1 00:00:08,138 --> 00:00:10,140 Our lives are filled with distractions. 2 00:00:10,227 --> 00:00:12,229 Email, Twitter, texting. 3 00:00:12,316 --> 00:00:14,840 We're constantly connected to technology, 4 00:00:14,927 --> 00:00:17,234 rarely alone with just our thoughts. 5 00:00:17,321 --> 00:00:19,888 Which is probably why there's a growing movement in America 6 00:00:19,975 --> 00:00:23,675 to train people to get around the stresses of daily life. 7 00:00:23,762 --> 00:00:25,938 It's a practice called mindfulness. 8 00:00:28,897 --> 00:00:31,161 I believe that the entry point 9 00:00:31,248 --> 00:00:36,209 for living a more conscious life is mindfulness. 10 00:00:41,823 --> 00:00:43,173 I would urge you all 11 00:00:43,260 --> 00:00:45,871 to start practicing mindfulness right away. 12 00:00:45,958 --> 00:00:48,047 What is your favorite thing about racing? 13 00:00:48,134 --> 00:00:49,527 I think the mindfulness of it 14 00:00:49,614 --> 00:00:51,790 is what I really enjoy the most 15 00:00:51,877 --> 00:00:54,749 because you really have to be focused on the here 16 00:00:54,836 --> 00:00:55,837 and the now. 17 00:01:01,626 --> 00:01:03,758 When this year's top buzzwords are compiled, 18 00:01:03,845 --> 00:01:06,848 mindfulness will surely be close to the top of the list. 19 00:01:06,935 --> 00:01:08,720 So Angie, in the video you talked a little bit 20 00:01:08,807 --> 00:01:10,200 about mindfulness, so could you tell us a little bit more 21 00:01:10,287 --> 00:01:12,158 about what it is and how it works? 22 00:01:12,245 --> 00:01:13,899 And what we're talking about 23 00:01:13,986 --> 00:01:16,206 is called mindfulness meditation and people who do it 24 00:01:16,293 --> 00:01:19,687 believe that it makes their brains healthier and fitter. 25 00:01:41,100 --> 00:01:42,580 I grew up in Alaska. 26 00:01:42,667 --> 00:01:44,234 My mom left when I was eight 27 00:01:44,321 --> 00:01:46,105 and my dad took over raising my brothers and I. 28 00:01:46,192 --> 00:01:48,934 We moved to the homestead where my dad had been raised. 29 00:01:49,021 --> 00:01:52,067 He was raised in an abusive household and went to Vietnam. 30 00:01:52,155 --> 00:01:53,852 Picked up some more trauma. 31 00:01:53,939 --> 00:01:57,247 He began drinking to try and medicate his anxiety 32 00:01:57,334 --> 00:01:59,597 and it didn't go well for him. 33 00:01:59,684 --> 00:02:02,165 He became abusive and I ended up moving out at 15. 34 00:02:03,296 --> 00:02:05,168 I knew when I moved out at 15 35 00:02:05,255 --> 00:02:08,171 that statistically I should end up repeating the cycle. 36 00:02:08,258 --> 00:02:09,998 As much as we get a genetic inheritance, 37 00:02:10,085 --> 00:02:12,175 we get an emotional inheritance. 38 00:02:12,262 --> 00:02:15,047 If you look at my family's emotional inheritance, 39 00:02:15,134 --> 00:02:19,965 it leads to substance abuse or alcoholism or physical abuse. 40 00:02:20,052 --> 00:02:21,619 I didn't want that to be me. 41 00:02:21,706 --> 00:02:22,968 I wanted to avoid being a statistic. 42 00:02:24,143 --> 00:02:25,623 After I graduated high school, 43 00:02:25,710 --> 00:02:27,799 I ended up in San Diego where my mom was. 44 00:02:27,886 --> 00:02:30,018 I went to take care of her. 45 00:02:30,105 --> 00:02:32,630 I was working in a computer warehouse. 46 00:02:32,717 --> 00:02:34,066 My boss took me aside to have a talk with me 47 00:02:34,153 --> 00:02:36,764 and I realized he was propositioning me 48 00:02:36,851 --> 00:02:38,201 and I turned him down. 49 00:02:38,288 --> 00:02:39,289 When I wouldn't have sex with him, 50 00:02:39,376 --> 00:02:40,812 he wouldn't give me my paycheck. 51 00:02:40,899 --> 00:02:42,640 I wasn't able to make rent 52 00:02:42,727 --> 00:02:44,207 and so my mom and I began living in our cars. 53 00:02:45,295 --> 00:02:46,861 My car ended up getting stolen 54 00:02:46,948 --> 00:02:49,777 and I ended up being homeless for a year. 55 00:02:49,864 --> 00:02:51,953 I was having panic attacks and stealing. 56 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:53,041 I wasn't doing well. 57 00:02:55,435 --> 00:02:57,263 Somewhere between the age of 15, 58 00:02:57,350 --> 00:03:00,310 when I said I would never be a statistic, to 18, 59 00:03:00,397 --> 00:03:02,355 three short years later, I was a statistic, 60 00:03:02,442 --> 00:03:05,097 I was homeless and gonna end up in jail or dead. 61 00:03:05,184 --> 00:03:07,186 I quit believing in myself. 62 00:03:07,273 --> 00:03:11,146 So I had to get very, very serious about my thoughts. 63 00:03:18,763 --> 00:03:20,678 Two-three-four, what is your position? 64 00:03:20,765 --> 00:03:22,245 Be aware of two IEDs 65 00:03:23,333 --> 00:03:25,378 near a house on the main road. 66 00:03:25,465 --> 00:03:27,859 The combat mission may technically be over, 67 00:03:27,946 --> 00:03:30,427 but for anyone who thinks the danger is over, 68 00:03:30,514 --> 00:03:34,822 consider that there have been 560 IED explosions in Iraq 69 00:03:34,909 --> 00:03:36,694 in just the past month. 70 00:03:36,781 --> 00:03:41,046 I had spent a lot of time after 9/11 in war zones. 71 00:03:41,133 --> 00:03:45,050 Afghanistan, Pakistan, Israel, the West Bank, Gaza, Iraq. 72 00:03:45,137 --> 00:03:46,269 Many times in Iraq. 73 00:03:46,356 --> 00:03:49,707 Do you feel like the war is over? 74 00:03:51,535 --> 00:03:53,928 We're combat troops, we're still here, 75 00:03:54,015 --> 00:03:55,321 we've still got a job to do. 76 00:03:57,149 --> 00:03:59,151 I had come home and gotten depressed. 77 00:04:00,457 --> 00:04:02,285 I was insufficiently self-aware to even know 78 00:04:02,372 --> 00:04:04,722 that I was depressed and I made the very dumb decision 79 00:04:04,809 --> 00:04:07,159 to self-medicate with recreational drugs 80 00:04:07,246 --> 00:04:09,030 including cocaine, ecstasy. 81 00:04:09,117 --> 00:04:10,728 Even though I hadn't been doing drugs every day 82 00:04:10,815 --> 00:04:12,556 or anything like that, 83 00:04:12,643 --> 00:04:15,167 it was enough to artificially raise the level of adrenaline 84 00:04:15,254 --> 00:04:17,387 in my brain to change my brain chemistry 85 00:04:17,474 --> 00:04:20,520 and made it much more likely for me to have a panic attack. 86 00:04:27,527 --> 00:04:30,269 Now one of the world's most commonly prescribed medications 87 00:04:30,356 --> 00:04:32,140 may be providing a big bonus. 88 00:04:32,227 --> 00:04:33,925 Researchers report people 89 00:04:34,012 --> 00:04:36,101 who take cholesterol lowering drugs called statins 90 00:04:36,188 --> 00:04:37,494 for at least five years 91 00:04:37,581 --> 00:04:39,757 may also lower their risk for cancer. 92 00:04:39,844 --> 00:04:42,760 When I was anchoring the news updates 93 00:04:42,847 --> 00:04:44,457 on Good Morning America, 94 00:04:44,544 --> 00:04:47,068 that's the person who comes on at the top of the hour 95 00:04:47,155 --> 00:04:48,461 and delivers the headlines, 96 00:04:48,548 --> 00:04:52,422 and just a few seconds into my spiel 97 00:04:52,509 --> 00:04:54,032 I just lost it. 98 00:04:54,119 --> 00:04:56,426 But it's too early to prescribe statins slowly 99 00:04:56,513 --> 00:04:58,123 for cancer production. 100 00:04:58,210 --> 00:05:00,430 My heart was racing, my lungs seized up, 101 00:05:00,517 --> 00:05:02,432 my palms were sweating, my mind was racing. 102 00:05:02,519 --> 00:05:05,435 I actually just couldn't breathe, I couldn't speak anymore. 103 00:05:05,522 --> 00:05:07,001 So I had to quit right in the middle 104 00:05:07,088 --> 00:05:09,439 and that was really embarrassing. 105 00:05:09,526 --> 00:05:11,049 That does it for news. 106 00:05:11,136 --> 00:05:12,442 We're gonna go back now to Robin and Charlie. 107 00:05:12,529 --> 00:05:14,139 The backstory was even more embarrassing 108 00:05:14,226 --> 00:05:16,315 because when I went to see a doctor about it 109 00:05:16,402 --> 00:05:18,230 he asked me a bunch of questions. 110 00:05:18,317 --> 00:05:20,537 One of the questions was, "Do you do drugs?" 111 00:05:20,624 --> 00:05:22,582 And I said, "Yeah, I do." 112 00:05:24,454 --> 00:05:25,977 And he leaned back in the chair and gave me this look 113 00:05:26,064 --> 00:05:28,196 that communicated the following sentiment: 114 00:05:28,283 --> 00:05:30,851 "Okay asshole, mystery solved." 115 00:05:45,083 --> 00:05:46,867 I loved to run. 116 00:05:46,954 --> 00:05:48,434 Whether it was cross country, playing basketball, jumping, 117 00:05:48,521 --> 00:05:51,045 and just be engaged physically. 118 00:05:51,132 --> 00:05:52,873 There's something magical about that. 119 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:55,398 There's something magical while being in flow 120 00:05:55,485 --> 00:05:57,138 where things are just happening 121 00:05:57,225 --> 00:05:59,184 and it's like you're not there 122 00:05:59,271 --> 00:06:02,405 but you're right in it, you are it. 123 00:06:04,015 --> 00:06:06,496 So when I was in college I was actually rooming 124 00:06:06,583 --> 00:06:11,501 with Dr. J at the time, Julius Erving, back at UMass. 125 00:06:11,588 --> 00:06:14,504 It was preseason, just playing with the team, 126 00:06:14,591 --> 00:06:16,506 and I got injured. 127 00:06:16,593 --> 00:06:20,597 I had an ankle injury and it pretty much ended my career. 128 00:06:20,684 --> 00:06:22,207 I didn't really know who I was 129 00:06:22,294 --> 00:06:23,861 if I wasn't playing basketball 130 00:06:23,948 --> 00:06:25,515 because I was one of these quiet types 131 00:06:25,602 --> 00:06:28,213 that let my game do my talking for me. 132 00:06:28,300 --> 00:06:31,259 Being an athlete all my life and loving to run 133 00:06:31,346 --> 00:06:34,045 and loving to compete and having the camaraderie 134 00:06:34,132 --> 00:06:38,876 of being with a group of people that had a common purpose, 135 00:06:38,963 --> 00:06:40,921 that was very challenging for me 136 00:06:41,008 --> 00:06:42,532 to get away from all of that. 137 00:06:42,619 --> 00:06:46,100 And that's when I started the pain medicine. 138 00:06:46,187 --> 00:06:47,537 I started abusing that 139 00:06:47,624 --> 00:06:50,365 and then getting into drugs and alcohol. 140 00:07:09,167 --> 00:07:10,908 My parents split up when I was four. 141 00:07:10,995 --> 00:07:12,997 My mother died when I was nine. 142 00:07:13,084 --> 00:07:15,347 I lived with my father's parents after that, 143 00:07:15,434 --> 00:07:17,044 whom I hardly knew. 144 00:07:17,131 --> 00:07:18,916 My father came back briefly. 145 00:07:19,003 --> 00:07:22,920 I hadn't seen him since I was four and by now I'm like 11 146 00:07:23,007 --> 00:07:25,575 and he was like a different person. 147 00:07:25,662 --> 00:07:27,446 Took an overdose of sleeping pills. 148 00:07:27,533 --> 00:07:30,928 He didn't die but he spent the rest of his life 149 00:07:31,015 --> 00:07:33,670 in some mental health facility or another. 150 00:07:33,757 --> 00:07:36,324 I'd lived in five different family configurations 151 00:07:36,411 --> 00:07:39,023 and every one of them had been switched 152 00:07:39,110 --> 00:07:42,026 because of trauma or loss or something like that. 153 00:07:42,113 --> 00:07:45,638 And so I was terribly unhappy and afraid and angry 154 00:07:45,725 --> 00:07:48,380 but I didn't quite know what was going on within me 155 00:07:48,467 --> 00:07:50,513 I just knew it didn't feel really good. 156 00:08:09,575 --> 00:08:12,360 The pace of life seems to be accelerating. 157 00:08:14,101 --> 00:08:16,103 We've got a major accident H-1 east side. 158 00:08:16,190 --> 00:08:18,192 It's actually the most polluted city in America. 159 00:08:26,070 --> 00:08:28,376 We're more connected to information 160 00:08:28,463 --> 00:08:31,075 but less connected to each other. 161 00:08:38,125 --> 00:08:41,085 In these increasingly uncertain times, 162 00:08:41,172 --> 00:08:43,174 a growing number of people have discovered 163 00:08:43,261 --> 00:08:45,655 a surprisingly effective antidote. 164 00:08:49,093 --> 00:08:50,094 Mindfulness. 165 00:09:03,803 --> 00:09:06,240 Mindfulness comes in two forms. 166 00:09:06,327 --> 00:09:09,287 One is a specific type of meditation, 167 00:09:09,374 --> 00:09:11,115 mindfulness meditation. 168 00:09:12,769 --> 00:09:15,162 Every time you put your mind on your breath 169 00:09:15,249 --> 00:09:17,295 and then it wanders, that's what the mind does, 170 00:09:17,382 --> 00:09:20,690 and you notice it wander and then you bring it back, 171 00:09:20,777 --> 00:09:23,388 you're strengthening the neural circuitry 172 00:09:23,475 --> 00:09:25,042 for paying attention. 173 00:09:25,129 --> 00:09:27,653 This is quite a parallel with going to the gym 174 00:09:27,740 --> 00:09:29,568 and lifting weights. 175 00:09:29,655 --> 00:09:32,223 Every time you lift that weight, every repetition, 176 00:09:32,310 --> 00:09:35,052 strengthens that muscle just a little bit more. 177 00:09:35,139 --> 00:09:36,706 Among novice practitioners, 178 00:09:36,793 --> 00:09:39,491 we saw changes in the brain 179 00:09:39,578 --> 00:09:41,580 after just two weeks of practice. 180 00:09:41,667 --> 00:09:44,757 This was a kind of proof of concept study 181 00:09:46,585 --> 00:09:50,154 that underscored how quickly these changes can arise. 182 00:09:51,677 --> 00:09:53,244 Strengthening that mental muscle 183 00:09:53,331 --> 00:09:54,724 builds an ongoing quality of attention 184 00:09:54,811 --> 00:09:57,248 simply known as mindfulness. 185 00:09:59,206 --> 00:10:02,209 The way I define mindfulness is paying attention 186 00:10:02,296 --> 00:10:05,473 to our present moment experiences with openness 187 00:10:05,560 --> 00:10:09,260 and curiosity and a willingness to be with what is. 188 00:10:09,347 --> 00:10:10,435 So it's a quality of attention 189 00:10:10,522 --> 00:10:12,350 that we can have at any moment 190 00:10:12,437 --> 00:10:15,353 whether we're walking down the street or talking to a friend 191 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:17,268 or eating or brushing our teeth. 192 00:10:17,355 --> 00:10:21,359 We can bring that quality of awareness to our experience. 193 00:10:25,885 --> 00:10:28,583 We just start making better decisions for ourselves. 194 00:10:28,671 --> 00:10:31,195 In other words, we start taking better care of ourselves, 195 00:10:31,282 --> 00:10:32,675 we feel better about ourselves, 196 00:10:32,762 --> 00:10:35,155 we generally feel better about other people. 197 00:10:35,242 --> 00:10:37,767 We just become more relational, more empathic. 198 00:10:37,854 --> 00:10:39,899 So I think that's all good. 199 00:10:42,293 --> 00:10:44,512 When you're aware of a sensory experience 200 00:10:44,599 --> 00:10:48,125 while you're having it without the compulsive activity 201 00:10:48,212 --> 00:10:50,388 of the mind to define it 202 00:10:51,737 --> 00:10:53,478 is a very wonderful state to be in 203 00:10:53,565 --> 00:10:55,654 because it's a state of peace. 204 00:11:01,791 --> 00:11:04,532 And it offers us degrees of freedoms so that 205 00:11:04,619 --> 00:11:07,797 we can navigate the inevitable ups and downs of life. 206 00:11:07,884 --> 00:11:09,494 There's no moment 207 00:11:09,581 --> 00:11:11,539 that's not a wonderful moment for mindfulness. 208 00:11:14,891 --> 00:11:17,807 I'm a big believer in the growth of mindfulness, 209 00:11:17,894 --> 00:11:19,983 that mindfulness can change the world. 210 00:11:38,523 --> 00:11:40,481 Some people still associate meditation 211 00:11:40,568 --> 00:11:42,745 and mindfulness with the 1960s, 212 00:11:44,616 --> 00:11:47,271 during the rise of hippie culture and an influx of yogis 213 00:11:47,358 --> 00:11:48,751 and gurus from the East. 214 00:11:50,622 --> 00:11:53,756 But in the 1970s a small number of young scientists 215 00:11:53,843 --> 00:11:56,541 and other seekers began to explore different types 216 00:11:56,628 --> 00:11:58,935 of meditation in a more analytical way. 217 00:12:04,810 --> 00:12:07,770 As I was studying to become a scientist 218 00:12:07,857 --> 00:12:10,511 at MIT in molecular biology, 219 00:12:10,598 --> 00:12:13,384 it also was very important to me to try to bring 220 00:12:13,471 --> 00:12:15,952 that other stream of my own meditation practice 221 00:12:16,039 --> 00:12:17,910 together with what I was understanding 222 00:12:17,997 --> 00:12:20,347 about science and the universe. 223 00:12:21,784 --> 00:12:26,571 I did have an experience back in the late '70s 224 00:12:26,658 --> 00:12:28,878 of being on a two-week meditation retreat 225 00:12:28,965 --> 00:12:30,880 at the Insight Meditation Center. 226 00:12:32,446 --> 00:12:34,840 One day at about the 10th day of this retreat 227 00:12:34,927 --> 00:12:37,800 sitting alone in my room meditating 228 00:12:39,802 --> 00:12:44,807 I had a vision of what might be possible 229 00:12:46,504 --> 00:12:48,593 that had to do with bringing what I was learning 230 00:12:48,680 --> 00:12:50,856 and practicing at this retreat center 231 00:12:50,943 --> 00:12:53,772 which was a very Buddhist place 232 00:12:53,859 --> 00:12:55,905 into the mainstream of the world. 233 00:12:57,689 --> 00:12:59,386 Since I happened to be already working in a laboratory 234 00:12:59,473 --> 00:13:02,259 at the University of Massachusetts Medical School, 235 00:13:02,346 --> 00:13:04,348 I thought what a perfect place to do it, 236 00:13:04,435 --> 00:13:05,828 bring it into a hospital. 237 00:13:07,655 --> 00:13:10,267 Nobody wants to go there unless they are really suffering 238 00:13:10,354 --> 00:13:13,531 beyond a certain point where they can't deny it anymore. 239 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:17,752 I started to seek out physicians, 240 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:20,843 asking, "What percentage of your patients 241 00:13:20,930 --> 00:13:23,584 "do you feel you actually help?" 242 00:13:23,671 --> 00:13:25,935 And I was astonished by the answers that they would say. 243 00:13:26,022 --> 00:13:28,720 "Well maybe 10%, maybe 15%." 244 00:13:28,807 --> 00:13:30,809 I was like, my God. 245 00:13:30,896 --> 00:13:32,811 What happens to the rest? 246 00:13:34,857 --> 00:13:37,772 They said, "Well, they either get better on their own, 247 00:13:39,557 --> 00:13:41,646 "but for the most part, they just never get better." 248 00:13:43,039 --> 00:13:44,475 Jon found a few doctors 249 00:13:44,562 --> 00:13:46,651 willing to refer their chronic patients 250 00:13:46,738 --> 00:13:49,523 and the Stress Reduction Clinic was born. 251 00:13:51,482 --> 00:13:53,484 I would say, "Listen, from our point of view, 252 00:13:53,571 --> 00:13:55,051 "as long as you're breathing, 253 00:13:55,138 --> 00:13:56,835 "there's more right with you than wrong with you. 254 00:13:56,922 --> 00:13:59,969 "What we're gonna do is pour energy and attention 255 00:14:00,056 --> 00:14:03,015 "into your experience in the form of mindfulness, 256 00:14:03,102 --> 00:14:04,582 "in the form of wakefulness, 257 00:14:04,669 --> 00:14:07,933 "in the form of present-moment awareness 258 00:14:08,020 --> 00:14:10,762 "and see what happens over the course of eight weeks." 259 00:14:12,155 --> 00:14:14,070 You could see people transform. 260 00:14:14,157 --> 00:14:15,723 The doctors would say, they'd say, 261 00:14:15,810 --> 00:14:17,769 "I don't know what you did with Mrs. So-and-So 262 00:14:17,856 --> 00:14:20,380 "but you were able to help her more in eight weeks 263 00:14:20,467 --> 00:14:22,078 "than I've been able to help her in eight years." 264 00:14:22,165 --> 00:14:23,993 And I would just smile and say, 265 00:14:24,080 --> 00:14:27,518 "Well actually I didn't do anything, she did it herself." 266 00:14:28,911 --> 00:14:30,434 Jon called his eight-week course 267 00:14:30,521 --> 00:14:34,699 Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction, or MBSR. 268 00:14:37,006 --> 00:14:41,662 Four decades later MBSR courses are now offered in thousands 269 00:14:41,749 --> 00:14:45,362 of hospitals and other facilities around the world. 270 00:14:45,449 --> 00:14:48,495 Hundreds of thousands of lives have been transformed. 271 00:14:50,149 --> 00:14:52,499 We want you to meditate in the way 272 00:14:52,586 --> 00:14:53,936 that is a love affair for you. 273 00:14:55,067 --> 00:14:56,851 Because it's just not like, 274 00:14:56,939 --> 00:14:59,028 "Oh God, I promised I'd wake up for the next 50 years 275 00:14:59,115 --> 00:15:01,856 "early in the morning and meditate my ass off 276 00:15:01,944 --> 00:15:03,467 "before I go to work." 277 00:15:03,554 --> 00:15:04,729 It took me a long time to realize 278 00:15:04,816 --> 00:15:06,644 this is actually a love affair. 279 00:15:08,037 --> 00:15:11,431 Just taking my seat has gotta be a love affair 280 00:15:11,518 --> 00:15:14,913 with the actuality of things as they are, 281 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:17,611 not as we, or I, would want them to be. 282 00:15:19,178 --> 00:15:21,572 It's absolutely essential that it is understood 283 00:15:21,659 --> 00:15:26,403 that mindfulness is intrinsically an ethical practice. 284 00:15:26,490 --> 00:15:28,753 How would you even know if you're doing harm 285 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:31,538 unless you're aware, unless you're awake, 286 00:15:31,625 --> 00:15:34,933 unless you're mindful of your impulses to control. 287 00:15:35,020 --> 00:15:38,632 You're engaging in the meditation practice for the sake of, 288 00:15:38,719 --> 00:15:39,938 as they say, all beings. 289 00:15:45,030 --> 00:15:47,076 The retreat center where Jon had his epiphany 290 00:15:47,163 --> 00:15:49,948 for how to bring mindfulness into the mainstream 291 00:15:50,035 --> 00:15:52,081 was co-founded by the woman who grew up 292 00:15:52,168 --> 00:15:54,997 as a depressed, angry girl in Buffalo. 293 00:16:00,132 --> 00:16:02,091 When I was a sophomore in college, 294 00:16:02,178 --> 00:16:04,441 I took an Asian philosophy course. 295 00:16:04,528 --> 00:16:08,184 I had a philosophy requirement and I just chose that one 296 00:16:08,271 --> 00:16:10,099 because it was convenient to my schedule. 297 00:16:10,186 --> 00:16:12,797 And of course the course completely changed my life. 298 00:16:12,884 --> 00:16:15,017 It was in the context of the course 299 00:16:15,104 --> 00:16:18,803 I heard about the prospect of meditation practice. 300 00:16:18,890 --> 00:16:22,502 I heard there were actual practical tools you could use 301 00:16:22,589 --> 00:16:23,982 that could change your mind, 302 00:16:24,069 --> 00:16:25,853 that could make you a lot happier, 303 00:16:25,940 --> 00:16:28,117 and it was a question of finding them 304 00:16:28,204 --> 00:16:30,075 and actually practicing them. 305 00:16:30,162 --> 00:16:32,773 The school had an independent study program. 306 00:16:32,860 --> 00:16:34,297 I created a project, I said, 307 00:16:34,384 --> 00:16:36,560 "I wanna go to India and study meditation." 308 00:16:36,647 --> 00:16:38,605 And they approved it so off I went. 309 00:16:40,216 --> 00:16:42,174 I began my meditation practice in January of 1971. 310 00:16:49,312 --> 00:16:52,967 The first night of the retreat was difficult. 311 00:16:53,055 --> 00:16:56,536 I couldn't focus and I was very young, I was 18, 312 00:16:56,623 --> 00:16:59,844 and I was very distraught and fragmented. 313 00:16:59,931 --> 00:17:02,151 I had been through a lot in my life. 314 00:17:02,238 --> 00:17:04,588 I was also extremely judgmental. 315 00:17:06,329 --> 00:17:09,854 I'm somewhat famous for once having marched up to Goenka, 316 00:17:09,941 --> 00:17:12,639 my first teacher, and looking him in the eye and saying, 317 00:17:12,726 --> 00:17:14,032 "I never used to be an angry person 318 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:15,860 "before I started meditating." 319 00:17:15,947 --> 00:17:18,036 Thereby laying blame exactly where I felt it belonged 320 00:17:18,123 --> 00:17:19,907 which was on him, of course. 321 00:17:19,994 --> 00:17:23,128 And I'd been hugely angry but I didn't quite know it. 322 00:17:23,215 --> 00:17:25,783 There was sort of two parallel processes. 323 00:17:25,870 --> 00:17:27,263 One was discovery. 324 00:17:27,350 --> 00:17:28,960 What am I feeling? 325 00:17:29,047 --> 00:17:30,179 What is the truth of my experience? 326 00:17:30,266 --> 00:17:32,877 Layer, under layer, under layer. 327 00:17:32,964 --> 00:17:35,836 And the other part was being kind to myself 328 00:17:35,923 --> 00:17:38,926 and compassionate to myself rather than so judgmental. 329 00:17:39,013 --> 00:17:42,539 In that discovery, and it was only after that, I think, 330 00:17:42,626 --> 00:17:47,631 that the whole emphasis on kindness toward oneself broadened 331 00:17:49,023 --> 00:17:52,723 and became a real effort to understand the nature 332 00:17:52,810 --> 00:17:56,944 of kindness and the power of kindness toward others as well. 333 00:17:57,031 --> 00:18:01,210 It still remains the pivotal turning point of my life. 334 00:18:01,297 --> 00:18:03,560 When Sharon returned to America, 335 00:18:03,647 --> 00:18:06,693 she taught one to two week retreats with Joseph Goldstein, 336 00:18:06,780 --> 00:18:09,305 who she'd met in India, and Jack Kornfield. 337 00:18:11,829 --> 00:18:14,310 Some combination of us would go 338 00:18:14,397 --> 00:18:18,052 and teach the retreat and then it would end 339 00:18:18,140 --> 00:18:20,925 and we never knew if there'd be another retreat 340 00:18:21,012 --> 00:18:24,842 and so we were sleeping on people's couches. 341 00:18:24,929 --> 00:18:27,105 Eventually Sharon, Joseph, and Jack 342 00:18:27,192 --> 00:18:29,238 found a former Catholic seminary building 343 00:18:29,325 --> 00:18:31,153 in Barre, Massachusetts, 344 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:33,981 and scraped together money through fundraising and loans 345 00:18:34,068 --> 00:18:37,028 to create the Insight Meditation Society, 346 00:18:37,115 --> 00:18:39,596 America's first permanent retreat center 347 00:18:39,683 --> 00:18:41,032 started by Westerners. 348 00:18:43,339 --> 00:18:46,211 We moved in Valentine's Day 1976. 349 00:18:46,298 --> 00:18:49,606 Up above the doorway, when we first looked at the building, 350 00:18:49,693 --> 00:18:51,608 it said Fathers of the Blessed Sacrament, 351 00:18:51,695 --> 00:18:53,740 and when we moved in we asked someone 352 00:18:53,827 --> 00:18:55,960 to get up on a very tall ladder on a very cold day, 353 00:18:56,047 --> 00:18:57,396 and we said, 354 00:18:57,483 --> 00:18:59,050 "Could you please rearrange those letters 355 00:18:59,137 --> 00:19:01,270 so it says something about us?" 356 00:19:01,357 --> 00:19:03,097 He came up with Metta, M-E-T-T-A, 357 00:19:03,185 --> 00:19:07,058 which means loving kindness or friendship or love. 358 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:17,808 When I was a graduate student at Harvard, 359 00:19:17,895 --> 00:19:22,116 I got a traveling fellowship to go to India. 360 00:19:22,204 --> 00:19:24,815 It's quite an interesting accident of history 361 00:19:24,902 --> 00:19:27,296 that the people I bumped into by accident 362 00:19:27,383 --> 00:19:30,168 have now become really the leaders 363 00:19:30,255 --> 00:19:32,170 of the mindfulness movement in America. 364 00:19:32,257 --> 00:19:37,219 Like Jack Kornfield and Joseph Goldstein and Sharon Salzberg 365 00:19:38,829 --> 00:19:40,222 and maybe three or four other people 366 00:19:40,309 --> 00:19:42,659 who are now leading teachers of mindfulness. 367 00:19:42,746 --> 00:19:44,400 Please join me in welcoming Daniel Goleman. 368 00:19:49,100 --> 00:19:51,145 I began to feel 369 00:19:51,233 --> 00:19:54,758 there's something very important going on here, 370 00:19:54,845 --> 00:19:58,196 and it was off the map of psychology then. 371 00:19:58,283 --> 00:20:00,677 As a clinical psychologist I was learning 372 00:20:00,764 --> 00:20:05,159 how to meet someone and figure out what was wrong with them. 373 00:20:05,247 --> 00:20:07,727 That was what clinical psych was about. 374 00:20:07,814 --> 00:20:10,774 Here it was what could be right about people? 375 00:20:10,861 --> 00:20:13,211 It was the upside of human potential. 376 00:20:13,298 --> 00:20:14,995 So I was very excited and I went back to Harvard 377 00:20:15,082 --> 00:20:16,432 and I said, "Hey, guess what? 378 00:20:16,519 --> 00:20:18,347 "There's an upside to human potential 379 00:20:18,434 --> 00:20:20,697 "and it all seems to have to do with meditation. 380 00:20:20,784 --> 00:20:22,220 "Isn't that great?" 381 00:20:22,307 --> 00:20:24,875 "No, that's probably a career-ending move," 382 00:20:24,962 --> 00:20:26,311 they said. 383 00:20:26,398 --> 00:20:29,183 And for me it was 'cause after coming back 384 00:20:29,271 --> 00:20:32,317 and teaching a bit, then I went into science journalism, 385 00:20:32,404 --> 00:20:36,321 and one of the things I always wanted to write about 386 00:20:36,408 --> 00:20:41,370 was the scientific benefits of mindfulness and meditation. 387 00:20:43,197 --> 00:20:44,721 Daniel became a best-selling author 388 00:20:44,808 --> 00:20:47,158 starting with his 1995 paradigm shifting book, 389 00:20:47,245 --> 00:20:49,160 "Emotional Intelligence." 390 00:20:49,247 --> 00:20:51,380 His latest book, "Altered Traits," 391 00:20:51,467 --> 00:20:54,252 co-authored with neuroscientist Richard Davidson, 392 00:20:54,339 --> 00:20:56,472 examines the scientific evidence. 393 00:20:58,300 --> 00:21:02,434 When we started out way back there were three articles 394 00:21:02,521 --> 00:21:04,871 that were published in the scientific literature 395 00:21:04,958 --> 00:21:07,787 on any kind of meditation that we could cite. 396 00:21:07,874 --> 00:21:09,746 Now there are more than 6,000. 397 00:21:09,833 --> 00:21:11,400 In the last five years 398 00:21:11,487 --> 00:21:13,880 it's just been practically exponential growth. 399 00:21:13,967 --> 00:21:16,143 Today there are more than a thousand a year. 400 00:21:17,188 --> 00:21:18,145 Here's the good news. 401 00:21:18,232 --> 00:21:20,060 Right at the beginning, 402 00:21:20,147 --> 00:21:22,846 there are very, very positive benefits. 403 00:21:23,847 --> 00:21:26,153 People check their email 404 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:28,895 more than 70 times a day on average. 405 00:21:28,982 --> 00:21:31,942 They check their Facebook more than 20 times a day. 406 00:21:32,029 --> 00:21:34,161 Every time you bring your mind back, 407 00:21:34,248 --> 00:21:36,250 it seems, at least theoretically, 408 00:21:36,338 --> 00:21:41,343 the circuitry for paying full attention and monitoring 409 00:21:42,387 --> 00:21:44,258 mind wandering, get stronger. 410 00:21:44,346 --> 00:21:48,175 One of the other findings about beginning meditation 411 00:21:48,262 --> 00:21:52,136 is that you're triggered less, you recover more quickly. 412 00:21:52,223 --> 00:21:55,139 And when you're triggered, you get less upset. 413 00:21:55,226 --> 00:21:58,969 There is some very good suggestive evidence from UCLA 414 00:22:00,362 --> 00:22:02,364 that meditation slows the aging of the brain. 415 00:22:03,887 --> 00:22:06,063 People who we call long-term practitioners, 416 00:22:07,543 --> 00:22:10,894 if you do a day retreat, 417 00:22:12,286 --> 00:22:14,288 like six to eight hours of meditation, 418 00:22:14,376 --> 00:22:16,552 something happens to your genes. 419 00:22:16,639 --> 00:22:19,990 What happens is that all of the genes that create, 420 00:22:20,077 --> 00:22:22,471 there are hundreds or more genes that create inflammation 421 00:22:22,558 --> 00:22:25,299 in the body, down regulate. 422 00:22:25,387 --> 00:22:26,257 They go quiet. 423 00:22:27,606 --> 00:22:29,216 This is really interesting medically 424 00:22:29,303 --> 00:22:32,394 because chronic inflammation 425 00:22:32,481 --> 00:22:36,572 is one of the at-cause factors 426 00:22:36,659 --> 00:22:40,184 in a whole range of diseases from diabetes and arthritis 427 00:22:40,271 --> 00:22:41,838 to heart disease and so on. 428 00:22:41,925 --> 00:22:43,840 So after all these years 429 00:22:43,927 --> 00:22:46,495 and despite what my professors at Harvard told me, 430 00:22:46,582 --> 00:22:48,845 I'm very happy that I have followed this 431 00:22:48,932 --> 00:22:52,501 and pursued mindfulness, pursued meditation, 432 00:22:52,588 --> 00:22:55,982 and I think that we've been vindicated by the evidence. 433 00:22:56,069 --> 00:22:57,984 And thank you very much for coming tonight. 434 00:23:01,118 --> 00:23:03,512 Richard Davidson however was ready to listen 435 00:23:03,599 --> 00:23:07,037 to what I had to say and we've been lifelong friends since. 436 00:23:11,650 --> 00:23:15,306 After my second year of graduate school in 1974, 437 00:23:15,393 --> 00:23:17,264 I went off to India for the first time 438 00:23:17,351 --> 00:23:20,398 to get a taste of meditation practice. 439 00:23:22,052 --> 00:23:23,488 When I returned from India, 440 00:23:23,575 --> 00:23:26,360 I came back with a conviction 441 00:23:26,448 --> 00:23:28,928 that meditation was something very important 442 00:23:29,015 --> 00:23:33,237 for Western psychology and neuroscience to embrace 443 00:23:33,324 --> 00:23:37,546 and a fervent aspiration to pursue research in this area. 444 00:23:37,633 --> 00:23:39,330 But it was made very clear to me 445 00:23:39,417 --> 00:23:41,593 that if I wanted a successful career in science, 446 00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:45,031 this was an absolutely terrible way to begin 447 00:23:45,118 --> 00:23:49,035 and I had better find something else to study. 448 00:23:49,122 --> 00:23:51,908 For years, Richard stuck to basic research. 449 00:23:51,995 --> 00:23:53,649 Until one fateful meeting. 450 00:23:55,389 --> 00:23:59,089 When I first met the Dalai Lama in 1992, he challenged me. 451 00:23:59,176 --> 00:24:02,092 He said, "You've been using tools of modern neuroscience 452 00:24:02,179 --> 00:24:05,443 "to investigate stress and anxiety and depression 453 00:24:05,530 --> 00:24:07,053 "and adversity. 454 00:24:07,140 --> 00:24:08,490 "Why can't you use those same tools 455 00:24:08,577 --> 00:24:11,144 "to study kindness and compassion?" 456 00:24:11,231 --> 00:24:12,668 And that was a wake up call. 457 00:24:12,755 --> 00:24:14,583 I didn't have a very good answer for him. 458 00:24:14,670 --> 00:24:16,193 And he said, 459 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:20,110 "I want you to take these practices 460 00:24:20,197 --> 00:24:22,982 "out of their religious context, 461 00:24:23,069 --> 00:24:24,680 "bring them into the laboratory, 462 00:24:24,767 --> 00:24:27,552 "and if you find that they're valuable, 463 00:24:27,639 --> 00:24:29,685 "disseminate them to the world." 464 00:24:29,772 --> 00:24:33,515 And that was my assignment for the rest of my life. 465 00:24:33,602 --> 00:24:35,168 What Richard and others 466 00:24:35,255 --> 00:24:37,388 at the University of Wisconsin Madison's 467 00:24:37,475 --> 00:24:40,086 Center for Healthy Minds have discovered 468 00:24:40,173 --> 00:24:43,046 is that meditation has the power to rewire 469 00:24:43,133 --> 00:24:45,135 and restructure the brain. 470 00:24:47,659 --> 00:24:50,140 We first began to look 471 00:24:50,227 --> 00:24:53,360 at very long-term meditation practitioners. 472 00:24:53,447 --> 00:24:57,582 These were individuals who spent years training their mind. 473 00:24:57,669 --> 00:25:00,019 Sure enough, when we did those studies, 474 00:25:00,106 --> 00:25:02,674 we found that their brains were quite different 475 00:25:02,761 --> 00:25:05,242 from the brains of ordinary individuals. 476 00:25:05,329 --> 00:25:10,029 What we're looking at here is a representation 477 00:25:10,116 --> 00:25:14,294 of a larger body of research 478 00:25:14,381 --> 00:25:19,212 that depicts how mindfulness meditation works in the brain. 479 00:25:19,299 --> 00:25:22,259 The moment we're lost and recognize it, 480 00:25:22,346 --> 00:25:26,655 the moment of recognition engages the salience network. 481 00:25:26,742 --> 00:25:29,658 And one of the nodes in the salience network 482 00:25:29,745 --> 00:25:33,183 is the anterior insula, a second, 483 00:25:33,270 --> 00:25:36,752 important node is the anterior singular cortex. 484 00:25:36,839 --> 00:25:39,058 Those parts of the brain are critical 485 00:25:39,145 --> 00:25:41,452 in this monitoring function. 486 00:25:41,539 --> 00:25:46,500 Then what happens is we want to reorient our awareness, 487 00:25:47,589 --> 00:25:49,286 bring it back to the breath, 488 00:25:49,373 --> 00:25:53,507 and that requires the engagement of a prefrontal network 489 00:25:54,857 --> 00:25:57,381 that directs attention, and the parietal lobe. 490 00:25:57,468 --> 00:26:01,211 And so we then direct attention back to the breath 491 00:26:01,298 --> 00:26:03,430 in a process of reorienting. 492 00:26:03,517 --> 00:26:06,390 And then we can sustain our focus of attention. 493 00:26:06,477 --> 00:26:11,482 And the sustaining also involves the prefrontal cortex. 494 00:26:12,831 --> 00:26:14,703 Okay, let's get started. 495 00:26:14,790 --> 00:26:16,574 If you want to lay down and be careful that you-- 496 00:26:16,661 --> 00:26:19,577 What we envision is that we are providing people 497 00:26:19,664 --> 00:26:22,667 with lifelong skills that they'll continue to use 498 00:26:22,754 --> 00:26:24,277 over and over again. 499 00:26:24,364 --> 00:26:26,497 And it's through continued practice 500 00:26:26,584 --> 00:26:29,239 that enduring change can occur. 501 00:26:34,374 --> 00:26:36,550 When you become aware that you're distracted, 502 00:26:36,638 --> 00:26:40,163 then gently bring your awareness back to your breathing. 503 00:26:42,165 --> 00:26:46,169 To be aware of a thought as it arises and falls, 504 00:26:46,256 --> 00:26:48,824 or any other experience, a perception, 505 00:26:49,825 --> 00:26:53,393 a choice, sensation, 506 00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:54,438 all does the same thing. 507 00:26:54,525 --> 00:26:56,701 You realize that you, 508 00:26:57,702 --> 00:26:59,182 as a being, 509 00:27:00,313 --> 00:27:02,272 are not a thought. 510 00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,622 Deepak Chopra began his professional life 511 00:27:04,709 --> 00:27:07,103 as a board certified physician. 512 00:27:07,190 --> 00:27:10,584 Then, in 1985, just as Jon Kabat-Zinn, 513 00:27:10,672 --> 00:27:12,848 Daniel Goleman, and others had done, 514 00:27:12,935 --> 00:27:16,286 Deepak decided to focus more on what was right with people 515 00:27:16,373 --> 00:27:17,679 instead of what was wrong. 516 00:27:19,506 --> 00:27:22,379 As a medical doctor I was always interested in healing. 517 00:27:23,902 --> 00:27:26,122 You can't do that by looking at the human body 518 00:27:26,209 --> 00:27:30,387 in a very fragmented way, as a physical machine. 519 00:27:30,474 --> 00:27:33,607 I just extended my understanding of healing. 520 00:27:33,695 --> 00:27:35,479 It's a natural progression. 521 00:27:35,566 --> 00:27:38,264 Deepak's insights on healing, wellbeing, 522 00:27:38,351 --> 00:27:41,311 and other topics have led to more than 80 books 523 00:27:41,398 --> 00:27:43,748 as well as speaking engagements around the world. 524 00:27:43,835 --> 00:27:45,402 Each species-- 525 00:27:52,409 --> 00:27:56,326 In the midst of all these sounds and my voice 526 00:27:56,413 --> 00:27:58,415 and the sensations and the breath, 527 00:28:00,286 --> 00:28:04,595 in the midst of this, keeping your awareness in your heart, 528 00:28:05,683 --> 00:28:06,902 mentally ask the question, 529 00:28:07,990 --> 00:28:09,818 "Who am I?" 530 00:28:12,908 --> 00:28:16,389 The word mindfulness in itself 531 00:28:17,913 --> 00:28:21,525 is a little misleading because it implies a full mind. 532 00:28:23,353 --> 00:28:27,618 And awarefulness would be an awkward, clumsy word. 533 00:28:27,705 --> 00:28:30,534 So we'll keep the word mindfulness. 534 00:28:30,621 --> 00:28:35,539 But every experience that we have, this experience, 535 00:28:35,626 --> 00:28:40,631 is illuminated by the light of awareness. 536 00:28:42,459 --> 00:28:44,287 And then the compulsion to say this is good, this is bad, 537 00:28:44,374 --> 00:28:46,332 to judge, to label, 538 00:28:46,419 --> 00:28:49,727 all of that increases the activity of the mind. 539 00:28:50,989 --> 00:28:53,949 That restless activity of the mind 540 00:28:54,036 --> 00:28:56,473 ultimately is the cause of all stress. 541 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,302 But when you're embedded as awareness, 542 00:28:59,389 --> 00:29:03,785 as the loving presence in which all is happening, 543 00:29:05,830 --> 00:29:09,747 that's a state of perfect homeostasis, perfect equilibrium. 544 00:29:17,711 --> 00:29:19,670 More schools are adding mindfulness, meditation, 545 00:29:19,757 --> 00:29:21,672 and even yoga to their curriculum 546 00:29:21,759 --> 00:29:24,893 to help kids develop coping skills that can last a lifetime. 547 00:29:24,980 --> 00:29:27,460 MindUP founder and creator, 548 00:29:27,547 --> 00:29:29,245 actress Goldie Hawn, 549 00:29:29,332 --> 00:29:30,855 believes that when children better understand 550 00:29:30,942 --> 00:29:32,596 how their brains work, 551 00:29:32,683 --> 00:29:34,598 they can better handle their emotions. 552 00:29:34,685 --> 00:29:38,254 I want it to be woven into the tapestry of their day. 553 00:29:38,341 --> 00:29:40,517 Some scientists suggest a brain training technique 554 00:29:40,604 --> 00:29:43,694 called mindfulness could help teenagers manage stress. 555 00:29:58,100 --> 00:29:59,666 When Atman and I were little kids, 556 00:29:59,753 --> 00:30:01,277 my parents were heavily into yoga, 557 00:30:01,364 --> 00:30:03,627 and meditation, and contemplative practices, 558 00:30:03,714 --> 00:30:06,804 Ayurvedic cooking and being vegan back then. 559 00:30:06,891 --> 00:30:08,327 Our dad would wake us up every morning 560 00:30:08,414 --> 00:30:10,286 and make us meditate before school. 561 00:30:10,373 --> 00:30:11,896 We thought it was weird as I don't know what. 562 00:30:11,983 --> 00:30:14,768 Honestly we kinda kept it in the house 563 00:30:14,856 --> 00:30:17,554 and we kinda called ourselves closet meditators 564 00:30:17,641 --> 00:30:21,297 'cause we had to keep it secret from everybody else. 565 00:30:21,384 --> 00:30:22,864 During college the Smith brothers 566 00:30:22,951 --> 00:30:25,954 met a kindred spirit in Andres Gonzalez. 567 00:30:26,041 --> 00:30:29,348 They returned to the crime and poverty of West Baltimore 568 00:30:29,435 --> 00:30:32,656 determined to provide children with positive life skills. 569 00:30:34,832 --> 00:30:37,313 Having the two of them with me through this journey 570 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:40,838 was extremely powerful because we struggled a lot 571 00:30:40,925 --> 00:30:42,709 at the beginning. 572 00:30:42,796 --> 00:30:44,363 It was a good eight, nine years of doing this for free, 573 00:30:44,450 --> 00:30:45,974 and a lot of judgment being passed onto us, 574 00:30:46,061 --> 00:30:47,584 and people asking us, 575 00:30:47,671 --> 00:30:48,715 "What are you doing with yourselves? 576 00:30:48,802 --> 00:30:50,630 "Why don't you get a real job." 577 00:30:50,717 --> 00:30:52,502 We were presented with the opportunity to coach football 578 00:30:52,589 --> 00:30:54,417 for some fifth grade boys at an elementary school 579 00:30:54,504 --> 00:30:56,201 and we decided to do an after school yoga program 580 00:30:56,288 --> 00:30:58,769 and things kinda took on a life of their own from there. 581 00:31:03,556 --> 00:31:05,645 That success gradually led to other programs 582 00:31:05,732 --> 00:31:08,866 featuring yoga and mindfulness both after school 583 00:31:08,953 --> 00:31:10,346 and during the school day. 584 00:31:10,433 --> 00:31:12,087 Inhale and push. 585 00:31:12,174 --> 00:31:14,002 Hurry up and get to class. 586 00:31:14,089 --> 00:31:17,962 There's one young lady in particular that I really wanted 587 00:31:18,049 --> 00:31:21,096 to see if this program would benefit her. 588 00:31:22,967 --> 00:31:26,405 After the program had been in session for about four months, 589 00:31:26,492 --> 00:31:28,755 she came in my office one day 590 00:31:28,842 --> 00:31:30,148 and closed the door and said, 591 00:31:30,235 --> 00:31:32,411 "Today makes a difference in my life. 592 00:31:32,498 --> 00:31:35,023 "I'm not gonna get in trouble anymore. 593 00:31:35,110 --> 00:31:36,111 "I'm gonna use what I've been learning 594 00:31:36,198 --> 00:31:38,548 "in the after-school program." 595 00:31:38,635 --> 00:31:40,550 Are we ready for our Mindful Moment? 596 00:31:40,637 --> 00:31:42,900 Now every day at Robert Coleman Elementary 597 00:31:42,987 --> 00:31:44,815 starts with a series of exercises 598 00:31:44,902 --> 00:31:48,688 known as the Mindful Moment. - Your fingers and toes. 599 00:31:48,775 --> 00:31:51,082 And if any thoughts of the past come into mind, 600 00:31:51,169 --> 00:31:53,041 just let it go. 601 00:31:53,128 --> 00:31:54,694 One thing we realized is, a lot of times, 602 00:31:54,781 --> 00:31:57,001 children are traumatized before they get here. 603 00:31:58,829 --> 00:32:00,874 And during the day teachers can refer any kids 604 00:32:00,962 --> 00:32:03,660 who are struggling to the Mindful Moment room. 605 00:32:10,014 --> 00:32:12,538 They're not going to the office, they're coming here. 606 00:32:12,625 --> 00:32:15,585 Last year we had close to 1,300 referrals. 607 00:32:15,672 --> 00:32:18,718 So that's 1,300 times that kids came to us 608 00:32:18,805 --> 00:32:21,678 and we were able to work with them and able to return them 609 00:32:21,765 --> 00:32:23,941 to class focused and ready to learn. 610 00:32:24,028 --> 00:32:28,119 In order for us can have a focused and calm day, 611 00:32:28,206 --> 00:32:30,687 we know we have to start with Mindful Moment. 612 00:32:30,774 --> 00:32:34,038 One thing they want to teach us, control your anger. 613 00:32:34,125 --> 00:32:37,694 Do something like a couple deep breathing and don't fight. 614 00:32:39,043 --> 00:32:40,436 On the other side of Baltimore 615 00:32:40,523 --> 00:32:42,090 at Patterson High School, 616 00:32:42,177 --> 00:32:44,788 principal Vance Benton knows firsthand 617 00:32:44,875 --> 00:32:47,921 that the program works with older kids, too. 618 00:32:48,009 --> 00:32:50,794 We have it every morning, it's 12 to 15 minutes. 619 00:32:51,838 --> 00:32:53,797 It's going on the PA. 620 00:32:53,884 --> 00:32:56,930 The mindfulness room is also open all day. 621 00:32:58,062 --> 00:33:00,108 So children can self-refer, 622 00:33:00,195 --> 00:33:02,023 come on in and get some mindfulness. 623 00:33:03,763 --> 00:33:05,809 Teachers can refer students at any point in time 624 00:33:05,896 --> 00:33:08,116 and get 20 minutes and get on back to class. 625 00:33:08,203 --> 00:33:09,813 Place it over. 626 00:33:09,900 --> 00:33:11,336 Being that we have a lot of students 627 00:33:11,423 --> 00:33:12,990 from other countries fleeing their village, 628 00:33:14,818 --> 00:33:16,646 they also experience the same things 629 00:33:16,733 --> 00:33:19,910 our Baltimore City students are experiencing 630 00:33:19,997 --> 00:33:22,826 in terms of death and violence. 631 00:33:22,913 --> 00:33:25,481 I want the children to have something 632 00:33:25,568 --> 00:33:28,919 that they can always have with them beyond the school day. 633 00:33:30,225 --> 00:33:31,791 Now the Holistic Life Foundation 634 00:33:31,878 --> 00:33:34,011 serves more than 7,000 kids 635 00:33:34,098 --> 00:33:37,754 at over 40 different Baltimore public schools. 636 00:33:37,841 --> 00:33:39,147 Once they love themselves, 637 00:33:39,234 --> 00:33:41,105 then you see it start to ripple out. 638 00:33:41,192 --> 00:33:42,933 We see them start to treat their friends differently 639 00:33:43,020 --> 00:33:45,066 and their teachers differently, the principal differently. 640 00:33:46,241 --> 00:33:47,851 But it has to start within 641 00:33:47,938 --> 00:33:49,374 and it kinda just reverberates out 642 00:33:49,461 --> 00:33:51,898 and it starts to affect the entire community. 643 00:33:59,341 --> 00:34:00,864 The Mindful Awareness Research Center 644 00:34:00,951 --> 00:34:03,910 at UCLA started in 2006. 645 00:34:05,738 --> 00:34:09,002 When we teach in institutions we definitely do not want it 646 00:34:09,090 --> 00:34:11,875 being perceived as religious, and it's not. 647 00:34:11,962 --> 00:34:14,747 The teachings are rooted in Buddhism, 648 00:34:14,834 --> 00:34:16,271 but they are not Buddhist. 649 00:34:16,358 --> 00:34:18,969 They're what it means to be human. 650 00:34:20,797 --> 00:34:23,104 We have free drop-ins all over campus all the time. 651 00:34:24,670 --> 00:34:27,108 And we also go out to the public. 652 00:34:32,069 --> 00:34:33,201 Welcome everyone to our Thursday 653 00:34:33,288 --> 00:34:35,203 mindful awareness meditation. 654 00:34:37,074 --> 00:34:39,685 If we were to check into our mind at any point in the day, 655 00:34:39,772 --> 00:34:42,601 we would probably notice that we're in the past 656 00:34:42,688 --> 00:34:45,865 replaying things, wishing they hadn't happened, 657 00:34:45,952 --> 00:34:49,217 going over them thinking I could have done them differently. 658 00:34:49,304 --> 00:34:51,219 Or we're planning for the future. 659 00:34:51,306 --> 00:34:52,872 What am I gonna be doing? 660 00:34:52,959 --> 00:34:54,744 Obsessing about it, catastrophizing. 661 00:34:54,831 --> 00:34:58,139 So mindfulness is this invitation to the here and now 662 00:34:59,966 --> 00:35:01,925 and people report that when they're more present, 663 00:35:02,012 --> 00:35:06,756 there's a sense of connection, of gratitude, of presence, 664 00:35:06,843 --> 00:35:10,107 of awareness that really begins to infiltrate their lives. 665 00:35:11,891 --> 00:35:13,937 So what we're doing here really is a training ground 666 00:35:14,024 --> 00:35:15,895 for being mindful throughout the day. 667 00:35:15,982 --> 00:35:17,767 All right, let's get started. 668 00:35:25,035 --> 00:35:28,125 We can begin with a few deep breaths. 669 00:35:30,127 --> 00:35:34,610 And now we'll begin the process of paying attention 670 00:35:34,697 --> 00:35:38,788 to moment after moment, breath after breath. 671 00:35:40,398 --> 00:35:44,707 As you do this, you may notice that your attention wanders. 672 00:35:46,099 --> 00:35:47,100 You can stay with a breath or two. 673 00:35:48,537 --> 00:35:50,713 Then you find yourself lost in thought. 674 00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:53,803 This is actually completely normal. 675 00:35:53,890 --> 00:35:55,283 You're not doing anything wrong. 676 00:35:55,370 --> 00:35:57,807 This is what happens with the human mind. 677 00:35:57,894 --> 00:36:02,725 Gently redirect your attention back to your main focus. 678 00:36:04,379 --> 00:36:08,731 That moment of recognizing that you're lost in thought 679 00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:12,343 is actually a moment of mindfulness. 680 00:36:13,388 --> 00:36:15,128 So you just keep redirecting. 681 00:36:15,216 --> 00:36:17,000 You get lost in thought, 682 00:36:17,087 --> 00:36:19,263 you come back to your breathing and you just keep doing it. 683 00:36:24,486 --> 00:36:26,096 I'm trying to get people to come with me 684 00:36:26,183 --> 00:36:28,098 because I think it would benefit a lot of people 685 00:36:28,185 --> 00:36:30,666 'cause it crosses boundaries of age and background 686 00:36:30,753 --> 00:36:33,146 and it's really like universal in helping people. 687 00:36:33,234 --> 00:36:35,323 I am a mom. 688 00:36:35,410 --> 00:36:39,196 This is how I take care of me 689 00:36:39,283 --> 00:36:43,244 so that I can be present 690 00:36:43,331 --> 00:36:48,292 but I can also help everyone else that I am responsible for. 691 00:36:50,076 --> 00:36:51,861 I was hired originally to work on a grant 692 00:36:53,297 --> 00:36:55,430 on a research study of mindfulness for ADHD. 693 00:36:56,779 --> 00:36:58,911 When we did this study with ADHD, 694 00:36:58,998 --> 00:37:00,957 there was actually a statistical significance 695 00:37:01,044 --> 00:37:04,352 that mindfulness helped kids and adults pay attention 696 00:37:04,439 --> 00:37:07,790 so much so that the scientists who reviewed the data 697 00:37:07,877 --> 00:37:09,226 looked at it and said, 698 00:37:09,313 --> 00:37:10,401 "What medication did you put them on?" 699 00:37:10,488 --> 00:37:12,273 And we said, "No no, meditation." 700 00:37:13,796 --> 00:37:15,798 One of the studies we did with insomnia, 701 00:37:15,885 --> 00:37:19,018 we had older adults with insomnia and there, again, 702 00:37:19,105 --> 00:37:22,065 was pretty good results in terms of people's ability 703 00:37:22,152 --> 00:37:25,373 to fall asleep and less rumination, less depression. 704 00:37:34,033 --> 00:37:36,340 Following his panic attack on live television 705 00:37:36,427 --> 00:37:37,994 and admitted drug use, 706 00:37:38,081 --> 00:37:40,866 ABC's Dan Harris was searching for help. 707 00:37:43,347 --> 00:37:46,263 My wife gave me a book about Buddhism and I was hooked. 708 00:37:46,350 --> 00:37:47,308 I was really hooked. 709 00:37:48,918 --> 00:37:50,746 And my problem at that point was the Buddha, 710 00:37:50,833 --> 00:37:53,444 what he was recommending, sounded utterly repellent. 711 00:37:53,531 --> 00:37:55,359 And that was meditation. 712 00:37:55,446 --> 00:37:56,926 Because I was of the view that meditation 713 00:37:57,013 --> 00:37:58,841 was for freaks and hippies 714 00:37:58,928 --> 00:38:01,887 and people who are really into Enya and aromatherapy. 715 00:38:01,974 --> 00:38:03,933 I describe myself as a fidgety skeptic. 716 00:38:04,020 --> 00:38:06,501 I don't know where I came up with that, but it's true. 717 00:38:08,241 --> 00:38:10,026 It's hard for me to sit still 718 00:38:10,113 --> 00:38:12,985 and I was raised by secular scientists, 719 00:38:13,072 --> 00:38:14,509 I'm married to a scientist, 720 00:38:14,596 --> 00:38:16,989 I'm very skeptical of stuff you can't prove. 721 00:38:18,556 --> 00:38:20,341 When I started to see that there is this science 722 00:38:20,428 --> 00:38:25,084 that suggests that meditation is really good for you, 723 00:38:25,171 --> 00:38:28,479 that really began to change my attitude about it. 724 00:38:28,566 --> 00:38:30,307 The other thing that really changed my mind 725 00:38:30,394 --> 00:38:31,961 is that it's simple. 726 00:38:32,048 --> 00:38:33,136 You don't have to sit in a funny position, 727 00:38:33,223 --> 00:38:34,529 you don't have to join a group, 728 00:38:34,616 --> 00:38:36,139 you don't have to believe in anything. 729 00:38:36,226 --> 00:38:38,141 It's simple and secular. 730 00:38:38,228 --> 00:38:39,795 Dan was also surprised 731 00:38:39,882 --> 00:38:42,928 to find himself becoming an advocate. 732 00:38:43,015 --> 00:38:45,322 One of my colleagues was saying, essentially, 733 00:38:45,409 --> 00:38:46,976 "What's the matter with you? 734 00:38:47,063 --> 00:38:50,283 "You used to be cool, why are you meditating?" 735 00:38:50,371 --> 00:38:54,070 And, I was at a loss, 736 00:38:54,157 --> 00:38:58,074 and I said, "Oh it makes me about 10% happier." 737 00:38:58,161 --> 00:39:00,337 And I could see the look on her face transform 738 00:39:00,424 --> 00:39:04,254 from scorn to something approaching interest. 739 00:39:04,341 --> 00:39:07,170 And I thought that's my shtick. 740 00:39:07,257 --> 00:39:10,869 I called the book that and that's grown into a podcast 741 00:39:10,956 --> 00:39:14,003 and an app and more books 742 00:39:14,090 --> 00:39:17,180 that has resulted from this wisecrack around the office. 743 00:39:17,267 --> 00:39:19,269 I'm struck by the absurdity of it 744 00:39:19,356 --> 00:39:21,184 but I think there's something there 745 00:39:21,271 --> 00:39:25,188 in that people were ready for a reasonable claim. 746 00:39:25,275 --> 00:39:27,146 In the 10% Happier app we teach you 747 00:39:27,233 --> 00:39:29,105 how to train your mind through meditation, 748 00:39:29,192 --> 00:39:31,237 a practice that is simple, secular, 749 00:39:31,324 --> 00:39:32,978 and scientifically validated. 750 00:39:33,065 --> 00:39:34,980 In my experience, it's a game changer. 751 00:39:36,634 --> 00:39:39,202 It's not magic, it takes work, 752 00:39:39,289 --> 00:39:43,119 but it's worth the investment and it will pay off over time. 753 00:39:44,947 --> 00:39:47,210 You should get marginally better at being awake 754 00:39:47,297 --> 00:39:50,953 and not on autopilot for the rest of your life. 755 00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:54,870 Really to me it's about this meditation cliche 756 00:39:54,957 --> 00:39:56,915 of respond, not react. 757 00:39:57,002 --> 00:39:58,874 You learn how to respond wisely to things 758 00:39:58,961 --> 00:40:00,310 instead of reacting blindly. 759 00:40:13,279 --> 00:40:15,238 Long before singer-songwriter Jewel 760 00:40:15,325 --> 00:40:17,545 had even heard the word mindfulness 761 00:40:17,632 --> 00:40:21,592 she was a homeless teen suffering from panic attacks. 762 00:40:21,679 --> 00:40:23,464 I had to develop a lot of strategies 763 00:40:23,551 --> 00:40:25,422 while I was homeless to survive. 764 00:40:25,509 --> 00:40:27,468 How to rewire a lot of the self-defeating thoughts 765 00:40:27,555 --> 00:40:29,426 that I had. 766 00:40:29,513 --> 00:40:31,559 What was I thinking, could you choose your thoughts, 767 00:40:31,646 --> 00:40:34,431 and I began to look at curating my thoughts 768 00:40:34,518 --> 00:40:37,086 much more carefully than I cared about any other thing. 769 00:40:37,173 --> 00:40:39,001 That put me in the driver's seat. 770 00:40:39,088 --> 00:40:41,438 It meant I wasn't a victim of my brain. 771 00:40:41,525 --> 00:40:43,353 One of the strategies Jewel developed 772 00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:46,443 on the streets is called antidote thoughts. 773 00:40:46,530 --> 00:40:48,053 A thought that plagued me a lot 774 00:40:48,140 --> 00:40:49,490 was that I didn't know what I was doing 775 00:40:49,577 --> 00:40:50,578 and that would send me into a tailspin 776 00:40:50,665 --> 00:40:52,101 multiple times in my life. 777 00:40:52,188 --> 00:40:53,537 I would just start by coming up 778 00:40:53,624 --> 00:40:55,147 with what is the opposite of that. 779 00:40:55,234 --> 00:40:57,062 The opposite is I know what I'm doing. 780 00:40:57,149 --> 00:40:58,499 Well that was a lie but I was capable of learning 781 00:40:58,586 --> 00:41:00,413 so that became my antidote. 782 00:41:00,501 --> 00:41:03,068 I'm capable of learning and I won't give up 'til I do. 783 00:41:04,679 --> 00:41:06,419 Another of Jewel's self-taught techniques 784 00:41:06,507 --> 00:41:09,074 led to one of her most successful songs 785 00:41:09,161 --> 00:41:11,512 after she was discovered by a record producer 786 00:41:11,599 --> 00:41:13,122 while playing in a coffee shop. 787 00:41:13,209 --> 00:41:17,169 ♪ My hands are small I know ♪ 788 00:41:17,256 --> 00:41:21,522 ♪ But they're not yours they are my own ♪ 789 00:41:21,609 --> 00:41:26,091 ♪ They're not yours they are my own ♪ 790 00:41:26,178 --> 00:41:29,051 ♪ We are never broken ♪ 791 00:41:29,138 --> 00:41:30,966 I decided to start watching my hands 792 00:41:31,053 --> 00:41:33,664 because the hands are the servants of your thought. 793 00:41:33,751 --> 00:41:37,450 By forcing myself to be observant in real time of my hands, 794 00:41:37,538 --> 00:41:40,541 I made myself present in the moment. 795 00:41:40,628 --> 00:41:42,455 When I did that, my anxiety calmed down. 796 00:41:42,543 --> 00:41:44,109 ♪ Heartache came to visit ♪ 797 00:41:44,196 --> 00:41:48,505 "Hands" really is one of my odes to mindfulness. 798 00:41:48,592 --> 00:41:51,247 Pretty much all of my songs are about me 799 00:41:51,334 --> 00:41:53,379 learning to become a whole human, 800 00:41:53,466 --> 00:41:56,339 to live my life mindfully with presence, 801 00:41:56,426 --> 00:41:58,297 being the driver of my life. 802 00:42:01,213 --> 00:42:03,128 Jewel's ability to live mindfully 803 00:42:03,215 --> 00:42:06,523 was tested when just a few years after being homeless 804 00:42:06,610 --> 00:42:09,395 her first album sold millions of copies. 805 00:42:11,180 --> 00:42:13,399 You take a girl with my background and you throw fame 806 00:42:13,486 --> 00:42:15,184 or even possibly money in the mix 807 00:42:15,271 --> 00:42:18,100 and it usually is a recipe for disaster. 808 00:42:18,187 --> 00:42:20,363 So I had to really get in touch with that 809 00:42:20,450 --> 00:42:23,235 and come up with a strategy for that. 810 00:42:24,628 --> 00:42:26,456 For me it was leading with vulnerability, 811 00:42:26,543 --> 00:42:29,198 telling the truth, talking to people about my flaws, 812 00:42:29,285 --> 00:42:32,027 never making myself seem more perfect than I was 813 00:42:32,114 --> 00:42:34,420 so that I had an honest representation of myself 814 00:42:34,507 --> 00:42:36,684 as I started my career. 815 00:42:36,771 --> 00:42:38,163 Thank you. 816 00:42:45,127 --> 00:42:46,519 Following an injury, 817 00:42:46,607 --> 00:42:48,652 George Mumford went from playing basketball 818 00:42:48,739 --> 00:42:50,698 at the University of Massachusetts 819 00:42:50,785 --> 00:42:53,439 with future Hall of Famer, Julius Erving, 820 00:42:53,526 --> 00:42:56,138 to being addicted to alcohol and drugs 821 00:42:56,225 --> 00:42:58,488 due to his chronic pain. 822 00:42:58,575 --> 00:43:00,316 How did I get motivated to go 823 00:43:00,403 --> 00:43:04,363 from being a substance abuser to being in recovery? 824 00:43:04,450 --> 00:43:08,193 I was a financial analyst so I was analyzing things 825 00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:11,719 and I realized that the mindfulness was telling me 826 00:43:11,806 --> 00:43:13,546 that I was really interested 827 00:43:13,634 --> 00:43:16,506 in what motivates people, especially myself. 828 00:43:16,593 --> 00:43:19,117 I had to learn how to deal with my pain, 829 00:43:19,204 --> 00:43:22,599 and mindfulness, and just cultivating wisdom, 830 00:43:22,686 --> 00:43:24,253 understanding the mind-body process. 831 00:43:24,340 --> 00:43:26,429 So I got into it for survival 832 00:43:26,516 --> 00:43:31,390 and then it became not to survive but to thrive. 833 00:43:31,477 --> 00:43:33,262 I've been thriving ever since. 834 00:43:34,829 --> 00:43:36,744 Originally when I started doing the mindfulness 835 00:43:36,831 --> 00:43:39,311 I worked with people in recovery. 836 00:43:39,398 --> 00:43:41,531 At the time I was working at the Center for Mindfulness 837 00:43:41,618 --> 00:43:43,620 back in the day. 838 00:43:43,707 --> 00:43:45,796 It was called the Stress Reduction and Relaxation program. 839 00:43:45,883 --> 00:43:50,279 And Jon Kabat-Zinn was the founder and the director 840 00:43:50,366 --> 00:43:53,151 and he had a relationship with Phil Jackson 841 00:43:53,238 --> 00:43:55,632 because they used to teach at Omega Institute. 842 00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:58,330 But they had just won their third NBA championship 843 00:43:58,417 --> 00:44:00,419 and the stress of all the people 844 00:44:00,506 --> 00:44:02,770 coming at 'em wanting things, 845 00:44:02,857 --> 00:44:05,337 Phil wanted someone to come in and help them deal with that. 846 00:44:05,424 --> 00:44:07,426 'Cause he dealt with the whole person. 847 00:44:07,513 --> 00:44:09,298 And then in the meantime, 848 00:44:09,385 --> 00:44:11,213 Michael Jordan's father got murdered and Michael retired. 849 00:44:11,300 --> 00:44:15,565 So when I got there in October of 1993, 850 00:44:15,652 --> 00:44:17,436 they were in full-blown crisis. 851 00:44:17,523 --> 00:44:19,787 So I could talk to them about being in the zone 852 00:44:19,874 --> 00:44:23,138 and what it took to have that mental toughness 853 00:44:23,225 --> 00:44:25,662 and how to cultivate that, how to train for that. 854 00:44:25,749 --> 00:44:28,143 So the mindfulness is the key 855 00:44:28,230 --> 00:44:30,275 because if your mind is not right, 856 00:44:30,362 --> 00:44:31,755 even though you have talent, 857 00:44:31,842 --> 00:44:32,843 even though you've done the training, 858 00:44:32,930 --> 00:44:34,453 you won't have access to it. 859 00:44:34,540 --> 00:44:36,281 With George's help, 860 00:44:36,368 --> 00:44:38,675 and the return of Michael Jordan a year later, 861 00:44:38,762 --> 00:44:42,505 the Bulls went on to win three more NBA championships. 862 00:44:44,550 --> 00:44:47,336 George then followed Phil Jackson to the Los Angeles Lakers 863 00:44:47,423 --> 00:44:49,817 where they helped Kobe Bryant and Shaquille O'Neal 864 00:44:49,904 --> 00:44:52,820 win another three championships. 865 00:44:52,907 --> 00:44:55,387 I would say mindfulness makes us flow ready. 866 00:44:58,390 --> 00:45:00,349 That we need to have a little bit of complexity 867 00:45:00,436 --> 00:45:02,307 and we have to have this willingness 868 00:45:02,394 --> 00:45:04,005 to get comfortable with being uncomfortable. 869 00:45:04,092 --> 00:45:07,878 So we have to play in between comfort and discomfort. 870 00:45:07,965 --> 00:45:10,489 And that's when we're getting, when we're moving, 871 00:45:10,576 --> 00:45:12,535 pushing the edges of our capacity, 872 00:45:12,622 --> 00:45:14,363 that's when we experience flow. 873 00:45:14,450 --> 00:45:16,191 And that's why it doesn't last 874 00:45:16,278 --> 00:45:19,934 because the mind and body gets acclimated to it. 875 00:45:20,021 --> 00:45:21,762 And so then we gotta push further. 876 00:45:28,377 --> 00:45:29,552 Over the past 10 years mindfulness 877 00:45:29,639 --> 00:45:31,423 has become increasingly popular 878 00:45:31,510 --> 00:45:33,774 across society and within the law. 879 00:45:33,861 --> 00:45:35,732 Finally tonight a new tool for police 880 00:45:35,819 --> 00:45:37,560 and maybe for you as well. 881 00:45:37,647 --> 00:45:40,389 Officers balancing the high-risk stress of the badge 882 00:45:40,476 --> 00:45:43,740 through meditation, using their minds to sharpen their edge. 883 00:45:50,878 --> 00:45:53,794 When the chief introduced the mindfulness to us 884 00:45:53,881 --> 00:45:57,885 in March of this year, I said to myself, 885 00:45:57,972 --> 00:45:59,495 "Oh, I remember doing that." 886 00:45:59,582 --> 00:46:03,455 Because of my years of playing basketball, 887 00:46:03,542 --> 00:46:07,590 if I'm able to keep myself cool, 888 00:46:07,677 --> 00:46:10,245 whether it's just, or it's just realizing 889 00:46:10,332 --> 00:46:13,074 what's going on right now not what's going to happen. 890 00:46:15,424 --> 00:46:17,643 I find that it benefits me on my calls 891 00:46:17,730 --> 00:46:19,863 and dealing with the people and the public. 892 00:46:19,950 --> 00:46:20,864 I ain't afraid of you! 893 00:46:20,951 --> 00:46:21,734 I ain't afraid of you! 894 00:46:26,957 --> 00:46:29,655 About four and a half years ago 895 00:46:29,742 --> 00:46:33,659 my life started to spiral out of control. 896 00:46:33,746 --> 00:46:37,620 I had heart pain, I was stressed out, 897 00:46:37,707 --> 00:46:39,970 I was feeling depressed. 898 00:46:40,057 --> 00:46:43,321 I tried traditional remedies 899 00:46:43,408 --> 00:46:47,760 such as therapy and exercise 900 00:46:47,848 --> 00:46:51,460 and nothing seemed to work. 901 00:46:51,547 --> 00:46:56,552 I stumbled across mindfulness meditation at my darkest hour. 902 00:46:57,901 --> 00:47:00,034 I tried it and there was something about it 903 00:47:00,121 --> 00:47:02,688 that spoke to me immediately. 904 00:47:02,775 --> 00:47:06,518 Then I came across Mindfulness-Based Resiliency Training 905 00:47:06,605 --> 00:47:09,043 that Lieutenant Goerling was doing in Oregon. 906 00:47:10,131 --> 00:47:11,654 Meeting our distractions 907 00:47:11,741 --> 00:47:14,962 without any judgment or elaboration. 908 00:47:15,049 --> 00:47:16,877 Today Lieutenant Richard Goerling 909 00:47:16,964 --> 00:47:18,922 is leading officers and support staff 910 00:47:19,009 --> 00:47:20,793 from several departments 911 00:47:20,881 --> 00:47:23,579 through his specially-designed Mindful Policing program. 912 00:47:25,102 --> 00:47:28,932 I started out on a a quest in about 2003 913 00:47:29,019 --> 00:47:31,761 to quite simply improve the police-citizen encounter. 914 00:47:31,848 --> 00:47:35,896 What I found in my own experience taking an MBSR class 915 00:47:35,983 --> 00:47:37,767 was that there was something there 916 00:47:37,854 --> 00:47:40,335 that was unlike any other training I'd ever experienced. 917 00:47:40,422 --> 00:47:43,686 Some sort of deep internal awareness and skills 918 00:47:43,773 --> 00:47:46,515 that I cultivated in simply eight weeks of training. 919 00:47:46,602 --> 00:47:48,343 And that really set me on this path 920 00:47:48,430 --> 00:47:50,998 working with a lot of other collaborative partners 921 00:47:51,085 --> 00:47:55,698 to bring mindfulness to policing here in the United States. 922 00:47:55,785 --> 00:47:57,787 Noticing the difference in sensation 923 00:47:57,874 --> 00:48:02,792 from the palm of your hand versus the backside of your hand. 924 00:48:05,186 --> 00:48:08,493 Maybe there's some warmth or coolness there 925 00:48:08,580 --> 00:48:10,626 that isn't there in the palm of your hand. 926 00:48:12,454 --> 00:48:16,023 Our longevity, we give up a minimum of 10 years of our life 927 00:48:16,110 --> 00:48:18,460 just simply for being in the profession. 928 00:48:18,547 --> 00:48:21,115 We have the worst cardiovascular disease profile 929 00:48:21,202 --> 00:48:22,812 of any population. 930 00:48:22,899 --> 00:48:25,380 We're twice as likely to be clinically depressed 931 00:48:25,467 --> 00:48:26,729 as the general population. 932 00:48:26,816 --> 00:48:28,600 We're taking suffering human beings 933 00:48:28,687 --> 00:48:32,430 who are deeply impacted by trauma in varying levels 934 00:48:32,517 --> 00:48:34,041 and we're just telling them, 935 00:48:34,128 --> 00:48:35,999 "Hey, go sleep better. 936 00:48:36,086 --> 00:48:38,001 "Hey, don't drink too much. 937 00:48:38,088 --> 00:48:40,134 "Hey, be compassionate." 938 00:48:40,221 --> 00:48:42,092 It doesn't make any sense. 939 00:48:42,179 --> 00:48:44,965 When what we do with mindfulness training 940 00:48:45,052 --> 00:48:49,447 is we're building skills that disrupt these habituated ways 941 00:48:49,534 --> 00:48:51,928 of being that are driven by stress and trauma 942 00:48:52,015 --> 00:48:54,887 and we're cultivating a whole new way of being. 943 00:48:54,975 --> 00:48:59,980 And that way of being is maybe best framed as resiliency. 944 00:49:01,111 --> 00:49:02,591 I will be in the middle of trauma 945 00:49:02,678 --> 00:49:04,158 and I will be there fully present, 946 00:49:04,245 --> 00:49:06,029 I will be there skillfully. 947 00:49:06,116 --> 00:49:08,553 And with a period of adjustment when it's over 948 00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:10,729 I will emerge as strong as I was 949 00:49:10,816 --> 00:49:13,123 when I started or potentially even stronger. 950 00:49:25,092 --> 00:49:27,529 It makes us a little more human 951 00:49:27,616 --> 00:49:29,226 when we come into that call 952 00:49:29,313 --> 00:49:31,620 and it makes the people we're dealing with more human 953 00:49:31,707 --> 00:49:33,578 and there can't be anything but success 954 00:49:33,665 --> 00:49:35,102 that comes from something like that. 955 00:49:49,290 --> 00:49:51,988 Prisoners are quite naturally trying to protect themselves 956 00:49:52,075 --> 00:49:54,121 just usually with armoring up, 957 00:49:54,208 --> 00:49:55,687 physically and psychologically, 958 00:49:55,774 --> 00:49:57,167 and with anger and bitterness. 959 00:49:57,254 --> 00:49:59,126 So it's very hard 960 00:49:59,213 --> 00:50:01,998 to connect with that genuine regret and remorse 961 00:50:02,085 --> 00:50:04,087 which to me is what we have to get in touch with 962 00:50:04,174 --> 00:50:07,134 for that transformation to really begin to happen. 963 00:50:07,221 --> 00:50:11,007 Notice if it can bring a little more energy in 964 00:50:11,094 --> 00:50:13,662 or a little more softness in. 965 00:50:13,749 --> 00:50:15,620 Just finding the balance there. 966 00:50:18,623 --> 00:50:21,757 Recalling that you have your breath as your ally. 967 00:50:24,847 --> 00:50:26,240 Your home base. 968 00:50:28,155 --> 00:50:30,505 Mindfulness practice begins to put us a little more 969 00:50:30,592 --> 00:50:32,594 in charge of our own physiology to begin with 970 00:50:32,681 --> 00:50:33,812 where you can breathe and get yourself 971 00:50:33,899 --> 00:50:35,336 back into a calmer place. 972 00:50:35,423 --> 00:50:37,164 A place where you can make better decisions. 973 00:50:37,251 --> 00:50:40,645 So that can be life-saving when you're in this environment. 974 00:50:40,732 --> 00:50:42,125 So my name is Fleet Maull 975 00:50:42,212 --> 00:50:43,996 and I'm really happy to be here tonight. 976 00:50:44,084 --> 00:50:47,783 I founded what we now call Prison Mindfulness Institute, 977 00:50:47,870 --> 00:50:50,002 it used to be called Prison Dharma Network, 978 00:50:51,308 --> 00:50:55,965 in 1989 while I was serving 14 years 979 00:50:56,052 --> 00:50:59,186 in a maximum security federal prison hospital 980 00:50:59,273 --> 00:51:00,709 in Southwest Missouri. 981 00:51:04,365 --> 00:51:07,977 How I got there is some things I have deep regrets about. 982 00:51:09,761 --> 00:51:13,852 I ended up getting a big sentence for drug trafficking. 983 00:51:13,939 --> 00:51:15,637 And it was cocaine. 984 00:51:17,987 --> 00:51:19,902 When I first got locked up, 985 00:51:19,989 --> 00:51:23,166 I really hit a wall primarily around the fact 986 00:51:23,253 --> 00:51:25,081 that my son who was nine years old then 987 00:51:25,168 --> 00:51:26,865 was gonna grow up without a dad. 988 00:51:26,952 --> 00:51:28,606 I developed this real passion 989 00:51:28,693 --> 00:51:30,652 to at least not cause any more harm 990 00:51:32,306 --> 00:51:34,699 and then if I could learn to maybe do a little good. 991 00:51:34,786 --> 00:51:37,224 And it grew while I was in but it really took off 992 00:51:37,311 --> 00:51:39,617 once I got out when my colleague, Kate Crisp, 993 00:51:39,704 --> 00:51:41,576 got involved and we started building it 994 00:51:41,663 --> 00:51:43,230 into a national organization 995 00:51:43,317 --> 00:51:46,102 that today involves about 190 different 996 00:51:46,189 --> 00:51:48,931 meditation-based prison projects all around the world. 997 00:51:50,324 --> 00:51:51,716 Take a big breath in. 998 00:51:53,283 --> 00:51:56,068 Stretch, stretch up, and then exhale just softly. 999 00:51:58,027 --> 00:52:00,986 So we're still breathing, we're still feeling. 1000 00:52:01,073 --> 00:52:02,423 Same practice, really. 1001 00:52:02,510 --> 00:52:05,295 We're just moving instead of sitting still 1002 00:52:05,382 --> 00:52:06,949 and we can hold our seat 1003 00:52:07,036 --> 00:52:09,256 even as we move the more we practice. 1004 00:52:11,171 --> 00:52:12,955 Well, who do we want them to be when they get out? 1005 00:52:13,042 --> 00:52:15,784 Angry, bitter, full of shame, 1006 00:52:15,871 --> 00:52:17,960 still caught up in all their victim mindset 1007 00:52:18,047 --> 00:52:19,614 and victim thinking, or do we want them to come out 1008 00:52:19,701 --> 00:52:21,355 as better human beings? 1009 00:52:21,442 --> 00:52:23,270 Well if we want 'em to come out as better human beings, 1010 00:52:23,357 --> 00:52:25,228 better neighbors, better citizens, 1011 00:52:25,315 --> 00:52:26,838 then we better give them some opportunities 1012 00:52:26,925 --> 00:52:28,927 to do some work on themselves. 1013 00:52:29,014 --> 00:52:32,844 It really, really made this class very special today. 1014 00:52:32,931 --> 00:52:35,020 Having somebody here that's been in our position before 1015 00:52:35,107 --> 00:52:36,935 and that knows what we go through in our daily life 1016 00:52:37,022 --> 00:52:40,156 and actually could get out and head to the streets 1017 00:52:40,243 --> 00:52:42,071 and do something positive and come back. 1018 00:52:42,158 --> 00:52:45,727 It's an inspiration and I just appreciate the fact 1019 00:52:45,814 --> 00:52:48,904 you're here today and you gave us some hope 1020 00:52:48,991 --> 00:52:51,254 of us doing something positive in the future as well. 1021 00:52:51,341 --> 00:52:53,082 Thank you. 1022 00:52:53,169 --> 00:52:55,432 You're on next week with aware of this moment. 1023 00:52:57,260 --> 00:52:58,000 Better believe we gon' fly with you. 1024 00:52:58,087 --> 00:52:59,958 Yeah. 1025 00:53:00,045 --> 00:53:01,177 - Go out there, first class-- - Ready to roll, huh? 1026 00:53:01,264 --> 00:53:03,048 Okay yeah, thank you. 1027 00:53:03,135 --> 00:53:05,312 - Thank you. - Thank you, thank you. 1028 00:53:07,444 --> 00:53:11,013 We're a perfect sitting duck. 1029 00:53:16,845 --> 00:53:18,325 We'll be connecting up with you here shortly. 1030 00:53:18,412 --> 00:53:20,240 Roger, we'll be waiting. 1031 00:53:20,327 --> 00:53:21,763 It's important to stay awake. 1032 00:53:21,850 --> 00:53:24,113 Right there, go! 1033 00:53:37,779 --> 00:53:39,346 If you're comfortable closing your eyes, 1034 00:53:39,433 --> 00:53:41,043 that just helps avoid distraction. 1035 00:53:41,130 --> 00:53:42,871 If you want to just focus on the book 1036 00:53:42,958 --> 00:53:44,699 on the table, that's fine. 1037 00:53:44,786 --> 00:53:49,399 I was appalled to find from 15 to 22 veterans a day 1038 00:53:50,922 --> 00:53:51,967 in this country taking their own lives. 1039 00:53:52,054 --> 00:53:53,360 After working with a number 1040 00:53:53,447 --> 00:53:56,276 of veteran service organizations, 1041 00:53:56,363 --> 00:53:59,931 I saw too many people still falling through the cracks. 1042 00:54:00,018 --> 00:54:01,368 I really have to offer this 1043 00:54:01,455 --> 00:54:04,371 because I know the power of mindfulness 1044 00:54:04,458 --> 00:54:06,416 and I know it can really have an immediate 1045 00:54:06,503 --> 00:54:07,809 and long-term effect. 1046 00:54:09,593 --> 00:54:12,335 And then very specifically bring our attention to our toes. 1047 00:54:12,422 --> 00:54:13,858 Wiggling our toes. 1048 00:54:15,512 --> 00:54:18,080 Noticing the mobility that we have, 1049 00:54:18,167 --> 00:54:20,909 the distance between our toes and our shoes, 1050 00:54:21,997 --> 00:54:24,129 if our toes feel hot or cold. 1051 00:54:24,216 --> 00:54:27,307 We notice achiness, stiffness. 1052 00:54:29,483 --> 00:54:32,094 The nonprofit Mindful Warrior Project, 1053 00:54:32,181 --> 00:54:35,010 founded by Gail Sofer, provides veterans, 1054 00:54:35,097 --> 00:54:38,013 active duty military, their families and caregivers 1055 00:54:38,100 --> 00:54:41,233 in the Los Angeles area with mindfulness exercises 1056 00:54:41,321 --> 00:54:44,106 to help cope with post-traumatic stress disorder, 1057 00:54:44,193 --> 00:54:46,326 panic attacks, and other ailments. 1058 00:54:48,980 --> 00:54:53,507 This is our situational awareness of our own bodies. 1059 00:54:53,594 --> 00:54:56,205 We're not trying to fix or change anything. 1060 00:54:56,292 --> 00:54:58,903 We're just noticing what's happening. 1061 00:54:58,990 --> 00:55:00,035 Some veterans can feel like, 1062 00:55:00,122 --> 00:55:01,906 "Hey, I'm already too mindful. 1063 00:55:01,993 --> 00:55:04,953 "I'm aware of everything, and I'm on red alert, 1064 00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:07,434 "and I'm scanning, scanning, scanning, scanning. 1065 00:55:07,521 --> 00:55:09,523 "I don't need to do more of that." 1066 00:55:09,610 --> 00:55:13,004 There's a difference between being hyper-vigilant 1067 00:55:13,091 --> 00:55:17,313 and vigilant with openness and curiosity 1068 00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:19,794 and not assuming a threat. 1069 00:55:19,881 --> 00:55:22,318 That's a huge difference 'cause in mindfulness 1070 00:55:22,405 --> 00:55:26,235 when you suspend judgment, you're suspending assumptions, 1071 00:55:26,322 --> 00:55:27,802 you're not jumping to conclusions. 1072 00:55:27,889 --> 00:55:29,847 You're really exploring. 1073 00:55:29,934 --> 00:55:33,547 Don't ever let anyone tell you that mindful eating 1074 00:55:33,634 --> 00:55:35,331 has to do with the quality of the food. 1075 00:55:35,418 --> 00:55:37,202 It's the quality of the experience. 1076 00:55:37,289 --> 00:55:40,292 Just noticing this as if we've never seen this before. 1077 00:55:40,380 --> 00:55:41,555 As if we're from another planet 1078 00:55:41,642 --> 00:55:43,252 and we're exploring something. 1079 00:55:45,036 --> 00:55:46,516 It helps me have less anxiety. 1080 00:55:46,603 --> 00:55:49,998 And if I do have an anxiety attack, 1081 00:55:50,085 --> 00:55:52,566 it helps me to be able to have more control 1082 00:55:52,653 --> 00:55:54,872 of what's going on in my life. 1083 00:55:54,959 --> 00:55:57,832 I use it to make sure that I don't go back 1084 00:55:57,919 --> 00:56:02,314 into the dark places that I was going to with my PTSD. 1085 00:56:02,402 --> 00:56:03,968 I wouldn't go into places 1086 00:56:04,055 --> 00:56:06,318 where there was large crowds or loud noise. 1087 00:56:06,406 --> 00:56:08,233 I couldn't really stand that. 1088 00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:11,019 The other thing was anger. 1089 00:56:11,106 --> 00:56:15,415 I was angry all the time and I didn't like that. 1090 00:56:15,502 --> 00:56:19,462 So my mindfulness practice actually put me in a place 1091 00:56:19,549 --> 00:56:22,509 where I could start living again and experiencing 1092 00:56:22,596 --> 00:56:26,251 what everybody else was doing that were "normal. 1093 00:56:33,171 --> 00:56:35,522 What I'm gonna do is hand you an object 1094 00:56:35,609 --> 00:56:38,350 and you may or may not have seen this object before. 1095 00:56:38,438 --> 00:56:40,352 I can promise you it's edible 1096 00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:42,485 but that's all I'm going to promise. 1097 00:56:42,572 --> 00:56:45,053 The Center for Mindfulness has really been the leader 1098 00:56:45,140 --> 00:56:49,231 in the fields around developing gold standard treatments 1099 00:56:49,318 --> 00:56:51,407 like mindfulness-based stress reduction 1100 00:56:51,494 --> 00:56:54,541 to help people manage their stress, for example. 1101 00:56:54,628 --> 00:56:57,326 Just notice how much it weighs. 1102 00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:01,069 What it might look like in your hand. 1103 00:57:01,156 --> 00:57:03,898 You can even start rolling it around in your fingers 1104 00:57:03,985 --> 00:57:05,726 to see what it feels like. 1105 00:57:09,164 --> 00:57:11,035 We developed a program called Eat Right Now 1106 00:57:11,122 --> 00:57:14,169 that helps people change their relationship to emotional 1107 00:57:14,256 --> 00:57:17,433 and stress eating so they can break that addictive cycle. 1108 00:57:19,130 --> 00:57:21,002 Explain what that tastes like? 1109 00:57:21,089 --> 00:57:22,177 Without even biting. 1110 00:57:25,180 --> 00:57:26,573 And then really paying attention 1111 00:57:26,660 --> 00:57:28,313 as we take one bite through this thing. 1112 00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:29,489 Feeling the texture, 1113 00:57:31,055 --> 00:57:32,579 feeling the taste that might be released. 1114 00:57:34,145 --> 00:57:35,930 If our brains are set up to form habits, 1115 00:57:36,017 --> 00:57:38,585 the problem is when we get so caught up in these habits, 1116 00:57:38,672 --> 00:57:40,456 they no longer serve us. 1117 00:57:40,543 --> 00:57:42,632 If we start eating because we're stressed out, 1118 00:57:42,719 --> 00:57:44,591 so we're stressed, we eat some chocolate, 1119 00:57:44,678 --> 00:57:46,331 and we feel a little bit better, 1120 00:57:46,418 --> 00:57:47,985 we're not eating because we're hungry, 1121 00:57:48,072 --> 00:57:50,248 we're eating because we are stressed out. 1122 00:57:50,335 --> 00:57:53,121 And that stress can kind of perpetuate eating 1123 00:57:53,208 --> 00:57:55,602 because we're stressed and we can hack that system. 1124 00:57:55,689 --> 00:57:59,257 So if we get stressed out and we get curious, 1125 00:57:59,344 --> 00:58:02,696 we bring some mindful curious awareness to that situation, 1126 00:58:02,783 --> 00:58:05,612 there's a different reward that comes from that. 1127 00:58:05,699 --> 00:58:07,614 We don't have to eat something to feel better. 1128 00:58:07,701 --> 00:58:11,966 We can naturally drop into our awareness and curiosity 1129 00:58:12,053 --> 00:58:14,011 and that in itself is joyful. 1130 00:58:14,098 --> 00:58:16,274 So how many of you have eaten this thing? 1131 00:58:16,361 --> 00:58:18,407 Do you know what it is that I just gave you? 1132 00:58:18,494 --> 00:58:19,539 It's black garlic. 1133 00:58:19,626 --> 00:58:21,366 Black garlic, yeah. 1134 00:58:21,453 --> 00:58:24,108 Did anybody have a first gear moment in this last week 1135 00:58:24,195 --> 00:58:27,590 where you noticed any aspect of the habit loop? 1136 00:58:29,070 --> 00:58:30,637 The same sort of usual thing 1137 00:58:30,724 --> 00:58:33,509 being sort of irritated about teenagers in the house 1138 00:58:33,596 --> 00:58:36,077 and they left a big bag of Doritos on the counter 1139 00:58:36,164 --> 00:58:37,731 and I just was like telling them to be quiet. 1140 00:58:37,818 --> 00:58:39,515 So I just reached in, I started eating the Doritos, 1141 00:58:39,602 --> 00:58:42,083 and I was like, oh, why am I eating Doritos? 1142 00:58:42,170 --> 00:58:45,347 Like I'm not hungry, I'm just mad that they won't be quiet. 1143 00:58:45,434 --> 00:58:47,175 And then I did have a moment 1144 00:58:47,262 --> 00:58:51,571 where I just kind of took a moment to wake up. 1145 00:58:51,658 --> 00:58:53,224 With our Eat Right Now program, 1146 00:58:53,311 --> 00:58:56,314 we had 40% reduction in craving-related eating, 1147 00:58:56,401 --> 00:58:57,446 that's pretty good. 1148 00:58:57,533 --> 00:58:59,274 From a behavioral standpoint, 1149 00:58:59,361 --> 00:59:02,407 we get five times the quit rates of gold standard treatment 1150 00:59:02,494 --> 00:59:04,366 with our smoking cessation program. 1151 00:59:04,453 --> 00:59:06,673 On a regular basis I get folks telling me 1152 00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:08,544 that they quit smoking, 1153 00:59:08,631 --> 00:59:09,676 this has saved their life and things like that. 1154 00:59:09,763 --> 00:59:10,851 And that's really rewarding. 1155 00:59:20,382 --> 00:59:22,210 Welcome everyone. 1156 00:59:22,297 --> 00:59:25,213 This is our Meditation for Beginners group tonight. 1157 00:59:25,300 --> 00:59:28,303 We have a lot of people coming to us right now with anxiety. 1158 00:59:29,696 --> 00:59:31,698 And anxiety falls into various categories. 1159 00:59:31,785 --> 00:59:34,439 Someone could come in with a more generalized anxiety, 1160 00:59:34,526 --> 00:59:37,138 which we call it kind of a free-floating. 1161 00:59:37,225 --> 00:59:38,792 They'll worry about work, they'll worry about home, 1162 00:59:38,879 --> 00:59:40,576 their family, their friends. 1163 00:59:40,663 --> 00:59:43,057 There's other kinds of anxieties 1164 00:59:43,144 --> 00:59:46,060 like a post-traumatic anxiety 1165 00:59:46,147 --> 00:59:51,152 where they may also replay what the trauma was. 1166 00:59:52,457 --> 00:59:53,502 So there's specific kinds of tools 1167 00:59:53,589 --> 00:59:55,156 I can give someone like that. 1168 00:59:55,243 --> 00:59:57,158 This is a situation that makes a lot of people 1169 00:59:57,245 --> 01:00:00,074 feel powerless and then you have this... 1170 01:00:00,161 --> 01:00:02,293 So what we're trying to do with someone 1171 01:00:03,904 --> 01:00:05,732 who's in a state of depression 1172 01:00:05,819 --> 01:00:10,388 is empathize with what the real life situation is. 1173 01:00:12,173 --> 01:00:13,565 And then what mindfulness and meditation does 1174 01:00:13,653 --> 01:00:16,612 is to relieve those top layers of suffering. 1175 01:00:16,699 --> 01:00:19,746 If somebody goes, "I'm all to blame for this." 1176 01:00:19,833 --> 01:00:21,791 We hear a lot of all or nothing statements. 1177 01:00:21,878 --> 01:00:23,706 "This is all my fault." 1178 01:00:23,793 --> 01:00:26,274 So people start to do this self-blaming, 1179 01:00:26,361 --> 01:00:28,145 regretting, replaying. 1180 01:00:28,232 --> 01:00:30,278 Like Sharon Salzberg says those are the add-ons. 1181 01:00:30,365 --> 01:00:32,193 If we get rid of the add-ons, 1182 01:00:32,280 --> 01:00:35,109 I can help you deal with what's actually happening 1183 01:00:35,196 --> 01:00:36,806 in the present. 1184 01:00:36,893 --> 01:00:39,504 So that's where this blend of therapy and mindfulness 1185 01:00:39,591 --> 01:00:41,681 could be really useful for depression. 1186 01:00:57,609 --> 01:01:00,525 Now let's bring our awareness once again 1187 01:01:00,612 --> 01:01:04,878 back to the people around this table. 1188 01:01:08,882 --> 01:01:13,887 Knowing that everyone at this table shares a special bond. 1189 01:01:15,889 --> 01:01:18,805 I got my PhD in Health Psychology and Behavioral Medicine 1190 01:01:18,892 --> 01:01:21,546 and began working a lot with people with cancer. 1191 01:01:21,633 --> 01:01:23,679 All of that has led to the development 1192 01:01:23,766 --> 01:01:26,813 of a nonprofit organization called True North Treks 1193 01:01:26,900 --> 01:01:29,685 where we take young adults with cancer 1194 01:01:29,772 --> 01:01:32,644 out into beautiful back country wilderness destinations 1195 01:01:32,732 --> 01:01:35,212 where we take them backpacking and canoeing 1196 01:01:35,299 --> 01:01:37,301 and help them reconnect with their peers 1197 01:01:37,388 --> 01:01:39,173 who have been through something similar. 1198 01:01:39,260 --> 01:01:40,827 And then help them learn to connect again with themselves 1199 01:01:40,914 --> 01:01:42,437 through training and mindfulness 1200 01:01:42,524 --> 01:01:44,700 and through mindful movement and yoga. 1201 01:01:57,800 --> 01:02:00,281 Every night I'm like what is it doing there 1202 01:02:00,368 --> 01:02:02,326 and just freaking out and not sleeping. 1203 01:02:03,937 --> 01:02:07,505 And until, I had to do something outside of my comfort zone 1204 01:02:07,592 --> 01:02:10,291 which was do the trek and it was the best thing 1205 01:02:10,378 --> 01:02:12,554 that I've ever done in my life. 1206 01:02:15,818 --> 01:02:18,386 We hear the word transformed all the time 1207 01:02:18,473 --> 01:02:19,866 and it's a combination. 1208 01:02:19,953 --> 01:02:21,519 It's a combination of being in nature 1209 01:02:21,606 --> 01:02:23,608 in such incredibly beautiful places, 1210 01:02:23,695 --> 01:02:27,569 it's about that power of social connection with their peers, 1211 01:02:27,656 --> 01:02:30,311 and it's about learning to cultivate a sense 1212 01:02:30,398 --> 01:02:33,836 of self-compassion for themselves through mindful awareness. 1213 01:02:43,498 --> 01:02:45,282 Huffington Post. 1214 01:02:45,369 --> 01:02:46,414 This idea of mindful leadership is provocative. 1215 01:02:46,501 --> 01:02:48,329 Tell us exactly what that means. 1216 01:02:48,416 --> 01:02:51,288 Okay, so the aspirational definition of a mindful leader 1217 01:02:51,375 --> 01:02:53,464 is someone who embodies presence 1218 01:02:53,551 --> 01:02:56,903 by cultivating four fundamentals of excellence: 1219 01:02:56,990 --> 01:03:00,254 focus, clarity, creativity, and compassion. 1220 01:03:00,341 --> 01:03:02,952 Now every floor in the new Salesforce Tower 1221 01:03:03,039 --> 01:03:05,607 in San Francisco is being drawn up 1222 01:03:05,694 --> 01:03:07,914 to include a mindfulness zone. 1223 01:03:17,097 --> 01:03:20,796 More and more companies are recognizing stress as an issue 1224 01:03:20,883 --> 01:03:22,450 and resilience as a goal 1225 01:03:22,537 --> 01:03:24,365 and mindfulness as way to get there. 1226 01:03:26,758 --> 01:03:28,673 So what I want to do today is just give you a little, 1227 01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:31,372 a brief introduction about what mindfulness is 1228 01:03:32,547 --> 01:03:33,940 and then we're gonna do 1229 01:03:34,027 --> 01:03:35,550 a brief mindfulness practice together. 1230 01:03:35,637 --> 01:03:37,465 The title of Chief Mindfulness Officer 1231 01:03:37,552 --> 01:03:40,424 definitely gets people's attention, I have to say. 1232 01:03:40,511 --> 01:03:44,385 It gets people very curious about what Aetna's doing. 1233 01:03:44,472 --> 01:03:47,605 Mindfulness can help you to reduce your stress level. 1234 01:03:49,390 --> 01:03:51,783 And stress is something that affects every part of the body. 1235 01:03:51,871 --> 01:03:55,483 It affects our heart, it affects our breathing, 1236 01:03:55,570 --> 01:03:59,052 it affects our digestion, it affects our immune system. 1237 01:03:59,139 --> 01:04:02,664 It is really an amazing role because what we get to do 1238 01:04:02,751 --> 01:04:05,928 as a department is, number one, 1239 01:04:06,015 --> 01:04:10,367 we get to come up really to kind of brainstorm ways 1240 01:04:10,454 --> 01:04:14,328 of bringing mindfulness to our employees, and number two, 1241 01:04:14,415 --> 01:04:18,549 we get to think about how to bring mindfulness 1242 01:04:18,636 --> 01:04:19,681 to our members. 1243 01:04:21,074 --> 01:04:23,598 So there's over 24 million people 1244 01:04:23,685 --> 01:04:28,690 who have some insurance connection with Aetna. 1245 01:04:30,431 --> 01:04:31,780 Aetna's mindfulness program started at the top 1246 01:04:31,867 --> 01:04:34,000 with a directive from CEO Mark Bertolini 1247 01:04:34,087 --> 01:04:36,872 following an accident in 2004. 1248 01:04:36,959 --> 01:04:39,701 I broke my neck skiing and detached the nerve root 1249 01:04:39,788 --> 01:04:42,834 for my arm that connected it to my spinal cord. 1250 01:04:42,922 --> 01:04:44,706 And almost died, right? 1251 01:04:44,793 --> 01:04:45,881 They gave me last rites in the helicopter 1252 01:04:45,968 --> 01:04:47,709 on the way to the hospital. 1253 01:04:47,796 --> 01:04:49,363 He became exposed to meditation and yoga 1254 01:04:49,450 --> 01:04:51,408 as a way to manage his pain. 1255 01:04:51,495 --> 01:04:53,628 And through that recovery and his experience 1256 01:04:53,715 --> 01:04:55,978 with mindfulness and meditation and yoga, 1257 01:04:56,065 --> 01:04:58,502 he discovered not only that he could manage his pain better, 1258 01:04:58,589 --> 01:05:00,461 but it had a lot of other benefits. 1259 01:05:00,548 --> 01:05:02,028 You might imagine your thoughts 1260 01:05:02,115 --> 01:05:07,120 to be like leaves floating down a stream. 1261 01:05:08,773 --> 01:05:12,560 Watching one leaf at a time as it floats by. 1262 01:05:14,736 --> 01:05:18,609 We developed a program in collaboration 1263 01:05:18,696 --> 01:05:20,394 with a vendor called eMindful. 1264 01:05:20,481 --> 01:05:22,744 The program is called Mindfulness at Work 1265 01:05:22,831 --> 01:05:25,703 and it meets once a week for 12 weeks 1266 01:05:28,141 --> 01:05:29,142 and it's virtual. 1267 01:05:29,229 --> 01:05:30,970 And during those 12 weeks 1268 01:05:31,057 --> 01:05:33,537 you're expected to do a mindfulness practice every day. 1269 01:05:33,624 --> 01:05:35,670 And what we found is that it significantly 1270 01:05:35,757 --> 01:05:37,063 reduces people's stress. 1271 01:05:38,151 --> 01:05:39,717 And we also found that people 1272 01:05:39,804 --> 01:05:41,850 are able to spend more productive time at work, 1273 01:05:41,937 --> 01:05:44,592 less time being distracted by physical pain, 1274 01:05:44,679 --> 01:05:46,463 or emotional challenges. 1275 01:05:46,550 --> 01:05:50,076 Over 45 minutes a week more productive time at work. 1276 01:05:50,163 --> 01:05:55,168 So those things have a big impact on a person's well-being 1277 01:05:56,604 --> 01:05:57,866 and also the company's bottom line. 1278 01:06:16,189 --> 01:06:18,452 If we ever want to solve our health crisis 1279 01:06:18,539 --> 01:06:21,107 we have to address the issues of healthy living 1280 01:06:21,194 --> 01:06:22,804 because unhealthy lifestyles 1281 01:06:22,891 --> 01:06:26,938 are causing 50 to 70% of all health care costs. 1282 01:06:27,026 --> 01:06:28,766 So instead of looking for the cure, 1283 01:06:28,853 --> 01:06:30,942 we need to cure inside ourself. 1284 01:06:31,030 --> 01:06:32,814 As we incorporate mindfulness 1285 01:06:32,901 --> 01:06:35,860 into an integral part of our health programs, 1286 01:06:35,947 --> 01:06:38,646 I think it's our best shot at improving the overall health 1287 01:06:38,733 --> 01:06:40,039 of the American people. 1288 01:06:42,258 --> 01:06:47,002 Around 40 years ago I was leading a very stress-filled life. 1289 01:06:47,089 --> 01:06:50,179 I was trying to ramp up the microwave oven business 1290 01:06:50,266 --> 01:06:52,964 at Litton Industries and my wife dragged me 1291 01:06:53,052 --> 01:06:56,142 kicking and screaming to a meditation seminar. 1292 01:06:56,229 --> 01:06:58,231 And they said 20 minutes twice a day. 1293 01:06:58,318 --> 01:07:00,102 I said, oh really? 1294 01:07:00,189 --> 01:07:03,932 So I've been meditating 20 minutes twice a day ever since. 1295 01:07:04,019 --> 01:07:06,543 42 years now and it's been the best thing 1296 01:07:06,630 --> 01:07:08,067 that ever happened to me. 1297 01:07:08,154 --> 01:07:10,243 'Cause at that time I had high blood pressure 1298 01:07:10,330 --> 01:07:11,679 and it'd come way down. 1299 01:07:13,028 --> 01:07:14,856 Well 20 years ago my wife had breast cancer 1300 01:07:14,943 --> 01:07:16,814 and she went through the medical procedures 1301 01:07:16,901 --> 01:07:20,122 like mastectomies and follow on chemotherapy 1302 01:07:20,209 --> 01:07:21,863 but she wanted something more. 1303 01:07:21,950 --> 01:07:25,258 Penny launched the Penny George Institute 1304 01:07:25,345 --> 01:07:27,086 at Allina Health System, 1305 01:07:27,173 --> 01:07:28,913 the largest health system in the Twin Cities 1306 01:07:29,000 --> 01:07:30,698 of Minneapolis-St. Paul. 1307 01:07:30,785 --> 01:07:33,614 And it became a regular practice then. 1308 01:07:33,701 --> 01:07:35,529 As they would say facetiously, 1309 01:07:35,616 --> 01:07:38,532 "Meditation or medication, take your pick." 1310 01:07:38,619 --> 01:07:40,708 My most creative ideas come out of meditation 1311 01:07:40,795 --> 01:07:43,102 because you clear away all the clutter 1312 01:07:43,189 --> 01:07:46,192 and all of a sudden you can see things clearly. 1313 01:07:46,279 --> 01:07:49,108 Over the years student interest has grown tremendously. 1314 01:07:49,195 --> 01:07:50,805 I'm teaching executives now. 1315 01:07:50,892 --> 01:07:53,286 We offer a special course in meditation 1316 01:07:53,373 --> 01:07:55,201 and it's way oversold. 1317 01:07:55,288 --> 01:07:59,030 And so it's nice to see how much interest there is. 1318 01:07:59,118 --> 01:08:01,555 I find amongst CEOs there's a tremendous amount 1319 01:08:01,642 --> 01:08:03,034 of interest today. 1320 01:08:03,122 --> 01:08:04,340 That never existed 10, 20 years ago. 1321 01:08:09,693 --> 01:08:12,000 Mobile devices don't have to be a distraction. 1322 01:08:12,087 --> 01:08:13,741 They can actually keep you centered. 1323 01:08:13,828 --> 01:08:15,177 We've rounded up some apps 1324 01:08:15,264 --> 01:08:16,570 that will help you meditate and be mindful. 1325 01:08:20,704 --> 01:08:22,141 What causes people to download 1326 01:08:22,228 --> 01:08:24,752 and engage with this over time? 1327 01:08:24,839 --> 01:08:26,275 Yes, so in the early days, 1328 01:08:26,362 --> 01:08:28,103 I think people thought we were a bit crazy. 1329 01:08:28,190 --> 01:08:30,671 Mindfulness and meditation felt like a bit of a niche. 1330 01:08:30,758 --> 01:08:32,325 Would people really pay for it? 1331 01:08:32,412 --> 01:08:35,197 But my goodness the world needs this. 1332 01:08:39,332 --> 01:08:41,595 People tell me that they sit at home 1333 01:08:41,682 --> 01:08:43,336 and they let their mind go blank 1334 01:08:43,423 --> 01:08:45,120 which is what they think they're supposed to be doing. 1335 01:08:45,207 --> 01:08:47,253 Of course our brains never go blank and they get up 1336 01:08:47,340 --> 01:08:49,211 and they're like, "This is not for me. 1337 01:08:49,298 --> 01:08:50,821 "It might be for that other person who figured it out, 1338 01:08:50,908 --> 01:08:52,649 "but it's not for me." 1339 01:08:52,736 --> 01:08:55,130 So we built be Muse to really help solve that problem. 1340 01:08:59,134 --> 01:09:01,267 Instead of dividing and distracting, 1341 01:09:01,354 --> 01:09:03,834 some new forms of technology have the ability 1342 01:09:03,921 --> 01:09:05,445 to calm and connect. 1343 01:09:07,186 --> 01:09:08,665 This is Muse. 1344 01:09:08,752 --> 01:09:09,797 You have sensors here on the forehead 1345 01:09:09,884 --> 01:09:11,233 that pick up your brainwaves 1346 01:09:11,320 --> 01:09:13,366 and also sensors behind each ear. 1347 01:09:17,152 --> 01:09:19,633 It connects wirelessly to your smartphone or tablet 1348 01:09:19,720 --> 01:09:21,069 and then when you slip the headband on, 1349 01:09:21,156 --> 01:09:23,289 it actually reads your brain data 1350 01:09:23,376 --> 01:09:26,161 and translates that into guiding sounds. 1351 01:09:26,248 --> 01:09:27,815 When you're thinking, distracted, 1352 01:09:27,902 --> 01:09:29,295 your brain's bouncing all over the place, 1353 01:09:29,382 --> 01:09:30,992 you hear it as windy. 1354 01:09:31,079 --> 01:09:34,300 And as you come to clear focused attention, 1355 01:09:34,387 --> 01:09:36,302 it quiets the winds. 1356 01:09:36,389 --> 01:09:37,868 If you stay very quiet 1357 01:09:37,955 --> 01:09:39,696 you'll even hear little birds chirping. 1358 01:09:48,792 --> 01:09:51,186 At the end of your meditation you actually get to see 1359 01:09:51,273 --> 01:09:53,232 what your brain was doing every moment. 1360 01:09:56,322 --> 01:09:58,672 There are additional guiding sounds choices 1361 01:09:58,759 --> 01:10:01,152 as well as guided meditations on various topics 1362 01:10:01,240 --> 01:10:04,068 from leading teachers including Deepak Chopra. 1363 01:10:06,854 --> 01:10:08,290 So I was an early adopter of that. 1364 01:10:08,377 --> 01:10:09,987 So my boys became interested in the Muse 1365 01:10:10,074 --> 01:10:11,859 because it's technology, period. 1366 01:10:11,946 --> 01:10:14,165 Because they are very much of their generation. 1367 01:10:16,037 --> 01:10:17,386 But they also actually really use it 1368 01:10:17,473 --> 01:10:19,867 and sit in it from a mindfulness perspective. 1369 01:10:31,444 --> 01:10:34,882 I hacked into it a little bit and into the process 1370 01:10:34,969 --> 01:10:37,058 and I just started using it while I did my stretches 1371 01:10:37,145 --> 01:10:40,801 and doing yoga and then doing a workout. 1372 01:10:40,888 --> 01:10:45,196 I would take my Muse on the subway at rush hour 1373 01:10:45,284 --> 01:10:48,069 which is a chaotic situation that frustrates a lot of people 1374 01:10:48,156 --> 01:10:49,853 and the goal was always to try to maintain 1375 01:10:49,940 --> 01:10:51,333 some kind of calm in the chaos. 1376 01:10:53,901 --> 01:10:55,337 Put it on like this. 1377 01:10:56,817 --> 01:10:58,122 Come in and tighten. 1378 01:10:58,209 --> 01:11:01,387 I'll often send patients home with a Muse 1379 01:11:01,474 --> 01:11:04,128 for a couple of weeks of practice 1380 01:11:04,215 --> 01:11:07,044 and then I have them check back with me to discuss 1381 01:11:07,131 --> 01:11:10,047 and explore some of the things that have come up for them. 1382 01:11:12,311 --> 01:11:13,747 Interaxon is also looking 1383 01:11:13,834 --> 01:11:16,271 to take the Muse system to the next level. 1384 01:11:19,100 --> 01:11:20,493 In VR experiences, 1385 01:11:20,580 --> 01:11:23,887 you create a totally immersive experience. 1386 01:11:23,974 --> 01:11:25,324 I think a great example of this 1387 01:11:25,411 --> 01:11:28,936 is let's say you have a fear of heights. 1388 01:11:29,023 --> 01:11:32,026 So what we can do then is create meditation experiences 1389 01:11:32,113 --> 01:11:34,463 that allow you to work with that fear directly. 1390 01:11:53,395 --> 01:11:54,962 What we're going to spend some time with now 1391 01:11:55,049 --> 01:11:57,965 is talking about difficult conversations 1392 01:11:58,052 --> 01:12:01,229 and really grounding this conversation in some work 1393 01:12:01,316 --> 01:12:03,187 that was done out of Harvard 1394 01:12:03,274 --> 01:12:05,276 and the Harvard Negotiation Project. 1395 01:12:06,626 --> 01:12:08,149 Tech companies known 1396 01:12:08,236 --> 01:12:10,238 for being on the leading edge of change 1397 01:12:10,325 --> 01:12:13,546 are also embracing mindfulness programs for their employees. 1398 01:12:15,548 --> 01:12:19,073 The nonprofit Search Inside Yourself Leadership Institute, 1399 01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:22,250 or SIYLI, grew out of the Search Inside Yourself program 1400 01:12:22,337 --> 01:12:25,514 developed at Google by Chade-Meng Tan in 2007. 1401 01:12:27,081 --> 01:12:28,387 Rich Fernandez joined soon after. 1402 01:12:30,606 --> 01:12:33,522 It was kind of just a quarterly offering 1403 01:12:33,609 --> 01:12:35,219 but it was getting more and more attention 1404 01:12:35,306 --> 01:12:37,047 as mindfulness gained momentum. 1405 01:12:37,134 --> 01:12:39,223 And now we have thousands of Google employees 1406 01:12:39,310 --> 01:12:42,444 going through Search Inside Yourself. 1407 01:12:42,531 --> 01:12:44,838 Google then allowed the program to be expanded 1408 01:12:44,925 --> 01:12:47,101 beyond Google employees through SIYLI. 1409 01:12:48,929 --> 01:12:50,539 The unique approach in Search Inside Yourself 1410 01:12:50,626 --> 01:12:53,368 is that we offer secular science-based mindfulness 1411 01:12:53,455 --> 01:12:54,978 and emotional intelligence. 1412 01:12:55,065 --> 01:12:57,459 And we offer this as a set of trainable skills 1413 01:12:57,546 --> 01:13:00,941 that impact both well-being as well as performance, 1414 01:13:01,028 --> 01:13:03,073 and importantly, leadership, 1415 01:13:03,160 --> 01:13:04,858 and they get to interact with their peers 1416 01:13:04,945 --> 01:13:07,251 in a particular way based on our curriculum 1417 01:13:07,338 --> 01:13:09,428 so that they can actually see some of the effects 1418 01:13:09,515 --> 01:13:12,518 this has on things like listening, 1419 01:13:12,605 --> 01:13:15,259 building trust, greater collaboration. 1420 01:13:17,000 --> 01:13:18,959 They exercise what we would call mindful listening 1421 01:13:19,046 --> 01:13:21,875 which is to listen with the intention to understand 1422 01:13:21,962 --> 01:13:24,573 rather than to react or respond. 1423 01:13:24,660 --> 01:13:28,055 It's possible to exercise mindfulness while we walk. 1424 01:13:28,142 --> 01:13:31,624 And the sense of solidity and connection that we have, 1425 01:13:31,711 --> 01:13:35,410 it can really be accessed when we slow down. 1426 01:13:35,497 --> 01:13:38,065 It sounds simple but it's not easy 1427 01:13:38,152 --> 01:13:39,632 because when you try to pay attention 1428 01:13:39,719 --> 01:13:42,243 to what that experience of walking is like, 1429 01:13:42,330 --> 01:13:45,594 it's very often the case that the mind's gonna wander away 1430 01:13:45,681 --> 01:13:47,901 and the attention is gonna be elsewhere. 1431 01:13:47,988 --> 01:13:52,035 Lost in thoughts, ideas, and feelings, to-do lists. 1432 01:14:19,498 --> 01:14:21,500 No one I don't think should approach mindfulness 1433 01:14:21,587 --> 01:14:26,330 or meditation as having a specific prescription. 1434 01:14:26,417 --> 01:14:28,115 It's an invitation for it to land 1435 01:14:28,202 --> 01:14:30,160 in the way that it does on each person. 1436 01:14:32,598 --> 01:14:35,122 Scott Kriens devoted part of his tech fortune 1437 01:14:35,209 --> 01:14:38,342 to creating one of the newest retreat centers in the west, 1438 01:14:38,429 --> 01:14:42,521 the 1440 Multiversity above Santa Cruz, California. 1439 01:14:44,610 --> 01:14:48,527 It's 20 minutes from downtown Silicon Valley 1440 01:14:48,614 --> 01:14:52,313 and it's a 75-acre redwood forest basically. 1441 01:14:52,400 --> 01:14:56,578 And 1440 is named because that's the number of minutes 1442 01:14:56,665 --> 01:15:00,974 in a day and it's about being present 1443 01:15:01,061 --> 01:15:03,454 and aware for each one of those. 1444 01:15:03,542 --> 01:15:07,284 And that's a mindfulness task in itself. 1445 01:15:08,721 --> 01:15:11,201 If we're self-aware and we show up authentically 1446 01:15:11,288 --> 01:15:12,638 we can build trust. 1447 01:15:12,725 --> 01:15:14,988 And if we build trust in relationships, 1448 01:15:15,075 --> 01:15:16,729 whether it's in your family, in your workplace, 1449 01:15:16,816 --> 01:15:21,385 in your community, between nations, the world is better. 1450 01:15:21,472 --> 01:15:23,257 So some of the important work 1451 01:15:23,344 --> 01:15:25,172 that's made the biggest difference in my life 1452 01:15:25,259 --> 01:15:29,045 has happened in person in deep immersion with others 1453 01:15:29,132 --> 01:15:31,178 and that's really what Multiversity is here 1454 01:15:31,265 --> 01:15:33,572 to invite people to experience. 1455 01:15:46,672 --> 01:15:51,546 Mindfulness and awareness is a basic human capability 1456 01:15:51,633 --> 01:15:55,202 that we have that we sometimes lose track of 1457 01:15:55,289 --> 01:15:56,769 and we need to kind of get back. 1458 01:15:58,814 --> 01:16:00,686 As mindfulness spreads, 1459 01:16:00,773 --> 01:16:03,732 one surprising place it's emerging is in politics. 1460 01:16:05,516 --> 01:16:07,388 We're in a really unique spot I think 1461 01:16:07,475 --> 01:16:11,392 in the country's history where things are so hyper-partisan 1462 01:16:11,479 --> 01:16:15,526 and there's just a lot of fear, a lot of anger. 1463 01:16:17,572 --> 01:16:19,182 I got elected to solve problems 1464 01:16:19,269 --> 01:16:20,662 and that means working with people 1465 01:16:20,749 --> 01:16:22,533 who don't always think the way that you do 1466 01:16:22,621 --> 01:16:26,537 and figuring out a way to listen, deep listening, 1467 01:16:26,625 --> 01:16:29,410 to really see where they're coming from. 1468 01:16:29,497 --> 01:16:31,281 Maybe there's something in there 1469 01:16:31,368 --> 01:16:33,675 that we can agree on and we could work on together. 1470 01:16:35,546 --> 01:16:38,462 What first drew me to the practice of mindfulness, 1471 01:16:38,549 --> 01:16:41,727 I grew up Catholic, I went to Catholic school. 1472 01:16:41,814 --> 01:16:46,427 It was such a relief for me to say I could keep that 1473 01:16:46,514 --> 01:16:48,385 and then learn this amazing, 1474 01:16:48,472 --> 01:16:50,257 develop this amazing understanding 1475 01:16:50,344 --> 01:16:53,739 of what it means to be a human being. 1476 01:16:53,826 --> 01:16:56,263 And that was a big relief for me. 1477 01:16:56,350 --> 01:16:58,352 And that's when I got inspired to write the book 1478 01:16:58,439 --> 01:17:01,616 because I thought, "Wow, this is a secular practice 1479 01:17:01,703 --> 01:17:04,227 "and so we can teach this in our healthcare system. 1480 01:17:04,314 --> 01:17:06,273 "We can teach this in our schools. 1481 01:17:06,360 --> 01:17:08,667 "This is healing our veterans." 1482 01:17:08,754 --> 01:17:10,799 Today Tim is sharing his thoughts 1483 01:17:10,886 --> 01:17:13,759 on mindfulness with Sharon Salzberg at an event 1484 01:17:13,846 --> 01:17:15,935 called Healing the Heart of Democracy. 1485 01:17:17,763 --> 01:17:20,722 We have to reconnect because the old ways 1486 01:17:20,809 --> 01:17:25,248 of connecting are in many ways not working. 1487 01:17:25,335 --> 01:17:29,775 I feel like there's a quiet revolution happening 1488 01:17:29,862 --> 01:17:31,602 in the country. 1489 01:17:31,690 --> 01:17:34,649 Not just the growing appreciation 1490 01:17:34,736 --> 01:17:36,782 and understanding for contemplative practices. 1491 01:17:36,869 --> 01:17:39,741 We've just got these old systems 1492 01:17:39,828 --> 01:17:42,396 that were built for a time that no longer exists. 1493 01:17:42,483 --> 01:17:47,314 We need to all be tapping into what's best inside of us 1494 01:17:47,401 --> 01:17:49,229 and what's most creative inside of us 1495 01:17:49,316 --> 01:17:52,841 and it starts with, very simply, paying attention. 1496 01:17:54,408 --> 01:17:56,279 We're very fortunate, thank you. 1497 01:18:05,419 --> 01:18:09,249 I'm happy see you guys, what a great crowd, hey! 1498 01:18:09,336 --> 01:18:10,467 - Hey! - Yeah! 1499 01:18:11,991 --> 01:18:13,775 As the movement grows, 1500 01:18:13,862 --> 01:18:16,691 it's clear mindfulness really can be used anywhere. 1501 01:18:16,778 --> 01:18:18,911 Mindfulness has been great for my stand-up 1502 01:18:18,998 --> 01:18:21,827 because when I feel nervous or whatever 1503 01:18:21,914 --> 01:18:23,480 I don't have to give in to that. 1504 01:18:23,567 --> 01:18:25,221 I just have to look at, "Oh, I'm next." 1505 01:18:25,308 --> 01:18:26,701 And be aware of what's happening 1506 01:18:26,788 --> 01:18:28,355 and then just go up and do my thing 1507 01:18:28,442 --> 01:18:29,486 instead of spinning or making my heart pound. 1508 01:18:29,573 --> 01:18:31,401 Anybody know about mindfulness? 1509 01:18:31,488 --> 01:18:33,273 No? 1510 01:18:33,360 --> 01:18:35,362 But what I'm excited to do now, even take it a step further, 1511 01:18:35,449 --> 01:18:38,713 is to actually share tidbits about mindfulness 1512 01:18:38,800 --> 01:18:42,456 without saying "I'm gonna teach you about mindfulness." 1513 01:18:44,284 --> 01:18:45,851 And when I've been doing it I'm realizing oh my gosh, 1514 01:18:45,938 --> 01:18:47,940 my whole life I've been like multitasking, 1515 01:18:48,027 --> 01:18:51,378 which used to be sexy and hip but that's so 2016, 1516 01:18:51,465 --> 01:18:52,771 because what that means 1517 01:18:52,858 --> 01:18:53,859 is you're doing everything half-assed. 1518 01:18:54,947 --> 01:18:56,687 Do you like it? 1519 01:18:56,775 --> 01:18:58,559 Leigh's hectic life also includes 1520 01:18:58,646 --> 01:19:01,692 being married to film and TV star, David Koechner, 1521 01:19:01,780 --> 01:19:03,346 and raising five children. 1522 01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:06,567 Before I would look at 'em like this where they talked 1523 01:19:06,654 --> 01:19:07,873 to my back while I was at the computer. 1524 01:19:07,960 --> 01:19:08,917 "Uh-huh!" 1525 01:19:09,004 --> 01:19:09,918 Or I'm driving. 1526 01:19:10,005 --> 01:19:11,746 "Uh-huh, okay Junior." 1527 01:19:11,833 --> 01:19:13,661 And then all of a sudden now 1528 01:19:13,748 --> 01:19:16,272 I'm looking directly in their eyes and they have all of me 1529 01:19:16,359 --> 01:19:17,839 and they see that I really see them 1530 01:19:17,926 --> 01:19:19,493 and they're almost overwhelmed. 1531 01:19:19,580 --> 01:19:21,364 I can study with you. 1532 01:19:21,451 --> 01:19:23,497 My mother was mentally ill and I kind of grew up, 1533 01:19:23,584 --> 01:19:25,325 she was locked behind her door. 1534 01:19:25,412 --> 01:19:27,240 And when I became a mom I didn't really know what the heck 1535 01:19:27,327 --> 01:19:28,763 to do with my kids 'cause it wasn't mirrored for me. 1536 01:19:28,850 --> 01:19:31,592 And I thought what did I need from her? 1537 01:19:31,679 --> 01:19:34,290 What would have been my dream is for her to see me 1538 01:19:34,377 --> 01:19:36,640 and to hear me, to know that I mattered. 1539 01:19:36,727 --> 01:19:39,600 And from that basic principle has been the foundation 1540 01:19:39,687 --> 01:19:42,255 of the simplicity that parenting could be. 1541 01:19:42,342 --> 01:19:45,780 We said we would like to keep the homeless in our prayers. 1542 01:19:45,867 --> 01:19:47,434 Leigh also shares her insights 1543 01:19:47,521 --> 01:19:48,870 as the parenting expert 1544 01:19:48,957 --> 01:19:51,786 on Deepak Chopra's digital platform, JIYO. 1545 01:19:56,356 --> 01:19:59,925 The two most important things you can do as a parent 1546 01:20:00,012 --> 01:20:03,754 is to see your child and to hear your child. 1547 01:20:03,842 --> 01:20:06,627 That's it, it's that easy. 1548 01:20:06,714 --> 01:20:10,283 And look at my fingers, it's a peace sign. 1549 01:20:10,370 --> 01:20:12,111 If you do these two things with your child, 1550 01:20:12,198 --> 01:20:15,897 you will raise a peaceful child to send out into the world. 1551 01:20:15,984 --> 01:20:18,334 People have known the experience 1552 01:20:18,421 --> 01:20:20,946 of being aware for thousands of years 1553 01:20:21,033 --> 01:20:24,950 but it's always been a few luminaries in society. 1554 01:20:25,037 --> 01:20:27,387 Now because of social media, 1555 01:20:27,474 --> 01:20:30,042 because of the way we can spread information, 1556 01:20:30,129 --> 01:20:35,134 that experience which was a privilege for a few luminaries 1557 01:20:36,396 --> 01:20:38,833 becomes available to everyone. 1558 01:20:38,920 --> 01:20:40,922 I hope you will watch this movie, 1559 01:20:41,009 --> 01:20:42,968 "The Mindfulness Movement," 1560 01:20:43,055 --> 01:20:46,972 that you will participate in this movement itself. 1561 01:20:47,059 --> 01:20:52,064 We can do it together but we can do it only by waking up 1562 01:20:53,935 --> 01:20:56,416 and being mindfully aware of experience as it happens 1563 01:20:57,852 --> 01:21:00,899 and mindfully aware of choices that we make. 1564 01:21:16,131 --> 01:21:18,003 It was interesting talking with her. 1565 01:21:18,090 --> 01:21:19,874 I have a lot of material so we'll see what comes out. 1566 01:21:19,961 --> 01:21:21,920 Well we're gonna start the meeting 1567 01:21:22,007 --> 01:21:23,530 with some meditation first 1568 01:21:23,617 --> 01:21:25,010 and then I'm gonna ask you another question 1569 01:21:25,097 --> 01:21:27,882 about that 'cause I'm curious. 1570 01:21:27,969 --> 01:21:29,014 Okay. 1571 01:21:29,101 --> 01:21:29,928 Should we start? 1572 01:21:31,799 --> 01:21:34,845 Mindful Magazine editor-in-chief, Barry Boyce, 1573 01:21:34,933 --> 01:21:37,892 along with publisher Jim Gimian got the first issue 1574 01:21:37,979 --> 01:21:40,460 onto newsstands in 2013. 1575 01:21:41,983 --> 01:21:45,030 Honestly it felt kinda crazy 1576 01:21:45,117 --> 01:21:49,077 because who starts a print magazine 1577 01:21:49,164 --> 01:21:52,559 in the era of of the iPhone? 1578 01:21:53,952 --> 01:21:55,779 But I think one of the key things 1579 01:21:55,866 --> 01:22:00,871 is that even though people are very attracted to information 1580 01:22:01,960 --> 01:22:04,571 that comes through their phones, 1581 01:22:04,658 --> 01:22:06,486 so many people have come to us 1582 01:22:06,573 --> 01:22:08,618 since we started Mindful and said, 1583 01:22:10,185 --> 01:22:13,536 "The very fact that I see this and that my mother sees it 1584 01:22:15,190 --> 01:22:19,238 "in the checkout line makes it seem like an ordinary thing." 1585 01:22:20,848 --> 01:22:23,416 And that's been the mission. 1586 01:22:23,503 --> 01:22:27,072 Claire, is Allison, is she a mindful interview 1587 01:22:27,159 --> 01:22:28,856 or a walk the talk? 1588 01:22:28,943 --> 01:22:30,249 We are hoping for her 1589 01:22:30,336 --> 01:22:31,990 to be a full interview feature like-- 1590 01:22:32,077 --> 01:22:34,079 Yeah, and the cover shoot? 1591 01:22:34,166 --> 01:22:35,950 - Yeah. - So she'll be on the cover. 1592 01:22:36,037 --> 01:22:37,908 One thing that we really try to avoid 1593 01:22:37,996 --> 01:22:39,562 is what I call bliss face 1594 01:22:39,649 --> 01:22:43,914 which is just someone in this state of ecstasy. 1595 01:22:44,002 --> 01:22:46,874 You see it a lot in advertising around mindfulness 1596 01:22:46,961 --> 01:22:48,876 and it's really not about that. 1597 01:22:48,963 --> 01:22:52,053 Mindfulness, it can be gritty, 1598 01:22:52,140 --> 01:22:55,970 it can be celebratory, it can be hard. 1599 01:22:56,057 --> 01:22:57,667 So the idea is that we'll illustrate 1600 01:22:57,754 --> 01:23:00,714 each of those little tips in a lively way 1601 01:23:00,801 --> 01:23:02,585 so that people will get a visual hit 1602 01:23:02,672 --> 01:23:05,545 of getting outside and finding a buddy. 1603 01:23:05,632 --> 01:23:08,113 All right, cool, yeah, that's great. 1604 01:23:08,200 --> 01:23:10,115 The importance of the digital side 1605 01:23:10,202 --> 01:23:14,554 is that there's just a lot larger community of people online 1606 01:23:15,903 --> 01:23:17,644 who are curious about both the practices 1607 01:23:17,731 --> 01:23:20,038 and learning more about the science. 1608 01:23:21,865 --> 01:23:23,954 If mindfulness were just about getting a little bit 1609 01:23:24,042 --> 01:23:28,263 of relaxation and checking out, 1610 01:23:31,223 --> 01:23:33,747 floating away, then I wouldn't care about it. 1611 01:23:33,834 --> 01:23:37,881 So you get some relaxation which allows you to look deeper 1612 01:23:37,968 --> 01:23:42,930 and that becomes a way of having a more direct 1613 01:23:44,149 --> 01:23:46,020 and authentic engagement with your life 1614 01:23:46,107 --> 01:23:47,108 and with other people. 1615 01:23:52,244 --> 01:23:53,854 The bus is ready for you. 1616 01:23:53,941 --> 01:23:55,769 I'm seeing the bus for the first time. 1617 01:23:55,856 --> 01:23:57,553 Let's go, let's have a look. 1618 01:23:57,640 --> 01:23:59,120 - This is-- - Check it out, for real. 1619 01:23:59,207 --> 01:24:00,121 I think the orange 1620 01:24:00,208 --> 01:24:01,079 goes with the white. 1621 01:24:03,124 --> 01:24:04,169 This is ridiculous. 1622 01:24:04,256 --> 01:24:05,170 Yeah. 1623 01:24:05,257 --> 01:24:06,171 After you, sir. 1624 01:24:08,782 --> 01:24:10,175 Thanks. 1625 01:24:10,262 --> 01:24:11,219 Hi, I'm Dan. 1626 01:24:11,306 --> 01:24:12,220 - Eddie. - Eddie? 1627 01:24:12,307 --> 01:24:13,265 Nice to meet you, man. 1628 01:24:14,788 --> 01:24:16,006 Well basically that whole back 1629 01:24:16,094 --> 01:24:17,878 has been turned into a suite. 1630 01:24:17,965 --> 01:24:20,663 No big deal, just on a 10% Happier bus. 1631 01:24:20,750 --> 01:24:24,667 And 100,000 people might be actually finding a way 1632 01:24:24,754 --> 01:24:26,930 to a practice that might help them in some way? 1633 01:24:27,017 --> 01:24:30,543 I teamed up with one of my favorite meditation teachers, 1634 01:24:30,630 --> 01:24:33,154 Jeff Warren, who actually is Canadian, 1635 01:24:33,241 --> 01:24:37,550 but we did a cross-country US tour and the goal 1636 01:24:37,637 --> 01:24:41,597 was to meet people who want to meditate but aren't. 1637 01:24:41,684 --> 01:24:44,252 So we decided to do this cross country tour, 1638 01:24:44,339 --> 01:24:48,082 this kinda gonzo mission where we met people. 1639 01:24:48,169 --> 01:24:52,304 We met cops, met military cadets, teachers, celebrities, 1640 01:24:52,391 --> 01:24:55,742 and talked to them about what's standing in the way? 1641 01:24:55,829 --> 01:24:58,005 How do we get through that barrier? 1642 01:24:58,092 --> 01:24:59,920 - That is is a great-- - Yes. 1643 01:25:00,007 --> 01:25:02,836 I mean this, that's a very good question. 1644 01:25:02,923 --> 01:25:07,188 And sort of we did a taxonomy of issues. 1645 01:25:07,275 --> 01:25:09,277 The biggest ones are I don't have time for this. 1646 01:25:09,364 --> 01:25:10,844 I can't clear my mind. 1647 01:25:12,193 --> 01:25:13,760 This is self-indulgent. 1648 01:25:14,674 --> 01:25:15,936 I'll lose my edge. 1649 01:25:16,023 --> 01:25:18,025 People will think I look weird. 1650 01:25:18,112 --> 01:25:20,201 And consistency. 1651 01:25:21,333 --> 01:25:22,899 I started but I stopped 1652 01:25:22,986 --> 01:25:24,771 and now I can't get back on the wagon. 1653 01:25:24,858 --> 01:25:26,120 - Oh great, cool. - Meditation's pretty good. 1654 01:25:26,207 --> 01:25:27,904 Do I look happier? 1655 01:25:29,906 --> 01:25:31,343 Come on in here, we'll give you some one-on-one guidance. 1656 01:25:31,430 --> 01:25:33,127 Once I started doing it, it was clearly useful, 1657 01:25:33,214 --> 01:25:38,045 and stopping seemed masochistic even by my own standards. 1658 01:25:39,351 --> 01:25:40,961 But for other people it's really hard 1659 01:25:41,048 --> 01:25:42,876 to get this habit off the ground. 1660 01:25:42,963 --> 01:25:45,966 Sounds and thoughts and sensations, no problem. 1661 01:25:46,053 --> 01:25:48,621 You're just interested in the breath. 1662 01:25:48,708 --> 01:25:50,144 Five to 10 minutes a day 1663 01:25:50,231 --> 01:25:52,277 is often the recommendation for starting. 1664 01:25:52,364 --> 01:25:57,325 In our app we have a huge program called One Minute Counts. 1665 01:25:58,935 --> 01:26:00,328 Where even one minute of meditation is good. 1666 01:26:00,415 --> 01:26:02,635 It's not only true that one minute counts, 1667 01:26:02,722 --> 01:26:04,985 one second counts because one second is all it takes 1668 01:26:05,072 --> 01:26:08,989 to break yourself out of some trance. 1669 01:26:09,076 --> 01:26:11,905 I spent a lot of time puzzling over this very thing. 1670 01:26:11,992 --> 01:26:14,647 All of a sudden you're not being governed so powerfully 1671 01:26:14,734 --> 01:26:17,127 by your emotions and urges and impulses. 1672 01:26:18,259 --> 01:26:19,782 I think that meditation 1673 01:26:19,869 --> 01:26:21,784 is the next big public health revolution. 1674 01:26:21,871 --> 01:26:25,310 If a sizable percentage of the population 1675 01:26:25,397 --> 01:26:27,050 is less emotionally reactive, 1676 01:26:27,137 --> 01:26:29,314 what kind of impact would that have 1677 01:26:29,401 --> 01:26:34,406 in the classroom, in parenting situations, in workplaces, 1678 01:26:36,016 --> 01:26:39,193 in our politics, in our relationships. 1679 01:26:39,280 --> 01:26:41,848 This is, I think, has the potential 1680 01:26:41,935 --> 01:26:46,200 to have a genuine societal impact. 1681 01:27:04,218 --> 01:27:06,742 It's about developing the art of friendship 1682 01:27:06,829 --> 01:27:08,440 toward oneself and toward others, 1683 01:27:08,527 --> 01:27:10,703 toward all of life actually. 1684 01:27:10,790 --> 01:27:15,403 And these days I tend to use connection as a term. 1685 01:27:15,490 --> 01:27:17,231 In addition to mindfulness, 1686 01:27:17,318 --> 01:27:19,712 Sharon has become one of the leading teachers 1687 01:27:19,799 --> 01:27:23,455 of a related practice called Metta, or loving kindness. 1688 01:27:25,283 --> 01:27:27,981 I just intuitively understood that, in a way, 1689 01:27:29,374 --> 01:27:32,899 love was what I was seeking and that, 1690 01:27:32,986 --> 01:27:34,857 and for me and for many others, 1691 01:27:34,944 --> 01:27:38,296 that some greater degree of love or loving kindness 1692 01:27:38,383 --> 01:27:40,820 is the secret ingredient in mindfulness 1693 01:27:40,907 --> 01:27:42,735 In a very different way. 1694 01:27:42,822 --> 01:27:45,172 To really have an open mind means an open heart. 1695 01:27:45,259 --> 01:27:48,349 And the way we change how we pay attention 1696 01:27:48,436 --> 01:27:51,744 is through the silent repetition of certain phrases. 1697 01:27:51,831 --> 01:27:53,876 The phrases are the conduit for the heart's energy, 1698 01:27:53,963 --> 01:27:57,750 they're the vehicle that is going to allow us 1699 01:27:57,837 --> 01:28:00,840 to be different with ourselves and with others. 1700 01:28:06,280 --> 01:28:07,412 May I be safe. 1701 01:28:08,848 --> 01:28:09,501 Be happy. 1702 01:28:10,980 --> 01:28:11,590 Be healthy. 1703 01:28:13,853 --> 01:28:14,984 Live with ease. 1704 01:28:16,682 --> 01:28:18,945 Live with ease means in the things of day-to-day life 1705 01:28:19,032 --> 01:28:21,904 like livelihood and family, may it not be such a struggle. 1706 01:28:22,905 --> 01:28:24,167 May I live with ease. 1707 01:28:25,038 --> 01:28:26,213 May I be safe. 1708 01:28:27,519 --> 01:28:28,346 Be happy. 1709 01:28:30,130 --> 01:28:31,000 Be healthy. 1710 01:28:33,307 --> 01:28:34,482 Live with ease. 1711 01:28:36,049 --> 01:28:36,615 This is like the song of the heart. 1712 01:28:45,406 --> 01:28:47,060 And all beings everywhere. 1713 01:28:48,888 --> 01:28:51,499 All people, all creatures, all those in existence. 1714 01:28:51,586 --> 01:28:55,460 Near and far, known and unknown. 1715 01:28:55,547 --> 01:28:57,287 May all beings be safe. 1716 01:28:58,550 --> 01:28:59,377 Be happy. 1717 01:29:00,552 --> 01:29:01,422 Be healthy. 1718 01:29:02,989 --> 01:29:03,642 Live with ease. 1719 01:29:14,174 --> 01:29:15,828 It's this profound knowing that our lives 1720 01:29:15,915 --> 01:29:18,091 have something to do with one another 1721 01:29:18,178 --> 01:29:22,400 and the implication of that is that everybody counts 1722 01:29:22,487 --> 01:29:24,010 and everybody matters. 1723 01:29:24,097 --> 01:29:25,490 Not everyone's gonna be my best friend 1724 01:29:25,577 --> 01:29:27,405 but everybody matters. 1725 01:29:27,492 --> 01:29:31,017 And so what would it be like to have a day like that 1726 01:29:31,104 --> 01:29:34,194 where we really approached ourselves and others in that way? 1727 01:29:34,281 --> 01:29:35,587 It's kind of a nice thing to do 1728 01:29:35,674 --> 01:29:37,371 in the middle of the day, isn't it? 1729 01:29:39,242 --> 01:29:41,070 BUFHA pride on three, one-two-three! 1730 01:29:41,157 --> 01:29:42,681 BUFHA pride! 1731 01:29:48,469 --> 01:29:50,471 Allow things to come and go. 1732 01:29:50,558 --> 01:29:52,255 But we are actually recovering energy 1733 01:29:53,169 --> 01:29:55,563 we are cultivating calm. 1734 01:30:00,133 --> 01:30:01,613 After helping the Chicago Bulls 1735 01:30:01,700 --> 01:30:05,225 and Los Angeles Lakers win NBA championships, 1736 01:30:05,312 --> 01:30:06,879 George Mumford still works 1737 01:30:06,966 --> 01:30:09,272 with a variety of athletes and teams. 1738 01:30:10,622 --> 01:30:12,275 This is what we've been training for. 1739 01:30:12,362 --> 01:30:13,494 Manage the moment. 1740 01:30:15,365 --> 01:30:17,237 You manage this moment, the next moment is gonna be fine. 1741 01:30:17,324 --> 01:30:19,282 Then you get into a rhythm, you get into a flow. 1742 01:30:19,369 --> 01:30:20,893 Whatever you focus on grows. 1743 01:30:20,980 --> 01:30:22,329 So you focus on it's gonna be great. 1744 01:30:22,416 --> 01:30:24,157 Okay, you gotta feel that, 1745 01:30:24,244 --> 01:30:26,333 you gotta be a champion before you win a championship. 1746 01:30:26,420 --> 01:30:28,466 The wisdom George shares also applies 1747 01:30:28,553 --> 01:30:30,642 to much more than sports. 1748 01:30:30,729 --> 01:30:32,295 I worked with people from Yale to jail 1749 01:30:32,382 --> 01:30:33,427 locker room to boardroom. 1750 01:30:33,514 --> 01:30:35,081 For me you gotta be in pain 1751 01:30:35,168 --> 01:30:38,171 or you gotta be seeking pursuit of excellence. 1752 01:30:38,258 --> 01:30:41,435 Either one of those. There has to be a sense of urgency. 1753 01:30:41,522 --> 01:30:44,482 And if you don't know how your mind-body process works, 1754 01:30:44,569 --> 01:30:46,571 then you have very little chance 1755 01:30:46,658 --> 01:30:49,922 of living to your potential. 1756 01:30:50,009 --> 01:30:52,098 If you don't know who you are, 1757 01:30:52,185 --> 01:30:53,534 you could end up being anybody. 1758 01:30:53,621 --> 01:30:54,622 And if you don't know where you're going, 1759 01:30:54,709 --> 01:30:56,537 you could end up going anywhere. 1760 01:30:56,624 --> 01:30:57,669 The Rock's like talking about being like the big dog. 1761 01:30:59,279 --> 01:31:00,585 And they give it all 1762 01:31:00,672 --> 01:31:02,282 It's the joy of the moment, 1763 01:31:02,369 --> 01:31:04,502 it's the joy of doing the thing for no reason, 1764 01:31:04,589 --> 01:31:06,199 for the thing in and of itself. 1765 01:31:06,286 --> 01:31:08,288 So we can live life that way. 1766 01:31:08,375 --> 01:31:09,942 It doesn't matter if we're playing basketball 1767 01:31:10,029 --> 01:31:12,292 or listening to music or speaking to a loved one. 1768 01:31:12,379 --> 01:31:14,947 That is the real essence of this practice 1769 01:31:15,034 --> 01:31:17,210 is it has to be done full engagement, 1770 01:31:17,297 --> 01:31:21,170 full on, full joy, full wonder. 1771 01:31:21,257 --> 01:31:22,781 And when we can get to that point, 1772 01:31:24,478 --> 01:31:26,175 that's what it's all about. 1773 01:31:26,262 --> 01:31:27,133 Rock? 1774 01:31:27,220 --> 01:31:28,961 Yes. 1775 01:31:41,713 --> 01:31:44,454 I'd love to do a check in today on a couple things. 1776 01:31:44,542 --> 01:31:46,369 One is the app. I'd also... 1777 01:31:46,456 --> 01:31:48,502 We really like the kids to prove to themselves 1778 01:31:48,589 --> 01:31:50,504 that they can do everything 1779 01:31:50,591 --> 01:31:53,246 because that gives them an intrinsic sense of self-worth. 1780 01:31:53,333 --> 01:31:55,335 When Jewel was a homeless teenager, 1781 01:31:55,422 --> 01:31:59,121 she created her own mindfulness techniques to survive. 1782 01:31:59,208 --> 01:32:01,036 Now she works with at-risk teens 1783 01:32:01,123 --> 01:32:03,169 through her Jewel Never Broken program 1784 01:32:03,256 --> 01:32:06,520 at the Inspiring Children Foundation in Las Vegas, 1785 01:32:06,607 --> 01:32:08,522 co-founded by Ryan Wolfington. 1786 01:32:08,609 --> 01:32:11,656 We actually give them opportunities to struggle. 1787 01:32:11,743 --> 01:32:14,223 Do you guys wanna give an update on the app? 1788 01:32:14,310 --> 01:32:17,183 Sure, yeah so we have-- 1789 01:32:17,270 --> 01:32:20,142 They run the foundation, they run the website, 1790 01:32:20,229 --> 01:32:22,623 they do the fundraising, they do the video editing, 1791 01:32:22,710 --> 01:32:24,233 they do the marketing. 1792 01:32:25,365 --> 01:32:27,149 We teach them and guide them 1793 01:32:27,236 --> 01:32:29,108 but really they're given the task of problem solving 1794 01:32:29,195 --> 01:32:30,457 and proving to themselves 1795 01:32:30,544 --> 01:32:32,764 that they can creatively problem solve. 1796 01:32:32,851 --> 01:32:35,462 And when they are resilient, when they're tenacious, 1797 01:32:35,549 --> 01:32:38,726 when they stay with it, that there's tremendous reward. 1798 01:32:38,813 --> 01:32:41,033 On top of project driven learning, 1799 01:32:41,120 --> 01:32:43,035 we give them a psychology for life. 1800 01:32:43,122 --> 01:32:45,080 To be the observer of their thoughts, 1801 01:32:45,167 --> 01:32:48,214 to understand that not all thoughts and feelings are facts, 1802 01:32:48,301 --> 01:32:50,651 to check them, that they can choose which thoughts 1803 01:32:50,738 --> 01:32:52,871 and feelings to engage in, 1804 01:32:55,482 --> 01:32:59,051 to live mindfully, to live with vulnerability, 1805 01:32:59,138 --> 01:33:02,271 to live their values, to notice when they're not, 1806 01:33:02,358 --> 01:33:05,535 and to adjust, and to self-correct with kindness. 1807 01:33:07,668 --> 01:33:10,628 These kids live with a lot of courage. 1808 01:33:12,760 --> 01:33:14,544 It's inspiring to see. 1809 01:33:14,632 --> 01:33:16,459 Graduates of the Jewel Never Broken program 1810 01:33:16,546 --> 01:33:18,505 have gone on to top universities 1811 01:33:18,592 --> 01:33:21,726 including Stanford, Princeton, and Harvard. 1812 01:33:21,813 --> 01:33:25,251 K through 12 schools are also adopting the program. 1813 01:33:25,338 --> 01:33:27,383 So I thought it would be nice to do a check-in 1814 01:33:27,470 --> 01:33:29,211 and just see if anybody feels compelled 1815 01:33:29,298 --> 01:33:31,605 to talk about what thoughts they've been observing 1816 01:33:31,692 --> 01:33:33,215 that might be troubling them 1817 01:33:33,302 --> 01:33:35,130 or thoughts that they've been able to overcome. 1818 01:33:35,217 --> 01:33:36,828 Well I was really struggling with a variety 1819 01:33:36,915 --> 01:33:38,612 of different things especially with my relationship 1820 01:33:38,699 --> 01:33:40,440 with my dad. 1821 01:33:40,527 --> 01:33:42,311 He struggled with depression and suicidal thoughts 1822 01:33:42,398 --> 01:33:45,575 and stuff and sometimes he would tell me, 1823 01:33:45,663 --> 01:33:47,447 "You make me want to die. 1824 01:33:47,534 --> 01:33:48,927 Like "you're the reason that I'm in all this pain." 1825 01:33:49,014 --> 01:33:51,277 And that was really tough for me to handle 1826 01:33:51,364 --> 01:33:53,758 because it wasn't only him saying it, 1827 01:33:53,845 --> 01:33:57,762 it was a belief that I had held in my mind for a long time. 1828 01:33:57,849 --> 01:33:59,764 I tried to take my own life twice 1829 01:33:59,851 --> 01:34:02,288 and I would write down every single negative thought 1830 01:34:02,375 --> 01:34:04,333 and feeling that I would get in one column 1831 01:34:04,420 --> 01:34:06,161 and I would call it the lies. 1832 01:34:06,248 --> 01:34:07,641 And then in the next column I would write down 1833 01:34:07,728 --> 01:34:10,426 what I knew within myself to be true. 1834 01:34:10,513 --> 01:34:13,734 So that was kind of my first mindfulness experience. 1835 01:34:13,821 --> 01:34:16,215 As we talk about a lot, we're not our thoughts, 1836 01:34:16,302 --> 01:34:18,696 we're the observers of our thoughts... 1837 01:34:18,783 --> 01:34:20,436 Jewel's Never Broken philosophy 1838 01:34:20,523 --> 01:34:23,265 came from another trying time in her life. 1839 01:34:23,352 --> 01:34:25,833 After her initial success as a recording artist, 1840 01:34:25,920 --> 01:34:28,575 and while her mom was also her manager, 1841 01:34:28,662 --> 01:34:32,535 Jewel discovered she was millions of dollars in debt. 1842 01:34:32,622 --> 01:34:36,670 I realized I was broke, and in debt, 1843 01:34:36,757 --> 01:34:38,541 and that my mom isn't at all who I thought she was 1844 01:34:38,628 --> 01:34:39,673 when I was in my 30s. 1845 01:34:39,760 --> 01:34:40,761 It was a really big blow. 1846 01:34:42,284 --> 01:34:43,808 And it hit me really, really hard. 1847 01:34:45,940 --> 01:34:48,508 I was walking by a mirror one day at my house 1848 01:34:48,595 --> 01:34:51,424 and I remembered this allegory of the golden statue. 1849 01:34:52,904 --> 01:34:54,819 A warring tribe was coming to a village. 1850 01:34:54,906 --> 01:34:58,170 They decided to cover their golden statue in mud. 1851 01:34:58,257 --> 01:34:59,824 The warring tribe came and went. 1852 01:34:59,911 --> 01:35:02,174 The village forgot the value of this golden statue 1853 01:35:02,261 --> 01:35:04,829 until one day it rained and the gold was revealed. 1854 01:35:04,916 --> 01:35:06,744 I remembered that allegory 1855 01:35:06,831 --> 01:35:10,791 and it made me perceive myself in a different way. 1856 01:35:10,878 --> 01:35:13,359 I decided to approach myself not from the premise 1857 01:35:13,446 --> 01:35:15,622 that I was broken and I had to be fixed 1858 01:35:15,709 --> 01:35:20,714 but instead from the premise that a soul can't be broken. 1859 01:35:21,802 --> 01:35:23,369 I existed perfectly at all times 1860 01:35:23,456 --> 01:35:27,286 but I was covered in generations of hurt. 1861 01:35:28,678 --> 01:35:30,376 And I really more than fix myself, 1862 01:35:30,463 --> 01:35:33,596 I had to do an archaeological dig back to myself. 1863 01:35:33,683 --> 01:35:35,381 And when I approached things that way, 1864 01:35:35,468 --> 01:35:36,861 healing happened a lot quicker. 1865 01:35:38,471 --> 01:35:40,299 My number one job was gonna be having to learn 1866 01:35:40,386 --> 01:35:42,214 how to be a whole happy person 1867 01:35:42,301 --> 01:35:44,346 and that I would dedicate as much of my time 1868 01:35:44,433 --> 01:35:46,827 and my resources to that as I did the pursuit 1869 01:35:46,914 --> 01:35:47,872 of being a musician. 1870 01:35:53,660 --> 01:35:56,315 Thank you, guys, I'm humbled, thank you. 1871 01:36:01,973 --> 01:36:04,366 So mindfulness is a kind of invitation 1872 01:36:04,453 --> 01:36:05,846 to savor the present moment, 1873 01:36:05,933 --> 01:36:07,979 not to exchange it for some better moment. 1874 01:36:09,545 --> 01:36:12,418 And the more you are living in this moment, 1875 01:36:12,505 --> 01:36:14,637 the more the next moment is colored differently 1876 01:36:14,724 --> 01:36:16,422 because you've shown up for this one. 1877 01:36:16,509 --> 01:36:18,641 So that could actually change the future. 1878 01:36:18,728 --> 01:36:20,905 And in fact, that's the only way to change the future, 1879 01:36:20,992 --> 01:36:23,908 is by changing how willing you'll be, 1880 01:36:23,995 --> 01:36:26,040 you are to be in the present moment. 1881 01:36:30,523 --> 01:36:32,786 Just get it in your mind you're gonna do it. 1882 01:36:32,873 --> 01:36:35,441 And once you start seeing the benefits of it 1883 01:36:35,528 --> 01:36:37,443 and you like the way you act, 1884 01:36:37,530 --> 01:36:39,924 you like the way you handle problems, 1885 01:36:40,011 --> 01:36:42,491 you see the difference in the world. 1886 01:36:42,578 --> 01:36:45,799 You'll be inspired, you'll see things happening, 1887 01:36:45,886 --> 01:36:49,542 and you'll want that to be your way of life. 1888 01:36:49,629 --> 01:36:52,588 So I'd say mindfulness isn't just to get relaxed 1889 01:36:52,675 --> 01:36:56,810 and to be calm, it's really about cultivating wisdom 1890 01:36:56,897 --> 01:36:59,465 so that we eradicate or alleviate suffering. 1891 01:37:00,901 --> 01:37:02,685 This is how social change happens. 1892 01:37:02,772 --> 01:37:05,645 When we start being more compassionate and kind, 1893 01:37:05,732 --> 01:37:08,691 connected to ourselves, more self-aware, 1894 01:37:08,778 --> 01:37:11,738 these changes will impact every single thing 1895 01:37:11,825 --> 01:37:13,305 we're a part of. 1896 01:37:13,392 --> 01:37:15,437 And in this way, society can change. 1897 01:37:17,004 --> 01:37:20,051 I think a critical mass of people 1898 01:37:21,095 --> 01:37:23,619 who are living in awareness 1899 01:37:23,706 --> 01:37:26,666 and where they're aware of the choices they make 1900 01:37:26,753 --> 01:37:30,670 will automatically create a better world. 1901 01:38:03,790 --> 01:38:08,751 ♪ If I could tell the world just one thing ♪ 1902 01:38:10,362 --> 01:38:14,801 ♪ It would be that we're all okay ♪ 1903 01:38:16,672 --> 01:38:21,677 ♪ And not to worry 'cause worry is wasteful ♪ 1904 01:38:23,288 --> 01:38:27,640 ♪ And useless in times like these ♪ 1905 01:38:29,816 --> 01:38:33,211 ♪ I won't be made useless ♪ 1906 01:38:33,298 --> 01:38:37,780 ♪ I won't be made idle with despair ♪ 1907 01:38:37,867 --> 01:38:41,610 ♪ I'll gather myself around my faith ♪ 1908 01:38:41,697 --> 01:38:46,702 ♪ For light does the darkness most fear ♪ 1909 01:38:47,834 --> 01:38:51,403 ♪ My hands are small I know ♪ 1910 01:38:51,490 --> 01:38:55,755 ♪ But they're not yours they are my own ♪ 1911 01:38:55,842 --> 01:39:00,238 ♪ They're not yours they are my own ♪ 1912 01:39:00,325 --> 01:39:05,330 ♪ We are never broken ♪ 1913 01:39:06,679 --> 01:39:10,465 ♪ Poverty stole your golden shoes ♪ 1914 01:39:11,814 --> 01:39:15,993 ♪ But did not steal your laughter ♪ 1915 01:39:17,255 --> 01:39:20,693 ♪ Heartache came to visit me ♪ 1916 01:39:20,780 --> 01:39:24,610 ♪ But I knew it was not ever after ♪ 1917 01:39:24,697 --> 01:39:28,701 ♪ We will fight not out of spite ♪ 1918 01:39:28,788 --> 01:39:32,922 ♪ Just 'cause someone must stand up for what's right ♪ 1919 01:39:33,010 --> 01:39:37,623 ♪ 'Cause where there's a man who has no voice ♪ 1920 01:39:37,710 --> 01:39:41,844 ♪ There ours will go singing ♪ 1921 01:39:41,931 --> 01:39:46,197 ♪ My hands are small I know ♪ 1922 01:39:46,284 --> 01:39:50,462 ♪ They're not yours they are my own ♪ 1923 01:39:50,549 --> 01:39:54,814 ♪ They're not yours they are my own ♪ 1924 01:39:54,901 --> 01:39:59,384 ♪ And I am never broken ♪ 1925 01:39:59,471 --> 01:40:03,953 ♪ 'Cause in the end ♪ 1926 01:40:04,041 --> 01:40:09,046 ♪ Only kindness matters ♪ 1927 01:40:10,090 --> 01:40:15,400 ♪ In the end only kindness matters ♪