1 00:00:06,049 --> 00:00:09,135 -♪ I got a secret ♪ 2 00:00:09,802 --> 00:00:12,138 {\an8}♪ How can you tell? ♪ 3 00:00:12,847 --> 00:00:15,016 ♪ I'll keep the secret... ♪ 4 00:00:16,684 --> 00:00:18,603 The other day, I walked in. 5 00:00:19,312 --> 00:00:20,188 Saw you. 6 00:00:20,938 --> 00:00:23,274 {\an8}I should have told you how I felt. 7 00:00:23,274 --> 00:00:24,275 Yeah. 8 00:00:25,109 --> 00:00:27,487 {\an8}I haven't talked to Josh since Chelsea's party. 9 00:00:27,487 --> 00:00:30,740 That was the first time seeing him physically, 10 00:00:30,740 --> 00:00:33,576 and I was immediately attracted to Josh. 11 00:00:34,577 --> 00:00:36,913 Seeing you-- First, I didn't even see you. 12 00:00:36,913 --> 00:00:38,498 - I heard your voice. 13 00:00:38,498 --> 00:00:40,083 And your voice is so distinctive. 14 00:00:40,083 --> 00:00:42,794 Like, I'd gotten so used to it that I instantly knew it was you, 15 00:00:42,794 --> 00:00:46,297 'cause I went back to the pods, and all the hairs on my body stood up. 16 00:00:46,297 --> 00:00:48,007 My nipple got hard. "Ooh, that's Josh." 17 00:00:48,007 --> 00:00:51,636 - What? What? 18 00:00:51,636 --> 00:00:56,015 And I was like-- I was like-- I was like, "That's Josh." 19 00:00:56,015 --> 00:00:58,893 And then, like, you came up to me. We had, you know... 20 00:00:58,893 --> 00:01:00,603 - Thought you were gonna pop off on me. - No. 21 00:01:00,603 --> 00:01:03,189 Especially when you came in, you looked, like, upset and then-- 22 00:01:03,189 --> 00:01:06,484 Oh, I was livid when I walked in. I was ready to whoop ass more. 23 00:01:06,484 --> 00:01:09,821 - I was, like, smiling. You were like... 24 00:01:09,821 --> 00:01:12,740 You're a strong woman. You could be cussing me out. 25 00:01:12,740 --> 00:01:14,617 You could have been like, "Get out of my face." 26 00:01:15,868 --> 00:01:17,745 - But I knew what I had to say. - Yeah. 27 00:01:18,246 --> 00:01:21,457 And... I was nervous. 28 00:01:22,125 --> 00:01:25,044 Everything had been, like, weighing on me since the pods. 29 00:01:25,044 --> 00:01:29,006 I'm losing a girl that I wanna be with, and I don't know how to say that. 30 00:01:30,758 --> 00:01:34,846 I was always taught, like, through competing, through wrestling, 31 00:01:34,846 --> 00:01:36,472 you never show your emotions. 32 00:01:36,472 --> 00:01:38,224 I'm terrible with my emotion. 33 00:01:38,224 --> 00:01:40,685 And I always was like, "My actions speak louder than words." 34 00:01:40,685 --> 00:01:42,311 Same. Yeah, I'm the same way. 35 00:01:42,311 --> 00:01:45,189 But I like that about you. I like a lot of things about you. 36 00:01:50,528 --> 00:01:54,532 It's important that you know how I feel, if you did wanna be with me. 37 00:01:55,491 --> 00:01:56,367 I do love you. 38 00:01:58,035 --> 00:01:59,245 And I-- I wanna be together. 39 00:01:59,954 --> 00:02:00,830 Wow. 40 00:02:03,332 --> 00:02:05,001 I wanna know where your head's at. 41 00:02:06,502 --> 00:02:08,671 Yeah, so... 42 00:02:10,381 --> 00:02:13,217 Marshall is too sensitive for me, basically. 43 00:02:13,217 --> 00:02:16,387 That was the first time I ever had somebody, like, love me, 44 00:02:16,387 --> 00:02:18,514 and, like, show me, 45 00:02:18,514 --> 00:02:21,392 and really, like, translate that to me. I never had that before. 46 00:02:21,392 --> 00:02:23,436 I wanted to keep that. 47 00:02:23,436 --> 00:02:28,399 And when I had told him to, you know, be more aggressive and boss up, 48 00:02:29,192 --> 00:02:30,568 he left for, like, three days. 49 00:02:31,194 --> 00:02:32,570 He did the opposite. 50 00:02:32,570 --> 00:02:34,488 He did, like-- He, like, just got up and left. 51 00:02:34,488 --> 00:02:39,118 And I was like, "I stayed and then... you leave." 52 00:02:39,118 --> 00:02:41,537 You shouldn't have said yes to Marshall. 53 00:02:43,748 --> 00:02:46,083 - How do you think Marshall would feel? - I don't care. 54 00:02:47,668 --> 00:02:50,046 Does he know that you and I are talking at all? 55 00:02:54,884 --> 00:02:57,345 I robbed myself from jump. 56 00:02:57,845 --> 00:02:59,722 That's my biggest regret. 57 00:02:59,722 --> 00:03:00,848 Mm-hmm. 58 00:03:00,848 --> 00:03:02,558 I chose wrong. 59 00:03:04,310 --> 00:03:05,895 You see yourself marrying me? 60 00:03:09,148 --> 00:03:10,191 I could. 61 00:03:10,733 --> 00:03:13,361 But the legal marriage part, it's scary to me. 62 00:03:14,028 --> 00:03:17,657 If you want marriage anytime soon, I can't give that to you. 63 00:03:18,241 --> 00:03:22,745 But I'm willing to be with you and see where things go. 64 00:03:22,745 --> 00:03:27,500 And I'm willing to, you know, just try. 65 00:03:27,500 --> 00:03:30,378 ♪ Of what is waiting for us... ♪ 66 00:03:31,671 --> 00:03:33,214 Yeah, let's do it. 67 00:03:33,214 --> 00:03:34,548 ♪ It's a brave world... ♪ 68 00:03:34,548 --> 00:03:35,466 I love it. 69 00:03:35,466 --> 00:03:37,551 ♪ We're facing this together ♪ 70 00:03:37,551 --> 00:03:40,763 ♪ Now it's our turn ♪ 71 00:03:40,763 --> 00:03:42,890 ♪ To make it what we want ♪ 72 00:03:50,606 --> 00:03:53,317 ♪ I'll be the one to rescue you ♪ 73 00:03:53,317 --> 00:03:55,820 ♪ You'll be the one to rescue me ♪ 74 00:03:56,404 --> 00:03:57,363 ♪ Oh! ♪ 75 00:03:58,948 --> 00:04:00,408 So, what happened? 76 00:04:00,408 --> 00:04:02,702 So, I hear that she has not showed up to her-- 77 00:04:02,702 --> 00:04:04,829 {\an8}She didn't show up to her dress fitting. 78 00:04:06,247 --> 00:04:08,958 - Wow. Fuck that. I mean, if she-- - Right. That's trash. 79 00:04:08,958 --> 00:04:10,251 Sorry, bro. 80 00:04:10,251 --> 00:04:12,086 It got real for her, and she's running. 81 00:04:12,086 --> 00:04:14,130 -♪ Wish I could bend time ♪ 82 00:04:16,132 --> 00:04:18,926 ♪ Get back tomorrow... ♪ 83 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:20,928 {\an8}I do love her. 84 00:04:22,430 --> 00:04:27,935 ♪ Where did I go wrong? ♪ 85 00:04:27,935 --> 00:04:30,604 I couldn't even get the decency of a text message. 86 00:04:30,604 --> 00:04:32,315 If she wants to talk, cool. 87 00:04:33,691 --> 00:04:34,692 I'm done talking. 88 00:04:35,484 --> 00:04:39,155 ♪ Where did I go wrong? ♪ 89 00:04:42,575 --> 00:04:45,036 {\an8}Hello! Hello! 90 00:04:45,036 --> 00:04:46,537 - Hi! 91 00:04:46,537 --> 00:04:49,373 Did you guys think I would miss your wedding dress shopping day? 92 00:04:49,373 --> 00:04:51,042 Oh, my goodness! 93 00:04:52,126 --> 00:04:53,586 {\an8}- What's up? Hey! 94 00:04:53,586 --> 00:04:56,255 Let's go! 95 00:04:56,255 --> 00:04:58,466 Look at you guys. 96 00:04:58,466 --> 00:04:59,884 - How's everybody feeling? - Good. 97 00:04:59,884 --> 00:05:01,469 You good? Fantastic. 98 00:05:01,469 --> 00:05:03,220 All right. Welcome. Welcome. 99 00:05:03,220 --> 00:05:05,556 So, everyone tell me who you brought. Hi. 100 00:05:05,556 --> 00:05:09,727 Hi. - So, I am here with my best friend Lesley. 101 00:05:09,727 --> 00:05:12,772 {\an8}- Hi, Lesley. - And my beautiful mother Ella. 102 00:05:12,772 --> 00:05:14,815 {\an8}- Hi. Hi! Hi, Mom! 103 00:05:14,815 --> 00:05:16,317 How y'all feeling right now? 104 00:05:16,317 --> 00:05:17,360 - Good. Good. 105 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:18,486 Oh, yes. 106 00:05:18,486 --> 00:05:20,071 I trust her judgment. 107 00:05:20,905 --> 00:05:22,448 Hi, Micah. How are ya? 108 00:05:22,448 --> 00:05:24,742 {\an8}Paul and I balance each other out really well. 109 00:05:24,742 --> 00:05:27,328 {\an8}- He had a backpack. I had five suitcases. 110 00:05:27,912 --> 00:05:31,707 - Does he have say in your wedding dress? No. 111 00:05:32,833 --> 00:05:34,794 How are you dealing with this, Mom? 112 00:05:35,628 --> 00:05:37,963 {\an8}- Oh, I'm happy now. 113 00:05:37,963 --> 00:05:39,673 {\an8}She was very shocked at first. 114 00:05:39,673 --> 00:05:41,092 {\an8}- Yes. I can imagine. 115 00:05:41,092 --> 00:05:42,843 You remember the moment when you were like, 116 00:05:42,843 --> 00:05:44,678 "Okay, I'm okay with this"? 117 00:05:44,678 --> 00:05:47,431 Was it meeting her fiancé? 118 00:05:47,932 --> 00:05:50,142 - Oh, it wasn't meeting him. 119 00:05:50,142 --> 00:05:51,060 Mom! 120 00:05:51,060 --> 00:05:53,229 That's not the moment. Okay. 121 00:05:53,229 --> 00:05:55,856 After I, you know, told her, like, "Hey, like, this is real." 122 00:05:55,856 --> 00:05:58,275 "Like, I am in love," she was like, "Oh." 123 00:05:58,275 --> 00:06:01,070 She's like, "Really?" And she goes, "Okay, like, let's do it." 124 00:06:01,070 --> 00:06:05,116 'Cause it was so weird, but yeah, I'm very excited now. 125 00:06:05,116 --> 00:06:07,785 - I love this. Who did you bring? My beautiful mom Kit. 126 00:06:07,785 --> 00:06:09,620 Hi there. Hi, Mom. 127 00:06:09,620 --> 00:06:10,788 She's my angel. 128 00:06:10,788 --> 00:06:12,957 - She's everything I am, I owe to her. Aww. 129 00:06:12,957 --> 00:06:16,585 {\an8}Truly. And this is my beautiful baby sister and bridesmaid Tatiana. 130 00:06:16,585 --> 00:06:18,170 You guys are all tearing up. 131 00:06:18,170 --> 00:06:20,423 Can I ask what's making you so emotional right now, Mom? 132 00:06:20,423 --> 00:06:23,008 She followed her heart, and she's grown. 133 00:06:23,008 --> 00:06:28,431 {\an8}And I've just seen such a beautiful human just transform right in front of my eyes. 134 00:06:28,931 --> 00:06:30,850 {\an8}Zack, start. Who'd you bring with you today? 135 00:06:30,850 --> 00:06:33,561 {\an8}- This is my little sister Alexa. Yeah? - Hi. 136 00:06:33,561 --> 00:06:36,188 Kwame, you brought a familiar face with you today. 137 00:06:36,188 --> 00:06:40,359 I did. I brought my good man Jack with me. 138 00:06:40,359 --> 00:06:42,445 Obviously, you're in a unique position. 139 00:06:42,445 --> 00:06:45,322 {\an8}Did you ever date Chelsea in the pods? Did you guys have any interaction? 140 00:06:45,322 --> 00:06:47,450 - Couple of dates with Chelsea, yeah. - Okay. 141 00:06:47,450 --> 00:06:50,411 When they got engaged... They're both loud personalities. 142 00:06:50,411 --> 00:06:52,496 I was like, "This is gonna go one of two ways." 143 00:06:52,496 --> 00:06:58,294 And, uh, selfishly, I want it to be "yes" and "yes," so he moves to Seattle, but... 144 00:06:58,294 --> 00:07:00,880 - Just want the best for him. All right, fellas. 145 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:05,634 Your wedding day is just over one week away. 146 00:07:07,636 --> 00:07:09,763 In one week, you're gonna have to decide 147 00:07:09,763 --> 00:07:14,185 if you're gonna say "I do" to the man that you got engaged to sight unseen. 148 00:07:15,227 --> 00:07:18,606 Or will you walk away... forever? 149 00:07:21,775 --> 00:07:23,903 In that moment, you'll have to decide. 150 00:07:24,403 --> 00:07:25,863 Is love blind? 151 00:07:26,572 --> 00:07:29,158 I really, really, really hope that you prove that it is. 152 00:07:29,783 --> 00:07:31,535 And have the best, best time. 153 00:07:31,535 --> 00:07:33,454 - Nice to meet you. - Yes. Thank you. 154 00:07:33,454 --> 00:07:35,414 - All right, let's do this. - Let's do it! 155 00:07:38,459 --> 00:07:40,377 Hey, it's a big day for all of us. 156 00:07:40,377 --> 00:07:43,047 We're gonna be seeing our brides at their most beautiful. 157 00:07:43,047 --> 00:07:45,674 Today, we get to figure out how we're gonna look 158 00:07:45,674 --> 00:07:48,177 when we're standing there at our most handsome. Let's go, baby. 159 00:07:53,057 --> 00:07:55,351 {\an8}- I'm, like, lace, jewels... Lace. 160 00:07:55,351 --> 00:07:57,978 {\an8}- Jewels, sparkle. - Like, sparkle. 161 00:07:58,646 --> 00:08:02,149 Big wedding day. I'm sure you have a lot of ideas of what you're looking for. 162 00:08:02,149 --> 00:08:06,195 - Simplest terms, clean, minimal, modern. - Got it. 163 00:08:06,195 --> 00:08:08,155 Color-wise, I would love something white. 164 00:08:08,155 --> 00:08:09,073 Yep. 165 00:08:09,073 --> 00:08:11,617 Kind of, like, just elegant, royal colors I really like. 166 00:08:11,617 --> 00:08:12,952 - Got you. - But angelic. 167 00:08:12,952 --> 00:08:14,787 - I feel it, bro. - Angelic, I like that. 168 00:08:14,787 --> 00:08:17,122 - Straight from the heavens. - I like that royal-- 169 00:08:17,122 --> 00:08:18,999 - To my wife's arms. - Oh, man. 170 00:08:18,999 --> 00:08:20,334 I like fine detail. 171 00:08:20,334 --> 00:08:22,670 - So, like, this. I just love this. - Yeah. 172 00:08:22,670 --> 00:08:25,422 Slight detail that you start to see when you're up close. 173 00:08:25,422 --> 00:08:27,758 It'll be definitely defined to you. 174 00:08:27,758 --> 00:08:32,137 {\an8}Get a nice fit in your chest, shoulders, back and biceps. 175 00:08:32,137 --> 00:08:35,057 That's what I'm talking about. I'm trying to walk over here like Superman. 176 00:08:35,057 --> 00:08:36,892 - I'm trying to look like... 177 00:08:39,812 --> 00:08:42,481 Brett loves detailing in his shirts. 178 00:08:42,481 --> 00:08:44,316 Mm-hmm. He's a designer. 179 00:08:44,316 --> 00:08:47,778 So I wanted to get a dress that had a lot of detailing in it. 180 00:08:47,778 --> 00:08:51,156 {\an8}That journey to find the right person at 36 years old, 181 00:08:51,156 --> 00:08:53,075 {\an8}I mean, it was a long time coming. 182 00:08:53,075 --> 00:08:56,620 But today just solidifies that I'm right where I need to be. 183 00:08:56,620 --> 00:08:58,372 Brett Brown's future wife. 184 00:08:58,372 --> 00:09:00,708 - ♪ I wanna feel your heartbeat ♪ 185 00:09:00,708 --> 00:09:03,252 ♪ Running wild... ♪ 186 00:09:07,298 --> 00:09:11,093 - Oh, my goodness! 187 00:09:11,093 --> 00:09:14,263 - Wow. - Look at the glam. 188 00:09:14,263 --> 00:09:17,391 You look like a princess. Oh, my God. 189 00:09:17,391 --> 00:09:18,601 It's gorgeous. 190 00:09:18,601 --> 00:09:20,644 It's like this total Hollywood glam. 191 00:09:20,644 --> 00:09:23,856 Like, it's perfect. Oh, my gosh, you're just, like, a shining light. 192 00:09:23,856 --> 00:09:26,775 I know. - You look like this sexy, like, goddess. 193 00:09:26,775 --> 00:09:29,445 {\an8}This is your first wedding dress. Whoo-hoo! 194 00:09:30,821 --> 00:09:34,867 {\an8}- Tiffany, you look great. 195 00:09:34,867 --> 00:09:36,744 And it's fitted just like you wanted. 196 00:09:36,744 --> 00:09:39,413 - Yes. Yeah, I feel glamorous. 197 00:09:39,413 --> 00:09:42,875 I've never thought you were gonna walk down the aisle. 198 00:09:44,084 --> 00:09:45,419 I was giving up hope. 199 00:09:47,921 --> 00:09:49,840 For you to do this... 200 00:09:50,924 --> 00:09:54,386 - You knew it had to be the right person. - I knew it had to be the right person. 201 00:09:55,262 --> 00:09:59,224 I was never about just, like, wanting to be somebody's wife, 202 00:09:59,224 --> 00:10:02,102 and the ring, and this big elaborate wedding. 203 00:10:02,102 --> 00:10:05,522 I was always like, "I hope I find my soulmate." 204 00:10:06,148 --> 00:10:10,569 And, um, I think with Brett, I feel like I've found that. 205 00:10:11,695 --> 00:10:13,822 He's just so, like, supportive. 206 00:10:13,822 --> 00:10:16,700 And he thinks I'm beautiful, no matter what. 207 00:10:16,700 --> 00:10:19,203 So, I think seeing me in this dress, uh-- 208 00:10:19,203 --> 00:10:22,414 He may start crying. He probably will start crying. 209 00:10:22,414 --> 00:10:26,085 It's perfect for you. Brett's gonna pass out. 100%. 210 00:10:26,085 --> 00:10:27,878 There you go. 211 00:10:27,878 --> 00:10:31,882 -♪ It's real love, 'cause we have enough ♪ 212 00:10:31,882 --> 00:10:34,051 {\an8}You look them in the eyes and you love this girl? 213 00:10:34,051 --> 00:10:36,595 {\an8}Easily. That's an easy call. Easy call. 214 00:10:36,595 --> 00:10:38,681 {\an8}I loved her before I saw her. 215 00:10:38,681 --> 00:10:41,600 {\an8}I've loved Micah since the pods. Like, I really have. 216 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:45,396 {\an8}And the reasons why I love her are a lot. 217 00:10:45,396 --> 00:10:49,525 Ranging from, like, the way that we connected in the pods 218 00:10:49,525 --> 00:10:52,695 to things that don't have anything to do with our connection. 219 00:10:52,695 --> 00:10:55,989 Just my pure appreciation of the way that she is in herself 220 00:10:55,989 --> 00:10:58,575 and that includes differences, you know. 221 00:10:58,575 --> 00:11:01,745 All I need to make the decision is my feelings, 222 00:11:01,745 --> 00:11:04,039 because love begins where logic ends. 223 00:11:04,039 --> 00:11:06,500 You've always been a hopeless romantic since I've known you, 224 00:11:06,500 --> 00:11:07,793 but you get in your own way. 225 00:11:07,793 --> 00:11:12,214 Yeah, I can definitely get in my own way, whenever I'm too heady, too cerebral. 226 00:11:12,214 --> 00:11:15,300 And, um, yeah, she has a way of, like, bringing me down to Earth. 227 00:11:15,968 --> 00:11:18,512 She gets me out of my head and into my body. 228 00:11:18,512 --> 00:11:21,974 {\an8}- I feel like I'm here. And I feel like-- - So, she makes you feel present. 229 00:11:21,974 --> 00:11:24,476 {\an8}Yeah. Whereas, I feel normally, I'm just like in my head, 230 00:11:24,476 --> 00:11:26,645 {\an8}in my thoughts, just, like, lost. 231 00:11:26,645 --> 00:11:27,646 Yeah. 232 00:11:27,646 --> 00:11:30,399 That's a really, really attractive trait to me. 233 00:11:30,941 --> 00:11:35,112 So, you'd probably say she's the first girl to get you out of your head 234 00:11:35,112 --> 00:11:36,447 and into your heart. 235 00:11:36,447 --> 00:11:37,364 Yeah. 236 00:11:37,865 --> 00:11:39,408 ♪ I'm ready to... ♪ 237 00:11:45,289 --> 00:11:48,333 Wow! 238 00:11:48,917 --> 00:11:51,420 {\an8}I really like it. I don't know if it's my style. 239 00:11:51,420 --> 00:11:54,757 I feel like if it was, like, simple, without, like, this... 240 00:11:54,757 --> 00:11:57,217 It's kind of giving, like, 2000 prom. 241 00:11:58,177 --> 00:12:03,265 {\an8}I've met Paul, and he's a really nice guy, and I don't think he would hurt her. 242 00:12:03,265 --> 00:12:06,310 But I don't know that she is gonna say yes or no. 243 00:12:06,310 --> 00:12:08,854 Especially with her, you know, things can change on a whim. 244 00:12:08,854 --> 00:12:13,776 But I think at this point, it's gonna be a gut decision for her. 245 00:12:13,776 --> 00:12:16,695 As unsure as I am about all of this, 246 00:12:16,695 --> 00:12:20,324 I just want her to be sure, because this is the rest of your life. 247 00:12:20,324 --> 00:12:22,493 And she seems pretty sure as of now. 248 00:12:22,493 --> 00:12:26,163 Aw, you look so pretty. 249 00:12:26,163 --> 00:12:27,539 - Oh, you're so sweet. 250 00:12:27,539 --> 00:12:29,625 - Love you. I love you too. 251 00:12:29,625 --> 00:12:32,085 I feel like we... we weren't sure 252 00:12:32,085 --> 00:12:35,088 if we were gonna have this moment at certain points in our lives. 253 00:12:35,088 --> 00:12:36,256 That's true. 254 00:12:36,924 --> 00:12:40,677 And I feel like the fact that we get to do it together, 255 00:12:40,677 --> 00:12:44,223 and we're both healthy and here, like, it's a big deal. 256 00:12:44,223 --> 00:12:46,183 Yeah, it is a big deal. 257 00:12:46,892 --> 00:12:49,561 I didn't think I would be here. 258 00:12:50,187 --> 00:12:51,897 - That's true. - Yeah. 259 00:12:52,439 --> 00:12:54,691 - You made it. 260 00:12:55,901 --> 00:12:58,153 - I love you. I love you too. 261 00:12:58,737 --> 00:13:01,031 - Don't cry. 262 00:13:01,031 --> 00:13:03,116 I'm happy you can be here with me. 263 00:13:03,116 --> 00:13:04,034 I know. 264 00:13:05,369 --> 00:13:08,288 - Look how healthy I am. - Yeah. 265 00:13:08,872 --> 00:13:10,707 See? 266 00:13:10,707 --> 00:13:12,835 - God worked it out. - You made it, sister. 267 00:13:15,546 --> 00:13:16,964 Oh, my God. 268 00:13:16,964 --> 00:13:19,550 Uh... 269 00:13:21,385 --> 00:13:25,097 I know it's hard to understand, like, what's happening. 270 00:13:25,097 --> 00:13:26,974 I feel I don't understand what's happening, 271 00:13:26,974 --> 00:13:30,519 so it's like the fact that you're able to just trust me and be here means a lot. 272 00:13:30,519 --> 00:13:33,480 - Of course I trust you. 273 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:34,439 - I know. - Yeah. 274 00:13:34,439 --> 00:13:36,733 I wish your daddy was here right now. 275 00:13:36,733 --> 00:13:38,068 I know. I feel like... 276 00:13:38,819 --> 00:13:41,321 I feel like he'll be really excited to see me on the wedding day. 277 00:13:41,321 --> 00:13:45,200 - Yeah, he will. I'm so happy for you. Thank you. 278 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:46,493 I am. 279 00:13:46,493 --> 00:13:49,538 - You're gonna be a beautiful bride. - Mom. 280 00:13:50,122 --> 00:13:51,832 - Gonna try on another one. Okay. 281 00:13:51,832 --> 00:13:55,168 - Hopefully, it's a big hit. 282 00:13:55,168 --> 00:13:58,922 I need to find a "say yes to my guy at the altar" dress. 283 00:13:58,922 --> 00:14:00,632 {\an8}So, it's gonna have to be good. 284 00:14:01,675 --> 00:14:02,759 Oh, my gosh! 285 00:14:04,803 --> 00:14:08,640 - I love that! 286 00:14:12,561 --> 00:14:14,021 Wow! 287 00:14:15,314 --> 00:14:17,149 Wait, let's see the back. 288 00:14:18,901 --> 00:14:21,069 So pretty. 289 00:14:21,069 --> 00:14:22,946 It's perfect. It's perfect. 290 00:14:23,822 --> 00:14:25,240 I love. 291 00:14:26,158 --> 00:14:28,285 - I literally love it. Wow! 292 00:14:28,285 --> 00:14:31,955 Oh, it's so pretty on you. You look beautiful. 293 00:14:31,955 --> 00:14:34,249 It's, like, exactly what I pictured. 294 00:14:34,249 --> 00:14:36,209 Elegant. Like, timeless. 295 00:14:36,209 --> 00:14:40,631 It fits your body perfectly. It's exactly the look you were going for. 296 00:14:40,631 --> 00:14:42,507 I'm, like, burning up. Like, I feel like... 297 00:14:42,507 --> 00:14:45,761 I don't know. I feel officially like I'm getting married. 298 00:14:45,761 --> 00:14:48,388 Oh. - What the hell? 299 00:14:48,388 --> 00:14:50,432 Wait, what are we doing? 300 00:14:50,432 --> 00:14:53,644 - I'm such a wife. 301 00:14:53,644 --> 00:14:56,772 No need to try anything else on. I'm good. 302 00:14:56,772 --> 00:14:58,398 - Yay! 303 00:14:58,398 --> 00:14:59,775 Wow. 304 00:15:00,609 --> 00:15:01,443 Okay. 305 00:15:04,529 --> 00:15:06,740 {\an8}- It's so crazy, right? Yeah. 306 00:15:06,740 --> 00:15:09,493 {\an8}That, like, my wedding day is in a week. 307 00:15:09,493 --> 00:15:12,871 Us taking that step forward and deciding with each other, 308 00:15:12,871 --> 00:15:14,081 "We're gonna get married." 309 00:15:14,081 --> 00:15:18,335 "And I'm going to instantaneously change all my lifestyle to fit yours..." 310 00:15:18,877 --> 00:15:20,963 That's not an easy decision. 311 00:15:20,963 --> 00:15:25,217 It almost feels like her life gets easier in this next step, and mine doesn't. 312 00:15:26,927 --> 00:15:28,929 And now I pick up more responsibilities. 313 00:15:28,929 --> 00:15:31,890 Moving to a new city. Making new friends. Being in a new place. 314 00:15:31,890 --> 00:15:34,893 When it comes to a marriage, we're merging two lives. 315 00:15:34,893 --> 00:15:36,645 But in this sense of merge... 316 00:15:36,645 --> 00:15:38,647 of, like, merging, I am taking-- 317 00:15:38,647 --> 00:15:41,274 You're the one that's having to make the sacrifice. 318 00:15:41,274 --> 00:15:44,695 I'm taking every sacrifice. She's not making a single one. 319 00:15:44,695 --> 00:15:48,615 What's more important? Somebody that fits your lifestyle, 320 00:15:48,615 --> 00:15:52,452 or somebody that fits more from a personality compatibility? 321 00:15:52,452 --> 00:15:54,579 - In a perfect world, you get both. Yeah. 322 00:15:54,579 --> 00:15:58,583 Chelsea and me, personality-wise are pretty on par. 323 00:15:58,583 --> 00:16:00,419 The same things make us happy. 324 00:16:00,419 --> 00:16:03,422 I love her. You know, she embodies 325 00:16:03,422 --> 00:16:08,135 just this, like, incredibly strong presence, both inside and out. 326 00:16:08,135 --> 00:16:11,304 She's very smart. She's very driven. She loves what she does. 327 00:16:11,304 --> 00:16:14,766 Chelsea, like, sometimes I'm just in awe of who she is. 328 00:16:14,766 --> 00:16:15,809 Yeah. - You know? 329 00:16:15,809 --> 00:16:18,979 I'm like, "Damn, that's... that's my lady." 330 00:16:18,979 --> 00:16:22,065 Have you thought about if one of you says no? 331 00:16:22,065 --> 00:16:24,818 If one of us does say no, 332 00:16:26,153 --> 00:16:31,074 that's a very, very, very, very scary step back. 333 00:16:32,993 --> 00:16:34,953 That's a scary question, isn't it? 334 00:16:37,998 --> 00:16:41,418 -♪ Don't stop looking at me like that ♪ 335 00:16:41,418 --> 00:16:45,797 ♪ I'm all in Right when I saw you, I knew... ♪ 336 00:16:45,797 --> 00:16:48,050 Oh, God, I'm nervous. 337 00:16:49,676 --> 00:16:52,971 - Oh, my God. 338 00:16:53,889 --> 00:16:55,307 Stop! 339 00:16:55,307 --> 00:16:58,018 {\an8}- Chelsea, you look gorgeous. 340 00:16:58,018 --> 00:16:59,811 It feels like me. 341 00:16:59,811 --> 00:17:03,648 It has the sparkle, the lace, 342 00:17:03,648 --> 00:17:05,650 the beading. 343 00:17:05,650 --> 00:17:07,611 Kwame and I are extra. 344 00:17:07,611 --> 00:17:10,405 And we get to be that together for the rest of our life. 345 00:17:10,405 --> 00:17:12,157 And I love that for me. 346 00:17:12,157 --> 00:17:14,326 - And I love that for him. 347 00:17:14,326 --> 00:17:16,161 Just so you know, I got pink pumps under this. 348 00:17:16,161 --> 00:17:19,289 Oh. Pop those a little for us. Whoo-hoo! 349 00:17:19,289 --> 00:17:23,085 This is me, and he loves me for me, so it's us. 350 00:17:27,547 --> 00:17:29,091 Oh! 351 00:17:29,091 --> 00:17:30,050 Oh, my gosh. 352 00:17:30,050 --> 00:17:32,511 Are you laughing or crying? I'm crying! 353 00:17:34,930 --> 00:17:37,641 I can just see myself walking down... 354 00:17:37,641 --> 00:17:41,436 ...the aisle to my husband in this dress. 355 00:17:43,438 --> 00:17:46,942 And he... likes to talk. 356 00:17:46,942 --> 00:17:50,612 - But will probably be speechless. 357 00:17:51,238 --> 00:17:53,865 I could not be more happy for you two. 358 00:17:57,536 --> 00:18:00,455 You look phenomenal. - Thanks for being here and trusting me. 359 00:18:00,455 --> 00:18:02,749 And believing in me and... 360 00:18:03,583 --> 00:18:04,543 ...believing in us. 361 00:18:04,543 --> 00:18:07,671 I'm so beyond excited. 362 00:18:07,671 --> 00:18:11,550 And I can't wait to stand there and watch you marry him. 363 00:18:13,844 --> 00:18:14,928 Thank you. 364 00:18:15,554 --> 00:18:18,140 I think it'll be beautiful. - I love you. 365 00:18:26,523 --> 00:18:31,027 {\an8}So, I told my fiancée that she gets to pick everything, and I'm okay with it. 366 00:18:31,027 --> 00:18:35,073 So, I think she said periwinkle, ivory and lavender. 367 00:18:35,657 --> 00:18:39,661 {\an8}I like the idea of the purple or the periwinkle or whatever goes. 368 00:18:40,245 --> 00:18:42,414 - Well, maybe. 369 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:44,875 Nervous? 370 00:18:45,375 --> 00:18:47,294 She's asked me that a thousand times. 371 00:18:47,294 --> 00:18:50,547 She's like, "Are you nervous?" And I'm like, "Well, I am now." 372 00:18:50,547 --> 00:18:52,591 - Is she nervous? She's nervous. 373 00:18:52,591 --> 00:18:54,259 Yeah? - Yeah, for sure. 374 00:18:55,302 --> 00:18:58,346 But is it nervous, like, wedding nervousness? 375 00:18:58,346 --> 00:19:03,560 - Or is it like you have doubts at all? - It's a huge... It's a huge decision. 376 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:07,314 And, like, all of the things that could go wrong. You know, what if we're wrong? 377 00:19:07,314 --> 00:19:10,108 You know, what if we're just too caught up in the moment? 378 00:19:10,775 --> 00:19:14,571 We don't know, 'cause we're clearly pretty caught up in the moment. 379 00:19:14,571 --> 00:19:18,491 Yeah. Do you feel like you really know her? 380 00:19:18,491 --> 00:19:20,994 I do. I know who she is as a person. 381 00:19:21,494 --> 00:19:25,874 Do you feel like your guys's lives work together? 382 00:19:25,874 --> 00:19:27,500 Mm-hmm. Yeah. 383 00:19:27,500 --> 00:19:29,711 Everything happens for a reason. 384 00:19:29,711 --> 00:19:32,631 Yeah. I'm done guessing what the reason is for things. 385 00:19:37,385 --> 00:19:40,222 ♪ I just wanna be your light... ♪ 386 00:19:42,974 --> 00:19:44,517 Oh, my God! 387 00:19:44,517 --> 00:19:46,853 That is so cute. 388 00:19:50,273 --> 00:19:51,608 You look like an angel. 389 00:19:52,192 --> 00:19:56,613 I just remember holding you as a little baby in my arms. 390 00:19:57,197 --> 00:19:59,950 And I'm so happy that I named you Bliss, 391 00:19:59,950 --> 00:20:04,537 because you are every bit of joy and bliss and loveliness. 392 00:20:05,038 --> 00:20:06,706 And just a light in my life. 393 00:20:07,332 --> 00:20:09,793 I'm so happy for you. 394 00:20:09,793 --> 00:20:11,378 I adore you. 395 00:20:11,378 --> 00:20:12,671 Thanks, Mommy. 396 00:20:13,255 --> 00:20:14,506 So gorgeous. 397 00:20:14,506 --> 00:20:17,968 - This is totally it. 398 00:20:20,553 --> 00:20:21,888 I love the sleeves. 399 00:20:22,681 --> 00:20:23,890 That's it. - Yeah. 400 00:20:23,890 --> 00:20:25,558 - That's the dress. 401 00:20:25,558 --> 00:20:27,102 That's it. I love it. 402 00:20:27,102 --> 00:20:29,521 It's, like, so me, with all the flowers. 403 00:20:29,521 --> 00:20:30,855 I love it. 404 00:20:30,855 --> 00:20:34,150 - Zack is gonna lose his mind. - Oh, my goodness, yes. 405 00:20:34,150 --> 00:20:37,779 - He's gonna jump right into song. 406 00:20:38,363 --> 00:20:39,322 Girl, that is it. 407 00:20:39,322 --> 00:20:40,907 - Yeah. You're gorgeous. 408 00:20:40,907 --> 00:20:43,201 Oh-ho-ho! You look so happy. 409 00:20:44,953 --> 00:20:46,913 Oh, it's okay, Mom. 410 00:20:46,913 --> 00:20:49,165 - I love you so much. I love you too. 411 00:20:54,170 --> 00:20:58,008 It's not easy to always follow your heart. Especially with my-- I'm so logical. 412 00:20:58,967 --> 00:21:01,803 And me being in a wedding dress right now, after everything, 413 00:21:01,803 --> 00:21:03,888 is not necessarily the most logical thing. 414 00:21:03,888 --> 00:21:05,348 But it feels so right. 415 00:21:05,348 --> 00:21:07,183 - You're very brave. - Yes. 416 00:21:07,183 --> 00:21:09,728 You inspire us. Yes. 417 00:21:09,728 --> 00:21:11,354 ♪ Don't stop dreaming... ♪ 418 00:21:11,354 --> 00:21:14,941 Just beautiful. I love it so much. 419 00:21:14,941 --> 00:21:17,027 - It's really perfect. Yes, it is. 420 00:21:17,027 --> 00:21:18,695 The most perfect ever. 421 00:21:18,695 --> 00:21:19,863 Thanks, Mommy. 422 00:21:19,863 --> 00:21:21,281 - Yay! 423 00:21:21,281 --> 00:21:23,158 Guys, I can't believe we're getting married. 424 00:21:23,158 --> 00:21:25,660 - Wow! 425 00:21:36,921 --> 00:21:38,715 {\an8}♪ Don't stop dreaming ♪ 426 00:21:46,097 --> 00:21:47,640 - Hello. Hello. 427 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:48,558 How are you? 428 00:21:50,977 --> 00:21:53,104 Not good. 429 00:21:55,940 --> 00:21:57,359 - I need answers. Hmm. 430 00:22:00,570 --> 00:22:02,155 Why did you accept my proposal? 431 00:22:02,655 --> 00:22:03,782 In the pods, 432 00:22:05,408 --> 00:22:08,286 uh, what I felt for you was real. 433 00:22:09,788 --> 00:22:12,957 That was... so real to me. 434 00:22:14,084 --> 00:22:17,337 It's just the outside world got to us, and-- 435 00:22:17,337 --> 00:22:18,755 Got to us or got to you? 436 00:22:20,340 --> 00:22:21,758 I'm emotionally drained. 437 00:22:23,843 --> 00:22:26,388 I tried as much as I can to answer your questions, 438 00:22:26,388 --> 00:22:27,972 but I wasn't sufficing. 439 00:22:27,972 --> 00:22:32,519 And I think my fed-up moment was coming back home 440 00:22:33,269 --> 00:22:37,941 after Chelsea's party, and you still was pressin' on me. 441 00:22:38,900 --> 00:22:40,902 I'm like, "Bro, like, I'm just trying to go to bed." 442 00:22:40,902 --> 00:22:42,904 "I gotta go to work tomorrow." 443 00:22:42,904 --> 00:22:45,990 I get that you need your feelings validated. I get that. 444 00:22:46,616 --> 00:22:49,869 But when I say, "Look, I'm just trying to go to bed." 445 00:22:49,869 --> 00:22:53,081 "We can talk about this tomorrow." We can talk about that tomorrow. 446 00:22:53,748 --> 00:22:55,333 I can't give you what you want. 447 00:23:02,298 --> 00:23:04,008 I have never... 448 00:23:06,094 --> 00:23:07,512 asked anything of you. 449 00:23:08,847 --> 00:23:09,681 Never. 450 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,600 You need a lot of security. 451 00:23:14,394 --> 00:23:17,439 I have done nothing but right by you. 452 00:23:17,439 --> 00:23:21,192 And for you to sit here and say that I require a lot. 453 00:23:21,943 --> 00:23:23,027 I'm emotional, yes. 454 00:23:23,027 --> 00:23:25,572 Have I encouraged conversation? Yeah. 455 00:23:25,572 --> 00:23:28,741 Have I let things go to the wayside and blow in the wind, 456 00:23:28,741 --> 00:23:31,703 blow over because you didn't wanna talk about them? Yes. 457 00:23:32,829 --> 00:23:34,873 Everything has always been on your terms. 458 00:23:35,832 --> 00:23:36,916 Everything. 459 00:23:36,916 --> 00:23:38,126 I liked you. 460 00:23:40,211 --> 00:23:42,297 I'm like, look, just give me something. 461 00:23:42,297 --> 00:23:45,216 Give me that feeling that everyone says, "You know when you know." 462 00:23:45,216 --> 00:23:46,718 And I didn't have that feeling, 463 00:23:46,718 --> 00:23:49,929 and I tried every time to have that feeling. 464 00:23:53,933 --> 00:23:58,146 Marshall, I... can't love you. 465 00:24:00,732 --> 00:24:03,401 Because I'm attracted to Josh. 466 00:24:05,862 --> 00:24:07,489 I just saw Josh. 467 00:24:09,073 --> 00:24:11,284 And there is some chemistry. 468 00:24:15,371 --> 00:24:16,498 So what was the talk about? 469 00:24:16,498 --> 00:24:19,459 It was him basically confessing his feelings. 470 00:24:19,459 --> 00:24:21,377 What are you saying to me right now? 471 00:24:22,212 --> 00:24:24,714 I don't wanna be with you anymore, and... 472 00:24:24,714 --> 00:24:26,090 You wanna be with Josh? 473 00:24:27,091 --> 00:24:28,718 I will find that out. 474 00:24:33,806 --> 00:24:34,974 Okay, Jackie. 475 00:24:34,974 --> 00:24:38,144 That is... very hurtful. 476 00:24:39,395 --> 00:24:43,816 I'm just telling you, Marshall, that I just can't be with you. 477 00:24:43,816 --> 00:24:44,901 I can't. 478 00:24:51,783 --> 00:24:54,160 I would like the ring back. I don't think that you deserve it. 479 00:24:55,161 --> 00:24:57,247 Because you should never have accepted 480 00:24:57,997 --> 00:24:59,415 my proposal. 481 00:24:59,415 --> 00:25:02,210 Hmm. Well, I'm gonna keep the ring 482 00:25:02,919 --> 00:25:06,130 because... I accepted it 483 00:25:06,130 --> 00:25:08,383 because I wanted to marry you. 484 00:25:08,383 --> 00:25:10,969 Everything I told you in that pod 485 00:25:11,553 --> 00:25:12,387 was real. 486 00:25:13,054 --> 00:25:15,014 And you know what? I-- I don't even care. 487 00:25:15,014 --> 00:25:17,183 You can-- you can keep the ring. 488 00:25:17,183 --> 00:25:19,978 Every time you look at that thing, whatever you do with it, 489 00:25:19,978 --> 00:25:24,107 I want you to be reminded that you passed up on something great. 490 00:25:26,025 --> 00:25:26,901 Okay. 491 00:25:32,657 --> 00:25:33,491 Great. 492 00:25:34,492 --> 00:25:36,661 Well, take it easy and... 493 00:25:37,412 --> 00:25:38,413 I'll see you around. 494 00:25:38,413 --> 00:25:39,664 Maybe. Maybe not. 495 00:25:39,664 --> 00:25:42,083 - No. You won't. Okay. 496 00:25:54,762 --> 00:25:57,515 I came into this experiment wanting marriage. 497 00:25:57,515 --> 00:25:59,350 That's what this thing is about. 498 00:25:59,851 --> 00:26:03,104 I came in day one, following my heart and my gut. 499 00:26:03,104 --> 00:26:05,565 Leading with exactly who I am. 500 00:26:05,565 --> 00:26:09,861 Presenting myself as myself, complete and ready for love. 501 00:26:09,861 --> 00:26:11,946 Ready to give myself to someone. 502 00:26:12,530 --> 00:26:13,531 I chose wrong. 503 00:26:15,199 --> 00:26:17,493 Jackie, the woman that presented herself to me in the pods, 504 00:26:17,493 --> 00:26:19,329 that's the Jackie that I love. 505 00:26:19,329 --> 00:26:23,791 This Jackie, the deflecting, the gaslighting, the deceitful Jackie, 506 00:26:23,791 --> 00:26:28,671 I don't know who that is, and, apparently, that's the real Jackie. 507 00:26:29,547 --> 00:26:31,507 I wish her nothing but the best. 508 00:26:31,507 --> 00:26:33,926 And if that's with Josh, do your thing. 509 00:26:35,094 --> 00:26:35,928 Good luck. 510 00:26:38,389 --> 00:26:42,310 ♪ 'Cause when everything is wrong ♪ 511 00:26:42,310 --> 00:26:44,604 ♪ Run a little farther... ♪ 512 00:26:45,647 --> 00:26:49,817 I'm sorry that I can't be with him. 513 00:26:49,817 --> 00:26:51,736 I'm-- I'm not even sorry. 514 00:26:52,695 --> 00:26:55,031 I'm not even sorry that I can't be with Marshall. 515 00:26:56,324 --> 00:26:57,158 I can't. 516 00:26:59,786 --> 00:27:02,747 I can't walk down the aisle with this man. 517 00:27:04,248 --> 00:27:06,417 I don't even know if I'm gonna be with Josh. 518 00:27:07,418 --> 00:27:11,255 I don't. I don't know if I'm gonna be with anybody. Damn, I'm crazy. 519 00:27:13,424 --> 00:27:15,802 I need to probably do some self-work. 520 00:27:24,936 --> 00:27:27,605 - ♪ Hey, boy, a girl like me ♪ 521 00:27:27,605 --> 00:27:30,024 {\an8}♪ Can feel lonely time to time ♪ 522 00:27:31,401 --> 00:27:32,735 {\an8}- Hello. Hello. 523 00:27:32,735 --> 00:27:34,987 {\an8}- Hey. I'm Andy. Hi. Chelsea. 524 00:27:34,987 --> 00:27:37,573 {\an8}- Hi. Nice to meet you. - Hey. Kwame. Nice to meet you. 525 00:27:37,573 --> 00:27:39,325 Nice to meet you too. How are you guys? 526 00:27:39,325 --> 00:27:40,535 Good, good, good. 527 00:27:40,535 --> 00:27:43,162 Great! Welcome. Welcome to our little photo studio. 528 00:27:43,830 --> 00:27:45,915 This is our engagement photo shoot. 529 00:27:45,915 --> 00:27:48,668 - Oh, really? Okay, fantastic. Engagement. - Yes. 530 00:27:48,668 --> 00:27:51,713 As a little girl, I always pictured 531 00:27:51,713 --> 00:27:55,174 doing a photo shoot with my fiancé, with my husband. 532 00:27:55,174 --> 00:27:59,220 Um, and now it's coming to, uh, fruition. 533 00:27:59,220 --> 00:28:01,764 - Yeah. Okay. So, I'm really excited. 534 00:28:01,764 --> 00:28:05,518 They're definitely gonna be, you know, on the sexy side. 535 00:28:05,518 --> 00:28:06,644 Oh, okay. 536 00:28:06,644 --> 00:28:11,482 I envision, like, bed shots, window shots, couch shots. 537 00:28:11,482 --> 00:28:14,610 - Um, definitely, like, boudoir vibes. Yeah. 538 00:28:14,610 --> 00:28:17,864 Ideally, we can start off just... in what we have on. 539 00:28:17,864 --> 00:28:19,323 Casual? - Real casual. 540 00:28:19,323 --> 00:28:20,575 And then work our way into it. 541 00:28:20,575 --> 00:28:23,119 I know it's gonna take a little time to build the, uh... 542 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,246 - The comfort in front of the camera. - Yeah, yeah. 543 00:28:25,246 --> 00:28:26,164 Yeah. - Cool. 544 00:28:26,164 --> 00:28:30,460 Really? So, yes, we have two matching underwear sets... 545 00:28:30,460 --> 00:28:31,377 Okay. 546 00:28:32,170 --> 00:28:33,713 ...that we'll be putting on. 547 00:28:33,713 --> 00:28:35,465 Whatever feels comfortable for all of us. 548 00:28:35,465 --> 00:28:37,800 I think, you know, we can come out with some good results. 549 00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:38,885 Okay, good. - Yeah. 550 00:28:38,885 --> 00:28:42,597 {\an8}I don't know. It's just been, like, a weird fantasy for me my whole life. 551 00:28:44,098 --> 00:28:47,518 I don't think I told a lot of people about this too, 'cause it's kind of weird. 552 00:28:47,518 --> 00:28:49,562 - Good idea? - Great idea. 553 00:28:49,562 --> 00:28:55,318 I've always wanted somebody, you know, confident and willing to do this with me. 554 00:28:55,318 --> 00:28:58,321 I wanted to show him off, and I want him to be proud to show me off. 555 00:28:58,321 --> 00:29:02,116 And I feel really, like, at peace and happy 556 00:29:02,116 --> 00:29:05,870 being here with the person that I know I wanna spend the rest of my life with. 557 00:29:05,870 --> 00:29:09,290 Okay, so, you guys relax. Find a comfortable spot. 558 00:29:09,874 --> 00:29:11,042 ♪ Ooh-ooh-ooh... ♪ 559 00:29:11,042 --> 00:29:12,835 Mm-hmm. 560 00:29:12,835 --> 00:29:14,921 - Mm-hmm 561 00:29:15,546 --> 00:29:16,839 Okay, let me move a bit. 562 00:29:19,634 --> 00:29:22,178 This is looking great, guys. Hold on. 563 00:29:22,178 --> 00:29:24,764 I can't compare our connection and our love 564 00:29:24,764 --> 00:29:27,475 and, like, the adoration that I have for him 565 00:29:27,475 --> 00:29:28,976 as my fiancé 566 00:29:28,976 --> 00:29:31,813 to anything I've ever experienced ever in my whole life. 567 00:29:31,813 --> 00:29:35,024 ♪ Gotta pump the magic potion... ♪ 568 00:29:35,024 --> 00:29:38,110 Turn towards the window a little bit with your hips. 569 00:29:38,110 --> 00:29:40,196 - There you go. 570 00:29:40,196 --> 00:29:43,241 ♪ You got me focused on the moment ♪ 571 00:29:43,241 --> 00:29:45,535 ♪ On the moment... ♪ 572 00:29:46,661 --> 00:29:51,040 Kwame, perhaps you can have your head into... your forehead resting on her chest. 573 00:29:53,543 --> 00:29:55,920 That's it. Just to get set there. 574 00:29:58,089 --> 00:29:59,465 I love Chelsea so much. 575 00:29:59,465 --> 00:30:03,427 {\an8}There are moments that are tough that we, like... 576 00:30:03,427 --> 00:30:06,180 ...we have dispute or disagreement. 577 00:30:06,681 --> 00:30:10,017 But the good has outweighed the bad substantially. 578 00:30:10,017 --> 00:30:12,854 Yeah, you look at him. 'Cause you the cute one, you know. 579 00:30:12,854 --> 00:30:14,856 This is it. That's it. Right in there. 580 00:30:14,856 --> 00:30:17,024 Every couple has their lows, you know. 581 00:30:17,024 --> 00:30:20,361 But regardless of our lows, our highs are just crazy high. 582 00:30:20,361 --> 00:30:22,530 Like, you know, I can't have enough of her. 583 00:30:22,530 --> 00:30:25,032 I'm at home, and I'm waiting for her to come back from work. 584 00:30:25,032 --> 00:30:29,078 I'm waking up, and I'm ready to see her. Give her a kiss, give her goodbye. 585 00:30:29,078 --> 00:30:30,454 Whatever it is, you know. 586 00:30:31,247 --> 00:30:34,458 - Wow. What a day. - Thanks for doing this with me today. 587 00:30:34,458 --> 00:30:37,628 It's funny because you said, like, your goal was to find 588 00:30:38,588 --> 00:30:41,048 somebody, a husband, who would do this with you. 589 00:30:41,048 --> 00:30:42,717 - You know what I mean? Mm-hmm. 590 00:30:42,717 --> 00:30:43,759 And, like... 591 00:30:44,510 --> 00:30:47,388 we have our wedding in less than a week. 592 00:30:48,764 --> 00:30:49,974 It's a pretty big day. 593 00:30:51,100 --> 00:30:53,477 And that makes this mean so much more, 594 00:30:54,478 --> 00:30:58,024 considering this is a vision you've had for your entire life. 595 00:30:58,024 --> 00:31:01,068 Doing this together is... 596 00:31:02,737 --> 00:31:03,988 ...a dream come true. 597 00:31:05,197 --> 00:31:07,867 Having our wedding four days away 598 00:31:09,285 --> 00:31:11,329 with the rest of our lives to look forward to 599 00:31:11,329 --> 00:31:12,872 is also a dream come true. 600 00:31:15,583 --> 00:31:18,377 You're hella cute. 601 00:31:19,086 --> 00:31:23,758 How can this be real? How can this beautiful, perfect man... 602 00:31:26,135 --> 00:31:27,053 be mine? 603 00:31:30,473 --> 00:31:31,474 Forever. 604 00:31:35,686 --> 00:31:37,939 Seriously, the luckiest girl on Earth, you know. 605 00:31:37,939 --> 00:31:39,690 Baby. 606 00:31:41,150 --> 00:31:43,027 - That's how I feel. - Yeah. 607 00:31:45,071 --> 00:31:47,949 Thank you, baby. I think we've built something incredible. 608 00:31:48,574 --> 00:31:53,371 I've never met somebody in my life that I wanted to be with more... than you. 609 00:31:55,539 --> 00:31:56,374 I love you. 610 00:31:56,374 --> 00:31:57,458 I love you too. 611 00:32:01,045 --> 00:32:04,006 Regardless of how much we both wanna get up there and say yes, 612 00:32:04,006 --> 00:32:05,883 this is a really big step. 613 00:32:06,926 --> 00:32:07,760 I know. 614 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:10,805 And I just catch myself in moments just thinking a lot. 615 00:32:11,847 --> 00:32:13,808 And making sure I'm prepared for that. 616 00:32:14,475 --> 00:32:19,146 A couple of things that I need to make sure that we iron out and line up are 617 00:32:19,146 --> 00:32:21,190 my next conversation with my mom. 618 00:32:23,693 --> 00:32:24,902 Because we're just... 619 00:32:25,861 --> 00:32:28,322 - Days away. - Yeah, we're days away. 620 00:32:28,322 --> 00:32:29,573 Um... 621 00:32:32,159 --> 00:32:34,912 What do you think will be the outcome of that conversation? 622 00:32:35,538 --> 00:32:37,540 I honestly don't know. 623 00:32:37,540 --> 00:32:39,166 If I'm being honest with you, 624 00:32:40,126 --> 00:32:44,422 if I was to say I think my mom would show up to our wedding, I'd be lying. 625 00:32:46,424 --> 00:32:48,259 So, I don't know where that's gonna go. 626 00:32:48,259 --> 00:32:51,095 {\an8}My parents used to have a lot of control over my dating life. 627 00:32:51,095 --> 00:32:52,972 {\an8}Like, an astonishing amount. 628 00:32:53,472 --> 00:32:56,809 {\an8}Um, in a sense that I didn't really date until I went to college. 629 00:32:56,809 --> 00:33:01,605 And then at that point, I never really introduced any girlfriends to my parents. 630 00:33:01,605 --> 00:33:06,694 Partnering Christianity with, like, a very, very deep West African focus, 631 00:33:06,694 --> 00:33:10,573 it made for a lot of strict upbringing, to put it simply. 632 00:33:11,157 --> 00:33:16,620 In my culture and religion, it's against our grain to have sex before marriage. 633 00:33:16,620 --> 00:33:20,249 My mom, she could still believe that I'm still a virgin... 634 00:33:20,249 --> 00:33:22,001 ...um, to be fair. 635 00:33:22,001 --> 00:33:25,254 You know, so it's been something that has been held over me for a while. 636 00:33:25,254 --> 00:33:27,465 But all in all, um, 637 00:33:27,465 --> 00:33:31,719 now I would say I have control of what I do, who I date, 638 00:33:31,719 --> 00:33:35,056 who I see, and I think I'm old enough to make those decisions now. 639 00:33:35,056 --> 00:33:39,060 But when it comes to this decision, this is one decision where I do think, 640 00:33:39,060 --> 00:33:41,896 um, it'd be nice to have all the support of my family, 641 00:33:41,896 --> 00:33:44,899 um, because she does become part of my family. 642 00:33:46,025 --> 00:33:48,611 All I can hope is that at least 643 00:33:49,528 --> 00:33:53,574 she'll send her positive regards and blessings from wherever she is. 644 00:33:54,700 --> 00:33:56,494 And that's the most important thing to me. 645 00:33:58,496 --> 00:34:00,915 Yeah. You don't gotta be there. You just gotta... 646 00:34:02,166 --> 00:34:04,418 You gotta let me know from afar that you care. 647 00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:06,337 Yeah. Of course. 648 00:34:07,088 --> 00:34:08,881 So, I'm gonna give her a ring. 649 00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:12,259 - We'll see how it goes, and, um... 650 00:34:12,885 --> 00:34:16,055 You know, I'm there to support you, no matter what she says. 651 00:34:18,974 --> 00:34:23,187 Do you think you're, like, truly, like, deeply, do you think you're ready? 652 00:34:26,816 --> 00:34:28,192 I think I love you a lot. 653 00:34:28,776 --> 00:34:29,693 Mmm. 654 00:34:30,653 --> 00:34:32,571 I think I love you with all my heart. 655 00:34:34,448 --> 00:34:37,743 There are some things that come up in my mind that make me... 656 00:34:37,743 --> 00:34:39,995 have to take an extra second to think. 657 00:34:43,582 --> 00:34:45,626 Will you say yes to me, 658 00:34:46,627 --> 00:34:47,962 if it's right for you, 659 00:34:49,088 --> 00:34:50,756 without your mom's approval? 660 00:34:50,756 --> 00:34:54,552 -♪ I can't feel a thing ♪ 661 00:34:55,136 --> 00:34:58,848 ♪ When I come close to you ♪ 662 00:34:59,515 --> 00:35:00,808 ♪ Close to you... ♪ 663 00:35:00,808 --> 00:35:02,434 It would be the biggest... 664 00:35:05,855 --> 00:35:09,024 letdown of the century 665 00:35:10,109 --> 00:35:13,529 to put what we've built to waste and throw it away. 666 00:35:13,529 --> 00:35:19,827 ♪ I feel hopeless when I lose your love ♪ 667 00:35:19,827 --> 00:35:23,038 ♪ Loser, loser, loser ♪ 668 00:35:23,038 --> 00:35:27,918 ♪ I can't withdraw From this addictive drug ♪ 669 00:35:27,918 --> 00:35:30,379 ♪ Withdraw from this drug ♪ 670 00:35:30,379 --> 00:35:32,131 ♪ Oh! ♪ 671 00:35:32,131 --> 00:35:35,718 ♪ You make me feel ♪ 672 00:35:36,927 --> 00:35:41,140 {\an8}♪ You inject my bloodstream ♪ 673 00:35:47,771 --> 00:35:52,067 I'd be lying if I say I'm not stressed right now. 674 00:35:52,067 --> 00:35:54,528 Because it is countdown time. 675 00:35:54,528 --> 00:35:57,448 The wedding is days away. 676 00:35:58,282 --> 00:36:00,743 We have so many details to iron out. 677 00:36:02,995 --> 00:36:07,333 {\an8}It is... It is a lot. I feel like I'm not thinking straight anymore. 678 00:36:07,333 --> 00:36:10,669 {\an8}I'm just-- I can't keep my days straight. 679 00:36:14,298 --> 00:36:16,091 Whoosah. 680 00:36:17,092 --> 00:36:19,303 Whoosah. 681 00:36:20,262 --> 00:36:22,473 This right now is challenging. 682 00:36:23,098 --> 00:36:25,142 It's go, go, go, go, go. 683 00:36:25,142 --> 00:36:26,769 "Relax and think clearly." 684 00:36:26,769 --> 00:36:28,854 This is what I need. 685 00:36:28,854 --> 00:36:31,315 I just want everything to go perfect. 686 00:36:31,815 --> 00:36:32,900 It's a lot. 687 00:36:37,780 --> 00:36:39,865 {\an8}- Oh. Hey, baby. - Hey. 688 00:36:40,741 --> 00:36:42,826 - May I join you? - Yes. 689 00:36:44,411 --> 00:36:48,123 - Or can I replace you on the couch? - Mm-hmm. 690 00:36:53,170 --> 00:36:55,297 - How are you? 691 00:36:56,423 --> 00:36:58,467 I'm not good. 692 00:37:04,848 --> 00:37:06,684 I'm trying not to cry. 693 00:37:07,893 --> 00:37:08,769 How come? 694 00:37:10,562 --> 00:37:12,731 Uh... 695 00:37:15,818 --> 00:37:17,611 It's the stress of everything. 696 00:37:18,988 --> 00:37:21,657 It's, like, getting to me. 697 00:37:47,349 --> 00:37:49,059 I just need to calm down. 698 00:37:49,643 --> 00:37:53,397 I just feel so all over the place right now. 699 00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:59,028 Just with my mom being in town and trying to plan everything. 700 00:38:01,113 --> 00:38:02,489 Oh, I gotta make sure, like, 701 00:38:02,489 --> 00:38:05,409 the bridesmaids have everything for their dresses, and... 702 00:38:06,952 --> 00:38:08,037 It's just all 703 00:38:09,705 --> 00:38:10,998 too much. 704 00:38:15,044 --> 00:38:17,921 Well, what you're feeling and everything, I mean, considering 705 00:38:17,921 --> 00:38:20,549 everything that we have going on, it's understandable. 706 00:38:20,549 --> 00:38:23,552 So, it's okay to feel how you feel 707 00:38:23,552 --> 00:38:25,888 and to feel stressed and to feel overwhelmed. 708 00:38:25,888 --> 00:38:27,473 It's driving me crazy, 709 00:38:27,473 --> 00:38:31,352 and it's letting little things fall through the cracks. 710 00:38:31,352 --> 00:38:35,356 - Mm-hmm. - And I'm really... 711 00:38:35,356 --> 00:38:40,069 trying to... just have my shit together 712 00:38:40,069 --> 00:38:43,322 since I got back to work, and I can't even get ahead. 713 00:38:44,782 --> 00:38:47,451 And it stresses me out even more. 714 00:38:48,243 --> 00:38:49,536 It's just all 715 00:38:50,871 --> 00:38:52,790 too much for me right now. 716 00:39:00,839 --> 00:39:04,718 It's almost like I-- I don't-- I don't want a wedding. 717 00:39:07,388 --> 00:39:10,766 ♪ I was up till the break of dawn ♪ 718 00:39:10,766 --> 00:39:14,019 ♪ Trying to pick myself off the ground ♪ 719 00:39:14,019 --> 00:39:17,856 ♪ Wanna get back the time I lost ♪ 720 00:39:17,856 --> 00:39:21,235 ♪ And turn this around ♪ 721 00:39:21,235 --> 00:39:24,613 - ♪ There's a bright side in the storm ♪ 722 00:39:24,613 --> 00:39:28,075 ♪ But my head's in the clouds ♪ 723 00:39:28,075 --> 00:39:31,412 ♪ Trying to find what I'm looking for ♪ 724 00:39:31,412 --> 00:39:35,958 {\an8}♪ Where's the upside of down? ♪ 725 00:39:38,168 --> 00:39:39,878 ♪ Upside of down ♪ 726 00:39:39,878 --> 00:39:41,588 Well, hello. - Hey, folks, welcome. 727 00:39:41,588 --> 00:39:43,090 - Hey. - Thank you. 728 00:39:43,090 --> 00:39:45,509 {\an8}We thought it'd be cool to, like, make our wedding bands. 729 00:39:45,509 --> 00:39:46,427 {\an8}Absolutely. 730 00:39:46,427 --> 00:39:50,305 {\an8}These rings are super representative to us and if we're putting our own, like, effort 731 00:39:50,305 --> 00:39:52,891 {\an8}and creativity into making something for each other. 732 00:39:52,891 --> 00:39:54,726 - Look at you. So cute. - Yeah. I mean-- 733 00:39:54,726 --> 00:39:56,854 I can't wait for you to see them. Let's get started. 734 00:39:56,854 --> 00:39:59,565 -♪ In the morning sun ♪ 735 00:40:01,233 --> 00:40:03,610 ♪ We all should be like one ♪ 736 00:40:03,610 --> 00:40:05,988 ♪ Our barriers undone... ♪ 737 00:40:12,661 --> 00:40:14,913 The wedding is in a few days, 738 00:40:14,913 --> 00:40:17,458 and the fact that we're making our own rings 739 00:40:17,458 --> 00:40:19,418 just makes it that much more special. 740 00:40:19,418 --> 00:40:22,296 ♪ So when the time comes ♪ 741 00:40:22,296 --> 00:40:24,673 ♪ For me to stand up ♪ 742 00:40:24,673 --> 00:40:29,636 ♪ I'll do it with love ♪ 743 00:40:29,636 --> 00:40:32,598 These rings are one of a kind. 744 00:40:32,598 --> 00:40:34,600 They're sentimental. 745 00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:38,145 So, I think that it's gonna be the perfect rings for our wedding day. 746 00:40:39,521 --> 00:40:41,356 Look at how delicate these are. 747 00:40:41,356 --> 00:40:44,693 We're, like, layering of, like, different types of steel. 748 00:40:44,693 --> 00:40:46,570 I feel like it's kind of like a marriage. 749 00:40:46,570 --> 00:40:49,156 You know, it's like different people coming together. 750 00:40:49,156 --> 00:40:52,242 - And kind of creating one thing. - Mm-hmm. 751 00:40:52,242 --> 00:40:55,579 It's like, we're forging a... love. 752 00:40:55,579 --> 00:40:56,788 So romance. 753 00:40:56,788 --> 00:40:58,081 Wow, that was corny. 754 00:40:59,500 --> 00:41:03,629 -♪ Don't wanna wait for the perfect time ♪ 755 00:41:03,629 --> 00:41:07,090 ♪ To go swinging around ♪ 756 00:41:07,090 --> 00:41:10,135 ♪ Like a kaleidoscope ♪ 757 00:41:10,135 --> 00:41:12,638 ♪ Swing 'round, swing 'round ♪ 758 00:41:12,638 --> 00:41:16,266 ♪ Like a kaleidoscope ♪ 759 00:41:17,309 --> 00:41:20,187 The last time I talked to my mom, things didn't go the way I wanted it to. 760 00:41:20,187 --> 00:41:23,398 So, I just want her to say, "Hey, I'm willing to hear you out." 761 00:41:27,152 --> 00:41:30,572 {\an8}This is the week of my wedding. I just wanna have a conversation with her. 762 00:41:30,572 --> 00:41:33,283 {\an8}You know, tell her where I'm coming from. 763 00:41:37,996 --> 00:41:39,665 Please leave your message. 764 00:41:50,759 --> 00:41:53,303 Hey, yo, what's up, man? - What's good, J? How are you? 765 00:41:53,303 --> 00:41:54,429 Good, good, bro. 766 00:41:54,429 --> 00:41:57,140 {\an8}Have you talked to Mom in the last couple of weeks? 767 00:41:57,140 --> 00:41:59,893 {\an8}Yeah, but not about the wedding and stuff. 768 00:41:59,893 --> 00:42:03,480 I texted her, and I said, "Hey, just let me know when you're free." 769 00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:06,066 I've called her as well. She didn't pick up. 770 00:42:06,066 --> 00:42:09,945 It's hard to change Mom's feelings about something once she makes up her mind. 771 00:42:13,282 --> 00:42:16,201 She can't make this decision like that for you. 772 00:42:18,829 --> 00:42:20,581 You gotta do right by you. 773 00:42:21,665 --> 00:42:22,499 Yeah. 774 00:42:22,499 --> 00:42:25,586 - ♪ But I'm caught in this undertow ♪ 775 00:42:26,211 --> 00:42:30,048 ♪ Whatever it takes ♪ 776 00:42:30,048 --> 00:42:33,594 ♪ Hold on to the fire that's deep inside ♪ 777 00:42:33,594 --> 00:42:36,471 ♪ Hold on, yeah ♪ 778 00:42:36,471 --> 00:42:40,267 ♪ Be strong 'Cause it's gonna be worth the fight... ♪ 779 00:42:45,939 --> 00:42:48,609 {\an8}So, you said you've never been on a small plane before, right? 780 00:42:48,609 --> 00:42:51,194 Nothing like this. Ooh! 781 00:42:51,194 --> 00:42:55,032 {\an8}I'd be lying if I say I'm not a little nervous. 782 00:42:56,533 --> 00:43:00,746 It's been pretty difficult seeing, you know, Tiffany kind of overwhelmed. 783 00:43:00,746 --> 00:43:02,372 {\an8}I definitely don't like to see her cry. 784 00:43:02,372 --> 00:43:04,416 {\an8}I don't like to see her being really emotional. 785 00:43:05,083 --> 00:43:06,209 Here we go. 786 00:43:06,209 --> 00:43:08,962 I just really hope that, come the wedding day, 787 00:43:08,962 --> 00:43:13,467 she doesn't let those external things, uh, get in the way of our relationship. 788 00:43:14,092 --> 00:43:15,969 I want her to know that I'm really serious 789 00:43:15,969 --> 00:43:19,139 about, you know, this commitment that we're about to make to each other. 790 00:43:25,103 --> 00:43:27,105 Here we go. Okay. 791 00:43:27,105 --> 00:43:28,148 Ready for it. 792 00:43:28,148 --> 00:43:30,692 ♪ Trees and grass ♪ 793 00:43:30,692 --> 00:43:34,112 ♪ Run the overpass We'll run the overpass ♪ 794 00:43:34,112 --> 00:43:36,448 ♪ And I want, and I want you ♪ 795 00:43:36,448 --> 00:43:38,116 ♪ Any time of day ♪ 796 00:43:38,116 --> 00:43:39,618 ♪ Any kind of way ♪ 797 00:43:39,618 --> 00:43:43,705 ♪ And I need, and I need you There's nothing I can say... ♪ 798 00:43:43,705 --> 00:43:46,416 You're too sweet. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. 799 00:43:46,416 --> 00:43:49,044 You're welcome. Thank you for being you. 800 00:43:49,670 --> 00:43:51,213 I'm always gonna try. 801 00:43:52,422 --> 00:43:54,758 I want her to know how much I love her. 802 00:43:55,509 --> 00:43:57,969 I am in love. I am in love with Tiffany. 803 00:43:57,969 --> 00:44:01,431 ♪ Your love on my weekend ♪ 804 00:44:01,431 --> 00:44:03,642 ♪ Is all I need ♪ 805 00:44:03,642 --> 00:44:06,520 ♪ Her love on my weekend ♪ 806 00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:09,106 ♪ Brings me to my knees ♪ 807 00:44:09,106 --> 00:44:11,900 ♪ And they'll say that we're crazy ♪ 808 00:44:11,900 --> 00:44:14,695 ♪ Let 'em talk Let 'em talk all about it... ♪ 809 00:44:15,696 --> 00:44:17,364 I have a little something for you. 810 00:44:17,364 --> 00:44:21,243 Turn around. Turn around. Turn around. Turn around. Keep your eyes closed. 811 00:44:22,828 --> 00:44:24,204 - Your eyes closed? - Yes. 812 00:44:24,204 --> 00:44:25,122 Okay. 813 00:44:25,831 --> 00:44:28,625 - Keep your eyes closed. - It's closed. It's closed. I promise. 814 00:44:28,625 --> 00:44:31,837 - ♪ Pretend this is our own little island ♪ 815 00:44:31,837 --> 00:44:33,755 Okay, you can... 816 00:44:35,882 --> 00:44:36,717 open. 817 00:44:39,344 --> 00:44:41,221 Oh, my God! 818 00:44:42,180 --> 00:44:45,308 Come and look. Come and look. 819 00:44:46,059 --> 00:44:47,728 These are beautiful. 820 00:44:47,728 --> 00:44:49,646 Oh, my God. 821 00:44:50,272 --> 00:44:51,606 This is really sweet. 822 00:44:54,276 --> 00:44:56,278 Brett took those photographs. 823 00:44:56,278 --> 00:44:59,823 He captured, like, those special moments, 824 00:44:59,823 --> 00:45:03,285 {\an8}and so I think that's why it had me a little emotional. 825 00:45:06,246 --> 00:45:10,751 'Cause he sees things in me that sometimes I don't see in myself. 826 00:45:10,751 --> 00:45:12,878 I'm sorry. 827 00:45:14,755 --> 00:45:15,797 Ugh! 828 00:45:15,797 --> 00:45:17,132 I love you. 829 00:45:18,175 --> 00:45:19,551 Thank you. 830 00:45:25,015 --> 00:45:27,434 - Sweetheart. - Shall we? 831 00:45:27,434 --> 00:45:29,603 - Cheers to us. - To us. 832 00:45:37,110 --> 00:45:41,323 I've mentioned this to you before, but I've just been... 833 00:45:43,033 --> 00:45:44,743 ...surprised at myself, 834 00:45:45,243 --> 00:45:47,788 um, of, like, how... 835 00:45:48,955 --> 00:45:53,251 how ready I am to marry you. 836 00:45:54,377 --> 00:45:56,004 And it's kind of like a... 837 00:45:56,713 --> 00:45:59,424 It, like, messes with my head sometimes, 'cause it's like... 838 00:46:00,467 --> 00:46:05,514 How did I go from being single to, like, saying, like, "Yeah, you know what?" 839 00:46:05,514 --> 00:46:07,557 "Tiffany, yeah, she the one. I can marry her." 840 00:46:08,558 --> 00:46:13,730 And to do that, and to not feel, like, doubt or second-guessing. 841 00:46:14,481 --> 00:46:16,900 And to totally feel that I'm making the right decision. 842 00:46:16,900 --> 00:46:17,818 Yeah. 843 00:46:17,818 --> 00:46:20,320 And that I've met the person that I wanna call my wife. 844 00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:21,404 I know. 845 00:46:23,323 --> 00:46:26,827 - So, you got me, Tiffany Pennywell. - Oh, ho-ho! 846 00:46:26,827 --> 00:46:28,161 You said my whole name. 847 00:46:28,161 --> 00:46:31,373 Oh, man. You see these goose bumps? 848 00:46:31,373 --> 00:46:33,083 - Did you really get goose bumps? - I did. 849 00:46:33,083 --> 00:46:35,210 - Did you? - I did. 850 00:46:35,210 --> 00:46:36,503 They gone now. 851 00:46:40,966 --> 00:46:43,426 Yeah, um... 852 00:46:44,010 --> 00:46:47,931 I didn't mean to make you speechless. We don't wanna sit here in silence. 853 00:46:47,931 --> 00:46:52,602 Babe, I know. I-- I just... I loved everything that you said. 854 00:46:54,145 --> 00:46:56,982 I think you're an amazing man. 855 00:46:57,607 --> 00:47:03,780 And, um, I never wanted to, like, pressure you into anything. 856 00:47:03,780 --> 00:47:07,117 Even if it's marriage. Like, I want you to be sure. 857 00:47:07,117 --> 00:47:10,871 So, hearing those words come out, saying like, "You know what?" 858 00:47:10,871 --> 00:47:13,123 "I know without a doubt. You were the one." 859 00:47:13,123 --> 00:47:15,125 Like, that makes me feel good. 860 00:47:15,709 --> 00:47:19,170 There's no other person who I think... Well, no, not that I think. 861 00:47:19,170 --> 00:47:21,590 I know there's no other person I would have fallen for. 862 00:47:22,591 --> 00:47:24,551 So, like, I don't have any doubt. 863 00:47:26,803 --> 00:47:28,847 And if you did, I would want you to be honest with me. 864 00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:33,310 So, I think you've been seeing me cry 865 00:47:33,310 --> 00:47:37,147 a little bit more than I typically cry in a whole year. 866 00:47:37,647 --> 00:47:44,112 And that is because the stress is kind of getting to me. 867 00:47:44,112 --> 00:47:49,409 Explaining to my family, like, "Hey, yeah, I fell in love with this man, 868 00:47:49,409 --> 00:47:52,454 and he's amazing. And no, you haven't met him yet." 869 00:47:52,454 --> 00:47:54,039 And the pressure 870 00:47:54,039 --> 00:47:58,919 of making sure they see what I see in you. 871 00:48:01,588 --> 00:48:05,800 But I do appreciate this experiment brought us together, 872 00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:09,554 when we wouldn't have found each other in the real world. We wouldn't have. 873 00:48:09,554 --> 00:48:13,141 I need to lean in more on that. 874 00:48:13,141 --> 00:48:16,102 And be grateful for that. 875 00:48:16,102 --> 00:48:18,897 I just-- I really appreciated you this weekend. 876 00:48:19,481 --> 00:48:21,691 You have no idea. 877 00:48:22,359 --> 00:48:23,777 Well, I'm here for you. 878 00:48:23,777 --> 00:48:28,198 You were so cool and collected. 879 00:48:28,198 --> 00:48:29,366 Ooh! 880 00:48:30,241 --> 00:48:33,912 Ooh, I wanna be like you, baby. I really do. 881 00:48:34,537 --> 00:48:35,580 I really do. 882 00:48:36,581 --> 00:48:40,085 You know what? I'm stressed out about the wedding, but, man, 883 00:48:40,085 --> 00:48:45,840 that just means I'm one day closer to marrying my person. 884 00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:48,677 - ♪ By your kiss, your vibe ♪ 885 00:48:48,677 --> 00:48:50,929 ♪ Your touch, your smile ♪ 886 00:48:50,929 --> 00:48:54,891 ♪ You make me feel Like I can do anything ♪ 887 00:48:54,891 --> 00:49:00,730 ♪ Yeah, you make me feel alive! ♪ 888 00:49:00,730 --> 00:49:03,483 ♪ You make me feel alive ♪ 889 00:49:03,483 --> 00:49:05,568 ♪ When you're by my side ♪ 890 00:49:06,111 --> 00:49:11,449 {\an8}♪ You make me feel alive! ♪ 891 00:49:11,449 --> 00:49:14,035 {\an8}♪ You make me feel alive ♪ 892 00:49:14,035 --> 00:49:16,746 ♪ When you're by my side ♪ 893 00:49:18,415 --> 00:49:21,835 {\an8}How are you feeling about meeting my dad and my stepmom? 894 00:49:21,835 --> 00:49:23,086 Good. Yeah. 895 00:49:23,086 --> 00:49:24,754 - Are you nervous? - A little bit. 896 00:49:24,754 --> 00:49:26,256 {\an8}Yeah, it's okay. 897 00:49:26,256 --> 00:49:28,425 {\an8}- It's normal to be nervous. 898 00:49:28,425 --> 00:49:30,218 My dad will be nice. It's fine. 899 00:49:30,218 --> 00:49:31,261 Hopefully. 900 00:49:31,261 --> 00:49:34,389 - He's not gonna be mean to you. 901 00:49:35,098 --> 00:49:38,727 {\an8}My dad hasn't really cared for a lot of my boyfriends in the past. 902 00:49:38,727 --> 00:49:42,689 Just because maybe he didn't think they were, like, where they should be 903 00:49:42,689 --> 00:49:45,734 in their lives to be with me, or they weren't a certain way, 904 00:49:45,734 --> 00:49:49,821 or they weren't, in his eyes, up to standard of what I should be with. 905 00:49:51,364 --> 00:49:53,116 I'll be right back. 906 00:49:56,578 --> 00:49:58,663 This is my little brother Zyhe. This is Zack. 907 00:49:58,663 --> 00:50:00,165 Hi, Zyhe. - Hi. 908 00:50:00,165 --> 00:50:01,958 I'm Zack. 909 00:50:01,958 --> 00:50:03,501 The two Zs. - Nice to meet you. 910 00:50:03,501 --> 00:50:04,419 This is Zia. 911 00:50:04,419 --> 00:50:06,671 {\an8}- Hi, Zia. Zack. Hi. Nice to meet you. 912 00:50:06,671 --> 00:50:08,673 {\an8}- And this is my dad Shah. - Nice to meet you, Zack. 913 00:50:08,673 --> 00:50:11,176 {\an8}- Hi, Shah. It's good to meet you. - You too. 914 00:50:11,176 --> 00:50:13,053 {\an8}- And my stepmom Yaenid. - Hi. 915 00:50:13,553 --> 00:50:15,138 {\an8}- Nice to meet you. - You too. 916 00:50:15,138 --> 00:50:16,848 Well, welcome to our home. 917 00:50:16,848 --> 00:50:19,017 Yeah, do you guys wanna sit down? 918 00:50:21,728 --> 00:50:23,146 So, you're from Seattle? 919 00:50:23,146 --> 00:50:25,857 No, I'm kind of a nomad. I grew up moving everywhere. 920 00:50:25,857 --> 00:50:28,485 I was born over in Moses Lake, Washington. 921 00:50:28,485 --> 00:50:30,904 I remember Moses. I grew up in the Tri-Cities. 922 00:50:30,904 --> 00:50:32,947 - That's where my dad lives. All right. 923 00:50:32,947 --> 00:50:34,699 I don't know if you ever fish, but... 924 00:50:34,699 --> 00:50:37,535 I'm not very skilled at fishing, unfortunately. 925 00:50:37,535 --> 00:50:40,330 But I'm always open to learning new things. 926 00:50:40,330 --> 00:50:42,040 - Learning new skills. Yeah. Yeah. 927 00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:43,666 Do you golf? 928 00:50:44,334 --> 00:50:46,002 - No? - No, not good at golfing either. 929 00:50:47,087 --> 00:50:48,338 Sports is not it. 930 00:50:48,338 --> 00:50:49,964 Hmm. 931 00:50:49,964 --> 00:50:51,299 Really? 932 00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:52,759 All right. 933 00:50:54,177 --> 00:50:55,386 Anyway. 934 00:50:55,887 --> 00:50:57,639 So, how long you been practicing law? 935 00:50:57,639 --> 00:50:59,390 This is going into my sixth year. 936 00:50:59,390 --> 00:51:01,267 Sixth year, huh? All righty. 937 00:51:01,267 --> 00:51:04,562 Really what I specialize in is litigation. 938 00:51:04,562 --> 00:51:08,191 Anything that involves going in front of a jury and trial, that's my specialty. 939 00:51:08,191 --> 00:51:09,109 All right. 940 00:51:09,109 --> 00:51:11,236 One of the things, like, that I see is that 941 00:51:11,236 --> 00:51:13,696 the criminal justice system is too over-expansive. 942 00:51:13,696 --> 00:51:17,408 It's costing more than the benefit to society. 943 00:51:17,408 --> 00:51:18,910 So, I'll give you an example. 944 00:51:18,910 --> 00:51:22,038 You know what driving with license suspended third degree is? 945 00:51:22,038 --> 00:51:22,956 Mm-hmm. 946 00:51:22,956 --> 00:51:26,501 It is the number one crime in the state of Washington. 947 00:51:26,501 --> 00:51:28,711 You're stopping people from actually going and working. 948 00:51:28,711 --> 00:51:31,631 It's just not practical, uh, to take their driver's license away. 949 00:51:31,631 --> 00:51:33,716 Too many things get put into the criminal code 950 00:51:33,716 --> 00:51:35,760 that should be civil infractions. 951 00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:37,762 Anyways, that's my rant. 952 00:51:37,762 --> 00:51:39,013 Interesting. All right. 953 00:51:40,265 --> 00:51:42,350 I don't really have an opinion about that, honestly. 954 00:51:45,937 --> 00:51:47,605 I'm a bit of a talker. Yeah. 955 00:51:51,860 --> 00:51:54,946 So, where do you guys plan on staying once you're married? 956 00:51:54,946 --> 00:51:56,948 Yeah. That's a good question. 957 00:51:56,948 --> 00:51:58,741 We have to figure it out. 958 00:51:58,741 --> 00:52:01,119 - When did you say your lease was? August? Uh, yeah. 959 00:52:01,119 --> 00:52:04,873 So we'd have at least till August to figure it out, and then... 960 00:52:05,456 --> 00:52:07,250 I think, probably in December, 961 00:52:07,250 --> 00:52:10,003 we'd probably start looking at trying to find a home. 962 00:52:10,003 --> 00:52:14,007 - Pretty odd. Not gonna lie. - What I would tell you is that we... 963 00:52:14,007 --> 00:52:18,595 We both recognize that what we're doing is crazy. 964 00:52:19,512 --> 00:52:24,017 I think what you might not know is, like, in the pods-- 965 00:52:24,017 --> 00:52:25,894 Know what we mean when we say "pods?" 966 00:52:25,894 --> 00:52:27,604 Actually, I know what a pod is. 967 00:52:27,604 --> 00:52:29,314 With Bliss, 968 00:52:29,314 --> 00:52:32,692 she started to talk to me about all of the books she loves to read, 969 00:52:32,692 --> 00:52:36,696 and we had these incredibly deep conversations. 970 00:52:36,696 --> 00:52:38,907 I mean, the stuff that we talk about, ranging from-- 971 00:52:38,907 --> 00:52:40,408 It's probably super boring. 972 00:52:40,408 --> 00:52:43,745 Neurobiology to the origins of the human species 973 00:52:43,745 --> 00:52:47,582 and, you know, her dream to one day be on the moon when she's 60 years old. 974 00:52:48,958 --> 00:52:52,045 I'll tell you, the thing that I love the most about Bliss 975 00:52:52,045 --> 00:52:56,341 is not her intelligence or her beauty. It's her character. 976 00:52:56,341 --> 00:53:00,136 It makes it so easy to sacrifice for you and to do things for you, 977 00:53:00,136 --> 00:53:03,097 because I know that you would do the exact same thing. 978 00:53:03,097 --> 00:53:05,266 I just feel like you genuinely love me. 979 00:53:05,266 --> 00:53:07,560 It just feels like we're a team. 980 00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:10,104 Mm-hmm. You sure about Zack? 981 00:53:10,104 --> 00:53:11,648 For now. 982 00:53:12,357 --> 00:53:14,400 Yeah, I-- I am. 983 00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:16,236 We connect very deeply. 984 00:53:16,236 --> 00:53:19,530 I've never experienced anything quite like that before. 985 00:53:19,530 --> 00:53:23,117 Um, I'm not, like, saying that there's not challenges 986 00:53:23,117 --> 00:53:25,119 or that there won't be challenges. I'm not dumb. 987 00:53:25,119 --> 00:53:27,205 There's gonna be challenges. - I know that. 988 00:53:27,205 --> 00:53:29,165 You've known each other how long now? 989 00:53:30,375 --> 00:53:33,628 I'd say around 20 days at this point. 990 00:53:33,628 --> 00:53:36,047 Oh, God. Only thing I can say is good luck. 991 00:53:36,047 --> 00:53:38,841 I'm not trying to be mean, but good luck. 992 00:53:38,841 --> 00:53:42,303 No, I mean, I get that this is, like, not a normal situation. 993 00:53:43,554 --> 00:53:46,057 I already tried with your sister, and you know how that ended up. 994 00:53:46,057 --> 00:53:48,101 "Tried with my sister." What do you mean? 995 00:53:48,101 --> 00:53:52,272 Her older sister got married to a guy that worked for me. 996 00:53:52,272 --> 00:53:53,898 Well, I fired him. 997 00:53:53,898 --> 00:53:56,776 Then they left Arizona and got married. 998 00:53:57,819 --> 00:53:59,654 Oh, boy. 999 00:53:59,654 --> 00:54:01,864 You know, you do have to let intelligence 1000 00:54:01,864 --> 00:54:04,200 actually play a factor in decision-making, 1001 00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:07,954 so let's hope you guys are making the right choice. 1002 00:54:07,954 --> 00:54:10,456 I agree. I think that-- 1003 00:54:10,456 --> 00:54:13,001 I mean, 20 days is just insanity. 1004 00:54:13,626 --> 00:54:15,628 So, I don't know. 1005 00:54:15,628 --> 00:54:18,006 I know you're happy, but don't fool yourself, you know. 1006 00:54:20,300 --> 00:54:22,552 People take marriage lightly, we all know that, nowadays. 1007 00:54:22,552 --> 00:54:25,346 People get married. They get divorced. Get married, get divorced. 1008 00:54:25,346 --> 00:54:28,182 We both are-- Let me just say this really quick, Dad. 1009 00:54:28,182 --> 00:54:30,768 Okay, so I'm gonna lose my train of thought, but go ahead. 1010 00:54:30,768 --> 00:54:31,853 Okay, go ahead. 1011 00:54:31,853 --> 00:54:34,397 - I already lost it. Go ahead. Finish. I'm sorry. 1012 00:54:34,397 --> 00:54:36,232 But we talked about marriage. 1013 00:54:36,232 --> 00:54:38,735 And, like, obviously, you and Mom are divorced, 1014 00:54:38,735 --> 00:54:40,778 and that impacted me very heavily. 1015 00:54:40,778 --> 00:54:41,696 It did. 1016 00:54:41,696 --> 00:54:44,615 And I know that divorce is a very serious thing. 1017 00:54:44,615 --> 00:54:48,661 And it's something that I don't ever wanna participate in any capacity. 1018 00:54:48,661 --> 00:54:50,705 - At all. No even a little bit. Okay. 1019 00:54:50,705 --> 00:54:54,208 Well, you're putting yourself out there in that category. Just so you know. 1020 00:54:54,208 --> 00:54:57,962 - And I understand that it seems that way. - No, it is that way. 1021 00:54:57,962 --> 00:55:01,716 - Okay. Thanks. Fine. But I'm saying-- - It is that way. Don't fool yourself. 1022 00:55:01,716 --> 00:55:03,509 I'm taking this very seriously, Dad. 1023 00:55:03,509 --> 00:55:06,095 Like, I'm taking this extremely seriously. 1024 00:55:08,431 --> 00:55:10,475 What do your parents think about this? 1025 00:55:10,475 --> 00:55:14,020 Well, my mother's passed away, so she doesn't have any thoughts. 1026 00:55:14,020 --> 00:55:15,980 If she was here, I think she'd be for it. 1027 00:55:15,980 --> 00:55:19,192 She was always the type that'd tell me to follow my dreams and 1028 00:55:19,192 --> 00:55:21,819 disregard... everything else. 1029 00:55:23,863 --> 00:55:25,990 - I want the best for you. No, I know, Dad. 1030 00:55:25,990 --> 00:55:28,826 I don't want you to be hurt in any way, so... 1031 00:55:29,327 --> 00:55:31,746 We wanna make sure that you guys know what you're doing. 1032 00:55:31,746 --> 00:55:34,332 Well, and the truth is, you don't know enough about me. 1033 00:55:34,332 --> 00:55:37,251 I don't know anything about you. No. 1034 00:55:37,251 --> 00:55:40,880 There are aspects of Zack that you don't understand that are highly-- 1035 00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:43,383 - Well, I don't know him. - I know, so let me say this. 1036 00:55:43,383 --> 00:55:46,010 That are highly important to understanding who he is, 1037 00:55:46,010 --> 00:55:49,555 and his character, and what he's gone through in his life. 1038 00:55:49,555 --> 00:55:53,059 Like, it was very similar to your childhood in a lot of ways. 1039 00:55:53,643 --> 00:55:55,770 And so, that should speak volumes to you. 1040 00:55:56,270 --> 00:55:58,648 Like, as adults, we get to make our own decisions and it-- 1041 00:55:58,648 --> 00:55:59,941 That's a fact. 1042 00:55:59,941 --> 00:56:03,152 It means I want you to be able to express yourself about this, 1043 00:56:03,152 --> 00:56:05,279 and, like, I understand it's crazy. 1044 00:56:05,279 --> 00:56:08,658 I think you both know where I'm at, so... 1045 00:56:14,831 --> 00:56:17,083 - I'm gonna go to the bathroom. Okay. 1046 00:56:23,548 --> 00:56:26,551 - This is your choice. You know? I know. Mm-hmm. 1047 00:56:26,551 --> 00:56:29,095 Like, you should hopefully see that I'm serious in this. 1048 00:56:29,095 --> 00:56:30,721 Clearly, I love him. 1049 00:56:30,721 --> 00:56:32,932 - You can tell that I love him. - All right. 1050 00:56:32,932 --> 00:56:35,601 - You can't tell that I love him? - All right. Whatever. 1051 00:56:35,601 --> 00:56:38,646 I would not have a ring on my finger if I didn't love him. 1052 00:56:38,646 --> 00:56:40,898 Okay. - I wouldn't. Am I dumb? 1053 00:56:40,898 --> 00:56:42,984 - No, I'm not dumb. - I didn't say you're dumb. 1054 00:56:42,984 --> 00:56:46,779 Okay, well, I'm not going to get married just to get married. 1055 00:56:46,779 --> 00:56:48,614 That's what you're doing. 1056 00:56:51,659 --> 00:56:53,911 Do I think that he's the right person for her? 1057 00:56:53,911 --> 00:56:55,037 I don't know. 1058 00:56:55,746 --> 00:56:58,499 {\an8}I mean, how can you know in 20 days? That's crazy. 1059 00:56:58,499 --> 00:57:02,837 Maybe Zack is the type of person that she's interested in. 1060 00:57:02,837 --> 00:57:06,007 He's a talker for sure, and he's a lawyer. 1061 00:57:06,007 --> 00:57:08,050 At least, I think he's a lawyer, right? 1062 00:57:08,050 --> 00:57:11,637 You've checked his background. So, you know what he is, right? 1063 00:57:11,637 --> 00:57:15,266 He's obviously an intelligent man. I mean, you can't go to school 1064 00:57:15,266 --> 00:57:17,810 and become a lawyer without being somewhat intelligent. 1065 00:57:17,810 --> 00:57:19,645 That doesn't mean success. 1066 00:57:20,229 --> 00:57:22,148 Maybe he's ambitious, but... 1067 00:57:22,148 --> 00:57:26,027 I don't think he'll be able to match her whatsoever. 1068 00:57:26,652 --> 00:57:29,614 - You're an educated woman. - Exactly. So you have to trust me. 1069 00:57:29,614 --> 00:57:31,782 And you're 32, so you get to make your own decisions. 1070 00:57:31,782 --> 00:57:33,075 Thankfully. Yes. 1071 00:57:33,075 --> 00:57:36,537 - But it's not something I would ever do. Okay, Dad. 1072 00:57:36,537 --> 00:57:38,372 I don't expect you to understand. 1073 00:57:38,372 --> 00:57:40,791 - Good, 'cause I probably don't, so... And that's okay. 1074 00:57:40,791 --> 00:57:42,919 Okay. Thank you for sharing that. 1075 00:57:45,338 --> 00:57:47,340 ♪ I need you ♪ 1076 00:57:48,799 --> 00:57:50,718 ♪ And I won't give up ♪ 1077 00:57:51,969 --> 00:57:53,804 ♪ And I won't give up ♪ 1078 00:57:58,809 --> 00:58:08,736 - ♪ I won't give up ♪ - ♪ I won't give up ♪ 1079 00:58:08,736 --> 00:58:14,742 ♪ I won't give up ♪ 1080 00:58:15,826 --> 00:58:17,828 ♪ I need you ♪ 1081 00:58:19,330 --> 00:58:21,749 ♪ And I won't give up ♪ 1082 00:58:22,833 --> 00:58:24,752 ♪ And I won't give up ♪ 1083 00:58:26,837 --> 00:58:28,756 ♪ Hey! Oh... ♪ 1084 00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:31,926 {\an8}♪ I need you ♪