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Previously on
Bob Hearts Abishola...

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The surgeon is going
to cut off her hip

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with a bone saw and
replace it with titanium.

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A bone saw?

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Yes, it's a saw used
to cut bone.

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Oh, look,
he's starting to cut.

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[saw whirring]Oh, my...

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It is amazing,
isn't it?

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There's so much blood.

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Yes, the adult
human body holds

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one and a half gallons
of blood.

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[gags, clears throat]

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Are you all right?

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Mm-hmm.
[breathes deeply]

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No, you are not.
Sit down.

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[exhales]

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Breathe.

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[breathing sharply]

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Okay. You're right.
I'm good.

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Totally good.[saw whirring]

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I am not good.

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[retching]

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What's going on?

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How is Dele going
to become a doctor

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if he gets sick
at the sight of blood?

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Yeah, that's a problem.

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But better he found out now.

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Better for who?

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Everybody?

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What about these biology books?

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In the trash.

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This one looks kind of cool.

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Then you keep it.

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Okay.

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Microscope?

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Aw...

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I got that
for his third birthday.

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Third?

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What was I supposed to get him?

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A teddy bear?

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Put it in the box.

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You know,
I can't help thinking

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that maybe
you're overreacting.

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But then, that thought
just flies away.

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Here's something for Dele.

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It says here
the fastest growing field

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is software quality
assurance analysts.

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Dele will not do that.

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Why not?

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If I do not know
what it is,

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how can I brag
about him at church?

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Perhaps he should be
a lawyer.[exclaims]

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He would stay busy.

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Americans always want
to sue each other.Mm-hmm.

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I can picture
the billboards now.

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"Injury on the job?

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Call Dele Adebambo:
The Nigerian Hammer."

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You can always use a lawyer
in the family.

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More specifically,
I could use one next month.

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EBUNOLUWA:
After winning several

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high-profile murder cases,

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he can easily transition
into politics.

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He does have
a likable face.Mm-hmm.

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UNCLE TUNDE:
"Vote Dele Adebambo

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for President:
The Nigerian Hammer."

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Does it bother you that they
talk like you're not here?

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Please don't
draw attention to me.

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Sorry.

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DOTTIE:
If he does go
into politics,

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someone might dig up
that my late husband and I

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were communists
for a couple of days.Mom.

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We thought it was
a swingers party.

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What do you want to do, Dele?

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I really don't
think it's my place.

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We know what is best
for Dele.

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Maybe, but even if you force him
to go to some fancy law school,

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there's no guarantee he's gonna
get a job out of it.

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What are you
talking about?

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Well, I used to date
a Harvard Law graduate.

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[chuckles]
Glenn.

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Not traditionally
handsome, but cute.

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He had really short arms
like a tyrannosaurus rex.

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Cut to the closing
argument, honey.CHRISTINE: Um...

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Well, he was working
at a 24 Hour Fitness.

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[gasps]Eh?

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That is impossible.

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Are you sure
it was the good Harvard?

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Well, he had the sweatshirt.

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Anyway,

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big firms are looking for people

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with a more well-rounded
liberal arts education.

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Abishola, explain to me
what she is saying.

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I do not know.

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She's saying where
and what you study in school

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doesn't really mean
as much as it used to.

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Does anyone know what
they are talking about?

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You've eaten at Chipotle, right?

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UNCLE TUNDE:
Oh, yes.

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I love the convenience
of fast food

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and the quality of
a casual sit-down.

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Their CEO got his degree
in art history.

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Heck, there are plenty
of billionaires

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that never even finished school.

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Oprah, Bill Gates.

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Look at me,
I'm a college dropout.

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[gasping]

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Is this true?

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We do not speak
about it.

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I have a successful company.

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But imagine how much
better it would be

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if you had gotten
your degree.

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You know, it's not
too late for you.

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It is, and it's fine.

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No, it is not fine.[overlapping chatter]

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Let us all calm down.

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Bob is not on trial here.

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Dele is.

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["Ifanla" by Sola Akingbola
playing]

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Thank you, Mr. Wheeler.

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My daughter
will love these.

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It's great she wants
to be a doctor.

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Oh, she doesn't.
But now she will.

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Please send my condolences to
your wife for her tragic loss.

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It's not a loss.

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The kid's gonna be fine.Of course he will.

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BOB:
If you ask me,

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planning out a child's life
at such an early age

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puts too much
pressure on them.

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Pressure builds character.

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It is how you separate
the strong from the...

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[clicks tongue]
...Dele.

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My parents put
tremendous pressure on me

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and I always
resented them for it.

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See?Until I moved to America

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and saw how you raise
your children.

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With your hugging and your

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[American accent]: "You'll
get 'em next time, Cody."

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[regular voice]: Cody
will not get them next time!

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All right, I'm stopping
the cycle.

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Give me back the box.

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Aw.

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And you know what?

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I'll bet Cody is damn happy.

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Actually, he was crying.[giggling]

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Goodwin's daughter scored
11 goals on him.

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Geez, don't they have
a mercy rule?

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They do now.

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[both laughing]

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You will not
believe this.

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One of the patients
from the psych ward

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walked into my kitchen
and started peeling potatoes.

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Uh...
What did you do?

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I let her finish and then
I handed her some carrots.

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[laughing]

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Hey, ladies.

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Hello.
Hello.

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Abishola?Hmm?

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I made you cookies.

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KEMI: Mmm.Why?

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To cheer you up.

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You've been talking
about "Dele the doctor"

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as long as I've known you.

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I'm fine.

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I will take a cookie.Ah!

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They're not for you.

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I don't need cookies.
I need to move on.

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Honey, I am not
gonna let you

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bury your feelings.

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Yes, it's better
to eat them.

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Ah!

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Thank you, Gloria,
but this is not necessary.

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I stayed up two extra
hours last night,

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I missed my shows
and I burnt my finger.

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Let me console you,damn it.

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Fine.

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Oatmeal raisin
is not my favorite.

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Keep eating.

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Ah, there is my son.

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E kaasan,Dad.

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How are you doing?

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You have not called in days.

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I'm sorry.
Something has come up.

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Yes, your lunch.

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[laughing]

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You heard?

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Everyone heard.
[laughing]

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You think it's funny?

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I am the same way with blood.

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When my auntie slaughtered

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one of the animals for dinner,
I could not watch.

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Nothing is quite as embarrassing

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as vomiting
on a headless chicken.

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I threw up on my mom's shoes.

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Okay, you win.

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[laughing]

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But all is not lost.

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Now you will follow in
my footsteps.

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There is no blood
in engineering.

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Engineering?Yes.

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I have told everyone
that I work with.

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So you're going to
pick my career now?

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Obviously. I am your father.

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It should have been me
all along.

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How are you with heights?

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It does not make you sick,
does it?

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Not that I know of.Well,

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we cannot risk it.

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You have embarrassed
the family enough.

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This weekend, eat a big meal.

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Then, go to the top
of a tall building...

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...and look out a window.

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[panting][upbeat music playing]

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COLE:
Let's up the resistance!

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I can't do it, Cole.

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COLE:
You can do it, everybody!

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I said I can't do it,
you sexy bully!

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[doorbell rings]

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Oh, thank God.

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[music stops]

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[doorbell ringing]

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Hang on. I'm coming!

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Dele?

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Hi.

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Are you okay?

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No.

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Oh, come here.

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[sighs]

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I'm sorry I'm so sweaty.

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Okay, we're gonna
head out.

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What do you think
of this guy?

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Swipe left
or swipe right?

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I don't want to see that.

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I know he's chunky,
but he's got a motorcycle.

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I'm not helping you pick out
my new stepdad.

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Slow down.

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I'm only looking for
a little slap and tickle.

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Says so on my profile.

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That's not even you,
that's Doris Day.

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I've been told I look like her.

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[phone rings]Christina.

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I've never been more glad
to take your call.

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I just wanted to let you know
that Dele is safe

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and here with me.

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I'm gonna do my best
to heal him, Bob.

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What are you talking about?

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He ran away.

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And he ran to me.

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Oh, my God, is he okay?

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He's fine.

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He hasn't said much yet,
but I'll get him to open up.

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That's what I do.

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Christina?Yes?

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This is not some
baby rabbit you found.

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You can't keep Dele.

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[smacks lips] Oh, but they've
got the same innocent eyes.

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No.

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You bring him home
right now

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before Abishola finds out.

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I'm not gonna do that.

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Christina...

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Tell Abishola not to worry.

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Auntie Chrissy's got this.

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[exhales]Crap.

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So Dele went
to Christina's, huh?

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I was wondering

266
00:10:18,748 --> 00:10:20,707
where he was going
when he ran out of here.

267
00:10:20,750 --> 00:10:22,360
You saw him
and you didn't tell me?

268
00:10:22,404 --> 00:10:23,884
I'm no rat.

269
00:10:25,102 --> 00:10:27,104
Abishola's already
stressed out,

270
00:10:27,148 --> 00:10:28,932
that's the last
thing she needs.

271
00:10:28,976 --> 00:10:30,368
She doesn't need to know.

272
00:10:30,412 --> 00:10:31,543
Well, I'm not gonna
lie to my wife.

273
00:10:31,587 --> 00:10:32,893
You're kidding, right?

274
00:10:32,936 --> 00:10:34,721
How are you gonna stay married?

275
00:10:34,764 --> 00:10:36,679
Trust. Communication.

276
00:10:36,723 --> 00:10:38,289
[blows raspberry]

277
00:10:39,769 --> 00:10:41,466
She's up there getting ready
for a nice night out,

278
00:10:41,510 --> 00:10:42,424
and you're gonna ruin it
with the truth?

279
00:10:43,991 --> 00:10:45,427
She does need a break.

280
00:10:45,470 --> 00:10:49,779
Then look her in the eye
and lie your ass off.

281
00:10:49,823 --> 00:10:52,608
It's how you show your love.

282
00:10:54,741 --> 00:10:56,394
Are you ready to go?

283
00:10:58,570 --> 00:10:59,833
Yeah.

284
00:11:03,010 --> 00:11:04,446
But it's because I love you.

285
00:11:06,013 --> 00:11:07,275
Okay...

286
00:11:08,276 --> 00:11:09,233
You kids have fun.

287
00:11:09,277 --> 00:11:11,061
I'll watch Dele.

288
00:11:15,805 --> 00:11:17,633
[breathing deeply]

289
00:11:20,375 --> 00:11:23,421
This ceremony is called chado.

290
00:11:23,465 --> 00:11:25,293
And right now,
your role in it

291
00:11:25,336 --> 00:11:27,730
is to just be present.

292
00:11:27,774 --> 00:11:29,863
I can do that.

293
00:11:29,906 --> 00:11:31,386
Have you had this before?

294
00:11:31,429 --> 00:11:32,735
Tea? Sure.

295
00:11:32,779 --> 00:11:33,823
Ah.

296
00:11:33,867 --> 00:11:35,999
This isn't just tea.

297
00:11:36,043 --> 00:11:38,219
It's matcha.

298
00:11:38,262 --> 00:11:39,873
It's what monks drink.

299
00:11:39,916 --> 00:11:44,094
[giggles]
Now, for usucha,

300
00:11:44,138 --> 00:11:47,358
or thinner tea,
we use less matcha.

301
00:11:47,402 --> 00:11:49,099
Makes sense.

302
00:11:49,143 --> 00:11:52,581
But this situation
calls for koicha.

303
00:11:54,104 --> 00:11:55,715
Full strength? Hai.

304
00:11:59,109 --> 00:12:00,763
Now,

305
00:12:00,807 --> 00:12:03,984
let's take a deep,
cleansing breath

306
00:12:04,027 --> 00:12:05,420
and have a sip.

307
00:12:05,463 --> 00:12:06,943
Okay.
[inhales deeply]

308
00:12:06,987 --> 00:12:09,032
[both exhale]

309
00:12:13,994 --> 00:12:15,778
Do you really like this?

310
00:12:15,822 --> 00:12:17,388
No.

311
00:12:18,607 --> 00:12:19,782
It's not good.

312
00:12:19,826 --> 00:12:21,175
But...

313
00:12:21,218 --> 00:12:22,872
it's about the ritual.

314
00:12:25,005 --> 00:12:26,789
[both breathing deeply]

315
00:12:30,184 --> 00:12:32,577
Yeah, it never gets better.

316
00:12:33,970 --> 00:12:35,537
Can I ask you something?

317
00:12:35,580 --> 00:12:37,582
Sure, anything.

318
00:12:37,626 --> 00:12:39,193
How do you deal with being

319
00:12:39,236 --> 00:12:40,847
such a disappointment
to your family?

320
00:12:41,978 --> 00:12:43,719
Wow.

321
00:12:43,763 --> 00:12:45,503
Somebody's been spending time
with Grandma Dottie.

322
00:12:46,766 --> 00:12:48,811
I mean that you left
your family's company

323
00:12:48,855 --> 00:12:51,074
and went against everything
they wanted you to do.

324
00:12:51,118 --> 00:12:53,816
Oh, that disappointment.
[chuckles]

325
00:12:53,860 --> 00:12:56,514
Well, I hit a wall.

326
00:12:56,558 --> 00:12:58,734
Yeah, I kind of did, too.

327
00:12:58,778 --> 00:13:01,258
We had just had
another board meeting

328
00:13:01,302 --> 00:13:04,174
where nobody in the family
was listening to me.

329
00:13:04,218 --> 00:13:05,785
And I found myself fantasizing

330
00:13:05,828 --> 00:13:08,265
about making a pretty jacket
out of Grandma Dottie's skin.

331
00:13:09,223 --> 00:13:11,007
Wow.

332
00:13:11,051 --> 00:13:12,966
When I began wondering
if there would be

333
00:13:13,009 --> 00:13:16,056
enough skin left for shoes,
that's when I knew

334
00:13:16,099 --> 00:13:18,667
I needed to get out
of the situation.

335
00:13:21,191 --> 00:13:22,671
Does that answer your question?

336
00:13:24,499 --> 00:13:26,849
Honestly, I don't remember
my question.

337
00:13:29,417 --> 00:13:32,594
Well, be patient and
the universe will guide you.

338
00:13:32,637 --> 00:13:35,989
I was kind of hoping
you could do that.

339
00:13:36,032 --> 00:13:39,079
[sighs]
No, I can't.

340
00:13:39,122 --> 00:13:41,168
Oh, but I have tarot cards.

341
00:13:44,867 --> 00:13:45,955
Whoa, whoa, whoa.

342
00:13:45,999 --> 00:13:47,174
Do you work here?

343
00:13:47,217 --> 00:13:49,089
Yes, sir,

344
00:13:49,132 --> 00:13:50,177
I took your order earlier.He is kidding.

345
00:13:50,220 --> 00:13:51,482
He likes to make jokes.

346
00:13:51,526 --> 00:13:53,093
Ah. Good one.

347
00:13:55,922 --> 00:13:57,140
I thought it was funny.

348
00:13:57,184 --> 00:13:59,490
Thanks. It's nice
to see you smiling.

349
00:13:59,534 --> 00:14:02,798
With a 2005 Merlot,
how could I not?

350
00:14:02,842 --> 00:14:04,321
This was a good idea.
Thank you.

351
00:14:04,365 --> 00:14:05,453
Of course.

352
00:14:05,496 --> 00:14:07,455
I know there's been
a lot going on,

353
00:14:07,498 --> 00:14:09,109
but think of this
as a little vacation.

354
00:14:09,152 --> 00:14:10,893
We're on a stress-free island.

355
00:14:10,937 --> 00:14:12,982
I like that.

356
00:14:15,419 --> 00:14:17,378
I can't help thinking
that even though

357
00:14:17,421 --> 00:14:19,380
he cannot stand
the sight of blood,

358
00:14:19,423 --> 00:14:21,686
Dele would have made
such a good doctor.

359
00:14:21,730 --> 00:14:23,384
Yeah, he would've.

360
00:14:23,427 --> 00:14:24,951
When he was little, we would do

361
00:14:24,994 --> 00:14:26,909
"Head, Shoulders,
Knees and Toes,"

362
00:14:26,953 --> 00:14:30,086
and he would recite
all 206 bones in the body.

363
00:14:30,130 --> 00:14:32,436
That's a much longer song.

364
00:14:33,785 --> 00:14:35,526
But not as useless.

365
00:14:35,570 --> 00:14:38,355
You're really gonna miss
your study buddy, huh?

366
00:14:39,617 --> 00:14:40,618
I am.

367
00:14:41,881 --> 00:14:44,361
It was just the two of us
for such a long time.

368
00:14:46,233 --> 00:14:48,365
I'm scared we are going
to lose that connection.

369
00:14:48,409 --> 00:14:50,150
Well, you ever think
about telling him that?

370
00:14:50,193 --> 00:14:51,238
Telling him what?

371
00:14:51,281 --> 00:14:52,413
That you're gonna miss him.

372
00:14:52,456 --> 00:14:53,936
Why would I do that?

373
00:14:53,980 --> 00:14:55,764
So he knows how you feel.

374
00:14:55,807 --> 00:14:57,418
He already knows how I feel.If he did,

375
00:14:57,461 --> 00:14:58,593
he wouldn't have gone
to Christina for help.

376
00:14:58,636 --> 00:15:00,987
What?What?

377
00:15:02,553 --> 00:15:05,252
Why would he go to Christina's,
and why would he need help?

378
00:15:05,295 --> 00:15:07,950
These are all great questions.

379
00:15:07,994 --> 00:15:09,952
Bob.All right,

380
00:15:09,996 --> 00:15:12,128
apparently he was upset
and he went to Christina's.

381
00:15:12,172 --> 00:15:14,000
But the important thing is,
he's fine.

382
00:15:14,043 --> 00:15:15,784
When did this happen?

383
00:15:15,827 --> 00:15:19,222
It might have been just
before we left for dinner.

384
00:15:19,266 --> 00:15:21,181
And you are only
telling me this now?

385
00:15:21,224 --> 00:15:22,660
I thought you could use a break.

386
00:15:22,704 --> 00:15:23,879
So you lied to me.

387
00:15:23,923 --> 00:15:25,054
I didn't lie,
I waited to tell you

388
00:15:25,098 --> 00:15:26,186
because I love you.

389
00:15:26,229 --> 00:15:28,014
[sighs]

390
00:15:28,057 --> 00:15:29,363
I need the check.

391
00:15:29,406 --> 00:15:31,408
And you are...?Not the time.

392
00:15:35,369 --> 00:15:37,414
[breathing deeply]

393
00:15:40,504 --> 00:15:42,028
Hold a question

394
00:15:42,071 --> 00:15:43,899
you want answered
in your mind...

395
00:15:45,031 --> 00:15:46,423
...and then pull a card.

396
00:15:50,036 --> 00:15:52,777
[sighs]
Upright Strength card.

397
00:15:54,605 --> 00:15:56,346
This means inner courage,

398
00:15:56,390 --> 00:15:57,826
bravery,

399
00:15:57,869 --> 00:16:00,176
overcoming self-doubt.

400
00:16:00,220 --> 00:16:01,569
I know this is nonsense,

401
00:16:01,612 --> 00:16:03,745
but it kind of
makes me feel better.

402
00:16:03,788 --> 00:16:05,703
I get it.

403
00:16:05,747 --> 00:16:08,271
But don't call it nonsense,
you'll anger the cards.

404
00:16:09,577 --> 00:16:11,013
[pounding on door]ABISHOLA: Dele!

405
00:16:11,057 --> 00:16:12,841
What do we do?Okay,

406
00:16:12,884 --> 00:16:15,191
let-let's stay calm and ask
how this is gonna go.

407
00:16:15,235 --> 00:16:16,845
Oh, my.

408
00:16:16,888 --> 00:16:18,455
[pounding on door]

409
00:16:18,499 --> 00:16:20,675
ABISHOLA:
Christina, open
this door right now.

410
00:16:20,718 --> 00:16:22,155
Okay, Abishola,
I can tell you're mad,

411
00:16:22,198 --> 00:16:23,417
but I need you to promise

412
00:16:23,460 --> 00:16:25,158
to open your ears
and your heart.

413
00:16:25,201 --> 00:16:26,463
ABISHOLA: Let me in
before I break down this door.

414
00:16:26,507 --> 00:16:28,900
Yep, no problem.

415
00:16:28,944 --> 00:16:31,164
How dare you run away
without my permission.

416
00:16:31,207 --> 00:16:32,469
I'm sorry, Mum.

417
00:16:32,513 --> 00:16:33,470
And you!

418
00:16:33,514 --> 00:16:35,385
What is wrong with you?

419
00:16:35,429 --> 00:16:37,344
You should have called me
the moment he arrived.

420
00:16:37,387 --> 00:16:38,780
Well, let me explain.

421
00:16:38,823 --> 00:16:39,999
Don't engage, just apologize.

422
00:16:40,042 --> 00:16:42,044
I'm sorry, Abishola.

423
00:16:42,088 --> 00:16:43,219
Why are you even here?

424
00:16:43,263 --> 00:16:44,699
Because I listen.

425
00:16:44,742 --> 00:16:47,006
Do you? 'Cause I just
told you not to engage.

426
00:16:47,049 --> 00:16:49,225
He thinks you're all
disappointed in him.

427
00:16:49,269 --> 00:16:51,488
I'm done.

428
00:16:51,532 --> 00:16:53,316
Why would you think that?

429
00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:54,709
Because you are.

430
00:16:54,752 --> 00:16:56,580
I am disappointed,

431
00:16:56,624 --> 00:16:57,668
but not in you.

432
00:16:57,712 --> 00:16:58,713
You've worked so hard

433
00:16:58,756 --> 00:16:59,931
for me to become a doctor.

434
00:16:59,975 --> 00:17:02,151
You have worked hard.

435
00:17:02,195 --> 00:17:03,761
And it is not fair.

436
00:17:03,805 --> 00:17:06,329
But you cannot control
the way your body betrayed you

437
00:17:06,373 --> 00:17:08,114
and ruined my shoes.

438
00:17:08,157 --> 00:17:10,333
I just wanted to make you proud.

439
00:17:10,377 --> 00:17:12,379
I am.

440
00:17:12,422 --> 00:17:14,381
You are the thing
I am most proud of.

441
00:17:14,424 --> 00:17:15,512
Even now?

442
00:17:17,384 --> 00:17:18,515
Even now.

443
00:17:20,561 --> 00:17:21,605
Don't worry.

444
00:17:21,649 --> 00:17:23,520
We'll find you a new plan.

445
00:17:25,522 --> 00:17:26,567
No.

446
00:17:27,698 --> 00:17:28,960
Excuse me?

447
00:17:29,004 --> 00:17:30,223
No new plan.

448
00:17:30,266 --> 00:17:32,834
Upright Strength card.

449
00:17:34,227 --> 00:17:36,968
I've done everything
you've ever asked,

450
00:17:37,012 --> 00:17:38,057
but I need a break.

451
00:17:38,100 --> 00:17:39,536
I don't want to be doctor Dele

452
00:17:39,580 --> 00:17:42,365
or lawyer Dele,
or engineer Dele.

453
00:17:42,409 --> 00:17:44,585
I just want to be me
for a minute.

454
00:17:47,718 --> 00:17:48,893
Fine.

455
00:17:48,937 --> 00:17:50,069
Really?

456
00:17:50,112 --> 00:17:52,071
Really?Really?

457
00:17:54,595 --> 00:17:56,292
I can see that you are tired.

458
00:17:56,336 --> 00:17:59,165
And I know that very soon

459
00:17:59,208 --> 00:18:00,818
you will be ready
to work hard again.

460
00:18:00,862 --> 00:18:01,950
Of course.

461
00:18:02,951 --> 00:18:04,648
So have your break.

462
00:18:04,692 --> 00:18:06,085
Thank you, Mum.

463
00:18:06,128 --> 00:18:08,652
We will not talk about
your future for two weeks.

464
00:18:09,871 --> 00:18:11,177
I'll take it.

465
00:18:12,178 --> 00:18:13,440
Let's go home.

466
00:18:13,483 --> 00:18:15,355
A-And any time I can be

467
00:18:15,398 --> 00:18:17,139
a vessel for healing,
please use me.

468
00:18:17,183 --> 00:18:19,794
[chuckles]Vessel? Sure.

469
00:18:21,187 --> 00:18:23,232
Christina.Yes?

470
00:18:24,668 --> 00:18:25,887
You are a good auntie.

471
00:18:25,930 --> 00:18:28,281
Thank you.

472
00:18:28,324 --> 00:18:29,499
But I am still angry
with you.

473
00:18:29,543 --> 00:18:30,631
Yeah, fair enough.

474
00:18:37,203 --> 00:18:38,378
[whispers]:
I'm a good auntie.

475
00:18:45,167 --> 00:18:46,734
[music playing on TV]We're home.

476
00:18:46,777 --> 00:18:48,344
Welcome back.

477
00:18:48,388 --> 00:18:50,085
Dele's already in bed.

478
00:18:50,129 --> 00:18:52,174
He wore himself out
reading me Bible stories.

479
00:18:53,654 --> 00:18:55,438
Hello.

480
00:18:59,921 --> 00:19:02,663
Oh...[turns TV off]

481
00:19:02,706 --> 00:19:05,274
So, you were also
a part of this whole thing?

482
00:19:05,318 --> 00:19:06,797
Absolutely not.

483
00:19:06,841 --> 00:19:08,886
I'm just as much a victim
as you are.

484
00:19:08,930 --> 00:19:11,541
[stammers]
Good night.

485
00:19:11,585 --> 00:19:13,326
Good night, sweetie.

486
00:19:14,979 --> 00:19:17,199
You see how happy
she was I lied?

487
00:19:18,679 --> 00:19:20,681
Good night, Mom.

488
00:19:20,724 --> 00:19:22,117
Really?

489
00:19:22,161 --> 00:19:24,337
This is the thanks I get
for saving your marriage?

490
00:19:31,561 --> 00:19:33,824
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491
00:19:37,828 --> 00:19:39,830
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