1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 2 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 3 00:00:41,375 --> 00:00:44,166 - You're like a bachelor. - Knock it off! 4 00:00:44,208 --> 00:00:47,750 We're a family, you have to mind the kids too. 5 00:00:47,791 --> 00:00:51,166 I'm always attentive to you, I neglect myself. 6 00:00:51,208 --> 00:00:54,291 Neglect? Is this neglecting yourself? 7 00:00:54,333 --> 00:00:59,583 You're not alone in the world, start thinking about others, Nicola. 8 00:00:59,625 --> 00:01:03,541 - No! - You don't do a thing. - Sara, I'm always here. 9 00:01:03,583 --> 00:01:09,583 - We said 50/50, but I do it all. - Not true, I neglect my work, I don't sleep. 10 00:01:09,625 --> 00:01:12,500 It's all on me! You have no clue what goes on here! 11 00:01:12,541 --> 00:01:16,208 Why? Because I can't keep up with you. 12 00:01:16,250 --> 00:01:20,208 You're precise, inflexible, on how things are done. 13 00:01:20,250 --> 00:01:23,250 - Because it's just me who does them. - Again? 14 00:01:23,291 --> 00:01:27,958 - Tell me what you did today. - I ran the dishwasher, they all saw me. 15 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,583 - Screw you! - You fly right off the handle. 16 00:01:30,625 --> 00:01:33,541 You say "screw you" and think it's over. 17 00:01:33,583 --> 00:01:37,125 If there's something to do, you always do it later. 18 00:01:37,166 --> 00:01:39,791 - We do it together. - That's crap. 19 00:01:39,833 --> 00:01:44,291 - You do things after I already have. - Why do you do things right away? 20 00:01:54,708 --> 00:01:58,125 - What will we do? - It'll work out. 21 00:01:58,166 --> 00:02:02,125 KIDZ 22 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:10,708 - Will things change a lot? - No, not much, we'll be flexible. 23 00:02:10,750 --> 00:02:12,791 It's gonna be okay. 24 00:02:12,833 --> 00:02:16,875 - Why do they say one and one is 11? - Huh? 25 00:02:16,916 --> 00:02:20,125 One kid plus another aren't two, but eleven. 26 00:02:20,166 --> 00:02:26,916 It's a dreadful saying, funny only for online newspapers. 27 00:02:29,583 --> 00:02:32,666 - Eleven, really? - Yeah. 28 00:02:32,708 --> 00:02:34,958 - It's gonna be okay. - Yes. 29 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,750 - Why are you panting? - I'm not. 30 00:02:37,791 --> 00:02:41,708 - We'll stick together. - Eleven. - Eleven? 31 00:02:43,750 --> 00:02:48,750 Every set of parents has a story and each story is different. 32 00:02:48,791 --> 00:02:51,333 There are apprehensive parents. 33 00:02:51,375 --> 00:02:57,125 They became parents late, their lives circle around their child. 34 00:02:57,166 --> 00:03:01,750 Self-denial, sacrifice, maniacal dedication to the little one,... 35 00:03:01,791 --> 00:03:06,708 ..who is cleansed with temperature-controlled oil, has English lessons at six months,... 36 00:03:06,750 --> 00:03:09,958 ..almost never goes out, it's either too cold or too hot. 37 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:13,916 He's smothered with attention which causes damage. 38 00:03:13,958 --> 00:03:17,666 The child thinks being the center of the world is natural. 39 00:03:17,708 --> 00:03:22,375 Instead, growing up, he'll have to face capitalism like us all... 40 00:03:22,416 --> 00:03:25,000 The pen is on the table. 41 00:03:25,041 --> 00:03:26,750 ..And the IRS. 42 00:03:26,791 --> 00:03:30,583 The pen is on the table. 43 00:03:30,625 --> 00:03:35,541 There are naturalist parents. Nature is forced on their child. 44 00:03:35,583 --> 00:03:40,291 He can't eat snacks, use an iPad or watch TV. 45 00:03:40,333 --> 00:03:44,291 He gets one shoe at Christmas, the other at Easter,... 46 00:03:44,333 --> 00:03:47,500 ..so he won't take things for granted. 47 00:03:47,541 --> 00:03:51,416 But at 18, he'll shoot heroin down by the station. 48 00:03:52,666 --> 00:03:54,708 There are millionaire parents. 49 00:03:54,750 --> 00:03:59,333 They have overpaid nannies who are delegated 100 % of the child's education. 50 00:03:59,375 --> 00:04:03,000 They televote for "The X Factor" on their mega TVs... 51 00:04:03,041 --> 00:04:07,916 ..while in a far corner of their vast living room a pair of Filipinos play with the kids,... 52 00:04:07,958 --> 00:04:11,750 ..having the children call them "mommy" and "daddy". 53 00:04:11,791 --> 00:04:15,083 There's the separated parent, male, about forty,... 54 00:04:15,125 --> 00:04:18,625 ..feeling only pain, anguish and ruin. 55 00:04:18,666 --> 00:04:22,333 Assailed by guilt feelings of Catholic origin,... 56 00:04:22,375 --> 00:04:25,541 ..he always sees a priest in the lurk. 57 00:04:25,583 --> 00:04:27,583 You, shit! 58 00:04:27,625 --> 00:04:29,666 You're a real shit. 59 00:04:32,250 --> 00:04:37,375 Single, with endless sex stories, but he's never happy. 60 00:04:40,916 --> 00:04:43,750 There are parents with more than two children. 61 00:04:43,791 --> 00:04:47,666 Pursuing dreams of ancient agro-artisan peoples,... 62 00:04:47,708 --> 00:04:50,166 ..they've run up against a huge misconception... 63 00:04:50,208 --> 00:04:53,708 ..and are atoning for the suffocation of a life organized to the nth... 64 00:04:53,750 --> 00:04:56,875 ..which can collapse into chaos at any minute. 65 00:04:56,916 --> 00:05:00,875 They have continuous accidents and a long list of things to remember,... 66 00:05:00,916 --> 00:05:03,916 ..do, buy, they have to yell to be heard. 67 00:05:03,958 --> 00:05:06,541 They're bent and old by now. 68 00:05:06,583 --> 00:05:11,166 In a pocket, if needed, they always keep a cyanide pill,... 69 00:05:11,208 --> 00:05:16,833 ..which, amid four screaming kids, the father dreams of swallowing. 70 00:05:16,875 --> 00:05:19,666 There are the very young of twenty-five,... 71 00:05:19,708 --> 00:05:22,458 ..flexible and dynamic, they fear nothing. 72 00:05:22,500 --> 00:05:27,500 Their kids climb on perilous reefs, go to school alone, are responsible and mature. 73 00:05:27,541 --> 00:05:29,791 But there are none of these in Italy. 74 00:05:29,833 --> 00:05:32,291 And then there's us. 75 00:05:34,083 --> 00:05:38,333 Fifteen years ago, with our professions, we'd have said "privileged";... 76 00:05:38,375 --> 00:05:42,583 ..today, like everyone, we're struggling with the difficulties of our time. 77 00:05:42,625 --> 00:05:48,208 We have satellite TV, but the IRS can knock at any time. 78 00:05:48,250 --> 00:05:54,500 We're lucky, not rich, simple but not elementary, neurotic, but not crazy. 79 00:05:54,541 --> 00:05:57,833 The future is hopeful but has snares. 80 00:05:57,875 --> 00:06:02,250 Our homes are comfortable, but small and have one bath. 81 00:06:17,500 --> 00:06:20,875 - I love you. - I love you. 82 00:06:20,916 --> 00:06:24,916 We conceived Pietro at a hopeful time in our lives. 83 00:06:24,958 --> 00:06:30,708 Lives can be complicated in the present, but in our memories they become beautiful. 84 00:06:30,750 --> 00:06:33,708 It seemed feasible with our first child. 85 00:06:33,750 --> 00:06:38,333 Anna was sweet, flexible, she slept, we took her everywhere... 86 00:06:38,375 --> 00:06:43,458 ..and despite new family balances, we mistakenly felt we were ourselves. 87 00:06:43,500 --> 00:06:48,375 It's nice, after plowing through the first 180 pages, it flows. 88 00:06:49,666 --> 00:06:54,250 Why are cooking times for these cool pastas always hidden? 89 00:06:54,291 --> 00:06:56,583 The epitome of chic, but it doesn't say. 90 00:06:59,375 --> 00:07:02,125 Taste it, like in the old days. 91 00:07:02,166 --> 00:07:05,416 Please, lower the music! 92 00:07:05,458 --> 00:07:09,208 A big hand for Andrea! 93 00:07:09,250 --> 00:07:14,500 Andrea is the protagonist of a sensational event. 94 00:07:14,541 --> 00:07:17,291 Truly sensational and now he'll tell us. 95 00:07:17,333 --> 00:07:21,125 - No, I'm embarrassed. - He's shy, I'll tell you. 96 00:07:21,166 --> 00:07:25,500 Andrea has squared his account with the IRS. 97 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:32,500 How much? 98 00:07:32,541 --> 00:07:35,666 - No! - Embarrassed? Tell me. 99 00:07:37,833 --> 00:07:39,625 Really? 100 00:07:39,666 --> 00:07:42,875 Okay... would you say a few words? 101 00:07:42,916 --> 00:07:44,416 Well... 102 00:07:45,250 --> 00:07:48,916 When my taxes came, I thought I was finished,... 103 00:07:48,958 --> 00:07:52,041 ..everything, no clue. 104 00:07:52,083 --> 00:07:56,875 Then, month after month, deadline after deadline,... 105 00:07:56,916 --> 00:08:02,250 ..without thinking of the balance to pay, a step at a time,... 106 00:08:02,291 --> 00:08:04,333 ..I did it! 107 00:08:04,375 --> 00:08:08,458 I paid the last one! 108 00:08:08,500 --> 00:08:09,916 Wait! 109 00:08:09,958 --> 00:08:12,666 I want to say, to those of you... 110 00:08:12,708 --> 00:08:18,166 ..in a similar situation, and I'm sure there are many,... 111 00:08:18,208 --> 00:08:21,875 ..I want to tell you, guys, you can see daylight,... 112 00:08:21,916 --> 00:08:24,583 ..a step at a time, you can see daylight! 113 00:08:24,625 --> 00:08:28,000 Towards freedom! 114 00:08:28,041 --> 00:08:33,291 See? You did it. Music. So, when will I get that money back? 115 00:09:02,541 --> 00:09:04,500 Let's go, honey. 116 00:09:08,041 --> 00:09:09,916 Put this on her. 117 00:09:09,958 --> 00:09:13,750 - Goodbye. - See you. 118 00:09:17,125 --> 00:09:18,791 Turn right. 119 00:09:26,541 --> 00:09:28,666 Go! 120 00:10:04,250 --> 00:10:06,791 You devil! 121 00:10:18,583 --> 00:10:23,875 Now we'll just check the procedures for conformity and survey the kitchen. 122 00:10:23,916 --> 00:10:26,958 This isn't an inspection, we're not Health Inspectors,... 123 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:32,500 ..we'll just simulate an official inspection to avoid fines in case of an inspection,... 124 00:10:32,541 --> 00:10:39,166 ..we're here for you, for your customers and the entire community. 125 00:10:40,166 --> 00:10:42,333 Get used to it. 126 00:10:43,625 --> 00:10:45,666 They're all like this. 127 00:10:47,791 --> 00:10:51,125 This job will make you see... 128 00:10:51,166 --> 00:10:54,416 ..the lack of love this country is capable of. 129 00:10:59,625 --> 00:11:03,000 The nausea isn't for this smell, is it? 130 00:11:19,208 --> 00:11:20,791 Oh! 131 00:11:22,291 --> 00:11:25,416 Is everything okay? Eh? 132 00:11:25,458 --> 00:11:27,166 Do you love me? 133 00:11:28,250 --> 00:11:30,125 - You're pregnant? - Yes. 134 00:11:33,208 --> 00:11:36,250 It's fantastic news! 135 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:42,208 - Are you sure it's a good idea? - It's wonderful, Sara. 136 00:11:42,250 --> 00:11:44,958 - It's such a mess. - Not at all! 137 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:49,458 It's heroic, in this country of zero growth. No one has kids anymore. 138 00:11:49,500 --> 00:11:53,750 - There must be a reason. - We'll give a strong signal, I want to shout it. 139 00:11:53,791 --> 00:11:57,541 - We're having another kid! - Who gives...? 140 00:11:57,583 --> 00:12:01,916 Because we still believe in this country. 141 00:12:01,958 --> 00:12:04,166 Nicola, be quiet! 142 00:12:05,416 --> 00:12:09,791 We have experience from the first, it's gonna be okay. 143 00:12:09,833 --> 00:12:12,416 - Boy or girl? - How do I know! 144 00:12:12,458 --> 00:12:18,041 - What would you like? - I don't know. - Let's go home? 145 00:12:19,541 --> 00:12:21,833 Tell me again it's gonna be okay. 146 00:12:24,083 --> 00:12:26,583 It's gonna be okay. 147 00:12:28,291 --> 00:12:33,250 - I heard. When did it happen? - A couple of weeks ago. 148 00:12:34,166 --> 00:12:38,708 - I'm so sorry. - No, actually... 149 00:12:38,750 --> 00:12:41,541 I tell everyone to stop at the first kid. 150 00:12:41,583 --> 00:12:43,541 I put it on social media,... 151 00:12:43,583 --> 00:12:48,500 ..I wrote an article, I shouted it around the neighborhood. 152 00:12:48,541 --> 00:12:51,750 - C'mon, in the end... - No, dammit, Nicola! 153 00:12:51,791 --> 00:12:54,416 No, not at all! 154 00:12:54,458 --> 00:12:55,916 Okay... 155 00:12:58,500 --> 00:13:01,166 I'm here for you. 156 00:13:01,208 --> 00:13:03,375 Thanks. 157 00:13:07,583 --> 00:13:09,208 Bye. 158 00:13:14,333 --> 00:13:16,583 Let's go home. 159 00:13:24,208 --> 00:13:27,541 - Hurry! - Careful. 160 00:13:30,416 --> 00:13:33,041 I don't remember a thing. 161 00:13:33,083 --> 00:13:36,500 - Diapers, nursing, salves... - Me, neither. 162 00:13:36,541 --> 00:13:40,291 Chapter 1 SLEEP 163 00:13:41,208 --> 00:13:43,708 Can I sleep here, too? 164 00:13:44,458 --> 00:13:47,291 Sweetie, we won't all fit. 165 00:13:47,333 --> 00:13:51,166 He'll be with us only at first, like you were. 166 00:13:51,208 --> 00:13:53,416 Then he'll be with you. 167 00:13:53,458 --> 00:13:59,250 Was another kid really necessary? We were all just fine. 168 00:13:59,291 --> 00:14:01,583 You'll see, it will all work out. 169 00:14:01,625 --> 00:14:07,208 Couldn't he stay in the hospital? They were all so nice. 170 00:14:07,250 --> 00:14:11,958 - Anna, we had him for you too. - For me? 171 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:16,458 You're too young now to understand, but Pietro will bring balance. 172 00:14:21,916 --> 00:14:26,375 The three of us were fine together, why did you change everything? 173 00:14:26,416 --> 00:14:30,333 You're both a mess, especially you, Daddy. 174 00:14:30,375 --> 00:14:33,375 Why? Listen to her! 175 00:14:33,416 --> 00:14:36,541 An immediate tickling. 176 00:14:36,583 --> 00:14:39,083 - In silence or you'll wake him. - You'll wake him. 177 00:14:39,125 --> 00:14:44,125 No tickling, please! 178 00:14:44,166 --> 00:14:46,708 Stop. 179 00:14:46,750 --> 00:14:48,791 It's a beautiful thing. 180 00:14:48,833 --> 00:14:52,166 It's normal you don't see it as beautiful. 181 00:14:52,208 --> 00:14:56,625 Look, come here. I'll show you something. 182 00:14:56,666 --> 00:14:58,250 So... 183 00:15:01,541 --> 00:15:02,958 This... 184 00:15:04,541 --> 00:15:08,666 ..is Mommy's heart as it was before. 185 00:15:08,708 --> 00:15:12,583 MOMMY, DADDY, ANNA. 186 00:15:12,625 --> 00:15:17,541 And this is Mommy's heart... 187 00:15:19,708 --> 00:15:21,875 ..now. 188 00:15:24,958 --> 00:15:26,916 It's a much bigger heart. 189 00:15:26,958 --> 00:15:29,000 MOMMY, DADDY, ANNA, PIETRO 190 00:15:29,041 --> 00:15:34,083 - There's more room for everyone. - Can I keep it? - It's for you. 191 00:15:35,083 --> 00:15:38,208 - Let's go to bed. - A kiss. 192 00:15:40,541 --> 00:15:44,708 - Say good night to your brother. - Night. 193 00:15:46,750 --> 00:15:48,958 Come here. 194 00:15:53,291 --> 00:15:58,375 - Fine, right? - What? - Are you happy? - Yes. 195 00:15:58,416 --> 00:16:02,083 - There's a nice atmosphere. - Yes. 196 00:16:02,125 --> 00:16:05,708 The country too lately,... 197 00:16:05,750 --> 00:16:09,333 ..I feel it expresses, now and then... 198 00:16:09,375 --> 00:16:12,208 - Let's not exaggerate. - No, right. 199 00:16:30,208 --> 00:16:34,166 The first three months were the calm before the storm. 200 00:16:34,208 --> 00:16:39,333 The baby slept, nights were peaceful, things went smoothly. 201 00:16:39,375 --> 00:16:43,458 Except for the first signs of disparity, in the morning before going to work. 202 00:16:43,500 --> 00:16:47,583 - Leather working became widespread... - Sorry, I was distracted. 203 00:16:47,625 --> 00:16:51,875 - So, earthenware pottery... - Jewelry, clothes and sculptures. 204 00:16:51,916 --> 00:16:53,958 You said them all, sorry. 205 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:57,875 In the forests of the East, leather working became widespread,... 206 00:16:57,916 --> 00:17:04,958 ..the decorating of vases, bags, belts, among which, those with symbolic designs. 207 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:08,875 Also the art of wooden masks for religious purposes... 208 00:17:08,916 --> 00:17:11,041 ..portraying demons and spirits... 209 00:17:17,833 --> 00:17:24,291 If I'd been a wise Indian chieftain, I'd have felt the storm coming. 210 00:17:24,333 --> 00:17:29,041 Excellent! Put this in your schoolbag and let's go. 211 00:17:29,083 --> 00:17:32,208 Bye, darling. Let's go, Anna! 212 00:17:34,291 --> 00:17:38,083 - Be back soon? - Of course. 213 00:17:39,375 --> 00:17:43,666 - Not going for cigarettes? - No! 214 00:17:43,708 --> 00:17:46,833 Say bye to Mommy. - Bye. 215 00:17:46,875 --> 00:17:49,708 Bye. Let's jump! 216 00:17:52,250 --> 00:17:55,708 The storm came in the third month. 217 00:17:55,750 --> 00:17:58,916 The baby had a growth spurt. 218 00:17:58,958 --> 00:18:02,666 He changed his rhythm, re-regulated the flow of milk,... 219 00:18:02,708 --> 00:18:07,125 ..broke his nursing balance and threw his mom for a loop. 220 00:18:07,166 --> 00:18:11,333 In a word, he said: "I'm here". 221 00:18:11,375 --> 00:18:14,583 BY AGREEMENT, IN PLACE OF THE BABY'S CRYING, 222 00:18:14,625 --> 00:18:18,250 BEETHOVEN'S SONATA NO. 8 "PATHETIQUE" 223 00:18:27,041 --> 00:18:31,125 Little love! What's happening, come here. 224 00:18:33,666 --> 00:18:37,083 No, no, no... 225 00:18:37,125 --> 00:18:41,541 No, no. 226 00:18:41,583 --> 00:18:44,125 What a blow I got! 227 00:18:44,166 --> 00:18:46,500 - A tremendous blow. - Ssh. 228 00:18:46,541 --> 00:18:49,250 Lord! 229 00:18:49,291 --> 00:18:51,291 No, little love, don't cry. 230 00:18:51,333 --> 00:18:55,000 - What's happening? - Nothing, everything's fine. 231 00:18:55,041 --> 00:18:58,875 - It's all okay. - Everything's fine, go back to bed. 232 00:18:58,916 --> 00:19:03,041 - It's normal. - Tell me what's happening? 233 00:19:03,083 --> 00:19:06,875 - He's crying, it's normal. - Why's he crying like crazy? 234 00:19:06,916 --> 00:19:10,791 It's normal, don't worry. Take Anna to bed? 235 00:19:10,833 --> 00:19:14,666 - We're going. - Then go! - What a blow! 236 00:19:42,458 --> 00:19:46,041 Nicola, why are you just standing there? - What? 237 00:19:57,833 --> 00:19:59,916 Oh, honey! 238 00:20:01,458 --> 00:20:04,041 Want one? 239 00:20:19,083 --> 00:20:23,208 It'll be okay, just a moment of transition. 240 00:20:23,250 --> 00:20:26,375 Right, sweetie? 241 00:20:31,875 --> 00:20:34,750 Anna's going to school with Luigi, they'll pick her up. 242 00:20:34,791 --> 00:20:36,916 In ten minutes. 243 00:20:36,958 --> 00:20:39,333 - Bye, honey. - Bye. 244 00:21:08,041 --> 00:21:10,041 Fuck off! 245 00:21:58,375 --> 00:22:02,041 I'll have mozzarella and... 246 00:22:02,083 --> 00:22:04,083 - And? - And... 247 00:22:04,125 --> 00:22:06,916 - Arugula and salmon? - No. 248 00:22:06,958 --> 00:22:09,833 With the first child you have incredible energy,... 249 00:22:09,875 --> 00:22:12,708 ..you gave life, you feel like a demigod. 250 00:22:12,750 --> 00:22:17,083 This new sensation compensates for the sleepless nights,... 251 00:22:17,125 --> 00:22:20,166 ..the inhuman effort required. 252 00:22:20,208 --> 00:22:25,500 - Mozzarella and... - And anchovies? - Too salty, I can't sleep. 253 00:22:25,541 --> 00:22:31,541 With the second, the same effort bursts in your face, you'd underestimated it... 254 00:22:31,583 --> 00:22:35,250 ..and it's no longer compensated by that divine euphoria. 255 00:22:35,291 --> 00:22:37,500 The second kid's a shock. 256 00:22:37,541 --> 00:22:41,250 Mozzarella, tomato confit and wild herbs. 257 00:22:41,291 --> 00:22:44,458 - No, good heavens! - No, uh? 258 00:22:44,500 --> 00:22:47,208 Ditch the family, ditch it all. 259 00:22:47,250 --> 00:22:52,708 Say you're crazy, do two months in Psychiatry and you're free. 260 00:22:52,750 --> 00:22:55,916 - Mozzarella and... - And stop, huh? 261 00:22:55,958 --> 00:23:00,250 Mozzarella and stop. Good man, it was easy! Mozzarella and stop. 262 00:23:00,291 --> 00:23:02,000 Let's do this. 263 00:23:02,041 --> 00:23:05,458 Darling? Hello? 264 00:23:05,500 --> 00:23:11,500 What is it? Yes. Just tell me. 265 00:23:11,541 --> 00:23:16,750 I can't hear you... Yeah. Go. 266 00:23:16,791 --> 00:23:21,791 Valpasin. Dobrecin. Drops? 267 00:23:21,833 --> 00:23:27,833 When your kid hasn't slept for weeks, doesn't eat, it's a time bomb... 268 00:23:27,875 --> 00:23:30,291 Oh! 269 00:23:30,333 --> 00:23:33,083 ..You have to find someone to help. 270 00:23:33,125 --> 00:23:36,708 Why's he screaming like that? No, good heavens! 271 00:23:36,750 --> 00:23:39,291 That someone is the pediatrician. 272 00:23:39,333 --> 00:23:42,500 Generally, out of guilt, you choose the most expensive. 273 00:23:42,541 --> 00:23:46,291 The one they say is tops, a guru. 274 00:23:46,333 --> 00:23:49,125 Chapter 2 THE PEDIATRICIAN GURU 275 00:23:50,666 --> 00:23:55,000 Art works around the office are typical of the pediatrician guru,... 276 00:23:55,041 --> 00:23:59,333 ..rich detail, Persian rugs, velvet drapes. 277 00:24:03,250 --> 00:24:04,750 Hello. 278 00:24:04,791 --> 00:24:07,500 The aim is to have you see what the furnishings cost... 279 00:24:07,541 --> 00:24:10,541 ..so you'll understand what the return must be. 280 00:24:10,583 --> 00:24:12,166 My God. 281 00:24:18,125 --> 00:24:21,625 You should listen. 282 00:24:21,666 --> 00:24:27,125 It sounds very difficult, but if you reflect, it's also simple. 283 00:24:27,166 --> 00:24:30,666 The pediatrician guru says elementary things that never crossed your mind. 284 00:24:30,708 --> 00:24:35,250 Not sleeping, not eating, is perhaps his only way to be heard. 285 00:24:35,291 --> 00:24:40,166 And you cry, moved either by the simplicity and power of those words... 286 00:24:40,208 --> 00:24:43,250 ..or by the imagined cost of the visit. 287 00:24:43,291 --> 00:24:47,291 Sorry, I don't know why I feel like crying. 288 00:24:47,333 --> 00:24:52,416 Now I'll make all those faces we make when we're trying not to cry. 289 00:24:55,500 --> 00:24:58,500 Don't worry. 290 00:24:58,541 --> 00:25:00,083 Thanks. 291 00:25:05,416 --> 00:25:07,208 May I? 292 00:25:12,125 --> 00:25:17,291 It's been only three months but I feel my husband has stopped seeing me. 293 00:25:17,333 --> 00:25:20,625 For some psychoanalytical reason, in front of the pediatrician guru,... 294 00:25:20,666 --> 00:25:23,125 ..we say things that we don't at home. 295 00:25:23,166 --> 00:25:27,541 It's like I were a function for him:... 296 00:25:27,583 --> 00:25:31,291 ..just the mother of his children. 297 00:25:31,333 --> 00:25:35,416 Actually I don't feel equal to the task. 298 00:25:35,458 --> 00:25:39,125 I don't feel equal to the task either. 299 00:25:41,875 --> 00:25:45,500 - I'm such scum! - Yes. 300 00:25:47,958 --> 00:25:54,083 You should each try putting yourselves in the other's shoes. 301 00:25:55,416 --> 00:25:58,500 And you must spend more time with the baby. 302 00:25:58,541 --> 00:26:04,250 How? Nicola works and I'm soon going back to work myself. 303 00:26:04,291 --> 00:26:07,625 Then the pediatrician guru takes a quantum leap. 304 00:26:07,666 --> 00:26:14,125 No, not work. Think up something, work can wait. 305 00:26:16,125 --> 00:26:20,208 - Like what? - Don't you have an income? 306 00:26:20,916 --> 00:26:24,666 A house to rent on the beach, in the mountains? 307 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:30,708 An income, a monthly revenue. 308 00:26:30,750 --> 00:26:35,416 Don't we have a house in the mountains to rent? Eh? 309 00:26:41,291 --> 00:26:43,041 No... 310 00:26:43,083 --> 00:26:49,125 Find an income, give up work and spend more time with him. 311 00:26:51,458 --> 00:26:54,250 An income, you say. 312 00:26:54,291 --> 00:26:58,083 Meanwhile, I'll prescribe something for the baby. 313 00:26:58,125 --> 00:27:02,166 - I'll see you in a month. - Thank you. 314 00:27:03,375 --> 00:27:06,125 - Good, isn't she? - Dunno. 315 00:27:06,166 --> 00:27:11,833 She seemed extremely well-prepared. Almost two hundred euros! 316 00:27:11,875 --> 00:27:15,666 Ever notice you always agree with the last person you talk to? 317 00:27:15,708 --> 00:27:19,250 - Especially if he's expensive. - I notice you get aggressive. 318 00:27:19,291 --> 00:27:22,750 - No, I'm very calm. - You were moved too. 319 00:27:22,791 --> 00:27:25,375 Maybe because I'm stressed out. 320 00:27:25,416 --> 00:27:29,541 - What about the money? - We'll find a way. 321 00:27:29,583 --> 00:27:32,583 We need someone to stay with the baby at least in the morning. 322 00:27:32,625 --> 00:27:35,375 We can ask my mother. 323 00:27:35,416 --> 00:27:40,083 I have to get back to work or we can't pay the rent. 324 00:27:40,125 --> 00:27:44,125 Things are fine, okay? C'mon! 325 00:27:48,333 --> 00:27:51,250 That's 329 euros. 326 00:27:53,875 --> 00:27:58,125 The prescription... don't lose it! 327 00:28:02,083 --> 00:28:03,125 Here. 328 00:28:11,875 --> 00:28:15,708 And God saw that Man wasn't suffering enough. 329 00:28:21,166 --> 00:28:24,208 And so he created the mother-in-law. 330 00:28:24,250 --> 00:28:27,000 We'll now be together for 20 years. 331 00:28:27,041 --> 00:28:29,916 And although you think you make all the decisions,... 332 00:28:29,958 --> 00:28:34,708 ..deep down, you'll see that my opinion weighs like a millstone. 333 00:28:34,750 --> 00:28:37,125 Chapter 3 THE IN-LAWS 334 00:28:38,125 --> 00:28:39,708 Honey, I can't. 335 00:28:39,750 --> 00:28:43,458 - Mom! - I'd love to, but I can't. 336 00:28:43,500 --> 00:28:47,916 I already take Anna to all her activities in the afternoon. 337 00:28:47,958 --> 00:28:50,833 I even keep her in the evening when I can. 338 00:28:50,875 --> 00:28:53,583 - But why? - I don't have the strength. 339 00:28:53,625 --> 00:28:57,833 - You go swimming every day. - If you knew the energy it costs! 340 00:28:57,875 --> 00:29:00,625 It would be very important for us. 341 00:29:00,666 --> 00:29:03,625 - Promise you'll think it over. - No. 342 00:29:04,916 --> 00:29:06,708 And Dad? 343 00:29:12,416 --> 00:29:16,625 We just can't handle it, don't you see? 344 00:29:16,666 --> 00:29:21,375 I have an article on grandparents being saddled with their grandchildren. 345 00:29:21,416 --> 00:29:24,958 - Oh, my God... - Why are you so angry? 346 00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:29,250 Because your generation ate up everything. 347 00:29:29,291 --> 00:29:33,708 You were born postwar, a childhood in a generous family network,... 348 00:29:33,750 --> 00:29:35,500 ..you enjoyed the economic boom,... 349 00:29:35,541 --> 00:29:38,916 ..you accumulated and squandered in the '80s and '90s,... 350 00:29:38,958 --> 00:29:41,416 ..believing well-being would last forever. 351 00:29:41,458 --> 00:29:46,875 You didn't think about future generations and you still don't. 352 00:29:46,916 --> 00:29:51,166 Today, with a pension you'll be the last to enjoy,... 353 00:29:51,208 --> 00:29:54,916 ..you revel in your first and second houses. 354 00:29:54,958 --> 00:30:00,000 You make vacation plans, invest in stocks, take out twenty-year loans. 355 00:30:00,041 --> 00:30:03,208 You get impeccable check-ups, enjoy social media... 356 00:30:03,250 --> 00:30:07,500 ..and especially, you believe in a future you'll be the last to have... 357 00:30:07,541 --> 00:30:10,041 ..because you no longer die off! 358 00:30:17,666 --> 00:30:19,375 Okay... 359 00:30:35,375 --> 00:30:39,458 You have to understand something, once and for all. 360 00:30:42,708 --> 00:30:45,541 We elderly are a strength,... 361 00:30:45,583 --> 00:30:50,291 ..silent and calm, but if we get pissed off, it's trouble. 362 00:30:50,333 --> 00:30:55,000 Because there are more of us. We're a great number. 363 00:30:55,041 --> 00:30:59,625 For every 100 young people, there are 165 elderly,... 364 00:30:59,666 --> 00:31:03,208 ..meaning, an absolute majority:... 365 00:31:03,250 --> 00:31:07,250 ..virtually, Congress, Senate and Government. 366 00:31:07,291 --> 00:31:11,375 We have the TV, conditioning show-planning and editorials. 367 00:31:11,416 --> 00:31:16,541 The Song Festival is done for us. As are the big national TV series. 368 00:31:16,583 --> 00:31:23,166 The advertisers that make the world turn, are obsessed with us. 369 00:31:23,208 --> 00:31:27,875 The houses and savings accounts that support the entire economy... 370 00:31:27,916 --> 00:31:32,500 ..and without which we'd close shop like Greece, are in our hands. 371 00:31:32,541 --> 00:31:36,583 Theater, what's left of cinema hang on thanks to us. 372 00:31:36,625 --> 00:31:41,333 Our pensions hold hostage the entire national economy. 373 00:31:41,375 --> 00:31:44,875 All we lack is awareness and cohesiveness... 374 00:31:44,916 --> 00:31:47,958 ..and we're ready to screw them all! 375 00:31:51,333 --> 00:31:54,958 DEMOCRACY THE ONLY WAY! 376 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:58,500 DEMOCRACY THE ONLY WAY! 377 00:32:03,208 --> 00:32:04,916 Like to go? 378 00:32:07,416 --> 00:32:11,458 What your mother says is true, she's right. 379 00:32:11,500 --> 00:32:16,833 - Should I worry? - Those guys will screw us all. 380 00:32:19,375 --> 00:32:22,000 We'll find a solution, don't worry. 381 00:32:22,041 --> 00:32:25,708 We have dinner with Dad tomorrow, we'll talk, it's gonna be okay. 382 00:32:34,125 --> 00:32:38,208 I can't help you, I don't understand what the baby says. 383 00:32:38,250 --> 00:32:42,916 He's 3 months old, doesn't talk. "I don't understand what he says..." 384 00:32:42,958 --> 00:32:44,791 He's always got a cold. 385 00:32:44,833 --> 00:32:50,000 - I can stay with him, but you have to take care of his needs. - Of course. 386 00:32:50,041 --> 00:32:54,041 If only Mom were still here! That damned diet took her away. 387 00:32:54,083 --> 00:32:57,125 You'd been separated for 35 years! 388 00:32:57,166 --> 00:33:00,875 - That diet killed her! - Just the opposite. 389 00:33:00,916 --> 00:33:04,000 If she done the diet, she'd still be alive. 390 00:33:04,041 --> 00:33:07,416 Here we are! Come here. 391 00:33:07,458 --> 00:33:11,875 - Beautiful Come here, darling. - Coming, dear. 392 00:33:11,916 --> 00:33:15,291 - See my priest friend, Busta? - Yes. 393 00:33:15,333 --> 00:33:18,291 - He didn't eat gluten for a month. - Oh! 394 00:33:18,333 --> 00:33:20,666 He got a tumor. 395 00:33:27,166 --> 00:33:31,125 And God saw that Woman wasn't suffering enough either... 396 00:33:31,166 --> 00:33:34,541 ..and so, he created both the father-in-law... 397 00:33:34,583 --> 00:33:37,000 ..and Brazilian music. 398 00:33:45,916 --> 00:33:50,041 Hear that rhythm? Doesn't it grab you? Listen! 399 00:33:50,083 --> 00:33:56,125 In the 1980s we couldn't decide if buying a house at the beach,... 400 00:33:56,166 --> 00:33:59,416 ..whose value quintupled in these 30 years,... 401 00:33:59,458 --> 00:34:06,458 ..or here in the Tuscia countryside whose value dropped 90 % in the same period. 402 00:34:06,500 --> 00:34:08,125 We had no doubts. 403 00:34:10,125 --> 00:34:14,625 Should that make us unhappy? No way, long live the countryside! 404 00:34:14,666 --> 00:34:17,583 Long live the countryside! 405 00:34:19,791 --> 00:34:22,791 - Hear the shots? Hunters. - Eh... 406 00:34:22,833 --> 00:34:25,916 If you could see the enthusiasm. 407 00:34:25,958 --> 00:34:28,791 They drink, so now and then someone gets killed. 408 00:34:28,833 --> 00:34:32,750 - They shoot each other, but by mistake! - Ah... 409 00:34:32,791 --> 00:34:36,916 - They're an enormous resource for our territory. - True! 410 00:34:42,333 --> 00:34:47,208 I'll take advantage of this nice moment to make an announcement. 411 00:34:49,875 --> 00:34:52,750 Angelina and I... 412 00:34:52,791 --> 00:34:55,500 ..want a child. 413 00:34:55,541 --> 00:34:58,375 - We're working on it, right? - Yes. 414 00:34:58,416 --> 00:35:02,166 - Hurray! - Hurray! - Hurray! 415 00:35:02,208 --> 00:35:04,291 Thank you. 416 00:35:04,333 --> 00:35:09,125 We'll call him Cabo, like his father. 417 00:35:09,166 --> 00:35:10,791 Cabo Jr. 418 00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:15,166 Be close to us, help us. 419 00:35:15,208 --> 00:35:18,958 Especially you young people, who have strength,... 420 00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:22,208 ..energy, free time. 421 00:35:22,250 --> 00:35:23,875 Right. 422 00:35:23,916 --> 00:35:27,333 Hurray! - Long live the countryside, long live us all! 423 00:35:27,375 --> 00:35:29,541 Chapter 4 JOSEPHINA 424 00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:45,083 Not having revenue as the wealthy pediatrician thought,... 425 00:35:45,125 --> 00:35:48,750 ..having to work, unable to count on grandparents,... 426 00:35:48,791 --> 00:35:52,375 ..there was just one answer to all our problems. 427 00:35:52,416 --> 00:35:53,916 Josephina. 428 00:35:55,625 --> 00:35:59,416 Josephina is fun, reliable, creative,... 429 00:35:59,458 --> 00:36:05,208 ..you needn't explain anything to her, she finds things in the house on her own,... 430 00:36:05,250 --> 00:36:09,458 ..she adores children, children adore her, she's in love with her job. 431 00:36:09,500 --> 00:36:15,291 According to Victor Turner, ritual has its roots in social drama... 432 00:36:15,333 --> 00:36:19,291 ..which reveals the most concrete aspects of social life. 433 00:36:39,291 --> 00:36:41,958 Josephina has just one big problem. 434 00:36:43,625 --> 00:36:46,916 She doesn't exist. 435 00:36:46,958 --> 00:36:51,250 In her place, a series of dubious babysitters come to the door. 436 00:36:55,166 --> 00:36:58,000 The African who only speaks Wolof. 437 00:36:58,041 --> 00:37:01,000 Inps, spaghetti, up yours... 438 00:37:01,041 --> 00:37:04,333 The unemployed college graduate. 439 00:37:06,458 --> 00:37:08,791 The young sex maniac. 440 00:37:09,500 --> 00:37:13,000 I adore dads without beards. 441 00:37:13,041 --> 00:37:18,916 And other monsters you've seen in headlines. 442 00:37:18,958 --> 00:37:21,166 Smoking's okay, right? 443 00:37:21,208 --> 00:37:24,375 My name is Manuela, I'm 35. 444 00:37:24,416 --> 00:37:29,083 I've already done babysitting, the baby was 16,... 445 00:37:29,125 --> 00:37:32,333 ..and I helped get him off drugs. 446 00:37:32,375 --> 00:37:36,125 My name's Erica, I'm 22. 447 00:37:36,166 --> 00:37:39,583 I just love children. 448 00:37:39,625 --> 00:37:41,875 Especially when they're sleeping. 449 00:37:41,916 --> 00:37:46,250 I'd do anything to see them sleep. 450 00:37:46,291 --> 00:37:49,750 Out of exhaustion, we chose the worst,... 451 00:37:49,791 --> 00:37:53,666 ..a farm girl with no experience, so to entertain the kids... 452 00:37:53,708 --> 00:37:55,708 ..she proposed just one thing. 453 00:37:55,750 --> 00:37:58,041 I cook them a "roached" egg. 454 00:37:58,083 --> 00:38:03,041 Before dinner, eight drops of sub-lingual antihistamine. 455 00:38:03,083 --> 00:38:05,000 Under the tongue... 456 00:38:05,041 --> 00:38:11,791 Before bed, a nasal wash, we brush our teeth, don't forget. 457 00:38:11,833 --> 00:38:14,583 Hear your mommy? Don't be a rascal. 458 00:38:14,625 --> 00:38:16,791 Then to bed, 9:30 at the latest. 459 00:38:16,833 --> 00:38:22,208 Understand, dear? Don't be a rascal. Listen to your mommy? 460 00:38:22,250 --> 00:38:24,583 - Thank you - Bye, sweetie. 461 00:38:24,625 --> 00:38:27,708 - Good evening. - We thank you. Bye, sweetie. 462 00:38:29,541 --> 00:38:32,916 I don't want a "roached" egg, I'm scared. 463 00:38:32,958 --> 00:38:34,791 Of what? 464 00:38:34,833 --> 00:38:38,916 Sweetie, don't worry, it's gonna be okay. 465 00:38:38,958 --> 00:38:41,458 - Watch a movie. - "Titanic"? 466 00:38:41,500 --> 00:38:44,583 Again? Isn't it too sad? 467 00:38:45,375 --> 00:38:48,500 - I really like it. - Ok... - If you like it... 468 00:38:48,541 --> 00:38:54,125 Come here, little one! Come here, we'll make a "roached" egg. 469 00:38:57,541 --> 00:38:59,500 A "roached" egg. 470 00:39:22,333 --> 00:39:24,208 Let's go there. 471 00:39:26,916 --> 00:39:30,541 - It's our first time out since when? - Since forever. 472 00:39:30,583 --> 00:39:34,750 - Tell me what we'll do tonight. - Everything. - What a thrill! 473 00:39:41,500 --> 00:39:43,625 Help! 474 00:39:52,500 --> 00:39:56,041 - I'd really like to go home. - I know. 475 00:39:56,083 --> 00:39:59,333 - We can't, right? - Unfortunately not. 476 00:40:00,291 --> 00:40:04,125 - What time is it? - Eh? - What time is it? 477 00:40:06,458 --> 00:40:08,916 9:40. 478 00:40:08,958 --> 00:40:12,000 - What did we do to deserve this? - I don't know. 479 00:40:12,041 --> 00:40:17,041 We have to stay out and have fun at all costs. 480 00:40:19,416 --> 00:40:21,541 - Hungry? - No. 481 00:40:23,958 --> 00:40:27,416 I like this restaurant, it's old,... 482 00:40:27,458 --> 00:40:30,875 ..the old waitresses still like their work. 483 00:40:33,791 --> 00:40:37,625 - Have you inspected it? - Twice. 484 00:40:37,666 --> 00:40:40,750 - What's it like? - Perfect, that's why we're here. 485 00:41:06,875 --> 00:41:10,375 - I have to say something tremendous. - What? 486 00:41:10,416 --> 00:41:13,041 - I'm embarrassed. - Say it. 487 00:41:14,375 --> 00:41:16,583 - It's not easy. - Say it. 488 00:41:19,500 --> 00:41:22,250 - I miss them like crazy. - Me too, so much. 489 00:41:22,291 --> 00:41:23,666 What can we do? 490 00:41:27,291 --> 00:41:30,250 - Let's look at their pictures. - Okay. 491 00:41:33,291 --> 00:41:38,208 - Look at this. - Sweetie! You're so beautiful! 492 00:41:38,250 --> 00:41:40,458 Darling! 493 00:41:40,500 --> 00:41:43,208 See how pretty Anna is here. 494 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:50,000 - What are they doing now? - A "roached" egg. 495 00:41:52,708 --> 00:41:55,666 - Let's go home. - No. 496 00:41:55,708 --> 00:41:59,500 - How long do we have to stay out? - At least till midnight. 497 00:41:59,541 --> 00:42:00,916 Lord! 498 00:42:07,208 --> 00:42:10,958 Okay, wake me in ten minutes? 499 00:42:34,500 --> 00:42:37,083 - Good evening. - Good evening. 500 00:42:37,125 --> 00:42:42,666 The baby woke up just once. I gave him some milk and he went back to sleep. 501 00:42:42,708 --> 00:42:47,166 - The little girl watched "Titanic", but she's still crying. - Really? 502 00:42:47,208 --> 00:42:54,208 The little girl is suffering, she's jealous, pay attention to her. 503 00:42:54,250 --> 00:42:59,208 - Yes... - My sister ruined my life, even today I'd like to kill her. 504 00:42:59,250 --> 00:43:03,833 - Ok... - She got all the - "You're so pretty, you're so tiny..." 505 00:43:03,875 --> 00:43:07,708 - I felt like the pits. - Thank you, has Anna eaten? 506 00:43:07,750 --> 00:43:10,083 - An egg. - "Roached"? 507 00:43:10,125 --> 00:43:13,291 - "Roached". - Thank you. 508 00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:18,916 You're still awake? You have school tomorrow. 509 00:43:18,958 --> 00:43:21,333 Tomorrow's Sunday. 510 00:43:22,458 --> 00:43:25,750 - Why are you crying? Eh? - Huh? 511 00:43:25,791 --> 00:43:28,333 Will you tell me? 512 00:43:28,375 --> 00:43:32,541 I knew this movie was too sad. 513 00:43:32,583 --> 00:43:34,833 Sweetheart... 514 00:43:34,875 --> 00:43:37,666 - Sweetheart! - Hey. 515 00:43:37,708 --> 00:43:41,541 Here's what we'll do. 516 00:43:41,583 --> 00:43:47,208 Let's draw the Titanic on April 16, 1912. 517 00:43:47,250 --> 00:43:51,083 The day after the sinking but perfectly integral, 518 00:43:51,125 --> 00:43:54,791 as it's sailing peacefully. 519 00:43:54,833 --> 00:43:58,458 We'll imagine the Titanic never sank? 520 00:44:04,583 --> 00:44:07,166 Can I sleep in the big bed? 521 00:44:08,708 --> 00:44:11,583 Chapter 5 SUNDAY 522 00:44:17,125 --> 00:44:21,041 Oh, no, stop! Stop. 523 00:44:25,750 --> 00:44:27,666 He has a high fever. 524 00:44:31,625 --> 00:44:36,041 - Oh, no... - Please get some water? 525 00:44:38,500 --> 00:44:42,500 Oh God, what did I do to myself! 526 00:44:42,541 --> 00:44:48,208 Oh no! I hurt myself really badly. 527 00:44:49,833 --> 00:44:53,208 - Gentle, though! What are you doing? - Yes. 528 00:44:53,250 --> 00:44:56,875 - I'll pull it out, on three. - It already hurts, careful and fast. 529 00:44:56,916 --> 00:45:01,166 One, two, three. 530 00:45:01,208 --> 00:45:04,041 - Look. - Very nice! 531 00:45:04,083 --> 00:45:08,750 It's the Titanic the day after it sank. It's sailing calmly. 532 00:45:08,791 --> 00:45:12,750 Go open the door, it's Grandpa. - Okay. 533 00:45:14,583 --> 00:45:20,166 The problem isn't my baby brother, they can have another two. 534 00:45:20,208 --> 00:45:24,541 - I have a personal problem with him. - Why? 535 00:45:24,583 --> 00:45:29,875 He cries all the time, even with no reason. - Why does he cry? 536 00:45:29,916 --> 00:45:35,833 He wants everyone around him and when everyone's around him, know what he does? 537 00:45:35,875 --> 00:45:39,458 - What? - He keeps crying. 538 00:45:39,500 --> 00:45:42,291 That's a real problem. 539 00:45:42,333 --> 00:45:47,000 Don't let him fool you, never be alone with him. 540 00:45:47,041 --> 00:45:49,541 Thank you for the advice. 541 00:45:49,583 --> 00:45:52,750 - You're welcome. - I have something for you. 542 00:45:52,791 --> 00:45:55,250 Here, honey, open it. 543 00:45:55,291 --> 00:45:58,208 - What is it? - Look. 544 00:46:03,333 --> 00:46:08,750 - A cuckoo clock! - Yes! Isn't it beautiful? 545 00:46:08,791 --> 00:46:10,875 Listen how it goes. 546 00:46:17,833 --> 00:46:21,583 - It's beautiful. - You're right, it's beautiful. 547 00:46:28,416 --> 00:46:32,041 Why are you so short of breath? 548 00:46:32,083 --> 00:46:34,541 No, it's normal breathing. 549 00:46:34,583 --> 00:46:37,375 Nicola, I'm going out today. 550 00:46:39,458 --> 00:46:40,750 Meaning? 551 00:46:42,875 --> 00:46:46,708 I'm spending the day with Federica, she has to talk to me. 552 00:46:48,500 --> 00:46:50,166 About what? 553 00:46:51,083 --> 00:46:54,583 Are you capable of staying one day with the baby? 554 00:46:54,625 --> 00:46:58,916 - You're father's here too. - Don't count on me. 555 00:46:58,958 --> 00:47:03,125 I'll watch the baby when he can talk, he'll say he's hungry, thirsty... 556 00:47:03,166 --> 00:47:05,416 ..and he always has a cold. 557 00:47:05,458 --> 00:47:07,708 Of course, I am. 558 00:47:09,750 --> 00:47:13,208 We could ask Federica to come here, couldn't we? 559 00:47:23,250 --> 00:47:27,958 Today it might be nice to be all together. 560 00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:31,416 You stay all together since you're never here. 561 00:47:33,583 --> 00:47:38,625 Why do you always say that, as if I spent my days playing pool? 562 00:47:38,666 --> 00:47:42,666 If you did, we wouldn't be together at all. 563 00:47:42,708 --> 00:47:46,125 - You understand what I mean. - No, I don't.) 564 00:47:46,166 --> 00:47:49,833 That's the point, we don't understand one another. 565 00:47:49,875 --> 00:47:52,958 I need to breathe. 566 00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:56,541 I'm in here all day, I can't take any more, I have to go out. 567 00:47:56,583 --> 00:47:59,416 You're scared of being alone with the baby,... 568 00:47:59,458 --> 00:48:04,041 ..since you never are you don't know how, and that makes me mad. 569 00:48:05,791 --> 00:48:08,375 I have zero fear. 570 00:48:08,416 --> 00:48:12,958 - You're short of breath. - No. - You do. 571 00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:17,000 Can we make tea and spend the afternoon all together? 572 00:48:17,041 --> 00:48:19,458 Your only contribution is work. 573 00:48:21,208 --> 00:48:27,125 Sorry! Sorry, if I bust my butt so we don't sink. 574 00:48:27,166 --> 00:48:31,250 - I apologize. - How I envy you. 575 00:48:31,291 --> 00:48:34,916 I'd like to work all day while you nurse and take care of the baby. 576 00:48:34,958 --> 00:48:37,625 Half and half, like we've always said. 577 00:48:42,708 --> 00:48:46,541 Want us to argue today too, should I start yelling? 578 00:48:46,583 --> 00:48:48,916 - Sara... - Bye. 579 00:48:50,958 --> 00:48:54,416 It's not nice to leave on a bad note. 580 00:49:05,750 --> 00:49:09,708 This bitch won't go in! 581 00:49:09,750 --> 00:49:13,125 - Want a hand, dad? Huh? - No. 582 00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:25,250 - Why? Why! - Ok. - What's okay? - Stay calm. 583 00:49:25,291 --> 00:49:28,500 - Be good, Pietro. - Let's stay calm. 584 00:49:37,125 --> 00:49:41,333 Go see him, get used to it. 585 00:49:41,375 --> 00:49:43,833 - What's he doing? - Crying. 586 00:49:43,875 --> 00:49:46,541 Can you understand him or does he have to talk? 587 00:49:46,583 --> 00:49:52,333 I'm left with this one screw, that means I forgot something. I made a mistake. 588 00:49:52,375 --> 00:49:54,958 - So? - Let's hope it holds. 589 00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:58,750 - I can't reassemble the whole thing. - No. 590 00:49:58,791 --> 00:50:00,750 Bye, son. 591 00:50:06,583 --> 00:50:08,708 What the fuck, though! 592 00:50:13,416 --> 00:50:14,958 Look. 593 00:50:17,750 --> 00:50:20,458 Do you realize little Pietro will have a best friend. 594 00:50:20,500 --> 00:50:25,375 - Who's his uncle. - Yes, his uncle! 595 00:50:25,416 --> 00:50:27,416 His uncle! 596 00:50:38,166 --> 00:50:42,625 Anna, sweetie? Be with me today. 597 00:50:42,666 --> 00:50:45,958 It's me, you and the little delinquent, are you happy? 598 00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:51,250 - But I have a party. - What do you have? 599 00:50:51,291 --> 00:50:54,958 It's Giorgia's party, you've known for days. 600 00:50:57,708 --> 00:51:01,541 You can't have a teenager's life already. 601 00:51:01,583 --> 00:51:04,666 Your social life is more intense than ours. 602 00:51:04,708 --> 00:51:10,125 Parties, pizzas, pajama parties, sports events, Pilates, c'mon! 603 00:51:10,166 --> 00:51:14,083 - You're envious. - Yes, I am. Come here. 604 00:51:18,291 --> 00:51:22,875 - No tickling. - You'll make it worse. - C'mon! 605 00:51:22,916 --> 00:51:25,750 It's them! 606 00:51:29,041 --> 00:51:32,041 I'm coming. 607 00:51:32,083 --> 00:51:36,250 Bye, huh? Not even bye. 608 00:51:36,291 --> 00:51:38,791 Not even bye. 609 00:51:56,791 --> 00:51:58,625 Up we come. 610 00:52:00,208 --> 00:52:04,291 What is it? 611 00:52:08,208 --> 00:52:10,041 Look. 612 00:52:10,833 --> 00:52:14,500 I was wondering if you'd like to come for coffee. 613 00:52:14,541 --> 00:52:17,791 - An herbal tea... - You're alone with the baby? 614 00:52:17,833 --> 00:52:20,750 No way, no! 615 00:52:20,791 --> 00:52:23,000 Oh, you shit! 616 00:52:23,041 --> 00:52:25,916 Okay, it's me and him, but things are fine. 617 00:52:25,958 --> 00:52:32,041 - I'd like to see you. - Sure... but I can't. 618 00:52:32,083 --> 00:52:35,750 - I'm seeing the urologist. - It's Sunday! 619 00:52:36,791 --> 00:52:38,375 Hey? 620 00:52:42,958 --> 00:52:45,291 He hung up. 621 00:52:52,291 --> 00:52:56,166 Okay, listen to me, my son. 622 00:52:56,208 --> 00:53:01,916 Listen, it's an awful tough day for us, huh? 623 00:53:01,958 --> 00:53:05,208 It's called "situation of peril". 624 00:53:05,250 --> 00:53:08,666 But if you don't mess up and we stick together,... 625 00:53:08,708 --> 00:53:13,416 ..we'll get through this and it'll bring us together forever. 626 00:53:13,458 --> 00:53:16,250 What do you say? 627 00:53:16,291 --> 00:53:19,458 Good boy. Ssh... Good boy. 628 00:53:20,791 --> 00:53:22,833 Good boy. 629 00:54:01,250 --> 00:54:07,541 There was someone who made you up, inflatables, salami sandwiches. 630 00:54:08,291 --> 00:54:12,250 You're sure you want just small pasta? - Yes, I'm not very hungry. 631 00:54:12,291 --> 00:54:17,291 Here, it's ready. It's ready, bibsy. 632 00:54:18,625 --> 00:54:22,250 A complete meal includes fruit. 633 00:54:23,166 --> 00:54:28,625 Fruit, not up for it? He's not up for it. 634 00:54:28,666 --> 00:54:31,875 "He asked his cousin Eddie if he could hold his teddy. 635 00:54:31,916 --> 00:54:35,458 The teddy said hello... to Grandpa Joe. 636 00:54:35,500 --> 00:54:39,291 Old cyclops says not a word as home he leads his herd." 637 00:54:54,166 --> 00:54:56,500 You're a big man, Nico! 638 00:54:58,041 --> 00:55:03,375 - Let's drive around again, Federica, please. - It's useless. 639 00:55:03,416 --> 00:55:09,833 - C'mon, it's gonna be okay. - I don't want to go in, I'm not happy. 640 00:55:22,208 --> 00:55:23,750 Bye. 641 00:55:50,083 --> 00:55:54,333 - How are you? - Fine. You? - Fine. 642 00:55:56,708 --> 00:56:01,458 Well, I tidied the living room, Dad had left a mess,... 643 00:56:01,500 --> 00:56:05,541 ..the baby ate, I washed and changed him, he took his drops. 644 00:56:05,583 --> 00:56:11,166 Anna came back at 8:30, she ate too, different menu,... 645 00:56:11,208 --> 00:56:16,166 ..then she made some fuss, so, like when she was little,... 646 00:56:16,208 --> 00:56:18,875 ..I read her "The Cyclops Family". 647 00:56:18,916 --> 00:56:21,791 They're neurotic like us, but they react like... 648 00:56:24,333 --> 00:56:28,041 - Anyway, they're both asleep. - Good. 649 00:56:34,666 --> 00:56:36,083 Well? 650 00:56:37,125 --> 00:56:38,375 What? 651 00:56:40,333 --> 00:56:42,291 Nothing to say? 652 00:56:43,291 --> 00:56:45,458 Should I say you're great? 653 00:56:46,583 --> 00:56:49,250 - For example. - Why? 654 00:56:50,208 --> 00:56:55,041 - Maybe because it's true? - Do you tell me that? 655 00:56:55,083 --> 00:57:00,833 You did what I do everyday without blinking and without being told I'm great. 656 00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:05,125 I always say you're great. 657 00:57:05,166 --> 00:57:07,500 - Never. - Always. 658 00:57:07,541 --> 00:57:10,458 - What's this ridiculous outfit? - What outfit? 659 00:57:10,500 --> 00:57:13,375 This super hero outfit, you're ridiculous. 660 00:57:13,416 --> 00:57:15,333 I have no outfit. 661 00:57:18,416 --> 00:57:21,833 You think that because I'm the mom,... 662 00:57:21,875 --> 00:57:25,666 ..doing all these things that make you feel like a super hero,... 663 00:57:25,708 --> 00:57:30,375 ..come natural to me, they're easy, give me pleasure. 664 00:57:30,416 --> 00:57:33,583 - There's nothing wrong with that. - Screw you. 665 00:57:33,625 --> 00:57:35,500 You fly right off the handle. 666 00:57:35,541 --> 00:57:39,000 Centuries of male supremacy have formatted us forever. 667 00:57:39,041 --> 00:57:42,083 Equality, my ass, 50/50, my ass! 668 00:57:42,125 --> 00:57:46,708 We don't need to be ideologically inverted. Why shouldn't you be happy to be a mother? 669 00:57:46,750 --> 00:57:53,000 I want to work, make something of myself, travel, screw, be happy. 670 00:57:53,041 --> 00:57:58,875 I'm not even sure I love you. I'm in a shambles, I can't even remember why I'm with you. 671 00:58:30,833 --> 00:58:33,666 I heard you're having problems with your son. 672 00:58:33,708 --> 00:58:37,791 - Meaning? - You're not right, you complain. 673 00:58:37,833 --> 00:58:39,708 Who are you? 674 00:58:40,375 --> 00:58:44,250 You always want to know everything, give a name to things,... 675 00:58:44,291 --> 00:58:46,583 ..I'm here to help you. 676 00:58:46,625 --> 00:58:49,583 C'mon, tell me what the fuck's going on? 677 00:58:49,625 --> 00:58:55,125 It's a little hard keeping things together, that's it. 678 00:58:55,166 --> 00:59:00,541 - With two kids? - Yes. We feel, how can I put it... 679 00:59:01,708 --> 00:59:02,750 ..alone. 680 00:59:02,791 --> 00:59:04,416 Yes. 681 00:59:04,458 --> 00:59:05,625 Meaning? 682 00:59:08,500 --> 00:59:10,125 Well,... 683 00:59:10,166 --> 00:59:16,333 ..our parents' generation didn't give a damn about anything,... 684 00:59:16,375 --> 00:59:19,250 ..they raised us as it came,... 685 00:59:19,291 --> 00:59:23,291 ..without giving us the tools to be good parents ourselves. 686 00:59:23,333 --> 00:59:26,916 So, we swing between trying not to make their mistakes... 687 00:59:26,958 --> 00:59:30,875 ..and the inevitable application of their educational model. 688 00:59:30,916 --> 00:59:34,458 - See? - Wow, how brainy! 689 00:59:34,500 --> 00:59:38,166 - Right? - Yes! - Why? 690 00:59:38,208 --> 00:59:42,208 What a likeable person you are. Coffee? I've just made some. 691 00:59:42,250 --> 00:59:44,916 With a drop of milk, thank you. 692 00:59:51,958 --> 00:59:54,791 - Does the older one give you problems? - No. 693 00:59:54,833 --> 00:59:57,583 Well, it all seems okay. 694 00:59:57,625 --> 01:00:00,791 Some people live in five in less than 50 square meters. 695 01:00:00,833 --> 01:00:04,166 Families who can't make ends meet, kids who push drugs. 696 01:00:04,208 --> 01:00:07,291 - What's the problem? - It's all relative. 697 01:00:07,333 --> 01:00:09,500 Up to a certain point... Thank you. 698 01:00:09,541 --> 01:00:14,208 What's this, the old adage that many are worse off than us? 699 01:00:14,250 --> 01:00:15,291 Huh? 700 01:00:26,333 --> 01:00:28,750 I can do something for you. 701 01:00:30,041 --> 01:00:31,958 For example? 702 01:00:34,125 --> 01:00:37,708 I can make your baby disappear if you don't want him anymore. 703 01:00:43,916 --> 01:00:46,875 Are you a wizard? 704 01:00:46,916 --> 01:00:50,333 You always want to understand everything, with your western mind. 705 01:00:50,375 --> 01:00:52,916 - Coffee's good! - Thank you. 706 01:00:52,958 --> 01:00:55,541 Everything can change in life. 707 01:00:56,833 --> 01:01:01,125 - You don't like that picture of your ancestor, right? - Right. 708 01:01:02,458 --> 01:01:06,416 - But that... - And that shit chandelier? 709 01:01:08,250 --> 01:01:11,125 - And the baby? - No! 710 01:01:11,166 --> 01:01:13,166 No! 711 01:01:17,250 --> 01:01:20,208 Chapter 6 THE RULES 712 01:01:20,250 --> 01:01:24,750 - Me, the pool, Anna, Wednesday, right? - Mmh. 713 01:01:24,791 --> 01:01:31,416 Then... Take to school, me all week. 714 01:01:31,458 --> 01:01:33,375 - Me, groceries on Thursday. - Mmh. 715 01:01:33,416 --> 01:01:37,541 - And me, the babysitter this week. - Right? - Yes. 716 01:01:38,500 --> 01:01:40,083 CLASS CHAT 717 01:01:40,125 --> 01:01:43,416 - I can't do the class chat. - It's your item. 718 01:01:45,833 --> 01:01:47,958 I can't fit it in! 719 01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:51,041 I'd hoped it would never get to this, but... 720 01:01:51,083 --> 01:01:53,750 Then what's the use? 721 01:02:24,416 --> 01:02:28,791 Hello, I'm calling about the vaccination. Eight months. 722 01:02:45,333 --> 01:02:47,583 Okay for everything. 723 01:03:00,916 --> 01:03:03,083 CLASS CHAT 724 01:03:08,500 --> 01:03:13,166 We've stopped arguing over the rules, but it's all cold. 725 01:03:13,208 --> 01:03:15,958 Today's our free evening. 726 01:03:16,000 --> 01:03:18,166 Huh... It's Thursday! 727 01:03:19,375 --> 01:03:20,875 Yes. 728 01:03:25,875 --> 01:03:29,625 The saddest thing in the world is couples in a restaurant... 729 01:03:29,666 --> 01:03:33,541 ..who dine without saying a word, isn't it? 730 01:03:38,083 --> 01:03:42,000 Wouldn't you like to go see your friends tonight? 731 01:03:43,625 --> 01:03:46,458 - Maybe I would. - Well, okay. 732 01:03:46,500 --> 01:03:51,291 Are you ready? My spirit is, not my body. 733 01:03:58,750 --> 01:04:02,708 - Give me time. - Everyone would like some. 734 01:04:02,750 --> 01:04:08,166 The most intimate, personal, elusive thing we all have,... 735 01:04:08,208 --> 01:04:10,375 ..the remote control. 736 01:04:11,458 --> 01:04:13,500 Do you understand anything? 737 01:04:15,291 --> 01:04:19,250 I don't think so, it's different from mine. 738 01:04:19,291 --> 01:04:24,083 Exactly, we have identical apartments, cars, television sets,... 739 01:04:24,125 --> 01:04:27,916 ..but the remote controls are all different. 740 01:04:29,916 --> 01:04:31,500 Can't do it. 741 01:04:37,250 --> 01:04:40,000 The knight is down there, playing chess. 742 01:04:40,041 --> 01:04:42,791 I see that too, what's so terrible about it? 743 01:04:42,833 --> 01:04:47,625 - Can't you see his adversary? - He likes being alone. Why scare me like that? 744 01:04:47,666 --> 01:04:52,208 - It's not true he's alone. - Who's he with? - Death. 745 01:05:45,250 --> 01:05:49,750 - What a scare! - Never again, huh? 746 01:05:51,666 --> 01:05:57,416 - You promised we'd always be together. - It's that damned schedule board. 747 01:05:57,458 --> 01:06:01,791 It's even okay, but it robs us of an important thing, chance. 748 01:06:01,833 --> 01:06:06,333 You're right. You're right. 749 01:06:06,375 --> 01:06:10,291 Do you agree because I'm the last person you talked to? 750 01:06:10,333 --> 01:06:12,208 Yes, maybe. 751 01:06:14,458 --> 01:06:17,333 Good evening. 752 01:06:17,375 --> 01:06:20,458 - We've been really fine. - Great. 753 01:06:20,500 --> 01:06:24,833 We made a "roached" egg, now they're sleeping peacefully. 754 01:06:24,875 --> 01:06:26,541 I'll take you home. 755 01:06:33,083 --> 01:06:35,583 2 JUNE 2009 - AIRBUS 447 756 01:06:38,250 --> 01:06:41,125 TWIN TOWERS 12 SEPTEMBER 2009 757 01:06:41,166 --> 01:06:43,541 1 MARCH 2019 758 01:06:43,583 --> 01:06:46,125 Anna drew our family,... 759 01:06:46,166 --> 01:06:48,916 ..with today's date, but without Pietro. 760 01:06:50,875 --> 01:06:53,875 We're doing things all wrong with her. 761 01:06:58,666 --> 01:07:01,291 Me, with them both. 762 01:07:09,541 --> 01:07:15,750 What would these people's' parents say, seeing them unhappy and tormented? 763 01:07:15,791 --> 01:07:18,416 Would they ever have imagined their kids,... 764 01:07:18,458 --> 01:07:22,833 ..who once ran on grass and skinned their knees on gravel,... 765 01:07:22,875 --> 01:07:28,750 ..would have rotted on Bus 48 to go earn peanuts doing a job they don't love? 766 01:07:30,708 --> 01:07:37,333 What's the sense? What do we want? What do we believe in? 767 01:07:37,375 --> 01:07:43,000 Are we a country, a community? What's the sense of life? 768 01:07:44,375 --> 01:07:46,750 Why do we have kids? 769 01:07:46,791 --> 01:07:49,208 - Careful. - What? 770 01:07:49,250 --> 01:07:52,541 - Careful. - What did you say? - Careful! 771 01:07:52,583 --> 01:07:57,250 - I'll bust your ass. - You'll do what? - I'll bust your ass. 772 01:07:57,291 --> 01:08:00,250 - I don't understand. - Can't hear? I'll bust your ass. 773 01:08:00,291 --> 01:08:03,250 - You? I'll bust your ass! - Oh! 774 01:08:03,291 --> 01:08:06,833 - You'll do what? Repeat that. - No, you'll do what? 775 01:08:06,875 --> 01:08:09,708 - You repeat that. - Repeat what you said. 776 01:08:09,750 --> 01:08:12,583 - Repeat what you said. - You to me? 777 01:08:12,625 --> 01:08:16,458 - You repeat. - Oh, no. I'll bust your ass. 778 01:08:16,500 --> 01:08:20,416 Conflicts can often be reduced to problems of communication. 779 01:08:22,333 --> 01:08:26,250 Communicating is the most difficult thing. 780 01:08:27,916 --> 01:08:31,583 You'll see, when Pietro can talk, you'll become friends. 781 01:08:34,208 --> 01:08:38,416 He'll always protect you and you'll want to protect him. 782 01:08:42,875 --> 01:08:46,000 I saw your drawing of our family. 783 01:08:53,125 --> 01:08:55,250 Yes, because... 784 01:08:55,291 --> 01:09:00,416 ..if tragedies can really be canceled by drawing... 785 01:09:00,458 --> 01:09:03,000 ..then I canceled him. 786 01:09:12,083 --> 01:09:14,416 Do you trust mommy? 787 01:09:18,625 --> 01:09:22,166 Believe me, you'll soon change your mind about him. 788 01:09:22,208 --> 01:09:26,458 You'll play together, invent fantastic things,... 789 01:09:26,500 --> 01:09:29,875 ..it's easier to make fun of your parents. 790 01:09:29,916 --> 01:09:33,333 You'll be allies against us. 791 01:09:34,750 --> 01:09:37,750 But I'll always find you out. 792 01:09:37,791 --> 01:09:40,958 - I don't think so. - I really do. 793 01:09:41,000 --> 01:09:44,875 - No. - Yes! - No! 794 01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:48,000 Can I have a hug? 795 01:10:07,875 --> 01:10:13,291 What did you say? Tell me what you said, repeat it. 796 01:10:13,333 --> 01:10:17,291 You won't? Oh, ok. 797 01:10:17,333 --> 01:10:19,125 No, you... 798 01:10:19,166 --> 01:10:22,583 chapter 7 THE CRISIS 799 01:10:22,625 --> 01:10:26,333 Aunts, dogs, cousins, grannies, tables piled with food,... 800 01:10:26,375 --> 01:10:28,458 ..it was the enlarged family. 801 01:10:28,500 --> 01:10:32,875 A great family network... 802 01:10:37,083 --> 01:10:39,333 - Listening to me? - Sure. 803 01:10:39,375 --> 01:10:44,125 He always does things later. "I'll do it later". 804 01:10:44,166 --> 01:10:47,875 He always has all the world's ills, I never have crap. 805 01:10:51,541 --> 01:10:55,791 I ask him to get something? He can never find it. 806 01:10:55,833 --> 01:10:59,000 It's right under his nose, he can't see it: "It's not here". 807 01:10:59,041 --> 01:11:04,875 Kids expect their parents to be anchors. Careful, this jackass is gonna shoot. 808 01:11:04,916 --> 01:11:08,583 Ow! Eugenio! I'll kill you, by God! 809 01:11:10,916 --> 01:11:12,833 What was I saying? 810 01:11:17,125 --> 01:11:19,333 Disgusting! What is it? 811 01:11:20,583 --> 01:11:21,750 A dormouse. 812 01:11:21,791 --> 01:11:26,250 - What's a dormouse? - A dormouse is a dormouse. 813 01:11:30,958 --> 01:11:34,541 - You eat it? - Except the teeth. 814 01:11:45,083 --> 01:11:47,083 Listen,... 815 01:11:47,125 --> 01:11:50,000 ..I believe we all... 816 01:11:50,041 --> 01:11:54,791 ..have to develop a sense of community. 817 01:11:56,291 --> 01:12:00,416 We have to see that we're united, we're not enemies. 818 01:12:02,500 --> 01:12:05,916 The problem isn't the dormouse,... 819 01:12:05,958 --> 01:12:09,000 ..but this kitchen is in disastrous conditions,... 820 01:12:09,041 --> 01:12:13,083 ..the areas are dirty, the food's preserved badly. 821 01:12:13,125 --> 01:12:17,458 It's not only dangerous, it's also very sad. 822 01:12:28,125 --> 01:12:32,916 Besides, recently my wife's been having a serious problem with her head. 823 01:12:32,958 --> 01:12:34,833 What problem? 824 01:12:36,375 --> 01:12:40,791 Huh? - Something neurological, she has to do a CAT scan. 825 01:12:40,833 --> 01:12:44,583 - I'm sorry, I didn't know. - Happens. 826 01:12:44,625 --> 01:12:47,250 Meaning? 827 01:12:47,291 --> 01:12:51,083 She doesn't see what I do. 828 01:12:51,125 --> 01:12:55,625 She doesn't realize the incredible effort I make at home. 829 01:12:55,666 --> 01:13:00,500 She doesn't acknowledge it, doesn't see it. It's clearly something with the brain. 830 01:13:00,541 --> 01:13:02,958 - Sara, exactly the same. - See? 831 01:13:03,000 --> 01:13:06,708 - Mine, too. - Mine too, she just criticizes. 832 01:13:06,750 --> 01:13:08,958 An MRI is a good idea. 833 01:13:11,375 --> 01:13:14,250 See? He shoots! 834 01:13:28,750 --> 01:13:31,666 I think it's my fault. 835 01:13:31,708 --> 01:13:36,291 For how I was raised, for how my dad was at home. 836 01:13:36,333 --> 01:13:42,083 Maybe I can't keep the pace, although I think I do so much. 837 01:13:42,125 --> 01:13:48,125 Doing "so much" is always compared to an imagined average of fathers who do nothing. 838 01:13:49,375 --> 01:13:53,083 I wasn't raised to take care of others. 839 01:13:55,083 --> 01:13:59,083 - What's your name, sweetie? - Pietro. 840 01:13:59,125 --> 01:14:01,958 What interesting things have you done today? 841 01:14:02,000 --> 01:14:04,958 - We took a walk. - A walk? 842 01:14:05,000 --> 01:14:08,666 You're such a good boy! Where? 843 01:14:08,708 --> 01:14:12,083 - To the park. - You went to the park! 844 01:14:12,125 --> 01:14:14,250 So, you had fun. 845 01:14:16,166 --> 01:14:18,875 He can't talk, he's just a few months old. 846 01:14:18,916 --> 01:14:24,375 - Can't talk, little one? When's your birthday? - No, huh? 847 01:14:24,416 --> 01:14:29,666 Did you tell mommy and daddy what cake you want? And the gifts you want? 848 01:14:29,708 --> 01:14:33,583 I bet you asked for lots of gifts! 849 01:14:33,625 --> 01:14:38,458 - The cake will have lots of candles. - No, not many. 850 01:14:38,500 --> 01:14:42,041 - He's not even a year old. - Did you tell mum and dad... 851 01:14:42,083 --> 01:14:44,416 Fuck off! 852 01:14:44,458 --> 01:14:47,083 - Do you like chocolate? - Oh, yes... 853 01:15:01,500 --> 01:15:05,708 - What is it? - I have to tell you something. 854 01:15:05,750 --> 01:15:07,791 There's another man? 855 01:15:11,041 --> 01:15:15,750 Tuesday's Daniel's birthday, there's a party in a party factory. 856 01:15:15,791 --> 01:15:20,916 Then a dinner for carnival with the parents of Anna's class. 857 01:15:20,958 --> 01:15:25,166 It's really important to her and we have to go. 858 01:15:25,208 --> 01:15:28,083 A dinner for carnival? 859 01:15:28,125 --> 01:15:31,500 - Yes. - In costume? - Yes. 860 01:15:34,666 --> 01:15:38,166 - Do you love me? - Yes, dammit! 861 01:15:38,208 --> 01:15:41,250 - You know I don't know? - Don't worry. 862 01:15:41,291 --> 01:15:44,291 - Sorry, I'm so tired. - It'll pass. 863 01:15:44,333 --> 01:15:47,833 - It will? - I don't know. 864 01:15:51,625 --> 01:15:54,708 All parents suffer a crisis sooner or later. 865 01:16:14,375 --> 01:16:15,750 Yes! 866 01:16:15,791 --> 01:16:18,500 - I want Leticia and Jhun! - Sweetie, they're on vacation. 867 01:16:18,541 --> 01:16:22,250 - I don't want you, I want them! - Honey, they're in the Philippines. 868 01:16:22,291 --> 01:16:27,083 I don't want you, I want to go to Manila! I want mommy Leticia! 869 01:16:42,500 --> 01:16:44,541 You shit! 870 01:16:45,750 --> 01:16:52,875 Your son's asking for you and you're here having sex with a no-good Venetian. 871 01:16:52,916 --> 01:16:56,166 Actually, Samantha's from Friuli. 872 01:16:56,208 --> 01:16:58,875 We each experience the crisis our own way. 873 01:16:58,916 --> 01:17:01,916 But all parents have one thing in common. 874 01:17:01,958 --> 01:17:05,916 In a country where we all hate everyone, at work, in politics,... 875 01:17:05,958 --> 01:17:07,791 ..in condominium meetings,... 876 01:17:07,833 --> 01:17:11,166 ..the distress level can be seen by the small things. 877 01:17:11,208 --> 01:17:15,166 Like the odd, incontestable freedom to use a certain violence... 878 01:17:15,208 --> 01:17:18,041 ..when cleaning a child's mouth. 879 01:17:18,083 --> 01:17:23,291 After two swipes, the next one is harsh, violent. 880 01:17:23,333 --> 01:17:29,625 Fathers, mothers, grandmothers, at the third swipe, pull out a certain anger,... 881 01:17:29,666 --> 01:17:33,916 ..like saying: "Kid, you're a pain in the ass". 882 01:17:48,083 --> 01:17:50,000 Whatever we encounter in there,... 883 01:17:50,041 --> 01:17:53,666 ..we have more chance of survival if we stick together. 884 01:17:53,708 --> 01:17:55,041 - Okay. - Okay. 885 01:17:59,041 --> 01:18:01,250 Let's leave, what are we doing here? 886 01:18:01,291 --> 01:18:05,541 Are you crazy? Over my dead body. Let's go. 887 01:18:05,583 --> 01:18:09,708 Anna, how about a nice ice cream cone? - No. 888 01:18:09,750 --> 01:18:11,875 - A fun fair? - No. 889 01:18:11,916 --> 01:18:16,875 - Euro Disney Paris, we'll leave tonight. - Don't worry Dad, we're here. 890 01:18:18,458 --> 01:18:22,083 For some mysterious reason... 891 01:18:22,125 --> 01:18:25,708 ..party factories are always managed by convicted felons. 892 01:18:25,750 --> 01:18:27,875 Oh! 893 01:18:28,500 --> 01:18:33,916 There are 300 children in five or six parties playing in different adjacent areas. 894 01:18:33,958 --> 01:18:39,250 So, for a child to get lost and be kidnapped by one of the delinquents... 895 01:18:39,291 --> 01:18:42,000 ..is a plausible scenario. 896 01:19:04,208 --> 01:19:08,750 - This was a fucking stupid thing to do. - Anna, You'll get hurt! 897 01:19:08,791 --> 01:19:13,500 Friends used to meet over dinner, in clubs,... 898 01:19:13,541 --> 01:19:17,208 ..now, at the drugstore or places like this. 899 01:19:17,250 --> 01:19:20,750 - Look! - Pay attention, Anna! 900 01:19:20,791 --> 01:19:24,666 - What's happened to us? - You're right. 901 01:19:24,708 --> 01:19:27,000 It's a disaster. 902 01:19:27,041 --> 01:19:33,750 I think if Italy is at zero growth levels, there must be a reason. 903 01:19:33,791 --> 01:19:36,750 Always putting Italians down... 904 01:19:36,791 --> 01:19:40,166 ..instead they've discovered, before others,... 905 01:19:40,208 --> 01:19:43,708 ..that having kids is a screw-up. 906 01:19:44,625 --> 01:19:49,958 We should lay bets on food service and death. 907 01:19:51,625 --> 01:19:57,458 But the two combined. The key is to destroy ourselves. 908 01:19:57,500 --> 01:20:00,958 Knock ourselves out with plates of lasagna. 909 01:20:01,000 --> 01:20:06,125 See that guy? He, before others, understood that principle. 910 01:20:06,166 --> 01:20:11,166 - Which guy? - That guy. - Which one? - That guy! 911 01:20:12,000 --> 01:20:16,458 - That's Farinetti! - They're the gurus of our times. 912 01:20:16,500 --> 01:20:18,750 They see what we don't. Inserisci solo 913 01:20:18,791 --> 01:20:22,375 - Don't you have a deli? - Yeah. 914 01:20:22,416 --> 01:20:26,875 Good, he's the father of my daughter's friend, I'll introduce you. 915 01:20:32,125 --> 01:20:33,958 Shh. Hold still! 916 01:20:34,000 --> 01:20:37,750 I understand, you're good. 917 01:20:37,791 --> 01:20:41,791 I'll drop by. - We want to grow. 918 01:20:41,833 --> 01:20:47,416 Why don't we go outside? I can't hear a thing. - I can't, my daughter's here. 919 01:20:47,458 --> 01:20:54,208 Come over to Eataly, we can talk. 920 01:20:54,250 --> 01:20:58,250 - What? - It's a nightmare. - Eataly is a nightmare? 921 01:20:58,291 --> 01:21:02,000 It's a horrible thing, emblematic of our times. 922 01:21:09,833 --> 01:21:11,708 Something must have happened. 923 01:21:11,750 --> 01:21:16,083 Suddenly, his face changed and he walked away. 924 01:21:16,125 --> 01:21:20,916 There was such a ruckus... But he was nice. 925 01:21:22,333 --> 01:21:25,541 Want me to push? Huh? 926 01:21:25,583 --> 01:21:31,250 What was it? Let's stick together? 927 01:22:02,000 --> 01:22:05,916 The grill is everything and we owe everything to the grill. 928 01:22:05,958 --> 01:22:09,250 - Know why? Nicola, right? - Yeah. 929 01:22:09,291 --> 01:22:13,166 In prehistoric times, Man's huge step was when he started cooking meat. 930 01:22:13,208 --> 01:22:17,291 Dinner became a moment of sociability, Man's jaw changed... 931 01:22:17,333 --> 01:22:20,666 ..he no longer had to rip off hunks of meat to nourish himself... 932 01:22:20,708 --> 01:22:22,541 ..and he started to talk. 933 01:22:22,583 --> 01:22:24,625 We owe everything to the barbecue. 934 01:22:24,666 --> 01:22:28,291 Like the lemon tree, if you want it to bear fruit, you have to beat it. 935 01:22:28,333 --> 01:22:31,458 You start at the base of the trunk and... Pem! Pem! 936 01:22:31,500 --> 01:22:38,416 Then move up, not all the way obviously, it's too high. Pem! Pem! Pem! Oh? 937 01:22:38,458 --> 01:22:42,875 Bio is dead, bio doesn't exist, bio my ass. Look. 938 01:22:43,916 --> 01:22:46,500 - Mommy, I'm thirsty. - Yes. 939 01:22:46,541 --> 01:22:50,166 - Taste these tomatoes, they come from the farm. - I'll eat them later. 940 01:22:50,208 --> 01:22:53,125 - Just taste. - We've had desert. 941 01:22:53,166 --> 01:22:55,458 In fact, they're sweet, taste them. 942 01:22:57,791 --> 01:23:01,958 - Excuse me. - Good? Don't throw it out. 943 01:23:06,041 --> 01:23:09,416 - I'll take him for some air. - Better not to. 944 01:23:09,458 --> 01:23:12,000 - Why? - He's not used to it. 945 01:23:18,708 --> 01:23:25,625 1920, Henry Ford made a car of hemp. 946 01:23:25,666 --> 01:23:30,708 Steering wheel, dashboard, chassis of hemp. It ran on grain alcohol. 947 01:23:30,750 --> 01:23:36,291 - Guess what he did? - He smoked it? - No. 948 01:23:36,333 --> 01:23:40,958 The Americans bought the patent for the fuel and made it disappear. 949 01:23:41,000 --> 01:23:43,583 - Excuse-me. - Okay. 950 01:24:01,250 --> 01:24:05,583 - Sorry! Where are you going? - To breathe. 951 01:24:05,625 --> 01:24:10,208 Single mother, you go to breathe and toss the kid in the stroller? 952 01:24:10,250 --> 01:24:13,750 - I tossed the kid in the stroller? - Didn't you? 953 01:24:13,791 --> 01:24:17,166 When the crisis appears irreversible, various scenarios open. 954 01:24:17,208 --> 01:24:21,583 You have no idea what responsibility means. 955 01:24:21,625 --> 01:24:23,791 You don't know the ones I take on. 956 01:24:23,833 --> 01:24:26,708 You don't hear me? Because you never do. 957 01:24:26,750 --> 01:24:32,041 You don't hear me! You never listen to me. 958 01:24:32,083 --> 01:24:35,166 You've never been there, your kids don't know you. 959 01:24:35,208 --> 01:24:39,208 - That's not true! - Reveal yourself! 960 01:24:39,250 --> 01:24:42,916 I assume my responsibilities but you don't see them,... 961 01:24:42,958 --> 01:24:46,666 ..there's just you, your mother and the devil take you, sorry, Your Honor. 962 01:24:46,708 --> 01:24:52,041 You're an amoeba, always on the couch. I don't see you, you're an ectoplasm. 963 01:24:52,083 --> 01:24:56,500 I DON'T SEE YOU BECAUSE YOU DON'T EXIST, GODDAMMIT! 964 01:24:57,041 --> 01:25:01,375 - You don't see me. - You don't see me. - I'll jump! 965 01:25:01,416 --> 01:25:05,166 Some don't decide anything and keep arguing,... 966 01:25:05,208 --> 01:25:09,916 ..raising the temperature higher and ruining their kids' lives. 967 01:25:17,916 --> 01:25:22,458 Some decide to return home later and later. 968 01:26:20,041 --> 01:26:22,666 THE ADVENTURES OF ALICE IN WONDERLAND 969 01:27:26,041 --> 01:27:30,208 And then, some try to stay. 970 01:27:51,041 --> 01:27:53,708 The baby will start to calm down when you do. 971 01:27:53,750 --> 01:27:56,708 Chapter 8 THE LITTLE THINGS 972 01:27:58,208 --> 01:28:02,375 If you're not frustrated, he won't be. 973 01:28:03,458 --> 01:28:06,250 He's what you are,... 974 01:28:06,291 --> 01:28:09,583 ..and will be what you decide to be. 975 01:28:12,041 --> 01:28:14,708 You made him,... 976 01:28:14,750 --> 01:28:18,625 ..he represents, puts on stage,... 977 01:28:18,666 --> 01:28:21,375 ..your relationship. 978 01:28:21,416 --> 01:28:24,833 That's why you must give yourselves peace. 979 01:28:24,875 --> 01:28:28,083 So, he'll also give you peace. 980 01:28:28,958 --> 01:28:35,125 When you put him to sleep, if you hold him in nervous arms... 981 01:28:35,166 --> 01:28:38,208 ..because you have to go out or something,... 982 01:28:38,250 --> 01:28:43,000 ..looking at the time continuously, he won't fall asleep. 983 01:28:43,041 --> 01:28:47,583 But if you try to breathe, be relaxed,... 984 01:28:49,083 --> 01:28:54,083 ..even find pleasure in putting him to sleep,... 985 01:28:54,125 --> 01:28:59,250 ..without counting the minutes, being with him,... 986 01:28:59,291 --> 01:29:03,333 ..you'll look at him and he'll already be sleeping. 987 01:29:03,375 --> 01:29:06,416 The same thing for the older one. 988 01:29:08,125 --> 01:29:12,291 If you accept the baby, she will too. 989 01:29:13,500 --> 01:29:18,458 You have to move to acceptance, you have to accept him. 990 01:29:19,750 --> 01:29:24,416 Things can change only if first you accept them. 991 01:29:25,625 --> 01:29:28,083 It's the same for everything. 992 01:29:28,125 --> 01:29:34,875 For your country, your Party, your family. 993 01:29:37,791 --> 01:29:40,583 Learn to accept. 994 01:29:45,458 --> 01:29:47,583 Learn to stay. 995 01:30:22,041 --> 01:30:24,791 - Thank you. - You're welcome. 996 01:30:26,083 --> 01:30:31,250 - They're delicious. - Thank you. 997 01:30:33,500 --> 01:30:41,250 I love small things. They're the hardest to do, they speak of care. 998 01:30:41,291 --> 01:30:47,083 You prove that managing a restaurant with love and care can be done. 999 01:30:48,500 --> 01:30:51,583 They're the best meatballs in the world. 1000 01:30:52,791 --> 01:30:56,916 I woke with a desire for meatballs this morning. 1001 01:30:56,958 --> 01:30:59,916 - It must be the first cravings. - Because... 1002 01:30:59,958 --> 01:31:04,166 - Yes, I'm pregnant. - Congratulations! - Thank you. 1003 01:31:04,208 --> 01:31:07,041 - Is it the first? - The second. 1004 01:31:08,500 --> 01:31:14,625 - I also have two. - What's it like? Can it be managed? 1005 01:31:26,708 --> 01:31:28,291 Yes, it can. 1006 01:31:32,166 --> 01:31:33,666 Hi. 1007 01:31:34,833 --> 01:31:38,541 Hi, honey. - Hi, Mommy. 1008 01:31:38,583 --> 01:31:43,041 - Hi, how are you? - Fine, you? - Fine. How were things? 1009 01:31:43,083 --> 01:31:48,291 - Fine! The kids? - Great. 1010 01:31:50,500 --> 01:31:55,208 - Did you give Pietro his medicine? - Oh Lord! No. 1011 01:31:55,250 --> 01:31:58,041 No matter, I will, where are they? 1012 01:31:58,083 --> 01:32:02,583 - Where are they? - I asked that. Looking among the CDs? 1013 01:32:02,625 --> 01:32:05,041 Sorry... 1014 01:32:06,041 --> 01:32:10,833 Did you buy them? I asked you to buy them, remember? - I'm off. 1015 01:32:10,875 --> 01:32:15,833 - I remember, you said in the afternoon. - No, morning. 1016 01:32:15,875 --> 01:32:20,416 We both saw the pediatrician, I shouldn't be the only one to remember. 1017 01:32:20,458 --> 01:32:23,416 We both have to remember. 1018 01:32:23,458 --> 01:32:25,583 - Don't grumble. - I'm not grumbling. 1019 01:32:25,625 --> 01:32:27,958 - You grumbled. - No! 1020 01:32:28,000 --> 01:32:32,416 - You grumbled. - What a pain! Yes, I grumbled! You know the day I had? 1021 01:32:32,458 --> 01:32:34,291 Want to know mine? 1022 01:32:34,333 --> 01:32:39,250 I asked if you wanted to know mine. Should we first talk about yours? 1023 01:32:39,291 --> 01:32:42,666 - What did you do today? - The dishwasher, they all saw me. 1024 01:32:42,708 --> 01:32:45,333 - Screw you. - You fly right off the handle. 1025 01:32:45,375 --> 01:32:48,500 If there's something to do, you always do it later... 1026 01:32:48,541 --> 01:32:51,875 We do things together, we do everything together! 1027 01:32:51,916 --> 01:32:57,041 - You do things after I already have. - Why do you do things right away?