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[pop music playing]

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[Jimmy] I love everything you've done
for me and the way you treat me.

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I want that in a wife.

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[both laughing]

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Oh, my God.

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[Jeramey] A whole new chapter.

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[AD] I've never felt this protected
and this secure.

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-This can work.
-Yes.

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Mm!

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We love her.

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-[laughing]
-[Maria] Johnny! We love this!

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-Good work!
-[laughing]

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If I don't get my dad's blessing,
I don't know if I can move forward.

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[sobbing] I just
couldn't give you all of me.

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[sniffles]

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I'm so sorry.

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Don't be sorry.
You just loved somebody else more.

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I've dated people
who have really good girlfriends.

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And they've all cheated on me.

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He saw a picture
of the girl that he almost picked.

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I don't know if that's kind of
messing with his mind a little bit?

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Truthfully, I felt like
you've been a little clingy.

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"Clingy"?

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You started causing these problems
the second you saw Jess's picture.

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Do you think that he would wanna see me?

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Yeah.

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Oh.

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We will probably meet again at some point.

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We'll see each other again.

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[Laura] Basically, he was dating
this other girl up until the end.

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I do really think that she liked him.

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-And I do really think that he liked her.
-I did.

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You hung back with Sarah Ann
and were talking till 5:00 a.m.?

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-Yes.
-Where?

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-In the parking lot.
-You were north of Uptown.

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Which is where Sarah Ann lives.

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I want out.

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-[pop music playing]
<i>-♪ Gave you what you want ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Gave you what you need ♪</i>

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<i>♪ I've been going deep ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Baby, can't you see... ♪</i>

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-Oh, it's the most exciting thing ever.
-[laughs]

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-Today.
-Yeah.

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You ready?

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{\an8}[barks]

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{\an8}[woman] "Where are my balls?"

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Hush.

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-Okay... okay, bye!
-[laughs]

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[barking]

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[Jeramey exhales]

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{\an8}So I kind of got myself
into a little bit of trouble.

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{\an8}Went out with a couple of the guys.

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Was on my way out, found out that

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{\an8}there's this girl that I was
in kind of, like, a love triangle with.

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I found out that she was gonna be out,
so I was like, "I'll deal with it."

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She and I ended up getting into
a conversation, talking through the night.

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Nothing, you know, inappropriate happened,
anything like that,

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but then it turned out to be, like,
4:30 in the morning at that point.

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She was gonna get an Uber.
I was like, "How far away do you live?"

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She was like, "Eight minutes away."

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I was like, "Cool, I'll drive you home."
"No big deal. Whatever."

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So I literally drove her there. We talked
for a few minutes, and I just left.

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Came back home.
Like, nothing... nothing happened.

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When I got home, it was probably, like,
5:30 in the morning at this point.

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And I just went
and slept right on the couch.

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I even told Laura straight up.

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"Here's what happened."

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"Here's the chain of events,"
all that stuff.

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And the conversation
didn't go well at all.

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You're lucky... it wasn't me.

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[both laugh]

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You wouldn't have just walked in the door.

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I would have been sitting there
waiting for you.

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I... I acknowledge how it looks.

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I was having a good conversation.
It was a constructive conversation.

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-But she doesn't know.
-She doesn't.

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She's at home laying in bed,
waiting for you to come home,

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knowing that you went out drinking
with the guys.

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Now, I didn't realize I was gonna
potentially lose a fiancée over that.

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Well, I could've told you that,
but you didn't call me.

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-It wasn't planned.
-[laughs]

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It wasn't, "This is what I'm gonna do.
I'm gonna go fuck up and have fun!"

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-[both laugh]
-[Jeramey] It's not what my brain did.

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I mean, it sucks.

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I know. You really...

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You've really...
I mean, you told me you loved her.

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And you don't say that about people

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and talk about relationships
like you have.

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[Jeramey] Hmm.

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The few times I've talked to you,
you've just been really excited.

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Yeah.

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So I don't know if I'm gonna have
a daughter-in-law or not.

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[barking]

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You've always got Layla. [chuckles]

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-[pop music playing]
<i>-♪ I will love ♪</i>

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<i>♪ On your eyes ♪</i>

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<i>♪ I will stay in your fire ♪</i>

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{\an8}<i>♪ Find a space, nothing more ♪</i>

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{\an8}<i>♪ Then I fall for my soul ♪</i>

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{\an8}Can you find me some more H2's
with some H3's on it?

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{\an8}[Amy] I'm gonna organize these.

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[Johnny] You gotta screw in
this next bolt. You got it, babe!

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[Amy] My wrist hurts.

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I'm a princess.
I wasn't meant to do this stuff.

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That's all you.
I'm meant to be a cheerleader.

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[Johnny] What are we gonna do with you?

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-Marry me?
-[laughs]

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[pop music playing]

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<i>♪ These are the days ♪</i>

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<i>♪ These are the moments where we... ♪</i>

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{\an8}-Yeah. So, you ate here before?
-Nope.

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{\an8}-I'm excited.
-Smokehouse, baby.

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{\an8}We're grabbing some barbecue.
I'm gonna introduce Chelsea to my family.

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[mother] There he is.

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You see him?

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-He's got a big smile on his face.
-[laughing]

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-[father] Is that him?
-[mother] Yeah. That's your son.

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Oh, my God, they're so cute!

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That's my baby.

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Hi, guys! How are you?

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-Get out of here!
-[laughing]

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-[mother] That's my baby.
-Good to see you.

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I love my parents to death. I don't
introduce my parents to just anybody.

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So you're the one that's took my baby.

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{\an8}I took him. I'm working on it.

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{\an8}I want my parents to know
that I'm truly in love with Chelsea,

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and I want them
to understand how she makes me feel.

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And their impression of Chelsea
means the world to me.

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-Try again.
-Here.

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[laughing]

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-[mother] You always break the new ones.
-[laughing]

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-[sister] Oh, the ring. Let me see. Wow!
-[mother] I haven't even seen the ring.

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Oh, wow.

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-It is pretty.
-[laughing]

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{\an8}So what did you first see about him
that you really liked?

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{\an8}-He was so open and emotional with me.
-Don't tell my dad that.

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{\an8}[laughing]

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{\an8}He just drew a picture of,
like, what life would look like with him.

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And it was just,
like, the most basic life.

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And it just sounded so amazing.

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-I could see him, like, "That's the guy."
-[Donna] Yeah.

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Don't tell my dad
I was painting pictures for you and stuff.

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[laughing]

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[Jimmy] You know
I'm ready for a relationship.

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I want someone that I can
spend my life with and be a best friend.

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[Janet] Yeah.

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You know, pick me up when I'm down
and I can talk to about anything.

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And Chelsea is that.

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I'm so ready to have someone
to share my life with.

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I think I'm settled in who I am
as a person and my career.

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I'm tired of doing it alone.

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So, have y'all talked about having kids?

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Yeah, totally.

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-Y'all are both young. How old are you?
-I'm 30.

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-You're 30? Wow.
-[Chelsea] Yeah. Mm-hmm.

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-Yeah.
-[laughing]

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-I'm the baby girl. He's the baby boy, so...
-[Chelsea laughs] I love that.

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That was one of the main reasons
that I really gravitated towards him.

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He said he has such a great relationship
with his dad, his mom, all his siblings.

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I will say marriage is really hard.

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So what makes you think
you're ready for that? 'Cause it's...

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I've been married for three years,
not as long as them, but it's hard.

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Yeah. We communicate so well.

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We've had a couple fights,
but hasn't been any deal-breakers.

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I don't even think they've been fights.
They've just been conversations.

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I'm so grateful that we had our conflicts

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and, like, see how we both handle
being, you know, angry or upset.

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If you date someone long enough,
naturally, conflict comes.

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It either makes you or breaks you,
and we've handled it amazing.

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There hasn't been a lot that
we haven't been on the same page about.

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You know that I date very intentional.

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I mean, I don't date somebody
just to try them out.

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You know, I date
to get married to that person.

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When I think of
the woman I want as a wife, it's her.

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I've been looking for someone that
treats me the way she has a long time.

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I can tell her I love her,
and she tells me it back,

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and I can tell she means it.

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I think she's incredible.

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I really do love her,
and I would be thrilled to call her mine.

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And been single two years now,

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and she's been nothing but...

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what I've been looking for
this entire time.

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[Janet] So this is gonna be your wife?

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-She's nice. I like her.
-She's got a very good attitude.

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She knows what she wants.

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And y'all were clearly able
to work through some things

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that you've got going on.

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[Jimmy] Right.

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I think you're just very sweet.

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-Thank you.
-[Janet] Beautiful. Got a good soul.

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-I can see how much you care about him.
-[Chelsea] Mm-hmm.

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And I know
that you've got that connection.

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I know you do. I can see it.

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Jimmy going through this experiment,

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{\an8}it's opened him up.
I can see a different person.

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I can see the love in him
that I've never seen with anybody else.

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She stole my son's heart.
I can already see that.

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If this is what Jimmy wants,

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is to get married
and start a life with Chelsea,

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I would be happy for him.

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That's all a mother ever wants,
is for their kids to be happy.

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One of the things
that I'd like to tell y'all,

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being with this guy right here
for many years...

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[father] How many years?

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-Forty-three years I've loved him.
-Oh, my gosh! That's amazing.

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-Right?
-[Jimmy] He asked her 'cause he forgot.

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[laughing]

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{\an8}But when we first got together,
we wrote down...

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{\an8}'Cause there was some things
you didn't like about me.

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There were some things
I didn't like about you.

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First thing on top of my list...

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[laughing] Don't go there.

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...that I don't like about her
is she's a pack rat.

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[laughing]

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The second thing is "she's a pack rat."

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The third thing is "she's a pack rat."

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Other than the daily nagging and stuff,
I love her to death.

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-We get along fine.
-[laughing]

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{\an8}-[pop music playing]
<i>-♪ I love the way that you are, oh! ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Oh, I love the way that you are ♪</i>

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<i>♪ I love the way that you are, oh! ♪</i>

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{\an8}<i>♪ Oh, I love the way that you are ♪</i>

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Excited for you to meet him. [squeals]

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This is ridiculous.

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Let me just...
I don't even need to put on my glasses.

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{\an8}He's cute. I'm telling you.

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{\an8}-He's a looker. A looker.
-[mother] Mm! Mm!

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{\an8}-I'm excited. I'm really excited.
-I'm excited for you to meet the man.

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It'll be the first time
I've seen him since yesterday,

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um, early afternoon.

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00:10:45,853 --> 00:10:50,232
Last night, I had planned,
like, this super-cute DIY thing,

232
00:10:50,316 --> 00:10:51,567
like, arts and crafts,

233
00:10:51,651 --> 00:10:55,446
and, like, I wrote out 25 reasons
why I think, like, you're amazing.

234
00:10:55,529 --> 00:10:57,698
Twenty-five reasons
you really think he's amazing?

235
00:10:57,782 --> 00:11:00,117
-Okay, okay.
-[AD] Like, really from my heart.

236
00:11:00,201 --> 00:11:02,536
I bought him all these things
and all of his favorite snacks.

237
00:11:02,620 --> 00:11:06,457
I wrote him a card,
and I, like, set it up on the island.

238
00:11:06,540 --> 00:11:07,458
[Jacqueline] Mm-hmm.

239
00:11:07,541 --> 00:11:09,377
And it's still sitting there.

240
00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:11,629
Does he work for the Secret Service?

241
00:11:13,130 --> 00:11:14,131
[AD squeals]

242
00:11:14,715 --> 00:11:16,258
-Hi! [laughing]
-[Clay] Hello.

243
00:11:17,968 --> 00:11:20,221
-We were just talking about you.
-[Clay] What's up, baby?

244
00:11:20,304 --> 00:11:22,181
-[AD] You look good.
-[Clay] Look at you.

245
00:11:22,264 --> 00:11:24,266
-[AD] You look good.
-How you doing?

246
00:11:24,350 --> 00:11:26,477
{\an8}-This is Clay, Mom.
-I'm Clay. Nice to meet you.

247
00:11:26,560 --> 00:11:29,563
{\an8}-Mmm! Nice to meet you!
-Hello. Hello.

248
00:11:29,647 --> 00:11:31,148
-[Jacqueline] Wow!
-[AD sighs]

249
00:11:31,232 --> 00:11:33,734
-Good to see you.
-[Clay] Good to see you as well.

250
00:11:33,818 --> 00:11:35,736
-I like the haircut.
-Thank you. Thank you.

251
00:11:35,820 --> 00:11:37,697
I had a little time
to get a little haircut.

252
00:11:37,780 --> 00:11:39,407
It's been a slam-packed day.

253
00:11:39,490 --> 00:11:42,368
-Yeah, for sure. Per uzhe. Yep.
-Yep, yep, yep, yep.

254
00:11:42,451 --> 00:11:43,994
She don't like my scheduling and stuff.

255
00:11:44,078 --> 00:11:47,873
-But I am here.
-[AD laughs] Clay! Please!

256
00:11:47,957 --> 00:11:51,085
-[Clay] I know.
-Wait, tell me, what... what do you do?

257
00:11:51,168 --> 00:11:53,504
[Clay] I'm in tech sales,
and then I have a side business.

258
00:11:53,587 --> 00:11:55,423
I do, like, Airbnb.

259
00:11:55,506 --> 00:11:58,801
I rent out apartments, and also
I rent out, like, boats and jet skis.

260
00:11:58,884 --> 00:12:00,428
You guys go good together.

261
00:12:00,511 --> 00:12:03,889
This is how we connected first,
on, like, entrepreneurial, business...

262
00:12:03,973 --> 00:12:07,184
-Generational wealth.
-You cannot have a lazy spouse.

263
00:12:07,268 --> 00:12:10,688
I've been working a lot so I've
honestly felt bad about my schedule.

264
00:12:10,771 --> 00:12:14,984
Sometimes that could get in the way with,
you know, just different things.

265
00:12:15,067 --> 00:12:18,696
What do you feel about being married?
Like, you yourself?

266
00:12:18,779 --> 00:12:21,115
[Clay] I've always wanted to get married,
have a family.

267
00:12:21,198 --> 00:12:22,742
Marriage has been big to me.

268
00:12:22,825 --> 00:12:25,953
I always felt as though the person
I married has to be someone that's...

269
00:12:26,036 --> 00:12:27,830
-[Jacqueline] In it.
-My best friend, in it.

270
00:12:27,913 --> 00:12:30,624
If you're my best friend,
I'm loyal to you. I always got your back.

271
00:12:30,708 --> 00:12:33,127
When I came into the pods,
the two things I was looking for

272
00:12:33,210 --> 00:12:35,546
is, like, adaptability
and someone to be my best friend.

273
00:12:35,629 --> 00:12:39,133
And I just felt like AD is a walking
testimony of what I was looking for.

274
00:12:40,801 --> 00:12:43,763
My mom, before I came here,
gave me the verse Proverbs 3:5,

275
00:12:43,846 --> 00:12:46,515
which is what I told her
during my proposal

276
00:12:46,599 --> 00:12:49,143
of me not leaning on my own understanding,
leaning on God's.

277
00:12:49,226 --> 00:12:52,313
I just felt like
I was meant to be here with AD.

278
00:12:52,396 --> 00:12:55,065
-Meant to be here in this process or...
-[Clay] No, with AD.

279
00:12:55,149 --> 00:12:56,817
Like, I was made to be here for AD.

280
00:12:58,110 --> 00:13:01,572
But I guess the toughest thing is, like,
when you look at yourself in the mirror.

281
00:13:01,655 --> 00:13:04,283
And like, "Can I give her
everything she's given me?"

282
00:13:04,366 --> 00:13:06,744
My parents were married for 24 years.

283
00:13:06,827 --> 00:13:09,789
I saw how, like,
divorce kind of split up our household.

284
00:13:09,872 --> 00:13:13,542
You know, just letting
the past kind of affect my relationships.

285
00:13:13,626 --> 00:13:16,670
I do have stuff that I struggle with,
like stuff with my parents' relationship.

286
00:13:16,754 --> 00:13:18,255
I never went to therapy...

287
00:13:18,339 --> 00:13:20,841
[Jacqueline] Why do you say
your parents' relationship?

288
00:13:21,383 --> 00:13:25,679
I mean, they were
married for 24, 25 years.

289
00:13:25,763 --> 00:13:29,183
-[Clay] Mm-hmm. Yeah. That's big.
-That's, like, that's big.

290
00:13:29,266 --> 00:13:32,895
You think about
how many people there are on this planet

291
00:13:33,687 --> 00:13:38,984
and how lucky we are
to have, like, a good love for 25 years

292
00:13:39,068 --> 00:13:40,820
or 14 years.

293
00:13:40,903 --> 00:13:44,073
You got to have somebody for you.

294
00:13:44,156 --> 00:13:48,077
I'm divorced, but, you know,
Amber's father has now passed away.

295
00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:49,161
But, um...

296
00:13:50,579 --> 00:13:53,999
Some of the stuff that we go through as
your mother and father, that's our stuff.

297
00:13:54,083 --> 00:13:56,168
-Yeah.
-Just saying, "I'm gonna mess this up."

298
00:13:56,252 --> 00:13:57,628
"I'm gonna do something."

299
00:13:57,711 --> 00:13:59,380
And that's just like that self-sabotage,

300
00:13:59,463 --> 00:14:02,967
because you have to form and figure out
your own stuff for yourself.

301
00:14:03,050 --> 00:14:05,010
-Yeah.
-[Jacqueline] You're good in business.

302
00:14:05,094 --> 00:14:08,055
You've made good choices. Don't stop now.

303
00:14:08,138 --> 00:14:10,391
You now have the opportunity

304
00:14:11,225 --> 00:14:14,520
to do whatever you think
we could have done better on.

305
00:14:15,521 --> 00:14:18,524
This young lady here,
I put a lot into her.

306
00:14:18,607 --> 00:14:23,112
-[Clay] Mm-hmm.
-She knows, "Always go for the best."

307
00:14:23,654 --> 00:14:26,365
-"Don't be materialistic."
-[Clay] Mm-hmm.

308
00:14:26,448 --> 00:14:27,950
"Get your education."

309
00:14:28,033 --> 00:14:31,412
But there comes a point in time
when you say, "But I want a soulmate."

310
00:14:31,495 --> 00:14:32,371
[Clay] Mm-hmm.

311
00:14:32,454 --> 00:14:34,123
"I want my other rib."

312
00:14:34,206 --> 00:14:36,750
"I want someone that's got me,
that's got my back."

313
00:14:36,834 --> 00:14:38,836
She said something to me the other day

314
00:14:38,919 --> 00:14:43,007
that I've never
in my whole life ever heard.

315
00:14:43,090 --> 00:14:45,217
She said, "I can follow him."

316
00:14:46,427 --> 00:14:50,014
But you gotta grow together.
He's not gonna be perfect.

317
00:14:50,097 --> 00:14:52,391
-Right.
-She's not gonna be perfect.

318
00:14:52,474 --> 00:14:55,227
But when those crazy times come,
you gotta sit down and say,

319
00:14:55,311 --> 00:14:57,146
"What did I do? What did I not do?"

320
00:14:57,229 --> 00:15:00,149
And keep this in mind,
they don't always know what they've done.

321
00:15:00,232 --> 00:15:03,444
They don't know anything, actually.
They know very little. [laughing]

322
00:15:03,527 --> 00:15:05,029
[Jacqueline] In your defense...

323
00:15:05,112 --> 00:15:05,946
[AD] Mm-hmm.

324
00:15:06,030 --> 00:15:08,115
...we are like this.

325
00:15:08,198 --> 00:15:10,868
-[AD] Yeah.
-We can do 80 things at one time.

326
00:15:10,951 --> 00:15:13,871
"You don't know
that you left the toilet seat up?"

327
00:15:13,954 --> 00:15:16,373
-"I fell in last night. You don't notice?"
-[laughing]

328
00:15:16,457 --> 00:15:19,293
[Jacqueline] You know,
something that small can set it off.

329
00:15:19,376 --> 00:15:22,922
And you have to find something
to ground you and bring you back.

330
00:15:23,005 --> 00:15:25,799
-I know your mother and father did it.
-[AD] Exactly. Preach it.

331
00:15:25,883 --> 00:15:27,468
I know that I've done it.

332
00:15:28,344 --> 00:15:31,221
I think you really hit the nail
on the head when you said

333
00:15:31,305 --> 00:15:35,267
"think about all the good they did,"
because making it 24 years is, like,

334
00:15:35,351 --> 00:15:38,646
they persevered through way more

335
00:15:38,729 --> 00:15:41,941
than we even, like, could have thought of,
so it's just like...

336
00:15:42,024 --> 00:15:44,652
I know there's so much negative things
that you have about divorce,

337
00:15:44,735 --> 00:15:47,237
but there's so much positive
in that 24 years

338
00:15:47,321 --> 00:15:49,156
that I think
you should give more credit to.

339
00:15:49,239 --> 00:15:50,199
Yeah.

340
00:15:53,911 --> 00:15:58,374
I like him. I like how he speaks,
how he presents himself.

341
00:15:58,457 --> 00:15:59,375
Thank you.

342
00:15:59,458 --> 00:16:00,960
[Jacqueline] I know it can work.

343
00:16:01,043 --> 00:16:03,837
You know, it may not be 100% perfect,
but it's perfect.

344
00:16:03,921 --> 00:16:07,174
I'll be back. I'll be back. I want you
to still give some points to talk to me.

345
00:16:07,257 --> 00:16:08,425
-I love it.
-[laughing]

346
00:16:08,509 --> 00:16:11,804
They already have
the tools that they need to make it.

347
00:16:11,887 --> 00:16:14,056
-Wow!
-[laughing] I told you.

348
00:16:14,139 --> 00:16:15,265
Amber.

349
00:16:17,059 --> 00:16:19,645
Amber. That's a man.

350
00:16:20,270 --> 00:16:24,775
And he's just a little bit scared
of how to move forward, but...

351
00:16:25,359 --> 00:16:26,986
Do you see what I mean?

352
00:16:27,069 --> 00:16:29,905
I'm really glad
you chose somebody sight unseen,

353
00:16:29,989 --> 00:16:33,867
because that's so much more important than

354
00:16:34,994 --> 00:16:38,038
watching him walk down the street,
and you're like, "That guy looks good,"

355
00:16:38,122 --> 00:16:41,875
and you guys connect, and it's a one-night
thing or two weeks, whatever.

356
00:16:42,751 --> 00:16:45,462
-Like, he's got some substance.
-Do you see what I mean?

357
00:16:45,546 --> 00:16:48,674
-But he can't be worried about, um...
-[exhales]

358
00:16:49,258 --> 00:16:52,344
You can't worry about divorce because
you're setting yourself up for failure.

359
00:16:52,428 --> 00:16:54,847
Wipe your tears away. Don't you dare.

360
00:16:54,930 --> 00:16:57,683
-Come here.
-I know. Let's just take a deep breath.

361
00:16:57,766 --> 00:16:59,476
-And let's just...
-I just think...

362
00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:00,811
Is he not gorgeous?

363
00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:03,355
-Well...
-[laughing]

364
00:17:03,439 --> 00:17:06,734
I'm just, like,
really grateful for you, like,

365
00:17:06,817 --> 00:17:11,321
speaking to my character and, um,

366
00:17:11,905 --> 00:17:13,615
like, just supporting me

367
00:17:13,699 --> 00:17:16,660
and showing up for me like you always do.

368
00:17:17,327 --> 00:17:20,497
[voice sharking]
And, honestly, like, Clay aside,

369
00:17:21,123 --> 00:17:25,461
you being here means,
like, more than you know.

370
00:17:26,545 --> 00:17:28,714
Young lady, you are awesome.

371
00:17:28,797 --> 00:17:33,927
-But do you see where the roadblock...
-Hesitant. Yeah.

372
00:17:34,011 --> 00:17:37,765
The sad part is what he's worried about
is not even his.

373
00:17:37,848 --> 00:17:38,682
I know.

374
00:17:39,183 --> 00:17:41,060
Like, you can't
take on your parents' stuff.

375
00:17:41,143 --> 00:17:42,936
You can't take on our failures.

376
00:17:43,020 --> 00:17:44,271
It's scary.

377
00:17:45,397 --> 00:17:47,441
But it's also scary for him too.

378
00:17:48,025 --> 00:17:50,527
We talk about, like, "love is blind,"
but it's really...

379
00:17:50,611 --> 00:17:53,822
-"Are you gonna walk by faith, not sight?"
-That's it.

380
00:17:53,906 --> 00:17:56,408
Are you gonna walk by fucking faith?

381
00:17:56,492 --> 00:17:59,119
I've never heard you say
you're gonna follow somebody.

382
00:17:59,661 --> 00:18:00,704
I'm not trying to be funny.

383
00:18:00,788 --> 00:18:03,415
I will follow that man
off a cliff without a parachute,

384
00:18:03,499 --> 00:18:05,709
'cause I know he will be down there,
and he will catch me.

385
00:18:05,793 --> 00:18:09,046
That's how much I trust him,
and how much he showed me...

386
00:18:09,129 --> 00:18:12,299
-Have you said that to him?
-No, I have not said that to him.

387
00:18:12,382 --> 00:18:13,842
-Yeah.
-Start there.

388
00:18:14,426 --> 00:18:16,512
All he needs to know is that you're there,

389
00:18:16,595 --> 00:18:17,888
and he's gotta do the rest.

390
00:18:17,971 --> 00:18:20,641
-He's gotta do the work. I think this is...
-[exclaims]

391
00:18:20,724 --> 00:18:22,059
Can I come over there?

392
00:18:22,851 --> 00:18:24,478
Let that stuff go.

393
00:18:25,062 --> 00:18:26,063
You know?

394
00:18:27,689 --> 00:18:28,899
Come here.

395
00:18:28,982 --> 00:18:29,942
-Guess what.
-What?

396
00:18:30,025 --> 00:18:31,401
[Jacqueline] You're awesome.

397
00:18:31,485 --> 00:18:34,196
-You just gotta trust in him.
-I'm trying.

398
00:18:34,279 --> 00:18:36,406
And he's gotta trust in you. Don't try.

399
00:18:36,490 --> 00:18:39,284
-You keep doing what you've been doing.
-Mm-hmm.

400
00:18:39,368 --> 00:18:40,911
And it'll all fall into place.

401
00:18:40,994 --> 00:18:43,372
Whatever's going on with his parents
or your parents.

402
00:18:43,455 --> 00:18:45,582
-That's our shit.
-Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.

403
00:18:45,666 --> 00:18:48,210
And y'all fight this stuff together.

404
00:18:49,211 --> 00:18:50,587
You do it together.

405
00:18:51,505 --> 00:18:52,339
You hear me?

406
00:18:52,422 --> 00:18:54,508
Yeah. I'm trying.

407
00:18:54,591 --> 00:18:55,592
Don't try.

408
00:18:56,844 --> 00:18:57,719
I'm trying.

409
00:18:58,554 --> 00:19:01,390
All the things that
you've done in your life before.

410
00:19:01,473 --> 00:19:03,642
-That you've tried at.
-[laughs] I did it.

411
00:19:03,725 --> 00:19:07,646
When you was in that line
of 200 or 300 women...

412
00:19:08,230 --> 00:19:09,106
[exhales]

413
00:19:09,189 --> 00:19:12,192
...you came out number one.

414
00:19:12,693 --> 00:19:14,486
There's nothing you can't do.

415
00:19:14,570 --> 00:19:15,946
Give it your all.

416
00:19:16,488 --> 00:19:19,783
If for some strange reason
he doesn't think that your all

417
00:19:19,867 --> 00:19:22,870
is enough for him,
then that's not your guy.

418
00:19:23,453 --> 00:19:25,455
-I got a woman here.
-Mm-hmm.

419
00:19:26,498 --> 00:19:28,584
-You know? He's got a woman here.
-Mm-hmm.

420
00:19:28,667 --> 00:19:30,627
[exhales] Yeah.

421
00:19:30,711 --> 00:19:33,797
Don't knock on your door
unless you're a man.

422
00:19:33,881 --> 00:19:36,717
-Yeah. Yeah. For sure.
-Unless you're willing to do the work.

423
00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:39,636
In his defense,
he's trying to do the work.

424
00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:41,513
Yeah. He is.

425
00:19:42,014 --> 00:19:43,473
He's worth the fight.

426
00:19:43,557 --> 00:19:44,892
-Hi.
-[Clay] Hey. Hey.

427
00:19:44,975 --> 00:19:47,519
He's worth the fight.
Oh, he heard me say it.

428
00:19:47,603 --> 00:19:48,979
-You're worth the fight.
-[AD sighs]

429
00:19:49,062 --> 00:19:51,148
-Don't you ever...
-I know. I know. I know.

430
00:19:51,231 --> 00:19:53,775
-[Jacqueline] You got this. Both got this.
-I know.

431
00:19:55,110 --> 00:19:57,821
You all have to stand
on your own foundation,

432
00:19:57,905 --> 00:20:03,285
but you have a woman saying that
that's the man that she envisions,

433
00:20:03,785 --> 00:20:06,705
and that means that your mother
and your father, they've done it right.

434
00:20:06,788 --> 00:20:07,831
Yeah.

435
00:20:07,915 --> 00:20:11,126
Doesn't matter how we split up
or whatever with our parents.

436
00:20:11,210 --> 00:20:12,920
-They've done it right.
-[Clay] Yeah.

437
00:20:13,420 --> 00:20:15,839
I never heard anybody express that
and, like, tell me that.

438
00:20:15,923 --> 00:20:18,967
I needed to hear this, honestly.
I'mma fight for Amber.

439
00:20:19,051 --> 00:20:22,846
And like, I've always wanted to say
to you, like, "I chose to be here."

440
00:20:22,930 --> 00:20:25,057
-[AD] Yeah.
-Like, I wanted to be here with you.

441
00:20:25,140 --> 00:20:28,393
I know we have sometimes,
like, in terms of the schedule and stuff...

442
00:20:28,477 --> 00:20:30,520
-[AD] Mm-hmm.
-But you know, I'm always here for you.

443
00:20:30,604 --> 00:20:33,106
I'm always advocating for you.
Like, I chose you.

444
00:20:37,486 --> 00:20:41,240
-Every time, we come back. Stronger.
-Always come back. Yep.

445
00:20:41,323 --> 00:20:42,908
With the pods and stuff, I'm like,

446
00:20:42,991 --> 00:20:45,619
"How can you really truly love someone
with not seeing them?"

447
00:20:45,702 --> 00:20:49,081
I was like... whenever people say,
"Hey, how'd y'all do that?"

448
00:20:49,164 --> 00:20:51,750
-I'm like, "Trust me."
-[Jacqueline] Keep that energy, you guys.

449
00:20:51,833 --> 00:20:53,585
Keep that energy.

450
00:20:55,462 --> 00:20:57,547
-So, Barack.
-[laughing]

451
00:20:57,631 --> 00:20:59,091
-[Clay] Yeah.
-Michelle.

452
00:20:59,174 --> 00:21:00,968
[laughing] I'm Michelle.

453
00:21:01,051 --> 00:21:03,262
"Ghetto Barack." Definitely Ghetto Barack.

454
00:21:03,345 --> 00:21:06,765
Wait a minute. What did they say?
What did they say where they started from?

455
00:21:06,848 --> 00:21:09,935
-The bottom. Yeah, they did. They did.
-They grinded it out together.

456
00:21:10,018 --> 00:21:11,103
[AD] They for sure did.

457
00:21:11,186 --> 00:21:12,604
-[pop music playing]
<i>-♪ And I... ♪</i>

458
00:21:12,688 --> 00:21:13,647
It can work.

459
00:21:13,730 --> 00:21:16,108
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

460
00:21:16,191 --> 00:21:20,404
<i>♪ ...one ♪</i>

461
00:21:22,114 --> 00:21:24,700
<i>♪ You ♪</i>

462
00:21:26,451 --> 00:21:29,162
{\an8}<i>♪ Are the reason ♪</i>

463
00:21:29,246 --> 00:21:32,624
{\an8}<i>♪ I'm still fighting ♪</i>

464
00:21:32,708 --> 00:21:35,252
{\an8}<i>♪ You</i>... <i>♪</i>

465
00:21:35,335 --> 00:21:37,087
[horn blows]

466
00:21:37,170 --> 00:21:38,964
<i>♪ Are the one ♪</i>

467
00:21:40,590 --> 00:21:43,343
{\an8}[Amy] I have good feelings about this.

468
00:21:43,427 --> 00:21:44,553
{\an8}I think I do too.

469
00:21:45,053 --> 00:21:46,722
{\an8}I actually don't think I do. I know I do.

470
00:21:47,347 --> 00:21:49,558
I love the confidence. [laughs]

471
00:21:49,641 --> 00:21:51,518
I hate that
this knife is pointed towards me.

472
00:21:51,601 --> 00:21:54,146
-Maybe don't. Yeah.
-[laughing] Inside.

473
00:21:54,229 --> 00:21:55,856
There we go. That's better. Is this him?

474
00:21:55,939 --> 00:21:58,775
-Yeah. Oh, he's looking dapper.
-Oh, looking very good!

475
00:21:58,859 --> 00:21:59,860
[Amy] Aww, I'm gonna cry.

476
00:21:59,943 --> 00:22:00,777
[laughs]

477
00:22:01,486 --> 00:22:03,905
{\an8}Johnny's meeting my dad
for the first time.

478
00:22:03,989 --> 00:22:06,533
Obviously, he's my dad.
I'm his little girl.

479
00:22:06,616 --> 00:22:08,201
He's very protective of me.

480
00:22:08,285 --> 00:22:10,954
-I'm getting emotional! You look so good!
-[father] Hello.

481
00:22:11,621 --> 00:22:13,415
-I love you.
-[father] Mm!

482
00:22:13,498 --> 00:22:15,876
-Hey, Johnny.
-Hi. Nice to meet you. I'm Johnny.

483
00:22:15,959 --> 00:22:17,836
{\an8}-Nice to meet you, David.
-Nice meeting you.

484
00:22:17,919 --> 00:22:20,714
{\an8}Aww. I've heard so much about you.
Amy's been talking a lot.

485
00:22:20,797 --> 00:22:21,757
{\an8}-I'm very excited.
-Yes.

486
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:24,760
Well, me too. Me too.
We were looking forward.

487
00:22:24,843 --> 00:22:27,054
-Absolutely. Thank you.
-[David] So please have a seat.

488
00:22:27,137 --> 00:22:28,138
[Amy] Let's do it.

489
00:22:28,221 --> 00:22:31,099
I feel like I'm just telling you
"have a seat" like this is my home.

490
00:22:31,183 --> 00:22:32,476
-This is not my home.
-[laughing]

491
00:22:32,559 --> 00:22:33,810
[Johnny] No, it's okay.

492
00:22:34,436 --> 00:22:37,564
-I'm glad to have the chance to meet you.
-[Johnny] Absolutely.

493
00:22:37,647 --> 00:22:41,276
So, um, I know that this is a process

494
00:22:41,360 --> 00:22:43,320
that is kind of overwhelming.

495
00:22:43,403 --> 00:22:45,572
-[Johnny] Mm.
-Uh, for me, it is.

496
00:22:46,073 --> 00:22:48,658
So tell me a little bit more about Johnny.

497
00:22:48,742 --> 00:22:50,285
I was born and raised in New Jersey.

498
00:22:50,369 --> 00:22:53,330
Um, it was me, my two parents.
They're still together right now.

499
00:22:53,413 --> 00:22:54,623
And then three other siblings.

500
00:22:54,706 --> 00:22:56,666
Very close as far as family goes.

501
00:22:56,750 --> 00:22:58,001
Talk to my family...

502
00:22:58,835 --> 00:23:01,505
-God, I feel like at least once a day.
-All the time.

503
00:23:01,588 --> 00:23:03,173
[Johnny] That's the household I come from.

504
00:23:03,256 --> 00:23:06,510
What do you do for work?
What are your aspirations?

505
00:23:06,593 --> 00:23:09,429
Right now, I sell software.
It's 100% remote too.

506
00:23:09,513 --> 00:23:11,848
I think long-term,
I'd love to be obviously promoted up

507
00:23:11,932 --> 00:23:15,894
to being, like, one of the large,
you know, business account executives.

508
00:23:15,977 --> 00:23:18,313
I would love to,
like, work up the chain from there.

509
00:23:18,397 --> 00:23:19,564
I wanna be retired early.

510
00:23:19,648 --> 00:23:22,567
I don't wanna, like, be working
till seventies or eighties or whatever.

511
00:23:22,651 --> 00:23:26,071
I wanna, like, first learn how to surf,
then teach kids how to surf.

512
00:23:26,154 --> 00:23:28,365
Or, like, teach kids
how to ski or snowboard,

513
00:23:28,448 --> 00:23:30,992
or, like, little things
like that where it's not stressful.

514
00:23:31,076 --> 00:23:33,370
I don't have to worry about money.
I do things I wanna do,

515
00:23:33,453 --> 00:23:36,415
not because I'm, you know,
"forced to do them too."

516
00:23:36,498 --> 00:23:37,499
You know,

517
00:23:38,792 --> 00:23:42,379
I'm here in Charlotte. This is 23 years
that I've been living in Charlotte.

518
00:23:42,462 --> 00:23:46,591
-[Johnny] Mm-hmm.
-So, when I came here, Amy was five.

519
00:23:46,675 --> 00:23:50,512
-[Johnny] Mm. Mm.
-And she went to, uh, kindergarten.

520
00:23:50,595 --> 00:23:52,848
And I have this in my mind

521
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:59,438
to see this little girl running,
with a book bag, with open arms...

522
00:23:59,521 --> 00:24:01,648
-And I'm running to, when I grab her.
-Yeah.

523
00:24:02,149 --> 00:24:04,568
-That's gonna stay with me forever.
-[laughing]

524
00:24:05,360 --> 00:24:09,656
But she grow up,
and she has been a wonderful person.

525
00:24:09,739 --> 00:24:11,324
Not because she's my daughter,

526
00:24:11,408 --> 00:24:15,912
but I think I see
how she touched many life

527
00:24:16,413 --> 00:24:18,331
with friends and family.

528
00:24:18,832 --> 00:24:23,044
She light up many life,
including mine, of course.

529
00:24:23,545 --> 00:24:28,216
She is one of my motivations
of "keep going."

530
00:24:28,300 --> 00:24:32,762
As a parent, what do you want,
as a parent, for a child that you love,

531
00:24:32,846 --> 00:24:34,389
that you treasure so much?

532
00:24:34,473 --> 00:24:36,892
You want somebody who come and step in

533
00:24:37,642 --> 00:24:41,396
and be that person
the day that you'll no longer be here.

534
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:42,355
[Johnny] Mm-hmm.

535
00:24:42,439 --> 00:24:46,067
Then be that person
that when she have to cry, cry with her,

536
00:24:46,151 --> 00:24:47,360
then laugh together.

537
00:24:47,444 --> 00:24:49,070
-Yeah.
-They plan together.

538
00:24:49,154 --> 00:24:51,323
They enjoy themselves together.

539
00:24:52,407 --> 00:24:56,703
And I've been praying
for somebody to come to the life of Amy

540
00:24:57,746 --> 00:24:59,581
to be that person.

541
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:03,919
I love your daughter.
She's an amazing person.

542
00:25:04,002 --> 00:25:05,504
You did an amazing job raising her.

543
00:25:05,587 --> 00:25:08,798
And I'm so much happier with her.

544
00:25:08,882 --> 00:25:12,636
I wanna have a good relationship with you,
make sure we're on the same page.

545
00:25:12,719 --> 00:25:15,305
And it is, like, one big, happy family,

546
00:25:15,388 --> 00:25:17,224
because I am the new guy coming into this.

547
00:25:17,307 --> 00:25:20,185
-And I am probably gonna rock the boat.
-[David] Yeah.

548
00:25:20,268 --> 00:25:23,730
[Johnny] I hope it's not in a bad way
at all, but, like, it's gonna be a change.

549
00:25:23,813 --> 00:25:25,440
I wanna make sure it's a good transition,

550
00:25:25,524 --> 00:25:28,693
just of me coming in
and getting to know everyone.

551
00:25:28,777 --> 00:25:29,778
Yep.

552
00:25:30,278 --> 00:25:32,072
I don't know. I feel so good about you.

553
00:25:32,155 --> 00:25:35,242
I feel like I've been
with Johnny for so long.

554
00:25:35,325 --> 00:25:37,786
-[Johnny] Something's right about it.
-Something feels so right.

555
00:25:37,869 --> 00:25:40,413
I keep getting so many signs.
Like, it's so weird,

556
00:25:40,497 --> 00:25:42,832
and I think it was meant to find you.

557
00:25:42,916 --> 00:25:45,085
May I have your blessing
to marry your daughter?

558
00:25:45,835 --> 00:25:48,421
[Amy and Johnny chuckling]

559
00:25:48,505 --> 00:25:49,548
Yes.

560
00:25:49,631 --> 00:25:50,507
[Johnny] Thank you.

561
00:25:50,590 --> 00:25:51,675
[laughing]

562
00:25:51,758 --> 00:25:52,842
I really appreciate that.

563
00:25:52,926 --> 00:25:54,970
You see, I stay a little bit quiet

564
00:25:55,053 --> 00:25:58,557
because, you know, I'm trying
to stir him up a little bit to make it...

565
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:00,225
I know. You got me a little bit there.

566
00:26:00,308 --> 00:26:02,143
[all laughing]

567
00:26:04,104 --> 00:26:06,314
I want to bless you.

568
00:26:06,398 --> 00:26:09,568
-[pop music playing]
<i>-♪ That moment that you came ♪</i>

569
00:26:09,651 --> 00:26:11,403
<i>♪ I knew I was safe... ♪</i>

570
00:26:14,489 --> 00:26:16,491
-[kisses]
-[sniffles]

571
00:26:20,996 --> 00:26:21,997
[David] We love you.

572
00:26:22,497 --> 00:26:24,332
And we want the best for you.

573
00:26:26,876 --> 00:26:30,964
So we treasure you, and it doesn't matter
what difficulties that you encounter.

574
00:26:31,047 --> 00:26:33,758
We're gonna be here for you, always.

575
00:26:34,342 --> 00:26:37,929
<i>♪ And I knew that this was all I need... ♪</i>

576
00:26:38,013 --> 00:26:40,015
-I love you so much.
-[exhales]

577
00:26:40,599 --> 00:26:43,852
-I love you. Mm! [laughing]
-Yeah. [chuckles]

578
00:26:46,605 --> 00:26:50,066
<i>♪ Know that moment that you came ♪</i>

579
00:26:50,775 --> 00:26:53,903
<i>♪ I knew I was saved... ♪</i>

580
00:26:53,987 --> 00:26:56,656
[Jimmy] Yesterday was
the biggest step for me in this process.

581
00:26:56,740 --> 00:27:00,118
{\an8}Meeting my family, like,
that's a huge deal for me, and, um...

582
00:27:00,201 --> 00:27:01,077
{\an8}[Chelsea] Mm-hmm.

583
00:27:02,495 --> 00:27:04,164
{\an8}-I feel great.
-Yeah?

584
00:27:04,247 --> 00:27:06,458
{\an8}Yeah. I think I love you even more.

585
00:27:06,541 --> 00:27:07,459
[laughing]

586
00:27:08,168 --> 00:27:09,294
I love you.

587
00:27:10,378 --> 00:27:12,464
That was important for us
to meet them together,

588
00:27:12,547 --> 00:27:15,717
and I couldn't have asked for, um,

589
00:27:17,260 --> 00:27:20,930
a better family to back up
who I wanna spend my life with.

590
00:27:22,474 --> 00:27:24,059
[Chelsea] Mm-hmm.

591
00:27:24,142 --> 00:27:26,561
{\an8}I was so cranky with you this morning.

592
00:27:26,645 --> 00:27:28,647
{\an8}-[laughing]
-I was like, "I am so mad at him."

593
00:27:28,730 --> 00:27:32,067
"But I love him with all my heart."
Like, I love you.

594
00:27:32,150 --> 00:27:33,568
I love you too, but you...

595
00:27:34,319 --> 00:27:37,614
-Babe, last night...
-You can't be... you can't be cranky at me.

596
00:27:37,697 --> 00:27:39,324
I can be cranky with you.

597
00:27:39,407 --> 00:27:42,410
That was the most
reasonable thing for me to do.

598
00:27:42,494 --> 00:27:46,081
The camera crew leaves,
and you shower and get ready to go.

599
00:27:46,164 --> 00:27:47,791
I asked you to go out, and I know that...

600
00:27:47,874 --> 00:27:50,710
-You did not ask me!
-It was one of my friends' birthdays.

601
00:27:50,794 --> 00:27:53,338
You didn't ask me to go with you.
You did not.

602
00:27:53,922 --> 00:27:56,800
I knew you damn well you did not wanna go
with me, one, and I did ask you.

603
00:27:56,883 --> 00:27:58,051
-You didn't.
-I did ask you.

604
00:27:58,134 --> 00:28:00,929
I was like, "You can go with me."
You were already bundled up.

605
00:28:01,012 --> 00:28:03,765
You did not have any desire to go with me,
and I don't blame you.

606
00:28:03,848 --> 00:28:06,351
I was gone for an hour.
I went and had one drink.

607
00:28:06,434 --> 00:28:08,353
You were gone a very short time.

608
00:28:08,436 --> 00:28:11,106
-So I will give you that.
-It was more of driving.

609
00:28:11,189 --> 00:28:13,441
The girls in the pods said,

610
00:28:13,942 --> 00:28:16,236
"Hey, your man's... is out. Where are you?"

611
00:28:17,904 --> 00:28:21,074
-That was more embarrassing.
-I didn't see, didn't talk to anybody.

612
00:28:21,157 --> 00:28:23,785
-I know, but they saw you, so...
-Who's "they"?

613
00:28:25,537 --> 00:28:26,538
Mackenzie.

614
00:28:27,580 --> 00:28:29,165
I don't know what Mackenzie looks like.

615
00:28:29,249 --> 00:28:31,459
She knows what you look like, so...

616
00:28:32,585 --> 00:28:36,047
I wasn't out, hanging out
with other girls from the pods. [laughs]

617
00:28:36,131 --> 00:28:40,135
I think all the girls are like,
"Why is he out and you're not with him?"

618
00:28:40,218 --> 00:28:43,722
I'm like, "Man, girl.
Your girl wants to go to bed." [laughs]

619
00:28:43,805 --> 00:28:45,724
Exactly. Why are you hammering me on that?

620
00:28:45,807 --> 00:28:49,519
'Cause, like, I don't wanna be with
someone who wants to go out and party.

621
00:28:50,186 --> 00:28:52,313
That's why I'm hammering you, is 'cause...

622
00:28:52,397 --> 00:28:55,525
[Jimmy] Baby, I drove there.
I had one drink, and I came home.

623
00:28:55,608 --> 00:28:57,527
But is that something I wanna deal with?

624
00:28:57,610 --> 00:29:00,029
I do like to go out
and, like, have drinks socially,

625
00:29:00,113 --> 00:29:04,743
and that's more
of a wine, cocktail bars or, like...

626
00:29:05,243 --> 00:29:06,786
maybe going to a brewery on a Saturday

627
00:29:06,870 --> 00:29:09,164
and getting home
and going to bed at a decent time.

628
00:29:09,247 --> 00:29:11,458
-I don't want that.
-I told you that in the pods.

629
00:29:11,541 --> 00:29:14,502
No, it's not. You said
you did not do anything in the pods.

630
00:29:14,586 --> 00:29:19,257
You said, "I am not into going out."
Like, "That's not my thing."

631
00:29:19,340 --> 00:29:21,134
You sat there and lied to me.

632
00:29:21,217 --> 00:29:23,803
-I didn't lie to you.
-I hear from someone who knows you...

633
00:29:23,887 --> 00:29:26,473
-I love going to wine bars, cocktail bars.
-You lied to me.

634
00:29:26,556 --> 00:29:29,350
Then I hear, "Your man is out.
Like, where are you?"

635
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,522
How embarrassing.
Like, it's very embarrassing.

636
00:29:35,315 --> 00:29:38,985
And now I feel like I'm getting a facade
from you, and I don't like that.

637
00:29:39,068 --> 00:29:41,112
I do like to go out every once in a while.

638
00:29:41,196 --> 00:29:43,364
And I don't like that,
so why'd you lie to me?

639
00:29:43,448 --> 00:29:46,868
I want you to understand where I'm at.
I haven't went out in three months.

640
00:29:46,951 --> 00:29:48,453
-So excuse me.
-Neither have I!

641
00:29:49,245 --> 00:29:52,457
Exactly! But, like, I can't speak to you.

642
00:29:52,540 --> 00:29:54,542
-I can speak to what I want.
-My friends, I say...

643
00:29:54,626 --> 00:29:57,587
"Hey, you know what?
I'm really in the process of this shit."

644
00:29:57,670 --> 00:30:00,757
"I'm really trying to,
like, dive into this man."

645
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:02,675
And you don't give two shits!

646
00:30:03,259 --> 00:30:04,093
-Babe.
-What?

647
00:30:04,177 --> 00:30:07,347
You don't think that I care about you
just because I go out and have one drink

648
00:30:07,430 --> 00:30:09,766
just to make an appearance for a friend
and come right back?

649
00:30:09,849 --> 00:30:12,185
That's not the kind of person
I wanna be with.

650
00:30:12,268 --> 00:30:14,020
Is that the kind of person you are?

651
00:30:14,103 --> 00:30:16,314
'Cause it's not
the person I wanna be with. It's not.

652
00:30:16,940 --> 00:30:19,400
If that's what you want, I can't, like...

653
00:30:19,484 --> 00:30:23,196
-The life I described to you is the life...
-It's not the life I'm getting though.

654
00:30:23,279 --> 00:30:29,077
I love you, and I wanna be around you,
but, like, you're not giving me much.

655
00:30:31,204 --> 00:30:35,333
I have been away from you for, like,
a total of, like, three and a half hours.

656
00:30:35,917 --> 00:30:38,545
You're acting like I'm extensively
partying since you've met me.

657
00:30:38,628 --> 00:30:40,046
And I'm not. That's not me.

658
00:30:40,129 --> 00:30:42,340
Now you're questioning whether I'm lying

659
00:30:42,423 --> 00:30:45,635
about things I told you in the pods.

660
00:30:45,718 --> 00:30:47,971
-Do you not...
-You told me that I was...

661
00:30:48,054 --> 00:30:50,765
I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Do you not
understand the situation we're in?

662
00:30:50,849 --> 00:30:53,268
Because if you don't,
then we're on a way different page.

663
00:30:53,351 --> 00:30:56,896
-We signed up for a different situation.
-I don't understand the situation.

664
00:30:56,980 --> 00:30:57,814
We don't have...

665
00:30:57,897 --> 00:30:59,983
-Regards to last night?
-I'm interrupting you.

666
00:31:01,359 --> 00:31:02,986
Girls from the pods are there.

667
00:31:03,069 --> 00:31:05,238
And then I find out you're
with your girls.

668
00:31:05,321 --> 00:31:07,532
That's not cool with me.
It's not cool with me.

669
00:31:07,615 --> 00:31:09,742
If... [laughs]

670
00:31:09,826 --> 00:31:12,245
If it's offending you
that I have girl friends,

671
00:31:12,328 --> 00:31:14,455
then that's another whole 'nother issue.

672
00:31:14,539 --> 00:31:16,457
Who were you with last night?

673
00:31:16,541 --> 00:31:18,585
-Who were you with last night?
-Oh, my God.

674
00:31:18,668 --> 00:31:21,296
-I'm not gonna talk to you about this.
-Okay.

675
00:31:23,423 --> 00:31:26,676
-You're not being respectful to me.
-How am I not being respectful to you?

676
00:31:26,759 --> 00:31:27,802
How... how...

677
00:31:28,803 --> 00:31:31,306
Every day, who do you hang out
with every single day?

678
00:31:31,389 --> 00:31:33,641
Where do you go when you're not here?

679
00:31:34,225 --> 00:31:35,768
I have been with you every...

680
00:31:35,852 --> 00:31:39,147
-Where do you go when you work?
-That's where we're not on the same page!

681
00:31:39,230 --> 00:31:40,857
-Here.
-[Chelsea] Really?

682
00:31:40,940 --> 00:31:42,066
-[Jimmy] Here.
-Do you?

683
00:31:42,734 --> 00:31:44,861
I went to my apartment one day.

684
00:31:44,944 --> 00:31:46,988
-I worked from home.
-Who do you text all day?

685
00:31:47,572 --> 00:31:48,573
Who do you text?

686
00:31:49,824 --> 00:31:50,742
Oh, my goodness.

687
00:31:50,825 --> 00:31:53,578
If you're fishing for me
to tell you that I text my girl friends...

688
00:31:53,661 --> 00:31:54,495
I see!

689
00:31:54,579 --> 00:31:57,415
If you wanna sign up with me, you have to
sign up for all my friends too.

690
00:31:57,498 --> 00:31:59,292
It's a respect thing, babe.

691
00:31:59,375 --> 00:32:02,420
I'll step back from hanging out with
girl friends if that's what you want.

692
00:32:02,503 --> 00:32:06,090
-You haven't asked me.
-Yes, I have, but you haven't listened.

693
00:32:06,174 --> 00:32:09,510
When? Tell me right now.
Do you want me to take a step back?

694
00:32:10,011 --> 00:32:11,304
-Of course I do!
-Okay.

695
00:32:11,387 --> 00:32:13,222
I'm not willing to take a step back.

696
00:32:40,625 --> 00:32:43,795
Oh, my God. Holy shit.

697
00:32:43,878 --> 00:32:47,298
-[slow tempo music playing]
<i>-♪ Run away ♪</i>

698
00:32:50,635 --> 00:32:55,473
<i>♪ Run away from it all ♪</i>

699
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:05,566
You're not willing to take a step back.

700
00:33:05,650 --> 00:33:08,653
-That's the first you've mentioned it.
-Yes, I have!

701
00:33:09,153 --> 00:33:11,656
I have said
that it makes me uncomfortable.

702
00:33:12,740 --> 00:33:14,784
It makes me very uncomfortable.

703
00:33:15,702 --> 00:33:17,537
You communicated how it makes you feel,

704
00:33:17,620 --> 00:33:21,374
but you haven't asked me to take
a step back from hanging out with friends.

705
00:33:21,457 --> 00:33:23,126
And you said you're unwilling.

706
00:33:24,168 --> 00:33:27,046
I just wanted to throw it out there
that you have not asked me...

707
00:33:27,130 --> 00:33:29,841
But you said, "I'm unwilling."

708
00:33:29,924 --> 00:33:31,718
At this point, I'm unwilling.

709
00:33:33,094 --> 00:33:36,222
I don't have
a physical relationship with them.

710
00:33:36,305 --> 00:33:38,516
-I want you to trust me.
-You do though!

711
00:33:38,599 --> 00:33:41,602
You fucking do!
You told me you fucked her!

712
00:33:41,686 --> 00:33:43,813
And the fact that
you're saying you're unwilling...

713
00:33:43,896 --> 00:33:46,899
No, I don't give a fuck.
I know you fucked her! You told me that!

714
00:33:47,483 --> 00:33:48,943
Because I want you to trust me!

715
00:33:49,027 --> 00:33:52,071
And I do. I do trust you,
but I'm uncomfortable with it.

716
00:33:52,155 --> 00:33:54,407
-I told you off-camera that, like...
-I know, but...

717
00:33:54,490 --> 00:33:55,950
I don't wanna talk about that.

718
00:33:56,034 --> 00:33:58,953
-I'm sorry, but...
-[Jimmy] No, there's a level of respect.

719
00:33:59,037 --> 00:34:00,038
I introduced you to her.

720
00:34:00,121 --> 00:34:03,041
-I put her in a situation to be on camera.
-And I love her.

721
00:34:03,124 --> 00:34:06,044
But this is a respect issue.
You're not single.

722
00:34:06,127 --> 00:34:09,547
-It was a one-time thing.
-Okay, but you're not single anymore.

723
00:34:09,630 --> 00:34:12,383
Calling and texting
and being with each other

724
00:34:12,467 --> 00:34:14,302
when I'm gone, out of town?

725
00:34:14,385 --> 00:34:17,805
-It's because they care...
-"It's because"? It's because of what?

726
00:34:17,889 --> 00:34:20,725
You're not single Jimmy anymore!
You're not!

727
00:34:20,808 --> 00:34:24,187
I'm not out doing, like,
hanging out with women in that fashion.

728
00:34:24,270 --> 00:34:27,023
Who were you with last night?
That's what I thought.

729
00:34:27,106 --> 00:34:29,609
I was with eight fraternity brothers
and two of their girlfriends.

730
00:34:29,692 --> 00:34:32,153
-Okay, okay.
-[Jimmy] You think I'm lying about that?

731
00:34:32,236 --> 00:34:34,155
I do, 'cause I heard from other people

732
00:34:34,238 --> 00:34:36,741
that you were not
with just fraternity brothers.

733
00:34:36,824 --> 00:34:38,117
Who, Mackenzie?

734
00:34:38,201 --> 00:34:40,453
Who were you with? I know it was Jess.

735
00:34:40,536 --> 00:34:43,498
David Lee...
I was not with Jess. I never saw Jess.

736
00:34:43,581 --> 00:34:45,166
I heard it was Jess.

737
00:34:45,875 --> 00:34:49,504
-Oh, my goodness. I was not with Jess.
-[Chelsea] How embarrassing. Okay.

738
00:34:50,213 --> 00:34:52,882
-All right. All right.
-I swear to God, I was not with Jess.

739
00:34:52,965 --> 00:34:55,343
Well, I was in bed,
and you were out at a bar.

740
00:34:55,426 --> 00:34:57,386
I think you're fishing.
I think you're fishing.

741
00:34:57,470 --> 00:34:59,222
-You think I'm fishing?
-[Jimmy] Yeah.

742
00:34:59,305 --> 00:35:02,433
When I'm getting told
that you're out at a bar when I'm in bed.

743
00:35:02,517 --> 00:35:04,560
I think that you're insecure
about the Jess thing.

744
00:35:05,144 --> 00:35:08,523
I don't have a clue what Jess looks like
other than the picture Jeramey showed me.

745
00:35:08,606 --> 00:35:12,610
You didn't tell me
that Jess was a Kardashian?

746
00:35:12,693 --> 00:35:15,738
I said, "Jeramey said
she looks like a Kardashian in the gym."

747
00:35:16,948 --> 00:35:20,201
We already talked about this last night.
You never mentioned Jess until tonight.

748
00:35:20,284 --> 00:35:21,786
I felt like shit last night,

749
00:35:21,869 --> 00:35:25,248
and I didn't say anything
'cause it made me really sad.

750
00:35:25,832 --> 00:35:28,417
You're bringing up Jess and Mackenzie.
I didn't see Mackenzie.

751
00:35:28,501 --> 00:35:30,211
I damn sure didn't see Jess.

752
00:35:30,711 --> 00:35:33,214
It sounds like you're fishing
and don't have an explanation.

753
00:35:33,965 --> 00:35:35,967
If your explanation is,
"Mackenzie told you that,"

754
00:35:36,050 --> 00:35:39,220
then I can hear you out, but you're... I...

755
00:35:39,303 --> 00:35:41,013
Did Mackenzie tell you that?

756
00:35:42,473 --> 00:35:45,101
-Where'd that come from?
-What did you do when you left?

757
00:35:45,184 --> 00:35:48,062
What did you say to me? [sniffles]

758
00:35:48,146 --> 00:35:50,064
"I'm going out. I'm going out."

759
00:35:52,608 --> 00:35:54,360
That's not the kind of person
I wanna be with.

760
00:35:55,278 --> 00:35:57,905
-If you wanna be that kind of person.
-You don't want to be with me?

761
00:35:57,989 --> 00:35:59,740
That's not the kind of person
I wanna be with!

762
00:35:59,824 --> 00:36:03,870
The only night I went out that you didn't
go be with your friends was last night.

763
00:36:03,953 --> 00:36:06,581
-And I was gone an hour and a half total.
-[sniffles]

764
00:36:06,664 --> 00:36:08,791
Just to make an appearance
for a friend's birthday.

765
00:36:08,875 --> 00:36:11,169
I don't think that's unreasonable.
I really don't.

766
00:36:11,794 --> 00:36:13,880
I'm gonna be honest.
I don't think that's unreasonable.

767
00:36:13,963 --> 00:36:16,007
Actually, I think
this conversation is unreasonable.

768
00:36:16,090 --> 00:36:17,091
I do too.

769
00:36:17,175 --> 00:36:20,970
It makes me really, really,
really question what the fuck I've done.

770
00:36:21,053 --> 00:36:22,096
[sniffles]

771
00:36:22,180 --> 00:36:24,265
[chuckles]

772
00:36:28,269 --> 00:36:30,354
-This conversation.
-Mm-hmm.

773
00:36:31,898 --> 00:36:35,610
I don't wanna be with someone
who wants to go out a lot like you do.

774
00:36:35,693 --> 00:36:37,862
-[Jimmy] Okay, well...
-And if that's norm...

775
00:36:37,945 --> 00:36:41,282
You're sitting here drunk telling me
you don't wanna be with me anymore...

776
00:36:41,365 --> 00:36:42,283
[Chelsea] I'm drunk...

777
00:36:42,366 --> 00:36:44,452
You don't think
that makes me feel like shit?

778
00:36:45,953 --> 00:36:50,208
I mean, if you've had too much to drink,
and this is how you feel, fine.

779
00:36:50,291 --> 00:36:53,211
But if you're willing to say sorry
and, like, work through this,

780
00:36:53,753 --> 00:36:54,962
I'm willing to work through it.

781
00:36:55,046 --> 00:36:58,382
But if you're gonna sit here and tell me
that this is changing how you feel...

782
00:36:59,967 --> 00:37:02,261
[chuckles] ...it changes how I feel too.

783
00:37:02,345 --> 00:37:04,430
I love you. I'm in this for you.

784
00:37:05,181 --> 00:37:08,517
You met my family.
You don't wanna be with me anymore?

785
00:37:08,601 --> 00:37:10,937
You think that's okay just to say
because you're emotional?

786
00:37:11,020 --> 00:37:13,814
-Do you not think that I care about you?
-You don't!

787
00:37:13,898 --> 00:37:16,400
You just think I'm full of shit
every time I tell you how I feel?

788
00:37:16,484 --> 00:37:18,402
-I do. You know what? I've given...
-[chuckles]

789
00:37:18,486 --> 00:37:21,822
If you think I'm full of shit,
I don't care to be with you either.

790
00:37:21,906 --> 00:37:25,368
-[pop music playing]
-[vocalizing]

791
00:37:26,410 --> 00:37:28,454
<i>♪ I'll give everything ♪</i>

792
00:37:28,537 --> 00:37:31,707
<i>♪ I'll do anything for ya... ♪</i>

793
00:37:31,791 --> 00:37:35,836
All I can do is continue to get you
to trust that I'll be a good husband.

794
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:37,463
But if you're sitting here

795
00:37:37,546 --> 00:37:39,715
saying you don't even trust
the things I'm saying to you

796
00:37:39,799 --> 00:37:42,677
in front of my friends and family,
then I don't care to be with you either.

797
00:37:44,637 --> 00:37:49,016
<i>♪ I give it all, you throw it all away... ♪</i>

798
00:37:49,100 --> 00:37:51,727
We have two weeks
to figure out if we're getting married,

799
00:37:51,811 --> 00:37:54,188
and you're worried about partying.

800
00:37:54,272 --> 00:37:55,982
-I'm not into it!
-[Jimmy] Okay.

801
00:37:56,065 --> 00:37:59,402
I don't care to have this conversation.
I really don't.

802
00:37:59,485 --> 00:38:01,570
So that shows a lot about your character.

803
00:38:01,654 --> 00:38:04,573
I've done nothing
but prove to you where I'm at with you.

804
00:38:05,074 --> 00:38:06,325
You don't think that I love you?

805
00:38:06,909 --> 00:38:08,286
You have showed me...

806
00:38:08,369 --> 00:38:10,871
If you don't think I love you,
I don't wanna be here.

807
00:38:10,955 --> 00:38:12,206
You don't think I love you?

808
00:38:13,082 --> 00:38:13,916
I don't know.

809
00:38:14,959 --> 00:38:15,793
Okay.

810
00:38:16,294 --> 00:38:18,004
-I don't know.
-[Jimmy] Okay.

811
00:38:19,463 --> 00:38:21,799
-It's not gonna work, Chelsea.
-Okay.

812
00:38:23,718 --> 00:38:25,553
<i>♪ I'd give everything ♪</i>

813
00:38:25,636 --> 00:38:29,932
<i>♪ I'd do anything for you ♪</i>

814
00:38:31,851 --> 00:38:33,728
<i>♪ I'd give everything ♪</i>

815
00:38:33,811 --> 00:38:38,566
<i>♪ I'd do anything for you ♪</i>

816
00:38:41,235 --> 00:38:42,361
Please don't leave.

817
00:38:45,197 --> 00:38:46,198
Stop.

818
00:38:46,866 --> 00:38:47,700
Stop.

819
00:38:48,326 --> 00:38:50,161
-We're talking.
-You overstepped my boundaries.

820
00:38:50,244 --> 00:38:52,079
<i>♪ I throw it all away ♪</i>

821
00:38:52,163 --> 00:38:53,789
<i>♪ You're in my mind ♪</i>

822
00:38:53,873 --> 00:38:57,918
<i>♪ You're in my head... ♪</i>

823
00:38:59,086 --> 00:39:00,504
[sniffles]

824
00:39:03,090 --> 00:39:04,884
[exhales]

825
00:39:11,390 --> 00:39:14,810
{\an8}-[pop music playing]
<i>-♪ Feeling good, feeling fine ♪</i>

826
00:39:14,894 --> 00:39:17,396
{\an8}♪ <i>Making money in the summertime ♪</i>

827
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:21,776
{\an8}-[Clay] He did agree to both meetings.
-[man] <i>That's the best we can do.</i>

828
00:39:21,859 --> 00:39:24,362
{\an8}<i>I got another call coming in
that I gotta take.</i>

829
00:39:24,445 --> 00:39:26,364
{\an8}-Talk to you. Yep.
<i>-I'll keep you posted, okay?</i>

830
00:39:27,448 --> 00:39:28,574
Talk to you. Bye.

831
00:39:29,325 --> 00:39:30,659
{\an8}This is insane.

832
00:39:35,706 --> 00:39:39,001
-What time you got work on Saturday?
-I don't have to be there till 4:00.

833
00:39:39,085 --> 00:39:42,630
Four? 'Cause if we're at a lake house...
I guess you could park at the lake house.

834
00:39:42,713 --> 00:39:45,674
-If we got the dock and you go to work...
-[AD] Mm-hmm.

835
00:39:45,758 --> 00:39:48,094
...you might need to just park
at the private dock I'm at

836
00:39:48,177 --> 00:39:50,805
so you could just get going, you know.
No issues.

837
00:39:50,888 --> 00:39:52,598
-[clattering]
-Oh!

838
00:39:53,099 --> 00:39:54,058
[chuckling]

839
00:39:55,601 --> 00:39:57,395
I almost dropped my ring. [chuckles]

840
00:39:57,478 --> 00:39:59,897
In the dishwasher? Or the dishes? Sheesh!

841
00:39:59,980 --> 00:40:01,816
Not my engagement ring, my other ring.

842
00:40:01,899 --> 00:40:03,442
-[Clay] Oh, damn.
-That would've been...

843
00:40:04,318 --> 00:40:06,946
[laughing]

844
00:40:07,029 --> 00:40:08,364
[Clay] Get on the knee again.

845
00:40:08,447 --> 00:40:11,200
-And again and again.
-And again and again. [chuckles]

846
00:40:11,826 --> 00:40:13,702
Sunday, you're gonna be with the girls.

847
00:40:14,870 --> 00:40:17,415
[AD] Yeah, my sister is flying in.

848
00:40:17,498 --> 00:40:21,335
And then my other sister
is coming as well to the...

849
00:40:21,419 --> 00:40:22,920
Dress fitting? That's on Sunday, right?

850
00:40:23,003 --> 00:40:24,880
-Mm-hmm.
-[Clay] Are you excited about that?

851
00:40:24,964 --> 00:40:26,298
-[AD] I am.
-Yeah, yeah.

852
00:40:26,382 --> 00:40:29,343
-I picked colors, which I can show you.
-Yeah, I need to see that.

853
00:40:31,095 --> 00:40:32,430
So there's this color.

854
00:40:33,556 --> 00:40:34,849
I like that color.

855
00:40:35,349 --> 00:40:38,352
-I just don't know for me though.
-You don't have to wear that color.

856
00:40:38,436 --> 00:40:41,730
This is, like, for bridesmaids,
the scenery and, like, everything around.

857
00:40:41,814 --> 00:40:44,650
I'mma be wearing white.
You can wear black or whatever color.

858
00:40:44,733 --> 00:40:48,195
{\an8}You know, what we do have to do
is the marriage license.

859
00:40:48,279 --> 00:40:49,530
[Clay] Mm!

860
00:40:50,364 --> 00:40:53,284
Not me having to put
"deceased" for my dad.

861
00:40:53,367 --> 00:40:54,785
Oh, damn, that's crazy.

862
00:40:54,869 --> 00:40:57,121
-That's so intense.
-That is. That's a lot.

863
00:40:57,621 --> 00:40:59,582
-Ugh!
-We gotta do it. Want me to do it?

864
00:40:59,665 --> 00:41:02,626
-[AD] Yeah, you do it.
-Writing out "deceased" is crazy.

865
00:41:03,127 --> 00:41:05,546
-[sighs]
-How you feel?

866
00:41:07,256 --> 00:41:10,217
[yawns] That's probably
the easiest application I filled out.

867
00:41:10,301 --> 00:41:11,969
[chuckles] Isn't that crazy?

868
00:41:12,052 --> 00:41:16,015
You know, as long as we're on the same
page with shit, you know? Hopefully.

869
00:41:16,098 --> 00:41:17,725
Yeah. No, I get it.

870
00:41:17,808 --> 00:41:19,977
I've always heard it's so easy
to get married,

871
00:41:20,060 --> 00:41:21,312
but it's tough to get out of it.

872
00:41:21,395 --> 00:41:25,357
Like I told you, my dad cheated
year seven into the marriage.

873
00:41:26,108 --> 00:41:29,236
I just feel like it affected my mom...

874
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:32,448
So, it's like,
I got that on my mind of, like, "Damn."

875
00:41:32,531 --> 00:41:34,992
I don't wanna be in a situation
where I'm ever gonna cheat.

876
00:41:35,075 --> 00:41:36,827
-I think that's unacceptable.
-[AD] Yeah.

877
00:41:36,911 --> 00:41:41,165
Do you think that's, like, the biggest
thing, is that you're gonna cheat?

878
00:41:41,874 --> 00:41:43,459
Watching <i>Love Is Blind</i> yesterday

879
00:41:43,542 --> 00:41:45,878
and kind of seeing
the examples I saw, I was like,

880
00:41:45,961 --> 00:41:49,590
"Wow. Like, that is what a husband
is supposed to come."

881
00:41:49,673 --> 00:41:52,468
Like, he says all the right things,
and it's, like, me, I don't.

882
00:41:52,551 --> 00:41:55,012
There's a lot of things,
the way I think that I don't think

883
00:41:55,095 --> 00:41:56,555
is mature enough for a marriage.

884
00:41:56,639 --> 00:41:59,058
Then I'm actually watching the show,

885
00:41:59,141 --> 00:42:01,060
and I'm seeing
some of the men that are ready,

886
00:42:01,143 --> 00:42:03,562
and I'm looking at myself, like, "Damn."

887
00:42:03,646 --> 00:42:06,315
-I'm a little bit embarrassed by that.
-Yeah.

888
00:42:06,398 --> 00:42:08,317
You know, especially articulating
that to you,

889
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:11,111
'cause everything you've done
has been simply amazing.

890
00:42:11,195 --> 00:42:12,321
You've had my back.

891
00:42:12,821 --> 00:42:15,199
Like, every conversation that we've had,

892
00:42:15,282 --> 00:42:18,494
like, we're able to get by things,
which is what I love.

893
00:42:18,577 --> 00:42:21,914
I love our sexual chemistry,
our gossip, you know?

894
00:42:22,665 --> 00:42:24,458
You know, you're my best friend
so it's like,

895
00:42:24,542 --> 00:42:26,418
one thing I don't want you to feel like...

896
00:42:27,294 --> 00:42:29,338
like I'm, like, backing out on you.

897
00:42:29,421 --> 00:42:32,675
I don't want what you've seen on TV.
I don't want that.

898
00:42:32,758 --> 00:42:35,636
-Mm-hmm.
-I'm so content and so happy with you.

899
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:37,888
And I love everything
that comes out of your mouth.

900
00:42:37,972 --> 00:42:40,933
It might be a little silly,
but, like, I process it and come back.

901
00:42:41,016 --> 00:42:42,351
-I'm not afraid.
-Mm-hmm.

902
00:42:42,434 --> 00:42:44,186
I guess, why...

903
00:42:44,270 --> 00:42:47,314
Why, to me, is the date, so,

904
00:42:47,398 --> 00:42:48,941
like, I don't know.

905
00:42:51,485 --> 00:42:53,362
For me, I just feel like "love is love."

906
00:42:53,445 --> 00:42:57,199
Like, why does that date
have to dictate our relationship?

907
00:42:57,283 --> 00:42:59,326
[AD] Clay, and, honestly, I...

908
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:03,831
am okay with a yes or a no at the altar.

909
00:43:03,914 --> 00:43:07,376
-I can pick myself up, and we can...
-[Clay] Mm-hmm.

910
00:43:07,459 --> 00:43:10,462
...um, have a conversation about that.

911
00:43:10,546 --> 00:43:13,007
Unfortunately, like,
I'm not okay with just being,

912
00:43:13,090 --> 00:43:15,467
like, a long-term fiancée.

913
00:43:16,385 --> 00:43:19,096
I did buy
into this experiment, like, fully,

914
00:43:19,179 --> 00:43:23,392
and I do believe that we committed
to a certain timeline in the pods.

915
00:43:23,475 --> 00:43:24,435
We committed to it.

916
00:43:25,561 --> 00:43:27,646
I feel like that
the commitment led us here,

917
00:43:27,730 --> 00:43:30,733
and I feel like continuing to,
like, honor those timelines,

918
00:43:30,816 --> 00:43:33,485
and honor the experiment
is, like, really important to me.

919
00:43:33,569 --> 00:43:37,823
I don't think I could, like,
continue to date you after, if it's, um...

920
00:43:37,906 --> 00:43:39,408
-If it's a no.
-Yeah.

921
00:43:40,826 --> 00:43:43,662
Woof. That's a lot to...

922
00:43:44,663 --> 00:43:45,581
That's a lot.

923
00:43:45,664 --> 00:43:49,710
Uh, that's a valid point, AD.
I'm not, you know,

924
00:43:49,793 --> 00:43:53,589
100%, like, as a man, I have to
be able to lead and give direction.

925
00:43:53,672 --> 00:43:56,800
I would say that this is
the one time where it's like...

926
00:43:56,884 --> 00:43:58,844
Relationships is not something
I'm good at leading.

927
00:43:58,927 --> 00:43:59,887
[AD] Mm-hmm.

928
00:43:59,970 --> 00:44:02,389
And that's why I've been
asking for your assistance

929
00:44:02,473 --> 00:44:06,143
of like, "Hey, help me out. I'm not
confident that I could be your husband."

930
00:44:06,226 --> 00:44:08,228
I'm a guy that has to lead on confidence,

931
00:44:08,312 --> 00:44:09,897
and I need that confidence.

932
00:44:09,980 --> 00:44:13,817
I need a little bit of my ego to help me.
Like, "I could do this shit," you know.

933
00:44:13,901 --> 00:44:15,611
And I'm very fearful.

934
00:44:15,694 --> 00:44:18,614
I feel like not only am I
in a relationship with you,

935
00:44:18,697 --> 00:44:20,866
I'm also fighting other external factors

936
00:44:20,949 --> 00:44:23,577
that are, you know,
affecting our relationship.

937
00:44:23,661 --> 00:44:25,162
-You know?
-I'm not afraid.

938
00:44:25,245 --> 00:44:27,998
-Mm-hmm.
-I think there will be times where I am.

939
00:44:28,082 --> 00:44:29,375
And I'll need you,

940
00:44:29,458 --> 00:44:32,753
and I think right now is the time where
you are, and you need me a bit more.

941
00:44:32,836 --> 00:44:34,672
-Yeah. Yeah.
-And I'm okay with that.

942
00:44:35,631 --> 00:44:38,509
-100%. 100%. I love hearing that.
-I'm okay with that.

943
00:44:38,592 --> 00:44:41,178
I wanna get to the point where
we could have that fairy tale ending.

944
00:44:41,261 --> 00:44:42,346
I'm still fighting for that.

945
00:44:42,429 --> 00:44:44,056
Before coming to this process,

946
00:44:44,139 --> 00:44:46,642
it was more so like,
"Can I fall? Can I fall in love?"

947
00:44:46,725 --> 00:44:47,643
And I got that.

948
00:44:47,726 --> 00:44:49,937
-Here I am, in love, you know?
-Yeah.

949
00:44:50,020 --> 00:44:51,814
Yeah, yeah. [laughing]

950
00:44:54,692 --> 00:44:57,319
-Can I have a huggie?
-Of course. Of course.

951
00:44:57,861 --> 00:45:00,280
Ooh, your whole body.
I'm gonna pick this up.

952
00:45:00,364 --> 00:45:01,365
[AD] Oh!

953
00:45:02,241 --> 00:45:03,575
[Clay grunts]

954
00:45:03,659 --> 00:45:06,995
["Love Me Better" by Adam Relf
and Cristina Fallavollita playing]

955
00:45:36,483 --> 00:45:38,235
[sighs] What's up?

956
00:45:39,111 --> 00:45:39,945
Hi.

957
00:45:42,030 --> 00:45:43,532
[Jimmy] What have you been up to?

958
00:45:44,032 --> 00:45:45,576
Oh, I went home.

959
00:45:47,411 --> 00:45:48,662
Just kind of...

960
00:45:53,125 --> 00:45:54,835
{\an8}Just hung out, I guess.

961
00:45:56,003 --> 00:45:57,129
[Jimmy] Obviously...

962
00:46:00,007 --> 00:46:02,676
{\an8}coming into this experiment,
I was really optimistic and...

963
00:46:04,845 --> 00:46:07,556
Couple days ago,
I introduced you to my parents, and...

964
00:46:09,558 --> 00:46:13,604
I couldn't have been more sure
that you were gonna be my wife.

965
00:46:13,687 --> 00:46:15,397
And I was ready for that moment.

966
00:46:16,690 --> 00:46:19,818
My parents can see
how much we love each other, and then...

967
00:46:21,820 --> 00:46:26,116
afterwards we just
have our worst fight yet,

968
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:29,286
and after your actions the other night,

969
00:46:29,369 --> 00:46:31,371
I feel like I don't trust your judgment.

970
00:46:33,665 --> 00:46:36,835
But yesterday,
I went on, like, a four-mile walk,

971
00:46:37,836 --> 00:46:41,215
and I had time
to sort of collect my thoughts,

972
00:46:41,298 --> 00:46:44,343
and when I had time
to really think about what I wanted,

973
00:46:44,426 --> 00:46:50,432
and what I want out of this experiment
was to, you know, show you I love you,

974
00:46:51,016 --> 00:46:54,061
and be there for you and take you home,

975
00:46:54,144 --> 00:46:55,813
and be proud to call you my wife,

976
00:46:55,896 --> 00:46:57,898
and just...

977
00:47:00,984 --> 00:47:05,030
I just feel like I was a little betrayed
the other night, and...

978
00:47:07,658 --> 00:47:11,453
I mean, this morning,
my perspective on getting married, I...

979
00:47:13,872 --> 00:47:17,918
I... you know, decided I didn't want to.

980
00:47:28,971 --> 00:47:32,099
So you're... are you... so you're saying no?

981
00:47:33,350 --> 00:47:36,687
You told me you didn't think I love you.
That statement alone...

982
00:47:40,983 --> 00:47:43,902
That hurts my feelings
that you don't think I love you.

983
00:47:43,986 --> 00:47:45,153
I love you.

984
00:47:47,072 --> 00:47:51,451
And I will always fight
for the woman I love.

985
00:47:51,535 --> 00:47:53,370
I always have, and I always will,

986
00:47:53,453 --> 00:47:56,456
and I fought for you a lot
through this experiment,

987
00:47:56,540 --> 00:48:00,878
but you're saying that I'm
not giving you any love and affection,

988
00:48:00,961 --> 00:48:04,047
and I feel like I'm giving you
as much as I possibly can give.

989
00:48:05,132 --> 00:48:06,466
This is just,

990
00:48:07,926 --> 00:48:11,054
um, hard to hear.

991
00:48:12,222 --> 00:48:14,933
I apologize, and the things that I said

992
00:48:15,017 --> 00:48:18,020
were things that were bothering me
and really heavy on my heart.

993
00:48:18,103 --> 00:48:20,564
Was my delivery good? No.

994
00:48:20,647 --> 00:48:21,982
Not at all.

995
00:48:22,691 --> 00:48:25,152
And I... I am so sorry about that.

996
00:48:25,235 --> 00:48:27,529
And I can't apologize anymore.

997
00:48:28,030 --> 00:48:30,699
-I forgive you for that.
-I know. Hear me out.

998
00:48:32,075 --> 00:48:36,830
I... I know that I was horrible,
but for you to just throw in the towel

999
00:48:36,914 --> 00:48:39,708
if I have a bad night is, like...

1000
00:48:40,250 --> 00:48:42,127
just 'cause we had a hiccup?

1001
00:48:43,128 --> 00:48:44,838
Things aren't gonna be easy.

1002
00:48:46,131 --> 00:48:49,885
And we did, we had a horrible,
horrible, horrible argument, and...

1003
00:48:51,803 --> 00:48:53,013
That was not...

1004
00:48:53,513 --> 00:48:55,641
That's not our character. It's not...

1005
00:48:55,724 --> 00:48:58,060
Drinking is not healthy,

1006
00:48:58,143 --> 00:49:02,189
and... and talking about our feelings
in that circumstance, that was not okay.

1007
00:49:02,272 --> 00:49:04,608
And I'm completely aware of that.

1008
00:49:05,692 --> 00:49:06,526
[Jimmy] Yeah.

1009
00:49:06,610 --> 00:49:09,529
But when things get tough,

1010
00:49:09,613 --> 00:49:12,616
like, I need to know
you're not just gonna walk away from me.

1011
00:49:17,079 --> 00:49:18,080
Well, I...

1012
00:49:19,039 --> 00:49:21,208
Last week, I went home

1013
00:49:22,334 --> 00:49:24,002
during the middle of an argument.

1014
00:49:24,878 --> 00:49:26,922
And I told myself
I wasn't gonna do that again.

1015
00:49:27,005 --> 00:49:30,384
Like, I was proud
of myself for not leaving

1016
00:49:30,467 --> 00:49:33,428
when you were treating me that way.

1017
00:49:33,512 --> 00:49:35,097
But it wasn't just me.

1018
00:49:35,180 --> 00:49:37,057
I know it goes both ways, but, like...

1019
00:49:37,140 --> 00:49:42,020
I felt more in love with you yesterday
than I ever have.

1020
00:49:45,399 --> 00:49:49,236
-I felt it so much from you yesterday.
-Yeah.

1021
00:49:54,074 --> 00:49:55,784
What else can I do to...

1022
00:49:57,786 --> 00:50:00,539
make you feel like
where this could be a "yes"?

1023
00:50:05,335 --> 00:50:08,422
I need you never to... to...

1024
00:50:10,215 --> 00:50:13,969
cross the line on the things you crossed
the line on the other night ever.

1025
00:50:14,052 --> 00:50:16,138
-Like...
-Same for you.

1026
00:50:16,221 --> 00:50:18,223
-I know. We should never...
-[Chelsea] And I agree.

1027
00:50:18,932 --> 00:50:20,851
We should never go
at each other's characters.

1028
00:50:20,934 --> 00:50:25,063
No, and I never ever, ever, ever want
to argue like that ever again.

1029
00:50:25,814 --> 00:50:27,232
-Ever.
-Yeah, me neither.

1030
00:50:27,315 --> 00:50:30,652
That wasn't fair, for both of us.

1031
00:50:30,736 --> 00:50:31,945
So...

1032
00:50:34,072 --> 00:50:35,574
where's your head at right now?

1033
00:50:37,701 --> 00:50:41,079
I signed up for the experiment, you know,

1034
00:50:41,955 --> 00:50:43,707
to get married, to find a wife,

1035
00:50:43,790 --> 00:50:45,417
find the love of my life. I...

1036
00:50:48,003 --> 00:50:49,588
I'm still here for that reason.

1037
00:50:50,422 --> 00:50:52,674
Do I wanna give it a shot?

1038
00:50:53,633 --> 00:50:54,926
Yeah, I do.

1039
00:50:56,595 --> 00:50:58,597
Do I forgive you for the other night?
I do.

1040
00:50:59,097 --> 00:51:00,390
I love you. I care about you,

1041
00:51:00,474 --> 00:51:03,602
and I really want... I really wanna try.

1042
00:51:05,062 --> 00:51:06,188
I love you and...

1043
00:51:06,271 --> 00:51:08,690
-I love you too.
-[Jimmy] I really wanna try with you.

1044
00:51:08,774 --> 00:51:10,650
-Me too.
-So you're the reason I'm here.

1045
00:51:10,734 --> 00:51:11,777
You too.

1046
00:51:11,860 --> 00:51:16,364
But you can't come dressing like that
when I'm mad at you.

1047
00:51:17,157 --> 00:51:18,158
You look good.

1048
00:51:19,326 --> 00:51:21,453
-I really like those pants.
-[both laughing]

1049
00:51:27,667 --> 00:51:28,668
I love you.

1050
00:51:32,756 --> 00:51:36,176
[mutters] Of course
I wanna continue to try with you.

1051
00:51:37,511 --> 00:51:39,721
{\an8}She's so damn hard not to forgive.

1052
00:51:42,140 --> 00:51:43,183
The other night

1053
00:51:45,060 --> 00:51:46,394
really hurt my feelings.

1054
00:51:47,646 --> 00:51:48,480
[Chelsea chuckles]

1055
00:51:48,563 --> 00:51:51,108
But every conflict Chelsea and I have had,

1056
00:51:51,191 --> 00:51:52,818
we've been able to get through it.

1057
00:51:52,901 --> 00:51:53,902
I love that about her.

1058
00:51:53,985 --> 00:51:57,781
I almost took this off
and left it here for you to see.

1059
00:51:58,907 --> 00:51:59,950
That would've been sad.

1060
00:52:05,247 --> 00:52:07,499
-I love you.
-I love you too.

1061
00:52:14,089 --> 00:52:16,049
So are you gonna make me cookies or what?

1062
00:52:16,633 --> 00:52:18,009
[groans] I'm tired.

1063
00:52:19,344 --> 00:52:21,263
-I'm so tired, baby.
-Don't pull that shit.

1064
00:52:21,346 --> 00:52:25,725
-It's six o'clock at night. [chuckles]
-I hardly slept last night.

1065
00:52:25,809 --> 00:52:28,687
Why? 'Cause you were
at the friggin' club, probably.

1066
00:52:28,770 --> 00:52:30,480
Oh, my goodness. No.

1067
00:52:30,564 --> 00:52:32,482
Because I thought
you didn't think I loved you.

1068
00:52:32,566 --> 00:52:34,109
[laughs]

1069
00:52:37,904 --> 00:52:40,115
[Jimmy] I'm happy that
she knows where I'm at now,

1070
00:52:40,198 --> 00:52:41,950
and I'm happy she feels the same way.

1071
00:52:42,033 --> 00:52:44,244
And I'm happy to work towards a marriage.

1072
00:52:44,327 --> 00:52:46,079
That's... that's what I came here for,

1073
00:52:46,163 --> 00:52:49,291
and... and I know Chelsea
is gonna be a phenomenal wife.

1074
00:52:49,374 --> 00:52:53,211
It's just working through
the kinks of day-to-day

1075
00:52:53,295 --> 00:52:55,547
and how we handle conflicts.

1076
00:52:56,965 --> 00:53:00,594
I will put my blood, sweat,
and tears into our relationship

1077
00:53:00,677 --> 00:53:03,555
if I know that she's in it,
and she's in it 100%.

1078
00:53:03,638 --> 00:53:06,057
If she's in it, I'm in it,
and I won't let her go.

1079
00:53:06,141 --> 00:53:07,142
You're cute.

1080
00:53:09,144 --> 00:53:11,021
[Chelsea] You drive me nuts, boy.

1081
00:53:11,104 --> 00:53:13,023
[pop music playing]

1082
00:53:13,106 --> 00:53:17,194
<i>♪ When you're stuck at the edge
You can't hide inside ♪</i>

1083
00:53:23,325 --> 00:53:26,703
{\an8}<i>♪ Better May, better day
Look at me, look at you ♪</i>

1084
00:53:26,786 --> 00:53:31,583
{\an8}<i>♪ We were starting like it's nothing
I'm so glad I came with you ♪</i>

1085
00:53:31,666 --> 00:53:33,919
{\an8}-[shouting]
-[Johnny] Hello!

1086
00:53:34,002 --> 00:53:35,378
I missed you so much!

1087
00:53:35,462 --> 00:53:36,379
[shouting]

1088
00:53:36,463 --> 00:53:39,007
-You look so good!
-You look so good!

1089
00:53:39,591 --> 00:53:41,134
{\an8}[Johnny] AD! Hey, how you doing, girl?

1090
00:53:41,218 --> 00:53:43,011
[shouts] Gonna have these tittles pop out!

1091
00:53:43,094 --> 00:53:45,639
I've been so deprived of all my girls!

1092
00:53:45,722 --> 00:53:49,017
-I know! Hello! You look so amazing!
-I missed you!

1093
00:53:49,684 --> 00:53:51,811
{\an8}-Let's go.
-[Johnny] Hey, there they are!

1094
00:53:51,895 --> 00:53:53,313
{\an8}[shouting]

1095
00:53:53,396 --> 00:53:55,398
Who's wearing a leather jacket
on a lake day?

1096
00:53:55,482 --> 00:53:57,609
I know! Like, I need some leather.

1097
00:53:57,692 --> 00:53:59,694
[Jimmy] What's up?
Good to see you. How are you?

1098
00:53:59,778 --> 00:54:01,363
Take that off. Take that off.

1099
00:54:01,446 --> 00:54:02,530
[Johnny] There we go!

1100
00:54:02,614 --> 00:54:05,825
-We got weather, dude. Let's get it!
-[Chelsea] Where's Clay?

1101
00:54:05,909 --> 00:54:07,118
Clay's working.

1102
00:54:07,202 --> 00:54:09,913
-[Chelsea] He couldn't come?
-[AD] No, he's coming. He's just working.

1103
00:54:09,996 --> 00:54:11,915
-Let's go. Come on.
-[Johnny] See you, ladies!

1104
00:54:11,998 --> 00:54:13,667
-Have a good time!
-Bye. We're out!

1105
00:54:13,750 --> 00:54:14,793
The boys will hang out.

1106
00:54:17,587 --> 00:54:19,214
[Laura] This is ridiculous.

1107
00:54:19,297 --> 00:54:21,800
Okay, this is the speech scrunchie.

1108
00:54:21,883 --> 00:54:25,720
So when you have the scrunchie,
then you have to spill your tea.

1109
00:54:25,804 --> 00:54:29,557
-Not the Scrunchie of Truth!
-The Scrunchie of Truth! I think Laura...

1110
00:54:29,641 --> 00:54:33,186
-Wait, why do I have to start?
-[laughing]

1111
00:54:34,521 --> 00:54:35,772
Scrunchie of Truth.

1112
00:54:37,107 --> 00:54:38,817
-Bless.
-Where the fuck is Jeramey?

1113
00:54:38,900 --> 00:54:41,194
-Yes! I need all the answers.
-[laughing]

1114
00:54:41,278 --> 00:54:42,612
Where is that man?

1115
00:54:42,696 --> 00:54:44,906
{\an8}The only thing I know
is something that Johnny told me

1116
00:54:44,990 --> 00:54:46,783
{\an8}that was told by Jeramey.

1117
00:54:46,866 --> 00:54:49,035
-Jeramey told him...
-I would love to hear this.

1118
00:54:49,119 --> 00:54:51,871
I was told by Johnny that Jeramey said

1119
00:54:51,955 --> 00:54:53,373
that he hung out with Sarah Ann...

1120
00:54:53,456 --> 00:54:54,582
[Laura] Mm-hmm.

1121
00:54:54,666 --> 00:54:57,585
...one night.
And that they just talked for hours.

1122
00:54:57,669 --> 00:54:59,337
5:30 in the morning, did he say that?

1123
00:54:59,421 --> 00:55:02,090
Yeah, yeah, he did say that,
but that they just talked.

1124
00:55:02,173 --> 00:55:03,842
He's a man,
so I don't know what to believe.

1125
00:55:03,925 --> 00:55:07,470
-Ain't shit to say at 5:30 in the...
-Interesting. Interesting. Okay.

1126
00:55:07,554 --> 00:55:10,515
What do we think happens
in the night, when you spend the night?

1127
00:55:10,598 --> 00:55:14,144
-[Amy] After drinking.
-Because 6:00 a.m. is the next morning.

1128
00:55:16,813 --> 00:55:20,567
My point of view is,
do I have respect for her? Absolutely not.

1129
00:55:20,650 --> 00:55:23,361
{\an8}Do I think that she has respect
for other women? Absolutely not.

1130
00:55:23,445 --> 00:55:26,114
Do I think
she's selfish as hell? Absolutely.

1131
00:55:26,197 --> 00:55:29,617
Do I think she's immature and still has
a lot of shit to work on and figure out?

1132
00:55:29,701 --> 00:55:32,412
Yes, but he's the one
that made a commitment to me.

1133
00:55:32,495 --> 00:55:34,289
He's the one that owed me something.

1134
00:55:34,372 --> 00:55:37,375
This is the most hurtful part for me.

1135
00:55:37,459 --> 00:55:40,795
When you propose to somebody,
you are making confirmation

1136
00:55:40,879 --> 00:55:42,547
that you're going to protect their heart.

1137
00:55:42,630 --> 00:55:46,468
You're gonna protect them as a person,
as your wife, as your partner.

1138
00:55:46,551 --> 00:55:49,471
Like, you are gonna
think of them in all situations.

1139
00:55:49,554 --> 00:55:51,806
It's no longer you. It's a "we."

1140
00:55:51,890 --> 00:55:53,600
And the way it was handled after...

1141
00:55:53,683 --> 00:55:56,311
You guys, when I left,
I didn't hear not one word from him,

1142
00:55:56,811 --> 00:55:59,814
and said, "I'm going back to
my apartment. I need a break from this."

1143
00:55:59,898 --> 00:56:02,233
This was my real-ass fucking life.

1144
00:56:02,317 --> 00:56:03,985
-[Amy] Yeah.
-Was my real-ass engagement.

1145
00:56:04,069 --> 00:56:06,071
-He ain't it, sis. He ain't it.
-[Laura] Thank you.

1146
00:56:06,154 --> 00:56:07,405
-Thank you.
-[Chelsea] No.

1147
00:56:08,656 --> 00:56:11,242
This is where I'm at.
I don't think the guy ever cared for me.

1148
00:56:11,326 --> 00:56:14,287
I think he was fake as shit in the pods.
I don't know why he came here.

1149
00:56:15,288 --> 00:56:17,916
I think he has feelings for Sarah Ann
he doesn't know how to process.

1150
00:56:18,708 --> 00:56:21,211
{\an8}-Hey!
-Yo!

1151
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:22,796
Oh, no.

1152
00:56:22,879 --> 00:56:24,964
-Oh, fuck me.
-[Chelsea gasps]

1153
00:56:25,048 --> 00:56:26,174
[laughs] I'm sweating!

1154
00:56:26,257 --> 00:56:27,342
-Fuck me.
-[laughing]

1155
00:56:27,425 --> 00:56:29,677
-What?
-Can I drown myself?

1156
00:56:29,761 --> 00:56:31,513
-How y'all doing?
-[Jimmy] What's up, dude?

1157
00:56:31,596 --> 00:56:34,224
I knew Johnny was here
'cause I could hear him out front.

1158
00:56:34,307 --> 00:56:35,475
{\an8}[laughing]

1159
00:56:35,558 --> 00:56:38,311
-What's up, man? Good to see you.
-How you doing? Good to see you.

1160
00:56:38,395 --> 00:56:40,522
-About time.
-Knew you would have a Hawaiian shirt on.

1161
00:56:40,605 --> 00:56:41,856
-How'd you know?
-I just knew it.

1162
00:56:41,940 --> 00:56:43,858
I was ready to push it today.

1163
00:56:44,776 --> 00:56:46,986
[Chelsea chuckles]
Act cool, act calm, act collected.

1164
00:56:47,070 --> 00:56:50,198
-Honey, I am cool, calm and collected.
-I'm stressed out. I'm stressed out.

1165
00:56:50,281 --> 00:56:53,243
-Who's down there now? Is that Laura?
-Laura's here.

1166
00:56:53,326 --> 00:56:54,619
-Oh, great.
-You should...

1167
00:56:54,702 --> 00:56:57,580
[both laugh]

1168
00:56:57,664 --> 00:57:00,083
The exact person
I don't wanna fucking see right now.

1169
00:57:00,166 --> 00:57:03,586
Laura and I haven't seen each other in
four days, haven't spoken in three days.

1170
00:57:03,670 --> 00:57:06,506
{\an8}Honestly, my last conversation with Laura,
she jumped down my throat

1171
00:57:06,589 --> 00:57:10,009
{\an8}to the point where I'm nervous
to, like, even speak to her.

1172
00:57:10,093 --> 00:57:13,847
{\an8}Everything I say seems to get spun
in a completely different direction,

1173
00:57:13,930 --> 00:57:16,015
and I'm made out to be the bad guy.

1174
00:57:16,099 --> 00:57:18,184
I was texting with her on Wednesday.

1175
00:57:18,268 --> 00:57:20,478
Basically, all I got in return
in text messages from her

1176
00:57:20,562 --> 00:57:23,481
was nasty fucking answers.

1177
00:57:23,565 --> 00:57:24,691
I tried sending her flowers.

1178
00:57:24,774 --> 00:57:28,027
She's like, "You don't need my address
because I don't need anything from you."

1179
00:57:28,111 --> 00:57:31,156
And then follows that up with,
"It sucks to know that your name went

1180
00:57:31,239 --> 00:57:33,575
from 'Fiancé' to just 'Jeramey'
in my phone."

1181
00:57:34,409 --> 00:57:37,620
In what fucking world would I try
to fight for something like that?

1182
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:44,419
I was 100% on board with working things
out with her and trying to solve things,

1183
00:57:44,502 --> 00:57:46,379
but I learned a lot about her, uh...

1184
00:57:47,755 --> 00:57:50,800
I don't know if she was angry
or if that's how she was actually feeling,

1185
00:57:50,884 --> 00:57:54,179
but even if you're angry, I don't
wanna be talked to or treated like that.

1186
00:57:54,762 --> 00:57:56,806
And it's hard to have a conversation
with someone

1187
00:57:56,890 --> 00:57:59,601
who just runs away from something
every time they get frustrated.

1188
00:58:00,351 --> 00:58:03,188
[Jimmy] Admittedly, I think y'all
are both a little hard-headed, um...

1189
00:58:03,271 --> 00:58:05,940
-I know I am. But at least I'll admit it.
-Yeah, yeah.

1190
00:58:06,024 --> 00:58:08,651
-Yeah, but you know, fighting for someone...
-[chuckles]

1191
00:58:08,735 --> 00:58:10,612
Kind of dealing
with the same thing with Chelsea.

1192
00:58:10,695 --> 00:58:13,406
Like, there's a couple things
she said that she didn't even mean,

1193
00:58:13,490 --> 00:58:16,534
but, um, once we talked through
those problems, it was...

1194
00:58:17,285 --> 00:58:19,329
There was a reason
to fight for it, you know?

1195
00:58:19,412 --> 00:58:21,956
-I wasn't getting any reasons.
-Um, and you're not...

1196
00:58:22,916 --> 00:58:24,125
-Yeah.
-[Jeramey] Like, at all.

1197
00:58:29,214 --> 00:58:31,758
{\an8}-Damn, there he is!
-[shouting]

1198
00:58:33,051 --> 00:58:33,927
Is that Trevor?

1199
00:58:35,762 --> 00:58:36,763
[Amy] That's Trevor?

1200
00:58:37,805 --> 00:58:39,098
That's Trevor? [laughing]

1201
00:58:40,266 --> 00:58:42,644
Oh, my God! He's beefy!

1202
00:58:42,727 --> 00:58:45,522
-Oh! Oh.
-[Jeramey] Oh, I missed you.

1203
00:58:45,605 --> 00:58:48,358
I don't wanna be involved
with the conversation, talking to Jeramey.

1204
00:58:48,441 --> 00:58:49,817
[Johnny] I don't want to either.

1205
00:58:49,901 --> 00:58:52,153
-Jeramey's his best bud all of a sudden.
-He's strong.

1206
00:58:52,237 --> 00:58:53,696
-What happened?
-I'm sorry.

1207
00:58:53,780 --> 00:58:57,033
-It's all gone! I missed you so much.
-You shaved the mullet! What the fuck!

1208
00:58:57,116 --> 00:58:58,618
[Chelsea] He looks good though!

1209
00:58:59,285 --> 00:59:01,663
Trevor is normally what I go for.

1210
00:59:01,746 --> 00:59:03,581
{\an8}Beefy, muscular.

1211
00:59:03,665 --> 00:59:07,085
It's interesting to see him
and, like, put a face to the voice.

1212
00:59:07,168 --> 00:59:08,753
[laughs] But...

1213
00:59:08,836 --> 00:59:11,005
It's... it's complicated. Yeah. [laughs]

1214
00:59:11,089 --> 00:59:12,632
That's some beefcake right there.

1215
00:59:14,717 --> 00:59:16,135
Y'all! Y'all! Y'all! Y'all!

1216
00:59:16,219 --> 00:59:18,721
{\an8}[shouting]

1217
00:59:18,805 --> 00:59:19,806
[laughing]

1218
00:59:20,431 --> 00:59:22,183
[sighs] Oh, God, here we go.

1219
00:59:22,267 --> 00:59:25,520
-[Mackenzie] Hello! Hey!
-Hey, how's it going? I'm Johnny.

1220
00:59:25,603 --> 00:59:27,313
-Mackenzie.
-[Johnny] Nice to meet you.

1221
00:59:27,397 --> 00:59:28,856
-[Trevor] Nice to meet you.
-I'm Jess.

1222
00:59:28,940 --> 00:59:31,150
-Nice to meet you.
-Jimmy. Nice to meet you.

1223
00:59:31,234 --> 00:59:32,986
-I'm stressed out.
-She's here for me.

1224
00:59:33,069 --> 00:59:34,320
Jimmy.

1225
00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:36,823
Oh, not a church hug.

1226
00:59:36,906 --> 00:59:38,074
Nice to meet you.

1227
00:59:38,157 --> 00:59:41,119
[Chelsea] Oh, my God, you guys!
Jimmy and her!

1228
00:59:41,911 --> 00:59:44,831
-["Is It Love?" playing]
<i>-♪ Is it love or fantasy? ♪</i>

1229
00:59:44,914 --> 00:59:46,916
<i>♪ These sparks between you and me ♪</i>

1230
00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:49,711
<i>♪ I got a feeling like, feeling like ♪</i>

1231
00:59:49,794 --> 00:59:51,838
<i>♪ It's heating up tonight ♪</i>

1232
00:59:51,921 --> 00:59:55,341
-[laughing]
-Oh, man. This whole shit is hard.

1233
00:59:55,425 --> 00:59:56,843
I'm gonna throw up.

1234
00:59:58,094 --> 01:00:01,347
-Well, my day just got a lot worse.
-[laughing]

1235
01:00:01,931 --> 01:00:02,807
[AD] Jess!

1236
01:00:02,890 --> 01:00:04,142
-Baby!
-[Jessica] I wore heels.

1237
01:00:04,225 --> 01:00:06,185
And I'm already changing.

1238
01:00:06,269 --> 01:00:07,353
Hello!

1239
01:00:07,937 --> 01:00:09,522
-Hi.
-Thank y'all for coming up.

1240
01:00:09,606 --> 01:00:12,108
-Hey. Nice to meet you.
-[Chelsea] How are you?

1241
01:00:12,191 --> 01:00:13,860
-Good, how are you?
-I'm Chelsea.

1242
01:00:13,943 --> 01:00:16,195
-Nice to meet you, Chel... I figured.
-[both laugh]

1243
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:19,032
Oh, my gosh, look!

1244
01:00:19,115 --> 01:00:20,199
{\an8}There he is, baby!

1245
01:00:20,283 --> 01:00:21,284
{\an8}What up, man?

1246
01:00:21,367 --> 01:00:22,827
{\an8}What's up, brother? Good to see you.

1247
01:00:22,910 --> 01:00:25,330
I need to get some drinks in me,
'cause I'm, like, a little...

1248
01:00:25,413 --> 01:00:26,414
The bar is up there.

1249
01:00:26,497 --> 01:00:28,249
-Hi!
-What's up?

1250
01:00:28,333 --> 01:00:30,293
-I was just talking about you.
-Oh, yeah?

1251
01:00:30,793 --> 01:00:32,837
I'm feeling too many things.

1252
01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:34,756
Should we go somewhere else?

1253
01:00:34,839 --> 01:00:37,508
-No, where did he go?
-[laughing]

1254
01:00:39,093 --> 01:00:41,638
-I love you so much.
-Where is he?

1255
01:00:42,138 --> 01:00:45,141
[Chelsea chuckles] Babe,
can you get me some white wine?

1256
01:00:45,224 --> 01:00:47,143
-What you want, baby?
-[Chelsea] Just white wine.

1257
01:00:47,226 --> 01:00:49,771
-Literally, my heart is still in my...
-I feel like it's beep, beep.

1258
01:00:49,854 --> 01:00:52,148
-No, literally, my heart is in my butt.
-I know. I know.

1259
01:00:53,775 --> 01:00:55,568
I had to hold my breath when I hugged him.

1260
01:00:56,152 --> 01:00:57,779
[Laura] Could tell he was uncomfortable.

1261
01:00:58,613 --> 01:01:01,658
I don't know. I didn't think I was
gonna feel like that. I hate it here.

1262
01:01:03,826 --> 01:01:05,244
-[chattering]
-[AD] What's going on?

1263
01:01:05,328 --> 01:01:08,164
I need to know,
because you're playing it way too cool.

1264
01:01:08,247 --> 01:01:10,083
-How are you feeling?
-Oh, we haven't spoken.

1265
01:01:13,044 --> 01:01:14,253
Not wearing a ring.

1266
01:01:14,337 --> 01:01:16,297
-I still have it.
-I did notice.

1267
01:01:16,381 --> 01:01:19,967
The ring meant a commitment to me
that has since been broken.

1268
01:01:20,051 --> 01:01:21,302
-Yeah.
-So...

1269
01:01:21,386 --> 01:01:24,180
-Do you still have it or did he take it?
-No, I still have it.

1270
01:01:24,263 --> 01:01:27,058
If he asks for it, I'll tell him
to go fucking kick rocks barefoot.

1271
01:01:27,141 --> 01:01:28,518
-Like...
-As you should.

1272
01:01:30,895 --> 01:01:33,314
Why do I feel like this is,
like, middle school

1273
01:01:33,398 --> 01:01:35,858
at a dance when it's,
like, girls and guys?

1274
01:01:35,942 --> 01:01:37,485
-Should I go there?
-It's because it is.

1275
01:01:37,568 --> 01:01:38,903
Yeah, that's what I was gonna say.

1276
01:01:38,986 --> 01:01:41,823
-Like, get the hell out of here.
-Okay, all right, bye!

1277
01:01:41,906 --> 01:01:44,283
I'm just kidding.
I'm just kidding. Stay with your fiancé.

1278
01:01:44,367 --> 01:01:46,953
No, I feel like I should.
I should migrate.

1279
01:01:47,036 --> 01:01:49,414
All right, y'all do you. Hey, ladies.

1280
01:01:49,497 --> 01:01:51,582
-Hi, my love!
-Hello, friend!

1281
01:01:51,666 --> 01:01:54,043
[Chelsea] Oh, I'm gonna
tip this chair over.

1282
01:01:54,127 --> 01:01:55,920
[laughing]

1283
01:01:56,003 --> 01:02:00,216
-["Next to You" playing]
<i>-♪ You got me getting caught up ♪</i>

1284
01:02:01,008 --> 01:02:04,137
<i>♪ In my feelings for you ♪</i>

1285
01:02:04,220 --> 01:02:07,932
<i>♪ I don't wanna fuck up ♪</i>

1286
01:02:08,015 --> 01:02:12,103
<i>♪ By getting too lost in you ♪</i>

1287
01:02:12,186 --> 01:02:14,188
This is extremely awkward now.

1288
01:02:15,106 --> 01:02:16,232
You're fine.

1289
01:02:16,315 --> 01:02:19,026
I don't want to intrude.

1290
01:02:19,110 --> 01:02:20,236
-Hi.
-But I need a drink.

1291
01:02:20,945 --> 01:02:23,865
[Jimmy] Seeing Jess
and hearing her again, it's tough.

1292
01:02:23,948 --> 01:02:26,617
She left me with a lot of emotions,

1293
01:02:26,701 --> 01:02:29,704
{\an8}and I mean, Jess is very good-looking.

1294
01:02:29,787 --> 01:02:30,997
{\an8}I am attracted to her.

1295
01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:33,583
Yeah, I'm not the type of person to

1296
01:02:34,417 --> 01:02:37,712
just completely avoid being around you.

1297
01:02:37,795 --> 01:02:39,464
Um, obviously, we dated a while,

1298
01:02:39,547 --> 01:02:41,549
so it's a conversation
that needs to be had, but...

1299
01:02:41,632 --> 01:02:42,550
Okay.

1300
01:02:42,633 --> 01:02:45,678
It's a scary thing,
falling for someone and having

1301
01:02:46,387 --> 01:02:49,599
two amazing women
that you really care about.

1302
01:02:50,266 --> 01:02:53,060
I'd be lying if I...
if it isn't on my mind a lot.

1303
01:02:53,144 --> 01:02:55,438
It needs to happen, I reckon.

1304
01:02:55,521 --> 01:02:56,981
[Jessica] Are you nervous?

1305
01:02:57,064 --> 01:02:58,441
[Jimmy] I'm not nervous.

1306
01:02:58,524 --> 01:02:59,984
I'm uncomfortable.

1307
01:03:01,360 --> 01:03:02,904
Hey, Jimmy.

1308
01:03:03,488 --> 01:03:04,322
What's up?

1309
01:03:05,281 --> 01:03:06,657
It's really you.

1310
01:03:08,409 --> 01:03:11,329
-How's the last couple weeks been for you?
-They've been good.

1311
01:03:11,954 --> 01:03:14,415
I mean, I go through,
like, waves of different things.

1312
01:03:14,916 --> 01:03:16,125
But I'm good.

1313
01:03:16,834 --> 01:03:17,919
What about you?

1314
01:03:18,753 --> 01:03:21,339
For the first time,
I, like, don't have any insecurities,

1315
01:03:21,422 --> 01:03:22,840
and...

1316
01:03:22,924 --> 01:03:25,092
They're all out there! So...

1317
01:03:25,635 --> 01:03:27,595
[gasps] Did she meet your family?

1318
01:03:27,678 --> 01:03:29,764
-She did.
-How was it?

1319
01:03:29,847 --> 01:03:31,849
-They adored her, I'm sure.
-Yeah.

1320
01:03:31,933 --> 01:03:35,228
That was the easiest part
of everything that we've done so far,

1321
01:03:35,311 --> 01:03:36,354
meeting the family.

1322
01:03:36,437 --> 01:03:38,356
Well, that was the thing
you were most afraid of.

1323
01:03:38,439 --> 01:03:39,440
Yeah.

1324
01:03:40,441 --> 01:03:43,486
That should tell you something.
And you felt completely at peace with it?

1325
01:03:43,569 --> 01:03:44,445
Yeah, but it's like,

1326
01:03:44,529 --> 01:03:49,450
how is that easy
and then we had our biggest fight?

1327
01:03:51,369 --> 01:03:52,995
It's been a roller coaster.

1328
01:03:53,579 --> 01:03:56,707
I want you to be good to her.

1329
01:03:57,208 --> 01:03:59,001
Not me being the one giving you advice.

1330
01:03:59,085 --> 01:04:01,754
This is like...
you're like, "Please shut up," but...

1331
01:04:01,838 --> 01:04:02,755
No, I'm not. I...

1332
01:04:03,256 --> 01:04:05,591
Don't look at this as advice
coming from, like, an ex.

1333
01:04:05,675 --> 01:04:08,219
Look at it as advice coming
from, like, one of her good friends.

1334
01:04:08,302 --> 01:04:09,470
Are you an ex?

1335
01:04:15,059 --> 01:04:17,061
I don't know. I get nervous around you.

1336
01:04:17,144 --> 01:04:19,105
I told you I've never dated anybody

1337
01:04:19,188 --> 01:04:22,358
that's even remotely like you,
personality-wise.

1338
01:04:23,442 --> 01:04:25,528
I just felt really pressured with you.

1339
01:04:26,696 --> 01:04:28,531
You were, like, basically saying,

1340
01:04:28,614 --> 01:04:29,824
"Yeah, like..."

1341
01:04:30,408 --> 01:04:32,743
"I'm right here.
I'm telling you how I feel!"

1342
01:04:32,827 --> 01:04:36,747
[laughing] "What else do you need from me
to make you get on a knee?" And I'm like...

1343
01:04:36,831 --> 01:04:38,374
No, that's not what I said.

1344
01:04:38,457 --> 01:04:40,918
I didn't say, "What else do you need
to make you get on a knee?"

1345
01:04:41,002 --> 01:04:45,798
But you read my letter out loud,
and then you were dead silent.

1346
01:04:45,882 --> 01:04:47,925
-Mm-hmm.
-[Jessica] And when you were silent,

1347
01:04:48,009 --> 01:04:49,552
that was so loud.

1348
01:04:51,679 --> 01:04:54,765
You read it. I was just like,
"That's how I feel about you."

1349
01:04:54,849 --> 01:04:57,101
-"Those are all of my commitments to you."
-Mm-hmm.

1350
01:04:57,184 --> 01:04:59,353
"Like, you are it for me.
You are my person."

1351
01:04:59,437 --> 01:05:01,105
-Yeah.
-[Jessica] And you were dead silent.

1352
01:05:01,188 --> 01:05:03,608
How would anybody react to that?

1353
01:05:05,818 --> 01:05:10,489
That night that you told Chelsea
that you loved her, I lost it.

1354
01:05:10,573 --> 01:05:14,076
Oh, my God. I cried more that night
than I've probably cried my whole life.

1355
01:05:14,160 --> 01:05:17,538
I'm sorry I put you in that... position.

1356
01:05:18,456 --> 01:05:20,082
-I know.
-That's not how I, uh...

1357
01:05:20,583 --> 01:05:22,335
-That's not how I wanted you to feel.
-[sighs]

1358
01:05:22,418 --> 01:05:24,170
I was crying reading that.

1359
01:05:24,253 --> 01:05:25,463
And, um...

1360
01:05:27,798 --> 01:05:28,716
I know.

1361
01:05:29,508 --> 01:05:30,843
I accept your apology.

1362
01:05:31,802 --> 01:05:33,596
I don't think you had any bad intentions.

1363
01:05:33,679 --> 01:05:37,391
I think maybe that was
the best you could do at the time.

1364
01:05:39,101 --> 01:05:40,061
It was hard.

1365
01:05:43,856 --> 01:05:45,524
Whoever my husband's supposed to be,

1366
01:05:45,608 --> 01:05:48,194
he's gonna validate me
without me having to ask.

1367
01:05:49,820 --> 01:05:50,738
Come to think about it,

1368
01:05:50,821 --> 01:05:54,075
like, you never really did just
flat-out say how you felt about me.

1369
01:05:59,163 --> 01:06:01,248
I think you're the smartest person
I've ever met.

1370
01:06:01,332 --> 01:06:04,460
-Oh. Really?
-[Jimmy] Yeah, you're like...

1371
01:06:04,543 --> 01:06:06,879
You're really witty.
You're really quick on your feet...

1372
01:06:06,963 --> 01:06:11,133
We hit it off from day one.
That's for sure.

1373
01:06:14,387 --> 01:06:18,015
After you told me I'd be
holding my breath when I see you...

1374
01:06:18,099 --> 01:06:21,852
I said, "You better have that EpiPen
'cause your airways are going to close."

1375
01:06:22,979 --> 01:06:24,814
Yeah, I was gassing myself way too much.

1376
01:06:24,897 --> 01:06:28,109
I was the one who was about to fall out
and need a medic.

1377
01:06:28,192 --> 01:06:32,071
When you went in for a hug,
I was like, "No! Not him hugging me."

1378
01:06:32,154 --> 01:06:34,865
I was so sure... I had practiced
how I was gonna shake your hand.

1379
01:06:34,949 --> 01:06:37,034
-[Jimmy laughs]
-For real.

1380
01:06:37,118 --> 01:06:39,328
I was gonna try and keep it
so cool and respectful,

1381
01:06:39,412 --> 01:06:41,414
and you went in for a hug,
and I was like, "Damn!"

1382
01:06:41,914 --> 01:06:45,668
If you give someone
a portion of what you gave to me,

1383
01:06:45,751 --> 01:06:47,712
someone's gonna be
the luckiest man in the world.

1384
01:06:52,133 --> 01:06:55,428
I care about you a lot, and in reality...

1385
01:06:56,262 --> 01:06:57,680
you were my number one still.

1386
01:07:00,391 --> 01:07:04,353
You know more about me than literally
anyone else walking the planet, so...

1387
01:07:04,437 --> 01:07:06,981
Right now, I just
haven't gotten over, like, what it is.

1388
01:07:07,064 --> 01:07:08,399
I'm sure I will again.

1389
01:07:10,860 --> 01:07:11,944
You terrify me.

1390
01:07:12,028 --> 01:07:14,405
[Jessica] Don't!
I don't want you to be terrified.

1391
01:07:15,239 --> 01:07:16,323
I wanna be able

1392
01:07:17,450 --> 01:07:20,953
to be around you and not...
like, it still stings a little.

1393
01:07:25,666 --> 01:07:28,753
[voice breaks] But I'm happy for you guys.
I really am.

1394
01:07:28,836 --> 01:07:32,048
-["One By One" playing]
<i>-♪ All the voices ♪</i>

1395
01:07:32,590 --> 01:07:35,468
<i>♪ Fallen choices ♪</i>

1396
01:07:36,218 --> 01:07:40,014
<i>♪ Never showed the way we were ♪</i>

1397
01:07:40,097 --> 01:07:41,766
<i>♪ The way we were ♪</i>

1398
01:07:41,849 --> 01:07:43,392
<i>♪ The way we were ♪</i>

1399
01:07:43,476 --> 01:07:46,729
<i>♪ The way we could have been ♪</i>

1400
01:07:47,396 --> 01:07:50,775
<i>♪ One by one we fall ♪</i>

1401
01:07:50,858 --> 01:07:54,320
<i>♪ Out to the other side ♪</i>

1402
01:07:54,403 --> 01:07:57,907
<i>♪ Lost in our rhythms ♪</i>

1403
01:07:57,990 --> 01:08:02,328
<i>♪ Searching for ourselves in the lights ♪</i>

1404
01:08:02,411 --> 01:08:07,291
<i>♪ Out to the other side ♪</i>