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Any resemblance
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is intentional

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LIFE AFTER DEATH

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You're not going to
take it off already?

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I mean, before it's all over.
- It is all over now.

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Can't it wait until
after the funeral?

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Oh no, they're back there.
The rings, still on her finger.

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I'm sure they remove them
for safe keeping.

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It must've happened before.
- What?

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That they...
someone's forgotten them.

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We didn't forget nothing.
You said we'd leave them.

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We couldn't take them off
when she was still alive.

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No, but they're there
and may be lost forever.

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What choice was there? To take them
from her when she was lying there?

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Like saying:
"From now on, you're alone."

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That's what you are.
- What?

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Alone.

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Yes, but no one should
be made even more alone.

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When the fingers get swollen, you
have to take the rings off by force.

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Tearing them off.
- I'm sure they have ways.

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Let's call them
and drive there tomorrow.

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Tomorrow?
- Yes, to the hospital.

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Back to Helsinki? -Yes.

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We can't just up and drive there.
We have a lot to do.

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The funeral parlor, the grave site.
And the van's damn dirty.

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It can't take all day.

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Not a moment's rest
until it's all over.

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Elsa. -My condolences.

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How did you get here?
- Oh Nisse, for your sake, of course.

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To be with my little brother
in grief.

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But how did you get here
from the station? -I walked.

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You could've called,
we would've picked you up.

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You're too busy.

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I'm used to managing on my own.

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How did she know?
- I called her from the hospital.

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When are you off to Sweden?

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In a couple of weeks. I have to
vacate my apartment before that.

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Someone's always been
looking after Nisse.

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First, it was our mother
and then yours.

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What's that? -A lamp.

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Where's the chandelier?
- Hasn't hung there for ages.

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Dad's chandelier has been there.
- Not since he died.

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And you've asked before,
hundreds of times.

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Are you insane? -Don't treat me
like one of your nutty patients.

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"Mentally ill" is the word.
I don't work there anymore.

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If I survived this year,
I'll survive this.

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Don't I know how to mourn?

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I took care of Dad when he was ill.
- Never said you didn't.

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It wasn't easy, I can tell you that.
- Please, not now.

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There you go.

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Now that your dad's alone, he thinks
he can behave any way he likes.

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Can't I have my feet on the table
in my own home? -Your home.

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Think of Stefan, if not me.

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You don't get it.
You've only taken care of yourself.

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Dad, please.
- Think of Stefan.

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He's so decent and still doesn't mind
my odd drinks. Aren't you having any?

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So, I'm not decent?
- I never said that!

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I do as I please
in my own home. -Stop yelling.

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This ain't Helsinki where everything
can be heard. I'd go crazy.

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Not everyone can choose
where they live.

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If I hadn't taken the house after
Dad, it would be in ruins by now.

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Never disputed that. -What would
you do if the boiler broke?

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I could call someone. -Right.

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Typical of you city folks to think
that you only need to call someone.

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Let me tell you, it doesn't work
that way. -When did you ever call?

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I came here on my own.
- Always worrying how I'll manage.

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Whatever I do,
it's never enough.

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I'm going back home,
if you keep yelling.

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What are you doing?
- Switch the light off!

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Nisse?

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Damn beast!

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I'm coming, I'm coming.

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Damn beast! -Oh, the squirrel.

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I'll have to get it before the
birds hatch. -Already breeding?

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Just a question of time.

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It is available in
spruce, aspen or birch.

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Pinewood. That'll be fine, thanks.

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Thank you. -Right.

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It is available with a finish.
White or black.

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Alright, yes, we'll take that.
- Which one?

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What which one?
- The finish, white or black?

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White. -White. Painted or coated?

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Yes, white or black cloth?

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We'll be done here
at noon on Saturday.

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You'll go through all the details
with the priest on his house call.

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House call?

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We only want a quick funeral, -

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no frills, as soon as possible.

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This isn't a long time.
In cities, you wait at least a month.

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Two weeks! How can it take so long
to put a person under ground?

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I just don't get it.
By then, the whole world will know.

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They'll know sooner or later.
- The later the better.

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I don't want a lot of strangers
there. Just you and me.

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Nisse! -And her, of course.

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Telephone!
- And Granny Brita.

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This is Nisse.

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Yes, the number's the same.
Haven't changed it, you never know.

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Yes, that's right.
Oh, so you've heard?

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Oh well, we'll see about the date.

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We'll be in touch then, I suppose.

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Yes, thank you. Bye!

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Damn bitch!
- Who was that?

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Some cousin of Leila's. I don't know.
- What did she say?

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Offered her condolences.

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Why are you mad at her?
- Not at her!

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At Brita! Your Granny!

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Damn, she's spreading
the news to everybody.

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How does she even know?
- From Granny, you said so.

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Right, but how does she know?

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Goddamnit, did you
talk to her, too, already?

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Ain't nothing going as planned here.

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If she didn't care
when Leila was ill, -

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she might as well stay away now.

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But she's her mother. -Right.

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With Leila gone,
good riddance to her.

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It's not true that she didn't care.

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Oh, she sure cared.

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"I beat cancer by positive thinking"
and "You are as well as you feel".

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This shit she brought here!
When Leila was dying!

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When did you say it was...?

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The viewing.
After the weekend, on Monday.

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We have to wait until Monday?
Tomorrow's a workday.

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That's the time they gave me.
- Change it.

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What? -Yes.

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For once, you'd make
a useful phone call.

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What did they say?
- Is it okay if I wear this?

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What? -To the funeral.

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What did they say?
- Yes, sure.

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What did they say?
- They'd check and call me later.

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Later when?
- Let's just wait.

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Wait? We've waited enough.

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You call them.

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Does it fit?

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If you're looking for the coffee,
it's in its usual place.

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Not for ages, it hasn't been.
- Yes, I see.

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I know I haven't been welcome here.

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But I thought it
might be different now.

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Bygones! It's in your head
that you weren't welcome.

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You didn't get along with Leila,
but that was your fault.

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She tried to be nice.
- Yes, yes she was nice.

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But I notice
when I'm not welcome.

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You're saying that only because
she made this into her and my home.

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I'm telling you, don't you go
changing nothing when I'm gone!

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Is someone going to answer?

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Don't answer it! -Stefan Nurmi.

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It is so annoying
with people intruding.

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And reminding
you of all that old stuff.

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That's why I
thought I'd change things.

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To help you forget the old stuff,
leave it behind and move on.

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It'll be tomorrow.

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The viewing, tomorrow.

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I have to admit
that I'm surprised in a good way.

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She's absolutely right.
- Granny Brita?

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No, Elsa! You have to leave
the old stuff to move on.

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00:21:08,351 --> 00:21:13,982
We need to get this over with
before she does more damage.

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Elsa? -No, Granny Brita!
Before she tells everybody.

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Yes, Saturday next week.

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What the hell is she doing here?
- Granny.

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At twelve o'clock.

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Here they come.

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It's Stefan and Nisse.
I'll put you on the list.

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Yes, I will. Welcome.

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Greetings from
Elsi and Bobi, they...

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Offer their condolences.

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What? A rose? -Yes.

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It's supposed to be a carnation.

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Is Nisse leaving a rose?
- No, I am.

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Is he going to sit there?
Isn't he coming in? -We'll see.

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And that one...

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That one you must place here, -

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where the evil was.

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I'm going in now, Granny.
- Yes, yes.

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Come on in.

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All set here?

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00:26:04,146 --> 00:26:06,649
So, what did she say?

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Your Granny, what did she say?
- Say and say. She was crying.

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She must've said something.

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She was wondering
why you didn't come in.

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Damn!

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Interfering with everything.
What's she got to do with it?

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What else did she say?
- Well, she cried.

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She said...

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That the last time she saw mother,
she wanted to hold her, comfort her -

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and say everything's alright.

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Yeah right, she didn't understand
it was serious, or didn't want to.

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I think she understood.

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But you could tell right off
how it would end.

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I couldn't.

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Hello! -Hello!

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Here. Some flowers.

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Thank you. -Bye!

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Listen, listen.

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can you hear it?

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Only a question of time,
like I said.

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So, how did it go?
- Bought a white rose.

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And Granny?
- She had a carnation.

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A carnation?

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Isn't that a little banal?
- Damn banal.

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That's what she wanted to have.

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It's been ringing off the hook,
but I didn't answer. -Why not?

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00:30:19,026 --> 00:30:22,738
It's none of my business.
- What's this?

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00:30:23,405 --> 00:30:26,784
Listen, that's something
I want to talk about.

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Leila's clothes. What have I told you
about going through my stuff?

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Nissenasse, -

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you do have to decide.
Do you want to keep them, -

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or move on?

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Are those for the funeral?

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00:31:12,955 --> 00:31:17,167
It needs to be pretty recent,
but these are school photos.

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00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,629
These are awfully lit.

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00:31:20,713 --> 00:31:24,592
Can't the lighting be softer?

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00:31:25,676 --> 00:31:30,639
You do understand they are
in a hurry? -You think this is good?

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00:31:32,433 --> 00:31:35,978
What? It's awful.

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00:31:43,652 --> 00:31:47,907
She's too young, but the light
is good. -Always, when I shoot.

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00:31:51,994 --> 00:31:56,832
Not in this one.
- It's just snapshot.

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00:31:56,916 --> 00:31:59,293
You're only a few hours old there.

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00:32:00,669 --> 00:32:05,174
Your mom didn't want her picture
taken. She was fussy about her hair.

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It had to look good.

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00:32:08,761 --> 00:32:10,429
Oh, well.

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00:32:13,891 --> 00:32:19,188
The light's always like this
in the spring. Fall is better.

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00:32:19,271 --> 00:32:25,694
The light is warmer and it doesn't
shine vertically like in the summer.

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00:32:26,654 --> 00:32:30,699
You can take good pictures
in the summer, using backlight.

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00:32:31,909 --> 00:32:37,498
They say a flash is good in
backlight. The faces won't be black.

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00:32:38,415 --> 00:32:43,796
You think? -They don't turn black
if you know what you're doing.

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00:32:44,088 --> 00:32:48,008
A flash is the last thing.
- Absolutely. Natural light, always.

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Nissenasse!
- Hold on, will you!

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There's a lot of photos when
she's young, but then it stops.

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The picture is not
only for the funeral.

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I want to remember
what she looked like.

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Are you coming?

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Damn... Stefan!

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00:34:45,751 --> 00:34:47,836
What's wrong with Nisse?

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00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:50,839
It's the priest. Want to say hello?

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00:34:50,923 --> 00:34:54,343
I'd never show myself like this!

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00:34:54,426 --> 00:34:59,264
Stefan, the priest!
- Isn't he a little early?

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Damn early!

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00:35:12,611 --> 00:35:15,614
Hello. Some more flowers.

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00:35:17,616 --> 00:35:19,660
See you. -Thank you.

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00:35:23,705 --> 00:35:28,210
You should've given them back.
- Who are Gunilla and Thorolf?

241
00:35:28,418 --> 00:35:31,338
What are we going to do with those?
Nilla and Rofa?

242
00:35:31,922 --> 00:35:36,301
Are they family?
- Colleagues from school, maybe?

243
00:35:36,385 --> 00:35:39,638
Don't know.
I don't know half of them.

244
00:35:40,514 --> 00:35:42,683
Just put them in water.

245
00:35:43,559 --> 00:35:45,394
Hello.

246
00:35:45,519 --> 00:35:48,021
Are you Nisse? -Yes.

247
00:35:52,442 --> 00:35:56,947
My condolences. -Oh.

248
00:35:59,241 --> 00:36:03,579
One reason for us meeting like
this before the funeral is -

249
00:36:03,662 --> 00:36:07,499
to hear how you'd like
to remember Leila.

250
00:36:09,209 --> 00:36:12,504
What would you like her
to be remembered for?

251
00:36:20,095 --> 00:36:25,267
She... she was a teacher.

252
00:36:26,602 --> 00:36:31,732
A very popular teacher, I'm sure.
- Yes.

253
00:36:32,191 --> 00:36:34,401
Very popular.

254
00:36:35,527 --> 00:36:39,323
She had a way of
drawing people to her.

255
00:36:39,865 --> 00:36:43,660
Until she became sick.
Then she didn't want people around.

256
00:36:46,663 --> 00:36:49,708
Not even her mother,
but she came anyway.

257
00:36:49,875 --> 00:36:54,129
But before,
when she still had some strength, -

258
00:36:54,213 --> 00:36:59,301
people brought her
presents and flowers.

259
00:36:59,384 --> 00:37:04,097
All the time. -Then I guess a lot
of people want to remember her.

260
00:37:05,057 --> 00:37:08,268
Is it going to be a big funeral?
- No, just us.

261
00:37:09,102 --> 00:37:10,854
And a few others.

262
00:37:12,814 --> 00:37:15,734
Next of kin.
- A small funeral, then.

263
00:37:15,817 --> 00:37:18,612
That's how she would've wanted it.

264
00:37:19,488 --> 00:37:26,119
Kind of a last wish.
- Right, a last wish.

265
00:37:31,166 --> 00:37:34,586
Do you think she knew
she wouldn't get better?

266
00:37:34,836 --> 00:37:36,672
Yes. -No.

267
00:37:37,506 --> 00:37:42,135
It was clear. But she didn't talk
about how it would go.

268
00:37:42,427 --> 00:37:46,473
If my end was near, I'd want
him to know about everything.

269
00:37:47,349 --> 00:37:51,812
You don't know how this house
works. What if the boiler fails?

270
00:37:52,354 --> 00:37:55,941
I guess I'll call...
- On Christmas Eve? Who?

271
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,778
What? Santa Claus?
- She might have known.

272
00:38:00,404 --> 00:38:06,368
People don't say much, even if they
fear the worst. Not to worry anyone.

273
00:38:13,583 --> 00:38:16,336
Maybe you were worried anyway?

274
00:38:17,921 --> 00:38:23,010
These aren't ours.
Somebody brought them.

275
00:38:24,845 --> 00:38:29,599
People do seek easy
answers to difficult problems.

276
00:38:37,441 --> 00:38:42,946
But you can't will cancer away.
Same goes for grief.

277
00:38:44,614 --> 00:38:51,872
Grief is like a huge load of sand,
it all has to go.

278
00:38:54,416 --> 00:39:00,005
And you can't use an excavator
and get rid of it all at once.

279
00:39:01,673 --> 00:39:06,636
This needs to go,
one shovel at a time, by hand.

280
00:39:14,102 --> 00:39:15,937
Bye.

281
00:39:19,274 --> 00:39:22,861
"One shovel at a time, by hand."

282
00:39:24,905 --> 00:39:29,910
Are we going to hear
this nonsense at the funeral, too?

283
00:39:38,168 --> 00:39:40,420
Hey!

284
00:39:44,716 --> 00:39:48,762
What's the sudden rush? Can't it wait
until after the funeral?

285
00:39:49,137 --> 00:39:53,475
A lot of talk
about how long it takes.

286
00:39:54,267 --> 00:39:59,940
He may say it takes a year.

287
00:40:00,690 --> 00:40:03,151
But I just had my year.

288
00:40:03,443 --> 00:40:07,572
Thank you very much,
but I'm done mourning!

289
00:40:11,701 --> 00:40:16,790
The last thing I need
is tears and condolences.

290
00:40:20,001 --> 00:40:22,003
Hello Granny.

291
00:40:23,088 --> 00:40:26,716
Well, keeping busy.

292
00:40:28,593 --> 00:40:32,431
Yes. No, it's alright.

293
00:40:38,603 --> 00:40:40,897
Oh, you think so? Well.

294
00:40:47,946 --> 00:40:53,827
She wanted to talk
about the funeral.

295
00:40:57,956 --> 00:41:00,834
I thought we'd serve sandwiches, -

296
00:41:01,793 --> 00:41:07,591
but she's decided on
a sandwich cake. -Sandwich cake?

297
00:41:07,674 --> 00:41:12,721
Leila couldn't stand it!
She'd never serve sandwich cake.

298
00:41:13,555 --> 00:41:18,935
Greasy and messy.
- Yes, a little banal, maybe.

299
00:41:19,603 --> 00:41:21,980
Goddamn banal!

300
00:41:22,647 --> 00:41:26,109
She chose sandwiches
for her fiftieth birthday.

301
00:41:26,568 --> 00:41:32,824
I told Granny that,
but she said they leave you hungry.

302
00:41:33,617 --> 00:41:38,038
She didn't suggest porridge, too,
to fill everybody's belly, then.

303
00:41:38,622 --> 00:41:44,544
Is that the point of a funeral?
To feed people?

304
00:41:45,504 --> 00:41:52,219
What else did she have to say?
- She's invited quite a few.

305
00:41:54,387 --> 00:41:59,809
A small funeral, I said!
- I guess it won't be that.

306
00:42:00,727 --> 00:42:04,898
20, 30 with all the colleagues.

307
00:42:06,066 --> 00:42:08,985
Way past 50 with family.

308
00:42:10,445 --> 00:42:14,658
And then there's Granny's list.
- List?

309
00:42:14,824 --> 00:42:18,286
It keeps getting longer.
- What list?

310
00:42:19,454 --> 00:42:24,292
Why is she inviting people?
It's none of her business!

311
00:42:25,710 --> 00:42:29,422
She'll have to call and cancel.
All of them. Cancel.

312
00:42:29,548 --> 00:42:32,425
Either she arranges this
or we do.

313
00:42:32,717 --> 00:42:37,013
If she invites a single person,
she can arrange the entire funeral, -

314
00:42:37,138 --> 00:42:41,184
porridge, sandwich cake, the works.
I'm not doing nothing.

315
00:42:45,689 --> 00:42:48,233
What? -Nothing.

316
00:42:49,484 --> 00:42:52,696
You weren't with her
all the time. I was.

317
00:43:04,541 --> 00:43:07,168
Nisse! -Do not invite them!

318
00:43:07,252 --> 00:43:10,380
Tell everyone
it's a private funeral.

319
00:43:11,715 --> 00:43:14,050
You be on my side, get it?

320
00:43:23,018 --> 00:43:24,811
Hello?

321
00:43:25,478 --> 00:43:29,608
Hi there. Thank you.

322
00:43:32,611 --> 00:43:35,280
Yes, right...

323
00:43:36,781 --> 00:43:44,414
I'm afraid I'm going
to ask you not to come.

324
00:43:50,879 --> 00:43:56,801
Her wish was
a strictly quiet funeral.

325
00:44:08,938 --> 00:44:15,862
You'll have to take your desk
somewhere else. No room here.

326
00:44:17,864 --> 00:44:21,409
Call the next one
and say the same thing.

327
00:44:25,121 --> 00:44:29,959
Don't give me that look.
Who sent those flowers?

328
00:44:31,044 --> 00:44:35,048
Nilla and Rofa.
- Right, start with them.

329
00:44:35,215 --> 00:44:39,010
What's their last name?
- I don't know.

330
00:44:39,344 --> 00:44:41,554
Then find out!

331
00:44:46,059 --> 00:44:50,146
I mean I don't know
if I can do that.

332
00:44:56,945 --> 00:45:02,367
Oh, but you can keep calling
Granny all the time.

333
00:45:03,952 --> 00:45:07,872
You're the one who started this.
Go on now!

334
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:11,710
Go! Go, go.

335
00:45:54,544 --> 00:45:59,048
You're not done yet.
Keep at it.

336
00:45:59,591 --> 00:46:01,926
I've tried to humor you.

337
00:46:03,553 --> 00:46:08,641
But forbidding people
to mourn Mom...

338
00:46:09,517 --> 00:46:11,561
I just can't do it.

339
00:46:13,938 --> 00:46:15,940
But you have to.

340
00:46:18,276 --> 00:46:20,069
Bye.

341
00:46:23,072 --> 00:46:26,201
Wait. Hey!

342
00:46:27,660 --> 00:46:30,288
Is this the way you want it?

343
00:47:09,661 --> 00:47:13,456
What are you doing?
- You scared me!

344
00:47:14,749 --> 00:47:17,710
What are you up to?
- You know, -

345
00:47:18,002 --> 00:47:24,050
I haven't slept here
since I was a child.

346
00:47:24,467 --> 00:47:26,219
Or, we were.

347
00:47:26,761 --> 00:47:31,558
You slept there and I...
- It's Stefan's room!

348
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:38,398
Yes, but he's not here.
- He's coming back.

349
00:47:39,065 --> 00:47:43,736
I wouldn't be so sure. -Of course
he is, at least for the funeral.

350
00:47:43,945 --> 00:47:46,155
That's not what he told me.

351
00:47:50,368 --> 00:47:54,998
He's young, they go back and forth.

352
00:48:08,720 --> 00:48:13,391
I'm here, I'll help you.

353
00:48:14,559 --> 00:48:17,604
Tell me what you want me to do.

354
00:48:22,233 --> 00:48:24,694
How about a cognac? -No.

355
00:48:31,451 --> 00:48:35,371
Would you like me
to call people and cancel?

356
00:48:36,039 --> 00:48:37,916
Do you want me to?

357
00:48:38,708 --> 00:48:40,543
I can call them.

358
00:48:44,547 --> 00:48:50,386
I don't know.
- Just tell me the names.

359
00:48:51,763 --> 00:48:58,227
I mean I don't know who they are,
I don't know them.

360
00:48:58,519 --> 00:49:00,438
But Stefan...

361
00:49:02,315 --> 00:49:05,443
...or Granny Brita would know.

362
00:49:08,738 --> 00:49:12,075
She's the one who invited them all.

363
00:51:29,504 --> 00:51:33,591
You deaf bastard, you're at home?

364
00:51:35,676 --> 00:51:38,971
You're not much
of a guard, are you?

365
00:51:39,514 --> 00:51:44,852
Oh, you old, deaf dog,
where are you going?

366
00:51:47,522 --> 00:51:51,984
What are you doing?
What's that in your hand?

367
00:51:52,693 --> 00:51:55,530
What on earth are you doing here?

368
00:51:56,948 --> 00:52:02,036
What are you doing inviting people
to the funeral without asking me?

369
00:52:03,913 --> 00:52:08,501
Asking you?
It's my daughter's funeral!

370
00:52:08,709 --> 00:52:14,799
Family, friends whom she's known
all of her life... -Don't you start.

371
00:52:14,882 --> 00:52:20,054
...with whom she spent time, but
you don't even know the names of.

372
00:52:20,805 --> 00:52:27,228
They mourn Leila and ask me
why you don't answer their calls.

373
00:52:27,895 --> 00:52:33,484
People she liked and who liked her.
They're in shock!

374
00:52:33,985 --> 00:52:36,529
Because she is no longer...

375
00:52:38,447 --> 00:52:40,449
You could've warned them.

376
00:52:41,534 --> 00:52:47,331
You saw it when you brought your
books like some traveling salesman.

377
00:52:47,832 --> 00:52:51,294
Instead of seeing her!
- What?

378
00:52:51,377 --> 00:52:58,509
You gave her hope when
there was none. None at all!

379
00:52:58,676 --> 00:53:04,265
And what did you do for her?
- I was there.

380
00:53:05,141 --> 00:53:08,978
I was there every day,
saw her getting worse, -

381
00:53:09,729 --> 00:53:16,235
heard her breathing
become heavier, saw her...

382
00:53:18,821 --> 00:53:23,242
Shrinking.
- You shrank her!

383
00:53:24,035 --> 00:53:26,537
You never said a kind word to her.

384
00:53:26,621 --> 00:53:31,417
Just sat there as if you were dead.

385
00:53:32,543 --> 00:53:36,422
At least I did something for her.

386
00:53:37,340 --> 00:53:39,133
You gave her false hope.

387
00:53:51,020 --> 00:53:52,939
I'm taking this.

388
00:54:26,389 --> 00:54:31,435
What are you doing?
- Jesus, are you trying to kill me?

389
00:54:31,519 --> 00:54:33,354
Turn it on.

390
00:55:28,326 --> 00:55:30,328
So, this is where you are?

391
00:55:31,662 --> 00:55:37,501
I'll get milk for the coffee.
- I take mine black.

392
00:55:51,724 --> 00:55:57,188
Remember when he bought it?
At an auction.

393
00:55:58,064 --> 00:56:00,358
Dad liked auctions.

394
00:56:01,192 --> 00:56:06,822
He was good at bargaining
and getting his way.

395
00:56:14,705 --> 00:56:18,626
You know, I've been thinking.

396
00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:25,091
Now that Stefan's off to Sweden...
- For a while. He'll come back.

397
00:56:25,174 --> 00:56:30,096
He's young,
he might have a change of heart.

398
00:56:31,389 --> 00:56:35,518
I could move in here.

399
00:56:35,768 --> 00:56:40,398
Until you're feeling better,
to begin with.

400
00:56:41,524 --> 00:56:44,819
You'd move in here? -Yes.

401
00:56:47,071 --> 00:56:52,201
What's so strange about that?
- Us living together?

402
00:56:52,451 --> 00:56:59,542
Here, yes. After all,
it is also my house.

403
00:57:00,209 --> 00:57:07,425
You got to live here
because you had a family.

404
00:57:07,925 --> 00:57:10,928
Now that you don't have any, so.
- But I do.

405
00:57:11,303 --> 00:57:15,099
Nissenasse.

406
00:57:15,558 --> 00:57:19,645
We said it's time to move on.

407
00:57:19,728 --> 00:57:23,190
But Stefan... -Him, too!

408
00:57:23,691 --> 00:57:26,694
If he ever comes
back from Sweden, -

409
00:57:26,819 --> 00:57:33,367
it's high time for him
to find something and move on.

410
00:57:38,456 --> 00:57:40,875
I guess the coffee's ready now.

411
00:57:58,976 --> 00:58:03,397
Nisse! What are you doing?

412
00:58:03,939 --> 00:58:07,985
It's my lamp, Leila's and mine.

413
00:58:08,068 --> 00:58:10,654
She chose it,
and it belongs down there.

414
00:58:11,572 --> 00:58:16,118
Nissenasse...
- Don't you Nissenasse me!

415
00:58:16,327 --> 00:58:20,247
I'll put all of it aside
when I feel like it.

416
00:58:20,331 --> 00:58:23,125
We said you're done mourning.

417
00:58:23,375 --> 00:58:26,754
"We"? We haven't
said anything of the sort.

418
00:58:27,796 --> 00:58:30,966
You moving in here.
What would become of that?

419
00:58:31,091 --> 00:58:34,720
We'd be at it like this all day,
I'd go crazy.

420
00:58:35,804 --> 00:58:39,725
Nisse, you're yelling again.

421
00:58:39,808 --> 00:58:42,353
I'm not your patient, I told you!

422
00:58:42,436 --> 00:58:47,733
If you keep doing this...
- You'll leave. Yes, I heard it.

423
00:58:49,944 --> 00:58:55,449
You can call them
and cancel yourself.

424
00:59:31,151 --> 00:59:34,405
Hi, this is Nisse.
<i>- Hi, Nisse.</i>

425
00:59:34,780 --> 00:59:38,367
Leila's Nisse, Finland,
calling about Leila's funeral.

426
00:59:38,492 --> 00:59:42,121
<i>Brita's call brought
the grief to us, too.</i>

427
00:59:42,329 --> 00:59:45,416
Thank you. Right,
Brita told you. Thought so.

428
00:59:45,749 --> 00:59:51,714
But she didn't tell you
that Leila's last wish -

429
00:59:51,797 --> 00:59:58,887
was a quiet funeral.

430
01:00:00,764 --> 01:00:03,058
Family only.

431
01:00:03,851 --> 01:00:06,020
Immediate family.

432
01:00:06,228 --> 01:00:08,606
<i>We weren't planning on coming.</i>

433
01:00:09,189 --> 01:00:12,151
Oh, so you weren't?

434
01:00:14,486 --> 01:00:18,365
Right, it's a long way, too.
Thanks anyway, bye.

435
01:00:25,164 --> 01:00:31,253
Hi, this is Nisse.
About Leila's funeral...

436
01:00:31,420 --> 01:00:35,132
<i>What? Has Leila died?</i>

437
01:00:36,759 --> 01:00:38,761
Yes, yes.

438
01:00:43,307 --> 01:00:45,976
Hello, I'm calling about
the funeral on Saturday.

439
01:00:46,060 --> 01:00:49,396
<i>We only know about it
because Brita called.</i>

440
01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:52,775
I'm afraid I'm going to ask you
not to attend.

441
01:00:52,858 --> 01:00:56,320
<i>Not attend Leila's funeral?</i>
- Yes, it was Leila's wish.

442
01:00:56,403 --> 01:01:00,324
<i>That I wouldn't attend?</i>
- No, not you precisely.

443
01:01:00,407 --> 01:01:04,953
No, it's not about you.

444
01:01:05,037 --> 01:01:07,456
My dear friend,
I didn't mean it like that...

445
01:01:30,270 --> 01:01:34,817
Elsa, come on, don't be like that.

446
01:01:35,526 --> 01:01:39,321
Elsa! What's wrong with you?

447
01:01:40,197 --> 01:01:44,201
Goddamn it, Elsa!
Have you lost it completely now?

448
01:01:45,119 --> 01:01:49,623
Elsa, get in the van,
so we can talk.

449
01:02:01,844 --> 01:02:04,596
Get in the van,
so we can talk.

450
01:02:05,013 --> 01:02:09,101
Where are you going?
I can give you a ride.

451
01:02:09,935 --> 01:02:14,773
I'll take that in the van, you don't
have to carry it. Give it to me!

452
01:02:17,484 --> 01:02:21,405
What're you doing with this?
- You've taken enough from me!

453
01:02:22,114 --> 01:02:26,869
My home, my memories,
but this one, you're not taking!

454
01:02:27,578 --> 01:02:32,624
Elsa... -Everything I've tried
to do for you... Now it's over.

455
01:02:33,083 --> 01:02:38,839
You'll stand there, the only one in
the family, without me and Stefan.

456
01:02:43,135 --> 01:02:45,345
You can fix your funeral yourself.

457
01:02:46,054 --> 01:02:48,515
And don't come to mine!

458
01:06:45,002 --> 01:06:47,295
Start from there.

459
01:06:53,093 --> 01:06:55,512
Is that your phone, Stefan?

460
01:07:42,934 --> 01:07:45,270
Oh, so here you are?

461
01:07:48,648 --> 01:07:50,692
You're not paying
for this, are you?

462
01:07:56,073 --> 01:08:00,118
Are your pals coming?

463
01:08:01,453 --> 01:08:03,163
Or something?

464
01:08:08,919 --> 01:08:15,509
I've cleared some space at home.
In case you want to take that back.

465
01:08:16,593 --> 01:08:20,555
Oh, it's this damn big?
- There's room for it here.

466
01:08:23,934 --> 01:08:28,438
Did you have help carrying it here?
- Was no problem.

467
01:08:29,606 --> 01:08:34,611
I can stay at their place.
I won't come home before Sweden.

468
01:08:35,737 --> 01:08:39,449
Of course you're coming home.

469
01:08:40,575 --> 01:08:43,078
You don't want me there.

470
01:08:43,703 --> 01:08:46,998
You won't let me
or anyone mourn.

471
01:08:51,002 --> 01:08:55,006
Because you're done mourning,
I get it now.

472
01:08:55,465 --> 01:09:00,554
You didn't become a widower when
Mom died and you took off the ring.

473
01:09:02,347 --> 01:09:06,434
Right from the start,
when we heard about the cancer, -

474
01:09:07,394 --> 01:09:09,604
you isolated yourself.

475
01:09:11,439 --> 01:09:15,360
You decided she was going to die.

476
01:09:16,403 --> 01:09:18,280
And you left her alone.

477
01:09:21,950 --> 01:09:25,704
But I was there every day.
- Not emotionally.

478
01:09:35,213 --> 01:09:37,507
Because I was afraid.

479
01:09:39,551 --> 01:09:42,721
Afraid of being left alone.

480
01:09:43,430 --> 01:09:46,266
You all said she'd recover, but...

481
01:09:48,435 --> 01:09:50,645
I was there every day.

482
01:09:53,440 --> 01:09:56,776
Afraid of losing her
and being alone.

483
01:09:59,154 --> 01:10:02,157
Am I going to lose you, too?

484
01:10:05,785 --> 01:10:10,332
I'll be coming home.
I'm not going to stay in Sweden.

485
01:10:12,667 --> 01:10:15,045
And before the funeral?

486
01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:23,678
Do you want me to?

487
01:10:46,368 --> 01:10:48,078
When did you get these?

488
01:10:48,745 --> 01:10:51,039
At the viewing.

489
01:11:38,461 --> 01:11:40,422
Isn't Elsa here?

490
01:11:41,631 --> 01:11:45,260
She went back home.

491
01:12:33,099 --> 01:12:35,352
I guess we'll manage...

492
01:12:36,311 --> 01:12:40,607
If we run out of these, we'll serve
Granny's sandwich cake. -Yes.

493
01:12:40,690 --> 01:12:43,735
I bet she'll bring one.
- Two!

494
01:12:44,944 --> 01:12:48,656
And if that's not enough,
we'll serve... -Porridge!

495
01:12:55,747 --> 01:12:59,167
She loved lilly-of-the-valley.
- Mom?

496
01:13:02,504 --> 01:13:07,050
I should've told that to the priest
when he asked about her.

497
01:13:10,929 --> 01:13:13,264
Didn't come to think of it then.

498
01:13:40,125 --> 01:13:42,168
This is how it should be.

499
01:13:45,213 --> 01:13:48,550
Should've been
from the first night.

500
01:13:54,556 --> 01:14:00,061
Okay, right. Yes.
Yeah, bye.

501
01:14:13,533 --> 01:14:17,245
Well? -It was Elsa.
She's coming anyway.

502
01:14:18,163 --> 01:14:23,376
We'll have to pick her up
at the station. -No...

503
01:14:23,585 --> 01:14:27,255
She said can't walk in that dress.

504
01:14:27,338 --> 01:14:30,884
How the hell are we
going to make it in time?

505
01:14:38,558 --> 01:14:41,227
Out, out, out.

506
01:14:41,728 --> 01:14:46,107
If I'm going to make it through
the day, you'll do the driving.

507
01:15:08,796 --> 01:15:13,176
You sure?
- Don't make a fuss, just drive!