1 00:00:05,588 --> 00:00:07,590 Last season on The Family Chantel... 2 00:00:07,674 --> 00:00:11,594 Are you planning on seeing your best friend while you're in New York? 3 00:00:14,764 --> 00:00:16,307 Alejandro. 4 00:00:27,944 --> 00:00:29,404 Get off me! 5 00:00:30,864 --> 00:00:33,366 While we were dating, Pedro did tell me about his dad 6 00:00:33,450 --> 00:00:36,453 and how he just poof, disappeared. 7 00:00:36,536 --> 00:00:38,163 If you need anything call me. 8 00:00:40,373 --> 00:00:41,875 I'm going to go to the Dominican Republic 9 00:00:41,958 --> 00:00:43,335 and find that BLEEP. 10 00:00:55,972 --> 00:00:57,724 (PHONE RINGS) 11 00:01:02,979 --> 00:01:06,983 He doesn't want anything to do with you and it's sad. 12 00:01:09,277 --> 00:01:11,279 Will you marry me? 13 00:01:11,363 --> 00:01:12,947 Oh my gosh. 14 00:01:13,031 --> 00:01:14,991 We're engaged! We're engaged! 15 00:01:15,950 --> 00:01:19,662 I'm OK with you as long as you don't cross that line. 16 00:01:19,746 --> 00:01:22,874 If you cross a line, with Winter, you cross the line with me. 17 00:01:22,957 --> 00:01:24,417 Capiche? 18 00:01:25,627 --> 00:01:28,963 You broke up with Jah, what happened? 19 00:01:29,047 --> 00:01:32,592 Well, he started talking about being submissive and then, 20 00:01:32,676 --> 00:01:34,969 he started asking like, "Oh, do you think 21 00:01:35,053 --> 00:01:36,971 "I deserve to be called Lord?" 22 00:01:38,765 --> 00:01:41,434 He's outside the house. Oh my gosh, Winter. 23 00:01:45,855 --> 00:01:49,401 No. But now it's over. 24 00:02:10,755 --> 00:02:12,132 Pinky! 25 00:02:25,437 --> 00:02:27,981 You don't feel like she puts you in a bad position 26 00:02:28,064 --> 00:02:30,859 by having a relationship with a married man? 27 00:02:58,678 --> 00:03:01,389 You missed, you missed. Call the police. 28 00:03:01,473 --> 00:03:03,558 Security, security! 29 00:03:12,859 --> 00:03:15,987 (BRIGHT MUSIC) 30 00:03:20,700 --> 00:03:24,913 # Fast life, fast life, fast life, yeah 31 00:03:24,996 --> 00:03:28,583 # Fast life, fast life, fast life... # 32 00:03:37,926 --> 00:03:41,638 OK, you're good. Good boy. 33 00:03:42,430 --> 00:03:44,307 Nice. OK. 34 00:03:44,891 --> 00:03:48,603 It's been a couple of months since we came back from DR 35 00:03:48,687 --> 00:03:51,272 and there's been a few changes in our life. 36 00:03:51,356 --> 00:03:53,983 Yep. We bought a house. 37 00:04:04,411 --> 00:04:06,287 Our own little nest. 38 00:04:07,706 --> 00:04:09,749 Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa, no, no, no, no, hey, hey. 39 00:04:24,347 --> 00:04:26,266 I don't know how to use that. 40 00:04:51,207 --> 00:04:52,625 Can you help me? 41 00:04:53,251 --> 00:04:55,295 (LEAFBLOWER WHIRS) 42 00:05:02,552 --> 00:05:04,637 I'm so proud of us. 43 00:05:04,721 --> 00:05:07,140 I mean, me being a new entry level nurse, 44 00:05:07,223 --> 00:05:09,392 and Pedro being an immigrant. 45 00:05:09,476 --> 00:05:11,561 And look at us baby, we have our... Yeah. 46 00:05:11,644 --> 00:05:13,188 ..first house. Yeah. 47 00:05:17,359 --> 00:05:18,860 Pedro, these are nice vines. 48 00:05:20,695 --> 00:05:22,655 What's that? Josefina? 49 00:05:22,739 --> 00:05:25,533 A machete? 50 00:05:25,617 --> 00:05:27,786 There's another way to do this, you don't need a machete. 51 00:05:27,869 --> 00:05:29,579 Why not? 52 00:05:33,917 --> 00:05:35,585 Barefoot and all. 53 00:05:36,252 --> 00:05:38,713 He's like a jungle man out there, with his machete, 54 00:05:38,797 --> 00:05:40,715 with his bare feet. 55 00:05:40,799 --> 00:05:43,343 Getting down and dirty. (YELLS LIKE TARZAN) 56 00:05:45,553 --> 00:05:49,974 Did you ever imagine that you would have such a lovely house? 57 00:05:50,058 --> 00:05:53,937 With like five bedrooms. But one bed. 58 00:05:55,230 --> 00:05:58,358 And we need new furniture, we need dining room, 59 00:05:58,441 --> 00:05:59,859 we need somewhere to eat. 60 00:06:02,445 --> 00:06:04,155 Maybe it's you. 61 00:06:05,573 --> 00:06:09,452 Buying a house of our own has led Pedro to a new career path. 62 00:06:09,536 --> 00:06:13,331 While we were searching and talking back and forth 63 00:06:13,415 --> 00:06:15,250 with the real estate agent, 64 00:06:15,333 --> 00:06:17,669 Pedro really took interest in the whole process. 65 00:06:38,982 --> 00:06:40,483 Maybe you can mow the lawn a little? 66 00:06:46,531 --> 00:06:49,200 What, you're gonna cut some trees? Yeah. 67 00:06:52,454 --> 00:06:54,247 So I wanted, I've been meaning to ask you, 68 00:06:54,330 --> 00:06:56,750 if you've had any conversations... 69 00:06:56,833 --> 00:06:59,461 (CHAINSAW WHIRS) 70 00:07:02,464 --> 00:07:07,469 Have you had any, have you been having any conversations 71 00:07:07,552 --> 00:07:10,388 with your sister or mum? 72 00:07:41,294 --> 00:07:46,758 It was hard for me to watch his family not being nice to him 73 00:07:46,841 --> 00:07:49,469 and sensitive to his feelings about his father 74 00:07:49,552 --> 00:07:51,304 not getting in touch with him. 75 00:08:03,566 --> 00:08:05,694 But I know it hurt. 76 00:08:08,655 --> 00:08:10,824 I mean I'm not saying that you need to hurry up 77 00:08:10,907 --> 00:08:14,994 and talk to Nicole but, there's something about what happened 78 00:08:15,078 --> 00:08:17,122 in D.R. when you were there... 79 00:08:17,205 --> 00:08:18,957 Oh my God. ..that is affecting you now. 80 00:08:39,060 --> 00:08:40,562 OK. 81 00:09:05,962 --> 00:09:08,506 Alright, let's get the goodies. 82 00:09:08,590 --> 00:09:12,761 This trip is still affecting Pedro and I 83 00:09:12,844 --> 00:09:16,848 because I've seen a change in him that I can't explain. 84 00:09:18,892 --> 00:09:19,152 2 00:08:58.520 -- 00:09:01.360 align:middle line:90% position:50% (GENTLE DANCE MUSIC) 85 00:09:24,564 --> 00:09:26,399 Winter, and don't drive me crazy. 86 00:09:26,483 --> 00:09:30,945 River, why you always trying me? I feel like every day. 87 00:09:31,029 --> 00:09:33,365 What is in this car? What the hell is all this? 88 00:09:33,448 --> 00:09:34,908 What the BLEEP? 89 00:09:34,991 --> 00:09:37,869 Winter, it's your birthday? 90 00:09:37,952 --> 00:09:39,829 Those are the things that Jah's been sending. 91 00:09:40,705 --> 00:09:42,332 He's been trying, yeah. He's still sending things? 92 00:09:42,415 --> 00:09:45,502 Yeah, he's just been showing up at my job 93 00:09:45,585 --> 00:09:47,962 and bringing flowers and things. 94 00:09:48,046 --> 00:09:49,547 Don't balloon on me. 95 00:09:49,631 --> 00:09:50,924 Why is this in the car? 96 00:09:51,007 --> 00:09:52,342 I didn't know what to do with it. 97 00:09:54,552 --> 00:09:57,514 Oh my goodness. Jah, Jah, Jah. 98 00:09:57,597 --> 00:09:59,099 Mm, mm, mm. 99 00:09:59,182 --> 00:10:02,811 Jah is Winter's ex-boyfriend of seven years. 100 00:10:02,894 --> 00:10:06,398 And I'm glad that they're not together anymore. 101 00:10:06,481 --> 00:10:09,859 It was a very toxic relationship. 102 00:10:10,735 --> 00:10:14,072 I remember once before you did ask me to marry you. 103 00:10:14,155 --> 00:10:16,074 I don't remember proposing to you before. 104 00:10:16,908 --> 00:10:18,952 Well, now that makes me feel like 105 00:10:19,035 --> 00:10:21,371 everything that you've been saying is a lie. 106 00:10:22,455 --> 00:10:28,086 Now Jah's sending gifts to Winter, and I think it's pretty confusing 107 00:10:28,169 --> 00:10:31,881 because after all, he did tell her to leave. 108 00:10:32,799 --> 00:10:36,386 And he said to give him back his ring, 109 00:10:36,469 --> 00:10:39,222 so that's quite confusing to even me. 110 00:10:39,764 --> 00:10:42,392 And it's very hard to fool mother nature. 111 00:10:44,602 --> 00:10:47,188 I'm gonna show you exactly what to do with thigs like this. 112 00:10:47,272 --> 00:10:49,190 I'm just gonna do two. 113 00:10:49,274 --> 00:10:50,942 What, what you supposed to do? 114 00:10:51,026 --> 00:10:54,154 Wham, wham, wham, wham, wham. 115 00:10:56,031 --> 00:10:57,866 What the hell's wrong with y'all? 116 00:10:59,159 --> 00:11:03,204 I'm infuriated to be finding things from Jah in Winter's car. 117 00:11:03,288 --> 00:11:05,832 She should be throwing BLEEP like this away. 118 00:11:06,624 --> 00:11:09,711 And he can kiss her white black ass. 119 00:11:12,422 --> 00:11:14,883 Her ass is actually white, but she's black. 120 00:11:14,966 --> 00:11:17,594 It really was when she was born, I saw it. It was... 121 00:11:17,677 --> 00:11:21,431 I mean, her face is white too. But not as white as her ass. 122 00:11:22,390 --> 00:11:23,641 And then this. 123 00:11:23,725 --> 00:11:25,143 Winter, how do you feel? 124 00:11:25,226 --> 00:11:26,353 Let's go, come on. 125 00:11:26,436 --> 00:11:29,022 Come on, we're gonna be late, we have to get whatever you need 126 00:11:29,105 --> 00:11:30,440 from the pharmacy. 127 00:11:31,149 --> 00:11:33,943 In a few days, Winter's finally getting the surgery 128 00:11:34,027 --> 00:11:35,820 that she's always wanted. 129 00:11:35,904 --> 00:11:39,991 We will both be accompanying her to do it. 130 00:11:40,075 --> 00:11:44,371 We're going to Tijuana, Mexico to have her bariatric surgery. 131 00:11:44,454 --> 00:11:49,459 I do think that bariatric surgery is the best option for her. 132 00:11:49,542 --> 00:11:54,756 But Winter has proven herself naive in the past, 133 00:11:54,839 --> 00:11:58,385 so I think she's being a little too trusting 134 00:11:58,468 --> 00:12:00,428 about the surgery in Mexico. 135 00:12:02,305 --> 00:12:04,933 OK, I have a list. 136 00:12:05,016 --> 00:12:08,853 After the breakup, I was sitting in my room, 137 00:12:08,937 --> 00:12:13,525 scrolling through TikTok and I saw the Weight Loss Barbie, 138 00:12:13,608 --> 00:12:15,610 and she was telling her story 139 00:12:15,694 --> 00:12:19,114 about how she had the bariatric surgery in Mexico. 140 00:12:19,197 --> 00:12:23,827 So I decided to do some research and look into her doctors 141 00:12:23,910 --> 00:12:27,038 and I decided that this would be a great opportunity for me. 142 00:12:27,122 --> 00:12:30,375 Slippers or socks that have rubber bottoms. 143 00:12:30,458 --> 00:12:32,919 So it's like whatever this is. 144 00:12:33,003 --> 00:12:36,131 The scams are endless on social media. 145 00:12:36,214 --> 00:12:39,801 So for her to step out on faith, 146 00:12:39,884 --> 00:12:42,512 it's really highly risky. 147 00:12:43,930 --> 00:12:46,433 Skimpy on the hospital supplies there. 148 00:12:46,516 --> 00:12:48,393 You think so? OK. They don't have that? 149 00:12:48,476 --> 00:12:49,894 Well, I don't know. 150 00:12:49,978 --> 00:12:52,439 And then this is something that's optional, 151 00:12:52,522 --> 00:12:54,566 it's like a liquid band aid. 152 00:12:54,649 --> 00:12:56,651 You got to bring your own bandages? 153 00:12:56,735 --> 00:12:59,738 No, no, no, it's a liquid band aid. 154 00:12:59,821 --> 00:13:01,281 Who sent this list to you? 155 00:13:01,364 --> 00:13:02,949 This is on the website. 156 00:13:03,033 --> 00:13:04,868 I don't know about this. They want you to bring 157 00:13:04,951 --> 00:13:06,870 your own socks, bandages. 158 00:13:07,787 --> 00:13:10,957 Going to Mexico, the prerequisites for the surgery 159 00:13:11,041 --> 00:13:15,170 is a lot smaller than here in America. 160 00:13:15,253 --> 00:13:17,630 And it's more cost effective. 161 00:13:17,714 --> 00:13:21,551 My family, they're very sceptical to the whole idea. 162 00:13:21,634 --> 00:13:25,221 But I made this decision on my own. 163 00:13:25,305 --> 00:13:29,476 And this is what I want to do, so I'm going to do it. 164 00:13:30,018 --> 00:13:33,772 This is not a simple surgery and because you're my sister, 165 00:13:33,855 --> 00:13:36,149 I have to tell you of the complications that can happen, 166 00:13:36,232 --> 00:13:38,151 when you go into the abdominal cavity. 167 00:13:38,234 --> 00:13:40,028 Like infection that could happen there, 168 00:13:40,111 --> 00:13:43,031 your organs can actually form together. 169 00:13:43,114 --> 00:13:46,159 Parts of your bowel can die. 170 00:13:46,242 --> 00:13:48,953 OK, OK. Because why not to get it here like? 171 00:13:49,037 --> 00:13:50,205 I don't wanna talk about it no more. 172 00:13:50,288 --> 00:13:53,583 Y'all are gonna make me not want to even go, OK? 173 00:13:53,667 --> 00:13:54,918 Nah, it's fine. 174 00:13:55,001 --> 00:13:59,506 You can have good healthcare in other countries. 175 00:13:59,589 --> 00:14:01,424 As well as surgeries. 176 00:14:01,508 --> 00:14:07,097 But I'm not sure if Winter has that capability 177 00:14:07,180 --> 00:14:11,393 to be able to recognise when she's in good hands or not, 178 00:14:11,476 --> 00:14:12,519 like medically. 179 00:14:12,602 --> 00:14:17,482 So she has a nurse as a sister, and I'm gonna make sure 180 00:14:17,565 --> 00:14:19,567 that Winter has the best care ever. 181 00:14:19,651 --> 00:14:23,363 OK, go get a hot water bottle, a heating water bottle or... 182 00:14:23,446 --> 00:14:26,241 Oh, where do they, we have to ask, we have to ask where they are. 183 00:14:26,324 --> 00:14:28,535 Like a warming pad. Go find that. 184 00:14:29,244 --> 00:14:32,622 Plan B to spirit away back to the American Embassy, 185 00:14:32,706 --> 00:14:34,541 that's the first thing I researched. 186 00:14:34,624 --> 00:14:35,667 I found out where it was. 187 00:14:35,750 --> 00:14:39,587 Spirit away I say, buy a ticket and get on the first plane 188 00:14:39,671 --> 00:14:43,883 heading north, and go right back to the US of A. 189 00:14:44,467 --> 00:14:46,928 Thank you so much, I really appreciate your help. 190 00:14:48,096 --> 00:14:50,390 I feel prepared, let's go. 191 00:14:52,809 --> 00:14:57,188 (UPBEAT MUSIC) 192 00:15:05,363 --> 00:15:08,575 Uno, dos. 193 00:15:22,630 --> 00:15:26,384 Uno, dos, tres, quatro, cinco, seis. 194 00:17:57,202 --> 00:17:58,953 (GLASS SMASHES) 195 00:17:59,037 --> 00:18:01,164 You missed, you missed! 196 00:19:37,635 --> 00:19:42,557 (UPBEAT MUSIC) 197 00:19:45,935 --> 00:19:47,145 Well, that's so pretty. 198 00:19:47,228 --> 00:19:50,190 Those are so cute. I'm glad you're bringing that. 199 00:19:51,733 --> 00:19:54,152 Mummy, what do you think about me going to Mexico 200 00:19:54,235 --> 00:19:55,403 to get my surgery, honestly? 201 00:19:55,487 --> 00:19:59,074 Because I feel like you've just been holding a brave face of something. 202 00:19:59,157 --> 00:20:02,786 I mean, I'm sure you vetted the hospital and the doctor 203 00:20:02,869 --> 00:20:04,371 that's doing the surgery. Yes. 204 00:20:04,454 --> 00:20:06,206 It seems safe. It is. 205 00:20:06,289 --> 00:20:09,959 They have a whole hospital and they have a whole bariatric ward. 206 00:20:10,043 --> 00:20:11,586 Well, we'll look around when we get there, OK? 207 00:20:11,670 --> 00:20:15,173 OK. We'll ask questions, OK? 208 00:20:16,716 --> 00:20:20,929 I was highly sceptical about Winter's decision 209 00:20:21,012 --> 00:20:26,226 to follow a person that she's met on TikTok 210 00:20:26,309 --> 00:20:28,561 over into Mexico 211 00:20:28,645 --> 00:20:30,480 to have major surgery done. 212 00:20:30,563 --> 00:20:35,110 It would be so much easier if Winter would just have the surgery here. 213 00:20:35,193 --> 00:20:38,279 Because, I mean, her support system's here, 214 00:20:38,363 --> 00:20:41,449 like financially, we could help her, emotionally. 215 00:20:41,533 --> 00:20:46,037 And then medically, her doctor would be here and all the resources. 216 00:20:46,121 --> 00:20:49,040 The language, we all speak English here. 217 00:20:49,124 --> 00:20:53,712 I don't know why she's going to Mexico. 218 00:20:53,795 --> 00:20:56,965 But it is important for us to support her. 219 00:20:58,383 --> 00:21:01,177 You packed more than me. It's like you're gonna have the surgery. 220 00:21:01,261 --> 00:21:04,389 You know how I am. I bring things just in case. 221 00:21:05,265 --> 00:21:07,934 Well, here we go. Yeah, put them out here. 222 00:21:08,018 --> 00:21:09,769 So tomorrow we'll have everything in one spot. 223 00:21:09,853 --> 00:21:11,563 OK, Mummy. OK. 224 00:21:12,105 --> 00:21:12,366 2 00:20:21.240 -- 00:20:25.160 align:middle line:90% position:50% (CHEERFUL MUSIC) 225 00:21:21,656 --> 00:21:23,408 Mum. Mama, come out. 226 00:21:23,491 --> 00:21:24,993 OK, Mummy, come on let's go. 227 00:21:25,076 --> 00:21:26,494 Daddy, get Mummy out of there. 228 00:21:26,578 --> 00:21:28,580 Mama bear, what you got in your hand? 229 00:21:28,663 --> 00:21:31,374 This is my safe six stick. 230 00:21:35,337 --> 00:21:37,589 But that's, that's not six feet is it? 231 00:21:37,672 --> 00:21:39,632 Oh well, you know it will do. 232 00:21:39,716 --> 00:21:43,053 So if someone tries to get near you, you just put this up, 233 00:21:43,136 --> 00:21:46,806 pop out this baby and say uh-uh, uh-uh-uh, don't go there. 234 00:21:46,890 --> 00:21:47,932 Now, now, well what do you do when they do this 235 00:21:48,016 --> 00:21:49,601 and they grab it, and they get close to it. 236 00:21:49,684 --> 00:21:52,354 Oh you know what. It's turned into a whooping stick. 237 00:21:52,437 --> 00:21:54,773 Today we're going to Tijuana 238 00:21:54,856 --> 00:21:59,069 and we're feeling a little different 239 00:21:59,152 --> 00:22:02,614 than we would usually, travelling overseas, 240 00:22:02,697 --> 00:22:07,202 because this is not for pleasure, this is for a major surgery. 241 00:22:09,245 --> 00:22:10,997 Oh, we're at the airport. 242 00:22:11,081 --> 00:22:16,086 I'm so excited. This is like, new beginnings for real. 243 00:22:16,169 --> 00:22:18,838 The only thing that I have to do at this point 244 00:22:18,922 --> 00:22:20,924 is physically get on the plane and go. 245 00:22:21,007 --> 00:22:23,677 And that might sound like something easy, 246 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:27,347 but it's actually not that easy because I'm scared. 247 00:22:27,430 --> 00:22:29,474 But I'm gonna do it. 248 00:22:29,557 --> 00:22:31,518 It's Winter time, baby. 249 00:22:33,603 --> 00:22:35,438 How are you feeling, Winter? 250 00:22:35,522 --> 00:22:38,316 Good. I'm just gonna try and keep my energy positive. 251 00:22:44,864 --> 00:22:46,908 Alright. We did it. 252 00:22:47,492 --> 00:22:51,079 I'm meeting Kayla the Weight Loss Barbie in San Diego, 253 00:22:51,162 --> 00:22:53,665 and I'm so excited. I can't wait to see her. 254 00:22:54,457 --> 00:22:56,376 Hi. Hi. 255 00:22:56,459 --> 00:22:58,503 Oh my gosh, you look beautiful. 256 00:22:58,586 --> 00:23:00,714 Oh my God, you too, how are you? 257 00:23:00,797 --> 00:23:02,632 I'm good, how are you? 258 00:23:03,925 --> 00:23:07,429 Thank you, I love your sunglasses! Oh my gosh. 259 00:23:07,512 --> 00:23:09,055 You know. 260 00:23:09,139 --> 00:23:10,890 This is my mum, and this is my sister. 261 00:23:10,974 --> 00:23:12,809 Hi, I'm Kayla. Do we hug, how are you? 262 00:23:12,892 --> 00:23:14,352 How are you doing? Good. 263 00:23:14,436 --> 00:23:15,979 Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. 264 00:23:33,913 --> 00:23:35,582 Here we go. 265 00:23:35,665 --> 00:23:37,834 So we're just gonna drive over the border? 266 00:23:37,917 --> 00:23:39,836 It's gonna be, like, 30 minutes to get there. 267 00:23:39,919 --> 00:23:41,004 Oh, OK. 268 00:23:41,087 --> 00:23:42,630 And then we'll be in Mexico. 269 00:23:42,714 --> 00:23:48,219 It is a little weird that we're taking medical advice 270 00:23:48,303 --> 00:23:51,389 from somebody who's dressing up like a Barbie. 271 00:23:51,473 --> 00:23:55,769 However, you can't judge a book by its cover. 272 00:23:55,852 --> 00:23:58,855 Oh, I'm so happy that we're altogether, Winter. 273 00:23:58,938 --> 00:24:01,691 I'm so glad that you allowed us to share this with you. 274 00:24:01,775 --> 00:24:03,943 Yeah, I'm glad that you guys came are coming with me, 275 00:24:04,027 --> 00:24:06,446 because I wouldn't want to do this by myself. 276 00:24:06,529 --> 00:24:08,073 You know we would never let you. We wouldn't let you. 277 00:24:08,156 --> 00:24:10,533 I would never, we would never let you do this by yourself. 278 00:24:10,617 --> 00:24:12,077 Chantel, how's Pedro? 279 00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:13,286 He's getting better. 280 00:24:13,370 --> 00:24:16,164 Has he talked to his mother and his sister since you've been back? 281 00:24:16,247 --> 00:24:19,084 No. He's only spoken to his mum. 282 00:24:19,167 --> 00:24:20,877 How did that go? 283 00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:23,296 I hope it went better than it did. 284 00:24:23,380 --> 00:24:24,923 They're talking and so that's good. 285 00:24:25,006 --> 00:24:26,800 I don't really know what they talk about, 286 00:24:26,883 --> 00:24:28,468 and he's very private about it. 287 00:24:28,551 --> 00:24:30,428 But I think, you know, it's a good thing 288 00:24:30,512 --> 00:24:32,514 that he's speaking with his mother. 289 00:24:32,597 --> 00:24:34,891 Well, boo hoo, guess what? I really don't care. 290 00:24:34,974 --> 00:24:41,481 That woman came in our lunch, argued in the hotel with her son, 291 00:24:41,564 --> 00:24:45,568 then she threw, tried to throw water on Winter. Tried. 292 00:24:45,652 --> 00:24:47,278 Yeah, I guess she wanted to throw water on me. 293 00:24:47,362 --> 00:24:50,115 Yeah, I wish a mother would. I wish a mother would. 294 00:24:50,907 --> 00:24:53,702 Nothing those women do can shock me. 295 00:24:53,785 --> 00:24:56,996 And Chantel doesn't give a damn whether he repairs 296 00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:58,790 his relationship or not. 297 00:24:58,873 --> 00:25:01,126 She don't care, do you, girl? 298 00:25:01,209 --> 00:25:03,003 I believe she doesn't care. 299 00:25:03,086 --> 00:25:04,129 Why the hell would she care? 300 00:25:04,212 --> 00:25:08,925 Chantel is fine, she's got a very nice...esposo? 301 00:25:09,009 --> 00:25:14,347 Esposo. She has a casa. She has a trabajo. 302 00:25:14,431 --> 00:25:19,310 And then that girl, oh my God. She comes in like a crazed maniac 303 00:25:19,394 --> 00:25:22,772 and has to get saved by her brother. 304 00:25:22,856 --> 00:25:24,357 Pedro really did her a favour. 305 00:25:24,441 --> 00:25:27,569 Yes, he did. She'll be thanking him later, trust me. 306 00:25:27,652 --> 00:25:29,571 Hell to the no, say it. 307 00:25:29,654 --> 00:25:31,156 Hell to the no. 308 00:25:31,239 --> 00:25:32,449 Hell to the no. 309 00:25:34,701 --> 00:25:36,619 Whoa, is this the border? 310 00:25:45,211 --> 00:25:47,881 We're in Mexico. Woo! 311 00:25:49,132 --> 00:25:52,260 (FUNKY MUSIC) 312 00:26:58,076 --> 00:27:01,204 (DANCE MUSIC) 313 00:31:50,326 --> 00:31:54,039 (TROPICAL MUSIC) 314 00:31:58,335 --> 00:32:00,128 Is this your first time in Mexico? 315 00:32:00,211 --> 00:32:02,505 This is my first time going to Mexico. 316 00:32:02,589 --> 00:32:04,257 I'm so excited for you. 317 00:32:04,341 --> 00:32:08,219 Thank you. I'm like, excited, nervous all at the same time. 318 00:32:08,303 --> 00:32:09,721 I don't know what to expect. 319 00:32:09,804 --> 00:32:12,432 Are you more nervous about the fact that you're just 320 00:32:12,515 --> 00:32:14,017 physically having surgery? 321 00:32:14,100 --> 00:32:16,644 Or that your life and everything is gonna, you know, 322 00:32:16,728 --> 00:32:18,063 it's like a long term thing. 323 00:32:18,146 --> 00:32:20,815 I think I'm more nervous about the aftermath, 324 00:32:20,899 --> 00:32:22,233 just like my whole life. 325 00:32:22,317 --> 00:32:26,488 You know I built myself up around, you know, being this size 326 00:32:26,571 --> 00:32:28,573 and being who I am today. 327 00:32:28,656 --> 00:32:31,326 And so it's kind of like, I don't hate this 328 00:32:31,409 --> 00:32:33,078 and I don't hate myself. 329 00:32:33,161 --> 00:32:37,248 So I feel like, I don't know, I'm just like a little bit nervous 330 00:32:37,332 --> 00:32:39,167 of being different. 331 00:32:39,876 --> 00:32:44,589 I've gone through so many different, like, mental roller-coasters 332 00:32:44,673 --> 00:32:49,928 about what does it truly mean if I get the bariatric surgery 333 00:32:50,011 --> 00:32:54,516 and does it make me less of a person or whatever. 334 00:32:54,599 --> 00:32:57,310 Which I guess it does because I will lose my weight 335 00:32:57,394 --> 00:32:59,604 and I won't have some of my stomach. 336 00:32:59,688 --> 00:33:03,024 I don't know, I just have like a lot of mixed emotions on it. 337 00:33:04,567 --> 00:33:08,863 The fact that you said you don't hate yourself, that's perfect. 338 00:33:08,947 --> 00:33:11,616 You know, then, because, you love yourself and that's great 339 00:33:11,700 --> 00:33:14,035 because you have to love who you are now 340 00:33:14,119 --> 00:33:16,121 to get to the person you need to be. 341 00:33:16,204 --> 00:33:18,581 And I think a lot of the time, people think you have surgery 342 00:33:18,665 --> 00:33:19,916 to change your appearance. 343 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:21,876 And it's not, that's not the case. 344 00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:23,795 You know, my husband, he's like, what if I'm not attracted 345 00:33:23,878 --> 00:33:26,798 to you after you lose weight? Because I, I met you big, you know? 346 00:33:26,881 --> 00:33:28,383 Your husband said that? 347 00:33:28,466 --> 00:33:33,304 He met me at 300 pounds and then I went to about 350. 348 00:33:33,388 --> 00:33:35,348 And then when I wanted to do the surgery, he's like, 349 00:33:35,432 --> 00:33:38,560 "I fell in love with you and who you are, how you are. 350 00:33:38,643 --> 00:33:39,936 "Like, what if all that changes?" 351 00:33:40,020 --> 00:33:41,896 And it's, it's a real, you know it's a real fear 352 00:33:41,980 --> 00:33:44,733 because you go through such a massive transformation. 353 00:33:44,816 --> 00:33:45,900 It's just so scary. 354 00:33:45,984 --> 00:33:47,986 It's kind of like, well, I mean, it's not scary. 355 00:33:48,069 --> 00:33:50,655 Like, I'm excited but I'm kind of like just freaking out 356 00:33:50,739 --> 00:33:52,824 that I'm actually doing it. 357 00:33:53,616 --> 00:33:56,494 I talk to people all day long, whether it be online 358 00:33:56,578 --> 00:33:59,080 or, you know, over the phone. 359 00:33:59,164 --> 00:34:01,416 And chatting with Winter today, I feel like, emotionally, 360 00:34:01,499 --> 00:34:03,001 she's ready for the change. 361 00:34:03,084 --> 00:34:05,712 But you don't have to hate yourself of hate where you are in life 362 00:34:05,795 --> 00:34:07,213 to wanna change. 363 00:34:07,297 --> 00:34:09,090 It's OK to change and still love who you are 364 00:34:09,174 --> 00:34:10,508 throughout your whole journey. 365 00:34:10,592 --> 00:34:12,010 Watch your step. 366 00:34:12,093 --> 00:34:13,928 Uh-oh, my mask came off. But that's OK. Thank you. 367 00:34:14,012 --> 00:34:15,555 Be careful, watch your step. 368 00:34:15,638 --> 00:34:16,931 I put my, OK. 369 00:34:17,015 --> 00:34:20,310 OK, come on, Mum. I'm coming. Thank you. 370 00:34:20,393 --> 00:34:23,688 At this moment, we are safe and sound in Mexico. 371 00:34:23,772 --> 00:34:28,151 But, as lovely as it all is seeming, 372 00:34:28,234 --> 00:34:32,113 I am still scared about Winter getting this surgery. 373 00:34:32,197 --> 00:34:35,158 So I'm nervous too but I just, I have faith 374 00:34:35,241 --> 00:34:36,659 that it's going to go well. 375 00:34:36,743 --> 00:34:39,913 I met the Barbie and she looks amazing. 376 00:34:39,996 --> 00:34:42,207 Seeing Kayla does... Yeah. 377 00:34:42,290 --> 00:34:45,377 ..give me hope that, you know, Winter is in good hands. 378 00:34:45,460 --> 00:34:49,756 But at the same time, she's my sister and it's scary. 379 00:34:49,839 --> 00:34:51,383 Here we are. 380 00:34:54,803 --> 00:34:55,063 2 00:33:30.280 -- 00:33:33.520 align:middle line:75% position:50% (MEXICAN-STYLE MUSIC) 381 00:35:03,186 --> 00:35:05,188 Oh my God, we got to get going. 382 00:35:05,271 --> 00:35:06,773 We gonna see some sights. Yeah. 383 00:35:09,359 --> 00:35:10,402 Let's do it. 384 00:35:10,485 --> 00:35:12,987 Alright. Let's go, Mummy. OK. 385 00:35:14,364 --> 00:35:18,284 Tomorrow is Winter's surgery and after this year 386 00:35:18,368 --> 00:35:22,455 that Winter's had the breakup, the craziness and all the stress, 387 00:35:22,539 --> 00:35:25,333 it is important for us to support her. 388 00:35:25,417 --> 00:35:29,295 It's always been important for us to support her regardless 389 00:35:29,379 --> 00:35:32,007 but, she's gonna need us even more. 390 00:35:32,090 --> 00:35:33,842 After her surgery. 391 00:35:34,759 --> 00:35:36,094 We're off! 392 00:35:37,053 --> 00:35:39,514 Let's go to a little place that we can go shopping at. 393 00:35:39,597 --> 00:35:42,017 Oh my gosh, yes. You know, I love shopping. 394 00:35:42,100 --> 00:35:44,894 Get some souvenirs. Yes, yes, yes, yes. 395 00:35:44,978 --> 00:35:46,688 Do you have the jitters? 396 00:35:46,771 --> 00:35:48,732 It's so weird. I'm pretty calm right now. 397 00:35:50,483 --> 00:35:55,155 As a mama bear, I am still terrified about Winter's surgery. 398 00:35:55,238 --> 00:35:58,074 Very nervous but I can't let Winter know. 399 00:35:58,158 --> 00:36:01,453 So I have to put on the brave face and just pretend 400 00:36:01,536 --> 00:36:03,413 like I'm not afraid. 401 00:36:03,496 --> 00:36:08,460 But I'm terrified, I'm really terrified. Secretly terrified. 402 00:36:15,925 --> 00:36:18,553 Ow, ow! OK. 403 00:36:18,636 --> 00:36:20,138 OK, let's go. 404 00:36:20,221 --> 00:36:22,891 Ew, some nasty water's dripping. 405 00:36:24,601 --> 00:36:27,395 Even though it's sketchier than I, than I thought, 406 00:36:27,479 --> 00:36:30,940 I am really enjoying living on the wild side. 407 00:36:34,819 --> 00:36:37,489 I am hoping to get some cute souvenirs. 408 00:36:39,532 --> 00:36:42,285 This is pretty cool. Look at this. 409 00:36:42,369 --> 00:36:45,497 Look. Oh my gosh, wrestling. 410 00:36:45,580 --> 00:36:50,418 Wrestling mask, Nacho. Oh my gosh. Nacho! 411 00:36:50,502 --> 00:36:54,798 I need this, I need this. I like that one. 412 00:36:54,881 --> 00:36:57,050 But they're 15 dollars each, you wanna pay 15 dollars? 413 00:36:57,133 --> 00:36:58,843 Oh, I can't pay 15 dollars. 414 00:36:58,927 --> 00:37:00,804 Come on, let's go, we'll go across the street. 415 00:37:00,887 --> 00:37:03,723 17 for two, dos? 416 00:37:06,768 --> 00:37:09,979 OK. 18 for two? 417 00:37:11,648 --> 00:37:13,608 20 for three? 418 00:37:23,284 --> 00:37:26,955 And this, hold that one. 419 00:37:27,872 --> 00:37:28,915 And this. 420 00:37:31,001 --> 00:37:33,586 It's just like her to buy the first thing that she sees. 421 00:37:35,046 --> 00:37:36,589 OK, OK. 422 00:37:36,673 --> 00:37:39,134 You think Nicole and Pedro, let them duke it out? 423 00:37:39,217 --> 00:37:41,219 This sure would help Nicole. 424 00:37:41,302 --> 00:37:44,305 This would help her. Cover that thing up. 425 00:37:45,932 --> 00:37:47,517 Mucho gracias. 426 00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:49,853 It was very nice doing business with you. 427 00:37:51,229 --> 00:37:54,482 I love it, this so amazingly awesome, is it not? 428 00:37:54,566 --> 00:37:57,527 I can't wait to give these out at Christmas. 429 00:37:59,404 --> 00:38:00,739 Hey. Hey! 430 00:38:02,574 --> 00:38:05,618 (SALSA MUSIC) 431 00:38:07,662 --> 00:38:08,997 Come on, we're so hungry. 432 00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:11,708 I know, I'm famished. This is heavy. 433 00:38:11,791 --> 00:38:14,127 I am so famished. 434 00:38:14,836 --> 00:38:18,131 I loved shopping in Tijuana. 435 00:38:19,591 --> 00:38:21,718 I'm gonna just sit this bag of BLEEP here. 436 00:38:21,801 --> 00:38:24,095 I couldn't help myself. I couldn't help myself. 437 00:38:24,179 --> 00:38:26,639 They even had hats, they had hats. 438 00:38:26,723 --> 00:38:30,185 Out of everybody, you bought the most random stuff. 439 00:38:30,268 --> 00:38:32,979 This baby right here, and Michael Jackson said 440 00:38:33,063 --> 00:38:34,689 don't stop till you get enough. 441 00:38:36,858 --> 00:38:38,735 Thank you. Thank you, thank you. 442 00:38:39,444 --> 00:38:41,946 Winter, I love that hat on you, it's so beautiful. 443 00:38:42,030 --> 00:38:43,990 Oh, well, thank you, thank you, thank you. 444 00:38:44,074 --> 00:38:46,576 Can you see the butterfly? So cute. 445 00:38:46,659 --> 00:38:49,245 I'm so glad I got it, I almost didn't get it. 446 00:38:49,329 --> 00:38:52,040 Tomorrow you're gonna have your surgery, and... 447 00:38:52,123 --> 00:38:54,793 Yep, early in the morning. It's gonna be done. 448 00:38:54,876 --> 00:38:56,461 Yep, it's your big day. 449 00:38:56,544 --> 00:38:59,422 Does Mmesoma know about your surgery? 450 00:39:01,383 --> 00:39:02,425 No. 451 00:39:03,968 --> 00:39:07,555 I definitely didn't jump straight into the whole dating thing. 452 00:39:07,639 --> 00:39:11,393 I'm taking my time just, you know, dipping my toe, testing it out. 453 00:39:11,476 --> 00:39:14,396 But I met this man named Mmesoma. 454 00:39:14,479 --> 00:39:19,609 He is 25 years old and he lives in Nigeria. 455 00:39:19,693 --> 00:39:23,279 Mmesoma reached out to me and it was kind of interesting. 456 00:39:23,363 --> 00:39:27,617 I've never really talked to someone who is literally in Africa. 457 00:39:27,701 --> 00:39:31,496 I'm not against dating someone from another country. 458 00:39:31,579 --> 00:39:35,208 If you truly love someone and you want to be with them, 459 00:39:35,291 --> 00:39:38,545 that no matter the distance, you will make it work. 460 00:39:38,628 --> 00:39:40,964 You know, kind of like fairytale. 461 00:39:43,925 --> 00:39:45,135 We haven't met him yet. 462 00:39:45,218 --> 00:39:47,387 I just, I mean, I've talked about him with you guys. 463 00:39:47,470 --> 00:39:50,223 I said that I think that he's a pretty great man. 464 00:39:50,306 --> 00:39:53,101 We've heard you giggling in my office. 465 00:39:53,184 --> 00:39:54,978 Y'all have not heard anything, don't be lying. 466 00:39:56,062 --> 00:40:01,568 I really just don't wanna expose any of my insecurities to him. 467 00:40:01,651 --> 00:40:04,154 And so I've been like shying away from like, 468 00:40:04,237 --> 00:40:07,532 anything that may make me feel a certain way. 469 00:40:07,615 --> 00:40:09,325 You don't wanna feel vulnerable around him. 470 00:40:09,409 --> 00:40:11,036 Or that I may, yeah, I don't wanna feel vulnerable. 471 00:40:11,119 --> 00:40:13,371 I don't want him to see me as someone who doesn't feel 472 00:40:13,455 --> 00:40:15,123 comfortable with themself. 473 00:40:15,832 --> 00:40:19,711 I mean she just got out of a years' long relationship. 474 00:40:19,794 --> 00:40:23,256 And we can't rush into anything and get serious. 475 00:40:23,340 --> 00:40:26,926 Like Winter's track record with picking guys, not so good. 476 00:40:27,010 --> 00:40:30,055 And the first guy that she saw, is like, 477 00:40:30,138 --> 00:40:32,682 "OK, let me waste seven years of my life with you." 478 00:40:32,766 --> 00:40:36,561 And I think that she needs to think hard before she does that again. 479 00:40:36,644 --> 00:40:37,687 That's right. 480 00:40:38,188 --> 00:40:41,024 Like, that's a big, that's very... 481 00:40:41,107 --> 00:40:42,817 Because you're scared he's gonna say don't do it. 482 00:40:42,901 --> 00:40:44,736 No, I don't know what he's gonna say. 483 00:40:45,570 --> 00:40:47,572 I really don't know what he's gonna say. 484 00:40:47,655 --> 00:40:49,866 I just don't want opinions on it. 485 00:40:49,949 --> 00:40:51,534 Mm-hm, I see. 486 00:40:51,618 --> 00:40:53,495 So. Thank you. 487 00:40:54,537 --> 00:40:57,415 That looks so delicious. Oh my God. 488 00:40:58,166 --> 00:41:00,418 So let's pray, let's pray right here and now. 489 00:41:01,628 --> 00:41:05,757 Dear Heavenly Father, I pray that you keep your hands upon Winter. 490 00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:10,387 She's going into a new life, and please be in the surgeon 491 00:41:10,470 --> 00:41:15,141 and in the assistants and let everything be well. 492 00:41:15,225 --> 00:41:17,394 Thank you. Hallelujah. Amen. 493 00:41:17,477 --> 00:41:18,603 Amen. Amen. 494 00:41:19,479 --> 00:41:21,481 OK. 495 00:41:21,981 --> 00:41:25,110 (GENTLE MUSIC) 496 00:43:39,577 --> 00:43:43,039 Since moving to the new house, Pedro's been getting on me 497 00:43:43,123 --> 00:43:45,041 a lot about cooking and cleaning. 498 00:43:45,125 --> 00:43:48,169 And I'm doing all of the wifely duties. 499 00:43:48,253 --> 00:43:52,799 I got three cookbooks and an insta pot. 500 00:43:55,844 --> 00:43:59,014 I feel like I do just as much stuff as Pedro does 501 00:43:59,097 --> 00:44:02,100 and I think that it's clear with my actions 502 00:44:02,183 --> 00:44:05,520 that I'm trying to do even more. 503 00:44:36,551 --> 00:44:40,305 I work full time and I come home, put dinner on the table. 504 00:44:40,388 --> 00:44:43,183 I'm trying to be, like superwoman. 505 00:44:43,266 --> 00:44:46,019 After he told me that I'm not doing enough, 506 00:44:46,102 --> 00:44:49,189 I started doing even more and going above and beyond. 507 00:44:49,272 --> 00:44:51,775 I think he's just trying to make me feel bad. 508 00:44:56,488 --> 00:44:58,531 To be honest, like... 509 00:45:07,123 --> 00:45:08,833 Thanks, baby. 510 00:45:19,552 --> 00:45:23,264 I never see a glimpse of the old Pedro, I feel like he's gone. 511 00:45:23,348 --> 00:45:27,811 He's so distant, he makes it hard for me to know anything about him. 512 00:45:27,894 --> 00:45:33,191 I feel like I love my husband but I don't know how 513 00:45:33,274 --> 00:45:36,152 to fix our relationship. 514 00:45:41,157 --> 00:45:44,285 Captioned by Ai-Media ai-media.tv