1 00:00:08,507 --> 00:00:11,249 Previously onBob Hearts Abishola... 2 00:00:11,293 --> 00:00:13,947 Your husband is comingto America. What? 3 00:00:13,991 --> 00:00:15,993 That's a nice dress. 4 00:00:16,037 --> 00:00:17,342 Tayo will like it. 5 00:00:17,386 --> 00:00:18,952 It's not for him. 6 00:00:18,996 --> 00:00:21,607 I just grabbed any old thing from the closet. 7 00:00:21,651 --> 00:00:25,046 Well, your old thing has a tag from Nordstrom's. 8 00:00:25,089 --> 00:00:28,310 I did not want him to come here. 9 00:00:28,353 --> 00:00:30,268 Ah, a father must see his son. 10 00:00:30,312 --> 00:00:33,054 Would you rather they eat at the Home of the Whopper? 11 00:00:33,097 --> 00:00:34,707 E kaabo,Dad. 12 00:00:34,751 --> 00:00:36,405 Look at you. 13 00:00:36,448 --> 00:00:38,015 You are a man now. 14 00:00:39,147 --> 00:00:41,584 Abishola, you look beautiful. 15 00:00:41,627 --> 00:00:44,543 This dress is old.I look the same. 16 00:00:45,414 --> 00:00:47,851 Whatever your side of the story is, you've been gone 17 00:00:47,894 --> 00:00:49,548 for eight years. 18 00:00:49,592 --> 00:00:50,767 She's with me now. 19 00:00:50,810 --> 00:00:52,899 She's moved on. 20 00:00:52,943 --> 00:00:55,380 I will be taking herback to Nigeria. 21 00:00:55,424 --> 00:00:57,948 It is time for youto move on. 22 00:01:01,386 --> 00:01:04,433 This chin chinis terrible today. 23 00:01:04,476 --> 00:01:06,304 And yet you eat them as if they are going to run away. 24 00:01:06,348 --> 00:01:10,134 Ah. Terrible chin chinis still chin chin. 25 00:01:10,178 --> 00:01:13,398 I see you are enjoyingmy daughter's cooking, Uncle. 26 00:01:13,442 --> 00:01:17,402 Oh, yes, like they were made with God's fingers. 27 00:01:18,490 --> 00:01:21,276 Great service, Pastor. 28 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:23,582 You really gave Satan a run for his money. 29 00:01:23,626 --> 00:01:24,975 Thank you, Bob. 30 00:01:25,018 --> 00:01:26,368 Yeah, the way you jump around, 31 00:01:26,411 --> 00:01:27,673 sweating, screaming at people. 32 00:01:27,717 --> 00:01:30,589 It's like if Jesus taught a spin class. 33 00:01:30,633 --> 00:01:33,810 I acceptyour blasphemous compliment. 34 00:01:35,116 --> 00:01:37,988 Uh, listen, uh, can I talk to you for a second? 35 00:01:38,031 --> 00:01:39,685 Of course. 36 00:01:39,729 --> 00:01:42,862 I don't know if you know, but Abishola and I are engaged. 37 00:01:42,906 --> 00:01:45,126 Yes, I am aware of this. 38 00:01:45,169 --> 00:01:48,825 Well, technically she's still married to Tayo Adebambo. 39 00:01:48,868 --> 00:01:51,523 And I am also aware of this. 40 00:01:51,567 --> 00:01:53,438 Well, I guess you only work one day a week, 41 00:01:53,482 --> 00:01:55,701 you got plenty of time for gossip. 42 00:01:56,702 --> 00:01:58,487 That was a joke. It's-it's a bad joke. 43 00:01:59,923 --> 00:02:01,968 Listen, you're from Nigeria.Mm-hmm. 44 00:02:02,012 --> 00:02:03,796 Do you think you could pull any strings over there 45 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:07,887 or over here or, you know, up there? 46 00:02:07,931 --> 00:02:12,979 Bob, Colossians,chapter three, verse 18 says, 47 00:02:13,023 --> 00:02:17,201 "Wives, submit to your husbands,as is fitting in the Lord." 48 00:02:17,245 --> 00:02:19,943 I appreciate your support, but you've met Abishola. 49 00:02:19,986 --> 00:02:22,511 She's not exactly the submitting type. 50 00:02:22,554 --> 00:02:25,078 I'm sorry, Bob.I don't think you understand. 51 00:02:25,122 --> 00:02:28,038 Abishola belongswith Tayo, her husband. 52 00:02:29,300 --> 00:02:32,216 Yeah, but what do you know? 53 00:02:32,260 --> 00:02:33,652 I'm sorry I took so long. 54 00:02:36,046 --> 00:02:37,308 What is going on? 55 00:02:37,352 --> 00:02:38,657 Apparently 56 00:02:38,701 --> 00:02:40,877 your pastor here is Team Tayo. 57 00:02:40,920 --> 00:02:44,446 I am Team God, but, yes,God is Team Tayo. 58 00:02:44,489 --> 00:02:47,231 I have spokento your husband, 59 00:02:47,275 --> 00:02:49,190 and he does not wishto divorce you. 60 00:02:49,233 --> 00:02:50,452 You spoke to Tayo? 61 00:02:50,495 --> 00:02:51,975 He came to me for counsel. 62 00:02:52,018 --> 00:02:53,890 When? 'Cause I tried to call you Thursday, 63 00:02:53,933 --> 00:02:56,414 and I got sent to a stupid prayer line. 64 00:02:56,458 --> 00:03:01,376 Tayo believes that you can getpast this misunderstanding. 65 00:03:01,419 --> 00:03:04,074 Misunderstanding? He abandoned her. 66 00:03:04,117 --> 00:03:06,729 Bob.No. I guess when you sent him out for groceries, 67 00:03:06,772 --> 00:03:09,035 he thought you said, "Go back toNigeria and take a second wife." 68 00:03:09,079 --> 00:03:10,733 It's your classic mix-up. 69 00:03:10,776 --> 00:03:12,822 Bob, please. 70 00:03:12,865 --> 00:03:14,563 Thank you for taking the time to speak to us. 71 00:03:14,606 --> 00:03:16,129 We will see you next Sunday. 72 00:03:16,173 --> 00:03:18,219 Yes, of course, Pastor. Goodbye. 73 00:03:21,526 --> 00:03:23,267 You're just gonna let himoff the hook like that? 74 00:03:23,311 --> 00:03:24,442 Oh, he's not off the hook. 75 00:03:24,486 --> 00:03:26,879 He will no longer bein my nightly prayers. 76 00:03:26,923 --> 00:03:28,707 Oh, you are vicious. 77 00:03:53,645 --> 00:03:55,299 I'm just saying,if you change your phone number, 78 00:03:55,343 --> 00:03:58,128 Tayo will neverbe able to call you. 79 00:03:58,171 --> 00:04:00,348 Can we go ten minutes without bringing him up? 80 00:04:00,391 --> 00:04:04,395 I'd love to go my whole life without bringing him up. 81 00:04:04,439 --> 00:04:06,005 But first we got to figure out how to get rid of him. 82 00:04:06,049 --> 00:04:08,921 No, I need to figure out whymy new phone needs five Gs, 83 00:04:08,965 --> 00:04:11,881 when I barely usethe Gs I have. 84 00:04:11,924 --> 00:04:13,752 Hello. I'm Kevin.Can I help you today? 85 00:04:13,796 --> 00:04:16,407 Yes, I would like a new,inexpensive phone. 86 00:04:16,451 --> 00:04:18,670 Tap your number in here,we can get you all set up. 87 00:04:18,714 --> 00:04:20,629 Would you like to lookat our latest...? 88 00:04:20,672 --> 00:04:22,761 No.Okay. 89 00:04:22,805 --> 00:04:28,071 Uh, so the account'sunder a Mr. Adebambo. "Tay-o"? 90 00:04:28,114 --> 00:04:29,638 "Tie-o"?Am I saying that right? 91 00:04:29,681 --> 00:04:31,727 You're saying it enough. 92 00:04:31,770 --> 00:04:33,119 You're still on his phone plan? 93 00:04:33,163 --> 00:04:35,078 It saves moneywhen Dele talks to him. 94 00:04:35,121 --> 00:04:36,340 I see. 95 00:04:36,384 --> 00:04:38,168 Bob, that's all that it is. 96 00:04:38,211 --> 00:04:40,213 Well, what if you join my family plan? 97 00:04:40,257 --> 00:04:42,390 I don't know that we can beon your family plan 98 00:04:42,433 --> 00:04:43,347 if we're not family. 99 00:04:43,391 --> 00:04:48,352 But we will be. 100 00:04:48,396 --> 00:04:51,573 Yes, we will.I don't knowif this helps, but 101 00:04:51,616 --> 00:04:53,662 you don't have to be familyto be on a family plan. 102 00:04:53,705 --> 00:04:54,880 You could just be friends. 103 00:04:54,924 --> 00:04:56,882 Doesn't help, Kevin. 104 00:04:58,057 --> 00:04:59,755 I told you this was notgoing to be easy. 105 00:04:59,798 --> 00:05:01,365 I understand. I just feel like 106 00:05:01,409 --> 00:05:03,498 I'm the only one fighting for us. 107 00:05:03,541 --> 00:05:06,239 Just because I do not screamat my pastor or make a scene 108 00:05:06,283 --> 00:05:08,372 at a cell phone storedoes not mean I'm not fighting. 109 00:05:08,416 --> 00:05:10,156 I'm not making a scene. 110 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:12,681 Am I making a scene, Kevin?Uh... 111 00:05:12,724 --> 00:05:15,031 Oh, now you got nothing to say. 112 00:05:15,074 --> 00:05:17,076 Kevin, I do not want friends,I do not want family. 113 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:18,121 I want my own plan. 114 00:05:18,164 --> 00:05:19,731 It's gonna cost a little extra. 115 00:05:19,775 --> 00:05:21,820 I do not care.I will pay it. 116 00:05:21,864 --> 00:05:23,256 Wow. You really are mad. 117 00:05:30,220 --> 00:05:33,397 Hello? Hello? Who is it? 118 00:05:33,441 --> 00:05:36,357 E karo,Mommy. It's me. My name is on the screen. 119 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:38,881 Oh, Abishola. 120 00:05:38,924 --> 00:05:40,796 I think you need to adjust your camera. 121 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:42,450 I can only see your hair. 122 00:05:42,493 --> 00:05:44,800 It must be a problem with your computer. 123 00:05:44,843 --> 00:05:47,019 My computer is fine. 124 00:05:47,063 --> 00:05:49,761 Are you talking back to me? 125 00:05:49,805 --> 00:05:52,503 Sorry, Mommy. Your hair looks nice. 126 00:05:52,547 --> 00:05:55,027 I have a new girl doing my wigs. 127 00:05:55,071 --> 00:05:59,423 The old one was using yak hair and charging human hair prices. 128 00:05:59,467 --> 00:06:01,860 Uh, Mommy, I wanted to talk to you about Tayo. 129 00:06:01,904 --> 00:06:04,428 Ah. I have heard all about it. 130 00:06:04,472 --> 00:06:05,429 Well done. 131 00:06:05,473 --> 00:06:07,388 Well done? 132 00:06:07,431 --> 00:06:09,825 Getting engaged to force Tayo to come back for you. 133 00:06:09,868 --> 00:06:12,218 Very clever. 134 00:06:12,262 --> 00:06:14,656 No, I still want to marry Bob. 135 00:06:14,699 --> 00:06:16,222 Don't be stupid. 136 00:06:16,266 --> 00:06:17,833 You already have a husband, 137 00:06:17,876 --> 00:06:19,661 and you two are very happy together. 138 00:06:19,704 --> 00:06:21,010 But we are not. 139 00:06:21,053 --> 00:06:23,404 But I have told people you are. 140 00:06:23,447 --> 00:06:25,754 Why?To protect your reputation. 141 00:06:25,797 --> 00:06:27,277 My reputation is fine. 142 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:28,800 Because of my lies. 143 00:06:34,458 --> 00:06:36,591 You wanted to see us? 144 00:06:36,634 --> 00:06:39,420 Yeah. Come on in. Shut the door. Have a seat. 145 00:06:39,463 --> 00:06:42,466 Listen, we've got a situation. 146 00:06:42,510 --> 00:06:44,033 Is this about the vending machine? 147 00:06:44,076 --> 00:06:46,122 It gave me double Cheetos. There was nothing I could do. 148 00:06:46,165 --> 00:06:47,863 This isn't about work. 149 00:06:47,906 --> 00:06:49,125 We need to talk 150 00:06:49,168 --> 00:06:51,301 to you as friends of the family. 151 00:06:51,344 --> 00:06:53,346 Oh. Okay. 152 00:06:56,088 --> 00:06:59,091 As you know, 153 00:06:59,135 --> 00:07:02,225 Abishola's husband is causing some issues. 154 00:07:02,268 --> 00:07:03,661 The dude can't take a hint. 155 00:07:03,705 --> 00:07:05,358 She's the best thing that ever happened to Bob, 156 00:07:05,402 --> 00:07:08,100 to us, and-and we can't lose her. 157 00:07:08,144 --> 00:07:09,624 From what I understand, 158 00:07:09,667 --> 00:07:11,756 her husband will never grant her a divorce. 159 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:15,238 Exactly. So what are we gonna do about it? 160 00:07:15,281 --> 00:07:17,762 We?You guys are Nigerian. 161 00:07:17,806 --> 00:07:21,331 You know how this stuff works. What can we do? 162 00:07:21,374 --> 00:07:23,159 Legally? Or... 163 00:07:24,943 --> 00:07:27,163 ...illegally. 164 00:07:27,206 --> 00:07:28,991 Put your vest on. 165 00:07:29,034 --> 00:07:31,210 Take it easy. We're just 166 00:07:31,254 --> 00:07:33,343 trying to help out Bob and Abishola. 167 00:07:33,386 --> 00:07:35,911 I think my solution still has some merit. 168 00:07:35,954 --> 00:07:38,043 Knock it off with that cockamamie idea. 169 00:07:38,087 --> 00:07:39,871 Maybe we should let the Nigerians decide 170 00:07:39,915 --> 00:07:41,525 what's cockamamie. 171 00:07:41,569 --> 00:07:42,570 Fine. 172 00:07:45,311 --> 00:07:48,967 Goodwin, Kofo, as you know, 173 00:07:49,011 --> 00:07:51,622 Nigerians are a noble, 174 00:07:51,666 --> 00:07:55,147 honorable people with high moral standards. 175 00:07:56,366 --> 00:07:58,368 We'd like to exploit that. 176 00:07:59,891 --> 00:08:03,286 Operation Secret Stork is a two-part process. 177 00:08:03,329 --> 00:08:06,158 Abishola pretends to be pregnant with Bob's child. 178 00:08:06,202 --> 00:08:07,551 We get a phony pee stick, 179 00:08:07,595 --> 00:08:10,815 counterfeit sonograms, the works. 180 00:08:10,859 --> 00:08:14,645 And Tayo, so disgusted by his wife's sins of the flesh, 181 00:08:14,689 --> 00:08:16,473 demands a divorce. 182 00:08:17,735 --> 00:08:20,390 Thoughts? 183 00:08:21,391 --> 00:08:23,611 Kofo? 184 00:08:23,654 --> 00:08:25,874 No, you go right ahead. 185 00:08:27,223 --> 00:08:29,791 So, you would destroy this woman's reputation 186 00:08:29,834 --> 00:08:32,184 and standing within her family and community? 187 00:08:33,185 --> 00:08:35,100 Yes. 188 00:08:36,145 --> 00:08:39,540 But she'd have us. 189 00:08:39,583 --> 00:08:40,845 Kofo? 190 00:08:40,889 --> 00:08:42,586 I-I think what Goodwin is trying to say is, 191 00:08:42,630 --> 00:08:44,414 while your heart is in the right place, 192 00:08:44,457 --> 00:08:46,111 your actions are beyond reprehensible. 193 00:08:46,155 --> 00:08:48,157 See? Cockamamie! 194 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:50,463 Okay, but if we took out 195 00:08:50,507 --> 00:08:52,944 the morality, put it in a box, 196 00:08:52,988 --> 00:08:55,425 buried that box in a little shame hole, 197 00:08:55,468 --> 00:08:57,079 would the plan work? 198 00:08:57,122 --> 00:08:58,080 I suppose in theory 199 00:08:58,123 --> 00:08:59,951 it could, but...Thank you! 200 00:08:59,995 --> 00:09:02,519 But her family may never speak to her again. 201 00:09:02,563 --> 00:09:05,217 Well, that will be okay, because she's our family now! 202 00:09:09,352 --> 00:09:11,093 When my son sat me down, 203 00:09:11,136 --> 00:09:14,357 I thought he was gonna tell me he was gay or Republican. 204 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,228 Which one is he? 205 00:09:16,272 --> 00:09:18,448 Neither. He's in love. 206 00:09:18,491 --> 00:09:19,231 With a man? 207 00:09:19,275 --> 00:09:20,406 No, with a woman. 208 00:09:20,450 --> 00:09:22,583 Ugh. Boring. 209 00:09:23,540 --> 00:09:25,890 Tell your son not to rush into marriage. 210 00:09:25,934 --> 00:09:28,501 He will end up disappointed, feeling foolish, 211 00:09:28,545 --> 00:09:29,894 and most likely alone. 212 00:09:29,938 --> 00:09:32,984 Who tinkled on your toast? 213 00:09:33,028 --> 00:09:37,641 Tayo. He left a trail of tinkle all around Detroit. 214 00:09:37,685 --> 00:09:40,078 It was stupid of me to think this could work. 215 00:09:40,122 --> 00:09:42,211 Why'd I say yes? 216 00:09:42,254 --> 00:09:43,821 Why did I give Bob hope? 217 00:09:43,865 --> 00:09:47,433 Sorry, you said "Bob Hope." 218 00:09:47,477 --> 00:09:49,653 Yes. She has given Bob hope. 219 00:09:49,697 --> 00:09:51,655 And soon Bob's hope will be dead. 220 00:09:51,699 --> 00:09:53,918 He already is. Get it? 221 00:09:55,572 --> 00:09:56,834 Never mind, never mind. 222 00:09:57,574 --> 00:09:59,707 Bob does not understand. 223 00:09:59,750 --> 00:10:00,882 No matter what we do, 224 00:10:00,925 --> 00:10:02,710 Tayo is not going to change his mind. 225 00:10:02,753 --> 00:10:03,928 Of course he's not. 226 00:10:03,972 --> 00:10:05,887 He's that stubborn? Is he a Taurus? 227 00:10:05,930 --> 00:10:07,889 He's Nigerian. 228 00:10:07,932 --> 00:10:09,630 And a Taurus. 229 00:10:10,892 --> 00:10:13,111 Nigerians can be very headstrong. 230 00:10:13,155 --> 00:10:14,896 And vindictive. 231 00:10:14,939 --> 00:10:16,680 I had a friend whose cousin stole 232 00:10:16,724 --> 00:10:19,944 her recipes and opened a successful catering business. 233 00:10:19,988 --> 00:10:22,904 My friend then sent her cousin a tainted box of cilantro, 234 00:10:22,947 --> 00:10:25,123 which gave all of her clients violent dysentery. 235 00:10:25,167 --> 00:10:26,908 Damn. 236 00:10:26,951 --> 00:10:30,563 Wait, doesn't your cousin have a catering business? 237 00:10:31,782 --> 00:10:33,654 Not anymore. 238 00:10:41,357 --> 00:10:42,880 Bob. 239 00:10:42,924 --> 00:10:44,708 Kaale,Tayo. I'd like to introduce you 240 00:10:44,752 --> 00:10:47,058 to my attorney Arnie Goldfischer. 241 00:10:47,102 --> 00:10:48,930 Pleasure. 242 00:10:48,973 --> 00:10:51,193 What's going on? 243 00:10:51,236 --> 00:10:53,021 I tried playing this the Nigerian way, 244 00:10:53,064 --> 00:10:54,675 but now we're gonna play it the American way. 245 00:10:54,718 --> 00:10:57,416 Whoever has the most expensive lawyer wins. 246 00:10:57,460 --> 00:10:59,244 And I'm very expensive. 247 00:11:06,774 --> 00:11:09,385 How did you know I would be here? 248 00:11:09,428 --> 00:11:10,952 Took a wild guess. 249 00:11:10,995 --> 00:11:13,737 We also came yesterday-- you never showed up. 250 00:11:13,781 --> 00:11:16,348 Oh, I love this soup. It's very spicy. 251 00:11:16,392 --> 00:11:19,700 Cleared me right out, but in a good way. 252 00:11:19,743 --> 00:11:20,613 Do you mind? 253 00:11:21,614 --> 00:11:22,920 Sorry. Um... 254 00:11:22,964 --> 00:11:24,443 Listen... 255 00:11:24,487 --> 00:11:26,010 Mr. Adebambo, 256 00:11:26,054 --> 00:11:28,273 my client is ready to go to great lengths 257 00:11:28,317 --> 00:11:31,581 to acquire the legal documentation from Nigeria 258 00:11:31,624 --> 00:11:32,800 to render your marriage 259 00:11:32,843 --> 00:11:37,108 to Mrs. Abishola Adebambo null and void. 260 00:11:37,152 --> 00:11:38,544 We're not messing around, Tayo. 261 00:11:38,588 --> 00:11:40,764 We're willing to do whatever it takes. 262 00:11:40,808 --> 00:11:43,767 I see. Well, 263 00:11:43,811 --> 00:11:46,335 perhaps you will be needing to speak with mylawyer 264 00:11:46,378 --> 00:11:48,293 Kitoye Afolabe. 265 00:11:49,730 --> 00:11:50,905 Spicy? 266 00:11:50,948 --> 00:11:52,820 No, he's a good lawyer. 267 00:11:52,863 --> 00:11:55,648 You know him?He's presented at international court. 268 00:11:55,692 --> 00:11:57,128 Everyone knows Afolabe. 269 00:11:58,826 --> 00:12:01,654 Perhaps this will not be as easy as you thought. 270 00:12:01,698 --> 00:12:04,440 Okay, okay, so we both have bigwig lawyers. 271 00:12:04,483 --> 00:12:06,442 No, his is bigger. Literally. 272 00:12:06,485 --> 00:12:08,270 You know, they wear those powdered wigs. 273 00:12:09,401 --> 00:12:11,447 I think it's left over from the English? 274 00:12:11,490 --> 00:12:13,057 It is. 275 00:12:13,101 --> 00:12:16,278 Maybe you should try dipping your fufu in there. 276 00:12:16,321 --> 00:12:18,759 All right, listen! 277 00:12:18,802 --> 00:12:20,804 Nobody wants us to spend a bunch of money 278 00:12:20,848 --> 00:12:22,545 tying this up in court. 279 00:12:24,852 --> 00:12:27,463 That time it was spicy. 280 00:12:28,725 --> 00:12:31,728 The point is, maybe we can try something else. 281 00:12:32,990 --> 00:12:35,253 How much would it take for you to just let her go? 282 00:12:37,212 --> 00:12:39,954 So you are trying to bribe me into leaving my wife? 283 00:12:39,997 --> 00:12:42,695 What's the big deal? First time you did it for free. 284 00:12:42,739 --> 00:12:45,133 Let me ask you something, Bob. 285 00:12:45,176 --> 00:12:48,310 How much would it cost for you to leave Abishola? 286 00:12:48,353 --> 00:12:50,312 You don't have that kind of money, pal. 287 00:12:50,355 --> 00:12:51,443 Ah... 288 00:12:51,487 --> 00:12:53,445 so you do have a number. 289 00:12:53,489 --> 00:12:55,099 Because I do not. 290 00:12:55,143 --> 00:12:58,189 No, I-I don't have a number either. 291 00:12:58,233 --> 00:13:00,061 But you see a Black man and assume that 292 00:13:00,104 --> 00:13:02,367 you can just buy him off.Okay. 293 00:13:02,411 --> 00:13:03,978 Hold on, this isn't a race thing. 294 00:13:04,021 --> 00:13:06,284 If you were white, I'd still be trying to buy you off. 295 00:13:06,328 --> 00:13:08,199 I'll buy off the lawyer, the judge, whatever it takes. 296 00:13:08,243 --> 00:13:09,984 What?! 297 00:13:13,030 --> 00:13:16,207 Okay, evidently I should not have said any of that. 298 00:13:18,775 --> 00:13:20,646 This isn't over. Not by a long shot. 299 00:13:20,690 --> 00:13:22,257 We'll go to international court. 300 00:13:22,300 --> 00:13:24,041 Do you know any Nigerian lawyers? 301 00:13:24,085 --> 00:13:25,913 No.Well, we'll find one. 302 00:13:25,956 --> 00:13:27,828 And if we have to go there, we'll go there. 303 00:13:27,871 --> 00:13:29,264 We'll make a trip out of it. 304 00:13:29,307 --> 00:13:30,874 We'll have to find different accommodations. 305 00:13:30,918 --> 00:13:33,224 My family will not allow us in their homes. 306 00:13:33,268 --> 00:13:35,531 Really?Really, but I do not care. 307 00:13:35,574 --> 00:13:38,186 I do not need my family or my church's blessings. 308 00:13:38,229 --> 00:13:40,318 We're going to fight this even if it takes years and years. 309 00:13:40,362 --> 00:13:41,798 Damn right. 310 00:13:46,847 --> 00:13:50,111 Or... we could just be happy. 311 00:13:50,154 --> 00:13:52,417 What? 312 00:13:52,461 --> 00:13:55,464 You're here with me, and I'm here with you. 313 00:13:55,507 --> 00:13:57,640 What are we fighting for? We already won. 314 00:13:59,337 --> 00:14:01,426 But this is important to you. 315 00:14:01,470 --> 00:14:04,995 It is, but it's not what's most important. 316 00:14:09,739 --> 00:14:11,915 It was going to be a nice wedding. 317 00:14:11,959 --> 00:14:15,223 Yeah. You would have made a lovely bride. 318 00:14:15,266 --> 00:14:17,747 And we know I can wear the hell out of a tux. 319 00:14:17,790 --> 00:14:20,054 Yes, you can. 320 00:14:20,097 --> 00:14:22,534 Uncle Tunde and Dele were going to walk me down the aisle. 321 00:14:22,578 --> 00:14:25,059 I like that. That's sweet. 322 00:14:25,102 --> 00:14:30,064 Mm. And there were going to be so many flowers. 323 00:14:30,107 --> 00:14:31,979 Calla lilies?You remembered. 324 00:14:32,022 --> 00:14:34,459 See? I listen sometimes. 325 00:14:34,503 --> 00:14:35,939 We'd seal the deal with a buffet 326 00:14:35,983 --> 00:14:38,811 so people could stuff themself on fufu. 327 00:14:38,855 --> 00:14:40,465 No buffet. Really? 328 00:14:40,509 --> 00:14:41,727 Uh-uh. 329 00:14:41,771 --> 00:14:43,555 This is a wedding, not a Sizzler. 330 00:14:44,948 --> 00:14:47,733 Sit-down, served dinner. 331 00:14:47,777 --> 00:14:49,866 Deal. 332 00:14:49,910 --> 00:14:51,955 Well, we may not have a wedding, 333 00:14:51,999 --> 00:14:54,349 but I found our song. 334 00:14:54,392 --> 00:14:56,960 I am not dancing to your Bob Seger. 335 00:14:57,004 --> 00:14:59,484 I understand why you'd say that, 336 00:14:59,528 --> 00:15:01,704 but it's something else. 337 00:15:10,278 --> 00:15:13,020 ♪ Love don't care who you be... ♪ 338 00:15:13,063 --> 00:15:16,675 I like this, but this would nothave been my first choice.No? 339 00:15:16,719 --> 00:15:18,590 You wanted that Bob Seger, huh? 340 00:15:18,634 --> 00:15:22,029 ♪ Love don't care who you know 341 00:15:22,072 --> 00:15:23,247 ♪ Watin you get, oh 342 00:15:23,291 --> 00:15:26,207 ♪ Love don't care at all. 343 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:41,439 Are you sure I need to come every week? 344 00:15:41,483 --> 00:15:43,224 It is important for us to show we have 345 00:15:43,267 --> 00:15:45,313 nothing to be ashamed of.I mean, I got plenty to be ashamed of. 346 00:15:45,356 --> 00:15:48,490 You know I used to smoke cigars and wear a little porkpie hat? 347 00:15:48,533 --> 00:15:50,971 It's a joke. When I'm anxious, I make jokes. 348 00:15:51,014 --> 00:15:54,017 I cannot believe I agreed to not marry you. 349 00:16:00,067 --> 00:16:01,720 How long is he gonna be here? 350 00:16:01,764 --> 00:16:04,245 Too long. Dele, come. 351 00:16:04,288 --> 00:16:05,550 We're going to get our seats. 352 00:16:05,594 --> 00:16:07,161 What was he saying? 353 00:16:07,204 --> 00:16:10,120 I don't know. I waspretending to understand. 354 00:16:10,164 --> 00:16:12,079 I'm about to do a lot of that right in here. 355 00:16:13,602 --> 00:16:16,779 E karo,Uncle Tunde, Auntie Olu. 356 00:16:16,822 --> 00:16:18,781 So good to see you on this fine morning. 357 00:16:18,824 --> 00:16:20,783 I see that you are still here. 358 00:16:20,826 --> 00:16:22,045 Where else would I be? 359 00:16:22,089 --> 00:16:24,526 In Nigeria, with your second family. 360 00:16:24,569 --> 00:16:26,832 I'm sure they miss you. 361 00:16:26,876 --> 00:16:29,966 Yes, well, I have family here, too. 362 00:16:30,010 --> 00:16:33,187 Really? Oh, I would love to meet them. 363 00:16:33,230 --> 00:16:35,319 Is there something wrong? 364 00:16:35,363 --> 00:16:37,234 Nothing is wrong. 365 00:16:37,278 --> 00:16:39,280 Tunde, remind me, 366 00:16:39,323 --> 00:16:40,933 where was he eight years ago? 367 00:16:40,977 --> 00:16:42,805 Not here. 368 00:16:42,848 --> 00:16:44,981 What about two years ago? 369 00:16:45,025 --> 00:16:46,591 Still not here. 370 00:16:46,635 --> 00:16:49,855 But this year, Abishola found Bob, 371 00:16:49,899 --> 00:16:51,683 a man she loves. 372 00:16:51,727 --> 00:16:54,469 And poof! Here he is. 373 00:16:55,948 --> 00:16:58,429 You are like a child who has discarded a toy 374 00:16:58,473 --> 00:17:00,431 and then begins whining for it 375 00:17:00,475 --> 00:17:02,651 when another child shows interest. 376 00:17:02,694 --> 00:17:06,916 Like a baby-baby, who has stuck his head in gravy. 377 00:17:06,959 --> 00:17:10,137 I appreciate your guidance, 378 00:17:10,180 --> 00:17:12,530 but Abishola and I have a son together. 379 00:17:12,574 --> 00:17:15,011 And what sort of an example are you setting for him? 380 00:17:15,055 --> 00:17:17,796 I am showing him he should go after what he wants. 381 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:20,277 Even if what he wants does not want him? 382 00:17:20,321 --> 00:17:22,584 You are making me seem desperate. 383 00:17:22,627 --> 00:17:25,456 Youare making you seem desperate. 384 00:17:27,241 --> 00:17:28,546 Well, there are plenty of women who would love 385 00:17:28,590 --> 00:17:30,853 to be with a successful man like me. 386 00:17:30,896 --> 00:17:34,248 Then maybe you should go wait for them at their church. 387 00:17:34,291 --> 00:17:37,425 Oh, my wonderful wife, 388 00:17:37,468 --> 00:17:39,122 you have castrated him with your words. 389 00:17:39,166 --> 00:17:40,297 Snip, snip. 390 00:17:44,997 --> 00:17:48,175 I just do not understand what made him send this text. 391 00:17:48,218 --> 00:17:49,959 Let me see it. 392 00:17:51,134 --> 00:17:53,571 "You've changed... 393 00:17:53,615 --> 00:17:56,574 "Many women want me... 394 00:17:56,618 --> 00:17:59,229 I can do a hundred push-ups." 395 00:17:59,273 --> 00:18:00,752 Is that a text from Tayo? 396 00:18:00,796 --> 00:18:02,928 Yes. I believe he no longer wants to be married to me. 397 00:18:02,972 --> 00:18:04,539 Ah. 398 00:18:04,582 --> 00:18:06,280 So he just suddenly changed his mind? 399 00:18:06,323 --> 00:18:09,544 What an unexpected turn of events. 400 00:18:09,587 --> 00:18:13,200 It is very odd. Nigerians do not change their minds. 401 00:18:13,243 --> 00:18:15,332 I'll bet you I scared him off with Goldfischer. 402 00:18:15,376 --> 00:18:17,682 It was not a goldfish.Uh-uh. 403 00:18:17,726 --> 00:18:20,032 God must have heard your prayers. 404 00:18:20,076 --> 00:18:24,689 And sent an angel to whisper in Tayo's ear. 405 00:18:24,733 --> 00:18:26,822 So we're actually doing this. 406 00:18:26,865 --> 00:18:29,912 You're gonna be Mrs. Abishola Wheeler. 407 00:18:29,955 --> 00:18:32,436 Mm. Or you could take my family name 408 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:34,264 and be Bob Odegbami. 409 00:18:34,308 --> 00:18:35,831 Ode-bami? 410 00:18:35,874 --> 00:18:37,180 Odegbami. 411 00:18:37,224 --> 00:18:39,487 Ode-bami. 412 00:18:39,530 --> 00:18:42,577 Odegbami. 413 00:18:42,620 --> 00:18:45,275 All right, if I can't say it, we can't do it. 414 00:18:48,670 --> 00:18:50,933 Captioning sponsored by CBS 415 00:18:50,976 --> 00:18:53,196 and TOYOTA. 416 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:55,242 Captioned by Media Access Group at WGBH access.wgbh.org