[narrator] Previously, on sMothered...
Scott will never touch you [laughing]
or marry you if you're gonna leave it like this.
[employee] Your mom told me that she wanted to book this for you guys as a gift
-on your engagement. -[Scott] Oh, my gosh.
I think I'm being treated on a date,
but I'm being surprised with a wedding.
I mean, I don't know why, like, wedding stuff scares you so much.
It's not about that. This is just not my wedding,
this is your mom's wedding.
Out with my twin.
I'm Sky, this is Skylar Marie.
[Skylar] I love dancing, twerking, and making music.
This is my next Beyonce.
Make sure you groove with the real sexy,
like the body roll.
-Body roll. -Oh, my goodness.
[Sky] We're putting together a music video
to Skylar's hot new single!
I'm outworking you,
and it should be the other way around.
Don't be mean, jelly bean. Let's go.
My mom and I have been sleeping in the same bed for a while.
So when TJ stays, he stays in the guest room
and I sleep with my mom.
They shouldn't even be sleeping together, honestly.
He's like, "Well, what if we get married?"
When I hear her speak of marriage,
I cringe
because they don't belong together.
They are not equally yoked.
[singer vocalizing]
[Brittani] Isn't my mom beautiful?
Just look at her smile.
[Brittani and Mary chuckle]
Everything about her is flawless.
That's sweet. Thank you, babe.
[employee] Is it three this evening?
Yes, please. Thank you.
[Mary] My favorite thing in the world is spending as much time
as we can together.
Even if you insist on bringing TJ, too.
Thank you so much.
I don't wanna see TJ.
Mom, really?
[singer vocalizing]
Okay.
Nice water.
Yeah, nothing like a good glass of water.
I promised Brittani that I would try to get along with TJ,
and so, we need to spend more quality time together, so...
That's what I kept saying.
...we could get to know one another better...
-[Brittani] That's what I kept saying. -...and know
each other's personality.
But I would love for my mom and TJ to be together more often,
so we can all be a family together.
Anything else you want? Like dessert, too, later?
Yeah, of course.
I love the dessert.
No. No, I'm not talking about that dessert.
I'm talking about dessert, bae.
I know, you're talking about food.
[chuckling] Okay.
You can say it to me, I'm right across from you.
If you do decide to have sex tonight...
okay? And you need anything from me, I have--
[Brittani] Mom, we're in a restaurant.
I have lube.
The kind that you blow on, it gets hot and it tastes good.
Our relationship doesn't revolve around sex, like, all the time.
How many times, uh,
how many times a week do you guys do it
when you're together?
I don't know. Why? That's such a weird question.
I'm just letting you know
that, you know, if it does happen,
uh, if you need something, just come to my room.
Text me. Send me a text,
-my phone's gonna be on all night. -[Brittani] I know,
but I'm not horny, maybe you are.
'Cause you've been bringing up sex a lot lately.
Oh, my gosh, Mom.
That's all I hear from you, is that three letter word.
S-E-X. She loves sex.
I mean, you can't even lay by her without putting your hands all over her.
[Brittani] Well, he can touch me.
Well, didn't you and Frank cuddle?
[Mary] Yeah, but he...
Every time he put his hands on me...
he got a boner.
[TJ] Hey, yo, why are you talking about boners at the table?
[Mary] Because it's the truth.
So, you don't get a [bleep] when you're touching my daughter?
[Brittani] Well, you do.
-You can admit you do. -Yes. I mean, I do.
Okay. That's what I'm saying.
-Exactly what I'm saying. -[Brittani] Mom.
See, as far as talking about sex,
I'm fine with talking about it with my mom,
about anything,
but not at a public restaurant.
I just wanna make sure he's fulfilling every need,
-okay? -Okay.
Every crevice, very crack on your body.
-Mmm! Mmm. -[TJ] Okay.
[TJ] I am... I'm not even hungry no more.
[Brittani] Listen, like, I understand that it's uncomfortable,
baby, but at the same time, you're showing my mom you're not turned on by me.
This is just mind-blowing. Like, I just like...
All I see is y'all two are just like this.
I mean, she is my best friend.
Your mom should be your mother first,
not your friend.
I'm just saying, so...
Okay.
We make love, we don't just have sex.
If that's what you were thinking, make...
There's a difference between having sex and making love.
[Mary] Mm.
She's so cute. Isn't she sweet?
Yeah, she's amazing.
She's my baby.
[TJ] Mine's too.
No, she's my baby.
Oh, until she moves out.
She's not moving out.
Okay?
[Mary] All right?
Brittani loves me and she won't leave me.
And believe me, you'll find out.
[TJ speaking]
And...
"Like, let her do her thing."
She may be your girlfriend, but she's my baby.
-Okay, I know. -[Mary] Okay?
I own her, not you.
-You own your daughter? -Yep, I do.
Okay, let's go.
[Brittani] Dinner didn't go how I hoped,
because they're not communicating.
I don't know what it is, but...
Jeez.
...I don't like keeping secrets away from her,
but I just don't know when to tell her and how to tell her.
Because I tell her everything.
-Listen, we have a good time, food was delicious. -[Brittani] Yeah.
It was very, very good.
But the thing is, I want her to like TJ first,
before I tell her.
If my mom doesn't like someone I'm dating,
my life is living hell.
I want my mom to hurry up and like TJ.
* Oh *
* Unapologetic Doing the most *
Why do you got so much stuff?
[India] What are you talking about?
This is not a lot of stuff.
-What are you doing? -[Trevor] I'm about to clean my ears.
Here, give me. I'll do it for you.
[Trevor] All right.
-Thank you. -[India] Mm-hmm.
Boy, I need a new one, you don't put the same one in there.
-Give me another one. -You can use the other side.
I did.
-My ear's not that dirty. -[India] Stop stressing, your ears are dirty.
Yeah.
[licking]
I hope your tongue is clean.
[chuckles] My mouth is clean.
-My mouth is clean. -It better be.
* Ooh, I can give you Everything *
* Ooh, everything Unapologetically, oh *
-Okay. Ugh, my hair. -There you go.
-Ugh, I'm so tired. -There you go. Take you hat off, girl.
[India] Yes, I need you to help me do my hair.
-Trying something to put on my hair. -[Trevor] What is that?
[India] Honey.
I'm Trevor, I'm 37, I'm from New York,
but I live in Georgia now.
And this is my mom, India.
I'm from New York, but I live in Georgia...
with my son. It's like a mother-y son bond, yes,
that you feel like a mama bear, cub bear
type of thing, yeah.
-Yeah. -That's what it feels like, yeah.
-Mama bear. -It's... Yeah, mama bear.
-I'm mama bear. This is my son bear. -[laughs]
-We protect each other. -Exactly.
[India] Oh.
[Trevor] Yo, Ma, your scalp is...
Your hair's so soft. Is it the honey?
-Mm-hmm. Yeah. [laughs] -Wow! [chuckles]
[Trevor] No, for real.
-Like, it's really soft. -Oh, it feels so good.
[Trevor] We spend a lot of time together.
We have our morning beauty routine,
we make up dances.
[India] Oh, yeah.
[both laugh]
-We cook together. -We do.
We eat, we feed each other.
[mimics chewing]
[both laugh]
-We play hide and seek. -[India] Play hide and seek-- Yeah.
-[Trevor screaming] -[laughs]
Something else we like to do, go to bingo.
Yo, bingo night is, like, sacred
-at this point. -It is.
I need that money, honey.
I need a vacation.
-Oh! -Yeah.
Every Thursday evening, we do a mother-son bingo night.
-Yes. -[Trevor] It's the best.
[India] Yes, it is the best.
[Trevor] It is the best, like--
-[India] It's like, we put on our outfits. -[Trevor] We get dressed.
-Mm-hmm. -Do our hair.
You put your cologne on, I put my stuff on.
Ay!
[Trevor] It's the thing that, I think, we look forward to the most in the week.
-Oh, all right. -[India laughs]
[Trevor] All right.
-This is why I love you. -[India] You got--
-[spits] -[India laughs]
-[Trevor] Yeah, my turn. -[India] Whoop.
-[Trevor] Oh! -[India] Ooh.
[Trevor and India speaking indistinctly]
What do you think we doing? We're going to bingo.
-I cannot. Oh, my God. -[India] We're going to bingo.
-Whoo, whoo! -This is so weird.
-[Trevor] $1,000, baby. -Oh, yeah.
[Trevor] You know, I think my wife has a tough time
accepting my relationship with my mom
because...
Okay, I'mma go get changed.
-All right, cool. -Okay.
-[Trevor] Go ahead. -[India] Okay.
This is my amazing husband, Trevor,
and the lady next to him is his mother-in-law.
[India and Trevor snickering and laughing]
-Why are y'all laughing? -'Cause I got you.
I just don't even know what you're laughing at.
Okay.
Did you just call me a piece of [bleep]?
-[Trevor snickering] -Is that what she just said?
[India laughing] I did. I did.
It's so hard for you to say, "That's my mom,"
but, "This is his mother-in-law."
I mean...
It's the same thing, right?
No, just say I'm your mom.
-That's it. -Well-- No.
-Okay. -I already...
It's all right.
[Trevor] DeLeesa and I started dating at the beginning of college.
And since that first day DeLeesa introduced me to my future mother-in-law,
we've been inseparable.
You remember when you met me?
-Oh, yeah. -Yeah. [laughs]
Oh, yeah.
You ever watched Tyler Perry in Meet the Browns?
-That's what I did... -[Trevor] Mm-hmm.
...the first time I meet Trevor.
-[Trevor] Coming downstairs. -Yep.
-I pulled my pants up... -At the door.
...I put powder on my legs,
and I poured alcohol on like I was drunk.
[laughs]
[India] I fell all over my lawn.
-Yeah. -I was like, "Who this guy?
-What are you doing at my house?" -[laughs]
-And I said, "Mommy! Mommy!" -Yeah. [laughs]
I just wanted to see how he was gonna react,
or be like, "Oh, that's your mother?"
But no, he just cracked up.
-Yeah, that was so funny. -[India] And I've loved him ever since that day.
-Mm-hmm. -[laughs]
You guys are gonna go to bingo?
-Again? -Yeah.
-Sounds so much fun. -It is.
-Is it, really? -Yeah, it is.
-It's really fun? -It really is.
[DeLeesa] My husband and my mom are best friends
and have the most weird and disgusting relationship
that I have ever seen.
I can't stand it,
especially because me and my mom do not get along,
and it should be me and him,
not my mom and him.
Especially because we have two toddlers,
I'm super pregnant.
So their relationship is just so annoying to me, honestly.
[India] Close the door.
[singer vocalizing]
Oh, yay! We're going to bingo.
-You excited? -Yeah, I'm excited.
-You ready for bingo?
I'm ready.
Okay. Oh.
* Hey, hey, hey, no ... *
* Ooh *
[India] No, we going opposite.
We're supposed to go together.
* Ooh... ...baby, baby *
[Trevor] Go.
* Baby! I'm so in love *
[both] Bingo! Bingo! Bingo! Bingo!
[both laugh]
[Trevor] We're all originally from New York,
and it was actually my idea for my mother-in-law to come live here.
I had hoped that her coming down here
would help them be closer, get closer,
address a lot of their issues,
and then move past it together.
And, uh, I thought, "Yeah, this is gonna work."
But unfortunately, it hasn't, [chuckles] at all.
Hey, Farah.
-[Farah] Hey, Trevor. -Hey.
-Hi, Ms. India. -How you doing? What's up, man?
Ms. India, I saw your stuff outside.
-Are you in trouble again? -[India] Ooh, you busy.
-[Farah] Come on now. -[India and Farah laugh]
-See ya. -See you later.
-[India] Bye. -Vroom.
Everybody knows Trevor and Ms. India.
They're always in the neighborhood,
riding hoverboards in, like, matching outfits, and...
It's ver... Really interesting.
[chuckling] It's, uh, kinda weird,
but we all mind our own business around here,
but, like, when your business is on the front lawn,
I mean, it's kinda hard. [slight chuckle]
It's kinda... Makes that hard, yeah.
[India] What's that, that movie and they go like this?
She's going to fall off the boat.
[Trevor] You mean, Titanic?
-[India] Yes. [chuckles] -[Trevor] Only one of the biggest movies ever?
-[India] Yeah. -[Trevor laughing] Yeah.
My mother-in-law and I have been close for a very long time,
and her moving here has just forced us to get even closer.
[India laughs]
[Trevor] But the last couple weeks,
DeLeesa and my mother-in-law's relationship has gotten worse.
[DeLeesa speaking]
[Trevor] DeLeesa's even started throwing Mom's things out of the house
in protest of her living with us.
If I can't get them on the same page
by the time the baby is here,
I feel like DeLeesa's gonna force me to choose between my mom or her.
She will.
Like, DeLeesa believes wholeheartedly in ultimatums.
-Oh, yeah. -She's done it before.
-[India] Mm, if it's not her way, it's nobody's way. -She won't--
-She will not hesitate to do it again. -Mm-hmm.
Yeah, that's the way she is.
[Scott] Shoving a wedding
down my throat isn't gonna make it happen.
-Those are the kind of things that's gonna... -I mean--
...make the relationship not work.
[Eva] You already wasted one year.
If there is something bothering you,
you need to tell her.
-You're absolutely right. -[Eva] Yeah.
Sunnie, the reason why I haven't married you yet
is because of your mom.
* I can't get enough of you *
* I can't get enough of it *
* I can't get enough of your *
* Can't get enough of your love *
[Sky] After all of this, we're gonna sit down,
we're gonna go over the schedule for the week.
Because you cannot be messing up how you did earlier today. No way.
Okay.
[Sky] Coming home from the video shoot,
we were so exhausted,
and it did not go exactly how I hoped it to be.
I'm getting in the shower, so you can give me my massage.
* Can't get enough Of your love, no *
* I've tried, tried *
* Can't get enough of you *
* I've tried, tried *
* Can't get enough Of your love *
[Sky speaking]
[Skylar] Okay. [chuckles]
[Sky] You're ready?
So, when we go to the spa, or, like, book a facial appointment or a wax,
I just skip the massage
because no one knows how to do it exactly like my mom.
-Like, she does it just right. -[Sky] Yeah.
And not like anyone else, she has the perfect hands.
Anointed hands, I shall say.
Yes.
-This side right here. -[Sky] Yeah, just...
Okay.
And this area right here.
I actually love to pamper Skylar.
Like, she's my little angel.
You know, if she says, "Mom, please, before I get up, massage me,"
I would do it.
'Cause I want her to have a great day, you know?
-[Skylar speaking] -Yes.
I mean, you were twerking your ass off today.
[Skylar laughs]
[Sky] I mean, your booty deserves a massage tonight.
-[Skylar chuckles] Wait. -[Sky] Huh?
-That hurts. -[Sky] Okay, I'll be gentle then.
But, Sky, listen, your birthday party?
-[Skylar] Hmm? -Yeah, that's only, like, in two-and-a-half weeks.
And you're gonna perform in front of all these people.
I need you to bring it.
[chuckles]
Skylar is actually turning 20 years old soon,
and we've been planning her birthday party for a few months now.
We usually go all out every birthday,
but this year, it's so important
because we're also premiering her new songs.
Yes.
You want everything to be just right, okay?
Skylar, are you listening to me?
You can't massage me till I fall asleep?
-No. -Why?
Because we gotta brush our teeth,
and then we're gonna go to bed.
-Okay, fine. -All right?
I think I support Skylar a little too much.
I've done everything for her.
Pass me my tooth, uh, sprayer.
I speak for her,
I send e-mails for her,
I pay all the bills, even her bills,
her phone bills and things like that.
I'm like Skylar's brain, to be honest.
Do you want me to dance behind you...
when you perform?
'Cause you are gonna perform.
-Um-- -It's your party,
so you're going to perform.
-Excuse me. -Yes.
But not like how you did at my last party.
I don't need you twerking on everybody.
At my 19th birthday party, my mom was twerking
on all of my guy friends, flirting,
and it was just embarrassing.
And then, for this year's party,
she put herself, a big, giant picture of herself
on my flyer.
Ma'am.
-Ta'da! Look. -[laughs]
-Is that you? -[Sky] Mm-hmm.
I'm hosting your party.
I was like, "Uh-uh, you're my mom.
You don't have to be on the flyer with me."
-It's always about Sky. -[Sky] No.
Yes, it is.
[Sky mumbling] Uh-huh, always about me.
I... You need me.
Last time, you were doing it way too much.
No, I was making you look good.
Uh-uh!
[laughing] Yeah.
I make you look good.
Yes, ma'am, I do.
No, people were staring and embarrassed.
I really love my mom,
I love that she pampers me
and she takes care of me.
I love living with her, she's like my bestie,
but sometimes, it's just [sighs] annoying.
You know, I wanna be my own person
and live in my own skin,
but it seems like she wants to live in my skin with me.
* This is the magic *
* Everyone has it *
* We're gonna take off *
I think we need to do, like, a menu of services.
I know we've talked about it before,
body contouring, skin tightening.
[Sunnie] And put vajacials also.
Really?
[Eva] Today is Sunnie's grand opening for her new med spa.
I am so proud of her.
Like, she worked so hard and...
[cries softly]
-You know, and she's said-- -Mom, you don't have to cry.
I'm crying of, like, how much I'm, like, proud of her.
Nobody knows what a vajacial is.
-All right, a lot of people do and if they don't... -Nobody does.
-...they'll ask about it, they'll say-- -You don't know,
-but they-- -They'll say, "Hey, what's this?"
I know what a vajacial is because I hear you two talk about it all the time.
I mean, it's just a big--
Like, I don't even understand how you let Mom,
like, get all up in your vajay.
Why would you not want someone to go down there
and pull out your ingrown hairs
and make sure that, like, you're prim and proper down there?
I don't have ingrown hairs.
-[Eva] How do you know that? -I don't believe that.
-It's the same vagina. -Vajacials, done. I'm done.
-I'm done talking about this. -Keep it to yourself.
-Back to your menu, please. -Okay.
-Go back to the-- -What else?
So muscle simulation.
-It's on there. -Abs, whole thing.
Okay.
[Sunnie] I definitely followed in my mom's footsteps,
and I have been in the med spa world since I was about 21.
This is a really, really big deal for me.
So, you'll be there on time?
-Promise. -Yes, we'll be there on time.
-Okay. -[Eva] Yeah.
* This is the magic *
* Everyone has it *
* We're gonna take Oh, oh, off *
* No need for dramatics *
* We all fought to ashes *
* Shake your little Shake your little... *
I don't know what that is.
Did you hit something?
-No, I did not. -Do a little hitacial? Hmm?
-[chuckles] -Nope, I did not.
[sighs]
Since me and Scott's "date,"
aka wedding cake tasting,
things have been a little weird,
and now we're headed to my grand opening party.
[Scott] "Date," I use that word very loosely.
Why would your mom do that?
Um, because she wants us to get married.
It's just a whole level of...
that's not okay.
So, yeah, I'm still a little upset.
So, I wanna ask you about the date last night.
-So, the date was lovely, it was nice. -[Eva] Uh-huh.
-And we both enjoyed it very much. -Uh-huh.
With that being said, I love Sunnie very much,
but for now, you know, there's just no rush and...
doing stuff like that...
-Mm-hmm. -[Scott] ...it's not gonna make it happen any sooner.
To be honest with you, this is a red flag for me.
-It's a red flag? -Yes.
Oh my gosh, there's no wedding.
No, she doesn't want to be just girlfriend.
Her time is ticking, you know?
I'm very content with where me and Sunnie are,
and I love where things are going,
but shoving a wedding down my throat
isn't going to make it happen.
-I mean... -And it's just not okay.
Those are the kind of things that's going to scare me away.
Those are the kind of things that's gonna
make the relationship not work.
That's toxic. That's not okay.
It's really hard for us to just,
you know, enjoy where we're at right now
as far as our relationship,
because I always feel this constant weight,
and that's basically the pressure
that Eva puts on me about marriage.
It's just constant, constant, constant,
but I wish that she would try to understand my thoughts
or where I'm coming from.
Yeah.
[Eva] You already wasted one year, you know?
But if there's something bothering you,
you need to tell her and figure it out
why you try to, like,
keep going forward as a boyfriend and girlfriend.
-You're absolutely right. -Yeah.
Sunnie, the reason why I haven't married you yet...
is because your mom is pushing for marriage
when I'm not ready.
That's the reason?
It's because you feel like you're being pressured.
That's definitely a red flag.
I honestly just want everyone to be happy,
and that's all I care about.
Yeah, me too.
It's hard for me to prioritize, like,
I feel like a bad, like, girlfriend,
and then I feel like a bad daughter sometimes,
because it's hard for me to, like, decide.
Like, you know, sometimes, like,
it's just hard for me to, like, you know,
I don't like to have to, like, choose, like,
who do I need to make happy?
Like, I don't know.
I don't know, like, what to say, like,
who to, like, who to side with because I see both sides.
It's not about side.
Mom, but let me tell you something. Mom, listen,
you're my mother,
and you're always gonna love me,
no matter what.
You can never not be my mother,
but Scott, he can leave me.
-I'm sorry. -Like, he's not even my husband yet.
-Yeah, I know. -You know?
The last thing I want to do is have a conversation like this
on a very important day for Sunnie.
There's, you know, like,
I don't think Sunnie should feel that type of pressure
to choose between us,
so we should probably, going forward,
show that we're on the same side.
-Absolutely, yeah. -Right?
[Scott] So in order to do that, we have to communicate.
We have to, you know,
try to understand each other's opinions
so that we can move forward.
So in your mind, what is, like, timing?
A year, two...
-Oh, my God. -Yeah, no, seriously.
I can't even... My point is, I don't know.
You gotta be kidding me.
Right when I'm like, "There you go, okay,
we've made some progress."
[whistles] 180. Flipped it right back on me.
I'm literally two seconds away from jumping out of this car.
Did you get down and dirty?
Wow.
I really want my mom to get along with TJ,
especially because we're engaged.
If she finds out before I get the chance to tell her,
that's my worst nightmare.
* Hallelujah *
I'm always in the mood.
Every Sunday is me and TJ's alone time.
Usually TJ's with his family for church,
and I'm usually with my mom for church,
and then we meet up afterwards.
And what do you do when you do your own little thing?
-After church? -Yeah.
* Hallelujah, hallelujah *
We have no privacy.
We can't even breathe.
All right.
[Brittani] Let's go get some food.
Let's do it. Cool.
* Hallelujah *
[Brittani] I might have to get my mom something, too.
She orders the same thing as me.
[scoffs] I figured that.
Yeah.
[Brittani] Honestly, I think I'm still frustrated about the dinner.
Um, sorry. Hair in my mouth.
I feel like TJ has the potential to be
the person that my mom wants him to be,
but she hasn't even given him a chance.
You're trying to be happy in your life,
and she gotta legit respect that.
You know what I'm saying?
I know. It just really saddens me that
she's not really, you know, supportive.
[TJ] I truly understand that.
I'm not, you know, I truly get it.
I feel like Mary just don't know
who I really am as a person.
I feel like I'm a very passionate, hard-working man.
And, I mean, I feel like she just don't see that
because she's too blind.
It just takes her a while to get used to people.
I mean, I've been with you for how long?
Two and a half years.
And she still got to get used to me.
Well, you know how she is.
I really want my mom to get along with TJ,
especially because we're engaged.
-Bye. -I love and appreciate you.
[Brittani] But there's no way I can tell her
because she doesn't really like him yet.
Mom!
And if she finds out before I get the chance to tell her,
that's my worst nightmare.
Because with my mom, she does have the weakest part of me.
She has the core of my heart, and if she crushes it,
then I feel like I have nothing.
Mom!
[Mary] Oh, hi!
I've been calling for you.
[Mary] Hi, I'm sorry. I was just hobby horsing.
-I have food for you. -Oh, thank you.
Okay. It's nicer in here.
Yeah, it is.
Oh, that was so much fun.
I wish you would have joined me.
So tell me, what did you guys do?
We just enjoyed each other's company.
Looks like you did a little bit more than
enjoy each other's company.
What happened to your hair?
Well, eat, and then I'll tell you.
Ride that cowboy, girl.
Yeehaw!
You are a headache.
Finish eating. I'll go get our baths ready.
[Mary] Love you.
We do our bath time every day.
We talk about our day, which I really love,
and just relax and enjoy one another.
Don't forget my little rubber duckies.
I like my rubber duckies. And the bath time.
Oh, honey. Finally showered up.
[Brittani] Oh, it feels so good.
So, did you get down and dirty?
Wow.
I guess his car is big enough for it.
-What's it, like 1970s? -Really, Mom?
It's old, though.
You're too pretty to be in that car.
I'm just saying.
-You're more, Brittani, a BMW, Maserati, -You know what's so funny?
you know, at least a new car.
Oh, my gosh.
That's not fair for me.
So one of Brittani's complaints
is that she thinks that I don't want to get to know him.
If you want to get to know somebody,
you have to hang out with them longer than just 45 minutes.
-Go by-- -I've been around.
But you, you barely talk to him either.
So, how do you build a relationship with somebody?
We've talked.
But there's a difference.
You are not trying to make an effort.
Because you're only talking to him
because he's my boyfriend.
I want you to talk to him
because you want to, because you actually like him.
Why? Why are you talking to him about it?
I'm supposedly your best friend.
Would you share that with me first?
Yes, but you can't be jealous over my boyfriend.
Okay.
This is exactly what I'm talking about.
You can't be always so hard-headed.
All right, well...
But I'm watching him very carefully
uh, through a magnifying glass.
Because if I find out that he's
doing something wrong, I'm...
-He says he wants-- -I'll rip his testicles off.
Oh, my gosh. I don't want to hear no more.
And you're my fun friend.
You're my only friend.
The friend of the friendless.
How you doing?
Like another hour.
At this point, in our relationship,
in my relationship with Lisa,
I think she feels threatened.
I think it's just jealousy
because everything always has to be her.
We got to go. We got to go. Get off the phone.
She's going to be so mad.
You get home when you get home.
[music playing]
[Trevor and India] Bingo.
-N-G-O, B-I. -Okay.
-Just like a grandma.
Spelling it out.
[India] Let's go.
[Trevor] I'm just going to do one sheet, please.
That's all you want?
That's all. I can't manage.
I'm winning bingo.
I can't manage. I'm not you.
I definitely look forward to bingo.
[India] Yes, definitely.
Bingo is definitely a bonding thing.
Miss Celeste.
-Miss you. -[Celestia] Oh!
[Trevor] You know, like, we've got friends there.
We crack jokes. We eat.
We get slipped some drinks from time to time,
you know what I'm saying?
Thank you much.
[Trevor] Really just about like...
-Spending time together, you know? -Yeah.
-Just enjoying each other's company -Exactly.
and like not having to worry
or stress or anything like that.
What...
Don't put it on my face. Don't put it on my face.
-Like, it's just a good time for a few hours. -It is.
Aw. You like spending time with me?
[Trevor] I do. I do. Of course I do.
Yo, look at this one, Ma.
Whoa.
[Trevor] If I don't win this next one, I'm hot.
[woman announcing over PA]
[woman speaking]
I told you, I told you somebody gonna say it.
Trevor and I have been close since he was young.
I seen Trevor grow from a boy
into this accomplished young man.
It's awesome.
I needed three numbers on two different boards,
two numbers on one.
Trevor does everything with me,
and he loves me as his mom.
I should have won on 22, that's my birthday.
I don't know what I had going on on that paper.
I know I was missing numbers.
Come on, let's go get some soda. Something to eat.
-Okay. Please. -Come on.
[Celestia] What do they say? "The apple don't fall far from the tree."
I'm friends with Miss India and Trevor,
but Miss India and her son are really close.
They come all the time.
I think India and Trevor are wearing
the matching outfits for good luck.
A lot of people have statues in front of them,
but maybe they think the t-shirts will work better.
Man, that's strange. [laughs]
[woman announcing over PA]
-Yeah. There you go. -Yeah.
Have a fry.
-Thank you. -Have a fry. Got it?
-Want some? -[chuckles]
-[Trevor] That's good. -This is good.
Mmm. Thank you.
[Quinnayah] That's messed up.
Yeah, it was pretty awkward
when they were feeding each other food.
That was kind of weird.
Better get it. Ooh, okay.
[both laughing]
-[Trevor] I mean... -Why do we feed each other?
I don't like... Is that weird, though? I don't know.
No, do we really do that?
I guess I've never paid attention to that.
Not really stopping to think about what you're doing,
you just kind of like react.
Exactly, yeah.
I don't know.
Bad, bad, bad.
-What? -What did we do?
Mama didn't teach you manners.
-What did I do? -What did we do?
What, Mama?
-[phone ringing] -Oh.
Oh, uh-oh.
Hey. How you doing?
[Trevor] Huh?
No, no. We're still playing. We're like halfway.
Yeah, we're halfway done.
[blows raspberry]
-Yeah. -You want some candy?
[laughs]
It hasn't been seven hours. You're being dramatic.
We've literally been here like an hour.
At this point, in our relationship
and my relationship with DeLeesa,
I think she feels threatened.
Um, because if she's getting to a point...
Yeah, if she's got this whole--
[India] I don't think that. I think it's just jealousy.
Because everything always has to be her.
If it's not her, that's it.
[Trevor] Like another hour, probably. Ten o'clock.
I just... Thank you, Ma.
Baby, can I...
We gotta go. Get off the phone.
Let me call you back right after this game.
Look, we gotta go.
She's gonna be so mad.
You get home when you get home.
[Quinnayah speaking]
He ain't packing up.
You're not making this situation any better.
How much trouble can you get into with your mama?
I don't want my relationship with my wife to suffer.
You know, I love my wife, you know?
Like, I don't want to lose her forever.
But, you know, I feel like...
I don't know. I feel like she's not...
She's not hearing me when it comes to this situation.
And I just don't know how...
I don't know how to approach it.
I don't know the best way to fix it.
Mom, you have to have some boundaries.
I have a right of my feeling, okay?
I'm not telling you to deny your feelings.
You just need to be respectful.
He is unsure.
I'm not convinced at all
that he is in love with her.
He literally has been blowing up my phone.
[Sunnie] How long have you guys been here?
[woman speaking]
[Sunnie] Oh, shoot.
Oh, my God. Here we go.
Arriving at the grand opening,
I'm feeling so much anxiety,
because my mom and Scott were just going at it
over the wedding stuff again, and I kept crying,
and it ended up being so late
to my own [bleep] grand opening.
Come on, let's go. We are late.
We are late. Just please.
We had a conversation in the car,
and I am a little bit, like, concerned.
Today, I'm not convinced at all
that he is in love with her.
-Hey. -[Sarah] Hey.
-Hi. -[Scott] How are you?
-[Sarah] I'm good. -This looks good.
-[Scott] Oh, I love the balloons. -Where have you guys been?
[Sunnie] Um, I need a second.
So, the energy was very stressful
when they showed up. It was, like, very tense.
My mom was being super weird.
My sister was being super weird.
Scott was being super weird, and he was never super weird.
So, I have no idea what's going on.
[indistinct conversation]
[Sarah] People are leaving because of all the chaos right now.
I mean, you should have been here like two hours ago.
Yeah, so, on the way over here,
Mom and Scott decided to freaking start going at it
-in the car over marriage. -About what?
[Sunnie] About marriage.
What the [bleep]
Mom set up a date for us,
as if we're getting married, for our wedding desserts.
What the [bleep]
My mom brings up marriage multiple times a day.
She very much meddles in Sunnie's life,
and even though she actually lives with me,
she has literally spent the night at Sunnie's apartment
every single day so she can spy on them
and see what they're doing and see what they're not doing.
-[Sunnie speaking] -Dude.
Mom pressuring him is making him go into a turtle shell.
[Sarah] Yeah, of course.
You don't even hit a year, like, for another few months.
She keeps...
Is it a bad time? Should I go back?
-No, Mom, it's fine. -No, it's fine.
-We're in? -It's fine.
[Sunnie] It's fine. Everything's fine.
Everything is fine.
I'm gonna go check on the guests.
-[Sarah] Okay. -Yeah, it looks like,
-really, everything is fine. -Yeah.
[Eva] Exactly.
I know my mom just wants the best for me,
and I love that about her,
but sometimes it's just, like, pick your moments.
You know, let's not do this before my grand opening party
or, you know, let's not try to make a surprise.
She always says, "I don't really talk to him about that.
You know, this is the first time I brought it up,"
and I'm like, "No, this is actually the 500th time
that you've brought it up."
But to be completely honest,
I really can't deal with this right now.
[woman speaking]
I was gonna get some shots ready.
-Yay! -[woman] Okay.
Because I have clients,
and I promised them treatments at this grand opening.
Oh, thanks, girl.
It's, uh, semaglutide. It's the weight loss shot.
-It's the thing that all the celebrities are on. -[woman] I know.
I'm just curious what held you guys up so long.
What was this conversation?
Like, I wanted...
Honestly, let me tell you this.
What were you telling him in the car?
-To ask her to marry him tomorrow? -I said...
No.
Why are you being like this?
I didn't ask him that.
I am not that type of person.
Let them be on their own timeframe.
There's the reason why I didn't introduce my husband
to my mom until I had a ring on my finger,
because I knew that she could possibly
influence decisions that I was gonna make.
We all like Scott.
The whole family likes Scott,
but her pushing the marriage agenda so hard
is not good for their relationship.
You set up a cake tasting for them to go try wedding cakes.
I wanted to see how he's gonna feel.
-I didn't come-- -Mom, they're not engaged.
Like, you can't do that.
[speaking foreign language]
The problem is Scott doesn't believe
there is no sex before marriage,
and I'm exactly the opposite.
My fear is Sunnie will be trade our religion,
our tradition, our custom.
If she disrespects herself and gives herself to a man,
it's like all of that is going to go down the drain,
and it's not okay with me.
I have a right of my feeling, okay?
I'm not telling you to deny your feelings.
You just need to be respectful.
He is unsure.
Mom, you have to have some boundaries.
-That's it. I'm done here. -Mmm-hmm.
[Eva] Okay? I'm done.
If you are really in love with this woman,
put a ring on her finger.
You don't have to marry her right now.
Just give her a title to be...
This woman is belong to this man.
I wish and I pray he will make up his mind
or just leave her alone, you know?
[woman] To Sunnie and to her new business.
[all] Cheers.
[woman] Thank you, Sunnie, for inviting us.
-[Scott] Yay! -[Sunnie] Thank you.
[Sunnie] Thank you guys so much for coming.
I'm trying really hard to act happy right now,
but honestly, I'm just dying inside.
I do not want my mom to be disappointed in me.
If things keep going on like they are now,
I'm definitely going to lose Scott.
And honestly, that might be as devastating
as disappointing my mom.
Be a flamingo.
The pageant is two weeks away, and I'm so stressed out.
We have so much to do. Look at him. Look at him go.
We're going together. We're in sync.
-[woman] Yes! That's you! -[girl speaking]
[woman] We're walking with the flamingo.
We're walking like the flamingos.
I kind of want to talk to you about my mom.
-Okay. -I feel like something's up with her,
and it's like bugging me.
-[man speaking] -Ask her what?
-There's a perfect opportunity. -I'm not gonna say, "Hey, Mom,
are you dying?"
Look at that little butt she has.
[TJ] It definitely is little.
What's this?
Next surgery I really want is the BBL,
the Brazilian butt lift.
[Mary] These are butt pads?
TJ is doing this. He's whispering in your ear,
He's not going to do that to my daughter
over my dead body.
Have you been, like, looking for places to move?
-I'm not answering nothing. -Why can't you answer me?
We cannot be in a room together
without her getting an attitude with me.
You just want to nag. Stop already.
-I'm not nagging. -Okay, nah, nah.
[India] Enough.