1 00:00:02,210 --> 00:00:03,586 Previously on "The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City".. 2 00:00:05,046 --> 00:00:06,464 I haven't told you this yet, 3 00:00:06,506 --> 00:00:08,091 but Jack Barlow is going on a mission. 4 00:00:08,133 --> 00:00:09,801 I've never thought of Jack Barlow 5 00:00:09,843 --> 00:00:11,678 as, like, a particularly devout person. 6 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:14,014 A mission is like boot camp for Mormonism. 7 00:00:14,055 --> 00:00:15,223 "You are assigned to labor 8 00:00:15,265 --> 00:00:18,309 in the Columbia Bogotá North Mission." 9 00:00:18,351 --> 00:00:20,186 [cheering] 10 00:00:20,228 --> 00:00:22,605 Monica was saying guys have bragged 11 00:00:22,647 --> 00:00:24,691 about hooking up with Shawn. 12 00:00:24,733 --> 00:00:26,234 She's not your friend. 13 00:00:26,276 --> 00:00:28,653 I don't know where I stand with you. You know what I mean? 14 00:00:28,695 --> 00:00:31,281 Everyone here is talking sh-- behind your back. 15 00:00:31,322 --> 00:00:34,034 I'm the only one saying it to your face. 16 00:00:34,075 --> 00:00:36,244 -Stop it. -Tell herto stop it! 17 00:00:36,286 --> 00:00:39,039 Oh, my gosh. That's not nice to talk to your mother like that. 18 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:41,249 [crying] I felt so abandoned by her. 19 00:00:41,291 --> 00:00:42,959 It was more important for her to apologize 20 00:00:43,001 --> 00:00:44,419 to you guys... [sniffles] 21 00:00:44,461 --> 00:00:47,213 than it was to be a ----ing mother. 22 00:00:47,255 --> 00:00:49,466 -Let me talk, mother----er! -Go ahead. 23 00:00:49,507 --> 00:00:51,634 -Did you just call me a ----er? -Mother----er. 24 00:00:51,676 --> 00:00:53,678 I called you a mother----er. 25 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:55,889 What was I supposed to do,Monica? 26 00:00:55,930 --> 00:00:57,223 Are you looking at me for answers... 27 00:00:57,265 --> 00:00:58,850 -Yes! Yes! -...as to why you abandoned me? 28 00:00:58,892 --> 00:01:01,227 Get over it! 29 00:01:03,021 --> 00:01:04,731 LISA: I'm on a mission to serve Lisa, 30 00:01:04,773 --> 00:01:07,317 and I love that for myself. 31 00:01:07,359 --> 00:01:09,319 HEATHER: I own a beauty empire, 32 00:01:09,361 --> 00:01:12,280 so I don't need any of your lip service. 33 00:01:12,322 --> 00:01:14,449 MONICA: I keep my friends close but my secrets closer. 34 00:01:14,491 --> 00:01:18,745 MEREDITH: In a town full of dirty lies, 35 00:01:18,787 --> 00:01:21,373 everyone can use a bath. 36 00:01:21,414 --> 00:01:22,707 ANGIE: I may be Greek, 37 00:01:22,749 --> 00:01:25,669 but don't expect an olive branch from me. 38 00:01:25,710 --> 00:01:30,173 WHITNEY: Having faith in myself is the only religion I need. 39 00:01:33,885 --> 00:01:43,895 ** 40 00:01:43,937 --> 00:01:49,901 ** 41 00:01:49,943 --> 00:01:52,070 -Hi. -Hi. How are you? 42 00:01:52,112 --> 00:01:54,781 -How are you? -This place is so cute. 43 00:01:54,823 --> 00:01:56,074 I know. It's a perfect place for a little... 44 00:01:56,116 --> 00:01:57,909 -[laughs] I know. -...girl time. 45 00:01:57,951 --> 00:02:01,496 Can I do a slice of your tiramisu cake? 46 00:02:03,665 --> 00:02:06,209 and then I'll follow the healthy strawberry smoothie up 47 00:02:06,251 --> 00:02:07,419 with a strawberry piece of cake. 48 00:02:07,460 --> 00:02:08,461 [laughs] 49 00:02:08,503 --> 00:02:10,338 -Thank you. -Yeah, you're welcome. 50 00:02:10,380 --> 00:02:12,465 I love pink. This is right up my alley. 51 00:02:12,507 --> 00:02:14,134 You could do a wall like this in your house. 52 00:02:14,175 --> 00:02:15,969 You'd have content. A content wall. 53 00:02:16,011 --> 00:02:19,222 I know. This is-- I had to--oh, wow. 54 00:02:19,264 --> 00:02:21,266 I brought a little gift for your children. 55 00:02:21,307 --> 00:02:23,643 -Oh, that is so sweet. -And sort of for you, too, 56 00:02:23,685 --> 00:02:25,812 because it's a really sweet book. 57 00:02:25,854 --> 00:02:27,981 It's just about loving yourself and, like... 58 00:02:28,023 --> 00:02:29,941 -Oh! -...and asking for help 59 00:02:29,983 --> 00:02:31,568 when you need it. 60 00:02:31,609 --> 00:02:34,237 I think it's a great message to share with your kids. 61 00:02:34,279 --> 00:02:39,951 And I felt terrible about the way you left sad 62 00:02:39,993 --> 00:02:43,121 and that things were not good with you and your mom. 63 00:02:43,163 --> 00:02:45,665 Just all of it, so... 64 00:02:45,707 --> 00:02:47,667 Well, thank you. I appreciate that. 65 00:02:47,709 --> 00:02:49,169 I love that it's a horse. 66 00:02:49,210 --> 00:02:52,505 That's definitely some little Elektra. That's very kind. 67 00:02:52,547 --> 00:02:54,132 Um... 68 00:02:54,174 --> 00:02:58,928 I hate that it went so badly. 69 00:02:58,970 --> 00:03:00,263 I know. I do, too. 70 00:03:00,305 --> 00:03:03,850 For me, telling you what was being said 71 00:03:03,892 --> 00:03:06,061 was my way of being a friend. 72 00:03:06,102 --> 00:03:09,147 Okay. Well, I understand 73 00:03:09,189 --> 00:03:12,025 that Meredith was the one dropping the threats, 74 00:03:12,067 --> 00:03:13,443 but then Lisa's telling me 75 00:03:13,485 --> 00:03:16,363 that you are doubling down by saying, 76 00:03:16,404 --> 00:03:18,365 "Well, yeah, even people are saying, he's good in bed," 77 00:03:18,406 --> 00:03:20,325 and, yeah, he is good in bed, like, in my bed, 78 00:03:20,367 --> 00:03:22,243 but not in somebody else's bed. 79 00:03:22,285 --> 00:03:24,329 -Okay. -That hurt me. 80 00:03:24,371 --> 00:03:25,789 And I thought, why would she do that? Why? 81 00:03:25,830 --> 00:03:27,665 I didn't do that. 82 00:03:27,707 --> 00:03:30,377 I did say something about boyfriends, 83 00:03:30,418 --> 00:03:32,170 but I never said about his performance. 84 00:03:32,212 --> 00:03:37,300 -The rumor is Shawn ----s men. -No, he does not. 85 00:03:37,342 --> 00:03:39,219 He has, like, boyfriends running around the city 86 00:03:39,260 --> 00:03:41,721 bragging about their sex. 87 00:03:41,763 --> 00:03:43,556 ** 88 00:03:43,598 --> 00:03:48,228 I feel like whatever Lisa says to you is doctrine, 89 00:03:48,269 --> 00:03:51,231 and you believe her over everyone. 90 00:03:51,272 --> 00:03:52,816 I'm not gonna attack your relationship with her, 91 00:03:52,857 --> 00:03:55,735 but it is actually very damaging when she's telling you things 92 00:03:55,777 --> 00:03:58,363 that were said that were not said. 93 00:03:58,405 --> 00:04:01,449 My intent was never to cause harm. 94 00:04:01,491 --> 00:04:03,451 And that's where I wanna end it. I'm done. 95 00:04:03,493 --> 00:04:06,579 I just wanna let you know why I still had some feelings. 96 00:04:06,621 --> 00:04:08,998 And I'll be more aware of that moving forward. 97 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:11,334 Okay. Thank you. 98 00:04:12,377 --> 00:04:14,921 I feel good, Monica. We're sitting down. 99 00:04:14,963 --> 00:04:16,756 We're not raising our voices. 100 00:04:16,798 --> 00:04:18,425 And that's all I wanted to do on Easter, 101 00:04:18,466 --> 00:04:20,260 like, when your daughters walked out of there, 102 00:04:20,301 --> 00:04:23,388 I was devastated for the girls. 103 00:04:23,430 --> 00:04:25,932 [voice breaking] That was the most family thing 104 00:04:25,974 --> 00:04:28,101 my kids have done in years. 105 00:04:28,143 --> 00:04:29,561 -Aw. -No, honestly. 106 00:04:29,602 --> 00:04:31,730 And to walk into that house and see everything you did 107 00:04:31,771 --> 00:04:36,860 with the kid table, I really was so touched, Angie. 108 00:04:36,901 --> 00:04:39,237 -Aw. I felt that. -And I was so grateful 109 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,115 that my kids were able to be around other kids 110 00:04:42,157 --> 00:04:45,243 in a family gathering setting, 111 00:04:45,285 --> 00:04:47,287 because those are core memories... 112 00:04:47,328 --> 00:04:48,872 -Yeah. -...that they don't get to have. 113 00:04:48,913 --> 00:04:49,789 Yeah. I'm sorry. 114 00:04:49,831 --> 00:04:52,751 [scoffs] My gosh. 115 00:04:52,792 --> 00:04:54,419 ** 116 00:04:54,461 --> 00:04:59,549 Michael was the one with a mom and a dad... 117 00:04:59,591 --> 00:05:05,555 and brothers and sisters, and they had a big family home, 118 00:05:05,597 --> 00:05:09,309 and I didn't have that. 119 00:05:09,351 --> 00:05:11,394 Then when the affair happened, 120 00:05:11,436 --> 00:05:14,564 obviously that changed everything. 121 00:05:14,606 --> 00:05:16,983 So, I never knew this about you. I had no idea. 122 00:05:17,025 --> 00:05:18,485 No, you have no idea. 123 00:05:18,526 --> 00:05:20,528 Like, my mom, there's so much stuff 124 00:05:20,570 --> 00:05:23,198 that I don't talk about to, like, protect her. 125 00:05:23,239 --> 00:05:25,492 My mom never came to holidays 126 00:05:25,533 --> 00:05:27,994 and things like that with us before, 127 00:05:28,036 --> 00:05:31,790 but after the affair... 128 00:05:31,831 --> 00:05:35,502 my mom started coming over to my house for every holiday. 129 00:05:35,543 --> 00:05:38,129 And I'm at least grateful for that, 130 00:05:38,171 --> 00:05:42,509 but, I mean, most of the time it would usually end in a fight. 131 00:05:42,550 --> 00:05:46,179 And after every holiday, I'd be like, why do I invite her? 132 00:05:46,221 --> 00:05:49,349 Well, I think that's natural, that, like, we love, you know, 133 00:05:49,391 --> 00:05:50,600 our family members... -Yeah. 134 00:05:50,642 --> 00:05:53,603 ...sometimes even not at their best moments. 135 00:05:53,645 --> 00:05:56,439 But, you know, one thing that I wanna tell you, 136 00:05:56,481 --> 00:06:00,652 because I want to be able to build trust with you. 137 00:06:00,694 --> 00:06:03,697 My mom was an alcoholic. She went through, you know, 138 00:06:03,738 --> 00:06:07,200 a lot of struggles and self-medicated, 139 00:06:07,242 --> 00:06:09,452 and so my childhood was not perfect. 140 00:06:09,494 --> 00:06:11,871 Thank God my dad was solid. 141 00:06:11,913 --> 00:06:14,624 I think that's kind of the only thing that really kept me, 142 00:06:14,666 --> 00:06:16,751 um, you know, grounded. 143 00:06:16,793 --> 00:06:19,629 I had a hard time growing up without a mother. 144 00:06:19,671 --> 00:06:22,257 [voice breaking] I lost her when I was 8 years old, 145 00:06:22,298 --> 00:06:24,884 and I never had the opportunity 146 00:06:24,926 --> 00:06:27,554 to have my mother a part of my life 147 00:06:27,595 --> 00:06:29,597 when I was becoming a young woman 148 00:06:29,639 --> 00:06:33,226 and really needed a role model and to see, like, 149 00:06:33,268 --> 00:06:36,354 this is the relationship that she has with her mother, 150 00:06:36,396 --> 00:06:39,024 it saddens me because 151 00:06:39,065 --> 00:06:40,775 I didn't have a chance to love my mother. 152 00:06:40,817 --> 00:06:43,403 I didn't know that about your mom, by the way. 153 00:06:43,445 --> 00:06:44,821 Yeah, I mean, I know we've never-- 154 00:06:44,863 --> 00:06:46,406 we've talked about our kids, but we've probably never, 155 00:06:46,448 --> 00:06:47,991 really, like, discussed-- 156 00:06:48,033 --> 00:06:49,701 -We've never discussed our moms. -Our moms. Yeah. 157 00:06:49,743 --> 00:06:55,081 And you...do not need to recreate what you hated. 158 00:06:55,123 --> 00:06:58,001 -I'm here for you. -And I appreciate that. 159 00:06:58,043 --> 00:07:00,670 I really do. 160 00:07:00,712 --> 00:07:02,797 And I'm sorry, too, for everything, 161 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:05,759 and I do think that there is a lot more to both of us, 162 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:08,094 that we need to give each other the space 163 00:07:08,136 --> 00:07:12,265 and chance to be able to... to let that grow. 164 00:07:12,307 --> 00:07:14,309 It means so much to me, and, like-- 165 00:07:14,351 --> 00:07:16,269 -I mean that. I mean that. -Yeah. Thank you. 166 00:07:16,311 --> 00:07:17,437 -I'm glad we got together. -Me, too. 167 00:07:17,479 --> 00:07:19,397 -This feels so much better. -I know. 168 00:07:19,439 --> 00:07:23,276 It's like, okay. [exhales deeply] Check. 169 00:07:23,318 --> 00:07:31,868 ** 170 00:07:31,910 --> 00:07:33,912 [horn honks] 171 00:07:33,953 --> 00:07:36,915 ** 172 00:07:36,956 --> 00:07:38,792 -LISA: Hey. -Hi. 173 00:07:38,833 --> 00:07:40,502 -Are you ready to do this? -[car door closes] 174 00:07:40,543 --> 00:07:42,295 Yes. I'm just setting up a tarp. 175 00:07:42,337 --> 00:07:44,005 My car is so messy. 176 00:07:44,047 --> 00:07:45,423 Okay. 177 00:07:45,465 --> 00:07:49,469 -You got your tiki torches? -I hope this is enough. 178 00:07:49,511 --> 00:07:51,137 How did you fit these in here? 179 00:07:51,179 --> 00:07:53,014 -It was a mini miracle. -Here. 180 00:07:53,056 --> 00:07:54,140 You can load up my arms. 181 00:07:54,182 --> 00:07:55,809 This week might be the actual week 182 00:07:55,850 --> 00:07:57,686 that tips me over the edge. 183 00:07:57,727 --> 00:08:00,855 I have two large events back to back-- 184 00:08:00,897 --> 00:08:03,191 Bobbie's 13th birthday and my Prism event, 185 00:08:03,233 --> 00:08:06,945 introducing my new jewelry line to Salt Lake City. 186 00:08:06,986 --> 00:08:08,154 Theme? 187 00:08:08,196 --> 00:08:09,948 The "lu-out." Beach "lu-out." 188 00:08:09,989 --> 00:08:12,826 It's not called a "lu-out." It's called a luau. 189 00:08:12,867 --> 00:08:14,369 Thought it was a "lu-out." 190 00:08:14,411 --> 00:08:16,913 You are so my daughter. It's insane to me. 191 00:08:16,955 --> 00:08:18,331 [laughter] 192 00:08:18,373 --> 00:08:20,166 So, there's this place downtown. 193 00:08:20,208 --> 00:08:23,169 I thought it would be fun for the Prism pop-up shop. 194 00:08:23,211 --> 00:08:25,714 Good cocktails, good food, so I'm excited. 195 00:08:25,755 --> 00:08:28,383 Thank God for good skincare, Botox, 196 00:08:28,425 --> 00:08:29,926 and a friend who's a party planner, 197 00:08:29,968 --> 00:08:33,346 because without them, I'd look as bad as I feel. [chuckles] 198 00:08:33,388 --> 00:08:35,181 Is Bobbie ready for her party? 199 00:08:35,223 --> 00:08:37,017 Yeah, my mom's coming. 200 00:08:37,058 --> 00:08:39,769 Amazing. How did you get your mom to come? 201 00:08:39,811 --> 00:08:41,855 I told her. I'm like, "I don't know if Grandma's gonna come." 202 00:08:41,896 --> 00:08:45,358 And Bobbie goes, "Grandma can't say no to me. Watch." 203 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:46,693 -Wait. And then she-- -Did she call her? 204 00:08:46,735 --> 00:08:48,778 Yeah, she called her, and then my mom texted me 205 00:08:48,820 --> 00:08:50,572 and was like, "All right, I'll be there." 206 00:08:50,613 --> 00:08:53,366 Oh, my gosh, I love that. That'll be fun for her. 207 00:08:53,408 --> 00:08:56,286 -I know. -But 13--that's a big number. 208 00:08:56,327 --> 00:09:00,040 I know, and she's definitely not a little girl anymore. 209 00:09:00,081 --> 00:09:03,168 Like, she's a teenager, for sure. 210 00:09:03,209 --> 00:09:04,878 Oh, crazy. Like, oh, my gosh. 211 00:09:04,919 --> 00:09:07,630 Think of all the things she can do now that she's 13. 212 00:09:07,672 --> 00:09:09,799 Please don't remind me. And she's getting a golf cart. 213 00:09:09,841 --> 00:09:12,552 She has no idea we're, like, going all out. 214 00:09:12,594 --> 00:09:14,637 Giving Bobbie this golf cart 215 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:16,514 was a huge debate between Justin and I. 216 00:09:16,556 --> 00:09:19,225 For a 13-year-old flying around on a golf cart, 217 00:09:19,267 --> 00:09:20,727 there's no doors, 218 00:09:20,769 --> 00:09:22,562 there's no seatbelts, there's no airbags. 219 00:09:22,604 --> 00:09:24,773 The second she picks up a boy, we're done. 220 00:09:24,814 --> 00:09:25,482 [laughs] 221 00:09:25,523 --> 00:09:26,983 But on the flip side, 222 00:09:27,025 --> 00:09:28,902 she can help me get Brooks to and from school, 223 00:09:28,943 --> 00:09:33,656 she can run errands, and she can be my personal Uber. Hmm. 224 00:09:33,698 --> 00:09:35,784 Okay. I love it with the pink, 225 00:09:35,825 --> 00:09:36,910 and when they have multiple colors on them, 226 00:09:36,951 --> 00:09:38,370 they're gonna look so good. 227 00:09:38,411 --> 00:09:40,955 -Bobbie's gonna love this. -Do I know everyone coming? 228 00:09:40,997 --> 00:09:43,166 So far, I've invited Heather, you, Ange... 229 00:09:43,208 --> 00:09:44,542 'Kay. 230 00:09:44,584 --> 00:09:47,420 ...Meredith, and I probably won't invite Mary. 231 00:09:47,462 --> 00:09:48,922 I don't wanna put her out. 232 00:09:48,963 --> 00:09:51,841 I know that she probably wouldn't wanna do it, 233 00:09:51,883 --> 00:09:53,760 and I just don't wanna, like, open her up to, like, 234 00:09:53,802 --> 00:09:55,762 saying mean things around my kids. 235 00:09:55,804 --> 00:09:57,597 -Yeah, I hear that. -So... 236 00:09:57,639 --> 00:10:01,101 To be honest, the last time Mary was around my kids, 237 00:10:01,142 --> 00:10:02,394 it wasn't the best visit. 238 00:10:02,435 --> 00:10:03,603 One of the members in our church, 239 00:10:03,645 --> 00:10:06,356 like when their daughter, like, had a crash, 240 00:10:06,398 --> 00:10:09,109 and she was ejected from the sunroof 241 00:10:09,150 --> 00:10:13,279 and fell down into a neighborhood. 242 00:10:13,321 --> 00:10:15,907 -Is she still alive? -No. 243 00:10:17,158 --> 00:10:20,036 I think my kids are still scarred. 244 00:10:20,078 --> 00:10:21,871 LISA: Um, should we let these dry for a little bit? 245 00:10:21,913 --> 00:10:25,291 Yeah. I've tried so many times to mend that relationship, 246 00:10:25,333 --> 00:10:27,752 and I don't think she likes me. 247 00:10:27,794 --> 00:10:29,796 -This is all about Bobbie. -Yeah. 248 00:10:29,838 --> 00:10:32,090 So, it's like, whoever's gonna make Bobbie feel good, 249 00:10:32,132 --> 00:10:33,550 have them there. 250 00:10:33,591 --> 00:10:39,973 I invited Monica and her girls. I talked with Monica. 251 00:10:40,015 --> 00:10:43,476 She's in a very abusive situation with her mom. 252 00:10:43,518 --> 00:10:46,271 [crying] I am so, like, broken right now, 253 00:10:46,312 --> 00:10:49,149 and seeing my mom and how she treated me, 254 00:10:49,190 --> 00:10:51,484 like, shattered something for me. 255 00:10:51,526 --> 00:10:54,154 My mom, I swear to you, finds 256 00:10:54,195 --> 00:10:57,532 different ways to hurt me every single day. [sniffles] 257 00:10:57,574 --> 00:10:59,242 -[sobbing] -I am so sorry. 258 00:10:59,284 --> 00:11:02,996 I-I love when things are conveniently abusive. 259 00:11:03,038 --> 00:11:05,123 -What do you mean? Like-- -You know what? 260 00:11:05,165 --> 00:11:08,793 You can be abused and also be abusive. 261 00:11:08,835 --> 00:11:12,005 If your mom's so horrible, ----ing make changes. 262 00:11:12,047 --> 00:11:15,759 I don't think she's sincere in anything. 263 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:19,512 So, it seems like a convenient time 264 00:11:19,554 --> 00:11:22,432 to have this huge issue with her mother. 265 00:11:22,474 --> 00:11:24,267 -Really? -At this point, I don't even 266 00:11:24,309 --> 00:11:25,810 value anything she said. 267 00:11:25,852 --> 00:11:29,564 Lisa, if you haven't been in a relationship that's abusive, 268 00:11:29,606 --> 00:11:31,775 you don't understand how hard it is 269 00:11:31,816 --> 00:11:34,486 to, one, even recognize that there's abuse there 270 00:11:34,527 --> 00:11:36,071 and manipulation, and that it's toxic. 271 00:11:36,112 --> 00:11:38,073 But I'm, like, you're bringing this on yourself. 272 00:11:38,114 --> 00:11:41,284 The way she treated her mother was horrible, 273 00:11:41,326 --> 00:11:44,079 and this destructive conversation she's having 274 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:45,538 about Shawn and Angie's marriage, 275 00:11:45,580 --> 00:11:46,956 it has nothing to do with her mother. 276 00:11:46,998 --> 00:11:48,833 It has everything to do with who Monica is. 277 00:11:48,875 --> 00:11:50,627 To me, it feels like an excuse, 278 00:11:50,669 --> 00:11:52,754 and it felt awfully convenient that she's like, 279 00:11:52,796 --> 00:11:54,547 "Oh, my gosh, it's because of what I'm dealing with 280 00:11:54,589 --> 00:11:55,965 with my mother. 281 00:11:56,007 --> 00:11:58,051 It's because of how horrible my mother is." 282 00:11:58,093 --> 00:12:00,387 And then it's like, "Oh, feel so bad for me." 283 00:12:00,428 --> 00:12:01,721 I don't feel bad for her. 284 00:12:01,763 --> 00:12:04,391 I have to choose to believe Monica. 285 00:12:04,432 --> 00:12:07,060 You know, the bottom line is 286 00:12:07,102 --> 00:12:08,812 your trauma is not an excuse 287 00:12:08,853 --> 00:12:10,730 for you to treat all of us like sh--. 288 00:12:10,772 --> 00:12:12,565 And it's definitely not an excuse 289 00:12:12,607 --> 00:12:15,568 to go spread a rumor about our friend. 290 00:12:15,610 --> 00:12:17,237 To me, she's manipulative. 291 00:12:26,329 --> 00:12:27,872 ** 292 00:12:32,919 --> 00:12:35,797 -BARTENDER: Hello. -Hi. I am waiting on one more. 293 00:12:35,839 --> 00:12:37,424 Yeah. Take a glass of water in the meantime. 294 00:12:37,465 --> 00:12:39,300 Okay. Thank you. 295 00:12:39,342 --> 00:12:43,096 ** 296 00:12:43,138 --> 00:12:44,597 All right, I love you, sweetheart. 297 00:12:44,639 --> 00:12:46,433 Okay. Love you. Bye. 298 00:12:46,474 --> 00:12:48,476 ** 299 00:12:48,518 --> 00:12:50,687 -Hi. -[singsongy] Well, hello! 300 00:12:50,729 --> 00:12:52,063 -You look fabulous... -How are you? 301 00:12:52,105 --> 00:12:56,609 ...with a little red. Mwah. Love you. 302 00:12:56,651 --> 00:12:58,570 -How's it going? -Good. 303 00:12:58,611 --> 00:13:00,822 Good. It's been, like, busy day. 304 00:13:00,864 --> 00:13:02,824 -Right? It's life. -[laughs] 305 00:13:02,866 --> 00:13:04,367 I was just tracking a shipment 306 00:13:04,409 --> 00:13:07,495 because Georgia's shoes for prom haven't been delivered yet. 307 00:13:07,537 --> 00:13:09,039 -What about the dress? -The dress is here. 308 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:10,123 -And? -The dress is great. 309 00:13:10,165 --> 00:13:12,876 -It's fabulous. -Prom. Oh, my God. 310 00:13:12,917 --> 00:13:16,087 -Your prom days are over. -Yeah, that's long gone. 311 00:13:16,129 --> 00:13:18,590 Isn't that crazy, though, how quickly it goes? 312 00:13:18,631 --> 00:13:21,259 I'll have grandchildren. 313 00:13:21,301 --> 00:13:23,678 You said "grandchildren," and it freaked me out. 314 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:26,514 [laughter] 315 00:13:26,556 --> 00:13:29,601 Speaking of the kids, what do you think about Jack's mission? 316 00:13:29,642 --> 00:13:30,977 It's so wild. 317 00:13:31,019 --> 00:13:33,104 I mean, I didn't realize that it was, like, 318 00:13:33,146 --> 00:13:36,983 literally seven days a week, 365 days a year. 319 00:13:37,025 --> 00:13:38,943 Yeah, it's hard. It's a-- It's a huge commitment. 320 00:13:38,985 --> 00:13:40,236 But, like, poor Jack Barlow. 321 00:13:40,278 --> 00:13:42,113 He's gotta go out there and preach, you know, 322 00:13:42,155 --> 00:13:44,282 Mormonism by the book. -Hardcore. 323 00:13:44,324 --> 00:13:46,242 And I don't think that's what he's been raised in. 324 00:13:46,284 --> 00:13:48,745 According to Lisa, he's been raised in East Coast Mormon, 325 00:13:48,787 --> 00:13:50,372 which I don't know if it translates. 326 00:13:50,413 --> 00:13:54,417 Wait, there's such a thing as East Coast versus West Coast? 327 00:13:54,459 --> 00:13:56,169 No, she just says she has a cool bishop, 328 00:13:56,211 --> 00:13:57,879 so she can wear strapless dresses, 329 00:13:57,921 --> 00:14:00,048 and she can sell tequila, and she can still-- 330 00:14:00,090 --> 00:14:02,676 Wait. You can wear strapless dresses in church? 331 00:14:04,010 --> 00:14:06,221 I don't think it's like, check the box to go to church. 332 00:14:06,262 --> 00:14:08,056 Like, I would wear this to church, and some people-- 333 00:14:08,098 --> 00:14:09,891 Oh, please. You would not wear that to church. 334 00:14:09,933 --> 00:14:11,351 No, no, no. I would, too. Ask John. 335 00:14:11,393 --> 00:14:13,687 John, would I wear this to church? With sunglasses? 336 00:14:13,728 --> 00:14:16,356 -Without a sweater or jacket? -100%. 337 00:14:16,398 --> 00:14:18,066 I'm like, please take me to church, 338 00:14:18,108 --> 00:14:20,151 because wherever you're practicing 339 00:14:20,193 --> 00:14:23,196 is a faith I've never known of. -[laughs] 340 00:14:23,238 --> 00:14:25,031 You always cover your shoulders, 341 00:14:25,073 --> 00:14:27,492 or you aren't worthy to enter the temple. 342 00:14:27,534 --> 00:14:30,370 Lisa's brand of Mormonism doesn't exist. 343 00:14:30,412 --> 00:14:33,248 It's like someone's taken a bag and hot glue-gunned, 344 00:14:33,289 --> 00:14:36,543 you know, two interlocking C's, and called it Chanel. 345 00:14:36,584 --> 00:14:38,211 I guess at the end of the day, 346 00:14:38,253 --> 00:14:42,340 faith is how you choose to define it, and maybe... 347 00:14:44,384 --> 00:14:47,846 Maybe the Mormon faith doesn't accept her definition, 348 00:14:47,887 --> 00:14:49,806 but... [laughs] there you go. I don't know. 349 00:14:49,848 --> 00:14:51,933 It's just a hard pill for me to swallow 350 00:14:51,975 --> 00:14:53,727 because Lisa gets to be 351 00:14:53,768 --> 00:14:55,687 as nuanced of a Mormon as she wants, 352 00:14:55,729 --> 00:14:57,605 but I'm invalidated and excluded 353 00:14:57,647 --> 00:15:01,401 and just no longer welcome in the community. 354 00:15:01,443 --> 00:15:02,944 Wow. 355 00:15:02,986 --> 00:15:06,573 So, I mean, how are you doing after cross-country skiing? 356 00:15:06,614 --> 00:15:08,074 We're doing a birthday party. Wow. 357 00:15:08,116 --> 00:15:09,951 Angie and her family are gonna be there, 358 00:15:09,993 --> 00:15:12,537 and I want you to come to the party, 359 00:15:12,579 --> 00:15:14,289 but I want to get to a place 360 00:15:14,330 --> 00:15:17,792 where I can know that it's going to be a safe space. 361 00:15:17,834 --> 00:15:20,211 I do understand her concern about there 362 00:15:20,253 --> 00:15:22,213 being a fight at her daughter's party. 363 00:15:22,255 --> 00:15:25,091 That, to me, is very fair and legitimate. 364 00:15:25,133 --> 00:15:29,262 So, I'll bring a gift, wish her a happy birthday, 365 00:15:29,304 --> 00:15:32,891 and...dip. 366 00:15:32,932 --> 00:15:34,976 Maybe I should send her a text ahead of time and just say, 367 00:15:35,018 --> 00:15:36,353 you know, "I'm coming by. 368 00:15:36,394 --> 00:15:39,647 I'm not gonna stay a long time." -No, French exit it. 369 00:15:39,689 --> 00:15:42,525 -It'll be great. -[laughs] 370 00:15:42,567 --> 00:15:51,034 ** 371 00:15:51,076 --> 00:15:53,244 I just can't believe you're 13. 372 00:15:53,286 --> 00:15:55,288 It feels like yesterday that I had you. 373 00:15:55,330 --> 00:15:57,749 Well... [speaks indistinctly in nasal voice] 374 00:15:57,791 --> 00:15:59,084 [laughs] 375 00:15:59,125 --> 00:16:01,002 -Can I talk, or... [giggling] -Yeah, you can. 376 00:16:01,044 --> 00:16:03,004 Yeah. You can still talk. 377 00:16:03,046 --> 00:16:05,965 I don't know. I've never done lip liner. 378 00:16:06,007 --> 00:16:08,468 You can just be normal. Just be normal. 379 00:16:08,510 --> 00:16:10,679 -[laughs] I can't. -[laughter] 380 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:12,514 I can't be normal. 381 00:16:12,555 --> 00:16:14,849 Relax your mouth. Relax. 382 00:16:14,891 --> 00:16:17,310 -Okay. -I can't. I'm laughing. 383 00:16:17,352 --> 00:16:18,978 [laughter] 384 00:16:19,020 --> 00:16:23,358 Watching my baby girl get glammed, 385 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:26,277 it feels like last week was her first birthday party, 386 00:16:26,319 --> 00:16:27,987 and I remember Bobbie 387 00:16:28,029 --> 00:16:30,031 diving into her cake as a 1 year old. 388 00:16:30,073 --> 00:16:31,491 It was her first time having sugar. 389 00:16:31,533 --> 00:16:35,537 I can't believe I'm sitting here looking at a teenager. 390 00:16:35,578 --> 00:16:36,621 Whoa! 391 00:16:36,663 --> 00:16:37,789 [laughs] 392 00:16:37,831 --> 00:16:39,582 [laughs] I have eyebrows! 393 00:16:39,624 --> 00:16:42,377 [laughter] 394 00:16:42,419 --> 00:16:45,046 ** 395 00:16:45,088 --> 00:16:46,756 -HEATHER: Georgia? -Yeah? 396 00:16:46,798 --> 00:16:49,884 You wanna come help me wrap some of these presents? 397 00:16:49,926 --> 00:16:51,720 -Hi! -So cute! 398 00:16:51,761 --> 00:16:54,139 Oh, this is cute! I love it. 399 00:16:54,180 --> 00:16:56,307 -You look so cute. -Like, beachy perfect. 400 00:16:56,349 --> 00:16:58,268 -We all look so peachy. -I'm doing Hawaiian sunset. 401 00:16:58,309 --> 00:17:01,062 -That's the theme. -Okay, so wrap this. 402 00:17:01,104 --> 00:17:04,399 I think let's stick to unicorn paper. 403 00:17:04,441 --> 00:17:07,944 -Okay. Who's all coming? -All of Whitney's relatives. 404 00:17:07,986 --> 00:17:10,196 And then I wonder if, um, 405 00:17:10,238 --> 00:17:12,365 you know, I'm gonna call Angie K. 406 00:17:12,407 --> 00:17:14,451 because I wonder if she's bringing Elektra. 407 00:17:14,492 --> 00:17:17,662 I really think you can be, like, big sisters to her. 408 00:17:17,704 --> 00:17:18,705 [line rings] 409 00:17:18,747 --> 00:17:20,790 [ring] 410 00:17:20,832 --> 00:17:23,668 -GEORGIA: That's so cute. -Hello. 411 00:17:23,710 --> 00:17:24,836 [laughs] 412 00:17:24,878 --> 00:17:26,504 Take me to the party. 413 00:17:26,546 --> 00:17:31,593 Wait, are you getting glammed? What's underneath your jacket? 414 00:17:32,761 --> 00:17:36,639 Angie, that is not Hawaiian sunset-themed. 415 00:17:41,019 --> 00:17:42,729 Yeah, it's roller skating for sure. 416 00:17:42,771 --> 00:17:44,147 It's great. You look good. 417 00:17:44,189 --> 00:17:46,274 -You look pretty. -Thank you. We're excited. 418 00:17:46,316 --> 00:17:47,317 We're gonna have fun tonight. 419 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:50,195 Do you know everyone that's coming? 420 00:17:52,155 --> 00:17:54,532 Is--Is Jack coming? Is Lisa coming? 421 00:17:58,828 --> 00:18:00,497 He got his mission call? 422 00:18:03,416 --> 00:18:08,296 Wait. Everyone--wait. She did an announcement? 423 00:18:10,006 --> 00:18:12,759 In honor of Jack, we'll cheers with water. 424 00:18:12,801 --> 00:18:13,927 -Yeah. -Here we go. Cheers. 425 00:18:13,968 --> 00:18:15,136 -Yeah. -[glasses clink] 426 00:18:15,178 --> 00:18:17,138 We needed to have you guys here 427 00:18:17,180 --> 00:18:19,683 to tell you. You ready? 428 00:18:19,724 --> 00:18:24,145 -All right, lay it on us. -I know. Dang. 429 00:18:24,187 --> 00:18:25,730 -Bogotá. So, Colombia. -Ah. 430 00:18:25,772 --> 00:18:27,691 -Oh! Whoo! -Yeah. 431 00:18:34,656 --> 00:18:36,199 Who was there? 432 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:41,413 An intimate gathering of--I'm-- 433 00:18:41,454 --> 00:18:43,331 It sounds like her best supporters. 434 00:18:43,373 --> 00:18:46,376 -Oh, Heather, I'm so sorry. -[scoffs] 435 00:18:46,418 --> 00:18:48,753 This just feels like more of the same rejection 436 00:18:48,795 --> 00:18:50,255 I've been experiencing, 437 00:18:50,296 --> 00:18:53,049 but it stings especially more coming from Lisa, 438 00:18:53,091 --> 00:18:55,010 because you're loosey-goosey about Mormonism, 439 00:18:55,051 --> 00:18:56,678 except when it comes down to excluding me, 440 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:58,054 and then all of sudden, 441 00:18:58,096 --> 00:18:59,556 you know, you're a soldier for the gospel. 442 00:18:59,597 --> 00:19:02,267 So, that'll be a fun night. I'll just avoid her tonight 443 00:19:02,308 --> 00:19:04,019 so I don't, like, lose my temper. 444 00:19:04,060 --> 00:19:06,688 ** 445 00:19:06,730 --> 00:19:08,273 Coming up... 446 00:19:08,314 --> 00:19:10,316 Okay. I was just wondering if your mom helps with your kids, 447 00:19:10,358 --> 00:19:13,194 if she's present in their life and, like-- 448 00:19:13,236 --> 00:19:14,654 You wanna ask them? 'Cause they're here. 449 00:19:14,696 --> 00:19:16,364 No, I don't wanna ask your kids that question. 450 00:19:16,406 --> 00:19:18,491 Well, 'cause I feel like you don't believe anything I say. 451 00:19:18,533 --> 00:19:21,536 Maybe you need to hear it from a ----ing 5-year-old. 452 00:19:21,578 --> 00:19:25,248 ** 453 00:19:31,004 --> 00:19:33,381 Bobbie, your girls are here. 454 00:19:33,423 --> 00:19:35,091 -Bobbie! -Happy birthday, Bobbie. 455 00:19:35,133 --> 00:19:36,509 [girls giggling] 456 00:19:36,551 --> 00:19:40,096 WHITNEY: All right, girls, let's all go outside. 457 00:19:40,138 --> 00:19:41,556 ** 458 00:19:43,099 --> 00:19:45,101 The Magic Kool Bus! 459 00:19:45,143 --> 00:19:46,853 -Whoa! -[laughter] 460 00:19:46,895 --> 00:19:48,438 ** 461 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:52,859 What?! What is this?! 462 00:19:52,901 --> 00:19:53,943 It's my birthday! 463 00:19:53,985 --> 00:19:55,612 [laughter] 464 00:19:55,653 --> 00:20:10,126 ** 465 00:20:10,168 --> 00:20:11,878 Look at all these people. 466 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:13,254 Hi! 467 00:20:13,296 --> 00:20:14,506 -Mwah. -Hello! 468 00:20:14,547 --> 00:20:18,009 So good to see you. It's been so long. 469 00:20:18,051 --> 00:20:20,011 ANGIE: I'm coming, honey. 470 00:20:20,053 --> 00:20:22,263 I don't want my pants to trip me. That's really, really-- 471 00:20:22,305 --> 00:20:23,973 -Well, just roll 'em up maybe. -I know, right? 472 00:20:24,015 --> 00:20:25,183 Or roll 'em under. 473 00:20:25,225 --> 00:20:27,018 We painted those tiki torches together. 474 00:20:27,060 --> 00:20:28,812 -Cute! -I got to spin this one. 475 00:20:28,853 --> 00:20:30,146 Hold on. It's bugging me. 476 00:20:30,188 --> 00:20:34,901 ** 477 00:20:34,943 --> 00:20:36,569 Aren't they cute? 478 00:20:36,611 --> 00:20:38,363 -Okay, they look beach. -[laughter] 479 00:20:38,405 --> 00:20:40,323 -Where's your beach? -I'm doing sunset colors. 480 00:20:40,365 --> 00:20:41,908 -Oh, okay, that works. -Colors of the sunset. 481 00:20:41,950 --> 00:20:43,326 I did--yes. 482 00:20:43,368 --> 00:20:46,830 Let's give it a little-- Yes. That is good. Looks good. 483 00:20:46,871 --> 00:20:47,956 -[girls cheering] -[horn honking] 484 00:20:47,997 --> 00:20:50,542 WHITNEY: All right, we are here! Let's go! 485 00:20:50,583 --> 00:20:51,418 Whoa! 486 00:20:51,459 --> 00:20:52,794 Hello! The birthday girl's here! 487 00:20:52,836 --> 00:20:55,338 ** 488 00:20:55,380 --> 00:20:57,257 -Hey, Whit! It looks amazing. -Hey, Lisa! 489 00:20:57,298 --> 00:20:58,925 -Hi, Bobbie! -Hi! 490 00:20:58,967 --> 00:21:00,802 * Happy birthday * 491 00:21:00,844 --> 00:21:02,971 -Oh, you look so good. -How is Whitney? 492 00:21:03,013 --> 00:21:05,098 Well, you look very floral and Hawaiian. 493 00:21:05,140 --> 00:21:07,684 You know, to go with the theme. 494 00:21:07,726 --> 00:21:12,022 Can you do the Dr Pepper, peach, raspberry, and coconut? 495 00:21:12,063 --> 00:21:13,440 Will you meet Lisa? 496 00:21:13,481 --> 00:21:15,150 -Oh. -Oh, my gosh. Lisa! 497 00:21:15,191 --> 00:21:16,901 -You're so pretty. I know. -Good to meet you, too. 498 00:21:16,943 --> 00:21:20,030 You are so pretty. That's where you got your good looks from. 499 00:21:20,071 --> 00:21:21,197 -Oh, thank you. -I know. 500 00:21:21,239 --> 00:21:24,617 -I need a drink! -Where are the girls? 501 00:21:24,659 --> 00:21:27,954 What does a girl have to do at a 13-year-old's birthday? 502 00:21:27,996 --> 00:21:29,581 Ah! Thank you. 503 00:21:29,622 --> 00:21:30,957 ** 504 00:21:30,999 --> 00:21:32,959 Let's get lit and skate. 505 00:21:33,001 --> 00:21:36,296 -John, look at us! -Here, try going this way. 506 00:21:36,338 --> 00:21:37,756 -Whoa! -We got this. 507 00:21:37,797 --> 00:21:39,716 -Yes, we do. -Oh, oh, oh, oh! 508 00:21:39,758 --> 00:21:43,094 -You're fine. You're fine. -I got this. 509 00:21:43,136 --> 00:21:44,721 Whoo! 510 00:21:44,763 --> 00:21:46,514 You put your feet like this. 511 00:21:46,556 --> 00:21:50,226 We're like little Greek dancers without the cash. 512 00:21:50,268 --> 00:21:52,395 Where's the cash? [laughs] 513 00:21:52,437 --> 00:21:53,980 I know. 514 00:21:54,022 --> 00:21:55,982 Henry! What's up, man? 515 00:21:56,024 --> 00:21:57,650 Good to see you. 516 00:21:57,692 --> 00:21:59,944 -Oh, my God. Oh, my God. -Did you see Jack? 517 00:21:59,986 --> 00:22:03,448 -I heard he's going to Colombia? -Yeah. 518 00:22:03,490 --> 00:22:04,741 -Is that right? -You know where he did his? 519 00:22:04,783 --> 00:22:06,910 -Oh, yeah, he was Las Vegas. -Vegas. 520 00:22:06,951 --> 00:22:08,203 -Yeah. -Sin City. 521 00:22:08,244 --> 00:22:09,120 I would've been done the first week. 522 00:22:09,162 --> 00:22:10,914 Good job! Whoo! 523 00:22:10,955 --> 00:22:12,248 There she is. 524 00:22:12,290 --> 00:22:14,000 And in rolls Malibu Barbie. 525 00:22:14,042 --> 00:22:15,251 ** 526 00:22:15,293 --> 00:22:16,628 Did you see me out there? The Olympian. 527 00:22:16,670 --> 00:22:21,216 No, I didn't. I didn't see you out there, honey. 528 00:22:21,257 --> 00:22:23,593 -Hi! -Hello. 529 00:22:24,844 --> 00:22:29,432 Lisa, I was super excited about Jack's announcement, 530 00:22:29,474 --> 00:22:31,351 and I told her how he was going to Colombia. 531 00:22:31,393 --> 00:22:32,602 Oh. Oh, oh, oh. 532 00:22:32,644 --> 00:22:34,020 And look, it was kind of, like... 533 00:22:34,062 --> 00:22:37,774 -Why did you tell her? -It just came out 534 00:22:37,816 --> 00:22:39,442 that I was super excited for him, 535 00:22:39,484 --> 00:22:41,319 and I think she felt hurt that she wasn’t' involved 536 00:22:41,361 --> 00:22:43,947 or invited to the announcement. 537 00:22:43,988 --> 00:22:46,324 Whoo-hoo! 538 00:22:46,366 --> 00:22:48,243 I don't really think it's that big of a deal. 539 00:22:48,284 --> 00:22:51,287 Inviting Heather to Jack's mission brunch 540 00:22:51,329 --> 00:22:52,414 didn't make sense to me. 541 00:22:52,455 --> 00:22:55,291 She made it very clear at Greek Easter 542 00:22:55,333 --> 00:22:56,459 that she doesn't think it's a good idea 543 00:22:56,501 --> 00:22:58,169 that Jack's going on a mission. 544 00:22:58,211 --> 00:22:59,838 I need a dirty Diet Coke. 545 00:22:59,879 --> 00:23:02,465 So I'm, like, shocked that she feels hurt, 546 00:23:02,507 --> 00:23:04,926 but Heather and I are in a much better place, 547 00:23:04,968 --> 00:23:09,264 and I don't want this non-invite to become a big deal. 548 00:23:11,141 --> 00:23:13,768 -MONICA: No! Already? -If you'll excuse me. 549 00:23:13,810 --> 00:23:15,478 Excuse me. 550 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,690 Dang, she's leaving in a hurry. 551 00:23:18,732 --> 00:23:20,275 MEREDITH: It's time. We gotta roll. 552 00:23:20,316 --> 00:23:21,568 SETH: Okay. 553 00:23:21,609 --> 00:23:23,445 LISA: Oh, I'm gonna actually get a Coke. 554 00:23:23,486 --> 00:23:24,946 -ANGIE: Okay. -LISA: Yeah. 555 00:23:24,988 --> 00:23:26,281 Um, okay. 556 00:23:26,322 --> 00:23:29,617 I need a Diet Coke with a shot of cream for sure. 557 00:23:30,326 --> 00:23:32,829 Are you guys not good at all right now? Are you fine? 558 00:23:32,871 --> 00:23:36,499 Literally, ever since I said she was materialistic... 559 00:23:36,541 --> 00:23:38,752 -She's ignored you? -Yeah. 560 00:23:38,793 --> 00:23:40,587 How much have you talked 561 00:23:40,628 --> 00:23:42,297 about your relationship with your mom with Lisa? 562 00:23:42,339 --> 00:23:44,758 I don't talk to Lisa at all. 563 00:23:44,799 --> 00:23:46,092 Why would she know anything 564 00:23:46,134 --> 00:23:47,344 about your relationship with your mom? 565 00:23:47,385 --> 00:23:50,347 Uh...I have no idea. 566 00:23:50,388 --> 00:23:51,765 [indistinct conversations] 567 00:23:51,806 --> 00:23:54,017 -Why? -Whitney said Lisa said that she 568 00:23:54,059 --> 00:23:56,644 thinks that your relationship with your mom's embellished 569 00:23:56,686 --> 00:24:01,107 and that you're, like, exaggerating it for attention. 570 00:24:01,149 --> 00:24:03,443 Lisa just went off on Monica yesterday. 571 00:24:03,485 --> 00:24:06,112 Like, was bashing her, saying all these things about her. 572 00:24:06,154 --> 00:24:08,239 She thinks she's lying about her relationship with her mom? 573 00:24:08,281 --> 00:24:10,658 She's not buying the story. 574 00:24:10,700 --> 00:24:13,036 Lisa doesn't know anything about me. 575 00:24:13,078 --> 00:24:15,121 I feel like Lisa's obsessed with me. 576 00:24:15,163 --> 00:24:16,790 [laughs] 577 00:24:16,831 --> 00:24:18,291 -Like... -Whoa! Whoo! 578 00:24:18,333 --> 00:24:19,668 ...my name stays in her mouth. 579 00:24:19,709 --> 00:24:21,670 -Like, I just-- -Choke on it. Choke on it. 580 00:24:21,711 --> 00:24:24,381 -I mean, I-- -I mean, just can't imagine 581 00:24:24,422 --> 00:24:27,425 being middle-aged and so bitter. 582 00:24:27,467 --> 00:24:28,802 -[bleep] off, Lisa. -I know, I know. 583 00:24:28,843 --> 00:24:30,595 Like, if your life is so perfect, 584 00:24:30,637 --> 00:24:32,138 go live it and be happy. -I know. 585 00:24:32,180 --> 00:24:33,556 Why do you care about my relationship 586 00:24:33,598 --> 00:24:35,809 with my mom so much? 587 00:24:35,850 --> 00:24:39,396 I am trying so hard to not say something 588 00:24:39,437 --> 00:24:43,817 and to remember that this is a little girl's birthday party, 589 00:24:43,858 --> 00:24:45,402 and I don't need to be the auntie there 590 00:24:45,443 --> 00:24:46,945 that's ready to turn up, 591 00:24:46,986 --> 00:24:50,740 but to actually try and keep my mouth shut, 592 00:24:50,782 --> 00:24:52,575 I'm telling you... 593 00:24:52,617 --> 00:24:56,996 it--it--it could be, like, an Olympic sport, 594 00:24:57,038 --> 00:24:58,540 ** 595 00:24:58,581 --> 00:25:01,042 -...in my opinion. -LISA: Whoo! 596 00:25:01,084 --> 00:25:02,961 Hey. 597 00:25:03,003 --> 00:25:04,421 Hey. 598 00:25:04,462 --> 00:25:06,047 ** 599 00:25:06,089 --> 00:25:08,341 What's going on? 600 00:25:08,383 --> 00:25:11,428 We were just talking about, uh... 601 00:25:11,469 --> 00:25:13,596 Whitney told me that you think 602 00:25:13,638 --> 00:25:15,306 Monica is embellishing the issues with her mom. 603 00:25:15,348 --> 00:25:18,309 Wait, what? 604 00:25:18,351 --> 00:25:21,896 ** 605 00:25:30,030 --> 00:25:32,657 Whitney told me that you think 606 00:25:32,699 --> 00:25:34,451 Monica is embellishing the issues with her mom. 607 00:25:34,492 --> 00:25:37,704 Wait, what? 608 00:25:40,248 --> 00:25:44,002 It was a snarky comment. That's all it was. 609 00:25:44,044 --> 00:25:45,086 ** 610 00:25:45,128 --> 00:25:48,173 Wow. Word travels fast in this group. 611 00:25:48,214 --> 00:25:50,175 Like, I was excited to meet your mom 612 00:25:50,216 --> 00:25:51,634 and your girls on Easter. 613 00:25:51,676 --> 00:25:53,345 I thought that that was, like, a disaster. 614 00:25:53,386 --> 00:25:55,847 -It was a disaster. -It was a total disaster, 615 00:25:55,889 --> 00:25:58,391 and I felt like she was trying to smooth things over. 616 00:25:58,433 --> 00:26:01,186 My mom was very, very charming 617 00:26:01,227 --> 00:26:03,897 and very charismatic and very nice, 618 00:26:03,938 --> 00:26:05,315 and so was Ted Bundy. 619 00:26:05,357 --> 00:26:07,192 ** 620 00:26:07,233 --> 00:26:09,027 My mom has two sides. 621 00:26:09,069 --> 00:26:11,529 She is very, very abusive. 622 00:26:11,571 --> 00:26:13,907 ** 623 00:26:13,948 --> 00:26:15,700 My kids don't even wanna be around her. 624 00:26:15,742 --> 00:26:16,826 Like, there's a lot you don't know. 625 00:26:16,868 --> 00:26:18,036 Why did you bring her to Easter then? 626 00:26:18,078 --> 00:26:19,329 Why did you even have her there? 627 00:26:19,371 --> 00:26:22,332 [sighs] We have a very up and down relationship. 628 00:26:22,374 --> 00:26:25,126 It's very high highs, and it is low lows. 629 00:26:25,168 --> 00:26:27,379 Okay. I was just wondering if your mom helps with your kids, 630 00:26:27,420 --> 00:26:29,547 if she's present in their life, and, like-- 631 00:26:29,589 --> 00:26:31,925 You wanna ask them? 'Cause they're here. 632 00:26:31,966 --> 00:26:33,635 No, I don't wanna ask your kids that question. 633 00:26:33,677 --> 00:26:36,054 Well, 'cause I feel like you don't believe anything Isay. 634 00:26:36,096 --> 00:26:39,641 Maybe you need to hear it from a ----ing 5-year-old. 635 00:26:39,683 --> 00:26:42,477 My girls have absolutely vocalized frustrations 636 00:26:42,519 --> 00:26:44,688 about their vovó. 637 00:26:44,729 --> 00:26:47,065 But you know that what vovó is doing to us 638 00:26:47,107 --> 00:26:49,567 doesn't reflect how youare as a mom. 639 00:26:49,609 --> 00:26:50,985 Thank you. 640 00:26:51,027 --> 00:26:54,239 My kids can see that she is a Dr. Jekyll, Mr. Hyde. 641 00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:56,449 Monica, I don't wanna have, like, this negative, like, 642 00:26:56,491 --> 00:26:57,992 raising voice conversation. 643 00:26:58,034 --> 00:26:59,619 -You're the-- -I'm telling you the perception. 644 00:26:59,661 --> 00:27:00,745 Who's raising their voice, Lisa? 645 00:27:00,787 --> 00:27:02,288 -You are... -This is a raised voice? 646 00:27:02,330 --> 00:27:03,957 ...and I'm just telling you the perception of the situation. 647 00:27:03,998 --> 00:27:06,042 -Is this a raised voice to you? -My perception of the situation 648 00:27:06,084 --> 00:27:07,585 is different than that. -Just like my mom! 649 00:27:07,627 --> 00:27:08,920 Did you catch that? 650 00:27:08,962 --> 00:27:10,255 When I went to dinner with my mom, 651 00:27:10,296 --> 00:27:12,298 and my mom didn't like what I was saying, 652 00:27:12,340 --> 00:27:13,883 she turned to a plant. 653 00:27:13,925 --> 00:27:15,635 -I see through your bullsh--. -I'm gonna talk to the plant. 654 00:27:15,677 --> 00:27:17,053 -That's amazing. -Her labels... 655 00:27:17,095 --> 00:27:18,638 Talk to the bullsh--. Talk to the bullsh-- plant. 656 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:20,223 ...me anymore. 657 00:27:20,265 --> 00:27:25,061 So, if I'm getting this right, Lisa is now Linda, Monica's mom, 658 00:27:25,103 --> 00:27:27,605 -Now she's labeling me. -I'm labeling you. 659 00:27:27,647 --> 00:27:29,107 And I'm the plant? 660 00:27:29,149 --> 00:27:32,277 -This is not a good labeling. -I'm like Ted Bundy, okay? 661 00:27:32,318 --> 00:27:35,238 I'd prefer to be compared to a plant than a serial killer. 662 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:36,364 Ahh! 663 00:27:36,406 --> 00:27:39,200 I'll take it. I'll take it. [chuckles] 664 00:27:39,242 --> 00:27:42,328 Listen, you know what? I'm not interested in having 665 00:27:42,370 --> 00:27:45,373 these, like, erratic, crazy conversations. 666 00:27:45,415 --> 00:27:48,084 Maybe you're more like your mom than you think you are. 667 00:27:48,126 --> 00:27:50,795 Maybe you're the exact same person, and I'm not interested. 668 00:27:50,837 --> 00:27:52,422 -Okay, bye-ee! -Bye. 669 00:27:52,464 --> 00:27:55,383 Bye, Regina. Skate away. Bye, 50-year-old wannabe. 670 00:27:55,425 --> 00:27:58,178 -Monica, you're gonna age, too. -Bye-ee! You're a mean girl. 671 00:27:58,219 --> 00:28:00,013 Bye-ee! Bye-ee! 672 00:28:00,055 --> 00:28:02,640 She said I'm just like her mom after re-- 673 00:28:02,682 --> 00:28:04,642 equating her to Ted Bundy. 674 00:28:04,684 --> 00:28:06,603 ** 675 00:28:06,644 --> 00:28:08,980 50-year-old wannabe? She wantsto be me. 676 00:28:09,022 --> 00:28:10,315 She wishes she could have what I have. 677 00:28:10,357 --> 00:28:11,775 That's why she carries fake Chanel. 678 00:28:11,816 --> 00:28:14,361 -Whoo! -[laughs] 679 00:28:14,402 --> 00:28:16,529 ** 680 00:28:16,571 --> 00:28:17,989 This is the best drink ever. 681 00:28:18,031 --> 00:28:20,700 It has peach, raspberry, coconut, and Dr Pepper. 682 00:28:20,742 --> 00:28:22,535 Okay, slow down. 683 00:28:22,577 --> 00:28:26,373 I'm 13. I can drink as much Dr Pepper as I want. 684 00:28:26,414 --> 00:28:27,832 ** 685 00:28:27,874 --> 00:28:30,168 All right! To the-- go out to the rink. 686 00:28:30,210 --> 00:28:31,878 We're gonna do "Happy Birthday." 687 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:34,798 All right, everyone, to the center of the rink! 688 00:28:34,839 --> 00:28:36,800 You are brave in your high heels. 689 00:28:36,841 --> 00:28:38,176 -[laughs] -Okay. 690 00:28:38,218 --> 00:28:40,595 ** 691 00:28:40,637 --> 00:28:43,848 Thank you so much for coming out to Bobbie's 13th birthday. 692 00:28:43,890 --> 00:28:45,392 She's the princess of the family. 693 00:28:45,433 --> 00:28:50,522 [cheering] 694 00:28:50,563 --> 00:28:53,400 [screaming] What?! What?! 695 00:28:53,441 --> 00:28:54,651 Ohh! 696 00:28:54,693 --> 00:28:56,194 Wow, that's huge. 697 00:28:56,236 --> 00:28:57,987 HEATHER: What in the world is she gonna do with it? 698 00:28:58,029 --> 00:29:00,699 Well, that's our ride. That's our ride home, girl. 699 00:29:00,740 --> 00:29:02,492 Bobbie, this is major. 700 00:29:02,534 --> 00:29:05,328 -Whoo! -I love it so much. 701 00:29:05,370 --> 00:29:07,205 Best birthday ever. 702 00:29:07,247 --> 00:29:09,207 That looks beautiful. Do you want a skirt? 703 00:29:09,249 --> 00:29:11,710 -Bri said we could keep these. -HEATHER: Okay, I think 704 00:29:11,751 --> 00:29:14,713 we're gonna, uh, get a cupcake and skip. 705 00:29:14,754 --> 00:29:16,089 -Hey, you're gonna go? -Yeah. 706 00:29:16,131 --> 00:29:17,507 -Well, are you okay? -Yeah, yeah, yeah. 707 00:29:17,549 --> 00:29:19,801 I'm gonna tell you something real quick. 708 00:29:19,843 --> 00:29:21,928 I'm not excluding you from anything. 709 00:29:21,970 --> 00:29:23,221 It's just hard because it's like do I-- 710 00:29:23,263 --> 00:29:26,016 -Missionary announcement brunch? -Wait, but do I-- 711 00:29:26,057 --> 00:29:29,060 It's a fine balance because you're on your own journey, 712 00:29:29,102 --> 00:29:31,146 and I feel like you're mitigating your way through it. 713 00:29:31,187 --> 00:29:33,148 -Yeah, no-- -So, is it like, oh, my God! 714 00:29:33,189 --> 00:29:35,150 Let me throw this in your face. Jack's going to do something... 715 00:29:35,191 --> 00:29:36,901 -No, I get it. -...you're walking away from? 716 00:29:36,943 --> 00:29:38,903 So, it's like a fine balance, but I don't want it 717 00:29:38,945 --> 00:29:40,363 to be a weird thing. -Listen, I just--It's just-- 718 00:29:40,405 --> 00:29:42,699 It's the great divide that exists in Utah. We know it. 719 00:29:42,741 --> 00:29:45,035 You know, when people leave the Church and how to keep it-- 720 00:29:45,076 --> 00:29:46,870 -No, it's not to about that. -I just think-- 721 00:29:46,911 --> 00:29:48,538 Listen, I'm respectful of your journey. 722 00:29:48,580 --> 00:29:50,457 -Like, I am happy for you. -It's not a journey. 723 00:29:50,498 --> 00:29:52,042 I just, like, wanna be, like, it's just-- 724 00:29:52,083 --> 00:29:54,044 I'm just, like, existing, you know? 725 00:29:54,085 --> 00:29:55,253 -Hey, Heather. How are you? -Give her a hug. 726 00:29:55,295 --> 00:29:56,546 Hi! Congratulations on your mission call. 727 00:29:56,588 --> 00:29:57,922 -Thank you. -We're a little bit wobbly. 728 00:29:57,964 --> 00:29:59,549 -Don't take her out. -What? 729 00:29:59,591 --> 00:30:01,760 -Yeah. Well, not me personally. -Tell her where you're going. 730 00:30:01,801 --> 00:30:03,053 Bogotá, Colombia. 731 00:30:03,094 --> 00:30:04,888 -Congratula-- Felicidades. -Sí. 732 00:30:04,929 --> 00:30:06,056 -Yeah. -[laughs] 733 00:30:06,097 --> 00:30:07,265 -Yeah. -That's very cool. 734 00:30:07,307 --> 00:30:08,641 -It's exciting. -She speaks French. 735 00:30:08,683 --> 00:30:09,768 -Really? -It's exciting, yeah. 736 00:30:09,809 --> 00:30:10,769 She served her mission in Cannes. 737 00:30:10,810 --> 00:30:12,145 -Really? -Yes. 738 00:30:12,187 --> 00:30:13,271 South of, like, all along the south of France. 739 00:30:13,313 --> 00:30:14,939 -Saint-Tropez. -That's so sick. 740 00:30:14,981 --> 00:30:17,067 Your mom--where your mom secretly wanted you to go. 741 00:30:17,108 --> 00:30:18,193 -[laughs] -She'll never admit. 742 00:30:18,234 --> 00:30:19,778 -Yep. -No, he knows. 743 00:30:19,819 --> 00:30:21,029 -I already told him. -It was-- 744 00:30:21,071 --> 00:30:22,781 -[both scream] -[laughs] 745 00:30:22,822 --> 00:30:25,700 But listen, that's not excluding you. 746 00:30:25,742 --> 00:30:28,703 -It's being respectful of you. -Okay, I'll--Bye, guys. 747 00:30:28,745 --> 00:30:31,956 It's just more the, uh, Mormon stuff that triggers me 748 00:30:31,998 --> 00:30:33,166 not Jack, you know? 749 00:30:33,208 --> 00:30:34,876 Like not being included at the brunch. 750 00:30:34,918 --> 00:30:36,628 -The way I live it? -Yes. The fact that 751 00:30:36,670 --> 00:30:39,923 you're not a Mormon, but you get to wear the title. 752 00:30:39,964 --> 00:30:42,092 -It's not fair. -No, I am. I am, though. 753 00:30:42,133 --> 00:30:44,511 You're not--you're the least Mormon person on the planet. 754 00:30:44,552 --> 00:30:45,804 -I'm 100% Mormon. -Okay. 755 00:30:45,845 --> 00:30:47,639 That's why my kid's serving the Lord. 756 00:30:47,681 --> 00:30:50,475 -[laughs] -100%, Heather. 757 00:30:50,517 --> 00:30:54,479 Looking back on everything Lisa and I have been through... 758 00:30:54,521 --> 00:30:56,314 I don't really remember her from school. 759 00:30:56,356 --> 00:30:58,650 She was like the one that was like, "Honor Code what?" 760 00:30:58,692 --> 00:31:01,778 Lisa, how can you say, "All I know of Heather 761 00:31:01,820 --> 00:31:04,239 is that she was the good time girl"? 762 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,074 Thumbs up. [bleep] you. 763 00:31:06,116 --> 00:31:07,701 What have I said openly aggressive 764 00:31:07,742 --> 00:31:09,828 other than calling you a bitch, which, quite frankly, you are. 765 00:31:09,869 --> 00:31:11,204 You called me dismissive, a mean girl. 766 00:31:11,246 --> 00:31:12,956 -Yeah, that's the problem. -Do you guys want 767 00:31:12,997 --> 00:31:14,708 to be friends with her? -No. No. 768 00:31:14,749 --> 00:31:16,835 We've fought a lot, 769 00:31:16,876 --> 00:31:19,170 but we also have a lot in common, 770 00:31:19,212 --> 00:31:22,298 and being able to talk to Lisa openly 771 00:31:22,340 --> 00:31:24,843 feels like a huge breakthrough for our friendship. 772 00:31:24,884 --> 00:31:26,177 I can be supportive of her as a mother. 773 00:31:26,219 --> 00:31:28,013 I can be supportive of her children, 774 00:31:28,054 --> 00:31:31,099 even though I disagree, you know, 775 00:31:31,141 --> 00:31:32,976 with the concept of Jack going on a mission. 776 00:31:33,018 --> 00:31:35,270 -We got this. We got this. -LISA: Yeah. 777 00:31:35,311 --> 00:31:37,188 Can we ride the golf cart tomorrow, please, 778 00:31:37,230 --> 00:31:38,940 after the game, please, please? -Yeah, after your game. 779 00:31:38,982 --> 00:31:41,735 -Yay! -Okay. Let's go. 780 00:31:41,776 --> 00:31:43,695 Did you guys have fun? 781 00:31:43,737 --> 00:31:46,031 I know. Cuddly, right? 782 00:31:46,072 --> 00:31:47,073 Thank you so much for coming. 783 00:31:47,115 --> 00:31:48,366 -Just gonna show her this-- -Bye. 784 00:31:48,408 --> 00:31:49,993 -Good to see you, too. -Okay. 785 00:31:50,035 --> 00:31:51,202 Bye. Go home safe. 786 00:31:51,244 --> 00:31:53,830 Hey, I'm gonna-- We gotta go. Love you. 787 00:31:53,872 --> 00:31:54,998 -Hey. Love you. -Mwah. See you. 788 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:56,750 -Bye. -Call me, 'kay? 789 00:31:56,791 --> 00:31:58,752 -Hey, bye. Mwah. -Bye. 790 00:31:58,793 --> 00:32:00,170 Good to see you. Bye! 791 00:32:00,211 --> 00:32:01,254 -Love you, love you, love you. -Okay, bye. 792 00:32:01,296 --> 00:32:02,672 Thank you so much for everything. 793 00:32:02,714 --> 00:32:05,592 Drive safe. Monica, look, we're all in the middle, 794 00:32:05,633 --> 00:32:07,093 and, like, it's awkward. 795 00:32:07,135 --> 00:32:09,346 You have got to take the time to fix this. 796 00:32:09,387 --> 00:32:11,556 ** 797 00:32:11,598 --> 00:32:12,849 Coming up... 798 00:32:12,891 --> 00:32:14,476 WHITNEY: Enjoy this little sound bath. 799 00:32:14,517 --> 00:32:17,187 [tones resounding] 800 00:32:17,228 --> 00:32:19,314 I don't ever wanna ----ing talk about you again! 801 00:32:19,356 --> 00:32:21,316 Stop talking to me! Stop talking to me! 802 00:32:29,324 --> 00:32:29,574 ** 803 00:32:32,535 --> 00:32:35,121 JOHN: Hey, when's the new bedding coming? 804 00:32:35,163 --> 00:32:37,248 Oh, I think it comes, like, Tuesday or Wednesday, 805 00:32:37,290 --> 00:32:38,375 and then Whitney's gonna come over 806 00:32:38,416 --> 00:32:40,460 and show me a new way to make the bed. 807 00:32:40,502 --> 00:32:42,545 You mean better than what I can do? 808 00:32:42,587 --> 00:32:44,756 Um, better than we both can do. 809 00:32:44,798 --> 00:32:48,343 ** 810 00:32:48,385 --> 00:32:52,138 Oh, my gosh. I'm just still, like, decompressing 811 00:32:52,180 --> 00:32:54,516 from this ridiculous weekend. 812 00:32:54,557 --> 00:32:56,351 Wasn't too ridiculous from my perspective, 813 00:32:56,393 --> 00:32:58,144 but I didn't deal with as much as you did. 814 00:32:58,186 --> 00:32:59,854 -Whoa! -We got this. 815 00:32:59,896 --> 00:33:01,981 -Yes, we do. -Oh, oh, oh, oh! 816 00:33:02,023 --> 00:33:03,400 Don't let Whitney see. 817 00:33:03,441 --> 00:33:05,276 What happened with you and Monica? 818 00:33:05,318 --> 00:33:07,153 I was talking with Ben, and all of a sudden it was like 819 00:33:07,195 --> 00:33:08,488 you appeared right there. -Well, I skated over-- 820 00:33:08,530 --> 00:33:10,156 And you were like, "She's crazy" and went-- 821 00:33:10,198 --> 00:33:13,368 She's crazy. No, like, honestly, it was so weird. 822 00:33:13,410 --> 00:33:16,413 Monica seems--she pretty much seems miserable 823 00:33:16,454 --> 00:33:18,289 or jabby every time I'm around her. 824 00:33:18,331 --> 00:33:20,000 I don't even know. She just starts spewing crazy stuff. 825 00:33:20,041 --> 00:33:21,376 Well, you seem-- 826 00:33:21,418 --> 00:33:23,294 She equated her mother to Ted Bundy 827 00:33:23,336 --> 00:33:25,005 and then said I was like her mother 828 00:33:25,046 --> 00:33:27,007 'cause I feel like I can't talk to her. 829 00:33:27,048 --> 00:33:28,174 Did it get resolved? 830 00:33:28,216 --> 00:33:30,635 No, because she's impossible to talk to. 831 00:33:30,677 --> 00:33:33,805 And then when we were leaving, I saw Angie was, like, 832 00:33:33,847 --> 00:33:36,391 having a full-on conversation with Monica. 833 00:33:36,433 --> 00:33:38,351 Angie is not being honest with me 834 00:33:38,393 --> 00:33:40,437 about her relationship with Monica, 835 00:33:40,478 --> 00:33:42,313 and if they're fine, great. -Which is fine. 836 00:33:42,355 --> 00:33:44,566 But don't tell me you're not. 837 00:33:44,607 --> 00:33:46,484 Why does this have anything to do with her mother? 838 00:33:46,526 --> 00:33:48,611 Apologize for your bad behavior. 839 00:33:48,653 --> 00:33:52,365 -Her behavior was repulsive. -And--And I'm there with you. 840 00:33:52,407 --> 00:33:54,200 It doesn't make any sense to me. 841 00:33:54,242 --> 00:33:57,245 -Mm-hmm. -You know? 842 00:33:58,955 --> 00:34:01,666 Got it. Yeah. Well... 843 00:34:01,708 --> 00:34:02,876 ** 844 00:34:02,917 --> 00:34:06,796 I guess good luck. 845 00:34:06,838 --> 00:34:08,173 ** 846 00:34:08,214 --> 00:34:11,259 Need to bounce anything off me, feel free. 847 00:34:12,844 --> 00:34:14,387 ** 848 00:34:15,847 --> 00:34:17,599 ** 849 00:34:19,142 --> 00:34:21,561 I'm gonna go let Kendle out back real fast. 850 00:34:21,603 --> 00:34:22,854 ** 851 00:34:22,896 --> 00:34:24,105 Love you. 852 00:34:24,147 --> 00:34:25,940 ** 853 00:34:25,982 --> 00:34:39,913 ** 854 00:34:39,954 --> 00:34:42,707 Hi. Come in! Come in. I'm just finishing steaming your dress. 855 00:34:42,749 --> 00:34:44,084 -Oh, my God. -It looks so pretty, huh? 856 00:34:44,125 --> 00:34:47,379 -It looks so pretty. -I know. I think it's such... 857 00:34:47,420 --> 00:34:48,755 It's literally the prettiest color. 858 00:34:48,797 --> 00:34:51,508 -...a pretty color, G. -I'm so excited! 859 00:34:51,549 --> 00:34:54,010 -Are you nervous at all? -A little bit. 860 00:34:54,052 --> 00:34:57,430 I'm mostly excited, though. It's gonna be so fun. 861 00:34:57,472 --> 00:34:58,723 You still don't know where you're going to dinner? 862 00:34:58,765 --> 00:35:00,934 No. It's like a really expensive steakhouse. 863 00:35:00,975 --> 00:35:03,728 -That's all I know. -Here, let me cut the... 864 00:35:03,770 --> 00:35:05,105 I can't wait. 865 00:35:05,146 --> 00:35:06,981 Are you nervous? 866 00:35:07,023 --> 00:35:08,692 I already asked you that. 867 00:35:08,733 --> 00:35:10,985 [laughs] 868 00:35:11,027 --> 00:35:12,153 I'mnervous. 869 00:35:12,195 --> 00:35:14,280 There was a time where I wasn't sure 870 00:35:14,322 --> 00:35:15,949 that Georgia would be going to prom because 871 00:35:15,990 --> 00:35:18,118 the Mormons all go together with other Mormons. 872 00:35:18,159 --> 00:35:19,828 [cellphone chimes] 873 00:35:22,330 --> 00:35:23,873 But then Adi came into the picture. 874 00:35:23,915 --> 00:35:29,045 They've been dating for a couple of months, and he's a great kid. 875 00:35:29,087 --> 00:35:30,797 His parents immigrated from Bosnia. 876 00:35:30,839 --> 00:35:34,509 He's a Muslim, and he's not a part of that Mormon scene, 877 00:35:34,551 --> 00:35:37,554 and I'm so grateful that they have each other. 878 00:35:37,595 --> 00:35:39,264 They are their own group. 879 00:35:39,305 --> 00:35:41,433 Are you gonna kiss him, Georgie? 880 00:35:41,474 --> 00:35:44,269 -I don't know. -You do know. 881 00:35:44,310 --> 00:35:45,812 -[laughs] -Don't you lie to me. 882 00:35:45,854 --> 00:35:50,025 That was the weakest "I don't know" I've ever heard. 883 00:35:50,066 --> 00:35:52,569 This is Georgia's first boyfriend 884 00:35:52,610 --> 00:35:54,320 without the constraints 885 00:35:54,362 --> 00:35:56,322 of purity culture that she was raised in. 886 00:35:56,364 --> 00:36:00,577 This is a real boyfriend that she really likes, 887 00:36:00,618 --> 00:36:02,328 and I'm not sure how to navigate it as a mom, 888 00:36:02,370 --> 00:36:03,580 but I wanna support it. 889 00:36:03,621 --> 00:36:05,707 -Hey, go throw your dress on. -'Kay. 890 00:36:05,749 --> 00:36:07,167 And then if I have to tweak anything, I will. 891 00:36:07,208 --> 00:36:08,501 'Kay. 892 00:36:08,543 --> 00:36:09,502 You know, I had a boyfriend for a year, 893 00:36:09,544 --> 00:36:11,546 and we didn't make out lying down 894 00:36:11,588 --> 00:36:14,466 for, like, nine months, and then we did once, 895 00:36:14,507 --> 00:36:15,633 and he called me the next morning 896 00:36:15,675 --> 00:36:18,595 and said, "We're never doing that again." 897 00:36:18,636 --> 00:36:20,889 So, like, I'm kind of hoping that Georgia can have 898 00:36:20,930 --> 00:36:25,769 a much more normalized version of a relationship at her age. 899 00:36:25,810 --> 00:36:27,354 Yay! 900 00:36:27,395 --> 00:36:28,355 Yeah. you're gonna have a great time. 901 00:36:28,396 --> 00:36:32,067 It's literally like Cinderella. 902 00:36:32,108 --> 00:36:42,118 ** 903 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:48,124 ** 904 00:36:48,166 --> 00:36:49,542 We are setting up the jewelry. 905 00:36:49,584 --> 00:36:51,211 They're steaming the Step and Repeat. 906 00:36:51,252 --> 00:36:53,588 ** 907 00:36:55,674 --> 00:36:58,134 Thanks, Jennifer. It's so good to see you. 908 00:36:58,176 --> 00:37:00,053 [gasps] Oh, my gosh, you guys. It looks beautiful. 909 00:37:00,095 --> 00:37:01,513 Lisa! 910 00:37:01,554 --> 00:37:03,056 -Hi, Lisa. -I love it. "Find your center." 911 00:37:03,098 --> 00:37:06,601 -How are you? -I love your dress. Gorgeous. 912 00:37:06,643 --> 00:37:08,728 LISA: Oh, my gosh. This is so exciting. 913 00:37:08,770 --> 00:37:09,979 WOMAN: Oh! Thank you. 914 00:37:10,021 --> 00:37:11,940 Are you recovered from Bobbie's party, or no? 915 00:37:11,981 --> 00:37:13,400 -No. I'm so tired. -No. 916 00:37:13,441 --> 00:37:14,567 Do you need help with anything? 917 00:37:14,609 --> 00:37:17,904 Um, I think this is just the final touch. 918 00:37:17,946 --> 00:37:20,365 Who did you invite that I would know? 919 00:37:20,407 --> 00:37:22,242 -I invited everyone. -Everyone? 920 00:37:22,283 --> 00:37:23,993 Heather. Meredith. 921 00:37:24,035 --> 00:37:26,746 Is Heather coming today? 922 00:37:26,788 --> 00:37:28,164 Um, no. 923 00:37:28,206 --> 00:37:31,292 HEATHER: Georgie, Adi's here. Hi! 924 00:37:31,334 --> 00:37:34,087 -ADI: Hi. -GEORGIA: You look so cute. 925 00:37:34,129 --> 00:37:35,296 -You look better. -[laughs] 926 00:37:35,338 --> 00:37:36,923 -Look at you two. -[laughs] Hi. 927 00:37:36,965 --> 00:37:38,883 You totally match and look so pretty. 928 00:37:38,925 --> 00:37:41,011 You look so cute. 929 00:37:41,052 --> 00:37:42,637 -Is Meredith coming? -No. 930 00:37:42,679 --> 00:37:45,390 This is all, like, the monogram collection, 931 00:37:45,432 --> 00:37:47,225 which is supposed to be somewhat abstract. 932 00:37:47,267 --> 00:37:49,144 It's not supposed to really look like 933 00:37:49,185 --> 00:37:50,812 my logo or anything. -Okay, yeah. 934 00:37:50,854 --> 00:37:52,439 So, I'll probably know some of the people here. 935 00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:53,565 But most of these people are clientele. 936 00:37:53,606 --> 00:37:55,066 -Oh, amazing. -Like, this is our first 937 00:37:55,108 --> 00:37:56,818 pop-up shop in Salt Lake. -[gasps] Love it. 938 00:37:56,860 --> 00:38:01,656 Prism is very much a full circle moment of my own spirituality. 939 00:38:01,698 --> 00:38:03,241 I've always been into crystals, healing, 940 00:38:03,283 --> 00:38:06,953 so each piece is designed with a specific intention in mind. 941 00:38:06,995 --> 00:38:10,707 So, today we're gonna create an energy that inspires people 942 00:38:10,749 --> 00:38:12,792 to connect with the jewelry and shop. 943 00:38:12,834 --> 00:38:15,337 Now let's turn up the music, 944 00:38:15,378 --> 00:38:17,088 open the doors, and sell some jewelry. 945 00:38:17,130 --> 00:38:18,214 -Whoo! -[cheering] 946 00:38:18,256 --> 00:38:19,549 ** 947 00:38:19,591 --> 00:38:22,635 How are you? It's amazing. 948 00:38:22,677 --> 00:38:24,554 WHITNEY: Hi! Thank you for coming. 949 00:38:24,596 --> 00:38:26,806 -How are you? -So good. 950 00:38:26,848 --> 00:38:27,682 ** 951 00:38:27,724 --> 00:38:29,476 -How are you? -Hey, Lisa. 952 00:38:29,517 --> 00:38:31,644 -Good to see you guys. -Checkout's over here. 953 00:38:31,686 --> 00:38:34,481 If you do a preorder, we'll give you 15% off. 954 00:38:34,522 --> 00:38:36,483 She has her mixed metal line, 955 00:38:36,524 --> 00:38:37,650 and then she has fine jewelry, too. 956 00:38:37,692 --> 00:38:39,694 WHITNEY: Oh, my God. Shari's here. 957 00:38:39,736 --> 00:38:42,822 -Shari! -You look so, so, so gorgeous. 958 00:38:42,864 --> 00:38:43,990 Oh, my God. 959 00:38:44,032 --> 00:38:45,492 -For your mom... -Oh, that's pretty. 960 00:38:45,533 --> 00:38:47,077 ...she should do something like one of these. 961 00:38:47,118 --> 00:38:48,119 -Yeah. -Yeah. 962 00:38:48,161 --> 00:38:49,621 ** 963 00:38:49,662 --> 00:38:53,041 -How are you feeling today? -I... 964 00:38:55,126 --> 00:38:56,127 Okay. 965 00:38:56,169 --> 00:38:58,463 ** 966 00:38:58,505 --> 00:39:01,841 Thank you. How are you? Congratulations. 967 00:39:01,883 --> 00:39:02,926 Ooh. 968 00:39:05,136 --> 00:39:07,472 Oh. Hi, babe. 969 00:39:07,514 --> 00:39:08,932 -Hi, L.B. -Hi! Hi! 970 00:39:08,973 --> 00:39:12,185 -How are ya? Good to see you. -What's going on? 971 00:39:12,227 --> 00:39:13,895 -How's everything going? -Good. 972 00:39:13,937 --> 00:39:15,897 We just opened. We had a line. 973 00:39:15,939 --> 00:39:17,774 How do you feel after last night? 974 00:39:17,816 --> 00:39:19,401 Uh, it was a kids birthday party with a lot of adult drama. 975 00:39:19,442 --> 00:39:22,112 I left--I was having the best time, 976 00:39:22,153 --> 00:39:24,656 and then I left, and I'm, like, just irritated 977 00:39:24,698 --> 00:39:25,949 'cause I'm like... [groans] done. 978 00:39:25,990 --> 00:39:28,284 I know. It's hard, Lisa, because after you left... 979 00:39:28,326 --> 00:39:30,203 Both of the conversations. 980 00:39:30,245 --> 00:39:32,622 ...the conversation continued with Monica. 981 00:39:32,664 --> 00:39:35,208 This is what she's putting out there to everybody else. 982 00:39:35,250 --> 00:39:36,292 "Lisa doesn't wanna believe 983 00:39:36,334 --> 00:39:37,752 that I'm in an abusive relationship." 984 00:39:37,794 --> 00:39:39,921 I don't know what kind of relationship she's in. 985 00:39:39,963 --> 00:39:41,423 -I saw it for two hours... -I know. 986 00:39:41,464 --> 00:39:43,508 -...at your house on Easter. -Well, and I--Look, I-I do. 987 00:39:43,550 --> 00:39:44,926 I mean, it doesn't even make any sense. 988 00:39:44,968 --> 00:39:46,428 Her mom--Her mom was schmoozing everyone. Her mom-- 989 00:39:46,469 --> 00:39:49,431 Let me talk for a second. Let me talk for a second, Ange. 990 00:39:49,472 --> 00:39:51,057 What I saw at your house 991 00:39:51,099 --> 00:39:53,059 was someone treating her mother poorly. 992 00:39:53,101 --> 00:39:56,604 I made a judgment call. I would never treat my mother like that. 993 00:39:56,646 --> 00:39:59,149 What's her problem with me? She has an issue with me. 994 00:39:59,190 --> 00:40:00,275 I've called that out. I did. 995 00:40:00,316 --> 00:40:02,902 Let me finish. She has an issue with me. 996 00:40:02,944 --> 00:40:04,738 ** 997 00:40:04,779 --> 00:40:07,490 I don't know. I only know what she told me. 998 00:40:07,532 --> 00:40:09,075 I mean, all we can go off is her words. 999 00:40:09,117 --> 00:40:12,037 Okay, and I'm going off her actions. 1000 00:40:12,078 --> 00:40:17,959 ** 1001 00:40:24,966 --> 00:40:27,886 I only know what she told me. I have to believe her. 1002 00:40:27,927 --> 00:40:29,804 I mean, all we can go off is her words. 1003 00:40:29,846 --> 00:40:32,974 Okay, and I'm going off her actions. 1004 00:40:33,016 --> 00:40:34,309 ** 1005 00:40:34,351 --> 00:40:35,143 I don't like where she went with you last night. 1006 00:40:35,185 --> 00:40:36,227 Ange... 1007 00:40:36,269 --> 00:40:39,189 -You look gorgeous. -Thank you, Mami. 1008 00:40:39,230 --> 00:40:41,274 Look, I had your back last night. 1009 00:40:41,316 --> 00:40:43,526 I'm telling you. 1010 00:40:43,568 --> 00:40:44,819 -I need a drink. I'm-- -'Kay. 1011 00:40:44,861 --> 00:40:47,322 -Like, this is boring. -Let's get a drink. 1012 00:40:47,364 --> 00:40:51,743 ** 1013 00:40:52,619 --> 00:40:54,287 So great to see you. 1014 00:40:54,329 --> 00:40:55,914 ** 1015 00:40:55,955 --> 00:40:57,999 I was just gonna come look for you, actually. 1016 00:41:00,710 --> 00:41:02,379 -You look beautiful. -So do you. 1017 00:41:02,420 --> 00:41:03,463 Wow. 1018 00:41:03,505 --> 00:41:05,215 Um, last night was... 1019 00:41:05,256 --> 00:41:08,385 I was--left there kind of overwhelmed. 1020 00:41:08,426 --> 00:41:10,428 Honestly, I'm feeling like 1021 00:41:10,470 --> 00:41:13,056 I'm in between you and Lisa a little bit right now, Monica. 1022 00:41:13,098 --> 00:41:16,643 But that's on Lisa. Lisa is putting you in the middle. 1023 00:41:16,685 --> 00:41:19,020 I'm not talking sh-- on Lisa to you. You guys bring her up. 1024 00:41:19,062 --> 00:41:22,315 I know, but you guys both went low again last night. 1025 00:41:22,357 --> 00:41:24,609 But I feel like you guys are the ones 1026 00:41:24,651 --> 00:41:26,820 that keep bringing it up. Do you see? 1027 00:41:26,861 --> 00:41:29,406 I've been here for five minutes. 1028 00:41:29,447 --> 00:41:32,575 Five minutes, and it's already coming at me 1029 00:41:32,617 --> 00:41:34,411 with Lisa, Lisa, Lisa. -I just walked away from her. 1030 00:41:34,452 --> 00:41:36,162 I just walked away from her. That's why. That's all. 1031 00:41:36,204 --> 00:41:39,332 I know, but do you see what I'm saying? I don't bring it up. 1032 00:41:39,374 --> 00:41:40,792 I don't start it. 1033 00:41:40,834 --> 00:41:42,419 -I believe--I believe-- -It's always brought to me. 1034 00:41:42,460 --> 00:41:44,004 Thank you for coming. I'll come chat with you. 1035 00:41:44,045 --> 00:41:45,880 Oh, of course. And I love your jewelry, 1036 00:41:45,922 --> 00:41:47,841 so I'm going to go pick up something. 1037 00:41:47,882 --> 00:41:49,384 I know you have a lot going on right now. 1038 00:41:49,426 --> 00:41:51,970 Ange just came up to me and said, like, like some crazy-- 1039 00:41:52,012 --> 00:41:56,558 I really need to give a speech so people know what's going on. 1040 00:41:58,643 --> 00:42:00,645 Okay. Amazing. 1041 00:42:00,687 --> 00:42:02,439 Okay, I'll be right back. 1042 00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:09,112 ** 1043 00:42:09,154 --> 00:42:11,906 -I need to give a speech. -Stand on the speaker. 1044 00:42:11,948 --> 00:42:13,366 Oh, my God. Okay. 1045 00:42:13,408 --> 00:42:15,618 Can you help me up? 1046 00:42:15,660 --> 00:42:18,747 -Oh, my God. [laughs] -Whoo! 1047 00:42:18,788 --> 00:42:21,458 Listen up, 'cause I have a quiet voice. 1048 00:42:21,499 --> 00:42:23,668 [laughs] Hey, Whitney's gonna give her speech. 1049 00:42:23,710 --> 00:42:28,131 Okay, come on. Come on. 1050 00:42:28,173 --> 00:42:31,760 Hurry, go. Hurry, go. She's pulling you away. 1051 00:42:31,801 --> 00:42:33,470 Monica, chill the [bleep] out. Too much. 1052 00:42:33,511 --> 00:42:36,139 You are so bothered by me. I love it. I love it. 1053 00:42:36,181 --> 00:42:39,851 I'm in--I'm in the middle of this sandwich here. 1054 00:42:39,893 --> 00:42:41,019 Oh, look, she's getting hot. Go ahead. 1055 00:42:41,061 --> 00:42:42,896 -No, Monica. -I'm not interested. 1056 00:42:42,937 --> 00:42:44,606 -You bore me. -Lisa, stay here. Stay here. 1057 00:42:44,647 --> 00:42:46,900 -Walk away. Hurry, hurry. -She's boring. She's boring. 1058 00:42:46,941 --> 00:42:48,651 -She's pulling you. -No. 1059 00:42:48,693 --> 00:42:50,278 [singsongy] Somebody needs attention! 1060 00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:53,031 -[singsongy] That would be you! -[singsongy] Look right here! 1061 00:42:53,698 --> 00:42:55,492 We're here for Whitney. Stop right now. 1062 00:42:55,533 --> 00:42:56,951 -Knock it off. -You're not my mother. 1063 00:42:56,993 --> 00:42:57,994 Okay, Monica. 1064 00:42:58,036 --> 00:42:59,621 So, I don't need to listen to you. 1065 00:42:59,662 --> 00:43:01,664 Let's--Let's make--we need to since we're all here, 1066 00:43:01,706 --> 00:43:05,001 just loving the moment. 1067 00:43:07,337 --> 00:43:08,380 ** 1068 00:43:08,421 --> 00:43:10,632 Wow, you're pretty ----ing disgusting 1069 00:43:10,674 --> 00:43:12,258 to talk about how my own mother doesn't want me, 1070 00:43:12,300 --> 00:43:16,680 and I am absolutely at my tipping point right now. 1071 00:43:16,721 --> 00:43:18,515 Hi, all of you beautiful people. 1072 00:43:18,556 --> 00:43:20,517 [cheering] 1073 00:43:20,558 --> 00:43:23,770 Thank you. Thank you so much for coming today. 1074 00:43:23,812 --> 00:43:28,191 It means so much to us. This is our first ever pop-up shop. 1075 00:43:28,233 --> 00:43:30,819 We wanted to do our first one here in Salt Lake City. 1076 00:43:30,860 --> 00:43:33,113 Just to give you a little background of Prism... 1077 00:43:41,746 --> 00:43:43,623 Monica is this little vampire 1078 00:43:43,665 --> 00:43:47,377 who's fueled 100% off of, like, negative energy. 1079 00:43:47,419 --> 00:43:51,464 It's like, give me a problem, and I'll ----ing feed off of it. 1080 00:43:51,506 --> 00:43:53,133 She is, like, horrible. 1081 00:43:53,174 --> 00:43:57,303 Um, Prism came into my life with these two beautiful ladies. 1082 00:43:57,345 --> 00:44:00,390 She's actually the designer of the brand--Chantelle. 1083 00:44:00,432 --> 00:44:01,850 -She's a gemologist. -[cheering] 1084 00:44:01,891 --> 00:44:04,227 -Whoo! -And Amber-Lee... 1085 00:44:04,269 --> 00:44:07,772 Yes. And Amber-Lee is a spiritualist intuitive. 1086 00:44:07,814 --> 00:44:09,149 She has "Chakra Girl." 1087 00:44:09,190 --> 00:44:13,862 And Prism is here really to create a space for anyone 1088 00:44:13,903 --> 00:44:16,197 um, is healing, who wants to work on themselves 1089 00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:17,782 and be more spiritual, more connected. 1090 00:44:17,824 --> 00:44:21,453 And I can tell you last year when I made... 1091 00:44:21,494 --> 00:44:25,206 -Don't touch me. -[whispers] Lisa, don't. 1092 00:44:29,377 --> 00:44:33,089 I hope you all know how worthy and beautiful you are. 1093 00:44:44,434 --> 00:44:46,770 So, cheers to all of you for coming. 1094 00:44:46,811 --> 00:44:49,064 I hope you love the line as much as we do, 1095 00:44:49,105 --> 00:44:51,483 but now sip and enjoy a little sound bath. 1096 00:44:51,524 --> 00:44:53,485 Cheers to all of you. 1097 00:44:53,526 --> 00:44:54,903 [cheers and applause] 1098 00:44:54,944 --> 00:44:58,239 And pull out your credit cards after. 1099 00:44:58,281 --> 00:45:00,784 [laughter] 1100 00:45:00,825 --> 00:45:02,911 -Jump this high. Very... -Whoo! 1101 00:45:02,952 --> 00:45:04,913 -Are you okay? -No, I'm not, you guys. 1102 00:45:04,954 --> 00:45:07,791 I'm not okay, you guys. I'm not okay. 1103 00:45:07,832 --> 00:45:10,126 Why? Why? Why aren't you okay? 1104 00:45:10,168 --> 00:45:11,252 I can't be in the middle of whatever you guys have-- 1105 00:45:11,294 --> 00:45:12,921 We're not in the middle of anything. 1106 00:45:12,962 --> 00:45:14,005 I don't want you guys going low, though. 1107 00:45:14,047 --> 00:45:15,632 We're not in the middle of anything. 1108 00:45:15,674 --> 00:45:16,966 You guys are going low. You're both going low with each other. 1109 00:45:17,008 --> 00:45:18,051 Who's going low? What did I say that went low? 1110 00:45:18,093 --> 00:45:18,927 She went low with you last night. 1111 00:45:18,968 --> 00:45:20,261 You both go low with each other. 1112 00:45:20,303 --> 00:45:21,680 What am I saying that's going low? Nothing. 1113 00:45:21,721 --> 00:45:24,724 -I didn't jab at you one time. -You did, but it's fine. 1114 00:45:24,766 --> 00:45:26,851 No. How did I jab? Explain it. 1115 00:45:26,893 --> 00:45:29,437 Um, everything you said to Whitney. 1116 00:45:29,479 --> 00:45:31,815 WHITNEY: Enjoy this little sound bath. 1117 00:45:31,856 --> 00:45:35,527 [tones resounding] 1118 00:45:42,117 --> 00:45:44,828 I said based on my assessment, 1119 00:45:44,869 --> 00:45:46,830 you don't treat your mother nicely. 1120 00:45:46,871 --> 00:45:48,373 You do not, Monica. 1121 00:45:48,415 --> 00:45:51,584 Well, you don't know about that situation, Lisa. 1122 00:45:51,626 --> 00:45:54,504 [tones continue resounding] 1123 00:45:54,546 --> 00:45:58,383 Well, based on what I saw, you weren't nice to your mother. 1124 00:45:58,425 --> 00:46:02,053 Well, based on what I see, you like your minions. 1125 00:46:02,095 --> 00:46:03,638 LISA: Oh, my God. We're back to that again? 1126 00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:05,515 MONICA: And you're threatened by people wanting to take 'em. 1127 00:46:05,557 --> 00:46:06,850 Stop putting Angie in the middle. 1128 00:46:06,891 --> 00:46:08,268 -She's not in the middle. -No, no, no. 1129 00:46:08,309 --> 00:46:09,894 -I'm not in the middle. -I keep telling her 1130 00:46:09,936 --> 00:46:11,229 to remove herself out of this. -I can pull myself out of this, 1131 00:46:11,271 --> 00:46:12,856 'cause this is-- -Yeah, you talked about 1132 00:46:12,897 --> 00:46:15,150 her marriage, I took her side. -[tones continue resounding] 1133 00:46:15,191 --> 00:46:16,860 -It's not that deep, Monica. -Okay. 1134 00:46:16,901 --> 00:46:18,570 Don't make it deep. It's not that deep. 1135 00:46:18,611 --> 00:46:20,697 WHITNEY: Lisa Barlow, shh! 1136 00:46:20,739 --> 00:46:26,786 [tone resounding] 1137 00:46:26,828 --> 00:46:28,163 Lisa... 1138 00:46:28,204 --> 00:46:30,540 I wanna enjoy the sound bowl. Excuse me. 1139 00:46:30,582 --> 00:46:31,875 Yes, go ahead. 1140 00:46:31,916 --> 00:46:33,543 -Old people need it. -Shh. 1141 00:46:36,338 --> 00:46:39,174 Monica, she's older than me. So is Meredith. So is Heather. 1142 00:46:39,215 --> 00:46:41,176 Yeah, but you wear it. You wear it. 1143 00:46:41,217 --> 00:46:43,261 -Okay, though, that's so low. -I like to be natural. 1144 00:46:43,303 --> 00:46:44,596 Okay. 1145 00:46:44,637 --> 00:46:46,097 I don't look like the Pillsbury Doughgirl. Sorry. 1146 00:46:46,139 --> 00:46:48,058 -Okay. -Are you telling her she does? 1147 00:46:48,099 --> 00:46:49,726 Oh, are you saying that about your friend? 1148 00:46:49,768 --> 00:46:51,144 -I think you're gorgeous. -Are you saying that 1149 00:46:51,186 --> 00:46:52,896 about your friend? -I do, too. 1150 00:46:52,937 --> 00:46:54,481 I think you're jealous. Control yourself. 1151 00:46:54,522 --> 00:46:58,526 -Lisa, nobody's jealous of you. -Control yourself, Monica. 1152 00:46:58,568 --> 00:46:59,903 Hmm? 1153 00:46:59,944 --> 00:47:01,905 I am beyond pissed right now. 1154 00:47:01,946 --> 00:47:03,948 Where is Meredith Marks when I need her? 1155 00:47:03,990 --> 00:47:06,951 [voice echoing] You...can...leave! 1156 00:47:06,993 --> 00:47:08,953 Do not come for my sound bath. 1157 00:47:08,995 --> 00:47:09,913 You're so triggered by your circumstances. 1158 00:47:09,954 --> 00:47:11,039 You're the one that keeps me 1159 00:47:11,081 --> 00:47:13,208 in my mouth. -LISA: I'm not interested. 1160 00:47:13,249 --> 00:47:15,794 [voice resonating] Please stop talking to me! 1161 00:47:24,386 --> 00:47:24,636 ** 1162 00:47:27,806 --> 00:47:29,724 [voice resonating] Please stop talking to me! 1163 00:47:29,766 --> 00:47:31,226 ** 1164 00:47:31,267 --> 00:47:32,310 [tone resounds] 1165 00:47:32,352 --> 00:47:33,436 You don't get to tell me what to do. 1166 00:47:33,478 --> 00:47:34,896 You guys have a problem with each other. 1167 00:47:34,938 --> 00:47:36,189 -Please stop talking to me. -You don't get to tell me 1168 00:47:36,231 --> 00:47:37,565 what to do, Lisa. -ANGIE: This is a sound bath. 1169 00:47:37,607 --> 00:47:39,150 LISA: Please stop talking to me. 1170 00:47:39,192 --> 00:47:42,153 [mockingly] Please stop talking to me. 1171 00:47:42,195 --> 00:47:43,279 [tone continues resounding] 1172 00:47:43,321 --> 00:47:44,489 What the [bleep] is wrong with you? 1173 00:47:44,531 --> 00:47:47,033 Like, are you trying to abuse the sound bowl? 1174 00:47:47,075 --> 00:47:50,161 Maybe you would be in a better mood 1175 00:47:50,203 --> 00:47:53,164 if you didn't have to pay for drinks. 1176 00:47:53,206 --> 00:47:55,583 -Zero interest. -Stop talking about me. 1177 00:47:55,625 --> 00:47:56,793 It's that simple. 1178 00:47:56,835 --> 00:47:59,671 [tones continue resounding] 1179 00:47:59,713 --> 00:48:01,214 ** 1180 00:48:01,256 --> 00:48:05,301 -Just loving the little moment. -Listen, I took your side. 1181 00:48:05,343 --> 00:48:06,970 This is as far as it goes. It's not that deep. 1182 00:48:07,012 --> 00:48:10,390 If somebody else needs, like, more action in their life, 1183 00:48:10,432 --> 00:48:14,519 they can keep clinging to it, but it's not that deep for me. 1184 00:48:15,937 --> 00:48:17,230 -Well, we were dealt the same-- -You're like low bottle, 1185 00:48:17,272 --> 00:48:20,400 bottom of the barrel. -ANGIE: Monica. 1186 00:48:22,277 --> 00:48:24,863 That is, like, the lamest comeback. Oh, my gosh. 1187 00:48:24,904 --> 00:48:26,072 ANGIE: Okay, Monica-- 1188 00:48:26,114 --> 00:48:27,532 If this is what mediocre looks like, 1189 00:48:27,574 --> 00:48:30,243 I am so happy being mediocre. -You are very mediocre. 1190 00:48:30,285 --> 00:48:32,203 She clearly doesn't get out much. 1191 00:48:32,245 --> 00:48:33,538 She doesn't know how to behave in public. 1192 00:48:39,085 --> 00:48:40,462 And you don't have that. 1193 00:48:40,503 --> 00:48:44,341 And the fact that I do challenges you, and you hate it. 1194 00:48:44,382 --> 00:48:46,801 -Bitch. -ANGIE: Okay, Monica. 1195 00:48:46,843 --> 00:48:48,345 Don't go there with the "bitch" thing. 1196 00:48:48,386 --> 00:48:49,888 -Literally. -Oh, my gosh. 1197 00:48:49,929 --> 00:48:52,098 WHITNEY: I hope everyone set their intention and felt that. 1198 00:48:52,140 --> 00:48:54,017 I know a few were distracted back there. 1199 00:48:54,059 --> 00:48:55,894 -[laughter] -May they find peace. 1200 00:48:55,935 --> 00:48:57,437 [laughter] 1201 00:48:57,479 --> 00:49:00,315 -Thank you. -I'm bored with you. 1202 00:49:00,357 --> 00:49:02,108 You're not bored! Then stop talking about me. 1203 00:49:02,150 --> 00:49:04,944 Okay, listen, I don't ever wanna ----ing talking about you again 1204 00:49:04,986 --> 00:49:07,822 or to you. Stop talking to me. Stop talking to me. 1205 00:49:07,864 --> 00:49:09,366 You put hands on people. 1206 00:49:09,407 --> 00:49:11,451 Stop talking to me. I'm asking you nicely. 1207 00:49:11,493 --> 00:49:13,119 -Business 101. -Stop talking to me. 1208 00:49:13,161 --> 00:49:14,662 -Stop talking to me. -You realize 1209 00:49:14,704 --> 00:49:15,914 you don't control me, right? -Both of you guys, stay calm. 1210 00:49:15,955 --> 00:49:17,540 -I amcalm! -Okay, you guys--you guys 1211 00:49:17,582 --> 00:49:19,292 clearly don't like each other. Let's just, like-- 1212 00:49:19,334 --> 00:49:20,460 No, why do you keep saying stuff like that? 1213 00:49:20,502 --> 00:49:22,212 -Why are you saying that? -No, it's okay 1214 00:49:22,253 --> 00:49:23,630 you guys don't like each other. 1215 00:49:23,672 --> 00:49:25,173 -Why are you saying that? -Don't let her set you off. 1216 00:49:25,215 --> 00:49:26,299 That's what everyone tells me, Lisa. 1217 00:49:26,341 --> 00:49:27,300 Don't let her set you off, Lisa. 1218 00:49:27,342 --> 00:49:28,510 Why are you saying this to me? 1219 00:49:28,551 --> 00:49:30,303 You started this whole thing with Shawn. 1220 00:49:30,345 --> 00:49:31,763 You said she talked about your marriage. 1221 00:49:31,805 --> 00:49:33,515 I know, and I just talked about that. 1222 00:49:33,556 --> 00:49:35,475 She talked about your family, so I took your side on that. 1223 00:49:35,517 --> 00:49:37,018 And I did not like it, and I told you that. 1224 00:49:37,060 --> 00:49:38,603 That's wrong, that's wrong. That is it. That is it. 1225 00:49:38,645 --> 00:49:40,105 -Let me tell you something. -And the way you treat 1226 00:49:40,146 --> 00:49:41,606 your mother is disgusting. -Don't let her rile you up, L.B. 1227 00:49:41,648 --> 00:49:43,024 -Don't let her rile you up. -Well, you should hear 1228 00:49:43,066 --> 00:49:44,401 how my mother treats me, Lisa. 1229 00:49:44,442 --> 00:49:45,485 -You do the same thing. -You don't. You don't. 1230 00:49:45,527 --> 00:49:47,320 You talk abuse. You abuse people. 1231 00:49:47,362 --> 00:49:48,655 -You abuse people. -Lisa, do you hear yourself?! 1232 00:49:48,697 --> 00:49:50,281 I'm not even talking about her to her. 1233 00:49:50,323 --> 00:49:53,326 -Do you hear yourself? -I don't assess her. 1234 00:49:53,368 --> 00:49:54,828 -I don't--It's not that deep. -Yes, you do! 1235 00:49:54,869 --> 00:49:57,622 -Whatever. -[mockingly] Whatever! 1236 00:49:57,664 --> 00:50:01,209 You have made several snarky comments, 1237 00:50:01,251 --> 00:50:02,836 so let's not deny that. 1238 00:50:02,877 --> 00:50:04,421 -Let's talk about that. -You both have. 1239 00:50:04,462 --> 00:50:06,381 -Exactly! And I own that! -You both have. You both have. 1240 00:50:06,423 --> 00:50:08,842 Ange, don't worry about this for one second. 1241 00:50:08,883 --> 00:50:10,260 -Okay. -Don't say okay! 1242 00:50:10,301 --> 00:50:12,846 If you wanna talk, be like, "No, Lisa." I wanna say-- 1243 00:50:12,887 --> 00:50:14,931 No, I'm staying out of both of you guys 'cause I can't fix it. 1244 00:50:14,973 --> 00:50:17,017 She says, "Angie, stay out of it." Stop! 1245 00:50:17,058 --> 00:50:18,184 -I can't fix it. -Do you need her? 1246 00:50:18,226 --> 00:50:19,436 You do! Don't silence her! 1247 00:50:19,477 --> 00:50:21,229 I cannot fix what's going on here. 1248 00:50:21,271 --> 00:50:23,523 She's her own ----ing person! Don't tell her to be quiet. 1249 00:50:23,565 --> 00:50:26,568 -And you don't have to be. -I know. I can't fix this. 1250 00:50:26,609 --> 00:50:28,194 I don't want you to fix this! There's nothing to ----ing fix! 1251 00:50:28,236 --> 00:50:30,447 -I don't like-- -It's not that deep! 1252 00:50:30,488 --> 00:50:32,907 You treated your mom like sh--! You yelled at me! 1253 00:50:32,949 --> 00:50:34,576 I'm going off of what I see in here. 1254 00:50:34,617 --> 00:50:36,244 It's not that ----ing deep, Monica. It's hard-- 1255 00:50:36,286 --> 00:50:38,788 -Then stop talking about me. -I'm not talking about you. 1256 00:50:38,830 --> 00:50:41,207 -Don't talk about me or to me. -That's not what I'm hearing. 1257 00:50:41,249 --> 00:50:42,876 -Do you understand? -I gave my opinion. 1258 00:50:42,917 --> 00:50:44,044 My opinion is exactly what I told you. 1259 00:50:44,085 --> 00:50:45,503 Do you understand, though, what I'm saying? 1260 00:50:45,545 --> 00:50:47,464 -No, I don't understand. -Okay. Try and understand this. 1261 00:50:47,505 --> 00:50:49,466 Because--Because I'm trying-- wNo, no, no. No. 1262 00:50:49,507 --> 00:50:51,051 I don't need to try and understand this. 1263 00:50:51,092 --> 00:50:52,635 -I told you everything-- -You need to keep your hand 1264 00:50:52,677 --> 00:50:54,596 out of people's faces. -You just did this. 1265 00:50:54,637 --> 00:50:56,222 -I'm doing it back. -Yeah, but you are, like-- 1266 00:50:56,264 --> 00:50:57,807 you get right in my face like this. 1267 00:50:57,849 --> 00:50:59,434 -I'm a close talker. -You both, you both, you both-- 1268 00:50:59,476 --> 00:51:00,643 -I'm just saying. -I'm a close talker. 1269 00:51:00,685 --> 00:51:02,395 -Hold on, hold on. -Stop. Stop it, Ange. 1270 00:51:02,437 --> 00:51:03,688 -Okay, no. Separate. Separate. -Ange. 1271 00:51:03,730 --> 00:51:05,815 I actually like fighting in this environment. 1272 00:51:05,857 --> 00:51:07,734 Do you guys mind moving over here? 1273 00:51:07,776 --> 00:51:10,945 -You want an issue with me! -Can you move over here? 1274 00:51:10,987 --> 00:51:12,864 'Cause you're in our way of our checkout. 1275 00:51:12,906 --> 00:51:14,824 -You want an issue with me. -You're not hearing me. 1276 00:51:14,866 --> 00:51:17,243 Like, I've fought in parking lots, 1277 00:51:17,285 --> 00:51:20,121 in grocery stores, okay? 1278 00:51:20,163 --> 00:51:22,457 This is a classy place to fight. 1279 00:51:22,499 --> 00:51:24,501 I think you're impossible to communicate with. 1280 00:51:24,542 --> 00:51:26,586 Well, then we're the same person. 1281 00:51:26,628 --> 00:51:30,256 Whitney, she's, like, very hard to have a conversation with. 1282 00:51:30,298 --> 00:51:31,633 -I know. -It's, like, impossible 1283 00:51:31,675 --> 00:51:33,635 to have a conversation with her because it's like, 1284 00:51:33,677 --> 00:51:35,470 "I didn't do that! I don't mean that!" 1285 00:51:35,512 --> 00:51:38,431 And she's so loud, and I'm like, wrong place, wrong time. 1286 00:51:38,473 --> 00:51:41,101 I-I don't even know what to say right now. 1287 00:51:41,142 --> 00:51:42,936 -I'm just--This is not good. -I don't know, 1288 00:51:42,977 --> 00:51:45,689 but do you see how she tells you to shut the [bleep] up 1289 00:51:45,730 --> 00:51:47,649 and be quiet and don't talk? That's what I'm talking about. 1290 00:51:47,691 --> 00:51:49,609 Well, she doesn't want me to speak on her behalf. 1291 00:51:49,651 --> 00:51:51,319 You weren't speaking on her behalf. 1292 00:51:51,361 --> 00:51:53,279 You were telling her how youfelt, 1293 00:51:53,321 --> 00:51:55,448 and she was telling you to shut up. 1294 00:51:55,490 --> 00:51:58,118 Ange, don't worry about this for one second. 1295 00:51:58,159 --> 00:51:59,661 -Okay. -Don't say okay! 1296 00:51:59,703 --> 00:52:03,039 And that's what I'm talking about. That's what I don't like. 1297 00:52:03,081 --> 00:52:05,208 Listen, I find her impossible to talk to. 1298 00:52:05,250 --> 00:52:07,210 Like, it's like "your mama" jokes. 1299 00:52:07,252 --> 00:52:08,962 It's like, "You're a piece of sh--. You're ugly. 1300 00:52:09,004 --> 00:52:11,840 You look 50. You look this." Like, it's, like, mind-numbing. 1301 00:52:11,881 --> 00:52:13,425 I swear to God, it's like talking to-- 1302 00:52:13,466 --> 00:52:15,927 Have you ever argued with your children? 1303 00:52:15,969 --> 00:52:17,137 ** 1304 00:52:17,178 --> 00:52:18,513 It's worse. 1305 00:52:18,555 --> 00:52:22,017 I am so irritated. [scoffs] 1306 00:52:22,058 --> 00:52:28,231 This is unbelievable. Can Lisa just table Lisa for one minute? 1307 00:52:28,273 --> 00:52:30,483 We have a backup in the line, 1308 00:52:30,525 --> 00:52:32,027 so I need to make sure everyone's moving through. 1309 00:52:32,068 --> 00:52:34,320 You know what I don't like? I have to get this off my chest. 1310 00:52:34,362 --> 00:52:36,281 I don't like the fakery. 1311 00:52:36,322 --> 00:52:39,159 But I love you. You look beautiful. 1312 00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,703 -Well, you look beautiful, too. -I appreciate you today. 1313 00:52:41,745 --> 00:52:44,039 -Thank you. -I got to go to my kids. 1314 00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:45,540 This sh-- is wack. 1315 00:52:45,582 --> 00:52:46,875 -That's right. -Look at this! Hugging! 1316 00:52:46,916 --> 00:52:49,836 Hugging! Hugging it out. Like, this is weird to me. 1317 00:52:49,878 --> 00:52:51,379 I honestly think it's so weird. 1318 00:52:51,421 --> 00:52:52,714 Like, you talked about her marriage, 1319 00:52:52,756 --> 00:52:55,175 and I'm the bad guy because I'm defending Ange. 1320 00:52:55,216 --> 00:52:56,176 -Bye. -Are you leaving? 1321 00:52:56,217 --> 00:52:58,470 -Yeah. -Thank you for coming. 1322 00:52:58,511 --> 00:53:00,013 -Bye. Congratulations. -Yeah, thank you. 1323 00:53:00,055 --> 00:53:01,765 Bye. 1324 00:53:01,806 --> 00:53:05,727 Bye! 1325 00:53:05,769 --> 00:53:08,355 -It's ridiculous. -I gotta go sell more jewelry. 1326 00:53:08,396 --> 00:53:09,856 LISA: It's, like, crazy. It's whatever. 1327 00:53:09,898 --> 00:53:13,276 -Are you leaving? -This is all such bullsh--. 1328 00:53:13,318 --> 00:53:15,737 ** 1329 00:53:15,779 --> 00:53:19,282 Next time on "The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City".. 1330 00:53:19,324 --> 00:53:23,203 -Do you think I look inbred? -I do. 1331 00:53:23,244 --> 00:53:24,579 Take it from a truth teller. 1332 00:53:24,621 --> 00:53:27,374 -Is that vovó? -That's your car. 1333 00:53:27,415 --> 00:53:28,583 Please just... 1334 00:53:28,625 --> 00:53:30,585 Lock the door after you go out. 1335 00:53:30,627 --> 00:53:32,420 -Stay in here with them. -Yeah. 1336 00:53:32,462 --> 00:53:34,130 What are you doing here? 1337 00:53:34,172 --> 00:53:37,217 Hi. 1338 00:53:37,258 --> 00:53:38,760 I'm really mad at both of you. 1339 00:53:38,802 --> 00:53:42,555 Did you ask Angie why she was riling Monica up? 1340 00:53:42,597 --> 00:53:45,558 You tell me you don't like Monica. 1341 00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:47,102 The optic doesn't match the conversations, 1342 00:53:47,143 --> 00:53:48,603 and it's confusing for me. 1343 00:53:48,645 --> 00:53:51,398 When I tried to talk to you at the bar, you pulled away. 1344 00:53:51,439 --> 00:53:55,360 Because I don't feel like you're being honest with me, Ange. 1345 00:53:55,402 --> 00:53:57,654 -HEATHER: Hi! -MEREDITH: Hi! 1346 00:53:57,696 --> 00:53:58,738 You're matching the book! You look gorgeous. 1347 00:53:58,780 --> 00:54:01,241 -Congrats, my girl. -Oh, my gosh. 1348 00:54:01,282 --> 00:54:02,951 You were threatening my family. 1349 00:54:02,992 --> 00:54:04,536 I'm not threatening your family. 1350 00:54:04,577 --> 00:54:06,538 -You said it. -I-- 1351 00:54:06,579 --> 00:54:08,248 "It could ruin their family." 1352 00:54:08,289 --> 00:54:11,751 **