1 00:00:05,922 --> 00:00:08,341 ["All We Need Is Love" by Wolfgang Black playing] 2 00:00:10,468 --> 00:00:13,805 ♪ Kick and scream and shout ♪ 3 00:00:13,888 --> 00:00:18,435 ♪ Keep tearing these walls down ♪ 4 00:00:18,518 --> 00:00:20,645 ♪ Make it count ♪ 5 00:00:22,313 --> 00:00:24,232 Guess where we are. 6 00:00:24,315 --> 00:00:25,442 Where are we? 7 00:00:25,525 --> 00:00:28,862 We're about to get our marriage license. Shit's getting real. 8 00:00:28,945 --> 00:00:30,280 We're at the courthouse. 9 00:00:30,363 --> 00:00:32,615 Last time I was here it was for a speeding ticket, 10 00:00:32,699 --> 00:00:34,200 and this just feels so much better. 11 00:00:34,284 --> 00:00:35,618 [both laugh] 12 00:00:36,244 --> 00:00:40,749 -Look, our names! Ready to go. -We got it. [laughs] 13 00:00:40,832 --> 00:00:42,500 -Oh, wow. This is crazy. -How do you feel? 14 00:00:42,584 --> 00:00:45,211 -I feel great. Excited. -[chuckles] 15 00:00:45,295 --> 00:00:49,591 Definitely feels real. It's hitting. Uh, and I can't wait. 16 00:00:49,674 --> 00:00:51,718 -[Stacy in nasal voice] Oh, my God. -All right. 17 00:00:53,303 --> 00:00:57,682 So we're here getting our marriage license. 18 00:00:57,766 --> 00:01:00,685 [clerk] You guys double-check your names? Make sure it's correct. 19 00:01:00,769 --> 00:01:02,395 [Lydia] Yes, they are correct. 20 00:01:02,479 --> 00:01:04,522 [clerk] That's going to be $74. 21 00:01:05,356 --> 00:01:06,483 [clerk] Okay. 22 00:01:06,566 --> 00:01:08,485 -[Lydia] You excited? -Yeah. 23 00:01:08,568 --> 00:01:09,861 -Are you? -Yes. 24 00:01:09,944 --> 00:01:13,281 ♪ 'Cause love is all we need right now ♪ 25 00:01:13,865 --> 00:01:17,619 ♪ 'Cause love is all we need right now ♪ 26 00:01:17,702 --> 00:01:20,246 ♪ Right now ♪ 27 00:01:23,792 --> 00:01:26,836 -["Glass Hearts" by Toby Horton playing] -♪ I want a movie lover ♪ 28 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:29,798 ♪ Straight off the silver screen ♪ 29 00:01:31,007 --> 00:01:35,345 ♪ And I… I wanted you to be… ♪ 30 00:01:35,428 --> 00:01:39,474 [Stacy] Oh, my God. I have never seen this many dresses in my life. 31 00:01:41,351 --> 00:01:44,437 Look, all of the dresses, they look amazing. They're stunning! 32 00:01:45,939 --> 00:01:47,398 Oh, my God! 33 00:01:47,482 --> 00:01:49,442 You wore white! 34 00:01:49,526 --> 00:01:50,819 Fabulous. 35 00:01:51,736 --> 00:01:55,115 ♪ And I… I wanted you to… ♪ 36 00:01:55,198 --> 00:01:58,743 -[Izzy] Hello, hello! -Yo, fellas! Come on in. 37 00:01:58,827 --> 00:02:00,078 Take a seat, guys. 38 00:02:01,955 --> 00:02:04,207 -How are you, guys? -I'm good! We're excited. 39 00:02:04,290 --> 00:02:06,167 So who'd you bring with you today, Lydia? 40 00:02:06,251 --> 00:02:08,461 -So, I brought my mom. -Hi. 41 00:02:08,545 --> 00:02:09,462 [Lydia] Renee. 42 00:02:09,546 --> 00:02:11,256 -Hi, Renee. -Hi. 43 00:02:11,339 --> 00:02:12,924 One of my best friends, Christa. 44 00:02:13,007 --> 00:02:14,217 -Hi. -[Vanessa] Hi, Christa. 45 00:02:14,300 --> 00:02:17,679 And my handsome brother William. 46 00:02:17,762 --> 00:02:19,597 [Vanessa] William, hi! 47 00:02:19,681 --> 00:02:21,933 -Are you guys excited for her today? -[William] Absolutely. 48 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:26,187 Lydia's very genuine, and I know she really wanted to find love. 49 00:02:26,271 --> 00:02:27,355 I'm excited. 50 00:02:27,438 --> 00:02:28,690 And you've all met Milton? 51 00:02:28,773 --> 00:02:30,984 -Yes. -And, Mom? 52 00:02:31,067 --> 00:02:32,360 Very emotional. 53 00:02:32,861 --> 00:02:34,154 The happiness. 54 00:02:34,863 --> 00:02:35,947 The love. 55 00:02:36,447 --> 00:02:39,409 -I feel that. -["Make It Ours" by Full Circle playing] 56 00:02:41,578 --> 00:02:43,621 [Nick] All right. Well, guys, this is a big day. 57 00:02:44,205 --> 00:02:45,707 -You feeling it? -Oh, yeah. 58 00:02:45,790 --> 00:02:50,128 [Nick] You guys are just one week away from your wedding day. 59 00:02:50,211 --> 00:02:52,380 How does it feel to hear those words out of my mouth? 60 00:02:52,463 --> 00:02:53,423 It's exciting. 61 00:02:53,506 --> 00:02:55,175 Nerve-racking, nervous, exciting. 62 00:02:55,258 --> 00:02:57,802 -There's no wrong answers here, guys. -[all laughing] 63 00:02:58,553 --> 00:03:00,346 I'm super lucky to find Lydia. 64 00:03:00,930 --> 00:03:03,558 Like, she's a firecracker. 65 00:03:03,641 --> 00:03:05,977 -And there's never, like, a dull moment. -[Nick chuckles] 66 00:03:06,060 --> 00:03:08,438 I feel, like, really excited… 67 00:03:08,521 --> 00:03:09,355 Nice. 68 00:03:09,439 --> 00:03:12,066 …to get married, uh, to spend the rest of my life with her. 69 00:03:12,150 --> 00:03:14,277 I just have to make sure my pants aren't too short. 70 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:15,695 [all laughing] 71 00:03:15,778 --> 00:03:18,072 [Nick] You're tall, but we got you covered here today, man. 72 00:03:18,156 --> 00:03:20,825 As someone who's married to someone who's loud, 73 00:03:20,909 --> 00:03:24,954 uh, and has a lot of energy, it's a lot of fun, man. 74 00:03:25,038 --> 00:03:26,122 Just hold on for dear life. 75 00:03:26,206 --> 00:03:28,625 It's like riding a bull. Just, you know, hold on. 76 00:03:28,708 --> 00:03:31,044 -Just don't fall off. -[all laughing] 77 00:03:33,129 --> 00:03:35,131 -So, Mom, hi! -[Tracy laughs] Hi! 78 00:03:35,215 --> 00:03:36,174 [Vanessa] How are you? 79 00:03:36,257 --> 00:03:38,051 -I'm great. -[all laughing] 80 00:03:38,134 --> 00:03:39,219 Just great! 81 00:03:39,886 --> 00:03:42,805 -I'm like, "We haven't even started." -[laughing] 82 00:03:42,889 --> 00:03:44,682 I don't even have a dress on yet. 83 00:03:44,766 --> 00:03:47,393 -She's already losing it. -I know. Just a little emotional. 84 00:03:47,477 --> 00:03:49,312 [Vanessa] Well, of course. This is a big day. 85 00:03:49,395 --> 00:03:53,441 How were you feeling when Stacy told you, "I met the man I'm gonna marry"? 86 00:03:53,524 --> 00:03:55,944 Shocked, um… 87 00:03:56,027 --> 00:03:57,904 She doesn't jump into things. 88 00:03:57,987 --> 00:04:01,616 -But I really think it's what she needed. -[Stacy] Mmm-hmm. 89 00:04:02,116 --> 00:04:06,663 Because she might have been the one that looked at a person, 90 00:04:06,746 --> 00:04:09,624 and that's how she chose somebody to go out with. 91 00:04:09,707 --> 00:04:10,541 [Vanessa] Yeah. 92 00:04:10,625 --> 00:04:14,420 -[Stacy] Mmm-hmm. -Where this, she really had to dig deep. 93 00:04:14,504 --> 00:04:17,048 -And converse with someone. -Yeah. 94 00:04:17,131 --> 00:04:18,466 And really get to know them. 95 00:04:18,549 --> 00:04:21,886 So have you girls, sisters, and Mom met Izzy? 96 00:04:21,970 --> 00:04:22,804 [both] Yes. 97 00:04:22,887 --> 00:04:24,389 -[Vanessa] And? -[Tracy] We love him. 98 00:04:24,472 --> 00:04:25,807 -[Sloan] Amazing. -He's the best. 99 00:04:25,890 --> 00:04:29,686 And he is the balance that Stacy needs. 100 00:04:31,437 --> 00:04:33,022 Izzy, who do you have with you today? 101 00:04:33,106 --> 00:04:35,775 I have my mom and two of my really good friends, Nick and Zach. 102 00:04:35,858 --> 00:04:37,443 [Nick] 'Sup, guys? How are you, Mom? 103 00:04:37,527 --> 00:04:39,737 -Hello. It's good to see you. -Good to see you. 104 00:04:39,821 --> 00:04:42,156 You had a chance to meet Stacy? Got to know each other? 105 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:43,658 Wonderful, wonderful, sweet girl. 106 00:04:43,741 --> 00:04:45,201 -And her family. -[Nick] Amazing. 107 00:04:45,285 --> 00:04:48,162 I'm thrilled to see the support system you have here today 108 00:04:48,246 --> 00:04:52,292 because very, very, very soon, you're gonna be standing at that altar, 109 00:04:52,792 --> 00:04:57,922 and you're gonna have to make the most important decision of your lives. 110 00:04:58,006 --> 00:05:01,968 [Vanessa] Do you say "I do" to the man that you fell in love with 111 00:05:02,051 --> 00:05:04,012 based on who he was on the inside? 112 00:05:06,097 --> 00:05:08,891 Or do you walk away from them forever? 113 00:05:11,311 --> 00:05:13,938 Milton, Izzy, this is to you. Good luck. 114 00:05:14,022 --> 00:05:16,190 -[Izzy] Thank you. Cheers. -[Nick] All the best. Cheers. 115 00:05:16,274 --> 00:05:17,692 [Milton and Izzy] Ooh-ee! 116 00:05:21,904 --> 00:05:25,241 [Stacy] And I want something fun, but I don't want it to look too trendy. 117 00:05:25,325 --> 00:05:26,284 [Chelsea] Yeah. 118 00:05:26,868 --> 00:05:29,120 Boom. Boom. Boom. 119 00:05:29,203 --> 00:05:30,371 Boom. 120 00:05:31,622 --> 00:05:32,832 Boom. 121 00:05:32,915 --> 00:05:34,375 My best friend had it made. 122 00:05:34,459 --> 00:05:36,169 [upbeat music playing] 123 00:05:37,962 --> 00:05:41,883 I showed it to Izzy this morning, and he, like, got teary-eyed. 124 00:05:41,966 --> 00:05:43,968 Like, "Mrs. Zapata." He was like… 125 00:05:44,052 --> 00:05:45,636 [voice breaking] "That's really cool." 126 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:47,597 Oh, my God. Why are you crying? [laughing] 127 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:50,725 It's supposed to be fun. He's like, "Oh, it's just getting real." 128 00:05:51,517 --> 00:05:53,436 Would you ever go with this kind of a pattern? 129 00:05:53,519 --> 00:05:56,356 -[Stacy] Oh, look. Comes off easy. -[Tracy laughs] Yeah. 130 00:05:56,439 --> 00:05:58,900 -[Stacy] Izzy would like that. -[laughing] 131 00:05:58,983 --> 00:06:01,486 There's nothing intimidating to me about shopping. 132 00:06:01,569 --> 00:06:05,531 I think it's more finding something that feels like me. 133 00:06:05,615 --> 00:06:08,201 I need to have, like, a connection, like, a moment with a dress 134 00:06:08,284 --> 00:06:10,578 to feel like it fits and makes sense. 135 00:06:10,661 --> 00:06:12,789 -I don't like the glittery crap. -[Chelsea] Yeah. 136 00:06:12,872 --> 00:06:13,998 [Tracy] How about this? 137 00:06:15,416 --> 00:06:18,503 Look at Stacy's face. Stacy's face is like, "Heck, no." 138 00:06:19,087 --> 00:06:23,758 Like, something weird, odd, something out-there, 139 00:06:23,841 --> 00:06:27,387 but, like, accessorize it to where it doesn't look out-there. 140 00:06:27,470 --> 00:06:29,806 Just like a little, "Oh, I wasn't l expecting that." 141 00:06:29,889 --> 00:06:33,142 I need something like that. It can't be basic. 142 00:06:33,226 --> 00:06:35,353 -What's this? -It's the train, I think. 143 00:06:35,436 --> 00:06:36,854 Oh! 144 00:06:36,938 --> 00:06:38,439 -Let's do it. -Yeah, yeah. 145 00:06:38,523 --> 00:06:41,192 As long as I'm thinking, "What is that?" I'm gonna try it. 146 00:06:41,275 --> 00:06:43,778 Maybe I'll, like, chop up a dress, and just, like, create my own. 147 00:06:43,861 --> 00:06:46,989 -[chuckles] -[upbeat music playing] 148 00:06:50,827 --> 00:06:52,495 [Izzy] I appreciate y'all coming, honestly. 149 00:06:52,578 --> 00:06:54,664 Absolutely, man. We're here for ya. 150 00:06:54,747 --> 00:06:57,959 -[laughs] Are you ready? -Uh, yeah, I feel ready. 151 00:06:58,042 --> 00:07:00,378 I mean, obviously, I was engaged once before. 152 00:07:00,461 --> 00:07:02,255 Marriage is something I've wanted. 153 00:07:02,338 --> 00:07:04,757 It helps obviously to know, like, what you're looking for. 154 00:07:04,841 --> 00:07:06,259 -And who you like. -Exactly. 155 00:07:06,342 --> 00:07:08,761 So, like, just as much as Stacy knows what she wants, 156 00:07:08,845 --> 00:07:11,556 and she's very cutthroat on what she's looking for, 157 00:07:11,639 --> 00:07:12,598 I feel the same way. 158 00:07:12,682 --> 00:07:14,517 But, no, I'm definitely confident in her. 159 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:16,978 If we didn't communicate as well as we do, 160 00:07:17,061 --> 00:07:20,398 and actually, like, resolve issues, then I probably wouldn't be so confident. 161 00:07:20,481 --> 00:07:23,943 But the fact that we have that as a foundation, 162 00:07:24,026 --> 00:07:25,778 I'm like, "Hell yeah, I can do this with you." 163 00:07:26,696 --> 00:07:29,490 It's one week until our wedding. I don't feel nervous. 164 00:07:29,574 --> 00:07:31,534 I think this is why I'm so confident in it, 165 00:07:31,617 --> 00:07:34,871 because this is how I felt the day before I was gonna propose to Stacy. 166 00:07:34,954 --> 00:07:36,956 I am so confident in that girl. 167 00:07:37,039 --> 00:07:38,916 I'm madly in love with her. 168 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:41,335 I'm just more happy than anything. 169 00:07:41,919 --> 00:07:45,882 So right now I'm just filled with love, happiness and ready to go. 170 00:07:46,507 --> 00:07:48,801 Well, yeah, my biggest concern is, is she gonna say yes? 171 00:07:48,885 --> 00:07:51,554 ["I Do Too" by Rupert Pope, John Robertson & Eller playing] 172 00:07:51,637 --> 00:07:53,598 [all laughing] 173 00:07:54,474 --> 00:07:57,226 [women exclaiming] 174 00:07:58,436 --> 00:08:01,397 -[Lydia] Oh, my God, look at those… -[Renee] I like that. 175 00:08:01,481 --> 00:08:02,565 [Lydia] How are you feeling? 176 00:08:04,275 --> 00:08:06,694 -Your reaction, your facial is not-- -Not great. 177 00:08:06,777 --> 00:08:08,321 Yeah, no, it's not me. 178 00:08:08,404 --> 00:08:10,198 -[Sloan] It's not you. -[Stacy] No, not at all. 179 00:08:10,281 --> 00:08:11,491 This isn't our cry dress. 180 00:08:11,574 --> 00:08:13,826 -You're not gonna get tears. -For me, it's just boring. 181 00:08:13,910 --> 00:08:15,745 -Yeah. -[Stacy] It's very boring. 182 00:08:15,828 --> 00:08:18,372 [Tracy] We really weren't looking for her to be married, 183 00:08:18,456 --> 00:08:22,335 but this experiment really is meant for someone like her. 184 00:08:22,418 --> 00:08:23,836 They're a good match. 185 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:25,254 We love Izzy. 186 00:08:25,338 --> 00:08:29,467 He's, uh, just very calming for her kind of personality. 187 00:08:29,550 --> 00:08:32,720 I mean, he's already become like a part of our family. 188 00:08:32,803 --> 00:08:35,640 -[Lydia gasps] Okay, this is it. -[Sloan] Oh, my God. 189 00:08:35,723 --> 00:08:38,142 -Oh, my God, this is it. -[laughing] 190 00:08:38,226 --> 00:08:41,437 [Stacy] I can't even walk 'cause it's so much! 191 00:08:41,938 --> 00:08:44,315 -[laughs] Oh, my God! -[Lydia] This is perfect. 192 00:08:44,398 --> 00:08:46,192 [Stacy] It's like 4,000 tutus. 193 00:08:46,275 --> 00:08:47,485 But it's gorgeous! 194 00:08:47,568 --> 00:08:50,404 -[Stacy laughs] I know. -You look radiant. 195 00:08:50,488 --> 00:08:51,989 And look at your face! 196 00:08:52,073 --> 00:08:53,199 [Stacy laughs] 197 00:08:54,283 --> 00:08:56,661 -How are you feeling in that? -[Stacy] I love it. 198 00:08:57,411 --> 00:08:59,664 -Like, this is so me. -[Lydia] It is you. 199 00:08:59,747 --> 00:09:00,748 [Tracy] It's beautiful. 200 00:09:00,831 --> 00:09:02,750 I'm loving that on you. 201 00:09:02,833 --> 00:09:03,918 I love it. 202 00:09:04,001 --> 00:09:05,753 [woman] You look absolutely gorgeous. 203 00:09:05,836 --> 00:09:07,922 -[Chelsea] Gosh, you look really pretty. -[chuckles] 204 00:09:08,005 --> 00:09:10,716 [Lydia] Oh, yes! 205 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:12,009 [laughs] 206 00:09:12,093 --> 00:09:13,553 So pretty. 207 00:09:13,636 --> 00:09:14,804 -[Lydia] Stunning. -Thank you. 208 00:09:14,887 --> 00:09:16,597 [Lydia] You look stunning, boo-boo. 209 00:09:16,681 --> 00:09:19,684 [Chelsea] It's stunning. What do you think Izzy's gonna think? 210 00:09:19,767 --> 00:09:21,727 -I already know. He will cry. -Yeah. 211 00:09:22,228 --> 00:09:24,105 -Uh, probably. [laughs] -[Tracy] Yeah. Yeah. 212 00:09:24,188 --> 00:09:26,274 He will cry. It's beautiful. 213 00:09:26,357 --> 00:09:29,402 [laughs] This is crazy. 214 00:09:30,403 --> 00:09:31,571 This is the dress. 215 00:09:31,654 --> 00:09:34,448 -[laughs] -[all cheering] 216 00:09:34,532 --> 00:09:36,158 ["Ready To Love You" playing] 217 00:09:36,242 --> 00:09:37,201 [laughs] 218 00:09:37,285 --> 00:09:40,997 ♪ Let me out Beside the corners of your mind… ♪ 219 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:43,708 I just wanna make something that's really tailored. Because I'm very… 220 00:09:43,791 --> 00:09:45,876 -[man] You have a weird body type? -…long! 221 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:47,503 [all laughing] 222 00:09:48,588 --> 00:09:51,632 ♪ Your love is… ♪ 223 00:09:51,716 --> 00:09:54,343 She is so explosive, 224 00:09:54,427 --> 00:09:56,596 so high energy, it is, like… 225 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:57,722 It's amazing. 226 00:09:57,805 --> 00:09:59,515 But, yeah, she's stubborn as hell. 227 00:09:59,599 --> 00:10:03,144 -[Sebastian laughs] -She's a brat, but, like, I love it. 228 00:10:03,227 --> 00:10:06,105 Every night, like, we make sure we have a conversation before bed. 229 00:10:06,188 --> 00:10:09,108 And, like, you guys all know me. I'm not the best communicator. 230 00:10:09,191 --> 00:10:11,694 -[man] You're terrible at it. -[Milton] Terrible communicator. 231 00:10:11,777 --> 00:10:15,531 But, like, with her, it's scary how good our communication is… 232 00:10:16,032 --> 00:10:18,409 Damn, like, how do we relate to one another so well? 233 00:10:18,492 --> 00:10:20,369 And there always is that respect. 234 00:10:20,453 --> 00:10:22,830 I think, like, one of the things I need to work on is, like, 235 00:10:22,913 --> 00:10:26,000 she's a little bit more, like, passionate than I am, like, emotional. 236 00:10:26,083 --> 00:10:29,503 So, like, sometimes I have to make sure, like, I use the right word track. 237 00:10:30,671 --> 00:10:33,341 And, like, you know, everybody knows me. 238 00:10:33,424 --> 00:10:35,509 If I'm gonna say something, I'm gonna say it how it is, 239 00:10:35,593 --> 00:10:38,137 no matter how vulgar, outlandish it is, like… 240 00:10:38,220 --> 00:10:40,890 So, like, now I'm toning that back, like, learning how to, like-- 241 00:10:40,973 --> 00:10:42,767 [man] Actually have a filter for once? 242 00:10:42,850 --> 00:10:46,395 Yeah, have a filter. Yeah, I guess I have to have a slight filter. 243 00:10:46,479 --> 00:10:49,023 A couple years late, but he finally got one, you know? 244 00:10:49,607 --> 00:10:53,235 He says that we're always right, women. Well, it's true. 245 00:10:53,319 --> 00:10:55,029 [all laughing] 246 00:10:55,112 --> 00:11:00,159 I guess I can admit, like, I am nervous, whether I, like, wanna show it or not. 247 00:11:00,242 --> 00:11:02,203 That's not something I'm used to expressing. 248 00:11:02,870 --> 00:11:06,624 I'm always kind of like the laid-back, kind of mature guy, but, like, 249 00:11:07,458 --> 00:11:09,502 I am kind of scared. I am kind of nervous. 250 00:11:09,585 --> 00:11:12,254 I'd like to believe Lydia in that she would say yes, 251 00:11:13,214 --> 00:11:14,256 but… 252 00:11:15,174 --> 00:11:17,259 I don't know. There's still that unknown. 253 00:11:17,343 --> 00:11:18,886 I can't tell you 100%. 254 00:11:18,969 --> 00:11:21,347 -["Can't Wait" playing] -♪ No, I can't wait ♪ 255 00:11:23,349 --> 00:11:24,433 ♪ No, I can't wait… ♪ 256 00:11:24,517 --> 00:11:26,394 -[Stacy] Oh, my God! Stop it! -[all exclaim] 257 00:11:26,477 --> 00:11:29,146 -[Stacy] Oh, God, she's already crying. -[woman] I love it! 258 00:11:29,647 --> 00:11:31,107 [Lydia crying] 259 00:11:31,190 --> 00:11:33,901 -I would marry you in that dress. -[laughing] 260 00:11:33,984 --> 00:11:36,779 -[Lydia] I'll say yes, baby. -[all laughing] 261 00:11:36,862 --> 00:11:39,407 Oh, my God! I am so excited. 262 00:11:39,490 --> 00:11:41,450 It's like reality is kicking in. 263 00:11:41,534 --> 00:11:42,952 I'm getting married. 264 00:11:43,035 --> 00:11:46,122 -What do you like? -I'm crazy about this part. 265 00:11:46,205 --> 00:11:47,373 Like, the top of it. 266 00:11:47,456 --> 00:11:52,044 Yeah, you can dream, but I never had the certainty that it was going to happen, 267 00:11:52,128 --> 00:11:55,756 and it makes me emotional to even think like, "Yeah, I'm here." 268 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:57,049 "I'm in love." 269 00:11:58,134 --> 00:12:01,095 "And I'm about to find my dress." 270 00:12:01,178 --> 00:12:03,097 Why do… You don't like? 271 00:12:03,681 --> 00:12:05,391 [Lydia] Not that I don't like it. 272 00:12:05,474 --> 00:12:09,228 I just feel like I wanna see, like, a form-fitted more type style. 273 00:12:09,311 --> 00:12:11,147 -[Stacy] You need something to compare it. -Yes. 274 00:12:11,230 --> 00:12:13,858 I can move. I can dance. Let me see if I could twerk. 275 00:12:13,941 --> 00:12:15,401 -[Lydia Sr.] Yes! -[all laughing] 276 00:12:15,484 --> 00:12:17,862 -[Lydia Sr.] Okay. -All is well in the world. 277 00:12:17,945 --> 00:12:19,780 [Lydia] Let me see if we can take it low. 278 00:12:19,864 --> 00:12:22,116 -[Lydia exclaims] -[all cheering] 279 00:12:22,950 --> 00:12:24,160 You're getting flashbacks, huh? 280 00:12:24,243 --> 00:12:25,953 -[Lydia Sr.] Go, Lydia! -This is how it goes. 281 00:12:26,036 --> 00:12:26,996 Go, Lydia! 282 00:12:27,079 --> 00:12:29,081 [Stacy] Something's about to pop out from the top. 283 00:12:29,165 --> 00:12:30,332 [laughing] 284 00:12:30,416 --> 00:12:31,417 Yeah. 285 00:12:31,500 --> 00:12:34,462 -[clerk] Are we ready to try the next one? -Yes! 286 00:12:35,504 --> 00:12:38,799 [in Spanish] Every mother's dream is to imagine her son as a groom 287 00:12:38,883 --> 00:12:41,385 or daughter as a bride. 288 00:12:41,469 --> 00:12:43,304 This is beyond all of my expectations. 289 00:12:43,387 --> 00:12:46,140 I had dreamt about it, 290 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:49,602 but I didn't ever think it could be 291 00:12:50,227 --> 00:12:53,147 so moving, so exciting. 292 00:12:54,064 --> 00:12:57,234 -[women gasping] -[Lydia Sr. in English] Oh, my God! 293 00:12:57,318 --> 00:12:58,903 -The body, girl. -[gasps] 294 00:12:58,986 --> 00:13:01,113 -[Lydia] The body. -[all exclaim] 295 00:13:01,197 --> 00:13:03,073 -[Christa] Okay, I love that. -[Lydia] Oh, wow. 296 00:13:03,157 --> 00:13:04,909 -[Lydia Sr.] I love it. -[Stacy] Stunning. 297 00:13:04,992 --> 00:13:06,744 -[Lydia] This is gorgeous. -Love that on you. 298 00:13:06,827 --> 00:13:09,079 [Christa] You're getting a bit of the first one with-- 299 00:13:09,163 --> 00:13:10,790 -Yeah. -[Christa] The fairy-tale, like… 300 00:13:10,873 --> 00:13:13,459 -[Lydia Sr.] I love it. -[William] If you can add the sleeves too… 301 00:13:13,542 --> 00:13:16,212 Yeah, if I can add the sleeves, perfect dress. 302 00:13:16,295 --> 00:13:17,421 A two in one. 303 00:13:17,922 --> 00:13:20,925 As your brother, it's really hard for me to say this, but you look stunning. 304 00:13:21,008 --> 00:13:22,426 -[Lydia] Aw! -Oh, my God! [laughing] 305 00:13:22,510 --> 00:13:24,470 I thought he was gonna say, "Too much titty." 306 00:13:24,553 --> 00:13:27,014 [all laughing] 307 00:13:31,060 --> 00:13:32,061 [Lydia Sr.] Oh! 308 00:13:32,144 --> 00:13:34,188 -[Chelsea] That veil with it-- -[Tracy] I got chills. 309 00:13:34,271 --> 00:13:36,565 -[Stacy] What is happening? -Oh, shit. [laughing] 310 00:13:36,649 --> 00:13:39,652 [Stacy] Oh, my God. You're like a princess. 311 00:13:39,735 --> 00:13:41,904 -That was the crown. -[woman] So pretty. 312 00:13:41,987 --> 00:13:43,989 [Lydia] Oh, my God, this is gorgeous. 313 00:13:44,073 --> 00:13:45,783 -[Stacy] Oh, my God. -[mouths] Wow. 314 00:13:45,866 --> 00:13:47,409 Aw, Mom. 315 00:13:47,493 --> 00:13:49,119 [Lydia exhales] Oh, wow. 316 00:13:50,287 --> 00:13:51,330 [in Spanish] I love you. 317 00:13:51,413 --> 00:13:52,832 I love you too. 318 00:13:53,791 --> 00:13:54,959 Hermosa. 319 00:13:56,001 --> 00:13:59,964 [in English] I never, honestly, was sure that… 320 00:14:01,590 --> 00:14:02,925 this day would happen. 321 00:14:04,468 --> 00:14:09,306 I was not sure that I will walk down the aisle one day to the altar. 322 00:14:09,390 --> 00:14:12,184 [chuckles] I never imagined to be this happy, 323 00:14:12,768 --> 00:14:15,104 and, yeah, it feels amazing. 324 00:14:15,187 --> 00:14:16,814 [Lydia Sr.] You deserve it. 325 00:14:16,897 --> 00:14:18,023 [Renee] Yes. You do. 326 00:14:18,524 --> 00:14:21,443 [sobbing] I didn't know how bad I wanted it. 327 00:14:21,527 --> 00:14:23,904 How bad I wanted to find my person. 328 00:14:23,988 --> 00:14:25,698 These are happy tears, 329 00:14:26,365 --> 00:14:28,576 because everything was worth it. 330 00:14:28,659 --> 00:14:29,869 Every heartbreak, 331 00:14:29,952 --> 00:14:31,453 every prayer, 332 00:14:32,121 --> 00:14:37,126 every bending on my knees and asking the universe, God for guidance 333 00:14:37,209 --> 00:14:39,628 to point me in the right direction. 334 00:14:40,337 --> 00:14:42,590 It was all worth it 'cause I'm here… 335 00:14:42,673 --> 00:14:46,010 [chuckles] …standing in a wedding dress. 336 00:14:46,093 --> 00:14:47,261 [clerk] Think that's the one? 337 00:14:47,344 --> 00:14:49,763 -[Lydia] Yes. -The dreams come true. 338 00:14:49,847 --> 00:14:51,974 And it is a dream come true. 339 00:14:52,057 --> 00:14:55,019 ["We're Alive" by Martin Bak & Jacob Diab playing] 340 00:14:55,644 --> 00:14:59,106 -♪ Alive ♪ -♪ Yeah, we're alive ♪ 341 00:14:59,189 --> 00:15:01,108 ♪ Alive, alive, alive ♪ 342 00:15:01,191 --> 00:15:04,778 -♪ Ooh ♪ -♪ Alive, alive, alive ♪ 343 00:15:04,862 --> 00:15:07,531 ♪ Alive, alive, alive ♪ 344 00:15:08,032 --> 00:15:11,994 ♪ Alive ♪ 345 00:15:12,077 --> 00:15:13,704 [song fading] 346 00:15:17,416 --> 00:15:18,250 [Izzy] I'm excited. 347 00:15:18,334 --> 00:15:21,337 [Stacy] I can handle speed. I'm just like, I don't need you to throw up on me. 348 00:15:21,420 --> 00:15:22,880 -[Izzy] Oh, no, I'll be fine. -Okay. 349 00:15:22,963 --> 00:15:25,341 Gestures to Stacy are very, very important. 350 00:15:25,424 --> 00:15:27,676 Last night, Monday, so… 351 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:29,970 Refilled the flower vase, flower Mondays. 352 00:15:30,054 --> 00:15:31,889 So I wrote her, you know, a little card. 353 00:15:31,972 --> 00:15:33,265 [Stacy] Whoa. 354 00:15:33,349 --> 00:15:35,601 [Izzy] And doing something, you know, that small for her, 355 00:15:35,684 --> 00:15:37,227 she was in the best mood last night. 356 00:15:37,311 --> 00:15:39,688 [man] This is a B-25 Mitchell bomber. 357 00:15:39,772 --> 00:15:41,607 -[Stacy] Cool. -[man] Isn't that cool? 358 00:15:41,690 --> 00:15:43,192 -Looks like a badass. -It does. 359 00:15:43,275 --> 00:15:45,694 [Izzy] I know kinda taking the initiative is what she likes, 360 00:15:45,778 --> 00:15:48,489 so I wanted to take the time to, you know, make a special day for her. 361 00:15:48,572 --> 00:15:51,408 With the wedding coming up, I kind of wanted to give her a little sample 362 00:15:51,492 --> 00:15:54,286 of what the rest of our life is gonna look like. 363 00:15:54,370 --> 00:15:56,872 [man] So, the ladders are down. The airplane's all yours. 364 00:15:56,956 --> 00:15:58,165 You guys go have a blast. 365 00:15:58,248 --> 00:15:59,959 -Oh, my God. -Yes! 366 00:16:00,042 --> 00:16:03,128 Uh, I mean, is it safe to ride in one of these? 367 00:16:03,212 --> 00:16:07,091 [engine sputters] 368 00:16:07,174 --> 00:16:09,426 'Cause I've gotta be somewhere this Sunday. [laughing] 369 00:16:09,510 --> 00:16:12,262 Yes, I've heard from her family and friends, you know, 370 00:16:12,346 --> 00:16:14,223 she loves to ride on private jets. 371 00:16:14,306 --> 00:16:15,516 [Stacy] Oh, my God! 372 00:16:15,599 --> 00:16:17,851 So, I just hop, skip, and jump into this guy. 373 00:16:17,935 --> 00:16:20,104 They're all like, "Are you gonna be able to handle that?" 374 00:16:20,187 --> 00:16:22,189 You know, "Can you live up to the expectation?" 375 00:16:22,773 --> 00:16:25,150 Stacy's father did tell me that love is first-class, 376 00:16:25,234 --> 00:16:29,071 so that's what I had lined up for her today. [laughs] 377 00:16:29,154 --> 00:16:32,157 -[sentimental music playing] -♪ Stay strong for me ♪ 378 00:16:32,241 --> 00:16:35,869 ♪ And I'll stay strong for you ♪ 379 00:16:35,953 --> 00:16:38,872 ♪ Stay strong for me ♪ 380 00:16:38,956 --> 00:16:42,042 ♪ And I'll stay strong for you ♪ 381 00:16:43,335 --> 00:16:46,088 ♪ Well, I know your heart feels tired ♪ 382 00:16:46,171 --> 00:16:48,424 ♪ But I know we'll see this through ♪ 383 00:16:48,507 --> 00:16:52,052 ♪ We'll see this through ♪ 384 00:17:02,521 --> 00:17:03,480 [Izzy] Whoo! 385 00:17:03,564 --> 00:17:06,191 ♪ Stay strong for me ♪ 386 00:17:06,275 --> 00:17:09,153 -♪ And I'll stay strong for you ♪ -[music fading] 387 00:17:09,236 --> 00:17:10,529 [Stacy] Whoa! 388 00:17:11,989 --> 00:17:14,450 Romantical. [chuckles] 389 00:17:15,159 --> 00:17:16,827 -Where do I go? Here? -Right here. 390 00:17:17,411 --> 00:17:18,954 Whoop! Oop! 391 00:17:19,038 --> 00:17:20,706 -Thank you. -Mmm-hmm. 392 00:17:20,789 --> 00:17:24,960 [Stacy] It's very cool and different. 393 00:17:26,295 --> 00:17:27,755 Unexpected. 394 00:17:28,547 --> 00:17:29,757 Romantic. 395 00:17:30,382 --> 00:17:33,594 And I like it. [laughs] 396 00:17:33,677 --> 00:17:35,554 -Cheers. -Cheers. 397 00:17:35,637 --> 00:17:39,433 To one of our final dates before… wedding day. 398 00:17:39,516 --> 00:17:41,393 -That just hit me. -Yeah. 399 00:17:41,477 --> 00:17:42,936 -[imitates gulping] -[both laughing] 400 00:17:44,688 --> 00:17:48,901 Honestly, after fitting day, I felt so relaxed. 401 00:17:49,401 --> 00:17:52,488 We haven't had any meltdowns recently, so maybe that's why we're both calm. 402 00:17:52,571 --> 00:17:53,989 [laughs] 403 00:17:55,282 --> 00:17:59,119 It never will get old to be able to sit across from you like this. 404 00:18:00,079 --> 00:18:02,039 I just find you very interesting. 405 00:18:02,539 --> 00:18:05,250 There's never gonna be a dull moment with you. 406 00:18:05,334 --> 00:18:07,503 Whether it be bad or whether it be amazing, 407 00:18:07,586 --> 00:18:09,588 nothing's ever fucking dull with you. 408 00:18:10,172 --> 00:18:12,007 -Whoopsies. -But yeah. 409 00:18:12,091 --> 00:18:15,385 -Take it or leave it. -I'm taking it, and I'm running with it. 410 00:18:16,678 --> 00:18:17,513 Yeah, baby. 411 00:18:18,305 --> 00:18:19,556 -Thank you. -Here you go. 412 00:18:20,224 --> 00:18:21,934 Oh, I'm so excited. 413 00:18:22,017 --> 00:18:22,893 Me too. 414 00:18:22,976 --> 00:18:26,313 Hands down, I would not be sitting here 415 00:18:26,396 --> 00:18:31,693 if it wasn't for you being so calming to me. 416 00:18:32,277 --> 00:18:35,030 And sometimes you're not even saying anything. 417 00:18:35,114 --> 00:18:36,406 You're just calming. 418 00:18:36,907 --> 00:18:39,743 -[tranquil music playing] -You're the calm in the storm, like, that… 419 00:18:40,744 --> 00:18:43,163 that sounding ground of like… 420 00:18:43,872 --> 00:18:48,418 I just, like, everything's a blur, and it's like either a hug or a look, 421 00:18:48,502 --> 00:18:51,213 or whatever it is that you do in that moment. 422 00:18:51,296 --> 00:18:54,967 Sometimes, it's just your energy. It's very, like, balanced 423 00:18:55,050 --> 00:19:00,222 and so mellow, and that's like-- that is my favorite thing about you. 424 00:19:00,305 --> 00:19:02,891 And I never thought I'd even fall in love again. 425 00:19:03,475 --> 00:19:06,311 -Really? -Mmm-hmm. Not any time soon. 426 00:19:06,979 --> 00:19:08,188 You love love. 427 00:19:08,856 --> 00:19:10,649 I felt like I was avoiding it. 428 00:19:11,150 --> 00:19:12,776 I didn't think I was gonna… 429 00:19:15,028 --> 00:19:15,863 be here… 430 00:19:17,072 --> 00:19:17,990 with you today, 431 00:19:18,073 --> 00:19:20,450 just to be getting married. 432 00:19:21,368 --> 00:19:24,955 And then, boom! You just surprised me like… 433 00:19:25,747 --> 00:19:26,957 like always. 434 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:28,917 -I'm madly in love with you. -[chuckling] 435 00:19:29,001 --> 00:19:30,627 I'm crazy about you. 436 00:19:33,589 --> 00:19:39,386 Well, I mean, we already have kind of started integrating our families. 437 00:19:41,054 --> 00:19:43,599 -I've had a blast around your family. -Mmm-hmm. 438 00:19:43,682 --> 00:19:47,102 I've felt so welcomed, and loved, and I feel… 439 00:19:47,603 --> 00:19:50,397 We've only hung out twice, and I feel so close to them. 440 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:54,526 It's that and it's also what I tell them about how I'm feeling about you. 441 00:19:55,027 --> 00:19:59,448 It's really just how happy they see me, and whatever comes with you, 442 00:20:00,199 --> 00:20:01,241 they're gonna love. 443 00:20:01,325 --> 00:20:04,953 -[laughs] -It's been good. [laughs] 444 00:20:05,037 --> 00:20:08,290 I noticed. I mean, being around your family just makes me really miss… 445 00:20:09,374 --> 00:20:11,376 -The whole idea of, like, family. -Yeah. 446 00:20:11,460 --> 00:20:13,253 It is a little weird for me 447 00:20:13,879 --> 00:20:17,549 that, you know, like, a good chunk of my family won't be there. 448 00:20:18,050 --> 00:20:21,762 Um, I did it personally just because… 449 00:20:22,971 --> 00:20:24,514 it's my special day. 450 00:20:24,598 --> 00:20:25,891 Our special day. 451 00:20:27,434 --> 00:20:28,769 And I don't want 452 00:20:29,770 --> 00:20:33,815 any opinions or anything like that there, 453 00:20:33,899 --> 00:20:34,942 that I'd be… 454 00:20:36,401 --> 00:20:37,694 probably… 455 00:20:38,946 --> 00:20:41,698 [hesitates] …judged or like, "What the fuck?" 456 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:45,535 'Cause of, like, how this, 457 00:20:47,162 --> 00:20:48,163 like, came about. 458 00:20:49,206 --> 00:20:50,374 The people who are coming 459 00:20:50,457 --> 00:20:53,835 are the people that mean the most to me, that have been, you know, 460 00:20:54,962 --> 00:20:56,588 the most genuine and supportive 461 00:20:56,672 --> 00:20:58,924 even when I haven't been the perfect person. 462 00:20:59,508 --> 00:21:00,384 So… 463 00:21:03,303 --> 00:21:05,305 I have my mom there. Really all that matters. 464 00:21:05,389 --> 00:21:06,807 -[Stacy] Your mom's amazing. -Yeah. 465 00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:13,355 On the flip side of that coin, you have all of my crazy family… 466 00:21:13,438 --> 00:21:14,273 I know. 467 00:21:14,356 --> 00:21:15,607 …that adores you. 468 00:21:15,691 --> 00:21:18,151 So no matter whatever happens with your family, 469 00:21:18,235 --> 00:21:21,571 my family is obsessed with you. You're probably gonna get really annoyed 470 00:21:21,655 --> 00:21:24,533 and wish they would go away at points. [laughs] 471 00:21:24,616 --> 00:21:26,910 I don't think I could ever get annoyed with your family. 472 00:21:27,661 --> 00:21:28,870 I love your family. 473 00:21:29,705 --> 00:21:33,083 -And I can't wait to be a part of them. -Yeah. 474 00:21:33,166 --> 00:21:36,003 -I mean, fuck it, I already am, so… -[laughing] 475 00:21:36,086 --> 00:21:38,922 I know. Why do they all talk to you more than me? 476 00:21:39,589 --> 00:21:45,554 [chuckles] Again, that's also why I'm excited, 'cause, yes, I gain a wife, 477 00:21:45,637 --> 00:21:49,558 and a lifelong partner, but I also get a family. 478 00:21:49,641 --> 00:21:51,727 So it's like a lot of dreams come true for me. 479 00:21:51,810 --> 00:21:53,687 -[Stacy] Mmm-hmm. -Um… 480 00:21:54,730 --> 00:21:56,148 [softly] I don't know. It's… 481 00:21:56,231 --> 00:21:57,941 ["All You Need" by Anthony Esperance playing] 482 00:21:58,025 --> 00:21:59,026 It's crazy. 483 00:21:59,735 --> 00:22:03,071 [chuckles] Look at my little hand. You wanna hold it? 484 00:22:04,072 --> 00:22:05,032 [Izzy] Yeah. 485 00:22:05,115 --> 00:22:08,910 ♪ All you need All you need, all you need… ♪ 486 00:22:08,994 --> 00:22:11,288 What are we dancing to? Do we even know? 487 00:22:11,371 --> 00:22:15,542 -Pop. NSYNC, "This I Promise You"? -[laughing] 488 00:22:15,625 --> 00:22:17,002 -No! -That was a good song. 489 00:22:17,085 --> 00:22:21,089 I know, but no! No! How are we gonna dance? 490 00:22:21,715 --> 00:22:25,177 If they're like, "Can I get the groom and the bride to the dance floor now?" 491 00:22:25,260 --> 00:22:28,138 -Ooh, that's a good question. -"Groom and bride to the dance floor now!" 492 00:22:28,221 --> 00:22:30,265 -All I ask-- -No, like, you're supposed to do it. 493 00:22:30,349 --> 00:22:35,729 [emphatically] "Mr. and Mrs. Izzy Zapata to the dance floor!" 494 00:22:35,812 --> 00:22:37,189 [Stacy laughing] Oh, my God! 495 00:22:37,272 --> 00:22:40,108 Why did your voice just change like that? 496 00:22:40,901 --> 00:22:44,112 I got lots of heels. I got lots of zapatos. 497 00:22:44,905 --> 00:22:46,782 [romantic music playing] 498 00:22:46,865 --> 00:22:50,911 ♪ It's funny how your arms Are now my favorite place… ♪ 499 00:22:50,994 --> 00:22:52,245 [Stacy] Is this our first dance? 500 00:22:54,956 --> 00:22:56,500 I missed my dad dance. 501 00:22:59,294 --> 00:23:01,588 Like, my dad would-- [chuckling] 502 00:23:01,671 --> 00:23:03,048 [Izzy] Hmm? 503 00:23:03,131 --> 00:23:05,133 Dance to the beat of my heart, baby. 504 00:23:05,217 --> 00:23:07,761 -[Izzy laughing] -Strong and steady. 505 00:23:07,844 --> 00:23:10,472 ♪ It feels so right, so right ♪ 506 00:23:10,555 --> 00:23:14,851 ♪ I'm so lucky to love you Lucky to love you, lucky to love you ♪ 507 00:23:14,935 --> 00:23:17,229 ♪ I'm so lucky to love you, lucky to… ♪ 508 00:23:17,312 --> 00:23:18,688 [indistinct chatter] 509 00:23:18,772 --> 00:23:20,607 [Stacy laughing] 510 00:23:21,691 --> 00:23:25,320 Whoo! Oh, my God, the inner thighs. 511 00:23:27,030 --> 00:23:29,366 -Oh! Oh! Oh! -[laughing] Are you okay? 512 00:23:29,449 --> 00:23:33,495 [Stacy] We're getting married in two days. What's your lucky number? 513 00:23:33,578 --> 00:23:34,454 Two. 514 00:23:34,955 --> 00:23:35,997 [Stacy] Okay. 515 00:23:36,081 --> 00:23:37,707 It was my jersey number. 516 00:23:37,791 --> 00:23:41,837 -[Stacy] Two days away will be a good day. -[hums] 517 00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:45,132 [Stacy] What does it make you feel like when you say it out loud? 518 00:23:45,882 --> 00:23:47,717 -[Izzy] I love you. -I love you too. 519 00:23:48,593 --> 00:23:49,678 [Izzy kisses] 520 00:23:49,761 --> 00:23:52,222 ♪ And your jacket when it's cold ♪ 521 00:23:52,305 --> 00:23:57,227 ♪ I don't wanna go back To the time before… ♪ 522 00:23:57,310 --> 00:23:59,563 ♪ Livin' in the afterglow ♪ 523 00:23:59,646 --> 00:24:01,898 ♪ Man, I'm tired of letting go ♪ 524 00:24:01,982 --> 00:24:07,028 ♪ I think you know I have never Felt like this before ♪ 525 00:24:08,738 --> 00:24:10,407 ♪ I'm so lucky to love you… ♪ 526 00:24:10,490 --> 00:24:12,242 [Stacy laughing] 527 00:24:13,326 --> 00:24:16,204 ♪ It's been a while since I found someone To be around ♪ 528 00:24:16,288 --> 00:24:18,457 ♪ Who was not too good to be true ♪ 529 00:24:18,540 --> 00:24:22,377 ♪ I'm so lucky to love you Lucky to love you ♪ 530 00:24:23,587 --> 00:24:25,755 -[music fades] -[Milton] What's been new with you? 531 00:24:26,756 --> 00:24:27,883 [Jessica] Nothing much. 532 00:24:28,842 --> 00:24:33,305 Work. Work, work, work. Work and children and husband and work. 533 00:24:35,474 --> 00:24:36,516 -Spouse life. -Yeah. 534 00:24:37,350 --> 00:24:39,853 So, after meeting the family, what did Lydia think? 535 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:42,689 -Uh, she thought it was pretty intense. -Intense? 536 00:24:42,772 --> 00:24:44,816 I told her I thought it went better than expected. 537 00:24:44,900 --> 00:24:46,485 What did you expect? 538 00:24:47,986 --> 00:24:49,279 I don't know. [sighs] 539 00:24:49,362 --> 00:24:51,114 I think joining our family's difficult. 540 00:24:53,074 --> 00:24:56,119 I think sometimes, when I look at, like, our family dynamic 541 00:24:56,203 --> 00:24:58,914 versus, let's say, some of my friends, it's very different. 542 00:25:00,123 --> 00:25:02,792 I'm not saying it's bad. I'm saying it works for us really well. 543 00:25:02,876 --> 00:25:05,170 Lydia speaks to her mom every single day. 544 00:25:05,253 --> 00:25:07,797 Her sisters, every single day, they talk. 545 00:25:07,881 --> 00:25:10,592 -Yeah. -And I told them our dynamic is different. 546 00:25:11,176 --> 00:25:14,179 -Very passionate people. -Passionate? What do you mean? 547 00:25:14,262 --> 00:25:16,765 Very, like, expressive. Very, like, giving. 548 00:25:16,848 --> 00:25:20,018 [chuckles] You said giving? Are they like our family? 549 00:25:20,519 --> 00:25:21,353 No. 550 00:25:21,436 --> 00:25:22,604 We're passionate! 551 00:25:23,104 --> 00:25:24,940 -They're a little more-- -And we give. 552 00:25:25,023 --> 00:25:27,692 They're more… emotional. 553 00:25:27,776 --> 00:25:31,029 -[laughs] We don't give emotion. -I know. 554 00:25:31,988 --> 00:25:34,449 So, how's wedding planning going? You ready? 555 00:25:35,075 --> 00:25:36,076 I think so. 556 00:25:37,702 --> 00:25:39,079 What makes you so sure? 557 00:25:40,580 --> 00:25:43,458 I guess the same thing that I'm sure with any decision I ever make. 558 00:25:45,168 --> 00:25:47,087 Just kind of rely on that gut feeling. 559 00:25:47,170 --> 00:25:48,630 [tense music playing] 560 00:25:49,506 --> 00:25:51,675 You're still my brother. I love you. 561 00:25:51,758 --> 00:25:54,511 But, one, you're going into it, and people think it's fake. 562 00:25:54,594 --> 00:25:58,056 Two, you're two people trying to get to know each other. 563 00:25:58,139 --> 00:25:59,766 Marriage is huge. 564 00:26:00,517 --> 00:26:01,560 And it's a big deal. 565 00:26:01,643 --> 00:26:04,062 What does Mom always say? "Your perception is your reality." 566 00:26:07,274 --> 00:26:09,067 I don't know. It just feels a little weird. 567 00:26:09,150 --> 00:26:11,152 Even though you kind of do things on your own, 568 00:26:11,236 --> 00:26:15,782 for your major decisions, we've been a part of that process. 569 00:26:15,865 --> 00:26:17,325 You guys are part of the process, 570 00:26:18,451 --> 00:26:21,288 but if it comes to me making a decision, 571 00:26:21,371 --> 00:26:26,167 like, if Mom was like… or if Dad was like, "No, mmm-mmm." 572 00:26:26,251 --> 00:26:28,670 "This ain't gonna happen. You're not gonna marry her." 573 00:26:29,754 --> 00:26:31,756 We all know I'd probably still do it anyway. 574 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:33,216 [tense music fades] 575 00:26:36,553 --> 00:26:38,179 You collect all the data points you can 576 00:26:38,263 --> 00:26:42,350 and then you make the best decision you can with the information you have. 577 00:26:42,434 --> 00:26:44,436 She sounds like a science project. 578 00:26:44,519 --> 00:26:47,188 No, I just think I'm more analytical in my thinking. 579 00:26:50,150 --> 00:26:55,071 I mean, I also have, like, you know, set standards that I was raised with 580 00:26:55,697 --> 00:26:57,115 that I look for in, like, a wife. 581 00:26:57,782 --> 00:27:00,160 I did like, you know, her educational background. 582 00:27:00,243 --> 00:27:03,288 I do like her career. I do like how hardworking she is. 583 00:27:04,289 --> 00:27:06,333 And then she has, like, those other characteristics 584 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:10,837 that I know based on how I am that I look for in, like, a spouse. 585 00:27:11,504 --> 00:27:13,715 I definitely do like people that are really compassionate, 586 00:27:13,798 --> 00:27:15,717 very, like, expressive of their feelings. 587 00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:18,637 So having someone that is more vulnerable really helps me grow. 588 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,139 You're really taking your life and merging it. 589 00:27:21,222 --> 00:27:23,183 "I wanna be committed to this person." 590 00:27:23,266 --> 00:27:27,437 "I want to sacrifice everything for this person. I want to…" 591 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:30,607 You know, I mean, hell, just raising kids with that person is just… 592 00:27:30,690 --> 00:27:33,485 That's big. Like, have y'all talked about your parenting styles? 593 00:27:33,568 --> 00:27:35,612 I know you guys aren't interested in having kids now, 594 00:27:35,695 --> 00:27:37,405 but have you talked about parenting? 595 00:27:37,489 --> 00:27:41,117 -Yeah. -Cost of daycare is freaking expensive. 596 00:27:41,618 --> 00:27:43,828 Also, merging the families. 597 00:27:43,912 --> 00:27:46,748 You know, if something were to happen and you have to move in 598 00:27:46,831 --> 00:27:49,751 or take care of Mom and Dad, is she okay with that? I don't know. 599 00:27:49,834 --> 00:27:50,669 It's just… 600 00:27:51,336 --> 00:27:54,464 Have y'all had all the conversations that… 601 00:27:55,131 --> 00:27:57,592 They always say marriage is like a business arrangement. 602 00:28:01,179 --> 00:28:02,472 I definitely agree with you. 603 00:28:02,555 --> 00:28:05,183 Like, marriage can be like a business arrangement, 604 00:28:05,684 --> 00:28:07,394 but I mean, I think, 605 00:28:07,936 --> 00:28:10,563 I mean, based on the conversations me and Lydia have, 606 00:28:10,647 --> 00:28:13,024 like, we're both in it for the same reason. 607 00:28:13,108 --> 00:28:17,112 We're both interested in being married, and we both love one another, so… 608 00:28:17,862 --> 00:28:20,240 -You think she feels the same way? -Yeah. 609 00:28:20,990 --> 00:28:22,992 ["For the Weekend" by GREYLEE playing] 610 00:28:24,828 --> 00:28:27,205 So, with all that said, are you still coming to the wedding? 611 00:28:30,417 --> 00:28:33,294 We'll be there. We'll be there. 612 00:28:33,378 --> 00:28:35,255 -["For the Weekend" continues] -♪ I… ♪ 613 00:28:37,006 --> 00:28:39,008 ♪ You… ♪ 614 00:28:39,092 --> 00:28:40,301 [Milton] Mmm. 615 00:28:41,845 --> 00:28:42,804 [Jessica] Lydia Johnson? 616 00:28:42,887 --> 00:28:45,849 I told her it's mandatory to take the last name. 617 00:28:46,683 --> 00:28:48,393 Oh, she's gonna take your last name? 618 00:28:48,476 --> 00:28:51,020 -Is she gonna hyphenate it? -No, I don't believe in that. 619 00:28:51,855 --> 00:28:55,233 [laughs] I hope she knows what she's getting into. I really do. 620 00:28:55,316 --> 00:28:59,696 ♪ Oh! Just for the night I don't want you leaving ♪ 621 00:28:59,779 --> 00:29:02,365 ♪ Running throughout All my dreams when I'm sleeping ♪ 622 00:29:02,449 --> 00:29:05,702 ♪ Baby, I'm taking myself To the deep end ♪ 623 00:29:05,785 --> 00:29:07,412 ♪ Oh! ♪ 624 00:29:07,495 --> 00:29:10,373 ♪ I don't know how To explain what I'm feeling ♪ 625 00:29:10,457 --> 00:29:13,126 ♪ I don't know if you get to keep it ♪ 626 00:29:13,209 --> 00:29:15,336 ♪ But you got my heart, you got my heart ♪ 627 00:29:15,879 --> 00:29:18,465 [Izzy grunts] Watch. Okay. 628 00:29:21,509 --> 00:29:23,511 [objects and keys rattle] 629 00:29:27,932 --> 00:29:29,184 [sighs] 630 00:29:44,324 --> 00:29:46,117 [Izzy] Lots of fun… 631 00:29:47,744 --> 00:29:49,496 memories here. [exhales] 632 00:29:56,294 --> 00:29:58,254 Obviously, we had a conversation. 633 00:29:58,338 --> 00:30:01,466 Um, how do you feel about it? 634 00:30:04,719 --> 00:30:05,720 [Stacy] Mmm-hmm. 635 00:30:09,891 --> 00:30:11,059 I guess I feel like 636 00:30:11,684 --> 00:30:13,603 I don't know if I can trust you. 637 00:30:13,686 --> 00:30:15,480 [tense music playing] 638 00:30:19,067 --> 00:30:20,318 [Izzy] With what exactly? 639 00:30:21,694 --> 00:30:23,446 -[Stacy] With the credit card stuff. -Mmm-hmm. 640 00:30:23,530 --> 00:30:25,406 [Stacy] Because I've asked you about that before. 641 00:30:25,490 --> 00:30:29,202 I'm like, "Why wouldn't he have said that before?" 642 00:30:29,285 --> 00:30:32,497 And I'm like, you know I asked you that. "Why don't you have any credit cards?" 643 00:30:32,580 --> 00:30:35,625 "You can get points." And you're like, "Oh, I used them in college, 644 00:30:35,708 --> 00:30:38,461 and, you know, I just got rid of them." Like, that. 645 00:30:38,545 --> 00:30:40,547 Then in the pods, talking about finances and debt. 646 00:30:40,630 --> 00:30:42,799 "Anything I need to know?" You're like, "Absolutely not." 647 00:30:42,882 --> 00:30:46,094 I feel like that wasn't totally truthful. 648 00:30:48,888 --> 00:30:50,431 Like, I tell you everything. 649 00:30:50,932 --> 00:30:52,016 I would not 650 00:30:52,725 --> 00:30:54,352 not tell you. 651 00:30:54,435 --> 00:30:58,398 I wanted to lay everything out there once we actually sat down 652 00:30:58,481 --> 00:31:00,400 and talked versus… 653 00:31:01,943 --> 00:31:05,238 Times it's kind of brought up, it was just kind of, like, on a whim. 654 00:31:05,321 --> 00:31:06,906 You know, if we were just like… 655 00:31:08,575 --> 00:31:11,411 I don't know, mucking around, cooking around. 656 00:31:11,494 --> 00:31:14,163 In the pods, like, I didn't feel like we were, like, sit down, 657 00:31:14,247 --> 00:31:17,542 have the formal, like, "let's throw it all out there" thing. 658 00:31:18,126 --> 00:31:20,587 And for me, I wanted to have this conversation 659 00:31:21,629 --> 00:31:24,173 very formal because I knew it was gonna be long. 660 00:31:25,008 --> 00:31:27,218 So definitely not hiding anything from you. 661 00:31:27,302 --> 00:31:29,012 I wasn't trying to hide anything from you. 662 00:31:29,095 --> 00:31:32,223 'Cause if that were the case, then I would have tried to just bullshit it 663 00:31:32,307 --> 00:31:34,559 and sweep it under the rug as much as I possibly could, 664 00:31:34,642 --> 00:31:38,396 and that's why I just wanted to come to you and tell you that. 665 00:31:38,479 --> 00:31:40,481 Like, I wouldn't hide it. 666 00:31:47,322 --> 00:31:52,035 I feel like a lot of times you ramble and maybe are skirting around 667 00:31:52,619 --> 00:31:54,746 the actual answer of what I'm asking you. 668 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:57,790 [Izzy] Yeah, like, I do ramble on. 669 00:31:59,042 --> 00:32:03,421 I sometimes don't make sense, but that's something I have to work on, 670 00:32:03,504 --> 00:32:05,840 but it's not like I'm trying to beat around the bush 671 00:32:06,424 --> 00:32:08,134 or bullshit you. 672 00:32:08,217 --> 00:32:10,678 It takes me a while to process things. 673 00:32:11,346 --> 00:32:14,015 But I mean, like, with everything, like, I would not-- 674 00:32:14,098 --> 00:32:15,475 I would not try to lie to you. 675 00:32:16,768 --> 00:32:20,355 So I'm sorry that you feel that way. That's not what I was trying to do. 676 00:32:21,981 --> 00:32:24,067 But you, like, you lied about it. 677 00:32:27,236 --> 00:32:28,071 What do you mean? 678 00:32:28,154 --> 00:32:30,073 Like, the conversation wasn't even about money 679 00:32:30,156 --> 00:32:32,492 when I brought up the credit card thing. 680 00:32:32,575 --> 00:32:33,576 Mmm-hmm. 681 00:32:35,078 --> 00:32:38,373 And, like, you didn't say, you know, "There's something I need to tell you." 682 00:32:38,456 --> 00:32:40,291 "This is what's going on with me." 683 00:32:40,375 --> 00:32:42,502 It… It wasn't that. 684 00:32:42,585 --> 00:32:45,880 So now it's like, can I even trust what you're telling me now about it? 685 00:32:45,964 --> 00:32:47,715 [dramatic music continues] 686 00:32:47,799 --> 00:32:51,219 Like, I would think that would be more of an organic conversation. 687 00:32:51,302 --> 00:32:53,346 Like, "Yeah, there's a story behind that." 688 00:32:53,429 --> 00:32:56,099 If you know we're gonna get married, you know I'm gonna find that out. 689 00:33:00,687 --> 00:33:01,980 [softly] That scares me. 690 00:33:09,153 --> 00:33:12,115 Well, I definitely did not try to hide it from you. 691 00:33:12,991 --> 00:33:16,202 That's why I did tell you. Like, I wasn't trying to hide it. 692 00:33:16,285 --> 00:33:17,996 I think there was a lot of miscommunication. 693 00:33:18,079 --> 00:33:20,164 I think just things were taken the wrong way. 694 00:33:20,248 --> 00:33:24,544 Not if you take-- You took them in a way that I didn't mean it. 695 00:33:24,627 --> 00:33:26,004 You got upset. 696 00:33:27,797 --> 00:33:29,090 You were very heated. 697 00:33:30,174 --> 00:33:33,261 I want us both to feel reassured that we're still gonna fight. 698 00:33:33,344 --> 00:33:35,763 We are both scared. 699 00:33:45,732 --> 00:33:49,027 I don't want to feel like I'm walking on eggshells. 700 00:33:49,652 --> 00:33:53,948 I'm doing my best to tell you exactly how I feel, 701 00:33:54,032 --> 00:33:56,284 and I know it doesn't make sense, 702 00:33:56,367 --> 00:34:00,997 but it's just like, "You don't wanna make her upset or say something 703 00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,249 that might offend her, and you didn't mean it that way." 704 00:34:03,332 --> 00:34:04,917 That's just how I feel. 705 00:34:06,753 --> 00:34:09,172 I don't know where that fear comes in. 706 00:34:09,797 --> 00:34:13,426 Like, there are times where what you say are gonna upset me, 707 00:34:13,509 --> 00:34:16,554 or they're gonna make me mad. That's why it's hard to do. 708 00:34:16,637 --> 00:34:18,056 From the beginning, we've been like, 709 00:34:18,139 --> 00:34:21,601 "It's hard to do, but we're gonna do it, 'cause we know that we'll get through it." 710 00:34:21,684 --> 00:34:24,562 I feel like that was what we were doing for the first part of all of this. 711 00:34:26,606 --> 00:34:29,400 [clicks tongue] Again, it's not something I was trying to lie about 712 00:34:29,484 --> 00:34:32,695 because I would not have even told you. 713 00:34:32,779 --> 00:34:36,616 Did it cross your mind in that moment when we were at a gas station, 714 00:34:36,699 --> 00:34:39,243 like, "Do you have a credit card?" 715 00:34:39,744 --> 00:34:41,370 -No. Mmm-hmm. -You say no. 716 00:34:41,454 --> 00:34:45,083 And I ask why it didn't cross your mind to tell me why? 717 00:34:49,378 --> 00:34:51,672 Not in that moment, just because… 718 00:34:53,508 --> 00:34:55,635 if we're gonna have a conversation on the topic, 719 00:34:55,718 --> 00:34:59,013 I'd rather sit down formally and have a conversation. That's something huge. 720 00:34:59,097 --> 00:35:02,809 That's how I wanted to have that conversation as far as everything. 721 00:35:02,892 --> 00:35:05,978 We threw it out there. Debts, all that. 722 00:35:06,646 --> 00:35:09,148 And even now, like, I'm not in debt, all the stuff is paid. 723 00:35:09,232 --> 00:35:11,943 It's just… bad credit. 724 00:35:13,319 --> 00:35:15,029 It wasn't a lot of money. 725 00:35:15,863 --> 00:35:18,032 Like, in total, I wanna say everything was like… 726 00:35:19,575 --> 00:35:21,035 $3,500. 727 00:35:27,083 --> 00:35:28,167 You know me. 728 00:35:30,962 --> 00:35:32,797 Honestly, at this point, better than 729 00:35:34,298 --> 00:35:36,134 anyone, probably, besides my mom. 730 00:35:36,217 --> 00:35:40,596 -Hmm. -You know every emotion… I'm feeling. 731 00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:43,683 Just about every thought that's, like, going through my head. 732 00:35:51,315 --> 00:35:53,234 I fell in love with you because… 733 00:35:55,611 --> 00:35:58,114 you… fought for me. 734 00:35:59,907 --> 00:36:03,286 And I'm still… I still keep falling in love with you. 735 00:36:04,078 --> 00:36:05,955 That's why I feel sick to my stomach. 736 00:36:08,416 --> 00:36:12,295 I want to know that you have my back. 737 00:36:13,754 --> 00:36:15,673 I don't wanna lose you or us. 738 00:36:18,676 --> 00:36:21,762 -[Stacy] It's gonna be okay. -Oh, man. [sighs] 739 00:36:23,848 --> 00:36:24,765 [Stacy exclaims] 740 00:36:26,517 --> 00:36:27,560 [Izzy] I love you. 741 00:36:29,478 --> 00:36:30,646 [Stacy] I love you too. 742 00:36:34,150 --> 00:36:35,610 I feel like you smell. 743 00:36:37,111 --> 00:36:39,488 I feel like… [sighs] 744 00:36:39,572 --> 00:36:42,158 …we definitely should get you, um, 745 00:36:42,241 --> 00:36:43,159 some deodorant. 746 00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:45,328 [Stacy laughs] 747 00:36:45,411 --> 00:36:49,624 -["Electrify Me" playing] -♪ 'Cause I'm electrified by you ♪ 748 00:36:49,707 --> 00:36:53,044 ♪ When you first came close, I knew ♪ 749 00:36:53,127 --> 00:36:55,171 ♪ That I'm electrified… ♪ 750 00:36:55,254 --> 00:36:56,881 -[Milton] You excited? -Yeah. 751 00:36:57,715 --> 00:37:00,009 ♪ I'm electrified ♪ 752 00:37:00,885 --> 00:37:04,597 ♪ Sparks collide when you're around ♪ 753 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,307 I always feel very at home here. 754 00:37:06,807 --> 00:37:09,227 -Why is that? -I don't know. I like the minerals. 755 00:37:09,310 --> 00:37:11,979 -[Lydia] You're such a nerd. -[Milton] How am I such a nerd? 756 00:37:12,063 --> 00:37:15,024 Are you gonna tell me this isn't the best place in all of Houston? 757 00:37:15,524 --> 00:37:16,609 [Lydia] Ooh, look at that. 758 00:37:17,276 --> 00:37:19,362 -[Milton] I know, it's pretty. -[Lydia] It is pretty. 759 00:37:19,862 --> 00:37:22,615 -Oh, this is cute. -Look, that's my favorite. 760 00:37:23,115 --> 00:37:24,367 See the rhodochrosite? 761 00:37:24,992 --> 00:37:25,826 [Lydia] Yeah. 762 00:37:26,452 --> 00:37:28,704 This is really cute. 763 00:37:31,582 --> 00:37:33,251 This is really cute. 764 00:37:33,334 --> 00:37:35,461 [Milton] Isn't it super pretty here? It's so relaxing. 765 00:37:35,544 --> 00:37:38,339 It is relaxing, and it's gorgeous. 766 00:37:38,422 --> 00:37:40,216 I think this is really romantic. 767 00:37:41,175 --> 00:37:42,635 Remember our first date? 768 00:37:42,718 --> 00:37:45,680 We did connect over geology. 769 00:37:45,763 --> 00:37:47,723 Now I know it's just joking, 770 00:37:47,807 --> 00:37:49,934 but you're like, "You're gonna be my number first." 771 00:37:50,017 --> 00:37:51,560 I'm not gonna admit it. 772 00:37:53,354 --> 00:37:56,023 That's all I wrote on my journal. 773 00:37:58,317 --> 00:38:01,028 It's bizarre that we're here now, don't you think? 774 00:38:01,112 --> 00:38:01,946 Yeah. 775 00:38:03,072 --> 00:38:06,409 -How are you feeling about the wedding? -I'm excited. 776 00:38:06,492 --> 00:38:08,035 -[Lydia] You're excited? -You nervous? 777 00:38:09,453 --> 00:38:11,205 Hmm. Not really. 778 00:38:11,289 --> 00:38:13,499 I don't feel like I'll get nervous till, like, the day of. 779 00:38:13,582 --> 00:38:15,793 I'm gonna get really nervous the day of. 780 00:38:18,296 --> 00:38:20,339 -Thank you. -[waiter speaks indistinctly] 781 00:38:20,423 --> 00:38:22,008 [both] Thank you. 782 00:38:22,925 --> 00:38:24,385 God, I need somewhere to put my gum. 783 00:38:25,386 --> 00:38:27,013 [laughing] 784 00:38:28,014 --> 00:38:30,182 Do you have, like, a little receipt or something? 785 00:38:30,266 --> 00:38:31,267 [Milton] Mmm. 786 00:38:32,601 --> 00:38:35,354 [laughing] 787 00:38:35,438 --> 00:38:38,524 Stick it back in my pocket, and probably forget about it and wash it. 788 00:38:38,607 --> 00:38:40,609 [Lydia laughs] 789 00:38:41,569 --> 00:38:43,195 -Cheers. -Cheers. 790 00:38:50,619 --> 00:38:54,332 So, you never thought, "How will you like your wife to be?" 791 00:38:55,124 --> 00:38:56,876 I did, but, like… 792 00:38:58,669 --> 00:39:00,880 -Things are different. -How? 793 00:39:01,672 --> 00:39:04,467 Like, in the pods, like, you're not the exact same person. 794 00:39:05,926 --> 00:39:06,927 What do you mean? 795 00:39:07,428 --> 00:39:10,931 Sometimes you wake up very cranky for no reason. 796 00:39:11,849 --> 00:39:12,850 What do you mean? 797 00:39:12,933 --> 00:39:16,187 You wake up very upset sometimes. 798 00:39:17,980 --> 00:39:20,441 [chuckles] Because you have done something to make me upset. 799 00:39:20,524 --> 00:39:23,527 You just woke up 30 seconds ago. What could I have done that fast? 800 00:39:23,611 --> 00:39:25,571 There's a reason why I get upset. 801 00:39:30,534 --> 00:39:32,828 If you don't wanna do something, you don't do it. 802 00:39:34,288 --> 00:39:35,164 Not true. 803 00:39:36,874 --> 00:39:39,877 The other day, when I washed the dishes, did not wanna do it. 804 00:39:40,544 --> 00:39:42,922 Whenever I take out the trash, when I make up the bed. 805 00:39:43,005 --> 00:39:45,758 How long the dishes were there? How long? 806 00:39:45,841 --> 00:39:47,385 -For how many days? -About a day. 807 00:39:47,468 --> 00:39:48,427 No. 808 00:39:48,511 --> 00:39:49,595 -Day and a half? -No. 809 00:39:50,846 --> 00:39:53,349 -They were there for three days. -No, that is cap. 810 00:39:53,432 --> 00:39:54,392 That is not cap. 811 00:39:54,975 --> 00:39:58,312 The food besides your bed table, like, that was there for three days. 812 00:39:58,396 --> 00:40:00,398 I don't even know it was by my bed. 813 00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:03,150 Dude, it's right there. 814 00:40:03,234 --> 00:40:04,944 You told me that you were not a messy person. 815 00:40:05,027 --> 00:40:07,363 -And that is exactly what I'm seeing. -No, that is not true. 816 00:40:07,446 --> 00:40:10,157 -Yes. You told me-- -I told you, like, I'm not organized. 817 00:40:11,242 --> 00:40:15,121 All the time, your freaking clothes are on the floor. 818 00:40:15,204 --> 00:40:17,415 -All the single time. -At least they're in the corner. 819 00:40:19,917 --> 00:40:22,044 I try my best. I can try harder though. 820 00:40:22,128 --> 00:40:24,880 If this is you trying your best, then I'm concerned. 821 00:40:25,381 --> 00:40:29,635 Dude, like, I don't wanna have to keep repeating myself and be like, 822 00:40:29,718 --> 00:40:32,513 "Clean the room. Please clean after you." 823 00:40:32,596 --> 00:40:34,390 How many times I've told you this? 824 00:40:34,473 --> 00:40:37,309 How often do I, like, take a shower, go back, I'm like, 825 00:40:37,393 --> 00:40:39,603 "Oh, I didn't hang up my towel. I need to go back." 826 00:40:39,687 --> 00:40:41,063 Every single time. 827 00:40:42,314 --> 00:40:46,068 I just wanna see that you really take me seriously. 828 00:40:46,152 --> 00:40:49,989 I came to this experiment to be loved by genuinely me. 829 00:40:50,948 --> 00:40:52,741 And I do believe you love me. 830 00:40:52,825 --> 00:40:55,453 I have no doubts in that concern. 831 00:40:56,996 --> 00:40:59,248 I guess I'm at the point I'm like… 832 00:41:00,374 --> 00:41:02,126 "Is he really gonna, like… 833 00:41:03,294 --> 00:41:06,338 take it seriously, and things that upset me, 834 00:41:06,422 --> 00:41:08,674 he's gonna take into consideration?" 835 00:41:09,550 --> 00:41:14,054 For you, it's silly about the clothes and towels and all that stuff, things. 836 00:41:14,138 --> 00:41:15,848 For me, that upsets me. 837 00:41:15,931 --> 00:41:19,560 You don't think I like compromising with you when I don't want to? 838 00:41:19,643 --> 00:41:20,644 What do you mean? 839 00:41:21,645 --> 00:41:24,607 Let's go back to the whole situation that we talked about earlier. 840 00:41:25,232 --> 00:41:27,985 When I told you I didn't like the way you handled things, 841 00:41:28,068 --> 00:41:29,695 and you felt like I was judging you. 842 00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:35,576 Like, I don't feel like I can tell you, like, honestly how I feel a lot, 843 00:41:35,659 --> 00:41:39,163 because, like, you are so, like… emotional. 844 00:41:39,246 --> 00:41:42,291 Which isn't, like, a bad thing, but it's like, I don't wanna feel like, 845 00:41:43,626 --> 00:41:45,961 "Oh, my God, Lydia's gonna take this the wrong way." 846 00:41:46,045 --> 00:41:48,923 I have to really watch my words. You know? 847 00:41:50,299 --> 00:41:55,513 You think because the people do things differently, they're in the wrong. 848 00:41:55,596 --> 00:41:57,973 I never told you you were in the wrong. I never said-- 849 00:41:58,057 --> 00:42:00,059 You don't say it, but you act like it. 850 00:42:00,142 --> 00:42:02,311 Lydia, I wasn't judging you. But, like… 851 00:42:03,229 --> 00:42:06,815 Yeah, like, I didn't 100% like the way you handled that situation. 852 00:42:07,399 --> 00:42:08,943 At all. That's the truth. 853 00:42:09,026 --> 00:42:11,070 Like, I hope it doesn't hurt your feelings. 854 00:42:11,153 --> 00:42:12,530 I'm not judging you. 855 00:42:12,613 --> 00:42:15,324 I didn't like it. I would have handled it differently. 856 00:42:16,033 --> 00:42:17,034 [sniffs] 857 00:42:17,117 --> 00:42:19,119 [pensive music playing] 858 00:42:21,497 --> 00:42:22,706 Are you upset at me? 859 00:42:28,379 --> 00:42:29,838 This is the first time that you said, 860 00:42:29,922 --> 00:42:32,049 "I didn't like the way you handled things." 861 00:42:33,717 --> 00:42:35,302 -I'm sorry. -[Lydia clears throat] 862 00:42:35,386 --> 00:42:39,848 And that conveys to the… "Oh, I prefer someone more levelheaded." 863 00:42:41,100 --> 00:42:43,852 I'm so damn proud of how I handled that situation, 864 00:42:43,936 --> 00:42:45,563 'cause I was not gonna sit there 865 00:42:45,646 --> 00:42:48,857 and let him speak this bullshit that he was speaking. 866 00:42:49,900 --> 00:42:52,570 -And then I just have to-- -Then leave. You could have left. 867 00:42:52,653 --> 00:42:54,446 That's what I did. Twice. 868 00:42:54,530 --> 00:42:57,783 See? You don't leave twice. Like, when you leave, you're gone. 869 00:42:57,866 --> 00:42:59,285 You were nowhere to be found. 870 00:42:59,368 --> 00:43:02,288 If I ran into anybody in my past and they started popping off, 871 00:43:02,371 --> 00:43:05,374 and we had a situation, dude, I don't do that. 872 00:43:05,958 --> 00:43:10,004 I know it's not easy to, like, be able to, like, control your emotions like I do. 873 00:43:10,087 --> 00:43:12,631 Oh, my God, I hate that fucking phrase. I fucking hate it. 874 00:43:12,715 --> 00:43:14,967 It's like, "You don't control your emotions, Lydia." 875 00:43:15,050 --> 00:43:16,594 "You don't react the way that you do." 876 00:43:16,677 --> 00:43:19,972 Like, what the hell? Like, of course, it's gonna affect me. 877 00:43:20,639 --> 00:43:25,728 I wasted so much of my precious time on someone who did not deserve it. 878 00:43:26,353 --> 00:43:29,189 -Who cares? Why are you looking back? -Of course I was gonna be upset. 879 00:43:31,150 --> 00:43:33,402 I'm sorry that you don't have the emotions, 880 00:43:33,485 --> 00:43:35,362 and you don't react the way the same I do. 881 00:43:36,196 --> 00:43:37,865 You think I don't have emotions? 882 00:43:40,618 --> 00:43:41,785 Hmm? 883 00:43:45,623 --> 00:43:47,666 Instead of understanding where I'm coming from, 884 00:43:47,750 --> 00:43:50,336 you're like, "Who cares? Why would you do that?" 885 00:43:50,836 --> 00:43:52,463 And that's not being judged? 886 00:43:53,172 --> 00:43:56,425 Lydia, if I was judging you for that situation, I would have left. 887 00:43:57,259 --> 00:43:59,511 I wouldn't be here right now with you today. 888 00:44:00,554 --> 00:44:03,557 But I should, like, be allowed to, like, be honest with you. 889 00:44:05,184 --> 00:44:07,061 You don't have to agree with the terms that I… 890 00:44:07,144 --> 00:44:09,563 -You just have to support me. -Did I not support you? 891 00:44:11,190 --> 00:44:15,235 You did, but now what I'm hearing is, like, it's like having a finger down, 892 00:44:15,319 --> 00:44:17,279 like, "You should have done better." 893 00:44:17,363 --> 00:44:19,531 I'm not pointing a finger at you. 894 00:44:19,615 --> 00:44:22,284 The same way you're getting on my ass about, like, picking up my towel 895 00:44:22,368 --> 00:44:23,744 when I get out of the shower, 896 00:44:23,827 --> 00:44:26,163 I'm not like, "Oh, my God, she's judging me." 897 00:44:26,246 --> 00:44:27,748 I'm just like, "All right, cool." 898 00:44:28,832 --> 00:44:31,126 I'm listening to you, but I feel like you don't listen to me 899 00:44:31,210 --> 00:44:33,253 when I, like, notice something. 900 00:44:33,337 --> 00:44:36,048 It's like you automatically go into defense. 901 00:44:36,131 --> 00:44:38,133 [dark music playing] 902 00:44:40,219 --> 00:44:42,721 [exhales] I know this is gonna be bad. 903 00:44:45,808 --> 00:44:46,975 I don't listen to you? 904 00:44:48,769 --> 00:44:50,604 No. You don't. 905 00:44:50,688 --> 00:44:53,732 Not when I, like, give you, like, encouragement about something. 906 00:44:53,816 --> 00:44:57,319 Lydia, literally everything I do is, like, look out for you. 907 00:45:00,614 --> 00:45:04,284 It's a nice date. We're here. Like, why do we have to argue? 908 00:45:04,368 --> 00:45:06,245 We're not arguing. We're having a disagreement. 909 00:45:06,328 --> 00:45:07,204 There's a difference. 910 00:45:07,871 --> 00:45:10,749 Okay, an argument or disagreement, like, I hate having them. 911 00:45:10,833 --> 00:45:12,626 -Like-- -Do you think I like them? 912 00:45:14,420 --> 00:45:15,629 I don't know. 913 00:45:15,713 --> 00:45:18,382 -[dramatic note plays] -[scoffs] 914 00:45:19,842 --> 00:45:21,051 Then you don't know me. 915 00:45:23,011 --> 00:45:25,305 I know I don't always feel super comfortable telling you 916 00:45:25,389 --> 00:45:27,391 how I, like, feel about certain things. 917 00:45:27,474 --> 00:45:29,935 You know, when people disrespect me, 918 00:45:30,018 --> 00:45:33,188 I understand in life that, like, you're gonna get disrespected, 919 00:45:34,273 --> 00:45:37,443 and it's not really about, like, protecting your "respect." 920 00:45:37,526 --> 00:45:41,071 It's all about… the next steps after. 921 00:45:41,155 --> 00:45:45,033 Somebody disrespects me, I show them who the fuck I am based on my actions. 922 00:45:45,117 --> 00:45:47,411 Not on what I tell them. Not how I yell at them. 923 00:45:47,494 --> 00:45:48,871 Not about how emotional I get. 924 00:45:48,954 --> 00:45:51,999 When you're acting emotional, where does that get us? You know? 925 00:45:52,082 --> 00:45:53,834 Where does that get you in life? 926 00:45:53,917 --> 00:45:57,171 -If somebody disrespects me-- -This has gotten me where I am today. 927 00:45:57,254 --> 00:45:58,756 It has gotten me where I am today. 928 00:46:00,466 --> 00:46:02,843 All I'm saying is we handle things very differently. 929 00:46:02,926 --> 00:46:05,262 And that's okay. We're two individual people. 930 00:46:05,345 --> 00:46:07,723 -We have raised different. -So what happens when we have kids? 931 00:46:08,932 --> 00:46:14,229 I wanna teach my kids to, like, learn that shit's gonna, like, be bad sometimes. 932 00:46:14,313 --> 00:46:16,899 Shit's gonna be rough, but I don't want them 933 00:46:16,982 --> 00:46:20,277 to ever give anyone that privilege of, like, letting them know, like-- 934 00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:22,279 If we'd had that same situation with my ex, 935 00:46:23,614 --> 00:46:25,491 I just think we handle things very differently. 936 00:46:25,574 --> 00:46:26,617 That's all I'm gonna say. 937 00:46:26,700 --> 00:46:29,787 Like when you wanna go talk to her about some stuff? 938 00:46:29,870 --> 00:46:31,955 Yeah, if I go talk to her, I'm not gonna cuss her out. 939 00:46:32,039 --> 00:46:33,749 I'm not gonna fight. I'm not gonna scream. 940 00:46:33,832 --> 00:46:37,252 If she acts belligerent, I'll leave, and I say, like, "Hey, I'm done." 941 00:46:37,336 --> 00:46:39,755 -I don't, like, leave and then come-- -Did I cuss to Uche? 942 00:46:39,838 --> 00:46:41,215 I did not cuss at him. 943 00:46:41,715 --> 00:46:46,011 I don't cry or say, "You're an asshole. You're a piece of shit." Like-- 944 00:46:46,094 --> 00:46:47,721 I didn't say that to his face. 945 00:46:47,805 --> 00:46:50,140 I was, like, trying to convey that to you 946 00:46:50,224 --> 00:46:53,101 and explain how I was feeling in that moment. 947 00:46:53,185 --> 00:46:54,603 And by the way, he is. 948 00:46:55,187 --> 00:46:57,481 Thank you for telling me for the millionth time. 949 00:46:57,564 --> 00:47:00,234 -[dark music playing] -I'm not-- I'm-- No. 950 00:47:00,317 --> 00:47:01,735 I am… Mmm. 951 00:47:02,903 --> 00:47:05,030 I need a minute. I need a minute. 952 00:47:07,032 --> 00:47:09,910 [dark music continues] 953 00:47:20,128 --> 00:47:21,463 [Lydia sniffling] 954 00:47:39,481 --> 00:47:41,650 [sniffling and stifling tears] 955 00:47:51,618 --> 00:47:52,870 [Lydia sniffles] 956 00:47:52,953 --> 00:47:54,955 [somber music playing] 957 00:48:12,806 --> 00:48:13,724 [sniffles] 958 00:48:26,069 --> 00:48:27,821 I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings. 959 00:48:30,073 --> 00:48:32,451 [sniffles and clears throat] 960 00:48:36,705 --> 00:48:40,208 I'm sorry that I don't abide by your expectations. 961 00:48:42,294 --> 00:48:43,879 I would never put expectations on you. 962 00:48:45,797 --> 00:48:46,965 It sounds like you did. 963 00:48:49,426 --> 00:48:52,638 All I wanted to tell you is, like, an example of, like, 964 00:48:53,138 --> 00:48:55,557 a time that I didn't feel, like, comfortable. 965 00:48:56,058 --> 00:48:58,769 -Which is my own fault. -Do you think that I felt comfortable? 966 00:48:59,436 --> 00:49:04,149 Do you feel that I felt comfortable being called a crazy stalker? 967 00:49:04,232 --> 00:49:05,317 Of course not. 968 00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:07,903 You're saying that you didn't put an expectation on me, 969 00:49:07,986 --> 00:49:10,322 but yet again you're pointing fingers 970 00:49:10,405 --> 00:49:13,200 at how I handled that particular situation. 971 00:49:13,283 --> 00:49:15,452 Why does it even matter? 972 00:49:15,535 --> 00:49:18,455 You went ahead and did whatever you wanted to do. 973 00:49:24,670 --> 00:49:28,131 And I'm sorry that I've done things that you don't like. 974 00:49:31,426 --> 00:49:32,469 But that's me. 975 00:49:34,763 --> 00:49:35,806 This is me. 976 00:49:36,598 --> 00:49:38,600 [downbeat music playing] 977 00:49:40,352 --> 00:49:41,937 I feel a lot. I am loud. 978 00:49:42,020 --> 00:49:44,898 I am passionate. I'm emotional. 979 00:49:46,984 --> 00:49:50,737 God forbid, what my mind doesn't say, my face is gonna say. 980 00:49:52,614 --> 00:49:53,991 And I wanna stand by you 981 00:49:54,074 --> 00:49:57,828 to support you in any decision that you wanna do. 982 00:49:58,620 --> 00:50:00,539 But I need you to understand me. 983 00:50:04,084 --> 00:50:05,002 [sniffs] 984 00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:16,680 This is not how I thought this night was gonna go. 985 00:50:17,222 --> 00:50:19,474 -[downbeat music continues] -♪ Temptation ♪ 986 00:50:20,392 --> 00:50:23,145 ♪ Am I forsaken… ♪ 987 00:50:23,228 --> 00:50:24,396 [Lydia] I love you. 988 00:50:24,479 --> 00:50:26,940 ♪ Feeding pain with these… ♪ 989 00:50:27,024 --> 00:50:28,233 [Milton] I love you too. 990 00:50:30,736 --> 00:50:34,156 ♪ There's a thorn in my side… ♪ 991 00:50:36,116 --> 00:50:37,075 We got this, right? 992 00:50:37,159 --> 00:50:40,620 ♪ Will it fade over time? ♪ 993 00:50:46,209 --> 00:50:49,212 -[church bell tolls] -[dramatic music playing] 994 00:50:50,297 --> 00:50:51,882 [officiant] We are gathered here today 995 00:50:51,965 --> 00:50:54,843 to celebrate one of life's greatest moments. 996 00:50:54,926 --> 00:50:55,844 It's gorgeous. 997 00:50:55,927 --> 00:50:58,055 -[bell tolls] -We've been a team. I love him. 998 00:50:58,138 --> 00:50:59,389 Oh, I know you do. 999 00:50:59,473 --> 00:51:00,932 That's my girl. I love her. 1000 00:51:01,016 --> 00:51:04,519 [officiant] You fell in love with each other based on who you are on the inside. 1001 00:51:04,603 --> 00:51:07,606 [Milton] So Lydia's greatest strength is one of her weaknesses. 1002 00:51:07,689 --> 00:51:10,776 It was our last date. He judged me, and that was hurting me. 1003 00:51:10,859 --> 00:51:11,818 [Stacy] I can't breathe. 1004 00:51:11,902 --> 00:51:14,613 -It just started to kinda hit me now. -Have you thought this through? 1005 00:51:14,696 --> 00:51:15,781 -[exhales] -[bell tolls] 1006 00:51:15,864 --> 00:51:17,449 Oh, my God. 1007 00:51:17,532 --> 00:51:19,576 I didn't write my vows yet. 1008 00:51:19,659 --> 00:51:21,536 Go big or go home. 1009 00:51:21,620 --> 00:51:23,371 -Please rise. -[bell tolls] 1010 00:51:24,289 --> 00:51:27,125 [officiant] Now's the time to decide if love is blind. 1011 00:51:27,209 --> 00:51:30,670 [Stacy crying] This whole thing has been like a freaking hurricane. 1012 00:51:30,754 --> 00:51:32,506 And you're the calm in the storm. 1013 00:51:32,589 --> 00:51:36,093 [officiant] Milton, do you take Lydia to be your wife? 1014 00:51:36,635 --> 00:51:40,388 -[dramatic music continues] -♪ Follow me into a daydream ♪ 1015 00:51:41,014 --> 00:51:43,517 -[Izzy] I wanna be loved the way I love. -[woman crying] Oh, God. 1016 00:51:44,434 --> 00:51:46,144 [Lydia crying] What am I doing wrong? 1017 00:51:46,228 --> 00:51:51,733 ♪ Now's the time to say we are forever ♪ 1018 00:51:51,817 --> 00:51:54,861 ♪ Together ♪ 1019 00:51:57,656 --> 00:52:00,617 ["Careful What You Wish For" by Nineoneone playing] 1020 00:52:04,704 --> 00:52:07,374 ♪ Careful what you wish for ♪ 1021 00:52:11,795 --> 00:52:14,631 ♪ Careful what you wish for ♪ 1022 00:52:18,718 --> 00:52:22,639 ♪ Careful what you wish for ♪ 1023 00:52:30,730 --> 00:52:33,692 ♪ Careful what you wish for ♪