1 00:00:02,001 --> 00:00:03,170 [Isaac] I broke up with Kaylynn 2 00:00:03,253 --> 00:00:05,756 because I felt like it was moving too fast 3 00:00:05,839 --> 00:00:07,007 and I was too young. 4 00:00:07,132 --> 00:00:08,842 I never would have saw this coming. 5 00:00:08,967 --> 00:00:11,345 Honestly, I just, I didn't even know what to think. 6 00:00:11,470 --> 00:00:15,682 He wants to meet up sometime and talk. 7 00:00:15,807 --> 00:00:18,227 [Kim] You didn't message immediately back, did you? 8 00:00:18,352 --> 00:00:19,478 -No. -[Kim] OK. 9 00:00:19,561 --> 00:00:21,522 -No. -Yeah, make him wait it out. 10 00:00:21,647 --> 00:00:24,441 Do you guys wanna, uh, sing some music with me? 11 00:00:24,525 --> 00:00:25,776 -[all] Yeah. -[Amber] Mm-hmm. 12 00:00:25,859 --> 00:00:27,986 I think that I did need to come back 13 00:00:28,070 --> 00:00:29,738 and see what it's like living here again, 14 00:00:29,863 --> 00:00:33,867 just so I would know if I really wanted that or not. 15 00:00:33,992 --> 00:00:38,789 But with Teegan, I definitely miss a lot of things, you know? 16 00:00:38,872 --> 00:00:45,712 [all singing] ♪ Than when we first begun ♪ 17 00:00:45,796 --> 00:00:49,132 [Ethan] She truly was my best friend that I'd ever had. 18 00:00:49,216 --> 00:00:51,969 It's hard to move on. 19 00:00:52,052 --> 00:00:54,346 So, Dad, I have not heard this directly from you. 20 00:00:54,429 --> 00:00:55,597 Directly from me? 21 00:00:55,722 --> 00:00:57,015 [Lydia] But I have heard it around -- 22 00:00:57,099 --> 00:00:58,225 you're open to date? 23 00:00:59,393 --> 00:01:01,812 That was the topic of conversation here 24 00:01:01,895 --> 00:01:03,272 before you walked in. 25 00:01:03,397 --> 00:01:05,857 I'm just introducing them to the topic of... 26 00:01:05,941 --> 00:01:09,278 me dating someone. 27 00:01:09,403 --> 00:01:11,947 You know, it's a new age. [chuckles] 28 00:01:12,072 --> 00:01:13,740 [Kim] Another woman can have him. 29 00:01:13,865 --> 00:01:15,534 [laughing] I'm OK with that. 30 00:01:22,666 --> 00:01:25,210 ♪♪ 31 00:01:42,019 --> 00:01:43,020 -Hey, Ken. -[Ken] Hey, Barry. 32 00:01:43,103 --> 00:01:46,273 So today I'm delivering some oats out to the farm 33 00:01:46,398 --> 00:01:49,192 for the horses and the cows. 34 00:01:49,276 --> 00:01:50,319 Is everything going good? 35 00:01:50,444 --> 00:01:52,779 -Yeah, I got some oats for the animals. -[Ken] OK. 36 00:01:52,863 --> 00:01:55,365 [Barry] This is part of my arrangement with Kim, 37 00:01:55,449 --> 00:01:57,826 and, uh, Ken saw me drive up, 38 00:01:57,951 --> 00:02:00,787 so he just wants to check in and say hi. 39 00:02:01,788 --> 00:02:05,417 -Um, is there a place where we could... -Well, normally -- 40 00:02:05,500 --> 00:02:07,669 ...have the bag out of the weather? 41 00:02:07,794 --> 00:02:11,381 Um, the girls have been taking care of all the animal stuff. 42 00:02:11,465 --> 00:02:14,176 -Yeah, OK, yeah. -[Ken] OK. 43 00:02:14,301 --> 00:02:16,595 -It's just, yeah, yeah. -OK. 44 00:02:16,678 --> 00:02:19,306 I'll put it over there. Somebody can feed her later. 45 00:02:19,431 --> 00:02:20,307 Yeah. 46 00:02:20,432 --> 00:02:22,559 And yeah, OK. 47 00:02:23,977 --> 00:02:27,105 So just, just right over on the cement? 48 00:02:27,189 --> 00:02:30,484 Yeah. Uh, do you want me -- 49 00:02:30,567 --> 00:02:32,152 -I got it -- I got it. -Are you sure? 50 00:02:32,277 --> 00:02:33,862 So what's been going on over here? 51 00:02:33,987 --> 00:02:37,074 Uh, working with Ethan mainly on the barn. 52 00:02:37,156 --> 00:02:41,995 Even though it might seem weird in a number of ways, 53 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:45,749 I'm trying to be casual and nonchalant. 54 00:02:45,832 --> 00:02:47,250 So you're settling in OK? 55 00:02:48,085 --> 00:02:49,920 -I'm sorry? -Are you settling in here OK? 56 00:02:50,003 --> 00:02:52,214 Uh, yeah, I still feel a little bit unsettled 57 00:02:52,339 --> 00:02:54,299 just because I don't have all my stuff up here. 58 00:02:54,383 --> 00:02:55,926 -Yeah. -But for the most part, yes. 59 00:02:56,009 --> 00:02:57,803 -Yeah, good to hear. -[Ken] Yeah. 60 00:02:57,886 --> 00:02:59,179 Yeah. 61 00:02:59,262 --> 00:03:00,681 Yeah. 62 00:03:00,806 --> 00:03:04,518 I really was surprised when Barry was concerned 63 00:03:04,643 --> 00:03:06,603 about how I'm settling in. 64 00:03:06,687 --> 00:03:09,272 We don't have a whole lot in common as far as our likes, 65 00:03:09,356 --> 00:03:10,857 but we do get along. 66 00:03:10,941 --> 00:03:14,361 I've really enjoyed getting to know Ethan, 67 00:03:14,444 --> 00:03:15,696 you know, with Ethan living up north... -Yeah. 68 00:03:15,779 --> 00:03:18,115 -...I really never get... -Yeah. 69 00:03:18,198 --> 00:03:19,199 ...get to hang out with him 70 00:03:19,282 --> 00:03:20,992 or really even talk to him. -[Barry] Mm-hmm. 71 00:03:22,244 --> 00:03:23,245 Yeah. 72 00:03:24,454 --> 00:03:26,540 Yeah, 'cause, you know, 73 00:03:26,665 --> 00:03:31,002 you know, with -- with the -- the ending of, you know, 74 00:03:31,086 --> 00:03:33,296 Teegan and him, right? -Right. 75 00:03:33,380 --> 00:03:34,589 That was rough, 76 00:03:34,715 --> 00:03:35,716 just, you know. -[Ken] Yeah. 77 00:03:37,466 --> 00:03:39,720 So I gotta ask, relationships, 78 00:03:39,803 --> 00:03:41,888 are you dating anybody? 79 00:03:42,013 --> 00:03:43,515 -Personally, right now, no. -[Ken speaks indistinctly] 80 00:03:43,598 --> 00:03:44,599 No, I'm not. 81 00:03:44,725 --> 00:03:48,437 I'm not there yet, but maybe soon. 82 00:03:49,521 --> 00:03:51,356 Ken's question about dating, 83 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:53,942 it's just, well, it's an interesting question. 84 00:03:54,067 --> 00:03:55,067 It's not like I really... 85 00:03:56,737 --> 00:04:00,031 wanna get into any conversation with Ken about my dating life. 86 00:04:00,115 --> 00:04:01,199 [laughing] You know? 87 00:04:01,283 --> 00:04:03,368 -It's been a very long time... -Yeah. 88 00:04:03,452 --> 00:04:06,246 -...since I've even done anything like that. -You just -- 89 00:04:08,331 --> 00:04:09,750 Yeah. 90 00:04:09,875 --> 00:04:12,919 Although it'd be funny if I -- I asked him. 91 00:04:13,044 --> 00:04:14,838 "So how's it going with Kim?" 92 00:04:16,589 --> 00:04:17,841 Let me give you a few pointers. 93 00:04:17,923 --> 00:04:20,385 Watch out for X, Y, and Z. No, [chuckles]. 94 00:04:22,262 --> 00:04:23,513 So in the day, 95 00:04:23,597 --> 00:04:25,557 like, when we originally moved out here, 96 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:27,434 -[Ken] Mm-hmm. -Kim was really big into juicing. 97 00:04:29,728 --> 00:04:32,022 Like she was -- that was her thing. 98 00:04:32,105 --> 00:04:35,525 She juiced like no one I've -- I had ever met before. 99 00:04:35,609 --> 00:04:37,277 -Mm. -[Barry laughs] 100 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:39,404 Does she juice any these days? 101 00:04:39,488 --> 00:04:41,698 Uh, she did a little bit of juicing 102 00:04:41,782 --> 00:04:45,118 with one of my juicers. -But not with the big juicer? 103 00:04:45,202 --> 00:04:46,578 -[Ken] No. -OK. 104 00:04:46,661 --> 00:04:47,829 [Ken] I'm pretty sure. 105 00:04:47,954 --> 00:04:53,084 Um, so when -- when Kim took some things from, um, 106 00:04:53,168 --> 00:04:55,253 the house, she took the juicer. 107 00:04:56,588 --> 00:04:58,548 And I'm still on my health kick. 108 00:04:58,632 --> 00:05:00,300 -[Ken] Right, right. -And it's -- I would like 109 00:05:00,383 --> 00:05:05,347 to incorporate some -- some juicing into my routine. 110 00:05:05,472 --> 00:05:09,434 And I'm just wondering if maybe I could borrow the juicer. 111 00:05:09,518 --> 00:05:12,687 Uh, yeah, you're more than welcome to help me look for it. 112 00:05:12,813 --> 00:05:14,606 I'm pretty sure I saw a juicer, 113 00:05:14,689 --> 00:05:16,608 but I'm not 100% sure where... 114 00:05:16,691 --> 00:05:18,318 in the house. -OK -- yeah, you can't miss this juicer. 115 00:05:18,443 --> 00:05:20,195 This is like... 116 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:23,073 the mother of all juicers. -[Ken] OK. 117 00:05:23,156 --> 00:05:24,324 [Barry] Right? 118 00:05:25,826 --> 00:05:29,371 Back when Kim and I were first married, 119 00:05:29,496 --> 00:05:31,748 Kim went big into juicing. 120 00:05:31,832 --> 00:05:34,459 Juicing carrots, greens. 121 00:05:34,543 --> 00:05:35,836 Hey, that looks familiar. 122 00:05:37,087 --> 00:05:38,672 -Is that yours? -I think that's mine. 123 00:05:38,797 --> 00:05:40,090 [both laugh] 124 00:05:40,173 --> 00:05:43,260 Bottom line is, Kim had her phase of health kick, 125 00:05:43,343 --> 00:05:45,220 and juicing was a real big part of it. 126 00:05:45,345 --> 00:05:46,471 [both] OK. 127 00:05:46,555 --> 00:05:50,433 So it's gonna be somewhere either in this room. 128 00:05:50,517 --> 00:05:52,060 [Barry] OK. 129 00:05:52,185 --> 00:05:54,688 [Ken] Or it could be in here in this closet. 130 00:05:56,690 --> 00:05:58,817 Let's -- let's maybe start with the closet. 131 00:05:58,900 --> 00:05:59,901 OK. 132 00:06:00,026 --> 00:06:01,278 [Barry] I look the house over, and... 133 00:06:01,361 --> 00:06:05,407 it doesn't look anything like what I'm used to from the past. 134 00:06:05,532 --> 00:06:08,034 I don't see it. 135 00:06:08,159 --> 00:06:09,828 Maybe back, what is that back there? 136 00:06:10,495 --> 00:06:11,663 [indistinct] 137 00:06:12,956 --> 00:06:15,709 -[Barry] Ahh. -[Ken] Does that look like it? 138 00:06:15,834 --> 00:06:18,753 [Barry] This is it. 139 00:06:20,171 --> 00:06:21,590 -OK. -[Barry] The juicer. 140 00:06:21,715 --> 00:06:22,883 Juicer. 141 00:06:24,259 --> 00:06:26,511 Yeah, so anyway, I'll take this with me, 142 00:06:26,595 --> 00:06:29,973 and before I go, is there, like... 143 00:06:30,056 --> 00:06:31,683 one song -- the jukebox? 144 00:06:31,766 --> 00:06:33,018 Yeah, you want to check it out? 145 00:06:33,101 --> 00:06:34,936 -Check it out? -Absolutely. 146 00:06:35,061 --> 00:06:36,938 Yeah. Let's go check out the jukebox, 147 00:06:37,063 --> 00:06:38,273 'cause I'm curious about that thing. 148 00:06:38,398 --> 00:06:39,900 It looks really nice. 149 00:06:39,983 --> 00:06:43,737 There's a lot of things all over the place. 150 00:06:43,820 --> 00:06:46,239 And I get that, blending two households. 151 00:06:46,364 --> 00:06:47,657 I mean, it's got a cozy feel. 152 00:06:49,451 --> 00:06:51,453 But, uh, yeah, a really cozy feel. 153 00:06:54,539 --> 00:06:55,749 -[Ken] Here it is. -[Barry] Looks pretty cool. 154 00:06:55,874 --> 00:06:58,919 It's old. It's older than I am. 155 00:06:59,002 --> 00:07:02,213 It's...that is pretty cool. 156 00:07:02,297 --> 00:07:04,591 Well, pick you out a song and play it. 157 00:07:04,716 --> 00:07:07,969 He's never here for very long when he does come. 158 00:07:08,094 --> 00:07:10,764 But when Barry comes, he and I get along great. 159 00:07:11,932 --> 00:07:13,350 [Barry] Oh, you got Neil Diamond in there. 160 00:07:13,433 --> 00:07:17,020 -Oh, so A -- A1, huh? -[machine buzzes] 161 00:07:17,103 --> 00:07:18,939 [Ken] Uh-oh, it's stuck. 162 00:07:19,022 --> 00:07:21,650 [Barry] Ken's kind of stoic, so reading him, 163 00:07:21,775 --> 00:07:25,612 I don't spend time, like, trying to dissect and analyze 164 00:07:25,695 --> 00:07:28,365 what his nonverbals really mean. 165 00:07:29,616 --> 00:07:31,201 I don't get any bad vibes. 166 00:07:31,284 --> 00:07:33,370 [Ken speaking] 167 00:07:33,453 --> 00:07:34,579 [both laugh] 168 00:07:36,122 --> 00:07:38,207 [Barry] Alright, let's see if it does it again. 169 00:07:38,291 --> 00:07:39,626 [Ken] Try it again, see if it'll go this time. 170 00:07:39,751 --> 00:07:40,627 [Barry] Alright, let's set it. 171 00:07:40,752 --> 00:07:42,629 [rock music playing] 172 00:07:42,754 --> 00:07:44,506 -[Ken] Mm. -[Barry] Mm-hmm. 173 00:07:44,631 --> 00:07:46,466 [Ken speaking] 174 00:07:46,591 --> 00:07:47,884 Yeah. 175 00:07:47,968 --> 00:07:49,970 [rock music playing] 176 00:08:01,982 --> 00:08:04,526 [Russell] Nothing always lines up the way it's supposed to. 177 00:08:06,695 --> 00:08:09,489 -[Russell] There's my man. -[Ethan] Hey, Russell. 178 00:08:09,572 --> 00:08:11,157 -What's up? -Nothing. 179 00:08:11,241 --> 00:08:13,201 -Sleep good? -Yeah. 180 00:08:13,326 --> 00:08:14,828 -You ready? -Yeah. 181 00:08:14,953 --> 00:08:16,121 -Fix it. -Alright. 182 00:08:16,204 --> 00:08:17,205 [laughs] 183 00:08:17,330 --> 00:08:20,834 We're at Russell's Military Vehicles. 184 00:08:20,917 --> 00:08:22,085 I work for him. 185 00:08:22,168 --> 00:08:24,337 Been working for him for a little while 186 00:08:24,421 --> 00:08:25,672 since I've been down here. 187 00:08:25,797 --> 00:08:27,757 Needs the oil pan, so we're gonna raise this thing up first 188 00:08:27,841 --> 00:08:28,925 to get the oil pan on it? -Mm-hmm. 189 00:08:29,009 --> 00:08:30,051 -Let's do that. -[Ethan] OK. 190 00:08:30,176 --> 00:08:33,638 I help him restore older, you know, Jeeps 191 00:08:33,722 --> 00:08:35,306 and military equipment. 192 00:08:38,601 --> 00:08:39,811 Choose your weapon of choice. 193 00:08:42,105 --> 00:08:44,232 -Ooh, picky. -I'll do this one -- yeah. 194 00:08:44,357 --> 00:08:47,527 Ethan showed up because he was a good friend of my son. 195 00:08:47,652 --> 00:08:48,820 He was driving this old Mercury. 196 00:08:48,903 --> 00:08:51,364 I'm like, "Driving an old grandfather car for?" 197 00:08:51,448 --> 00:08:54,993 He's like, "That's what I do. I like working on old cars." 198 00:08:55,076 --> 00:08:56,870 Click. I tested him. 199 00:08:56,953 --> 00:08:59,205 I came in here and asked him a lot of questions. 200 00:08:59,330 --> 00:09:00,749 He answered every one of them. 201 00:09:00,874 --> 00:09:02,709 I hired him in a heartbeat. 202 00:09:02,834 --> 00:09:04,669 Put that thing right there. 203 00:09:05,670 --> 00:09:07,130 My guys that normally would clean that, 204 00:09:07,213 --> 00:09:08,256 you know what they would do? 205 00:09:08,381 --> 00:09:09,799 Blow it with a blow gun. 206 00:09:09,883 --> 00:09:11,134 "Yeah, that's good enough." 207 00:09:11,217 --> 00:09:12,844 -That's not quality. -Mnh-mnh. 208 00:09:12,927 --> 00:09:14,679 That's quality control right there. 209 00:09:14,763 --> 00:09:15,764 Mm-hmm. 210 00:09:16,806 --> 00:09:20,894 So, uh, what you got plans for your future? 211 00:09:21,019 --> 00:09:22,937 I was thinking I would... 212 00:09:23,063 --> 00:09:24,773 Open up a shop and just kinda do restorations 213 00:09:24,898 --> 00:09:27,192 and stuff like that, sort of? 214 00:09:27,275 --> 00:09:28,985 That's what I'd like to do someday. 215 00:09:29,069 --> 00:09:32,072 Yeah, I had planned on retiring, but if I had somebody 216 00:09:32,197 --> 00:09:36,409 would run this with a name on his shirt, 217 00:09:36,534 --> 00:09:37,660 I'd keep it going. 218 00:09:37,744 --> 00:09:40,705 And listen, I'm turning down work every day. 219 00:09:40,789 --> 00:09:42,540 -[Ethan] Yeah, I know you are. -Every day. 220 00:09:42,624 --> 00:09:44,584 -You like doing this, right? -Mm-hmm. 221 00:09:44,709 --> 00:09:45,710 [Russell] I need a guy. 222 00:09:47,045 --> 00:09:49,255 Russell's Military Vehicles right there. 223 00:09:49,380 --> 00:09:50,965 Boy, it'd look good on you too. 224 00:09:51,091 --> 00:09:52,509 I'll make sure they're black shirts. 225 00:09:54,094 --> 00:09:55,553 -Oh, black shirts? -Yeah. 226 00:09:55,637 --> 00:09:57,472 -I've got black shirts with my name on it. -Maybe I'll stay. 227 00:09:57,597 --> 00:09:59,641 No, I got somebody else's name right here. 228 00:09:59,766 --> 00:10:01,601 -Oh my God. -Yeah. 229 00:10:01,684 --> 00:10:03,686 -Next to the heart -- wow. -Mm-hmm. 230 00:10:03,770 --> 00:10:08,399 There was a girl I dated for like a year and a half. 231 00:10:09,484 --> 00:10:12,612 -She lives in Wisconsin. -What's her name? 232 00:10:12,695 --> 00:10:13,655 Teegan. 233 00:10:13,780 --> 00:10:17,033 Teegan? What a name -- wow. 234 00:10:17,117 --> 00:10:19,119 Sounds good with Ethan, I think. 235 00:10:19,202 --> 00:10:20,954 Here we go. OK, yeah. 236 00:10:21,079 --> 00:10:23,331 -And she still lives there? -Mm-hmm. 237 00:10:23,456 --> 00:10:24,457 Yeah, I don't know. 238 00:10:24,541 --> 00:10:25,834 I haven't talked to Teegan in a while. 239 00:10:25,959 --> 00:10:27,085 I don't know. 240 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:33,174 I don't know what she's up to or how she's doing. 241 00:10:33,299 --> 00:10:36,594 Teegan gave me the freedom to live down here 242 00:10:36,678 --> 00:10:37,846 and see what I want. 243 00:10:37,971 --> 00:10:41,307 I told Teegan that I would move to Wisconsin, 244 00:10:41,391 --> 00:10:46,396 and...I did want to, but I just -- I was like, 245 00:10:46,479 --> 00:10:48,481 I guess maybe I wasn't ready yet or something. 246 00:10:48,565 --> 00:10:49,566 I don't know. 247 00:10:50,567 --> 00:10:56,322 But that really did affect our relationship a lot. 248 00:10:56,406 --> 00:10:57,699 It was a big part of us breaking up 249 00:10:57,824 --> 00:10:59,325 'cause she just felt like... 250 00:11:00,743 --> 00:11:03,371 I didn't really care, you know? 251 00:11:03,496 --> 00:11:05,331 It wasn't important to me to move to Wisconsin 252 00:11:05,415 --> 00:11:06,416 and be with her. 253 00:11:07,667 --> 00:11:10,044 So you know I've offered you this business? 254 00:11:10,170 --> 00:11:11,588 -[Ethan] Yeah. -Yeah. 255 00:11:11,671 --> 00:11:13,840 Put your name up there on the building, [clicks tongue]. 256 00:11:13,965 --> 00:11:15,508 -Right underneath mine. -Mm-hmm. 257 00:11:15,633 --> 00:11:18,636 You could eventually work your way to above mine. 258 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:19,888 I'll work for you. 259 00:11:20,013 --> 00:11:22,557 -Yeah? -Yeah. 260 00:11:22,682 --> 00:11:27,020 Being back in Georgia was nice, but it's not good without her. 261 00:11:28,021 --> 00:11:29,355 Teegan is home to me. 262 00:11:30,356 --> 00:11:34,694 Well, if I was staying here, I would definitely consider 263 00:11:34,777 --> 00:11:38,198 taking your business on. -That's a promising answer. 264 00:11:38,281 --> 00:11:39,407 -[Ethan] Mm-hmm. -Yeah 265 00:11:39,532 --> 00:11:44,537 But I've made up my mind, and... 266 00:11:44,662 --> 00:11:45,914 I can't stay here. 267 00:11:46,039 --> 00:11:47,498 Oh. 268 00:11:47,582 --> 00:11:48,790 No matter how much I... 269 00:11:49,792 --> 00:11:52,712 actually wanted to come back to Georgia 270 00:11:52,837 --> 00:11:56,382 for -- for Georgia's sake, you know, where I grew up, 271 00:11:56,466 --> 00:11:58,218 whatever, that doesn't mean anything 272 00:11:58,343 --> 00:12:00,970 when your -- your heart is somewhere else. 273 00:12:03,932 --> 00:12:06,601 Let's dive into who it is you're looking for. 274 00:12:06,726 --> 00:12:08,770 I'm doing a video chat with Renee. 275 00:12:08,895 --> 00:12:11,689 She's gonna try to find the love of my life. 276 00:12:11,773 --> 00:12:14,651 [Renee] Do you lean more towards a particular type? 277 00:12:14,734 --> 00:12:18,238 I guess, in four words, the Sandra Bullock look. 278 00:12:18,321 --> 00:12:19,781 Sandra Bullock, OK. 279 00:12:21,824 --> 00:12:23,868 Do you know where my juicer is? 280 00:12:23,952 --> 00:12:25,578 -The big white juicer? -[Kim] Yeah. 281 00:12:25,703 --> 00:12:27,497 When Barry came out, he took it. 282 00:12:29,165 --> 00:12:31,751 I can't believe as long as that juicer has sat 283 00:12:31,834 --> 00:12:33,753 on the shelf, Barry just takes it 284 00:12:33,878 --> 00:12:35,880 the day before I'm ready to use it. 285 00:12:35,964 --> 00:12:38,258 OK, well, I got an issue with Barry then. 286 00:12:47,308 --> 00:12:50,019 I made up my mind, and... 287 00:12:50,144 --> 00:12:52,647 -I can't stay here. -Oh. 288 00:12:52,772 --> 00:12:54,983 I'm moving to Wisconsin. 289 00:12:55,066 --> 00:12:56,067 Wisconsin? 290 00:12:58,194 --> 00:12:59,988 Does she know you're coming to Wisconsin? 291 00:13:01,489 --> 00:13:02,490 Uh-huh. 292 00:13:04,659 --> 00:13:08,162 After me and Teegan broke up, I kept thinking about it, 293 00:13:08,288 --> 00:13:10,331 and I was like, I really -- 294 00:13:10,456 --> 00:13:11,916 I really want us to be together, 295 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:13,960 you know, and I really wanna be up there. 296 00:13:14,043 --> 00:13:17,547 If I tell her that I'm moving, I don't think she'll believe me 297 00:13:17,672 --> 00:13:19,590 until I'm there, so I'm just gonna go. 298 00:13:21,467 --> 00:13:23,428 -We haven't talked in a while. -[Russell] Really? 299 00:13:23,511 --> 00:13:24,721 -Mm-hmm. -And you're moving? 300 00:13:24,846 --> 00:13:27,724 -Mm-hmm. -Mm, you're running after her? 301 00:13:27,849 --> 00:13:29,600 -Mm-hmm. -Is that it? 302 00:13:29,684 --> 00:13:31,811 I kept thinking about, like, the risk of, like, 303 00:13:31,894 --> 00:13:35,773 OK, if I up and move my life and then she says no 304 00:13:35,857 --> 00:13:37,608 or she's found somebody else or something, 305 00:13:37,692 --> 00:13:40,653 and I did all that for nothing. 306 00:13:40,737 --> 00:13:42,196 And then one day I was like, 307 00:13:42,322 --> 00:13:44,365 "That's just a risk that I'm willing to take." 308 00:13:45,616 --> 00:13:47,869 I can't shake it, so... 309 00:13:47,952 --> 00:13:52,040 I decided I'm gonna go up there and give it my best shot. 310 00:13:54,125 --> 00:13:55,543 So you got pictures of this girl? 311 00:13:55,668 --> 00:13:57,378 -Mm-hmm. -OK. 312 00:13:57,503 --> 00:13:58,713 Oh, yeah. 313 00:13:58,796 --> 00:14:00,465 Dig in that thick, old, fat wallet. 314 00:14:02,008 --> 00:14:03,009 Oh, yeah. 315 00:14:04,010 --> 00:14:07,638 She's got that enticing look going on in this picture. 316 00:14:07,722 --> 00:14:09,557 So look at that smile on your face. 317 00:14:09,682 --> 00:14:11,726 You don't smile that much here. I never see your teeth. 318 00:14:11,809 --> 00:14:13,436 Look at that. You got teeth. 319 00:14:13,561 --> 00:14:15,021 I didn't know you had bottom teeth, too. 320 00:14:15,104 --> 00:14:16,814 That's cool. 321 00:14:16,898 --> 00:14:19,901 -You look like a couple. -Mm-hmm. 322 00:14:20,026 --> 00:14:22,236 There's your lottery ticket. You lost, by the way. 323 00:14:22,362 --> 00:14:24,072 No, this is from a date that we went. 324 00:14:24,197 --> 00:14:26,407 -Oh, you even kept the receipt... -Mm-hmm. 325 00:14:26,532 --> 00:14:27,909 -...for the date... -Mm-hmm. 326 00:14:28,034 --> 00:14:28,993 ...to give to her or? 327 00:14:29,077 --> 00:14:30,912 No, just to look at now and then. 328 00:14:30,995 --> 00:14:32,705 Does she feel the same way about you? 329 00:14:32,789 --> 00:14:35,290 -You think? -I think. 330 00:14:35,415 --> 00:14:37,251 -Do you think? -Mm-hmm. 331 00:14:37,335 --> 00:14:38,586 -And you're moving? -Mm-hmm. 332 00:14:38,711 --> 00:14:39,921 Boy. 333 00:14:40,004 --> 00:14:41,923 Ethan is running after his heart. 334 00:14:42,924 --> 00:14:46,761 And I think Ethan's making maybe a mistake. 335 00:14:47,762 --> 00:14:48,971 I don't wanna say it, but I think 336 00:14:49,097 --> 00:14:50,515 it's kind of a rebound thing. 337 00:14:51,557 --> 00:14:53,351 I'm hoping the best for him. I really am. 338 00:14:53,434 --> 00:14:54,352 I'm hoping the best for Ethan. 339 00:14:54,435 --> 00:14:56,145 I hope he finds her and marries her 340 00:14:56,270 --> 00:14:57,939 and moves back to Cairo, Georgia. 341 00:14:58,064 --> 00:14:59,607 Wait, wait, don't you have family here? 342 00:14:59,690 --> 00:15:01,359 -Yeah. -OK, so -- 343 00:15:01,442 --> 00:15:03,820 I haven't told them yet. I still have to tell them. 344 00:15:03,945 --> 00:15:06,447 Oh, they don't even know. Well, I feel privileged. 345 00:15:06,572 --> 00:15:09,158 -[Ethan chuckles] Yeah. -I won't say a word. 346 00:15:09,283 --> 00:15:10,701 [Ethan] I haven't told my family yet 347 00:15:11,994 --> 00:15:14,789 because I've been thinking about it a long time 348 00:15:14,872 --> 00:15:16,124 just to myself, you know, 349 00:15:17,125 --> 00:15:21,796 and everybody's got an opinion, but it doesn't really matter. 350 00:15:21,879 --> 00:15:23,714 I know this is what I want, 351 00:15:23,798 --> 00:15:25,591 and this is what I'm gonna do. 352 00:15:25,675 --> 00:15:28,302 And I know they're all gonna be sad, 353 00:15:28,428 --> 00:15:29,470 and I hate to do that. 354 00:15:30,847 --> 00:15:32,140 So I just haven't told them yet. 355 00:15:34,142 --> 00:15:36,477 So when you break the news to mom and pop 356 00:15:36,602 --> 00:15:38,479 and brothers and sisters? 357 00:15:38,604 --> 00:15:40,022 Probably once I'm already on the road. 358 00:15:42,066 --> 00:15:44,569 Ethan is a family guy, but I would think 359 00:15:44,652 --> 00:15:47,155 they would have something to say about this, him going off. 360 00:15:47,238 --> 00:15:50,324 And maybe that's why he's not wanting to tell them. 361 00:15:50,450 --> 00:15:51,993 What do you think they're gonna say? 362 00:15:52,118 --> 00:15:53,035 They're gonna try to stop you? 363 00:15:53,161 --> 00:15:54,162 No, I don't think so. 364 00:15:54,287 --> 00:15:56,330 I think you'd try to stop me more than they would. 365 00:15:56,414 --> 00:15:58,165 I have more to gain than them, I think. 366 00:15:58,290 --> 00:16:01,335 -Probably. -You got a place to live? 367 00:16:01,419 --> 00:16:03,713 No, not yet, but I'm sure I'll find a place. 368 00:16:05,923 --> 00:16:07,425 Trying this, you know, 369 00:16:07,508 --> 00:16:09,343 it's worth it to me, 'cause... 370 00:16:10,511 --> 00:16:12,805 I -- I just really don't wanna live without her. 371 00:16:14,015 --> 00:16:15,266 You got more faith than I do. 372 00:16:17,685 --> 00:16:19,770 I don't know if it's faith or nothing to lose. 373 00:16:26,152 --> 00:16:28,154 [gentle music playing] 374 00:16:37,205 --> 00:16:39,999 [Barry] So right now, I haven't met any women in Cairo 375 00:16:40,082 --> 00:16:42,585 that I'm interested in dating, 'cause it's kind of daunting 376 00:16:42,710 --> 00:16:45,254 going out there and figuring out the whole setup 377 00:16:45,379 --> 00:16:47,757 and how do you navigate through it. 378 00:16:47,882 --> 00:16:53,095 And so here I am doing a video chat with Renee, my matchmaker, 379 00:16:53,221 --> 00:16:56,724 and she's gonna try to find the love of my life. 380 00:16:56,849 --> 00:16:58,559 -Hello. -Hey. 381 00:16:58,684 --> 00:17:00,686 -How are you, Barry? -Doing good. 382 00:17:00,770 --> 00:17:02,647 I'm gonna -- I'm gonna take my glasses off 383 00:17:02,730 --> 00:17:03,898 if you don't mind. -[Renee] Can you hear me? 384 00:17:04,022 --> 00:17:05,233 I can't seem to hear you. 385 00:17:05,316 --> 00:17:08,069 Um...just one moment. 386 00:17:11,113 --> 00:17:13,574 I have talked with Renee on a call 387 00:17:13,699 --> 00:17:15,451 to answer her questionnaires 388 00:17:15,576 --> 00:17:18,412 and take her personality profile assessments 389 00:17:18,538 --> 00:17:20,205 and get into my love languages. 390 00:17:20,289 --> 00:17:22,458 -You can't hear me? -I can't hear you yet. 391 00:17:22,583 --> 00:17:27,213 Just the feel of, "Who is Barry?" 392 00:17:27,296 --> 00:17:29,590 You know, what kind of quirks does he have? 393 00:17:31,092 --> 00:17:32,718 -[Renee] Can you hear me? -Yes. 394 00:17:32,802 --> 00:17:34,762 But this is my first time seeing her, 395 00:17:34,845 --> 00:17:37,765 you know, face-to-face via video. 396 00:17:37,848 --> 00:17:40,101 That should be good. OK. 397 00:17:40,226 --> 00:17:42,436 So, hello, Renee. How are you today? 398 00:17:42,562 --> 00:17:45,022 Hi, I'm great, Barry. How are you doing? 399 00:17:45,106 --> 00:17:47,441 Well, we're working through our technical difficulties. 400 00:17:47,567 --> 00:17:49,610 But we're doing great here on this end. 401 00:17:49,694 --> 00:17:52,989 I appreciate you taking the time to walk through 402 00:17:53,114 --> 00:17:56,284 this journey side-by-side so you are not dating alone. 403 00:17:57,285 --> 00:17:59,870 So I know that one of the questions that we asked 404 00:17:59,954 --> 00:18:03,124 is, "How ready on a scale of one to ten 405 00:18:03,249 --> 00:18:07,211 are you for a committed relationship again?" -Yeah. 406 00:18:07,295 --> 00:18:08,504 You did say a five. 407 00:18:08,629 --> 00:18:12,592 Can you explain why you came up with a five? 408 00:18:12,675 --> 00:18:15,720 Well, you know, I've just come out of a -- 409 00:18:15,803 --> 00:18:17,972 a divorce process, right? -Right. 410 00:18:18,097 --> 00:18:21,267 And so, you know, I'm still, you know, 411 00:18:21,350 --> 00:18:23,811 not, like, at the ten level, 412 00:18:23,894 --> 00:18:27,148 but I'm -- I'm wanting to get to that point. 413 00:18:27,231 --> 00:18:30,151 But I feel personally that I'm kind of midway. 414 00:18:30,234 --> 00:18:31,152 OK. 415 00:18:31,277 --> 00:18:32,862 I want it to be the right feel. 416 00:18:32,987 --> 00:18:34,238 You know, I wanna have the right feel. 417 00:18:34,322 --> 00:18:36,407 I hope that, you know, 418 00:18:36,490 --> 00:18:37,992 this woman would have the right feel, 419 00:18:38,075 --> 00:18:41,245 that the children would have, like, a good vibe that, 420 00:18:41,329 --> 00:18:44,540 "OK, this is exciting. This is looking good." 421 00:18:44,665 --> 00:18:47,668 In your eyes, why do you believe 422 00:18:47,752 --> 00:18:49,837 that marriage did not last? 423 00:18:51,672 --> 00:18:54,717 Well, you know, it takes two to, you know, 424 00:18:54,842 --> 00:18:56,093 not make a marriage work. 425 00:18:57,762 --> 00:19:02,308 Um, Kim and I both, I guess, had our issues in the end. 426 00:19:02,391 --> 00:19:03,809 From -- from her perspective, 427 00:19:03,893 --> 00:19:07,855 I wasn't meeting the needs that she had. 428 00:19:07,938 --> 00:19:12,193 Um, she felt like I didn't have or give her a voice 429 00:19:12,318 --> 00:19:13,569 in the relationship. 430 00:19:13,694 --> 00:19:16,947 She felt like she wasn't loved 431 00:19:17,031 --> 00:19:19,659 as well as she thought she should be. 432 00:19:19,742 --> 00:19:23,245 Um, and it was good feedback, because it helped me assess 433 00:19:23,371 --> 00:19:25,164 where are some of my shortcomings. 434 00:19:25,247 --> 00:19:26,540 'Cause, you know, 435 00:19:26,666 --> 00:19:28,417 I'm like, "Next time, 436 00:19:28,542 --> 00:19:30,252 you know, "I get back into a relationship, 437 00:19:30,378 --> 00:19:32,380 "I want to have that understanding that, 438 00:19:32,505 --> 00:19:34,340 'OK, this might be a weak point 439 00:19:34,423 --> 00:19:35,966 of mine that I need to work on.'" 440 00:19:36,050 --> 00:19:38,552 -You have matured. -Yes, yes. 441 00:19:38,636 --> 00:19:41,222 So, I mean, that's good. That's -- that's like growth. 442 00:19:41,305 --> 00:19:44,016 I can tell you right now I'm a work-in-process, right? 443 00:19:44,100 --> 00:19:46,352 So I'm learning from past mistakes, 444 00:19:46,435 --> 00:19:50,272 and I'm moving forward with the mindset of, 445 00:19:50,398 --> 00:19:52,066 "Well, how can I better myself?" 446 00:19:53,150 --> 00:19:55,945 Let's dive into who it is you're looking for. 447 00:19:56,070 --> 00:19:58,781 Yeah, I mean, right now, the -- the "would like to have" 448 00:19:58,906 --> 00:20:00,574 that's coming to mind is a nurturer. 449 00:20:00,658 --> 00:20:01,784 OK. 450 00:20:01,909 --> 00:20:05,079 I feel in past relationships maybe a little deficient 451 00:20:05,204 --> 00:20:06,997 in that area, that'd be great. 452 00:20:07,081 --> 00:20:09,750 Would you just describe her more as, like, 453 00:20:09,875 --> 00:20:11,877 soft and sweet? -Yeah. 454 00:20:11,961 --> 00:20:17,007 Alpha females are not -- I'm not that attracted to. 455 00:20:17,091 --> 00:20:20,094 I've kind of, "been there, done that." 456 00:20:20,177 --> 00:20:23,639 I'm kind of put off by overly controlling types, 457 00:20:23,764 --> 00:20:26,892 and I'm exceptionally put off by manipulation now. 458 00:20:26,976 --> 00:20:29,019 [Renee] Let's talk about physicality. 459 00:20:29,103 --> 00:20:31,689 Do you lean more towards a particular type? 460 00:20:31,772 --> 00:20:33,190 Yeah, yeah. 461 00:20:34,608 --> 00:20:37,111 For some reason, I just love olive-toned skin. 462 00:20:37,236 --> 00:20:38,487 I don't know why that is. I really do. 463 00:20:38,612 --> 00:20:40,489 -[Renee] OK. -Um... 464 00:20:40,614 --> 00:20:42,950 So if you had a room full of ladies lined up 465 00:20:43,075 --> 00:20:45,953 in front of you and they were all interested in meeting you, 466 00:20:46,036 --> 00:20:49,707 what type would you be more drawn to? 467 00:20:49,790 --> 00:20:52,877 Um, I guess in four words, 468 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:54,962 the Sandra Bullock look. 469 00:20:55,087 --> 00:20:57,339 [bright music playing] 470 00:20:57,465 --> 00:20:59,008 Sandra Bullock, OK. 471 00:21:00,342 --> 00:21:02,136 Sandra, yeah, I like Sandra. 472 00:21:03,304 --> 00:21:04,472 She was in Keanu -- 473 00:21:04,555 --> 00:21:07,099 with Keanu Reeves, with "Speed." 474 00:21:08,559 --> 00:21:10,478 I mean, that's -- "Keep driving." 475 00:21:11,479 --> 00:21:12,480 "Keep driving." 476 00:21:14,648 --> 00:21:17,318 Or was it, "Don't go slower than 50"? 477 00:21:17,401 --> 00:21:19,779 Otherwise you blow. 478 00:21:23,741 --> 00:21:26,327 Um, and how would your family and friends 479 00:21:26,410 --> 00:21:28,788 welcome somebody into your life? 480 00:21:28,871 --> 00:21:32,666 -[indistinct] -You know, my girls are, they would, they would wanna, 481 00:21:32,750 --> 00:21:37,379 you know, take time to get to know, you know, my potential, 482 00:21:37,505 --> 00:21:41,675 you know, new dates, my -- my girlfriend, 483 00:21:41,759 --> 00:21:43,844 you know, just the full vetting process. 484 00:21:43,969 --> 00:21:46,847 OK. So maybe have them write, both, 485 00:21:46,931 --> 00:21:49,642 like, three things that they both want 486 00:21:49,725 --> 00:21:51,018 their father to have. 487 00:21:51,143 --> 00:21:52,728 I'm paving the way with the children. 488 00:21:52,853 --> 00:21:54,897 Dad's want -- thinking about dating, 489 00:21:55,022 --> 00:21:59,318 and I just want their -- I wanna see what their responses are. 490 00:21:59,401 --> 00:22:02,029 A single guy in his 50s with nine children. 491 00:22:02,112 --> 00:22:05,366 -I love that. -I can field -- I can field like a baseball team. 492 00:22:05,449 --> 00:22:06,742 It was funny, when I was writing down 493 00:22:06,867 --> 00:22:08,118 all of your children's ages, I'm like, 494 00:22:08,202 --> 00:22:10,871 "I don't think this line has ever been this long, right?" 495 00:22:10,955 --> 00:22:12,873 So, [laughs], it's a beautiful thing, though. 496 00:22:12,998 --> 00:22:13,874 It really is. 497 00:22:13,999 --> 00:22:16,210 You have an army of somebody's, uh -- 498 00:22:16,293 --> 00:22:18,212 they're gonna have to win all of their hearts. 499 00:22:21,382 --> 00:22:23,884 [Isaac] You've heard about everything going on. 500 00:22:23,968 --> 00:22:26,971 I heard that you broke up with Kaylynn. 501 00:22:27,054 --> 00:22:30,140 I have a lot of guilt from what I did. 502 00:22:30,224 --> 00:22:32,601 I really don't know if I will get her back. 503 00:22:32,726 --> 00:22:33,936 That really scares me. 504 00:22:34,937 --> 00:22:36,689 It's just a matter of 505 00:22:36,772 --> 00:22:38,941 if we can unscrew what I screwed up. 506 00:22:46,991 --> 00:22:48,993 [horse neighing] 507 00:22:49,118 --> 00:22:52,788 [Kim grunting] 508 00:22:55,165 --> 00:22:56,625 Yeah, yeah. 509 00:22:59,211 --> 00:23:00,421 Ooh! 510 00:23:00,504 --> 00:23:02,298 [Kim grunts] 511 00:23:02,423 --> 00:23:04,008 [sighs] 512 00:23:04,133 --> 00:23:07,261 [Kim] OK, I can't, but I almost got it to move. 513 00:23:07,344 --> 00:23:09,305 -See if you can. -You want me to see if I can? 514 00:23:09,388 --> 00:23:10,389 And then I'll find a smaller one. 515 00:23:12,182 --> 00:23:13,183 Yeah! 516 00:23:14,476 --> 00:23:16,186 -Alright. -[laughs] 517 00:23:16,312 --> 00:23:18,355 OK, so I got one over here. 518 00:23:19,481 --> 00:23:21,066 I think I can push this one over. 519 00:23:21,150 --> 00:23:22,610 You -- alright, let's try it first. 520 00:23:22,693 --> 00:23:24,028 [Kim grunts] 521 00:23:24,153 --> 00:23:25,613 No. 522 00:23:25,696 --> 00:23:28,324 We have probably 20 or 30 acres of woods 523 00:23:28,407 --> 00:23:30,659 and there's always gonna be dead trees. 524 00:23:31,535 --> 00:23:33,746 [panting] 525 00:23:34,496 --> 00:23:36,332 The dead trees, if they're not pushed down 526 00:23:36,415 --> 00:23:37,791 at some point, they're gonna fall down. 527 00:23:37,875 --> 00:23:39,793 And if I'm riding a four wheeler through the trails 528 00:23:39,877 --> 00:23:41,545 or I'm walking through the trails, 529 00:23:41,670 --> 00:23:44,048 I don't really want a tree falling on me. 530 00:23:44,173 --> 00:23:45,174 No. 531 00:23:46,425 --> 00:23:49,511 It's fun. It's satisfying when you push, 532 00:23:49,595 --> 00:23:51,680 you feel it give a little bit, you push a little bit more 533 00:23:51,764 --> 00:23:53,432 and you just feel... -Yeah! 534 00:23:53,515 --> 00:23:58,187 ...this big hunk of dead wood just fall hard on the ground. 535 00:23:59,980 --> 00:24:01,106 [grunting] 536 00:24:01,190 --> 00:24:02,358 Oh, it's so close. 537 00:24:02,441 --> 00:24:03,692 [Isaac speaking] 538 00:24:04,693 --> 00:24:07,279 [grunts, sighs] 539 00:24:07,363 --> 00:24:08,864 There we go, [laughs]. 540 00:24:09,949 --> 00:24:10,950 OK. 541 00:24:12,368 --> 00:24:14,954 So what have you been up to? 542 00:24:15,037 --> 00:24:16,538 Oh, a lot. 543 00:24:18,123 --> 00:24:21,543 You've heard about everything going on, I take it. 544 00:24:21,669 --> 00:24:25,005 [Kim] I heard that you broke up with Kaylynn. 545 00:24:25,089 --> 00:24:28,467 I had stopped at Barry's house to drop the girls off, 546 00:24:28,550 --> 00:24:32,763 and Kaylynn was there, and she was crying. 547 00:24:32,888 --> 00:24:35,015 I just gave her a hug. I told her I loved her. 548 00:24:35,099 --> 00:24:38,227 I told her if she needs to talk or, you know, anything, 549 00:24:38,352 --> 00:24:40,521 I'm here for her, whatever she needs. 550 00:24:40,604 --> 00:24:43,607 So she called me that night, we talked for a couple hours. 551 00:24:45,818 --> 00:24:47,069 She was crying, 552 00:24:47,152 --> 00:24:49,697 but the one thing she said to me 553 00:24:49,780 --> 00:24:52,032 is "Make sure Isaac's OK." 554 00:24:52,116 --> 00:24:54,827 I just concerned, you know, for your well-being. 555 00:24:54,910 --> 00:24:56,996 -Yeah -- I know. -That's a good woman, you know? 556 00:24:59,373 --> 00:25:01,000 I don't even know how to feel about that. 557 00:25:01,083 --> 00:25:03,585 I mean, I feel terrible, but it also makes me feel 558 00:25:03,669 --> 00:25:05,421 really good that she still would care about me 559 00:25:05,546 --> 00:25:07,673 even everything -- after everything I did. 560 00:25:08,716 --> 00:25:10,592 I have a lot of guilt from 561 00:25:11,301 --> 00:25:15,264 what I did, so it's just a matter of if we can unscrew 562 00:25:15,389 --> 00:25:16,390 what I screwed up. 563 00:25:18,392 --> 00:25:20,686 She didn't see it coming, and I know it broke her, 564 00:25:20,769 --> 00:25:23,564 and she doesn't deserve that, 565 00:25:23,647 --> 00:25:25,399 and I hate that I put her through that. 566 00:25:25,482 --> 00:25:27,026 I wish she would have, you know, 567 00:25:28,068 --> 00:25:29,403 yelled at me or something. 568 00:25:31,113 --> 00:25:34,116 She is so, like, genuinely kind 569 00:25:34,199 --> 00:25:38,203 and just a really good person, and...I mean, 570 00:25:38,287 --> 00:25:40,497 I feel like that's really good for Isaac. 571 00:25:40,622 --> 00:25:43,417 That's the kind of girl that I want for any of my sons. 572 00:25:46,003 --> 00:25:48,630 So why did you break up with Kaylynn? 573 00:25:48,756 --> 00:25:52,342 Well, I mean, there was things personally on my end 574 00:25:52,468 --> 00:25:55,137 that I was thinking, that I was in my head about. 575 00:25:55,262 --> 00:25:57,556 I know that she is older than me by two -- 576 00:25:57,639 --> 00:25:59,099 two and a half years or so. 577 00:25:59,183 --> 00:26:02,853 And so I know that she wants to get married a little sooner 578 00:26:02,978 --> 00:26:04,104 than I was thinking. 579 00:26:04,188 --> 00:26:06,899 Was Kaylynn putting pressure on you to like get married 580 00:26:06,982 --> 00:26:10,027 or anything like that or? -No, I mean, she wasn't really. 581 00:26:10,152 --> 00:26:13,280 All the pressure I was getting was basically in my head. 582 00:26:13,363 --> 00:26:16,492 But then I just didn't think about the thought of maybe 583 00:26:16,575 --> 00:26:19,787 she is the one, maybe -- maybe this is 584 00:26:19,870 --> 00:26:20,996 where I'm supposed to be, you know. 585 00:26:21,121 --> 00:26:23,665 I let everything else kind of drown that out. 586 00:26:23,791 --> 00:26:25,542 -Yeah. -I don't know. 587 00:26:25,667 --> 00:26:28,587 There's a lot of things I need to...think about. 588 00:26:30,005 --> 00:26:31,381 A lot of my older kids, 589 00:26:31,507 --> 00:26:34,676 they've had kind of bad relationships. 590 00:26:35,928 --> 00:26:39,807 Looking back, the thing that I would change 591 00:26:39,890 --> 00:26:42,351 with how we raise the kids is -- 592 00:26:42,476 --> 00:26:46,396 I have a hard time promoting sex before marriage. 593 00:26:46,522 --> 00:26:51,026 Um, I do feel like there's a lot of benefit to waiting. 594 00:26:51,151 --> 00:26:56,073 But now I think it's better to have sex before marriage 595 00:26:56,198 --> 00:26:59,409 and really get to know who you're marrying 596 00:26:59,535 --> 00:27:03,580 than to just rush in and get married 597 00:27:03,705 --> 00:27:04,873 so that you can have sex. 598 00:27:06,041 --> 00:27:07,584 Isaac and Kaylynn have spent a long time 599 00:27:07,709 --> 00:27:09,211 getting to know each other, 600 00:27:09,336 --> 00:27:12,714 but the bottom line is they still have to figure out 601 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,759 some of those things for themselves, and it's hard. 602 00:27:15,884 --> 00:27:17,886 They -- they have to figure out, you know, 603 00:27:17,970 --> 00:27:22,975 to get to know somebody, and...not move too fast. 604 00:27:23,058 --> 00:27:25,102 So what did everybody else say that you told? 605 00:27:26,145 --> 00:27:28,564 [Isaac] Basically, the whole family said the same thing, 606 00:27:28,647 --> 00:27:30,858 that they disagree with me. 607 00:27:30,941 --> 00:27:33,068 I'm thinking it was a bad decision now, you know? 608 00:27:33,193 --> 00:27:34,194 Yeah. 609 00:27:35,195 --> 00:27:37,197 If me and Kaylynn can work things out from here, 610 00:27:37,281 --> 00:27:38,365 which is a long shot, 611 00:27:38,448 --> 00:27:40,659 but I don't plan on ever letting her go. 612 00:27:44,913 --> 00:27:47,249 I don't wanna get married, you know, right off the bat, 613 00:27:47,332 --> 00:27:50,836 real fast, real young, but it's where I wanna be. 614 00:27:52,212 --> 00:27:54,506 All that the past few days have really shown me is that, 615 00:27:55,549 --> 00:27:57,009 you know, I was wrong. 616 00:27:57,092 --> 00:27:59,219 I mean, sometimes you have to see that 617 00:27:59,303 --> 00:28:02,639 for yourself to know, 'cause if you keep thinking, 618 00:28:02,764 --> 00:28:04,850 "Well, the grass is greener on the other side," 619 00:28:04,933 --> 00:28:07,644 then you don't appreciate what you have. 620 00:28:07,769 --> 00:28:11,607 -Yeah. -But then when you experience it and you see, 621 00:28:11,732 --> 00:28:14,359 grass really isn't greener on the other side, you know? 622 00:28:14,443 --> 00:28:17,112 And nobody can really tell you that. 623 00:28:18,238 --> 00:28:21,617 I really don't know if I will get her back. 624 00:28:21,700 --> 00:28:22,910 That really scares me. 625 00:28:32,294 --> 00:28:34,296 [upbeat music playing] 626 00:28:36,423 --> 00:28:37,507 [Barry] Knit one, purl two. 627 00:28:37,591 --> 00:28:39,676 -Knit one, purl two. -Hm? 628 00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,303 -[Mercy] I haven't taught -- -[Barry] Have you taught -- 629 00:28:41,386 --> 00:28:42,346 have you taught Amber? 630 00:28:42,471 --> 00:28:45,682 I taught her the normal knitting, 631 00:28:45,807 --> 00:28:47,768 but I haven't taught her the purl stitch yet. 632 00:28:49,186 --> 00:28:53,190 Based on the recommendation of Renee, my matchmaker, 633 00:28:53,315 --> 00:28:56,026 uh, she recommended that I have a chat 634 00:28:56,109 --> 00:28:58,362 with the girls about dating. 635 00:28:58,487 --> 00:29:00,781 So I have a question for you, girls. 636 00:29:00,864 --> 00:29:05,369 -I have an answer. -So the topic is dating. 637 00:29:05,494 --> 00:29:06,787 Mm-hmm. 638 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:11,708 My entry into that realm. 639 00:29:11,792 --> 00:29:14,044 -Right? -Yep, it's about time. 640 00:29:14,169 --> 00:29:16,672 [girls chuckle] 641 00:29:16,755 --> 00:29:18,840 Have you dated anyone yet or are you... 642 00:29:19,841 --> 00:29:21,593 I have not dated anybody yet. 643 00:29:21,718 --> 00:29:23,053 -OK. -[Barry] Right? 644 00:29:23,178 --> 00:29:25,472 -I'm moving along... -Slowly. 645 00:29:25,555 --> 00:29:27,349 ...like slow molasses in January. 646 00:29:27,432 --> 00:29:28,684 [Amber] Mm-hmm. 647 00:29:28,767 --> 00:29:31,979 I'd love to see Dad in a healthy relationship. 648 00:29:32,062 --> 00:29:34,314 I've been waiting for him to like, you know, 649 00:29:34,398 --> 00:29:36,108 say he's gonna start dating. 650 00:29:36,233 --> 00:29:37,276 It seems like I waited forever, 651 00:29:37,401 --> 00:29:39,403 and now he finally says he's ready. 652 00:29:39,486 --> 00:29:41,989 It's like, yeah, it's about time. 653 00:29:43,198 --> 00:29:46,618 -[Barry] I just want to venture out into this new realm... -Mm-hmm. 654 00:29:46,743 --> 00:29:48,161 ...and see what happens. -[Amber] Yeah. 655 00:29:49,705 --> 00:29:54,001 So, I have enlisted the help of a dating service. 656 00:29:55,335 --> 00:29:57,212 -You're on a dating app? -No. 657 00:29:57,296 --> 00:30:00,173 -Oh, OK. -It's an elite dating service. 658 00:30:00,257 --> 00:30:01,675 Professional matchmakers. 659 00:30:01,758 --> 00:30:03,927 So it's basically like a dating app. 660 00:30:04,011 --> 00:30:05,637 -[girls laugh] -Well... 661 00:30:05,762 --> 00:30:07,472 Dad just doesn't seem like the type of person 662 00:30:07,597 --> 00:30:08,724 to be on a dating app. 663 00:30:10,350 --> 00:30:12,602 [Barry] Since I'm going down this -- this avenue, 664 00:30:13,687 --> 00:30:17,316 there's some feedback I would like from the three of you, OK? 665 00:30:17,441 --> 00:30:18,942 She has to have good, taste in music. 666 00:30:19,067 --> 00:30:20,402 She has to like '80s music. 667 00:30:20,485 --> 00:30:22,112 [Cassia laughing] Has to like '80s music? 668 00:30:22,237 --> 00:30:25,991 -[Amber] Not tolerate. -Yeah, at least tolerate. 669 00:30:26,116 --> 00:30:27,868 -And country music. -OK. 670 00:30:27,951 --> 00:30:29,494 [Cassia] She has to have a good sense of humor. 671 00:30:29,619 --> 00:30:31,788 -Adventurous. -Adventurous things. 672 00:30:31,913 --> 00:30:33,457 She needs to like water activities. 673 00:30:33,540 --> 00:30:34,583 -[Barry] She -- yeah. -[Cassia] Yeah. 674 00:30:34,666 --> 00:30:36,626 Smart enough to help us on our math. 675 00:30:36,752 --> 00:30:38,879 -[girls giggle] -Good at communicating. 676 00:30:38,962 --> 00:30:41,465 -Um... -She should have a motherly side to her. 677 00:30:41,590 --> 00:30:44,217 Ooh, what if she likes coffee? 678 00:30:44,301 --> 00:30:45,635 -Not at all. -What if you go to kiss her 679 00:30:45,719 --> 00:30:48,597 and she has coffee breath? 680 00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,182 Interesting thought, Mercy. 681 00:30:51,767 --> 00:30:53,226 They seem receptive. 682 00:30:53,310 --> 00:30:56,521 Me and the girls are in a really good place together. 683 00:30:56,646 --> 00:30:59,232 I mean, my focus is them, right? 684 00:30:59,316 --> 00:31:02,527 So they know Dad loves them, and I'll be there for them 685 00:31:02,652 --> 00:31:03,820 no matter what. 686 00:31:03,945 --> 00:31:06,156 Renee is going to vet. 687 00:31:06,281 --> 00:31:07,324 You know what vetting is, right? 688 00:31:07,407 --> 00:31:08,492 -To -- -[Amber] Like -- 689 00:31:08,575 --> 00:31:12,329 Like, take care of animals and doctor them, [laughs]. 690 00:31:12,412 --> 00:31:14,915 How's this woman gonna handle nine children? 691 00:31:16,333 --> 00:31:18,168 [girls giggling] 692 00:31:19,836 --> 00:31:24,132 [gentle music playing] 693 00:31:31,723 --> 00:31:34,226 The weight that I've put on in the last 694 00:31:34,351 --> 00:31:36,186 four and a half years has... 695 00:31:37,187 --> 00:31:39,022 I mean, I just, 696 00:31:39,106 --> 00:31:42,359 I'm in a place where I just feel not great. 697 00:31:45,779 --> 00:31:48,323 I don't like how my clothes fit, it's... 698 00:31:50,158 --> 00:31:52,285 [exhales] I don't even wanna talk about it. 699 00:31:54,371 --> 00:31:56,289 I just, I don't like how I feel. 700 00:31:57,499 --> 00:32:00,544 So, working on turning that around. 701 00:32:08,218 --> 00:32:12,013 My goal is to get a variety, to get some weight training, 702 00:32:12,097 --> 00:32:16,601 some flexibility, just a variety of things, 703 00:32:16,726 --> 00:32:20,689 to just kind of get back in shape. 704 00:32:22,858 --> 00:32:26,027 It's been hard on my life. 705 00:32:26,111 --> 00:32:30,615 It's been hard on me, my body, everything. 706 00:32:30,740 --> 00:32:32,909 But I'm turning that around. 707 00:32:34,703 --> 00:32:36,746 This is something I need to do for me. 708 00:32:39,249 --> 00:32:42,377 I'm at that age where my hormones are changing, 709 00:32:42,461 --> 00:32:47,090 and that makes it even more difficult to lose weight. 710 00:32:47,174 --> 00:32:48,925 But I'm gonna keep working on it 711 00:32:49,926 --> 00:32:54,014 because I just have the rest of my life to live in this body. 712 00:32:56,099 --> 00:33:02,230 Barry had built a ballet bar for me at his house years ago 713 00:33:02,314 --> 00:33:04,232 when it was our house. 714 00:33:04,316 --> 00:33:08,028 So sometime I'll get that installed. 715 00:33:08,111 --> 00:33:09,946 I'm sure Ken will help me with that. 716 00:33:12,115 --> 00:33:13,575 When I lived at the farm last 717 00:33:13,658 --> 00:33:17,162 and we had all these kids running around, 718 00:33:17,287 --> 00:33:18,788 we ate really healthy. 719 00:33:18,872 --> 00:33:21,750 We grew lots of vegetables. We didn't really eat sugar. 720 00:33:21,833 --> 00:33:23,126 We went through a lot of honey, though. 721 00:33:23,251 --> 00:33:24,211 [chuckles] 722 00:33:24,294 --> 00:33:26,213 [Amber] Just do honey, but, like, up to there. 723 00:33:27,672 --> 00:33:30,008 It's been real easy to get away from that. 724 00:33:30,133 --> 00:33:31,259 But it's a process, 725 00:33:31,343 --> 00:33:34,012 trying to make better choices every day. 726 00:33:36,139 --> 00:33:39,726 One thing I used to do a lot of is juicing. 727 00:33:39,809 --> 00:33:43,021 Celery and ginger was my favorite. 728 00:33:43,146 --> 00:33:45,148 That's amazing. 729 00:33:45,273 --> 00:33:46,816 I'm gonna go get my juicer out 730 00:33:46,900 --> 00:33:48,652 and see if I can make something. 731 00:34:00,372 --> 00:34:02,832 I know we put it in here when we moved. 732 00:34:05,085 --> 00:34:08,088 It's pretty big, so it can't be too hard to find. 733 00:34:09,339 --> 00:34:10,507 I'm not seeing it. 734 00:34:10,632 --> 00:34:13,342 It's a really nice juicer, I think. 735 00:34:13,467 --> 00:34:14,469 Hey, Ken? 736 00:34:19,558 --> 00:34:20,559 Hey, Ken. 737 00:34:21,726 --> 00:34:22,686 Yeah. 738 00:34:22,811 --> 00:34:24,688 Do you know where my juicer is? 739 00:34:24,813 --> 00:34:27,357 -The big white juicer? -Yeah. 740 00:34:27,482 --> 00:34:29,818 -When Barry came out, he asked about the juicer... -Yeah. 741 00:34:29,900 --> 00:34:33,196 ...and I told him that I had it. -Yeah, yeah. 742 00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,407 And he took it. 743 00:34:36,366 --> 00:34:37,867 I can't believe as long 744 00:34:37,951 --> 00:34:40,829 as that juicer has sat on the shelf, 745 00:34:40,911 --> 00:34:43,831 Barry just takes it the day before I'm ready to use it. 746 00:34:43,915 --> 00:34:46,001 OK, well, I got an issue with Barry then 747 00:34:46,083 --> 00:34:48,545 'cause that's not -- that's not his. -OK. 748 00:34:48,628 --> 00:34:51,214 That's definitely mine. I guess I got to call Barry. 749 00:34:51,297 --> 00:34:54,551 -Well, I'm not getting involved with the juicer. -[Kim] Yeah. 750 00:34:54,634 --> 00:34:56,136 I know. Yeah. 751 00:35:07,439 --> 00:35:08,732 You can go back in the living room. 752 00:35:08,857 --> 00:35:09,858 Sorry. 753 00:35:15,238 --> 00:35:18,408 I'm here in Wisconsin. I drove over here yesterday. 754 00:35:18,491 --> 00:35:20,577 And she doesn't know I'm here. 755 00:35:20,660 --> 00:35:22,871 You're not doing anything weird like driving by her house 756 00:35:22,954 --> 00:35:25,248 at 2 o'clock in the morning? -[Ethan] No. 757 00:35:25,373 --> 00:35:26,333 If you don't tell her, 758 00:35:26,416 --> 00:35:28,668 the worst thing that can happen is she finds out, 759 00:35:28,752 --> 00:35:30,378 and then she thinks you're really weird. 760 00:35:39,554 --> 00:35:41,556 [country music playing] 761 00:35:47,103 --> 00:35:48,438 [Ethan] We're in Wisconsin. 762 00:35:48,521 --> 00:35:49,898 This is where Teegan lives. 763 00:35:50,982 --> 00:35:53,735 And Teegan doesn't know that I'm here. 764 00:35:53,818 --> 00:35:55,862 I have two bags of tools. 765 00:35:55,987 --> 00:35:57,822 I have my duffle bag, just my clothes, 766 00:35:57,906 --> 00:35:59,616 and some cash, and I think that's it. 767 00:36:01,576 --> 00:36:02,577 There's an abandoned lot 768 00:36:02,661 --> 00:36:05,664 next to an empty mall a couple miles 769 00:36:05,747 --> 00:36:08,500 from here, and I thought, "Well, maybe I'll sleep here 770 00:36:08,583 --> 00:36:09,501 for a little while." 771 00:36:09,584 --> 00:36:11,461 In this big back seat. 772 00:36:11,544 --> 00:36:13,338 It's like sleeping on a couch. 773 00:36:13,463 --> 00:36:19,219 I'm looking at some places that I can lock down for January. 774 00:36:19,344 --> 00:36:22,514 I just know this is where I need to be. 775 00:36:22,597 --> 00:36:24,683 And I don't wanna tell her, 776 00:36:25,850 --> 00:36:27,477 "OK, I'm gonna move to Wisconsin." 777 00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,355 I just wanna move to show commitment 778 00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:32,399 and not just words, you know? 779 00:36:35,110 --> 00:36:37,237 When Isaac broke up with Kaylynn, I was just like, 780 00:36:37,362 --> 00:36:39,406 "What the hell is going on with all of us?" 781 00:36:40,031 --> 00:36:42,784 I think when it comes to relationships 782 00:36:42,867 --> 00:36:45,328 and communication and love, 783 00:36:45,412 --> 00:36:46,538 I don't think any of us really know 784 00:36:46,663 --> 00:36:48,248 what the hell we're doing. 785 00:36:48,373 --> 00:36:51,042 A lot of times people go through their teen years 786 00:36:51,126 --> 00:36:54,295 kind of learning about that, and you experience having 787 00:36:54,379 --> 00:36:56,423 a boyfriend and breaking up or a girlfriend and breaking up, 788 00:36:56,548 --> 00:36:58,508 and then you learn, and by the time 789 00:36:58,591 --> 00:37:00,009 you're in your 20s, you're kind of, 790 00:37:00,093 --> 00:37:02,721 like, a little seasoned, a little well-rounded. 791 00:37:02,804 --> 00:37:07,016 None of us, to any degree, have had that. 792 00:37:08,017 --> 00:37:09,769 The way I was brought up was very good, 793 00:37:09,894 --> 00:37:11,896 and there are many, many things about it that I would do again, 794 00:37:11,980 --> 00:37:17,777 but the whole, like, dating and relationship deal, 795 00:37:18,862 --> 00:37:20,864 I wouldn't do that the same way. 796 00:37:23,575 --> 00:37:25,326 just because I feel like it's been 797 00:37:25,410 --> 00:37:29,247 more of a hindrance than a benefit. 798 00:37:29,372 --> 00:37:33,585 You end up screwing it up or breaking up 799 00:37:33,710 --> 00:37:35,170 or walking away. 800 00:37:47,932 --> 00:37:50,143 It's so hard to be here... 801 00:37:52,771 --> 00:37:56,274 and know that I'm only a minute from her 802 00:37:56,357 --> 00:37:57,567 and I can't see her. 803 00:37:57,650 --> 00:37:59,027 But at the same time, 804 00:37:59,110 --> 00:38:01,488 it's actually easier than being in Georgia. 805 00:38:03,072 --> 00:38:05,617 It's like inside I feel at peace here. 806 00:38:07,494 --> 00:38:09,537 so I feel like this is where I need to be. 807 00:38:09,621 --> 00:38:10,622 It's nothing to do with my family. 808 00:38:10,747 --> 00:38:13,458 I love my family dearly and I'll miss them, 809 00:38:13,583 --> 00:38:16,628 but when you -- when you grow up and you feel like your purpose 810 00:38:16,753 --> 00:38:18,338 is elsewhere, you can't deny that. 811 00:38:20,006 --> 00:38:21,341 [phone ringing] 812 00:38:21,466 --> 00:38:22,634 -[Kim] Hey! -[Ethan] Hey! 813 00:38:22,759 --> 00:38:25,804 -What are you doing? -Oh, I'm here in Wisconsin. 814 00:38:25,887 --> 00:38:26,930 I drove over here yesterday. 815 00:38:28,097 --> 00:38:29,891 [Kim] OK. 816 00:38:29,974 --> 00:38:31,684 I'm just gonna look at some places 817 00:38:31,810 --> 00:38:33,895 to maybe lock down in January. 818 00:38:35,355 --> 00:38:36,564 And she doesn't know I'm here. 819 00:38:36,648 --> 00:38:38,107 She hasn't seen my car. I haven't told her. 820 00:38:39,067 --> 00:38:41,986 [Kim] Um, what's the reason that you wouldn't 821 00:38:43,363 --> 00:38:44,864 just tell her now? 822 00:38:44,989 --> 00:38:46,449 The reason why is because, 823 00:38:47,700 --> 00:38:50,328 you know, we made plans multiple times 824 00:38:50,411 --> 00:38:52,121 for me to move here, and I never did, 825 00:38:52,205 --> 00:38:53,998 so I don't wanna just tell her, 826 00:38:54,123 --> 00:38:55,542 "Hey, I'm gonna move here" again. 827 00:38:56,835 --> 00:38:58,962 Yeah, but you're there. 828 00:38:59,045 --> 00:39:01,673 -And you're looking at places. -Yeah, yeah. 829 00:39:01,798 --> 00:39:04,342 Anyways, I just wanna let you know that's what I'm doing. 830 00:39:04,425 --> 00:39:06,177 We'll see how it goes. 831 00:39:06,302 --> 00:39:08,012 [Kim] There's no chance she would, like, 832 00:39:08,137 --> 00:39:10,890 drive by and be like, "Oh, there's Ethan's car." 833 00:39:13,393 --> 00:39:15,687 You're not doing anything weird like driving by her house 834 00:39:15,770 --> 00:39:18,231 at 2 o'clock in the morning stalking her? -[Ethan] No. 835 00:39:18,356 --> 00:39:19,899 No, I have not entered her neighborhood, 836 00:39:20,024 --> 00:39:22,151 and I'm not going to. -[Kim laughing] Just checking. 837 00:39:22,235 --> 00:39:24,654 I'm gonna be respectful of that. 838 00:39:24,737 --> 00:39:27,156 [Kim] I mean here is -- my thought is, 839 00:39:27,240 --> 00:39:32,078 if you tell her, the worst thing that she could think is that, 840 00:39:32,203 --> 00:39:33,371 "Oh, here he goes again, 841 00:39:33,454 --> 00:39:34,747 he's not gonna follow through with it," 842 00:39:34,873 --> 00:39:36,207 but then you're gonna prove her wrong 843 00:39:36,332 --> 00:39:37,542 by following through with it. 844 00:39:37,667 --> 00:39:39,544 Mm. 845 00:39:39,627 --> 00:39:42,672 To me, if you don't tell her, the worst thing that can happen 846 00:39:42,755 --> 00:39:44,382 is she finds out, and then she thinks 847 00:39:44,507 --> 00:39:47,969 you're really weird for, like, being there for weeks 848 00:39:48,052 --> 00:39:51,931 or whatever, however long, and not saying anything. 849 00:39:52,056 --> 00:39:53,057 [Ethan] Yeah. 850 00:39:53,141 --> 00:39:55,226 [Kim] Like, I -- to me, that would be weird. 851 00:40:00,315 --> 00:40:03,151 [Ethan] I'm gonna find a place, get the paperwork done, 852 00:40:03,234 --> 00:40:04,569 then I can tell her. 853 00:40:08,406 --> 00:40:09,407 [Ethan] Alright. 854 00:40:21,544 --> 00:40:25,590 So this is a 1976 New Yorker made by Chrysler. 855 00:40:25,673 --> 00:40:27,091 Definitely sticks out. 856 00:40:30,303 --> 00:40:31,304 [Ethan] Oh, yeah. 857 00:40:35,725 --> 00:40:36,726 That was her. 858 00:40:37,810 --> 00:40:39,437 -Yeah, it was. -[producer] Are you serious? 859 00:40:41,272 --> 00:40:43,274 [producer laughs] 860 00:40:44,359 --> 00:40:45,360 [coach] Let's go. Come on. 861 00:40:45,443 --> 00:40:47,695 If your butt don't touch, it don't count. 862 00:40:47,779 --> 00:40:49,614 Barry has a nickname in our family, 863 00:40:49,739 --> 00:40:51,115 and he's called Plath Daddy. 864 00:40:52,951 --> 00:40:55,203 And he will always be Plath Daddy. 865 00:40:55,286 --> 00:40:57,455 -Plath Daddy. -Is it? 866 00:40:57,580 --> 00:40:58,581 There we go. 867 00:40:59,916 --> 00:41:00,875 Hey. 868 00:41:00,959 --> 00:41:02,877 [Teegan, on the phone] Hey, you good? 869 00:41:02,961 --> 00:41:05,338 Well, I have something for you. 870 00:41:05,463 --> 00:41:09,008 Just let me know when you can go pick it up. 871 00:41:09,133 --> 00:41:10,593 -I was just wondering. -[Teegan] When I can pick it up? 872 00:41:10,677 --> 00:41:11,678 Yeah. 873 00:41:12,971 --> 00:41:14,055 [Teegan] OK. 874 00:41:15,932 --> 00:41:18,559 I don't take bull crap. I know my self-worth. 875 00:41:19,978 --> 00:41:21,646 I know what I will and won't take. 876 00:41:21,729 --> 00:41:23,398 All I need is one more chance. 877 00:41:26,943 --> 00:41:28,277 I don't give second chances.