1 00:00:06,965 --> 00:00:08,008 After the breakup, 2 00:00:08,091 --> 00:00:09,426 I was sitting in my room, 3 00:00:09,509 --> 00:00:13,763 scrolling through TikTok and I saw the weight loss Barbie. 4 00:00:13,847 --> 00:00:17,058 She had the bariatric surgery in Mexico 5 00:00:17,142 --> 00:00:19,978 and I decided that this would be a great opportunity for me. 6 00:00:21,187 --> 00:00:24,941 I think she's being a little too trusting about the surgery 7 00:00:25,025 --> 00:00:26,067 in Mexico. 8 00:00:26,151 --> 00:00:29,529 It's really highly risky. 9 00:00:45,420 --> 00:00:48,465 I am Dominican Republic. 10 00:00:50,383 --> 00:00:55,555 I met this man named Mmesoma and he lives in Nigeria. 11 00:00:56,139 --> 00:00:58,350 Does Mmesoma know about your surgery? 12 00:00:58,433 --> 00:00:59,559 Well I don't want him to see me 13 00:00:59,642 --> 00:01:02,103 as someone who doesn't feel comfortable with themselves. 14 00:01:02,812 --> 00:01:04,439 I really don't know what he's gonna say. 15 00:01:21,456 --> 00:01:23,541 I love my husband 16 00:01:23,625 --> 00:01:27,962 but I don't know how to fix our relationship. 17 00:01:45,146 --> 00:01:48,233 OK, you guys, so it's almost time. 18 00:01:48,316 --> 00:01:49,651 How do you feel? 19 00:01:50,276 --> 00:01:52,112 I actually feel pretty calm. 20 00:01:53,655 --> 00:01:56,825 I have no energy, I tried to wake up an hour ago and... 21 00:01:58,284 --> 00:01:59,536 ..straight back to sleep. Wow. 22 00:02:00,286 --> 00:02:02,038 So, look. 23 00:02:02,122 --> 00:02:03,748 Kayla, she gave me a gift. 24 00:02:04,916 --> 00:02:07,168 Oh my goodness. How cute is that. 25 00:02:07,252 --> 00:02:08,712 That is so cute. 26 00:02:08,795 --> 00:02:11,256 Yeah, this makes me feel more comfortable. 27 00:02:11,339 --> 00:02:14,884 It's like a little gastric sleeve. 28 00:02:14,968 --> 00:02:17,178 It is, this is what my stomach is going to look like. 29 00:02:17,971 --> 00:02:19,014 Wow. 30 00:02:19,097 --> 00:02:20,640 Look how happy. Yeah. 31 00:02:20,724 --> 00:02:23,143 Today I'm getting the gastric sleeve. 32 00:02:23,226 --> 00:02:25,603 And with surgery, there is a possibility, 33 00:02:25,687 --> 00:02:28,148 that you know, you can have complications 34 00:02:28,231 --> 00:02:29,733 and things could go wrong. 35 00:02:29,816 --> 00:02:33,695 But I'm trying to just keep my storm quiet, you know. 36 00:02:33,778 --> 00:02:36,364 I cannot believe that I'm really doing this. 37 00:02:36,448 --> 00:02:38,742 This is the first day of the rest of my life. 38 00:02:40,243 --> 00:02:42,370 Hi Kayla. How you feeling? Good morning. 39 00:02:42,454 --> 00:02:44,247 (OVERLAPPING SPEECH) 40 00:02:44,330 --> 00:02:47,000 Oh my gosh, I love your earring. 41 00:02:47,083 --> 00:02:49,252 Thank you, hi guys, are you excited? Oh, and your shades! 42 00:02:49,336 --> 00:02:50,837 Yeah, we're excited. 43 00:02:50,920 --> 00:02:52,964 Oh my gosh, they're beautiful. You want them? 44 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:57,260 Oh my gosh, that's so sweet. 45 00:02:57,344 --> 00:02:58,803 Thank you. Oh, you're welcome. 46 00:03:00,764 --> 00:03:01,890 Thank you. 47 00:03:03,266 --> 00:03:04,351 Thank you. 48 00:03:16,404 --> 00:03:20,325 I feel like each step closer to like actually having the surgery, 49 00:03:20,408 --> 00:03:22,327 I start feeling the anxiety coming. 50 00:03:22,410 --> 00:03:24,621 Like, just getting on the van was like, "Oh!" 51 00:03:27,665 --> 00:03:29,668 I just can't believe I'm doing this. 52 00:03:30,210 --> 00:03:32,003 It's getting so real. 53 00:03:42,138 --> 00:03:44,224 (ROCK MUSIC) 54 00:04:33,481 --> 00:04:34,607 Go. 55 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:36,443 Go. (ALARM) 56 00:04:36,526 --> 00:04:37,569 Oh stop. 57 00:04:41,406 --> 00:04:43,742 Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no. 58 00:04:50,582 --> 00:04:51,708 Woah, woah. 59 00:05:01,551 --> 00:05:04,179 OK, baby, looking good now. 60 00:05:28,244 --> 00:05:30,246 Let's go baby. 61 00:05:30,330 --> 00:05:32,040 Looking clean. 62 00:05:32,123 --> 00:05:34,000 Ow. 63 00:10:30,213 --> 00:10:33,049 Right now, I've got a lot of stress in my life, my family, 64 00:10:33,133 --> 00:10:34,634 my relationship with Chantel. 65 00:10:34,718 --> 00:10:37,637 But I keep that by myself, that's it. 66 00:10:50,859 --> 00:10:53,153 You're gonna be having the best sleep of your life soon. 67 00:10:53,987 --> 00:10:56,489 True that. OK. 68 00:10:58,533 --> 00:11:00,410 This is how you treat your patients? 69 00:11:00,493 --> 00:11:03,580 I'm just used to my patients being comfortable in the bed. 70 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:06,291 Wait a minute, wait a minute. 71 00:11:06,374 --> 00:11:08,501 We don't need you falling out. 72 00:11:11,296 --> 00:11:12,964 Hospital protocol. 73 00:11:13,048 --> 00:11:14,090 OK. 74 00:11:15,759 --> 00:11:17,635 Do you have butterflies? 75 00:11:18,219 --> 00:11:20,764 Yeah this is freaky. 76 00:11:21,389 --> 00:11:23,391 Well, you're doing it. 77 00:11:25,560 --> 00:11:27,354 When Winter asked me 78 00:11:27,437 --> 00:11:30,315 if this how I take care of all of my patients, 79 00:11:30,398 --> 00:11:31,858 I'm thinking to myself, 80 00:11:31,941 --> 00:11:35,403 I take care of my patients with all love and respect. 81 00:11:35,487 --> 00:11:36,988 But you're my sister, 82 00:11:37,072 --> 00:11:40,867 I'm taking such good care of you, baby girl. 83 00:11:49,876 --> 00:11:52,128 No, I just don't like needles. 84 00:11:52,212 --> 00:11:53,463 Oh my gosh. 85 00:11:54,464 --> 00:11:56,299 Winter, look over here. 86 00:11:56,383 --> 00:11:58,551 Winter look at me, are you OK? 87 00:11:58,635 --> 00:11:59,928 No, I'm not OK. 88 00:12:00,428 --> 00:12:01,971 Come here. Stay calm. 89 00:12:02,055 --> 00:12:03,431 Look this way. I think I'm gonna cry. 90 00:12:03,515 --> 00:12:04,974 Here. Wait, wait, wait. 91 00:12:05,058 --> 00:12:06,685 Wait, wait, wait, please, give me a moment. 92 00:12:06,768 --> 00:12:08,978 OK Winter guess what... Give me a moment, wait, wait, wait. 93 00:12:09,062 --> 00:12:10,188 Give him your arm. Wait. 94 00:12:10,271 --> 00:12:11,523 It's OK. 95 00:12:11,606 --> 00:12:13,316 She's scared. I hate needles. 96 00:12:17,153 --> 00:12:18,196 Be brave. 97 00:12:19,447 --> 00:12:20,657 Like a cheerleader. Don't look. 98 00:12:20,740 --> 00:12:22,951 OK. Five six seven eight. 99 00:12:24,828 --> 00:12:28,039 I never realised that Winter was like that 100 00:12:28,123 --> 00:12:30,875 I mean when she was little she got her shots, 101 00:12:30,959 --> 00:12:32,460 and she just sucked it up. 102 00:12:32,544 --> 00:12:34,796 And she pierced her own nose. Own nose. 103 00:12:34,879 --> 00:12:38,717 So to see her act like that to an IV was surprising. 104 00:12:39,384 --> 00:12:41,094 Hey. 105 00:12:44,139 --> 00:12:45,306 OK. 106 00:13:06,036 --> 00:13:08,788 This is it, there's no turning back now. 107 00:13:08,872 --> 00:13:14,294 Winter has imagined this moment since she was a little girl. 108 00:13:14,377 --> 00:13:15,879 And I'm just really happy 109 00:13:15,962 --> 00:13:20,258 that she's able now to get the surgery 110 00:13:20,342 --> 00:13:23,553 that would give her the results that she's been wanting for so long. 111 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:29,517 I am so grateful that the surgeon allowed us to come back there 112 00:13:29,601 --> 00:13:31,394 and to hold Winter's hand. 113 00:13:31,478 --> 00:13:33,188 It's gonna be OK Winter. 114 00:13:33,271 --> 00:13:34,356 It is. 115 00:13:34,439 --> 00:13:37,192 This is your new beginning. It's your new beginning. 116 00:13:37,275 --> 00:13:40,904 You're gonna wake up to a new life. Like a queen butterfly. 117 00:13:40,987 --> 00:13:42,030 Yes. 118 00:13:46,701 --> 00:13:47,952 Goodnight Winter. 119 00:13:48,036 --> 00:13:49,454 See you when you wake up. 120 00:13:50,497 --> 00:13:54,334 It's daunting and scary for me to see Winter drifting off 121 00:13:54,417 --> 00:13:55,669 under anaesthesia, 122 00:13:55,752 --> 00:13:59,839 but I cannot cry, I have to be strong for Winter. 123 00:13:59,923 --> 00:14:01,341 And for Chantel. 124 00:14:04,594 --> 00:14:04,855 2 00:14:12.440 -- 00:14:13.440 align:middle line:90% position:50% Pedro? 125 00:14:51,474 --> 00:14:53,685 What's going on man? 126 00:14:53,768 --> 00:14:55,812 Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. 127 00:14:55,895 --> 00:14:57,897 Hold on man what's he doing it here man? 128 00:14:57,981 --> 00:14:59,524 Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. 129 00:14:59,607 --> 00:15:01,359 What you got a beer out man, what's up? 130 00:15:01,443 --> 00:15:02,777 Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. 131 00:15:20,754 --> 00:15:22,630 Hey man, it's all love man. 132 00:15:32,557 --> 00:15:34,225 Oh, Chantel doesn't think you're a handyman? 133 00:15:35,268 --> 00:15:36,311 What? 134 00:15:37,729 --> 00:15:39,814 Well let's do it, we got to do it man. 135 00:15:41,775 --> 00:15:44,402 Pedro and I, you know we got a stronger friendship 136 00:15:44,486 --> 00:15:49,115 than he has with you know, Winter, or my older brother or my parents. 137 00:15:49,199 --> 00:15:50,325 So it is kind of a shock, 138 00:15:50,408 --> 00:15:52,035 I never thought it would have been like this. 139 00:15:52,994 --> 00:15:54,579 I got it man. 140 00:15:56,498 --> 00:15:58,875 That's my guy though, I will say that man, 141 00:15:58,958 --> 00:16:01,378 Pedro and I we came a long way, that's my guy. 142 00:16:01,461 --> 00:16:05,507 We good like man, we like, brothers from another mother. 143 00:16:06,549 --> 00:16:07,967 That's my dog man. 144 00:16:08,051 --> 00:16:12,013 You heard Winter's getting, she's getting surgery. 145 00:16:13,556 --> 00:16:14,766 Yeah. 146 00:16:21,606 --> 00:16:23,233 She was explaining it to me like, 147 00:16:23,316 --> 00:16:26,111 her body doesn't process fat normally. 148 00:16:27,278 --> 00:16:31,032 She tried keto, she tried the diets and you know, 149 00:16:31,116 --> 00:16:32,742 she tried going to the gym, 150 00:16:32,826 --> 00:16:36,121 but she just wasn't dropping weight as much. 151 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:46,923 Yeah. 152 00:16:48,341 --> 00:16:49,843 You were 250? 153 00:16:54,556 --> 00:16:56,224 Yeah man, you was a little bigger. 154 00:17:03,898 --> 00:17:04,941 Damn. 155 00:17:08,820 --> 00:17:10,196 I was telling Winter, I was like, 156 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:11,865 "Winter, you're beautiful as you are, 157 00:17:11,948 --> 00:17:14,492 "and whatever makes you happy makes me happy," 158 00:17:14,576 --> 00:17:17,370 but this is like a life decision, you know what I'm saying? 159 00:17:17,454 --> 00:17:19,164 It's a big decision to make, you know. 160 00:17:19,247 --> 00:17:21,666 Like, I don't know man, it's... 161 00:17:21,750 --> 00:17:25,587 You know, the whole thing with Jah, and now she wants to do the surgery. 162 00:17:25,670 --> 00:17:27,255 I don't feel like... 163 00:17:30,300 --> 00:17:32,844 I don't know, I don't know man. 164 00:17:32,927 --> 00:17:34,095 I don't know what it is. 165 00:17:35,889 --> 00:17:37,599 At the end of the day, you know, 166 00:17:37,682 --> 00:17:39,225 I want Winter to chase happiness, 167 00:17:39,309 --> 00:17:41,603 because if it's gonna make you happy, I'm happy. 168 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:44,022 But this is a scary surgery. 169 00:17:44,105 --> 00:17:47,609 And I'm not gonna act like there aren't any medical concerns. 170 00:17:47,692 --> 00:17:50,653 I wanna support Winter the best way I can. 171 00:17:51,321 --> 00:17:54,449 But if I could convince her not to do it... 172 00:17:54,532 --> 00:17:56,284 I wish I could find the words for that. 173 00:18:00,163 --> 00:18:01,873 Did I call them? 174 00:18:02,665 --> 00:18:06,002 Man it's like, for real, for real, I'm gonna tell you like it is bro. 175 00:18:07,170 --> 00:18:08,421 I'm scared. 176 00:18:09,381 --> 00:18:11,549 I don't want my sister to die in Mexico, man. 177 00:18:22,811 --> 00:18:24,688 (LAUGHING) 178 00:18:28,817 --> 00:18:29,901 Man I haven't talked to her 179 00:18:29,984 --> 00:18:32,070 since the night she broke up with me man. 180 00:18:34,906 --> 00:18:36,157 Do I feel good after it? 181 00:18:36,241 --> 00:18:39,119 I mean it's never, listen, it's never a good feeling 182 00:18:39,202 --> 00:18:41,788 when you know, somebody breaks up with you. 183 00:18:41,871 --> 00:18:43,206 I'm just trying to move forward, 184 00:18:43,289 --> 00:18:44,916 and that's all I'm doing, looking forward. 185 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:46,084 That's why I got to move out. 186 00:18:47,293 --> 00:18:50,130 I feel like I want to grow as a person, 187 00:18:50,213 --> 00:18:52,716 and I feel like that's a, this is a step I need. 188 00:19:06,521 --> 00:19:08,440 I feel like I need to be by myself. 189 00:19:08,523 --> 00:19:11,818 I wanna be able to wake up and do what the (BLEEP) River wanna do. 190 00:19:11,901 --> 00:19:13,361 I don't wanna wake up 191 00:19:13,445 --> 00:19:15,947 and not be able to walk around naked no more. 192 00:19:16,031 --> 00:19:17,073 That's just me. 193 00:19:17,574 --> 00:19:20,035 You want freedom, you got to move in that direction, 194 00:19:20,118 --> 00:19:21,786 and I feel like moving out is a good direction 195 00:19:21,870 --> 00:19:23,288 that I need to be moving in. 196 00:19:27,167 --> 00:19:29,252 I really don't know how they're gonna feel. 197 00:19:29,961 --> 00:19:31,004 Especially my mum, 198 00:19:31,087 --> 00:19:33,006 I really don't know how they're gonna feel about me, 199 00:19:33,089 --> 00:19:34,257 you know, wanting to move out. 200 00:19:35,133 --> 00:19:36,176 What's that? 201 00:19:37,177 --> 00:19:38,678 Practice, how I'm gonna say it? No. 202 00:19:40,722 --> 00:19:42,223 If you gonna be my ma I need another, 203 00:19:42,307 --> 00:19:44,559 I need another drink, I'm gonna drink this a little more. 204 00:19:47,854 --> 00:19:49,272 Mum, I'm thinking about moving out. 205 00:19:55,779 --> 00:19:57,280 Mama listen. 206 00:19:57,364 --> 00:19:59,824 I love you, I love all of you, 207 00:19:59,908 --> 00:20:02,118 but I'm gonna love y'all from a distance right now. 208 00:20:19,552 --> 00:20:21,638 It's time for me to be my own man. 209 00:20:25,684 --> 00:20:26,976 A hundred percent ready man. 210 00:20:27,936 --> 00:20:30,313 Now listen I'm gonna need you to look at this thing man. 211 00:20:34,818 --> 00:20:36,069 Pedro, I don't know man. 212 00:20:36,152 --> 00:20:37,821 You don't like looking at the instructions 213 00:20:37,904 --> 00:20:40,657 but I'm trying to tell you, you have to read the instructions. 214 00:20:42,242 --> 00:20:44,077 No these, no, no, no, no, no, no. 215 00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:45,787 Both of these are the same way. 216 00:20:45,870 --> 00:20:47,205 So it got to sit like this. 217 00:21:02,804 --> 00:21:04,305 And this how we do it man. 218 00:21:06,850 --> 00:21:09,269 Exactly, we are good with our hands. 219 00:21:11,062 --> 00:21:13,398 Aye! 220 00:21:13,481 --> 00:21:15,525 We need another beer though man. 221 00:21:18,903 --> 00:21:20,113 Let's get some beer, man. 222 00:21:35,128 --> 00:21:37,172 How many minutes have we been waiting? 223 00:21:37,255 --> 00:21:38,298 Five. 224 00:21:48,683 --> 00:21:50,977 The way laparoscopic surgery works is, 225 00:21:51,061 --> 00:21:55,690 they usually have just a few holes in the area that they wanna go. 226 00:21:55,774 --> 00:21:59,069 And they use like, robotic instruments 227 00:21:59,152 --> 00:22:01,112 to perform the procedure. 228 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:09,245 Winter's having a gastric sleeve, 229 00:22:09,329 --> 00:22:12,457 so that means that they're taking out 230 00:22:12,540 --> 00:22:15,377 75 percent or more of her stomach, 231 00:22:15,460 --> 00:22:18,338 and they're leaving her stomach like a sleeve 232 00:22:18,421 --> 00:22:20,674 and it's like, like a tube. 233 00:22:20,757 --> 00:22:22,384 And it leads right into the intestines. 234 00:22:24,427 --> 00:22:25,845 I'm so worried. 235 00:22:30,100 --> 00:22:34,813 Whenever you have surgery that's going into the abdominal cavity, 236 00:22:34,896 --> 00:22:39,567 you have risk for bowel obstruction, 237 00:22:39,651 --> 00:22:42,821 bruising of your bowel, and infection. 238 00:22:43,488 --> 00:22:47,158 I mean all of these things are going in my mind right now. 239 00:22:47,242 --> 00:22:52,288 And it's scary because this is my little sister. 240 00:23:04,718 --> 00:23:04,978 2 00:27:18.960 -- 00:27:19.960 align:middle line:90% position:50% That's it. 241 00:28:31,586 --> 00:28:36,257 I'm so relieved knowing that Winter has come through it 242 00:28:36,341 --> 00:28:38,176 with flying colours. 243 00:28:38,259 --> 00:28:42,639 I've just, it has lifted a huge huge weight 244 00:28:42,722 --> 00:28:44,432 off of, off of my heart. 245 00:28:48,812 --> 00:28:51,147 Ow, too much pain. 246 00:28:51,231 --> 00:28:52,399 It hurts. 247 00:28:56,861 --> 00:29:00,073 Winter. Hi Winter. 248 00:29:04,577 --> 00:29:06,871 Am I crying? I want flowers. 249 00:29:06,955 --> 00:29:08,331 Winter. 250 00:29:08,415 --> 00:29:09,457 They said you did great. 251 00:29:11,126 --> 00:29:13,211 How do you feel? Hot. 252 00:29:13,294 --> 00:29:14,337 Hot? 253 00:29:17,590 --> 00:29:18,633 There you go. 254 00:29:20,260 --> 00:29:22,053 While Winter was in surgery 255 00:29:22,137 --> 00:29:25,265 we were sitting outside of the operation room, 256 00:29:25,348 --> 00:29:31,980 just thinking about how she's gonna handle it when she wakes up. 257 00:29:32,063 --> 00:29:34,482 How is her recovery gonna be? 258 00:29:35,066 --> 00:29:37,110 Is she going to be in pain? 259 00:29:37,986 --> 00:29:39,070 That feels good, huh? 260 00:29:39,946 --> 00:29:41,614 But is there A/C? 261 00:29:42,866 --> 00:29:44,200 Yes. 262 00:29:44,284 --> 00:29:49,247 The fact that she's waking up, and talking to us, is a good sign. 263 00:29:50,665 --> 00:29:52,125 Do you wanna call Daddy? 264 00:29:52,208 --> 00:29:53,752 I love Daddy. 265 00:29:53,835 --> 00:29:55,545 Let me call Daddy right now. 266 00:30:11,227 --> 00:30:13,563 I see you all but poor connection. 267 00:30:13,646 --> 00:30:16,649 Yes poor connection. Can you hear me? 268 00:30:18,276 --> 00:30:19,361 Ecouter. 269 00:30:20,737 --> 00:30:23,656 Aboutez? Ecouter. 270 00:30:24,199 --> 00:30:25,784 Escuchar. Ecouter. 271 00:30:25,867 --> 00:30:28,244 I mean listen in francais. 272 00:30:28,328 --> 00:30:29,913 Oh OK. 273 00:30:29,996 --> 00:30:33,792 So Winter came out of surgery with flying colours, 274 00:30:33,875 --> 00:30:35,502 she is doing just fine. 275 00:30:36,044 --> 00:30:37,170 Hey that's good. 276 00:30:37,253 --> 00:30:39,130 Yeah. A huge success. 277 00:30:39,214 --> 00:30:40,799 Hey that's the blessing that's alright. 278 00:30:40,882 --> 00:30:43,593 Yes we're so happy, we were so nervous. 279 00:30:43,677 --> 00:30:44,803 You wanna see Winter? 280 00:30:44,886 --> 00:30:47,597 She's asleep but here, maybe she can see you, 281 00:30:47,681 --> 00:30:50,266 if she opens her eyes. But I don't know that she will. 282 00:30:52,936 --> 00:30:54,229 She's opening her eyes for you. 283 00:30:54,312 --> 00:30:55,647 Hold on amigo. 284 00:30:55,730 --> 00:30:57,649 Yeah I see she opened them. 285 00:30:58,149 --> 00:30:59,275 Yes. 286 00:30:59,818 --> 00:31:00,860 Hey. 287 00:31:02,654 --> 00:31:04,614 Hey. 288 00:31:04,698 --> 00:31:06,658 I'm glad everything went well. 289 00:31:07,575 --> 00:31:09,285 Thank you. 290 00:31:09,369 --> 00:31:10,578 I love you Daddy. 291 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:13,623 Yeah we love you too, 292 00:31:13,707 --> 00:31:15,834 we said a prayer for you and stuff. 293 00:31:16,418 --> 00:31:17,585 I have gas. 294 00:31:17,669 --> 00:31:19,671 So I knew that the surgery was gonna go well. 295 00:31:19,754 --> 00:31:21,464 Winter has gas now. 296 00:31:21,548 --> 00:31:22,590 Oh OK. 297 00:31:22,674 --> 00:31:24,718 (LAUGHING) 298 00:31:24,801 --> 00:31:26,302 Just let it out. Let it out. 299 00:31:26,386 --> 00:31:28,304 Let it out. Let it out. 300 00:31:29,305 --> 00:31:33,018 Well they said that Winter did very well on her pre op diet, 301 00:31:33,101 --> 00:31:35,437 so it was clean in her stomach. 302 00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:37,230 And the surgery went well. 303 00:31:38,606 --> 00:31:39,983 So... That's good. 304 00:31:40,066 --> 00:31:41,651 ..we knew that she was working hard. 305 00:31:41,735 --> 00:31:46,740 And this is something that she really wanted to have done. 306 00:31:46,823 --> 00:31:48,825 Exactly. For a long time. 307 00:31:48,908 --> 00:31:52,370 Winter's biggest concern is that she feels as though 308 00:31:52,454 --> 00:31:54,330 after she has the surgery, 309 00:31:54,414 --> 00:31:57,125 what if she no longer feels like herself? 310 00:31:57,208 --> 00:32:01,129 What if the surgery changes her into another person? 311 00:32:01,212 --> 00:32:07,260 So much of Winter's identity is her being the plus size girl 312 00:32:07,344 --> 00:32:12,807 who can dress well, who is strong and comfortable the way she is. 313 00:32:12,891 --> 00:32:16,144 But when she starts to lose the weight, 314 00:32:16,227 --> 00:32:22,233 she's gonna have to metamorphous into a new person in a sense. 315 00:32:22,317 --> 00:32:25,487 But she needs to understand that she's still the same her 316 00:32:25,570 --> 00:32:27,655 and it's always been her, and she will always be her. 317 00:32:27,739 --> 00:32:29,866 Alright well we're about to go. 318 00:32:29,949 --> 00:32:31,159 OK. Say goodbye to Winter. 319 00:32:31,242 --> 00:32:33,036 I love you Winter. 320 00:32:33,119 --> 00:32:36,706 I'm really grateful that we have such a close knit family. 321 00:32:36,790 --> 00:32:39,876 Especially for Winter at this time in life. 322 00:32:39,959 --> 00:32:42,420 We love each other, we support each other. 323 00:32:42,504 --> 00:32:46,633 We work on this, we develop this, for each other. 324 00:32:46,716 --> 00:32:49,427 This is a treasure that we have in our family, 325 00:32:49,511 --> 00:32:51,137 Alright bye. 326 00:32:52,806 --> 00:32:53,066 2 00:31:37.080 -- 00:31:39.960 align:middle line:90% position:50% I'm in Mexico with my mum and my sister. 327 00:33:01,189 --> 00:33:04,401 Winter's just had major, you know, abdominal surgery. 328 00:33:04,484 --> 00:33:06,778 And she seems to be doing so well. 329 00:33:12,992 --> 00:33:15,662 Even though Pedro's been nagging me a lot, 330 00:33:15,745 --> 00:33:18,665 I miss him and I am excited to see him. 331 00:33:18,748 --> 00:33:20,417 Maybe this time apart for us, 332 00:33:20,500 --> 00:33:22,669 can help us get back on the right foot. 333 00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:28,174 As a real estate agent, 334 00:33:28,258 --> 00:33:30,593 I thought that he'd work from home at lot more 335 00:33:30,677 --> 00:33:34,264 but he's always in the office and works six days a week. 336 00:33:46,067 --> 00:33:49,487 He hardly like tells me anything about work, 337 00:33:49,571 --> 00:33:52,115 but he's making a lot of friends at work. 338 00:33:52,198 --> 00:33:56,077 And that's where he's spending a lot of his time, after work. 339 00:34:00,415 --> 00:34:03,877 I'm glad that he found something that he's so passionate about. 340 00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,546 But the way he treats me has changed. 341 00:34:07,172 --> 00:34:09,966 It makes me feel like my husband doesn't like me 342 00:34:10,050 --> 00:34:12,677 and that we don't have a friendship anymore. 343 00:34:26,649 --> 00:34:28,526 Hi. Hi. 344 00:34:28,610 --> 00:34:31,363 And the lady answered the phone and she was like speaking Spanish 345 00:34:31,446 --> 00:34:33,031 and I was like... 346 00:34:51,758 --> 00:34:53,718 I know, I give her these all the time. 347 00:34:55,637 --> 00:34:57,222 I never give Pedro leads. 348 00:35:07,649 --> 00:35:11,111 Remember when you were like, more leads please. 349 00:35:11,194 --> 00:35:13,655 He printed it out and everything. 350 00:35:13,738 --> 00:35:15,824 Took the time to duct tape it to himself. 351 00:35:15,907 --> 00:35:20,328 And he walked into the boss' office and he said, more leads please. 352 00:35:47,939 --> 00:35:51,151 Nice. We're killing it. One after another. 353 00:35:51,234 --> 00:35:52,819 Every single week now. 354 00:35:54,738 --> 00:35:56,573 How many closings this year is that? 355 00:35:59,117 --> 00:36:02,704 Oh my God Pedro. Damn. 356 00:36:06,666 --> 00:36:07,709 Wanna be partners? 357 00:36:09,461 --> 00:36:12,005 We could do luxury real estate. Yeah we can. 358 00:36:13,256 --> 00:36:15,258 Pedro's great, he's very professional, 359 00:36:15,342 --> 00:36:16,384 he's a go getter. 360 00:36:16,468 --> 00:36:17,927 We're always trying to push each other. 361 00:36:18,011 --> 00:36:20,221 Sometimes he gets things faster than me. 362 00:36:20,722 --> 00:36:23,016 And I'm like OK just teach me how, 363 00:36:23,099 --> 00:36:24,934 and he does it really gratefully, 364 00:36:25,018 --> 00:36:29,647 like he's very humble and a very honest person. 365 00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:31,941 Well you guys are doing awesome, 366 00:36:32,025 --> 00:36:33,902 you guys are doing a really, really good job. 367 00:36:33,985 --> 00:36:36,654 So the first half of the year, 368 00:36:36,738 --> 00:36:40,909 whoever gets the most sales will get the Caribbean trip. 369 00:36:40,992 --> 00:36:43,078 And then the second half of the year 370 00:36:43,161 --> 00:36:48,208 whoever beats that amount of sales, is going to get the European trip. 371 00:36:57,509 --> 00:36:59,427 Pedro is competitive. 372 00:37:02,097 --> 00:37:06,017 We really like him, as we became a very big family, 373 00:37:06,101 --> 00:37:10,188 very good friends, and very good co-workers. 374 00:37:10,271 --> 00:37:11,648 We try to help each other. 375 00:37:12,232 --> 00:37:14,109 You guys are all like my kids you know. 376 00:37:14,609 --> 00:37:16,528 You're all like my kids. 377 00:37:16,611 --> 00:37:17,946 Anto's my little baby. OK. 378 00:37:18,029 --> 00:37:21,032 I, you know I used to babysit her when she was a little girl. 379 00:37:21,116 --> 00:37:22,742 You're like a second mum to me honestly. 380 00:37:26,996 --> 00:37:28,790 Wow. 381 00:37:28,873 --> 00:37:30,417 I care for Pedro like a little brother. 382 00:37:30,500 --> 00:37:31,918 You know, I really care about him. 383 00:37:32,002 --> 00:37:34,379 He's a good kid, kind hearted kid, 384 00:37:34,462 --> 00:37:36,423 just genuine and just want the best for him. 385 00:37:36,506 --> 00:37:39,259 How's your cat? How's your cat. 386 00:37:39,342 --> 00:37:40,427 Yeah, she's great. 387 00:37:40,510 --> 00:37:42,846 So you get the cat, the next step is kids. 388 00:37:58,778 --> 00:38:00,822 So I used to be the one to push him. 389 00:38:00,905 --> 00:38:03,908 Have kids, have kids, we wanna see kids, Pedro. 390 00:38:04,409 --> 00:38:07,829 But he's focused on his career which is great. 391 00:38:16,421 --> 00:38:18,048 I support your career 392 00:38:18,131 --> 00:38:20,467 so you can be super stable for your wife and your kids. 393 00:38:21,301 --> 00:38:23,303 He's so uncomfortable right now. 394 00:38:34,647 --> 00:38:36,649 You got the house for it. 395 00:38:38,818 --> 00:38:40,195 He keeps saying that. 396 00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:52,791 This looks so nice. Look at that. 397 00:38:52,874 --> 00:38:55,418 Oh, it looks so serene. It does. 398 00:38:57,379 --> 00:38:59,130 Winter spent two days in hospital 399 00:38:59,214 --> 00:39:03,551 but Winter was really in very good condition. 400 00:39:04,636 --> 00:39:06,262 But she has to sleep a lot 401 00:39:06,346 --> 00:39:09,140 because that anaesthesia still has to run 402 00:39:09,224 --> 00:39:11,393 and plus she's on pain medication. 403 00:39:11,476 --> 00:39:16,773 So we decided to go treat ourselves to a... 404 00:39:16,856 --> 00:39:18,400 Massage. ..massage. 405 00:39:19,901 --> 00:39:21,236 This feels great. 406 00:39:21,319 --> 00:39:23,071 This is, yes. This does feel great. 407 00:39:24,823 --> 00:39:26,032 I love this. 408 00:39:27,033 --> 00:39:32,914 I know my body is a ball of tension because of Winter's surgery. 409 00:39:33,707 --> 00:39:36,126 I'm surprised how quick Winter recovered. 410 00:39:36,209 --> 00:39:37,252 Me too. 411 00:39:37,335 --> 00:39:40,797 She was like walking around like nothing even happened. 412 00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:44,259 Like if she even told Mmesoma, he wouldn't even believe her. 413 00:39:44,342 --> 00:39:45,677 He'd think she was joking 414 00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:47,554 because she looks like nothing even happened. 415 00:39:47,637 --> 00:39:49,389 Right? 416 00:39:49,472 --> 00:39:53,560 We are supportive of Winter sharing the fact 417 00:39:53,643 --> 00:39:56,187 that she's had the courage to go get her weight loss surgery 418 00:39:56,271 --> 00:39:58,982 with, Mmesoma. 419 00:39:59,065 --> 00:40:02,318 But more than opening up to a new man, 420 00:40:02,402 --> 00:40:07,741 it is a big deal for Winter to own her journey. 421 00:40:07,824 --> 00:40:11,953 And be able to be comfortable enough with it herself 422 00:40:12,037 --> 00:40:14,539 to explain it to another person. 423 00:40:30,847 --> 00:40:33,099 I'm well, how are you? 424 00:40:33,183 --> 00:40:34,851 I like that colour on you. 425 00:40:38,646 --> 00:40:40,273 You like my hair? 426 00:40:40,357 --> 00:40:41,566 Well, thank you. 427 00:40:43,276 --> 00:40:45,445 My day's been great. Guess where I am. 428 00:40:48,198 --> 00:40:50,075 I'm in Mexico. 429 00:40:54,245 --> 00:40:56,373 Yeah, I've been here for a few days now. 430 00:41:00,210 --> 00:41:03,713 No I haven't really tried any Mexican food. 431 00:41:05,465 --> 00:41:08,593 Mmesoma and I have become quite close. 432 00:41:08,677 --> 00:41:11,554 And just thinking that I didn't tell him 433 00:41:11,638 --> 00:41:16,184 that I am having this big surgery, just, it felt wrong. 434 00:41:16,267 --> 00:41:20,188 But you know, there's a part of me that's a little bit nervous 435 00:41:20,271 --> 00:41:22,774 that he might not approve of the surgery. 436 00:41:22,857 --> 00:41:26,069 He might not be attracted to me after losing so much weight. 437 00:41:26,152 --> 00:41:27,445 So... 438 00:41:30,573 --> 00:41:36,788 ..how would you feel if I was to come to Africa to see you 439 00:41:36,871 --> 00:41:39,457 and I looked completely different? 440 00:41:44,713 --> 00:41:46,423 You know just different. 441 00:41:49,092 --> 00:41:54,764 The reason why I travelled to Mexico was to have a bariatric surgery. 442 00:42:15,243 --> 00:42:17,454 I just didn't know how to talk to you about it. 443 00:42:17,996 --> 00:42:19,664 My last relationship, 444 00:42:19,748 --> 00:42:22,125 he was against surgeries period 445 00:42:22,208 --> 00:42:25,462 and it kind of left me a little scarred. 446 00:42:45,273 --> 00:42:46,524 Oh, Mmesoma. 447 00:42:47,567 --> 00:42:52,322 I did not expect Mmesoma to be so kind in that moment. 448 00:42:52,405 --> 00:42:55,492 It's not exactly what I had in my last relationship. 449 00:43:02,582 --> 00:43:05,335 I love your smile. It makes me happy. 450 00:43:24,187 --> 00:43:28,775 I know, I can't wait to go to my own house. 451 00:43:35,699 --> 00:43:39,744 Can't wait to see Pedro and my kitty. 452 00:43:40,370 --> 00:43:42,497 We have to go back to Atlanta tomorrow 453 00:43:42,580 --> 00:43:44,749 and I need to relax before I deal with Pedro 454 00:43:44,833 --> 00:43:46,167 when I get home. 455 00:43:46,251 --> 00:43:49,462 The truth is, Pedro and I are not doing well. 456 00:43:49,546 --> 00:43:52,465 And I'm deliberately keeping the problems 457 00:43:52,549 --> 00:43:55,176 between Pedro and I from my family 458 00:43:55,260 --> 00:43:59,431 in order to protect his image in their eyes 459 00:43:59,514 --> 00:44:01,307 and the integrity of our marriage. 460 00:44:01,391 --> 00:44:03,226 Do you like your massage? 461 00:44:05,145 --> 00:44:09,482 I felt Pedro pulling away from me before he got his new job. 462 00:44:09,566 --> 00:44:11,067 But since he's gotten his new job, 463 00:44:11,151 --> 00:44:15,113 like the affection has just really stopped altogether. 464 00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:17,282 The video games, 465 00:44:17,365 --> 00:44:20,368 I mean I wanted to throw the thing out the window. 466 00:44:20,452 --> 00:44:25,081 Used to be like our only issue and it was a pretty big one. 467 00:44:25,165 --> 00:44:26,541 And now I see why. 468 00:44:27,292 --> 00:44:29,961 Because it's deeper than that. It's not about the game. 469 00:44:30,045 --> 00:44:31,629 It's about him 470 00:44:31,713 --> 00:44:34,716 and why he doesn't wanna spend quality time with me. 471 00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:02,410 It feels like Pedro works so much all of a sudden. 472 00:45:02,494 --> 00:45:03,536 Like, that's all he does. 473 00:45:07,624 --> 00:45:09,417 It's none of your business. 474 00:45:09,501 --> 00:45:12,962 Pedro and I are not physically 475 00:45:13,046 --> 00:45:17,175 in a capable state of making a baby. 476 00:45:17,258 --> 00:45:19,219 I've been cleaning your dirty drawers, 477 00:45:19,302 --> 00:45:22,138 picking up after you for about two weeks. 478 00:45:22,222 --> 00:45:26,935 And I haven't seen any change or positive feedback from you. 479 00:45:27,018 --> 00:45:28,311 I don't know why you're so mean.