1 00:00:06,007 --> 00:00:08,009 [dramatic music playing] 2 00:00:11,054 --> 00:00:12,889 {\an8}[Chelsea sighs] Well, here goes nothing. 3 00:00:14,724 --> 00:00:16,976 {\an8}- Hi! - [Chelsea] Hi, Dad! 4 00:00:16,976 --> 00:00:18,436 {\an8}Chelsea, how are you? 5 00:00:18,436 --> 00:00:20,563 {\an8}I'm good. Thanks for coming. 6 00:00:20,563 --> 00:00:21,564 {\an8}Oh, my goodness. 7 00:00:21,564 --> 00:00:23,775 {\an8}- Hello, hello. - Dad, this is Kwame. 8 00:00:23,775 --> 00:00:25,693 {\an8}- This is my dad Charlie. - Hey, Charlie. 9 00:00:25,693 --> 00:00:27,862 {\an8}- Nice to meet you. - Nice to meet you as well. 10 00:00:27,862 --> 00:00:29,447 - All right. - Come on in. 11 00:00:29,447 --> 00:00:30,823 Dad, take a seat. 12 00:00:33,659 --> 00:00:37,747 We both got, you know, the opportunity 13 00:00:37,747 --> 00:00:42,043 to engage in this social love experiment. 14 00:00:42,043 --> 00:00:43,336 [Charlie] Mm-hmm. 15 00:00:43,336 --> 00:00:46,881 And we dated a lot of people. We do not see one another. 16 00:00:46,881 --> 00:00:50,510 The idea is that you're kind of getting to the core of your values. 17 00:00:50,510 --> 00:00:53,054 You're being vulnerable, talking about your life, your stories. 18 00:00:53,054 --> 00:00:54,430 What made you who you are. 19 00:00:54,430 --> 00:00:56,015 [Charlie] Mm-hmm. 20 00:00:56,015 --> 00:00:58,976 Can we have this connection beyond the physical? 21 00:00:58,976 --> 00:01:00,978 - Mm-hmm. - [Chelsea] Um, and we did. 22 00:01:00,978 --> 00:01:02,396 It really just felt right. 23 00:01:02,396 --> 00:01:06,109 - [Charlie] Hmm. - And the idea is, you know, is love blind? 24 00:01:06,109 --> 00:01:08,903 Can you fall in love with somebody without ever seeing them? 25 00:01:09,946 --> 00:01:12,573 And we fell in love blind. 26 00:01:13,199 --> 00:01:15,201 And at the end, 27 00:01:16,327 --> 00:01:17,829 he proposed to me. 28 00:01:19,539 --> 00:01:20,373 Okay. 29 00:01:20,373 --> 00:01:22,708 - Um, and I said yes. - [laughing] 30 00:01:23,209 --> 00:01:24,627 Oh, you did? 31 00:01:24,627 --> 00:01:26,838 [Kwame and Chelsea laughing] 32 00:01:26,838 --> 00:01:28,965 Well, isn't that something? 33 00:01:28,965 --> 00:01:31,050 [laughing] 34 00:01:32,343 --> 00:01:35,805 - I'm so happy for you, honey. - Yeah, thanks, Dad. 35 00:01:35,805 --> 00:01:38,349 Oh, my gosh. Well, that's amazing. 36 00:01:39,267 --> 00:01:40,101 [both] Yeah. 37 00:01:40,101 --> 00:01:41,102 I'll be darned. 38 00:01:42,061 --> 00:01:45,064 Um, I'm shocked. 39 00:01:45,064 --> 00:01:47,358 Okay, guys, let's eat. Come on up. 40 00:01:47,358 --> 00:01:51,946 {\an8}But I'm super hopeful that the rest of my family will accept Kwame 41 00:01:51,946 --> 00:01:55,199 and will understand our connection and our relationship. 42 00:01:55,199 --> 00:01:56,617 Just as much as my dad does. 43 00:01:57,660 --> 00:01:59,996 You're in Portland. You're in Seattle. How's that gonna work? 44 00:01:59,996 --> 00:02:03,958 Our plan is to kind of stay here, settle here for a couple of years. 45 00:02:03,958 --> 00:02:06,127 And then, who knows? 46 00:02:08,296 --> 00:02:11,048 - It's a lot of variables, a lot of work. - [Chelsea] Yeah, it is. 47 00:02:11,048 --> 00:02:14,969 - [Kwame] Mm-hmm. - But, uh, hey, life's too short. 48 00:02:14,969 --> 00:02:17,471 And it's better to be shared. 49 00:02:17,471 --> 00:02:19,015 - Yeah. - Yeah, you got a teammate. 50 00:02:19,015 --> 00:02:21,392 - Yeah, you got a teammate. - [Kwame] Yeah. 51 00:02:21,392 --> 00:02:23,686 It seems like you're in favor of what we have going on, 52 00:02:23,686 --> 00:02:25,688 but just wanted to know from you, like, 53 00:02:25,688 --> 00:02:28,107 do-- do I have your blessing to move forward? 54 00:02:31,694 --> 00:02:33,362 Absolutely. 55 00:02:34,238 --> 00:02:36,532 - You guys, I'm so happy for you. - Thanks, Dad. 56 00:02:36,532 --> 00:02:38,284 - Well, thank you. - Yeah. 57 00:02:38,868 --> 00:02:41,829 - Mmm! We love you, Dad. Thank you so much. - Yeah, cheers, Charlie. 58 00:02:41,829 --> 00:02:43,456 - I'm so happy for you guys. - [laughing] 59 00:02:43,456 --> 00:02:46,042 - Thank you, Dad. - [all laughing] 60 00:02:46,042 --> 00:02:49,128 You're getting a good deal on Chelsea. I'll tell you a story-- 61 00:02:49,128 --> 00:02:52,256 - You're get-- [laughing] - You're getting a good deal. 62 00:02:52,256 --> 00:02:54,133 - Getting a discount. - You're getting-- 63 00:02:54,133 --> 00:02:55,801 [laughing] 64 00:02:55,801 --> 00:02:58,429 "You're getting a good deal on my daughter." 65 00:02:58,429 --> 00:02:59,931 - [laughing] - On sale! 66 00:02:59,931 --> 00:03:04,227 I love you so much, Kwame. You can have her 75% off. 67 00:03:04,227 --> 00:03:06,270 [laughing] 68 00:03:06,270 --> 00:03:09,232 [pop music playing] 69 00:03:09,941 --> 00:03:11,734 {\an8}♪ No one like you ♪ 70 00:03:14,654 --> 00:03:17,406 - [Paul] So, how was the flight? - [woman] Oh, it was great. 71 00:03:17,406 --> 00:03:18,783 It wasn't too long? 72 00:03:18,783 --> 00:03:23,537 It was not. And either I was running on adrenaline or it just somehow... 73 00:03:23,537 --> 00:03:26,666 {\an8}I had no anxiety. It was so much fun. 74 00:03:26,666 --> 00:03:29,001 {\an8}No turbulence or anything. 75 00:03:29,001 --> 00:03:31,087 {\an8}[Paul] I'm super excited for Micah to meet my mom. 76 00:03:31,087 --> 00:03:33,798 She has flown in today. She came all the way from New Orleans. 77 00:03:33,798 --> 00:03:37,009 - I can't wait for you to meet Micah. - Oh, I can't wait. I can't wait! 78 00:03:37,009 --> 00:03:40,179 {\an8}So, there wasn't a whole lot of conversation between me and my mom 79 00:03:40,179 --> 00:03:41,389 {\an8}on, like, who Micah was. 80 00:03:41,389 --> 00:03:45,685 {\an8}Like, I wanted her to judge her for herself, and I hope she likes her. 81 00:03:46,310 --> 00:03:48,604 What was it that drew you to her the most? 82 00:03:48,604 --> 00:03:52,024 What drew me to her initially was actually, like, this intuitive feeling. 83 00:03:52,024 --> 00:03:55,861 To me, I know, like, I can't talk to everyone like you can. 84 00:03:55,861 --> 00:03:56,779 [Elizabeth] Uh-huh. 85 00:03:56,779 --> 00:04:00,074 So, I know that if I can talk to her like that, 86 00:04:00,074 --> 00:04:01,617 then there's something special there. 87 00:04:01,617 --> 00:04:02,576 Right. 88 00:04:02,576 --> 00:04:04,704 {\an8}Hello? Hi! 89 00:04:04,704 --> 00:04:08,624 {\an8}- [Elizabeth] Hi! - [laughing] So nice to meet you. 90 00:04:08,624 --> 00:04:11,252 - [Elizabeth] You are gorgeous! - You're so cute. 91 00:04:11,252 --> 00:04:15,381 - I might cry, and I'm not a crier. - [laughs] I'm so excited! 92 00:04:15,381 --> 00:04:17,675 - [Paul] Come sit. - Whew! That was tough. [laughs] 93 00:04:17,675 --> 00:04:20,511 - We have matching hair. - [laughing] 94 00:04:21,304 --> 00:04:22,555 - Yeah. - Oh, wow! 95 00:04:22,555 --> 00:04:23,514 [Micah] Oh, my God. 96 00:04:23,514 --> 00:04:25,308 [chuckles] Trying to make some room. 97 00:04:25,308 --> 00:04:27,184 [Elizabeth] Oh, nice. 98 00:04:27,184 --> 00:04:30,396 [chuckles] I cannot believe you're engaged. 99 00:04:30,396 --> 00:04:31,480 - [laughs] - Yeah. [laughs] 100 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,775 - I have wanted this for him for so long. - [Micah laughs] 101 00:04:34,775 --> 00:04:39,155 I mean he's so-- Oh, such a sweetheart. 102 00:04:39,155 --> 00:04:41,407 - Hard to picture, huh? - [Elizabeth] Yeah. 103 00:04:41,407 --> 00:04:43,075 - [laughing] - [Elizabeth] Yeah. 104 00:04:43,075 --> 00:04:45,911 Well, because I'm the mom, the helicopter mom. 105 00:04:45,911 --> 00:04:47,163 [laughing] 106 00:04:47,163 --> 00:04:49,790 [Elizabeth] I don't even know how to start this. I'm a paralegal. 107 00:04:49,790 --> 00:04:53,377 And, um, you know, I have a big tribe at home. 108 00:04:53,377 --> 00:04:57,298 And he's like the baby Jesus of the family. He's the firstborn. 109 00:04:57,298 --> 00:04:59,258 And so, as soon as Paul said, 110 00:04:59,258 --> 00:05:01,677 "Yes, I met somebody, and her name is Micah," 111 00:05:02,219 --> 00:05:03,179 we went to town. 112 00:05:03,179 --> 00:05:06,849 And I was telling them, I'm like, "I think we found Micah online." 113 00:05:06,849 --> 00:05:07,808 "But we're not sure." 114 00:05:07,808 --> 00:05:09,727 He's like, "Oh, really? What do you think?" 115 00:05:09,727 --> 00:05:13,147 I'm like, "Well, I think her dad's name is Paul. He lives in Mobile." 116 00:05:13,147 --> 00:05:17,360 His mom is a deep beautiful Christian and owns a daycare." 117 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:20,613 -"Anything else you wanna know?" - [laughing] Oh, my gosh! 118 00:05:20,613 --> 00:05:21,614 Well, yeah. 119 00:05:21,614 --> 00:05:23,657 Just from her first name, you figured all that out? 120 00:05:23,657 --> 00:05:26,410 - From her first name. - Oh, my gosh. That's so funny. 121 00:05:26,410 --> 00:05:31,290 What was one of the first things that you were like, "Oh, I like Paul?" 122 00:05:31,290 --> 00:05:32,208 [Micah] Yeah. 123 00:05:32,708 --> 00:05:36,921 We immediately were talking about travel and just, like, our outlook on life. 124 00:05:36,921 --> 00:05:40,091 And, like, I think that was probably the first thing that was like, 125 00:05:40,091 --> 00:05:41,342 "Oh, Paul's so exciting." 126 00:05:41,342 --> 00:05:44,720 But like, that, like, showed me, kind of, like, what he wanted in life 127 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:46,430 and what he saw as a future. 128 00:05:46,430 --> 00:05:49,141 And I was like, "That's the exact same mindset I have." 129 00:05:49,141 --> 00:05:50,684 We are very different. 130 00:05:50,684 --> 00:05:53,145 - I'm very, like, hair, makeup. - [Elizabeth] Kind of like me. 131 00:05:53,145 --> 00:05:54,647 [Micah] Yeah, yeah, like that. 132 00:05:54,647 --> 00:05:58,067 But he also, like, has the ability to, like, ground me a bit. 133 00:05:58,067 --> 00:06:01,153 And I feel like it just, like, balances me out really well. 134 00:06:01,153 --> 00:06:04,156 So, I just like how he, like, makes me... 135 00:06:04,156 --> 00:06:05,074 [Elizabeth] Aww! 136 00:06:05,074 --> 00:06:07,993 ...behave and act and feel, and just, like, that security. 137 00:06:07,993 --> 00:06:10,287 I feel like we actually love, like, being with each other. 138 00:06:10,287 --> 00:06:12,373 Like, when we're not even, like, talking. 139 00:06:12,373 --> 00:06:15,626 We're like... I remember this morning, you were like, "Where are you?" 140 00:06:15,626 --> 00:06:17,837 I was like, "I'm downstairs." You're like, "I miss you." 141 00:06:17,837 --> 00:06:20,256 - [chuckles] I love that. - [Micah laughs] 142 00:06:20,256 --> 00:06:23,551 I mean, y'all are perfect for this. 143 00:06:23,551 --> 00:06:24,510 Perfect fit. 144 00:06:24,510 --> 00:06:27,513 The work thing is going, like, really well for me, 145 00:06:27,513 --> 00:06:31,600 and we're at the right age, and clearly, I'm not dating anyone. 146 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:33,644 [laughing] 147 00:06:33,644 --> 00:06:35,896 I think we're ready for it. Um... 148 00:06:35,896 --> 00:06:38,441 Paul, I've never seen you like this. So, I'm like... 149 00:06:38,441 --> 00:06:39,400 How so? 150 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:42,736 Like, just happy and in love and-- 151 00:06:42,736 --> 00:06:47,074 'Cause, I mean, he hasn't really had, like, an even potential fiancée. 152 00:06:47,074 --> 00:06:48,576 [Paul] Yeah, not really. 153 00:06:48,576 --> 00:06:50,786 - Yeah. - [Elizabeth] So, this is huge. 154 00:06:50,786 --> 00:06:52,079 [Micah] I know. I'm excited. 155 00:06:52,079 --> 00:06:54,081 I feel like just, like, seeing you, like, 156 00:06:54,081 --> 00:06:56,208 somehow makes me, like, love Paul more. 157 00:06:56,208 --> 00:07:00,838 I don't know what it is, and I think I just, like, see such a, like, fun life. 158 00:07:00,838 --> 00:07:04,091 I love her. I see why you love her. 159 00:07:04,091 --> 00:07:06,969 - I knew you would. - [laughs] Oh, my God, you're so sweet. 160 00:07:06,969 --> 00:07:09,263 I mean it. I'm so serious. 161 00:07:09,263 --> 00:07:13,392 [Micah] I love that Paul, you know, his mom and I are so similar. 162 00:07:13,392 --> 00:07:16,604 {\an8}She is just about the cutest thing I've ever seen. 163 00:07:16,604 --> 00:07:20,357 And I feel like it was just so easy to, like, make a connection with her. 164 00:07:20,357 --> 00:07:22,276 And I've always really wanted, 165 00:07:22,276 --> 00:07:25,196 like, a good extended family that I was really close with. 166 00:07:25,196 --> 00:07:27,573 And I feel, like, with her, there's such a good possibility 167 00:07:27,573 --> 00:07:29,283 that we'd be, like, such good friends. 168 00:07:29,283 --> 00:07:33,162 Not only, like, mother-in-law, like, daughter-in-law relationship. 169 00:07:33,162 --> 00:07:36,373 I'm just so happy you made it down here to see us. 170 00:07:36,373 --> 00:07:39,043 It's so funny 'cause, like, there's so many times 171 00:07:39,043 --> 00:07:42,004 where Paul and I have been like, "You know, we're so different." 172 00:07:42,004 --> 00:07:44,173 "Like, I wonder why we're so attracted to each other." 173 00:07:44,173 --> 00:07:46,258 [laughs] And it's, like, well, here we go. 174 00:07:46,258 --> 00:07:48,344 [laughs] You're marrying your mom. 175 00:07:48,344 --> 00:07:51,514 - You guys are so similar. - [laughs] I love that he says that. 176 00:07:51,514 --> 00:07:53,974 - Oh, my God. - [laughing] 177 00:07:53,974 --> 00:07:56,060 If you support us, then I'm happy. 178 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:58,354 [Elizabeth] Total support. 179 00:07:58,354 --> 00:08:01,398 Gosh! I'm sorry. I've been beside myself waiting for this day. 180 00:08:01,398 --> 00:08:02,483 [laughs] Oh, my gosh! 181 00:08:02,483 --> 00:08:06,529 - And you're even more adorable in person. - Oh, that makes me so happy. 182 00:08:06,529 --> 00:08:09,323 - I'm happy I passed the background check. - [Elizabeth laughing] 183 00:08:09,323 --> 00:08:11,575 [Micah] That would have put a big halt on things. 184 00:08:11,575 --> 00:08:13,035 [laughing] 185 00:08:13,035 --> 00:08:16,330 - ["Better Than a Dream" playing] - ♪ Better than a dream come true ♪ 186 00:08:16,872 --> 00:08:20,668 {\an8}♪ Better than a dream come true-ooh! ♪ 187 00:08:21,502 --> 00:08:22,878 {\an8}[Brett] Welcome. 188 00:08:25,506 --> 00:08:26,757 {\an8}[Tiffany] Okay. 189 00:08:27,841 --> 00:08:28,884 This looks good. 190 00:08:28,884 --> 00:08:30,386 [Brett] So... 191 00:08:30,386 --> 00:08:35,432 {\an8}Is this my future home? Like, would I be moving into here? 192 00:08:35,432 --> 00:08:38,227 - [Brett chuckles] Yeah, yeah. - [Tiffany] Look at all these shoes! 193 00:08:38,852 --> 00:08:43,482 [Brett] Tiffany was with a roommate, so today we're checking out my apartment, 194 00:08:43,482 --> 00:08:47,778 {\an8}so she can see if this is a place that she would wanna live in. 195 00:08:47,778 --> 00:08:50,823 [sighs] Well, where am I gonna put my shoes? 196 00:08:50,823 --> 00:08:52,408 [Brett] We can buy more boxes. 197 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:57,288 I would say I'm just most nervous, anxious, whatever you wanna call it, 198 00:08:57,288 --> 00:09:02,042 just about how, whenever she brings in her stuff with my stuff, 199 00:09:02,042 --> 00:09:05,129 like, how are we gonna merge it together? 200 00:09:05,129 --> 00:09:06,630 [laughs] 201 00:09:06,630 --> 00:09:08,007 Is that your vacuum? 202 00:09:08,716 --> 00:09:10,301 - That is my vacuum. - [beeps] 203 00:09:11,594 --> 00:09:14,346 - [Tiffany] What is this? - It's a VR headset. 204 00:09:14,972 --> 00:09:16,724 Oh. Oh! 205 00:09:18,309 --> 00:09:20,811 - [Brett] Let me show you one other thing. - What? 206 00:09:21,604 --> 00:09:24,815 It's all, like, uh, controlled through an app. 207 00:09:25,399 --> 00:09:27,651 [Tiffany] Brett! Ooh! 208 00:09:27,651 --> 00:09:29,903 So this is-- you don't have to even hold this. 209 00:09:29,903 --> 00:09:32,239 It has, like, a little tension rod in the back. 210 00:09:32,239 --> 00:09:33,157 So, you just... 211 00:09:34,950 --> 00:09:37,745 - Hmm! Where's your trash can? - Right here. 212 00:09:38,245 --> 00:09:42,499 Everything in your place is so high-end. Bougie Brett! 213 00:09:42,499 --> 00:09:44,835 - [Brett] It's all about efficiency. - [Tiffany laughs] Okay. 214 00:09:45,461 --> 00:09:46,920 [Brett] Uh, bedroom. Nothing-- 215 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:49,506 - [Tiffany] Nice. - [Brett] Nothing-- nothing crazy here. 216 00:09:49,506 --> 00:09:52,509 Oh! You're so freaking neat. 217 00:09:52,509 --> 00:09:54,470 - It's not that neat. - I think it's neat. 218 00:09:54,470 --> 00:09:56,805 - Look at this. - [Brett] It's not that neat. 219 00:09:56,805 --> 00:09:59,308 - [Tiffany] Oh! - [Brett] More shoes, yes. 220 00:09:59,308 --> 00:10:02,519 Okay, so you only have two closets? 221 00:10:02,519 --> 00:10:04,521 - Yeah. - The one with... 222 00:10:04,521 --> 00:10:06,649 - All my photography stuff. - And this one. 223 00:10:07,524 --> 00:10:11,278 So, closet space for us definitely would be a little bit of a... 224 00:10:12,154 --> 00:10:12,988 a thing. 225 00:10:13,697 --> 00:10:17,117 - I mean, even the computer space. - Mm-hmm. 226 00:10:17,117 --> 00:10:20,454 Where would I work? Like, would I set up a desk right here? 227 00:10:20,954 --> 00:10:22,706 If you like this building, 228 00:10:22,706 --> 00:10:26,251 like I said, what I could do is just move into a bigger unit in this building. 229 00:10:26,251 --> 00:10:28,796 - Okay. - So a two or three-bedroom or something. 230 00:10:29,755 --> 00:10:31,298 [Tiffany] Um... 231 00:10:31,882 --> 00:10:33,550 [Brett] Anyway, that's the tour. 232 00:10:33,550 --> 00:10:35,928 - [Tiffany] I like it. - That's the space. 233 00:10:36,553 --> 00:10:38,263 I could work with this. 234 00:10:39,223 --> 00:10:40,099 I could. 235 00:10:40,724 --> 00:10:43,727 I'm really excited about moving in here. 236 00:10:44,978 --> 00:10:46,689 - Are you nervous? - No. 237 00:10:46,689 --> 00:10:50,025 Like, when I say that, that doesn't scare you? 238 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:54,863 No. Like, if anything, I've been doing my own thing for so long. 239 00:10:54,863 --> 00:10:55,781 Yeah. 240 00:10:55,781 --> 00:10:58,867 - Like, I'm excited, actually. - Mm-hmm. 241 00:10:59,952 --> 00:11:02,913 I can... I can see myself living here. 242 00:11:02,913 --> 00:11:05,124 - [quietly] That's what I wanna hear. - [laughs] 243 00:11:05,124 --> 00:11:07,918 - [pop music playing] - ♪ Na-na-na-na-na, there's no stopping ♪ 244 00:11:07,918 --> 00:11:12,506 ♪ We can have it all ♪ 245 00:11:12,506 --> 00:11:14,299 ♪ In our castle of love... ♪ 246 00:11:14,299 --> 00:11:15,509 [knock on door] 247 00:11:17,261 --> 00:11:18,137 {\an8}[exhales] 248 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:24,893 {\an8}- Hi. - Hey. 249 00:11:24,893 --> 00:11:26,353 {\an8}- How are you? - Good. 250 00:11:26,353 --> 00:11:28,272 {\an8}- It's good to see you. - You too. 251 00:11:29,690 --> 00:11:34,778 {\an8}Bliss and I, we had a lot of chemistry in our first date in the real world. 252 00:11:34,778 --> 00:11:37,698 I didn't expect the connection was gonna be that strong. 253 00:11:38,699 --> 00:11:41,493 And I already know that the psychological is there, 254 00:11:41,493 --> 00:11:43,245 and the emotional is there. 255 00:11:43,245 --> 00:11:46,874 There's your little owl painting. Who painted that for you? 256 00:11:47,541 --> 00:11:51,420 - Is it a painting? Or a graphic? - A local artist in Seattle did it for me. 257 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:52,880 [Bliss] It's cool. 258 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:55,966 I'm probably notorious for not striking when the iron's hot. 259 00:11:55,966 --> 00:11:59,762 But truthfully, I just wanna spend as much time with Bliss as possible. 260 00:11:59,762 --> 00:12:01,764 Because when we're together, 261 00:12:02,931 --> 00:12:03,849 it feels right. 262 00:12:03,849 --> 00:12:06,268 - And if you're in love with someone... - [Bliss] Yes. 263 00:12:06,268 --> 00:12:09,271 ...you've gotta... you've gotta express it. 264 00:12:09,271 --> 00:12:10,647 [Bliss] Can I help do anything? 265 00:12:10,647 --> 00:12:12,983 {\an8}[Zack] I guess you could add a little butter and salt 266 00:12:12,983 --> 00:12:14,318 {\an8}and pepper to the mushrooms. 267 00:12:14,318 --> 00:12:16,987 [Bliss] It's funny 'cause baking is definitely my thing. 268 00:12:16,987 --> 00:12:18,405 - But cooking? [laughs] - Really? 269 00:12:18,405 --> 00:12:20,949 - I need really specific instructions. - I love cooking. 270 00:12:21,533 --> 00:12:22,785 [Bliss] So, how much butter? 271 00:12:22,785 --> 00:12:24,119 Just a small amount. 272 00:12:24,119 --> 00:12:27,998 - [Bliss laughs] How much? This much? - You see the difference there? 273 00:12:27,998 --> 00:12:29,792 Uh, go with your instincts, Bliss. 274 00:12:29,792 --> 00:12:32,044 - [Bliss] Hmm. Okay. - That's what I would do. 275 00:12:33,504 --> 00:12:36,673 I do wanna take cooking classes where you learn how to do different things. 276 00:12:36,673 --> 00:12:38,550 That would actually be fun to do together. 277 00:12:38,550 --> 00:12:41,345 Oh, really? We'll see. [laughs] 278 00:12:41,345 --> 00:12:44,056 [Zack] Oh, no. Catastrophe has happened. 279 00:12:44,056 --> 00:12:45,265 What? 280 00:12:45,265 --> 00:12:46,767 [Zack] One of our steaks, 281 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:49,436 the bag came open, and it's ruined. 282 00:12:49,436 --> 00:12:51,021 That one's yours, right? 283 00:12:51,021 --> 00:12:54,024 [Zack] Well, the good news is we have one other steak. 284 00:12:54,525 --> 00:12:56,443 Let's hope the bag did not open on that one. 285 00:12:56,443 --> 00:12:59,238 [laughs] We're just gonna have weird steaks tonight. 286 00:12:59,780 --> 00:13:01,907 Oh. No, they're both ruined. 287 00:13:01,907 --> 00:13:03,075 [laughs] Really? Oh, no. 288 00:13:03,075 --> 00:13:04,535 Yep. Oh, man. 289 00:13:04,535 --> 00:13:06,453 [Bliss] Oh, no. It's a sign. 290 00:13:06,453 --> 00:13:09,665 - I should just go home. - What a catastrophe! 291 00:13:09,665 --> 00:13:10,707 [both chuckle] 292 00:13:10,707 --> 00:13:12,876 I can't tell you how disheartened I am. 293 00:13:12,876 --> 00:13:14,503 It's okay. It's fine. 294 00:13:14,503 --> 00:13:17,589 Sometimes life is stupid that way. 295 00:13:17,589 --> 00:13:19,758 - [chuckles] It's okay. - [Zack] I know. 296 00:13:20,425 --> 00:13:23,679 We can just have carrots and the mushrooms. 297 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:25,097 [Zack] And shrimp. 298 00:13:25,097 --> 00:13:26,765 How embarrassing is that? 299 00:13:27,599 --> 00:13:28,851 - It's okay. - I'm... 300 00:13:29,434 --> 00:13:32,271 - It's pretty embarrassing. - It's fine. Don't worry. 301 00:13:32,271 --> 00:13:36,024 I'm sure way more embarrassing things have happened in your life. 302 00:13:36,024 --> 00:13:39,611 - Yeah, yeah. At least we have this shrimp. - [sighs] 303 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:41,738 And each other, right? 304 00:13:41,738 --> 00:13:43,866 Oh, I don't know. [laughs] 305 00:13:45,075 --> 00:13:46,827 We'll see. [laughs] 306 00:13:48,787 --> 00:13:51,707 [Zack] I'm really glad that I overcompensated with the shrimp. 307 00:13:51,707 --> 00:13:54,334 - Yeah, you're, like-- [laughs] - It was a legit backup plan. 308 00:13:54,334 --> 00:13:57,754 - This looks like a real meal, right? - Yeah, it looks like a real meal. 309 00:13:57,754 --> 00:13:59,756 [Zack] Tell me what you think of the carrots. 310 00:14:00,465 --> 00:14:02,301 - Okay. - [Zack] I want honesty. 311 00:14:05,387 --> 00:14:07,097 - What do you think? - [Bliss] Mm-hmm. 312 00:14:07,097 --> 00:14:09,558 I actually really am enjoying the carrots. 313 00:14:09,558 --> 00:14:13,020 - I tried goat cheese on the shrimp. - It's just good on everything. 314 00:14:13,645 --> 00:14:15,439 - Probably not ice cream. - Really? 315 00:14:15,439 --> 00:14:17,608 You've never had goat cheese ice cream? 316 00:14:17,608 --> 00:14:19,401 - That sounds so gross. - [Bliss] What? 317 00:14:19,401 --> 00:14:20,986 - No, I haven't. - It's so good. 318 00:14:22,654 --> 00:14:24,656 I know that I'm weird. I fully know that. 319 00:14:24,656 --> 00:14:26,074 - Yeah? Yeah. - Yeah. 320 00:14:26,074 --> 00:14:27,951 I'm probably a little weirder. 321 00:14:27,951 --> 00:14:29,578 Yeah, probably. 322 00:14:29,578 --> 00:14:30,495 [laughing] 323 00:14:31,121 --> 00:14:32,706 Have you seen my bedroom? 324 00:14:32,706 --> 00:14:35,375 - No, I haven't. [chuckles] - Oh, I'll show it to you later. 325 00:14:35,375 --> 00:14:38,337 - It's literally around the corner. - [laughs] Okay. It's right there. 326 00:14:38,337 --> 00:14:42,215 Yeah, so, like, when you-- Um, I have these motion sensors. 327 00:14:42,215 --> 00:14:45,218 - Why? - That will activate sounds. 328 00:14:45,218 --> 00:14:48,680 - Based on when you open a room. - Wait, why? Like, what sounds? 329 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:52,100 - 'Cause it's just cool. - Cool? You are weirder than me. 330 00:14:52,100 --> 00:14:53,060 Yeah, I know. 331 00:14:53,060 --> 00:14:56,188 If I wanted the Harry Potter song to play when you opened my door. 332 00:14:56,188 --> 00:14:57,981 Oh, okay. That's approved. 333 00:14:57,981 --> 00:15:01,151 - I thought it'd be pretty cool. - [Bliss] Yeah, that is cool. 334 00:15:01,151 --> 00:15:03,445 - [sighs] Anyway. - [Zack] Your dress looks pretty. 335 00:15:03,445 --> 00:15:04,363 Thank you. 336 00:15:05,739 --> 00:15:08,951 - What? - I don't know. I like looking at you. 337 00:15:08,951 --> 00:15:10,035 [Bliss] Hmm! 338 00:15:11,244 --> 00:15:15,082 I think this worked out pretty well for how many things got fucked up. 339 00:15:15,582 --> 00:15:17,125 With us or the food? 340 00:15:17,125 --> 00:15:18,543 - Probably both, actually. - Mm-hmm. 341 00:15:18,543 --> 00:15:22,005 It's actually like a metaphor for our relationship. [laughing] 342 00:15:22,005 --> 00:15:25,175 - It's pretty accurate, right? - Yeah, that cannot be a trend. 343 00:15:25,175 --> 00:15:28,387 [laughing] If this is gonna be anything, that cannot be a trend. 344 00:15:28,387 --> 00:15:30,973 You get one fuck-up by proposing to another girl, 345 00:15:30,973 --> 00:15:32,975 and then we'll see, you know. 346 00:15:34,267 --> 00:15:35,644 [Zack] I'm sorry. 347 00:15:35,644 --> 00:15:36,853 Oh! [exhales] 348 00:15:37,688 --> 00:15:39,815 I don't know. It's all right, I guess. 349 00:15:42,985 --> 00:15:44,778 I have to give you a hard time still. 350 00:15:44,778 --> 00:15:49,533 It's not, like, normal to, like, hang out with someone that's just dumped you 351 00:15:49,533 --> 00:15:51,743 and got engaged to someone else, so... 352 00:15:52,911 --> 00:15:55,247 I'm gonna give you a little bit of a hard time sometimes. 353 00:15:55,247 --> 00:15:57,791 - That's fair. I deserve it. - Mm-hmm. 354 00:15:59,751 --> 00:16:01,211 [laughs] 355 00:16:01,211 --> 00:16:03,046 - Are you ready for dessert yet? - [Bliss] Sure. 356 00:16:03,046 --> 00:16:08,218 {\an8}I'm hesitant coming into the situation, because he literally just broke my heart, 357 00:16:08,218 --> 00:16:10,846 and I definitely have my guard up. 358 00:16:14,558 --> 00:16:16,601 But there's just this vibe between us 359 00:16:16,601 --> 00:16:20,313 and this chemistry, and it's bringing all the feels back. [chuckles] 360 00:16:20,981 --> 00:16:22,649 - Come here real quick. - Why? 361 00:16:23,150 --> 00:16:24,401 We'll do a little dancing. 362 00:16:24,401 --> 00:16:26,028 - Oh, really? - Practice. Yeah. 363 00:16:26,611 --> 00:16:27,446 Okay. 364 00:16:28,030 --> 00:16:28,864 One. 365 00:16:30,490 --> 00:16:32,117 Loosen your arms. You're a little stressed. 366 00:16:32,117 --> 00:16:33,368 [Bliss] Wait, am I not loose? 367 00:16:33,368 --> 00:16:35,495 - You're a little too tight. - Oh. 368 00:16:35,495 --> 00:16:37,956 A big part of me does wanna pursue things with him 369 00:16:37,956 --> 00:16:40,083 because I deeply love him. 370 00:16:40,083 --> 00:16:42,627 The physical aspect definitely matters. 371 00:16:42,627 --> 00:16:43,795 But if the question is, 372 00:16:43,795 --> 00:16:47,215 can you really fall in love without ever having seen someone? 373 00:16:48,216 --> 00:16:49,551 Absolutely. Yes. 374 00:16:49,551 --> 00:16:52,054 - [pop music playing] - ♪ At the end of the day ♪ 375 00:16:52,054 --> 00:16:54,264 ♪ You're the dream I have I can't shake ♪ 376 00:16:54,264 --> 00:16:57,517 ♪ You're the last call That my heart makes ♪ 377 00:16:57,517 --> 00:17:00,520 ♪ At the end of the day ♪ 378 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:04,107 ♪ You're the one I wanna come home to You're the feeling that I can't lose... ♪ 379 00:17:04,107 --> 00:17:05,150 [Zack] Other hand. 380 00:17:06,234 --> 00:17:09,071 Look at that. You're like a professional already. 381 00:17:09,654 --> 00:17:12,199 - Have you ever done a dip? - This is not an outfit for a dip. 382 00:17:12,199 --> 00:17:14,076 [laughing] 383 00:17:14,076 --> 00:17:15,410 Ooh! 384 00:17:16,078 --> 00:17:19,039 {\an8}♪ At the end of the day ♪ 385 00:17:19,039 --> 00:17:21,249 {\an8}♪ You're the one I wanna come home to ♪ 386 00:17:21,249 --> 00:17:24,086 {\an8}♪ You're the feeling that I can't lose... ♪ 387 00:17:29,174 --> 00:17:32,052 {\an8}- [Kwame laughs] Are you ready? - [Chelsea laughs] Yes. 388 00:17:32,052 --> 00:17:33,970 {\an8}Oh, my God! I'm just kidding. 389 00:17:33,970 --> 00:17:36,056 {\an8}[laughing] 390 00:17:36,681 --> 00:17:38,642 It's so cute in here. 391 00:17:38,642 --> 00:17:42,062 [Kwame] Yeah, welcome to my Fortress of Solitude. 392 00:17:42,062 --> 00:17:43,438 I live in Portland, Oregon. 393 00:17:43,438 --> 00:17:45,982 {\an8}It's a two-and-a-half-hour to three-hour drive. 394 00:17:45,982 --> 00:17:48,318 We're gonna go get a few things that I need to get. 395 00:17:48,318 --> 00:17:50,237 Most important is my work stuff, 396 00:17:50,237 --> 00:17:54,241 but also just get, like, my clothes and my Xbox. 397 00:17:54,241 --> 00:17:57,202 You know what I mean? Like, really starting to try 398 00:17:57,202 --> 00:18:00,205 to put things together that will feel like I'm, you know, 399 00:18:00,205 --> 00:18:02,415 now coexisting in my home with my fiancée. 400 00:18:03,208 --> 00:18:04,459 Check out my fridge. 401 00:18:04,459 --> 00:18:06,002 - Super dope. - Full of... 402 00:18:06,795 --> 00:18:09,339 - Wow! - [both laughing] 403 00:18:09,339 --> 00:18:11,716 - [Chelsea] Baby, you're so saucy. - [laughing] 404 00:18:11,716 --> 00:18:14,094 - [Chelsea] It's not too bad. - [Kwame] So, I'm doing okay. 405 00:18:14,094 --> 00:18:16,179 [Chelsea] There's a wee bit of laundry on the floor. 406 00:18:16,179 --> 00:18:17,222 [Kwame laughs] 407 00:18:17,222 --> 00:18:19,266 - Oh! [laughing] - I had to pack, you know. 408 00:18:19,266 --> 00:18:21,726 I was running around, throwing things around. Don't judge me! 409 00:18:21,726 --> 00:18:23,061 - My bed... - Yeah. 410 00:18:23,061 --> 00:18:25,021 I sleep in maybe 12% of the time. 411 00:18:25,021 --> 00:18:27,482 - No way! You sleep right here? - I sleep on the couch. 412 00:18:27,482 --> 00:18:31,695 So, when you wake up, you just walk eight steps to your desk 413 00:18:31,695 --> 00:18:32,863 and start working. 414 00:18:32,863 --> 00:18:34,072 [laughs] Less. 415 00:18:34,072 --> 00:18:36,908 Yeah, this is where all the magic is not happening. 416 00:18:38,034 --> 00:18:38,869 That's, uh... 417 00:18:40,287 --> 00:18:43,331 [laughing] 418 00:18:43,331 --> 00:18:46,168 I mean, we can open it, but that's at your discretion. 419 00:18:46,168 --> 00:18:48,044 - Let's open it. - There's a few things in there. 420 00:18:48,044 --> 00:18:50,005 - Let me just take a peek. - Yeah. 421 00:18:51,673 --> 00:18:53,967 - [laughing] - I have that same lube. 422 00:18:53,967 --> 00:18:56,094 [both laughing] 423 00:18:59,890 --> 00:19:03,226 {\an8}Sometimes I'm like, "God damn, we're the same person." [chuckles] 424 00:19:03,226 --> 00:19:04,352 [both continue laughing] 425 00:19:04,352 --> 00:19:09,399 I thought the lack of cleanliness would bother me more than it does. 426 00:19:09,399 --> 00:19:12,235 He knows for the most part where everything is. 427 00:19:12,736 --> 00:19:16,823 And I mean, the guy put my underwear 428 00:19:16,823 --> 00:19:18,909 and my bras and my socks, 429 00:19:18,909 --> 00:19:21,786 like, he organized, when he, like, folded my laundry. 430 00:19:22,454 --> 00:19:24,789 He, like, organized my underwear drawer. 431 00:19:27,125 --> 00:19:28,668 It's, like, the sweetest thing ever. 432 00:19:29,711 --> 00:19:30,545 He has it in him. 433 00:19:31,213 --> 00:19:33,632 - [groans] - You got some lotion right here. 434 00:19:33,632 --> 00:19:35,091 [laughing] 435 00:19:36,259 --> 00:19:38,803 Ma'am. [laughs] 436 00:19:38,803 --> 00:19:43,099 Bachelor pad. Got the lotion and the towel. 437 00:19:43,099 --> 00:19:45,894 - That-- - [laughing] 438 00:19:46,603 --> 00:19:48,772 Within three feet of each other. 439 00:19:48,772 --> 00:19:51,399 Ma'am, come on, would I have-- Come on. 440 00:19:51,399 --> 00:19:53,193 [laughing] 441 00:19:53,193 --> 00:19:57,656 - Hey, you know what? Good for you. - [laughing] 442 00:19:57,656 --> 00:19:59,074 This is comfy though. 443 00:19:59,074 --> 00:20:01,493 - You think this couch can be used? - Yes. 444 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:04,412 - Fantastic, let's keep the couch. - Okay. Okay. 445 00:20:04,412 --> 00:20:06,539 - It's really beautiful here. - It is. 446 00:20:06,539 --> 00:20:08,083 It's really, really dope. 447 00:20:08,708 --> 00:20:10,669 You know, I really love Portland. 448 00:20:10,669 --> 00:20:14,464 I really do. I know... I'm, like, okay to move, you know. 449 00:20:14,464 --> 00:20:16,925 But I feel like... [clears throat] ...this is home. 450 00:20:16,925 --> 00:20:19,469 - [Chelsea] It's a very cool place, babe. - [Kwame] Yeah. 451 00:20:19,469 --> 00:20:20,762 [Chelsea] I like it a lot. 452 00:20:20,762 --> 00:20:23,390 Does it make you think, "Oh, I might move to Portland?" 453 00:20:24,099 --> 00:20:25,392 No, it doesn't. 454 00:20:27,936 --> 00:20:28,770 Yeah. 455 00:20:30,105 --> 00:20:31,356 - You know? - Mm-hmm. 456 00:20:31,356 --> 00:20:36,403 I definitely think we're gonna settle in Seattle, regardless of all the factors. 457 00:20:36,403 --> 00:20:39,656 I mean, it is where my family is, right? Family is really important to me. 458 00:20:39,656 --> 00:20:42,284 And I don't work a remote job. 459 00:20:43,285 --> 00:20:47,080 Um, with Kwame working remotely, it just kind of makes sense. 460 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:51,334 You know this really is just, like, my... my peace. 461 00:20:51,918 --> 00:20:54,462 - You know? So... - Yeah. 462 00:20:54,462 --> 00:20:55,505 That's good. 463 00:20:56,006 --> 00:20:58,216 - That's what home should be. - Yeah. 464 00:20:58,216 --> 00:21:00,468 That's what I want, and that's what my home is like. 465 00:21:00,468 --> 00:21:02,345 That's what I want our future home to be like. 466 00:21:04,389 --> 00:21:05,223 Yeah. 467 00:21:06,224 --> 00:21:08,226 I don't have any friends in Seattle. 468 00:21:08,226 --> 00:21:10,645 I play soccer four times a week in Portland. 469 00:21:10,645 --> 00:21:12,605 Five times sometimes. 470 00:21:12,605 --> 00:21:16,943 I have a running path, and I run that same path every day. [laughs] 471 00:21:16,943 --> 00:21:21,573 Sometimes I tend to compromise too much, trying to merge my world with her world. 472 00:21:21,573 --> 00:21:24,409 It's taking some time to make it really 473 00:21:25,243 --> 00:21:26,328 all make sense. 474 00:21:26,328 --> 00:21:28,872 - [pop music playing] - ♪ We're building then learning ♪ 475 00:21:28,872 --> 00:21:31,082 ♪ Then breaking up ♪ 476 00:21:32,042 --> 00:21:34,461 {\an8}♪ Sometimes yes, sometimes no ♪ 477 00:21:34,461 --> 00:21:36,546 {\an8}♪ Easy come and go ♪ 478 00:21:36,546 --> 00:21:38,631 {\an8}♪ Letting you in, letting you in ♪ 479 00:21:38,631 --> 00:21:41,593 {\an8}♪ And you're pushing me out Pushing me out ♪ 480 00:21:41,593 --> 00:21:44,596 {\an8}[Marshall] Guacamole and queso. 481 00:21:44,596 --> 00:21:45,597 You want queso? 482 00:21:46,097 --> 00:21:48,558 - I'm not a queso bitch. - Sister's a vegetarian. 483 00:21:49,142 --> 00:21:50,185 Let me look at this pizza. 484 00:21:55,148 --> 00:21:58,193 [groans] I'm really stressed out. I don't know, man. 485 00:21:58,943 --> 00:21:59,778 I don't know. 486 00:21:59,778 --> 00:22:02,947 I don't think I can do this. Honestly, I'm really stressed out. 487 00:22:04,199 --> 00:22:06,451 - Stressed out about...? - I'm really stressed out. 488 00:22:08,453 --> 00:22:09,537 This is a lot. 489 00:22:12,540 --> 00:22:14,084 Stressed out about meeting them? 490 00:22:14,084 --> 00:22:16,544 - Not meeting them. Like, that's whatever. - [Marshall] Mm-hmm. 491 00:22:16,544 --> 00:22:19,172 But I'm just stressed out with everything. 492 00:22:20,006 --> 00:22:21,508 It's a lot. [sighs] 493 00:22:23,301 --> 00:22:25,011 [clears throat] I need a second. 494 00:22:25,011 --> 00:22:26,638 - [grunts] - All right. 495 00:22:35,021 --> 00:22:38,858 I can give you some time. I can walk them around the block or whatever and... 496 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:42,320 No, it's fine. We can just knock it out. 497 00:22:43,238 --> 00:22:47,158 I would much rather you be in a comfortable headspace 498 00:22:47,158 --> 00:22:48,410 than put you in a position-- 499 00:22:48,410 --> 00:22:51,079 [Jackelina] I'm in a comfortable headspace right now. 500 00:22:52,288 --> 00:22:53,998 Okay. [sighs] 501 00:22:53,998 --> 00:22:57,210 I think your energy is making me even more stressed out. 502 00:22:57,210 --> 00:22:59,212 Okay, I'll... 503 00:23:00,213 --> 00:23:01,840 I'll go have a Coke and a smile. 504 00:23:02,424 --> 00:23:03,842 - [Jackelina] Coke and a smile. - Yeah. 505 00:23:03,842 --> 00:23:04,884 - Do that. - Cool. 506 00:23:07,637 --> 00:23:09,764 I'm gonna light this candle up too. 507 00:23:10,682 --> 00:23:12,851 [Marshall] Jackie has a tendency to ruminate, 508 00:23:12,851 --> 00:23:17,272 and she tends to stay in a mood for a long time. 509 00:23:17,272 --> 00:23:19,607 {\an8}Longer than I would like. 510 00:23:19,607 --> 00:23:21,151 {\an8}However, that's not up to me, 511 00:23:21,151 --> 00:23:24,320 {\an8}and I'm just there, chilling, waiting. 512 00:23:24,988 --> 00:23:28,158 Waiting for her to sort through her own feelings. 513 00:23:28,158 --> 00:23:29,742 Because I can do that for her. 514 00:23:29,742 --> 00:23:32,245 [Jackelina] I have a lot of thinking to do. 515 00:23:33,746 --> 00:23:35,415 A lot of thinking. 516 00:23:36,541 --> 00:23:38,168 Since my family... 517 00:23:39,627 --> 00:23:41,546 you know, isn't really... 518 00:23:42,881 --> 00:23:44,757 behind me 100%. 519 00:23:45,258 --> 00:23:47,510 I need to make sure still that they're good. 520 00:23:47,510 --> 00:23:49,804 Mm-hmm. Yeah. 521 00:23:49,804 --> 00:23:53,558 And my decision impacts that. 522 00:23:53,558 --> 00:23:57,061 And when I do say my answer, I need to make sure that I'm okay 523 00:23:57,061 --> 00:23:59,606 with all the repercussions that come after that. 524 00:23:59,606 --> 00:24:00,565 [Marshall] Absolutely. 525 00:24:00,565 --> 00:24:05,028 I just need to make sure that I don't hurt the people that I love. 526 00:24:05,028 --> 00:24:08,281 They say families last forever, and they, you know... 527 00:24:09,115 --> 00:24:11,910 Home is where you never get hurt. But it's just, like... 528 00:24:13,536 --> 00:24:15,330 They're kinda hurting me right now. 529 00:24:17,165 --> 00:24:20,919 But it's about time that I step and do what I need to do as an adult. 530 00:24:20,919 --> 00:24:22,128 [Marshall] Mm-hmm. 531 00:24:22,128 --> 00:24:26,007 I can't keep living by my family and then not living my life. 532 00:24:29,385 --> 00:24:31,346 I'm stressed out. 533 00:24:31,346 --> 00:24:33,431 I have all these things coming at me all at once. 534 00:24:33,431 --> 00:24:36,935 {\an8}It's just, right now, I'm just, like, going through it. 535 00:24:36,935 --> 00:24:38,811 {\an8}I'm going through the emotions. 536 00:24:38,811 --> 00:24:44,067 My mom, she's not happy that I got into this experiment. 537 00:24:44,067 --> 00:24:48,613 She's not happy that marriage is gonna happen so quickly, 538 00:24:48,613 --> 00:24:49,948 and that's getting to me. 539 00:24:49,948 --> 00:24:52,450 And then on top of that, I'm meeting family today, 540 00:24:52,450 --> 00:24:55,119 and I'm like, I don't feel like I'm at my best self. 541 00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:57,789 - [Marshall] Yo! Hey, Zoe! - [man] How you doing? 542 00:24:57,789 --> 00:25:00,792 {\an8}[Marshall] What's up, baby girl? Oh! 543 00:25:00,792 --> 00:25:02,961 {\an8}I've been waiting all day for this. 544 00:25:02,961 --> 00:25:04,921 What's up, baby? 545 00:25:04,921 --> 00:25:06,506 [woman] Say, "Hi, Uncle Marsh." 546 00:25:06,506 --> 00:25:07,507 {\an8}- Hey, Morg. - Hey, Marsh. 547 00:25:07,507 --> 00:25:09,676 {\an8}- What's up, buddy? - [Morgan] You look nice. 548 00:25:09,676 --> 00:25:13,263 {\an8}[Jackelina] But I gotta put on a happy face, because I am happy. 549 00:25:13,263 --> 00:25:16,766 It's just right now in this moment, everything is just, like, crumbling down, 550 00:25:16,766 --> 00:25:19,352 and I'm just like, bro, like, I need a break. 551 00:25:19,352 --> 00:25:22,564 All right, look who it is. Say hi to Jackie. 552 00:25:22,564 --> 00:25:24,148 - Hi, Jackie. - Hi. 553 00:25:24,148 --> 00:25:26,359 Oh, my gosh, you're so cute! 554 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:27,944 - Oh, my gosh. - It's great to meet you. 555 00:25:27,944 --> 00:25:30,280 - It's so good to meet you. - [Marshall] This is Ryan. 556 00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:32,198 - Hi. - [Ryan] Nice to meet you. How are you? 557 00:25:32,198 --> 00:25:33,199 Good, how are you? 558 00:25:33,199 --> 00:25:36,077 - You're very beautiful. - [Jackelina] Oh, thank you. 559 00:25:36,661 --> 00:25:38,371 - Y'all hungry? - Yeah. 560 00:25:38,371 --> 00:25:40,373 [Marshall] Bet, we got some pizza. 561 00:25:40,373 --> 00:25:42,458 Which ones do you want? You want a cucumber? 562 00:25:42,458 --> 00:25:43,501 Everything. 563 00:25:43,501 --> 00:25:44,669 We gotta eat! 564 00:25:44,669 --> 00:25:47,463 {\an8}[Jackelina] I know all the good eats. That's all we do is eat. 565 00:25:47,463 --> 00:25:51,384 - [Marshall] One thing we do, we be eating. - So, is that how you bonded? How did you-- 566 00:25:51,384 --> 00:25:54,679 - Yeah, that's what I wanna hear. - I need to know everything. 567 00:25:54,679 --> 00:25:57,015 - Like, from the beginning. - Yeah, how did we bond? 568 00:25:57,015 --> 00:26:00,602 Yo, all right. So, from day one, I knew it was gonna be her. 569 00:26:00,602 --> 00:26:06,024 Like, we were dating all 15 people. Fifteen on 15 basically. 570 00:26:06,024 --> 00:26:07,650 - We're just doing rounds. - [Ryan] Mm-hmm. 571 00:26:07,650 --> 00:26:09,819 Um, it was hard for me to go through the process, 572 00:26:09,819 --> 00:26:11,362 because I knew that it was her. 573 00:26:11,362 --> 00:26:14,198 Um, it was her or nothing, for real, for real. 574 00:26:14,198 --> 00:26:15,241 Y'all know how I am. 575 00:26:15,241 --> 00:26:18,036 - [Morgan] Yeah. - [Ryan laughs] We know how Marshall is. 576 00:26:18,036 --> 00:26:20,330 And so, like, the other thing about Jackie is that she-- 577 00:26:20,330 --> 00:26:22,707 that she was, like, inspiring me to, like, write. 578 00:26:22,707 --> 00:26:24,709 You know how hard it's been for me to write. 579 00:26:24,709 --> 00:26:26,961 So, I wrote poems, like, for the first time in years. 580 00:26:26,961 --> 00:26:29,714 You know what I'm saying? That's been really hard for me. 581 00:26:29,714 --> 00:26:32,717 And she brought that-- She, like, lit that fire under me. 582 00:26:32,717 --> 00:26:35,470 It's not just me. You're, like, a creative man. 583 00:26:36,054 --> 00:26:38,264 - Well, I appreciate that. - And they were beautiful. 584 00:26:38,264 --> 00:26:41,225 I really, like, came out being, like, a much better person, so... 585 00:26:41,225 --> 00:26:42,477 - [Ryan] Wow. - Yeah. 586 00:26:42,477 --> 00:26:45,938 - I mean, you seem much lighter. - [Ryan] Yeah, I feel the aura. 587 00:26:45,938 --> 00:26:48,232 - I feel the energy for sure. - [Ryan] It's good. 588 00:26:48,232 --> 00:26:51,819 Yeah, so, Jackie, did you have, like, a similar, like, experience? 589 00:26:51,819 --> 00:26:55,531 So, he's taught me just to be more grown. 590 00:26:56,115 --> 00:26:59,702 He's a great listener. He's taught me, like, sometimes I just have to sit 591 00:26:59,702 --> 00:27:02,997 in my feelings and really just go through it instead of just reacting. 592 00:27:02,997 --> 00:27:03,915 [Ryan] Okay. 593 00:27:03,915 --> 00:27:07,251 I'm still learning. So, I'm gonna obviously have, like, some slip-up days. 594 00:27:07,251 --> 00:27:09,337 But he's there to just be like, 595 00:27:09,337 --> 00:27:12,632 "Calm down. Like, we're good. I'm here. I'm solid." 596 00:27:12,632 --> 00:27:16,302 And he'll let me just be for a little bit. 597 00:27:16,302 --> 00:27:19,222 If I get, like, too over... I'm just, like, I need to be with myself. 598 00:27:19,222 --> 00:27:22,767 Like, he does. He gives me that space, and that's what I need. 599 00:27:22,767 --> 00:27:25,478 This is not something light. This is serious. 600 00:27:25,478 --> 00:27:28,773 - Marriage is biblical. That's serious. - [Ryan] 100%. 601 00:27:29,273 --> 00:27:32,985 I need to make sure I'm the best version of me when I say yeah. 602 00:27:32,985 --> 00:27:36,781 Even through the wall, it was just, like, so captivating, you know. 603 00:27:36,781 --> 00:27:38,866 - Yeah. - Oh, captivating. 604 00:27:38,866 --> 00:27:40,952 - [Marshall] Yeah. Yeah. - That's a good one. 605 00:27:40,952 --> 00:27:43,705 [Ryan] It's like y'all are merging in one, you know. 606 00:27:43,705 --> 00:27:46,874 - Just going through the whole time. Huh? - Oh, look at us. 607 00:27:47,375 --> 00:27:48,668 Special! 608 00:27:48,668 --> 00:27:50,586 - We knew we were special. - Yeah. 609 00:27:50,586 --> 00:27:53,047 He's not playing. Like, he's actually in love. 610 00:27:53,047 --> 00:27:56,300 His aura and his energy just seems to be radiating, 611 00:27:56,300 --> 00:27:57,635 soon as we came in the house. 612 00:27:57,635 --> 00:27:59,804 I can definitely see that he really likes her a lot, 613 00:27:59,804 --> 00:28:02,432 and he's definitely trying his best to really be present, 614 00:28:02,432 --> 00:28:04,225 and in the moment in this experiment, 615 00:28:04,809 --> 00:28:08,187 just to make sure that he's making the right decision for himself, you know, 616 00:28:08,187 --> 00:28:12,358 when it comes time to be at the altar and say yes or no. 617 00:28:12,358 --> 00:28:14,235 - [laughs] - That's for life. That's for life. 618 00:28:14,235 --> 00:28:17,530 They both seem to really, you know, take this seriously 619 00:28:17,530 --> 00:28:19,699 and know that marriage is a big deal. 620 00:28:19,699 --> 00:28:21,033 I mean, they better. 621 00:28:21,033 --> 00:28:22,869 Right? [laughs] 622 00:28:22,869 --> 00:28:25,455 And thank you, guys, for being so gracious 623 00:28:25,455 --> 00:28:26,831 and so open-armed 624 00:28:26,831 --> 00:28:30,793 and just letting me come in and share in Marshall. 625 00:28:30,793 --> 00:28:32,253 - I really appreciate that. - [laughs] 626 00:28:32,253 --> 00:28:34,213 'Cause I was like, they could be like, 627 00:28:34,213 --> 00:28:37,633 "Nah, no. No way. You ain't coming near us." 628 00:28:37,633 --> 00:28:39,427 - Knuckle up. Knuckle up. - For real. 629 00:28:39,427 --> 00:28:41,721 [Morgan] But I mean, like, Marshall, like, 630 00:28:41,721 --> 00:28:44,724 he's a very genuine, caring person. 631 00:28:44,724 --> 00:28:47,769 And anybody that he's gonna propose to, 632 00:28:47,769 --> 00:28:51,230 I know they have to be, you know, amazing themselves. 633 00:28:51,230 --> 00:28:54,650 So, I was just really, you know, excited to see you, 634 00:28:54,650 --> 00:28:56,486 to meet you, to get to know you. 635 00:28:57,111 --> 00:28:58,738 So, is love truly blind? 636 00:29:00,448 --> 00:29:02,200 Yeah, I would say yeah. 637 00:29:02,700 --> 00:29:03,618 For sure. 638 00:29:04,118 --> 00:29:09,999 - ["Still Water" by Tyrone Wells playing] -♪ Will you let me be your sanctuary? ♪ 639 00:29:09,999 --> 00:29:11,876 ♪ Close your eyes ♪ 640 00:29:11,876 --> 00:29:15,171 ♪ I'll keep you safe and sound ♪ 641 00:29:15,171 --> 00:29:17,924 {\an8}♪ Let me be your still water ♪ 642 00:29:17,924 --> 00:29:18,966 {\an8}[Paul] Are you ready? 643 00:29:19,592 --> 00:29:22,720 {\an8}[laughing] Oh, my goodness. 644 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:23,888 {\an8}What do you think? 645 00:29:26,098 --> 00:29:28,434 [Micah] Oh, my God, it's so you. 646 00:29:29,894 --> 00:29:31,103 Oh, my goodness. 647 00:29:31,103 --> 00:29:34,524 - What do you think of these couches? - Oh, my gosh. 648 00:29:34,524 --> 00:29:36,192 {\an8}Where'd you get your couches? 649 00:29:36,192 --> 00:29:40,029 {\an8}Um, this one's Craigslist, and that one was on the side of the road. 650 00:29:40,029 --> 00:29:42,114 - [both laugh] - On the side of the... 651 00:29:42,114 --> 00:29:45,159 - [laughing] - I'm not joking. 652 00:29:45,159 --> 00:29:48,204 [laughing] 653 00:29:48,204 --> 00:29:51,207 {\an8}I think that there's a very good chance that I'm gonna be Paul's fiancée... 654 00:29:51,207 --> 00:29:53,459 {\an8}[laughs] ...and stylist at the same time. 655 00:29:54,043 --> 00:29:56,295 Oh, my God. Your little work-from-home space? 656 00:29:56,295 --> 00:29:59,423 - Yeah, that's my office. - [both laugh] 657 00:29:59,423 --> 00:30:02,301 - [Paul] Could you work there? - Don't know if this looks comfortable. 658 00:30:02,301 --> 00:30:03,636 - A knife? - A pack of knives. 659 00:30:05,012 --> 00:30:07,390 Yeah, wait, why is there one on every single table here? 660 00:30:07,390 --> 00:30:08,474 - I'm scared. - I don't know. 661 00:30:09,058 --> 00:30:11,143 [Micah] What do you think's gonna happen around here? 662 00:30:11,143 --> 00:30:14,981 I would get rid of, like, all the different, like, color woods. 663 00:30:14,981 --> 00:30:15,982 [laughs] 664 00:30:15,982 --> 00:30:17,233 A new desk, 665 00:30:17,233 --> 00:30:20,528 a different couch, like, a different TV, maybe mount something? 666 00:30:20,528 --> 00:30:23,114 [laughs] Aww. 667 00:30:23,114 --> 00:30:24,949 [Paul] As bad as you thought or is it better? 668 00:30:25,533 --> 00:30:27,910 [Micah] I don't really know what I was picturing, actually. 669 00:30:27,910 --> 00:30:30,329 Get, like, some art, a different bed frame. 670 00:30:30,329 --> 00:30:32,999 Change, like, literally everything, probably. [laughs] 671 00:30:32,999 --> 00:30:36,377 That's, like, an incredibly small closet. Interesting. 672 00:30:36,377 --> 00:30:40,214 Like, these are the clothes that I mainly wear. So, these and-- 673 00:30:40,214 --> 00:30:43,092 You keep the clothes that you wear right there on the top of the dresser? 674 00:30:43,092 --> 00:30:45,386 - I just like to be able to see them. - Yeah, okay. 675 00:30:45,386 --> 00:30:46,721 - Paul. - [Paul] What's that? 676 00:30:46,721 --> 00:30:50,099 - Is this your grandfather's? [laughing] - Yeah. [laughs] 677 00:30:50,099 --> 00:30:52,685 Don't worry about it. [laughing] 678 00:30:52,685 --> 00:30:56,939 - Paul, what year... - [both laughing] 679 00:30:59,191 --> 00:31:01,903 Oh, my God, I'm gonna have a stroke. 680 00:31:02,945 --> 00:31:05,615 [Paul] I always feel like I'm going to a funeral when I wear this one. 681 00:31:05,615 --> 00:31:08,451 Wow. Okay, let's leave that here. 682 00:31:08,451 --> 00:31:09,368 [Paul] Yeah. 683 00:31:09,994 --> 00:31:13,080 - Very eclectic sense of style. - It just keeps on giving. 684 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,958 [chuckles] Oh, my God. I think that's enough of that. 685 00:31:16,626 --> 00:31:17,877 Oh, my goodness. 686 00:31:19,128 --> 00:31:21,631 Well, what do you think? 687 00:31:21,631 --> 00:31:23,090 [laughing] 688 00:31:23,090 --> 00:31:26,844 It's very you. Like, if I came in, and your place was perfectly decorated, 689 00:31:26,844 --> 00:31:28,721 I'd be like, "Who did this?" 690 00:31:28,721 --> 00:31:29,889 - [Paul] Right. - You know? 691 00:31:29,889 --> 00:31:31,849 Could you see yourself living here? 692 00:31:32,642 --> 00:31:33,768 Um... 693 00:31:37,021 --> 00:31:39,315 I think that if we were planning on staying, 694 00:31:39,315 --> 00:31:41,817 like, in Seattle for, like, long-term, 695 00:31:41,817 --> 00:31:44,153 I probably wouldn't wanna stay here. 696 00:31:45,279 --> 00:31:48,824 Just 'cause, like, office space. I'd probably want at least two bedrooms. 697 00:31:48,824 --> 00:31:52,578 Just so we can have space, especially if you're gonna be working from home. 698 00:31:52,578 --> 00:31:53,955 We have your place here, 699 00:31:53,955 --> 00:31:56,749 I have my place here, and then the place in Arizona. 700 00:31:56,749 --> 00:32:00,211 - Yeah. - Then we would just get rid of this. 701 00:32:03,130 --> 00:32:05,466 A good tentative plan would be, like, 702 00:32:05,466 --> 00:32:10,554 to kind of, like, bounce back and forth between here and, like, Arizona. 703 00:32:11,263 --> 00:32:12,139 [Paul] No. 704 00:32:13,182 --> 00:32:15,267 I know. I'm joking, but also not. 705 00:32:15,267 --> 00:32:18,270 - ["Tryst" by I, Us, & We playing] -♪ Love and be strong ♪ 706 00:32:19,230 --> 00:32:21,357 ♪ Love cannot fade... ♪ 707 00:32:21,357 --> 00:32:23,401 If you give it a chance, like, fine. 708 00:32:23,401 --> 00:32:26,612 Like, what would, like, upset me is you not, like, trying. 709 00:32:26,612 --> 00:32:27,530 Yeah. 710 00:32:28,197 --> 00:32:32,159 Um, follow up with an email, if you could, after this meeting. 711 00:32:32,159 --> 00:32:34,787 ♪ And I can't shake this game ♪ 712 00:32:34,787 --> 00:32:39,542 {\an8}Oh no, it's-- it's hard getting through, like, the tough, like, real conversations. 713 00:32:39,542 --> 00:32:43,879 I'm a little worried that Paul won't, you know, give Arizona a chance. 714 00:32:43,879 --> 00:32:47,299 He needs to be in Seattle for work, and he has his place here, 715 00:32:47,299 --> 00:32:51,303 and I also have my place in Arizona, um, and I split my time. 716 00:32:51,303 --> 00:32:53,723 So, we kind of need to figure out where we're gonna live. 717 00:32:53,723 --> 00:32:57,393 It's just weird, like, looking at him, like, when we're talking seriously. 718 00:32:57,393 --> 00:32:59,478 I almost feel like he's a different person. 719 00:32:59,478 --> 00:33:03,065 I'm just like, "Who is that?" Like, you know what I mean? 720 00:33:03,065 --> 00:33:05,776 But I think that we're gonna have to, like, work through that 721 00:33:05,776 --> 00:33:07,319 and be able to compromise. 722 00:33:07,319 --> 00:33:09,280 This is the side that is stressful. 723 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,240 - Yeah. - And it's, like, it's real stress. 724 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,659 And I think that I'm feeling that right now. 725 00:33:13,659 --> 00:33:16,287 - And I imagine you probably are as well. - Mm-hmm. 726 00:33:17,705 --> 00:33:18,539 Yeah. 727 00:33:20,666 --> 00:33:26,172 ♪ Call it a tryst, feelings I missed ♪ 728 00:33:26,172 --> 00:33:28,632 ♪ Now you're loved ♪ 729 00:33:35,639 --> 00:33:37,725 I still have not gotten a chance to talk to my mom. 730 00:33:37,725 --> 00:33:39,018 {\an8}- Yeah. - [Kwame] You know? 731 00:33:40,478 --> 00:33:45,107 {\an8}[chuckles] So, I'm not sure if she knows 732 00:33:45,107 --> 00:33:47,026 and just isn't picking up or what the case? 733 00:33:47,026 --> 00:33:49,987 I don't think that's the case. I know some parts of me just think like-- 734 00:33:49,987 --> 00:33:52,865 I mean, I feel pretty confident about things. 735 00:33:52,865 --> 00:33:56,577 I'm like, "Yeah, sure she'll be fine." But at the same time, will she? 736 00:33:56,577 --> 00:33:57,661 You know? 737 00:33:57,661 --> 00:33:59,330 So I'm gonna give her another call. 738 00:34:00,247 --> 00:34:02,166 [Chelsea] Am I able to be a part of that? 739 00:34:02,166 --> 00:34:03,667 You wanna talk to her? 740 00:34:05,669 --> 00:34:07,421 It's-- It's your mom. 741 00:34:07,421 --> 00:34:09,048 - I-- I don't know her. - Yeah. 742 00:34:09,048 --> 00:34:12,718 Obviously, I would love to, uh, if it was the right opportunity. 743 00:34:12,718 --> 00:34:14,762 - [Kwame] Yeah. - And in the right moment. 744 00:34:14,762 --> 00:34:17,473 I'd obviously love to introduce you to her, you know. 745 00:34:17,473 --> 00:34:20,726 Um, I just think this first conversation's gotta be from me. 746 00:34:20,726 --> 00:34:22,019 All right. 747 00:34:22,019 --> 00:34:24,522 [line ringing] 748 00:34:28,484 --> 00:34:30,194 Do you have a minute to talk? 749 00:34:31,195 --> 00:34:34,573 {\an8}So, uh, I wanted to just let you know 750 00:34:34,573 --> 00:34:37,451 {\an8}that I did find someone in the experiment. 751 00:34:37,451 --> 00:34:40,079 Um, her name was Chelsea. 752 00:34:40,079 --> 00:34:44,583 And, um, you know, I did take the step forward and, 753 00:34:45,167 --> 00:34:48,587 uh, ask her, uh, for her hand in marriage. 754 00:34:49,380 --> 00:34:51,841 And so, I wanted to 755 00:34:53,092 --> 00:34:55,970 kind of just take a chance to tell you, 756 00:34:55,970 --> 00:34:59,056 um, about that experience and where I am. 757 00:35:05,855 --> 00:35:06,981 You're mad? 758 00:35:08,732 --> 00:35:12,528 All right, Mom. I appreciate your honesty, as usual. 759 00:35:12,528 --> 00:35:15,656 It's a tough situation for a mom to walk into things like this. 760 00:35:15,656 --> 00:35:17,491 You know, I don't disagree with you. 761 00:35:18,075 --> 00:35:20,619 So, I understand. I understand where you're coming from. 762 00:35:20,619 --> 00:35:23,789 So, I'll respect that, but I do think we should, uh... 763 00:35:24,290 --> 00:35:26,584 We should talk about this again sometime. Bye. 764 00:35:26,584 --> 00:35:28,627 [line beeps] 765 00:35:33,549 --> 00:35:34,466 [exhales] 766 00:35:37,219 --> 00:35:38,137 Didn't go well. 767 00:35:41,724 --> 00:35:44,351 My mom's been a big part of my life. Massive. 768 00:35:44,351 --> 00:35:45,603 She said that, 769 00:35:46,437 --> 00:35:47,521 as a mother, 770 00:35:48,105 --> 00:35:50,357 as someone who... [chuckles] 771 00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:53,527 ...you know, would expect more from me. 772 00:35:54,195 --> 00:35:56,113 Um, I didn't do the right thing. 773 00:35:56,113 --> 00:35:58,949 She doesn't think that I used my head in this situation. 774 00:35:58,949 --> 00:36:01,869 Um, and that, um, 775 00:36:03,537 --> 00:36:06,123 she can't really say that she's happy for me. 776 00:36:06,123 --> 00:36:08,876 I mean, that's a little tough to hear, you know. 777 00:36:08,876 --> 00:36:10,961 Yeah, I'm really sorry. That's... 778 00:36:11,962 --> 00:36:13,047 Yeah, I mean... 779 00:36:13,047 --> 00:36:15,132 ...heartbreaking, really. [exhales] 780 00:36:15,132 --> 00:36:18,177 Well, I mean, I told her. I said, "Hey..." 781 00:36:21,138 --> 00:36:23,349 "You have to understand that the decisions that I've made 782 00:36:23,349 --> 00:36:25,267 for myself in life have been good ones." 783 00:36:25,935 --> 00:36:29,063 "I accepted all the failures in order to find the successes." 784 00:36:29,563 --> 00:36:33,901 "So, I believe that I make the right choices for myself." 785 00:36:36,111 --> 00:36:38,739 "And I believe I made the right choice for myself this time as well." 786 00:36:39,907 --> 00:36:40,741 So... 787 00:36:44,203 --> 00:36:46,205 - It's only uphill from here. - [laughs] 788 00:36:46,205 --> 00:36:48,999 - It's only uphill from here. - I'm sorry, baby. 789 00:36:48,999 --> 00:36:50,292 [Kwame laughs] 790 00:36:54,630 --> 00:36:55,631 It's gotta hurt. 791 00:37:04,265 --> 00:37:05,099 Yeah. 792 00:37:05,099 --> 00:37:06,725 [slow-tempo music playing] 793 00:37:09,144 --> 00:37:13,315 ♪ Come with me to my lonely world ♪ 794 00:37:13,315 --> 00:37:15,359 ♪ Come ♪ 795 00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:20,114 ♪ Come ♪ 796 00:37:23,075 --> 00:37:24,535 ♪ Come with me ♪ 797 00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:26,745 {\an8}♪ Come with me ♪ 798 00:37:29,498 --> 00:37:31,500 ♪ To my lonely world ♪ 799 00:37:31,500 --> 00:37:33,127 Ooh! 800 00:37:34,128 --> 00:37:35,379 {\an8}[laughing] 801 00:37:35,379 --> 00:37:37,756 {\an8}- Your turn to cook tonight? - [Tiffany] It is. 802 00:37:37,756 --> 00:37:41,260 - I gotta put in some work, right? - [Brett] Where did you learn how to cook? 803 00:37:41,260 --> 00:37:42,511 Food Network. 804 00:37:43,012 --> 00:37:44,722 - Really? - And my mom. [laughs] 805 00:37:44,722 --> 00:37:47,349 I hope it won't make you nervous if I just kinda... 806 00:37:47,349 --> 00:37:51,645 This is my first meal for you. So yeah, I'm a little nervous. 807 00:37:51,645 --> 00:37:54,189 [Brett] No pressure. I have the utmost confidence. 808 00:37:54,189 --> 00:37:56,275 - Do you? Okay. - [Brett] In your cooking ability. 809 00:37:56,275 --> 00:37:57,776 - [Tiffany] Okay. - [chuckles] 810 00:37:57,776 --> 00:38:01,363 So, Brett, I was thinking about, like... 811 00:38:03,032 --> 00:38:04,533 What are we, two weeks? 812 00:38:04,533 --> 00:38:06,535 - Two weeks away from our wedding. - [clears throat] 813 00:38:06,535 --> 00:38:09,371 - That's crazy to think, ain't it? - [gasping] I know. 814 00:38:09,371 --> 00:38:12,458 Um, so, I think I'm just trying to understand, like, 815 00:38:12,458 --> 00:38:15,669 what our lifestyle would look like out there. 816 00:38:15,669 --> 00:38:16,754 [Brett] Mm-hmm. 817 00:38:16,754 --> 00:38:19,048 I'm comfortable and happy, 818 00:38:19,631 --> 00:38:22,718 like, with what I'm spending, how much I'm making. 819 00:38:22,718 --> 00:38:25,888 How about you? Like, do you feel like you're overextended... 820 00:38:26,388 --> 00:38:27,222 - No. - ...in your... 821 00:38:27,806 --> 00:38:30,642 - No? - [Brett] No. I'm a really simple person. 822 00:38:30,642 --> 00:38:32,061 [pan sizzling] 823 00:38:32,061 --> 00:38:33,103 [Tiffany] Really? 824 00:38:35,689 --> 00:38:38,984 - With...? - Your eyes look like all kind of doubt. 825 00:38:38,984 --> 00:38:42,738 I mean, you do, you know, you dress very nice, Brett. 826 00:38:42,738 --> 00:38:44,907 I know that stuff ain't cheap. [chuckles] 827 00:38:44,907 --> 00:38:46,992 I looked at some of your wardrobe, 828 00:38:46,992 --> 00:38:50,996 and I was like, "Oh. Oh, he's spending the big bucks." 829 00:38:50,996 --> 00:38:52,414 [laughs] 830 00:38:55,959 --> 00:38:58,921 I'm not gonna lie. Yeah, do I have a few things that... 831 00:39:00,923 --> 00:39:03,092 I spent some money on? Of course. 832 00:39:03,092 --> 00:39:06,887 What is the most you spent on a certain item? 833 00:39:08,639 --> 00:39:10,140 I would say... 834 00:39:15,896 --> 00:39:17,189 Well... 835 00:39:18,315 --> 00:39:20,192 The most expensive thing 836 00:39:20,192 --> 00:39:22,820 that I've bought that isn't, like, tech, 837 00:39:22,820 --> 00:39:25,072 because that stuff is generally gonna be expensive. 838 00:39:25,072 --> 00:39:25,989 [Tiffany] Mm-hmm. 839 00:39:25,989 --> 00:39:29,451 Uh, I got some expensive luggage. 840 00:39:30,869 --> 00:39:32,162 How much did you pay for it? 841 00:39:32,871 --> 00:39:37,042 Like, at least, like, my carry-- yeah, my, uh, check bag was, like, 842 00:39:37,918 --> 00:39:38,877 $1,200? 843 00:39:38,877 --> 00:39:41,171 Brett! No! 844 00:39:41,171 --> 00:39:44,091 - [laughing] - Are you kidding me? Luggage? 845 00:39:48,011 --> 00:39:49,471 But it'll last. 846 00:39:49,471 --> 00:39:52,057 - It should. It better. - And-- And it looks good. 847 00:39:52,057 --> 00:39:54,393 - [laughs] - Bougie Brett. 848 00:39:54,393 --> 00:39:56,061 [laughing] 849 00:39:56,061 --> 00:39:59,857 You are, like, this creative too. 850 00:39:59,857 --> 00:40:04,528 Like, I think you have very good style and very good taste. 851 00:40:04,528 --> 00:40:07,448 I just wanna make sure it's within the budget 852 00:40:07,448 --> 00:40:09,491 I feel comfortable with spending. 853 00:40:09,491 --> 00:40:10,576 Here's my thing. 854 00:40:10,576 --> 00:40:12,953 I don't need to know everything you spend things on, 855 00:40:12,953 --> 00:40:14,621 just as long as you pay the bills. 856 00:40:15,289 --> 00:40:16,665 Um, and to be honest, 857 00:40:16,665 --> 00:40:20,961 I don't want somebody telling me how I should be spending my money, 858 00:40:20,961 --> 00:40:22,671 because I'm doing okay already. 859 00:40:24,047 --> 00:40:26,550 [Brett] In terms of, like, our bills, like, 860 00:40:27,342 --> 00:40:29,470 it doesn't have to be down the middle for me. 861 00:40:29,470 --> 00:40:32,639 I'd be fine with saying, "Well, I'll get 75% of this." 862 00:40:33,182 --> 00:40:35,392 - Or 60-40. - Oh, yeah. 863 00:40:36,351 --> 00:40:37,394 - Yeah. - You know, whatever. 864 00:40:37,394 --> 00:40:41,273 If we, you know, said that there's a few bills or certain bills. 865 00:40:41,273 --> 00:40:44,026 Like, I don't know if it's a rent or mortgage or something like that. 866 00:40:44,026 --> 00:40:46,487 If we wanted to pay together to avoid the... 867 00:40:46,487 --> 00:40:50,741 "I paid, and you pay me back. Or you paid, and I pay you back." 868 00:40:50,741 --> 00:40:53,202 - That feels like a roommate situation. - Exactly. 869 00:40:53,202 --> 00:40:55,454 I pay you. Then I'm looking at you like, "Hey, babe." 870 00:40:55,454 --> 00:40:57,372 "Like, when you gonna pay me my half back?" 871 00:40:57,372 --> 00:41:00,250 - You better send me that Venmo real quick. - Exactly. 872 00:41:00,250 --> 00:41:04,046 [laughs] I don't wanna be sending Venmo requests. 873 00:41:04,046 --> 00:41:07,090 - [laughing] Oh, my God, I know. - To my wife for our mortgage payment. 874 00:41:07,090 --> 00:41:09,468 That does not sound like something I wanna do. 875 00:41:09,468 --> 00:41:13,305 Real quick side note. You are burning up this kitchen. 876 00:41:13,305 --> 00:41:16,225 - [Tiffany] Oh, well, because-- Oh! - [laughing] 877 00:41:16,934 --> 00:41:17,851 [Tiffany] Mm. 878 00:41:19,353 --> 00:41:21,104 Ooh! 879 00:41:21,104 --> 00:41:24,149 - [Brett] Whoa! - [both laughing] 880 00:41:24,149 --> 00:41:26,026 [pop music playing] 881 00:41:30,030 --> 00:41:32,324 {\an8}♪ All I know is all I want is you ♪ 882 00:41:35,118 --> 00:41:37,496 - At least the sun's coming out. - A little bit. 883 00:41:37,496 --> 00:41:39,331 - Yeah, it is. - Our ghost pilot is... 884 00:41:40,165 --> 00:41:43,377 - [Bliss laughs] Ghost pilot. It is trippy. - [Zack] Ghost captain. 885 00:41:43,377 --> 00:41:47,089 It literally feels like there is a gremlin or something in there. 886 00:41:48,090 --> 00:41:49,883 - Gremlin? - Like, you know, from-- 887 00:41:49,883 --> 00:41:50,842 [Zack] I do. I do. 888 00:41:50,842 --> 00:41:55,013 I don't know if I was born when that came out, but I watched it at some point. 889 00:41:55,013 --> 00:41:58,058 It's like the little-- What are they before they become gremlins? 890 00:41:58,058 --> 00:41:59,935 I don't know, but then if you put water on 'em, 891 00:41:59,935 --> 00:42:01,937 they reproduce, and they create more monsters. 892 00:42:01,937 --> 00:42:05,190 I think if they put water on them after a certain-- 893 00:42:05,190 --> 00:42:07,568 after midnight or something, they turn into gremlins. 894 00:42:07,568 --> 00:42:09,278 - Or something like that. - Mm. 895 00:42:09,278 --> 00:42:11,697 They turn into whatever the cute, like, little furbos. 896 00:42:11,697 --> 00:42:14,533 Did you ever have, like, a furbo? Or not a furbo-- 897 00:42:14,533 --> 00:42:15,492 I had a Furby. 898 00:42:15,492 --> 00:42:18,620 - A Furby. That's it! [laughs] - Yeah. [chuckles] 899 00:42:18,620 --> 00:42:21,415 - I thought they were the coolest things. - They were so lame. 900 00:42:21,415 --> 00:42:24,334 - Uh, yeah. They were totally oversold. - They really were. 901 00:42:24,334 --> 00:42:27,170 They were starting to sell smart A.I. in a stuffed animal. 902 00:42:27,170 --> 00:42:29,172 - I know. - And it was not. 903 00:42:29,172 --> 00:42:30,340 It was not. 904 00:42:30,340 --> 00:42:32,801 No, but it's funny 'cause, like, the random... 905 00:42:32,801 --> 00:42:35,512 Like, the little-- It was like "didja..." 906 00:42:35,512 --> 00:42:39,182 What was it? The little, like... What were those things called? 907 00:42:39,182 --> 00:42:40,434 - Digipets. - Digipets. 908 00:42:40,434 --> 00:42:43,186 - [laughing] - Uh-huh. 909 00:42:43,186 --> 00:42:46,857 They were pretty lame compared to the toys that are out now. 910 00:42:46,857 --> 00:42:49,484 But you know what never goes out of style is stuffed animals. 911 00:42:52,738 --> 00:42:55,949 - You don't like pineapple? - Pineapple is actually my favorite fruit. 912 00:42:56,617 --> 00:42:59,286 - Of all the fruits. - I don't know how you can pick one. 913 00:42:59,786 --> 00:43:02,164 - They're all so good. - I think it would go pineapple. 914 00:43:02,164 --> 00:43:04,583 Raspberries, mango. 915 00:43:05,417 --> 00:43:07,753 Mango. Really, mango? After... 916 00:43:08,587 --> 00:43:11,840 I think mango, I'd put mango first above. I think I would put mango... 917 00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:15,636 Out of those three, I would rate it mango, pineapple and raspberries. 918 00:43:15,636 --> 00:43:18,138 I make a really good dark chocolate raspberry cake. 919 00:43:18,138 --> 00:43:21,558 - [Zack] Oh, my God, sounds delicious. - [Bliss] Yeah, with fresh raspberry jam. 920 00:43:21,558 --> 00:43:23,644 - I'm not a big jam guy. - It can be meditative thing. 921 00:43:23,644 --> 00:43:25,020 - Really? - No. 922 00:43:25,020 --> 00:43:29,650 [chuckles] Hmm, like a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, that wasn't your jam? 923 00:43:29,650 --> 00:43:31,234 I love that. Sometimes I'll make that. 924 00:43:31,234 --> 00:43:34,613 Did you say, "Peanut butter and jelly was not your jam"? That's hilarious. 925 00:43:34,613 --> 00:43:37,699 [Bliss] I know. I didn't mean to be so punful, but I was. 926 00:43:37,699 --> 00:43:39,242 [Zack] I really appreciate it. 927 00:43:39,242 --> 00:43:41,328 [both laughing] 928 00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:44,873 [Bliss] I would hold your hand, but I have to have one hand on the boat. 929 00:43:44,873 --> 00:43:46,166 I'm a rule follower. [laughs] 930 00:43:46,166 --> 00:43:48,627 [Zack] You got one hand on the boat, one hand on your drink. 931 00:43:48,627 --> 00:43:51,254 [Bliss] I feel like you're way more nervous about this than I am. 932 00:43:51,254 --> 00:43:52,506 [laughs] 933 00:43:52,506 --> 00:43:54,883 - [Zack] Make sure you didn't fall over. - That was sweet. 934 00:43:59,805 --> 00:44:02,099 - [Zack laughs] Is my hand cold? - Yeah, it is. [laughs] 935 00:44:02,099 --> 00:44:04,893 I'm never warmer than people, but I'm also wearing something thinner. 936 00:44:05,018 --> 00:44:07,062 [Zack] You can tell someone's colder than you. 937 00:44:07,062 --> 00:44:09,731 It's 'cause they feel warm, so you always know who's a warm person. 938 00:44:09,731 --> 00:44:12,526 [Bliss] I know. This is a very bizarre experience for me, 939 00:44:12,526 --> 00:44:14,903 and I actually, like, don't like it, 'cause you're cold. 940 00:44:14,903 --> 00:44:16,405 [laughing] 941 00:44:16,405 --> 00:44:19,032 I know how other people feel when I'm like, "Ah, I'm cold." 942 00:44:19,032 --> 00:44:21,159 - They're like, "Get away!" - Give me your warmth. 943 00:44:21,159 --> 00:44:22,661 - [laughs] - You can have some of it. 944 00:44:24,705 --> 00:44:27,499 - [laughs] I know. - [sighs] 945 00:44:27,499 --> 00:44:29,418 - [Bliss] Oh, you need the sun? - [Zack] Yeah. 946 00:44:29,418 --> 00:44:32,379 [Bliss laughing] Okay, just don't fall over. 947 00:44:32,379 --> 00:44:34,756 [Zack exhales] I'm really glad you're here. 948 00:44:36,299 --> 00:44:38,301 - Look, your hat might go overboard. - [Bliss] Why? 949 00:44:39,386 --> 00:44:40,721 I don't like it. 950 00:44:40,721 --> 00:44:41,763 It's like a kiss guard. 951 00:44:41,763 --> 00:44:43,807 I just wanna go to those luscious lips of yours. 952 00:44:43,807 --> 00:44:46,393 - You have to work hard for this. - [Zack] I will work hard for it. 953 00:44:46,393 --> 00:44:48,061 Mm-hmm. 954 00:44:48,061 --> 00:44:48,979 Fine. 955 00:44:50,605 --> 00:44:52,524 [laughing] Are you freezing? 956 00:44:52,524 --> 00:44:55,986 Do you want, like, a blanket or something? 957 00:44:55,986 --> 00:44:58,655 Maybe you can ask them for a blanket. 958 00:44:58,655 --> 00:45:01,491 You're just trying to get really close to me to steal my warmth. 959 00:45:01,491 --> 00:45:03,076 I don't have any to give! 960 00:45:03,702 --> 00:45:06,997 - [groans] You wanna fix my hair? - It's okay. It's just... 961 00:45:06,997 --> 00:45:08,248 [laughing] 962 00:45:08,248 --> 00:45:12,878 It's fine. It's just gonna do what it's gonna do. It's okay. 963 00:45:15,922 --> 00:45:18,759 If you could meet anybody in the world, who would you pick? 964 00:45:18,759 --> 00:45:20,469 - [Bliss] That's alive? - Yeah. 965 00:45:21,219 --> 00:45:24,014 I think I would choose to meet, like, Oprah. 966 00:45:24,014 --> 00:45:25,849 - Oprah? Winfrey? - [Bliss] Mm-hmm. 967 00:45:25,849 --> 00:45:28,727 - Wow. - She's a very, like, powerful woman, yeah. 968 00:45:28,727 --> 00:45:29,728 What about you? 969 00:45:30,312 --> 00:45:31,313 Your parents. 970 00:45:32,481 --> 00:45:35,108 [Bliss] You totally set that up. You're so cheesy. 971 00:45:35,108 --> 00:45:36,318 [laughs] 972 00:45:37,861 --> 00:45:40,864 My mom is amazing. I think I told you that. 973 00:45:40,864 --> 00:45:44,618 My dad is amazing in his own ways too, so. 974 00:45:47,078 --> 00:45:48,205 What are you doing? 975 00:45:52,083 --> 00:45:53,210 What are you doing? 976 00:45:58,340 --> 00:46:02,093 Bliss, you're everything that I've been looking for my entire life. 977 00:46:08,308 --> 00:46:11,019 You are beautiful, intelligent, 978 00:46:11,937 --> 00:46:12,896 driven, 979 00:46:13,897 --> 00:46:14,731 thoughtful. 980 00:46:16,107 --> 00:46:19,945 When I'm with you, you just make me feel warm. 981 00:46:21,279 --> 00:46:24,324 I just wanna be with you. I just wanna spend time with you. 982 00:46:24,324 --> 00:46:26,910 I believe there's nobody in this world 983 00:46:27,911 --> 00:46:30,580 who I'm meant to be with more than you. 984 00:46:34,626 --> 00:46:36,002 No matter what I did. 985 00:46:36,628 --> 00:46:38,255 No matter how stupid I was. 986 00:46:40,757 --> 00:46:42,259 We were always gonna end up here. 987 00:46:45,512 --> 00:46:46,763 I found my person. 988 00:46:52,018 --> 00:46:53,270 Will you marry me? 989 00:46:54,855 --> 00:46:56,857 [dramatic music playing]