1 00:00:06,006 --> 00:00:08,008 [intriguing music playing] 2 00:00:14,597 --> 00:00:17,308 I would marry you. I would. 3 00:00:18,601 --> 00:00:19,853 I want that with you. 4 00:00:20,562 --> 00:00:23,398 I do. I really do. 5 00:00:30,488 --> 00:00:33,033 [Uche] When I found out that you had left… 6 00:00:35,160 --> 00:00:37,037 it's like I broke. 7 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:41,833 I thought that we were on the same page the entire way through. 8 00:00:42,584 --> 00:00:44,627 I said, "I love you." You said you loved me. 9 00:00:44,711 --> 00:00:47,756 We were talking about how excited we were… 10 00:00:48,465 --> 00:00:50,592 [chuckles] …to spend the rest of our lives together. 11 00:00:52,260 --> 00:00:55,555 You didn't communicate any kind of doubt to me. 12 00:00:57,724 --> 00:01:02,562 The emotions and the doubts, they started when I found out about Lydia. 13 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:07,108 I got a lot more information from her than I did from you. 14 00:01:07,192 --> 00:01:09,069 [sighs] 15 00:01:09,152 --> 00:01:11,154 And I didn't even ask for it. [chuckles] 16 00:01:11,237 --> 00:01:14,491 We talked about it. I don't have any feelings for her. 17 00:01:14,574 --> 00:01:16,201 According to what she told me, 18 00:01:16,284 --> 00:01:19,370 you had just stopped seeing her a couple months ago, 19 00:01:19,454 --> 00:01:22,499 and she's making, like, all these unnecessary comments 20 00:01:22,582 --> 00:01:25,919 about what she bought you, what she gave your dog, 21 00:01:26,002 --> 00:01:27,545 what kind of car you drive. 22 00:01:27,629 --> 00:01:30,298 -I did not feel comfortable. -You didn't talk to me about that. 23 00:01:30,381 --> 00:01:33,176 Uche, you weren't very receptive to me being emotionally vulnerable 24 00:01:33,259 --> 00:01:35,512 about a flaw that I… a mistake in my past. 25 00:01:35,595 --> 00:01:36,846 [Uche] But I… But I was. 26 00:01:36,930 --> 00:01:39,766 It was a complete 180 turnaround, as you remember. 27 00:01:39,849 --> 00:01:41,518 -And I apologized to you. -You did. 28 00:01:41,601 --> 00:01:43,436 And I said, "I should have been more open." 29 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:45,230 -Okay. -I wanted to be honest with you. 30 00:01:45,313 --> 00:01:48,316 I wanted to make you feel comfortable, but I also… [sniffles] 31 00:01:49,734 --> 00:01:52,195 …still felt the need in the back of my head to, 32 00:01:52,278 --> 00:01:56,116 for whatever reason, to protect Lydia, and her feelings too. 33 00:01:56,199 --> 00:01:57,951 And I know y'all are becoming friends, 34 00:01:58,034 --> 00:02:00,912 and I didn't wanna, like, start to bad-mouth your friends. 35 00:02:00,995 --> 00:02:04,165 Like, I might tell you this stuff about, you know, Lydia, 36 00:02:04,249 --> 00:02:06,209 and then you're thinking, "Oh, wow." 37 00:02:06,292 --> 00:02:09,129 "He talks about women that he used to date that way?" 38 00:02:09,212 --> 00:02:10,672 "What is he gonna say about me?" 39 00:02:10,755 --> 00:02:12,632 -You know, so it's in my head. -Right. 40 00:02:12,715 --> 00:02:15,218 Anything that I did, I was gonna lose, 41 00:02:15,802 --> 00:02:19,347 but I should have explained everything to you, 42 00:02:19,430 --> 00:02:22,225 because I think you would have had a lot more context. 43 00:02:22,308 --> 00:02:23,309 Yeah. 44 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,356 A couple of weeks after we started dating, 45 00:02:29,649 --> 00:02:34,445 I found out she was doing things to… invade my privacy. 46 00:02:34,529 --> 00:02:37,699 -Right. -And she lied to me about it. 47 00:02:37,782 --> 00:02:38,783 And, like I told you, 48 00:02:38,867 --> 00:02:41,494 trust is the most important thing for me in a relationship. 49 00:02:41,578 --> 00:02:43,538 -Right. -I told her it wasn't going to work. 50 00:02:43,621 --> 00:02:44,873 And I broke things off. 51 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,877 She kept on calling me. She kept on texting me. 52 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:50,795 She kept on reaching out to me. 53 00:02:50,879 --> 00:02:52,505 She apologized about it, 54 00:02:53,089 --> 00:02:56,259 and she seemed genuinely remorseful, 55 00:02:56,342 --> 00:02:59,929 and I thought in my head, "Okay, some time has passed." 56 00:03:00,013 --> 00:03:02,640 "Maybe I'll give things another shot with her." 57 00:03:02,724 --> 00:03:05,435 -[Aaliyah] Mmm-hmm. -So we started to see each other again. 58 00:03:06,769 --> 00:03:08,104 Shortly after that, 59 00:03:09,647 --> 00:03:12,650 I started receiving messages from people. 60 00:03:12,734 --> 00:03:15,695 They would send me a screenshot of her Instagram profile, 61 00:03:15,778 --> 00:03:17,864 and they would say, "Do you know this girl?" 62 00:03:17,947 --> 00:03:20,450 And I'm like, "Yeah, that's Lydia." 63 00:03:20,533 --> 00:03:23,077 -[Aaliyah] Mmm-hmm. -And they would tell me, 64 00:03:23,161 --> 00:03:28,374 "This girl, she's been looking at my Instagram stories for weeks now." 65 00:03:29,042 --> 00:03:31,169 So I found out that she was just going through 66 00:03:31,252 --> 00:03:33,129 all the people that I follow 67 00:03:33,755 --> 00:03:35,256 and keeping tabs on them. 68 00:03:35,340 --> 00:03:37,425 And then the worst thing was, 69 00:03:37,508 --> 00:03:40,428 she drives over to my house. 70 00:03:40,511 --> 00:03:43,848 She takes a picture of my driveway, 71 00:03:43,932 --> 00:03:47,685 and she texted it to me with a message that says, "I see you." 72 00:03:47,769 --> 00:03:49,812 [dramatic music playing] 73 00:03:49,896 --> 00:03:53,316 -And I panicked. -Mmm-hmm. 74 00:03:53,399 --> 00:03:55,902 -I didn't know what to do. -Mmm-hmm. 75 00:03:55,985 --> 00:03:59,697 But I knew that this wasn't healthy… 76 00:03:59,781 --> 00:04:00,782 Mmm-hmm. 77 00:04:00,865 --> 00:04:02,533 [Uche] …between both of us. 78 00:04:02,617 --> 00:04:05,370 So I just stopped talking to her. 79 00:04:05,453 --> 00:04:06,621 [Aaliyah] Mmm-hmm. 80 00:04:06,704 --> 00:04:08,623 [Uche] And after a while, 81 00:04:10,166 --> 00:04:11,709 I started to feel bad. 82 00:04:12,377 --> 00:04:15,421 -She was going through a lot. -Mmm-hmm. 83 00:04:16,339 --> 00:04:19,467 -She had just experienced a loss. -Mmm-hmm. 84 00:04:19,550 --> 00:04:23,972 So, although I thought that this was unhealthy… 85 00:04:24,055 --> 00:04:25,056 [Aaliyah] Mmm-hmm. 86 00:04:25,139 --> 00:04:30,520 I also thought in the back of my head, like, "Hey, she needs me." 87 00:04:30,603 --> 00:04:33,898 So I kept on talking to her until the point in time 88 00:04:33,982 --> 00:04:36,109 where things were starting to turn around for her. 89 00:04:36,192 --> 00:04:38,361 She had gotten a whole bunch of new friends. 90 00:04:38,444 --> 00:04:39,904 You know, she was going to therapy. 91 00:04:39,988 --> 00:04:41,364 She was doing a lot better. 92 00:04:41,447 --> 00:04:43,574 So I broke it off with her, and… 93 00:04:43,658 --> 00:04:46,202 [exhales] I don't know. 94 00:04:46,286 --> 00:04:47,912 I didn't bring that up to you, 95 00:04:47,996 --> 00:04:50,498 because I didn't want to, you know, dig up the past, 96 00:04:51,416 --> 00:04:53,251 but I'm like, "Wow." 97 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:56,587 "I should have told Aaliyah that, 98 00:04:56,671 --> 00:05:00,508 because she would have known maybe Lydia still likes this guy." 99 00:05:00,591 --> 00:05:02,385 "She's still obsessed with him." 100 00:05:02,468 --> 00:05:06,306 "You know, maybe she doesn't have the best intentions when it comes to me." 101 00:05:06,389 --> 00:05:10,018 And maybe you would have been able to have your guard up a little bit more. 102 00:05:10,101 --> 00:05:12,812 You guys have this long extensive history, 103 00:05:12,895 --> 00:05:15,565 you know, and I don't care about that part. 104 00:05:15,648 --> 00:05:18,151 That's normal. We're all adults. We date people. 105 00:05:18,234 --> 00:05:20,862 But, to me, it was alarming 106 00:05:20,945 --> 00:05:23,072 because it's like, why are you so concerned 107 00:05:23,156 --> 00:05:25,700 about her and Milton's situation? 108 00:05:29,996 --> 00:05:33,833 You were making comments about her and Milton 109 00:05:33,916 --> 00:05:36,002 and whether he was truly ready for marriage. 110 00:05:36,085 --> 00:05:37,337 You didn't want her to get hurt. 111 00:05:39,005 --> 00:05:41,674 Maybe you just genuinely care about her well-being. 112 00:05:42,467 --> 00:05:45,762 I felt like there was still connectedness there. 113 00:05:46,763 --> 00:05:48,222 I also found out 114 00:05:48,306 --> 00:05:52,143 that she knew you were gonna be here before you guys got here. 115 00:05:52,226 --> 00:05:53,686 She told somebody that? 116 00:05:53,770 --> 00:05:56,898 She told a couple of the girls the first day we were there 117 00:05:56,981 --> 00:06:00,443 that she had a feeling that she was gonna run into somebody from her past. 118 00:06:01,444 --> 00:06:03,029 And I'll be honest, Uche. 119 00:06:03,112 --> 00:06:05,323 For a while, after your reaction, 120 00:06:05,406 --> 00:06:10,078 I was questioning whether you both planned to be here together. 121 00:06:10,161 --> 00:06:13,623 -Um, I didn't know if this was like a… -[chuckling] 122 00:06:13,706 --> 00:06:15,041 I just-- I'm like-- 123 00:06:15,124 --> 00:06:18,169 "Well, damn, if y'all wanted to go on TV, y'all should have done The Ultimatum." 124 00:06:18,252 --> 00:06:21,881 Why the hell would we do that? It doesn't even make any sense. 125 00:06:23,049 --> 00:06:25,426 What would've been the plan? We would have came there, 126 00:06:25,510 --> 00:06:27,929 and we would have pretended that we didn't know each other, 127 00:06:28,012 --> 00:06:30,515 and then we would have developed this fake relationship? 128 00:06:30,598 --> 00:06:32,100 Then went out to the real world, 129 00:06:32,183 --> 00:06:34,268 where our friends have already met each other, 130 00:06:34,352 --> 00:06:36,938 and then our friends are all gonna pretend like we didn't-- 131 00:06:37,021 --> 00:06:38,689 -[Aaliyah chuckles] Stop it. -[laughs] What? 132 00:06:38,773 --> 00:06:41,234 Like, does that even make any sense to you at all? 133 00:06:41,317 --> 00:06:42,402 -Why-- -[laughing] No, but… 134 00:06:42,485 --> 00:06:43,486 [Uche] This girl… 135 00:06:43,569 --> 00:06:46,531 Maybe y'all pretended to break up to go on the show. 136 00:06:46,614 --> 00:06:48,574 -I mean, who knows? You know? -No, no. 137 00:06:48,658 --> 00:06:52,036 When the exchange of words between her and I happened that night, 138 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:55,331 I said something, even though I felt like it was a joke. 139 00:06:55,415 --> 00:06:58,501 I can admit that maybe she had a right to take it wrong. 140 00:06:58,584 --> 00:06:59,752 -Yeah. -What did you say? 141 00:06:59,836 --> 00:07:02,547 [laughing] I said, "If Uche doesn't propose, you can have him back." 142 00:07:02,630 --> 00:07:05,633 But I didn't mean it. Like, I didn't mean it. 143 00:07:05,716 --> 00:07:07,468 -When I said it-- -But you did mean it. 144 00:07:08,052 --> 00:07:09,470 -But you did mean it. -Not really. 145 00:07:10,221 --> 00:07:12,306 It was ruining the experiment for me. 146 00:07:13,307 --> 00:07:14,225 When I left, 147 00:07:14,308 --> 00:07:17,728 I didn't think we wouldn't continue to try to explore a relationship. 148 00:07:17,812 --> 00:07:20,356 That wasn't the ending that I was expecting. 149 00:07:24,444 --> 00:07:26,946 -I regret it. -[bittersweet music playing] 150 00:07:29,824 --> 00:07:31,451 So, what do we do now? 151 00:07:32,410 --> 00:07:33,494 [Uche exhales] 152 00:07:33,578 --> 00:07:36,372 I feel like with just the foundation that we built, 153 00:07:36,456 --> 00:07:38,291 I think it's still worth trying. 154 00:07:40,501 --> 00:07:44,297 I still love you, and I can still see myself marrying you, 155 00:07:44,839 --> 00:07:48,593 but then I also have those doubts as well. 156 00:07:49,469 --> 00:07:52,388 The experiment was very stressful, 157 00:07:53,389 --> 00:07:54,640 but so is a marriage. 158 00:07:54,724 --> 00:07:55,558 Right. 159 00:07:57,059 --> 00:08:01,856 I've witnessed my parents go through things in their marriage that… 160 00:08:01,939 --> 00:08:05,526 [scoffs] …would make the experiment look like a game of musical chairs. 161 00:08:05,610 --> 00:08:06,611 I know. 162 00:08:06,694 --> 00:08:09,113 They never abandoned each other. They never left each other. 163 00:08:10,198 --> 00:08:12,450 Maybe you've reached the point now, 164 00:08:12,533 --> 00:08:18,206 where you think that perhaps you should have stayed… 165 00:08:20,458 --> 00:08:24,378 but the problem is, I feel like in your mind, 166 00:08:24,462 --> 00:08:29,425 you're separating our relationship from the experiment. 167 00:08:29,509 --> 00:08:30,343 -Yeah. -[Uche] Right? 168 00:08:30,426 --> 00:08:33,679 You said, "Oh, I left, but I didn't think that was the end of our relationship." 169 00:08:33,763 --> 00:08:39,268 The experiment and our relationship are the same thing. 170 00:08:39,352 --> 00:08:42,313 How else would we have ever met in the first place? 171 00:08:42,855 --> 00:08:47,360 And that was helping us, you know, communicate and get better. 172 00:08:47,443 --> 00:08:51,405 I was learning to let go of the past and be more open and more accepting. 173 00:08:51,489 --> 00:08:54,867 And you were learning not to run away from your problems 174 00:08:54,951 --> 00:08:56,744 and being able to communicate. 175 00:08:56,827 --> 00:08:58,871 And in the pods, 176 00:08:58,955 --> 00:09:02,333 when we had a disagreement, we sat there, and we talked it out. 177 00:09:03,876 --> 00:09:06,087 And then here, out in the real world… 178 00:09:07,004 --> 00:09:10,633 [scoffs] …I couldn't even get home from the pods, 179 00:09:10,716 --> 00:09:14,804 and you followed me on Instagram, and then you unfollowed me. 180 00:09:14,887 --> 00:09:17,473 And then you sent me a voice message. 181 00:09:17,557 --> 00:09:19,684 And before I could respond to that, you deleted it, 182 00:09:19,767 --> 00:09:21,060 and then you blocked me. 183 00:09:21,143 --> 00:09:24,272 I had no way to contact you for 48 hours. 184 00:09:24,355 --> 00:09:27,066 I had to keep on checking your Instagram account 185 00:09:27,149 --> 00:09:29,694 until you unblocked me, and then I reached out to you. 186 00:09:32,989 --> 00:09:37,535 I've never in my life considered asking somebody… 187 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:41,664 [chuckles] …to marry me. I'm 33 years old. 188 00:09:41,747 --> 00:09:43,249 [gentle music playing] 189 00:09:45,126 --> 00:09:47,336 I was ready to ask you 190 00:09:47,420 --> 00:09:51,674 to spend the rest of our lives together, 191 00:09:51,757 --> 00:09:53,134 and you didn't show up. 192 00:09:54,677 --> 00:10:00,474 You told me that you left because, you know, you got into a fight with Lydia. 193 00:10:01,392 --> 00:10:04,604 You kept on saying, "Oh, you left because of her, 194 00:10:04,687 --> 00:10:06,981 and because you couldn't deal with that situation." 195 00:10:07,064 --> 00:10:12,320 But the real reason is you didn't have confidence in me, 196 00:10:12,403 --> 00:10:14,947 and you didn't have confidence in our relationship. 197 00:10:15,031 --> 00:10:17,742 ["Deep End" by BMG Production Music UK playing] 198 00:10:20,745 --> 00:10:22,580 I think it's over between us. 199 00:10:24,290 --> 00:10:26,626 ["Deep End" continues playing] 200 00:10:27,710 --> 00:10:30,379 I understand. [exhales] 201 00:10:30,463 --> 00:10:32,882 ♪ I don't wanna love you ♪ 202 00:10:32,965 --> 00:10:35,259 ♪ I don't wanna hold you ♪ 203 00:10:35,343 --> 00:10:38,679 ♪ I don't wanna show you how ♪ 204 00:10:39,972 --> 00:10:42,308 ♪ You took what you needed ♪ 205 00:10:42,391 --> 00:10:44,644 ♪ Left me out here bleeding ♪ 206 00:10:44,727 --> 00:10:48,105 ♪ Holding on so I don't drown ♪ 207 00:10:49,565 --> 00:10:51,692 ♪ I don't wanna love you ♪ 208 00:10:51,776 --> 00:10:54,278 ♪ I don't wanna hold you ♪ 209 00:10:54,362 --> 00:10:57,698 ♪ I don't wanna show you how ♪ 210 00:10:59,825 --> 00:11:03,496 [Stacy] Part of me is worried that there's gonna be dishes in the sink and mildew. 211 00:11:03,579 --> 00:11:05,998 [Izzy] Oh, you think I actually have, like, mold in my place? 212 00:11:06,082 --> 00:11:10,002 [Stacy] Mildew! Like, the pink ring around the toilet. 213 00:11:10,086 --> 00:11:13,255 -[Izzy chuckles] I guess you'll see. -[laughs] Oh, my God! 214 00:11:13,339 --> 00:11:15,132 [upbeat music playing] 215 00:11:15,216 --> 00:11:18,344 -[Izzy] All right. -Oh! Okay, it's clean! 216 00:11:18,427 --> 00:11:20,346 You were scaring me. 217 00:11:20,429 --> 00:11:21,806 And you have teal flowers. 218 00:11:21,889 --> 00:11:23,849 -Did you do this yourself? -I did. 219 00:11:23,933 --> 00:11:26,644 -[Stacy laughs] It looks pretty girly. -It is very girly. Yeah. 220 00:11:26,727 --> 00:11:29,689 -It's a very Hobby Lobby house. -I don't know why you were so worried. 221 00:11:29,772 --> 00:11:32,066 I was expecting this to be, like, disgusting. 222 00:11:32,149 --> 00:11:35,945 This is better than I would expect for a bachelor. 223 00:11:36,028 --> 00:11:37,530 So, you don't do nightstands? 224 00:11:37,613 --> 00:11:39,615 I actually got rid of my nightstands when I moved. 225 00:11:39,699 --> 00:11:41,200 So, furniture makes sense. 226 00:11:41,283 --> 00:11:43,703 -Obviously. -Like, a nightstand would go here… 227 00:11:43,786 --> 00:11:46,956 When you're a bachelor, and you don't really have people over very much… 228 00:11:47,039 --> 00:11:50,751 When you're a bachelor, you have certain people over all the time. 229 00:11:50,835 --> 00:11:52,336 I don't know what you're talking about. 230 00:11:52,420 --> 00:11:56,757 And those people love a nightstand to, like, put their jewelry on, or… 231 00:11:56,841 --> 00:11:58,342 I've never had any complaints. 232 00:11:58,926 --> 00:12:01,053 Usually the jewelry and everything goes here, 233 00:12:01,137 --> 00:12:02,471 and there's a lost and found. 234 00:12:03,514 --> 00:12:04,890 [laughing] 235 00:12:04,974 --> 00:12:06,475 What do you mean? 236 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:09,520 [Izzy] Okay, let's see. Um, what do we have here? 237 00:12:09,603 --> 00:12:12,857 I love that the lost and found is also with the condoms. 238 00:12:13,524 --> 00:12:16,402 I'm a very responsible guy. It's a good thing. 239 00:12:16,485 --> 00:12:18,821 So we got a ring, earrings… 240 00:12:18,904 --> 00:12:22,116 -Whose are those? You don't know. -At this point, no. 241 00:12:22,199 --> 00:12:24,243 -You're lying! -[laughing] No, I really don't know. 242 00:12:24,326 --> 00:12:26,871 I've been here, like, a year and a half now, so… 243 00:12:26,954 --> 00:12:29,749 -Bobby pins… -Are we just throwing it all out there? 244 00:12:29,832 --> 00:12:32,460 [Stacy] You're the one that just sold yourself to the devil. 245 00:12:32,543 --> 00:12:35,504 If we're gonna get married, I'm not gonna hold anything back from you. 246 00:12:35,588 --> 00:12:38,048 -Okay, well, then whose are they? -No, I really don't know. 247 00:12:38,132 --> 00:12:40,718 [laughs] I'm not lying to you. I don't know. 248 00:12:41,802 --> 00:12:43,220 Oh, geez. Okay. 249 00:12:43,304 --> 00:12:44,930 I just think that's really immature. 250 00:12:45,014 --> 00:12:47,558 Throw it away, especially if you don't know who it belongs to. 251 00:12:47,641 --> 00:12:48,976 Why are you keeping it? 252 00:12:49,059 --> 00:12:50,186 We gotta see. 253 00:12:52,313 --> 00:12:53,981 So you have no dishes. 254 00:12:54,565 --> 00:12:57,067 Uh, yeah! Well, what do you-- Oh, no. Like, glass or anything? No. 255 00:12:58,819 --> 00:13:00,738 [both laugh] 256 00:13:00,821 --> 00:13:03,032 Oh, my God! 257 00:13:03,115 --> 00:13:06,076 I guess when I was 29… no, probably when I was, like, 26… 258 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:07,369 No, actually, never. 259 00:13:07,453 --> 00:13:10,122 I never had Red Solo cups or plasticware. 260 00:13:10,206 --> 00:13:11,957 I never had a lost and found drawer. 261 00:13:12,041 --> 00:13:13,000 This is astonishing. 262 00:13:13,083 --> 00:13:17,922 I don't know. Is that something that comes with maturity, or is that just how he is? 263 00:13:18,422 --> 00:13:20,049 We talked about cooking for each other. 264 00:13:20,132 --> 00:13:22,468 -Yeah. -You would give me plastic? 265 00:13:22,551 --> 00:13:23,969 Would you still love me? 266 00:13:24,595 --> 00:13:27,473 I would bring over silverware. 267 00:13:27,556 --> 00:13:30,142 But what if it was first date and we're vibing… 268 00:13:30,226 --> 00:13:32,144 I would judge the fuck out of you. 269 00:13:32,228 --> 00:13:34,230 I went out of my way to cook you this great meal, 270 00:13:34,313 --> 00:13:36,857 but I served you on plastic, you're still gonna judge me? 271 00:13:36,941 --> 00:13:38,776 -Yes. -Ouch! 272 00:13:38,859 --> 00:13:41,612 When have you ever met a girl out and come back and cook for her? 273 00:13:41,695 --> 00:13:44,448 -I've done it a couple times. -So you did serve her plastic. 274 00:13:44,532 --> 00:13:47,535 -Uh-huh. -[laughing] 275 00:13:47,618 --> 00:13:50,079 -You were, "I don't have people over--" -And I was never judged. 276 00:13:50,162 --> 00:13:51,831 It was the thought that counted. 277 00:13:51,914 --> 00:13:53,582 But good to know, baby. 278 00:13:53,666 --> 00:13:55,918 I know we come from different backgrounds. 279 00:13:56,001 --> 00:13:58,587 I've worked very hard to get where I'm at now. 280 00:13:58,671 --> 00:14:03,092 Like, I didn't have, you know, like, fancy dinners and restaurants, 281 00:14:03,175 --> 00:14:04,885 and, you know, things like that. 282 00:14:04,969 --> 00:14:07,513 I don't want you to feel like I'm, like, nagging you right now. 283 00:14:07,596 --> 00:14:08,848 I'm taking it all in. 284 00:14:08,931 --> 00:14:10,724 This is a side of you I haven't seen. 285 00:14:10,808 --> 00:14:13,269 And I'm also like, "You're a man." 286 00:14:13,853 --> 00:14:14,728 "You're a man." 287 00:14:14,812 --> 00:14:17,898 "You're not gonna have, like, spotless… and things that make sense." 288 00:14:17,982 --> 00:14:19,066 [laughing] 289 00:14:19,149 --> 00:14:22,236 So, I hear you out. You hear me out. 290 00:14:22,319 --> 00:14:23,779 You get what you get. 291 00:14:23,863 --> 00:14:26,407 And either you like me for me and what comes with it, 292 00:14:26,991 --> 00:14:27,908 or you don't. 293 00:14:27,992 --> 00:14:31,120 [Izzy] I know Stacy is older than me. I know she's dated older. 294 00:14:31,704 --> 00:14:33,873 Like, dudes, like, ten years older than her, 295 00:14:33,956 --> 00:14:37,585 so they're, like, in their 40s, you know, early 40s, 296 00:14:38,335 --> 00:14:39,336 and I'm 29. 297 00:14:39,420 --> 00:14:44,091 But at the same time, I'm a lot more emotionally stable than they are. 298 00:14:44,174 --> 00:14:46,093 That's obviously why she's with me. 299 00:14:46,176 --> 00:14:48,137 So I don't really feel like age makes a difference. 300 00:14:48,220 --> 00:14:51,557 It's very minute things, like fucking plates. 301 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:54,685 [laughs] So yeah. 302 00:14:54,768 --> 00:14:56,145 [Stacy] Here's my thing. 303 00:14:56,228 --> 00:14:58,981 The explanation between the lost and found. 304 00:14:59,064 --> 00:15:01,567 -It kinda threw me off a little bit. -In what sense? 305 00:15:01,650 --> 00:15:04,570 That you keep things for people that you don't know who they belong to. 306 00:15:04,653 --> 00:15:07,239 [chuckles] To be honest, I forget that they're there. 307 00:15:07,323 --> 00:15:09,575 -I don't know. -Why don't you throw them away? 308 00:15:11,035 --> 00:15:11,869 I don't know. 309 00:15:11,952 --> 00:15:14,663 Do you feel like there's some sort of sentimental thing toward it? 310 00:15:14,747 --> 00:15:16,999 I don't! That's why I don't understand why you have them. 311 00:15:17,082 --> 00:15:18,250 I mean, I don't know. 312 00:15:18,334 --> 00:15:21,795 In the room, you knew exactly that there was a lost and found drawer. 313 00:15:21,879 --> 00:15:23,213 -It was like a joke. -Yeah. 314 00:15:23,297 --> 00:15:28,427 I went and just saw that last night, then I was like, "Holy shit. I forgot it." 315 00:15:28,510 --> 00:15:30,346 You saw it last night and didn't throw it away. 316 00:15:30,429 --> 00:15:32,556 [Izzy] Yeah, because, like, I just-- 317 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:34,600 I don't know. Like, I'm not gonna lie to you. 318 00:15:34,683 --> 00:15:38,312 I know, but you're engaged to me. So I would throw everything out. 319 00:15:38,395 --> 00:15:41,440 I threw out pictures of everyone that I had pictures of. 320 00:15:41,523 --> 00:15:43,817 I find that weird. 321 00:15:44,401 --> 00:15:47,571 Knowing that you even saw it last night, and you just left it there, 322 00:15:47,655 --> 00:15:50,074 and then you're telling me about it, and joking about it. 323 00:15:50,157 --> 00:15:52,201 I don't know. I did not find it funny. 324 00:15:52,284 --> 00:15:54,453 [Izzy] I left everything for a reason, 325 00:15:54,536 --> 00:15:58,707 and it was for you to see how my life was before you. 326 00:15:58,791 --> 00:16:01,168 So then what does that represent? 327 00:16:01,251 --> 00:16:03,462 For you to still be able to accept me through everything. 328 00:16:03,545 --> 00:16:04,797 So you wanted me to see-- 329 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:07,591 -I didn't want you to see it. -Why didn't you throw it away? 330 00:16:07,675 --> 00:16:09,093 Well, what are you thinking? 331 00:16:09,176 --> 00:16:11,095 Do you think I'm doing it purposely or something? 332 00:16:11,178 --> 00:16:13,681 No, I'm thinking you knew I was coming over to see your place. 333 00:16:13,764 --> 00:16:15,057 -You left it. -Well, I figured-- 334 00:16:15,140 --> 00:16:18,477 You're saying you left it because you wanted me to know who you were before. 335 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:21,689 I'm taking it as you want me to see you as a fuck boy that hooks up with people. 336 00:16:21,772 --> 00:16:23,065 You make dinners for whoever. 337 00:16:23,148 --> 00:16:25,985 You don't care what people think as far as what you're serving it on. 338 00:16:26,068 --> 00:16:27,444 That's the vibe I'm getting. 339 00:16:27,528 --> 00:16:30,114 I just try to be very raw with everything. 340 00:16:30,197 --> 00:16:34,159 And I figured you were about to go through every drawer. 341 00:16:34,243 --> 00:16:36,787 I mean, obviously, you were going through all of my cabinets. 342 00:16:36,870 --> 00:16:40,582 I know, and my point is I think any sane person 343 00:16:40,666 --> 00:16:44,378 or engaged person would take these one earring, ring, whatever, 344 00:16:44,461 --> 00:16:45,963 that you don't know who they belong to 345 00:16:46,046 --> 00:16:47,339 and fucking throw 'em away. 346 00:16:47,423 --> 00:16:50,926 I just wanted to be-- just you to see my place. 347 00:16:51,010 --> 00:16:52,511 You don't know anything about me. 348 00:16:53,095 --> 00:16:54,847 I don't know anything about you? 349 00:16:54,930 --> 00:16:57,558 [Izzy] I mean, like, my living situation. 350 00:16:57,641 --> 00:16:59,685 Why are we gonna sit here and act 351 00:16:59,768 --> 00:17:02,354 like we didn't have a life before the pods? 352 00:17:02,438 --> 00:17:03,439 Oh, I'm not. 353 00:17:03,522 --> 00:17:06,233 I'm telling you I had one before and out of respect for you, 354 00:17:06,316 --> 00:17:09,111 I got rid of certain things. I wouldn't want you to see that. 355 00:17:09,194 --> 00:17:11,155 And it doesn't matter to me. So I got rid of it. 356 00:17:11,238 --> 00:17:12,239 You're my fiancée. 357 00:17:12,322 --> 00:17:13,741 You think what I'm gonna try to do 358 00:17:13,824 --> 00:17:17,161 is throw girls in my dating life in your face? 359 00:17:17,244 --> 00:17:18,495 I never said that. 360 00:17:18,579 --> 00:17:21,457 I'm not mad about that. I don't expect you to, like, go through-- 361 00:17:21,540 --> 00:17:22,708 Are you mad? 362 00:17:22,791 --> 00:17:23,667 Yeah. 363 00:17:24,752 --> 00:17:27,463 I'm confused. It's not making sense. 364 00:17:27,546 --> 00:17:31,091 And what you're saying right now isn't helping me to understand, 365 00:17:31,175 --> 00:17:33,052 like, not even in the slightest bit. 366 00:17:33,677 --> 00:17:36,680 It's making me question if you're really ready for commitment. 367 00:17:36,764 --> 00:17:40,100 If you're really ready to give yourself to someone and compromise, 368 00:17:40,184 --> 00:17:43,062 'cause your responses with things seem very, 369 00:17:43,145 --> 00:17:44,980 "This is how I am." 370 00:17:45,064 --> 00:17:47,441 If you would have met me outside of pod life… 371 00:17:47,524 --> 00:17:50,402 [chuckles] …'cause I didn't serve you on a glass plate, is that gonna be 372 00:17:50,486 --> 00:17:53,614 an expectation I don't reach, and you're gonna cut me off for that? 373 00:17:54,615 --> 00:17:57,367 I did feel like you were being materialistic in that moment. 374 00:17:57,451 --> 00:17:59,161 No, here's my thing… 375 00:17:59,244 --> 00:18:00,788 [Izzy] Do you hear me out though? 376 00:18:00,871 --> 00:18:03,373 -Yeah. And I'm trying to address it. -Okay. 377 00:18:03,457 --> 00:18:06,835 I've been in the same situation, and if I know what you like, 378 00:18:06,919 --> 00:18:09,129 I'm making it happen, 'cause I know that's what you like. 379 00:18:09,213 --> 00:18:11,340 And that was my point, and you're making it seem 380 00:18:11,423 --> 00:18:13,675 like I was making it about materialistic things. 381 00:18:13,759 --> 00:18:16,178 -That's how it felt to me. -Okay. 382 00:18:16,261 --> 00:18:18,388 I told you, "It's the thought, the effort that counted." 383 00:18:18,472 --> 00:18:20,933 -I get what you're saying-- -Can you please stop cutting me off? 384 00:18:21,016 --> 00:18:23,143 [dramatic music playing] 385 00:18:40,244 --> 00:18:42,246 [music stops] 386 00:18:55,384 --> 00:18:56,760 [Izzy sighs] 387 00:18:58,137 --> 00:19:00,139 ["Love Is Blind" by Nate Smith playing] 388 00:19:02,307 --> 00:19:05,727 ♪ It would be So much easier to let me go ♪ 389 00:19:07,354 --> 00:19:10,858 ♪ Let me keep on Wandering down my lonely road… ♪ 390 00:19:10,941 --> 00:19:14,069 [crying] I just don't wanna be here right now. I wanna go home. 391 00:19:16,697 --> 00:19:19,616 [Izzy] I know you're probably frustrated as shit right now. 392 00:19:19,700 --> 00:19:21,660 You probably don't want me around you. 393 00:19:23,078 --> 00:19:23,996 I know this sucks, 394 00:19:24,621 --> 00:19:27,457 but you tell me that you want someone who's gonna fight. 395 00:19:28,917 --> 00:19:29,793 I'm fighting. 396 00:19:30,711 --> 00:19:32,337 I just want you to know that I love you. 397 00:19:33,839 --> 00:19:36,508 ♪ I ain't that patient ♪ 398 00:19:36,592 --> 00:19:38,552 ♪ I ain't that kind ♪ 399 00:19:39,428 --> 00:19:44,016 ♪ A little bit crazy most of my life ♪ 400 00:19:44,766 --> 00:19:47,269 ♪ Girl, you saved me ♪ 401 00:19:47,352 --> 00:19:51,565 ♪ I don't know why ♪ 402 00:19:51,648 --> 00:19:56,278 ♪ But I thank God That your love is blind… ♪ 403 00:19:57,654 --> 00:19:59,448 -[Lydia] Hi. -Hi. 404 00:19:59,531 --> 00:20:00,908 [Lydia Sr. laughing] Hello! 405 00:20:00,991 --> 00:20:02,367 [speaking Spanish] 406 00:20:03,202 --> 00:20:04,870 -Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. 407 00:20:04,953 --> 00:20:06,747 -Hi. Nice to meet you. -[Lydia Sr.] Hi! 408 00:20:06,830 --> 00:20:08,665 [laughs and speaks Spanish] 409 00:20:08,749 --> 00:20:13,212 Since Lydia is my fiancée, like, I'm definitely a little more nervous 410 00:20:13,295 --> 00:20:15,047 meeting her mom and her brother, 411 00:20:15,130 --> 00:20:18,675 just because I think first impressions really matter, 412 00:20:19,676 --> 00:20:21,261 and I wanna have a good first impression. 413 00:20:21,345 --> 00:20:25,307 So I'm like, "Do I wanna seem, like, very mature?" 414 00:20:25,807 --> 00:20:29,269 Or, like, should I seem, like, super lovey? 415 00:20:29,353 --> 00:20:31,104 Meeting her mom is like… 416 00:20:32,272 --> 00:20:33,190 It's like, "Wow." 417 00:20:33,732 --> 00:20:36,485 Like, if she can accept me and love me, 418 00:20:36,568 --> 00:20:39,529 then I think we can, like, really make this work. 419 00:20:39,613 --> 00:20:42,241 -[accented] Are you happy with Lydia? -[Milton] Excuse me? 420 00:20:42,324 --> 00:20:44,326 -[Lydia Sr.] Are you happy with Lydia? -Yes, ma'am. 421 00:20:44,409 --> 00:20:46,703 What do you feel about Lydia? 422 00:20:46,787 --> 00:20:49,957 When I'm with Lydia, it feels like we're little kids again, 423 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:53,543 like, goofing off all the time, running around the house. 424 00:20:53,627 --> 00:20:56,546 It's, like, very loud, but peaceful at the same time. 425 00:20:56,630 --> 00:20:59,049 But you're aware about the serious part of it, right? 426 00:20:59,716 --> 00:21:02,761 Mmm-hmm. In the pod, we talked about work. 427 00:21:02,844 --> 00:21:04,304 We talked about our families. 428 00:21:04,388 --> 00:21:08,100 We talked about the differences between, like, how we are. 429 00:21:08,183 --> 00:21:09,184 [William] Mmm-hmm. 430 00:21:09,268 --> 00:21:11,270 And we kind of balance each other out really well. 431 00:21:11,353 --> 00:21:12,771 [Lydia] I told him, like, 432 00:21:12,854 --> 00:21:16,275 "Are you ready to really tackle 433 00:21:16,358 --> 00:21:19,486 all the challenges that we're gonna face?" 434 00:21:19,569 --> 00:21:22,614 -[Lydia Sr.] Pero-- -"Are you ready to be married to me?" 435 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:24,491 That's yes. 436 00:21:26,535 --> 00:21:31,957 In every role of the life, married, sons, um-- 437 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:35,419 -[Lydia] Kids. -How many children do you have? 438 00:21:35,502 --> 00:21:38,005 -How many children do I have? -[Lydia Sr.] Do you want? 439 00:21:38,088 --> 00:21:42,509 -Oh, three. I think three's a good number. -Ay! I like it. That number. 440 00:21:43,093 --> 00:21:44,803 I wanna say two and adopt one. 441 00:21:45,470 --> 00:21:48,807 He wants to adopt one. And, well, I did agree on that, but… 442 00:21:48,890 --> 00:21:51,226 I'm gonna ask you the same question after the first one. 443 00:21:51,310 --> 00:21:55,022 I just… I just don't feel like… There has to be a minimum of two. 444 00:21:55,105 --> 00:21:57,899 The firstborn is quiet. 445 00:21:57,983 --> 00:22:00,277 -No, he's not! That's not true! -[arguing] 446 00:22:00,360 --> 00:22:03,113 And the second… And the second, well, the second… 447 00:22:03,196 --> 00:22:05,949 -Mom! -…is… [exclaims indistinctly] 448 00:22:06,033 --> 00:22:08,493 [all laughing] 449 00:22:09,161 --> 00:22:11,079 [Milton] She's definitely very passionate. 450 00:22:11,163 --> 00:22:12,164 I got it from her. 451 00:22:12,247 --> 00:22:13,457 [Milton] In the pod, 452 00:22:13,540 --> 00:22:16,168 when you walked in, you always knew who Lydia was. 453 00:22:16,251 --> 00:22:19,087 I could hear a voice. I'm like, "Oh, yeah. That's Lydia." 454 00:22:19,171 --> 00:22:20,839 -[Lydia laughing] -I know. 455 00:22:20,922 --> 00:22:23,050 -Because she's loud. -[all laughing] 456 00:22:23,133 --> 00:22:24,551 It's just my volume. 457 00:22:24,634 --> 00:22:26,011 [Milton] On the flight back here, 458 00:22:26,094 --> 00:22:28,055 from the back of the plane, like, looking at us. 459 00:22:28,138 --> 00:22:30,932 -[laughing] Well, we were laughing. -I'm like… 460 00:22:31,016 --> 00:22:33,435 She laughs really loud, and she talks really loud too. 461 00:22:33,518 --> 00:22:35,103 She's a teacher, so of course. 462 00:22:35,187 --> 00:22:37,189 I did two years of Spanish in high school. 463 00:22:37,272 --> 00:22:39,524 The only phrase in Spanish that you know. 464 00:22:39,608 --> 00:22:42,069 Uh, me gusta, no me gusta. 465 00:22:42,152 --> 00:22:43,904 Me gusta, no me gusta. Okay. 466 00:22:43,987 --> 00:22:48,367 [speaking Spanish] 467 00:22:48,909 --> 00:22:50,577 Something about a boy? 468 00:22:50,660 --> 00:22:53,288 [William] If you have kids, would you expect them to be bilingual? 469 00:22:53,372 --> 00:22:55,957 -Yeah, I think it's super important. -We already discussed that. 470 00:22:56,041 --> 00:22:59,336 And I told him, like, at home, they're gonna speak only Spanish. 471 00:22:59,419 --> 00:23:02,464 So it's less of a discussion. You just said it was gonna be that way. 472 00:23:02,547 --> 00:23:04,674 -[Lydia] Yes. -You're very demanding. 473 00:23:04,758 --> 00:23:06,093 When she wants something… 474 00:23:06,176 --> 00:23:07,719 -Oh, I've heard. -Do not tell him that. 475 00:23:07,803 --> 00:23:09,346 -She's demanding. -[Lydia Sr.] Yeah. 476 00:23:09,846 --> 00:23:12,307 -How do you handle disagreements? -Lydia's, like, super OCD. 477 00:23:12,391 --> 00:23:14,184 [Lydia] He-- No! Well, that's from her. 478 00:23:14,267 --> 00:23:16,853 [Milton] She's like, "Milton, your toothbrush is on the counter." 479 00:23:16,937 --> 00:23:19,314 -"Why is it not in the drawer?" -[Lydia] There's a place! 480 00:23:19,398 --> 00:23:21,400 Yeah, but can it be on the counter here next to my-- 481 00:23:21,483 --> 00:23:24,403 [Lydia] He left the toothpaste open. 482 00:23:24,486 --> 00:23:27,072 -[speaking Spanish] -I didn't… 483 00:23:27,155 --> 00:23:28,323 -I didn't-- -[Lydia Sr.] No. 484 00:23:28,407 --> 00:23:29,533 -[Lydia] Yes! -No, no. 485 00:23:29,616 --> 00:23:31,993 [William] You're fighting a losing battle, man, on this one. 486 00:23:32,077 --> 00:23:35,372 -He leaves the towel on the fucking floor. -No, no, no, that's not what happened. 487 00:23:35,455 --> 00:23:37,165 -[Lydia] You never picked it up! -Pick it up. 488 00:23:37,249 --> 00:23:39,376 [Milton] There are times you go to work, you're running… 489 00:23:39,459 --> 00:23:40,877 Like, "Hey, I can't be late…" 490 00:23:40,961 --> 00:23:43,755 [William] I wanna be your advocate, but you're fighting a losing battle. 491 00:23:43,839 --> 00:23:44,673 [laughs] 492 00:23:44,756 --> 00:23:47,509 With Lydia, it's really good because we always find that compromise. 493 00:23:47,592 --> 00:23:49,261 [Lydia] He listens. 494 00:23:49,344 --> 00:23:51,054 I say, "I don't like this," 495 00:23:51,138 --> 00:23:53,598 and he immediately tries to correct this. 496 00:23:54,724 --> 00:23:56,685 He tries to understand why it bothers me, 497 00:23:56,768 --> 00:23:57,936 and I do know, 498 00:23:58,019 --> 00:24:02,607 and I am reassuring you that I know you have my back. 499 00:24:03,942 --> 00:24:06,069 And that is… 500 00:24:07,070 --> 00:24:09,156 one of the most important things. 501 00:24:11,199 --> 00:24:13,535 And I do not take that for granted. 502 00:24:13,618 --> 00:24:15,996 [uplifting music playing] 503 00:24:16,079 --> 00:24:20,250 [speaking Spanish] 504 00:24:21,251 --> 00:24:23,253 [continues speaking Spanish] 505 00:24:27,924 --> 00:24:29,968 Okay, slow down. I gotta translate. Um, uh… 506 00:24:30,051 --> 00:24:32,053 [laughing] 507 00:24:32,137 --> 00:24:34,264 "She has always been the adventurer." 508 00:24:34,347 --> 00:24:37,142 "She's always been the one to do things that have been the most… 509 00:24:37,225 --> 00:24:38,143 emotional things?" 510 00:24:38,226 --> 00:24:40,061 -Passionate. -[William] And passionate. 511 00:24:40,145 --> 00:24:42,314 -Yeah. -[Lydia Sr. speaking Spanish] 512 00:24:43,273 --> 00:24:44,733 -[Lydia] Don't cry. -No! 513 00:24:44,816 --> 00:24:47,152 -She's already cried three times. -[Lydia] I love you. 514 00:24:47,235 --> 00:24:49,154 -[Lydia Sr.] I love you so much. -I know you do. 515 00:24:49,237 --> 00:24:52,991 -I love you too. You're my everything. -[speaking Spanish] 516 00:24:53,074 --> 00:24:55,952 [William] "The only thing I want for you is to be happy. Both of you." 517 00:24:58,079 --> 00:25:00,081 [uplifting music continues] 518 00:25:01,875 --> 00:25:05,128 It's just, like, very different, like, seeing your guys' bonds, 519 00:25:05,212 --> 00:25:07,422 like, how you guys just all, like, got emotional. 520 00:25:07,506 --> 00:25:09,174 It's like, "Oh, my God," like… 521 00:25:09,758 --> 00:25:12,219 -Ah! That's good. -[Milton] It's something I'm not used to. 522 00:25:12,302 --> 00:25:17,265 But, like, I guess I've kind of always wanted that for my family. 523 00:25:17,349 --> 00:25:19,518 [speaking Spanish] 524 00:25:20,352 --> 00:25:21,186 What was that? 525 00:25:21,269 --> 00:25:23,188 [William] "We accept you in our family," she said. 526 00:25:23,271 --> 00:25:24,272 Oh, thank you. 527 00:25:24,356 --> 00:25:26,233 Yeah, I agree. We can keep him. 528 00:25:26,316 --> 00:25:29,277 -"We can keep him"? You like him? -[Lydia Sr.] We can keep him! Yeah! 529 00:25:29,361 --> 00:25:30,779 No return policy. 530 00:25:30,862 --> 00:25:32,948 -[Milton] Got you. -No return. No. Please. 531 00:25:33,865 --> 00:25:35,116 -Got you. -[Lydia Sr.] No return. 532 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:38,828 And when you do have babies, we're gonna take a 12-month cruise 533 00:25:38,912 --> 00:25:40,497 until the baby is born, 534 00:25:40,580 --> 00:25:42,374 'cause we're not dealing with her pregnant. 535 00:25:42,457 --> 00:25:43,917 [laughing] 536 00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:47,045 -Is it too late to get out? -[all laughing] 537 00:25:47,128 --> 00:25:49,839 ["Nothing's Better Than This" by Heather Evans playing] 538 00:25:50,966 --> 00:25:51,841 Cheers. 539 00:25:51,925 --> 00:25:52,842 Cheers. 540 00:25:52,926 --> 00:25:55,178 -[Lydia Sr.] Welcome to my family. -[Milton] Thank you. 541 00:25:55,262 --> 00:25:58,265 -[Lydia Sr. laughs] -["Nothing's Better Than This" continues] 542 00:26:02,936 --> 00:26:05,564 ♪ Nothing's better than this ♪ 543 00:26:06,439 --> 00:26:08,900 If I'm not coming straight from the interstate, 544 00:26:08,984 --> 00:26:11,319 I always forget how to get to my dad's. 545 00:26:11,861 --> 00:26:14,281 -How long has he lived here? [yawns] -Um… 546 00:26:14,364 --> 00:26:17,450 Probably, like, six years, if I had to guess? 547 00:26:17,534 --> 00:26:18,368 [Izzy] Oh, okay. 548 00:26:19,578 --> 00:26:21,830 [Stacy] Last night did make me pretty angry, 549 00:26:21,913 --> 00:26:26,126 but I've never had that partner, that man, that like, "I'm not gonna leave, 550 00:26:26,209 --> 00:26:29,421 even when you're the worst person I know and I regret everything." 551 00:26:29,504 --> 00:26:32,173 [laughing] "I'm not gonna leave you." And it's like, "Are you sure?" 552 00:26:33,216 --> 00:26:37,387 He's so macho and tough in a certain way, but when it comes to emotion, he's not. 553 00:26:37,470 --> 00:26:38,638 It's so perplexing. 554 00:26:38,722 --> 00:26:42,100 But, like, that's what is that whole, like "zsa zsa zsu" 555 00:26:42,183 --> 00:26:44,769 that brings me into him, that makes me trust him, 556 00:26:44,853 --> 00:26:47,731 where it's that, like, out of nowhere softness. 557 00:26:48,565 --> 00:26:52,235 Have you ever had a walkway feel so long as this one right now? [chuckles] 558 00:26:52,319 --> 00:26:53,903 Uh, yeah. Reveal. [chuckles] 559 00:26:53,987 --> 00:26:56,573 It's the complete opposite of what you expect 560 00:26:56,656 --> 00:26:59,659 in a masculine, like, heavy hitter. 561 00:26:59,743 --> 00:27:01,453 [both exhale] 562 00:27:02,329 --> 00:27:04,456 -[woman loudly] Hello! -[Izzy] Hello-hello! 563 00:27:04,539 --> 00:27:06,416 -Hi! -[all exclaiming] 564 00:27:06,499 --> 00:27:08,627 -[Stacy] Hi! -[Chelsea] Oh, my goodness! 565 00:27:08,710 --> 00:27:11,338 -[Izzy] How are you? Thank you. -Good. 566 00:27:11,421 --> 00:27:13,548 -[Tracy] Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. 567 00:27:14,049 --> 00:27:16,259 -Hello! How are you doing? -[Dale] Nice to meet you, man! 568 00:27:16,343 --> 00:27:18,178 -[Izzy] Pleasure to meet you. -Nice to meet you! 569 00:27:18,261 --> 00:27:23,016 Let's grab a drink and get started to the… get to know Izzy. 570 00:27:23,099 --> 00:27:26,102 -This is exciting. -[Chelsea] There's so much anticipation! 571 00:27:26,853 --> 00:27:28,146 [Tracy] This is pretty. 572 00:27:28,813 --> 00:27:31,691 Oh, yeah. That came with the engagement. [laughs] 573 00:27:31,775 --> 00:27:33,610 -[Izzy] Oh, yeah! -[Tracy] You got a ring! 574 00:27:33,693 --> 00:27:36,446 -[Sloan] It's gorgeous. -[Stacy] Thank you. It's so sparkly. 575 00:27:36,529 --> 00:27:38,073 -[Chelsea] So pretty! -[Sloan] Goodness! 576 00:27:38,156 --> 00:27:40,950 -[Izzy] She has the prettiest ring. -[Tracy] It is pretty. 577 00:27:41,034 --> 00:27:43,828 I told him in the pods. He's like, "What kind of ring would you like?" 578 00:27:43,912 --> 00:27:45,580 I was like, "Give me a band or a boulder." 579 00:27:46,373 --> 00:27:48,833 -[Tracy] There you go. -And no one's shocked by that answer. 580 00:27:48,917 --> 00:27:50,543 [laughing] 581 00:27:50,627 --> 00:27:53,713 Here's to you guys. We're so excited to meet you, Izzy. 582 00:27:53,797 --> 00:27:56,091 -Congrats! -[Stacy] Thank you! 583 00:27:56,174 --> 00:27:58,259 -[Sloan] Welcome to the fam. -[Chelsea] Yeah! 584 00:27:58,343 --> 00:28:00,095 -Thank you. -[Stacy] And all of our craziness. 585 00:28:00,178 --> 00:28:02,555 -God bless you. -[Izzy] Thank you. Cheers. Thank you. 586 00:28:03,056 --> 00:28:04,057 Oh, my gosh. 587 00:28:04,140 --> 00:28:06,309 How's it been raising three girls? 588 00:28:06,393 --> 00:28:07,894 -Oh, they're a handful. -Yeah? 589 00:28:07,977 --> 00:28:09,938 Yeah. Yeah, there was one trip that we took. 590 00:28:10,021 --> 00:28:12,691 I remember they took an entire suitcase. It was nothing but shoes. 591 00:28:12,774 --> 00:28:14,943 -[Sloan laughing] -We were going to France for two weeks! 592 00:28:15,026 --> 00:28:17,487 -But the suitcase was, like, this big. -[Chelsea] It was a big-- 593 00:28:17,570 --> 00:28:19,864 We get to Nice, and the driver picks it up. 594 00:28:19,948 --> 00:28:23,118 He's like, "What is this?" I'm like, "That's shoes. It's just shoes." 595 00:28:23,201 --> 00:28:24,619 -[Izzy] Here? -[Tracy] No. 596 00:28:24,703 --> 00:28:27,455 We went to France. The family went to France. 597 00:28:27,997 --> 00:28:31,167 [Stacy] You're-- I know you're hungry. Everyone make a plate. 598 00:28:31,251 --> 00:28:33,586 We can go sit on the couch. There's a lot of questions. 599 00:28:33,670 --> 00:28:36,881 This may be the only time we get to really spend time with you, 600 00:28:36,965 --> 00:28:39,384 and then we're talking about a wedding. That's a big deal. 601 00:28:39,467 --> 00:28:42,303 What is it about Stacy, Izzy, that you know, 602 00:28:42,387 --> 00:28:45,432 like, 100% that you would wanna marry her? 603 00:28:45,515 --> 00:28:47,976 Stacy knew me like the back of her hand, 604 00:28:48,059 --> 00:28:49,894 and she didn't even see me through the wall. 605 00:28:49,978 --> 00:28:55,066 Anything that I was thinking, feeling, she would call me out, like… 606 00:28:55,150 --> 00:28:56,192 [snaps] …instantly. 607 00:28:56,276 --> 00:28:58,069 -[Chelsea] That's her. -[women laughing] 608 00:28:58,153 --> 00:29:00,447 So we know you really, really well. 609 00:29:00,530 --> 00:29:03,074 And you are not a rash decision-maker. 610 00:29:03,158 --> 00:29:04,909 -Not at all. Yeah. -[Chelsea] By any means. 611 00:29:04,993 --> 00:29:09,456 Y'all are talking about getting married. So, how do you know that you're ready? 612 00:29:09,539 --> 00:29:11,833 I know him and I know he's the one. 613 00:29:11,916 --> 00:29:14,836 Have y'all ever heard me say, "I wanna get married"? No. 614 00:29:14,919 --> 00:29:17,714 [Chelsea] It's a shock to us, actually, that you're at this place. 615 00:29:17,797 --> 00:29:20,592 So, do you think there's conversations that you 616 00:29:21,301 --> 00:29:23,178 still feel like you need to have? 617 00:29:23,261 --> 00:29:26,264 Anything you haven't said that she's gonna find out about? 618 00:29:26,347 --> 00:29:29,017 -[Izzy] Uh… -[Chelsea] Are you hiding secrets from us? 619 00:29:29,100 --> 00:29:31,227 -[Izzy] No, no, no, uh… -[Stacy] Like, for real, not… 620 00:29:31,311 --> 00:29:33,229 -[Sloan] Do you have a secret family? -No, no, no. 621 00:29:33,313 --> 00:29:35,982 -[Stacy] He just got a passport. -[Sloan] You've never had a passport? 622 00:29:36,065 --> 00:29:37,817 [Izzy] Yeah, so we weren't really, like, 623 00:29:37,901 --> 00:29:40,195 financially at the point to travel very much. 624 00:29:40,278 --> 00:29:42,238 So, now I'm about to just go. 625 00:29:42,322 --> 00:29:43,656 I wanna do, like, you know, 626 00:29:43,740 --> 00:29:46,034 get a cute little cheesy pic in front of the Eiffel Tower. 627 00:29:46,117 --> 00:29:47,035 [Stacy] Oh, God. 628 00:29:47,118 --> 00:29:49,412 He's never been to New York! He hasn't been anywhere! 629 00:29:49,496 --> 00:29:52,040 And New York and California were the two states 630 00:29:52,123 --> 00:29:54,542 I've always wanted to go to and I never got to go to those. 631 00:29:54,626 --> 00:29:56,753 [Chelsea] And you mentioned you didn't really travel 632 00:29:56,836 --> 00:29:58,755 because you maybe weren't in a financial place. 633 00:29:58,838 --> 00:30:02,217 I feel like the end of your 20s is when you're figuring out your career. 634 00:30:02,884 --> 00:30:05,720 Do you feel like you're on the right career path? 635 00:30:05,804 --> 00:30:08,348 Because traveling is really important to Stacy, actually. 636 00:30:08,431 --> 00:30:13,186 Like, she may not say that, but you travel more than most people I know. 637 00:30:13,269 --> 00:30:16,481 And that's not the cheapest of things, so like… 638 00:30:16,564 --> 00:30:19,359 -[Izzy] No, yeah. -What is like-- I don't know what you do. 639 00:30:19,442 --> 00:30:22,487 I used to do business sales. I left it. I was like, "You know what?" 640 00:30:22,570 --> 00:30:25,949 "This year, I want, like, a better work-life balance for myself." 641 00:30:26,032 --> 00:30:29,661 "Um, be a little bit more selfish and do a little bit more traveling," 642 00:30:29,744 --> 00:30:32,413 because I kind of got tired of slaving away, you know? 643 00:30:32,497 --> 00:30:35,124 I don't know anything about insurance, but I had a friend reach out. 644 00:30:35,208 --> 00:30:37,502 He's like, "I know you have a good background with sales." 645 00:30:37,585 --> 00:30:39,045 I've done it for, like, nine years. 646 00:30:39,128 --> 00:30:41,673 He's like, "I want you to come on to this agency with me." 647 00:30:41,756 --> 00:30:45,260 I left for a week 'cause I had a vacation to Colorado. I came back. 648 00:30:45,343 --> 00:30:47,637 I worked, like, a couple days, then I had to leave for this. 649 00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:49,848 -[Chelsea] So do you still have a job? -[Izzy] Yeah. 650 00:30:49,931 --> 00:30:52,058 -They were cool. Supportive. -[Sloan] That's important. 651 00:30:52,141 --> 00:30:54,853 -"Do you have work?" -[Chelsea] Well, no, I'm just like… 652 00:30:54,936 --> 00:30:56,312 [Stacy] If you have a job or a car. 653 00:30:56,396 --> 00:30:58,606 When you're in the pods, like, you talk about everything. 654 00:30:58,690 --> 00:31:01,901 You talk about life goals, family values, kids. 655 00:31:01,985 --> 00:31:03,736 [Tracy] So, how do you feel about the kids? 656 00:31:03,820 --> 00:31:05,446 [Izzy] We're on the same page with it. 657 00:31:05,530 --> 00:31:09,492 If we have them, like, great. If we don't, then I'm also okay with that. 658 00:31:09,576 --> 00:31:12,662 Is there anything you've noticed so far, that's, like, a struggle 659 00:31:12,745 --> 00:31:16,207 that you're not used to in your own previously single life? 660 00:31:16,291 --> 00:31:17,750 -Yes. -[Tracy laughs] Oh! 661 00:31:17,834 --> 00:31:20,879 -[Sloan] Do you wanna dive into that? -[Izzy] Yeah. Let's throw it out there. 662 00:31:20,962 --> 00:31:24,591 His place. I didn't expect it to be the Ritz. 663 00:31:24,674 --> 00:31:27,927 I'm like, "He's living by himself. It's a guy." 664 00:31:28,011 --> 00:31:30,722 But when you're living with me, 665 00:31:31,389 --> 00:31:34,517 there are plates, glasses. 666 00:31:35,143 --> 00:31:39,564 I have plastic plates and bowls versus, like, glass. 667 00:31:39,647 --> 00:31:42,275 I have, like, disposable, uh, forks and spoons. 668 00:31:42,358 --> 00:31:46,738 [Sloan] You had plastic forks, and, like… I don't know the scenario. 669 00:31:46,821 --> 00:31:48,823 [Chelsea] How do you guys work through that? 670 00:31:48,907 --> 00:31:51,576 You're sitting there going, "Okay, this isn't what I'm used to." 671 00:31:51,659 --> 00:31:53,995 You're like, "This is what I live with every day." 672 00:31:54,078 --> 00:31:56,748 -[Stacy] It didn't go that well. -[Chelsea] Yeah, so, what… 673 00:31:56,831 --> 00:31:57,665 [laughing] 674 00:31:57,749 --> 00:32:00,460 I think we both felt really misunderstood and judged. 675 00:32:00,543 --> 00:32:01,794 [Izzy] Uh-huh. Yeah. 676 00:32:01,878 --> 00:32:04,088 He was saying, "You're materialistic if this matters." 677 00:32:04,172 --> 00:32:06,424 I'm like, "If I matter to you, don't you want to impress me 678 00:32:06,507 --> 00:32:08,760 and have something that's not made of paper to eat off of?" 679 00:32:08,843 --> 00:32:10,511 -Yes. -[Chelsea] How do you work through it? 680 00:32:10,595 --> 00:32:13,681 It was honestly one of the best days that I had with Stacy, in my-- 681 00:32:13,765 --> 00:32:15,350 I can't agree. I cannot agree with that. 682 00:32:15,433 --> 00:32:17,143 Um, aside of the fight. 683 00:32:17,727 --> 00:32:20,188 She was upset. She went outside. 684 00:32:20,271 --> 00:32:23,816 I went outside. We got in the Jeep. She grabbed my hand. 685 00:32:23,900 --> 00:32:26,194 We got home. She was like, "You wanna talk about this?" 686 00:32:26,277 --> 00:32:27,987 I'm like, "Let's talk about it, fix it." 687 00:32:28,071 --> 00:32:30,615 And we fixed it right then and there together. 688 00:32:30,698 --> 00:32:31,741 She cooked dinner. 689 00:32:31,824 --> 00:32:33,743 -We shut off all-- -[Stacy] Can y'all believe it? 690 00:32:33,826 --> 00:32:36,287 -[Tracy] No, I don't believe that. -[Stacy] I cooked dinner! 691 00:32:36,371 --> 00:32:38,164 I was like, "Let's throw something together." 692 00:32:38,247 --> 00:32:39,666 I was so impressed with myself. 693 00:32:40,249 --> 00:32:43,836 I think it comes down to when you have your first fight or first big fight, 694 00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:47,465 where that fear comes in, you're like, "They're gonna leave me." 695 00:32:48,049 --> 00:32:50,093 When someone turns around and comes back and is like, 696 00:32:50,176 --> 00:32:53,429 "That didn't go well, so we may not fix it now, we'll fix it later." 697 00:32:53,513 --> 00:32:56,057 "But, like, no matter what, even if we don't understand each other, 698 00:32:56,140 --> 00:32:58,351 I'm still gonna stand here, and I'm not leaving you." 699 00:32:58,434 --> 00:33:01,521 [Sloan] So, the glue for you guys of feeling secure in your decision 700 00:33:01,604 --> 00:33:04,232 is that you guys aren't giving up on each other, no matter what. 701 00:33:04,315 --> 00:33:05,483 -[Stacy] Yeah. -[Izzy] Mmm-hmm. 702 00:33:06,067 --> 00:33:09,904 And I think that's what we both said from the beginning as far as a marriage. 703 00:33:09,988 --> 00:33:12,365 Like, it's for real. It's so serious. 704 00:33:12,448 --> 00:33:14,701 And the reason I've never really committed 705 00:33:14,784 --> 00:33:17,578 is because I haven't found someone that I feel that from. 706 00:33:17,662 --> 00:33:20,331 That fire, that fighter. That, like… 707 00:33:20,415 --> 00:33:23,501 When I say "shit goes rough," like, I know what it looks like, 708 00:33:23,584 --> 00:33:25,962 because I've seen something collapse. 709 00:33:28,506 --> 00:33:30,758 [sniffles] 710 00:33:30,842 --> 00:33:32,051 -[Sloan] I know. -[Izzy] Yeah. 711 00:33:32,135 --> 00:33:34,262 [Sloan] Sorry, that's emotional for us. 712 00:33:34,846 --> 00:33:35,680 [Chelsea] Yeah. 713 00:33:36,264 --> 00:33:37,598 [sniffles] So it's like… 714 00:33:37,682 --> 00:33:40,768 [stifling tears] It's like, you have to know what that looks like, 715 00:33:40,852 --> 00:33:43,771 and you need to know, like, it will get better. 716 00:33:43,855 --> 00:33:45,857 Like, I need someone determined and driven. 717 00:33:45,940 --> 00:33:47,650 And like a fighter, and like… 718 00:33:47,734 --> 00:33:49,777 -That's not gonna give up on you. -[Stacy] Yeah. 719 00:33:51,070 --> 00:33:53,197 And I see that with him every day. 720 00:33:54,574 --> 00:33:56,951 [Chelsea] That makes me happy, even though I'm tearing up. 721 00:33:57,035 --> 00:33:58,828 -[Tracy laughs] -[Sloan] I'm like… 722 00:33:58,911 --> 00:34:00,621 I've never cried more in my life! 723 00:34:00,705 --> 00:34:02,874 -[women laughing] -I'm not a crier! Oh, my God! 724 00:34:02,957 --> 00:34:05,710 In all the relationships that Stacy's had in the past, 725 00:34:05,793 --> 00:34:10,506 I've not seen her as emotionally and physically close. 726 00:34:10,590 --> 00:34:14,469 So I very much think that Izzy is somebody that does bring her happiness. 727 00:34:14,552 --> 00:34:16,012 -You wanna go talk? -Mmm-hmm. 728 00:34:16,095 --> 00:34:18,473 But at the end of the day, Stacy likes restaurants. 729 00:34:18,556 --> 00:34:20,933 She likes to travel. She likes nice things. It's that simple. 730 00:34:21,017 --> 00:34:22,185 [Izzy sighs] Oh, man… 731 00:34:22,268 --> 00:34:24,979 It doesn't mean that he's gotta make a gazillion dollars, 732 00:34:25,063 --> 00:34:28,733 but it means that she doesn't wanna go dutch, you know, on a meal. 733 00:34:28,816 --> 00:34:31,152 She thinks she's worth being taken care of in that manner. 734 00:34:31,235 --> 00:34:34,113 You can say that "I'm gonna live off love" and the rest of it, 735 00:34:34,197 --> 00:34:36,699 but that lasts until you can't make your credit card payment. 736 00:34:36,783 --> 00:34:40,119 [sighs] Oh, okay. So, how are you feeling about everything? 737 00:34:40,203 --> 00:34:42,246 -[Dale] I mean, it's a lot. -Yeah. I agree. 738 00:34:42,330 --> 00:34:45,750 But the whole "love is blind" thing, I get that. 739 00:34:45,833 --> 00:34:48,086 But love also needs to eat. 740 00:34:48,169 --> 00:34:50,463 -Love needs to have a roof. -Mmm-hmm. 741 00:34:50,546 --> 00:34:53,841 Sometimes love wants to fly first-class. 742 00:34:53,925 --> 00:34:54,926 She's a… 743 00:34:56,427 --> 00:34:58,679 I love her to death, but she likes to do things, 744 00:34:58,763 --> 00:35:01,140 and you both seem like you wanna travel and all the rest. 745 00:35:01,224 --> 00:35:03,392 -[Izzy] Mmm-hmm. -So, I guess, 746 00:35:03,976 --> 00:35:06,312 where do you see yourself, like, five, ten years from now? 747 00:35:06,395 --> 00:35:09,315 What do you… I mean, you know where you're at now. 748 00:35:09,398 --> 00:35:11,150 Yeah, I think, like… [exhales] 749 00:35:12,110 --> 00:35:14,529 With the new, like, career opportunity that I got, 750 00:35:14,612 --> 00:35:16,739 I was a little bit concerned, like, 751 00:35:16,823 --> 00:35:18,783 you know, especially being, like, new to it. 752 00:35:18,866 --> 00:35:22,620 Um, but financially, like, the sky's the limit. 753 00:35:22,703 --> 00:35:23,663 [Dale] Yeah. 754 00:35:23,746 --> 00:35:27,208 You know, you get what you put into it, and that's why I'm so excited. 755 00:35:27,291 --> 00:35:28,751 -I know I'm so new to it. -I'll bet. 756 00:35:28,835 --> 00:35:31,337 But I'm so excited because I will be able to do those things. 757 00:35:31,420 --> 00:35:33,464 And I've never been able to do those things. 758 00:35:33,548 --> 00:35:35,007 -[Dale] Sure. -You know what I mean? 759 00:35:35,091 --> 00:35:38,719 I've got the savings and all that stuff. I'm pretty wise with my money. 760 00:35:38,803 --> 00:35:40,179 Yeah, and I don't wanna focus-- 761 00:35:40,263 --> 00:35:42,265 -I'm not trying to focus on money. -[Izzy] Yeah. 762 00:35:42,348 --> 00:35:46,435 But she obviously needs some help or needs support. 763 00:35:46,519 --> 00:35:49,647 She's got a house that she's worked her ass off for and all the rest of that. 764 00:35:49,730 --> 00:35:51,983 We had that conversation when we went to see her place. 765 00:35:52,066 --> 00:35:52,900 [Dale] Yeah. 766 00:35:52,984 --> 00:35:55,027 So she was like, "This is gonna be our place." 767 00:35:55,111 --> 00:35:59,866 "Like, you know, like, an A/C unit, if it goes out, are you gonna be willing…" 768 00:35:59,949 --> 00:36:03,244 Like, "Can you help me cough out $20,000 and replace this thing tomorrow?" 769 00:36:03,327 --> 00:36:05,288 -Especially with that house. -Exactly. 770 00:36:05,371 --> 00:36:08,875 You know, I guess it's your responsibility to take that up. 771 00:36:08,958 --> 00:36:12,211 But if that fails and it becomes my responsibility… [laughs] 772 00:36:12,295 --> 00:36:14,714 I'm not, like, concerned, or I'm not feeling on edge, like, 773 00:36:14,797 --> 00:36:17,049 "Ooh, I'm not gonna be able to provide this for her," 774 00:36:17,133 --> 00:36:20,261 or I'm not gonna feel, like, judged if, you know, I can't. 775 00:36:20,344 --> 00:36:23,181 Like, I'm honestly just more excited than anything. 776 00:36:23,264 --> 00:36:25,349 -She seems pretty excited. -Yeah! 777 00:36:25,433 --> 00:36:27,768 It's a lot put in a very short period of time, 778 00:36:27,852 --> 00:36:29,353 but I'm hopeful. 779 00:36:29,437 --> 00:36:33,191 I'm very optimistic. I think you've got a very good head on your shoulders. 780 00:36:33,274 --> 00:36:36,444 I can see how the experiment has some upside to it. 781 00:36:36,527 --> 00:36:39,947 And I can see, whether it happens in a month or it happens in a year, 782 00:36:40,031 --> 00:36:42,825 it's like you guys are saying, it's like, "What are you waiting for?" 783 00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:47,788 [clicks tongue] My life, everything's just falling into place right now. 784 00:36:47,872 --> 00:36:50,791 The fact that she knows what she wants, 785 00:36:50,875 --> 00:36:53,586 that's exactly why I went for Stacy. 786 00:36:53,669 --> 00:36:56,881 -[romantic music playing] -♪ Waiting for you ♪ 787 00:36:56,964 --> 00:37:01,969 ♪ I'll be waiting for you ♪ 788 00:37:02,053 --> 00:37:05,389 ♪ Waiting for you ♪ 789 00:37:08,309 --> 00:37:10,394 ["Champagne Riot" by Julian De Vizio playing] 790 00:37:10,478 --> 00:37:12,772 ♪ Let's start a Champagne riot That's where I wanna be ♪ 791 00:37:12,855 --> 00:37:16,275 ♪ You know we can't stop now We're dancing in streets ♪ 792 00:37:16,359 --> 00:37:17,276 [cork pops] 793 00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:19,820 -I'm excited! -I'm excited to see everybody. 794 00:37:19,904 --> 00:37:23,115 We'll see. Once we get a couple shots in the guys, it's like… 795 00:37:23,199 --> 00:37:25,826 -"All right, fuckers. What's going on?" -I'm not gonna jinx it! 796 00:37:25,910 --> 00:37:28,996 -[Lydia] Hello, hello, hello! -Well, hello, friends! 797 00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:32,208 -What's up? What's up? -[Stacy] Don't you look relaxed! 798 00:37:32,291 --> 00:37:34,377 ♪ Let's start a Champagne riot ♪ 799 00:37:34,460 --> 00:37:36,629 [Lydia] Marisita! 800 00:37:36,712 --> 00:37:38,631 -[Maris] Hola. -[Stacy] Miriam! 801 00:37:38,714 --> 00:37:41,842 -[women squealing] -[Izzy laughing] 802 00:37:41,926 --> 00:37:44,095 My heart is, like, so happy. 803 00:37:45,012 --> 00:37:46,806 [Lydia] You look gorgeous, baby. Look at you. 804 00:37:46,889 --> 00:37:48,349 [Renee] Oh, I know. This should… 805 00:37:49,100 --> 00:37:51,227 I'm getting all the meat. Y'all know I like my meat. 806 00:37:51,310 --> 00:37:52,311 [laughs] 807 00:37:53,604 --> 00:37:56,399 [Carter] I can't believe the JP and Taylor thing. 808 00:37:56,482 --> 00:37:58,526 [Milton] They locked themselves in too early, man. 809 00:37:58,609 --> 00:37:59,485 Nah. 810 00:37:59,568 --> 00:38:01,320 -You don't think so? -[Carter] No, no. 811 00:38:01,404 --> 00:38:04,448 I just feel like, uh, she hadn't given it a chance. 812 00:38:04,532 --> 00:38:06,784 Just got fed up with JP being quiet. 813 00:38:07,368 --> 00:38:09,036 I mean, it's a relationship, dude, like… 814 00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,372 Maybe he's just not good at talking about his feelings. 815 00:38:11,455 --> 00:38:12,290 Dude… 816 00:38:12,373 --> 00:38:15,710 I just feel like if I have a daughter, I want her to marry a guy just like him. 817 00:38:15,793 --> 00:38:16,836 [Milton] Come on. 818 00:38:16,919 --> 00:38:18,587 Yeah. That's Captain America to me. 819 00:38:18,671 --> 00:38:21,090 ["You're Sick" by Rosie Oddie & Filippo Cimatti playing] 820 00:38:21,173 --> 00:38:26,304 ♪ Some might say The parasite's still living in my gut… ♪ 821 00:38:26,387 --> 00:38:30,099 [Lydia] Johnie's here! Oh, my God! 822 00:38:30,182 --> 00:38:31,559 [gasps] 823 00:38:31,642 --> 00:38:32,643 You know who that is? 824 00:38:32,727 --> 00:38:34,854 -I don't know. -Your friend Johnie. 825 00:38:37,231 --> 00:38:40,026 -[Lydia] Oh, my God! How are you? -Are we supposed to say hi? 826 00:38:40,109 --> 00:38:41,527 I mean, I'm not gonna do anything. 827 00:38:41,610 --> 00:38:43,404 -[Lydia] You are here! -[Johnie laughing] 828 00:38:43,487 --> 00:38:44,864 Oh, that's a complicated situation. 829 00:38:44,947 --> 00:38:47,325 -I understand. -Oh, that's so polite of you. 830 00:38:47,408 --> 00:38:49,535 [Johnie] I will sit. Can I have a drink? 831 00:38:49,618 --> 00:38:52,580 [Lydia] Yeah, yeah. Pick your poison, literally. 832 00:38:52,663 --> 00:38:55,207 -[laughs] -Johnie's such a joke. 833 00:38:55,291 --> 00:38:56,876 She is such a joke. 834 00:38:56,959 --> 00:39:00,713 I mean, the whole time in the lounge, we're friendly to each other. 835 00:39:00,796 --> 00:39:03,716 We talk. We joke around. We have a good time. 836 00:39:03,799 --> 00:39:05,968 And then I put two and two together 837 00:39:06,469 --> 00:39:09,430 before she did that we were both talking to the same person. 838 00:39:10,014 --> 00:39:12,892 I felt horrible. I felt empathy for her. 839 00:39:12,975 --> 00:39:14,643 I felt sad in the moments 840 00:39:14,727 --> 00:39:18,522 where I knew, like, Izzy was picking me and asking me to be his girlfriend. 841 00:39:18,606 --> 00:39:21,901 Like, I felt so bad for her, 842 00:39:21,984 --> 00:39:23,402 and then when she found out, 843 00:39:23,486 --> 00:39:26,697 she just went around shit-talking me to everyone. 844 00:39:26,781 --> 00:39:28,491 So that just pisses me off. 845 00:39:30,117 --> 00:39:31,827 [Renee] Wait, is that Josh? 846 00:39:31,911 --> 00:39:33,496 No, that's Chris. 847 00:39:33,579 --> 00:39:35,873 -[Chris] What's up? -This is a surprise to see you here. 848 00:39:35,956 --> 00:39:38,709 -You know we're official? -[Renee] Well, how official? 849 00:39:38,793 --> 00:39:40,544 -Just boyfriend-girlfriend. -They're banging. 850 00:39:40,628 --> 00:39:43,089 [laughing] Oh, my God! 851 00:39:43,172 --> 00:39:44,673 [women chattering] 852 00:39:44,757 --> 00:39:46,634 So, Chris is my boyfriend. 853 00:39:46,717 --> 00:39:49,553 After Chris and I ended things in the pods, 854 00:39:49,637 --> 00:39:52,515 we did meet at the airport, 855 00:39:52,598 --> 00:39:57,395 and then I feel like the second we met, the connection was still there. 856 00:39:58,020 --> 00:40:01,273 He's probably the best human I've ever met in my life. 857 00:40:01,357 --> 00:40:02,483 Um… 858 00:40:06,570 --> 00:40:08,572 [emotional music playing] 859 00:40:09,073 --> 00:40:10,074 [sniffles] 860 00:40:11,367 --> 00:40:12,952 He's just… [sniffles] 861 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:15,788 [crying] He's such a good person 862 00:40:16,664 --> 00:40:21,710 that on a daily basis, I'm like, "I wanna be more like he is." [sniffles] 863 00:40:21,794 --> 00:40:24,380 Uh, my mom has met him, and she said, 864 00:40:24,463 --> 00:40:26,674 "He's the best person you've ever dated." 865 00:40:26,757 --> 00:40:28,300 Within five minutes. 866 00:40:28,384 --> 00:40:31,637 So, that's the type of person that Chris is, 867 00:40:31,720 --> 00:40:35,224 and I feel grateful that he's… [sniffles] 868 00:40:36,475 --> 00:40:38,227 …giving me another chance. 869 00:40:40,813 --> 00:40:42,356 -[Stacy] Hey, Chris. -Hi. Hello. 870 00:40:43,023 --> 00:40:45,651 [Izzy] Well, nice to meet y'all. Put a face to the voice. 871 00:40:45,734 --> 00:40:49,947 God, I feel like so much has happened in the last, like, two and a half weeks. 872 00:40:50,030 --> 00:40:52,366 Johnie, well played on getting the prettiest one of the boys. 873 00:40:52,450 --> 00:40:53,784 -Thank you! -[Carter] Yeah. 874 00:40:53,868 --> 00:40:55,411 You're an idiot. 875 00:40:55,494 --> 00:40:58,080 -[laughing] -Why is everybody so overdressed? 876 00:40:58,164 --> 00:41:00,958 [Renee] I'd rather be overdressed than underdressed. 877 00:41:01,041 --> 00:41:02,418 [Lydia] You know what happened? 878 00:41:02,501 --> 00:41:07,465 He was, like, wearing an entire suit, and he ripped his pants from here to here. 879 00:41:07,548 --> 00:41:10,426 You know, that was Milton's proposal outfit. 880 00:41:10,509 --> 00:41:11,886 [laughing] 881 00:41:11,969 --> 00:41:14,638 -[upbeat music playing] -[Lydia] All right, let's do it! 882 00:41:14,722 --> 00:41:17,016 -Arriba! -[all] Arriba! 883 00:41:17,099 --> 00:41:18,601 -[Lydia] Abajo! -[all] Abajo! 884 00:41:18,684 --> 00:41:20,519 -Por centro! -[all] Por centro! 885 00:41:20,603 --> 00:41:23,606 -Y por dentro! -[all] Y por dentro! 886 00:41:23,689 --> 00:41:27,318 -Whoo-hoo! Oh, God! -Let's get this party started, baby! 887 00:41:28,777 --> 00:41:31,155 [Carter] Are y'all like boyfriend-girlfriend now or what? 888 00:41:31,238 --> 00:41:32,239 We are. 889 00:41:32,323 --> 00:41:34,950 I only had to, like, force him to date me. It's fine. 890 00:41:35,034 --> 00:41:36,702 How'd that play out when y'all got home? 891 00:41:36,785 --> 00:41:39,288 Like, I don't remember the circumstances leading up to it, but… 892 00:41:39,371 --> 00:41:41,874 -[Johnie] He broke up with me. -[Milton] Nice. 893 00:41:41,957 --> 00:41:44,126 Yeah, you act like that was, like, unwarranted. 894 00:41:44,210 --> 00:41:47,213 -[Johnie laughs] Cheers. -I can be toxic. [laughing] 895 00:41:47,296 --> 00:41:50,341 Yeah, he broke up with me, and then we met at the airport. 896 00:41:50,424 --> 00:41:52,051 Did y'all realize it was each other? 897 00:41:52,134 --> 00:41:53,928 Almost instantly somehow. 898 00:41:54,637 --> 00:41:58,057 I was laying down, trying to take a nap, 899 00:41:58,140 --> 00:42:00,476 and he took a phone call with his dad, 900 00:42:00,559 --> 00:42:02,144 and then he walked off. 901 00:42:02,228 --> 00:42:05,147 And I was like, "Damn, like, I kind of, like, miss him," 902 00:42:05,231 --> 00:42:08,192 and he walked up, and he squeezed my hand, and I was like… 903 00:42:08,275 --> 00:42:10,444 [chuckles] "…I'm in love with this person." 904 00:42:10,528 --> 00:42:12,738 Um, at the airport. 905 00:42:13,864 --> 00:42:15,324 He is so smooth, huh? 906 00:42:15,908 --> 00:42:17,368 [clicks tongue and laughs] 907 00:42:17,451 --> 00:42:19,078 [laughs] 908 00:42:19,161 --> 00:42:22,289 -[upbeat music playing] -♪ I'm a creature of the night… ♪ 909 00:42:22,373 --> 00:42:25,334 [Renee] This morning Stacy was, like, joking with me, um, 910 00:42:25,417 --> 00:42:28,587 saying she wished she shit in the cookies she made. She actually made those. 911 00:42:28,671 --> 00:42:31,757 She wished she shit in them to give to Johnie. I was like, "Oh, God!" 912 00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:34,009 -[Maris] Oh, man. -I know. 913 00:42:34,093 --> 00:42:36,303 I didn't realize that it was that big of a deal. 914 00:42:36,387 --> 00:42:38,806 ♪ I'm a creature of the night… ♪ 915 00:42:38,889 --> 00:42:40,224 [Izzy] Nice to see you. 916 00:42:42,101 --> 00:42:46,021 You seem happy with Stacy, and I'm happy with Chris. 917 00:42:46,105 --> 00:42:48,607 [Izzy] I am glad I made the decision that I made. 918 00:42:48,691 --> 00:42:50,859 I heard a lot of sketchy shit about you. 919 00:42:50,943 --> 00:42:52,903 [tense music playing] 920 00:42:52,987 --> 00:42:55,114 Pretty much the things that you were telling me, 921 00:42:55,197 --> 00:42:57,157 I wasn't the only guy you were telling. 922 00:42:58,075 --> 00:43:00,828 -So you're upset I told other people… -[Izzy] No, upset isn't-- No. 923 00:43:00,911 --> 00:43:03,581 You devastated Chris. Understandable. 924 00:43:03,664 --> 00:43:08,669 Guy's into you. Your intent was to go with me. Get that. 925 00:43:08,752 --> 00:43:13,299 And when Chris randomly gets a call from you to go back in and see him… 926 00:43:13,382 --> 00:43:14,758 Why would it matter? You're not-- 927 00:43:14,842 --> 00:43:17,886 No, it didn't matter to me. What mattered to me 928 00:43:17,970 --> 00:43:21,599 was you told him one thing, and you told me the opposite. 929 00:43:21,682 --> 00:43:23,267 [Johnie] I could leave here with Chris, 930 00:43:23,350 --> 00:43:25,686 and I know exactly what our life would look like. 931 00:43:25,769 --> 00:43:27,605 And I know how he would treat me. 932 00:43:29,064 --> 00:43:30,983 But I wasn't falling in love with him. 933 00:43:32,151 --> 00:43:34,069 I'm wondering if I… 934 00:43:36,071 --> 00:43:38,073 repeated a pattern with Izzy. 935 00:43:38,991 --> 00:43:41,869 I tend to go for people who are… 936 00:43:42,828 --> 00:43:44,830 emotionally unavailable. 937 00:43:45,789 --> 00:43:47,791 But are you ready for a switch? 938 00:43:49,001 --> 00:43:51,003 Yes. That's why I'm here. 939 00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:54,590 No, I told y'all the same thing. 940 00:43:54,673 --> 00:43:55,799 No, you did not. 941 00:43:57,009 --> 00:44:00,512 You told Chris that the reason you went with me 942 00:44:00,596 --> 00:44:04,642 is because you would date guys that were adventurous, spontaneous. 943 00:44:04,725 --> 00:44:08,896 -Whatever your past was, and I was that. -That's true. 944 00:44:08,979 --> 00:44:12,024 You told me you would not go with Chris 'cause you saw how your life would be, 945 00:44:12,107 --> 00:44:13,275 and you wouldn't be in love. 946 00:44:13,359 --> 00:44:14,943 -Actually-- -[Izzy] And you called-- 947 00:44:15,027 --> 00:44:17,696 Let me finish. I'll hear you out, whatever you gotta say. 948 00:44:17,780 --> 00:44:19,406 -Chris, you were his number one. -Okay. 949 00:44:19,490 --> 00:44:21,659 And he's just, like, mindfucked. 950 00:44:22,701 --> 00:44:25,371 I was like, "Look, this is what she said about you." 951 00:44:25,454 --> 00:44:29,541 And he was just like, "What the fuck? This is what she said about you." 952 00:44:29,625 --> 00:44:31,126 Izzy, at what point can I talk? 953 00:44:31,210 --> 00:44:33,003 -You've been talking for ten minutes. -Yeah. 954 00:44:33,087 --> 00:44:34,505 -Can I please talk now? -Yeah, yeah. 955 00:44:34,588 --> 00:44:35,881 Thank you. 956 00:44:35,964 --> 00:44:38,384 Actually, everything you've said has been accurate. 957 00:44:38,467 --> 00:44:41,053 I said, "Chris, I can see a clear future." 958 00:44:41,136 --> 00:44:45,557 "Izzy, I have the most, like, emotional reaction to." 959 00:44:45,641 --> 00:44:47,935 So then when you broke up with me, 960 00:44:48,018 --> 00:44:50,229 I replayed both relationships, 961 00:44:50,312 --> 00:44:51,730 and I repeated a pattern. 962 00:44:51,814 --> 00:44:53,273 You were my number one. 963 00:44:53,357 --> 00:44:55,401 So to me, I was, like, fucking heart-- 964 00:44:55,484 --> 00:44:58,320 [scoffs] But then again, I wasn't your only number one. 965 00:44:58,404 --> 00:44:59,530 -[Izzy] So again-- -No, you-- 966 00:44:59,613 --> 00:45:01,740 Hey, can you just listen to me real quick? 967 00:45:01,824 --> 00:45:04,868 The whole time we were in the pods, the whole time we were dating, 968 00:45:04,952 --> 00:45:06,328 I had one number one. 969 00:45:06,412 --> 00:45:07,246 [Izzy] Mmm-hmm. 970 00:45:07,329 --> 00:45:09,873 Which is why I'm now trying to make shit up to Chris 971 00:45:09,957 --> 00:45:11,375 for being my number two. 972 00:45:11,458 --> 00:45:12,292 [Izzy] Mmm-hmm. 973 00:45:13,460 --> 00:45:15,212 In the end, you were right. 974 00:45:15,295 --> 00:45:17,423 You're not my person. I'm not your person. 975 00:45:17,506 --> 00:45:19,675 I think we're emotionally volatile. 976 00:45:20,217 --> 00:45:21,927 If I can give you advice. 977 00:45:22,010 --> 00:45:24,096 -No, I don't need your advice. -[Izzy] In a scenario-- 978 00:45:24,179 --> 00:45:26,682 I feel like you do need it, 'cause, honestly, it's not just me. 979 00:45:26,765 --> 00:45:28,308 Everyone thinks you're sketchy as fuck. 980 00:45:29,351 --> 00:45:31,895 -Okay. Thank you. -[Izzy] Honestly, like… 981 00:45:31,979 --> 00:45:33,981 And this is not to bash you. 982 00:45:34,064 --> 00:45:37,735 This is just-- I was emotionally invested in you at a point in time, 983 00:45:37,818 --> 00:45:40,863 and I'm so glad that I didn't end up that way. 984 00:45:41,822 --> 00:45:46,869 Not because of our connection. It's everything that I heard. 985 00:45:46,952 --> 00:45:49,580 Should you maybe realize exactly what you're saying? 986 00:45:49,663 --> 00:45:52,207 -And it was nothing to do with me. -[Izzy] I know what I'm saying. 987 00:45:52,291 --> 00:45:54,168 And it has everything to do with talk. 988 00:45:54,251 --> 00:45:56,170 'Cause that's not who I am as a person-- 989 00:45:56,253 --> 00:45:59,006 [Izzy] So who are you? 'Cause that's what the experiment's about. 990 00:46:00,841 --> 00:46:03,343 I'm trying to tell you, and you've never listened to me. 991 00:46:03,427 --> 00:46:06,430 [Izzy] How have I not listened to you? I've listened to everything about you. 992 00:46:06,513 --> 00:46:08,766 Because I am not sketchy as fuck. 993 00:46:08,849 --> 00:46:11,977 Do you think I'd end up with the nicest guy in here if I was sketchy as fuck? 994 00:46:13,645 --> 00:46:16,774 You don't know my story, and y'all are the sketchy as fuck ones. 995 00:46:16,857 --> 00:46:19,234 So I'm done with this. You aren't even listening to me. 996 00:46:19,318 --> 00:46:21,195 [dramatic music playing] 997 00:46:21,278 --> 00:46:22,321 Good luck to you. 998 00:46:22,404 --> 00:46:23,781 [Johnie] Good luck to you, bro. 999 00:46:23,864 --> 00:46:27,951 And that's what happens when you're caught up in your bullshit. 1000 00:46:28,786 --> 00:46:31,121 That went about as bad as it could go. 1001 00:46:35,459 --> 00:46:38,378 -He said I was the sketchiest one here. -[Chris] What? 1002 00:46:38,462 --> 00:46:40,506 [Johnie] Basically just called me a piece of shit. 1003 00:46:40,589 --> 00:46:41,924 [indistinct chatter] 1004 00:46:42,007 --> 00:46:44,468 -[Chris] Well… -No one thinks that, right? 1005 00:46:44,551 --> 00:46:47,012 Nobody here thinks that except him. 1006 00:46:48,806 --> 00:46:52,392 -Are you okay? -He thinks I don't deserve you, basically. 1007 00:46:52,476 --> 00:46:54,186 That's what he was telling me. 1008 00:46:54,770 --> 00:46:56,021 [Izzy] Hey, Stace. 1009 00:46:56,104 --> 00:46:56,939 What? 1010 00:46:57,523 --> 00:46:58,440 [Izzy] Come on. 1011 00:46:58,524 --> 00:47:02,444 That's fucked up. He has no idea what we're about, okay? 1012 00:47:02,528 --> 00:47:04,738 [Johnie] It hurt me the most that he was saying, like, 1013 00:47:04,822 --> 00:47:08,450 "I know how great that guy is, and you're a piece of shit." [sobbing] 1014 00:47:08,534 --> 00:47:11,328 -You're not. You know you're not. -[sniffles] 1015 00:47:12,329 --> 00:47:14,373 Don't listen to somebody who's trying to hurt you. 1016 00:47:15,082 --> 00:47:16,750 But he was like 1017 00:47:16,834 --> 00:47:19,002 saying that y'all had talked about me, 1018 00:47:19,086 --> 00:47:22,548 and y'all both had decided I was a terrible person. 1019 00:47:22,631 --> 00:47:25,092 Do you think I'd be sitting here if I decided that? 1020 00:47:25,175 --> 00:47:28,136 -I guess not. [laughs] -He's just making stuff up at that point. 1021 00:47:28,762 --> 00:47:30,597 [Johnie] God, I hate him. 1022 00:47:32,516 --> 00:47:34,726 [Chris] I fell in love with you. You're not a bad person. 1023 00:47:34,810 --> 00:47:38,897 The people who are important don't think you're a bad person. Okay? 1024 00:47:38,981 --> 00:47:42,651 The people who are unimportant might have their opinions, but who cares? 1025 00:47:44,319 --> 00:47:45,153 Okay? 1026 00:47:45,863 --> 00:47:47,197 I love you so much. 1027 00:47:49,575 --> 00:47:51,076 -[Stacy] Are you okay? -No, I'm good. 1028 00:47:51,159 --> 00:47:53,161 [Izzy] I called her out on her shit. 1029 00:47:53,245 --> 00:47:54,746 -And she got-- -[Stacy] Which was what? 1030 00:47:54,830 --> 00:47:57,040 I was like, "Dude, you're so fucking sketchy." 1031 00:47:57,124 --> 00:47:59,751 -I was fucking railing her. -What did she say? 1032 00:47:59,835 --> 00:48:02,337 She's like, "All y'all are fucking sketchy." 1033 00:48:02,421 --> 00:48:05,591 -And I was just, like, fucking pissed off. -How is everyone sketchy? 1034 00:48:05,674 --> 00:48:09,303 That's what I was trying to say. I was like, "You make no fucking sense." 1035 00:48:09,386 --> 00:48:12,639 Well, I could give two shits about her making sense. 1036 00:48:14,474 --> 00:48:17,811 And I'm just so grateful for you and, like, our relationship, baby. 1037 00:48:17,895 --> 00:48:19,938 I guess that's, like, literally what I'm thinking of. 1038 00:48:20,022 --> 00:48:21,690 -Like, I love you so much. -I love you too. 1039 00:48:21,773 --> 00:48:24,318 And I'm glad that we just, like, can communicate. 1040 00:48:25,068 --> 00:48:27,279 -Hey, you look, like, shaken up. -Oh, God, I love you. 1041 00:48:27,362 --> 00:48:30,073 No, I'm not shaken up. I'm just, like, annoyed. 1042 00:48:30,908 --> 00:48:33,952 But you said she didn't say anything, so what are you annoyed about? 1043 00:48:34,036 --> 00:48:36,663 I just don't like when people tell me shit that's not true. 1044 00:48:36,747 --> 00:48:38,957 What did she say that wasn't true? 1045 00:48:39,041 --> 00:48:40,459 That I was sketchy. [chuckles] 1046 00:48:40,542 --> 00:48:42,085 -That was it? -Yeah. 1047 00:48:42,169 --> 00:48:45,339 -Did it have to do with me? -No, it had nothing to do with you. 1048 00:48:45,422 --> 00:48:48,383 I was kind of more sticking up for me and, like, my friends. 1049 00:48:48,467 --> 00:48:51,511 -So who she's sitting with right now? -[Izzy] Exactly. 1050 00:48:51,595 --> 00:48:54,348 -I couldn't care less. -She's a lost soul. Pray for her. 1051 00:48:54,431 --> 00:48:56,892 -I don't even care about her. I'm just so… -[chuckles] 1052 00:48:56,975 --> 00:49:00,395 I guess after being here, and, like, seeing everybody… 1053 00:49:00,479 --> 00:49:02,147 Well, don't compare me to the mess. 1054 00:49:02,230 --> 00:49:03,065 No. 1055 00:49:03,148 --> 00:49:05,150 Like, "I'm grateful for you 'cause this is crazy." 1056 00:49:05,233 --> 00:49:06,068 No, it's not that. 1057 00:49:06,151 --> 00:49:09,488 I'm just glad we're on the same page through everything that goes on. 1058 00:49:09,571 --> 00:49:11,490 -So it went well. [laughs] -Yeah. It went well. 1059 00:49:13,575 --> 00:49:15,994 ["Something Bad" by Rosie Oddie & Filippo Cimatti playing] 1060 00:49:16,078 --> 00:49:18,080 ♪ Something bad is gonna happen tonight ♪ 1061 00:49:18,163 --> 00:49:22,000 ♪ Something in the air That makes me feel like… ♪ 1062 00:49:22,084 --> 00:49:24,586 Y'all are looking real peaceful over here. 1063 00:49:26,129 --> 00:49:29,967 -[Izzy] Hey! We want some Uche! -[all laughing] 1064 00:49:30,050 --> 00:49:32,177 -Holy shit! -[Uche] Yo! 1065 00:49:32,260 --> 00:49:34,805 -[Izzy] What's up, dude? How are you? -[Uche] What's going on? 1066 00:49:34,888 --> 00:49:37,140 [Lydia] This is the first time I'm seeing Uche 1067 00:49:37,224 --> 00:49:39,685 after everything went down with Aaliyah. 1068 00:49:39,768 --> 00:49:44,022 I used to remember, I used to, like, have feelings for this person. 1069 00:49:44,815 --> 00:49:47,317 [Uche] We got cookies and dips and everything, bro. 1070 00:49:47,401 --> 00:49:50,529 Okay. Um, Lydia, uh, you wanna chat? 1071 00:49:52,030 --> 00:49:54,324 -Not really, but if I have to… -[Uche laughs] 1072 00:49:54,908 --> 00:49:55,993 You don't have to. 1073 00:49:56,493 --> 00:49:58,745 Sure. Let me chat with you. 1074 00:49:59,871 --> 00:50:01,498 I need a drink though. 1075 00:50:01,581 --> 00:50:05,460 [Uche] I think it's very possible that Lydia came into the experiment 1076 00:50:05,544 --> 00:50:07,462 with the wrong intentions, 1077 00:50:07,546 --> 00:50:10,090 and I want to get to the bottom of it. 1078 00:50:10,173 --> 00:50:11,925 I just need an explanation. 1079 00:50:12,634 --> 00:50:14,428 When we first met, 1080 00:50:14,928 --> 00:50:17,973 I think that there was this instant spark, 1081 00:50:18,056 --> 00:50:21,768 this instant attraction, this instant connection between us. 1082 00:50:21,852 --> 00:50:26,440 I think the fact that I felt wanted by you, needed by you, 1083 00:50:26,523 --> 00:50:29,109 I think that brought me closer to you. 1084 00:50:31,695 --> 00:50:34,197 You-- You had a lot of qualities that I really liked. 1085 00:50:34,281 --> 00:50:38,410 I thought, "Oh, she's smart. She's ambitious. She's caring." 1086 00:50:38,493 --> 00:50:39,786 You find out my favorite color, 1087 00:50:39,870 --> 00:50:42,414 and the next time I see you, you're wearing a blue dress. 1088 00:50:42,497 --> 00:50:44,332 You find out my favorite drink, 1089 00:50:44,416 --> 00:50:46,501 and then the next week, you send over a bottle. 1090 00:50:46,585 --> 00:50:50,547 And it's like, those things, I could see you putting in that effort every day. 1091 00:50:50,630 --> 00:50:52,841 And that's one of the things I really loved about you. 1092 00:50:53,592 --> 00:50:54,426 God. 1093 00:50:55,510 --> 00:50:59,306 I think we just need to both be honest, you know. 1094 00:51:00,766 --> 00:51:04,061 -No lies, no drama, no BS. -I'm not a liar. 1095 00:51:04,811 --> 00:51:06,271 I'm not saying that you are. 1096 00:51:07,606 --> 00:51:10,817 You remember the first argument we had where… 1097 00:51:13,236 --> 00:51:17,157 you weren't being exactly honest with me, right? 1098 00:51:17,240 --> 00:51:19,326 -And-- -You weren't being honest with me either. 1099 00:51:19,409 --> 00:51:22,662 But in that moment, I was, 'cause I revealed everything to you. 1100 00:51:25,373 --> 00:51:27,876 In return, you lied to me. 1101 00:51:27,959 --> 00:51:29,419 -Honest action-- -I didn't lie. 1102 00:51:29,503 --> 00:51:32,172 I'm not trying to, like, argue back and forth. 1103 00:51:32,255 --> 00:51:33,673 I'm just telling you my perspective. 1104 00:51:33,757 --> 00:51:37,302 Yeah, but your perspective… I'm telling you I didn't lie to you. 1105 00:51:37,385 --> 00:51:40,597 If you were being honest with me, why was I upset, then? Explain that. 1106 00:51:43,350 --> 00:51:44,518 -What was I upset about? -Uche. 1107 00:51:44,601 --> 00:51:48,563 -I'm not gonna relay our past experiences. -What was I upset about? 1108 00:51:48,647 --> 00:51:52,400 So what I'm trying to tell you, Lydia, I'm not trying to argue over what it was-- 1109 00:51:52,484 --> 00:51:53,860 But your volume is going up. 1110 00:51:53,944 --> 00:51:56,655 But what happened-- Okay, let me explain to you. 1111 00:51:56,738 --> 00:52:00,534 You were-- You asked me a question. I was honest with you, and I said… 1112 00:52:00,617 --> 00:52:03,161 -"What made you ask that question?" -After a while. After a while. 1113 00:52:03,245 --> 00:52:05,789 -It didn't happen immediately. -But I told you the truth. 1114 00:52:05,872 --> 00:52:10,001 And then I asked you what made you ask that question, 1115 00:52:10,085 --> 00:52:11,628 and you were not honest. 1116 00:52:11,711 --> 00:52:14,297 You said, "Oh, I just had this intuition, and--" 1117 00:52:14,381 --> 00:52:16,716 -And I did. -You were going through my things. 1118 00:52:17,676 --> 00:52:20,262 I was not going through your things. I opened a drawer. 1119 00:52:20,345 --> 00:52:22,222 -You weren't honest about that. -Listen, Uche. 1120 00:52:22,305 --> 00:52:24,266 -Listen, Uche. Listen, Uche. -You didn't tell me. 1121 00:52:24,349 --> 00:52:27,310 Lydia, hold on. You didn't say, "Hey, Uche, I went through your things." 1122 00:52:27,394 --> 00:52:29,729 You're not gonna talk to me like that. Listen, Uche. 1123 00:52:29,813 --> 00:52:31,731 -Listen-- -"This is how I know." You lied to me. 1124 00:52:31,815 --> 00:52:33,942 You weren't honest about that until I told you… 1125 00:52:34,025 --> 00:52:37,279 At the end of the day, we are not supposed to be together, right? 1126 00:52:37,362 --> 00:52:38,989 I wanna finish. I wanna finish. 1127 00:52:39,072 --> 00:52:41,491 [chuckles] I'm not even done telling you everything. 1128 00:52:41,575 --> 00:52:42,617 I don't wanna talk to you. 1129 00:52:42,701 --> 00:52:44,703 -You're a narcissistic person. -Let me just finish. 1130 00:52:44,786 --> 00:52:45,912 Lydia, let me finish. 1131 00:52:45,996 --> 00:52:47,664 -Please. -I don't care for that. 1132 00:52:47,747 --> 00:52:49,666 [dramatic music playing] 1133 00:52:49,749 --> 00:52:51,459 [Maris] Milton, get over here. 1134 00:52:51,543 --> 00:52:52,752 Where the hell you been? 1135 00:52:52,836 --> 00:52:54,045 A man can't use the urinal? 1136 00:52:55,255 --> 00:52:59,092 Well, uh, your woman is in there arguing, talking to Uche. 1137 00:53:00,260 --> 00:53:02,596 [suspenseful music playing] 1138 00:53:06,183 --> 00:53:08,685 -[Milton] Hello, buds. -Milton. What's up, man? 1139 00:53:08,768 --> 00:53:09,603 [Milton] What's up? 1140 00:53:09,686 --> 00:53:14,065 -I was looking for you. Where were you? -I was taking a piss in the urinal. 1141 00:53:14,149 --> 00:53:16,943 [laughs] Thank you for the clarification. 1142 00:53:17,027 --> 00:53:20,488 Do you mind if me and Lydia have, like, a quick chat, you know, to ourselves? 1143 00:53:20,572 --> 00:53:22,657 -And then me and you-- -You guys can. 1144 00:53:22,741 --> 00:53:27,954 But me and Lydia actually have plans in ten minutes. 1145 00:53:28,038 --> 00:53:30,373 [tense music playing] 1146 00:53:30,457 --> 00:53:32,876 -Let me finish this talk with him. -Okay, I'll be outside. 1147 00:53:32,959 --> 00:53:34,586 -[Lydia] Thank you. -[Milton] Goodbye. 1148 00:53:40,133 --> 00:53:41,051 [Uche] Essentially… 1149 00:53:41,718 --> 00:53:43,511 Uche, what is the thing that… 1150 00:53:43,595 --> 00:53:45,847 Let's skip forward. Let's skip forward here a little bit. 1151 00:53:45,931 --> 00:53:49,476 'Cause you have plans in ten minutes or whatever the case may be. 1152 00:53:49,559 --> 00:53:53,772 Whenever we started talking again, I started getting messages from girls 1153 00:53:53,855 --> 00:53:56,149 that I follow on Instagram 1154 00:53:56,233 --> 00:54:00,111 saying that you have been watching their stories. 1155 00:54:00,737 --> 00:54:03,531 [scoffing] What? 1156 00:54:03,615 --> 00:54:07,827 So, they're sending me screenshots of your profile and saying, 1157 00:54:07,911 --> 00:54:11,122 "This girl has been watching my stories for weeks." 1158 00:54:13,208 --> 00:54:15,961 -I don't know. It could be like-- -You're looking at their stories. 1159 00:54:16,044 --> 00:54:19,673 -I don't know Instagram's algorithm. -[sighs] We said we weren't going to lie. 1160 00:54:19,756 --> 00:54:22,842 You were going through my followers, picking out girls to watch their stories. 1161 00:54:22,926 --> 00:54:24,511 Why would I even do that? 1162 00:54:24,594 --> 00:54:26,263 How are so many people texting me 1163 00:54:26,346 --> 00:54:29,432 saying that you're stalking their profiles, and they feel uncomfortable? 1164 00:54:29,516 --> 00:54:33,061 -Do you forget how things were going? -And on top of that-- Hold on. Lydia. 1165 00:54:33,144 --> 00:54:36,439 And then you drove by my house one day. 1166 00:54:36,523 --> 00:54:38,191 -You took a picture of my house. -No. 1167 00:54:38,275 --> 00:54:41,027 And you sent it to me. You said, "I see you." 1168 00:54:41,987 --> 00:54:44,114 I was passing by. We were having a conversation. 1169 00:54:44,197 --> 00:54:46,032 Don't act like you didn't have nobody. 1170 00:54:46,116 --> 00:54:48,702 -This conversation is going nowhere. -Trying to tell you how I feel. 1171 00:54:50,537 --> 00:54:52,747 Really? Screenshots? [laughs] 1172 00:54:52,831 --> 00:54:54,708 It's fucking comical. 1173 00:54:54,791 --> 00:54:57,544 He knows what happened really between us. 1174 00:54:57,627 --> 00:54:59,921 He knows. He knows. 1175 00:55:00,005 --> 00:55:01,881 But he's not gonna say that. 1176 00:55:01,965 --> 00:55:04,384 Do you want, like, me to share what happened? 1177 00:55:04,467 --> 00:55:06,511 Do you wanna tell me about the sexting? 1178 00:55:07,387 --> 00:55:10,140 [Lydia] He slept with a girl when he was dating with me, 1179 00:55:10,223 --> 00:55:15,061 and then had the nerve to judge Aaliyah when she told him about her past. 1180 00:55:15,687 --> 00:55:17,981 -I have nothing else to say. -Let me go-- 1181 00:55:18,064 --> 00:55:20,567 -I have one last thing to say, Lydia. -No. After this? 1182 00:55:20,650 --> 00:55:24,571 -I am super disappointed with you, Uche. -[Uche] I have one last thing. 1183 00:55:24,654 --> 00:55:25,989 I was super disappointed. 1184 00:55:26,072 --> 00:55:27,824 I thought you were a great guy. 1185 00:55:27,907 --> 00:55:29,534 -But this shit? -[Uche] I just showed you! 1186 00:55:29,617 --> 00:55:32,996 -I ain't gonna deal with this shit. -[Uche] I just showed you. What? 1187 00:55:33,079 --> 00:55:35,373 -You're gonna walk off again? -Yes! 1188 00:55:35,457 --> 00:55:39,169 And believe me, this is the last time you will see my fucking face! 1189 00:55:39,252 --> 00:55:41,838 You don't know how to have a conversation, Lydia. 1190 00:55:41,921 --> 00:55:43,631 -That's the problem. -You're arrogant! 1191 00:55:43,715 --> 00:55:47,052 I ain't gonna deal with this shit! You need to get your personality checked! 1192 00:55:47,135 --> 00:55:50,055 I'm not the one that was stalking people's Instagrams. 1193 00:55:50,138 --> 00:55:51,973 -Milton! -Lydia. 1194 00:55:52,849 --> 00:55:53,892 Where is Milton? 1195 00:55:53,975 --> 00:55:56,019 Milton! Fucking done. 1196 00:55:56,102 --> 00:55:58,855 -["Burn It All Down" by Roet playing] -♪ There's a part of me ♪ 1197 00:55:58,938 --> 00:56:02,942 ♪ That wants to burn it all down ♪ 1198 00:56:03,026 --> 00:56:07,781 ♪ There's a part of me That wants to see your soul drown… ♪ 1199 00:56:07,864 --> 00:56:09,824 [groans] 1200 00:56:09,908 --> 00:56:13,411 If me and Milton can get through this, we can get through anything. 1201 00:56:13,495 --> 00:56:16,164 Let's walk away from her. I wanna chat with you. 1202 00:56:16,247 --> 00:56:20,919 ♪ There's a part of me That wants to burn it all down ♪ 1203 00:56:22,170 --> 00:56:24,172 [intriguing music playing] 1204 00:56:25,090 --> 00:56:27,801 You make me feel like I'm not enough for you. 1205 00:56:27,884 --> 00:56:30,970 -You're being defensive. -I think you were deceitful. 1206 00:56:31,054 --> 00:56:33,306 What do I owe to you? I don't trust you for shit. 1207 00:56:33,390 --> 00:56:35,058 Like, I did… I made mistakes. 1208 00:56:35,141 --> 00:56:36,226 You're a shit person. 1209 00:56:36,309 --> 00:56:37,602 [sobbing] 1210 00:56:37,685 --> 00:56:42,023 Deep inside, I'm thinking, "Is this really the person for my son?" 1211 00:56:43,274 --> 00:56:44,150 Oh, God. 1212 00:56:44,234 --> 00:56:48,780 I'm curious what someone 30 would be interested in a 24-year-old. 1213 00:56:48,863 --> 00:56:49,948 It's phony. 1214 00:56:51,449 --> 00:56:54,285 Lydia planned to be here with me. 1215 00:56:54,369 --> 00:56:55,578 It's not fate. 1216 00:56:55,662 --> 00:56:59,958 She fucking planned for us to both be here because she couldn't let me go. 1217 00:57:00,041 --> 00:57:00,875 [Lydia] Milton! 1218 00:57:00,959 --> 00:57:03,169 -[soft music playing] -♪ Break free from misery… ♪ 1219 00:57:03,253 --> 00:57:05,463 [Stacy] I love Izzy. He's amazing. 1220 00:57:05,547 --> 00:57:08,133 He's the best man that I've ever met. 1221 00:57:08,216 --> 00:57:10,051 -[laughing] -[Stacy] Ride or die. 1222 00:57:10,135 --> 00:57:11,261 We fight for each other. 1223 00:57:11,344 --> 00:57:12,178 [Izzy] I love you. 1224 00:57:12,262 --> 00:57:13,430 [Stacy] I love you too. 1225 00:57:14,055 --> 00:57:17,684 [Lydia] We wanted to find love. I wanted to find my husband. 1226 00:57:17,767 --> 00:57:20,145 And you know what? I did. 1227 00:57:23,356 --> 00:57:26,401 [Stacy] I love Izzy. I see myself marrying him. 1228 00:57:26,484 --> 00:57:28,987 [Izzy] Being in love with Stacy has been a crazy ride. 1229 00:57:29,070 --> 00:57:30,864 There's no one else I would wanna do it with. 1230 00:57:30,947 --> 00:57:32,824 If it's meant to be, it's something you want. 1231 00:57:32,907 --> 00:57:34,534 That's my girl. I love her. 1232 00:57:34,617 --> 00:57:36,953 -[Chelsea] Oh, my goodness! -[laughing] 1233 00:57:37,036 --> 00:57:39,247 -[comically] I'm a bride! -[laughing] 1234 00:57:39,330 --> 00:57:41,040 I can only hope that he's ready. 1235 00:57:41,124 --> 00:57:43,626 I have the man of my dreams, 1236 00:57:43,710 --> 00:57:47,380 but maybe he says, "She's too much for me." 1237 00:57:47,464 --> 00:57:49,007 [Josh] You're sounding kind of nervous. 1238 00:57:49,090 --> 00:57:51,050 Dealing with Lydia, dude, there is compromise. 1239 00:57:51,134 --> 00:57:52,510 Have you thought this through? 1240 00:57:53,178 --> 00:57:56,931 [Milton] I'm about to make the biggest decision of my life, and I am scared. 1241 00:57:57,891 --> 00:58:00,310 [Izzy] I wanna walk out of here with a ring on my finger 1242 00:58:00,393 --> 00:58:02,187 and Stacy as my wife. 1243 00:58:02,270 --> 00:58:05,648 [minister] Now's the time to decide if love is blind. 1244 00:58:07,525 --> 00:58:09,527 [dramatic music playing] 1245 00:58:09,611 --> 00:58:10,612 [sobbing] 1246 00:58:11,779 --> 00:58:13,281 [Izzy] I wanna be loved the way I love. 1247 00:58:13,364 --> 00:58:14,657 [woman] Oh, God… 1248 00:58:14,741 --> 00:58:17,744 [Lydia] I got here with the hope 1249 00:58:17,827 --> 00:58:20,413 to find someone who is gonna love me for who I am. 1250 00:58:20,497 --> 00:58:22,916 What am I doing wrong? 1251 00:58:23,875 --> 00:58:26,336 ["Loyalty" by Stevie Gold & Izzy Warner playing] 1252 00:58:26,419 --> 00:58:30,340 ♪ Give me no loyalty Promise me you'd always be good to me ♪ 1253 00:58:30,423 --> 00:58:34,344 ♪ You should know better than To mess with me ♪ 1254 00:58:34,427 --> 00:58:38,223 ♪ Not bringing me down 'Cause I wear the crown, yeah ♪ 1255 00:58:38,806 --> 00:58:42,352 ♪ You came in And made it all about you now ♪ 1256 00:58:42,435 --> 00:58:46,356 ♪ I'm tired of making it All about you now ♪ 1257 00:58:46,981 --> 00:58:50,360 ♪ Boy, you know that I ain't nobody's fool now ♪ 1258 00:58:51,027 --> 00:58:54,364 ♪ You know that I'm done 'Cause I wear the crown, yeah ♪