Winter came out of surgery with flying colours.
Hey, that's good.
You want to see Winter?
Hey.
The fact that she's waking up and talking to us, it's a good sign.
Oh, wow.
Mmesoma and I have become quite close,
but there's a part of me that's a little bit nervous
that he might not approve of the surgery.
The reason why I travelled to Mexico was to have bariatric surgery.
Oh, Mmesoma.
He's making a lot of friends at work,
and that's where he's spending a lot of his time.
He hardly like tells me anything about work,
but the way he treats me has changed.
It makes me feel like we don't have a friendship anymore.
(UPBEAT MUSIC)
I'm so ready to be back in Atlanta.
Me too. I am so ready.
At first, coming to Mexico
for weight-loss surgery was a bit scary.
Not going to... Sketchy.
But seeing how well my sister was taken care of,
I feel good about having surgery in Tijuana.
Yeah. Zoop.
Did you all learn your lesson? You should pack lightly.
God, help me.
You know, I'm actually going to miss Tijuana, Mexico.
Yeah. We had a great time.
Yeah. This was one of my favourite trips.
So a new life now.
And I feel like it's a new life, honestly.
Yeah.
I'm like literally walking into my new life.
Yeah. I really do feel better, you guys.
That's good. Like just mentally.
I can tell.
You can tell? You're lighter.
I'm lighter. Yeah.
I told Mmesoma about me getting the surgery.
And I mean, he took it pretty well.
Like, I could tell that he really cared.
It's like, he was so concerned.
That's sweet.
And really, he just like into what I was saying.
But you know, as you know, I told him after I had the surgery.
He was a little disappointed that I didn't tell him...
Oh, well.
..before the surgery. And I understand why.
He said that he could've at least said a prayer for me.
Yeah. That's so sweet.
That he's glad that I had the surgery and that I'm well now.
That's really sweet.
Are you relieved that you told him?
I am definitely relieved.
Now I don't feel like I have something to hide,
and this is me and that's that.
You know, you want to be my friend still?
Go ahead. If you don't, fine, whatever.
Oh, I accidentally talked about Jah.
Why did you end up talking about Jah?
He said, "Well, why didn't you tell me?" or something.
And I, and then I was, I got into the head space of why.
You know how Jah, he was against surgery, period.
He was not supportive.
And so I mentioned that.
The relationship I had with Jah definitely affected my confidence.
Even before I entered the relationship,
my confidence was not the best.
But I feel like over the years while,
while I was living in that environment,
it definitely went downhill.
I just, I want to never be like that ever again.
And to share this information with someone that is, at this point,
just my friend and I haven't even seen them yet, that's a big step.
You know, I was really nervous about telling him,
and I'm glad that you suggested that I tell him.
Yeah.
Because I probably wasn't going to tell him. I don't know.
I just, it was just such a, like a private matter.
Like, that's my medical. You know?
And not only is it my medical, but it's also tied up
with like previous like insecurities.
Well, it's a good that you can be vulnerable with your friend.
Mmesoma, he's a, a sweet person.
So, Winter, how you feel about flying today?
I spoke to my nurse before I left and she said that I will be fine,
but it just still makes me a little nervous.
You're going to get up and walk the aisle a little bit
during the flight.
I just don't want to be in pain.
Well, if you start to feel uncomfortable in any way,
just let us know.
OK.
Mummy, you ready to see Daddy?
I was ready to see Daddy when I left.
Well, Chantel, you miss Pedro?
You, I see you bought him a hat.
He's going to be a real cowboy.
He is a real cowboy.
Yee-haw. Yee-haw.
Since the D.R., things have been so tense with Pedro.
But I want to be proactive on making our marriage better.
I think that our problem is definitely communication,
because we hardly communicate in the home.
He's playing video games and I'm in a different room
doing who knows what.
I feel anxious to get back to Pedro so that we can work on our issues.
I don't want to let it sit.
I miss him and I am excited to see him.
I just want to get the same reaction from him.
(MAMBO MUSIC)
(GLASS SHATTERS)
Hi. Hi.
OK.
2 00:10:03.760 -- 00:10:06.840 align:middle line:75% position:50% (BRIGHT MUSIC)
We made it.
After a long day of travel, finally we're back in Atlanta
and we're ready to go home.
We are going home.
Are you going to call Mmesoma when you get home?
It was my plan to talk to him.
Mmesoma's my friend, and I'm happy that he's my friend.
But you like him more than friends.
Well, I don't know if he feels the same way.
But I know for me, it's strange to, like, like somebody
that you have not met before.
At least you and Pedro got a chance to experience each other.
I mean, but it was just like that in the beginning.
I experienced him over the phone.
I experienced him over text, social media.
So, what, did you like it when it was like that?
Oh, yeah. We liked each other.
Hello.
Because you have to learn English.
I love you, baby. I love you too.
What was your conversation language?
"What you got on?"
Who asked that? You or Pedro?
Both of us. "Show me what you got on."
"OK."
When we first were dating online,
I felt like he was a crazy person.
I even asked my friends.
I was like, "Oh, my God.
"I feel like this man is like insane.
"Look how many times he told me he loved me.
"Look how many times he told me I'm beautiful.
"I think he's crazy.
"He's probably a killer, a serial killer, how crazy he is."
But no. He was just in love.
Like, when did you officially be like, "Oh, I'm dating this guy"?
After the first trip. See?
But we didn't say we were just friends.
We said we were talking to each other.
So OK, so what's the difference? Just friends, talking?
I don't really feel... Because we were a love interest.
When my sister asked me about the beginnings of our relationship,
it makes me sad because it was so happy, so full of life.
And it just, you know, it makes you wonder what changed between
dating and now.
We knew everything about each other.
We felt like we could read each other's minds.
And now we are the furthest thing from that.
Oh, my gosh. We're almost home. I can feel it.
I'm so happy.
As I'm driving home, my phone starts to go off.
I'm receiving messages from this account
that I don't recognise on social media.
It's like as soon as I get back, then...
What is he saying?
He's saying that like that the sin of witchcraft.
He said that you're doing witchcraft?
Something like that, yeah.
Is that what he said? He's calling you a witch.
Why does he think you're a witch?
He said that he saw from God.
So he bought you flowers, and now he's calling you a witch?
Yeah.
Jah has been creating different accounts
to reach me through social media.
I blocked the accounts that I know Jah had,
but he made another account and he decided to message me.
Wow. He's, and he's trying to manipulate you.
I'm looking at what he said.
"You know how angered the Father is with you."
That God wants you to be his fool and his little dummy.
I mean, what do you think? Tell him to stop, right?
To stop. Yeah, stop messaging.
"At this point, stop messaging me."
You OK?
I just got off the plane from walking into my new life,
and then it's like my old life is just being dug back up
and it's so stressful. Give me some tissue.
Don't cry, Winter. I'm sorry that this is happening.
Look in my purse. I have tissue in there.
I feel like it is not fair.
Here I am trying to move forward, and then Jah pops up
trying to pull me back.
I want to close the door on my past and move forward.
This needs to stop.
So I come home to now this. Great.
(FUNKY MUSIC)
Oh, my God. What happened here?
Pedro.
What is all of this mess?
Um, it looks like a mess to me.
What? What happened? A disaster?
Huh.
I don't know where we're going to put it, but...
..good job, amor. Good job.
Look what I got you, honey.
I know that you're going to like this.
And open these up. Do it now, right now.
What do you think? They look good.
Perfect fit.
Do you like your gifts?
Yeah. Do you like your hat and shoes?
Yeah, I love it. How do the shoes feel?
They feel good?
I did good, right?
Pedro!
I don't like to hear that.
OK. I don't tell you what to do. Come on.
My trip was good. Winter's surgery went very well.
How's everything been with you?
Passion?
Pageant. Pageant. Pageant.
Wow.
I love to see melanated people,
you know, winning pageants and things.
But do you think that she is a good representative for the country?
Her behaviour, it's like the total opposite of a graceful,
poised pageant queen.
Really?
Has your trend of talking about your feelings...
Seeing that it's, you know, deeply bothering you
and you've been really disturbed lately, it's hard to watch.
I feel like you've been distant from me lately too,
and I don't want us to drift further apart.
I want to be able to support you as a wife.
And part of that is you're going to have to open up to me
and communicate with me... Uh-huh.
..what's going on inside.
OK?
Pedro has changed since the trip to the D.R. because he's distant.
He doesn't have open dialogue with me anymore.
Everything is surface level, if anything at all.
I don't know why Pedro doesn't want to talk to his own wife
about his feelings, but right now, he doesn't communicate with me.
We used to be in sync, and now we're not.
I want you to start opening up to me and telling me everything.
Like I'm your wife.
OK.
How can I support you if I don't know how you feel?
OK.
2 00:20:47.160 -- 00:20:50.040 align:middle line:90% position:50% (FUNKY MUSIC)
(BRIGHT MUSIC)
Pedro? Hi. How are you?
Oh my god. Fine, you?
Oh, OK. So these need to be replaced.
The sink too, right?
Yeah, yeah. I see the wood. Yes.
How big is the property?
Pedro is new and, you know, I just met him.
He's doing good, but he needs maybe a little bit more information.
Maybe he feels nervous because he's new, you know,
and he wants to try to get a good impression, you know.
The siding is in a good conditions?
Maybe they have to be replaced, this part of the wood?
I think they have like a leaking problem.
Do you think so? See the ceiling.
We can go, we can go to the second floor.
Because, you know, I see we need some upgrades.
Let me go first. Yes. Yeah.
Maybe you, we don't know what we're going to find on the second floor.
Oh, my God, it's very small.
Do you see that too in the corner?
Maybe that's leaking water. And then need windows replacement.
I just want to know if they're really willing
to low a little bit the price.
Look at this corners.
Thanks so much, madam, for coming.
No, no, no. You're good.
I think you're going to do good in this business.
Do you like it? Yes?
Do you have time for your family? Do you have children?
Oh, that's nice.
Just let me think. I'm not desperate.
I have many houses already, so I don't care.
Yes. Bye-bye.
Do you have coffee?
Thank you. Bye-bye.
(GENTLE MUSIC)
Hi.
Look what I found. Oh, I love that. It's so adorable.
Isn't that adorable?
Look at this.
Guess what.
My son and my daughter-in-law, Royal and Angenette, are expecting.
I'm about to be a glammy, y'll, yeah, a real glammy.
Yes.
Why not just "granny"? Let's be Granny.
Please don't let me cuss you out.
Granny. Granny. I'm going to my granny's.
Why don't you want to be called Grandma or Granny?
Because I am too fabulous to be called Granny.
Don't you just love it?
I know. How old is this for?
Is this for a newborn?
It's probably for, let's read. Maybe it's three month.
Royal and Angenette moved far away so that they wouldn't have
to go through their alleged stress from us
and they could go on to start to build a family.
It was a long time before I actually had a conversation
with Angenette, but our relationship has progressed
and I'm excited to be an 'ant' or an aunt.
What is, which one? Aunt? So it depends on what,
what part of the country you're in.
So in a certain part of the country, you're an 'ant',
like maybe down in the South.
But if you're like a Northerner, it's an aunt.
I'm going to be an aunt. You know what?
Pedro told me that Nicole's participating in a pageant.
(LAUGHS) Wait a minute.
Did you just say what I thought you said?
Uh-huh. In a national beauty pageant. I know.
It's laughable, right?
I think that physically, she has a chance.
I can see her beauty even though it's hard
because of how ugly she is on the inside.
She could have a chance physically, but to think that she could be
a good representation of her country,
after storming into a hotel barefoot,
throwing glass bottles, and having the police
called on her, here.
Here. Here, Glammy.
Oh, God. OK. Oh, my gosh.
She has three chances.
Really, I think she has three, slim, fat and none.
Feels like Pedro works so much all of a sudden,
like he's thrown himself into it and that's all he does.
I want you guys to remember, don't neglect quality time,
quality time together.
OK. I, I hear you.
Let me spell it out. I mean, quality time.
It's none of your business.
What? Do you know who you're talking to?
It's none of your business what I'm doing in quality time with Pedro.
It's not her place to know.
Why?
Because this is private.
I'll show you what me and Daddy do in our, in our quality time.
I don't want to see it. You want to see it?
It's right down here. I got it on my phone.
Ew. I'm sorry, but it's not your business.
It's hard to talk about baby stuff with my mum
because I'm not where I expected to be at my age.
Pedro and I are mentally not in a loving state.
We're not even physically in a capable state of making a baby.
Like, we need to start the fire back in the relationship
before we can even make a baby.
There's just no possibility of baby yet.
2 00:33:01.960 -- 00:33:05.680 align:middle line:75% position:50% (FUNKY MUSIC)
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
It's been a few weeks since getting back from Mexico.
I've been trying to really come to the table
with, "I want to make you happy.
"I want to fulfil the expectations that you have of a wife."
So I've been doing the cooking and doing the cleaning.
You know, I put my pride aside to say, "I'm going to pick up
"your dirty drawers and your socks, and try my best every day."
But his actions towards me are not changed.
Maybe he's, you know, feeling that now that I'm graduated
and I'm at a hospital, like he's playing catch-up.
I don't know what's going on with him.
Like there's some disconnect in our communication,
and it's just gotten worse and more magnified.
Like it was kind of there before, but I had the tolerance.
But now it's just more magnified. I don't know.
Good morning.
Making you your six eggs, scrambled.
Since when don't you like scrambled eggs with cheese?
Scrambled.
They're already like...
You don't want these eggs?
OK. I'll get you boiled eggs.
What time do you work?
So have you noticed anything?
Yeah. And it's a lot cleaner, huh?
Your jacket is in one place with your laptop and...
..some more of your items, so you can grab them and go.
So...
I did.
Yeah, I did.
I did put it there.
If you want more salt, you can put more salt yourself,
but I did put salt there.
Pedro, since when do you talk to me like that?
You think this is funny?
Why don't you just say, "Oh, Pinky, that's sweet that you tried..."
"..making some scrambled eggs in the morning.
"Thank you for your efforts."
Because guess what?
I'm trying to speak your love language. OK?
I'm not trying to be your servant.
Pedro, you are so ungrateful.
Yeah. You don't know how to say thank you.
OK, OK.
Pedro, you're ungrateful.
You don't know how to say thank you.
Unappreciative.
I'm not saying you have to say thank you for every little thing.
But why don't you recognise
when someone's doing something nice for you
and not be rude to them?
I have been studying you like a science project,
down to how many eggs that you eat.
I've been cleaning your dirty drawers,
picking up after you for about two weeks, doing...
..everything that a good wife should,
everything that a good wife should,
and I haven't seen any change or positive feedback from you.
So it has to be something else.
So what's going on with you, Pedro?
I want the old Pedro back.
You haven't been kissing me and you haven't been hugging me.
Because we haven't had sex in months.
So why are you doing that?
So why?
At this point, this is a dry desert
and this is not what our relationship was before.
We would make love all the time and he would, you know, "Pinky, Pinky."
He hardly even calls me that now.
We were so lovey-dovey before.
I don't know what's happened since the D.R.,
but that's when all this behaviour began.
Ola. Hello. Hello.
Hi. Ola, mijo.
I got you here, and now you need to show me some respect.
Woo. You guys are giving me indigestion.
So, Chantel, your mother and I was wondering.
It seemed like you all were very, there was a lot of tension
in between you all.
He probably was tired.
Suddenly, there's a change in the chemistry between Chantel and Pedro.
So if I need to get to the bottom of this,
I will. Trust me.
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