1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,120 Bruce, get down! BRUCE BARKS 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:04,840 Stop! Oi! Oh, my God! Jasmine. 3 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:06,560 JOANNA SCANLAN: Any dog... Jasmine! 4 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:09,000 Oi, no! Put it away. 5 00:00:09,040 --> 00:00:11,360 Who wouldn't want to put the Chihuahua in a pink dress? 6 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:13,080 ..any size... 7 00:00:13,120 --> 00:00:15,280 DOG BARKS Oh, my God, this is dangerous. 8 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:17,960 Whoa! DOG HOWLS 9 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:19,920 ..any problem... 10 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:22,240 He's literally holding his tail in his mouth. 11 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:23,320 Oh, Horace. 12 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:26,400 DOG GROWLS No! Kevin! Ah! 13 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:29,360 Quick, quick, quick! He's just a law unto himself, really. 14 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:32,000 DOG BARKS Honestly, get up. 15 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:34,560 Good girl. She won't let me even touch her. 16 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:36,000 Stop it! 17 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:37,680 DOG SNARLS No biting. 18 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:40,040 QUACKS ..one man... Hello, Graeme. 19 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:42,520 Nice to meet you. You well? You're attractive in real life. 20 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,480 Oh, thank you very much. ..is there for them all. 21 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:48,000 I think I might have my work cut out here. Not just with the dog. 22 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:50,720 Release the hound. You beauty. 23 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:53,280 You won't find this in any dog training manuals. 24 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:57,480 Graeme, this is a miracle. Leave it. Good boy. 25 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:00,360 This is just barmy. Put it there. 26 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:03,320 You are a very naughty boy. Come here, you little... 27 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:06,680 TOY SQUEAKS, DOGS BARK AND HOWL 28 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:12,000 This week... an all-out turf war... 29 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:14,680 She's trying to get through the window to him. 30 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:17,280 DOGS BARK ..leaves a family... 31 00:01:17,320 --> 00:01:20,280 DOGS BARK It really is horrendous. 32 00:01:20,320 --> 00:01:22,640 ..stuck in the trenches. 33 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,160 We live a completely separate life at the minute. 34 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:27,440 I'm up here and Mark's downstairs. 35 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:29,120 We can't go on like this. Yeah. 36 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:32,200 And Graeme catches up with some old friends... 37 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:33,560 Hi. How are you doing? 38 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:36,080 ..to see if their very bad behaviour... 39 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:38,520 Oh, you bit me then. He's drawn blood on my leg. 40 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:40,200 HE SIGHS, WHIMPERS 41 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:43,120 He's ruining my life. ..has been put right... 42 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,560 He just tells me how stressed he gets. 43 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:47,640 This sounds very familiar to me. It is. 44 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:50,280 ..or if their owners... No. 45 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,000 It's just not safe. 46 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:54,800 ..are still facing hurdles. Oh, blimey. 47 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:56,920 DOG BARKS Oh. Uh-uh! No, no, no, no, no. 48 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:59,040 Here we go again, George. 49 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:00,520 DOG BARKS Yeah. Not good. 50 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:06,520 You want a treat? There you go. 51 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:08,320 I love being at home with the dogs. 52 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:10,040 Dogs make a house a home. 53 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:12,000 I know it's a cliche, but it's very much true. 54 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,600 But I've been called by a family up north 55 00:02:14,640 --> 00:02:17,840 who've got dogs who really aren't getting on at all. 56 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:19,960 So, I've got to go see them, Johnny. 57 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:23,200 See if we can get them on the right track, mate. 58 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:27,200 Graeme's heading to Leeds after an urgent SOS. 59 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:31,120 Big St Bernards, Brodie and Rosie, 60 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:34,760 are at war with little cockapoo Jasper. 61 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:37,520 DOGS BARK AND YELP 62 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:41,360 Ow! 63 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,920 It's gone from them being in the same room, 64 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:47,160 but not really getting on, to then not being in the same room. 65 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:50,440 And then, now where we're at, where they're completely separate - 66 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:52,400 one upstairs, two downstairs. 67 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:55,800 THEY BARK 68 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:57,880 The relentless threat of conflict 69 00:02:57,920 --> 00:03:00,840 is stressing everyone out... Good boy. 70 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:04,480 ..as Joanne, Mark, and their kids, Olivia and Max... 71 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:05,600 Go on, get away. 72 00:03:05,640 --> 00:03:07,800 ..battle to keep the dogs from clashing. 73 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:09,120 DOG WHIMPERS 74 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:11,640 DOGS BARK 75 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:12,960 SCRATCHING 76 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:15,680 I can't relax because it's that fear and panic, 77 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:17,480 that, "Have we closed the door properly? 78 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:21,480 "Is the stair gate closed?" to ensure their safety. 79 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:24,760 It's horrendous. It really is horrendous. 80 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:29,560 This Goliath-sized feud... 81 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:32,440 isn't just dividing the dogs. 82 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:35,720 We live a completely separate life at the minute. 83 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:37,320 We just don't spend time together 84 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:39,520 cos I'm up here and Mark's downstairs. 85 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:41,120 Come on. 86 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:45,080 So I end up on my own with my phone... 87 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:47,680 and it's just lonely and boring. 88 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:51,480 We feel really sorry for Jasper as well. 89 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:54,000 Bye-bye. Go on, then. Go on, get away. 90 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:56,360 It's his home first, wasn't it? Yeah, it's his home first. 91 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:57,760 SCRATCHING 92 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:01,760 And then these two have arrived and turned his life upside down. 93 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,840 DOGS BARK 94 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:07,520 Neither of us can come up with a solution. 95 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:10,560 So we'll say quite regularly, "We can't go on like this." Yeah. 96 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:12,120 JASPER WHINES 97 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:13,800 But then it's, "What is the solution?" 98 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:20,440 So the pressure's on for Graeme to broker peace. 99 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:22,240 Ah, Joanne, right? Hi, Graeme. Yes. 100 00:04:22,280 --> 00:04:24,200 Nice to meet you. Lovely to meet you. All right? 101 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,960 This is Jasper. Hello, Jasper. Hello, mate. 102 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:31,080 But before he can take action, he must step onto the front line. 103 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:33,920 Nice. This is your place, then? This is it. 104 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:39,520 DOGS BARK All right. Oh, she's a big girl. 105 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:41,960 DOGS WHINE AND BARK 106 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:48,320 She's trying to get through the window to him. Yeah. 107 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:50,640 BARKING AND SCRATCHING 108 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:54,920 Cor blimey. This is every time, is it? Yep. 109 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:57,560 It's a bit of a bit of an onslaught, Jasper, 'ey? 110 00:04:57,600 --> 00:04:59,240 Yeah. 111 00:04:59,280 --> 00:05:01,800 Well, it looks as though they were gonna burst through 112 00:05:01,840 --> 00:05:03,400 and have him for breakfast. 113 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:05,880 I can't believe the force that they hit the glass with. 114 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:07,880 AGGRESSIVE BARKING 115 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:11,120 It's not exactly "welcome home", is it? No. 116 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:12,600 Blimey. No. 117 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:17,160 So where does he go, then? Because... Straight upstairs. 118 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:19,600 Oh, we're not going in the living room. No. No, no, no. 119 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:21,680 This turf war has escalated so much... 120 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:23,160 Doors shut. 121 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:26,160 ..that Jasper daren't go near Rosie and Brodie... 122 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:29,040 It's OK, it's OK, I'm coming upstairs. 123 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:32,240 ..and the battle lines are clearly drawn. 124 00:05:32,280 --> 00:05:33,880 He knows to go upstairs, doesn't he? 125 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:37,320 So he lives up here all the time, then? 126 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:40,120 Yeah, and so do I. And you do? 127 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:41,720 Well, most of the time 128 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:45,600 because he just squeals constantly if I'm not here. 129 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:47,120 So what happens at mealtimes, then? 130 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:48,680 Well, that's kind of gone down the pan. 131 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:50,800 We don't really eat as a family any more. 132 00:05:50,840 --> 00:05:53,360 It's just not logistically possible. Yeah? OK. 133 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:56,160 Even the most simple things of sitting, watching TV, 134 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:59,240 erm, we just can't do cos I can't be downstairs, 135 00:05:59,280 --> 00:06:01,280 we can't have a conversation together. Mm. 136 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:04,960 You know, a lot of communication between Mark and I is by phone. 137 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,800 No, really? What, you're phoning each other in the house? 138 00:06:07,840 --> 00:06:09,440 Yeah, yeah. SHE LAUGHS 139 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:13,000 Blimey! Poor you and poor Jasper. Yeah, yeah. 140 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:16,440 OK, so we just make sure we close that. 141 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:19,760 Make sure we close it, yeah. Right, that's it. 142 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:23,320 Check. SHE CHUCKLES 143 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:26,800 Graeme must face both sides if he's to break the deadlock. 144 00:06:26,840 --> 00:06:29,960 Hello, big boy. Hello. That's Rosie. 145 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:33,560 Ah, she's a bit nervous, isn't she? She is, very nervous. Yeah. 146 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:35,360 Ah, you're not sure, are you? JASPER WHINES 147 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,000 I think I'm gonna have to go back upstairs to calm Jasper down. 148 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:40,240 I can hear him, yeah. 149 00:06:40,280 --> 00:06:42,880 So, Olivia, what do you think would happen if they got together? 150 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:46,600 They have actually hurt Jasper before. Have they? 151 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:49,840 My mum opened this door behind you and they pushed past... 152 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:52,680 got upstairs and pushed down the gate. 153 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:54,760 Oh, so they actively go after him, then, really? 154 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:58,880 No, it's more of a big deal because they haven't seen him for so long. 155 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:01,600 So you're keeping them apart because of the obvious? 156 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:04,040 But the longer they've been apart, the worse it gets. Yeah. 157 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:06,000 Which is a classic Catch-22, isn't it, really? 158 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,920 Yeah. Even the simplest of tasks... PHONE RINGS 159 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:13,600 JOANNE: 'Hi. Jasper needs a wee.' ..creates a high stress situation. 160 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:15,160 So how's Joanne gonna get out the back? 161 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:17,080 She'll go out the front door, round the side. 162 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:19,760 Really? Looks like a military operation, this, innit? 163 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:25,920 Wait. Wait, wait, wait, wait. Wait. Good boy. Wait. 164 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:31,920 And like any military operation, tensions can erupt in an instant. 165 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:35,160 Oh, blimey. Oh, you beauty. 166 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:39,600 Blimey. Oh, it's like mayhem, innit?! 167 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:42,400 BARKING AND SCRATCHING 168 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:48,560 These St Bernards can't stand the sight of Jasper. 169 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:50,320 And from what Olivia is saying, 170 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:53,360 if they did ever get to him, they would harm him. 171 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:55,680 And let's be honest, they're really big, powerful dogs, 172 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:56,800 it wouldn't end well. 173 00:07:56,840 --> 00:08:00,120 Graeme believes the key to resolving this conflict... 174 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:03,800 He's happy now, look. ..is to find out who started it. 175 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:06,080 Everything was absolutely fine when we got Brodie. 176 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:08,920 The two of them got on really well. OK. 177 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:11,400 They played together, they would lie together, 178 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:12,880 they'd be absolutely fine. Ah. 179 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:15,520 And then Rosie came and turned our lives upside down. 180 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:18,760 What's Rosie's story, then? So you mentioned she was a rescue. 181 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:21,240 So, she was found at about seven months, 182 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:22,720 tied to a lamp post. Aw. 183 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:27,840 She was really, really thin, really malnourished. 184 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:30,520 And she'd been in the kennels for three months. Yeah. 185 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:32,680 So, obviously, we'll never know 186 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:34,600 what happened in the first seven months, then. 187 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:36,920 No wonder she's... she's a nervous girl. Yeah. Yeah. 188 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:39,480 Jasper was trying to be dominant with her. Oh, was he? 189 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:41,880 And she decided she was having none of that. 190 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:44,600 I know we've played a big part in this cos we've kept them separate, 191 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:47,480 cos we've been worried about Jasper's safety. Mm. 192 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:49,200 I'm seeing Rosie in a different light. 193 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:51,960 You know, she was a rescue, she was abandoned on the street. 194 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,280 And then she found herself in this house with a cockapoo, 195 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:57,160 having a go at her... and she defended herself. 196 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:02,200 Coming up, Graeme returns to see if Ray's retirement... 197 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:04,480 He's drawn blood on my leg. 198 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:08,240 ..is still a stress... He's ruining my life. 199 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:11,440 ..catches up with Doodle the lippy labradoodle. 200 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:13,520 Doodle. No. 201 00:09:13,560 --> 00:09:15,400 We need to teach Doodle some boundaries. 202 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:17,560 And will Jasper, Brodie and Rosie... 203 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,520 It's gonna be fine. Right, here we go. 204 00:09:20,560 --> 00:09:23,000 ..ever bury the hatchet? 205 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:25,640 There's absolutely no doubt they've seen him. 206 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,120 JOANNA SCANLAN: Today, Graeme's in Leeds... 207 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:35,360 This is your place, then? 208 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:39,520 ..where a family has been ripped apart by outright war. 209 00:09:39,560 --> 00:09:41,680 She's trying to get through the window to him. 210 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:44,680 Jasper and Brodie were inseparable 211 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:48,480 until rescue Rosie arrived eight months ago. 212 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:50,800 They have hurt Jasper before. 213 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:55,480 Now, Jasper can't go near them without a gigantic eruption... Ow! 214 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:58,760 ..leaving him and Joanne confined to quarters. 215 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:02,120 It's just lonely and boring. 216 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:04,960 Graeme's seen first-hand how bad things are... 217 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:06,800 Oh, it's like mayhem, innit? 218 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:10,520 ..and he's reached a potentially heartbreaking conclusion. 219 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:14,480 I mean, I'm not one for rehoming dogs, but... 220 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:18,360 Yeah. ..there is a strong argument to say rehome a dog, 221 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:20,160 and I think that would be Rosie. 222 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:21,440 Not an option. 223 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:23,960 Not an option? Not an option. 224 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:27,640 But if you don't rehome one, what are you gonna do? 225 00:10:27,680 --> 00:10:30,360 It has gone through our minds, but we've all come up, "We can't." 226 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:32,960 But there are times when I'm saying to people, 227 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:35,680 "Look, not a match made in heaven." Yeah. 228 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:37,760 You know, "This dog, and you, 229 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:40,200 "might be happier if you went separate ways." 230 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:42,280 You know, "This dog might find a better life." 231 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:45,200 I don't think the dogs have that bad a life. 232 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:47,120 I think we have the bad life. MARK CHUCKLES 233 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:48,680 It sounds crazy saying it out loud, 234 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:50,520 but I'm willing that we do that for them. 235 00:10:50,560 --> 00:10:52,880 That's one hell of a sacrifice, though, innit? Yeah. 236 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:56,640 We just... I think the longer we've had them, the more attached to them. 237 00:10:56,680 --> 00:10:58,560 That's the trouble with dogs, innit? Mm-hm. 238 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:01,840 Rehoming might be one guaranteed fix, 239 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:04,640 but Graeme isn't ready to give up. 240 00:11:04,680 --> 00:11:07,360 I think it's getting worse because you've kept them apart. 241 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:09,680 And I'm not blaming you cos I can see why you would. Yeah. 242 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:11,400 So I think we've got to get them together, 243 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:12,840 but we've got to do it in a way 244 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:15,560 where we're not putting them all at great risk. Yeah. 245 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:18,360 Until now, they've never had that chance, have they? No. 246 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,120 So I think we've gotta bite the bullet 247 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:22,800 if we're gonna... if we've got any chance of fixing it. 248 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:25,240 And I'll be honest, I'm making no promises on this one 249 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:29,200 cos it ain't easy. Yeah. Yeah. Not at all. Yeah. 250 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:31,960 My motto has always been - any dog, any age, and any problem. 251 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:34,880 And that doesn't mean that I can fix everything with a magic wand. 252 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:37,080 What it means is I will take on any case. 253 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:40,120 And the promise is I'll always do my best. 254 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:43,200 But... if we don't get anywhere, 255 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:47,720 the right advice to be 100% safe is to rehome one of the dogs. 256 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:52,000 With so much at stake, Graeme isn't taking any risks. 257 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:54,200 They're on lead so... just in case. 258 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:56,000 What we're gonna do is bring Jasper in. 259 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:58,880 If they react - seems odds-on they will - 260 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:02,320 it's a case of tell 'em no. Be very firm. 261 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:04,360 "You gotta get through me to get to him," you know? 262 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:06,600 But the important thing is when they back down... 263 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:08,800 "Good boy. Good girl." Yeah. 264 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:13,240 For any chance of peace, the family must be a united front 265 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:17,880 and show these warring parties bad behaviour won't be tolerated. 266 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:21,240 The dogs have got to understand that fighting - not an option. 267 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:23,920 This beef runs so deep 268 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:26,560 they clash the moment they make contact... 269 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:28,000 I think it's gonna be fine. 270 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:31,520 ..but if they can keep calm in the same room for long enough... 271 00:12:31,560 --> 00:12:33,240 Try and keep things looking calm. 272 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:36,520 ..Graeme believes they'll forget what they were fighting for. 273 00:12:36,560 --> 00:12:37,640 Are you ready? 274 00:12:37,680 --> 00:12:42,120 This requires everyone to be on high alert. 275 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:44,240 Right, here we go. DOOR SQUEAKS 276 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:45,640 Oh. Very nice. 277 00:12:45,680 --> 00:12:49,480 Sit down. There you go. There we go. Good. 278 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:51,840 Good boy. There's absolutely no doubt they've seen him. 279 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:54,200 LAUGHTER 280 00:12:59,960 --> 00:13:01,880 This might be the calm before the storm, 281 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:05,200 but in this moment, we're able to say, "Oh, good boy. Good girl." 282 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:07,160 Good boy. Good lad. 283 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:09,640 And Rosie. Good boy. 284 00:13:09,680 --> 00:13:12,520 Rewarding them for simply keeping cool 285 00:13:12,560 --> 00:13:15,880 reassures them that they can share the same space together. 286 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:18,200 Is that a surprise? OLIVIA: Yeah, you're OK. Yeah. 287 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:20,400 Yeah? Yes. LAUGHTER 288 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:22,440 A lot. I'll let you into a secret, 289 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:25,040 kind of surprised me as well. How's Jasper doing? 290 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:27,560 Jasper's nervous, very nervous. 291 00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:29,840 If you notice, he's not making eye contact. 292 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:33,520 He's looking, but he is nervous cos he's going... Yeah. 293 00:13:33,560 --> 00:13:35,200 And he's licking his lips occasionally, 294 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:36,880 which is a classic stressy sign. Yeah. 295 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:40,640 She's my biggest concern at the moment because she is still like... 296 00:13:40,680 --> 00:13:43,080 Yeah. Like this, isn't she, right? 297 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:44,720 So what I'm looking for with her is, 298 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:46,680 will she drag her eyes away at some point? 299 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:49,000 Rosie isn't launching an attack, 300 00:13:49,040 --> 00:13:52,560 but she's hardly extending an olive branch, either. 301 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:55,080 ROSIE GROWLS No! No. 302 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:57,560 And then, when she calms down again... 303 00:13:57,600 --> 00:13:59,720 "Good girl." Now. Yeah, good girl. 304 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:02,320 And now she's looked away. Good girl. 305 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:05,920 With that, there's a sudden shift in the room. 306 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:08,520 Not being fixated is a good thing, in't it? 307 00:14:08,560 --> 00:14:10,600 Could this de-escalation 308 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:13,960 be a major step towards a lasting peace? 309 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:15,400 She's kind of gone, 310 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:18,440 "I'll just look the other way. Maybe he doesn't exist." Yeah. 311 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:22,280 She will learn that she doesn't need to completely ignore him, it's fine. 312 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:24,600 But... But we take this all day long, wouldn't we, 313 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:26,160 compared to what we had, so... Yeah. 314 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:29,080 With Rosie taking her paw off the trigger... 315 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:32,320 Good girl. ..Jasper follows suit. 316 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:34,680 I can feel him relaxing a bit by now. 317 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:37,200 You can feel him calmer, can you? Yeah, yeah. 318 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:40,160 In light of this surprising success, 319 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:43,680 Graeme believes the more supervised visits they have, 320 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:46,720 the closer they'll get to burying the hatchet. 321 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:49,320 It still seems too good to be true at the moment. Yeah. 322 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:52,160 Yeah, yeah, I share that feeling. Erm, this morning, 323 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:54,120 I wouldn't have been so rash as to promise you 324 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:57,320 three dogs that appear to be asleep in the same room. 325 00:14:57,360 --> 00:15:00,200 I know, it's absolutely unbelievable. Yeah. 326 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:03,440 I think the key to it so far, it seems to me, has been Rosie. 327 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:06,240 She decided to back down. 328 00:15:06,280 --> 00:15:07,760 We've been all right ever since. 329 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:10,840 I'm really, really happy. LAUGHTER 330 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:13,560 Just for this, be sat in the same room... 331 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:15,720 Good boy. ..which is amazing. 332 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:17,160 I'm still in shock. 333 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:19,000 LAUGHTER 334 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:22,920 Just... We've battled with this for months and months, 335 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:26,720 and then it's, just in a flash, seems to be sorted. 336 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:28,480 Good boy. 337 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:32,920 Because of the huge effect on our life, and it's almost like, 338 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:36,280 "Well, why didn't we just do that months ago?" 339 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:38,960 How is this gonna change things? Massively. 340 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:42,480 I don't have to be lonely, staying upstairs with Jasper. 341 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:46,760 I can watch TV... Yeah. ..talk to Mark. Yeah. 342 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:49,560 We got the dogs together and nothing happened. 343 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:52,600 And I think I'm as surprised as they were, to be honest. 344 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:54,880 It makes me wonder whether all that was needed 345 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:57,280 was to allow 'em to spend a bit of time together, 346 00:15:57,320 --> 00:15:59,440 and then they could bury the hatchet but, 347 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:01,360 blimey, what a result in one day, eh? 348 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:06,600 Dealing with the unexpected is one of Graeme's specialities. 349 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:10,040 And three years ago in Buckinghamshire, he met Sarah. 350 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,920 Her son George and labradoodle Doodle... 351 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:14,040 Off. 352 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:17,360 ..who were in a seriously slobbery situation. 353 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:19,840 Doodle. No. 354 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:22,160 Morning, Sarah. Good morning. 355 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:23,760 Come in. Yeah, thank you very much. 356 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:28,160 Ex-teacher Sarah gave up work to care for her son George, 357 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:31,000 who has a genetic condition. George, this is Graeme. 358 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:33,240 George, hello. Nice to meet you. Hello. 359 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:34,720 And you, yes. 360 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:36,320 Well, he seems quite sweet, really. 361 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:38,320 So, you've obviously got problems with him. 362 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:39,960 Do you want to tell me about them? 363 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:43,440 George spends a lot of time in seating systems... Mm. 364 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:46,600 ..so it's nice for him to be kicking about on the floor. Right. 365 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:49,080 Doodle will take that opportunity... 366 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:51,040 to come and lick George's face. Right. 367 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:54,520 It's not hygienic. It's just not safe. 368 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:56,120 Come on, then, George. 369 00:16:56,160 --> 00:16:58,840 Sarah got Doodle to be a furry friend 370 00:16:58,880 --> 00:17:01,280 for then-nine-year-old George... 371 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:05,440 but she didn't realise quite how friendly he would become. 372 00:17:09,120 --> 00:17:12,000 No. OK. 373 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:14,960 Yeah. No! GEORGE LAUGHS 374 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:17,160 George thinks this is fun, doesn't he? Yeah. 375 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:19,240 He's not bothered by it. No. He thinks it's funny. 376 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:21,160 He's like his brother. It is like his brother, 377 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:22,640 you're right. Yeah, yeah. Uh-huh. 378 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:28,840 George had an older brother... who was called Jack, 379 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:30,960 who died seven years ago. 380 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:34,640 And he died in his sleep one night, for no particular reason. Wow. 381 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:41,200 That's kind of how Doodle came into our lives. 382 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:45,720 I brought him in to the family to be like a... 383 00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:48,920 baby that I... or the child that I didn't have... Mm. 384 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:55,160 ..and complete our family... 385 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:58,560 be a companion and friend... 386 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:00,720 with George, I guess. 387 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:05,680 Well, Doodle clearly loves George, and vice versa. 388 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:08,720 The problem, really, is that Doodle, if it's possible, 389 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:11,440 loves him too much and he's overdoing it. 390 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:13,000 No. 391 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:14,960 We need to teach Doodle some boundaries. 392 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:16,200 Hello. Hello. 393 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:20,520 To teach Doodle that his sloppy kisses weren't acceptable, 394 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:22,480 Graeme had a no-nonsense approach. 395 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:24,320 Good boy. 396 00:18:24,360 --> 00:18:25,760 We're gonna give him one chance, 397 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:28,120 one verbal warning, so to speak - off. 398 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:30,080 If he doesn't listen, out. OK. 399 00:18:30,120 --> 00:18:33,120 George, we'll put you on the floor and you can stretch your legs, mate. 400 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:36,520 The rule was simple - if Doodle canoodled... 401 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:38,560 Doodle. Off. 402 00:18:38,600 --> 00:18:41,840 Not working. Right. So it's like, come on. 403 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:43,520 ..time out. Come on. 404 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:46,560 DOODLE BARKS 405 00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:48,800 Well, you can bark, mate. That's it. You've blown it. 406 00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:50,960 DOODLE BARKS 407 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:55,600 For Doodle, George on the floor signalled playtime... 408 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:59,080 Come on, Doodle. In you come. 409 00:18:59,120 --> 00:19:01,200 ..and he just loved the kissing game. 410 00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:05,120 Ah! Off? 411 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:06,760 Come on, out you go. 412 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:10,600 Doodle wasn't listening. 413 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:15,080 And Sarah thought that might be because someone was encouraging him. 414 00:19:15,120 --> 00:19:17,320 So, George is reaching out to him, fair enough. 415 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:21,120 GEORGE VOCALISES Good boy, Doodle. 416 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:25,520 And that is even the noise, telling him to do it. Right. 417 00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:27,840 That noises. That's George encouraging him? Yep. 418 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:30,440 Like any mischievous sibling, 419 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:34,680 George was trying his best to get his fur brother's attention. 420 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:37,640 George. GEORGE LAUGHS 421 00:19:39,360 --> 00:19:41,960 That's it. It was up to Sarah to step in. 422 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:43,640 Good boy, Doodle. Good boy. Good. 423 00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:45,920 Go on, then, your turn. My turn. 424 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:48,240 GEORGE LAUGHS Off. 425 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:50,840 OK. Out! 426 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:57,480 Good boy, Doodle. In you come. 427 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:02,480 Off! Oh, OK. 428 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:04,760 He listened to you, so he doesn't need to go out. 429 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:07,400 Good boy. Good boy, Doodle. 430 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:10,560 Doodle learnt, if he wanted to be with his best buddy, George, 431 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:13,000 licking was off the menu. 432 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:16,440 So there was George, making all his best noises... Yeah. 433 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:19,240 ..turning to him, going, "Doodle, come on, mate, do the thing." 434 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:21,320 Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And Doodle's like, 435 00:20:21,360 --> 00:20:25,080 "I'm not allowed. I'm sorry." And even his partner in crime... 436 00:20:25,120 --> 00:20:27,560 Good. 437 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:29,680 ..was proud of Doodle's progress. 438 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:32,040 I heard you say... Did you say, "Good boy"? 439 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:34,600 You're right, he is a good boy. 440 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:38,200 Now, Doodle's really changed today. He's listening to Sarah. 441 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:42,640 That one command, you know, "off", now carries a bit of weight to it. 442 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:45,800 Off, or... you'll find yourself excluded. 443 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:51,480 Graeme may have one problem licked, but three years on... 444 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:54,320 Are you coming this way? Yeah, we're coming through. Righto. 445 00:20:54,360 --> 00:20:55,640 ..he's back... There you go. 446 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:57,120 DOODLE YIPS Oh, blimey. 447 00:20:57,160 --> 00:20:59,320 ..to face a whole new hurdle. 448 00:20:59,360 --> 00:21:01,480 I was worried he was gonna land on George. 449 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:02,800 No, no, no. 450 00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:04,080 And he returns to Henry... 451 00:21:04,120 --> 00:21:07,960 If I simply stand up, he will go into meltdown. 452 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:11,120 ..to see if stressed-out Ray... HENRY BARKS 453 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:13,960 He tried to kill me... cos I needed to answer the door. 454 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,360 ..can get any peace in his retirement. 455 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:18,880 Nice to see you again. Nice seeing you. You all right? 456 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:22,360 Good morning. Ray. Yes. You've seen Henry before. 457 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,320 He's barking at the waves. HENRY BARKS 458 00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:34,760 JOANNA SCANLAN: Today, Graeme's in beautiful Buckinghamshire, 459 00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:38,480 back to meet Sarah, George, and their labradoodle - Doodle. 460 00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:40,520 Last time he met them, 461 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:44,240 he helped put a stop to Doodle's wet kisses. 462 00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:47,160 Doodle, off. Not working. 463 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,000 Go on, out you go. DOODLE BARKS 464 00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:50,680 But three years on... 465 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:54,720 Morning. Hello. You all right? 466 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:56,200 Are you coming this way? Yeah. 467 00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:58,440 ..whilst PDAs are a thing of the past... 468 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:00,320 Oh, blimey. DOODLE YIPS 469 00:22:00,360 --> 00:22:03,520 ..Doodle's developed a serious case of BARK - 470 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:06,960 barrier activated reluctant canine. 471 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:09,920 No. Cor, he's not happy. DOODLE YIPS 472 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:14,000 Sarah and George love visiting this nature reserve, 473 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,400 but lately their trips have faced a hurdle... 474 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:18,320 DOODLE BARKS AND YIPS 475 00:22:18,360 --> 00:22:22,400 ..because Doodle's been going doolally at gates. 476 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:26,280 It used to be the licking. Now, it's getting through gates. 477 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:28,680 Walking through the gate on my own is hard enough. 478 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,400 With the wheelchair, it's virtually impossible. 479 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:34,800 While Sarah fights her frustration... 480 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:37,360 George finds it hilarious. DOODLE BARKS 481 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:41,000 George might find it funny, but Graeme has concerns. 482 00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:42,480 I really felt for Sarah there 483 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:45,160 because she literally had her hands full, didn't she? 484 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:48,000 I mean, at one point, I was worried he was gonna land on George. 485 00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:50,960 Right. Oh. Uh-uh-uh. No. 486 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,120 Graeme thinks there could be a reason 487 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:55,840 behind Doodle's recent change in behaviour. 488 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:58,880 Is there something about gates that's making him scared? 489 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:00,880 Cos he does look anxious. 490 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:03,440 Has he ever been caught by the gate or anything, do you know? 491 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,840 Not that I can recollect. No, but... It wouldn't be... 492 00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:07,080 It's not... ..impossible. 493 00:23:07,120 --> 00:23:11,640 So he might have a good reason to be anxious about gates. Right. 494 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:15,080 Graeme's seen Doodle's barrier meltdowns 495 00:23:15,120 --> 00:23:17,240 and is sure it's driven by fear. 496 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:19,840 If you could talk to him and ask him, 497 00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:22,760 "What is it about the gates, then?" He'd be, like, "Everything." Yeah. 498 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:25,600 "I don't like the look of 'em. I don't like the sound of 'em." 499 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:28,080 Yeah. So I think we've just got to convince him 500 00:23:28,120 --> 00:23:31,040 that, actually, gates are OK. Nothing bad's gonna happen. 501 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:35,120 GEORGE VOCALISES George agrees. Good. I'm glad. 502 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:36,400 THEY LAUGH 503 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:39,440 The key to getting Doodle comfortable with gates 504 00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:42,360 is desensitising him to everything about them. 505 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:47,160 Good. Well, let's not get too near, cos we both know that's his nemesis. 506 00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:49,800 Before attempting anything with George, 507 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,680 Graeme wants to break the training into stages. 508 00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:55,720 I want to show him that the gate's nothing to worry about. 509 00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:57,080 If he starts to kick off, 510 00:23:57,120 --> 00:23:59,000 I would stand in between him and the gate 511 00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:00,760 and just say "No", but calmly. OK. 512 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:04,040 But the key thing is he calms down when you say "Good boy." 513 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,520 Stage one - getting him close... 514 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:09,520 So, good boy, Doodle. ..without a meltdown. 515 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:12,240 DOODLE YIPS Hey, hey, hey, hey. 516 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:14,440 Never mind barking at the gate. 517 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:15,800 Good. 518 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:17,680 DOODLE YIPS No. 519 00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:21,560 Good lad. So the message here is, 520 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:24,320 "If you do nothing, we love you for it." 521 00:24:24,360 --> 00:24:26,040 We've certainly got to the point where 522 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:29,520 the sight of the gate on its own is just no issue, really. 523 00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:33,640 Doodle's making progress. Now, for stage two. 524 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,200 The sound is now the big deal. 525 00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:39,680 LATCH CLANKS, DOODLE YIPS Ah. No! 526 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:41,360 Good boy. 527 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,280 LATCH CLANKS, DOODLE YIPS Ah! 528 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,040 Hey, hey, hey! No! 529 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,200 Good boy. 530 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:50,000 Flick that again. That's no problem, is it? 531 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:54,080 Doodle seems comfortable with the sight and sound of the gate. 532 00:24:54,120 --> 00:24:56,240 Stage three - movement. 533 00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:59,160 Ah. DOODLE YIPS 534 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:00,360 No! 535 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,080 No. LATCH CLANKS, DOODLE YIPS 536 00:25:05,120 --> 00:25:07,440 Uh-uh, no. 537 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:08,720 Good lad. 538 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:10,080 Ah. 539 00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:13,720 That's good, cos that's further, look. 540 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:15,800 Good boy. 541 00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:17,800 The groundwork's paying off. 542 00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:20,160 Right. Well, that was progress, wasn't it? Yes. 543 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:21,320 Do you want a go? 544 00:25:21,360 --> 00:25:23,160 I will do my very best. There you go. 545 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,960 But has Graeme desensitised Doodle enough 546 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:29,880 for Sarah to get him through the gate without a fence off? 547 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:31,400 DOODLE YIPS No. 548 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:33,280 I think this tension's not helping. 549 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:36,040 If you're holding tight, he's gonna pull against it. 550 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,400 OK. Try again. OK, good. 551 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,640 That's it. Good. Uh-uh! 552 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,600 No! Watch him. Uh-uh. 553 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,280 No. 554 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:47,720 Good. Uh, no. 555 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:51,880 Graeme's theory is that if Doodle is gently led through, 556 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:55,040 the next time should be easier. Right? Uh-uh. 557 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:57,680 And then, when you're ready, you can go, "Right, off we go." 558 00:25:57,720 --> 00:25:59,640 That's it. Off we go. 559 00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:01,840 Well, it was hard-fought, but you got there. 560 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:05,840 Good. Come back through, then. So time to put it to the test. 561 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:07,880 Come on. No. Well done. 562 00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:09,960 Good. Come on, then. 563 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,680 That's it. Good. Well done. Take your time. 564 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:14,080 Good. Good boy. 565 00:26:14,120 --> 00:26:17,320 He's trusting you now, look, see? Good. 566 00:26:17,360 --> 00:26:19,240 Good boy. Good. 567 00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:22,880 Very nice. Expertly done, I would say. 568 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,000 Good. So far, so good. A bit of progress. 569 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:27,240 Well, everything looks really, really good. 570 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,840 Not perfect, but way better. 571 00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:33,360 And it's gonna get better and better the more she practises. 572 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:36,000 There's been good progress, 573 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:38,440 but it's time for the real judge - George. 574 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:40,240 Magic. Off you go, then. 575 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:43,440 Can Sarah manoeuvre his wheelchair and Doodle? 576 00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:46,400 That's it, well done. No. Take your time. 577 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:48,080 Good. Good. 578 00:26:48,120 --> 00:26:51,720 Now, he's protested once or twice, but he's not jumping. Good. 579 00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:55,160 Good. That's it. 580 00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,000 Well, I'm loving this. Good. 581 00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,280 That's it. Good. We'll let the gate go. Good. 582 00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:02,960 Waiting. And off you go. Phew! 583 00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,520 Good. Good. Good! 584 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:10,080 Well done. Good boy. 585 00:27:10,120 --> 00:27:13,920 Just hours ago, Doodle was a nervous gate-crasher... 586 00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:15,240 Cor, he's not happy. 587 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:19,280 ..but now he's a much calmer and happier pup. 588 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:22,040 That was good, wasn't it? So, that. Oh, yeah. 589 00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:23,880 Oh, yeah! What do you reckon? 590 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,720 Yeah, I'm really pleased, and relieved. Yeah. Good. 591 00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:29,240 Well, I think this will make all the difference, eh? 592 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:31,560 I think it will. I have every faith in you. 593 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:32,960 I didn't imagine 594 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,880 that we would be walking through the gate like that at the end. 595 00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:37,680 I really didn't. 596 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:39,880 It's gonna take a little bit of hard work, 597 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:42,240 a bit of patience, a bit of resilience. 598 00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:45,760 But if there's one person who I think has got that... 599 00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:47,360 it's Sarah. 600 00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:48,800 Good boy. 601 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:53,080 Oh, yeah. Good boy. Good boy. 602 00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:00,640 Graeme's next stop is Eastbourne, in Sussex, 603 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,040 where he's meeting up with some old friends. 604 00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,160 Today, I'm gonna meet a dog I've seen before - 605 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:06,920 Henry, Welsh terrier - 606 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:09,080 and his mum and dad, Ray and Tammy. 607 00:28:09,120 --> 00:28:12,080 Now, Henry had all sorts of problems in the house, really, 608 00:28:12,120 --> 00:28:15,280 that were affecting Ray's retirement. 609 00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:16,800 I hear what's happened now 610 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:20,080 is that they've moved here to Eastbourne, to the seaside. 611 00:28:20,120 --> 00:28:24,280 The thing about Eastbourne is it's famous for... 612 00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:26,080 how shall we say, 613 00:28:26,120 --> 00:28:30,440 having an elevated average age of the residents? 614 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:34,440 I feel very young here. 615 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:36,040 HENRY BARKS 616 00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:37,960 Three years ago, an even younger Graeme 617 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:42,840 was called in to try and bring some respite to Ray's retirement... 618 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:46,720 because a very hard-nosed Henry was raising hell. 619 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:49,000 God, he's loud, even from here. 620 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,240 HENRY CONTINUES BARKING 621 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:54,560 Hello, Graeme. Hello. How are you? Come in. Thank you. 622 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:56,240 Come in. Cor! 623 00:28:56,280 --> 00:29:00,400 There we go. All right. Henry. 624 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:04,040 Model aircraft enthusiast Ray, and his wife, Tammy, 625 00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:07,080 had Henry from a puppy three years ago. 626 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:10,600 Sit. Henry... sit. Sit, sit. 627 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:14,680 It was love at first sight. My heart just melted for him. 628 00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:18,480 He was meant to be the perfect additional companion 629 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:19,600 for retiree Ray. 630 00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:21,360 I wanted a dog for my retirement 631 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:24,680 so that I could go out for nice, long walks with him and stuff. 632 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:26,440 But forget it. 633 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,320 Henry. Come here. 634 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:30,200 DOORBELL RINGS Oh! 635 00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:32,160 HENRY BARKS 636 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:36,640 Ray can't go out on walks... because Henry won't let him leave. 637 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:41,600 If I simply stand up and walk towards the front door, 638 00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:43,560 he will go into meltdown. 639 00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:45,120 HENRY BARKS 640 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:48,360 Oh! Ooh! Well, you bit me then. Oh. 641 00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,640 HENRY BARKS 642 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:52,720 No, he's drawn blood on my leg. HENRY WHIMPERS 643 00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:55,880 His behaviour causes me immense stress. 644 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:57,120 HE SIGHS 645 00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:59,480 After a full day of harassment by Henry... 646 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,400 No, no, no. Get... No. 647 00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:06,640 ..wife Tammy bore the brunt of Ray's frustration. 648 00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:08,200 We're not going anywhere. 649 00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:10,240 HENRY BARKS Shh, shh! 650 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,600 I do come home to a grumpy husband. 651 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,120 Sit. No. 652 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,280 I've had a day from hell today with Henry. 653 00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:20,320 He tried to kill me cos I needed to answer the door. 654 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:24,560 HENRY BARKS INCESSANTLY Stop. 655 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:27,240 Ray messaged me at work one day 656 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:30,920 and stated that he had had it with the dog, 657 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:32,200 that he has to go. 658 00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:36,040 How are you supposed to live like this? Look at him. Look. 659 00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:38,640 I-I really am struggling with him, I really am. 660 00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:41,480 And now I'm-I'm... 661 00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:44,760 MUFFLED CHOKE 662 00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,240 I'm sorry about that. 663 00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:54,200 HE BLOWS NOSE He's ruining my life. 664 00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:01,920 Ray thought Henry's actions were downright deliberate... 665 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:05,760 He is trying to stop me from leaving his house. Right? Basically. 666 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:09,720 ..but Graeme was keen to see if Ray was doing anything to rev Henry up. 667 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,360 Can I see what happens? Right, well, 668 00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,120 anxiety is now kicking in 669 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:17,360 because he knows I'm gonna pick my keys up. Yeah. 670 00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:21,200 I've done nothing other than pick my keys up. 671 00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:22,440 Right. Yeah. 672 00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:25,400 HENRY BARKS Cor, it's loud, innit? 673 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:33,840 There's a couple of things I'm seeing Ray do wrong. 674 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,520 I think one is that he sort of pre-empts the problem. 675 00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,440 He knows it's about to happen, and then he's.... 676 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:41,560 You know, he gets himself in a bit of a state. 677 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:45,400 Graeme believed Henry fed off Ray's stress. 678 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:49,640 So, if he could stay calm, Henry would let him move freely. 679 00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:52,200 It all started with a simple command. 680 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:54,320 Henry. Sit. 681 00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:57,400 That's it. 682 00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:00,240 And... that'll do. Good boy. 683 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:02,560 So that's the very beginnings, yeah? Good boy. 684 00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:06,160 Take a step back. Split second, right. 685 00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:08,640 Good lad. Come back to him. Yeah. 686 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,160 Now come back to him, straightaway. Good boy. 687 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:15,680 That's it. Good boy. 688 00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:17,800 So, what he's starting to believe now is, 689 00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:19,480 "So if Dad moves away, 690 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:21,960 "he'll probably come back and give me a treat." 691 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,440 As long as Ray kept calm... 692 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:26,880 Very good boy. ..so did Henry. 693 00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:32,240 Very good. Very good boy. 694 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:34,920 Right, this time, let's see if we can stretch it to the front door. 695 00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:37,480 Touch the front door. Sit. 696 00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,200 Good boy. Good boy. 697 00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:56,920 Well, you walked out the door, er, come back in again. 698 00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,360 Henry's not barking. He's not rushing you. 699 00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,280 How's that feel? I don't feel tensed up any more. 700 00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,640 I don't feel stressed. Yeah. 701 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:08,440 You all right? Huh? 702 00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,920 Oh. What are you thinking, Ray? 703 00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,640 I'm thinking, "I just don't believe this is happening." 704 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:23,800 Coming up, Graeme might have won the fight on the home front... 705 00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,080 but he's back... HENRY BARKS 706 00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:29,600 Henry. ..for a brand-new battle on the sea front. 707 00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:32,600 He don't want it. It really, really stresses me out. 708 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:41,920 JOANNA SCANLAN: Graeme's in Sussex, 709 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:45,000 checking in on a couple he met three years ago. 710 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,120 I've done nothing, other than pick my keys up... 711 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,280 Back then, retiree Ray... 712 00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:51,280 I wanted a dog so that I could go out 713 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,320 for nice, long walks with him and stuff. 714 00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:57,280 ..struggled with Henry, a two-year-old Welsh terrier 715 00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:00,400 who kicked off when he left the house. Ooh! 716 00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:04,200 He's drawn blood on my leg. 717 00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:06,560 Graeme spotted the issue - 718 00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:08,960 Ray was revving him up. 719 00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:11,200 And with calm commands and rewards, 720 00:34:11,240 --> 00:34:13,240 Henry's harassment stopped. 721 00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:15,360 Henry... sit. 722 00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:18,560 Since then, Ray and Tammy have moved. 723 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:21,240 Graeme's been called to action in Eastbourne. 724 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:25,160 GRAEME: Da da-da-da da-da-da da-da da-da da. 725 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,040 This is the life. 726 00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:28,920 Henry, however... 727 00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:31,440 Got my work to do. 728 00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:35,320 ..does not like to be beside the seaside. 729 00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:37,520 HENRY BARKS FRANTICALLY 730 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:41,160 We have moved to Eastbourne, to obviously enjoy a seaside life. 731 00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:43,320 Sit, sit, sit. HENRY BARKS 732 00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:46,560 When the surf's up, so are Henry's hackles. 733 00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:48,640 The wave thing is quite annoying 734 00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:51,320 cos he can be really loud and be quite aggressive. 735 00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:53,280 Henry. What's this? 736 00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:55,680 And I can honestly say, hand on my heart, 737 00:34:55,720 --> 00:34:57,560 he really, really stresses me out. 738 00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:00,600 Henry certainly knows Salty Sea Dog. 739 00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:04,360 So it's up to Graeme to tackle these tidal tantrums. 740 00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:05,640 Morning. Good morning. 741 00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:07,200 Nice to see you again. Nice seeing you. 742 00:35:07,240 --> 00:35:09,000 All right? Good morning. Ray, hi. 743 00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:11,280 How are you doing? I'm very well. And Henry. 744 00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:15,160 Yes, you've seen Henry before. He's barking at the waves. 745 00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:17,840 Another problem to spoil your retirement, then? Yeah. Yeah. 746 00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,240 Yeah, it's not what you want when you come down to the beach 747 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:22,960 for a nice bit of relaxing, quiet time, is it? No. 748 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:24,960 It don't stop. 749 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:26,680 BARKING CONTINUES 750 00:35:26,720 --> 00:35:29,720 A dog that barks at waves. 751 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:31,080 I think that's a new one. 752 00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:33,920 I don't think you'll find it in any textbook. 753 00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:36,040 They can't come down to the beach because of Henry. 754 00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:38,000 The beach is the best bit of living here. 755 00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:40,080 And just like before, 756 00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:44,040 Henry's having a huge impact on their well-being. 757 00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,600 Ray comes back and he just tells me how stressed he gets. 758 00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,000 This sounds very familiar to me. It is. It is. 759 00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:51,600 We had this conversation last time. It was a different problem. 760 00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:53,040 It was a different problem. 761 00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:57,400 Ray thinks Henry's deliberately making waves to ruin his retirement, 762 00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,720 but Graeme suspects he's simply confused. 763 00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:03,840 With the waves, he doesn't quite understand 764 00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:05,880 what waves are, what they're about. No. Yeah. 765 00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:07,800 He just knows that they make a heck of a sound, 766 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,760 which I think is bothering him, and they're coming at him. 767 00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:12,720 I've contemplated getting in the water with him 768 00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:14,440 and going for a swim. RAY LAUGHS 769 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:16,040 I don't think that would work. 770 00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,200 HENRY BARKS Graeme believes 771 00:36:18,240 --> 00:36:21,360 Henry needs to understand that waves aren't a threat, 772 00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:25,760 and to do this, a calm command and a treat for doing nothing. 773 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:31,080 If he starts barking at the waves, we're gonna step in front of him. 774 00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:34,000 He might sidestep us. "Get out of the way!" 775 00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:36,400 If he does that, we'll sidestep him. 776 00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:38,400 Right, OK, like this. 777 00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:41,040 Ah! Stop! BARKING STOPS 778 00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:42,960 Then, when he calms down - good boy - 779 00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:45,680 and we can give him a treat just to underline it as well. 780 00:36:45,720 --> 00:36:50,400 So, we're actually rewarding the moment when he chooses to back down. 781 00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:54,800 By calmly blocking the barking and rewarding good behaviour, 782 00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:57,480 Graeme thinks Henry should get the message. 783 00:36:57,520 --> 00:37:01,600 I wanna see him kind of look and go, "Nah". 784 00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:06,680 Key to de-stressing Henry - keeping clear and calm. 785 00:37:06,720 --> 00:37:09,160 HENRY BARKS OK. Right, you know what to do. 786 00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:11,840 Henry... stop. 787 00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:13,840 Stop. Stop. 788 00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:16,240 BARKING CONTINUES Stop. 789 00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:19,240 Ray might be saying the right things, 790 00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:21,160 but he's still making waves. 791 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:23,480 A trait Graeme's seen in him before. 792 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:26,240 I know from experience with you, Ray, 793 00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:30,320 that sometimes, on the outside, you look as though, "I've got this", 794 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:33,640 but on the inside, you're actually getting a bit het up. 795 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:36,280 And I think he's picking up on that as well. 796 00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:38,240 And just like before, 797 00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:42,800 raised stress levels are only winding up his seaside sidekick. 798 00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,920 HENRY BARKS Henry, stop! Henry, stop! 799 00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:48,360 BARKING STOPS Well done. Good boy. Good boy. 800 00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:50,640 If Ray just stays calm... 801 00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:53,080 HENRY BARKS No. Henry, stop. 802 00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:55,640 ..and rewards Henry for following his lead... 803 00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:58,760 And a treat. That was the missing ingredient. 804 00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:00,400 HENRY BARKS ..he'll learn... 805 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,520 No. Henry, stop! BARKING STOPS 806 00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:06,000 ..waves should be watched... Good boy. ..not woofed at. 807 00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:07,800 Tickles. Good boy. 808 00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:12,120 And it seems to have worked. It's good, innit? 809 00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:15,360 This is the first time I've ever seen him sat here, like this, 810 00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:18,120 just looking at the waves. Already... 811 00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:19,640 this is a different dog again. 812 00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:22,400 I think we're doing all right. He's-He's pretty calm. 813 00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:25,600 You're pretty calm. We're all pretty calm. 814 00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:27,840 Let's move a little bit nearer to the edge. 815 00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:29,360 That's it. 816 00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:31,040 Henry. Henry. Henry. 817 00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:33,680 As they move closer to the sea... Good boy. 818 00:38:33,720 --> 00:38:35,760 HENRY BARKS 819 00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:38,040 Henry. Stop! 820 00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:40,240 HENRY GROANS And again. Stop! 821 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:43,720 ..it only takes Ray's command to calm Henry. 822 00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:46,440 See, when you calmly take control like that, he kind of goes, 823 00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:48,960 "All right, boss." He's still having the odd moment, 824 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,640 I think it's fair to say, but we're nearly there. 825 00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:55,280 Now Ray knows how to calm Henry, time for a test. 826 00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:56,720 Now, the whole point of this is 827 00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:58,880 that you can go for a walk along the beach, of course. 828 00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:00,760 So what I'd like you to do now is, 829 00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,360 why don't you go for a walk along towards the pier? 830 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:07,680 If he does kick off... stop... Yeah. ..get him back under control. 831 00:39:07,720 --> 00:39:09,440 Walk again. All right? Yeah. 832 00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:12,480 Graeme's dropping Henry in at the deep end. 833 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:15,840 As the waves are crashing against the pier, 834 00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:17,120 the closer they get, 835 00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:20,680 the louder and more intense they'll become. 836 00:39:20,720 --> 00:39:22,360 Yay! 837 00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:23,640 So he's quite alert. 838 00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:26,520 Well, his little tail's up. 839 00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:32,120 He's doing a lot better. Yeah, he is. Good boy. 840 00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:36,400 Well, lovely. That's a picture, innit? 841 00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:38,560 'Ey? A couple walking the dog on the beach. 842 00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:40,000 Wow. 843 00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:43,600 They've gone all the way to the pier and he hasn't barked once. 844 00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:47,160 Good boy. Good boy. Good boy. 845 00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:48,640 Good boy. Good boy. 846 00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,240 Just a couple of hours ago, 847 00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:56,200 Henry did not like to be beside the seaside. 848 00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:01,800 But now, with a little ray of sunshine, 849 00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:03,600 it's smooth sailing. 850 00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:06,400 How did that feel? Sound. Yeah, it was great. 851 00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:09,840 I know it was only a short distance, but, erm, things are looking up. 852 00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:12,120 Yeah. It's a short distance you couldn't have done 853 00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:13,440 a couple of hours ago. No, no, no. 854 00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:15,160 Very pleased with that. Very pleased. 855 00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:18,360 He's taught me what he taught me last time - 856 00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:20,360 that it's not the dog that's the problem, it's me. 857 00:40:22,240 --> 00:40:24,720 We really, really appreciate what Graeme's done for us, 858 00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:27,480 because... I would never in a million years 859 00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:30,040 believe that I could stand by the water's edge... 860 00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:32,720 with Henry not kicking off the way he does. 861 00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:34,880 Right. Thank you. Thank you very much. 862 00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:36,520 Thank you. Bye-bye. Bye-bye. 863 00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,640 From a dog who was reacting to the sound of waves, 864 00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:42,280 let alone the sight of them, 865 00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:45,520 to actually being... just walking along nicely. 866 00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:49,000 And watching Ray and Tammy just enjoy the beach, 867 00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,560 going for a walk along the shoreline, is great. 868 00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:54,920 Priceless, really. So I'm really pleased that's gone well. 869 00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:02,360 In Yorkshire... 870 00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:05,840 although Graeme had an unexpected victory on the day... 871 00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:08,840 And now she's looked away. I'm still in shock. 872 00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:10,440 THEY LAUGH 873 00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:13,880 ..after moving to a new house, relations once again untangled 874 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:15,520 between cockapoo, Jasper, 875 00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:17,560 and St Bernards, Brodie and Rosie... 876 00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:20,000 I'll let you go up first. Upstairs. 877 00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:23,000 ..and Graeme was called in on a new peacekeeping mission. 878 00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:25,080 When did all this start to go wrong, then? 879 00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:27,480 When we moved in, it was a bit chaotic, 880 00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:30,760 so we immediately separated them. Right. Ah. 881 00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:32,680 Understanding, mistake. 882 00:41:32,720 --> 00:41:35,080 By removing any aggression from the room... 883 00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:36,520 Yeah, go on. Sin bin. 884 00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:39,520 ..Graeme got the warring parties to share the same space. 885 00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:41,760 This in itself is a small victory, innit? 886 00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:44,240 It is. I know we can crack this. 887 00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:48,840 But as tensions flared... Oh. ..he was forced to call time. 888 00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:51,920 Is this problem fixed? No, it isn't. 889 00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:54,600 Are we on the right track? I believe we are. 890 00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:57,400 And I think Mark and Joanna, they know what to do, 891 00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:00,600 they understand how to get to where they need. 892 00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:01,760 Thank you so much. 893 00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,160 It takes time when you've got two dogs fighting. 894 00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:08,720 In Buckinghamshire, Sarah continues gate training with Doodle. 895 00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:10,200 LATCH CLANKS 896 00:42:10,240 --> 00:42:12,080 I am much more calm, 897 00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:15,880 and I've got a bit of a better idea of how to approach them, 898 00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:19,320 but it is still very much a work in progress. 899 00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:23,800 And in Eastbourne... I just can't do what Graeme does. 900 00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:26,320 Graeme is just a magician. 901 00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:29,320 Graeme's efforts were fantastic on the day, 902 00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:33,520 but this dog has got serious problems. 903 00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:36,000 I just can't control this dog. 904 00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:37,440 No! If you think 905 00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:40,400 your badly behaved dog could do with Graeme's help, 906 00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:42,160 then why not get in touch? 907 00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:43,720 Details can be found at...