1 00:00:00,875 --> 00:00:02,460 [TV static drones] 2 00:00:02,544 --> 00:00:04,796 [bright tone] 3 00:00:06,089 --> 00:00:09,300 - There are a lot of forces in Oklahoma 4 00:00:09,342 --> 00:00:12,846 that want to silence queer people, 5 00:00:12,929 --> 00:00:15,390 especially in places like Bartlesville. 6 00:00:15,473 --> 00:00:18,143 - We're gonna have this meet and greet. 7 00:00:18,184 --> 00:00:20,478 We've taken out a full-page ad in their paper. 8 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:22,605 That got a lot of different responses. 9 00:00:22,647 --> 00:00:26,151 - "Three properly placed bullets would put a quick stop 10 00:00:26,234 --> 00:00:29,070 to this pedo porn BS." - Oh, wow. 11 00:00:29,154 --> 00:00:32,240 [suspenseful music] 12 00:00:32,281 --> 00:00:37,662 ♪ ♪ 13 00:00:37,746 --> 00:00:40,790 - We have homosexual demons. 14 00:00:40,832 --> 00:00:43,293 God calls you an abomination. 15 00:00:50,467 --> 00:00:52,177 - Protesters, to me, are very scary. 16 00:00:52,218 --> 00:00:54,304 You don't know if they're gonna be violent. 17 00:00:54,346 --> 00:00:55,638 You don't know if they have a gun. 18 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:57,223 You don't know what's about to happen. 19 00:00:57,307 --> 00:00:59,517 - A big crowd out there. We got some pushback. 20 00:00:59,559 --> 00:01:02,145 If it gets too scary or they want to fight, 21 00:01:02,228 --> 00:01:05,272 Bartlesville PD has at least two plainclothes in the crowd. 22 00:01:05,357 --> 00:01:07,317 And then they've got some people in the balcony 23 00:01:07,359 --> 00:01:10,487 up here watching for anything. 24 00:01:11,863 --> 00:01:13,323 - Okay. 25 00:01:14,699 --> 00:01:16,618 - We're doing it. [chuckles] 26 00:01:19,871 --> 00:01:22,082 ♪ ♪ 27 00:01:22,164 --> 00:01:25,710 [indistinct chatter through megaphone] 28 00:01:25,752 --> 00:01:27,504 - Wearing that nasty lipstick 29 00:01:27,545 --> 00:01:29,673 and then trying to say you're a man. 30 00:01:34,551 --> 00:01:38,014 - I did not expect there to be so many people here. 31 00:01:38,056 --> 00:01:39,390 - God hates homosexuality, 32 00:01:39,473 --> 00:01:41,810 and He said homosexuals are going to hell. 33 00:01:41,893 --> 00:01:44,646 [cheers and applause] 34 00:01:46,690 --> 00:01:49,109 - It's the Devil. Pride came from Lucifer. 35 00:01:49,192 --> 00:01:50,777 Read your Bible. 36 00:01:50,860 --> 00:01:52,195 - You're a bunch of drug-crazed, 37 00:01:52,237 --> 00:01:55,031 demon-possessed perverts. 38 00:01:55,073 --> 00:01:57,241 - People don't stand up against sin. 39 00:01:57,283 --> 00:01:58,576 That's what's wrong with this country. 40 00:01:58,660 --> 00:02:00,537 They took God out of the schools. 41 00:02:00,578 --> 00:02:02,247 They took God out of our country. 42 00:02:02,330 --> 00:02:04,582 And that's why we're in this mess. 43 00:02:04,666 --> 00:02:06,459 - Hi, everyone. 44 00:02:06,543 --> 00:02:09,795 - You all are guilty of the truth of God's mercy. 45 00:02:09,878 --> 00:02:12,090 - You all look gorgeous. 46 00:02:12,132 --> 00:02:15,176 - Yeah. - Yes, queen! 47 00:02:15,260 --> 00:02:17,387 [cheers and applause] 48 00:02:17,429 --> 00:02:20,765 - We love you, Bartlesville. 49 00:02:20,849 --> 00:02:22,267 [cheers and applause] 50 00:02:22,308 --> 00:02:23,601 [indistinct chatter through megaphone] 51 00:02:23,685 --> 00:02:27,689 Repent of your sin today and come to Jesus Christ. 52 00:02:27,772 --> 00:02:29,649 - Bartlesville! 53 00:02:29,733 --> 00:02:32,152 [cheers and applause] 54 00:02:32,235 --> 00:02:34,404 - This is not appropriate around children, okay? 55 00:02:34,446 --> 00:02:37,281 This is part of the national woke agenda, 56 00:02:37,323 --> 00:02:39,743 undermining marriage and the family. 57 00:02:39,784 --> 00:02:41,411 - We come to spread the truth. 58 00:02:41,453 --> 00:02:43,538 Pretending to be something you're not is a lie. 59 00:02:43,621 --> 00:02:46,583 - These people preach lies and hate. 60 00:02:46,624 --> 00:02:47,917 That's bullying. 61 00:02:47,959 --> 00:02:50,170 It pisses me off. 62 00:02:50,253 --> 00:02:52,922 - Jesus ain't coming back to love on you. 63 00:02:52,964 --> 00:02:54,424 He's coming back with a sword. 64 00:02:54,466 --> 00:02:57,135 - Demons are alive in Bartlesville. 65 00:02:57,218 --> 00:02:58,803 - You think they're gonna stay the whole time? 66 00:02:58,845 --> 00:02:59,804 - Yeah. 67 00:02:59,888 --> 00:03:01,806 - We have terrorists. 68 00:03:04,976 --> 00:03:06,811 - Where are the people who are supposed to representing 69 00:03:06,853 --> 00:03:08,146 this community? 70 00:03:08,188 --> 00:03:09,689 - Do you hear him screaming about... 71 00:03:09,773 --> 00:03:10,857 - OKEQ. 72 00:03:10,940 --> 00:03:13,109 - There are people who are threatening this community. 73 00:03:13,151 --> 00:03:14,736 Where are they at? 74 00:03:14,819 --> 00:03:16,988 - They didn't even show up. - Calling them out. 75 00:03:17,072 --> 00:03:19,157 - Where they at? OKEQ Bartlesville. 76 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:21,326 They ain't out here with us! 77 00:03:21,368 --> 00:03:23,078 - The fact that the equality center 78 00:03:23,161 --> 00:03:25,372 didn't want to participate makes me angry. 79 00:03:25,454 --> 00:03:27,165 - Start acting like a real man. 80 00:03:27,248 --> 00:03:28,958 - This is a wake-up call. 81 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:32,128 The rights that we have advanced, 82 00:03:32,170 --> 00:03:33,463 I feel like some of them are starting 83 00:03:33,505 --> 00:03:35,090 to go the opposite way. 84 00:03:35,173 --> 00:03:37,550 This is a Stonewall all over again. 85 00:03:46,768 --> 00:03:49,853 [cheers and applause] 86 00:03:49,938 --> 00:03:51,523 - We're gonna be brave. 87 00:03:51,564 --> 00:03:55,402 We have a responsibility to be bold for this community. 88 00:03:55,485 --> 00:03:57,070 - If they want to be loud with their hate, 89 00:03:57,153 --> 00:04:00,323 we're gonna be louder with our love, and that's just it. 90 00:04:00,365 --> 00:04:02,742 I'm sorry. I got to ask a question. 91 00:04:02,826 --> 00:04:05,412 - How long does it take to look that ugly? 92 00:04:05,495 --> 00:04:07,247 - Would you like to have a conversation? 93 00:04:07,330 --> 00:04:08,540 - How long? 94 00:04:08,581 --> 00:04:12,085 How many thousands of dollars does it take to look that ugly? 95 00:04:12,168 --> 00:04:13,378 - Would you like me to tell you? 96 00:04:13,461 --> 00:04:14,838 - Your mirror is your worst enemy. 97 00:04:14,879 --> 00:04:16,089 - Would you like to know? 98 00:04:16,172 --> 00:04:17,882 - That's why you tried to disfigure 99 00:04:17,966 --> 00:04:20,427 your image in the mirror. 100 00:04:20,510 --> 00:04:22,345 [indistinct shouting] 101 00:04:22,387 --> 00:04:24,764 - Your PMS is showing, ma'am, PMS. 102 00:04:24,848 --> 00:04:27,809 - Wow. 103 00:04:27,892 --> 00:04:30,729 - My wife knows her place. 104 00:04:30,812 --> 00:04:33,565 [crowd booing] 105 00:04:33,606 --> 00:04:37,819 - A real man is speaking over here. 106 00:04:37,902 --> 00:04:39,821 [cheers and applause] 107 00:04:39,904 --> 00:04:42,949 - Yes! - Hello. 108 00:04:43,033 --> 00:04:45,869 I'm a real man. 109 00:04:45,909 --> 00:04:48,288 A real man is speaking. 110 00:04:48,371 --> 00:04:52,042 - This is what real people look like. 111 00:04:53,918 --> 00:04:55,754 all: [chanting] Love wins. 112 00:04:55,795 --> 00:04:57,047 Love wins. 113 00:04:57,088 --> 00:04:58,631 Love wins. 114 00:04:58,715 --> 00:05:00,050 Love wins. 115 00:05:00,091 --> 00:05:01,259 Love wins. 116 00:05:01,343 --> 00:05:03,136 Love wins. 117 00:05:03,219 --> 00:05:04,512 Love wins. 118 00:05:04,596 --> 00:05:07,515 Love wins. Love wins. 119 00:05:07,599 --> 00:05:11,019 - The pouring of love that combated and drowned out 120 00:05:11,102 --> 00:05:13,938 all of the hate was massive. 121 00:05:13,980 --> 00:05:17,901 Complete opposite of what we heard from the equality people 122 00:05:17,942 --> 00:05:19,819 telling us, no, don't come. 123 00:05:19,903 --> 00:05:21,446 That spoke volumes to me. 124 00:05:21,488 --> 00:05:23,239 That told me everything I needed 125 00:05:23,281 --> 00:05:24,741 to know about Bartlesville. 126 00:05:26,785 --> 00:05:30,080 - I'm here to support the LGBTQ community. 127 00:05:30,163 --> 00:05:32,999 - Drag's been around for centuries. 128 00:05:33,082 --> 00:05:34,501 It's a form of entertainment. 129 00:05:34,584 --> 00:05:37,170 Why now is it offensive? 130 00:05:37,253 --> 00:05:39,005 - I'm here with our church. 131 00:05:39,089 --> 00:05:43,468 It was just so important to us that we weren't that, 132 00:05:43,551 --> 00:05:45,387 because our God is so much bigger than that. 133 00:05:45,470 --> 00:05:46,554 Our God is love. 134 00:05:46,638 --> 00:05:48,348 - You're beautiful... - Thank you. 135 00:05:48,431 --> 00:05:50,308 - Inside and out. - Thank you. 136 00:05:50,392 --> 00:05:52,977 - So many people in our community 137 00:05:53,061 --> 00:05:54,604 need something positive. 138 00:05:54,646 --> 00:05:57,524 Conservative politicians in this state 139 00:05:57,607 --> 00:05:59,901 and the street preacher that's caused problems for everybody 140 00:05:59,984 --> 00:06:01,903 can suck my left nut. 141 00:06:01,986 --> 00:06:03,571 I don't care. 142 00:06:03,655 --> 00:06:06,783 - Thank you for stirring up the right noise today. 143 00:06:06,825 --> 00:06:10,370 - There are people like us standing up for what's right 144 00:06:10,453 --> 00:06:12,956 in every corner of this country. 145 00:06:12,997 --> 00:06:17,043 We have to keep finding ways to resist and survive. 146 00:06:17,127 --> 00:06:19,963 [all shout, cheer] 147 00:06:20,005 --> 00:06:21,548 - When I say "we're," you say "here." 148 00:06:21,631 --> 00:06:23,299 We're. all: Here! 149 00:06:23,341 --> 00:06:24,968 - We're. all: Here! 150 00:06:25,010 --> 00:06:28,138 [cheers and applause] 151 00:06:28,179 --> 00:06:31,641 [serious music] 152 00:06:31,683 --> 00:06:35,311 ♪ ♪ 153 00:06:35,353 --> 00:06:37,022 - Hi. How are you guys? 154 00:06:37,105 --> 00:06:38,356 Please come in. 155 00:06:38,398 --> 00:06:39,941 Oh, someone will need to grab a chair. 156 00:06:40,025 --> 00:06:41,651 Good to see you guys. 157 00:06:41,693 --> 00:06:43,862 - We are talking to Father Joshua 158 00:06:43,903 --> 00:06:47,532 about doing a drag show in this amazing church. 159 00:06:47,615 --> 00:06:49,743 When we say "include us," we mean include us. 160 00:06:49,826 --> 00:06:52,495 - Here we go. Here you go. Please sit down. 161 00:06:52,537 --> 00:06:54,080 - Fabulous place. - Thank you. 162 00:06:54,164 --> 00:06:56,541 I spend a lot of time here, so I'm trying to make it-- 163 00:06:56,624 --> 00:06:58,543 Tell me, how are you guys? - So good. 164 00:06:58,626 --> 00:06:59,711 - We're so excited. 165 00:06:59,794 --> 00:07:02,213 We're so grateful that you would even consider opening... 166 00:07:02,297 --> 00:07:03,715 - Oh, my gosh, no. 167 00:07:03,757 --> 00:07:06,426 - This sanctuary as a place to have drag. 168 00:07:06,509 --> 00:07:08,678 - We are so excited to have you guys here 169 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:11,681 and celebrate your gifts and your ministry. 170 00:07:11,723 --> 00:07:13,892 - I got to ask you, are there, like-- 171 00:07:13,975 --> 00:07:16,603 You know, it is a drag show, so we want to be respectful. 172 00:07:16,686 --> 00:07:21,566 Are there any guidelines we should be mindful of? 173 00:07:21,649 --> 00:07:23,401 - We have the same rules for everybody. 174 00:07:23,485 --> 00:07:25,320 So the rules that apply to everyone else 175 00:07:25,403 --> 00:07:26,863 also applies to you. 176 00:07:26,905 --> 00:07:28,782 I like to think of it as a challenge for you guys. 177 00:07:28,865 --> 00:07:30,200 Are you up for a drag challenge? 178 00:07:30,241 --> 00:07:31,951 - I'm always down to have a challenge. 179 00:07:32,034 --> 00:07:35,121 - Okay. So we don't allow any explicit language, 180 00:07:35,205 --> 00:07:37,415 no overt sexual references, 181 00:07:37,457 --> 00:07:39,292 no references to drug use. - Okay. 182 00:07:39,376 --> 00:07:42,087 - And then, of course, nothing that denigrates another group 183 00:07:42,128 --> 00:07:43,546 or another community. 184 00:07:43,588 --> 00:07:45,840 - Me and Sasha have got this whole WAP number. 185 00:07:45,924 --> 00:07:47,926 - Yeah, I'm not sure that's-- - Yeah. 186 00:07:48,009 --> 00:07:48,843 - No. 187 00:07:48,927 --> 00:07:50,595 Do you know what WAP is? - Yes. 188 00:07:50,637 --> 00:07:52,138 - You do? - I do. 189 00:07:52,222 --> 00:07:53,264 - You are progressive. 190 00:07:53,348 --> 00:07:54,891 - I have nephews and nieces, so, yeah. 191 00:07:54,933 --> 00:07:57,519 - What about dance style? - If it's respectful. 192 00:07:57,602 --> 00:07:59,312 - Priyanka is very provocative. 193 00:07:59,396 --> 00:08:00,855 - I can tell. - That's okay? 194 00:08:00,897 --> 00:08:01,898 Like, that's okay? 195 00:08:01,940 --> 00:08:03,733 - Bring it. - Like, just like-- 196 00:08:03,775 --> 00:08:05,276 - No, I feel offended. - I think they'll love me. 197 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:06,444 - Latrice is offended. 198 00:08:06,528 --> 00:08:08,071 - I'm a little triggered right now. 199 00:08:08,113 --> 00:08:09,447 - We'll let Latrice decide. 200 00:08:09,531 --> 00:08:11,199 - I feel like people have misconceptions. 201 00:08:11,282 --> 00:08:13,034 I know you don't, but so many people have misconceptions 202 00:08:13,118 --> 00:08:15,161 about drag and think that we're trying to-- 203 00:08:15,245 --> 00:08:17,664 we need to be doing something sexual, and that's-- 204 00:08:17,747 --> 00:08:19,791 - That's so not it. - Drag is for everyone. 205 00:08:19,832 --> 00:08:22,627 So this is gonna be a very diverse audience. 206 00:08:22,669 --> 00:08:26,423 We're gonna have kids here, people from 4 to 104 here... 207 00:08:26,464 --> 00:08:28,591 - That's fabulous. - Celebrating with you. 208 00:08:28,633 --> 00:08:30,301 The Parish Church of Saint Jerome 209 00:08:30,385 --> 00:08:31,886 has always erred on the side of inclusion, 210 00:08:31,970 --> 00:08:34,097 and we're courageous in our fight 211 00:08:34,139 --> 00:08:36,390 for the LGBTQIA+ community. 212 00:08:36,474 --> 00:08:38,852 So this is a stand we're proud to take. 213 00:08:38,934 --> 00:08:39,936 - Wow. 214 00:08:39,977 --> 00:08:43,023 - Well, I really applaud your bravery and thank you. 215 00:08:43,106 --> 00:08:45,233 - This is a good step in the right direction 216 00:08:45,316 --> 00:08:47,485 of saying that drag can exist in any kind of space. 217 00:08:47,527 --> 00:08:48,820 - Absolutely. 218 00:08:48,862 --> 00:08:50,739 - Because a lot of states are trying 219 00:08:50,822 --> 00:08:53,116 to put ordinances where it's, like, only for 21-plus, 220 00:08:53,158 --> 00:08:55,035 only in private spaces. 221 00:08:55,118 --> 00:08:58,830 - It is a sacred art, you know, and a form of self-expression. 222 00:08:58,872 --> 00:09:00,749 So this is an opportunity for people who would never 223 00:09:00,832 --> 00:09:03,918 have walked into a drag club, you know, to get to see 224 00:09:04,002 --> 00:09:05,962 what you do and the ministry that you provide 225 00:09:06,004 --> 00:09:07,839 to the community, so... - Okay. 226 00:09:07,881 --> 00:09:09,466 - We're excited to be a part of that. 227 00:09:09,507 --> 00:09:10,925 - Now I have to ask. 228 00:09:11,009 --> 00:09:12,635 If you were to do a drag number, 229 00:09:12,677 --> 00:09:13,928 what would your drag number be? 230 00:09:14,012 --> 00:09:16,097 - Hands down something from "Sister Act." 231 00:09:16,181 --> 00:09:19,142 [laughter] 232 00:09:21,311 --> 00:09:23,438 That's screaming for a drag show. 233 00:09:23,521 --> 00:09:24,647 - Absolutely. 234 00:09:24,689 --> 00:09:28,610 [choir vocalizing] 235 00:09:28,693 --> 00:09:31,821 [dramatic music] 236 00:09:31,863 --> 00:09:38,870 ♪ ♪ 237 00:09:40,872 --> 00:09:42,832 - Taboo. - Oh, bro. 238 00:09:42,874 --> 00:09:44,834 - We should do that. That was hilarious. 239 00:09:44,876 --> 00:09:46,920 - We don't have it here. - Hello, darling. 240 00:09:47,003 --> 00:09:47,921 - Hey. 241 00:09:48,004 --> 00:09:50,715 - How are you? - Good. How are you? 242 00:09:50,757 --> 00:09:52,592 - What's the game of choice tonight? 243 00:09:52,676 --> 00:09:53,718 - Brain Fart. 244 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:55,762 - Oh, I don't even know this one. 245 00:09:55,845 --> 00:09:57,889 - All right, so the youngest player goes first 246 00:09:57,972 --> 00:09:59,557 - All right. You go first. 247 00:09:59,641 --> 00:10:01,810 - Okay. - Okay, you ready? 248 00:10:01,893 --> 00:10:05,230 - I am completely obsessed with Jess and her family. 249 00:10:05,313 --> 00:10:08,316 Her sweet and precocious kids 250 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:11,569 who are so different from each other and Shelly. 251 00:10:11,653 --> 00:10:14,948 Everyone's nails at this table look amazing. 252 00:10:15,031 --> 00:10:15,865 - Right? 253 00:10:15,907 --> 00:10:17,784 - Did you all go together? - We did. 254 00:10:17,867 --> 00:10:19,994 - [gasps] I love that. 255 00:10:20,078 --> 00:10:22,997 - When we decided to tell the kids, 256 00:10:23,081 --> 00:10:26,251 we actually told my oldest daughter first. 257 00:10:26,292 --> 00:10:30,505 - To me, it was more shocking, not in, like, a bad way. 258 00:10:30,588 --> 00:10:32,757 It was just because I didn't see any signs 259 00:10:32,799 --> 00:10:35,844 that she would be trans. 260 00:10:35,927 --> 00:10:37,762 I really didn't look at her any differently. 261 00:10:37,846 --> 00:10:41,307 You know, like, I still love her the same. 262 00:10:41,391 --> 00:10:43,018 - I was wondering if you've done 263 00:10:43,101 --> 00:10:47,689 the classic teen girl going to the drugstore and buying 264 00:10:47,772 --> 00:10:50,650 as many random makeup products as strike your fancy. 265 00:10:50,734 --> 00:10:52,777 - No, I have not done that. - [chuckles] 266 00:10:52,861 --> 00:10:55,572 - Red blush does actually go with a lot of skin tones. 267 00:10:55,613 --> 00:10:58,116 At my school, there's obviously kids 268 00:10:58,199 --> 00:11:00,952 that are gonna, like, make jokes about it. 269 00:11:00,994 --> 00:11:04,789 And at my church, they don't even try. 270 00:11:06,875 --> 00:11:09,794 - Microphone? - But it's a trend. 271 00:11:09,878 --> 00:11:12,088 - Trends are, like, what's cool. 272 00:11:12,130 --> 00:11:13,631 - Yeah, like, what's trending now. 273 00:11:13,715 --> 00:11:14,924 - Like, brushed-up brows. 274 00:11:14,966 --> 00:11:18,136 - Like what? - The brushed-up brows. 275 00:11:18,219 --> 00:11:20,388 - Look at you. 276 00:11:20,472 --> 00:11:24,642 - [crying] She's been through a lot, and, like... 277 00:11:24,726 --> 00:11:27,145 it's just scary because not everybody's 278 00:11:27,187 --> 00:11:31,358 going to accept her as she should be. 279 00:11:31,441 --> 00:11:35,487 [soft music] 280 00:11:35,528 --> 00:11:37,322 - My daughters love me. 281 00:11:37,364 --> 00:11:40,158 I just wish... 282 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:42,660 I would not ever cause them pain. 283 00:11:42,702 --> 00:11:44,871 [laughter] 284 00:11:44,954 --> 00:11:48,540 - Would it be okay if I grabbed Shelly for a moment? 285 00:11:48,625 --> 00:11:52,337 ♪ ♪ 286 00:11:52,379 --> 00:11:56,007 Thank you so much for having a little sit-down with me. 287 00:11:56,091 --> 00:11:58,176 - Yes. - How has this experience been? 288 00:11:58,259 --> 00:12:02,305 The prospect of Jess doing drag, sharing your story. 289 00:12:02,347 --> 00:12:05,225 - Well, I mean, so the prospect of her doing drag is-- 290 00:12:05,308 --> 00:12:09,020 I'm really excited for her. I think she needs this push. 291 00:12:09,062 --> 00:12:11,606 Like, even just as the days are progressing, 292 00:12:11,690 --> 00:12:13,400 she's coming out a little bit more, 293 00:12:13,483 --> 00:12:15,777 which is good, because before, it was, what am I doing? 294 00:12:15,860 --> 00:12:17,612 I can't believe I'm doing this. 295 00:12:17,696 --> 00:12:20,031 Because she gets so worried about the impact 296 00:12:20,115 --> 00:12:22,200 that it will have on us, on the family. 297 00:12:22,283 --> 00:12:23,827 - Right. 298 00:12:23,868 --> 00:12:28,289 How has disclosing that she's a woman changed her? 299 00:12:28,373 --> 00:12:30,333 - She's more lighthearted. 300 00:12:30,375 --> 00:12:34,045 Like, when I knew Troy, he was always, like, all business. 301 00:12:34,087 --> 00:12:37,966 But with her, it feels like, hey, I can have fun with this. 302 00:12:38,049 --> 00:12:41,761 I can be work and family 303 00:12:41,845 --> 00:12:43,471 and Jess and-- 304 00:12:43,555 --> 00:12:44,889 You know? 305 00:12:44,931 --> 00:12:47,475 - You're describing, like, a full person. 306 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:48,685 - Exactly. 307 00:12:48,727 --> 00:12:50,562 - Like she's finally able to be a full person. 308 00:12:50,603 --> 00:12:51,896 - Yeah. 309 00:12:51,980 --> 00:12:55,442 - Did you have any inkling that... 310 00:12:55,525 --> 00:12:57,444 that Jess was there all along? 311 00:12:57,527 --> 00:12:58,778 - None. - Hmm. 312 00:12:58,862 --> 00:13:00,780 - Yeah. Definitely surprised. 313 00:13:00,864 --> 00:13:02,073 I'd be crying. 314 00:13:02,157 --> 00:13:05,243 I'd be devastated because the person I'd been with 315 00:13:05,285 --> 00:13:08,663 for 20 years, like, no longer existed. 316 00:13:08,747 --> 00:13:10,248 - There's a certain loss, for sure. 317 00:13:10,290 --> 00:13:11,541 - Yeah. 318 00:13:11,583 --> 00:13:14,919 And it was painful because... 319 00:13:15,003 --> 00:13:18,089 I'd always said, like, I like manly men, you know? 320 00:13:18,173 --> 00:13:20,633 I like the beards, and I like, you know, the muscles 321 00:13:20,717 --> 00:13:21,801 and stuff. 322 00:13:21,885 --> 00:13:23,803 And she's like, I'm not a man. 323 00:13:23,887 --> 00:13:25,513 - It's not me. 324 00:13:25,597 --> 00:13:27,432 How is your relationship now? 325 00:13:27,515 --> 00:13:30,769 - We're focused on, you know, 326 00:13:30,852 --> 00:13:33,146 the friendship aspect of it. 327 00:13:33,229 --> 00:13:35,648 I don't think she's ready to be with anyone right now... 328 00:13:35,732 --> 00:13:37,317 - That's fair. - Because... 329 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:40,945 she needs to learn how to love herself and accept herself 330 00:13:40,987 --> 00:13:43,615 before she can be with anyone else. 331 00:13:43,656 --> 00:13:44,908 - Yeah. 332 00:13:44,949 --> 00:13:48,745 - The thing that worries me is that... 333 00:13:48,787 --> 00:13:52,624 she won't love herself the way that we love her. 334 00:13:52,665 --> 00:13:53,875 - Yeah. 335 00:13:53,958 --> 00:13:56,711 What do you think she needs to get there? 336 00:13:56,795 --> 00:13:58,338 - Maybe being recognized as a woman, 337 00:13:58,421 --> 00:14:00,757 you know, from someone that doesn't know 338 00:14:00,799 --> 00:14:02,759 what she's been through. - Right. 339 00:14:02,801 --> 00:14:04,719 - Like, getting that confirmation... 340 00:14:04,803 --> 00:14:05,804 - Yeah. 341 00:14:05,887 --> 00:14:08,098 - The drag show, it's gonna be amazing for her. 342 00:14:08,139 --> 00:14:09,891 Jess is just coming out of her shell. 343 00:14:09,974 --> 00:14:13,311 It's just helping her be more confident in who she is. 344 00:14:13,353 --> 00:14:17,232 - You would miss Jess if she were to bury that again? 345 00:14:17,315 --> 00:14:18,400 - I would. 346 00:14:18,483 --> 00:14:20,652 I think it would be harder to let her go 347 00:14:20,735 --> 00:14:22,904 than it was to let Troy go. - Whoa. 348 00:14:22,987 --> 00:14:24,614 - You know? - Oh. 349 00:14:24,656 --> 00:14:27,492 - So... 350 00:14:27,575 --> 00:14:28,827 - Yeah. 351 00:14:28,868 --> 00:14:31,788 I feel like y'all have a happiness 352 00:14:31,830 --> 00:14:33,623 in this house that is-- 353 00:14:33,665 --> 00:14:36,835 it's just wonderful to be around, and it's inspiring. 354 00:14:36,876 --> 00:14:39,254 It gives me hope for this world. 355 00:14:39,337 --> 00:14:42,424 The fact that Jess's family is loving her, 356 00:14:42,507 --> 00:14:47,137 cheering her on, calling her Jess is huge. 357 00:14:47,178 --> 00:14:51,099 It can be so powerful to be seen as are by someone else. 358 00:14:51,182 --> 00:14:53,476 I hope that'll, like, help give her a little boost 359 00:14:53,518 --> 00:14:56,855 of confidence in doing this drag performance. 360 00:14:56,938 --> 00:15:00,025 Let me give you a hug. - Thank you. 361 00:15:02,736 --> 00:15:05,780 [upbeat music] 362 00:15:05,864 --> 00:15:07,657 ♪ ♪ 363 00:15:07,699 --> 00:15:10,452 - In the city of Tulsa and in the state of Oklahoma, 364 00:15:10,535 --> 00:15:13,288 the temperature has gone up significantly. 365 00:15:13,371 --> 00:15:16,708 We've all, in our various categories-- 366 00:15:16,791 --> 00:15:19,169 we're really, I think, in a wave 367 00:15:19,210 --> 00:15:20,712 of pretty vitriolic pushback. 368 00:15:20,754 --> 00:15:23,965 - And I think at a core level, at least for me, was to realize 369 00:15:24,049 --> 00:15:25,884 that we are not an island. 370 00:15:25,925 --> 00:15:27,135 - Hello, everyone. 371 00:15:27,218 --> 00:15:29,596 How are you? I'm Priyanka. 372 00:15:29,679 --> 00:15:31,931 - We got a chance to meet with the Affirming Alliance, 373 00:15:32,015 --> 00:15:35,060 which is a group of clergymen and women 374 00:15:35,143 --> 00:15:37,729 from all different religious backgrounds 375 00:15:37,812 --> 00:15:40,440 who get together and discuss 376 00:15:40,523 --> 00:15:44,861 the importance of acceptance, a safe space within religion. 377 00:15:44,903 --> 00:15:46,071 - This is super exciting. 378 00:15:46,154 --> 00:15:47,655 I would say that in my lifetime, 379 00:15:47,739 --> 00:15:51,034 I would never expect to speak to people like you 380 00:15:51,076 --> 00:15:53,161 about equality, ever. 381 00:15:53,244 --> 00:15:55,288 - In Tulsa, Oklahoma. - Yeah. 382 00:15:55,372 --> 00:15:58,750 - So what are the biggest obstacles 383 00:15:58,792 --> 00:16:02,921 that you're facing by doing the work that you're doing? 384 00:16:03,004 --> 00:16:07,050 - I would say trying to be inclusive 385 00:16:07,092 --> 00:16:09,469 is kind of a contrary notion to lots of Christians. 386 00:16:09,552 --> 00:16:11,346 - I come from an evangelical background. 387 00:16:11,429 --> 00:16:13,014 I come from a Southern Baptist background. 388 00:16:13,098 --> 00:16:16,017 I can pronounce Jesus as a four-syllable word. 389 00:16:16,101 --> 00:16:17,560 I can. [laughter] 390 00:16:17,602 --> 00:16:19,562 - Okay. - You know? 391 00:16:19,604 --> 00:16:20,939 We need to represent. 392 00:16:20,980 --> 00:16:23,108 This is why I wear this in public, 393 00:16:23,191 --> 00:16:25,443 so that people know that there is a safe and sacred space 394 00:16:25,527 --> 00:16:26,778 that they can go. 395 00:16:26,861 --> 00:16:28,279 - How do you deal with people saying 396 00:16:28,363 --> 00:16:30,407 your religion is not truly faithful 397 00:16:30,448 --> 00:16:33,243 if you welcome queer and trans people? 398 00:16:33,284 --> 00:16:35,120 - Each one of us, when we decide 399 00:16:35,203 --> 00:16:38,498 to become welcoming or affirming congregations, 400 00:16:38,581 --> 00:16:40,040 there's a cost. 401 00:16:40,125 --> 00:16:43,461 - It's our responsibility to be louder than the hate. 402 00:16:43,503 --> 00:16:45,505 But it's exhausting. 403 00:16:45,588 --> 00:16:47,882 - It's exhausting. - It's so exhausting, right? 404 00:16:47,966 --> 00:16:50,343 When they are screaming at you, 405 00:16:50,427 --> 00:16:54,180 sometimes you just have to protect yourself and just say, 406 00:16:54,264 --> 00:16:56,141 like, I need to distance myself from this. 407 00:16:56,224 --> 00:16:58,935 This is not a safe environment for me to be in. 408 00:16:58,977 --> 00:17:01,479 - I preached a Pride sermon this summer, 409 00:17:01,521 --> 00:17:03,773 and we had two drag queens do the story hour 410 00:17:03,815 --> 00:17:05,316 in our congregation. 411 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:08,528 We had people leave our church because people were afraid of, 412 00:17:08,611 --> 00:17:12,449 first of all, being a target, you know, once the news got out 413 00:17:12,490 --> 00:17:13,575 that they would come 414 00:17:13,657 --> 00:17:16,202 and someone would shoot up our congregation. 415 00:17:16,286 --> 00:17:18,163 - So do all of you feel safe? 416 00:17:20,290 --> 00:17:22,416 - We're out on the front lines, so... 417 00:17:22,500 --> 00:17:23,917 [laughter] 418 00:17:24,002 --> 00:17:25,377 - I'm scared. 419 00:17:25,462 --> 00:17:27,047 I'm terrified. 420 00:17:27,130 --> 00:17:28,882 - The three of us and our drag daughters 421 00:17:28,965 --> 00:17:31,176 are doing a drag show inside of a church. 422 00:17:31,259 --> 00:17:33,511 How do you all feel about that? [laughter] 423 00:17:33,595 --> 00:17:35,680 We didn't even know how we felt about it, because we're like, 424 00:17:35,764 --> 00:17:37,015 is this gonna be controversial? 425 00:17:37,057 --> 00:17:38,641 Is this gonna be safe? - Yeah. 426 00:17:38,683 --> 00:17:40,101 - And security is real, right? 427 00:17:40,185 --> 00:17:43,063 We have security at the place where I work 428 00:17:43,146 --> 00:17:45,982 because the issues are real, because there are things 429 00:17:46,066 --> 00:17:48,193 that we need to be thoughtful and mindful about. 430 00:17:48,234 --> 00:17:50,111 - Right. - So we always have to do-- 431 00:17:50,195 --> 00:17:51,029 - We have a responsibility 432 00:17:51,071 --> 00:17:53,114 to the people showing up to keep them safe. 433 00:17:53,198 --> 00:17:55,658 - And we live in a state where anybody can be armed 434 00:17:55,700 --> 00:17:58,036 for any reason at any time. 435 00:17:58,078 --> 00:18:02,290 - You are doing, literally, God's work. 436 00:18:02,332 --> 00:18:07,462 ♪ ♪ 437 00:18:07,545 --> 00:18:10,006 - This drag show--are you ready to do drag with me? 438 00:18:10,048 --> 00:18:12,967 - I am living to do drag. 439 00:18:13,051 --> 00:18:15,970 And this is gonna be fabulous. 440 00:18:16,054 --> 00:18:18,348 - You spoke about how you really want 441 00:18:18,390 --> 00:18:21,059 to infuse your two-spirit Indigenous culture 442 00:18:21,101 --> 00:18:22,560 into your performance. - Yes, yes. 443 00:18:22,602 --> 00:18:24,604 - So I found a song by an Indigenous artist. 444 00:18:24,688 --> 00:18:26,022 - Whoa. 445 00:18:26,064 --> 00:18:27,732 - Because your whole mantra, your whole goal, 446 00:18:27,816 --> 00:18:30,610 your whole life mission is to make the Indigenous 447 00:18:30,694 --> 00:18:33,363 and two-spirit community feel a part of something 448 00:18:33,405 --> 00:18:34,864 and feel represented... - Bingo. Bingo. 449 00:18:34,906 --> 00:18:36,574 - And feel alive. 450 00:18:36,616 --> 00:18:40,412 - And then, in turn, taking other cultures, 451 00:18:40,453 --> 00:18:43,081 other people in the group... - Mm-hmm. 452 00:18:43,123 --> 00:18:44,958 - Connecting with the Indigenous 453 00:18:45,041 --> 00:18:47,377 and coming together as a force. - Yeah. 454 00:18:47,419 --> 00:18:50,630 Have you ever worn regalia in drag before? 455 00:18:50,714 --> 00:18:53,591 - No, and I can't wait to. 456 00:18:53,675 --> 00:18:56,511 Eagle wings are very powerful. - Mm-hmm. 457 00:18:56,594 --> 00:18:58,430 - They're used by all Native people. 458 00:18:58,471 --> 00:19:01,224 This is a grizzly black bear... 459 00:19:01,266 --> 00:19:02,767 - Like, from a bear? 460 00:19:02,851 --> 00:19:04,102 - Necklace that I made. 461 00:19:04,185 --> 00:19:06,312 Can you imagine these claws? 462 00:19:06,396 --> 00:19:07,731 - Baby. The claws. - I know. 463 00:19:07,814 --> 00:19:10,442 That's what I'm saying. Eeh! 464 00:19:10,483 --> 00:19:12,235 - How do you think your community is 465 00:19:12,277 --> 00:19:13,403 gonna feel when they see this? 466 00:19:13,445 --> 00:19:15,155 - Oh, let me just share with you. 467 00:19:15,238 --> 00:19:18,366 They're gonna be so excited that you all are here 468 00:19:18,450 --> 00:19:20,035 and you're recognizing them. 469 00:19:20,118 --> 00:19:23,788 That alone gives healing and happiness... 470 00:19:23,872 --> 00:19:24,914 - Mm-hmm. 471 00:19:24,956 --> 00:19:27,375 - And they're gonna be so into it. 472 00:19:27,459 --> 00:19:31,338 - The intention is celebration, power, and community. 473 00:19:31,421 --> 00:19:33,340 - Yeah. - No more pain. 474 00:19:33,423 --> 00:19:35,759 - No more. - No more. 475 00:19:37,969 --> 00:19:40,388 - This is my secret garden. 476 00:19:40,472 --> 00:19:42,390 Watch out for the hose. 477 00:19:44,059 --> 00:19:45,518 - I got costumes to show you, too. 478 00:19:45,602 --> 00:19:47,604 - Oh, I can't wait. - Honey. 479 00:19:47,645 --> 00:19:49,272 - Can you move? 480 00:19:49,314 --> 00:19:51,232 - I haven't moved in many years, 481 00:19:51,316 --> 00:19:53,693 but I can be on my knees for over 30 minutes. 482 00:19:53,777 --> 00:19:55,445 - Okay, nobody asked you about your knees. 483 00:19:55,487 --> 00:19:56,905 - Well, I'm proud of it. - Yeah, and you know what? 484 00:19:56,988 --> 00:19:58,031 Now everyone knows it. 485 00:19:58,114 --> 00:19:59,657 - I know, and I want every man to know. 486 00:19:59,699 --> 00:20:01,993 [ululating] 487 00:20:02,035 --> 00:20:03,828 - Hip. Hip. 488 00:20:03,912 --> 00:20:05,830 Pull up. 489 00:20:05,914 --> 00:20:07,332 There you go. - Hips. 490 00:20:07,415 --> 00:20:08,750 - Bend those knees. There you go. 491 00:20:08,833 --> 00:20:10,543 - Okay. - There you go. There you go. 492 00:20:10,627 --> 00:20:13,713 - You want some sunglasses? - Yeah. 493 00:20:13,797 --> 00:20:14,839 - Okay, gorgeous. 494 00:20:14,923 --> 00:20:18,259 - The queen has arrived. I'm here, and I'm fierce. 495 00:20:18,343 --> 00:20:22,138 I'm a fierce motherfucker. 496 00:20:22,180 --> 00:20:25,016 Okay, come back. 497 00:20:25,058 --> 00:20:27,811 Hello, come back. 498 00:20:27,894 --> 00:20:29,562 She's gone. Where did she go? 499 00:20:29,646 --> 00:20:30,647 She left. 500 00:20:30,689 --> 00:20:33,858 - ♪ Make some room, I'm coming in ♪ 501 00:20:33,942 --> 00:20:35,276 - Shake those shoulders. Yeah. 502 00:20:35,360 --> 00:20:37,654 And then you go forward. 503 00:20:37,737 --> 00:20:38,780 And as your tits grow, 504 00:20:38,863 --> 00:20:40,365 this will just get more and more fun. 505 00:20:40,448 --> 00:20:42,784 - More fluid in the arms. Fluid in the arms. 506 00:20:42,867 --> 00:20:44,160 That's gorgeous. 507 00:20:44,202 --> 00:20:46,037 - Point. Where's she going? 508 00:20:46,121 --> 00:20:48,039 She's going that way, darling. 509 00:20:48,081 --> 00:20:49,541 Follow the finger. 510 00:20:49,624 --> 00:20:53,044 - Cross and cross and right. 511 00:20:53,128 --> 00:20:55,171 - Yeah. Hey, hey, hey. 512 00:20:55,213 --> 00:20:56,589 - I'll follow her. 513 00:20:56,673 --> 00:21:00,844 - Why haven't I heard from you? 514 00:21:00,885 --> 00:21:02,512 - Touch up my gloss, bitch. 515 00:21:02,554 --> 00:21:04,597 - Yeah, you don't have to be a stripper. 516 00:21:04,681 --> 00:21:06,558 - ♪ Make the face, the face, the face ♪ 517 00:21:06,599 --> 00:21:09,019 - This is your moment. This is your moment. 518 00:21:09,060 --> 00:21:10,061 - I had a cramp. 519 00:21:10,145 --> 00:21:11,813 - ♪ Come around like, hey ♪ 520 00:21:11,896 --> 00:21:13,648 - Ice cold. 521 00:21:13,732 --> 00:21:15,567 - Look forward. 522 00:21:15,650 --> 00:21:18,695 - ♪ Make some room, I'm coming in ♪ 523 00:21:18,737 --> 00:21:21,823 - Oh, I'm so proud of you. This is gonna be fun. 524 00:21:21,906 --> 00:21:23,867 - Don't bow to me. I should bow to you. 525 00:21:23,908 --> 00:21:24,909 You're the queen here. 526 00:21:24,951 --> 00:21:26,578 - Yeah, there you go. - Okay. So it's equal now. 527 00:21:26,619 --> 00:21:30,165 - You're on your knees. [laughing] 528 00:21:30,248 --> 00:21:32,751 - Why are you like this? 529 00:21:32,834 --> 00:21:36,087 [soft music] 530 00:21:36,129 --> 00:21:39,507 ♪ ♪ 531 00:21:39,591 --> 00:21:42,719 - Without him. - Okay. 532 00:21:42,761 --> 00:21:44,804 - You look so different with your face shaved. 533 00:21:44,888 --> 00:21:46,264 - I know. 534 00:21:46,348 --> 00:21:50,602 - I literally was staring at you, like... 535 00:21:50,685 --> 00:21:53,313 - Kind of like my husband did last night in the living room. 536 00:21:53,396 --> 00:21:56,399 So, first, thank you so much for all of this. 537 00:21:56,441 --> 00:21:58,151 This has been amazing. 538 00:21:58,234 --> 00:21:59,611 - I'm glad. 539 00:21:59,652 --> 00:22:02,113 - And you all have had such an impact, 540 00:22:02,197 --> 00:22:06,868 not only on, you know, myself and Kevin but Bartlesville. 541 00:22:06,951 --> 00:22:10,288 Some things have come up since the meet and greet. 542 00:22:10,372 --> 00:22:11,956 I'm not gonna get emotional. 543 00:22:11,998 --> 00:22:16,586 A good source has told me that our Bartlesville Equality 544 00:22:16,628 --> 00:22:18,797 regrets not being... - Are you serious? 545 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:21,216 - More supportive. 546 00:22:21,299 --> 00:22:24,594 They heard about all of the positive feedback 547 00:22:24,636 --> 00:22:26,930 and the people that showed up, 548 00:22:26,971 --> 00:22:29,849 and, yeah, y'all did that. 549 00:22:29,933 --> 00:22:32,602 - That is major. 550 00:22:32,644 --> 00:22:36,189 - [chuckles] - That is major. 551 00:22:36,272 --> 00:22:37,857 See, I had a feeling. 552 00:22:37,941 --> 00:22:39,192 - This whole experience 553 00:22:39,275 --> 00:22:40,819 may be lighting more fires under people. 554 00:22:40,902 --> 00:22:43,154 - That's what we wanted, and that was the hope-- 555 00:22:43,238 --> 00:22:44,656 that we would come in 556 00:22:44,698 --> 00:22:47,826 and really reignite the community and come together. 557 00:22:47,867 --> 00:22:50,954 You should be able to be celebratory and proud 558 00:22:50,995 --> 00:22:54,749 and happy with who you are. 559 00:22:54,791 --> 00:22:57,794 - So there's hope. 560 00:22:57,836 --> 00:22:59,004 - Maybe next Pride 561 00:22:59,087 --> 00:23:00,839 there are gonna be some Showelles at the show. 562 00:23:00,922 --> 00:23:03,508 - The agreement that they had with the city council 563 00:23:03,591 --> 00:23:07,095 was for only one year, so next year it will be up. 564 00:23:07,178 --> 00:23:08,972 - We could do a duet. - Okay. 565 00:23:09,014 --> 00:23:11,307 Let's do it. - I mean... 566 00:23:11,349 --> 00:23:13,143 I'm serious. - I got your phone number. 567 00:23:13,184 --> 00:23:16,146 - Okay. [laughter] 568 00:23:19,357 --> 00:23:22,277 [jazz music] 569 00:23:22,360 --> 00:23:25,613 ♪ ♪ 570 00:23:25,655 --> 00:23:28,366 - Brian. 571 00:23:28,408 --> 00:23:29,868 - How are you, chica? 572 00:23:29,951 --> 00:23:30,994 - Hello. 573 00:23:31,077 --> 00:23:33,038 - You know this one. Hey, Pri. 574 00:23:33,079 --> 00:23:34,205 - Oh, man. 575 00:23:34,289 --> 00:23:36,041 Shall we sit? 576 00:23:36,124 --> 00:23:37,709 I've been thinking a lot about the meeting 577 00:23:37,792 --> 00:23:40,378 that I attended with you and the one that you led 578 00:23:40,462 --> 00:23:43,590 and feeling, one, proud of everyone 579 00:23:43,673 --> 00:23:46,551 that they're joining forces in sharing food after and smiling 580 00:23:46,634 --> 00:23:48,553 and laughing with each other-- like, so beautiful. 581 00:23:48,595 --> 00:23:51,556 And also a little bit like-- 582 00:23:51,639 --> 00:23:54,351 I just felt very upset for everyone as well 583 00:23:54,392 --> 00:23:56,561 because there was, like, a lot of, like-- 584 00:23:56,644 --> 00:23:59,272 there's so little of you fighting this big fight. 585 00:23:59,356 --> 00:24:01,733 - When we have 10 or 15 members here 586 00:24:01,816 --> 00:24:04,569 and there are another 5 or 10 that hear about the meeting 587 00:24:04,652 --> 00:24:06,571 that they missed and the next meeting has 20 588 00:24:06,613 --> 00:24:08,323 and the next meeting has 25, 589 00:24:08,406 --> 00:24:10,575 we're now at a point where we have 590 00:24:10,658 --> 00:24:13,411 enough people for us to go out, be at events, 591 00:24:13,453 --> 00:24:14,913 make sure that we are seen. 592 00:24:14,954 --> 00:24:16,748 And this fall is a great time for that 593 00:24:16,790 --> 00:24:18,792 because there's a lot of great powwows. 594 00:24:18,875 --> 00:24:21,670 We get to play a foundational role in making sure 595 00:24:21,753 --> 00:24:25,632 that this group, after we're long gone, 596 00:24:25,715 --> 00:24:27,759 is much bigger than what we started with. 597 00:24:27,842 --> 00:24:29,678 - And that's what our culture is all about. 598 00:24:29,719 --> 00:24:30,595 - Mm-hmm. 599 00:24:30,637 --> 00:24:34,432 - Teach your talents, give your gifts, 600 00:24:34,516 --> 00:24:38,103 and leave it to someone to continue it. 601 00:24:38,186 --> 00:24:39,604 Don't ever let it die. 602 00:24:39,688 --> 00:24:42,649 - So I know you're still healing. 603 00:24:42,732 --> 00:24:45,944 But we have 20-, 30-, and 40-year-olds in our group 604 00:24:45,985 --> 00:24:49,322 that need both the matriarch and patriarch, 605 00:24:49,406 --> 00:24:52,033 and your presence not just in our meetings 606 00:24:52,117 --> 00:24:54,953 but, you know, in our ceremonial gatherings 607 00:24:54,994 --> 00:24:56,955 is incredibly important. - Oh, honey, baby. 608 00:24:57,038 --> 00:25:00,166 - It's incredibly important that we have back. 609 00:25:00,250 --> 00:25:02,961 - Whew. - When you're ready. 610 00:25:03,044 --> 00:25:07,090 [soft music] 611 00:25:07,132 --> 00:25:10,218 - I can promise you this. I will be back. 612 00:25:10,301 --> 00:25:13,763 When you need me, I will know it. 613 00:25:13,805 --> 00:25:17,058 [voice breaking] And all you have to do... 614 00:25:17,142 --> 00:25:20,020 I do miss you all. 615 00:25:20,103 --> 00:25:22,397 ♪ ♪ 616 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:24,607 - Having you back at the last meeting 617 00:25:24,649 --> 00:25:25,942 and you actually feeling good 618 00:25:25,984 --> 00:25:27,861 about that meeting when you left-- 619 00:25:27,944 --> 00:25:29,654 - Ooh, I love that meeting. That meeting was powerful. 620 00:25:29,738 --> 00:25:31,573 - I love that meeting. It brought you back to us. 621 00:25:31,656 --> 00:25:32,824 And it let you know that, 622 00:25:32,907 --> 00:25:35,535 hey, this isn't the same toxic space you left. 623 00:25:35,618 --> 00:25:38,830 - Seeing John be so defeated when I first met them 624 00:25:38,872 --> 00:25:43,293 to now getting a little bit of fire, 625 00:25:43,335 --> 00:25:45,837 it's so exciting for me to see 626 00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:47,630 as someone who really cares about John 627 00:25:47,672 --> 00:25:49,132 and has grown to love John, 628 00:25:49,174 --> 00:25:51,509 and it's important that John continues to stay 629 00:25:51,593 --> 00:25:54,346 in those rooms to remind the younger ones 630 00:25:54,387 --> 00:25:56,514 that we're planting the seeds. 631 00:25:56,556 --> 00:25:58,350 Not everything's gonna happen at once. 632 00:25:58,433 --> 00:26:01,227 Thank you so much for having us today. 633 00:26:01,311 --> 00:26:02,562 See you at the show? - Yes. 634 00:26:02,645 --> 00:26:05,440 - Seeing you rise lets us be there with you. 635 00:26:05,523 --> 00:26:08,360 - Oh, I am so--bring them on. - [chuckles] 636 00:26:08,401 --> 00:26:09,527 - You know, when I know people 637 00:26:09,569 --> 00:26:11,821 out there in that audience, whew. 638 00:26:11,863 --> 00:26:14,324 - Love you, John. - Love you, too, darling. 639 00:26:14,366 --> 00:26:16,159 both: Thank you. - I'll see you. 640 00:26:16,201 --> 00:26:16,993 And if I don't see you here, 641 00:26:17,035 --> 00:26:18,745 I'll see you in the spirit world. 642 00:26:18,828 --> 00:26:21,206 - Well, let's not go there. - Well, no, no, no, no. 643 00:26:21,247 --> 00:26:24,209 I mean, death was not a-- we weren't afraid of death. 644 00:26:24,250 --> 00:26:26,294 - Let's make plans for Friday. 645 00:26:26,378 --> 00:26:28,713 - [laughs] 646 00:26:30,715 --> 00:26:32,634 - Hi. - Gloria from Wigs & Grace. 647 00:26:32,717 --> 00:26:33,718 - So nice to meet you. 648 00:26:33,802 --> 00:26:35,720 - This is Jess, my drag daughter. 649 00:26:35,804 --> 00:26:37,639 - So nice to meet you. I've heard so much about you. 650 00:26:37,722 --> 00:26:39,057 - Why, thank you. 651 00:26:39,099 --> 00:26:41,726 - How are you doing? - I'm doing okay. 652 00:26:41,810 --> 00:26:44,062 It's just, like, all real now. 653 00:26:44,145 --> 00:26:45,355 - Mm-hmm. - So... 654 00:26:45,397 --> 00:26:47,315 - I'll take okay. - That's good. 655 00:26:47,399 --> 00:26:52,153 I think you'll feel very good after we give your new hair... 656 00:26:52,237 --> 00:26:54,030 - That's mine right there? - A little haircut. 657 00:26:54,072 --> 00:26:55,448 - Oh, my goodness. 658 00:26:55,532 --> 00:26:57,450 - We're gonna make sure that she fits well 659 00:26:57,534 --> 00:26:59,411 and she feels okay on you. 660 00:26:59,452 --> 00:27:02,747 Turn the fantasy into realness. 661 00:27:02,831 --> 00:27:04,416 - Close your eyes. 662 00:27:04,457 --> 00:27:08,753 - I know I just can't wake up and be in a woman's body 663 00:27:08,795 --> 00:27:10,755 like I want it to be. 664 00:27:10,797 --> 00:27:13,591 I might not ever be the beautiful girl 665 00:27:13,633 --> 00:27:16,177 I am in my dreams, in my head. 666 00:27:16,261 --> 00:27:19,764 - When you look in the mirror, what is the feeling? 667 00:27:19,848 --> 00:27:24,019 - I still see him a lot. 668 00:27:24,102 --> 00:27:26,062 I just see a guy. 669 00:27:26,146 --> 00:27:27,313 I'm growing my hair out, 670 00:27:27,397 --> 00:27:31,818 but it was actually longer than this a few months ago. 671 00:27:31,901 --> 00:27:35,196 But I had a very... 672 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:37,240 I guess, dark day. 673 00:27:38,700 --> 00:27:41,578 For people who don't understand, 674 00:27:41,619 --> 00:27:44,330 for me being Jess in this body, 675 00:27:44,414 --> 00:27:47,917 to kill yourself, it doesn't have to be physical. 676 00:27:49,169 --> 00:27:52,255 I convinced myself to go get a haircut. 677 00:27:52,297 --> 00:27:55,800 I had to hold back the tears in that seat. 678 00:27:55,884 --> 00:27:58,720 I tried to do whatever I could to kill Jess that day. 679 00:27:58,803 --> 00:28:00,847 [dramatic music] 680 00:28:00,930 --> 00:28:05,518 Being that negative, homophobic, transphobic person 681 00:28:05,602 --> 00:28:08,772 for such a long time, that person's still in my head. 682 00:28:08,813 --> 00:28:12,650 - Do you mind holding that, Sasha, for me right there? 683 00:28:12,734 --> 00:28:14,486 - There's a reason I was that person. 684 00:28:14,527 --> 00:28:16,821 ♪ ♪ 685 00:28:16,863 --> 00:28:19,074 He felt like he was protecting me. 686 00:28:19,157 --> 00:28:23,453 So I'm trying to forgive that person. 687 00:28:23,495 --> 00:28:25,455 But... 688 00:28:25,497 --> 00:28:26,998 you know... 689 00:28:27,082 --> 00:28:30,960 it's just hard for me to feel okay with myself. 690 00:28:32,629 --> 00:28:36,007 - Two-spirit were the core 691 00:28:36,091 --> 00:28:39,344 of our tribe until the church took them out. 692 00:28:39,427 --> 00:28:40,470 And that's my mission-- 693 00:28:40,512 --> 00:28:42,347 to gather all of our two-spirited people together 694 00:28:42,389 --> 00:28:43,682 and let them heal. 695 00:28:43,765 --> 00:28:46,309 Then we can go to the tribe and say, 696 00:28:46,351 --> 00:28:48,186 you need to listen to us. 697 00:28:48,228 --> 00:28:50,438 That's why I've come to this Earth, 698 00:28:50,522 --> 00:28:52,023 to help my people, 699 00:28:52,065 --> 00:28:54,693 and I've got a lot of years ahead of me 700 00:28:54,734 --> 00:28:57,320 to do what I need to do. 701 00:28:57,362 --> 00:29:00,990 ♪ ♪ 702 00:29:01,032 --> 00:29:03,868 - Conservative politicians in this town-- 703 00:29:03,910 --> 00:29:07,455 you give an inch, they want a mile. 704 00:29:07,539 --> 00:29:09,874 [dog barking] Come on, Izz. 705 00:29:09,958 --> 00:29:12,711 And they're just gonna take and take and take 706 00:29:12,794 --> 00:29:16,131 until, you know, the gay community has nothing. 707 00:29:16,214 --> 00:29:18,216 ♪ ♪ 708 00:29:18,258 --> 00:29:21,052 - In Oklahoma, Christian faithfulness 709 00:29:21,094 --> 00:29:23,888 is weaponized against queer people, 710 00:29:23,972 --> 00:29:27,642 and people wonder why we need protections. 711 00:29:27,726 --> 00:29:32,689 - The truth that God said, thou shalt not. 712 00:29:32,731 --> 00:29:34,274 So that's why we're here. 713 00:29:34,357 --> 00:29:36,735 - Everyone deserves real safety. 714 00:29:36,818 --> 00:29:38,945 ♪ ♪ 715 00:29:39,029 --> 00:29:41,990 It's literally a life-or-death matter. 716 00:29:42,073 --> 00:29:45,910 So we're gonna continue existing, 717 00:29:45,952 --> 00:29:48,079 being ourselves, being visible. 718 00:29:48,121 --> 00:29:51,374 That is certainly the goal of a drag show. 719 00:29:52,917 --> 00:29:55,879 [Jodie Harsh's "Hectic"] 720 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:57,756 - ♪ Ooh, ooh ♪ 721 00:29:57,839 --> 00:30:00,633 ♪ ♪ 722 00:30:00,717 --> 00:30:03,970 - ♪ Left my house tonight, I'm gonna whet my appetite ♪ 723 00:30:04,054 --> 00:30:05,972 ♪ Look like dynamite ♪ 724 00:30:06,056 --> 00:30:07,849 ♪ We're gonna get turnt up, all right ♪ 725 00:30:07,932 --> 00:30:10,018 ♪ It's gonna get hectic ♪ 726 00:30:10,101 --> 00:30:12,771 ♪ Left my house tonight, I'm gonna whet my appetite ♪ 727 00:30:12,812 --> 00:30:14,773 ♪ Look like dynamite ♪ 728 00:30:14,856 --> 00:30:17,442 ♪ We're gonna get turnt up, all right ♪ 729 00:30:17,484 --> 00:30:18,443 ♪ Making shapes tonight ♪ 730 00:30:18,526 --> 00:30:21,279 ♪ Move across the floor like disco light ♪ 731 00:30:21,321 --> 00:30:23,782 ♪ Bye-bye, nine-to-five, we're gonna rave like '99 ♪ 732 00:30:23,823 --> 00:30:25,867 - Mama. - Oh! 733 00:30:25,950 --> 00:30:28,620 - [laughing] - Oh! 734 00:30:28,661 --> 00:30:30,497 Oh! 735 00:30:30,580 --> 00:30:33,249 Bitch, you are painted. 736 00:30:33,291 --> 00:30:34,793 - Hi. - Ooh. 737 00:30:34,834 --> 00:30:37,337 - I know. I love it. I love it. 738 00:30:37,420 --> 00:30:40,256 And they only had to put 169 coats of foundation 739 00:30:40,298 --> 00:30:42,592 on my face to make it look this way. 740 00:30:42,634 --> 00:30:44,761 - I'm so proud of you. - Thank you. 741 00:30:44,803 --> 00:30:49,182 ♪ ♪ 742 00:30:49,265 --> 00:30:50,725 - Uh-oh. 743 00:30:50,809 --> 00:30:52,060 - Girl. 744 00:30:52,143 --> 00:30:54,229 Honey, baby, my nipples are erect. 745 00:30:54,312 --> 00:30:57,273 I'm having tingles. This is how excited I am. 746 00:30:57,315 --> 00:30:58,858 - Wow. It's gonna be powerful. 747 00:30:58,942 --> 00:31:00,735 I don't think there's been a performance like this 748 00:31:00,819 --> 00:31:02,237 on this show ever. 749 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:04,656 - It's gonna be a religious experience. 750 00:31:04,698 --> 00:31:05,949 It is, darling. 751 00:31:05,990 --> 00:31:07,909 - ♪ Ooh, ooh ♪ 752 00:31:07,992 --> 00:31:09,661 ♪ Ooh, ooh ♪ 753 00:31:09,744 --> 00:31:11,579 ♪ Ooh, ooh ♪ 754 00:31:11,663 --> 00:31:13,331 ♪ Gonna rave like '99 ♪ 755 00:31:13,415 --> 00:31:15,208 ♪ Ooh, ooh ♪ 756 00:31:15,291 --> 00:31:17,252 - Oh, my God. 757 00:31:17,335 --> 00:31:20,630 We need to do a transgender "Penthouse" 758 00:31:20,672 --> 00:31:22,590 or some kind of hot-- 759 00:31:22,674 --> 00:31:25,343 I'm ready to take it off. 760 00:31:25,427 --> 00:31:27,303 - ♪ Ooh, ooh ♪ 761 00:31:27,345 --> 00:31:29,264 ♪ Ooh, ooh ♪ 762 00:31:29,347 --> 00:31:31,016 ♪ Ooh, ooh ♪ 763 00:31:31,057 --> 00:31:34,185 ♪ Gonna rave like '99 ♪ 764 00:31:34,269 --> 00:31:38,231 ♪ Move across the floor like disco light ♪ 765 00:31:38,314 --> 00:31:41,151 ♪ Ooh, ooh ♪ - ♪ It's gonna get hectic ♪ 766 00:31:41,192 --> 00:31:43,862 [distant cheers and applause] 767 00:31:43,903 --> 00:31:45,780 - Have you seen it yet? - No, not yet. 768 00:31:45,864 --> 00:31:49,451 - Oh, my gosh. You look so beautiful. 769 00:31:49,534 --> 00:31:52,662 [soft music] 770 00:31:52,704 --> 00:31:54,748 I love the lips. 771 00:31:54,831 --> 00:31:57,292 ♪ ♪ 772 00:31:57,375 --> 00:32:00,879 You look so beautiful. - I'm trying not to cry. 773 00:32:00,962 --> 00:32:04,215 - I'm so happy to see your face. 774 00:32:04,299 --> 00:32:06,593 - I haven't seen it. I just-- 775 00:32:06,676 --> 00:32:09,429 I have the anxiety of, I know a mirror moment's coming. 776 00:32:09,512 --> 00:32:10,388 - Yeah. 777 00:32:10,472 --> 00:32:12,557 - And you know I hate my mirror moments, so... 778 00:32:12,599 --> 00:32:19,564 ♪ ♪ 779 00:32:24,569 --> 00:32:27,447 [sniffles, crying] 780 00:32:27,530 --> 00:32:32,869 ♪ ♪ 781 00:32:32,911 --> 00:32:35,663 - What do you think? 782 00:32:35,747 --> 00:32:37,665 - [sniffles] 783 00:32:37,749 --> 00:32:42,671 ♪ ♪ 784 00:32:42,754 --> 00:32:45,882 [sniffles] 785 00:32:45,924 --> 00:32:49,511 I like it. [sniffles] 786 00:32:49,594 --> 00:32:51,971 - Do you see yourself? - Yeah, that's why I'm-- 787 00:32:52,055 --> 00:32:54,432 [sniffles] 788 00:32:54,516 --> 00:32:58,687 You know, you see it in big pictures and ginger swaps. 789 00:32:58,770 --> 00:33:00,021 [sniffles] 790 00:33:00,105 --> 00:33:04,901 So not to see him staring back at me, it was nice. 791 00:33:04,943 --> 00:33:07,737 - This is Jess, just... 792 00:33:07,779 --> 00:33:11,741 to the 1,000th percentile. [laughter] 793 00:33:11,783 --> 00:33:13,201 And she's beautiful. 794 00:33:13,284 --> 00:33:15,120 - But it shows that I can... - You're beautiful. 795 00:33:15,203 --> 00:33:16,830 - Can be beautiful. 796 00:33:16,913 --> 00:33:19,916 - You already are beautiful all the time. 797 00:33:19,958 --> 00:33:22,961 You know, a little glitter and extra makeup never hurt anyone. 798 00:33:23,044 --> 00:33:25,505 - Exactly. [clears throat] 799 00:33:25,588 --> 00:33:27,465 - I'm so happy for you. 800 00:33:27,549 --> 00:33:32,053 - Before we go out and rip the roof off of this place, 801 00:33:32,137 --> 00:33:35,765 I just want to say that it has been an honor, 802 00:33:35,807 --> 00:33:37,809 and let's make some magic, baby, 803 00:33:37,892 --> 00:33:41,855 and rip the roof off this tabernacle! 804 00:33:41,938 --> 00:33:44,149 [cheers and applause] 805 00:33:44,232 --> 00:33:47,027 [thunder booming] 806 00:33:47,110 --> 00:33:49,988 [dramatic music] 807 00:33:50,071 --> 00:33:57,245 ♪ ♪ 808 00:34:09,799 --> 00:34:12,260 - This is amazing. 809 00:34:12,344 --> 00:34:15,263 I cannot believe that we're doing a drag show in a church. 810 00:34:15,347 --> 00:34:18,141 [cheers and applause] 811 00:34:20,351 --> 00:34:23,480 It feels right. It feels very right. 812 00:34:23,521 --> 00:34:25,273 I love it. 813 00:34:25,357 --> 00:34:28,610 It's so nice to take the spaces that were once traumatic 814 00:34:28,693 --> 00:34:30,277 for some of us growing up, 815 00:34:30,362 --> 00:34:32,197 turning them into places of love 816 00:34:32,237 --> 00:34:34,908 where we can dress up however we want 817 00:34:34,991 --> 00:34:37,952 and love each other as loudly as we can. 818 00:34:38,036 --> 00:34:39,829 So thank you for coming, Oklahoma. 819 00:34:39,871 --> 00:34:42,081 [cheers and applause] 820 00:34:42,165 --> 00:34:44,417 - And especially... 821 00:34:44,501 --> 00:34:49,214 a huge debt of gratitude to Father Joshua. 822 00:34:49,297 --> 00:34:54,177 [cheers and applause] 823 00:34:54,219 --> 00:34:57,054 - Thank you for opening your doors 824 00:34:57,097 --> 00:35:00,475 to drag queens and our families. 825 00:35:00,558 --> 00:35:03,728 - Please make some noise for the wonderful, 826 00:35:03,812 --> 00:35:05,355 the fabulous... 827 00:35:05,397 --> 00:35:08,900 both: Latrice Royale! 828 00:35:08,942 --> 00:35:11,403 [cheers and applause] 829 00:35:11,444 --> 00:35:13,279 [Vernessa Mitchell's "This Joy"] 830 00:35:13,363 --> 00:35:15,907 - ♪ This joy, this joy, this joy ♪ 831 00:35:15,990 --> 00:35:18,493 ♪ This joy, this joy, this joy ♪ 832 00:35:18,576 --> 00:35:22,247 ♪ Through all of life's complications ♪ 833 00:35:22,288 --> 00:35:26,209 ♪ Through all of life's ups and downs ♪ 834 00:35:26,251 --> 00:35:28,628 ♪ In every situation ♪ 835 00:35:28,712 --> 00:35:33,091 ♪ You've got to keep your feet planted on the ground ♪ 836 00:35:33,133 --> 00:35:37,303 ♪ No matter what the problem ♪ 837 00:35:37,387 --> 00:35:40,724 ♪ There's nothing he can't do ♪ 838 00:35:40,765 --> 00:35:44,477 ♪ Just keep the faith, don't hesitate ♪ 839 00:35:44,561 --> 00:35:47,272 ♪ And we will see you through ♪ 840 00:35:47,355 --> 00:35:51,109 ♪ I get joy when I think ♪ 841 00:35:51,192 --> 00:35:54,779 ♪ About what he's done for me ♪ 842 00:35:54,821 --> 00:35:58,491 ♪ I get joy when I think ♪ 843 00:35:58,575 --> 00:36:02,328 ♪ About what he's done for me ♪ 844 00:36:02,412 --> 00:36:06,499 ♪ Hey, he, you can't tell it like I can tell ♪ 845 00:36:06,583 --> 00:36:09,294 ♪ What he's done for me ♪ 846 00:36:09,377 --> 00:36:13,923 ♪ No, no, you can't tell it like I can tell ♪ 847 00:36:13,965 --> 00:36:15,967 [cheers and applause] 848 00:36:16,051 --> 00:36:17,761 ♪ Listen ♪ 849 00:36:17,802 --> 00:36:21,639 ♪ Hey, you can't tell ♪ 850 00:36:21,723 --> 00:36:24,434 [vocalizing] 851 00:36:24,476 --> 00:36:31,483 ♪ ♪ 852 00:36:34,152 --> 00:36:36,946 ♪ Joy down in my soul ♪ 853 00:36:36,988 --> 00:36:38,281 ♪ I'll get joy ♪ 854 00:36:38,323 --> 00:36:40,992 ♪ Hey, it making me whole ♪ 855 00:36:41,076 --> 00:36:42,494 ♪ I'll get joy ♪ 856 00:36:42,535 --> 00:36:44,746 ♪ You're making me, making me ♪ 857 00:36:44,829 --> 00:36:46,748 ♪ Making me, making me ♪ 858 00:36:46,831 --> 00:36:48,416 ♪ Making me, making me ♪ 859 00:36:48,500 --> 00:36:50,293 ♪ Making me, making me ♪ 860 00:36:50,335 --> 00:36:52,420 ♪ Making me, making me ♪ 861 00:36:52,504 --> 00:36:55,131 ♪ Making me, making me ♪ 862 00:36:55,173 --> 00:36:57,842 ♪ Making me, making me ♪ 863 00:36:57,884 --> 00:36:59,302 ♪ This joy has liberated ♪ 864 00:36:59,344 --> 00:37:01,096 ♪ This joy has liberated ♪ 865 00:37:01,179 --> 00:37:03,014 ♪ This joy has liberated ♪ 866 00:37:03,098 --> 00:37:05,016 ♪ This joy has liberated ♪ 867 00:37:05,100 --> 00:37:07,727 ♪ This joy has liberated me ♪ 868 00:37:07,811 --> 00:37:09,104 - Whoo! 869 00:37:09,187 --> 00:37:12,482 [cheers and applause] 870 00:37:23,326 --> 00:37:26,454 [soft music] 871 00:37:26,496 --> 00:37:28,331 ♪ ♪ 872 00:37:28,373 --> 00:37:30,750 - Thank you. Thank you so much. 873 00:37:30,834 --> 00:37:33,795 ♪ ♪ 874 00:37:33,878 --> 00:37:37,215 And we are so happy to have you here with us this evening 875 00:37:37,298 --> 00:37:40,218 to celebrate the ministry of drag. 876 00:37:40,301 --> 00:37:43,179 [cheers and applause] 877 00:37:43,221 --> 00:37:48,184 ♪ ♪ 878 00:37:48,226 --> 00:37:50,228 - When I was little, there was one man 879 00:37:50,270 --> 00:37:53,189 in the little town I lived in who was gay. 880 00:37:53,231 --> 00:37:55,233 I remember him. 881 00:37:55,275 --> 00:37:57,694 I've remembered him my whole life. 882 00:37:57,736 --> 00:37:59,362 Thank you. 883 00:37:59,404 --> 00:38:01,531 By doing this, I want to put my face out there 884 00:38:01,573 --> 00:38:03,408 because I want to be able to be there 885 00:38:03,450 --> 00:38:05,785 to help other people in Bartlesville. 886 00:38:05,869 --> 00:38:08,246 ♪ ♪ 887 00:38:08,288 --> 00:38:10,248 [cheers and applause] 888 00:38:10,290 --> 00:38:12,125 [telephone ringing] 889 00:38:12,208 --> 00:38:15,253 - You have one new message. 890 00:38:15,337 --> 00:38:16,671 - Hey, it's Randy. 891 00:38:16,755 --> 00:38:19,257 I need a venue still for the drag show. 892 00:38:19,341 --> 00:38:21,092 I've called you three times now. 893 00:38:21,176 --> 00:38:23,595 Would someone please call me back? 894 00:38:23,678 --> 00:38:26,681 [Reba McEntire's "Why Haven't I Heard from You"] 895 00:38:26,765 --> 00:38:30,185 ♪ ♪ 896 00:38:30,268 --> 00:38:32,687 - Come on, girl, let it loose. 897 00:38:32,771 --> 00:38:37,484 - ♪ Back in 1876, an old boy named Bell ♪ 898 00:38:37,567 --> 00:38:41,613 ♪ Invented a contraption that we know so well ♪ 899 00:38:41,654 --> 00:38:45,909 ♪ By the 1950s, they're in everybody's home ♪ 900 00:38:45,950 --> 00:38:50,163 ♪ That crazy little thing they call the telephone ♪ 901 00:38:50,246 --> 00:38:52,374 ♪ Now there's one on every corner ♪ 902 00:38:52,457 --> 00:38:54,584 ♪ In the back of every bar ♪ 903 00:38:54,626 --> 00:38:56,711 ♪ You can get one in your briefcase ♪ 904 00:38:56,795 --> 00:38:58,380 ♪ On a plane, or in your car ♪ 905 00:38:58,463 --> 00:39:00,799 ♪ So tell me why ♪ - ♪ Why ♪ 906 00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:02,842 - ♪ Haven't I ♪ - ♪ Haven't I ♪ 907 00:39:02,926 --> 00:39:04,302 - ♪ Heard from you ♪ 908 00:39:04,344 --> 00:39:06,763 - ♪ Why haven't I heard from you? ♪ 909 00:39:06,805 --> 00:39:09,307 - ♪ Tell me why ♪ - ♪ Why ♪ 910 00:39:09,349 --> 00:39:11,393 - ♪ Haven't I ♪ - ♪ Haven't I ♪ 911 00:39:11,476 --> 00:39:12,519 - ♪ Heard from you ♪ 912 00:39:12,602 --> 00:39:15,730 - ♪ Why haven't I heard from you? ♪ 913 00:39:15,814 --> 00:39:17,482 - ♪ I said, now, darling ♪ - ♪ Darling ♪ 914 00:39:17,524 --> 00:39:18,983 - ♪ Honey ♪ - ♪ Honey ♪ 915 00:39:19,067 --> 00:39:20,318 - ♪ What is your excuse? ♪ 916 00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:24,114 - ♪ Why haven't I heard from you? ♪ 917 00:39:24,155 --> 00:39:28,368 ♪ There better be a flood, a landslide of mud ♪ 918 00:39:28,451 --> 00:39:32,706 ♪ A fire that burns up the wires ♪ 919 00:39:32,789 --> 00:39:36,835 ♪ And thunder so loud with a black funnel cloud ♪ 920 00:39:36,876 --> 00:39:41,172 ♪ A natural disaster I know nothing about ♪ 921 00:39:41,256 --> 00:39:43,174 ♪ Tell me why ♪ - ♪ Why ♪ 922 00:39:43,216 --> 00:39:45,427 - ♪ Haven't I ♪ - ♪ Haven't I ♪ 923 00:39:45,510 --> 00:39:46,553 - ♪ Heard from you ♪ 924 00:39:46,636 --> 00:39:49,180 - ♪ Why haven't I heard from you? ♪ 925 00:39:49,264 --> 00:39:51,808 - ♪ Tell me why ♪ - ♪ Why ♪ 926 00:39:51,850 --> 00:39:53,518 - ♪ Haven't I ♪ - ♪ Haven't I ♪ 927 00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:54,769 - ♪ Heard from you ♪ 928 00:39:54,853 --> 00:39:58,023 - ♪ Why haven't I heard from you? ♪ 929 00:39:58,064 --> 00:39:59,733 - ♪ I said, now, darling ♪ - ♪ Darling ♪ 930 00:39:59,816 --> 00:40:01,026 - ♪ Honey ♪ - ♪ Honey ♪ 931 00:40:01,067 --> 00:40:03,278 - ♪ What is your excuse? ♪ 932 00:40:03,361 --> 00:40:06,531 ♪ Why haven't I heard from you? ♪ 933 00:40:06,614 --> 00:40:08,366 - ♪ Tell me why ♪ - ♪ Why ♪ 934 00:40:08,408 --> 00:40:10,618 - ♪ Haven't I ♪ - ♪ Haven't I ♪ 935 00:40:10,702 --> 00:40:11,953 - ♪ Heard from you ♪ 936 00:40:12,037 --> 00:40:14,873 - ♪ Why haven't I heard from you? ♪ 937 00:40:14,914 --> 00:40:17,208 - ♪ Tell me why ♪ - ♪ Why ♪ 938 00:40:17,292 --> 00:40:19,377 - ♪ Haven't I ♪ - ♪ Haven't I ♪ 939 00:40:19,419 --> 00:40:20,545 - ♪ Heard from you ♪ 940 00:40:20,587 --> 00:40:23,548 - ♪ Why haven't I heard from you? ♪ 941 00:40:23,631 --> 00:40:25,508 - ♪ I said, now, darling ♪ - ♪ Darling ♪ 942 00:40:25,550 --> 00:40:26,593 - ♪ Honey ♪ - ♪ Honey ♪ 943 00:40:26,676 --> 00:40:28,386 - ♪ What is your excuse? ♪ 944 00:40:28,428 --> 00:40:32,849 ♪ Why haven't I heard from you? ♪ 945 00:40:32,932 --> 00:40:35,602 [cheers and applause] 946 00:40:35,685 --> 00:40:38,813 [telephone ringing] 947 00:40:44,235 --> 00:40:47,197 [light music] 948 00:40:47,238 --> 00:40:51,618 ♪ ♪ 949 00:40:51,701 --> 00:40:56,498 - Ladies and gentlemen, Pussy Willow Royale! 950 00:40:56,581 --> 00:40:59,668 [cheers and applause] 951 00:40:59,709 --> 00:41:05,548 ♪ ♪ 952 00:41:05,590 --> 00:41:10,178 - So, when they first contacted me and we were talking, 953 00:41:10,261 --> 00:41:13,640 I was thinking to myself, why me? 954 00:41:13,723 --> 00:41:16,309 Like, I'm like everybody else. 955 00:41:16,393 --> 00:41:19,312 I just live my life. 956 00:41:19,396 --> 00:41:21,898 But the more I thought about it and the more that I looked 957 00:41:21,940 --> 00:41:23,274 around my community, 958 00:41:23,358 --> 00:41:25,610 I realized that in Bartlesville, 959 00:41:25,652 --> 00:41:27,904 there's a lot of people 960 00:41:27,946 --> 00:41:31,574 who honestly don't think we exist. 961 00:41:31,616 --> 00:41:32,951 The reason I wanted to do this 962 00:41:33,034 --> 00:41:36,621 is because I want to promote and push 963 00:41:36,705 --> 00:41:40,125 people to come out of their comfort zones 964 00:41:40,208 --> 00:41:41,793 and just be yourselves. 965 00:41:41,876 --> 00:41:44,796 Don't say, oh, this is my friend Sam. 966 00:41:44,879 --> 00:41:47,549 Say, this is my partner. This is my husband. 967 00:41:47,632 --> 00:41:49,926 [cheers and applause] 968 00:41:50,010 --> 00:41:51,970 This is my husband... 969 00:41:52,053 --> 00:41:54,389 25 years. 970 00:41:54,472 --> 00:41:55,932 I said I wasn't gonna look at you 971 00:41:55,974 --> 00:41:57,892 because you're gonna make me cry. 972 00:41:59,269 --> 00:42:01,980 I cannot begin to tell you what we've experienced, 973 00:42:02,022 --> 00:42:06,401 and it really has lit a fire under me. 974 00:42:06,484 --> 00:42:10,405 [cheers and applause] 975 00:42:10,488 --> 00:42:16,369 ♪ ♪ 976 00:42:16,453 --> 00:42:17,996 - When I put on my female, 977 00:42:18,038 --> 00:42:21,124 it's almost like my warrior energy. 978 00:42:21,166 --> 00:42:24,336 I'm speaking for people that can't speak. 979 00:42:24,377 --> 00:42:26,629 To my two-spirit people, 980 00:42:26,671 --> 00:42:30,383 I do have your back, I do love you, 981 00:42:30,467 --> 00:42:33,136 and I'm gonna do everything in my power 982 00:42:33,178 --> 00:42:37,182 to make sure your world is a better place. 983 00:42:37,265 --> 00:42:39,601 - Please welcome to the stage, 984 00:42:39,684 --> 00:42:44,356 it's Priyanka and her daughter Spindly Delight. 985 00:42:44,397 --> 00:42:46,524 ♪ ♪ 986 00:42:46,566 --> 00:42:50,070 [Raye Zaragoza's "Hold That Spirit"] 987 00:42:50,153 --> 00:42:52,739 - ♪ Do you ever feel the bite ♪ 988 00:42:52,822 --> 00:42:54,949 ♪ Of the wolves that haunt the night? ♪ 989 00:42:54,991 --> 00:42:59,662 ♪ Oh, oh-oh-oh ♪ 990 00:42:59,704 --> 00:43:02,207 ♪ Do you ever hate the sting ♪ 991 00:43:02,248 --> 00:43:04,125 ♪ Of feeling everything? ♪ 992 00:43:04,209 --> 00:43:08,755 ♪ Oh, oh-oh-oh ♪ 993 00:43:08,838 --> 00:43:10,882 ♪ Cross your heart and hope to die ♪ 994 00:43:10,965 --> 00:43:13,426 ♪ Look that monster in the eye ♪ 995 00:43:13,510 --> 00:43:15,679 ♪ Hold on lightning ♪ 996 00:43:15,720 --> 00:43:18,848 ♪ Don't close your eyes when it's frightening ♪ 997 00:43:18,890 --> 00:43:22,394 ♪ Let that thunder grow ♪ 998 00:43:22,435 --> 00:43:24,437 ♪ Through the ages ♪ 999 00:43:24,521 --> 00:43:27,649 ♪ You open up all the cages ♪ 1000 00:43:27,732 --> 00:43:30,735 ♪ Hold that spirit ♪ 1001 00:43:30,777 --> 00:43:32,987 ♪ Hold that spirit close ♪ 1002 00:43:33,071 --> 00:43:36,574 ♪ ♪ 1003 00:43:36,616 --> 00:43:38,702 ♪ Have you ever felt alone ♪ 1004 00:43:38,743 --> 00:43:41,413 ♪ In the shadow of your home? ♪ 1005 00:43:41,496 --> 00:43:45,583 ♪ Oh, oh-oh-oh ♪ 1006 00:43:45,667 --> 00:43:48,086 ♪ Have you ever felt like you ♪ 1007 00:43:48,128 --> 00:43:50,422 ♪ Could fall and slip right through? ♪ 1008 00:43:50,505 --> 00:43:54,884 ♪ Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa ♪ 1009 00:43:54,926 --> 00:43:57,053 ♪ Cross your heart and hope to die ♪ 1010 00:43:57,095 --> 00:43:59,347 ♪ Look that monster in the eye ♪ 1011 00:43:59,431 --> 00:44:01,933 ♪ Hold on lightning ♪ 1012 00:44:01,975 --> 00:44:04,769 ♪ Don't close your eyes when it's frightening ♪ 1013 00:44:04,811 --> 00:44:08,398 ♪ Let that thunder grow ♪ 1014 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:13,778 ♪ Through the ages, you open up all the cages ♪ 1015 00:44:13,820 --> 00:44:16,239 ♪ Hold that spirit ♪ 1016 00:44:16,281 --> 00:44:20,243 ♪ Hold that spirit close ♪ - ♪ Hold that spirit close ♪ 1017 00:44:20,285 --> 00:44:22,787 ♪ Hold that spirit ♪ 1018 00:44:22,829 --> 00:44:24,831 ♪ Hold that spirit close ♪ 1019 00:44:24,914 --> 00:44:26,833 ♪ Hold that spirit ♪ 1020 00:44:26,916 --> 00:44:29,461 ♪ Hold that spirit close ♪ 1021 00:44:29,502 --> 00:44:31,463 ♪ Hold that spirit ♪ 1022 00:44:31,504 --> 00:44:33,798 ♪ Hold that spirit close ♪ 1023 00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:36,634 ♪ Hold that spirit ♪ 1024 00:44:36,718 --> 00:44:39,137 - ♪ Cross your heart and hope to die ♪ 1025 00:44:39,220 --> 00:44:41,181 ♪ Look that monster in the eye ♪ 1026 00:44:41,264 --> 00:44:43,641 ♪ Cross your heart and hope to die ♪ 1027 00:44:43,725 --> 00:44:45,727 ♪ Look that monster in the eye ♪ 1028 00:44:45,810 --> 00:44:47,729 ♪ Cross your heart and hope to die ♪ 1029 00:44:47,812 --> 00:44:50,231 ♪ Look that monster in the eye ♪ 1030 00:44:50,315 --> 00:44:52,192 ♪ Hold on lightning ♪ 1031 00:44:52,275 --> 00:44:55,779 ♪ Don't close your eyes when it's frightening ♪ 1032 00:44:55,820 --> 00:44:59,824 ♪ Let that thunder grow ♪ 1033 00:44:59,866 --> 00:45:01,534 ♪ Through the ages ♪ 1034 00:45:01,618 --> 00:45:05,413 ♪ We open up all the cages ♪ 1035 00:45:05,497 --> 00:45:07,332 ♪ Hold that spirit ♪ 1036 00:45:07,374 --> 00:45:10,835 ♪ Hold that spirit close ♪ 1037 00:45:10,919 --> 00:45:13,296 - ♪ Hold that spirit ♪ - ♪ Hold that spirit ♪ 1038 00:45:13,338 --> 00:45:15,799 - ♪ Hold that spirit ♪ - ♪ Hold that spirit ♪ 1039 00:45:15,882 --> 00:45:18,593 - ♪ Hold that spirit ♪ - ♪ Hold that spirit close ♪ 1040 00:45:18,677 --> 00:45:20,470 - ♪ Hold that spirit close ♪ 1041 00:45:20,512 --> 00:45:23,098 ♪ Hold that spirit ♪ - ♪ Hold that spirit close ♪ 1042 00:45:23,181 --> 00:45:25,225 - ♪ Hold that spirit close ♪ - ♪ Hold that spirit ♪ 1043 00:45:25,308 --> 00:45:27,852 - ♪ Hold that spirit ♪ - ♪ Hold that spirit close ♪ 1044 00:45:27,894 --> 00:45:30,814 [cheers and applause] 1045 00:45:36,277 --> 00:45:39,322 [soft music] 1046 00:45:39,364 --> 00:45:46,371 ♪ ♪ 1047 00:45:56,047 --> 00:45:59,300 - Oh... Oh, my God. 1048 00:45:59,384 --> 00:46:02,303 I can't tell you what a wonderful roller coaster 1049 00:46:02,387 --> 00:46:03,388 this has been. 1050 00:46:03,430 --> 00:46:05,974 I needed support. 1051 00:46:06,057 --> 00:46:09,728 I needed to tell my story. 1052 00:46:09,811 --> 00:46:11,187 Uh-huh. 1053 00:46:11,229 --> 00:46:14,941 And I needed to plant some seeds. 1054 00:46:15,025 --> 00:46:19,571 This has sparked a fire in me that I used to have, 1055 00:46:19,612 --> 00:46:21,239 and it's coming back. 1056 00:46:21,281 --> 00:46:22,907 Look out. 1057 00:46:22,991 --> 00:46:25,493 Thank you, darling. Thank you all. 1058 00:46:25,577 --> 00:46:27,203 Whoo! 1059 00:46:27,287 --> 00:46:30,165 [cheers and applause] 1060 00:46:30,248 --> 00:46:36,755 ♪ ♪ 1061 00:46:36,838 --> 00:46:38,048 - What? 1062 00:46:38,089 --> 00:46:40,175 - That was huge for our people. 1063 00:46:40,258 --> 00:46:41,509 Huge. 1064 00:46:41,593 --> 00:46:45,472 You pulled me off the edge, and you said, you can do it, girl. 1065 00:46:45,555 --> 00:46:47,724 You can do it. 1066 00:46:47,766 --> 00:46:51,019 I can't tell you what that meant to me. 1067 00:46:51,102 --> 00:46:55,273 This has given me such power to kick their asses. 1068 00:46:55,357 --> 00:46:56,733 - [chuckles] 1069 00:46:56,775 --> 00:46:59,819 - You look so fantastic. You're glowing. 1070 00:46:59,903 --> 00:47:02,614 Try to savor every moment... - Yeah. 1071 00:47:02,697 --> 00:47:06,201 - And spread the joy that you feel... 1072 00:47:06,284 --> 00:47:07,786 - Mm-hmm. 1073 00:47:07,869 --> 00:47:09,996 - Because I know there's people like you 1074 00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:13,083 in that audience who need it. - Oh, yeah. 1075 00:47:13,124 --> 00:47:15,043 There's a part of me that still says, 1076 00:47:15,126 --> 00:47:17,087 you're doing it wrong. 1077 00:47:17,128 --> 00:47:18,922 Don't make a fool of yourself. 1078 00:47:18,963 --> 00:47:20,548 I feel like 1079 00:47:20,632 --> 00:47:23,468 hopefully this helps the people who I've hurt, 1080 00:47:23,551 --> 00:47:27,222 who I was a toxic male to. 1081 00:47:27,305 --> 00:47:28,640 This is my soul. 1082 00:47:28,682 --> 00:47:31,226 This is okay. 1083 00:47:31,309 --> 00:47:34,270 ♪ ♪ 1084 00:47:34,312 --> 00:47:38,650 - From the House of Velour, welcome to the stage, 1085 00:47:38,733 --> 00:47:42,237 Jess A. Velour and Sasha Velour. 1086 00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:43,822 Make some noise! 1087 00:47:43,863 --> 00:47:47,742 [cheers and applause] 1088 00:47:47,826 --> 00:47:50,286 [Florence + The Machine's "Spectrum"] 1089 00:47:50,328 --> 00:47:53,623 - ♪ When we first came here ♪ 1090 00:47:53,707 --> 00:47:57,127 ♪ We were cold, and we were clear ♪ 1091 00:47:57,168 --> 00:48:01,006 ♪ With no colors on our skin ♪ 1092 00:48:01,089 --> 00:48:05,844 ♪ We were light and paper thin ♪ 1093 00:48:05,885 --> 00:48:08,680 ♪ When we first came here ♪ 1094 00:48:08,763 --> 00:48:12,267 ♪ We were cold, and we were clear ♪ 1095 00:48:12,350 --> 00:48:16,396 ♪ With no colors on our skin ♪ 1096 00:48:16,479 --> 00:48:20,025 ♪ Till we let the spectrum in ♪ 1097 00:48:20,108 --> 00:48:24,029 ♪ Say my name ♪ 1098 00:48:24,112 --> 00:48:27,615 ♪ And every color illuminates ♪ 1099 00:48:27,699 --> 00:48:31,369 ♪ We are shining ♪ 1100 00:48:31,411 --> 00:48:34,998 ♪ And we'll never be afraid again ♪ 1101 00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:39,044 ♪ Say my name ♪ 1102 00:48:39,085 --> 00:48:42,672 ♪ And every color illuminates ♪ 1103 00:48:42,714 --> 00:48:46,926 ♪ We are shining ♪ 1104 00:48:47,010 --> 00:48:49,971 ♪ And we'll never be afraid again ♪ 1105 00:48:50,055 --> 00:48:54,893 ♪ Say my name ♪ 1106 00:48:54,934 --> 00:48:57,562 ♪ And every color illuminates ♪ 1107 00:48:57,645 --> 00:49:02,150 ♪ ♪ 1108 00:49:02,233 --> 00:49:05,528 ♪ And every color illuminates ♪ 1109 00:49:05,570 --> 00:49:09,324 ♪ And we are shining ♪ 1110 00:49:09,407 --> 00:49:12,911 ♪ And we'll never be afraid again ♪ 1111 00:49:12,952 --> 00:49:16,915 ♪ Say my name ♪ 1112 00:49:16,956 --> 00:49:21,252 ♪ Say my name ♪ 1113 00:49:21,294 --> 00:49:24,881 ♪ And every color illuminates ♪ 1114 00:49:24,923 --> 00:49:28,802 ♪ We are shining ♪ 1115 00:49:28,885 --> 00:49:32,597 ♪ And we'll never be afraid again ♪ 1116 00:49:32,639 --> 00:49:36,434 ♪ Say my name ♪ 1117 00:49:36,518 --> 00:49:39,646 ♪ And every color illuminates ♪ 1118 00:49:39,729 --> 00:49:44,275 ♪ We are shining ♪ 1119 00:49:44,317 --> 00:49:47,904 ♪ And we'll never be afraid again ♪ 1120 00:49:47,946 --> 00:49:52,033 ♪ Say my name ♪ 1121 00:49:52,117 --> 00:49:55,954 [cheers and applause] 1122 00:49:56,037 --> 00:49:58,957 - Make some noise for my gorgeous daughter! 1123 00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:02,627 [cheers and applause] 1124 00:50:02,711 --> 00:50:05,839 She is a beautiful woman onstage, 1125 00:50:05,922 --> 00:50:08,216 in life, and in my family. 1126 00:50:08,299 --> 00:50:10,760 Make some noise for Jess A. Velour. 1127 00:50:10,802 --> 00:50:13,763 [cheers and applause] 1128 00:50:13,805 --> 00:50:16,725 [soft music] 1129 00:50:16,808 --> 00:50:19,019 ♪ ♪ 1130 00:50:19,102 --> 00:50:23,356 - First off, I want to say hi, everyone, I'm Jess. 1131 00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:25,150 And I can't-- 1132 00:50:25,233 --> 00:50:28,319 [cheers and applause] 1133 00:50:28,403 --> 00:50:31,364 ♪ ♪ 1134 00:50:31,448 --> 00:50:32,615 Four weeks ago, 1135 00:50:32,657 --> 00:50:36,453 I wouldn't even have went out in public as myself. 1136 00:50:38,872 --> 00:50:43,251 Six weeks ago, I tried to erase Jess. 1137 00:50:43,293 --> 00:50:46,338 ♪ ♪ 1138 00:50:46,421 --> 00:50:50,258 I can't thank you enough for what you've done for me. 1139 00:50:51,843 --> 00:50:53,845 [voice breaking] Thank you. 1140 00:50:53,887 --> 00:50:55,847 Thank you. Thank you. 1141 00:50:55,889 --> 00:50:58,850 [cheers and applause] 1142 00:51:04,397 --> 00:51:09,110 - You are a blessing exactly as you are, 1143 00:51:09,194 --> 00:51:12,322 and we are grateful that you are here 1144 00:51:12,364 --> 00:51:17,285 showing yourself in all your glory. 1145 00:51:17,369 --> 00:51:19,954 Give it up for my beautiful daughter. 1146 00:51:20,038 --> 00:51:22,916 [cheers and applause] 1147 00:51:22,999 --> 00:51:26,503 ♪ ♪ 1148 00:51:26,544 --> 00:51:28,755 Take a turn down the aisle, my dear. 1149 00:51:28,838 --> 00:51:32,133 Show them all who you are. 1150 00:51:32,217 --> 00:51:35,303 [cheers and applause] 1151 00:51:35,345 --> 00:51:42,143 ♪ ♪ 1152 00:51:42,227 --> 00:51:44,938 - You look so beautiful. 1153 00:51:45,021 --> 00:51:50,527 ♪ ♪ 1154 00:51:52,696 --> 00:51:54,739 - You didn't think you'd get here this quick? 1155 00:51:54,823 --> 00:51:57,867 - No, I just thought I would be telling my story 1156 00:51:57,909 --> 00:52:01,246 and maybe pushing me 1157 00:52:01,287 --> 00:52:03,415 to maybe get out of my comfort zone. 1158 00:52:03,498 --> 00:52:07,877 But I didn't think I'd love me for me in four weeks. 1159 00:52:09,462 --> 00:52:12,215 But... - You've surprised yourself. 1160 00:52:12,257 --> 00:52:16,553 Just think what you could do next. 1161 00:52:16,594 --> 00:52:19,514 - Thank you. - You are a goddess. 1162 00:52:19,597 --> 00:52:21,516 [chuckles] 1163 00:52:21,599 --> 00:52:23,560 ♪ ♪ 1164 00:52:23,601 --> 00:52:26,104 - I love that you brought us with you up there onstage. 1165 00:52:26,187 --> 00:52:29,357 - Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. 1166 00:52:29,441 --> 00:52:32,152 - I mean, it's just fabulous. 1167 00:52:32,235 --> 00:52:34,279 - It's our people. It's our people. 1168 00:52:34,362 --> 00:52:37,032 - Oh, he see a whole nother side of you. 1169 00:52:37,115 --> 00:52:38,783 I ain't gonna say it in church. 1170 00:52:38,867 --> 00:52:39,951 - He's got... 1171 00:52:40,035 --> 00:52:41,327 - Oh, yeah. - Boobages. 1172 00:52:41,411 --> 00:52:43,163 - Perky, perky, porky, perky bosoms. 1173 00:52:43,246 --> 00:52:45,290 - Porkable boobs. - "Porkable"? 1174 00:52:45,373 --> 00:52:47,584 Oh, now, see, that's a whole different kind of-- 1175 00:52:47,625 --> 00:52:50,003 - This logic of... 1176 00:52:50,086 --> 00:52:52,964 let's just make ourselves very small, 1177 00:52:53,048 --> 00:52:55,300 and then we'll be able to live-- 1178 00:52:55,342 --> 00:52:57,510 no one should have to be like that. 1179 00:52:57,594 --> 00:52:59,137 - I'm glad they went with a short dress 1180 00:52:59,179 --> 00:53:00,972 because you do have amazing legs. 1181 00:53:01,014 --> 00:53:03,183 - It's serving Disney Princess. 1182 00:53:03,266 --> 00:53:06,686 - A single drag show may not change the world, 1183 00:53:06,770 --> 00:53:09,314 but it can spark change. 1184 00:53:09,356 --> 00:53:13,151 - It can be political, family friendly. 1185 00:53:13,234 --> 00:53:16,654 It can even show that love is possible. 1186 00:53:16,696 --> 00:53:21,534 - And, in these divided times, that there's hope 1187 00:53:21,618 --> 00:53:25,663 that queer people, queer love, and queer joy 1188 00:53:25,705 --> 00:53:28,166 will someday shine 1189 00:53:28,208 --> 00:53:30,960 in all sacred spaces. 1190 00:53:35,131 --> 00:53:38,009 [Kesha's "Praying"] 1191 00:53:38,051 --> 00:53:42,347 ♪ ♪ 1192 00:53:42,389 --> 00:53:45,433 - ♪ Well, you almost had me fooled ♪ 1193 00:53:45,475 --> 00:53:48,728 ♪ ♪ 1194 00:53:48,812 --> 00:53:54,109 ♪ Told me that I was nothing without you ♪ 1195 00:53:54,192 --> 00:53:58,446 ♪ Oh, but after everything you've done ♪ 1196 00:53:58,488 --> 00:54:01,700 ♪ ♪ 1197 00:54:01,783 --> 00:54:07,247 ♪ I can thank you for how strong I have become ♪ 1198 00:54:07,330 --> 00:54:08,998 ♪ Because you brought the flames ♪ 1199 00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:10,542 ♪ And you put me through hell ♪ 1200 00:54:10,583 --> 00:54:13,461 ♪ I had to learn how to fight for myself ♪ 1201 00:54:13,545 --> 00:54:16,840 ♪ And we both know all the truth I could tell ♪ 1202 00:54:16,881 --> 00:54:20,301 ♪ I'll just say this as I wish you farewell ♪ 1203 00:54:20,385 --> 00:54:25,015 ♪ I hope you're somewhere praying ♪ 1204 00:54:25,056 --> 00:54:27,100 ♪ Praying ♪ 1205 00:54:27,183 --> 00:54:32,022 ♪ I hope your soul is changing ♪ 1206 00:54:32,063 --> 00:54:34,357 ♪ Changing ♪ 1207 00:54:34,399 --> 00:54:37,610 ♪ I hope you find your peace ♪ 1208 00:54:37,694 --> 00:54:40,947 ♪ Falling on your knees ♪ 1209 00:54:41,031 --> 00:54:43,783 ♪ Praying ♪ 1210 00:54:43,867 --> 00:54:47,620 ♪ ♪ 1211 00:54:47,704 --> 00:54:50,915 ♪ I'm proud of who I am ♪ 1212 00:54:50,999 --> 00:54:54,210 [cheers and applause] 1213 00:54:54,252 --> 00:54:58,506 ♪ No more monsters, I can breathe again ♪ 1214 00:54:58,548 --> 00:55:00,759 ♪ ♪ 1215 00:55:00,842 --> 00:55:04,220 ♪ And you said that I was done ♪ 1216 00:55:04,262 --> 00:55:06,431 ♪ ♪ 1217 00:55:06,473 --> 00:55:08,266 ♪ Well, you were wrong ♪ 1218 00:55:08,350 --> 00:55:13,271 ♪ And now the best is yet to come ♪ 1219 00:55:13,355 --> 00:55:17,692 ♪ 'Cause I can make it on my own ♪ 1220 00:55:17,776 --> 00:55:19,486 ♪ Oh ♪ 1221 00:55:19,569 --> 00:55:21,613 ♪ And I don't need you ♪ 1222 00:55:21,696 --> 00:55:26,743 ♪ I found a strength I've never known ♪ 1223 00:55:26,785 --> 00:55:31,039 ♪ I'll bring thunder, I'll bring rain ♪ 1224 00:55:31,122 --> 00:55:32,916 ♪ Oh ♪ 1225 00:55:32,999 --> 00:55:38,588 ♪ When I'm finished, they won't even know your name ♪ 1226 00:55:38,630 --> 00:55:42,300 ♪ You brought the flames, and you put me through hell ♪ 1227 00:55:42,342 --> 00:55:45,095 ♪ I had to learn how to fight for myself ♪ 1228 00:55:45,136 --> 00:55:48,473 ♪ And we both know all the truth I can tell ♪ 1229 00:55:48,556 --> 00:55:51,643 ♪ I'll just say this as a wish you farewell ♪ 1230 00:55:51,726 --> 00:55:56,898 ♪ I hope you're somewhere praying ♪ 1231 00:55:56,981 --> 00:55:58,608 ♪ Praying ♪ 1232 00:55:58,650 --> 00:56:03,113 ♪ I hope your soul is changing ♪ 1233 00:56:03,154 --> 00:56:06,157 ♪ Changing ♪ 1234 00:56:06,241 --> 00:56:09,411 ♪ I hope you find your peace ♪ 1235 00:56:09,494 --> 00:56:13,123 ♪ Falling on your knees ♪ 1236 00:56:13,164 --> 00:56:16,376 ♪ Praying ♪ 1237 00:56:16,459 --> 00:56:19,004 ♪ Oh, sometimes ♪ 1238 00:56:19,087 --> 00:56:23,425 ♪ I pray for you at night ♪ 1239 00:56:23,508 --> 00:56:26,094 ♪ Someday ♪ 1240 00:56:26,177 --> 00:56:29,347 ♪ Maybe you'll see the light ♪ 1241 00:56:29,431 --> 00:56:33,768 ♪ Whoa, oh, oh, oh, some say in life ♪ 1242 00:56:33,852 --> 00:56:36,604 ♪ You're gonna get what you give ♪ 1243 00:56:36,688 --> 00:56:38,982 ♪ But some things ♪ 1244 00:56:39,024 --> 00:56:42,777 ♪ Only God can forgive ♪ 1245 00:56:42,861 --> 00:56:44,362 ♪ Yeah ♪ 1246 00:56:44,446 --> 00:56:48,783 ♪ I hope you're somewhere praying ♪ 1247 00:56:48,867 --> 00:56:50,744 ♪ Praying ♪ 1248 00:56:50,827 --> 00:56:55,165 ♪ I hope your soul is changing ♪ 1249 00:56:55,206 --> 00:56:58,501 ♪ Changing ♪ 1250 00:56:58,543 --> 00:57:02,047 ♪ I hope you find your peace ♪ 1251 00:57:02,088 --> 00:57:05,216 ♪ Falling on your knees ♪ 1252 00:57:05,300 --> 00:57:08,762 ♪ Praying ♪ 1253 00:57:08,845 --> 00:57:11,639 ♪ ♪ 1254 00:57:11,723 --> 00:57:14,851 [cheers and applause] 1255 00:58:27,382 --> 00:58:28,216 [bright tone]