1 00:00:07,507 --> 00:00:10,010 [man 1] When you love somebody, 2 00:00:10,093 --> 00:00:13,179 you don't just leave without telling them anything. 3 00:00:13,263 --> 00:00:16,266 -["Fallen" by Kendra Dantes playing] -♪ Fallen… ♪ 4 00:00:17,225 --> 00:00:19,728 [man 1] I have no idea why you left me here alone. 5 00:00:21,354 --> 00:00:24,482 ♪ Fallen and lost our wings… ♪ 6 00:00:24,566 --> 00:00:27,193 [man 1] You let some girl come in between us 7 00:00:28,069 --> 00:00:29,779 'cause of something she said? 8 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:32,323 After everything that we've been through? 9 00:00:32,907 --> 00:00:35,493 -I cannot believe this. -[woman 1] You're arrogant! 10 00:00:36,161 --> 00:00:38,747 -She-- She told you she loved you? -Four times. 11 00:00:39,706 --> 00:00:42,208 What do I fucking owe you? I don't trust you for shit. 12 00:00:42,292 --> 00:00:45,086 [woman 2] I love who you are. You have such a good heart. 13 00:00:45,170 --> 00:00:46,296 I love you. 14 00:00:46,379 --> 00:00:48,757 [man 2] The whole "love is blind" thing, I get that. 15 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:53,553 But love needs to have a roof. Sometimes love wants to fly first-class. 16 00:00:53,636 --> 00:00:56,598 [man 3] You make me feel like I'm not enough for you. 17 00:00:57,348 --> 00:00:59,517 [woman 2] You're not the person I fell in love with. 18 00:00:59,601 --> 00:01:02,103 [man 4] I'm literally trying to change your mind. 19 00:01:02,187 --> 00:01:04,355 [man 3] Marriage is not easy. 20 00:01:04,439 --> 00:01:06,441 -Fucking asshole! -Oh, God. 21 00:01:07,067 --> 00:01:08,985 [man 3] I will always fight for you. 22 00:01:09,069 --> 00:01:10,153 Don't give up on me. 23 00:01:10,236 --> 00:01:12,238 [dramatic music playing] 24 00:01:15,325 --> 00:01:17,535 [indistinct chatter] 25 00:01:18,745 --> 00:01:20,330 -Hello! -What's up, fellas? 26 00:01:20,413 --> 00:01:22,499 -[Vanessa] Hi! -[all exclaiming] 27 00:01:23,792 --> 00:01:25,919 -Hello! [laughs] -Ladies! 28 00:01:26,002 --> 00:01:27,295 [all exclaiming] 29 00:01:27,378 --> 00:01:29,297 -[Vanessa laughing] -[Nick] What's up? 30 00:01:29,380 --> 00:01:30,673 Come on down, guys. 31 00:01:30,757 --> 00:01:32,175 [woman laughs] Okay, Mom and Dad. 32 00:01:32,258 --> 00:01:33,259 [Vanessa] Oh, my goodness. 33 00:01:33,343 --> 00:01:35,887 -Did you guys just call us Mom and Dad? -[woman] I did! 34 00:01:35,970 --> 00:01:37,931 -Mommy! -You guys are busted! 35 00:01:38,014 --> 00:01:39,891 [all exclaiming and laughing] 36 00:01:39,974 --> 00:01:41,976 -[Nick] How are you guys doing? -[men] Good! 37 00:01:42,060 --> 00:01:43,019 Amazing. 38 00:01:43,603 --> 00:01:44,813 I'm Vanessa Lachey. 39 00:01:44,896 --> 00:01:47,899 -And I'm, of course, Nick Lachey. -[Vanessa laughs] 40 00:01:47,982 --> 00:01:49,359 Welcome to Love Is Blind. 41 00:01:49,442 --> 00:01:52,570 [all cheering] 42 00:01:52,654 --> 00:01:56,282 You probably experienced dating has become more superficial than ever, right? 43 00:01:56,366 --> 00:01:58,326 -[man 1] 100%. 100%. -[man 2] Oh, yeah. 44 00:01:58,409 --> 00:02:01,621 Just off my looks, everyone kind of thinks I'm a playboy, 45 00:02:01,704 --> 00:02:03,832 kind of push girls to the side, 46 00:02:03,915 --> 00:02:06,459 but I'm kind of a lovey-dovey guy over here. 47 00:02:06,543 --> 00:02:08,962 I'm always looking for something serious. 48 00:02:09,045 --> 00:02:11,798 If you're too deep too soon, you wanna play it cool. 49 00:02:11,881 --> 00:02:13,633 If you're nervous, it's gonna be a turn-off. 50 00:02:13,716 --> 00:02:15,385 In the real conventional dating world? 51 00:02:15,468 --> 00:02:17,846 Yeah. Here, it's like we know what we want. 52 00:02:17,929 --> 00:02:21,182 I'm the skinniest guy here, so I'm always judged 53 00:02:21,266 --> 00:02:24,936 for being, you know, sort of, like, smaller and don't have muscles, 54 00:02:25,019 --> 00:02:27,188 so a lot of women just, 55 00:02:27,272 --> 00:02:29,566 "Hey, no, you're a little bit smaller for my taste." 56 00:02:29,649 --> 00:02:32,235 -They say that to you? -No, no, no, but I can definitely tell. 57 00:02:32,318 --> 00:02:33,695 They're getting bold out here. 58 00:02:33,778 --> 00:02:35,989 -I'd be like, "What?" -[all laughing] 59 00:02:36,072 --> 00:02:39,450 It's just one of those things that I have to combat with going through. 60 00:02:39,534 --> 00:02:41,703 But isn't it exciting to take all of that away? 61 00:02:41,786 --> 00:02:44,622 -100%. -And be like, "This is me." 62 00:02:44,706 --> 00:02:46,708 [Nick] What's great about this experiment 63 00:02:46,791 --> 00:02:49,169 is it gives you the permission to ask anything you want. 64 00:02:49,252 --> 00:02:50,795 Nothing is off-limits. 65 00:02:50,879 --> 00:02:53,173 You guys are all open books and you're ready to bring it? 66 00:02:53,256 --> 00:02:54,966 -[woman] We're ready to be vulnerable! -Yeah. 67 00:02:55,049 --> 00:02:58,720 What do you think is, like, a question you're dying to ask a man 68 00:02:58,803 --> 00:03:01,181 that you have never asked on a date? 69 00:03:01,264 --> 00:03:05,476 -[Linda] "Have you ever been to therapy?" -Yes, that's a good one! Thank you, Linda! 70 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:08,479 -Don't worry. The question will be asked. -[laughing] 71 00:03:08,563 --> 00:03:10,481 "Do you have any weird fetishes?" 72 00:03:10,565 --> 00:03:12,901 "Are you gonna be sucking my toes every day?" 73 00:03:12,984 --> 00:03:14,652 [laughing] 74 00:03:14,736 --> 00:03:18,406 Well, over the next ten days, you'll finally have the chance 75 00:03:18,489 --> 00:03:21,492 to fall in love based solely on who you are on the inside. 76 00:03:21,576 --> 00:03:25,747 Not for your looks, your race, your background or your income. 77 00:03:26,456 --> 00:03:29,500 And if you fall in love with someone and wanna spend your life with them, 78 00:03:29,584 --> 00:03:30,752 you'll get engaged. 79 00:03:30,835 --> 00:03:31,669 [woman] Whoo! 80 00:03:31,753 --> 00:03:35,006 And then you get to see them for the very first time. 81 00:03:35,089 --> 00:03:37,342 [all cheering] 82 00:03:37,425 --> 00:03:41,262 And then the two of you leave here with a future wedding date 83 00:03:41,346 --> 00:03:43,514 in four weeks, 84 00:03:44,390 --> 00:03:46,476 where you'll make the biggest decision of your life. 85 00:03:46,559 --> 00:03:49,354 Will you say "I do" to the person you fell in love with right here, 86 00:03:49,437 --> 00:03:50,688 sight unseen? 87 00:03:51,272 --> 00:03:53,691 Or will you choose to walk away forever? 88 00:03:55,026 --> 00:03:57,403 [Vanessa] Is love truly blind? 89 00:03:58,446 --> 00:04:00,156 Well, we hope that you prove that it is. 90 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:01,866 -[woman] Yes! -[all cheering] 91 00:04:01,950 --> 00:04:03,368 [all] Whoo! 92 00:04:04,327 --> 00:04:06,871 [both] The pods are now open! 93 00:04:06,955 --> 00:04:09,999 -[upbeat music playing] -[all] Whoo! 94 00:04:10,083 --> 00:04:11,584 -Good luck, guys! -[man] Thank you. 95 00:04:12,418 --> 00:04:13,294 My wife's in there. 96 00:04:14,671 --> 00:04:17,674 -[woman] Let's go find our husbands. -[all cheering] 97 00:04:17,757 --> 00:04:20,510 [all exclaiming and whooping] 98 00:04:20,593 --> 00:04:22,345 [indistinct chatter] 99 00:04:23,012 --> 00:04:24,013 [Izzy] Good luck, y'all. 100 00:04:24,973 --> 00:04:27,934 -What's up? What's up? -What's going on? 101 00:04:28,017 --> 00:04:30,019 [Josh] Oh, you know, just having a great day today. 102 00:04:30,103 --> 00:04:31,229 Hey! 103 00:04:31,312 --> 00:04:34,565 What makes me nervous about the experiment is 104 00:04:35,775 --> 00:04:36,818 they can't see nothing. 105 00:04:36,901 --> 00:04:38,820 I'm gonna guess you love a Sunday brunch. 106 00:04:38,903 --> 00:04:41,239 Oh, my God, listen, you're speaking my love language. 107 00:04:41,322 --> 00:04:43,283 My personality has to shine, 108 00:04:43,366 --> 00:04:45,535 and I have to ask them the right questions. 109 00:04:45,618 --> 00:04:47,495 What are you looking for in a significant other? 110 00:04:47,578 --> 00:04:49,580 The best way to describe it is just, "Give me peace." 111 00:04:49,664 --> 00:04:51,040 Mmm! [snaps fingers] 112 00:04:51,124 --> 00:04:54,085 I want to know the core of them and them to know the core of who I am. 113 00:04:54,168 --> 00:04:56,629 -[woman] Lay down on your back. -[JP] I gotta lay on my back? 114 00:04:56,713 --> 00:04:58,673 -Yeah, it's core! -[JP] All right. 115 00:04:58,756 --> 00:05:01,092 I'm literally on the ground with my legs in the air. 116 00:05:01,175 --> 00:05:02,510 Keep doing this and talking to me. 117 00:05:02,593 --> 00:05:05,013 Make it through without breaking a sweat, you get two points. 118 00:05:05,096 --> 00:05:06,222 [JP] I'm already sweating. 119 00:05:06,306 --> 00:05:07,682 [man] Looking at statistics, 120 00:05:07,765 --> 00:05:11,144 I mean, the danger zone for marriage is years one through two. 121 00:05:11,227 --> 00:05:15,023 And years five through eight are when couples are most likely to get divorced. 122 00:05:15,106 --> 00:05:17,525 Not every single guy is gonna be for me. Like… [laughs] 123 00:05:17,608 --> 00:05:19,861 -So what do you like to do for fun? -Uh, fisherman. 124 00:05:19,944 --> 00:05:21,946 That's the only thing I think about all day long. 125 00:05:22,030 --> 00:05:24,073 Think about what a couple fish pics could do 126 00:05:24,157 --> 00:05:25,658 to the quality of your social media. 127 00:05:25,742 --> 00:05:28,870 -We're talking a hundred likes here. -What the eff? 128 00:05:28,953 --> 00:05:33,624 So, marry, fuck, kill. Waffles, pancakes, or French toast? 129 00:05:34,459 --> 00:05:35,877 What? 130 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:37,128 What's normally your type? 131 00:05:37,211 --> 00:05:39,756 -Physical has never been a thing for me. -[burps] 132 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:41,299 -Okay. -Did you just burp? 133 00:05:41,382 --> 00:05:43,051 -[Ernesto] I did. -Oh, my God! 134 00:05:43,134 --> 00:05:45,887 Was that a good one? It wasn't a fart. It could have been worse. 135 00:05:45,970 --> 00:05:47,055 [laughing] Oh, God. 136 00:05:47,138 --> 00:05:48,473 What do you look for your living? 137 00:05:48,556 --> 00:05:50,475 Did you say, "What do I look for in a woman?" 138 00:05:50,558 --> 00:05:51,684 [woman laughs] No! 139 00:05:51,768 --> 00:05:53,770 That is not the question, but, yeah, sure! 140 00:05:53,853 --> 00:05:57,106 -No! Wait, no, what was the question? -[woman] What do you do for a living? 141 00:05:57,190 --> 00:05:59,025 I'm a sleepyhead. Are you a morning person? 142 00:05:59,108 --> 00:06:00,651 Uh, every morning. Absolutely. 143 00:06:00,735 --> 00:06:02,987 -[woman] Oh, my God, I'm not. -You're not a horny person? 144 00:06:03,071 --> 00:06:04,322 I would like to be! 145 00:06:04,405 --> 00:06:05,656 You're not a horny person? 146 00:06:05,740 --> 00:06:08,659 -"Morning!" -[chuckling] I was like, "What?" 147 00:06:08,743 --> 00:06:13,498 I grew up in the beautiful tropical islands of Puerto Rico. 148 00:06:13,581 --> 00:06:15,750 [in Spanish] Pure-blooded Puerto Rican. [laughs] 149 00:06:15,833 --> 00:06:17,377 [in English] My accent? Oh, my God. 150 00:06:17,460 --> 00:06:19,128 It's a hate and love relationship. [laughs] 151 00:06:19,212 --> 00:06:22,256 There's some that do understand me, but there are some like, 152 00:06:22,340 --> 00:06:24,175 "Lydia, what the hell you said?" 153 00:06:24,258 --> 00:06:27,595 I am single 'cause I haven't been fortunate enough to find someone 154 00:06:27,678 --> 00:06:28,971 who is emotionally matured. 155 00:06:29,055 --> 00:06:30,556 Oh, mature enough! 156 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:33,059 In the past, I've been called "too much." 157 00:06:33,142 --> 00:06:34,644 [Lydia exclaiming loudly] 158 00:06:34,727 --> 00:06:37,355 That has definitely, like, impacted me. 159 00:06:37,438 --> 00:06:39,357 Oh, my God, girl! 160 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:41,526 [Lydia] But I don't think I'm too much. 161 00:06:41,609 --> 00:06:44,612 I think that I am the right amount of me. 162 00:06:45,196 --> 00:06:46,531 There we go! 163 00:06:46,614 --> 00:06:48,783 I am smart. I am brilliant. 164 00:06:48,866 --> 00:06:50,118 Howdy. 165 00:06:50,201 --> 00:06:53,454 I wanna be really loved for this amazing person that I am. 166 00:06:53,538 --> 00:06:54,872 [man] Hey, what's going on? 167 00:06:54,956 --> 00:06:57,458 [Lydia] Who is the lovely guy that I'm talking to? 168 00:06:57,542 --> 00:06:59,627 This is Milton. Who is this? 169 00:06:59,710 --> 00:07:02,547 My name is Lydia. I am from Puerto Rico. 170 00:07:02,630 --> 00:07:03,714 So what do you do? 171 00:07:03,798 --> 00:07:04,924 I'm a geologist. 172 00:07:05,007 --> 00:07:08,845 Oh, my God, I'm really big into metamorphic rock. 173 00:07:08,928 --> 00:07:10,930 -Metamorphic facies. -[Lydia] You are? Why? 174 00:07:11,013 --> 00:07:12,306 Are you a geologist? 175 00:07:12,390 --> 00:07:15,351 Uh, I'm an engineer in the middle of geology. 176 00:07:15,435 --> 00:07:17,228 You're an engineer! 177 00:07:17,311 --> 00:07:19,230 [Milton] I'm in between geology and engineering. 178 00:07:19,313 --> 00:07:21,482 I have a polarizing microscope in my apartment. 179 00:07:21,566 --> 00:07:22,942 [gasps] 180 00:07:23,025 --> 00:07:24,610 Oh, my God, you're such a nerd. 181 00:07:24,694 --> 00:07:26,070 I collect samples. 182 00:07:26,154 --> 00:07:28,698 -You're such a nerd, Milton. -[laughs] 183 00:07:28,781 --> 00:07:30,575 [Lydia] Puerto Rico has a bit of everything. 184 00:07:30,658 --> 00:07:33,953 At the north, is, like, the quartz zones, your sedimentary, right? 185 00:07:34,036 --> 00:07:36,289 Okay, I hate sedimentary rock, but I work in oil and gas, 186 00:07:36,372 --> 00:07:37,373 so I have to like it. 187 00:07:37,457 --> 00:07:41,461 Sedimentary goes like… It's excised easily. It's not stable. 188 00:07:41,544 --> 00:07:44,714 I feel like sedimentary is, like, the weak spectrum. I'm so sorry. 189 00:07:44,797 --> 00:07:46,924 We're talking about diagenesis sedimentary, right? 190 00:07:47,008 --> 00:07:48,468 -Right. Yes. -That's my shit. 191 00:07:48,551 --> 00:07:51,053 -Oh, God, we're getting really nerdy here. -I love it. 192 00:07:51,137 --> 00:07:55,099 If you're into, like, rocks and minerals, then we can observe things 193 00:07:55,183 --> 00:07:56,476 under my polarizing microscope. 194 00:07:56,559 --> 00:07:59,020 -I'm down. -My God, you're such a nerd. I love it. 195 00:07:59,103 --> 00:08:02,815 -[Milton] Okay, I'm really not. -I don't usually go for a nerd though! 196 00:08:02,899 --> 00:08:05,026 We have, like, the same passion and the same background. 197 00:08:05,109 --> 00:08:05,985 That's pretty dope. 198 00:08:06,068 --> 00:08:08,237 -[Lydia] What is your age? -What is your age? 199 00:08:08,321 --> 00:08:10,531 -I'm 30. -Okay. I'm close enough. 200 00:08:11,032 --> 00:08:13,326 -How old are you? -[Milton] How old do I sound? 201 00:08:13,409 --> 00:08:15,244 -28. -I'm 24. 202 00:08:15,328 --> 00:08:18,664 Oh, my God, Milton, I'm dying! 203 00:08:19,248 --> 00:08:20,917 You're younger than my brother. 204 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:22,335 [Milton] It doesn't matter. 205 00:08:22,418 --> 00:08:26,047 I mean, I feel like I'm doing pretty fucking well for myself at this age. 206 00:08:26,797 --> 00:08:28,341 I mean, it's more about a mindset. 207 00:08:28,424 --> 00:08:31,552 Aren't we here just to, like, remove all outside factors 208 00:08:31,636 --> 00:08:33,346 like age and everything else? 209 00:08:33,429 --> 00:08:36,015 And just get to know each other for who we are? 210 00:08:36,098 --> 00:08:37,725 I mean, yeah, that's true. 211 00:08:38,392 --> 00:08:40,436 -I'm gonna ask one question. -[Lydia] Okay. 212 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:41,938 And this is gonna determine it all. 213 00:08:42,021 --> 00:08:45,691 Do you ever, like, get quartz and plagioclase confused? 214 00:08:46,567 --> 00:08:48,611 -I don't. -[Milton] Oh, okay. 215 00:08:48,694 --> 00:08:51,531 I'm gonna put you as my number one. I'm just gonna let you know now. 216 00:08:51,614 --> 00:08:53,324 [upbeat music playing] 217 00:08:55,201 --> 00:08:57,286 My thoughts on Milton is 218 00:08:57,870 --> 00:08:59,789 he's too young for me. 219 00:08:59,872 --> 00:09:02,041 [laughing] But geology is now hot. 220 00:09:02,124 --> 00:09:03,751 [intriguing music playing] 221 00:09:03,834 --> 00:09:07,630 [Lydia] Oh, my God, girls! Oh, my God! 222 00:09:07,713 --> 00:09:08,923 [Izzy] Hello, hello. 223 00:09:09,006 --> 00:09:09,882 [Lydia] Hi! 224 00:09:09,966 --> 00:09:12,343 -What's your name? -I'm Izzy. How about you? 225 00:09:12,426 --> 00:09:15,555 My name is Lydia. I am from Puerto Rico. 226 00:09:15,638 --> 00:09:17,890 -[Izzy in Spanish] You speak Spanish? -I speak Spanish! 227 00:09:17,974 --> 00:09:19,892 -I am completely bilingual. -[in English] Nice! 228 00:09:19,976 --> 00:09:22,436 -So, I'm Hispanic. My family's Mexican. -Okay! 229 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:24,772 I have a stepsister and a few other siblings. Yeah. 230 00:09:24,855 --> 00:09:26,941 Like, later on in life, I ended up, like, 231 00:09:27,024 --> 00:09:28,734 finding my biological father 232 00:09:28,818 --> 00:09:31,112 and finding out I had so many more siblings. 233 00:09:31,195 --> 00:09:32,029 Oh, my God. 234 00:09:32,113 --> 00:09:35,241 It was like a novella, you know, meeting all these families. 235 00:09:35,324 --> 00:09:37,201 -[Lydia] Oh, yes. Got a new telenovela. -Yeah. 236 00:09:37,285 --> 00:09:39,328 -[Izzy] What do you do? -I'm a geologist. 237 00:09:39,412 --> 00:09:41,414 -Oh, wow! -[Lydia] What do you do? 238 00:09:41,497 --> 00:09:44,667 -[Izzy] I do insurance for businesses. -Okay. 239 00:09:44,750 --> 00:09:46,210 -So, question, why are you here? -Yes. 240 00:09:46,294 --> 00:09:48,838 I am here because I've been really unfortunate 241 00:09:48,921 --> 00:09:52,133 on finding that person who wants to clearly communicate 242 00:09:52,216 --> 00:09:54,802 what they need, and they are not emotionally matured. 243 00:09:54,885 --> 00:09:58,097 Got that. Someone emotionally stable. If not, willing to work on it. 244 00:09:58,180 --> 00:10:00,224 -In my opinion, all men need therapy. -Yes, yes. 245 00:10:00,308 --> 00:10:02,476 -How old are you, Izzy? -I'm 29. How about yourself? 246 00:10:02,560 --> 00:10:04,478 -I am 30. -Thirty. Perfect. 247 00:10:04,562 --> 00:10:06,647 So, uh, family-wise. 248 00:10:06,731 --> 00:10:08,482 -Do you want kids? -Yes, I do. 249 00:10:08,566 --> 00:10:11,360 Right when you get married or you wanna wait a little? 250 00:10:11,444 --> 00:10:13,571 [Izzy] I definitely need some time with my wife. 251 00:10:13,654 --> 00:10:15,239 Perfect! I agree 100%. 252 00:10:15,323 --> 00:10:17,575 I think if something happens unexpectedly, 253 00:10:17,658 --> 00:10:19,744 my efforts are still gonna be there 110%. 254 00:10:19,827 --> 00:10:21,287 Oh, my God, Izzy. 255 00:10:21,370 --> 00:10:24,790 Oh, my God, you're so perfect. When are you gonna propose to me? 256 00:10:24,874 --> 00:10:27,209 [both laugh] 257 00:10:27,293 --> 00:10:29,670 [Izzy] We're working on it. We're working on it. 258 00:10:29,754 --> 00:10:31,339 I've been single for the last two years, 259 00:10:31,422 --> 00:10:35,092 and I've dated a lot, um, on the dating apps, 260 00:10:35,176 --> 00:10:37,887 and it's exhausting. I'm ready to settle it down. 261 00:10:37,970 --> 00:10:40,890 Dude, I'm excited. Yeah, baby! 262 00:10:40,973 --> 00:10:42,350 My biggest insecurity? 263 00:10:42,433 --> 00:10:45,603 I got a bald-ass head, and some girls don't like that. 264 00:10:45,686 --> 00:10:48,731 Like, I was out at a bar, and this girl took off my hat, 265 00:10:48,814 --> 00:10:51,942 and she was just like, "Ew," and walked out. 266 00:10:52,026 --> 00:10:53,277 Hey, have fun, man. 267 00:10:53,361 --> 00:10:55,738 You twist your knees. It's all in the hips. It's in the hips. 268 00:10:55,821 --> 00:10:57,782 [chuckles] I'd highly recommend anybody to do this. 269 00:10:57,865 --> 00:10:59,533 It's better than dating in the real world. 270 00:10:59,617 --> 00:11:01,494 -[Izzy] What's your name? -Stacy. 271 00:11:01,577 --> 00:11:02,787 I'm Izzy. 272 00:11:02,870 --> 00:11:03,913 -Izzy? -[Izzy] Yes. 273 00:11:03,996 --> 00:11:06,957 -What do you like to do for fun? -[Izzy] I love live music. 274 00:11:07,041 --> 00:11:09,627 So, I'm a drummer. That's a hidden talent of mine. 275 00:11:09,710 --> 00:11:11,128 -Oh! -[Izzy] Yeah, so I'm a drummer. 276 00:11:11,212 --> 00:11:14,006 But I grew up playing sports, playing baseball through college. 277 00:11:14,090 --> 00:11:16,801 This is so random. I love darts. 278 00:11:16,884 --> 00:11:18,260 Ooh, darts is fun. 279 00:11:18,344 --> 00:11:21,055 -I'll whoop your butt in darts. -Yeah? 280 00:11:21,138 --> 00:11:23,516 -Honestly, I'm pretty good at darts. -What? 281 00:11:23,599 --> 00:11:26,352 -Do you like to dance? -Yes. Take me out. 282 00:11:26,435 --> 00:11:27,812 Spin me around. I'm into it. 283 00:11:28,437 --> 00:11:30,815 [Izzy] So, I was raised by my aunt, my mom, 284 00:11:30,898 --> 00:11:33,442 and I was passed around dancing a lot. 285 00:11:33,526 --> 00:11:36,070 -[Stacy] Stop it. -I learned a lot of Latin genres. 286 00:11:36,153 --> 00:11:39,156 -Shut up! -I can do, like, salsa, merengue, bachata. 287 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:40,241 Like, everything. 288 00:11:40,324 --> 00:11:42,159 You are getting so many points right now. 289 00:11:42,243 --> 00:11:44,704 -I'm gonna give you five points. -[laughs] Awesome. 290 00:11:44,787 --> 00:11:47,081 -[Stacy] My hips don't lie. -[laughs] 291 00:11:47,164 --> 00:11:48,749 [dance music playing] 292 00:11:48,833 --> 00:11:51,961 After these first couple dates, like, yes, I have my standouts, 293 00:11:52,044 --> 00:11:54,088 but I'm still being very open-minded 294 00:11:54,171 --> 00:11:56,674 because marriage is something I consider serious. 295 00:11:56,757 --> 00:11:59,385 So I really wanna keep diving deep 296 00:11:59,468 --> 00:12:02,930 and explore all 15 girls' personalities. 297 00:12:03,013 --> 00:12:04,890 -[Izzy] Hello, hello. -[woman] Hello. 298 00:12:04,974 --> 00:12:06,726 -[Izzy] How are you? -[woman] Good. 299 00:12:06,809 --> 00:12:08,853 -I love your voice already. -[woman] Oh, okay. 300 00:12:08,936 --> 00:12:10,396 Best voice I've heard so far. 301 00:12:10,479 --> 00:12:13,107 I don't even know your name. I'm putting a star here. [laughs] 302 00:12:13,190 --> 00:12:16,277 -Are you telling all the girls this? -Oh, absolutely not. [laughs] 303 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:18,863 I'm Izzy, by the way. Ismael. Izzy for short. 304 00:12:18,946 --> 00:12:21,115 -My name is Johnie. -[Izzy] Johnie! 305 00:12:21,198 --> 00:12:23,451 -How old are you, Johnie? -I am 30 years old. 306 00:12:23,534 --> 00:12:25,244 -[Izzy] Thirty. Nice. -How about you? 307 00:12:25,327 --> 00:12:26,579 I am 29. 308 00:12:26,662 --> 00:12:29,623 Well, I'm 31 next month, so I hope that's not a deal-breaker. 309 00:12:29,707 --> 00:12:32,835 [Izzy] Oh, absolutely not. If anything, I'm into girls older than me, 310 00:12:32,918 --> 00:12:36,630 because, like, usually by that point, the maturity and mental stability 311 00:12:36,714 --> 00:12:38,507 is usually somewhat there, so… 312 00:12:38,591 --> 00:12:41,302 [laughing] I like to think I'm super stable. I'm just kidding. 313 00:12:41,385 --> 00:12:43,220 [Izzy] That's exactly what I'm looking for. 314 00:12:43,304 --> 00:12:49,518 To be honest, I have a track record of crappy relationships. 315 00:12:49,602 --> 00:12:52,021 My last relationship was six months ago, 316 00:12:52,104 --> 00:12:55,566 but I just didn't feel like I was in love with him, to be honest. 317 00:12:55,649 --> 00:13:00,279 -[Izzy] What are you looking for? -Intelligence, dependability, partnership. 318 00:13:00,362 --> 00:13:03,532 Mmm-hmm. What I look for, the independence, for sure. 319 00:13:03,616 --> 00:13:06,869 The mental stability. They're somewhat emotionally intelligent. 320 00:13:06,952 --> 00:13:09,079 Ooh! I'm your girl! 321 00:13:09,163 --> 00:13:12,583 I can tell we would automatically be on the same page from what you described. 322 00:13:12,666 --> 00:13:15,544 I feel comfortable with you, so I'll just be honest with you. 323 00:13:15,628 --> 00:13:18,589 I dated a lot of people with, like, addiction issues. 324 00:13:18,672 --> 00:13:20,883 -Oh, my God, this is, like, a lot. -[Izzy] No, hey. 325 00:13:20,966 --> 00:13:22,593 I'm above the surface-level stuff. 326 00:13:22,676 --> 00:13:24,178 -I need to know everything. -Me too. 327 00:13:24,261 --> 00:13:26,972 I'm finally in a place to choose a good partner for myself, 328 00:13:27,056 --> 00:13:30,226 and I just haven't found the right person. 329 00:13:30,309 --> 00:13:33,979 -Same. I'm at a great spot all around. -I like you already. 330 00:13:34,063 --> 00:13:37,608 [Izzy] I feel like my next relationship, like, I hope is my last. 331 00:13:37,691 --> 00:13:39,860 -[Johnie] Yeah. -It does get lonely. I'm not gonna lie. 332 00:13:40,611 --> 00:13:43,322 Have you been in long-term relationships? 333 00:13:43,948 --> 00:13:45,324 [Izzy] I was actually engaged. 334 00:13:45,908 --> 00:13:49,954 I haven't told anyone else here this, but I've been married once before. 335 00:13:50,955 --> 00:13:54,875 I don't want anyone to think, "Oh, I'm the second husband," you know? 336 00:13:54,959 --> 00:13:59,213 And I think I'm a little afraid that some people will take it that way. 337 00:13:59,296 --> 00:14:01,674 [Izzy] It doesn't freak me out. Doesn't scare me at all. 338 00:14:01,757 --> 00:14:05,386 -[Johnie squeals] -[laughing] 339 00:14:06,095 --> 00:14:09,056 [Izzy] Look, if me and you can potentially get married, 340 00:14:09,139 --> 00:14:11,016 you're not gonna hold anything back from me. 341 00:14:11,100 --> 00:14:13,978 -I'm not gonna hold anything back. -I love you. 342 00:14:14,061 --> 00:14:15,980 [both laughing] 343 00:14:17,231 --> 00:14:20,818 I'm one of six kids. I'm in the middle. 344 00:14:20,901 --> 00:14:23,404 I had a fairly normal upbringing. 345 00:14:23,487 --> 00:14:25,656 My parents are still together. 346 00:14:25,739 --> 00:14:28,868 My mom has always wanted a bunch of grandkids. 347 00:14:28,951 --> 00:14:31,036 [Izzy] Whoo, that was a good date. Yeah, baby! 348 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:33,664 You know, "I'll help raise the grandchildren." 349 00:14:33,747 --> 00:14:35,332 Um… 350 00:14:35,416 --> 00:14:38,502 And then she saw, like, the pattern of my relationships. 351 00:14:39,169 --> 00:14:42,006 [voice breaking] She was like, "Maybe…" Yeah, um… 352 00:14:45,676 --> 00:14:47,428 Yeah, it's hard when your mom says, 353 00:14:47,511 --> 00:14:49,972 "Maybe you're not meant to be in a relationship." 354 00:14:50,890 --> 00:14:52,099 That's my boo. 355 00:14:53,058 --> 00:14:57,980 I'm definitely not a perfect person, but I know I deserve love. 356 00:14:58,063 --> 00:14:59,607 [Chris] Hello, hello. 357 00:14:59,690 --> 00:15:01,984 Hello! What's your name? 358 00:15:02,067 --> 00:15:05,070 -[Chris] Chris Fox. -My name is Johnie. 359 00:15:05,154 --> 00:15:07,448 [Chris] Johnie, nice to meet you. I like that. 360 00:15:07,531 --> 00:15:08,616 Thank you. 361 00:15:08,699 --> 00:15:11,035 -I'm 27. -[Johnie] Okay. 362 00:15:11,118 --> 00:15:15,331 I am in commercial and retail development. 363 00:15:15,414 --> 00:15:17,958 Okay. I am 30. 364 00:15:18,042 --> 00:15:19,668 -[Chris] Very nice. -And I am a lawyer. 365 00:15:19,752 --> 00:15:21,086 Oh, shit. 366 00:15:22,338 --> 00:15:23,964 Big brains over here. 367 00:15:24,048 --> 00:15:24,882 Sounds sexy, 368 00:15:24,965 --> 00:15:28,052 but, um, I just, like, read contracts all day long. 369 00:15:28,135 --> 00:15:31,513 Oh. Well, you know, it sounds sexy. We'll leave it at that. 370 00:15:31,597 --> 00:15:33,682 Okay, thanks. Do you have a dog? 371 00:15:33,766 --> 00:15:35,392 -I foster on the weekends. -[Johnie gasps] 372 00:15:35,476 --> 00:15:37,061 You foster? 373 00:15:37,144 --> 00:15:39,396 -Yes. Yeah. -You're so sweet. 374 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:42,733 -I have a beagle named Barry. -Very cute. 375 00:15:42,816 --> 00:15:45,986 -Barry the Beagle. -Yeah, my dog is my child. 376 00:15:46,070 --> 00:15:48,072 -[Chris] Writing that down now. -[laughs] 377 00:15:48,656 --> 00:15:51,283 Obviously we're getting to know each other in a short amount of time. 378 00:15:51,367 --> 00:15:55,079 [laughs] I've kind of been through the wringer in my past relationships. 379 00:15:55,162 --> 00:15:56,205 [Chris] Sorry to hear that. 380 00:15:56,288 --> 00:15:57,957 I take responsibility for that. 381 00:15:58,040 --> 00:16:00,960 Like, I chose those kind of dudes in the past. 382 00:16:01,043 --> 00:16:03,379 -Very mature of you. -Thank you. 383 00:16:03,462 --> 00:16:06,465 Number one thing for me is being open and communicative. 384 00:16:06,548 --> 00:16:08,842 I feel like people hear "lawyer," and they're like… 385 00:16:08,926 --> 00:16:11,345 -Did I tell you I'm a lawyer? [laughs] -Yes, you did. 386 00:16:11,428 --> 00:16:14,890 I feel like they hear that and think I'm argumentative, and I'm like, "No." 387 00:16:14,974 --> 00:16:17,017 Like, I wanna talk things through. 388 00:16:17,101 --> 00:16:19,019 You just know how to converse with people. 389 00:16:19,103 --> 00:16:22,147 -Check marks are going off on this end. -[Johnie] Oh! 390 00:16:22,231 --> 00:16:24,900 -I really like you, Chris. -Yeah, I really like you too, Johnie. 391 00:16:24,984 --> 00:16:25,901 [Johnie laughs] 392 00:16:26,485 --> 00:16:32,491 This is different than normal dating, because we're all here to get married 393 00:16:32,574 --> 00:16:33,659 and fall in love. 394 00:16:34,535 --> 00:16:38,622 My connection with Johnie is just as natural as it can be. 395 00:16:38,706 --> 00:16:42,376 And I'm just really optimistic. 396 00:16:42,459 --> 00:16:46,755 I really feel that I could be finding my wife here, and it's very… 397 00:16:48,674 --> 00:16:51,885 I can feel it in my body that it's just like… 398 00:16:52,553 --> 00:16:54,638 could definitely be happening already. 399 00:16:54,722 --> 00:16:55,723 [Chris] It's the one! 400 00:16:55,806 --> 00:16:58,183 -[man 1] Whoo! -[man 2] Hey, bro! 401 00:16:58,267 --> 00:16:59,435 [men exclaiming] 402 00:16:59,518 --> 00:17:02,354 [Ernesto] Oh, my God! That was badass. 403 00:17:02,438 --> 00:17:03,897 [Lydia] Oh, my God! 404 00:17:03,981 --> 00:17:07,901 Okay, I wanna live in that pod. Oh, my God! 405 00:17:07,985 --> 00:17:10,863 [chuckles] Lydia. When she started talking about the rocks, baby. 406 00:17:10,946 --> 00:17:12,781 -The key to my heart. -[JP] That's number one? 407 00:17:12,865 --> 00:17:14,992 [Milton] I said, "I putting you at number one." 408 00:17:15,075 --> 00:17:17,536 Dude, if we could go hiking, we can collect some badass samples, 409 00:17:17,619 --> 00:17:19,038 and cut them to 30 nanograms, 410 00:17:19,121 --> 00:17:21,373 and observe them under my polarizing microscope? 411 00:17:21,457 --> 00:17:23,542 What else could a man ask for in this world? 412 00:17:23,625 --> 00:17:25,878 -[man] I'm happy for you, bro. -[exclaims] 413 00:17:25,961 --> 00:17:28,338 -[cork pops] -[women] Whoo! 414 00:17:28,422 --> 00:17:31,633 Guys my age will act a lot different than girls my age. 415 00:17:31,717 --> 00:17:33,844 I wanna say it was Uche or something. 416 00:17:33,927 --> 00:17:35,888 He's boring and nerdy, like… 417 00:17:35,971 --> 00:17:38,223 He was like, "Yeah, I'm straightforward, to the point." 418 00:17:38,307 --> 00:17:39,933 -I said, "I like that." -I like that. 419 00:17:40,017 --> 00:17:41,518 -We love that. -I like it. 420 00:17:41,602 --> 00:17:44,271 -[man] How's it going, Izzy? -[Izzy] We'll talk about that later. 421 00:17:44,354 --> 00:17:47,232 [chuckles] It was first day, yeah. We'll get into it later. 422 00:17:47,316 --> 00:17:48,442 We'll get into it later. 423 00:17:48,525 --> 00:17:51,570 [Stacy] I did have one guy get on the floor and do Pilates. 424 00:17:51,653 --> 00:17:52,946 -No! -[woman] Oh! 425 00:17:53,030 --> 00:17:57,117 It's very weird to date like this. [laughing] 426 00:17:57,743 --> 00:17:59,453 Ernesto burped. 427 00:17:59,536 --> 00:18:02,122 I wanna say in my face, but it wasn't in my face. 428 00:18:02,206 --> 00:18:06,335 [imitates burp] And then just keeps going. And I'm like, "Did you just…" 429 00:18:06,418 --> 00:18:09,713 And he's like, "Ha-ha. Yeah." And I'm like, "I burp a lot." 430 00:18:09,797 --> 00:18:11,423 Say "excuse me." 431 00:18:11,507 --> 00:18:13,425 [Lydia] When I spoke with Milton, he was so sweet. 432 00:18:13,509 --> 00:18:15,511 He was a hot-ass mess. 433 00:18:15,594 --> 00:18:17,638 Awkward date, Milton. 434 00:18:17,721 --> 00:18:23,268 I hit my head on my notebook so many times I left a makeup mark on it. Next. 435 00:18:23,352 --> 00:18:25,479 What about you, Carter? How's your, uh, experience? 436 00:18:25,562 --> 00:18:29,566 His first question, "Do you like to fish?" She said, "No." And he just walked out. 437 00:18:29,650 --> 00:18:31,652 -Well… -[Uche] Then he walked out of the room. 438 00:18:31,735 --> 00:18:34,404 -I wrote "no" next to Carter. [laughing] -Stop! 439 00:18:34,488 --> 00:18:35,906 [Stacy] I liked Carter. 440 00:18:35,989 --> 00:18:38,659 I am dying to know what Carter looks like. 441 00:18:38,742 --> 00:18:42,454 Anything-In-A-Can Carter. Cheap-Beer Carter. 442 00:18:42,538 --> 00:18:48,127 He is a country bumpkin, but I just feel like "fee-fi-fo-fum." 443 00:18:48,210 --> 00:18:50,170 That is what I'm picturing for Carter. 444 00:18:50,254 --> 00:18:53,298 -Who's your number one? -Who's your number one? 445 00:18:53,382 --> 00:18:56,718 -[Stacy] Izzy. -[laughing] You know… 446 00:18:56,802 --> 00:18:59,513 I actually have a really good connection with Izzy. 447 00:18:59,596 --> 00:19:02,432 And he has a really cute laugh. I love his laugh. 448 00:19:02,933 --> 00:19:04,810 I'll let all these girls drop like flies. 449 00:19:04,893 --> 00:19:06,353 Hold on, who's your number one? 450 00:19:06,436 --> 00:19:08,021 -Izzy? -I think Izzy. 451 00:19:08,105 --> 00:19:09,690 [Lydia] How was it? 452 00:19:09,773 --> 00:19:12,067 Are you hoping I like someone else more? 453 00:19:12,151 --> 00:19:13,110 [both laughing] 454 00:19:13,193 --> 00:19:15,279 -[Izzy] Cheers, y'all! -[Milton] Let's fuckin' go. 455 00:19:15,362 --> 00:19:16,822 [all cheering] 456 00:19:16,905 --> 00:19:18,240 It's day one, guys. 457 00:19:18,323 --> 00:19:21,118 [all cheering] 458 00:19:22,369 --> 00:19:23,412 Whoo-hoo! 459 00:19:23,495 --> 00:19:25,622 [cheering continues] 460 00:19:28,834 --> 00:19:31,920 [upbeat music playing] 461 00:19:33,422 --> 00:19:36,842 -[man 1] Is it hot? -[man 2] Hotter. Do the butter test, man. 462 00:19:36,925 --> 00:19:39,344 -[Aaliyah] Who makes good eggs? -[Lydia] We doing scrambles? 463 00:19:39,428 --> 00:19:41,180 -[Aaliyah] Sunny-side up. -Oh! 464 00:19:41,263 --> 00:19:42,222 [all gasp] 465 00:19:42,306 --> 00:19:43,974 [Aaliyah] Spill on aisle one. 466 00:19:44,057 --> 00:19:48,604 [Johnie] I hope that these boys aren't looking for a chef, watching that. 467 00:19:49,354 --> 00:19:51,440 [Stacy] This bacon is ten out of ten. 468 00:19:52,024 --> 00:19:54,276 Day one in the pods was rush, rush, rush. 469 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:56,695 I was so nervous. 470 00:19:56,778 --> 00:20:01,074 I wanna get married because, one, I want to have a family one day. 471 00:20:01,158 --> 00:20:03,202 And I feel like now's a good time 472 00:20:03,285 --> 00:20:07,122 because in the past, I don't think I truly loved myself. 473 00:20:09,541 --> 00:20:10,542 [stifling tears] 474 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:13,754 Sorry. 475 00:20:13,837 --> 00:20:16,590 [sniffles] Ugh. 476 00:20:17,174 --> 00:20:19,134 Yeah. I struggled with, uh… 477 00:20:19,218 --> 00:20:21,720 [sniffling] Like, loving myself. 478 00:20:22,262 --> 00:20:24,014 And I feel like I… 479 00:20:24,556 --> 00:20:26,808 ugh, let myself go. 480 00:20:27,809 --> 00:20:30,729 And, um… [sniffles] 481 00:20:31,438 --> 00:20:34,691 [chuckles] I… I love myself now. 482 00:20:34,775 --> 00:20:37,986 And, um, I'm, like, ready to love somebody else. 483 00:20:38,070 --> 00:20:39,112 Like, give it my all. 484 00:20:39,196 --> 00:20:43,367 So when I got this opportunity, I was like, "Why wouldn't I try it?" 485 00:20:44,701 --> 00:20:47,454 -[JP] Hello, hello. -[Taylor] Hi. Who am I speaking with? 486 00:20:47,537 --> 00:20:48,789 Uh, this is JP. 487 00:20:48,872 --> 00:20:49,998 [Taylor] Hi, JP. 488 00:20:50,082 --> 00:20:51,959 -[JP] Who am I speaking with? -Taylor. 489 00:20:52,042 --> 00:20:53,961 -[JP] What's up? -Did you sleep okay last night? 490 00:20:54,044 --> 00:20:56,505 -[JP] Yeah. -Good. I did not. 491 00:20:56,588 --> 00:20:59,091 -You did not? You were nervous or what? -Yeah, I guess. 492 00:20:59,174 --> 00:21:01,843 I also get up, like, twice in the middle of the night to go pee. 493 00:21:01,927 --> 00:21:03,011 [laughs] 494 00:21:03,095 --> 00:21:05,138 -[JP] I'm a terrible sleeper. -What? 495 00:21:05,222 --> 00:21:06,139 My job, it's-- 496 00:21:06,223 --> 00:21:07,808 You, like, sleep at the… 497 00:21:07,891 --> 00:21:09,101 -[JP] The firehouse. -Yeah. 498 00:21:09,184 --> 00:21:10,519 [JP] So, we work 24-hour shifts. 499 00:21:10,602 --> 00:21:12,980 Sometimes we wake up three or four times in the night 500 00:21:13,063 --> 00:21:14,189 and have to go do stuff. 501 00:21:14,273 --> 00:21:17,484 -That's a scary job, I feel like. -Everybody says that, but it's… 502 00:21:17,567 --> 00:21:20,779 I mean, it's scary 'cause you go into a burning building, 503 00:21:20,862 --> 00:21:24,241 and you really can't see anything, and you're going to put a fire out, 504 00:21:24,324 --> 00:21:25,534 but it's actually like-- 505 00:21:25,617 --> 00:21:28,495 -[laughs] Only a little bit scary. -[JP] It's the adrenaline rush. 506 00:21:28,578 --> 00:21:31,915 And it's more camaraderie with, uh, your crew. 507 00:21:31,999 --> 00:21:33,208 Honestly, it's a lot of fun. 508 00:21:33,292 --> 00:21:36,628 Let's see. I wrote, "divorced parents, two sisters," 509 00:21:36,712 --> 00:21:39,256 and you went to Parkwood, which is where I teach. 510 00:21:39,339 --> 00:21:41,800 [JP] What's your favorite part about teaching kindergarten? 511 00:21:41,883 --> 00:21:44,136 I feel like they're just my babies, you know? 512 00:21:44,219 --> 00:21:45,762 Some will remember me, but the others, 513 00:21:45,846 --> 00:21:47,931 I'm like, "Are you gonna remember me one day?" 514 00:21:48,015 --> 00:21:50,517 -[JP] I loved my kindergarten teacher. -You remember her? 515 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,811 -Oh, 100%. Mrs. Wilburn. -[Taylor] That's exciting. 516 00:21:52,894 --> 00:21:55,147 We'll see after this. Hopefully, you'll remember me. 517 00:21:55,230 --> 00:21:56,106 [chuckles] 518 00:21:56,189 --> 00:21:58,317 [Taylor] I want someone who's hardworking. 519 00:21:59,109 --> 00:22:02,279 I think being married at least for a couple years 520 00:22:02,362 --> 00:22:05,866 before we have kids, just so we get our time together, 521 00:22:05,949 --> 00:22:07,868 'cause I think once you have kids, um… 522 00:22:07,951 --> 00:22:09,786 -[JP] It's all about the kids. -Yeah. 523 00:22:09,870 --> 00:22:12,873 -But in my near future, absolutely. -That's how I feel. 524 00:22:14,207 --> 00:22:15,375 Do you like to cook? 525 00:22:15,459 --> 00:22:18,211 -I've gotten better at it, um-- -You don't have to cook. 526 00:22:18,295 --> 00:22:20,047 -I'll cook for you. -Okay. [laughs] 527 00:22:20,130 --> 00:22:22,215 What's, like, your favorite thing to cook? 528 00:22:22,299 --> 00:22:25,635 [JP] Uh, I like prime rib, stuffed chicken, chicken Alfredo. 529 00:22:25,719 --> 00:22:28,805 Can you cook, um, like, a good grilled cheese? [chuckles] 530 00:22:28,889 --> 00:22:31,058 That's, like, one of my favorite foods. 531 00:22:31,141 --> 00:22:32,559 -Seriously. -Just bread and cheese? 532 00:22:32,642 --> 00:22:33,852 Yeah. Just bread and cheese. 533 00:22:33,935 --> 00:22:36,521 I can cook anything. And I can cook grilled cheese. 534 00:22:36,605 --> 00:22:38,523 [both laugh] 535 00:22:38,607 --> 00:22:41,193 [Taylor] I think we have very similar… 536 00:22:41,276 --> 00:22:42,611 -[JP] Values? -Yeah. 537 00:22:42,694 --> 00:22:44,196 So far, at least. 538 00:22:44,863 --> 00:22:50,243 I was actually, like, drawn to you from, like, our first ten-minute interaction. 539 00:22:50,327 --> 00:22:53,246 -I thought you were sweet. -[JP] I'm definitely sweet. 540 00:22:53,330 --> 00:22:55,457 My mom dipped me in sugar as soon as I was born. 541 00:22:55,540 --> 00:22:58,710 -That's why I'm so sweet. -[laughs] And you're silly. 542 00:22:58,794 --> 00:23:01,171 -You're kind of silly. I like that. -[JP laughs] 543 00:23:01,254 --> 00:23:03,924 Uh, but yeah. And I was drawn to you. 544 00:23:05,133 --> 00:23:06,218 Yeah, I was drawn to you. 545 00:23:06,301 --> 00:23:08,845 I actually told one of the girls that I was drawn to you. 546 00:23:09,429 --> 00:23:14,142 I was definitely drawn to you too. You seem like a really good person. 547 00:23:14,226 --> 00:23:17,104 -[Taylor] Thanks. -I'll stop talking to every other girl. 548 00:23:17,187 --> 00:23:18,647 Yeah, please. 549 00:23:18,730 --> 00:23:20,982 [laughs] Just propose now. 550 00:23:22,401 --> 00:23:23,485 I'm kidding! 551 00:23:23,568 --> 00:23:25,070 -I would. -Whatever. 552 00:23:25,153 --> 00:23:27,948 -Right now you would propose to me? -Right now. For sure. 553 00:23:28,031 --> 00:23:30,033 -Okay, we'll see. -[uplifting music playing] 554 00:23:30,117 --> 00:23:33,829 ♪ I believe hope Is gonna change the world ♪ 555 00:23:33,912 --> 00:23:37,082 ♪ Oh, it's gonna change the world I know ♪ 556 00:23:37,165 --> 00:23:39,668 ♪ It's gonna change the world… ♪ 557 00:23:39,751 --> 00:23:41,670 -[Izzy] Good one? -[JP] That was a good one. 558 00:23:41,753 --> 00:23:43,880 -[Izzy] Attaboy! -I would propose to her right now. 559 00:23:43,964 --> 00:23:45,632 [Izzy] I love that for you, brother. 560 00:23:45,715 --> 00:23:50,470 ♪ A change, a change, a change, a change A change is coming in today ♪ 561 00:23:50,554 --> 00:23:51,847 ♪ Oh! ♪ 562 00:23:53,557 --> 00:23:56,768 ♪ A change, a change, a change A change is coming ♪ 563 00:23:56,852 --> 00:24:01,440 Ultimately, I just wanna get it down to, like, two or three. 564 00:24:01,523 --> 00:24:03,525 -Yeah. -You can't focus on that many people. 565 00:24:03,608 --> 00:24:06,611 I don't know if you ever had, like, online dating apps 566 00:24:06,695 --> 00:24:08,488 where you match with a whole bunch of people. 567 00:24:08,572 --> 00:24:10,740 "This is too many decisions. I just wanna--" 568 00:24:10,824 --> 00:24:13,618 People are wondering, like, why people get so tired. 569 00:24:13,702 --> 00:24:17,080 That's so taxing, bro, having that many conversations. 570 00:24:17,164 --> 00:24:17,998 Exactly. 571 00:24:18,081 --> 00:24:21,751 I think what's different with this experience in the pods 572 00:24:21,835 --> 00:24:23,295 versus the real world 573 00:24:23,378 --> 00:24:27,174 is that you don't have any distractions at all. 574 00:24:27,257 --> 00:24:29,050 [man] See y'all on the other side. 575 00:24:29,134 --> 00:24:31,219 [Uche] You're here to literally focus on one thing, 576 00:24:31,303 --> 00:24:36,016 and that's finding that person that's for you to hold your standards high 577 00:24:36,099 --> 00:24:39,895 and be able to establish that connection that's going to lead to marriage. 578 00:24:39,978 --> 00:24:42,105 -Hey, there. -Hello. 579 00:24:42,189 --> 00:24:43,231 It's Uche. 580 00:24:43,315 --> 00:24:45,942 Hi, Uche! It's Miriam. 581 00:24:46,026 --> 00:24:49,112 [Uche] Great to speak with you again. I was hoping it was gonna be you. 582 00:24:49,196 --> 00:24:50,197 Oh, that's sweet. 583 00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:52,908 [Uche] Miriam, you were born and raised in Nigeria, correct? 584 00:24:52,991 --> 00:24:56,369 -[Miriam] Yeah, yeah, yeah. -So, remind me, you came here alone? 585 00:24:56,453 --> 00:24:59,831 Hmm. Well, yeah, but I have family here. 586 00:24:59,915 --> 00:25:04,794 [chuckles] I had the option to go to England or the US 587 00:25:04,878 --> 00:25:07,506 for my college education, 588 00:25:07,589 --> 00:25:10,675 and I chose the US because it's a better place for medicine. 589 00:25:10,759 --> 00:25:13,136 [chuckles] 'Cause, yeah, at first I was gonna study medicine. 590 00:25:13,220 --> 00:25:15,972 [Uche] You were going to study medicine. What did you end up doing? 591 00:25:16,056 --> 00:25:19,392 I ended up exploring a career in chemistry, so I'm a scientist. 592 00:25:19,476 --> 00:25:20,685 What type of science? 593 00:25:20,769 --> 00:25:24,147 Um, I've worked in different industries. 594 00:25:24,231 --> 00:25:25,815 [Uche] Okay, what are you doing now? 595 00:25:25,899 --> 00:25:28,693 Working in academia, but I work overseas. 596 00:25:28,777 --> 00:25:30,153 Oh, where overseas? 597 00:25:30,237 --> 00:25:31,655 In the Middle East. [laughs] 598 00:25:31,738 --> 00:25:33,448 You work in the Middle East? 599 00:25:33,532 --> 00:25:37,077 Yeah, but I'm gonna be moving back to Houston full-time soon. 600 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:39,204 Okay. When are you moving back? 601 00:25:39,287 --> 00:25:42,874 -Um, pretty much in a couple of weeks. -Okay. 602 00:25:42,958 --> 00:25:44,334 When you move back to Houston, 603 00:25:44,417 --> 00:25:46,169 where do you think you're gonna be moving to? 604 00:25:46,253 --> 00:25:47,754 -I already moved back. -Already? 605 00:25:47,837 --> 00:25:48,922 I live in River Oaks. 606 00:25:49,005 --> 00:25:52,467 I miss home. So, yeah, I'm back in the city. 607 00:25:52,551 --> 00:25:55,345 I also see my business thriving. 608 00:25:55,929 --> 00:25:58,098 -[Uche] Which kind of business? -Skincare. [chuckles] 609 00:25:58,181 --> 00:26:02,435 -[Uche] Like dermatology? -Well, not dermatology, but, um… 610 00:26:03,353 --> 00:26:06,439 -Selling skincare products? -[Miriam laughs] No. 611 00:26:06,523 --> 00:26:08,358 Um, offering… 612 00:26:10,819 --> 00:26:11,653 a… 613 00:26:12,237 --> 00:26:13,655 a distinct… 614 00:26:13,738 --> 00:26:17,367 mmm, composition. 615 00:26:17,450 --> 00:26:20,245 -I feel like that's very ambiguous. -[both laugh] 616 00:26:20,328 --> 00:26:22,664 -[dance music playing] -♪ On to the next one… ♪ 617 00:26:22,747 --> 00:26:24,165 Hey, there, it's Uche. 618 00:26:24,249 --> 00:26:26,960 Hi, Uche. This is Aaliyah. 619 00:26:27,043 --> 00:26:29,129 -[Uche] Aaliyah. -Hi! 620 00:26:29,212 --> 00:26:31,172 I was hoping I would be speaking with you again. 621 00:26:31,256 --> 00:26:33,466 -[Aaliyah] Me too. I'm so glad. -[laughs] 622 00:26:33,550 --> 00:26:36,052 You kind of have, like, a nerdy vibe. 623 00:26:36,136 --> 00:26:39,347 "A nerdy vibe." Is that a good thing or a bad thing? 624 00:26:39,431 --> 00:26:41,474 [Aaliyah] I mean, I like nerdy men. I'm not gonna lie. 625 00:26:41,558 --> 00:26:43,184 -That's something that… -[chuckles] 626 00:26:43,268 --> 00:26:45,937 Honestly, I feel like I have multiple sides to me. 627 00:26:46,021 --> 00:26:48,315 [Uche] Yeah. Is one of those sides a little bit nerdy? 628 00:26:48,398 --> 00:26:50,859 -Yes. I like to read. -Okay. 629 00:26:50,942 --> 00:26:52,861 [Aaliyah] I play solitaire. 630 00:26:52,944 --> 00:26:57,699 I like random anime movies from when I lived in Japan as a kid 631 00:26:57,782 --> 00:26:58,908 that I still watch. 632 00:26:58,992 --> 00:27:00,410 Why were you in Japan? 633 00:27:00,493 --> 00:27:02,370 [Aaliyah] Uh, my parents were in the Air Force. 634 00:27:02,454 --> 00:27:04,080 -[Uche] Oh, awesome. -Yes. 635 00:27:04,164 --> 00:27:07,417 I was there nine and a half years and then we moved to Texas. 636 00:27:07,500 --> 00:27:10,128 -I got started with my nursing career. -[Uche] Okay. 637 00:27:10,211 --> 00:27:11,755 I wanted to work in the Medical Center. 638 00:27:11,838 --> 00:27:14,257 'Cause that's, like, the biggest medical center in the region. 639 00:27:14,341 --> 00:27:16,551 -Absolutely, yeah. -[Aaliyah] Best surgeons and… 640 00:27:16,635 --> 00:27:20,096 I work in CV, which is, like, cardiovascular surgery. 641 00:27:20,180 --> 00:27:22,057 What do you do for a living? 642 00:27:22,140 --> 00:27:25,769 I'm a lawyer by trade, so, you know, people think I argue for a living, 643 00:27:25,852 --> 00:27:27,562 but I own a software company. 644 00:27:27,646 --> 00:27:28,647 [Aaliyah] Oh, awesome. 645 00:27:28,730 --> 00:27:31,733 That's probably where the nerdy vibe, you know, comes from. 646 00:27:31,816 --> 00:27:33,151 [both laugh] 647 00:27:33,234 --> 00:27:37,781 Something that I absolutely love and enjoy. I enjoy being my own boss. 648 00:27:37,864 --> 00:27:40,825 Now I'm like, "I wanna be my own boss as well." 649 00:27:40,909 --> 00:27:43,745 It would be nice to have a partner who can kind of, like, 650 00:27:43,828 --> 00:27:46,498 you know, catapult me in the right direction a little bit, 651 00:27:46,581 --> 00:27:48,458 especially if they have more experience. 652 00:27:48,541 --> 00:27:51,836 You are so ambitious, and you're so motivated, 653 00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:53,922 and that's the number one thing 654 00:27:54,005 --> 00:27:57,342 that I look for in somebody, and I definitely see that in you. 655 00:27:57,425 --> 00:28:01,513 Thank you. You get some points for that, Uche. 656 00:28:01,596 --> 00:28:03,932 [both laugh] 657 00:28:04,015 --> 00:28:07,310 -[uplifting music playing] -♪ You can't do wrong ♪ 658 00:28:10,355 --> 00:28:14,067 -[dance music playing] -♪ I'm getting ready, baby, fill my cup ♪ 659 00:28:14,150 --> 00:28:16,486 I don't ask someone, like, how many people they slept with. 660 00:28:16,569 --> 00:28:18,321 [Aaliyah] Me neither. I don't care. 661 00:28:18,405 --> 00:28:23,118 As long as everyone's, like, safe, and clean, and healthy. 662 00:28:23,201 --> 00:28:26,121 [Aaliyah] Yeah. Everybody has a past at this point. 663 00:28:26,204 --> 00:28:28,081 We're older in life. This is not… 664 00:28:28,164 --> 00:28:30,875 -I'm not trying to-- -[Renee] I don't ask any of that stuff. 665 00:28:30,959 --> 00:28:33,044 -I want them to be experienced. -Right. 666 00:28:33,128 --> 00:28:34,003 So sexy. 667 00:28:34,629 --> 00:28:36,256 -You need to be teachable. -[Renee] Yeah. 668 00:28:36,339 --> 00:28:37,382 On both sides. 669 00:28:37,465 --> 00:28:40,802 Physical intimacy looks different for everyone. 670 00:28:40,885 --> 00:28:44,097 -[dance music playing] -♪ Are you ready for it? Yeah, yeah ♪ 671 00:28:46,057 --> 00:28:47,058 ♪ Are you ready for it? ♪ 672 00:28:47,142 --> 00:28:51,146 You have to be willing to be open and talk about those things. 673 00:28:51,229 --> 00:28:53,106 And I know my sex drive, so… 674 00:28:53,189 --> 00:28:55,859 Uh… [laughing] 675 00:28:55,942 --> 00:28:57,610 I'm just saying. [laughs] 676 00:28:58,194 --> 00:29:00,029 [Aaliyah] What turns you on more? 677 00:29:00,113 --> 00:29:03,575 Like, softer moans, or, like, when it's aggressive? 678 00:29:03,658 --> 00:29:05,618 -I'm not even gonna lie. I'm a freak. -Me too. 679 00:29:05,702 --> 00:29:07,579 [laughing] 680 00:29:07,662 --> 00:29:09,581 -[Renee] Are you a handyman? -Oh, yeah. 681 00:29:09,664 --> 00:29:13,918 I could see a man see something messed up and start fixing it and just get wet. 682 00:29:15,712 --> 00:29:17,297 I'm really good at cunnilingus. 683 00:29:17,380 --> 00:29:20,258 I know it's my God-given talent. Everybody gets one God-given talent. 684 00:29:20,341 --> 00:29:21,718 Ooh! 685 00:29:21,801 --> 00:29:24,053 Favorite sexual position? 686 00:29:24,137 --> 00:29:24,971 Yes. 687 00:29:25,054 --> 00:29:28,057 -[Taylor] Yes. All. -[both laugh] 688 00:29:28,141 --> 00:29:30,351 -Are you a good kisser? -Yes. 689 00:29:30,435 --> 00:29:32,103 -[Josh] Same. -Ask my hand. 690 00:29:32,187 --> 00:29:33,563 Oh, yeah. 691 00:29:33,646 --> 00:29:35,315 -Ask my pillow and my hand. -[Stacy laughs] 692 00:29:35,398 --> 00:29:37,025 You have made out with your pillow? 693 00:29:37,108 --> 00:29:38,610 Yeah. You don't do that? 694 00:29:39,277 --> 00:29:41,446 -[Renee] Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds. -That's cute. 695 00:29:41,529 --> 00:29:44,908 He's so funny, and she's perfect to begin with, so that-- 696 00:29:44,991 --> 00:29:47,786 Yeah. Let's take a moment of silence for both of 'em, 'cause holy shit. 697 00:29:47,869 --> 00:29:48,703 [Renee] 'Kay. 698 00:29:50,121 --> 00:29:52,999 -Okay. That's enough. Um, so… [laughs] -[Carter laughs] Okay. 699 00:29:53,082 --> 00:29:55,043 [Stacy] You wanna know a special talent of mine? 700 00:29:55,126 --> 00:29:56,294 [Izzy] Yes. 701 00:29:56,377 --> 00:29:59,672 Like, I could look at your feet and just guess your shoe size. 702 00:29:59,756 --> 00:30:01,758 99% of the time I can guess it. 703 00:30:01,841 --> 00:30:02,675 Really? 704 00:30:02,759 --> 00:30:05,053 [Stacy] Yeah. I did it one time at the rodeo. 705 00:30:05,136 --> 00:30:07,764 This guy was being a dick. I looked at his feet, and they were small. 706 00:30:07,847 --> 00:30:09,557 I was like, "What are you, a size six?" 707 00:30:09,641 --> 00:30:12,560 And then this guy was like, "Tell me how big mine are." 708 00:30:12,644 --> 00:30:15,563 He had a fucking flipper. So I was like, "Uh, like a 13." 709 00:30:15,647 --> 00:30:18,525 Then all these guys like, "What size am I? What size am I?" 710 00:30:18,608 --> 00:30:20,985 That's where it started. I was like, "I am good at this." 711 00:30:21,069 --> 00:30:24,155 [Izzy] I can already tell you're, like, the fun girl when you're out. 712 00:30:24,239 --> 00:30:25,657 -Yup! -[Izzy] Which I love. 713 00:30:25,740 --> 00:30:27,992 Stacy's very loud and fun, 714 00:30:28,076 --> 00:30:30,537 and that's exciting because that's how I am. 715 00:30:30,620 --> 00:30:32,997 At the bar, I'll walk by, smack your ass, then laugh about it. 716 00:30:33,081 --> 00:30:34,332 [Izzy] Oh, my God. Yes. 717 00:30:34,415 --> 00:30:37,585 I'm just like… I'm just raunchy, and weird, and like-- 718 00:30:37,669 --> 00:30:40,171 -What do you define raunchy as? -You. 719 00:30:40,255 --> 00:30:42,799 [laughing] 720 00:30:42,882 --> 00:30:45,635 [Izzy] I can definitely see myself with Stacy. 721 00:30:45,718 --> 00:30:47,428 You know, she's confident and everything, 722 00:30:47,512 --> 00:30:49,514 and, like, that's what I want in a partner. 723 00:30:49,597 --> 00:30:50,932 But then there's, like, Johnie. 724 00:30:51,015 --> 00:30:56,312 Johnie is very, like, calm, and sweet, and tender, you know. 725 00:30:56,396 --> 00:30:58,106 How are you, honey? You good? 726 00:30:58,189 --> 00:30:59,357 [Johnie] I'm good. 727 00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:02,151 -I've been waiting all day to talk to you. -[Izzy] Same. 728 00:31:02,235 --> 00:31:05,697 I really just kind of wanna fully take in the experience with these girls, 729 00:31:05,780 --> 00:31:07,448 because I really wanna narrow it down. 730 00:31:08,283 --> 00:31:10,618 -What you wearing today? -[laughing] 731 00:31:10,702 --> 00:31:13,997 -I have a red dress on. -Ooh! 732 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,916 Are you a cuddler? Are you not? You need that space? 733 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:20,169 I'm definitely a mixed bag, 734 00:31:20,253 --> 00:31:24,132 but, like, I think the relationships I feel the most, I'm really affectionate. 735 00:31:24,215 --> 00:31:26,968 Are you open-minded in the bedroom to explore? 736 00:31:27,051 --> 00:31:30,013 -Yeah, I'm kind of shy with this stuff. -[Izzy] Are you? 737 00:31:30,096 --> 00:31:31,890 They say the shy ones are the freakiest, so… 738 00:31:31,973 --> 00:31:32,974 Well… 739 00:31:33,057 --> 00:31:34,851 Well, they may not be wrong. 740 00:31:34,934 --> 00:31:37,145 -[both laugh] -[Izzy] What type of kisser are you? 741 00:31:37,228 --> 00:31:40,189 I think I'm a great kisser. [laughs] No, I'm just kidding. 742 00:31:40,273 --> 00:31:43,860 [chuckles] Oh, hey, I agree. Same. My Google reviews are up there. 743 00:31:43,943 --> 00:31:47,030 -Oh, my God. I'm gonna check Yelp. -[Izzy laughs] 744 00:31:47,113 --> 00:31:49,240 Yeah, check my Yelp. [laughs] 745 00:31:49,324 --> 00:31:51,034 Lights on or off during sex? 746 00:31:53,620 --> 00:31:55,705 -They can be on on. -Yes! 747 00:31:55,788 --> 00:31:57,665 But if it's the middle of the night, 748 00:31:57,749 --> 00:31:59,459 and something's happening, 749 00:31:59,542 --> 00:32:01,794 I'm not going to be like, "Turn the lights on!" 750 00:32:01,878 --> 00:32:05,089 [both laughing] 751 00:32:05,173 --> 00:32:08,384 Unless we get, like, the clap-on… Like, clap it. 752 00:32:08,468 --> 00:32:10,553 Might be giving you some booty claps. 753 00:32:10,637 --> 00:32:13,598 -Lights on right now. -[Izzy laughs] 754 00:32:13,681 --> 00:32:16,684 All right, how's your connections been? 755 00:32:17,310 --> 00:32:20,980 [Johnie] I would say, I have, like, a few… 756 00:32:21,064 --> 00:32:24,734 -[Izzy] Uh-huh. -But definitely you're the strongest. 757 00:32:24,817 --> 00:32:26,486 [Izzy] I'm right there with you. 758 00:32:26,569 --> 00:32:29,489 -[upbeat music playing] -♪ I won't fall asleep ♪ 759 00:32:29,572 --> 00:32:31,449 ♪ Now I'm caught in a dream ♪ 760 00:32:31,532 --> 00:32:34,953 ♪ Now, come on Come on, let's make it ours… ♪ 761 00:32:35,036 --> 00:32:37,372 [indistinct chatter] 762 00:32:37,455 --> 00:32:40,249 [man] Oh, yeah! Bus it. Down. 763 00:32:41,084 --> 00:32:43,252 [Chris] Ooh, there's a lot of games in here. 764 00:32:43,336 --> 00:32:44,879 I grabbed the cards. 765 00:32:44,963 --> 00:32:46,714 Yeah, I think that's Let's Get Deep. 766 00:32:46,798 --> 00:32:48,216 [Chris] Yes, Let's Get Deep. 767 00:32:49,133 --> 00:32:52,971 "What do you wish health class had taught you about sex?" 768 00:32:53,054 --> 00:32:55,598 [Johnie] Mmm… nothing. 769 00:32:55,682 --> 00:32:57,600 [laughs] I wish I hadn't had a fucking health-- 770 00:32:57,684 --> 00:32:59,060 [Chris] No health class? 771 00:32:59,143 --> 00:33:01,980 Health class starts with, "Guys, everyone say 'vagina' three times." 772 00:33:02,063 --> 00:33:04,440 -[Johnie laughs] Yes. -"Vagina, vagina, vagina." 773 00:33:04,524 --> 00:33:06,776 "Everyone say 'penis' three times." [laughs] 774 00:33:06,859 --> 00:33:09,362 -That's not a good one. Draw another one. -[Chris] Okay. 775 00:33:09,445 --> 00:33:11,280 I don't need them to teach me anything. 776 00:33:11,364 --> 00:33:13,908 -We're just gonna go deeper. -We can go deeper. 777 00:33:15,159 --> 00:33:17,996 [Chris] "If you could change how you lost your virginity, would you?" 778 00:33:18,079 --> 00:33:19,288 Oh! 779 00:33:19,372 --> 00:33:20,707 That is a deeper one. 780 00:33:20,790 --> 00:33:24,585 So, I lost my virginity, 781 00:33:25,086 --> 00:33:28,798 like, my junior or senior year in high school? 782 00:33:29,382 --> 00:33:30,883 When did you lose yours? 783 00:33:33,553 --> 00:33:34,595 Um… 784 00:33:34,679 --> 00:33:36,055 You don't want to say? 785 00:33:37,557 --> 00:33:39,100 No, uh… 786 00:33:40,101 --> 00:33:45,398 I've told everyone for a very, very long time 787 00:33:46,024 --> 00:33:50,319 that I lost it my junior year to this girl. 788 00:33:50,403 --> 00:33:51,237 Okay. 789 00:33:51,821 --> 00:33:53,072 [Chris] Um… 790 00:33:54,115 --> 00:33:55,158 And… 791 00:33:57,410 --> 00:34:00,913 I don't know. I feel like this whole experience is about honesty and truth. 792 00:34:00,997 --> 00:34:01,956 [Johnie] Mmm-hmm. 793 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:05,877 And I do feel, like, very, very comfortable with you. 794 00:34:07,628 --> 00:34:08,629 Um… 795 00:34:09,630 --> 00:34:11,466 I took a trip. 796 00:34:12,717 --> 00:34:16,304 And we went to Mexico, and… [sighs] 797 00:34:17,597 --> 00:34:21,309 Like, we met these girls there, 798 00:34:21,392 --> 00:34:24,645 and we were all drinking tequila in the suite. 799 00:34:24,729 --> 00:34:27,356 Me, my friend, and these two girls. 800 00:34:28,399 --> 00:34:30,985 And, um, this girl, like… 801 00:34:37,033 --> 00:34:38,367 I was ready to go to bed, 802 00:34:38,451 --> 00:34:40,536 and she pressured herself on me. 803 00:34:42,747 --> 00:34:46,501 And I know it's, like, hard to imagine… 804 00:34:47,877 --> 00:34:52,381 Like, I feel like there's a stigma on guys being… 805 00:34:53,049 --> 00:34:54,592 pushed into sex. 806 00:34:54,675 --> 00:34:55,760 [Johnie] Yeah. 807 00:34:55,843 --> 00:34:57,303 [Chris] 'Cause, like, oh, you know, 808 00:34:57,386 --> 00:34:59,555 you have to get hard, and then you have to do it. 809 00:34:59,639 --> 00:35:02,016 -You know? -Yeah. [clears throat] 810 00:35:02,100 --> 00:35:03,851 [Chris] And I just remember 811 00:35:05,311 --> 00:35:08,314 my friend in the twin bed next to me. 812 00:35:08,981 --> 00:35:11,442 And she was… 813 00:35:12,276 --> 00:35:15,947 getting on top of me, and I specifically remember saying no. 814 00:35:16,030 --> 00:35:17,907 -Yeah. -[Chris] Like, multiple times. 815 00:35:17,990 --> 00:35:20,243 Like, "No, I don't wanna do this." 816 00:35:20,326 --> 00:35:21,160 Yeah. 817 00:35:21,744 --> 00:35:26,249 Um, but I just felt pressure from her, and then… 818 00:35:26,749 --> 00:35:30,628 like, that's how I lost my virginity. 819 00:35:31,129 --> 00:35:33,256 Wow. When was that? 820 00:35:33,923 --> 00:35:35,508 [Chris] That was when we were… 821 00:35:37,093 --> 00:35:38,427 seventeen. 822 00:35:39,178 --> 00:35:41,013 I'm sorry that happened to you. 823 00:35:42,265 --> 00:35:43,141 It's okay. I've-- 824 00:35:43,224 --> 00:35:46,644 [Johnie] It definitely sounds like you were taken advantage of, 825 00:35:46,727 --> 00:35:51,107 so don't make excuses for, like, her, 826 00:35:51,190 --> 00:35:52,650 'cause that's not okay. 827 00:35:52,733 --> 00:35:57,655 I'm just sorry that happened to you. Especially, like, your first time, like… 828 00:35:58,281 --> 00:36:00,449 [Chris] Yeah. I appreciate it. 829 00:36:01,450 --> 00:36:07,081 I don't know what it is about this place, but I feel like I can just unload 830 00:36:07,165 --> 00:36:09,584 all my deepest secrets to you. 831 00:36:09,667 --> 00:36:13,212 -[Johnie] Yeah, trust me. I understand. -Um… 832 00:36:13,296 --> 00:36:14,589 I'm glad you told me. 833 00:36:14,672 --> 00:36:17,842 That makes me feel closer to you. 834 00:36:18,342 --> 00:36:20,094 I do feel safe with you. 835 00:36:20,178 --> 00:36:23,431 And I want you to know everything about me 836 00:36:23,514 --> 00:36:25,600 'cause I want to know everything about you. 837 00:36:25,683 --> 00:36:27,685 -[Johnie] Same. -And it's just so easy with you. 838 00:36:27,768 --> 00:36:31,022 And I love talking to you. 839 00:36:32,190 --> 00:36:35,526 -And I wanna be with you all the time. -I like you too. 840 00:36:36,235 --> 00:36:39,488 I definitely would say that the baby brother of love 841 00:36:39,572 --> 00:36:41,282 is caring for someone. 842 00:36:41,365 --> 00:36:45,369 And I definitely care tremendously about Johnie. 843 00:36:45,453 --> 00:36:46,287 You know, it's… 844 00:36:46,370 --> 00:36:49,415 Just a little, little care and then it grows into love. 845 00:36:50,666 --> 00:36:53,544 [chuckles] It's the seed, and then it grows in. 846 00:36:53,628 --> 00:36:55,713 I'm just gonna stop. [chuckles] 847 00:36:55,796 --> 00:36:57,798 [emotional music playing] 848 00:37:03,346 --> 00:37:07,183 [Lydia] Hey! Hey! Hey! Hey! Hey! Hey! 849 00:37:07,266 --> 00:37:12,146 I'm a big personality, and I love hard. I love to laugh. I love to make jokes. 850 00:37:12,230 --> 00:37:14,523 I love to dance. I am loud. 851 00:37:14,607 --> 00:37:16,984 I'm from Puerto Rico, so it comes with the territory. 852 00:37:17,068 --> 00:37:18,569 [laughing] 853 00:37:18,653 --> 00:37:23,574 But having someone to truly love me for who I am, for my soul, 854 00:37:23,658 --> 00:37:25,660 not knowing how I look like… 855 00:37:26,953 --> 00:37:31,540 For my whole entire life, that's what I want so badly. 856 00:37:31,624 --> 00:37:34,710 -Izzy! How are you? -How are you? 857 00:37:35,211 --> 00:37:37,338 -[Izzy] I'm great. Yourself? -I am great. 858 00:37:37,421 --> 00:37:41,008 -Oh, man, what a day. -Uh, yes! 859 00:37:41,092 --> 00:37:45,596 -I'm laying on the floor with my blanket. -Oh, my God, yes! My blanket too. 860 00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:47,598 [Izzy] Oh, God, this is great. 861 00:37:47,682 --> 00:37:51,852 So how are you in a relationship? 'Cause, like, I know how I am. You know? 862 00:37:51,936 --> 00:37:54,188 -I'm a giver. I… -[Izzy] Mmm-hmm. 863 00:37:54,272 --> 00:37:58,359 My pleasure and my giving is, like, 864 00:37:58,442 --> 00:38:01,070 I want my partner to have the same, like… 865 00:38:01,153 --> 00:38:04,365 Yeah. I'm the same way. I'm very selfless. Um… 866 00:38:05,032 --> 00:38:07,952 Always people-pleasing, you know? I always just… 867 00:38:08,035 --> 00:38:10,830 I like to take care of you. Um-- 868 00:38:10,913 --> 00:38:14,125 Just hearing you say that is, like, nice. 869 00:38:14,208 --> 00:38:16,585 -You know what I'm saying? -[Izzy laughs] Yeah, I hear ya. 870 00:38:16,669 --> 00:38:19,046 -Are you a detail-oriented person? -Very. 871 00:38:19,130 --> 00:38:22,425 -[gasps] I am too! 100%. -[Izzy laughs] Very. Yeah. 872 00:38:22,508 --> 00:38:25,011 So, like, for me, like, I will remember things, 873 00:38:25,094 --> 00:38:27,430 and you'll be like, "Oh, how do you remember that?" 874 00:38:27,513 --> 00:38:29,682 -'Cause it matters to me, right? -Yeah. 875 00:38:29,765 --> 00:38:31,642 [Lydia] Everything you say, the little details. 876 00:38:31,726 --> 00:38:34,061 -Everything's in the little details. -Yeah. 877 00:38:34,145 --> 00:38:36,772 So, yeah, that's kind of how I am. Very affectionate. 878 00:38:36,856 --> 00:38:39,358 Oh, my God. We're the same. 879 00:38:39,442 --> 00:38:41,527 Oh, my God. It's surprising 'cause I was, like… 880 00:38:41,610 --> 00:38:43,988 'Cause I know, like, we have a lot in common. 881 00:38:44,071 --> 00:38:45,656 -[Izzy] Uh-huh. -Do you feel the same way? 882 00:38:47,116 --> 00:38:48,075 [nervously] Uh-huh. 883 00:38:48,159 --> 00:38:49,243 [Lydia] It's mind-blowing. 884 00:38:49,327 --> 00:38:52,330 And for me to hear you say that is, like, "Oh, my God." 885 00:38:52,413 --> 00:38:55,291 Like, "Aw!" I like your vibe. I like your energy. 886 00:38:55,374 --> 00:38:57,877 It's so weird 'cause I wanna feel you. 887 00:39:00,129 --> 00:39:01,255 [hesitatingly] Yeah. 888 00:39:01,339 --> 00:39:03,132 How did the rest of your dates go? 889 00:39:03,215 --> 00:39:05,509 -Great. I mean, they went well. -[Izzy] Yeah? 890 00:39:05,593 --> 00:39:09,305 -But I'm gonna be brutally honest. -Yeah, be honest. 891 00:39:09,388 --> 00:39:10,806 You're my number one. 892 00:39:10,890 --> 00:39:13,434 Oh, wow, that's flat-- Thank you. 893 00:39:13,517 --> 00:39:17,897 For me, with you, I didn't get, like, a boring moment at all. 894 00:39:17,980 --> 00:39:20,483 I know you have other connections here. 895 00:39:20,566 --> 00:39:24,904 Yeah, I have made connections with a few of the other girls. 896 00:39:24,987 --> 00:39:26,947 I will not lie to you about that. 897 00:39:27,031 --> 00:39:28,741 You told me I'm your number one, but, like, 898 00:39:28,824 --> 00:39:32,578 are you having any other connections with anybody else? 899 00:39:33,996 --> 00:39:37,958 I have, but they haven't been in the same level. 900 00:39:38,042 --> 00:39:41,962 And I'm just trying to follow my gut. You know what I'm saying? 901 00:39:42,046 --> 00:39:43,297 [Izzy] Yeah. As you should. 902 00:39:44,048 --> 00:39:46,467 -I've connected with some people. -[Lydia] Yes? 903 00:39:46,550 --> 00:39:49,011 [Izzy] Like, I'm the type of person that it takes me a while. 904 00:39:49,095 --> 00:39:50,846 I gotta sit and process things. 905 00:39:50,930 --> 00:39:53,516 It's kind of hard hopping from pod to pod, 906 00:39:53,599 --> 00:39:56,477 but I haven't really got to sit by myself 907 00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:59,563 to, like, reflect and weigh things out. 908 00:39:59,647 --> 00:40:02,024 Well, I hope that you don't forget about me. 909 00:40:02,108 --> 00:40:03,401 Oh, no, absolutely not. 910 00:40:03,484 --> 00:40:05,444 [chuckles] I will not forget about you. 911 00:40:05,528 --> 00:40:08,280 I knew it was you the minute I heard your voice, so… 912 00:40:08,364 --> 00:40:09,907 -You're definitely good. -Aw! 913 00:40:09,990 --> 00:40:12,576 You're so sweet. That is so nice. 914 00:40:12,660 --> 00:40:14,954 I wish I could be all night here talking with you. 915 00:40:15,037 --> 00:40:16,872 [Izzy] But you'll tell me that another day. 916 00:40:16,956 --> 00:40:18,749 You have a good night. I'll see you tomorrow. 917 00:40:18,833 --> 00:40:21,919 [Lydia] You too, sir. I hope to see you in my dreams. 918 00:40:22,002 --> 00:40:22,837 [Izzy] Bye. 919 00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:28,384 -[romantic music playing] -♪ Say you'll come home forever ♪ 920 00:40:28,467 --> 00:40:31,303 ♪ Baby, baby ♪ 921 00:40:31,387 --> 00:40:33,681 -[Aaliyah] Hello? -Hey, hey, it's Uche. 922 00:40:33,764 --> 00:40:37,309 Uche, I'm so happy! I was hoping it was you. 923 00:40:37,393 --> 00:40:39,728 -I kind of miss you. -Aaliyah. 924 00:40:39,812 --> 00:40:41,772 -[Aaliyah laughs] -Now I can go to bed happy. 925 00:40:41,856 --> 00:40:45,443 [Aaliyah] I know! I'm so glad I'm talking to you. 926 00:40:46,277 --> 00:40:50,573 If we get married and we get a house together, 927 00:40:50,656 --> 00:40:53,367 I need my own woman cave. 928 00:40:53,451 --> 00:40:55,703 -[Uche] Woman cave? Okay. -Right. 929 00:40:55,786 --> 00:40:58,038 So, you know how you guys get your man cave? 930 00:40:58,122 --> 00:41:00,040 -Yeah. -I want my woman cave. 931 00:41:00,124 --> 00:41:04,003 And I wanna be able to paint and play my guitar. 932 00:41:04,503 --> 00:41:08,841 I wanna have a space where I can play my records, 933 00:41:08,924 --> 00:41:13,512 and paint, and listen to music, and write my poetry. 934 00:41:13,596 --> 00:41:16,265 -And express myself. -No way. Stop it. Stop it. 935 00:41:16,348 --> 00:41:18,058 -[Aaliyah] Mmm-hmm. -You write poetry? 936 00:41:18,142 --> 00:41:19,018 I do. 937 00:41:19,602 --> 00:41:21,520 -Oh, that's funny. -What? 938 00:41:21,604 --> 00:41:26,025 I've been, for four years in, you know, college, 939 00:41:26,108 --> 00:41:30,070 I wrote and performed spoken word poetry. 940 00:41:30,154 --> 00:41:31,322 [mouths] 941 00:41:31,906 --> 00:41:34,450 Uche, do you know what my favorite movie is? 942 00:41:34,533 --> 00:41:36,076 -[Uche] What? -Love Jones. 943 00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:38,412 [laughing] 944 00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:41,749 Like, I'm not lying. 945 00:41:41,832 --> 00:41:44,084 [laughs] Like, I'm deadass serious. 946 00:41:44,168 --> 00:41:47,463 My favorite movie of all time is Love Jones, 947 00:41:47,546 --> 00:41:49,924 because of the spoken word aspect. 948 00:41:50,007 --> 00:41:52,259 -I think just-- -[Aaliyah] It is my favorite thing to do. 949 00:41:52,343 --> 00:41:54,094 I love going to the events. 950 00:41:54,178 --> 00:41:56,347 [Uche] We've gotta go to a spoken word show. 951 00:41:56,430 --> 00:41:59,225 -Yay! Oh, my God! -[Uche] I've been wanting to get back. 952 00:41:59,308 --> 00:42:02,603 I've gotten busy, and then I've fallen out of the community. 953 00:42:02,686 --> 00:42:05,689 I would even-- We gotta get you to perform. 954 00:42:05,773 --> 00:42:07,942 -Can I? -[Uche] I'll call up my old poetry group. 955 00:42:08,025 --> 00:42:09,568 We would get you up there. 956 00:42:09,652 --> 00:42:12,154 And it'll encourage me to keep on writing too, 957 00:42:12,238 --> 00:42:15,950 'cause I haven't written any poetry in such a long time. 958 00:42:16,033 --> 00:42:19,537 Uh, it's something I would love to get back into. And you play the guitar? 959 00:42:19,620 --> 00:42:21,747 I used to play the guitar as well. 960 00:42:21,830 --> 00:42:25,417 I haven't touched it in years. I still have a guitar hanging on my wall. 961 00:42:25,501 --> 00:42:28,170 [Aaliyah] I'll be honest and say that it's not like a… 962 00:42:28,254 --> 00:42:32,007 -I need to get more into practicing, but… -So do I. 963 00:42:32,091 --> 00:42:35,010 I've taken classes. I took classes in college. 964 00:42:35,094 --> 00:42:38,889 -And I have a Fender, and I-- -[Uche] I have a Fender as well. 965 00:42:38,973 --> 00:42:40,432 -[Aaliyah] Yeah. -Is it acoustic? 966 00:42:40,516 --> 00:42:41,642 [Aaliyah] Yeah, six-string. 967 00:42:41,725 --> 00:42:45,896 I feel like every single thing, like, we really have in common. 968 00:42:45,980 --> 00:42:48,232 And I love that you have that creative side. 969 00:42:48,315 --> 00:42:50,776 'Cause that's why I initially got into poetry, 970 00:42:50,859 --> 00:42:55,656 is because I felt it very hard to express my emotions. 971 00:42:55,739 --> 00:42:58,617 You know, performing that poetry for other people, 972 00:42:58,701 --> 00:43:00,411 you know, made me be more comfortable 973 00:43:00,494 --> 00:43:03,205 with being vulnerable and expressing myself. 974 00:43:03,289 --> 00:43:06,709 Oh, my God. I just… Oof, I just need to, like… 975 00:43:06,792 --> 00:43:09,336 Honestly, I wanna just kiss you now. [laughs] 976 00:43:09,420 --> 00:43:12,006 -I just wanna see you… -[Uche] I feel the same way. 977 00:43:12,089 --> 00:43:14,675 [both exclaim and laugh] 978 00:43:14,758 --> 00:43:16,385 This is… This is crazy. 979 00:43:16,468 --> 00:43:18,596 [laughing] 980 00:43:18,679 --> 00:43:21,015 [upbeat music playing] 981 00:43:22,308 --> 00:43:23,976 [dance music playing] 982 00:43:24,059 --> 00:43:26,937 ♪ Come on, everybody Let me see your hair ♪ 983 00:43:31,900 --> 00:43:33,485 [JP] Me and Taylor are on the same page. 984 00:43:33,569 --> 00:43:34,903 We talked about sex a little bit, 985 00:43:34,987 --> 00:43:37,323 but we didn't, uh, spend the whole time talking about it. 986 00:43:37,406 --> 00:43:40,659 She's like, "Let's move on. I feel like we're compatible. We know it." 987 00:43:40,743 --> 00:43:43,078 "We know what we like, and I feel like it's gonna be… 988 00:43:43,162 --> 00:43:44,246 uh, good either way." 989 00:43:44,330 --> 00:43:45,873 -Yeah. -"Let's talk about other stuff." 990 00:43:45,956 --> 00:43:48,667 -"Let's just keep going. Keep diving." -Yeah. 991 00:43:48,751 --> 00:43:52,046 I think if I am so in love with who you are as a person, 992 00:43:52,129 --> 00:43:55,966 everything else will just fall into place, the sex, the physical appearance. 993 00:43:56,050 --> 00:43:59,345 -Because I love who you are, you know? -Right. Right. 994 00:43:59,428 --> 00:44:02,222 [Taylor] But I have a good feeling I'm gonna leave engaged. 995 00:44:02,306 --> 00:44:03,182 [laughing] 996 00:44:04,183 --> 00:44:06,644 I came here to find a husband not based on what they look like, 997 00:44:06,727 --> 00:44:10,689 and based on just their heart and, um, how I feel around them. 998 00:44:10,773 --> 00:44:12,691 I feel like that's been my problem in the past. 999 00:44:12,775 --> 00:44:16,528 I have based it so much on, like, looks, 1000 00:44:16,612 --> 00:44:18,697 and it hasn't worked out for me. 1001 00:44:18,781 --> 00:44:21,283 I just feel different around JP. 1002 00:44:21,367 --> 00:44:24,119 I don't know how to explain it. It's the weirdest feeling in the world. 1003 00:44:24,703 --> 00:44:27,164 -[JP] Hoo-whee! What's up? -Hello. I missed you. 1004 00:44:27,247 --> 00:44:28,957 -[JP] You did? -[Taylor laughs] Yeah. 1005 00:44:29,041 --> 00:44:31,585 -[JP] Guess what color my shoes are? -Blue. 1006 00:44:32,252 --> 00:44:34,421 Mostly, but there's two other colors with it. 1007 00:44:34,505 --> 00:44:35,923 -[Taylor] Red and white. -Yeah! 1008 00:44:36,006 --> 00:44:39,551 [laughs] Is everything you own red, white, and blue? 1009 00:44:39,635 --> 00:44:41,220 [JP] Everything I like to wear. 1010 00:44:41,303 --> 00:44:45,015 Like, are you gonna come out and I see you in red, white, and blue? 1011 00:44:45,766 --> 00:44:48,185 -[JP] You'll just have to find out. -[laughs] 1012 00:44:48,268 --> 00:44:50,270 [yawning] It's just… 1013 00:44:50,354 --> 00:44:52,398 You need to do a push-up. 1014 00:44:52,481 --> 00:44:54,608 -I need to do a push-up? -Mmm-hmm. I heard you yawn. 1015 00:44:54,692 --> 00:44:56,777 -Oh, I did yawn. You're right. -Mmm-hmm. 1016 00:44:57,569 --> 00:45:00,197 -How many you want me to do? -Spell my name, T… 1017 00:45:01,073 --> 00:45:01,907 [both] A. 1018 00:45:03,158 --> 00:45:03,992 Y. 1019 00:45:04,993 --> 00:45:06,662 -L. -[Taylor chuckles] 1020 00:45:06,745 --> 00:45:08,080 -[JP] A. -O! 1021 00:45:08,622 --> 00:45:11,250 [JP laughs] Oh, yeah. O-R. 1022 00:45:11,333 --> 00:45:14,378 [Taylor chuckles] Who spells "Taylar?" 1023 00:45:14,461 --> 00:45:16,630 -Like, A-R? -I don't know what I was thinking. 1024 00:45:16,714 --> 00:45:18,340 I'll do yours. Ready? 1025 00:45:18,424 --> 00:45:19,383 Ready. 1026 00:45:19,466 --> 00:45:20,759 -[Taylor] J. -[JP] Whoa! 1027 00:45:20,843 --> 00:45:24,346 -[Taylor] P. -[both laughing] 1028 00:45:25,180 --> 00:45:26,974 [Taylor] I'll just twerk my butt over here. 1029 00:45:27,057 --> 00:45:28,434 -Damn! -[Taylor laughing] 1030 00:45:29,143 --> 00:45:31,228 -[JP] We'll have to dance together. -Oh, absolutely. 1031 00:45:31,311 --> 00:45:35,232 I'm a terrible dancer, by the way. I just like to have a good time. 1032 00:45:35,315 --> 00:45:38,527 -[Taylor] To move? -Yeah. Can't wait to dance with you. 1033 00:45:39,194 --> 00:45:42,906 [Taylor] Aww. What do you like to call your significant other? 1034 00:45:42,990 --> 00:45:45,909 Do you have a nickname, like "babe," "baby," whatever? 1035 00:45:45,993 --> 00:45:47,911 [JP] Yeah, I'm not too big on, like, pet names. 1036 00:45:47,995 --> 00:45:49,496 -[Taylor] But you know what I like? -No. 1037 00:45:49,580 --> 00:45:53,333 -[Taylor laughs] Sugar butt. -Sugar butt? [laughs] 1038 00:45:53,417 --> 00:45:55,419 [Taylor] You can be sugar butt. Hey, sugar butt. 1039 00:45:55,502 --> 00:45:58,172 -[JP] I like that. -That's definitely your name. 1040 00:45:58,255 --> 00:45:59,715 Sugar butt and sugar. 1041 00:45:59,798 --> 00:46:00,841 It's so cute. 1042 00:46:00,924 --> 00:46:03,093 When I walk into the pod, and I hear Taylor's voice, 1043 00:46:03,177 --> 00:46:06,096 it's just that giddy feeling. 1044 00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:08,056 Butterfly, bubbles, whatever. 1045 00:46:08,140 --> 00:46:10,142 Your stomach feels all tied in knots, 1046 00:46:10,225 --> 00:46:12,227 and I really don't know how to explain it. 1047 00:46:12,311 --> 00:46:15,022 -It's just… a happy feeling. -[romantic music playing] 1048 00:46:15,105 --> 00:46:19,693 -♪ And I feel I can love you forever… ♪ -[laughing] 1049 00:46:20,402 --> 00:46:24,573 ♪ As long as the sea held the tide ♪ 1050 00:46:26,575 --> 00:46:28,577 -Okay, this is beautiful. -[Renee laughs] 1051 00:46:28,660 --> 00:46:30,788 Oh, you're messing me up! Shh! 1052 00:46:30,871 --> 00:46:33,540 [Lydia] Izzy. I really like him a lot. 1053 00:46:33,624 --> 00:46:35,626 He has been my number one since day one. 1054 00:46:36,502 --> 00:46:41,048 And every time that I talk to him, like, I have a huge smile on my face, 1055 00:46:41,131 --> 00:46:42,883 and I get, like, really excited, 1056 00:46:42,966 --> 00:46:45,010 and I'm like, "I cannot wait to talk to you again." 1057 00:46:45,093 --> 00:46:46,887 -You know? That kind of feeling. -Yeah. 1058 00:46:46,970 --> 00:46:49,473 In the lounge, it's a little more real 1059 00:46:49,556 --> 00:46:52,267 that I'm not the only person that Izzy's talking to. 1060 00:46:52,851 --> 00:46:55,896 Women are getting territorial. People are getting invested. 1061 00:46:55,979 --> 00:47:00,025 That person that I'm like, "Head to toe, perfect." 1062 00:47:00,108 --> 00:47:05,113 I don't know how Izzy feels about me, but I know how I feel about him, 1063 00:47:05,197 --> 00:47:08,116 and I'm so not sharing 1064 00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:11,328 who I'm interested in with the other girls. 1065 00:47:11,829 --> 00:47:13,121 I haven't had that. 1066 00:47:15,165 --> 00:47:16,500 It should feel good though. 1067 00:47:16,583 --> 00:47:17,876 It does feel good. Like, I was… 1068 00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:20,420 It really didn't kick in until, like, today. 1069 00:47:21,421 --> 00:47:24,925 When Izzy is talking to me, it feels good. 1070 00:47:25,509 --> 00:47:30,556 Izzy has been consistent since day one. There's just this easiness. 1071 00:47:30,639 --> 00:47:32,558 It's like… [sighs] 1072 00:47:32,641 --> 00:47:36,478 Finally, I'm being accepted truly for who I am. 1073 00:47:36,562 --> 00:47:39,273 And it's been great to get to know 1074 00:47:40,274 --> 00:47:42,901 that potential guy that could be my husband. 1075 00:47:42,985 --> 00:47:45,320 -[upbeat music playing] -♪ Now I know… ♪ 1076 00:47:46,488 --> 00:47:47,447 [Izzy] Hello. 1077 00:47:47,531 --> 00:47:49,324 Hola, mi amor! 1078 00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:53,120 I miss you. 1079 00:47:57,082 --> 00:47:58,292 Hello? 1080 00:47:58,375 --> 00:48:00,544 -[Izzy] I'm here. I'm here. -What's up? 1081 00:48:01,169 --> 00:48:03,046 [Izzy exhales] Okay. 1082 00:48:05,173 --> 00:48:08,427 This is… difficult. 1083 00:48:09,386 --> 00:48:10,387 Um… 1084 00:48:12,347 --> 00:48:15,058 You're a really amazing girl. 1085 00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:21,189 I've just developed connections with other girls 1086 00:48:21,273 --> 00:48:25,569 that is stronger than the connection that I've had with you. 1087 00:48:31,074 --> 00:48:33,660 -[dark music playing] -What do you think is missing? 1088 00:48:34,828 --> 00:48:36,038 [Izzy] Um… 1089 00:48:36,872 --> 00:48:37,831 It's just… 1090 00:48:38,707 --> 00:48:40,626 [clicks tongue and hesitates] 1091 00:48:44,504 --> 00:48:47,507 Just please tell me why. There has to be a reason. 1092 00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:53,347 [exhales] I'm just, like, evaluating everything. 1093 00:48:53,430 --> 00:48:57,142 I think it's just, like, the chemistry for me. 1094 00:48:57,225 --> 00:48:59,227 [dark music continues] 1095 00:49:03,565 --> 00:49:06,902 [crying] This sucks. This sucks. 1096 00:49:07,778 --> 00:49:09,780 [somber music playing] 1097 00:49:12,032 --> 00:49:14,034 [crying] 1098 00:49:15,786 --> 00:49:18,372 I had no intent to make you feel this way. 1099 00:49:20,082 --> 00:49:21,667 [crying continues] 1100 00:49:24,252 --> 00:49:28,799 [crying] I crave so hard and so badly to be loved. 1101 00:49:28,882 --> 00:49:31,009 [stifling tears] 1102 00:49:34,012 --> 00:49:36,264 I just… [sobbing] 1103 00:49:36,348 --> 00:49:41,979 I just have had a lifetime of really wondering always why. 1104 00:49:42,062 --> 00:49:47,317 And here I am, even being vulnerable, being completely transparent with you… 1105 00:49:47,943 --> 00:49:49,820 And… [sobbing] 1106 00:49:49,903 --> 00:49:51,738 Oh, fuck. 1107 00:49:52,572 --> 00:49:55,492 And again I am left clueless. 1108 00:49:56,952 --> 00:49:58,745 It doesn't make sense. 1109 00:49:59,746 --> 00:50:03,083 I just don't understand. I just don't. I just don't. 1110 00:50:03,166 --> 00:50:05,460 I just cannot believe this is actually happening. 1111 00:50:05,544 --> 00:50:07,170 I was so excited to talk to you. 1112 00:50:07,254 --> 00:50:09,798 I was, like, looking forward to it the entire day, 1113 00:50:09,881 --> 00:50:12,342 and I was not expecting this. 1114 00:50:13,468 --> 00:50:17,097 Like, literally, there's nothing bad about you that I can say. 1115 00:50:17,764 --> 00:50:20,851 I've just had stronger connections with other people. 1116 00:50:20,934 --> 00:50:24,646 [clears throat] Ugh. Izzy, this just obviously sucks. 1117 00:50:25,355 --> 00:50:27,315 It does hurt. Um… 1118 00:50:28,275 --> 00:50:32,070 [sniffles] But you have a great rest of your day, sir, 1119 00:50:32,821 --> 00:50:35,699 with your… people. 1120 00:50:36,408 --> 00:50:39,453 It does make me wonder, "Will I ever find love?" 1121 00:50:41,788 --> 00:50:42,789 Won't every-- 1122 00:50:42,873 --> 00:50:48,128 Will ever just someone really love my soul, who I am, as I am? 1123 00:50:48,211 --> 00:50:50,756 -[sad music playing] -♪ There ain't nothing more I can say ♪ 1124 00:50:50,839 --> 00:50:53,341 ♪ That'd change everything That's in the way ♪ 1125 00:50:53,425 --> 00:50:57,012 ♪ Every day is the same now… ♪ 1126 00:50:57,095 --> 00:50:58,889 [Izzy] It was a pleasure meeting you, Lydia. 1127 00:50:59,639 --> 00:51:00,932 [Lydia sighs] 1128 00:51:03,226 --> 00:51:04,227 [sobbing] 1129 00:51:04,311 --> 00:51:10,067 ♪ 'Cause I don't know What I want any more ♪ 1130 00:51:13,153 --> 00:51:14,571 [Lydia sobbing] 1131 00:51:15,697 --> 00:51:17,991 [Aaliyah] Are you okay, honey? Come here. 1132 00:51:19,076 --> 00:51:22,079 I love you. I'm sorry that you feel this way. 1133 00:51:22,162 --> 00:51:24,539 -[Lydia] I love you too. -[Aaliyah] I'm sorry. 1134 00:51:24,623 --> 00:51:26,541 I know this is really tough. 1135 00:51:26,625 --> 00:51:28,627 -Who was it? -[Lydia] Izzy. 1136 00:51:28,710 --> 00:51:30,170 He just ended it? 1137 00:51:30,253 --> 00:51:33,256 [Lydia] He was like, "Oh, I just have stronger connections otherwise." 1138 00:51:34,883 --> 00:51:35,801 [Aaliyah] I'm sorry. 1139 00:51:35,884 --> 00:51:39,846 You are deserving of somebody who is totally sure 1140 00:51:39,930 --> 00:51:42,599 of what they want and what they have. 1141 00:51:42,682 --> 00:51:46,186 If he's not seeing that, he's not for you. 1142 00:51:46,770 --> 00:51:49,439 You still deserve to be loved. 1143 00:51:49,523 --> 00:51:53,443 Okay? Don't let him do that to you. 1144 00:51:53,527 --> 00:51:56,613 -Okay? -["You Lost Me" by Aria and Zopke playing] 1145 00:52:01,785 --> 00:52:05,872 You wanna open your heart up to somebody, but no one wants to just get hurt. 1146 00:52:05,956 --> 00:52:10,293 [laughs] Like, no one wants to feel those feelings that we know we all fight 1147 00:52:10,377 --> 00:52:12,420 day in and day out to avoid feeling again. 1148 00:52:12,504 --> 00:52:17,425 But being vulnerable, being transparent, being honest, it's so important. 1149 00:52:17,509 --> 00:52:21,304 And with Uche, it makes me feel more reassured. 1150 00:52:21,388 --> 00:52:24,850 Like, this man really does want me because of who I am. 1151 00:52:25,350 --> 00:52:27,978 It's so different, because I've never had it before. 1152 00:52:28,061 --> 00:52:30,814 This is a risk in so many ways. 1153 00:52:30,897 --> 00:52:34,317 But no risk, no reward. So… [laughs] 1154 00:52:35,735 --> 00:52:41,533 So, my emotional brain is saying that I'm gonna leave here with you. 1155 00:52:41,616 --> 00:52:43,660 My logical brain is like, 1156 00:52:43,743 --> 00:52:47,205 "You gotta protect yourself because you just don't know." 1157 00:52:47,289 --> 00:52:51,543 Listen to me, anytime you're feeling uncertain about anything, 1158 00:52:51,626 --> 00:52:52,961 you bring that up to me. 1159 00:52:53,044 --> 00:52:55,088 I'm always going to be that person for you. 1160 00:52:55,172 --> 00:52:56,923 I want you to know how much I care about you. 1161 00:52:57,799 --> 00:53:01,344 [Aaliyah] I want to challenge the fact that we feel so sure. 1162 00:53:01,428 --> 00:53:05,182 I want you to make sure that you know I'm who you want. 1163 00:53:05,932 --> 00:53:07,976 -Aaliyah, you're my girl, okay? -Yeah. 1164 00:53:08,059 --> 00:53:08,977 Okay. 1165 00:53:09,561 --> 00:53:10,562 We're leaving together. 1166 00:53:10,645 --> 00:53:14,941 [chuckles] If I don't leave here with you, I don't know what I'm gonna do. 1167 00:53:15,025 --> 00:53:18,445 -[Aaliyah] Ugh! Uche. It's weird, Uche. -[Uche laughs] 1168 00:53:18,528 --> 00:53:20,822 [Aaliyah] What's wrong with you? Why are you so perfect? 1169 00:53:20,906 --> 00:53:23,491 [emotional music playing] 1170 00:53:26,661 --> 00:53:29,539 -What would be a deal-breaker for you? -Yeah. 1171 00:53:29,623 --> 00:53:31,499 I think, um… 1172 00:53:31,583 --> 00:53:33,585 the biggest thing is dishonesty. 1173 00:53:33,668 --> 00:53:36,129 What is… What is your deal-breaker? 1174 00:53:36,213 --> 00:53:39,257 Like, literally the same. I can't stand a liar. 1175 00:53:39,341 --> 00:53:43,303 Specifically for marriage, it's very important to me that I know 1176 00:53:43,386 --> 00:53:47,641 that your moral center is in a good place. 1177 00:53:47,724 --> 00:53:50,894 [Uche] Do you feel like you've lied before in relationships in the past? 1178 00:53:50,977 --> 00:53:52,729 Of course! I mean, I'm human. 1179 00:53:53,521 --> 00:53:56,816 And I'm not saying, like, I've never lied and hurt somebody. 1180 00:53:56,900 --> 00:53:59,486 You know, I mean, in my past, I've done things, 1181 00:53:59,569 --> 00:54:02,572 and sometimes it was selfish, but-- 1182 00:54:02,656 --> 00:54:05,784 You've done things? Have you ever cheated in a relationship? 1183 00:54:05,867 --> 00:54:08,536 -Once. -You can be honest. Tell me about it. 1184 00:54:08,620 --> 00:54:10,288 [Aaliyah] It was in the relationship 1185 00:54:10,372 --> 00:54:15,126 where I was just not sexually satisfied for two and a half years. 1186 00:54:16,044 --> 00:54:17,045 When was this? 1187 00:54:17,712 --> 00:54:18,713 [Aaliyah] Two years ago. 1188 00:54:19,381 --> 00:54:21,841 Oh, boy, you're a recent cheater. 1189 00:54:21,925 --> 00:54:24,469 -[dramatic note playing] -Not like that, Uche. Don't say that. 1190 00:54:24,552 --> 00:54:25,637 [Uche] Oh. 1191 00:54:25,720 --> 00:54:27,347 Don't say it like that because-- 1192 00:54:27,430 --> 00:54:28,974 It's the truth, isn't it? 1193 00:54:29,057 --> 00:54:31,017 [Aaliyah] I mean, it is, but it's just… 1194 00:54:31,101 --> 00:54:33,937 Look, I have to say… [sighs] 1195 00:54:34,020 --> 00:54:37,524 That relationship, I really, really tried. 1196 00:54:37,607 --> 00:54:43,947 And I did everything that a person would do to try to fix the issues 1197 00:54:44,030 --> 00:54:45,907 in the morally correct ways. 1198 00:54:45,991 --> 00:54:49,411 I told him that I wasn't satisfied. I made suggestions. 1199 00:54:49,494 --> 00:54:53,790 Like, I approached him in a loving way multiple times about our sex. 1200 00:54:53,873 --> 00:54:58,128 I told him that I needed more, like, multiple times. 1201 00:54:58,211 --> 00:55:00,046 Then why didn't you just break up with him? 1202 00:55:01,214 --> 00:55:03,425 [Aaliyah] I was afraid of being alone. 1203 00:55:03,508 --> 00:55:05,760 What if I don't ever find anybody who… 1204 00:55:07,053 --> 00:55:10,765 will have the good things about him? 1205 00:55:12,434 --> 00:55:14,352 I don't know. I just… I just… 1206 00:55:22,193 --> 00:55:23,194 It's not good. 1207 00:55:24,404 --> 00:55:26,406 [tense music playing] 1208 00:55:26,906 --> 00:55:29,534 And you told your boyfriend that this happened? 1209 00:55:37,709 --> 00:55:38,543 Aaliyah? 1210 00:55:39,044 --> 00:55:39,878 [Aaliyah] Yeah. 1211 00:55:40,628 --> 00:55:42,172 Did you tell him about it? 1212 00:55:43,256 --> 00:55:44,132 No. 1213 00:55:45,300 --> 00:55:46,301 Why not? 1214 00:55:53,308 --> 00:55:55,393 [tense music continues] 1215 00:55:58,980 --> 00:56:02,442 I didn't wanna hurt him. And I knew I was wrong. 1216 00:56:02,525 --> 00:56:05,111 Do you think it was about not wanting to hurt him, though, 1217 00:56:05,195 --> 00:56:06,821 or was it more about you? 1218 00:56:06,905 --> 00:56:09,199 I mean, it wasn't about me. I… 1219 00:56:09,991 --> 00:56:12,410 [Uche] You don't feel embarrassed or ashamed of what you did? 1220 00:56:12,494 --> 00:56:17,040 I dealt with that guilt for a long, long time. 1221 00:56:17,123 --> 00:56:20,210 [Uche] If you actually told him about it, you would have had to confront 1222 00:56:20,293 --> 00:56:23,046 that embarrassment and guilt, and you would have felt even worse. 1223 00:56:23,129 --> 00:56:25,715 So, you said it's not about hurting him, 1224 00:56:25,799 --> 00:56:28,802 but, really, it might have been about you, right? 1225 00:56:30,637 --> 00:56:32,639 [dramatic music playing] 1226 00:56:41,189 --> 00:56:43,358 Yeah. Okay. Yeah. 1227 00:56:43,942 --> 00:56:46,945 I really hated myself for doing that. 1228 00:56:47,028 --> 00:56:49,280 But I didn't-- I don't-- 1229 00:56:49,823 --> 00:56:51,116 I can't take it back. 1230 00:56:52,158 --> 00:56:56,162 What good would it have done to, like, drop something like that on somebody, 1231 00:56:56,246 --> 00:56:59,499 and they're trying to start their life, and their career? 1232 00:56:59,582 --> 00:57:02,961 You would have made yourself be an honest person. 1233 00:57:03,044 --> 00:57:06,131 You cheating on somebody and you being dishonest is about you. 1234 00:57:06,214 --> 00:57:07,966 It's not about him. 1235 00:57:08,049 --> 00:57:10,051 And I think he would have wanted to know about it. 1236 00:57:12,470 --> 00:57:13,388 Okay. 1237 00:57:13,471 --> 00:57:15,890 I've cheated in a relationship, all right? 1238 00:57:15,974 --> 00:57:18,601 But when I did cheat, it was when I was 18 years old, 1239 00:57:18,685 --> 00:57:20,395 and I only kissed somebody else. 1240 00:57:20,478 --> 00:57:23,690 [chuckles] So it's a little bit different. 1241 00:57:23,773 --> 00:57:27,235 I would never do that to somebody else, and I think if I did, 1242 00:57:27,318 --> 00:57:29,112 like, I have the type of conscience 1243 00:57:29,195 --> 00:57:31,906 where I would have to tell that person about it. 1244 00:57:31,990 --> 00:57:32,824 [Aaliyah] Okay. 1245 00:57:34,159 --> 00:57:36,828 I wouldn't put myself in that situation again. 1246 00:57:36,911 --> 00:57:39,080 It would just be a no. I'm not… 1247 00:57:39,164 --> 00:57:41,916 How much longer were you with him after you cheated on him? 1248 00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:43,168 [Aaliyah] Three months. 1249 00:57:43,251 --> 00:57:45,086 Three months. 1250 00:57:45,879 --> 00:57:48,173 And did you sleep with that guy another time? 1251 00:57:48,256 --> 00:57:51,926 It was just once. Literally just once. 1252 00:57:55,180 --> 00:57:59,017 That was my first and only time ever doing that in a relationship. 1253 00:57:59,100 --> 00:58:02,770 -In your entire life. -In my entire life. Literally. 1254 00:58:03,771 --> 00:58:06,483 I'm human. Like, I have my needs too. 1255 00:58:06,983 --> 00:58:08,193 And I'm not saying that… 1256 00:58:08,276 --> 00:58:11,029 Like, it was selfish, but I have my needs too. 1257 00:58:12,155 --> 00:58:14,741 And I'm supposed to just stay with somebody? No. 1258 00:58:14,824 --> 00:58:17,494 No, you're supposed to break up with that person. 1259 00:58:17,577 --> 00:58:19,537 -[Aaliyah] I should have. -That's the honest thing. 1260 00:58:19,621 --> 00:58:22,499 -Just break up with that person. -And I would do that now. 1261 00:58:22,582 --> 00:58:24,626 [pensive music playing] 1262 00:58:32,175 --> 00:58:35,595 Yeah, well, uh, thank you for being honest with me about that. 1263 00:58:36,930 --> 00:58:38,848 Do you have more girl friends or guy friends? 1264 00:58:38,932 --> 00:58:42,477 More girl friends, for sure. But I would never do that to you. 1265 00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:43,520 [Uche] How do you know? 1266 00:58:43,603 --> 00:58:46,564 [Aaliyah] I'm not the same woman I was at that time, Uche. 1267 00:58:46,648 --> 00:58:48,942 -So please don't-- -That's only two years ago though. 1268 00:58:49,025 --> 00:58:51,694 -[Aaliyah] I know, but-- -[laughing] That's not a long time ago. 1269 00:58:51,778 --> 00:58:54,030 -[Aaliyah] Two years is a long time. -No, it's really not. 1270 00:58:55,365 --> 00:58:56,407 Okay. 1271 00:58:56,491 --> 00:59:01,579 -[emotional music playing] -♪ Dug a hole with my hand… ♪ 1272 00:59:01,663 --> 00:59:03,790 Well, clearly, you see… 1273 00:59:05,750 --> 00:59:08,878 me differently, as a result of this. 1274 00:59:10,338 --> 00:59:14,509 -[scoffs] -♪ Find it hard to understand ♪ 1275 00:59:14,592 --> 00:59:17,887 ♪ Why I want the things I do ♪ 1276 00:59:17,971 --> 00:59:20,890 ♪ Why I don't want you… ♪ 1277 00:59:22,016 --> 00:59:23,101 I understand. 1278 00:59:25,478 --> 00:59:26,521 [sighs] 1279 00:59:27,855 --> 00:59:28,898 Okay. 1280 00:59:31,818 --> 00:59:32,652 Bye. 1281 00:59:32,735 --> 00:59:36,614 ♪ I've done nothing wrong I just don't wanna stay the same ♪ 1282 00:59:39,826 --> 00:59:44,706 ♪ I feel shame and I can't shake it off ♪ 1283 00:59:45,290 --> 00:59:48,960 Aaliyah, you didn't have to tell me about that, 1284 00:59:49,043 --> 00:59:50,962 but you chose to tell me about it. 1285 00:59:52,338 --> 00:59:55,300 -And I think that's a good thing. -[door closes] 1286 00:59:58,052 --> 00:59:58,928 Aaliyah? 1287 01:00:03,057 --> 01:00:05,059 [Aaliyah crying] 1288 01:00:09,647 --> 01:00:11,149 [Uche sighs] 1289 01:00:11,232 --> 01:00:13,234 [Aaliyah sobbing] 1290 01:00:16,613 --> 01:00:18,615 [emotional music continues] 1291 01:00:19,198 --> 01:00:24,245 ♪ I feel shame and I can't shake it off ♪ 1292 01:00:24,329 --> 01:00:26,706 [Aaliyah crying] Oh, God. 1293 01:00:26,789 --> 01:00:28,374 [sniffling] 1294 01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:32,170 What happened? 1295 01:00:32,837 --> 01:00:34,714 You okay? What's up? 1296 01:00:34,797 --> 01:00:36,924 No, no, no, no. Tranquilo. Tranquilo. 1297 01:00:37,008 --> 01:00:38,009 [shushing] 1298 01:00:38,092 --> 01:00:40,386 [Estefania] Calm down. Sit down somewhere. 1299 01:00:40,470 --> 01:00:42,347 This girl that I'm talking to, 1300 01:00:42,430 --> 01:00:44,641 we're always on the same page about everything. 1301 01:00:44,724 --> 01:00:47,602 Our futures, who we are as a person, our values. 1302 01:00:47,685 --> 01:00:49,771 We literally have everything in common. 1303 01:00:49,854 --> 01:00:51,064 This is not like… 1304 01:00:52,482 --> 01:00:53,650 [sighs] 1305 01:00:53,733 --> 01:00:56,235 I don't know. It's not like a fucking game to me. 1306 01:00:56,319 --> 01:00:59,030 If I ask somebody to marry me, I'm actually asking them to marry me. 1307 01:00:59,614 --> 01:01:02,408 So, I'm like, "I'm gonna start asking you some of the tough questions." 1308 01:01:02,492 --> 01:01:04,786 And, you know, one of those questions, 1309 01:01:04,869 --> 01:01:08,289 I heard an answer that I didn't really… that I didn't really like. 1310 01:01:09,040 --> 01:01:11,334 But then, on the other hand, it's like, 1311 01:01:11,417 --> 01:01:13,836 "She didn't have to fucking tell me about that." 1312 01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:15,546 She knew that by telling me this 1313 01:01:15,630 --> 01:01:17,965 it might mean that she loses me completely. 1314 01:01:18,466 --> 01:01:21,010 I have to value that. 1315 01:01:21,094 --> 01:01:23,554 I mean, you want them to put all the cards on the table. 1316 01:01:24,138 --> 01:01:25,765 I mean, I'm 33 years old. 1317 01:01:26,766 --> 01:01:28,685 There are certain things that are negotiable 1318 01:01:28,768 --> 01:01:30,812 and certain things that are non-negotiable. 1319 01:01:30,895 --> 01:01:34,148 And it's like I'm still figuring out what those things are for me. 1320 01:01:34,232 --> 01:01:37,485 Like, what is a deal-breaker and what is not a deal-breaker? 1321 01:01:37,568 --> 01:01:42,031 And am I being reasonable or not? Or am I overreacting or not? 1322 01:01:42,615 --> 01:01:45,118 Can you forgive her for whatever she did? 1323 01:01:45,201 --> 01:01:49,580 In my mind right now, I'm trying to see her perspective, 1324 01:01:50,248 --> 01:01:52,875 and that's not something I always do. 1325 01:01:53,376 --> 01:01:55,461 I think I could get past it. 1326 01:01:56,629 --> 01:01:58,506 Yeah. Yeah, I don't know. 1327 01:01:59,590 --> 01:02:01,426 Is it worth losing her over it? 1328 01:02:01,509 --> 01:02:03,511 [suspenseful music playing] 1329 01:02:08,725 --> 01:02:10,601 The voice of reason. 1330 01:02:11,269 --> 01:02:13,855 -[Aaliyah sobbing] -[Lydia shushing] 1331 01:02:14,605 --> 01:02:16,232 [Lydia] Let it all… Let it all out. 1332 01:02:16,315 --> 01:02:18,818 [Aaliyah sobbing] 1333 01:02:22,447 --> 01:02:24,824 [Lydia] Talk to me. What's up? What's up, baby? 1334 01:02:24,907 --> 01:02:27,410 [Aaliyah sobbing] I just… I think I lost him. 1335 01:02:28,578 --> 01:02:30,913 -[Lydia] Who was it? Can you tell me? -Uche. 1336 01:02:30,997 --> 01:02:32,540 [Lydia] Oh, my God. Okay. 1337 01:02:32,623 --> 01:02:33,791 [Aaliyah sobbing] 1338 01:02:33,875 --> 01:02:36,294 [Lydia] Okay. Look at me. Look at me. 1339 01:02:36,836 --> 01:02:39,338 -He thinks that I'm gonna cheat on him. -[Lydia] Why? 1340 01:02:39,422 --> 01:02:40,965 'Cause I've cheated before. 1341 01:02:43,217 --> 01:02:45,219 -[sobbing continues] -[Lydia] Look at me. Listen. 1342 01:02:45,303 --> 01:02:49,724 This is something that gives you the clarity of how Uche reacts. 1343 01:02:50,516 --> 01:02:53,269 I don't wanna be judged for it though, you know? 1344 01:02:53,352 --> 01:02:55,188 -I love you, baby. -[Aaliyah] I love you too. 1345 01:02:55,271 --> 01:02:57,482 -I love you more. -[Aaliyah] I love you more. 1346 01:02:58,733 --> 01:03:01,110 -[Lydia] There's nothing wrong with you. -I know. 1347 01:03:01,194 --> 01:03:04,530 -[Lydia] There's nothing wrong with you. -[sobbing fades] 1348 01:03:05,156 --> 01:03:07,241 [Lydia] But do you know what I believe? 1349 01:03:07,325 --> 01:03:09,494 -He's not the one for you. -[sniffles] 1350 01:03:09,577 --> 01:03:11,746 Is this the guy that you really wanna marry? 1351 01:03:11,829 --> 01:03:14,957 -A guy who's gonna judge you this easily? -[Aaliyah] Mmm-mmm. 1352 01:03:15,041 --> 01:03:16,584 [Lydia] And I don't wanna say this. 1353 01:03:16,667 --> 01:03:19,921 You're so like me that I could see this happening. 1354 01:03:20,922 --> 01:03:23,508 I'm pretty sure you told him all the truth. 1355 01:03:23,591 --> 01:03:26,636 -I did. -[Lydia] You gave him details, didn't you? 1356 01:03:26,719 --> 01:03:29,764 Telling Uche the truth was not a mistake. 1357 01:03:29,847 --> 01:03:32,850 -[Aaliyah] Yeah. -[Lydia] He does not get to judge you. 1358 01:03:32,934 --> 01:03:35,353 -Look at me. -[exhales] Yeah. 1359 01:03:35,436 --> 01:03:37,522 [Lydia] He does not get to judge you. 1360 01:03:37,605 --> 01:03:39,524 He has his own thing that he needs to resolve. 1361 01:03:39,607 --> 01:03:42,652 -["I Got a Secret" by Joíe playing] -[Lydia] Believe me when I say this. 1362 01:03:42,735 --> 01:03:47,240 If he doesn't have the capacity, as smart as he is, to put things aside? 1363 01:03:47,323 --> 01:03:48,908 -Mmm. -[Lydia] That's on him. 1364 01:03:48,991 --> 01:03:51,077 He needs to resolve those traumas. 1365 01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:54,413 He needs to figure out what the fuck he does really want. 1366 01:03:54,997 --> 01:03:55,832 [Aaliyah] Yeah. 1367 01:03:55,915 --> 01:03:57,667 [Lydia] He needs to stop blaming others 1368 01:03:57,750 --> 01:04:00,586 and start taking accountability for his actions. 1369 01:04:00,670 --> 01:04:01,504 [Aaliyah] Mmm-hmm. 1370 01:04:01,587 --> 01:04:04,048 [Lydia] You're better. You're so much better. 1371 01:04:04,632 --> 01:04:07,552 And I know this because I see myself in you. 1372 01:04:07,635 --> 01:04:09,428 -Look at me. Look at me. -[sighs] 1373 01:04:10,179 --> 01:04:13,015 [Lydia] He might have a blind spot 'cause you're me. 1374 01:04:13,099 --> 01:04:14,559 You are so much like me. 1375 01:04:14,642 --> 01:04:17,562 -You and I are so similar. -I know. 1376 01:04:18,604 --> 01:04:19,438 Believe me. 1377 01:04:20,022 --> 01:04:22,942 -Believe me. -["I Got a Secret" continues playing] 1378 01:04:23,568 --> 01:04:24,819 And that might be it. 1379 01:04:25,778 --> 01:04:27,864 ♪ I got a secret ♪ 1380 01:04:28,447 --> 01:04:31,117 ♪ Oh, can you tell? ♪ 1381 01:04:31,701 --> 01:04:34,829 ♪ I'll keep this secret till it drags me ♪ 1382 01:04:34,912 --> 01:04:36,581 ♪ Till it drags me down ♪ 1383 01:04:37,707 --> 01:04:40,585 ♪ Maybe I'll pray ♪ 1384 01:04:40,668 --> 01:04:44,255 ♪ Maybe I'll rise again ♪ 1385 01:04:44,338 --> 01:04:49,635 ♪ Singin', singin' hallelujah ♪ 1386 01:04:49,719 --> 01:04:51,637 [vocalizing] 1387 01:04:52,930 --> 01:04:56,100 ♪ Maybe we're looking at the end ♪ 1388 01:04:56,183 --> 01:05:01,647 ♪ Singin', singin' hallelujah ♪ 1389 01:05:02,732 --> 01:05:04,650 ♪ Rise up from the ashes ♪ 1390 01:05:05,735 --> 01:05:08,654 ♪ Rise up from the ashes ♪ 1391 01:05:08,738 --> 01:05:12,658 ♪ You got a secret you'll never tell… ♪