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- ["I Got a Secret" playing]
- ♪ I got a secret ♪
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{\an8}♪ How can you tell? ♪
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♪ I'll keep the secret... ♪
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[Josh] The other day, I walked in.
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Saw you.
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{\an8}I should have told you how I felt.
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Yeah.
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{\an8}I haven't talked to Josh
since Chelsea's party.
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That was the first time
seeing him physically,
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and I was immediately attracted to Josh.
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Seeing you-- First, I didn't even see you.
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- I heard your voice.
- [laughs]
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And your voice is so distinctive.
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Like, I'd gotten so used to it
that I instantly knew it was you,
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'cause I went back to the pods,
and all the hairs on my body stood up.
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My nipple got hard. "Ooh, that's Josh."
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- What? What?
- [both laughing]
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And I was like-- I was like--
I was like, "That's Josh."
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And then, like, you came up to me.
We had, you know...
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- Thought you were gonna pop off on me.
- No.
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Especially when you came in,
you looked, like, upset and then--
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Oh, I was livid when I walked in.
I was ready to whoop ass more.
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- I was, like, smiling. You were like...
- [laughing]
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You're a strong woman.
You could be cussing me out.
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You could have been like,
"Get out of my face."
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[laughing]
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- But I knew what I had to say.
- Yeah.
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And... I was nervous.
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Everything had been, like,
weighing on me since the pods.
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I'm losing a girl that I wanna be with,
and I don't know how to say that.
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I was always taught, like,
through competing, through wrestling,
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you never show your emotions.
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I'm terrible with my emotion.
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And I always was like,
"My actions speak louder than words."
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[Josh] Same. Yeah, I'm the same way.
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But I like that about you.
I like a lot of things about you.
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It's important that you know how I feel,
if you did wanna be with me.
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I do love you.
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And I-- I wanna be together.
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Wow.
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I wanna know where your head's at.
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Yeah, so...
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Marshall is too sensitive
for me, basically.
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That was the first time
I ever had somebody, like, love me,
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and, like, show me,
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and really, like, translate that to me.
I never had that before.
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I wanted to keep that.
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And when I had told him to, you know,
be more aggressive and boss up,
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he left for, like, three days.
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He did the opposite.
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He did, like--
He, like, just got up and left.
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And I was like,
"I stayed and then... you leave."
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You shouldn't have said yes to Marshall.
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- How do you think Marshall would feel?
- I don't care.
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Does he know
that you and I are talking at all?
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I robbed myself from jump.
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That's my biggest regret.
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[Josh] Mm-hmm.
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[Jackelina] I chose wrong.
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["Rescue Me" playing]
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You see yourself marrying me?
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I could.
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But the legal marriage part,
it's scary to me.
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If you want marriage anytime soon,
I can't give that to you.
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But I'm willing to be with you
and see where things go.
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And I'm willing to, you know, just try.
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♪ Of what is waiting for us... ♪
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[Josh] Yeah, let's do it.
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♪ It's a brave world... ♪
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I love it.
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♪ We're facing this together ♪
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♪ Now it's our turn ♪
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♪ To make it what we want ♪
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[vocalizing]
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♪ I'll be the one to rescue you ♪
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♪ You'll be the one to rescue me ♪
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♪ Oh! ♪
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[Ryan] So, what happened?
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{\an8}[Marshall] So, I hear
that she has not showed up to her--
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{\an8}She didn't show up to her dress fitting.
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- Wow. Fuck that. I mean, if she--
- Right. That's trash.
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Sorry, bro.
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It got real for her, and she's running.
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- ["Go Wrong" playing]
- ♪ Wish I could bend time ♪
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♪ Get back tomorrow... ♪
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{\an8}I do love her.
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♪ Where did I go wrong? ♪
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I couldn't even get the decency
of a text message.
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If she wants to talk, cool.
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I'm done talking.
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♪ Where did I go wrong? ♪
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{\an8}Hello! Hello!
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- Hi!
- [laughing]
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Did you guys think I would miss
your wedding dress shopping day?
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Oh, my goodness!
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{\an8}- What's up?
- [Kwame] Hey!
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- [laughing]
- [man] Let's go!
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- [Nick] Look at you guys.
- [men laughing]
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- How's everybody feeling?
- Good.
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- [Nick] You good?
- [Kwame] Fantastic.
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[Nick] All right. Welcome. Welcome.
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So, everyone tell me who you brought. Hi.
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{\an8}- [woman] Hi.
- So, I am here with my best friend Lesley.
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{\an8}- Hi, Lesley.
- And my beautiful mother Ella.
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{\an8}- Hi. Hi!
- [Vanessa] Hi, Mom!
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How y'all feeling right now?
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- Good.
- [Vanessa] Good.
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Oh, yes.
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I trust her judgment.
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Hi, Micah. How are ya?
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{\an8}Paul and I balance each other out
really well.
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{\an8}- He had a backpack. I had five suitcases.
- [laughing]
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- Does he have say in your wedding dress?
- [chuckles] No.
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[laughing]
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[laughs] How are you dealing
with this, Mom?
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{\an8}- Oh, I'm happy now.
- [laughing]
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{\an8}She was very shocked at first.
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{\an8}- Yes.
- [Vanessa] I can imagine.
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You remember the moment
when you were like,
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"Okay, I'm okay with this"?
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Was it meeting her fiancé?
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- Oh, it wasn't meeting him.
- [all laughing]
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Mom!
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- [laughing]
- [Vanessa] That's not the moment. Okay.
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After I, you know, told her, like,
"Hey, like, this is real."
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"Like, I am in love," she was like, "Oh."
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She's like, "Really?" And she goes,
"Okay, like, let's do it."
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'Cause it was so weird,
but yeah, I'm very excited now.
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- I love this. Who did you bring?
- [Bliss] My beautiful mom Kit.
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- [Katherine] Hi there.
- [Vanessa] Hi, Mom.
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She's my angel.
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- She's everything I am, I owe to her.
- [woman] Aww.
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{\an8}Truly. And this is my beautiful
baby sister and bridesmaid Tatiana.
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[Vanessa] You guys are all tearing up.
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Can I ask what's making you
so emotional right now, Mom?
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{\an8}[Katherine] She followed her heart,
and she's grown.
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{\an8}And I've just seen such a beautiful human
just transform right in front of my eyes.
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{\an8}Zack, start.
Who'd you bring with you today?
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{\an8}- This is my little sister Alexa. Yeah?
- Hi.
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{\an8}[Nick] Kwame, you brought
a familiar face with you today.
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{\an8}[laughs] I did.
I brought my good man Jack with me.
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{\an8}[Nick] Obviously,
you're in a unique position.
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{\an8}Did you ever date Chelsea in the pods?
Did you guys have any interaction?
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- Couple of dates with Chelsea, yeah.
- Okay.
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When they got engaged...
They're both loud personalities.
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I was like,
"This is gonna go one of two ways."
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And, uh, selfishly, I want it to be "yes"
and "yes," so he moves to Seattle, but...
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- Just want the best for him.
- [Nick] All right, fellas.
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Your wedding day
is just over one week away.
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In one week, you're gonna have to decide
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if you're gonna say "I do" to the man
that you got engaged to sight unseen.
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Or will you walk away... forever?
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In that moment, you'll have to decide.
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Is love blind?
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I really, really, really hope
that you prove that it is.
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And have the best, best time.
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- Nice to meet you.
- Yes. Thank you.
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- All right, let's do this.
- Let's do it!
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- [chattering]
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Hey, it's a big day for all of us.
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We're gonna be seeing our brides
at their most beautiful.
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Today, we get to figure out
how we're gonna look
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when we're standing there
at our most handsome. Let's go, baby.
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[laughing]
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{\an8}- I'm, like, lace, jewels...
- [Bliss] Lace.
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{\an8}- Jewels, sparkle.
- Like, sparkle.
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Big wedding day. I'm sure you have
a lot of ideas of what you're looking for.
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- Simplest terms, clean, minimal, modern.
- Got it.
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[Brett] Color-wise,
I would love something white.
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Yep.
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Kind of, like, just elegant,
royal colors I really like.
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- Got you.
- But angelic.
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- I feel it, bro.
- Angelic, I like that.
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- Straight from the heavens.
- I like that royal-- [laughs]
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- To my wife's arms.
- Oh, man.
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[Brett] I like fine detail.
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- So, like, this. I just love this.
- Yeah.
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Slight detail that you start to see
when you're up close.
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It'll be definitely defined to you.
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{\an8}Get a nice fit in your chest,
shoulders, back and biceps.
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That's what I'm talking about. I'm trying
to walk over here like Superman.
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- I'm trying to look like...
- [laughing]
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[Tiffany] Brett loves detailing
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- [Ella] Mm-hmm.
- [Tiffany] He's a designer.
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So I wanted to get a dress
that had a lot of detailing in it.
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{\an8}That journey to find the right person
at 36 years old,
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{\an8}I mean, it was a long time coming.
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But today just solidifies
that I'm right where I need to be.
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Brett Brown's future wife.
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- [pop music playing]
- ♪ I wanna feel your heartbeat ♪
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♪ Running wild... ♪
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- [shouting]
- Oh, my goodness!
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- Wow.
- Look at the glam.
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[Micah laughs] You look like a princess.
Oh, my God.
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[Lesley] It's gorgeous.
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It's like this total Hollywood glam.
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Like, it's perfect. Oh, my gosh,
you're just, like, a shining light.
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- [Chelsea] I know.
- You look like this sexy, like, goddess.
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{\an8}This is your first wedding dress.
Whoo-hoo!
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{\an8}- Tiffany, you look great.
- [laughs]
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[Lesley] And it's fitted
just like you wanted.
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- Yes.
- [Tiffany laughs] Yeah, I feel glamorous.
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I've never thought
you were gonna walk down the aisle.
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[laughs]
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I was giving up hope.
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[all laughing]
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[Ella] For you to do this...
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[Tiffany sighs]
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- You knew it had to be the right person.
- I knew it had to be the right person.
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I was never about just, like,
wanting to be somebody's wife,
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and the ring,
and this big elaborate wedding.
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I was always like,
"I hope I find my soulmate."
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And, um, I think with Brett,
I feel like I've found that.
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He's just so, like, supportive.
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And he thinks I'm beautiful,
no matter what.
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So, I think seeing me in this dress, uh--
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- [Ella] He may start crying.
- [Tiffany] He probably will start crying.
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[chuckles] It's perfect for you.
Brett's gonna pass out. 100%.
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- [Ella] There you go.
- [laughing]
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- ["Love Me the Right Way" playing]
- ♪ It's real love, 'cause we have enough ♪
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{\an8}You look them in the eyes
and you love this girl?
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{\an8}Easily. That's an easy call. Easy call.
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{\an8}I loved her before I saw her.
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{\an8}I've loved Micah since the pods.
Like, I really have.
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{\an8}And the reasons why I love her are a lot.
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Ranging from, like, the way
that we connected in the pods
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to things that don't have
anything to do with our connection.
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Just my pure appreciation
of the way that she is in herself
232
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and that includes differences, you know.
233
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All I need to make the decision
is my feelings,
234
00:11:01,702 --> 00:11:03,996
because love begins where logic ends.
235
00:11:03,996 --> 00:11:06,457
You've always been a hopeless romantic
since I've known you,
236
00:11:06,457 --> 00:11:07,750
but you get in your own way.
237
00:11:07,750 --> 00:11:12,171
Yeah, I can definitely get in my own way,
whenever I'm too heady, too cerebral.
238
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And, um, yeah, she has a way
of, like, bringing me down to Earth.
239
00:11:15,925 --> 00:11:18,469
She gets me out of my head
and into my body.
240
00:11:18,469 --> 00:11:21,931
{\an8}- I feel like I'm here. And I feel like--
- So, she makes you feel present.
241
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{\an8}Yeah. Whereas, I feel normally,
I'm just like in my head,
242
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{\an8}in my thoughts, just, like, lost.
243
00:11:26,602 --> 00:11:27,603
Yeah.
244
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[Paul] That's a really,
really attractive trait to me.
245
00:11:30,898 --> 00:11:35,069
So, you'd probably say she's
the first girl to get you out of your head
246
00:11:35,069 --> 00:11:36,404
and into your heart.
247
00:11:36,404 --> 00:11:37,321
Yeah.
248
00:11:37,822 --> 00:11:39,365
♪ I'm ready to... ♪
249
00:11:39,365 --> 00:11:41,033
[laughing]
250
00:11:41,033 --> 00:11:43,411
[cheering]
251
00:11:45,246 --> 00:11:48,290
- [woman] Wow!
- [Micah laughing]
252
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{\an8}I really like it.
I don't know if it's my style.
253
00:11:51,377 --> 00:11:54,714
I feel like if it was, like, simple,
without, like, this...
254
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It's kind of giving, like, 2000 prom.
255
00:11:57,174 --> 00:11:58,134
[laughing]
256
00:11:58,134 --> 00:12:03,222
{\an8}I've met Paul, and he's a really nice guy,
and I don't think he would hurt her.
257
00:12:03,222 --> 00:12:06,267
But I don't know
that she is gonna say yes or no.
258
00:12:06,267 --> 00:12:08,811
Especially with her, you know,
things can change on a whim.
259
00:12:08,811 --> 00:12:13,733
But I think at this point,
it's gonna be a gut decision for her.
260
00:12:13,733 --> 00:12:16,652
As unsure as I am about all of this,
261
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I just want her to be sure,
because this is the rest of your life.
262
00:12:20,281 --> 00:12:22,450
And she seems pretty sure as of now.
263
00:12:22,450 --> 00:12:26,120
- [Patrisha] Aw, you look so pretty.
- [both laugh]
264
00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:27,496
- Oh, you're so sweet.
- [squeals]
265
00:12:27,496 --> 00:12:29,582
- Love you. [kisses]
- [Micah] I love you too.
266
00:12:29,582 --> 00:12:32,042
I feel like we... we weren't sure
267
00:12:32,042 --> 00:12:35,045
if we were gonna have this moment
at certain points in our lives.
268
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That's true.
269
00:12:36,881 --> 00:12:40,634
And I feel like the fact
that we get to do it together,
270
00:12:40,634 --> 00:12:44,180
and we're both healthy and here,
like, it's a big deal.
271
00:12:44,180 --> 00:12:46,140
Yeah, it is a big deal.
272
00:12:46,849 --> 00:12:49,518
I didn't think I would be here. [laughs]
273
00:12:50,144 --> 00:12:51,854
- That's true.
- Yeah.
274
00:12:52,396 --> 00:12:54,648
- You made it.
- [both laugh]
275
00:12:55,858 --> 00:12:58,110
- I love you. [kisses]
- [Micah] I love you too.
276
00:12:58,694 --> 00:13:00,988
- Don't cry.
- [laughs]
277
00:13:00,988 --> 00:13:03,073
[voice breaks] I'm happy
you can be here with me.
278
00:13:03,073 --> 00:13:03,991
[Patrisha] I know.
279
00:13:05,326 --> 00:13:08,245
- Look how healthy I am.
- Yeah.
280
00:13:08,829 --> 00:13:10,664
- [Patrisha] See?
- [laughs]
281
00:13:10,664 --> 00:13:12,792
- God worked it out.
- You made it, sister.
282
00:13:12,792 --> 00:13:15,503
[Micah and Patrisha laughing]
283
00:13:15,503 --> 00:13:16,921
[Chelsea] Oh, my God.
284
00:13:16,921 --> 00:13:19,507
[Micah laughs, sniffles] Uh...
285
00:13:19,507 --> 00:13:21,342
[laughs]
286
00:13:21,342 --> 00:13:25,054
I know it's hard
to understand, like, what's happening.
287
00:13:25,054 --> 00:13:26,931
I feel I don't understand
what's happening,
288
00:13:26,931 --> 00:13:30,476
so it's like the fact that you're able
to just trust me and be here means a lot.
289
00:13:30,476 --> 00:13:33,437
- Of course I trust you.
- [laughs]
290
00:13:33,437 --> 00:13:34,396
- I know.
- Yeah.
291
00:13:34,396 --> 00:13:36,690
I wish your daddy was here right now.
292
00:13:36,690 --> 00:13:38,025
I know. I feel like...
293
00:13:38,776 --> 00:13:41,278
I feel like he'll be really excited
to see me on the wedding day.
294
00:13:41,278 --> 00:13:45,157
- Yeah, he will. I'm so happy for you.
- [Micah] Thank you.
295
00:13:45,157 --> 00:13:46,450
I am.
296
00:13:46,450 --> 00:13:49,495
- You're gonna be a beautiful bride.
- Mom. [laughs]
297
00:13:50,079 --> 00:13:51,789
- Gonna try on another one.
- [Patrisha] Okay.
298
00:13:51,789 --> 00:13:55,125
- Hopefully, it's a big hit.
- [women laughing]
299
00:13:55,125 --> 00:13:58,879
{\an8}[laughing] I need to find
a "say yes to my guy at the altar" dress.
300
00:13:58,879 --> 00:14:00,589
{\an8}So, it's gonna have to be good.
301
00:14:01,632 --> 00:14:02,716
Oh, my gosh!
302
00:14:02,716 --> 00:14:04,760
[women chattering]
303
00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:08,597
- [gasping]
- I love that!
304
00:14:08,597 --> 00:14:12,518
[women cheering, applauding]
305
00:14:12,518 --> 00:14:13,978
Wow!
306
00:14:15,271 --> 00:14:17,106
[Bliss] Wait, let's see the back.
307
00:14:17,106 --> 00:14:18,858
[women gasping]
308
00:14:18,858 --> 00:14:21,026
[Patrisha] So pretty.
309
00:14:21,026 --> 00:14:22,903
It's perfect. It's perfect.
310
00:14:23,779 --> 00:14:25,197
- [women cheering]
- [Micah] I love.
311
00:14:26,115 --> 00:14:28,242
- I literally love it.
- [Shelby] Wow!
312
00:14:28,242 --> 00:14:31,912
Oh, it's so pretty on you.
You look beautiful.
313
00:14:31,912 --> 00:14:34,206
It's, like, exactly what I pictured.
314
00:14:34,206 --> 00:14:36,166
Elegant. Like, timeless.
315
00:14:36,166 --> 00:14:40,588
It fits your body perfectly.
It's exactly the look you were going for.
316
00:14:40,588 --> 00:14:42,464
I'm, like, burning up. Like, I feel like...
317
00:14:42,464 --> 00:14:45,718
[laughs] I don't know. I feel
officially like I'm getting married.
318
00:14:45,718 --> 00:14:48,345
- [Katherine] Oh.
- What the hell?
319
00:14:48,345 --> 00:14:50,389
- [laughing]
- [Bliss] Wait, what are we doing?
320
00:14:50,389 --> 00:14:53,601
- I'm such a wife.
- [laughing]
321
00:14:53,601 --> 00:14:56,729
No need to try anything else on.
I'm good. [laughs]
322
00:14:56,729 --> 00:14:58,355
- [all cheering]
- Yay!
323
00:14:58,355 --> 00:14:59,732
- [laughing]
- [woman] Wow.
324
00:15:00,566 --> 00:15:01,400
Okay.
325
00:15:02,067 --> 00:15:03,360
[women continue laughing]
326
00:15:04,486 --> 00:15:06,697
{\an8}- It's so crazy, right?
- [Jack] Yeah.
327
00:15:06,697 --> 00:15:09,450
{\an8}That, like, my wedding day is in a week.
328
00:15:09,450 --> 00:15:12,828
Us taking that step forward
and deciding with each other,
329
00:15:12,828 --> 00:15:14,038
"We're gonna get married."
330
00:15:14,038 --> 00:15:18,292
"And I'm going to instantaneously
change all my lifestyle to fit yours..."
331
00:15:18,834 --> 00:15:20,920
That's not an easy decision.
332
00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:25,174
It almost feels like her life gets easier
in this next step, and mine doesn't.
333
00:15:26,884 --> 00:15:28,886
And now I pick up more responsibilities.
334
00:15:28,886 --> 00:15:31,847
Moving to a new city.
Making new friends. Being in a new place.
335
00:15:31,847 --> 00:15:34,850
When it comes to a marriage,
we're merging two lives.
336
00:15:34,850 --> 00:15:36,602
But in this sense of merge...
337
00:15:36,602 --> 00:15:38,604
of, like, merging, I am taking--
338
00:15:38,604 --> 00:15:41,231
You're the one that's
having to make the sacrifice.
339
00:15:41,231 --> 00:15:44,652
I'm taking every sacrifice.
She's not making a single one.
340
00:15:44,652 --> 00:15:48,572
What's more important?
Somebody that fits your lifestyle,
341
00:15:48,572 --> 00:15:52,409
or somebody that fits more
from a personality compatibility?
342
00:15:52,409 --> 00:15:54,536
- In a perfect world, you get both.
- [Jack] Yeah.
343
00:15:54,536 --> 00:15:58,540
Chelsea and me, personality-wise
are pretty on par.
344
00:15:58,540 --> 00:16:00,376
The same things make us happy.
345
00:16:00,376 --> 00:16:03,379
I love her. You know, she embodies
346
00:16:03,379 --> 00:16:08,092
just this, like, incredibly
strong presence, both inside and out.
347
00:16:08,092 --> 00:16:11,261
She's very smart. She's very driven.
She loves what she does.
348
00:16:11,261 --> 00:16:14,723
Chelsea, like, sometimes
I'm just in awe of who she is.
349
00:16:14,723 --> 00:16:15,766
- [Jack] Yeah.
- You know?
350
00:16:15,766 --> 00:16:18,936
I'm like, "Damn, that's... that's my lady."
351
00:16:18,936 --> 00:16:22,022
[Jack] Have you thought about
if one of you says no?
352
00:16:22,022 --> 00:16:24,775
[Kwame] If one of us does say no,
353
00:16:26,110 --> 00:16:31,031
that's a very, very,
very, very scary step back.
354
00:16:31,615 --> 00:16:32,950
[exhales]
355
00:16:32,950 --> 00:16:34,910
That's a scary question, isn't it?
356
00:16:34,910 --> 00:16:36,453
[laughs]
357
00:16:37,955 --> 00:16:41,375
- ["Forever in You" playing]
- ♪ Don't stop looking at me like that ♪
358
00:16:41,375 --> 00:16:45,754
♪ I'm all in
Right when I saw you, I knew... ♪
359
00:16:45,754 --> 00:16:48,007
Oh, God, I'm nervous. [chuckles]
360
00:16:49,633 --> 00:16:52,928
- Oh, my God.
- [women cheering]
361
00:16:53,846 --> 00:16:55,264
[Chelsea] Stop!
362
00:16:55,264 --> 00:16:57,975
{\an8}- Chelsea, you look gorgeous.
- [woman shouts]
363
00:16:57,975 --> 00:16:59,768
[Chelsea] It feels like me.
364
00:16:59,768 --> 00:17:03,605
It has the sparkle, the lace,
365
00:17:03,605 --> 00:17:05,607
the beading.
366
00:17:05,607 --> 00:17:07,568
Kwame and I are extra.
367
00:17:07,568 --> 00:17:10,362
And we get to be that together
for the rest of our life.
368
00:17:10,362 --> 00:17:12,114
And I love that for me.
369
00:17:12,114 --> 00:17:14,283
- And I love that for him.
- [laughing]
370
00:17:14,283 --> 00:17:16,118
Just so you know,
I got pink pumps under this.
371
00:17:16,118 --> 00:17:19,246
- [Bliss] Oh. Pop those a little for us.
- [woman] Whoo-hoo!
372
00:17:19,246 --> 00:17:23,042
This is me,
and he loves me for me, so it's us.
373
00:17:23,042 --> 00:17:25,294
[women applaud, laugh]
374
00:17:27,504 --> 00:17:29,048
{\an8}[Chelsea] Oh!
375
00:17:29,048 --> 00:17:30,007
Oh, my gosh.
376
00:17:30,007 --> 00:17:32,468
- [Chelsea] Are you laughing or crying?
- [Dimitria] I'm crying!
377
00:17:32,468 --> 00:17:33,552
[laughing]
378
00:17:33,552 --> 00:17:34,887
[sniffles]
379
00:17:34,887 --> 00:17:37,598
I can just see myself
walking down... [sniffling]
380
00:17:37,598 --> 00:17:41,393
...the aisle to my husband in this dress.
381
00:17:43,395 --> 00:17:46,899
And he... likes to talk.
382
00:17:46,899 --> 00:17:50,569
- But will probably be speechless.
- [all laughing]
383
00:17:51,195 --> 00:17:53,822
I could not be more happy for you two.
384
00:17:56,033 --> 00:17:57,493
[Chelsea gasps]
385
00:17:57,493 --> 00:18:00,412
- [Dimitria] You look phenomenal.
- Thanks for being here and trusting me.
386
00:18:00,412 --> 00:18:02,706
And believing in me and... [sniffles]
387
00:18:03,540 --> 00:18:04,500
...believing in us.
388
00:18:04,500 --> 00:18:07,628
- [Dimitria] I'm so beyond excited.
- [sniffling]
389
00:18:07,628 --> 00:18:11,507
And I can't wait to stand there
and watch you marry him.
390
00:18:11,507 --> 00:18:13,801
[sniffling]
391
00:18:13,801 --> 00:18:14,885
Thank you.
392
00:18:15,511 --> 00:18:18,097
- [Dimitria] I think it'll be beautiful.
- I love you.
393
00:18:18,097 --> 00:18:20,766
- [laughing]
- [women cheering]
394
00:18:23,811 --> 00:18:25,521
[laughing]
395
00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:30,984
{\an8}So, I told my fiancée that she gets
to pick everything, and I'm okay with it.
396
00:18:30,984 --> 00:18:35,030
So, I think she said periwinkle,
ivory and lavender.
397
00:18:35,614 --> 00:18:39,618
{\an8}I like the idea of the purple
or the periwinkle or whatever goes.
398
00:18:40,202 --> 00:18:42,371
- Well, maybe.
- [laughing]
399
00:18:43,997 --> 00:18:44,832
Nervous?
400
00:18:45,332 --> 00:18:47,251
[Zack] She's asked me that
a thousand times.
401
00:18:47,251 --> 00:18:50,504
She's like, "Are you nervous?"
And I'm like, "Well, I am now."
402
00:18:50,504 --> 00:18:52,548
- Is she nervous?
- [Zack] She's nervous.
403
00:18:52,548 --> 00:18:54,216
- [Alexa] Yeah?
- Yeah, for sure.
404
00:18:55,259 --> 00:18:58,303
But is it nervous,
like, wedding nervousness?
405
00:18:58,303 --> 00:19:03,517
- Or is it like you have doubts at all?
- It's a huge... It's a huge decision.
406
00:19:03,517 --> 00:19:07,271
And, like, all of the things that could
go wrong. You know, what if we're wrong?
407
00:19:07,271 --> 00:19:10,065
You know, what if we're just
too caught up in the moment?
408
00:19:10,732 --> 00:19:14,528
We don't know, 'cause we're clearly
pretty caught up in the moment.
409
00:19:14,528 --> 00:19:18,448
Yeah. Do you feel like
you really know her?
410
00:19:18,448 --> 00:19:20,951
I do. I know who she is as a person.
411
00:19:21,451 --> 00:19:25,831
Do you feel like
your guys's lives work together?
412
00:19:25,831 --> 00:19:27,457
Mm-hmm. Yeah.
413
00:19:27,457 --> 00:19:29,668
Everything happens for a reason.
414
00:19:29,668 --> 00:19:32,588
Yeah. I'm done guessing
what the reason is for things.
415
00:19:32,588 --> 00:19:34,339
[laughs]
416
00:19:34,339 --> 00:19:37,342
[pop music playing]
417
00:19:37,342 --> 00:19:40,179
♪ I just wanna be your light... ♪
418
00:19:40,179 --> 00:19:41,763
[shouting]
419
00:19:42,931 --> 00:19:44,474
[Chelsea] Oh, my God!
420
00:19:44,474 --> 00:19:46,810
[Micah] That is so cute.
421
00:19:46,810 --> 00:19:49,605
- [applauding]
- [woman shouts]
422
00:19:50,230 --> 00:19:51,565
You look like an angel.
423
00:19:52,149 --> 00:19:56,570
[sniffles] I just remember holding you
as a little baby in my arms.
424
00:19:57,154 --> 00:19:59,907
And I'm so happy that I named you Bliss,
425
00:19:59,907 --> 00:20:04,494
because you are every bit
of joy and bliss and loveliness.
426
00:20:04,995 --> 00:20:06,663
And just a light in my life.
427
00:20:07,289 --> 00:20:09,750
[sniffles] I'm so happy for you.
428
00:20:09,750 --> 00:20:11,335
I adore you. [chuckles]
429
00:20:11,335 --> 00:20:12,628
Thanks, Mommy.
430
00:20:13,212 --> 00:20:14,463
[Chelsea] So gorgeous.
431
00:20:14,463 --> 00:20:17,925
- This is totally it. [laughs]
- [women gasp, laugh]
432
00:20:20,510 --> 00:20:21,845
I love the sleeves.
433
00:20:22,638 --> 00:20:23,847
- [Katherine] That's it.
- Yeah.
434
00:20:23,847 --> 00:20:25,515
- That's the dress.
- [laughs]
435
00:20:25,515 --> 00:20:27,059
That's it. I love it.
436
00:20:27,059 --> 00:20:29,478
[Bliss] It's, like, so me,
with all the flowers.
437
00:20:29,478 --> 00:20:30,812
I love it.
438
00:20:30,812 --> 00:20:34,107
- Zack is gonna lose his mind.
- Oh, my goodness, yes.
439
00:20:34,107 --> 00:20:37,736
- He's gonna jump right into song.
- [laughing]
440
00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:39,279
Girl, that is it.
441
00:20:39,279 --> 00:20:40,864
- Yeah.
- [Tiffany] You're gorgeous.
442
00:20:40,864 --> 00:20:43,158
[Chelsea] Oh-ho-ho! You look so happy.
443
00:20:44,910 --> 00:20:46,870
[Bliss] Oh, it's okay, Mom.
444
00:20:46,870 --> 00:20:49,122
- I love you so much.
- [Bliss] I love you too.
445
00:20:54,127 --> 00:20:57,965
It's not easy to always follow your heart.
Especially with my-- I'm so logical.
446
00:20:58,924 --> 00:21:01,760
[laughs] And me being in a wedding dress
right now, after everything,
447
00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:03,845
is not necessarily the most logical thing.
448
00:21:03,845 --> 00:21:05,305
But it feels so right.
449
00:21:05,305 --> 00:21:07,140
- You're very brave.
- Yes.
450
00:21:07,140 --> 00:21:09,685
- [Micah] You inspire us.
- [Katherine] Yes.
451
00:21:09,685 --> 00:21:11,311
♪ Don't stop dreaming... ♪
452
00:21:11,311 --> 00:21:14,898
Just beautiful. I love it so much.
453
00:21:14,898 --> 00:21:16,984
- It's really perfect.
- [Katherine] Yes, it is.
454
00:21:16,984 --> 00:21:18,652
The most perfect ever.
455
00:21:18,652 --> 00:21:19,820
Thanks, Mommy.
456
00:21:19,820 --> 00:21:21,238
- [laughing]
- Yay!
457
00:21:21,238 --> 00:21:23,115
Guys, I can't believe
we're getting married.
458
00:21:23,115 --> 00:21:25,617
- [laughing]
- Wow!
459
00:21:36,878 --> 00:21:38,672
{\an8}♪ Don't stop dreaming ♪
460
00:21:41,466 --> 00:21:42,759
[door closes]
461
00:21:46,054 --> 00:21:47,597
- Hello.
- [Jackelina] Hello.
462
00:21:47,597 --> 00:21:48,515
How are you?
463
00:21:50,934 --> 00:21:53,061
[clears throat] Not good.
464
00:21:55,897 --> 00:21:57,316
- I need answers.
- [Jackelina] Hmm.
465
00:22:00,527 --> 00:22:02,112
Why did you accept my proposal?
466
00:22:02,612 --> 00:22:03,739
[Jackelina] In the pods,
467
00:22:05,365 --> 00:22:08,243
uh, what I felt for you was real.
468
00:22:09,745 --> 00:22:12,914
That was... so real to me.
469
00:22:14,041 --> 00:22:17,294
It's just the outside world
got to us, and--
470
00:22:17,294 --> 00:22:18,712
Got to us or got to you?
471
00:22:20,297 --> 00:22:21,715
I'm emotionally drained.
472
00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,345
I tried as much as I can
to answer your questions,
473
00:22:26,345 --> 00:22:27,929
but I wasn't sufficing.
474
00:22:27,929 --> 00:22:32,476
And I think my fed-up moment was
coming back home
475
00:22:33,226 --> 00:22:37,898
after Chelsea's party,
and you still was pressin' on me.
476
00:22:38,857 --> 00:22:40,859
I'm like, "Bro, like,
I'm just trying to go to bed."
477
00:22:40,859 --> 00:22:42,861
"I gotta go to work tomorrow."
478
00:22:42,861 --> 00:22:45,947
I get that you need
your feelings validated. I get that.
479
00:22:46,573 --> 00:22:49,826
But when I say,
"Look, I'm just trying to go to bed."
480
00:22:49,826 --> 00:22:53,038
"We can talk about this tomorrow."
We can talk about that tomorrow.
481
00:22:53,705 --> 00:22:55,290
I can't give you what you want.
482
00:23:02,255 --> 00:23:03,965
I have never...
483
00:23:06,051 --> 00:23:07,469
asked anything of you.
484
00:23:08,804 --> 00:23:09,638
Never.
485
00:23:10,597 --> 00:23:12,557
[Jackelina] You need a lot of security.
486
00:23:14,351 --> 00:23:17,396
[Marshall] I have done nothing
but right by you.
487
00:23:17,396 --> 00:23:21,149
And for you to sit here
and say that I require a lot.
488
00:23:21,900 --> 00:23:22,984
I'm emotional, yes.
489
00:23:22,984 --> 00:23:25,529
Have I encouraged conversation? Yeah.
490
00:23:25,529 --> 00:23:28,698
Have I let things go to the wayside
and blow in the wind,
491
00:23:28,698 --> 00:23:31,660
blow over because
you didn't wanna talk about them? Yes.
492
00:23:32,786 --> 00:23:34,830
Everything has always been on your terms.
493
00:23:35,789 --> 00:23:36,873
Everything.
494
00:23:36,873 --> 00:23:38,083
I liked you.
495
00:23:40,168 --> 00:23:42,254
I'm like, look, just give me something.
496
00:23:42,254 --> 00:23:45,173
Give me that feeling that everyone says,
"You know when you know."
497
00:23:45,173 --> 00:23:46,675
And I didn't have that feeling,
498
00:23:46,675 --> 00:23:49,886
and I tried every time
to have that feeling.
499
00:23:53,890 --> 00:23:58,103
Marshall, I... can't love you.
500
00:24:00,689 --> 00:24:03,358
Because I'm attracted to Josh.
501
00:24:05,819 --> 00:24:07,446
I just saw Josh.
502
00:24:09,030 --> 00:24:11,241
And there is some chemistry.
503
00:24:15,328 --> 00:24:16,455
So what was the talk about?
504
00:24:16,455 --> 00:24:19,416
It was him
basically confessing his feelings.
505
00:24:19,416 --> 00:24:21,334
What are you saying to me right now?
506
00:24:22,169 --> 00:24:24,671
I don't wanna be with you anymore, and...
507
00:24:24,671 --> 00:24:26,047
You wanna be with Josh?
508
00:24:27,048 --> 00:24:28,675
I will find that out.
509
00:24:29,259 --> 00:24:30,385
[chuckles]
510
00:24:33,763 --> 00:24:34,931
Okay, Jackie.
511
00:24:34,931 --> 00:24:38,101
That is... very hurtful.
512
00:24:39,352 --> 00:24:43,773
I'm just telling you, Marshall,
that I just can't be with you.
513
00:24:43,773 --> 00:24:44,858
I can't.
514
00:24:51,740 --> 00:24:54,117
I would like the ring back.
I don't think that you deserve it.
515
00:24:55,118 --> 00:24:57,204
Because you should never have accepted
516
00:24:57,954 --> 00:24:59,372
my proposal.
517
00:24:59,372 --> 00:25:02,167
Hmm. Well, I'm gonna keep the ring
518
00:25:02,876 --> 00:25:06,087
because... I accepted it
519
00:25:06,087 --> 00:25:08,340
because I wanted to marry you.
520
00:25:08,340 --> 00:25:10,926
Everything I told you in that pod
521
00:25:11,510 --> 00:25:12,344
was real.
522
00:25:13,011 --> 00:25:14,971
And you know what? I-- I don't even care.
523
00:25:14,971 --> 00:25:17,140
You can-- you can keep the ring.
524
00:25:17,140 --> 00:25:19,935
Every time you look at that thing,
whatever you do with it,
525
00:25:19,935 --> 00:25:24,064
I want you to be reminded
that you passed up on something great.
526
00:25:25,982 --> 00:25:26,858
Okay.
527
00:25:27,692 --> 00:25:29,778
[somber instrumental music plays]
528
00:25:32,614 --> 00:25:33,448
Great.
529
00:25:34,449 --> 00:25:36,618
Well, take it easy and...
530
00:25:37,369 --> 00:25:38,370
I'll see you around.
531
00:25:38,370 --> 00:25:39,621
Maybe. Maybe not.
532
00:25:39,621 --> 00:25:42,040
- No. You won't.
- [Jackelina chuckles] Okay.
533
00:25:49,839 --> 00:25:50,924
[sighs]
534
00:25:54,719 --> 00:25:57,472
I came into this experiment
wanting marriage.
535
00:25:57,472 --> 00:25:59,307
That's what this thing is about.
536
00:25:59,808 --> 00:26:03,061
I came in day one,
following my heart and my gut.
537
00:26:03,061 --> 00:26:05,522
Leading with exactly who I am.
538
00:26:05,522 --> 00:26:09,818
Presenting myself as myself,
complete and ready for love.
539
00:26:09,818 --> 00:26:11,903
Ready to give myself to someone.
540
00:26:12,487 --> 00:26:13,488
I chose wrong.
541
00:26:15,156 --> 00:26:17,450
Jackie, the woman that presented herself
to me in the pods,
542
00:26:17,450 --> 00:26:19,286
that's the Jackie that I love.
543
00:26:19,286 --> 00:26:23,748
This Jackie, the deflecting,
the gaslighting, the deceitful Jackie,
544
00:26:23,748 --> 00:26:28,628
I don't know who that is,
and, apparently, that's the real Jackie.
545
00:26:29,504 --> 00:26:31,464
I wish her nothing but the best.
546
00:26:31,464 --> 00:26:33,883
And if that's with Josh, do your thing.
547
00:26:35,051 --> 00:26:35,885
Good luck.
548
00:26:38,346 --> 00:26:42,267
♪ 'Cause when everything is wrong ♪
549
00:26:42,267 --> 00:26:44,561
♪ Run a little farther... ♪
550
00:26:45,604 --> 00:26:49,774
I'm sorry that I can't be with him.
551
00:26:49,774 --> 00:26:51,693
I'm-- I'm not even sorry.
552
00:26:52,652 --> 00:26:54,988
I'm not even sorry
that I can't be with Marshall.
553
00:26:56,281 --> 00:26:57,115
I can't.
554
00:26:59,743 --> 00:27:02,704
I can't walk down the aisle with this man.
555
00:27:04,205 --> 00:27:06,374
I don't even know
if I'm gonna be with Josh.
556
00:27:07,375 --> 00:27:11,212
I don't. I don't know if I'm gonna be
with anybody. Damn, I'm crazy.
557
00:27:13,381 --> 00:27:15,759
I need to probably do some self-work.
558
00:27:24,893 --> 00:27:27,562
{\an8}- [pop music playing]
- ♪ Hey, boy, a girl like me ♪
559
00:27:27,562 --> 00:27:29,981
{\an8}♪ Can feel lonely time to time ♪
560
00:27:31,358 --> 00:27:32,692
{\an8}- Hello.
- [Chelsea] Hello.
561
00:27:32,692 --> 00:27:34,944
{\an8}- Hey. I'm Andy.
- [Chelsea] Hi. Chelsea.
562
00:27:34,944 --> 00:27:37,530
{\an8}- Hi. Nice to meet you.
- Hey. Kwame. Nice to meet you.
563
00:27:37,530 --> 00:27:39,282
Nice to meet you too. How are you guys?
564
00:27:39,282 --> 00:27:40,492
Good, good, good.
565
00:27:40,492 --> 00:27:43,119
Great! Welcome.
Welcome to our little photo studio.
566
00:27:43,787 --> 00:27:45,872
This is our engagement photo shoot.
567
00:27:45,872 --> 00:27:48,625
- Oh, really? Okay, fantastic. Engagement.
- Yes.
568
00:27:48,625 --> 00:27:51,670
As a little girl, I always pictured
569
00:27:51,670 --> 00:27:55,131
doing a photo shoot
with my fiancé, with my husband.
570
00:27:55,131 --> 00:27:59,177
Um, and now it's coming to, uh, fruition.
571
00:27:59,177 --> 00:28:01,721
- Yeah. Okay.
- [Chelsea] So, I'm really excited.
572
00:28:01,721 --> 00:28:05,475
They're definitely gonna be,
you know, on the sexy side.
573
00:28:05,475 --> 00:28:06,601
Oh, okay.
574
00:28:06,601 --> 00:28:11,439
I envision, like, bed shots,
window shots, couch shots.
575
00:28:11,439 --> 00:28:14,567
- Um, definitely, like, boudoir vibes.
- [Kwame] Yeah.
576
00:28:14,567 --> 00:28:17,821
Ideally, we can start off just...
in what we have on.
577
00:28:17,821 --> 00:28:19,280
- [Andy] Casual?
- Real casual.
578
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:20,532
And then work our way into it.
579
00:28:20,532 --> 00:28:23,076
I know it's gonna take a little time
to build the, uh...
580
00:28:23,076 --> 00:28:25,203
- The comfort in front of the camera.
- Yeah, yeah.
581
00:28:25,203 --> 00:28:26,121
- [Kwame] Yeah.
- Cool.
582
00:28:26,121 --> 00:28:30,417
[laughs] Really? So, yes,
we have two matching underwear sets...
583
00:28:30,417 --> 00:28:31,334
[Andy] Okay.
584
00:28:32,127 --> 00:28:33,670
[Chelsea] ...that we'll be putting on.
585
00:28:33,670 --> 00:28:35,422
Whatever feels comfortable for all of us.
586
00:28:35,422 --> 00:28:37,757
I think, you know, we can come out
with some good results.
587
00:28:37,757 --> 00:28:38,842
- [Andy] Okay, good.
- Yeah.
588
00:28:38,842 --> 00:28:42,554
{\an8}I don't know. It's just been, like,
a weird fantasy for me my whole life.
589
00:28:42,554 --> 00:28:44,055
[laughs]
590
00:28:44,055 --> 00:28:47,475
I don't think I told a lot of people
about this too, 'cause it's kind of weird.
591
00:28:47,475 --> 00:28:49,519
- Good idea?
- Great idea.
592
00:28:49,519 --> 00:28:55,275
I've always wanted somebody, you know,
confident and willing to do this with me.
593
00:28:55,275 --> 00:28:58,278
I wanted to show him off, and I want him
to be proud to show me off.
594
00:28:58,278 --> 00:29:02,073
And I feel really, like,
at peace and happy
595
00:29:02,073 --> 00:29:05,827
being here with the person that I know
I wanna spend the rest of my life with.
596
00:29:05,827 --> 00:29:09,247
Okay, so, you guys relax.
Find a comfortable spot.
597
00:29:09,831 --> 00:29:10,999
♪ Ooh-ooh-ooh... ♪
598
00:29:10,999 --> 00:29:12,792
Mm-hmm.
599
00:29:12,792 --> 00:29:14,878
- Mm-hmm
- [camera shutter clicks]
600
00:29:15,503 --> 00:29:16,796
Okay, let me move a bit.
601
00:29:18,256 --> 00:29:19,591
[camera shutter clicks]
602
00:29:19,591 --> 00:29:22,135
This is looking great, guys. Hold on.
603
00:29:22,135 --> 00:29:24,721
I can't compare our connection
and our love
604
00:29:24,721 --> 00:29:27,432
and, like,
the adoration that I have for him
605
00:29:27,432 --> 00:29:28,933
as my fiancé
606
00:29:28,933 --> 00:29:31,770
to anything I've ever experienced
ever in my whole life.
607
00:29:31,770 --> 00:29:34,981
♪ Gotta pump the magic potion... ♪
608
00:29:34,981 --> 00:29:38,067
[Andy] Turn towards the window
a little bit with your hips.
609
00:29:38,067 --> 00:29:40,153
- There you go.
- [camera shutter clicking]
610
00:29:40,153 --> 00:29:43,198
♪ You got me focused on the moment ♪
611
00:29:43,198 --> 00:29:45,492
♪ On the moment... ♪
612
00:29:46,618 --> 00:29:50,997
Kwame, perhaps you can have your head
into... your forehead resting on her chest.
613
00:29:53,500 --> 00:29:55,877
That's it. Just to get set there.
614
00:29:58,046 --> 00:29:59,422
[Kwame] I love Chelsea so much.
615
00:29:59,422 --> 00:30:03,384
{\an8}There are moments that are tough
that we, like... [exhales]
616
00:30:03,384 --> 00:30:06,137
...we have dispute or disagreement.
617
00:30:06,638 --> 00:30:09,974
But the good has outweighed
the bad substantially.
618
00:30:09,974 --> 00:30:12,811
Yeah, you look at him.
'Cause you the cute one, you know.
619
00:30:12,811 --> 00:30:14,813
This is it. That's it. Right in there.
620
00:30:14,813 --> 00:30:16,981
[Kwame] Every couple has their lows,
you know.
621
00:30:16,981 --> 00:30:20,318
But regardless of our lows,
our highs are just crazy high.
622
00:30:20,318 --> 00:30:22,487
Like, you know,
I can't have enough of her.
623
00:30:22,487 --> 00:30:24,989
I'm at home, and I'm waiting for her
to come back from work.
624
00:30:24,989 --> 00:30:29,035
I'm waking up, and I'm ready to see her.
Give her a kiss, give her goodbye.
625
00:30:29,035 --> 00:30:30,411
Whatever it is, you know.
626
00:30:31,204 --> 00:30:34,415
- Wow. What a day.
- Thanks for doing this with me today.
627
00:30:34,415 --> 00:30:37,585
It's funny because you said,
like, your goal was to find
628
00:30:38,545 --> 00:30:41,005
somebody, a husband,
who would do this with you.
629
00:30:41,005 --> 00:30:42,674
- You know what I mean?
- [Chelsea] Mm-hmm.
630
00:30:42,674 --> 00:30:43,716
And, like...
631
00:30:44,467 --> 00:30:47,345
we have our wedding in less than a week.
632
00:30:48,721 --> 00:30:49,931
It's a pretty big day.
633
00:30:51,057 --> 00:30:53,434
And that makes this mean so much more,
634
00:30:54,435 --> 00:30:57,981
considering this is a vision
you've had for your entire life.
635
00:30:57,981 --> 00:31:01,025
Doing this together is... [sniffles]
636
00:31:02,694 --> 00:31:03,945
...a dream come true.
637
00:31:05,154 --> 00:31:07,824
Having our wedding four days away
638
00:31:09,242 --> 00:31:11,286
with the rest of our lives
to look forward to
639
00:31:11,286 --> 00:31:12,829
is also a dream come true.
640
00:31:15,540 --> 00:31:18,334
You're hella cute. [laughs]
641
00:31:19,043 --> 00:31:23,715
How can this be real?
How can this beautiful, perfect man...
642
00:31:26,092 --> 00:31:27,010
be mine?
643
00:31:27,010 --> 00:31:28,011
[Kwame chuckles]
644
00:31:30,430 --> 00:31:31,431
Forever. [sighs]
645
00:31:35,643 --> 00:31:37,896
Seriously, the luckiest girl on Earth,
you know.
646
00:31:37,896 --> 00:31:39,647
[laughing] Baby.
647
00:31:41,107 --> 00:31:42,984
- That's how I feel.
- Yeah.
648
00:31:45,028 --> 00:31:47,906
Thank you, baby.
I think we've built something incredible.
649
00:31:48,531 --> 00:31:53,328
I've never met somebody in my life
that I wanted to be with more... than you.
650
00:31:55,496 --> 00:31:56,331
I love you.
651
00:31:56,331 --> 00:31:57,415
I love you too.
652
00:32:01,002 --> 00:32:03,963
Regardless of how much we both
wanna get up there and say yes,
653
00:32:03,963 --> 00:32:05,840
this is a really big step.
654
00:32:06,883 --> 00:32:07,717
I know.
655
00:32:07,717 --> 00:32:10,762
And I just catch myself
in moments just thinking a lot.
656
00:32:11,804 --> 00:32:13,765
And making sure I'm prepared for that.
657
00:32:14,432 --> 00:32:19,103
A couple of things that I need to make
sure that we iron out and line up are
658
00:32:19,103 --> 00:32:21,147
my next conversation with my mom.
659
00:32:23,650 --> 00:32:24,859
Because we're just...
660
00:32:25,818 --> 00:32:28,279
- Days away.
- Yeah, we're days away.
661
00:32:28,279 --> 00:32:29,530
Um...
662
00:32:32,116 --> 00:32:34,869
What do you think will be the outcome
of that conversation?
663
00:32:35,495 --> 00:32:37,497
I honestly don't know. [chuckles]
664
00:32:37,497 --> 00:32:39,123
If I'm being honest with you,
665
00:32:40,083 --> 00:32:44,379
if I was to say I think my mom would
show up to our wedding, I'd be lying.
666
00:32:46,381 --> 00:32:48,216
So, I don't know where that's gonna go.
667
00:32:48,216 --> 00:32:51,052
{\an8}My parents used to have
a lot of control over my dating life.
668
00:32:51,052 --> 00:32:52,929
{\an8}Like, an astonishing amount.
669
00:32:53,429 --> 00:32:56,766
{\an8}Um, in a sense that I didn't really date
until I went to college.
670
00:32:56,766 --> 00:33:01,562
And then at that point, I never really
introduced any girlfriends to my parents.
671
00:33:01,562 --> 00:33:06,651
Partnering Christianity with, like,
a very, very deep West African focus,
672
00:33:06,651 --> 00:33:10,530
it made for a lot of strict upbringing,
to put it simply.
673
00:33:11,114 --> 00:33:16,577
In my culture and religion, it's against
our grain to have sex before marriage.
674
00:33:16,577 --> 00:33:20,206
My mom, she could still believe
that I'm still a virgin...
675
00:33:20,206 --> 00:33:21,958
[chuckles] ...um, to be fair.
676
00:33:21,958 --> 00:33:25,211
You know, so it's been something
that has been held over me for a while.
677
00:33:25,211 --> 00:33:27,422
But all in all, um,
678
00:33:27,422 --> 00:33:31,676
now I would say I have control
of what I do, who I date,
679
00:33:31,676 --> 00:33:35,013
who I see, and I think I'm old enough
to make those decisions now.
680
00:33:35,013 --> 00:33:39,017
But when it comes to this decision,
this is one decision where I do think,
681
00:33:39,017 --> 00:33:41,853
um, it'd be nice to have
all the support of my family,
682
00:33:41,853 --> 00:33:44,856
um, because she does
become part of my family.
683
00:33:45,982 --> 00:33:48,568
All I can hope is that at least
684
00:33:49,485 --> 00:33:53,531
she'll send her positive regards
and blessings from wherever she is.
685
00:33:54,657 --> 00:33:56,451
And that's the most important thing to me.
686
00:33:58,453 --> 00:34:00,872
Yeah. You don't gotta be there.
You just gotta...
687
00:34:02,123 --> 00:34:04,375
You gotta let me know
from afar that you care.
688
00:34:04,917 --> 00:34:06,294
Yeah. Of course.
689
00:34:07,045 --> 00:34:08,838
So, I'm gonna give her a ring.
690
00:34:09,797 --> 00:34:12,216
- We'll see how it goes, and, um...
- [clears throat]
691
00:34:12,842 --> 00:34:16,012
You know, I'm there to support you,
no matter what she says.
692
00:34:17,138 --> 00:34:18,306
[exhales]
693
00:34:18,931 --> 00:34:23,144
Do you think you're, like, truly,
like, deeply, do you think you're ready?
694
00:34:26,773 --> 00:34:28,149
I think I love you a lot.
695
00:34:28,733 --> 00:34:29,650
Mmm.
696
00:34:30,610 --> 00:34:32,528
I think I love you with all my heart.
697
00:34:34,405 --> 00:34:37,700
There are some things that come up
in my mind that make me...
698
00:34:37,700 --> 00:34:39,952
have to take an extra second to think.
699
00:34:43,539 --> 00:34:45,583
Will you say yes to me,
700
00:34:46,584 --> 00:34:47,919
if it's right for you,
701
00:34:49,045 --> 00:34:50,713
without your mom's approval?
702
00:34:50,713 --> 00:34:54,509
- ["Europa" by JT Ruff playing]
- ♪ I can't feel a thing ♪
703
00:34:55,093 --> 00:34:58,805
♪ When I come close to you ♪
704
00:34:59,472 --> 00:35:00,765
♪ Close to you... ♪
705
00:35:00,765 --> 00:35:02,391
It would be the biggest...
706
00:35:05,812 --> 00:35:08,981
letdown of the century
707
00:35:10,066 --> 00:35:13,486
to put what we've built to waste
and throw it away.
708
00:35:13,486 --> 00:35:19,784
♪ I feel hopeless when I lose your love ♪
709
00:35:19,784 --> 00:35:22,995
♪ Loser, loser, loser ♪
710
00:35:22,995 --> 00:35:27,875
♪ I can't withdraw
From this addictive drug ♪
711
00:35:27,875 --> 00:35:30,336
♪ Withdraw from this drug ♪
712
00:35:30,336 --> 00:35:32,088
♪ Oh! ♪
713
00:35:32,088 --> 00:35:35,675
♪ You make me feel ♪
714
00:35:36,884 --> 00:35:41,097
{\an8}♪ You inject my bloodstream ♪
715
00:35:43,933 --> 00:35:44,976
[Tiffany sighs]
716
00:35:47,728 --> 00:35:52,024
[hesitates] I'd be lying if I say
I'm not stressed right now.
717
00:35:52,024 --> 00:35:54,485
Because it is countdown time.
718
00:35:54,485 --> 00:35:57,405
The wedding is days away.
719
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,700
We have so many details to iron out.
720
00:36:01,284 --> 00:36:02,451
[sighs]
721
00:36:02,952 --> 00:36:07,290
{\an8}It is... It is a lot. I feel like
I'm not thinking straight anymore.
722
00:36:07,290 --> 00:36:10,626
{\an8}I'm just-- I can't keep my days straight.
723
00:36:11,419 --> 00:36:12,920
[exhales]
724
00:36:14,255 --> 00:36:16,048
Whoosah.
725
00:36:17,049 --> 00:36:19,260
Whoosah.
726
00:36:20,219 --> 00:36:22,430
This right now is challenging.
727
00:36:23,055 --> 00:36:25,099
It's go, go, go, go, go.
728
00:36:25,099 --> 00:36:26,726
"Relax and think clearly."
729
00:36:26,726 --> 00:36:28,811
This is what I need.
730
00:36:28,811 --> 00:36:31,272
I just want everything to go perfect.
731
00:36:31,772 --> 00:36:32,857
It's a lot.
732
00:36:33,482 --> 00:36:34,400
[sighs]
733
00:36:37,737 --> 00:36:39,822
{\an8}- Oh. Hey, baby.
- Hey.
734
00:36:40,698 --> 00:36:42,783
- May I join you?
- Yes.
735
00:36:44,368 --> 00:36:48,080
- Or can I replace you on the couch?
- Mm-hmm.
736
00:36:53,127 --> 00:36:55,254
- [exhales deeply]
- How are you?
737
00:36:56,380 --> 00:36:58,424
[groans] I'm not good.
738
00:36:59,425 --> 00:37:00,801
[chuckles]
739
00:37:01,677 --> 00:37:04,805
[breathes deeply]
740
00:37:04,805 --> 00:37:06,641
I'm trying not to cry.
741
00:37:07,850 --> 00:37:08,726
How come?
742
00:37:10,519 --> 00:37:12,688
[clicks tongue] Uh...
743
00:37:15,775 --> 00:37:17,568
It's the stress of everything.
744
00:37:18,945 --> 00:37:21,614
It's, like, getting to me. [sniffles]
745
00:37:27,536 --> 00:37:28,788
[sniffles]
746
00:37:31,540 --> 00:37:33,834
[sobbing]
747
00:37:37,630 --> 00:37:39,632
[Brett sighs]
748
00:37:43,678 --> 00:37:46,430
[Tiffany exhales, sniffles]
749
00:37:47,306 --> 00:37:49,016
I just need to calm down. [sniffles]
750
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:53,354
I just feel so
all over the place right now. [sniffles]
751
00:37:54,397 --> 00:37:58,985
Just with my mom being in town
and trying to plan everything.
752
00:38:01,070 --> 00:38:02,446
Oh, I gotta make sure, like,
753
00:38:02,446 --> 00:38:05,366
the bridesmaids have everything
for their dresses, and...
754
00:38:06,909 --> 00:38:07,994
It's just all
755
00:38:09,662 --> 00:38:10,955
too much.
756
00:38:10,955 --> 00:38:12,123
[sniffles]
757
00:38:15,001 --> 00:38:17,878
Well, what you're feeling and everything,
I mean, considering
758
00:38:17,878 --> 00:38:20,506
everything that we have going on,
it's understandable.
759
00:38:20,506 --> 00:38:23,509
So, it's okay to feel how you feel
760
00:38:23,509 --> 00:38:25,845
and to feel stressed
and to feel overwhelmed.
761
00:38:25,845 --> 00:38:27,430
It's driving me crazy,
762
00:38:27,430 --> 00:38:31,309
and it's letting
little things fall through the cracks.
763
00:38:31,309 --> 00:38:35,313
- Mm-hmm.
- And I'm really...
764
00:38:35,313 --> 00:38:40,026
trying to... just have my shit together
765
00:38:40,026 --> 00:38:43,279
since I got back to work,
and I can't even get ahead.
766
00:38:44,739 --> 00:38:47,408
[sighs] And it stresses me out even more.
767
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:49,493
It's just all
768
00:38:50,828 --> 00:38:52,747
too much for me right now.
769
00:39:00,796 --> 00:39:04,675
It's almost like I--
I don't-- I don't want a wedding.
770
00:39:04,675 --> 00:39:07,345
["Upside of Down" by SVRCINA playing]
771
00:39:07,345 --> 00:39:10,723
♪ I was up till the break of dawn ♪
772
00:39:10,723 --> 00:39:13,976
♪ Trying to pick myself off the ground ♪
773
00:39:13,976 --> 00:39:17,813
♪ Wanna get back the time I lost ♪
774
00:39:17,813 --> 00:39:21,192
♪ And turn this around ♪
775
00:39:21,192 --> 00:39:24,570
- ♪ There's a bright side in the storm ♪
- [exhales]
776
00:39:24,570 --> 00:39:28,032
♪ But my head's in the clouds ♪
777
00:39:28,032 --> 00:39:31,369
♪ Trying to find what I'm looking for ♪
778
00:39:31,369 --> 00:39:35,915
{\an8}♪ Where's the upside of down? ♪
779
00:39:38,125 --> 00:39:39,835
♪ Upside of down ♪
780
00:39:39,835 --> 00:39:41,545
- [Micah] Well, hello.
- Hey, folks, welcome.
781
00:39:41,545 --> 00:39:43,047
- Hey.
- Thank you.
782
00:39:43,047 --> 00:39:45,466
{\an8}We thought it'd be cool to,
like, make our wedding bands.
783
00:39:45,466 --> 00:39:46,384
{\an8}Absolutely.
784
00:39:46,384 --> 00:39:50,262
{\an8}These rings are super representative to us
and if we're putting our own, like, effort
785
00:39:50,262 --> 00:39:52,848
{\an8}and creativity into making something
for each other.
786
00:39:52,848 --> 00:39:54,683
- Look at you. So cute.
- Yeah. I mean--
787
00:39:54,683 --> 00:39:56,811
I can't wait for you to see them.
Let's get started.
788
00:39:56,811 --> 00:39:59,522
- ["Do It with Love" playing]
- ♪ In the morning sun ♪
789
00:40:01,190 --> 00:40:03,567
♪ We all should be like one ♪
790
00:40:03,567 --> 00:40:05,945
♪ Our barriers undone... ♪
791
00:40:07,613 --> 00:40:08,781
[sizzling]
792
00:40:12,618 --> 00:40:14,870
[Micah] The wedding is in a few days,
793
00:40:14,870 --> 00:40:17,415
and the fact
that we're making our own rings
794
00:40:17,415 --> 00:40:19,375
just makes it that much more special.
795
00:40:19,375 --> 00:40:22,253
♪ So when the time comes ♪
796
00:40:22,253 --> 00:40:24,630
♪ For me to stand up ♪
797
00:40:24,630 --> 00:40:29,593
♪ I'll do it with love ♪
798
00:40:29,593 --> 00:40:32,555
[Micah] These rings are one of a kind.
799
00:40:32,555 --> 00:40:34,557
They're sentimental.
800
00:40:34,557 --> 00:40:38,102
So, I think that it's gonna be
the perfect rings for our wedding day.
801
00:40:39,478 --> 00:40:41,313
[Paul] Look at how delicate these are.
802
00:40:41,313 --> 00:40:44,650
We're, like, layering
of, like, different types of steel.
803
00:40:44,650 --> 00:40:46,527
I feel like it's kind of like a marriage.
804
00:40:46,527 --> 00:40:49,113
You know, it's like
different people coming together.
805
00:40:49,113 --> 00:40:52,199
- And kind of creating one thing.
- Mm-hmm.
806
00:40:52,199 --> 00:40:55,536
It's like, we're forging a... love.
807
00:40:55,536 --> 00:40:56,745
[Micah] So romance.
808
00:40:56,745 --> 00:40:58,038
[Paul] Wow, that was corny.
809
00:40:58,038 --> 00:40:59,457
[laughing]
810
00:40:59,457 --> 00:41:03,586
- ["Like a Kaleidoscope" playing]
- ♪ Don't wanna wait for the perfect time ♪
811
00:41:03,586 --> 00:41:07,047
♪ To go swinging around ♪
812
00:41:07,047 --> 00:41:10,092
♪ Like a kaleidoscope ♪
813
00:41:10,092 --> 00:41:12,595
♪ Swing 'round, swing 'round ♪
814
00:41:12,595 --> 00:41:16,223
♪ Like a kaleidoscope ♪
815
00:41:17,266 --> 00:41:20,144
The last time I talked to my mom,
things didn't go the way I wanted it to.
816
00:41:20,144 --> 00:41:23,355
So, I just want her to say,
"Hey, I'm willing to hear you out."
817
00:41:23,898 --> 00:41:26,233
[line ringing]
818
00:41:27,109 --> 00:41:30,529
{\an8}This is the week of my wedding.
I just wanna have a conversation with her.
819
00:41:30,529 --> 00:41:33,240
{\an8}You know, tell her where I'm coming from.
820
00:41:33,240 --> 00:41:35,868
[line ringing]
821
00:41:37,953 --> 00:41:39,622
[automated voice]
Please leave your message.
822
00:41:40,539 --> 00:41:41,499
[Kwame exhales]
823
00:41:46,295 --> 00:41:48,380
[line ringing]
824
00:41:50,716 --> 00:41:53,260
- [man] Hey, yo, what's up, man?
- What's good, J? How are you?
825
00:41:53,260 --> 00:41:54,386
Good, good, bro.
826
00:41:54,386 --> 00:41:57,097
{\an8}Have you talked to Mom
in the last couple of weeks?
827
00:41:57,097 --> 00:41:59,850
{\an8}Yeah, but not about the wedding and stuff.
828
00:41:59,850 --> 00:42:03,437
[Kwame] I texted her, and I said,
"Hey, just let me know when you're free."
829
00:42:03,437 --> 00:42:06,023
I've called her as well.
She didn't pick up.
830
00:42:06,023 --> 00:42:09,902
It's hard to change Mom's feelings about
something once she makes up her mind.
831
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:16,158
She can't make
this decision like that for you.
832
00:42:18,786 --> 00:42:20,538
You gotta do right by you.
833
00:42:21,622 --> 00:42:22,456
Yeah.
834
00:42:22,456 --> 00:42:25,543
- ["Worth the Fight" by 5 Alarm playing]
- ♪ But I'm caught in this undertow ♪
835
00:42:26,168 --> 00:42:30,005
♪ Whatever it takes ♪
836
00:42:30,005 --> 00:42:33,551
♪ Hold on to the fire that's deep inside ♪
837
00:42:33,551 --> 00:42:36,428
♪ Hold on, yeah ♪
838
00:42:36,428 --> 00:42:40,224
♪ Be strong
'Cause it's gonna be worth the fight... ♪
839
00:42:41,058 --> 00:42:42,434
[birds squawking]
840
00:42:43,561 --> 00:42:44,853
{\an8}[Tiffany groans]
841
00:42:45,896 --> 00:42:48,566
{\an8}So, you said you've never been
on a small plane before, right?
842
00:42:48,566 --> 00:42:51,151
[Tiffany] Nothing like this. Ooh!
843
00:42:51,151 --> 00:42:54,989
{\an8}I'd be lying if I say
I'm not a little nervous.
844
00:42:54,989 --> 00:42:56,490
{\an8}[both laugh]
845
00:42:56,490 --> 00:43:00,703
{\an8}[Brett] It's been pretty difficult seeing,
you know, Tiffany kind of overwhelmed.
846
00:43:00,703 --> 00:43:02,329
{\an8}I definitely don't like to see her cry.
847
00:43:02,329 --> 00:43:04,373
{\an8}I don't like to see her
being really emotional.
848
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:06,166
[Tiffany] Here we go.
849
00:43:06,166 --> 00:43:08,919
[Brett] I just really hope that,
come the wedding day,
850
00:43:08,919 --> 00:43:13,424
she doesn't let those external things,
uh, get in the way of our relationship.
851
00:43:14,049 --> 00:43:15,926
I want her to know that I'm really serious
852
00:43:15,926 --> 00:43:19,096
about, you know, this commitment
that we're about to make to each other.
853
00:43:19,096 --> 00:43:21,807
[engine sputters]
854
00:43:21,807 --> 00:43:23,684
["All We Need" by Foreign Signals playing]
855
00:43:23,684 --> 00:43:25,060
[laughs]
856
00:43:25,060 --> 00:43:27,062
- [pilot] Here we go.
- [Tiffany] Okay.
857
00:43:27,062 --> 00:43:28,105
[Brett] Ready for it.
858
00:43:28,105 --> 00:43:30,649
♪ Trees and grass ♪
859
00:43:30,649 --> 00:43:34,069
♪ Run the overpass
We'll run the overpass ♪
860
00:43:34,069 --> 00:43:36,405
♪ And I want, and I want you ♪
861
00:43:36,405 --> 00:43:38,073
♪ Any time of day ♪
862
00:43:38,073 --> 00:43:39,575
♪ Any kind of way ♪
863
00:43:39,575 --> 00:43:43,662
♪ And I need, and I need you
There's nothing I can say... ♪
864
00:43:43,662 --> 00:43:46,373
[Tiffany] You're too sweet.
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
865
00:43:46,373 --> 00:43:49,001
[Brett] You're welcome.
Thank you for being you.
866
00:43:49,627 --> 00:43:51,170
[Tiffany] I'm always gonna try.
867
00:43:52,379 --> 00:43:54,715
[Brett] I want her
to know how much I love her.
868
00:43:55,466 --> 00:43:57,926
I am in love. I am in love with Tiffany.
869
00:43:57,926 --> 00:44:01,388
♪ Your love on my weekend ♪
870
00:44:01,388 --> 00:44:03,599
♪ Is all I need ♪
871
00:44:03,599 --> 00:44:06,477
♪ Her love on my weekend ♪
872
00:44:06,477 --> 00:44:09,063
♪ Brings me to my knees ♪
873
00:44:09,063 --> 00:44:11,857
♪ And they'll say that we're crazy ♪
874
00:44:11,857 --> 00:44:14,652
♪ Let 'em talk
Let 'em talk all about it... ♪
875
00:44:15,653 --> 00:44:17,321
[Brett] I have a little something for you.
876
00:44:17,321 --> 00:44:21,200
Turn around. Turn around. Turn around.
Turn around. Keep your eyes closed.
877
00:44:22,785 --> 00:44:24,161
- Your eyes closed?
- Yes.
878
00:44:24,161 --> 00:44:25,079
Okay.
879
00:44:25,788 --> 00:44:28,582
- Keep your eyes closed.
- It's closed. It's closed. I promise.
880
00:44:28,582 --> 00:44:31,794
- [pop music playing]
- ♪ Pretend this is our own little island ♪
881
00:44:31,794 --> 00:44:33,712
Okay, you can...
882
00:44:35,839 --> 00:44:36,674
open.
883
00:44:37,341 --> 00:44:38,634
[gasps]
884
00:44:39,301 --> 00:44:41,178
Oh, my God!
885
00:44:42,137 --> 00:44:45,265
- [laughing]
- [Brett] Come and look. Come and look.
886
00:44:46,016 --> 00:44:47,685
[Tiffany] These are beautiful.
887
00:44:47,685 --> 00:44:49,603
[laughing] Oh, my God.
888
00:44:50,229 --> 00:44:51,563
This is really sweet.
889
00:44:54,233 --> 00:44:56,235
Brett took those photographs.
890
00:44:56,235 --> 00:44:59,780
He captured, like, those special moments,
891
00:44:59,780 --> 00:45:03,242
{\an8}and so I think that's why it had me
a little emotional.
892
00:45:03,242 --> 00:45:04,827
{\an8}[sobbing]
893
00:45:06,203 --> 00:45:10,708
'Cause he sees things in me
that sometimes I don't see in myself.
894
00:45:10,708 --> 00:45:12,835
[sniffles] I'm sorry.
895
00:45:12,835 --> 00:45:14,712
[sobs]
896
00:45:14,712 --> 00:45:15,754
Ugh! [sighs]
897
00:45:15,754 --> 00:45:17,089
I love you.
898
00:45:18,132 --> 00:45:19,508
Thank you.
899
00:45:24,972 --> 00:45:27,391
- Sweetheart.
- Shall we?
900
00:45:27,391 --> 00:45:29,560
- Cheers to us.
- To us.
901
00:45:37,067 --> 00:45:41,280
I've mentioned this to you before,
but I've just been... [clears throat]
902
00:45:42,990 --> 00:45:44,700
...surprised at myself,
903
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:47,745
um, of, like, how...
904
00:45:48,912 --> 00:45:53,208
how ready I am to marry you.
905
00:45:54,334 --> 00:45:55,961
And it's kind of like a...
906
00:45:56,670 --> 00:45:59,381
It, like, messes with my head sometimes,
'cause it's like...
907
00:46:00,424 --> 00:46:05,471
How did I go from being single to,
like, saying, like, "Yeah, you know what?"
908
00:46:05,471 --> 00:46:07,514
"Tiffany, yeah, she the one.
I can marry her."
909
00:46:08,515 --> 00:46:13,687
And to do that, and to not feel,
like, doubt or second-guessing.
910
00:46:14,438 --> 00:46:16,857
And to totally feel that
I'm making the right decision.
911
00:46:16,857 --> 00:46:17,775
Yeah.
912
00:46:17,775 --> 00:46:20,277
And that I've met the person
that I wanna call my wife.
913
00:46:20,277 --> 00:46:21,361
I know.
914
00:46:21,904 --> 00:46:22,780
[clicks tongue]
915
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:26,784
- So, you got me, Tiffany Pennywell.
- Oh, ho-ho!
916
00:46:26,784 --> 00:46:28,118
You said my whole name.
917
00:46:28,118 --> 00:46:31,330
Oh, man.
You see these goose bumps? [laughs]
918
00:46:31,330 --> 00:46:33,040
- Did you really get goose bumps?
- I did.
919
00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:35,167
- Did you?
- I did.
920
00:46:35,167 --> 00:46:36,460
[tsks] They gone now.
921
00:46:36,460 --> 00:46:38,545
[both laugh]
922
00:46:40,923 --> 00:46:43,383
[Tiffany] Yeah, um...
923
00:46:43,967 --> 00:46:47,888
I didn't mean to make you speechless.
We don't wanna sit here in silence.
924
00:46:47,888 --> 00:46:52,559
Babe, I know. I-- I just...
I loved everything that you said.
925
00:46:54,102 --> 00:46:56,939
I think you're an amazing man.
926
00:46:57,564 --> 00:47:03,737
And, um, I never wanted to,
like, pressure you into anything.
927
00:47:03,737 --> 00:47:07,074
Even if it's marriage.
Like, I want you to be sure.
928
00:47:07,074 --> 00:47:10,828
So, hearing those words come out,
saying like, "You know what?"
929
00:47:10,828 --> 00:47:13,080
"I know without a doubt.
You were the one."
930
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:15,082
Like, that makes me feel good.
931
00:47:15,666 --> 00:47:19,127
There's no other person who I think...
Well, no, not that I think.
932
00:47:19,127 --> 00:47:21,547
I know there's no other person
I would have fallen for.
933
00:47:22,548 --> 00:47:24,508
So, like, I don't have any doubt.
934
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:28,804
And if you did,
I would want you to be honest with me.
935
00:47:31,557 --> 00:47:33,267
So, I think you've been seeing me cry
936
00:47:33,267 --> 00:47:37,104
a little bit more
than I typically cry in a whole year.
937
00:47:37,604 --> 00:47:44,069
And that is because the stress
is kind of getting to me.
938
00:47:44,069 --> 00:47:49,366
Explaining to my family, like,
"Hey, yeah, I fell in love with this man,
939
00:47:49,366 --> 00:47:52,411
and he's amazing.
And no, you haven't met him yet."
940
00:47:52,411 --> 00:47:53,996
And the pressure
941
00:47:53,996 --> 00:47:58,876
of making sure they see what I see in you.
942
00:48:01,545 --> 00:48:05,757
But I do appreciate
this experiment brought us together,
943
00:48:05,757 --> 00:48:09,511
when we wouldn't have found each other
in the real world. We wouldn't have.
944
00:48:09,511 --> 00:48:13,098
I need to lean in more on that.
945
00:48:13,098 --> 00:48:16,059
And be grateful for that.
946
00:48:16,059 --> 00:48:18,854
I just--
I really appreciated you this weekend.
947
00:48:19,438 --> 00:48:21,648
You have no idea.
948
00:48:22,316 --> 00:48:23,734
Well, I'm here for you.
949
00:48:23,734 --> 00:48:28,155
You were so cool and collected.
950
00:48:28,155 --> 00:48:29,323
Ooh!
951
00:48:30,198 --> 00:48:33,869
Ooh, I wanna be like you, baby.
952
00:48:34,494 --> 00:48:35,537
I really do.
953
00:48:36,538 --> 00:48:40,042
You know what? I'm stressed out
about the wedding, but, man,
954
00:48:40,042 --> 00:48:45,797
that just means I'm one day closer
to marrying my person.
955
00:48:45,797 --> 00:48:48,634
- ["Alive" by Tina Parol playing]
- ♪ By your kiss, your vibe ♪
956
00:48:48,634 --> 00:48:50,886
♪ Your touch, your smile ♪
957
00:48:50,886 --> 00:48:54,848
♪ You make me feel
Like I can do anything ♪
958
00:48:54,848 --> 00:49:00,687
♪ Yeah, you make me feel alive! ♪
959
00:49:00,687 --> 00:49:03,440
♪ You make me feel alive ♪
960
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:05,525
♪ When you're by my side ♪
961
00:49:06,068 --> 00:49:11,406
{\an8}♪ You make me feel alive! ♪
962
00:49:11,406 --> 00:49:13,992
{\an8}♪ You make me feel alive ♪
963
00:49:13,992 --> 00:49:16,703
♪ When you're by my side ♪
964
00:49:18,372 --> 00:49:21,792
{\an8}How are you feeling about meeting my dad
and my stepmom?
965
00:49:21,792 --> 00:49:23,043
Good. Yeah.
966
00:49:23,043 --> 00:49:24,711
- Are you nervous?
- A little bit.
967
00:49:24,711 --> 00:49:26,213
{\an8}Yeah, it's okay.
968
00:49:26,213 --> 00:49:28,382
{\an8}- It's normal to be nervous.
- [sighs]
969
00:49:28,382 --> 00:49:30,175
My dad will be nice. It's fine.
970
00:49:30,175 --> 00:49:31,218
Hopefully.
971
00:49:31,218 --> 00:49:34,346
- He's not gonna be mean to you.
- [both laugh]
972
00:49:35,055 --> 00:49:38,684
{\an8}My dad hasn't really cared
for a lot of my boyfriends in the past.
973
00:49:38,684 --> 00:49:42,646
Just because maybe he didn't think
they were, like, where they should be
974
00:49:42,646 --> 00:49:45,691
in their lives to be with me,
or they weren't a certain way,
975
00:49:45,691 --> 00:49:49,778
or they weren't, in his eyes,
up to standard of what I should be with.
976
00:49:49,778 --> 00:49:51,321
[doorbell rings]
977
00:49:51,321 --> 00:49:53,073
I'll be right back.
978
00:49:56,535 --> 00:49:58,620
This is my little brother Zyhe.
This is Zack.
979
00:49:58,620 --> 00:50:00,122
- [Zack] Hi, Zyhe.
- Hi.
980
00:50:00,122 --> 00:50:01,915
{\an8}- [Zack] I'm Zack.
- [laughing]
981
00:50:01,915 --> 00:50:03,458
{\an8}- [Zack] The two Zs.
- Nice to meet you.
982
00:50:03,458 --> 00:50:04,376
{\an8}[Bliss] This is Zia.
983
00:50:04,376 --> 00:50:06,628
{\an8}- Hi, Zia. Zack.
- [Zia] Hi. Nice to meet you.
984
00:50:06,628 --> 00:50:08,630
{\an8}- And this is my dad Shah.
- Nice to meet you, Zack.
985
00:50:08,630 --> 00:50:11,133
{\an8}- Hi, Shah. It's good to meet you.
- You too.
986
00:50:11,133 --> 00:50:13,010
{\an8}- And my stepmom Yaenid.
- Hi.
987
00:50:13,510 --> 00:50:15,095
{\an8}- Nice to meet you.
- You too.
988
00:50:15,095 --> 00:50:16,805
Well, welcome to our home.
989
00:50:16,805 --> 00:50:18,974
[Bliss] Yeah, do you guys wanna sit down?
990
00:50:18,974 --> 00:50:20,267
[Shah clears throat]
991
00:50:21,685 --> 00:50:23,103
[Shah] So, you're from Seattle?
992
00:50:23,103 --> 00:50:25,814
[Zack] No, I'm kind of a nomad.
I grew up moving everywhere.
993
00:50:25,814 --> 00:50:28,442
I was born over in Moses Lake, Washington.
994
00:50:28,442 --> 00:50:30,861
I remember Moses.
I grew up in the Tri-Cities.
995
00:50:30,861 --> 00:50:32,904
- That's where my dad lives.
- [Shah] All right.
996
00:50:32,904 --> 00:50:34,656
I don't know if you ever fish, but...
997
00:50:34,656 --> 00:50:37,492
[chuckles] I'm not very skilled
at fishing, unfortunately.
998
00:50:37,492 --> 00:50:40,287
But I'm always open
to learning new things.
999
00:50:40,287 --> 00:50:41,997
- Learning new skills. Yeah.
- [Shah] Yeah.
1000
00:50:41,997 --> 00:50:43,623
Do you golf?
1001
00:50:44,291 --> 00:50:45,959
- No?
- No, not good at golfing either.
1002
00:50:45,959 --> 00:50:47,044
[Shah chuckles]
1003
00:50:47,044 --> 00:50:48,295
Sports is not it.
1004
00:50:48,295 --> 00:50:49,921
Hmm.
1005
00:50:49,921 --> 00:50:51,256
Really?
1006
00:50:51,757 --> 00:50:52,716
All right.
1007
00:50:54,134 --> 00:50:55,343
Anyway.
1008
00:50:55,844 --> 00:50:57,596
So, how long you been practicing law?
1009
00:50:57,596 --> 00:50:59,347
[Zack] This is going into my sixth year.
1010
00:50:59,347 --> 00:51:01,224
[Shah] Sixth year, huh? All righty.
1011
00:51:01,224 --> 00:51:04,519
[Zack] Really what I specialize in
is litigation.
1012
00:51:04,519 --> 00:51:08,148
Anything that involves going in front
of a jury and trial, that's my specialty.
1013
00:51:08,148 --> 00:51:09,066
All right.
1014
00:51:09,066 --> 00:51:11,193
One of the things, like,
that I see is that
1015
00:51:11,193 --> 00:51:13,653
the criminal justice system
is too over-expansive.
1016
00:51:13,653 --> 00:51:17,365
It's costing more
than the benefit to society.
1017
00:51:17,365 --> 00:51:18,867
So, I'll give you an example.
1018
00:51:18,867 --> 00:51:21,995
You know what driving
with license suspended third degree is?
1019
00:51:21,995 --> 00:51:22,913
[Shah] Mm-hmm.
1020
00:51:22,913 --> 00:51:26,458
It is the number one crime
in the state of Washington.
1021
00:51:26,458 --> 00:51:28,668
You're stopping people
from actually going and working.
1022
00:51:28,668 --> 00:51:31,588
It's just not practical, uh,
to take their driver's license away.
1023
00:51:31,588 --> 00:51:33,673
Too many things
get put into the criminal code
1024
00:51:33,673 --> 00:51:35,717
that should be civil infractions.
1025
00:51:35,717 --> 00:51:37,719
Anyways, that's my rant.
1026
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:38,970
Interesting. All right.
1027
00:51:40,222 --> 00:51:42,307
I don't really have
an opinion about that, honestly.
1028
00:51:45,894 --> 00:51:47,562
- [Zack] I'm a bit of a talker.
- [Shah] Yeah.
1029
00:51:51,817 --> 00:51:54,903
So, where do you guys plan on staying
once you're married?
1030
00:51:54,903 --> 00:51:56,905
Yeah. That's a good question.
1031
00:51:56,905 --> 00:51:58,698
[laughs] We have to figure it out.
1032
00:51:58,698 --> 00:52:01,076
- When did you say your lease was? August?
- [Bliss] Uh, yeah.
1033
00:52:01,076 --> 00:52:04,830
So we'd have at least till August
to figure it out, and then...
1034
00:52:05,413 --> 00:52:07,207
I think, probably in December,
1035
00:52:07,207 --> 00:52:09,960
we'd probably start
looking at trying to find a home.
1036
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:13,964
- Pretty odd. Not gonna lie.
- What I would tell you is that we...
1037
00:52:13,964 --> 00:52:18,552
We both recognize
that what we're doing is crazy.
1038
00:52:19,469 --> 00:52:23,974
I think what you might not know
is, like, in the pods--
1039
00:52:23,974 --> 00:52:25,851
[Bliss] Know what we mean
when we say "pods?"
1040
00:52:25,851 --> 00:52:27,561
[Shah] Actually, I know what a pod is.
1041
00:52:27,561 --> 00:52:29,271
[Zack] With Bliss,
1042
00:52:29,271 --> 00:52:32,649
she started to talk to me
about all of the books she loves to read,
1043
00:52:32,649 --> 00:52:36,653
and we had these
incredibly deep conversations.
1044
00:52:36,653 --> 00:52:38,864
I mean, the stuff that we talk about,
ranging from--
1045
00:52:38,864 --> 00:52:40,365
It's probably super boring.
1046
00:52:40,365 --> 00:52:43,702
Neurobiology to the origins
of the human species
1047
00:52:43,702 --> 00:52:47,539
and, you know, her dream to one day be
on the moon when she's 60 years old.
1048
00:52:47,539 --> 00:52:48,915
[laughing]
1049
00:52:48,915 --> 00:52:52,002
I'll tell you, the thing that I love
the most about Bliss
1050
00:52:52,002 --> 00:52:56,298
is not her intelligence or her beauty.
It's her character.
1051
00:52:56,298 --> 00:53:00,093
It makes it so easy to sacrifice for you
and to do things for you,
1052
00:53:00,093 --> 00:53:03,054
because I know that you would do
the exact same thing.
1053
00:53:03,054 --> 00:53:05,223
I just feel like you genuinely love me.
1054
00:53:05,223 --> 00:53:07,517
It just feels like we're a team.
1055
00:53:07,517 --> 00:53:10,061
Mm-hmm. You sure about Zack?
1056
00:53:10,061 --> 00:53:11,605
For now. [chuckles]
1057
00:53:12,314 --> 00:53:14,357
- [Shah groans]
- [Bliss] Yeah, I-- I am.
1058
00:53:14,357 --> 00:53:16,193
We connect very deeply.
1059
00:53:16,193 --> 00:53:19,487
I've never experienced
anything quite like that before.
1060
00:53:19,487 --> 00:53:23,074
Um, I'm not, like, saying that
there's not challenges
1061
00:53:23,074 --> 00:53:25,076
or that there won't be challenges.
I'm not dumb.
1062
00:53:25,076 --> 00:53:27,162
- [Shah] There's gonna be challenges.
- I know that.
1063
00:53:27,162 --> 00:53:29,122
You've known each other how long now?
1064
00:53:30,332 --> 00:53:33,585
[exhales] I'd say around 20 days
at this point.
1065
00:53:33,585 --> 00:53:36,004
Oh, God.
Only thing I can say is good luck.
1066
00:53:36,004 --> 00:53:38,798
[laughing] I'm not trying to be mean,
but good luck.
1067
00:53:38,798 --> 00:53:42,260
[Bliss] No, I mean, I get that this is,
like, not a normal situation.
1068
00:53:43,511 --> 00:53:46,014
I already tried with your sister,
and you know how that ended up.
1069
00:53:46,014 --> 00:53:48,058
"Tried with my sister." What do you mean?
1070
00:53:48,058 --> 00:53:52,229
Her older sister got married
to a guy that worked for me.
1071
00:53:52,229 --> 00:53:53,855
Well, I fired him.
1072
00:53:53,855 --> 00:53:56,733
[laughing] Then they left Arizona
and got married.
1073
00:53:57,776 --> 00:53:59,611
Oh, boy. [sighs]
1074
00:53:59,611 --> 00:54:01,821
You know, you do have to let intelligence
1075
00:54:01,821 --> 00:54:04,157
actually play a factor in decision-making,
1076
00:54:04,157 --> 00:54:07,911
so let's hope you guys
are making the right choice.
1077
00:54:07,911 --> 00:54:10,413
[Zack sighs] I agree. I think that--
1078
00:54:10,413 --> 00:54:12,958
I mean, 20 days is just insanity.
1079
00:54:13,583 --> 00:54:15,585
So, I don't know. [sighs]
1080
00:54:15,585 --> 00:54:17,963
I know you're happy,
but don't fool yourself, you know.
1081
00:54:20,257 --> 00:54:22,509
People take marriage lightly,
we all know that, nowadays.
1082
00:54:22,509 --> 00:54:25,303
People get married. They get divorced.
Get married, get divorced.
1083
00:54:25,303 --> 00:54:28,139
[Bliss] We both are--
Let me just say this really quick, Dad.
1084
00:54:28,139 --> 00:54:30,725
Okay, so I'm gonna lose my train
of thought, but go ahead.
1085
00:54:30,725 --> 00:54:31,810
[Bliss] Okay, go ahead.
1086
00:54:31,810 --> 00:54:34,354
- I already lost it. Go ahead.
- [Bliss] Finish. I'm sorry.
1087
00:54:34,354 --> 00:54:36,189
But we talked about marriage.
1088
00:54:36,189 --> 00:54:38,692
And, like, obviously,
you and Mom are divorced,
1089
00:54:38,692 --> 00:54:40,735
and that impacted me very heavily.
1090
00:54:40,735 --> 00:54:41,653
[Shah] It did.
1091
00:54:41,653 --> 00:54:44,572
And I know that divorce
is a very serious thing.
1092
00:54:44,572 --> 00:54:48,618
And it's something that I don't ever
wanna participate in any capacity.
1093
00:54:48,618 --> 00:54:50,662
- At all. No even a little bit.
- [Shah] Okay.
1094
00:54:50,662 --> 00:54:54,165
Well, you're putting yourself out there
in that category. Just so you know.
1095
00:54:54,165 --> 00:54:57,919
- And I understand that it seems that way.
- No, it is that way.
1096
00:54:57,919 --> 00:55:01,673
- Okay. Thanks. Fine. But I'm saying--
- It is that way. Don't fool yourself.
1097
00:55:01,673 --> 00:55:03,466
I'm taking this very seriously, Dad.
1098
00:55:03,466 --> 00:55:06,052
Like, I'm taking this extremely seriously.
1099
00:55:08,388 --> 00:55:10,432
[Shah] What do your parents
think about this?
1100
00:55:10,432 --> 00:55:13,977
[Zack sighs] Well, my mother's passed
away, so she doesn't have any thoughts.
1101
00:55:13,977 --> 00:55:15,937
If she was here, I think she'd be for it.
1102
00:55:15,937 --> 00:55:19,149
She was always the type that'd
tell me to follow my dreams and
1103
00:55:19,149 --> 00:55:21,776
disregard... everything else.
1104
00:55:23,820 --> 00:55:25,947
- I want the best for you.
- [Bliss] No, I know, Dad.
1105
00:55:25,947 --> 00:55:28,783
[Shah] I don't want you
to be hurt in any way, so...
1106
00:55:29,284 --> 00:55:31,703
We wanna make sure
that you guys know what you're doing.
1107
00:55:31,703 --> 00:55:34,289
Well, and the truth is,
you don't know enough about me.
1108
00:55:34,289 --> 00:55:37,208
- [Shah] I don't know anything about you.
- [Yaenid] No.
1109
00:55:37,208 --> 00:55:40,837
[Bliss] There are aspects of Zack that
you don't understand that are highly--
1110
00:55:40,837 --> 00:55:43,340
- Well, I don't know him.
- I know, so let me say this.
1111
00:55:43,340 --> 00:55:45,967
That are highly important
to understanding who he is,
1112
00:55:45,967 --> 00:55:49,512
and his character,
and what he's gone through in his life.
1113
00:55:49,512 --> 00:55:53,016
Like, it was very similar
to your childhood in a lot of ways.
1114
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:55,727
And so, that should speak volumes to you.
1115
00:55:56,227 --> 00:55:58,605
Like, as adults,
we get to make our own decisions and it--
1116
00:55:58,605 --> 00:55:59,898
That's a fact.
1117
00:55:59,898 --> 00:56:03,109
It means I want you to be able
to express yourself about this,
1118
00:56:03,109 --> 00:56:05,236
and, like, I understand it's crazy.
1119
00:56:05,236 --> 00:56:08,615
I think you both know where I'm at, so...
1120
00:56:10,241 --> 00:56:11,159
[Zack exhales]
1121
00:56:14,788 --> 00:56:17,040
- I'm gonna go to the bathroom.
- [Bliss] Okay.
1122
00:56:23,505 --> 00:56:26,508
- This is your choice. You know?
- [Bliss] I know. Mm-hmm.
1123
00:56:26,508 --> 00:56:29,052
Like, you should hopefully see
that I'm serious in this.
1124
00:56:29,052 --> 00:56:30,678
Clearly, I love him.
1125
00:56:30,678 --> 00:56:32,889
- You can tell that I love him.
- All right.
1126
00:56:32,889 --> 00:56:35,558
- You can't tell that I love him?
- All right. Whatever.
1127
00:56:35,558 --> 00:56:38,603
I would not have a ring on my finger
if I didn't love him.
1128
00:56:38,603 --> 00:56:40,855
- [Yaenid] Okay.
- I wouldn't. Am I dumb?
1129
00:56:40,855 --> 00:56:42,941
- No, I'm not dumb.
- I didn't say you're dumb.
1130
00:56:42,941 --> 00:56:46,736
Okay, well, I'm not going to get married
just to get married.
1131
00:56:46,736 --> 00:56:48,571
That's what you're doing.
1132
00:56:51,616 --> 00:56:53,868
Do I think that he's
the right person for her?
1133
00:56:53,868 --> 00:56:54,994
I don't know.
1134
00:56:55,703 --> 00:56:58,456
{\an8}I mean, how can you know in 20 days?
That's crazy.
1135
00:56:58,456 --> 00:57:02,794
Maybe Zack is the type of person
that she's interested in.
1136
00:57:02,794 --> 00:57:05,964
He's a talker for sure, and he's a lawyer.
1137
00:57:05,964 --> 00:57:08,007
At least, I think he's a lawyer, right?
1138
00:57:08,007 --> 00:57:11,594
[laughing] You've checked his background.
So, you know what he is, right?
1139
00:57:11,594 --> 00:57:15,223
He's obviously an intelligent man.
I mean, you can't go to school
1140
00:57:15,223 --> 00:57:17,767
and become a lawyer
without being somewhat intelligent.
1141
00:57:17,767 --> 00:57:19,602
That doesn't mean success.
1142
00:57:20,186 --> 00:57:22,105
Maybe he's ambitious, but...
1143
00:57:22,105 --> 00:57:25,984
I don't think he'll be able
to match her whatsoever.
1144
00:57:26,609 --> 00:57:29,571
- You're an educated woman.
- Exactly. So you have to trust me.
1145
00:57:29,571 --> 00:57:31,739
And you're 32,
so you get to make your own decisions.
1146
00:57:31,739 --> 00:57:33,032
Thankfully. Yes.
1147
00:57:33,032 --> 00:57:36,494
- But it's not something I would ever do.
- [Bliss] Okay, Dad.
1148
00:57:36,494 --> 00:57:38,329
I don't expect you to understand.
1149
00:57:38,329 --> 00:57:40,748
- Good, 'cause I probably don't, so...
- [Bliss] And that's okay.
1150
00:57:40,748 --> 00:57:42,876
Okay. Thank you for sharing that.
1151
00:57:42,876 --> 00:57:44,544
["I Won't Give Up" playing]
1152
00:57:45,295 --> 00:57:47,297
♪ I need you ♪
1153
00:57:48,756 --> 00:57:50,675
♪ And I won't give up ♪
1154
00:57:51,926 --> 00:57:53,761
♪ And I won't give up ♪
1155
00:57:58,766 --> 00:58:08,693
- ♪ I won't give up ♪
- ♪ I won't give up ♪
1156
00:58:08,693 --> 00:58:14,699
♪ I won't give up ♪
1157
00:58:15,783 --> 00:58:17,785
♪ I need you ♪
1158
00:58:19,287 --> 00:58:21,706
♪ And I won't give up ♪
1159
00:58:22,790 --> 00:58:24,709
♪ And I won't give up ♪
1160
00:58:26,794 --> 00:58:28,713
♪ Hey! Oh... ♪
1161
00:58:29,797 --> 00:58:31,883
{\an8}♪ I need you ♪