1 00:00:02,252 --> 00:00:03,628 Previously on "The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City"... 2 00:00:05,005 --> 00:00:06,715 So this is kinda what we're looking at for the choir? 3 00:00:06,756 --> 00:00:07,799 Yeah. 4 00:00:07,841 --> 00:00:09,175 Easter's around the corner, 5 00:00:09,217 --> 00:00:10,844 and what is Easter without a hymn? 6 00:00:10,885 --> 00:00:13,847 -I'll have him and him and him. -[laughter] 7 00:00:13,888 --> 00:00:17,225 He said, "With Whitney being a public figure, 8 00:00:17,267 --> 00:00:20,061 it was gonna be a conflict of interest." 9 00:00:20,103 --> 00:00:22,230 "The fact that your wife has a career, 10 00:00:22,272 --> 00:00:25,108 you can no longer work here." 11 00:00:25,150 --> 00:00:29,320 Lisa tweeted my dad's obituary. 12 00:00:29,362 --> 00:00:32,032 She crossed the line when she used her dad's memorial 13 00:00:32,073 --> 00:00:33,616 to make me look like a sh--ty person. 14 00:00:33,658 --> 00:00:36,619 You should probably still pick up the phone and call Heather. 15 00:00:36,661 --> 00:00:39,205 Well, I think I'm just gonna show up at her choir auditions. 16 00:00:39,247 --> 00:00:42,125 Chris Harrington started an Instagram page 17 00:00:42,167 --> 00:00:43,543 called @shahxposed. 18 00:00:43,585 --> 00:00:46,421 In a very immature moment, I created a fake account. 19 00:00:46,463 --> 00:00:49,382 When it comes to Angie, 20 00:00:49,424 --> 00:00:52,177 you need to be aware of what's going on. 21 00:00:52,218 --> 00:00:55,096 [amplified singsongy voice] Hello, everyone! 22 00:00:55,138 --> 00:00:58,058 Who's ready to audition? 23 00:00:58,099 --> 00:01:00,602 -[cheering] -I'm ready. 24 00:01:00,643 --> 00:01:04,773 The last thing I expected was to see Angie Harrington here. 25 00:01:04,814 --> 00:01:06,441 [laughter] 26 00:01:10,737 --> 00:01:17,202 *** 27 00:01:17,243 --> 00:01:19,412 Five, six, seven, eight. 28 00:01:19,454 --> 00:01:23,583 One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight. 29 00:01:23,625 --> 00:01:27,587 What the hell is Angie Harrington doing here... 30 00:01:27,629 --> 00:01:32,300 * Oh, I would like to be in that number * 31 00:01:32,342 --> 00:01:34,552 ...in her dollar store leotard outfit? 32 00:01:34,594 --> 00:01:36,680 I feel like it's a slap in the face to me. 33 00:01:36,721 --> 00:01:38,223 Oh, here we go. 34 00:01:38,264 --> 00:01:40,600 And Heather's diminishing what my family and I went through 35 00:01:40,642 --> 00:01:43,353 with this @shahxposed account. 36 00:01:43,395 --> 00:01:45,438 As the assistant, I would like to present... 37 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:48,233 -[laughter] -...our first audition. 38 00:01:48,274 --> 00:01:51,778 -Jerwin. -[cheering] 39 00:01:51,820 --> 00:01:53,321 Thanks. 40 00:01:53,363 --> 00:01:54,739 What are you gonna sing for us today? 41 00:01:54,781 --> 00:01:56,074 I'm going to sing 42 00:01:56,116 --> 00:01:58,910 "When the Saints Go Marching In." 43 00:01:58,952 --> 00:02:00,954 * Oh, when the saints * 44 00:02:00,995 --> 00:02:03,915 * Go marching in * 45 00:02:03,957 --> 00:02:06,793 -You've known Angie just from... -No, I don't know Angie. 46 00:02:06,835 --> 00:02:08,962 I just know what I hear from Jen and Lisa, 47 00:02:09,004 --> 00:02:09,921 and I don't like it. 48 00:02:09,963 --> 00:02:11,172 Are your shorty pants showing? 49 00:02:11,214 --> 00:02:12,465 Mine are short, like I need to-- 50 00:02:12,507 --> 00:02:13,591 I need to roll 'em up. 51 00:02:13,633 --> 00:02:16,469 Hey, that is so good. Holy sh--. 52 00:02:16,511 --> 00:02:17,637 Damn it. It's been 20 years. 53 00:02:17,679 --> 00:02:21,558 Oh, my goodness. I love this outfit. 54 00:02:21,599 --> 00:02:24,477 You can make your tags. Your name and vocal range. 55 00:02:24,519 --> 00:02:25,979 -I'm a tenor. -Give us something. 56 00:02:26,021 --> 00:02:27,814 Let's go! 57 00:02:27,856 --> 00:02:30,150 -* And the rocket's red glare * -That's fire. 58 00:02:30,191 --> 00:02:31,943 Whoo! 59 00:02:31,985 --> 00:02:34,195 I'm so sorry. I, like, met you 60 00:02:34,237 --> 00:02:35,905 for, like, two seconds at ski day. 61 00:02:35,947 --> 00:02:37,115 I know you're good friends with Heather. 62 00:02:37,157 --> 00:02:38,324 Yeah. 63 00:02:38,366 --> 00:02:39,576 I tried to talk to Lisa at ski day. 64 00:02:39,617 --> 00:02:41,661 She would not even talk to me. 65 00:02:41,703 --> 00:02:43,580 Angie, look, I'm just gonna tell you, like-- 66 00:02:43,621 --> 00:02:45,081 -I think we should explain-- -I like everybody. 67 00:02:45,123 --> 00:02:46,708 I wanted to like you, and I wanna give you a chance, 68 00:02:46,750 --> 00:02:50,670 but I also think if you're going to talk behind Lisa's back... 69 00:02:50,712 --> 00:02:52,130 What have I said behind her back and "B"... 70 00:02:52,172 --> 00:02:53,506 Don't go up to her and don't go try to be her friend. 71 00:02:53,548 --> 00:02:55,175 -...tell me what I said. -And don't try and hug her. 72 00:02:55,216 --> 00:02:56,384 -Like what? Tell me what? -And then you go 73 00:02:56,426 --> 00:02:57,844 and try to hug her. It's fake. It's fake. 74 00:02:57,886 --> 00:02:59,804 Tell me what I said. 75 00:02:59,846 --> 00:03:03,558 You open up fake accounts with your spouse 76 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:04,851 and go and criticize them on social media. 77 00:03:04,893 --> 00:03:06,978 -I-I admit--Okay. -And you know that you did that. 78 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,734 The account may have been named @shahexposed, 79 00:03:12,776 --> 00:03:15,528 but it was really aimed at targeting Lisa. 80 00:03:15,570 --> 00:03:17,405 I have never one time opened a fake account. 81 00:03:17,447 --> 00:03:18,823 Never in my life. 82 00:03:18,865 --> 00:03:20,742 You can deny that at this moment. I mean-- 83 00:03:20,784 --> 00:03:22,202 -Never. Never. -There's screenshots that exist 84 00:03:22,243 --> 00:03:24,204 that show that you did. -That I'veopened it? 85 00:03:24,245 --> 00:03:25,872 You and your husband. 86 00:03:25,914 --> 00:03:27,999 She's lying. 87 00:03:28,041 --> 00:03:31,920 She liked a comment that was posted within, like, 30 seconds. 88 00:03:31,961 --> 00:03:34,214 [bell dings] 89 00:03:34,255 --> 00:03:36,549 You were involved 100%. 90 00:03:36,591 --> 00:03:38,051 So me and my husband don't share an account. 91 00:03:38,093 --> 00:03:39,844 Well, you share a marriage, and you share a family. 92 00:03:39,886 --> 00:03:41,763 -Yes, a marriage... -So whatever he does... 93 00:03:41,805 --> 00:03:43,848 -...but accounts are separate. -...represents you. 94 00:03:43,890 --> 00:03:45,850 I've never done it to her. Never. 95 00:03:45,892 --> 00:03:49,854 Wait a second. You're telling me that Chris, 96 00:03:49,896 --> 00:03:54,067 a grown-ass man, created a Finsta account 97 00:03:54,109 --> 00:03:56,069 to troll Lisa? 98 00:03:56,111 --> 00:03:57,570 -Angie, I get what you're s-- -I am speaking 99 00:03:57,612 --> 00:03:58,947 on her behalf right now. -Don't you think that this, 100 00:03:58,988 --> 00:04:00,448 like, you should have this conversation with Lisa? 101 00:04:00,490 --> 00:04:01,574 Yeah, I should probably have this conversation with Lisa. 102 00:04:01,616 --> 00:04:02,742 No, this is-- I'm speaking for-- 103 00:04:02,784 --> 00:04:05,578 I feel really icky and silly right now 104 00:04:05,620 --> 00:04:07,789 being in a matching costume with Angie. 105 00:04:07,831 --> 00:04:10,250 I just wanna put my top hat over my head. 106 00:04:10,291 --> 00:04:13,503 I wish that I could just disappear. 107 00:04:15,797 --> 00:04:17,674 -[siren wails] -I'm here to hype you guys up. 108 00:04:17,716 --> 00:04:20,885 Side step. No, no, no. We're not tired. 109 00:04:20,927 --> 00:04:22,387 We are not tired. 110 00:04:22,429 --> 00:04:24,806 We are full of energy. 111 00:04:26,391 --> 00:04:27,600 -What? I'll be right back. -[laughter] 112 00:04:27,642 --> 00:04:31,771 Angie just addressed Angie H. 113 00:04:31,813 --> 00:04:35,859 I just brought up how she was talking sh-- about Lisa 114 00:04:35,900 --> 00:04:37,193 and the fake accounts and everything, 115 00:04:37,235 --> 00:04:39,821 and she denies all of it. 116 00:04:39,863 --> 00:04:42,073 Let's be honest. Can you really say you had no idea... 117 00:04:42,115 --> 00:04:43,950 -Oh, my gosh. -...your husband did this? 118 00:04:43,992 --> 00:04:45,744 None. 119 00:04:45,785 --> 00:04:47,954 [scoffs] 120 00:04:47,996 --> 00:04:49,497 *** 121 00:04:49,539 --> 00:04:51,416 Angie, you're full of sh--. You know what your husband does. 122 00:04:51,458 --> 00:04:53,084 No, I didn't. 123 00:04:53,126 --> 00:04:54,753 -Is it, like-- -I'm glad you're standing there 124 00:04:54,794 --> 00:04:56,504 with a smirk on your face. -It is. 125 00:04:56,546 --> 00:04:57,756 'Cause this is very personal. 126 00:04:57,797 --> 00:04:59,966 -This is--This is, like-- -A smirk? 127 00:05:00,008 --> 00:05:01,468 You guys... 128 00:05:01,509 --> 00:05:05,013 It's really interesting how Angie can just conveniently 129 00:05:05,055 --> 00:05:07,891 not know or forget. 130 00:05:07,932 --> 00:05:10,602 Like, she didn't know that Chris created this Finsta? 131 00:05:10,643 --> 00:05:12,979 She didn't remember saying the rumor about Lisa 132 00:05:13,021 --> 00:05:14,481 at the Jazz game? 133 00:05:14,522 --> 00:05:16,524 Like, is this a convenience thing, 134 00:05:16,566 --> 00:05:19,652 or does she really have a memory problem? 135 00:05:19,694 --> 00:05:21,613 Okay, you need to take some accountability 136 00:05:21,654 --> 00:05:22,989 because he did it. -Why? Why? 137 00:05:23,031 --> 00:05:24,449 -Because that's your husband! -I didn't do it. 138 00:05:24,491 --> 00:05:25,825 I agree. Talk to him. 139 00:05:25,867 --> 00:05:27,285 -Oh, my gosh. -Angie, it's a big deal, though. 140 00:05:27,327 --> 00:05:28,870 -I didn't do it. -Let me tell you-- 141 00:05:28,912 --> 00:05:30,497 Your husband wouldn't have done that if you guys 142 00:05:30,538 --> 00:05:31,831 hadn't talked about it. -Let me tell you what I-- 143 00:05:31,873 --> 00:05:32,957 -I had to tell my husband-- -Remind me-- 144 00:05:32,999 --> 00:05:35,794 Shut up and let me talk! 'Cause it's me! 145 00:05:35,835 --> 00:05:37,504 It's me, goddamn it! So let me talk! 146 00:05:37,545 --> 00:05:39,422 But you're accusing me, too. 147 00:05:39,464 --> 00:05:40,965 When you get married to somebody, 148 00:05:41,007 --> 00:05:43,802 that is your other half. I am responsible 149 00:05:43,843 --> 00:05:45,220 for what Sharrieff does and vice versa, and so are you! 150 00:05:45,261 --> 00:05:47,555 Okay, but--but the things that you're being accused of 151 00:05:47,597 --> 00:05:50,225 right now, is Sharrieff taking sh-- for it? 152 00:05:50,266 --> 00:05:51,768 -I shouldn't-- -I'm innocent! 153 00:05:53,728 --> 00:05:58,358 * Amazing grace * 154 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:04,864 * How sweet the sound * 155 00:06:08,743 --> 00:06:10,495 "I'm gonna get people to click on this account 156 00:06:10,537 --> 00:06:13,456 'cause it says @shahxposed. Let's find out. 157 00:06:13,498 --> 00:06:16,793 Oh, they're exposing Shah." I know exactly why he did it. 158 00:06:16,835 --> 00:06:20,380 -You picked my ----ing name. -Don't look at us. 159 00:06:20,422 --> 00:06:21,798 Jen, what is going on? 160 00:06:21,840 --> 00:06:23,508 If somebody dragged you or your husband... 161 00:06:23,550 --> 00:06:24,718 Heather... 162 00:06:24,759 --> 00:06:28,221 Don't ----ing laugh or smile! 163 00:06:28,263 --> 00:06:29,431 No. No. 164 00:06:30,932 --> 00:06:32,767 He set up an account that said "@shahx--" 165 00:06:32,809 --> 00:06:35,437 You don't define someone. He talked about it. 166 00:06:35,478 --> 00:06:37,313 He took accountability, and you-- 167 00:06:37,355 --> 00:06:39,065 and talked to you about this. -No, he did it because 168 00:06:39,107 --> 00:06:41,401 I asked about it! -Right, on the phone with us. 169 00:06:41,443 --> 00:06:42,736 -Do you guys understand? -You guys didn't? 170 00:06:42,777 --> 00:06:43,945 You told me you had a conversation 171 00:06:43,987 --> 00:06:45,405 with him about it, and he owned it. 172 00:06:45,447 --> 00:06:47,741 He got caught. That's why. 173 00:06:47,782 --> 00:06:51,369 Do you know how many fake Instagram accounts there are? 174 00:06:51,411 --> 00:06:53,038 -Just take accountability. -I-- 175 00:06:53,079 --> 00:06:54,998 -It's--Listen-- -Take accountability for what? 176 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:57,959 -I didn't do anything. -Okay. Listen. 177 00:06:58,001 --> 00:07:00,086 Hey. I... 178 00:07:00,128 --> 00:07:01,212 Hey. 179 00:07:01,254 --> 00:07:02,881 Babe, what do you-- 180 00:07:02,922 --> 00:07:04,174 You don't understand. Sharrieff is ----ing disgusted. 181 00:07:04,215 --> 00:07:06,092 I don't know what I can do about it out there. 182 00:07:06,134 --> 00:07:08,178 [sobbing] Oh, my God. I can't. I can't. [bleep] this. 183 00:07:08,219 --> 00:07:10,930 I can't do this! 184 00:07:10,972 --> 00:07:14,601 This is becoming ridiculous. Let's be very clear here. 185 00:07:14,642 --> 00:07:16,811 Jen Shah is in a washing machine of turmoil 186 00:07:16,853 --> 00:07:20,357 because she's been indicted on federal charges 187 00:07:20,398 --> 00:07:22,067 with a prison sentence looming, 188 00:07:22,108 --> 00:07:23,610 not because she's getting trolled 189 00:07:23,651 --> 00:07:25,487 by Chris Harrington on Instagram. 190 00:07:25,528 --> 00:07:29,199 *** 191 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:30,408 I have been impressed with everyone, 192 00:07:30,450 --> 00:07:31,993 either their story... -Yeah. 193 00:07:32,035 --> 00:07:33,119 -...their desire. -Their energy. 194 00:07:33,161 --> 00:07:34,204 -Their energy. -I wanna bring them all. 195 00:07:34,245 --> 00:07:35,663 I want them all to be a part of it. 196 00:07:35,705 --> 00:07:37,165 I know. The people. 197 00:07:37,207 --> 00:07:39,000 Hi. 198 00:07:39,042 --> 00:07:41,795 Heather and I probably need a 12-step program 199 00:07:41,836 --> 00:07:43,254 to move forward in our friendship, 200 00:07:43,296 --> 00:07:46,424 but step number one has to be showing up for her today, 201 00:07:46,466 --> 00:07:48,551 'cause I'm pretty sure I'm the only one that can sing. 202 00:07:48,593 --> 00:07:49,969 -All right, are you ready? -Yeah. 203 00:07:50,011 --> 00:07:51,805 [singsongy] I'm here for the audition! 204 00:07:51,846 --> 00:07:54,474 Oh! 205 00:07:54,516 --> 00:07:56,351 *** 206 00:07:56,393 --> 00:07:57,769 Coming up... 207 00:07:57,811 --> 00:07:59,646 I'm telling you the truth. I don't ----ing lie. 208 00:07:59,688 --> 00:08:01,481 The truth is you have no friends left. 209 00:08:01,523 --> 00:08:03,233 Who's not my friend here? Raise your hand. 210 00:08:11,157 --> 00:08:11,491 *** 211 00:08:15,954 --> 00:08:17,330 -Okay, are we ready? -Yes. 212 00:08:17,372 --> 00:08:20,166 [singsongy] I'm here for the audition! 213 00:08:20,208 --> 00:08:22,168 Oh! 214 00:08:24,796 --> 00:08:26,548 Why are you here? Do you wanna be in the choir? 215 00:08:26,589 --> 00:08:28,883 -You wanna be-- -I wanna support Heather Gay... 216 00:08:28,925 --> 00:08:31,761 -Oh. Okay. -...on her mission for 217 00:08:31,803 --> 00:08:34,597 spirituality in her own way. 218 00:08:34,639 --> 00:08:36,516 I appreciate that. 219 00:08:36,558 --> 00:08:39,728 I am shocked to see Lisa, 220 00:08:39,769 --> 00:08:42,772 because she really hurt my feelings. 221 00:08:42,814 --> 00:08:45,108 And this is, I feel like, her way of saying, like, 222 00:08:45,150 --> 00:08:48,236 "I'm showing up for you, and I'm sorry." 223 00:08:48,278 --> 00:08:50,196 Yeah, that's so sweet. 224 00:08:50,238 --> 00:08:54,617 But I'm, you know... I still can't stand her. 225 00:08:54,659 --> 00:08:55,869 Okay. 226 00:08:55,910 --> 00:08:58,705 -* Away in a manger * -Yeah. 227 00:08:58,747 --> 00:09:01,666 * No crib for his bed * 228 00:09:01,708 --> 00:09:02,792 Yes! 229 00:09:02,834 --> 00:09:06,463 * The little Lord Jesus * 230 00:09:06,504 --> 00:09:09,632 * Laid down his sweet head * 231 00:09:09,674 --> 00:09:12,510 * The stars in the heaven * 232 00:09:12,552 --> 00:09:15,972 * Look down where he lay * 233 00:09:16,014 --> 00:09:21,394 * And little Lord Jesus, no crying he made * 234 00:09:21,436 --> 00:09:22,771 Is that it? 235 00:09:22,812 --> 00:09:24,147 -Yes! -You did well. That's beautiful. 236 00:09:24,189 --> 00:09:25,565 -Thank you. -Really good. 237 00:09:25,607 --> 00:09:26,983 -Really beautiful. -Really good. 238 00:09:27,025 --> 00:09:28,985 -So are we good? -Yeah, you were great. 239 00:09:29,027 --> 00:09:30,820 -Thanks for coming. -Whoo! 240 00:09:30,862 --> 00:09:35,325 Okay, where do I exit? Here? Through here? 241 00:09:35,367 --> 00:09:36,493 -What a pleasure to have her. -Did you know she was coming? 242 00:09:36,534 --> 00:09:37,577 No, I had no idea. 243 00:09:37,619 --> 00:09:39,245 -Hey, guys. -Hi. 244 00:09:39,287 --> 00:09:41,539 -Did you hear my audition? -I did. 245 00:09:41,581 --> 00:09:42,749 -No. -Did you love it? 246 00:09:42,791 --> 00:09:44,292 You look so good. You look beautiful. 247 00:09:44,334 --> 00:09:46,336 -Good to see you. -I heard it. So good. 248 00:09:46,378 --> 00:09:48,713 Thank you. 249 00:09:52,008 --> 00:09:53,718 Not a lot, Lori. [laughs] 250 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:55,345 [snorts, continues laughing] 251 00:09:55,387 --> 00:09:56,846 Whit, I--Whit. Whit? 252 00:09:56,888 --> 00:09:58,348 Can you go... 253 00:09:58,390 --> 00:10:00,058 -I don't know where it is. -Good. 254 00:10:00,100 --> 00:10:02,811 Can you go over the routine real quick? 255 00:10:02,852 --> 00:10:04,604 -Yeah. -Okay. Come on. Back here. 256 00:10:04,646 --> 00:10:07,148 -Hi. -How's it going? 257 00:10:07,190 --> 00:10:08,525 -Did you-- -Oh, it's awesome. 258 00:10:08,566 --> 00:10:10,193 Did you try out? 259 00:10:10,235 --> 00:10:13,113 I'll just grab a tissue real quick. 260 00:10:13,154 --> 00:10:14,280 Everything just feels, like, weird all of a sudden. 261 00:10:14,322 --> 00:10:15,782 -It is weird. -It is weird. 262 00:10:15,824 --> 00:10:18,576 Angie K. and Angie H. got into it. 263 00:10:18,618 --> 00:10:19,744 -May I present... -[cheering] 264 00:10:19,786 --> 00:10:21,955 -Whoa! -Presents... 265 00:10:21,996 --> 00:10:23,998 Whitney and Angie. 266 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:25,041 -Oh! -[cheers and applause] 267 00:10:25,083 --> 00:10:27,210 Where's...Where's Jen? 268 00:10:27,252 --> 00:10:31,798 *** 269 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:33,925 Hey. Do you want me to stay away? 270 00:10:33,967 --> 00:10:35,635 You can stay. 271 00:10:35,677 --> 00:10:37,429 BOTH: * Oh, when the saints * 272 00:10:37,470 --> 00:10:40,056 * Go marching in * 273 00:10:40,098 --> 00:10:43,184 * Oh, when the saints go marching in * 274 00:10:43,226 --> 00:10:46,062 -Oh, a triple. -[cheers and applause] 275 00:10:46,104 --> 00:10:48,898 Heather was literally siding with Angie. 276 00:10:48,940 --> 00:10:50,400 -What? -That's when I really got hurt 277 00:10:50,442 --> 00:10:53,236 because I felt so ----ing attacked. I'm like... 278 00:10:53,278 --> 00:10:54,904 I'm sorry I wasn't here sooner. 279 00:10:54,946 --> 00:10:56,906 I need all of us to sit down 280 00:10:56,948 --> 00:10:58,908 because I promise you on everything I love 281 00:10:58,950 --> 00:11:04,164 if--if Heather ----ing tells me that I need to just get over it 282 00:11:04,205 --> 00:11:06,124 or that I'm in the wrong and Angie's in the right, 283 00:11:06,166 --> 00:11:08,126 I promise you, I'm gonna tell her to her face 284 00:11:08,168 --> 00:11:10,920 "Go [bleep] yourself. Get the [bleep] out of my life. 285 00:11:10,962 --> 00:11:13,089 You are the worst ----ing friend. 286 00:11:13,131 --> 00:11:15,425 You're the most materialist person. 287 00:11:15,467 --> 00:11:18,345 The only reason you're ----ing with Angie Harrington 288 00:11:18,386 --> 00:11:23,433 is because you think her fat ----ing Elf on the Shelf husband 289 00:11:23,475 --> 00:11:26,061 is gonna feed you and put you on a ----ing yacht, bitch. 290 00:11:26,102 --> 00:11:28,396 Well, guess what. You're a cheap mother----ing date." 291 00:11:28,438 --> 00:11:29,939 You're gonna be okay. I got you. 292 00:11:29,981 --> 00:11:32,609 [cheers and applause] 293 00:11:32,650 --> 00:11:34,652 [laughter] 294 00:11:34,694 --> 00:11:36,112 Thank you, Judges. 295 00:11:36,154 --> 00:11:37,655 HEATHER: You're wonderful. You're wonderful. 296 00:11:37,697 --> 00:11:40,367 Thank you, Judges. 297 00:11:40,408 --> 00:11:42,535 Hey, how's it going? 298 00:11:42,577 --> 00:11:45,747 I did some fouttés. I did some pirouettes. 299 00:11:45,789 --> 00:11:48,083 -Do you think I can fit in? -Over here. Let's sit. 300 00:11:48,124 --> 00:11:49,334 -We'll put it together. -I love your back. 301 00:11:49,376 --> 00:11:51,961 -Oh, we'll do it. -[indistinct conversations] 302 00:11:52,003 --> 00:11:53,713 I love you. 303 00:11:53,755 --> 00:11:56,299 First of all, Heather, 304 00:11:56,341 --> 00:11:59,302 you are already sending a message to me 305 00:11:59,344 --> 00:12:01,137 that you're okay with all of this. 306 00:12:01,179 --> 00:12:02,889 She's literally sitting on your lap. 307 00:12:02,931 --> 00:12:04,015 Like, you might as well breastfeed her. 308 00:12:05,016 --> 00:12:06,976 Are you feeling better now? 309 00:12:07,018 --> 00:12:09,562 I'm not feeling better. I'm just calm now. 310 00:12:09,604 --> 00:12:10,939 -Mm-hmm. -Good. 311 00:12:10,980 --> 00:12:13,441 I was very triggered when I went out there. 312 00:12:13,483 --> 00:12:15,902 [voice breaking] Shah is our last name. 313 00:12:15,944 --> 00:12:17,654 So when someone types in "@shahexposed" 314 00:12:17,696 --> 00:12:22,784 because Chris thinks is just, "I need to protect my wife," 315 00:12:22,826 --> 00:12:25,954 what he's saying that I don't mean--I don't matter, 316 00:12:25,995 --> 00:12:27,831 but you do. 317 00:12:27,872 --> 00:12:32,669 *** 318 00:12:32,711 --> 00:12:34,170 -I'm so sorry. -Okay? 319 00:12:34,212 --> 00:12:35,964 I wanna see you raw. 320 00:12:36,006 --> 00:12:37,674 I appreciate this more than anything. 321 00:12:37,716 --> 00:12:40,635 This is unbelievable. 322 00:12:40,677 --> 00:12:44,264 Your husband created this page to troll me. 323 00:12:44,305 --> 00:12:45,849 Where's myapology? 324 00:12:45,890 --> 00:12:47,434 What hurt me the most 325 00:12:47,475 --> 00:12:50,520 while I was back there crying, Heather, is you. 326 00:12:50,562 --> 00:12:53,940 You come out there, and you go, "Jen, he--she didn't do it. 327 00:12:53,982 --> 00:12:58,236 He apologized. They said sorry. That's it." 328 00:12:58,278 --> 00:13:01,656 That was the only thing I said. I did not say, "That's it." 329 00:13:01,698 --> 00:13:03,074 And it sounded like you were dismissing 330 00:13:03,116 --> 00:13:04,367 everything that I feel. -No, not, not at all. 331 00:13:04,409 --> 00:13:06,286 -She helped-- -Not at all. 332 00:13:06,327 --> 00:13:07,996 And you have been nothing but lovely to us 333 00:13:08,038 --> 00:13:09,622 and to my husband... -And I said nothing 334 00:13:09,664 --> 00:13:11,332 other than that. -...and he cares about you, 335 00:13:11,374 --> 00:13:13,918 and he did not show it in an appropriate way. 336 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:16,880 Leave. I'm, like, seriously... 337 00:13:16,921 --> 00:13:18,506 Lisa, we can't leave. 338 00:13:18,548 --> 00:13:21,134 I'm done with this. It's, like, not okay. 339 00:13:21,176 --> 00:13:23,219 You can't just say sorry. You keep doing the same thing 340 00:13:23,261 --> 00:13:24,804 over and-- -You bully everyone online. 341 00:13:24,846 --> 00:13:28,141 I don't bully anybody online, and I-I only have one account, 342 00:13:28,183 --> 00:13:29,225 and it's got my face on it, Angie. 343 00:13:29,267 --> 00:13:32,228 -Okay. -You're a ----ing liar. 344 00:13:32,270 --> 00:13:34,564 You're a ----ing liar. 345 00:13:34,606 --> 00:13:36,399 I posted the truth. 346 00:13:36,441 --> 00:13:39,903 She used her dad's...death to lie about me! 347 00:13:39,944 --> 00:13:42,405 *** 348 00:13:42,447 --> 00:13:43,990 You said you're my friend, you cared about me, 349 00:13:44,032 --> 00:13:45,450 and then you went on social media 350 00:13:45,492 --> 00:13:48,745 and showed exactly the opposite, so you were fake. 351 00:13:48,787 --> 00:13:50,080 I told you the truth. If you don't like the truth... 352 00:13:50,121 --> 00:13:51,456 Moving forward, moving forward-- 353 00:13:51,498 --> 00:13:53,041 ...don't ask for it. I'm telling you the truth. 354 00:13:53,083 --> 00:13:54,459 I don't ----ing lie. 355 00:13:54,501 --> 00:13:57,587 The truth is, you have no friends left, Lisa. 356 00:13:57,629 --> 00:13:59,255 Okay, that's like-- Did you guys just hear this? 357 00:13:59,297 --> 00:14:00,924 -Thank you. -Heather just said 358 00:14:00,965 --> 00:14:02,384 the truth is I have no friends left. 359 00:14:02,425 --> 00:14:05,470 Who's not my friend here? Raise your hand. 360 00:14:05,512 --> 00:14:07,847 *** 361 00:14:07,889 --> 00:14:10,350 Heather, you know what? I wanna stay in a good place with you. 362 00:14:10,392 --> 00:14:12,894 I told you this at skiing. I said it has to be based 363 00:14:12,936 --> 00:14:15,480 on the truth, and if you lie about me, 364 00:14:15,522 --> 00:14:16,940 I have to be able to clear my name. 365 00:14:16,981 --> 00:14:20,276 It doesn't take me backwards. It makes it so I'm clear. 366 00:14:20,318 --> 00:14:22,862 You said I was not there for you when your dad died. 367 00:14:22,904 --> 00:14:25,407 -You weren't. -And I texted you 368 00:14:25,448 --> 00:14:27,283 when I found out he was in the hospital, 369 00:14:27,325 --> 00:14:29,119 and I texted you the day he passed. 370 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:31,287 And I should not have posted what was online. 371 00:14:31,329 --> 00:14:32,914 Listen, you're welcome to post. 372 00:14:32,956 --> 00:14:34,582 But--But I don't want you to lie about me. 373 00:14:34,624 --> 00:14:36,459 It's all propaganda, but you're welcome to post 374 00:14:36,501 --> 00:14:38,086 and do whatever you want. -I didn't want you 375 00:14:38,128 --> 00:14:39,421 to lie about me. -I was mistaken 'cause I got 376 00:14:39,462 --> 00:14:40,880 that text when we were surrounding his bedside, 377 00:14:40,922 --> 00:14:42,340 and he was on hospice. -Heather. Heather. Heather. 378 00:14:42,382 --> 00:14:43,508 You said, "I hope your dad's feeling better." 379 00:14:43,550 --> 00:14:44,801 -Heather. -And it felt callous 380 00:14:44,843 --> 00:14:46,469 and, like, a little bit of cover your ass. 381 00:14:46,511 --> 00:14:48,221 -No, it was not. It was-- -It's fine. 382 00:14:48,263 --> 00:14:49,681 You're allowed to clear your name, 383 00:14:49,723 --> 00:14:51,182 and your name is cleared, and I lied, and you're the best. 384 00:14:51,224 --> 00:14:52,726 And you're awesome, and your character 385 00:14:52,767 --> 00:14:54,352 is in perfect standing. -No, this isn't how it goes. 386 00:14:54,394 --> 00:14:56,187 [bleep] you and your stupid ass text. 387 00:14:56,229 --> 00:14:57,981 And you're missing the big picture. 388 00:14:58,023 --> 00:14:59,607 You're clearing your name, 389 00:14:59,649 --> 00:15:03,319 but you're totally devastating my feelings. 390 00:15:03,361 --> 00:15:05,321 Let's go. Let's just leave. 391 00:15:05,363 --> 00:15:07,157 -ANGIE H.: Do you have your hat? -WHITNEY: Yeah. 392 00:15:14,330 --> 00:15:19,294 *** 393 00:15:22,422 --> 00:15:24,382 'Cause it's so damn hot. 394 00:15:24,424 --> 00:15:28,261 -I like it that way. -It's about to get hotter. 395 00:15:28,303 --> 00:15:29,888 -Ba-dum-bum. -[laughs] 396 00:15:29,929 --> 00:15:32,974 *** 397 00:15:33,016 --> 00:15:35,143 -What is going on? -With what? 398 00:15:35,185 --> 00:15:36,978 You. 399 00:15:37,020 --> 00:15:39,230 -My life, you mean? -Yeah. 400 00:15:39,272 --> 00:15:41,566 I have so much to tell you. You've been gone. 401 00:15:41,608 --> 00:15:43,651 You abandoned me for four days. 402 00:15:43,693 --> 00:15:45,695 It's called work. 403 00:15:45,737 --> 00:15:47,322 I know... 404 00:15:50,992 --> 00:15:54,704 That's amazing. Thank you. I hate being away. 405 00:15:54,746 --> 00:15:57,791 Because of Seth's business, he's usually gone 406 00:15:57,832 --> 00:16:01,002 for about four days twice a month, 407 00:16:01,044 --> 00:16:03,129 and I miss him when he's gone. 408 00:16:03,171 --> 00:16:05,799 Just catch me up. [scoffs] 409 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:07,384 [laughs] 410 00:16:07,425 --> 00:16:10,512 Catch me up without your toe in my butt. 411 00:16:10,553 --> 00:16:13,932 So Brooksy...I think is coming out to visit soon. 412 00:16:13,973 --> 00:16:19,270 [scoffing] 413 00:16:19,312 --> 00:16:22,732 Please do not put your foot 414 00:16:22,774 --> 00:16:26,277 near my taint while you're talking about our children. 415 00:16:26,319 --> 00:16:28,405 I just--that has-- we have to set rules 416 00:16:28,446 --> 00:16:30,323 if we're gonna talk about-- -I'm just putting it 417 00:16:30,365 --> 00:16:33,827 under your butt so I don't slip. 418 00:16:33,868 --> 00:16:38,581 So anyway, I started to tell you a little bit earlier today 419 00:16:38,623 --> 00:16:41,292 there's definitely some tension between Heather and Jen. 420 00:16:41,334 --> 00:16:44,462 This all ties back to the Finsta. 421 00:16:44,504 --> 00:16:47,841 Jen says that Heather didn't support her, 422 00:16:47,882 --> 00:16:49,509 and Heather says she did. 423 00:16:49,551 --> 00:16:52,804 I know that Heather, you know, is very loyal to Jen, 424 00:16:52,846 --> 00:16:54,889 but I also know she really likes Angie a lot. 425 00:16:54,931 --> 00:16:59,394 I mean, I'm sure that Heather probably didn't go as hard 426 00:16:59,436 --> 00:17:02,147 because it's uncomfortable being in the middle 427 00:17:02,188 --> 00:17:05,525 of two people who you, you know, are good friends with. 428 00:17:05,567 --> 00:17:07,652 But it seems like for her not to support Jen at all 429 00:17:07,694 --> 00:17:11,197 would be really surprising, too, 'cause she has been, like, 430 00:17:11,239 --> 00:17:13,366 super, super supportive of Jen, 431 00:17:13,408 --> 00:17:16,828 like blindly supportive, you know? 432 00:17:16,870 --> 00:17:18,371 Like, she's just, like, "I don't care what happens, 433 00:17:18,413 --> 00:17:20,373 what you do, I'm here for you no matter what," basically. 434 00:17:20,415 --> 00:17:23,877 -Just-- -But she goes way back 435 00:17:23,918 --> 00:17:25,337 with Angie, too, right? 436 00:17:25,378 --> 00:17:26,796 Yeah. 437 00:17:26,838 --> 00:17:28,715 Heather and Angie are new friends. 438 00:17:28,757 --> 00:17:31,593 Heather is not in a great position, 439 00:17:31,634 --> 00:17:34,554 and it is very tough to be in the middle 440 00:17:34,596 --> 00:17:36,181 of two close friends that are fighting. 441 00:17:36,222 --> 00:17:39,309 Believe me, I know. I went through it with Lisa and Mary. 442 00:17:39,351 --> 00:17:41,394 -I'm kind to everyone. -No, you're not. 443 00:17:41,436 --> 00:17:43,229 -Mary, you're fake as [bleep]. -And you're real? 444 00:17:43,271 --> 00:17:45,231 Meredith, is this okay? She's so nice. She's so nice. 445 00:17:45,273 --> 00:17:47,108 She's kind. 446 00:17:47,150 --> 00:17:50,111 And that didn't end well, did it? 447 00:17:50,153 --> 00:17:52,864 I honestly think me, you, Heather, Jen, and Coach 448 00:17:52,906 --> 00:17:56,242 should get in this bath and just work all this sh-- out. 449 00:17:56,284 --> 00:17:58,161 Okay, that's not normal. 450 00:17:58,203 --> 00:18:00,872 [laughs] 451 00:18:00,914 --> 00:18:03,833 No, no, do not kick. Do not kick. 452 00:18:03,875 --> 00:18:05,085 [chuckles] 453 00:18:05,126 --> 00:18:07,045 -[yells] -[laughs] 454 00:18:07,087 --> 00:18:21,726 *** 455 00:18:21,768 --> 00:18:24,104 So just right here, I think. 456 00:18:24,145 --> 00:18:25,480 Wow. 457 00:18:25,522 --> 00:18:27,023 *** 458 00:18:27,065 --> 00:18:29,693 -Just park here. -Oh, right by the Porta Potty. 459 00:18:29,734 --> 00:18:32,445 Perfect. We might need to use those in a minute. 460 00:18:32,487 --> 00:18:38,201 *** 461 00:18:38,243 --> 00:18:40,203 Wowzers. 462 00:18:40,245 --> 00:18:42,872 -Hello, ladies. -Hi! 463 00:18:42,914 --> 00:18:43,790 Welcome to Mountain View Village. 464 00:18:43,832 --> 00:18:45,458 -This is so crazy. -Hi. 465 00:18:45,500 --> 00:18:46,418 Great. How's everybody doing today? 466 00:18:46,459 --> 00:18:47,877 -I'm Dre. -David Anderson... 467 00:18:47,919 --> 00:18:48,962 -Hi, David. Hi. Heather. -...with CenterCal. 468 00:18:49,004 --> 00:18:50,547 -How do you do? -Nice to meet you. 469 00:18:50,588 --> 00:18:51,798 -Hey, great. -We haven't seen any of this. 470 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:52,882 -Oh, my gosh. -Last time we were here, 471 00:18:52,924 --> 00:18:54,259 it was just... -It was just pile. 472 00:18:54,300 --> 00:18:55,760 -Yeah, asphalt. -It was dirt. 473 00:18:55,802 --> 00:18:58,179 A couple months, we'll be done, so... 474 00:18:58,221 --> 00:18:59,639 I can't believe the scale. 475 00:18:59,681 --> 00:19:01,224 We're coming from, like, a one level, 476 00:19:01,266 --> 00:19:02,892 been-around-for-50-years strip mall. 477 00:19:02,934 --> 00:19:04,102 -Yeah, strip mall. -Oh, really? 478 00:19:04,144 --> 00:19:05,478 -BOTH: Yeah. -Oh, my God. 479 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:07,022 -Like, we're moving on up. -Yeah. 480 00:19:07,063 --> 00:19:08,273 This is exciting. Yeah. 481 00:19:08,314 --> 00:19:10,316 Do we get to wear safety equipment for this tour? 482 00:19:10,358 --> 00:19:12,235 Yeah, can I--can I give you some protective gear here? 483 00:19:12,277 --> 00:19:13,903 I would love a hardhat. 484 00:19:13,945 --> 00:19:15,530 Dre and I have been through this before. 485 00:19:15,572 --> 00:19:19,701 We built our current Beauty Lab from an abandoned tanning salon, 486 00:19:19,743 --> 00:19:22,120 had to scrape it down and build it from the ground up. 487 00:19:22,162 --> 00:19:23,580 -This looks so good. -I can't believe the progress. 488 00:19:23,621 --> 00:19:25,331 I'm so excited. 489 00:19:25,373 --> 00:19:26,666 Right? 490 00:19:26,708 --> 00:19:28,168 -[laughs] Yeah. -Yep. I know. 491 00:19:28,209 --> 00:19:30,170 We were ready to have a second location business-wise 492 00:19:30,211 --> 00:19:32,339 six months ago. 493 00:19:32,380 --> 00:19:33,590 Can I walk you over to the space? 494 00:19:33,631 --> 00:19:34,883 So what's--yeah, what space is actually ours? 495 00:19:34,924 --> 00:19:36,176 Come right over here. So you're actually from 496 00:19:36,217 --> 00:19:38,345 where that beam is right there over to where 497 00:19:38,386 --> 00:19:39,888 the white beam is right there. 498 00:19:39,929 --> 00:19:42,307 But I have no idea how they're gonna turn this cement block 499 00:19:42,349 --> 00:19:44,017 into a Beauty Lab. 500 00:19:44,059 --> 00:19:46,895 You're gonna go all the way over to that next column. 501 00:19:46,936 --> 00:19:48,855 -This is huge. -And then you go 502 00:19:48,897 --> 00:19:50,690 all the way to the back wall, yeah. Yep. 503 00:19:50,732 --> 00:19:53,485 -Okay. -And then all this storefront. 504 00:19:53,526 --> 00:19:55,195 -Yeah. Cool. -Okay, well, this is 505 00:19:55,236 --> 00:19:57,238 intimidating, but I would love to just do a walk through. 506 00:19:57,280 --> 00:19:58,490 -Yeah. -Check it out, yeah. 507 00:19:58,531 --> 00:19:59,699 Yeah, let's just inspect everything. 508 00:19:59,741 --> 00:20:00,992 All right, I'm around if you need me. 509 00:20:01,034 --> 00:20:02,702 -So nice to meet you. -Okay. Thank you so much. 510 00:20:02,744 --> 00:20:04,120 -Yeah, you, too. -Thank you so much. 511 00:20:04,162 --> 00:20:05,413 BOTH: Thanks, Dave. 512 00:20:05,455 --> 00:20:07,415 -Okay. -So... 513 00:20:07,457 --> 00:20:09,042 Where, like...I am overwhelmed. 514 00:20:09,084 --> 00:20:11,711 -I am, too. I'm like... -[laughs] I don't even know 515 00:20:11,753 --> 00:20:14,631 what to say or do because this is ridiculously huge 516 00:20:14,673 --> 00:20:16,758 and intimidating to me. 517 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:22,138 So...I have the floor plans the architect sent over. 518 00:20:22,180 --> 00:20:23,973 So this is gonna be our front door. 519 00:20:24,015 --> 00:20:26,226 -And this is the view? -Yeah. I know. 520 00:20:26,267 --> 00:20:27,727 That's beautiful. 521 00:20:27,769 --> 00:20:30,230 Even though it's a little bit more of a drive for us, 522 00:20:30,271 --> 00:20:31,773 we will still... 523 00:20:31,815 --> 00:20:33,566 -Visit. -...still come here and, like-- 524 00:20:33,608 --> 00:20:35,485 This is the stepsister of Beauty Lab. 525 00:20:35,527 --> 00:20:36,569 [laughs] I know. 526 00:20:36,611 --> 00:20:38,571 I know. It's like my heart and soul 527 00:20:38,613 --> 00:20:40,407 is at that location. 528 00:20:40,448 --> 00:20:41,741 I know. 529 00:20:41,783 --> 00:20:43,076 The truth is, this is my second chapter, 530 00:20:43,118 --> 00:20:46,246 and I have so many huge, huge projects going on 531 00:20:46,287 --> 00:20:49,499 that I don't feel like I have time for the petty bullsh--. 532 00:20:49,541 --> 00:20:50,458 It's gonna be bigger and more beautiful 533 00:20:50,500 --> 00:20:52,836 and much more grandiose. -It is. 534 00:20:52,877 --> 00:20:54,004 If our friends had seen us five years ago, 535 00:20:54,045 --> 00:20:56,172 would they have predicted this? -No. 536 00:20:56,214 --> 00:20:57,757 I'm not trying to actively have conflict 537 00:20:57,799 --> 00:21:00,927 with any of these women, and yet every time 538 00:21:00,969 --> 00:21:03,596 I try to do something positive or get us together, 539 00:21:03,638 --> 00:21:06,766 they lead with how I've done them wrong. 540 00:21:06,808 --> 00:21:10,103 And I don't know how to fix it with my friends. 541 00:21:10,145 --> 00:21:12,772 What has always worked for me before 542 00:21:12,814 --> 00:21:14,649 doesn't seem to be landing. 543 00:21:14,691 --> 00:21:15,859 I'm so proud of you. I'm proud of us. 544 00:21:15,900 --> 00:21:17,110 I'm proud of you. I'm proud of us. 545 00:21:17,152 --> 00:21:19,904 -I know. -And let's hit our hardhats. 546 00:21:19,946 --> 00:21:21,531 -[laughs] -The hard-headed women. 547 00:21:21,573 --> 00:21:24,576 Coming up... 548 00:21:24,617 --> 00:21:26,286 Which straw breaks the camel's back? 549 00:21:26,327 --> 00:21:29,122 Which insult causes you to say, "I'm tired of it," 550 00:21:29,164 --> 00:21:31,291 and then hurt yourself or do something 551 00:21:31,332 --> 00:21:32,959 that you can't come back from? 552 00:21:39,341 --> 00:21:39,674 *** 553 00:21:43,970 --> 00:21:47,140 Do you know what's so cute? 554 00:21:47,182 --> 00:21:49,809 I took Henry to get, like, treats last night, 555 00:21:49,851 --> 00:21:53,271 and he's like, "Don't get out of the car," 556 00:21:53,313 --> 00:21:54,272 and I'm like, "Okay." 557 00:21:54,314 --> 00:21:56,649 He wanted to open my door for me. 558 00:21:56,691 --> 00:21:58,109 -Hi. How are you today? -Good. 559 00:21:58,151 --> 00:21:59,402 -Do you have reservations? -We do. 560 00:21:59,444 --> 00:22:00,487 -Yeah? -Under Barlow. 561 00:22:00,528 --> 00:22:01,821 -Barlow? Just for two? -Yes, thank you. 562 00:22:01,863 --> 00:22:02,781 -Yes. -Please. 563 00:22:02,822 --> 00:22:09,954 *** 564 00:22:09,996 --> 00:22:11,998 My name's Keo, and I'll be taking care of you two. 565 00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:13,625 -Thank you. -Awesome. 566 00:22:13,667 --> 00:22:15,126 Can I get you going with drinks? 567 00:22:15,168 --> 00:22:17,253 I'm definitely gonna have a Vida cocktail. 568 00:22:17,295 --> 00:22:19,130 I have a lavender one. It's called the Lavende-Vida. 569 00:22:19,172 --> 00:22:20,882 -100%. -Let me do the same one. 570 00:22:20,924 --> 00:22:22,300 -Same thing? -Yeah. 571 00:22:22,342 --> 00:22:23,802 That's, like, my favorite cocktail here. 572 00:22:23,843 --> 00:22:25,220 -Thank you. Thank you. -It's so good. 573 00:22:25,261 --> 00:22:27,472 -It's one of our best sellers. -I love that. [laughs] 574 00:22:27,514 --> 00:22:31,309 I don't think this guy realizes, like, we own Vida Tequila. 575 00:22:31,351 --> 00:22:33,019 Let me try your special. 576 00:22:33,061 --> 00:22:34,729 -The surf and turf. -The surf and turf? 577 00:22:34,771 --> 00:22:37,649 And no, he's not on my payroll. 578 00:22:37,691 --> 00:22:38,983 Thank you. 579 00:22:39,025 --> 00:22:40,568 I love my new bracelet. Thank you. 580 00:22:40,610 --> 00:22:42,070 -Awesome. No, it looks good. -Pretty. 581 00:22:42,112 --> 00:22:45,407 -Looks very pretty. -I love when it's just us! 582 00:22:45,448 --> 00:22:46,491 I know. It's strange. 583 00:22:46,533 --> 00:22:50,203 Um, so I talked to my sister today. 584 00:22:50,245 --> 00:22:51,996 Have you talked to Gina lately? 585 00:22:52,038 --> 00:22:53,206 I haven't. How's she doing? 586 00:22:53,248 --> 00:22:54,499 Like, honestly, it made me cry. 587 00:22:54,541 --> 00:22:58,920 She's like, why are we all, like, divorced 588 00:22:58,962 --> 00:23:02,298 Ooh. I need this. [laughs] 589 00:23:02,340 --> 00:23:04,009 Thank you. 590 00:23:04,050 --> 00:23:05,927 I never really asked, like, how does it affect you? 591 00:23:05,969 --> 00:23:07,387 I've always said, like, 592 00:23:07,429 --> 00:23:09,014 I grew up with a built-in friend group, 593 00:23:09,055 --> 00:23:14,352 and to have them so sad, like, just makes me so sad. 594 00:23:14,394 --> 00:23:17,439 You know, with your sisters, there's no disrespect to them. 595 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,567 As you try and take their emotions and everything 596 00:23:20,608 --> 00:23:23,111 on to yourself, they're gonna let you do it. 597 00:23:23,153 --> 00:23:25,905 -Does that make sense? -Mm-hmm. 598 00:23:25,947 --> 00:23:28,033 'Cause that takes more burden off of them. 599 00:23:28,074 --> 00:23:29,534 Yeah, I do it with my friendships. 600 00:23:29,576 --> 00:23:31,494 -And not--well, not only that. -I do it with my siblings. 601 00:23:31,536 --> 00:23:33,121 I struggled with this. After I got divorced 602 00:23:33,163 --> 00:23:35,206 and I was trying to figure my life out, figure myself out, 603 00:23:35,248 --> 00:23:37,751 you know, I'd read a lot of, kinda, like, healing books, 604 00:23:37,792 --> 00:23:39,544 and it taught me 605 00:23:39,586 --> 00:23:42,339 you're not disliking anybody or not loving them 606 00:23:42,380 --> 00:23:45,216 by not letting them invade your space. 607 00:23:45,258 --> 00:23:50,722 Lisa being there for her sisters takes a toll on us. 608 00:23:50,764 --> 00:23:53,016 Oh, it looks amazing. Thank you. 609 00:23:53,058 --> 00:23:55,101 Maybe it's me being selfish, 610 00:23:55,143 --> 00:23:57,771 but I think there are times where Jack, Henry, and I 611 00:23:57,812 --> 00:24:01,691 all do wish that she could just not answer. [chuckles] 612 00:24:01,733 --> 00:24:04,444 You have to look in the mirror and remind yourself, 613 00:24:04,486 --> 00:24:06,529 "It's okay to do stuff for myself." 614 00:24:06,571 --> 00:24:08,490 I remember going to church and thinking, like, 615 00:24:08,531 --> 00:24:11,951 the one thing that make me feel the best... 616 00:24:11,993 --> 00:24:13,953 [voice breaking] is our, like, relationship with God. 617 00:24:13,995 --> 00:24:15,580 -Mm-hmm. -And, like, I feel like 618 00:24:15,622 --> 00:24:16,915 I've let that go a little bit, 619 00:24:16,956 --> 00:24:20,293 and it gets me emotional 'cause it's so important. 620 00:24:20,335 --> 00:24:22,253 So do you feel you've moved away from something or... 621 00:24:22,295 --> 00:24:24,172 'cause you don't-- -No, I feel like I just-- 622 00:24:24,214 --> 00:24:27,258 -To me, you haven't. -No, I haven't been as, like, 623 00:24:27,300 --> 00:24:30,762 um...solid, like, I think, there, where it's like 624 00:24:30,804 --> 00:24:32,389 I know it's there. -Okay. 625 00:24:32,430 --> 00:24:34,557 So I haven't, like, focused on it as much. 626 00:24:34,599 --> 00:24:38,019 But I feel like for me, like, that's where I feel happiness 627 00:24:38,061 --> 00:24:40,980 and, like, peace. 628 00:24:41,022 --> 00:24:42,649 [voice breaking] I'm very important to God, 629 00:24:42,691 --> 00:24:46,152 and, like...very connected, 630 00:24:46,194 --> 00:24:50,657 and so, like, when I don't feel like I'm in that space, 631 00:24:50,699 --> 00:24:53,451 I don't feel like me. 632 00:24:53,493 --> 00:24:54,953 I like talking to you about this stuff, 633 00:24:54,994 --> 00:24:57,205 and I think it's like a good reset 634 00:24:57,247 --> 00:24:59,624 and reminder, you know? 635 00:24:59,666 --> 00:25:03,378 I'm happy to talk anytime if you're ready to listen. 636 00:25:03,420 --> 00:25:05,255 Oh, my gosh. 637 00:25:05,296 --> 00:25:11,094 *** 638 00:25:13,555 --> 00:25:14,556 I do. 639 00:25:14,597 --> 00:25:17,142 [hoarse voice] Okay, first of all, 640 00:25:17,183 --> 00:25:20,145 I was getting everybody hyped up about the choir audition, 641 00:25:20,186 --> 00:25:21,771 and I have a little cold. 642 00:25:21,813 --> 00:25:23,648 *** 643 00:25:23,690 --> 00:25:26,401 I was in my element, honey. This is what I was born to do. 644 00:25:26,443 --> 00:25:29,029 -For real, though. Honey. -Yeah. 645 00:25:29,070 --> 00:25:30,947 I'm like the Polynesian Ryan Seacrest, 646 00:25:30,989 --> 00:25:32,741 but I'm a girl. 647 00:25:32,782 --> 00:25:35,201 So you are the Regina Seacrest. 648 00:25:36,369 --> 00:25:37,996 That's the female version of Ryan. 649 00:25:38,038 --> 00:25:40,832 Oh. You just made that up. 650 00:25:40,874 --> 00:25:42,250 -Right now. -Okay. 651 00:25:42,292 --> 00:25:43,752 'Cause I mean, that's where we're going, right? 652 00:25:43,793 --> 00:25:45,170 Yes. 653 00:25:45,211 --> 00:25:47,756 And who--who was at the auditions? 654 00:25:47,797 --> 00:25:49,799 And there's some people I knew and some people I didn't know. 655 00:25:49,841 --> 00:25:51,926 -Um... -Did anybody else in the-- 656 00:25:51,968 --> 00:25:54,637 -Lisa was there. -Did Lisa try out? 657 00:25:54,679 --> 00:25:58,016 Lisa tried out. Um, Angie Harrington was there. 658 00:25:58,058 --> 00:25:59,809 *** 659 00:25:59,851 --> 00:26:02,562 Angie K. basically confronted Angie Harrington and said, 660 00:26:02,604 --> 00:26:06,691 "Why would you start a fake IG account called @shahxposed?" 661 00:26:06,733 --> 00:26:08,943 Then she basically was like, "Well, I didn't set it up. 662 00:26:08,985 --> 00:26:10,612 My husband did it." 663 00:26:10,653 --> 00:26:12,113 *** 664 00:26:12,155 --> 00:26:15,200 He did set it up. 665 00:26:15,241 --> 00:26:18,995 It upsets me more than you'll ever know 666 00:26:19,037 --> 00:26:23,833 that a grown man would stoop this low. 667 00:26:23,875 --> 00:26:25,794 You just jump on the bandwagon 668 00:26:25,835 --> 00:26:29,756 and make these horrible character assassination attempts 669 00:26:29,798 --> 00:26:32,300 about you, and he piles it on? 670 00:26:32,342 --> 00:26:33,510 'Cause what these people will never understand 671 00:26:33,551 --> 00:26:37,347 is that which straw breaks the camel's back? 672 00:26:37,389 --> 00:26:40,642 Which insult, which post is the one 673 00:26:40,684 --> 00:26:42,227 that causes you to say, "I'm tired of it" 674 00:26:42,268 --> 00:26:43,687 and then hurt yourself or do something 675 00:26:43,728 --> 00:26:48,066 that you can't come back from? 676 00:26:48,108 --> 00:26:50,527 This is so low. Why would you do that? 677 00:26:50,568 --> 00:26:53,613 What--What--What did-- What did my wife do to you? 678 00:26:53,655 --> 00:26:55,949 You know, what-- what did wedo to you? 679 00:26:55,990 --> 00:26:58,034 This is unbelievably serious to me. 680 00:26:58,076 --> 00:27:00,286 And I have the most forgiving heart. 681 00:27:00,328 --> 00:27:01,996 -I know. -And I can forgive 682 00:27:02,038 --> 00:27:06,042 ifyou take the same measure, take the same measure. 683 00:27:06,084 --> 00:27:10,005 You sought public attention. Take the same public apology. 684 00:27:10,046 --> 00:27:11,840 -I agree. -Take the same public apology. 685 00:27:11,881 --> 00:27:15,635 And keep that apology up for as long as that account was up. 686 00:27:15,677 --> 00:27:18,179 Your actions will speak louder than anything you can tell me. 687 00:27:18,221 --> 00:27:19,472 Anything. 688 00:27:19,514 --> 00:27:21,182 *** 689 00:27:21,224 --> 00:27:25,562 Because of the online bullying, it's been multiple times 690 00:27:25,603 --> 00:27:28,356 I find her laying in the fetal position. 691 00:27:28,398 --> 00:27:31,609 I just don't think she is equipped 692 00:27:31,651 --> 00:27:37,782 to deal with...so much dislike, so much hate. 693 00:27:37,824 --> 00:27:41,578 And then Heather walks out... 694 00:27:41,619 --> 00:27:43,079 During all of this? 695 00:27:43,121 --> 00:27:45,582 ...during this to see what's going on. 696 00:27:45,623 --> 00:27:47,959 Heather's well aware, 'cause she knows. I told her. 697 00:27:48,001 --> 00:27:50,003 Heather walks out, and Heather goes, 698 00:27:50,045 --> 00:27:52,130 "Jen, just forgive them. They said sorry. 699 00:27:52,172 --> 00:27:54,090 Forgive them and move on." 700 00:27:54,132 --> 00:27:57,218 *** 701 00:27:57,260 --> 00:28:00,055 I was so ----ing hurt when she did that. 702 00:28:00,096 --> 00:28:01,514 That was Wednesday. 703 00:28:01,556 --> 00:28:03,600 Thursday, Heather sends me flowers, 704 00:28:03,641 --> 00:28:06,102 and I'm so confused, 'cause I'm like, hold on one second. 705 00:28:06,144 --> 00:28:08,980 If you're sending me flowers, you're telling me you love me, 706 00:28:09,022 --> 00:28:10,565 but how come you couldn't stand up 707 00:28:10,607 --> 00:28:14,736 for what was right and wrong in the moment? 708 00:28:14,778 --> 00:28:17,614 Going forward, you will never suppress how you feel 709 00:28:17,655 --> 00:28:19,783 about the treatment from the people 710 00:28:19,824 --> 00:28:21,785 that they call themselves your friend. 711 00:28:21,826 --> 00:28:23,536 If it's not right and it doesn't feel right, 712 00:28:23,578 --> 00:28:25,330 you're gonna know about it right now. 713 00:28:25,372 --> 00:28:28,083 And if the response doesn't feel good, 714 00:28:28,124 --> 00:28:30,251 and it's not justified in your heart, 715 00:28:30,293 --> 00:28:35,006 then maybe I need to get a new damn friend. 716 00:28:42,514 --> 00:28:47,602 *** 717 00:28:52,315 --> 00:28:54,150 You don't want me to let you win? 718 00:28:54,192 --> 00:28:57,529 *** 719 00:28:57,570 --> 00:28:58,905 Nice. 720 00:29:00,990 --> 00:29:01,950 That's nice. 721 00:29:01,991 --> 00:29:05,245 *** 722 00:29:05,286 --> 00:29:06,621 All right, Brooks, you ready? 723 00:29:06,663 --> 00:29:10,208 *** 724 00:29:10,250 --> 00:29:11,501 Hello! 725 00:29:11,543 --> 00:29:13,628 Hey! 726 00:29:13,670 --> 00:29:15,630 I'm getting schooled in basketball. 727 00:29:15,672 --> 00:29:17,841 -Nice. -Oh, my gosh. You brought... 728 00:29:17,882 --> 00:29:19,259 I brought some scooters in case we wanna... 729 00:29:19,300 --> 00:29:21,845 Oh, amazing. I brought Henry's, too. Hey. 730 00:29:21,886 --> 00:29:23,596 -Hey. -Hey, Brooks. 731 00:29:23,638 --> 00:29:25,348 If you would've told me a year ago 732 00:29:25,390 --> 00:29:28,560 that Lisa and I would be friends, 733 00:29:28,601 --> 00:29:30,520 I would have just laughed at you in the face. 734 00:29:30,562 --> 00:29:32,981 So what are we doing, basketball? 735 00:29:33,023 --> 00:29:35,608 Lisa definitely has, like, a big sister energy, 736 00:29:35,650 --> 00:29:39,237 and that used to trigger me like she was looking down on me. 737 00:29:39,279 --> 00:29:42,991 I feel like we need to style Whitney out a little bit, Mer. 738 00:29:43,033 --> 00:29:44,951 What's wrong with my style? 739 00:29:44,993 --> 00:29:47,078 It's a little Utah. 740 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:50,373 But now I see and understand she actually does care a lot. 741 00:29:50,415 --> 00:29:54,669 It's just sometimes words get in the way of that. 742 00:29:54,711 --> 00:29:57,088 Okay, Henry and Whitney against me and Brooks. 743 00:29:57,130 --> 00:29:59,299 * It's game time, uh-huh * 744 00:29:59,341 --> 00:30:01,676 Stay on him. 745 00:30:01,718 --> 00:30:05,221 [laughs] 746 00:30:05,263 --> 00:30:06,348 -Nice. -Nice. 747 00:30:06,389 --> 00:30:07,724 Okay, Brooks, you got this. 748 00:30:07,766 --> 00:30:08,725 2 points? 749 00:30:08,767 --> 00:30:09,768 *** 750 00:30:09,809 --> 00:30:11,353 Ooh. Nice fake. 751 00:30:11,394 --> 00:30:14,147 *** 752 00:30:14,189 --> 00:30:15,982 Ooh, whoops. That was a little off. 753 00:30:16,024 --> 00:30:17,484 *** 754 00:30:17,525 --> 00:30:19,778 -Nice bounce pass. -Thank you. 755 00:30:19,819 --> 00:30:22,030 Next point wins! 756 00:30:22,072 --> 00:30:27,869 *** 757 00:30:27,911 --> 00:30:29,746 -[bell dings] -Okay, now that's too nice. 758 00:30:29,788 --> 00:30:31,206 -Ha! We won. -They beat us, 759 00:30:31,247 --> 00:30:33,375 but we still rock, right, Brooks? 760 00:30:33,416 --> 00:30:35,543 -Yeah. -Good game, sir. 761 00:30:35,585 --> 00:30:37,587 Good job, little Hen. 762 00:30:37,629 --> 00:30:39,047 You two can keep playing or do whatever you want. 763 00:30:39,089 --> 00:30:43,051 *** 764 00:30:43,093 --> 00:30:45,303 [laughs] 765 00:30:45,345 --> 00:30:47,180 -You have your Diet Coke? -Yeah. 766 00:30:47,222 --> 00:30:50,642 -You wanna sit? -Yeah. 767 00:30:50,684 --> 00:30:52,560 So how's everything going? 768 00:30:52,602 --> 00:30:56,564 Uh...I think it's been nonstop craziness. 769 00:30:56,606 --> 00:31:00,318 But good. Like, overall good, but definitely 770 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,112 in the thick of transition and change. 771 00:31:02,153 --> 00:31:05,615 Is Justin, like, is it sitting in with him right now? 772 00:31:05,657 --> 00:31:08,576 Yeah. He's, like, doing things that normally 773 00:31:08,618 --> 00:31:10,203 he wouldn't have time to do. 774 00:31:10,245 --> 00:31:12,247 -Oh, that's amazing. -Mr. Mom. 775 00:31:12,288 --> 00:31:15,667 -Do color, cold setting. -[machine chimes] 776 00:31:15,709 --> 00:31:16,501 Wow. 777 00:31:16,543 --> 00:31:17,877 Daddy daycare. 778 00:31:17,919 --> 00:31:19,087 No. Stop. Stop. 779 00:31:19,129 --> 00:31:20,088 [children laughing and yelling] 780 00:31:20,130 --> 00:31:21,256 Whoa! 781 00:31:21,297 --> 00:31:23,216 -Daddy carpool. -[laughs] 782 00:31:23,258 --> 00:31:26,678 -Bobbie, we gotta go. -Bye. Bye. 783 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:28,722 And sometimes it doesn't always get done how I want it to, 784 00:31:28,763 --> 00:31:30,598 but it's getting done. -[laughs] 785 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:31,850 And he's just being super supportive of me 786 00:31:31,891 --> 00:31:34,436 going and hustling and working even harder 787 00:31:34,477 --> 00:31:35,770 with Wild Rose Beauty. -Yeah. 788 00:31:35,812 --> 00:31:37,105 But I feel a lot of pressure, 789 00:31:37,147 --> 00:31:38,857 'cause now I'm the sole provider of the family. 790 00:31:38,898 --> 00:31:40,191 Yeah, you're gonna do great, though. 791 00:31:40,233 --> 00:31:41,735 It's hard, like, you know, with the family stuff, 792 00:31:41,776 --> 00:31:44,070 like, I'm feeling it, too. Like, my sister's 793 00:31:44,112 --> 00:31:46,114 in the middle of a divorce, and, like, 794 00:31:46,156 --> 00:31:49,534 I'm just trying to figure out ways to, like, 795 00:31:49,576 --> 00:31:52,579 have empathy but not carry the weight of it. 796 00:31:52,620 --> 00:31:54,622 Yeah, 'cause if you carry around that emotion, 797 00:31:54,664 --> 00:31:57,459 that's what turns into disease. -Yeah. 798 00:31:57,500 --> 00:31:58,877 And that's where we have health problems, 799 00:31:58,918 --> 00:32:02,797 and I really learned that over the last couple months 800 00:32:02,839 --> 00:32:06,009 that I was carrying a lot, a lot from my childhood, a lot-- 801 00:32:06,051 --> 00:32:07,469 How are you letting go of all of it? 802 00:32:07,510 --> 00:32:09,387 Like, what are you doing? 803 00:32:09,429 --> 00:32:10,972 It's a practice. It's something I practice every day. 804 00:32:11,014 --> 00:32:12,599 Mm-hmm. 805 00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:15,894 And just connecting with Curtis, I still talk to him, like, 806 00:32:15,935 --> 00:32:17,562 quite a bit, couple times a week, 807 00:32:17,604 --> 00:32:20,315 especially when I'm feeling like I need encouragement 808 00:32:20,357 --> 00:32:22,233 or I'm feeling, like, weak, 809 00:32:22,275 --> 00:32:25,487 I reach out to Curtis, and he helps keep my mindset strong. 810 00:32:25,528 --> 00:32:26,988 You know it's funny that you brought that up, 811 00:32:27,030 --> 00:32:29,407 because I went to dinner with John this week, 812 00:32:29,449 --> 00:32:31,076 and I wasn't, like, feeling good. 813 00:32:31,117 --> 00:32:33,411 And then I was like, what am I missing? 814 00:32:33,453 --> 00:32:34,829 And, like, it just keeps coming back to me. 815 00:32:34,871 --> 00:32:36,831 It's like, I want a different relationship with God 816 00:32:36,873 --> 00:32:39,668 than I have. 817 00:32:39,709 --> 00:32:41,628 -Like, is that weird? -No. 818 00:32:41,670 --> 00:32:43,755 Even though it's not for me, I have zero hatred 819 00:32:43,797 --> 00:32:45,882 in my heart towards the Church. 820 00:32:45,924 --> 00:32:49,844 I think Lisa is Mormon because she loves God 821 00:32:49,886 --> 00:32:53,181 and she loves the community. Like, good for her. 822 00:32:53,223 --> 00:32:55,350 -Henry, be careful, 'kay? -I know. 823 00:32:55,392 --> 00:32:57,143 'Cause I love you. 824 00:32:57,185 --> 00:33:00,980 Where's Brooks? Oh. So did you feel like 825 00:33:01,022 --> 00:33:02,816 you weren't grounded, you weren't connected? 826 00:33:02,857 --> 00:33:04,859 I think the thing for me is-- 827 00:33:04,901 --> 00:33:07,404 you probably can understand this, too-- 828 00:33:07,445 --> 00:33:10,699 is, like, I was feeling like not me. 829 00:33:10,740 --> 00:33:12,117 -Yeah. -I would normally never put up 830 00:33:12,158 --> 00:33:14,577 with certain things, I'm absorbing too much, 831 00:33:14,619 --> 00:33:16,996 and I just feel like I need a shift. 832 00:33:17,038 --> 00:33:18,707 Like, for example, with Heather, like, 833 00:33:18,748 --> 00:33:21,042 I still choose to be there for Heather. 834 00:33:21,084 --> 00:33:22,627 Like, out of anyone that should not have shown up 835 00:33:22,669 --> 00:33:25,213 for those auditions, it should've been me. Like-- 836 00:33:25,255 --> 00:33:26,756 Yeah, that was a bold move. 837 00:33:26,798 --> 00:33:29,884 And Heather used something so sensitive to disparage 838 00:33:29,926 --> 00:33:33,513 my name and character, and that bothers me. 839 00:33:33,555 --> 00:33:36,391 Like, if you didn't use your dad to lie about me, 840 00:33:36,433 --> 00:33:40,061 I would not have ever used your dad to tell the truth about me, 841 00:33:40,103 --> 00:33:42,105 and her dad should have been off-limits for her. 842 00:33:42,147 --> 00:33:46,067 But I have done nothing to not merit being friends with. 843 00:33:46,109 --> 00:33:48,445 I have done nothing for anyone to say 844 00:33:48,486 --> 00:33:50,739 in the most ridiculous, childish way, 845 00:33:50,780 --> 00:33:52,574 "Who doesn't wanna be friends with Lisa?" 846 00:33:52,615 --> 00:33:54,367 *** 847 00:33:54,409 --> 00:33:57,829 Who's not my friend here? Raise your hand. 848 00:33:57,871 --> 00:34:00,457 I'm embarrassed for the people that raised their hands. 849 00:34:00,498 --> 00:34:02,959 I deserve better than this. 850 00:34:03,001 --> 00:34:05,795 You know, I have no problem keeping people in check. 851 00:34:05,837 --> 00:34:08,882 I've tried to have productive conversations with Heather. 852 00:34:08,923 --> 00:34:09,966 They just don't always go well. 853 00:34:10,008 --> 00:34:11,843 Like, Heather has zero accountability, 854 00:34:11,885 --> 00:34:15,972 and she creates a narrative, and if you disagree with it, 855 00:34:16,014 --> 00:34:17,474 she cuts you off. 856 00:34:17,515 --> 00:34:19,726 I feel like you and I have 857 00:34:19,768 --> 00:34:21,770 a lot more in common than we realize. 858 00:34:21,811 --> 00:34:23,396 -Yeah. -'Cause in different ways, 859 00:34:23,438 --> 00:34:25,190 we do take on things... -Yeah. 860 00:34:25,231 --> 00:34:26,775 ...that we shouldn't because what I'm learning, 861 00:34:26,816 --> 00:34:28,777 and, like, I'm hearing you right now, 862 00:34:28,818 --> 00:34:29,903 it's like you can be a good friend 863 00:34:29,944 --> 00:34:32,280 and be supportive but not take it on. 864 00:34:32,322 --> 00:34:34,074 Yeah. Take it on or take abuse. 865 00:34:34,115 --> 00:34:35,700 -But that's a boundary. -Yeah. Yep. 866 00:34:35,742 --> 00:34:37,202 'Cause I-I love Heather, and ultimately, 867 00:34:37,243 --> 00:34:40,580 like, I would love to maintain my friendship with her 868 00:34:40,622 --> 00:34:44,125 at the level, but this situation with her 869 00:34:44,167 --> 00:34:46,086 has been really difficult for me to navigate. 870 00:34:46,127 --> 00:34:48,797 -And which part? -We were such good friends. 871 00:34:48,838 --> 00:34:52,050 We talked every day. Like, we were so close. 872 00:34:52,092 --> 00:34:53,343 I hate being 873 00:34:53,385 --> 00:34:55,261 in this uncomfortable gray area with Heather. 874 00:34:55,303 --> 00:35:00,350 I really wish that we could just, like, work through this. 875 00:35:00,392 --> 00:35:03,645 Because I value her friendship, 876 00:35:03,687 --> 00:35:05,313 but maybe I should just ----ing believe her. 877 00:35:05,355 --> 00:35:06,815 Like, I lost her forever. 878 00:35:06,856 --> 00:35:08,650 It's just hard because 879 00:35:08,692 --> 00:35:10,944 I'm trying my best to not be a people pleaser 880 00:35:10,985 --> 00:35:13,363 and just go along to get along. -Mm-hmm. 881 00:35:13,405 --> 00:35:14,823 But everything with Justin 882 00:35:14,864 --> 00:35:17,534 parting ways with his former employer, 883 00:35:17,575 --> 00:35:18,993 like, she didn't call me. -Oh, wow. 884 00:35:19,035 --> 00:35:20,829 She--Like, there's been space, 885 00:35:20,870 --> 00:35:22,997 and I haven't really understood why. 886 00:35:23,039 --> 00:35:24,708 This is new to me, and I don't know how to feel about it. 887 00:35:24,749 --> 00:35:26,376 -Like, it's uncomfortable. -Well... 888 00:35:26,418 --> 00:35:28,670 It's the first time we've been in this situation. 889 00:35:28,712 --> 00:35:31,548 Welcome to my world for three years. 890 00:35:33,383 --> 00:35:34,634 Coming up... 891 00:35:34,676 --> 00:35:36,052 -No. -So anytime I bring up Lisa, 892 00:35:36,094 --> 00:35:37,846 it's like I'm having Lisa's back. 893 00:35:37,887 --> 00:35:40,515 I'm trying to understand what the lie was, Heather. 894 00:35:49,482 --> 00:36:08,835 *** 895 00:36:14,591 --> 00:36:18,636 -Hello. -Come in. 896 00:36:18,678 --> 00:36:21,639 [chuckles] I'm so glad you're here. 897 00:36:21,681 --> 00:36:24,351 How are you? I'm dying. 898 00:36:24,392 --> 00:36:28,730 I'm, like, overwhelmed by life, kids, 899 00:36:28,772 --> 00:36:32,067 friends, and just in the-- in the meantime, 900 00:36:32,108 --> 00:36:35,195 I'm trying to run Beauty Lab and write this book. 901 00:36:35,236 --> 00:36:36,529 -Can I get a water? -Yes. 902 00:36:36,571 --> 00:36:38,448 I know that Whitney and I aren't perfect right now, 903 00:36:38,490 --> 00:36:40,492 but she really showed up for me at auditions, 904 00:36:40,533 --> 00:36:42,744 and I haven't really been able to talk to her since then, 905 00:36:42,786 --> 00:36:44,871 when everything came to pieces. 906 00:36:44,913 --> 00:36:46,998 So I miss Bad Weather. 907 00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:48,958 It's been clear skies for far too long. 908 00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:51,002 It's time for a tornado. 909 00:36:51,044 --> 00:36:52,921 Look at our matching rings. 910 00:36:52,962 --> 00:36:54,798 It's stardust. It's like being part of... 911 00:36:54,839 --> 00:36:56,800 * Stardust * 912 00:36:56,841 --> 00:36:58,385 Um, I want you to know something. 913 00:36:58,426 --> 00:37:00,011 I'm not here to fight with you. I'm just here to be real. 914 00:37:00,053 --> 00:37:01,554 Like, we're friends, 915 00:37:01,596 --> 00:37:05,016 and we can talk through hard things, right? 916 00:37:05,058 --> 00:37:07,852 -Absolutely. -And I would not... 917 00:37:07,894 --> 00:37:10,397 be here if I didn't care. In fact, on the way over, 918 00:37:10,438 --> 00:37:13,566 I was kinda, like, "Why am I chasing Heather down?" 919 00:37:13,608 --> 00:37:16,069 -It's like, why, like, I-- -I thought we were 920 00:37:16,111 --> 00:37:18,405 in this absolutely together. I don't think you coming over... 921 00:37:18,446 --> 00:37:20,115 -But--But... -...is chasing me down. 922 00:37:20,156 --> 00:37:21,491 -Like, I have... -Hear me out 923 00:37:21,533 --> 00:37:24,411 why I feel that way. It's because since Phoenix, 924 00:37:24,452 --> 00:37:28,873 I've just had so many big things in my life happen, 925 00:37:28,915 --> 00:37:31,459 like, discovering that I am 926 00:37:31,501 --> 00:37:35,380 traumatized by abuse I experienced as a child. 927 00:37:35,422 --> 00:37:37,507 I am trying desperately to be there for you. 928 00:37:37,549 --> 00:37:40,510 I know that I did a lot of things wrong in Arizona. 929 00:37:40,552 --> 00:37:42,846 But, like, more sh-- has happened since then. 930 00:37:42,887 --> 00:37:46,099 Like, like, when Justin was fired, 931 00:37:46,141 --> 00:37:47,726 like, you didn't call me. 932 00:37:47,767 --> 00:37:50,186 *** 933 00:37:50,228 --> 00:37:54,315 I didn't know Justin was fired. 934 00:37:54,357 --> 00:37:56,735 I had no idea. 935 00:37:56,776 --> 00:37:59,946 I've wanted to, like, pick up the phone and call you, 936 00:37:59,988 --> 00:38:01,489 but there has been a disconnect. 937 00:38:01,531 --> 00:38:04,117 There has been space that we haven't had before. 938 00:38:04,159 --> 00:38:10,123 Do I think it's stemming from, um, the girls' trip? Yeah. 939 00:38:10,165 --> 00:38:12,751 I don't think you understand where I was at 940 00:38:12,792 --> 00:38:14,252 in my life at that point in time 941 00:38:14,294 --> 00:38:16,671 and how devastating it was to me 942 00:38:16,713 --> 00:38:18,590 and how much it hurt me. 943 00:38:18,631 --> 00:38:21,593 See, that makes me feel confused, actually. 944 00:38:21,634 --> 00:38:23,094 Because you had a dance routine. 945 00:38:23,136 --> 00:38:24,637 Like, that's someone that loves me, 946 00:38:24,679 --> 00:38:27,932 that doesn't feel distance, that is my friend, 947 00:38:27,974 --> 00:38:30,268 and that doesn't say, "I couldn't even tell you 948 00:38:30,310 --> 00:38:32,228 my husband lost his job because you've been so sh--ty." 949 00:38:32,270 --> 00:38:36,483 Yeah, but you had an event. I showed up in support for you. 950 00:38:36,524 --> 00:38:37,901 -And I'm coming to tell you-- -And you've been harboring pain 951 00:38:37,942 --> 00:38:39,736 this whole time-- -I'm not harboring. 952 00:38:39,778 --> 00:38:43,114 I'm just--I'm calling out the awkwardness. 953 00:38:45,325 --> 00:38:47,994 I'm glad I had an event that you could show up for 954 00:38:48,036 --> 00:38:50,413 and, like, be a hero, and I am the asshole 955 00:38:50,455 --> 00:38:52,957 that has ignored you for two weeks. 956 00:38:52,999 --> 00:38:55,126 It's not like that, Heather. 957 00:38:56,753 --> 00:39:00,298 This reaction is the reason that I have been waiting 958 00:39:00,340 --> 00:39:02,509 to have this conversation with Heather. 959 00:39:02,550 --> 00:39:06,805 When things get hard or get a little bit uncomfortable, 960 00:39:06,846 --> 00:39:08,765 she shuts down and stops listening 961 00:39:08,807 --> 00:39:12,018 and stops hearing what I'm saying. 962 00:39:12,060 --> 00:39:14,270 It's hard for Lisa to let things go, too. 963 00:39:14,312 --> 00:39:16,272 We were both making progress with Lisa, 964 00:39:16,314 --> 00:39:19,192 and now I feel like, well, sh--, 965 00:39:19,234 --> 00:39:20,860 like how--how is this gonna work for me? 966 00:39:20,902 --> 00:39:24,280 You feel like you're stuck in between loyalty to Lisa or me? 967 00:39:24,322 --> 00:39:27,784 No. 'Cause the whole Twitter thing came out of nowhere, 968 00:39:27,826 --> 00:39:30,161 and I was upset with her about that, too. 969 00:39:30,203 --> 00:39:31,705 -No-- -But she also felt like 970 00:39:31,746 --> 00:39:34,666 she was defending herself. 971 00:39:34,708 --> 00:39:38,461 And I can't argue that. We're not hearing Lisa's side of it. 972 00:39:38,503 --> 00:39:39,963 Yeah, we're not, Whitney, because-- 973 00:39:40,005 --> 00:39:41,423 Like, she's being accused of being a liar. 974 00:39:41,464 --> 00:39:44,426 She is a liar. She wasn't there for me when my dad died, 975 00:39:44,467 --> 00:39:46,344 and I love that you're bringing up how right she was 976 00:39:46,386 --> 00:39:47,679 with the way she hurt me. -That's not what I'm doing. 977 00:39:47,721 --> 00:39:49,014 -I'm trying to understand-- -Listen to me. 978 00:39:49,055 --> 00:39:51,349 Listen to myfeelings. 979 00:39:51,391 --> 00:39:53,059 Even though I'm good with my words, 980 00:39:53,101 --> 00:39:56,563 I also have feelings that I would like to be heard. 981 00:39:56,604 --> 00:39:59,441 You wanna walk in and be like, "Not only are you a bad friend, 982 00:39:59,482 --> 00:40:01,234 but you also have completely ignored me 983 00:40:01,276 --> 00:40:04,863 in a huge crisis," which is unfair and untrue. 984 00:40:04,904 --> 00:40:08,908 And that crushes me that you would take this opportunity 985 00:40:08,950 --> 00:40:10,952 to exploit me like that. So... 986 00:40:10,994 --> 00:40:12,537 No, I'm not exploiting you, Heather. I'm not exploiting you. 987 00:40:12,579 --> 00:40:13,997 And make it look like I have been a bad friend to you 988 00:40:14,039 --> 00:40:15,707 and I have ignored you, and I've not been there for you. 989 00:40:15,749 --> 00:40:17,208 How did you not know--But let's take it another step back. 990 00:40:17,250 --> 00:40:18,710 Because I didn't find out on social media that J-- 991 00:40:18,752 --> 00:40:19,794 How did you not know that I was going through all this? 992 00:40:19,836 --> 00:40:21,046 That right there is the dinger. 993 00:40:21,087 --> 00:40:22,672 If you want me to know something, 994 00:40:22,714 --> 00:40:24,090 and it's painful and hurtful 995 00:40:24,132 --> 00:40:26,217 that I'm not responsive, tell me! 996 00:40:26,259 --> 00:40:29,679 I'm in trouble for a rumor I never heard. 997 00:40:29,721 --> 00:40:32,057 I'm in trouble for a horrible event in your life 998 00:40:32,098 --> 00:40:33,850 that I didn't know about. 999 00:40:33,892 --> 00:40:37,228 I'm sorry that I am not well versed in the gossip mill 1000 00:40:37,270 --> 00:40:40,106 and that Lisa's not calling me to tell me all this sh-- 1001 00:40:40,148 --> 00:40:41,941 that goes wrong in your life every single day. 1002 00:40:41,983 --> 00:40:44,903 Okay? I don't wanna sit here with you, 1003 00:40:44,944 --> 00:40:47,280 my best friend and cousin, 1004 00:40:47,322 --> 00:40:50,533 and have you sit on my couch and explain to me 1005 00:40:50,575 --> 00:40:53,703 how I shouldn't be hurt by what Lisa did. 1006 00:40:53,745 --> 00:40:55,705 -It should be very clear to you. -This is a conversation. 1007 00:40:55,747 --> 00:40:58,583 And the fact that you want to talk it out 1008 00:40:58,625 --> 00:41:00,418 and represent for her is deeply offensive to me. 1009 00:41:00,460 --> 00:41:02,420 I'm not representing for anyone but myself. 1010 00:41:02,462 --> 00:41:04,214 I'm having a conversation with you. 1011 00:41:04,255 --> 00:41:05,840 Well, you know what? You're repping for yourself. 1012 00:41:05,882 --> 00:41:07,425 You're not repping for me. 1013 00:41:07,467 --> 00:41:10,553 How did we get here? Because the Whitney that I remember 1014 00:41:10,595 --> 00:41:13,098 and the Whitney that I love would just sit here 1015 00:41:13,139 --> 00:41:15,684 and help me process everything I'm feeling. 1016 00:41:15,725 --> 00:41:19,938 She wouldn't school me on Lisa's rights to tweet. 1017 00:41:19,979 --> 00:41:22,774 Anytime I bring up Lisa, it's like I'm having Lisa's back. 1018 00:41:22,816 --> 00:41:25,527 I'm trying to understand what the lie was, Heather. 1019 00:41:25,568 --> 00:41:27,696 What the--I don't know what-- why this conversation 1020 00:41:27,737 --> 00:41:29,280 is worth the lie. -I think she keeps saying-- 1021 00:41:29,322 --> 00:41:30,949 because that's what the whole tweet was about. 1022 00:41:30,990 --> 00:41:33,284 The lie was when I said to her in L.A., 1023 00:41:33,326 --> 00:41:37,122 "My dad died, and you texted me two days later," 1024 00:41:37,163 --> 00:41:39,165 And that was a lie. 1025 00:41:39,207 --> 00:41:41,418 I don't know what is going on in Heather's life, 1026 00:41:41,459 --> 00:41:44,421 but clearly, something big is going on 1027 00:41:44,462 --> 00:41:46,464 because I do not recognize Heather. 1028 00:41:46,506 --> 00:41:49,884 I am so tired. I'm done. Thanks for coming. 1029 00:41:49,926 --> 00:41:52,220 [sighs] 1030 00:41:52,262 --> 00:41:54,347 -Heather, it's not a game, babe. -I just get the-- 1031 00:41:54,389 --> 00:41:55,515 -I honestly, like-- -It's not a game. 1032 00:41:55,557 --> 00:41:58,018 -It's not, like-- -I know. It's not a game. 1033 00:41:58,059 --> 00:41:59,686 I am done. I've done my job today. 1034 00:41:59,728 --> 00:42:02,480 I'm trying to navigate the situation. 1035 00:42:04,149 --> 00:42:05,483 [door slams] 1036 00:42:05,525 --> 00:42:08,987 *** 1037 00:42:09,029 --> 00:42:12,741 Next time on "The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City"... 1038 00:42:12,782 --> 00:42:14,659 We're skiing! [laughs] 1039 00:42:14,701 --> 00:42:17,495 I think I'm going too fast! Big turn! 1040 00:42:17,537 --> 00:42:19,330 [screaming] 1041 00:42:19,372 --> 00:42:22,876 * God be with you till we meet again * 1042 00:42:22,917 --> 00:42:27,672 I'm not sure how to resolve this. 1043 00:42:27,714 --> 00:42:29,382 I don't want a friendship based on lies. 1044 00:42:29,424 --> 00:42:31,676 Heather, I just think, like, do you like me? 1045 00:42:33,053 --> 00:42:36,931 Danna brought up the situation at the choir audition, 1046 00:42:36,973 --> 00:42:41,644 saying, "Well, what was that all about with Jen bullying Angie?" 1047 00:42:41,686 --> 00:42:43,313 *** 1048 00:42:43,355 --> 00:42:45,231 [singsongy] Hello! 1049 00:42:45,273 --> 00:42:48,193 We're calling to invite you to... 1050 00:42:48,234 --> 00:42:51,154 BOTH: San Diego! 1051 00:42:51,196 --> 00:42:54,074 -Look who I have here. -Hi, guys. 1052 00:42:54,115 --> 00:42:55,742 Danna, I would invite you, except I heard 1053 00:42:55,784 --> 00:42:57,202 you were talking sh--, girl. 1054 00:42:57,243 --> 00:42:58,870 I don't tolerate stuff like that. 1055 00:42:58,912 --> 00:42:59,871 Danna, we're done. 1056 00:42:59,913 --> 00:43:02,415 Listen for a sec. 1057 00:43:02,457 --> 00:43:04,376 -I'm not gonna perpetuate this! -Jen. 1058 00:43:04,417 --> 00:43:06,211 Jen, she doesn't matter. [bleep] her. 1059 00:43:06,252 --> 00:43:07,712 Nobody cares what she says. 1060 00:43:07,754 --> 00:43:10,465 ***