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[pedro speaking spanish]
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[chantel speaking spanish]
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[pedro speaking]
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[lidia speaking spanish]
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[alejandro speaking spanish]
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[nicole speaking spanish]
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[lidia speaking]
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[pedro speaking spanish]
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[speaking english]
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I wanna stay married,
it's the vow that I took.
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I want to stay married.
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[pedro speaking english]
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[chantel] heading back
to atlanta feels different
this time.
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Pedro wants a separation,
but, I don't know
what a separation means.
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So, when I get home,
that's going to be the hardest
thing to deal with.
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Pedro and I didn't talk at all
on the way home.
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Not on the plane,
not in the car,
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nothing.
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I don't get it.
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Why doesn't my husband
want to take interest in me
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after all of this effort
I've put in to
saving our marriage?
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[pedro speaking english]
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I think that, more space
is the last thing we need.
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We need to be working on
our communication
and growing together.
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He wants to grow separately,
that doesn't make any sense,
we're married.
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[pedro speaking english]
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I do not come
from a broken home.
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I have no experience
with seeing separation
in my own family.
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So, I don't have any
point of reference for this.
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I don't know
what's to become of us.
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I haven't given up hope, yet.
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I have given up effort.
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But, I haven't given up hope.
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[nicole speaking spanish]
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[alejandro speaking spanish]
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[nicole speaking]
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[alejandro speaking]
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[alejandro speaking english]
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[speaking spanish]
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[speaking english]
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[nicole speaking]
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sometimes I have thought,
like, lidia is kind of jealous
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that nicole has found
her happiness.
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Being in a relationship,
something that lidia
has never gotten in her life.
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Because she's
an unhappy woman.
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And, she wants nicole to have
the same miserable life
that she has.
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[speaking spanish]
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I made myself clear.
Like, it's now or never.
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You take it or leave it.
Like, it's your family or me.
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[nicole speaking spanish]
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[chantel] he's not even
sleeping in the same bed
with me.
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He doesn't wanna talk.
He doesn't wanna work
on anything right now.
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I will be crying at his door
at night and begging
for a relationship.
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But, it probably has done harm
to our relationship.
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You're going to end up
driving him away.
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[lidia speaking spanish]
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[speaking spanish]
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[pedro speaking english]
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[chantel] being in the house
with pedro
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feels... It's so eerie.
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Because, even though
he's in a different room
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I've always been lonely.
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He was either badgering me,
or not talking to me
and ignoring me.
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I would go to sleep alone
and wake up alone.
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So, when he moved
into a different room
it didn't feel any different.
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The only thing is,
this is a separation
and it's said.
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He wants this separation.
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It just is one more step
towards divorce.
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And, is this
what really he wants?
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Does he really
just want a divorce
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and is he just
too scared to say it?
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[lidia speaking spanish]
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[chantel] things are still
really terrible
between pedro and I.
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We don't talk,
we see each other in passing
and nobody says a thing.
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But, each day that my husband
is still in the house
it makes me feel like...
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He will want to
work things out
when he's ready.
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Maybe he does,
deep down inside,
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even though
he doesn't show it,
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feel that there's
some value in our marriage,
in our relationship.
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-[destiny] hey, girl.
-Hey, how are you?
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Since coming back
from the d.R.
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I haven't talked to my family
about what happened.
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Destiny is the only person
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that I've really
been confiding in
about my marriage.
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So, how did it go?
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Well, after I got to the d.R.
I immediately decided to,
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before going to my hotel,
meet up with lidia.
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Well, actually,
I just knocked on her door.
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-So, she didn't know
you were coming at all?
-Mmm-mmm.
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But, luckily,
she invited me in.
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-And, was really
surprisingly nice.
-Well, that's promising.
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That's the best outcome
we could have hoped for.
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The next day, pedro comes in.
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His mom called him
and told him what I was doing.
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He flew all the way
over there to confront you,
he's so extra.
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He goes on to explain that,
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I should have told her
the entire story.
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I didn't tell her
the entire story
for fear of badmouthing.
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-You were trying
to protect him, right?
-Yeah.
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He decided that he wanted us
to go out with his mom
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and tell her the entire story.
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Everything that came out
was ugly.
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But, that's what
he asked me to do.
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She stayed non-biased,
which was good.
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Yeah, 'cause
she didn't have to.
'cause that's her son.
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Mmm-hmm.
Pedro reiterated to me
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that he still wants
the separation.
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And so, I got up and I left.
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He's not even
sleeping in the same bed
with me.
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He doesn't wanna talk.
He doesn't wanna work
on anything right now.
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He doesn't
want to see me at all.
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He doesn't like...
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He told me
he doesn't like it
when I wait up
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at night for him
and sit on the couch.
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Even if all I say is,
"how was your day?"
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if he needs to be alone
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then maybe
that's what you need to do
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and you just
need to give him his space.
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You're going to end up
driving him away
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because you're
wanting the old
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relationship
and the old things
that he used to do.
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And he just
doesn't have it in him.
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It has been hard for me.
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And, I have been unsuccessful
in giving pedro any sort of
space like he wants.
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Although, he has moved into
the other bedroom
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I will be crying at his door
at night and begging
for a relationship.
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And, he is not
responsive to that.
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In fact, I do believe
it probably has done harm
to our relationship.
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I really feel desperate.
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I can't give him the spaces
because of the unknown.
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Is the space going to last
three weeks?
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Or, is it gonna last
three months?
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Or, is it gonna last
a whole year or more?
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What is the end goal?
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Are you thinking
that you want space
to prepare for a divorce?
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Or, do you think that you want
the space to clear your head
to come back together?
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-What do you want?
-I want my husband.
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Yeah.
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I wanna wake up one day
and for this all to be
a terrible dream.
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[sniffles] I wanna go to sleep
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and I want for my husband
to walk inside
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and kiss me on the cheek.
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[exhales] I can't.
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[destiny] I put on
a really good front
in front of her.
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But, I'm heartbroken that
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she is continually crying.
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I don't know what we'll do
if this marriage doesn't work.
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I think it will work.
It has to work.
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[chantel] he doesn't care
about the work
that I put in anymore.
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Like, he doesn't care
about my tears.
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Stop showing them to him.
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Because, at this point,
he doesn't deserve them.
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You need to gather yourself
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and wait till
you can have communication
without the tears.
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-It's hard to be in my room.
-I know.
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So why don't you move
in one of the...
The guest rooms?
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You've gotta recognize
those triggers.
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That might be a good idea,
actually.
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And you've gotta sit here
and say, "okay, if I can't
sleep in our bed...
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...Then I'm gonna go
to another bed."
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I want my husband,
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I want my marriage,
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and I feel like I will do
anything for it.
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Yeah, I know.
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It wasn't about being here
with chantel,
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he just wanted to be here.
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If pedro is using chantel,
and the plan has worked,
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that means the wool
has been pulled over
everybody's eyes.
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We gonna have to try
to protect our daughter.
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There's two types of divorces.
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Uncontested matters
from our firm
starts at $5,000.
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Contested matters
at my law firm
starts at $10,000.
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Yes, $10,000.
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[pedro speaking]
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hi.
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Hi, attorney hinkson.
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Nice to meet you.
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Nice to meet you,
you can have a seat.
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Yes.
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So, okay.
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You guys got married
in March of 2016.
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-Is that correct?
-Yes.
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It was a k-1 visa,
is that correct?
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Okay, and then after
you got married,
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um, when did you get
your green card?
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[hinkson] six months, okay.
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Do you recall if your wife
filled what's called
an affidavit of support?
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Okay, divorce does not change
the financial obligation.
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Yes, until either 10 years,
as far as your work history,
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or until you become
a u.S. Citizen.
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Okay, you never,
technically speaking,
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leave a marriage with nothing.
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Um, which again,
is another, you know,
false factor that people have
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when they don't believe
that they're citizens,
that that matters.
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It doesn't in regards
to the... The way
of a divorce.
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My initial thoughts
in regards to pedro's case
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is that he's entitled
to certain things
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regardless of your immigration
status.
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It's unfortunate
that when you come over here,
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a lotta people think
that you're doing it
with ill-intentions.
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I think that knowing
your rights,
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him understanding what he can
and can't get, is important.
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Now, is it your desires
to move forward at any point
with u.S. Citizenship?
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-Yes.
-Okay.
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Have you, um, and your wife
started that process?
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Okay.
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Once you've been
in the united states
for five years,
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whether you're married or not,
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you could still file
for citizenship.
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-You know?
-Her family says that
all the time about you?
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-Okay.
-Yeah. Yeah.
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So no, because at this point
you're at the five year mark.
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The longer that you are here,
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not only for immigration
purposes shows
your dedication,
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but it... I mean I would hope,
that it would've showed
dedication to her family
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as far as you're in this
for the right reasons.
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[pedro speaking]
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there's two types of divorces.
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There's what we call
uncontested and contested.
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Uncontested matters
from our firm starts
at $5,000.
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Contested matters
at my law firm
starts at $10,000.
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Okay?
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10 retainer. Initial retainer?
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That's what the, uh,
initial retainer is.
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That's sign in too.
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Yes, $10,000.
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Divorces are like a death,
right?
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It is essentially, um, the end
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of what you thought
your future was going to be.
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So people say all the time,
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"you can file this,
and, you know, I'm not
gonna divorce you.
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We're gonna, um, you know...
I'm gonna stay... We're gonna
stay married forever."
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that's not the case.
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Once you file a divorce,
and that person is served,
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you have 30 days to respond.
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If you do not respond
within 30 days,
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then we could then go
to the court and say,
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"this person didn't respond,
we want to proceed
with the divorce."
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and it still happens.
240
00:26:25,418 --> 00:26:28,669
It's not easy, but you have
to make a determination
on what's important to you.
241
00:26:39,932 --> 00:26:42,266
[thomas] your mother
wants to leave
this up against the wall.
242
00:26:42,301 --> 00:26:43,767
[karen] be careful with that.
243
00:26:43,802 --> 00:26:45,319
Hey don't try
to show off, river.
244
00:26:45,354 --> 00:26:46,654
Don't try to show off.
245
00:26:46,689 --> 00:26:49,490
Chop, chop,
we're wasting time.
246
00:26:49,525 --> 00:26:52,826
I went ahead and I... I got
the baby grand piano.
247
00:26:52,862 --> 00:26:55,579
It's finally here,
this is my big day.
248
00:26:55,615 --> 00:26:57,247
-My big day.
-Yes.
249
00:26:57,283 --> 00:27:00,818
And I can't wait to get
that baby in this house.
250
00:27:00,853 --> 00:27:04,788
River's come down to help me
and help with the delivery.
251
00:27:04,823 --> 00:27:05,956
I'm so excited.
252
00:27:09,328 --> 00:27:11,045
[river] oh,
that's a big piano,
right there.
253
00:27:11,097 --> 00:27:13,797
-[karen] yeah.
-[river] this is a bad
mama jama.
254
00:27:15,217 --> 00:27:18,302
[thomas] we do have
a musical family
and our kids love music.
255
00:27:18,337 --> 00:27:20,337
River is the lyricist.
256
00:27:20,356 --> 00:27:22,106
-And royal, he plays every--
-he can play. Yes.
257
00:27:22,141 --> 00:27:24,007
...Instrument on the planet.
258
00:27:24,026 --> 00:27:26,860
-Winter sings, but she also
plays the flute.
-Yes. Yes.
259
00:27:26,896 --> 00:27:29,279
-And chantel played viola.
-The viola, yes.
260
00:27:30,616 --> 00:27:31,865
[sighs]
261
00:27:31,901 --> 00:27:33,517
-[river] let me see what's
going on here.
-[piano key plays]
262
00:27:33,536 --> 00:27:37,204
so what, dad and I
were the first ones to know
about this piano?
263
00:27:37,239 --> 00:27:39,740
Chantel actually knew
about the piano.
264
00:27:39,792 --> 00:27:43,127
I took her to the antique shop
to kinda cheer her up.
265
00:27:43,162 --> 00:27:46,630
You know, she and pedro
they're having some...
Some issues.
266
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,584
Chantel and pedro
are definitely on our minds...
267
00:27:50,636 --> 00:27:52,386
...Since she's back
from the d.R.
268
00:27:52,421 --> 00:27:57,608
The last thing she said to me
was that she and pedro
are about to separate.
269
00:27:57,643 --> 00:28:00,043
And I... I haven't heard
anything else from her
270
00:28:00,062 --> 00:28:03,180
but I was shocked
to hear that.
271
00:28:03,215 --> 00:28:05,382
-They didn't go
to a marriage retreat.
-But where did they go?
272
00:28:05,401 --> 00:28:09,219
Your sister, she went
to the dominican republic
to get advice
273
00:28:09,271 --> 00:28:10,437
from pedro's mother.
274
00:28:11,891 --> 00:28:14,058
[thomas] pedro,
he's talking about separating.
275
00:28:14,510 --> 00:28:15,342
That's crazy.
276
00:28:15,361 --> 00:28:17,194
Well, chantel said
that's what he said,
277
00:28:17,229 --> 00:28:20,481
"because I need to grow".
278
00:28:20,516 --> 00:28:23,450
I think chantel needs
to just go a separate way.
279
00:28:23,486 --> 00:28:26,520
If he's talking
about he wants to separate,
let... Let the man go.
280
00:28:26,539 --> 00:28:28,739
He wants to separate
because he was here
for a green card,
281
00:28:28,791 --> 00:28:29,656
we all said it.
282
00:28:31,794 --> 00:28:34,044
From the start,
it wasn't about being here
with chantel,
283
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,063
he just wanted to be here.
284
00:28:36,098 --> 00:28:38,582
I have not talked to chantel
since the night she came
touse.
285
00:28:38,601 --> 00:28:41,885
And I haven't talked to pedro
in a long time.
286
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:43,804
For a second I thought
things was all right.
287
00:28:43,856 --> 00:28:45,806
I thought he was a cool guy
for a second.
288
00:28:45,858 --> 00:28:49,059
But now that I'm hearing
all this stuff,
it's like, "hold on, now.
289
00:28:49,094 --> 00:28:52,262
Pedro's who I thought
he was all along.'
290
00:28:52,281 --> 00:28:54,931
you know, if you're dealing
with somebody that doesn't
want to be with you,
291
00:28:54,950 --> 00:28:56,483
you need to just cut ties.
292
00:28:56,535 --> 00:28:58,769
I don't want anybody
to have to, uh...
293
00:28:58,788 --> 00:29:01,205
-Be used.
-...Be used and abused.
294
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:04,041
For someone to try
to destroy a person
295
00:29:04,076 --> 00:29:06,543
that risked everything
to help them.
296
00:29:06,579 --> 00:29:08,495
And then...
Then that same person,
297
00:29:08,547 --> 00:29:12,916
that you love
and that you clung to
and helped--
298
00:29:12,951 --> 00:29:15,335
-right.
-...And had their back
for over six years,
299
00:29:15,387 --> 00:29:20,808
turns on that person
and tries to completely
annihilate them.
300
00:29:20,843 --> 00:29:21,892
-That is--
-that's... That's messed up.
301
00:29:21,927 --> 00:29:23,343
...Jacked up.
302
00:29:24,230 --> 00:29:26,096
This would be
very upsetting...
303
00:29:26,766 --> 00:29:28,465
...And very crazy,
304
00:29:28,484 --> 00:29:33,821
if pedro is using chantel
and the plan has worked.
305
00:29:33,856 --> 00:29:37,441
That means the wool
has been pulled over
everybody's eyes.
306
00:29:42,298 --> 00:29:43,530
[pedro speaking]
307
00:29:51,757 --> 00:29:53,757
I know I haven't respected
your space.
308
00:30:10,626 --> 00:30:12,593
[pedro speaking]
309
00:30:44,793 --> 00:30:45,759
[phone ringing]
310
00:30:49,031 --> 00:30:49,947
[lidia speaking spanish]
311
00:30:49,982 --> 00:30:50,948
[pedro speaking spanish]
312
00:30:57,523 --> 00:30:58,906
[in spanish]
313
00:31:02,244 --> 00:31:03,110
[nicole speaking]
314
00:31:03,162 --> 00:31:04,328
[pedro speaking]
315
00:31:18,344 --> 00:31:19,877
[nicole speaking]
316
00:31:36,094 --> 00:31:37,728
[nicole speaking]
317
00:31:50,275 --> 00:31:51,708
[lidia speaking]
318
00:31:59,551 --> 00:32:01,919
[nicole in spanish]
319
00:32:12,181 --> 00:32:13,931
[in spanish]
320
00:32:27,780 --> 00:32:28,996
[in spanish]
321
00:32:34,536 --> 00:32:35,752
[in spanish]
322
00:32:36,422 --> 00:32:37,704
[pedro speaking in english]
323
00:32:58,027 --> 00:32:59,226
[in spanish]
324
00:33:02,781 --> 00:33:03,981
[in spanish]
325
00:33:22,534 --> 00:33:24,501
[in english]
326
00:33:48,644 --> 00:33:49,493
[nicole speaking in spanish]
327
00:34:50,089 --> 00:34:50,887
[softly] hey.
328
00:34:53,092 --> 00:34:53,890
How was work?
329
00:35:21,486 --> 00:35:22,285
...Now...
330
00:35:27,509 --> 00:35:28,291
Now,
331
00:35:32,998 --> 00:35:33,797
you know...
332
00:36:25,383 --> 00:36:27,150
I know I haven't
respected your space.
333
00:37:21,439 --> 00:37:24,541
Pedro, he can't even look
straight in my eyes.
334
00:37:24,576 --> 00:37:26,393
And he tells me
that he wants a divorce.
335
00:37:28,964 --> 00:37:31,281
I wonder what that
is about a person
336
00:37:31,300 --> 00:37:33,617
when they can't look
at you straight in the eyes.
337
00:37:34,803 --> 00:37:36,253
I wonder what that is.
338
00:37:37,339 --> 00:37:38,204
Why?
339
00:37:38,223 --> 00:37:39,673
Are you guilty of something?
340
00:37:44,846 --> 00:37:47,514
I didn't expect for you
to say that you wanted
a divorce from me.
341
00:37:49,818 --> 00:37:52,319
I really just wanted
to know if...
342
00:37:52,354 --> 00:37:55,388
...You valued this marriage
and were willing to work
on it,
343
00:37:55,407 --> 00:37:56,889
and the answer is no.
344
00:37:56,908 --> 00:37:59,409
So there's nothing more
we need to discuss.
345
00:37:59,444 --> 00:38:00,327
[book snapping shut]
346
00:38:14,459 --> 00:38:15,292
[shaky breathing]
347
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:20,680
[pedro speaking]
348
00:38:43,488 --> 00:38:44,404
[pedro sighs]
349
00:38:46,992 --> 00:38:49,576
I cannot think of anything
that I have done
350
00:38:49,611 --> 00:38:52,879
that warrants having pedro
ask me for a divorce.
351
00:38:53,965 --> 00:38:56,115
We just started
the separation.
352
00:38:56,134 --> 00:38:59,569
I'm starting to believe
that he's just wanted
to be single this whole time
353
00:38:59,604 --> 00:39:01,421
and hasn't had the guts
to tell me.
354
00:39:04,142 --> 00:39:05,058
[sighs]
355
00:39:19,241 --> 00:39:20,523
[chantel] what more
could I do?
356
00:39:21,743 --> 00:39:23,777
I've given you honesty.
I've given you trust.
357
00:39:23,812 --> 00:39:25,662
I've given my whole self
to you.
358
00:39:25,697 --> 00:39:26,746
I brought you here.
359
00:39:26,782 --> 00:39:29,199
When everybody else told me
you were scamming me,
360
00:39:29,234 --> 00:39:32,035
I didn't listen to them,
and I ted in you.
361
00:39:33,038 --> 00:39:34,254
I trusted him.
362
00:39:36,375 --> 00:39:38,708
[teary] I trusted my husband.
363
00:39:38,743 --> 00:39:42,095
Because he told me
that he would not leave me.
364
00:39:42,631 --> 00:39:43,713
He told me that!
365
00:39:44,516 --> 00:39:45,765
He told me that.
366
00:39:46,601 --> 00:39:48,218
He told me he would never
do that.
367
00:39:49,137 --> 00:39:50,804
[sobs]
368
00:39:50,856 --> 00:39:53,106
that's what he said,
and I believed it.
369
00:39:54,276 --> 00:39:56,559
And all the while,
like I'm just...
370
00:39:57,396 --> 00:39:58,311
...Confused.
371
00:40:13,745 --> 00:40:15,311
I really can't believe this.
372
00:40:18,183 --> 00:40:20,100
I just wanna hurt you back,
373
00:40:20,135 --> 00:40:21,701
because I feel hurt by you.
374
00:40:23,405 --> 00:40:25,472
He told me he wanted
a divorce.
375
00:40:27,075 --> 00:40:30,944
And then he just woke me up
and there was a truck outside.
376
00:40:30,979 --> 00:40:33,313
-And he said he's moving
into his apartment.
-[karen] wow.
377
00:40:33,348 --> 00:40:34,230
What?
378
00:40:34,266 --> 00:40:35,565
[karen] that's cruel.
379
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:38,134
Chantel needs
to protect herself
380
00:40:38,153 --> 00:40:39,185
and her interests.
381
00:40:39,237 --> 00:40:42,138
I wouldn't want
to really be pedro right now.
382
00:40:42,157 --> 00:40:46,276
Foul things have a way
of coming full circle.
383
00:40:47,662 --> 00:40:48,495
Chantel?
384
00:40:49,581 --> 00:40:51,331
[pedro speaking]
385
00:40:57,422 --> 00:40:58,605
chantel?
386
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:00,740
[nicole speaking in spanish]
387
00:41:07,916 --> 00:41:10,483
it is my time to take
care of myself.
388
00:41:10,519 --> 00:41:13,486
This is the last thing
that I can do for me.