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Previously on
Bob Hearts Abishola...

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Sorry, it should work.

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I put money on it yesterday.

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Don't worry about it.I have cash.

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Relax. It's on me.

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Olivia.Douglas.

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Maybe it's time
we go on a real date.

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You mean off the bus?

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I do.

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I'd like that.So would I.

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Then we should.Why don't we?

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I'm pretty sure we are.

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BOB: Hey, Mom.CHRISTINA: There she is.

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Mommy.

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What do you want?

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Well, first of all,
let me just say

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we love you very much.

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Uh-huh.

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And in the spirit
of that love, we have

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something very important
we need to talk to you about.

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So this is how it happens, huh?

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How what happens?

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If I'm going to
a nursing home,

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I'm taking your kneecaps
with me.

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That's not what
this is about.

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You taking my booze?

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No.

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Well, then, what can I
do for you, sweethearts?

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[chuckles]

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My girlfriend...

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The Mexican?Yes,

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she happens to be Mexican...

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wants to meet my family.

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Oh, that's great.

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I've been looking forward
to meeting your little señorita.

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Okay, I'm gonna
stop you right there.What?

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Just call her Olivia.

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Not "the Mexican,"
not "señorita."

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So I take the time
to speak her language,

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and this is the gracias I get?

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Okay, this is a list
of all the things

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I am begging you
not to do or say.

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"Don't compliment her English
or marvel at her olive skin."

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Is this that "woke" crap?

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No, it's common courtesy crap.

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But it is crap?No.

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Okay, there is
no need for you

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to point out your
differences with people.

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Then what the hell
are we gonna talk about?

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DOUGLAS: Good instinct.

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Maybe don't talk at all.

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You're ashamed of me.No.

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Of course not.A little bit.

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This girl is really
important to Douglas,

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and we just want to
make a good impression.

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Speaking of which.

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"Olivia is not your friend
or your soul sister.

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You do not get her struggle."

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You don't know that.

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I do, so don'’t.

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Guys, this is not hard.
We can be on

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our best behavior for one night.

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Oh, come on.

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["Ifanla" by Sola Akingbola
playing]

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♪

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It's a Nigerian name.
A little tricky.

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Repeat after me:

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A-bi-sho-la.

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Abishola.

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First try. Good for you.

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I kept calling her
"Assi-Hola."

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I know.

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How did she meet Bob?

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Oh, that's a good story.

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He had a heart attack
and she was his cardiac nurse.

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Ah, cute. So they fell in love
in the hospital?

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No. There was a little stalking.

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But it was cute.

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So, my mom had a stroke.
She's fine.

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Abishola took care of her
while dating my brother

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at the same time.You're making this up.

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I know. It's ridiculous.

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Now my mom lives with them.

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Then, after they got married,
Her mom moved in, too.

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Abishola's mom?Yeah.

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We call her Mama Ebun.

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That name I nailed right away.

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So that's everybody?

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Well, there's also Dele,
Abishola's son

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from her first marriage
to Tayo.

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And Olu and Tunde
might be there, too.

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Olu and Tunde?

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Abishola's aunt and uncle.Do they live with them?

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Not yet.

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Hey, everybody.

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ALL: Hey!

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Hello.

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Hi, I'm Bob, Douglas' brother.

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It's nice to finally meet you.

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And you must be Abishola.I am.

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You have a lovely smile.Thank you.

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Douglas said to smile more

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because my resting face
is a bitch.

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That's not exactly what I said.All right, out of the way.

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I want to meet the gal

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who stole my little boy's heart.

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This is my mom.

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Hello, Mrs. Wheeler.Hi.

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I've been instructed
not to say anything else.

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Olivia, I am Abishola's mother.

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Welcome to my home.

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Brought some wine.

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Wow. And it's not half empty.

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Good for you. Hi.

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I'm Christina,
his twin sister.

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Hi. I love those earrings.

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Oh, gosh. Thank you.

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Uh, you know what,
I got them at this wonderful

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woman-owned boutique.

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We could maybe
get some lunch

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and do a little shopping.

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Or not.

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I am Tunde.

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This is my wife Olu.

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We looked at all
your Instagram posts,

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and you are hashtag lovely.

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[chuckles]
Hashtag thank you.

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Hi, I'm Dele,
Abishola's son.

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Oh, you're the one
that wants to become

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a choreographer,
but I hear it's not

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one of the approved options.

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That's me.

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Mmm. This is wonderful.

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I've never had Nigerian
food before.

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Thank you.
I'm glad you like it.

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Usually, the jollof
has more flavor.

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I did what I could with
Abishola's barren spice cabinet.

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Olivia's been teaching me
how to cook.

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All I knew how to make
was grilled cheese.

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Your smoke alarm says
you can't make that either.

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[laughter]

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Hey, I taught you
a few things in the kitchen.

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Yeah, how to yell at the maid.

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[laughter]

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I believe it is our job
as women to help bring out

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the best in our men.

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You mean housebreak them?

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Oh, like a stray dog.Woof!

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[laughter]

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Bob used to floss at the table
after meals.

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Mm.Oh.

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And now I do it over the trash,
like a gentleman.

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Yes, men are rough
around the edges

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until we find the right woman
who can sand us down.

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Well, I'm gonna be
sanding for a while.

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[laughter]

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Did you know that he
only has paper plates

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that he wipes off and reuses?

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I really am useless.

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He didn't even own a vacuum.

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I thought he had rats,

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but they were just
massive dust bunnies.

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I'm disgusting.

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I mean, seriously,
who raised you?

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I did, señorita!

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Have some more wine, Mom.

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Okay, everything looks good,
Mrs. Johnson.

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We recommend you rest
for the evening,

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and we will reevaluate
in the morning.

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Uh-uh. I want to leave now.

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And I wanted you to leave
yesterday.

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Excuse me?

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What she means is although
your procedure was minor,

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it's always better
to exercise caution.

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I know my body.

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I know it, too. You never
close your damn robe.

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I want to speak to
your supervisor.

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You are speaking to her, and I
say keep your ass in that bed.

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I'm sorry. She should never
have said those things to you.

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Even if everything
she said was correct.

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What are you doing?My job.

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You cannot speak to
the patients like that.[sighs]

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I know. Sorry.
It's just

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some stuff going on at home.

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Oh. That makes sense.

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Okay.

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Are you not even gonna ask?

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Ask what?

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I just told you something's
going on at home.

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Yes, and you seem
quite upset about it.

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I don'’t want to pry.

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But I want you to pry.

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Where are you going?

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Get in your damn room.

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It was so nice to meet
Douglas' girlfriend.

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She's lovely.

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Uh-huh.

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And so funny.

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Yeah, a real chucklehead.

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You did not like her?

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She didn't like me.
You heard her.

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"I had to teach Douglas
how to cook.

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I had to teach him
how to clean."

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Who do you think
that looks bad on?You.

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Exactly.

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You are right
to be upset, Dottie.

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This girl needs to know that

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a boy's mother
comes first, always.

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So I'm not crazy.Not at all.

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Just bear in mind who is
telling you you're not crazy.

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What does that mean?

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That means I drank some schnapps
before I came here

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and thought I was saying that
in my head.

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What was that?

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My retirement calendar.

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Why?

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Don't worry about it.Okay.

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Unbelievable.

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What is new
in the ICU?

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Gloria threw out
her retirement calendar.

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Because she's not retiring?

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I don't know. I don't think

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she wants to talk about it.

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Yes, I want to talk about it.

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I can't retire because

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my idiot husband
blew our whole nest egg.

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Oh, no.

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Was it drugs? Gambling.
Prostitutes?

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He spent it on our kids.

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Mm, that is boring.

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My son needed money
for a vegan food truck.

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In Detroit?
Why would he do that?

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Yes, that's a terrible
investment.I know.

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Then he just had to pay
for my daughter's

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dream wedding in Hawaii.

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And now he's paying
the legal bills for her divorce.

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Oh, no.

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Was it drugs? Gambling.
Prostitutes?

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No, they just fell out of love.

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That is
still boring.

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What should your husband
have done?

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We are supposed
to support our children.

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We were supposed
to buy an RV

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and travel around the country.

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Your retirement plan

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was to live in a van?

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Not a van, an RV.

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With a bed,
a kitchen, a bathroom.

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You drive your bathroom
around with you?

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Like a porta potty on wheels.

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If she brakes too hard,
she will slosh doo-doo water

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right into her kitchen.

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Just forget it.

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Oh...

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She seems really upset.

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She's so lucky to have
good friends like us to talk to.

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Mrs. Wheeler?

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Oh, hello.
What a coincidence.

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I didn't figure you
as a bus rider.

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Oh, sure. I'm all about
public transportation.

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I like to get in close
where you can smell the people.

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Where are you headed?Nowhere in particular.

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I just enjoy seeing Detroit

264
00:11:26,903 --> 00:11:29,950
on a rainy, dreary day.

265
00:11:29,993 --> 00:11:32,953
Okay.

266
00:11:39,350 --> 00:11:42,745
Look at you,
driving this big beast.

267
00:11:42,789 --> 00:11:43,964
She handles pretty well.

268
00:11:44,007 --> 00:11:45,530
I'm impressed.

269
00:11:45,574 --> 00:11:48,620
I'd be mowing down pedestrians
left and right.

270
00:11:48,664 --> 00:11:50,971
There wouldn't be one
skateboarder left in Detroit.

271
00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:55,410
I got to tell you,

272
00:11:55,453 --> 00:11:57,368
I've never seen Douglas happier.

273
00:11:57,412 --> 00:12:00,023
And that's all 'cause of you.I'm glad.

274
00:12:00,067 --> 00:12:02,634
So that's how you feel,
that it's all 'cause of you?

275
00:12:02,678 --> 00:12:04,506
Excuse me?

276
00:12:04,549 --> 00:12:06,247
Never mind.
Focus on your driving.

277
00:12:08,118 --> 00:12:10,686
You know he's my baby, right?

278
00:12:10,730 --> 00:12:11,861
Isn't he a twin?

279
00:12:11,905 --> 00:12:14,168
Yes, but he was born last.

280
00:12:14,211 --> 00:12:16,518
He loved me so much
the doctors had to

281
00:12:16,561 --> 00:12:19,739
pull him out of my hoo-ha
kicking and screaming.

282
00:12:19,782 --> 00:12:22,045
You draw quite the picture.

283
00:12:22,089 --> 00:12:24,526
I just want you to know
what you're getting into.

284
00:12:24,569 --> 00:12:26,876
He's a good man,

285
00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:28,660
but he's also a mama's boy.

286
00:12:28,704 --> 00:12:29,792
For now.

287
00:12:29,836 --> 00:12:32,142
Forever.

288
00:12:39,497 --> 00:12:41,325
[knocking]

289
00:12:41,369 --> 00:12:42,587
You wanted to see us?

290
00:12:42,631 --> 00:12:44,198
Yeah. Sit down.

291
00:12:44,241 --> 00:12:47,244
I want to talk to you
about something.

292
00:12:49,899 --> 00:12:52,597
So, what is up?

293
00:12:52,641 --> 00:12:54,817
We got any Mexicans
working in the warehouse?

294
00:12:54,861 --> 00:12:57,820
I believe Hector is Mexican.
Why?

295
00:12:57,864 --> 00:12:59,909
Well, remember when Bob
started dating Abishola,

296
00:12:59,953 --> 00:13:02,782
and I came to you guys
about advice on Nigerian stuff?

297
00:13:02,825 --> 00:13:06,698
Yes. That was the first time
you ever spoke to us.

298
00:13:06,742 --> 00:13:08,004
Yeah, well, I need to do
the same sort of thing,

299
00:13:08,048 --> 00:13:11,007
except, you know, Mexican.

300
00:13:11,051 --> 00:13:13,531
What is wrong with you?

301
00:13:13,575 --> 00:13:15,490
You're gonna have to
be more specific.

302
00:13:15,533 --> 00:13:18,145
What were you thinking
getting on her bus?

303
00:13:18,188 --> 00:13:20,103
That I love my son.

304
00:13:20,147 --> 00:13:22,497
She's very upset.I'm sorry, sweetie.

305
00:13:22,540 --> 00:13:25,152
Give me her number
and I'll call and apologize.

306
00:13:27,328 --> 00:13:29,286
No.

307
00:13:29,330 --> 00:13:32,072
You're right.
A call is too impersonal.

308
00:13:32,115 --> 00:13:33,682
I got her bus schedule.

309
00:13:33,725 --> 00:13:36,250
Stay away from her!

310
00:13:41,124 --> 00:13:44,171
Do you still
want to talk to Hector?

311
00:13:47,957 --> 00:13:49,872
Where's the mean nurse?

312
00:13:49,916 --> 00:13:52,092
I'm right here.

313
00:13:52,135 --> 00:13:53,920
No, the little one.

314
00:13:53,963 --> 00:13:55,878
She get fired?

315
00:13:55,922 --> 00:13:58,141
If you mean Nurse Gloria,

316
00:13:58,185 --> 00:13:59,577
she's taking a personal day.

317
00:13:59,621 --> 00:14:01,362
She's dealing with
some things at home.

318
00:14:01,405 --> 00:14:04,931
Her husband leaving her?
Hope so.

319
00:14:04,974 --> 00:14:06,846
You know nothing about her.

320
00:14:06,889 --> 00:14:09,413
Gloria is the hardest-working
nurse here.

321
00:14:09,457 --> 00:14:10,850
And usually very kind.

322
00:14:10,893 --> 00:14:13,200
If you say so.I do say so.

323
00:14:13,243 --> 00:14:14,766
She's my friend.

324
00:14:14,810 --> 00:14:16,594
Then you need to find
better friends.

325
00:14:16,638 --> 00:14:18,770
And you need to stop whining

326
00:14:18,814 --> 00:14:20,947
and keep your ass in this bed.

327
00:14:20,990 --> 00:14:24,124
I take it back.
You're the mean one.

328
00:14:24,167 --> 00:14:25,952
I already told you that.

329
00:14:27,214 --> 00:14:30,043
Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.

330
00:14:30,086 --> 00:14:32,915
Hey, listen, can I circle
back with you on Monday?

331
00:14:32,959 --> 00:14:33,916
Uh-huh.

332
00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:35,657
Uh-huh.

333
00:14:35,700 --> 00:14:38,747
Uh-huh. Uh-huh.

334
00:14:38,790 --> 00:14:41,881
Uh-huh.

335
00:14:44,927 --> 00:14:48,626
Listen, I got to go.
Something's up with my mother.

336
00:14:48,670 --> 00:14:51,499
Oh, God, what did she do?Mom's trying to

337
00:14:51,542 --> 00:14:54,067
get between me and Olivia and I
have to find a way to stop her.

338
00:14:54,110 --> 00:14:57,766
Douglas, first of all,
violence is never the answer.

339
00:14:59,246 --> 00:15:00,856
I didn't think it was.

340
00:15:00,900 --> 00:15:02,640
Oh, yeah, sorry,

341
00:15:02,684 --> 00:15:05,295
It's just where my mind goes.
[snorts]

342
00:15:05,339 --> 00:15:08,124
Wait, why are you coming to
me for relationship advice?

343
00:15:08,168 --> 00:15:09,604
You know I'm a mess.

344
00:15:09,647 --> 00:15:11,954
I can't go to Bob.

345
00:15:11,998 --> 00:15:14,914
He's only had two girlfriends
and he married both of them.Well,

346
00:15:14,957 --> 00:15:17,003
whereas I've had 22 boyfriends

347
00:15:17,046 --> 00:15:19,309
and Mom scared them all away.

348
00:15:19,353 --> 00:15:21,442
It wasn't all Mom.

349
00:15:21,485 --> 00:15:22,878
Do you want my help or not?

350
00:15:22,922 --> 00:15:24,314
Sorry.

351
00:15:25,533 --> 00:15:27,709
What do I do?
What did you do?

352
00:15:27,752 --> 00:15:29,929
I gave up on men and got a cat.

353
00:15:31,191 --> 00:15:33,367
I hate cats.
Come on.

354
00:15:33,410 --> 00:15:34,934
You must have learned something.

355
00:15:34,977 --> 00:15:37,371
Fine.

356
00:15:37,414 --> 00:15:41,114
The mistake I made
was wanting Mom's approval.

357
00:15:41,157 --> 00:15:43,899
I do the same thing.See? And you're never

358
00:15:43,943 --> 00:15:47,294
gonna get it, because she can
find a flaw in anybody.

359
00:15:47,337 --> 00:15:50,862
"Why are you dating him?
He's too old. He's too short.

360
00:15:50,906 --> 00:15:53,430
He just got out of prison
for involuntary manslaughter."

361
00:15:53,474 --> 00:15:55,084
You can't win.

362
00:15:56,390 --> 00:15:58,348
Yeah, but how do I fix this?

363
00:15:58,392 --> 00:15:59,959
Douglas,

364
00:16:00,002 --> 00:16:03,223
if you love this girl,
you have to fight for her.

365
00:16:03,266 --> 00:16:04,876
If I would have done that,

366
00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:06,269
Robert wouldn't have
killed again

367
00:16:06,313 --> 00:16:08,097
because he would have
had love in his life.

368
00:16:09,620 --> 00:16:12,101
Wait, the second time
wasn't involuntary?

369
00:16:13,102 --> 00:16:15,061
No.

370
00:16:15,104 --> 00:16:17,150
And that's on Mom.

371
00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:25,897
Hello.

372
00:16:25,941 --> 00:16:27,247
What are y'all doing here?

373
00:16:27,290 --> 00:16:29,423
Frank let us in.Who?

374
00:16:29,466 --> 00:16:32,774
Your husband.My husband's name is Lester.

375
00:16:32,817 --> 00:16:34,732
Well, he obviously
doesn't know his name

376
00:16:34,776 --> 00:16:36,952
because he didn't correct me
when I called him Frank.

377
00:16:38,519 --> 00:16:39,476
I made you a pie.

378
00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:41,652
Why?

379
00:16:41,696 --> 00:16:45,439
I was told in America, when
someone dies, you bring food.

380
00:16:45,482 --> 00:16:47,093
And your dream died,
so it seemed like

381
00:16:47,136 --> 00:16:48,398
the Christian thing to do.

382
00:16:48,442 --> 00:16:51,010
Thank you.

383
00:16:51,053 --> 00:16:54,230
We are ready to listen,
and we will not judge.

384
00:16:54,274 --> 00:16:55,579
Well, we will judge,

385
00:16:55,623 --> 00:16:58,365
but we'll keep it
to ourselves.

386
00:16:58,408 --> 00:17:01,324
I might have been overreacting.

387
00:17:01,368 --> 00:17:03,544
Yes, but your feelings
are valid.

388
00:17:03,587 --> 00:17:06,460
My what are what now?

389
00:17:06,503 --> 00:17:08,897
Something Bob always says.

390
00:17:08,940 --> 00:17:11,856
I do not understand it,
but it sounds nice.

391
00:17:11,900 --> 00:17:15,904
I just feel like
I've been running a marathon.

392
00:17:15,947 --> 00:17:18,080
And now, suddenly,
I'm almost done with the race,

393
00:17:18,124 --> 00:17:20,082
and the finish line
keeps getting pushed back

394
00:17:20,126 --> 00:17:21,257
further and further.

395
00:17:21,301 --> 00:17:22,867
Hmm.

396
00:17:22,911 --> 00:17:25,957
Do you have whipped
cream for the pie?

397
00:17:26,001 --> 00:17:27,046
No.

398
00:17:27,089 --> 00:17:28,743
Mm.

399
00:17:28,786 --> 00:17:31,789
I always thought
as soon as my kids are grown

400
00:17:31,833 --> 00:17:34,879
and out, then I'll start
living my life for me.

401
00:17:34,923 --> 00:17:36,968
Mm.

402
00:17:37,012 --> 00:17:39,580
Maybe ice cream?
A la mode?

403
00:17:39,623 --> 00:17:40,363
Sorry.

404
00:17:41,843 --> 00:17:44,846
Don-Don't get me wrong.
I love my kids.

405
00:17:44,889 --> 00:17:48,371
But it's been 30 years
and I'm still here,

406
00:17:48,415 --> 00:17:50,112
living my life
for everybody else.

407
00:17:50,156 --> 00:17:53,724
You might be here now, but
you will not be here forever.

408
00:17:53,768 --> 00:17:56,901
Mm. Soon you will drive
that portable toilet

409
00:17:56,945 --> 00:17:58,468
all across America.

410
00:18:00,253 --> 00:18:03,517
I just hope I'm still
healthy enough to enjoy it.

411
00:18:04,605 --> 00:18:06,955
It's good you have a dream.

412
00:18:06,998 --> 00:18:10,001
[scoffs]: You got dreams, too.
You gonna be a doctor.

413
00:18:10,045 --> 00:18:12,178
One day.

414
00:18:12,221 --> 00:18:14,789
That's the very stuff
dreams are made of, honey.

415
00:18:14,832 --> 00:18:16,312
One day.

416
00:18:16,356 --> 00:18:19,402
Mm.I would like to start
a catering business.

417
00:18:19,446 --> 00:18:21,665
Good for you.

418
00:18:21,709 --> 00:18:23,624
One day.Yeah, now you're getting it.

419
00:18:26,279 --> 00:18:29,151
Can I tell you something without
you getting angry with me?

420
00:18:29,195 --> 00:18:30,587
Of course.

421
00:18:32,459 --> 00:18:35,810
I'm sorry that you
have to keep working.

422
00:18:35,853 --> 00:18:38,552
But I would miss you terribly
if you left.

423
00:18:41,076 --> 00:18:43,383
Why would that make me angry?

424
00:18:43,426 --> 00:18:45,167
It's selfish.

425
00:18:45,211 --> 00:18:47,865
I love it.

426
00:18:50,216 --> 00:18:54,089
Frank, can you run out and
get us some Haäagen-Dazs?

427
00:19:03,098 --> 00:19:04,099
DOUGLAS:
And I just want you to know

428
00:19:04,143 --> 00:19:05,318
I'm my own man.

429
00:19:05,361 --> 00:19:06,928
My mother does not run my life

430
00:19:06,971 --> 00:19:09,017
anymore.

431
00:19:09,060 --> 00:19:10,149
Does she know that?

432
00:19:10,192 --> 00:19:11,802
What do you mean?

433
00:19:13,064 --> 00:19:15,545
Hey, guys. ¿Que pasa?

434
00:19:17,547 --> 00:19:18,766
What are you doing?

435
00:19:18,809 --> 00:19:20,376
I love you
and I don't want to get a cat.

436
00:19:20,420 --> 00:19:21,508
Open the door!

437
00:19:21,551 --> 00:19:23,640
Did you just say
you love me?

438
00:19:23,684 --> 00:19:26,121
I did, because I do.
I r-really do.

439
00:19:27,340 --> 00:19:29,168
And I know it's kind of fast,

440
00:19:29,211 --> 00:19:30,299
but I've never met
anyone like you.

441
00:19:30,343 --> 00:19:33,911
I know you can hear me.

442
00:19:33,955 --> 00:19:35,652
I love you, too.

443
00:19:35,696 --> 00:19:40,353
You got to let me on.
I pay my taxes!

444
00:19:40,396 --> 00:19:42,790
Drive.You sure?

445
00:19:42,833 --> 00:19:44,574
Floor it.

446
00:19:44,618 --> 00:19:46,446
Douglas!

447
00:19:47,447 --> 00:19:49,144
Douglas!

448
00:19:49,188 --> 00:19:51,668
You'll pay for this!

449
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