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[indistinct chatter]
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♪
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Hello, Abishola.
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Now, I don't want to alarm you,
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but I have alarming news.
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What is it?
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My cousin Dipe called me
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early this morning to tell
me that her friend Ngozi
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was at Balogun Market
to buy a new DVD player
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because her baby jammed
it with slices of toast.
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She was furious
because she was on
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on the second to last episode
of Narcosseason two.
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Anyway, the stall
is right next to
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the man that sells
knockoff Samsonite cases.
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Now, if you look closely,
they actually say "Samso-tite."
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But when you go inside...
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Kemi.
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Can you please get to the point?
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Will you not allow me
to build up the suspense?
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No.
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Fine. Your husband
is coming to America.
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What?How you know that
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from a clogged DVD player?
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Well, if you had let me finish.
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Dipe told me that her
friend Ngozi told her
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that she saw Tayo--
Abishola's husband--
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buying a large suitcase,
with four wheels.
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Oluwa mi o.
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And he was seen buying
a coat with mittens.
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Oluwa mi o.
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He also bought
five pounds of dried fish
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and made the man wrap it twice.
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Oluwa mi o.
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Why are you olo woo-ing that?
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That is Uncle Tunde's favorite.
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And it's an
18-hour flight.
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Wrapping it twice
will keep the fish stench
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off of Tayo's underpants.
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Oh, come on, all these Nigerian
Murder, She Wroteclues
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tell you Abishola's
husband's coming to Detroit?
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Yes.Yes.
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And on his last Facebook post
he wrote,
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"I'm going to Detroit."
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Oh.
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Oluwa mi o.
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["Ifanla" by Sola Akingbola
playing]
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It's been eight years. why
is he coming to Detroit now?
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It is a business trip.
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Really? So the minute
we get engaged,
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WellStar International
suddenly sends its VP
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all the way to America?
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How do you know where he works?
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Are you crazy? I googled
the hell out of him.
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There's also a Tayo Adebambo
who's a funk bass player.
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Thank God you weren't
married to him,
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I wouldn't have stood a chance.
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He will probably
want to see Dele.
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That makes sense.
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Which means he will be
at the apartment
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for several dinners.
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[sighs] Can't you just
dangle Dele out the window
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so he can look at him
from the street?
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Bob.
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I really don't want to see him.
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Maybe this is for the best.
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He comes over, sees his son,
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you ask him for the divorce,
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you bring me Olu's leftovers
the next day.
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It's a win for everybody.
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That's true.
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Just remember one thing.
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[funk bass playing]
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Thank God
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you married the wrong Adebambo.
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[laughs]Funky, right?
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Ugh.
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Sushi. Boring.
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What do you guys got?
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Something African and spicy?
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I have a ham sandwich.
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I have a Lunchable.
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Want to trade?
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This is $30 worth of sushi.
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Throw in the Capri Sun,
you got a deal.
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Fellas.
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Mr. Wheeler.Ah, Mr. Wheeler.
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Hey, let me ask you a question:
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how long does it usually take
to get a divorce in Nigeria?
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Do you mean
how long does it take
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for the paperwork to go through?
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Yeah.I have no idea.
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I have never met
a divorced Nigerian.
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Me, neither.Really?
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Divorce is very rare,
something like one percent.
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Come on, that can't be right.Mmm.
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Divorce and good sushi:
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two things you can't find
in Nigeria.
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Well, what about you?
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You said your parents haven't
spoken since you were a child.
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But they stayed married.Are they happy?
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What does that have
to do with anything?
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They just celebrated
their 50th anniversary.
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Daddy in Hawaii,
and Mummy in Costa Rica.
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Says here the Nigerian
divorce rate is 0.2%.
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That's pretty close to zero.
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I don't care
if it's one in a million.
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Abishola's getting divorced.
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Actually, she would be
the one in 4,120,000.
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Did you do that math
in your head?
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Yes.Yeah, next time, keep it there.
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Ah. Here's something.What?
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One in 500 people have either
11 fingers or 11 toes.
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How does that help me?
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It gives you perspective.
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At least you're not
one of those weirdos.
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Excuse me.
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He has an extra nipple.
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Please don't tell him
I told you.
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That's a nice dress.
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Tayo will like it.
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It's not for him.
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I just grabbed any old thing
from the closet.
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Well, your old thing
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has a tag from Nordstrom's.
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I did not want him to come here.
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Ah, ah. A father
must see his son.
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Would you rather they eat
at the home of the Whopper?
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I know my sister did
not raise you like this.
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No, Auntie.
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So stop talking nonsense
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and prepare the pounded yam.
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Ah. Tayo prefers rice to yam o.
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Does he, now?
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Dele.Yes, Mum?
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Did you vacuum the front room?
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Yes, Mum.
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And display my
nursing certificates
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and your mathematics trophy
where your father can see them?
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Yes, Mum.Good.
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He may have abandoned us,
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but that does not mean
we're not thriving.
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Do you want me
to say that to him?
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Don't be ridiculous. That's what
the trophies are for.
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You are a good son,
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and your father will
be proud of you.
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I am proud of you.
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Thanks, Mom.
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You look really nice.
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I look the same as always.
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Put your books away.
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[knocking on door]
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E kaale,Uncle Tunde.
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Tayo.
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I brought you something, Uncle.
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Stockfish?I know how much you love it.
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I wouldn't say "love."
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[inhales sharply]
Ah.
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I suppose you can come in.
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Ah, my son.
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E kaabo,Dad.
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Look at you.
[chuckles]
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You are a man now.
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Abishola, you look beautiful.
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This dress is old.
I look the same.
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Kaabo,Tayo!
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E kaale,Auntie.
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Come, come.
Dele, take his coat.
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We are having
your favorite: jollof rice.
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Abishola begged me to make it.
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[music playing on TV]
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This is nice, huh?
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Just sitting around together,
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watching TV as a family.
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It is.
It really is.
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[microwave beeping]Oh. Popcorn's ready.
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I'll go get us all bowls.
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Great.
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[whispers]: How long
do we have to sit here?
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As long as Abishola's
on her date.
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BOB:
It's not a date.
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Of course it isn't, honey.
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Any dinner that lasts longer
than three hours is a date.
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I've had shorter
one-night stands.
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Come on, you guys.
This is tough for him.
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Thank you, Christina.
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You are welcome.
I understand your pain.
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I've been the other woman.
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What are you talking about?
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They're at dinner
with their family,
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you're waiting for them to text,
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it takes everything
in your power
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not to rush over there
and peer into their windows
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and watch them unwrap
their Christmas presents.
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Oh, God, why doesn't
that sound crazy to me?
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Because we'd do
anything for love, Bob.
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Anything.
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It's not the same.
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Abishola knows she's
in a relationship with Bob.
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And I think it's cool.
You're her side piece.
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Or a "goomah."
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That's what the Italians
call it.
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All right, this isn't working.
You guys can go.
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Yeah, Mom, Douglas,
you are not helping.
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They don't get us.
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[laughing]
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How is your sister Blessing?
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Ah, still crazy.
She's vegan now.
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Oh, no.
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This madness
has reached Nigeria?
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I will pray for her.
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While you are there,
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Pray for Dele.
He supports Arsenal.
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They will just break your heart.
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I must say, Auntie,
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you're an even better cook
than Abishola's mother.
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[laughs loudly]
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When I tell her,
she will be furious.
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So, you are in town
for business?Yes.
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My company
has sent me to consult
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with the Ambassador Bridge
Authority
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for our new billion-dollar
mainland project.
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Wow.
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Yes, your father
is very successful in Nigeria.
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Had he not given up, he would
have been successful here.
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Well, perhaps you had more faith
in this country than I did.
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Perhaps I had more faith in you.
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Let me help you
clear the plates.Uh...
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I've never seen you
set foot in the kitchen.
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Well, I've changed a lot
over the last eight years.
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This is like one
of your soap operas.
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So, Auntie Olu still refuses
to buy a dishwasher.
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She says what is the point when
we have a child in the house
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with two hands?
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[laughing]
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You know what kind
of rental car they gave me?
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What?
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A Jeep.
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Oh, no.
[laughs]
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That day in Mexico,
it was the most rain
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I have ever seen in my life.
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It would have been fine
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if we had a car
with a roof on it.
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Ah, and you persuaded me
to wear my white dress that day.
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Even angry and covered in muck,
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you were the most
beautiful woman in Acapulco.
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Mm. So beautiful the hotel
doorman thought I was homeless.
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[laughs]
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Ah, it's good to see you,
Abishola. I've missed you.
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A good way to keep
from missing someone
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is to not abandon them
and take a second wife.
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You have every reason
to be angry with me.
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I know.
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But I was unable to
give you and Dele
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the lives that you deserved.
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So you left us.
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I am back now.
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And I can provide
for you both.
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Tayo...
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I know you missed me, too.
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Don't do this.
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I'm sorry.
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00:11:33,235 --> 00:11:35,150
I don't want to
make you uncomfortable.
263
00:11:35,193 --> 00:11:39,545
If you want me to,
I will leave.
264
00:11:45,377 --> 00:11:47,510
Get back to work.
265
00:11:58,042 --> 00:12:00,392
Good morning.Hey.
266
00:12:00,436 --> 00:12:03,656
So, how'd it go?
267
00:12:03,700 --> 00:12:06,398
Tayo came, he saw Dele,
he ate food,
268
00:12:06,442 --> 00:12:08,052
He went back to his hotel.
269
00:12:08,096 --> 00:12:10,489
Great. I mean, it would have
been nice if you called.
270
00:12:10,533 --> 00:12:12,056
I texted you.
271
00:12:12,100 --> 00:12:13,971
At 1:00 a.m.
You said "Went well."
272
00:12:14,015 --> 00:12:15,756
You know how many ways
you can take "went well"?
273
00:12:15,799 --> 00:12:17,105
That's how it went.
274
00:12:17,148 --> 00:12:19,368
So, did you ask him
about a divorce?
275
00:12:19,411 --> 00:12:21,326
No.Oh.
276
00:12:21,370 --> 00:12:22,893
It was not the right time.
277
00:12:22,937 --> 00:12:24,895
Is it ever the right time?
278
00:12:24,939 --> 00:12:26,288
I mean, I asked my wife
for a divorce
279
00:12:26,331 --> 00:12:28,290
halfway through her Grand Slam
breakfast at Denny's.
280
00:12:28,333 --> 00:12:31,772
Do not push me.
I'll deal with it.
281
00:12:31,815 --> 00:12:34,905
Okay.
Well, I made a call to my lawyer
282
00:12:34,949 --> 00:12:37,255
just to see where we stand,
and he said that we sh...
283
00:12:37,299 --> 00:12:38,822
I do not care
what your lawyer said.
284
00:12:38,866 --> 00:12:40,389
He's not the one
dealing with it.
285
00:12:40,432 --> 00:12:42,086
And neither are you.
286
00:12:42,130 --> 00:12:43,827
I'm just trying to be proactive.
287
00:12:43,871 --> 00:12:46,743
Well, don't. I will
handle my husband.
288
00:12:46,787 --> 00:12:49,528
What I need from you now
is to be patient.
289
00:12:55,796 --> 00:12:58,102
I am the side piece.
290
00:13:02,237 --> 00:13:04,152
Uncle,
291
00:13:04,195 --> 00:13:06,589
the seasoning
on this suya is good,
292
00:13:06,632 --> 00:13:09,592
but I'd forgotten
how American meat feels like
293
00:13:09,635 --> 00:13:11,115
chewing on a wallet.
294
00:13:11,159 --> 00:13:12,813
Just throw some more
pepper on it.
295
00:13:12,856 --> 00:13:15,119
You'll forget again.[chuckles]
296
00:13:15,163 --> 00:13:17,252
So my son has grown up
not knowing
297
00:13:17,295 --> 00:13:19,689
what real food tastes like.[both laugh]
298
00:13:19,732 --> 00:13:21,865
He also grew up without you.
299
00:13:23,258 --> 00:13:26,522
Oh! Fancy seeing you here.
300
00:13:26,565 --> 00:13:28,785
Hey, Uncle Tunde.
301
00:13:28,829 --> 00:13:30,526
What a wonderful coincidence.
302
00:13:30,569 --> 00:13:32,310
I just happen to be
having lunch
303
00:13:32,354 --> 00:13:34,704
with Abishola's husband,
and you show up.
304
00:13:34,747 --> 00:13:38,273
Yes, what a wonderful
coincidence.
305
00:13:38,316 --> 00:13:40,492
Small world.
306
00:13:40,536 --> 00:13:42,712
Bob.
307
00:13:42,755 --> 00:13:44,366
I know who you are.
308
00:13:44,409 --> 00:13:46,672
I looked you up on LinkedIn.
309
00:13:46,716 --> 00:13:49,023
There's another Detroit
Bob Wheeler who's a dentist.
310
00:13:49,066 --> 00:13:50,763
Yeah, I get his mail.
311
00:13:50,807 --> 00:13:52,461
You mind if we talk
for a second?
312
00:13:52,504 --> 00:13:54,245
Of course.
313
00:13:56,944 --> 00:14:00,121
Uh, look, we both know
what's going on here.
314
00:14:00,164 --> 00:14:02,906
Yes, you are engaged
to my wife.
315
00:14:02,950 --> 00:14:05,778
Well, I like to think of it as
you're married to my fiancée.
316
00:14:05,822 --> 00:14:07,389
In Olu's soap opera,
317
00:14:07,432 --> 00:14:08,999
you would discover
you are brothers.
318
00:14:11,697 --> 00:14:13,917
Pass the fufu.
319
00:14:13,961 --> 00:14:17,355
The point is, you left her.
320
00:14:17,399 --> 00:14:19,967
[laughs]
Is that what she told you?
321
00:14:20,010 --> 00:14:21,751
Well, am I missing something?
322
00:14:21,794 --> 00:14:24,493
Have you been in Tunde's
basement this whole time?
323
00:14:24,536 --> 00:14:27,278
You make it sound like I left
in the middle of the night.
324
00:14:27,322 --> 00:14:29,890
I wanted my family
to come back to Nigeria with me,
325
00:14:29,933 --> 00:14:32,631
but Abishola refused.
326
00:14:32,675 --> 00:14:34,416
In a way,
she is the one who left me.
327
00:14:36,548 --> 00:14:37,549
Is that true?
328
00:14:39,116 --> 00:14:40,726
In a way.
329
00:14:42,337 --> 00:14:44,339
There was no abandonment.
330
00:14:44,382 --> 00:14:47,124
I've been in constant contact
with my son the entire time.
331
00:14:47,168 --> 00:14:49,648
Okay, I didn't know that either.
332
00:14:49,692 --> 00:14:51,824
You did not know this because
it is none of your business
333
00:14:51,868 --> 00:14:53,870
what goes on with my family.
334
00:14:53,914 --> 00:14:55,654
Whatever your side
of the story is,
335
00:14:55,698 --> 00:14:58,135
you've been gone
for eight years.
336
00:14:58,179 --> 00:14:59,354
She's with me now.
337
00:14:59,397 --> 00:15:01,312
She's moved on.
338
00:15:01,356 --> 00:15:03,097
[scoffs]
339
00:15:03,140 --> 00:15:06,013
Abishola and I were happy once,
when we had nothing.
340
00:15:06,056 --> 00:15:08,885
But now I have a large house,
341
00:15:08,929 --> 00:15:10,887
driver, staff.
342
00:15:10,931 --> 00:15:12,671
And I have picked out
a wonderful
343
00:15:12,715 --> 00:15:15,196
private school for Dele.
344
00:15:15,239 --> 00:15:17,763
I can provide her with
everything that she wants.
345
00:15:17,807 --> 00:15:21,506
And that is why I will be
taking her back to Nigeria.
346
00:15:21,550 --> 00:15:24,292
It is time for you to move on.
347
00:15:26,076 --> 00:15:28,905
In the soap opera,
you would storm out now.
348
00:15:31,908 --> 00:15:33,649
You could also
turn over the table,
349
00:15:33,692 --> 00:15:35,216
but I am still eating.
350
00:15:39,481 --> 00:15:41,657
Gorgeous day, huh?
351
00:15:41,700 --> 00:15:43,441
Yes, it is.
Very pretty.
352
00:15:43,485 --> 00:15:45,356
[sighs]
353
00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:47,402
So, you're gonna
find out eventually.
354
00:15:47,445 --> 00:15:49,534
I met Tayo.
355
00:15:49,578 --> 00:15:52,015
You did what?You heard me.
356
00:15:52,059 --> 00:15:54,278
I specifically
asked you not to do that.
357
00:15:54,322 --> 00:15:55,758
You did.
358
00:15:55,801 --> 00:15:57,760
And yet you went behind my back.
359
00:15:57,803 --> 00:16:00,023
You know he wants to take
you and Dele back to Nigeria.
360
00:16:04,071 --> 00:16:05,594
Why are you smiling about this?
361
00:16:05,637 --> 00:16:07,770
Because I know
you're not going.
362
00:16:07,813 --> 00:16:10,773
But he's my husband.
363
00:16:10,816 --> 00:16:12,601
This isn't about him.
364
00:16:12,644 --> 00:16:13,994
Or me.
365
00:16:14,037 --> 00:16:16,344
This is about you.
366
00:16:16,387 --> 00:16:19,695
You have a life you've created.
367
00:16:19,738 --> 00:16:22,219
You've got a job you love.
368
00:16:22,263 --> 00:16:26,832
You are in charge
of your own destiny.
369
00:16:26,876 --> 00:16:28,269
You're not gonna
give all that up
370
00:16:28,312 --> 00:16:31,402
to go back to Nigeria and be
some rich guy's second wife.
371
00:16:31,446 --> 00:16:33,448
First wife.
372
00:16:33,491 --> 00:16:36,059
Whatever.
373
00:16:36,103 --> 00:16:38,366
You're not the same woman
he left eight years ago.
374
00:16:38,409 --> 00:16:39,802
Tayo doesn't know it.
375
00:16:41,282 --> 00:16:43,066
But I do.
376
00:16:43,110 --> 00:16:45,373
So you have me all figured out.
377
00:16:45,416 --> 00:16:47,288
Not at all.Good answer.
378
00:16:47,331 --> 00:16:48,811
Yes, it was.
379
00:16:58,951 --> 00:17:01,215
Karo. Karo.
380
00:17:01,258 --> 00:17:02,912
E karo,Dad.
381
00:17:02,955 --> 00:17:04,653
Hey, are you ready to go?
382
00:17:04,696 --> 00:17:05,784
Yes.
Let me grab my stuff.
383
00:17:05,828 --> 00:17:08,657
Okay.
384
00:17:08,700 --> 00:17:11,790
We are going to play chess
with the old men in the park.
385
00:17:11,834 --> 00:17:14,184
Well, Dele's going to play.
386
00:17:14,228 --> 00:17:17,318
I need him to win back
the money that I lost.
387
00:17:17,361 --> 00:17:19,581
It's good you are
spending time with him.
388
00:17:19,624 --> 00:17:21,931
Yes.
We are a family again.
389
00:17:22,932 --> 00:17:25,413
We will never be a family again.
390
00:17:25,456 --> 00:17:27,980
I am not the same person
you left eight years ago.
391
00:17:28,024 --> 00:17:29,591
That is all right.I am not
392
00:17:29,634 --> 00:17:31,462
asking you if it's all right.
393
00:17:31,506 --> 00:17:33,290
I am telling you
394
00:17:33,334 --> 00:17:35,945
I think it is best
we get a divorce.
395
00:17:35,988 --> 00:17:38,121
You do not know
what is for the best.
396
00:17:38,165 --> 00:17:39,731
I do.
397
00:17:39,775 --> 00:17:41,124
And that is what
I've been working for
398
00:17:41,168 --> 00:17:43,126
all this time.Tayo...
399
00:17:43,170 --> 00:17:45,781
And that is why I will never,
400
00:17:45,824 --> 00:17:48,566
ever give you a divorce.
401
00:17:52,657 --> 00:17:54,833
Okay, my son.
402
00:17:54,877 --> 00:17:56,487
Are you ready?Yes. Bye, Mom.
403
00:17:57,880 --> 00:17:59,577
We will be home for dinner.
404
00:17:59,621 --> 00:18:01,579
[door closes]
405
00:18:01,623 --> 00:18:04,582
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