1 00:00:02,252 --> 00:00:05,296 Previously on "The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City"... 2 00:00:06,172 --> 00:00:07,590 Opening Ceremonies, bitches. 3 00:00:07,632 --> 00:00:09,217 How do I turn? 4 00:00:09,259 --> 00:00:10,802 LISA: Big bitch energy. Come on. Let's go. 5 00:00:10,844 --> 00:00:12,637 Aah! 6 00:00:12,679 --> 00:00:14,639 This kind of isn't my thing. 7 00:00:14,681 --> 00:00:17,517 We tell people we're having a week of auditions 8 00:00:17,559 --> 00:00:19,644 and then a week for us to cobble together our choir. 9 00:00:19,686 --> 00:00:22,230 This is something I want to create. 10 00:00:22,272 --> 00:00:26,067 I'm missing feeling, you know, the presence of God in my life. 11 00:00:26,109 --> 00:00:28,361 Chris got really frustrated because he felt like 12 00:00:28,403 --> 00:00:30,822 I was being attacked in the media. 13 00:00:30,864 --> 00:00:32,449 Please judge me later, but... 14 00:00:32,490 --> 00:00:34,325 I created a fake account. 15 00:00:35,577 --> 00:00:37,454 You need to take some accountability 16 00:00:37,495 --> 00:00:39,122 because he did it. -Why? Why? 17 00:00:39,164 --> 00:00:41,583 -Because that's your husband! -I agree. Talk to him. 18 00:00:41,624 --> 00:00:43,209 Oh, my gosh! 19 00:00:43,251 --> 00:00:44,878 You said you're my friend. You cared about me. 20 00:00:44,919 --> 00:00:46,379 And then you went on social media 21 00:00:46,421 --> 00:00:49,090 and showed exactly the opposite, so you were fake. 22 00:00:49,132 --> 00:00:50,342 I told the truth. If you don't like the truth... 23 00:00:50,383 --> 00:00:51,801 Moving forward, moving forward-- 24 00:00:51,843 --> 00:00:53,261 ...don't ask for it! 25 00:00:55,138 --> 00:00:57,098 *** 26 00:00:57,140 --> 00:01:00,143 JEN: I'm fighting for my life, not your approval. 27 00:01:00,185 --> 00:01:02,103 *** 28 00:01:02,145 --> 00:01:03,646 WHITNEY: I am more of a free spirit 29 00:01:03,688 --> 00:01:05,774 without the Holy Spirit. 30 00:01:05,815 --> 00:01:08,234 *** 31 00:01:08,276 --> 00:01:09,903 LISA: I'll always have your back 32 00:01:09,944 --> 00:01:13,114 if you stop stabbing me in mine. 33 00:01:13,156 --> 00:01:16,534 MEREDITH: When I take a shot, I always hit my mark. 34 00:01:16,576 --> 00:01:18,411 *** 35 00:01:18,453 --> 00:01:20,455 HEATHER: I may be a bad Mormon, 36 00:01:20,497 --> 00:01:23,291 but I'll always be a good time. 37 00:01:27,295 --> 00:01:33,760 *** 38 00:01:33,802 --> 00:01:36,429 What's up, guys? 39 00:01:36,471 --> 00:01:38,473 -Hey, Jack. -What are you guys doing? 40 00:01:38,515 --> 00:01:39,933 Origami. 41 00:01:39,974 --> 00:01:41,768 JOHN: Are you guys gonna be hungry soon? 42 00:01:41,810 --> 00:01:43,812 -I'll start getting stuff ready. -I'm hungry. 43 00:01:43,853 --> 00:01:45,438 I'm always hungry, though. 44 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:47,565 -What are you guys making? -I don't know. 45 00:01:47,607 --> 00:01:50,360 But Henry's good at telling me I suck at it. 46 00:01:50,402 --> 00:01:52,237 Oh. 47 00:01:52,278 --> 00:01:55,407 Oh, you got new scriptures. 48 00:01:55,448 --> 00:01:57,617 Those have your name on 'em, too. Did you see? 49 00:01:57,659 --> 00:01:59,661 Oh. I'll do a piece. I'll do a piece. 50 00:01:59,703 --> 00:02:01,454 Okay. We gotta ease into it, but I wanna give back 51 00:02:01,496 --> 00:02:05,750 to, like, where we're doing, like, scripture study, 52 00:02:05,792 --> 00:02:08,628 Bible study together at least once a week. 53 00:02:08,670 --> 00:02:10,880 You know, Heather? I auditioned for Heather's choir 54 00:02:10,922 --> 00:02:14,843 'cause that's her way of feeling connected to church still. 55 00:02:14,884 --> 00:02:17,220 Because that's, like, something she enjoyed with it. 56 00:02:17,262 --> 00:02:19,681 By watching her, like, I feel like more compelled 57 00:02:19,723 --> 00:02:24,185 to gravitate the other way because it makes me miss 58 00:02:24,227 --> 00:02:26,771 some of the things I've felt more connected to. 59 00:02:26,813 --> 00:02:28,815 You know, I'm not super proud of, like, the example I've set 60 00:02:28,857 --> 00:02:30,567 for Jack and Henry. 61 00:02:30,608 --> 00:02:32,360 Like, I know I'm spiritual, but I think it's important 62 00:02:32,402 --> 00:02:34,779 that my kids see me make the efforts 63 00:02:34,821 --> 00:02:37,323 to get up and go to church with them on Sunday. 64 00:02:37,365 --> 00:02:39,451 Like, it's course correction for me. 65 00:02:39,492 --> 00:02:40,827 And I think this is my way of acknowledging 66 00:02:40,869 --> 00:02:42,454 that, like, I messed up. 67 00:02:42,495 --> 00:02:43,747 I think the great thing about religion 68 00:02:43,788 --> 00:02:45,331 is everyone can do it a different way. 69 00:02:45,373 --> 00:02:46,624 There isn't one set way to do it. 70 00:02:46,666 --> 00:02:48,209 -Yeah. Exactly. -Yeah, well, and that's what 71 00:02:48,251 --> 00:02:50,587 your mom always says. -Like, the world is crazy. 72 00:02:50,628 --> 00:02:54,507 You guys have to have like a really good core. 73 00:02:54,549 --> 00:02:56,843 And I think if your core's focused on God, 74 00:02:56,885 --> 00:02:58,678 your life will be a little easier. 75 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:01,931 I actually think meditation is a way of praying, 76 00:03:01,973 --> 00:03:04,267 and, you know, don't necessarily have to be 77 00:03:04,309 --> 00:03:07,687 saying words or speaking words in your mind 78 00:03:07,729 --> 00:03:09,606 or, you know, verbally. 79 00:03:09,647 --> 00:03:11,232 Like, what Jack's doing right now. 80 00:03:11,274 --> 00:03:15,236 Mm-hmm. Yeah. Jack dreaming of-- 81 00:03:15,278 --> 00:03:16,696 Jack's just daydreaming about women. 82 00:03:16,738 --> 00:03:17,947 [laughter] 83 00:03:17,989 --> 00:03:19,616 -Yeah, probably. -It's not wrong. 84 00:03:19,657 --> 00:03:21,493 Prob--Probably very true. 85 00:03:22,744 --> 00:03:32,796 *** 86 00:03:32,837 --> 00:03:39,427 *** 87 00:03:39,469 --> 00:03:41,388 Hey, Whitney. 88 00:03:41,429 --> 00:03:43,390 Are you ready to do this? 89 00:03:43,431 --> 00:03:45,266 Are youready? 90 00:03:45,308 --> 00:03:47,394 I'm gonna be, like, on the bunny hill. 91 00:03:47,435 --> 00:03:48,895 -You gonna hang with me? -No, I'm taking you up, girl. 92 00:03:48,937 --> 00:03:51,564 Oh, I can see Jen. 93 00:03:51,606 --> 00:03:53,733 I'm gonna blend in. 94 00:03:53,775 --> 00:03:54,901 Look at you. 95 00:03:54,943 --> 00:03:56,903 Oh, my gosh. I love your braids. 96 00:03:56,945 --> 00:03:58,905 -Hi. -Of course you did that. 97 00:03:58,947 --> 00:04:00,532 -Ready? -Yeah, let's go. 98 00:04:00,573 --> 00:04:02,951 *** 99 00:04:02,992 --> 00:04:05,704 -JEN: So pretty up here. -Thanks for coming with me. 100 00:04:05,745 --> 00:04:07,706 -Thanks for inviting us. -LISA: I know. 101 00:04:07,747 --> 00:04:09,833 Wait. So are we going down that hill? 102 00:04:09,874 --> 00:04:12,419 No, we're going higher than that. 103 00:04:12,460 --> 00:04:14,629 -Yeah, we're going to the top. -Oh, my gosh. 104 00:04:16,840 --> 00:04:19,050 We live in Utah. 105 00:04:19,092 --> 00:04:21,845 Utah is known for having some of the best snow in the world. 106 00:04:21,886 --> 00:04:24,347 The slopes are right in our backyard. 107 00:04:24,389 --> 00:04:27,642 So it is time that Jen and Lisa really step up their game 108 00:04:27,684 --> 00:04:30,395 and stop ----ing around on the bunny hill. 109 00:04:30,437 --> 00:04:32,856 We'll see. It's not-- it seems intimidating, 110 00:04:32,897 --> 00:04:34,524 but you can take any way down. 111 00:04:34,566 --> 00:04:36,735 -Like the gondola down? -[laughter] 112 00:04:36,776 --> 00:04:38,028 Nope. You are going down on your sticks. 113 00:04:38,069 --> 00:04:39,696 See you at the bottom. 114 00:04:39,738 --> 00:04:43,408 There's no more little girls around here, okay? 115 00:04:43,450 --> 00:04:45,326 We're going to the big girl hill. 116 00:04:45,368 --> 00:04:47,954 *** 117 00:04:47,996 --> 00:04:51,332 Wait. I need to warm up first. Okay, I'm warming up. 118 00:04:51,374 --> 00:04:53,877 Whoo! We're skiing! 119 00:04:53,918 --> 00:04:55,462 We're skiing! 120 00:04:55,503 --> 00:04:56,713 I just don't wanna cut anybody off. 121 00:04:56,755 --> 00:04:59,424 I think I'm going too fast and so big turns! 122 00:04:59,466 --> 00:05:00,925 [laughter] 123 00:05:00,967 --> 00:05:05,055 *** 124 00:05:05,096 --> 00:05:07,682 -Whoo! -Yeah! 125 00:05:07,724 --> 00:05:09,476 -Party on the mountain. -Yes! 126 00:05:09,517 --> 00:05:11,770 You're so good. 127 00:05:11,811 --> 00:05:17,108 *** 128 00:05:17,150 --> 00:05:19,486 You know, the last few years, 129 00:05:19,527 --> 00:05:22,447 my skiing skills have vastly improved. 130 00:05:22,489 --> 00:05:23,990 They've gotten a lot better. 131 00:05:24,032 --> 00:05:27,660 I attribute that to hard work, dedication, 132 00:05:27,702 --> 00:05:31,456 and taking my anti-anxiety pills. 133 00:05:31,498 --> 00:05:33,458 That's the winning combination. 134 00:05:33,500 --> 00:05:34,125 *** 135 00:05:34,167 --> 00:05:38,838 [screaming] 136 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:44,969 *** 137 00:05:45,011 --> 00:05:48,390 Has anybody seen my goggles? 138 00:05:48,431 --> 00:05:50,767 -They're on your arm. -Oh, thank you. 139 00:05:50,809 --> 00:05:53,520 [laughter] 140 00:05:53,561 --> 00:05:55,480 I need a mirror. 141 00:05:55,522 --> 00:05:57,857 Here. Are my glasses reflective? 142 00:05:57,899 --> 00:06:00,819 How did your audition go? 143 00:06:00,860 --> 00:06:02,946 -Well, apparently I made it. -So did I. 144 00:06:02,987 --> 00:06:04,864 Honestly, Lisa, like, 145 00:06:04,906 --> 00:06:07,909 you were one of the very best singers of the day. 146 00:06:07,951 --> 00:06:11,996 I would love if you would be willing to sing soprano 147 00:06:12,038 --> 00:06:14,582 in this little choir. 148 00:06:14,624 --> 00:06:16,001 Um... 149 00:06:16,042 --> 00:06:18,211 *** 150 00:06:18,253 --> 00:06:20,213 The last time I saw her, she, like, 151 00:06:20,255 --> 00:06:22,215 physically escorted me from her house. 152 00:06:22,257 --> 00:06:23,675 *** 153 00:06:23,717 --> 00:06:27,721 With the Lisa stuff, um, her tweet, 154 00:06:27,762 --> 00:06:29,723 I challenged Heather. 155 00:06:29,764 --> 00:06:32,100 I said, "Well, have you even considered Lisa's side of it?" 156 00:06:32,142 --> 00:06:34,644 And she physically, like, grabs me, turns me around, 157 00:06:34,686 --> 00:06:36,646 and pushes me to her front door. 158 00:06:36,688 --> 00:06:37,897 I am done. I've done my job today. 159 00:06:37,939 --> 00:06:39,816 ...trying to navigate the situation. 160 00:06:39,858 --> 00:06:41,234 And, like, thanks to everyone for being here. Goodbye. 161 00:06:41,276 --> 00:06:42,736 [door slams] 162 00:06:42,777 --> 00:06:44,779 Is that unreal? Like... 163 00:06:44,821 --> 00:06:48,783 I'm surprised Whitney defended Lisa to Heather. 164 00:06:48,825 --> 00:06:51,786 But I find her reaction 165 00:06:51,828 --> 00:06:53,538 completely out of character for her. 166 00:06:53,580 --> 00:06:56,082 This does not sound like the Heather I know, 167 00:06:56,124 --> 00:06:57,042 where I'm wondering, like, what-- 168 00:06:57,083 --> 00:06:59,085 what's going on with Heather? 169 00:06:59,127 --> 00:07:02,964 All of this stuff is a house of cards built on lies, 170 00:07:03,006 --> 00:07:05,258 and if one of those cards moves, it's all gonna crumble. 171 00:07:05,300 --> 00:07:06,509 That's why she's, like, upset with you, upset with you, 172 00:07:06,551 --> 00:07:08,803 and upset with me because we're, like, saying, 173 00:07:08,845 --> 00:07:10,263 "Hey, that's not the truth." 174 00:07:10,305 --> 00:07:14,267 I talked to her about what Chris and--had done, and Angie, 175 00:07:14,309 --> 00:07:16,978 and she was genuinely upset by it. 176 00:07:17,020 --> 00:07:18,980 That's how she received information. 177 00:07:19,022 --> 00:07:20,732 -In the moment, she was upset. -In the moment. 178 00:07:20,774 --> 00:07:25,028 And I'm like, so confused 'cause we go to the audition. 179 00:07:25,070 --> 00:07:26,613 Now why don't you say anything... 180 00:07:26,654 --> 00:07:27,947 -LISA: Yeah. -...to Angie Harrington? 181 00:07:27,989 --> 00:07:29,908 I feel like whenever we're in a group setting, 182 00:07:29,949 --> 00:07:32,160 Heather just kinda sets--sits-- steps back. 183 00:07:32,202 --> 00:07:33,995 I keep showing up for Heather, I feel, 184 00:07:34,037 --> 00:07:36,122 and it's kind of like a pathetic feeling. 185 00:07:36,164 --> 00:07:37,916 I feel like I chase her down. 186 00:07:37,957 --> 00:07:41,044 Like, I feel like I'm always constantly the one that's like, 187 00:07:41,086 --> 00:07:44,255 "Are we good?" Like, "Hey, I just shared with you 188 00:07:44,297 --> 00:07:47,175 that I've had all this trauma that I'm working through, 189 00:07:47,217 --> 00:07:49,761 and I'm trying to explain to you that in the past, 190 00:07:49,803 --> 00:07:52,639 when I have stirred the pot or been messy, 191 00:07:52,681 --> 00:07:54,683 it's because that's where I naturally, like... 192 00:07:54,724 --> 00:07:57,560 that's how I learned how to, like, behave, right? 193 00:07:57,602 --> 00:07:59,104 That's why I got attention." 194 00:07:59,145 --> 00:08:00,563 And I'm, like, trying to tell her, 195 00:08:00,605 --> 00:08:03,108 Like, I'm--I'm trying to break that pattern. 196 00:08:03,149 --> 00:08:05,652 Like, I don't wanna be that person, right? 197 00:08:05,694 --> 00:08:08,029 And in I'm telling her I'm going through 198 00:08:08,071 --> 00:08:10,073 all this pain and trauma, she never once, like, 199 00:08:10,115 --> 00:08:12,534 picked up the phone after Phoenix to call me. 200 00:08:12,575 --> 00:08:16,579 I don't like living in this space of ambiguity. 201 00:08:16,621 --> 00:08:20,750 I would rather be like, "Hey, I'm not okay with this. 202 00:08:20,792 --> 00:08:24,045 I'm hurt, and we need to talk about stuff." 203 00:08:24,087 --> 00:08:27,674 *** 204 00:08:27,716 --> 00:08:28,717 Coming up... 205 00:08:28,758 --> 00:08:30,635 Danna started off with saying, 206 00:08:30,677 --> 00:08:34,681 "Well, what was that all about with Jen bullying Angie?" 207 00:08:34,723 --> 00:08:37,017 No, no, no, wait. She said "bullying"? 208 00:08:44,149 --> 00:08:53,158 *** 209 00:08:53,783 --> 00:08:56,077 [knock on door] 210 00:08:56,119 --> 00:08:57,954 *** 211 00:08:57,996 --> 00:08:59,247 [laughs] 212 00:08:59,289 --> 00:09:00,290 Coach! 213 00:09:00,331 --> 00:09:02,083 Yes! 214 00:09:02,125 --> 00:09:03,668 Ahh! 215 00:09:03,710 --> 00:09:04,878 Bringing the South to your mouth! 216 00:09:04,919 --> 00:09:06,629 You understand me. 217 00:09:06,671 --> 00:09:08,798 It's barbecue time. It's the no-wife zone. 218 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:10,759 Let me introduce you to a couple of folks, man. 219 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:13,261 I got my guy. This is Marcus Jones. 220 00:09:13,303 --> 00:09:15,013 Marcus is the owner of Miss Essies. 221 00:09:15,055 --> 00:09:17,807 -Oh, awesome. -This is a good friend of mine. 222 00:09:17,849 --> 00:09:19,351 Bringing the South to your mouth. 223 00:09:19,392 --> 00:09:20,685 When I rolled in and saw that... 224 00:09:20,727 --> 00:09:21,936 -[laughter] -Listen... 225 00:09:21,978 --> 00:09:23,438 I give it a 12 out of 10 on the tagline. 226 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:26,274 I think it's great that Coach is hosting a barbecue. 227 00:09:26,316 --> 00:09:29,694 -[laughs] This guy's a stud. -Listen. 228 00:09:29,736 --> 00:09:30,945 Getting the guys together. 229 00:09:30,987 --> 00:09:34,074 Come on in. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. 230 00:09:34,115 --> 00:09:37,369 You know, understand what's going on with Coach and Jen. 231 00:09:37,410 --> 00:09:40,288 Oh. What you got, some sweet treats? 232 00:09:40,330 --> 00:09:41,956 -You know it. -Get in here. 233 00:09:41,998 --> 00:09:44,417 And then see how we can be supportive. 234 00:09:44,459 --> 00:09:47,170 I cannot even comprehend what he's going through. 235 00:09:47,212 --> 00:09:51,758 So I-I love that he was proactive in doing that. 236 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:53,218 This is just what the doctor ordered right now. 237 00:09:53,259 --> 00:09:55,053 -Seth. -Seth Marks. 238 00:09:55,095 --> 00:09:57,806 -Yeah, at the party. We did. -Yes, yes. 239 00:09:57,847 --> 00:10:00,934 Thank you, Shawn. Brother, thank you. 240 00:10:00,975 --> 00:10:03,019 Yes, this is a wonderful man. 241 00:10:03,061 --> 00:10:04,979 -So your wife is... -Danna. 242 00:10:05,021 --> 00:10:06,147 Great to meet you. 243 00:10:06,189 --> 00:10:08,316 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 244 00:10:08,358 --> 00:10:10,193 Yes! [laughs] 245 00:10:10,235 --> 00:10:12,195 -I-I knocked on the door. -I'm glad you just came in. 246 00:10:12,237 --> 00:10:16,825 [laughs] You've never been here. Yes! 247 00:10:16,866 --> 00:10:19,285 We got the crew. We got the crew. 248 00:10:19,327 --> 00:10:20,704 -We got the crew. -You good? 249 00:10:20,745 --> 00:10:22,414 We good. We gotta get some time, me and you. 250 00:10:22,455 --> 00:10:23,998 Oh, really? All right. 251 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:25,834 I think it is a good idea for he and I to talk. 252 00:10:25,875 --> 00:10:29,921 There's--There's more to talk about than just what Lisa said. 253 00:10:29,963 --> 00:10:32,966 -Looks amazing. -Those look really good. 254 00:10:33,008 --> 00:10:35,385 I think there's a lot of things to straighten out. 255 00:10:35,427 --> 00:10:37,012 -Let's just bow our heads... -Yeah. 256 00:10:37,053 --> 00:10:38,346 ...and just say grace. In the name of Allah, 257 00:10:38,388 --> 00:10:40,515 the Most Magnificent, Most Merciful God, 258 00:10:40,557 --> 00:10:43,893 thank you for allowing our friends to dwell together. 259 00:10:43,935 --> 00:10:47,272 We ask you to humbly protect us, protect our families, 260 00:10:47,313 --> 00:10:50,025 and most importantly, God, give us the understanding 261 00:10:50,066 --> 00:10:53,737 to have faith in those things that we cannot understand. 262 00:10:53,778 --> 00:10:55,488 We say these things only in God's name. Amen. 263 00:10:55,530 --> 00:10:57,323 Amen. 264 00:10:57,365 --> 00:10:58,992 Well, you guys, dig in. We got beef brisket, 265 00:10:59,034 --> 00:11:01,327 sweet corn, macaroni and cheese, always a fan favorite, 266 00:11:01,369 --> 00:11:02,954 some chicken drumsticks. 267 00:11:02,996 --> 00:11:04,080 So you guys dig in, please. 268 00:11:04,122 --> 00:11:06,416 Mm-hmm. 269 00:11:06,458 --> 00:11:07,375 How much time do we have to eat in silence 270 00:11:07,417 --> 00:11:09,544 and just enjoy this sh--? 271 00:11:09,586 --> 00:11:11,963 When our wives are crazy, 272 00:11:12,005 --> 00:11:13,798 we need to remember that, listen, 273 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:18,011 not everything has to bleed into ourrelationship. 274 00:11:18,053 --> 00:11:20,221 Let's just eat. Let's laugh a little bit 275 00:11:20,263 --> 00:11:23,058 without our wives waiting or hanging in the distance. 276 00:11:23,099 --> 00:11:25,060 No wives invited. 277 00:11:25,101 --> 00:11:27,395 Hey! The strippers are here! 278 00:11:27,437 --> 00:11:28,855 [laughter] 279 00:11:28,897 --> 00:11:30,398 How are you? 280 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:32,067 We gotta get her outta her right now. 281 00:11:32,108 --> 00:11:35,153 I'm gonna come give her a hug. I love you, baby. Okay. 282 00:11:36,321 --> 00:11:38,865 -I'll see you later. -Love you, baby. 283 00:11:38,907 --> 00:11:45,497 *** 284 00:11:45,538 --> 00:11:50,001 I definitely feel the tension between Seth and John right now, 285 00:11:50,043 --> 00:11:51,586 and I'm actually surprised, 286 00:11:51,628 --> 00:11:53,797 because I thought we had a guy code 287 00:11:53,838 --> 00:11:57,217 that meant we leave that behind when we get together. 288 00:11:57,258 --> 00:11:58,927 I gotta have my guy do this demonstration. 289 00:11:58,968 --> 00:12:00,261 All right, let's do it. 290 00:12:00,303 --> 00:12:02,889 Come on. Let's make our way to the counter. 291 00:12:02,931 --> 00:12:05,016 -Look at that. Look at that. -Ooh. 292 00:12:05,058 --> 00:12:06,142 It's a big piece of meat, but you know, 293 00:12:06,184 --> 00:12:07,435 don't be intimidated. 294 00:12:07,477 --> 00:12:08,937 We're gonna season this bad boy up. 295 00:12:08,978 --> 00:12:10,355 Let me see how you do it. 296 00:12:10,397 --> 00:12:11,523 Oh, wait, so basically, all we're just gonna... 297 00:12:11,564 --> 00:12:12,607 [sexy music playing] 298 00:12:12,649 --> 00:12:16,403 ...literally lay it on there. 299 00:12:16,444 --> 00:12:19,280 Ooh. So you can get thick with it like that, huh? 300 00:12:19,322 --> 00:12:22,450 -Yeah. -I like that. 301 00:12:22,492 --> 00:12:24,160 *** 302 00:12:24,202 --> 00:12:26,871 [exhales deeply] It's getting hot in here. 303 00:12:26,913 --> 00:12:28,164 How are the boys? They're good? 304 00:12:28,206 --> 00:12:30,291 Yeah, they're good. Jack's getting-- 305 00:12:30,333 --> 00:12:32,460 He's almost as tall as me. 306 00:12:32,502 --> 00:12:34,337 -Seth. Party. -Dude, this is great. 307 00:12:34,379 --> 00:12:38,174 -Thank you for having us. -Man, brother, thank you. 308 00:12:38,216 --> 00:12:39,509 I would love to talk to you just to get some sh-- out... 309 00:12:39,551 --> 00:12:41,052 -Yeah, happy to. -Because... 310 00:12:41,094 --> 00:12:42,429 -Do it, man. Do it. Do it. -Yeah. 311 00:12:42,470 --> 00:12:43,888 -If anyone knows how I can't-- -No, no, no, do it. 312 00:12:43,930 --> 00:12:45,473 -When you got the... -Do it, brother. Do it. 313 00:12:45,515 --> 00:12:47,308 It's why we here, to visit a little bit. Go. 314 00:12:47,350 --> 00:12:48,476 Thank you. 315 00:12:48,518 --> 00:12:54,315 *** 316 00:12:54,357 --> 00:12:56,151 Beautiful out, actually. 317 00:12:56,192 --> 00:12:57,986 Yeah, it's not so bad in the sun. 318 00:12:58,028 --> 00:13:00,155 *** 319 00:13:00,196 --> 00:13:01,865 Oh. 320 00:13:04,993 --> 00:13:08,121 I just, like, how-- I don't know. I've never... 321 00:13:08,163 --> 00:13:10,040 *** 322 00:13:10,081 --> 00:13:12,667 ...had a situation like this where I have a friend 323 00:13:12,709 --> 00:13:16,004 whose wife...went crazy on my wife. 324 00:13:16,046 --> 00:13:17,630 Uh-huh. 325 00:13:17,672 --> 00:13:19,466 When you see Meredith, 326 00:13:19,507 --> 00:13:22,594 I know you guys didn't talk to each other at the party. 327 00:13:22,635 --> 00:13:24,304 I don't know if you were trying to avoid her or... 328 00:13:24,346 --> 00:13:28,183 *** 329 00:13:28,224 --> 00:13:33,355 No, I didn't. I...was kind of in my own zone there. [laughs] 330 00:13:33,396 --> 00:13:35,190 [chuckles] 331 00:13:35,231 --> 00:13:38,568 How would you feel if Meredith said, 332 00:13:38,610 --> 00:13:42,280 "Lisa Barlow's a garbage whore. [bleep] her family. 333 00:13:42,322 --> 00:13:45,325 She's a piece of sh--. Her husband can't keep a job"? 334 00:13:45,367 --> 00:13:48,370 I mean, it's... 335 00:13:48,411 --> 00:13:50,955 When they were in Arizona, 336 00:13:50,997 --> 00:13:53,375 your wife brought up rumors that Lisa cheated on me 337 00:13:53,416 --> 00:13:55,043 just out of the blue. 338 00:13:55,085 --> 00:13:57,629 And so I don't know. 339 00:13:57,671 --> 00:13:59,172 I mean, I don't think anybody can walk around 340 00:13:59,214 --> 00:14:01,675 and say that they have never done anything dumb 341 00:14:01,716 --> 00:14:06,554 that they regret and ask for forgiveness. 342 00:14:06,596 --> 00:14:08,431 I think it's more constructive 343 00:14:08,473 --> 00:14:11,726 when you...have qualms with somebody 344 00:14:11,768 --> 00:14:13,728 to actually say it to their face 345 00:14:13,770 --> 00:14:16,064 rather than behind their back. -Yeah. 346 00:14:16,106 --> 00:14:19,609 Again, your wife brought up rumors that Lisa cheated on me. 347 00:14:19,651 --> 00:14:22,070 I agree with you as far as communicating. 348 00:14:22,112 --> 00:14:24,572 I mean, that is the best thing. I know there are times that 349 00:14:24,614 --> 00:14:26,991 she tried to communicate with Meredith, 350 00:14:27,033 --> 00:14:29,035 and Meredith was like, "I don't have time for this." 351 00:14:29,077 --> 00:14:31,204 I keep looking at 'em. I just wanna make sure 352 00:14:31,246 --> 00:14:32,706 there's no--no fists are flying or anything. 353 00:14:32,747 --> 00:14:35,250 Hey, listen, this was a-- this was a conversation that... 354 00:14:35,291 --> 00:14:37,752 -That needs to happen. -...that needs to happen. 355 00:14:37,794 --> 00:14:41,673 I....value you, your friendship, everything, so... 356 00:14:41,715 --> 00:14:43,174 Likewise, man. Like, that's why 357 00:14:43,216 --> 00:14:44,718 this is so ----ing hard, you know? 358 00:14:44,759 --> 00:14:46,261 -[laughs] Yeah. -When you, like, have-- 359 00:14:46,302 --> 00:14:47,595 ----ing love a dude? 360 00:14:47,637 --> 00:14:49,264 No, I agree. I agree. I agree. 361 00:14:49,305 --> 00:14:51,975 Come on, let's go, 'cause I know you're going to. 362 00:14:52,017 --> 00:14:55,020 Look, hey, hey. 363 00:14:55,061 --> 00:14:57,230 -Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. -What? 364 00:14:57,272 --> 00:14:59,024 What? 365 00:14:59,065 --> 00:15:02,569 Listen, here's what I wanna know. One question. 366 00:15:02,610 --> 00:15:04,070 Are we better? 367 00:15:08,074 --> 00:15:09,617 Better than what we were before we walked out? 368 00:15:09,659 --> 00:15:12,537 -Yes, sir. -Then that's all that matters. 369 00:15:12,579 --> 00:15:14,122 *** 370 00:15:14,164 --> 00:15:15,749 How are youdoing, man? 371 00:15:15,790 --> 00:15:17,625 [exhales deeply] 372 00:15:17,667 --> 00:15:19,502 The sh-- you're going through with your family right now... 373 00:15:19,544 --> 00:15:22,297 Man, um... 374 00:15:22,339 --> 00:15:26,468 I believe that God never makes mistakes. Never. 375 00:15:26,509 --> 00:15:29,804 And so I am where--exactly where I'm supposed to be. 376 00:15:29,846 --> 00:15:34,309 And some days that is painful. Some days that's hard. 377 00:15:34,351 --> 00:15:37,645 And, uh, and I-I cry. 378 00:15:37,687 --> 00:15:40,315 I cry because I can't control the outcome. 379 00:15:40,357 --> 00:15:43,443 I can't fix it. I can't do what most men wanna do 380 00:15:43,485 --> 00:15:45,653 for their wives in making it better. 381 00:15:45,695 --> 00:15:48,365 I-I can't do that, and, um, some days 382 00:15:48,406 --> 00:15:52,577 I feel absolutely helpless. 383 00:15:52,619 --> 00:15:56,247 So... 384 00:15:56,289 --> 00:15:57,540 -Man. -We're all with you. 385 00:15:57,582 --> 00:15:59,167 Man. 386 00:15:59,209 --> 00:16:01,336 -We're your family. -Thank you. 387 00:16:01,378 --> 00:16:03,630 Thank you, brother. 388 00:16:03,672 --> 00:16:06,299 Thank you. Thank you. Thank you so much. Thank you. 389 00:16:06,341 --> 00:16:08,510 You say, "How am I getting through it right here?" 390 00:16:08,551 --> 00:16:11,680 This will last me. This will...fortify my spirit. 391 00:16:11,721 --> 00:16:13,682 I'll--I'll be okay. I'll be good. 392 00:16:13,723 --> 00:16:16,101 My life transitioned this week. 393 00:16:16,142 --> 00:16:19,562 So I, um, I stepped away, um, 394 00:16:19,604 --> 00:16:23,316 or parted ways would probably be a better way to say it, 395 00:16:23,358 --> 00:16:24,859 with the company I've been with for seven years. 396 00:16:24,901 --> 00:16:26,486 -[groans] -Oh, man. 397 00:16:26,528 --> 00:16:28,238 Life throws some interesting things at you. 398 00:16:28,279 --> 00:16:29,823 It does, doesn't it? 399 00:16:29,864 --> 00:16:31,491 And it's really how you react to that. 400 00:16:31,533 --> 00:16:33,076 Something I told my wife every day-- 401 00:16:33,118 --> 00:16:34,369 I said, "Baby, I don't know what's gonna happen 402 00:16:34,411 --> 00:16:36,287 two minutes from now. 403 00:16:36,329 --> 00:16:37,247 I just know how I'm going to react to it." 404 00:16:37,288 --> 00:16:39,582 -Right. -God, I'm not flinching. 405 00:16:39,624 --> 00:16:42,585 Okay, so now what? So now what? 406 00:16:42,627 --> 00:16:43,753 I feel like we're in therapy. [laughs] 407 00:16:43,795 --> 00:16:46,214 I know. It is therapy. 408 00:16:46,256 --> 00:16:48,800 [laughter and chattering] 409 00:16:48,842 --> 00:16:51,177 Coming up... 410 00:16:51,219 --> 00:16:53,430 Heather, I just think, like, do you like me? 411 00:16:54,764 --> 00:16:56,725 "Yes" or "no" question. 412 00:17:03,314 --> 00:17:09,237 *** 413 00:17:10,238 --> 00:17:11,364 ALEX: What are we getting into? 414 00:17:11,406 --> 00:17:12,824 I thought we'd just make a little snack, 415 00:17:12,866 --> 00:17:14,784 a little white bean salad. 416 00:17:14,826 --> 00:17:16,327 -Sure. -That sounds good. 417 00:17:16,369 --> 00:17:17,662 -Do you need help? -You wanna open the cans for me? 418 00:17:17,704 --> 00:17:19,289 Sure. 419 00:17:19,330 --> 00:17:24,210 Okay. Oh, honey, honey, honey, you know what? 420 00:17:24,252 --> 00:17:27,422 The--The mess is worse than the help. Thank you. [laughs] 421 00:17:27,464 --> 00:17:30,633 -Hey. What are you guys doing? -We're just making 422 00:17:30,675 --> 00:17:32,177 a little white bean salad. -White bean salad. 423 00:17:32,218 --> 00:17:33,636 That sounds good. 424 00:17:33,678 --> 00:17:35,847 So, guys, tell me what's going on. 425 00:17:35,889 --> 00:17:39,434 We are traveling a lot this week for college tours. 426 00:17:39,476 --> 00:17:41,353 It's so different than we-- Mer, you know, 427 00:17:41,394 --> 00:17:44,314 like from when we did it, so... -Yeah. Well, yeah. 428 00:17:44,356 --> 00:17:48,193 It is different, Myra. We're on the older side of things now. 429 00:17:48,234 --> 00:17:50,779 -Uh, I don't think so. -I think you guys still look-- 430 00:17:50,820 --> 00:17:53,656 -You guys are spring chickens. -Age--Age is a mindset. 431 00:17:53,698 --> 00:17:56,493 Myra is my sister. She lives in Chicago, 432 00:17:56,534 --> 00:17:59,454 but we are very, very close. 433 00:17:59,496 --> 00:18:02,499 Um, have been for the large majority of our lives. 434 00:18:02,540 --> 00:18:04,959 You know, but like any other close relationship, 435 00:18:05,001 --> 00:18:07,295 you certainly have ups and downs. 436 00:18:07,337 --> 00:18:08,630 Hold it. You're not holding it. 437 00:18:08,672 --> 00:18:10,340 Well, I'm afraid you're gonna cut my finger. 438 00:18:10,382 --> 00:18:11,966 -Well, Alex? -I'll hold it. 439 00:18:12,008 --> 00:18:13,843 -Watch your finger. -Watch his finger. 440 00:18:13,885 --> 00:18:16,346 -I know, Alex. -My finger is not getting cut. 441 00:18:16,388 --> 00:18:19,641 We did have a little bit of a rough time last winter 442 00:18:19,683 --> 00:18:21,726 with everything that was going on with my father 443 00:18:21,768 --> 00:18:23,353 and my nephew. 444 00:18:23,395 --> 00:18:25,563 [voice breaking] We had some very serious issues 445 00:18:25,605 --> 00:18:28,358 going on in my family. [sniffles] 446 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:31,277 I couldn't get him buried. I couldn't get any peace. 447 00:18:31,319 --> 00:18:34,698 I was fighting incessantly with my sister. 448 00:18:34,739 --> 00:18:38,326 I have a nephew with mental health issues. 449 00:18:38,368 --> 00:18:40,036 [sniffles] It wasn't my story to tell. 450 00:18:40,078 --> 00:18:42,914 It was hard for us to see eye to eye, 451 00:18:42,956 --> 00:18:44,791 to, you know, to fulfill the different needs 452 00:18:44,833 --> 00:18:47,794 we needed for closure, but we're in a great place again. 453 00:18:47,836 --> 00:18:50,880 I'm getting really excited about our event. 454 00:18:50,922 --> 00:18:52,632 -I am, too. -Oh, me, too. I am so-- 455 00:18:52,674 --> 00:18:54,259 It's gonna be amazing. 456 00:18:54,300 --> 00:18:56,970 And seeing the venue was immensely helpful. 457 00:18:57,012 --> 00:19:00,682 -Yeah. -And I-I'm really excited. 458 00:19:00,724 --> 00:19:03,852 I wanna hear all about that from you, Myra. 459 00:19:03,893 --> 00:19:05,645 -Yes, we will. -Thank you. 460 00:19:05,687 --> 00:19:07,272 Of course. 461 00:19:07,313 --> 00:19:09,691 *** 462 00:19:09,733 --> 00:19:11,609 Why don't we ha--like, sit down and eat some of this? 463 00:19:11,651 --> 00:19:13,278 All right. 464 00:19:13,319 --> 00:19:15,405 *** 465 00:19:15,447 --> 00:19:18,742 -Ooh, I'm kinda cold. -Oh, it's just... 466 00:19:18,783 --> 00:19:20,785 -Are you warm? -I'm--Really? 467 00:19:20,827 --> 00:19:25,832 No matter what, what's the rule? If you're warm, I'm cold. 468 00:19:25,874 --> 00:19:29,461 Um...seriously, 469 00:19:29,502 --> 00:19:32,380 I'm so excited to do this with you. 470 00:19:32,422 --> 00:19:33,757 Our family has been through 471 00:19:33,798 --> 00:19:36,343 a lot in the last year, you know? 472 00:19:36,384 --> 00:19:41,556 With everything that happened with Alex, you know, 473 00:19:41,598 --> 00:19:43,892 it's almost like this is a celebration 474 00:19:43,933 --> 00:19:46,811 of where he is in his life. 475 00:19:46,853 --> 00:19:50,774 With Alex, it's been a-a long journey. 476 00:19:50,815 --> 00:19:53,026 Over the years, there were a variety of just little signs 477 00:19:53,068 --> 00:19:57,322 that, you know, he was not happy, 478 00:19:57,364 --> 00:19:59,449 that he was struggling in different ways. 479 00:19:59,491 --> 00:20:02,869 He went to multiple facilities for mental health, 480 00:20:02,911 --> 00:20:08,124 for drug addiction, um, and it just didn't seem 481 00:20:08,166 --> 00:20:12,629 to be getting much better, and, um... 482 00:20:20,679 --> 00:20:24,015 [voice breaking] And last winter he drank a bottle of bleach. 483 00:20:27,394 --> 00:20:30,105 He's doing so well, Mer. 484 00:20:31,856 --> 00:20:33,983 He does seem like he's doing great, 485 00:20:34,025 --> 00:20:35,026 but the question is, is he getting better 486 00:20:35,068 --> 00:20:38,029 at expressing where he really is? 487 00:20:38,071 --> 00:20:40,490 That's the amazing thing. 488 00:20:40,532 --> 00:20:43,952 He told his therapist when he's been triggered. 489 00:20:43,993 --> 00:20:45,954 -That's incredible. -Yeah, that's what you need. 490 00:20:45,995 --> 00:20:48,832 He is so excited to help others 491 00:20:48,873 --> 00:20:51,668 because he's, like, coming around 492 00:20:51,710 --> 00:20:54,963 and now he's on the other side of it. 493 00:20:55,005 --> 00:20:57,924 And to have you give this event, 494 00:20:57,966 --> 00:21:00,802 it's special because it's you doing it. 495 00:21:00,844 --> 00:21:07,726 So me, anyone, Alex--involved in this--want positivity. 496 00:21:07,767 --> 00:21:10,854 You have to really think it through. 497 00:21:10,895 --> 00:21:14,733 Who do you want at our positiveevent? 498 00:21:14,774 --> 00:21:16,109 -Well... [chuckles] -You know? 499 00:21:16,151 --> 00:21:17,736 -Yeah, then that, uh... -And it's a little tricky. 500 00:21:18,903 --> 00:21:21,156 That's a wild card with a lot of--a lot of the women here. 501 00:21:21,197 --> 00:21:22,866 They have not been good to you, Meredith. 502 00:21:22,907 --> 00:21:25,410 Um, you know, it's not just Lisa right now. 503 00:21:25,452 --> 00:21:28,663 We get to Arizona. Whitney has this meltdown and is like, 504 00:21:28,705 --> 00:21:31,791 "We have to all tell Lisa we're talking about her." 505 00:21:31,833 --> 00:21:35,003 So now fast-forward back to today. 506 00:21:35,045 --> 00:21:39,716 So now she has apparently continued to insist to Lisa 507 00:21:39,758 --> 00:21:41,217 that I'm the one who started these rumors 508 00:21:41,259 --> 00:21:44,429 to the point where John said something to Seth about it. 509 00:21:44,471 --> 00:21:46,556 -Wow. -He said she was really hurt 510 00:21:46,598 --> 00:21:49,476 that Meredith wasn't there for Lisa when she needed her-- 511 00:21:49,517 --> 00:21:50,977 a friend. -How was I not there 512 00:21:51,019 --> 00:21:52,896 listening to her for three hours a day? 513 00:21:52,937 --> 00:21:57,067 On the phone hours a day. 514 00:21:57,108 --> 00:21:59,861 I did not accuse that. I did not accuse that. 515 00:21:59,903 --> 00:22:05,700 Whitney did, and that actually really pisses me off. 516 00:22:05,742 --> 00:22:08,953 You certainly don't need to deal with that. 517 00:22:08,995 --> 00:22:11,456 No one deserves that. 518 00:22:11,498 --> 00:22:12,999 *** 519 00:22:13,041 --> 00:22:15,210 That's not a friend. 520 00:22:15,251 --> 00:22:28,556 *** 521 00:22:28,598 --> 00:22:30,600 -Hello. -Oh. Oh, hey! 522 00:22:30,642 --> 00:22:33,478 This is a sexy place for our first rehearsal. 523 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:34,896 -It's cool. -Right? Now the muscle came. 524 00:22:34,938 --> 00:22:36,523 The muscle is here. 525 00:22:36,564 --> 00:22:38,108 All right. Now we don't have to move anything anymore. 526 00:22:38,149 --> 00:22:39,025 Do you need some furniture moved? 527 00:22:39,067 --> 00:22:40,610 -[laughter] -We do. 528 00:22:40,652 --> 00:22:42,070 -Is this the keyboard? -That is the keyboard. 529 00:22:42,112 --> 00:22:43,238 -Ooh, that's awesome. Wonderful. -We have a big speaker. 530 00:22:43,279 --> 00:22:44,656 I can't believe it's actually happening, 531 00:22:44,698 --> 00:22:47,992 that the first choir rehearsal is here. 532 00:22:48,034 --> 00:22:52,247 It's still way too high. Can we try one more time? I'm sorry. 533 00:22:52,288 --> 00:22:54,207 Our auditions had some highs... 534 00:22:54,249 --> 00:22:55,875 * Go marching in * 535 00:22:55,917 --> 00:22:58,503 -Oh, a triple. -[cheering] 536 00:22:58,545 --> 00:22:59,713 ...and some lows. 537 00:22:59,754 --> 00:23:01,548 You don't even seem like you care! 538 00:23:01,589 --> 00:23:02,799 Jen, I care. 539 00:23:02,841 --> 00:23:05,635 I really wanna create a safe space, 540 00:23:05,677 --> 00:23:09,556 just a feeling of renewal and spiritual centeredness 541 00:23:09,597 --> 00:23:11,641 through music, and I'm glad that my friends 542 00:23:11,683 --> 00:23:15,228 will be a part of it, and I hope they don't mess it up. 543 00:23:15,270 --> 00:23:17,063 Let's hit it, toots. 544 00:23:17,105 --> 00:23:18,273 Do you think this is loud enough? 545 00:23:18,314 --> 00:23:19,566 -[plays chords] -Yeah, it is. 546 00:23:19,607 --> 00:23:20,775 * Ahh * 547 00:23:20,817 --> 00:23:23,528 Here--hit me-- hit me with another note. 548 00:23:23,570 --> 00:23:25,780 * Ahh * 549 00:23:25,822 --> 00:23:27,615 *** 550 00:23:27,657 --> 00:23:30,118 [amplified voice] Angie. 551 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:31,995 *** 552 00:23:32,037 --> 00:23:34,122 [singsongy] I'm ready. 553 00:23:34,164 --> 00:23:36,708 -Hey. -Hi. 554 00:23:36,750 --> 00:23:38,918 -You look beautiful. -You, too. 555 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:40,879 Off we go. 556 00:23:42,297 --> 00:23:43,840 -Thanks for picking me up, Mama. -Oh, yeah. 557 00:23:43,882 --> 00:23:46,134 I love driving with you. We can catch up on the drive. 558 00:23:46,176 --> 00:23:48,011 So did I tell you I went skiing 559 00:23:48,053 --> 00:23:49,596 with Lisa and Whitney? 560 00:23:49,637 --> 00:23:51,848 Oh, how fun. How was that? 561 00:23:51,890 --> 00:23:55,602 [screaming] 562 00:23:55,643 --> 00:23:58,855 It was good. Um, Whitney and Lisa talked about 563 00:23:58,897 --> 00:24:02,025 that they both made the choir. 564 00:24:02,067 --> 00:24:03,193 Have you even talked to Heather? 565 00:24:03,234 --> 00:24:04,152 I mean, where you guys at with everything? 566 00:24:04,194 --> 00:24:05,362 Oh, my gosh. 567 00:24:05,403 --> 00:24:07,197 It's been awkward between Heather and I. 568 00:24:07,238 --> 00:24:09,991 Heather doesn't see a problem with what Angie did. 569 00:24:10,033 --> 00:24:13,703 You cannot say you're my ride or die and then--Huh? 570 00:24:15,205 --> 00:24:16,790 -Okay, cross. -By a cross. 571 00:24:16,831 --> 00:24:18,208 Okay. 572 00:24:18,249 --> 00:24:20,585 You cannot say you're my ride or die, 573 00:24:20,627 --> 00:24:22,587 but then not stick up for me 574 00:24:22,629 --> 00:24:25,715 when it's not about choosing sides or friendships. 575 00:24:25,757 --> 00:24:27,592 It's about right or wrong. 576 00:24:27,634 --> 00:24:30,011 I'm going to the choir rehearsal to support Heather, 577 00:24:30,053 --> 00:24:31,888 but I'm confused right now. 578 00:24:31,930 --> 00:24:32,889 Because if the tables were turned, 579 00:24:32,931 --> 00:24:34,891 you better believe 580 00:24:34,933 --> 00:24:37,143 I would have cussed Angie and Chris Harrington out 581 00:24:37,185 --> 00:24:38,937 on Heather's behalf and been like, 582 00:24:38,978 --> 00:24:40,105 "That is wrong. It was ----ed up. 583 00:24:40,146 --> 00:24:42,816 You don't do that. Apologize." 584 00:24:42,857 --> 00:24:46,069 I just want Heather to, like, have my back 585 00:24:46,111 --> 00:24:48,154 and just do the right thing. 586 00:24:48,196 --> 00:24:50,740 There's a few other things that we need to talk about. 587 00:24:50,782 --> 00:24:52,075 Um, Meredith-- 588 00:24:52,117 --> 00:24:54,244 [amplified voice] What do we need to handle? 589 00:24:54,285 --> 00:24:56,705 [laughs] Well, keep that ready because you're gonna need it. 590 00:24:56,746 --> 00:25:00,917 So Meredith had invited me to a spin class last week, 591 00:25:00,959 --> 00:25:05,130 and I get there, and there was Danna. 592 00:25:05,171 --> 00:25:09,384 She brought up the situation at the choir audition. 593 00:25:09,426 --> 00:25:11,052 Started off with saying, 594 00:25:11,094 --> 00:25:16,808 "Well, what was that all about with Jen bullying Angie?" 595 00:25:16,850 --> 00:25:18,226 Don't you think Jen could have handled the situation 596 00:25:18,268 --> 00:25:20,311 a little bit different that day at the audition? 597 00:25:20,353 --> 00:25:22,022 Honestly, I feel like she was almost bullying. 598 00:25:22,063 --> 00:25:24,065 Like, I feel like no one stands up to her 599 00:25:24,107 --> 00:25:28,069 and no one puts her ass in check when she's stepping out of line. 600 00:25:28,111 --> 00:25:30,947 No, no, no, no, wait. She said "bullying"? 601 00:25:30,989 --> 00:25:32,157 -She said "bullying." -"Bullying"? 602 00:25:32,198 --> 00:25:33,992 Did she hear what Angie did to me? 603 00:25:34,034 --> 00:25:35,827 You know what? [bleep] Danna. 604 00:25:35,869 --> 00:25:39,998 How in the hell, in what world am I bullying Angie Harrington 605 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:43,752 when Angie Harrington's husband set up @shahxposed? 606 00:25:43,793 --> 00:25:45,962 How am I the bully in this? 607 00:25:46,004 --> 00:25:47,881 Danna, what you're not gonna do is go around 608 00:25:47,922 --> 00:25:50,800 and all of a sudden label me 609 00:25:50,842 --> 00:25:52,260 without having a one-on-one conversation with me. 610 00:25:53,845 --> 00:25:55,972 -Bitch, you don't even know me. -You just need to be careful 611 00:25:56,014 --> 00:25:57,474 and not be around dangerous people 612 00:25:57,515 --> 00:25:59,768 or people that don't have your back. 613 00:25:59,809 --> 00:26:01,811 Right. 614 00:26:01,853 --> 00:26:03,271 Coming up... 615 00:26:03,313 --> 00:26:05,690 This is first time that I haven't gone along to get along. 616 00:26:05,732 --> 00:26:06,816 I don't want this awkward space anymore. 617 00:26:06,858 --> 00:26:08,777 Hey, don't go along to get along. 618 00:26:08,818 --> 00:26:09,861 -Don't go along to get along. -That's what I did, and I-- 619 00:26:18,244 --> 00:26:27,796 *** 620 00:26:28,838 --> 00:26:29,964 -Hi, hi, hi! -[singsongy] Hello! 621 00:26:30,006 --> 00:26:32,926 -Hey! -Hello! 622 00:26:32,967 --> 00:26:35,011 -We have people here! -Choir is here. Hi! [laughs] 623 00:26:35,053 --> 00:26:36,930 Oh, no, there she is. Angie Harrington. 624 00:26:36,971 --> 00:26:38,890 -Oh, hi. -How are you? 625 00:26:38,932 --> 00:26:42,060 -I love it. I... -The choir came together. 626 00:26:45,021 --> 00:26:47,399 Oh, my gosh! I wasn't sure you were coming, Whitney! 627 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:48,942 [cheering] 628 00:26:48,983 --> 00:26:50,568 I'm thrilled that Whitney came. 629 00:26:50,610 --> 00:26:52,362 I don't know what's going on between us. 630 00:26:52,404 --> 00:26:57,158 That was a lie. You win. I'm done. 631 00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,536 -We always show up matching. -You do. 632 00:26:59,577 --> 00:27:01,204 There's so much conflict with us, but I know that 633 00:27:01,246 --> 00:27:03,581 if we can have a positive experience, 634 00:27:03,623 --> 00:27:05,208 you know, that'll be a little deposit 635 00:27:05,250 --> 00:27:06,960 in our emotional bank account. 636 00:27:07,002 --> 00:27:09,462 When she told me that you made the choir, I was like, 637 00:27:09,504 --> 00:27:11,006 "Well, you're letting anybody in, Heather." 638 00:27:11,047 --> 00:27:12,924 [laughter] 639 00:27:12,966 --> 00:27:16,344 I said I was just as surprised that I made the choir. 640 00:27:16,386 --> 00:27:19,180 If I want to repair my relationship with Heather, 641 00:27:19,222 --> 00:27:21,599 I'm going to have to show up and support her 642 00:27:21,641 --> 00:27:23,935 even though it's uncomfortable. 643 00:27:23,977 --> 00:27:26,813 We're singing Mormon hymns, and she literally was with me 644 00:27:26,855 --> 00:27:28,440 signing my paper about how much trauma I have 645 00:27:28,481 --> 00:27:30,942 around the Mormon Church. 646 00:27:30,984 --> 00:27:34,195 I can't sign this fast enough. 647 00:27:34,237 --> 00:27:36,156 If that is--does not show my commitment to friendship, 648 00:27:36,197 --> 00:27:39,159 then I don't know what does. 649 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:40,535 The truth is, when we did auditions, 650 00:27:40,577 --> 00:27:42,579 we wanted people that really came 651 00:27:42,620 --> 00:27:45,248 with a base level of love for music 652 00:27:45,290 --> 00:27:48,543 so that it could be focused on just singing together. 653 00:27:48,585 --> 00:27:50,003 Do we wanna, like, um, bring up some chairs and... 654 00:27:50,045 --> 00:27:51,838 -Yeah. -...and get comfortable 655 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:53,048 and get to know each other a little bit? 656 00:27:53,089 --> 00:27:54,215 -Sure. -Why not? 657 00:27:54,257 --> 00:27:55,300 Sure. We can pull some chairs in. 658 00:27:55,342 --> 00:27:58,636 -I'll sit by you, girl. -Oh, okay. 659 00:27:58,678 --> 00:28:00,305 Come sit. 660 00:28:00,347 --> 00:28:02,640 Oh! Well, here we go. 661 00:28:02,682 --> 00:28:05,518 [cheering] 662 00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,896 We are ready for this choir. 663 00:28:07,937 --> 00:28:09,939 Oh, my goodness. Lisa Barlow. 664 00:28:09,981 --> 00:28:11,358 Hey! 665 00:28:11,399 --> 00:28:13,443 Oh, I love you. 666 00:28:13,485 --> 00:28:15,362 -Hi. -Thanks for coming. 667 00:28:15,403 --> 00:28:17,030 -You're welcome. -This means a lot to me. 668 00:28:17,072 --> 00:28:18,615 I'm so glad you're here. 669 00:28:18,656 --> 00:28:19,991 In true Heather and Lisa fashion, 670 00:28:20,033 --> 00:28:21,159 there's a Band-Aid on our situation, 671 00:28:21,201 --> 00:28:22,994 but there's no sutures. 672 00:28:23,036 --> 00:28:24,245 It can, like, easily rip off and then we go back 673 00:28:24,287 --> 00:28:27,374 to the same problems over and over again. 674 00:28:27,415 --> 00:28:28,875 You know, in the 10 Commandments, 675 00:28:28,917 --> 00:28:31,169 there's one that's, like, "Thou shall not lie," 676 00:28:31,211 --> 00:28:34,881 and maybe singing hymns will remind Heather. 677 00:28:34,923 --> 00:28:36,966 WHITNEY: Did Meredith make the choir? 678 00:28:39,969 --> 00:28:43,306 -There you go. -That's okay. 679 00:28:43,348 --> 00:28:46,184 I have issues with Angie Harrington. 680 00:28:46,226 --> 00:28:49,437 Now is not the time for me to have any conversation. 681 00:28:49,479 --> 00:28:51,606 Anything I say and any conversation we have right now 682 00:28:51,648 --> 00:28:53,692 is not gonna be productive. 683 00:28:53,733 --> 00:28:56,319 But you know what? It's a damn good thing 684 00:28:56,361 --> 00:28:58,405 that there is no Danna Banana coming today. 685 00:28:58,446 --> 00:29:01,199 We don't need choir auditions part two. 686 00:29:01,241 --> 00:29:03,618 Hell, no. No way. 687 00:29:03,660 --> 00:29:05,370 -Hi, everybody. -Hi! 688 00:29:05,412 --> 00:29:07,038 Hello! 689 00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:09,040 Thank you all so much for being here. 690 00:29:09,082 --> 00:29:10,542 So my name's Cory. 691 00:29:10,583 --> 00:29:12,669 I've been in choir since fifth grade, 692 00:29:12,711 --> 00:29:15,505 and then I became a choir director. 693 00:29:15,547 --> 00:29:18,550 I taught middle school choir for 21 years. 694 00:29:18,591 --> 00:29:20,427 You know, a lot of people in Utah 695 00:29:20,468 --> 00:29:23,513 grew up in church music or high school music 696 00:29:23,555 --> 00:29:27,225 and maybe no longer go to the same church 697 00:29:27,267 --> 00:29:31,938 or church at all and just really need a place to make music 698 00:29:31,980 --> 00:29:35,942 and to worship in a way that means something to you. 699 00:29:35,984 --> 00:29:37,569 So round of applause 700 00:29:37,610 --> 00:29:39,070 for everyone for coming and supporting. 701 00:29:39,112 --> 00:29:41,698 This means so, so much. 702 00:29:41,740 --> 00:29:44,075 So let's sing. You wanna sing? 703 00:29:44,117 --> 00:29:45,535 Everybody stand up. 704 00:29:49,330 --> 00:29:52,083 No, how did I miss this? 705 00:29:52,125 --> 00:29:53,543 Yeah, because we know you guys-- 706 00:29:53,585 --> 00:29:55,337 She sings. You and I have to, like, you and I have to-- 707 00:29:55,378 --> 00:29:56,963 The whole thing, yeah. 708 00:29:57,005 --> 00:29:59,966 Ugh. I hate her. 709 00:30:03,678 --> 00:30:05,305 -You know what I mean? So... -I know. 710 00:30:05,347 --> 00:30:07,057 I, like, want this to happen. 711 00:30:07,098 --> 00:30:08,308 I want this to be positive for you and me so we have to talk. 712 00:30:09,768 --> 00:30:10,518 But, listen, like, I'm working on a friendship with you. 713 00:30:11,519 --> 00:30:13,104 I'm putting in the effort, Heather. 714 00:30:13,146 --> 00:30:15,732 So everyone just kind of semicircle around a little bit. 715 00:30:15,774 --> 00:30:18,026 We're just gonna warm up with a hum. 716 00:30:18,068 --> 00:30:20,612 When you hum, you want your lips together but your teeth apart. 717 00:30:20,653 --> 00:30:22,113 Put lots of space in your mouth. 718 00:30:22,155 --> 00:30:27,577 [humming scales] 719 00:30:27,619 --> 00:30:29,996 -[humming continues] -I wanna be here to support you, 720 00:30:30,038 --> 00:30:31,331 and that's why I showed up at auditions. 721 00:30:31,373 --> 00:30:33,458 -That was huge. -That's why I'm here today. 722 00:30:33,500 --> 00:30:35,293 It was a huge gesture. It means a lot to me. 723 00:30:35,335 --> 00:30:37,295 Now open up to an "ahh." 724 00:30:37,337 --> 00:30:38,505 * Ahh-ah-ah-ah * 725 00:30:38,546 --> 00:30:41,132 I know you probably wanted to throw me out. 726 00:30:41,174 --> 00:30:42,467 -I didn't-- -And I'm glad you didn't. 727 00:30:42,509 --> 00:30:44,469 I didn't. I don't want to be in a space 728 00:30:44,511 --> 00:30:46,137 of contention and anger. 729 00:30:47,681 --> 00:30:54,646 [humming resumes] 730 00:30:54,688 --> 00:30:58,650 Why would you take, like, something that's very sensitive 731 00:30:58,692 --> 00:31:02,153 such as my dad's obituary and death 732 00:31:02,195 --> 00:31:04,781 and the text messages that I exchanged with you 733 00:31:04,823 --> 00:31:08,118 while my dad was dying, okay? 734 00:31:08,159 --> 00:31:12,038 And tweet that if you didn't wanna go backward with me? 735 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:13,331 You have to see it from my side, too, Heather. 736 00:31:13,373 --> 00:31:15,750 My character was denigrated 737 00:31:15,792 --> 00:31:20,380 because you told a lie. -[scales singing continues] 738 00:31:20,422 --> 00:31:21,673 And I was, like, I have to clear my name. 739 00:31:21,715 --> 00:31:24,259 * Ah-ah-ah-ah-ah-ah * 740 00:31:24,300 --> 00:31:25,802 I second-guessed myself, Heather. 741 00:31:25,844 --> 00:31:27,345 I was like, am I that sh--ty of a person? 742 00:31:27,387 --> 00:31:29,347 -Did I not-- -Yes. 743 00:31:29,389 --> 00:31:31,516 -No, I wasn't. I wasn't. -Yes. 744 00:31:31,558 --> 00:31:32,809 CHOIR: * Ah-ah-ah * 745 00:31:32,851 --> 00:31:34,728 Hey, hey, Lisa. You're an empath, right? 746 00:31:34,769 --> 00:31:38,148 Let's put the facts aside and focus on the feelings. 747 00:31:38,189 --> 00:31:41,234 My feelings are hurt, and as an empath... 748 00:31:41,276 --> 00:31:43,653 I'm an empath. I absorb it all. 749 00:31:43,695 --> 00:31:46,197 ...you should feel that. 750 00:31:46,239 --> 00:31:49,200 Heather, I just think, like, do you like me? 751 00:31:49,242 --> 00:31:50,410 *** 752 00:31:50,452 --> 00:31:52,287 "Yes" or "no" question. 753 00:31:53,747 --> 00:31:56,666 It's a "yes" or "no" question. Do you like me? 754 00:32:03,423 --> 00:32:07,802 *** 755 00:32:09,095 --> 00:32:11,139 Heather, I just think, like, do you like me? 756 00:32:11,181 --> 00:32:12,515 "Yes" or "no" question. 757 00:32:12,557 --> 00:32:14,684 Two, three, four. 758 00:32:14,726 --> 00:32:22,400 * God be with you till we meet again * 759 00:32:22,442 --> 00:32:25,278 It's a "yes" or "no" question. Do you like me? 760 00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:27,447 CHOIR: * God be with you till we meet again * 761 00:32:27,489 --> 00:32:29,449 'Cause I'm trying. 762 00:32:29,491 --> 00:32:31,493 Yeah, it is important to me because if you're--if you're 763 00:32:31,534 --> 00:32:33,661 saying you're my friend, and you don't like me, 764 00:32:33,703 --> 00:32:35,914 your actions are showing me you don't like me. 765 00:32:35,955 --> 00:32:37,707 * Again * 766 00:32:37,749 --> 00:32:40,835 I want and have never wanted anything more 767 00:32:40,877 --> 00:32:44,631 than to just be good with you, but you created 768 00:32:44,673 --> 00:32:47,509 the space where we weren't good, and you have never owned that. 769 00:32:47,550 --> 00:32:49,302 I don't feel like that's the truth. 770 00:32:49,344 --> 00:32:51,554 Okay, okay. If you want to just 771 00:32:51,596 --> 00:32:53,556 start ground zero moving forward, 772 00:32:53,598 --> 00:32:56,184 I want to be your friend. 773 00:32:56,226 --> 00:32:58,645 -But you lied, and I-- -Oh, my God. 774 00:32:58,687 --> 00:33:00,313 -Are you for real right now? -Listen. No, listen. 775 00:33:00,355 --> 00:33:02,941 Stop for a second. Let's talk through this. 776 00:33:02,982 --> 00:33:04,234 I wanna talk to you privately, is that okay? Okay. Come here. 777 00:33:04,275 --> 00:33:05,735 -This is nothing-- -Come here. 778 00:33:05,777 --> 00:33:07,612 Hold on, girl. I'll be right back. 779 00:33:07,654 --> 00:33:08,947 Take it to the top. I'll be working on my hymns. 780 00:33:08,988 --> 00:33:11,491 -Is that good? -Yes. 781 00:33:11,533 --> 00:33:14,327 You are a casualty in this, and I'm so sorry, 782 00:33:14,369 --> 00:33:16,871 and he is so sorry. 783 00:33:16,913 --> 00:33:18,873 There's just all these rumors that affect my credibility, 784 00:33:18,915 --> 00:33:22,293 and I'm going to trial to fight for my freedom, 785 00:33:22,335 --> 00:33:24,337 you know, I have-- -Sure, yep. 786 00:33:24,379 --> 00:33:25,505 I talked to Sharrieff, and Sharrieff-- 787 00:33:25,547 --> 00:33:27,841 he was so hurt about it. I told you that. 788 00:33:27,882 --> 00:33:29,843 And Sharrieff's like, "You know what? 789 00:33:29,884 --> 00:33:33,680 Ask--Talk to Angie and Chris. Have him apologize in public, 790 00:33:33,722 --> 00:33:36,266 like he put your name out there in public." 791 00:33:36,307 --> 00:33:38,727 -For sure. Yeah. Absolutely. -Okay. 792 00:33:38,768 --> 00:33:40,437 I wanna move forward. 793 00:33:40,478 --> 00:33:43,440 I don't like living in this space right now. 794 00:33:43,481 --> 00:33:46,526 And if Chris can do this, 795 00:33:46,568 --> 00:33:50,780 then I can move on from this situation, and so can Coach. 796 00:33:50,822 --> 00:33:52,657 Listen, you of all people should know. We were in Arizona. 797 00:33:52,699 --> 00:33:54,659 There's a lot of lies being said about me. 798 00:33:54,701 --> 00:33:57,245 Those are hurtful to me, my husband, and my kids. 799 00:33:57,287 --> 00:33:58,496 And I would never sign up for those lies. 800 00:33:58,538 --> 00:34:00,415 And--And that--that was extremely painful 801 00:34:00,457 --> 00:34:02,375 for me, my husband, and my kids. 802 00:34:02,417 --> 00:34:04,252 And I have never heard those lies 803 00:34:04,294 --> 00:34:07,047 nor corroborated those lies. I think they're ridiculous. 804 00:34:07,088 --> 00:34:09,424 Whitney has been very consistent in saying 805 00:34:09,466 --> 00:34:12,052 you guys were all a part of that, 806 00:34:12,093 --> 00:34:13,845 and, like, you said that, and I'm choosing 807 00:34:13,887 --> 00:34:15,597 to believe Whitney. -Why? Why was--I know, 808 00:34:15,638 --> 00:34:17,849 but that's crazy, man, because, like, when you're trying-- 809 00:34:17,891 --> 00:34:19,392 Like, why would she make that up? 810 00:34:19,434 --> 00:34:21,269 -I don't-- -Like, Whitney's right here. 811 00:34:21,311 --> 00:34:23,897 We can bring her over. 812 00:34:23,938 --> 00:34:26,024 -I would love to know what-- -I'm saying I believe you. 813 00:34:26,066 --> 00:34:28,651 -Okay, well... -Oh, God. 814 00:34:28,693 --> 00:34:30,737 I was just saying, like, 'cause she feels like 815 00:34:30,779 --> 00:34:32,947 I think she's a liar, and, like, I choose to believe Whitney. 816 00:34:32,989 --> 00:34:36,326 I choose to believe that Whitney heard those things, 817 00:34:36,368 --> 00:34:37,494 you were there when they happened. 818 00:34:37,535 --> 00:34:39,371 If you heard 'em or not, that's-- 819 00:34:39,412 --> 00:34:40,914 But Whitney's recanted that and said, like-- 820 00:34:40,955 --> 00:34:43,083 No, I haven't recanted that. I have not recanted that. I--I-- 821 00:34:43,124 --> 00:34:45,585 -So what's the story? -I just think Heather 822 00:34:45,627 --> 00:34:48,421 conveniently forgets or she really has forgotten. 823 00:34:48,463 --> 00:34:50,006 Because clearly you don't remember. 824 00:34:50,048 --> 00:34:51,049 So either you're purposely not remembering... 825 00:34:51,091 --> 00:34:52,842 Okay, so let's-- okay, okay, okay. 826 00:34:52,884 --> 00:34:54,344 ...or it's convenient, or you forgot. 827 00:34:54,386 --> 00:34:55,720 So okay, how do I fix that? How do I fix that? 828 00:34:55,762 --> 00:34:57,764 In either situation, how do I fix that? 829 00:34:57,806 --> 00:35:00,642 Is that--Is that an easy place for you to go? 830 00:35:00,684 --> 00:35:02,352 Like, when you called me about the auditions, 831 00:35:02,394 --> 00:35:04,771 you're like, "I don't really remember how it ended." 832 00:35:04,813 --> 00:35:08,066 I don't even remember what we said last time we were together. 833 00:35:08,108 --> 00:35:09,776 I know it wasn't pleasant. 834 00:35:09,818 --> 00:35:11,569 The fact that Heather can't remember things 835 00:35:11,611 --> 00:35:13,655 that she does to hurt me makes me feel like 836 00:35:13,697 --> 00:35:15,990 that's a Heather problem, and it's not my problem. 837 00:35:16,032 --> 00:35:17,701 It's something she needs to work on. 838 00:35:17,742 --> 00:35:19,786 -Why am I here? -But Lisa understood-- 839 00:35:19,828 --> 00:35:20,995 Last time I saw you when I brought up Lisa 840 00:35:22,330 --> 00:35:22,372 and defended her, you pushed me out of your house 841 00:35:23,581 --> 00:35:24,332 but still invited me to choir and told me 842 00:35:25,417 --> 00:35:25,875 that you forgot we were in a fight. 843 00:35:27,210 --> 00:35:27,919 I am shocked that you want me in your choir 844 00:35:29,587 --> 00:35:31,506 after you physically turned me around and sent me to the door. 845 00:35:31,548 --> 00:35:33,800 I forgot about that completely. 846 00:35:33,842 --> 00:35:35,719 Because what you're saying didn't land with me 847 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:36,970 as sincere or real. -Because it was about Lisa. 848 00:35:37,012 --> 00:35:39,472 It felt like it was fully ----ing fake. 849 00:35:39,514 --> 00:35:40,807 Because I have a friendship with Lisa? 850 00:35:40,849 --> 00:35:43,768 No, like, I-- Be friends. Wonderful. 851 00:35:43,810 --> 00:35:45,770 -All of the-- -It's the first time 852 00:35:45,812 --> 00:35:47,188 that I haven't gone along to get along. 853 00:35:47,230 --> 00:35:48,606 I'm just telling you how I feel. I came to you to say, 854 00:35:48,648 --> 00:35:49,899 I don't want this awkward space anymore. 855 00:35:49,941 --> 00:35:51,651 Hey, don't go along to get along. 856 00:35:51,693 --> 00:35:53,153 That's what I did the other night. 857 00:35:53,194 --> 00:35:54,154 Don't go along to get along. The awkward space is gone. 858 00:35:54,195 --> 00:35:55,113 Hey, great. It's gone. 859 00:35:55,155 --> 00:35:57,365 *** 860 00:35:57,407 --> 00:35:58,867 This is exactly what happened that night. 861 00:35:58,908 --> 00:36:02,078 You walk away and dismiss me, and then we get nowhere. 862 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:04,372 When people start to show you who they are, believe them. 863 00:36:04,414 --> 00:36:06,499 Like, at this point, I'm starting 864 00:36:06,541 --> 00:36:09,669 to feel like, all right, [bleep] you, Heather. 865 00:36:09,711 --> 00:36:11,963 If she doesn't wanna be the same level of friend 866 00:36:12,005 --> 00:36:14,883 with me, that's fine. I now know where to put her. 867 00:36:14,924 --> 00:36:18,011 I'm realizing now, like, after being shut down 868 00:36:18,053 --> 00:36:21,514 for the hundredth time... 869 00:36:21,556 --> 00:36:24,893 [bleep] you for calling me a ----ing liar! 870 00:36:24,934 --> 00:36:27,896 I am so tired. I'm done. Thanks for coming. 871 00:36:28,897 --> 00:36:32,692 Um...I'm done. 872 00:36:32,734 --> 00:36:36,863 All right. We have the whole group together finally. 873 00:36:36,905 --> 00:36:39,074 -Here we go. Melody. -This will heal. This will heal. 874 00:36:39,115 --> 00:36:40,617 This will heal. 875 00:36:40,658 --> 00:36:42,786 Not really, but let's just run that section. 876 00:36:42,827 --> 00:36:45,413 Here we go. Ready and... 877 00:36:45,455 --> 00:36:52,170 * God be with you till we meet again * 878 00:36:52,212 --> 00:36:59,052 * By his counsels guide, uphold you * 879 00:36:59,094 --> 00:37:01,429 * Till we meet, till we meet * 880 00:37:01,471 --> 00:37:05,725 * Till we meet, till we meet * 881 00:37:05,767 --> 00:37:12,732 * God be with you till we meet again * 882 00:37:12,774 --> 00:37:14,234 That's a good song to go out on. 883 00:37:14,275 --> 00:37:15,735 It is, right? 884 00:37:15,777 --> 00:37:17,487 Coming up... 885 00:37:17,529 --> 00:37:19,239 But don't call me a bully because that is not 886 00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:20,448 what the [bleep] what-- what happened. 887 00:37:23,076 --> 00:37:24,744 Wow. Danna, we're done. 888 00:37:24,786 --> 00:37:27,247 Meredith, we'll call you back, baby. Bye. 889 00:37:27,288 --> 00:37:28,915 Listen for a sec-- 890 00:37:35,255 --> 00:37:43,722 *** 891 00:37:44,347 --> 00:37:45,265 [knock on door] 892 00:37:45,306 --> 00:37:48,560 *** 893 00:37:48,601 --> 00:37:50,145 -What's up, girl? -Hi! 894 00:37:50,186 --> 00:37:53,565 How are you? Oh, you look so beautiful. 895 00:37:53,606 --> 00:37:54,858 -You want a drink? -Yeah, sure. 896 00:37:54,899 --> 00:37:56,735 Still? Sparkling? What do you-- 897 00:37:56,776 --> 00:37:57,944 -Um, sparkling. -Perrier? 898 00:37:57,986 --> 00:38:00,071 -Yes. -Pellegrino? 899 00:38:00,113 --> 00:38:02,657 Um...Perrier's fine. Lemon, lime, plain? 900 00:38:02,699 --> 00:38:04,242 -Uh, lemon. -[laughs] 901 00:38:04,284 --> 00:38:05,869 Why do you have-- you have, like-- 902 00:38:05,910 --> 00:38:08,204 Girl, you have all the drinks in there. 903 00:38:08,246 --> 00:38:10,540 Only shortage of food. No shortage of drinks. 904 00:38:10,582 --> 00:38:12,000 -Yeah. Yeah. -Right? [laughs] 905 00:38:12,042 --> 00:38:13,626 What's going on with you? 906 00:38:13,668 --> 00:38:15,754 Nothing much, just working today for a little bit, 907 00:38:15,795 --> 00:38:17,297 showing a few homes for clients. 908 00:38:17,339 --> 00:38:20,133 I'm gonna go to the gym after this, pick up my kids, 909 00:38:20,175 --> 00:38:21,801 and then hopefully be able to get a date night in 910 00:38:21,843 --> 00:38:23,595 with my husband, so I'm trying to manage-- 911 00:38:23,636 --> 00:38:24,846 -It's a lot. -It's a lot of work. 912 00:38:24,888 --> 00:38:26,723 When kids are little, it's a lot of work. 913 00:38:26,765 --> 00:38:30,018 I like Danna, and now that I have shed 914 00:38:30,060 --> 00:38:33,855 the toxic friendships, it's nice to have some time 915 00:38:33,897 --> 00:38:36,107 to be able to explore some new friendships 916 00:38:36,149 --> 00:38:40,362 with people who seem to be very kind and caring. 917 00:38:40,403 --> 00:38:42,030 So what are you guys gonna do for date night? 918 00:38:42,072 --> 00:38:44,074 Maybe go watch a movie, 919 00:38:44,115 --> 00:38:45,658 um, just having some quality time together. 920 00:38:45,700 --> 00:38:47,619 -It's so important to do that. -You do really... 921 00:38:47,660 --> 00:38:48,953 -Yeah. -...need that, though. 922 00:38:48,995 --> 00:38:51,873 Seth and I went through a lot of ups and downs, 923 00:38:51,915 --> 00:38:53,667 and it all would have been, like, probably 924 00:38:53,708 --> 00:38:56,086 headed off if we had just taken that kind of time. 925 00:38:56,127 --> 00:38:57,379 I fight hard. My husband fights hard. 926 00:38:57,420 --> 00:38:58,755 We love each other. We just fight. 927 00:38:58,797 --> 00:39:00,674 We just make it work. 928 00:39:00,715 --> 00:39:01,716 -Fight for each other. -[sighs] Yeah. 929 00:39:02,550 --> 00:39:04,302 -So it's hard. -You gotta do it, right? 930 00:39:04,344 --> 00:39:10,975 *** 931 00:39:11,017 --> 00:39:14,813 -Hey, sis. -[singsongy] Aloha! 932 00:39:14,854 --> 00:39:16,189 Welcome! 933 00:39:16,231 --> 00:39:18,358 Are you blowing up the palm trees? 934 00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:21,903 Well, I'm gonna need your help, but first, give me a hug. 935 00:39:21,945 --> 00:39:24,280 -Good to see you. You look sexy. -How are you? 936 00:39:24,322 --> 00:39:33,748 *** 937 00:39:33,790 --> 00:39:35,083 Whoo! 938 00:39:35,125 --> 00:39:37,836 Oh, my gosh. This water is perfect. 939 00:39:37,877 --> 00:39:40,672 First of all, do you need me to hype you up? 940 00:39:40,714 --> 00:39:42,173 -Girl, I don't need any hype. -Cheers. 941 00:39:42,215 --> 00:39:44,009 I am ready for this trip, 942 00:39:44,050 --> 00:39:46,636 and I'm ready to get everybody hyped up for the trip. 943 00:39:46,678 --> 00:39:49,973 I'm in need of a real turn-up vacation, okay? 944 00:39:50,015 --> 00:39:52,684 Like a Jen Shah-hosted turn-up. 945 00:39:54,894 --> 00:39:57,313 Obviously, I can't go out of the country right now, 946 00:39:57,355 --> 00:39:59,357 but a beach--maybe on the coast. 947 00:39:59,399 --> 00:40:01,026 I don't know. California but somewhere warm. 948 00:40:01,067 --> 00:40:04,904 Girl, I have got a friend with a house in San Diego. 949 00:40:04,946 --> 00:40:07,991 Go to the beach. It's close to the beach. Opa! 950 00:40:08,033 --> 00:40:09,409 I don't want any more healing trips. 951 00:40:09,451 --> 00:40:11,453 I don't want anybody bringing up their trauma. 952 00:40:11,494 --> 00:40:14,039 We get glam. We look cute. We go dancing. 953 00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:16,249 We keep it right on the surface. 954 00:40:16,291 --> 00:40:17,709 Oh, look, that looks pretty good. 955 00:40:17,751 --> 00:40:19,294 Look, this is totally believable. 956 00:40:19,336 --> 00:40:21,046 For all they know, we're in Hawaii. 957 00:40:21,087 --> 00:40:22,464 So let's call Meredith and invite her. 958 00:40:22,505 --> 00:40:24,966 -ANGIE: Okay. -[cellphone rings] 959 00:40:25,008 --> 00:40:27,135 [cellphone chimes] 960 00:40:27,177 --> 00:40:28,970 [singsongy] Hello! 961 00:40:29,012 --> 00:40:32,098 We're calling to invite you to... 962 00:40:32,140 --> 00:40:35,143 BOTH: [singsongy] San Diego! 963 00:40:35,185 --> 00:40:36,686 Whoo! 964 00:40:36,728 --> 00:40:39,230 -Look who I have here. -Hi, guys. 965 00:40:41,358 --> 00:40:43,693 So who's going? 966 00:40:43,735 --> 00:40:49,491 So it's you, Heather, Whitney, Lisa, Jennifer Shah, 967 00:40:49,532 --> 00:40:52,035 and Angie Katsanevas. 968 00:40:52,077 --> 00:40:53,787 And, Danna, I would invite you 969 00:40:53,828 --> 00:40:55,455 except I heard you were talking sh--, girl. 970 00:40:55,497 --> 00:40:57,832 Okay, so wait, Jen, 971 00:40:57,874 --> 00:40:59,334 I think you and Danna have some, 972 00:40:59,376 --> 00:41:01,169 like, miscommunications going on here. 973 00:41:01,211 --> 00:41:02,337 Don't call me a bully because that is not 974 00:41:02,379 --> 00:41:04,047 what the [bleep] what--what happened. 975 00:41:07,008 --> 00:41:08,760 I don't tolerate stuff like that. 976 00:41:08,802 --> 00:41:11,721 Wow. Danna, we're done. 977 00:41:11,763 --> 00:41:13,807 Meredith, we'll call you back, baby. Bye. 978 00:41:13,848 --> 00:41:16,768 Listen for a sec. Oh, God. 979 00:41:16,810 --> 00:41:19,145 I'm not gonna sit here and be bullied. I'mbeing bullied. 980 00:41:19,187 --> 00:41:21,731 Well, Jen, don't even defend yourself. 981 00:41:21,773 --> 00:41:23,858 -This girl's a total stranger. -No, I'm not gonna do this. 982 00:41:23,900 --> 00:41:24,734 I'm good. Invite the rest of the girls. 983 00:41:25,402 --> 00:41:27,195 This girl's a total stranger. 984 00:41:27,237 --> 00:41:29,280 I have to sit here and let somebody tell me 985 00:41:29,322 --> 00:41:31,324 that I'm a bully?! 986 00:41:31,366 --> 00:41:33,159 -I'm not gonna perpetuate this! -Jen, Jen, she doesn't matter. 987 00:41:33,201 --> 00:41:36,955 [bleep] her. Nobody cares what she says. 988 00:41:36,996 --> 00:41:39,416 Well, aloha to me, apparently. 989 00:41:39,457 --> 00:41:42,002 *** 990 00:41:42,043 --> 00:41:43,336 Still to come this season 991 00:41:43,378 --> 00:41:44,546 on "The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City"... 992 00:41:44,587 --> 00:41:47,132 [amplified voice] Thank you so much, 993 00:41:47,173 --> 00:41:50,010 and we'll see you in sunny San Diego. 994 00:41:50,051 --> 00:41:51,511 San Diego! 995 00:41:51,553 --> 00:41:52,887 -Aah! -[horn honks] 996 00:41:52,929 --> 00:41:54,973 *** 997 00:41:55,015 --> 00:41:58,518 [chanting] Suck her titties. Suck her titties. 998 00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:02,147 Heather, I've never seen this side of you. 999 00:42:02,188 --> 00:42:04,065 [gasps] Are you serious, Jen? 1000 00:42:04,107 --> 00:42:05,900 Yeah, I'm serious. 1001 00:42:05,942 --> 00:42:08,445 I was, like, sent a random DM 1002 00:42:08,486 --> 00:42:11,489 with this SEC filing. 1003 00:42:11,531 --> 00:42:13,199 What does that mean about Lisa's company? 1004 00:42:13,241 --> 00:42:16,077 It seems very, very strange. 1005 00:42:16,119 --> 00:42:18,830 Why the [bleep] is she talking about my business with you? 1006 00:42:18,872 --> 00:42:21,207 This is no one's ----ing business. 1007 00:42:21,249 --> 00:42:23,543 Someone close to me was working for Jen, 1008 00:42:23,585 --> 00:42:26,212 and now he's an informant. 1009 00:42:26,254 --> 00:42:29,591 What you're talking about is my life! Check...your...source! 1010 00:42:29,632 --> 00:42:31,217 Why don't you tell Heather how you feel 1011 00:42:31,259 --> 00:42:32,844 since we're all putting our feelings on the table? 1012 00:42:32,886 --> 00:42:34,471 Floor is yours. Go ahead. -I just--No, I-- 1013 00:42:34,512 --> 00:42:36,264 Now I sh-- talked over you? 1014 00:42:36,306 --> 00:42:37,932 You're ----ing still doing it right now, Heather! 1015 00:42:37,974 --> 00:42:40,101 Well, then speak and say what you wanna say! 1016 00:42:40,143 --> 00:42:41,478 I have! 1017 00:42:41,519 --> 00:42:43,605 Heather, your mouth is just going like this. 1018 00:42:43,646 --> 00:42:45,857 There's a whole lot of bullsh-- coming out of it. 1019 00:42:45,899 --> 00:42:47,609 You're coming at metoday? I don't ----ing deserve that. 1020 00:42:47,650 --> 00:42:51,071 [crying] You're supposed to be my ride or die, and guess what. 1021 00:42:51,112 --> 00:42:54,824 That's not ride or die ----ing characteristics. 1022 00:42:56,159 --> 00:42:58,536 *** 1023 00:42:58,578 --> 00:43:00,497 [door knob rattling] 1024 00:43:04,084 --> 00:43:09,255 ***