:02:02,998 --> 00:02:04,333 We are going inside the home. 47 00:02:04,458 --> 00:02:06,001 -[Jessy] Oh, hell no! -[speaking Italian] 48 00:02:06,918 --> 00:02:09,463 [Jessy] I don't speak the language. I don't know anyone. 49 00:02:09,588 --> 00:02:12,883 And now I'm isolated in the middle of nowhere. 50 00:02:12,966 --> 00:02:13,925 It's [bleep] up. 51 00:02:14,009 --> 00:02:15,969 [intriguing music plays] 52 00:02:28,482 --> 00:02:29,900 Yeah, Brisbane! 53 00:02:29,983 --> 00:02:31,109 -How far are we -- -"Brisbaun!" 54 00:02:31,193 --> 00:02:32,819 How far is it to your house? 55 00:02:32,903 --> 00:02:34,488 -Like 30 minutes? -Yeah. 56 00:02:35,572 --> 00:02:38,950 ♪ We live the life Live! ♪ 57 00:02:39,993 --> 00:02:41,995 ♪ I wish you'd try this ♪ 58 00:02:43,163 --> 00:02:44,665 [Nigel speaking] 59 00:02:44,748 --> 00:02:46,541 [Andi] Listen, we're not in a hurry, babe. 60 00:02:46,667 --> 00:02:48,502 -[car honking] -God damn it! 61 00:02:48,585 --> 00:02:49,920 -[both laugh] -Nigel! 62 00:02:50,003 --> 00:02:51,505 Oh, my God. 63 00:02:51,588 --> 00:02:54,758 [Andi] I arrived in Australia an hour ago. 64 00:02:54,841 --> 00:02:57,844 I'm completely jet lagged, but Nigel and his friends 65 00:02:57,928 --> 00:03:01,014 pulled off this amazing surprise flash mob, 66 00:03:01,098 --> 00:03:03,392 and I absolutely loved it. 67 00:03:04,226 --> 00:03:06,019 [Andi speaking] 68 00:03:06,103 --> 00:03:08,021 -So do you... -Well, I know where they are. 69 00:03:08,146 --> 00:03:09,314 You know where they all are? 70 00:03:09,398 --> 00:03:11,650 Yeah, the camera's right by the speed signs. 71 00:03:11,733 --> 00:03:13,151 -We're actually speeding. -[Andi] Wow. 72 00:03:13,235 --> 00:03:15,404 -Oh, my God. -[Nigel] Yeah. 73 00:03:15,529 --> 00:03:16,863 [Andi] You guys have red light cameras? 74 00:03:16,988 --> 00:03:18,990 -Oh, yeah. -Like, everyone? 75 00:03:19,074 --> 00:03:21,159 No, not everyone. 76 00:03:21,243 --> 00:03:23,245 But they get you if you're on your phone too, right? 77 00:03:23,370 --> 00:03:24,746 Yeah, you can't have your phone in your hand. 78 00:03:24,871 --> 00:03:26,456 They'll get you if it's on your leg. 79 00:03:26,540 --> 00:03:27,791 What? 80 00:03:27,874 --> 00:03:29,376 Yeah, if it's on your thigh, yep. 81 00:03:29,501 --> 00:03:31,044 100% they [bleep] have cameras 82 00:03:31,128 --> 00:03:33,213 that have AI and that are like, 83 00:03:33,296 --> 00:03:35,632 that catch that. -[gasps] 84 00:03:35,716 --> 00:03:37,216 It's the same one that got you with the seatbelt 85 00:03:37,300 --> 00:03:38,719 when you weren't wearing the seatbelt properly. 86 00:03:38,802 --> 00:03:39,970 [Andi] Yeah. 87 00:03:40,053 --> 00:03:42,055 That's crazy, though, 'cause I was wearing the seatbelt. 88 00:03:42,180 --> 00:03:43,432 Yeah, but not correctly. 89 00:03:44,766 --> 00:03:46,560 [Nigel] When Andi was here last, 90 00:03:46,685 --> 00:03:48,603 we got a ticket in the mail later, um, 91 00:03:48,728 --> 00:03:49,896 with a picture of her, 92 00:03:50,021 --> 00:03:51,314 and she was wearing her seatbelt wrong. 93 00:03:51,398 --> 00:03:54,567 It was underneath her shoulder instead of over it, 94 00:03:54,651 --> 00:03:56,737 and the ticket was, I think, $2,000. 95 00:03:56,820 --> 00:03:58,196 I thought she's a grown-ass woman 96 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:01,032 and she knows how a lap-sash seatbelt's supposed to be worn. 97 00:04:01,116 --> 00:04:03,118 It doesn't matter if you're in America or Australia, 98 00:04:03,243 --> 00:04:04,244 you wear the seatbelt correctly. 99 00:04:04,369 --> 00:04:06,580 Like, that's just common sense. 100 00:04:06,705 --> 00:04:08,707 All you told me is, "You have to wear your seatbelt." 101 00:04:08,790 --> 00:04:10,709 -I did. -So I had to stipulate, "correctly?" 102 00:04:10,792 --> 00:04:12,002 -I just didn't -- -It's not America. 103 00:04:12,085 --> 00:04:14,129 We don't need to put warning labels on absolutely everything. 104 00:04:14,254 --> 00:04:15,422 Like a little label here that says, 105 00:04:15,547 --> 00:04:17,089 "Make sure you put this bit over your shoulder." 106 00:04:17,173 --> 00:04:19,259 Yeah, but a $2,000 fine? 107 00:04:19,341 --> 00:04:20,510 -Yeah. -That's crazy. 108 00:04:21,678 --> 00:04:23,805 Australia is definitely a nanny state. 109 00:04:23,930 --> 00:04:25,307 They're watching us. 110 00:04:25,432 --> 00:04:28,894 Speed cameras, red light cameras, 111 00:04:28,977 --> 00:04:30,687 seatbelt cameras. 112 00:04:30,771 --> 00:04:34,524 They have drug checkpoints outside of festivals 113 00:04:34,608 --> 00:04:35,817 on the way out. 114 00:04:35,942 --> 00:04:37,903 And they test everybody to see if you have 115 00:04:37,986 --> 00:04:40,363 any sort of drugs in your system. 116 00:04:40,447 --> 00:04:44,075 No cause, whatsoever. That's crazy. 117 00:04:44,159 --> 00:04:46,870 You've never, like, put it under your arm because 118 00:04:46,953 --> 00:04:48,747 it's scratching your neck? -No! 119 00:04:48,830 --> 00:04:49,998 Huh. 120 00:04:50,123 --> 00:04:52,292 I do that all the time. 121 00:04:52,417 --> 00:04:54,169 Oh, that's some behavior that's gonna have to change. 122 00:04:54,294 --> 00:04:55,629 [laughing] Yeah, I see that. 123 00:04:58,465 --> 00:05:00,801 So are you proud of me for only having two suitcases? 124 00:05:00,884 --> 00:05:02,761 [Nigel] You've done amazingly well, yeah. 125 00:05:02,844 --> 00:05:04,179 Just minimal. 126 00:05:04,304 --> 00:05:05,931 So that's one thing that's kind of exciting about... 127 00:05:07,265 --> 00:05:08,558 starting over. 128 00:05:08,642 --> 00:05:11,353 It feels nice to just [swoosh] 129 00:05:11,478 --> 00:05:13,563 wipe the slate clean. -Clean slate. 130 00:05:15,357 --> 00:05:18,568 And then, I'll collect all new things in your house. 131 00:05:18,652 --> 00:05:20,695 No, you won't, you [bleep] won't. 132 00:05:22,322 --> 00:05:23,824 Yes, I will. 133 00:05:23,907 --> 00:05:24,991 -No, you won't. -But we won't -- 134 00:05:25,116 --> 00:05:27,077 I won't have as many knickknacks. 135 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:28,411 You can have all your crystals. 136 00:05:28,495 --> 00:05:29,871 I won't have as many knickknacks. 137 00:05:29,996 --> 00:05:31,039 [Nigel] Well, that's good. 138 00:05:32,207 --> 00:05:34,459 t's nice that now that you're moving in, 139 00:05:34,543 --> 00:05:36,920 -Yeah. -I fell -- finally feel like, more grounded 140 00:05:37,003 --> 00:05:39,297 and -- and keen to, 141 00:05:39,381 --> 00:05:42,008 um, really make the house a home. 142 00:05:42,133 --> 00:05:43,385 Well, that's good. 143 00:05:45,011 --> 00:05:46,471 But I also do wanna just, like, 144 00:05:46,555 --> 00:05:48,640 throw it all away and live in my van full time, so... 145 00:05:48,723 --> 00:05:50,016 you know, there's that. 146 00:05:52,561 --> 00:05:55,021 Yeah, I don't know if I'm prepared for van life. 147 00:05:59,609 --> 00:06:02,654 Maybe when we're, like, actually retired, but I got -- 148 00:06:02,737 --> 00:06:04,281 I got too much music to make. 149 00:06:06,741 --> 00:06:07,826 Well, you can make music in there. 150 00:06:07,909 --> 00:06:09,286 -No, you can't! -But, like -- 151 00:06:09,369 --> 00:06:12,789 if we were, like, full-time gigging festivals, 152 00:06:12,873 --> 00:06:14,708 a campervan. -Yeah, yeah. 153 00:06:14,833 --> 00:06:16,459 Well, once -- once we get... 154 00:06:16,543 --> 00:06:18,295 We'd be having, like, 'cause the whole idea is 155 00:06:18,378 --> 00:06:20,213 you can have all the instruments with us in the truck. 156 00:06:20,338 --> 00:06:21,464 -[Andi] Yeah. -And we can do a gig, 157 00:06:21,548 --> 00:06:22,716 and we don't have to go home first. 158 00:06:22,841 --> 00:06:25,051 So you -- you just run around 159 00:06:25,135 --> 00:06:27,304 and go to hammer out all the festivals 160 00:06:27,387 --> 00:06:28,889 and do all the things that you wanna do. 161 00:06:28,972 --> 00:06:30,724 -Yeah. -And then... 162 00:06:30,849 --> 00:06:32,601 'Cause I ain't got no responsibilities. 163 00:06:32,726 --> 00:06:33,894 Sounds like a good [bleep] plan to me. 164 00:06:34,019 --> 00:06:35,270 Oh, my God. 165 00:06:37,355 --> 00:06:38,315 How's that not a good plan! 166 00:06:38,398 --> 00:06:39,900 Wow! 167 00:06:39,983 --> 00:06:44,154 Nigel is really drawn to living this free, nomadic lifestyle, 168 00:06:44,237 --> 00:06:48,241 while I am ready to put down roots and commit to my person. 169 00:06:49,534 --> 00:06:51,244 -[Nigel] We're here. -[Andi] Yay! 170 00:06:52,913 --> 00:06:54,247 Home sweet home! 171 00:06:54,331 --> 00:06:56,625 -Home sweet home, baby. -[Andi chuckles] 172 00:06:56,750 --> 00:06:58,084 Welcome home. 173 00:06:58,168 --> 00:07:02,213 It does not feel great that I have just moved here, 174 00:07:02,297 --> 00:07:04,841 and Nigel's already talking about packing up his van 175 00:07:04,925 --> 00:07:06,843 and hitting the road. 176 00:07:06,927 --> 00:07:08,303 Ooh! 177 00:07:08,428 --> 00:07:11,556 So it worries me to think that we might not actually want 178 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:12,933 the same thing. 179 00:07:14,935 --> 00:07:17,938 [intriguing music plays] 180 00:07:22,943 --> 00:07:25,862 [Jessy] Look at this long passage that leads to nowhere. 181 00:07:25,946 --> 00:07:27,948 [Vittorio] Like, this is luxury. 182 00:07:35,121 --> 00:07:36,539 You like flowers, you like nature. 183 00:07:36,623 --> 00:07:39,042 Nature comes from here, not from the city centre. 184 00:07:39,125 --> 00:07:41,586 [speaking Italian] We're here, we're here. 185 00:07:41,670 --> 00:07:43,505 Follow me into the nature, 186 00:07:43,630 --> 00:07:45,882 into the countryside of Florence. 187 00:07:45,966 --> 00:07:47,008 [speaking Italian] 188 00:07:48,718 --> 00:07:50,178 -[Jessy] It's freezing. -Take your flag. 189 00:07:50,303 --> 00:07:53,139 Remember the flag, the excitement you had? 190 00:07:53,264 --> 00:07:55,350 Alright, wave the flag, great. 191 00:07:55,475 --> 00:07:58,311 You look at this, look at how beautiful! 192 00:07:58,395 --> 00:08:00,647 [Jessy] Before I got to Florence, 193 00:08:00,730 --> 00:08:03,316 I was under the impression that Vittorio still lived 194 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:05,819 in the same place as last time, when I visited him, 195 00:08:05,902 --> 00:08:07,028 which was in the city center. 196 00:08:07,153 --> 00:08:09,447 I never said, "I still live in the city center." 197 00:08:09,531 --> 00:08:11,533 I omitted the truth. 198 00:08:11,658 --> 00:08:13,284 Lie is really say, 199 00:08:13,368 --> 00:08:15,370 I did this and you didn't do. 200 00:08:15,495 --> 00:08:18,164 Omitting the truth is just not saying it. 201 00:08:18,289 --> 00:08:20,207 You omit. 202 00:08:20,332 --> 00:08:21,459 You don't say it. 203 00:08:21,543 --> 00:08:24,295 But omitting the truth is also like a form of deception. 204 00:08:24,379 --> 00:08:26,256 So dress it up how you want. You're still lying. 205 00:08:29,467 --> 00:08:30,885 [Vittorio] Look, beautiful! 206 00:08:33,263 --> 00:08:34,681 Follow me. 207 00:08:36,850 --> 00:08:38,977 [Jessy] I didn't wear the right shoes for this. 208 00:08:39,059 --> 00:08:40,979 [Vittorio] I know, it's a bit of struggle, 209 00:08:41,062 --> 00:08:42,772 but don't worry. Here we are. 210 00:08:44,649 --> 00:08:46,985 How are you supposed to drag luggage to here? 211 00:08:49,988 --> 00:08:51,656 OK, let's do like this. 212 00:08:51,740 --> 00:08:52,866 We leave this here. 213 00:08:52,949 --> 00:08:54,617 I show you the house first, 214 00:08:54,701 --> 00:08:56,870 and I come back to pick it up, OK? 215 00:08:56,995 --> 00:08:58,079 Vittorio, this is not... 216 00:08:58,204 --> 00:08:59,748 [speaking Italian] 217 00:09:00,915 --> 00:09:03,376 I show you, OK? Follow me. 218 00:09:03,501 --> 00:09:05,420 I get you situated inside the house. 219 00:09:06,713 --> 00:09:09,674 This is good. Hi, look how beautiful. 220 00:09:09,758 --> 00:09:13,720 It's a characteristic Tuscan situation. 221 00:09:13,845 --> 00:09:15,930 People pay a lot of money to be here. 222 00:09:16,056 --> 00:09:20,977 Maybe you don't realize this is the top, you know? 223 00:09:21,061 --> 00:09:22,896 -Look down that road! -[in Italian] Va be'. 224 00:09:22,979 --> 00:09:26,107 Like we're literally in the middle of nowhere. 225 00:09:26,232 --> 00:09:28,943 [Vittorio] Don't worry, let's continue. Let's not look back, please. 226 00:09:30,278 --> 00:09:32,072 I used to live in the city center, 227 00:09:32,155 --> 00:09:35,492 but I grew up in the countryside of Firenze. 228 00:09:35,575 --> 00:09:39,746 And after some time, I decided I want to go back to my roots, 229 00:09:39,871 --> 00:09:42,248 to my hills of Tuscany. 230 00:09:42,332 --> 00:09:44,834 I moved here a couple of months ago. 231 00:09:44,918 --> 00:09:46,753 It's a typical Tuscan village 232 00:09:46,836 --> 00:09:48,922 where at the center you have a piazza, 233 00:09:49,005 --> 00:09:50,215 a square, 234 00:09:50,298 --> 00:09:52,342 and then you have different housing units 235 00:09:52,425 --> 00:09:54,052 where you can stay. 236 00:09:54,135 --> 00:09:55,303 It is the countryside, 237 00:09:55,428 --> 00:09:56,846 but it's 15 minutes from the city. 238 00:09:56,930 --> 00:09:58,139 It's not 15 minutes. 239 00:09:58,264 --> 00:10:00,767 No, I timed myself with the Vespa. 240 00:10:02,685 --> 00:10:04,729 Look at this view there, pretty. 241 00:10:04,813 --> 00:10:06,106 -This is beautiful. -It's beautiful. 242 00:10:06,231 --> 00:10:07,273 It's beautiful. 243 00:10:07,398 --> 00:10:08,900 [both speaking Italian] 244 00:10:08,983 --> 00:10:09,901 Eh, grazie! 245 00:10:09,984 --> 00:10:11,778 Finally, you say something positive. 246 00:10:11,903 --> 00:10:13,613 I'm just spooked, because I did not think -- 247 00:10:13,738 --> 00:10:16,116 I did not anticipate this is where you lived. 248 00:10:16,199 --> 00:10:17,325 It's a surprise. 249 00:10:17,450 --> 00:10:20,495 I wanted to give a surprise. Ta da! 250 00:10:20,620 --> 00:10:23,289 [Jessy] It's not that this place is not beautiful. 251 00:10:23,414 --> 00:10:24,916 I mean, it is, it's stunning, but 252 00:10:24,999 --> 00:10:29,212 this is a whole new reality that I was not prepared for. 253 00:10:29,295 --> 00:10:31,131 OK, here the house. 254 00:10:31,256 --> 00:10:32,465 [Jessy] And to top it all off, 255 00:10:32,549 --> 00:10:34,008 he didn't even tell me that he moved. 256 00:10:35,468 --> 00:10:36,719 [Vittorio] It's a bit tight, right? 257 00:10:36,803 --> 00:10:37,804 [in Italian] Ecco. 258 00:10:37,929 --> 00:10:38,972 Here we are. 259 00:10:39,055 --> 00:10:40,682 Home sweet home. 260 00:10:40,807 --> 00:10:42,142 -[in Italian] Ecco! -OK. 261 00:10:42,225 --> 00:10:43,643 Look how nice! 262 00:10:47,355 --> 00:10:48,314 It's big! 263 00:10:48,439 --> 00:10:49,941 Come, put this here. 264 00:10:50,024 --> 00:10:51,276 I'll show you a little bit. 265 00:10:51,359 --> 00:10:53,194 This is the main area. 266 00:10:53,319 --> 00:10:55,488 You have the fireplace. 267 00:10:55,572 --> 00:10:56,906 -Oh, that's kind of cool, yeah. -[in Italian] É! 268 00:10:56,990 --> 00:10:58,491 [Vittorio] You see? 269 00:10:58,616 --> 00:11:01,119 And then I get you all these vegetables. 270 00:11:01,202 --> 00:11:02,745 -[Jessy] Aw, thank you! -Look at this color. 271 00:11:02,829 --> 00:11:04,873 Look at this. I'm gonna cook for you, 272 00:11:04,998 --> 00:11:07,417 make you the best meals ever. You see? 273 00:11:07,500 --> 00:11:09,919 And then I show you more. -Gorgeous, wow. 274 00:11:10,003 --> 00:11:12,005 [Vittorio] Here is the more of the situation of the house. 275 00:11:15,008 --> 00:11:19,429 The house looks very... characteristic. 276 00:11:19,512 --> 00:11:20,889 A lot of wood. 277 00:11:21,014 --> 00:11:22,432 [Vittorio] I show you the bathroom. 278 00:11:22,515 --> 00:11:24,851 So here it is, traditional. 279 00:11:24,976 --> 00:11:27,937 Tiny, but intimate, but nice. 280 00:11:28,021 --> 00:11:29,606 -Intimate. -It's very like, boutique. 281 00:11:29,689 --> 00:11:30,899 [speaking Italian] Brava, a boutique! Ecco! 282 00:11:31,024 --> 00:11:32,192 And you see, we have bidet. 283 00:11:33,693 --> 00:11:36,779 Because we are clean people, we have bidet. 284 00:11:36,863 --> 00:11:39,240 Everything just looks a little bit more artisanal. 285 00:11:40,783 --> 00:11:42,243 -You smell... -[Jessy] A lot of wood. 286 00:11:42,368 --> 00:11:45,038 You smell the century, the old things. 287 00:11:46,039 --> 00:11:50,043 [Jessy] Even the furniture just feels very antique. 288 00:11:50,168 --> 00:11:53,713 The house just feels very like Nonna's house. 289 00:11:53,796 --> 00:11:55,590 And there's no Nonna here, it's just him and I. 290 00:11:55,715 --> 00:11:58,218 And you see the ceilings are always like this. 291 00:11:58,301 --> 00:12:00,595 I know you will say, "I've never been in a place like this." 292 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:02,138 That's the point. 293 00:12:02,222 --> 00:12:03,890 [Jessy] It's fine, I know I'm in Italy, 294 00:12:04,015 --> 00:12:07,185 but again, it's just not what I had in mind. 295 00:12:07,268 --> 00:12:09,270 You see, I put for you a path. 296 00:12:10,730 --> 00:12:11,731 [Jessy] Beautiful. 297 00:12:13,149 --> 00:12:14,901 -Oh, wow. -Oh, this is the bedroom. 298 00:12:17,695 --> 00:12:19,906 Beautiful! Aw! 299 00:12:19,989 --> 00:12:21,532 Thank you! 300 00:12:21,616 --> 00:12:23,701 Balloon! Do you know I love balloons? 301 00:12:23,785 --> 00:12:25,119 [Vittorio] I know you like balloon. 302 00:12:25,245 --> 00:12:26,579 -[indistinct]. -Thank you. 303 00:12:26,663 --> 00:12:28,414 -Mwah! I'm so glad. -Wow! 304 00:12:28,539 --> 00:12:30,291 -I'm so glad. -Wow, this is so special. 305 00:12:30,416 --> 00:12:31,751 -Aw. -[Jessy] These are beautiful. 306 00:12:31,876 --> 00:12:33,419 É, look at that. 307 00:12:33,503 --> 00:12:34,921 Vedi? Come on. 308 00:12:35,004 --> 00:12:36,547 It helps your case, yeah. 309 00:12:36,631 --> 00:12:39,259 I didn't see you for so long. 310 00:12:39,384 --> 00:12:40,885 [Jessy] Thank you. 311 00:12:40,969 --> 00:12:44,722 Oh, this is all very nice, but it's like a lot of things 312 00:12:44,806 --> 00:12:46,933 being thrown at me at once, so. -[Vittorio] Oh, OK, all at once. 313 00:12:47,058 --> 00:12:49,686 -OK, OK, OK. -I'm a little bit, 314 00:12:49,769 --> 00:12:51,604 honestly, a little bit scared. 315 00:12:51,688 --> 00:12:54,565 Like, it's gorgeous, yeah, but when I had envisioned 316 00:12:54,649 --> 00:12:56,693 my new life in Italy, 317 00:12:56,776 --> 00:12:58,945 I didn't think I would be in the middle of nowhere. 318 00:12:59,028 --> 00:13:00,196 It's a lot. 319 00:13:01,447 --> 00:13:04,784 [Jessy] I find Jessy to be a little bit upset. 320 00:13:04,867 --> 00:13:06,744 So I do not think that... 321 00:13:07,912 --> 00:13:10,331 sex will happen for tonight. 322 00:13:10,456 --> 00:13:12,792 I was thinking and hoping because, you know, 323 00:13:12,917 --> 00:13:15,211 she's bellisima, we're finally together, 324 00:13:15,295 --> 00:13:16,671 you know, for good, 325 00:13:16,796 --> 00:13:20,049 and I want finally to see how it is. 326 00:13:20,133 --> 00:13:21,092 If it happen, it happen. 327 00:13:21,175 --> 00:13:23,803 If it don't happen, it will happen. 328 00:13:23,886 --> 00:13:25,513 You kept this from me. 329 00:13:25,638 --> 00:13:27,223 You didn't tell me that you lived here. 330 00:13:27,307 --> 00:13:29,809 Like, I don't know what else you might be lying about. 331 00:13:29,892 --> 00:13:31,477 No, lying is a big word. 332 00:13:31,561 --> 00:13:33,396 I thought if I told you I live here, 333 00:13:33,479 --> 00:13:35,315 you would have been scared and maybe you would have said, 334 00:13:35,398 --> 00:13:37,483 "Ah, no," you would have created problem. 335 00:13:37,567 --> 00:13:39,402 -And I think that you -- -No, I don't create problems. 336 00:13:39,485 --> 00:13:41,195 It's just, you know, you gotta communicate 337 00:13:41,321 --> 00:13:42,822 and tell me big things like... -I know. 338 00:13:42,947 --> 00:13:43,948 where you live, and stuff like that. 339 00:13:44,032 --> 00:13:45,575 Especially if, you know, 340 00:13:45,658 --> 00:13:47,535 I'm coming to move with you. -[Vittorio] If you're -- OK. 341 00:13:49,954 --> 00:13:51,914 Don't worry. You take your time. 342 00:13:51,998 --> 00:13:54,709 It's gonna be fine. It's gonna be fine. 343 00:13:54,834 --> 00:13:57,045 You know, I know it's a lot for you right now, 344 00:13:57,170 --> 00:13:58,921 but please trust me. 345 00:13:59,005 --> 00:14:01,257 I chose this for a reason. 346 00:14:01,341 --> 00:14:03,343 -I'm very tired. -I know you are. 347 00:14:03,426 --> 00:14:04,969 I'll give you the time you need. 348 00:14:06,721 --> 00:14:08,681 We're not off to a good start, 349 00:14:08,765 --> 00:14:11,726 because I feel like if you lie about one thing, 350 00:14:11,851 --> 00:14:13,144 you'll lie about another, 351 00:14:13,227 --> 00:14:17,023 especially something as major as, like, moving. 352 00:14:17,106 --> 00:14:18,983 These are things you have to tell your partner, 353 00:14:19,067 --> 00:14:21,152 because you cannot, like, completely blindside me, 354 00:14:21,235 --> 00:14:23,863 and I don't know what I'm getting myself into. 355 00:14:23,946 --> 00:14:25,865 [speaking Italian] 356 00:14:25,948 --> 00:14:28,618 Him omitting this type of information, 357 00:14:28,701 --> 00:14:31,954 it does put a damper in my trust with him. 358 00:14:32,038 --> 00:14:34,665 So he's gonna have to make it up to me somehow 359 00:14:34,749 --> 00:14:36,292 and earn my trust back. 360 00:14:40,713 --> 00:14:43,883 -I missed you so much, baby. -I missed you too. 361 00:14:43,966 --> 00:14:45,385 Last night was so nice. 362 00:14:45,468 --> 00:14:48,554 It just feels so nice to be back together. 363 00:14:51,891 --> 00:14:53,643 -I love you. -[Jonathan] I love you. 364 00:14:58,773 --> 00:15:01,734 -I love you, squishy mommy. -[Matilda speaking] 365 00:15:01,818 --> 00:15:04,862 I've missed her for two years, it's surreal. 366 00:15:11,202 --> 00:15:12,495 I'm finding out about this apartment 367 00:15:12,578 --> 00:15:14,038 that she's somehow paying for. 368 00:15:14,122 --> 00:15:16,040 I'm very confused right now. 369 00:15:16,124 --> 00:15:18,835 How long have you had the apartment? 370 00:15:18,918 --> 00:15:20,503 Two months. 371 00:15:20,586 --> 00:15:22,004 [Matilda speaking] 372 00:15:40,148 --> 00:15:43,025 ♪ I'm a little bit salty and a lot of bit sweet ♪ 373 00:15:43,151 --> 00:15:45,695 ♪ If you come to my table, you better know what I need ♪ 374 00:15:47,488 --> 00:15:49,699 Hey babe, you want warm water or coffee? 375 00:15:49,824 --> 00:15:52,410 -[Ally] Warm water. -OK. 376 00:16:01,335 --> 00:16:03,337 -Hey, baby. -Hey, guess who's awake? 377 00:16:03,463 --> 00:16:05,214 -Who's awake? -Jollybob's awake. 378 00:16:05,339 --> 00:16:07,258 Oh, no. Let me see. 379 00:16:07,341 --> 00:16:09,802 [Jonathan] My first moments in Singapore were way more intense 380 00:16:09,886 --> 00:16:11,304 than I wanted them to be. 381 00:16:11,387 --> 00:16:13,264 But now that I'm here, I'm hoping we can, 382 00:16:13,347 --> 00:16:15,558 you know, start to focus and get back in sync. 383 00:16:15,683 --> 00:16:16,726 Thank you. Is it warm? 384 00:16:16,851 --> 00:16:19,020 -Oh, it's hot. -[Jonathan] It's hot. 385 00:16:19,145 --> 00:16:20,605 Sorry, I tried to cool it off a little bit. 386 00:16:20,688 --> 00:16:22,732 Can drink it? No. 387 00:16:22,857 --> 00:16:24,942 Yeah, let it cool off a little. 388 00:16:25,026 --> 00:16:26,694 We're gonna be staying at a short-term rental 389 00:16:26,819 --> 00:16:29,071 here in Singapore for a couple of weeks, 390 00:16:29,197 --> 00:16:30,698 so we can do the conversion, 391 00:16:30,823 --> 00:16:33,534 and tell Ally's parents about the pregnancy. 392 00:16:33,618 --> 00:16:35,870 After that, we're gonna head 20 minutes away to Malaysia, 393 00:16:35,995 --> 00:16:38,206 where Ally's renting an apartment. 394 00:16:38,289 --> 00:16:40,540 Oh, man. Did you sleep good, babe? 395 00:16:40,625 --> 00:16:41,959 No. 396 00:16:43,127 --> 00:16:44,545 No? Why? What happened? 397 00:16:44,629 --> 00:16:46,464 You were snoring and Jollybob was kicking. 398 00:16:46,547 --> 00:16:47,590 I was snoring? 399 00:16:47,715 --> 00:16:48,883 [Ally chuckles] 400 00:16:49,008 --> 00:16:50,718 Well, who was worse, the snoring or the kicking? 401 00:16:52,220 --> 00:16:53,221 Don't answer that. 402 00:16:54,639 --> 00:16:56,432 -I love you. -[Jonathan] I love you. 403 00:16:56,557 --> 00:17:00,186 -I missed you so much, baby. -I miss you too. 404 00:17:00,269 --> 00:17:01,395 Last night was so nice. 405 00:17:02,605 --> 00:17:04,898 I feel bad because I almost squished Jollybob 406 00:17:05,023 --> 00:17:07,902 and shook her around too much, so... 407 00:17:08,027 --> 00:17:09,237 [Jonathan] Pregnant sex. 408 00:17:09,319 --> 00:17:10,863 It's a geometry problem, man. 409 00:17:10,946 --> 00:17:12,865 You can't use the same angles, you know. 410 00:17:12,949 --> 00:17:14,742 It definitely couldn't do the thing we did 411 00:17:14,825 --> 00:17:17,203 when we made Jolly, it was kind of a -- 412 00:17:17,286 --> 00:17:19,247 yeah, different. 413 00:17:19,372 --> 00:17:21,123 It is what it is. I'm sorry. 414 00:17:21,249 --> 00:17:22,625 What? 415 00:17:22,750 --> 00:17:24,335 -It hurts. -No. 416 00:17:24,417 --> 00:17:26,878 -You have to warm up. -I don't know. 417 00:17:26,963 --> 00:17:29,006 Shoot, it's been a while, so. 418 00:17:29,090 --> 00:17:31,092 Exactly, you have to, since it's been a while. 419 00:17:31,175 --> 00:17:33,261 -That's why you have to warm up. -OK. 420 00:17:33,344 --> 00:17:36,430 Every time we go like a long time without doing the nasty, 421 00:17:36,556 --> 00:17:39,267 you have to like ease into it. 422 00:17:39,350 --> 00:17:41,644 Well, I did the foreplay. Maybe I need to five play. 423 00:17:41,769 --> 00:17:43,896 I think that's how I got pregnant in the first place. 424 00:17:43,980 --> 00:17:45,398 It could be. 425 00:17:46,607 --> 00:17:49,777 Yesterday, I felt like we were on different pages. 426 00:17:49,902 --> 00:17:53,447 So I was like pissed off and like, so done at that point. 427 00:17:53,573 --> 00:17:54,699 But at the same time, 428 00:17:54,782 --> 00:17:57,660 it just feels so nice to be back together 429 00:17:57,785 --> 00:17:59,370 like with each other. 430 00:18:04,292 --> 00:18:05,835 So what is the plan for today? 431 00:18:07,336 --> 00:18:10,381 I'm thinking maybe we can go prawning. 432 00:18:10,464 --> 00:18:12,800 -Explain. -Prawning is like... 433 00:18:14,135 --> 00:18:16,971 fishing, but for prawns. 434 00:18:18,139 --> 00:18:20,683 But it's like in a, in a... 435 00:18:20,808 --> 00:18:23,227 hard, like, inside a place. 436 00:18:23,311 --> 00:18:25,229 And they have like a pond type of thing. 437 00:18:25,313 --> 00:18:26,314 OK. 438 00:18:26,397 --> 00:18:29,150 And then you get to like, grill it and eat it. 439 00:18:29,233 --> 00:18:32,069 -Megan's coming? -If she can make it, yeah. 440 00:18:32,153 --> 00:18:33,988 Oh, OK, yeah, I haven't seen her in a while. 441 00:18:34,113 --> 00:18:35,489 That'd be interesting. 442 00:18:35,573 --> 00:18:38,200 Prawning is a fun thing in Singapore, 443 00:18:38,326 --> 00:18:41,245 and John has never tried it before, 444 00:18:41,329 --> 00:18:43,789 so I thought it would be really cool to hang out 445 00:18:43,873 --> 00:18:46,208 with my friend Megan and try it. 446 00:18:46,334 --> 00:18:51,505 Megan has been following me to a few of my OB appointments. 447 00:18:51,631 --> 00:18:57,345 She has been acting as the real baby daddy till this point. 448 00:18:57,470 --> 00:18:59,472 She calls me her wife, I'm her number one wife. 449 00:19:02,892 --> 00:19:04,852 [Jonathan] I'm so glad you have friends here and stuff. 450 00:19:04,977 --> 00:19:07,104 I am super grateful for that. 451 00:19:07,188 --> 00:19:08,481 -Yeah. -[Jonathan] Yeah. 452 00:19:08,564 --> 00:19:10,524 You can tell Megan that you're grateful for her. 453 00:19:10,650 --> 00:19:12,693 Oh, do I have to? 454 00:19:12,818 --> 00:19:14,570 Really? Are you still salty? 455 00:19:14,695 --> 00:19:16,489 -I'm not salty. -You salty. 456 00:19:16,572 --> 00:19:17,698 No, no, you know, 457 00:19:17,823 --> 00:19:19,283 when your girl's hanging out with her girlfriends 458 00:19:19,367 --> 00:19:21,535 and all they're doing is talking that mad [bleep]. 459 00:19:21,619 --> 00:19:22,745 It's like... 460 00:19:24,080 --> 00:19:26,540 she gets to experience all the pregnancy stuff without me, 461 00:19:26,624 --> 00:19:29,752 and then she makes comments like, "I'm the real dad." 462 00:19:29,877 --> 00:19:31,671 You're jealous. 463 00:19:31,754 --> 00:19:34,090 -[Jonathan] Maybe, a little bit. -[laughs, mocking] 464 00:19:34,215 --> 00:19:36,258 It really does bother me when she's posting, you know, 465 00:19:36,384 --> 00:19:38,135 she's the dad, and then, you know, 466 00:19:38,219 --> 00:19:40,221 you're on there commenting on it as well, like, 467 00:19:40,304 --> 00:19:42,556 you know, "Best dad ever" type crap. 468 00:19:44,809 --> 00:19:47,019 [giggling] 469 00:19:47,103 --> 00:19:49,230 -We're just kidding. -[Jonathan] I know. 470 00:19:49,313 --> 00:19:50,815 -We just make jokes. -[Jonathan] I know. 471 00:19:50,898 --> 00:19:54,110 But at the same time, when that distance is between us, 472 00:19:54,235 --> 00:19:56,404 it amplifies everything, you know? 473 00:19:56,529 --> 00:19:58,447 And she knows, as well as you do. 474 00:19:58,572 --> 00:20:00,449 If I could be out there for those moments, 475 00:20:00,574 --> 00:20:01,492 I absolutely would. 476 00:20:01,575 --> 00:20:02,910 There's nothing that would stop me. 477 00:20:02,993 --> 00:20:04,745 So... 478 00:20:04,870 --> 00:20:08,374 [Ally] Honestly, John should be kissing Megan's ass 479 00:20:08,457 --> 00:20:11,210 because she's been helping me out quite a bit. 480 00:20:11,293 --> 00:20:17,633 But I am nervous for John and Megan to be hanging out 481 00:20:17,758 --> 00:20:21,929 because I have voiced out all my stresses to Megan. 482 00:20:22,012 --> 00:20:24,265 And she is a very protective friend. 483 00:20:24,348 --> 00:20:29,520 -She can be a little bit scary. -[Jonathan] From here-on-out, 484 00:20:29,603 --> 00:20:31,522 I'm your obstetrician buddy. 485 00:20:31,605 --> 00:20:33,441 -You know? Yeah, yeah. -Really? 486 00:20:36,444 --> 00:20:39,447 [upbeat music plays] 487 00:21:00,092 --> 00:21:01,761 Thank you. 488 00:21:01,844 --> 00:21:04,096 [Matilda] Niles is arriving in Ghana today, 489 00:21:04,180 --> 00:21:05,681 I'm feeling so happy 490 00:21:05,806 --> 00:21:10,186 because it's been a long time that I set my eyes on him. 491 00:21:25,993 --> 00:21:27,411 [chuckles] 492 00:21:30,372 --> 00:21:32,374 [upbeat music plays] 493 00:21:33,751 --> 00:21:36,045 [Niles] Thankfully, this is the last stretch. 494 00:21:37,129 --> 00:21:38,130 Squishy mommy. 495 00:21:39,590 --> 00:21:42,927 I've been sitting on this plane to Ghana for 15 hours. 496 00:21:44,220 --> 00:21:46,722 But you know, I'm gonna be reunited with my squishy mommy 497 00:21:46,847 --> 00:21:50,351 soon enough, so that's just a small price to pay. 498 00:21:50,434 --> 00:21:52,770 And I see Ghana now. 499 00:21:54,271 --> 00:21:56,941 I can't wait to squishy her cheeks like this. 500 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:00,903 But I'm not gonna lie, I'm kind of anxious. 501 00:22:01,028 --> 00:22:02,780 I want to tell the truth right off the bat, 502 00:22:02,863 --> 00:22:05,032 that I'm gonna be moving here to Ghana, 503 00:22:05,157 --> 00:22:06,700 but I don't know how she's gonna react. 504 00:22:09,954 --> 00:22:12,206 [Matilda speaking] 505 00:22:12,331 --> 00:22:13,999 I'm very, very happy. 506 00:22:48,117 --> 00:22:50,870 [Niles] Went from 32 degrees to almost 90 degrees 507 00:22:50,953 --> 00:22:53,372 like immediately, wow! 508 00:22:56,417 --> 00:22:58,210 Whew! 509 00:23:01,380 --> 00:23:04,300 [soft music plays] 510 00:23:06,594 --> 00:23:08,137 Pardon me. 511 00:23:11,682 --> 00:23:13,350 [chuckles] 512 00:23:14,518 --> 00:23:17,396 I feel absolutely elated about seeing Matilda 513 00:23:17,479 --> 00:23:20,065 for the first time in two years. 514 00:23:20,149 --> 00:23:21,609 I'm probably gonna turn like into like one of them 515 00:23:21,692 --> 00:23:24,361 little school girls, at how happy I'm gonna be. 516 00:23:25,779 --> 00:23:31,160 ♪ Whoa, it's been a long time coming ♪ 517 00:23:31,285 --> 00:23:34,705 ♪ I've been good, I've been brave ♪ 518 00:23:34,788 --> 00:23:41,503 ♪ And God knows he made me wait for you ♪ 519 00:23:41,629 --> 00:23:43,297 ♪ All for you ♪ 520 00:23:43,422 --> 00:23:45,382 -[Matilda] Babe? -Ma -- 521 00:23:46,634 --> 00:23:48,636 ♪ When I kiss your lips ♪ 522 00:23:48,761 --> 00:23:51,347 ♪ I lose my mind ♪ 523 00:23:57,770 --> 00:23:59,813 [Niles] I missed you too. 524 00:23:59,939 --> 00:24:02,566 -I love you, squishy mommy. -[Matilda speaking] 525 00:24:02,650 --> 00:24:04,610 Yeah, I've missed her for two years. 526 00:24:04,693 --> 00:24:06,070 It is surreal. 527 00:24:09,323 --> 00:24:11,325 -Yeah... -[both laugh] 528 00:24:15,579 --> 00:24:17,915 -We are ready to go home, OK? -We sure are. 529 00:24:17,998 --> 00:24:19,458 -Mm-hmm. -So, um... 530 00:24:19,541 --> 00:24:21,919 Dad invited me to stay at his house. 531 00:24:22,002 --> 00:24:24,254 -What? -Dad, Mr. Arc. 532 00:24:24,338 --> 00:24:25,839 No, we are not going there. 533 00:24:32,221 --> 00:24:34,348 Yeah, OK, I don't know how we -- 534 00:24:45,484 --> 00:24:47,528 [Matilda speaking] 535 00:24:47,611 --> 00:24:48,904 When did that happen? 536 00:24:54,284 --> 00:24:56,203 [Niles] I'm very confused right now. 537 00:24:56,328 --> 00:24:59,540 I was under the impression that she was living with her family 538 00:24:59,665 --> 00:25:02,126 because a couple of months ago, 539 00:25:02,209 --> 00:25:03,752 Mat mismanaged her money. 540 00:25:03,877 --> 00:25:06,005 We ended up getting into a huge argument 541 00:25:06,088 --> 00:25:08,507 when she asked me for more money to get a new place. 542 00:25:08,590 --> 00:25:10,926 Matilda told me she would be out on the streets, 543 00:25:11,051 --> 00:25:13,554 but now I'm finding out about this apartment 544 00:25:13,637 --> 00:25:15,014 that she's somehow paying for, 545 00:25:15,097 --> 00:25:17,016 which... 546 00:25:17,099 --> 00:25:19,143 I've got -- I've got so many questions. 547 00:25:22,730 --> 00:25:24,481 We'll address -- we'll address that. 548 00:25:24,565 --> 00:25:27,067 But right now, I'm just happy to be able to do this. 549 00:25:30,404 --> 00:25:33,198 -OK, let's nod your head. -[Matilda speaking] 550 00:25:33,282 --> 00:25:34,783 OK, yeah, you're right. We're in public. 551 00:25:34,908 --> 00:25:36,660 Behave, behave, OK? 552 00:25:36,744 --> 00:25:40,164 I know, it's just, you tell me to behave, then do that. 553 00:25:41,749 --> 00:25:43,584 -I have missed you. -I missed you more. 554 00:25:43,709 --> 00:25:45,335 I have missed you so much. 555 00:25:45,419 --> 00:25:46,545 Let's go. 556 00:25:46,628 --> 00:25:48,422 I got two years to make up with you. 557 00:25:50,049 --> 00:25:53,385 [Matilda speaking] 558 00:26:08,317 --> 00:26:09,943 Let's go, I think the taxi -- 559 00:26:10,069 --> 00:26:11,195 I didn't bring the car, right? 560 00:26:11,278 --> 00:26:12,821 -The taxi is -- -Oh... 561 00:26:12,946 --> 00:26:15,783 [Matilda speaking] 562 00:26:25,626 --> 00:26:27,461 [Niles] OK. 563 00:26:27,586 --> 00:26:29,630 [Matilda speaking] 564 00:26:47,106 --> 00:26:50,818 So you have an apartment now? 565 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:03,288 How long have you had the apartment? 566 00:27:05,666 --> 00:27:06,667 Two months. 567 00:27:09,962 --> 00:27:10,963 Two months. 568 00:27:15,551 --> 00:27:19,012 As in the two months where 569 00:27:19,096 --> 00:27:22,349 I thought you were mismanaging the money, 570 00:27:23,559 --> 00:27:25,310 and the whole time that wasn't true. 571 00:27:26,436 --> 00:27:28,939 Mat, you weren't telling me what was going on. 572 00:27:34,319 --> 00:27:35,863 [Matilda speaking] 573 00:27:38,365 --> 00:27:40,367 You weren't telling me anything at the time. 574 00:27:49,376 --> 00:27:51,253 Are you serious? Are you being real? 575 00:27:51,378 --> 00:27:53,630 So you'll be happy for your wife to be homeless. 576 00:27:53,714 --> 00:27:55,382 Sleeping outside? 577 00:28:03,098 --> 00:28:05,934 Oh, my God, I'm so happy to see you! 578 00:28:06,059 --> 00:28:07,978 I want to dive into the culture. 579 00:28:08,061 --> 00:28:09,521 I wanna learn the language. 580 00:28:09,605 --> 00:28:11,899 -Do you like my outfit? -Yeah, you look so French. 581 00:28:13,066 --> 00:28:15,569 But I'm really nervous to fail. 582 00:28:15,652 --> 00:28:19,907 We really have to let everything behind, start again. 583 00:28:19,990 --> 00:28:22,618 [Zuri] This move is make-or-break for our relationship. 584 00:28:27,956 --> 00:28:29,833 [singing in French] 585 00:28:29,958 --> 00:28:32,419 [soft, catchy music plays] 586 00:28:34,171 --> 00:28:35,589 [Zuri] I'm in Paris 587 00:28:36,673 --> 00:28:40,636 and I'm headed to the train station. 588 00:28:40,719 --> 00:28:43,222 I'm super super excited to see Ben. 589 00:28:44,723 --> 00:28:47,768 [singing in French] 590 00:28:52,356 --> 00:28:58,695 I'm super excited, really tired, but I'm making it work. 591 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,325 Ben and I have been working on this for so long, 592 00:29:03,450 --> 00:29:05,994 and we thought that the day would never come. 593 00:29:06,119 --> 00:29:08,413 So to be here is everything to me. 594 00:29:09,665 --> 00:29:11,750 Looks like the train is here. 595 00:29:11,833 --> 00:29:14,586 I'm not too far from the platform now, which is good 596 00:29:14,670 --> 00:29:18,006 because I can't wait to sit on this train, put my bags down. 597 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:23,178 I think I might go on early and grab my seat. 598 00:29:23,303 --> 00:29:25,639 Nancy, I'm coming for you. 599 00:29:34,147 --> 00:29:36,525 [Ben] It's the big day. The big move is today. 600 00:29:38,819 --> 00:29:41,321 The drive to Paris is like four and a half hours. 601 00:29:41,405 --> 00:29:42,531 The train is fast. 602 00:29:42,614 --> 00:29:44,908 It will take her an hour thirty. 603 00:29:45,033 --> 00:29:48,495 So it makes it easier for me to grab her at the train station. 604 00:29:54,543 --> 00:29:57,462 I'm really happy about a new start today. 605 00:29:57,546 --> 00:30:00,215 So I had the idea to make this poster, 606 00:30:00,299 --> 00:30:01,675 "Welcome Home, Zuri." 607 00:30:01,758 --> 00:30:04,720 [all speaking French] 608 00:30:06,722 --> 00:30:08,724 [both laugh] 609 00:30:18,608 --> 00:30:22,154 [Ben] I just can't wait to grab her in my arms. 610 00:30:22,237 --> 00:30:24,281 We should get ready and go to grab her. 611 00:30:26,408 --> 00:30:28,744 [Zuri speaking] 612 00:30:30,162 --> 00:30:33,582 I feel like French now. I love my outfit today. 613 00:30:34,624 --> 00:30:37,711 I think Ben'll think it's really cute. 614 00:30:37,794 --> 00:30:43,175 I just want to put my best foot forward and lead with my heart, 615 00:30:43,258 --> 00:30:44,801 not my head for once. 616 00:30:47,763 --> 00:30:48,764 I'm a little nervous. 617 00:30:50,766 --> 00:30:53,643 Because I know this time, it's the one. 618 00:30:54,895 --> 00:30:57,397 But I'm so happy and I'm so excited to see her. 619 00:31:17,459 --> 00:31:19,336 [Ben] I know it will be challenging this time, 620 00:31:19,461 --> 00:31:22,381 and we have a lot of things to work on, 621 00:31:22,464 --> 00:31:27,636 but I really feel like I just want to appreciate this moment. 622 00:31:27,719 --> 00:31:29,638 It's the first day of our new life, 623 00:31:29,763 --> 00:31:32,057 and I hope for the rest of our lives, 624 00:31:32,140 --> 00:31:33,558 so it's really important. 625 00:31:43,527 --> 00:31:44,778 Oh! 626 00:31:46,738 --> 00:31:47,781 Oh, my God. 627 00:31:48,782 --> 00:31:50,492 I'm so happy to see you. 628 00:31:51,993 --> 00:31:53,787 -Hi! -I'm so happy to see you. 629 00:31:53,870 --> 00:31:55,330 -I brought you some flowers. -Oh, my God. 630 00:31:55,455 --> 00:31:56,915 That's so sweet. 631 00:31:59,459 --> 00:32:01,503 -I'm so happy. -I love you. 632 00:32:02,796 --> 00:32:04,589 I hope you had a nice travel. 633 00:32:04,673 --> 00:32:06,299 It was a lot of travel, 634 00:32:06,383 --> 00:32:08,135 but it was worth it. -I can imagine. 635 00:32:08,218 --> 00:32:10,053 Yeah, I've got the whole squad with me, so... 636 00:32:10,178 --> 00:32:12,681 -Oh, my God. -[Zuri] I'm moving in. 637 00:32:12,764 --> 00:32:16,226 You don't think you had enough stuff at all? 638 00:32:16,351 --> 00:32:17,727 [Zuri] No, I needed more. 639 00:32:19,521 --> 00:32:22,107 -Do you like my outfit? -Yeah, you look so French now. 640 00:32:22,190 --> 00:32:24,526 Do I look Frenchy? Am I fitting in already? 641 00:32:24,609 --> 00:32:26,528 Yeah, I love your beret. You look so French. 642 00:32:26,611 --> 00:32:27,988 More French than me. 643 00:32:28,071 --> 00:32:30,407 No, you look perfect. These are beautiful. 644 00:32:30,532 --> 00:32:32,033 -You're so thoughtful. -Yeah. 645 00:32:33,034 --> 00:32:35,120 I just wanted the little things for you when you arrive. 646 00:32:35,203 --> 00:32:38,707 -Aw, you're so sweet. -Oh, my God, I'm so happy. 647 00:32:42,043 --> 00:32:44,379 -I missed you so much. -I missed you too. 648 00:32:44,504 --> 00:32:46,590 -I can't believe I'm here. -Me too. 649 00:32:48,049 --> 00:32:50,260 -Let's go home. -[Ben] Yeah. 650 00:32:50,385 --> 00:32:51,970 I will help with that big suitcase. 651 00:32:52,053 --> 00:32:54,431 [Zuri] OK, sweet. I'll take the little one. 652 00:32:54,556 --> 00:32:55,557 [Ben] OK. 653 00:33:02,147 --> 00:33:04,441 It feels like so right this time. 654 00:33:04,566 --> 00:33:06,485 -[Ben] Yeah. -[Zuri] No drama. 655 00:33:06,568 --> 00:33:08,069 [Ben] No more drama. 656 00:33:09,821 --> 00:33:13,074 This time, I really wanna put myself out there. 657 00:33:13,158 --> 00:33:15,160 Ben has always been my rock, 658 00:33:15,243 --> 00:33:19,247 but I wanna be the independent woman that he loves. 659 00:33:19,331 --> 00:33:21,166 -There you go. -[Zuri] Thanks, hon. 660 00:33:21,249 --> 00:33:25,086 I wanna be positive and do my best to settle here. 661 00:33:35,514 --> 00:33:36,890 Ah... 662 00:33:36,973 --> 00:33:38,642 Don't start nothing, it won't be nothing. 663 00:33:38,767 --> 00:33:40,769 -Oh... -[chuckles] 664 00:33:42,187 --> 00:33:45,649 [Zuri] I'm so happy to be back and like give it another shot. 665 00:33:45,774 --> 00:33:47,984 Yeah, me too. I'm so happy too. 666 00:33:48,109 --> 00:33:49,778 I think this time is all time. 667 00:33:50,779 --> 00:33:52,239 -It's our turn. -Yeah. 668 00:33:54,282 --> 00:33:57,452 [Zuri] This move is make-or-break for our relationship. 669 00:33:57,536 --> 00:34:00,288 I'm totally ready to do things differently this time 670 00:34:00,413 --> 00:34:01,873 because I know that... 671 00:34:01,957 --> 00:34:03,792 the last time things didn't work, 672 00:34:03,917 --> 00:34:05,418 so there has to be changes. 673 00:34:06,836 --> 00:34:08,630 I think there's a part of me that 674 00:34:08,713 --> 00:34:10,924 just gets really nervous to fail. 675 00:34:11,007 --> 00:34:12,300 And when you're trying something new, 676 00:34:12,425 --> 00:34:14,636 you just fail a lot. 677 00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:17,389 I want to dive into the culture. 678 00:34:17,472 --> 00:34:20,225 I wanna learn the language, but it's gonna take time. 679 00:34:20,308 --> 00:34:25,438 But it's by failing that you will learn everything. 680 00:34:25,522 --> 00:34:27,815 -You have to fail to learn. -Yeah, you're right. 681 00:34:30,443 --> 00:34:32,612 We really have to do this new stuff, 682 00:34:32,696 --> 00:34:35,031 like let everything behind, 683 00:34:35,156 --> 00:34:37,409 start again, like, you know. -Yeah. 684 00:34:38,743 --> 00:34:39,744 [Zuri] I'm excited. 685 00:34:48,128 --> 00:34:51,130 Why you can watch TikToks but not apply for a job? 686 00:34:52,674 --> 00:34:54,634 I think it would give her more reassurance, 687 00:34:54,717 --> 00:34:56,177 if you applied more. -[Jonathan] Yeah. 688 00:34:57,637 --> 00:34:59,681 She could maybe be better off without you. 689 00:35:01,016 --> 00:35:02,058 [Jonathan] Give me a [bleep] break! 690 00:35:08,898 --> 00:35:10,942 ♪ Take you for a ride with the look that's in your eyes ♪ 691 00:35:11,067 --> 00:35:15,030 ♪ I can see that you've been waiting for me all night ♪ 692 00:35:15,113 --> 00:35:17,032 ♪ Dancing in the dark ♪ 693 00:35:17,115 --> 00:35:18,617 ♪ La, la, la, la ♪ 694 00:35:18,742 --> 00:35:20,744 [indistinct lyrics] 695 00:35:21,870 --> 00:35:23,079 [Nigel] Alright, let's go. 696 00:35:24,706 --> 00:35:25,999 What do you think, babe? 697 00:35:26,082 --> 00:35:28,043 Wow! 698 00:35:28,126 --> 00:35:30,003 -You upped your game. -[Nigel] Right. 699 00:35:30,086 --> 00:35:31,963 [Andi] Nice. It's very clean. 700 00:35:32,088 --> 00:35:34,674 It's got this trendy little apple bowl. 701 00:35:34,758 --> 00:35:37,010 -Yeah, you like that guy? -Yes, that's new. 702 00:35:37,093 --> 00:35:39,387 I have arrived at Nigel's house, 703 00:35:39,471 --> 00:35:41,806 and I am completely shocked. 704 00:35:41,931 --> 00:35:43,767 -How long did it take you? -All night. 705 00:35:43,892 --> 00:35:46,019 -Did you clean it all night? -Yeah. 706 00:35:46,102 --> 00:35:48,813 Aw, that's sweet. 707 00:35:48,938 --> 00:35:50,065 Worth it. 708 00:35:51,024 --> 00:35:51,941 Yeah. 709 00:35:52,067 --> 00:35:53,443 Yeah, so take a look at this. 710 00:35:58,073 --> 00:35:59,616 -[Andi] You're tall, yeah. -Yeah. 711 00:35:59,699 --> 00:36:00,950 'Cause I'm standing here, so... 712 00:36:01,076 --> 00:36:03,536 I had this lying around, so it's my [bleep] sticker. 713 00:36:03,620 --> 00:36:05,497 I stuck this frosted stuff to the window there, 714 00:36:05,622 --> 00:36:06,956 so they can't see. -Oh, my God, 715 00:36:07,082 --> 00:36:08,458 -[Andi] OK, good. -Yeah. 716 00:36:08,541 --> 00:36:09,459 That's great. 717 00:36:09,542 --> 00:36:11,461 The [bleep] sticker, also very thoughtful. 718 00:36:11,544 --> 00:36:12,921 -Very thoughtful guy. -Yeah. 719 00:36:14,547 --> 00:36:17,926 So now your bedroom...is clean! 720 00:36:18,009 --> 00:36:20,136 [gasps] I can't even believe it! 721 00:36:20,220 --> 00:36:21,596 Are you kidding me? 722 00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:22,972 Mama didn't raise no fool. 723 00:36:23,098 --> 00:36:25,058 [laughs] 724 00:36:28,144 --> 00:36:29,854 Aww. 725 00:36:29,979 --> 00:36:31,481 You did good. 726 00:36:31,606 --> 00:36:33,441 -I'm glad you think so. -Yeah. 727 00:36:33,525 --> 00:36:35,026 So, we gonna go run that bath? 728 00:36:35,151 --> 00:36:36,986 -Yeah, can we? -Let's do it. 729 00:36:37,070 --> 00:36:38,780 Mmm. Let's do it. 730 00:36:40,490 --> 00:36:43,410 So far, Nigel's making me feel really special 731 00:36:43,493 --> 00:36:45,662 and really wanted. 732 00:36:45,745 --> 00:36:47,997 And that's giving me a lot of relief. 733 00:36:50,041 --> 00:36:52,085 -Hello! -[Nigel] Oh, hello! 734 00:36:52,168 --> 00:36:53,920 -Look at you! -[Nigel] My sweet. 735 00:36:54,003 --> 00:36:56,005 Oh, my goodness. That's charming of you. 736 00:36:56,089 --> 00:36:57,340 Mm-hmm. 737 00:37:04,055 --> 00:37:06,057 This is the perfect welcome. 738 00:37:06,683 --> 00:37:11,521 And it's really showing me that Nigel is dedicated to me, 739 00:37:11,604 --> 00:37:14,023 and he really might be my soulmate. 740 00:37:21,489 --> 00:37:23,074 [Nigel] Hmm. 741 00:37:26,077 --> 00:37:26,995 [Nigel] Oh, man. 742 00:37:27,078 --> 00:37:29,080 [both laugh] 743 00:37:34,085 --> 00:37:37,088 [upbeat music plays] 744 00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:44,012 -[Jonathan] So are you excited? -Are you excited? 745 00:37:44,095 --> 00:37:46,055 I'm excited to get that shrimp. 746 00:37:49,517 --> 00:37:50,518 ♪ Let's get into it ♪ 747 00:37:54,564 --> 00:37:55,940 See, boo boo? 748 00:37:56,065 --> 00:37:57,817 Vaping is prohibited. 749 00:37:57,901 --> 00:37:59,402 [Jonathan] I get it. 750 00:37:59,486 --> 00:38:00,945 Again with the vaping. 751 00:38:01,070 --> 00:38:02,781 -Oh, hello. -Hello. 752 00:38:02,906 --> 00:38:05,241 -How are you? -[worker speaking] 753 00:38:05,366 --> 00:38:06,576 Yes, please. 754 00:38:09,412 --> 00:38:12,791 [Ally] Prawning is a popular and unique thing to do 755 00:38:12,916 --> 00:38:14,334 in Singapore. 756 00:38:14,417 --> 00:38:18,922 You're sitting around like this man-made pond thingy 757 00:38:19,047 --> 00:38:23,092 and like they put in the live prawns for you to catch. 758 00:38:24,093 --> 00:38:25,094 I'm just gonna... 759 00:38:26,095 --> 00:38:29,599 sit back here and cheer you on from the side or something. 760 00:38:29,682 --> 00:38:31,851 Oh, it's in my finger. 761 00:38:31,935 --> 00:38:35,396 [Ally] I feel like this is not a very feminine activity. 762 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:37,065 I'm so scared. 763 00:38:37,148 --> 00:38:40,276 Prawning's no different than fishing for bass in the river 764 00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:42,320 or in the creek in Texas. It's pretty simple. 765 00:38:42,445 --> 00:38:44,280 You put the bait on the hook, you cast it out there, 766 00:38:44,405 --> 00:38:45,907 and when you get a tug, pull it. 767 00:38:47,408 --> 00:38:49,786 -Well, that's a big-ass shrimp. -[Ally] Mommy, I'm scared. 768 00:38:49,869 --> 00:38:50,829 [Jonathan] Whoo hoo! 769 00:38:52,455 --> 00:38:54,040 It's like alive and like it has like... 770 00:38:56,084 --> 00:38:58,044 [laughs in distress] 771 00:38:59,629 --> 00:39:01,548 I mean, if they were like cute and fluffy, 772 00:39:01,631 --> 00:39:03,299 I wouldn't mind. -[Jonathan] Yeah. 773 00:39:07,178 --> 00:39:08,388 -Yeah, me either. -Yeah. 774 00:39:08,471 --> 00:39:09,472 But like prawns are like... 775 00:39:12,100 --> 00:39:14,602 Hey, we're eating good tonight, baby, get that shrimp. 776 00:39:16,479 --> 00:39:17,814 Hey, you better quit it with that claw. 777 00:39:18,815 --> 00:39:19,941 -Hi! -[Ally] Hello! 778 00:39:20,024 --> 00:39:21,943 -Hey, what's up, Megan? -How are you ding? 779 00:39:22,026 --> 00:39:24,153 -How are you? -[Ally] Very good. 780 00:39:24,237 --> 00:39:25,905 John, I'm so glad that you're here. 781 00:39:25,989 --> 00:39:28,074 [Jonathan] Oh, it's good to see you. 782 00:39:28,157 --> 00:39:29,951 [Jonathan] I don't really know too much about Megan, 783 00:39:30,034 --> 00:39:32,328 except for the social media posts where she's claiming 784 00:39:32,453 --> 00:39:35,331 to be the father and making accusations 785 00:39:35,456 --> 00:39:37,959 that I'm just not there and not present. 786 00:39:38,042 --> 00:39:40,003 So I'll be honest, I feel really awkward. 787 00:39:42,797 --> 00:39:44,799 This is the most exciting thing I've done all week. 788 00:39:46,426 --> 00:39:48,803 [Megan] How does it feel like being with Ally again 789 00:39:48,887 --> 00:39:52,015 when, you know, she's like six months now? 790 00:39:52,098 --> 00:39:53,933 -Six and a half. -Six and a half months. 791 00:39:54,017 --> 00:39:56,019 Yeah, no, it sucked being stuck over there, 792 00:39:56,144 --> 00:39:58,229 and not being able to help. -[Megan] Yeah, I can imagine. 793 00:39:58,354 --> 00:40:00,023 Do the things I wanted to do. Yeah. 794 00:40:00,106 --> 00:40:01,774 I don't have to be the father anymore. 795 00:40:01,858 --> 00:40:03,026 -Yeah, yeah. -[Megan] Yeah. 796 00:40:03,109 --> 00:40:04,360 -No. -[Megan] You can take back that role. 797 00:40:04,485 --> 00:40:06,487 You can go to all her OBGYN visits now. 798 00:40:10,074 --> 00:40:11,534 [Jonathan] Yeah, it's been really hard for her, especially 799 00:40:11,618 --> 00:40:13,745 since she hasn't talked to her mom about it yet. 800 00:40:13,870 --> 00:40:15,705 I think that's a lot of stuff that her mom would've been 801 00:40:15,830 --> 00:40:17,332 doing with her. -Yeah. 802 00:40:20,460 --> 00:40:22,754 How is all the job application going? 803 00:40:22,879 --> 00:40:25,381 Yeah, I mean, I'm getting back to that. 804 00:40:25,506 --> 00:40:27,300 I had to get over here and get adjusted. 805 00:40:27,383 --> 00:40:29,218 It's tough for me though, because I'm a foreigner. 806 00:40:29,302 --> 00:40:30,470 Yeah. 807 00:40:30,553 --> 00:40:32,513 -[Jonathan] So. -Does that reassure you, Ally? 808 00:40:32,597 --> 00:40:34,557 How many jobs have you applied for today? 809 00:40:34,641 --> 00:40:35,558 [Jonathan] Today? 810 00:40:35,642 --> 00:40:36,684 -I've been with you all day. -One, two? 811 00:40:36,768 --> 00:40:38,561 I've been with her all day. Just stop. 812 00:40:38,686 --> 00:40:40,355 How many TikToks have you watched today? 813 00:40:42,941 --> 00:40:45,318 Why can you -- why you can watch TikToks, 814 00:40:45,401 --> 00:40:48,196 but not apply for a job? -Well, OK. 815 00:40:48,279 --> 00:40:50,281 I think it would give her more reassurance 816 00:40:50,406 --> 00:40:52,742 if you applied more. -Yeah, yeah, I agree. 817 00:40:52,825 --> 00:40:54,994 Because I think what she is feeling is that 818 00:40:55,078 --> 00:40:56,996 you're not applying to it enough, 819 00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:58,748 and that gives the impression 820 00:40:58,873 --> 00:41:00,792 that maybe you might not want to actually move here. 821 00:41:02,961 --> 00:41:04,796 I mean, that's a real cool story and all, but 822 00:41:04,921 --> 00:41:06,631 I mean, here I am, right? 823 00:41:08,758 --> 00:41:11,052 I do feel like I have to talk to John about 824 00:41:11,135 --> 00:41:13,930 what's bothering Ally because he likes to say things 825 00:41:14,013 --> 00:41:16,057 but, in reality, does not happen. 826 00:41:16,140 --> 00:41:18,017 And maybe, you know, 827 00:41:18,101 --> 00:41:21,396 he does not know the impact as to how it's affecting her. 828 00:41:21,479 --> 00:41:23,731 Well, you know, my intention was never to move out here. 829 00:41:23,815 --> 00:41:25,775 I wanted for her to move out there. 830 00:41:25,858 --> 00:41:27,694 And were you happy with that? 831 00:41:27,777 --> 00:41:30,154 I mean, at first, I thought it made sense, 832 00:41:30,279 --> 00:41:32,782 but after being out there and seeing how, like, 833 00:41:32,907 --> 00:41:34,325 life is out there, like... 834 00:41:35,326 --> 00:41:36,828 it's not something that I want. 835 00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:43,543 Well, I'm sorry to hear you say that. 836 00:41:44,627 --> 00:41:45,837 You know? 837 00:41:47,964 --> 00:41:49,716 But the fact of the matter is you won't have to stay 838 00:41:49,799 --> 00:41:51,467 with her in the house ever again, right? 839 00:41:52,844 --> 00:41:54,345 Yeah, of course -- we are gonna stay here. 840 00:41:58,683 --> 00:42:00,393 [Megan] I'm just a bit concerned because 841 00:42:00,476 --> 00:42:02,353 Ally has told me that she felt like 842 00:42:02,478 --> 00:42:04,439 you say a lot of things to plan, 843 00:42:04,522 --> 00:42:06,941 but then it doesn't really come to action. 844 00:42:07,025 --> 00:42:09,652 She is really frustrated and then, as a friend 845 00:42:09,777 --> 00:42:12,488 who cares for her, and I know she loves you a lot, 846 00:42:12,613 --> 00:42:14,574 but it does give me the impression 847 00:42:14,657 --> 00:42:15,992 that everything that she's doing, 848 00:42:16,075 --> 00:42:17,326 she's been doing it on her own. 849 00:42:19,495 --> 00:42:21,956 She could maybe be better off without you. 850 00:42:24,500 --> 00:42:26,169 [Jonathan] It's easy for y'all to say that, 851 00:42:26,252 --> 00:42:28,296 but I'm the father of her child. 852 00:42:30,548 --> 00:42:32,050 -Ah! -There is a cockroach! 853 00:42:32,175 --> 00:42:33,676 No, no, no, no! 854 00:42:35,136 --> 00:42:36,596 [Ally] It's just coming at me. 855 00:42:38,139 --> 00:42:40,016 [indistinct, conversation ovelaps] 856 00:42:40,141 --> 00:42:41,726 [Megan] I was trying to make it -- 857 00:42:41,851 --> 00:42:44,187 [screaming, laughing] 858 00:42:48,524 --> 00:42:51,652 Jesus Christ. Give me a [bleep] break. 859 00:42:55,031 --> 00:42:57,909 [tense music plays] 860 00:42:58,034 --> 00:42:59,327 I'm super pissed. 861 00:42:59,410 --> 00:43:00,995 I mean, you go to a couple OB appointments, 862 00:43:01,079 --> 00:43:02,872 that doesn't give you the right to tell Ally 863 00:43:02,955 --> 00:43:03,998 she's better off without me. 864 00:43:04,082 --> 00:43:05,917 I mean, that's pretty [bleep] up. 865 00:43:06,042 --> 00:43:08,211 And then you got Ally just sitting here, stone quiet, 866 00:43:08,336 --> 00:43:09,962 not even backing me up. 867 00:43:10,046 --> 00:43:12,215 I didn't move across the planet 868 00:43:12,298 --> 00:43:14,383 to be with somebody that's just gonna sit there 869 00:43:14,509 --> 00:43:15,551 and not have my back, 870 00:43:15,635 --> 00:43:17,637 when other people are actually attacking me. 871 00:43:17,720 --> 00:43:19,639 I mean, is this how things are gonna go? 872 00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:31,067 Smell the nature, smell the clean air. 873 00:43:32,652 --> 00:43:34,320 [Jessy] I am in the country. 874 00:43:34,403 --> 00:43:37,990 I am not where I thought I was going to live. 875 00:43:38,074 --> 00:43:39,742 You are being not very grateful 876 00:43:39,867 --> 00:43:41,369 for what I show to you. 877 00:43:41,452 --> 00:43:43,454 No, it's not about not being grateful, it's just... 878 00:43:44,914 --> 00:43:47,125 you didn't tell me any of this. 879 00:43:53,464 --> 00:43:56,759 [soft music plays] 880 00:43:56,843 --> 00:43:59,345 [rooster crawing] 881 00:43:59,470 --> 00:44:01,472 [Jessy] Ew! 882 00:44:03,057 --> 00:44:05,685 I put salt in the oatmeal instead of sugar. 883 00:44:05,810 --> 00:44:07,478 Why? You don't see? 884 00:44:07,603 --> 00:44:10,606 This is S in "sale" -- salty. 885 00:44:10,690 --> 00:44:12,150 That's sugar, the Z? 886 00:44:12,275 --> 00:44:13,943 [in Italian] Zucchero! Che schifo! 887 00:44:14,026 --> 00:44:16,362 Why you do this stuff? Breakfast I do. 888 00:44:16,487 --> 00:44:17,655 You get ready. 889 00:44:17,738 --> 00:44:20,074 I prepare the breakfast and stuff. 890 00:44:20,158 --> 00:44:24,579 [singing in Italian] 891 00:44:29,250 --> 00:44:34,672 Last night, we went to bed, and... 892 00:44:34,797 --> 00:44:37,508 obviously, he tried to... 893 00:44:37,633 --> 00:44:38,926 get it going, 894 00:44:39,010 --> 00:44:41,804 but I was very, very, very tired. 895 00:44:41,888 --> 00:44:43,264 I'm in a new place, like, 896 00:44:43,347 --> 00:44:46,475 all the elements are just new and foreign to me, 897 00:44:46,559 --> 00:44:48,436 so I think all of that combined is kind of why 898 00:44:48,519 --> 00:44:50,271 it hasn't happened yet. 899 00:44:50,354 --> 00:44:52,690 OK, Jess, it's ready when you're ready, 900 00:44:52,773 --> 00:44:54,525 your breakfast, dai. 901 00:44:54,609 --> 00:44:56,360 [Jessy] Vittorio, do you have socks by any chance? 902 00:44:56,485 --> 00:44:58,321 -Like little socks. -I see. 903 00:44:58,404 --> 00:45:01,574 We went to bed last night and we sleep. 904 00:45:01,699 --> 00:45:02,909 Nothing happened. 905 00:45:03,034 --> 00:45:04,202 I help you, I help you. 906 00:45:04,285 --> 00:45:07,580 I was fine because just to sleep in her arms, 907 00:45:07,705 --> 00:45:10,249 holding each other, it was great. 908 00:45:10,374 --> 00:45:11,709 -[in Italian] Bene. -OK. 909 00:45:11,792 --> 00:45:12,919 [in French] Voilà, mademoiselle. 910 00:45:13,044 --> 00:45:14,170 [in English] After you. 911 00:45:14,253 --> 00:45:16,088 But I'm patient until I'm not, 912 00:45:16,214 --> 00:45:19,300 so you know, clearly I expect some action, of course. 913 00:45:19,383 --> 00:45:20,384 It's normal. 914 00:45:21,469 --> 00:45:23,054 -Thank you. -Tell me the green juice. 915 00:45:23,137 --> 00:45:24,722 Look how green it is. 916 00:45:24,847 --> 00:45:26,933 I put all the vegetable we have, so fresh. 917 00:45:27,058 --> 00:45:28,643 -[Jessy] Oh, it's very good. -[Vittorio] É. 918 00:45:28,726 --> 00:45:30,978 -Anyway, it's your first morning here. -Mm-hmm. 919 00:45:31,062 --> 00:45:33,147 [Vittorio] I wanted to show you the location. 920 00:45:33,231 --> 00:45:35,233 So when I'm not gonna be here, 921 00:45:35,358 --> 00:45:37,276 you can see how to get to the town, 922 00:45:37,401 --> 00:45:39,403 how to do your things independently. 923 00:45:39,487 --> 00:45:42,281 So now we take a walk down the hill. 924 00:45:42,406 --> 00:45:44,533 You wanna walk down the hill? 925 00:45:44,617 --> 00:45:46,619 I will I get you a nice bicycle, perhaps 926 00:45:46,744 --> 00:45:47,912 you go down the hill. 927 00:45:47,995 --> 00:45:48,996 It's all down the hill. 928 00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:50,915 Is there like a bus or something that passes? 929 00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:53,251 Passes at very inconvenient hours, 930 00:45:53,376 --> 00:45:55,169 but there is a bus, but... -[Jessy] OK. 931 00:45:55,253 --> 00:45:57,338 No, we could try... 932 00:45:57,421 --> 00:45:59,173 I'm too bella to have to walk down 933 00:45:59,257 --> 00:46:00,883 in a gazillion acres 934 00:46:00,967 --> 00:46:03,010 to get down to the town. -[speaking Italian] 935 00:46:03,094 --> 00:46:05,388 You haven't seen it yet, so please, you see. 936 00:46:07,223 --> 00:46:10,309 I believe that Jessy is gonna love all of this 937 00:46:10,434 --> 00:46:13,104 because this is something she doesn't have in New York. 938 00:46:13,187 --> 00:46:15,940 And I think she's gonna adapt very easily to all of this. 939 00:46:21,988 --> 00:46:26,075 Smell the nature. Smell the clean air. 940 00:46:26,158 --> 00:46:28,160 [Jessy] I hear nothing. 941 00:46:28,286 --> 00:46:29,287 [Vittorio] That's the point. 942 00:46:30,454 --> 00:46:31,998 [Jessy] We're in the middle of nowhere, 943 00:46:32,123 --> 00:46:34,041 so no one can hear my screams. 944 00:46:34,125 --> 00:46:36,794 -[speaking Italian] No one can hear if I need help. 945 00:46:38,462 --> 00:46:40,089 [Jessy] It's just a big adjustment. 946 00:46:41,465 --> 00:46:43,259 I am in the country. 947 00:46:43,342 --> 00:46:46,512 I am not where I thought I was going to live. 948 00:46:46,637 --> 00:46:48,889 It's a bit of an eerie feeling. It's very quiet. 949 00:46:48,973 --> 00:46:51,309 So all I have is me and my thoughts. 950 00:46:51,434 --> 00:46:53,144 And you know, I'm a full-on city girl. 951 00:46:53,227 --> 00:46:55,479 So when I hear nothing going on, 952 00:46:55,604 --> 00:46:57,648 I kind of get freaked out. 953 00:46:57,773 --> 00:47:00,192 This is a lot to take in. It's just very different. 954 00:47:03,821 --> 00:47:06,073 Ah, and here also we have the horse. 955 00:47:06,157 --> 00:47:07,491 [Jessy] Ah, what's his name? 956 00:47:07,575 --> 00:47:09,035 [Vittorio] His name is Giuseppe. 957 00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:10,328 [speaking Italian] 958 00:47:10,453 --> 00:47:12,496 [Jessy] He's eating lunch. I don't want to interrupt him. 959 00:47:12,621 --> 00:47:14,206 [Vittorio] How are you, Giuseppe? 960 00:47:14,332 --> 00:47:16,375 You see, he's so nice. -Everybody love you. 961 00:47:16,500 --> 00:47:18,836 Wow, his hair is gorgeous. 962 00:47:18,919 --> 00:47:20,338 Like yours, almost like yours. 963 00:47:20,421 --> 00:47:21,922 Yeah, look at these bundles, eh? 964 00:47:22,006 --> 00:47:23,424 -[Vittorio laughs] -Right? 965 00:47:23,507 --> 00:47:26,761 Oh, baby, isn't this an enrichment of life? 966 00:47:26,844 --> 00:47:28,387 My Jessy and Giuseppe, 967 00:47:28,512 --> 00:47:30,514 I've been dreaming of this so much. 968 00:47:30,639 --> 00:47:33,267 Fantastico, one day then we ride it. 969 00:47:33,351 --> 00:47:34,268 Yeah. 970 00:47:34,352 --> 00:47:35,895 -[in Italian] Esatto. -OK. 971 00:47:36,020 --> 00:47:37,480 [in English] 972 00:47:40,775 --> 00:47:43,194 -Oh, my God! -[Vittorio laughs] 973 00:47:45,863 --> 00:47:46,947 [Vittorio] You see olive trees. 974 00:47:47,031 --> 00:47:49,367 This is where we make the olive oil. 975 00:47:49,492 --> 00:47:51,994 Ah, there's -- there's chickens and roosters. 976 00:47:52,078 --> 00:47:54,038 Of course, you think I was joking yesterday 977 00:47:54,163 --> 00:47:55,331 when I tell you about that. -Wow! 978 00:47:55,414 --> 00:47:57,875 You have the whole nine here, OK. 979 00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:00,419 [Vittorio] Of course, I come here in the morning. 980 00:48:00,544 --> 00:48:01,712 I go get the eggs. 981 00:48:02,713 --> 00:48:04,256 Isn't this amazing? 982 00:48:04,382 --> 00:48:05,841 This is their house. 983 00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:09,512 This is just like not the side of Italy 984 00:48:09,595 --> 00:48:11,347 that I thought I was going to be in. 985 00:48:11,430 --> 00:48:13,432 [clucking] 986 00:48:15,267 --> 00:48:18,479 I'm not gonna lie, Vittorio, like you not telling me 987 00:48:18,562 --> 00:48:22,691 that you live in the countryside of Florence 988 00:48:22,775 --> 00:48:27,238 makes me a little bit concerned because I sometimes wonder now, 989 00:48:27,321 --> 00:48:30,366 like, what else could you be hiding from me? 990 00:48:30,449 --> 00:48:32,827 -Or what else are you not telling me? -[speaking Italian] 991 00:48:32,910 --> 00:48:36,288 Because, you know, if people lie about, you know, 992 00:48:36,414 --> 00:48:38,582 little things, they lie about big things, so. 993 00:48:38,666 --> 00:48:42,211 I omitted some part of the truth, but it's not I lie. 994 00:48:42,294 --> 00:48:45,423 I lie is if I tell you I live in the city center. 995 00:48:45,506 --> 00:48:46,590 No, I didn't lie. 996 00:48:48,050 --> 00:48:49,635 No, and I had a feeling, honestly, 997 00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:51,887 that if I tell you all of this, you get scared, you don't come. 998 00:48:53,347 --> 00:48:56,142 I know many that will pay a lot of money to be here. 999 00:48:56,267 --> 00:48:59,353 You are being not very grateful for what I show to you. 1000 00:48:59,437 --> 00:49:01,439 No, it's not about not being grateful, it's just... 1001 00:49:03,023 --> 00:49:04,817 You didn't tell me any of this. 1002 00:49:07,027 --> 00:49:11,949 I'm getting a little bit upset because not only did Vittorio 1003 00:49:12,074 --> 00:49:14,743 lie to me about where he's living, 1004 00:49:14,827 --> 00:49:18,205 he honestly kind of tricked me to coming here. 1005 00:49:18,289 --> 00:49:20,583 And somehow he's spinning this all on me 1006 00:49:20,666 --> 00:49:22,626 and telling me that I need to be grateful. 1007 00:49:22,710 --> 00:49:24,336 The surprise is good, 1008 00:49:24,462 --> 00:49:26,338 otherwise, I tell you everything. 1009 00:49:26,464 --> 00:49:27,548 [Jessy] I just wonder, like, 1010 00:49:27,631 --> 00:49:29,300 if you're being completely honest with me. 1011 00:49:29,425 --> 00:49:30,843 [speaking Italian] 1012 00:49:30,968 --> 00:49:32,470 Oh, Dio. Watch out, watch out. 1013 00:49:33,471 --> 00:49:35,431 [in Italian Giuseppe, ciao. Buona -- calma, calma. 1014 00:49:36,474 --> 00:49:38,476 Isn't this beautiful? Giuseppe, come here. 1015 00:49:39,810 --> 00:49:41,979 [Jessy] I feel like he's not really listening to me. 1016 00:49:42,062 --> 00:49:44,023 I really don't like that because I feel like 1017 00:49:44,148 --> 00:49:47,485 that just shows a lot of immaturity and disrespect, 1018 00:49:47,568 --> 00:49:50,529 and I've never seen this side of him. 1019 00:49:50,654 --> 00:49:53,449 I made such a huge life-altering decision 1020 00:49:53,532 --> 00:49:56,035 by moving here for him. 1021 00:49:56,160 --> 00:49:59,163 My mind is racing, and now I'm second-guessing 1022 00:49:59,246 --> 00:50:02,166 if I made the right decision. 1023 00:50:02,291 --> 00:50:05,878 And what if this starts to become too much for me? 1024 00:50:06,003 --> 00:50:08,797 Ma no, I don't think that's gonna be the case. 1025 00:50:08,881 --> 00:50:10,508 I trust that it's gonna work out. 1026 00:50:15,054 --> 00:50:16,847 [Andi] So when did she move out? 1027 00:50:16,931 --> 00:50:18,516 A couple of days before you got here. 1028 00:50:19,517 --> 00:50:23,604 I'm not really concerned about Andi's other lovers. 1029 00:50:23,687 --> 00:50:25,689 So if Andi has any problem here, 1030 00:50:25,773 --> 00:50:27,733 I think it's really just her insecurity. 1031 00:50:29,235 --> 00:50:31,904 So did you ever use the hall pass? 1032 00:50:32,029 --> 00:50:33,405 It's my business if I use it or not. 1033 00:50:33,531 --> 00:50:34,532 So did you? 1034 00:50:44,208 --> 00:50:47,753 ♪ Oh, look at me, look at me, look at that energy ♪ 1035 00:50:47,836 --> 00:50:52,591 ♪ You look 'cause I'm the lead, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 1036 00:50:55,302 --> 00:50:59,223 ♪ Oh, look at me, look at me, can't you see ♪ 1037 00:50:59,306 --> 00:51:02,560 ♪ I'm everything you want to be ♪ 1038 00:51:03,561 --> 00:51:06,981 ♪ I work so hard for all the world to see ♪ 1039 00:51:07,106 --> 00:51:09,692 ♪ Look at me, look at me ♪ 1040 00:51:09,775 --> 00:51:16,240 ♪ Oh, she's from another galaxy, another galaxy ♪ 1041 00:51:18,492 --> 00:51:20,327 [Nigel] It was great to have Andi back in the house. 1042 00:51:21,662 --> 00:51:24,039 It was awesome waking up next to her. 1043 00:51:24,123 --> 00:51:26,417 First time in six months, so... 1044 00:51:26,500 --> 00:51:29,461 So it was really nice to just slowly reconnect to each other 1045 00:51:29,587 --> 00:51:31,255 and take our time with things. 1046 00:51:33,215 --> 00:51:34,967 [Andi] I think I'm gonna run out of hangers. 1047 00:51:35,050 --> 00:51:36,552 [Nigel] She's special, she's the one. 1048 00:51:36,635 --> 00:51:39,805 I kept noticing just how tall she is. [laughs] 1049 00:51:39,888 --> 00:51:41,473 'Cause when I spoon someone, 1050 00:51:41,557 --> 00:51:43,934 I typically have to kind of crouch, you know? 1051 00:51:44,018 --> 00:51:46,478 But with Andi, I can just like...yeah. 1052 00:51:46,562 --> 00:51:49,315 We're about the same height, so it really works well. 1053 00:51:51,984 --> 00:51:53,819 It was a beautiful night. 1054 00:51:53,944 --> 00:51:58,657 We had a really romantic reconnection, you know? 1055 00:51:58,782 --> 00:52:00,701 Just getting to see each other and talk to each other 1056 00:52:00,826 --> 00:52:03,746 in person for the first time in six months. 1057 00:52:03,829 --> 00:52:05,623 It wasn't sexual at all. 1058 00:52:05,706 --> 00:52:07,833 It was just like talking. 1059 00:52:07,958 --> 00:52:09,877 And then the jet lag kicked in. 1060 00:52:10,836 --> 00:52:12,254 And at some point I was like, 1061 00:52:12,338 --> 00:52:14,923 "I don't know if this is gonna go anywhere else tonight, babe." 1062 00:52:16,634 --> 00:52:18,927 So we cuddled. We cuddled and went to sleep. 1063 00:52:22,181 --> 00:52:23,849 [Andi] Well, morning was a different story. 1064 00:52:25,392 --> 00:52:27,853 It definitely helps that Nigel sleeps naked. 1065 00:52:36,862 --> 00:52:37,780 -[smack] -Woo! 1066 00:52:37,863 --> 00:52:38,781 [laughs] 1067 00:52:38,864 --> 00:52:40,866 -Baby! -[Andi] That was hard. 1068 00:52:44,828 --> 00:52:46,664 -Can you make me one? -Of course, here you go. 1069 00:52:46,747 --> 00:52:49,375 Yay, thank you. Extra strong? 1070 00:52:49,500 --> 00:52:52,169 -Mm-hmm, you know it. -[Andi] A flat white? 1071 00:52:52,252 --> 00:52:53,420 -Flat white, mate. -Mm-hmm. 1072 00:52:53,545 --> 00:52:54,880 That's the only way I know how to make it. 1073 00:52:55,005 --> 00:52:56,006 Mm-hmm. 1074 00:52:59,218 --> 00:53:00,177 [Andi] Are you gonna... 1075 00:53:01,220 --> 00:53:03,305 put some clothes on? 1076 00:53:03,389 --> 00:53:05,599 You're just gonna run around naked all day? 1077 00:53:05,724 --> 00:53:07,559 I mean, do we have to leave the house? 1078 00:53:07,685 --> 00:53:09,269 We do not have to leave the house. 1079 00:53:09,395 --> 00:53:12,481 But I would love to give you a little trim up. 1080 00:53:12,564 --> 00:53:13,732 Up? 1081 00:53:13,857 --> 00:53:15,317 -[Andi] Yes, yeah. -Why? 1082 00:53:15,401 --> 00:53:17,528 [Andi] Because it's a little scraggly. 1083 00:53:17,611 --> 00:53:19,822 So, we got split ends, we gotta cut those off. 1084 00:53:19,905 --> 00:53:22,324 -Just the tip. -Just the tip, babe. 1085 00:53:23,409 --> 00:53:24,743 -[Nigel] Alright. -Alright, let's do it. 1086 00:53:24,868 --> 00:53:26,245 Let's go. 1087 00:53:30,749 --> 00:53:32,835 [Andi] Oh goodness, we're a little ratty. 1088 00:53:33,919 --> 00:53:35,754 Hold on. 1089 00:53:35,838 --> 00:53:37,631 When was the last time you brushed this, babe? 1090 00:53:37,756 --> 00:53:40,217 I don't know. I brush it most mornings. 1091 00:53:40,300 --> 00:53:41,593 -You do? -Yeah. 1092 00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:43,637 OK, well, we might have to take off a little more 1093 00:53:43,762 --> 00:53:44,763 than an inch. 1094 00:53:44,847 --> 00:53:47,474 But the great thing is, when you trim the bottoms, 1095 00:53:47,599 --> 00:53:49,101 it actually grows faster. 1096 00:53:49,184 --> 00:53:50,185 -[Nigel] Mm-hmm. -[Andi] Alright. 1097 00:53:51,979 --> 00:53:54,523 So when did you start propagating all these plants? 1098 00:53:54,606 --> 00:53:56,442 [Nigel] I don't really know. 1099 00:53:56,567 --> 00:53:58,902 Really, a housemate I had living here 1100 00:53:58,986 --> 00:54:00,612 did most of this planting. 1101 00:54:00,696 --> 00:54:03,198 So I told her that I wanted passion fruit 1102 00:54:03,282 --> 00:54:05,200 and there's some basil. 1103 00:54:06,368 --> 00:54:09,163 And I don't know what these are. 1104 00:54:09,288 --> 00:54:10,956 Looks like lemongrass or something. 1105 00:54:13,375 --> 00:54:14,960 So how did that go, living together? 1106 00:54:16,336 --> 00:54:17,337 [Nigel] It was alright. 1107 00:54:20,632 --> 00:54:23,677 [Andi] Nigel got this female roommate and doesn't tell me 1108 00:54:23,802 --> 00:54:25,345 until the day she moves in 1109 00:54:25,471 --> 00:54:27,639 that they had slept together in the past. 1110 00:54:27,723 --> 00:54:30,142 And I was like, "Well, are you planning on sleeping with her 1111 00:54:30,225 --> 00:54:32,728 now that she lives with you?" and he's like, "Well, yeah," 1112 00:54:32,811 --> 00:54:35,481 and I tell him that I'm not OK with that. 1113 00:54:35,606 --> 00:54:36,982 That's a little too close for comfort, 1114 00:54:37,107 --> 00:54:39,651 living with somebody that feels like girlfriend-y. 1115 00:54:39,735 --> 00:54:42,905 And he said, "Well, can I have a hall pass 1116 00:54:42,988 --> 00:54:45,657 maybe, like once a month?" 1117 00:54:45,783 --> 00:54:48,952 And after a couple of conversations about it, 1118 00:54:49,036 --> 00:54:52,206 I finally was like, "OK, sure, have a hall pass." 1119 00:54:52,331 --> 00:54:55,167 Like it was clear that he wanted to sleep with this person, 1120 00:54:56,585 --> 00:54:58,504 regardless of how it made me feel. 1121 00:55:02,633 --> 00:55:04,259 So when did she move out? 1122 00:55:06,011 --> 00:55:07,763 A couple of days before you got here. 1123 00:55:07,846 --> 00:55:09,181 A couple of days? 1124 00:55:09,264 --> 00:55:11,517 [Nigel] Look, man, I didn't want the awkwardness of her 1125 00:55:11,642 --> 00:55:13,143 still being here when you showed up. 1126 00:55:15,187 --> 00:55:17,231 -Why would it be awkward? -[Nigel] I don't know. 1127 00:55:18,273 --> 00:55:19,942 Because you move into Australia 1128 00:55:20,025 --> 00:55:21,527 and there's like this random person 1129 00:55:21,652 --> 00:55:23,445 you haven't met living in my house. 1130 00:55:23,529 --> 00:55:25,447 You guys have a little bit of a history, right? 1131 00:55:25,531 --> 00:55:27,199 [Nigel] Oh yeah, we'd hooked up before. 1132 00:55:27,282 --> 00:55:28,283 -[Andi] Yeah? -[Nigel] Yeah. 1133 00:55:32,162 --> 00:55:34,998 Did it ever happen while she was living here? 1134 00:55:35,082 --> 00:55:36,416 So what if it did? 1135 00:55:36,542 --> 00:55:38,335 You gave me a hall pass, that's a hall pass, right? 1136 00:55:40,170 --> 00:55:41,171 Yes. 1137 00:55:41,255 --> 00:55:42,548 My business if I use it or not. 1138 00:55:45,008 --> 00:55:46,093 Did you ever use the hall pass? 1139 00:55:48,053 --> 00:55:49,847 Why does this matter to you all of a sudden? 1140 00:55:50,764 --> 00:55:51,849 [Andi] Well, because I... 1141 00:55:51,932 --> 00:55:54,059 it actually does because I feel like you knew 1142 00:55:54,142 --> 00:55:55,394 that I was uncomfortable with it. 1143 00:55:55,519 --> 00:55:56,603 But I thought you wanted 1144 00:55:56,728 --> 00:55:58,063 a don't-ask-don't-tell situation. 1145 00:55:58,188 --> 00:55:59,857 -[Andi] Well, I -- -And now you're asking. 1146 00:55:59,940 --> 00:56:02,150 Well, when you ask, then you get to tell. 1147 00:56:02,234 --> 00:56:03,735 [Nigel] Yeah, OK, well. 1148 00:56:03,861 --> 00:56:05,195 So it sounds like you did then. 1149 00:56:05,279 --> 00:56:07,239 So you want to know if I... yeah, you reckon I did? 1150 00:56:07,322 --> 00:56:08,615 [Andi] Sounds like it, yeah. 1151 00:56:11,535 --> 00:56:13,495 [Nigel] It's kind of annoying that Andi's questioning me 1152 00:56:13,579 --> 00:56:15,122 so hard this morning. 1153 00:56:15,247 --> 00:56:16,915 I'm not really concerned about 1154 00:56:18,125 --> 00:56:19,251 Andi's other lovers. 1155 00:56:19,376 --> 00:56:21,378 So if Andi has any problem here, 1156 00:56:21,461 --> 00:56:23,422 I think it's really just her insecurity. 1157 00:56:25,007 --> 00:56:26,758 The truth is... 1158 00:56:26,842 --> 00:56:28,844 -Are you ready for this? -I'm not sure. 1159 00:56:31,430 --> 00:56:33,432 I never had sex with her. Not once. 1160 00:56:35,893 --> 00:56:37,102 I decided it wasn't right. 1161 00:56:38,937 --> 00:56:41,106 I could tell, even though you gave me the hall pass, 1162 00:56:41,231 --> 00:56:44,151 I could tell you weren't super comfortable with the idea. 1163 00:56:44,276 --> 00:56:45,444 -Yeah. -[Nigel] So... 1164 00:56:45,527 --> 00:56:46,528 I just decided not to do it. 1165 00:56:48,780 --> 00:56:49,698 It's that simple, babe. 1166 00:56:49,781 --> 00:56:51,408 It's because I love you too much. 1167 00:56:51,491 --> 00:56:52,701 -Aww. -[Nigel] Yeah. 1168 00:56:53,911 --> 00:56:55,746 Well, thank you. I appreciate that, 1169 00:56:55,829 --> 00:56:56,788 and I appreciate you telling me. 1170 00:56:56,914 --> 00:56:58,040 [Nigel] Of course, babe. 1171 00:56:58,999 --> 00:57:00,000 I guess I will really never know 1172 00:57:00,125 --> 00:57:01,460 if you were telling me the truth, but... 1173 00:57:01,585 --> 00:57:02,794 [Nigel] No. 1174 00:57:02,878 --> 00:57:04,463 I mean, you could ask her if you want. 1175 00:57:07,257 --> 00:57:10,802 I do believe Nigel did not sleep with his roommate, 1176 00:57:10,886 --> 00:57:12,971 and I actually really respected that, 1177 00:57:13,055 --> 00:57:15,474 because that means that he actually really does care 1178 00:57:15,599 --> 00:57:17,476 about how I'm feeling in the situation. 1179 00:57:20,687 --> 00:57:22,648 No, they are expired. 1180 00:57:22,731 --> 00:57:24,149 [Nigel] OK. 1181 00:57:24,232 --> 00:57:26,443 [Andi] I think that maybe while I was in the US, 1182 00:57:26,526 --> 00:57:29,279 I was a little more paranoid than I needed to be. 1183 00:57:30,656 --> 00:57:31,823 I really hope so. 1184 00:57:34,826 --> 00:57:38,080 [Benjamin speaking] 1185 00:57:38,163 --> 00:57:39,957 Oh, gosh. 1186 00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:42,709 [Ben] It's impossible to live in a country 1187 00:57:42,834 --> 00:57:47,047 and be successful if you don't speak the language. 1188 00:57:47,172 --> 00:57:49,174 If she never tried, we will never make it. 1189 00:57:51,009 --> 00:57:52,219 Oh. 1190 00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:04,231 [chef speaking French] 1191 00:58:21,999 --> 00:58:24,084 [singing in French] 1192 00:58:24,209 --> 00:58:27,254 [soft, traditional, French music plays] 1193 00:58:30,757 --> 00:58:31,633 [Ben] Welcome home. 1194 00:58:31,758 --> 00:58:32,759 [Zuri chuckles] 1195 00:58:33,885 --> 00:58:35,721 [Zuri] Ah, it's good to be back. 1196 00:58:35,804 --> 00:58:37,305 [Ben] Yeah, I can imagine. 1197 00:58:38,724 --> 00:58:39,933 It's nice and warm in here. 1198 00:58:41,101 --> 00:58:42,477 Oh, my gosh, you made a sign! 1199 00:58:42,602 --> 00:58:43,645 [Ben] Yeah. 1200 00:58:43,770 --> 00:58:45,063 -Oh, it's so -- -Welcome home! 1201 00:58:45,147 --> 00:58:47,482 It's so cute! 1202 00:58:47,607 --> 00:58:49,359 Oh, hon. 1203 00:58:49,443 --> 00:58:51,278 -That's so sweet. -Yeah. 1204 00:58:51,403 --> 00:58:52,696 What's all... 1205 00:58:52,779 --> 00:58:56,116 Yeah, this is like a lot of American stuff for you, 1206 00:58:57,117 --> 00:58:59,327 so you don't feel like too far from home. 1207 00:58:59,453 --> 00:59:01,246 [Zuri] Oh, that's so thoughtful. 1208 00:59:01,329 --> 00:59:03,165 You've got all my favorites. 1209 00:59:03,290 --> 00:59:04,374 [Ben] Yeah. 1210 00:59:04,458 --> 00:59:05,834 [Zuri] Wow, I didn't even know they had some of 1211 00:59:05,959 --> 00:59:08,128 this stuff here. -Yeah. 1212 00:59:08,211 --> 00:59:10,130 But like, I found it. 1213 00:59:11,465 --> 00:59:13,842 -[Zuri] Oh. -I hope it makes you happy. 1214 00:59:13,967 --> 00:59:14,968 Yeah. 1215 00:59:16,136 --> 00:59:18,472 I'm so happy to be back in France. 1216 00:59:18,597 --> 00:59:21,850 Like, I'm happy we're giving it another shot. 1217 00:59:21,975 --> 00:59:26,271 I really see myself with Ben and like my future with Ben. 1218 00:59:26,354 --> 00:59:27,731 It just feels good to be back. 1219 00:59:29,232 --> 00:59:31,359 [Ben] But babe, for real, I don't know where we would put 1220 00:59:31,485 --> 00:59:34,446 all your stuff, like, we don't have room. 1221 00:59:34,529 --> 00:59:36,239 I can use some of your closet, right? 1222 00:59:37,616 --> 00:59:38,867 I don't know, like, oh, 1223 00:59:38,992 --> 00:59:41,161 oh you can have like that much suitcase. 1224 00:59:41,286 --> 00:59:42,662 That's not even all of it. 1225 00:59:42,788 --> 00:59:43,914 -[Ben] Oh. -Like... 1226 00:59:43,997 --> 00:59:48,001 I was being mindful because my mom had another luggage 1227 00:59:48,126 --> 00:59:49,878 ready for me if I needed it. 1228 00:59:50,003 --> 00:59:53,006 And I still have most of my stuff still in the US, 1229 00:59:53,131 --> 00:59:54,591 if you can imagine. 1230 00:59:54,674 --> 00:59:56,510 I can imagine, but I don't want to. 1231 00:59:58,261 --> 00:59:59,763 [Zuri] Oh, Ben, I see your presents. 1232 00:59:59,846 --> 01:00:01,098 [Ben] Oh. 1233 01:00:01,181 --> 01:00:02,182 [Zuri] Ta da! 1234 01:00:03,391 --> 01:00:05,143 Oh! Some coffee? 1235 01:00:05,227 --> 01:00:07,229 -Yeah. -Oh, nice. 1236 01:00:07,354 --> 01:00:09,147 Thank you so much. 1237 01:00:09,231 --> 01:00:11,358 -I knew you would like it. -Yeah, I lo -- 1238 01:00:11,483 --> 01:00:13,568 -Ooh. -And I got your sauce. 1239 01:00:13,693 --> 01:00:16,238 Yep. Homemade enchilada. 1240 01:00:16,363 --> 01:00:17,364 Coming soon. 1241 01:00:20,283 --> 01:00:23,829 So I guess there's like a stereotype that Europeans 1242 01:00:23,912 --> 01:00:27,040 like hate American coffee, like it's garbage. 1243 01:00:27,124 --> 01:00:28,875 Ben, like, loves it. 1244 01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:31,419 He loves like thoroughly sweet drinks and like 1245 01:00:31,545 --> 01:00:33,505 all the crazy flavors. 1246 01:00:34,631 --> 01:00:37,384 When we first started dating and he visited me in the US 1247 01:00:37,509 --> 01:00:38,718 for the first time, 1248 01:00:38,844 --> 01:00:40,220 he tried like an iced coffee 1249 01:00:40,345 --> 01:00:43,306 and never had iced coffee, and it like changed his life. 1250 01:00:48,562 --> 01:00:50,897 -[Ben] The bar's now open. -I'm back in town. 1251 01:00:50,981 --> 01:00:52,357 Sure. 1252 01:00:57,195 --> 01:00:59,739 -[Zuri] That's good. -You're happy to be here? 1253 01:00:59,865 --> 01:01:01,491 [Zuri] Yeah, I'm happy to be here. 1254 01:01:01,575 --> 01:01:03,910 I feel like we do have a lot of memories 1255 01:01:04,035 --> 01:01:05,787 in this apartment together. 1256 01:01:05,912 --> 01:01:08,623 Yeah, but like good and bad, 1257 01:01:08,748 --> 01:01:10,834 because the first time, you know? 1258 01:01:12,169 --> 01:01:13,587 Yeah, true. 1259 01:01:13,670 --> 01:01:15,547 The first time around was difficult. 1260 01:01:15,630 --> 01:01:18,049 I felt...super lonely, 1261 01:01:18,133 --> 01:01:20,760 and I feel like that's why it was so difficult 1262 01:01:20,844 --> 01:01:22,596 for me to integrate into the culture, 1263 01:01:22,721 --> 01:01:26,433 because I just wasn't putting in the effort to do so. 1264 01:01:26,516 --> 01:01:30,228 I really don't want to go back to that era this time. 1265 01:01:30,312 --> 01:01:31,438 [Ben] Yeah, I think 1266 01:01:33,273 --> 01:01:35,525 the key is you to learn French. 1267 01:01:37,736 --> 01:01:39,946 We've been together since three years and like, 1268 01:01:41,239 --> 01:01:46,411 I see that you -- you didn't really trained. 1269 01:01:46,494 --> 01:01:50,457 If you learn French, like it will unlock everything for you. 1270 01:01:50,540 --> 01:01:52,334 -You know? -Yeah, definitely. 1271 01:01:52,459 --> 01:01:55,795 Like, I think I just take for granted that you speak English, 1272 01:01:55,879 --> 01:01:57,672 if I'm just being honest. 1273 01:01:59,633 --> 01:02:03,595 But so maybe we can like start practicing. 1274 01:02:03,678 --> 01:02:07,224 I see like those notebooks, maybe you can grab one. 1275 01:02:07,307 --> 01:02:09,601 -Are you serious? -[Ben] Yeah, I am. 1276 01:02:09,684 --> 01:02:11,895 Oh my God, OK, I'll grab one. 1277 01:02:13,563 --> 01:02:15,982 [Ben] For Zuri to be successful here, 1278 01:02:16,066 --> 01:02:18,610 she will have to learn the language, 1279 01:02:18,693 --> 01:02:22,030 be able to go out by herself, be independent. 1280 01:02:22,155 --> 01:02:27,160 So I know that I have to be more firm with Zuri because 1281 01:02:27,244 --> 01:02:32,415 it's impossible to live in a country and be successful 1282 01:02:32,499 --> 01:02:34,209 if you don't speak the language. 1283 01:02:34,334 --> 01:02:36,461 [Zuri] Maybe in here. 1284 01:02:36,544 --> 01:02:41,007 I'm worried that the story will repeat, and if she never tries, 1285 01:02:41,091 --> 01:02:43,843 it will be the same as before and we will never make it. 1286 01:02:45,262 --> 01:02:48,306 I will spell you some French things 1287 01:02:48,390 --> 01:02:49,391 and you have to write it. 1288 01:02:51,059 --> 01:02:52,060 Oh, gosh. 1289 01:02:53,853 --> 01:02:55,689 -I'm nervous. -[in French] On va faire. 1290 01:02:55,814 --> 01:02:57,649 Excuse me? 1291 01:02:57,732 --> 01:02:59,609 [in French] No -- excusez-moi. 1292 01:03:01,653 --> 01:03:03,196 -[Zuri] That was cute. -We have to start now. 1293 01:03:04,948 --> 01:03:07,200 Oh, I'm gonna need a little bit more. 1294 01:03:08,535 --> 01:03:10,578 I don't think it will help you, though. 1295 01:03:10,704 --> 01:03:12,914 But when I drink here, I feel like I'm fluent. 1296 01:03:16,209 --> 01:03:17,877 When we first got together, 1297 01:03:18,003 --> 01:03:21,256 I did, like, apps on my phone to learn the language. 1298 01:03:21,381 --> 01:03:26,136 And then before I moved, I was taking lessons online. 1299 01:03:26,219 --> 01:03:27,762 I get really embarrassed 1300 01:03:27,887 --> 01:03:30,890 because I wish that I had progressed further than I have. 1301 01:03:32,058 --> 01:03:34,686 But in the time of being long-distance, 1302 01:03:34,769 --> 01:03:37,397 I realized that if I want to have 1303 01:03:38,398 --> 01:03:41,151 a real life here, there's a lot of things I need to do. 1304 01:03:41,234 --> 01:03:45,947 So it's really bittersweet to be back because I'm nervous 1305 01:03:46,072 --> 01:03:48,783 like, about past mistakes resurfacing. 1306 01:03:48,908 --> 01:03:51,411 [in French] Parle on Français. 1307 01:03:51,536 --> 01:03:52,954 -Moi? -Oui. 1308 01:03:53,079 --> 01:03:55,457 Oui, je suis Zuri. 1309 01:03:55,582 --> 01:03:58,001 Je suis Américaine. 1310 01:03:58,084 --> 01:03:59,919 Je suis contant. 1311 01:04:00,045 --> 01:04:01,921 -Contente. -[Zuri] Contente. 1312 01:04:02,005 --> 01:04:03,381 -[Ben] Yeah, OK. -Oui. 1313 01:04:03,465 --> 01:04:05,800 Because you're a girl. "Contant" is for boy. 1314 01:04:05,925 --> 01:04:07,886 Oh, see, everything has a gender here. 1315 01:04:07,969 --> 01:04:10,138 -Yeah, but like -- -I don't mean to be too woke, 1316 01:04:10,263 --> 01:04:12,223 but like, let's get rid of the genders. 1317 01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:14,726 Like, what the hell? 1318 01:04:14,809 --> 01:04:16,686 I just thought I was gonna come here, 1319 01:04:16,770 --> 01:04:19,314 sip some champagne, have a good night. 1320 01:04:19,439 --> 01:04:21,232 Speaking English. 1321 01:04:22,650 --> 01:04:23,902 You know? 1322 01:04:25,820 --> 01:04:26,821 So give me your phone. 1323 01:04:28,073 --> 01:04:29,074 Oh. 1324 01:04:33,620 --> 01:04:35,372 You're gonna change my phone to French? 1325 01:04:36,956 --> 01:04:39,584 -Oh, get the hell out! -You have to. 1326 01:04:40,543 --> 01:04:42,504 [Zuri] Nah, please! 1327 01:04:42,629 --> 01:04:44,547 [Ben] Your new life is starting now. 1328 01:04:47,133 --> 01:04:48,760 This [bleep] is gonna say "bonjour" instead of 1329 01:04:48,843 --> 01:04:50,595 hello when I plug it. 1330 01:04:50,678 --> 01:04:54,057 This is nightmare, even my social media will be in French. 1331 01:04:54,140 --> 01:04:56,476 You know, my phone is in English 1332 01:04:56,601 --> 01:05:00,230 because it helped me to read like English every day 1333 01:05:00,313 --> 01:05:02,440 to progress and walk. 1334 01:05:02,524 --> 01:05:05,944 Whatever, I'm down to do it. I do need to learn. 1335 01:05:06,027 --> 01:05:08,113 I've been a bad, bad student. 1336 01:05:08,196 --> 01:05:10,198 -You win. -In French, in French, please. 1337 01:05:10,323 --> 01:05:11,825 I don't know how to say that in French. 1338 01:05:14,702 --> 01:05:17,664 [Zuri] It's really difficult for me to learn the language, 1339 01:05:17,747 --> 01:05:20,083 but I know I need to take this serious 1340 01:05:20,166 --> 01:05:23,211 and like show him that I want to build a life here. 1341 01:05:23,336 --> 01:05:25,088 So, on y va. 1342 01:05:26,172 --> 01:05:27,173 [Zuri] Amour? 1343 01:05:27,257 --> 01:05:28,675 [Ben] I got a sign for everything. 1344 01:05:28,758 --> 01:05:30,176 [both chuckle] 1345 01:05:36,015 --> 01:05:37,684 [Matilda speaking] 1346 01:05:43,273 --> 01:05:46,359 This is not the romantic reunion I was envisioning 1347 01:05:46,484 --> 01:05:48,278 for the last two years. 1348 01:05:48,361 --> 01:05:50,029 [Matilda speaking] 1349 01:05:56,035 --> 01:05:57,495 So who's all coming to the party? 1350 01:05:57,579 --> 01:05:59,038 [Nigel] Just a bunch of friends. 1351 01:05:59,122 --> 01:06:00,623 Is the girl that you were... 1352 01:06:00,707 --> 01:06:02,876 trying to go camping with gonna be there? 1353 01:06:02,959 --> 01:06:06,379 I feel like we're approaching this non-monogamy 1354 01:06:06,463 --> 01:06:07,714 very differently. 1355 01:06:08,548 --> 01:06:10,717 I am in Nigel's car right now 1356 01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:12,969 in front of Camping Girl's house. 1357 01:06:13,052 --> 01:06:15,513 There's something about this that does not feel good. 1358 01:06:15,597 --> 01:06:18,224 [intriguing music plays] 1359 01:06:29,110 --> 01:06:30,278 ♪ Here we go ♪ 1360 01:06:30,361 --> 01:06:31,738 Jesus, Nigel. 1361 01:06:31,821 --> 01:06:33,490 -What? -Can you just 1362 01:06:34,324 --> 01:06:37,118 chill out and slow down a little bit, please? 1363 01:06:37,202 --> 01:06:38,536 -Don't worry about it. -No, I know. 1364 01:06:38,620 --> 01:06:39,996 It's stressing me out. 1365 01:06:40,121 --> 01:06:41,122 It's because you used to being 1366 01:06:41,206 --> 01:06:42,415 on the wrong side of the road, eh? 1367 01:06:42,499 --> 01:06:43,833 Oh, my God. 1368 01:06:43,958 --> 01:06:47,795 ♪ We never back, back, back, back down ♪ 1369 01:06:47,921 --> 01:06:51,382 ♪ No turning back, back, back, back, no ♪ 1370 01:06:51,466 --> 01:06:53,176 [Nigel] Hey, we've got heaps to do today. 1371 01:06:53,301 --> 01:06:54,969 We've got to go to the grocery store, we've got to go 1372 01:06:55,094 --> 01:06:57,472 to printers, print some stuff out. 1373 01:06:57,555 --> 01:06:58,515 [Andi] Mm-hmm. 1374 01:06:58,640 --> 01:06:59,849 Then I've just got to drop off some eggs 1375 01:06:59,974 --> 01:07:01,184 at a friend's house. 1376 01:07:01,309 --> 01:07:03,520 Dropping off the eggs, put it on the list. 1377 01:07:07,106 --> 01:07:10,151 [Andi] Princess parking, right in front, hell yeah. 1378 01:07:12,403 --> 01:07:14,906 Throwing a welcome party for her tomorrow in my backyard 1379 01:07:14,989 --> 01:07:17,158 so that she really feels appreciated 1380 01:07:17,283 --> 01:07:18,826 and that she can see that I care about her 1381 01:07:18,910 --> 01:07:20,995 and that she can start to meet some of 1382 01:07:21,079 --> 01:07:22,163 my awesome friends and like 1383 01:07:22,288 --> 01:07:24,165 what better way to do that than throw on a party. 1384 01:07:25,458 --> 01:07:27,961 -Alright, let's go. -[Andi] Oh, my God. 1385 01:07:28,044 --> 01:07:29,754 [Nigel] Just going in the shops, it's fine. 1386 01:07:29,837 --> 01:07:31,172 Seriously, just try it. 1387 01:07:31,256 --> 01:07:32,882 I don't want to get somebody else's foot fungus. 1388 01:07:33,007 --> 01:07:34,259 There's no fungus, it's not like that, 1389 01:07:34,342 --> 01:07:35,927 it's not a public toilet, come on, babe. 1390 01:07:38,513 --> 01:07:40,223 So I have seen this before 1391 01:07:40,348 --> 01:07:42,517 when I was here for a vacation, 1392 01:07:42,600 --> 01:07:45,186 and I saw like two or three people barefoot 1393 01:07:45,311 --> 01:07:46,396 in the grocery store. 1394 01:07:46,521 --> 01:07:49,816 So this is a normal thing, I guess, or sort of normal. 1395 01:07:49,899 --> 01:07:51,317 -[Nigel] Is that good? -OK, alright. 1396 01:07:51,401 --> 01:07:53,319 Let the dogs breathe, baby. 1397 01:07:53,403 --> 01:07:55,530 [Andi] I need a pedicure. 1398 01:07:55,655 --> 01:07:58,032 In America -- no shirt, no shoes, no service. 1399 01:07:59,033 --> 01:08:02,870 But I am always down for a new experience, so I'm like, 1400 01:08:02,954 --> 01:08:05,248 "OK, fine, I will try it." 1401 01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:09,502 Oh, my God. It's so weird. 1402 01:08:09,586 --> 01:08:11,879 It's actually the floor actually feels kind of nice. 1403 01:08:11,963 --> 01:08:14,382 -She's just looked at our feet. -What? 1404 01:08:14,465 --> 01:08:16,050 -This is not normal. -It is definitely. 1405 01:08:16,175 --> 01:08:17,218 There's mayonnaise on the floor. 1406 01:08:17,301 --> 01:08:18,553 Relax. Don't step on that. 1407 01:08:18,678 --> 01:08:20,305 [Andi] OK. 1408 01:08:20,388 --> 01:08:22,557 Aussies particularly go barefoot wherever we can 1409 01:08:22,682 --> 01:08:24,309 because it's healthy. 1410 01:08:24,392 --> 01:08:27,895 You know, we're supposed to be electrically earthed 1411 01:08:28,020 --> 01:08:30,481 to the planet, and we're not really supposed to wear shoes. 1412 01:08:30,564 --> 01:08:32,817 A lot of shoes are not good for your feet. 1413 01:08:32,899 --> 01:08:35,236 So, it's pretty normal to go to a shopping centre barefoot 1414 01:08:35,361 --> 01:08:37,779 in Australia, it's not so frowned upon. 1415 01:08:37,904 --> 01:08:39,073 I cannot help but notice 1416 01:08:39,157 --> 01:08:40,992 how everybody else is wearing shoes. 1417 01:08:41,075 --> 01:08:42,868 [Nigel] What about that guy? 1418 01:08:42,952 --> 01:08:44,412 [Andi] Oh, God. 1419 01:08:45,997 --> 01:08:47,540 -Alright, OK. -Yeah, see? 1420 01:08:49,125 --> 01:08:51,877 There's a million reasons why one should not be walking 1421 01:08:51,961 --> 01:08:53,087 through a grocery store barefoot. 1422 01:08:53,212 --> 01:08:56,006 What if somebody spilled the milk or broke a glass? 1423 01:08:56,090 --> 01:08:58,676 Who knows what kind of fungus is running around this town? 1424 01:08:58,760 --> 01:09:01,638 So, yeah, not my favorite experience. 1425 01:09:04,182 --> 01:09:05,558 So, who's all coming to the party? 1426 01:09:06,934 --> 01:09:08,394 Oh, you know, just a bunch of friends. 1427 01:09:09,812 --> 01:09:11,439 Anybody that I should know about? 1428 01:09:11,522 --> 01:09:13,441 [Nigel] What do you mean? 1429 01:09:13,524 --> 01:09:16,109 I don't know. Like, any of your lovers? 1430 01:09:18,404 --> 01:09:20,448 -I don't know. I sent the invite out. -Serious? 1431 01:09:20,531 --> 01:09:23,451 -Whoever shows up, shows up. -Yeah, OK. 1432 01:09:23,576 --> 01:09:24,952 Won't be weird? 1433 01:09:26,703 --> 01:09:28,122 I don't know, are you gonna be weird about it? 1434 01:09:28,206 --> 01:09:29,207 I don't think so. 1435 01:09:30,457 --> 01:09:31,917 -They won't be weird. -OK. 1436 01:09:32,001 --> 01:09:33,211 Well, then, yeah, if they won't be weird, 1437 01:09:33,294 --> 01:09:35,630 then I won't be weird, nobody's gonna be weird, it'll be fine. 1438 01:09:37,590 --> 01:09:39,884 Is the girl that you were trying to go camping with 1439 01:09:39,966 --> 01:09:42,553 gonna be there? -[Nigel] Maybe. 1440 01:09:42,636 --> 01:09:43,970 OK. 1441 01:09:45,139 --> 01:09:46,640 -I'm just curious. -She might be though, yeah. 1442 01:09:46,765 --> 01:09:47,850 -Yeah. -I invited her. 1443 01:09:47,975 --> 01:09:49,060 She lives close by. 1444 01:09:49,143 --> 01:09:50,645 -Yeah, she's cool. -[Andi] OK. 1445 01:09:50,728 --> 01:09:51,938 OK. 1446 01:09:53,356 --> 01:09:55,233 Before I came to Australia, 1447 01:09:55,316 --> 01:09:58,945 Nigel texted me about one of his lovers. 1448 01:09:59,028 --> 01:10:01,489 He planned to camp with this girl 1449 01:10:01,614 --> 01:10:02,949 during a festival. 1450 01:10:04,575 --> 01:10:07,286 Right before I was moving to Australia, 1451 01:10:07,370 --> 01:10:10,707 and it feels like they're maybe getting a little close, 1452 01:10:10,832 --> 01:10:14,502 and it's giving me a little bit of 1453 01:10:14,585 --> 01:10:17,046 anxiety, maybe a little bit of some jealousy vibes, 1454 01:10:17,171 --> 01:10:20,508 because I don't understand the entire relationship, 1455 01:10:20,633 --> 01:10:22,885 and it feels like there's a little bit of secrecy around it. 1456 01:10:23,010 --> 01:10:26,013 So it's something that I really need to get cleared up. 1457 01:10:26,139 --> 01:10:27,849 Would you like a box for these? 1458 01:10:27,932 --> 01:10:30,226 -Yeah, go ahead, yes. -A box, yes. 1459 01:10:30,351 --> 01:10:31,561 I don't know if you noticed, 1460 01:10:31,686 --> 01:10:33,563 we are walking around your store barefoot. 1461 01:10:33,688 --> 01:10:35,356 -Is this normal? -Yeah, it's fine. 1462 01:10:35,481 --> 01:10:37,150 -It's whatever. -[Andi] What? 1463 01:10:37,233 --> 01:10:38,985 It's weird if you ask about it. 1464 01:10:40,194 --> 01:10:41,279 Like... 1465 01:10:41,362 --> 01:10:42,613 OK. 1466 01:10:42,697 --> 01:10:46,075 I feel like we're approaching this non-monogamy 1467 01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:47,368 very differently, 1468 01:10:47,452 --> 01:10:49,120 where he's kind of setting himself up to like 1469 01:10:49,203 --> 01:10:51,497 build these little mini relationships. 1470 01:10:51,581 --> 01:10:55,543 And for me, it's the, you know, if something arises, 1471 01:10:55,668 --> 01:10:57,754 then I'm gonna go with the flow. 1472 01:10:57,879 --> 01:10:59,589 -See ya. -See ya, mate, thank you. 1473 01:11:01,466 --> 01:11:04,051 Nigel is throwing me a welcome party, 1474 01:11:04,135 --> 01:11:06,763 and I am gonna be face-to-face 1475 01:11:06,888 --> 01:11:09,307 with some of his lovers. 1476 01:11:09,390 --> 01:11:12,602 And I don't know how that's gonna go for me. 1477 01:11:23,905 --> 01:11:28,117 I am in Nigel's car right now in front of Camping Girl's house. 1478 01:11:28,242 --> 01:11:31,204 We were running some errands, and he said he had some eggs 1479 01:11:31,287 --> 01:11:33,247 to drop off to a friend's house. 1480 01:11:33,372 --> 01:11:37,794 And as he pulls up, he says, "Do you want to come meet?" 1481 01:11:37,919 --> 01:11:40,338 Lists off the names, and her name is one of them. 1482 01:11:40,421 --> 01:11:41,422 And I'm like... 1483 01:11:42,590 --> 01:11:43,591 What? 1484 01:11:45,051 --> 01:11:47,428 And he's like, "Oh yeah, didn't you realize 1485 01:11:47,512 --> 01:11:48,930 that's who I was dropping off the eggs to?" 1486 01:11:49,055 --> 01:11:50,807 I'm like, "No, 1487 01:11:50,932 --> 01:11:54,393 "at no point did you say her name, all of today, 1488 01:11:55,728 --> 01:11:57,522 at no point did you say her name." 1489 01:11:57,605 --> 01:11:59,273 He's like, "Oh, 1490 01:11:59,357 --> 01:12:00,983 I'm sorry, well, do you want to go in and meet her?" 1491 01:12:01,108 --> 01:12:02,109 And I'm like... 1492 01:12:03,611 --> 01:12:06,948 Like, this conversation hasn't happened yet. 1493 01:12:07,990 --> 01:12:09,867 We need to talk about this. 1494 01:12:09,951 --> 01:12:11,452 Why was her name never mentioned? 1495 01:12:13,371 --> 01:12:16,123 It feels like he's keeping it like a secret, and then 1496 01:12:16,249 --> 01:12:18,960 he just pulls up and expects me to be cool about it. 1497 01:12:19,085 --> 01:12:21,379 There's something about this that does not feel good. 1498 01:12:22,922 --> 01:12:24,131 And I'm gonna find out what it is. 1499 01:12:25,466 --> 01:12:27,677 I don't even have any words right now. 1500 01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:40,731 [Niles speaking] 1501 01:12:43,401 --> 01:12:45,236 Are you serious? Are you being real? 1502 01:12:48,531 --> 01:12:50,575 [tense music plays] 1503 01:12:52,034 --> 01:12:53,494 So you'll be happy for your wife to be homeless, 1504 01:12:53,578 --> 01:12:54,954 sleeping outside? 1505 01:12:56,455 --> 01:12:57,999 No, I wouldn't be happy about that. 1506 01:13:14,557 --> 01:13:15,641 [Niles] Yes. 1507 01:13:17,602 --> 01:13:18,603 No, I wasn't. 1508 01:13:20,938 --> 01:13:23,649 My instruction to you was to calm down and wait. 1509 01:13:23,733 --> 01:13:25,526 That was my instruc -- that was what you were supposed to do. 1510 01:13:25,651 --> 01:13:26,694 Calm down and wait? 1511 01:13:26,819 --> 01:13:27,862 What were you expecting me to do? 1512 01:13:27,987 --> 01:13:30,489 Mat, I honestly thought that you were staying 1513 01:13:30,573 --> 01:13:31,866 with your family. 1514 01:13:31,991 --> 01:13:33,534 [Matilda speaking] 1515 01:13:37,204 --> 01:13:39,165 What would have been so wrong about doing that 1516 01:13:39,248 --> 01:13:40,374 if I told you -- 1517 01:13:59,602 --> 01:14:00,978 No, Mat, you're missing the point. 1518 01:14:03,481 --> 01:14:05,274 -Actually, I didn't say that. -[Matilda speaking] 1519 01:14:14,033 --> 01:14:15,618 -[Niles] No, there's not. -[Matilda speaking] 1520 01:14:19,872 --> 01:14:23,042 The thing is though, you know why I, please -- 1521 01:14:29,340 --> 01:14:31,842 If you had money to move, why did you ask me then? 1522 01:14:35,930 --> 01:14:39,016 I told you to just hold it together, for what? 1523 01:14:40,851 --> 01:14:43,020 Right -- right now, I don't have it right now. 1524 01:14:43,104 --> 01:14:44,146 That's not me telling you to go 1525 01:14:44,271 --> 01:14:45,856 do something impulsive behind my back. 1526 01:15:00,621 --> 01:15:01,956 [Matilda speaking] 1527 01:15:02,039 --> 01:15:04,375 Are you not happy that I rented a house? 1528 01:15:04,458 --> 01:15:05,459 Are you not happy? 1529 01:15:07,003 --> 01:15:10,381 Mat, stuff like this, when it comes to major things like, 1530 01:15:10,464 --> 01:15:12,174 you know, where you're living, 1531 01:15:12,299 --> 01:15:13,759 I expect you to tell me the truth. 1532 01:15:13,843 --> 01:15:15,720 OK, thank you for saying that to me. 1533 01:15:15,803 --> 01:15:17,138 I was wrong to call you here. 1534 01:15:31,360 --> 01:15:32,820 This really is not 1535 01:15:32,945 --> 01:15:34,905 the romantic reunion I was envisioning 1536 01:15:34,989 --> 01:15:35,990 for the last two years. 1537 01:15:37,158 --> 01:15:39,910 And I don't think she has a right 1538 01:15:39,994 --> 01:15:41,287 to have the attitude she's having 1539 01:15:41,370 --> 01:15:42,371 with me right now. 1540 01:15:43,664 --> 01:15:47,084 So I have no idea when it will be the right time 1541 01:15:47,168 --> 01:15:49,670 to tell her that I'm moving to Ghana permanently. 1542 01:15:49,754 --> 01:15:51,672 I just know that it is most certainly 1543 01:15:51,756 --> 01:15:52,882 not right this instant. 1544 01:15:55,342 --> 01:15:56,594 [Matilda speaking] 1545 01:16:06,020 --> 01:16:08,022 [Megan] If she's gonna cry to me every week, 1546 01:16:08,105 --> 01:16:10,274 that will concern me, right? 1547 01:16:10,357 --> 01:16:12,359 She's pregnant with my baby, and your advice is 1548 01:16:12,485 --> 01:16:13,736 for her to find somebody else. 1549 01:16:15,029 --> 01:16:16,363 [Megan] His defense is to attack me. 1550 01:16:16,489 --> 01:16:19,700 It does worry me a bit if he is the right person for her. 1551 01:16:20,868 --> 01:16:22,244 [Jonathan speaking] 1552 01:16:31,587 --> 01:16:33,047 [Jonathan] Jesus [bleep] Christ. 1553 01:16:35,132 --> 01:16:36,926 [Megan speaking] 1554 01:16:37,051 --> 01:16:41,514 Yeah, it kind of sucks though. Like, I just feel bad. 1555 01:16:41,597 --> 01:16:44,266 Like, I am a total, like, 1556 01:16:44,391 --> 01:16:47,853 horrible person for even, like, asking him about getting 1557 01:16:47,937 --> 01:16:51,315 a job or, like, a concrete plan. 1558 01:16:51,440 --> 01:16:54,110 But he's the kind of person that, like, will break 1559 01:16:54,193 --> 01:16:55,820 under pressure. 1560 01:16:55,945 --> 01:16:57,947 You feel like you have to walk on eggshells? 1561 01:16:58,030 --> 01:16:59,031 Yeah. 1562 01:17:06,789 --> 01:17:10,167 It just makes me feel like he's not really prioritizing 1563 01:17:10,292 --> 01:17:12,128 our lives out here. 1564 01:17:12,253 --> 01:17:14,505 Like Jollybob is going to be born like in, 1565 01:17:14,630 --> 01:17:15,965 literally like in a couple of months. 1566 01:17:16,090 --> 01:17:17,091 Yeah. 1567 01:17:18,342 --> 01:17:22,638 Prawning with Megan kind of turned out to be a disaster, 1568 01:17:22,763 --> 01:17:27,685 because I feel like John takes things very personally. 1569 01:17:28,936 --> 01:17:30,437 I have got to go to the bathroom. 1570 01:17:30,521 --> 01:17:31,564 [Megan] OK. 1571 01:17:31,647 --> 01:17:35,526 But Megan saying the things that she says are like 1572 01:17:35,651 --> 01:17:37,236 the things that 1573 01:17:37,319 --> 01:17:40,489 I have been trying to say to John, but, like, 1574 01:17:40,573 --> 01:17:42,825 I feel like he doesn't really listen when I say it. 1575 01:17:45,369 --> 01:17:46,829 -[Jonathan] You wanna have a seat? -[Megan] Yeah, thank you. 1576 01:17:53,335 --> 01:17:55,254 Oh. That was so intense. 1577 01:17:55,337 --> 01:17:56,463 I just think it's a little bit 1578 01:17:56,547 --> 01:17:58,340 odd that I'm sitting here taking all this heat. 1579 01:18:00,551 --> 01:18:03,053 [Megan] I do feel a bit of defensiveness coming from you, 1580 01:18:03,179 --> 01:18:05,973 but I will respect your... -Why wouldn't I be? 1581 01:18:06,056 --> 01:18:07,391 Exactly, that's why I say respect this. 1582 01:18:07,516 --> 01:18:10,853 Look at this big plate of bull[bleep] you laid on me tonight. 1583 01:18:10,936 --> 01:18:11,937 -[Megan] Yeah. -You know? 1584 01:18:12,021 --> 01:18:14,023 These are coming from her because she feels like 1585 01:18:14,106 --> 01:18:15,191 she can't speak to you about it. -No. 1586 01:18:15,274 --> 01:18:16,442 [Megan] And as a friend... 1587 01:18:16,525 --> 01:18:17,693 You know, actually, she's talked about 1588 01:18:17,776 --> 01:18:18,861 all this stuff to me. 1589 01:18:18,944 --> 01:18:20,905 Or maybe she's having an emotional moment 1590 01:18:21,030 --> 01:18:23,032 where she's... -I feel like you're using emotion as a cop-out. 1591 01:18:23,157 --> 01:18:24,950 -[Jonathan] No, I'm not. -You're putting like, just because she's pregnant, 1592 01:18:25,034 --> 01:18:27,077 her emotions are still valid. 1593 01:18:27,203 --> 01:18:28,245 -Cool. -[Megan] Yeah. 1594 01:18:28,370 --> 01:18:30,998 But I just don't know what to say about the fact that 1595 01:18:31,081 --> 01:18:34,668 you said earlier that she needs to find somebody else that can 1596 01:18:34,752 --> 01:18:36,629 meet those needs. 1597 01:18:36,712 --> 01:18:37,922 I think that's a cop-out. 1598 01:18:38,047 --> 01:18:40,424 You know, she's pregnant with my baby and your advice is 1599 01:18:40,549 --> 01:18:41,634 for her to find somebody else. 1600 01:18:41,717 --> 01:18:43,552 I did not think I said exactly those words. 1601 01:18:43,636 --> 01:18:45,262 [Jonathan] That's what you said when we were prawning. 1602 01:18:45,387 --> 01:18:47,932 I'm dealing with children. You don't have children, right? 1603 01:18:48,057 --> 01:18:49,058 [Megan] Yeah. 1604 01:18:49,141 --> 01:18:51,518 So maybe get some life experience under your belt 1605 01:18:51,602 --> 01:18:53,812 and then come to me and tell me what you would do 1606 01:18:53,896 --> 01:18:55,105 in a situation like that. 1607 01:18:55,231 --> 01:18:57,316 [Megan] I have not said that, but if she's going to cry to me 1608 01:18:57,399 --> 01:18:59,818 every week, that will concern me, right? 1609 01:18:59,902 --> 01:19:01,403 -[Jonathan] Yeah. -Yeah. 1610 01:19:01,528 --> 01:19:04,448 The other thing is, you know, a lot of the things 1611 01:19:04,573 --> 01:19:07,076 that you know about are very private. 1612 01:19:07,159 --> 01:19:08,577 [Megan] Yeah. 1613 01:19:08,661 --> 01:19:12,414 [Jonathan] And it's very shocking for me to have her friend basically 1614 01:19:12,498 --> 01:19:13,749 telling me all my dirt. 1615 01:19:13,874 --> 01:19:16,877 To me, that's a major betrayal of trust. 1616 01:19:16,961 --> 01:19:19,213 I think it was good on her to share to me 1617 01:19:19,296 --> 01:19:21,924 because I do give her that emotional support. 1618 01:19:22,049 --> 01:19:24,134 Maybe there should have been a communication of like, 1619 01:19:24,260 --> 01:19:26,553 "Hey, let's not tell this to anyone." 1620 01:19:26,637 --> 01:19:27,888 Oh, there was. 1621 01:19:27,972 --> 01:19:28,973 Yeah. 1622 01:19:30,057 --> 01:19:31,058 And is she OK with that? 1623 01:19:31,141 --> 01:19:32,351 [Jonathan] I don't know if she's OK or not. 1624 01:19:32,434 --> 01:19:33,978 We'll find out, we'll find out when [indistinct]. 1625 01:19:34,103 --> 01:19:36,730 I think that there is a bit of a gap in communication that I'm seeing here. 1626 01:19:36,814 --> 01:19:39,441 I think maybe you're just trying, it's maybe a little 1627 01:19:39,525 --> 01:19:40,734 too involved, you know what I'm saying? 1628 01:19:40,818 --> 01:19:45,239 OK, that's your opinion and I respect it, but if Ally wants me 1629 01:19:45,322 --> 01:19:46,782 to hear her out, then I'm going to hear her out. 1630 01:19:46,907 --> 01:19:49,368 -I'm going to step in for her if she needs me to. -Oh, that's fine. 1631 01:19:49,451 --> 01:19:50,953 I'm not happy about it whatsoever. 1632 01:19:51,078 --> 01:19:53,956 -[Megan] OK. -And Ally and I are gonna have to have a conversation based on 1633 01:19:54,039 --> 01:19:55,791 everything that's happened tonight. -OK. 1634 01:19:55,874 --> 01:19:57,293 OK. 1635 01:19:57,418 --> 01:19:58,377 Hey, babe. 1636 01:19:58,460 --> 01:20:01,297 I've had enough of prawning for today. 1637 01:20:01,422 --> 01:20:02,631 OK, let's go. 1638 01:20:04,967 --> 01:20:07,636 After the conversation I had with him, I have a whole new 1639 01:20:07,761 --> 01:20:09,221 impression of him. Bye! 1640 01:20:13,517 --> 01:20:14,601 [Jonathan] Yeah, that was pretty [bleep]. 1641 01:20:15,894 --> 01:20:17,479 I do feel a bit scared because 1642 01:20:18,522 --> 01:20:21,483 it feels a lot like he's a sweet-talker and his defense 1643 01:20:21,608 --> 01:20:22,609 is to attack me. 1644 01:20:23,694 --> 01:20:26,655 It does worry me a bit if he is the right person for her. 1645 01:20:28,490 --> 01:20:31,285 I do feel like Ally is better off alone. 1646 01:20:31,368 --> 01:20:33,912 John is kind of just adding a bit of burden to her life 1647 01:20:33,996 --> 01:20:34,997 right now. 1648 01:20:38,167 --> 01:20:39,293 [Jonathan speaking] 1649 01:20:44,381 --> 01:20:45,382 [Ally speaking] 1650 01:20:45,507 --> 01:20:46,675 [Jonathan speaking] 1651 01:20:48,052 --> 01:20:49,219 [Ally speaking] 1652 01:20:49,345 --> 01:20:51,472 [Jonathan speaking] 1653 01:20:51,555 --> 01:20:53,766 -[Ally] Leaving our relationship? -[Jonathan] Leaving all this. 1654 01:20:53,849 --> 01:20:54,933 -[Ally] Our relationship? -[Jonathan] Everything. 1655 01:20:57,603 --> 01:21:00,689 [bleep], man, I'm sorry. Just give me some space. 1656 01:21:07,279 --> 01:21:09,490 [Jonathan] It's not fair to have to sit there and listen 1657 01:21:09,573 --> 01:21:10,866 to this stupid... 1658 01:21:20,417 --> 01:21:23,379 [Niles] Next time on "90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way." 1659 01:21:23,504 --> 01:21:25,130 Fixed it. I'm Michelle. 1660 01:21:25,214 --> 01:21:27,216 I have the worst taste in men. 1661 01:21:27,299 --> 01:21:28,675 That's probably why I've stayed single. 1662 01:21:30,761 --> 01:21:33,722 But when I met Felix, I thought he was the best man I've 1663 01:21:33,806 --> 01:21:35,682 ever met. We were so happy. 1664 01:21:35,766 --> 01:21:37,476 We fell in love. 1665 01:21:37,559 --> 01:21:40,813 But his family became very involved in our relationship. 1666 01:21:55,452 --> 01:21:58,247 You stayed with a lover, and there was the camping trip. 1667 01:21:58,372 --> 01:22:01,083 And then last night, you took me to her house 1668 01:22:01,166 --> 01:22:02,126 to meet her. 1669 01:22:02,251 --> 01:22:04,461 And I thought you were on the same page. 1670 01:22:04,586 --> 01:22:08,340 My friend Asriel is my most recent sort of part-time lover. 1671 01:22:08,424 --> 01:22:09,425 We just started hooking up. 1672 01:22:10,467 --> 01:22:14,721 I look over, and I realize that, oh, this is Asriel. 1673 01:22:14,805 --> 01:22:16,181 [Nigel] You been inside yet? 1674 01:22:16,265 --> 01:22:19,101 [Andi] Then I see Nigel and Asriel walk up the stairs together. 1675 01:22:23,605 --> 01:22:24,606 [Matilda's father speaking] 1676 01:22:30,154 --> 01:22:31,613 [Matilda speaking] 1677 01:22:39,329 --> 01:22:41,498 [Niles] This is really freaking horrible. 1678 01:22:41,623 --> 01:22:44,042 I just uprooted my whole entire life. 1679 01:22:44,126 --> 01:22:45,961 I feel sick to my stomach. I really do. 1680 01:22:48,797 --> 01:22:51,133 I've never played doubles before. 1681 01:22:51,258 --> 01:22:52,259 [Vittorio] Hey, Jessy, go, go, go. 1682 01:22:53,260 --> 01:22:54,511 [speaking Italian] 1683 01:22:55,804 --> 01:22:57,181 Just look at the ball and hit. 1684 01:22:57,306 --> 01:22:58,974 Make me look good in front of them. 1685 01:23:00,225 --> 01:23:02,352 He's making fun of me. He's mocking me. 1686 01:23:02,478 --> 01:23:05,397 Every time the net. Every time. 1687 01:23:05,481 --> 01:23:09,860 He's honestly embarrassing me in front of all of his friends. 1688 01:23:09,985 --> 01:23:11,320 I do not want to go home with you. 1689 01:23:11,445 --> 01:23:12,529 Like, just respect that. 1690 01:23:12,654 --> 01:23:14,781 You're making a scene in front of everybody. 1691 01:23:14,865 --> 01:23:16,492 [speaking Italian] 1692 01:23:16,575 --> 01:23:18,160 [Jessy] Damn, [bleep] you. 1693 01:23:20,329 --> 01:23:23,332 I've got children at home, and you act like I'm giving 1694 01:23:23,415 --> 01:23:24,917 up nothing. -[Ally] You know what? 1695 01:23:25,000 --> 01:23:28,045 Maybe I should step aside from your life, because I feel like 1696 01:23:28,170 --> 01:23:31,256 I am too much, when I should be your [bleep] priority. 1697 01:23:32,257 --> 01:23:34,051 What the [bleep] are we doing together? 1698 01:23:34,176 --> 01:23:35,677 I don't know. 1699 01:23:35,761 --> 01:23:36,762 I don't know.