1 00:00:00,900 --> 00:00:02,233 [narrator] Previously, on sMothered... 2 00:00:02,267 --> 00:00:03,733 Scott will never touch you [laughing] 3 00:00:03,767 --> 00:00:05,967 or marry you if you're gonna leave it like this. 4 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:09,400 [employee] Your mom told me that she wanted to book this for you guys as a gift 5 00:00:09,433 --> 00:00:11,833 -on your engagement. -[Scott] Oh, my gosh. 6 00:00:11,867 --> 00:00:14,067 I think I'm being treated on a date, 7 00:00:14,100 --> 00:00:16,833 but I'm being surprised with a wedding. 8 00:00:16,867 --> 00:00:21,067 I mean, I don't know why, like, wedding stuff scares you so much. 9 00:00:21,100 --> 00:00:23,800 It's not about that. This is just not my wedding, 10 00:00:23,833 --> 00:00:24,967 this is your mom's wedding. 11 00:00:26,233 --> 00:00:28,033 Out with my twin. 12 00:00:28,067 --> 00:00:32,467 I'm Sky, this is Skylar Marie. 13 00:00:32,500 --> 00:00:35,767 [Skylar] I love dancing, twerking, and making music. 14 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:37,800 This is my next Beyonce. 15 00:00:37,833 --> 00:00:40,400 Make sure you groove with the real sexy, 16 00:00:40,433 --> 00:00:41,633 like the body roll. 17 00:00:41,667 --> 00:00:43,133 -Body roll. -Oh, my goodness. 18 00:00:43,167 --> 00:00:45,733 [Sky] We're putting together a music video 19 00:00:45,767 --> 00:00:48,033 to Skylar's hot new single! 20 00:00:48,067 --> 00:00:50,000 I'm outworking you, 21 00:00:50,033 --> 00:00:51,500 and it should be the other way around. 22 00:00:52,533 --> 00:00:55,100 Don't be mean, jelly bean. Let's go. 23 00:00:55,133 --> 00:00:58,667 My mom and I have been sleeping in the same bed for a while. 24 00:00:58,700 --> 00:01:01,533 So when TJ stays, he stays in the guest room 25 00:01:01,567 --> 00:01:03,067 and I sleep with my mom. 26 00:01:03,067 --> 00:01:05,067 They shouldn't even be sleeping together, honestly. 27 00:01:05,067 --> 00:01:06,767 He's like, "Well, what if we get married?" 28 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:09,567 When I hear her speak of marriage, 29 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:10,867 I cringe 30 00:01:10,900 --> 00:01:14,067 because they don't belong together. 31 00:01:14,067 --> 00:01:16,133 They are not equally yoked. 32 00:01:20,467 --> 00:01:21,900 [singer vocalizing] 33 00:01:27,167 --> 00:01:28,833 [Brittani] Isn't my mom beautiful? 34 00:01:28,867 --> 00:01:30,233 Just look at her smile. 35 00:01:30,267 --> 00:01:31,700 [Brittani and Mary chuckle] 36 00:01:31,733 --> 00:01:34,233 Everything about her is flawless. 37 00:01:34,267 --> 00:01:35,700 That's sweet. Thank you, babe. 38 00:01:37,433 --> 00:01:38,467 [employee] Is it three this evening? 39 00:01:38,500 --> 00:01:41,067 Yes, please. Thank you. 40 00:01:41,067 --> 00:01:44,100 [Mary] My favorite thing in the world is spending as much time 41 00:01:44,133 --> 00:01:46,167 as we can together. 42 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,900 Even if you insist on bringing TJ, too. 43 00:01:48,933 --> 00:01:50,533 Thank you so much. 44 00:01:51,167 --> 00:01:52,900 I don't wanna see TJ. 45 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:55,433 Mom, really? 46 00:01:58,067 --> 00:01:59,567 [singer vocalizing] 47 00:02:11,133 --> 00:02:12,467 Okay. 48 00:02:12,500 --> 00:02:13,633 Nice water. 49 00:02:13,667 --> 00:02:15,733 Yeah, nothing like a good glass of water. 50 00:02:17,100 --> 00:02:22,200 I promised Brittani that I would try to get along with TJ, 51 00:02:22,233 --> 00:02:26,466 and so, we need to spend more quality time together, so... 52 00:02:26,500 --> 00:02:27,767 That's what I kept saying. 53 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:29,667 ...we could get to know one another better... 54 00:02:29,700 --> 00:02:30,867 -[Brittani] That's what I kept saying. -...and know 55 00:02:30,900 --> 00:02:32,300 each other's personality. 56 00:02:32,333 --> 00:02:35,333 But I would love for my mom and TJ to be together more often, 57 00:02:35,367 --> 00:02:37,800 so we can all be a family together. 58 00:02:43,067 --> 00:02:46,333 Anything else you want? Like dessert, too, later? 59 00:02:46,367 --> 00:02:47,167 Yeah, of course. 60 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:48,733 I love the dessert. 61 00:02:48,767 --> 00:02:51,633 No. No, I'm not talking about that dessert. 62 00:02:51,667 --> 00:02:53,400 I'm talking about dessert, bae. 63 00:02:53,433 --> 00:02:54,567 I know, you're talking about food. 64 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:56,367 [chuckling] Okay. 65 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:58,433 You can say it to me, I'm right across from you. 66 00:03:00,667 --> 00:03:03,967 If you do decide to have sex tonight... 67 00:03:04,067 --> 00:03:06,900 okay? And you need anything from me, I have-- 68 00:03:06,933 --> 00:03:07,900 [Brittani] Mom, we're in a restaurant. 69 00:03:07,933 --> 00:03:08,933 I have lube. 70 00:03:11,567 --> 00:03:14,733 The kind that you blow on, it gets hot and it tastes good. 71 00:03:17,133 --> 00:03:21,133 Our relationship doesn't revolve around sex, like, all the time. 72 00:03:21,167 --> 00:03:22,067 How many times, uh, 73 00:03:22,067 --> 00:03:23,800 how many times a week do you guys do it 74 00:03:23,833 --> 00:03:24,633 when you're together? 75 00:03:26,067 --> 00:03:28,667 I don't know. Why? That's such a weird question. 76 00:03:28,700 --> 00:03:30,966 I'm just letting you know 77 00:03:31,067 --> 00:03:32,466 that, you know, if it does happen, 78 00:03:32,500 --> 00:03:34,500 uh, if you need something, just come to my room. 79 00:03:34,533 --> 00:03:36,733 Text me. Send me a text, 80 00:03:36,767 --> 00:03:38,300 -my phone's gonna be on all night. -[Brittani] I know, 81 00:03:38,333 --> 00:03:40,667 but I'm not horny, maybe you are. 82 00:03:40,700 --> 00:03:43,600 'Cause you've been bringing up sex a lot lately. 83 00:03:47,167 --> 00:03:48,800 Oh, my gosh, Mom. 84 00:03:48,833 --> 00:03:51,367 That's all I hear from you, is that three letter word. 85 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:55,867 S-E-X. She loves sex. 86 00:03:55,900 --> 00:03:59,067 I mean, you can't even lay by her without putting your hands all over her. 87 00:03:59,067 --> 00:04:00,600 [Brittani] Well, he can touch me. 88 00:04:00,633 --> 00:04:02,233 Well, didn't you and Frank cuddle? 89 00:04:02,267 --> 00:04:03,367 [Mary] Yeah, but he... 90 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:05,133 Every time he put his hands on me... 91 00:04:06,633 --> 00:04:07,933 he got a boner. 92 00:04:07,967 --> 00:04:10,633 [TJ] Hey, yo, why are you talking about boners at the table? 93 00:04:10,667 --> 00:04:13,500 [Mary] Because it's the truth. 94 00:04:13,533 --> 00:04:15,900 So, you don't get a [bleep] when you're touching my daughter? 95 00:04:15,933 --> 00:04:16,867 [Brittani] Well, you do. 96 00:04:16,899 --> 00:04:18,632 -You can admit you do. -Yes. I mean, I do. 97 00:04:18,667 --> 00:04:20,567 Okay. That's what I'm saying. 98 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:22,733 -Exactly what I'm saying. -[Brittani] Mom. 99 00:04:24,832 --> 00:04:26,433 See, as far as talking about sex, 100 00:04:26,467 --> 00:04:28,767 I'm fine with talking about it with my mom, 101 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:29,800 about anything, 102 00:04:29,832 --> 00:04:31,667 but not at a public restaurant. 103 00:04:31,700 --> 00:04:34,367 I just wanna make sure he's fulfilling every need, 104 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:35,233 -okay? -Okay. 105 00:04:35,267 --> 00:04:37,567 Every crevice, very crack on your body. 106 00:04:38,900 --> 00:04:40,467 -Mmm! Mmm. -[TJ] Okay. 107 00:04:51,867 --> 00:04:53,433 [TJ] I am... I'm not even hungry no more. 108 00:04:53,467 --> 00:04:56,867 [Brittani] Listen, like, I understand that it's uncomfortable, 109 00:04:56,900 --> 00:05:00,833 baby, but at the same time, you're showing my mom you're not turned on by me. 110 00:05:02,900 --> 00:05:05,200 This is just mind-blowing. Like, I just like... 111 00:05:05,233 --> 00:05:07,700 All I see is y'all two are just like this. 112 00:05:07,733 --> 00:05:09,733 I mean, she is my best friend. 113 00:05:09,767 --> 00:05:12,633 Your mom should be your mother first, 114 00:05:12,667 --> 00:05:13,833 not your friend. 115 00:05:13,867 --> 00:05:15,967 I'm just saying, so... 116 00:05:16,067 --> 00:05:16,667 Okay. 117 00:05:19,300 --> 00:05:21,067 We make love, we don't just have sex. 118 00:05:21,100 --> 00:05:22,700 If that's what you were thinking, make... 119 00:05:22,733 --> 00:05:25,700 There's a difference between having sex and making love. 120 00:05:27,067 --> 00:05:27,700 [Mary] Mm. 121 00:05:31,332 --> 00:05:33,133 She's so cute. Isn't she sweet? 122 00:05:33,167 --> 00:05:34,467 Yeah, she's amazing. 123 00:05:34,867 --> 00:05:36,433 She's my baby. 124 00:05:36,467 --> 00:05:37,500 [TJ] Mine's too. 125 00:05:38,167 --> 00:05:39,533 No, she's my baby. 126 00:05:39,567 --> 00:05:41,067 Oh, until she moves out. 127 00:05:42,067 --> 00:05:43,200 She's not moving out. 128 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:45,633 She's not moving out. 129 00:05:46,433 --> 00:05:47,100 Okay? 130 00:05:48,900 --> 00:05:49,567 [Mary] All right? 131 00:05:51,367 --> 00:05:53,433 Brittani loves me and she won't leave me. 132 00:05:54,667 --> 00:05:57,067 And believe me, you'll find out. 133 00:05:57,933 --> 00:05:59,332 [TJ speaking] 134 00:06:08,300 --> 00:06:08,967 And... 135 00:06:12,333 --> 00:06:14,333 "Like, let her do her thing." 136 00:06:14,367 --> 00:06:17,832 She may be your girlfriend, but she's my baby. 137 00:06:17,867 --> 00:06:19,133 -Okay, I know. -[Mary] Okay? 138 00:06:19,167 --> 00:06:20,533 I own her, not you. 139 00:06:22,933 --> 00:06:25,400 -You own your daughter? -Yep, I do. 140 00:06:25,433 --> 00:06:26,767 Okay, let's go. 141 00:06:28,367 --> 00:06:29,967 [Brittani] Dinner didn't go how I hoped, 142 00:06:30,067 --> 00:06:32,633 because they're not communicating. 143 00:06:32,667 --> 00:06:34,267 I don't know what it is, but... 144 00:06:34,300 --> 00:06:36,267 Jeez. 145 00:06:36,300 --> 00:06:38,633 ...I don't like keeping secrets away from her, 146 00:06:38,667 --> 00:06:42,832 but I just don't know when to tell her and how to tell her. 147 00:06:42,867 --> 00:06:44,967 Because I tell her everything. 148 00:06:45,067 --> 00:06:47,633 -Listen, we have a good time, food was delicious. -[Brittani] Yeah. 149 00:06:47,667 --> 00:06:49,633 It was very, very good. 150 00:06:49,667 --> 00:06:53,233 But the thing is, I want her to like TJ first, 151 00:06:53,267 --> 00:06:54,500 before I tell her. 152 00:06:54,533 --> 00:06:56,767 If my mom doesn't like someone I'm dating, 153 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:58,700 my life is living hell. 154 00:06:58,733 --> 00:07:01,267 I want my mom to hurry up and like TJ. 155 00:07:03,467 --> 00:07:04,133 * Oh * 156 00:07:05,900 --> 00:07:08,367 * Unapologetic Doing the most * 157 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:09,500 Why do you got so much stuff? 158 00:07:09,533 --> 00:07:10,600 [India] What are you talking about? 159 00:07:10,633 --> 00:07:11,867 This is not a lot of stuff. 160 00:07:11,900 --> 00:07:13,067 -What are you doing? -[Trevor] I'm about to clean my ears. 161 00:07:13,100 --> 00:07:14,467 Here, give me. I'll do it for you. 162 00:07:14,500 --> 00:07:15,167 [Trevor] All right. 163 00:07:17,067 --> 00:07:18,233 -Thank you. -[India] Mm-hmm. 164 00:07:21,433 --> 00:07:23,267 Boy, I need a new one, you don't put the same one in there. 165 00:07:23,300 --> 00:07:24,800 -Give me another one. -You can use the other side. 166 00:07:24,832 --> 00:07:26,233 I did. 167 00:07:26,267 --> 00:07:28,067 -My ear's not that dirty. -[India] Stop stressing, your ears are dirty. 168 00:07:28,067 --> 00:07:28,700 Yeah. 169 00:07:29,267 --> 00:07:29,933 [licking] 170 00:07:30,700 --> 00:07:32,267 I hope your tongue is clean. 171 00:07:32,300 --> 00:07:33,867 [chuckles] My mouth is clean. 172 00:07:33,900 --> 00:07:35,633 -My mouth is clean. -It better be. 173 00:07:35,667 --> 00:07:39,167 * Ooh, I can give you Everything * 174 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:43,133 * Ooh, everything Unapologetically, oh * 175 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:47,733 -Okay. Ugh, my hair. -There you go. 176 00:07:47,767 --> 00:07:49,900 -Ugh, I'm so tired. -There you go. Take you hat off, girl. 177 00:07:49,933 --> 00:07:52,100 [India] Yes, I need you to help me do my hair. 178 00:07:52,133 --> 00:07:53,667 -Trying something to put on my hair. -[Trevor] What is that? 179 00:07:54,733 --> 00:07:55,900 [India] Honey. 180 00:07:55,933 --> 00:07:57,967 I'm Trevor, I'm 37, I'm from New York, 181 00:07:58,067 --> 00:07:59,600 but I live in Georgia now. 182 00:07:59,633 --> 00:08:03,067 And this is my mom, India. 183 00:08:03,100 --> 00:08:05,900 I'm from New York, but I live in Georgia... 184 00:08:05,933 --> 00:08:09,433 with my son. It's like a mother-y son bond, yes, 185 00:08:09,467 --> 00:08:13,700 that you feel like a mama bear, cub bear 186 00:08:13,733 --> 00:08:15,367 type of thing, yeah. 187 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:16,832 -Yeah. -That's what it feels like, yeah. 188 00:08:16,867 --> 00:08:18,300 -Mama bear. -It's... Yeah, mama bear. 189 00:08:18,332 --> 00:08:20,200 -I'm mama bear. This is my son bear. -[laughs] 190 00:08:20,233 --> 00:08:22,167 -We protect each other. -Exactly. 191 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:23,200 [India] Oh. 192 00:08:23,233 --> 00:08:24,332 [Trevor] Yo, Ma, your scalp is... 193 00:08:24,367 --> 00:08:26,533 Your hair's so soft. Is it the honey? 194 00:08:26,567 --> 00:08:29,100 -Mm-hmm. Yeah. [laughs] -Wow! [chuckles] 195 00:08:29,133 --> 00:08:30,100 [Trevor] No, for real. 196 00:08:30,133 --> 00:08:31,733 -Like, it's really soft. -Oh, it feels so good. 197 00:08:31,767 --> 00:08:33,500 [Trevor] We spend a lot of time together. 198 00:08:33,533 --> 00:08:35,200 We have our morning beauty routine, 199 00:08:35,232 --> 00:08:36,332 we make up dances. 200 00:08:36,366 --> 00:08:37,067 [India] Oh, yeah. 201 00:08:38,933 --> 00:08:40,767 [both laugh] 202 00:08:40,799 --> 00:08:42,067 -We cook together. -We do. 203 00:08:42,100 --> 00:08:43,832 We eat, we feed each other. 204 00:08:43,866 --> 00:08:45,100 [mimics chewing] 205 00:08:45,133 --> 00:08:46,367 [both laugh] 206 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:47,600 -We play hide and seek. -[India] Play hide and seek-- Yeah. 207 00:08:47,633 --> 00:08:50,300 -[Trevor screaming] -[laughs] 208 00:08:50,333 --> 00:08:53,267 Something else we like to do, go to bingo. 209 00:08:53,300 --> 00:08:54,967 Yo, bingo night is, like, sacred 210 00:08:55,067 --> 00:08:56,067 -at this point. -It is. 211 00:08:56,067 --> 00:08:57,367 I need that money, honey. 212 00:08:57,400 --> 00:08:59,067 I need a vacation. 213 00:08:59,067 --> 00:09:01,300 -Oh! -Yeah. 214 00:09:01,333 --> 00:09:05,600 Every Thursday evening, we do a mother-son bingo night. 215 00:09:05,633 --> 00:09:06,467 -Yes. -[Trevor] It's the best. 216 00:09:06,500 --> 00:09:07,633 [India] Yes, it is the best. 217 00:09:07,667 --> 00:09:09,133 [Trevor] It is the best, like-- 218 00:09:09,167 --> 00:09:10,167 -[India] It's like, we put on our outfits. -[Trevor] We get dressed. 219 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:11,967 -Mm-hmm. -Do our hair. 220 00:09:12,067 --> 00:09:13,733 You put your cologne on, I put my stuff on. 221 00:09:13,767 --> 00:09:15,300 Ay! 222 00:09:15,333 --> 00:09:17,733 [Trevor] It's the thing that, I think, we look forward to the most in the week. 223 00:09:17,767 --> 00:09:20,367 -Oh, all right. -[India laughs] 224 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:21,533 [Trevor] All right. 225 00:09:21,567 --> 00:09:22,833 -This is why I love you. -[India] You got-- 226 00:09:22,867 --> 00:09:24,700 -[spits] -[India laughs] 227 00:09:24,733 --> 00:09:26,067 -[Trevor] Yeah, my turn. -[India] Whoop. 228 00:09:26,067 --> 00:09:26,900 -[Trevor] Oh! -[India] Ooh. 229 00:09:26,933 --> 00:09:28,533 [Trevor and India speaking indistinctly] 230 00:09:28,567 --> 00:09:30,300 What do you think we doing? We're going to bingo. 231 00:09:30,333 --> 00:09:32,333 -I cannot. Oh, my God. -[India] We're going to bingo. 232 00:09:32,367 --> 00:09:33,900 -Whoo, whoo! -This is so weird. 233 00:09:33,933 --> 00:09:35,467 -[Trevor] $1,000, baby. -Oh, yeah. 234 00:09:35,500 --> 00:09:37,400 [Trevor] You know, I think my wife has a tough time 235 00:09:37,433 --> 00:09:40,367 accepting my relationship with my mom 236 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:41,267 because... 237 00:09:42,567 --> 00:09:43,833 Okay, I'mma go get changed. 238 00:09:43,867 --> 00:09:44,800 -All right, cool. -Okay. 239 00:09:44,833 --> 00:09:45,667 -[Trevor] Go ahead. -[India] Okay. 240 00:09:45,700 --> 00:09:49,700 This is my amazing husband, Trevor, 241 00:09:49,733 --> 00:09:53,067 and the lady next to him is his mother-in-law. 242 00:09:53,067 --> 00:09:57,267 [India and Trevor snickering and laughing] 243 00:09:57,300 --> 00:09:59,100 -Why are y'all laughing? -'Cause I got you. 244 00:09:59,133 --> 00:10:00,733 I just don't even know what you're laughing at. 245 00:10:05,533 --> 00:10:06,567 Okay. 246 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:08,633 Did you just call me a piece of [bleep]? 247 00:10:08,667 --> 00:10:10,500 -[Trevor snickering] -Is that what she just said? 248 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:14,200 [India laughing] I did. I did. 249 00:10:15,933 --> 00:10:16,867 I did. 250 00:10:16,900 --> 00:10:18,467 It's so hard for you to say, "That's my mom," 251 00:10:18,500 --> 00:10:20,067 but, "This is his mother-in-law." 252 00:10:20,100 --> 00:10:21,033 I mean... 253 00:10:21,067 --> 00:10:22,567 It's the same thing, right? 254 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:24,133 No, just say I'm your mom. 255 00:10:24,167 --> 00:10:25,333 -That's it. -Well-- No. 256 00:10:25,367 --> 00:10:26,700 -Okay. -I already... 257 00:10:26,733 --> 00:10:27,900 It's all right. 258 00:10:30,833 --> 00:10:33,667 [Trevor] DeLeesa and I started dating at the beginning of college. 259 00:10:33,700 --> 00:10:37,567 And since that first day DeLeesa introduced me to my future mother-in-law, 260 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:38,767 we've been inseparable. 261 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:39,800 You remember when you met me? 262 00:10:39,833 --> 00:10:41,267 -Oh, yeah. -Yeah. [laughs] 263 00:10:41,300 --> 00:10:42,633 Oh, yeah. 264 00:10:42,667 --> 00:10:45,300 You ever watched Tyler Perry in Meet the Browns? 265 00:10:45,333 --> 00:10:46,733 -That's what I did... -[Trevor] Mm-hmm. 266 00:10:46,767 --> 00:10:48,033 ...the first time I meet Trevor. 267 00:10:48,067 --> 00:10:48,933 -[Trevor] Coming downstairs. -Yep. 268 00:10:48,967 --> 00:10:50,433 -I pulled my pants up... -At the door. 269 00:10:50,467 --> 00:10:52,433 ...I put powder on my legs, 270 00:10:52,467 --> 00:10:54,867 and I poured alcohol on like I was drunk. 271 00:10:54,900 --> 00:10:55,633 [laughs] 272 00:10:55,667 --> 00:10:56,733 [India] I fell all over my lawn. 273 00:10:56,767 --> 00:10:58,367 -Yeah. -I was like, "Who this guy? 274 00:10:58,400 --> 00:10:59,767 -What are you doing at my house?" -[laughs] 275 00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:02,200 -And I said, "Mommy! Mommy!" -Yeah. [laughs] 276 00:11:02,233 --> 00:11:04,100 I just wanted to see how he was gonna react, 277 00:11:04,133 --> 00:11:06,233 or be like, "Oh, that's your mother?" 278 00:11:06,267 --> 00:11:08,533 But no, he just cracked up. 279 00:11:08,567 --> 00:11:11,067 -Yeah, that was so funny. -[India] And I've loved him ever since that day. 280 00:11:11,100 --> 00:11:13,133 -Mm-hmm. -[laughs] 281 00:11:16,333 --> 00:11:18,067 You guys are gonna go to bingo? 282 00:11:18,733 --> 00:11:20,100 -Again? -Yeah. 283 00:11:20,133 --> 00:11:22,900 -Sounds so much fun. -It is. 284 00:11:22,933 --> 00:11:24,167 -Is it, really? -Yeah, it is. 285 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:27,400 -It's really fun? -It really is. 286 00:11:27,433 --> 00:11:29,500 [DeLeesa] My husband and my mom are best friends 287 00:11:29,533 --> 00:11:35,100 and have the most weird and disgusting relationship 288 00:11:35,133 --> 00:11:36,267 that I have ever seen. 289 00:11:36,300 --> 00:11:37,667 I can't stand it, 290 00:11:37,700 --> 00:11:40,467 especially because me and my mom do not get along, 291 00:11:40,500 --> 00:11:42,400 and it should be me and him, 292 00:11:42,433 --> 00:11:45,633 not my mom and him. 293 00:11:46,667 --> 00:11:49,067 Especially because we have two toddlers, 294 00:11:49,100 --> 00:11:50,533 I'm super pregnant. 295 00:11:50,567 --> 00:11:55,400 So their relationship is just so annoying to me, honestly. 296 00:11:55,433 --> 00:11:56,367 [India] Close the door. 297 00:11:57,267 --> 00:11:57,933 [singer vocalizing] 298 00:11:59,867 --> 00:12:02,633 Oh, yay! We're going to bingo. 299 00:12:04,067 --> 00:12:05,067 -You excited? -Yeah, I'm excited. 300 00:12:05,067 --> 00:12:06,067 -Yeah, I'm excited. -You ready for bingo? 301 00:12:06,067 --> 00:12:06,833 I'm ready. 302 00:12:07,167 --> 00:12:08,900 Okay. Oh. 303 00:12:08,933 --> 00:12:10,900 * Hey, hey, hey, no ... * 304 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:13,333 * Ooh * 305 00:12:13,367 --> 00:12:14,267 * Ooh * 306 00:12:14,300 --> 00:12:15,867 [India] No, we going opposite. 307 00:12:15,900 --> 00:12:16,833 We're supposed to go together. 308 00:12:18,567 --> 00:12:21,400 * Ooh... ...baby, baby * 309 00:12:21,433 --> 00:12:22,133 [Trevor] Go. 310 00:12:22,167 --> 00:12:24,933 * Baby! I'm so in love * 311 00:12:24,967 --> 00:12:28,667 [both] Bingo! Bingo! Bingo! Bingo! 312 00:12:28,700 --> 00:12:30,300 [both laugh] 313 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:33,067 [Trevor] We're all originally from New York, 314 00:12:33,067 --> 00:12:36,667 and it was actually my idea for my mother-in-law to come live here. 315 00:12:36,700 --> 00:12:38,867 I had hoped that her coming down here 316 00:12:38,900 --> 00:12:42,100 would help them be closer, get closer, 317 00:12:42,133 --> 00:12:43,767 address a lot of their issues, 318 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:45,600 and then move past it together. 319 00:12:45,633 --> 00:12:48,867 And, uh, I thought, "Yeah, this is gonna work." 320 00:12:48,900 --> 00:12:52,067 But unfortunately, it hasn't, [chuckles] at all. 321 00:12:52,533 --> 00:12:53,567 Hey, Farah. 322 00:12:54,767 --> 00:12:55,867 -[Farah] Hey, Trevor. -Hey. 323 00:12:55,900 --> 00:12:57,367 -Hi, Ms. India. -How you doing? What's up, man? 324 00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:00,100 Ms. India, I saw your stuff outside. 325 00:13:00,133 --> 00:13:02,633 -Are you in trouble again? -[India] Ooh, you busy. 326 00:13:02,667 --> 00:13:04,967 -[Farah] Come on now. -[India and Farah laugh] 327 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:07,200 -See ya. -See you later. 328 00:13:07,233 --> 00:13:08,200 -[India] Bye. -Vroom. 329 00:13:09,100 --> 00:13:12,133 Everybody knows Trevor and Ms. India. 330 00:13:12,167 --> 00:13:14,733 They're always in the neighborhood, 331 00:13:14,767 --> 00:13:19,133 riding hoverboards in, like, matching outfits, and... 332 00:13:19,167 --> 00:13:21,167 It's ver... Really interesting. 333 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:22,433 [chuckling] It's, uh, kinda weird, 334 00:13:22,467 --> 00:13:26,767 but we all mind our own business around here, 335 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:29,600 but, like, when your business is on the front lawn, 336 00:13:29,633 --> 00:13:33,067 I mean, it's kinda hard. [slight chuckle] 337 00:13:33,067 --> 00:13:36,367 It's kinda... Makes that hard, yeah. 338 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:38,433 [India] What's that, that movie and they go like this? 339 00:13:38,467 --> 00:13:40,067 She's going to fall off the boat. 340 00:13:40,100 --> 00:13:41,500 [Trevor] You mean, Titanic? 341 00:13:41,533 --> 00:13:42,733 -[India] Yes. [chuckles] -[Trevor] Only one of the biggest movies ever? 342 00:13:42,767 --> 00:13:44,167 -[India] Yeah. -[Trevor laughing] Yeah. 343 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:46,567 My mother-in-law and I have been close for a very long time, 344 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:49,567 and her moving here has just forced us to get even closer. 345 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:50,467 [India laughs] 346 00:13:50,500 --> 00:13:52,467 [Trevor] But the last couple weeks, 347 00:13:52,500 --> 00:13:54,800 DeLeesa and my mother-in-law's relationship has gotten worse. 348 00:13:56,933 --> 00:13:57,933 [DeLeesa speaking] 349 00:13:59,567 --> 00:14:02,133 [Trevor] DeLeesa's even started throwing Mom's things out of the house 350 00:14:02,167 --> 00:14:03,733 in protest of her living with us. 351 00:14:05,333 --> 00:14:06,800 If I can't get them on the same page 352 00:14:06,833 --> 00:14:08,833 by the time the baby is here, 353 00:14:08,867 --> 00:14:13,067 I feel like DeLeesa's gonna force me to choose between my mom or her. 354 00:14:13,067 --> 00:14:14,133 She will. 355 00:14:14,167 --> 00:14:17,067 Like, DeLeesa believes wholeheartedly in ultimatums. 356 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:19,233 -Oh, yeah. -She's done it before. 357 00:14:19,267 --> 00:14:21,100 -[India] Mm, if it's not her way, it's nobody's way. -She won't-- 358 00:14:21,133 --> 00:14:23,333 -She will not hesitate to do it again. -Mm-hmm. 359 00:14:23,367 --> 00:14:24,733 Yeah, that's the way she is. 360 00:14:28,100 --> 00:14:29,367 [Scott] Shoving a wedding 361 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:31,300 down my throat isn't gonna make it happen. 362 00:14:31,333 --> 00:14:32,733 -Those are the kind of things that's gonna... -I mean-- 363 00:14:32,767 --> 00:14:34,667 ...make the relationship not work. 364 00:14:34,700 --> 00:14:36,633 [Eva] You already wasted one year. 365 00:14:36,667 --> 00:14:38,333 If there is something bothering you, 366 00:14:38,367 --> 00:14:39,200 you need to tell her. 367 00:14:39,233 --> 00:14:40,633 -You're absolutely right. -[Eva] Yeah. 368 00:14:40,667 --> 00:14:44,067 Sunnie, the reason why I haven't married you yet 369 00:14:44,067 --> 00:14:45,533 is because of your mom. 370 00:14:50,367 --> 00:14:51,633 * I can't get enough of you * 371 00:14:52,700 --> 00:14:54,167 * I can't get enough of it * 372 00:14:55,333 --> 00:14:56,633 * I can't get enough of your * 373 00:14:56,667 --> 00:14:58,333 * Can't get enough of your love * 374 00:15:01,867 --> 00:15:04,300 [Sky] After all of this, we're gonna sit down, 375 00:15:04,333 --> 00:15:06,600 we're gonna go over the schedule for the week. 376 00:15:06,633 --> 00:15:10,733 Because you cannot be messing up how you did earlier today. No way. 377 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:12,567 Okay. 378 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:14,600 [Sky] Coming home from the video shoot, 379 00:15:14,633 --> 00:15:16,667 we were so exhausted, 380 00:15:16,700 --> 00:15:19,833 and it did not go exactly how I hoped it to be. 381 00:15:21,333 --> 00:15:24,067 I'm getting in the shower, so you can give me my massage. 382 00:15:24,067 --> 00:15:26,400 * Can't get enough Of your love, no * 383 00:15:26,433 --> 00:15:27,867 * I've tried, tried * 384 00:15:27,900 --> 00:15:29,067 * Can't get enough of you * 385 00:15:29,067 --> 00:15:30,367 * I've tried, tried * 386 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:32,467 * Can't get enough Of your love * 387 00:15:34,067 --> 00:15:34,833 [Sky speaking] 388 00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:36,867 [Skylar] Okay. [chuckles] 389 00:15:38,067 --> 00:15:39,600 [Sky] You're ready? 390 00:15:39,633 --> 00:15:44,567 So, when we go to the spa, or, like, book a facial appointment or a wax, 391 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:47,067 I just skip the massage 392 00:15:47,100 --> 00:15:50,533 because no one knows how to do it exactly like my mom. 393 00:15:50,567 --> 00:15:52,333 -Like, she does it just right. -[Sky] Yeah. 394 00:15:52,367 --> 00:15:56,067 And not like anyone else, she has the perfect hands. 395 00:15:56,900 --> 00:15:59,300 Anointed hands, I shall say. 396 00:15:59,333 --> 00:16:01,067 Yes. 397 00:16:01,100 --> 00:16:02,900 -This side right here. -[Sky] Yeah, just... 398 00:16:02,933 --> 00:16:03,867 Okay. 399 00:16:03,900 --> 00:16:05,300 And this area right here. 400 00:16:06,533 --> 00:16:09,233 I actually love to pamper Skylar. 401 00:16:09,267 --> 00:16:11,933 Like, she's my little angel. 402 00:16:11,967 --> 00:16:15,567 You know, if she says, "Mom, please, before I get up, massage me," 403 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:17,467 I would do it. 404 00:16:17,500 --> 00:16:19,600 'Cause I want her to have a great day, you know? 405 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:21,833 -[Skylar speaking] -Yes. 406 00:16:28,833 --> 00:16:31,400 I mean, you were twerking your ass off today. 407 00:16:31,433 --> 00:16:32,500 [Skylar laughs] 408 00:16:32,533 --> 00:16:35,433 [Sky] I mean, your booty deserves a massage tonight. 409 00:16:35,467 --> 00:16:37,933 -[Skylar chuckles] Wait. -[Sky] Huh? 410 00:16:37,967 --> 00:16:40,633 -That hurts. -[Sky] Okay, I'll be gentle then. 411 00:16:42,367 --> 00:16:44,967 But, Sky, listen, your birthday party? 412 00:16:45,067 --> 00:16:47,833 -[Skylar] Hmm? -Yeah, that's only, like, in two-and-a-half weeks. 413 00:16:47,867 --> 00:16:51,200 And you're gonna perform in front of all these people. 414 00:16:52,300 --> 00:16:53,767 I need you to bring it. 415 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:55,167 [chuckles] 416 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:59,667 Skylar is actually turning 20 years old soon, 417 00:16:59,700 --> 00:17:03,067 and we've been planning her birthday party for a few months now. 418 00:17:03,067 --> 00:17:05,800 We usually go all out every birthday, 419 00:17:05,833 --> 00:17:08,099 but this year, it's so important 420 00:17:08,133 --> 00:17:10,433 because we're also premiering her new songs. 421 00:17:10,467 --> 00:17:11,532 Yes. 422 00:17:11,567 --> 00:17:15,233 You want everything to be just right, okay? 423 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:19,467 Skylar, are you listening to me? 424 00:17:21,067 --> 00:17:22,933 You can't massage me till I fall asleep? 425 00:17:22,967 --> 00:17:25,133 -No. -Why? 426 00:17:25,166 --> 00:17:27,500 Because we gotta brush our teeth, 427 00:17:27,532 --> 00:17:28,733 and then we're gonna go to bed. 428 00:17:29,633 --> 00:17:32,067 -Okay, fine. -All right? 429 00:17:32,100 --> 00:17:34,867 I think I support Skylar a little too much. 430 00:17:36,067 --> 00:17:38,167 I've done everything for her. 431 00:17:40,533 --> 00:17:43,067 Pass me my tooth, uh, sprayer. 432 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:45,900 I speak for her, 433 00:17:45,933 --> 00:17:48,233 I send e-mails for her, 434 00:17:48,267 --> 00:17:51,167 I pay all the bills, even her bills, 435 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:53,167 her phone bills and things like that. 436 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:55,800 I'm like Skylar's brain, to be honest. 437 00:18:00,133 --> 00:18:02,100 Do you want me to dance behind you... 438 00:18:02,633 --> 00:18:03,667 when you perform? 439 00:18:04,333 --> 00:18:05,800 'Cause you are gonna perform. 440 00:18:06,567 --> 00:18:08,433 -Um-- -It's your party, 441 00:18:08,467 --> 00:18:09,867 so you're going to perform. 442 00:18:09,900 --> 00:18:12,333 -Excuse me. -Yes. 443 00:18:12,367 --> 00:18:14,633 But not like how you did at my last party. 444 00:18:14,667 --> 00:18:17,533 I don't need you twerking on everybody. 445 00:18:17,567 --> 00:18:20,900 At my 19th birthday party, my mom was twerking 446 00:18:20,933 --> 00:18:24,200 on all of my guy friends, flirting, 447 00:18:24,233 --> 00:18:27,200 and it was just embarrassing. 448 00:18:27,233 --> 00:18:28,900 And then, for this year's party, 449 00:18:28,933 --> 00:18:32,233 she put herself, a big, giant picture of herself 450 00:18:32,267 --> 00:18:33,300 on my flyer. 451 00:18:33,333 --> 00:18:34,800 Ma'am. 452 00:18:34,833 --> 00:18:36,467 -Ta'da! Look. -[laughs] 453 00:18:36,500 --> 00:18:38,467 -Is that you? -[Sky] Mm-hmm. 454 00:18:38,500 --> 00:18:40,067 I'm hosting your party. 455 00:18:40,100 --> 00:18:42,967 I was like, "Uh-uh, you're my mom. 456 00:18:43,067 --> 00:18:46,467 You don't have to be on the flyer with me." 457 00:18:46,500 --> 00:18:49,067 -It's always about Sky. -[Sky] No. 458 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:50,633 Yes, it is. 459 00:18:50,667 --> 00:18:52,200 [Sky mumbling] Uh-huh, always about me. 460 00:18:53,133 --> 00:18:54,767 I... You need me. 461 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:57,167 Last time, you were doing it way too much. 462 00:18:57,200 --> 00:18:59,633 No, I was making you look good. 463 00:19:01,300 --> 00:19:02,267 Uh-uh! 464 00:19:02,300 --> 00:19:03,300 [laughing] Yeah. 465 00:19:03,333 --> 00:19:05,167 I make you look good. 466 00:19:05,967 --> 00:19:07,267 Yes, ma'am, I do. 467 00:19:07,300 --> 00:19:10,300 No, people were staring and embarrassed. 468 00:19:12,133 --> 00:19:13,433 I really love my mom, 469 00:19:13,467 --> 00:19:15,767 I love that she pampers me 470 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:17,933 and she takes care of me. 471 00:19:17,967 --> 00:19:20,067 I love living with her, she's like my bestie, 472 00:19:20,067 --> 00:19:23,900 but sometimes, it's just [sighs] annoying. 473 00:19:23,933 --> 00:19:26,100 You know, I wanna be my own person 474 00:19:26,133 --> 00:19:28,333 and live in my own skin, 475 00:19:28,367 --> 00:19:32,067 but it seems like she wants to live in my skin with me. 476 00:19:37,067 --> 00:19:39,500 * This is the magic * 477 00:19:39,533 --> 00:19:41,900 * Everyone has it * 478 00:19:41,933 --> 00:19:46,933 * We're gonna take off * 479 00:19:46,967 --> 00:19:49,467 I think we need to do, like, a menu of services. 480 00:19:49,500 --> 00:19:51,767 I know we've talked about it before, 481 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:54,267 body contouring, skin tightening. 482 00:19:54,300 --> 00:19:57,167 [Sunnie] And put vajacials also. 483 00:19:57,200 --> 00:19:58,567 Really? 484 00:19:58,600 --> 00:20:01,633 [Eva] Today is Sunnie's grand opening for her new med spa. 485 00:20:01,667 --> 00:20:03,667 I am so proud of her. 486 00:20:03,700 --> 00:20:06,167 Like, she worked so hard and... 487 00:20:07,533 --> 00:20:08,600 [cries softly] 488 00:20:11,367 --> 00:20:13,633 -You know, and she's said-- -Mom, you don't have to cry. 489 00:20:13,667 --> 00:20:17,667 I'm crying of, like, how much I'm, like, proud of her. 490 00:20:17,700 --> 00:20:19,533 Nobody knows what a vajacial is. 491 00:20:19,567 --> 00:20:21,267 -All right, a lot of people do and if they don't... -Nobody does. 492 00:20:21,300 --> 00:20:22,667 -...they'll ask about it, they'll say-- -You don't know, 493 00:20:22,700 --> 00:20:24,233 -but they-- -They'll say, "Hey, what's this?" 494 00:20:24,267 --> 00:20:26,367 I know what a vajacial is because I hear you two talk about it all the time. 495 00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:27,367 I mean, it's just a big-- 496 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:29,400 Like, I don't even understand how you let Mom, 497 00:20:29,433 --> 00:20:31,433 like, get all up in your vajay. 498 00:20:31,467 --> 00:20:34,167 Why would you not want someone to go down there 499 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:36,533 and pull out your ingrown hairs 500 00:20:36,567 --> 00:20:39,567 and make sure that, like, you're prim and proper down there? 501 00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:41,200 I don't have ingrown hairs. 502 00:20:41,233 --> 00:20:42,867 -[Eva] How do you know that? -I don't believe that. 503 00:20:42,900 --> 00:20:44,433 -It's the same vagina. -Vajacials, done. I'm done. 504 00:20:44,467 --> 00:20:45,667 -I'm done talking about this. -Keep it to yourself. 505 00:20:45,700 --> 00:20:47,433 -Back to your menu, please. -Okay. 506 00:20:47,467 --> 00:20:48,333 -Go back to the-- -What else? 507 00:20:48,367 --> 00:20:50,133 So muscle simulation. 508 00:20:50,167 --> 00:20:51,500 -It's on there. -Abs, whole thing. 509 00:20:51,533 --> 00:20:52,667 Okay. 510 00:20:52,700 --> 00:20:54,533 [Sunnie] I definitely followed in my mom's footsteps, 511 00:20:54,567 --> 00:20:59,633 and I have been in the med spa world since I was about 21. 512 00:20:59,667 --> 00:21:03,500 This is a really, really big deal for me. 513 00:21:03,533 --> 00:21:05,267 So, you'll be there on time? 514 00:21:05,300 --> 00:21:07,667 -Promise. -Yes, we'll be there on time. 515 00:21:07,700 --> 00:21:08,400 -Okay. -[Eva] Yeah. 516 00:21:08,433 --> 00:21:09,833 * This is the magic * 517 00:21:09,867 --> 00:21:12,367 * Everyone has it * 518 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:16,067 * We're gonna take Oh, oh, off * 519 00:21:17,067 --> 00:21:19,533 * No need for dramatics * 520 00:21:19,567 --> 00:21:23,500 * We all fought to ashes * 521 00:21:23,533 --> 00:21:24,900 * Shake your little Shake your little... * 522 00:21:28,633 --> 00:21:30,233 I don't know what that is. 523 00:21:30,267 --> 00:21:31,800 Did you hit something? 524 00:21:31,833 --> 00:21:34,200 -No, I did not. -Do a little hitacial? Hmm? 525 00:21:34,233 --> 00:21:35,933 -[chuckles] -Nope, I did not. 526 00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:37,867 [sighs] 527 00:21:37,900 --> 00:21:40,667 Since me and Scott's "date," 528 00:21:40,700 --> 00:21:42,900 aka wedding cake tasting, 529 00:21:42,933 --> 00:21:45,067 things have been a little weird, 530 00:21:45,100 --> 00:21:49,167 and now we're headed to my grand opening party. 531 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:51,067 [Scott] "Date," I use that word very loosely. 532 00:21:51,100 --> 00:21:52,333 Why would your mom do that? 533 00:21:53,367 --> 00:21:56,067 Um, because she wants us to get married. 534 00:21:56,067 --> 00:21:59,500 It's just a whole level of... 535 00:22:00,567 --> 00:22:02,533 that's not okay. 536 00:22:03,367 --> 00:22:05,567 So, yeah, I'm still a little upset. 537 00:22:09,233 --> 00:22:12,967 So, I wanna ask you about the date last night. 538 00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:20,567 -So, the date was lovely, it was nice. -[Eva] Uh-huh. 539 00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:23,100 -And we both enjoyed it very much. -Uh-huh. 540 00:22:23,133 --> 00:22:26,133 With that being said, I love Sunnie very much, 541 00:22:26,167 --> 00:22:29,267 but for now, you know, there's just no rush and... 542 00:22:30,167 --> 00:22:31,500 doing stuff like that... 543 00:22:31,533 --> 00:22:33,833 -Mm-hmm. -[Scott] ...it's not gonna make it happen any sooner. 544 00:22:37,167 --> 00:22:40,633 To be honest with you, this is a red flag for me. 545 00:22:40,667 --> 00:22:42,433 -It's a red flag? -Yes. 546 00:22:42,467 --> 00:22:44,533 Oh my gosh, there's no wedding. 547 00:22:44,567 --> 00:22:48,067 No, she doesn't want to be just girlfriend. 548 00:22:48,100 --> 00:22:50,467 Her time is ticking, you know? 549 00:22:50,500 --> 00:22:52,600 I'm very content with where me and Sunnie are, 550 00:22:52,633 --> 00:22:54,400 and I love where things are going, 551 00:22:54,433 --> 00:22:56,567 but shoving a wedding down my throat 552 00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:58,100 isn't going to make it happen. 553 00:22:58,133 --> 00:23:00,067 -I mean... -And it's just not okay. 554 00:23:00,100 --> 00:23:02,400 Those are the kind of things that's going to scare me away. 555 00:23:02,433 --> 00:23:03,800 Those are the kind of things that's gonna 556 00:23:03,833 --> 00:23:05,600 make the relationship not work. 557 00:23:05,633 --> 00:23:07,367 That's toxic. That's not okay. 558 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,067 It's really hard for us to just, 559 00:23:14,067 --> 00:23:16,600 you know, enjoy where we're at right now 560 00:23:16,633 --> 00:23:17,800 as far as our relationship, 561 00:23:17,833 --> 00:23:20,567 because I always feel this constant weight, 562 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:22,133 and that's basically the pressure 563 00:23:22,167 --> 00:23:24,500 that Eva puts on me about marriage. 564 00:23:24,533 --> 00:23:26,633 It's just constant, constant, constant, 565 00:23:26,667 --> 00:23:28,867 but I wish that she would try to understand my thoughts 566 00:23:28,900 --> 00:23:30,067 or where I'm coming from. 567 00:23:32,333 --> 00:23:33,067 Yeah. 568 00:23:35,100 --> 00:23:37,900 [Eva] You already wasted one year, you know? 569 00:23:37,933 --> 00:23:40,567 But if there's something bothering you, 570 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,400 you need to tell her and figure it out 571 00:23:42,433 --> 00:23:45,167 why you try to, like, 572 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:49,533 keep going forward as a boyfriend and girlfriend. 573 00:23:49,567 --> 00:23:51,067 -You're absolutely right. -Yeah. 574 00:23:51,100 --> 00:23:55,367 Sunnie, the reason why I haven't married you yet... 575 00:23:58,300 --> 00:24:02,433 is because your mom is pushing for marriage 576 00:24:02,467 --> 00:24:03,933 when I'm not ready. 577 00:24:03,967 --> 00:24:06,067 That's the reason? 578 00:24:06,067 --> 00:24:08,367 It's because you feel like you're being pressured. 579 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:10,300 That's definitely a red flag. 580 00:24:16,067 --> 00:24:18,867 I honestly just want everyone to be happy, 581 00:24:18,900 --> 00:24:20,967 and that's all I care about. 582 00:24:22,167 --> 00:24:23,133 Yeah, me too. 583 00:24:24,300 --> 00:24:26,767 It's hard for me to prioritize, like, 584 00:24:28,133 --> 00:24:31,133 I feel like a bad, like, girlfriend, 585 00:24:31,167 --> 00:24:33,700 and then I feel like a bad daughter sometimes, 586 00:24:33,733 --> 00:24:36,100 because it's hard for me to, like, decide. 587 00:24:36,133 --> 00:24:37,800 Like, you know, sometimes, like, 588 00:24:38,933 --> 00:24:41,533 it's just hard for me to, like, you know, 589 00:24:41,567 --> 00:24:43,533 I don't like to have to, like, choose, like, 590 00:24:43,567 --> 00:24:45,700 who do I need to make happy? 591 00:24:47,067 --> 00:24:48,867 Like, I don't know. 592 00:24:48,900 --> 00:24:51,767 I don't know, like, what to say, like, 593 00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:54,667 who to, like, who to side with because I see both sides. 594 00:24:54,700 --> 00:24:55,767 It's not about side. 595 00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:57,267 Mom, but let me tell you something. Mom, listen, 596 00:24:57,300 --> 00:24:58,333 you're my mother, 597 00:24:58,367 --> 00:24:59,867 and you're always gonna love me, 598 00:24:59,900 --> 00:25:01,067 no matter what. 599 00:25:01,100 --> 00:25:03,367 You can never not be my mother, 600 00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:07,433 but Scott, he can leave me. 601 00:25:07,467 --> 00:25:10,767 -I'm sorry. -Like, he's not even my husband yet. 602 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:12,333 -Yeah, I know. -You know? 603 00:25:18,500 --> 00:25:21,133 The last thing I want to do is have a conversation like this 604 00:25:21,967 --> 00:25:24,767 on a very important day for Sunnie. 605 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:25,933 There's, you know, like, 606 00:25:25,967 --> 00:25:28,100 I don't think Sunnie should feel that type of pressure 607 00:25:28,133 --> 00:25:29,667 to choose between us, 608 00:25:29,700 --> 00:25:31,500 so we should probably, going forward, 609 00:25:31,533 --> 00:25:33,533 show that we're on the same side. 610 00:25:33,567 --> 00:25:34,967 -Absolutely, yeah. -Right? 611 00:25:35,067 --> 00:25:37,500 [Scott] So in order to do that, we have to communicate. 612 00:25:37,533 --> 00:25:39,233 We have to, you know, 613 00:25:39,267 --> 00:25:41,800 try to understand each other's opinions 614 00:25:42,433 --> 00:25:44,067 so that we can move forward. 615 00:25:51,067 --> 00:25:54,700 So in your mind, what is, like, timing? 616 00:25:54,733 --> 00:25:56,267 A year, two... 617 00:25:56,300 --> 00:25:58,733 -Oh, my God. -Yeah, no, seriously. 618 00:25:58,767 --> 00:26:02,433 I can't even... My point is, I don't know. 619 00:26:02,467 --> 00:26:04,067 You gotta be kidding me. 620 00:26:04,067 --> 00:26:05,833 Right when I'm like, "There you go, okay, 621 00:26:05,867 --> 00:26:07,200 we've made some progress." 622 00:26:07,233 --> 00:26:09,733 [whistles] 180. Flipped it right back on me. 623 00:26:11,233 --> 00:26:13,900 I'm literally two seconds away from jumping out of this car. 624 00:26:16,867 --> 00:26:18,300 Did you get down and dirty? 625 00:26:20,500 --> 00:26:21,433 Wow. 626 00:26:21,467 --> 00:26:23,800 I really want my mom to get along with TJ, 627 00:26:23,833 --> 00:26:25,800 especially because we're engaged. 628 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:34,233 If she finds out before I get the chance to tell her, 629 00:26:34,267 --> 00:26:35,667 that's my worst nightmare. 630 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,133 * Hallelujah * 631 00:26:47,333 --> 00:26:48,467 I'm always in the mood. 632 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,733 Every Sunday is me and TJ's alone time. 633 00:26:54,300 --> 00:26:56,833 Usually TJ's with his family for church, 634 00:26:56,867 --> 00:26:59,200 and I'm usually with my mom for church, 635 00:26:59,233 --> 00:27:01,367 and then we meet up afterwards. 636 00:27:06,567 --> 00:27:09,700 And what do you do when you do your own little thing? 637 00:27:09,733 --> 00:27:12,067 -After church? -Yeah. 638 00:27:13,367 --> 00:27:15,733 * Hallelujah, hallelujah * 639 00:27:26,767 --> 00:27:28,067 We have no privacy. 640 00:27:28,867 --> 00:27:30,300 We can't even breathe. 641 00:27:30,333 --> 00:27:31,300 All right. 642 00:27:32,300 --> 00:27:33,633 [Brittani] Let's go get some food. 643 00:27:34,333 --> 00:27:36,067 Let's do it. Cool. 644 00:27:36,067 --> 00:27:39,067 * Hallelujah * 645 00:27:43,367 --> 00:27:45,533 [Brittani] I might have to get my mom something, too. 646 00:27:46,300 --> 00:27:48,433 She orders the same thing as me. 647 00:27:48,467 --> 00:27:49,700 [scoffs] I figured that. 648 00:27:50,067 --> 00:27:50,733 Yeah. 649 00:27:52,567 --> 00:27:55,600 [Brittani] Honestly, I think I'm still frustrated about the dinner. 650 00:27:55,633 --> 00:27:57,133 Um, sorry. Hair in my mouth. 651 00:27:57,167 --> 00:27:59,733 I feel like TJ has the potential to be 652 00:27:59,767 --> 00:28:02,067 the person that my mom wants him to be, 653 00:28:02,067 --> 00:28:04,967 but she hasn't even given him a chance. 654 00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,100 You're trying to be happy in your life, 655 00:28:08,133 --> 00:28:10,100 and she gotta legit respect that. 656 00:28:10,133 --> 00:28:11,067 You know what I'm saying? 657 00:28:11,100 --> 00:28:13,467 I know. It just really saddens me that 658 00:28:13,500 --> 00:28:16,967 she's not really, you know, supportive. 659 00:28:17,067 --> 00:28:18,800 [TJ] I truly understand that. 660 00:28:18,833 --> 00:28:21,367 I'm not, you know, I truly get it. 661 00:28:22,667 --> 00:28:25,167 I feel like Mary just don't know 662 00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:26,900 who I really am as a person. 663 00:28:26,933 --> 00:28:29,633 I feel like I'm a very passionate, hard-working man. 664 00:28:29,667 --> 00:28:31,700 And, I mean, I feel like she just don't see that 665 00:28:31,733 --> 00:28:33,367 because she's too blind. 666 00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:39,400 It just takes her a while to get used to people. 667 00:28:40,333 --> 00:28:43,233 I mean, I've been with you for how long? 668 00:28:43,267 --> 00:28:44,433 Two and a half years. 669 00:28:45,467 --> 00:28:48,533 And she still got to get used to me. 670 00:28:48,567 --> 00:28:50,333 Well, you know how she is. 671 00:28:50,367 --> 00:28:52,700 I really want my mom to get along with TJ, 672 00:28:52,733 --> 00:28:54,733 especially because we're engaged. 673 00:28:56,133 --> 00:28:57,767 -Bye. -I love and appreciate you. 674 00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:59,367 [Brittani] But there's no way I can tell her 675 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,567 because she doesn't really like him yet. 676 00:29:03,533 --> 00:29:04,800 Mom! 677 00:29:04,833 --> 00:29:07,833 And if she finds out before I get the chance to tell her, 678 00:29:07,867 --> 00:29:09,300 that's my worst nightmare. 679 00:29:09,333 --> 00:29:13,067 Because with my mom, she does have the weakest part of me. 680 00:29:13,067 --> 00:29:15,700 She has the core of my heart, and if she crushes it, 681 00:29:15,733 --> 00:29:17,367 then I feel like I have nothing. 682 00:29:19,567 --> 00:29:20,500 Mom! 683 00:29:20,533 --> 00:29:21,767 [Mary] Oh, hi! 684 00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:22,967 I've been calling for you. 685 00:29:23,067 --> 00:29:25,800 [Mary] Hi, I'm sorry. I was just hobby horsing. 686 00:29:26,767 --> 00:29:28,700 -I have food for you. -Oh, thank you. 687 00:29:28,733 --> 00:29:31,867 Okay. It's nicer in here. 688 00:29:31,900 --> 00:29:32,900 Yeah, it is. 689 00:29:32,933 --> 00:29:33,967 Oh, that was so much fun. 690 00:29:34,067 --> 00:29:36,067 I wish you would have joined me. 691 00:29:36,067 --> 00:29:38,400 So tell me, what did you guys do? 692 00:29:40,900 --> 00:29:43,600 We just enjoyed each other's company. 693 00:29:43,633 --> 00:29:44,733 Looks like you did a little bit more than 694 00:29:44,767 --> 00:29:46,067 enjoy each other's company. 695 00:29:46,067 --> 00:29:47,133 What happened to your hair? 696 00:29:47,167 --> 00:29:49,100 Well, eat, and then I'll tell you. 697 00:29:49,133 --> 00:29:50,867 Ride that cowboy, girl. 698 00:29:53,067 --> 00:29:54,200 Yeehaw! 699 00:29:54,233 --> 00:29:55,300 You are a headache. 700 00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,367 Finish eating. I'll go get our baths ready. 701 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:00,300 [Mary] Love you. 702 00:30:06,100 --> 00:30:09,233 We do our bath time every day. 703 00:30:09,267 --> 00:30:11,933 We talk about our day, which I really love, 704 00:30:11,967 --> 00:30:14,533 and just relax and enjoy one another. 705 00:30:20,300 --> 00:30:22,067 Don't forget my little rubber duckies. 706 00:30:22,100 --> 00:30:24,633 I like my rubber duckies. And the bath time. 707 00:30:25,567 --> 00:30:28,500 Oh, honey. Finally showered up. 708 00:30:28,533 --> 00:30:29,467 [Brittani] Oh, it feels so good. 709 00:30:31,133 --> 00:30:33,833 So, did you get down and dirty? 710 00:30:36,667 --> 00:30:38,067 Wow. 711 00:30:38,100 --> 00:30:39,933 I guess his car is big enough for it. 712 00:30:40,867 --> 00:30:43,733 -What's it, like 1970s? -Really, Mom? 713 00:30:43,767 --> 00:30:44,633 It's old, though. 714 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:53,267 You're too pretty to be in that car. 715 00:30:53,300 --> 00:30:55,600 I'm just saying. 716 00:30:55,633 --> 00:30:58,833 -You're more, Brittani, a BMW, Maserati, -You know what's so funny? 717 00:30:58,867 --> 00:31:01,367 you know, at least a new car. 718 00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:02,600 Oh, my gosh. 719 00:31:35,367 --> 00:31:37,300 That's not fair for me. 720 00:31:37,333 --> 00:31:39,133 So one of Brittani's complaints 721 00:31:39,167 --> 00:31:43,900 is that she thinks that I don't want to get to know him. 722 00:31:43,933 --> 00:31:45,433 If you want to get to know somebody, 723 00:31:45,467 --> 00:31:48,567 you have to hang out with them longer than just 45 minutes. 724 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:50,067 -Go by-- -I've been around. 725 00:31:50,100 --> 00:31:53,167 But you, you barely talk to him either. 726 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:55,500 So, how do you build a relationship with somebody? 727 00:31:55,533 --> 00:31:56,867 We've talked. 728 00:31:56,900 --> 00:31:58,100 But there's a difference. 729 00:31:58,133 --> 00:32:00,800 You are not trying to make an effort. 730 00:32:00,833 --> 00:32:02,367 Because you're only talking to him 731 00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,067 because he's my boyfriend. 732 00:32:04,067 --> 00:32:05,100 I want you to talk to him 733 00:32:05,133 --> 00:32:07,867 because you want to, because you actually like him. 734 00:32:13,433 --> 00:32:15,600 Why? Why are you talking to him about it? 735 00:32:15,633 --> 00:32:17,667 I'm supposedly your best friend. 736 00:32:17,700 --> 00:32:20,933 Would you share that with me first? 737 00:32:20,967 --> 00:32:24,067 Yes, but you can't be jealous over my boyfriend. 738 00:32:26,667 --> 00:32:28,200 Okay. 739 00:32:28,233 --> 00:32:30,267 This is exactly what I'm talking about. 740 00:32:30,300 --> 00:32:33,067 You can't be always so hard-headed. 741 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:36,400 All right, well... 742 00:32:45,500 --> 00:32:49,067 But I'm watching him very carefully 743 00:32:49,067 --> 00:32:51,133 uh, through a magnifying glass. 744 00:32:52,067 --> 00:32:53,567 Because if I find out that he's 745 00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,133 doing something wrong, I'm... 746 00:32:56,167 --> 00:32:57,533 -He says he wants-- -I'll rip his testicles off. 747 00:32:57,567 --> 00:33:00,133 Oh, my gosh. I don't want to hear no more. 748 00:33:02,333 --> 00:33:04,767 And you're my fun friend. 749 00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:06,933 You're my only friend. 750 00:33:08,067 --> 00:33:09,667 The friend of the friendless. 751 00:33:14,367 --> 00:33:15,400 How you doing? 752 00:33:16,567 --> 00:33:17,633 Like another hour. 753 00:33:17,667 --> 00:33:19,467 At this point, in our relationship, 754 00:33:19,500 --> 00:33:20,567 in my relationship with Lisa, 755 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:21,833 I think she feels threatened. 756 00:33:21,867 --> 00:33:23,133 I think it's just jealousy 757 00:33:23,167 --> 00:33:25,067 because everything always has to be her. 758 00:33:25,067 --> 00:33:26,600 We got to go. We got to go. Get off the phone. 759 00:33:27,567 --> 00:33:28,533 She's going to be so mad. 760 00:33:28,567 --> 00:33:30,200 You get home when you get home. 761 00:33:35,300 --> 00:33:36,700 [music playing] 762 00:33:41,700 --> 00:33:42,800 [Trevor and India] Bingo. 763 00:33:42,833 --> 00:33:45,100 -N-G-O, B-I. -Okay. 764 00:33:45,133 --> 00:33:46,533 -Okay. -Just like a grandma. 765 00:33:46,567 --> 00:33:47,533 Spelling it out. 766 00:33:48,067 --> 00:33:48,700 [India] Let's go. 767 00:33:57,933 --> 00:34:00,067 [Trevor] I'm just going to do one sheet, please. 768 00:34:00,067 --> 00:34:01,767 That's all you want? 769 00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:03,400 That's all. I can't manage. 770 00:34:03,433 --> 00:34:04,300 I'm winning bingo. 771 00:34:04,333 --> 00:34:05,767 I can't manage. I'm not you. 772 00:34:09,699 --> 00:34:11,067 I definitely look forward to bingo. 773 00:34:11,067 --> 00:34:12,132 [India] Yes, definitely. 774 00:34:12,167 --> 00:34:13,500 Bingo is definitely a bonding thing. 775 00:34:13,533 --> 00:34:14,667 Miss Celeste. 776 00:34:14,699 --> 00:34:15,867 -Miss you. -[Celestia] Oh! 777 00:34:15,900 --> 00:34:18,867 [Trevor] You know, like, we've got friends there. 778 00:34:18,900 --> 00:34:20,467 We crack jokes. We eat. 779 00:34:20,500 --> 00:34:22,233 We get slipped some drinks from time to time, 780 00:34:22,266 --> 00:34:23,500 you know what I'm saying? 781 00:34:23,533 --> 00:34:24,867 Thank you much. 782 00:34:24,900 --> 00:34:26,266 [Trevor] Really just about like... 783 00:34:26,300 --> 00:34:27,933 -Spending time together, you know? -Yeah. 784 00:34:27,967 --> 00:34:29,766 -Just enjoying each other's company -Exactly. 785 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:31,733 and like not having to worry 786 00:34:31,766 --> 00:34:33,333 or stress or anything like that. 787 00:34:33,367 --> 00:34:34,632 What... 788 00:34:34,667 --> 00:34:36,933 Don't put it on my face. Don't put it on my face. 789 00:34:38,199 --> 00:34:41,067 -Like, it's just a good time for a few hours. -It is. 790 00:34:41,067 --> 00:34:43,699 Aw. You like spending time with me? 791 00:34:43,733 --> 00:34:45,300 [Trevor] I do. I do. Of course I do. 792 00:34:48,300 --> 00:34:50,833 Yo, look at this one, Ma. 793 00:34:50,867 --> 00:34:51,900 Whoa. 794 00:34:51,933 --> 00:34:54,400 [Trevor] If I don't win this next one, I'm hot. 795 00:34:56,199 --> 00:34:58,400 [woman announcing over PA] 796 00:34:58,433 --> 00:34:59,400 [woman speaking] 797 00:34:59,433 --> 00:35:01,767 I told you, I told you somebody gonna say it. 798 00:35:04,167 --> 00:35:07,933 Trevor and I have been close since he was young. 799 00:35:07,967 --> 00:35:10,500 I seen Trevor grow from a boy 800 00:35:10,533 --> 00:35:13,067 into this accomplished young man. 801 00:35:13,067 --> 00:35:14,833 It's awesome. 802 00:35:14,867 --> 00:35:17,867 I needed three numbers on two different boards, 803 00:35:17,900 --> 00:35:19,400 two numbers on one. 804 00:35:19,433 --> 00:35:21,167 Trevor does everything with me, 805 00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:24,333 and he loves me as his mom. 806 00:35:24,367 --> 00:35:27,233 I should have won on 22, that's my birthday. 807 00:35:27,267 --> 00:35:29,200 I don't know what I had going on on that paper. 808 00:35:29,233 --> 00:35:31,233 I know I was missing numbers. 809 00:35:31,267 --> 00:35:34,067 Come on, let's go get some soda. Something to eat. 810 00:35:34,067 --> 00:35:36,500 -Okay. Please. -Come on. 811 00:35:36,533 --> 00:35:39,367 [Celestia] What do they say? "The apple don't fall far from the tree." 812 00:35:43,067 --> 00:35:45,233 I'm friends with Miss India and Trevor, 813 00:35:45,267 --> 00:35:48,800 but Miss India and her son are really close. 814 00:35:48,833 --> 00:35:51,300 They come all the time. 815 00:35:51,333 --> 00:35:54,567 I think India and Trevor are wearing 816 00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:56,867 the matching outfits for good luck. 817 00:35:56,900 --> 00:35:59,300 A lot of people have statues in front of them, 818 00:35:59,333 --> 00:36:03,300 but maybe they think the t-shirts will work better. 819 00:36:05,267 --> 00:36:06,467 Man, that's strange. [laughs] 820 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:10,467 [woman announcing over PA] 821 00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:12,933 -Yeah. There you go. -Yeah. 822 00:36:12,967 --> 00:36:14,200 Have a fry. 823 00:36:14,233 --> 00:36:16,100 -Thank you. -Have a fry. Got it? 824 00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:20,067 -Want some? -[chuckles] 825 00:36:21,667 --> 00:36:23,300 -[Trevor] That's good. -This is good. 826 00:36:23,833 --> 00:36:24,767 Mmm. Thank you. 827 00:36:26,567 --> 00:36:27,600 [Quinnayah] That's messed up. 828 00:36:29,300 --> 00:36:30,167 Yeah, it was pretty awkward 829 00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:31,833 when they were feeding each other food. 830 00:36:31,867 --> 00:36:33,300 That was kind of weird. 831 00:36:33,333 --> 00:36:36,567 Better get it. Ooh, okay. 832 00:36:37,867 --> 00:36:39,633 [both laughing] 833 00:36:51,767 --> 00:36:54,067 -[Trevor] I mean... -Why do we feed each other? 834 00:36:54,067 --> 00:36:56,733 I don't like... Is that weird, though? I don't know. 835 00:36:56,767 --> 00:36:58,833 No, do we really do that? 836 00:36:58,867 --> 00:37:02,067 I guess I've never paid attention to that. 837 00:37:02,067 --> 00:37:03,800 Not really stopping to think about what you're doing, 838 00:37:03,833 --> 00:37:06,067 you just kind of like react. 839 00:37:06,067 --> 00:37:07,233 Exactly, yeah. 840 00:37:07,267 --> 00:37:08,467 I don't know. 841 00:37:09,133 --> 00:37:11,067 Bad, bad, bad. 842 00:37:11,067 --> 00:37:13,167 -What? -What did we do? 843 00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:15,067 Mama didn't teach you manners. 844 00:37:15,067 --> 00:37:16,500 -What did I do? -What did we do? 845 00:37:17,567 --> 00:37:18,867 What, Mama? 846 00:37:18,900 --> 00:37:20,367 -[phone ringing] -Oh. 847 00:37:21,900 --> 00:37:23,167 Oh, uh-oh. 848 00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:27,300 Hey. How you doing? 849 00:37:29,667 --> 00:37:30,800 [Trevor] Huh? 850 00:37:30,833 --> 00:37:35,300 No, no. We're still playing. We're like halfway. 851 00:37:36,067 --> 00:37:37,167 Yeah, we're halfway done. 852 00:37:38,067 --> 00:37:39,433 [blows raspberry] 853 00:37:39,467 --> 00:37:41,967 -Yeah. -You want some candy? 854 00:37:42,067 --> 00:37:43,067 [laughs] 855 00:37:45,567 --> 00:37:48,667 It hasn't been seven hours. You're being dramatic. 856 00:37:48,700 --> 00:37:50,233 We've literally been here like an hour. 857 00:37:51,100 --> 00:37:53,833 At this point, in our relationship 858 00:37:53,867 --> 00:37:54,933 and my relationship with DeLeesa, 859 00:37:54,967 --> 00:37:56,300 I think she feels threatened. 860 00:37:56,333 --> 00:37:58,233 Um, because if she's getting to a point... 861 00:37:58,267 --> 00:37:59,433 Yeah, if she's got this whole-- 862 00:37:59,467 --> 00:38:00,633 [India] I don't think that. I think it's just jealousy. 863 00:38:00,667 --> 00:38:02,633 Because everything always has to be her. 864 00:38:02,667 --> 00:38:05,500 If it's not her, that's it. 865 00:38:07,967 --> 00:38:10,567 [Trevor] Like another hour, probably. Ten o'clock. 866 00:38:12,233 --> 00:38:14,500 I just... Thank you, Ma. 867 00:38:14,533 --> 00:38:16,367 Baby, can I... 868 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,167 We gotta go. Get off the phone. 869 00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:21,067 Let me call you back right after this game. 870 00:38:23,467 --> 00:38:24,500 Look, we gotta go. 871 00:38:26,467 --> 00:38:27,633 She's gonna be so mad. 872 00:38:27,667 --> 00:38:29,100 You get home when you get home. 873 00:38:31,267 --> 00:38:32,633 [Quinnayah speaking] 874 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:34,433 He ain't packing up. 875 00:38:34,467 --> 00:38:36,433 You're not making this situation any better. 876 00:38:36,467 --> 00:38:39,333 How much trouble can you get into with your mama? 877 00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:43,533 I don't want my relationship with my wife to suffer. 878 00:38:43,567 --> 00:38:46,100 You know, I love my wife, you know? 879 00:38:46,133 --> 00:38:48,600 Like, I don't want to lose her forever. 880 00:38:48,633 --> 00:38:50,567 But, you know, I feel like... 881 00:38:52,967 --> 00:38:54,567 I don't know. I feel like she's not... 882 00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:58,400 She's not hearing me when it comes to this situation. 883 00:38:58,433 --> 00:39:00,600 And I just don't know how... 884 00:39:01,467 --> 00:39:02,633 I don't know how to approach it. 885 00:39:02,667 --> 00:39:04,533 I don't know the best way to fix it. 886 00:39:10,067 --> 00:39:11,433 Mom, you have to have some boundaries. 887 00:39:11,467 --> 00:39:15,433 I have a right of my feeling, okay? 888 00:39:15,467 --> 00:39:17,667 I'm not telling you to deny your feelings. 889 00:39:17,700 --> 00:39:19,067 You just need to be respectful. 890 00:39:19,100 --> 00:39:20,400 He is unsure. 891 00:39:20,433 --> 00:39:22,500 I'm not convinced at all 892 00:39:22,533 --> 00:39:24,433 that he is in love with her. 893 00:39:39,900 --> 00:39:41,767 He literally has been blowing up my phone. 894 00:39:46,367 --> 00:39:48,067 [Sunnie] How long have you guys been here? 895 00:39:48,067 --> 00:39:50,233 [woman speaking] 896 00:39:50,267 --> 00:39:51,300 [Sunnie] Oh, shoot. 897 00:39:56,633 --> 00:39:58,433 Oh, my God. Here we go. 898 00:39:59,500 --> 00:40:01,233 Arriving at the grand opening, 899 00:40:01,267 --> 00:40:03,900 I'm feeling so much anxiety, 900 00:40:03,933 --> 00:40:06,500 because my mom and Scott were just going at it 901 00:40:06,533 --> 00:40:09,500 over the wedding stuff again, and I kept crying, 902 00:40:09,533 --> 00:40:12,433 and it ended up being so late 903 00:40:12,467 --> 00:40:14,400 to my own [bleep] grand opening. 904 00:40:16,700 --> 00:40:18,367 Come on, let's go. We are late. 905 00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:19,900 We are late. Just please. 906 00:40:19,933 --> 00:40:23,400 We had a conversation in the car, 907 00:40:23,433 --> 00:40:28,100 and I am a little bit, like, concerned. 908 00:40:28,867 --> 00:40:31,367 Today, I'm not convinced at all 909 00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:33,633 that he is in love with her. 910 00:40:34,767 --> 00:40:36,033 -Hey. -[Sarah] Hey. 911 00:40:36,067 --> 00:40:37,300 -Hi. -[Scott] How are you? 912 00:40:37,333 --> 00:40:39,000 -[Sarah] I'm good. -This looks good. 913 00:40:39,033 --> 00:40:41,233 -[Scott] Oh, I love the balloons. -Where have you guys been? 914 00:40:41,267 --> 00:40:42,967 [Sunnie] Um, I need a second. 915 00:40:45,367 --> 00:40:48,633 So, the energy was very stressful 916 00:40:48,667 --> 00:40:51,967 when they showed up. It was, like, very tense. 917 00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:53,800 My mom was being super weird. 918 00:40:53,833 --> 00:40:56,367 My sister was being super weird. 919 00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:59,567 Scott was being super weird, and he was never super weird. 920 00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:01,800 So, I have no idea what's going on. 921 00:41:04,267 --> 00:41:06,600 [indistinct conversation] 922 00:41:06,633 --> 00:41:08,467 [Sarah] People are leaving because of all the chaos right now. 923 00:41:09,667 --> 00:41:12,100 I mean, you should have been here like two hours ago. 924 00:41:12,133 --> 00:41:13,933 Yeah, so, on the way over here, 925 00:41:13,967 --> 00:41:17,467 Mom and Scott decided to freaking start going at it 926 00:41:17,500 --> 00:41:19,067 -in the car over marriage. -About what? 927 00:41:19,633 --> 00:41:20,600 [Sunnie] About marriage. 928 00:41:20,633 --> 00:41:21,900 What the [bleep] 929 00:41:21,933 --> 00:41:23,667 Mom set up a date for us, 930 00:41:24,900 --> 00:41:27,600 as if we're getting married, for our wedding desserts. 931 00:41:27,633 --> 00:41:28,533 What the [bleep] 932 00:41:30,067 --> 00:41:33,567 My mom brings up marriage multiple times a day. 933 00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,133 She very much meddles in Sunnie's life, 934 00:41:36,167 --> 00:41:38,467 and even though she actually lives with me, 935 00:41:38,500 --> 00:41:41,700 she has literally spent the night at Sunnie's apartment 936 00:41:41,733 --> 00:41:44,167 every single day so she can spy on them 937 00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:46,667 and see what they're doing and see what they're not doing. 938 00:41:47,367 --> 00:41:49,233 -[Sunnie speaking] -Dude. 939 00:41:49,267 --> 00:41:53,700 Mom pressuring him is making him go into a turtle shell. 940 00:41:53,733 --> 00:41:54,900 [Sarah] Yeah, of course. 941 00:41:54,933 --> 00:41:57,133 You don't even hit a year, like, for another few months. 942 00:41:57,167 --> 00:41:58,133 She keeps... 943 00:42:02,067 --> 00:42:03,633 Is it a bad time? Should I go back? 944 00:42:03,667 --> 00:42:05,067 -No, Mom, it's fine. -No, it's fine. 945 00:42:05,067 --> 00:42:06,400 -We're in? -It's fine. 946 00:42:06,433 --> 00:42:08,733 [Sunnie] It's fine. Everything's fine. 947 00:42:10,900 --> 00:42:12,333 Everything is fine. 948 00:42:12,367 --> 00:42:13,600 I'm gonna go check on the guests. 949 00:42:13,633 --> 00:42:15,133 -[Sarah] Okay. -Yeah, it looks like, 950 00:42:15,167 --> 00:42:16,733 -really, everything is fine. -Yeah. 951 00:42:17,467 --> 00:42:18,400 [Eva] Exactly. 952 00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:22,567 I know my mom just wants the best for me, 953 00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:24,233 and I love that about her, 954 00:42:24,267 --> 00:42:26,800 but sometimes it's just, like, pick your moments. 955 00:42:26,833 --> 00:42:31,367 You know, let's not do this before my grand opening party 956 00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:35,900 or, you know, let's not try to make a surprise. 957 00:42:35,933 --> 00:42:38,800 She always says, "I don't really talk to him about that. 958 00:42:38,833 --> 00:42:41,467 You know, this is the first time I brought it up," 959 00:42:41,500 --> 00:42:45,400 and I'm like, "No, this is actually the 500th time 960 00:42:45,433 --> 00:42:46,467 that you've brought it up." 961 00:42:47,533 --> 00:42:49,200 But to be completely honest, 962 00:42:49,233 --> 00:42:51,067 I really can't deal with this right now. 963 00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:52,833 [woman speaking] 964 00:42:52,867 --> 00:42:54,267 I was gonna get some shots ready. 965 00:42:54,300 --> 00:42:55,133 -Yay! -[woman] Okay. 966 00:42:55,167 --> 00:42:56,400 Because I have clients, 967 00:42:56,433 --> 00:42:58,667 and I promised them treatments at this grand opening. 968 00:42:59,633 --> 00:43:01,633 Oh, thanks, girl. 969 00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,700 It's, uh, semaglutide. It's the weight loss shot. 970 00:43:07,233 --> 00:43:09,800 -It's the thing that all the celebrities are on. -[woman] I know. 971 00:43:10,967 --> 00:43:13,833 I'm just curious what held you guys up so long. 972 00:43:13,867 --> 00:43:15,300 What was this conversation? 973 00:43:15,333 --> 00:43:16,967 Like, I wanted... 974 00:43:17,067 --> 00:43:18,133 Honestly, let me tell you this. 975 00:43:18,167 --> 00:43:19,433 What were you telling him in the car? 976 00:43:19,467 --> 00:43:21,267 -To ask her to marry him tomorrow? -I said... 977 00:43:21,300 --> 00:43:22,200 No. 978 00:43:22,967 --> 00:43:24,433 Why are you being like this? 979 00:43:24,467 --> 00:43:25,900 I didn't ask him that. 980 00:43:25,933 --> 00:43:27,700 I am not that type of person. 981 00:43:27,733 --> 00:43:30,100 Let them be on their own timeframe. 982 00:43:32,067 --> 00:43:34,467 There's the reason why I didn't introduce my husband 983 00:43:34,500 --> 00:43:37,167 to my mom until I had a ring on my finger, 984 00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:39,933 because I knew that she could possibly 985 00:43:39,967 --> 00:43:41,833 influence decisions that I was gonna make. 986 00:43:42,833 --> 00:43:43,833 We all like Scott. 987 00:43:43,867 --> 00:43:45,333 The whole family likes Scott, 988 00:43:45,367 --> 00:43:47,967 but her pushing the marriage agenda so hard 989 00:43:48,067 --> 00:43:50,333 is not good for their relationship. 990 00:43:50,367 --> 00:43:53,433 You set up a cake tasting for them to go try wedding cakes. 991 00:43:53,467 --> 00:43:55,367 I wanted to see how he's gonna feel. 992 00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:57,800 -I didn't come-- -Mom, they're not engaged. 993 00:43:57,833 --> 00:43:59,100 Like, you can't do that. 994 00:43:59,133 --> 00:44:00,700 [speaking foreign language] 995 00:44:00,733 --> 00:44:05,133 The problem is Scott doesn't believe 996 00:44:06,067 --> 00:44:08,433 there is no sex before marriage, 997 00:44:08,467 --> 00:44:10,067 and I'm exactly the opposite. 998 00:44:11,267 --> 00:44:15,767 My fear is Sunnie will be trade our religion, 999 00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:18,467 our tradition, our custom. 1000 00:44:18,500 --> 00:44:23,400 If she disrespects herself and gives herself to a man, 1001 00:44:23,433 --> 00:44:27,067 it's like all of that is going to go down the drain, 1002 00:44:27,067 --> 00:44:28,433 and it's not okay with me. 1003 00:44:29,700 --> 00:44:33,833 I have a right of my feeling, okay? 1004 00:44:33,867 --> 00:44:36,100 I'm not telling you to deny your feelings. 1005 00:44:36,133 --> 00:44:37,300 You just need to be respectful. 1006 00:44:37,333 --> 00:44:39,100 He is unsure. 1007 00:44:39,133 --> 00:44:40,467 Mom, you have to have some boundaries. 1008 00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:43,067 -That's it. I'm done here. -Mmm-hmm. 1009 00:44:43,667 --> 00:44:45,967 [Eva] Okay? I'm done. 1010 00:44:47,233 --> 00:44:50,100 If you are really in love with this woman, 1011 00:44:50,133 --> 00:44:51,467 put a ring on her finger. 1012 00:44:51,500 --> 00:44:53,867 You don't have to marry her right now. 1013 00:44:53,900 --> 00:44:56,633 Just give her a title to be... 1014 00:44:56,667 --> 00:44:59,767 This woman is belong to this man. 1015 00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:03,600 I wish and I pray he will make up his mind 1016 00:45:03,633 --> 00:45:08,133 or just leave her alone, you know? 1017 00:45:08,167 --> 00:45:11,267 [woman] To Sunnie and to her new business. 1018 00:45:11,300 --> 00:45:13,133 [all] Cheers. 1019 00:45:13,167 --> 00:45:14,967 [woman] Thank you, Sunnie, for inviting us. 1020 00:45:15,067 --> 00:45:16,067 -[Scott] Yay! -[Sunnie] Thank you. 1021 00:45:16,067 --> 00:45:18,067 [Sunnie] Thank you guys so much for coming. 1022 00:45:18,067 --> 00:45:20,400 I'm trying really hard to act happy right now, 1023 00:45:20,433 --> 00:45:23,067 but honestly, I'm just dying inside. 1024 00:45:23,100 --> 00:45:28,200 I do not want my mom to be disappointed in me. 1025 00:45:28,233 --> 00:45:31,100 If things keep going on like they are now, 1026 00:45:31,133 --> 00:45:33,500 I'm definitely going to lose Scott. 1027 00:45:33,533 --> 00:45:36,367 And honestly, that might be as devastating 1028 00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:37,800 as disappointing my mom. 1029 00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:42,267 Be a flamingo. 1030 00:45:42,300 --> 00:45:44,933 The pageant is two weeks away, and I'm so stressed out. 1031 00:45:44,967 --> 00:45:47,067 We have so much to do. Look at him. Look at him go. 1032 00:45:47,067 --> 00:45:48,233 We're going together. We're in sync. 1033 00:45:48,267 --> 00:45:50,067 -[woman] Yes! That's you! -[girl speaking] 1034 00:45:50,067 --> 00:45:51,733 [woman] We're walking with the flamingo. 1035 00:45:51,767 --> 00:45:53,100 We're walking like the flamingos. 1036 00:45:54,100 --> 00:45:55,800 I kind of want to talk to you about my mom. 1037 00:45:55,833 --> 00:45:58,100 -Okay. -I feel like something's up with her, 1038 00:45:58,133 --> 00:45:59,200 and it's like bugging me. 1039 00:45:59,233 --> 00:46:01,667 -[man speaking] -Ask her what? 1040 00:46:01,700 --> 00:46:03,567 -There's a perfect opportunity. -I'm not gonna say, "Hey, Mom, 1041 00:46:04,067 --> 00:46:05,400 are you dying?" 1042 00:46:05,433 --> 00:46:07,733 Look at that little butt she has. 1043 00:46:07,767 --> 00:46:08,700 [TJ] It definitely is little. 1044 00:46:09,767 --> 00:46:10,933 What's this? 1045 00:46:10,967 --> 00:46:13,300 Next surgery I really want is the BBL, 1046 00:46:13,333 --> 00:46:14,367 the Brazilian butt lift. 1047 00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:15,767 [Mary] These are butt pads? 1048 00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:18,367 TJ is doing this. He's whispering in your ear, 1049 00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:19,967 He's not going to do that to my daughter 1050 00:46:20,067 --> 00:46:22,300 over my dead body. 1051 00:46:22,333 --> 00:46:26,133 Have you been, like, looking for places to move? 1052 00:46:26,167 --> 00:46:28,433 -I'm not answering nothing. -Why can't you answer me? 1053 00:46:28,467 --> 00:46:30,333 We cannot be in a room together 1054 00:46:30,367 --> 00:46:33,133 without her getting an attitude with me. 1055 00:46:33,167 --> 00:46:35,433 You just want to nag. Stop already. 1056 00:46:35,467 --> 00:46:36,933 -I'm not nagging. -Okay, nah, nah. 1057 00:46:36,967 --> 00:46:37,800 [India] Enough.