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[pop music playing]
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Welcome to Love is Blind.
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[cheering]
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[Nick] Here you will choose someone
to marry without ever seeing them.
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I'm just so inspired by you.
I wanna be a better person for you.
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I already feel I'm in love with you.
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- Will you marry me?
- Yes, Paul. [chuckles]
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[Paul sighs, laughs] Oh, my God.
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I wanted to ask you to marry me.
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- A thousand times yes!
- [laughs]
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[Vanessa] And if they accept,
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you'll finally see your fiancé
for the very first time.
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Brett! Mmm!
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- [Marshall] You are beautiful.
- Oh!
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- [pop music playing]
- ♪ I'm ready to dive in... ♪
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[Nick] Up until now,
your attraction has been based entirely
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in an emotional connection.
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[Vanessa] Hopefully, you turn that
emotional connection into a physical one.
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[Chelsea] I don't think I've ever had
this level of attraction with somebody.
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And it's good.
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♪ I know there's no one like you... ♪
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I made the wrong choice.
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You know I did, and I do too.
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Bliss, you're everything
that I've been looking for.
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- Will you marry me?
- Yeah.
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I'm engaged to Zack.
When you know, you know.
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I just wanna let you know, Tiffany,
that I do love you.
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- Aww!
- [woman] Oh, my God!
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Seriously.
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[woman] Oh, my God!
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[Paul] I love Micah immensely.
I do want her for the rest of my life.
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- [pop music playing]
- ♪ Here come the monsters in my head... ♪
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[Nick] Will looks, race,
lifestyle, or insecurities
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tear you apart in the real world?
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I can't love you.
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- I'll see you around.
- Nah, you won't.
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I haven't told you guys anything.
But, like, we're engaged.
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- [gasps] Micah!
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Paul and I,
it's not all rainbows and sunshine.
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You think that you made the right choice?
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I'm not sacrificing what I want,
but I am compromising.
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Will you say yes to me
without your mom's approval?
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I know you're happy,
but don't fool yourself.
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- Clearly, I love him.
- [Shah] All right, whatever.
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It's okay to change your mind.
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Like, I want it to feel fully right.
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I don't have any doubt, and if you did,
I'd want you to be honest with me.
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I don't want a wedding.
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[Vanessa] Then you'll be at your wedding,
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where you'll make
the biggest decision of your life.
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My biggest fear is him or I not saying
truly, like, what we feel in our hearts.
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[Nick] Will you say "I do" to the person
you fell in love with sight unseen?
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[Micah] The best thing
that I can do for us
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is give you the opportunity
to answer first.
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[Nick] Or will you walk away
from them forever?
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- Oh! [sighs]
- [crowd gasps]
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[Vanessa] Is love blind?
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[Chelsea] I can't believe it.
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I just never thought
it would happen to me.
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[Brett] I'm allowed to not settle.
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[Tiffany] I actually can't believe this.
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- [thunder rumbling]
- [rain pattering]
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[officiant] You chose each other
based on an intense emotional connection.
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{\an8}Now is the time to decide
if love is blind.
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Do you, Kwame, take Chelsea
to be your lawfully wedded wife?
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Do you promise to love her
for as long as you both shall live?
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[exhales]
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- I do.
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[attendees cheering]
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["Make Some Memories"
by Katie Hargrove playing]
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Kwame!
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[Jerry laughing] Yeah, my boy!
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Yeah, my boy!
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- There we go.
- Yeah.
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[cheering]
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Wow, look at that.
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By the power vested in me,
I now pronounce you husband and wife.
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Kwame, you may now kiss your bride.
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[both laugh]
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[attendees cheer]
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[vocalizing]
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Yeah, Kwame!
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[cheering]
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[laughing]
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[chattering]
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[officiant] Ladies and gentlemen,
to all who are present,
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it is my pleasure
to introduce for the first time
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Mr. and Mrs. Kwame Appiah.
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[cheering]
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- Yeah!
- Yeah!
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♪ Just come with me ♪
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♪ Take my hand and just believe ♪
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♪ Don't have to wait, someday you'll see ♪
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♪ It's time to make some memories... ♪
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- [chattering]
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[vocalizing]
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♪ It's time to make some memories... ♪
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What a day.
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How are you feeling?
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- The best.
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How you feeling?
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Amazing.
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[both chuckle]
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[Chelsea] Baby, we're married.
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[Kwame] Mm-hmm.
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Cheers.
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- To forever.
- To forever.
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- With you.
- Yeah.
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["Pink And Yellow"
by The Home of Happy playing]
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- You are my husband.
- [chuckles] Yes.
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I am...
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- Your wife.
- No.
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- [laughing]
- My wife. [laughing]
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- [laughs] Yeah, whatever it is.
- Yeah.
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- Yeah, you know what it is.
- Husband. Wife.
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Yeah, that. It's a good day.
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It's the best day, Kwame.
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Baby, you're my husband.
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[both laugh]
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- How did that feel?
- Amazing.
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I love you so much.
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I love you so much too.
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[laughs]
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♪ You won't have to wait ♪
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[thunder rumbling]
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["You Feel like Home"
by Jason Tarver playing]
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♪ When darkness falls, I see ♪
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♪ 'Cause you're like a light
That guides me home to you ♪
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♪ Home to you ♪
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[Micah] Today is so important
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because it could be,
like, the very first day
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of the rest of Paul and I's life together,
and the first day of our marriage.
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{\an8}♪ Despite the times we live in... ♪
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{\an8}Oh, my gosh.
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Cute!
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♪ Me and you... ♪
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[chuckles] Oh, my God, love it.
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Paul and I, we have really,
like, similar, like, outlooks on life.
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We're so comfortable together.
He brings me down to earth.
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I feel like he makes me wanna be,
like, my best self,
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and that's something that
I've always, like, wanted in a partner.
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And now I'm here, like,
about to get married, potentially,
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to, like, someone that I,
like, really love,
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and it just feels really surreal.
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What's your favorite place
that you've been?
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Probably Italy.
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My favorite place in the world
is Positano.
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[Paul] Okay, when we get married...
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- [laughs]
- [Paul] That's reason for us to go back.
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Now that sounds like a perfect idea.
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Will you marry me?
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[laughing]
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Yes, Paul, I'll marry you.
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[laughs] Oh, my God.
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- [laughs] That felt like an eternity.
- I thought I was gonna pass out.
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You make me want to be my best self,
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and that's something
that I knew I was missing in my life.
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You're the thing that I'm the most
attracted to on earth right now.
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So, like, I would be lying if I said
that I wasn't afraid of losing you.
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- Like, I love you. I don't want that.
- I love you too.
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[Micah] I'm just really excited
to see Paul. We obviously didn't spend,
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like, last night together,
and I woke up just, like, missing him.
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It's just, like, nerve-wracking
because Paul and I's relationship
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and our journey here
has been anything but... normal.
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[Paul] Whenever you think about me
and you think about Kwame,
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who do you see yourself saying yes to?
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[Micah] That person
that I would say yes to is you.
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If we agreed to just go for each other,
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maybe you wouldn't feel risky
to me anymore.
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I think so.
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If we were planning on staying,
like, in Seattle for, like, long-term,
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I probably wouldn't wanna stay here.
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A good plan would be, like,
to bounce back and forth between here
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and, like, Arizona.
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[Paul] No.
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- You're not with it at all?
- No, not at all.
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You don't like him?
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You're meant to have
the best wedding of your life,
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and this isn't it.
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It definitely wasn't, like,
obvious or easy, like, at any point.
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Today is, you know,
the biggest decision of my life so far.
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It's, like, marriage or nothing,
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and it's a really stressful
and tough decision.
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["Until You" by Leucadia playing]
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All right...
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It's been an absolutely bizarre
and beautiful journey to get here.
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♪ When I look in your eyes, I can see... ♪
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What I want in a wife,
in a significant other,
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{\an8}I feel like Micah checks all those boxes.
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{\an8}Like, she's what I've been looking for.
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I think that we solved the question
of "is love blind?" very early on.
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I feel like we fell in love twice.
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We fell in love in the pods,
and then we also fell in love in person.
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Dude.
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You guys, I'm like,
my nerves are on the fritz.
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{\an8}- I mean, you're supposed to be nervous.
- Yeah, it's your wedding day.
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{\an8}Yeah, but usually you go in knowing
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- [laughing]
- [Shelby] Yeah.
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He... So, he's literally a scientist.
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[laughing]
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- He's very, very logical.
- Very logical.
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Not used to that.
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He knows that, like, in his heart, like,
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that, like, how in love we are
and, like, how great we are.
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{\an8}I know how he's feeling, but I just
don't know, like, what he's gonna say.
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Him saying yes,
you know, I'm gonna be happy,
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but, like, I have to know
that he's doing it because he wants to.
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I don't want it to be like, "You're scared
of losing me, so you're saying yes."
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I feel like it's all gonna be
about how I feel in the moment.
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What he's, like, giving me in that moment.
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{\an8}- I mean, this is the rest of your life.
- [Micah] Yeah.
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{\an8}One hundred percent, I'm in love with him.
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He makes me feel like more myself
than, like, I've ever felt. Like...
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The things that I have really,
like, hidden in other relationships
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or, like, been not confident about...
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- Those things he makes me feel loved for.
- Oh, I love that.
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We bring a really good balance
to one another.
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He's more, like, chill,
like, you know, rugged.
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Isn't so worried about other people.
I'm more manicured.
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- [Ruby] Mm-hmm.
- And he feels the same.
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[Micah] And, like, I elevate him.
I elevate, like, his style.
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Please don't get us started on that.
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[laughing]
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I want a big, beautiful life.
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But I'm not gonna get married to someone
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who doesn't make me feel 100% chosen.
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Yeah.
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This is the ring?
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{\an8}I forged that one
the other day in Seattle.
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{\an8}- You foraged those out of the forest?
- [Paul chuckles] I really did.
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{\an8}- [Brian] You genuinely forged this?
- Yeah.
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[Brian] That's cool.
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Yeah, and just, like, took an anvil
and a hammer and beat it into a ring.
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- [Brian] That's really unique.
- [Paul] It was super cool.
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That's her ring, her finger.
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{\an8}We see the world,
like, very, very similarly.
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We have this desire to make the most
of all moments of your life,
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even if it's bad
or even if it's good, you know.
241
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{\an8}Like, just, it's all part of your life,
so why not have a good time?
242
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- She's better at it than I am.
- Yeah.
243
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But nonetheless, like, we both have it
and can see it and can feel it,
244
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and enjoy, like,
the idea of planning the future.
245
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And we, you know,
did it without seeing each other.
246
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- Yeah.
- So, it's like...
247
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Сan't really ask for a more authentic,
good intention than that.
248
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Yeah. I've never seen that out of you.
249
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[Brian] Yeah. What?
You've never seen that side of him?
250
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No, I've never seen him
thinking like that where--
251
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[Brian] See, and that's
what I was about to get at
252
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{\an8}is because that's very much unlike you,
253
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{\an8}and you said she's a lot better at it
than... than you are.
254
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- [Kyle] Yeah.
- [Paul] Mm-hmm.
255
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Do you feel as though
you've been living for this time period
256
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that you've been
in the experiment kind of differently
257
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than you have lived the past,
you know, 27 years of your life?
258
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[clicks tongue] It doesn't
really feel like that. No.
259
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[Brian] Well, do you feel like
that it's sustainable?
260
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[Paul] Yeah, I can't say.
261
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I don't know.
262
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I mean, you know, so far, you know,
263
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I think it's mostly
good indicators that we could do it.
264
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Yeah.
265
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If we're able to sustain what we have now,
266
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then yeah,
we could have a marriage, right?
267
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[Kyle] What makes you think it won't?
268
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I just... I know that things change.
269
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I guess the question then would be,
can you get through change together?
270
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- Can you change together?
- You have to grow with them.
271
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You're always gonna have change.
But she does seem to complement you well.
272
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Like I said a minute ago,
I've never heard you think like that.
273
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You're always so analytical.
274
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And to hear you say, like, "Life is life,"
in a good way, that's not you.
275
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Yeah, I kinda think so too, you know.
276
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Um... she definitely, I think,
inspires a good side of me.
277
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Yeah.
278
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[Paul] And I think
that's what I've been really looking for.
279
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I don't know, man.
Like, it's a big choice.
280
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If I decide to say yes,
then that's a big choice.
281
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If I decide to say no,
it's also a big choice.
282
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This is you getting in your own way,
like you always do.
283
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I don't know. You need to just let
yourself not worry about all the risk.
284
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- Like, obviously there's risk, you know?
- Yeah. Yeah.
285
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[Brian] Think about the best possible
outcome and also the worst,
286
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and then weigh the two.
287
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I've kind of told you
my thoughts and opinions on it.
288
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And I did that nervously,
289
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because I don't wanna impact
your decision too significantly.
290
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Yeah.
291
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I have faith that...
you're gonna make the right decision.
292
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[Kyle] The easy call is for everyone
to say, "Hey, man, you shouldn't do it."
293
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Like, "Aw, we don't want you to get hurt."
294
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For thousands of years, people have done
monogamous relationships in the same way,
295
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and it doesn't have a 100% success rate.
296
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So, like, who are you to say that
this wouldn't have a higher success rate,
297
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doing it this way?
298
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If you say no, you're gonna think about it
the rest of your life.
299
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- Of if you should have said yes.
- Yeah.
300
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[Kyle] If you say yes,
it's gonna be definitive.
301
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It's unorthodox. It's weird.
302
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But honestly, I think it's just as risky
to say no as it is to say yes.
303
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{\an8}- Hey, how are you feeling?
- You look so good. I'm excited.
304
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{\an8}- Really?
- Yeah.
305
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- I'm very excited.
- [Micah] Aw.
306
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It's just crazy that we don't know
what we're gonna say
307
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when it's, like, right here.
308
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Like, some parts of me are like,
it should be way more obvious than this.
309
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But some parts of me are like,
nothing about this has been normal.
310
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I was just gonna say--
311
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And it's okay to, like,
you know, just trust the process, I guess.
312
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But this is not what I would be thinking
going into my wedding day.
313
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"Wonder if I'm gonna get married today,"
as I'm, like, getting in my wedding dress.
314
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- But--
- Yeah.
315
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I don't know. I feel hopeful that
we're gonna make the right decision,
316
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and it's gonna be a great ending.
317
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[Patrisha] Yeah. I hope so too.
318
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- And Paul, the other Paul...
- [women laughing]
319
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Which he will be called that
if you get married.
320
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[Micah] Oh, the other Paul.
321
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{\an8}- [laughing]
- Dad.
322
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{\an8}How are you feeling?
323
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- You've put us through a lot.
- [laughing]
324
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[Paul] Oh, boy.
325
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- [Patrisha laughs] It's true.
- [Micah] Yeah.
326
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I know that we're very in love.
327
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I want him to be, like, 100% in, you know.
328
00:16:01,961 --> 00:16:03,754
Well, yeah, everybody wants that.
329
00:16:03,754 --> 00:16:04,797
I think,
330
00:16:06,298 --> 00:16:10,427
you know, it's gonna come down to those
final moments, which is obviously crazy.
331
00:16:10,427 --> 00:16:14,264
Some people date for years,
and they end up divorced.
332
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I mean, you know when you love someone,
333
00:16:18,727 --> 00:16:21,355
it doesn't mean it's going to work out.
334
00:16:21,355 --> 00:16:22,398
Yeah.
335
00:16:22,398 --> 00:16:24,274
There's no way to tell.
336
00:16:24,274 --> 00:16:25,859
Like, the romantic in me is like,
337
00:16:25,859 --> 00:16:28,320
"It should be when you know,
you know. You know?"
338
00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:29,446
But you do know.
339
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I feel like I know.
340
00:16:39,873 --> 00:16:43,627
The fact that you guys are both able to,
like, be here and support me,
341
00:16:43,627 --> 00:16:44,712
it means everything.
342
00:16:44,712 --> 00:16:48,215
- Of course.
- It's really easy. You're our only child.
343
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You know, so we actually
had a pretty easy job.
344
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I just feel really lucky, and I feel like
sometimes in my life, like, I never knew,
345
00:16:55,889 --> 00:17:00,227
like, if I would, like, have this
with both of you or just in general,
346
00:17:00,227 --> 00:17:02,021
and I feel like it just means a lot.
347
00:17:02,021 --> 00:17:04,064
Like, regardless of how it,
like, turns out.
348
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- It's gonna be fine.
- [Micah] Mm-hmm.
349
00:17:07,109 --> 00:17:09,611
- I was gonna be here no matter what.
- [laughs]
350
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[laughing]
351
00:17:11,363 --> 00:17:14,825
- Up from the grave, you crazy bitch!
- [laughing]
352
00:17:14,825 --> 00:17:16,827
[Shelby] What are you wearing?
353
00:17:16,827 --> 00:17:21,331
Um, I'm just really happy that you guys
support me no matter what's gonna happen.
354
00:17:21,331 --> 00:17:24,543
I feel like you guys have done that my
whole life, and this is nothing different.
355
00:17:24,543 --> 00:17:26,545
- Yeah. We love you.
- So...
356
00:17:26,545 --> 00:17:28,714
- It means a lot.
- We love you so much.
357
00:17:28,714 --> 00:17:30,424
I know. I love you.
358
00:17:33,469 --> 00:17:35,679
[Paul] So, what do you think?
Should I just say yes?
359
00:17:35,679 --> 00:17:37,890
- [Bobby] That'd be cool.
- [Paul] Your vote is do it?
360
00:17:37,890 --> 00:17:39,683
My vote is probably do it. Yeah.
361
00:17:39,683 --> 00:17:41,769
- I would say yes. I would say do it.
- Yeah.
362
00:17:41,769 --> 00:17:43,812
[Kyle] To me,
there's more risk in saying no.
363
00:17:43,812 --> 00:17:46,607
- You're gonna think about it forever.
- [Paul] Hmm.
364
00:17:46,607 --> 00:17:49,318
[soft pop music playing]
365
00:17:52,571 --> 00:17:55,032
I probably shouldn't have worn
my hiking socks.
366
00:17:56,575 --> 00:17:59,453
Guys, why the fuck don't I know
what I'm gonna say? [chuckles]
367
00:17:59,453 --> 00:18:01,872
Yeah, I'd imagine
you keep going back and forth, right?
368
00:18:01,872 --> 00:18:06,502
I had an idea last night and this morning,
but I don't know it anymore.
369
00:18:07,002 --> 00:18:09,296
You probably won't know
until you're looking at her.
370
00:18:09,296 --> 00:18:11,131
Yeah. Bobby, what would you do?
371
00:18:11,131 --> 00:18:13,634
- Would you say yes?
- I probably would, Paul.
372
00:18:21,767 --> 00:18:23,602
{\an8}- [Paul] Hey, Mom.
- Hi, baby.
373
00:18:24,228 --> 00:18:27,189
- [Paul] We're all getting ready.
- [Elizabeth] You look gorgeous.
374
00:18:27,189 --> 00:18:29,983
- [Paul chuckles] Thank you.
- So quiet.
375
00:18:29,983 --> 00:18:32,069
Do you know,
am I supposed to button both of those?
376
00:18:32,069 --> 00:18:34,488
[Elizabeth] Uh, maybe just one.
377
00:18:34,488 --> 00:18:35,405
You look gorgeous.
378
00:18:35,405 --> 00:18:37,783
I haven't looked at myself
in the mirror. I probably should.
379
00:18:37,783 --> 00:18:39,535
How you feeling?
380
00:18:39,535 --> 00:18:42,371
- [Paul] Don't know.
- [Elizabeth] You like to be certain.
381
00:18:42,371 --> 00:18:46,208
I wish I had a way to,
you know, to make this decision.
382
00:18:46,208 --> 00:18:48,794
I feel like
I don't have the tools that I need.
383
00:18:49,878 --> 00:18:53,132
- It's not clear. It's not clear, you know.
- Mm-hmm.
384
00:18:53,132 --> 00:18:57,803
But I definitely don't want to, like,
not marry her and lose her, you know.
385
00:18:57,803 --> 00:18:59,680
Anything other than a yes...
386
00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:00,973
[Paul] Yeah.
387
00:19:00,973 --> 00:19:02,850
...by default becomes a no.
388
00:19:03,559 --> 00:19:05,811
You're so smart.
389
00:19:05,811 --> 00:19:09,857
But at this moment,
what is your heart telling you?
390
00:19:09,857 --> 00:19:13,819
♪ Don't wanna think about
Nothing but now, nothing but now ♪
391
00:19:13,819 --> 00:19:14,987
♪ Nothing but us... ♪
392
00:19:14,987 --> 00:19:17,698
There might be the best answer.
393
00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:22,619
Give me a hug.
394
00:19:24,163 --> 00:19:26,206
- I love you.
- [Paul] Love you too.
395
00:19:27,416 --> 00:19:28,250
[women gasping]
396
00:19:29,168 --> 00:19:31,503
- Yeah!
- [women laughing]
397
00:19:32,671 --> 00:19:34,173
[Ruby] You look so good!
398
00:19:34,173 --> 00:19:36,717
- [laughing]
- [Patrisha] You look beautiful.
399
00:19:36,717 --> 00:19:38,969
I'm a bride. [chuckles]
400
00:19:38,969 --> 00:19:40,554
You look stunning.
401
00:19:40,554 --> 00:19:42,139
- The dress is perfect.
- Surreal.
402
00:19:42,139 --> 00:19:43,682
Oh, my God, you look amazing.
403
00:19:43,682 --> 00:19:46,226
- Paul, what do you think?
- How did we get...
404
00:19:46,226 --> 00:19:47,686
- [laughing]
- Yeah.
405
00:19:49,938 --> 00:19:52,274
- [Micah] Just a little good luck. Kidding.
- [laughing]
406
00:19:52,858 --> 00:19:54,735
- [Ruby] You look so happy.
- Oh!
407
00:19:54,735 --> 00:19:55,819
[laughing]
408
00:19:55,819 --> 00:19:59,656
I know. I know.
It feels... It feels very right.
409
00:19:59,656 --> 00:20:01,033
- You-- Yeah.
- [Patrisha] Oh, yes.
410
00:20:01,033 --> 00:20:03,452
- [Ruby] You're a bride.
- [Shelby] I love your little cord.
411
00:20:03,452 --> 00:20:04,995
- Here we go.
- Yes.
412
00:20:04,995 --> 00:20:06,580
Okay, let's go. [chuckles]
413
00:20:08,624 --> 00:20:12,377
- You feel okay? You look great today.
- No, not even close to being okay.
414
00:20:12,377 --> 00:20:13,754
{\an8}So far from okay.
415
00:20:15,005 --> 00:20:16,465
[chuckles] Like, anything but.
416
00:20:16,465 --> 00:20:17,883
You've got this.
417
00:20:18,592 --> 00:20:20,302
I think you know what to do.
418
00:20:20,844 --> 00:20:22,387
I hope so. I don't know.
419
00:20:23,472 --> 00:20:24,806
And so...
420
00:20:24,806 --> 00:20:26,433
You just gotta be happy.
421
00:20:27,184 --> 00:20:29,478
- That's all that matters.
- Yeah.
422
00:20:31,396 --> 00:20:33,148
Yeah. I've never been super good at that.
423
00:20:33,148 --> 00:20:34,608
I disagree.
424
00:20:34,608 --> 00:20:38,820
I have become more aware of,
like, my emotions and my feelings.
425
00:20:39,321 --> 00:20:44,952
You know, it's a good thing overall,
but I would like to be my whole self.
426
00:20:44,952 --> 00:20:49,081
You know, I don't wanna just listen to my
emotions or just listen to my rationale.
427
00:20:49,081 --> 00:20:52,251
- But... Yeah.
- [Deborah] That's where you overthink.
428
00:20:52,251 --> 00:20:54,253
- [laughs]
- I don't know where he gets it.
429
00:20:54,253 --> 00:20:56,088
- [Deborah] It comes quite naturally.
- Yeah.
430
00:20:56,088 --> 00:20:59,258
You're gonna be that way
right up to the, uh,
431
00:20:59,258 --> 00:21:00,759
last moment, I think.
432
00:21:00,759 --> 00:21:04,012
What if just, like,
my mind just lands on something,
433
00:21:04,012 --> 00:21:07,349
and the timing is such that
now is my moment to say it,
434
00:21:07,349 --> 00:21:09,810
and it just as easily
could have been the other?
435
00:21:10,352 --> 00:21:13,105
What a toss of a coin, you know, like...
436
00:21:13,772 --> 00:21:15,357
It's such a not--
437
00:21:15,357 --> 00:21:17,985
- But that's a lot of life in general.
- [Paul] Yeah.
438
00:21:18,694 --> 00:21:21,071
[Paul Sr.] You gotta make a decision
and live by it.
439
00:21:21,071 --> 00:21:24,324
You gotta...
You gotta do what you feel, son.
440
00:21:24,324 --> 00:21:27,577
You're having a battle between your heart
and your mind right now.
441
00:21:27,577 --> 00:21:30,122
[Paul] I do love her. I do. Um...
442
00:21:31,373 --> 00:21:33,417
But yeah, it's just not clear.
443
00:21:34,334 --> 00:21:37,587
Well, as long as you love her,
and she loves you,
444
00:21:37,587 --> 00:21:39,298
everything will be all right.
445
00:21:41,508 --> 00:21:43,176
[Paul] Micah tells me that as well.
446
00:21:44,136 --> 00:21:45,554
Yeah.
447
00:21:45,554 --> 00:21:49,308
I think something about me just says,
"This guy needs to hear that." [laughs]
448
00:21:49,308 --> 00:21:52,311
- She makes you happy, doesn't she?
- She does indeed.
449
00:21:54,271 --> 00:21:56,481
- And that's what matters.
- [Paul] Yeah.
450
00:21:58,317 --> 00:22:00,861
- [Paul Sr.] It'll be all right.
- Yeah.
451
00:22:01,486 --> 00:22:02,904
You'll make the right decision.
452
00:22:04,948 --> 00:22:08,243
Would be nice if I knew what that was.
You know, like...
453
00:22:09,328 --> 00:22:10,829
It's just gonna come out.
454
00:22:13,749 --> 00:22:15,625
You may wonder where it came from.
455
00:22:15,625 --> 00:22:19,338
- To happiness.
- [Paul] Yeah, to happiness. Cheers.
456
00:22:19,338 --> 00:22:20,797
All right, give me a hug.
457
00:22:25,093 --> 00:22:25,969
Give me a hug.
458
00:22:29,431 --> 00:22:30,265
[Paul Sr.] Relax.
459
00:22:30,807 --> 00:22:32,726
- [Paul] I'll be trying.
- [chuckles]
460
00:22:34,478 --> 00:22:35,687
I love you, son.
461
00:22:35,687 --> 00:22:36,688
I love you too.
462
00:22:37,647 --> 00:22:39,775
- Everything will be all right.
- Yeah.
463
00:22:40,776 --> 00:22:43,820
- [chattering]
- [laughing]
464
00:22:50,202 --> 00:22:52,037
[man] Walk that, Dolores! Walk that!
465
00:22:53,455 --> 00:22:55,332
[woman] Aww!
466
00:22:55,332 --> 00:22:57,667
[woman 2] Aww. So cute.
467
00:23:02,422 --> 00:23:04,049
{\an8}[Elizabeth whispers] I love you.
468
00:23:08,178 --> 00:23:10,972
All right, baby, you got this.
469
00:23:11,681 --> 00:23:13,809
- I love you so much.
- I love you too.
470
00:23:13,809 --> 00:23:15,060
And I'm proud of you.
471
00:23:15,811 --> 00:23:16,728
Thank you.
472
00:23:35,539 --> 00:23:37,374
[gasps] Gosh, I'm so nervous.
473
00:23:39,209 --> 00:23:40,210
Oh, God.
474
00:23:40,210 --> 00:23:42,170
Always remember me and mom
are so proud of you.
475
00:23:43,296 --> 00:23:46,049
We'll always be there for you,
and we're always gonna be behind you.
476
00:23:47,008 --> 00:23:49,219
- I'm so proud of you. You don't know.
- [gasps]
477
00:23:49,219 --> 00:23:51,638
Oh, my God. [chuckles]
478
00:23:51,638 --> 00:23:53,515
If you are able, please stand.
479
00:23:57,394 --> 00:23:58,770
[classical music playing]
480
00:23:58,770 --> 00:24:00,272
Oh, my God.
481
00:24:01,648 --> 00:24:03,233
I can't. [chuckles]
482
00:24:03,233 --> 00:24:05,944
You can do it.
It's all right. You're all right.
483
00:24:06,736 --> 00:24:10,740
- This how you want me to hold your hand?
- [laughing] I guess. I guess. I guess.
484
00:24:11,366 --> 00:24:14,494
- [laughing] Oh, my God.
- [father] Slowly.
485
00:24:14,494 --> 00:24:16,538
[laughing] Oh, my God.
486
00:24:17,330 --> 00:24:19,040
- Oh, my gosh.
- [Micah chuckles] Oh.
487
00:24:21,460 --> 00:24:22,335
[laughing] Hi.
488
00:24:24,671 --> 00:24:26,840
- Oh, my goodness.
- [father] Be careful.
489
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:29,384
[laughing] Oh, my God.
490
00:24:29,384 --> 00:24:31,511
- [laughing] I'm so sorry.
- [Paul] Hey.
491
00:24:31,511 --> 00:24:32,888
[Micah] I missed you.
492
00:24:32,888 --> 00:24:35,098
- [Paul] I know. I missed you.
- [Micah] Oh, my God!
493
00:24:35,098 --> 00:24:36,766
[officiant] You may all be seated.
494
00:24:41,229 --> 00:24:44,316
Today, we are gathered here
to witness and celebrate
495
00:24:44,316 --> 00:24:47,777
the love Paul and Micah
have discovered in each other.
496
00:24:49,029 --> 00:24:50,697
The person that stands before you
497
00:24:50,697 --> 00:24:53,283
is someone that has filled
the space in your heart.
498
00:24:54,034 --> 00:24:56,620
Someone you are thankful for
each night before bed
499
00:24:56,620 --> 00:24:58,371
and each morning when you rise.
500
00:24:59,289 --> 00:25:02,334
Entering this union
is not a 50-50 contract.
501
00:25:02,834 --> 00:25:05,378
But rather agreeing
to give 100% of yourselves
502
00:25:05,378 --> 00:25:07,047
for the betterment of your marriage.
503
00:25:09,132 --> 00:25:11,218
So, you each take each other's ring.
504
00:25:11,218 --> 00:25:12,636
So, you take hers.
505
00:25:13,553 --> 00:25:15,722
- These rings are gorgeous.
- [Micah chuckles]
506
00:25:15,722 --> 00:25:18,141
- Thanks. We made 'em ourselves.
- [officiant] I heard.
507
00:25:18,141 --> 00:25:19,059
[Micah laughs]
508
00:25:19,059 --> 00:25:21,228
[officiant] There's nothing
more romantic and sacred
509
00:25:21,228 --> 00:25:24,147
than standing before
all those dear to your hearts
510
00:25:24,147 --> 00:25:26,107
to declare your love to one another.
511
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,486
If you decide to be married today,
512
00:25:29,486 --> 00:25:32,531
the hand that you place this ring on
will not stay the same.
513
00:25:33,156 --> 00:25:35,408
It will wrinkle and scar over time.
514
00:25:36,034 --> 00:25:38,328
But these rings will serve as a reminder
515
00:25:38,328 --> 00:25:41,665
that in the midst of all
the possibilities which are open to you,
516
00:25:42,249 --> 00:25:44,584
you have chosen to be faithful to the vows
517
00:25:44,584 --> 00:25:46,169
which you have made before us.
518
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:48,588
This time-honored tradition
519
00:25:48,588 --> 00:25:53,009
is carried on only by those committed
to a true lifelong love story.
520
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:56,137
Standing here with the one you love most,
521
00:25:56,721 --> 00:25:59,099
it is this feeling
which got you to this very moment,
522
00:25:59,099 --> 00:26:02,310
and a feeling that should carry you
through your journey together.
523
00:26:06,898 --> 00:26:10,610
Paul, you know, in the pods,
I felt so comfortable.
524
00:26:10,610 --> 00:26:12,779
I felt so myself, and it felt so easy,
525
00:26:12,779 --> 00:26:15,949
and that's something
that I've never felt with anyone else.
526
00:26:16,533 --> 00:26:18,702
You, like, made me feel like
the parts of me
527
00:26:18,702 --> 00:26:21,955
that I thought were,
like, unlovable were good.
528
00:26:22,956 --> 00:26:25,917
And that's really all
I could ever ask for.
529
00:26:27,294 --> 00:26:30,046
We had so many of the same, like, values,
530
00:26:30,046 --> 00:26:33,508
and one of them were, like,
how much we care for our family.
531
00:26:34,134 --> 00:26:38,013
And being an only child
and having divorced parents,
532
00:26:38,013 --> 00:26:40,557
like, I've always hoped
to marry into a family
533
00:26:40,557 --> 00:26:43,226
where I could, you know, be a part of it.
534
00:26:43,226 --> 00:26:46,479
And meeting your family
made me fall even more in love with you.
535
00:26:49,190 --> 00:26:52,777
I just feel really lucky, um,
536
00:26:53,528 --> 00:26:56,156
that we were able
to get over all of our crap
537
00:26:57,324 --> 00:26:59,659
and choose each other.
538
00:27:00,660 --> 00:27:04,247
From that moment we decided to be
together, I haven't looked back since.
539
00:27:04,247 --> 00:27:05,332
[Paul chuckles]
540
00:27:06,791 --> 00:27:09,461
[Paul] I question a lot of things.
Like, a lot.
541
00:27:09,961 --> 00:27:11,338
Um... [laughing]
542
00:27:11,338 --> 00:27:12,505
Almost everything.
543
00:27:12,505 --> 00:27:13,757
[chuckles]
544
00:27:13,757 --> 00:27:17,135
But there's no question in my mind
about my love for you.
545
00:27:18,511 --> 00:27:20,472
That is one thing that I'm sure of.
546
00:27:21,723 --> 00:27:23,892
It's really rare for me to find somebody
547
00:27:23,892 --> 00:27:26,561
that sees the world the way that I see it.
548
00:27:27,562 --> 00:27:31,691
With you, I just felt
that immediate, like...
549
00:27:31,691 --> 00:27:36,112
like I was in the same place that you were
and that we felt the same way.
550
00:27:36,112 --> 00:27:38,239
It's just, it's so rare for me.
551
00:27:38,239 --> 00:27:40,116
I love you beyond comparison.
552
00:27:40,116 --> 00:27:43,161
Looking back,
it couldn't have been any other way.
553
00:27:43,161 --> 00:27:45,538
Like, it... It had to be us.
554
00:27:47,165 --> 00:27:51,294
Like, it was the correct answer,
like, by far.
555
00:27:56,966 --> 00:27:59,719
Paul and Micah,
you fell in love with each other
556
00:27:59,719 --> 00:28:01,638
based on who you are on the inside
557
00:28:02,472 --> 00:28:05,058
and decided to get married sight unseen.
558
00:28:09,354 --> 00:28:12,148
Now is the time to decide
if love is blind.
559
00:28:12,148 --> 00:28:14,109
[pensive music plays]
560
00:28:14,776 --> 00:28:17,362
Do you, Micah, promise to love Paul
561
00:28:17,362 --> 00:28:19,989
without restrictions
and without hesitation?
562
00:28:20,907 --> 00:28:23,785
Do you promise to accept him
just as he is,
563
00:28:23,785 --> 00:28:26,454
supporting him
through the life experiences,
564
00:28:26,454 --> 00:28:29,040
and share in the joys
of choosing one another
565
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,292
for as long as your souls are united?
566
00:28:31,292 --> 00:28:34,212
[dramatic music playing]
567
00:28:54,983 --> 00:28:56,317
I think that...
568
00:28:58,737 --> 00:28:59,946
in this moment,
569
00:29:01,614 --> 00:29:03,783
the best thing that I can do for us...
570
00:29:05,785 --> 00:29:08,747
is to give you the opportunity
to answer first.
571
00:29:09,456 --> 00:29:10,749
[woman gasps]
572
00:29:10,749 --> 00:29:13,293
[attendees murmuring]
573
00:29:15,670 --> 00:29:17,338
I wish I was way drunker.
574
00:29:19,924 --> 00:29:22,427
[officiant] Paul,
do you promise to love Micah,
575
00:29:22,427 --> 00:29:25,513
supporting her
through the experiences of your lives,
576
00:29:25,513 --> 00:29:28,349
and to share in the joys
of choosing one another
577
00:29:29,100 --> 00:29:31,144
for as long as your souls are united?
578
00:29:46,868 --> 00:29:47,702
I love you.
579
00:29:58,129 --> 00:29:58,963
But...
580
00:30:01,966 --> 00:30:05,303
I don't think that we can
choose each other right now.
581
00:30:17,649 --> 00:30:21,694
Um... I think that we're not there.
582
00:30:21,694 --> 00:30:24,656
[attendees murmuring]
583
00:30:32,288 --> 00:30:36,084
[Micah] Honestly, I... I feel like
584
00:30:36,084 --> 00:30:38,378
that's exactly what you were gonna say.
585
00:30:38,378 --> 00:30:39,337
Um...
586
00:30:42,131 --> 00:30:48,721
I think that this whole time
I've wanted... to feel shown and told,
587
00:30:48,721 --> 00:30:52,684
you know, that you loved me
and that you wanted to be with me.
588
00:30:54,185 --> 00:30:56,437
I never, like, felt safe.
589
00:30:57,188 --> 00:31:03,528
And I think that this, like, moment
just kind of shows that that's validated.
590
00:31:05,321 --> 00:31:06,364
[Paul] I think I want it...
591
00:31:07,657 --> 00:31:09,701
I want it to be known that, like...
592
00:31:11,786 --> 00:31:14,163
what's right for me
is right for both of us.
593
00:31:15,331 --> 00:31:16,165
[Micah sniffles]
594
00:31:21,337 --> 00:31:22,213
[sniffles]
595
00:31:23,089 --> 00:31:23,923
[gasps]
596
00:31:23,923 --> 00:31:25,592
[Shelby] Oh, my God.
597
00:31:26,593 --> 00:31:28,011
[Micah sobbing softly]
598
00:31:33,099 --> 00:31:34,434
[Ruby] Holy shit.
599
00:31:36,102 --> 00:31:37,562
What the fuck was that?
600
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:41,399
How do you feel?
601
00:31:41,399 --> 00:31:44,485
[Shelby] Relieved, honestly.
That's how I wanted it to go.
602
00:31:44,485 --> 00:31:45,945
[laughs]
603
00:31:45,945 --> 00:31:48,406
[Micah sniffles, gasps] God.
604
00:31:49,782 --> 00:31:50,992
[sobs softly]
605
00:31:57,123 --> 00:31:59,626
I don't want you in here.
Like, I wanna deal with this on my own.
606
00:31:59,626 --> 00:32:01,127
I don't wanna do this.
607
00:32:01,127 --> 00:32:02,921
[sobbing]
608
00:32:03,713 --> 00:32:07,091
[gasps] Please, like,
I don't want you here.
609
00:32:07,884 --> 00:32:09,093
It's too hurtful.
610
00:32:09,093 --> 00:32:10,887
[gasps]
611
00:32:10,887 --> 00:32:12,639
- And it feels awful.
- I know.
612
00:32:13,139 --> 00:32:14,182
I can't do it.
613
00:32:18,853 --> 00:32:20,855
Well, it's not because I don't love you.
614
00:32:25,902 --> 00:32:28,321
[Micah sobbing]
615
00:32:33,701 --> 00:32:35,411
[Micah] I feel so awful.
616
00:32:36,454 --> 00:32:38,289
[sobs, sniffles]
617
00:32:44,045 --> 00:32:46,130
- [Paul] Do you hate me right now?
- [sniffles]
618
00:33:00,979 --> 00:33:02,313
Did I make the wrong choice?
619
00:33:02,313 --> 00:33:05,775
["Before We're Leaving Here"
by Aaron Kellim playing]
620
00:33:08,695 --> 00:33:10,363
I love you so much.
621
00:33:12,073 --> 00:33:14,534
[Micah sniffles, sighs]
622
00:33:15,868 --> 00:33:16,828
Maybe you should leave.
623
00:33:16,828 --> 00:33:20,707
♪ It's a little bit crazy... ♪
624
00:33:20,707 --> 00:33:21,624
Right now.
625
00:33:22,542 --> 00:33:23,584
[Paul] Okay.
626
00:33:24,168 --> 00:33:29,298
♪ I wonder if anything was real ♪
627
00:33:30,425 --> 00:33:31,551
[Micah sniffles]
628
00:33:35,555 --> 00:33:37,223
[Patrisha] We love you.
629
00:33:38,057 --> 00:33:39,559
You'll be okay. [kisses]
630
00:33:41,686 --> 00:33:42,812
It's okay.
631
00:33:43,563 --> 00:33:45,565
[Micah sobbing]
632
00:33:46,524 --> 00:33:49,110
I feel really, like, broken.
633
00:33:50,695 --> 00:33:51,529
[sniffles]
634
00:33:52,488 --> 00:33:54,532
- I'm sorry.
- [Micah] I feel like...
635
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:00,580
[inhales]
636
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,547
I don't know.
I feel like a disaster. [sobs]
637
00:34:09,547 --> 00:34:11,632
[vocalizing]
638
00:34:16,012 --> 00:34:18,264
I don't know.
I just really don't wanna be here.
639
00:34:26,981 --> 00:34:28,107
[man] You all right?
640
00:34:28,900 --> 00:34:30,568
- As right as I'll ever be.
- You did good.
641
00:34:30,568 --> 00:34:32,570
[Paul] That was fucking tough, man.
642
00:34:34,072 --> 00:34:36,699
You did the right thing.
You did right by you, you know.
643
00:34:36,699 --> 00:34:39,827
[Paul] It's not good, dude.
It sucks. I really do love her.
644
00:34:40,453 --> 00:34:42,955
- But it's not the right thing for us.
- Right.
645
00:34:42,955 --> 00:34:45,833
There was definitely love.
Like, that's not a question.
646
00:34:45,833 --> 00:34:50,671
{\an8}But it didn't seem
to always be reciprocated.
647
00:34:51,255 --> 00:34:54,801
And I think, you know,
that could have been real,
648
00:34:54,801 --> 00:34:57,428
or it could have been a defense mechanism.
649
00:34:57,428 --> 00:34:59,222
Maybe she held back her love at times,
650
00:34:59,222 --> 00:35:01,891
because she was afraid
that I wouldn't reciprocate it.
651
00:35:01,891 --> 00:35:04,727
And then it was just, like,
this negative feedback loop.
652
00:35:05,228 --> 00:35:09,565
To tell her no destroyed me.
Like, it definitely destroyed me.
653
00:35:09,565 --> 00:35:12,735
It just, like,
completely broke me to pieces.
654
00:35:12,735 --> 00:35:15,947
There was definitely a big part of me
that wanted to say yes.
655
00:35:15,947 --> 00:35:18,074
I struggled with, um,
656
00:35:19,075 --> 00:35:23,287
at least in terms of envisioning Micah as,
like, you know, a mother.
657
00:35:23,287 --> 00:35:27,416
I think for me, it was,
like, difficult for me to do.
658
00:35:27,416 --> 00:35:29,168
It's just sort of, um...
659
00:35:31,212 --> 00:35:34,924
just, like, a nurturing aspect,
I think, that some people have.
660
00:35:35,466 --> 00:35:37,718
I don't know, but whenever I tried,
661
00:35:37,718 --> 00:35:42,557
I just know that...
I wasn't able to see it very clearly.
662
00:35:42,557 --> 00:35:45,309
I'm gonna go drown myself
in the river. See you guys.
663
00:35:47,895 --> 00:35:49,981
I had to be honest towards myself.
664
00:35:51,482 --> 00:35:52,525
He's an idiot.
665
00:35:53,442 --> 00:35:55,236
I mean, literally.
666
00:35:55,236 --> 00:35:58,072
You said that you found,
like, your person.
667
00:35:58,072 --> 00:36:00,158
He said he's in love with you.
668
00:36:00,158 --> 00:36:01,075
Yeah.
669
00:36:01,075 --> 00:36:03,369
Nobody dragged him into this place.
670
00:36:03,369 --> 00:36:04,912
- I know.
- That's annoying.
671
00:36:04,912 --> 00:36:07,456
'Cause you could have met somebody else.
672
00:36:07,456 --> 00:36:09,417
But no, he was in the way.
673
00:36:10,251 --> 00:36:12,044
I don't know where to go from here.
674
00:36:15,381 --> 00:36:18,509
I hate that
I'm still questioning it, you know.
675
00:36:18,509 --> 00:36:19,927
[Paul Sr.] It'll be all right.
676
00:36:19,927 --> 00:36:21,637
[Elizabeth] You're gonna be all right.
677
00:36:23,764 --> 00:36:24,640
If you say so.
678
00:36:30,688 --> 00:36:33,149
["Top of the World"
by Patrick James playing]
679
00:36:34,275 --> 00:36:40,948
♪ 'Cause time, time is on your side ♪
680
00:36:40,948 --> 00:36:45,244
♪ Letting go, now were moving closer... ♪
681
00:36:45,244 --> 00:36:47,038
{\an8}Today's like, it's magical.
682
00:36:49,207 --> 00:36:52,084
I never envisioned this for myself.
683
00:36:54,003 --> 00:36:55,713
[gasps]
684
00:36:55,713 --> 00:36:56,964
Gosh!
685
00:36:56,964 --> 00:37:00,218
My head is in the clouds. [laughing]
686
00:37:00,218 --> 00:37:03,179
- [horn blowing]
- [metal clacking]
687
00:37:03,179 --> 00:37:04,680
Is that a train? [gasps]
688
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,307
No freaking way.
689
00:37:06,307 --> 00:37:09,769
Oh, that was meant to happen.
Today is gonna be a good day.
690
00:37:09,769 --> 00:37:13,856
When I first woke up this morning,
I was freaking out a little bit.
691
00:37:13,856 --> 00:37:17,068
I get in my way sometimes,
and I overthink,
692
00:37:17,818 --> 00:37:21,614
and this is the day where
I just need to trust my instincts.
693
00:37:21,614 --> 00:37:22,531
[gasps]
694
00:37:22,531 --> 00:37:26,661
Because I fell in love in the pod
before ever seeing this man.
695
00:37:27,245 --> 00:37:29,956
I got to know this man so well.
696
00:37:29,956 --> 00:37:34,919
Like, his heart is so good,
and he cares about me so much.
697
00:37:34,919 --> 00:37:35,878
[sniffles]
698
00:37:36,671 --> 00:37:38,547
Following what makes you happy.
699
00:37:38,547 --> 00:37:41,801
When you do that, I think good things
are always gonna come to you.
700
00:37:41,801 --> 00:37:43,052
[sighs]
701
00:37:43,052 --> 00:37:44,971
[Tiffany] I'm just so inspired by you.
702
00:37:44,971 --> 00:37:47,390
I already feel
as though I'm in love with you.
703
00:37:50,434 --> 00:37:51,894
[Brett] Tiffany Pennywell.
704
00:37:53,312 --> 00:37:54,522
Will you marry me?
705
00:37:55,356 --> 00:37:59,277
Yes, abso-freakin'-lutely, Brett!
706
00:37:59,277 --> 00:38:00,820
I will.
707
00:38:02,029 --> 00:38:03,114
Mmm!
708
00:38:03,114 --> 00:38:06,242
- I see the future so clearly with you.
- Mm-hmm.
709
00:38:06,242 --> 00:38:08,995
Yo, this is a tear of joy.
710
00:38:08,995 --> 00:38:11,455
I just wanna let you know, Tiffany,
that I do love you.
711
00:38:11,455 --> 00:38:14,500
- [woman] Oh, my God. Oh, my God!
- Aww!
712
00:38:14,500 --> 00:38:16,877
[woman] You're getting married!
713
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,339
[Tiffany] Like, I'm strong, independent,
714
00:38:20,339 --> 00:38:22,383
happy, living my best life.
715
00:38:23,092 --> 00:38:24,760
It's not that I needed anyone.
716
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:29,348
It's just that I wanted someone
to share these beautiful experiences with.
717
00:38:29,348 --> 00:38:31,976
I wanted someone... [sniffles]
718
00:38:31,976 --> 00:38:34,603
...that I knew that
I could trust their decisions,
719
00:38:34,603 --> 00:38:39,692
and that I could lean on
even when I feel completely broken.
720
00:38:39,692 --> 00:38:43,195
I truly feel like we're,
like, the perfect match.
721
00:38:44,864 --> 00:38:45,823
Hello?
722
00:38:46,449 --> 00:38:48,451
- [snoring lightly]
- [Brett] Tiffany?
723
00:38:51,620 --> 00:38:53,164
It's the stress of everything.
724
00:38:55,291 --> 00:38:57,335
It's almost like I... I don't want...
725
00:38:57,335 --> 00:38:59,337
I don't want a wedding.
726
00:39:01,505 --> 00:39:06,927
I don't have to overthink it.
Like, I just have to feel... feel it.
727
00:39:07,678 --> 00:39:11,932
Trust my intuition,
and it hasn't steered me wrong yet.
728
00:39:11,932 --> 00:39:15,061
Because look at where I am.
He still has to say, "I do."
729
00:39:15,061 --> 00:39:17,104
But look at where I am right now.
730
00:39:17,813 --> 00:39:19,231
Okay.
731
00:39:19,774 --> 00:39:20,608
Wow.
732
00:39:21,817 --> 00:39:24,570
Gosh, I can't believe this. [sniffles]
733
00:39:24,570 --> 00:39:27,782
That's how I know he's right for me.
734
00:39:28,324 --> 00:39:31,202
He's bringing out all of these emotions.
735
00:39:31,202 --> 00:39:34,955
- ["Me With You" by Liberati playing]
- ♪ If I know just one thing ♪
736
00:39:35,664 --> 00:39:38,667
♪ And just one thing only... ♪
737
00:39:41,212 --> 00:39:43,464
{\an8}Today's my wedding day. [chuckles]
738
00:39:44,298 --> 00:39:47,885
It feels good to say it. Uh, 'cause
I truly feel I found the right person.
739
00:39:48,552 --> 00:39:50,971
Tiffany is everything that I've wanted.
740
00:39:51,806 --> 00:39:53,140
This is nice.
741
00:39:53,641 --> 00:39:57,395
I feel that, uh,
this was supposed to happen this way.
742
00:39:57,895 --> 00:39:59,230
[laughing]
743
00:39:59,230 --> 00:40:00,147
Yo!
744
00:40:00,147 --> 00:40:02,358
[man] Here he is. Here he is. What's up?
745
00:40:02,358 --> 00:40:03,859
- [laughing]
- [Brett] What's up, man?
746
00:40:03,859 --> 00:40:05,444
[Lakayana] How you feeling? For real?
747
00:40:05,444 --> 00:40:07,905
- [sighs]
- [man] You got the gold chalice up there.
748
00:40:07,905 --> 00:40:09,240
{\an8}I'm glad to hear that.
749
00:40:09,240 --> 00:40:12,535
{\an8}- You should be a little. It's a big day.
- I mean, I feel ready.
750
00:40:12,535 --> 00:40:14,203
{\an8}- Yeah.
- I feel good.
751
00:40:14,203 --> 00:40:19,166
{\an8}I mean, this has been a very unique
752
00:40:19,166 --> 00:40:21,794
{\an8}and intense process.
753
00:40:22,420 --> 00:40:24,171
Um, but...
754
00:40:25,506 --> 00:40:27,716
- Tiffany's the one.
- [Curtis] No doubts about it though?
755
00:40:27,716 --> 00:40:29,135
- No doubts.
- [Curtis] The one?
756
00:40:29,135 --> 00:40:31,345
- Not a single reservation?
- Not a single doubt.
757
00:40:31,345 --> 00:40:33,305
I just feel that Tiffany truly loves me,
758
00:40:33,305 --> 00:40:35,683
and I hope that Tiffany
truly feels that I love her.
759
00:40:35,683 --> 00:40:38,561
And I'm just looking forward
to putting a ring on her finger.
760
00:40:38,561 --> 00:40:40,312
You always hear about
the good stuff first.
761
00:40:40,312 --> 00:40:42,398
- [Brett laughs]
- Talk about some of the fears, man.
762
00:40:42,398 --> 00:40:43,858
What's going through your mind?
763
00:40:43,858 --> 00:40:44,859
I mean...
764
00:40:46,819 --> 00:40:47,987
How we lost Arvin.
765
00:40:47,987 --> 00:40:48,904
Yeah, I know.
766
00:40:49,989 --> 00:40:52,158
And Arvin was my older brother.
767
00:40:52,158 --> 00:40:55,619
And he was a few months away
from getting married, and then overnight...
768
00:40:55,619 --> 00:40:56,829
- [snaps fingers]
- Gone.
769
00:41:01,208 --> 00:41:03,169
Seeing that happen
to somebody that you love
770
00:41:03,169 --> 00:41:05,087
and knowing that that's a possibility,
771
00:41:05,087 --> 00:41:08,883
I just fear that something like that
could happen to one of us.
772
00:41:10,468 --> 00:41:11,469
[exhales]
773
00:41:12,636 --> 00:41:14,096
And I hate thinking about it.
774
00:41:15,723 --> 00:41:19,518
Because when you go through that,
you're suddenly aware life is short.
775
00:41:23,063 --> 00:41:27,151
We got your back,
and it just feels good to hear you talk
776
00:41:27,151 --> 00:41:30,070
still positively about some
of those fears that are happening.
777
00:41:30,070 --> 00:41:32,907
You're still making this leap
and pursuing your dreams, man.
778
00:41:33,699 --> 00:41:35,784
[Brett] At the end of the day, man, like...
779
00:41:36,869 --> 00:41:38,078
she's an amazing woman.
780
00:41:38,078 --> 00:41:39,914
Independent, strong,
781
00:41:39,914 --> 00:41:42,041
confident, nurturing.
782
00:41:42,041 --> 00:41:45,169
Like, she made me feel important.
783
00:41:45,794 --> 00:41:47,922
She made me feel valued.
784
00:41:47,922 --> 00:41:51,300
She made me feel seen and heard.
785
00:41:51,300 --> 00:41:54,220
She made me feel like...
I could be, like, a superhero and...
786
00:41:54,220 --> 00:41:57,056
- That sounds cheesy, but it's the truth.
- [laughing]
787
00:41:57,056 --> 00:42:01,519
She's very specific and confident
in how she talks about our relationship
788
00:42:01,519 --> 00:42:04,396
and our future, and I believe her.
I have no reason to doubt her.
789
00:42:04,396 --> 00:42:08,150
And what I intend
to say to her is from the heart.
790
00:42:08,692 --> 00:42:11,403
And I hope that she accepts it.
791
00:42:12,154 --> 00:42:13,531
I feel like she will.
792
00:42:19,828 --> 00:42:20,746
Oh, my gosh.
793
00:42:23,415 --> 00:42:25,084
{\an8}- [Jennifer] You haven't talked to him?
- No.
794
00:42:25,084 --> 00:42:26,168
{\an8}- [woman] Oh, no!
- Oh!
795
00:42:26,168 --> 00:42:29,547
I don't wanna sway his decision
in any way. Like...
796
00:42:29,547 --> 00:42:31,799
Like, "Hey, just remember I love you."
797
00:42:31,799 --> 00:42:33,759
- [laughing]
- No, won't do that.
798
00:42:33,759 --> 00:42:35,886
I don't know what's going on in his head.
799
00:42:35,886 --> 00:42:37,805
There, I put it out there in the universe.
800
00:42:37,805 --> 00:42:40,349
We gonna say, "I do." [laughs]
801
00:42:40,349 --> 00:42:41,809
Just in case.
802
00:42:42,977 --> 00:42:44,478
[sighs] Okay.
803
00:42:44,478 --> 00:42:47,356
- Now, if Brett says no...
- No, stop.
804
00:42:47,356 --> 00:42:51,860
{\an8}I would be devastated,
and I would feel betrayed.
805
00:42:51,860 --> 00:42:54,697
{\an8}Because I'm like,
"I was so sure about you."
806
00:42:54,697 --> 00:42:56,615
"We were all rooting for you."
807
00:42:56,615 --> 00:42:59,660
- "We were all rooting for you."
- [Janae] I don't think he's crazy.
808
00:42:59,660 --> 00:43:01,495
{\an8}No, not with all my friends here.
809
00:43:01,495 --> 00:43:03,372
{\an8}I don't think he's that crazy.
810
00:43:03,372 --> 00:43:05,874
I just know that... [sighs]
811
00:43:05,874 --> 00:43:07,751
...I wait for a sign,
812
00:43:07,751 --> 00:43:10,170
something to hit me to say,
"This isn't what you should do."
813
00:43:10,170 --> 00:43:12,381
But everything has been leading me
to this point.
814
00:43:12,381 --> 00:43:13,382
[laughing]
815
00:43:13,382 --> 00:43:15,509
- We gonna do it. [laughs]
- Yeah.
816
00:43:16,093 --> 00:43:19,471
{\an8}- [Brett] Hey, yo!
- [laughing]
817
00:43:19,471 --> 00:43:22,433
{\an8}- [Curtis] Man of the hour. How you doing?
- [man] Y'all looking good.
818
00:43:23,017 --> 00:43:24,643
- All right, Brett.
- Don't get up.
819
00:43:24,643 --> 00:43:27,813
- [laughing] I'm not. All right.
- You don't have to get up.
820
00:43:27,813 --> 00:43:29,231
Good to see you, Dad.
821
00:43:29,231 --> 00:43:33,110
All right, I got my crying towel
in my pocket just in case you need one.
822
00:43:33,110 --> 00:43:35,195
- In case you need one.
- [Herbert] Oh, well, okay.
823
00:43:35,195 --> 00:43:37,615
- [laughing]
- Sounds like y'all both will need 'em.
824
00:43:37,615 --> 00:43:39,158
[chuckles]
825
00:43:39,158 --> 00:43:41,994
{\an8}- [Stefhon] So, how do you feel?
- [Brett] I'm ready. I'm happy.
826
00:43:42,620 --> 00:43:45,623
Um... I'm ready.
827
00:43:45,623 --> 00:43:48,208
You know, Brett,
when something presents itself,
828
00:43:48,709 --> 00:43:51,295
if you see something positive in it,
you go for it.
829
00:43:51,295 --> 00:43:53,047
That's the way he is. He always been.
830
00:43:53,047 --> 00:43:56,008
I said, man, it's not a traditional way
you meet somebody.
831
00:43:56,008 --> 00:44:01,138
And you guys connected so much,
and so much in common.
832
00:44:01,138 --> 00:44:04,183
That's amazing. That is amazing.
833
00:44:04,183 --> 00:44:08,228
We never would have met if
it wasn't for this. If it wasn't for this.
834
00:44:08,228 --> 00:44:10,314
We never would have crossed paths.
835
00:44:10,314 --> 00:44:13,150
She would not have been
in any way ever been on my radar.
836
00:44:13,150 --> 00:44:15,319
Man, I'm so proud of you.
I'm happy for you.
837
00:44:15,319 --> 00:44:18,197
You know?
So, this is life-changing for you, man.
838
00:44:18,197 --> 00:44:20,491
I think you guys
are gonna have a good future.
839
00:44:23,744 --> 00:44:27,039
- Look at my baby. [gasps]
- Oh!
840
00:44:27,039 --> 00:44:30,042
Hi! Look at my baby!
841
00:44:30,042 --> 00:44:31,627
{\an8}- Oh, yeah.
- Whoo-hoo!
842
00:44:31,627 --> 00:44:34,421
{\an8}- Mom. Oh, Mom.
- [chuckles] Mmm!
843
00:44:34,421 --> 00:44:37,132
- [Jennifer] Oh, my gosh.
- Look at you!
844
00:44:37,132 --> 00:44:39,551
- You look so good!
- [Ella] I know.
845
00:44:42,805 --> 00:44:44,598
Mrs. Pennywell,
what do you think about Brett?
846
00:44:45,557 --> 00:44:47,059
I love him.
847
00:44:47,059 --> 00:44:48,644
- He is so sweet.
- Aww!
848
00:44:48,644 --> 00:44:51,689
Is that why you feel so calm about it?
'Cause you seem like...
849
00:44:52,272 --> 00:44:54,108
I think 'cause I'm happy for her.
850
00:44:55,109 --> 00:44:58,195
When she came in
and she was all ready to cry, "Mom!"
851
00:44:58,195 --> 00:45:01,407
"He's terrific."
I said, "Oh, my God, she's in love."
852
00:45:01,407 --> 00:45:02,574
That made me cry, yeah.
853
00:45:02,574 --> 00:45:03,659
I was so happy about that.
854
00:45:03,659 --> 00:45:05,035
[Tiffany] Hmm.
855
00:45:05,035 --> 00:45:08,163
I slept with that man's shoe
next to my bed.
856
00:45:08,163 --> 00:45:10,874
[laughing] Like, what? What?
857
00:45:10,874 --> 00:45:13,460
Who does that for somebody
they've never seen before?
858
00:45:13,460 --> 00:45:15,462
I heard his voice in my dreams.
859
00:45:15,462 --> 00:45:18,006
That is how love is blind.
860
00:45:18,590 --> 00:45:20,467
{\an8}[Brett] Ooh!
861
00:45:21,969 --> 00:45:23,512
- I'm Louis.
- [Brett] Great to see you.
862
00:45:23,512 --> 00:45:25,973
- [Louis] Nice to meet you.
- [Brett] Thank you for stopping by.
863
00:45:25,973 --> 00:45:27,433
[Louis] Nice shoes.
864
00:45:27,433 --> 00:45:30,018
When these first came out,
they had a colorway.
865
00:45:30,018 --> 00:45:32,813
The blue here was the same,
but this was gray.
866
00:45:32,813 --> 00:45:36,066
Right. Right.
I believe that was the pair I had.
867
00:45:36,066 --> 00:45:38,902
When I was a kid, the way
my family grew up, like, I didn't...
868
00:45:38,902 --> 00:45:41,196
- We couldn't afford Jordans.
- Well, neither could I.
869
00:45:41,196 --> 00:45:43,574
I grew up in a single-parent relationship.
870
00:45:43,574 --> 00:45:46,744
- My mom gave me everything I could want.
- Mm-hmm.
871
00:45:46,744 --> 00:45:51,331
And I always made myself a promise that
I was gonna always be there for my kids.
872
00:45:51,331 --> 00:45:52,249
[Brett] Mm-hmm.
873
00:45:52,249 --> 00:45:56,253
And I didn't want them
to feel the way I feel about my dad.
874
00:45:56,253 --> 00:45:58,797
So, I try to be there for them
all the time.
875
00:45:59,298 --> 00:46:02,259
I've, for a long time,
been really focused on getting myself
876
00:46:02,259 --> 00:46:03,677
in a position that I want.
877
00:46:03,677 --> 00:46:08,348
Because I know that when I do,
and when I am ready to have a family,
878
00:46:08,348 --> 00:46:10,517
that I'm able to provide for them.
879
00:46:10,517 --> 00:46:15,230
In the way that I didn't feel that
I was provided for, you know, growing up.
880
00:46:15,230 --> 00:46:17,858
And that's no knock at all
against my parents.
881
00:46:17,858 --> 00:46:20,360
- Right.
- That's just how the domino fell.
882
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:23,530
My wife and I have been married 42 years.
883
00:46:23,530 --> 00:46:25,783
- Mm-hmm.
- You in it for the long haul?
884
00:46:27,075 --> 00:46:27,910
I am.
885
00:46:27,910 --> 00:46:31,079
My mom and my dad have been married
for about the same amount of time.
886
00:46:31,079 --> 00:46:32,414
[Louis] Mm-hmm.
887
00:46:32,414 --> 00:46:36,335
And my mom and dad
have been through a lot together.
888
00:46:36,335 --> 00:46:37,544
Yeah.
889
00:46:37,544 --> 00:46:40,380
My mom has a mental condition,
890
00:46:40,964 --> 00:46:44,676
and one of the things
that I admire most about my dad is that
891
00:46:46,011 --> 00:46:49,848
no matter how hard it got with her
and us as a family...
892
00:46:49,848 --> 00:46:54,228
We literally lost everything that we have,
or had, when I was, like, 12 years old.
893
00:46:54,228 --> 00:46:58,232
Lights, water, house, everything,
had to move to my grandma's house.
894
00:46:58,232 --> 00:46:59,149
Right.
895
00:46:59,149 --> 00:47:03,278
And through all of that...
my dad never left.
896
00:47:03,278 --> 00:47:04,822
With my mom, as well,
897
00:47:04,822 --> 00:47:07,199
seeing what she's been through
with my dad.
898
00:47:07,199 --> 00:47:09,493
They've always stayed together.
899
00:47:10,536 --> 00:47:13,163
You and your wife
have raised an amazing daughter.
900
00:47:13,163 --> 00:47:14,498
I appreciate that.
901
00:47:14,498 --> 00:47:16,250
She's an incredible woman.
902
00:47:16,250 --> 00:47:18,585
You feel like she's the one?
903
00:47:18,585 --> 00:47:19,503
I do.
904
00:47:20,712 --> 00:47:23,924
I'm not somebody who's just gonna go along
905
00:47:23,924 --> 00:47:26,426
with something just because
the other person feels strongly.
906
00:47:26,426 --> 00:47:30,472
I really think about every decision I make
before I make it,
907
00:47:30,973 --> 00:47:37,896
and I feel very confident
about Tiffany and I's future relationship.
908
00:47:38,939 --> 00:47:40,607
And I mean that wholeheartedly.
909
00:47:41,483 --> 00:47:44,236
I am committed to Tiffany.
910
00:47:44,236 --> 00:47:45,988
I'm committed to this relationship.
911
00:47:46,572 --> 00:47:48,907
I really don't have any doubts.
912
00:47:48,907 --> 00:47:53,620
And, um, I'm just here
to ask for your blessing
913
00:47:53,620 --> 00:47:55,873
to have your daughter's hand in marriage.
914
00:48:02,296 --> 00:48:03,422
You got it.
915
00:48:04,798 --> 00:48:06,633
You got it. I believe in you.
916
00:48:08,135 --> 00:48:10,345
I believe she feels
the same way about you.
917
00:48:10,345 --> 00:48:12,306
She's totally happy.
918
00:48:12,931 --> 00:48:14,600
If she's happy, I'm happy.
919
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:16,894
And I believe she's ready.
920
00:48:17,895 --> 00:48:19,855
So, you have my blessing.
921
00:48:19,855 --> 00:48:22,190
- Thank you. All right, we gotta...
- [Louis] You're welcome.
922
00:48:22,190 --> 00:48:24,276
[laughing]
923
00:48:24,276 --> 00:48:26,862
- Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
- You're welcome, man.
924
00:48:26,862 --> 00:48:29,072
- Happy to be a part of the family.
- Yes.
925
00:48:29,072 --> 00:48:31,033
- Thank you so much.
- You're welcome.
926
00:48:33,035 --> 00:48:34,202
[chuckles]
927
00:48:34,202 --> 00:48:35,746
Oh, you look good, Tiffany.
928
00:48:35,746 --> 00:48:37,080
Yeah, this is it.
929
00:48:38,415 --> 00:48:40,876
[shouting, laughing]
930
00:48:44,129 --> 00:48:45,964
Yeah. [laughs]
931
00:48:45,964 --> 00:48:49,259
- ["Just Like This" playing]
- ♪ I love it, love it just like this ♪
932
00:48:49,259 --> 00:48:56,016
♪ Oh-oh-oh-oh! ♪
933
00:48:56,016 --> 00:48:58,477
♪ I love it, love it just like this ♪
934
00:48:59,186 --> 00:49:02,022
[Brett grumbles]
Does this look like my style, Angus?
935
00:49:02,022 --> 00:49:04,232
- This look like my style, Angus?
- I know how you dress.
936
00:49:04,232 --> 00:49:06,026
- Okay, does this look like my style?
- No.
937
00:49:06,026 --> 00:49:08,612
Okay then, there you go.
That's all you need to say.
938
00:49:08,612 --> 00:49:10,322
[Angus] Not gonna say
anything else to you.
939
00:49:10,322 --> 00:49:12,574
My shirt is tight as fuck.
Trust me, I understand.
940
00:49:12,574 --> 00:49:14,368
But... this isn't your wedding.
941
00:49:14,368 --> 00:49:16,286
I'm just-- I understand, bro.
942
00:49:16,286 --> 00:49:18,455
Don't-- I just wanted
to see what was wrong.
943
00:49:19,039 --> 00:49:21,041
- Don't get aggro with me.
- I'm not aggro with you.
944
00:49:21,041 --> 00:49:23,126
This is my wedding.
This is my important day.
945
00:49:23,126 --> 00:49:24,586
[Angus] I completely understand.
946
00:49:24,586 --> 00:49:27,798
So, I deserve to have pants
that fit the way that I want them to fit.
947
00:49:27,798 --> 00:49:31,134
A little frustrated.
Had a little issue with the suit.
948
00:49:31,134 --> 00:49:35,138
Uh, tailoring isn't really
what I was looking for.
949
00:49:35,138 --> 00:49:38,225
This should be a day of no surprises.
It should be a day of planning.
950
00:49:38,225 --> 00:49:40,936
- I know what to expect and how it fits.
- [Angus] Right.
951
00:49:40,936 --> 00:49:42,813
I'm coming in here. I'm in the moment.
952
00:49:42,813 --> 00:49:45,482
I'm enjoying it not being a surprise,
953
00:49:45,482 --> 00:49:47,651
because I'm frustrated
that my suit doesn't fit.
954
00:49:47,651 --> 00:49:50,862
This should not happen. This is avoidable.
955
00:49:52,322 --> 00:49:54,032
I could have did this myself.
956
00:49:55,158 --> 00:49:57,953
This shouldn't happen.
There's no excuses, period.
957
00:50:00,664 --> 00:50:03,917
I can be very particular
about how things fit, my look.
958
00:50:03,917 --> 00:50:07,087
And, you know, this is my day.
This is the most important day of my life.
959
00:50:07,087 --> 00:50:10,841
And, uh... I think this is a day
960
00:50:10,841 --> 00:50:15,846
where I'm allowed to not settle
for something that I don't like.
961
00:50:27,357 --> 00:50:31,111
{\an8}This is the one with the issue,
and we need to take care, of course.
962
00:50:31,111 --> 00:50:33,196
{\an8}- Yes.
- Do you want to stand over here?
963
00:50:33,196 --> 00:50:35,741
- We face the mirror.
- This is the day of my wedding.
964
00:50:35,741 --> 00:50:38,785
- Then I tried this on and it's like...
- Wow. Very special.
965
00:50:38,785 --> 00:50:41,204
Yeah, and I tried this on
for the first time, and it's like...
966
00:50:41,204 --> 00:50:44,291
- The pants are very, very wide.
- Yes.
967
00:50:44,291 --> 00:50:48,045
- It is kind of baggy.
- [Brett] So, what do you need me to do?
968
00:50:48,045 --> 00:50:52,340
Uh, nothing, just change.
I will go ahead and start working.
969
00:51:01,850 --> 00:51:03,852
{\an8}[sewing machine grinding]
970
00:51:06,104 --> 00:51:08,106
["Starting Now" by Cathedralz playing]
971
00:51:11,276 --> 00:51:13,612
[Tiffany] Oh, my gosh, guys.
It's about that time.
972
00:51:13,612 --> 00:51:15,947
♪ Something's in the air ♪
973
00:51:15,947 --> 00:51:18,283
♪ I hold my breath ♪
974
00:51:20,118 --> 00:51:21,995
♪ The moment's coming ♪
975
00:51:21,995 --> 00:51:25,248
♪ Now’s the genesis ♪
976
00:51:26,416 --> 00:51:31,463
♪ Let's make our dreams brand-new
And glorious... ♪
977
00:51:31,463 --> 00:51:34,257
[women laugh and shout]
978
00:51:34,257 --> 00:51:36,760
Oh, my God!
979
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:39,054
- Look at you!
- Oh, my God!
980
00:51:39,054 --> 00:51:41,264
- [Tiffany exhales, grunts]
- Hey.
981
00:51:41,264 --> 00:51:42,724
[Tiffany laughs]
982
00:51:42,724 --> 00:51:45,143
- You look beautiful.
- [Tiffany] Thank you, Mom.
983
00:51:45,143 --> 00:51:46,311
Oh, God.
984
00:51:46,311 --> 00:51:49,773
It feels surreal, but I feel so happy.
985
00:51:49,773 --> 00:51:52,192
I'm still crying these tears of joy.
986
00:51:52,192 --> 00:51:55,112
Sounds cliché, but it feels like a dream.
987
00:51:55,112 --> 00:51:57,114
I feel like this is a fairy tale.
988
00:51:57,739 --> 00:51:59,658
I'm about to make a huge decision.
989
00:51:59,658 --> 00:52:01,368
I think I know what I wanna make.
990
00:52:01,368 --> 00:52:04,871
I'm proud to say that I've met my man
through this experiment,
991
00:52:04,871 --> 00:52:09,167
and I'm... I'm gonna have
the best time of my life...
992
00:52:11,169 --> 00:52:14,464
as Mrs. Brown! [laughs]
993
00:52:14,464 --> 00:52:16,424
- [Jennifer] It's real.
- Yeah.
994
00:52:17,551 --> 00:52:18,385
{\an8}[Lucia] All done.
995
00:52:18,385 --> 00:52:20,846
{\an8}I will try these on.
996
00:52:21,346 --> 00:52:23,098
- Oh, you can go inside.
- Okay.
997
00:52:23,098 --> 00:52:24,266
Thank you.
998
00:52:28,103 --> 00:52:32,107
Yeah, I did my best.
Instep I take in, but I don't know.
999
00:52:53,545 --> 00:52:56,673
- This already feels infinitely better.
- Okay.
1000
00:52:56,673 --> 00:52:57,924
[Brett] This is great.
1001
00:52:57,924 --> 00:53:00,427
- Thank you so much.
- [Lucia] Yeah. My pleasure, from my heart.
1002
00:53:00,427 --> 00:53:03,096
You've made my wedding day.
One more hug. One more hug.
1003
00:53:03,096 --> 00:53:05,140
- Thank you. [chuckles]
- Thank you so much.
1004
00:53:05,140 --> 00:53:08,894
- ["Doing the Most" playing]
- ♪ You know we'll never get old, oh, no ♪
1005
00:53:08,894 --> 00:53:10,228
♪ 'Cause we're doing the most... ♪
1006
00:53:10,228 --> 00:53:13,148
- [Jennifer] Let's get you married.
- I'm getting married!
1007
00:53:13,148 --> 00:53:15,233
[all shouting]
1008
00:53:18,945 --> 00:53:20,947
["It's You" by Altitude Music playing]
1009
00:53:29,164 --> 00:53:34,753
♪ Sometimes demons haunt my mind ♪
1010
00:53:34,753 --> 00:53:39,090
♪ Silence is so hard to find ♪
1011
00:53:40,050 --> 00:53:43,595
♪ Every memory fades ♪
1012
00:53:43,595 --> 00:53:48,350
♪ While they resign... ♪
1013
00:53:50,769 --> 00:53:51,853
{\an8}My brother.
1014
00:53:53,438 --> 00:53:54,856
[Marshall laughs]
1015
00:53:55,398 --> 00:53:56,524
I see you, king.
1016
00:53:56,524 --> 00:53:58,360
- You're looking real clean.
- I see you.
1017
00:53:58,360 --> 00:53:59,778
Good to see you, man.
1018
00:54:01,154 --> 00:54:03,073
Thank you so much for coming by.
1019
00:54:03,073 --> 00:54:05,033
- Thanks for having me.
- Oh, of course.
1020
00:54:06,159 --> 00:54:10,872
You are such an important part
of Tiffany and I's story.
1021
00:54:10,872 --> 00:54:14,709
Man, look, I told you ever since day one,
I wanna see you win.
1022
00:54:14,709 --> 00:54:17,170
- You said that.
- [sniffles] You're moments away.
1023
00:54:17,170 --> 00:54:20,090
I'm not gonna lie to you.
It's... It's a little hard.
1024
00:54:20,090 --> 00:54:21,508
- [sniffles]
- Mm-hmm.
1025
00:54:21,508 --> 00:54:24,928
You know, seeing, uh...
seeing what could have been.
1026
00:54:24,928 --> 00:54:27,597
- Mm-hmm.
- But... I'm here for you.
1027
00:54:27,597 --> 00:54:30,016
I'm happy for you,
and I'm happy for Tiffany.
1028
00:54:30,016 --> 00:54:33,270
Whatever happens with you, man,
listen, you're gonna grow from it.
1029
00:54:33,270 --> 00:54:35,939
What's meant to be will be.
That wasn't meant to be.
1030
00:54:35,939 --> 00:54:39,359
Well, I love you, man. I love you
deep down in the bottom of my heart.
1031
00:54:39,359 --> 00:54:40,443
I love you too, man.
1032
00:54:40,443 --> 00:54:42,195
- Seriously, I'm glad you came.
- Yeah.
1033
00:54:42,195 --> 00:54:45,156
Good luck, brother. I'm gonna be
in that audience rooting for you, my man.
1034
00:54:45,156 --> 00:54:47,117
- I love you, man.
- I love you too, man.
1035
00:54:47,117 --> 00:54:49,369
- I'll see you out there. All right.
- Yes, sir. Yes, sir.
1036
00:54:49,369 --> 00:54:51,454
[gentle instrumental music playing]
1037
00:54:56,751 --> 00:54:58,044
[woman] This is wild.
1038
00:55:08,638 --> 00:55:10,640
[cheering]
1039
00:55:15,854 --> 00:55:16,980
[man] Let's go, Brett!
1040
00:55:19,733 --> 00:55:22,152
Good to see you.
Good to see you. Good to see you.
1041
00:55:22,152 --> 00:55:24,195
That's the man right there, boy.
1042
00:55:24,195 --> 00:55:25,864
[sighs] Oh, boy.
1043
00:55:27,449 --> 00:55:29,868
Hey, hey, I got your crying towel
if you need it.
1044
00:55:30,702 --> 00:55:31,536
I'm good.
1045
00:55:45,967 --> 00:55:48,845
{\an8}- Be patient with him. He's a good guy.
- He's amazing.
1046
00:55:48,845 --> 00:55:51,222
{\an8}- He really is a good person for me.
- He's a very good guy.
1047
00:55:51,222 --> 00:55:52,307
[sighs]
1048
00:55:53,475 --> 00:55:54,309
I love you.
1049
00:55:54,309 --> 00:55:56,853
- Love you too, Dad. [sighs]
- Love you more.
1050
00:55:56,853 --> 00:55:59,898
- I love you the most.
- And I love you more than most-most.
1051
00:55:59,898 --> 00:56:01,274
[laughing]
1052
00:56:01,858 --> 00:56:02,901
[Louis] Let's do this.
1053
00:56:02,901 --> 00:56:05,862
- [pop music playing]
- ♪ It's here, it's now ♪
1054
00:56:05,862 --> 00:56:08,531
♪ It's all I dream about... ♪
1055
00:56:08,531 --> 00:56:09,908
♪ Right here... ♪
1056
00:56:09,908 --> 00:56:10,825
[sighs]
1057
00:56:10,825 --> 00:56:15,080
♪ Right now I'm gonna touch the clouds ♪
1058
00:56:15,080 --> 00:56:17,082
[vocalizing]
1059
00:56:17,082 --> 00:56:19,376
[Jennifer] She was
not expecting him to cry.
1060
00:56:19,918 --> 00:56:21,795
Oh, I didn't know I was gonna cry.
1061
00:56:25,215 --> 00:56:27,300
♪ It's here and now ♪
1062
00:56:27,300 --> 00:56:29,552
[laughing]
1063
00:56:29,552 --> 00:56:31,054
You look beautiful.
1064
00:56:34,974 --> 00:56:37,852
[Tiffany laughs, sniffles]
1065
00:56:37,852 --> 00:56:39,896
- [Louis] Take care of my baby.
- I will.
1066
00:56:40,438 --> 00:56:42,440
[officiant] You may all be seated.
1067
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:43,525
[Tiffany sobs]
1068
00:56:43,525 --> 00:56:44,901
[sniffles]
1069
00:56:44,901 --> 00:56:47,821
[officiant] We are gathered here today
1070
00:56:47,821 --> 00:56:50,573
to witness and to bless
1071
00:56:50,573 --> 00:56:52,951
the joining together
1072
00:56:52,951 --> 00:56:55,912
of Tiffany and Brett in marriage.
1073
00:56:56,621 --> 00:56:59,666
Tiffany and Brett come to give themselves
1074
00:56:59,666 --> 00:57:03,628
to one another in this Holy Covenant.
1075
00:57:03,628 --> 00:57:06,631
You are coming together to become one.
1076
00:57:07,549 --> 00:57:10,885
Y'all are deciding to get married today,
1077
00:57:11,761 --> 00:57:15,223
and that's what makes this day
so meaningful.
1078
00:57:15,932 --> 00:57:19,269
Tiffany and Brett
would like to honor their families
1079
00:57:19,853 --> 00:57:22,981
who have loved them,
who have supported them
1080
00:57:22,981 --> 00:57:25,775
to bring them to this point today.
1081
00:57:25,775 --> 00:57:27,110
[thunder rumbling]
1082
00:57:30,155 --> 00:57:33,616
All your amazing gifts, your quirks.
1083
00:57:33,616 --> 00:57:38,246
Like Tiffany, you falling asleep
at inopportune moments in the pods!
1084
00:57:38,246 --> 00:57:40,623
- [laughing]
- [woman] Yes, girl!
1085
00:57:40,623 --> 00:57:41,916
[officiant] And your passions.
1086
00:57:41,916 --> 00:57:44,210
- [laughing]
- I'm never gonna let you get over that.
1087
00:57:44,210 --> 00:57:45,378
- [laughing]
- I swear.
1088
00:57:45,378 --> 00:57:49,841
[officiant] Tiffany and Brett,
it is an honor to be here
1089
00:57:49,841 --> 00:57:52,343
to witness you both
1090
00:57:52,343 --> 00:57:55,221
display your love and commitment
1091
00:57:55,221 --> 00:57:56,973
for one another.
1092
00:57:56,973 --> 00:57:58,349
[thunder crashes]
1093
00:57:58,892 --> 00:58:00,518
- As the rain starts.
- Nice.
1094
00:58:01,853 --> 00:58:03,897
- It's good luck!
- [Tiffany] This is a good sign.
1095
00:58:03,897 --> 00:58:06,816
- This is a good sign.
- [Christy] It's good luck, baby girl. Yes!
1096
00:58:11,112 --> 00:58:12,155
[sighs]
1097
00:58:16,743 --> 00:58:20,205
Brett. Your soul is so beautiful, Brett.
1098
00:58:20,788 --> 00:58:23,958
It's who you are. It's your character.
1099
00:58:25,001 --> 00:58:26,336
You make me better.
1100
00:58:28,087 --> 00:58:31,549
[gasps] I thank you so much
for giving me a chance
1101
00:58:31,549 --> 00:58:34,719
to show you who I am, who I truly am.
1102
00:58:34,719 --> 00:58:38,306
And you not judging me,
and you loving me no matter what.
1103
00:58:38,306 --> 00:58:41,059
I thank you for just being you.
1104
00:58:41,059 --> 00:58:43,603
Every stage in this process,
1105
00:58:43,603 --> 00:58:46,898
you have been consistently yourself.
1106
00:58:46,898 --> 00:58:49,108
[sobbing]
1107
00:58:49,108 --> 00:58:52,320
And that's how I knew
that I was in love with you. [sniffles]
1108
00:58:55,823 --> 00:59:00,328
It wasn't a physical thing.
It was simply how you spoke to my soul.
1109
00:59:01,162 --> 00:59:03,414
And I just wanna thank you so much.
1110
00:59:03,414 --> 00:59:06,209
- Ooh, gosh, hold on.
- [both laugh]
1111
00:59:08,002 --> 00:59:10,255
- Okay, I gotta-- I'm done, sorry.
- [chuckles]
1112
00:59:10,255 --> 00:59:11,631
- [Tiffany] Sorry.
- [cheering]
1113
00:59:11,631 --> 00:59:13,675
- [Brett mutters]
- [Tiffany] Oh!
1114
00:59:16,302 --> 00:59:17,929
- You're making me teary.
- No, you're good.
1115
00:59:17,929 --> 00:59:19,097
Now I gotta talk.
1116
00:59:19,973 --> 00:59:21,766
I'm just gonna speak from the heart.
1117
00:59:22,350 --> 00:59:25,645
Coming into this,
the thought of falling in love
1118
00:59:25,645 --> 00:59:28,398
is something that I doubted.
1119
00:59:28,398 --> 00:59:30,066
One of the things that I picked up
1120
00:59:30,066 --> 00:59:33,278
from you in the pods was
1121
00:59:33,278 --> 00:59:35,738
you are the opposite of that.
1122
00:59:36,531 --> 00:59:39,200
I felt love in your voice.
1123
00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:41,327
I felt love in the way you talked to me.
1124
00:59:41,327 --> 00:59:43,454
I felt love in the way
that you made me feel.
1125
00:59:43,454 --> 00:59:45,623
In general, I just felt love.
1126
00:59:45,623 --> 00:59:48,668
You made me feel
that I can be a better man.
1127
00:59:48,668 --> 00:59:49,586
Not only for me,
1128
00:59:49,586 --> 00:59:52,505
but for you as well and our future family.
1129
00:59:53,089 --> 00:59:55,300
You made me feel
1130
00:59:55,300 --> 00:59:59,345
like we have, like, the perfect pairing.
1131
00:59:59,345 --> 01:00:02,557
I truly feel
that I found my life partner in you.
1132
01:00:02,557 --> 01:00:04,475
It's how you carry yourself.
1133
01:00:05,101 --> 01:00:07,103
Um, your optimism.
1134
01:00:07,687 --> 01:00:09,897
Uh, your kind and loving soul.
1135
01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:14,027
Um, you are just a beautiful person,
1136
01:00:14,027 --> 01:00:15,236
inside and out.
1137
01:00:16,404 --> 01:00:17,947
And that's why I fell in love with you.
1138
01:00:20,783 --> 01:00:22,285
[attendees cheering]
1139
01:00:23,828 --> 01:00:24,829
[Tiffany chuckles]
1140
01:00:27,665 --> 01:00:29,584
[officiant] Tiffany and Brett,
1141
01:00:29,584 --> 01:00:33,588
the two of you chose to get engaged
1142
01:00:33,588 --> 01:00:36,049
and spend the rest of your lives together
1143
01:00:36,049 --> 01:00:40,094
based on a deep emotional connection.
1144
01:00:40,094 --> 01:00:44,349
You fell in love with each other
based on who you are on the inside
1145
01:00:44,932 --> 01:00:48,770
and decided to get married sight unseen.
1146
01:00:48,770 --> 01:00:52,273
Now is the time to decide
1147
01:00:52,273 --> 01:00:55,068
if love is blind.
1148
01:00:57,904 --> 01:00:58,738
Brett.
1149
01:01:00,031 --> 01:01:02,492
Will you have this woman
1150
01:01:02,492 --> 01:01:06,204
from this day forward
to be your wedded wife,
1151
01:01:06,913 --> 01:01:09,248
in times of celebration,
1152
01:01:09,248 --> 01:01:11,000
in times of sadness,
1153
01:01:11,709 --> 01:01:15,129
in times of sickness, in times of health,
1154
01:01:15,129 --> 01:01:19,717
forsaking all others
as long as you both shall live?
1155
01:01:21,094 --> 01:01:23,930
If so, say "I will."
1156
01:01:29,435 --> 01:01:31,229
Tiffany, I most definitely will.
1157
01:01:31,229 --> 01:01:33,314
[upbeat music playing]
1158
01:01:42,031 --> 01:01:45,368
Tiffany, will you have this man
1159
01:01:45,368 --> 01:01:48,413
from this day forward
to be your wedded husband?
1160
01:01:49,997 --> 01:01:51,165
[Tiffany exhales]
1161
01:01:51,165 --> 01:01:52,333
[chuckles]
1162
01:01:54,836 --> 01:01:56,754
Well... [sighs]
1163
01:02:01,718 --> 01:02:04,262
Brett, I absolutely will.
1164
01:02:04,262 --> 01:02:07,223
- [attendees cheering]
- [Brett sighs]
1165
01:02:07,223 --> 01:02:09,517
["Feel Like This Forever"
by Leucadia playing]
1166
01:02:12,353 --> 01:02:14,772
[Tiffany laughing]
1167
01:02:16,149 --> 01:02:18,776
- [shouting]
- [Brett laughs] Oh! Oh! Oh!
1168
01:02:18,776 --> 01:02:21,779
- Oh!
- [laughing]
1169
01:02:26,492 --> 01:02:31,581
- Yes! Come through. [snaps fingers]
- [laughing]
1170
01:02:31,581 --> 01:02:34,000
[officiant] You may
place the ring on his finger.
1171
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:35,793
♪ Living in the moment... ♪
1172
01:02:35,793 --> 01:02:37,920
- [Tiffany gasps]
- You good? You get it?
1173
01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:39,964
[laughing]
1174
01:02:39,964 --> 01:02:42,467
- [laughing]
- [Tiffany] You good.
1175
01:02:42,467 --> 01:02:45,011
[laughing continues]
1176
01:02:45,011 --> 01:02:46,596
[Tiffany] Oh!
1177
01:02:46,596 --> 01:02:49,223
And with the joining of hands,
1178
01:02:49,223 --> 01:02:51,058
I announce to you today
1179
01:02:51,058 --> 01:02:53,603
that they are husband and wife.
1180
01:02:53,603 --> 01:02:57,023
- [cheering]
- [laughing]
1181
01:02:58,608 --> 01:03:00,067
Whoo!
1182
01:03:00,067 --> 01:03:03,821
♪ I wanna feel like this forever ♪
1183
01:03:05,782 --> 01:03:10,119
♪ And when I, and when I see us together ♪
1184
01:03:10,119 --> 01:03:13,998
♪ I wanna be like this
Be like this forever... ♪
1185
01:03:13,998 --> 01:03:15,917
- I love you, baby.
- I love you too.
1186
01:03:16,501 --> 01:03:21,881
It is my privilege to introduce to you
for the very first time
1187
01:03:21,881 --> 01:03:26,469
Mr. and Mrs. Brett and Tiffany Brown!
1188
01:03:26,469 --> 01:03:29,722
- [cheering]
- [Tiffany laughs]
1189
01:03:31,933 --> 01:03:35,228
♪ Past forever sleeps ♪
1190
01:03:35,228 --> 01:03:38,189
♪ The future is in our reach... ♪
1191
01:03:38,189 --> 01:03:39,774
[Tiffany] We just got married!
1192
01:03:39,774 --> 01:03:44,737
- Mr. and Mrs. Brown, what's up?
- [laughing]
1193
01:03:44,737 --> 01:03:46,739
[gasps] We just got married.
1194
01:03:46,739 --> 01:03:49,408
Husband and wifey right here.
1195
01:03:49,408 --> 01:03:50,827
Now and forever.
1196
01:03:51,619 --> 01:03:52,453
Forever.
1197
01:03:54,497 --> 01:03:59,085
I'm ready to embark on this next journey
that we have together.
1198
01:03:59,085 --> 01:04:01,629
I feel like I truly found my life partner,
1199
01:04:01,629 --> 01:04:03,965
and I'm just thrilled
to start our life together.
1200
01:04:03,965 --> 01:04:06,342
- I love you, Brett Brown.
- [chuckles]
1201
01:04:06,342 --> 01:04:08,386
- I love you, Tiffany Brown.
- Yes!
1202
01:04:08,386 --> 01:04:09,512
Oh!
1203
01:04:14,100 --> 01:04:15,393
We gonna go to the bridal suite.
1204
01:04:15,393 --> 01:04:17,979
- And we gonna get it on real quick, okay?
- [laughs]
1205
01:04:19,063 --> 01:04:20,565
Come on. Come on!
1206
01:04:21,232 --> 01:04:25,152
♪ ...heart beat till I'm with you ♪
1207
01:04:25,152 --> 01:04:26,237
[Tiffany] Baby.
1208
01:04:26,779 --> 01:04:29,532
- We are the Browns.
- [Brett] We are the Browns.
1209
01:04:29,532 --> 01:04:32,702
["Live Right Now"
by Raphael Lake and Ben Fisher playing]
1210
01:04:34,787 --> 01:04:38,916
♪ We've come so far ♪
1211
01:04:38,916 --> 01:04:42,336
♪ We rise above...♪
1212
01:04:47,633 --> 01:04:50,428
[Bliss] Zack and I had a really
deep connection in the pods,
1213
01:04:50,428 --> 01:04:54,140
and we really truly fell in love.
1214
01:04:54,140 --> 01:04:57,602
And, you know, we ended things,
1215
01:04:57,602 --> 01:05:00,354
and then we met in person
1216
01:05:00,354 --> 01:05:02,064
and rekindled our love,
1217
01:05:02,064 --> 01:05:04,275
and now we're here.
1218
01:05:04,275 --> 01:05:10,281
{\an8}Today is my wedding day.
I am feeling very nervous.
1219
01:05:10,281 --> 01:05:13,159
Um, but excited,
and we'll see what happens.
1220
01:05:13,159 --> 01:05:15,494
- [Annalee] Bliss?
- Hello!
1221
01:05:15,494 --> 01:05:19,457
{\an8}- [Annalee] Bliss?
- [laughing]
1222
01:05:19,457 --> 01:05:22,001
Zack is the most special person to me.
1223
01:05:22,001 --> 01:05:26,839
I just, like, knew it really early on
in the first days of talking with him
1224
01:05:26,839 --> 01:05:28,925
that he was my person.
1225
01:05:28,925 --> 01:05:30,801
It was like fire between us, truly.
1226
01:05:30,801 --> 01:05:32,303
[pop music playing]
1227
01:05:32,303 --> 01:05:33,638
[Bliss] Happy birthday.
1228
01:05:33,638 --> 01:05:35,556
Wow, thank you very much.
1229
01:05:35,556 --> 01:05:37,099
[Bliss] I baked you cupcakes.
1230
01:05:37,099 --> 01:05:40,186
I know. I see that.
This is very sweet, Bliss.
1231
01:05:40,186 --> 01:05:42,021
- Thank you so much.
- Aw, you're welcome.
1232
01:05:42,605 --> 01:05:43,522
Oh, my gosh.
1233
01:05:44,523 --> 01:05:48,945
My favorite song is "I Hope You Dance"
by Lee Ann Womack.
1234
01:05:49,654 --> 01:05:52,531
Really? That's my mom's song
for, like, me.
1235
01:05:52,531 --> 01:05:55,201
♪ Take a piece of my soul now... ♪
1236
01:05:55,785 --> 01:05:59,413
That's gonna be my first dance song
to whoever I marry.
1237
01:05:59,997 --> 01:06:01,374
♪ Give it all, give it up ♪
1238
01:06:01,374 --> 01:06:03,167
[vocalizing]
1239
01:06:03,167 --> 01:06:06,879
I fell in love,
and then I got my heart broken.
1240
01:06:08,172 --> 01:06:12,134
Bliss, you are so amazing.
1241
01:06:12,635 --> 01:06:15,513
You're brilliant. You're caring. You're...
1242
01:06:15,513 --> 01:06:18,057
Oh, my God. [sniffles]
1243
01:06:18,057 --> 01:06:20,393
Are you breaking up with me? [chuckles]
1244
01:06:20,393 --> 01:06:22,269
[Zack] I really do love you, Bliss.
1245
01:06:23,229 --> 01:06:24,146
[Bliss] I love you too,
1246
01:06:24,146 --> 01:06:28,359
and I hope that you find your happiness.
1247
01:06:31,278 --> 01:06:32,113
I'm sorry.
1248
01:06:33,406 --> 01:06:37,368
When we broke up, it was,
like, a questioning of, like, faith.
1249
01:06:37,368 --> 01:06:40,121
Like, "What's going on here,
and how could I have been so off?"
1250
01:06:40,121 --> 01:06:43,791
So, it's just surreal to kind of
have it come kind of full circle.
1251
01:06:43,791 --> 01:06:46,961
And now I'm here
on my wedding day, and it's a lot.
1252
01:06:46,961 --> 01:06:49,797
- [''Never Give Up'' playing]
- ♪ They say that dreams ♪
1253
01:06:49,797 --> 01:06:52,216
♪ Don't really come true ♪
1254
01:06:54,844 --> 01:06:57,680
♪ But I'm wide awake ♪
1255
01:06:57,680 --> 01:07:00,307
♪ And I'm staring at you... ♪
1256
01:07:00,307 --> 01:07:02,935
[Zack] This is a keystone moment
in my life.
1257
01:07:04,020 --> 01:07:07,857
{\an8}I want to have a family.
I want to have a partner in life.
1258
01:07:08,357 --> 01:07:11,110
{\an8}And Bliss is everything
that I've wanted in a wife.
1259
01:07:11,110 --> 01:07:13,779
We 100% know that we love each other.
1260
01:07:13,779 --> 01:07:17,241
Like, there's no doubt
in either of our minds about the love.
1261
01:07:17,241 --> 01:07:19,702
She feels like she identifies as,
like, an owl.
1262
01:07:20,202 --> 01:07:23,205
Um, which is weird 'cause
I also feel like I identify as an owl.
1263
01:07:23,205 --> 01:07:26,375
{\an8}Say, if you were to describe
my personality. Yeah, stays up late--
1264
01:07:26,375 --> 01:07:27,293
That's for sure.
1265
01:07:27,293 --> 01:07:30,087
A little bit different
than all the other birds, right?
1266
01:07:30,087 --> 01:07:32,298
- [all laughing]
- Right?
1267
01:07:33,382 --> 01:07:35,384
{\an8}I was telling her about, um,
1268
01:07:36,093 --> 01:07:39,221
the song that I wanted
for, uh, our first dance,
1269
01:07:39,221 --> 01:07:40,890
and it's called "I Hope You Dance."
1270
01:07:40,890 --> 01:07:44,351
It's about, you know,
never losing your sense of wonder,
1271
01:07:44,351 --> 01:07:45,853
never taking a moment for granted.
1272
01:07:45,853 --> 01:07:49,815
{\an8}And I was telling Bliss about this,
and she, like, pauses.
1273
01:07:49,815 --> 01:07:53,903
She's like, "I already have that song
on my wedding list."
1274
01:07:55,863 --> 01:07:58,074
Her mother had dedicated the song to her.
1275
01:07:58,741 --> 01:08:00,451
- Oh, wow.
- [Zack] Yeah.
1276
01:08:00,451 --> 01:08:02,870
So, just these little things
that are kind of crazy.
1277
01:08:02,870 --> 01:08:09,126
So, why did you not choose
this one first the first time?
1278
01:08:09,126 --> 01:08:12,505
The night before, like, I had decided
I was actually gonna go with Bliss.
1279
01:08:13,005 --> 01:08:14,882
- We got in a big argument.
- Who did?
1280
01:08:14,882 --> 01:08:15,925
[Zack] Bliss and I.
1281
01:08:15,925 --> 01:08:18,094
How I grew up and how she grew up.
1282
01:08:18,094 --> 01:08:22,306
We're different. And I didn't know
how her family was gonna react to me.
1283
01:08:22,973 --> 01:08:25,851
And I felt like she had been dismissive
to kind of what I was saying.
1284
01:08:25,851 --> 01:08:28,979
I've dated women where their parents
just were outright like, "No."
1285
01:08:28,979 --> 01:08:31,232
- Why? With you?
- Because of the way I grew up.
1286
01:08:31,232 --> 01:08:32,775
It's just, they're like, "Look--"
1287
01:08:32,775 --> 01:08:37,363
Is this before you were yourself?
I mean, how could anyone question you now?
1288
01:08:37,363 --> 01:08:39,406
The things you've done. The things you do.
1289
01:08:39,406 --> 01:08:42,243
You would be surprised.
We're from very different worlds.
1290
01:08:42,243 --> 01:08:45,496
And I don't wanna be in a marriage
where your parents hate me
1291
01:08:45,496 --> 01:08:47,581
and don't wanna have
anything to do with me, right?
1292
01:08:47,581 --> 01:08:50,292
You know, Romeo and Juliet
didn't work for a reason, right?
1293
01:08:50,292 --> 01:08:52,586
- Like... [laughs]
- [Chris] Yeah.
1294
01:08:52,586 --> 01:08:55,589
How'd that go? You do get together
with the families, right?
1295
01:08:55,589 --> 01:09:00,469
Yeah. It went really well, actually.
Her mother is just a saint.
1296
01:09:00,970 --> 01:09:02,721
- [Kenny] What about her dad?
- Her father...
1297
01:09:02,721 --> 01:09:05,391
- [laughs]
- I actually like her father.
1298
01:09:05,391 --> 01:09:08,811
Like, I think he's a really
intelligent guy, and to the point.
1299
01:09:08,811 --> 01:09:10,938
- [Kenny] It's his daughter, man.
- Yeah, yeah.
1300
01:09:10,938 --> 01:09:14,275
He definitely gave me the bulldog look
when he came in. He's like...
1301
01:09:14,775 --> 01:09:16,527
He's like, "Nice to meet you." He's like...
1302
01:09:16,527 --> 01:09:19,029
I have two daughters, dude. I'd freakin'...
1303
01:09:19,029 --> 01:09:21,657
- [Chris] So, logical versus emotional.
- [Zack] Yeah.
1304
01:09:21,657 --> 01:09:24,660
Logically, why would you
not get married today?
1305
01:09:25,286 --> 01:09:27,538
Um, the logical side would be
1306
01:09:27,538 --> 01:09:31,834
that we have not had enough time
to know how we're gonna work
1307
01:09:31,834 --> 01:09:35,296
when we're not high
on dopamine and oxytocin.
1308
01:09:35,296 --> 01:09:37,214
- That would be the logical side.
- [chuckling]
1309
01:09:37,214 --> 01:09:39,466
Um, but I think
1310
01:09:39,466 --> 01:09:42,720
the reality is, like, at some point,
you just gotta take a jump.
1311
01:09:42,720 --> 01:09:47,183
- ["Make It Ours" by Full Circle playing]
- ♪ So let's run now... ♪
1312
01:09:47,183 --> 01:09:52,438
Yeah, it's been the most intense type
of connection I've ever experienced and...
1313
01:09:52,438 --> 01:09:54,231
- [woman] You're ready for it.
- I guess so.
1314
01:09:55,441 --> 01:09:57,735
{\an8}Really the most important thing is, like,
1315
01:09:57,735 --> 01:09:59,778
{\an8}for us both to, like,
say what we really feel.
1316
01:09:59,778 --> 01:10:01,906
And I trust him. Like, I really do.
1317
01:10:01,906 --> 01:10:05,618
And I believe that he's going to say
what is in his heart.
1318
01:10:05,618 --> 01:10:09,330
- Which is ideally "yes." Right?
- [both laughing]
1319
01:10:09,330 --> 01:10:11,040
Everyone wants to be wanted.
1320
01:10:11,040 --> 01:10:14,793
Um, yeah. But it's just... It's a lot.
1321
01:10:16,128 --> 01:10:17,296
- [sighs]
- [Kim] Mm-hmm.
1322
01:10:17,296 --> 01:10:20,799
{\an8}I'm excited for you, and if he says no,
I've got running shoes.
1323
01:10:20,799 --> 01:10:22,593
- There's gonna be words.
- [laughing]
1324
01:10:22,593 --> 01:10:24,053
There's going to be words.
1325
01:10:24,053 --> 01:10:26,013
[pop music playing]
1326
01:10:28,182 --> 01:10:30,809
- [Kenny] What's the "B" for?
- [Zack] That's her first initial.
1327
01:10:31,477 --> 01:10:34,021
- [Kenny] Oh, okay. Got you. Got you.
- [laughs]
1328
01:10:34,021 --> 01:10:37,233
- Dude, you look fucking fire, man.
- [laughing]
1329
01:10:37,233 --> 01:10:39,318
- You look fantastic.
- I appreciate that.
1330
01:10:39,902 --> 01:10:40,945
- Hi.
- Hi.
1331
01:10:40,945 --> 01:10:42,613
Hey, Lex. Hey, Grandma.
1332
01:10:44,156 --> 01:10:45,866
{\an8}- How do you feel?
- [Zack] Good.
1333
01:10:46,867 --> 01:10:48,285
[laughing]
1334
01:10:49,078 --> 01:10:51,914
{\an8}You look so handsome. Wow.
1335
01:10:54,250 --> 01:10:56,961
- It means a lot to have you guys here.
- We wouldn't miss it.
1336
01:10:56,961 --> 01:10:57,878
[Zack] I know.
1337
01:10:59,380 --> 01:11:02,841
Yeah, I just...
I wish everyone could have made it.
1338
01:11:02,841 --> 01:11:05,511
- But... you know...
- Yeah.
1339
01:11:05,511 --> 01:11:07,221
Not everyone could be here.
1340
01:11:09,181 --> 01:11:11,267
Yeah, you know, she would be here,
1341
01:11:11,267 --> 01:11:13,936
and she wouldn't be
being quiet either. [laughs]
1342
01:11:13,936 --> 01:11:16,939
[gentle instrumental music plays]
1343
01:11:16,939 --> 01:11:19,191
I've been looking for a wife
for a long time.
1344
01:11:19,191 --> 01:11:21,944
I wouldn't think it would take that long.
You are a good catch.
1345
01:11:22,987 --> 01:11:24,697
- Thanks, Grandma.
- [Jean laughs]
1346
01:11:25,531 --> 01:11:27,950
- I'm just really happy for him.
- [Alexa] Mm.
1347
01:11:27,950 --> 01:11:29,618
[Jean sighs, sniffles]
1348
01:11:41,046 --> 01:11:43,674
[Zack] It's really meaningful
having my family here.
1349
01:11:46,093 --> 01:11:49,972
If there was someone who could be here
with me today, I wish it was my mother.
1350
01:11:50,597 --> 01:11:54,268
Uh, things were always crazy
for me growing up.
1351
01:11:55,728 --> 01:11:59,273
But my mother always loved me,
and she always believed in me.
1352
01:12:00,190 --> 01:12:03,986
And because of that,
I always believed in myself.
1353
01:12:04,778 --> 01:12:07,823
And I wouldn't be here
if it wasn't for my mother's love.
1354
01:12:08,866 --> 01:12:10,242
I know she's watching.
1355
01:12:14,830 --> 01:12:18,250
["Today We Are" by Carlton Hayes
and Shanks Mansell playing]
1356
01:12:18,250 --> 01:12:22,379
♪ We sit and watch... ♪
1357
01:12:22,379 --> 01:12:23,756
[woman] Wrap.
1358
01:12:24,381 --> 01:12:26,008
[Bliss] Okay, there we go.
1359
01:12:26,008 --> 01:12:27,634
[exhales]
1360
01:12:27,634 --> 01:12:29,720
♪ Break down the walls ♪
1361
01:12:29,720 --> 01:12:32,431
♪ That keep forever ♪
1362
01:12:32,431 --> 01:12:34,641
- [laughing]
- [gasps]
1363
01:12:34,641 --> 01:12:37,686
- [Kim] So beautiful.
- [chuckles]
1364
01:12:37,686 --> 01:12:41,982
Oh, my gosh.
It's just breathtakingly beautiful.
1365
01:12:41,982 --> 01:12:44,943
- I'm like... [gulps]
- [laughing]
1366
01:12:45,652 --> 01:12:47,237
- [Katherine] Are you ready?
- Yeah.
1367
01:12:47,237 --> 01:12:50,240
We'll all be with you
with every step you take.
1368
01:12:50,240 --> 01:12:51,742
[laughs]
1369
01:12:51,742 --> 01:12:53,869
- ["Already Know" by Ryppl playing]
- ♪ I love you so ♪
1370
01:12:53,869 --> 01:12:56,789
♪ And with you, I'm whole ♪
1371
01:12:56,789 --> 01:12:59,375
♪ My heart's so full ♪
1372
01:12:59,375 --> 01:13:07,049
♪ You already know ♪
1373
01:13:07,049 --> 01:13:10,052
[classical music playing]
1374
01:13:16,767 --> 01:13:18,852
[sighs]
1375
01:13:20,979 --> 01:13:22,564
{\an8}Thanks for being here, guys.
1376
01:13:22,564 --> 01:13:26,485
Welcome to the wedding of Bliss and Zack.
1377
01:13:26,485 --> 01:13:29,363
Hopefully this young man
can keep up with you.
1378
01:13:29,363 --> 01:13:30,280
Yeah.
1379
01:13:30,280 --> 01:13:32,366
I'm not sure if he can,
but hopefully he can.
1380
01:13:32,366 --> 01:13:34,118
- He can.
- We'll see. [chuckles]
1381
01:13:34,118 --> 01:13:36,370
He can. So far he's shown that he can.
1382
01:13:36,370 --> 01:13:37,454
- Yes.
- Yeah.
1383
01:13:37,454 --> 01:13:39,039
We'll see.
1384
01:13:39,039 --> 01:13:39,957
Look at me.
1385
01:13:40,707 --> 01:13:42,376
I'm right with you. I love you.
1386
01:13:42,376 --> 01:13:43,961
I know you're with me. Thank you.
1387
01:13:43,961 --> 01:13:45,671
Okay, I'm not gonna cry.
Everything's fine.
1388
01:13:45,671 --> 01:13:49,341
- I got a tear in my eye. No, I don't.
- [laughing]
1389
01:13:49,341 --> 01:13:51,593
I'm just teasing. [laughs]
1390
01:13:51,593 --> 01:13:54,930
Remember you're the person
that has everything to offer, right?
1391
01:13:54,930 --> 01:13:57,724
- Got your flowers okay?
- If I don't-- I won't forget it.
1392
01:13:57,724 --> 01:13:59,685
[Shah] Things will be great,
no matter what.
1393
01:13:59,685 --> 01:14:01,145
- All right?
- Yeah. Yeah.
1394
01:14:01,145 --> 01:14:03,730
- You always have your family, all right?
- Yeah. Thanks, Dad.
1395
01:14:03,730 --> 01:14:05,315
- I love you.
- Love you too.
1396
01:14:05,816 --> 01:14:08,444
Yeah. Never settle, all right?
1397
01:14:09,570 --> 01:14:11,029
No matter what.
1398
01:14:11,697 --> 01:14:12,531
Yeah.
1399
01:14:18,620 --> 01:14:20,164
[sighs]
1400
01:14:25,711 --> 01:14:27,754
- Here we go. You okay?
- Yeah.
1401
01:14:27,754 --> 01:14:29,047
- Just smile.
- Okay.
1402
01:14:41,143 --> 01:14:42,895
- [kisses] I love you.
- Love you too.
1403
01:14:42,895 --> 01:14:44,813
And who presents this bride to this man?
1404
01:14:44,813 --> 01:14:45,731
- I do.
- We do.
1405
01:14:45,731 --> 01:14:47,399
[officiant] Y'all may be seated.
1406
01:14:48,358 --> 01:14:49,568
[Bliss exhales]
1407
01:15:00,496 --> 01:15:02,247
He looks scared.
1408
01:15:03,040 --> 01:15:04,416
Bliss and Zack.
1409
01:15:05,250 --> 01:15:08,670
We have come here today to celebrate love,
1410
01:15:09,338 --> 01:15:10,881
a miraculous gift,
1411
01:15:11,381 --> 01:15:14,259
and a wedding
is a celebration of that gift.
1412
01:15:15,010 --> 01:15:17,846
The union into which the two
of you are about to enter
1413
01:15:17,846 --> 01:15:22,059
is the closest and tenderest
into which two human beings can come.
1414
01:15:22,809 --> 01:15:27,064
It is a union founded upon
mutual respect and affection,
1415
01:15:27,648 --> 01:15:31,818
for the most important thing in life
is to love and to be loved.
1416
01:15:36,573 --> 01:15:37,449
[Zack] Bliss.
1417
01:15:38,867 --> 01:15:40,035
I think the moment
1418
01:15:40,035 --> 01:15:43,956
that I knew that I loved you
was when I told you goodbye.
1419
01:15:45,958 --> 01:15:50,796
It was when I said goodbye,
that I knew what I had lost.
1420
01:15:51,922 --> 01:15:54,216
And when you were gone,
1421
01:15:55,676 --> 01:15:56,802
and I was alone,
1422
01:15:57,886 --> 01:15:58,887
and I was lonely
1423
01:16:00,055 --> 01:16:00,931
and sad,
1424
01:16:01,598 --> 01:16:03,475
and when I'd lay down at night,
1425
01:16:03,475 --> 01:16:06,311
I'd think about
how much you understood me.
1426
01:16:07,312 --> 01:16:09,565
How well you got me.
1427
01:16:09,565 --> 01:16:12,359
How much we had in common.
1428
01:16:13,694 --> 01:16:17,364
And it was when you were gone
that I thought about you
1429
01:16:17,364 --> 01:16:22,744
and how your actions
speak so much more loudly
1430
01:16:22,744 --> 01:16:24,997
than anything anyone could ever say.
1431
01:16:26,248 --> 01:16:29,626
You don't have to tell me that you love me
because you show me that you love me.
1432
01:16:30,419 --> 01:16:32,170
In the pods, you showed me you loved me
1433
01:16:32,170 --> 01:16:34,631
when you stayed up
for four hours making me cupcakes.
1434
01:16:34,631 --> 01:16:38,552
- [laughing]
- It was two hours, but okay.
1435
01:16:41,888 --> 01:16:42,723
I love you.
1436
01:16:43,307 --> 01:16:46,351
I love everything about you.
You are brilliant.
1437
01:16:47,060 --> 01:16:47,978
You're beautiful.
1438
01:16:47,978 --> 01:16:50,439
You're caring. You're thoughtful.
1439
01:16:50,439 --> 01:16:52,065
And you're generous.
1440
01:16:52,065 --> 01:16:55,777
I didn't know I loved you
until I left, for sure.
1441
01:16:57,446 --> 01:16:58,405
I felt it,
1442
01:16:58,405 --> 01:17:02,659
but it was when you were gone,
I knew... that I really loved you.
1443
01:17:04,661 --> 01:17:05,495
I love you.
1444
01:17:05,495 --> 01:17:06,705
I love you too.
1445
01:17:07,205 --> 01:17:08,332
[Shah] Hmm.
1446
01:17:13,378 --> 01:17:15,380
Gosh, there's, like, so much I could say.
1447
01:17:23,597 --> 01:17:25,682
I think the biggest thing is
1448
01:17:25,682 --> 01:17:28,644
your perception on the world
is so beautiful.
1449
01:17:29,144 --> 01:17:32,481
And you really believe in second chances.
1450
01:17:32,481 --> 01:17:35,442
You believe in seeing the best in people.
1451
01:17:35,442 --> 01:17:39,321
Just, like, meeting a man
that is so kind is a unique thing.
1452
01:17:40,614 --> 01:17:43,742
Seeing, like, how you care about others
and how smart you are,
1453
01:17:43,742 --> 01:17:46,328
and just, like, truly, like,
who you are as a person,
1454
01:17:46,328 --> 01:17:48,080
it was just amazing to me.
1455
01:17:48,080 --> 01:17:52,334
I'd never met someone like you before
that, you know, you just...
1456
01:17:52,334 --> 01:17:53,335
You're everything.
1457
01:17:54,836 --> 01:17:55,671
Yeah.
1458
01:17:59,341 --> 01:18:00,926
[officiant] Bliss and Zack,
1459
01:18:01,885 --> 01:18:05,806
you fell in love with each other
based on who you are on the inside.
1460
01:18:06,640 --> 01:18:07,849
You chose to get engaged
1461
01:18:07,849 --> 01:18:13,230
and spend the rest of your lives together
based on a deep emotional connection.
1462
01:18:14,356 --> 01:18:17,609
Now is the time to decide
if love is blind.
1463
01:18:24,074 --> 01:18:28,120
Zack, will you have this woman
to be your wife?
1464
01:18:28,704 --> 01:18:32,082
To have and to hold,
in all love and honor,
1465
01:18:32,666 --> 01:18:34,543
in all honesty and respect,
1466
01:18:35,127 --> 01:18:38,547
in all faith and tenderness,
to live with her
1467
01:18:38,547 --> 01:18:41,091
and cherish her in the bond of matrimony?
1468
01:18:43,427 --> 01:18:46,221
[heart beating]
1469
01:18:48,598 --> 01:18:49,975
I love you so much, Bliss.
1470
01:18:57,858 --> 01:18:58,692
I do.
1471
01:19:07,617 --> 01:19:09,286
[officiant] And I ask you, Bliss.
1472
01:19:10,871 --> 01:19:13,206
Will you have this man to be your husband?
1473
01:19:14,958 --> 01:19:16,543
To have and to hold,
1474
01:19:16,543 --> 01:19:18,420
in all love and honor,
1475
01:19:19,004 --> 01:19:21,298
in all honesty and respect,
1476
01:19:21,298 --> 01:19:22,883
in all faith and tenderness,
1477
01:19:23,633 --> 01:19:25,010
to live with him
1478
01:19:25,010 --> 01:19:27,679
and cherish him in the bond of matrimony?
1479
01:19:33,560 --> 01:19:34,394
I do.
1480
01:19:34,394 --> 01:19:37,022
- [attendees cheering]
- [pop music playing]
1481
01:19:42,235 --> 01:19:43,695
[shouting]
1482
01:19:50,702 --> 01:19:54,289
It is with great pleasure that I now
pronounce you husband and wife.
1483
01:19:54,289 --> 01:19:55,791
Zack, you may kiss your bride.
1484
01:19:55,791 --> 01:20:00,253
♪ Only you can make me feel like this ♪
1485
01:20:03,006 --> 01:20:08,053
♪ The universe is calling out... ♪
1486
01:20:11,097 --> 01:20:12,557
Whoo!
1487
01:20:12,557 --> 01:20:14,810
- [cheering]
- [shouting]
1488
01:20:17,103 --> 01:20:18,563
- Whoo!
- Whoo!
1489
01:20:20,816 --> 01:20:24,069
[vocalizing]
1490
01:20:24,069 --> 01:20:28,365
♪ Only you can make me feel like this ♪
1491
01:20:31,910 --> 01:20:33,411
- I love you.
- [sighs] I love you too.
1492
01:20:33,411 --> 01:20:36,456
- Were you nervous?
- Yeah, I was so nervous.
1493
01:20:36,456 --> 01:20:38,458
You seemed so calm. [laughs]
1494
01:20:38,458 --> 01:20:40,669
We're married. I'm your husband now.
1495
01:20:40,669 --> 01:20:42,170
- You're my husband.
- Yeah.
1496
01:20:42,170 --> 01:20:43,088
I'm your wife.
1497
01:20:46,007 --> 01:20:48,635
Uh, we have a vacation to plan, for sure.
1498
01:20:48,635 --> 01:20:51,012
- He owes me a vacation.
- Yeah, I do.
1499
01:20:51,012 --> 01:20:53,473
- Um, so, we, I think--
- Not Mexico.
1500
01:20:53,473 --> 01:20:55,392
Yeah, I don't wanna go to Mexico again.
1501
01:20:55,392 --> 01:20:57,394
- We're never going to Mexico.
- Oh, never?
1502
01:20:57,394 --> 01:20:58,854
[laughing] I'm just kidding.
1503
01:20:58,854 --> 01:21:01,523
- [cork pops]
- [both laughing]
1504
01:21:04,484 --> 01:21:06,111
- My husband. [chuckles]
- You're my wife.
1505
01:21:07,946 --> 01:21:09,656
- I love you.
- I love you too.
1506
01:21:09,656 --> 01:21:11,366
♪ With you by my side ♪
1507
01:21:11,366 --> 01:21:12,909
Illuminate my soul ♪
1508
01:21:12,909 --> 01:21:15,370
- ♪ Hey! ♪
- ♪ Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh! ♪
1509
01:21:15,370 --> 01:21:17,497
♪ Illuminate my soul... ♪
1510
01:21:17,497 --> 01:21:19,749
- [Zack] Look at us.
- [Bliss] We're married!
1511
01:21:19,749 --> 01:21:22,294
♪ Illuminate my soul ♪
1512
01:21:24,296 --> 01:21:25,589
[pop music playing]
1513
01:21:25,589 --> 01:21:28,925
♪ See the way that she looks at me... ♪
1514
01:21:29,676 --> 01:21:31,386
[sighs]
1515
01:21:31,386 --> 01:21:34,890
Love is blind. Like, you don't need
to see somebody to fall in love with them.
1516
01:21:34,890 --> 01:21:37,017
Like, that much is obvious.
1517
01:21:37,017 --> 01:21:39,227
I had a very intense love for Micah,
1518
01:21:39,227 --> 01:21:42,689
but the part that I dealt with a lot was
is love enough?
1519
01:21:42,689 --> 01:21:45,525
♪ I wish I could've taken you with me... ♪
1520
01:21:45,525 --> 01:21:50,572
As difficult as it has been for me
to envision me marrying her today,
1521
01:21:51,114 --> 01:21:52,574
equally as difficult for me
1522
01:21:52,574 --> 01:21:56,620
to envision marrying her tomorrow
or ten years from now.
1523
01:21:57,203 --> 01:21:59,164
What I would like to do is learn
1524
01:21:59,164 --> 01:22:01,291
to be grateful for what we had
1525
01:22:01,291 --> 01:22:03,710
and not look back and wonder "what if."
1526
01:22:03,710 --> 01:22:05,795
That's what I hope for most.
1527
01:22:08,048 --> 01:22:09,215
[vocalizing]
1528
01:22:14,220 --> 01:22:17,641
♪ Living while powerless
Holding your happiness ♪
1529
01:22:17,641 --> 01:22:20,810
♪ Until you realize that you're not... ♪
1530
01:22:20,810 --> 01:22:23,104
I wanted Paul to give his answer first,
1531
01:22:23,104 --> 01:22:27,692
because I knew that was the only thing
that I needed in order to say "I do."
1532
01:22:28,568 --> 01:22:33,615
For him to show me that
he was gonna choose me, and he didn't.
1533
01:22:35,784 --> 01:22:38,244
If Paul would have wanted to marry me,
1534
01:22:38,244 --> 01:22:40,413
100% I would have said "I do."
1535
01:22:41,498 --> 01:22:42,874
It's an easy decision.
1536
01:22:47,963 --> 01:22:51,967
[man] Please give a big round of applause
for Bliss and Zack!
1537
01:22:51,967 --> 01:22:54,427
[cheering]
1538
01:22:54,427 --> 01:22:57,138
Now, obviously my f-- my wife--
1539
01:22:57,138 --> 01:22:59,891
- Were you gonna say fiancée?
- My wife. Well, it's very new.
1540
01:22:59,891 --> 01:23:02,644
- [chuckles] Wife is very new.
- My wife is gorgeous.
1541
01:23:02,644 --> 01:23:03,561
But...
1542
01:23:04,896 --> 01:23:07,607
I fell in love with her before I saw her.
1543
01:23:08,191 --> 01:23:10,485
- So yeah, love is blind.
- [laughs]
1544
01:23:10,485 --> 01:23:13,697
- [man] Straight into the first dance.
- ["I Hope You Dance" playing]
1545
01:23:13,697 --> 01:23:17,367
♪ I hope you never lose
Your sense of wonder ♪
1546
01:23:19,327 --> 01:23:21,162
♪ Get your fill to eat ♪
1547
01:23:21,162 --> 01:23:24,249
♪ But always keep that hunger ♪
1548
01:23:25,625 --> 01:23:27,502
♪ May you never take ♪
1549
01:23:27,502 --> 01:23:30,630
♪ One single breath for granted ♪
1550
01:23:31,631 --> 01:23:33,800
♪ God forbid love ♪
1551
01:23:33,800 --> 01:23:36,928
♪ Ever leave you empty-handed ♪
1552
01:23:38,221 --> 01:23:40,390
♪ I hope you still feel small ♪
1553
01:23:40,390 --> 01:23:43,727
♪ When you stand beside the ocean ♪
1554
01:23:44,769 --> 01:23:47,105
♪ Whenever one door closes ♪
1555
01:23:47,105 --> 01:23:49,691
♪ I hope one more opens ♪
1556
01:23:51,109 --> 01:23:52,277
♪ Promise me ♪
1557
01:23:52,277 --> 01:23:56,573
♪ That you'll give faith
A fighting chance ♪
1558
01:23:57,657 --> 01:23:59,701
♪ And when you get the choice ♪
1559
01:23:59,701 --> 01:24:02,871
♪ To sit it out or dance... ♪
1560
01:24:04,539 --> 01:24:07,751
- [cheering]
- [laughing]
1561
01:24:08,626 --> 01:24:09,544
[Tiffany shouts]
1562
01:24:09,544 --> 01:24:13,339
♪ I hope you dance... ♪
1563
01:24:13,339 --> 01:24:15,300
Here we are, married. Husband and wife.
1564
01:24:16,051 --> 01:24:18,845
[laughing] You gave a thumbs-up.
1565
01:24:19,471 --> 01:24:20,638
Two thumbs-ups.
1566
01:24:20,638 --> 01:24:22,057
- Two thumbs-ups.
- [laughs]
1567
01:24:22,974 --> 01:24:25,560
♪ Never settle for the path ♪
1568
01:24:25,560 --> 01:24:27,937
Of least resistance... ♪
1569
01:24:27,937 --> 01:24:31,775
I feel good.
I feel at peace with everything.
1570
01:24:31,775 --> 01:24:34,694
There's nothing
that scares me about this man.
1571
01:24:35,278 --> 01:24:37,447
[Brett] Tiffany makes me feel loved.
1572
01:24:37,447 --> 01:24:40,909
Tiffany makes me feel
I could be the best version of myself.
1573
01:24:40,909 --> 01:24:44,204
There are so many, you know,
qualities that I look for in a partner,
1574
01:24:44,204 --> 01:24:47,791
and pretty much Tiffany
checks all the boxes. [clicks tongue]
1575
01:24:47,791 --> 01:24:50,168
And here she is. Mrs. Brown.
1576
01:24:51,503 --> 01:24:53,004
[attendees cheering, applauding]
1577
01:24:54,214 --> 01:24:55,465
Love is blind.
1578
01:24:55,465 --> 01:24:57,675
♪ I hope you never fear ♪
1579
01:24:57,675 --> 01:25:00,553
♪ Those mountains in the distance... ♪
1580
01:25:03,181 --> 01:25:04,474
[Tiffany shouts]
1581
01:25:08,019 --> 01:25:10,688
[man] A big round of applause
for Kwame and Chelsea!
1582
01:25:10,688 --> 01:25:12,607
- [cheering]
- [shouting]
1583
01:25:12,607 --> 01:25:15,401
[Kwame] This is the first day
of the rest of our lives.
1584
01:25:15,401 --> 01:25:17,445
This is the first day of the best trip,
1585
01:25:17,445 --> 01:25:19,906
the best adventure
that you have ever been on.
1586
01:25:19,906 --> 01:25:22,075
- [chuckles]
- That we have ever been on.
1587
01:25:22,075 --> 01:25:24,452
I was gonna correct her.
I'm glad she corrected herself.
1588
01:25:24,452 --> 01:25:26,663
- [chuckles] Yeah.
- In our whole life.
1589
01:25:26,663 --> 01:25:28,748
[attendees cheering]
1590
01:25:29,541 --> 01:25:31,334
- [Chelsea] I love you.
- [Kwame] I love you too.
1591
01:25:34,712 --> 01:25:36,464
♪ And when you get the choice ♪
1592
01:25:36,464 --> 01:25:39,968
♪ To sit it out or dance ♪
1593
01:25:39,968 --> 01:25:45,682
- ♪ I hope you dance ♪
- ♪ Time is a wheel in constant motion ♪
1594
01:25:45,682 --> 01:25:52,105
- ♪ Always rolling us along ♪
- ♪ I hope you dance ♪
1595
01:25:52,856 --> 01:25:55,233
- ♪ I hope you dance ♪
- ♪ Tell me who ♪
1596
01:25:55,233 --> 01:25:59,445
♪ Wants to look back
On their years and wonder... ♪
1597
01:25:59,445 --> 01:26:05,535
- ♪ I hope you dance ♪
- ♪ ...where those years have gone? ♪
1598
01:26:06,202 --> 01:26:08,121
- This is making it really real.
- It is.
1599
01:26:08,121 --> 01:26:10,748
- You sure you wanna finish that signature?
- [laughing]
1600
01:26:12,125 --> 01:26:14,544
[Bliss] This is crazy.
It's, like, really real.
1601
01:26:17,005 --> 01:26:19,299
- We are married!
- We're married.
1602
01:26:19,299 --> 01:26:22,135
- [Bliss] It's official. We're married.
- [Zack] Yeah, it's official.
1603
01:26:22,135 --> 01:26:23,678
It's really official, like, legally.
1604
01:26:23,678 --> 01:26:25,722
You're a lawyer,
if you need to get us out of this...
1605
01:26:25,722 --> 01:26:27,891
- That's true.
- I'm just kidding.
1606
01:26:27,891 --> 01:26:29,976
[laughing]
1607
01:26:34,480 --> 01:26:36,941
- [Zack] You're the best wife ever.
- [Bliss] Thank you.
1608
01:26:37,567 --> 01:26:40,862
♪ I hope you dance... ♪
1609
01:26:40,862 --> 01:26:42,655
[cheering]
1610
01:26:43,823 --> 01:26:49,037
- ♪ I hope you dance ♪
- ♪ Time is a wheel in constant motion ♪
1611
01:26:49,037 --> 01:26:56,127
- ♪ Always rolling us along ♪
- ♪ I hope you dance ♪
1612
01:26:56,628 --> 01:26:59,047
- ♪ I hope you dance ♪
- ♪ Tell me who ♪
1613
01:26:59,047 --> 01:27:03,051
♪ Wants to look back
On their years and wonder... ♪
1614
01:27:03,051 --> 01:27:09,057
- ♪ I hope you dance ♪
- ♪ ...where those years have gone? ♪