1 00:00:05,964 --> 00:00:07,966 [dramatic music playing] 2 00:00:11,011 --> 00:00:12,846 [Chelsea sighs] Well, here goes nothing. 3 00:00:14,681 --> 00:00:16,933 -Hi! -[Chelsea] Hi, Dad! 4 00:00:17,017 --> 00:00:18,393 Chelsea, how are you? 5 00:00:18,476 --> 00:00:20,520 I'm good. Thanks for coming. 6 00:00:20,603 --> 00:00:21,521 Oh, my goodness. 7 00:00:21,604 --> 00:00:23,732 -Hello, hello. -Dad, this is Kwame. 8 00:00:23,815 --> 00:00:25,650 -This is my dad Charlie. -Hey, Charlie. 9 00:00:25,734 --> 00:00:27,819 -Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you as well. 10 00:00:27,902 --> 00:00:29,404 -All right. -Come on in. 11 00:00:29,487 --> 00:00:30,780 Dad, take a seat. 12 00:00:33,616 --> 00:00:37,704 We both got, you know, the opportunity 13 00:00:37,787 --> 00:00:42,000 to engage in this social love experiment. 14 00:00:42,083 --> 00:00:43,293 [Charlie] Mm-hmm. 15 00:00:43,376 --> 00:00:46,838 And we dated a lot of people. We do not see one another. 16 00:00:46,921 --> 00:00:50,467 The idea is that you're kind of getting to the core of your values. 17 00:00:50,550 --> 00:00:53,011 You're being vulnerable, talking about your life, your stories. 18 00:00:53,094 --> 00:00:54,387 What made you who you are. 19 00:00:54,471 --> 00:00:55,972 [Charlie] Mm-hmm. 20 00:00:56,056 --> 00:00:58,933 Can we have this connection beyond the physical? 21 00:00:59,017 --> 00:01:00,935 -Mm-hmm. -[Chelsea] Um, and we did. 22 00:01:01,019 --> 00:01:02,353 It really just felt right. 23 00:01:02,437 --> 00:01:06,066 -[Charlie] Hmm. -And the idea is, you know, is love blind? 24 00:01:06,149 --> 00:01:08,860 Can you fall in love with somebody without ever seeing them? 25 00:01:09,903 --> 00:01:12,530 And we fell in love blind. 26 00:01:13,156 --> 00:01:15,158 And at the end, 27 00:01:16,284 --> 00:01:17,786 he proposed to me. 28 00:01:19,496 --> 00:01:20,330 Okay. 29 00:01:20,413 --> 00:01:22,665 -Um, and I said yes. -[laughing] 30 00:01:23,166 --> 00:01:24,584 Oh, you did? 31 00:01:24,667 --> 00:01:26,795 [Kwame and Chelsea laughing] 32 00:01:26,878 --> 00:01:28,922 Well, isn't that something? 33 00:01:29,005 --> 00:01:31,007 [laughing] 34 00:01:32,300 --> 00:01:35,762 -I'm so happy for you, honey. -Yeah, thanks, Dad. 35 00:01:35,845 --> 00:01:38,306 Oh, my gosh. Well, that's amazing. 36 00:01:39,224 --> 00:01:40,058 [both] Yeah. 37 00:01:40,141 --> 00:01:41,059 I'll be darned. 38 00:01:42,018 --> 00:01:45,021 Um, I'm shocked. 39 00:01:45,105 --> 00:01:47,315 Okay, guys, let's eat. Come on up. 40 00:01:47,398 --> 00:01:51,903 But I'm super hopeful that the rest of my family will accept Kwame 41 00:01:51,986 --> 00:01:55,156 and will understand our connection and our relationship. 42 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:56,574 Just as much as my dad does. 43 00:01:57,617 --> 00:01:59,953 You're in Portland. You're in Seattle. How's that gonna work? 44 00:02:00,036 --> 00:02:03,915 Our plan is to kind of stay here, settle here for a couple of years. 45 00:02:03,998 --> 00:02:06,084 And then, who knows? 46 00:02:08,253 --> 00:02:11,005 -It's a lot of variables, a lot of work. -[Chelsea] Yeah, it is. 47 00:02:11,089 --> 00:02:14,926 -[Kwame] Mm-hmm. -But, uh, hey, life's too short. 48 00:02:15,009 --> 00:02:17,428 And it's better to be shared. 49 00:02:17,512 --> 00:02:18,972 -Yeah. -Yeah, you got a teammate. 50 00:02:19,055 --> 00:02:21,349 -Yeah, you got a teammate. -[Kwame] Yeah. 51 00:02:21,432 --> 00:02:23,643 It seems like you're in favor of what we have going on, 52 00:02:23,726 --> 00:02:25,645 but just wanted to know from you, like, 53 00:02:25,728 --> 00:02:28,064 do-- do I have your blessing to move forward? 54 00:02:31,651 --> 00:02:33,319 Absolutely. 55 00:02:34,195 --> 00:02:36,489 -You guys, I'm so happy for you. -Thanks, Dad. 56 00:02:36,573 --> 00:02:38,241 -Well, thank you. -Yeah. 57 00:02:38,825 --> 00:02:41,786 -Mmm! We love you, Dad. Thank you so much. -Yeah, cheers, Charlie. 58 00:02:41,870 --> 00:02:43,413 -I'm so happy for you guys. -[laughing] 59 00:02:43,496 --> 00:02:45,999 -Thank you, Dad. -[all laughing] 60 00:02:46,082 --> 00:02:49,085 You're getting a good deal on Chelsea. I'll tell you a story-- 61 00:02:49,169 --> 00:02:52,213 -You're get-- [laughing] -You're getting a good deal. 62 00:02:52,297 --> 00:02:54,090 -Getting a discount. -You're getting-- 63 00:02:54,174 --> 00:02:55,758 [laughing] 64 00:02:55,842 --> 00:02:58,386 "You're getting a good deal on my daughter." 65 00:02:58,469 --> 00:02:59,888 -[laughing] -On sale! 66 00:02:59,971 --> 00:03:04,184 I love you so much, Kwame. You can have her 75% off. 67 00:03:04,267 --> 00:03:06,227 [laughing] 68 00:03:06,311 --> 00:03:09,189 [pop music playing] 69 00:03:09,898 --> 00:03:11,691 ♪ No one like you ♪ 70 00:03:14,611 --> 00:03:17,363 -[Paul] So, how was the flight? -[woman] Oh, it was great. 71 00:03:17,447 --> 00:03:18,740 It wasn't too long? 72 00:03:18,823 --> 00:03:23,494 It was not. And either I was running on adrenaline or it just somehow… 73 00:03:23,578 --> 00:03:26,623 I had no anxiety. It was so much fun. 74 00:03:26,706 --> 00:03:28,958 No turbulence or anything. 75 00:03:29,042 --> 00:03:31,044 [Paul] I'm super excited for Micah to meet my mom. 76 00:03:31,127 --> 00:03:33,755 She has flown in today. She came all the way from New Orleans. 77 00:03:33,838 --> 00:03:36,966 -I can't wait for you to meet Micah. -Oh, I can't wait. I can't wait! 78 00:03:37,050 --> 00:03:40,136 So, there wasn't a whole lot of conversation between me and my mom 79 00:03:40,220 --> 00:03:41,346 on, like, who Micah was. 80 00:03:41,429 --> 00:03:45,642 Like, I wanted her to judge her for herself, and I hope she likes her. 81 00:03:46,267 --> 00:03:48,561 What was it that drew you to her the most? 82 00:03:48,645 --> 00:03:51,981 What drew me to her initially was actually, like, this intuitive feeling. 83 00:03:52,065 --> 00:03:55,818 To me, I know, like, I can't talk to everyone like you can. 84 00:03:55,902 --> 00:03:56,736 [Elizabeth] Uh-huh. 85 00:03:56,819 --> 00:04:00,031 So, I know that if I can talk to her like that, 86 00:04:00,114 --> 00:04:01,574 then there's something special there. 87 00:04:01,658 --> 00:04:02,533 Right. 88 00:04:02,617 --> 00:04:04,661 Hello? Hi! 89 00:04:04,744 --> 00:04:08,581 -[Elizabeth] Hi! -[laughing] So nice to meet you. 90 00:04:08,665 --> 00:04:11,209 -[Elizabeth] You are gorgeous! -You're so cute. 91 00:04:11,292 --> 00:04:15,338 -I might cry, and I'm not a crier. -[laughs] I'm so excited! 92 00:04:15,421 --> 00:04:17,632 -[Paul] Come sit. -Whew! That was tough. [laughs] 93 00:04:17,715 --> 00:04:20,468 -We have matching hair. -[laughing] 94 00:04:21,261 --> 00:04:22,512 -Yeah. -Oh, wow! 95 00:04:22,595 --> 00:04:23,471 [Micah] Oh, my God. 96 00:04:23,554 --> 00:04:25,265 [chuckles] Trying to make some room. 97 00:04:25,348 --> 00:04:27,141 [Elizabeth] Oh, nice. 98 00:04:27,225 --> 00:04:30,353 [chuckles] I cannot believe you're engaged. 99 00:04:30,436 --> 00:04:31,437 -[laughs] -Yeah. [laughs] 100 00:04:31,521 --> 00:04:34,732 -I have wanted this for him for so long. -[Micah laughs] 101 00:04:34,816 --> 00:04:39,112 I mean he's so-- Oh, such a sweetheart. 102 00:04:39,195 --> 00:04:41,364 -Hard to picture, huh? -[Elizabeth] Yeah. 103 00:04:41,447 --> 00:04:43,032 -[laughing] -[Elizabeth] Yeah. 104 00:04:43,116 --> 00:04:45,868 Well, because I'm the mom, the helicopter mom. 105 00:04:45,952 --> 00:04:47,120 [laughing] 106 00:04:47,203 --> 00:04:49,747 [Elizabeth] I don't even know how to start this. I'm a paralegal. 107 00:04:49,831 --> 00:04:53,334 And, um, you know, I have a big tribe at home. 108 00:04:53,418 --> 00:04:57,255 And he's like the baby Jesus of the family. He's the firstborn. 109 00:04:57,338 --> 00:04:59,215 And so, as soon as Paul said, 110 00:04:59,299 --> 00:05:01,634 "Yes, I met somebody, and her name is Micah," 111 00:05:02,176 --> 00:05:03,136 we went to town. 112 00:05:03,219 --> 00:05:06,806 And I was telling them, I'm like, "I think we found Micah online." 113 00:05:06,889 --> 00:05:07,765 "But we're not sure." 114 00:05:07,849 --> 00:05:09,684 He's like, "Oh, really? What do you think?" 115 00:05:09,767 --> 00:05:13,104 I'm like, "Well, I think her dad's name is Paul. He lives in Mobile." 116 00:05:13,187 --> 00:05:17,317 His mom is a deep beautiful Christian and owns a daycare." 117 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:20,570 -"Anything else you wanna know?" -[laughing] Oh, my gosh! 118 00:05:20,653 --> 00:05:21,571 Well, yeah. 119 00:05:21,654 --> 00:05:23,614 Just from her first name, you figured all that out? 120 00:05:23,698 --> 00:05:26,367 -From her first name. -Oh, my gosh. That's so funny. 121 00:05:26,451 --> 00:05:31,247 What was one of the first things that you were like, "Oh, I like Paul?" 122 00:05:31,331 --> 00:05:32,165 [Micah] Yeah. 123 00:05:32,665 --> 00:05:36,878 We immediately were talking about travel and just, like, our outlook on life. 124 00:05:36,961 --> 00:05:40,048 And, like, I think that was probably the first thing that was like, 125 00:05:40,131 --> 00:05:41,299 "Oh, Paul's so exciting." 126 00:05:41,382 --> 00:05:44,677 But like, that, like, showed me, kind of, like, what he wanted in life 127 00:05:44,761 --> 00:05:46,387 and what he saw as a future. 128 00:05:46,471 --> 00:05:49,098 And I was like, "That's the exact same mindset I have." 129 00:05:49,182 --> 00:05:50,641 We are very different. 130 00:05:50,725 --> 00:05:53,102 -I'm very, like, hair, makeup. -[Elizabeth] Kind of like me. 131 00:05:53,186 --> 00:05:54,604 [Micah] Yeah, yeah, like that. 132 00:05:54,687 --> 00:05:58,024 But he also, like, has the ability to, like, ground me a bit. 133 00:05:58,107 --> 00:06:01,110 And I feel like it just, like, balances me out really well. 134 00:06:01,194 --> 00:06:04,113 So, I just like how he, like, makes me… 135 00:06:04,197 --> 00:06:05,031 [Elizabeth] Aww! 136 00:06:05,114 --> 00:06:07,950 …behave and act and feel, and just, like, that security. 137 00:06:08,034 --> 00:06:10,244 I feel like we actually love, like, being with each other. 138 00:06:10,328 --> 00:06:12,330 Like, when we're not even, like, talking. 139 00:06:12,413 --> 00:06:15,583 We're like… I remember this morning, you were like, "Where are you?" 140 00:06:15,666 --> 00:06:17,794 I was like, "I'm downstairs." You're like, "I miss you." 141 00:06:17,877 --> 00:06:20,213 -[chuckles] I love that. -[Micah laughs] 142 00:06:20,296 --> 00:06:23,508 I mean, y'all are perfect for this. 143 00:06:23,591 --> 00:06:24,467 Perfect fit. 144 00:06:24,550 --> 00:06:27,470 The work thing is going, like, really well for me, 145 00:06:27,553 --> 00:06:31,557 and we're at the right age, and clearly, I'm not dating anyone. 146 00:06:31,641 --> 00:06:33,601 [laughing] 147 00:06:33,684 --> 00:06:35,853 I think we're ready for it. Um… 148 00:06:35,937 --> 00:06:38,398 Paul, I've never seen you like this. So, I'm like… 149 00:06:38,481 --> 00:06:39,357 How so? 150 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:42,693 Like, just happy and in love and-- 151 00:06:42,777 --> 00:06:47,031 'Cause, I mean, he hasn't really had, like, an even potential fiancée. 152 00:06:47,115 --> 00:06:48,533 [Paul] Yeah, not really. 153 00:06:48,616 --> 00:06:50,743 -Yeah. -[Elizabeth] So, this is huge. 154 00:06:50,827 --> 00:06:52,036 [Micah] I know. I'm excited. 155 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:54,038 I feel like just, like, seeing you, like, 156 00:06:54,122 --> 00:06:56,165 somehow makes me, like, love Paul more. 157 00:06:56,249 --> 00:07:00,795 I don't know what it is, and I think I just, like, see such a, like, fun life. 158 00:07:00,878 --> 00:07:04,048 I love her. I see why you love her. 159 00:07:04,132 --> 00:07:06,926 -I knew you would. -[laughs] Oh, my God, you're so sweet. 160 00:07:07,009 --> 00:07:09,220 I mean it. I'm so serious. 161 00:07:09,303 --> 00:07:13,349 [Micah] I love that Paul, you know, his mom and I are so similar. 162 00:07:13,433 --> 00:07:16,561 She is just about the cutest thing I've ever seen. 163 00:07:16,644 --> 00:07:20,314 And I feel like it was just so easy to, like, make a connection with her. 164 00:07:20,398 --> 00:07:22,233 And I've always really wanted, 165 00:07:22,316 --> 00:07:25,153 like, a good extended family that I was really close with. 166 00:07:25,236 --> 00:07:27,530 And I feel, like, with her, there's such a good possibility 167 00:07:27,613 --> 00:07:29,240 that we'd be, like, such good friends. 168 00:07:29,323 --> 00:07:33,119 Not only, like, mother-in-law, like, daughter-in-law relationship. 169 00:07:33,202 --> 00:07:36,330 I'm just so happy you made it down here to see us. 170 00:07:36,414 --> 00:07:39,000 It's so funny 'cause, like, there's so many times 171 00:07:39,083 --> 00:07:41,961 where Paul and I have been like, "You know, we're so different." 172 00:07:42,044 --> 00:07:44,130 "Like, I wonder why we're so attracted to each other." 173 00:07:44,213 --> 00:07:46,215 [laughs] And it's, like, well, here we go. 174 00:07:46,299 --> 00:07:48,301 [laughs] You're marrying your mom. 175 00:07:48,384 --> 00:07:51,471 -You guys are so similar. -[laughs] I love that he says that. 176 00:07:51,554 --> 00:07:53,931 -Oh, my God. -[laughing] 177 00:07:54,015 --> 00:07:56,017 If you support us, then I'm happy. 178 00:07:56,517 --> 00:07:58,311 [Elizabeth] Total support. 179 00:07:58,394 --> 00:08:01,355 Gosh! I'm sorry. I've been beside myself waiting for this day. 180 00:08:01,439 --> 00:08:02,440 [laughs] Oh, my gosh! 181 00:08:02,523 --> 00:08:06,486 -And you're even more adorable in person. -Oh, that makes me so happy. 182 00:08:06,569 --> 00:08:09,280 -I'm happy I passed the background check. -[Elizabeth laughing] 183 00:08:09,363 --> 00:08:11,532 [Micah] That would have put a big halt on things. 184 00:08:11,616 --> 00:08:12,992 [laughing] 185 00:08:13,075 --> 00:08:16,287 -["Better Than a Dream" playing] -♪ Better than a dream come true ♪ 186 00:08:16,829 --> 00:08:20,625 ♪ Better than a dream come true-ooh! ♪ 187 00:08:21,459 --> 00:08:22,835 [Brett] Welcome. 188 00:08:25,463 --> 00:08:26,714 [Tiffany] Okay. 189 00:08:27,798 --> 00:08:28,841 This looks good. 190 00:08:28,925 --> 00:08:30,343 [Brett] So… 191 00:08:30,426 --> 00:08:35,389 Is this my future home? Like, would I be moving into here? 192 00:08:35,473 --> 00:08:38,184 -[Brett chuckles] Yeah, yeah. -[Tiffany] Look at all these shoes! 193 00:08:38,809 --> 00:08:43,439 [Brett] Tiffany was with a roommate, so today we're checking out my apartment, 194 00:08:43,523 --> 00:08:47,735 so she can see if this is a place that she would wanna live in. 195 00:08:47,818 --> 00:08:50,780 [sighs] Well, where am I gonna put my shoes? 196 00:08:50,863 --> 00:08:52,365 [Brett] We can buy more boxes. 197 00:08:53,157 --> 00:08:57,245 I would say I'm just most nervous, anxious, whatever you wanna call it, 198 00:08:57,328 --> 00:09:01,999 just about how, whenever she brings in her stuff with my stuff, 199 00:09:02,083 --> 00:09:05,086 like, how are we gonna merge it together? 200 00:09:05,169 --> 00:09:06,587 [laughs] 201 00:09:06,671 --> 00:09:07,964 Is that your vacuum? 202 00:09:08,673 --> 00:09:10,258 -That is my vacuum. -[beeps] 203 00:09:11,551 --> 00:09:14,303 -[Tiffany] What is this? -It's a VR headset. 204 00:09:14,929 --> 00:09:16,681 Oh. Oh! 205 00:09:18,266 --> 00:09:20,768 -[Brett] Let me show you one other thing. -What? 206 00:09:21,561 --> 00:09:24,772 It's all, like, uh, controlled through an app. 207 00:09:25,356 --> 00:09:27,608 [Tiffany] Brett! Ooh! 208 00:09:27,692 --> 00:09:29,860 So this is-- you don't have to even hold this. 209 00:09:29,944 --> 00:09:32,196 It has, like, a little tension rod in the back. 210 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:33,114 So, you just… 211 00:09:34,907 --> 00:09:37,702 -Hmm! Where's your trash can? -Right here. 212 00:09:38,202 --> 00:09:42,456 Everything in your place is so high-end. Bougie Brett! 213 00:09:42,540 --> 00:09:44,792 -[Brett] It's all about efficiency. -[Tiffany laughs] Okay. 214 00:09:45,418 --> 00:09:46,877 [Brett] Uh, bedroom. Nothing-- 215 00:09:46,961 --> 00:09:49,463 -[Tiffany] Nice. -[Brett] Nothing-- nothing crazy here. 216 00:09:49,547 --> 00:09:52,466 Oh! You're so freaking neat. 217 00:09:52,550 --> 00:09:54,427 -It's not that neat. -I think it's neat. 218 00:09:54,510 --> 00:09:56,762 -Look at this. -[Brett] It's not that neat. 219 00:09:56,846 --> 00:09:59,265 -[Tiffany] Oh! -[Brett] More shoes, yes. 220 00:09:59,348 --> 00:10:02,476 Okay, so you only have two closets? 221 00:10:02,560 --> 00:10:04,478 -Yeah. -The one with… 222 00:10:04,562 --> 00:10:06,606 -All my photography stuff. -And this one. 223 00:10:07,481 --> 00:10:11,235 So, closet space for us definitely would be a little bit of a… 224 00:10:12,111 --> 00:10:12,945 a thing. 225 00:10:13,654 --> 00:10:17,074 -I mean, even the computer space. -Mm-hmm. 226 00:10:17,158 --> 00:10:20,411 Where would I work? Like, would I set up a desk right here? 227 00:10:20,911 --> 00:10:22,663 If you like this building, 228 00:10:22,747 --> 00:10:26,208 like I said, what I could do is just move into a bigger unit in this building. 229 00:10:26,292 --> 00:10:28,753 -Okay. -So a two or three-bedroom or something. 230 00:10:29,712 --> 00:10:31,255 [Tiffany] Um… 231 00:10:31,839 --> 00:10:33,507 [Brett] Anyway, that's the tour. 232 00:10:33,591 --> 00:10:35,885 -[Tiffany] I like it. -That's the space. 233 00:10:36,510 --> 00:10:38,220 I could work with this. 234 00:10:39,180 --> 00:10:40,056 I could. 235 00:10:40,681 --> 00:10:43,684 I'm really excited about moving in here. 236 00:10:44,935 --> 00:10:46,646 -Are you nervous? -No. 237 00:10:46,729 --> 00:10:49,982 Like, when I say that, that doesn't scare you? 238 00:10:51,317 --> 00:10:54,820 No. Like, if anything, I've been doing my own thing for so long. 239 00:10:54,904 --> 00:10:55,738 Yeah. 240 00:10:55,821 --> 00:10:58,824 -Like, I'm excited, actually. -Mm-hmm. 241 00:10:59,909 --> 00:11:02,870 I can… I can see myself living here. 242 00:11:02,953 --> 00:11:05,081 -[quietly] That's what I wanna hear. -[laughs] 243 00:11:05,164 --> 00:11:07,875 -[pop music playing] -♪ Na-na-na-na-na, there's no stopping ♪ 244 00:11:07,958 --> 00:11:10,002 ♪ We can have it all ♪ 245 00:11:10,086 --> 00:11:12,463 ♪ We can have it all ♪ 246 00:11:12,546 --> 00:11:14,256 ♪ In our castle of love… ♪ 247 00:11:14,340 --> 00:11:15,466 [knock on door] 248 00:11:17,218 --> 00:11:18,094 [exhales] 249 00:11:23,516 --> 00:11:24,850 -Hi. -Hey. 250 00:11:24,934 --> 00:11:26,310 -How are you? -Good. 251 00:11:26,394 --> 00:11:28,229 -It's good to see you. -You too. 252 00:11:29,647 --> 00:11:34,735 Bliss and I, we had a lot of chemistry in our first date in the real world. 253 00:11:34,819 --> 00:11:37,655 I didn't expect the connection was gonna be that strong. 254 00:11:38,656 --> 00:11:41,450 And I already know that the psychological is there, 255 00:11:41,534 --> 00:11:43,202 and the emotional is there. 256 00:11:43,285 --> 00:11:46,831 There's your little owl painting. Who painted that for you? 257 00:11:47,498 --> 00:11:51,377 -Is it a painting? Or a graphic? -A local artist in Seattle did it for me. 258 00:11:51,877 --> 00:11:52,837 [Bliss] It's cool. 259 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:55,923 I'm probably notorious for not striking when the iron's hot. 260 00:11:56,006 --> 00:11:59,719 But truthfully, I just wanna spend as much time with Bliss as possible. 261 00:11:59,802 --> 00:12:01,721 Because when we're together, 262 00:12:02,888 --> 00:12:03,806 it feels right. 263 00:12:03,889 --> 00:12:06,225 -And if you're in love with someone… -[Bliss] Yes. 264 00:12:06,308 --> 00:12:09,228 …you've gotta… you've gotta express it. 265 00:12:09,311 --> 00:12:10,604 [Bliss] Can I help do anything? 266 00:12:10,688 --> 00:12:12,940 [Zack] I guess you could add a little butter and salt 267 00:12:13,023 --> 00:12:14,275 and pepper to the mushrooms. 268 00:12:14,358 --> 00:12:16,944 [Bliss] It's funny 'cause baking is definitely my thing. 269 00:12:17,027 --> 00:12:18,362 -But cooking? [laughs] -Really? 270 00:12:18,446 --> 00:12:20,906 -I need really specific instructions. -I love cooking. 271 00:12:21,490 --> 00:12:22,742 [Bliss] So, how much butter? 272 00:12:22,825 --> 00:12:24,076 Just a small amount. 273 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:27,955 -[Bliss laughs] How much? This much? -You see the difference there? 274 00:12:28,038 --> 00:12:29,749 Uh, go with your instincts, Bliss. 275 00:12:29,832 --> 00:12:32,001 -[Bliss] Hmm. Okay. -That's what I would do. 276 00:12:33,461 --> 00:12:36,630 I do wanna take cooking classes where you learn how to do different things. 277 00:12:36,714 --> 00:12:38,507 That would actually be fun to do together. 278 00:12:38,591 --> 00:12:41,302 Oh, really? We'll see. [laughs] 279 00:12:41,385 --> 00:12:44,013 [Zack] Oh, no. Catastrophe has happened. 280 00:12:44,096 --> 00:12:45,222 What? 281 00:12:45,306 --> 00:12:46,724 [Zack] One of our steaks, 282 00:12:47,516 --> 00:12:49,393 the bag came open, and it's ruined. 283 00:12:49,477 --> 00:12:50,978 That one's yours, right? 284 00:12:51,061 --> 00:12:53,981 [Zack] Well, the good news is we have one other steak. 285 00:12:54,482 --> 00:12:56,400 Let's hope the bag did not open on that one. 286 00:12:56,484 --> 00:12:59,195 [laughs] We're just gonna have weird steaks tonight. 287 00:12:59,737 --> 00:13:01,864 Oh. No, they're both ruined. 288 00:13:01,947 --> 00:13:03,032 [laughs] Really? Oh, no. 289 00:13:03,115 --> 00:13:04,492 Yep. Oh, man. 290 00:13:04,575 --> 00:13:06,410 [Bliss] Oh, no. It's a sign. 291 00:13:06,494 --> 00:13:09,622 -I should just go home. -What a catastrophe! 292 00:13:09,705 --> 00:13:10,664 [both chuckle] 293 00:13:10,748 --> 00:13:12,833 I can't tell you how disheartened I am. 294 00:13:12,917 --> 00:13:14,460 It's okay. It's fine. 295 00:13:14,543 --> 00:13:17,546 Sometimes life is stupid that way. 296 00:13:17,630 --> 00:13:19,715 -[chuckles] It's okay. -[Zack] I know. 297 00:13:20,382 --> 00:13:23,636 We can just have carrots and the mushrooms. 298 00:13:23,719 --> 00:13:25,054 [Zack] And shrimp. 299 00:13:25,137 --> 00:13:26,722 How embarrassing is that? 300 00:13:27,556 --> 00:13:28,808 -It's okay. -I'm… 301 00:13:29,391 --> 00:13:32,228 -It's pretty embarrassing. -It's fine. Don't worry. 302 00:13:32,311 --> 00:13:35,981 I'm sure way more embarrassing things have happened in your life. 303 00:13:36,065 --> 00:13:39,568 -Yeah, yeah. At least we have this shrimp. -[sighs] 304 00:13:40,277 --> 00:13:41,695 And each other, right? 305 00:13:41,779 --> 00:13:43,823 Oh, I don't know. [laughs] 306 00:13:45,032 --> 00:13:46,784 We'll see. [laughs] 307 00:13:48,744 --> 00:13:51,664 [Zack] I'm really glad that I overcompensated with the shrimp. 308 00:13:51,747 --> 00:13:54,291 -Yeah, you're, like-- [laughs] -It was a legit backup plan. 309 00:13:54,375 --> 00:13:57,711 -This looks like a real meal, right? -Yeah, it looks like a real meal. 310 00:13:57,795 --> 00:13:59,713 [Zack] Tell me what you think of the carrots. 311 00:14:00,422 --> 00:14:02,258 -Okay. -[Zack] I want honesty. 312 00:14:05,344 --> 00:14:07,054 -What do you think? -[Bliss] Mm-hmm. 313 00:14:07,137 --> 00:14:09,515 I actually really am enjoying the carrots. 314 00:14:09,598 --> 00:14:12,977 -I tried goat cheese on the shrimp. -It's just good on everything. 315 00:14:13,602 --> 00:14:15,396 -Probably not ice cream. -Really? 316 00:14:15,479 --> 00:14:17,565 You've never had goat cheese ice cream? 317 00:14:17,648 --> 00:14:19,358 -That sounds so gross. -[Bliss] What? 318 00:14:19,441 --> 00:14:20,943 -No, I haven't. -It's so good. 319 00:14:22,611 --> 00:14:24,613 I know that I'm weird. I fully know that. 320 00:14:24,697 --> 00:14:26,031 -Yeah? Yeah. -Yeah. 321 00:14:26,115 --> 00:14:27,908 I'm probably a little weirder. 322 00:14:27,992 --> 00:14:29,535 Yeah, probably. 323 00:14:29,618 --> 00:14:30,452 [laughing] 324 00:14:31,078 --> 00:14:32,663 Have you seen my bedroom? 325 00:14:32,746 --> 00:14:35,332 -No, I haven't. [chuckles] -Oh, I'll show it to you later. 326 00:14:35,416 --> 00:14:38,294 -It's literally around the corner. -[laughs] Okay. It's right there. 327 00:14:38,377 --> 00:14:42,172 Yeah, so, like, when you-- Um, I have these motion sensors. 328 00:14:42,256 --> 00:14:45,175 -Why? -That will activate sounds. 329 00:14:45,259 --> 00:14:48,637 -Based on when you open a room. -Wait, why? Like, what sounds? 330 00:14:48,721 --> 00:14:52,057 -'Cause it's just cool. -Cool? You are weirder than me. 331 00:14:52,141 --> 00:14:53,017 Yeah, I know. 332 00:14:53,100 --> 00:14:56,145 If I wanted the Harry Potter song to play when you opened my door. 333 00:14:56,228 --> 00:14:57,938 Oh, okay. That's approved. 334 00:14:58,022 --> 00:15:01,108 -I thought it'd be pretty cool. -[Bliss] Yeah, that is cool. 335 00:15:01,191 --> 00:15:03,402 -[sighs] Anyway. -[Zack] Your dress looks pretty. 336 00:15:03,485 --> 00:15:04,320 Thank you. 337 00:15:05,696 --> 00:15:08,908 -What? -I don't know. I like looking at you. 338 00:15:08,991 --> 00:15:09,992 [Bliss] Hmm! 339 00:15:11,201 --> 00:15:15,039 I think this worked out pretty well for how many things got fucked up. 340 00:15:15,539 --> 00:15:17,082 With us or the food? 341 00:15:17,166 --> 00:15:18,500 -Probably both, actually. -Mm-hmm. 342 00:15:18,584 --> 00:15:21,962 It's actually like a metaphor for our relationship. [laughing] 343 00:15:22,046 --> 00:15:25,132 -It's pretty accurate, right? -Yeah, that cannot be a trend. 344 00:15:25,215 --> 00:15:28,344 [laughing] If this is gonna be anything, that cannot be a trend. 345 00:15:28,427 --> 00:15:30,930 You get one fuck-up by proposing to another girl, 346 00:15:31,013 --> 00:15:32,932 and then we'll see, you know. 347 00:15:34,224 --> 00:15:35,601 [Zack] I'm sorry. 348 00:15:35,684 --> 00:15:36,810 Oh! [exhales] 349 00:15:37,645 --> 00:15:39,772 I don't know. It's all right, I guess. 350 00:15:42,942 --> 00:15:44,735 I have to give you a hard time still. 351 00:15:44,818 --> 00:15:49,490 It's not, like, normal to, like, hang out with someone that's just dumped you 352 00:15:49,573 --> 00:15:51,700 and got engaged to someone else, so… 353 00:15:52,868 --> 00:15:55,204 I'm gonna give you a little bit of a hard time sometimes. 354 00:15:55,287 --> 00:15:57,748 -That's fair. I deserve it. -Mm-hmm. 355 00:15:59,708 --> 00:16:01,168 [laughs] 356 00:16:01,251 --> 00:16:03,003 -Are you ready for dessert yet? -[Bliss] Sure. 357 00:16:03,087 --> 00:16:08,175 I'm hesitant coming into the situation, because he literally just broke my heart, 358 00:16:08,258 --> 00:16:10,803 and I definitely have my guard up. 359 00:16:14,515 --> 00:16:16,558 But there's just this vibe between us 360 00:16:16,642 --> 00:16:20,270 and this chemistry, and it's bringing all the feels back. [chuckles] 361 00:16:20,938 --> 00:16:22,606 -Come here real quick. -Why? 362 00:16:23,107 --> 00:16:24,358 We'll do a little dancing. 363 00:16:24,441 --> 00:16:25,985 -Oh, really? -Practice. Yeah. 364 00:16:26,568 --> 00:16:27,403 Okay. 365 00:16:27,987 --> 00:16:28,821 One. 366 00:16:30,447 --> 00:16:32,074 Loosen your arms. You're a little stressed. 367 00:16:32,157 --> 00:16:33,325 [Bliss] Wait, am I not loose? 368 00:16:33,409 --> 00:16:35,452 -You're a little too tight. -Oh. 369 00:16:35,536 --> 00:16:37,913 A big part of me does wanna pursue things with him 370 00:16:37,997 --> 00:16:40,040 because I deeply love him. 371 00:16:40,124 --> 00:16:42,584 The physical aspect definitely matters. 372 00:16:42,668 --> 00:16:43,752 But if the question is, 373 00:16:43,836 --> 00:16:47,172 can you really fall in love without ever having seen someone? 374 00:16:48,173 --> 00:16:49,508 Absolutely. Yes. 375 00:16:49,591 --> 00:16:52,011 -[pop music playing] -♪ At the end of the day ♪ 376 00:16:52,094 --> 00:16:54,221 ♪ You're the dream I have I can't shake ♪ 377 00:16:54,304 --> 00:16:57,474 ♪ You're the last call That my heart makes ♪ 378 00:16:57,558 --> 00:17:00,477 ♪ At the end of the day ♪ 379 00:17:00,561 --> 00:17:04,064 ♪ You're the one I wanna come home to You're the feeling that I can't lose… ♪ 380 00:17:04,148 --> 00:17:05,107 [Zack] Other hand. 381 00:17:06,191 --> 00:17:09,028 Look at that. You're like a professional already. 382 00:17:09,611 --> 00:17:12,156 -Have you ever done a dip? -This is not an outfit for a dip. 383 00:17:12,239 --> 00:17:14,033 [laughing] 384 00:17:14,116 --> 00:17:15,367 Ooh! 385 00:17:16,035 --> 00:17:18,996 ♪ At the end of the day ♪ 386 00:17:19,079 --> 00:17:21,206 ♪ You're the one I wanna come home to ♪ 387 00:17:21,290 --> 00:17:24,043 ♪ You're the feeling that I can't lose… ♪ 388 00:17:29,131 --> 00:17:32,009 -[Kwame laughs] Are you ready? -[Chelsea laughs] Yes. 389 00:17:32,092 --> 00:17:33,927 Oh, my God! I'm just kidding. 390 00:17:34,011 --> 00:17:36,013 [laughing] 391 00:17:36,638 --> 00:17:38,599 It's so cute in here. 392 00:17:38,682 --> 00:17:42,019 [Kwame] Yeah, welcome to my Fortress of Solitude. 393 00:17:42,102 --> 00:17:43,395 I live in Portland, Oregon. 394 00:17:43,479 --> 00:17:45,939 It's a two-and-a-half-hour to three-hour drive. 395 00:17:46,023 --> 00:17:48,275 We're gonna go get a few things that I need to get. 396 00:17:48,358 --> 00:17:50,194 Most important is my work stuff, 397 00:17:50,277 --> 00:17:54,198 but also just get, like, my clothes and my Xbox. 398 00:17:54,281 --> 00:17:57,159 You know what I mean? Like, really starting to try 399 00:17:57,242 --> 00:18:00,162 to put things together that will feel like I'm, you know, 400 00:18:00,245 --> 00:18:02,372 now coexisting in my home with my fiancée. 401 00:18:03,165 --> 00:18:04,416 Check out my fridge. 402 00:18:04,500 --> 00:18:05,959 -Super dope. -Full of… 403 00:18:06,752 --> 00:18:09,296 -Wow! -[both laughing] 404 00:18:09,379 --> 00:18:11,673 -[Chelsea] Baby, you're so saucy. -[laughing] 405 00:18:11,757 --> 00:18:14,051 -[Chelsea] It's not too bad. -[Kwame] So, I'm doing okay. 406 00:18:14,134 --> 00:18:16,136 [Chelsea] There's a wee bit of laundry on the floor. 407 00:18:16,220 --> 00:18:17,179 [Kwame laughs] 408 00:18:17,262 --> 00:18:19,223 -Oh! [laughing] -I had to pack, you know. 409 00:18:19,306 --> 00:18:21,683 I was running around, throwing things around. Don't judge me! 410 00:18:21,767 --> 00:18:23,018 -My bed… -Yeah. 411 00:18:23,102 --> 00:18:24,978 I sleep in maybe 12% of the time. 412 00:18:25,062 --> 00:18:27,439 -No way! You sleep right here? -I sleep on the couch. 413 00:18:27,523 --> 00:18:31,652 So, when you wake up, you just walk eight steps to your desk 414 00:18:31,735 --> 00:18:32,820 and start working. 415 00:18:32,903 --> 00:18:34,029 [laughs] Less. 416 00:18:34,113 --> 00:18:36,865 Yeah, this is where all the magic is not happening. 417 00:18:37,991 --> 00:18:38,826 That's, uh… 418 00:18:40,244 --> 00:18:43,288 [laughing] 419 00:18:43,372 --> 00:18:46,125 I mean, we can open it, but that's at your discretion. 420 00:18:46,208 --> 00:18:48,001 -Let's open it. -There's a few things in there. 421 00:18:48,085 --> 00:18:49,962 -Let me just take a peek. -Yeah. 422 00:18:51,630 --> 00:18:53,924 -[laughing] -I have that same lube. 423 00:18:54,007 --> 00:18:56,051 [both laughing] 424 00:18:59,847 --> 00:19:03,183 Sometimes I'm like, "God damn, we're the same person." [chuckles] 425 00:19:03,267 --> 00:19:04,309 [both continue laughing] 426 00:19:04,393 --> 00:19:09,356 I thought the lack of cleanliness would bother me more than it does. 427 00:19:09,439 --> 00:19:12,192 He knows for the most part where everything is. 428 00:19:12,693 --> 00:19:16,780 And I mean, the guy put my underwear 429 00:19:16,864 --> 00:19:18,866 and my bras and my socks, 430 00:19:18,949 --> 00:19:21,743 like, he organized, when he, like, folded my laundry. 431 00:19:22,411 --> 00:19:24,746 He, like, organized my underwear drawer. 432 00:19:27,082 --> 00:19:28,625 It's, like, the sweetest thing ever. 433 00:19:29,668 --> 00:19:30,502 He has it in him. 434 00:19:31,170 --> 00:19:33,589 -[groans] -You got some lotion right here. 435 00:19:33,672 --> 00:19:35,048 [laughing] 436 00:19:36,216 --> 00:19:38,760 Ma'am. [laughs] 437 00:19:38,844 --> 00:19:43,056 Bachelor pad. Got the lotion and the towel. 438 00:19:43,140 --> 00:19:45,851 -That-- -[laughing] 439 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:48,729 Within three feet of each other. 440 00:19:48,812 --> 00:19:51,356 Ma'am, come on, would I have-- Come on. 441 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:53,150 [laughing] 442 00:19:53,233 --> 00:19:57,613 -Hey, you know what? Good for you. -[laughing] 443 00:19:57,696 --> 00:19:59,031 This is comfy though. 444 00:19:59,114 --> 00:20:01,450 -You think this couch can be used? -Yes. 445 00:20:02,117 --> 00:20:04,369 -Fantastic, let's keep the couch. -Okay. Okay. 446 00:20:04,453 --> 00:20:06,496 -It's really beautiful here. -It is. 447 00:20:06,580 --> 00:20:08,040 It's really, really dope. 448 00:20:08,665 --> 00:20:10,626 You know, I really love Portland. 449 00:20:10,709 --> 00:20:14,421 I really do. I know… I'm, like, okay to move, you know. 450 00:20:14,504 --> 00:20:16,882 But I feel like… [clears throat] …this is home. 451 00:20:16,965 --> 00:20:19,426 -[Chelsea] It's a very cool place, babe. -[Kwame] Yeah. 452 00:20:19,509 --> 00:20:20,719 [Chelsea] I like it a lot. 453 00:20:20,802 --> 00:20:23,347 Does it make you think, "Oh, I might move to Portland?" 454 00:20:24,056 --> 00:20:25,349 No, it doesn't. 455 00:20:27,893 --> 00:20:28,727 Yeah. 456 00:20:30,062 --> 00:20:31,313 -You know? -Mm-hmm. 457 00:20:31,396 --> 00:20:36,360 I definitely think we're gonna settle in Seattle, regardless of all the factors. 458 00:20:36,443 --> 00:20:39,613 I mean, it is where my family is, right? Family is really important to me. 459 00:20:39,696 --> 00:20:42,241 And I don't work a remote job. 460 00:20:43,242 --> 00:20:47,037 Um, with Kwame working remotely, it just kind of makes sense. 461 00:20:47,120 --> 00:20:51,291 You know this really is just, like, my… my peace. 462 00:20:51,875 --> 00:20:54,419 -You know? So… -Yeah. 463 00:20:54,503 --> 00:20:55,462 That's good. 464 00:20:55,963 --> 00:20:58,173 -That's what home should be. -Yeah. 465 00:20:58,257 --> 00:21:00,425 That's what I want, and that's what my home is like. 466 00:21:00,509 --> 00:21:02,302 That's what I want our future home to be like. 467 00:21:04,346 --> 00:21:05,180 Yeah. 468 00:21:06,181 --> 00:21:08,183 I don't have any friends in Seattle. 469 00:21:08,267 --> 00:21:10,602 I play soccer four times a week in Portland. 470 00:21:10,686 --> 00:21:12,562 Five times sometimes. 471 00:21:12,646 --> 00:21:16,900 I have a running path, and I run that same path every day. [laughs] 472 00:21:16,984 --> 00:21:21,530 Sometimes I tend to compromise too much, trying to merge my world with her world. 473 00:21:21,613 --> 00:21:24,366 It's taking some time to make it really 474 00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:26,285 all make sense. 475 00:21:26,368 --> 00:21:28,829 -[pop music playing] -♪ We're building then learning ♪ 476 00:21:28,912 --> 00:21:31,039 ♪ Then breaking up ♪ 477 00:21:31,999 --> 00:21:34,418 ♪ Sometimes yes, sometimes no ♪ 478 00:21:34,501 --> 00:21:36,503 ♪ Easy come and go ♪ 479 00:21:36,586 --> 00:21:38,588 ♪ Letting you in, letting you in ♪ 480 00:21:38,672 --> 00:21:41,550 ♪ And you're pushing me out Pushing me out ♪ 481 00:21:41,633 --> 00:21:44,553 [Marshall] Guacamole and queso. 482 00:21:44,636 --> 00:21:45,554 You want queso? 483 00:21:46,054 --> 00:21:48,515 -I'm not a queso bitch. -Sister's a vegetarian. 484 00:21:49,099 --> 00:21:50,142 Let me look at this pizza. 485 00:21:55,105 --> 00:21:58,150 [groans] I'm really stressed out. I don't know, man. 486 00:21:58,900 --> 00:21:59,735 I don't know. 487 00:21:59,818 --> 00:22:02,904 I don't think I can do this. Honestly, I'm really stressed out. 488 00:22:04,156 --> 00:22:06,408 -Stressed out about…? -I'm really stressed out. 489 00:22:08,410 --> 00:22:09,494 This is a lot. 490 00:22:12,497 --> 00:22:14,041 Stressed out about meeting them? 491 00:22:14,124 --> 00:22:16,501 -Not meeting them. Like, that's whatever. -[Marshall] Mm-hmm. 492 00:22:16,585 --> 00:22:19,129 But I'm just stressed out with everything. 493 00:22:19,963 --> 00:22:21,465 It's a lot. [sighs] 494 00:22:23,258 --> 00:22:24,968 [clears throat] I need a second. 495 00:22:25,052 --> 00:22:26,595 -[grunts] -All right. 496 00:22:34,978 --> 00:22:38,815 I can give you some time. I can walk them around the block or whatever and… 497 00:22:39,316 --> 00:22:42,277 No, it's fine. We can just knock it out. 498 00:22:43,195 --> 00:22:47,115 I would much rather you be in a comfortable headspace 499 00:22:47,199 --> 00:22:48,367 than put you in a position-- 500 00:22:48,450 --> 00:22:51,036 [Jackelina] I'm in a comfortable headspace right now. 501 00:22:52,245 --> 00:22:53,955 Okay. [sighs] 502 00:22:54,039 --> 00:22:57,167 I think your energy is making me even more stressed out. 503 00:22:57,250 --> 00:22:59,169 Okay, I'll… 504 00:23:00,170 --> 00:23:01,797 I'll go have a Coke and a smile. 505 00:23:02,381 --> 00:23:03,799 -[Jackelina] Coke and a smile. -Yeah. 506 00:23:03,882 --> 00:23:04,841 -Do that. -Cool. 507 00:23:07,594 --> 00:23:09,721 I'm gonna light this candle up too. 508 00:23:10,639 --> 00:23:12,808 [Marshall] Jackie has a tendency to ruminate, 509 00:23:12,891 --> 00:23:17,229 and she tends to stay in a mood for a long time. 510 00:23:17,312 --> 00:23:19,564 Longer than I would like. 511 00:23:19,648 --> 00:23:21,108 However, that's not up to me, 512 00:23:21,191 --> 00:23:24,277 and I'm just there, chilling, waiting. 513 00:23:24,945 --> 00:23:28,115 Waiting for her to sort through her own feelings. 514 00:23:28,198 --> 00:23:29,699 Because I can do that for her. 515 00:23:29,783 --> 00:23:32,202 [Jackelina] I have a lot of thinking to do. 516 00:23:33,703 --> 00:23:35,372 A lot of thinking. 517 00:23:36,498 --> 00:23:38,125 Since my family… 518 00:23:39,584 --> 00:23:41,503 you know, isn't really… 519 00:23:42,838 --> 00:23:44,714 behind me 100%. 520 00:23:45,215 --> 00:23:47,467 I need to make sure still that they're good. 521 00:23:47,551 --> 00:23:49,761 Mm-hmm. Yeah. 522 00:23:49,845 --> 00:23:53,515 And my decision impacts that. 523 00:23:53,598 --> 00:23:57,018 And when I do say my answer, I need to make sure that I'm okay 524 00:23:57,102 --> 00:23:59,563 with all the repercussions that come after that. 525 00:23:59,646 --> 00:24:00,522 [Marshall] Absolutely. 526 00:24:00,605 --> 00:24:04,985 I just need to make sure that I don't hurt the people that I love. 527 00:24:05,068 --> 00:24:08,238 They say families last forever, and they, you know… 528 00:24:09,072 --> 00:24:11,867 Home is where you never get hurt. But it's just, like… 529 00:24:13,493 --> 00:24:15,287 They're kinda hurting me right now. 530 00:24:17,122 --> 00:24:20,876 But it's about time that I step and do what I need to do as an adult. 531 00:24:20,959 --> 00:24:22,085 [Marshall] Mm-hmm. 532 00:24:22,169 --> 00:24:25,964 I can't keep living by my family and then not living my life. 533 00:24:29,342 --> 00:24:31,303 I'm stressed out. 534 00:24:31,386 --> 00:24:33,388 I have all these things coming at me all at once. 535 00:24:33,472 --> 00:24:36,892 It's just, right now, I'm just, like, going through it. 536 00:24:36,975 --> 00:24:38,768 I'm going through the emotions. 537 00:24:38,852 --> 00:24:44,024 My mom, she's not happy that I got into this experiment. 538 00:24:44,107 --> 00:24:48,570 She's not happy that marriage is gonna happen so quickly, 539 00:24:48,653 --> 00:24:49,905 and that's getting to me. 540 00:24:49,988 --> 00:24:52,407 And then on top of that, I'm meeting family today, 541 00:24:52,491 --> 00:24:55,076 and I'm like, I don't feel like I'm at my best self. 542 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:57,746 -[Marshall] Yo! Hey, Zoe! -[man] How you doing? 543 00:24:57,829 --> 00:25:00,749 [Marshall] What's up, baby girl? Oh! 544 00:25:00,832 --> 00:25:02,918 I've been waiting all day for this. 545 00:25:03,001 --> 00:25:04,878 What's up, baby? 546 00:25:04,961 --> 00:25:06,463 [woman] Say, "Hi, Uncle Marsh." 547 00:25:06,546 --> 00:25:07,464 -Hey, Morg. -Hey, Marsh. 548 00:25:07,547 --> 00:25:09,633 -What's up, buddy? -[Morgan] You look nice. 549 00:25:09,716 --> 00:25:13,220 [Jackelina] But I gotta put on a happy face, because I am happy. 550 00:25:13,303 --> 00:25:16,723 It's just right now in this moment, everything is just, like, crumbling down, 551 00:25:16,806 --> 00:25:19,309 and I'm just like, bro, like, I need a break. 552 00:25:19,392 --> 00:25:22,521 All right, look who it is. Say hi to Jackie. 553 00:25:22,604 --> 00:25:24,105 -Hi, Jackie. -Hi. 554 00:25:24,189 --> 00:25:26,316 Oh, my gosh, you're so cute! 555 00:25:26,399 --> 00:25:27,901 -Oh, my gosh. -It's great to meet you. 556 00:25:27,984 --> 00:25:30,237 -It's so good to meet you. -[Marshall] This is Ryan. 557 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:32,155 -Hi. -[Ryan] Nice to meet you. How are you? 558 00:25:32,239 --> 00:25:33,156 Good, how are you? 559 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:36,034 -You're very beautiful. -[Jackelina] Oh, thank you. 560 00:25:36,618 --> 00:25:38,328 -Y'all hungry? -Yeah. 561 00:25:38,411 --> 00:25:40,330 [Marshall] Bet, we got some pizza. 562 00:25:40,413 --> 00:25:42,415 Which ones do you want? You want a cucumber? 563 00:25:42,499 --> 00:25:43,458 Everything. 564 00:25:43,542 --> 00:25:44,626 We gotta eat! 565 00:25:44,709 --> 00:25:47,420 [Jackelina] I know all the good eats. That's all we do is eat. 566 00:25:47,504 --> 00:25:51,341 -[Marshall] One thing we do, we be eating. -So, is that how you bonded? How did you-- 567 00:25:51,424 --> 00:25:54,636 -Yeah, that's what I wanna hear. -I need to know everything. 568 00:25:54,719 --> 00:25:56,972 -Like, from the beginning. -Yeah, how did we bond? 569 00:25:57,055 --> 00:26:00,559 Yo, all right. So, from day one, I knew it was gonna be her. 570 00:26:00,642 --> 00:26:05,981 Like, we were dating all 15 people. Fifteen on 15 basically. 571 00:26:06,064 --> 00:26:07,607 -We're just doing rounds. -[Ryan] Mm-hmm. 572 00:26:07,691 --> 00:26:09,776 Um, it was hard for me to go through the process, 573 00:26:09,859 --> 00:26:11,319 because I knew that it was her. 574 00:26:11,403 --> 00:26:14,155 Um, it was her or nothing, for real, for real. 575 00:26:14,239 --> 00:26:15,198 Y'all know how I am. 576 00:26:15,282 --> 00:26:17,993 -[Morgan] Yeah. -[Ryan laughs] We know how Marshall is. 577 00:26:18,076 --> 00:26:20,287 And so, like, the other thing about Jackie is that she-- 578 00:26:20,370 --> 00:26:22,664 that she was, like, inspiring me to, like, write. 579 00:26:22,747 --> 00:26:24,666 You know how hard it's been for me to write. 580 00:26:24,749 --> 00:26:26,918 So, I wrote poems, like, for the first time in years. 581 00:26:27,002 --> 00:26:29,671 You know what I'm saying? That's been really hard for me. 582 00:26:29,754 --> 00:26:32,674 And she brought that-- She, like, lit that fire under me. 583 00:26:32,757 --> 00:26:35,427 It's not just me. You're, like, a creative man. 584 00:26:36,011 --> 00:26:38,221 -Well, I appreciate that. -And they were beautiful. 585 00:26:38,305 --> 00:26:41,182 I really, like, came out being, like, a much better person, so… 586 00:26:41,266 --> 00:26:42,434 -[Ryan] Wow. -Yeah. 587 00:26:42,475 --> 00:26:45,895 -I mean, you seem much lighter. -[Ryan] Yeah, I feel the aura. 588 00:26:45,979 --> 00:26:48,189 -I feel the energy for sure. -[Ryan] It's good. 589 00:26:48,273 --> 00:26:51,776 Yeah, so, Jackie, did you have, like, a similar, like, experience? 590 00:26:51,860 --> 00:26:55,488 So, he's taught me just to be more grown. 591 00:26:56,072 --> 00:26:59,659 He's a great listener. He's taught me, like, sometimes I just have to sit 592 00:26:59,743 --> 00:27:02,954 in my feelings and really just go through it instead of just reacting. 593 00:27:03,038 --> 00:27:03,872 [Ryan] Okay. 594 00:27:03,955 --> 00:27:07,208 I'm still learning. So, I'm gonna obviously have, like, some slip-up days. 595 00:27:07,292 --> 00:27:09,294 But he's there to just be like, 596 00:27:09,377 --> 00:27:12,589 "Calm down. Like, we're good. I'm here. I'm solid." 597 00:27:12,672 --> 00:27:16,259 And he'll let me just be for a little bit. 598 00:27:16,343 --> 00:27:19,179 If I get, like, too over… I'm just, like, I need to be with myself. 599 00:27:19,262 --> 00:27:22,724 Like, he does. He gives me that space, and that's what I need. 600 00:27:22,807 --> 00:27:25,435 This is not something light. This is serious. 601 00:27:25,518 --> 00:27:28,730 -Marriage is biblical. That's serious. -[Ryan] 100%. 602 00:27:29,230 --> 00:27:32,942 I need to make sure I'm the best version of me when I say yeah. 603 00:27:33,026 --> 00:27:36,738 Even through the wall, it was just, like, so captivating, you know. 604 00:27:36,821 --> 00:27:38,823 -Yeah. -Oh, captivating. 605 00:27:38,907 --> 00:27:40,909 -[Marshall] Yeah. Yeah. -That's a good one. 606 00:27:40,992 --> 00:27:43,662 [Ryan] It's like y'all are merging in one, you know. 607 00:27:43,745 --> 00:27:46,831 -Just going through the whole time. Huh? -Oh, look at us. 608 00:27:47,332 --> 00:27:48,625 Special! 609 00:27:48,708 --> 00:27:50,543 -We knew we were special. -Yeah. 610 00:27:50,627 --> 00:27:53,004 He's not playing. Like, he's actually in love. 611 00:27:53,088 --> 00:27:56,257 His aura and his energy just seems to be radiating, 612 00:27:56,341 --> 00:27:57,592 soon as we came in the house. 613 00:27:57,676 --> 00:27:59,761 I can definitely see that he really likes her a lot, 614 00:27:59,844 --> 00:28:02,389 and he's definitely trying his best to really be present, 615 00:28:02,472 --> 00:28:04,182 and in the moment in this experiment, 616 00:28:04,766 --> 00:28:08,144 just to make sure that he's making the right decision for himself, you know, 617 00:28:08,228 --> 00:28:12,315 when it comes time to be at the altar and say yes or no. 618 00:28:12,399 --> 00:28:14,192 -[laughs] -That's for life. That's for life. 619 00:28:14,275 --> 00:28:17,487 They both seem to really, you know, take this seriously 620 00:28:17,570 --> 00:28:19,656 and know that marriage is a big deal. 621 00:28:19,739 --> 00:28:20,990 I mean, they better. 622 00:28:21,074 --> 00:28:22,826 Right? [laughs] 623 00:28:22,909 --> 00:28:25,412 And thank you, guys, for being so gracious 624 00:28:25,495 --> 00:28:26,788 and so open-armed 625 00:28:26,871 --> 00:28:30,750 and just letting me come in and share in Marshall. 626 00:28:30,834 --> 00:28:32,210 -I really appreciate that. -[laughs] 627 00:28:32,293 --> 00:28:34,170 'Cause I was like, they could be like, 628 00:28:34,254 --> 00:28:37,590 "Nah, no. No way. You ain't coming near us." 629 00:28:37,674 --> 00:28:39,384 -Knuckle up. Knuckle up. -For real. 630 00:28:39,467 --> 00:28:41,678 [Morgan] But I mean, like, Marshall, like, 631 00:28:41,761 --> 00:28:44,681 he's a very genuine, caring person. 632 00:28:44,764 --> 00:28:47,726 And anybody that he's gonna propose to, 633 00:28:47,809 --> 00:28:51,187 I know they have to be, you know, amazing themselves. 634 00:28:51,271 --> 00:28:54,607 So, I was just really, you know, excited to see you, 635 00:28:54,691 --> 00:28:56,443 to meet you, to get to know you. 636 00:28:57,068 --> 00:28:58,695 So, is love truly blind? 637 00:29:00,405 --> 00:29:02,157 Yeah, I would say yeah. 638 00:29:02,657 --> 00:29:03,575 For sure. 639 00:29:04,075 --> 00:29:09,956 -["Still Water" by Tyrone Wells playing] -♪ Will you let me be your sanctuary? ♪ 640 00:29:10,039 --> 00:29:11,833 ♪ Close your eyes ♪ 641 00:29:11,916 --> 00:29:15,128 ♪ I'll keep you safe and sound ♪ 642 00:29:15,211 --> 00:29:17,881 ♪ Let me be your still water ♪ 643 00:29:17,964 --> 00:29:18,923 [Paul] Are you ready? 644 00:29:19,549 --> 00:29:22,677 [laughing] Oh, my goodness. 645 00:29:22,761 --> 00:29:23,845 What do you think? 646 00:29:26,055 --> 00:29:28,391 [Micah] Oh, my God, it's so you. 647 00:29:29,851 --> 00:29:31,060 Oh, my goodness. 648 00:29:31,144 --> 00:29:34,481 -What do you think of these couches? -Oh, my gosh. 649 00:29:34,564 --> 00:29:36,149 Where'd you get your couches? 650 00:29:36,232 --> 00:29:39,986 Um, this one's Craigslist, and that one was on the side of the road. 651 00:29:40,069 --> 00:29:42,071 -[both laugh] -On the side of the… 652 00:29:42,155 --> 00:29:45,116 -[laughing] -I'm not joking. 653 00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:48,161 [laughing] 654 00:29:48,244 --> 00:29:51,164 I think that there's a very good chance that I'm gonna be Paul's fiancée… 655 00:29:51,247 --> 00:29:53,416 [laughs] …and stylist at the same time. 656 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,252 Oh, my God. Your little work-from-home space? 657 00:29:56,336 --> 00:29:59,380 -Yeah, that's my office. -[both laugh] 658 00:29:59,464 --> 00:30:02,258 -[Paul] Could you work there? -Don't know if this looks comfortable. 659 00:30:02,342 --> 00:30:03,593 -A knife? -A pack of knives. 660 00:30:04,969 --> 00:30:07,347 Yeah, wait, why is there one on every single table here? 661 00:30:07,430 --> 00:30:08,431 -I'm scared. -I don't know. 662 00:30:09,015 --> 00:30:11,100 [Micah] What do you think's gonna happen around here? 663 00:30:11,184 --> 00:30:14,938 I would get rid of, like, all the different, like, color woods. 664 00:30:15,021 --> 00:30:15,939 [laughs] 665 00:30:16,022 --> 00:30:17,190 A new desk, 666 00:30:17,273 --> 00:30:20,485 a different couch, like, a different TV, maybe mount something? 667 00:30:20,568 --> 00:30:23,071 [laughs] Aww. 668 00:30:23,154 --> 00:30:24,906 [Paul] As bad as you thought or is it better? 669 00:30:25,490 --> 00:30:27,867 [Micah] I don't really know what I was picturing, actually. 670 00:30:27,951 --> 00:30:30,286 Get, like, some art, a different bed frame. 671 00:30:30,370 --> 00:30:32,956 Change, like, literally everything, probably. [laughs] 672 00:30:33,039 --> 00:30:36,334 That's, like, an incredibly small closet. Interesting. 673 00:30:36,417 --> 00:30:40,171 Like, these are the clothes that I mainly wear. So, these and-- 674 00:30:40,255 --> 00:30:43,049 You keep the clothes that you wear right there on the top of the dresser? 675 00:30:43,132 --> 00:30:45,343 -I just like to be able to see them. -Yeah, okay. 676 00:30:45,426 --> 00:30:46,678 -Paul. -[Paul] What's that? 677 00:30:46,761 --> 00:30:50,056 -Is this your grandfather's? [laughing] -Yeah. [laughs] 678 00:30:50,139 --> 00:30:52,642 Don't worry about it. [laughing] 679 00:30:52,725 --> 00:30:56,896 -Paul, what year… -[both laughing] 680 00:30:59,148 --> 00:31:01,860 Oh, my God, I'm gonna have a stroke. 681 00:31:02,902 --> 00:31:05,572 [Paul] I always feel like I'm going to a funeral when I wear this one. 682 00:31:05,655 --> 00:31:08,408 Wow. Okay, let's leave that here. 683 00:31:08,491 --> 00:31:09,325 [Paul] Yeah. 684 00:31:09,951 --> 00:31:13,037 -Very eclectic sense of style. -It just keeps on giving. 685 00:31:13,121 --> 00:31:15,915 [chuckles] Oh, my God. I think that's enough of that. 686 00:31:16,583 --> 00:31:17,834 Oh, my goodness. 687 00:31:19,085 --> 00:31:21,588 Well, what do you think? 688 00:31:21,671 --> 00:31:23,047 [laughing] 689 00:31:23,131 --> 00:31:26,801 It's very you. Like, if I came in, and your place was perfectly decorated, 690 00:31:26,885 --> 00:31:28,678 I'd be like, "Who did this?" 691 00:31:28,761 --> 00:31:29,846 -[Paul] Right. -You know? 692 00:31:29,929 --> 00:31:31,806 Could you see yourself living here? 693 00:31:32,599 --> 00:31:33,725 Um… 694 00:31:36,978 --> 00:31:39,272 I think that if we were planning on staying, 695 00:31:39,355 --> 00:31:41,774 like, in Seattle for, like, long-term, 696 00:31:41,858 --> 00:31:44,110 I probably wouldn't wanna stay here. 697 00:31:45,236 --> 00:31:48,781 Just 'cause, like, office space. I'd probably want at least two bedrooms. 698 00:31:48,865 --> 00:31:52,535 Just so we can have space, especially if you're gonna be working from home. 699 00:31:52,619 --> 00:31:53,912 We have your place here, 700 00:31:53,995 --> 00:31:56,706 I have my place here, and then the place in Arizona. 701 00:31:56,789 --> 00:32:00,168 -Yeah. -Then we would just get rid of this. 702 00:32:03,087 --> 00:32:05,423 A good tentative plan would be, like, 703 00:32:05,506 --> 00:32:10,511 to kind of, like, bounce back and forth between here and, like, Arizona. 704 00:32:11,220 --> 00:32:12,096 [Paul] No. 705 00:32:13,139 --> 00:32:15,224 I know. I'm joking, but also not. 706 00:32:15,308 --> 00:32:18,227 -["Tryst" by I, Us, & We playing] -♪ Love and be strong ♪ 707 00:32:19,187 --> 00:32:21,314 ♪ Love cannot fade… ♪ 708 00:32:21,397 --> 00:32:23,358 If you give it a chance, like, fine. 709 00:32:23,441 --> 00:32:26,569 Like, what would, like, upset me is you not, like, trying. 710 00:32:26,653 --> 00:32:27,487 Yeah. 711 00:32:28,154 --> 00:32:32,116 Um, follow up with an email, if you could, after this meeting. 712 00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,744 ♪ And I can't shake this game ♪ 713 00:32:34,827 --> 00:32:39,499 Oh no, it's-- it's hard getting through, like, the tough, like, real conversations. 714 00:32:39,582 --> 00:32:43,836 I'm a little worried that Paul won't, you know, give Arizona a chance. 715 00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:47,256 He needs to be in Seattle for work, and he has his place here, 716 00:32:47,340 --> 00:32:51,260 and I also have my place in Arizona, um, and I split my time. 717 00:32:51,344 --> 00:32:53,680 So, we kind of need to figure out where we're gonna live. 718 00:32:53,763 --> 00:32:57,350 It's just weird, like, looking at him, like, when we're talking seriously. 719 00:32:57,433 --> 00:32:59,435 I almost feel like he's a different person. 720 00:32:59,519 --> 00:33:03,022 I'm just like, "Who is that?" Like, you know what I mean? 721 00:33:03,106 --> 00:33:05,733 But I think that we're gonna have to, like, work through that 722 00:33:05,817 --> 00:33:07,276 and be able to compromise. 723 00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,237 This is the side that is stressful. 724 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,197 -Yeah. -And it's, like, it's real stress. 725 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,616 And I think that I'm feeling that right now. 726 00:33:13,700 --> 00:33:16,244 -And I imagine you probably are as well. -Mm-hmm. 727 00:33:17,662 --> 00:33:18,496 Yeah. 728 00:33:20,623 --> 00:33:26,129 ♪ Call it a tryst, feelings I missed ♪ 729 00:33:26,212 --> 00:33:28,589 ♪ Now you're loved ♪ 730 00:33:35,596 --> 00:33:37,682 I still have not gotten a chance to talk to my mom. 731 00:33:37,765 --> 00:33:38,975 -Yeah. -[Kwame] You know? 732 00:33:40,435 --> 00:33:45,064 [chuckles] So, I'm not sure if she knows 733 00:33:45,148 --> 00:33:46,983 and just isn't picking up or what the case? 734 00:33:47,066 --> 00:33:49,944 I don't think that's the case. I know some parts of me just think like-- 735 00:33:50,028 --> 00:33:52,822 I mean, I feel pretty confident about things. 736 00:33:52,905 --> 00:33:56,534 I'm like, "Yeah, sure she'll be fine." But at the same time, will she? 737 00:33:56,617 --> 00:33:57,618 You know? 738 00:33:57,702 --> 00:33:59,287 So I'm gonna give her another call. 739 00:34:00,204 --> 00:34:02,123 [Chelsea] Am I able to be a part of that? 740 00:34:02,206 --> 00:34:03,624 You wanna talk to her? 741 00:34:05,626 --> 00:34:07,378 It's-- It's your mom. 742 00:34:07,462 --> 00:34:09,005 -I-- I don't know her. -Yeah. 743 00:34:09,088 --> 00:34:12,675 Obviously, I would love to, uh, if it was the right opportunity. 744 00:34:12,759 --> 00:34:14,719 -[Kwame] Yeah. -And in the right moment. 745 00:34:14,802 --> 00:34:17,430 I'd obviously love to introduce you to her, you know. 746 00:34:17,513 --> 00:34:20,683 Um, I just think this first conversation's gotta be from me. 747 00:34:20,767 --> 00:34:21,976 All right. 748 00:34:22,060 --> 00:34:24,479 [line ringing] 749 00:34:28,441 --> 00:34:30,151 Do you have a minute to talk? 750 00:34:31,152 --> 00:34:34,530 So, uh, I wanted to just let you know 751 00:34:34,614 --> 00:34:37,408 that I did find someone in the experiment. 752 00:34:37,492 --> 00:34:40,036 Um, her name was Chelsea. 753 00:34:40,119 --> 00:34:44,540 And, um, you know, I did take the step forward and, 754 00:34:45,124 --> 00:34:48,544 uh, ask her, uh, for her hand in marriage. 755 00:34:49,337 --> 00:34:51,798 And so, I wanted to 756 00:34:53,049 --> 00:34:55,927 kind of just take a chance to tell you, 757 00:34:56,010 --> 00:34:59,013 um, about that experience and where I am. 758 00:35:05,812 --> 00:35:06,938 You're mad? 759 00:35:08,689 --> 00:35:12,485 All right, Mom. I appreciate your honesty, as usual. 760 00:35:12,568 --> 00:35:15,613 It's a tough situation for a mom to walk into things like this. 761 00:35:15,696 --> 00:35:17,448 You know, I don't disagree with you. 762 00:35:18,032 --> 00:35:20,576 So, I understand. I understand where you're coming from. 763 00:35:20,660 --> 00:35:23,746 So, I'll respect that, but I do think we should, uh… 764 00:35:24,247 --> 00:35:26,541 We should talk about this again sometime. Bye. 765 00:35:26,624 --> 00:35:28,584 [line beeps] 766 00:35:33,506 --> 00:35:34,423 [exhales] 767 00:35:37,176 --> 00:35:38,094 Didn't go well. 768 00:35:41,681 --> 00:35:44,308 My mom's been a big part of my life. Massive. 769 00:35:44,392 --> 00:35:45,560 She said that, 770 00:35:46,394 --> 00:35:47,478 as a mother, 771 00:35:48,062 --> 00:35:50,314 as someone who… [chuckles] 772 00:35:51,357 --> 00:35:53,484 …you know, would expect more from me. 773 00:35:54,152 --> 00:35:56,070 Um, I didn't do the right thing. 774 00:35:56,154 --> 00:35:58,906 She doesn't think that I used my head in this situation. 775 00:35:58,990 --> 00:36:01,826 Um, and that, um, 776 00:36:03,494 --> 00:36:06,080 she can't really say that she's happy for me. 777 00:36:06,164 --> 00:36:08,833 I mean, that's a little tough to hear, you know. 778 00:36:08,916 --> 00:36:10,918 Yeah, I'm really sorry. That's… 779 00:36:11,919 --> 00:36:13,004 Yeah, I mean… 780 00:36:13,087 --> 00:36:15,089 …heartbreaking, really. [exhales] 781 00:36:15,173 --> 00:36:18,134 Well, I mean, I told her. I said, "Hey…" 782 00:36:21,095 --> 00:36:23,306 "You have to understand that the decisions that I've made 783 00:36:23,389 --> 00:36:25,224 for myself in life have been good ones." 784 00:36:25,892 --> 00:36:29,020 "I accepted all the failures in order to find the successes." 785 00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:33,858 "So, I believe that I make the right choices for myself." 786 00:36:36,068 --> 00:36:38,696 "And I believe I made the right choice for myself this time as well." 787 00:36:39,864 --> 00:36:40,698 So… 788 00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:46,162 -It's only uphill from here. -[laughs] 789 00:36:46,245 --> 00:36:48,956 -It's only uphill from here. -I'm sorry, baby. 790 00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:50,249 [Kwame laughs] 791 00:36:54,587 --> 00:36:55,588 It's gotta hurt. 792 00:37:04,222 --> 00:37:05,056 Yeah. 793 00:37:05,139 --> 00:37:06,682 [slow-tempo music playing] 794 00:37:09,101 --> 00:37:13,272 ♪ Come with me to my lonely world ♪ 795 00:37:13,356 --> 00:37:15,316 ♪ Come ♪ 796 00:37:18,277 --> 00:37:20,071 ♪ Come ♪ 797 00:37:23,032 --> 00:37:24,492 ♪ Come with me ♪ 798 00:37:25,117 --> 00:37:26,702 ♪ Come with me ♪ 799 00:37:29,455 --> 00:37:31,457 ♪ To my lonely world ♪ 800 00:37:31,540 --> 00:37:33,084 Ooh! 801 00:37:34,085 --> 00:37:35,336 [laughing] 802 00:37:35,419 --> 00:37:37,713 -Your turn to cook tonight? -[Tiffany] It is. 803 00:37:37,797 --> 00:37:41,217 -I gotta put in some work, right? -[Brett] Where did you learn how to cook? 804 00:37:41,300 --> 00:37:42,468 Food Network. 805 00:37:42,969 --> 00:37:44,679 -Really? -And my mom. [laughs] 806 00:37:44,762 --> 00:37:47,306 I hope it won't make you nervous if I just kinda… 807 00:37:47,390 --> 00:37:51,602 This is my first meal for you. So yeah, I'm a little nervous. 808 00:37:51,686 --> 00:37:54,146 [Brett] No pressure. I have the utmost confidence. 809 00:37:54,230 --> 00:37:56,232 -Do you? Okay. -[Brett] In your cooking ability. 810 00:37:56,315 --> 00:37:57,733 -[Tiffany] Okay. -[chuckles] 811 00:37:57,817 --> 00:38:01,320 So, Brett, I was thinking about, like… 812 00:38:02,989 --> 00:38:04,490 What are we, two weeks? 813 00:38:04,573 --> 00:38:06,492 -Two weeks away from our wedding. -[clears throat] 814 00:38:06,575 --> 00:38:09,328 -That's crazy to think, ain't it? -[gasping] I know. 815 00:38:09,412 --> 00:38:12,415 Um, so, I think I'm just trying to understand, like, 816 00:38:12,498 --> 00:38:15,626 what our lifestyle would look like out there. 817 00:38:15,710 --> 00:38:16,711 [Brett] Mm-hmm. 818 00:38:16,794 --> 00:38:19,005 I'm comfortable and happy, 819 00:38:19,588 --> 00:38:22,675 like, with what I'm spending, how much I'm making. 820 00:38:22,758 --> 00:38:25,845 How about you? Like, do you feel like you're overextended… 821 00:38:26,345 --> 00:38:27,179 -No. -…in your… 822 00:38:27,763 --> 00:38:30,599 -No? -[Brett] No. I'm a really simple person. 823 00:38:30,683 --> 00:38:32,018 [pan sizzling] 824 00:38:32,101 --> 00:38:33,060 [Tiffany] Really? 825 00:38:35,646 --> 00:38:38,941 -With…? -Your eyes look like all kind of doubt. 826 00:38:39,025 --> 00:38:42,695 I mean, you do, you know, you dress very nice, Brett. 827 00:38:42,778 --> 00:38:44,864 I know that stuff ain't cheap. [chuckles] 828 00:38:44,947 --> 00:38:46,949 I looked at some of your wardrobe, 829 00:38:47,033 --> 00:38:50,953 and I was like, "Oh. Oh, he's spending the big bucks." 830 00:38:51,037 --> 00:38:52,371 [laughs] 831 00:38:55,916 --> 00:38:58,878 I'm not gonna lie. Yeah, do I have a few things that… 832 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,049 I spent some money on? Of course. 833 00:39:03,132 --> 00:39:06,844 What is the most you spent on a certain item? 834 00:39:08,596 --> 00:39:10,097 I would say… 835 00:39:15,853 --> 00:39:17,146 Well… 836 00:39:18,272 --> 00:39:20,149 The most expensive thing 837 00:39:20,232 --> 00:39:22,777 that I've bought that isn't, like, tech, 838 00:39:22,860 --> 00:39:25,029 because that stuff is generally gonna be expensive. 839 00:39:25,112 --> 00:39:25,946 [Tiffany] Mm-hmm. 840 00:39:26,030 --> 00:39:29,408 Uh, I got some expensive luggage. 841 00:39:30,826 --> 00:39:32,119 How much did you pay for it? 842 00:39:32,828 --> 00:39:36,999 Like, at least, like, my carry-- yeah, my, uh, check bag was, like, 843 00:39:37,875 --> 00:39:38,834 $1,200? 844 00:39:38,918 --> 00:39:41,128 Brett! No! 845 00:39:41,212 --> 00:39:44,048 -[laughing] -Are you kidding me? Luggage? 846 00:39:47,968 --> 00:39:49,428 But it'll last. 847 00:39:49,512 --> 00:39:52,014 -It should. It better. -And-- And it looks good. 848 00:39:52,098 --> 00:39:54,350 -[laughs] -Bougie Brett. 849 00:39:54,433 --> 00:39:56,018 [laughing] 850 00:39:56,102 --> 00:39:59,814 You are, like, this creative too. 851 00:39:59,897 --> 00:40:04,485 Like, I think you have very good style and very good taste. 852 00:40:04,568 --> 00:40:07,405 I just wanna make sure it's within the budget 853 00:40:07,488 --> 00:40:09,448 I feel comfortable with spending. 854 00:40:09,532 --> 00:40:10,533 Here's my thing. 855 00:40:10,616 --> 00:40:12,910 I don't need to know everything you spend things on, 856 00:40:12,993 --> 00:40:14,578 just as long as you pay the bills. 857 00:40:15,246 --> 00:40:16,622 Um, and to be honest, 858 00:40:16,705 --> 00:40:20,918 I don't want somebody telling me how I should be spending my money, 859 00:40:21,001 --> 00:40:22,628 because I'm doing okay already. 860 00:40:24,004 --> 00:40:26,507 [Brett] In terms of, like, our bills, like, 861 00:40:27,299 --> 00:40:29,427 it doesn't have to be down the middle for me. 862 00:40:29,510 --> 00:40:32,596 I'd be fine with saying, "Well, I'll get 75% of this." 863 00:40:33,139 --> 00:40:35,349 -Or 60-40. -Oh, yeah. 864 00:40:36,308 --> 00:40:37,351 -Yeah. -You know, whatever. 865 00:40:37,435 --> 00:40:41,230 If we, you know, said that there's a few bills or certain bills. 866 00:40:41,313 --> 00:40:43,983 Like, I don't know if it's a rent or mortgage or something like that. 867 00:40:44,066 --> 00:40:46,444 If we wanted to pay together to avoid the… 868 00:40:46,527 --> 00:40:50,698 "I paid, and you pay me back. Or you paid, and I pay you back." 869 00:40:50,781 --> 00:40:53,159 -That feels like a roommate situation. -Exactly. 870 00:40:53,242 --> 00:40:55,411 I pay you. Then I'm looking at you like, "Hey, babe." 871 00:40:55,494 --> 00:40:57,329 "Like, when you gonna pay me my half back?" 872 00:40:57,413 --> 00:41:00,207 -You better send me that Venmo real quick. -Exactly. 873 00:41:00,291 --> 00:41:04,003 [laughs] I don't wanna be sending Venmo requests. 874 00:41:04,086 --> 00:41:07,047 -[laughing] Oh, my God, I know. -To my wife for our mortgage payment. 875 00:41:07,131 --> 00:41:09,425 That does not sound like something I wanna do. 876 00:41:09,508 --> 00:41:13,262 Real quick side note. You are burning up this kitchen. 877 00:41:13,345 --> 00:41:16,182 -[Tiffany] Oh, well, because-- Oh! -[laughing] 878 00:41:16,891 --> 00:41:17,808 [Tiffany] Mm. 879 00:41:19,310 --> 00:41:21,061 Ooh! 880 00:41:21,145 --> 00:41:24,106 -[Brett] Whoa! -[both laughing] 881 00:41:24,190 --> 00:41:25,983 [pop music playing] 882 00:41:29,987 --> 00:41:32,281 ♪ All I know is all I want is you ♪ 883 00:41:35,075 --> 00:41:37,453 -At least the sun's coming out. -A little bit. 884 00:41:37,536 --> 00:41:39,288 -Yeah, it is. -Our ghost pilot is… 885 00:41:40,122 --> 00:41:43,334 -[Bliss laughs] Ghost pilot. It is trippy. -[Zack] Ghost captain. 886 00:41:43,417 --> 00:41:47,046 It literally feels like there is a gremlin or something in there. 887 00:41:48,047 --> 00:41:49,840 -Gremlin? -Like, you know, from-- 888 00:41:49,924 --> 00:41:50,799 [Zack] I do. I do. 889 00:41:50,883 --> 00:41:54,970 I don't know if I was born when that came out, but I watched it at some point. 890 00:41:55,054 --> 00:41:58,015 It's like the little-- What are they before they become gremlins? 891 00:41:58,098 --> 00:41:59,892 I don't know, but then if you put water on 'em, 892 00:41:59,975 --> 00:42:01,894 they reproduce, and they create more monsters. 893 00:42:01,977 --> 00:42:05,147 I think if they put water on them after a certain-- 894 00:42:05,231 --> 00:42:07,525 after midnight or something, they turn into gremlins. 895 00:42:07,608 --> 00:42:09,235 -Or something like that. -Mm. 896 00:42:09,318 --> 00:42:11,654 They turn into whatever the cute, like, little furbos. 897 00:42:11,737 --> 00:42:14,490 Did you ever have, like, a furbo? Or not a furbo-- 898 00:42:14,573 --> 00:42:15,449 I had a Furby. 899 00:42:15,533 --> 00:42:18,577 -A Furby. That's it! [laughs] -Yeah. [chuckles] 900 00:42:18,661 --> 00:42:21,372 -I thought they were the coolest things. -They were so lame. 901 00:42:21,455 --> 00:42:24,291 -Uh, yeah. They were totally oversold. -They really were. 902 00:42:24,375 --> 00:42:27,127 They were starting to sell smart A.I. in a stuffed animal. 903 00:42:27,211 --> 00:42:29,129 -I know. -And it was not. 904 00:42:29,213 --> 00:42:30,297 It was not. 905 00:42:30,381 --> 00:42:32,758 No, but it's funny 'cause, like, the random… 906 00:42:32,841 --> 00:42:35,469 Like, the little-- It was like "didja…" 907 00:42:35,553 --> 00:42:39,139 What was it? The little, like… What were those things called? 908 00:42:39,223 --> 00:42:40,391 -Digipets. -Digipets. 909 00:42:40,474 --> 00:42:43,143 -[laughing] -Uh-huh. 910 00:42:43,227 --> 00:42:46,814 They were pretty lame compared to the toys that are out now. 911 00:42:46,897 --> 00:42:49,441 But you know what never goes out of style is stuffed animals. 912 00:42:52,695 --> 00:42:55,906 -You don't like pineapple? -Pineapple is actually my favorite fruit. 913 00:42:56,574 --> 00:42:59,243 -Of all the fruits. -I don't know how you can pick one. 914 00:42:59,743 --> 00:43:02,121 -They're all so good. -I think it would go pineapple. 915 00:43:02,204 --> 00:43:04,540 Raspberries, mango. 916 00:43:05,374 --> 00:43:07,710 Mango. Really, mango? After… 917 00:43:08,544 --> 00:43:11,797 I think mango, I'd put mango first above. I think I would put mango… 918 00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:15,593 Out of those three, I would rate it mango, pineapple and raspberries. 919 00:43:15,676 --> 00:43:18,095 I make a really good dark chocolate raspberry cake. 920 00:43:18,178 --> 00:43:21,515 -[Zack] Oh, my God, sounds delicious. -[Bliss] Yeah, with fresh raspberry jam. 921 00:43:21,599 --> 00:43:23,601 -I'm not a big jam guy. -It can be meditative thing. 922 00:43:23,684 --> 00:43:24,977 -Really? -No. 923 00:43:25,060 --> 00:43:29,607 [chuckles] Hmm, like a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, that wasn't your jam? 924 00:43:29,690 --> 00:43:31,191 I love that. Sometimes I'll make that. 925 00:43:31,275 --> 00:43:34,570 Did you say, "Peanut butter and jelly was not your jam"? That's hilarious. 926 00:43:34,653 --> 00:43:37,656 [Bliss] I know. I didn't mean to be so punful, but I was. 927 00:43:37,740 --> 00:43:39,199 [Zack] I really appreciate it. 928 00:43:39,283 --> 00:43:41,285 [both laughing] 929 00:43:42,077 --> 00:43:44,830 [Bliss] I would hold your hand, but I have to have one hand on the boat. 930 00:43:44,913 --> 00:43:46,123 I'm a rule follower. [laughs] 931 00:43:46,206 --> 00:43:48,584 [Zack] You got one hand on the boat, one hand on your drink. 932 00:43:48,667 --> 00:43:51,211 [Bliss] I feel like you're way more nervous about this than I am. 933 00:43:51,295 --> 00:43:52,463 [laughs] 934 00:43:52,546 --> 00:43:54,840 -[Zack] Make sure you didn't fall over. -That was sweet. 935 00:43:59,762 --> 00:44:02,056 -[Zack laughs] Is my hand cold? -Yeah, it is. [laughs] 936 00:44:02,139 --> 00:44:04,850 I'm never warmer than people, but I'm also wearing something thinner. 937 00:44:04,975 --> 00:44:07,019 [Zack] You can tell someone's colder than you. 938 00:44:07,102 --> 00:44:09,688 It's 'cause they feel warm, so you always know who's a warm person. 939 00:44:09,772 --> 00:44:12,483 [Bliss] I know. This is a very bizarre experience for me, 940 00:44:12,566 --> 00:44:14,860 and I actually, like, don't like it, 'cause you're cold. 941 00:44:14,943 --> 00:44:16,362 [laughing] 942 00:44:16,445 --> 00:44:18,989 I know how other people feel when I'm like, "Ah, I'm cold." 943 00:44:19,073 --> 00:44:21,116 -They're like, "Get away!" -Give me your warmth. 944 00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:22,618 -[laughs] -You can have some of it. 945 00:44:24,662 --> 00:44:27,456 -[laughs] I know. -[sighs] 946 00:44:27,539 --> 00:44:29,375 -[Bliss] Oh, you need the sun? -[Zack] Yeah. 947 00:44:29,458 --> 00:44:32,336 [Bliss laughing] Okay, just don't fall over. 948 00:44:32,419 --> 00:44:34,713 [Zack exhales] I'm really glad you're here. 949 00:44:36,256 --> 00:44:38,258 -Look, your hat might go overboard. -[Bliss] Why? 950 00:44:39,343 --> 00:44:40,678 I don't like it. 951 00:44:40,761 --> 00:44:41,720 It's like a kiss guard. 952 00:44:41,804 --> 00:44:43,764 I just wanna go to those luscious lips of yours. 953 00:44:43,847 --> 00:44:46,350 -You have to work hard for this. -[Zack] I will work hard for it. 954 00:44:46,433 --> 00:44:48,018 Mm-hmm. 955 00:44:48,102 --> 00:44:48,936 Fine. 956 00:44:50,562 --> 00:44:52,481 [laughing] Are you freezing? 957 00:44:52,564 --> 00:44:55,943 Do you want, like, a blanket or something? 958 00:44:56,026 --> 00:44:58,612 Maybe you can ask them for a blanket. 959 00:44:58,696 --> 00:45:01,448 You're just trying to get really close to me to steal my warmth. 960 00:45:01,532 --> 00:45:03,033 I don't have any to give! 961 00:45:03,659 --> 00:45:06,954 -[groans] You wanna fix my hair? -It's okay. It's just… 962 00:45:07,037 --> 00:45:08,205 [laughing] 963 00:45:08,288 --> 00:45:12,835 It's fine. It's just gonna do what it's gonna do. It's okay. 964 00:45:15,879 --> 00:45:18,716 If you could meet anybody in the world, who would you pick? 965 00:45:18,799 --> 00:45:20,426 -[Bliss] That's alive? -Yeah. 966 00:45:21,176 --> 00:45:23,971 I think I would choose to meet, like, Oprah. 967 00:45:24,054 --> 00:45:25,806 -Oprah? Winfrey? -[Bliss] Mm-hmm. 968 00:45:25,889 --> 00:45:28,684 -Wow. -She's a very, like, powerful woman, yeah. 969 00:45:28,767 --> 00:45:29,685 What about you? 970 00:45:30,269 --> 00:45:31,270 Your parents. 971 00:45:32,438 --> 00:45:35,065 [Bliss] You totally set that up. You're so cheesy. 972 00:45:35,149 --> 00:45:36,275 [laughs] 973 00:45:37,818 --> 00:45:40,821 My mom is amazing. I think I told you that. 974 00:45:40,904 --> 00:45:44,575 My dad is amazing in his own ways too, so. 975 00:45:47,035 --> 00:45:48,162 What are you doing? 976 00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:53,167 What are you doing? 977 00:45:58,297 --> 00:46:02,050 Bliss, you're everything that I've been looking for my entire life. 978 00:46:08,265 --> 00:46:10,976 You are beautiful, intelligent, 979 00:46:11,894 --> 00:46:12,853 driven, 980 00:46:13,854 --> 00:46:14,688 thoughtful. 981 00:46:16,064 --> 00:46:19,902 When I'm with you, you just make me feel warm. 982 00:46:21,236 --> 00:46:24,281 I just wanna be with you. I just wanna spend time with you. 983 00:46:24,364 --> 00:46:26,867 I believe there's nobody in this world 984 00:46:27,868 --> 00:46:30,537 who I'm meant to be with more than you. 985 00:46:34,583 --> 00:46:35,959 No matter what I did. 986 00:46:36,585 --> 00:46:38,212 No matter how stupid I was. 987 00:46:40,714 --> 00:46:42,216 We were always gonna end up here. 988 00:46:45,469 --> 00:46:46,720 I found my person. 989 00:46:51,975 --> 00:46:53,227 Will you marry me? 990 00:46:54,812 --> 00:46:56,814 [dramatic music playing]