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{\an8}[Chelsea sighs] Well, here goes nothing.
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{\an8}- Hi!
- [Chelsea] Hi, Dad!
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{\an8}Chelsea, how are you?
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{\an8}I'm good. Thanks for coming.
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{\an8}Oh, my goodness.
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{\an8}- Hello, hello.
- Dad, this is Kwame.
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{\an8}- This is my dad Charlie.
- Hey, Charlie.
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{\an8}- Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you as well.
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- All right.
- Come on in.
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Dad, take a seat.
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We both got, you know, the opportunity
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to engage in this social love experiment.
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[Charlie] Mm-hmm.
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And we dated a lot of people.
We do not see one another.
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The idea is that you're kind of getting
to the core of your values.
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You're being vulnerable,
talking about your life, your stories.
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What made you who you are.
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[Charlie] Mm-hmm.
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Can we have this connection
beyond the physical?
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- Mm-hmm.
- [Chelsea] Um, and we did.
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It really just felt right.
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- [Charlie] Hmm.
- And the idea is, you know, is love blind?
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Can you fall in love with somebody
without ever seeing them?
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And we fell in love blind.
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And at the end,
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he proposed to me.
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Okay.
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- Um, and I said yes.
- [laughing]
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Oh, you did?
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[Kwame and Chelsea laughing]
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Well, isn't that something?
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[laughing]
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- I'm so happy for you, honey.
- Yeah, thanks, Dad.
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Oh, my gosh. Well, that's amazing.
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[both] Yeah.
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I'll be darned.
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Um, I'm shocked.
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Okay, guys, let's eat. Come on up.
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{\an8}But I'm super hopeful that the rest
of my family will accept Kwame
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and will understand our connection
and our relationship.
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Just as much as my dad does.
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You're in Portland.
You're in Seattle. How's that gonna work?
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Our plan is to kind of stay here,
settle here for a couple of years.
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And then, who knows?
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- It's a lot of variables, a lot of work.
- [Chelsea] Yeah, it is.
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- [Kwame] Mm-hmm.
- But, uh, hey, life's too short.
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And it's better to be shared.
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- Yeah.
- Yeah, you got a teammate.
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- Yeah, you got a teammate.
- [Kwame] Yeah.
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It seems like you're in favor
of what we have going on,
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but just wanted to know from you, like,
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do-- do I have your blessing
to move forward?
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Absolutely.
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- You guys, I'm so happy for you.
- Thanks, Dad.
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- Well, thank you.
- Yeah.
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- Mmm! We love you, Dad. Thank you so much.
- Yeah, cheers, Charlie.
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- I'm so happy for you guys.
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- Thank you, Dad.
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You're getting a good deal on Chelsea.
I'll tell you a story--
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- You're get-- [laughing]
- You're getting a good deal.
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- Getting a discount.
- You're getting--
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[laughing]
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"You're getting a good deal
on my daughter."
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- [laughing]
- On sale!
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I love you so much, Kwame.
You can have her 75% off.
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{\an8}♪ No one like you ♪
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- [Paul] So, how was the flight?
- [woman] Oh, it was great.
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It wasn't too long?
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It was not. And either I was running
on adrenaline or it just somehow...
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{\an8}I had no anxiety. It was so much fun.
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{\an8}No turbulence or anything.
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{\an8}[Paul] I'm super excited
for Micah to meet my mom.
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She has flown in today.
She came all the way from New Orleans.
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- I can't wait for you to meet Micah.
- Oh, I can't wait. I can't wait!
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{\an8}So, there wasn't a whole lot
of conversation between me and my mom
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{\an8}on, like, who Micah was.
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{\an8}Like, I wanted her to judge her
for herself, and I hope she likes her.
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What was it that drew you to her the most?
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What drew me to her initially was
actually, like, this intuitive feeling.
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To me, I know, like,
I can't talk to everyone like you can.
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[Elizabeth] Uh-huh.
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So, I know that if I can talk
to her like that,
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then there's something special there.
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Right.
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{\an8}Hello? Hi!
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{\an8}- [Elizabeth] Hi!
- [laughing] So nice to meet you.
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- [Elizabeth] You are gorgeous!
- You're so cute.
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- I might cry, and I'm not a crier.
- [laughs] I'm so excited!
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- [Paul] Come sit.
- Whew! That was tough. [laughs]
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- We have matching hair.
- [laughing]
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- Yeah.
- Oh, wow!
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[Micah] Oh, my God.
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[chuckles] Trying to make some room.
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[Elizabeth] Oh, nice.
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[chuckles] I cannot believe
you're engaged.
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- [laughs]
- Yeah. [laughs]
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- I have wanted this for him for so long.
- [Micah laughs]
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I mean he's so-- Oh, such a sweetheart.
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- Hard to picture, huh?
- [Elizabeth] Yeah.
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- [laughing]
- [Elizabeth] Yeah.
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Well, because I'm the mom,
the helicopter mom.
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[laughing]
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[Elizabeth] I don't even know how
to start this. I'm a paralegal.
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And, um, you know,
I have a big tribe at home.
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And he's like the baby Jesus
of the family. He's the firstborn.
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And so, as soon as Paul said,
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"Yes, I met somebody,
and her name is Micah,"
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we went to town.
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And I was telling them, I'm like,
"I think we found Micah online."
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"But we're not sure."
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He's like, "Oh, really?
What do you think?"
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I'm like, "Well, I think her dad's name
is Paul. He lives in Mobile."
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His mom is a deep beautiful Christian
and owns a daycare."
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-"Anything else you wanna know?"
- [laughing] Oh, my gosh!
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Well, yeah.
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Just from her first name,
you figured all that out?
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- From her first name.
- Oh, my gosh. That's so funny.
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What was one of the first things
that you were like, "Oh, I like Paul?"
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[Micah] Yeah.
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We immediately were talking about travel
and just, like, our outlook on life.
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And, like, I think that was probably
the first thing that was like,
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"Oh, Paul's so exciting."
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But like, that, like, showed me,
kind of, like, what he wanted in life
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and what he saw as a future.
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And I was like,
"That's the exact same mindset I have."
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We are very different.
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- I'm very, like, hair, makeup.
- [Elizabeth] Kind of like me.
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[Micah] Yeah, yeah, like that.
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But he also, like,
has the ability to, like, ground me a bit.
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And I feel like it just,
like, balances me out really well.
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So, I just like how he, like, makes me...
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[Elizabeth] Aww!
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...behave and act and feel,
and just, like, that security.
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I feel like we actually love,
like, being with each other.
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Like, when we're not even, like, talking.
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We're like... I remember this morning,
you were like, "Where are you?"
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I was like, "I'm downstairs."
You're like, "I miss you."
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- [chuckles] I love that.
- [Micah laughs]
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I mean, y'all are perfect for this.
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Perfect fit.
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The work thing is going,
like, really well for me,
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and we're at the right age,
and clearly, I'm not dating anyone.
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[laughing]
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I think we're ready for it. Um...
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Paul, I've never seen you like this.
So, I'm like...
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How so?
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Like, just happy and in love and--
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'Cause, I mean, he hasn't really had,
like, an even potential fiancée.
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[Paul] Yeah, not really.
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- Yeah.
- [Elizabeth] So, this is huge.
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[Micah] I know. I'm excited.
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I feel like just, like, seeing you, like,
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somehow makes me, like, love Paul more.
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I don't know what it is, and I think
I just, like, see such a, like, fun life.
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I love her. I see why you love her.
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- I knew you would.
- [laughs] Oh, my God, you're so sweet.
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I mean it. I'm so serious.
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[Micah] I love that Paul,
you know, his mom and I are so similar.
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{\an8}She is just about
the cutest thing I've ever seen.
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And I feel like it was just so easy
to, like, make a connection with her.
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And I've always really wanted,
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like, a good extended family
that I was really close with.
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And I feel, like, with her,
there's such a good possibility
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that we'd be, like, such good friends.
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Not only, like, mother-in-law,
like, daughter-in-law relationship.
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I'm just so happy
you made it down here to see us.
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It's so funny 'cause,
like, there's so many times
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where Paul and I have been like,
"You know, we're so different."
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"Like, I wonder
why we're so attracted to each other."
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[laughs] And it's, like, well, here we go.
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[laughs] You're marrying your mom.
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- You guys are so similar.
- [laughs] I love that he says that.
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- Oh, my God.
- [laughing]
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If you support us, then I'm happy.
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[Elizabeth] Total support.
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Gosh! I'm sorry. I've been
beside myself waiting for this day.
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[laughs] Oh, my gosh!
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- And you're even more adorable in person.
- Oh, that makes me so happy.
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- I'm happy I passed the background check.
- [Elizabeth laughing]
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[Micah] That would have
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- ["Better Than a Dream" playing]
- ♪ Better than a dream come true ♪
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{\an8}♪ Better than a dream come true-ooh! ♪
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{\an8}[Brett] Welcome.
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{\an8}[Tiffany] Okay.
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This looks good.
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[Brett] So...
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{\an8}Is this my future home?
Like, would I be moving into here?
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- [Brett chuckles] Yeah, yeah.
- [Tiffany] Look at all these shoes!
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[Brett] Tiffany was with a roommate,
so today we're checking out my apartment,
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{\an8}so she can see if this is a place
that she would wanna live in.
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[sighs] Well,
where am I gonna put my shoes?
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[Brett] We can buy more boxes.
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I would say I'm just most nervous,
anxious, whatever you wanna call it,
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just about how, whenever she brings
in her stuff with my stuff,
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like, how are we gonna merge it together?
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[laughs]
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Is that your vacuum?
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- That is my vacuum.
- [beeps]
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- [Tiffany] What is this?
- It's a VR headset.
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Oh. Oh!
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- [Brett] Let me show you one other thing.
- What?
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It's all, like, uh,
controlled through an app.
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[Tiffany] Brett! Ooh!
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So this is--
you don't have to even hold this.
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It has, like,
a little tension rod in the back.
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So, you just...
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- Hmm! Where's your trash can?
- Right here.
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Everything in your place is so high-end.
Bougie Brett!
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- [Brett] It's all about efficiency.
- [Tiffany laughs] Okay.
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[Brett] Uh, bedroom. Nothing--
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- [Tiffany] Nice.
- [Brett] Nothing-- nothing crazy here.
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Oh! You're so freaking neat.
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- It's not that neat.
- I think it's neat.
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- Look at this.
- [Brett] It's not that neat.
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- [Tiffany] Oh!
- [Brett] More shoes, yes.
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Okay, so you only have two closets?
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- Yeah.
- The one with...
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- All my photography stuff.
- And this one.
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So, closet space for us
definitely would be a little bit of a...
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a thing.
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- I mean, even the computer space.
- Mm-hmm.
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Where would I work?
Like, would I set up a desk right here?
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If you like this building,
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like I said, what I could do is just
move into a bigger unit in this building.
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- Okay.
- So a two or three-bedroom or something.
230
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[Tiffany] Um...
231
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[Brett] Anyway, that's the tour.
232
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- [Tiffany] I like it.
- That's the space.
233
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I could work with this.
234
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I could.
235
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I'm really excited about moving in here.
236
00:10:44,978 --> 00:10:46,689
- Are you nervous?
- No.
237
00:10:46,689 --> 00:10:50,025
Like, when I say that,
that doesn't scare you?
238
00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:54,863
No. Like, if anything,
I've been doing my own thing for so long.
239
00:10:54,863 --> 00:10:55,781
Yeah.
240
00:10:55,781 --> 00:10:58,867
- Like, I'm excited, actually.
- Mm-hmm.
241
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I can... I can see myself living here.
242
00:11:02,913 --> 00:11:05,124
- [quietly] That's what I wanna hear.
- [laughs]
243
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- [pop music playing]
- ♪ Na-na-na-na-na, there's no stopping ♪
244
00:11:07,918 --> 00:11:12,506
♪ We can have it all ♪
245
00:11:12,506 --> 00:11:14,299
♪ In our castle of love... ♪
246
00:11:14,299 --> 00:11:15,509
[knock on door]
247
00:11:17,261 --> 00:11:18,137
{\an8}[exhales]
248
00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:24,893
{\an8}- Hi.
- Hey.
249
00:11:24,893 --> 00:11:26,353
{\an8}- How are you?
- Good.
250
00:11:26,353 --> 00:11:28,272
{\an8}- It's good to see you.
- You too.
251
00:11:29,690 --> 00:11:34,778
{\an8}Bliss and I, we had a lot of chemistry
in our first date in the real world.
252
00:11:34,778 --> 00:11:37,698
I didn't expect the connection
was gonna be that strong.
253
00:11:38,699 --> 00:11:41,493
And I already know
that the psychological is there,
254
00:11:41,493 --> 00:11:43,245
and the emotional is there.
255
00:11:43,245 --> 00:11:46,874
There's your little owl painting.
Who painted that for you?
256
00:11:47,541 --> 00:11:51,420
- Is it a painting? Or a graphic?
- A local artist in Seattle did it for me.
257
00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:52,880
[Bliss] It's cool.
258
00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:55,966
I'm probably notorious
for not striking when the iron's hot.
259
00:11:55,966 --> 00:11:59,762
But truthfully, I just wanna spend
as much time with Bliss as possible.
260
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Because when we're together,
261
00:12:02,931 --> 00:12:03,849
it feels right.
262
00:12:03,849 --> 00:12:06,268
- And if you're in love with someone...
- [Bliss] Yes.
263
00:12:06,268 --> 00:12:09,271
...you've gotta... you've gotta express it.
264
00:12:09,271 --> 00:12:10,647
[Bliss] Can I help do anything?
265
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{\an8}[Zack] I guess you could add
a little butter and salt
266
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{\an8}and pepper to the mushrooms.
267
00:12:14,318 --> 00:12:16,987
[Bliss] It's funny
'cause baking is definitely my thing.
268
00:12:16,987 --> 00:12:18,405
- But cooking? [laughs]
- Really?
269
00:12:18,405 --> 00:12:20,949
- I need really specific instructions.
- I love cooking.
270
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[Bliss] So, how much butter?
271
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Just a small amount.
272
00:12:24,119 --> 00:12:27,998
- [Bliss laughs] How much? This much?
- You see the difference there?
273
00:12:27,998 --> 00:12:29,792
Uh, go with your instincts, Bliss.
274
00:12:29,792 --> 00:12:32,044
- [Bliss] Hmm. Okay.
- That's what I would do.
275
00:12:33,504 --> 00:12:36,673
I do wanna take cooking classes where
you learn how to do different things.
276
00:12:36,673 --> 00:12:38,550
That would actually be fun to do together.
277
00:12:38,550 --> 00:12:41,345
Oh, really? We'll see. [laughs]
278
00:12:41,345 --> 00:12:44,056
[Zack] Oh, no. Catastrophe has happened.
279
00:12:44,056 --> 00:12:45,265
What?
280
00:12:45,265 --> 00:12:46,767
[Zack] One of our steaks,
281
00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:49,436
the bag came open, and it's ruined.
282
00:12:49,436 --> 00:12:51,021
That one's yours, right?
283
00:12:51,021 --> 00:12:54,024
[Zack] Well, the good news is
we have one other steak.
284
00:12:54,525 --> 00:12:56,443
Let's hope the bag did not open
on that one.
285
00:12:56,443 --> 00:12:59,238
[laughs] We're just gonna have
weird steaks tonight.
286
00:12:59,780 --> 00:13:01,907
Oh. No, they're both ruined.
287
00:13:01,907 --> 00:13:03,075
[laughs] Really? Oh, no.
288
00:13:03,075 --> 00:13:04,535
Yep. Oh, man.
289
00:13:04,535 --> 00:13:06,453
[Bliss] Oh, no. It's a sign.
290
00:13:06,453 --> 00:13:09,665
- I should just go home.
- What a catastrophe!
291
00:13:09,665 --> 00:13:10,707
[both chuckle]
292
00:13:10,707 --> 00:13:12,876
I can't tell you how disheartened I am.
293
00:13:12,876 --> 00:13:14,503
It's okay. It's fine.
294
00:13:14,503 --> 00:13:17,589
Sometimes life is stupid that way.
295
00:13:17,589 --> 00:13:19,758
- [chuckles] It's okay.
- [Zack] I know.
296
00:13:20,425 --> 00:13:23,679
We can just have carrots
and the mushrooms.
297
00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:25,097
[Zack] And shrimp.
298
00:13:25,097 --> 00:13:26,765
How embarrassing is that?
299
00:13:27,599 --> 00:13:28,851
- It's okay.
- I'm...
300
00:13:29,434 --> 00:13:32,271
- It's pretty embarrassing.
- It's fine. Don't worry.
301
00:13:32,271 --> 00:13:36,024
I'm sure way more embarrassing things
have happened in your life.
302
00:13:36,024 --> 00:13:39,611
- Yeah, yeah. At least we have this shrimp.
- [sighs]
303
00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:41,738
And each other, right?
304
00:13:41,738 --> 00:13:43,866
Oh, I don't know. [laughs]
305
00:13:45,075 --> 00:13:46,827
We'll see. [laughs]
306
00:13:48,787 --> 00:13:51,707
[Zack] I'm really glad
that I overcompensated with the shrimp.
307
00:13:51,707 --> 00:13:54,334
- Yeah, you're, like-- [laughs]
- It was a legit backup plan.
308
00:13:54,334 --> 00:13:57,754
- This looks like a real meal, right?
- Yeah, it looks like a real meal.
309
00:13:57,754 --> 00:13:59,756
[Zack] Tell me what you think
of the carrots.
310
00:14:00,465 --> 00:14:02,301
- Okay.
- [Zack] I want honesty.
311
00:14:05,387 --> 00:14:07,097
- What do you think?
- [Bliss] Mm-hmm.
312
00:14:07,097 --> 00:14:09,558
I actually really am enjoying the carrots.
313
00:14:09,558 --> 00:14:13,020
- I tried goat cheese on the shrimp.
- It's just good on everything.
314
00:14:13,645 --> 00:14:15,439
- Probably not ice cream.
- Really?
315
00:14:15,439 --> 00:14:17,608
You've never had goat cheese ice cream?
316
00:14:17,608 --> 00:14:19,401
- That sounds so gross.
- [Bliss] What?
317
00:14:19,401 --> 00:14:20,986
- No, I haven't.
- It's so good.
318
00:14:22,654 --> 00:14:24,656
I know that I'm weird. I fully know that.
319
00:14:24,656 --> 00:14:26,074
- Yeah? Yeah.
- Yeah.
320
00:14:26,074 --> 00:14:27,951
I'm probably a little weirder.
321
00:14:27,951 --> 00:14:29,578
Yeah, probably.
322
00:14:29,578 --> 00:14:30,495
[laughing]
323
00:14:31,121 --> 00:14:32,706
Have you seen my bedroom?
324
00:14:32,706 --> 00:14:35,375
- No, I haven't. [chuckles]
- Oh, I'll show it to you later.
325
00:14:35,375 --> 00:14:38,337
- It's literally around the corner.
- [laughs] Okay. It's right there.
326
00:14:38,337 --> 00:14:42,215
Yeah, so, like, when you--
Um, I have these motion sensors.
327
00:14:42,215 --> 00:14:45,218
- Why?
- That will activate sounds.
328
00:14:45,218 --> 00:14:48,680
- Based on when you open a room.
- Wait, why? Like, what sounds?
329
00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:52,100
- 'Cause it's just cool.
- Cool? You are weirder than me.
330
00:14:52,100 --> 00:14:53,060
Yeah, I know.
331
00:14:53,060 --> 00:14:56,188
If I wanted the Harry Potter song to play
when you opened my door.
332
00:14:56,188 --> 00:14:57,981
Oh, okay. That's approved.
333
00:14:57,981 --> 00:15:01,151
- I thought it'd be pretty cool.
- [Bliss] Yeah, that is cool.
334
00:15:01,151 --> 00:15:03,445
- [sighs] Anyway.
- [Zack] Your dress looks pretty.
335
00:15:03,445 --> 00:15:04,363
Thank you.
336
00:15:05,739 --> 00:15:08,951
- What?
- I don't know. I like looking at you.
337
00:15:08,951 --> 00:15:10,035
[Bliss] Hmm!
338
00:15:11,244 --> 00:15:15,082
I think this worked out pretty well
for how many things got fucked up.
339
00:15:15,582 --> 00:15:17,125
With us or the food?
340
00:15:17,125 --> 00:15:18,543
- Probably both, actually.
- Mm-hmm.
341
00:15:18,543 --> 00:15:22,005
It's actually like a metaphor
for our relationship. [laughing]
342
00:15:22,005 --> 00:15:25,175
- It's pretty accurate, right?
- Yeah, that cannot be a trend.
343
00:15:25,175 --> 00:15:28,387
[laughing] If this is gonna be anything,
that cannot be a trend.
344
00:15:28,387 --> 00:15:30,973
You get one fuck-up
by proposing to another girl,
345
00:15:30,973 --> 00:15:32,975
and then we'll see, you know.
346
00:15:34,267 --> 00:15:35,644
[Zack] I'm sorry.
347
00:15:35,644 --> 00:15:36,853
Oh! [exhales]
348
00:15:37,688 --> 00:15:39,815
I don't know. It's all right, I guess.
349
00:15:42,985 --> 00:15:44,778
I have to give you a hard time still.
350
00:15:44,778 --> 00:15:49,533
It's not, like, normal to, like, hang out
with someone that's just dumped you
351
00:15:49,533 --> 00:15:51,743
and got engaged to someone else, so...
352
00:15:52,911 --> 00:15:55,247
I'm gonna give you a little bit
of a hard time sometimes.
353
00:15:55,247 --> 00:15:57,791
- That's fair. I deserve it.
- Mm-hmm.
354
00:15:59,751 --> 00:16:01,211
[laughs]
355
00:16:01,211 --> 00:16:03,046
- Are you ready for dessert yet?
- [Bliss] Sure.
356
00:16:03,046 --> 00:16:08,218
{\an8}I'm hesitant coming into the situation,
because he literally just broke my heart,
357
00:16:08,218 --> 00:16:10,846
and I definitely have my guard up.
358
00:16:14,558 --> 00:16:16,601
But there's just this vibe between us
359
00:16:16,601 --> 00:16:20,313
and this chemistry, and it's
bringing all the feels back. [chuckles]
360
00:16:20,981 --> 00:16:22,649
- Come here real quick.
- Why?
361
00:16:23,150 --> 00:16:24,401
We'll do a little dancing.
362
00:16:24,401 --> 00:16:26,028
- Oh, really?
- Practice. Yeah.
363
00:16:26,611 --> 00:16:27,446
Okay.
364
00:16:28,030 --> 00:16:28,864
One.
365
00:16:30,490 --> 00:16:32,117
Loosen your arms.
You're a little stressed.
366
00:16:32,117 --> 00:16:33,368
[Bliss] Wait, am I not loose?
367
00:16:33,368 --> 00:16:35,495
- You're a little too tight.
- Oh.
368
00:16:35,495 --> 00:16:37,956
A big part of me
does wanna pursue things with him
369
00:16:37,956 --> 00:16:40,083
because I deeply love him.
370
00:16:40,083 --> 00:16:42,627
The physical aspect definitely matters.
371
00:16:42,627 --> 00:16:43,795
But if the question is,
372
00:16:43,795 --> 00:16:47,215
can you really fall in love
without ever having seen someone?
373
00:16:48,216 --> 00:16:49,551
Absolutely. Yes.
374
00:16:49,551 --> 00:16:52,054
- [pop music playing]
- ♪ At the end of the day ♪
375
00:16:52,054 --> 00:16:54,264
♪ You're the dream I have I can't shake ♪
376
00:16:54,264 --> 00:16:57,517
♪ You're the last call
That my heart makes ♪
377
00:16:57,517 --> 00:17:00,520
♪ At the end of the day ♪
378
00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:04,107
♪ You're the one I wanna come home to
You're the feeling that I can't lose... ♪
379
00:17:04,107 --> 00:17:05,150
[Zack] Other hand.
380
00:17:06,234 --> 00:17:09,071
Look at that.
You're like a professional already.
381
00:17:09,654 --> 00:17:12,199
- Have you ever done a dip?
- This is not an outfit for a dip.
382
00:17:12,199 --> 00:17:14,076
[laughing]
383
00:17:14,076 --> 00:17:15,410
Ooh!
384
00:17:16,078 --> 00:17:19,039
{\an8}♪ At the end of the day ♪
385
00:17:19,039 --> 00:17:21,249
{\an8}♪ You're the one I wanna come home to ♪
386
00:17:21,249 --> 00:17:24,086
{\an8}♪ You're the feeling that I can't lose... ♪
387
00:17:29,174 --> 00:17:32,052
{\an8}- [Kwame laughs] Are you ready?
- [Chelsea laughs] Yes.
388
00:17:32,052 --> 00:17:33,970
{\an8}Oh, my God! I'm just kidding.
389
00:17:33,970 --> 00:17:36,056
{\an8}[laughing]
390
00:17:36,681 --> 00:17:38,642
It's so cute in here.
391
00:17:38,642 --> 00:17:42,062
[Kwame] Yeah, welcome
to my Fortress of Solitude.
392
00:17:42,062 --> 00:17:43,438
I live in Portland, Oregon.
393
00:17:43,438 --> 00:17:45,982
{\an8}It's a two-and-a-half-hour
to three-hour drive.
394
00:17:45,982 --> 00:17:48,318
We're gonna go get a few things
that I need to get.
395
00:17:48,318 --> 00:17:50,237
Most important is my work stuff,
396
00:17:50,237 --> 00:17:54,241
but also just get, like,
my clothes and my Xbox.
397
00:17:54,241 --> 00:17:57,202
You know what I mean?
Like, really starting to try
398
00:17:57,202 --> 00:18:00,205
to put things together
that will feel like I'm, you know,
399
00:18:00,205 --> 00:18:02,415
now coexisting in my home with my fiancée.
400
00:18:03,208 --> 00:18:04,459
Check out my fridge.
401
00:18:04,459 --> 00:18:06,002
- Super dope.
- Full of...
402
00:18:06,795 --> 00:18:09,339
- Wow!
- [both laughing]
403
00:18:09,339 --> 00:18:11,716
- [Chelsea] Baby, you're so saucy.
- [laughing]
404
00:18:11,716 --> 00:18:14,094
- [Chelsea] It's not too bad.
- [Kwame] So, I'm doing okay.
405
00:18:14,094 --> 00:18:16,179
[Chelsea] There's a wee bit of laundry
on the floor.
406
00:18:16,179 --> 00:18:17,222
[Kwame laughs]
407
00:18:17,222 --> 00:18:19,266
- Oh! [laughing]
- I had to pack, you know.
408
00:18:19,266 --> 00:18:21,726
I was running around,
throwing things around. Don't judge me!
409
00:18:21,726 --> 00:18:23,061
- My bed...
- Yeah.
410
00:18:23,061 --> 00:18:25,021
I sleep in maybe 12% of the time.
411
00:18:25,021 --> 00:18:27,482
- No way! You sleep right here?
- I sleep on the couch.
412
00:18:27,482 --> 00:18:31,695
So, when you wake up,
you just walk eight steps to your desk
413
00:18:31,695 --> 00:18:32,863
and start working.
414
00:18:32,863 --> 00:18:34,072
[laughs] Less.
415
00:18:34,072 --> 00:18:36,908
Yeah, this is where all the magic
is not happening.
416
00:18:38,034 --> 00:18:38,869
That's, uh...
417
00:18:40,287 --> 00:18:43,331
[laughing]
418
00:18:43,331 --> 00:18:46,168
I mean, we can open it,
but that's at your discretion.
419
00:18:46,168 --> 00:18:48,044
- Let's open it.
- There's a few things in there.
420
00:18:48,044 --> 00:18:50,005
- Let me just take a peek.
- Yeah.
421
00:18:51,673 --> 00:18:53,967
- [laughing]
- I have that same lube.
422
00:18:53,967 --> 00:18:56,094
[both laughing]
423
00:18:59,890 --> 00:19:03,226
{\an8}Sometimes I'm like, "God damn,
we're the same person." [chuckles]
424
00:19:03,226 --> 00:19:04,352
[both continue laughing]
425
00:19:04,352 --> 00:19:09,399
I thought the lack of cleanliness
would bother me more than it does.
426
00:19:09,399 --> 00:19:12,235
He knows for the most part
where everything is.
427
00:19:12,736 --> 00:19:16,823
And I mean, the guy put my underwear
428
00:19:16,823 --> 00:19:18,909
and my bras and my socks,
429
00:19:18,909 --> 00:19:21,786
like, he organized,
when he, like, folded my laundry.
430
00:19:22,454 --> 00:19:24,789
He, like, organized my underwear drawer.
431
00:19:27,125 --> 00:19:28,668
It's, like, the sweetest thing ever.
432
00:19:29,711 --> 00:19:30,545
He has it in him.
433
00:19:31,213 --> 00:19:33,632
- [groans]
- You got some lotion right here.
434
00:19:33,632 --> 00:19:35,091
[laughing]
435
00:19:36,259 --> 00:19:38,803
Ma'am. [laughs]
436
00:19:38,803 --> 00:19:43,099
Bachelor pad.
Got the lotion and the towel.
437
00:19:43,099 --> 00:19:45,894
- That--
- [laughing]
438
00:19:46,603 --> 00:19:48,772
Within three feet of each other.
439
00:19:48,772 --> 00:19:51,399
Ma'am, come on, would I have-- Come on.
440
00:19:51,399 --> 00:19:53,193
[laughing]
441
00:19:53,193 --> 00:19:57,656
- Hey, you know what? Good for you.
- [laughing]
442
00:19:57,656 --> 00:19:59,074
This is comfy though.
443
00:19:59,074 --> 00:20:01,493
- You think this couch can be used?
- Yes.
444
00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:04,412
- Fantastic, let's keep the couch.
- Okay. Okay.
445
00:20:04,412 --> 00:20:06,539
- It's really beautiful here.
- It is.
446
00:20:06,539 --> 00:20:08,083
It's really, really dope.
447
00:20:08,708 --> 00:20:10,669
You know, I really love Portland.
448
00:20:10,669 --> 00:20:14,464
I really do. I know...
I'm, like, okay to move, you know.
449
00:20:14,464 --> 00:20:16,925
But I feel like...
[clears throat] ...this is home.
450
00:20:16,925 --> 00:20:19,469
- [Chelsea] It's a very cool place, babe.
- [Kwame] Yeah.
451
00:20:19,469 --> 00:20:20,762
[Chelsea] I like it a lot.
452
00:20:20,762 --> 00:20:23,390
Does it make you think,
"Oh, I might move to Portland?"
453
00:20:24,099 --> 00:20:25,392
No, it doesn't.
454
00:20:27,936 --> 00:20:28,770
Yeah.
455
00:20:30,105 --> 00:20:31,356
- You know?
- Mm-hmm.
456
00:20:31,356 --> 00:20:36,403
I definitely think we're gonna settle
in Seattle, regardless of all the factors.
457
00:20:36,403 --> 00:20:39,656
I mean, it is where my family is, right?
Family is really important to me.
458
00:20:39,656 --> 00:20:42,284
And I don't work a remote job.
459
00:20:43,285 --> 00:20:47,080
Um, with Kwame working remotely,
it just kind of makes sense.
460
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:51,334
You know this really is just,
like, my... my peace.
461
00:20:51,918 --> 00:20:54,462
- You know? So...
- Yeah.
462
00:20:54,462 --> 00:20:55,505
That's good.
463
00:20:56,006 --> 00:20:58,216
- That's what home should be.
- Yeah.
464
00:20:58,216 --> 00:21:00,468
That's what I want,
and that's what my home is like.
465
00:21:00,468 --> 00:21:02,345
That's what I want
our future home to be like.
466
00:21:04,389 --> 00:21:05,223
Yeah.
467
00:21:06,224 --> 00:21:08,226
I don't have any friends in Seattle.
468
00:21:08,226 --> 00:21:10,645
I play soccer four times a week
in Portland.
469
00:21:10,645 --> 00:21:12,605
Five times sometimes.
470
00:21:12,605 --> 00:21:16,943
I have a running path, and I run
that same path every day. [laughs]
471
00:21:16,943 --> 00:21:21,573
Sometimes I tend to compromise too much,
trying to merge my world with her world.
472
00:21:21,573 --> 00:21:24,409
It's taking some time to make it really
473
00:21:25,243 --> 00:21:26,328
all make sense.
474
00:21:26,328 --> 00:21:28,872
- [pop music playing]
- ♪ We're building then learning ♪
475
00:21:28,872 --> 00:21:31,082
♪ Then breaking up ♪
476
00:21:32,042 --> 00:21:34,461
{\an8}♪ Sometimes yes, sometimes no ♪
477
00:21:34,461 --> 00:21:36,546
{\an8}♪ Easy come and go ♪
478
00:21:36,546 --> 00:21:38,631
{\an8}♪ Letting you in, letting you in ♪
479
00:21:38,631 --> 00:21:41,593
{\an8}♪ And you're pushing me out
Pushing me out ♪
480
00:21:41,593 --> 00:21:44,596
{\an8}[Marshall] Guacamole and queso.
481
00:21:44,596 --> 00:21:45,597
You want queso?
482
00:21:46,097 --> 00:21:48,558
- I'm not a queso bitch.
- Sister's a vegetarian.
483
00:21:49,142 --> 00:21:50,185
Let me look at this pizza.
484
00:21:55,148 --> 00:21:58,193
[groans] I'm really stressed out.
I don't know, man.
485
00:21:58,943 --> 00:21:59,778
I don't know.
486
00:21:59,778 --> 00:22:02,947
I don't think I can do this.
Honestly, I'm really stressed out.
487
00:22:04,199 --> 00:22:06,451
- Stressed out about...?
- I'm really stressed out.
488
00:22:08,453 --> 00:22:09,537
This is a lot.
489
00:22:12,540 --> 00:22:14,084
Stressed out about meeting them?
490
00:22:14,084 --> 00:22:16,544
- Not meeting them. Like, that's whatever.
- [Marshall] Mm-hmm.
491
00:22:16,544 --> 00:22:19,172
But I'm just stressed out with everything.
492
00:22:20,006 --> 00:22:21,508
It's a lot. [sighs]
493
00:22:23,301 --> 00:22:25,011
[clears throat] I need a second.
494
00:22:25,011 --> 00:22:26,638
- [grunts]
- All right.
495
00:22:35,021 --> 00:22:38,858
I can give you some time. I can walk them
around the block or whatever and...
496
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:42,320
No, it's fine. We can just knock it out.
497
00:22:43,238 --> 00:22:47,158
I would much rather you be
in a comfortable headspace
498
00:22:47,158 --> 00:22:48,410
than put you in a position--
499
00:22:48,410 --> 00:22:51,079
[Jackelina]
I'm in a comfortable headspace right now.
500
00:22:52,288 --> 00:22:53,998
Okay. [sighs]
501
00:22:53,998 --> 00:22:57,210
I think your energy
is making me even more stressed out.
502
00:22:57,210 --> 00:22:59,212
Okay, I'll...
503
00:23:00,213 --> 00:23:01,840
I'll go have a Coke and a smile.
504
00:23:02,424 --> 00:23:03,842
- [Jackelina] Coke and a smile.
- Yeah.
505
00:23:03,842 --> 00:23:04,884
- Do that.
- Cool.
506
00:23:07,637 --> 00:23:09,764
I'm gonna light this candle up too.
507
00:23:10,682 --> 00:23:12,851
[Marshall] Jackie has
a tendency to ruminate,
508
00:23:12,851 --> 00:23:17,272
and she tends to stay
in a mood for a long time.
509
00:23:17,272 --> 00:23:19,607
{\an8}Longer than I would like.
510
00:23:19,607 --> 00:23:21,151
{\an8}However, that's not up to me,
511
00:23:21,151 --> 00:23:24,320
{\an8}and I'm just there, chilling, waiting.
512
00:23:24,988 --> 00:23:28,158
Waiting for her
to sort through her own feelings.
513
00:23:28,158 --> 00:23:29,742
Because I can do that for her.
514
00:23:29,742 --> 00:23:32,245
[Jackelina] I have a lot
of thinking to do.
515
00:23:33,746 --> 00:23:35,415
A lot of thinking.
516
00:23:36,541 --> 00:23:38,168
Since my family...
517
00:23:39,627 --> 00:23:41,546
you know, isn't really...
518
00:23:42,881 --> 00:23:44,757
behind me 100%.
519
00:23:45,258 --> 00:23:47,510
I need to make sure
still that they're good.
520
00:23:47,510 --> 00:23:49,804
Mm-hmm. Yeah.
521
00:23:49,804 --> 00:23:53,558
And my decision impacts that.
522
00:23:53,558 --> 00:23:57,061
And when I do say my answer,
I need to make sure that I'm okay
523
00:23:57,061 --> 00:23:59,606
with all the repercussions
that come after that.
524
00:23:59,606 --> 00:24:00,565
[Marshall] Absolutely.
525
00:24:00,565 --> 00:24:05,028
I just need to make sure
that I don't hurt the people that I love.
526
00:24:05,028 --> 00:24:08,281
They say families last forever,
and they, you know...
527
00:24:09,115 --> 00:24:11,910
Home is where you never get hurt.
But it's just, like...
528
00:24:13,536 --> 00:24:15,330
They're kinda hurting me right now.
529
00:24:17,165 --> 00:24:20,919
But it's about time that I step
and do what I need to do as an adult.
530
00:24:20,919 --> 00:24:22,128
[Marshall] Mm-hmm.
531
00:24:22,128 --> 00:24:26,007
I can't keep living by my family
and then not living my life.
532
00:24:29,385 --> 00:24:31,346
I'm stressed out.
533
00:24:31,346 --> 00:24:33,431
I have all these things coming
at me all at once.
534
00:24:33,431 --> 00:24:36,935
{\an8}It's just, right now,
I'm just, like, going through it.
535
00:24:36,935 --> 00:24:38,811
{\an8}I'm going through the emotions.
536
00:24:38,811 --> 00:24:44,067
My mom, she's not happy
that I got into this experiment.
537
00:24:44,067 --> 00:24:48,613
She's not happy that marriage
is gonna happen so quickly,
538
00:24:48,613 --> 00:24:49,948
and that's getting to me.
539
00:24:49,948 --> 00:24:52,450
And then on top of that,
I'm meeting family today,
540
00:24:52,450 --> 00:24:55,119
and I'm like,
I don't feel like I'm at my best self.
541
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:57,789
- [Marshall] Yo! Hey, Zoe!
- [man] How you doing?
542
00:24:57,789 --> 00:25:00,792
{\an8}[Marshall] What's up, baby girl? Oh!
543
00:25:00,792 --> 00:25:02,961
{\an8}I've been waiting all day for this.
544
00:25:02,961 --> 00:25:04,921
What's up, baby?
545
00:25:04,921 --> 00:25:06,506
[woman] Say, "Hi, Uncle Marsh."
546
00:25:06,506 --> 00:25:07,507
{\an8}- Hey, Morg.
- Hey, Marsh.
547
00:25:07,507 --> 00:25:09,676
{\an8}- What's up, buddy?
- [Morgan] You look nice.
548
00:25:09,676 --> 00:25:13,263
{\an8}[Jackelina] But I gotta put
on a happy face, because I am happy.
549
00:25:13,263 --> 00:25:16,766
It's just right now in this moment,
everything is just, like, crumbling down,
550
00:25:16,766 --> 00:25:19,352
and I'm just like,
bro, like, I need a break.
551
00:25:19,352 --> 00:25:22,564
All right, look who it is.
Say hi to Jackie.
552
00:25:22,564 --> 00:25:24,148
- Hi, Jackie.
- Hi.
553
00:25:24,148 --> 00:25:26,359
Oh, my gosh, you're so cute!
554
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:27,944
- Oh, my gosh.
- It's great to meet you.
555
00:25:27,944 --> 00:25:30,280
- It's so good to meet you.
- [Marshall] This is Ryan.
556
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:32,198
- Hi.
- [Ryan] Nice to meet you. How are you?
557
00:25:32,198 --> 00:25:33,199
Good, how are you?
558
00:25:33,199 --> 00:25:36,077
- You're very beautiful.
- [Jackelina] Oh, thank you.
559
00:25:36,661 --> 00:25:38,371
- Y'all hungry?
- Yeah.
560
00:25:38,371 --> 00:25:40,373
[Marshall] Bet, we got some pizza.
561
00:25:40,373 --> 00:25:42,458
Which ones do you want?
You want a cucumber?
562
00:25:42,458 --> 00:25:43,501
Everything.
563
00:25:43,501 --> 00:25:44,669
We gotta eat!
564
00:25:44,669 --> 00:25:47,463
{\an8}[Jackelina] I know all the good eats.
That's all we do is eat.
565
00:25:47,463 --> 00:25:51,384
- [Marshall] One thing we do, we be eating.
- So, is that how you bonded? How did you--
566
00:25:51,384 --> 00:25:54,679
- Yeah, that's what I wanna hear.
- I need to know everything.
567
00:25:54,679 --> 00:25:57,015
- Like, from the beginning.
- Yeah, how did we bond?
568
00:25:57,015 --> 00:26:00,602
Yo, all right. So, from day one,
I knew it was gonna be her.
569
00:26:00,602 --> 00:26:06,024
Like, we were dating all 15 people.
Fifteen on 15 basically.
570
00:26:06,024 --> 00:26:07,650
- We're just doing rounds.
- [Ryan] Mm-hmm.
571
00:26:07,650 --> 00:26:09,819
Um, it was hard for me
to go through the process,
572
00:26:09,819 --> 00:26:11,362
because I knew that it was her.
573
00:26:11,362 --> 00:26:14,198
Um, it was her or nothing,
for real, for real.
574
00:26:14,198 --> 00:26:15,241
Y'all know how I am.
575
00:26:15,241 --> 00:26:18,036
- [Morgan] Yeah.
- [Ryan laughs] We know how Marshall is.
576
00:26:18,036 --> 00:26:20,330
And so, like,
the other thing about Jackie is that she--
577
00:26:20,330 --> 00:26:22,707
that she was, like,
inspiring me to, like, write.
578
00:26:22,707 --> 00:26:24,709
You know how hard
it's been for me to write.
579
00:26:24,709 --> 00:26:26,961
So, I wrote poems, like,
for the first time in years.
580
00:26:26,961 --> 00:26:29,714
You know what I'm saying?
That's been really hard for me.
581
00:26:29,714 --> 00:26:32,717
And she brought that--
She, like, lit that fire under me.
582
00:26:32,717 --> 00:26:35,470
It's not just me.
You're, like, a creative man.
583
00:26:36,054 --> 00:26:38,264
- Well, I appreciate that.
- And they were beautiful.
584
00:26:38,264 --> 00:26:41,225
I really, like, came out being,
like, a much better person, so...
585
00:26:41,225 --> 00:26:42,477
- [Ryan] Wow.
- Yeah.
586
00:26:42,477 --> 00:26:45,938
- I mean, you seem much lighter.
- [Ryan] Yeah, I feel the aura.
587
00:26:45,938 --> 00:26:48,232
- I feel the energy for sure.
- [Ryan] It's good.
588
00:26:48,232 --> 00:26:51,819
Yeah, so, Jackie, did you have,
like, a similar, like, experience?
589
00:26:51,819 --> 00:26:55,531
So, he's taught me just to be more grown.
590
00:26:56,115 --> 00:26:59,702
He's a great listener. He's taught me,
like, sometimes I just have to sit
591
00:26:59,702 --> 00:27:02,997
in my feelings and really just
go through it instead of just reacting.
592
00:27:02,997 --> 00:27:03,915
[Ryan] Okay.
593
00:27:03,915 --> 00:27:07,251
I'm still learning. So, I'm gonna
obviously have, like, some slip-up days.
594
00:27:07,251 --> 00:27:09,337
But he's there to just be like,
595
00:27:09,337 --> 00:27:12,632
"Calm down.
Like, we're good. I'm here. I'm solid."
596
00:27:12,632 --> 00:27:16,302
And he'll let me just be for a little bit.
597
00:27:16,302 --> 00:27:19,222
If I get, like, too over...
I'm just, like, I need to be with myself.
598
00:27:19,222 --> 00:27:22,767
Like, he does. He gives me that space,
and that's what I need.
599
00:27:22,767 --> 00:27:25,478
This is not something light.
This is serious.
600
00:27:25,478 --> 00:27:28,773
- Marriage is biblical. That's serious.
- [Ryan] 100%.
601
00:27:29,273 --> 00:27:32,985
I need to make sure I'm the best
version of me when I say yeah.
602
00:27:32,985 --> 00:27:36,781
Even through the wall, it was just,
like, so captivating, you know.
603
00:27:36,781 --> 00:27:38,866
- Yeah.
- Oh, captivating.
604
00:27:38,866 --> 00:27:40,952
- [Marshall] Yeah. Yeah.
- That's a good one.
605
00:27:40,952 --> 00:27:43,705
[Ryan] It's like y'all are
merging in one, you know.
606
00:27:43,705 --> 00:27:46,874
- Just going through the whole time. Huh?
- Oh, look at us.
607
00:27:47,375 --> 00:27:48,668
Special!
608
00:27:48,668 --> 00:27:50,586
- We knew we were special.
- Yeah.
609
00:27:50,586 --> 00:27:53,047
He's not playing.
Like, he's actually in love.
610
00:27:53,047 --> 00:27:56,300
His aura and his energy just seems
to be radiating,
611
00:27:56,300 --> 00:27:57,635
soon as we came in the house.
612
00:27:57,635 --> 00:27:59,804
I can definitely see
that he really likes her a lot,
613
00:27:59,804 --> 00:28:02,432
and he's definitely trying his best
to really be present,
614
00:28:02,432 --> 00:28:04,225
and in the moment in this experiment,
615
00:28:04,809 --> 00:28:08,187
just to make sure that he's making
the right decision for himself, you know,
616
00:28:08,187 --> 00:28:12,358
when it comes time
to be at the altar and say yes or no.
617
00:28:12,358 --> 00:28:14,235
- [laughs]
- That's for life. That's for life.
618
00:28:14,235 --> 00:28:17,530
They both seem
to really, you know, take this seriously
619
00:28:17,530 --> 00:28:19,699
and know that marriage is a big deal.
620
00:28:19,699 --> 00:28:21,033
I mean, they better.
621
00:28:21,033 --> 00:28:22,869
Right? [laughs]
622
00:28:22,869 --> 00:28:25,455
And thank you, guys, for being so gracious
623
00:28:25,455 --> 00:28:26,831
and so open-armed
624
00:28:26,831 --> 00:28:30,793
and just letting me come in
and share in Marshall.
625
00:28:30,793 --> 00:28:32,253
- I really appreciate that.
- [laughs]
626
00:28:32,253 --> 00:28:34,213
'Cause I was like, they could be like,
627
00:28:34,213 --> 00:28:37,633
"Nah, no. No way.
You ain't coming near us."
628
00:28:37,633 --> 00:28:39,427
- Knuckle up. Knuckle up.
- For real.
629
00:28:39,427 --> 00:28:41,721
[Morgan] But I mean, like, Marshall, like,
630
00:28:41,721 --> 00:28:44,724
he's a very genuine, caring person.
631
00:28:44,724 --> 00:28:47,769
And anybody that he's gonna propose to,
632
00:28:47,769 --> 00:28:51,230
I know they have to be,
you know, amazing themselves.
633
00:28:51,230 --> 00:28:54,650
So, I was just really,
you know, excited to see you,
634
00:28:54,650 --> 00:28:56,486
to meet you, to get to know you.
635
00:28:57,111 --> 00:28:58,738
So, is love truly blind?
636
00:29:00,448 --> 00:29:02,200
Yeah, I would say yeah.
637
00:29:02,700 --> 00:29:03,618
For sure.
638
00:29:04,118 --> 00:29:09,999
- ["Still Water" by Tyrone Wells playing]
-♪ Will you let me be your sanctuary? ♪
639
00:29:09,999 --> 00:29:11,876
♪ Close your eyes ♪
640
00:29:11,876 --> 00:29:15,171
♪ I'll keep you safe and sound ♪
641
00:29:15,171 --> 00:29:17,924
{\an8}♪ Let me be your still water ♪
642
00:29:17,924 --> 00:29:18,966
{\an8}[Paul] Are you ready?
643
00:29:19,592 --> 00:29:22,720
{\an8}[laughing] Oh, my goodness.
644
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:23,888
{\an8}What do you think?
645
00:29:26,098 --> 00:29:28,434
[Micah] Oh, my God, it's so you.
646
00:29:29,894 --> 00:29:31,103
Oh, my goodness.
647
00:29:31,103 --> 00:29:34,524
- What do you think of these couches?
- Oh, my gosh.
648
00:29:34,524 --> 00:29:36,192
{\an8}Where'd you get your couches?
649
00:29:36,192 --> 00:29:40,029
{\an8}Um, this one's Craigslist,
and that one was on the side of the road.
650
00:29:40,029 --> 00:29:42,114
- [both laugh]
- On the side of the...
651
00:29:42,114 --> 00:29:45,159
- [laughing]
- I'm not joking.
652
00:29:45,159 --> 00:29:48,204
[laughing]
653
00:29:48,204 --> 00:29:51,207
{\an8}I think that there's a very good chance
that I'm gonna be Paul's fiancée...
654
00:29:51,207 --> 00:29:53,459
{\an8}[laughs] ...and stylist at the same time.
655
00:29:54,043 --> 00:29:56,295
Oh, my God.
Your little work-from-home space?
656
00:29:56,295 --> 00:29:59,423
- Yeah, that's my office.
- [both laugh]
657
00:29:59,423 --> 00:30:02,301
- [Paul] Could you work there?
- Don't know if this looks comfortable.
658
00:30:02,301 --> 00:30:03,636
- A knife?
- A pack of knives.
659
00:30:05,012 --> 00:30:07,390
Yeah, wait, why is there one
on every single table here?
660
00:30:07,390 --> 00:30:08,474
- I'm scared.
- I don't know.
661
00:30:09,058 --> 00:30:11,143
[Micah] What do you think's
gonna happen around here?
662
00:30:11,143 --> 00:30:14,981
I would get rid of, like,
all the different, like, color woods.
663
00:30:14,981 --> 00:30:15,982
[laughs]
664
00:30:15,982 --> 00:30:17,233
A new desk,
665
00:30:17,233 --> 00:30:20,528
a different couch, like, a different TV,
maybe mount something?
666
00:30:20,528 --> 00:30:23,114
[laughs] Aww.
667
00:30:23,114 --> 00:30:24,949
[Paul] As bad as you thought
or is it better?
668
00:30:25,533 --> 00:30:27,910
[Micah] I don't really know
what I was picturing, actually.
669
00:30:27,910 --> 00:30:30,329
Get, like, some art,
a different bed frame.
670
00:30:30,329 --> 00:30:32,999
Change, like,
literally everything, probably. [laughs]
671
00:30:32,999 --> 00:30:36,377
That's, like, an incredibly small closet. Interesting.
672
00:30:36,377 --> 00:30:40,214
Like, these are the clothes
that I mainly wear. So, these and--
673
00:30:40,214 --> 00:30:43,092
You keep the clothes that you wear
right there on the top of the dresser?
674
00:30:43,092 --> 00:30:45,386
- I just like to be able to see them.
- Yeah, okay.
675
00:30:45,386 --> 00:30:46,721
- Paul.
- [Paul] What's that?
676
00:30:46,721 --> 00:30:50,099
- Is this your grandfather's? [laughing]
- Yeah. [laughs]
677
00:30:50,099 --> 00:30:52,685
Don't worry about it. [laughing]
678
00:30:52,685 --> 00:30:56,939
- Paul, what year...
- [both laughing]
679
00:30:59,191 --> 00:31:01,903
Oh, my God, I'm gonna have a stroke.
680
00:31:02,945 --> 00:31:05,615
[Paul] I always feel like I'm going
to a funeral when I wear this one.
681
00:31:05,615 --> 00:31:08,451
Wow. Okay, let's leave that here.
682
00:31:08,451 --> 00:31:09,368
[Paul] Yeah.
683
00:31:09,994 --> 00:31:13,080
- Very eclectic sense of style.
- It just keeps on giving.
684
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,958
[chuckles] Oh, my God.
I think that's enough of that.
685
00:31:16,626 --> 00:31:17,877
Oh, my goodness.
686
00:31:19,128 --> 00:31:21,631
Well, what do you think?
687
00:31:21,631 --> 00:31:23,090
[laughing]
688
00:31:23,090 --> 00:31:26,844
It's very you. Like, if I came in,
and your place was perfectly decorated,
689
00:31:26,844 --> 00:31:28,721
I'd be like, "Who did this?"
690
00:31:28,721 --> 00:31:29,889
- [Paul] Right.
- You know?
691
00:31:29,889 --> 00:31:31,849
Could you see yourself living here?
692
00:31:32,642 --> 00:31:33,768
Um...
693
00:31:37,021 --> 00:31:39,315
I think that
if we were planning on staying,
694
00:31:39,315 --> 00:31:41,817
like, in Seattle for, like, long-term,
695
00:31:41,817 --> 00:31:44,153
I probably wouldn't wanna stay here.
696
00:31:45,279 --> 00:31:48,824
Just 'cause, like, office space.
I'd probably want at least two bedrooms.
697
00:31:48,824 --> 00:31:52,578
Just so we can have space, especially
if you're gonna be working from home.
698
00:31:52,578 --> 00:31:53,955
We have your place here,
699
00:31:53,955 --> 00:31:56,749
I have my place here,
and then the place in Arizona.
700
00:31:56,749 --> 00:32:00,211
- Yeah.
- Then we would just get rid of this.
701
00:32:03,130 --> 00:32:05,466
A good tentative plan would be, like,
702
00:32:05,466 --> 00:32:10,554
to kind of, like, bounce back and forth
between here and, like, Arizona.
703
00:32:11,263 --> 00:32:12,139
[Paul] No.
704
00:32:13,182 --> 00:32:15,267
I know. I'm joking, but also not.
705
00:32:15,267 --> 00:32:18,270
- ["Tryst" by I, Us, & We playing]
-♪ Love and be strong ♪
706
00:32:19,230 --> 00:32:21,357
♪ Love cannot fade... ♪
707
00:32:21,357 --> 00:32:23,401
If you give it a chance, like, fine.
708
00:32:23,401 --> 00:32:26,612
Like, what would, like,
upset me is you not, like, trying.
709
00:32:26,612 --> 00:32:27,530
Yeah.
710
00:32:28,197 --> 00:32:32,159
Um, follow up with an email,
if you could, after this meeting.
711
00:32:32,159 --> 00:32:34,787
♪ And I can't shake this game ♪
712
00:32:34,787 --> 00:32:39,542
{\an8}Oh no, it's-- it's hard getting through,
like, the tough, like, real conversations.
713
00:32:39,542 --> 00:32:43,879
I'm a little worried that Paul won't,
you know, give Arizona a chance.
714
00:32:43,879 --> 00:32:47,299
He needs to be in Seattle for work,
and he has his place here,
715
00:32:47,299 --> 00:32:51,303
and I also have my place in Arizona,
um, and I split my time.
716
00:32:51,303 --> 00:32:53,723
So, we kind of need to figure out
where we're gonna live.
717
00:32:53,723 --> 00:32:57,393
It's just weird, like, looking at him,
like, when we're talking seriously.
718
00:32:57,393 --> 00:32:59,478
I almost feel like
he's a different person.
719
00:32:59,478 --> 00:33:03,065
I'm just like, "Who is that?"
Like, you know what I mean?
720
00:33:03,065 --> 00:33:05,776
But I think that we're gonna have to,
like, work through that
721
00:33:05,776 --> 00:33:07,319
and be able to compromise.
722
00:33:07,319 --> 00:33:09,280
This is the side that is stressful.
723
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,240
- Yeah.
- And it's, like, it's real stress.
724
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,659
And I think
that I'm feeling that right now.
725
00:33:13,659 --> 00:33:16,287
- And I imagine you probably are as well.
- Mm-hmm.
726
00:33:17,705 --> 00:33:18,539
Yeah.
727
00:33:20,666 --> 00:33:26,172
♪ Call it a tryst, feelings I missed ♪
728
00:33:26,172 --> 00:33:28,632
♪ Now you're loved ♪
729
00:33:35,639 --> 00:33:37,725
I still have not gotten
a chance to talk to my mom.
730
00:33:37,725 --> 00:33:39,018
{\an8}- Yeah.
- [Kwame] You know?
731
00:33:40,478 --> 00:33:45,107
{\an8}[chuckles] So, I'm not sure if she knows
732
00:33:45,107 --> 00:33:47,026
and just isn't picking up
or what the case?
733
00:33:47,026 --> 00:33:49,987
I don't think that's the case.
I know some parts of me just think like--
734
00:33:49,987 --> 00:33:52,865
I mean, I feel pretty confident
about things.
735
00:33:52,865 --> 00:33:56,577
I'm like, "Yeah, sure she'll be fine."
But at the same time, will she?
736
00:33:56,577 --> 00:33:57,661
You know?
737
00:33:57,661 --> 00:33:59,330
So I'm gonna give her another call.
738
00:34:00,247 --> 00:34:02,166
[Chelsea] Am I able to be a part of that?
739
00:34:02,166 --> 00:34:03,667
You wanna talk to her?
740
00:34:05,669 --> 00:34:07,421
It's-- It's your mom.
741
00:34:07,421 --> 00:34:09,048
- I-- I don't know her.
- Yeah.
742
00:34:09,048 --> 00:34:12,718
Obviously, I would love to, uh,
if it was the right opportunity.
743
00:34:12,718 --> 00:34:14,762
- [Kwame] Yeah.
- And in the right moment.
744
00:34:14,762 --> 00:34:17,473
I'd obviously love
to introduce you to her, you know.
745
00:34:17,473 --> 00:34:20,726
Um, I just think this first conversation's
gotta be from me.
746
00:34:20,726 --> 00:34:22,019
All right.
747
00:34:22,019 --> 00:34:24,522
[line ringing]
748
00:34:28,484 --> 00:34:30,194
Do you have a minute to talk?
749
00:34:31,195 --> 00:34:34,573
{\an8}So, uh, I wanted to just let you know
750
00:34:34,573 --> 00:34:37,451
{\an8}that I did find someone in the experiment.
751
00:34:37,451 --> 00:34:40,079
Um, her name was Chelsea.
752
00:34:40,079 --> 00:34:44,583
And, um, you know,
I did take the step forward and,
753
00:34:45,167 --> 00:34:48,587
uh, ask her, uh, for her hand in marriage.
754
00:34:49,380 --> 00:34:51,841
And so, I wanted to
755
00:34:53,092 --> 00:34:55,970
kind of just take a chance to tell you,
756
00:34:55,970 --> 00:34:59,056
um, about that experience and where I am.
757
00:35:05,855 --> 00:35:06,981
You're mad?
758
00:35:08,732 --> 00:35:12,528
All right, Mom.
I appreciate your honesty, as usual.
759
00:35:12,528 --> 00:35:15,656
It's a tough situation for a mom
to walk into things like this.
760
00:35:15,656 --> 00:35:17,491
You know, I don't disagree with you.
761
00:35:18,075 --> 00:35:20,619
So, I understand.
I understand where you're coming from.
762
00:35:20,619 --> 00:35:23,789
So, I'll respect that,
but I do think we should, uh...
763
00:35:24,290 --> 00:35:26,584
We should talk
about this again sometime. Bye.
764
00:35:26,584 --> 00:35:28,627
[line beeps]
765
00:35:33,549 --> 00:35:34,466
[exhales]
766
00:35:37,219 --> 00:35:38,137
Didn't go well.
767
00:35:41,724 --> 00:35:44,351
My mom's been
a big part of my life. Massive.
768
00:35:44,351 --> 00:35:45,603
She said that,
769
00:35:46,437 --> 00:35:47,521
as a mother,
770
00:35:48,105 --> 00:35:50,357
as someone who... [chuckles]
771
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:53,527
...you know, would expect more from me.
772
00:35:54,195 --> 00:35:56,113
Um, I didn't do the right thing.
773
00:35:56,113 --> 00:35:58,949
She doesn't think
that I used my head in this situation.
774
00:35:58,949 --> 00:36:01,869
Um, and that, um,
775
00:36:03,537 --> 00:36:06,123
she can't really say
that she's happy for me.
776
00:36:06,123 --> 00:36:08,876
I mean, that's a little tough
to hear, you know.
777
00:36:08,876 --> 00:36:10,961
Yeah, I'm really sorry. That's...
778
00:36:11,962 --> 00:36:13,047
Yeah, I mean...
779
00:36:13,047 --> 00:36:15,132
...heartbreaking, really. [exhales]
780
00:36:15,132 --> 00:36:18,177
Well, I mean, I told her. I said, "Hey..."
781
00:36:21,138 --> 00:36:23,349
"You have to understand
that the decisions that I've made
782
00:36:23,349 --> 00:36:25,267
for myself in life have been good ones."
783
00:36:25,935 --> 00:36:29,063
"I accepted all the failures
in order to find the successes."
784
00:36:29,563 --> 00:36:33,901
"So, I believe that I make
the right choices for myself."
785
00:36:36,111 --> 00:36:38,739
"And I believe I made the right choice
for myself this time as well."
786
00:36:39,907 --> 00:36:40,741
So...
787
00:36:44,203 --> 00:36:46,205
- It's only uphill from here.
- [laughs]
788
00:36:46,205 --> 00:36:48,999
- It's only uphill from here.
- I'm sorry, baby.
789
00:36:48,999 --> 00:36:50,292
[Kwame laughs]
790
00:36:54,630 --> 00:36:55,631
It's gotta hurt.
791
00:37:04,265 --> 00:37:05,099
Yeah.
792
00:37:05,099 --> 00:37:06,725
[slow-tempo music playing]
793
00:37:09,144 --> 00:37:13,315
♪ Come with me to my lonely world ♪
794
00:37:13,315 --> 00:37:15,359
♪ Come ♪
795
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:20,114
♪ Come ♪
796
00:37:23,075 --> 00:37:24,535
♪ Come with me ♪
797
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:26,745
{\an8}♪ Come with me ♪
798
00:37:29,498 --> 00:37:31,500
♪ To my lonely world ♪
799
00:37:31,500 --> 00:37:33,127
Ooh!
800
00:37:34,128 --> 00:37:35,379
{\an8}[laughing]
801
00:37:35,379 --> 00:37:37,756
{\an8}- Your turn to cook tonight?
- [Tiffany] It is.
802
00:37:37,756 --> 00:37:41,260
- I gotta put in some work, right?
- [Brett] Where did you learn how to cook?
803
00:37:41,260 --> 00:37:42,511
Food Network.
804
00:37:43,012 --> 00:37:44,722
- Really?
- And my mom. [laughs]
805
00:37:44,722 --> 00:37:47,349
I hope it won't make you nervous
if I just kinda...
806
00:37:47,349 --> 00:37:51,645
This is my first meal for you.
So yeah, I'm a little nervous.
807
00:37:51,645 --> 00:37:54,189
[Brett] No pressure.
I have the utmost confidence.
808
00:37:54,189 --> 00:37:56,275
- Do you? Okay.
- [Brett] In your cooking ability.
809
00:37:56,275 --> 00:37:57,776
- [Tiffany] Okay.
- [chuckles]
810
00:37:57,776 --> 00:38:01,363
So, Brett, I was thinking about, like...
811
00:38:03,032 --> 00:38:04,533
What are we, two weeks?
812
00:38:04,533 --> 00:38:06,535
- Two weeks away from our wedding.
- [clears throat]
813
00:38:06,535 --> 00:38:09,371
- That's crazy to think, ain't it?
- [gasping] I know.
814
00:38:09,371 --> 00:38:12,458
Um, so, I think
I'm just trying to understand, like,
815
00:38:12,458 --> 00:38:15,669
what our lifestyle
would look like out there.
816
00:38:15,669 --> 00:38:16,754
[Brett] Mm-hmm.
817
00:38:16,754 --> 00:38:19,048
I'm comfortable and happy,
818
00:38:19,631 --> 00:38:22,718
like, with what I'm spending,
how much I'm making.
819
00:38:22,718 --> 00:38:25,888
How about you? Like, do you feel
like you're overextended...
820
00:38:26,388 --> 00:38:27,222
- No.
- ...in your...
821
00:38:27,806 --> 00:38:30,642
- No?
- [Brett] No. I'm a really simple person.
822
00:38:30,642 --> 00:38:32,061
[pan sizzling]
823
00:38:32,061 --> 00:38:33,103
[Tiffany] Really?
824
00:38:35,689 --> 00:38:38,984
- With...?
- Your eyes look like all kind of doubt.
825
00:38:38,984 --> 00:38:42,738
I mean, you do, you know,
you dress very nice, Brett.
826
00:38:42,738 --> 00:38:44,907
I know that stuff ain't cheap. [chuckles]
827
00:38:44,907 --> 00:38:46,992
I looked at some of your wardrobe,
828
00:38:46,992 --> 00:38:50,996
and I was like,
"Oh. Oh, he's spending the big bucks."
829
00:38:50,996 --> 00:38:52,414
[laughs]
830
00:38:55,959 --> 00:38:58,921
I'm not gonna lie.
Yeah, do I have a few things that...
831
00:39:00,923 --> 00:39:03,092
I spent some money on? Of course.
832
00:39:03,092 --> 00:39:06,887
What is the most you spent
on a certain item?
833
00:39:08,639 --> 00:39:10,140
I would say...
834
00:39:15,896 --> 00:39:17,189
Well...
835
00:39:18,315 --> 00:39:20,192
The most expensive thing
836
00:39:20,192 --> 00:39:22,820
that I've bought that isn't, like, tech,
837
00:39:22,820 --> 00:39:25,072
because that stuff
is generally gonna be expensive.
838
00:39:25,072 --> 00:39:25,989
[Tiffany] Mm-hmm.
839
00:39:25,989 --> 00:39:29,451
Uh, I got some expensive luggage.
840
00:39:30,869 --> 00:39:32,162
How much did you pay for it?
841
00:39:32,871 --> 00:39:37,042
Like, at least, like, my carry--
yeah, my, uh, check bag was, like,
842
00:39:37,918 --> 00:39:38,877
$1,200?
843
00:39:38,877 --> 00:39:41,171
Brett! No!
844
00:39:41,171 --> 00:39:44,091
- [laughing]
- Are you kidding me? Luggage?
845
00:39:48,011 --> 00:39:49,471
But it'll last.
846
00:39:49,471 --> 00:39:52,057
- It should. It better.
- And-- And it looks good.
847
00:39:52,057 --> 00:39:54,393
- [laughs]
- Bougie Brett.
848
00:39:54,393 --> 00:39:56,061
[laughing]
849
00:39:56,061 --> 00:39:59,857
You are, like, this creative too.
850
00:39:59,857 --> 00:40:04,528
Like, I think you have very good style
and very good taste.
851
00:40:04,528 --> 00:40:07,448
I just wanna make sure
it's within the budget
852
00:40:07,448 --> 00:40:09,491
I feel comfortable with spending.
853
00:40:09,491 --> 00:40:10,576
Here's my thing.
854
00:40:10,576 --> 00:40:12,953
I don't need to know
everything you spend things on,
855
00:40:12,953 --> 00:40:14,621
just as long as you pay the bills.
856
00:40:15,289 --> 00:40:16,665
Um, and to be honest,
857
00:40:16,665 --> 00:40:20,961
I don't want somebody telling me
how I should be spending my money,
858
00:40:20,961 --> 00:40:22,671
because I'm doing okay already.
859
00:40:24,047 --> 00:40:26,550
[Brett] In terms of,
like, our bills, like,
860
00:40:27,342 --> 00:40:29,470
it doesn't have to be
down the middle for me.
861
00:40:29,470 --> 00:40:32,639
I'd be fine with saying,
"Well, I'll get 75% of this."
862
00:40:33,182 --> 00:40:35,392
- Or 60-40.
- Oh, yeah.
863
00:40:36,351 --> 00:40:37,394
- Yeah.
- You know, whatever.
864
00:40:37,394 --> 00:40:41,273
If we, you know, said that
there's a few bills or certain bills.
865
00:40:41,273 --> 00:40:44,026
Like, I don't know if it's a rent
or mortgage or something like that.
866
00:40:44,026 --> 00:40:46,487
If we wanted to pay together to avoid the...
867
00:40:46,487 --> 00:40:50,741
"I paid, and you pay me back.
Or you paid, and I pay you back."
868
00:40:50,741 --> 00:40:53,202
- That feels like a roommate situation.
- Exactly.
869
00:40:53,202 --> 00:40:55,454
I pay you.
Then I'm looking at you like, "Hey, babe."
870
00:40:55,454 --> 00:40:57,372
"Like, when you gonna
pay me my half back?"
871
00:40:57,372 --> 00:41:00,250
- You better send me that Venmo real quick.
- Exactly.
872
00:41:00,250 --> 00:41:04,046
[laughs] I don't wanna
be sending Venmo requests.
873
00:41:04,046 --> 00:41:07,090
- [laughing] Oh, my God, I know.
- To my wife for our mortgage payment.
874
00:41:07,090 --> 00:41:09,468
That does not sound
like something I wanna do.
875
00:41:09,468 --> 00:41:13,305
Real quick side note.
You are burning up this kitchen.
876
00:41:13,305 --> 00:41:16,225
- [Tiffany] Oh, well, because-- Oh!
- [laughing]
877
00:41:16,934 --> 00:41:17,851
[Tiffany] Mm.
878
00:41:19,353 --> 00:41:21,104
Ooh!
879
00:41:21,104 --> 00:41:24,149
- [Brett] Whoa!
- [both laughing]
880
00:41:24,149 --> 00:41:26,026
[pop music playing]
881
00:41:30,030 --> 00:41:32,324
{\an8}♪ All I know is all I want is you ♪
882
00:41:35,118 --> 00:41:37,496
- At least the sun's coming out.
- A little bit.
883
00:41:37,496 --> 00:41:39,331
- Yeah, it is.
- Our ghost pilot is...
884
00:41:40,165 --> 00:41:43,377
- [Bliss laughs] Ghost pilot. It is trippy.
- [Zack] Ghost captain.
885
00:41:43,377 --> 00:41:47,089
It literally feels like there is a gremlin
or something in there.
886
00:41:48,090 --> 00:41:49,883
- Gremlin?
- Like, you know, from--
887
00:41:49,883 --> 00:41:50,842
[Zack] I do. I do.
888
00:41:50,842 --> 00:41:55,013
I don't know if I was born when that
came out, but I watched it at some point.
889
00:41:55,013 --> 00:41:58,058
It's like the little-- What are they
before they become gremlins?
890
00:41:58,058 --> 00:41:59,935
I don't know,
but then if you put water on 'em,
891
00:41:59,935 --> 00:42:01,937
they reproduce,
and they create more monsters.
892
00:42:01,937 --> 00:42:05,190
I think if they put water on them
after a certain--
893
00:42:05,190 --> 00:42:07,568
after midnight or something,
they turn into gremlins.
894
00:42:07,568 --> 00:42:09,278
- Or something like that.
- Mm.
895
00:42:09,278 --> 00:42:11,697
They turn into whatever the cute,
like, little furbos.
896
00:42:11,697 --> 00:42:14,533
Did you ever have, like, a furbo?
Or not a furbo--
897
00:42:14,533 --> 00:42:15,492
I had a Furby.
898
00:42:15,492 --> 00:42:18,620
- A Furby. That's it! [laughs]
- Yeah. [chuckles]
899
00:42:18,620 --> 00:42:21,415
- I thought they were the coolest things.
- They were so lame.
900
00:42:21,415 --> 00:42:24,334
- Uh, yeah. They were totally oversold.
- They really were.
901
00:42:24,334 --> 00:42:27,170
They were starting to sell
smart A.I. in a stuffed animal.
902
00:42:27,170 --> 00:42:29,172
- I know.
- And it was not.
903
00:42:29,172 --> 00:42:30,340
It was not.
904
00:42:30,340 --> 00:42:32,801
No, but it's funny 'cause,
like, the random...
905
00:42:32,801 --> 00:42:35,512
Like, the little-- It was like "didja..."
906
00:42:35,512 --> 00:42:39,182
What was it? The little, like...
What were those things called?
907
00:42:39,182 --> 00:42:40,434
- Digipets.
- Digipets.
908
00:42:40,434 --> 00:42:43,186
- [laughing]
- Uh-huh.
909
00:42:43,186 --> 00:42:46,857
They were pretty lame
compared to the toys that are out now.
910
00:42:46,857 --> 00:42:49,484
But you know what never goes out
of style is stuffed animals.
911
00:42:52,738 --> 00:42:55,949
- You don't like pineapple?
- Pineapple is actually my favorite fruit.
912
00:42:56,617 --> 00:42:59,286
- Of all the fruits.
- I don't know how you can pick one.
913
00:42:59,786 --> 00:43:02,164
- They're all so good.
- I think it would go pineapple.
914
00:43:02,164 --> 00:43:04,583
Raspberries, mango.
915
00:43:05,417 --> 00:43:07,753
Mango. Really, mango? After...
916
00:43:08,587 --> 00:43:11,840
I think mango, I'd put mango first above.
I think I would put mango...
917
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:15,636
Out of those three, I would rate it
mango, pineapple and raspberries.
918
00:43:15,636 --> 00:43:18,138
I make a really good
dark chocolate raspberry cake.
919
00:43:18,138 --> 00:43:21,558
- [Zack] Oh, my God, sounds delicious.
- [Bliss] Yeah, with fresh raspberry jam.
920
00:43:21,558 --> 00:43:23,644
- I'm not a big jam guy.
- It can be meditative thing.
921
00:43:23,644 --> 00:43:25,020
- Really?
- No.
922
00:43:25,020 --> 00:43:29,650
[chuckles] Hmm, like a peanut butter
and jelly sandwich, that wasn't your jam?
923
00:43:29,650 --> 00:43:31,234
I love that. Sometimes I'll make that.
924
00:43:31,234 --> 00:43:34,613
Did you say, "Peanut butter and jelly
was not your jam"? That's hilarious.
925
00:43:34,613 --> 00:43:37,699
[Bliss] I know.
I didn't mean to be so punful, but I was.
926
00:43:37,699 --> 00:43:39,242
[Zack] I really appreciate it.
927
00:43:39,242 --> 00:43:41,328
[both laughing]
928
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:44,873
[Bliss] I would hold your hand,
but I have to have one hand on the boat.
929
00:43:44,873 --> 00:43:46,166
I'm a rule follower. [laughs]
930
00:43:46,166 --> 00:43:48,627
[Zack] You got one hand on the boat,
one hand on your drink.
931
00:43:48,627 --> 00:43:51,254
[Bliss] I feel like you're
way more nervous about this than I am.
932
00:43:51,254 --> 00:43:52,506
[laughs]
933
00:43:52,506 --> 00:43:54,883
- [Zack] Make sure you didn't fall over.
- That was sweet.
934
00:43:59,805 --> 00:44:02,099
- [Zack laughs] Is my hand cold?
- Yeah, it is. [laughs]
935
00:44:02,099 --> 00:44:04,893
I'm never warmer than people,
but I'm also wearing something thinner.
936
00:44:05,018 --> 00:44:07,062
[Zack] You can tell
someone's colder than you.
937
00:44:07,062 --> 00:44:09,731
It's 'cause they feel warm,
so you always know who's a warm person.
938
00:44:09,731 --> 00:44:12,526
[Bliss] I know. This is
a very bizarre experience for me,
939
00:44:12,526 --> 00:44:14,903
and I actually, like,
don't like it, 'cause you're cold.
940
00:44:14,903 --> 00:44:16,405
[laughing]
941
00:44:16,405 --> 00:44:19,032
I know how other people feel
when I'm like, "Ah, I'm cold."
942
00:44:19,032 --> 00:44:21,159
- They're like, "Get away!"
- Give me your warmth.
943
00:44:21,159 --> 00:44:22,661
- [laughs]
- You can have some of it.
944
00:44:24,705 --> 00:44:27,499
- [laughs] I know.
- [sighs]
945
00:44:27,499 --> 00:44:29,418
- [Bliss] Oh, you need the sun?
- [Zack] Yeah.
946
00:44:29,418 --> 00:44:32,379
[Bliss laughing]
Okay, just don't fall over.
947
00:44:32,379 --> 00:44:34,756
[Zack exhales] I'm really glad
you're here.
948
00:44:36,299 --> 00:44:38,301
- Look, your hat might go overboard.
- [Bliss] Why?
949
00:44:39,386 --> 00:44:40,721
I don't like it.
950
00:44:40,721 --> 00:44:41,763
It's like a kiss guard.
951
00:44:41,763 --> 00:44:43,807
I just wanna go
to those luscious lips of yours.
952
00:44:43,807 --> 00:44:46,393
- You have to work hard for this.
- [Zack] I will work hard for it.
953
00:44:46,393 --> 00:44:48,061
Mm-hmm.
954
00:44:48,061 --> 00:44:48,979
Fine.
955
00:44:50,605 --> 00:44:52,524
[laughing] Are you freezing?
956
00:44:52,524 --> 00:44:55,986
Do you want, like, a blanket or something?
957
00:44:55,986 --> 00:44:58,655
Maybe you can ask them for a blanket.
958
00:44:58,655 --> 00:45:01,491
You're just trying to get really close
to me to steal my warmth.
959
00:45:01,491 --> 00:45:03,076
I don't have any to give!
960
00:45:03,702 --> 00:45:06,997
- [groans] You wanna fix my hair?
- It's okay. It's just...
961
00:45:06,997 --> 00:45:08,248
[laughing]
962
00:45:08,248 --> 00:45:12,878
It's fine. It's just gonna do
what it's gonna do. It's okay.
963
00:45:15,922 --> 00:45:18,759
If you could meet anybody in the world,
who would you pick?
964
00:45:18,759 --> 00:45:20,469
- [Bliss] That's alive?
- Yeah.
965
00:45:21,219 --> 00:45:24,014
I think I would choose
to meet, like, Oprah.
966
00:45:24,014 --> 00:45:25,849
- Oprah? Winfrey?
- [Bliss] Mm-hmm.
967
00:45:25,849 --> 00:45:28,727
- Wow.
- She's a very, like, powerful woman, yeah.
968
00:45:28,727 --> 00:45:29,728
What about you?
969
00:45:30,312 --> 00:45:31,313
Your parents.
970
00:45:32,481 --> 00:45:35,108
[Bliss] You totally set that up.
You're so cheesy.
971
00:45:35,108 --> 00:45:36,318
[laughs]
972
00:45:37,861 --> 00:45:40,864
My mom is amazing.
I think I told you that.
973
00:45:40,864 --> 00:45:44,618
My dad is amazing in his own ways too, so.
974
00:45:47,078 --> 00:45:48,205
What are you doing?
975
00:45:52,083 --> 00:45:53,210
What are you doing?
976
00:45:58,340 --> 00:46:02,093
Bliss, you're everything
that I've been looking for my entire life.
977
00:46:08,308 --> 00:46:11,019
You are beautiful, intelligent,
978
00:46:11,937 --> 00:46:12,896
driven,
979
00:46:13,897 --> 00:46:14,731
thoughtful.
980
00:46:16,107 --> 00:46:19,945
When I'm with you,
you just make me feel warm.
981
00:46:21,279 --> 00:46:24,324
I just wanna be with you.
I just wanna spend time with you.
982
00:46:24,324 --> 00:46:26,910
I believe there's nobody in this world
983
00:46:27,911 --> 00:46:30,580
who I'm meant to be with more than you.
984
00:46:34,626 --> 00:46:36,002
No matter what I did.
985
00:46:36,628 --> 00:46:38,255
No matter how stupid I was.
986
00:46:40,757 --> 00:46:42,259
We were always gonna end up here.
987
00:46:45,512 --> 00:46:46,763
I found my person.
988
00:46:52,018 --> 00:46:53,270
Will you marry me?
989
00:46:54,855 --> 00:46:56,857
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