1 00:00:01,482 --> 00:00:03,931 I guess I'm the brain type that would entertain the possibility 2 00:00:04,068 --> 00:00:06,172 that this creature, Bigfoot, is real. 3 00:00:06,344 --> 00:00:08,103 Ever get that feeling when you're in the woods 4 00:00:08,275 --> 00:00:09,896 that something's watching you? 5 00:00:10,034 --> 00:00:13,482 I promise you, something's watching you. 6 00:00:13,655 --> 00:00:16,172 I could see Dad with someone who's very adventurous. 7 00:00:16,344 --> 00:00:19,793 I wonder if Sandra Bullock is a Sasquatch enthusiast. 8 00:00:19,965 --> 00:00:22,310 Alright, Ethan, what's, like, kind of your goal 9 00:00:22,482 --> 00:00:24,517 in, like, going up to Wisconsin? 10 00:00:24,689 --> 00:00:26,206 [Ethan] Zac is, like, very pushy 11 00:00:26,379 --> 00:00:29,413 and is very different than my brothers. 12 00:00:29,586 --> 00:00:31,068 Feels like you just got down here. 13 00:00:31,241 --> 00:00:33,206 Sucks that you have to leave so soon. 14 00:00:33,379 --> 00:00:36,103 Well, you know, I asked Teegan to come to Montana. 15 00:00:36,275 --> 00:00:37,586 I didn't know that. 16 00:00:37,758 --> 00:00:39,172 I'll support him, whatever he does, 17 00:00:39,344 --> 00:00:41,896 but if I can and see something that I don't think is a good idea, 18 00:00:42,034 --> 00:00:43,724 it pains me to just sit back and watch him. 19 00:00:45,206 --> 00:00:46,275 - [host] Hello, welcome. - Hello. 20 00:00:46,448 --> 00:00:47,688 Hi, how are you? 21 00:00:47,689 --> 00:00:51,379 I think Ethan knows what's at stake if she rejects him. 22 00:00:53,172 --> 00:00:54,655 What do you think? 23 00:00:57,103 --> 00:00:58,827 Oh my God, what am I doing here? 24 00:01:05,206 --> 00:01:07,206 [upbeat music playing] 25 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:11,206 [Barry speaking] 26 00:01:13,689 --> 00:01:14,793 [Kaylynn speaking on the phone] 27 00:01:14,965 --> 00:01:16,103 Hey, honey. 28 00:01:17,482 --> 00:01:20,517 Where-- you're on speakerphone. We're waiting on you. 29 00:01:20,689 --> 00:01:21,758 [Barry and Kaylynn laugh] 30 00:01:24,206 --> 00:01:28,379 Me and Kaylynn are going to Montana together. 31 00:01:28,551 --> 00:01:30,620 It's good to be able to go on a trip with her 32 00:01:30,793 --> 00:01:32,275 after everything we've been through. 33 00:01:32,448 --> 00:01:33,379 Everything feels like 34 00:01:33,551 --> 00:01:34,793 it's pretty much back to normal now. 35 00:01:34,965 --> 00:01:37,724 And so regardless of the breakup, 36 00:01:37,896 --> 00:01:39,586 it's good to, you know, travel with her. 37 00:01:44,482 --> 00:01:48,413 Isaac has invited me on a trip to see Moriah in Montana. 38 00:01:48,586 --> 00:01:51,172 We're so excited to see her and go on a little vacation. 39 00:01:51,344 --> 00:01:53,310 - You're on time. - [Kaylynn] Exactly! 40 00:01:53,482 --> 00:01:56,689 - [Isaac mumbles] - 8:27, that's-- 8:30. 41 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,724 Things between me and Isaac, they're actually going really good. 42 00:02:01,896 --> 00:02:04,620 Honestly, better than they ever were. 43 00:02:04,793 --> 00:02:07,310 He's just given me all the reassurance that I can ask for... 44 00:02:07,482 --> 00:02:09,206 - And I'm on time. - [chuckles] 45 00:02:09,379 --> 00:02:12,310 ...and communicating the way we should be doing. 46 00:02:12,482 --> 00:02:15,379 He does everything that he can every single day 47 00:02:15,551 --> 00:02:16,793 to prove to me that he loves me. 48 00:02:16,965 --> 00:02:18,275 You look good. 49 00:02:18,448 --> 00:02:21,000 Sometimes you got to take that little breakup 50 00:02:21,172 --> 00:02:23,620 in order for things to really and truly heal 51 00:02:23,793 --> 00:02:25,310 both of y'all and the relationship. 52 00:02:25,482 --> 00:02:27,482 And I honestly think that's what's happened with us. 53 00:02:27,655 --> 00:02:29,068 And I can't be more thankful. 54 00:02:30,172 --> 00:02:33,103 - Ethan's meeting us there with Teegan. - Yeah. 55 00:02:33,275 --> 00:02:34,517 [Isaac] Teegan's coming to Montana. 56 00:02:34,689 --> 00:02:37,586 And it is, kind of, like, a little shock. 57 00:02:39,586 --> 00:02:41,310 After the breakup, I don't know if Teegan wants 58 00:02:41,482 --> 00:02:43,103 to get back with Ethan or not. 59 00:02:43,275 --> 00:02:45,896 For now, I guess first step is just seeing, you know, 60 00:02:46,034 --> 00:02:47,827 how she treats him in Montana. 61 00:02:51,103 --> 00:02:54,413 - That'll work. - It should. 62 00:02:54,586 --> 00:02:56,275 I don't know. I'll guess we'll see. 63 00:02:56,448 --> 00:02:58,620 [Kaylynn] I don't necessarily have, like, a problem with Teegan. 64 00:02:58,793 --> 00:03:02,620 It's just, since the breakup, there was a few private things 65 00:03:02,793 --> 00:03:05,517 that went on that I didn't necessarily agree with. 66 00:03:06,517 --> 00:03:09,482 I can start to see the planes coming into the airport. 67 00:03:10,586 --> 00:03:14,275 Teegan is, you know, so sweet and lovey-dovey towards Ethan 68 00:03:14,448 --> 00:03:16,275 one minute, and then the next thing you know, 69 00:03:16,448 --> 00:03:18,896 it's complete sideways. 70 00:03:19,034 --> 00:03:21,379 You can't just play with somebody's emotions like that. 71 00:03:21,551 --> 00:03:24,896 I understand Ethan did certain things that he's not proud of, 72 00:03:25,034 --> 00:03:27,103 and he's taken full accountability for it, 73 00:03:27,275 --> 00:03:29,689 but you can't continue to play with somebody. 74 00:03:30,689 --> 00:03:32,896 [flight attendant] We are now almost ready to go, so please take your seats. 75 00:03:40,896 --> 00:03:42,896 [upbeat music playing] 76 00:03:44,827 --> 00:03:46,275 [Amber] Alright, I think these are done. 77 00:03:48,172 --> 00:03:49,931 Tonight, I made dinner for my dad, 78 00:03:50,068 --> 00:03:52,689 and I invited my friend Berlyn over to help. 79 00:03:52,862 --> 00:03:55,620 Me and Berlyn met maybe five years ago. 80 00:03:55,793 --> 00:03:58,482 We met at church, and she's really fun. 81 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:04,310 - Ooh, I love doing this. - It looks so fancy. 82 00:04:04,482 --> 00:04:06,793 Amber is really fun. She's playful. 83 00:04:06,965 --> 00:04:08,586 Um, I really enjoy just hanging out with her. 84 00:04:08,758 --> 00:04:09,793 She's good to talk to. 85 00:04:09,965 --> 00:04:11,689 How's the cooking coming? 86 00:04:11,862 --> 00:04:14,275 - Good. - Good, it's ready. We're waiting for you. 87 00:04:14,448 --> 00:04:15,619 Ooh! Wow! 88 00:04:15,620 --> 00:04:18,000 My relationship with Amber these days is maturing. 89 00:04:18,172 --> 00:04:19,482 She's maturing, she's growing up. 90 00:04:19,655 --> 00:04:22,586 She's showing herself to be a very responsible young lady. 91 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:25,000 Looking good. 92 00:04:26,103 --> 00:04:27,620 - Smells great. - Mm-hmm. 93 00:04:27,793 --> 00:04:31,275 So the relationship is changing more to peer-to-peer 94 00:04:31,448 --> 00:04:35,068 and less, you know, father-daughter. 95 00:04:36,068 --> 00:04:38,000 - Yummy. - [Barry] Yum. 96 00:04:38,172 --> 00:04:40,275 I'm gonna give this a-- a taste test. 97 00:04:42,689 --> 00:04:45,000 Oh, fabulous! That's awesome. 98 00:04:45,172 --> 00:04:46,757 Mm-hmm. 99 00:04:46,758 --> 00:04:48,620 - [Barry] That is-- that is really good. - I know I shouldn't say this, 100 00:04:48,793 --> 00:04:50,206 but that is really good. 101 00:04:50,379 --> 00:04:53,724 So, did she tell you that 102 00:04:53,896 --> 00:04:56,103 I'm dating? - I heard. 103 00:04:56,275 --> 00:04:58,724 - Yeah. - How's that going? 104 00:04:58,896 --> 00:05:00,172 - It's in the beginning. - Mm. 105 00:05:00,344 --> 00:05:02,827 It's at the really early phases. 106 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:03,931 [chuckles] 107 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:07,517 Dad has recently started, 108 00:05:07,689 --> 00:05:10,172 um, talking to ladies, and, you know, 109 00:05:10,344 --> 00:05:13,275 he's in the dating... pool, I guess you could say. 110 00:05:13,448 --> 00:05:16,517 So that's... exciting. 111 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:21,689 - Met anyone yet? - No, I've just been talking. 112 00:05:21,862 --> 00:05:24,310 - Mm-hmm. - Just been talking on the phone. 113 00:05:24,482 --> 00:05:26,517 I wish I could find someone and set you up. 114 00:05:26,689 --> 00:05:28,586 [Berlyn chuckles] 115 00:05:28,758 --> 00:05:30,379 - Just seems like it'd be fun. - [Barry] Yeah. 116 00:05:30,551 --> 00:05:31,931 - Blind date? [Amber] Mm-hmm. 117 00:05:32,068 --> 00:05:34,896 [Barry] I don't know about blind dates, but, you know, 118 00:05:35,034 --> 00:05:39,103 if they're known by, like, a friend who knows somebody, 119 00:05:39,275 --> 00:05:41,103 yeah, I would be open to that. 120 00:05:42,413 --> 00:05:43,827 I think Dad would be able to tell 121 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:46,103 if, like, someone is being crazy. 122 00:05:46,275 --> 00:05:49,172 I hope. If not, I'll tell him. 123 00:05:49,344 --> 00:05:54,103 Around Cairo, I'm-- I'm known as the Plath Daddy. 124 00:05:54,275 --> 00:05:56,931 - Really? - Huh. 125 00:05:57,068 --> 00:05:58,275 I've got a new nickname. 126 00:06:00,827 --> 00:06:03,275 So, yeah, life's an adventure. 127 00:06:03,448 --> 00:06:05,413 - [Amber] Mm-hmm. - Life's an adventure. 128 00:06:09,172 --> 00:06:10,620 So... 129 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:15,724 - [Berlyn] Really? - [Barry] Mm-hmm. 130 00:06:15,896 --> 00:06:16,862 [Amber] Yep. 131 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:20,517 Me, Dad, and Mercy went Bigfoot hunting. 132 00:06:20,689 --> 00:06:22,793 It's real. Don't you believe me? 133 00:06:22,965 --> 00:06:24,206 No, I believe you. 134 00:06:25,827 --> 00:06:27,482 Dad starts talking about Bigfoot. 135 00:06:27,655 --> 00:06:29,068 And if he can find someone who will listen to him 136 00:06:29,241 --> 00:06:30,482 talk about Bigfoot, he'll talk. 137 00:06:32,068 --> 00:06:34,000 I think they're with us still today. 138 00:06:35,620 --> 00:06:37,275 - Yeah? - Various types. 139 00:06:44,275 --> 00:06:46,103 Maybe. I don't know. 140 00:06:46,275 --> 00:06:50,310 There are people who have captured, um, audio... 141 00:06:50,482 --> 00:06:52,172 - [Berlyn] Of the call? - ...of-- of a Bigfoot. 142 00:06:52,344 --> 00:06:56,310 It's a language of sorts that's beyond what we understand. 143 00:06:58,172 --> 00:06:59,172 Who does he speak to? 144 00:07:00,310 --> 00:07:03,896 - Other Bigfoots. - Oh, of course. 145 00:07:04,034 --> 00:07:06,275 The theory is there's a whole tribe of them. 146 00:07:06,448 --> 00:07:07,931 - Mm. - A whole race of them. 147 00:07:08,068 --> 00:07:09,103 Just all in hiding? 148 00:07:10,724 --> 00:07:13,689 Well, they have paranormal abilities, right? 149 00:07:13,862 --> 00:07:14,896 The use of portals. 150 00:07:17,379 --> 00:07:18,689 The portals, that's new. 151 00:07:18,862 --> 00:07:21,000 I did not know about the portals. 152 00:07:21,172 --> 00:07:22,827 Um, yeah. 153 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:26,379 They've captured these things on... 154 00:07:27,586 --> 00:07:31,172 on film or seen them in person, just dematerialized, 155 00:07:31,344 --> 00:07:33,793 just like through a portal. - [Berlyn] Wow! 156 00:07:34,827 --> 00:07:37,793 - That's freaky, isn't it? - [Amber] Yeah. 157 00:07:37,965 --> 00:07:39,241 I don't know. 158 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:43,379 Kind of lost me after that. I was like, "OK, I don't know." 159 00:07:46,517 --> 00:07:49,103 It used to be in the realm of 160 00:07:49,275 --> 00:07:51,379 anybody who talks about Bigfoot 161 00:07:51,551 --> 00:07:53,689 needs to go to the psych ward, 162 00:07:53,862 --> 00:07:55,206 you know, 50 years ago. 163 00:07:55,379 --> 00:07:58,103 Now it's just become, people are warming up 164 00:07:58,275 --> 00:08:00,586 to the fact that there's more out there 165 00:08:00,758 --> 00:08:02,172 in creation that meets the eye. 166 00:08:02,344 --> 00:08:04,068 Oh, Dad, you're still going to the psych ward. 167 00:08:04,241 --> 00:08:05,482 - Oh, thank you. - [all laughing] 168 00:08:05,655 --> 00:08:06,896 [Barry] Will you come and visit me on weekends? 169 00:08:07,034 --> 00:08:09,482 [Bigfoot call] 170 00:08:09,655 --> 00:08:11,586 [birds chirping] 171 00:08:13,793 --> 00:08:15,793 [upbeat music playing] 172 00:08:24,482 --> 00:08:25,482 [Moriah] Can I use some of that? 173 00:08:25,655 --> 00:08:26,586 [Kaylynn] Yeah. 174 00:08:26,758 --> 00:08:28,931 - Can I use some of this? - [Kaylynn] Yes. 175 00:08:29,068 --> 00:08:31,172 - Thank you. - [knocking noises] 176 00:08:36,517 --> 00:08:37,724 - [Moriah] Morning. - [Kaylynn] Morning. 177 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:42,275 [Kaylynn] Just putting on makeup. 178 00:08:42,448 --> 00:08:45,310 Wide awake, good night's sleep, you know, ready to roll. 179 00:08:45,482 --> 00:08:46,482 [Isaac] Oh, yeah. For sure. 180 00:08:46,655 --> 00:08:48,586 So last night, we got in pretty late. 181 00:08:48,758 --> 00:08:51,103 We were all very tired, but it's my first time here 182 00:08:51,275 --> 00:08:52,517 in Montana and... - Yeah. 183 00:08:52,689 --> 00:08:55,000 ...gonna look around and do some fun things, 184 00:08:55,137 --> 00:08:58,000 explore and just see what Montana has for us. 185 00:08:58,137 --> 00:09:00,103 So, I'm excited. 186 00:09:00,275 --> 00:09:01,516 We haven't seen Ethan or Teegan yet, 187 00:09:01,517 --> 00:09:04,068 but we should be meeting up with them in a little bit. 188 00:09:04,241 --> 00:09:05,310 What do you guys wanna do today? 189 00:09:05,482 --> 00:09:07,000 I wanna wing it, play it by ear, 190 00:09:07,137 --> 00:09:08,205 and just explore. 191 00:09:08,206 --> 00:09:10,413 So, we don't really have anything set in stone. 192 00:09:10,586 --> 00:09:12,379 - We're just gonna... - [Kaylynn] Yeah. 193 00:09:12,551 --> 00:09:15,482 We're in Montana on a little sibling vacation. 194 00:09:15,655 --> 00:09:19,379 I drove over last night, and Ethan, Teegan, 195 00:09:19,551 --> 00:09:22,379 and Isaac and Kaylynn got in yesterday. 196 00:09:22,551 --> 00:09:24,482 Well, we'll change, and then we'll be right over. 197 00:09:24,655 --> 00:09:25,793 - Does that sound good? - Yeah. 198 00:09:25,965 --> 00:09:26,896 - Sounds good. - Yeah. 199 00:09:30,586 --> 00:09:32,000 It'll be good to see Teegan. 200 00:09:32,172 --> 00:09:37,172 I think it's been since the wedding that I saw her. 201 00:09:37,344 --> 00:09:38,896 The last time I saw her, I think, 202 00:09:39,034 --> 00:09:40,689 was before school started. 203 00:09:40,862 --> 00:09:44,310 - But it's been a hot minute. - [Moriah] Yeah. 204 00:09:46,793 --> 00:09:49,379 Me and Teegan were always close at the beginning. 205 00:09:49,551 --> 00:09:52,482 But I, kind of, you know, took a little step back, 206 00:09:52,655 --> 00:09:54,586 'cause whenever something would happen, 207 00:09:54,758 --> 00:09:57,620 she would call me and, you know, I'm always there for somebody. 208 00:09:57,793 --> 00:10:00,620 But Ethan would sometimes talk to me about certain things too. 209 00:10:00,793 --> 00:10:03,586 So I don't wanna be in the middle of things. 210 00:10:03,758 --> 00:10:06,275 And I know nobody wants to be in the middle of things. 211 00:10:06,448 --> 00:10:08,379 [twangy music playing] 212 00:10:25,206 --> 00:10:26,379 [Teegan] How are you doing? 213 00:10:26,551 --> 00:10:27,413 - I'm OK. - [Teegan] You look tired. 214 00:10:30,827 --> 00:10:33,931 Where are your brother and Kaylynn at? 215 00:10:34,068 --> 00:10:35,172 - Are you just waiting for them? - I don't know. 216 00:10:35,344 --> 00:10:36,896 - Yeah. - [Teegan] OK. 217 00:10:37,034 --> 00:10:39,172 [Ethan] Teegan and I got in yesterday. 218 00:10:39,344 --> 00:10:43,103 The travel out was very frustrating. 219 00:10:43,275 --> 00:10:45,000 We both are extremely tired. 220 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:48,517 It's a lot for me to just be friends with Teegan, 221 00:10:48,689 --> 00:10:51,931 'cause I love her, but that's where she's at, 222 00:10:52,068 --> 00:10:56,068 and I wanna meet her where she's at, 223 00:10:56,241 --> 00:10:58,275 you know, and be respectful about that. 224 00:11:00,275 --> 00:11:02,000 Would you wanna watch a movie later? 225 00:11:04,379 --> 00:11:05,482 Um... 226 00:11:07,103 --> 00:11:08,482 I don't know, maybe, [chuckles]. 227 00:11:10,172 --> 00:11:11,413 You wanna go look at them? 228 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:14,517 Sure. 229 00:11:14,689 --> 00:11:17,517 In these rooms, at least how my room was set up, like, 230 00:11:17,689 --> 00:11:21,172 the only way to watch the movie would be if you sat in bed, 231 00:11:21,344 --> 00:11:23,482 and I do not want Ethan in my bed. 232 00:11:32,517 --> 00:11:33,931 [Teegan] When I laid eyes on him, I was like, 233 00:11:34,068 --> 00:11:36,000 "Oh, he's it. He's the one." 234 00:11:36,172 --> 00:11:38,724 - You're so handsome. - You're so beautiful. 235 00:11:51,310 --> 00:11:52,310 Yeah. 236 00:11:56,172 --> 00:11:57,896 So how are you and Ethan doing now? 237 00:11:58,034 --> 00:12:01,172 He seems super sad right now, like, I wish he was happier. 238 00:12:01,344 --> 00:12:03,068 He might be not wanting to make a wrong move 239 00:12:03,241 --> 00:12:04,931 or say the wrong thing. 240 00:12:05,068 --> 00:12:08,000 Kaylynn and I don't talk at the moment, 241 00:12:08,137 --> 00:12:12,206 so I don't really think she knows the whole story. 242 00:12:12,379 --> 00:12:13,689 - [Taylor] You guys are going to Montana? - Yep. 243 00:12:13,862 --> 00:12:15,103 Isaac and Ethan are out there right now, 244 00:12:15,275 --> 00:12:16,586 aren't they, visiting Moriah? 245 00:12:17,896 --> 00:12:19,172 Yeah. 246 00:12:19,344 --> 00:12:21,275 It would have been fun to be able to join them on this trip, 247 00:12:21,448 --> 00:12:23,275 but I didn't really hear about it till last minute. 248 00:12:23,448 --> 00:12:27,000 I kind of just felt like I've been on the outside looking in. 249 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:36,000 [tense music playing] 250 00:12:45,793 --> 00:12:47,689 Yeah. 251 00:12:47,862 --> 00:12:51,379 The last straw that, sort of, broke the camel's back 252 00:12:51,551 --> 00:12:55,275 of our relationship was I went to celebrate his birthday 253 00:12:55,448 --> 00:12:57,482 with him, and it was a surprise, 254 00:12:57,655 --> 00:12:59,689 so I coordinated with his grandparents. 255 00:12:59,862 --> 00:13:02,379 I did the five-hour drive out there. 256 00:13:02,551 --> 00:13:06,689 The ice was already thin at that point 'cause I was... 257 00:13:06,862 --> 00:13:10,068 already months in to me telling her that I would move, 258 00:13:10,241 --> 00:13:11,758 and I still hadn't moved yet. 259 00:13:11,931 --> 00:13:14,379 At first, he seemed happy and everything like that. 260 00:13:14,551 --> 00:13:16,068 Then he sort of just disappeared for a while, 261 00:13:16,241 --> 00:13:17,517 which is Ethan. He does that. 262 00:13:18,689 --> 00:13:21,000 I went to find him, and he was working on one of his cars, 263 00:13:21,172 --> 00:13:24,413 but he was just acting really weird. 264 00:13:24,586 --> 00:13:27,172 I started shutting down, like I was not saying anything. 265 00:13:27,344 --> 00:13:29,379 I just wanted to keep working on my car. 266 00:13:31,103 --> 00:13:32,586 I was just such an idiot. 267 00:13:33,620 --> 00:13:36,172 And I kept asking, you know, what's wrong? 268 00:13:36,344 --> 00:13:37,758 What's up? What's going on? 269 00:13:37,931 --> 00:13:39,103 And he didn't really wanna talk about it. 270 00:13:39,275 --> 00:13:40,275 He kept shutting me down. 271 00:13:40,448 --> 00:13:41,689 And she started getting really frustrated 272 00:13:41,862 --> 00:13:43,517 that I wasn't communicating with her. 273 00:13:43,689 --> 00:13:45,620 And maybe I was asking too many times. 274 00:13:45,793 --> 00:13:47,586 You know, he said nothing was wrong, but his words 275 00:13:47,758 --> 00:13:49,620 and actions were not matching. I could tell. 276 00:13:49,793 --> 00:13:51,310 Do you see anything you like? 277 00:13:53,793 --> 00:13:55,379 And she kept pressuring me, like, 278 00:13:55,551 --> 00:13:57,103 "Talk to me, talk to me, talk to me." 279 00:13:57,275 --> 00:14:00,896 Then she kept pressing me, I was looking at her, 280 00:14:01,034 --> 00:14:03,172 and it was like I was seeing my ex. 281 00:14:03,344 --> 00:14:04,482 She used to do that. 282 00:14:05,482 --> 00:14:08,896 I just finally put my tools down, 283 00:14:09,034 --> 00:14:13,000 wiped my hands off, got in my '76 New Yorker. 284 00:14:13,137 --> 00:14:15,000 He sort of peeled out of there, 285 00:14:15,172 --> 00:14:16,896 and he shut his phone off 286 00:14:17,034 --> 00:14:21,172 and left me at his grandparents' farm. 287 00:14:21,344 --> 00:14:22,723 I remember looking back. 288 00:14:22,724 --> 00:14:25,000 It's one of the most depressing images that sticks in my mind 289 00:14:25,172 --> 00:14:26,206 that haunts me even today. 290 00:14:27,275 --> 00:14:32,000 It's just Teegan, just perfectly beautiful, 291 00:14:32,137 --> 00:14:35,310 standing there in the-- in the driveway, 292 00:14:35,482 --> 00:14:37,000 crying with her hand over her mouth, 293 00:14:37,172 --> 00:14:38,586 you know, I saw in the rearview mirror 294 00:14:38,758 --> 00:14:41,000 as I just peeled down the road. 295 00:14:42,793 --> 00:14:45,896 We broke up that day over the phone 296 00:14:46,034 --> 00:14:48,000 when he turned his phone back on at some point. 297 00:14:49,310 --> 00:14:50,379 [Ethan] It was just horrible. 298 00:14:51,482 --> 00:14:53,862 And then after that point, it was like 299 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:56,103 everything just kind of ended for me. 300 00:14:56,275 --> 00:14:59,068 Then I came back to Georgia. 301 00:14:59,241 --> 00:15:01,379 He finally came to me with what I could tell 302 00:15:01,551 --> 00:15:04,172 was a truth he'd been holding on to for quite some time, 303 00:15:04,344 --> 00:15:09,275 that he wanted to watch all his minor siblings 304 00:15:09,448 --> 00:15:11,517 grow up back down in Georgia. 305 00:15:11,689 --> 00:15:15,689 Mercy, his youngest sibling, was 12, and so that meant 306 00:15:15,862 --> 00:15:19,000 he'd wanna be down there for the next six years. 307 00:15:19,172 --> 00:15:22,689 I just said it in passing, but not really considering 308 00:15:24,517 --> 00:15:27,000 everything, like, would I really want that? 309 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:31,620 We didn't really talk for quite a while after that. 310 00:15:33,482 --> 00:15:36,482 I really, really hope this time around I can be 311 00:15:36,655 --> 00:15:38,482 who Teegan needs in a relationship. 312 00:15:38,655 --> 00:15:40,896 Put her first, you know, 313 00:15:41,034 --> 00:15:43,689 love her in the way she deserves to be loved. 314 00:15:43,862 --> 00:15:46,965 But it's very possible that's-- it's too little, too late. 315 00:15:48,586 --> 00:15:50,103 I'll never know unless I try. 316 00:15:53,379 --> 00:15:55,275 [Teegan] Do you wanna play tic-tac-toe? 317 00:15:55,448 --> 00:15:57,689 - [Ethan] Sure. - Which ones do you wanna be? 318 00:15:57,862 --> 00:15:59,862 - [Ethan] It doesn't matter. - I'll be the Xes, then. 319 00:16:01,275 --> 00:16:04,482 I decided to come to Montana because I think it would give 320 00:16:04,655 --> 00:16:08,896 Ethan and I an opportunity to spend time together, 321 00:16:09,034 --> 00:16:11,000 romantic stuff aside, just as friends. 322 00:16:11,172 --> 00:16:12,862 Do you wanna go first? 323 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:15,482 - [Ethan] You can go first. - [Teegan] OK. 324 00:16:15,655 --> 00:16:18,172 We had been no-contact for a while, 325 00:16:18,344 --> 00:16:20,413 and when you break up with someone, 326 00:16:20,586 --> 00:16:22,275 you know, you lose that romantic side, 327 00:16:22,448 --> 00:16:24,206 but you lose the friendship, too. 328 00:16:24,379 --> 00:16:27,103 And so I'm just focusing on rebuilding that, 329 00:16:27,275 --> 00:16:30,000 and if that's where that ends, then that's where it ends, 330 00:16:30,172 --> 00:16:31,620 you know, like friends. 331 00:16:31,793 --> 00:16:35,000 I guess I'm just mostly curious to see how he'll handle being... 332 00:16:36,172 --> 00:16:38,310 friends on a trip. 333 00:16:40,793 --> 00:16:41,793 [Ethan] Oh, you're gonna win. 334 00:16:46,965 --> 00:16:48,931 [Kaylynn] It's freezing outside. 335 00:16:51,379 --> 00:16:53,379 - Good morning, good morning. - Well, hello. 336 00:16:53,551 --> 00:16:54,586 - [Isaac] Hey, you guys. - [Teegan] Hi, everybody. 337 00:16:54,758 --> 00:16:56,689 - Hi. - [Teegan] How are you? 338 00:16:56,862 --> 00:17:00,379 - [Kaylynn] Long time no see. - I love your hair. 339 00:17:00,551 --> 00:17:01,793 - Oh, thank you. - Oh, my goodness. 340 00:17:01,965 --> 00:17:03,965 I do have love for the family. 341 00:17:04,103 --> 00:17:06,000 And I mean, I hope 342 00:17:06,172 --> 00:17:08,000 there's nothing but love from their side, 343 00:17:08,172 --> 00:17:10,310 but I know Ethan doesn't communicate well, 344 00:17:10,482 --> 00:17:12,103 so I don't know what they do know or don't know. 345 00:17:12,275 --> 00:17:13,793 Well, I'm looking for a seat. 346 00:17:13,965 --> 00:17:15,103 - I'm gonna sit down. - [Ethan] Yeah. 347 00:17:15,275 --> 00:17:17,103 [tense music playing] 348 00:17:17,275 --> 00:17:18,482 I just need to take this jacket off. 349 00:17:18,655 --> 00:17:20,793 Yeah, I know, I took mine off right away, too. 350 00:17:22,413 --> 00:17:25,896 What she-- you-- are you sad, happy? 351 00:17:26,034 --> 00:17:28,379 - Oh, yeah, just... - [chuckles] 352 00:17:28,551 --> 00:17:30,172 I'm sad with the weather, 'cause this... 353 00:17:30,344 --> 00:17:31,344 - [Ethan] Yeah. - [Isaac] This stuff is awful. 354 00:17:31,517 --> 00:17:32,689 Look at it. It's still raining out there. 355 00:17:33,793 --> 00:17:35,482 Teegan is normal towards us 356 00:17:35,655 --> 00:17:36,758 When I saw her, she gave me a hug 357 00:17:36,931 --> 00:17:39,413 and said, "What's up?" 358 00:17:39,586 --> 00:17:41,689 But she just seems distant from Ethan. 359 00:17:43,310 --> 00:17:45,172 [Kaylynn] We're gonna go play a card game. 360 00:17:45,344 --> 00:17:46,586 Moriah? 361 00:17:46,758 --> 00:17:49,689 - I got my job and my house. - Yeah, I heard. 362 00:17:49,862 --> 00:17:51,965 That's awesome. 363 00:17:52,103 --> 00:17:55,896 I made a lot of steps just to be near her 364 00:17:56,034 --> 00:17:57,172 and set up a life near her. 365 00:17:57,344 --> 00:17:58,862 I don't think she would have come to Montana 366 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:00,309 if I hadn't done that. 367 00:18:00,310 --> 00:18:02,758 So that's a little something, at least to get to see her. 368 00:18:04,310 --> 00:18:07,000 I was so excited for everyone to come out and see me, 369 00:18:07,172 --> 00:18:09,482 and I didn't know you were coming too. 370 00:18:09,655 --> 00:18:12,068 I was hoping, but I didn't know you for sure were coming 371 00:18:12,241 --> 00:18:14,517 until like, mm, two days or so. 372 00:18:14,689 --> 00:18:16,103 - So. - Yeah, surprise. 373 00:18:16,275 --> 00:18:18,068 - Surprise. - [laughing] 374 00:18:18,241 --> 00:18:19,172 Yeah. 375 00:18:22,620 --> 00:18:25,000 The vibe with Ethan and Teegan is... 376 00:18:29,965 --> 00:18:31,620 - I don't know. - I don't know. 377 00:18:31,793 --> 00:18:34,103 I don't know. I actually don't know. 378 00:18:34,275 --> 00:18:35,379 Mm, gotta think about that. 379 00:18:41,689 --> 00:18:43,689 It's only awkward if you make it awkward. 380 00:18:43,862 --> 00:18:45,482 - Exactly, thank you. - And so... 381 00:18:45,655 --> 00:18:46,689 And everyone else makes it awkward, 382 00:18:46,862 --> 00:18:48,862 so I'm the one making it not awkward. 383 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:50,310 'Cause she'll just talk when it's quiet. 384 00:18:50,482 --> 00:18:51,620 - Mm-hmm. - [laughing] 385 00:18:53,068 --> 00:18:54,862 So how are you and Ethan doing now? 386 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:58,000 Um, I would just say, like, alright. 387 00:18:58,172 --> 00:19:01,896 You know, finding out he's moving was a big shock, 388 00:19:02,034 --> 00:19:04,103 especially, like, at this stage, you know, 389 00:19:04,275 --> 00:19:06,758 'cause we've been broken up for quite some time. 390 00:19:08,482 --> 00:19:13,172 He had told me that his plan was to just move there. 391 00:19:13,344 --> 00:19:16,000 He was like, "This is like-- it's gonna kill me if I don't 392 00:19:16,172 --> 00:19:19,172 just move there and see what I can do to make it work." 393 00:19:19,344 --> 00:19:21,896 And I was like, "Whoa, hold on a second, 394 00:19:22,034 --> 00:19:25,275 back up a couple miles. I'm not following." - Yeah, it's a lot. 395 00:19:28,793 --> 00:19:29,827 Yeah. 396 00:19:31,103 --> 00:19:33,000 We've been just, like, working on a friendship 397 00:19:33,172 --> 00:19:36,275 'cause he said he's open to a relationship of any kind, 398 00:19:36,448 --> 00:19:38,896 even if that is just a friendship, and we were, 399 00:19:39,034 --> 00:19:41,793 you know, best friends, and I've told him that, like, 400 00:19:41,965 --> 00:19:43,620 I-- I do have love for him. I always will. 401 00:19:44,896 --> 00:19:48,103 When Ethan and I were together, I was in Wisconsin. 402 00:19:48,275 --> 00:19:50,379 He was in Minnesota. 403 00:19:50,551 --> 00:19:53,793 When it did come to traveling, most of it was me. 404 00:19:53,965 --> 00:19:59,103 And I am a working mom, so my free time is limited. 405 00:19:59,275 --> 00:20:01,482 Like, looking back on that, I was just like, 406 00:20:01,655 --> 00:20:04,793 you know, you realize things like, "Oh, come on, Teegan." 407 00:20:04,965 --> 00:20:07,000 It's not like a red flag by any means, 408 00:20:07,172 --> 00:20:09,689 but definitely like a yellow flag for sure. 409 00:20:09,862 --> 00:20:10,862 Yellow, orange. 410 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:13,068 [Isaac] Alright, you gotta at least get one. 411 00:20:14,482 --> 00:20:18,103 You wanted to lose. You were trying to lose. 412 00:20:18,275 --> 00:20:20,517 [Teegan] I don't have any interest at this point 413 00:20:20,689 --> 00:20:23,862 in diving deep into anything beyond superficial. 414 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:26,379 I just have walls up, I guess. 415 00:20:26,551 --> 00:20:31,206 You know, I just wanna figure this out, like, slow. 416 00:20:33,689 --> 00:20:37,068 He seems super sad right now. Like, and I wish he was happier. 417 00:20:37,241 --> 00:20:38,793 But I know men and women process things 418 00:20:38,965 --> 00:20:40,103 at different times. 419 00:20:40,275 --> 00:20:42,620 They always say women mourn a relationship 420 00:20:42,793 --> 00:20:45,379 while they're in it, you know, whereas men don't realize 421 00:20:45,551 --> 00:20:47,896 they've lost something until the breakup happens. 422 00:20:48,034 --> 00:20:50,172 So that's why I feel so bad that he's, like, so emotional, 423 00:20:50,344 --> 00:20:53,000 and I sort of just seem like not at all. 424 00:20:53,137 --> 00:20:54,586 Well, also, I don't think he wants to, like, 425 00:20:54,758 --> 00:20:56,068 do anything wrong either. 426 00:20:56,241 --> 00:20:57,862 Like, he might be nervous about that, 427 00:20:58,000 --> 00:20:59,275 not wanting to make a wrong move... - Yeah. 428 00:20:59,448 --> 00:21:02,000 ...or say the wrong thing, you know. - Yeah. 429 00:21:02,172 --> 00:21:03,793 No, I get that. 430 00:21:07,793 --> 00:21:09,793 After Ethan and I broke up, 431 00:21:09,965 --> 00:21:12,965 Kaylynn and I talked for quite some time. 432 00:21:13,103 --> 00:21:16,586 Many months, and eventually, just sort of fizzled out, 433 00:21:16,758 --> 00:21:19,379 so we don't talk at the moment. 434 00:21:19,551 --> 00:21:22,586 So I don't really think she knows the whole story. 435 00:21:22,758 --> 00:21:25,000 No one can predict the future, but... 436 00:21:25,172 --> 00:21:27,862 - [Moriah & Kaylynn] Yeah. - ...if it's meant to be, it'll be. 437 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,275 if it's not, it won't be, so. - Mm-hmm. 438 00:21:30,448 --> 00:21:34,103 I know people go at things, you know, at their own pace, 439 00:21:34,275 --> 00:21:37,379 but, you know, since he's moving up there, 440 00:21:37,551 --> 00:21:40,620 I thought that, like, it would have been a little different 441 00:21:40,793 --> 00:21:44,172 instead of just being friends, um, 442 00:21:45,379 --> 00:21:48,482 but I honestly can't tell you whether or not 443 00:21:48,655 --> 00:21:51,896 I think she still wants that. 444 00:21:52,034 --> 00:21:54,172 We'll just have to see what happens. 445 00:21:55,689 --> 00:21:57,689 [Teegan] Is it supposed to stop raining anytime soon? 446 00:21:57,862 --> 00:21:59,793 [Moriah] Mnh-mnh. Let's play cards. 447 00:21:59,965 --> 00:22:01,551 [Isaac] That's about our only option. 448 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:06,689 Do you have anything to say about how you chose 449 00:22:06,862 --> 00:22:08,172 to conduct yourself last year... 450 00:22:10,379 --> 00:22:12,586 [Ethan] I definitely shouldn't have been so hot-headed. 451 00:22:12,758 --> 00:22:15,413 - Is that any way to live life? - No. 452 00:22:15,586 --> 00:22:16,482 [Teegan] Being petty? 453 00:22:28,862 --> 00:22:32,344 Um, I woke up really, really hot in the morning 454 00:22:32,517 --> 00:22:35,241 and I realized, I-- I forgot that I turned 455 00:22:35,413 --> 00:22:38,379 my heat on to 80 degrees. 456 00:22:38,551 --> 00:22:41,862 So I was like, "Ha, I'm in Hell." 457 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:43,379 I woke up on the wrong side of the bed 458 00:22:43,551 --> 00:22:45,241 with my eyebrows not on anymore, 459 00:22:45,413 --> 00:22:46,448 so I have to redo that. 460 00:22:47,448 --> 00:22:48,896 Because of my alopecia, 461 00:22:49,034 --> 00:22:51,379 these eyebrows have saved my life. 462 00:22:53,068 --> 00:22:55,551 I see a little bit of new growth, 463 00:22:55,724 --> 00:22:59,241 just a tiny bit, but it's not-- 464 00:23:01,275 --> 00:23:03,965 not enough to get too excited about, 465 00:23:04,103 --> 00:23:05,586 but it's something to get my hopes up. 466 00:23:06,551 --> 00:23:08,758 I'm still in the process of figuring out, you know, 467 00:23:08,931 --> 00:23:11,068 exactly what's wrong and what triggers it. 468 00:23:11,241 --> 00:23:13,482 But right now, what I'm just really working on 469 00:23:13,655 --> 00:23:15,689 is taking care of myself. 470 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:21,275 You know, just taking vitamins and stuff like that in my diet 471 00:23:21,448 --> 00:23:23,000 and trying to eat more and hopefully 472 00:23:23,172 --> 00:23:24,482 put on a little bit of weight. 473 00:23:24,655 --> 00:23:26,793 Just overall, make sure I'm healthy. 474 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:29,379 The hardest part is lining it up. 475 00:23:29,551 --> 00:23:31,896 That's where I have to do it a few times sometimes. 476 00:23:32,034 --> 00:23:34,689 'Cause sometimes I can pick up my emotion for the day. 477 00:23:34,862 --> 00:23:38,103 It's like, do I wanna be happy, sad, angry? 478 00:23:39,172 --> 00:23:42,482 Every single human being I've met has some big insecurity 479 00:23:42,655 --> 00:23:44,448 that they struggle with, and it might not be something 480 00:23:44,620 --> 00:23:47,379 as obvious as hair, but we all have it. 481 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,551 I think something that I would tell my younger self is 482 00:23:52,551 --> 00:23:55,034 embrace the good and the bad, 483 00:23:55,206 --> 00:23:57,000 and all of that makes you you, 484 00:23:57,172 --> 00:23:59,172 and it will one day make you a lot stronger. 485 00:24:00,655 --> 00:24:01,655 Mm. 486 00:24:02,758 --> 00:24:04,275 Yeah. 487 00:24:04,448 --> 00:24:07,793 This one's lower, though, but, it's 'cause this kind of-- 488 00:24:07,965 --> 00:24:10,275 but you know what? It's gonna be fine. 489 00:24:10,448 --> 00:24:14,862 When I first lost my hair, I had just moved out here. 490 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:16,896 I was trying to really start all over, 491 00:24:17,034 --> 00:24:19,241 and losing my hair really helped with that in a way. 492 00:24:19,413 --> 00:24:21,275 Like, looking back, I'm like, wow. 493 00:24:21,448 --> 00:24:25,172 It just forced me to shift my, um, 494 00:24:25,344 --> 00:24:27,103 mentality and my heart. 495 00:24:27,275 --> 00:24:29,862 This one's a little lower though. 496 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,862 It's pretty-- it's pretty close to... 497 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,655 It's pretty good, so we'll just roll with that today. 498 00:24:41,103 --> 00:24:43,379 [Isaac chuckles] 499 00:24:43,551 --> 00:24:44,482 [Kaylynn] Oh my goodness! 500 00:24:49,896 --> 00:24:52,965 Unfortunately, yesterday, it rained all day and all night, 501 00:24:53,103 --> 00:24:55,448 which really sucked 'cause it kept us inside, 502 00:24:55,620 --> 00:24:58,586 so we played games in the entire day. 503 00:24:58,758 --> 00:25:00,068 But today, since it's nice out, 504 00:25:00,241 --> 00:25:02,275 we're gonna go horseback riding. 505 00:25:02,448 --> 00:25:04,275 Well, since the horses aren't ready yet, 506 00:25:04,448 --> 00:25:05,689 I'm gonna interview you. 507 00:25:07,793 --> 00:25:10,482 Ethan doesn't like to talk about his feelings and stuff, 508 00:25:10,655 --> 00:25:14,586 and I honestly I found the best that he ever does is really 509 00:25:14,758 --> 00:25:15,896 with a camera in his face, 510 00:25:16,034 --> 00:25:19,172 so it's sort of easier to get him to talk. 511 00:25:20,275 --> 00:25:22,482 Which person do you think will be best? 512 00:25:22,655 --> 00:25:23,862 Oh, I don't-- I don't know. 513 00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:25,793 I haven't ridden a horse in like ten years. 514 00:25:25,965 --> 00:25:27,551 You seem like you're from Yellowstone, 515 00:25:27,724 --> 00:25:28,655 except with blonde hair. 516 00:25:28,827 --> 00:25:30,931 Why the hell do I seem like that? 517 00:25:33,379 --> 00:25:35,896 I get to ask Ethan, sort of, whatever I want now, 518 00:25:36,034 --> 00:25:39,586 which is really nice because he doesn't really share much. 519 00:25:39,758 --> 00:25:42,758 Do you have anything to say about how you chose to conduct 520 00:25:42,931 --> 00:25:45,103 yourself last year, especially to Zac? 521 00:25:46,896 --> 00:25:48,000 I asked him about 522 00:25:49,689 --> 00:25:53,241 how he acted during Zac and Lydia's wedding, 523 00:25:53,413 --> 00:25:56,000 wedding rehearsal, and the whole nine yards. 524 00:25:57,965 --> 00:25:59,551 [Ethan] I don't know that I can do this. 525 00:26:00,793 --> 00:26:02,793 [tires screeching] 526 00:26:06,586 --> 00:26:09,793 I was really disappointed in the Ethan I was seeing, 527 00:26:09,965 --> 00:26:12,172 because that's not the Ethan I know. 528 00:26:12,344 --> 00:26:14,172 He really made an ass of himself. 529 00:26:14,344 --> 00:26:16,172 He was doing a really [bleep] job 530 00:26:16,344 --> 00:26:18,965 of being there for his sister. 531 00:26:19,103 --> 00:26:22,655 Is that any way to live life... being petty? 532 00:26:24,172 --> 00:26:25,172 Interesting. 533 00:26:26,896 --> 00:26:28,344 Teegan was really upset that... 534 00:26:30,172 --> 00:26:31,551 I left without telling her. 535 00:26:31,724 --> 00:26:33,758 I just took off again, you know? 536 00:26:34,896 --> 00:26:37,000 And I remember her telling me, like, 537 00:26:37,137 --> 00:26:39,965 if I was really struggling, if I was, like, 538 00:26:40,103 --> 00:26:42,689 if I'd had it and I needed to go, 539 00:26:42,862 --> 00:26:44,448 that I should have come to her and told her that 540 00:26:44,620 --> 00:26:46,241 and she could have gone with me and we could have 541 00:26:46,413 --> 00:26:47,448 talked about it and all that stuff. 542 00:26:47,620 --> 00:26:49,862 I was like, "I didn't even think about that." 543 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,482 I just got in my car and left, but... 544 00:26:53,448 --> 00:26:56,586 I definitely shouldn't have been so hot-headed. 545 00:26:56,758 --> 00:26:59,689 I've apologized to Lydia and Zac for any of the ways 546 00:26:59,862 --> 00:27:02,275 I may have hurt them. 547 00:27:02,448 --> 00:27:05,655 I let them both know that I wish them nothing but the best. 548 00:27:06,896 --> 00:27:10,172 And we have a good relationship now. 549 00:27:12,344 --> 00:27:15,275 I just think interviewing Ethan gives him a chance 550 00:27:15,448 --> 00:27:19,551 to hopefully, you know, admit maybe wrongdoings 551 00:27:19,724 --> 00:27:22,137 or, you know, what he could do better, 552 00:27:22,310 --> 00:27:27,689 because, like, to me, that would signify the growth 553 00:27:27,862 --> 00:27:30,344 I'm hoping for in just even a friendship alone. 554 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,482 Are you excited for our first Christmas together? 555 00:27:36,655 --> 00:27:38,793 Oh my goodness, you have no idea. 556 00:27:38,965 --> 00:27:41,344 I love everything about Christmas. 557 00:27:41,517 --> 00:27:43,275 - Christmas-- Christmas-- - How do you know you love everything about Christmas, 558 00:27:43,448 --> 00:27:44,447 if you've never experienced it? 559 00:27:44,448 --> 00:27:46,379 I have three years of Christmas experience. 560 00:27:46,551 --> 00:27:49,068 OK, I have 24. 561 00:28:01,344 --> 00:28:04,241 [instrumental "Joy to the World" playing] 562 00:28:11,137 --> 00:28:13,586 Are you excited for our first Christmas together? 563 00:28:13,758 --> 00:28:15,034 - We're almost... - [Lydia] Oh, my goodness. 564 00:28:15,206 --> 00:28:17,862 You have no idea. Or apparently you do. 565 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:19,689 I don't know-- have any idea with you, though. 566 00:28:19,862 --> 00:28:23,896 I think it's-- your excitement is gonna make this Christmas 567 00:28:24,034 --> 00:28:25,793 entirely different, so... 568 00:28:25,965 --> 00:28:28,793 The Plaths grew up kind of not-- 569 00:28:28,965 --> 00:28:30,379 they didn't celebrate Christmas. 570 00:28:30,551 --> 00:28:32,482 I grew up celebrating Christmas, 571 00:28:32,655 --> 00:28:35,000 and so as soon as Lydia heard about that, 572 00:28:35,172 --> 00:28:37,689 she was jumping off the walls 573 00:28:37,862 --> 00:28:40,000 at the idea of decorating for Christmas. 574 00:28:40,137 --> 00:28:41,586 So I'm down a couple hundred bucks, 575 00:28:41,758 --> 00:28:43,862 but we're having a great Christmas. 576 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:47,482 Did you not celebrate at all growing up? 577 00:28:47,655 --> 00:28:48,689 [Lydia] No. 578 00:28:48,862 --> 00:28:50,241 It's our first Christmas together, 579 00:28:50,413 --> 00:28:51,862 and I'm just so excited. 580 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:54,172 I love everything about Christmas. 581 00:28:54,344 --> 00:28:56,068 - Christmas, Christmas Day-- - How do you know you love everything about Christmas 582 00:28:56,241 --> 00:28:58,344 if you've never experienced it? - I have. 583 00:28:58,517 --> 00:29:00,379 - Oh, OK. - Just, I didn't-- 584 00:29:00,551 --> 00:29:02,379 not necessarily, like, when I was a little kid, 585 00:29:02,551 --> 00:29:04,793 but I have experienced it for several years. 586 00:29:06,103 --> 00:29:07,274 OK. 587 00:29:07,275 --> 00:29:09,793 These candles might warm the room up a little bit, 588 00:29:09,965 --> 00:29:11,793 - So-- - You know I love my candles. 589 00:29:11,965 --> 00:29:13,689 I have three years of Christmas experience. 590 00:29:14,689 --> 00:29:16,689 OK, I have 24. 591 00:29:18,758 --> 00:29:21,586 OK, so what are some of your favorite Christmas movies? 592 00:29:21,758 --> 00:29:22,930 "Home Alone" is a classic. 593 00:29:22,931 --> 00:29:25,586 Every year, my family would watch it all together. 594 00:29:25,758 --> 00:29:27,689 The best is "It's a Wonderful Life." 595 00:29:27,862 --> 00:29:28,758 I've never seen it. 596 00:29:28,931 --> 00:29:30,896 - Zac Wyse. - I've never seen it. 597 00:29:31,034 --> 00:29:32,241 - You-- you can't-- - Oh, come on in. 598 00:29:32,413 --> 00:29:33,551 Knock, knock. 599 00:29:33,724 --> 00:29:35,448 - Taylor, you're here just in time. - [Zac] Hey. 600 00:29:35,620 --> 00:29:37,482 Did someone order delivery service? 601 00:29:37,655 --> 00:29:39,000 Oh, I forgot about that, yes. 602 00:29:39,172 --> 00:29:41,482 - I heard we have cocoa in our future. - Thank you. 603 00:29:41,655 --> 00:29:43,275 Hi, guys. 604 00:29:43,448 --> 00:29:44,965 [Zac] We're excited. We wanna celebrate. 605 00:29:45,103 --> 00:29:47,862 So we got Taylor coming over. 606 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:49,137 We're celebrating the whole month. 607 00:29:49,310 --> 00:29:50,241 - Yeah. - Just... just the thing. 608 00:29:50,413 --> 00:29:52,793 I love your tree, by the way. 609 00:29:52,965 --> 00:29:54,655 [Zac] Thank you. 610 00:29:54,827 --> 00:29:55,826 So, Taylor, what are-- 611 00:29:55,827 --> 00:29:58,000 what's your favorite thing about Christmas? 612 00:29:58,172 --> 00:29:59,862 - Just the season-- - Family. 613 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:01,137 - Mm - Family. 614 00:30:01,310 --> 00:30:03,034 I don't get to spend much time with mine 615 00:30:03,206 --> 00:30:05,068 'cause they're all up north, but, you know, 616 00:30:05,241 --> 00:30:07,241 we all connect at Christmas. - Yeah. 617 00:30:09,551 --> 00:30:12,586 - No, we're gonna have... - Christmas with his family. 618 00:30:12,758 --> 00:30:13,896 ...Christmas with my family. 619 00:30:14,034 --> 00:30:17,482 Christmas in Colorado with my friends, so... 620 00:30:17,655 --> 00:30:19,689 And then you guys are going to Montana afterwards. 621 00:30:19,862 --> 00:30:20,862 Yep. 622 00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:22,000 Isaac and Ethan are out there right now, 623 00:30:22,172 --> 00:30:23,482 aren't they? Visiting Moriah. 624 00:30:24,793 --> 00:30:26,517 Yeah. 625 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:30,896 It would have been fun to be able to join them on this trip, 626 00:30:31,034 --> 00:30:33,000 but I didn't really hear about it until last minute. 627 00:30:33,137 --> 00:30:35,000 But I already have a trip planned to Montana, 628 00:30:35,137 --> 00:30:37,793 you know, like, next month, so it'll all be good. 629 00:30:37,965 --> 00:30:39,103 I think they're out there now, 630 00:30:39,275 --> 00:30:41,827 and we'll be out there in like three weeks. 631 00:30:44,241 --> 00:30:47,103 [Lydia] I do feel like the majority of my life, I have been 632 00:30:47,275 --> 00:30:49,689 kind of just overlooked as a middle child. 633 00:30:49,862 --> 00:30:51,793 I've kind of just felt like I've been 634 00:30:51,965 --> 00:30:53,896 on the outside looking in, 635 00:30:54,034 --> 00:30:57,689 and that's just shown itself in our marriage too. 636 00:30:57,862 --> 00:30:59,758 [Zac] There's just times where it really affects her 637 00:30:59,931 --> 00:31:01,172 and even me too, like, 638 00:31:02,482 --> 00:31:04,586 we've both expressed pretty clearly, like, 639 00:31:04,758 --> 00:31:07,172 we wanna be a part of their lives, 640 00:31:07,344 --> 00:31:10,172 and just a lot of stuff happens without us, 641 00:31:10,344 --> 00:31:13,137 and so it just can affect us sometimes. 642 00:31:13,310 --> 00:31:14,310 Yeah. 643 00:31:16,275 --> 00:31:18,172 Are you guys ready for some hot chocolate? 644 00:31:18,344 --> 00:31:19,344 - Yeah - That would be great. 645 00:31:19,517 --> 00:31:20,586 I am, I've been ready since I woke up. 646 00:31:37,793 --> 00:31:39,793 [Moriah] We're finally going horseback riding. 647 00:31:39,965 --> 00:31:41,379 I'm not a professional, but I've definitely ridden 648 00:31:41,551 --> 00:31:44,034 horses in my life a good bit. 649 00:31:44,206 --> 00:31:45,482 I grew up riding horses. 650 00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,241 What makes this special is that my family's here, 651 00:31:49,413 --> 00:31:52,172 and that we're all having fun doing it together. 652 00:31:52,344 --> 00:31:54,000 Alright, you guys ready to get on? 653 00:31:54,172 --> 00:31:55,241 - Yes, sir. - [instructor] OK. 654 00:31:57,379 --> 00:31:58,689 - [Kaylynn] Alright, girl. - [instructor] Alright. 655 00:31:59,862 --> 00:32:00,896 Perfect. 656 00:32:02,172 --> 00:32:03,172 [Ethan] Hey, Duke. 657 00:32:06,758 --> 00:32:07,826 Here's your rein. 658 00:32:07,827 --> 00:32:10,275 [Ethan] The trip so far has been very good, 659 00:32:10,448 --> 00:32:11,379 it's very good to see Teegan, 660 00:32:11,551 --> 00:32:12,862 spend time with her. 661 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,068 It's very different than it ever was, you know. 662 00:32:18,275 --> 00:32:19,448 Like, the distance is... 663 00:32:21,137 --> 00:32:24,172 hard for me to get used to, but I understand it. 664 00:32:24,344 --> 00:32:25,551 [Isaac] Whoa. 665 00:32:27,448 --> 00:32:30,068 I'm noticing that Teegan's very standoffish from Ethan. 666 00:32:31,551 --> 00:32:34,000 I know Ethan's not been perfect in the relationship. 667 00:32:34,137 --> 00:32:36,034 If you're upset about something, that's OK, 668 00:32:36,206 --> 00:32:37,896 and you can work through that with your partner. 669 00:32:38,034 --> 00:32:41,482 But if she needs time to get over something, 670 00:32:41,655 --> 00:32:43,896 then she should take that time. 671 00:32:44,034 --> 00:32:47,000 So I don't know exactly what's at play there. 672 00:32:47,172 --> 00:32:48,379 [staff speaking] - [Teegan] Yeah. 673 00:32:49,793 --> 00:32:52,482 Hi. Thank you. 674 00:32:52,655 --> 00:32:55,275 I'm a little nervous 'cause I don't ride horses. 675 00:32:55,448 --> 00:32:57,655 OK. Oh, gosh. 676 00:32:57,827 --> 00:33:00,103 I've ridden a horse, like, you know, those little, like, 677 00:33:00,275 --> 00:33:01,965 fair things where you just get on the horse 678 00:33:02,103 --> 00:33:03,172 and walk in a circle. 679 00:33:03,344 --> 00:33:05,896 Get moving, Tucker. 680 00:33:06,034 --> 00:33:07,965 So that's-- that's about it. 681 00:33:09,172 --> 00:33:12,000 All my horse does is eat, [chuckles]. 682 00:33:12,172 --> 00:33:14,034 He keeps, like, bending down, and then, like, 683 00:33:14,206 --> 00:33:15,275 I don't have any slack. 684 00:33:15,448 --> 00:33:17,275 So he won't do that while we're riding, right? 685 00:33:17,448 --> 00:33:21,103 OK, 'cause I'm not very strong. 686 00:33:23,586 --> 00:33:26,551 Ethan is very protective of me, so I do appreciate that, 687 00:33:26,724 --> 00:33:30,482 but, I mean, a horse is a big creature, 688 00:33:30,655 --> 00:33:32,172 and so if he wanted to take me off, 689 00:33:32,344 --> 00:33:33,793 whether he got off his horse or not, 690 00:33:33,965 --> 00:33:35,586 like, the damage is done, so... 691 00:33:40,965 --> 00:33:42,655 - [instructor] Are we ready? - I'm ready. 692 00:33:42,827 --> 00:33:44,551 So I'm in the middle of y'all two? 693 00:33:44,724 --> 00:33:46,172 - [Ethan] Yep. - [instructor] There you go. 694 00:33:46,344 --> 00:33:47,275 Turn them towards me. 695 00:33:51,275 --> 00:33:52,379 - [Ethan] You good? - Yeah. 696 00:33:58,448 --> 00:33:59,723 Yeah, um, 697 00:33:59,724 --> 00:34:02,172 it's just like doing things with any friends, you know? 698 00:34:02,344 --> 00:34:04,482 So it's not weird or anything. 699 00:34:04,655 --> 00:34:06,896 I'm having a good time. 700 00:34:07,034 --> 00:34:08,103 [instructor] This is probably the hardest part 701 00:34:08,275 --> 00:34:09,172 about the whole entire ride 702 00:34:09,344 --> 00:34:10,551 is getting everybody started. 703 00:34:10,724 --> 00:34:11,655 [Moriah] Mm-hmm. 704 00:34:16,344 --> 00:34:19,172 - A little steep hill here. - [instructor] Yep. 705 00:34:20,551 --> 00:34:22,068 OK, everybody. 706 00:34:22,241 --> 00:34:25,000 I'm gonna have you guys hold your horses at this stump 707 00:34:25,137 --> 00:34:28,000 until the horse in front of you is up on the hill. 708 00:34:28,172 --> 00:34:30,896 So then that way we don't have a traffic jam at the top. 709 00:34:31,034 --> 00:34:32,275 - Uh-huh. - [instructor] OK? 710 00:34:32,448 --> 00:34:33,379 - You hear that, Tucker? - [horse snorting] 711 00:34:34,482 --> 00:34:36,448 [instructor] Lean forward. 712 00:34:36,620 --> 00:34:38,551 [Isaac and Moriah speaking] 713 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:48,137 There you go, Abe! 714 00:34:52,379 --> 00:34:54,379 [instructor] Duke, you look so graceful. 715 00:34:59,379 --> 00:35:00,586 [instructor] Watch the tree. 716 00:35:00,758 --> 00:35:01,896 Whoa! 717 00:35:03,068 --> 00:35:05,172 It's been a long time since she's ridden a horse, 718 00:35:05,344 --> 00:35:06,896 and she is nervous. 719 00:35:07,034 --> 00:35:09,793 I was hoping that we would get to ride close to each other 720 00:35:09,965 --> 00:35:11,689 so I could, you know, keep an eye on her, 721 00:35:11,862 --> 00:35:13,000 make sure she's OK. 722 00:35:13,137 --> 00:35:15,655 I definitely feel protective of her. 723 00:35:15,827 --> 00:35:19,482 And, like, there's so much I wanna say and do, 724 00:35:19,655 --> 00:35:21,965 but it can't all happen right now. 725 00:35:22,103 --> 00:35:23,793 You have to be-- I have to be patient. 726 00:35:27,965 --> 00:35:30,344 [Teegan] Ethan keeps turning around to look at me. 727 00:35:30,517 --> 00:35:32,000 I'm sure it comes from a good place, you know, 728 00:35:32,137 --> 00:35:33,586 making sure I'm OK. 729 00:35:33,758 --> 00:35:35,965 But it just makes my anxiety worse. 730 00:35:36,103 --> 00:35:37,379 - Whoa, whoa. - [horse snorting] 731 00:35:37,551 --> 00:35:39,689 - Whoa, whoa, whoa. - [horse neighing] 732 00:35:39,862 --> 00:35:41,793 [tense music playing] 733 00:35:42,896 --> 00:35:44,275 I am getting annoyed. 734 00:35:46,103 --> 00:35:47,137 Wait, wait, wait, wait. 735 00:35:47,310 --> 00:35:48,275 It's not our turn, wait. 736 00:35:48,448 --> 00:35:49,896 - Oh, no, wait for us. - [horse neighing] 737 00:35:50,034 --> 00:35:51,034 [Teegan] No! 738 00:35:53,034 --> 00:35:55,275 - [horse neighing] - [gasps] 739 00:35:55,448 --> 00:35:56,862 - Oh, oh. - [horse snorting] 740 00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:57,965 [Kaylynn] Teegan, go. 741 00:35:58,103 --> 00:35:59,068 [Teegan] OK. 742 00:35:59,241 --> 00:36:00,965 Go, go, go, go. 743 00:36:01,103 --> 00:36:03,689 OK, go, go. No, no, no. 744 00:36:03,862 --> 00:36:05,103 - OK, go. - Go. 745 00:36:05,275 --> 00:36:06,482 [Kaylynn and Teegan gasp] 746 00:36:06,655 --> 00:36:07,655 - Oh, my gosh. - [bleep] 747 00:36:14,689 --> 00:36:15,758 - [Teegan] OK, go, go! - [horse neighing] 748 00:36:15,931 --> 00:36:17,172 Go, go. No, no, no. 749 00:36:17,344 --> 00:36:18,758 - Keep going. - Go! 750 00:36:18,931 --> 00:36:20,793 - Oh, my gosh. - [bleep] 751 00:36:20,965 --> 00:36:21,931 [Isaac] Whoa, whoa. 752 00:36:22,068 --> 00:36:23,655 [Kaylynn] My horse tried to bite her horse. 753 00:36:23,827 --> 00:36:25,551 [instructor] Yep, they fight like siblings. 754 00:36:26,689 --> 00:36:28,344 You know, horses have a hierarchy. 755 00:36:28,517 --> 00:36:29,896 Some don't get along with others. 756 00:36:33,379 --> 00:36:34,413 [Teegan] OK. 757 00:36:34,586 --> 00:36:35,723 I didn't want the horse to get spooked 758 00:36:35,724 --> 00:36:37,482 and start running, that would not have been good. 759 00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:40,793 [Teegan] Kaylynn's horse tried to bite my horse, 760 00:36:40,965 --> 00:36:43,482 so I guess our horses are beefing. 761 00:36:43,655 --> 00:36:44,688 Tucker's good, though. 762 00:36:44,689 --> 00:36:46,758 He's good. I'm on Tucker's side, honestly. 763 00:36:54,310 --> 00:36:55,586 Ethan's vibe right now, 764 00:36:55,758 --> 00:36:58,241 his energy is just really heavy. 765 00:36:58,413 --> 00:37:01,896 Um, I don't know, sad, depressed, upset, angry. 766 00:37:02,034 --> 00:37:03,517 I don't know what. 767 00:37:03,689 --> 00:37:06,689 It's sort of hard to navigate, 'cause I wanna respect 768 00:37:06,862 --> 00:37:09,965 my boundary with not doing quality time. 769 00:37:10,103 --> 00:37:12,206 But at the same time, the people pleaser in me 770 00:37:12,379 --> 00:37:13,896 is like, "Well, maybe if I did do that, 771 00:37:14,034 --> 00:37:15,310 would he be happier?" 772 00:37:19,482 --> 00:37:22,344 It's the first time I'm hanging out with Ethan now, 773 00:37:22,517 --> 00:37:29,000 post-breakup, in, like, a big extended, you know, trip. 774 00:37:29,137 --> 00:37:34,689 And so it's definitely weird, and I'm adjusting too. 775 00:37:34,862 --> 00:37:37,965 So, I mean, I don't blame him for adjusting, 776 00:37:38,103 --> 00:37:39,862 just maybe in a different way than I am. 777 00:37:41,965 --> 00:37:46,896 I'm not gonna lie, Tucker, you're, like... awesome. 778 00:37:47,034 --> 00:37:49,551 I think, for me, at this point, it's more important 779 00:37:49,724 --> 00:37:52,034 to stick to my boundary. 780 00:37:52,206 --> 00:37:54,862 I feel like Ethan, in our relationship, 781 00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,310 was putting himself first, and I wasn't putting 782 00:37:57,482 --> 00:37:59,379 myself first. I was putting him first. 783 00:37:59,551 --> 00:38:02,379 And so I'm, you know, sort of taking the reins on that 784 00:38:02,551 --> 00:38:03,655 and putting myself first. 785 00:38:04,896 --> 00:38:07,034 [Kaylynn] Oh, my gosh! Somebody get pictures! 786 00:38:08,551 --> 00:38:10,620 That is so freaking pretty! 787 00:38:12,517 --> 00:38:15,689 It's very easy for me to get in my head about things. 788 00:38:15,862 --> 00:38:20,689 And when I do, I just become very distant and quiet, 789 00:38:20,862 --> 00:38:22,241 and sometimes I don't even see 790 00:38:23,310 --> 00:38:24,689 what's going on right around me. 791 00:38:28,758 --> 00:38:31,241 And I'm a little aware of how that affects other people, 792 00:38:31,413 --> 00:38:33,000 you know, or would affect Teegan. 793 00:38:33,172 --> 00:38:37,551 So I'm just trying my best to reel myself into reality. 794 00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:44,000 This is like the first time that we've been together 795 00:38:44,137 --> 00:38:46,068 for any length of time. 796 00:38:46,241 --> 00:38:50,551 And so, you know, Teegan may be hesitant or has some walls up, 797 00:38:50,724 --> 00:38:52,758 and that's perfectly fine and understandable. 798 00:38:54,448 --> 00:38:56,896 I don't wanna be by her horse. It tried to bite my horse. 799 00:38:57,034 --> 00:38:58,586 So, not next to Kaylynn. 800 00:38:58,758 --> 00:38:59,896 Sorry, Kaylynn. 801 00:39:00,103 --> 00:39:01,137 Normally, I'd love to be next to you. 802 00:39:06,137 --> 00:39:07,344 [Ethan] You know, this is... 803 00:39:08,551 --> 00:39:10,655 no fun to go through. 804 00:39:10,827 --> 00:39:15,000 But, you know, I'm hopeful 805 00:39:15,172 --> 00:39:17,482 that this isn't the end for us. 806 00:39:17,655 --> 00:39:20,310 Hi, y'all. Cheese. 807 00:39:21,586 --> 00:39:22,586 Ethan. 808 00:39:24,068 --> 00:39:25,068 Ethan, look at the picture. 809 00:39:30,448 --> 00:39:32,965 [Isaac] Teegan's definitely blowing him off. 810 00:39:33,103 --> 00:39:34,240 I don't understand that. 811 00:39:34,241 --> 00:39:36,068 She gets invited out and do a family trip with us 812 00:39:36,241 --> 00:39:39,448 and, you know, just kind of blows him off the whole time. 813 00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,068 He was so excited about her being out here. 814 00:39:43,241 --> 00:39:46,000 So I understand if he's sad. 815 00:39:46,137 --> 00:39:49,689 But he's been sad for so long, I think it's time he just, 816 00:39:49,862 --> 00:39:51,896 I don't know, if it's not gonna work, it's not gonna work. 817 00:39:52,896 --> 00:39:54,965 - [instructor] And we're out! - Come on. 818 00:40:02,482 --> 00:40:04,344 [Kaylynn] Teegan is being a little standoffish. 819 00:40:04,517 --> 00:40:07,241 It is understandable in a way, but I mean, 820 00:40:07,413 --> 00:40:10,482 why come to a whole different state 821 00:40:10,655 --> 00:40:13,655 with your ex-boyfriend and his family 822 00:40:13,827 --> 00:40:17,448 if you're not necessarily gonna, like, kind of make that effort? 823 00:40:18,068 --> 00:40:19,793 Isaac always says, 824 00:40:19,965 --> 00:40:23,000 "We have to decrease the 'tude, not add a 'tude." ["attitude"] 825 00:40:29,034 --> 00:40:32,000 [Ken] I wanna be with you forever, 826 00:40:32,172 --> 00:40:37,275 and that's why there are some concerns that I have. 827 00:40:37,448 --> 00:40:40,586 I love Kim, but I think it could potentially be 828 00:40:40,758 --> 00:40:44,172 a deal breaker if she is not gonna commit to her health. 829 00:40:44,344 --> 00:40:46,448 [Kim] He's giving me an ultimatum. 830 00:40:46,620 --> 00:40:48,896 I do worry about the future of our relationship 831 00:40:49,034 --> 00:40:50,448 when I hear him say things like that. 832 00:40:51,482 --> 00:40:53,689 Obviously, you saved the first time you guys had sex 833 00:40:53,862 --> 00:40:55,793 'till your wedding night. How was that? 834 00:40:55,965 --> 00:40:58,068 - Like, what was that like? - Oh, [chuckles]. 835 00:40:58,241 --> 00:41:01,206 There's definitely a side of me that no one has ever seen 836 00:41:01,379 --> 00:41:02,965 or I never imagined was there. 837 00:41:09,793 --> 00:41:12,000 I'm on a coffee date with my mom. 838 00:41:12,172 --> 00:41:14,379 So he's here. 839 00:41:14,551 --> 00:41:19,379 He invited me to go see his house that he's renting. 840 00:41:19,551 --> 00:41:22,620 Obviously, his end goal is to win her back, as it were. 841 00:41:22,793 --> 00:41:26,241 So it's our choice to create a bit of a boundary there. 842 00:41:26,413 --> 00:41:30,620 I don't think he's the type that's gonna just give up.