1 00:00:03,347 --> 00:00:05,714 - Daddy, don't forget the popsicles. 2 00:00:05,783 --> 00:00:08,083 - We were supposed to bring popsicles? 3 00:00:10,521 --> 00:00:12,054 You are not my child. 4 00:00:16,860 --> 00:00:19,661 - Before kids, you have a strong sense of identity 5 00:00:19,730 --> 00:00:21,930 based on, you know, your hobbies and interests. 6 00:00:21,999 --> 00:00:23,965 - ASTRID: The bands you like or your job. 7 00:00:24,034 --> 00:00:25,534 - JAMES: But as you focus on raising kids, 8 00:00:25,602 --> 00:00:29,037 it feels like you become more generic. 9 00:00:29,106 --> 00:00:32,007 - ASTRID: People see you as just another mom or dad. 10 00:00:35,813 --> 00:00:38,747 Mrs. Jellinek wrote an entire recipe book? 11 00:00:38,816 --> 00:00:40,582 This is so elaborate. 12 00:00:40,651 --> 00:00:42,117 This kid made enchiladas? 13 00:00:42,186 --> 00:00:43,718 - VIV: That's Gerardo. 14 00:00:43,787 --> 00:00:46,588 He stepped on my shoe but he wants to get married. 15 00:00:46,657 --> 00:00:48,490 - Just tell Gerardo to slow his roll. 16 00:00:48,559 --> 00:00:50,258 You hope some part of your identity 17 00:00:50,327 --> 00:00:51,860 lives on through your kids, 18 00:00:51,929 --> 00:00:54,129 your ethnic and cultural heritage for example, 19 00:00:54,198 --> 00:00:55,897 but even that can get lost. 20 00:00:55,966 --> 00:00:59,401 All these recipes are so traditional. 21 00:00:59,470 --> 00:01:02,104 And we made Rice Krispie Treats. 22 00:01:02,639 --> 00:01:03,705 Viv? 23 00:01:03,774 --> 00:01:04,940 - What? 24 00:01:05,008 --> 00:01:06,741 - Why does it say you're Indigenous, 25 00:01:06,810 --> 00:01:08,076 you're part Indian. 26 00:01:08,145 --> 00:01:10,112 - VIV: We don't use that word anymore. 27 00:01:10,180 --> 00:01:11,346 - We are Indian. 28 00:01:11,415 --> 00:01:14,416 - You're not supposed to say that. 29 00:01:21,892 --> 00:01:23,291 - Hey, Felix, great game. 30 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:24,426 - Hey, what do you say, Felix? 31 00:01:24,495 --> 00:01:26,027 - Thanks, coach. - Yeah. 32 00:01:26,096 --> 00:01:27,762 You know, I'm really--I'm really surprised we beat Green 33 00:01:27,831 --> 00:01:30,031 because, you know, they're a lot better than Red. 34 00:01:30,100 --> 00:01:32,033 Well, they didn't have Felix. He's our secret weapon. 35 00:01:32,102 --> 00:01:34,136 Yeah. Secret weapons, they run in our family. 36 00:01:34,204 --> 00:01:36,538 I was pretty good. My dad was a homerun king 37 00:01:36,607 --> 00:01:38,373 and Mom, very athletic. 38 00:01:38,442 --> 00:01:40,142 Felix's mom, not my dad's mom. 39 00:01:40,210 --> 00:01:42,144 But she can jump really high. 40 00:01:42,212 --> 00:01:43,478 - Dad. - Yeah. 41 00:01:43,547 --> 00:01:44,646 You know, we have the same batting stance. 42 00:01:44,715 --> 00:01:46,081 He knows it's all in the legs. 43 00:01:46,150 --> 00:01:47,415 It goes like this. - Okay. 44 00:01:47,484 --> 00:01:48,917 See you next game, slugger. 45 00:01:48,986 --> 00:01:51,520 - Yeah, yeah. We'll see you. We'll be there. 46 00:01:51,588 --> 00:01:53,555 Hey, what do you think about Berney bats for us 47 00:01:53,624 --> 00:01:55,223 and just call each other that 48 00:01:55,292 --> 00:01:57,359 like, like Joey Bats, you know. How's that sound? 49 00:01:57,427 --> 00:01:58,727 - FELIX: Dad? - JAMES: Uh-hmm? 50 00:01:58,795 --> 00:02:00,195 When is baseball over? 51 00:02:00,264 --> 00:02:02,097 What? What do you mean when's baseball over? 52 00:02:02,166 --> 00:02:04,232 - Season just started, pal. - My tummy hurt the whole game. 53 00:02:04,301 --> 00:02:06,168 - You get two homeruns on a bad tummy, 54 00:02:06,236 --> 00:02:07,869 that's like the Jordan flu game. 55 00:02:10,641 --> 00:02:12,140 Hey. 56 00:02:12,209 --> 00:02:14,142 You know, I had a bad tummy too before games sometimes, 57 00:02:14,211 --> 00:02:16,478 you know what really helped? - Not playing? 58 00:02:16,547 --> 00:02:17,879 - Something more delicious. 59 00:02:17,948 --> 00:02:20,782 - Ice cream! - Yeah! Small scoop though. 60 00:02:20,851 --> 00:02:23,185 Sensitive gut also runs in the family. 61 00:02:23,253 --> 00:02:24,853 Let's go, buddy! 62 00:02:24,922 --> 00:02:27,355 - All right. What are we reading tonight, huh? 63 00:02:27,424 --> 00:02:28,857 Something with a real story, 64 00:02:28,926 --> 00:02:30,492 something that's not about a licensed toy? 65 00:02:30,561 --> 00:02:33,128 - Read my cookbook! - Ah, your cookbook. Yes. 66 00:02:33,197 --> 00:02:34,963 I've been meaning to talk to you about your cookbook. 67 00:02:35,032 --> 00:02:36,965 - I'm in a real book, like Barbie. 68 00:02:37,034 --> 00:02:38,300 - Or like a scientist. 69 00:02:39,269 --> 00:02:40,835 Okay. 70 00:02:40,904 --> 00:02:43,338 So I'm part Indian, which again, is different than Indigenous. 71 00:02:43,407 --> 00:02:45,140 And because I'm part Indian, 72 00:02:45,209 --> 00:02:47,008 that means that you're part Indian too. 73 00:02:47,077 --> 00:02:49,211 People from India are Indian. 74 00:02:49,279 --> 00:02:51,713 - Dad is Indian? - ASTRID: No, not Daddy, 75 00:02:51,782 --> 00:02:54,449 but Felix and, and Dawn auntie and Corey. 76 00:02:54,518 --> 00:02:56,551 - Uncle Bo's a citizen of the world. 77 00:02:56,620 --> 00:02:58,220 - Yeah. Uncle Bo's also from Winnipeg. 78 00:02:58,288 --> 00:02:59,521 - And I'm from India. - ASTRID: Well, you're not 79 00:02:59,590 --> 00:03:00,989 from India exactly. 80 00:03:01,058 --> 00:03:02,324 Nanima was born in England, 81 00:03:02,392 --> 00:03:04,292 but her parents were born in India. 82 00:03:04,361 --> 00:03:06,461 And you and me are part Indian. 83 00:03:06,530 --> 00:03:07,963 - I thought we were Canadian. 84 00:03:08,031 --> 00:03:09,364 - ASTRID: Yeah, we are. 85 00:03:09,433 --> 00:03:11,733 It also is important where your family lived. 86 00:03:11,802 --> 00:03:15,036 So if Charlotte from Karate lived in India, 87 00:03:15,105 --> 00:03:16,738 she would be Indian too? 88 00:03:16,807 --> 00:03:19,374 - Charlotte from Karate lived in India for like 10 years, 89 00:03:19,443 --> 00:03:20,909 and then did a lot of paperwork. 90 00:03:20,978 --> 00:03:22,811 She could technically become a citizen, I guess. 91 00:03:22,879 --> 00:03:25,013 But being Indian is... 92 00:03:26,917 --> 00:03:27,983 not skin color. 93 00:03:28,051 --> 00:03:29,451 - If you like spicy food? 94 00:03:29,519 --> 00:03:33,021 - Sure. Yes. Yup. Let's go with that. That one. 95 00:03:33,090 --> 00:03:34,689 So a quick recap, 96 00:03:34,758 --> 00:03:38,893 you are English, Scottish, and East Indian, and Canadian. 97 00:03:38,962 --> 00:03:40,929 - And I'm a cat named Ocean. 98 00:03:41,832 --> 00:03:44,199 - Indian Ocean? - VIV: No. 99 00:03:54,845 --> 00:03:56,945 - So the ethnicity talk went well? 100 00:03:57,014 --> 00:04:00,282 - I confused us both so much. Viv forgot she was even human. 101 00:04:00,350 --> 00:04:02,250 - Uh-hmm. 102 00:04:02,319 --> 00:04:04,052 - ASTRID: What's that for? - Felix. 103 00:04:04,121 --> 00:04:06,655 Our big guy is carrying the whole team on his shoulders 104 00:04:06,723 --> 00:04:08,523 and it's upsetting his tum-tum. - Yeah. 105 00:04:08,592 --> 00:04:10,525 He barely even touched his dinner, poor guy. 106 00:04:10,594 --> 00:04:12,127 - Pre-game jitters runs in the family. 107 00:04:12,195 --> 00:04:14,429 All elite athletes get them. 108 00:04:14,498 --> 00:04:17,065 - Do all elite athletes also get knee pain from driving? 109 00:04:17,134 --> 00:04:19,501 - We are both sensitive stomached athletes. 110 00:04:19,569 --> 00:04:20,969 It happens all the time. 111 00:04:21,038 --> 00:04:22,971 Cowboy Cerrone, he puked before every big fight. 112 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:25,040 Glenn Hall, notorious pre-game vomiter, 113 00:04:25,108 --> 00:04:27,375 and Bill Russell the goat, he hurled before every big game. 114 00:04:27,444 --> 00:04:30,078 - But those people are paid to puke. 115 00:04:30,147 --> 00:04:31,646 Felix is supposed to be doing this for fun. 116 00:04:31,715 --> 00:04:35,684 - And throwing up makes room for all the fun. 117 00:04:35,752 --> 00:04:37,485 - Don't say that to our kids. 118 00:04:40,757 --> 00:04:42,524 - MS. JELLINEK: Out you go, Viv. Sorry you had to wait. 119 00:04:42,592 --> 00:04:44,326 Took her a while to find her coat. 120 00:04:44,394 --> 00:04:46,628 - Yeah, that's not her coat, or her shoes. 121 00:04:46,697 --> 00:04:47,696 - Oh no. 122 00:04:47,764 --> 00:04:50,865 Viv, go find your things. 123 00:04:50,934 --> 00:04:52,901 She does that sometimes. - It's cool. 124 00:04:52,969 --> 00:04:54,469 Some of the stuff she brings home is pretty nice. 125 00:04:54,538 --> 00:04:55,970 - She also pretends to feed sandwiches 126 00:04:56,039 --> 00:04:57,572 to her shoes sometimes. 127 00:04:57,641 --> 00:04:59,374 As long as no one's eating glue, I feel pretty good. 128 00:04:59,443 --> 00:05:02,077 - Yeah, totally. She's, she's also really cool 129 00:05:02,145 --> 00:05:04,279 and smart, and strong, right? 130 00:05:04,348 --> 00:05:05,747 - She's great. 131 00:05:05,816 --> 00:05:08,516 - Love the class recipe book, by the way. 132 00:05:08,585 --> 00:05:10,285 I just had one small issue. 133 00:05:10,354 --> 00:05:13,488 - Sometimes an eggplant emoji just means eggplant, you know? 134 00:05:13,557 --> 00:05:14,989 - No. 135 00:05:15,058 --> 00:05:18,226 I think--I think Viv told you that she was Indigenous. 136 00:05:19,629 --> 00:05:20,995 She's not. 137 00:05:21,064 --> 00:05:22,797 I just--I would hate for anyone to be offended. 138 00:05:22,866 --> 00:05:25,633 So if you wouldn't mind, reprinting Viv's page-- 139 00:05:25,702 --> 00:05:29,003 - Can I be real with you? I paid for the printing myself. 140 00:05:29,072 --> 00:05:32,240 Crazy, I know, but we are severely underfunded. 141 00:05:32,309 --> 00:05:34,642 Did you get my email about donating pencils 142 00:05:34,711 --> 00:05:36,478 and spare Kleenex? - It's just one page. 143 00:05:36,546 --> 00:05:38,713 - Exactly. Parents are only gonna read 144 00:05:38,782 --> 00:05:40,482 their own kid's page, right? 145 00:05:40,550 --> 00:05:42,183 You probably can't even name another recipe from the book. 146 00:05:42,252 --> 00:05:45,086 - Well, the pasta puttanesca really stood out. 147 00:05:45,155 --> 00:05:48,256 That's Italian for pasta of the prostitutes. 148 00:05:48,325 --> 00:05:50,592 - Yeah. - Look, maybe we just remove 149 00:05:50,660 --> 00:05:52,260 Viv's page from the book. 150 00:05:52,329 --> 00:05:54,229 - What? - ASTRID: Hey, 151 00:05:54,297 --> 00:05:55,964 nice coat. It's a keeper. 152 00:05:56,032 --> 00:05:58,466 - I wanna be in the book. 153 00:05:58,535 --> 00:05:59,734 - All right. New plan. 154 00:05:59,803 --> 00:06:01,669 If I pay for the printing, 155 00:06:01,738 --> 00:06:04,139 can you make sure that gets to all the other parents? Please? 156 00:06:04,207 --> 00:06:08,009 - Can you sweeten the deal with, say, some Kleenex? 157 00:06:08,078 --> 00:06:11,279 - Yes. We failed you as a society. 158 00:06:12,048 --> 00:06:13,281 - Hmm. 159 00:06:20,524 --> 00:06:22,457 - ASTRID: Is it gonna be much longer, Dawn? 160 00:06:22,526 --> 00:06:23,858 - DAWN: Not much, 161 00:06:23,927 --> 00:06:26,327 but it's important to prepare sushi properly. 162 00:06:26,396 --> 00:06:28,696 I heard about a man who developed an infection 163 00:06:28,765 --> 00:06:31,933 from eating tainted sushi and had his arm amputated. 164 00:06:32,002 --> 00:06:33,134 - I'm gonna eat my own arm. 165 00:06:33,203 --> 00:06:34,536 - COREY: Knowing the history 166 00:06:34,604 --> 00:06:37,939 feeds the stomach and the mind. 167 00:06:38,008 --> 00:06:40,241 - Speaking of super authentic meals, 168 00:06:40,310 --> 00:06:42,243 I was actually thinking that I should teach the kids 169 00:06:42,312 --> 00:06:43,645 one of our traditional family recipes. 170 00:06:43,713 --> 00:06:45,814 - Rice Krispie Treats? 171 00:06:45,882 --> 00:06:48,750 They were your favorite. The secret's the Rice Krispies. 172 00:06:48,819 --> 00:06:50,785 - No. I was thinking chana bhaturas. 173 00:06:50,854 --> 00:06:52,253 - NISHA: And smell up the house with frying? 174 00:06:52,322 --> 00:06:53,555 Just order from Little India. 175 00:06:53,623 --> 00:06:54,889 Hey, Viv, dining room. 176 00:06:54,958 --> 00:06:56,491 - Okay. - BO: Yo. I help Corey 177 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:57,892 with his cooking videos. 178 00:06:57,961 --> 00:06:59,060 I can teach you to make a mean aloo gobi. 179 00:06:59,129 --> 00:07:00,528 - Nope. - Big no. 180 00:07:00,597 --> 00:07:01,830 How are we supposed to pass on traditions 181 00:07:01,898 --> 00:07:03,364 if we don't know what they are? 182 00:07:03,433 --> 00:07:05,300 - Oh, please. Soon, everybody will intermarry 183 00:07:05,368 --> 00:07:07,001 and everyone will be the same shade of tan 184 00:07:07,070 --> 00:07:08,570 and everyone will eat nutrition pills. 185 00:07:08,638 --> 00:07:10,238 - That sounds terrible. 186 00:07:10,307 --> 00:07:11,639 Except for the pills part, 187 00:07:11,708 --> 00:07:13,541 I would literally eat anything right now. 188 00:07:13,610 --> 00:07:14,576 - I mean it. 189 00:07:14,644 --> 00:07:15,810 Look at us. 190 00:07:15,879 --> 00:07:18,079 Hey, that's a family tradition. 191 00:07:18,148 --> 00:07:19,547 White husbands. 192 00:07:19,616 --> 00:07:21,549 - Am I a fetish? 193 00:07:21,618 --> 00:07:23,251 - Don't you feel like we're dropping the ball 194 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:25,720 on our heritage? - Your name is Astrid 195 00:07:25,789 --> 00:07:27,222 from Scandinavia. 196 00:07:27,290 --> 00:07:29,757 I'm named after Tony Orlando's backup singers. 197 00:07:29,826 --> 00:07:31,426 We're not the ones who dropped the ball. 198 00:07:31,495 --> 00:07:33,895 - Well, you know what? I--I'm picking the ball back up. 199 00:07:33,964 --> 00:07:36,798 I'm going to teach Viv how to make chana bhaturas 200 00:07:36,867 --> 00:07:40,034 and other important things. 201 00:07:40,103 --> 00:07:41,369 - Hey, Felix. 202 00:07:41,438 --> 00:07:43,905 When is your baseball game tomorrow? 203 00:07:43,974 --> 00:07:45,940 - Baseball's boring. 204 00:07:46,009 --> 00:07:47,509 - No. Wait, wait. What do you mean? 205 00:07:47,577 --> 00:07:49,077 We're, we're having such a great time together, 206 00:07:49,145 --> 00:07:51,346 and you're so good at it. He's amazing. 207 00:07:52,549 --> 00:07:55,717 - Fine. Let's go to stupid baseball. 208 00:07:57,854 --> 00:07:59,554 - It's tomorrow, pal. 209 00:08:00,524 --> 00:08:02,323 Stupid baseball is tomorrow. 210 00:08:06,630 --> 00:08:08,196 and because you're legally obligated. 211 00:08:08,265 --> 00:08:10,164 But there's no law that makes kids 212 00:08:10,233 --> 00:08:12,901 eat the food that you serve, so a lot of it gets wasted. 213 00:08:14,638 --> 00:08:16,538 - JAMES: There's so much science about which foods 214 00:08:16,606 --> 00:08:18,740 have what nutrients, but you can make a whole food pyramid 215 00:08:18,808 --> 00:08:20,174 of the stuff, they won't eat. - ASTRID: Oh, God. 216 00:08:20,243 --> 00:08:21,709 Food that touched on the plae 217 00:08:21,778 --> 00:08:23,511 and uneaten snacks from school lunches. 218 00:08:23,580 --> 00:08:25,513 Stuff that was too hot, or too green, or too mushy. 219 00:08:25,582 --> 00:08:27,415 - JAMES: Stuff they didn't eat, but we saved them 220 00:08:27,484 --> 00:08:29,517 to eat later but then forgot about and it went bad, 221 00:08:29,586 --> 00:08:31,052 and that one's our fault. - ASTRID: Yeah. 222 00:08:31,121 --> 00:08:32,687 You make chicken tenders and fries 223 00:08:32,756 --> 00:08:34,055 three nights a week because they love it. 224 00:08:34,124 --> 00:08:35,957 JAMES: Nope. Viv hates that. 225 00:08:38,161 --> 00:08:39,928 - NISHA: You're missing Corey's talent show. 226 00:08:39,996 --> 00:08:41,763 - I know. Uh 227 00:08:41,831 --> 00:08:43,331 Mom, I was serious about making the chanas. 228 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:44,999 Can I have the recipe? - There's no recipe. 229 00:08:45,068 --> 00:08:47,101 I can tell you the ingredients and how to cook it. 230 00:08:47,170 --> 00:08:48,603 - That's literally what a recipe is. 231 00:08:48,672 --> 00:08:50,204 - Yeah. But no, no, it won't be right. 232 00:08:50,273 --> 00:08:53,341 I don't know measurements, you taste as you go. 233 00:08:53,410 --> 00:08:54,842 Why don't you come over with the kids? 234 00:08:54,911 --> 00:08:56,444 We'll spend the day together cooking and, 235 00:08:56,513 --> 00:08:57,946 and Corey can turn it into one of his videos. 236 00:08:58,014 --> 00:08:59,280 - No, God. No, no, no. 237 00:08:59,349 --> 00:09:00,915 I didn't want it to be this big thing. 238 00:09:00,984 --> 00:09:03,918 I just want it to be this very special intimate, 239 00:09:03,987 --> 00:09:06,020 passing down family wisdom moment 240 00:09:06,089 --> 00:09:09,157 that Viv can look back on years from now and think, 241 00:09:09,225 --> 00:09:11,459 "God, she was a good mom. What a good mom." 242 00:09:11,528 --> 00:09:12,660 - Do you have any of those 243 00:09:12,729 --> 00:09:14,362 what a great mom memories with me? 244 00:09:14,431 --> 00:09:15,697 - Uh-hmm. 245 00:09:15,765 --> 00:09:17,365 Recipe, please. 246 00:09:17,434 --> 00:09:19,434 - Bitoo , Indian-cooking is all about instinct. 247 00:09:19,502 --> 00:09:21,636 - I'm Indian. I have instincts. 248 00:09:24,107 --> 00:09:25,673 Overshot the wasabi. 249 00:09:26,476 --> 00:09:27,976 Oh, my brain! 250 00:09:29,212 --> 00:09:30,211 - Yeah. 251 00:09:31,181 --> 00:09:32,647 - Look at that aim. 252 00:09:32,716 --> 00:09:33,881 Heads up. 253 00:09:35,952 --> 00:09:37,952 - Do I have to play baseball? 254 00:09:38,021 --> 00:09:39,454 - No, you don't have to play baseball. 255 00:09:39,522 --> 00:09:41,122 I just thought maybe you wanna play catch, 256 00:09:41,191 --> 00:09:42,390 but only if you want. 257 00:09:42,459 --> 00:09:43,925 - Okay. 258 00:09:43,994 --> 00:09:45,960 - Okay. Actually, I don't know if I can play baseball 259 00:09:46,029 --> 00:09:48,029 because I have a little crink in my back and it's bothering me. 260 00:09:48,098 --> 00:09:49,464 Wait. 261 00:09:49,532 --> 00:09:52,400 What? What's that? Heads up. 262 00:09:53,336 --> 00:09:54,602 So Felix Berney. 263 00:09:55,705 --> 00:09:57,805 Fans wanna know. Baseball. 264 00:09:57,874 --> 00:10:00,441 Do you hate it, and is it your dad's fault? 265 00:10:00,510 --> 00:10:03,645 - I don't hate baseball. - Yes, it's fun, right? 266 00:10:03,713 --> 00:10:05,279 - I guess. It's just... 267 00:10:05,348 --> 00:10:07,115 Sometimes I wanna do other things. 268 00:10:07,183 --> 00:10:09,584 - Right. Like how Dennis Rodman 269 00:10:09,653 --> 00:10:12,086 would wrestle for the WWE just for a change of pace. 270 00:10:12,155 --> 00:10:13,588 - Who did what? 271 00:10:15,325 --> 00:10:16,457 - Sands of Time, 272 00:10:16,526 --> 00:10:18,559 buried a lot of unique treasures. 273 00:10:20,063 --> 00:10:21,396 My point is, I don't wanna force you 274 00:10:21,464 --> 00:10:22,930 to do something you don't wanna do, 275 00:10:22,999 --> 00:10:25,033 but also I don't want you to give up something 276 00:10:25,101 --> 00:10:27,101 that might give you years of pleasure 277 00:10:27,170 --> 00:10:29,270 just because you're like a little bored of it. 278 00:10:31,107 --> 00:10:32,674 Oh, my God. 279 00:10:32,742 --> 00:10:34,175 Did you see that? That curve. 280 00:10:34,244 --> 00:10:36,444 - Curve dance. - JAMES: Yeah. There we go. 281 00:10:36,513 --> 00:10:37,879 Now we're having fun. 282 00:10:37,947 --> 00:10:39,781 Okay, high heater coming in. 283 00:10:41,618 --> 00:10:42,817 Felix? 284 00:10:49,259 --> 00:10:50,892 - Do they sell freezies? 285 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:52,593 What's all this weird stuff? 286 00:10:52,662 --> 00:10:55,263 - It's not weird, sweetie, it's Indian. 287 00:11:03,273 --> 00:11:04,505 Excuse me. Can you help me? 288 00:11:04,574 --> 00:11:06,774 I'm looking for ground cilantro. 289 00:11:06,843 --> 00:11:08,142 Oh, wait, that's not the right word. 290 00:11:08,211 --> 00:11:10,378 It's not coriander. 291 00:11:10,447 --> 00:11:12,413 Tip of my tongue. 292 00:11:12,482 --> 00:11:13,715 Dhaniya. 293 00:11:13,783 --> 00:11:15,249 Ground dhaniya, where can I find that? 294 00:11:15,318 --> 00:11:17,118 I don't know. I don't work here. 295 00:11:17,187 --> 00:11:18,853 - I'm sorry. I just thought-- 296 00:11:18,922 --> 00:11:20,621 I know what you thought. 297 00:11:24,227 --> 00:11:28,162 - I wasn't being racist. I was just being stupid. 298 00:11:28,231 --> 00:11:31,833 Like wearing a red vest at a store you don't work at. 299 00:11:31,901 --> 00:11:36,003 Oh, what you get there, my little bitoo? 300 00:11:36,072 --> 00:11:38,806 Something for Nana G? 301 00:11:38,875 --> 00:11:40,842 - Can I buy these big chips? 302 00:11:46,783 --> 00:11:49,217 Meow. Meow. 303 00:11:49,285 --> 00:11:52,453 - Excuse me. Where's the international aisle? 304 00:11:52,522 --> 00:11:53,921 Next one over? 305 00:11:53,990 --> 00:11:55,189 - You work here, right? 306 00:11:55,258 --> 00:11:56,724 - Yeah. 307 00:11:56,793 --> 00:11:59,026 - ASTRID: Yeah. Some people are just vest people. 308 00:12:00,296 --> 00:12:05,099 So do they have ground dhaniya, cori--cilantro? 309 00:12:05,168 --> 00:12:07,001 Damn it. Is it all over there? 310 00:12:07,070 --> 00:12:09,403 All spices are in the international aisle, 311 00:12:09,472 --> 00:12:11,005 except for these. 312 00:12:11,074 --> 00:12:13,508 - ASTRID: Salt, pepper, and everything 313 00:12:13,576 --> 00:12:15,510 bagel seasoning. Yup. That tracks. 314 00:12:18,047 --> 00:12:20,248 All right, Kitty. Let's travel abroad. 315 00:12:29,292 --> 00:12:30,825 - Hey. - Hi. 316 00:12:30,894 --> 00:12:32,293 - I thought you were going to an Indian grocery store? 317 00:12:32,362 --> 00:12:34,128 - Yeah, I did. - Well, 318 00:12:34,197 --> 00:12:36,731 but this is from Gero's. - Doy, James? 319 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:39,200 I got this stuff from Gero's because we're a Gero's family. 320 00:12:39,269 --> 00:12:40,535 - Hey. I thought we talked about this. 321 00:12:40,603 --> 00:12:42,804 The doys are for others. 322 00:12:42,872 --> 00:12:45,173 Where's Viv? - She's using the litter box. 323 00:12:45,241 --> 00:12:48,242 - You know, I am respecting her commitment. 324 00:12:48,311 --> 00:12:49,944 - I know. - Well, well, how do we-- 325 00:12:50,013 --> 00:12:51,546 what can--how can I help? Where--what--how I-- 326 00:12:51,614 --> 00:12:52,947 I don't know. 327 00:12:53,016 --> 00:12:54,782 - I think what I'll do is just access 328 00:12:54,851 --> 00:12:56,984 the deep well of information from my ancestors 329 00:12:57,053 --> 00:12:59,320 from around the world. 330 00:12:59,389 --> 00:13:01,455 - Google. I see. - Google. 331 00:13:01,524 --> 00:13:03,691 - You know what? I hear is an excellent resource. 332 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:05,259 Delicious Corey's kitchen. 333 00:13:05,328 --> 00:13:07,428 - Let's do that. Yeah - Uh-huh. 334 00:13:09,165 --> 00:13:10,698 - Today, me and daddy 335 00:13:10,767 --> 00:13:13,501 are gonna make authentic Indian aloo gobi. 336 00:13:13,570 --> 00:13:15,269 - Namaste, Corey. - Namaste, Daddy. 337 00:13:15,338 --> 00:13:17,138 - I hate it. No. - Sorry. So sorry. My bad. 338 00:13:17,207 --> 00:13:18,372 - I think I'm just gonna wing it. 339 00:13:18,441 --> 00:13:19,907 - Yeah. - Me, Viv, 340 00:13:19,976 --> 00:13:22,210 our Indian instincts making chana bhaturas. 341 00:13:22,278 --> 00:13:24,045 - And I'm gonna follow my instincts 342 00:13:24,113 --> 00:13:25,947 by having the phone tell me the directions to Felix's game. 343 00:13:26,015 --> 00:13:27,882 I believe in you. - Nah you. 344 00:13:31,821 --> 00:13:33,654 - NISHA: Hello? - Hi, Mom. 345 00:13:37,727 --> 00:13:40,294 - Okay. Let's do this! 346 00:13:42,232 --> 00:13:43,364 Time to go, pal. What's happening? 347 00:13:43,433 --> 00:13:45,032 You in the zone? 348 00:13:45,101 --> 00:13:47,435 Am I distracting you? - My toes are itchy. 349 00:13:47,503 --> 00:13:49,637 - Okay. I think that's a solvable problem. 350 00:13:49,706 --> 00:13:51,405 Let's get out there and scratch them toes. 351 00:13:54,677 --> 00:13:56,143 You sure that's all that's bothering you, buddy? 352 00:13:56,212 --> 00:13:58,980 - I just don't feel like playing, Dad. 353 00:13:59,048 --> 00:14:01,449 - Okay. Okay. I understand that. I do. 354 00:14:01,517 --> 00:14:03,050 But perseverance is also important 355 00:14:03,119 --> 00:14:04,485 and we've never beaten Blue before, 356 00:14:04,554 --> 00:14:05,920 and they're very smug. 357 00:14:05,989 --> 00:14:09,357 So I just wanna make sure that you're sure. 358 00:14:10,293 --> 00:14:11,325 - Are you mad? 359 00:14:11,394 --> 00:14:14,996 - No, no. Son, no. 360 00:14:15,064 --> 00:14:16,597 I just want you to find something that you love, 361 00:14:16,666 --> 00:14:18,065 doesn't have to be baseball. 362 00:14:18,134 --> 00:14:19,867 Could be dancing. 363 00:14:19,936 --> 00:14:21,602 - I wanna drive a tank. 364 00:14:23,306 --> 00:14:25,439 - Okay. I'll see if there are lessons for that. 365 00:14:25,508 --> 00:14:26,941 Let's just go home. - Okay. 366 00:14:27,010 --> 00:14:28,776 - Okay. I gotta just quickly tell your coach 367 00:14:28,845 --> 00:14:30,478 that we're not coming. - Hey, guys. 368 00:14:30,546 --> 00:14:32,980 We're gonna beat Blue today. I can feel it. 369 00:14:33,049 --> 00:14:34,315 My guy. 370 00:14:36,853 --> 00:14:38,519 - You know, let's just go straight home. 371 00:14:40,089 --> 00:14:43,391 - Okay. The base of all good Indian cooking is the masala. 372 00:14:43,459 --> 00:14:45,059 - Great. What is in that? 373 00:14:45,128 --> 00:14:47,461 - Tomatoes, onion, jeera. 374 00:14:47,530 --> 00:14:49,363 - As far as quantity is concerned, 375 00:14:49,432 --> 00:14:51,933 I know we're using our instincts and my instinct 376 00:14:52,001 --> 00:14:55,503 is telling me a quarter teaspoon of ground jeera. 377 00:14:55,571 --> 00:14:58,139 Half a teaspoon. One spoon. Give me a clue, woman. 378 00:14:58,207 --> 00:15:00,074 - I'm half-Indian. 379 00:15:00,143 --> 00:15:01,309 - You don't say. 380 00:15:01,377 --> 00:15:02,777 Okay then, half. 381 00:15:02,845 --> 00:15:05,479 - That's very cute. She's actually a quarter. 382 00:15:05,548 --> 00:15:06,981 So is it actually a quarter? 383 00:15:07,050 --> 00:15:08,683 - Dawn, I need you to chop more ginger. 384 00:15:08,751 --> 00:15:09,717 - DAWN: On it. 385 00:15:09,786 --> 00:15:11,319 So exciting. 386 00:15:11,387 --> 00:15:14,755 Do I smell a crossover with Delicious Corey's Kitchen. 387 00:15:14,824 --> 00:15:16,324 Looking good, bitoo. - ASTRID: Mom, Mom. 388 00:15:16,392 --> 00:15:18,526 You gotta wait for me. - Chulas wait for no one. 389 00:15:18,594 --> 00:15:21,595 Okay, Viv, what's next? - Let's see. 390 00:15:22,799 --> 00:15:24,131 These. 391 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:26,267 - What is that? - Chilies, and garam masala. 392 00:15:26,336 --> 00:15:27,969 - DAWN: Bo makes some spicy mango cocktail 393 00:15:28,037 --> 00:15:30,204 with garam masala. - Oh, that sounds horrible. 394 00:15:30,273 --> 00:15:31,939 - It's not great. - ASTRID: But hold on, 395 00:15:32,008 --> 00:15:33,674 can we just--because I--Mom, I need to know the amounts 396 00:15:33,743 --> 00:15:34,742 and you're going too fast. 397 00:15:34,811 --> 00:15:36,377 - Can I put these in? 398 00:15:36,446 --> 00:15:38,412 - NISHA: Yup. Go ahead, bitoo. - ASTRID: You don't--Mom, 399 00:15:38,481 --> 00:15:39,981 this whole thing would be a lot easier 400 00:15:40,049 --> 00:15:41,716 if you bothered to teach us when we were kids. 401 00:15:41,784 --> 00:15:45,252 - Wow. I'm glad I'm the one holding the knife. 402 00:15:45,321 --> 00:15:48,089 - VIV: I want to put Rice Krispies in. 403 00:15:48,157 --> 00:15:49,890 - Viv, we gotta follow the recipe, 404 00:15:49,959 --> 00:15:51,525 whatever the hell that is. - But to be fair, 405 00:15:51,594 --> 00:15:54,061 she did try to teach us. - No, she didn't. 406 00:15:54,130 --> 00:15:57,264 - Yes, I did, but you girls never wanted to learn. 407 00:15:57,333 --> 00:15:59,400 Every time I said we were having Indian food, 408 00:15:59,469 --> 00:16:01,068 there'd be such moans and groans. 409 00:16:01,137 --> 00:16:03,304 You said you wanted hotdogs and macaroni and cheese 410 00:16:03,373 --> 00:16:04,905 like your friends. - Not all of the time. 411 00:16:04,974 --> 00:16:06,841 - When are we making Krispie Treats? 412 00:16:06,909 --> 00:16:08,309 - Wait. Viv, not now. - No, no, no. 413 00:16:08,378 --> 00:16:09,877 We would have Indian food once a week, 414 00:16:09,946 --> 00:16:11,712 but you were embarrassed of the smells 415 00:16:11,781 --> 00:16:13,114 and the yellow fingernails, 416 00:16:13,182 --> 00:16:15,549 and said you wanted to eat normal food. 417 00:16:15,618 --> 00:16:17,585 So, one day I just stopped. 418 00:16:19,689 --> 00:16:21,956 - Viv, Viv, Viv. No. Don't, Viv... 419 00:16:33,036 --> 00:16:35,503 - NISHA: Leave it. We can start over. 420 00:16:35,571 --> 00:16:37,138 - ASTRID: Let's just forget it. 421 00:16:37,206 --> 00:16:39,874 It's not like Viv is gonna eat the chanas anyway. 422 00:16:39,942 --> 00:16:41,375 Why would she? 423 00:16:41,444 --> 00:16:43,844 Most Indian thing we have is chai. 424 00:16:43,913 --> 00:16:46,213 It's from Starbucks. - It's not a big deal. 425 00:16:46,282 --> 00:16:47,848 - Maybe not for you, Mom. 426 00:16:47,917 --> 00:16:49,817 You go out in the world and people know who you are. 427 00:16:49,886 --> 00:16:51,385 Those people at the Indian store 428 00:16:51,454 --> 00:16:52,953 did not even know that I was Indian. 429 00:16:53,022 --> 00:16:54,889 And they did think that I was racist. 430 00:16:54,957 --> 00:16:57,491 - Calling them those people doesn't help. 431 00:17:00,596 --> 00:17:03,230 - I get called exotic. 432 00:17:03,299 --> 00:17:05,366 Which means pretty but not quite why. 433 00:17:05,435 --> 00:17:07,234 - Well, that describes me to a T. 434 00:17:07,303 --> 00:17:09,470 - You think I don't have to prove myself, 435 00:17:09,539 --> 00:17:12,073 a brown woman in the Western world? 436 00:17:12,141 --> 00:17:16,177 Beta, who cares about everybody else? 437 00:17:16,245 --> 00:17:19,747 I know exactly who you are, my daughter, 438 00:17:19,816 --> 00:17:22,950 strong, independent, 439 00:17:23,019 --> 00:17:24,785 unable to cook in two cultures. 440 00:17:24,854 --> 00:17:28,222 - Well, I burnt pad thai, so, make that three. 441 00:17:32,061 --> 00:17:35,496 Excuse me. I gotta go apologize to a cat. 442 00:17:38,868 --> 00:17:40,201 Hey, Viv. 443 00:17:46,876 --> 00:17:49,243 Meow. Meow, meow. 444 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:52,713 Well, I guess Viv left. 445 00:17:52,782 --> 00:17:55,382 Oh, well, at least I get to keep all her toys. 446 00:17:55,451 --> 00:17:57,885 - No, you can't. I'm right here. 447 00:17:57,954 --> 00:18:00,454 - There you are. - I'm sorry I messed up. 448 00:18:00,523 --> 00:18:02,389 - Hey, you didn't. 449 00:18:02,458 --> 00:18:04,458 I'm the one who made a mess of things. 450 00:18:07,230 --> 00:18:08,829 Rice Krispie Treat? 451 00:18:08,898 --> 00:18:12,700 - I know these aren't Indian but I really like them. 452 00:18:12,768 --> 00:18:14,802 - You know, my dad used to make these 453 00:18:14,871 --> 00:18:16,070 for me when I was little. 454 00:18:16,139 --> 00:18:18,606 - Was he Indian? Can dads be Indian? 455 00:18:18,674 --> 00:18:21,609 - My dad wasn't Indian, but some dads are, 456 00:18:21,677 --> 00:18:23,277 like, half a billion of them. 457 00:18:23,346 --> 00:18:25,446 - They're my favorite. 458 00:18:25,515 --> 00:18:27,381 - Mine too. 459 00:18:27,450 --> 00:18:29,183 When I used to make them with my dad, 460 00:18:29,252 --> 00:18:31,051 he would let me mix in all the marshmallows 461 00:18:31,120 --> 00:18:33,487 and sometimes we'd throw in some special treats 462 00:18:33,556 --> 00:18:35,489 like chocolate chips or licorice all sorts, 463 00:18:35,558 --> 00:18:36,891 which are disgusting. 464 00:18:36,959 --> 00:18:39,827 But the rainbow sprinkles, woo! 465 00:18:39,896 --> 00:18:41,562 - Can we put cookies in? 466 00:18:41,631 --> 00:18:43,230 - We can throw whole chocolate bars in. 467 00:18:43,299 --> 00:18:44,698 - Yes. 468 00:18:44,767 --> 00:18:46,767 - You know how I told you that you were English, 469 00:18:46,836 --> 00:18:49,003 and Scottish, and Indian? - Uh-hmm. 470 00:18:49,071 --> 00:18:51,472 - Well, you are all those things. 471 00:18:51,541 --> 00:18:53,707 But I forgot to tell you that you are something 472 00:18:53,776 --> 00:18:55,376 that's totally different than me, 473 00:18:55,444 --> 00:18:56,710 or Daddy, or Nanima. 474 00:18:56,779 --> 00:18:59,213 You're you. 475 00:18:59,282 --> 00:19:02,816 And there's nobody on planet Earth who is like you. 476 00:19:02,885 --> 00:19:05,386 Becoming a parent is a massive shift in identity. 477 00:19:05,454 --> 00:19:08,389 You can't escape the tickle monster! 478 00:19:08,457 --> 00:19:12,026 Your name changes to mom or dad like almost overnight. 479 00:19:12,094 --> 00:19:16,297 Viv, I blamed your dad for eating these. 480 00:19:16,365 --> 00:19:18,165 - JAMES: Your life turns into talking about your kids, 481 00:19:18,234 --> 00:19:20,334 following them around, collecting pictures of them. 482 00:19:20,403 --> 00:19:22,303 - ASTRID: It's like being obsessed with a K-pop group. 483 00:19:22,371 --> 00:19:24,572 - JAMES: Yeah, it sucks to lose some of your identity. 484 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:26,073 - ASTRID: But it's amazing to watch 485 00:19:26,142 --> 00:19:27,708 your kids develop theirs. 486 00:19:27,777 --> 00:19:29,643 - What are you doing? - Well, I'm busting a move. 487 00:19:29,712 --> 00:19:31,212 What does it look like I'm doing? 488 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:33,414 - Stop, Daddy. - What? I can't--I can't stop. 489 00:19:33,482 --> 00:19:36,217 What--what's happening? - You have to pop your hip. 490 00:19:36,285 --> 00:19:38,052 - I have to the pop my hip? How do I do that, like that? 491 00:19:38,120 --> 00:19:39,887 - You're doing great. - Thanks, buddy. 492 00:19:39,956 --> 00:19:41,288 - Now, shimmy. 493 00:19:43,926 --> 00:19:46,427 - ASTRID: Why are you limping? - I shimmied too hard. 494 00:19:46,495 --> 00:19:48,429 - So are we ordering pizza or what? 495 00:19:48,497 --> 00:19:50,331 - DAWN: No need. Voila! 496 00:19:50,399 --> 00:19:52,466 - I added a little of this, a little of that. 497 00:19:52,535 --> 00:19:55,869 It's not what we were going for but it's pretty good. 498 00:19:55,938 --> 00:19:57,238 - And it smells delicious. 499 00:19:57,306 --> 00:19:58,839 - The secrets the Rice Krispies. 500 00:19:58,908 --> 00:20:00,541 - I want one. 501 00:20:00,610 --> 00:20:02,509 - What is--this is amazing. What do you call it? 502 00:20:02,578 --> 00:20:04,912 - I call them hot sloppy Nishas 503 00:20:06,616 --> 00:20:09,817 All right, jaldee, let's eat before it gets cold. 504 00:20:15,925 --> 00:20:19,059 Today, I'm gonna show you how to make pumpkin gnocchi 505 00:20:19,128 --> 00:20:22,429 with whipped ricotta and burnt butter cashews, 506 00:20:22,498 --> 00:20:25,266 alongside with my sous-chef, Mom. 507 00:20:26,435 --> 00:20:29,470 - That's right, Delicious Corey. 508 00:20:29,538 --> 00:20:33,374 There ain't nothing hokey about this gnocchi. 509 00:20:33,442 --> 00:20:35,509 I couldn't find any ethically sourced cashews, 510 00:20:35,578 --> 00:20:37,645 so I had to substitute walnuts. 511 00:20:41,250 --> 00:20:42,850 - I'm gonna need a minute. 512 00:20:42,918 --> 00:20:46,353 It's okay. I'm just gonna inhale, exhale... 513 00:20:46,422 --> 00:20:47,688 - We'll be right back. 514 00:20:47,757 --> 00:20:49,623 Bo. Bo, come quick. 515 00:20:49,692 --> 00:20:52,126 Corey is freaking out.