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Welcome to <i>Love Is Blind.</i>

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[all cheering]

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[Nick] Here you will choose someone
to marry without ever seeing them.

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It is baffling
to have the feelings I have for you

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and genuinely care about you.

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[laughs] I'm so excited.

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[Nick] If you fall in love with someone
and wanna spend your life with them,

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you'll get engaged.

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-You gonna be my Puerto Rican wife?
-Yes, I will be your Puerto Rican wife!

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-[both laughing]
-[upbeat music playing]

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[Vanessa] And if they accept,
you'll finally see your fiancée

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for the very first time.

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-[Stacy] Hi!
-[Izzy exclaims]

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-[Milton] Hey.
-[Lydia] Oh, my God!

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You're really pretty.

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<i>♪ Everything is all right... ♪</i>

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[Nick] Up until now,

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your attraction's been based entirely
in an emotional connection.

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I love you.

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[Vanessa] Hopefully, you turn that
emotional connection into a physical one.

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[Milton] There was a little bit
of sexual tension in the pods,

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but then when you can actually see them
and look at one another, and like,

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"Okay, we're gonna go there."

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[Vanessa] Will they let the pressures
of the physical world get in the way?

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[Taylor] You're not
the person I fell in love with.

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I'm done.

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["Make This End" by Henry O'Marks
& David Connolly playing]

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So, you have no dishes?

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[Izzy] No.

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You make me feel
like I'm not enough for you.

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[Rita] Yeah, I was just curious
what someone 30

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would be interested in a 24-year-old.

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It's phony.

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This is such a major step,

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you figure you wanna make sure
this is the one.

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You took a picture of my house
and you sent it to me!

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-You said, "I see you."
-I ain't gonna deal with this shit.

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This is the last time
you will see my fucking face!

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[Nick] Will you say "I do" to the person
you fall in love with sight unseen?

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I'm madly in love with you.

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Look at my little hand. You wanna hold it?

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I know that you love me, and I love you.

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100%.

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[Nick] Or will you walk
away from them forever?

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In the pods, talking about finances,
"Anything I need to know?"

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You're like, "Absolutely not."

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That wasn't totally truthful.

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It's not something
I was trying to lie about.

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You know me better than anyone.

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I don't wanna lose you or us.

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["I Am the Truth"
by Shillingford and Evans playing]

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I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings.

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I'm sorry I've done things
that you don't like.

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<i>♪ I am the truth ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Never tell a lie... ♪</i>

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We got this, right?

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<i>♪ Bless my heart and hope to die ♪</i>

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["The Rest of My Life"
by Positive Spin Songs playing]

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<i>♪ Let me just start with that ♪</i>

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<i>♪ You better get used to it ♪</i>

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<i>♪ 'Cause it's how I feel about you ♪</i>

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<i>♪ You're my best friend ♪</i>

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<i>♪ There through thick and thin... ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Yeah, it's a big cliché... ♪</i>

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-[Stacy] Thank you so much.
<i>-♪ It's just the way I feel about you ♪</i>

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<i>♪ I will love you ♪</i>

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<i>♪ For the rest of my life ♪</i>

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<i>♪ The rest of my life ♪</i>

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[Stacy] I never thought
I'd fall in love with someone that fast.

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It wasn't necessarily
about never seeing them.

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I'm like, looks don't really
matter to me, but...

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{\an8}[exhales]... I guess how fast
I fell in love with him

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{\an8}was the most shocking part.

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In a week. Maybe less.

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<i>♪ Even if I have to shout I love you... ♪</i>

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Oh...

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That is shocking.

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But I did.

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[Stacy] You make me feel
like my lungs and my heart

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are fighting against each other.

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Like my breath can't keep up
with my heart rate anytime I'm around you

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or just thinking about you.

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That's how I feel right now.

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I feel like this is home,
and I feel like this is where I belong.

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Will you marry me?

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-Yes!
-Fuck yeah, baby! [laughs]

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-You have really pretty lips.
-[laughing]

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[Izzy] This is what I've been waiting for.

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[both laughing]

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The most romantic thing
anyone's ever gotten me!

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[Izzy] I love you.

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I know he's the one,

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because, for me, I'm like, if that person
comes along that changes my life,

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and I can't live,
breathe, eat, sleep without them,

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I will do anything for them.

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[voice breaks] And I see that
with him every day.

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I love Izzy. He's amazing.

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He's kind, and thoughtful,
and giving, and strong.

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He's vulnerable.

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He is... His name's Izzy. Ismael.

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-He's so exotic. He's so hot.
-[man] Yes?

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He's a big old chunk of meat.

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And how did you...

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[laughing] Don't ask me how I met him.
Don't you dare ask me how I met him!

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[Chelsea] Little Stacy Loo!

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I hear Chelsea!

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-[Chelsea] Hello, Sister Soo!
-[Stacy] Hi!

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[Chelsea] Where's your other sisters?

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-[Stacy] Part one of wedding day!
-[all cheering]

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[Sloan] It's your wedding day!

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Pop the champagne,
she's changing her last name.

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-Boom, boom.
-[man laughing]

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[Sloan] Got your robe ready
whenever you're ready.

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-[Stacy] Okay, can I throw that on?
-[man] Yes, of course.

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[Stacy] Okay.

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I just don't wanna sit in all black.
I feel like it's bad luck.

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I didn't realize I was wearing all black.

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[Sloan] Mom's dress is black too.

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-She's not the one getting married.
-[Sloan] That's true.

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[both laughing]

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[Stacy] She wore it at your wedding,
look what happened!

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{\an8}-[Sloan] True, all success.
-[Stacy] She's good luck.

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{\an8}Success stories with that dress.
We're just gonna keep it going.

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Boop-boop.

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-["Lifting Me Up" playing]
-<i>♪ Lifting me up ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Lifting me up ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Lifting me up ♪</i>

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Thank you.

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{\an8}[Izzy] They say when you fall in love,

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{\an8}it'll happen, like,
when you least expect it.

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Through the other side of the wall,

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and boom, just hit like a train.

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She knew everything about me.

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She challenges me to be better.

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I mean, she's fun. She's loud.

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What's up? What's up? [laughing]

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-[man] Oh!
-God, it's so good to see you.

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She's tough to crack,
but when you break those walls down,

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she's very tender, and sweet, and kind.

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Being in love with Stacy has been a ride.

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A crazy ride, um, but there's no one else
that I would wanna do it with.

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Y'all want drinks? Here's y'all's tuxes.

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Dude, I'm cracking up
at the size difference of you and mine.

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-[man 1] That's you. That's me.
-[man 2] Nick, yeah. Zach.

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[Izzy sighs] Oh, dude.

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{\an8}I got so much to fill y'all in on.

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{\an8}-Oh, yeah?
-Oh, yeah.

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[friends laughing]

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From just the last 48 hours or what?

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Yeah, I was a wreck last night.

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{\an8}[Izzy] I didn't think that my credit score
was gonna be that big of a deal,

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so I wasn't, like, afraid to tell her.

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I'm a man of integrity.
The strong rock. The cool, calm guy.

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And she finally saw me
just kind of lose it, you know.

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When you love someone
and that emotional connection is there,

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like, love has no credit score.

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Love has no price tag.

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Love has no timeline.

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Honestly, like, we have
really good communication.

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Um, anytime problems would come up,
yeah, I would get frustrated.

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We would have arguments.

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It was never, like,
anything toxic or crazy,

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and we'd always,
like, fix it and move on. [exhales]

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Everything was good, but it's just,
like, in the last two or three days,

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I felt her stress.

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-[Nick] Dude, I felt your stress.
-[Zach] You're stressed, dude!

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Homestretch, 48 hours. Yeah.

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[Izzy] That's how I know I love her.
Like, I was lost, like, going through it.

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Um, and she was too.

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We told each other, like, we need space.

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Like, you need to process this shit
for yourself.

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I need to process it.
But that's my girl. I love her.

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-I'mma hold you to that too.
-[laughs] You'll be next to me up there.

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I've known you your whole life,
and you've been through some stuff, so...

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-It's just another...
-[Izzy] Yeah.

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You're one of the strongest people I know.

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[Izzy sighs heavily]

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And I don't care about
whatever drama goes on outside.

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I don't care about money.

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I don't care about... anything.

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She always said that she needs
someone that can stick around

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when shit's hitting the fan.

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Um, that doesn't run away.

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So, I'm gonna keep fighting.

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It's...

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It's what you do when you love someone.

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-[all laughing]
-Honestly, I'm so glad you guys are here.

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I'm going up, I'm saying yes.

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[uplifting music playing]

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[Sloan] What is your hair vibe?
What are you going for?

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Just down, simple.

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All of it's very simple,
'cause my dress is not.

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You look stunning.

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This has been
the most emotionally and mentally

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{\an8}challenging thing I've ever been through.

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{\an8}And then you also have the best things
in your life happening at the same time.

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So it's just like a... [breathing raggedly]

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It's like emotional hiccups.

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We've been through so much,

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{\an8}and there's the things
that we figure out that are so amazing,

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{\an8}and then things that are not so amazing,
and both are surprises.

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I've seen myself marrying him,

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but on my wedding day,

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I wanna be laser-focused, 100%,

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like I was in the pods.

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I've definitely never seen you
ask the hard questions this fast.

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-[Chelsea] Right.
-I love asking Izzy the hard questions.

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Sometimes, he has a surprised face,

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and other times,
he's very excited to answer,

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but I just love catching him off guard,
where he's like...

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Izzy and I are so different.

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We have very different
experiences in life,

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and he has a lot of things
that he hasn't done that maybe I have.

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I mean, he just got his passport.

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His favorite restaurant
I think is Chipotle. I'm like...

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I feel like that's a guy thing.

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-[Stacy] It definitely is!
-Maybe not these guys.

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-Ray is a habit eater.
-[Stacy] I love Chipotle.

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[Sloan] He's also,
like, he works out a lot.

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I feel like guys like Chipotle
'cause it's the rice.

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-The protein, the veggies.
-[Stacy] I know. Sloan, I'm well aware.

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[Sloan] They don't
have to do it themselves.

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"What about Peruvian food? Have you ever
gone to a Mediterranean restaurant?"

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Like, he doesn't know what to order.

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Well, you're like the girl
with the hip spots.

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It's just funny.

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I love Izzy.
I think that he's a sweet guy.

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I could see him easily
fitting in with this family.

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Seeing you guys together,

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you do have a very fun,
funny relationship.

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Like, you make each other laugh,
and I think he would work really well

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in our family.

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I just transitioned

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from going with my head and logic
to going with my heart.

235
00:10:17,742 --> 00:10:20,161
-And today you have to go with your gut.
-[Stacy] Mmm-hmm.

236
00:10:20,995 --> 00:10:23,373
[Chelsea] But I like that you've gotten
out of your head.

237
00:10:23,456 --> 00:10:24,666
Yeah, I do too.

238
00:10:24,749 --> 00:10:28,169
I was just always afraid of getting hurt
or being so wrong about someone

239
00:10:28,253 --> 00:10:30,588
and letting that wall down
to just get hurt again. So it's...

240
00:10:30,672 --> 00:10:32,966
-It's kind of liberating.
-[Sloan] We've talked about that.

241
00:10:33,049 --> 00:10:36,010
I feel like you didn't wanna be
scared anymore to trust somebody.

242
00:10:36,094 --> 00:10:38,221
Yeah, but I just couldn't get there.
[chuckles]

243
00:10:38,304 --> 00:10:42,392
It's like, I knew the issue, but I'm like,
"I think that's just a part of me now."

244
00:10:42,475 --> 00:10:44,686
But now it's like,
"Okay, maybe that wasn't a part of me."

245
00:10:44,769 --> 00:10:47,772
-"Maybe I just needed to through..."
-[Sloan] That's what I wanted for you.

246
00:10:47,856 --> 00:10:50,984
I don't want you to think that
that's a part of who you are. I think you...

247
00:10:51,067 --> 00:10:55,655
I think you meet people that make you
change what you thought was who you were.

248
00:10:55,738 --> 00:10:59,325
Yeah. I didn't think that was possible.
I didn't think that was a thing.

249
00:10:59,409 --> 00:11:02,328
-'Cause I know everything. [laughing]
-[Sloan] Right? Yeah!

250
00:11:02,412 --> 00:11:05,248
I mean, who's gonna teach me anything
when I know it all? Guys!

251
00:11:05,331 --> 00:11:07,292
[laughing]

252
00:11:09,586 --> 00:11:12,672
I'm glad y'all are here,
'cause when I'm by myself, I fucking...

253
00:11:12,755 --> 00:11:14,465
-[Zach] Get in your head?
-I get in my head.

254
00:11:14,549 --> 00:11:18,511
And I start, like, just thinking
the worst versus being more optimistic

255
00:11:18,595 --> 00:11:20,180
and looking at the brighter side.

256
00:11:20,263 --> 00:11:23,725
You gotta think about, like, nerves,
when somebody's nervous about something,

257
00:11:23,808 --> 00:11:25,560
that usually means, like, they care.

258
00:11:25,643 --> 00:11:27,770
Know what I mean?
Like when we played baseball.

259
00:11:27,854 --> 00:11:30,398
You were nervous before a game,
it's 'cause you cared about it.

260
00:11:30,481 --> 00:11:33,234
Yeah. Something that she had told me
in the pods was like,

261
00:11:33,318 --> 00:11:37,155
"I need a man who's gonna stick
through shit when shit's hitting the fan,

262
00:11:37,238 --> 00:11:39,407
not run away." Um...

263
00:11:41,075 --> 00:11:42,744
-Yeah.
-So, you're saying she wants a man?

264
00:11:42,827 --> 00:11:45,705
-Exactly. And I'm that fucking man.
-[Nick] Yeah.

265
00:11:46,539 --> 00:11:48,708
-There you go.
-[Zach laughs] Attaboy! Attaboy! Yeah!

266
00:11:50,126 --> 00:11:52,921
{\an8}So, how are you feeling this morning?

267
00:11:53,963 --> 00:11:57,008
{\an8}I don't know. It's weird.
I woke up feeling very calm.

268
00:11:57,508 --> 00:12:00,470
-Mmm-hmm. That's good.
-Which is not how I felt yesterday.

269
00:12:00,553 --> 00:12:03,598
I felt very anxious yesterday
and stressed out.

270
00:12:04,182 --> 00:12:06,851
You got a lot going on. [exhales]

271
00:12:06,935 --> 00:12:13,066
The most anxiety-driving part
is, like, feeling like I didn't

272
00:12:14,359 --> 00:12:17,904
get all of the information
that I should have gotten

273
00:12:17,987 --> 00:12:20,782
when it was already brought up
several times.

274
00:12:20,865 --> 00:12:22,367
-It made me doubt him.
-Mmm-hmm.

275
00:12:22,450 --> 00:12:24,786
-It's not about the credit card.
-[Tracy] Second guessing.

276
00:12:24,869 --> 00:12:26,955
It's about being totally transparent

277
00:12:27,038 --> 00:12:30,250
in a time where transparency
is absolutely needed.

278
00:12:31,167 --> 00:12:34,712
I mean, it's that half glass empty
versus half glass full, where he's like,

279
00:12:34,796 --> 00:12:36,714
"If I wanted to lie,
I never would've told you."

280
00:12:36,798 --> 00:12:39,968
I'm like, "If you wanted to be honest
with me, you would've told me sooner."

281
00:12:40,051 --> 00:12:42,136
And when I try to explain that to him,

282
00:12:43,721 --> 00:12:45,556
he's like, "You're all about money."

283
00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:47,809
And I'm like,
"I'm not talking about money."

284
00:12:47,892 --> 00:12:51,187
"I'm talking about honesty, trust."

285
00:12:51,271 --> 00:12:55,858
I had red flags, and I ignored them
because I thought I was so in love.

286
00:12:55,942 --> 00:12:57,068
[Stacy] Mmm-hmm.

287
00:12:57,151 --> 00:12:59,112
I would never ignore red flags,

288
00:12:59,779 --> 00:13:03,574
and I don't want you
to maybe blow something out of proportion

289
00:13:03,658 --> 00:13:07,203
that maybe isn't as big a thing.

290
00:13:09,622 --> 00:13:11,958
Do you feel like he's told you everything?

291
00:13:12,041 --> 00:13:15,169
I feel like there's all these
different voices in my head of, like,

292
00:13:15,253 --> 00:13:19,382
"But he has" and "I have," like,
"I'm showing you," and it's like...

293
00:13:19,966 --> 00:13:22,969
"And I'm fighting for you and..."
Yeah, you are, but...

294
00:13:25,430 --> 00:13:27,849
-I do care about him.
-Oh, I know you do.

295
00:13:29,058 --> 00:13:30,977
And I know he cares about you,

296
00:13:31,060 --> 00:13:33,313
and you're very good together.

297
00:13:34,272 --> 00:13:39,694
I know this is so difficult,
but he wants it really bad.

298
00:13:39,777 --> 00:13:41,112
And I think you want it.

299
00:13:42,238 --> 00:13:43,072
Yeah.

300
00:13:44,073 --> 00:13:45,491
I'm sure when you get up there,

301
00:13:45,575 --> 00:13:48,745
you'll either feel like,
"I'm gonna take this leap of faith,"

302
00:13:48,828 --> 00:13:51,039
or "I can't do it."

303
00:13:51,539 --> 00:13:53,958
You know, you'll know talking to him.

304
00:13:54,459 --> 00:13:56,085
So, if you say no today,

305
00:13:57,170 --> 00:14:01,758
are you willing to lose Izzy forever?

306
00:14:01,841 --> 00:14:03,801
["One Last Breath"
by Martin Buster playing]

307
00:14:03,885 --> 00:14:06,137
<i>♪ Love throws you a bone ♪</i>

308
00:14:06,220 --> 00:14:10,975
<i>♪ To make you doubt what's up and down ♪</i>

309
00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:15,938
<i>♪ A mirror with no frame
Lets me see my dreams... ♪</i>

310
00:14:16,022 --> 00:14:18,107
-[Izzy] I'm trying to think of my speech.
-Yep.

311
00:14:18,191 --> 00:14:19,776
Stacy likes little gestures,

312
00:14:19,859 --> 00:14:21,819
if you write her random notes
and leave 'em around.

313
00:14:22,487 --> 00:14:24,364
So when I'm sitting there
writing these cards,

314
00:14:24,447 --> 00:14:26,366
I don't know what the fuck to say.
[laughing]

315
00:14:26,449 --> 00:14:29,619
I can't... I'm not crafty,
so that's why I go better off the dome.

316
00:14:29,702 --> 00:14:31,746
-So, I got an idea for you.
-[Izzy] What's that?

317
00:14:31,829 --> 00:14:33,790
-How about we write her a letter?
-Yeah?

318
00:14:33,873 --> 00:14:35,917
[Justin] Yeah. We could help you out
if you need help.

319
00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:36,876
All right.

320
00:14:36,959 --> 00:14:39,128
-[Nick] We're going from the heart?
-From the heart.

321
00:14:39,212 --> 00:14:41,214
-[Izzy] All right.
-[Justin] From the heart.

322
00:14:41,297 --> 00:14:43,299
["Age of Connection" by 5 Alarm playing]

323
00:14:43,383 --> 00:14:45,718
<i>♪ I can't feel the ground... ♪</i>

324
00:14:45,802 --> 00:14:47,470
[Izzy] Oh, God, all right.

325
00:14:48,888 --> 00:14:50,973
-[Izzy] Uh...
-Let it flow. Let it flow.

326
00:14:51,057 --> 00:14:53,059
<i>♪ Keep me from falling down ♪</i>

327
00:14:57,563 --> 00:15:01,192
<i>♪ Doesn't get any better than now ♪</i>

328
00:15:01,275 --> 00:15:02,777
[Tracy] It's gorgeous.

329
00:15:02,860 --> 00:15:04,946
-[Stacy laughs]
-I mean, it's absolutely gorgeous.

330
00:15:05,029 --> 00:15:06,030
And it's so you.

331
00:15:06,531 --> 00:15:07,740
I love you.

332
00:15:07,824 --> 00:15:09,575
-[Stacy] I love you too.
-[exclaims]

333
00:15:10,159 --> 00:15:11,744
[sighs] I just care about Izzy.

334
00:15:12,328 --> 00:15:13,955
Just wanna talk to him.

335
00:15:14,497 --> 00:15:16,416
[Tracy] If that'll
make you more comfortable.

336
00:15:17,041 --> 00:15:19,919
I hope so, but if he loses it, I'm not...

337
00:15:20,002 --> 00:15:22,588
I need him to be kind of calm.

338
00:15:22,672 --> 00:15:23,714
[Tracy] Mmm-hmm.

339
00:15:23,798 --> 00:15:25,842
-[breathes deeply]
-[knock on door]

340
00:15:25,925 --> 00:15:27,468
-Hello. Hi, I'm Justin.
-[Stacy] Hi.

341
00:15:27,552 --> 00:15:29,387
-I'm Izzy's best man.
-[Stacy] Oh!

342
00:15:29,470 --> 00:15:31,848
-[Justin] I wanted to introduce myself.
-Oh, my God! Hi.

343
00:15:31,931 --> 00:15:34,976
Stacy. I'm like, "Who is this man?
You're in the wrong place."

344
00:15:35,059 --> 00:15:36,394
-I have something for you.
-[gasps]

345
00:15:36,477 --> 00:15:38,604
-It's a really important letter.
-[Stacy] Oh, God.

346
00:15:38,688 --> 00:15:40,481
-I would like to give it to you.
-Oh, my God.

347
00:15:40,565 --> 00:15:42,692
[Justin] He wrote this from his heart, so...

348
00:15:42,775 --> 00:15:45,445
-[both] Thank you.
-[Justin] Ah, no problem.

349
00:15:45,528 --> 00:15:47,405
-Thank you.
-[Tracy] Appreciate it.

350
00:15:47,488 --> 00:15:50,867
["Coming Home to You" by Kye Sones
& Adam Mark Burridge playing]

351
00:15:53,035 --> 00:15:56,456
<i>♪ Till I have you to hold... ♪</i>

352
00:15:56,539 --> 00:15:58,499
[Stacy] "Why I love you."

353
00:15:58,583 --> 00:16:00,626
"You never get complacey."

354
00:16:00,710 --> 00:16:02,628
"You're so hot, turn on the AC."

355
00:16:03,629 --> 00:16:06,132
"Wanna glue my hands
on your boobs like a pasty."

356
00:16:06,215 --> 00:16:07,383
[laughs]

357
00:16:07,467 --> 00:16:11,220
"With you, I love the chasey.
Why am I wanting to marry you?"

358
00:16:11,304 --> 00:16:13,431
"Because I'm madly
in love with you, Stacy."

359
00:16:13,514 --> 00:16:16,934
"I know you're nervous, scared, worried,
but just know I'm here."

360
00:16:17,018 --> 00:16:19,437
"Always will be that loving,
calming, reassuring man

361
00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:21,314
who will fight every day for you."

362
00:16:21,397 --> 00:16:24,150
"I love you."
And it's from Izzy. Oh, Izzy.

363
00:16:24,233 --> 00:16:26,027
How does that make you feel?

364
00:16:26,110 --> 00:16:30,198
It's so funny 'cause I literally
just told you... I need him to be calm.

365
00:16:30,281 --> 00:16:31,824
[Tracy] Yeah. That's calm.

366
00:16:31,908 --> 00:16:34,869
Well, he wrote that, like, "Always be
that calming, reassuring man."

367
00:16:34,952 --> 00:16:35,828
Yeah.

368
00:16:37,288 --> 00:16:39,332
[Stacy] You know,
I've always told Izzy I want notes.

369
00:16:39,415 --> 00:16:40,917
I got mad at him, and he wrote a note,

370
00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:43,377
and this is the only one
that he has sent me unsolicited,

371
00:16:43,461 --> 00:16:46,255
and it was so sweet and meaningful.

372
00:16:46,339 --> 00:16:47,965
Like, I need that.

373
00:16:48,049 --> 00:16:50,801
I never criticize him to break him down.

374
00:16:50,885 --> 00:16:53,471
I'm trying to break down the codes
of what love is to me,

375
00:16:53,554 --> 00:16:56,557
'cause I want him to love me,
and I wanna feel loved.

376
00:16:56,641 --> 00:16:59,352
And he listens, and I love that.

377
00:16:59,435 --> 00:17:01,103
I'm a hopeless romantic.

378
00:17:03,397 --> 00:17:05,983
<i>♪ So I'm coming home to something ♪</i>

379
00:17:06,067 --> 00:17:10,238
<i>♪ I have not forgot or left behind ♪</i>

380
00:17:10,321 --> 00:17:13,115
<i>♪ It's you ♪</i>

381
00:17:13,199 --> 00:17:16,035
<i>♪ It's you ♪</i>

382
00:17:16,536 --> 00:17:20,206
<i>♪ I'm coming home to you ♪</i>

383
00:17:20,289 --> 00:17:23,292
-[Izzy exhales]
-[Reyna] Well, well. Look at you, <i>Papi!</i>

384
00:17:23,376 --> 00:17:24,961
Look at you!

385
00:17:25,044 --> 00:17:26,754
[in Spanish] You are so handsome, my son.

386
00:17:26,837 --> 00:17:31,008
[in English] I love you.
I love you. I love you. [laughs]

387
00:17:31,092 --> 00:17:32,760
{\an8}-I love you.
-How are you feeling?

388
00:17:32,843 --> 00:17:34,512
{\an8}-How are you feeling?
-I'm good.

389
00:17:34,595 --> 00:17:36,639
{\an8}-I know! You look good.
-Yeah. I'm good. Yeah.

390
00:17:36,722 --> 00:17:40,142
I just want you to know that,
you know, Mom is here.

391
00:17:40,226 --> 00:17:42,645
-[Izzy] I know.
-And it's... I'm proud of you.

392
00:17:42,728 --> 00:17:43,646
-You know?
-Thanks.

393
00:17:43,729 --> 00:17:48,276
I'm just amazed of all of this, you know?
It's just a different you.

394
00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:50,111
It's a grown man of you,

395
00:17:50,194 --> 00:17:52,822
and, uh, whatever happens,

396
00:17:52,905 --> 00:17:54,323
we're all in this together.

397
00:17:54,407 --> 00:17:55,283
[Izzy] Yeah.

398
00:17:55,366 --> 00:17:58,828
["Keep Me Whole" by Buck Snow, Taylor,
A. Murray & Mia Williams-Watson playing]

399
00:17:58,911 --> 00:17:59,996
<i>♪ Hear your voice... ♪</i>

400
00:18:00,079 --> 00:18:02,248
-I love you. You look great.
-I love you more!

401
00:18:02,331 --> 00:18:03,916
-[Izzy] Thanks for being here.
-No. Baby...

402
00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:06,502
You're my baby.
I'll be here no matter what.

403
00:18:06,586 --> 00:18:07,461
-[Izzy] Yeah.
-So...

404
00:18:07,545 --> 00:18:09,505
<i>♪ It's all part of memories... ♪</i>

405
00:18:09,589 --> 00:18:11,424
-I'm proud of you.
-Thanks.

406
00:18:11,507 --> 00:18:14,468
-[Reyna] Okay? I want you to know that.
-All right. Yeah, I know.

407
00:18:14,552 --> 00:18:17,054
-All right.
-I wanna kiss your forehead.

408
00:18:17,138 --> 00:18:18,723
But I don't wanna leave you my makeup.

409
00:18:18,806 --> 00:18:21,851
-It's okay. [laughing]
-I love you. My baby, I love you.

410
00:18:21,934 --> 00:18:24,895
-I love you. All right. [chuckles]
-All right. Okay.

411
00:18:24,979 --> 00:18:30,526
<i>♪ 'Cause you keep me whole ♪</i>

412
00:18:32,820 --> 00:18:35,489
{\an8}<i>♪ You keep me whole ♪</i>

413
00:18:35,573 --> 00:18:37,199
{\an8}-Wow, look at you!
-[Stacy laughing]

414
00:18:37,283 --> 00:18:40,494
-Hi, Dad! I'm in a big white dress.
-You look gorgeous!

415
00:18:40,578 --> 00:18:41,954
Oh, that's beautiful.

416
00:18:42,038 --> 00:18:43,331
Yeah, hold that.

417
00:18:43,414 --> 00:18:45,374
-I know you would wanna see the shoes.
-You ready?

418
00:18:45,458 --> 00:18:47,627
Did you ever think
you'd see me in a big white dress?

419
00:18:47,710 --> 00:18:48,711
[Dale] Ooh!

420
00:18:48,794 --> 00:18:51,589
[Stacy] It's like my personality
is all in one dress. Oh, my God.

421
00:18:51,672 --> 00:18:52,757
-[Dale] Big day.
-I know.

422
00:18:53,507 --> 00:18:54,675
[Dale] Are you ready?

423
00:18:55,343 --> 00:18:57,970
I feel one way one second
and a different way the next.

424
00:18:58,054 --> 00:18:59,430
And is it something

425
00:18:59,513 --> 00:19:02,642
that you're supposed to be sure
of everything on your wedding day?

426
00:19:02,725 --> 00:19:05,645
Or you're not sure
of everything on your wedding day?

427
00:19:06,145 --> 00:19:08,356
Just gonna have to pull the trigger
one way or the other.

428
00:19:08,939 --> 00:19:10,941
-I know, Dad.
-Here, you want that?

429
00:19:11,025 --> 00:19:13,152
-Thank you.
-Shall we?

430
00:19:17,239 --> 00:19:18,616
I cannot cry.

431
00:19:19,158 --> 00:19:21,160
[emotional music playing]

432
00:19:21,243 --> 00:19:23,079
You'll be fine. Gimme a kiss.

433
00:19:24,705 --> 00:19:27,416
-It means a lot that you're here for me.
-Always.

434
00:19:28,167 --> 00:19:29,710
You know that. Always.

435
00:19:33,047 --> 00:19:34,674
You just do what you feel is right.

436
00:19:34,757 --> 00:19:36,300
-[voice breaks] Yeah.
-He's a great guy.

437
00:19:39,845 --> 00:19:40,805
[Zach] You ready?

438
00:19:40,888 --> 00:19:42,056
-[Izzy] Yeah.
-[Zach] Ready?

439
00:19:42,139 --> 00:19:45,017
-Ain't nothing else to be scared of, bro.
-[Izzy] I'm not scared.

440
00:19:45,101 --> 00:19:46,977
I'm nervous,
but more excited than anything.

441
00:19:47,061 --> 00:19:50,189
I'm gonna go up there and just be the man

442
00:19:50,272 --> 00:19:51,774
that I've been all along,

443
00:19:51,857 --> 00:19:54,026
look her dead in her eye and be like,

444
00:19:54,110 --> 00:19:56,487
"This is why I love you,
and this is why, like,

445
00:19:56,570 --> 00:19:59,824
you're gonna fucking marry me." [laughs]

446
00:19:59,907 --> 00:20:02,243
You'll know what to say. You always do.

447
00:20:02,326 --> 00:20:05,663
["Come Back to You" by R. Lewis, B. Snow,
Taylor, B. Parsons & A. Murray playing]

448
00:20:07,123 --> 00:20:09,959
<i>♪ I'll be there like you would be ♪</i>

449
00:20:10,042 --> 00:20:15,131
<i>♪ Because what you've given, it matters ♪</i>

450
00:20:16,549 --> 00:20:20,136
<i>♪ And it's come back to you ♪</i>

451
00:20:20,219 --> 00:20:24,265
<i>♪ You ♪</i>

452
00:20:24,348 --> 00:20:27,768
<i>♪ Let it come back to you ♪</i>

453
00:20:28,269 --> 00:20:31,313
<i>♪ You ♪</i>

454
00:20:31,939 --> 00:20:36,068
<i>-♪ Let it come back to you ♪</i>
-[song fades]

455
00:20:37,319 --> 00:20:39,613
[exhales] Oh, my God.

456
00:20:41,031 --> 00:20:44,034
Does anybody have any vodka
or tequila in their pocket? [chuckles]

457
00:20:44,118 --> 00:20:46,495
[playing gentle bridal melody]

458
00:20:52,084 --> 00:20:53,127
[Izzy exclaims]

459
00:20:53,210 --> 00:20:56,881
-What's up? Hello-hello-hello-hello!
-[guests cheering]

460
00:20:56,964 --> 00:21:01,010
-Hello-hello-hello-hello-hello-hello!
-[cheering continues]

461
00:21:01,093 --> 00:21:01,969
[guest exclaims]

462
00:21:02,470 --> 00:21:04,555
-[Izzy laughs nervously] How are you?
-Good. Yourself?

463
00:21:04,638 --> 00:21:06,974
I'm good, man.
[loudly] Welcome, everybody.

464
00:21:07,057 --> 00:21:08,309
Thank y'all for coming.

465
00:21:08,392 --> 00:21:11,562
-It's good to see y'all.
-[all cheering]

466
00:21:12,146 --> 00:21:13,647
Oh, fuck.

467
00:21:13,731 --> 00:21:16,233
-["Save Me" playing]
<i>-♪ Darling ♪</i>

468
00:21:16,317 --> 00:21:18,819
<i>♪ Save me ♪</i>

469
00:21:18,903 --> 00:21:24,658
<i>♪ I need someone too ♪</i>

470
00:21:25,785 --> 00:21:29,580
<i>♪ Someone like you... ♪</i>

471
00:21:33,417 --> 00:21:35,461
<i>♪ Darling ♪</i>

472
00:21:35,544 --> 00:21:37,963
<i>♪ Take me ♪</i>

473
00:21:38,047 --> 00:21:41,884
<i>♪ Somewhere that's new ♪</i>

474
00:21:45,054 --> 00:21:46,263
[Stacy exhales] Oh, God.

475
00:21:47,181 --> 00:21:48,599
You'll make the right decision.

476
00:21:48,682 --> 00:21:50,768
-Thank you, Dad. Thank you.
-I'm happy for you.

477
00:21:50,851 --> 00:21:52,436
-And I'm proud of you.
-Thank you.

478
00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:54,104
-Big time.
-Thank you. [chuckles]

479
00:21:56,524 --> 00:21:57,650
All rise.

480
00:21:57,733 --> 00:22:00,277
[playing gentle bridal melody]

481
00:22:03,113 --> 00:22:04,031
[guest gasps]

482
00:22:19,088 --> 00:22:23,092
Who presents this woman
to be married to this man?

483
00:22:23,175 --> 00:22:24,885
Her mother and my... me.

484
00:22:24,969 --> 00:22:26,262
[all laughing]

485
00:22:26,345 --> 00:22:28,389
[Stacy] That guy back there!

486
00:22:28,472 --> 00:22:30,432
-You good? You look beautiful!
-[Stacy] Yeah.

487
00:22:30,516 --> 00:22:34,353
[officiant] Izzy, please take the woman
who stands before you to stand beside you.

488
00:22:34,854 --> 00:22:37,940
-It's a whole lot of dress, y'all!
-[Izzy] I know!

489
00:22:38,023 --> 00:22:40,484
You look great!
Oh, man, it's so good to see you.

490
00:22:40,568 --> 00:22:42,736
[officiant] Ladies and gentlemen,
please be seated.

491
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:46,448
-[Stacy] You okay?
-You look beautiful. I'm great.

492
00:22:46,532 --> 00:22:47,658
-[Izzy] Are you good?
-Yeah.

493
00:22:47,741 --> 00:22:50,578
Yeah. I'm right here. You're good.

494
00:22:51,412 --> 00:22:54,707
Let us all join in our love and support
of Stacy and Izzy,

495
00:22:54,790 --> 00:22:58,043
with our best wishes
for their everlasting happiness.

496
00:22:58,544 --> 00:23:02,256
Let's start this loving gathering
by celebrating the love that you share.

497
00:23:04,383 --> 00:23:07,344
Stacy and Izzy, you're both
standing across from your biggest fan.

498
00:23:07,428 --> 00:23:09,972
The compatibility
that you share is obvious.

499
00:23:10,055 --> 00:23:14,018
There are many people who know you,
but few people who understand you.

500
00:23:14,101 --> 00:23:17,187
Your love and understanding
is key to navigating the uncertainties

501
00:23:17,271 --> 00:23:18,856
that your future will bring.

502
00:23:18,939 --> 00:23:20,608
Emotions and feelings change,

503
00:23:20,691 --> 00:23:24,862
but this love that the two of you share
is everlasting.

504
00:23:24,945 --> 00:23:28,741
And what a beautiful feeling it is
to have found that someone.

505
00:23:28,824 --> 00:23:31,827
Fortunately, you're both clearly
in very good hands.

506
00:23:34,371 --> 00:23:35,205
You are

507
00:23:36,916 --> 00:23:37,833
tough to crack.

508
00:23:37,917 --> 00:23:39,001
[chuckles]

509
00:23:39,084 --> 00:23:42,004
But when those walls are broken,

510
00:23:42,588 --> 00:23:47,217
you are the most tender
and sweet girl that I've ever met.

511
00:23:48,218 --> 00:23:51,263
That's why I'm in love with you,
because that's the girl that I see in you.

512
00:23:52,056 --> 00:23:54,224
You know when I'm down.
You know when I'm up.

513
00:23:54,308 --> 00:23:55,726
When I'm in my head.

514
00:23:56,644 --> 00:23:58,020
I fell in love with you.

515
00:23:59,313 --> 00:24:01,440
It hit me like a train out of left field.

516
00:24:02,024 --> 00:24:03,859
I appreciate you. I adore you.

517
00:24:04,360 --> 00:24:07,154
You've made me a better man

518
00:24:07,237 --> 00:24:10,157
and I will always be here to reassure you.

519
00:24:10,866 --> 00:24:14,536
Be that calm, cooling man that you need.

520
00:24:15,663 --> 00:24:19,833
Marriage is not easy.
Relationships are not easy.

521
00:24:20,334 --> 00:24:21,377
And...

522
00:24:22,294 --> 00:24:25,547
when you face adversity,
it's so easy to run

523
00:24:26,215 --> 00:24:27,049
and give up.

524
00:24:28,133 --> 00:24:29,927
I will never give up on you,

525
00:24:30,010 --> 00:24:31,595
and I will always fight.

526
00:24:32,304 --> 00:24:34,348
I will always fight for you.

527
00:24:35,391 --> 00:24:39,228
I love you with all my heart.
I will always be here and just...

528
00:24:39,812 --> 00:24:41,981
She looks amazing in this dress, right?

529
00:24:42,064 --> 00:24:43,857
-Can we...
-[crowd cheering]

530
00:24:43,941 --> 00:24:45,317
[laughing]

531
00:24:48,612 --> 00:24:49,989
[sighs]

532
00:24:53,951 --> 00:24:57,663
Going into all of this,
you hit me like a train out of left field.

533
00:24:58,747 --> 00:25:02,751
And you did it in ways
that made me feel safe.

534
00:25:03,419 --> 00:25:09,216
I'm very practical and realistic,
and you made me think with my heart.

535
00:25:10,217 --> 00:25:12,052
You made me feel again.

536
00:25:12,636 --> 00:25:16,682
You make me wanna be a better person
and do things that I'm not necessarily

537
00:25:16,765 --> 00:25:20,728
comfortable doing,
but I wanna do it for you.

538
00:25:21,979 --> 00:25:24,314
[voice breaks] You are my rock.

539
00:25:26,316 --> 00:25:28,444
[sniffles]

540
00:25:28,527 --> 00:25:32,197
[crying] This whole thing has been
like a freakin' hurricane.

541
00:25:32,281 --> 00:25:34,742
[sniffles] And you're the calm
in the storm.

542
00:25:36,535 --> 00:25:38,996
[sniffles] The last few days
have been a lot,

543
00:25:41,749 --> 00:25:43,792
but I still love you through it.

544
00:25:44,710 --> 00:25:47,379
-I love you.
-And I've never not loved you.

545
00:25:48,964 --> 00:25:53,177
There's no one else in this world
that I would do it with other than you.

546
00:26:00,017 --> 00:26:02,394
[officiant] Izzy and Stacy,
you chose each other

547
00:26:02,478 --> 00:26:05,147
based on an intense emotional connection.

548
00:26:05,230 --> 00:26:07,858
Looks, age, finances,

549
00:26:07,941 --> 00:26:10,319
and all the superficial things
of the world

550
00:26:10,402 --> 00:26:12,613
were not a factor for the two of you.

551
00:26:14,615 --> 00:26:17,826
Now is the time to decide
if love is blind.

552
00:26:17,910 --> 00:26:20,120
[suspenseful music playing]

553
00:26:22,414 --> 00:26:25,250
Izzy, do you take Stacy as your wife?

554
00:26:25,834 --> 00:26:30,214
Do you promise to love her,
comfort her, honor, and keep her,

555
00:26:31,090 --> 00:26:34,093
forsaking all others
as long as you both will live?

556
00:26:36,011 --> 00:26:38,388
If so, please say, "I do."

557
00:26:38,889 --> 00:26:42,059
[suspenseful music continues]

558
00:26:44,853 --> 00:26:45,687
I do.

559
00:26:46,188 --> 00:26:47,940
[uplifting music playing]

560
00:26:59,118 --> 00:27:00,035
And, Stacy,

561
00:27:01,745 --> 00:27:04,039
do you take Izzy to be your husband?

562
00:27:04,123 --> 00:27:05,999
[tense music playing]

563
00:27:06,083 --> 00:27:10,587
Do you promise to love him,
comfort him, honor, and keep him

564
00:27:10,671 --> 00:27:12,381
in sickness and in health,

565
00:27:13,924 --> 00:27:18,595
and forsaking all others
as long as you both will live?

566
00:27:19,221 --> 00:27:23,016
And if so, please say, "I do."

567
00:27:23,100 --> 00:27:25,102
[tense music continues]

568
00:27:35,654 --> 00:27:37,239
[whispers] Oh, my gosh.

569
00:27:48,250 --> 00:27:51,378
I love you more than I can even explain.

570
00:27:52,671 --> 00:27:54,882
[gentle music playing]

571
00:27:54,965 --> 00:27:59,094
I wanna make you happy.
I wanna give you that reassurance.

572
00:28:00,554 --> 00:28:03,599
And I do want you, and I wanna say yes.

573
00:28:08,395 --> 00:28:11,315
But I would be doing you and I
a disservice right now

574
00:28:11,398 --> 00:28:15,444
to say that "I do" when I feel like
there's a lot of things that we need.

575
00:28:16,570 --> 00:28:18,530
And more than anything, we need time.

576
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:21,450
We haven't had time.

577
00:28:23,035 --> 00:28:24,411
That's something that I need.

578
00:28:29,708 --> 00:28:31,710
So, for me today, I can't.

579
00:28:34,421 --> 00:28:36,256
[softly] I hope you understand that.

580
00:28:36,798 --> 00:28:39,301
[sweet music playing]

581
00:28:42,137 --> 00:28:43,263
I understand.

582
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:46,099
-And I love you.
-[laughs]

583
00:28:46,183 --> 00:28:48,727
-[sweet music continues]
-[guests clapping]

584
00:28:55,943 --> 00:28:58,612
I don't think we're doing this
in the right order, but that's okay.

585
00:28:58,695 --> 00:29:00,739
[guests laughing]

586
00:29:04,159 --> 00:29:06,161
[sighs] I really feel better.

587
00:29:06,245 --> 00:29:07,829
[Izzy] Good. As you should.

588
00:29:07,913 --> 00:29:10,874
-[inhales and whispers] Are you okay?
-Yeah.

589
00:29:18,382 --> 00:29:21,551
I've always been your biggest fan,
your biggest supporter.

590
00:29:22,427 --> 00:29:23,512
And you know that.

591
00:29:24,012 --> 00:29:25,097
And...

592
00:29:27,224 --> 00:29:30,310
it's fair to the both of us
to be in that right spot.

593
00:29:31,895 --> 00:29:32,980
[Stacy] Okay.

594
00:29:33,063 --> 00:29:35,899
["Fall Again" by James Mason Fox playing]

595
00:29:46,159 --> 00:29:48,036
[indistinct chatter]

596
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,122
["Fall Again" continues playing]

597
00:29:59,715 --> 00:30:04,136
Again, thank you all
for y'all's support. Um...

598
00:30:04,803 --> 00:30:07,597
Y'all came a long way out
of y'all's way for us,

599
00:30:08,098 --> 00:30:10,058
so appreciate y'all.

600
00:30:11,268 --> 00:30:14,730
<i>♪ I know deep down
You never meant to do me wrong... ♪</i>

601
00:30:14,813 --> 00:30:16,106
[Izzy sighs]

602
00:30:17,941 --> 00:30:20,444
-[Izzy] Thank you, guys.
-[woman] We love you, Izzy!

603
00:30:20,527 --> 00:30:21,945
-I love y'all.
-[crowd applauds]

604
00:30:22,029 --> 00:30:25,699
<i>♪ It's louder when you're next to me ♪</i>

605
00:30:27,576 --> 00:30:31,413
<i>♪ I know that you know ♪</i>

606
00:30:31,496 --> 00:30:35,667
<i>♪ That I am not the one for you ♪</i>

607
00:30:35,751 --> 00:30:39,212
<i>♪ So don't let me fall again... ♪</i>

608
00:30:39,296 --> 00:30:41,840
I'm hurt and sad more than anything.

609
00:30:43,508 --> 00:30:46,094
I really don't know.
I mean, I gave it all I had to give.

610
00:30:46,678 --> 00:30:49,681
<i>♪ The first time
I thought you were with me ♪</i>

611
00:30:49,765 --> 00:30:53,894
<i>♪ But you, you packed your bags
And moved to the city ♪</i>

612
00:30:53,977 --> 00:30:56,605
<i>♪ You're the melody ♪</i>

613
00:30:57,814 --> 00:31:01,318
<i>♪ I still hear it on repeat ♪</i>

614
00:31:02,277 --> 00:31:03,153
[sniffles]

615
00:31:03,236 --> 00:31:06,073
I fought through everything,
and I just feel so numb.

616
00:31:06,156 --> 00:31:07,616
I don't know what to feel.

617
00:31:12,871 --> 00:31:14,122
I don't even know.

618
00:31:14,206 --> 00:31:17,334
I'm just tired
of feeling this way, honestly.

619
00:31:17,876 --> 00:31:18,877
[sniffles]

620
00:31:20,003 --> 00:31:21,004
Hey, <i>Papi</i>.

621
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,800
-Can I sit next to you?
-Yeah. Sit here.

622
00:31:26,176 --> 00:31:27,636
[clears throat]

623
00:31:28,637 --> 00:31:29,888
[sighs]

624
00:31:31,515 --> 00:31:34,101
[exhales] How are you feeling?

625
00:31:34,184 --> 00:31:35,018
Well... [exhales]

626
00:31:35,102 --> 00:31:36,895
I'm very surprised.

627
00:31:38,605 --> 00:31:39,689
But right now,

628
00:31:40,399 --> 00:31:41,691
my concern is you.

629
00:31:42,484 --> 00:31:44,528
I don't wanna be negative.

630
00:31:44,611 --> 00:31:48,323
I don't wanna be telling you
all this kind of stuff.

631
00:31:48,407 --> 00:31:49,241
That's not me.

632
00:31:49,324 --> 00:31:53,578
-I know you've given all your heart.
-Yeah.

633
00:31:53,662 --> 00:31:57,666
You've given everything
that you have on this relationship.

634
00:31:57,749 --> 00:32:01,795
To see this moment as a mom, it hurts.

635
00:32:02,754 --> 00:32:05,173
We have gone through so much

636
00:32:05,257 --> 00:32:06,591
since you were...

637
00:32:07,634 --> 00:32:11,513
Since you were in my tummy, and, um...

638
00:32:13,223 --> 00:32:15,559
I know this is hurting you right now.

639
00:32:15,642 --> 00:32:19,146
It just makes me remember the times when...

640
00:32:20,939 --> 00:32:23,150
I used to take you
to go get your immunizations.

641
00:32:23,233 --> 00:32:24,443
-[both laugh]
-[Izzy] Mmm-hmm.

642
00:32:24,526 --> 00:32:27,070
And they would poke you.
You'd cry and cry.

643
00:32:27,154 --> 00:32:30,866
And that would hurt me so much,
and I would cry too.

644
00:32:30,949 --> 00:32:34,828
But I knew that
that pain that you had in that moment,

645
00:32:34,911 --> 00:32:37,205
it was better for you to hurt right then.

646
00:32:37,914 --> 00:32:40,625
I'd rather you hurt right now

647
00:32:41,877 --> 00:32:43,378
than later in the future.

648
00:32:44,421 --> 00:32:47,883
But it touched me so much
to hear everything that you said.

649
00:32:47,966 --> 00:32:49,843
You have no idea.

650
00:32:50,594 --> 00:32:52,762
To see you pouring your heart there

651
00:32:53,930 --> 00:32:55,891
made me realize even more

652
00:32:57,559 --> 00:32:59,811
how proud I am of you.

653
00:33:02,063 --> 00:33:04,774
I'm the man I am because of you. So...

654
00:33:04,858 --> 00:33:06,860
<i>-Papi!</i>
-You need to know that.

655
00:33:06,943 --> 00:33:08,945
So thank you for that. [chuckles]

656
00:33:09,029 --> 00:33:10,780
You are gonna be okay.

657
00:33:11,948 --> 00:33:13,450
I love you. [kisses]

658
00:33:13,533 --> 00:33:15,911
I love you, <i>Papi</i>, so much.

659
00:33:16,912 --> 00:33:18,955
-Don't give up, okay?
-No.

660
00:33:19,998 --> 00:33:22,709
You're someone that has so much to offer.

661
00:33:22,792 --> 00:33:23,877
So much.

662
00:33:24,628 --> 00:33:26,546
[gentle music playing]

663
00:33:26,630 --> 00:33:27,714
And I love you.

664
00:33:29,257 --> 00:33:31,510
-Thank you.
-I love you, baby.

665
00:33:31,593 --> 00:33:34,346
-I love you. Thanks for being here for me.
-Very much.

666
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:37,474
[kisses]

667
00:33:41,478 --> 00:33:43,897
I mean, I feel fine.

668
00:33:43,980 --> 00:33:46,066
-I think he's very sincere.
-Mmm-hmm.

669
00:33:46,149 --> 00:33:49,736
I think everything he said is sweet.

670
00:33:49,819 --> 00:33:51,571
I talked to his friends.

671
00:33:51,655 --> 00:33:54,449
-They all talk highly of him.
-Mmm-hmm.

672
00:33:54,533 --> 00:33:58,995
And have known him
since he's a little kid, you know.

673
00:33:59,079 --> 00:34:03,625
-[Stacy] Mmm-hmm.
-So, I mean, he's genuine.

674
00:34:03,708 --> 00:34:06,169
I do love him. He's amazing.

675
00:34:06,253 --> 00:34:08,046
He's taught me so much.

676
00:34:08,547 --> 00:34:12,467
I mean, everybody I talked to were like,
"They're such a great couple."

677
00:34:13,343 --> 00:34:14,344
We are!

678
00:34:14,928 --> 00:34:16,429
Do you have any regrets?

679
00:34:17,180 --> 00:34:18,181
No.

680
00:34:20,267 --> 00:34:22,227
Like, standing there talking to him,

681
00:34:22,310 --> 00:34:24,312
I meant everything that I said.

682
00:34:25,188 --> 00:34:27,857
Today, I wasn't for certain
on it being right.

683
00:34:27,941 --> 00:34:31,069
-[gentle music continues]
-<i>♪ Come on, let it out ♪</i>

684
00:34:31,152 --> 00:34:33,572
<i>♪ Come on, let it out ♪</i>

685
00:34:33,655 --> 00:34:37,826
<i>♪ When it's harder to breathe
Let me know ♪</i>

686
00:34:37,909 --> 00:34:40,370
<i>♪ Gotta tell me now ♪</i>

687
00:34:40,453 --> 00:34:42,706
<i>♪ Gotta tell me now ♪</i>

688
00:34:42,789 --> 00:34:45,542
<i>♪ I need your honesty ♪</i>

689
00:34:48,169 --> 00:34:49,671
-[Izzy] Hey.
-Hi.

690
00:34:49,754 --> 00:34:51,840
-[Izzy] How are you?
-I'm okay.

691
00:34:53,425 --> 00:34:57,095
I didn't think that I'd feel
how I felt standing there today,

692
00:34:57,178 --> 00:34:59,973
and it wasn't a bad feeling,
like, I know I love you.

693
00:35:00,056 --> 00:35:02,183
Standing up there,
it's like, "I know I love him."

694
00:35:03,518 --> 00:35:05,186
I thought I'd be a nervous wreck.

695
00:35:06,104 --> 00:35:08,231
I just feel relieved, like...

696
00:35:09,816 --> 00:35:11,151
the pressure's gone.

697
00:35:13,111 --> 00:35:15,447
I feel like getting through that

698
00:35:16,990 --> 00:35:19,534
is probably the hardest thing.

699
00:35:21,494 --> 00:35:22,329
Why?

700
00:35:23,496 --> 00:35:25,957
[tranquil music playing]

701
00:35:30,462 --> 00:35:31,963
'Cause I wanna make you happy.

702
00:35:35,925 --> 00:35:38,386
[voice breaking] I'm just very
confused right now.

703
00:35:38,470 --> 00:35:39,471
[Stacy whispers] Oh...

704
00:35:42,098 --> 00:35:44,351
Don't be confused about how I feel.

705
00:35:45,769 --> 00:35:49,397
Whatever we wanna do with what
we have now moving forward, it's up to us.

706
00:35:49,481 --> 00:35:51,483
And I know it's not gonna be easy.

707
00:35:52,692 --> 00:35:55,111
I'd like to feel like it's us again.

708
00:35:57,989 --> 00:36:02,661
And I'm willing
to put whatever into it to get there.

709
00:36:04,537 --> 00:36:06,081
Do you mean that?

710
00:36:06,164 --> 00:36:07,248
I do mean that.

711
00:36:07,957 --> 00:36:09,918
I need time to know that I can trust you

712
00:36:10,001 --> 00:36:12,337
and all the things
that you've told me too.

713
00:36:15,215 --> 00:36:17,092
I don't know. It's just... It's tough.

714
00:36:17,967 --> 00:36:19,969
We're going steps backwards now.

715
00:36:20,720 --> 00:36:22,555
[Stacy] I don't see it that way.

716
00:36:23,139 --> 00:36:25,934
I'm not expecting you
to jump for joy anytime soon

717
00:36:26,017 --> 00:36:28,770
or feel okay or feel sure.

718
00:36:28,853 --> 00:36:31,523
But, like,
I'm still standing here with you.

719
00:36:31,606 --> 00:36:35,276
Yeah, well, I mean,
we're, like, at different spots.

720
00:36:37,529 --> 00:36:39,239
Like, it really breaks my heart.

721
00:36:43,076 --> 00:36:44,744
Like, I love you.

722
00:36:45,829 --> 00:36:47,539
Did wanna marry you, like...

723
00:36:48,123 --> 00:36:49,249
[Stacy] Mmm-hmm.

724
00:36:50,208 --> 00:36:52,127
A timeline didn't matter for me.

725
00:36:53,461 --> 00:36:55,922
-But that's just me.
-Mmm-hmm.

726
00:36:56,548 --> 00:36:58,925
When is ever gonna be
the right time, you know?

727
00:36:59,008 --> 00:37:00,593
That's what I'm gonna wonder with you.

728
00:37:00,677 --> 00:37:02,846
Like, when is ever
gonna be the right time?

729
00:37:03,555 --> 00:37:05,348
[bittersweet music playing]

730
00:37:05,432 --> 00:37:07,684
Is it ever gonna feel
like it's the right time? [chuckles]

731
00:37:11,813 --> 00:37:14,357
She told me it's just too fast of timing.

732
00:37:15,525 --> 00:37:19,195
If I'm the one, what difference
does it make on the timeline?

733
00:37:19,279 --> 00:37:20,780
We could die tomorrow.

734
00:37:21,656 --> 00:37:27,078
It's like she's always trying
to find something wrong.

735
00:37:29,038 --> 00:37:31,458
I just wanna be loved
the way that I love. [sighs]

736
00:37:34,002 --> 00:37:36,713
Bottom line, I deserve that.

737
00:37:38,631 --> 00:37:39,591
[sighs]

738
00:37:40,717 --> 00:37:41,634
[softly] Okay.

739
00:37:41,718 --> 00:37:43,636
["Without a Trace" by Tyler Shamy playing]

740
00:37:43,720 --> 00:37:47,557
<i>♪ Forget that I was ever born
Forget about me ♪</i>

741
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:51,144
<i>♪ Like a page that's ripped and torn
Through life without me ♪</i>

742
00:37:51,728 --> 00:37:56,357
<i>♪ Like I don't exist, forget every kiss... ♪</i>

743
00:37:58,735 --> 00:38:01,196
I think she's probably more relieved

744
00:38:02,781 --> 00:38:05,784
for this to be done,
and for her to have told me no,

745
00:38:05,867 --> 00:38:08,953
and everything to be done,
and I feel like that's what she...

746
00:38:09,037 --> 00:38:11,581
that's what she... where she's at.

747
00:38:12,957 --> 00:38:15,585
Less pressure, less this, less that.

748
00:38:16,169 --> 00:38:19,088
It's like all the outside shit
was just getting to her.

749
00:38:20,256 --> 00:38:22,759
And I blocked out everything.

750
00:38:22,842 --> 00:38:25,929
Looks, money, drama.

751
00:38:27,138 --> 00:38:29,349
I just focused on her.

752
00:38:30,475 --> 00:38:31,559
I was at the gym,

753
00:38:32,685 --> 00:38:35,313
and I saw <i>Titanic</i> pop up on the TV,

754
00:38:35,814 --> 00:38:38,149
and that's what I picture love being.

755
00:38:39,776 --> 00:38:43,404
It's just, like,
unconditional, doesn't matter.

756
00:38:43,488 --> 00:38:47,200
And that's the whole point of this,
is "Does it matter?"

757
00:38:47,283 --> 00:38:50,328
Does a credit score matter?
Does the car I drive matter?

758
00:38:50,411 --> 00:38:52,664
Does where I go to fucking dinner matter?

759
00:38:53,331 --> 00:38:54,707
None of that matters to me.

760
00:38:55,208 --> 00:38:58,503
It makes me wonder, "Why are you 33
and single and not married?"

761
00:38:58,586 --> 00:39:02,632
I'm 29 years old, and I can
give you everything that a fucking rich,

762
00:39:02,715 --> 00:39:05,635
45-year-old man that you always go for

763
00:39:05,718 --> 00:39:07,554
and always fail with can't give you.

764
00:39:09,556 --> 00:39:10,557
Um...

765
00:39:12,725 --> 00:39:13,768
I'm sad.

766
00:39:15,228 --> 00:39:18,648
-["Without A Trace" continues]
<i>-♪ I'll put our memories on paper planes ♪</i>

767
00:39:18,731 --> 00:39:21,693
<i>♪ And watch 'em fly away ♪</i>

768
00:39:21,776 --> 00:39:24,863
<i>♪ Without a trace ♪</i>

769
00:39:24,946 --> 00:39:29,784
<i>♪ Trace ♪</i>

770
00:39:34,914 --> 00:39:37,625
-["Run with the River" playing]
<i>-♪ Run with the river ♪</i>

771
00:39:37,709 --> 00:39:40,211
<i>♪ Run with the river, oh ♪</i>

772
00:39:42,672 --> 00:39:46,509
<i>♪ Run with the river, run with the river ♪</i>

773
00:39:46,593 --> 00:39:49,095
Today is my wedding day!

774
00:39:49,804 --> 00:39:52,932
My outfit is really subtle.
You cannot tell that I'm the bride.

775
00:39:53,016 --> 00:39:55,935
{\an8}Can you tell I'm the bride?
Can you tell? Can you tell?

776
00:39:58,771 --> 00:40:00,023
Oh, my God!

777
00:40:00,106 --> 00:40:03,860
Even though on our final date,
Milton was like,

778
00:40:04,569 --> 00:40:07,864
"Oh, you're too emotional. I didn't like
the way that you handled that situation,"

779
00:40:07,947 --> 00:40:10,491
I will never stop being who I am.

780
00:40:10,575 --> 00:40:12,744
And I'm hoping that today,

781
00:40:12,827 --> 00:40:16,331
he realizes that
I'm exactly what he needs.

782
00:40:16,414 --> 00:40:18,041
[chuckles] It's gorgeous.

783
00:40:18,124 --> 00:40:23,379
<i>♪ Life, higher than you'll ever be... ♪</i>

784
00:40:23,463 --> 00:40:27,800
[Lydia] All the bullshit,
all the tears, it's all worth it,

785
00:40:28,301 --> 00:40:31,679
because I am 100% certain

786
00:40:32,180 --> 00:40:34,432
that I found someone who is

787
00:40:35,475 --> 00:40:36,517
so amazing.

788
00:40:37,226 --> 00:40:40,647
{\an8}<i>-Hola!</i>
-[all screaming]

789
00:40:40,730 --> 00:40:43,650
{\an8}[all chanting]

790
00:40:43,733 --> 00:40:45,526
[Lydia Sr. laughing]

791
00:40:45,610 --> 00:40:47,403
[Lydia] Let's get this party started!

792
00:40:47,487 --> 00:40:49,948
[all chanting]

793
00:40:50,031 --> 00:40:53,493
-[woman] Where's the bride?
-[all screaming]

794
00:40:56,704 --> 00:40:58,289
{\an8}-Are you nervous?
-[Lydia] Not at all.

795
00:40:58,373 --> 00:41:01,125
Mmm-mmm. I'm just excited.
I'm really excited.

796
00:41:01,709 --> 00:41:03,920
{\an8}-Are you still sure?
-I'm still sure.

797
00:41:04,003 --> 00:41:05,755
[laughs] Is he the one?

798
00:41:05,838 --> 00:41:08,883
-He's the one!
-[all screaming]

799
00:41:10,718 --> 00:41:13,596
-[Lydia] Now, I'm gonna get emotional.
-[friends exclaiming]

800
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:15,765
[Claudia cheers and exclaims in Spanish]

801
00:41:15,848 --> 00:41:16,683
[exhales]

802
00:41:16,766 --> 00:41:19,727
I have no doubts that he's the one.
I have no doubts.

803
00:41:20,937 --> 00:41:23,815
In the pods, he shows me.

804
00:41:24,315 --> 00:41:25,984
[Milton] If you're
into rocks and minerals,

805
00:41:26,067 --> 00:41:28,653
then we can observe things
under my polarizing microscope.

806
00:41:28,736 --> 00:41:31,197
Oh, my God, you're such a nerd. I love it.

807
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,199
We have the same passion,
the same background.

808
00:41:33,282 --> 00:41:34,534
That's pretty dope.

809
00:41:34,617 --> 00:41:38,579
[voice breaks] I crave
so hard to be loved for who I am.

810
00:41:38,663 --> 00:41:40,415
-Mmm-hmm.
-[Lydia] And I'm so passionate.

811
00:41:40,498 --> 00:41:42,875
And I'm so genuine, and I'm so loving.

812
00:41:42,959 --> 00:41:45,086
[Milton] I mean,
I think you're an amazing person.

813
00:41:45,169 --> 00:41:46,796
I feel like you would be a great mother.

814
00:41:46,879 --> 00:41:48,131
[Lydia] I love you.

815
00:41:48,798 --> 00:41:51,342
[Milton] I've definitely fallen in love
with you.

816
00:41:51,426 --> 00:41:54,887
-You gonna be my Puerto Rican wife?
-Yes. [laughing]

817
00:41:54,971 --> 00:41:56,889
Yes, I will be your Puerto Rican wife.

818
00:41:58,057 --> 00:41:59,183
[both laugh]

819
00:42:01,477 --> 00:42:02,603
[Lydia] Oh, my God!

820
00:42:02,687 --> 00:42:07,066
I came to this experience
because I wanted to find love.

821
00:42:07,150 --> 00:42:09,736
Because I wanted to find my husband.

822
00:42:09,819 --> 00:42:12,363
And you know what? I did!

823
00:42:12,447 --> 00:42:15,158
-100%.
-[uplifting music playing]

824
00:42:18,828 --> 00:42:21,706
-No concerns about age?
-I would be concerned.

825
00:42:21,789 --> 00:42:25,960
-I just think of how I was when I was 24.
-[woman laughs]

826
00:42:26,044 --> 00:42:28,504
-[Lydia] Yeah, 'cause as we all...
-Party, party, party.

827
00:42:28,588 --> 00:42:30,882
That's what we all tend to do,
but he has...

828
00:42:30,965 --> 00:42:33,468
-[woman] He has proved you wrong?
-Yeah, he has proved me wrong.

829
00:42:33,551 --> 00:42:36,429
{\an8}And he's definitely more advanced
where I was at 24.

830
00:42:36,512 --> 00:42:40,641
He has his master's degree
and, like, engineer, and...

831
00:42:40,725 --> 00:42:45,354
He's the first one to, like, talk to me
and make sure that I'm not upset,

832
00:42:45,438 --> 00:42:48,232
that I'm happy, that...
We talk about everything.

833
00:42:48,316 --> 00:42:50,693
And that is exactly what I wanted.

834
00:42:50,777 --> 00:42:52,236
Someone who is gonna be able

835
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:55,490
to communicate with me properly
in all the ways.

836
00:42:55,573 --> 00:42:57,658
Have you had, like, a true fight?

837
00:42:57,742 --> 00:43:00,578
-Like, does he know...
-We have had our challenges.

838
00:43:00,661 --> 00:43:04,248
Actually, it was our last date out.
I had to walk out of the room

839
00:43:04,332 --> 00:43:08,961
because he did bring up
the situation with my past.

840
00:43:09,045 --> 00:43:10,880
-Let's call him...
-[Claudia] Unnameable!

841
00:43:10,963 --> 00:43:13,800
-Yeah, unnameable. Voldemort.
-[Lilibette laughing] Voldemort!

842
00:43:13,883 --> 00:43:17,595
And he was like, "Oh, I just didn't like
how you handled that situation."

843
00:43:17,678 --> 00:43:19,806
Like, "You were too emotional"
or something.

844
00:43:20,389 --> 00:43:23,726
I just think he judged me
a little bit for my reaction.

845
00:43:23,810 --> 00:43:25,937
And that was, like, hurting me.

846
00:43:26,771 --> 00:43:29,232
He was like, "Oh, I don't like
how you're reacting."

847
00:43:29,315 --> 00:43:31,776
And I let him know. We talked about it,

848
00:43:31,859 --> 00:43:34,987
and he understood where I was coming from,

849
00:43:35,071 --> 00:43:38,866
and he's like, "No, I didn't try
to judge you by anything."

850
00:43:38,950 --> 00:43:41,744
He believes that I had
to learn a little bit from his side,

851
00:43:41,828 --> 00:43:44,455
and I was like,
"You need to learn about being emotional,

852
00:43:44,539 --> 00:43:48,334
being able to be at peace
with your own emotions."

853
00:43:48,417 --> 00:43:50,128
But besides that,

854
00:43:50,211 --> 00:43:51,587
we get along great.

855
00:43:51,671 --> 00:43:56,509
{\an8}I mean, I know that he understands me,
and I understand where he's coming from.

856
00:43:57,552 --> 00:43:59,345
We have never disrespected each other.

857
00:43:59,428 --> 00:44:03,099
We talk every night before going to bed,

858
00:44:03,182 --> 00:44:05,143
and he's sweet
and loving and caring, you know.

859
00:44:05,226 --> 00:44:07,687
Every night, like, he hugs me,

860
00:44:07,770 --> 00:44:10,481
and he just wants to cuddle and hold me.

861
00:44:10,565 --> 00:44:15,528
And he always said to me,
"I... I never wanna let go."

862
00:44:16,154 --> 00:44:20,074
-And I've never had that before. Ooh!
-[friends laugh]

863
00:44:21,659 --> 00:44:22,660
I'm so happy.

864
00:44:22,743 --> 00:44:23,870
-[Lydia] Yeah.
-[all laughing]

865
00:44:23,953 --> 00:44:26,789
["Tracers in the Night" by Skye Emanuel,
LA VADER & Linasko Licks playing]

866
00:44:26,873 --> 00:44:30,835
<i>♪ From looking in your eyes ♪</i>

867
00:44:34,130 --> 00:44:37,008
[Milton] It's hard to describe
how I feel about Lydia. It's like...

868
00:44:38,259 --> 00:44:41,804
{\an8}I love how compassionate Lydia is.
I love how much empathy she has.

869
00:44:42,513 --> 00:44:45,850
I feel like that's something, like...
I've always wanted.

870
00:44:46,976 --> 00:44:49,812
I think Lydia is kind of
the exact woman I need.

871
00:44:52,481 --> 00:44:56,944
I've been up since 2:00 p.m. yesterday.
I had to work overnight.

872
00:44:57,028 --> 00:44:59,906
I got off at, like, 7:00 a.m. today.

873
00:44:59,989 --> 00:45:01,657
I've been up ever since.

874
00:45:01,741 --> 00:45:03,743
But today's my wedding day.

875
00:45:03,826 --> 00:45:06,996
Just because I worked all night
and got no sleep isn't gonna stop me

876
00:45:07,079 --> 00:45:08,206
from having a great day.

877
00:45:08,915 --> 00:45:09,999
[man] Yo!

878
00:45:10,499 --> 00:45:13,377
{\an8}-[Sebastian laughing] How's it going?
-[Milton] Hey, what's up?

879
00:45:13,461 --> 00:45:14,545
{\an8}[Josh] Okay.

880
00:45:14,629 --> 00:45:18,299
{\an8}-Nice. I see they got you a real barber.
-[all laughing]

881
00:45:18,382 --> 00:45:20,551
{\an8}-[Milton] Dude, we've been...
-[Josh laughs]

882
00:45:20,635 --> 00:45:23,429
[Josh] This might be the first time
he ever looks good for something.

883
00:45:23,512 --> 00:45:26,140
-It's not every day I get a haircut.
-So, how you feeling, man?

884
00:45:28,309 --> 00:45:31,229
-[Milton mocking] So how are you feeling?
-[Josh] Don't try to deflect.

885
00:45:32,271 --> 00:45:33,356
Feeling pretty...

886
00:45:34,357 --> 00:45:36,442
-Pretty Gucc.
-[Josh] Why'd you hesitate?

887
00:45:36,525 --> 00:45:38,069
[friends laughing]

888
00:45:38,152 --> 00:45:41,072
-[Josh] You're sounding nervous. Uh-oh.
-[friends laughing]

889
00:45:41,155 --> 00:45:46,035
Lydia's greatest strength is
at times one of her, like, weaknesses.

890
00:45:46,118 --> 00:45:47,703
Like, since she is so openly emotional,

891
00:45:47,787 --> 00:45:50,039
like, sometimes it's hard
for her to be reserved

892
00:45:50,122 --> 00:45:55,002
and make, like, really calculated
decisions in, like, a challenging time.

893
00:45:55,086 --> 00:45:57,713
-[whirring]
-[Milton] Honestly, I am getting nervous.

894
00:45:57,797 --> 00:45:59,423
Getting the jitters, which is strange.

895
00:45:59,507 --> 00:46:01,259
That doesn't typically happen to me.

896
00:46:01,342 --> 00:46:04,220
The sensation in my stomach is,
I don't know,

897
00:46:04,303 --> 00:46:08,015
just like an uneasy feeling, like,
kind of like you're on a roller coaster.

898
00:46:08,099 --> 00:46:10,059
Truthfully speaking, is anybody 100%?

899
00:46:10,142 --> 00:46:13,813
Like, I mean, I don't think
100% exists in anything in the world.

900
00:46:13,896 --> 00:46:16,065
You can probably be 99.9%,

901
00:46:16,816 --> 00:46:20,778
but 100% is a number
that I don't see too often.

902
00:46:20,861 --> 00:46:22,738
There's something I'm supposed to do.

903
00:46:22,822 --> 00:46:24,991
-Oh, I still need to, like, write.
-[indistinct chatter]

904
00:46:25,074 --> 00:46:26,409
I need to write, like, a...

905
00:46:26,492 --> 00:46:28,494
-[Zachary] Vows?
-[all laughing]

906
00:46:28,577 --> 00:46:30,413
-Oh!
-[Zachary] Milton!

907
00:46:30,496 --> 00:46:32,915
-[Josh] Milton!
-[Milton] Does anybody have a pencil, bro?

908
00:46:32,999 --> 00:46:34,375
Okay, I might have one.

909
00:46:34,458 --> 00:46:36,711
I don't like how all of us
have the same backpack.

910
00:46:36,794 --> 00:46:39,171
-Is there no pencils, bro?
-No, I got no pencils.

911
00:46:39,255 --> 00:46:40,381
Like, there's nothing.

912
00:46:40,464 --> 00:46:42,633
-[Milton] There's gotta be a pencil.
-There's no pencil.

913
00:46:42,717 --> 00:46:44,677
Okay. I might have one, bro.

914
00:46:45,845 --> 00:46:47,346
[Sebastian] You're just gonna...

915
00:46:48,097 --> 00:46:49,890
-[Josh groans]
-[Zachary] You're kidding me.

916
00:46:49,974 --> 00:46:52,268
-[all laughing]
-[Josh] What is this?

917
00:46:52,351 --> 00:46:55,896
-Oh, my God. Whose man is this? [laughs]
-[laughing]

918
00:46:55,980 --> 00:46:58,649
-[Josh] Lydia is so lucky.
-[friends laughing]

919
00:46:58,733 --> 00:46:59,984
[Alex] Oh, God.

920
00:47:00,651 --> 00:47:02,028
Are you ready to see him?

921
00:47:02,528 --> 00:47:04,196
[Lydia] Yes. I'm so ready to see him.

922
00:47:04,822 --> 00:47:06,782
You know I always say,
"Oh, I have a bad feeling"?

923
00:47:06,866 --> 00:47:07,908
[Claudia] Mmm-hmm.

924
00:47:08,576 --> 00:47:09,660
I don't have that.

925
00:47:11,037 --> 00:47:14,373
We have overcome the hardest days.

926
00:47:15,374 --> 00:47:20,171
What you can endure in two years
of marriage, you endured it in two days.

927
00:47:20,254 --> 00:47:22,173
-[chuckles]
-Oh, my God. [chuckles]

928
00:47:22,256 --> 00:47:23,799
And we overcome that.

929
00:47:25,301 --> 00:47:27,011
This feels so right.

930
00:47:27,094 --> 00:47:30,598
It feels right. It feels like
I'm marrying the love of my life.

931
00:47:31,098 --> 00:47:34,477
He's peace. He is protection.

932
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,520
He's everything I ever wanted and more.

933
00:47:37,188 --> 00:47:38,522
I found Milton.

934
00:47:39,357 --> 00:47:40,983
[in Spanish] Oh, my God!

935
00:47:41,067 --> 00:47:42,818
[laughing]

936
00:47:42,902 --> 00:47:44,070
[exclaims]

937
00:47:44,820 --> 00:47:48,324
-Ooh!
-["Together We Will Run" by Somer playing]

938
00:47:48,407 --> 00:47:51,786
[in English] All right, girls,
I'm gonna go get my wedding dress on!

939
00:47:51,869 --> 00:47:53,371
We can't wait to see you.

940
00:47:53,454 --> 00:47:54,747
Yes! [chuckles]

941
00:47:54,830 --> 00:47:59,460
<i>♪ Certain as the stars
Are shining down on all our dreams ♪</i>

942
00:47:59,543 --> 00:48:03,714
<i>♪ Certain as the sun
Always brings its light up ♪</i>

943
00:48:03,798 --> 00:48:08,344
<i>♪ I know there's a place
We were both meant to be ♪</i>

944
00:48:08,427 --> 00:48:11,472
-Hey, Bas, help me! Bro!
-[Sebastian] Ah! You got a chicken wing.

945
00:48:11,555 --> 00:48:12,807
-Dude!
-Stop.

946
00:48:12,890 --> 00:48:14,141
-[laughing]
-[Milton] It hurts.

947
00:48:14,225 --> 00:48:15,976
[Zachary] Can't take him anywhere.

948
00:48:16,769 --> 00:48:20,689
-Stop, stop, stop. Take it off.
-[laughing] Oh, my God.

949
00:48:21,524 --> 00:48:24,652
-Oh, here. No, like this. Like this.
-[Sebastian] Yes, there you go.

950
00:48:24,735 --> 00:48:26,153
-[Milton] Holy shit.
-Come on.

951
00:48:26,237 --> 00:48:29,281
No, like, have you thought this
through though? Like, be honest.

952
00:48:29,365 --> 00:48:30,825
-I think I have.
-[Zachary] Okay.

953
00:48:31,659 --> 00:48:33,744
[Milton] I don't know.
I wouldn't just blindly jump

954
00:48:33,828 --> 00:48:36,122
into a decision
unless I fully thought it through.

955
00:48:36,664 --> 00:48:40,042
I mean, I genuinely feel like
she makes me a better person.

956
00:48:40,543 --> 00:48:43,671
You know, you're saying
she was very emotional and you're...

957
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:46,966
-Sometime, you're not...
-[Josh laughs] You're not.

958
00:48:47,049 --> 00:48:48,926
[chuckles] Yeah,
you're not as emotional as her.

959
00:48:49,009 --> 00:48:50,386
Yeah, I mean...

960
00:48:51,095 --> 00:48:53,764
We're a pretty good, like, balance.
I'm not perfect.

961
00:48:53,848 --> 00:48:56,475
-I know you guys may think I am, but...
-[Alex] What?

962
00:48:56,559 --> 00:48:59,186
-[Josh] Your spine isn't even perfect.
-Fuck you!

963
00:48:59,687 --> 00:49:02,648
Lydia won't be the same person
you marry now as she will be in, like,

964
00:49:02,731 --> 00:49:05,359
ten, 15 years. This is...

965
00:49:05,443 --> 00:49:09,113
It's a lifelong journey, you know?

966
00:49:10,656 --> 00:49:12,908
All right, I think it started
to kind of hit me just now.

967
00:49:12,992 --> 00:49:14,743
-[Zachary] Just now?
-Yo, just now?

968
00:49:15,786 --> 00:49:16,954
[exhales]

969
00:49:17,037 --> 00:49:19,582
-["I Can Wait" by Øthers playing]
<i>-♪ It's never too long to wait</i>... <i>♪</i>

970
00:49:19,665 --> 00:49:20,666
-[Lydia Sr.] Okay.
-Yeah.

971
00:49:20,749 --> 00:49:22,918
<i>♪ I know what you're going through ♪</i>

972
00:49:23,002 --> 00:49:25,671
♪ <i>And all of your mistakes ♪</i>

973
00:49:25,754 --> 00:49:28,966
<i>♪ When you wanna run away ♪</i>

974
00:49:29,049 --> 00:49:31,051
<i>♪ And you're aching for a change ♪</i>

975
00:49:33,220 --> 00:49:34,430
[Lydia Sr.] Look at you!

976
00:49:35,181 --> 00:49:36,932
-[Lydia] I'm a bride!
-[Lydia Sr. sniffles]

977
00:49:39,435 --> 00:49:43,147
[in Spanish] You are a bride,
the most beautiful of them all.

978
00:49:44,231 --> 00:49:45,941
You will always be here.

979
00:49:46,817 --> 00:49:49,695
[inhales] You know
that I'll always be here.

980
00:49:50,321 --> 00:49:52,948
Always. Always.

981
00:49:53,491 --> 00:49:54,992
-I know.
-[sniffles]

982
00:49:55,618 --> 00:49:57,203
And I know that you will be happy.

983
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:01,665
You complement each other,
balance each other.

984
00:50:03,209 --> 00:50:05,252
And I know you'll be very happy.

985
00:50:06,045 --> 00:50:08,589
I love you. I'm very proud of you.

986
00:50:09,298 --> 00:50:10,424
Be happy.

987
00:50:11,050 --> 00:50:13,552
Enjoy each moment of your life.

988
00:50:13,636 --> 00:50:15,221
-[in English] I will.
-[laughs]

989
00:50:15,304 --> 00:50:16,972
-[in Spanish] I love you.
-I love you.

990
00:50:18,307 --> 00:50:20,476
[Lydia in English] All those heartbreaks.

991
00:50:20,559 --> 00:50:22,520
[voice breaks] All those lonely nights.

992
00:50:23,646 --> 00:50:25,231
All of those prayers.

993
00:50:26,232 --> 00:50:28,984
All of those doubts,
"Oh, my God, am I enough?"

994
00:50:29,568 --> 00:50:31,278
"What am I doing wrong?"

995
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,783
And I had the answer right in front of me.

996
00:50:36,909 --> 00:50:41,956
I was selecting people
that didn't have room for me.

997
00:50:42,039 --> 00:50:44,083
And I have found love! [chuckles]

998
00:50:44,166 --> 00:50:46,335
-[all exclaiming]
-[Claudia] Wow!

999
00:50:46,418 --> 00:50:49,213
[Janice] Oh, my God!

1000
00:50:49,797 --> 00:50:50,631
[Claudia gasps]

1001
00:50:50,714 --> 00:50:51,799
[in Spanish] So pretty!

1002
00:50:51,882 --> 00:50:55,135
-[Lilibette] You look beautiful.
-[Janice] Gorgeous.

1003
00:50:55,219 --> 00:50:56,428
[in English] Standing in...

1004
00:50:58,138 --> 00:51:01,141
Having this to be the best day yet.

1005
00:51:02,726 --> 00:51:05,062
{\an8}-[women gasping]
-[Lydia] William!

1006
00:51:05,145 --> 00:51:05,980
{\an8}[laughing]

1007
00:51:06,063 --> 00:51:07,856
-Oh, my God!
-[William in Spanish] Don't cry.

1008
00:51:09,817 --> 00:51:14,280
{\an8}[Lydia] So handsome! Come here. [laughing]

1009
00:51:14,822 --> 00:51:16,824
[Lydia in English]
If it wasn't for this experience...

1010
00:51:16,907 --> 00:51:18,409
I love you guys!

1011
00:51:18,909 --> 00:51:22,871
...I would not be standing here
about to get married.

1012
00:51:22,955 --> 00:51:25,082
-Now I'm ready!
-[all laughing]

1013
00:51:25,165 --> 00:51:27,918
I have the man of my dreams.

1014
00:51:28,002 --> 00:51:29,503
He's everything I wanted.

1015
00:51:30,296 --> 00:51:31,297
And more.

1016
00:51:31,797 --> 00:51:35,926
-Let's get this party started!
-[all exclaiming]

1017
00:51:36,010 --> 00:51:37,303
{\an8}[Milton] What's up, Dad?

1018
00:51:39,096 --> 00:51:42,099
-You bring cuff links?
-Yeah, I got the cuff links in there.

1019
00:51:42,182 --> 00:51:44,685
I have this. And there's these.

1020
00:51:49,982 --> 00:51:51,525
I kind of like those.

1021
00:51:51,609 --> 00:51:53,027
[James] I do like these.

1022
00:51:53,110 --> 00:51:55,529
If your mom don't mind, then you keep 'em,

1023
00:51:55,613 --> 00:51:57,239
'cause she's the one got 'em for me.

1024
00:51:59,074 --> 00:52:02,077
Any questions before you step
into the rest of your life?

1025
00:52:02,828 --> 00:52:04,371
-[Milton] Do I have any questions?
-Yeah.

1026
00:52:04,455 --> 00:52:06,290
-About what?
-For anything.

1027
00:52:07,416 --> 00:52:09,543
You ready to step into that role as

1028
00:52:11,128 --> 00:52:13,088
being the head priest of your house?

1029
00:52:13,714 --> 00:52:14,548
Yeah.

1030
00:52:14,632 --> 00:52:18,260
The time frame is what people
gonna keep questioning you on.

1031
00:52:18,344 --> 00:52:20,721
-Yeah, but...
-[James] But it doesn't matter.

1032
00:52:20,804 --> 00:52:23,390
-Yeah...
-You know what you want. You go after it.

1033
00:52:23,474 --> 00:52:24,308
Yep.

1034
00:52:24,850 --> 00:52:28,270
Just remember that everything is good
during the honeymoon phase,

1035
00:52:28,354 --> 00:52:29,521
the first two years.

1036
00:52:30,147 --> 00:52:31,940
That's why they call it
the honeymoon phase.

1037
00:52:32,024 --> 00:52:33,692
-Two years?
-[James] Yeah.

1038
00:52:33,776 --> 00:52:34,777
[Milton] Mmm.

1039
00:52:34,860 --> 00:52:36,612
We have pretty good communication.

1040
00:52:37,112 --> 00:52:38,739
[James] Make sure you're communicating,

1041
00:52:38,822 --> 00:52:40,532
and you're not
taking each other for granted.

1042
00:52:40,616 --> 00:52:43,744
That's what I'm saying.
You gotta learn how to fight fair.

1043
00:52:44,912 --> 00:52:47,665
And that's the biggest thing
I could tell you.

1044
00:52:48,582 --> 00:52:49,833
Learn to fight fair.

1045
00:52:50,459 --> 00:52:51,585
Yeah.

1046
00:52:51,669 --> 00:52:53,837
[James] I know you've seen
more than enough fights

1047
00:52:53,921 --> 00:52:55,297
from me and your mom.

1048
00:52:57,049 --> 00:52:59,468
Yep.
Yeah, but that's y'all's relationship.

1049
00:52:59,551 --> 00:53:01,387
That's independent of mine.

1050
00:53:01,470 --> 00:53:04,640
But anything will work as long
as you're willing to put the work in it.

1051
00:53:04,723 --> 00:53:06,892
And that's all I was trying to say.

1052
00:53:07,476 --> 00:53:09,561
We raised you to the best of our ability.

1053
00:53:10,062 --> 00:53:12,731
We're confident in your choices
that you make.

1054
00:53:12,815 --> 00:53:15,150
We'll see where it goes from here.

1055
00:53:16,902 --> 00:53:19,279
I wouldn't go into something unless I...

1056
00:53:19,363 --> 00:53:20,739
[James] I figured.

1057
00:53:21,824 --> 00:53:24,118
I guess you... you got it figured out.

1058
00:53:27,246 --> 00:53:30,249
[Milton] I feel like everyone
has reservations.

1059
00:53:30,332 --> 00:53:34,128
Everyone has certain obstacles
that they think I'm gonna face,

1060
00:53:34,211 --> 00:53:35,587
and I feel like everyone else

1061
00:53:35,671 --> 00:53:38,632
besides Lydia and I
are a lot more nervous than we are.

1062
00:53:39,591 --> 00:53:41,343
And, honestly, that's the scariest part.

1063
00:53:41,427 --> 00:53:44,388
I'm like, "Holy shit,
like, am I going into this super naïve?"

1064
00:53:44,471 --> 00:53:46,473
"Like, why do they think this way?"

1065
00:53:47,057 --> 00:53:50,519
"Should I be more worried?
Am I not thinking this out clearly?"

1066
00:53:51,019 --> 00:53:52,855
[dramatic music playing]

1067
00:53:52,938 --> 00:53:54,440
[indistinct chatter]

1068
00:53:58,444 --> 00:54:00,904
[Milton] I'm normally,
like, a really laid-back guy.

1069
00:54:00,988 --> 00:54:07,077
I will admit, though, I do feel my heart
beating two beats a minute faster,

1070
00:54:07,953 --> 00:54:10,581
so maybe the nerves
are slightly creeping up.

1071
00:54:11,540 --> 00:54:13,333
I'm gonna get to that "oh, shit" moment.

1072
00:54:13,417 --> 00:54:16,211
[dramatic music continues]

1073
00:54:26,972 --> 00:54:29,141
Just stand here, straight ahead.
Wait for your bride.

1074
00:54:29,224 --> 00:54:32,728
He does look handsome! Oh!

1075
00:54:35,522 --> 00:54:38,567
[upbeat music playing]

1076
00:54:41,445 --> 00:54:43,781
-Should I have this buttoned up?
-Hmm?

1077
00:54:43,864 --> 00:54:45,282
Should I have this buttoned?

1078
00:54:45,991 --> 00:54:47,034
The top one.

1079
00:54:56,835 --> 00:54:58,337
[in Spanish] He's gorgeous.

1080
00:54:59,630 --> 00:55:01,548
[upbeat music continues]

1081
00:55:15,270 --> 00:55:18,148
[Lydia in English] Yeah. "Welcome
to the wedding of Lydia and Milton."

1082
00:55:19,483 --> 00:55:20,359
Ready?

1083
00:55:21,276 --> 00:55:22,444
[Lydia Sr.] Love you so much.

1084
00:55:22,528 --> 00:55:23,445
I love you too.

1085
00:55:24,446 --> 00:55:26,198
[in Spanish] By your side, always.

1086
00:55:28,909 --> 00:55:31,370
[in English] Please rise for the bride.

1087
00:55:33,664 --> 00:55:35,666
[playing gentle bridal melody]

1088
00:55:47,469 --> 00:55:48,470
[Jessica] Okay.

1089
00:55:49,805 --> 00:55:50,848
It's beautiful.

1090
00:55:51,974 --> 00:55:52,975
[gasps]

1091
00:55:58,438 --> 00:55:59,481
[Lydia Sr. whispers] Okay.

1092
00:56:02,359 --> 00:56:04,361
[mother and daughter speak indistinctly]

1093
00:56:10,909 --> 00:56:12,286
[officiant] Please be seated.

1094
00:56:19,793 --> 00:56:24,339
We are gathered here today to celebrate
one of life's greatest moments,

1095
00:56:25,007 --> 00:56:28,969
to give recognition
to the worth and beauty of love

1096
00:56:29,052 --> 00:56:32,306
and to add our best wishes
to the words that shall unite

1097
00:56:32,389 --> 00:56:36,143
Lydia and Milton in marriage.

1098
00:56:37,060 --> 00:56:40,647
I would ask that you both
remind yourself often

1099
00:56:40,731 --> 00:56:42,816
of what brought you together today.

1100
00:56:44,151 --> 00:56:50,073
Give the highest priority
to tenderness, gentleness, and kindness

1101
00:56:50,949 --> 00:56:52,618
that your marriage deserves.

1102
00:56:54,161 --> 00:56:57,456
When clouds of trouble
hide the sun in your lives,

1103
00:56:57,539 --> 00:57:00,208
remember that the sun is still there.

1104
00:57:01,335 --> 00:57:03,629
And if each of you
will take responsibility

1105
00:57:03,712 --> 00:57:06,048
for the quality of your life together,

1106
00:57:06,590 --> 00:57:10,427
it will be marked
with abundance and delight.

1107
00:57:11,261 --> 00:57:13,347
Lydia and Milton,

1108
00:57:14,348 --> 00:57:17,643
today we celebrate the power of your love

1109
00:57:17,726 --> 00:57:20,437
and the strength of your bond.

1110
00:57:23,190 --> 00:57:25,192
I fell in love with you

1111
00:57:25,275 --> 00:57:27,027
'cause you chose me.

1112
00:57:28,445 --> 00:57:30,030
Countless laughs,

1113
00:57:30,822 --> 00:57:32,908
hour-long conversations,

1114
00:57:32,991 --> 00:57:35,911
and you made sure
that I knew I was your first.

1115
00:57:37,287 --> 00:57:40,207
I've fallen in love with you
'cause you listened.

1116
00:57:40,290 --> 00:57:44,586
You comprehend.
You understanded who I was.

1117
00:57:46,838 --> 00:57:48,674
Genuinely me.

1118
00:57:57,307 --> 00:57:59,977
I fell in love
with you in the pods because

1119
00:58:01,728 --> 00:58:02,771
you interested me.

1120
00:58:02,854 --> 00:58:05,315
You challenged me and my thinking.

1121
00:58:06,108 --> 00:58:08,610
You always inspired me to be more.

1122
00:58:09,778 --> 00:58:12,114
We had our ups, we had our downs,

1123
00:58:12,990 --> 00:58:16,034
and the communication maturity
that you showed,

1124
00:58:16,702 --> 00:58:18,745
I knew you were the one.

1125
00:58:20,747 --> 00:58:22,791
I never had a doubt about you

1126
00:58:23,375 --> 00:58:26,670
and I hope it continues
to be like that forever.

1127
00:58:31,008 --> 00:58:35,637
[officiant] You fell in love with each
other based on who you are on the inside

1128
00:58:35,721 --> 00:58:39,141
and decided to get married, sight unseen.

1129
00:58:40,642 --> 00:58:45,605
Now is the time to decide
if love is blind.

1130
00:58:46,690 --> 00:58:50,485
Lydia, do you take Milton
to be your husband?

1131
00:58:50,569 --> 00:58:55,699
Do you promise to love,
honor, cherish, and protect him,

1132
00:58:56,533 --> 00:59:00,871
forsaking all others
and holding only onto him?

1133
00:59:01,371 --> 00:59:03,373
[suspenseful music playing]

1134
00:59:10,338 --> 00:59:11,339
Yes, I do.

1135
00:59:14,217 --> 00:59:15,552
[laughs nervously]

1136
00:59:16,136 --> 00:59:17,179
[mouths] I love you.

1137
00:59:18,847 --> 00:59:20,348
Aww.

1138
00:59:21,308 --> 00:59:25,771
[officiant] And, Milton,
do you take Lydia to be your wife?

1139
00:59:26,813 --> 00:59:31,651
Do you promise to love,
honor, cherish and protect her,

1140
00:59:32,152 --> 00:59:36,698
forsaking all others
and holding only onto her?

1141
00:59:37,282 --> 00:59:39,284
[suspenseful music playing]

1142
00:59:44,915 --> 00:59:46,541
-I do.
-[all laughing]

1143
00:59:46,625 --> 00:59:48,251
I thought you were gonna say more words.

1144
00:59:48,335 --> 00:59:50,212
[all cheering]

1145
00:59:50,295 --> 00:59:52,339
[uplifting music playing]

1146
01:00:01,014 --> 01:00:02,516
He didn't tell him to!

1147
01:00:06,019 --> 01:00:07,729
You're not supposed to kiss the bride yet!

1148
01:00:07,813 --> 01:00:10,524
-Oh, I'm not?
-[officiant laughing]

1149
01:00:10,607 --> 01:00:12,526
[Milton] I thought I was supposed to!

1150
01:00:12,609 --> 01:00:14,820
-It's okay, man. It's okay.
-[laughing]

1151
01:00:15,612 --> 01:00:16,446
Continue.

1152
01:00:17,155 --> 01:00:18,532
[officiant] A wedding ring...

1153
01:00:19,074 --> 01:00:21,660
-Oh.
-Oh! We don't even have that yet.

1154
01:00:21,743 --> 01:00:23,954
[all laughing]

1155
01:00:25,956 --> 01:00:29,376
A wedding ring is a symbol of love

1156
01:00:30,293 --> 01:00:31,503
that never ends.

1157
01:00:32,921 --> 01:00:35,173
As you wear them throughout time,

1158
01:00:35,841 --> 01:00:39,845
they will reflect not only
who you are as individuals,

1159
01:00:39,928 --> 01:00:42,139
but also who you are as a couple.

1160
01:00:42,639 --> 01:00:45,934
Milton, Lydia, repeat after me.

1161
01:00:46,434 --> 01:00:47,435
I, Milton.

1162
01:00:48,812 --> 01:00:49,646
I, Milton.

1163
01:00:50,147 --> 01:00:50,981
I, Lydia.

1164
01:00:51,064 --> 01:00:52,065
Take you, Lydia.

1165
01:00:52,149 --> 01:00:53,150
Take you, Milton.

1166
01:00:53,233 --> 01:00:54,151
As my wife.

1167
01:00:54,234 --> 01:00:55,402
As my husband.

1168
01:00:55,485 --> 01:00:56,903
[Milton] To have and to hold.

1169
01:00:56,987 --> 01:00:58,405
[Lydia] In sickness and in health.

1170
01:00:58,488 --> 01:00:59,948
For richer and for poorer.

1171
01:01:00,031 --> 01:01:01,741
In joy and in sorrow.

1172
01:01:01,825 --> 01:01:03,368
I promise my love to you.

1173
01:01:03,451 --> 01:01:05,162
I promise my love to you.

1174
01:01:05,245 --> 01:01:09,833
It is my great pleasure to pronounce
that you are now husband and wife.

1175
01:01:09,916 --> 01:01:12,127
-You may kiss your bride.
-[Milton] Oh, now.

1176
01:01:12,210 --> 01:01:13,545
[crowd cheering]

1177
01:01:13,628 --> 01:01:15,338
["Chasing Stars"
by Animal Island playing]

1178
01:01:15,422 --> 01:01:16,882
[all cheering]

1179
01:01:23,471 --> 01:01:24,973
Whoo-hoo!

1180
01:01:27,142 --> 01:01:30,437
<i>♪ Hearts racing, come alive... ♪</i>

1181
01:01:31,021 --> 01:01:33,356
[officiant] Ladies and gentlemen,

1182
01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:38,195
Mr. and Mrs. Lydia
and James Milton Johnson.

1183
01:01:38,278 --> 01:01:40,071
[all cheering]

1184
01:01:42,866 --> 01:01:46,119
<i>♪ It's our time, we can go so far ♪</i>

1185
01:01:46,203 --> 01:01:48,997
<i>♪ Let's run into the night... ♪</i>

1186
01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:50,582
Whoo-hoo!

1187
01:01:50,665 --> 01:01:52,918
You're supposed to be happy.

1188
01:01:53,001 --> 01:01:55,378
-I am happy!
-[laughing]

1189
01:01:57,214 --> 01:01:59,549
-Do you know how to pop a bottle?
-Of course I do!

1190
01:01:59,633 --> 01:02:00,717
[Lydia] Mmm?

1191
01:02:01,384 --> 01:02:03,094
-No!
-I know how to do it.

1192
01:02:03,178 --> 01:02:06,097
-Yeah, right.
-I was... I'm twisting! I'm doing it!

1193
01:02:06,181 --> 01:02:07,641
Watch and learn, mister.

1194
01:02:07,724 --> 01:02:08,725
[cork pops]

1195
01:02:09,476 --> 01:02:11,478
-[Milton] I wasn't scared.
-Yeah, right.

1196
01:02:11,978 --> 01:02:15,106
[Lydia] Getting married,
it is a dream come true.

1197
01:02:15,190 --> 01:02:18,193
I feel so, so, so happy.

1198
01:02:18,902 --> 01:02:21,321
I got everything I need right here.

1199
01:02:22,030 --> 01:02:23,990
-You finished it?
-I thought we were supposed to.

1200
01:02:24,074 --> 01:02:26,451
[laughing] That's not a fucking shot.

1201
01:02:26,534 --> 01:02:28,078
It's not a shot!

1202
01:02:28,578 --> 01:02:31,373
It feels like home. It feels safe.

1203
01:02:33,458 --> 01:02:38,463
<i>♪ Oh, we can go anywhere, anywhere ♪</i>

1204
01:02:40,048 --> 01:02:40,882
[Lydia] What?

1205
01:02:41,466 --> 01:02:42,509
You look pretty.

1206
01:02:43,009 --> 01:02:44,719
-I love you.
-I love you too.

1207
01:02:46,054 --> 01:02:48,807
[mutters] Oop! My veil is down.

1208
01:02:49,891 --> 01:02:52,269
I'm scared if you put it on, 'cause...

1209
01:02:53,228 --> 01:02:54,562
Oh, my... [laughing]

1210
01:02:55,897 --> 01:02:56,898
How do I look?

1211
01:02:56,982 --> 01:03:00,652
Oh, my God. You look so sexy. My bride!

1212
01:03:01,987 --> 01:03:04,114
Gimme a walk.
Come, gimme a walk from there.

1213
01:03:04,197 --> 01:03:05,115
I wanna see you.

1214
01:03:05,198 --> 01:03:06,074
Give it to me.

1215
01:03:07,075 --> 01:03:10,912
Mmm! I dig that! Oh! Oh! Where are...

1216
01:03:10,996 --> 01:03:11,871
Oh! Oh...

1217
01:03:13,039 --> 01:03:16,334
<i>♪ Let's run into the night ♪</i>

1218
01:03:16,418 --> 01:03:19,004
<i>♪ These days we burn so bright ♪</i>

1219
01:03:21,756 --> 01:03:25,427
<i>♪ All my life I've been chasing stars ♪</i>

1220
01:03:26,052 --> 01:03:28,054
["Let Me Go" by Marina Bennett playing]

1221
01:03:31,558 --> 01:03:36,271
<i>♪ So long since I have seen myself... ♪</i>

1222
01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:39,649
[Izzy] I definitely feel love is blind,

1223
01:03:39,733 --> 01:03:41,609
because what I've experienced... [sighs]

1224
01:03:41,693 --> 01:03:44,362
...is I don't care how you look,

1225
01:03:44,946 --> 01:03:46,406
how much money you make.

1226
01:03:46,906 --> 01:03:50,744
You put everything aside
that people face in the real world

1227
01:03:50,827 --> 01:03:53,413
when you find
that connection with someone.

1228
01:03:54,748 --> 01:03:58,835
I'm just really sad 'cause I gave
everything I had to give to someone.

1229
01:03:59,502 --> 01:04:04,007
[sniffles] But I deserve someone
to love me the same way that I love.

1230
01:04:04,591 --> 01:04:06,718
I deserve the effort that I put in...

1231
01:04:06,801 --> 01:04:09,888
[crying] ...to be reciprocated.

1232
01:04:11,264 --> 01:04:12,265
That's what I deserve.

1233
01:04:12,349 --> 01:04:14,768
<i>♪ You have to let me go... ♪</i>

1234
01:04:14,851 --> 01:04:17,312
-[exhales]
<i>-♪ You'll be all right ♪</i>

1235
01:04:17,395 --> 01:04:18,480
[sniffles]

1236
01:04:18,563 --> 01:04:20,940
<i>♪ The sun will rise... ♪</i>

1237
01:04:21,024 --> 01:04:23,193
[Stacy] Love is absolutely blind.

1238
01:04:23,276 --> 01:04:28,031
Izzy opened me up emotionally in a way
that I never thought was possible,

1239
01:04:28,656 --> 01:04:31,993
but I don't have 100% certainty.

1240
01:04:32,494 --> 01:04:36,790
Fairly certain isn't good enough
for me to say yes to the rest of my life.

1241
01:04:37,957 --> 01:04:41,711
<i>♪ Tried to say goodbye
And never find the words ♪</i>

1242
01:04:41,795 --> 01:04:46,966
<i>♪ Holding on too tight
I know what I deserve ♪</i>

1243
01:04:47,050 --> 01:04:49,302
<i>♪ You have to let me go ♪</i>

1244
01:04:49,386 --> 01:04:52,722
<i>♪ You'll be all right ♪</i>

1245
01:04:53,306 --> 01:04:55,850
[Taylor] Part of me regrets
not going through with it.

1246
01:04:55,934 --> 01:04:59,062
-[JP crying] Will you marry me?
-I will! [laughs]

1247
01:04:59,145 --> 01:05:02,524
Trying to live with JP,
meeting each other's families and stuff...

1248
01:05:02,607 --> 01:05:04,067
I love you so much!

1249
01:05:04,150 --> 01:05:05,068
I love you too.

1250
01:05:05,151 --> 01:05:06,945
[Taylor] Because my feelings
were real for him.

1251
01:05:07,529 --> 01:05:09,406
But a lot of my heart
says I did the right thing.

1252
01:05:10,782 --> 01:05:14,202
I think my inability to open up
has definitely pushed women away.

1253
01:05:14,285 --> 01:05:17,122
Uh, it's definitely something
that I know I need to work on.

1254
01:05:17,205 --> 01:05:20,834
I still wanna keep trying, 'cause there's
someone out there for everyone.

1255
01:05:21,709 --> 01:05:27,632
I do regret not creating that environment
where Aaliyah felt vulnerable,

1256
01:05:27,715 --> 01:05:29,342
and where she felt safe.

1257
01:05:29,426 --> 01:05:32,137
Oh, boy, you're a recent cheater.

1258
01:05:32,220 --> 01:05:35,014
And that is something
that I'm going to work on,

1259
01:05:35,098 --> 01:05:38,351
so I can grow,
and I can be a better communicator,

1260
01:05:38,435 --> 01:05:41,980
and I can be better
in a relationship in the future.

1261
01:05:42,063 --> 01:05:43,481
<i>♪ I wanted you to know... ♪</i>

1262
01:05:43,565 --> 01:05:45,442
[Aaliyah] Love is a mindset.

1263
01:05:45,525 --> 01:05:48,570
It's a lifestyle, and it's a daily choice.

1264
01:05:48,653 --> 01:05:52,240
This experiment has challenged me
in a really weird way

1265
01:05:52,323 --> 01:05:55,160
that I've never experienced
in my life before.

1266
01:05:55,243 --> 01:05:57,328
[Uche] I can't believe some girl
said something to you,

1267
01:05:57,412 --> 01:05:59,247
and you let that come in between us.

1268
01:05:59,330 --> 01:06:02,000
[Aaliyah crying on phone] <i>Uche, I'm sorry!</i>

1269
01:06:02,083 --> 01:06:03,376
I regret leaving you like that.

1270
01:06:04,544 --> 01:06:05,628
I do love you.

1271
01:06:05,712 --> 01:06:08,631
I've learned not to be afraid
to really open yourself up

1272
01:06:08,715 --> 01:06:11,342
to the possibility of something
that scares you.

1273
01:06:11,426 --> 01:06:13,428
["Let Me Go" continues playing]

1274
01:06:14,053 --> 01:06:17,056
[Johnie] I've learned that I'm definitely
not a perfect person.

1275
01:06:17,140 --> 01:06:20,602
Like, I haven't always
made the best decisions.

1276
01:06:20,685 --> 01:06:22,020
I do want you.

1277
01:06:22,103 --> 01:06:26,274
-Yeah.
-I messed up, and I'm... I'm sorry, but...

1278
01:06:26,357 --> 01:06:29,444
[Johnie crying] I am capable
of having a healthy relationship.

1279
01:06:29,527 --> 01:06:31,696
No, that's Chris. You know we're official?

1280
01:06:32,363 --> 01:06:35,158
[chuckles] Love and commitment
is still gonna be a lot of work,

1281
01:06:35,241 --> 01:06:36,910
but I'm not gonna give up.

1282
01:06:36,993 --> 01:06:39,120
<i>♪ I know what I deserve... ♪</i>

1283
01:06:39,204 --> 01:06:40,038
You okay?

1284
01:06:41,039 --> 01:06:44,125
I believe love is blind,
because in my life,

1285
01:06:44,209 --> 01:06:47,420
the emotional connection
brings out the physical connection.

1286
01:06:48,129 --> 01:06:52,592
And I've grown and learned
that sometimes love is very unexpected.

1287
01:06:53,092 --> 01:06:54,802
You just kind of
have to follow your heart,

1288
01:06:54,886 --> 01:06:58,056
and I'm just really optimistic

1289
01:06:58,139 --> 01:07:00,308
and very excited for the future.

1290
01:07:00,975 --> 01:07:02,018
We will see.

1291
01:07:03,520 --> 01:07:05,563
[man] Come on!
Let's hear it for the bride and groom!

1292
01:07:05,647 --> 01:07:08,358
[crowd cheering]

1293
01:07:08,441 --> 01:07:11,152
["Big Big Love"
by Belinda Carlisle playing]

1294
01:07:12,278 --> 01:07:13,947
[both] We are married!

1295
01:07:14,030 --> 01:07:16,741
I feel amazing!

1296
01:07:16,824 --> 01:07:17,700
[man] Yeah, buddy!

1297
01:07:17,784 --> 01:07:21,287
[Milton] All the data points led me to...
"This is the right decision."

1298
01:07:21,371 --> 01:07:23,540
All is said and done,
the only thing that matters is

1299
01:07:24,290 --> 01:07:25,833
we're both happy with one another.

1300
01:07:25,917 --> 01:07:28,378
We both challenge each other to do better.

1301
01:07:28,461 --> 01:07:29,671
And we love each other.

1302
01:07:29,754 --> 01:07:31,256
-Yeah, I guess that too.
-[chuckles]

1303
01:07:31,339 --> 01:07:35,176
<i>♪ I want a love that keeps me up nights
Gives me butterflies... ♪</i>

1304
01:07:35,260 --> 01:07:36,594
[all cheering]

1305
01:07:36,678 --> 01:07:41,224
If I could describe my relationship
in one sentence, it would be,

1306
01:07:41,307 --> 01:07:44,143
"The imperfect perfectly
relationship for me."

1307
01:07:45,395 --> 01:07:48,231
What does that even mean?
Your English is so bad.

1308
01:07:48,314 --> 01:07:50,233
[chuckles] I'll explain it to you later.

1309
01:07:50,316 --> 01:07:52,860
<i>♪ I'm looking for a big, big love... ♪</i>

1310
01:07:52,944 --> 01:07:53,987
[Lydia] Do it together.

1311
01:07:54,654 --> 01:07:57,991
-You're not supposed to do it like that!
-You're supposed to do it from the top.

1312
01:07:58,074 --> 01:08:00,994
-Supposed to do it through the bottom.
-No, you do it from the top.

1313
01:08:01,077 --> 01:08:03,496
-This is just the beginning.
-I do believe love is blind.

1314
01:08:03,580 --> 01:08:06,499
I married the man of my dreams
and a little bit more.

1315
01:08:07,375 --> 01:08:08,585
[crowd cheering]

1316
01:08:09,335 --> 01:08:12,589
[Lydia] I am ready
to start my life with my husband.

1317
01:08:12,672 --> 01:08:13,506
New chapter.

1318
01:08:13,590 --> 01:08:16,301
-The beginning of our forever.
-Mmm-hmm.

1319
01:08:16,384 --> 01:08:20,305
<i>♪ Come and knock me off my feet... ♪</i>

1320
01:08:21,389 --> 01:08:23,057
-I love you.
-I love you too.

1321
01:08:23,141 --> 01:08:25,435
<i>♪ Big, big love ♪</i>

1322
01:08:25,518 --> 01:08:27,353
<i>♪ That takes up
All the space in my heart... ♪</i>

1323
01:08:27,437 --> 01:08:30,773
Oh, my God! You're gonna make me fall.
What are you doing?

1324
01:08:30,857 --> 01:08:32,942
-Trying to organize myself.
-Okay, like that.

1325
01:08:33,026 --> 01:08:36,029
-["Big Big Love" continues playing]
-[crowd cheering]

1326
01:08:36,112 --> 01:08:37,864
<i>♪ I'm gonna find it ♪</i>

1327
01:08:37,947 --> 01:08:41,034
<i>♪ That big, big love ♪</i>

1328
01:08:41,117 --> 01:08:43,745
<i>♪ Big, big love ♪</i>

1329
01:08:43,828 --> 01:08:46,372
<i>♪ Big, big love ♪</i>

1330
01:08:46,456 --> 01:08:48,875
<i>♪ Big, big love ♪</i>

1331
01:08:48,958 --> 01:08:54,881
<i>♪ Big, big love ♪</i>

1332
01:08:54,964 --> 01:08:57,050
<i>♪ I'm gonna find it ♪</i>

1333
01:08:57,133 --> 01:08:59,886
<i>♪ I'm gonna find it ♪</i>

1334
01:08:59,969 --> 01:09:02,889
<i>♪ That big, big love ♪</i>

1335
01:09:02,972 --> 01:09:05,892
<i>♪ Big, big love ♪</i>

1336
01:09:05,975 --> 01:09:08,478
<i>♪ Big, big love ♪</i>

1337
01:09:08,561 --> 01:09:10,897
<i>♪ Big, big love ♪</i>

1338
01:09:10,980 --> 01:09:16,903
<i>♪ Big, big love ♪</i>

1339
01:09:16,986 --> 01:09:18,905
{\an8}<i>♪ Big, big love ♪</i>