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[dramatic music playing]
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[Chelsea sighs] Well, here goes nothing.
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-Hi!
-[Chelsea] Hi, Dad!
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Chelsea, how are you?
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I'm good. Thanks for coming.
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Oh, my goodness.
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-Hello, hello.
-Dad, this is Kwame.
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-This is my dad Charlie.
-Hey, Charlie.
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-Nice to meet you.
-Nice to meet you as well.
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-All right.
-Come on in.
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Dad, take a seat.
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We both got, you know, the opportunity
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to engage in this social love experiment.
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[Charlie] Mm-hmm.
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And we dated a lot of people.
We do not see one another.
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The idea is that you're kind of getting
to the core of your values.
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You're being vulnerable,
talking about your life, your stories.
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What made you who you are.
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[Charlie] Mm-hmm.
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Can we have this connection
beyond the physical?
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-Mm-hmm.
-[Chelsea] Um, and we did.
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It really just felt right.
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-[Charlie] Hmm.
-And the idea is, you know, is love blind?
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Can you fall in love with somebody
without ever seeing them?
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And we fell in love blind.
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And at the end,
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he proposed to me.
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Okay.
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-Um, and I said yes.
-[laughing]
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Oh, you did?
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[Kwame and Chelsea laughing]
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Well, isn't that something?
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[laughing]
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-I'm so happy for you, honey.
-Yeah, thanks, Dad.
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Oh, my gosh. Well, that's amazing.
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[both] Yeah.
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I'll be darned.
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Um, I'm shocked.
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Okay, guys, let's eat. Come on up.
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But I'm super hopeful that the rest
of my family will accept Kwame
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and will understand our connection
and our relationship.
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Just as much as my dad does.
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You're in Portland.
You're in Seattle. How's that gonna work?
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Our plan is to kind of stay here,
settle here for a couple of years.
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And then, who knows?
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-It's a lot of variables, a lot of work.
-[Chelsea] Yeah, it is.
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-[Kwame] Mm-hmm.
-But, uh, hey, life's too short.
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And it's better to be shared.
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-Yeah.
-Yeah, you got a teammate.
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-Yeah, you got a teammate.
-[Kwame] Yeah.
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It seems like you're in favor
of what we have going on,
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but just wanted to know from you, like,
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do-- do I have your blessing
to move forward?
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Absolutely.
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-You guys, I'm so happy for you.
-Thanks, Dad.
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-Well, thank you.
-Yeah.
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-Mmm! We love you, Dad. Thank you so much.
-Yeah, cheers, Charlie.
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-I'm so happy for you guys.
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-Thank you, Dad.
-[all laughing]
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You're getting a good deal on Chelsea.
I'll tell you a story--
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-You're get-- [laughing]
-You're getting a good deal.
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-Getting a discount.
-You're getting--
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[laughing]
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"You're getting a good deal
on my daughter."
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-[laughing]
-On sale!
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I love you so much, Kwame.
You can have her 75% off.
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[laughing]
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[pop music playing]
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♪ No one like you ♪
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-[Paul] So, how was the flight?
-[woman] Oh, it was great.
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It wasn't too long?
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It was not. And either I was running
on adrenaline or it just somehow…
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I had no anxiety. It was so much fun.
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No turbulence or anything.
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[Paul] I'm super excited
for Micah to meet my mom.
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She has flown in today.
She came all the way from New Orleans.
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-I can't wait for you to meet Micah.
-Oh, I can't wait. I can't wait!
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So, there wasn't a whole lot
of conversation between me and my mom
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on, like, who Micah was.
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Like, I wanted her to judge her
for herself, and I hope she likes her.
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What was it that drew you to her the most?
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What drew me to her initially was
actually, like, this intuitive feeling.
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To me, I know, like,
I can't talk to everyone like you can.
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[Elizabeth] Uh-huh.
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So, I know that if I can talk
to her like that,
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then there's something special there.
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Right.
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Hello? Hi!
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-[Elizabeth] Hi!
-[laughing] So nice to meet you.
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-[Elizabeth] You are gorgeous!
-You're so cute.
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-I might cry, and I'm not a crier.
-[laughs] I'm so excited!
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-[Paul] Come sit.
-Whew! That was tough. [laughs]
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-We have matching hair.
-[laughing]
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-Yeah.
-Oh, wow!
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[Micah] Oh, my God.
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[chuckles] Trying to make some room.
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[Elizabeth] Oh, nice.
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[chuckles] I cannot believe
you're engaged.
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-Yeah. [laughs]
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-I have wanted this for him for so long.
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I mean he's so-- Oh, such a sweetheart.
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-Hard to picture, huh?
-[Elizabeth] Yeah.
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-[laughing]
-[Elizabeth] Yeah.
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Well, because I'm the mom,
the helicopter mom.
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[laughing]
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[Elizabeth] I don't even know how
to start this. I'm a paralegal.
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And, um, you know,
I have a big tribe at home.
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And he's like the baby Jesus
of the family. He's the firstborn.
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And so, as soon as Paul said,
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"Yes, I met somebody,
and her name is Micah,"
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we went to town.
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And I was telling them, I'm like,
"I think we found Micah online."
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"But we're not sure."
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He's like, "Oh, really?
What do you think?"
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I'm like, "Well, I think her dad's name
is Paul. He lives in Mobile."
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His mom is a deep beautiful Christian
and owns a daycare."
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-"Anything else you wanna know?"
-[laughing] Oh, my gosh!
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Well, yeah.
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Just from her first name,
you figured all that out?
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-From her first name.
-Oh, my gosh. That's so funny.
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What was one of the first things
that you were like, "Oh, I like Paul?"
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[Micah] Yeah.
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We immediately were talking about travel
and just, like, our outlook on life.
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And, like, I think that was probably
the first thing that was like,
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"Oh, Paul's so exciting."
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But like, that, like, showed me,
kind of, like, what he wanted in life
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and what he saw as a future.
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And I was like,
"That's the exact same mindset I have."
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We are very different.
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-I'm very, like, hair, makeup.
-[Elizabeth] Kind of like me.
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[Micah] Yeah, yeah, like that.
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But he also, like,
has the ability to, like, ground me a bit.
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And I feel like it just,
like, balances me out really well.
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So, I just like how he, like, makes me…
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[Elizabeth] Aww!
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…behave and act and feel,
and just, like, that security.
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I feel like we actually love,
like, being with each other.
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Like, when we're not even, like, talking.
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We're like… I remember this morning,
you were like, "Where are you?"
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I was like, "I'm downstairs."
You're like, "I miss you."
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-[chuckles] I love that.
-[Micah laughs]
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I mean, y'all are perfect for this.
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Perfect fit.
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The work thing is going,
like, really well for me,
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and we're at the right age,
and clearly, I'm not dating anyone.
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[laughing]
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I think we're ready for it. Um…
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Paul, I've never seen you like this.
So, I'm like…
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How so?
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Like, just happy and in love and--
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'Cause, I mean, he hasn't really had,
like, an even potential fiancée.
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[Paul] Yeah, not really.
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-Yeah.
-[Elizabeth] So, this is huge.
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[Micah] I know. I'm excited.
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I feel like just, like, seeing you, like,
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somehow makes me, like, love Paul more.
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I don't know what it is, and I think
I just, like, see such a, like, fun life.
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I love her. I see why you love her.
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-I knew you would.
-[laughs] Oh, my God, you're so sweet.
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I mean it. I'm so serious.
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[Micah] I love that Paul,
you know, his mom and I are so similar.
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She is just about
the cutest thing I've ever seen.
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And I feel like it was just so easy
to, like, make a connection with her.
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And I've always really wanted,
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like, a good extended family
that I was really close with.
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And I feel, like, with her,
there's such a good possibility
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that we'd be, like, such good friends.
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Not only, like, mother-in-law,
like, daughter-in-law relationship.
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I'm just so happy
you made it down here to see us.
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It's so funny 'cause,
like, there's so many times
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where Paul and I have been like,
"You know, we're so different."
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"Like, I wonder
why we're so attracted to each other."
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[laughs] And it's, like, well, here we go.
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[laughs] You're marrying your mom.
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-You guys are so similar.
-[laughs] I love that he says that.
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-Oh, my God.
-[laughing]
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If you support us, then I'm happy.
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[Elizabeth] Total support.
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Gosh! I'm sorry. I've been
beside myself waiting for this day.
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[laughs] Oh, my gosh!
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-And you're even more adorable in person.
-Oh, that makes me so happy.
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-I'm happy I passed the background check.
-[Elizabeth laughing]
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[Micah] That would have
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-["Better Than a Dream" playing]
-♪ Better than a dream come true ♪
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♪ Better than a dream come true-ooh! ♪
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[Brett] Welcome.
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[Tiffany] Okay.
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This looks good.
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[Brett] So…
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Is this my future home?
Like, would I be moving into here?
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-[Brett chuckles] Yeah, yeah.
-[Tiffany] Look at all these shoes!
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[Brett] Tiffany was with a roommate,
so today we're checking out my apartment,
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so she can see if this is a place
that she would wanna live in.
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[sighs] Well,
where am I gonna put my shoes?
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[Brett] We can buy more boxes.
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I would say I'm just most nervous,
anxious, whatever you wanna call it,
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just about how, whenever she brings
in her stuff with my stuff,
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like, how are we gonna merge it together?
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[laughs]
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Is that your vacuum?
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-That is my vacuum.
-[beeps]
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-[Tiffany] What is this?
-It's a VR headset.
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Oh. Oh!
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-[Brett] Let me show you one other thing.
-What?
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It's all, like, uh,
controlled through an app.
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[Tiffany] Brett! Ooh!
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So this is--
you don't have to even hold this.
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It has, like,
a little tension rod in the back.
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So, you just…
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-Hmm! Where's your trash can?
-Right here.
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Everything in your place is so high-end.
Bougie Brett!
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-[Brett] It's all about efficiency.
-[Tiffany laughs] Okay.
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[Brett] Uh, bedroom. Nothing--
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-[Tiffany] Nice.
-[Brett] Nothing-- nothing crazy here.
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Oh! You're so freaking neat.
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-It's not that neat.
-I think it's neat.
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-Look at this.
-[Brett] It's not that neat.
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-[Tiffany] Oh!
-[Brett] More shoes, yes.
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Okay, so you only have two closets?
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-Yeah.
-The one with…
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-All my photography stuff.
-And this one.
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So, closet space for us
definitely would be a little bit of a…
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a thing.
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-I mean, even the computer space.
-Mm-hmm.
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Where would I work?
Like, would I set up a desk right here?
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If you like this building,
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like I said, what I could do is just
move into a bigger unit in this building.
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-Okay.
-So a two or three-bedroom or something.
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[Tiffany] Um…
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[Brett] Anyway, that's the tour.
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-[Tiffany] I like it.
-That's the space.
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00:10:36,510 --> 00:10:38,220
I could work with this.
234
00:10:39,180 --> 00:10:40,056
I could.
235
00:10:40,681 --> 00:10:43,684
I'm really excited about moving in here.
236
00:10:44,935 --> 00:10:46,646
-Are you nervous?
-No.
237
00:10:46,729 --> 00:10:49,982
Like, when I say that,
that doesn't scare you?
238
00:10:51,317 --> 00:10:54,820
No. Like, if anything,
I've been doing my own thing for so long.
239
00:10:54,904 --> 00:10:55,738
Yeah.
240
00:10:55,821 --> 00:10:58,824
-Like, I'm excited, actually.
-Mm-hmm.
241
00:10:59,909 --> 00:11:02,870
I can… I can see myself living here.
242
00:11:02,953 --> 00:11:05,081
-[quietly] That's what I wanna hear.
-[laughs]
243
00:11:05,164 --> 00:11:07,875
-[pop music playing]
-♪ Na-na-na-na-na, there's no stopping ♪
244
00:11:07,958 --> 00:11:10,002
♪ We can have it all ♪
245
00:11:10,086 --> 00:11:12,463
♪ We can have it all ♪
246
00:11:12,546 --> 00:11:14,256
♪ In our castle of love… ♪
247
00:11:14,340 --> 00:11:15,466
[knock on door]
248
00:11:17,218 --> 00:11:18,094
[exhales]
249
00:11:23,516 --> 00:11:24,850
-Hi.
-Hey.
250
00:11:24,934 --> 00:11:26,310
-How are you?
-Good.
251
00:11:26,394 --> 00:11:28,229
-It's good to see you.
-You too.
252
00:11:29,647 --> 00:11:34,735
Bliss and I, we had a lot of chemistry
in our first date in the real world.
253
00:11:34,819 --> 00:11:37,655
I didn't expect the connection
was gonna be that strong.
254
00:11:38,656 --> 00:11:41,450
And I already know
that the psychological is there,
255
00:11:41,534 --> 00:11:43,202
and the emotional is there.
256
00:11:43,285 --> 00:11:46,831
There's your little owl painting.
Who painted that for you?
257
00:11:47,498 --> 00:11:51,377
-Is it a painting? Or a graphic?
-A local artist in Seattle did it for me.
258
00:11:51,877 --> 00:11:52,837
[Bliss] It's cool.
259
00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:55,923
I'm probably notorious
for not striking when the iron's hot.
260
00:11:56,006 --> 00:11:59,719
But truthfully, I just wanna spend
as much time with Bliss as possible.
261
00:11:59,802 --> 00:12:01,721
Because when we're together,
262
00:12:02,888 --> 00:12:03,806
it feels right.
263
00:12:03,889 --> 00:12:06,225
-And if you're in love with someone…
-[Bliss] Yes.
264
00:12:06,308 --> 00:12:09,228
…you've gotta… you've gotta express it.
265
00:12:09,311 --> 00:12:10,604
[Bliss] Can I help do anything?
266
00:12:10,688 --> 00:12:12,940
[Zack] I guess you could add
a little butter and salt
267
00:12:13,023 --> 00:12:14,275
and pepper to the mushrooms.
268
00:12:14,358 --> 00:12:16,944
[Bliss] It's funny
'cause baking is definitely my thing.
269
00:12:17,027 --> 00:12:18,362
-But cooking? [laughs]
-Really?
270
00:12:18,446 --> 00:12:20,906
-I need really specific instructions.
-I love cooking.
271
00:12:21,490 --> 00:12:22,742
[Bliss] So, how much butter?
272
00:12:22,825 --> 00:12:24,076
Just a small amount.
273
00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:27,955
-[Bliss laughs] How much? This much?
-You see the difference there?
274
00:12:28,038 --> 00:12:29,749
Uh, go with your instincts, Bliss.
275
00:12:29,832 --> 00:12:32,001
-[Bliss] Hmm. Okay.
-That's what I would do.
276
00:12:33,461 --> 00:12:36,630
I do wanna take cooking classes where
you learn how to do different things.
277
00:12:36,714 --> 00:12:38,507
That would actually be fun to do together.
278
00:12:38,591 --> 00:12:41,302
Oh, really? We'll see. [laughs]
279
00:12:41,385 --> 00:12:44,013
[Zack] Oh, no. Catastrophe has happened.
280
00:12:44,096 --> 00:12:45,222
What?
281
00:12:45,306 --> 00:12:46,724
[Zack] One of our steaks,
282
00:12:47,516 --> 00:12:49,393
the bag came open, and it's ruined.
283
00:12:49,477 --> 00:12:50,978
That one's yours, right?
284
00:12:51,061 --> 00:12:53,981
[Zack] Well, the good news is
we have one other steak.
285
00:12:54,482 --> 00:12:56,400
Let's hope the bag did not open
on that one.
286
00:12:56,484 --> 00:12:59,195
[laughs] We're just gonna have
weird steaks tonight.
287
00:12:59,737 --> 00:13:01,864
Oh. No, they're both ruined.
288
00:13:01,947 --> 00:13:03,032
[laughs] Really? Oh, no.
289
00:13:03,115 --> 00:13:04,492
Yep. Oh, man.
290
00:13:04,575 --> 00:13:06,410
[Bliss] Oh, no. It's a sign.
291
00:13:06,494 --> 00:13:09,622
-I should just go home.
-What a catastrophe!
292
00:13:09,705 --> 00:13:10,664
[both chuckle]
293
00:13:10,748 --> 00:13:12,833
I can't tell you how disheartened I am.
294
00:13:12,917 --> 00:13:14,460
It's okay. It's fine.
295
00:13:14,543 --> 00:13:17,546
Sometimes life is stupid that way.
296
00:13:17,630 --> 00:13:19,715
-[chuckles] It's okay.
-[Zack] I know.
297
00:13:20,382 --> 00:13:23,636
We can just have carrots
and the mushrooms.
298
00:13:23,719 --> 00:13:25,054
[Zack] And shrimp.
299
00:13:25,137 --> 00:13:26,722
How embarrassing is that?
300
00:13:27,556 --> 00:13:28,808
-It's okay.
-I'm…
301
00:13:29,391 --> 00:13:32,228
-It's pretty embarrassing.
-It's fine. Don't worry.
302
00:13:32,311 --> 00:13:35,981
I'm sure way more embarrassing things
have happened in your life.
303
00:13:36,065 --> 00:13:39,568
-Yeah, yeah. At least we have this shrimp.
-[sighs]
304
00:13:40,277 --> 00:13:41,695
And each other, right?
305
00:13:41,779 --> 00:13:43,823
Oh, I don't know. [laughs]
306
00:13:45,032 --> 00:13:46,784
We'll see. [laughs]
307
00:13:48,744 --> 00:13:51,664
[Zack] I'm really glad
that I overcompensated with the shrimp.
308
00:13:51,747 --> 00:13:54,291
-Yeah, you're, like-- [laughs]
-It was a legit backup plan.
309
00:13:54,375 --> 00:13:57,711
-This looks like a real meal, right?
-Yeah, it looks like a real meal.
310
00:13:57,795 --> 00:13:59,713
[Zack] Tell me what you think
of the carrots.
311
00:14:00,422 --> 00:14:02,258
-Okay.
-[Zack] I want honesty.
312
00:14:05,344 --> 00:14:07,054
-What do you think?
-[Bliss] Mm-hmm.
313
00:14:07,137 --> 00:14:09,515
I actually really am enjoying the carrots.
314
00:14:09,598 --> 00:14:12,977
-I tried goat cheese on the shrimp.
-It's just good on everything.
315
00:14:13,602 --> 00:14:15,396
-Probably not ice cream.
-Really?
316
00:14:15,479 --> 00:14:17,565
You've never had goat cheese ice cream?
317
00:14:17,648 --> 00:14:19,358
-That sounds so gross.
-[Bliss] What?
318
00:14:19,441 --> 00:14:20,943
-No, I haven't.
-It's so good.
319
00:14:22,611 --> 00:14:24,613
I know that I'm weird. I fully know that.
320
00:14:24,697 --> 00:14:26,031
-Yeah? Yeah.
-Yeah.
321
00:14:26,115 --> 00:14:27,908
I'm probably a little weirder.
322
00:14:27,992 --> 00:14:29,535
Yeah, probably.
323
00:14:29,618 --> 00:14:30,452
[laughing]
324
00:14:31,078 --> 00:14:32,663
Have you seen my bedroom?
325
00:14:32,746 --> 00:14:35,332
-No, I haven't. [chuckles]
-Oh, I'll show it to you later.
326
00:14:35,416 --> 00:14:38,294
-It's literally around the corner.
-[laughs] Okay. It's right there.
327
00:14:38,377 --> 00:14:42,172
Yeah, so, like, when you--
Um, I have these motion sensors.
328
00:14:42,256 --> 00:14:45,175
-Why?
-That will activate sounds.
329
00:14:45,259 --> 00:14:48,637
-Based on when you open a room.
-Wait, why? Like, what sounds?
330
00:14:48,721 --> 00:14:52,057
-'Cause it's just cool.
-Cool? You are weirder than me.
331
00:14:52,141 --> 00:14:53,017
Yeah, I know.
332
00:14:53,100 --> 00:14:56,145
If I wanted the Harry Potter song to play
when you opened my door.
333
00:14:56,228 --> 00:14:57,938
Oh, okay. That's approved.
334
00:14:58,022 --> 00:15:01,108
-I thought it'd be pretty cool.
-[Bliss] Yeah, that is cool.
335
00:15:01,191 --> 00:15:03,402
-[sighs] Anyway.
-[Zack] Your dress looks pretty.
336
00:15:03,485 --> 00:15:04,320
Thank you.
337
00:15:05,696 --> 00:15:08,908
-What?
-I don't know. I like looking at you.
338
00:15:08,991 --> 00:15:09,992
[Bliss] Hmm!
339
00:15:11,201 --> 00:15:15,039
I think this worked out pretty well
for how many things got fucked up.
340
00:15:15,539 --> 00:15:17,082
With us or the food?
341
00:15:17,166 --> 00:15:18,500
-Probably both, actually.
-Mm-hmm.
342
00:15:18,584 --> 00:15:21,962
It's actually like a metaphor
for our relationship. [laughing]
343
00:15:22,046 --> 00:15:25,132
-It's pretty accurate, right?
-Yeah, that cannot be a trend.
344
00:15:25,215 --> 00:15:28,344
[laughing] If this is gonna be anything,
that cannot be a trend.
345
00:15:28,427 --> 00:15:30,930
You get one fuck-up
by proposing to another girl,
346
00:15:31,013 --> 00:15:32,932
and then we'll see, you know.
347
00:15:34,224 --> 00:15:35,601
[Zack] I'm sorry.
348
00:15:35,684 --> 00:15:36,810
Oh! [exhales]
349
00:15:37,645 --> 00:15:39,772
I don't know. It's all right, I guess.
350
00:15:42,942 --> 00:15:44,735
I have to give you a hard time still.
351
00:15:44,818 --> 00:15:49,490
It's not, like, normal to, like, hang out
with someone that's just dumped you
352
00:15:49,573 --> 00:15:51,700
and got engaged to someone else, so…
353
00:15:52,868 --> 00:15:55,204
I'm gonna give you a little bit
of a hard time sometimes.
354
00:15:55,287 --> 00:15:57,748
-That's fair. I deserve it.
-Mm-hmm.
355
00:15:59,708 --> 00:16:01,168
[laughs]
356
00:16:01,251 --> 00:16:03,003
-Are you ready for dessert yet?
-[Bliss] Sure.
357
00:16:03,087 --> 00:16:08,175
I'm hesitant coming into the situation,
because he literally just broke my heart,
358
00:16:08,258 --> 00:16:10,803
and I definitely have my guard up.
359
00:16:14,515 --> 00:16:16,558
But there's just this vibe between us
360
00:16:16,642 --> 00:16:20,270
and this chemistry, and it's
bringing all the feels back. [chuckles]
361
00:16:20,938 --> 00:16:22,606
-Come here real quick.
-Why?
362
00:16:23,107 --> 00:16:24,358
We'll do a little dancing.
363
00:16:24,441 --> 00:16:25,985
-Oh, really?
-Practice. Yeah.
364
00:16:26,568 --> 00:16:27,403
Okay.
365
00:16:27,987 --> 00:16:28,821
One.
366
00:16:30,447 --> 00:16:32,074
Loosen your arms.
You're a little stressed.
367
00:16:32,157 --> 00:16:33,325
[Bliss] Wait, am I not loose?
368
00:16:33,409 --> 00:16:35,452
-You're a little too tight.
-Oh.
369
00:16:35,536 --> 00:16:37,913
A big part of me
does wanna pursue things with him
370
00:16:37,997 --> 00:16:40,040
because I deeply love him.
371
00:16:40,124 --> 00:16:42,584
The physical aspect definitely matters.
372
00:16:42,668 --> 00:16:43,752
But if the question is,
373
00:16:43,836 --> 00:16:47,172
can you really fall in love
without ever having seen someone?
374
00:16:48,173 --> 00:16:49,508
Absolutely. Yes.
375
00:16:49,591 --> 00:16:52,011
-[pop music playing]
-♪ At the end of the day ♪
376
00:16:52,094 --> 00:16:54,221
♪ You're the dream I have I can't shake ♪
377
00:16:54,304 --> 00:16:57,474
♪ You're the last call
That my heart makes ♪
378
00:16:57,558 --> 00:17:00,477
♪ At the end of the day ♪
379
00:17:00,561 --> 00:17:04,064
♪ You're the one I wanna come home to
You're the feeling that I can't lose… ♪
380
00:17:04,148 --> 00:17:05,107
[Zack] Other hand.
381
00:17:06,191 --> 00:17:09,028
Look at that.
You're like a professional already.
382
00:17:09,611 --> 00:17:12,156
-Have you ever done a dip?
-This is not an outfit for a dip.
383
00:17:12,239 --> 00:17:14,033
[laughing]
384
00:17:14,116 --> 00:17:15,367
Ooh!
385
00:17:16,035 --> 00:17:18,996
♪ At the end of the day ♪
386
00:17:19,079 --> 00:17:21,206
♪ You're the one I wanna come home to ♪
387
00:17:21,290 --> 00:17:24,043
♪ You're the feeling that I can't lose… ♪
388
00:17:29,131 --> 00:17:32,009
-[Kwame laughs] Are you ready?
-[Chelsea laughs] Yes.
389
00:17:32,092 --> 00:17:33,927
Oh, my God! I'm just kidding.
390
00:17:34,011 --> 00:17:36,013
[laughing]
391
00:17:36,638 --> 00:17:38,599
It's so cute in here.
392
00:17:38,682 --> 00:17:42,019
[Kwame] Yeah, welcome
to my Fortress of Solitude.
393
00:17:42,102 --> 00:17:43,395
I live in Portland, Oregon.
394
00:17:43,479 --> 00:17:45,939
It's a two-and-a-half-hour
to three-hour drive.
395
00:17:46,023 --> 00:17:48,275
We're gonna go get a few things
that I need to get.
396
00:17:48,358 --> 00:17:50,194
Most important is my work stuff,
397
00:17:50,277 --> 00:17:54,198
but also just get, like,
my clothes and my Xbox.
398
00:17:54,281 --> 00:17:57,159
You know what I mean?
Like, really starting to try
399
00:17:57,242 --> 00:18:00,162
to put things together
that will feel like I'm, you know,
400
00:18:00,245 --> 00:18:02,372
now coexisting in my home with my fiancée.
401
00:18:03,165 --> 00:18:04,416
Check out my fridge.
402
00:18:04,500 --> 00:18:05,959
-Super dope.
-Full of…
403
00:18:06,752 --> 00:18:09,296
-Wow!
-[both laughing]
404
00:18:09,379 --> 00:18:11,673
-[Chelsea] Baby, you're so saucy.
-[laughing]
405
00:18:11,757 --> 00:18:14,051
-[Chelsea] It's not too bad.
-[Kwame] So, I'm doing okay.
406
00:18:14,134 --> 00:18:16,136
[Chelsea] There's a wee bit of laundry
on the floor.
407
00:18:16,220 --> 00:18:17,179
[Kwame laughs]
408
00:18:17,262 --> 00:18:19,223
-Oh! [laughing]
-I had to pack, you know.
409
00:18:19,306 --> 00:18:21,683
I was running around,
throwing things around. Don't judge me!
410
00:18:21,767 --> 00:18:23,018
-My bed…
-Yeah.
411
00:18:23,102 --> 00:18:24,978
I sleep in maybe 12% of the time.
412
00:18:25,062 --> 00:18:27,439
-No way! You sleep right here?
-I sleep on the couch.
413
00:18:27,523 --> 00:18:31,652
So, when you wake up,
you just walk eight steps to your desk
414
00:18:31,735 --> 00:18:32,820
and start working.
415
00:18:32,903 --> 00:18:34,029
[laughs] Less.
416
00:18:34,113 --> 00:18:36,865
Yeah, this is where all the magic
is not happening.
417
00:18:37,991 --> 00:18:38,826
That's, uh…
418
00:18:40,244 --> 00:18:43,288
[laughing]
419
00:18:43,372 --> 00:18:46,125
I mean, we can open it,
but that's at your discretion.
420
00:18:46,208 --> 00:18:48,001
-Let's open it.
-There's a few things in there.
421
00:18:48,085 --> 00:18:49,962
-Let me just take a peek.
-Yeah.
422
00:18:51,630 --> 00:18:53,924
-[laughing]
-I have that same lube.
423
00:18:54,007 --> 00:18:56,051
[both laughing]
424
00:18:59,847 --> 00:19:03,183
Sometimes I'm like, "God damn,
we're the same person." [chuckles]
425
00:19:03,267 --> 00:19:04,309
[both continue laughing]
426
00:19:04,393 --> 00:19:09,356
I thought the lack of cleanliness
would bother me more than it does.
427
00:19:09,439 --> 00:19:12,192
He knows for the most part
where everything is.
428
00:19:12,693 --> 00:19:16,780
And I mean, the guy put my underwear
429
00:19:16,864 --> 00:19:18,866
and my bras and my socks,
430
00:19:18,949 --> 00:19:21,743
like, he organized,
when he, like, folded my laundry.
431
00:19:22,411 --> 00:19:24,746
He, like, organized my underwear drawer.
432
00:19:27,082 --> 00:19:28,625
It's, like, the sweetest thing ever.
433
00:19:29,668 --> 00:19:30,502
He has it in him.
434
00:19:31,170 --> 00:19:33,589
-[groans]
-You got some lotion right here.
435
00:19:33,672 --> 00:19:35,048
[laughing]
436
00:19:36,216 --> 00:19:38,760
Ma'am. [laughs]
437
00:19:38,844 --> 00:19:43,056
Bachelor pad.
Got the lotion and the towel.
438
00:19:43,140 --> 00:19:45,851
-That--
-[laughing]
439
00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:48,729
Within three feet of each other.
440
00:19:48,812 --> 00:19:51,356
Ma'am, come on, would I have-- Come on.
441
00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:53,150
[laughing]
442
00:19:53,233 --> 00:19:57,613
-Hey, you know what? Good for you.
-[laughing]
443
00:19:57,696 --> 00:19:59,031
This is comfy though.
444
00:19:59,114 --> 00:20:01,450
-You think this couch can be used?
-Yes.
445
00:20:02,117 --> 00:20:04,369
-Fantastic, let's keep the couch.
-Okay. Okay.
446
00:20:04,453 --> 00:20:06,496
-It's really beautiful here.
-It is.
447
00:20:06,580 --> 00:20:08,040
It's really, really dope.
448
00:20:08,665 --> 00:20:10,626
You know, I really love Portland.
449
00:20:10,709 --> 00:20:14,421
I really do. I know…
I'm, like, okay to move, you know.
450
00:20:14,504 --> 00:20:16,882
But I feel like…
[clears throat] …this is home.
451
00:20:16,965 --> 00:20:19,426
-[Chelsea] It's a very cool place, babe.
-[Kwame] Yeah.
452
00:20:19,509 --> 00:20:20,719
[Chelsea] I like it a lot.
453
00:20:20,802 --> 00:20:23,347
Does it make you think,
"Oh, I might move to Portland?"
454
00:20:24,056 --> 00:20:25,349
No, it doesn't.
455
00:20:27,893 --> 00:20:28,727
Yeah.
456
00:20:30,062 --> 00:20:31,313
-You know?
-Mm-hmm.
457
00:20:31,396 --> 00:20:36,360
I definitely think we're gonna settle
in Seattle, regardless of all the factors.
458
00:20:36,443 --> 00:20:39,613
I mean, it is where my family is, right?
Family is really important to me.
459
00:20:39,696 --> 00:20:42,241
And I don't work a remote job.
460
00:20:43,242 --> 00:20:47,037
Um, with Kwame working remotely,
it just kind of makes sense.
461
00:20:47,120 --> 00:20:51,291
You know this really is just,
like, my… my peace.
462
00:20:51,875 --> 00:20:54,419
-You know? So…
-Yeah.
463
00:20:54,503 --> 00:20:55,462
That's good.
464
00:20:55,963 --> 00:20:58,173
-That's what home should be.
-Yeah.
465
00:20:58,257 --> 00:21:00,425
That's what I want,
and that's what my home is like.
466
00:21:00,509 --> 00:21:02,302
That's what I want
our future home to be like.
467
00:21:04,346 --> 00:21:05,180
Yeah.
468
00:21:06,181 --> 00:21:08,183
I don't have any friends in Seattle.
469
00:21:08,267 --> 00:21:10,602
I play soccer four times a week
in Portland.
470
00:21:10,686 --> 00:21:12,562
Five times sometimes.
471
00:21:12,646 --> 00:21:16,900
I have a running path, and I run
that same path every day. [laughs]
472
00:21:16,984 --> 00:21:21,530
Sometimes I tend to compromise too much,
trying to merge my world with her world.
473
00:21:21,613 --> 00:21:24,366
It's taking some time to make it really
474
00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:26,285
all make sense.
475
00:21:26,368 --> 00:21:28,829
-[pop music playing]
-♪ We're building then learning ♪
476
00:21:28,912 --> 00:21:31,039
♪ Then breaking up ♪
477
00:21:31,999 --> 00:21:34,418
♪ Sometimes yes, sometimes no ♪
478
00:21:34,501 --> 00:21:36,503
♪ Easy come and go ♪
479
00:21:36,586 --> 00:21:38,588
♪ Letting you in, letting you in ♪
480
00:21:38,672 --> 00:21:41,550
♪ And you're pushing me out
Pushing me out ♪
481
00:21:41,633 --> 00:21:44,553
[Marshall] Guacamole and queso.
482
00:21:44,636 --> 00:21:45,554
You want queso?
483
00:21:46,054 --> 00:21:48,515
-I'm not a queso bitch.
-Sister's a vegetarian.
484
00:21:49,099 --> 00:21:50,142
Let me look at this pizza.
485
00:21:55,105 --> 00:21:58,150
[groans] I'm really stressed out.
I don't know, man.
486
00:21:58,900 --> 00:21:59,735
I don't know.
487
00:21:59,818 --> 00:22:02,904
I don't think I can do this.
Honestly, I'm really stressed out.
488
00:22:04,156 --> 00:22:06,408
-Stressed out about…?
-I'm really stressed out.
489
00:22:08,410 --> 00:22:09,494
This is a lot.
490
00:22:12,497 --> 00:22:14,041
Stressed out about meeting them?
491
00:22:14,124 --> 00:22:16,501
-Not meeting them. Like, that's whatever.
-[Marshall] Mm-hmm.
492
00:22:16,585 --> 00:22:19,129
But I'm just stressed out with everything.
493
00:22:19,963 --> 00:22:21,465
It's a lot. [sighs]
494
00:22:23,258 --> 00:22:24,968
[clears throat] I need a second.
495
00:22:25,052 --> 00:22:26,595
-[grunts]
-All right.
496
00:22:34,978 --> 00:22:38,815
I can give you some time. I can walk them
around the block or whatever and…
497
00:22:39,316 --> 00:22:42,277
No, it's fine. We can just knock it out.
498
00:22:43,195 --> 00:22:47,115
I would much rather you be
in a comfortable headspace
499
00:22:47,199 --> 00:22:48,367
than put you in a position--
500
00:22:48,450 --> 00:22:51,036
[Jackelina]
I'm in a comfortable headspace right now.
501
00:22:52,245 --> 00:22:53,955
Okay. [sighs]
502
00:22:54,039 --> 00:22:57,167
I think your energy
is making me even more stressed out.
503
00:22:57,250 --> 00:22:59,169
Okay, I'll…
504
00:23:00,170 --> 00:23:01,797
I'll go have a Coke and a smile.
505
00:23:02,381 --> 00:23:03,799
-[Jackelina] Coke and a smile.
-Yeah.
506
00:23:03,882 --> 00:23:04,841
-Do that.
-Cool.
507
00:23:07,594 --> 00:23:09,721
I'm gonna light this candle up too.
508
00:23:10,639 --> 00:23:12,808
[Marshall] Jackie has
a tendency to ruminate,
509
00:23:12,891 --> 00:23:17,229
and she tends to stay
in a mood for a long time.
510
00:23:17,312 --> 00:23:19,564
Longer than I would like.
511
00:23:19,648 --> 00:23:21,108
However, that's not up to me,
512
00:23:21,191 --> 00:23:24,277
and I'm just there, chilling, waiting.
513
00:23:24,945 --> 00:23:28,115
Waiting for her
to sort through her own feelings.
514
00:23:28,198 --> 00:23:29,699
Because I can do that for her.
515
00:23:29,783 --> 00:23:32,202
[Jackelina] I have a lot
of thinking to do.
516
00:23:33,703 --> 00:23:35,372
A lot of thinking.
517
00:23:36,498 --> 00:23:38,125
Since my family…
518
00:23:39,584 --> 00:23:41,503
you know, isn't really…
519
00:23:42,838 --> 00:23:44,714
behind me 100%.
520
00:23:45,215 --> 00:23:47,467
I need to make sure
still that they're good.
521
00:23:47,551 --> 00:23:49,761
Mm-hmm. Yeah.
522
00:23:49,845 --> 00:23:53,515
And my decision impacts that.
523
00:23:53,598 --> 00:23:57,018
And when I do say my answer,
I need to make sure that I'm okay
524
00:23:57,102 --> 00:23:59,563
with all the repercussions
that come after that.
525
00:23:59,646 --> 00:24:00,522
[Marshall] Absolutely.
526
00:24:00,605 --> 00:24:04,985
I just need to make sure
that I don't hurt the people that I love.
527
00:24:05,068 --> 00:24:08,238
They say families last forever,
and they, you know…
528
00:24:09,072 --> 00:24:11,867
Home is where you never get hurt.
But it's just, like…
529
00:24:13,493 --> 00:24:15,287
They're kinda hurting me right now.
530
00:24:17,122 --> 00:24:20,876
But it's about time that I step
and do what I need to do as an adult.
531
00:24:20,959 --> 00:24:22,085
[Marshall] Mm-hmm.
532
00:24:22,169 --> 00:24:25,964
I can't keep living by my family
and then not living my life.
533
00:24:29,342 --> 00:24:31,303
I'm stressed out.
534
00:24:31,386 --> 00:24:33,388
I have all these things coming
at me all at once.
535
00:24:33,472 --> 00:24:36,892
It's just, right now,
I'm just, like, going through it.
536
00:24:36,975 --> 00:24:38,768
I'm going through the emotions.
537
00:24:38,852 --> 00:24:44,024
My mom, she's not happy
that I got into this experiment.
538
00:24:44,107 --> 00:24:48,570
She's not happy that marriage
is gonna happen so quickly,
539
00:24:48,653 --> 00:24:49,905
and that's getting to me.
540
00:24:49,988 --> 00:24:52,407
And then on top of that,
I'm meeting family today,
541
00:24:52,491 --> 00:24:55,076
and I'm like,
I don't feel like I'm at my best self.
542
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:57,746
-[Marshall] Yo! Hey, Zoe!
-[man] How you doing?
543
00:24:57,829 --> 00:25:00,749
[Marshall] What's up, baby girl? Oh!
544
00:25:00,832 --> 00:25:02,918
I've been waiting all day for this.
545
00:25:03,001 --> 00:25:04,878
What's up, baby?
546
00:25:04,961 --> 00:25:06,463
[woman] Say, "Hi, Uncle Marsh."
547
00:25:06,546 --> 00:25:07,464
-Hey, Morg.
-Hey, Marsh.
548
00:25:07,547 --> 00:25:09,633
-What's up, buddy?
-[Morgan] You look nice.
549
00:25:09,716 --> 00:25:13,220
[Jackelina] But I gotta put
on a happy face, because I am happy.
550
00:25:13,303 --> 00:25:16,723
It's just right now in this moment,
everything is just, like, crumbling down,
551
00:25:16,806 --> 00:25:19,309
and I'm just like,
bro, like, I need a break.
552
00:25:19,392 --> 00:25:22,521
All right, look who it is.
Say hi to Jackie.
553
00:25:22,604 --> 00:25:24,105
-Hi, Jackie.
-Hi.
554
00:25:24,189 --> 00:25:26,316
Oh, my gosh, you're so cute!
555
00:25:26,399 --> 00:25:27,901
-Oh, my gosh.
-It's great to meet you.
556
00:25:27,984 --> 00:25:30,237
-It's so good to meet you.
-[Marshall] This is Ryan.
557
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:32,155
-Hi.
-[Ryan] Nice to meet you. How are you?
558
00:25:32,239 --> 00:25:33,156
Good, how are you?
559
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:36,034
-You're very beautiful.
-[Jackelina] Oh, thank you.
560
00:25:36,618 --> 00:25:38,328
-Y'all hungry?
-Yeah.
561
00:25:38,411 --> 00:25:40,330
[Marshall] Bet, we got some pizza.
562
00:25:40,413 --> 00:25:42,415
Which ones do you want?
You want a cucumber?
563
00:25:42,499 --> 00:25:43,458
Everything.
564
00:25:43,542 --> 00:25:44,626
We gotta eat!
565
00:25:44,709 --> 00:25:47,420
[Jackelina] I know all the good eats.
That's all we do is eat.
566
00:25:47,504 --> 00:25:51,341
-[Marshall] One thing we do, we be eating.
-So, is that how you bonded? How did you--
567
00:25:51,424 --> 00:25:54,636
-Yeah, that's what I wanna hear.
-I need to know everything.
568
00:25:54,719 --> 00:25:56,972
-Like, from the beginning.
-Yeah, how did we bond?
569
00:25:57,055 --> 00:26:00,559
Yo, all right. So, from day one,
I knew it was gonna be her.
570
00:26:00,642 --> 00:26:05,981
Like, we were dating all 15 people.
Fifteen on 15 basically.
571
00:26:06,064 --> 00:26:07,607
-We're just doing rounds.
-[Ryan] Mm-hmm.
572
00:26:07,691 --> 00:26:09,776
Um, it was hard for me
to go through the process,
573
00:26:09,859 --> 00:26:11,319
because I knew that it was her.
574
00:26:11,403 --> 00:26:14,155
Um, it was her or nothing,
for real, for real.
575
00:26:14,239 --> 00:26:15,198
Y'all know how I am.
576
00:26:15,282 --> 00:26:17,993
-[Morgan] Yeah.
-[Ryan laughs] We know how Marshall is.
577
00:26:18,076 --> 00:26:20,287
And so, like,
the other thing about Jackie is that she--
578
00:26:20,370 --> 00:26:22,664
that she was, like,
inspiring me to, like, write.
579
00:26:22,747 --> 00:26:24,666
You know how hard
it's been for me to write.
580
00:26:24,749 --> 00:26:26,918
So, I wrote poems, like,
for the first time in years.
581
00:26:27,002 --> 00:26:29,671
You know what I'm saying?
That's been really hard for me.
582
00:26:29,754 --> 00:26:32,674
And she brought that--
She, like, lit that fire under me.
583
00:26:32,757 --> 00:26:35,427
It's not just me.
You're, like, a creative man.
584
00:26:36,011 --> 00:26:38,221
-Well, I appreciate that.
-And they were beautiful.
585
00:26:38,305 --> 00:26:41,182
I really, like, came out being,
like, a much better person, so…
586
00:26:41,266 --> 00:26:42,434
-[Ryan] Wow.
-Yeah.
587
00:26:42,475 --> 00:26:45,895
-I mean, you seem much lighter.
-[Ryan] Yeah, I feel the aura.
588
00:26:45,979 --> 00:26:48,189
-I feel the energy for sure.
-[Ryan] It's good.
589
00:26:48,273 --> 00:26:51,776
Yeah, so, Jackie, did you have,
like, a similar, like, experience?
590
00:26:51,860 --> 00:26:55,488
So, he's taught me just to be more grown.
591
00:26:56,072 --> 00:26:59,659
He's a great listener. He's taught me,
like, sometimes I just have to sit
592
00:26:59,743 --> 00:27:02,954
in my feelings and really just
go through it instead of just reacting.
593
00:27:03,038 --> 00:27:03,872
[Ryan] Okay.
594
00:27:03,955 --> 00:27:07,208
I'm still learning. So, I'm gonna
obviously have, like, some slip-up days.
595
00:27:07,292 --> 00:27:09,294
But he's there to just be like,
596
00:27:09,377 --> 00:27:12,589
"Calm down.
Like, we're good. I'm here. I'm solid."
597
00:27:12,672 --> 00:27:16,259
And he'll let me just be for a little bit.
598
00:27:16,343 --> 00:27:19,179
If I get, like, too over…
I'm just, like, I need to be with myself.
599
00:27:19,262 --> 00:27:22,724
Like, he does. He gives me that space,
and that's what I need.
600
00:27:22,807 --> 00:27:25,435
This is not something light.
This is serious.
601
00:27:25,518 --> 00:27:28,730
-Marriage is biblical. That's serious.
-[Ryan] 100%.
602
00:27:29,230 --> 00:27:32,942
I need to make sure I'm the best
version of me when I say yeah.
603
00:27:33,026 --> 00:27:36,738
Even through the wall, it was just,
like, so captivating, you know.
604
00:27:36,821 --> 00:27:38,823
-Yeah.
-Oh, captivating.
605
00:27:38,907 --> 00:27:40,909
-[Marshall] Yeah. Yeah.
-That's a good one.
606
00:27:40,992 --> 00:27:43,662
[Ryan] It's like y'all are
merging in one, you know.
607
00:27:43,745 --> 00:27:46,831
-Just going through the whole time. Huh?
-Oh, look at us.
608
00:27:47,332 --> 00:27:48,625
Special!
609
00:27:48,708 --> 00:27:50,543
-We knew we were special.
-Yeah.
610
00:27:50,627 --> 00:27:53,004
He's not playing.
Like, he's actually in love.
611
00:27:53,088 --> 00:27:56,257
His aura and his energy just seems
to be radiating,
612
00:27:56,341 --> 00:27:57,592
soon as we came in the house.
613
00:27:57,676 --> 00:27:59,761
I can definitely see
that he really likes her a lot,
614
00:27:59,844 --> 00:28:02,389
and he's definitely trying his best
to really be present,
615
00:28:02,472 --> 00:28:04,182
and in the moment in this experiment,
616
00:28:04,766 --> 00:28:08,144
just to make sure that he's making
the right decision for himself, you know,
617
00:28:08,228 --> 00:28:12,315
when it comes time
to be at the altar and say yes or no.
618
00:28:12,399 --> 00:28:14,192
-[laughs]
-That's for life. That's for life.
619
00:28:14,275 --> 00:28:17,487
They both seem
to really, you know, take this seriously
620
00:28:17,570 --> 00:28:19,656
and know that marriage is a big deal.
621
00:28:19,739 --> 00:28:20,990
I mean, they better.
622
00:28:21,074 --> 00:28:22,826
Right? [laughs]
623
00:28:22,909 --> 00:28:25,412
And thank you, guys, for being so gracious
624
00:28:25,495 --> 00:28:26,788
and so open-armed
625
00:28:26,871 --> 00:28:30,750
and just letting me come in
and share in Marshall.
626
00:28:30,834 --> 00:28:32,210
-I really appreciate that.
-[laughs]
627
00:28:32,293 --> 00:28:34,170
'Cause I was like, they could be like,
628
00:28:34,254 --> 00:28:37,590
"Nah, no. No way.
You ain't coming near us."
629
00:28:37,674 --> 00:28:39,384
-Knuckle up. Knuckle up.
-For real.
630
00:28:39,467 --> 00:28:41,678
[Morgan] But I mean, like, Marshall, like,
631
00:28:41,761 --> 00:28:44,681
he's a very genuine, caring person.
632
00:28:44,764 --> 00:28:47,726
And anybody that he's gonna propose to,
633
00:28:47,809 --> 00:28:51,187
I know they have to be,
you know, amazing themselves.
634
00:28:51,271 --> 00:28:54,607
So, I was just really,
you know, excited to see you,
635
00:28:54,691 --> 00:28:56,443
to meet you, to get to know you.
636
00:28:57,068 --> 00:28:58,695
So, is love truly blind?
637
00:29:00,405 --> 00:29:02,157
Yeah, I would say yeah.
638
00:29:02,657 --> 00:29:03,575
For sure.
639
00:29:04,075 --> 00:29:09,956
-["Still Water" by Tyrone Wells playing]
-♪ Will you let me be your sanctuary? ♪
640
00:29:10,039 --> 00:29:11,833
♪ Close your eyes ♪
641
00:29:11,916 --> 00:29:15,128
♪ I'll keep you safe and sound ♪
642
00:29:15,211 --> 00:29:17,881
♪ Let me be your still water ♪
643
00:29:17,964 --> 00:29:18,923
[Paul] Are you ready?
644
00:29:19,549 --> 00:29:22,677
[laughing] Oh, my goodness.
645
00:29:22,761 --> 00:29:23,845
What do you think?
646
00:29:26,055 --> 00:29:28,391
[Micah] Oh, my God, it's so you.
647
00:29:29,851 --> 00:29:31,060
Oh, my goodness.
648
00:29:31,144 --> 00:29:34,481
-What do you think of these couches?
-Oh, my gosh.
649
00:29:34,564 --> 00:29:36,149
Where'd you get your couches?
650
00:29:36,232 --> 00:29:39,986
Um, this one's Craigslist,
and that one was on the side of the road.
651
00:29:40,069 --> 00:29:42,071
-[both laugh]
-On the side of the…
652
00:29:42,155 --> 00:29:45,116
-[laughing]
-I'm not joking.
653
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:48,161
[laughing]
654
00:29:48,244 --> 00:29:51,164
I think that there's a very good chance
that I'm gonna be Paul's fiancée…
655
00:29:51,247 --> 00:29:53,416
[laughs] …and stylist at the same time.
656
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,252
Oh, my God.
Your little work-from-home space?
657
00:29:56,336 --> 00:29:59,380
-Yeah, that's my office.
-[both laugh]
658
00:29:59,464 --> 00:30:02,258
-[Paul] Could you work there?
-Don't know if this looks comfortable.
659
00:30:02,342 --> 00:30:03,593
-A knife?
-A pack of knives.
660
00:30:04,969 --> 00:30:07,347
Yeah, wait, why is there one
on every single table here?
661
00:30:07,430 --> 00:30:08,431
-I'm scared.
-I don't know.
662
00:30:09,015 --> 00:30:11,100
[Micah] What do you think's
gonna happen around here?
663
00:30:11,184 --> 00:30:14,938
I would get rid of, like,
all the different, like, color woods.
664
00:30:15,021 --> 00:30:15,939
[laughs]
665
00:30:16,022 --> 00:30:17,190
A new desk,
666
00:30:17,273 --> 00:30:20,485
a different couch, like, a different TV,
maybe mount something?
667
00:30:20,568 --> 00:30:23,071
[laughs] Aww.
668
00:30:23,154 --> 00:30:24,906
[Paul] As bad as you thought
or is it better?
669
00:30:25,490 --> 00:30:27,867
[Micah] I don't really know
what I was picturing, actually.
670
00:30:27,951 --> 00:30:30,286
Get, like, some art,
a different bed frame.
671
00:30:30,370 --> 00:30:32,956
Change, like,
literally everything, probably. [laughs]
672
00:30:33,039 --> 00:30:36,334
That's, like, an incredibly small closet.
Interesting.
673
00:30:36,417 --> 00:30:40,171
Like, these are the clothes
that I mainly wear. So, these and--
674
00:30:40,255 --> 00:30:43,049
You keep the clothes that you wear
right there on the top of the dresser?
675
00:30:43,132 --> 00:30:45,343
-I just like to be able to see them.
-Yeah, okay.
676
00:30:45,426 --> 00:30:46,678
-Paul.
-[Paul] What's that?
677
00:30:46,761 --> 00:30:50,056
-Is this your grandfather's? [laughing]
-Yeah. [laughs]
678
00:30:50,139 --> 00:30:52,642
Don't worry about it. [laughing]
679
00:30:52,725 --> 00:30:56,896
-Paul, what year…
-[both laughing]
680
00:30:59,148 --> 00:31:01,860
Oh, my God, I'm gonna have a stroke.
681
00:31:02,902 --> 00:31:05,572
[Paul] I always feel like I'm going
to a funeral when I wear this one.
682
00:31:05,655 --> 00:31:08,408
Wow. Okay, let's leave that here.
683
00:31:08,491 --> 00:31:09,325
[Paul] Yeah.
684
00:31:09,951 --> 00:31:13,037
-Very eclectic sense of style.
-It just keeps on giving.
685
00:31:13,121 --> 00:31:15,915
[chuckles] Oh, my God.
I think that's enough of that.
686
00:31:16,583 --> 00:31:17,834
Oh, my goodness.
687
00:31:19,085 --> 00:31:21,588
Well, what do you think?
688
00:31:21,671 --> 00:31:23,047
[laughing]
689
00:31:23,131 --> 00:31:26,801
It's very you. Like, if I came in,
and your place was perfectly decorated,
690
00:31:26,885 --> 00:31:28,678
I'd be like, "Who did this?"
691
00:31:28,761 --> 00:31:29,846
-[Paul] Right.
-You know?
692
00:31:29,929 --> 00:31:31,806
Could you see yourself living here?
693
00:31:32,599 --> 00:31:33,725
Um…
694
00:31:36,978 --> 00:31:39,272
I think that
if we were planning on staying,
695
00:31:39,355 --> 00:31:41,774
like, in Seattle for, like, long-term,
696
00:31:41,858 --> 00:31:44,110
I probably wouldn't wanna stay here.
697
00:31:45,236 --> 00:31:48,781
Just 'cause, like, office space.
I'd probably want at least two bedrooms.
698
00:31:48,865 --> 00:31:52,535
Just so we can have space, especially
if you're gonna be working from home.
699
00:31:52,619 --> 00:31:53,912
We have your place here,
700
00:31:53,995 --> 00:31:56,706
I have my place here,
and then the place in Arizona.
701
00:31:56,789 --> 00:32:00,168
-Yeah.
-Then we would just get rid of this.
702
00:32:03,087 --> 00:32:05,423
A good tentative plan would be, like,
703
00:32:05,506 --> 00:32:10,511
to kind of, like, bounce back and forth
between here and, like, Arizona.
704
00:32:11,220 --> 00:32:12,096
[Paul] No.
705
00:32:13,139 --> 00:32:15,224
I know. I'm joking, but also not.
706
00:32:15,308 --> 00:32:18,227
-["Tryst" by I, Us, & We playing]
-♪ Love and be strong ♪
707
00:32:19,187 --> 00:32:21,314
♪ Love cannot fade… ♪
708
00:32:21,397 --> 00:32:23,358
If you give it a chance, like, fine.
709
00:32:23,441 --> 00:32:26,569
Like, what would, like,
upset me is you not, like, trying.
710
00:32:26,653 --> 00:32:27,487
Yeah.
711
00:32:28,154 --> 00:32:32,116
Um, follow up with an email,
if you could, after this meeting.
712
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,744
♪ And I can't shake this game ♪
713
00:32:34,827 --> 00:32:39,499
Oh no, it's-- it's hard getting through,
like, the tough, like, real conversations.
714
00:32:39,582 --> 00:32:43,836
I'm a little worried that Paul won't,
you know, give Arizona a chance.
715
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:47,256
He needs to be in Seattle for work,
and he has his place here,
716
00:32:47,340 --> 00:32:51,260
and I also have my place in Arizona,
um, and I split my time.
717
00:32:51,344 --> 00:32:53,680
So, we kind of need to figure out
where we're gonna live.
718
00:32:53,763 --> 00:32:57,350
It's just weird, like, looking at him,
like, when we're talking seriously.
719
00:32:57,433 --> 00:32:59,435
I almost feel like
he's a different person.
720
00:32:59,519 --> 00:33:03,022
I'm just like, "Who is that?"
Like, you know what I mean?
721
00:33:03,106 --> 00:33:05,733
But I think that we're gonna have to,
like, work through that
722
00:33:05,817 --> 00:33:07,276
and be able to compromise.
723
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,237
This is the side that is stressful.
724
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,197
-Yeah.
-And it's, like, it's real stress.
725
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,616
And I think
that I'm feeling that right now.
726
00:33:13,700 --> 00:33:16,244
-And I imagine you probably are as well.
-Mm-hmm.
727
00:33:17,662 --> 00:33:18,496
Yeah.
728
00:33:20,623 --> 00:33:26,129
♪ Call it a tryst, feelings I missed ♪
729
00:33:26,212 --> 00:33:28,589
♪ Now you're loved ♪
730
00:33:35,596 --> 00:33:37,682
I still have not gotten
a chance to talk to my mom.
731
00:33:37,765 --> 00:33:38,975
-Yeah.
-[Kwame] You know?
732
00:33:40,435 --> 00:33:45,064
[chuckles] So, I'm not sure if she knows
733
00:33:45,148 --> 00:33:46,983
and just isn't picking up
or what the case?
734
00:33:47,066 --> 00:33:49,944
I don't think that's the case.
I know some parts of me just think like--
735
00:33:50,028 --> 00:33:52,822
I mean, I feel pretty confident
about things.
736
00:33:52,905 --> 00:33:56,534
I'm like, "Yeah, sure she'll be fine."
But at the same time, will she?
737
00:33:56,617 --> 00:33:57,618
You know?
738
00:33:57,702 --> 00:33:59,287
So I'm gonna give her another call.
739
00:34:00,204 --> 00:34:02,123
[Chelsea] Am I able to be a part of that?
740
00:34:02,206 --> 00:34:03,624
You wanna talk to her?
741
00:34:05,626 --> 00:34:07,378
It's-- It's your mom.
742
00:34:07,462 --> 00:34:09,005
-I-- I don't know her.
-Yeah.
743
00:34:09,088 --> 00:34:12,675
Obviously, I would love to, uh,
if it was the right opportunity.
744
00:34:12,759 --> 00:34:14,719
-[Kwame] Yeah.
-And in the right moment.
745
00:34:14,802 --> 00:34:17,430
I'd obviously love
to introduce you to her, you know.
746
00:34:17,513 --> 00:34:20,683
Um, I just think this first conversation's
gotta be from me.
747
00:34:20,767 --> 00:34:21,976
All right.
748
00:34:22,060 --> 00:34:24,479
[line ringing]
749
00:34:28,441 --> 00:34:30,151
Do you have a minute to talk?
750
00:34:31,152 --> 00:34:34,530
So, uh, I wanted to just let you know
751
00:34:34,614 --> 00:34:37,408
that I did find someone in the experiment.
752
00:34:37,492 --> 00:34:40,036
Um, her name was Chelsea.
753
00:34:40,119 --> 00:34:44,540
And, um, you know,
I did take the step forward and,
754
00:34:45,124 --> 00:34:48,544
uh, ask her, uh, for her hand in marriage.
755
00:34:49,337 --> 00:34:51,798
And so, I wanted to
756
00:34:53,049 --> 00:34:55,927
kind of just take a chance to tell you,
757
00:34:56,010 --> 00:34:59,013
um, about that experience and where I am.
758
00:35:05,812 --> 00:35:06,938
You're mad?
759
00:35:08,689 --> 00:35:12,485
All right, Mom.
I appreciate your honesty, as usual.
760
00:35:12,568 --> 00:35:15,613
It's a tough situation for a mom
to walk into things like this.
761
00:35:15,696 --> 00:35:17,448
You know, I don't disagree with you.
762
00:35:18,032 --> 00:35:20,576
So, I understand.
I understand where you're coming from.
763
00:35:20,660 --> 00:35:23,746
So, I'll respect that,
but I do think we should, uh…
764
00:35:24,247 --> 00:35:26,541
We should talk
about this again sometime. Bye.
765
00:35:26,624 --> 00:35:28,584
[line beeps]
766
00:35:33,506 --> 00:35:34,423
[exhales]
767
00:35:37,176 --> 00:35:38,094
Didn't go well.
768
00:35:41,681 --> 00:35:44,308
My mom's been
a big part of my life. Massive.
769
00:35:44,392 --> 00:35:45,560
She said that,
770
00:35:46,394 --> 00:35:47,478
as a mother,
771
00:35:48,062 --> 00:35:50,314
as someone who… [chuckles]
772
00:35:51,357 --> 00:35:53,484
…you know, would expect more from me.
773
00:35:54,152 --> 00:35:56,070
Um, I didn't do the right thing.
774
00:35:56,154 --> 00:35:58,906
She doesn't think
that I used my head in this situation.
775
00:35:58,990 --> 00:36:01,826
Um, and that, um,
776
00:36:03,494 --> 00:36:06,080
she can't really say
that she's happy for me.
777
00:36:06,164 --> 00:36:08,833
I mean, that's a little tough
to hear, you know.
778
00:36:08,916 --> 00:36:10,918
Yeah, I'm really sorry. That's…
779
00:36:11,919 --> 00:36:13,004
Yeah, I mean…
780
00:36:13,087 --> 00:36:15,089
…heartbreaking, really. [exhales]
781
00:36:15,173 --> 00:36:18,134
Well, I mean, I told her. I said, "Hey…"
782
00:36:21,095 --> 00:36:23,306
"You have to understand
that the decisions that I've made
783
00:36:23,389 --> 00:36:25,224
for myself in life have been good ones."
784
00:36:25,892 --> 00:36:29,020
"I accepted all the failures
in order to find the successes."
785
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:33,858
"So, I believe that I make
the right choices for myself."
786
00:36:36,068 --> 00:36:38,696
"And I believe I made the right choice
for myself this time as well."
787
00:36:39,864 --> 00:36:40,698
So…
788
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:46,162
-It's only uphill from here.
-[laughs]
789
00:36:46,245 --> 00:36:48,956
-It's only uphill from here.
-I'm sorry, baby.
790
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:50,249
[Kwame laughs]
791
00:36:54,587 --> 00:36:55,588
It's gotta hurt.
792
00:37:04,222 --> 00:37:05,056
Yeah.
793
00:37:05,139 --> 00:37:06,682
[slow-tempo music playing]
794
00:37:09,101 --> 00:37:13,272
♪ Come with me to my lonely world ♪
795
00:37:13,356 --> 00:37:15,316
♪ Come ♪
796
00:37:18,277 --> 00:37:20,071
♪ Come ♪
797
00:37:23,032 --> 00:37:24,492
♪ Come with me ♪
798
00:37:25,117 --> 00:37:26,702
♪ Come with me ♪
799
00:37:29,455 --> 00:37:31,457
♪ To my lonely world ♪
800
00:37:31,540 --> 00:37:33,084
Ooh!
801
00:37:34,085 --> 00:37:35,336
[laughing]
802
00:37:35,419 --> 00:37:37,713
-Your turn to cook tonight?
-[Tiffany] It is.
803
00:37:37,797 --> 00:37:41,217
-I gotta put in some work, right?
-[Brett] Where did you learn how to cook?
804
00:37:41,300 --> 00:37:42,468
Food Network.
805
00:37:42,969 --> 00:37:44,679
-Really?
-And my mom. [laughs]
806
00:37:44,762 --> 00:37:47,306
I hope it won't make you nervous
if I just kinda…
807
00:37:47,390 --> 00:37:51,602
This is my first meal for you.
So yeah, I'm a little nervous.
808
00:37:51,686 --> 00:37:54,146
[Brett] No pressure.
I have the utmost confidence.
809
00:37:54,230 --> 00:37:56,232
-Do you? Okay.
-[Brett] In your cooking ability.
810
00:37:56,315 --> 00:37:57,733
-[Tiffany] Okay.
-[chuckles]
811
00:37:57,817 --> 00:38:01,320
So, Brett, I was thinking about, like…
812
00:38:02,989 --> 00:38:04,490
What are we, two weeks?
813
00:38:04,573 --> 00:38:06,492
-Two weeks away from our wedding.
-[clears throat]
814
00:38:06,575 --> 00:38:09,328
-That's crazy to think, ain't it?
-[gasping] I know.
815
00:38:09,412 --> 00:38:12,415
Um, so, I think
I'm just trying to understand, like,
816
00:38:12,498 --> 00:38:15,626
what our lifestyle
would look like out there.
817
00:38:15,710 --> 00:38:16,711
[Brett] Mm-hmm.
818
00:38:16,794 --> 00:38:19,005
I'm comfortable and happy,
819
00:38:19,588 --> 00:38:22,675
like, with what I'm spending,
how much I'm making.
820
00:38:22,758 --> 00:38:25,845
How about you? Like, do you feel
like you're overextended…
821
00:38:26,345 --> 00:38:27,179
-No.
-…in your…
822
00:38:27,763 --> 00:38:30,599
-No?
-[Brett] No. I'm a really simple person.
823
00:38:30,683 --> 00:38:32,018
[pan sizzling]
824
00:38:32,101 --> 00:38:33,060
[Tiffany] Really?
825
00:38:35,646 --> 00:38:38,941
-With…?
-Your eyes look like all kind of doubt.
826
00:38:39,025 --> 00:38:42,695
I mean, you do, you know,
you dress very nice, Brett.
827
00:38:42,778 --> 00:38:44,864
I know that stuff ain't cheap. [chuckles]
828
00:38:44,947 --> 00:38:46,949
I looked at some of your wardrobe,
829
00:38:47,033 --> 00:38:50,953
and I was like,
"Oh. Oh, he's spending the big bucks."
830
00:38:51,037 --> 00:38:52,371
[laughs]
831
00:38:55,916 --> 00:38:58,878
I'm not gonna lie.
Yeah, do I have a few things that…
832
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,049
I spent some money on? Of course.
833
00:39:03,132 --> 00:39:06,844
What is the most you spent
on a certain item?
834
00:39:08,596 --> 00:39:10,097
I would say…
835
00:39:15,853 --> 00:39:17,146
Well…
836
00:39:18,272 --> 00:39:20,149
The most expensive thing
837
00:39:20,232 --> 00:39:22,777
that I've bought that isn't, like, tech,
838
00:39:22,860 --> 00:39:25,029
because that stuff
is generally gonna be expensive.
839
00:39:25,112 --> 00:39:25,946
[Tiffany] Mm-hmm.
840
00:39:26,030 --> 00:39:29,408
Uh, I got some expensive luggage.
841
00:39:30,826 --> 00:39:32,119
How much did you pay for it?
842
00:39:32,828 --> 00:39:36,999
Like, at least, like, my carry--
yeah, my, uh, check bag was, like,
843
00:39:37,875 --> 00:39:38,834
$1,200?
844
00:39:38,918 --> 00:39:41,128
Brett! No!
845
00:39:41,212 --> 00:39:44,048
-[laughing]
-Are you kidding me? Luggage?
846
00:39:47,968 --> 00:39:49,428
But it'll last.
847
00:39:49,512 --> 00:39:52,014
-It should. It better.
-And-- And it looks good.
848
00:39:52,098 --> 00:39:54,350
-[laughs]
-Bougie Brett.
849
00:39:54,433 --> 00:39:56,018
[laughing]
850
00:39:56,102 --> 00:39:59,814
You are, like, this creative too.
851
00:39:59,897 --> 00:40:04,485
Like, I think you have very good style
and very good taste.
852
00:40:04,568 --> 00:40:07,405
I just wanna make sure
it's within the budget
853
00:40:07,488 --> 00:40:09,448
I feel comfortable with spending.
854
00:40:09,532 --> 00:40:10,533
Here's my thing.
855
00:40:10,616 --> 00:40:12,910
I don't need to know
everything you spend things on,
856
00:40:12,993 --> 00:40:14,578
just as long as you pay the bills.
857
00:40:15,246 --> 00:40:16,622
Um, and to be honest,
858
00:40:16,705 --> 00:40:20,918
I don't want somebody telling me
how I should be spending my money,
859
00:40:21,001 --> 00:40:22,628
because I'm doing okay already.
860
00:40:24,004 --> 00:40:26,507
[Brett] In terms of,
like, our bills, like,
861
00:40:27,299 --> 00:40:29,427
it doesn't have to be
down the middle for me.
862
00:40:29,510 --> 00:40:32,596
I'd be fine with saying,
"Well, I'll get 75% of this."
863
00:40:33,139 --> 00:40:35,349
-Or 60-40.
-Oh, yeah.
864
00:40:36,308 --> 00:40:37,351
-Yeah.
-You know, whatever.
865
00:40:37,435 --> 00:40:41,230
If we, you know, said that
there's a few bills or certain bills.
866
00:40:41,313 --> 00:40:43,983
Like, I don't know if it's a rent
or mortgage or something like that.
867
00:40:44,066 --> 00:40:46,444
If we wanted to pay together to avoid the…
868
00:40:46,527 --> 00:40:50,698
"I paid, and you pay me back.
Or you paid, and I pay you back."
869
00:40:50,781 --> 00:40:53,159
-That feels like a roommate situation.
-Exactly.
870
00:40:53,242 --> 00:40:55,411
I pay you.
Then I'm looking at you like, "Hey, babe."
871
00:40:55,494 --> 00:40:57,329
"Like, when you gonna
pay me my half back?"
872
00:40:57,413 --> 00:41:00,207
-You better send me that Venmo real quick.
-Exactly.
873
00:41:00,291 --> 00:41:04,003
[laughs] I don't wanna
be sending Venmo requests.
874
00:41:04,086 --> 00:41:07,047
-[laughing] Oh, my God, I know.
-To my wife for our mortgage payment.
875
00:41:07,131 --> 00:41:09,425
That does not sound
like something I wanna do.
876
00:41:09,508 --> 00:41:13,262
Real quick side note.
You are burning up this kitchen.
877
00:41:13,345 --> 00:41:16,182
-[Tiffany] Oh, well, because-- Oh!
-[laughing]
878
00:41:16,891 --> 00:41:17,808
[Tiffany] Mm.
879
00:41:19,310 --> 00:41:21,061
Ooh!
880
00:41:21,145 --> 00:41:24,106
-[Brett] Whoa!
-[both laughing]
881
00:41:24,190 --> 00:41:25,983
[pop music playing]
882
00:41:29,987 --> 00:41:32,281
♪ All I know is all I want is you ♪
883
00:41:35,075 --> 00:41:37,453
-At least the sun's coming out.
-A little bit.
884
00:41:37,536 --> 00:41:39,288
-Yeah, it is.
-Our ghost pilot is…
885
00:41:40,122 --> 00:41:43,334
-[Bliss laughs] Ghost pilot. It is trippy.
-[Zack] Ghost captain.
886
00:41:43,417 --> 00:41:47,046
It literally feels like there is a gremlin
or something in there.
887
00:41:48,047 --> 00:41:49,840
-Gremlin?
-Like, you know, from--
888
00:41:49,924 --> 00:41:50,799
[Zack] I do. I do.
889
00:41:50,883 --> 00:41:54,970
I don't know if I was born when that
came out, but I watched it at some point.
890
00:41:55,054 --> 00:41:58,015
It's like the little-- What are they
before they become gremlins?
891
00:41:58,098 --> 00:41:59,892
I don't know,
but then if you put water on 'em,
892
00:41:59,975 --> 00:42:01,894
they reproduce,
and they create more monsters.
893
00:42:01,977 --> 00:42:05,147
I think if they put water on them
after a certain--
894
00:42:05,231 --> 00:42:07,525
after midnight or something,
they turn into gremlins.
895
00:42:07,608 --> 00:42:09,235
-Or something like that.
-Mm.
896
00:42:09,318 --> 00:42:11,654
They turn into whatever the cute,
like, little furbos.
897
00:42:11,737 --> 00:42:14,490
Did you ever have, like, a furbo?
Or not a furbo--
898
00:42:14,573 --> 00:42:15,449
I had a Furby.
899
00:42:15,533 --> 00:42:18,577
-A Furby. That's it! [laughs]
-Yeah. [chuckles]
900
00:42:18,661 --> 00:42:21,372
-I thought they were the coolest things.
-They were so lame.
901
00:42:21,455 --> 00:42:24,291
-Uh, yeah. They were totally oversold.
-They really were.
902
00:42:24,375 --> 00:42:27,127
They were starting to sell
smart A.I. in a stuffed animal.
903
00:42:27,211 --> 00:42:29,129
-I know.
-And it was not.
904
00:42:29,213 --> 00:42:30,297
It was not.
905
00:42:30,381 --> 00:42:32,758
No, but it's funny 'cause,
like, the random…
906
00:42:32,841 --> 00:42:35,469
Like, the little-- It was like "didja…"
907
00:42:35,553 --> 00:42:39,139
What was it? The little, like…
What were those things called?
908
00:42:39,223 --> 00:42:40,391
-Digipets.
-Digipets.
909
00:42:40,474 --> 00:42:43,143
-[laughing]
-Uh-huh.
910
00:42:43,227 --> 00:42:46,814
They were pretty lame
compared to the toys that are out now.
911
00:42:46,897 --> 00:42:49,441
But you know what never goes out
of style is stuffed animals.
912
00:42:52,695 --> 00:42:55,906
-You don't like pineapple?
-Pineapple is actually my favorite fruit.
913
00:42:56,574 --> 00:42:59,243
-Of all the fruits.
-I don't know how you can pick one.
914
00:42:59,743 --> 00:43:02,121
-They're all so good.
-I think it would go pineapple.
915
00:43:02,204 --> 00:43:04,540
Raspberries, mango.
916
00:43:05,374 --> 00:43:07,710
Mango. Really, mango? After…
917
00:43:08,544 --> 00:43:11,797
I think mango, I'd put mango first above.
I think I would put mango…
918
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:15,593
Out of those three, I would rate it
mango, pineapple and raspberries.
919
00:43:15,676 --> 00:43:18,095
I make a really good
dark chocolate raspberry cake.
920
00:43:18,178 --> 00:43:21,515
-[Zack] Oh, my God, sounds delicious.
-[Bliss] Yeah, with fresh raspberry jam.
921
00:43:21,599 --> 00:43:23,601
-I'm not a big jam guy.
-It can be meditative thing.
922
00:43:23,684 --> 00:43:24,977
-Really?
-No.
923
00:43:25,060 --> 00:43:29,607
[chuckles] Hmm, like a peanut butter
and jelly sandwich, that wasn't your jam?
924
00:43:29,690 --> 00:43:31,191
I love that. Sometimes I'll make that.
925
00:43:31,275 --> 00:43:34,570
Did you say, "Peanut butter and jelly
was not your jam"? That's hilarious.
926
00:43:34,653 --> 00:43:37,656
[Bliss] I know.
I didn't mean to be so punful, but I was.
927
00:43:37,740 --> 00:43:39,199
[Zack] I really appreciate it.
928
00:43:39,283 --> 00:43:41,285
[both laughing]
929
00:43:42,077 --> 00:43:44,830
[Bliss] I would hold your hand,
but I have to have one hand on the boat.
930
00:43:44,913 --> 00:43:46,123
I'm a rule follower. [laughs]
931
00:43:46,206 --> 00:43:48,584
[Zack] You got one hand on the boat,
one hand on your drink.
932
00:43:48,667 --> 00:43:51,211
[Bliss] I feel like you're
way more nervous about this than I am.
933
00:43:51,295 --> 00:43:52,463
[laughs]
934
00:43:52,546 --> 00:43:54,840
-[Zack] Make sure you didn't fall over.
-That was sweet.
935
00:43:59,762 --> 00:44:02,056
-[Zack laughs] Is my hand cold?
-Yeah, it is. [laughs]
936
00:44:02,139 --> 00:44:04,850
I'm never warmer than people,
but I'm also wearing something thinner.
937
00:44:04,975 --> 00:44:07,019
[Zack] You can tell
someone's colder than you.
938
00:44:07,102 --> 00:44:09,688
It's 'cause they feel warm,
so you always know who's a warm person.
939
00:44:09,772 --> 00:44:12,483
[Bliss] I know. This is
a very bizarre experience for me,
940
00:44:12,566 --> 00:44:14,860
and I actually, like,
don't like it, 'cause you're cold.
941
00:44:14,943 --> 00:44:16,362
[laughing]
942
00:44:16,445 --> 00:44:18,989
I know how other people feel
when I'm like, "Ah, I'm cold."
943
00:44:19,073 --> 00:44:21,116
-They're like, "Get away!"
-Give me your warmth.
944
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:22,618
-[laughs]
-You can have some of it.
945
00:44:24,662 --> 00:44:27,456
-[laughs] I know.
-[sighs]
946
00:44:27,539 --> 00:44:29,375
-[Bliss] Oh, you need the sun?
-[Zack] Yeah.
947
00:44:29,458 --> 00:44:32,336
[Bliss laughing]
Okay, just don't fall over.
948
00:44:32,419 --> 00:44:34,713
[Zack exhales] I'm really glad
you're here.
949
00:44:36,256 --> 00:44:38,258
-Look, your hat might go overboard.
-[Bliss] Why?
950
00:44:39,343 --> 00:44:40,678
I don't like it.
951
00:44:40,761 --> 00:44:41,720
It's like a kiss guard.
952
00:44:41,804 --> 00:44:43,764
I just wanna go
to those luscious lips of yours.
953
00:44:43,847 --> 00:44:46,350
-You have to work hard for this.
-[Zack] I will work hard for it.
954
00:44:46,433 --> 00:44:48,018
Mm-hmm.
955
00:44:48,102 --> 00:44:48,936
Fine.
956
00:44:50,562 --> 00:44:52,481
[laughing] Are you freezing?
957
00:44:52,564 --> 00:44:55,943
Do you want, like, a blanket or something?
958
00:44:56,026 --> 00:44:58,612
Maybe you can ask them for a blanket.
959
00:44:58,696 --> 00:45:01,448
You're just trying to get really close
to me to steal my warmth.
960
00:45:01,532 --> 00:45:03,033
I don't have any to give!
961
00:45:03,659 --> 00:45:06,954
-[groans] You wanna fix my hair?
-It's okay. It's just…
962
00:45:07,037 --> 00:45:08,205
[laughing]
963
00:45:08,288 --> 00:45:12,835
It's fine. It's just gonna do
what it's gonna do. It's okay.
964
00:45:15,879 --> 00:45:18,716
If you could meet anybody in the world,
who would you pick?
965
00:45:18,799 --> 00:45:20,426
-[Bliss] That's alive?
-Yeah.
966
00:45:21,176 --> 00:45:23,971
I think I would choose
to meet, like, Oprah.
967
00:45:24,054 --> 00:45:25,806
-Oprah? Winfrey?
-[Bliss] Mm-hmm.
968
00:45:25,889 --> 00:45:28,684
-Wow.
-She's a very, like, powerful woman, yeah.
969
00:45:28,767 --> 00:45:29,685
What about you?
970
00:45:30,269 --> 00:45:31,270
Your parents.
971
00:45:32,438 --> 00:45:35,065
[Bliss] You totally set that up.
You're so cheesy.
972
00:45:35,149 --> 00:45:36,275
[laughs]
973
00:45:37,818 --> 00:45:40,821
My mom is amazing.
I think I told you that.
974
00:45:40,904 --> 00:45:44,575
My dad is amazing in his own ways too, so.
975
00:45:47,035 --> 00:45:48,162
What are you doing?
976
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:53,167
What are you doing?
977
00:45:58,297 --> 00:46:02,050
Bliss, you're everything
that I've been looking for my entire life.
978
00:46:08,265 --> 00:46:10,976
You are beautiful, intelligent,
979
00:46:11,894 --> 00:46:12,853
driven,
980
00:46:13,854 --> 00:46:14,688
thoughtful.
981
00:46:16,064 --> 00:46:19,902
When I'm with you,
you just make me feel warm.
982
00:46:21,236 --> 00:46:24,281
I just wanna be with you.
I just wanna spend time with you.
983
00:46:24,364 --> 00:46:26,867
I believe there's nobody in this world
984
00:46:27,868 --> 00:46:30,537
who I'm meant to be with more than you.
985
00:46:34,583 --> 00:46:35,959
No matter what I did.
986
00:46:36,585 --> 00:46:38,212
No matter how stupid I was.
987
00:46:40,714 --> 00:46:42,216
We were always gonna end up here.
988
00:46:45,469 --> 00:46:46,720
I found my person.
989
00:46:51,975 --> 00:46:53,227
Will you marry me?
990
00:46:54,812 --> 00:46:56,814
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