1 00:00:01,543 --> 00:00:04,129 I don't, like, wanna be on the end or the front. 2 00:00:04,213 --> 00:00:05,631 [Moriah] Can you please help me? 3 00:00:05,714 --> 00:00:07,299 No, you have to fend for yourself. 4 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:11,428 I'm the girl and I get put in the very, very back. 5 00:00:11,512 --> 00:00:13,472 That's how I know something is up. 6 00:00:13,555 --> 00:00:15,849 Honestly, I just can't really put my finger on it. 7 00:00:15,933 --> 00:00:18,227 [Isaac speaking] 8 00:00:22,814 --> 00:00:24,983 [Barry] I'm king of the world! 9 00:00:25,067 --> 00:00:26,485 [Kim] What are you doing? 10 00:00:26,568 --> 00:00:29,071 Oh -- oh, hello. 11 00:00:29,196 --> 00:00:32,198 [Kim] I like him to call first before he shows up. 12 00:00:32,323 --> 00:00:34,952 I don't wanna be in the house and look out the window 13 00:00:35,035 --> 00:00:36,745 and just see him there. 14 00:00:36,870 --> 00:00:40,290 I wanna know if I look out, I'm gonna see woods 15 00:00:40,374 --> 00:00:44,336 and birds, maybe a deer. I'm not gonna see Barry. 16 00:00:44,419 --> 00:00:45,546 I'll just say it all, 17 00:00:45,629 --> 00:00:47,714 so there's nothing left in the dark. 18 00:00:47,798 --> 00:00:50,050 [Kim] She called me out on social media, 19 00:00:50,133 --> 00:00:51,593 which just hurt. 20 00:00:51,718 --> 00:00:53,804 For me, from the time that you two said, "I do," 21 00:00:53,887 --> 00:00:57,015 I see you as a son, son-in-law, part of the family. 22 00:00:57,099 --> 00:00:59,351 I just think actions really speak louder than words, 23 00:00:59,434 --> 00:01:02,896 and so I just hope that now that she's said that, 24 00:01:02,980 --> 00:01:04,690 it actually turns into action. 25 00:01:15,576 --> 00:01:17,578 [rock music plays] 26 00:01:18,745 --> 00:01:21,331 [indistinct background chatter] 27 00:01:21,414 --> 00:01:22,457 [patron] Whoo! 28 00:01:33,719 --> 00:01:35,137 [indistinct chatter] 29 00:01:35,262 --> 00:01:37,431 [Barry] You gonna get a drink? I'm gonna have cider in a can. 30 00:01:37,556 --> 00:01:39,600 Yeah, I might. It's 5 o'clock somewhere. 31 00:01:40,809 --> 00:01:42,686 -Right? -Yeah. 32 00:01:42,769 --> 00:01:45,771 Today's a good day to meet up with Ethan 33 00:01:45,896 --> 00:01:48,191 and Micah and Moriah. 34 00:01:48,275 --> 00:01:49,276 When they're in town, you know, 35 00:01:49,401 --> 00:01:51,320 we do make a point to just get together. 36 00:01:52,613 --> 00:01:54,615 -[Micah] There she is. -[Barry] There she is. 37 00:01:54,740 --> 00:01:56,825 -It's been a while, huh? -[Moriah] Yeah. 38 00:01:56,950 --> 00:01:59,369 So today's just one of those infrequent times 39 00:01:59,453 --> 00:02:02,623 where we just go to a restaurant-bar 40 00:02:02,706 --> 00:02:05,208 and just have some pizza and have a drink, 41 00:02:05,292 --> 00:02:06,376 just to chat. 42 00:02:06,460 --> 00:02:07,919 [Micah] Yeah. 43 00:02:08,002 --> 00:02:09,086 [Barry chuckles] 44 00:02:10,380 --> 00:02:11,423 [Micah] Cheers to Ethan on... 45 00:02:17,095 --> 00:02:18,096 I have an idea. 46 00:02:19,097 --> 00:02:23,769 Let's all go around and say something that we wished 47 00:02:23,852 --> 00:02:25,978 we didn't do today. 48 00:02:26,103 --> 00:02:28,148 [Micah] Do you have more of an original idea? 49 00:02:28,231 --> 00:02:29,983 -Why don't you start? -[Moriah giggles] 50 00:02:30,067 --> 00:02:31,860 [Micah] Did you drive into another fountain today? 51 00:02:31,985 --> 00:02:33,028 No, [giggles]. 52 00:02:33,153 --> 00:02:36,156 I haven't had any incidences since I left Georgia. 53 00:02:36,281 --> 00:02:39,159 There's a lot to run into out there -- yeah. 54 00:02:39,242 --> 00:02:40,661 [Barry] I mean, and there's a lot that can go wrong 55 00:02:40,786 --> 00:02:42,162 in Montana in the winter, you know? 56 00:02:42,287 --> 00:02:44,039 I thought there was nobody out there, 57 00:02:44,164 --> 00:02:46,166 and that's why I wanted to move out there, 58 00:02:46,249 --> 00:02:47,626 but then I realized there were people, 59 00:02:47,709 --> 00:02:50,420 and I also realized I kind of need people. 60 00:02:50,504 --> 00:02:52,506 Like, not you guys, but some people, you know? 61 00:02:52,631 --> 00:02:54,925 -[Moriah laughs] -I don't blame you there. 62 00:02:55,008 --> 00:02:56,843 I'm joking! 63 00:02:56,927 --> 00:02:57,969 [Micah] What are the people like? 64 00:02:58,053 --> 00:02:59,638 Like, the community is very tight 65 00:02:59,721 --> 00:03:01,098 because they need each other. 66 00:03:01,181 --> 00:03:03,100 I can, like, pretty much promise you 67 00:03:03,183 --> 00:03:04,434 that when you guys come out to see me 68 00:03:04,518 --> 00:03:07,479 you're gonna know exactly why I couldn't come back. 69 00:03:07,562 --> 00:03:09,314 I will always have a very special place 70 00:03:09,398 --> 00:03:10,524 in my heart for Cairo. 71 00:03:11,733 --> 00:03:13,735 But Montana's my new home. 72 00:03:13,860 --> 00:03:16,029 That's where I feel like I belong. 73 00:03:16,113 --> 00:03:18,115 I worried about you when you first moved out there. 74 00:03:18,198 --> 00:03:20,951 I worried about myself, but I wasn't gonna tell anyone. 75 00:03:23,870 --> 00:03:25,579 There's been some things in my life 76 00:03:25,706 --> 00:03:27,624 that I've had to work through. 77 00:03:27,708 --> 00:03:30,585 And I just, you know, I needed a reset. 78 00:03:30,711 --> 00:03:33,755 And I needed to just figure things out on my own. 79 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:36,591 And...grow up a bit. 80 00:03:37,591 --> 00:03:39,761 [Barry] Micah, I think we've lost her to Montana. 81 00:03:39,886 --> 00:03:40,971 [Micah] For good. 82 00:03:44,808 --> 00:03:45,767 Moriah seems really happy. 83 00:03:45,892 --> 00:03:47,769 Probably the happiest I've ever seen her. 84 00:03:47,894 --> 00:03:51,398 And I think Moriah's happy because she's found peace. 85 00:03:52,774 --> 00:03:53,942 And peace is hard to come by. 86 00:03:54,067 --> 00:03:56,445 And when you find it, you should keep it. 87 00:03:56,570 --> 00:03:57,571 And that's what I want. 88 00:04:01,032 --> 00:04:03,744 You know, I had in -- I had in my mind's eye 89 00:04:03,869 --> 00:04:07,873 this, uh -- this, like, vision of me 90 00:04:07,956 --> 00:04:11,209 uh, finding some lady in Montana. 91 00:04:16,298 --> 00:04:18,341 Huh, what do you think of that? 92 00:04:18,425 --> 00:04:20,552 At this point, I'm just introducing them 93 00:04:20,635 --> 00:04:24,973 to the topic of me... dating someone. 94 00:04:26,099 --> 00:04:30,270 I am open to meeting people in a variety of locations, right? 95 00:04:30,353 --> 00:04:33,148 Montana being a novel thought, that would be fun. 96 00:04:33,273 --> 00:04:35,567 It would be great to meet somebody. 97 00:04:36,860 --> 00:04:38,945 The only woman I've ever known my dad to be with is my mom, 98 00:04:39,029 --> 00:04:41,615 and...I don't think that's gonna be his type. 99 00:04:43,742 --> 00:04:45,494 I'm staying out of it. 100 00:04:45,619 --> 00:04:48,705 I just don't wanna be the one son that is out at a bar 101 00:04:48,789 --> 00:04:50,957 with my dad and hooks him up with somebody, 102 00:04:51,082 --> 00:04:53,794 and then it's just hell, you know, 103 00:04:53,919 --> 00:04:56,004 if you meet somebody that looks good, 104 00:04:56,129 --> 00:04:58,590 but are you just thinking with that third leg? 105 00:05:01,593 --> 00:05:03,970 Dad, did you really have a vision? 106 00:05:04,054 --> 00:05:06,598 I'm looking at Micah, I'm looking at Ethan going, 107 00:05:06,681 --> 00:05:09,810 I'm in one mode and they're in another. 108 00:05:09,935 --> 00:05:11,645 Ethan, you know, he's kind of playing the role 109 00:05:11,728 --> 00:05:13,480 of "bump on the log," right now. 110 00:05:13,563 --> 00:05:15,649 And Micah, I don't know if Micah realizes it, 111 00:05:15,732 --> 00:05:17,609 but he needs to process that relationship 112 00:05:17,692 --> 00:05:20,570 that was so toxic and work through it. 113 00:05:20,654 --> 00:05:23,365 But I have an optimistic outlook on life right now. 114 00:05:23,490 --> 00:05:24,741 Divorce is behind me. 115 00:05:24,825 --> 00:05:27,619 Now, new chapter's totally begun. 116 00:05:27,702 --> 00:05:29,579 It's a day of new beginnings, Moriah. 117 00:05:31,081 --> 00:05:32,082 Yeah. 118 00:05:34,501 --> 00:05:36,670 This is gonna be an interesting journey. 119 00:05:37,796 --> 00:05:39,506 Dad, what's your best pickup line? 120 00:05:41,091 --> 00:05:42,551 -I don't have any. -[Moriah] You don't ha -- 121 00:05:42,676 --> 00:05:45,136 he doesn't have any. No wonder he's single. 122 00:05:45,220 --> 00:05:46,304 Yeah. 123 00:05:46,388 --> 00:05:48,807 Moriah, he's been out of the game for like 30 years. 124 00:05:48,890 --> 00:05:50,933 Oh, OK, Ethan, what's a good pickup line? 125 00:05:52,477 --> 00:05:54,312 Micah used to use some. 126 00:05:54,396 --> 00:05:57,399 Dad just needs to walk up to a girl and go like, 127 00:05:58,775 --> 00:05:59,860 "How you doing, baby? 128 00:06:01,194 --> 00:06:03,113 "How you doing? How you doing? 129 00:06:04,155 --> 00:06:07,367 How you doing, ha, baby?" 130 00:06:07,450 --> 00:06:08,743 How you doing? 131 00:06:08,869 --> 00:06:10,537 "How you doing? I'm Barry. 132 00:06:11,872 --> 00:06:14,291 I'm from New York." [Moriah laughs] 133 00:06:15,333 --> 00:06:18,044 I honestly would just like to see my Dad 134 00:06:18,128 --> 00:06:19,921 try and flirt with someone, [chuckles]. 135 00:06:21,590 --> 00:06:24,259 -How you doing, baby? -[East Coast accent] Where do you park your car? 136 00:06:24,384 --> 00:06:26,386 Maybe I wouldn't wanna see that. You know, never mind. 137 00:06:26,511 --> 00:06:28,722 I changed my mind. I don't wanna see that. 138 00:06:30,432 --> 00:06:34,728 You'd make a pretty -- pretty interesting New Yorker. 139 00:06:38,732 --> 00:06:40,984 [chuckles] I can't -- it's not gonna happen. 140 00:06:41,067 --> 00:06:43,111 They're nowhere near any type of wingmen. 141 00:06:43,236 --> 00:06:44,195 Yeah, that's fine. 142 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:46,448 There'll be other people who might offer me 143 00:06:46,573 --> 00:06:48,909 advice or introduce me to someone. 144 00:06:49,034 --> 00:06:51,536 -You have one job. -And that would be? 145 00:06:51,620 --> 00:06:53,121 Take your time to find the right one. 146 00:06:53,246 --> 00:06:54,247 -Yeah. -Yeah. 147 00:06:59,127 --> 00:07:01,129 [cows mooing] 148 00:07:14,434 --> 00:07:18,271 [Kaylynn] So a few days ago, we were at the Halloween thing, 149 00:07:18,396 --> 00:07:21,066 and I could sense something was off. 150 00:07:22,067 --> 00:07:25,445 And so afterwards, we had a long talk, 151 00:07:25,570 --> 00:07:28,949 and me and Isaac ended up breaking up. 152 00:07:29,074 --> 00:07:32,327 I never saw it coming, and I kind of thought 153 00:07:32,452 --> 00:07:34,454 everything was going really good. 154 00:07:34,579 --> 00:07:36,790 Today, I'm at my friend Kim's house. 155 00:07:36,873 --> 00:07:39,626 I've had a really, really rough week, 156 00:07:39,709 --> 00:07:42,253 and it might help just a little bit to have a glass of wine. 157 00:07:43,463 --> 00:07:47,634 We're both nurses, and we graduated together. 158 00:07:47,717 --> 00:07:50,470 I share a lot of things with her, and she knows Isaac 159 00:07:50,553 --> 00:07:52,389 and some about the family dynamics. 160 00:07:53,807 --> 00:07:55,933 -[Kim] Hey. -[Kaylynn] Hey. 161 00:07:57,435 --> 00:07:58,770 How you doing? 162 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:03,525 Uh, just as you would expect. 163 00:08:03,650 --> 00:08:06,569 It's kind of been a lot the past few days. 164 00:08:06,653 --> 00:08:08,780 [Kim] I can understand that. 165 00:08:08,863 --> 00:08:12,158 When he came to you, what exactly did he say? 166 00:08:13,952 --> 00:08:17,831 So...we were at that Halloween thing 167 00:08:17,956 --> 00:08:20,875 and I could kind of feel like something was off in a way, 168 00:08:21,001 --> 00:08:22,377 just -- just kind of... -[Kim] Like he was 169 00:08:22,502 --> 00:08:24,337 kind of distancing himself? -[Kaylynn] Yeah. 170 00:08:24,462 --> 00:08:27,966 So he pulled me aside after we got done 171 00:08:29,259 --> 00:08:31,636 and he was like, "Can we talk?" And I was like, "Yeah." 172 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:33,888 And I knew it was like, I knew something was coming. 173 00:08:35,015 --> 00:08:36,182 That's when it all happened. 174 00:08:37,225 --> 00:08:41,187 First, he can't get out the words and then, you know, 175 00:08:41,312 --> 00:08:43,273 I kind of make him like, "You gotta say it, 176 00:08:43,356 --> 00:08:44,607 say it with your chest." 177 00:08:44,691 --> 00:08:50,071 And...he... you know, said that, 178 00:08:50,196 --> 00:08:51,990 "I think we should break up." 179 00:08:52,073 --> 00:08:56,161 And honestly, like, I'm kind of shocked in a way. 180 00:08:56,244 --> 00:08:59,039 Like, it threw me, like, it's thrown me for a loop. 181 00:09:00,415 --> 00:09:02,542 Now, just like, I honestly, I just, 182 00:09:02,625 --> 00:09:04,127 I didn't even know what to think. 183 00:09:04,210 --> 00:09:07,964 I'm just really shocked because out of all the people 184 00:09:08,048 --> 00:09:09,215 in the world that I know, 185 00:09:09,340 --> 00:09:11,301 I never would have saw this coming. 186 00:09:13,303 --> 00:09:15,555 Yeah, and nobody saw it coming either. 187 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:21,311 So, Dad, I have not heard this directly from you, 188 00:09:21,394 --> 00:09:22,437 but I have... -Directly from me. 189 00:09:22,562 --> 00:09:25,106 ...heard it around -- you're open to date? 190 00:09:26,524 --> 00:09:28,693 That was the topic of conversation here 191 00:09:28,777 --> 00:09:30,236 before you walked in. 192 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:33,239 I mean, it's kind of weird to be talking to my ex-husband 193 00:09:33,323 --> 00:09:35,325 about dating other people. 194 00:09:35,408 --> 00:09:37,577 Yeah, well, it's a new age. 195 00:09:37,660 --> 00:09:39,788 Another woman can have him. 196 00:09:39,913 --> 00:09:41,539 [laughs] I'm -- I'm OK with that. 197 00:09:41,623 --> 00:09:43,583 [Ralph] So how's everything been going, man? 198 00:09:43,708 --> 00:09:45,251 There's some [bleep] going on right now. 199 00:09:45,376 --> 00:09:47,128 I'll -- I'll work through it and get through it, 200 00:09:47,253 --> 00:09:48,838 but it's going. 201 00:09:49,964 --> 00:09:51,883 I got scared, I felt like it was moving 202 00:09:51,966 --> 00:09:53,635 too fast and I was too young. 203 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,971 Just seeing her happy and stuff, knowing what I was about to do 204 00:09:57,097 --> 00:09:59,849 to her just still haunts me to this day, honestly. 205 00:10:07,023 --> 00:10:08,900 [birds chirping] 206 00:10:08,983 --> 00:10:10,985 [twangy music plays] 207 00:10:15,657 --> 00:10:18,785 [Isaac] We need, like, a steady hour with the big hose 208 00:10:18,868 --> 00:10:20,787 to knock all that dirt off. 209 00:10:20,870 --> 00:10:22,497 [Ralph] It would definitely make it easier, for sure. 210 00:10:23,623 --> 00:10:24,916 [Isaac] Today we're at one of our sheds 211 00:10:24,999 --> 00:10:27,877 and we just finished up picking peanuts. 212 00:10:28,002 --> 00:10:29,921 Me and Ralph have, uh, 213 00:10:30,004 --> 00:10:31,840 we've known each other since I started last year. 214 00:10:31,923 --> 00:10:33,007 Yes, [indistinct]. 215 00:10:33,133 --> 00:10:34,300 [Isaac] We hit it off pretty well. 216 00:10:34,384 --> 00:10:37,178 We both just like screwing around, spending time together. 217 00:10:37,262 --> 00:10:38,972 -We'll get this one washed off. -OK. 218 00:10:41,975 --> 00:10:43,810 There's no easy way to say it, 219 00:10:45,311 --> 00:10:47,397 but me and Kaylynn, [sighs], 220 00:10:47,522 --> 00:10:49,858 I -- I broke up with her, 221 00:10:49,941 --> 00:10:53,778 because I felt like it was moving too fast 222 00:10:53,862 --> 00:10:54,904 and I was too young. 223 00:10:56,239 --> 00:10:58,616 Just certain thoughts built up to where... 224 00:10:59,909 --> 00:11:01,119 I felt like I was under too much pressure 225 00:11:01,202 --> 00:11:02,704 and I wanted to just be free. 226 00:11:04,038 --> 00:11:05,456 I know she is a little bit older than me, 227 00:11:05,540 --> 00:11:07,917 so she may wanna settle down a little sooner 228 00:11:08,042 --> 00:11:10,336 than I would have in mind. 229 00:11:10,420 --> 00:11:13,214 Just everything my family's been through, it scared me. 230 00:11:21,598 --> 00:11:23,850 No, no, I mean, I wouldn't be the type to break up 231 00:11:23,933 --> 00:11:25,059 with someone 'cause they say something. 232 00:11:25,185 --> 00:11:26,811 It wasn't like an instant decision. 233 00:11:26,895 --> 00:11:28,771 It was just something that I was thinking about, 234 00:11:28,897 --> 00:11:30,732 and that, that's one thing that was really hard, 235 00:11:30,857 --> 00:11:33,651 was seeing her happy and her not knowing 236 00:11:33,735 --> 00:11:35,737 anything's going to happen, you know? 237 00:11:35,862 --> 00:11:39,699 Knowing what I was about to do to her just still haunts me 238 00:11:39,782 --> 00:11:41,201 to this day, honestly. 239 00:11:41,284 --> 00:11:42,535 He didn't know if he was ready to, like, 240 00:11:42,619 --> 00:11:44,245 be completely settled down, you know, like, 241 00:11:44,329 --> 00:11:47,207 'cause he knows marriage is on the table for me one day. 242 00:11:47,290 --> 00:11:48,875 -Yeah. -It got into his head that he thought 243 00:11:48,958 --> 00:11:50,919 I wanted to be married in the next like a year or two, 244 00:11:51,002 --> 00:11:52,295 and that was not the case. -Mm-hmm. 245 00:11:52,420 --> 00:11:55,006 And then some of the guys at work 246 00:11:55,089 --> 00:11:57,091 kind of got into his head a lot. 247 00:11:57,175 --> 00:11:59,010 They were like, "Are you sure you wanna be settled down? 248 00:11:59,093 --> 00:12:00,929 Are you sure you're ready for that?" 249 00:12:01,012 --> 00:12:05,892 With divorce with Kim and then Micah and Veronica, 250 00:12:05,975 --> 00:12:10,605 I mean, he's been surrounded by relationship failure 251 00:12:10,688 --> 00:12:12,774 after relationship failure. 252 00:12:12,857 --> 00:12:17,570 And I think that's put a -- a real big fear on him. 253 00:12:18,613 --> 00:12:22,325 But he's got to understand, you were so far 254 00:12:22,450 --> 00:12:25,119 from the type of person Veronica was. 255 00:12:25,245 --> 00:12:29,123 Your relationship is not the same as the things 256 00:12:29,207 --> 00:12:30,959 that he's experienced with his family. 257 00:12:31,084 --> 00:12:33,503 -I -- -[Kim] How's he been after the fact, though? 258 00:12:33,628 --> 00:12:35,713 [Kaylynn] It was either Sunday or Monday night. 259 00:12:35,797 --> 00:12:39,133 -He called my parents. -Stop! 260 00:12:39,259 --> 00:12:42,011 And, yeah, he called Mom and Daddy. 261 00:12:43,346 --> 00:12:47,267 -Why would he do that, though? -He wanted to apologize. 262 00:12:47,350 --> 00:12:49,769 -For hurting their daughter? -Yeah, he just apologized. 263 00:12:49,852 --> 00:12:51,896 He apologized to them. 264 00:12:51,980 --> 00:12:53,523 He asked Mom and Daddy to pray for him, 265 00:12:53,648 --> 00:12:56,359 and he was like, "I'm always gonna love your daughter." 266 00:12:56,484 --> 00:12:57,986 Mom was like, "You could tell he's confused 267 00:12:58,111 --> 00:12:59,404 about some stuff." 268 00:12:59,487 --> 00:13:01,531 [horn honking] 269 00:13:03,616 --> 00:13:05,618 [tense music plays] 270 00:13:07,370 --> 00:13:09,247 So how's everything been going, man? 271 00:13:09,330 --> 00:13:12,500 -Like, work or personal life? -A little bit of both. 272 00:13:12,625 --> 00:13:15,003 [Isaac] Uh, it's been going, I mean... 273 00:13:15,128 --> 00:13:17,672 work's been good, other than working with you. 274 00:13:18,673 --> 00:13:20,633 But then everything else is, 275 00:13:20,717 --> 00:13:22,176 there's some [bleep] going on right now, 276 00:13:22,302 --> 00:13:23,303 I'll -- I'll work through it 277 00:13:23,386 --> 00:13:25,680 and get through it, but it's going. 278 00:13:27,765 --> 00:13:28,850 It's only been a few days. 279 00:13:28,933 --> 00:13:31,519 That's one of the things that makes me feel so stupid. 280 00:13:31,602 --> 00:13:33,187 And it's one of those things where 281 00:13:33,313 --> 00:13:34,480 right after you make the decision, 282 00:13:34,564 --> 00:13:37,150 you just know in your gut it wasn't a good decision. 283 00:13:37,233 --> 00:13:39,694 She didn't deserve to be 284 00:13:39,819 --> 00:13:42,030 treated that way after everything she's done for me. 285 00:13:43,281 --> 00:13:46,159 We're not really talking, but I kind of reached out 286 00:13:46,242 --> 00:13:47,994 to her and I have no desire to do anything 287 00:13:48,077 --> 00:13:49,996 other than to rebuild it with her. 288 00:13:50,079 --> 00:13:51,080 And that's all I want. 289 00:13:51,205 --> 00:13:53,040 That's all I can see myself doing. 290 00:13:53,124 --> 00:13:55,668 She's gonna have to decide what she wants to do. 291 00:13:55,752 --> 00:13:59,464 A few days of being by myself is too much already, 292 00:13:59,547 --> 00:14:01,174 and it's killing me inside, but... 293 00:14:03,509 --> 00:14:04,719 I just miss her, man. 294 00:14:07,221 --> 00:14:08,598 I'm good at [bleep] up sometimes. 295 00:14:09,724 --> 00:14:12,226 Maybe I shouldn't listen to Mario for advice. 296 00:14:12,352 --> 00:14:13,686 Yeah, you live and you learn. 297 00:14:13,770 --> 00:14:15,146 I don't think I should have listened to him. 298 00:14:15,229 --> 00:14:17,023 Some lessons are best learned the hard way. 299 00:14:17,106 --> 00:14:18,816 Yeah, I guess so. 300 00:14:18,900 --> 00:14:22,612 Where I'm at personally, is pretty close to hell. 301 00:14:22,737 --> 00:14:25,740 It's just really setting in now, and looking back, 302 00:14:25,865 --> 00:14:28,034 that's something I should never 303 00:14:28,117 --> 00:14:31,496 have even thought about letting go of. 304 00:14:31,579 --> 00:14:34,665 I hate myself so much that I just don't even 305 00:14:34,749 --> 00:14:37,418 wanna wake up if I can't be with her. 306 00:14:37,502 --> 00:14:40,421 [engine cranks and rumbles] 307 00:14:40,546 --> 00:14:43,466 I want more than anything to talk to her and work it out. 308 00:14:45,510 --> 00:14:48,096 There's a lot of trust that would need to be rebuilt 309 00:14:48,221 --> 00:14:50,723 and I'm willing to go to the ends of the earth 310 00:14:50,807 --> 00:14:54,894 to do it, but I don't know if I can recover 311 00:14:54,977 --> 00:14:56,813 from this with her, you know? 312 00:14:56,938 --> 00:14:59,273 I don't know if she'd be open to that. 313 00:14:59,399 --> 00:15:02,318 I'm really waiting to see, you know, where she stands. 314 00:15:02,443 --> 00:15:03,444 I don't know. 315 00:15:04,529 --> 00:15:07,281 I just don't know if I've done too much damage to redo it, 316 00:15:07,365 --> 00:15:10,493 but I'm just praying for a second chance. 317 00:15:18,126 --> 00:15:20,670 [Kim] Has he been trying to contact you a lot since this? 318 00:15:20,795 --> 00:15:23,297 [Kaylynn] He's reached out probably, like, once a day. 319 00:15:23,381 --> 00:15:27,885 He wants to meet up sometime and talk, and he was like, 320 00:15:27,969 --> 00:15:28,928 "You know, the ball's in your court, 321 00:15:29,011 --> 00:15:31,264 whatever you -- you wanna do," 322 00:15:31,347 --> 00:15:33,391 um, whenever I feel like I'm ready. 323 00:15:33,474 --> 00:15:36,144 And I was, you know, kind of confused about it, and... 324 00:15:36,227 --> 00:15:38,563 [Kim] You didn't message immediately back, did you? 325 00:15:38,646 --> 00:15:39,981 -No. -[Kim] OK. 326 00:15:40,106 --> 00:15:41,732 -No. -Yeah, make him wait it out. 327 00:15:42,942 --> 00:15:44,318 I have mixed emotions, 'cause, you know, 328 00:15:44,402 --> 00:15:46,904 I do still care for him, I do still love him. 329 00:15:46,988 --> 00:15:48,823 But I've always known my self-worth, 330 00:15:48,948 --> 00:15:50,658 and I've always stuck up for myself. 331 00:15:50,741 --> 00:15:52,243 You know, I'm never a second option 332 00:15:52,326 --> 00:15:53,453 and I'm not for all that. 333 00:15:54,620 --> 00:15:57,290 [Kim] You can't just make these decisions 334 00:15:57,373 --> 00:15:59,625 without thinking about other people's feelings. 335 00:15:59,709 --> 00:16:01,669 I know he -- it was probably really rough 336 00:16:01,752 --> 00:16:04,338 and I know that it took a lot for him to come to you 337 00:16:04,422 --> 00:16:05,923 and talk to you about this. -[Kaylynn] Yeah. 338 00:16:06,007 --> 00:16:11,179 But I want the best for you. And I don't know if Isaac's it. 339 00:16:11,262 --> 00:16:13,973 -There's trust issues there. -Yeah, you're gonna have -- 340 00:16:14,056 --> 00:16:16,684 that -- that's the whole thing about it, though. 341 00:16:16,767 --> 00:16:20,563 When you put that seed of doubt into somebody 342 00:16:20,688 --> 00:16:23,608 and then in the future wanna work that out 343 00:16:23,691 --> 00:16:28,362 or wait and see if he can reconcile, 344 00:16:28,488 --> 00:16:30,281 that seed of doubt's gonna be there. 345 00:16:31,407 --> 00:16:36,204 When a man loves you and he wants to wife you up 346 00:16:36,287 --> 00:16:38,915 and marry you, he will show you. 347 00:16:39,040 --> 00:16:41,250 There will not be a doubt in your head. 348 00:16:41,375 --> 00:16:43,127 They won't allow them to exist. 349 00:16:43,211 --> 00:16:45,046 If he, you know, really wants this, 350 00:16:45,171 --> 00:16:46,714 he's gonna prove it to me with his actions. 351 00:16:46,839 --> 00:16:49,050 'Cause, you know, to me, it's always actions over words. 352 00:16:50,468 --> 00:16:52,470 Honestly, right now, I don't necessarily know 353 00:16:52,553 --> 00:16:54,055 where me and Isaac stand. 354 00:16:54,138 --> 00:16:57,475 I really believed so much that he, 355 00:16:57,558 --> 00:16:58,726 you know, was the one. 356 00:16:59,769 --> 00:17:02,313 But, you know, trust isn't just given. 357 00:17:02,396 --> 00:17:05,441 It's something that you have to earn with your actions. 358 00:17:05,566 --> 00:17:08,236 We'll just see what he does and, yeah, just give it to God 359 00:17:08,361 --> 00:17:09,904 'cause that's the only other thing I can do. 360 00:17:21,457 --> 00:17:24,210 Do you guys wanna sing some music with me? 361 00:17:24,292 --> 00:17:25,336 -[all] Yeah. -Mm-hmm. 362 00:17:25,461 --> 00:17:26,462 Just get up. 363 00:17:26,546 --> 00:17:27,797 [Amber] Ethan's back in Cairo. 364 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:30,967 It's great to have him here. I think Ethan's doing good. 365 00:17:31,092 --> 00:17:34,637 It's kind of hard to tell, you know, with him. 366 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:36,639 [guitar strumming] 367 00:17:36,764 --> 00:17:37,807 [Amber] But since Ethan's moved back here, 368 00:17:37,932 --> 00:17:39,058 he's been really quiet. 369 00:17:40,059 --> 00:17:41,978 -What do you wanna sing? -Oh, I don't know. 370 00:17:43,062 --> 00:17:44,564 Gospel songs or something. 371 00:17:44,647 --> 00:17:45,898 I don't know what Ethan's thinking, 372 00:17:45,982 --> 00:17:49,694 but every once in a while, he'll share something with me. 373 00:17:49,819 --> 00:17:51,195 Wait, I need to be in the middle. 374 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:54,699 But he's not like a very open person, as we all know. 375 00:17:54,824 --> 00:17:57,451 -You know "Amazing Grace"? -[Ethan] Yeah. 376 00:17:59,203 --> 00:18:00,746 It's just really nice to have him around. 377 00:18:02,498 --> 00:18:05,960 [girls singing] ♪ Amazing grace ♪ 378 00:18:06,043 --> 00:18:09,922 ♪ How sweet the sound ♪ 379 00:18:10,006 --> 00:18:16,512 ♪ That saved a wretch like me ♪ 380 00:18:18,139 --> 00:18:19,515 [Ethan] Well, I think it's been a good move 381 00:18:19,599 --> 00:18:22,310 for my little sisters to come back here. 382 00:18:22,393 --> 00:18:24,395 I'm very thankful for the time 383 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:26,897 I get to spend with my siblings, 384 00:18:27,023 --> 00:18:28,691 especially my little sisters. 385 00:18:28,816 --> 00:18:31,110 I think that I did need to come back 386 00:18:31,193 --> 00:18:32,737 and see what it's like here, 387 00:18:32,862 --> 00:18:34,196 what it's like living here again, 388 00:18:34,322 --> 00:18:37,783 just so I would know if I really wanted that or not. 389 00:18:37,867 --> 00:18:41,621 But the days of the farm and all of us there, 390 00:18:41,704 --> 00:18:45,041 it's -- it's not that anymore. It probably never will be. 391 00:18:46,292 --> 00:18:49,253 And that chapter's come and gone. 392 00:18:49,378 --> 00:18:53,049 ♪ And grace my fears ♪ 393 00:18:53,132 --> 00:18:56,802 ♪ Relieved ♪ 394 00:18:56,886 --> 00:18:58,596 I don't know, whenever I'm with Tegan, 395 00:18:58,721 --> 00:19:00,181 I feel completely at home. 396 00:19:00,264 --> 00:19:01,807 Like everything, all the little things 397 00:19:01,891 --> 00:19:03,934 that bug you in life or day-to-day or whatever... 398 00:19:05,227 --> 00:19:08,105 they're just gone. And when I'm not with her, 399 00:19:08,230 --> 00:19:11,567 when I'm away from her, it's like I'm just restless. 400 00:19:11,651 --> 00:19:14,654 I can't -- can't sit still. 401 00:19:14,737 --> 00:19:16,280 I don't sleep very well. 402 00:19:18,574 --> 00:19:19,659 It's just... 403 00:19:21,202 --> 00:19:23,663 well, I just, I know I'm not supposed to be here. 404 00:19:23,746 --> 00:19:27,708 ♪ 'Twas grace that taught ♪ 405 00:19:27,792 --> 00:19:31,545 ♪ My heart to fear ♪ 406 00:19:39,303 --> 00:19:40,304 Mnh-mnh. 407 00:19:46,936 --> 00:19:49,105 Only God knows that. I don't know. 408 00:19:49,188 --> 00:19:53,275 [all singing] ♪ We've known less days ♪ 409 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:56,445 ♪ To sing God's praise ♪ 410 00:19:56,570 --> 00:20:03,577 ♪ Than when we first begun ♪ 411 00:20:06,163 --> 00:20:08,040 [Ethan] It's very nice. 412 00:20:08,124 --> 00:20:09,291 -[Amber] Very nice. -Mm-hmm. 413 00:20:11,460 --> 00:20:13,003 ♪ Go get 'em with the confidence ♪ 414 00:20:15,673 --> 00:20:17,633 ♪ Mm, swerving in, pristine, got you servin' them looks ♪ 415 00:20:17,717 --> 00:20:20,010 ♪ Just like a machine, it's amazing ♪ 416 00:20:20,136 --> 00:20:21,721 ♪ Smooth like so cold, looks that could kill ♪ 417 00:20:21,804 --> 00:20:22,930 ♪ Never getting their fill ♪ 418 00:20:23,013 --> 00:20:24,557 [Kim] I can start with the comb. 419 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:26,642 -I just washed it. -[Lydia] OK. 420 00:20:26,726 --> 00:20:29,478 [Kim] And I didn't do anything to it, I didn't brush it. 421 00:20:29,603 --> 00:20:30,604 [Lydia] Here, I can do it. 422 00:20:31,772 --> 00:20:33,524 -I'm a professional, remember? -Yeah. 423 00:20:33,649 --> 00:20:34,859 I'm a hairdresser now. 424 00:20:34,984 --> 00:20:37,069 Mom and I've been trying to get more time together lately, 425 00:20:37,153 --> 00:20:41,615 and, um, apparently she wants the haircut that I did 426 00:20:41,699 --> 00:20:43,451 on myself, like, last year or something. 427 00:20:44,827 --> 00:20:46,954 I've always wanted to be close with my mom, and I feel like 428 00:20:48,164 --> 00:20:49,331 through the years we have had our times 429 00:20:49,457 --> 00:20:51,459 where we were closer than others. 430 00:20:51,542 --> 00:20:54,754 But there's always been, like, a lack of transparency, 431 00:20:54,837 --> 00:20:58,549 a lack of vulnerability. We're both adults now. 432 00:20:58,674 --> 00:20:59,675 She's gotta be able to... 433 00:21:01,010 --> 00:21:02,011 let her walls down. 434 00:21:03,012 --> 00:21:05,473 What I want to clear up with my mom is, 435 00:21:05,556 --> 00:21:08,809 kind of, one of the root issues 436 00:21:08,893 --> 00:21:10,686 of the distance in our relationship. 437 00:21:12,563 --> 00:21:14,356 Is this your first time seeing a hairdresser? 438 00:21:15,858 --> 00:21:17,234 -[chuckles] -[Kim sighs] 439 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,945 -Um, this year it is. -Mm. 440 00:21:22,656 --> 00:21:25,367 The distance in Lydia and I's relationship, 441 00:21:25,493 --> 00:21:28,454 I feel like my part in that is not reaching out to her 442 00:21:28,537 --> 00:21:31,916 as much as I would have otherwise, because I felt 443 00:21:32,041 --> 00:21:35,669 condemnation, judgment about my life choices, 444 00:21:35,753 --> 00:21:37,630 especially the divorce. 445 00:21:37,713 --> 00:21:40,549 I would love to get back to where we were before. 446 00:21:42,885 --> 00:21:43,886 [Lydia] OK. 447 00:21:45,721 --> 00:21:47,389 [Kim] You've been married less than a year... 448 00:21:47,473 --> 00:21:50,100 -[Lydia] Mm-hmm. -...you know, so I'm sure 449 00:21:50,226 --> 00:21:52,645 you're still on that honeymoon stage 450 00:21:52,728 --> 00:21:54,188 and all that. -[Lydia] Yeah, I mean, I know 451 00:21:54,271 --> 00:21:56,565 there were aspects that were quick. 452 00:21:56,649 --> 00:21:59,235 For us personally, it never felt rushed. 453 00:21:59,360 --> 00:22:03,781 I understand for you guys not having too much time with him 454 00:22:03,906 --> 00:22:05,908 and everything, that was hard. 455 00:22:05,991 --> 00:22:08,619 But I don't want to be, you know, 456 00:22:08,744 --> 00:22:10,162 ten years into the marriage and just be like, 457 00:22:10,246 --> 00:22:13,249 "Well, the honeymoon phase was fun, but now here we are." 458 00:22:13,374 --> 00:22:16,085 -[Kim] Yeah. -And I feel like we've been 459 00:22:16,210 --> 00:22:19,255 doing that pretty well, having tough conversations. 460 00:22:24,927 --> 00:22:26,929 -It's hard to hear, but it's needed. -[Kim] Yeah. 461 00:22:28,430 --> 00:22:32,017 -And he doesn't shy away from hard conversations. -Yeah. 462 00:22:32,101 --> 00:22:33,602 I've definitely always been one to shy away 463 00:22:33,686 --> 00:22:35,104 from hard conversations, but... 464 00:22:36,188 --> 00:22:38,899 Yeah, marriage takes two. It takes two to be vulnerable. 465 00:22:38,983 --> 00:22:41,944 It takes two to be honest. It takes two to sacrifice. 466 00:22:42,027 --> 00:22:45,656 And when hurt from life gets in the way 467 00:22:45,781 --> 00:22:47,867 and wounds you and numbs you, 468 00:22:47,950 --> 00:22:49,910 it affects every aspect of your life. 469 00:22:53,289 --> 00:22:55,291 The tangles are, like, right back here. 470 00:22:55,374 --> 00:22:56,667 -[Lydia] Oh. -[Kim] Ooh. 471 00:22:56,792 --> 00:22:58,127 Oh, I see. 472 00:23:01,839 --> 00:23:03,632 You know, Isaac's coming over to visit. 473 00:23:03,716 --> 00:23:05,301 -Nice. -[Kim] And we're gonna talk. 474 00:23:05,426 --> 00:23:09,013 -Nice. -[Kim] I think, about Kaylynn stuff. 475 00:23:09,138 --> 00:23:12,016 Yeah. That's really sad. 476 00:23:12,141 --> 00:23:15,019 I feel like, even though it was really hard, 477 00:23:15,144 --> 00:23:16,729 I feel like he did make the right decision 478 00:23:16,812 --> 00:23:19,481 in the fact that, like, he is only 20, 479 00:23:19,607 --> 00:23:22,318 and so to have some time, just him figuring... 480 00:23:22,401 --> 00:23:24,904 -Yeah. -...stuff out, I think, is really good. 481 00:23:24,987 --> 00:23:27,323 And I would love it if they could grow 482 00:23:27,448 --> 00:23:31,327 and come back together once they're in a good place, but... 483 00:23:32,369 --> 00:23:35,664 [Kim] I'm hoping that Lydia is kind of realizing that 484 00:23:35,748 --> 00:23:37,625 dating people, going through breakups, 485 00:23:37,708 --> 00:23:41,837 getting married, relationships can be more complicated. 486 00:23:41,962 --> 00:23:44,506 It's not always just, "Well, this is the right thing to do, 487 00:23:44,590 --> 00:23:45,591 just do it." 488 00:23:48,135 --> 00:23:49,136 OK. 489 00:23:53,265 --> 00:23:54,892 You and I used to be really close, 490 00:23:55,017 --> 00:23:56,936 and I feel like all of this other stuff 491 00:23:57,019 --> 00:23:58,687 has kind of crept in over the years... 492 00:23:58,771 --> 00:24:00,606 -Yeah. -...with the separation 493 00:24:00,689 --> 00:24:03,150 and divorce and all of that. -Mm-hmm. 494 00:24:03,233 --> 00:24:04,485 Mm-hmm. 495 00:24:04,568 --> 00:24:07,446 When the divorce and the separation happened, 496 00:24:07,529 --> 00:24:10,199 you know, there was a rift between Lydia and I. 497 00:24:10,324 --> 00:24:12,910 I felt like Lydia has been 498 00:24:13,035 --> 00:24:16,205 a supporter of Barry and not me. 499 00:24:17,539 --> 00:24:20,709 [Lydia] Well, speaking of which, um, 500 00:24:20,793 --> 00:24:22,962 like whenever I would talk to you, it just felt like 501 00:24:23,045 --> 00:24:26,048 there was -- I was talking to a brick wall. 502 00:24:34,098 --> 00:24:36,100 [tense music plays] 503 00:24:37,434 --> 00:24:39,770 Like, whenever I would talk to you, it just felt like 504 00:24:39,853 --> 00:24:42,815 there was -- I was talking to a brick wall. 505 00:24:45,776 --> 00:24:48,445 I felt that you were judging me and -- 506 00:24:48,529 --> 00:24:51,031 and, like, not accepting 507 00:24:51,115 --> 00:24:52,908 where I was in life. -[Lydia] Mm-hmm. 508 00:24:54,493 --> 00:24:57,454 [Kim] It hurts to hear, because I certainly 509 00:24:57,579 --> 00:24:59,790 never intended to be like a brick wall. 510 00:24:59,873 --> 00:25:04,086 So I'm making an effort towards chatting about things 511 00:25:04,169 --> 00:25:05,879 on a deeper level. 512 00:25:05,963 --> 00:25:08,215 I mean, the hardest thing in all of that 513 00:25:08,298 --> 00:25:11,010 was knowing that it was hurting all of you kids. 514 00:25:11,135 --> 00:25:12,886 And that was the last thing I wanted. 515 00:25:12,970 --> 00:25:14,680 -[Lydia] Mm-hmm. -And I'm sorry that that... 516 00:25:14,805 --> 00:25:18,267 -Yeah. -...happened. 517 00:25:18,350 --> 00:25:19,810 I mean, it definitely would have been easier 518 00:25:19,893 --> 00:25:22,521 if he had been the one to leave, you know? 519 00:25:24,606 --> 00:25:25,607 [sniffles] 520 00:25:32,614 --> 00:25:33,615 I don't know. 521 00:25:34,992 --> 00:25:36,160 I'm dating someone. 522 00:25:39,079 --> 00:25:41,331 I don't know if -- if you can step out of a -- 523 00:25:41,415 --> 00:25:44,585 24 years of marriage, and then, 524 00:25:44,668 --> 00:25:48,547 so soon, jump into any other relationship. 525 00:25:48,672 --> 00:25:52,593 I can't support this. I can't say I agree with it. 526 00:25:58,348 --> 00:25:59,391 Yeah. 527 00:26:03,145 --> 00:26:04,146 I just... 528 00:26:06,565 --> 00:26:07,566 I don't know. 529 00:26:08,776 --> 00:26:10,027 Zac could help me put into words. 530 00:26:10,110 --> 00:26:11,111 I can't. 531 00:26:13,530 --> 00:26:14,531 [sniffles] 532 00:26:18,952 --> 00:26:20,245 You know, that's understandable now, 533 00:26:20,370 --> 00:26:23,248 seeing that everything you were going through, 534 00:26:23,373 --> 00:26:25,626 that you were the one that left. 535 00:26:25,709 --> 00:26:28,712 You had to do what you had to do. 536 00:26:28,796 --> 00:26:30,380 There were definitely repercussions from that, 537 00:26:30,506 --> 00:26:34,218 but it's something that we can all grow from. 538 00:26:35,219 --> 00:26:38,055 The last thing I ever wanted for it to come across 539 00:26:38,180 --> 00:26:40,766 was that I was judging my mom. 540 00:26:40,891 --> 00:26:43,727 I think there's definitely part of me that was hurt, 541 00:26:43,852 --> 00:26:47,898 but deep down, that's, you know, was never my intention. 542 00:26:47,981 --> 00:26:50,567 And you know, it's hard to hear that that's... 543 00:26:50,651 --> 00:26:52,236 you know, one of the reasons that 544 00:26:52,361 --> 00:26:54,947 she distanced herself. 545 00:26:55,072 --> 00:26:56,907 Going through all that was just about as hard 546 00:26:57,032 --> 00:26:59,076 as this tangle here. -Yeah. 547 00:27:00,828 --> 00:27:02,246 Does Ken know you're getting this haircut, 548 00:27:02,371 --> 00:27:04,081 or are you just gonna get it and see if he notices? 549 00:27:04,206 --> 00:27:05,415 [Kim] No, he knows you're cutting my hair. 550 00:27:05,541 --> 00:27:08,001 No, he wouldn't -- he would notice. [chuckles] 551 00:27:10,754 --> 00:27:12,673 It's kind of something I wanted to... 552 00:27:13,882 --> 00:27:15,551 talk about with you. 553 00:27:15,634 --> 00:27:17,261 Back when you guys started dating, 554 00:27:17,344 --> 00:27:18,971 it was like right when... 555 00:27:19,972 --> 00:27:25,269 everything was fresh, and then I expressed how... 556 00:27:25,394 --> 00:27:28,605 I didn't approve, and I know there's been lots of ups 557 00:27:28,689 --> 00:27:32,025 and downs for you guys, but I see, um, 558 00:27:32,109 --> 00:27:34,820 you guys are doing a lot better, and I see there's... 559 00:27:34,945 --> 00:27:37,364 um, you know, you're in a healthy place now, 560 00:27:37,447 --> 00:27:40,659 and -- and the girls are happy, and you guys are happy, 561 00:27:40,784 --> 00:27:44,705 and I just wanted to make sure you knew that I'm happy -- 562 00:27:44,788 --> 00:27:46,456 I'm really happy for you, and I approve, 563 00:27:46,540 --> 00:27:49,626 and if that day ever comes, then I'll be really happy 564 00:27:49,751 --> 00:27:51,003 for you guys. -[cries] 565 00:27:54,339 --> 00:27:57,885 Thank you. [sniffles] 566 00:28:01,972 --> 00:28:04,141 [continues crying] 567 00:28:09,104 --> 00:28:10,105 Thank you. 568 00:28:11,481 --> 00:28:12,482 [Lydia] Yeah. 569 00:28:13,984 --> 00:28:14,985 [clears throat] 570 00:28:18,822 --> 00:28:20,699 -That really means a lot to me. -Yeah. 571 00:28:20,824 --> 00:28:21,867 [Kim] 'Cause, you know, like, 572 00:28:23,076 --> 00:28:25,829 I hated how everything happened like it did. 573 00:28:25,954 --> 00:28:27,331 -[Lydia] Yeah. -Where, like... 574 00:28:28,665 --> 00:28:33,003 I wanted so much to give all of you kids a stable home 575 00:28:33,128 --> 00:28:35,130 and two parents, 576 00:28:35,214 --> 00:28:37,174 and, but at some point I just couldn't. 577 00:28:38,508 --> 00:28:40,510 And I hated that I was the one that left. 578 00:28:42,304 --> 00:28:44,097 -Yeah. -But I didn't really... 579 00:28:44,181 --> 00:28:46,225 I feel like I didn't -- I didn't have a choice. 580 00:28:46,350 --> 00:28:49,478 It really means a lot 581 00:28:49,561 --> 00:28:52,439 that, you know, there's some grace there 582 00:28:52,522 --> 00:28:55,901 for how all that played out. -Yeah. 583 00:28:56,026 --> 00:28:57,027 Yeah. 584 00:28:58,153 --> 00:28:59,529 [Kim] Today really helped. 585 00:28:59,655 --> 00:29:02,282 I felt like in her not accepting Ken, it wasn't that 586 00:29:02,366 --> 00:29:04,576 she wasn't accepting Ken, she wasn't accepting me 587 00:29:04,701 --> 00:29:06,119 and my choices. 588 00:29:06,203 --> 00:29:10,040 To me, it means she loves me no matter what I do. 589 00:29:10,165 --> 00:29:11,708 And that just was huge for me. 590 00:29:11,792 --> 00:29:14,127 I wasn't expecting to hear that today. 591 00:29:14,211 --> 00:29:17,547 [Lydia] Alright, start with four inches, maybe? 592 00:29:17,673 --> 00:29:20,384 [Kim] I just wanna be able to move forward as a family, 593 00:29:20,509 --> 00:29:21,843 and Zac is family now. 594 00:29:23,762 --> 00:29:24,763 [Lydia] No going back. 595 00:29:26,890 --> 00:29:27,933 Oh, these are nice scissors. 596 00:29:30,894 --> 00:29:32,562 I'm excited to see what this looks like. 597 00:29:34,398 --> 00:29:36,775 OK, now if you wanna stand up, and I'll just look at the layers 598 00:29:36,900 --> 00:29:39,278 and see if anything needs to be, OK, yeah, 599 00:29:39,403 --> 00:29:40,654 I think I should trim... 600 00:29:45,409 --> 00:29:46,743 Maybe I was supposed to cut it the other way. 601 00:29:46,868 --> 00:29:50,414 Oh, no, that's not what you wanna hear. 602 00:29:55,794 --> 00:29:57,421 Are you laughing? 603 00:29:57,504 --> 00:30:00,882 -No, I'm -- I'm making... -Are you crying? 604 00:30:00,966 --> 00:30:02,801 No, I'm making it all good back here. 605 00:30:02,926 --> 00:30:04,970 -Don't worry. -OK -- OK. 606 00:30:05,095 --> 00:30:06,346 [Lydia] I think that's good. 607 00:30:06,430 --> 00:30:10,267 -Alright, go look in the mirror... -OK -- now can I look? 608 00:30:10,350 --> 00:30:11,727 ...and see what you think. 609 00:30:13,145 --> 00:30:15,314 You know, I do see that she does want to be close with us 610 00:30:15,439 --> 00:30:17,107 and she does want the best for us. 611 00:30:17,190 --> 00:30:19,693 I'm glad we could share this with each other, 612 00:30:19,776 --> 00:30:22,571 and I'm excited to see 613 00:30:22,654 --> 00:30:24,448 where our relationship goes from here. 614 00:30:24,573 --> 00:30:25,866 I hope it's good. 615 00:30:27,075 --> 00:30:29,953 Oh, that looks good, Lydia. 616 00:30:30,037 --> 00:30:31,788 OK. 617 00:30:31,913 --> 00:30:33,623 love it -- I love it. It's perfect. 618 00:30:41,965 --> 00:30:43,091 [Zac] So, how was the day? Good? 619 00:30:43,175 --> 00:30:44,634 Everything's good. Yeah, you know, 620 00:30:44,718 --> 00:30:46,720 I'm just prepping at the house 621 00:30:46,803 --> 00:30:48,138 for some other things. 622 00:30:48,263 --> 00:30:52,059 Zac and I have had time now to spend together more and more. 623 00:30:52,142 --> 00:30:54,561 And so if I need to talk with a guy, 624 00:30:54,644 --> 00:30:56,355 Zac is a guy I can go to. 625 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:57,898 Yeah, I know you got a pool table. 626 00:30:57,981 --> 00:30:59,107 That's fun. 627 00:31:01,318 --> 00:31:03,028 So tonight we're at Georgio's, 628 00:31:03,153 --> 00:31:06,323 and it's guys' night at Georgio's. -That's true. 629 00:31:06,448 --> 00:31:09,493 -I'm living for that shirt. -Let's go to Hawaii, right? 630 00:31:09,618 --> 00:31:10,869 I have one very similar. 631 00:31:10,994 --> 00:31:12,329 I may actually wear to church tomorrow now. 632 00:31:12,412 --> 00:31:13,622 Yeah. 633 00:31:13,705 --> 00:31:16,666 I'm just looking for good wingmen who wanna be a member 634 00:31:16,750 --> 00:31:18,835 of the few, the proud, my wingmen. 635 00:31:20,253 --> 00:31:22,714 I didn't know I was being knighted tonight. 636 00:31:22,839 --> 00:31:26,259 You're being enlisted into a valiant service. 637 00:31:27,844 --> 00:31:29,513 -Need my hugs, guys. -Oh, good to see you. 638 00:31:30,597 --> 00:31:31,556 Alright, man. 639 00:31:31,681 --> 00:31:33,934 -Good to see you. -[Taylor] You too. 640 00:31:34,017 --> 00:31:36,520 Taylor's a friend of Zac's. Taylor's a friend of mine. 641 00:31:36,645 --> 00:31:40,857 Lydia has worked for him. Moriah has worked for him. 642 00:31:40,982 --> 00:31:42,692 Taylor is Kim's boss as well. 643 00:31:42,818 --> 00:31:46,196 So Taylor knows what's going on with the Plath clan, 644 00:31:46,321 --> 00:31:48,031 even when the Plath clan doesn't know 645 00:31:48,156 --> 00:31:50,075 what's going on with the Plath clan. 646 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,160 [Taylor] So what are you guys doing today? 647 00:31:52,244 --> 00:31:53,245 [Barry] We're just hanging out. 648 00:31:54,871 --> 00:31:55,956 Just relaxing. 649 00:31:56,039 --> 00:31:58,083 Just doing a father-in-law, son-in-law hangout day. 650 00:31:58,208 --> 00:31:59,209 -Yep. -Oh, yeah. 651 00:31:59,334 --> 00:32:00,377 We're trying to catch up. 652 00:32:00,502 --> 00:32:02,921 Yeah, what should I have? What would you recommend? 653 00:32:03,046 --> 00:32:05,549 Do you have one of your mocktails? 654 00:32:05,632 --> 00:32:08,427 Do the ginger orange mocktail. It's out of this world. 655 00:32:08,552 --> 00:32:09,719 The ginger orange mocktail. 656 00:32:09,845 --> 00:32:11,388 The ginger orange mocktail, you got it. 657 00:32:11,513 --> 00:32:12,848 Absolutely, yeah. 658 00:32:12,931 --> 00:32:15,517 [Taylor] Barry and I've been friends for a little over a year now. 659 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:17,686 At the restaurant one evening, Barry came in, 660 00:32:17,769 --> 00:32:19,729 and I got to meet him, and we just clicked right away. 661 00:32:19,855 --> 00:32:23,525 Barry and I both have just come out of very long relationships. 662 00:32:23,608 --> 00:32:25,735 And before I met the Plaths, 663 00:32:25,819 --> 00:32:28,572 I was in a really bad relationship. 664 00:32:28,697 --> 00:32:30,740 It was a guy that I was with for 15 years. 665 00:32:30,824 --> 00:32:33,410 And you get a lot of judgment from that, 666 00:32:33,493 --> 00:32:35,912 from the fundamentalist community. 667 00:32:35,996 --> 00:32:37,539 But the friendship that I've gotten from them 668 00:32:37,622 --> 00:32:40,041 and the non-judgment that I've gotten from the Plaths have 669 00:32:40,125 --> 00:32:43,086 really helped mold me into the person that I am today. 670 00:32:43,211 --> 00:32:44,588 They have a special place in my heart for that. 671 00:32:46,256 --> 00:32:48,091 Yeah, so what have you been up to? 672 00:32:48,175 --> 00:32:50,385 Yeah, it's a new chapter. I'm feeling pretty good. 673 00:32:50,469 --> 00:32:52,471 -Right? -Cheers. 674 00:32:52,596 --> 00:32:53,805 [Barry] Yeah. 675 00:32:53,930 --> 00:32:56,600 There's times where I think, you know, it'd be nice to maybe 676 00:32:56,725 --> 00:33:00,187 go out and go on a date and meet somebody, uh, 677 00:33:00,270 --> 00:33:03,773 but I really haven't dipped my foot into the dating pool. 678 00:33:03,857 --> 00:33:05,317 -[Zac] Sure. -[Barry] At all yet. 679 00:33:05,442 --> 00:33:06,485 It takes time. 680 00:33:06,610 --> 00:33:08,612 So what are you looking for exactly? 681 00:33:09,696 --> 00:33:10,822 Somebody that likes to go to the beach. 682 00:33:10,947 --> 00:33:12,449 Somebody that likes to travel the mountains. 683 00:33:12,532 --> 00:33:15,827 -Yeah. -Somebody who's very grounded in her faith. 684 00:33:15,952 --> 00:33:18,205 Someone who likes to stay active. 685 00:33:18,288 --> 00:33:20,415 'Cause I'm in like the second act of life, 686 00:33:20,499 --> 00:33:22,959 and I'm like, there's no slowing down. 687 00:33:23,084 --> 00:33:24,461 So, you know, I kind of envision 688 00:33:24,544 --> 00:33:27,130 my path will intersect with the one. 689 00:33:27,255 --> 00:33:30,050 -[Zac] Exactly. -And then we'll both know. 690 00:33:30,133 --> 00:33:32,135 With the two of us, we're very extroverted, so... 691 00:33:32,260 --> 00:33:35,096 -[Zac] Yeah. -[Taylor] You know, if he hangs with us... 692 00:33:35,180 --> 00:33:36,973 Basically, Zac and I are gonna be your wingmen. 693 00:33:37,098 --> 00:33:39,434 -You can be my wingmen. -Oh, absolutely. 694 00:33:39,518 --> 00:33:40,477 -[Barry] I mean... -Yeah. 695 00:33:40,602 --> 00:33:42,062 [Barry] Yeah, it's much more fitting. 696 00:33:42,145 --> 00:33:45,482 With, like, Micah and Ethan, my son's being wingmen, 697 00:33:45,565 --> 00:33:48,235 I'm like, "Mm, no." That's weird, you know? 698 00:33:56,034 --> 00:34:01,081 Um, well, I'm a little more in tune with how to date 699 00:34:01,164 --> 00:34:03,792 and stuff like that, obviously, just marrying Lydia. 700 00:34:03,875 --> 00:34:07,045 It's nice to have a good father-in-law relationship, 701 00:34:07,170 --> 00:34:09,505 and there's a couple generations separating us, 702 00:34:09,589 --> 00:34:11,299 so there might be some different dating cues, 703 00:34:11,382 --> 00:34:13,217 but, you know, I'll do my best. 704 00:34:13,342 --> 00:34:14,803 -We're like -- -The family thing wingman, 705 00:34:14,886 --> 00:34:16,513 that just doesn't make sense. -We've got you. 706 00:34:16,596 --> 00:34:17,764 -Yeah. -[Barry] Yeah. 707 00:34:17,847 --> 00:34:20,266 [Taylor] We've got him on this. We're not his children. 708 00:34:20,350 --> 00:34:21,768 We're not in weird places ourselves, 709 00:34:21,851 --> 00:34:23,478 so we're gonna be his wingmen. 710 00:34:23,562 --> 00:34:25,021 We're gonna find the right guy. 711 00:34:25,105 --> 00:34:27,690 Right guy --we're gonna find the right girl for Barry. 712 00:34:29,693 --> 00:34:30,694 Yeah. 713 00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,614 OK, so pretend like 714 00:34:35,699 --> 00:34:37,199 I'm a beautiful blonde woman. -[Zac] Oh, dear. 715 00:34:37,324 --> 00:34:38,659 No, we're not gonna do that. 716 00:34:38,743 --> 00:34:39,953 -We're not gonna do that. -What are you doing? 717 00:34:40,036 --> 00:34:41,371 What's your name? 718 00:34:42,371 --> 00:34:44,791 I think that he's been with the same person for 25 years, 719 00:34:44,873 --> 00:34:48,295 so now it's time to see what else is out there. 720 00:34:48,378 --> 00:34:53,967 I actually have an aunt that is single and age-appropriate. 721 00:34:54,050 --> 00:34:57,262 -You wanna see a picture? -Well, in due time. 722 00:34:57,387 --> 00:35:00,265 Well, it's been a while since Barry's been on a date, so. 723 00:35:00,390 --> 00:35:01,808 At this point in life, I think 724 00:35:01,891 --> 00:35:04,561 Barry's type is the type that has a pulse. 725 00:35:10,150 --> 00:35:12,193 -Hi. -[Taylor] Hey, girls. 726 00:35:12,277 --> 00:35:15,071 -Well, look who's arrived. -Look who I found. 727 00:35:15,196 --> 00:35:18,241 [Zac] The ex-wife is there. She's got a boyfriend. 728 00:35:18,366 --> 00:35:19,909 Barry's looking to get a girlfriend. 729 00:35:20,035 --> 00:35:24,247 It's just the dynamics are present in the tension. 730 00:35:24,372 --> 00:35:25,832 Well, I mean, the divorce is final. 731 00:35:25,915 --> 00:35:26,875 The divorce is final. 732 00:35:26,958 --> 00:35:29,377 So I don't know what this world is anymore. 733 00:35:38,678 --> 00:35:41,181 [upbeat music plays] 734 00:35:41,306 --> 00:35:43,808 [Zac] I don't know. I'm an extroverted person. 735 00:35:43,933 --> 00:35:45,852 It's very easy for me to approach people. 736 00:35:45,977 --> 00:35:49,022 Are you like, willing to talk to anybody, kind of thing...? 737 00:35:49,147 --> 00:35:50,649 -I like to engage people. -Sure. 738 00:35:50,732 --> 00:35:52,150 Yeah. 739 00:35:52,233 --> 00:35:54,736 [Zac] Well, it was not on my agenda that I would give 740 00:35:54,819 --> 00:35:56,237 my father-in-law dating advice, 741 00:35:56,321 --> 00:35:59,991 but I feel like I'm in the best position to do so. 742 00:36:00,116 --> 00:36:02,160 You know, I have the most recent experience, 743 00:36:02,285 --> 00:36:03,953 so I've got to help a man out. 744 00:36:04,037 --> 00:36:04,996 [Taylor] You're a single man. 745 00:36:05,121 --> 00:36:06,373 It's time to get you out on town. 746 00:36:06,498 --> 00:36:08,958 I was thinking we could go throw axes. 747 00:36:09,042 --> 00:36:11,211 Oh, now that would be interesting. 748 00:36:11,336 --> 00:36:13,463 Did you know that locally here there's a place where you can 749 00:36:13,546 --> 00:36:15,507 go and do sauna, cold plunge? 750 00:36:15,632 --> 00:36:17,592 No, but I would do that in a second. 751 00:36:17,676 --> 00:36:19,010 No, that sounds awesome. 752 00:36:25,433 --> 00:36:27,769 You know, to be well-rounded, you wanna do stuff 753 00:36:27,852 --> 00:36:31,815 with your friends, have a community, do stuff with. 754 00:36:31,898 --> 00:36:33,650 -People -- -Camaraderie, bonding. 755 00:36:33,733 --> 00:36:35,694 -Yeah. -[Barry] These are great guys. 756 00:36:35,777 --> 00:36:37,070 I like these guys a lot. 757 00:36:39,155 --> 00:36:41,700 And who knows what we might be doing next, you know, 758 00:36:41,783 --> 00:36:43,034 on guys' night out. 759 00:36:44,911 --> 00:36:46,246 Send me the plans and I'm there. 760 00:36:46,371 --> 00:36:47,372 -OK. -[Zac] Awesome. 761 00:36:47,455 --> 00:36:48,873 I'll be back over to visit when I get a chance. 762 00:36:48,998 --> 00:36:50,875 -I need to go check and do my work. -Yep. 763 00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:52,627 -I'll be back. -[Zac] Absolutely. 764 00:36:52,711 --> 00:36:54,129 Single and ready to mingle. 765 00:36:54,212 --> 00:36:56,589 Single and ready to mingle. Let's go find you a girl. 766 00:36:57,966 --> 00:36:59,384 -Hi. -[Taylor] Hey, girls. 767 00:37:00,468 --> 00:37:02,303 -You got a haircut. -[Kim] Yeah. 768 00:37:02,387 --> 00:37:05,056 -It looks great. -Well, look who's arrived. 769 00:37:06,141 --> 00:37:07,267 Look who I found. 770 00:37:07,392 --> 00:37:08,893 -Oh, hey. -Hello. 771 00:37:08,977 --> 00:37:10,895 Your wife does a good job on hair. 772 00:37:11,020 --> 00:37:12,480 -[Barry] Yeah. -It looks good. 773 00:37:12,564 --> 00:37:13,773 Yeah. It looks really good. 774 00:37:13,898 --> 00:37:15,316 -You did a great job. -Yeah. 775 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:16,568 [Zac] It looks great. 776 00:37:16,651 --> 00:37:18,236 So if your day-job doesn't hold up, 777 00:37:18,361 --> 00:37:21,197 you can always go into cosmetology. -Yeah. 778 00:37:21,281 --> 00:37:22,741 -Right? -I can do that. 779 00:37:22,866 --> 00:37:24,993 Barry comes over almost every Sunday for lunch, 780 00:37:25,076 --> 00:37:26,911 but up to this point, I haven't always 781 00:37:26,995 --> 00:37:29,581 seen him really reaching out to us 782 00:37:29,706 --> 00:37:32,083 as a means of checking in or wanting to know 783 00:37:32,208 --> 00:37:34,294 how we're doing. It's more just like, 784 00:37:35,670 --> 00:37:37,005 "Hey, come help me with this thing." 785 00:37:38,089 --> 00:37:41,259 The thing that Lydia has just told me that she feels is 786 00:37:41,384 --> 00:37:44,471 missing is nourishment of just, like, being... 787 00:37:46,598 --> 00:37:47,891 understood. 788 00:37:47,974 --> 00:37:50,643 So, Dad, I have not heard this directly from you, 789 00:37:50,769 --> 00:37:53,354 -Directly from me. -...but I have heard it around. 790 00:37:53,438 --> 00:37:54,564 You're open to date? 791 00:37:56,775 --> 00:38:00,028 -Is that misinformation? -We were discussing that. 792 00:38:00,111 --> 00:38:01,070 [Lydia] Tell me if that's information. 793 00:38:01,154 --> 00:38:02,572 That was the topic of conversation here 794 00:38:02,655 --> 00:38:04,282 before you walked in. 795 00:38:04,365 --> 00:38:06,659 [Lydia] I mean, there's a lot to think about, like, my dad dating. 796 00:38:08,536 --> 00:38:11,790 I'm honestly kind of excited because this will be something. 797 00:38:13,082 --> 00:38:16,836 Well I've just heard around, so-and-so tells so-and-so 798 00:38:16,961 --> 00:38:18,421 told so-and-so, and I was like, "I need to hear 799 00:38:18,505 --> 00:38:19,923 from dad first." 800 00:38:20,006 --> 00:38:22,008 -[laughing] -[Barry] Yeah. 801 00:38:22,133 --> 00:38:23,843 Well, I mean, the divorce is final. 802 00:38:23,968 --> 00:38:26,179 -The divorce is final. -So go for it. 803 00:38:29,182 --> 00:38:31,518 I was sitting next to Zac, and then my ex-wife 804 00:38:31,643 --> 00:38:35,730 pops into the picture, and we're discussing dating. 805 00:38:35,814 --> 00:38:37,565 And she's giving me advice. 806 00:38:37,649 --> 00:38:40,485 It's really like an episode from "The Twilight Zone." 807 00:38:40,610 --> 00:38:42,028 But there it was. 808 00:38:42,153 --> 00:38:44,113 You know, it's a new age. 809 00:38:44,197 --> 00:38:45,949 It's kind of comical when we're here. 810 00:38:46,032 --> 00:38:47,784 Like, "Go for it." Whatever. 811 00:38:47,867 --> 00:38:50,453 I don't know what this world is anymore. 812 00:38:50,537 --> 00:38:51,496 Yeah. 813 00:38:51,621 --> 00:38:54,707 I mean, it's kind of weird to be, you know, 814 00:38:54,833 --> 00:38:58,169 talking to my ex-husband about dating other people. 815 00:38:58,294 --> 00:39:01,256 But, I mean, it's almost been five years since we separated, 816 00:39:01,339 --> 00:39:03,341 so go for it. 817 00:39:03,466 --> 00:39:07,303 I can't imagine going that long and not dating anybody. 818 00:39:14,060 --> 00:39:15,019 Um... 819 00:39:15,144 --> 00:39:16,312 what do you mean? 820 00:39:16,396 --> 00:39:18,064 [laughing] 821 00:39:18,189 --> 00:39:20,108 So has Zac given you good advice, 822 00:39:20,191 --> 00:39:21,985 or are you guys just talking? 823 00:39:22,068 --> 00:39:23,611 Oh, he's given me great advice. 824 00:39:23,695 --> 00:39:25,947 I think the first thing we're gonna go do is just 825 00:39:26,030 --> 00:39:28,867 throw axes. -Guys' hang out. 826 00:39:28,950 --> 00:39:31,536 Should it concern me at all that the talk about Barry 827 00:39:31,619 --> 00:39:33,705 dating went straight to guys' night? 828 00:39:33,830 --> 00:39:36,541 -No, not at all. -No, we're mixing things. 829 00:39:36,624 --> 00:39:37,709 OK. 830 00:39:37,792 --> 00:39:40,211 How did we get to guys' night out from Barry dating? 831 00:39:40,336 --> 00:39:41,880 Like, did I miss something? 832 00:39:41,963 --> 00:39:44,716 There's a girl who's supposed to be in there somewhere, right? 833 00:39:44,841 --> 00:39:47,093 That's definitely the way to start dating someone. 834 00:39:47,218 --> 00:39:48,469 Go have a guys' night. 835 00:39:49,679 --> 00:39:51,890 Yeah, there's dating and then there's guys' night. 836 00:39:52,015 --> 00:39:53,308 And I'm mixing the two, right? 837 00:39:54,726 --> 00:39:56,477 Thank you for the heads up. 838 00:39:56,561 --> 00:39:58,855 I'm getting lots of notes to file today here. 839 00:40:01,024 --> 00:40:04,068 [Zac] The ex-wife is there. She's got a boyfriend. 840 00:40:04,193 --> 00:40:05,612 Barry's looking to get a girlfriend. 841 00:40:05,737 --> 00:40:10,158 It's just -- the dynamics are present in the tension. 842 00:40:10,241 --> 00:40:13,453 But it's just not necessarily a conversation I feel like 843 00:40:13,578 --> 00:40:15,246 Kim needs to be a part of. 844 00:40:15,371 --> 00:40:17,665 It's kind of an interesting dynamic of 845 00:40:17,749 --> 00:40:19,626 someone who wants to know it all and someone who 846 00:40:19,751 --> 00:40:22,587 maybe doesn't need to know anything about it, so. 847 00:40:22,712 --> 00:40:24,047 Yeah, this is a guy-talk. 848 00:40:24,130 --> 00:40:26,382 You guys can have your own conversations. 849 00:40:27,926 --> 00:40:31,596 Another woman can have him. I'm OK with that. 850 00:40:37,477 --> 00:40:40,104 No, I got somebody else's name right here. 851 00:40:40,229 --> 00:40:41,689 We haven't talked in a while. 852 00:40:41,773 --> 00:40:44,651 Tegan gave me the freedom to live up there 853 00:40:44,776 --> 00:40:46,527 or live down here. 854 00:40:46,611 --> 00:40:48,112 And it's not good without her. 855 00:40:48,196 --> 00:40:50,949 Does she feel the same way, about you, do you think? 856 00:40:51,032 --> 00:40:52,492 I think. 857 00:40:52,617 --> 00:40:57,121 I got to ask -- relationship, are you dating anybody? 858 00:40:57,246 --> 00:40:59,540 It's not like I really wanna get into any conversation 859 00:40:59,624 --> 00:41:01,501 with Ken about my dating life. 860 00:41:01,626 --> 00:41:05,672 It's been a very long time since I've even done 861 00:41:05,797 --> 00:41:07,382 anything like that. 862 00:41:07,465 --> 00:41:10,593 Although it'd be funny if I asked him. 863 00:41:10,677 --> 00:41:12,136 Let me give you a few pointers. 864 00:41:12,220 --> 00:41:13,805 Watch out for X, Y, and Z. No. 865 00:41:16,474 --> 00:41:18,851 [Kim] I heard that you broke up with Kaylynn. 866 00:41:18,977 --> 00:41:21,145 I don't know what the hell I was doing or thinking, 867 00:41:21,229 --> 00:41:24,941 but I'm gonna try to unscrew it. 868 00:41:25,024 --> 00:41:27,276 I really don't know if I will get her back. 869 00:41:28,361 --> 00:41:29,362 That really scares me.