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See this, Dele?
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That's me and Max
on our honeymoon.
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Aw, you used to be
very beautiful, Granny Dottie.
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What are you trying to say?
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That you have always
been very beautiful.
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Good save.
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No, it wasn't.
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I didn't know
you played football.
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Started varsity
as a sophomore.
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I almost sacked a guy
who almost went on
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to play semi-pro
Canadian football.
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Cool.
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Where is this?
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Ah, that's our
old lake house. Aw.
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Spent every summer there.
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Why are you so red?
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You look like
a hot dog.
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'Cause Granny Dottie sent us
outside without any sunscreen.
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Hey, it was the '70s.
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There was plenty of ozone
to go around.
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That's where my dad
taught me how to fish.
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I got my
first kiss there.
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Was it with the fish?
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It was Sarah Palmer.
We both had braces.
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Kiss didn't end till my dad
pried us apart
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with a
Swiss Army knife.
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Is that Christina and Douglas?
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No, actually, that's Christina
and that's Douglas.
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Oh.
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You have any
old photo albums?
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Of course.
Well, you should bust them out.
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No, thank you.
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Come on, there's nothing
to be embarrassed about.
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Look, here's my naked phase
when I was three.
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Aw, you had such a cute
little heinie.
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(laughs) Still does.
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I do not want
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to look back
at any of my phases.
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I'm sure Dele
would love to see
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some pictures
from your childhood.
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I'm sure he would also love
to go to the school dance,
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but neither one of those things
are going to happen.
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Come on, don't you want to hear
your mom's stories?
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Not if she doesn't
want to share them.
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And I do not.
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But you have wondered.
Of course.
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Well, you see that?
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The kid wants to know about you. Enough.
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Dele, go to your room.
Yes, Mum.
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My fault. Sorry, bud.
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I'll see you at dinner.
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("Ifanla" by Sola Akingbola
playing)
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All right,
if there is nothing else,
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meeting adjourned.
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Oh, before I forget,
our Walmart rep
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gave me two front row tickets
to Celtics-Pistons on Friday.
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How exciting.
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Douglas, you've been
on that account.
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I thought maybe
you'd like to come.
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How exciting
for Douglas.
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Friday? I can't.
I have a date.
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Well, you know what? You've been
putting in the hours.
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Take your bus driver lady
to a ball game
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and, here, have a couple
$20 beers on me.
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Mm-mm. Mm-mm. Mm-mm.
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Mm-mm. Mm-mm.
What "mm-mm"? What?
What's wrong?
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Olivia and I broke up.
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She took that bus
and ran right over his heart.
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She hurt my baby.
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Call me
old-fashioned,
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but I hope she dies
in a fire.
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Can we just
talk about work?
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Well, that's, uh, too bad.
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Boy, you get busy
for a few weeks,
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you-you miss all the news.
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This was
three months ago.
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But your platitude still stands.
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Well, I'm sorry, buddy.
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It's not a big deal.
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Is the meeting over?
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Yeah. I'll see
you guys later.
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Uh, where did we land
on the tickets?
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Knock yourself out.
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Oh, my goodness.
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Thank you so much
for thinking of me.
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I'm so glad you're dating again.
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You took that breakup
pretty hard.
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You did?
He did.
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Big-time.
DOUGLAS: I was told
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the meeting was adjourned.
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Can I go back to work, please?
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Very good. Stay focused.
What did I tell you at dinner?
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(sighs) "Make yourself
into a man worthy of love,
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and love
will find you."
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I wrote that one down
as soon as you said it.
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You were there, too?
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Oh, yeah, we all went.
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This one turns into quite a poet
after a few glasses of wine.
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Guilty.
(laughs)
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Well, it's good somebody
was there for you.
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Oh, honey, I know how you feel.
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You spend a couple of months
in St. Barts to decompress,
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you come home and,
all of a sudden,
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your kid's graduating
high school.
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I mean, you can't beat yourself
up, you needed the break.
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I wasn't on vacation,
I've been working.
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There you go. Bury the guilt.
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Are you wearing the cologne
I sent? Remember,
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if the judge
likes what he smells,
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he will like what he hears.
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Her son?
The lawyer.
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Ooh.
Now, run me through
your closing argument.
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No, no, no.
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First,
you cite precedent,
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and then you attack
the plaintiff's character.
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This is basic stuff.
Do not be stupid.
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She loves him so much.
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Okay,
put the children on.
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Hello, my babies.
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Granny is coming
to see you soon,
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and she's going to get you
in the tickle machine,
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and she's going to
tickle you
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and tickle you
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and tickle you.
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Night-night, my cuddle bugs.
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(kissing)
No, I love you more.
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(kissing)
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What?
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Just wondering where
we could buy a tickle machine.
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I've never seen
this side of you.
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It is wonderful.
(chuckles)
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Yes. I used to think
I didn't like children.
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Turns out,
I just didn't like my own.
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I'm glad you and your son
are talking again.
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And I bet those kids are glad
to have their grandma back.
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Especially since he told them
I was dead. (laughs)
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What?
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We were fighting.
You say things.
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Did they have questions
when you came back to life?
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They know better than to ask.
It is none of their business.
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So the kids
have to say goodnight
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to the ghost of Grandma Kemi?
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ABISHOLA:
Nigerians don't like
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to share their personal lives
with their children.
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Mm-hmm. You have to remain infallible.
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Once you show them
you are human,
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you have lost all authority.
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So how do they learn
from your mistakes?
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What mistakes?
What mistakes?
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Never mind.
My father was just like you,
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completely closed off.
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For years, all I knew about him
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was that he grunted
and hated tartar sauce.
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Well, elders choose to pass on
what they think is important.
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Hmm.
Perhaps condiments and coughing
was all he wanted you to know.
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He didn't even tell me
when he was diagnosed
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with prostate cancer.
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Oh, that's terrible.
Sorry, Gloria.
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(sighs) All I'm saying is, talk
to your children while you can.
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Funmbi, when was the last time
you had your prostate checked?
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Pass the phone to your wife,
I will tell her what to do.
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(whispers): Thank you, Gloria.
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Don't thank me.
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I did fall asleep eventually.
The melatonin helped.
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Thank you for the suggestion.
(stammers)
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I did not know you were
having trouble sleeping.
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Do you also not know
I am on the phone?
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Sorry.
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I have the same problem.
As soon as I lie down,
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it is like a faucet
in the back of my throat.
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Mm. That may be
postnasal drip.
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We'll get you a humidifier
and prop you up on a pillow.
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Excuse me,
are you my friend Abeni,
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who is spending a dollar
a minute just to speak to me?
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No.
Then stop talking.
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Sorry.
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At least with the lack of sleep,
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I have almost finished
this month's book.
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I agree it is fantastic.
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I never considered
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what life would be like
as the wife of a time traveler.
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Oh, Kemi read that.
She said that...
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Abeni, let us talk
another time.
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I am being spied on.
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I did not know you were
in a book club.
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That must be a nice way
to keep in touch
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with your friends in Nigeria.
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That shirt still has
a stain on it.
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I know,
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and I've tried everything.
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I'm going to have to
throw it out.
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Nonsense. Mix lemon juice
with water, add a pinch of salt,
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spray the shirt,
leave it in the sun
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for an hour.
It will be as good as new.
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Thank you, Mummy.
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You are so full of
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wonderful knowledge.
Who taught you that?
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Who cares who taught me.
It will get out the stain.
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Of course.
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I feel like I am living
with Barbara Walters.
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Hey.
Hey.
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So... (sighs)
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Sup?
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Not much.
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You know, when I say "sup"
to you, I really mean it.
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And I really mean it
when I say "not much."
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I am sorry
about your breakup.
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I'm fine. Good.
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Good, good, good.
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00:09:01,551 --> 00:09:03,720
You know who's
not good? The Tigers.
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00:09:03,820 --> 00:09:05,555
I can't believe some
of the moves they're making.
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00:09:05,656 --> 00:09:08,058
It's like they want to lose.
That's what Goodwin said.
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00:09:08,158 --> 00:09:10,661
You talk baseball
with Goodwin?
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00:09:10,761 --> 00:09:13,163
It's our thing now.
I got him into it.
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00:09:13,263 --> 00:09:17,167
Thought it was our thing,
but... whatevs.
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You're gonna be okay.
You're gonna meet the right one.
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I know.
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Cool. Cool beans.
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00:09:30,981 --> 00:09:32,215
Huh?
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00:09:32,315 --> 00:09:35,719
You know, like, tight.
Everything's tight.
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How many of these
do you want done?
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Uh, I want to thread
the whole fleet,
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do a test run
in full production mode.
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Okay, well, I'm almost done
with this one.
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I just got to keep
this yarn from splitting.
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(screams)
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Whoa! Turn it off!
(grunts)
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Oh, God, oh, God,
oh, God, oh, God.
Put pressure on it!
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Hold your hand above your head.
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Is it dripping?
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Okay. Oh, my God.
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We got to get you
to the hospital. Come on.
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Okay. I'll call Goodwin.
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00:10:02,378 --> 00:10:04,547
We're not
calling Goodwin!
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I'm gonna look.
You don't need to do that.
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Just breathe,
we're almost there.
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Ah, I looked.
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00:10:18,228 --> 00:10:19,730
I said breathe. Relax.
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00:10:19,830 --> 00:10:23,700
When you yell at someone
to relax, they don't relax.
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Hey, it's gonna be okay.
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You don't know that.
Yes, I do.
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You remember that time
at the lake house
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when me and my friends
were going off the rope swing,
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and then you tried
and let go too early,
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and you hit your head
on a rock?
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No, I don't
remember that at all.
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Yeah, you were
kind of unconscious.
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The point is,
I got you through it.
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I'm your big brother.
I'm gonna take care of you.
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Okay.
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You're not gonna lose
the finger, you hear me?
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Yeah.
253
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If you do,
254
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it's an automatic
conversation starter.
255
00:10:54,597 --> 00:10:55,766
That's true.
256
00:10:55,866 --> 00:10:57,267
There's this girl
at my gym with one leg,
257
00:10:57,367 --> 00:10:58,835
and every time
she hops onto that treadmill,
258
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I want to know her story.
259
00:11:04,007 --> 00:11:05,175
I'm gonna look again.
260
00:11:05,275 --> 00:11:06,676
I just told you
not to look at it.
261
00:11:06,777 --> 00:11:09,179
Oh, you could see the bone.
You can't see the bone.
262
00:11:09,279 --> 00:11:11,514
Yes, I can.
Yeah, you can see the bone.
263
00:11:16,152 --> 00:11:18,521
Here are my
family photos.
264
00:11:18,621 --> 00:11:21,557
I'm willing to answer questions
and share stories.
265
00:11:21,657 --> 00:11:23,026
Really?
266
00:11:23,126 --> 00:11:26,362
Yes. I'm your mother.
You should know about me.
267
00:11:26,462 --> 00:11:28,031
Where is this
coming from?
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Do you want to see
the photos or not?
269
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Is that you?
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00:11:33,469 --> 00:11:34,938
Yes.
271
00:11:35,038 --> 00:11:37,273
I had a few awkward years
as a teenager.
272
00:11:37,373 --> 00:11:39,142
I think it just
took some time
273
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for you to grow
into your head.
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Dele.
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00:11:42,278 --> 00:11:45,348
They used to call me
"head of the class."
276
00:11:45,448 --> 00:11:48,785
That's clever,
but very mean.
277
00:11:50,620 --> 00:11:53,089
Wow. Look how young
you and Dad are.
278
00:11:53,189 --> 00:11:55,725
Mm. I was not born
an adult, you know.
279
00:11:55,826 --> 00:11:57,493
I didn't know Dad
had a motorcycle.
280
00:11:57,593 --> 00:11:59,395
Oh, that was mine.
281
00:12:00,897 --> 00:12:02,999
I have so many questions.
282
00:12:03,099 --> 00:12:04,500
It had 600 cc's,
283
00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:07,103
and no,
you cannot have one.
284
00:12:10,373 --> 00:12:11,774
Whose wedding
is this?
285
00:12:11,875 --> 00:12:14,845
My cousin. Mm.
286
00:12:14,945 --> 00:12:16,246
That's where
your father and I met.
287
00:12:16,346 --> 00:12:18,748
He was so handsome
288
00:12:18,849 --> 00:12:20,350
and such a good dancer.
289
00:12:20,450 --> 00:12:22,018
I knew I wanted
to meet him.
290
00:12:22,118 --> 00:12:23,519
So you made
the first move?
291
00:12:23,619 --> 00:12:25,688
Do not talk
to your mother like that.
292
00:12:26,923 --> 00:12:29,525
Your father was
a very respectful young man.
293
00:12:29,625 --> 00:12:33,129
He asked my father's permission
before he took me out on a date.
294
00:12:35,398 --> 00:12:38,501
You're sitting on his lap
in this one.
295
00:12:38,601 --> 00:12:40,403
Oh.
296
00:12:40,503 --> 00:12:42,538
Isn't this
the same wedding?
297
00:12:42,638 --> 00:12:44,140
Yes.
298
00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:46,076
Where you just met?
299
00:12:46,176 --> 00:12:48,578
I think we have
shared enough.
300
00:12:50,146 --> 00:12:52,849
This is a strange feeling.
What is?
301
00:12:52,949 --> 00:12:56,987
You're not just my mother.
You're a person.
302
00:12:57,087 --> 00:12:59,289
I prefer to just
be your mother.
303
00:12:59,389 --> 00:13:01,124
Let's go back to that.
304
00:13:01,224 --> 00:13:03,159
Too late.
305
00:13:07,663 --> 00:13:09,432
It's gonna be fine.
Abishola's on her way.
306
00:13:09,532 --> 00:13:11,401
She doesn't need to do that.
I'm feeling much better.
307
00:13:11,501 --> 00:13:12,802
No, I'm not. Okay.
308
00:13:12,903 --> 00:13:14,470
Sit.
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00:13:14,570 --> 00:13:15,872
(grunts)
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00:13:15,972 --> 00:13:18,074
Hi. You might know my wife,
Abishola Adebambo.
311
00:13:18,174 --> 00:13:19,876
She's a nurse in cardiology.
312
00:13:19,976 --> 00:13:21,444
She told me to tell you
to bump us up.
313
00:13:21,544 --> 00:13:23,046
Is the person
you're with experiencing
314
00:13:23,146 --> 00:13:24,380
chest pains or in labor?
315
00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:25,949
No.
Have a seat.
316
00:13:26,049 --> 00:13:27,817
Listen, lady, that's my
little brother over there,
317
00:13:27,918 --> 00:13:30,053
a-and his finger's
damn near falling off.
318
00:13:30,153 --> 00:13:32,122
I don't care what it costs,
I want him seen right now,
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00:13:32,222 --> 00:13:34,090
you hear me? Thank you.
320
00:13:34,190 --> 00:13:35,125
Security, stand by.
321
00:13:35,225 --> 00:13:36,927
I'm sitting. I'm sitting.
322
00:13:39,896 --> 00:13:42,498
You're gonna be okay.
I'm such an idiot.
323
00:13:42,598 --> 00:13:45,168
I can't even make a sock
without mutilating myself.
324
00:13:45,268 --> 00:13:47,637
Look, accidents happen.
It's just bad luck.
325
00:13:47,737 --> 00:13:49,439
I'll never play
banjo again.
326
00:13:49,539 --> 00:13:51,174
You never
played before.
327
00:13:51,274 --> 00:13:53,809
Well, now it's
off the table. Oh.
328
00:13:53,910 --> 00:13:56,146
Bob.
There you are.
329
00:13:56,246 --> 00:13:57,313
Wife of mine.
330
00:13:57,413 --> 00:13:58,448
ABISHOLA:
Are you okay, Douglas?
331
00:13:58,548 --> 00:14:00,516
No.
Why are you still waiting?
332
00:14:00,616 --> 00:14:02,185
Her.
333
00:14:02,285 --> 00:14:03,686
I guess if you're not
losing an organ...
334
00:14:03,786 --> 00:14:05,688
Why is my brother-in-law
sitting in the waiting room
335
00:14:05,788 --> 00:14:07,290
with a grade three
laceration?
336
00:14:07,390 --> 00:14:08,524
We're swamped down here.
337
00:14:08,624 --> 00:14:09,993
If he even loses
a fingernail
338
00:14:10,093 --> 00:14:11,227
due to your negligence,
339
00:14:11,327 --> 00:14:12,963
I'll report you
to the review board.
340
00:14:15,898 --> 00:14:17,200
Review board.
341
00:14:17,300 --> 00:14:19,535
She's good.
342
00:14:23,206 --> 00:14:25,942
(overlapping chatter)
Success! No fingers
left behind.
343
00:14:26,042 --> 00:14:27,410
(cheering)
344
00:14:27,510 --> 00:14:28,778
Bring it in, buddy.
345
00:14:28,878 --> 00:14:31,447
I didn't expect everybody
to be here.
346
00:14:31,547 --> 00:14:32,915
All right, let's give him
some room.
347
00:14:33,016 --> 00:14:34,684
No, no, it's nice.
348
00:14:34,784 --> 00:14:37,753
Enough, he needs
to rest. Come.
349
00:14:37,853 --> 00:14:39,422
We brought ice cream.
Would you like some?
350
00:14:39,522 --> 00:14:40,790
Sounds good, thanks.
351
00:14:40,890 --> 00:14:43,559
I-I think everyone
would like ice cream.
352
00:14:45,328 --> 00:14:46,662
You're on heavy
pain medication.
353
00:14:46,762 --> 00:14:48,264
You might have some trouble
with food.
354
00:14:48,364 --> 00:14:50,233
Good point. Just a beer.
355
00:14:50,333 --> 00:14:51,968
I think everyone
would like a beer.
356
00:14:52,068 --> 00:14:54,270
I got him some ice.
357
00:14:54,370 --> 00:14:57,573
Ooh, thank you.
We got you some ice.
358
00:14:59,375 --> 00:15:01,477
So, what happened, sweetie?
359
00:15:01,577 --> 00:15:04,114
I was just being careless.
Classic Douglas.
360
00:15:04,214 --> 00:15:05,615
Enough of that,
it was an accident.
361
00:15:05,715 --> 00:15:07,150
I don't want
to say it again.
362
00:15:07,250 --> 00:15:08,884
Okay.
You have spent
363
00:15:08,985 --> 00:15:11,021
hour after hour working
on that warehouse floor.
364
00:15:11,121 --> 00:15:12,922
Hell, you've been coming in on
the weekends just to learn the
365
00:15:13,023 --> 00:15:15,325
new machines. If this happened
to somebody as skilled as you,
366
00:15:15,425 --> 00:15:17,060
it could've happened to anybody.
367
00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:19,195
Thanks, Bob.
You're welcome.
368
00:15:19,295 --> 00:15:22,198
We're all just glad
you're okay. Mm.
369
00:15:22,298 --> 00:15:23,833
I love you, buddy.
370
00:15:25,768 --> 00:15:26,869
I love you, too.
371
00:15:27,803 --> 00:15:31,341
(choking up): Did you see
that the Lions, they...
372
00:15:31,441 --> 00:15:33,743
they fired their
offensive coordinator?
373
00:15:33,843 --> 00:15:35,345
They had to do something.
The guy's running
374
00:15:35,445 --> 00:15:37,180
a West Coast offense
without the personnel.
375
00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:40,283
They really do
love each other.
376
00:15:41,317 --> 00:15:43,119
Guess you have to lose a finger
377
00:15:43,219 --> 00:15:45,321
to receive some affection
around here. (chuckles)
378
00:15:45,421 --> 00:15:47,957
Honey, give it a rest.
379
00:15:49,359 --> 00:15:50,993
You will be fine.
I still have
380
00:15:51,094 --> 00:15:53,329
the scar on my hand from when
I was a little girl.
381
00:15:53,429 --> 00:15:55,165
I got it playing
in the tool shed
382
00:15:55,265 --> 00:15:56,799
at my grandfather's farm.
383
00:15:56,899 --> 00:15:58,401
I remember that.
384
00:15:58,501 --> 00:16:00,270
I did not know
great-grandfather had a farm.
385
00:16:00,370 --> 00:16:01,804
He grew cassava.
386
00:16:01,904 --> 00:16:04,374
We would drive up and help him
harvest it by hand.
387
00:16:04,474 --> 00:16:06,042
Working on your
grandfather's farm
388
00:16:06,142 --> 00:16:07,810
must've been a very
special time for you.
389
00:16:07,910 --> 00:16:10,280
You know, my Uncle Willy
had a sweet corn farm.
390
00:16:10,380 --> 00:16:12,948
Bob, please.
My mother is speaking.
391
00:16:13,049 --> 00:16:15,318
All right.
392
00:16:15,418 --> 00:16:16,486
Well, in August,
we would all
393
00:16:16,586 --> 00:16:17,987
pile in the car,
and then we...
394
00:16:28,030 --> 00:16:30,533
(baseball playing on TV)
395
00:16:30,633 --> 00:16:32,302
You starting
to like baseball?
396
00:16:32,402 --> 00:16:34,337
No, not really.
397
00:16:34,437 --> 00:16:35,638
It grows on you.
398
00:16:35,738 --> 00:16:38,208
Okay.
399
00:16:38,308 --> 00:16:40,876
So, this spring training game
does not even count?
400
00:16:40,976 --> 00:16:42,712
Nope. Basically,
a big practice.
401
00:16:42,812 --> 00:16:46,482
And because you were at work,
the game already happened.
402
00:16:46,582 --> 00:16:49,585
But instead of just looking up
who won, you are watching it.
403
00:16:49,685 --> 00:16:51,721
I'm a complicated man.
404
00:16:51,821 --> 00:16:54,857
(sighs) That is one way
to put it.
405
00:16:54,957 --> 00:16:57,860
(phone chimes)
406
00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:00,930
Aw, my brother says
his date went well.
407
00:17:01,030 --> 00:17:02,965
Mm. That is wonderful.
Yeah, hang on,
408
00:17:03,065 --> 00:17:04,667
let me write him back.
409
00:17:04,767 --> 00:17:06,869
Thumbs up. Party hat.
410
00:17:08,204 --> 00:17:11,073
Good for him.
After ending a relationship,
411
00:17:11,174 --> 00:17:12,675
it can be hard
to try again.
412
00:17:12,775 --> 00:17:14,510
Tell me about it.
After my divorce,
413
00:17:14,610 --> 00:17:17,046
I had trouble moving on.
414
00:17:17,147 --> 00:17:18,748
You are being modest.
415
00:17:18,848 --> 00:17:20,750
No man who can flirt
with a woman
416
00:17:20,850 --> 00:17:22,218
while wearing
a hospital gown
417
00:17:22,318 --> 00:17:24,554
has trouble
with the ladies.
(chuckles)
418
00:17:24,654 --> 00:17:25,921
I'm telling you.
It went Lorraine,
419
00:17:26,021 --> 00:17:28,291
a lot of frozen pizzas
for dinner, and then you.
420
00:17:28,391 --> 00:17:31,594
Aw, you love me
more than pizza.
421
00:17:31,694 --> 00:17:33,163
(chuckles)
422
00:17:33,263 --> 00:17:36,098
What about you? A lot of
microwave jollof after Tayo?
423
00:17:36,199 --> 00:17:39,335
Uh, I had a boyfriend
or two.
424
00:17:41,337 --> 00:17:44,006
Was it "a" or two?
425
00:17:44,106 --> 00:17:47,042
One was very serious.
His name was Ke...
426
00:17:47,143 --> 00:17:48,978
You know what? I think
we shared enough for now.
427
00:17:49,078 --> 00:17:51,514
Okay.
Okay.
428
00:17:59,889 --> 00:18:02,992
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