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So, what brought you
to this experiment?
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What brought me
to dating blindly in pods?
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I'm really looking for somebody
who will accept all of me.
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True, pure love.
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♪ When I was young, I... ♪
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I feel like
I've never felt so in love.
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I came here looking for a wife,
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and there are two women
that I could have seen myself with.
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- And...
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...I chose the one that I felt in my gut.
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This arguably is
the biggest decision I'm ever gonna make.
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Is love blind?
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I proposed to someone
I was gonna spend my life with,
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and now I'm gonna propose
to another woman.
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I made the wrong choice.
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- You know I did, and I do too.
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-♪ Anything is possible ♪
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♪ If we come together ♪
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♪ We can lie divided ♪
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{\an8}♪ Even through impossible ♪
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{\an8}♪ Anything is possible... ♪
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{\an8}- I'm feeling good. You feeling good?
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- Yeah.
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No, we could meet our husbands.
This is crazy!
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{\an8}- So crazy. Right.
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- Fellas!
- Hi!
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Wow!
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What's up?
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Hi!
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Wow!
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- Whoo!
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Love it!
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{\an8}I'm Vanessa Lachey.
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{\an8}And I'm Nick Lachey.
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And welcome to Love is Blind.
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- Whoo!
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I'm curious. Why did you guys come here?
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{\an8}I find myself easily distracted
with work, my phone,
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and this is just the perfect opportunity
to set that aside.
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- Boom! Go, baby. Yeah.
Laser-focused.
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{\an8}Your body, your looks, even your career.
Literally, everything in life is fleeting,
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except the relationship
you have with your life partner.
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{\an8}This whole idea of swiping left or right
over four pictures.
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{\an8}You might call me old-fashioned
or whatnot, but that's not me.
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{\an8}I've been in long-term relationships,
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{\an8}but I've never truly felt, like,
in my soul,
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{\an8}like, yes, this is the person for me.
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I wanna have that feeling
walking out of here.
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{\an8}- He's here. I just have to find him.
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You finally have the chance
to fall in love with somebody
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{\an8}based solely on who you are on the inside.
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And ultimately
when you fall in love
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and find somebody you wanna spend
the rest of your life with,
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you'll get engaged.
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{\an8}Then you will see your fiancé
for the very first time!
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And in just four weeks,
you will be at your wedding,
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and you'll have to make
the most important decision of your life.
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- Will you get married?
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Will you spend the rest of your life
as husband and wife?
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{\an8}Or in that moment, will you
walk away from each other forever?
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{\an8}Is love truly blind?
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{\an8}We certainly hope
that you guys prove it is.
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{\an8}- The pods are officially...
...open.
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Good luck, guys. Good luck.
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Thank you! Bye!
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♪ Don't be scared... ♪
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- Put the fruit snacks down, man.
Yeah. Fruit.
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- Oh, my gosh, ladies.
Bye!
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{\an8}Dating on dating apps,
it is so easy to find a boyfriend.
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♪ Walk through doors with confidence ♪
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♪ High heels, click-click
Always make your move ♪
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They're like, "Oh,
let me have sex with you."
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I'm so sick of that.
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My parents are like,
"Why don't you meet a guy at a bar?"
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Who does that anymore?
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Your name?
- Chelsea.
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- I'm Kwame.
- Cool name.
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{\an8}- Thank you. It means "born on Saturday."
- I love it. I love it.
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- Saturday is the best day of the week.
- Agreed.
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So, hey, Chelsea,
tell me what makes you happy.
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Bringing joy and fulfillment
to other people.
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- Okay, I love that.
- Um, growing, learning.
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- I can dig that.
- Uh, shoes make me happy.
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- Want to guess how many shoes I brought?
- I'm gonna say 13.
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No.
- How many?
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- Twenty-one.
- Twenty-one! I like it. You're stylish.
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What do you do?
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- I used to play soccer for a living.
- Oh, wow.
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Yeah.
- Soccer player on our hands?
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Unfortunately, a career-ending injury
brought me back to the States.
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Oh, I'm sorry.
- Yeah.
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I'm sure people
don't give you enough, like, credit
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for, like, how hard transitioning is.
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Chelsea, when I say
I don't know if I'll get over it,
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I don't know if I'll ever get over it.
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And I just started a new job
as the head of business development
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for a software company. I love my job now.
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It's providing me a life
that I'm very happy about.
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It's providing me opportunities
getting to work with incredible people.
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I appreciate you asking that question
and for hearing me out and, uh...
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- I don't get to talk about it often.
- I wanna hug you.
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{\an8}Most important things to me
in a partner are empathy and compassion.
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I went through a lot of my life
not knowing, like, where I stood.
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I think I'm a really good person.
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And I couldn't pick up my girlfriend
to go to prom because I'm Black.
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So, I always feel this need to impress.
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I have to immediately bring up,
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"Hey, like, I'm really successful,
and I have my Master's Degree."
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Like, we are so blessed in this situation,
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where we don't put all of our cards out,
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due to what someone looks like.
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And that feels really good.
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Hello?
- Hello, hello.
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Hi.
- Hey, how you doing?
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- I'm good. How are you?
- I'm doing fantastic now that I'm in here.
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My gosh. Look at you.
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You got all the sweet nothings.
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- I'm here to bring the energy.
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And you're here
to bring a little bit of smile to my face.
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Oh, my God.
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{\an8}- What's your name?
- My name is Micah. What's yours?
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{\an8}Wow, Micah, I love that. My name is Kwame.
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Kwame?
- Yes.
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I love it.
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I actually was going
to use the name Alex instead.
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Really?
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Yeah, I feel like Kwame just,
like, puts me in this very specific area.
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I'm really happy
that you used your name.
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I feel like it just
kind of speaks to, like, core values.
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That's definitely so important, like,
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'cause for me, I think I feed
really hard off, like, people's energy.
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I would kind of maybe
consider myself, like, an empath.
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So it's, like, important to surround
myself with really genuine people.
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Yo, I'm telling you!
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When you have, like, a good mindset
and you're just, like, optimistic...
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- Things happen.
- It's when you manifest. You attract it.
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Yes, it's crazy.
Manifestation is a real thing to me.
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It's such a real thing.
I'm so passionate about that.
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Like, law of attraction is, like, huge.
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- It's huge!
It's huge. I believe it.
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Like, this is, like, in my future.
It's gonna happen.
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Micah is... amazing.
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I can feel her energy
from behind the wall.
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Micah is my number one.
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Yes.
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I won't lie. I definitely have, like,
a crush on-- of the wall right now.
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I love talking to Kwame.
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{\an8}And we really have, like,
a similar outlook on life.
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I'm excited to kind of see,
you know, how our paths align.
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♪ I get anything I want
With just a wink and a smile ♪
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♪ A wink and a smile... ♪
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I think what makes me nervous is
having to really rely on what's internal.
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Yeah, if no one likes my insides,
I'm gonna be pissed.
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Like, what the hell!
Damn it, it all makes sense.
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Your name?
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Micah.
- Paul. Nice to meet you.
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That's my dad's name.
- Ooh, my dad's name too!
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So, you're, like, Paul Jr.?
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Uh, no, 'cause my grandfather
is also Paul.
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What does that make you, Paul III?
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- I guess so, technically, yeah.
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So I'm an environmental scientist.
- That's so cool.
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What's your favorite place
that you've been?
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Probably Italy.
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My favorite place in the world
is Positano.
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Listen, when we get married...
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That's reason for us to go back.
How's that?
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That sounds like a perfect idea.
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You have such a sultry voice.
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It's, like,
actually hard to pay attention.
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Your voice just kind of, like,
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I don't know, tickles my brain.
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- It's weird.
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{\an8}As a scientist
and a more analytical person,
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{\an8}I expected to see flaws
and holes in the experiment,
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and it's surprisingly sound.
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It's as if placing a boundary
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in between people
has actually removed a boundary.
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♪ Hey, hello, don't say... ♪
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- Hello.
Hi!
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{\an8}- Hey, my name is Paul. What's yours?
- Hi, Paul. I'm Amber.
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{\an8}Amber. I like that.
It's like the stone. I love rocks.
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It is. That's where I got it.
- Ooh!
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My dad is into the gemstones.
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Oh, nice. Me too. All right.
Well, what's your name? How old are you?
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Well, my name's Amber.
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- Oh, yeah, I already asked that.
- That's okay.
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Where are you from?
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I am from New Orleans, Louisiana.
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- You're from NOLA?
Yeah.
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Stop! God, I could eat beignets all day.
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Those are gonna be at our wedding.
Be ready.
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- So what do you do?
- I'm a flight attendant.
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I love that. That's super cool.
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Do you like to travel?
I love traveling.
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I used to live down in Sydney, Australia.
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So I went through Southeast Asia,
like, down in New Zealand.
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And, um, I used to live down
in the Bahamas for a while.
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- I'm an environmental scientist, so...
- Okay.
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I was doing
biological oceanography.
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- I was studying sharks down there.
- Okay.
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Okay, you are quite the adventurer.
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My family thinks I'm crazy,
but I'm absolutely in love with Italy.
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- I love it so much.
- Oh, my God!
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- Okay, that's the next place I'm going.
- Really? Can I come?
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Sure.
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Amber is a flight attendant.
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It's pretty obvious,
I think to me, the connection there.
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- Come on, honey. Let's go.
Nice.
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Oh, God. Oh, why am I single?
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I ask myself this every day.
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Modern dating is exhausting.
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Just 'cause you're picking people
based on what they look like,
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and that's such a small fraction
of, like, what makes a person.
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You know, my looks should be
the least interesting thing about me.
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Have you thought about
what you would do for your dream wedding?
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{\an8}- Ever thought about a wedding and stuff?
- Oh, God, no.
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Have you thought about those things?
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- Yeah. I've been married before, so--
You have?
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Yeah,
so I've been married twice.
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- Wait. Really?
- Yeah.
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People are pretty shocked.
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They're like,
"Oh, you've been married twice?"
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Like, yeah.
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I was just so not appreciated,
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and I don't ever wanna get
to that point again.
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You know, I don't wanna
have to burn myself out loving somebody,
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just getting scraps in return.
I don't want a repeat of that.
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So, I put time and effort
into thinking about what I want
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for the future,
and I'm just so ready.
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Bye!
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Let's go. Let's go!
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Hello. Hello.
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- Hey.
- This is JP.
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- Yeah, I'm JB. Jackie B. Jackelina.
Okay.
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{\an8}I'm definitely like a kid
in a candy store.
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- There's so many options.
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And there's so many choices.
239
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{\an8}- Tell me one interesting fact about you.
- I love to cook.
240
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- I like to bake. Love that.
- You get five stars from me.
241
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Mwah! You just don't know what flavor
you're gonna get until you get in there.
242
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- And you're just like, "Ooh, I like this."
243
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Or, "Ooh, that flavor's
a little too strong."
244
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Or, "That flavor's too bland for me.
Like, eww."
245
00:10:54,238 --> 00:10:56,740
I'll get bloody noses out of nowhere.
246
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I've gotten one
when I was making out with a girl once,
247
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{\an8}and I got blood on her face.
248
00:11:02,204 --> 00:11:03,872
Oh, what the hell! No.
249
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{\an8}I like wearing leopard print.
250
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- You like wearing what?
- Leopard print.
251
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You still there?
252
00:11:10,379 --> 00:11:13,215
-♪ I do my best... ♪
253
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I'm a stripper.
254
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My God. Eww, I hate that.
255
00:11:15,884 --> 00:11:18,053
I go by, uh, the Zack Attack.
256
00:11:18,053 --> 00:11:19,555
Oh.
257
00:11:20,389 --> 00:11:22,099
So, I grew up in Alaska.
258
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- Have you ever murdered anybody?
Have I murdered anyone?
259
00:11:25,018 --> 00:11:27,187
Um, I have not murdered anyone.
260
00:11:27,187 --> 00:11:28,230
Okay.
- Yet.
261
00:11:28,230 --> 00:11:30,190
{\an8}Automatically, like, a "No, thank you."
262
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- So, what do you do?
- Uh, I'm a stripper.
263
00:11:32,609 --> 00:11:34,695
Oh, stop it.
264
00:11:34,695 --> 00:11:38,490
I, uh, yeah,
I'm a criminal defense lawyer.
265
00:11:38,490 --> 00:11:39,742
Oh, wow.
266
00:11:39,742 --> 00:11:41,452
I grew up in Alaska.
267
00:11:41,452 --> 00:11:43,871
- So I'm a fisherwoman.
- Wow!
268
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Are you Japanese?
269
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- Korean?
No.
270
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Chinese?
271
00:11:49,418 --> 00:11:53,756
Are you short? Let me guess. 5'1"? 4'11"?
272
00:11:53,756 --> 00:11:54,757
What?
273
00:11:54,757 --> 00:11:59,678
I have, like, 14 other guys here.
My match has to be here.
274
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Hello?
275
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Hello.
276
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- I'm Tiffany.
- My name is Brett.
277
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Heading into this experiment,
I was nervous,
278
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{\an8}because I had doubts about being my age
279
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{\an8}and not finding a person yet.
280
00:12:13,776 --> 00:12:17,237
In this experiment, I don't have to,
like, sift through the BS.
281
00:12:17,821 --> 00:12:21,033
Are they looking for a relationship?
Are they looking to get married?
282
00:12:22,284 --> 00:12:25,579
These guys are actually looking for
what I'm looking for,
283
00:12:25,579 --> 00:12:28,165
and that is a good feeling.
284
00:12:28,165 --> 00:12:30,459
I've dated a lot of different guys.
285
00:12:30,459 --> 00:12:34,838
{\an8}My longest relationship
was only two and a half years.
286
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That was about ten years ago.
287
00:12:36,965 --> 00:12:37,883
You know, honestly,
288
00:12:37,883 --> 00:12:41,470
my longest relationship was two years,
and that was about ten years ago.
289
00:12:41,470 --> 00:12:43,806
- Okay, okay.
Yeah.
290
00:12:43,806 --> 00:12:48,185
Yeah. There are some girls that
just know that they want to be married.
291
00:12:48,185 --> 00:12:52,272
And for me, I've always told myself,
like, "I want to find my soulmate."
292
00:12:52,272 --> 00:12:56,735
Honestly, coming into this experience,
I want a partner. I want an equal.
293
00:12:56,735 --> 00:12:58,821
Like, I do wanna have a family one day.
294
00:12:58,821 --> 00:13:01,406
I'm here for a reason.
I'm here for a purpose.
295
00:13:01,406 --> 00:13:03,450
This experiment has created an environment
296
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{\an8}where if you kind of remove
the guessing game
297
00:13:05,494 --> 00:13:07,663
{\an8}of, "Oh, what are you looking for?"
298
00:13:07,663 --> 00:13:10,624
{\an8}"Are you looking for something serious?
You looking for something casual?"
299
00:13:11,416 --> 00:13:15,796
I'm looking for a partner,
and Tiffany's at the top of my list.
300
00:13:21,260 --> 00:13:23,512
Boys, that was a great way to end one.
301
00:13:23,512 --> 00:13:25,138
Let's go!
302
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- Whoo! Cheers!
303
00:13:27,391 --> 00:13:30,269
{\an8}- Don't say the names--
- I won't. I'm not sharing names.
304
00:13:30,269 --> 00:13:32,771
{\an8}No, not yet,
because I don't wanna have any biases yet.
305
00:13:32,771 --> 00:13:35,315
Amber's cool.
- Yeah, Amber's cool. Micah.
306
00:13:35,315 --> 00:13:37,693
Micah's my number one.
Micah's number one.
307
00:13:37,693 --> 00:13:40,529
{\an8}- Let's just put it into a hat.
308
00:13:40,529 --> 00:13:41,530
God damn.
309
00:13:41,530 --> 00:13:44,867
{\an8}Micah's my number one.
Yeah, yeah, I'm gunning for that, brother.
310
00:13:44,867 --> 00:13:46,952
{\an8}I feel like I've made
a whole bunch of stars,
311
00:13:46,952 --> 00:13:50,455
{\an8}but I felt like it was
all because of people's, like, energy.
312
00:13:51,039 --> 00:13:53,417
How did you find out so much information?
313
00:13:53,417 --> 00:13:56,545
I don't know.
I was, like, digging with a shovel.
314
00:13:56,545 --> 00:13:58,839
That's a lot of dating.
That's the most I ever did.
315
00:13:58,839 --> 00:14:01,258
It was so fun. I loved it.
316
00:14:01,258 --> 00:14:02,384
I like JP.
317
00:14:02,384 --> 00:14:05,888
{\an8}JP and I, we're from the same town,
and...
318
00:14:05,888 --> 00:14:07,139
{\an8}I'm really feeling Marshall.
319
00:14:07,306 --> 00:14:11,435
{\an8}I think Marshall is so smooth,
and my other connection is with Josh.
320
00:14:12,185 --> 00:14:14,688
{\an8}We just saw eye-to-eye.
321
00:14:14,688 --> 00:14:17,399
So, those are my boyfriends. All of them.
322
00:14:17,399 --> 00:14:20,110
- ♪ Everything is going my... ♪
323
00:14:20,110 --> 00:14:23,363
{\an8}Zack said, "There's a big python
in the aisleway. What are you doing?"
324
00:14:23,363 --> 00:14:26,033
{\an8}I'm like, "I'm leaving you in there,
and I'm going to the cockpit."
325
00:14:26,033 --> 00:14:27,159
Wait, he told me that too!
326
00:14:27,159 --> 00:14:29,119
You know what?
He's trying to test us.
327
00:14:29,119 --> 00:14:31,788
{\an8}I liked him too.
I was like, "I'm into this. Keep going."
328
00:14:31,788 --> 00:14:32,706
{\an8}I'm surprised.
329
00:14:32,706 --> 00:14:35,709
{\an8}Can't even picture what's about to happen
in a few more days.
330
00:14:35,709 --> 00:14:39,296
{\an8}In a few more days,
there's about to be some broken hearts.
331
00:14:40,047 --> 00:14:43,759
Cheers to love. Ready? Cheers!
332
00:14:53,185 --> 00:14:55,270
{\an8}- Here. Whoo!
- All right, hash browns up.
333
00:14:55,270 --> 00:14:57,481
Buff-ass dudes in the kitchen.
334
00:14:57,481 --> 00:14:58,649
Hook me up!
335
00:14:58,649 --> 00:15:01,401
{\an8}- Tastes like restaurant.
Appreciate that.
336
00:15:02,402 --> 00:15:04,529
Hi, honey.
Good morning.
337
00:15:04,529 --> 00:15:07,199
{\an8}Is it weird that I only like the tops
of bagels? I only eat the top.
338
00:15:07,199 --> 00:15:08,909
Confidence is so attractive.
339
00:15:08,909 --> 00:15:11,787
{\an8}The guy I connected with, I'm like,
"I don't give a fuck how you look."
340
00:15:11,787 --> 00:15:14,373
- I don't care to look. "Ah, is he cute?"
Aww.
341
00:15:14,373 --> 00:15:16,458
I'm like, "Your energy that I'm feeling--"
342
00:15:16,458 --> 00:15:18,377
- Good for you!
Is like something.
343
00:15:18,377 --> 00:15:19,878
Cheers to that.
344
00:15:19,878 --> 00:15:21,463
I think I'm a bombshell,
345
00:15:21,463 --> 00:15:24,341
{\an8}but when I was younger,
I had really, really bad acne.
346
00:15:24,341 --> 00:15:26,301
{\an8}Like, really, really bad acne.
347
00:15:26,301 --> 00:15:29,763
{\an8}And I was so, so insecure about it.
And I would always be like, "Oh, my gosh."
348
00:15:29,763 --> 00:15:32,307
"Guys are not gonna wanna date me
because I have bad acne."
349
00:15:32,307 --> 00:15:36,061
It's always something I thought about it
and the acne scars that I still have.
350
00:15:36,061 --> 00:15:38,271
But I realized that I wouldn't
wanna be with someone
351
00:15:38,271 --> 00:15:40,607
because they thought less of me
in that way.
352
00:15:40,607 --> 00:15:44,319
And I feel really confident
that my long hair doesn't make me me.
353
00:15:44,319 --> 00:15:48,031
My eyes don't make me me.
Like, my skin doesn't make me me.
354
00:15:48,031 --> 00:15:51,451
♪ But are you ready?
For my heart keeps racing... ♪
355
00:15:51,451 --> 00:15:54,955
My looks will change.
My style will change. My hair will change.
356
00:15:54,955 --> 00:15:58,667
But who I am on the inside
matters the most.
357
00:15:58,667 --> 00:16:00,794
♪ My heart keeps racing... ♪
358
00:16:00,794 --> 00:16:02,587
- Who is it? Who do we got?
- Irina.
359
00:16:02,587 --> 00:16:05,298
- I knew it was you!
360
00:16:05,298 --> 00:16:07,050
- Who is this?
- Zack.
361
00:16:07,050 --> 00:16:10,345
Everyone just had
such strong opinions about you.
362
00:16:10,345 --> 00:16:13,265
With you and your crazy stories.
363
00:16:13,265 --> 00:16:15,851
{\an8}Irina, let me tell you something,
'cause I really like you.
364
00:16:15,851 --> 00:16:17,602
Oh. Already.
365
00:16:17,602 --> 00:16:20,022
So, yesterday, like,
you know, I was joking
366
00:16:20,647 --> 00:16:24,818
with all these girls, you know,
about things like being a stripper.
367
00:16:24,818 --> 00:16:29,281
And, uh, as I was doing it,
like, I was realizing, like,
368
00:16:29,906 --> 00:16:34,870
"Okay, uh,
I have nine days to pick a wife,
369
00:16:35,454 --> 00:16:37,414
and that means
if I wanna take this seriously,
370
00:16:37,414 --> 00:16:40,250
that I'm actually
gonna have to be vulnerable.
371
00:16:40,250 --> 00:16:42,753
I'm gonna have to confront demons that--"
372
00:16:43,253 --> 00:16:44,087
Yeah.
373
00:16:44,087 --> 00:16:46,673
I have not--
- What are you so scared of?
374
00:16:47,257 --> 00:16:50,385
So, my mother, uh, was a single mom.
375
00:16:51,011 --> 00:16:54,765
I moved from place to place
throughout most of my childhood,
376
00:16:54,765 --> 00:16:58,185
um, and my mother was a stripper.
377
00:16:59,186 --> 00:17:03,273
Uh, and she did that
to make sure that I had food.
378
00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:08,612
Like, I can remember being a kid,
379
00:17:09,446 --> 00:17:12,741
going through the drive-through,
and my mom not having enough money
380
00:17:12,741 --> 00:17:16,286
to buy me a meal, and...
her breaking down into tears and...
381
00:17:16,953 --> 00:17:19,206
Well, she was an amazing woman,
382
00:17:19,206 --> 00:17:21,917
and, uh, she, uh...
383
00:17:23,335 --> 00:17:24,544
She died.
384
00:17:27,130 --> 00:17:29,633
After my mom died, I'd been on autopilot.
385
00:17:29,633 --> 00:17:34,638
I just, like, did what I needed to do
to pass the bar, get through law school,
386
00:17:35,222 --> 00:17:39,559
made a lot of money for my firm,
and I was slowly dying inside.
387
00:17:40,268 --> 00:17:43,647
And if I wanted to even
do honor to my mother's memory
388
00:17:43,647 --> 00:17:45,232
and what she wanted for me,
389
00:17:45,232 --> 00:17:48,693
I couldn't keep just playing it safe.
390
00:17:49,194 --> 00:17:52,489
I don't want it to be about making money.
I really don't care about that.
391
00:17:52,489 --> 00:17:53,865
Like, none of that shit matters.
392
00:17:53,865 --> 00:17:56,284
I want my life to be
about serving other people,
393
00:17:56,284 --> 00:17:59,788
and that's why I came here, honestly.
I wanted a wife, kids, and a family,
394
00:17:59,788 --> 00:18:03,834
and I wanna be with someone
who shares that view.
395
00:18:05,127 --> 00:18:07,587
I moved here, um, from Russia when I was--
396
00:18:07,587 --> 00:18:08,797
- Really?
Yeah.
397
00:18:08,797 --> 00:18:12,634
I was, like, three or four.
Like, even though we had no money,
398
00:18:12,634 --> 00:18:16,263
my parents did everything in their power
to, like, give us all the memories.
399
00:18:16,263 --> 00:18:18,849
There were Christmases
where there was nothing under the tree,
400
00:18:18,849 --> 00:18:20,559
and it was such a normal thing,
401
00:18:20,559 --> 00:18:24,437
but my parents wanted
a better life for us than they had.
402
00:18:24,437 --> 00:18:27,691
My dad always told me, like, "I want you
to be able to have your own opportunities
403
00:18:27,691 --> 00:18:29,484
you wouldn't be able to have in Russia,"
404
00:18:29,484 --> 00:18:31,361
and so I don't wanna
take anything for granted.
405
00:18:31,361 --> 00:18:32,737
You have
406
00:18:34,072 --> 00:18:35,949
a very powerful presence.
407
00:18:39,828 --> 00:18:43,373
It's flattering. I feel like you can feel,
like, connection and energy.
408
00:18:43,373 --> 00:18:44,749
I like that.
409
00:18:45,876 --> 00:18:50,130
{\an8}I've had people in the past
that I was in love with,
410
00:18:50,130 --> 00:18:51,756
{\an8}and their family, um...
411
00:18:56,303 --> 00:18:58,680
Their family, um, judged me...
412
00:19:00,557 --> 00:19:03,852
because of how I was, um, raised.
413
00:19:05,103 --> 00:19:07,814
And so I wanna marry someone
who's marrying me because
414
00:19:07,814 --> 00:19:09,983
they love who I am as a person.
415
00:19:09,983 --> 00:19:12,402
-♪ Take my hand ♪
416
00:19:12,402 --> 00:19:14,779
♪ You and I ♪
417
00:19:14,779 --> 00:19:18,116
♪ We could drive, drive all... ♪
418
00:19:18,116 --> 00:19:20,493
I really, really, really,
really, really like Zack.
419
00:19:20,493 --> 00:19:23,371
And I've been thinking a lot about this.
420
00:19:23,371 --> 00:19:25,874
Like, I've never met
a guy like him in my life,
421
00:19:25,874 --> 00:19:29,044
and something about him
intrigues me so, so, so much.
422
00:19:30,712 --> 00:19:32,756
{\an8}♪ So come a little closer now ♪
423
00:19:33,381 --> 00:19:35,425
{\an8}♪ And tell me, can you hear my heart? ♪
424
00:19:35,425 --> 00:19:39,554
I think the hard part will come
with multiple girls dating the same guy.
425
00:19:40,722 --> 00:19:43,725
I'll come for your neck.
Just kidding.
426
00:19:43,725 --> 00:19:46,978
I can't say that.
It sounds so bad.
427
00:19:46,978 --> 00:19:50,106
- Cheers. Okay.
- Getting loose in the pods. Yay, yay, yay!
428
00:19:50,106 --> 00:19:52,150
Are you here
to sabotage my love life?
429
00:19:52,150 --> 00:19:53,735
- Me?
I'm just kidding.
430
00:19:53,735 --> 00:19:55,946
What? Why?
431
00:19:55,946 --> 00:19:57,322
You could never!
432
00:19:57,864 --> 00:20:01,326
{\an8}I will never do anything on purpose
to hurt you.
433
00:20:01,326 --> 00:20:03,078
{\an8}- I promise you that. Okay.
- You're so sweet.
434
00:20:03,078 --> 00:20:05,330
Like, it's never
gonna be anything on purpose.
435
00:20:05,330 --> 00:20:08,291
- Oh, God, I would never think that.
- No. No.
436
00:20:08,291 --> 00:20:09,751
Let's go!
437
00:20:10,794 --> 00:20:11,711
Howdy.
438
00:20:12,879 --> 00:20:15,715
Do you get nervous, coming in here,
like, who's it gonna be?
439
00:20:16,341 --> 00:20:18,218
I do.
- I think it's Zack.
440
00:20:18,218 --> 00:20:20,679
- I think you got it right.
Do you know who I am?
441
00:20:21,596 --> 00:20:22,806
Bliss.
- Yeah.
442
00:20:22,806 --> 00:20:24,557
So far.
- Mm-hmm.
443
00:20:24,557 --> 00:20:29,646
Just being 100% transparent,
you are a ten on the intellect.
444
00:20:30,272 --> 00:20:33,441
- Thank you. I have a good brain.
- I like it.
445
00:20:33,441 --> 00:20:35,026
I honestly think that tops
446
00:20:35,026 --> 00:20:37,570
all the compliments,
I've, like, received. Ever.
447
00:20:38,363 --> 00:20:41,283
My mom is a teacher.
I come from, like, a big line of teachers.
448
00:20:41,283 --> 00:20:43,660
My sister's a teacher,
my grandma, my aunt.
449
00:20:43,660 --> 00:20:45,662
And you became a biologist.
450
00:20:45,662 --> 00:20:49,541
Well, I studied biology in school,
but I'm in cybersecurity now.
451
00:20:49,541 --> 00:20:52,210
- Oh, I didn't know that about you.
You didn't?
452
00:20:52,210 --> 00:20:53,712
- No, I--
Did I not tell you?
453
00:20:53,712 --> 00:20:55,505
You told me you were a fisherwoman.
454
00:20:55,505 --> 00:20:58,591
A fisherwoman, yes.
And I studied biology in school,
455
00:20:58,591 --> 00:21:00,760
and I totally switched my career.
456
00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:01,761
So let's have some fun.
457
00:21:01,761 --> 00:21:05,890
You never told me what your favorite song
or singer or, like, band was.
458
00:21:05,890 --> 00:21:07,225
Mmm...
459
00:21:07,225 --> 00:21:09,185
- My favorite song is--
- Yeah?
460
00:21:10,186 --> 00:21:12,856
"I Hope You Dance" by Lee Ann Womack.
461
00:21:13,523 --> 00:21:15,608
- Really?
- Yeah, have you heard it?
462
00:21:15,608 --> 00:21:18,820
Absolutely. That's, like,
my mom's song for, like, me.
463
00:21:21,573 --> 00:21:25,702
That's gonna be
my first dance song to whoever I marry.
464
00:21:25,702 --> 00:21:27,203
Oh.
465
00:21:27,203 --> 00:21:28,538
- Um...
I'm sorry.
466
00:21:28,538 --> 00:21:31,374
I'm, like, already a little bit crying.
That's crazy.
467
00:21:31,374 --> 00:21:33,501
Go ahead, I'm listening. I'm sorry.
468
00:21:34,294 --> 00:21:37,422
When I was 16,
my mother, she dedicated that song to me.
469
00:21:37,422 --> 00:21:40,550
She made me sit down and listen to it.
470
00:21:40,550 --> 00:21:44,471
And so, I actually memorized it.
I can sing it from memory.
471
00:21:45,263 --> 00:21:46,181
I can sing it too.
472
00:21:47,307 --> 00:21:49,768
You can sing "I Hope You Dance"
from memory?
473
00:21:49,768 --> 00:21:52,437
That's my mom's song for me.
Like, how could I not?
474
00:21:52,437 --> 00:21:54,105
Bliss, how weird is that?
475
00:21:54,105 --> 00:21:57,692
My mom, I want her to,
like, have a dance with me, like,
476
00:21:57,692 --> 00:22:00,570
at my wedding because she,
like...
477
00:22:01,446 --> 00:22:03,281
...is my rock, you know, and, like,
478
00:22:03,281 --> 00:22:05,992
I wanna honor her
as much as I honor my dad.
479
00:22:08,828 --> 00:22:10,455
Sorry, I'm crying.
480
00:22:11,498 --> 00:22:12,957
What the fuck is happening?
481
00:22:14,209 --> 00:22:15,043
I don't know.
482
00:22:15,043 --> 00:22:16,669
I...
483
00:22:16,669 --> 00:22:18,046
My heart is racing.
484
00:22:18,046 --> 00:22:20,590
Wow. A magnet for serendipity.
485
00:22:21,633 --> 00:22:22,884
That's a good affirmation.
486
00:22:24,719 --> 00:22:26,679
- Have sweet dreams.
- You too.
487
00:22:34,354 --> 00:22:35,647
What the fuck?
488
00:22:36,231 --> 00:22:39,150
I need a hug. Can someone hug me?
489
00:22:39,150 --> 00:22:41,236
Mama!
- Why? Are you happy?
490
00:22:41,236 --> 00:22:43,488
Like, yeah, it's like my heart is racing.
491
00:22:43,488 --> 00:22:45,782
Dude, you're not gonna believe this shit.
492
00:22:46,950 --> 00:22:48,701
Or maybe this is your person.
493
00:22:48,701 --> 00:22:51,913
- Yeah, I'm excited.
In a crazy, mind-blowing way.
494
00:22:57,794 --> 00:23:01,339
- I love that we're different characters.
495
00:23:01,339 --> 00:23:03,633
It's like-- it's like--
496
00:23:03,633 --> 00:23:05,593
- It's definitely Billy.
Yeah.
497
00:23:06,761 --> 00:23:08,888
One, two. One, two, three.
498
00:23:08,888 --> 00:23:10,390
Do we have Chef Jackie?
499
00:23:13,643 --> 00:23:15,353
How do you feel about,
like, PDA and stuff?
500
00:23:15,353 --> 00:23:19,315
{\an8}I literally will have sex
with my wife in public.
501
00:23:20,525 --> 00:23:22,193
- I'm down if you're down.
502
00:23:22,193 --> 00:23:25,905
{\an8}The experiment starts
by dating a ton of different people
503
00:23:25,905 --> 00:23:28,741
People that you never would have
normally spoken to.
504
00:23:28,741 --> 00:23:31,119
When you're in the pods,
you can play games together.
505
00:23:32,662 --> 00:23:33,538
I made it.
506
00:23:33,538 --> 00:23:36,875
{\an8}Oh! Yes!
507
00:23:36,875 --> 00:23:40,044
You can draw together.
You can listen to music.
508
00:23:40,044 --> 00:23:42,213
- I freakin' love this song.
509
00:23:42,213 --> 00:23:43,715
♪ Love is the answer! ♪
510
00:23:43,715 --> 00:23:47,552
We're here 24 hours a day
spending all of our time
511
00:23:47,552 --> 00:23:50,054
focusing on finding love.
512
00:23:50,054 --> 00:23:52,098
- ♪ Love is the answer! ♪
- Ooh, I don't like this.
513
00:23:52,098 --> 00:23:53,433
{\an8}Do it. You love me.
514
00:23:53,433 --> 00:23:56,603
{\an8}- Just do it.
- Oh! It's getting gooey over here.
515
00:23:56,603 --> 00:23:57,770
This is true love.
516
00:23:57,770 --> 00:24:01,316
I think people are starting to develop
really deep connections with people,
517
00:24:01,316 --> 00:24:04,319
and I have two connections
that I'm really excited about.
518
00:24:04,319 --> 00:24:05,320
Kwame and Paul.
519
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:07,947
{\an8}- I really wanna, like, lift you up.
520
00:24:07,947 --> 00:24:10,200
- Spin me around?
No, just--
521
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:11,201
Damn.
522
00:24:11,201 --> 00:24:14,204
Suplex you. Um...
523
00:24:14,204 --> 00:24:16,331
- Right into the pavement.
Yeah.
524
00:24:16,331 --> 00:24:18,166
Drop an elbow. No, I wanna pick you up,
525
00:24:18,166 --> 00:24:22,420
and have you put your legs around me
and, uh, just kind of,
526
00:24:22,420 --> 00:24:23,630
you know, make out.
527
00:24:24,130 --> 00:24:25,840
Wow, that sounds so nice.
528
00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:27,133
It does sound nice.
529
00:24:27,133 --> 00:24:30,386
Paul literally popped out
of nowhere.
530
00:24:30,887 --> 00:24:33,765
I remember, you know,
when we first started talking...
531
00:24:33,765 --> 00:24:36,768
...I would always be like,
"Oh, great, it's you over there, Paul."
532
00:24:36,768 --> 00:24:39,270
Like, kind of giving him a hard time,
533
00:24:39,270 --> 00:24:43,525
but now he's the person that I, like,
look forward to being on the other side.
534
00:24:43,525 --> 00:24:45,944
I just don't know
how it happened.
535
00:24:45,944 --> 00:24:49,072
What do you think our life
would look like, like, if we got married?
536
00:24:49,072 --> 00:24:51,699
{\an8}Do I need to say that in one word,
or can I give you sentences?
537
00:24:51,699 --> 00:24:52,700
A couple sentences.
538
00:24:52,700 --> 00:24:54,994
Gonna start with one word
and I'll lead to that.
539
00:24:54,994 --> 00:24:56,871
Okay.
- Fireworks.
540
00:24:57,789 --> 00:25:01,793
I think there's just gonna be
an overwhelming amount of joy.
541
00:25:02,961 --> 00:25:05,880
- Joy, love, and support. Security.
- Mm-hmm.
542
00:25:07,131 --> 00:25:09,259
- That's security.
Um, yeah.
543
00:25:09,259 --> 00:25:11,261
You give me that over anyone
I've ever met.
544
00:25:11,261 --> 00:25:13,012
Yeah?
- Yeah.
545
00:25:14,138 --> 00:25:15,390
Love that.
546
00:25:15,390 --> 00:25:18,142
- Like, I know you so, so well.
547
00:25:18,142 --> 00:25:21,771
I don't even-- I don't even have an idea
of, like, what you're like to, like, hug.
548
00:25:21,771 --> 00:25:24,232
I know.
549
00:25:24,232 --> 00:25:27,277
But when I'm with Kwame,
he validates my feelings.
550
00:25:27,277 --> 00:25:28,778
He calms me.
551
00:25:28,778 --> 00:25:31,614
Like, I hear his deep voice.
552
00:25:31,614 --> 00:25:34,117
And it, like,
brings me back, like, down to earth.
553
00:25:34,117 --> 00:25:36,327
He is so, like, high-caliber
554
00:25:36,327 --> 00:25:39,455
and such a great person,
and I feel like I've never given,
555
00:25:39,455 --> 00:25:43,167
like, the nice guy,
like, a chance, you know.
556
00:25:43,167 --> 00:25:46,170
And I feel like I'm finally
in the position where, you know,
557
00:25:46,170 --> 00:25:49,340
the nice guy's right in front of me,
and I'm actually going for it.
558
00:25:49,340 --> 00:25:50,675
They're just really different.
559
00:25:50,675 --> 00:25:53,761
And I literally have no idea
what I'm doing.
560
00:25:53,761 --> 00:25:56,431
-♪ This is where my heart is ♪
561
00:25:57,724 --> 00:25:59,851
♪ 'Cause this is where it started ♪
562
00:25:59,851 --> 00:26:02,270
♪ This is where I'm gonna be ♪
563
00:26:02,270 --> 00:26:04,272
♪ This is home to me ♪
564
00:26:04,272 --> 00:26:05,898
Hi, hello.
565
00:26:05,898 --> 00:26:09,736
Hello.
I really hope this is Brett.
566
00:26:09,736 --> 00:26:11,946
{\an8}- This is Brett.
- Yes! Yes.
567
00:26:11,946 --> 00:26:14,282
And I know this is Tiffany.
- Yes!
568
00:26:14,782 --> 00:26:16,075
How are you?
569
00:26:16,075 --> 00:26:18,202
Excited to see you again.
570
00:26:18,202 --> 00:26:21,205
I actually got heels on today,
because I'm feeling sexy, so...
571
00:26:21,205 --> 00:26:23,708
Ooh! What else are you wearing?
- Yeah.
572
00:26:23,708 --> 00:26:28,296
I'm curious.
- I am wearing a teal, emerald green dress.
573
00:26:28,296 --> 00:26:31,716
{\an8}I'm wearing a shirt right now
that I would consider the same color.
574
00:26:33,426 --> 00:26:36,554
Yeah, it's like a teal green-blue.
575
00:26:36,554 --> 00:26:37,930
No fucking way.
576
00:26:39,307 --> 00:26:40,725
- Yeah.
577
00:26:40,725 --> 00:26:42,769
Like, did we wake up
and put on the same colors?
578
00:26:42,769 --> 00:26:43,811
Like, "Oh, my gosh."
579
00:26:43,811 --> 00:26:46,773
-"This experiment is working."
Yes, right?
580
00:26:46,773 --> 00:26:50,401
So, one thing coming in here
that I was thinking about is
581
00:26:50,401 --> 00:26:52,570
I kind of wanna, like, hear your story.
582
00:26:53,071 --> 00:26:59,077
Yeah. So, where I work,
out of more than 1,000 people,
583
00:26:59,077 --> 00:27:04,916
I was the top recruiting and salesperson
for three months straight.
584
00:27:05,416 --> 00:27:08,169
When it comes to doing something that
585
00:27:09,545 --> 00:27:13,758
people think a woman can't do,
I'm the type of person that's like,
586
00:27:13,758 --> 00:27:14,884
"I'm gonna show you."
587
00:27:17,178 --> 00:27:20,890
When it came to band, um, I was told that,
588
00:27:20,890 --> 00:27:24,310
"Hey, you know, your lips are perfect
to play flute."
589
00:27:24,310 --> 00:27:26,562
And I saw a flute as,
like, this girly instrument.
590
00:27:26,562 --> 00:27:29,023
- And I really wanted to play drums.
- Mm-hmm.
591
00:27:29,023 --> 00:27:32,694
So, who was gonna be put on the drum line?
592
00:27:33,444 --> 00:27:35,446
I was.
593
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:42,120
And so, my senior year, we were the best
freaking band in the nation.
594
00:27:42,745 --> 00:27:46,040
The satisfaction that you get
from people doubting you...
595
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:47,583
Yeah.
- Like, I love that.
596
00:27:49,752 --> 00:27:52,422
Because I think
I have a similar mentality,
597
00:27:52,422 --> 00:27:55,133
and maybe my fifth- or sixth-grade year,
598
00:27:55,133 --> 00:27:57,427
I just started to notice,
like, my family situation
599
00:27:57,427 --> 00:28:00,096
just to start to,
like, gradually decrease. Like...
600
00:28:01,097 --> 00:28:03,474
One week, our power was cut off.
601
00:28:03,474 --> 00:28:05,059
Our-- Our water was cut off.
602
00:28:05,810 --> 00:28:08,438
We lived for, like,
a week or two with candles.
603
00:28:09,731 --> 00:28:11,065
Friends wanting to come over,
604
00:28:11,065 --> 00:28:14,277
and me and my brother are like,
"No, no, no. Like, you can't come inside."
605
00:28:14,277 --> 00:28:16,195
We didn't want them
to come and see...
606
00:28:16,863 --> 00:28:18,781
...we literally don't have electricity.
607
00:28:20,950 --> 00:28:24,829
It kind of turned me into, like,
a really quiet super-introverted kid.
608
00:28:24,829 --> 00:28:26,748
I didn't really have
any friends in high school.
609
00:28:27,331 --> 00:28:30,626
Um, didn't really do anything
other than draw.
610
00:28:31,753 --> 00:28:33,796
I started designing shoes for fun.
611
00:28:34,422 --> 00:28:35,506
I made an Instagram page.
612
00:28:35,506 --> 00:28:37,842
- And started posting my work up.
Uh-huh.
613
00:28:37,842 --> 00:28:41,471
I got a DM.
That DM led into a job opportunity,
614
00:28:41,471 --> 00:28:45,600
and then I was there for a year
before a recruiter from Nike hit me up.
615
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:47,018
Then in three years...
616
00:28:47,018 --> 00:28:50,062
...I've gone from no footwear industry
617
00:28:50,062 --> 00:28:53,775
to a director, come on, at the biggest
footwear company in the world.
618
00:28:53,775 --> 00:28:55,485
And I don't have a college degree.
619
00:28:55,485 --> 00:28:57,236
- So...
Congrats.
620
00:28:57,820 --> 00:29:01,157
Boy, I've never met anybody like you.
621
00:29:07,371 --> 00:29:08,998
You're an amazing person.
622
00:29:11,584 --> 00:29:16,297
{\an8}I don't think I would have dated
somebody like Brett in the outside
623
00:29:16,297 --> 00:29:17,757
{\an8}or real world.
624
00:29:17,757 --> 00:29:22,178
I probably would have judged Brett
for not having a college degree,
625
00:29:22,178 --> 00:29:25,765
not going through
this traditional career path.
626
00:29:25,765 --> 00:29:29,811
I would have had
this preconceived notion of who Brett was,
627
00:29:29,811 --> 00:29:32,605
but when you start to hear his story,
628
00:29:34,524 --> 00:29:38,903
he's-- he's not like all these other guys.
629
00:29:38,903 --> 00:29:40,029
He's different.
630
00:29:40,029 --> 00:29:43,783
At 36 years old,
I thought I knew what I wanted,
631
00:29:44,784 --> 00:29:47,995
and that changed quickly
in this experiment.
632
00:29:48,663 --> 00:29:52,083
I want to be my most authentic self
around someone,
633
00:29:52,083 --> 00:29:56,879
and they not judge me,
or me feeling like I have to change.
634
00:29:56,879 --> 00:29:59,423
I feel like I can be myself with him.
635
00:29:59,423 --> 00:30:04,011
- ♪ So be the future with me... ♪
636
00:30:04,011 --> 00:30:06,681
I have a really good feeling
about the two of us.
637
00:30:06,681 --> 00:30:08,140
I do too.
- Yeah.
638
00:30:09,684 --> 00:30:11,394
Oh, Brett.
639
00:30:13,855 --> 00:30:14,689
♪ You and me... ♪
640
00:30:14,689 --> 00:30:15,648
Oh!
641
00:30:15,648 --> 00:30:16,607
♪ You and me... ♪
642
00:30:16,607 --> 00:30:17,525
Gosh.
643
00:30:17,525 --> 00:30:22,154
{\an8}♪ You and me will be the future ♪
644
00:30:22,154 --> 00:30:24,532
{\an8}- Did you have your dates yet?
- Yeah, I had two.
645
00:30:24,532 --> 00:30:27,034
{\an8}- Oh!
- One I couldn't wait to get out of.
646
00:30:27,034 --> 00:30:30,371
{\an8}- I feel bad saying that, but I don't know.
- Second date good?
647
00:30:30,371 --> 00:30:32,123
Second date was really good.
648
00:30:32,123 --> 00:30:34,959
- Was it that person you like?
- Paul? Yeah.
649
00:30:34,959 --> 00:30:39,297
I just smile so much when I'm in there,
so I'm like, "Oh, I'm definitely, like,
650
00:30:39,297 --> 00:30:41,382
getting some kind of feeling."
651
00:30:41,382 --> 00:30:44,427
Look at you gushing.
Like, you have butterflies.
652
00:30:44,427 --> 00:30:46,846
- ♪ Too late to start right now ♪
653
00:30:46,846 --> 00:30:48,472
♪ I'm not gonna be... ♪
654
00:30:48,472 --> 00:30:50,558
- Hello, who's this?
This is Paul.
655
00:30:50,558 --> 00:30:51,934
Hi, Paul.
656
00:30:51,934 --> 00:30:53,603
You sound so disappointed.
657
00:30:53,603 --> 00:30:56,022
{\an8}No, I'm not. I've been looking forward
to talking to you.
658
00:30:56,022 --> 00:30:58,190
{\an8}Obviously, I'm not gonna,
like, try to...
659
00:30:58,190 --> 00:31:00,276
{\an8}...further you in any other,
like, connection,
660
00:31:00,276 --> 00:31:03,029
{\an8}but how do you feel about Amber?
661
00:31:05,698 --> 00:31:09,035
I think she's, like,
a super, super great person,
662
00:31:09,035 --> 00:31:12,955
like, with a lot of really good character
and, like, really good values.
663
00:31:12,955 --> 00:31:15,207
We have so many interests in common.
664
00:31:15,207 --> 00:31:19,670
Our perspectives and all of that seem
to kind of align.
665
00:31:21,380 --> 00:31:22,423
Yeah.
666
00:31:23,507 --> 00:31:26,427
- Whatever.
667
00:31:26,427 --> 00:31:28,846
- You're only supposed to be talking to me.
- Am I?
668
00:31:29,430 --> 00:31:30,264
Duh!
669
00:31:30,264 --> 00:31:32,934
Let's ask another question.
670
00:31:32,934 --> 00:31:35,853
This is so random, but would you
wanna know when you're gonna die?
671
00:31:35,853 --> 00:31:37,021
Yeah.
672
00:31:37,021 --> 00:31:38,272
Really?
- Yeah.
673
00:31:38,272 --> 00:31:40,900
Because imagine if it was like,
you're gonna die in four weeks.
674
00:31:40,900 --> 00:31:42,985
You and I wouldn't get out
of bed for four weeks.
675
00:31:42,985 --> 00:31:45,029
- Yeah, is that what we would do?
Yeah.
676
00:31:45,029 --> 00:31:47,239
- Is that how we'd spend the last weeks?
- Yeah, napping.
677
00:31:47,239 --> 00:31:48,407
- Napping.
678
00:31:48,407 --> 00:31:50,826
Just napping,
jumping on the bed, pillow fights.
679
00:31:50,826 --> 00:31:52,662
Exactly, you know, normal stuff.
680
00:31:52,662 --> 00:31:55,331
Honestly, I kind of feel
like the past three years
681
00:31:55,331 --> 00:31:57,249
for me have gone by so quickly.
682
00:31:57,249 --> 00:31:59,210
Mm-hmm.
- It's almost like a scary pace.
683
00:31:59,210 --> 00:32:02,213
Like, I'm like, "Wow,
what the fuck just happened?"
684
00:32:02,213 --> 00:32:06,676
Like, I'm thinking I'm going to,
like, really make an intentional effort
685
00:32:06,676 --> 00:32:11,013
to start, uh, living--
living more, just in general.
686
00:32:11,013 --> 00:32:13,099
- I like it. I like it.
687
00:32:13,099 --> 00:32:15,685
Being more present, for sure.
It's kind of cheesy, but, like--
688
00:32:15,685 --> 00:32:17,645
Yeah.
- But it's true. Like--
689
00:32:17,645 --> 00:32:20,815
I feel like find-- finding,
like, beauty in, like, every day.
690
00:32:20,815 --> 00:32:24,193
- Oh, my gosh.
Like, romanticizing my life.
691
00:32:24,193 --> 00:32:26,404
Oh, my gosh.
We're literally on the same page for that.
692
00:32:26,404 --> 00:32:27,363
Ah!
693
00:32:27,363 --> 00:32:29,240
So attracted to that. Jeez.
694
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:32,660
- ♪ Gonna kiss your face some day ♪
695
00:32:32,660 --> 00:32:35,454
♪ Mm! You are all that ♪
696
00:32:37,790 --> 00:32:40,501
{\an8}Confusing, just between Kwame and Paul.
697
00:32:40,501 --> 00:32:44,463
{\an8}With Kwame, I honestly feel like he could,
like, bring out such a good side of me.
698
00:32:44,463 --> 00:32:47,133
He's a good guy
with good personality, good character.
699
00:32:47,133 --> 00:32:48,634
- No one's giving me nothing.
700
00:32:48,634 --> 00:32:50,636
- Just kidding.
- My fucking soul, dude.
701
00:32:50,636 --> 00:32:53,556
{\an8}I did not expect the mental
702
00:32:54,557 --> 00:32:58,060
and emotional kind of turmoil
that you experience
703
00:32:58,060 --> 00:33:02,565
when you're living with other girls
that are dating who you're dating.
704
00:33:02,565 --> 00:33:05,818
- So how are you feeling about Kwame today?
- I shouldn't go on.
705
00:33:05,818 --> 00:33:08,029
You feeling good? Confident?
Is he your only date today?
706
00:33:08,029 --> 00:33:10,531
- Yeah.
- See yourself with him outside of this?
707
00:33:10,531 --> 00:33:12,366
Yeah, I do. I really do.
708
00:33:12,867 --> 00:33:14,535
I don't know if I wanna talk about it.
709
00:33:14,535 --> 00:33:16,287
- Why?
- I don't trust that girl over there.
710
00:33:18,664 --> 00:33:22,334
I think that you're his best match,
and I hope he's able to recognize that.
711
00:33:22,334 --> 00:33:25,463
Kwame talks to my heart,
my head, and my vagina.
712
00:33:27,548 --> 00:33:30,926
{\an8}Every time Kwame and I talk,
it gets better.
713
00:33:32,344 --> 00:33:34,180
{\an8}Hands down, tenfold, 100%.
714
00:33:35,681 --> 00:33:40,019
I think what's hard is they can tell you
all these things in this experiment,
715
00:33:40,019 --> 00:33:44,315
but you know that right after this date,
he's dating someone else.
716
00:33:45,316 --> 00:33:47,068
He could be saying the same things to her.
717
00:33:47,068 --> 00:33:51,822
{\an8}I actually really love the Calvin Klein,
like, underwear for women.
718
00:33:51,822 --> 00:33:54,408
- Yes.
- Walking around the house all day.
719
00:33:54,408 --> 00:33:56,494
Just rocking those, biting my lip.
720
00:33:56,494 --> 00:33:58,746
- Thinking about how you look. Mmm!
- Totally.
721
00:33:59,371 --> 00:34:01,123
When it comes to--
722
00:34:01,123 --> 00:34:04,585
Obviously, the concept here
of, like, love being blind is, like,
723
00:34:04,585 --> 00:34:08,005
yeah, we wanna get to know each other,
like, who we are on the inside.
724
00:34:08,005 --> 00:34:08,923
Yes.
725
00:34:08,923 --> 00:34:12,885
And what I hope that does is it nurtures
what we see on the outside as well.
726
00:34:14,178 --> 00:34:17,223
It is wild when you're just,
like, so connected with someone
727
00:34:17,223 --> 00:34:20,309
that you can't walk by them
without thinking about
728
00:34:20,309 --> 00:34:22,645
how infatuated you are, you know.
729
00:34:22,645 --> 00:34:24,772
It's not just like, oh, I mean--
730
00:34:25,272 --> 00:34:27,608
The only reason that I'm like,
731
00:34:28,818 --> 00:34:30,820
I wanna put my hands all over your body
732
00:34:30,820 --> 00:34:32,530
is because, like, essentially,
733
00:34:32,530 --> 00:34:36,450
I feel like I have my--
myself all over your soul.
734
00:34:38,494 --> 00:34:40,913
You know what I mean?
So, it's like having that connection--
735
00:34:40,913 --> 00:34:44,542
So, when you have sex,
do you like the souls to, like, connect?
736
00:34:44,542 --> 00:34:45,918
Oh, my gosh. Yes.
737
00:34:47,878 --> 00:34:50,506
If we're married, we're not having sex.
We're making love.
738
00:34:50,506 --> 00:34:51,924
Yeah, yes.
739
00:34:51,924 --> 00:34:53,300
Yes, yes.
740
00:34:53,300 --> 00:34:56,470
It is everything and more.
You know what I mean? It's not...
741
00:34:56,470 --> 00:34:58,848
Fuck.
Yeah.
742
00:34:58,848 --> 00:35:00,224
It feels sacred.
743
00:35:01,392 --> 00:35:06,355
I wanna have a very,
you know, almost spiritual connection
744
00:35:06,355 --> 00:35:07,565
with my husband's body.
745
00:35:07,565 --> 00:35:09,108
Oh, my gosh. Whoa!
746
00:35:09,775 --> 00:35:12,278
- That hit my soul.
747
00:35:18,159 --> 00:35:20,286
What is happening in here tonight?
748
00:35:21,954 --> 00:35:23,831
- Oh!
Yeah.
749
00:35:23,831 --> 00:35:25,082
- Wow.
Yeah.
750
00:35:25,082 --> 00:35:26,709
Okay. Are we just ready?
751
00:35:28,169 --> 00:35:31,172
Yeah.
752
00:35:31,172 --> 00:35:35,259
You better stop playing before I find
my way to the other side of that wall.
753
00:35:35,259 --> 00:35:38,721
Let's just be done.
- All right, can we get at it right now?
754
00:35:38,721 --> 00:35:41,098
Oh, I'm not talking about sex.
I'm talking about marriage.
755
00:35:41,098 --> 00:35:43,517
- But both could be cool.
- Yeah!
756
00:35:43,517 --> 00:35:46,770
I'm not lying to you right now.
Like, I'm really feeling this.
757
00:35:47,771 --> 00:35:50,816
Like, it's-- it's, like,
really getting me excited.
758
00:35:50,816 --> 00:35:52,902
Yeah?
- So, like, it's hittin'.
759
00:35:55,654 --> 00:35:59,408
I love to hear it.
Yeah, it's, uh... It's feeling good.
760
00:35:59,408 --> 00:36:03,871
I would say it's feeling
very, very, very, very, good.
761
00:36:03,871 --> 00:36:06,290
- I'm all about it.
- Kwame!
762
00:36:06,290 --> 00:36:09,501
- ♪ We could fly away ♪
763
00:36:13,464 --> 00:36:16,592
♪ Fly away ♪
764
00:36:18,427 --> 00:36:23,349
♪ We could, we could fly away ♪
765
00:36:23,349 --> 00:36:25,434
I wanna be transparent with you.
766
00:36:25,935 --> 00:36:29,230
{\an8}I do have a very, very, very
strong connection with someone else.
767
00:36:31,649 --> 00:36:35,569
She tends to reassure me
about how much she wants to be with me,
768
00:36:36,237 --> 00:36:38,864
and it's going, uh,
769
00:36:39,698 --> 00:36:42,368
in every direction
that you would want it to go
770
00:36:42,368 --> 00:36:44,411
as a person who wants to be cared for.
771
00:36:49,416 --> 00:36:51,418
I, like, appreciate you
sharing that with me.
772
00:36:51,418 --> 00:36:54,797
I feel like I didn't realize, like,
how strong your connection was
773
00:36:54,797 --> 00:36:56,215
for the other person,
774
00:36:56,799 --> 00:36:59,885
and I'm just wondering
how it's escalating so much.
775
00:36:59,885 --> 00:37:03,806
If you do feel sure about me,
it's just hard to, like, imagine
776
00:37:03,806 --> 00:37:06,850
your other connection
having such a great trajectory.
777
00:37:06,850 --> 00:37:10,145
And, like, that's not to say that
I want you to stop talking to people,
778
00:37:10,145 --> 00:37:12,940
just to say it's, like,
hard for me to understand, I guess.
779
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:17,236
If I was to write down
the perfect girl for me
780
00:37:18,028 --> 00:37:20,948
before I even showed up
to this experiment,
781
00:37:22,157 --> 00:37:23,117
it would be you.
782
00:37:24,118 --> 00:37:27,621
So, her ascension
has kind of been...
783
00:37:27,621 --> 00:37:29,164
...a conundrum to me.
784
00:37:29,164 --> 00:37:33,627
I actually didn't think
we would make it until, like, day three.
785
00:37:34,128 --> 00:37:38,257
The one thing that just
keeps popping up about her--
786
00:37:38,257 --> 00:37:40,676
Is it that she validates you
more than I do?
787
00:37:42,094 --> 00:37:45,014
And reciprocates feelings more vocally?
788
00:37:45,014 --> 00:37:47,933
Yes. Point-blank, period.
789
00:37:51,729 --> 00:37:53,856
Like, nothing good is, like, easy.
790
00:37:54,523 --> 00:37:56,400
When it comes
to something that's this big,
791
00:37:56,400 --> 00:38:01,488
I hope that you decide
to follow your heart,
792
00:38:02,448 --> 00:38:05,367
not the part of your brain
that tells you to
793
00:38:06,785 --> 00:38:08,579
take what will feel good now.
794
00:38:08,579 --> 00:38:10,998
So, then I'll ask you
straightforward, then.
795
00:38:12,333 --> 00:38:16,253
Do you feel like we have something
that would last, and that would...
796
00:38:18,005 --> 00:38:19,757
that could stand the test?
797
00:38:21,884 --> 00:38:23,969
Because I feel so strongly for you,
798
00:38:23,969 --> 00:38:27,181
and I can picture our life so well,
799
00:38:27,181 --> 00:38:31,393
I can see a future with you.
800
00:38:32,728 --> 00:38:35,356
One-hundred percent,
I can see a future with you.
801
00:38:35,356 --> 00:38:38,108
You have me,
like, walking on sunshine.
802
00:38:40,235 --> 00:38:43,322
- You know?
- I do. I-- I definitely know.
803
00:38:43,947 --> 00:38:45,407
♪ My heart is beating... ♪
804
00:38:46,450 --> 00:38:50,746
♪ Faster than I can believe... ♪
805
00:38:50,746 --> 00:38:53,999
There's so much emotion
in the balance right now,
806
00:38:53,999 --> 00:38:55,834
and it scares the shit out of me.
807
00:38:55,834 --> 00:38:57,836
Mm-hmm.
You know?
808
00:38:57,836 --> 00:39:00,172
I know.
809
00:39:00,172 --> 00:39:04,301
But, like, I-- I feel like
I'm so sure about you, you know.
810
00:39:05,010 --> 00:39:05,844
Yeah.
811
00:39:06,637 --> 00:39:07,471
Like,
812
00:39:09,223 --> 00:39:11,392
I'm so sure about you.
813
00:39:11,392 --> 00:39:14,561
So, I mean, I'm telling you...
814
00:39:17,815 --> 00:39:21,026
I wanna propose earlier.
815
00:39:28,409 --> 00:39:30,285
- Are you okay?
816
00:39:31,245 --> 00:39:34,498
My jaw dropped to the ground.
817
00:39:34,498 --> 00:39:35,833
Oh, my God.
818
00:39:37,167 --> 00:39:41,004
Obviously, I love to hear, like, that,
and it makes me feel so good.
819
00:39:41,004 --> 00:39:43,340
I wanna know, like,
why you feel like that.
820
00:39:43,340 --> 00:39:46,135
I've just been smitten
for a really long time.
821
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:50,556
I say really long. It's fucking six days.
Wow, like...
822
00:39:50,556 --> 00:39:52,641
Feels like a long time.
- Yeah.
823
00:39:52,641 --> 00:39:56,520
Everything that you want
and everything that you are embodying,
824
00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:58,522
those things are, like, what...
825
00:40:00,983 --> 00:40:02,860
what I, like, always envisioned.
826
00:40:03,527 --> 00:40:07,322
I find myself just waiting all day
just to talk to you.
827
00:40:12,035 --> 00:40:14,663
I think the reason why
I've been holding back is because,
828
00:40:14,663 --> 00:40:18,876
the other person that I'm talking to
has been, like, a slow burn.
829
00:40:19,585 --> 00:40:24,047
And it hasn't had--
It's not even on our level at all.
830
00:40:24,047 --> 00:40:25,466
I mean, it's not comparable,
831
00:40:25,466 --> 00:40:29,386
and my fear would be later on
there's still what-ifs
832
00:40:29,386 --> 00:40:32,139
'cause I didn't uncover every stone.
833
00:40:32,973 --> 00:40:36,685
And you don't deserve
to not have, like, your person know,
834
00:40:36,685 --> 00:40:38,562
without a shadow of a doubt.
835
00:40:40,564 --> 00:40:43,525
Because I think that you're just,
like, a really incredible person,
836
00:40:43,525 --> 00:40:45,194
and you deserve everything.
837
00:40:48,530 --> 00:40:50,491
Yeah, this is really hard.
838
00:40:50,991 --> 00:40:54,828
It is not fair to you
to tell you to cut any connection.
839
00:40:54,828 --> 00:40:56,830
Like, who am I to do that?
840
00:40:56,830 --> 00:40:59,500
Like, if I... if I'm doing that now,
841
00:40:59,500 --> 00:41:02,085
in the preliminary stages
of our relationship,
842
00:41:02,586 --> 00:41:06,381
who am I gonna be telling you to cut out
of your life at any point, you know.
843
00:41:06,381 --> 00:41:08,967
That's, like,
such a great point, actually.
844
00:41:10,344 --> 00:41:12,471
Like, I want this to stay between us.
845
00:41:12,471 --> 00:41:15,807
- But I really am, like, falling for you.
- Yeah.
846
00:41:16,475 --> 00:41:18,685
And, like,
I haven't said that to anyone else.
847
00:41:21,772 --> 00:41:22,606
Yeah.
848
00:41:23,357 --> 00:41:25,067
So you better
not go falling for anyone else.
849
00:41:25,067 --> 00:41:28,028
- Um, or I'll beat your ass.
850
00:41:29,780 --> 00:41:32,282
What color is your,
uh, reveal dress?
851
00:41:32,282 --> 00:41:34,910
You can't know that. Has to be a surprise.
852
00:41:36,411 --> 00:41:39,498
- It will surprise you, I think.
- Mm. I'm super excited.
853
00:41:39,498 --> 00:41:41,625
- ♪ I wanna smile for no reason ♪
854
00:41:41,625 --> 00:41:43,919
♪ I wanna dance on the ceiling ♪
855
00:41:43,919 --> 00:41:47,798
♪ I wanna breathe the air
That you're breathing... ♪
856
00:41:47,798 --> 00:41:49,216
Quick. Come here.
857
00:41:49,216 --> 00:41:52,302
He literally said, he's like,
"I wanna ask if I can propose early."
858
00:41:52,302 --> 00:41:53,554
Like, out of nowhere?
859
00:41:53,554 --> 00:41:56,139
Ooh! I'm sorry. I heard.
860
00:41:56,139 --> 00:41:58,517
{\an8}It's a lot too fast.
Why can't he take it a day at a time?
861
00:41:58,517 --> 00:42:00,852
{\an8}Looks like he's trying to pop the ring
so no one else does.
862
00:42:00,852 --> 00:42:03,188
Well...
I think you should slow down.
863
00:42:03,188 --> 00:42:05,649
What do you think
I'm gonna do, be like, "Yes"?
864
00:42:05,649 --> 00:42:08,235
- What day is it? Like, God.
865
00:42:08,235 --> 00:42:12,406
He's basically, like, asking me.
Like, he really wants validation from me.
866
00:42:12,406 --> 00:42:14,032
But I'm not willing to give it to him.
867
00:42:14,032 --> 00:42:17,661
You have every right to take every day
to know. You know, what's the rush?
868
00:42:17,661 --> 00:42:18,912
What's the rush, babe?
869
00:42:20,414 --> 00:42:23,417
{\an8}- He's trying to stake his claim.
That's how I feel.
870
00:42:24,126 --> 00:42:27,129
{\an8}- That's not something you wanna rush into.
- No, no.
871
00:42:27,129 --> 00:42:30,549
I'd rather leave here single
than leave here in a rushed relationship.
872
00:42:30,549 --> 00:42:32,426
Okay, let's sit right here.
873
00:42:34,386 --> 00:42:38,223
Chelsea's telling him every day
how much she's, like, all in.
874
00:42:38,223 --> 00:42:40,892
{\an8}Like, ten out of ten,
head over heels, and he's like,
875
00:42:40,892 --> 00:42:44,605
"It's the only validation I'm getting.
I'm not getting any from you."
876
00:42:44,605 --> 00:42:47,983
Okay, so then, what?
- I don't know what to do about Paul.
877
00:42:47,983 --> 00:42:51,278
I feel like I need to, like, make sure,
like, why am I expending an effort on Paul
878
00:42:51,278 --> 00:42:52,613
if we can't get as deep as this?
879
00:42:52,613 --> 00:42:54,615
Or me and Paul are just not deep,
and that's fine.
880
00:42:54,615 --> 00:42:56,158
You have been deep with Paul.
881
00:42:56,158 --> 00:42:58,493
Why did you all of a sudden
wanna pick Paul out of nowhere?
882
00:43:09,630 --> 00:43:11,965
{\an8}I mean,
I definitely think I'm falling for him.
883
00:43:12,466 --> 00:43:14,092
{\an8}- Like, for real.
- Like, in love?
884
00:43:14,092 --> 00:43:15,385
{\an8}Oh, for sure.
885
00:43:15,385 --> 00:43:17,220
- Oh, my God.
- And I'm not afraid to say that.
886
00:43:17,220 --> 00:43:18,138
Yeah.
887
00:43:18,138 --> 00:43:19,723
He's such a just...
888
00:43:22,559 --> 00:43:24,394
As much as he has going on for him,
889
00:43:24,394 --> 00:43:27,314
{\an8}he's not one of these cocky dudes
that I always run into.
890
00:43:27,314 --> 00:43:28,273
Hmm.
891
00:43:28,273 --> 00:43:30,901
- I love how he got to be where he is now.
- Mm-hmm.
892
00:43:30,901 --> 00:43:33,153
I think that's what drives him
day after day.
893
00:43:33,153 --> 00:43:36,573
I love how much he cares about his family,
even though his family's not perfect.
894
00:43:36,573 --> 00:43:39,618
{\an8}Nobody's family is perfect,
but I feel like I want to, like...
895
00:43:40,452 --> 00:43:41,828
{\an8}pour into him.
896
00:43:42,412 --> 00:43:44,331
'Cause you love him.
- Yeah, it's weird.
897
00:43:44,331 --> 00:43:46,083
Falling in love.
Yeah.
898
00:43:46,083 --> 00:43:47,959
- That's what it feels like.
That's love.
899
00:43:47,959 --> 00:43:49,169
Yeah.
900
00:43:49,169 --> 00:43:50,587
It is gettin' real.
901
00:43:50,587 --> 00:43:53,298
Like, I'm feeling
really strong feelings for Tiffany,
902
00:43:53,298 --> 00:43:56,385
and it just-- it scares me.
903
00:43:58,136 --> 00:44:00,430
Can't let that control you.
Mm.
904
00:44:00,430 --> 00:44:02,641
Can't let that
dictate your future.
905
00:44:03,975 --> 00:44:07,729
Feel that strongly about someone...
you gotta take that leap.
906
00:44:07,729 --> 00:44:08,814
Mm-hmm.
907
00:44:08,814 --> 00:44:11,692
{\an8}- And just hold them tight.
- Hmm.
908
00:44:11,692 --> 00:44:13,276
{\an8}- Never let 'em go.
- Hmm.
909
00:44:13,276 --> 00:44:16,655
Love hurts,
but you can't let that stop you
910
00:44:17,322 --> 00:44:18,740
from what you deserve.
911
00:44:19,449 --> 00:44:21,993
- She's here. She's on the other side.
- Hmm.
912
00:44:22,869 --> 00:44:25,455
Take the leap, bro. Take the leap.
913
00:44:25,455 --> 00:44:28,792
Oh, my goodness!
914
00:44:28,792 --> 00:44:33,630
You know, Brett, there's times
when I just picture you in my head.
915
00:44:35,048 --> 00:44:37,300
I picture seeing you for the first time.
916
00:44:37,300 --> 00:44:40,303
I picture, like, hugging you so tight,
917
00:44:40,303 --> 00:44:45,058
and I just cannot wait to just hug you,
918
00:44:45,684 --> 00:44:48,812
and see you. Oh!
919
00:44:49,855 --> 00:44:52,232
You're seducing me, Tiffany.
- Am I?
920
00:44:52,232 --> 00:44:54,526
No, I'm joking.
921
00:44:54,526 --> 00:44:56,528
You seem like such a,
922
00:44:57,320 --> 00:45:00,699
like, understanding and nurturing
and loving person.
923
00:45:01,199 --> 00:45:02,451
The more I talk to you,
924
00:45:02,451 --> 00:45:06,079
I can feel your level
of comfort in talking to me.
925
00:45:06,079 --> 00:45:10,667
I feel so comfortable with you,
'cause I feel like you fully see who I am
926
00:45:10,667 --> 00:45:12,252
and accept me for me.
927
00:45:14,379 --> 00:45:18,133
And I don't think I've talked much
about my oldest brother.
928
00:45:18,133 --> 00:45:21,762
He was with his girlfriend
for, uh, ten years
929
00:45:21,762 --> 00:45:24,097
before they decided to get engaged.
930
00:45:26,183 --> 00:45:28,101
And my brother was just excited...
931
00:45:29,311 --> 00:45:31,188
about being married, um,
932
00:45:31,188 --> 00:45:34,566
so, you know, went to visit.
933
00:45:34,566 --> 00:45:38,153
We were, you know,
getting fitted for our, like, tuxedos,
934
00:45:39,613 --> 00:45:42,491
and, um, about a week later,
935
00:45:42,491 --> 00:45:44,576
his fiancée called me at 3:00 a.m.
and was like,
936
00:45:45,118 --> 00:45:48,330
"Hey, I haven't heard from Marvin
in a few hours."
937
00:45:48,330 --> 00:45:50,832
"Have you-- have you heard from him?"
938
00:45:50,832 --> 00:45:52,042
And I'm like, "No."
939
00:45:52,751 --> 00:45:56,588
I'm just, like, almost to a fault,
just such an optimistic person.
940
00:45:57,172 --> 00:45:59,800
- Mm-hmm.
So, I'm thinking he's good.
941
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:04,304
Like, he just hasn't been able
to get to a phone, so, um,
942
00:46:05,430 --> 00:46:06,598
I went on to work,
943
00:46:06,598 --> 00:46:09,935
and... his-- his fiancée calls me,
944
00:46:09,935 --> 00:46:11,561
and I can just...
945
00:46:11,561 --> 00:46:14,773
And her voice is just super--
just-- just, like-- like, firm,
946
00:46:14,773 --> 00:46:17,317
and she just says, "Brett, come home."
947
00:46:18,568 --> 00:46:19,694
"Brett, come home."
948
00:46:23,865 --> 00:46:27,244
And then a few minutes later,
my brother calls me.
949
00:46:30,247 --> 00:46:33,041
And the moment I pick up the phone,
I just hear him crying, just like--
950
00:46:34,334 --> 00:46:36,211
Just crying.
951
00:46:37,045 --> 00:46:39,923
Um, and he's like, "He's gone. He's gone."
952
00:46:39,923 --> 00:46:43,176
I'm like, "What are you talking about?"
He's like, "He's gone. He's gone."
953
00:46:44,678 --> 00:46:46,221
My oldest brother is gone?
954
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:51,142
Less than five minutes from his house,
955
00:46:51,142 --> 00:46:53,687
he somehow lost control of his car.
956
00:46:54,938 --> 00:46:58,024
And, um, ran off the road.
957
00:46:59,109 --> 00:47:03,697
So, instead of going to a wedding,
958
00:47:03,697 --> 00:47:06,157
our family is getting together
to go to a funeral.
959
00:47:10,328 --> 00:47:12,998
Brett,
I'm really sorry to hear that.
960
00:47:14,416 --> 00:47:16,418
Going through that experience
961
00:47:16,418 --> 00:47:19,004
really made me aware of,
like, my mortality.
962
00:47:19,004 --> 00:47:20,046
Mm-hmm.
963
00:47:20,046 --> 00:47:23,174
Like, you can picture
this great future with somebody,
964
00:47:23,174 --> 00:47:29,014
and then you literally wake up one day,
and this person is gone.
965
00:47:29,639 --> 00:47:31,266
- That thought...
966
00:47:31,266 --> 00:47:32,517
...like, terrifies me.
967
00:47:32,517 --> 00:47:34,019
Mm-hmm.
968
00:47:35,812 --> 00:47:41,610
I do find myself thinking
about, like, a future with you.
969
00:47:42,861 --> 00:47:48,450
And what if we have
this great relationship and then...
970
00:47:50,243 --> 00:47:51,453
in a year something happened?
971
00:47:53,079 --> 00:47:55,248
And, like, I don't--
I don't wanna go through that.
972
00:48:00,295 --> 00:48:03,465
Your reservations
and your feelings are valid, like, period.
973
00:48:03,465 --> 00:48:07,510
But I-- I'm not scared about
974
00:48:08,803 --> 00:48:11,598
falling for you
and knowing what this could be.
975
00:48:12,474 --> 00:48:14,935
Like, I go into this very hopeful.
976
00:48:16,353 --> 00:48:19,397
Giving you the support
and love that I think...
977
00:48:20,231 --> 00:48:22,108
that I think you deserve.
978
00:48:23,109 --> 00:48:26,947
When I'm in it, I am fully invested,
979
00:48:28,114 --> 00:48:32,577
and I will try my hardest
to make this work.
980
00:48:32,577 --> 00:48:35,956
I am not the type of person
to give up on anything.
981
00:48:35,956 --> 00:48:37,791
-♪ Give me hope... ♪
982
00:48:38,583 --> 00:48:42,045
Starting to really become aware
of how into you I am.
983
00:48:48,343 --> 00:48:50,178
♪ Give me hope... ♪
984
00:48:52,681 --> 00:48:54,015
Did you bring flowers?
985
00:48:54,015 --> 00:48:56,518
I have not had flowers brought for me
in such a long time.
986
00:48:56,518 --> 00:48:57,435
Uh-uh.
987
00:48:57,435 --> 00:49:01,648
{\an8}Amber and I connected on multiple levels.
She's got, like, a good sexual energy,
988
00:49:01,648 --> 00:49:04,609
and then she's also got
a good social energy.
989
00:49:04,609 --> 00:49:08,780
And I think to have them both is crucial
for somebody that you wanna
990
00:49:09,531 --> 00:49:10,949
hopefully start a family with.
991
00:49:10,949 --> 00:49:15,328
I'm wearing my romantic date shirt.
Black with, like, little red roses on it.
992
00:49:15,328 --> 00:49:17,247
{\an8}Aw, we would have been matching yesterday.
993
00:49:17,247 --> 00:49:19,249
We'll go matchy-matchy in Mexico.
994
00:49:19,249 --> 00:49:21,960
- Do you sleep in the nude?
- No, I don't sleep in the nude.
995
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,254
I do.
- Yeah?
996
00:49:24,254 --> 00:49:26,589
- I thought I told you that last time.
No.
997
00:49:26,589 --> 00:49:29,217
- Must have been your other girlfriend.
- Must've been.
998
00:49:29,217 --> 00:49:30,635
Eww!
- I tease.
999
00:49:30,635 --> 00:49:33,304
- Literally nobody compares to me.
Literally.
1000
00:49:33,304 --> 00:49:35,015
Except for Bliss, but she's taken.
1001
00:49:35,015 --> 00:49:37,851
Did you talk to Bliss about,
um, what she thought of me
1002
00:49:37,851 --> 00:49:39,728
when we went on, like, two dates?
1003
00:49:39,728 --> 00:49:42,772
- I don't think she hadn't much to say.
Yeah, I wouldn't think so.
1004
00:49:43,356 --> 00:49:46,693
- Did you ask her if she needed glasses?
- Did I ask her if she needs glasses?
1005
00:49:46,693 --> 00:49:48,903
Yeah, 'cause she couldn't see
what you see in me.
1006
00:49:49,529 --> 00:49:53,074
- Oh, my God.
1007
00:49:53,074 --> 00:49:54,409
You're the worst!
1008
00:49:54,409 --> 00:49:57,620
My cheesy dad jokes.
This means I'm ready to be a dad, right?
1009
00:49:57,620 --> 00:50:00,165
I can't wait to be a mom.
I'm very excited about it.
1010
00:50:00,165 --> 00:50:02,792
You're like,
"That sounds kind of good."
1011
00:50:02,792 --> 00:50:05,336
What else do we need to know
to... to get married?
1012
00:50:05,336 --> 00:50:07,964
We're pretty much on the same page
about kids, religion.
1013
00:50:07,964 --> 00:50:11,134
- Nervous you won't like what I look like?
- No chance.
1014
00:50:11,134 --> 00:50:13,762
I definitely want a wedding.
I wanna the big fancy dress.
1015
00:50:13,762 --> 00:50:16,056
- I wanna walk down the aisle again and--
Yeah.
1016
00:50:16,056 --> 00:50:18,391
-"Again." Oh, God.
- Again?
1017
00:50:18,391 --> 00:50:21,811
I didn't mean to say it like that,
but I want to walk down the aisle.
1018
00:50:24,397 --> 00:50:26,066
- I married this fool.
Right.
1019
00:50:26,066 --> 00:50:29,319
You know, and he got
with somebody shortly after,
1020
00:50:29,319 --> 00:50:30,779
and I just remember that rage.
1021
00:50:30,779 --> 00:50:32,989
- Like, literally, I was just so mad.
- Right.
1022
00:50:32,989 --> 00:50:35,325
Like, your head
just spins around backwards.
1023
00:50:35,325 --> 00:50:36,242
Yeah.
1024
00:50:36,242 --> 00:50:41,623
I just took a lot of time to heal,
but I don't wanna be jaded.
1025
00:50:41,623 --> 00:50:43,750
I want the love that I deserve, and,
1026
00:50:43,750 --> 00:50:46,461
I hope that I, you know,
1027
00:50:47,587 --> 00:50:48,630
can find that.
1028
00:50:49,631 --> 00:50:51,925
Have you ever cheated on a spouse?
1029
00:50:51,925 --> 00:50:54,219
- Or would you?
- I'd like to think that I wouldn't.
1030
00:50:54,219 --> 00:50:56,679
But I think that it would have led
down to that road.
1031
00:50:56,679 --> 00:50:58,640
- Just because I wasn't happy.
- Yeah.
1032
00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:00,642
I think there's always
an underlying issue.
1033
00:51:00,642 --> 00:51:02,060
It doesn't make it okay.
1034
00:51:02,060 --> 00:51:04,145
Yeah.
- But there's always a reason.
1035
00:51:08,358 --> 00:51:10,110
Kind of a red flag.
1036
00:51:10,110 --> 00:51:12,320
Wait, you think that's a red flag with me?
1037
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:13,404
A little bit.
1038
00:51:13,404 --> 00:51:17,408
That was in the past. Like,
if you're asking me now, like, hell no.
1039
00:51:17,408 --> 00:51:20,286
Before it got to that point,
like, I would end it.
1040
00:51:20,286 --> 00:51:23,331
- Yeah. That's the right thing to do.
Do you know what I mean?
1041
00:51:23,331 --> 00:51:26,709
I mean, and that was a hypothetical.
You know, like, it didn't happen.
1042
00:51:27,293 --> 00:51:29,337
But no, I would never cheat
on you.
1043
00:51:29,337 --> 00:51:31,172
Because that is not who I am.
1044
00:51:31,172 --> 00:51:32,507
I'll believe you.
1045
00:51:35,343 --> 00:51:37,846
I feel weird. I feel really anxious
right now. I don't know why.
1046
00:51:37,846 --> 00:51:39,013
Do you? I'm sorry.
1047
00:51:39,889 --> 00:51:41,474
You should be sorry.
1048
00:51:42,809 --> 00:51:45,061
- I really don't wanna make you anxious.
1049
00:51:47,397 --> 00:51:50,024
- You're a sweet something.
Sometimes.
1050
00:51:50,024 --> 00:51:51,985
- Sometimes.
Except for when I'm not.
1051
00:51:51,985 --> 00:51:55,238
Which is sometimes, like, right now.
Feeling a little salty.
1052
00:51:55,238 --> 00:51:57,157
Are you salty?
- A bit.
1053
00:51:57,157 --> 00:52:01,536
Oof. Well, it's a good thing
I'm more of a salty guy than a sweet guy.
1054
00:52:04,789 --> 00:52:06,249
I love who you are.
1055
00:52:07,250 --> 00:52:08,918
Oh, there's that word.
1056
00:52:08,918 --> 00:52:10,420
Am I scaring you?
1057
00:52:10,420 --> 00:52:12,380
No, that doesn't scare me.
1058
00:52:12,380 --> 00:52:16,676
I think that there is
a greater than likely chance that
1059
00:52:17,635 --> 00:52:21,139
you and I could seriously
walk out of here together.
1060
00:52:21,139 --> 00:52:24,559
- ♪ I just want to be lost with you ♪
1061
00:52:25,768 --> 00:52:29,939
♪ There's nothing else
That I would rather do ♪
1062
00:52:30,982 --> 00:52:33,443
♪ It don't matter where I'm going ♪
1063
00:52:33,443 --> 00:52:36,029
♪ I could stay here in this moment ♪
1064
00:52:37,071 --> 00:52:39,324
♪ Being lost with you... ♪
1065
00:52:39,324 --> 00:52:41,826
Oh, my God. I'm gonna drop shit.
1066
00:52:46,206 --> 00:52:48,208
Oh, my God. So, these are so pretty.
1067
00:52:48,208 --> 00:52:50,543
- I'm hot.
- Wait, these are so gorgeous.
1068
00:52:50,543 --> 00:52:53,046
I know, aren't they pretty?
- Peonies are my favorite.
1069
00:52:53,046 --> 00:52:54,589
{\an8}- Someone give you these?
Yes.
1070
00:52:54,589 --> 00:52:57,884
{\an8}- You need this. You need this.
These are so fucking cute.
1071
00:52:57,884 --> 00:53:00,261
Babe, these are so pretty.
1072
00:53:00,261 --> 00:53:02,513
These are, like,
the most beautiful flowers.
1073
00:53:02,513 --> 00:53:06,768
Oh, my God, these are so fucking cute
and bright, just like you.
1074
00:53:08,853 --> 00:53:11,147
Been a hot minute
since somebody bought me flowers.
1075
00:53:11,147 --> 00:53:13,316
I'm sorry.
I would marry that person if I was you.
1076
00:53:15,610 --> 00:53:17,946
Me planning out every
worst-case scenario that can happen.
1077
00:53:17,946 --> 00:53:19,948
- I know. Look at this.
A bow tie?
1078
00:53:19,948 --> 00:53:22,325
Look, she's on a date with Paul.
Look at her little things.
1079
00:53:22,325 --> 00:53:23,826
- What?
She went with Paul.
1080
00:53:23,826 --> 00:53:25,662
I'm like, that's actually really funny.
1081
00:53:26,829 --> 00:53:27,664
Looks boring.
1082
00:53:28,248 --> 00:53:31,125
Oh, Mardi Gras was
what I picked for his date and--
1083
00:53:31,125 --> 00:53:32,877
Wait, that's so you.
1084
00:53:32,877 --> 00:53:34,629
- That's cute.
1085
00:53:38,841 --> 00:53:41,135
Why does Mardi Gras sound
like something they would do?
1086
00:53:41,135 --> 00:53:42,887
- I don't know why.
1087
00:53:42,887 --> 00:53:44,055
Mardi Gras?
1088
00:53:45,348 --> 00:53:46,641
Loser!
1089
00:53:47,850 --> 00:53:49,894
These are my wedding flowers.
1090
00:53:49,894 --> 00:53:51,813
Oh, I love peonies.
1091
00:53:51,813 --> 00:53:54,107
♪ They like my shoes, they like my hair ♪
1092
00:53:54,107 --> 00:53:55,984
♪ They like my clothes, try not to stare ♪
1093
00:53:55,984 --> 00:53:57,735
{\an8}♪ Glamor lights, but I don't care ♪
1094
00:53:57,735 --> 00:54:00,363
{\an8}♪ Focus on my dreams
'Cause I'm almost there ♪
1095
00:54:00,363 --> 00:54:03,116
Since day one,
I've had Micah as my number one.
1096
00:54:03,116 --> 00:54:04,033
Mm-hmm.
1097
00:54:04,742 --> 00:54:07,537
{\an8}- We've always been there.
Mm. Mm-hmm.
1098
00:54:07,537 --> 00:54:11,499
It's, like, escalated or, you know,
kind of gone up in a very steady pattern.
1099
00:54:11,499 --> 00:54:12,542
Yeah, grown.
1100
00:54:12,542 --> 00:54:14,419
- Which is good. Steady is good.
Mm-hmm.
1101
00:54:14,419 --> 00:54:16,254
- Steady and up is good.
Yeah.
1102
00:54:16,254 --> 00:54:19,173
Everything I want
in a woman is there, is in Micah.
1103
00:54:19,173 --> 00:54:20,675
- You know?
Mm-hmm.
1104
00:54:21,342 --> 00:54:24,846
{\an8}I love Kwame. I think he's a great guy,
but I definitely feel pressured
1105
00:54:24,846 --> 00:54:27,515
to make a move on either Amber or Micah.
1106
00:54:27,515 --> 00:54:32,520
I've realized what it would feel like
if Micah were to end it,
1107
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:36,649
and it's that feeling that just puts me
damn near in a fight-or-flight.
1108
00:54:36,649 --> 00:54:39,527
- ♪ I have no control ♪
1109
00:54:43,531 --> 00:54:46,034
♪ I have no control ♪
1110
00:54:46,034 --> 00:54:47,076
Hello.
1111
00:54:50,330 --> 00:54:51,789
I feel like
1112
00:54:51,789 --> 00:54:53,374
I'm gonna fall in love.
1113
00:54:53,374 --> 00:54:55,585
Do you feel like
you're gonna fall in love?
1114
00:54:55,585 --> 00:54:56,669
Yeah, I do.
1115
00:54:58,588 --> 00:55:00,757
Yeah, it's gonna be stupid.
1116
00:55:02,759 --> 00:55:06,429
Does that mean you're just over there,
like, telling Amber you love her?
1117
00:55:07,472 --> 00:55:10,475
I've definitely felt,
like, really good about her,
1118
00:55:10,475 --> 00:55:12,310
and I've felt, like, really,
1119
00:55:13,811 --> 00:55:18,024
you know, like, connected,
and I like the idea of, like, us together.
1120
00:55:22,111 --> 00:55:25,656
I don't know. I-- I feel like that's not,
exactly what I wanted to, like, hear.
1121
00:55:25,656 --> 00:55:27,909
You kind of feel like...
1122
00:55:27,909 --> 00:55:29,327
... like you're unsure about me.
1123
00:55:29,327 --> 00:55:31,204
If I felt like
1124
00:55:31,913 --> 00:55:36,709
you were all-in with me,
and you wanted to move forward,
1125
00:55:36,709 --> 00:55:40,046
like, just us, then I would have said
that I wanted to do the same.
1126
00:55:41,339 --> 00:55:43,591
But, like, I feel like
that's not where you are.
1127
00:55:44,842 --> 00:55:47,553
And, like, it kind of,
like, makes me feel sad.
1128
00:55:52,266 --> 00:55:56,229
Whenever you think about me
and you think about Kwame, and,
1129
00:55:56,229 --> 00:55:59,816
um, who do you see yourself
1130
00:56:00,900 --> 00:56:02,151
saying "yes" to?
1131
00:56:05,822 --> 00:56:08,241
I mean, it's really clear to me.
1132
00:56:08,825 --> 00:56:10,034
Really?
- Yeah.
1133
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:13,830
And, like, that person
that I would say yes to is you.
1134
00:56:17,583 --> 00:56:22,463
Do you think if we agreed
to just go for each other,
1135
00:56:22,463 --> 00:56:24,882
maybe you wouldn't feel risky
to me anymore?
1136
00:56:26,050 --> 00:56:27,093
I think so.
1137
00:56:35,810 --> 00:56:36,894
Let's do it, then.
1138
00:56:36,894 --> 00:56:39,856
- ♪ I wanna be so happy... ♪
1139
00:56:44,569 --> 00:56:46,070
Sorry, Kwame, but...
1140
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:48,531
I prefer me.
1141
00:56:50,825 --> 00:56:53,369
I have, like, a really dorky,
like, smile over here.
1142
00:56:53,369 --> 00:56:55,496
Yeah? Me too.
- All the way.
1143
00:56:56,330 --> 00:56:57,540
Oh, God, we're so cute.
1144
00:56:58,124 --> 00:57:00,168
Are we?
- Like a little couple.
1145
00:57:00,668 --> 00:57:01,669
Aww.
1146
00:57:01,669 --> 00:57:03,254
♪ Happy ♪
1147
00:57:04,380 --> 00:57:07,717
♪ Hap-hap-hap happy ♪
1148
00:57:08,509 --> 00:57:11,053
- I feel like I'm gonna explode, like...
1149
00:57:11,053 --> 00:57:13,514
I feel like my whole body's
gonna just, like, catch fire.
1150
00:57:13,514 --> 00:57:14,932
Like, I feel,
1151
00:57:15,892 --> 00:57:19,520
like, a desire for you
in every cell of my body, like...
1152
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:21,647
I never wanna, like,
push anyone to do something
1153
00:57:21,647 --> 00:57:24,317
'cause they're, like,
scared of the outcome.
1154
00:57:24,317 --> 00:57:27,403
I don't want you to be like,
"Yeah, like, let's do that,"
1155
00:57:27,987 --> 00:57:30,698
but you only said that
not because, like, you wanted to,
1156
00:57:30,698 --> 00:57:32,992
just because you were scared
it would make me walk away.
1157
00:57:32,992 --> 00:57:36,078
When I think of love, I think of you.
1158
00:57:37,413 --> 00:57:39,123
Let's do it. Let's make it happen.
1159
00:57:42,418 --> 00:57:43,711
And how would we do that?
1160
00:57:44,921 --> 00:57:46,005
Um, well,
1161
00:57:46,005 --> 00:57:48,841
I would probably start by having to...
1162
00:57:48,841 --> 00:57:52,178
...tell other people that, um--
1163
00:57:52,178 --> 00:57:55,848
Other people? Okay, full roster.
It's one person, you dork.
1164
00:57:57,600 --> 00:57:59,936
Okay, Busy Boy.
Busy Boy.
1165
00:57:59,936 --> 00:58:02,396
So, now what?
- I have to talk to Amber.
1166
00:58:03,606 --> 00:58:06,025
Are you still feeling,
like, sure about that?
1167
00:58:06,817 --> 00:58:08,277
Yeah. I--
1168
00:58:08,277 --> 00:58:11,197
- Why is your "yeah" so soft?
You know, I did connect with her.
1169
00:58:11,197 --> 00:58:13,950
Are you, like, 100% gonna do that tonight?
1170
00:58:14,784 --> 00:58:17,662
Um, yeah. I mean, I will.
1171
00:58:18,412 --> 00:58:21,582
Are you gonna drag it out? Are you gonna
tell her at the beginning of your date?
1172
00:58:21,582 --> 00:58:23,918
Um, I don't even know
how I'm gonna say it,
1173
00:58:23,918 --> 00:58:25,670
but, like, she's not gonna take it well.
1174
00:58:25,670 --> 00:58:28,589
Unfortunately, she's not
gonna take it good at all.
1175
00:58:28,589 --> 00:58:29,507
Paul.
1176
00:58:34,136 --> 00:58:36,222
We know what we gotta do.
1177
00:58:36,222 --> 00:58:38,099
Yeah.
- Buckle up, buttercup.
1178
00:58:52,863 --> 00:58:55,199
Fuck, fuck, fuck.
1179
00:58:55,199 --> 00:59:00,997
♪ You said, "I'll be here until the end" ♪
1180
00:59:09,463 --> 00:59:11,632
♪ Girl, that's so good ♪
1181
00:59:11,632 --> 00:59:16,053
♪ I've been looking
For a long, long time for you... ♪
1182
00:59:18,014 --> 00:59:20,141
I came here to find a wife.
1183
00:59:20,141 --> 00:59:22,852
With Tiffany, something about this
just feels right.
1184
00:59:22,852 --> 00:59:25,021
{\an8}What are the chances
that something comes along
1185
00:59:25,021 --> 00:59:27,148
{\an8}that actually kind of changes your life?
1186
00:59:27,148 --> 00:59:30,276
Being single for so long,
and just, like, never really feeling
1187
00:59:30,276 --> 00:59:32,612
like I'm really connecting with anyone,
1188
00:59:32,612 --> 00:59:35,072
and never really feeling like I'm talking
1189
00:59:35,072 --> 00:59:37,908
to anyone who like, fully, fully,
like, understands me,
1190
00:59:37,908 --> 00:59:40,286
and gets me,
and wants me to be a better person...
1191
00:59:40,286 --> 00:59:43,080
I have no doubt she will be there forever.
1192
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:46,250
- Hello?
- Brett! Hi!
1193
00:59:46,250 --> 00:59:48,252
Tiffany's just an amazing woman,
1194
00:59:48,252 --> 00:59:50,880
and I... I can't wait
to spend the future with her.
1195
00:59:53,591 --> 00:59:56,135
Oh, my gosh!
1196
00:59:56,135 --> 01:00:00,139
Wait, there's this white shoe in here.
1197
01:00:00,139 --> 01:00:04,602
So, the shoe is actually a shoe
that I designed for myself
1198
01:00:04,602 --> 01:00:06,979
while I was still working
in the games industry.
1199
01:00:06,979 --> 01:00:09,482
I wasn't aware at the time of where
1200
01:00:09,482 --> 01:00:12,777
that thing that I was doing
for fun would take me.
1201
01:00:13,736 --> 01:00:18,366
So, in some ways, for me,
I guess it just represents, just...
1202
01:00:20,076 --> 01:00:21,827
- Your beginning.
- Yeah.
1203
01:00:22,328 --> 01:00:26,457
- Yeah.
- And just following what makes you happy.
1204
01:00:26,457 --> 01:00:30,211
And when you do that, I think
good things are always gonna come to you.
1205
01:00:30,795 --> 01:00:36,217
♪ Be my one and only love ♪
1206
01:00:38,219 --> 01:00:42,223
I'm just so inspired by you.
I wanna be a better person for you.
1207
01:00:42,807 --> 01:00:45,685
Um, and I think
that's what love should be.
1208
01:00:46,477 --> 01:00:48,813
I already feel
as though I'm in love with you.
1209
01:00:48,813 --> 01:00:52,024
♪ Will you be my love? ♪
1210
01:00:53,109 --> 01:00:55,069
♪ Be my love? ♪
1211
01:00:57,321 --> 01:00:59,990
Wow, Tiffany.
- Are you running away now?
1212
01:00:59,990 --> 01:01:04,078
No, I am not running away
1213
01:01:05,663 --> 01:01:06,539
at all.
1214
01:01:06,539 --> 01:01:08,582
It just wasn't a word
1215
01:01:08,582 --> 01:01:12,378
that I just ever really heard
1216
01:01:12,962 --> 01:01:13,879
in my life.
1217
01:01:13,879 --> 01:01:15,423
And...
1218
01:01:15,423 --> 01:01:17,216
...I guess something, you know,
1219
01:01:17,216 --> 01:01:20,428
an area that I really wanna grow in
as a person
1220
01:01:20,428 --> 01:01:22,555
is just being more comfortable...
1221
01:01:25,224 --> 01:01:26,600
with that word.
1222
01:01:27,101 --> 01:01:30,396
Mm-hmm.
- You are special, Tiffany.
1223
01:01:33,399 --> 01:01:36,652
I truly feel like we're,
like, the perfect match.
1224
01:01:44,452 --> 01:01:45,369
Are you there?
1225
01:01:50,166 --> 01:01:51,000
Hello?
1226
01:02:00,468 --> 01:02:01,343
Hello?
1227
01:02:04,889 --> 01:02:05,973
Hello, hello.
1228
01:02:32,583 --> 01:02:33,459
Tiffany?
1229
01:02:56,982 --> 01:02:58,609
Good or bad?
No, bad.
1230
01:02:58,609 --> 01:03:04,573
Like, literally our conversation was,
"I think I'm falling in love with you."
1231
01:03:04,573 --> 01:03:06,450
- Oh!
- Bro!
1232
01:03:06,450 --> 01:03:08,786
And then I'm telling her how I feel.
1233
01:03:09,286 --> 01:03:10,746
I'm talking. It's quiet.
1234
01:03:11,997 --> 01:03:12,832
"Hello?"
1235
01:03:14,458 --> 01:03:15,459
Come on.
1236
01:03:15,459 --> 01:03:17,586
She even told you
her biggest thing is trust.
1237
01:03:17,586 --> 01:03:20,130
- Brett. Ugh.
Like, come on!
1238
01:03:20,130 --> 01:03:22,675
It's like fumbling
at the one-yard line, literally.
1239
01:03:22,675 --> 01:03:25,010
- No.
Sat there and waited.
1240
01:03:25,010 --> 01:03:26,095
Like, I'm done.
1241
01:03:27,513 --> 01:03:28,430
I'm done.
1242
01:03:34,895 --> 01:03:39,358
-♪ Let the games begin ♪
1243
01:03:43,445 --> 01:03:49,368
♪ There's a fire
And it's blazing in my heart ♪
1244
01:03:50,911 --> 01:03:57,376
♪ True, let's take it back
Right to the start ♪
1245
01:03:59,461 --> 01:04:04,383
♪ Don't play with fire, fire ♪
1246
01:04:04,383 --> 01:04:06,385
♪ Fire ♪
1247
01:04:06,385 --> 01:04:10,389
{\an8}♪ Don't play with fire, uh ♪