1 00:00:06,006 --> 00:00:08,299 -[upbeat music playing] -♪ Tell me what your fighting for… ♪ 2 00:00:08,383 --> 00:00:09,384 [laughing] 3 00:00:09,467 --> 00:00:10,760 [Stacy] I'm in love with you. 4 00:00:10,844 --> 00:00:12,262 -And I wanna share-- -Yeah, baby. 5 00:00:12,345 --> 00:00:14,222 [laughs] And I'm in love with you. 6 00:00:14,305 --> 00:00:15,724 I love you. 7 00:00:15,807 --> 00:00:18,226 -[laughing] -[Lydia] It took a long time to find him. 8 00:00:18,309 --> 00:00:19,352 But he's my person. 9 00:00:19,436 --> 00:00:21,104 [Milton] Love is blind, for sure. 10 00:00:21,187 --> 00:00:25,150 So, the way I looked made you communicate differently. 11 00:00:25,233 --> 00:00:27,360 I like you better without makeup and-- 12 00:00:27,444 --> 00:00:29,362 You didn't know what I looked like before! 13 00:00:29,446 --> 00:00:30,822 But now I do! 14 00:00:31,948 --> 00:00:34,200 [Taylor] You're not the person I fell in love with. 15 00:00:34,284 --> 00:00:35,702 I'm done. 16 00:00:36,995 --> 00:00:39,789 No wonder you say that I have a lot of shit! You have nothing! 17 00:00:39,873 --> 00:00:42,459 This is giving me undergrad vibes. This is your dorm. 18 00:00:42,542 --> 00:00:44,961 White walls that have nothing on it. 19 00:00:45,712 --> 00:00:48,423 Why do I keep finding fricking towels on the fricking floor? 20 00:00:48,506 --> 00:00:50,550 -What am I supposed to do with this? -Hang it. 21 00:00:50,633 --> 00:00:53,928 You're such a 24-year-old. You're a baby. You're a kid. 22 00:00:55,096 --> 00:00:56,473 [Stacy] So, you have no dishes. 23 00:00:57,599 --> 00:00:59,726 [Izzy] If you would have met me outside of pod life… 24 00:00:59,809 --> 00:01:02,187 [chuckles] …like, 'cause I didn't serve you on a glass plate, 25 00:01:02,270 --> 00:01:04,022 is that gonna be an expectation I don't reach, 26 00:01:04,105 --> 00:01:05,565 and you're gonna cut me off for that? 27 00:01:06,483 --> 00:01:11,780 The whole love is blind thing, I get that, but love also needs to eat. 28 00:01:11,863 --> 00:01:16,242 Love needs to have a roof. Sometimes, love wants to fly first class. 29 00:01:18,203 --> 00:01:19,454 [Lydia] Johnie's here! 30 00:01:21,206 --> 00:01:23,374 No, that's Chris. You know, we're official. 31 00:01:24,125 --> 00:01:27,670 The things that you were telling me, I wasn't the only guy you were telling. 32 00:01:27,754 --> 00:01:30,548 -You were my number one. -[chuckles] I wasn't your only number one. 33 00:01:31,674 --> 00:01:34,511 [Uche] One of my dates was a girl 34 00:01:34,594 --> 00:01:37,597 that I have dated in the past. 35 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:39,808 -It's Lydia. -[dramatic music playing] 36 00:01:39,891 --> 00:01:43,019 Last time we saw each other this year, we slept together. 37 00:01:43,853 --> 00:01:46,731 You guys have this long extensive history. 38 00:01:46,815 --> 00:01:49,776 It felt like she was keeping tabs on you and I. 39 00:01:50,735 --> 00:01:52,237 How are so many people 40 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:54,447 texting me saying that you're stalking their profiles, 41 00:01:54,531 --> 00:01:55,824 and they feel uncomfortable? 42 00:01:55,907 --> 00:01:59,494 And then you took a picture of my house, and you sent it to me. 43 00:01:59,577 --> 00:02:02,288 -And you said, "I see you." -I ain't gonna deal with this shit! 44 00:02:02,372 --> 00:02:05,792 This is the last time you will see my fucking face! 45 00:02:05,875 --> 00:02:07,168 [sighs heavily] 46 00:02:07,252 --> 00:02:09,629 [Lydia] If me and Milton can get through this… 47 00:02:09,712 --> 00:02:11,339 [Uche] Let's walk away from her. 48 00:02:11,422 --> 00:02:13,049 [Lydia] …we can get through anything. 49 00:02:13,133 --> 00:02:15,760 [intense music playing] 50 00:02:21,349 --> 00:02:23,643 [mellow music playing] 51 00:02:28,273 --> 00:02:31,651 [Uche] I just felt the need to be honest because I came in the pods, 52 00:02:31,734 --> 00:02:34,320 and, you know, I didn't tell you a single thing 53 00:02:35,238 --> 00:02:37,949 about Lydia at all. 54 00:02:38,032 --> 00:02:39,117 -Right? -100%. 55 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:41,411 I didn't say anything about our relationship, 56 00:02:41,494 --> 00:02:45,582 and she was on the other side, like, getting in Aaliyah's head. 57 00:02:45,665 --> 00:02:48,710 Like, "Oh, this is what Uche looks like." 58 00:02:48,793 --> 00:02:50,628 "This is what car he drives." 59 00:02:50,712 --> 00:02:53,715 "This is what I bought for his dog. This and this and that." 60 00:02:53,798 --> 00:02:56,342 So, it told me that she was still, like, upset 61 00:02:56,426 --> 00:02:58,720 about how things, like, ended between us. 62 00:02:58,803 --> 00:03:01,306 And what I was doing is trying to be the nice guy 63 00:03:01,389 --> 00:03:03,349 and be like, "Okay, it's me not you." 64 00:03:03,433 --> 00:03:05,727 I can read you the last text message I ever sent her. 65 00:03:05,810 --> 00:03:09,564 I said, "You're an amazing person. Don't change for anybody." 66 00:03:09,647 --> 00:03:12,358 "I just think that it's not gonna work out between us," 67 00:03:12,442 --> 00:03:13,943 but that wasn't honest. 68 00:03:14,027 --> 00:03:18,323 Right? There were some things that happened in our relationship. 69 00:03:18,406 --> 00:03:21,576 I felt like early on, she was a little bit dishonest with me 70 00:03:21,659 --> 00:03:24,704 and just the way that she just, like, 71 00:03:24,787 --> 00:03:27,665 boldly lied to my face with no remorse, 72 00:03:27,749 --> 00:03:30,210 I'm like, "I don't think I can trust this person." 73 00:03:30,293 --> 00:03:31,461 [Lydia] Hey, babe. 74 00:03:31,544 --> 00:03:34,964 [Uche] Can you let me have a conversation with my friend? 75 00:03:35,048 --> 00:03:37,759 -[Milton] Hey. Can I get five minutes? -Come with me. Quickly. 76 00:03:37,842 --> 00:03:40,178 -[Lydia] No. -[Uche] Let him have five minutes. 77 00:03:40,261 --> 00:03:41,804 Don't let her control you. 78 00:03:41,888 --> 00:03:44,057 You're gonna let her come in between your friends? 79 00:03:44,140 --> 00:03:45,391 -[Lydia] Milton. -[Milton] Hey. 80 00:03:45,475 --> 00:03:48,394 -Hey. Trust me. Trust me. -No. Milton. Milton. Milton. Milton. 81 00:03:48,478 --> 00:03:50,271 -Gimme one second. One second. -Milton. Milton. 82 00:03:53,233 --> 00:03:55,777 [Uche] I think if Milton says yes at the altar, 83 00:03:55,860 --> 00:03:58,988 that would be one of the biggest mistakes that he's ever made. 84 00:03:59,072 --> 00:04:02,367 -["Victim" by Cami Galles playing] -♪ Oh, you like to play the victim ♪ 85 00:04:03,159 --> 00:04:05,745 ♪ When you're the one who stabbed me ♪ 86 00:04:06,496 --> 00:04:08,122 ♪ You like to play the victim ♪ 87 00:04:08,206 --> 00:04:11,209 ♪ Yeah, you pushed me ♪ 88 00:04:11,292 --> 00:04:17,131 ♪ Over the edge ♪ 89 00:04:17,215 --> 00:04:19,926 -[Uche] So, that went well. -[Maris] What the hell did you just do? 90 00:04:20,009 --> 00:04:22,011 Oh, dude, I heard. Are you good? 91 00:04:22,095 --> 00:04:25,139 I'm good, but it's like… So here's the thing. 92 00:04:25,223 --> 00:04:29,269 I'm like, "You put us in this situation." 93 00:04:29,352 --> 00:04:35,692 Because I found out that she knew I was being cast 94 00:04:37,110 --> 00:04:38,194 for the experiment. 95 00:04:38,278 --> 00:04:39,153 [gasps] 96 00:04:39,237 --> 00:04:43,074 She wanted us to be on this experiment together. 97 00:04:43,783 --> 00:04:45,201 [Stacy] Is your face okay? 98 00:04:45,285 --> 00:04:47,996 -She-- She-- She blocked-- -[Johnie] I mean… 99 00:04:48,079 --> 00:04:50,498 -She blocked my Instagram profile. -[Stacy] Is your face okay? 100 00:04:50,581 --> 00:04:52,458 -[Johnie] I'm surprised. -Stacy, keep it cool. 101 00:04:52,542 --> 00:04:54,377 -[Stacy] At what? -I'm allowed to be surprised. 102 00:04:54,460 --> 00:04:55,336 Can I finish? 103 00:04:55,420 --> 00:04:58,840 -[Stacy] Yeah, but you're looking at me. -I was looking at them. 104 00:04:58,923 --> 00:05:01,801 [Uche] She came in the first day. I don't know which of you girls she told. 105 00:05:01,884 --> 00:05:06,139 She was saying, "Oh, I feel like I'm gonna see somebody from my past." 106 00:05:06,222 --> 00:05:09,183 Either she found out I was gonna be there, 107 00:05:09,267 --> 00:05:13,396 or she has supernatural powers that allow her to see into the future. 108 00:05:13,479 --> 00:05:16,899 What would have been the goal? Did you expect us to end up together? 109 00:05:16,983 --> 00:05:20,236 Or are you trying to sabotage, like, my chance at being with somebody? 110 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,071 'Cause if that was her goal, she did it. 111 00:05:22,155 --> 00:05:25,074 She ruined anything that me and Aaliyah could have had. 112 00:05:25,158 --> 00:05:28,286 I kind of want some accountability for what she did to Aaliyah. 113 00:05:28,369 --> 00:05:30,830 Like, to follow somebody around 114 00:05:30,913 --> 00:05:32,582 and tell them things about me, like-- 115 00:05:32,665 --> 00:05:35,001 That's not how that happened on our side. 116 00:05:35,084 --> 00:05:37,378 [Maris] That's not how it happened. You're assuming. 117 00:05:37,462 --> 00:05:41,257 But I don't think that Lydia wanted me to fall in love 118 00:05:41,341 --> 00:05:42,425 and to have a genuine shot-- 119 00:05:42,508 --> 00:05:45,136 -I have to have Lydia's back on this… -[Miriam] Yeah. 120 00:05:45,219 --> 00:05:49,265 …because when Aaliyah was breaking down when she told you about her infidelity 121 00:05:49,349 --> 00:05:52,935 and you were kind of, like, done about it, Lydia sat there comforting her friend 122 00:05:53,019 --> 00:05:54,729 that is dating her ex. 123 00:05:55,229 --> 00:05:56,522 But what did she do after? 124 00:05:56,606 --> 00:06:00,151 But that emotion whenever she was comforting Aaliyah was not fake. 125 00:06:00,234 --> 00:06:02,487 But then after she found out about it-- 126 00:06:02,570 --> 00:06:06,032 Lydia and Aaliyah came to us together, holding hands, crying together-- 127 00:06:06,115 --> 00:06:09,660 That was before she found out that we all knew everything though, right? 128 00:06:09,744 --> 00:06:11,913 -[Miriam] No! She-- -[Uche] That would be-- Miriam. 129 00:06:11,996 --> 00:06:14,457 -Miriam, stop, stop. Let Stacy continue. -Don't tell me to stop. 130 00:06:14,540 --> 00:06:17,502 -Excuse me. Don't tell her to stop. -[Uche] I wanna hear what Stacy's saying. 131 00:06:17,585 --> 00:06:18,711 Don't tell me to stop. 132 00:06:18,795 --> 00:06:20,630 You are not going to tell me when to talk. 133 00:06:20,713 --> 00:06:23,674 -[Uche] All right. This is done. -Keep your toxic masculinity to yourself. 134 00:06:23,758 --> 00:06:25,510 -[Uche] I'mma grab another drink. -Back off! 135 00:06:25,593 --> 00:06:28,554 Do you wanna talk? 'Cause I wanna hear your perspective, Stacy. 136 00:06:28,638 --> 00:06:31,224 -[mocking] You can talk here. -Stacy, can I talk to you? 137 00:06:31,307 --> 00:06:33,142 -I don't wanna hear her-- -[Miriam arguing] 138 00:06:33,226 --> 00:06:35,353 -Miriam's bitter. -[Miriam] You don't wanna hear-- 139 00:06:35,436 --> 00:06:37,480 Bitter? You are so self-absorbed! 140 00:06:37,563 --> 00:06:39,399 I'm trying to have a conversation about Lydia. 141 00:06:39,482 --> 00:06:42,443 -If y'all want to talk about that-- -[Miriam] Doesn't matter where you go. 142 00:06:42,527 --> 00:06:45,154 -Yeah, leave! Don't call me bitter. -[Uche] I'm gonna grab a drink. 143 00:06:45,780 --> 00:06:48,533 -[Uche] You are bitter. Bitter and fake. -You're so pathetic. 144 00:06:48,616 --> 00:06:51,244 Saying all the nonsense you said, but you can't say it to my face! 145 00:06:51,327 --> 00:06:53,871 Do you live in Saudi Arabia or do you live in Houston? 146 00:06:53,955 --> 00:06:56,874 -Do you have a job? Do you have a not job? -I have a fucking job! 147 00:06:56,958 --> 00:06:59,836 [Miriam] Wait, wait, wait! Can you believe this guy? 148 00:06:59,919 --> 00:07:03,589 Do you have a business? Do you not have a business? 149 00:07:03,673 --> 00:07:06,426 Do you have a boyfriend? Do you not have a boyfriend? 150 00:07:06,509 --> 00:07:07,844 -I'm outta here. -Wait! No, no, no! 151 00:07:07,927 --> 00:07:10,263 -[Uche] You're here for the cameras! -No, no, no, hold on! 152 00:07:10,346 --> 00:07:12,432 -I'm here for the cameras? -Only thing you're here for. 153 00:07:12,515 --> 00:07:14,308 -You're so fake. -Come back! Let me answer! 154 00:07:14,392 --> 00:07:15,935 Yes, I work in Saudi Arabia! 155 00:07:16,018 --> 00:07:18,729 Yes, I have a fucking degree from Johns Hopkins University! 156 00:07:18,813 --> 00:07:19,772 You can look that up. 157 00:07:19,856 --> 00:07:22,191 You wanna talk about who's here for the cameras? 158 00:07:22,275 --> 00:07:24,527 I'm not Lydia or Aaliyah. You're not gonna make me cry. 159 00:07:24,610 --> 00:07:27,405 I'll read you for the filth you are! Loser! 160 00:07:27,488 --> 00:07:29,615 [dramatic music playing] 161 00:07:31,284 --> 00:07:32,201 Miriam, take a breath. 162 00:07:34,036 --> 00:07:35,663 He's not worth your time. 163 00:07:35,746 --> 00:07:38,958 ["Don't Play With Fire" by Jake Warren playing] 164 00:07:43,796 --> 00:07:46,883 You should have seen this piss I took. It took about 20 minutes. 165 00:07:46,966 --> 00:07:49,302 Asking me if I work in Saudi Arabia, are you kidding me? 166 00:07:49,385 --> 00:07:50,928 [Milton] Hey, ma'am. 167 00:07:51,012 --> 00:07:52,722 Please take care of Lydia, please. 168 00:07:52,805 --> 00:07:54,140 -Thank you. -Yeah, we got her. 169 00:07:54,223 --> 00:07:56,684 [dramatic note plays] 170 00:08:01,481 --> 00:08:03,149 [Stacy] Proud of you for speaking your mind. 171 00:08:03,232 --> 00:08:05,485 He's walking away looking at his phone. He doesn't care. 172 00:08:05,568 --> 00:08:07,320 He has nothing to say. He's a freaking coward. 173 00:08:07,403 --> 00:08:10,364 If he wants to portray me as crazy, go ahead. 174 00:08:10,448 --> 00:08:12,200 [Stacy] That's the definition of a narcissist. 175 00:08:12,283 --> 00:08:14,994 You're basically telling me, like, I'm a liar, 176 00:08:15,077 --> 00:08:16,704 and I'm like, he was a liar. 177 00:08:16,787 --> 00:08:19,040 He slept with someone while he was dating me. 178 00:08:20,291 --> 00:08:21,542 He's not putting that out there. 179 00:08:21,626 --> 00:08:26,088 Because, honestly, I know who I am, and I know who he is. 180 00:08:26,172 --> 00:08:28,841 And he is garbage. 181 00:08:30,051 --> 00:08:35,431 No one. No one should be able to disrespect me the way that he just did. 182 00:08:35,515 --> 00:08:37,016 -[Miriam] Yeah. -No one. 183 00:08:37,099 --> 00:08:42,855 I am thriving, and I am happy, and I'm in love with my fiancé. 184 00:08:42,939 --> 00:08:44,774 -Yes. -[Lydia] And that's bothering him. 185 00:08:44,857 --> 00:08:46,317 He is not worth it. 186 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:49,195 Who wants more drinks? What do y'all want? 187 00:08:49,278 --> 00:08:51,155 [Stacy] I just need to, like, get off this couch. 188 00:08:52,532 --> 00:08:54,575 So, I'm confused. 189 00:08:54,659 --> 00:08:57,912 I know the situation. I know you have good intentions. 190 00:08:57,995 --> 00:09:00,748 Uche is, like, very convincing though. 191 00:09:00,831 --> 00:09:04,919 So, Uche just said that you knew he was gonna be in there. 192 00:09:05,002 --> 00:09:07,004 [tense music playing] 193 00:09:08,130 --> 00:09:09,840 -[Lydia] How? -[Johnie] He said you knew. 194 00:09:09,924 --> 00:09:12,218 -[Lydia] How? -And that's when I was like, "What?" 195 00:09:12,301 --> 00:09:13,886 -How? -[Maris] Girl, he just said that. 196 00:09:13,970 --> 00:09:16,681 He said that you were basically stalking him. 197 00:09:17,265 --> 00:09:19,809 Oh, yeah, he showed me screenshots about, like, friends saying 198 00:09:19,892 --> 00:09:22,728 that I was looking at his stories or something like that. 199 00:09:22,812 --> 00:09:25,565 Do you not look at people's stories that you've been fucking? I do. 200 00:09:25,648 --> 00:09:26,482 [Johnie] Yeah. 201 00:09:26,566 --> 00:09:29,360 [Maris laughs] I'm sorry. I wanna know what you're doing without me. 202 00:09:29,443 --> 00:09:31,112 He was like, "Oh, you're crazy." 203 00:09:31,195 --> 00:09:33,114 I don't know. I don't know. I honestly don't care. 204 00:09:33,197 --> 00:09:36,117 It's so much information from both sides, 205 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:39,495 and I've heard it from you, and Aaliyah, and Uche. 206 00:09:39,579 --> 00:09:41,414 I don't know. It's just so much. 207 00:09:41,497 --> 00:09:44,792 Milton is mature enough to understand, like, don't listen, like, 208 00:09:45,376 --> 00:09:47,545 to shit he's saying, right? Look at them. 209 00:09:47,628 --> 00:09:49,755 [Johnie] Now Milton and Uche are together? 210 00:09:49,839 --> 00:09:52,466 ["There Will Be Fire" by Boris Nonte & Vanessa Campagna playing] 211 00:09:52,550 --> 00:09:54,468 ♪ No, there's not another side ♪ 212 00:09:55,511 --> 00:09:58,389 I'm trying to be honest tonight, and she blows up at me. 213 00:09:58,889 --> 00:10:01,934 Last year, I started getting messages from girls on Instagram saying, 214 00:10:02,018 --> 00:10:06,230 "Hey, I've been seeing her view my stories for weeks at a time." 215 00:10:06,314 --> 00:10:09,150 "She doesn't follow me. You're the only person she follows." 216 00:10:09,233 --> 00:10:11,027 "I thought I should let you know." 217 00:10:11,110 --> 00:10:13,237 And then I'm showing her the screenshots, right? 218 00:10:13,946 --> 00:10:15,781 -[Milton] Mmm-hmm. -I don't mean to show you it, 219 00:10:15,865 --> 00:10:19,410 but just so you know that I'm not trying to bullshit you and make up lies. 220 00:10:19,493 --> 00:10:20,870 Trust me, I-- I-- 221 00:10:21,412 --> 00:10:24,165 -So, okay. You don't need it. Okay. -Not doubting any of it. 222 00:10:24,248 --> 00:10:29,670 So, I don't want this to affect, like, your relationship with her at all, 223 00:10:29,754 --> 00:10:33,758 but I think I would be a bad friend if I didn't come to you 224 00:10:33,841 --> 00:10:39,013 and tell you that Lydia planned to be here with me, 225 00:10:39,680 --> 00:10:41,599 so that we could end up here together. 226 00:10:41,682 --> 00:10:44,518 And she came in the first day telling all the girls, 227 00:10:44,602 --> 00:10:47,313 "I feel like I'm gonna meet somebody from my past here, 228 00:10:47,396 --> 00:10:49,065 and if I do, it's fate." 229 00:10:49,148 --> 00:10:53,152 It's not fate. She fucking planned for us to both be here 230 00:10:53,235 --> 00:10:54,987 because she couldn't let me go. 231 00:10:55,071 --> 00:10:57,073 [tense music playing] 232 00:10:58,616 --> 00:10:59,492 [Milton] Mmm. 233 00:11:03,079 --> 00:11:04,664 -[Uche] It's a lot. I know. -So… 234 00:11:04,747 --> 00:11:08,834 My mom always told me, like, your perception is, like, your reality. 235 00:11:08,918 --> 00:11:11,253 You and her have very different perceptions. 236 00:11:11,921 --> 00:11:13,172 You guys are both grown. 237 00:11:13,255 --> 00:11:15,299 You guys kind of both handle it. 238 00:11:15,383 --> 00:11:18,969 But you don't think that somebody's past determines their behavior in the future? 239 00:11:19,053 --> 00:11:22,014 Like, what if you wanted to talk to Lydia about something very important, 240 00:11:22,098 --> 00:11:23,808 then she stormed off on you? 241 00:11:23,891 --> 00:11:26,477 Do you think that's, like, a healthy way to, like, communicate? 242 00:11:27,186 --> 00:11:30,106 No, but I understand there's nuances, and things are situational. 243 00:11:30,189 --> 00:11:32,817 Like, you know, this isn't Pythagorean theorem going on. 244 00:11:32,900 --> 00:11:35,319 Like, this is, like, multidimensional calculus. 245 00:11:36,028 --> 00:11:37,279 You're in an X direction. 246 00:11:37,363 --> 00:11:40,032 She's in a Y direction, and I'm the Z direction. 247 00:11:40,116 --> 00:11:42,076 -[Uche] Yeah. -Like, I'm not even adjacent. 248 00:11:42,159 --> 00:11:44,412 -[Uche] Yeah. -Just, like, on a different parallel. 249 00:11:44,495 --> 00:11:46,497 -It's all perception. -Yeah. 250 00:11:47,081 --> 00:11:49,250 How have y'all's communication been generally? 251 00:11:49,917 --> 00:11:51,460 -Actually really good. -Good. 252 00:11:51,544 --> 00:11:54,547 I've really wanted to just, like, find someone genuine, 253 00:11:54,630 --> 00:11:56,507 and I feel like I found it. 254 00:11:56,590 --> 00:12:00,428 You feel like that's something that's like a lifelong thing between the two of you? 255 00:12:00,511 --> 00:12:03,222 You don't feel like you're, like, in a honeymoon phase, 256 00:12:03,305 --> 00:12:05,349 where things are, like, great for right now, 257 00:12:05,433 --> 00:12:08,060 but there could potentially be something 258 00:12:08,144 --> 00:12:10,020 that goes wrong in the future? 259 00:12:10,104 --> 00:12:12,231 I kind of always live my life in the honeymoon phase. 260 00:12:12,314 --> 00:12:15,192 I don't let anything ever give me a negative perspective. 261 00:12:15,693 --> 00:12:16,569 That's good. 262 00:12:16,652 --> 00:12:20,114 And regardless if, like, you and her see eye-to-eye, like, 263 00:12:20,197 --> 00:12:21,907 we're all on different dimensional planes. 264 00:12:22,825 --> 00:12:24,160 It just is what it is. 265 00:12:25,536 --> 00:12:26,996 Milton, I… 266 00:12:27,079 --> 00:12:30,958 You have, like, two or three weeks left in your engagement, 267 00:12:31,041 --> 00:12:35,588 and I honestly wish you the best of luck. 268 00:12:35,671 --> 00:12:39,175 And, if you know in the pods, how many negative things did I say about her? 269 00:12:39,258 --> 00:12:41,719 Nothing. I said she's amazing person. 270 00:12:42,386 --> 00:12:44,054 I was more worried about you… 271 00:12:44,138 --> 00:12:46,015 [chuckles] …breaking her heart, wasn't I? 272 00:12:46,098 --> 00:12:50,811 I went into the pods asking you not to hurt her, 273 00:12:50,895 --> 00:12:55,232 and now I'm telling you to be careful that she doesn't do that to you. 274 00:12:56,233 --> 00:12:57,234 That's fair. 275 00:12:57,860 --> 00:13:00,112 Don't let her come in between our friendship either. 276 00:13:02,573 --> 00:13:05,075 -Uche, best of luck to you, brother. -You too, man. 277 00:13:05,159 --> 00:13:07,453 -[Milton] I'll text you in the group chat. -See you later. 278 00:13:07,536 --> 00:13:10,331 ["I Didn't Come Here to Make Friends" by ELKAE playing] 279 00:13:16,337 --> 00:13:18,506 [Chris] I don't appreciate you saying to her 280 00:13:18,589 --> 00:13:21,300 that I think she's a bad person, 'cause I think she's amazing. 281 00:13:21,383 --> 00:13:23,928 [Izzy] I never told her that you said she was a bad person. 282 00:13:24,011 --> 00:13:25,471 Red flag right there. 283 00:13:27,306 --> 00:13:28,974 If I would have stuck with Johnie, 284 00:13:29,058 --> 00:13:32,686 knowing what she told you and she told me, and if I found that out afterwards, 285 00:13:32,770 --> 00:13:34,230 I would have been, "What the fuck?" 286 00:13:34,313 --> 00:13:36,941 It was, "What the fuck?" And then she cleared it up. 287 00:13:37,024 --> 00:13:38,359 I'm happy for you guys. 288 00:13:38,442 --> 00:13:41,403 I want nothing but the best for you and her. 289 00:13:41,487 --> 00:13:44,406 I don't hate the girl. Obviously, I cut her off for a reason. 290 00:13:44,490 --> 00:13:48,410 I just didn't think it was cool to, like, do that to us. 291 00:13:48,494 --> 00:13:50,371 And so, I said it. I addressed it. 292 00:13:50,454 --> 00:13:52,248 -Okay. -[Izzy] And that was that. 293 00:13:52,331 --> 00:13:54,041 Well, I think she's amazing. 294 00:13:54,124 --> 00:13:58,462 I just don't want you or anybody feeding her information that's not true. 295 00:13:58,546 --> 00:14:01,006 -So, if you didn't, then that's fine. -[Izzy] Yeah, I did not. 296 00:14:01,090 --> 00:14:03,717 It was more, "How are you gonna tell me that you're in love with me, 297 00:14:03,801 --> 00:14:05,553 ask me to be your boyfriend four times, 298 00:14:05,636 --> 00:14:07,471 tell me you're in love with me four times, 299 00:14:07,555 --> 00:14:11,225 and then sit here and tell me, like, 'I'm so glad this didn't work out.'" 300 00:14:11,725 --> 00:14:14,353 -I would never-- -She told you she loved you in there? 301 00:14:14,436 --> 00:14:15,980 Four times. I counted it. 302 00:14:17,189 --> 00:14:18,941 -She was in love with me. -I didn't know that. 303 00:14:19,024 --> 00:14:20,693 And I never said it back. 304 00:14:20,776 --> 00:14:24,446 And I'm not trying to persuade you on anything. That's not my intent here. 305 00:14:24,530 --> 00:14:27,032 I hope you guys work out, honestly. 306 00:14:27,116 --> 00:14:30,661 I'm calling her out on her shit because you remind me of me. 307 00:14:30,744 --> 00:14:32,121 We have good hearts. 308 00:14:32,204 --> 00:14:34,582 People can take advantage of us very easily. 309 00:14:34,665 --> 00:14:36,667 -[Stacy] Like who? -Johnie. 310 00:14:36,750 --> 00:14:38,085 -[Stacy] Oh, God. -[Chris] No. 311 00:14:38,168 --> 00:14:40,170 And so that's why I called her out on her shit, 312 00:14:40,254 --> 00:14:42,131 because you were a good friend to me. 313 00:14:42,214 --> 00:14:45,467 She's telling us all the same shit. I promise you, I never said-- 314 00:14:45,551 --> 00:14:47,636 But to me, like, if I was trying to say, like-- 315 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:49,221 I didn't know I was walking into this. 316 00:14:49,305 --> 00:14:51,932 I thought I was getting out of the drama, but I just walked into it. 317 00:14:52,016 --> 00:14:54,727 Stacy can give you the girls' perspective side. 318 00:14:54,810 --> 00:14:57,438 But for me, like, if I was trying to get with you, I would… 319 00:14:58,105 --> 00:14:59,732 -…go to Izzy. -[Johnie] Is this good? 320 00:14:59,815 --> 00:15:01,233 'Cause I just see hands waving. 321 00:15:01,317 --> 00:15:03,736 We're trying to understand the story. You know what I'm saying? 322 00:15:03,819 --> 00:15:05,821 No, they're trying to convince you of a story 323 00:15:05,905 --> 00:15:09,241 that probably didn't happen. I don't know why y'all are-- 324 00:15:09,325 --> 00:15:10,784 [Stacy] He asked. So ask him. 325 00:15:10,868 --> 00:15:12,828 [tense music playing] 326 00:15:12,912 --> 00:15:14,622 Oh, my God. 327 00:15:14,705 --> 00:15:17,166 -[Chris] No, that's-- -You know this is all lies, right? 328 00:15:17,249 --> 00:15:18,500 They're both… 329 00:15:19,084 --> 00:15:21,420 -Their stories are conflicting. -Neither of y'all were there. 330 00:15:21,503 --> 00:15:23,923 [Stacy] We were there in the pods to know you're full of shit. 331 00:15:24,006 --> 00:15:26,759 So it coincides with the real world that you're still full of shit. 332 00:15:26,842 --> 00:15:28,469 [Chris] Y'all's stories are conflicting. 333 00:15:28,552 --> 00:15:31,055 Yeah, it's surprising to get a hold of your real personality. 334 00:15:31,138 --> 00:15:32,723 [tense music continues] 335 00:15:33,807 --> 00:15:36,894 I hope you guys are very happy together. I really do. 336 00:15:36,977 --> 00:15:39,229 [Johnie] We are happy together. Are y'all happy together? 337 00:15:39,313 --> 00:15:41,815 -'Cause why are y'all ganging up on-- -[Izzy] I'm great. 338 00:15:41,899 --> 00:15:44,318 Then y'all go for it. Why are y'all ganging up on my boyfriend? 339 00:15:44,401 --> 00:15:45,986 [Stacy] We're not ganging up at all! 340 00:15:46,070 --> 00:15:47,988 -They're friends. -[Izzy] Yeah. 341 00:15:48,072 --> 00:15:50,324 -I think you're deceitful. -How? 342 00:15:50,407 --> 00:15:52,284 [Johnie] Every conversation we had about Izzy, 343 00:15:52,368 --> 00:15:54,995 you didn't tell me that he was one of your strongest connections. 344 00:15:55,079 --> 00:15:59,458 -You never told me it was Izzy. -Oh, my God, everyone knew it was Izzy. 345 00:15:59,541 --> 00:16:02,753 -No, and I didn't say anything-- -You didn't say anything because why? 346 00:16:02,836 --> 00:16:04,797 Johnie, what do I owe to you? I don't trust you. 347 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:07,132 Honestly, if you knew it was me, 348 00:16:07,216 --> 00:16:09,343 you would have acted completely different with him. 349 00:16:09,426 --> 00:16:10,803 [Johnie] No, I wouldn't have. 350 00:16:10,886 --> 00:16:13,263 'Cause our relationship has nothing to do with you. 351 00:16:13,347 --> 00:16:14,807 Thank God. 352 00:16:15,766 --> 00:16:19,603 No, you acted differently with him based off of me and his relationship, 353 00:16:19,687 --> 00:16:21,730 which is why I think you're deceitful. 354 00:16:21,814 --> 00:16:24,274 [Stacy] I have always been the same person, 355 00:16:24,358 --> 00:16:28,195 and I shed tears for you knowing that you were gonna get rejected. 356 00:16:28,988 --> 00:16:30,698 -Okay. -[Stacy] I had empathy for you. 357 00:16:30,781 --> 00:16:34,284 And that's why I'm so fired up, is because you're a shit person. 358 00:16:34,368 --> 00:16:37,162 And I feel bad for shedding a damn tear for you. 359 00:16:37,246 --> 00:16:38,747 [intense music playing] 360 00:16:39,873 --> 00:16:42,543 Okay, go ask anyone out there if I'm a shitty person. 361 00:16:42,626 --> 00:16:46,130 Oh, I've already done that, and I'm very confident in my opinion. 362 00:16:46,714 --> 00:16:48,716 -Okay. -Which is why I don't look at you. 363 00:16:51,093 --> 00:16:53,470 -[Johnie] That's not true. -[Chris] She's not a shitty person. 364 00:16:53,554 --> 00:16:55,389 Well, why didn't you propose? 365 00:16:56,473 --> 00:17:00,060 -Because there was a lot going on. -I went from a breakup to back to him. 366 00:17:00,144 --> 00:17:02,646 We were never together. No, no, no, don't call it a breakup. 367 00:17:02,730 --> 00:17:06,233 Oh, my God, that's not what I'm saying! Okay, what do you want me to call it? 368 00:17:06,316 --> 00:17:08,235 You asked me to be your boyfriend. Never said yes. 369 00:17:08,318 --> 00:17:09,319 No, I didn't! 370 00:17:09,403 --> 00:17:12,031 You told me you were falling in love, I never told you anything back. 371 00:17:12,114 --> 00:17:14,575 -Don't call it a breakup. -I never asked him to be my boyfriend. 372 00:17:14,658 --> 00:17:17,036 I asked Stacy to be my girlfriend, if you wanna get technical. 373 00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:20,539 I never asked him to be my boyfriend. That never happened. 374 00:17:20,622 --> 00:17:22,541 -We can roll the tapes, honey. -No, I didn't. 375 00:17:23,542 --> 00:17:26,045 The proof's in the pudding. No one has ill intentions. 376 00:17:26,128 --> 00:17:27,629 It's just calling shit for shit. 377 00:17:27,713 --> 00:17:30,049 -We're just calling you out. -[Stacy] I'm a straight shooter. 378 00:17:30,132 --> 00:17:32,509 -That's all I stand for. -[Izzy] I got your back any time. 379 00:17:32,593 --> 00:17:34,428 This is not between us. We're good. 380 00:17:34,511 --> 00:17:36,513 I'm looking out for you 'cause you're an amazing guy. 381 00:17:36,597 --> 00:17:39,099 -We're good. All four of us are not good. -[Izzy] We're good. 382 00:17:40,100 --> 00:17:41,852 That is all lies. 383 00:17:41,935 --> 00:17:44,396 Okay, so I'm not listening to it. You know me. 384 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:47,983 I don't care. Whatever is between us is between us. 385 00:17:49,610 --> 00:17:51,153 [intense music playing] 386 00:17:52,362 --> 00:17:53,322 [Miriam] What happened? 387 00:17:53,405 --> 00:17:57,367 There were so much lies, but I can't sit here and listen to all your bullshit 388 00:17:57,451 --> 00:17:58,994 that everyone's choking on. 389 00:17:59,578 --> 00:18:03,332 -What lies? What bullshit? -Johnie and the Chris/Izzy shit. 390 00:18:03,415 --> 00:18:08,462 She told opposite things to me and Chris, and she's sketchy, sketchy, sketchy. 391 00:18:09,963 --> 00:18:13,425 [sobbing] I get in my head a lot because I care what people think. 392 00:18:13,509 --> 00:18:17,679 I made mistakes, but I really tried to be good to people. [sniffles] 393 00:18:17,763 --> 00:18:21,433 [Stacy] I think she's boring. She's fake, two-faced. 394 00:18:21,517 --> 00:18:23,435 I can't get far enough away from her. 395 00:18:23,519 --> 00:18:24,978 Just stay away from me. 396 00:18:25,562 --> 00:18:28,148 Listen, that's my friend. Y'all are all my friends. 397 00:18:28,232 --> 00:18:31,443 However, I'm telling y'all, y'all are all seeing it from a different perspective. 398 00:18:31,527 --> 00:18:34,279 Mar, this isn't the time to understand each other. 399 00:18:34,363 --> 00:18:35,697 We're not gonna be friends. 400 00:18:35,781 --> 00:18:38,659 I'm never gonna look her way, and I hope she doesn't look mine. 401 00:18:38,742 --> 00:18:39,868 That's the end of it. 402 00:18:39,952 --> 00:18:42,162 [dramatic note plays] 403 00:18:42,246 --> 00:18:44,039 ["Kill Switch" by Liam Geddes playing] 404 00:18:44,123 --> 00:18:45,999 [stifling tears] 405 00:18:47,209 --> 00:18:51,463 ♪ Oh! I'm gonna end this one ♪ 406 00:18:51,547 --> 00:18:54,174 ♪ Going on war, cold to the core ♪ 407 00:18:54,258 --> 00:18:55,968 ♪ Fire inside, you're loving it ♪ 408 00:18:57,219 --> 00:19:00,305 ♪ Oh! I'll be the kill switch ♪ 409 00:19:00,389 --> 00:19:01,765 ♪ Kill switch ♪ 410 00:19:01,849 --> 00:19:02,850 [song fades] 411 00:19:03,851 --> 00:19:06,979 [Lydia] Dude, he was, like, showing screenshots of all the people… 412 00:19:07,062 --> 00:19:08,605 "Oh, Lydia was looking at my story." 413 00:19:08,689 --> 00:19:12,276 -[Milton] Okay. Listen, listen, listen. -Dude, we have friends in common. 414 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:14,069 He's being a douchebag. 415 00:19:14,820 --> 00:19:16,822 [Milton] I've been a douchebag once before too. 416 00:19:16,905 --> 00:19:19,116 -It's okay. -[Lydia] Are you gonna defend me? 417 00:19:19,616 --> 00:19:22,578 [Milton] You don't think I would? I would always defend you. 418 00:19:23,078 --> 00:19:24,788 -It's so minute. -[Lydia] What? 419 00:19:24,872 --> 00:19:26,498 -[Milton] It's minute. -What is that? 420 00:19:26,582 --> 00:19:30,294 [Milton] Minute? Like, not important. Who gives a fuck? 421 00:19:31,044 --> 00:19:32,796 What'd I tell you about getting so emotional? 422 00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:35,132 -[Lydia] I'm not getting emotional. -Act more like Milton. 423 00:19:35,215 --> 00:19:38,260 -You're too strong. You're too big. -[sniffles] 424 00:19:38,343 --> 00:19:41,597 [Milton] Look at you, you're a fucking grown-ass woman. You're a badass. 425 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:44,224 You have a great-ass job. You make great-ass money. 426 00:19:44,725 --> 00:19:46,351 You're independent as fuck. 427 00:19:47,853 --> 00:19:49,479 Fuck everybody else. 428 00:19:49,563 --> 00:19:51,857 Who cares? We'll make it through. 429 00:19:52,357 --> 00:19:55,027 Now, we have a dinner to go to. 430 00:19:55,110 --> 00:19:56,195 I love you. 431 00:19:58,071 --> 00:19:59,072 [Milton] All right. 432 00:19:59,156 --> 00:20:01,450 ["Break My Own Heart" by Haroula Rose playing] 433 00:20:02,159 --> 00:20:06,121 ♪ Least we handled it with grace ♪ 434 00:20:06,955 --> 00:20:12,628 ♪ I break my own heart every time ♪ 435 00:20:18,759 --> 00:20:20,469 -[Izzy] So. -Hello-hello! 436 00:20:20,552 --> 00:20:23,138 -[Izzy] That went so-- -Let me go! Ow, ow, ow! Ow! 437 00:20:23,222 --> 00:20:26,683 [Izzy] So I'm really annoyed that Chris thought-- 438 00:20:26,767 --> 00:20:27,976 [Stacy] You're annoyed? 439 00:20:28,060 --> 00:20:30,103 I'm annoyed that Chris thought that I was… 440 00:20:30,187 --> 00:20:31,021 Stop! 441 00:20:31,104 --> 00:20:32,898 …going against him. 442 00:20:32,981 --> 00:20:35,192 I think it's because Johnie's got in his head. 443 00:20:35,275 --> 00:20:38,445 -And I think before this she knew-- -[Izzy] She's super manipulative. 444 00:20:38,528 --> 00:20:42,532 Look, this is Monday flower day. We always bring Stacy flowers. 445 00:20:42,616 --> 00:20:46,078 -I didn't know Monday was flower day. -[Izzy] Mondays are flower days. 446 00:20:46,161 --> 00:20:48,413 Always start the week off right, right? 447 00:20:48,497 --> 00:20:52,125 Yeah, you always get flowers every week. This is a thing for me. Every week. 448 00:20:52,209 --> 00:20:53,835 [Stacy comically] I like that. 449 00:20:54,544 --> 00:20:57,172 [Izzy] Chris deserves a good woman, 450 00:20:57,256 --> 00:20:59,925 and I don't think that he should be with Johnie. 451 00:21:00,008 --> 00:21:01,551 She's literally so sketchy. 452 00:21:01,635 --> 00:21:04,346 Like, I don't even wanna have this conversation talking about her. 453 00:21:04,429 --> 00:21:07,683 It's such a waste of breath. Like, I don't wanna talk about it. 454 00:21:07,766 --> 00:21:11,103 I was just trying to look out for Chris, and I think she's, like-- 455 00:21:11,186 --> 00:21:12,229 Why do you care? 456 00:21:13,230 --> 00:21:14,606 'Cause he's a good guy! 457 00:21:14,690 --> 00:21:16,733 -I got to know him-- -[Stacy] He doesn't like you. 458 00:21:16,817 --> 00:21:18,485 No, we're fine. 459 00:21:18,568 --> 00:21:21,280 It didn't seem like you were fine when I walked in there. 460 00:21:21,863 --> 00:21:23,824 I was just trying to look out and tell him-- 461 00:21:23,907 --> 00:21:25,117 But why? 462 00:21:26,368 --> 00:21:28,662 You're trying to look out for him with Johnie? 463 00:21:28,745 --> 00:21:29,997 -I was just trying-- -Why? 464 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:31,665 This has nothing to do with Johnie. 465 00:21:31,748 --> 00:21:34,042 -It was just about-- -That's who he's dating! 466 00:21:35,043 --> 00:21:36,795 It was more so about him. 467 00:21:37,379 --> 00:21:39,256 He clearly doesn't want you to look out for him. 468 00:21:39,339 --> 00:21:40,882 He clearly wanted to defend her. 469 00:21:40,966 --> 00:21:43,218 -I mean, yeah. -[Stacy] And he was coming after you. 470 00:21:43,302 --> 00:21:47,264 So put on your best running shoes and run, because they're crazy. 471 00:21:47,347 --> 00:21:49,099 It'll never work out, and if it does, great. 472 00:21:49,182 --> 00:21:52,436 I was torn at a point where I was just like, "I've got to know Chris." 473 00:21:52,519 --> 00:21:55,480 -He's not a wounded dog. He's a man. -I-- I know. 474 00:21:56,273 --> 00:21:57,107 Let me talk. 475 00:21:57,190 --> 00:21:58,317 -I am. -[Izzy] I felt-- 476 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:00,235 And I'm giving my opinion while you talk. 477 00:22:00,986 --> 00:22:03,739 I think that you're not really acknowledging the sensitive point to me 478 00:22:03,822 --> 00:22:04,781 that it's Johnie. 479 00:22:06,325 --> 00:22:08,160 And that it's your person. 480 00:22:09,911 --> 00:22:11,121 It bothers me. 481 00:22:11,204 --> 00:22:12,622 I don't care about Johnie. 482 00:22:12,706 --> 00:22:14,207 -And you know that. -I know you don't. 483 00:22:14,291 --> 00:22:18,003 I saw you railing into her ass, 484 00:22:18,503 --> 00:22:19,880 and I got so turned on. 485 00:22:19,963 --> 00:22:23,258 [chuckles] I appreciate our relationship so much. 486 00:22:23,342 --> 00:22:26,261 I appreciate you so much. 487 00:22:26,345 --> 00:22:30,182 I'm so glad that I trusted, like, my heart and my gut 488 00:22:31,183 --> 00:22:32,351 to be with you. 489 00:22:33,185 --> 00:22:37,606 Looking at the entire night, I am so glad. [chuckles] 490 00:22:37,689 --> 00:22:38,565 I'm sure you are. 491 00:22:38,648 --> 00:22:41,360 Looking at that and then looking at me, I'm sure you're glad. 492 00:22:41,443 --> 00:22:44,071 -And for me, I'm getting more furious. -No, it's not even that. 493 00:22:44,154 --> 00:22:45,947 That I'm in the same boat as that. 494 00:22:47,699 --> 00:22:49,618 The appreciation you're feeling for me now, 495 00:22:49,701 --> 00:22:54,039 I don't want it to be elicited from looking at crazy. 496 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,459 I want it to be just because. 497 00:23:00,003 --> 00:23:02,881 I feel like the times that you're most passionate and like, 498 00:23:03,465 --> 00:23:05,717 "I'm so glad to be around you, and I love you so much," 499 00:23:05,801 --> 00:23:07,761 are the times like this, 500 00:23:07,844 --> 00:23:11,765 where it gets hot and then conflict comes up, 501 00:23:11,848 --> 00:23:15,477 and it's almost like you've run away from it to come to me as shelter. 502 00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:17,479 Where it's like, "I'm so glad I have you." 503 00:23:17,562 --> 00:23:19,439 I'm just telling you what it feels like to me. 504 00:23:19,523 --> 00:23:22,317 I want it to feel like that when you come in from work 505 00:23:22,818 --> 00:23:24,569 in this door right here. 506 00:23:24,653 --> 00:23:26,780 Have you not felt that way from me? 507 00:23:26,863 --> 00:23:29,825 I think you come in, and you're… like, you wanna give me a hug and stuff, 508 00:23:29,908 --> 00:23:32,494 but, like, in these instances you're like, 509 00:23:32,577 --> 00:23:34,663 "Thank God I chose you instead of that." 510 00:23:34,746 --> 00:23:37,666 Like, I want the angst of, like, 511 00:23:37,749 --> 00:23:40,168 you're afraid to lose me all the time. 512 00:23:40,252 --> 00:23:41,253 [Izzy] Mmm. 513 00:23:44,297 --> 00:23:45,298 [softy] Okay. 514 00:23:47,008 --> 00:23:50,345 I'm just saying there's other ways that you could show me 515 00:23:50,429 --> 00:23:53,932 you're appreciative of me and not compare it to your past relationships 516 00:23:54,015 --> 00:23:55,308 that we just encountered. 517 00:23:56,768 --> 00:24:00,439 Johnie's not a previous relationship. Johnie was a pod chick. 518 00:24:01,273 --> 00:24:04,568 Well, she was over me for quite some time, so I kind of 519 00:24:05,318 --> 00:24:06,903 don't feel so good about that. 520 00:24:08,029 --> 00:24:08,905 [softly] Okay. 521 00:24:08,989 --> 00:24:11,908 That makes me feel not good. 522 00:24:12,492 --> 00:24:15,454 Like, I'm a pod chick. You met me in a pod. 523 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:18,081 You're my fiancé. 524 00:24:18,165 --> 00:24:21,835 -You're not just any girl. -[tense music playing] 525 00:24:23,837 --> 00:24:28,008 I feel like it's more talk than it is showing me. 526 00:24:28,925 --> 00:24:31,052 -I do-- -You're talking about me and my actions? 527 00:24:31,136 --> 00:24:32,804 -[Stacy] Mmm-hmm. -[scoffs] 528 00:24:32,888 --> 00:24:34,681 -Are you serious? -Yeah. 529 00:24:36,975 --> 00:24:38,727 -Like-- -Elaborate, please. 530 00:24:38,810 --> 00:24:42,272 So, like, in the pods, you're like, "In ideal life, this is how it would go." 531 00:24:42,355 --> 00:24:44,691 "We'd come home from work, and we'd lay down," and, like… 532 00:24:45,275 --> 00:24:47,652 "I do this." Like, "I'll cook for you, 533 00:24:47,736 --> 00:24:49,905 and I'll rub your feet, and this, this, and that." 534 00:24:49,988 --> 00:24:53,241 And it's like, sometimes I don't really feel like that's how it is. 535 00:24:53,325 --> 00:24:54,951 Sometimes I feel like that's me doing it. 536 00:24:55,035 --> 00:24:56,369 Okay, so, elaborate more. 537 00:24:56,453 --> 00:24:58,788 -You cooked for me twice. -[Stacy] Mmm-hmm. 538 00:24:58,872 --> 00:25:02,042 Put aside that. What have I not done for you? 539 00:25:02,125 --> 00:25:02,959 Cook for me. 540 00:25:04,085 --> 00:25:07,297 Again, put cooking aside. What have I not done for you? 541 00:25:08,423 --> 00:25:10,467 -Like until-- -Do you hear what you're saying now? 542 00:25:10,550 --> 00:25:12,093 I do. I'm telling you. 543 00:25:12,177 --> 00:25:14,179 That's how I'm trying to communicate with you. 544 00:25:14,262 --> 00:25:16,973 -I'm listening. -No, you're being defensive. 545 00:25:17,057 --> 00:25:20,769 No, I'm listening, 'cause I'm in shock, 'cause this is new to me, 'cause… 546 00:25:21,853 --> 00:25:23,939 We've had so many times on our own, 547 00:25:24,022 --> 00:25:26,650 and this is now the first time that I'm hearing this. 548 00:25:26,733 --> 00:25:30,737 Well, when you come home, like, what do you do for me? 549 00:25:33,406 --> 00:25:35,116 That's a question for you to answer. 550 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:39,704 No, I'm asking you what you do for me when I come home. 551 00:25:41,790 --> 00:25:42,874 I'm barely home. 552 00:25:43,375 --> 00:25:46,836 I'm up earlier than you. Sometimes, I get home later than you. 553 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,589 When I'm here, I've cleaned. 554 00:25:49,673 --> 00:25:55,387 Aside of cooking, trying to be the best support system as your fiancé. 555 00:25:55,470 --> 00:25:59,099 To be patient and kind and understanding. 556 00:25:59,849 --> 00:26:02,477 To try my best to adapt to you. 557 00:26:03,562 --> 00:26:06,273 [chuckles] Also, try to juggle my own emotions. 558 00:26:06,356 --> 00:26:08,400 [dark music playing] 559 00:26:08,483 --> 00:26:10,777 Because I don't know if one day you're gonna tell me yes 560 00:26:10,860 --> 00:26:12,362 and one day you're gonna tell me no. 561 00:26:15,323 --> 00:26:16,533 Why do you think that is? 562 00:26:19,035 --> 00:26:20,912 Why are you looking at me like that? 563 00:26:21,496 --> 00:26:22,539 I don't know. 564 00:26:22,622 --> 00:26:26,668 Sometimes you make me feel like what I do is not good enough all the time. 565 00:26:29,754 --> 00:26:32,841 You make me feel like I'm not enough for you. 566 00:26:32,924 --> 00:26:34,593 [dramatic note plays] 567 00:26:37,762 --> 00:26:39,764 ["The Road" by Lydia Ainsworth playing] 568 00:26:44,978 --> 00:26:47,314 ♪ The dust is getting thicker… ♪ 569 00:26:47,397 --> 00:26:51,026 -[door opens and closes] -♪ The light is getting dimmer ♪ 570 00:26:52,944 --> 00:26:55,989 ♪ Did I have to let this go? ♪ 571 00:26:56,072 --> 00:26:57,991 [Stacy] I want all the stuff he promised me. 572 00:26:58,074 --> 00:27:01,202 Where it's like, "I'm that romantic guy, the rose petals, 573 00:27:01,286 --> 00:27:04,914 the bath when you get back, the candlelight, the home-cooked meal." 574 00:27:04,998 --> 00:27:09,085 And it feels like I'm trying to express myself, and he's not having it, 575 00:27:09,169 --> 00:27:11,171 'cause he's either afraid of what I'm gonna say, 576 00:27:11,254 --> 00:27:12,672 or he doesn't wanna hear it. 577 00:27:13,173 --> 00:27:14,758 But I've been in here 578 00:27:14,841 --> 00:27:17,719 with the same time constraints that he's had. 579 00:27:17,802 --> 00:27:22,015 I've cooked. I've cleaned. So I'm really sick of the excuses. 580 00:27:22,098 --> 00:27:24,976 I have no question on me. I'm good. 581 00:27:25,477 --> 00:27:26,311 I've given. 582 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:28,772 I have given. 583 00:27:28,855 --> 00:27:32,859 ♪ On and on and on once more ♪ 584 00:27:32,942 --> 00:27:35,195 -[Izzy sniffles] -What is going on? 585 00:27:35,695 --> 00:27:38,406 -[Izzy] Can you please just get away? -Me? 586 00:27:39,282 --> 00:27:41,576 What do you want? Do you want me to get away? 587 00:27:41,660 --> 00:27:43,703 [Izzy] I don't need anything. I'm good. 588 00:27:43,787 --> 00:27:46,539 -[sniffling and stifling tears] -Why are you crying? 589 00:27:47,582 --> 00:27:49,000 [Izzy exhales] 590 00:27:50,627 --> 00:27:53,129 [Izzy] I don't feel like I'm good enough for you. 591 00:27:53,213 --> 00:27:54,547 I don't feel like anything I do-- 592 00:27:54,631 --> 00:27:56,675 I feel like I could be the best person I could be, 593 00:27:56,758 --> 00:27:59,594 and I feel like I don't ever meet your expectation. 594 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:01,763 [sobbing] 595 00:28:01,846 --> 00:28:04,891 I do my best to be patient and kind. 596 00:28:04,974 --> 00:28:08,478 [sniffles] And there's always something, and I'm over it. 597 00:28:09,562 --> 00:28:11,564 [sniffles] I'm over it. 598 00:28:11,648 --> 00:28:16,653 I feel like there's always something, and I just can't do it anymore. 599 00:28:18,363 --> 00:28:19,531 [sniffles] 600 00:28:20,115 --> 00:28:23,910 And I don't wanna talk about it right now. I don't wanna talk about it. 601 00:28:23,993 --> 00:28:28,581 ♪ 'Cause I know it hurt to see me go ♪ 602 00:28:28,665 --> 00:28:31,459 ♪ There's no way That you'll take me back ♪ 603 00:28:33,044 --> 00:28:36,464 ♪ Open sky with no landmark ♪ 604 00:28:37,215 --> 00:28:40,969 ♪ Making progress And yet nothing's changing ♪ 605 00:28:41,052 --> 00:28:44,139 ♪ As two mirrors guide the form ♪ 606 00:28:44,222 --> 00:28:49,060 ♪ Let's go on and on and on once more ♪ 607 00:28:49,144 --> 00:28:52,772 ♪ When there's nothing left to break ♪ 608 00:28:52,856 --> 00:28:56,943 ♪ In a gaze within another gaze ♪ 609 00:28:57,569 --> 00:28:59,779 -[Lydia] Tonight was rough. -[Milton] No, it wasn't. 610 00:28:59,863 --> 00:29:00,947 [Lydia] Well, it was for me. 611 00:29:01,030 --> 00:29:04,909 I cannot dwell on the fact that my past acted the way 612 00:29:04,993 --> 00:29:06,995 that he acted with me tonight. 613 00:29:07,078 --> 00:29:09,247 [sighs] I cannot deal with his BS. 614 00:29:10,039 --> 00:29:14,085 I told him that all three of us are in different parallels. 615 00:29:14,669 --> 00:29:15,587 This is calculus. 616 00:29:15,670 --> 00:29:18,673 Now, he may not understand that because he's no engineer. 617 00:29:18,757 --> 00:29:21,134 -Or no STEM major. -[laughs] 618 00:29:21,217 --> 00:29:25,472 My perception is something different than his perception and your perception, 619 00:29:25,555 --> 00:29:27,724 and we'll continue to live our lives that way. 620 00:29:27,807 --> 00:29:29,100 What is your perception? 621 00:29:29,601 --> 00:29:33,062 My perception is the bond and the relationship that me and you have. 622 00:29:34,355 --> 00:29:35,190 And that's that. 623 00:29:35,273 --> 00:29:36,232 You're right. 624 00:29:36,983 --> 00:29:39,486 -I think, personally… -Mmm-hmm. 625 00:29:39,986 --> 00:29:41,905 I'm a little bit more level-headed than you are. 626 00:29:41,988 --> 00:29:44,282 I think I'm just, like, less emotional, 627 00:29:44,365 --> 00:29:46,785 and I'm not saying that in a negative connotation at all. 628 00:29:46,868 --> 00:29:49,370 Yeah, I agree. You're less emotional than I am, 629 00:29:49,454 --> 00:29:53,208 but I don't want you to discredit or un-validate my feelings. 630 00:29:53,291 --> 00:29:56,377 And it's not because I care about him. 631 00:29:56,461 --> 00:30:00,215 But I'm not gonna stay there and listen to his BS, 632 00:30:00,298 --> 00:30:02,425 because it's not true. 633 00:30:02,509 --> 00:30:06,346 -It's just like, dude, like-- -But why give anybody that privilege? 634 00:30:06,429 --> 00:30:09,891 You're right. I'm not saying that you're not right. 635 00:30:09,974 --> 00:30:12,602 -I should not let it affect me. -Showing emotions… 636 00:30:12,685 --> 00:30:15,355 -[Lydia] Yeah, but it's… -…for me, in my life, is a privilege. 637 00:30:15,438 --> 00:30:16,606 Believe me, Milton. 638 00:30:16,689 --> 00:30:19,859 I know how you handle these situations because I know you. 639 00:30:20,401 --> 00:30:22,821 And I am mesmerized 640 00:30:22,904 --> 00:30:26,115 by how you can handle things and don't give a fucking fuck. 641 00:30:26,199 --> 00:30:31,579 I'm just asking you to try to handle them a little bit more similar. 642 00:30:32,163 --> 00:30:35,500 I get that I should not let anybody control my emotions, 643 00:30:35,583 --> 00:30:37,919 but it was not because of him that I got upset. 644 00:30:38,002 --> 00:30:39,379 It was because of my own self. 645 00:30:39,462 --> 00:30:40,755 I should have known better. 646 00:30:40,839 --> 00:30:43,550 -["Praying" by Full Circle playing] -♪ Passion fades, uncertain stage ♪ 647 00:30:43,633 --> 00:30:45,552 ♪ Of your whole life… ♪ 648 00:30:45,635 --> 00:30:50,056 I came to this experience because I wanted to find love, 649 00:30:50,139 --> 00:30:52,350 because I wanted to find my husband. 650 00:30:52,433 --> 00:30:55,270 And you know what? I did! 651 00:30:55,353 --> 00:30:58,231 And at the end of the day, that's all that matters. 652 00:30:58,314 --> 00:30:59,315 Because I know 653 00:31:00,567 --> 00:31:02,777 that you love me and I love you. 654 00:31:06,114 --> 00:31:06,948 Right? 655 00:31:08,283 --> 00:31:09,367 100%. 656 00:31:11,911 --> 00:31:12,787 I love you. 657 00:31:12,871 --> 00:31:14,873 ["I Choose You" by Forest Blakk playing] 658 00:31:15,665 --> 00:31:21,129 ♪ My love is a sure thing That you'll never lose ♪ 659 00:31:22,589 --> 00:31:27,802 ♪ No matter what this life Puts us through… ♪ 660 00:31:27,886 --> 00:31:29,053 [Lydia] I love you. 661 00:31:29,137 --> 00:31:34,976 ♪ I choose you, I do, I do, I do… ♪ 662 00:31:35,059 --> 00:31:36,895 [Lydia] I cannot wait to marry you. 663 00:31:40,356 --> 00:31:41,858 Thank you for everything. 664 00:31:44,068 --> 00:31:45,361 Thank you for being 665 00:31:46,529 --> 00:31:47,488 there for me. 666 00:31:49,908 --> 00:31:52,493 -You think I'm the most mature guy still? -The what? 667 00:31:52,577 --> 00:31:55,121 -You think I'm the most mature guy? -100%. 668 00:31:55,204 --> 00:31:56,205 [Milton] Yeah, I knew it. 669 00:31:56,289 --> 00:31:58,791 ♪ Just fall in my arms ♪ 670 00:31:58,875 --> 00:32:04,672 ♪ My love is a sure thing That you'll never lose ♪ 671 00:32:05,548 --> 00:32:11,638 ♪ No matter what this life Puts us through ♪ 672 00:32:12,305 --> 00:32:18,728 ♪ I choose you, I do, I do, I do ♪ 673 00:32:18,811 --> 00:32:23,775 ♪ I choose you, I do, I do ♪ 674 00:32:23,858 --> 00:32:26,152 ♪ I do, I choose you ♪ 675 00:32:26,235 --> 00:32:30,573 Okay, kids, we're gonna start with a warm-up facing the front of the room. 676 00:32:30,657 --> 00:32:33,660 -[upbeat music playing] -We're gonna lift the hips for a pike up. 677 00:32:33,743 --> 00:32:35,745 So hips go up towards the ceiling. 678 00:32:36,329 --> 00:32:39,248 Press it out. When in doubt, press it out or pull out. 679 00:32:39,332 --> 00:32:41,209 But we're not doing that today. [laughs] 680 00:32:42,043 --> 00:32:43,419 Four counts up with the hips. 681 00:32:43,503 --> 00:32:46,506 ♪ 'Cause I made it to the top And I go boom, boom, boom… ♪ 682 00:32:46,589 --> 00:32:50,635 Hold at that lowest point. Do not freaking move! 683 00:32:51,511 --> 00:32:52,720 Yeah! 684 00:32:53,221 --> 00:32:54,097 Perfect. 685 00:32:54,180 --> 00:32:55,848 ♪ Uh-huh, I wanna hear… ♪ 686 00:32:55,932 --> 00:32:58,977 Squeeze up and in under the hip. Press it back. 687 00:32:59,060 --> 00:33:01,145 We're gonna finish with one more plank. 688 00:33:01,229 --> 00:33:03,648 One yellow spring in five, 689 00:33:03,731 --> 00:33:05,525 four, three, 690 00:33:05,608 --> 00:33:08,903 two and one. 691 00:33:08,987 --> 00:33:11,948 Whoo! 692 00:33:13,282 --> 00:33:15,493 -[sighs] -[student exclaims] 693 00:33:15,576 --> 00:33:18,246 I know! You know, that means we're doing it right. 694 00:33:18,329 --> 00:33:20,415 -Amazing work, guys. -[sighs] 695 00:33:23,418 --> 00:33:26,170 Me and Stacy didn't end too well last night. 696 00:33:27,588 --> 00:33:29,340 And we haven't really talked much today, 697 00:33:29,424 --> 00:33:34,637 so, you know, I'm still feeling a bit hurt about the situation. 698 00:33:35,221 --> 00:33:37,265 Also, not knowing where she's at. 699 00:33:37,348 --> 00:33:39,058 I didn't really feel like I would… 700 00:33:39,142 --> 00:33:41,644 We were, like, yelling at the top of our lungs. 701 00:33:41,728 --> 00:33:44,272 Or you know, I felt like it was just, like, a conversation 702 00:33:44,355 --> 00:33:46,149 that came out from left field. 703 00:33:47,025 --> 00:33:48,776 -Oh, hello. -[Izzy] Hello-hello. 704 00:33:49,944 --> 00:33:51,362 Let's talk about you and me? 705 00:33:51,863 --> 00:33:55,033 It was confusing, and it was just, like, very-- 706 00:33:55,116 --> 00:33:57,577 It hit the heart. Um, it sucked. 707 00:33:59,078 --> 00:34:02,081 I love her and I'm gonna keep fighting. Like, we'll figure out a solution. 708 00:34:02,165 --> 00:34:03,666 -[sighs] -How was your day? 709 00:34:04,375 --> 00:34:07,879 -[sighs] It was… a day. -Mmm-hmm. 710 00:34:07,962 --> 00:34:09,714 How do you feel? Where are you at? 711 00:34:11,007 --> 00:34:12,675 [Stacy] I'm just, like… 712 00:34:13,593 --> 00:34:14,427 cloudy. 713 00:34:15,470 --> 00:34:16,387 [Izzy] Mmm-hmm. 714 00:34:16,971 --> 00:34:21,601 Honestly, the whole scenario just caught me completely off guard. 715 00:34:21,684 --> 00:34:24,896 I think my reaction was because… 716 00:34:26,355 --> 00:34:27,857 [clears throat] 717 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,528 [clicks tongue] …it hurt really bad. 718 00:34:33,154 --> 00:34:34,030 Um… 719 00:34:36,240 --> 00:34:39,327 [sighs heavily] I feel like… 720 00:34:39,410 --> 00:34:41,037 I know I'm not perfect. 721 00:34:41,537 --> 00:34:44,082 Um, I'm still learning you. 722 00:34:45,083 --> 00:34:47,335 -Um… -[heavy music playing] 723 00:34:47,418 --> 00:34:48,961 I feel like I put… 724 00:34:51,339 --> 00:34:54,884 my best efforts in every day with you. 725 00:34:56,844 --> 00:34:57,678 Um… 726 00:35:01,808 --> 00:35:03,768 And I felt really unappreciated. 727 00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:07,522 [heavy music continues] 728 00:35:17,782 --> 00:35:18,866 I think that… 729 00:35:20,827 --> 00:35:24,539 the things that I do, I really want reciprocated. 730 00:35:25,706 --> 00:35:29,001 Like, I do take time out of the day to… 731 00:35:29,085 --> 00:35:30,503 [clears throat] 732 00:35:30,586 --> 00:35:33,381 …do something for you, have something set up for you, 733 00:35:33,464 --> 00:35:34,465 whatever it is. 734 00:35:34,549 --> 00:35:37,969 Like, I think about those things even when I'm tired, and… 735 00:35:40,346 --> 00:35:42,807 I'm like, "It would be nice if he did that for me, 736 00:35:42,890 --> 00:35:47,436 and I didn't have to worry about doing this, like, dinner or whatever." 737 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,815 And, like, trust me, I do like to cook, and I would do it for you-- 738 00:35:50,898 --> 00:35:53,818 [Stacy] I know, but, like, my thing is we don't have a lot of time, 739 00:35:53,901 --> 00:35:56,112 and so these are the things that I wanna make sure like, 740 00:35:56,195 --> 00:35:59,407 "Is he like that? Is he the guy that he tells me he is?" 741 00:35:59,490 --> 00:36:01,576 -[Izzy] Mmm-hmm. -I'm trying to figure that out. 742 00:36:01,659 --> 00:36:05,121 I understand. Like, I hear you out. I get what you want. I get what you need. 743 00:36:05,913 --> 00:36:09,667 But, like, the things that I have done is just, like, going unrecognized. 744 00:36:12,295 --> 00:36:15,339 Because you're just so focused on, like, what I'm not doing for you. 745 00:36:15,423 --> 00:36:18,217 So it's like, yeah, I know, I may be lacking on some parts… 746 00:36:20,011 --> 00:36:21,762 that I can easily fix. 747 00:36:23,139 --> 00:36:24,891 But then last night with all that, like, 748 00:36:24,974 --> 00:36:29,270 I just, like, I felt like all my work just meant nothing. 749 00:36:30,062 --> 00:36:32,356 -[Stacy] I mean, I don't feel that way. -Right. 750 00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:34,692 I'm not saying that that's not how you felt. 751 00:36:34,775 --> 00:36:37,069 I do appreciate the things that you do for me. 752 00:36:37,153 --> 00:36:39,906 -And I do recognize them. -[gentle music playing] 753 00:36:39,989 --> 00:36:43,492 I'm doing my best. Like, today, I was still upset and hurt. 754 00:36:45,578 --> 00:36:50,291 And I still managed to suck it up and let you know that I'm still here. 755 00:36:53,127 --> 00:36:54,128 So… 756 00:36:55,463 --> 00:36:56,589 I love you. 757 00:36:56,672 --> 00:36:58,799 I just need a little more of that from you. 758 00:37:07,099 --> 00:37:10,686 I love and chose you 759 00:37:12,146 --> 00:37:15,942 because of how you've been in the last ten-fifteen minutes. 760 00:37:16,025 --> 00:37:20,988 You're so calming, and reassuring, and… 761 00:37:22,615 --> 00:37:27,787 open that there's nothing that I couldn't say to you. 762 00:37:29,997 --> 00:37:32,500 Good and bad, but it's more the good. 763 00:37:32,583 --> 00:37:36,128 Like, I don't talk to guys how I talk to you. 764 00:37:36,629 --> 00:37:38,214 I'm not open like that. 765 00:37:38,714 --> 00:37:41,759 And I chose you, 'cause you bring that out in me. 766 00:37:43,094 --> 00:37:45,012 And I didn't even know that was there. 767 00:37:48,724 --> 00:37:50,476 I hate that I made you sad. 768 00:37:51,435 --> 00:37:54,021 -[Izzy] Hmm? -I hate that I made you sad. 769 00:37:54,105 --> 00:37:55,439 [Izzy] It's cool. It happens. 770 00:37:55,523 --> 00:37:57,149 -[Stacy] "It's cool." -[chuckles] 771 00:37:57,233 --> 00:38:01,404 I honestly didn't wanna get that way, but I just kind of lost it, so… 772 00:38:01,487 --> 00:38:02,405 But we're good. 773 00:38:04,657 --> 00:38:07,410 -[sighs] I guess I lurv you. -Yeah. 774 00:38:07,493 --> 00:38:11,831 -["Give Me Mercy" by Isaac Tyler playing] -♪ I may falter most of the time… ♪ 775 00:38:11,914 --> 00:38:13,291 -[sighs] -You okay? 776 00:38:13,374 --> 00:38:14,792 Yeah, I'm good. Are you? 777 00:38:15,876 --> 00:38:17,586 ♪ I proved you right… ♪ 778 00:38:17,670 --> 00:38:20,923 You know, I'm proud of myself to, like, be able to tell her, 779 00:38:21,007 --> 00:38:22,800 "I'm still here for you." 780 00:38:22,883 --> 00:38:29,557 I'm glad that I can actually voice my feelings and actually feel heard. 781 00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:31,559 Uh, I got you something. 782 00:38:32,059 --> 00:38:34,478 I'm just trying to give her everything that she's never had. 783 00:38:34,562 --> 00:38:36,939 I feel like we can overcome anything that comes our way. 784 00:38:37,023 --> 00:38:39,066 And right now, looking at the bigger picture, like… 785 00:38:40,401 --> 00:38:42,361 You know, it's only gonna get better from here. 786 00:38:42,445 --> 00:38:43,487 I had a scare today, 787 00:38:43,571 --> 00:38:46,741 but there's still no doubt in my mind that I would tell her yes at the altar. 788 00:38:48,075 --> 00:38:49,577 [Stacy] Oh, my God, Izzy. 789 00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:54,373 I got a coupon. 790 00:38:54,457 --> 00:38:57,168 "Izzy cooks you dinner while you sit and look sexy." 791 00:38:57,251 --> 00:38:59,628 -[Izzy laughs] Horrible writing. -What is… 792 00:39:01,380 --> 00:39:03,883 Oh, my God. Oh, there's writing on it. 793 00:39:03,966 --> 00:39:07,762 "This is a shitty situation, but just like in Mexico, 794 00:39:07,845 --> 00:39:11,349 I'm here to love you and fight for you." 795 00:39:11,432 --> 00:39:15,061 [chuckles] That's the most romantic thing anyone's ever gotten me! 796 00:39:15,144 --> 00:39:16,854 -There's more? -Yes. 797 00:39:17,438 --> 00:39:20,316 I can't believe you did this. Now I feel really bad. 798 00:39:20,816 --> 00:39:23,527 -Oh, my God, I love this photo. -[chuckles] 799 00:39:23,611 --> 00:39:27,198 It's very sweet. I was not expecting that at all. 800 00:39:27,281 --> 00:39:31,160 It reassures me that he does care. That he can fight. 801 00:39:31,243 --> 00:39:35,456 That he can stick it out, and then give even more on top of all of that. 802 00:39:36,165 --> 00:39:40,002 I love and respect the fact that he is the one that 803 00:39:41,462 --> 00:39:44,965 is the rock, and he wouldn't walk away or shy away from responsibility. 804 00:39:45,049 --> 00:39:47,593 He'd dive right in, and all of that is like… 805 00:39:48,636 --> 00:39:49,512 Thank you. 806 00:39:50,679 --> 00:39:51,514 I love you. 807 00:39:52,264 --> 00:39:53,599 -Thank you. -Yeah. 808 00:39:53,682 --> 00:39:58,521 ♪ Where are you? 'Cause I need you now ♪ 809 00:39:59,188 --> 00:40:01,732 ♪ And, oh, please have mercy ♪ 810 00:40:03,484 --> 00:40:05,486 ♪ Let me be found ♪ 811 00:40:08,030 --> 00:40:12,618 ♪ I may falter most of the time ♪ 812 00:40:13,494 --> 00:40:18,249 ♪ You said that's what happened I proved you right ♪ 813 00:40:18,749 --> 00:40:20,334 Milton is burning the house. 814 00:40:20,418 --> 00:40:23,170 ["Everything I Want" by Jonathan Dujoncquoy & Valery Pellegrini playing] 815 00:40:23,254 --> 00:40:26,215 It smells like burnt plastic. 816 00:40:27,883 --> 00:40:29,760 [Milton] Look how good this looks. 817 00:40:29,844 --> 00:40:31,595 [Lydia] That's not gonna look good. 818 00:40:33,139 --> 00:40:34,515 How that looks good? 819 00:40:36,225 --> 00:40:37,935 You didn't even take the shit out of… 820 00:40:38,018 --> 00:40:41,689 You're not supposed to eat the outer stuff of the sausage. 821 00:40:41,772 --> 00:40:43,774 ["Everything I Want" continues playing] 822 00:40:45,067 --> 00:40:46,861 -[Milton] You want some? -No! 823 00:40:47,445 --> 00:40:48,446 Thank you. 824 00:40:49,780 --> 00:40:50,781 Tastes good to me. 825 00:40:51,866 --> 00:40:52,867 Ugh. 826 00:40:53,951 --> 00:40:59,290 ♪ There's no mountain I can't climb For you to be mine ♪ 827 00:40:59,790 --> 00:41:03,335 [Izzy] I need you on your best behavior. No jumping in the face. 828 00:41:04,712 --> 00:41:06,130 No biting chins. 829 00:41:07,173 --> 00:41:09,175 Just be on your best behavior like you always are. 830 00:41:09,258 --> 00:41:11,469 ["Put 'Em Up" by The EverLove playing] 831 00:41:11,552 --> 00:41:12,803 ♪ So put 'em up ♪ 832 00:41:12,887 --> 00:41:15,806 ♪ Put 'em up Put 'em up, it's going down ♪ 833 00:41:16,515 --> 00:41:17,808 [knock on door] 834 00:41:23,731 --> 00:41:25,608 [knocking continues] 835 00:41:26,484 --> 00:41:29,695 -[Reyna] Anybody home? Oh, my God! -[laughing] 836 00:41:29,778 --> 00:41:33,073 -[Izzy] How are you? I miss you. -Oh, baby! I miss you, mijo. 837 00:41:33,157 --> 00:41:34,575 -[Izzy] I miss you too. -How are you? 838 00:41:34,658 --> 00:41:36,660 -[Izzy] I'm good. Tux, come on. -Oh, look at this! 839 00:41:36,744 --> 00:41:38,120 -[Izzy] This is Tux. -Oh, my gosh! 840 00:41:38,204 --> 00:41:39,538 -[Izzy] Come here. -[gasps] Oh! 841 00:41:39,622 --> 00:41:42,041 -[Reyna] What a cutie! -This is Stacy's dog, Tux. 842 00:41:42,124 --> 00:41:46,128 [Reyna] You're so beautiful. Thank you for the welcoming. Oh, my gosh. 843 00:41:46,212 --> 00:41:47,755 [Izzy] Stacy is meeting my mom today. 844 00:41:49,048 --> 00:41:50,633 Most important person in my life. 845 00:41:50,716 --> 00:41:52,843 He likes to chew. That's okay, it's an old purse. 846 00:41:52,927 --> 00:41:54,595 -Here, I'll take your purse. -Don't worry. 847 00:41:54,678 --> 00:41:57,932 -[exhales] -Well, what a nice place here! 848 00:41:58,015 --> 00:42:00,518 [Izzy] Growing up, my stepdad was around, 849 00:42:00,601 --> 00:42:04,146 but now they're not together, so it's just me and her. 850 00:42:04,230 --> 00:42:06,315 -[Reyna] Oh, my goodness. -It's been good. 851 00:42:06,398 --> 00:42:09,443 Usually, you're bringing home, "Hey, Mom, this is my new girlfriend." 852 00:42:09,527 --> 00:42:12,154 [chuckles] But it's like, "Hey, Mom. This is my new fiancé." 853 00:42:12,238 --> 00:42:17,409 I definitely want my mom, you know, to feel comfortable, get her approval. 854 00:42:17,952 --> 00:42:19,453 Um, but also thinking of Stacy, 855 00:42:19,537 --> 00:42:22,414 and I want, you know, Stacy to have a good relationship with my mom. 856 00:42:22,498 --> 00:42:25,751 Stacy should be coming home soon. Do you want anything to drink? 857 00:42:25,834 --> 00:42:29,838 No, but I'm fine. I'm just, uh… 858 00:42:29,922 --> 00:42:33,384 I'll be very, very honest with you, but it's just… 859 00:42:35,803 --> 00:42:37,555 -I'm in shock. [laughs] -Yeah. 860 00:42:37,638 --> 00:42:40,266 Since the first day I hold you in my arms, 861 00:42:40,349 --> 00:42:42,810 seeing you how you been growing up all of these years, 862 00:42:42,893 --> 00:42:47,606 and all of a sudden, you know, I get this news. 863 00:42:47,690 --> 00:42:49,233 I didn't expect it either. 864 00:42:49,316 --> 00:42:52,861 I'm speechless, but I'm excited at the same time too. 865 00:42:53,737 --> 00:42:58,325 I just wanna make sure… And this is me talking as your mother. 866 00:42:58,409 --> 00:43:01,745 I'm coming from a different generation, you know. 867 00:43:01,829 --> 00:43:04,206 [chuckles] The way we meet people wasn't this way. 868 00:43:04,290 --> 00:43:07,835 We learned from my mom and my dad, you know, your grandparents, 869 00:43:07,918 --> 00:43:09,878 that marriage is… 870 00:43:10,713 --> 00:43:14,008 "Hasta que la muerte nos separe." "Till death do us part," mijo. 871 00:43:14,091 --> 00:43:16,343 I didn't think I was gonna fall in love with anybody. 872 00:43:16,927 --> 00:43:20,514 With Stacy, she notices if I'm not okay. 873 00:43:20,598 --> 00:43:22,182 She knows when I'm happy. 874 00:43:23,183 --> 00:43:26,145 Um, if something's on my mind and I'm nervous. 875 00:43:26,812 --> 00:43:30,316 We had a little bit of a disagreement, and she just-- 876 00:43:30,399 --> 00:43:31,525 She knows me. 877 00:43:31,609 --> 00:43:34,903 I think the biggest thing with my relationships when I meet girls 878 00:43:35,654 --> 00:43:40,534 is when there's a problem that comes up, they always run away. 879 00:43:40,618 --> 00:43:43,203 She's had her meltdowns multiple times. 880 00:43:43,704 --> 00:43:44,913 I've had mine. 881 00:43:45,414 --> 00:43:47,416 What I'm grateful for is… 882 00:43:49,627 --> 00:43:50,794 we always fix it. 883 00:43:51,503 --> 00:43:55,007 -So, has she cooked for you? [laughing] -She did, yeah. I haven't cooked for her. 884 00:43:55,090 --> 00:43:56,258 [Reyna] Oh, you haven't? Wow. 885 00:43:56,342 --> 00:43:59,053 She's been on my ass about it. I have to cook her dinner. 886 00:43:59,136 --> 00:44:01,764 Um, so, I've been making it a thing. 887 00:44:01,847 --> 00:44:03,766 Every Monday I always buy her flowers. 888 00:44:03,849 --> 00:44:06,060 -[Reyna] Oh. That's good. -So I got her those last Monday. 889 00:44:06,143 --> 00:44:07,978 I got her these this Monday. 890 00:44:08,062 --> 00:44:09,438 Well, tell me about her. 891 00:44:09,521 --> 00:44:12,941 -So, Stacy is loud. -[laughing] Really? Oh! 892 00:44:13,025 --> 00:44:14,526 -[Izzy] Sassy. -Oh, wow. 893 00:44:14,610 --> 00:44:17,321 Um, you'll know when she walks into the room. 894 00:44:17,404 --> 00:44:20,824 There's never a dull moment. She's special. And she's not easy though. 895 00:44:21,909 --> 00:44:23,994 She's not easy at all. 896 00:44:24,078 --> 00:44:28,082 She's tough to deal with, but she's worth it. 897 00:44:28,666 --> 00:44:31,835 She's tender and sweet. 898 00:44:33,295 --> 00:44:34,421 And fragile. 899 00:44:35,756 --> 00:44:36,715 And… 900 00:44:38,175 --> 00:44:41,804 something about her just makes me want more every day. 901 00:44:44,223 --> 00:44:45,182 [Reyna] I know that 902 00:44:46,892 --> 00:44:48,769 you know what you want in life. 903 00:44:48,852 --> 00:44:54,400 I just wanna make sure that this decision that y'all are making 904 00:44:54,483 --> 00:44:55,901 that y'all are for sure. 905 00:44:55,984 --> 00:45:00,614 This is you getting united with someone for the rest of your life. 906 00:45:00,698 --> 00:45:01,532 [Izzy] Mmm-hmm. 907 00:45:01,615 --> 00:45:06,161 And for a guy, it's, you know, becoming the head of a household and all that, 908 00:45:06,245 --> 00:45:09,248 and you know that you will always have my support, no matter what. 909 00:45:10,207 --> 00:45:11,750 -[Izzy laughs] Hello. -[Stacy] Hello. 910 00:45:11,834 --> 00:45:14,253 Hi, Tux! Oh, my God, those aren't for you. 911 00:45:14,336 --> 00:45:15,671 Those are not for you. 912 00:45:15,754 --> 00:45:18,507 -[Izzy] Oh? -I brought y'all some flowers. 913 00:45:18,590 --> 00:45:21,343 -Look at you. -[Stacy] It's nice to meet you. Sorry. 914 00:45:21,427 --> 00:45:23,846 -Tux is a hot mess. -[Reyna] Oh, my God! 915 00:45:23,929 --> 00:45:25,639 -[Stacy laughing] -You're so cute. 916 00:45:25,723 --> 00:45:28,475 -[Stacy] Thank you! So are you! -Let me see you. Look at you. 917 00:45:28,559 --> 00:45:30,310 Are you ready to catch up? Say all the things? 918 00:45:30,394 --> 00:45:32,563 Tux, stop. He wants to be a part of everything. 919 00:45:32,646 --> 00:45:35,357 -Oh, yes. I already got to meet him. -I'm so sorry. 920 00:45:35,441 --> 00:45:37,151 Sweetheart, he's been all over us. 921 00:45:37,234 --> 00:45:39,278 [Stacy] Are you the official greeter? Oh, my God. 922 00:45:39,361 --> 00:45:41,655 -[Izzy] You wanna come sit over here? -[Stacy] Hey, did you… 923 00:45:42,156 --> 00:45:43,949 -Did you see this? [laughing] -Yes, yes. 924 00:45:44,032 --> 00:45:46,201 -I love it. I love it. -First family photo. 925 00:45:46,285 --> 00:45:49,913 I'm like, we got so lucky on this to have most of us looking at the camera. 926 00:45:49,997 --> 00:45:51,039 -[laughing] -[Izzy] I know. 927 00:45:51,123 --> 00:45:51,957 [Stacy] Anyhoo. 928 00:45:52,583 --> 00:45:54,460 [sighs] What did I miss? 929 00:45:56,086 --> 00:45:58,839 It was her first time seeing me since I've gotten engaged. 930 00:45:58,922 --> 00:46:00,632 -Oh, my God. -I know. [laughs] 931 00:46:00,716 --> 00:46:01,759 Did you get overwhelmed? 932 00:46:02,676 --> 00:46:05,012 [Reyna sighs] I got so many emotions, sweetheart. 933 00:46:05,095 --> 00:46:07,222 -[Stacy] Yeah. -[Reyna] Very, um… 934 00:46:07,973 --> 00:46:08,974 You know… 935 00:46:10,058 --> 00:46:11,602 I'm still in shock. 936 00:46:12,269 --> 00:46:15,272 -I get that. -This is just… [sighs] 937 00:46:15,773 --> 00:46:18,484 [Reyna] This is such a very short amount of time. 938 00:46:18,567 --> 00:46:21,987 [Stacy] I understand the way of marriage isn't like a… 939 00:46:22,488 --> 00:46:24,323 "This is fun! Let's do it." 940 00:46:24,406 --> 00:46:27,910 In my personal opinion, sweetheart, this is not a game. 941 00:46:28,452 --> 00:46:31,955 I don't wanna sound like an overprotective mother or anything like that, 942 00:46:32,039 --> 00:46:34,958 but deep inside, I'm thinking, 943 00:46:36,168 --> 00:46:39,087 "Is this really, you know, the person for my son?" 944 00:46:44,843 --> 00:46:49,264 It's important for me to know that whoever he's gonna end up being with 945 00:46:49,348 --> 00:46:52,601 is someone that will be there for him. 946 00:46:52,684 --> 00:46:57,314 You know? Someone that will be supportive, that will understand him. 947 00:46:57,397 --> 00:46:58,899 Honestly, 948 00:47:00,317 --> 00:47:02,903 it would be really hard for me to say like, 949 00:47:02,986 --> 00:47:07,074 "I am the woman for him" and sell you on it. 950 00:47:07,157 --> 00:47:09,910 But I want you to know, like, 951 00:47:10,661 --> 00:47:13,705 how I feel about him is definitely genuine. 952 00:47:13,789 --> 00:47:19,461 I know that I'm in love with him, and I know that he has feelings for me 953 00:47:19,545 --> 00:47:23,841 that are very real, and it caught me totally off guard. 954 00:47:24,341 --> 00:47:25,384 He, uh, 955 00:47:26,552 --> 00:47:30,639 brought out this emotional, 956 00:47:30,722 --> 00:47:35,727 vulnerable side of me that allowed me to connect. 957 00:47:36,687 --> 00:47:39,731 Like, deep connection. 958 00:47:40,315 --> 00:47:45,779 It's a bond that I cannot describe. 959 00:47:46,822 --> 00:47:49,116 Oh, man, Stacy. [sighs] 960 00:47:49,700 --> 00:47:51,451 I… 961 00:47:52,286 --> 00:47:53,328 Wow. 962 00:47:54,413 --> 00:47:56,999 It's crazy how she says, "You can't explain it." 963 00:47:57,082 --> 00:47:59,042 [pensive music playing] 964 00:47:59,126 --> 00:48:00,127 [Izzy] Oh, God. 965 00:48:00,794 --> 00:48:03,881 'Cause I'm not easy, you know. 966 00:48:04,715 --> 00:48:06,758 And she loves me for it. 967 00:48:07,718 --> 00:48:09,803 Like, she loves me unconditionally. 968 00:48:09,887 --> 00:48:14,099 She loves me when I'm her rock, and she loves me when I'm a mess. 969 00:48:14,182 --> 00:48:17,811 All I ever want to do is just give her my best 970 00:48:19,479 --> 00:48:20,480 day in and day out. 971 00:48:20,564 --> 00:48:23,150 Stacy makes me wanna be a better man. 972 00:48:23,233 --> 00:48:26,111 When I say it's real, like, it's real. 973 00:48:26,194 --> 00:48:30,198 It's put me in a position where I'm willing to take a risk, 974 00:48:30,282 --> 00:48:33,243 and I'm willing to be vulnerable 975 00:48:33,327 --> 00:48:35,370 because he was doing it. 976 00:48:35,954 --> 00:48:37,831 Being vulnerable isn't necessarily 977 00:48:37,915 --> 00:48:40,417 knowing that there's someone there to catch you. 978 00:48:40,500 --> 00:48:44,004 And with him, I happily jumped off a cliff, 979 00:48:44,087 --> 00:48:46,965 not knowing if I had a parachute, 'cause it was worth it. 980 00:48:48,926 --> 00:48:50,802 And I've never done that. 981 00:48:52,930 --> 00:48:54,932 [both laughing softly] 982 00:48:55,974 --> 00:48:57,935 [crying] Yeah, I've never done that. 983 00:48:58,977 --> 00:49:00,395 And you trusted him? 984 00:49:00,479 --> 00:49:01,355 Yeah. 985 00:49:03,273 --> 00:49:04,524 Thank you for telling me that. 986 00:49:04,608 --> 00:49:07,444 And I just want you to know, yes, 987 00:49:08,445 --> 00:49:10,530 he's my baby. He's this. He's that. 988 00:49:10,614 --> 00:49:12,115 But I also think of you. 989 00:49:12,199 --> 00:49:14,910 Because this is you two together. 990 00:49:16,578 --> 00:49:20,123 [crying] I don't want you to get hurt. I don't want him to get hurt. 991 00:49:20,207 --> 00:49:21,208 [Stacy] Mmm-hmm. 992 00:49:22,084 --> 00:49:25,253 All I want is just for y'all to be happy. 993 00:49:25,337 --> 00:49:28,090 -And I know that it's not gonna be easy. -[Stacy] Yeah. 994 00:49:28,173 --> 00:49:30,592 [Reyna] I wanna make sure that my son does his part. 995 00:49:30,676 --> 00:49:33,178 -[Stacy] Mmm-hmm. -You know, and takes care of you. 996 00:49:34,179 --> 00:49:36,890 Because, you know, it's just… a family. 997 00:49:36,974 --> 00:49:39,768 Yeah. Thank you so much for saying that. 998 00:49:39,851 --> 00:49:42,938 Of course, because you're gonna be my son's wife…. 999 00:49:43,021 --> 00:49:44,022 [Stacy] Mmm. 1000 00:49:44,815 --> 00:49:47,150 -Whoo! -[Reyna] How can I… How can I… 1001 00:49:47,234 --> 00:49:50,654 -[both laughing] -I know. It's wild. 1002 00:49:50,737 --> 00:49:51,571 So… 1003 00:49:53,198 --> 00:49:54,116 this is real? 1004 00:49:54,616 --> 00:49:56,785 -Mmm-hmm. Yeah. -Y'all are in it? 1005 00:49:57,661 --> 00:49:59,955 I love this girl. No doubt about it. 1006 00:50:00,664 --> 00:50:02,249 I know that y'all will do good. 1007 00:50:02,332 --> 00:50:04,167 [Stacy laughs] Thank you. 1008 00:50:05,961 --> 00:50:08,880 -Gimme a hug. [laughing] -[Stacy] Hug your mom! 1009 00:50:08,964 --> 00:50:11,508 -[Izzy] I love you. -[Reyna laughing] 1010 00:50:11,591 --> 00:50:13,885 [Stacy laughs] Oh, my God! 1011 00:50:13,969 --> 00:50:17,848 Stacy is very sincere. She's very, uh, open, 1012 00:50:17,931 --> 00:50:20,434 and I can see that she has feelings for my son. 1013 00:50:20,517 --> 00:50:23,603 He's really in love with her. 1014 00:50:24,187 --> 00:50:25,439 I'm very proud of him. 1015 00:50:25,522 --> 00:50:27,774 I want the best for my baby boy, 1016 00:50:27,858 --> 00:50:32,946 and I think she will be the one that will love him no matter what. 1017 00:50:33,655 --> 00:50:36,700 You know? And be there with him 1018 00:50:37,451 --> 00:50:38,869 in good and bad times. 1019 00:50:39,745 --> 00:50:41,788 To… love. 1020 00:50:42,581 --> 00:50:45,292 It's a beautiful thing when it's right. Cheers. Cheers. 1021 00:50:46,877 --> 00:50:48,545 And cheers to probably getting a new couch. 1022 00:50:48,628 --> 00:50:50,589 [uplifting music playing] 1023 00:50:55,427 --> 00:50:57,554 [Milton] I hate bringing people around my parents. 1024 00:50:57,637 --> 00:50:59,473 Uh, honestly. Even friends. 1025 00:50:59,556 --> 00:51:02,809 My parents were, like, super, like, strict, like, growing up. 1026 00:51:02,893 --> 00:51:04,978 It's either sink or swim in the household. 1027 00:51:05,562 --> 00:51:06,688 -What? -[chuckles] 1028 00:51:06,772 --> 00:51:09,691 ["Another Love Song" by Nicolas Dagnall & Matthew Clark playing] 1029 00:51:09,775 --> 00:51:11,234 ♪ Gimme your love in the sunshine ♪ 1030 00:51:11,318 --> 00:51:15,405 ♪ And I'll give you The rest of me, yeah! ♪ 1031 00:51:16,740 --> 00:51:17,574 Hi! 1032 00:51:18,241 --> 00:51:19,117 Hello. 1033 00:51:19,201 --> 00:51:21,328 -[Lydia] Hi, how are you? -[Jessica] Nice to meet you. 1034 00:51:21,411 --> 00:51:23,705 [Lydia laughs] I am a hugger. 1035 00:51:23,789 --> 00:51:24,831 -Hey, bro! -Hey, Jess. 1036 00:51:25,665 --> 00:51:27,125 -[Milton] What's up? -Hey. 1037 00:51:27,793 --> 00:51:28,919 [woman] Hi, sweetie. 1038 00:51:29,503 --> 00:51:30,921 -[Milton] Hey, Mom. -[woman] Hi. Oh. 1039 00:51:31,004 --> 00:51:32,464 [kisses] 1040 00:51:32,547 --> 00:51:34,216 -[exclaims] -[Milton] This is Lydia. 1041 00:51:34,299 --> 00:51:35,759 -[Lydia] Nice to meet you. -Hi, Lydia! 1042 00:51:35,842 --> 00:51:38,303 -[Lydia] You're gorgeous. -So are you. 1043 00:51:38,887 --> 00:51:41,556 -So nice to meet you. Finally. -[Rita] It's nice meeting you as well. 1044 00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:42,933 I hear an accent. 1045 00:51:43,433 --> 00:51:45,852 -[Lydia] Oh, yes. I am Puerto Rican. -Okay. 1046 00:51:45,936 --> 00:51:47,104 Born and raised. 1047 00:51:47,187 --> 00:51:49,106 -Hi! Nice to meet you. -This is my husband, James. 1048 00:51:49,189 --> 00:51:50,774 -[James] How you doing? -Nice to meet you. 1049 00:51:50,857 --> 00:51:53,610 -[James] I'm gonna hug you. -I'm a hugger, too, so don't mind that. 1050 00:51:53,693 --> 00:51:56,655 Okay. Maybe we should just sit down for a little bit. 1051 00:51:56,738 --> 00:51:59,825 -[Lydia] He already sat on the counter. -[Jessica] You want a drink? 1052 00:51:59,908 --> 00:52:02,953 I've tried to, "There's plenty of chairs," but he loves the counter. 1053 00:52:03,036 --> 00:52:05,080 [Rita] He does. Well, he's tall and… 1054 00:52:05,163 --> 00:52:06,832 [Milton] I prefer to sit on the counters. 1055 00:52:06,915 --> 00:52:08,959 [Rita] As you can see where he gets his height from. 1056 00:52:09,042 --> 00:52:12,003 -[Lydia] Oh, my God, who is this princess? -[Jessica] This is Colby. 1057 00:52:12,087 --> 00:52:14,631 -[Milton] 'Sup, Langston? -[Jessica] That's my husband, Langston. 1058 00:52:14,714 --> 00:52:15,924 -[Lydia] Hi. -'Sup, dawg? 1059 00:52:16,675 --> 00:52:17,884 [Lydia laughs] 1060 00:52:17,968 --> 00:52:19,427 Hi, nice to meet you. 1061 00:52:20,178 --> 00:52:21,763 Are you familiar with, um… 1062 00:52:21,847 --> 00:52:23,682 Do you call him Milton or you call him James? 1063 00:52:23,765 --> 00:52:26,393 [Lydia] I call him Milton because he introduced himself as Milton. 1064 00:52:26,476 --> 00:52:29,896 [Rita] Yeah. All throughout school, people referred to him as Milton, 1065 00:52:29,980 --> 00:52:32,023 but my husband is James. He's James. 1066 00:52:32,107 --> 00:52:33,900 Little James is getting married. 1067 00:52:33,984 --> 00:52:38,029 [Rita] We call him Little James because Big James, Little James. 1068 00:52:39,281 --> 00:52:40,991 So, where are you from exactly? 1069 00:52:41,074 --> 00:52:43,326 [Lydia] So, I am from Mayaguez, Puerto Rico. 1070 00:52:43,827 --> 00:52:45,662 Had my bachelor's degree over there. 1071 00:52:45,745 --> 00:52:47,789 I did my undergrad in geology 1072 00:52:47,873 --> 00:52:50,458 with master's degree in environmental management as well. 1073 00:52:50,542 --> 00:52:54,963 After that I started my career as a geologist back in 2019. 1074 00:52:55,046 --> 00:52:58,884 Well, good for you. I'm always eager to see women in the STEM community. 1075 00:52:58,967 --> 00:53:02,804 -[Lyda] Yes, thank you. I appreciate that. -And that's what you are, so. 1076 00:53:02,888 --> 00:53:05,640 -What's your last name again? -Velez Gonzales. 1077 00:53:05,724 --> 00:53:06,683 Velez Gonzales, okay. 1078 00:53:06,766 --> 00:53:10,645 She will Google, FBI-check you in a heartbeat. 1079 00:53:10,729 --> 00:53:11,563 Go for it. 1080 00:53:11,646 --> 00:53:14,566 And she will know your credit score before you leave this house. 1081 00:53:14,649 --> 00:53:16,151 -Like, she's… -[Lydia laughing] 1082 00:53:16,234 --> 00:53:17,694 It's what I do. 1083 00:53:17,777 --> 00:53:20,447 -[Milton] Can we eat first? -You can eat. There's plates. 1084 00:53:20,530 --> 00:53:22,115 I'm just like, can we just eat? 1085 00:53:22,199 --> 00:53:24,326 I just wanna… I wanna get the important questions. 1086 00:53:24,409 --> 00:53:27,871 What made y'all decide this is what y'all wanted to do? 1087 00:53:27,954 --> 00:53:29,247 For me… 1088 00:53:29,331 --> 00:53:31,458 For me, particularly for me, 1089 00:53:31,541 --> 00:53:34,544 I have had unsuccessful dating experiences. 1090 00:53:34,628 --> 00:53:36,963 -[James] Mmm-hmm. -I don't see them as failed relationship. 1091 00:53:37,047 --> 00:53:41,092 I see them as lessons to be learned and applied to my real relationship. 1092 00:53:41,176 --> 00:53:42,219 I guess this is it. 1093 00:53:43,011 --> 00:53:49,017 Um, he's definitely everything I've asked for in a guy and a little bit more. 1094 00:53:49,100 --> 00:53:51,937 -And he has given his-- -[Jessica] You ever dated anyone his age? 1095 00:53:52,020 --> 00:53:53,438 -What? -Have you ever dated-- 1096 00:53:53,521 --> 00:53:56,024 No, I've never dated someone who's younger than me. 1097 00:53:56,107 --> 00:53:57,275 [Rita] I was gonna ask that. 1098 00:53:57,359 --> 00:54:00,904 Like, just curious on what someone 30 1099 00:54:00,987 --> 00:54:03,573 would be interested in a 24-year-old? 1100 00:54:04,699 --> 00:54:08,328 Where I was when I was 24, where I had the right mindset, 1101 00:54:08,411 --> 00:54:11,623 do I really think I was mature enough for a marriage? Probably not. 1102 00:54:11,706 --> 00:54:14,960 But I've dated guys who were 38, 34, 1103 00:54:15,043 --> 00:54:19,923 and they haven't been able to express their wants and needs in a mature way, 1104 00:54:20,632 --> 00:54:22,592 and your son did just that. 1105 00:54:22,676 --> 00:54:24,678 I love him how he is. 1106 00:54:24,761 --> 00:54:26,638 For his soul, for his personality, 1107 00:54:26,721 --> 00:54:29,641 for his characteristics, for his imperfections. 1108 00:54:29,724 --> 00:54:32,686 His imperfections are perfect for me, and that's all that matters. 1109 00:54:32,769 --> 00:54:34,729 What don't you like about Milton? 1110 00:54:35,647 --> 00:54:37,565 What do I do not like about him? 1111 00:54:37,649 --> 00:54:39,818 -[Rita] Mmm-hmm. -[Jessica] Should be a laundry list. 1112 00:54:39,901 --> 00:54:43,280 This morning, he was like… he leaves everything everywhere. 1113 00:54:43,363 --> 00:54:46,032 -And it's like, there's a place-- -What'd I leave everywhere? 1114 00:54:46,116 --> 00:54:47,701 So, you're living together now? 1115 00:54:47,784 --> 00:54:49,661 Yes. You didn't tell them that? 1116 00:54:49,744 --> 00:54:51,997 -[Rita] No. -[Milton] I might not have. 1117 00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:54,082 [Lydia] So, yeah, he finished his food 1118 00:54:55,041 --> 00:54:57,127 and left the plate on the freaking couch. 1119 00:54:57,210 --> 00:54:59,337 -[Milton] I was also running to work. -[Rita] The couch? 1120 00:54:59,421 --> 00:55:01,840 -On the couch. He was probably… -[Milton] I was running late. 1121 00:55:01,923 --> 00:55:04,551 -I was running late for work. -[Lydia] You know what he said after? 1122 00:55:04,634 --> 00:55:06,553 I'm like, "You left the plate on the couch." 1123 00:55:06,636 --> 00:55:08,596 He's like, "I knew you were gonna pick it up." 1124 00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:11,558 Really? So, is that a deal-breaker? 1125 00:55:11,641 --> 00:55:14,102 [Jessica] Wow, you went straight to "a deal-breaker." 1126 00:55:14,185 --> 00:55:15,729 [Rita] How do you feel about that? 1127 00:55:15,812 --> 00:55:19,482 I think it's, like, the laziness sometimes. Like, it does bother me. 1128 00:55:19,566 --> 00:55:21,943 -But he can learn. He's still young. -[Lydia] Yes! 1129 00:55:22,027 --> 00:55:26,031 That's not gonna change. My mom was like, "Oh, he's young. Things are gonna change." 1130 00:55:26,114 --> 00:55:27,282 No, that's not gonna change. 1131 00:55:27,365 --> 00:55:29,993 In other words, are you ready for that responsibility? 1132 00:55:30,076 --> 00:55:32,329 I mean, yeah. 1133 00:55:32,412 --> 00:55:34,122 "Yeah." What does that mean? 1134 00:55:34,205 --> 00:55:38,626 This is such a major step, you figure you wanna make sure this is the one. 1135 00:55:38,710 --> 00:55:41,880 He did say to me a couple times, more than once, 1136 00:55:42,380 --> 00:55:45,383 that he felt when he was talking to me, I was his best friend. 1137 00:55:45,467 --> 00:55:47,385 -[Milton] Yeah, for sure. -That helps a lot. 1138 00:55:47,469 --> 00:55:49,929 [Rita] I tell my husband all the time he's my best friend, 1139 00:55:50,013 --> 00:55:51,389 so that's very important. 1140 00:55:51,473 --> 00:55:55,852 Do you have any reservations at all of getting married? 1141 00:55:55,935 --> 00:55:59,606 No, I'm comfortable with him. He makes me feel comfortable. He… 1142 00:56:00,273 --> 00:56:02,317 There's never a boring moment between us. 1143 00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:04,569 She has such a mature answer for everything. 1144 00:56:04,652 --> 00:56:05,487 [Rita] Yes. 1145 00:56:05,570 --> 00:56:08,198 -[Milton] Why so many questions? -[Jessica] What are you doing? 1146 00:56:08,907 --> 00:56:11,743 Can you, uh, stop the interrogation, please? 1147 00:56:11,826 --> 00:56:13,745 I'm not-- It was one question! 1148 00:56:13,828 --> 00:56:16,790 -[Milton] It's too many questions. -What are you doing? What are you doing? 1149 00:56:16,873 --> 00:56:18,416 Well, I'm engaged. 1150 00:56:18,500 --> 00:56:20,710 I'm getting married in, like, two weeks. 1151 00:56:21,294 --> 00:56:23,713 -Do you know the date of the wedding? -31st. 1152 00:56:23,797 --> 00:56:25,673 -[Jessica] Why? -[Langston] 31st. 1153 00:56:25,757 --> 00:56:28,385 -What do you mean, why? -Why are you getting married? 1154 00:56:28,468 --> 00:56:31,179 -[Lydia] No, it's May 31st. -[Milton] Super uncomfortable questions. 1155 00:56:31,262 --> 00:56:33,348 Chill out, dude. Chill. [chuckles] 1156 00:56:33,431 --> 00:56:35,266 [pensive music playing] 1157 00:56:38,019 --> 00:56:39,437 -[Jessica] Okay. -[Rita] Yes. 1158 00:56:40,730 --> 00:56:42,399 [Lydia] What was his response? Sorry. 1159 00:56:42,482 --> 00:56:44,192 -I asked her to chill. -He said he loves you. 1160 00:56:45,693 --> 00:56:47,570 Why are you getting married? 1161 00:56:47,654 --> 00:56:50,281 I didn't even know you were thinking about marriage. 1162 00:56:50,365 --> 00:56:52,409 -I mean-- -So this is kind of exciting. 1163 00:56:52,492 --> 00:56:55,245 [Langston] Talking to him before, we've been out a couple of times, 1164 00:56:55,328 --> 00:56:58,498 and he's definitely mentioned he wants to settle down. 1165 00:56:58,581 --> 00:57:01,584 [Milton] I was not, like, actively, like, pursuing, like, a wife. 1166 00:57:01,668 --> 00:57:03,878 But, I mean, I was definitely interested. 1167 00:57:03,962 --> 00:57:06,339 Well, how did it just… [snaps] …pop into your noggin? 1168 00:57:06,423 --> 00:57:09,008 Say, "Now's the time, today is the day"? 1169 00:57:09,092 --> 00:57:10,635 'Cause it's phony. 1170 00:57:10,718 --> 00:57:12,470 [tense music playing] 1171 00:57:12,554 --> 00:57:14,305 [James] No, it's not. 1172 00:57:14,389 --> 00:57:15,223 It's phony. 1173 00:57:18,101 --> 00:57:21,938 I just wanna make sure that this is what you guys want. 1174 00:57:23,523 --> 00:57:25,525 [tense music continues] 1175 00:57:27,986 --> 00:57:30,071 [Rita] Think it'll be okay if I talk to Lydia 1176 00:57:30,155 --> 00:57:32,740 about how she feels about this situation? 1177 00:57:32,824 --> 00:57:34,784 -Um, yeah. -[Rita] Okay. 1178 00:57:34,868 --> 00:57:36,995 Well, let's let us talk to her for a little bit. 1179 00:57:37,078 --> 00:57:37,912 [Milton] All right. 1180 00:57:37,996 --> 00:57:39,205 [sighs] 1181 00:57:39,289 --> 00:57:41,499 [Rita] I always say marriage is like a business. 1182 00:57:41,583 --> 00:57:45,962 As with any business deal, you should look and see 1183 00:57:46,045 --> 00:57:49,299 what are the pros and cons, any obstacles. 1184 00:57:49,382 --> 00:57:52,010 I mean, that's just like doing a SWOT analysis. 1185 00:57:52,093 --> 00:57:57,599 So, just looking at her résumé, she's definitely qualified to be his wife. 1186 00:57:57,682 --> 00:58:00,226 However, sometimes, when you look at a résumé, 1187 00:58:00,310 --> 00:58:04,606 and then a person actually shows up, and they start performing, 1188 00:58:04,689 --> 00:58:07,025 that's when you see whether or not they're truly qualified. 1189 00:58:07,984 --> 00:58:11,154 -So… you wanna do this? -[Lydia laughs nervously] 1190 00:58:11,696 --> 00:58:13,156 Yes, I wanna do this. 1191 00:58:13,239 --> 00:58:18,411 The other day, I was talking to him. I was like, "You're not my first love, 1192 00:58:18,495 --> 00:58:20,622 but you are definitely a lot of firsts." 1193 00:58:21,289 --> 00:58:25,835 First guy to treat me so damn good. 1194 00:58:25,919 --> 00:58:28,213 He treats me like a queen, 1195 00:58:28,296 --> 00:58:30,632 and I've never had that. 1196 00:58:30,715 --> 00:58:34,177 I never had someone who hugs me, and holds me tight, 1197 00:58:34,260 --> 00:58:36,596 and says, "I never wanna let you go." 1198 00:58:36,679 --> 00:58:39,516 He texts me when he's doing an overnight shift, 1199 00:58:39,599 --> 00:58:41,851 "I love you. I cannot wait to marry you." 1200 00:58:41,935 --> 00:58:45,396 And that's the guy that I'm crazy for, you know? 1201 00:58:46,564 --> 00:58:50,693 So, I mean, as Jessica said before, some of it seems-- 1202 00:58:50,777 --> 00:58:53,863 You know, you're scripted. You know a lot of the answers. 1203 00:58:53,947 --> 00:58:55,615 [tense music playing] 1204 00:58:57,700 --> 00:59:00,954 This what you see right now, this is me. I'm really loving. 1205 00:59:01,037 --> 00:59:04,541 I am caring. I am loud. 1206 00:59:05,041 --> 00:59:06,251 I am funny. 1207 00:59:06,334 --> 00:59:08,878 And I am really comfortable with him. 1208 00:59:09,754 --> 00:59:11,798 And I've never had that before. 1209 00:59:11,881 --> 00:59:17,428 James talked to us before about pursuing a higher education, getting his PhD. 1210 00:59:17,512 --> 00:59:19,013 How would you feel about that? 1211 00:59:19,806 --> 00:59:23,476 [Lydia] For me, I think education is really important. 1212 00:59:23,560 --> 00:59:27,564 And in terms of him getting his PhD, like, I'm gonna support him. 1213 00:59:27,647 --> 00:59:29,107 He has a great career. 1214 00:59:29,190 --> 00:59:31,067 -He still has ambition. -[Rita] Mmm-hmm. 1215 00:59:31,150 --> 00:59:33,069 [Lydia] Um, I see it in him. 1216 00:59:33,152 --> 00:59:35,780 He's a great guy, and he is really smart. 1217 00:59:36,406 --> 00:59:38,199 So what are your ambitions? 1218 00:59:38,283 --> 00:59:39,701 I wanna get my dream job… [chuckles] 1219 00:59:39,784 --> 00:59:42,328 …working as an environmental protection specialist. 1220 00:59:42,829 --> 00:59:46,791 What do you wanna know about James? What do you wanna know about his family? 1221 00:59:46,874 --> 00:59:50,253 When we start a family, how important or crucial is it 1222 00:59:50,336 --> 00:59:55,967 that the firstborn child is named James Milton Johnson V? 1223 00:59:57,427 --> 00:59:58,970 -Fourth. -No, the fifth. 1224 00:59:59,053 --> 01:00:01,264 -Fifth? The fifth? -James is the fourth. You forgot. 1225 01:00:01,347 --> 01:00:04,183 -Oh, right. You're right. -I was like, "Wait, what?" That confused… 1226 01:00:04,267 --> 01:00:07,395 'Cause I've been giving him a hard time when he forgets some of that stuff. 1227 01:00:07,478 --> 01:00:09,355 You're right. It would be the fifth. 1228 01:00:09,439 --> 01:00:11,899 -As a mom, we watch our children. -[Lydia] Mmm-hmm. 1229 01:00:11,983 --> 01:00:13,568 And we watch them evolve. 1230 01:00:13,651 --> 01:00:16,112 And I used to always tell him, 1231 01:00:16,946 --> 01:00:20,241 "You're too tall to be leaning on me all the time." 1232 01:00:20,325 --> 01:00:23,828 "You're gonna be someone's husband, someone's father, one day." 1233 01:00:23,911 --> 01:00:27,290 "I need you to get to that point and start accepting," you know. 1234 01:00:27,373 --> 01:00:30,668 And, you know, it's not like, "Don't be the baby all the time." 1235 01:00:30,752 --> 01:00:34,255 And so, I do see him starting to have-- 1236 01:00:34,339 --> 01:00:37,717 You know, even the way he responds back to me and stuff like that. 1237 01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:39,093 Even the way he sits, you know. 1238 01:00:39,177 --> 01:00:42,180 He sits up straight now and crosses his leg and you know. 1239 01:00:42,263 --> 01:00:46,768 So, those are things that maybe some other family members don't see, 1240 01:00:46,851 --> 01:00:48,811 but I see it as a mother. 1241 01:00:48,895 --> 01:00:52,940 -[laughs] Jessica didn't like-- -Yeah, but she's, you know, sister. 1242 01:00:53,024 --> 01:00:55,068 [pensive music playing] 1243 01:00:56,694 --> 01:01:01,491 Jessica, what is your biggest concern in terms of our relationship? 1244 01:01:02,158 --> 01:01:04,577 I don't know. Marriage is so big. 1245 01:01:04,661 --> 01:01:05,662 It is big. 1246 01:01:05,745 --> 01:01:07,330 Marriage is for life. 1247 01:01:07,997 --> 01:01:10,333 I've been through so much shit in life. 1248 01:01:10,416 --> 01:01:13,086 I know what I can handle, what I cannot. 1249 01:01:13,169 --> 01:01:17,382 And a year ago, I could have told you, like, probably I was not ready for this. 1250 01:01:18,508 --> 01:01:20,009 What makes you ready now? 1251 01:01:21,177 --> 01:01:26,265 I think that I am emotionally able and matured. 1252 01:01:26,349 --> 01:01:27,308 Like, I'm 30. 1253 01:01:27,392 --> 01:01:30,228 -[chuckles] I'm not here to fool around. -[Rita] Yeah, to play games. 1254 01:01:30,311 --> 01:01:34,107 Play around, date around. It is exhausting. 1255 01:01:34,190 --> 01:01:37,068 You get to a point where you're like, "I'm just gonna work on myself." 1256 01:01:37,151 --> 01:01:40,029 And then this… this happened, you know. 1257 01:01:40,113 --> 01:01:42,240 And I think it was great 'cause it worked perfectly. 1258 01:01:42,323 --> 01:01:44,200 Like, I worked on myself, 1259 01:01:44,283 --> 01:01:45,868 and this is my reward. 1260 01:01:45,952 --> 01:01:47,995 [conflicted music playing] 1261 01:01:49,706 --> 01:01:53,376 I just don't know. I don't hear it in him. 1262 01:01:54,877 --> 01:01:57,046 I don't know. I don't know if I see it just yet. 1263 01:01:57,130 --> 01:02:00,133 I know James. I know James when he's excited. 1264 01:02:00,216 --> 01:02:02,468 I know when he's happy. I know when he's sad. 1265 01:02:02,552 --> 01:02:05,763 ♪ I heard you whisper ♪ 1266 01:02:06,389 --> 01:02:08,933 ♪ You'll never make it through… ♪ 1267 01:02:09,016 --> 01:02:14,856 I'm still waiting for James to give me that surety. 1268 01:02:16,774 --> 01:02:17,650 I don't know. 1269 01:02:17,734 --> 01:02:19,902 ♪ Little did you know ♪ 1270 01:02:19,986 --> 01:02:23,614 ♪ That your doubt is my fuel ♪ 1271 01:02:25,199 --> 01:02:27,535 ♪ I'm a bullet train ♪ 1272 01:02:31,414 --> 01:02:33,291 ♪ A tidal wave ♪ 1273 01:02:36,377 --> 01:02:40,298 ♪ No, you can't slow me down ♪ 1274 01:02:42,383 --> 01:02:46,304 ♪ No, you can't slow me down ♪ 1275 01:02:51,934 --> 01:02:55,313 ♪ No, you can't slow me down ♪