1 00:00:06,006 --> 00:00:08,174 -["Still Cool" playing] -♪ We still light it up ♪ 2 00:00:08,258 --> 00:00:10,385 ♪ We still raise some hell ♪ 3 00:00:10,468 --> 00:00:13,304 ♪ We know how to move 'em, baby… ♪ 4 00:00:13,888 --> 00:00:16,433 Good morning from Arlington, Virginia. 5 00:00:16,516 --> 00:00:19,019 It's a nice fall, crisp morning. 6 00:00:19,602 --> 00:00:24,858 Garrett's already been up for a couple of hours on the phone. 7 00:00:24,941 --> 00:00:27,902 Luckily, my work is closed today. 8 00:00:27,986 --> 00:00:30,321 But let's go see Garrett in the kitchen this morning. 9 00:00:31,031 --> 00:00:33,575 [British accent] Garrett, do you want to say hello? 10 00:00:33,658 --> 00:00:35,869 [laughs] What's up? 11 00:00:35,952 --> 00:00:38,038 We got some wonderful flowers 12 00:00:38,121 --> 00:00:40,665 from my friends to congratulate us. 13 00:00:40,749 --> 00:00:45,003 We have some Pacific sheephead thawing out for dinner tonight. 14 00:00:45,086 --> 00:00:47,630 Her first speared fish experience. 15 00:00:47,714 --> 00:00:49,924 -Can't wait. [laughs] -[Garrett] She's excited. 16 00:00:50,008 --> 00:00:53,887 I'm gonna run some errands and do some more wedding planning 17 00:00:53,970 --> 00:00:55,847 that we get to talk about later tonight. 18 00:00:55,930 --> 00:00:58,767 I'm finally gonna get my hair cut, 'cause Taylor does not like my hair. 19 00:00:58,850 --> 00:01:01,311 -It's official. Got it. -[laughs] It's not. 20 00:01:01,394 --> 00:01:03,188 -I heard her say it. -I never said that. 21 00:01:03,271 --> 00:01:05,440 -I heard her say it. -I never said that. 22 00:01:05,523 --> 00:01:06,357 I was-- I was-- 23 00:01:06,441 --> 00:01:09,027 Words I've never said. When did I say that? 24 00:01:09,110 --> 00:01:11,362 Also words you've never said, "Garrett, I love your hair." 25 00:01:11,446 --> 00:01:13,531 [both laughing] 26 00:01:15,033 --> 00:01:17,202 Is this our first fight? [laughs] 27 00:01:17,285 --> 00:01:19,037 -["Still Here" playing] -♪ I'm still here ♪ 28 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:21,164 ♪ I've been beat down ♪ 29 00:01:21,247 --> 00:01:26,086 ♪ I've been broken to the core Washed up on the shore ♪ 30 00:01:26,169 --> 00:01:30,673 ♪ And I, I've been let down ♪ 31 00:01:31,633 --> 00:01:32,550 Sit. 32 00:01:34,969 --> 00:01:36,387 -Speak. -[barks] 33 00:01:36,471 --> 00:01:39,265 [laughing] 34 00:01:39,349 --> 00:01:40,183 Go lay down. 35 00:01:40,266 --> 00:01:42,685 I couldn't have asked for a better, not stepchild, 36 00:01:42,769 --> 00:01:45,647 but, you know. Stepchild, kinda. 37 00:01:45,730 --> 00:01:47,148 She wasn't my child. 38 00:01:47,232 --> 00:01:49,984 She is now. Seven kids. 39 00:01:51,027 --> 00:01:52,904 Yeah, right. I'm not shaking on it. 40 00:01:53,780 --> 00:01:54,781 Four. 41 00:01:55,824 --> 00:01:56,658 Three. 42 00:01:56,741 --> 00:01:57,700 And a half. 43 00:01:58,201 --> 00:02:00,411 -What's a half? -We just keep trying. 44 00:02:00,495 --> 00:02:03,289 -It has to be solid numbers. -Two. 45 00:02:03,373 --> 00:02:04,374 Two. 46 00:02:05,375 --> 00:02:08,128 Two. Two kids. Okay, two kids if… 47 00:02:08,211 --> 00:02:10,421 The first one's a boy, you gotta get your girl. 48 00:02:10,505 --> 00:02:12,423 -What if it's a girl first? -Then I'm fine. 49 00:02:12,507 --> 00:02:15,218 Whoever comes next, comes next. What do you care? [laughing] 50 00:02:15,301 --> 00:02:17,637 If I have two boys though, I'm trying for a third girl. 51 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:20,682 Yeah, I think daycare definitely, like, has to happen. 52 00:02:20,765 --> 00:02:21,808 [Ashley A] Hmm. 53 00:02:21,891 --> 00:02:23,143 Drop Timmy off at daycare. 54 00:02:23,226 --> 00:02:25,311 -Timmy? No. -Little Timmy, you know. 55 00:02:25,395 --> 00:02:26,396 Why Timmy? 56 00:02:26,479 --> 00:02:28,231 What you want me to say? Little DeAndre? 57 00:02:28,314 --> 00:02:30,859 -No. -[laughing] 58 00:02:30,942 --> 00:02:33,027 No! "John"? I don't know. 59 00:02:33,111 --> 00:02:36,489 -John is the same as Timmy! -No! Timmy is like… 60 00:02:36,573 --> 00:02:38,408 You said I get to name the boy if we have a boy. 61 00:02:39,117 --> 00:02:41,828 -I have great names. I don't wanna tell. -Well, don't. 62 00:02:41,911 --> 00:02:45,373 Yeah, I have very unique names. Nothing like "Ashley." 63 00:02:45,456 --> 00:02:47,333 -I like Ashley. -Yeah, I bet you do. 64 00:02:48,168 --> 00:02:49,919 -We're trying to have kids now. -[sighs] 65 00:02:50,003 --> 00:02:52,505 -We're not trying. -We're not actively not trying. 66 00:02:52,589 --> 00:02:54,132 [laughs] I'm actively not trying. 67 00:02:55,175 --> 00:02:58,052 I might lose my mind if I get married and I'm pregnant. 68 00:02:58,553 --> 00:03:00,096 So no sex till next year? 69 00:03:00,180 --> 00:03:02,682 No, I'm not shaking to that. 70 00:03:04,309 --> 00:03:07,520 [laughing] Oh, no. You're giving me these weird eyes, and I don't like it. 71 00:03:07,604 --> 00:03:10,148 [laughing] What eyes am I giving you? 72 00:03:10,231 --> 00:03:11,774 -"I know you didn't--" -I'm not trying-- 73 00:03:11,858 --> 00:03:13,693 [laughing] 74 00:03:13,776 --> 00:03:16,863 -[pop music playing] -♪ …my soul, you're my spirit ♪ 75 00:03:16,946 --> 00:03:19,073 [Nick D] Let me know what you need help with. 76 00:03:19,157 --> 00:03:20,909 [Hannah] You can boil some pasta. 77 00:03:20,992 --> 00:03:21,910 [Nick D] That's boring. 78 00:03:23,286 --> 00:03:24,537 You asked if I needed help. 79 00:03:24,621 --> 00:03:26,706 I wanna like be on there, like, 80 00:03:26,789 --> 00:03:29,167 quick-chopping ingredients and stuff like that. 81 00:03:29,250 --> 00:03:31,753 Nick, you literally said, "Do you need help with anything?" 82 00:03:31,836 --> 00:03:34,505 I said, "Would you like to boil pasta?" You said, "No." 83 00:03:35,381 --> 00:03:38,343 -I don't even see the pasta. -[Hannah] Because it's not out, Nick. 84 00:03:38,426 --> 00:03:41,304 [laughs] I was like, "Did you forget the pasta?" 85 00:03:45,058 --> 00:03:46,893 I don't see any pasta in here. 86 00:03:46,976 --> 00:03:49,479 -[Hannah] No, it's in the cabinets. -Uh-huh. 87 00:03:50,521 --> 00:03:52,398 Oh, this is my favorite kind, buccanti. 88 00:03:52,482 --> 00:03:53,858 [Hannah] Cabadussi, Nick. 89 00:03:53,942 --> 00:03:54,943 Heat it up now? 90 00:03:55,568 --> 00:03:56,444 -[Hannah] Yeah. -Okay. 91 00:03:56,527 --> 00:03:59,864 What should I turn it to? Just medium? In between medium and high? 92 00:04:00,448 --> 00:04:03,034 You just heat it to a boil. 93 00:04:03,117 --> 00:04:04,994 -Tell me the temperature. -[Hannah] Boil. 94 00:04:05,078 --> 00:04:07,247 -Do you know how to heat to a boil? -Yeah. 95 00:04:08,414 --> 00:04:11,417 -You're the one who told me you cook. -I'm just gonna try-- I do. 96 00:04:11,501 --> 00:04:12,794 When I fill this up with water, 97 00:04:12,877 --> 00:04:15,880 you think, like, three quarters or, like, halfway? 98 00:04:19,342 --> 00:04:20,635 Halfway, right? 99 00:04:21,678 --> 00:04:22,512 I'm just-- 100 00:04:22,595 --> 00:04:25,431 I feel like boiling pasta is the most simple thing you can possibly do. 101 00:04:25,515 --> 00:04:27,267 I'm just-- it's been a while. 102 00:04:27,350 --> 00:04:30,019 I could figure it out. I don't wanna upset you. 103 00:04:30,103 --> 00:04:31,813 Three quarters, right? 104 00:04:31,896 --> 00:04:33,982 I've got it. Don't worry. You're good. Take a seat. 105 00:04:34,941 --> 00:04:37,485 -You know how to boil pasta, right? -I've done it once. 106 00:04:37,568 --> 00:04:39,988 [laughing] You've only boiled pasta once? 107 00:04:40,488 --> 00:04:42,115 Are you fucking kidding me? 108 00:04:46,869 --> 00:04:49,831 [Nick D] Your brother, do you have any advice for me? 109 00:04:50,540 --> 00:04:51,374 No. 110 00:04:51,874 --> 00:04:54,377 -No? -I'mma let him eat you alive. 111 00:04:54,460 --> 00:04:55,962 [Nick D] So just be myself, huh? 112 00:04:56,045 --> 00:04:57,297 [Hannah] Mm-hmm. 113 00:04:57,380 --> 00:04:59,007 If you change everything about you. 114 00:04:59,090 --> 00:05:00,842 [laughing] Just kidding. Yes. 115 00:05:02,802 --> 00:05:04,345 [knock on door] 116 00:05:04,429 --> 00:05:06,180 -Will you go get it? -I got you. 117 00:05:07,807 --> 00:05:09,600 -What's going on? -Nothing much. 118 00:05:09,684 --> 00:05:11,269 -[Nick D] Drink? -[Cade] White wine. 119 00:05:11,352 --> 00:05:14,147 -Would you like me to pour you a glass? -[Cade] Yes, be a gentleman. 120 00:05:14,230 --> 00:05:15,231 [Nick D] Yep. 121 00:05:15,982 --> 00:05:16,983 [Cade] How tall are you? 122 00:05:17,567 --> 00:05:19,068 [Nick D] 5'11". 123 00:05:19,152 --> 00:05:21,863 -I'm 5'11", sometimes six-foot with shoes. -[Hannah] He's not 5'11". 124 00:05:21,946 --> 00:05:25,158 -Are we eye level? -No, you're not. Nick's my height. 125 00:05:26,034 --> 00:05:28,703 -Oh, yeah, I'm your height, right? -[Cade] Yeah. 126 00:05:30,330 --> 00:05:33,207 -This is how I feel like-- oh, my gosh. -Check our wingspan. Ready? 127 00:05:35,376 --> 00:05:36,919 -I got him. -She got me. 128 00:05:37,503 --> 00:05:39,589 What did you think Hannah was gonna look like? 129 00:05:39,672 --> 00:05:43,259 It's weird. Like, you'll say you fell in love with someone in the pods. 130 00:05:43,343 --> 00:05:45,011 You don't care what they look like. 131 00:05:45,678 --> 00:05:47,221 That's actually real shit. 132 00:05:47,305 --> 00:05:50,099 I love she says exactly what's on her mind, 133 00:05:50,183 --> 00:05:51,225 and she's not scared to-- 134 00:05:51,309 --> 00:05:53,978 I want someone who's gonna put me in my place and tell me what's up. 135 00:05:54,062 --> 00:05:55,772 -Bitch boy. -[laughing] 136 00:05:55,855 --> 00:05:57,315 I need a bitch boy. 137 00:05:57,398 --> 00:06:00,902 I don't know if she told you, but I've only dated two women in the past. 138 00:06:00,985 --> 00:06:02,320 -Only two? -Only two. 139 00:06:02,403 --> 00:06:03,863 -How old are you? -Twenty-eight. 140 00:06:03,946 --> 00:06:06,157 That makes me feel better. 'Cause I've dated zero. 141 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:07,617 -Zero? -Yeah. [chuckles] 142 00:06:07,700 --> 00:06:08,785 Well, zero women, obviously. 143 00:06:09,660 --> 00:06:13,081 -She was the first person I came out to. -Yeah. 144 00:06:13,164 --> 00:06:15,500 Just because she's always been like a "I don't give a fuck." 145 00:06:15,583 --> 00:06:17,585 -"I'll do what I want" type of girl. -[laughs] 146 00:06:18,211 --> 00:06:20,963 [Cade] Sometimes we like to bicker and fight, like, 147 00:06:21,047 --> 00:06:22,507 "Bitch, take out the dog." 148 00:06:22,590 --> 00:06:24,384 -And I'd be like, "No, no!" -[laughing] 149 00:06:24,967 --> 00:06:27,428 That's what she's saying to me. [laughing] 150 00:06:27,512 --> 00:06:29,305 [Cade] How has she been on you about cleaning? 151 00:06:29,389 --> 00:06:31,974 Do you think I'm a clean freak, Cade? [chuckles] 152 00:06:32,058 --> 00:06:33,810 He knows how clean I am. 153 00:06:33,893 --> 00:06:35,728 I clean up after myself. 154 00:06:35,812 --> 00:06:37,563 I just don't like coming home 155 00:06:37,647 --> 00:06:40,441 or clothes in the laundry or stuff in the sink. 156 00:06:40,525 --> 00:06:42,360 It pissed me off so much last night. 157 00:06:42,944 --> 00:06:46,739 Our dryer, like, takes five hours to dry a set of clothes. 158 00:06:46,823 --> 00:06:49,283 So those clothes were just sitting there. Sitting there. 159 00:06:49,367 --> 00:06:53,079 Like, woke up in the morning, had to take the clothes out of the dryer. 160 00:06:53,162 --> 00:06:56,457 [Hannah] Then I woke up to all the laundry in the bed for me to fold from Nick. 161 00:06:56,541 --> 00:06:58,459 That's what happens when you're unemployed, right? 162 00:07:01,295 --> 00:07:02,880 Oh, I can't be mean too? It's just you? 163 00:07:02,964 --> 00:07:05,091 [Hannah] You're upset 'cause I make more money than you. 164 00:07:05,174 --> 00:07:07,427 -She-- -That's cool. I love that. 165 00:07:07,510 --> 00:07:08,678 [Cade] What do you do? 166 00:07:08,761 --> 00:07:12,098 [Nick D] Real estate agent. Just like the rest of the world, I'm a realtor. 167 00:07:13,766 --> 00:07:14,684 [Cade] Thank you. 168 00:07:18,146 --> 00:07:19,522 [Nick D] That is really good. 169 00:07:20,356 --> 00:07:21,816 So domesticated. 170 00:07:21,899 --> 00:07:24,152 -You know, 'cause I'm unemployed. -[laughing] 171 00:07:33,035 --> 00:07:34,745 You could get a job in a second. 172 00:07:34,829 --> 00:07:37,165 I make a joke, and it's funny. Then you take it way too far, 173 00:07:37,248 --> 00:07:39,459 where it's not funny. It's just mean. [laughs] 174 00:07:39,542 --> 00:07:42,003 -That wasn't a joke, Nick. -It was a fucking joke. 175 00:07:42,086 --> 00:07:44,255 Well, I don't think you know how to joke then. 176 00:07:44,338 --> 00:07:46,424 Maybe that's something we both gotta work on. 177 00:07:46,507 --> 00:07:47,800 You don't think I'm funny? 178 00:07:47,884 --> 00:07:50,303 [laughing] 179 00:07:51,179 --> 00:07:52,472 [Nick D] Yeah, you're hilarious. 180 00:07:52,555 --> 00:07:55,099 -[laughing] -[Nick D] You're fucking hilarious. 181 00:07:55,183 --> 00:07:56,058 You're hilarious. 182 00:07:56,142 --> 00:07:58,019 -Good save. Good save. -[laughing] 183 00:07:59,604 --> 00:08:02,732 I was about to say, 'cause every motherfucker else thinks I'm funny. 184 00:08:02,815 --> 00:08:04,108 Oh, my gosh. 185 00:08:04,609 --> 00:08:07,195 You know what it means, like, "Oh, he's been cooked"? 186 00:08:07,278 --> 00:08:09,405 What does that mean? Like, you get fried? 187 00:08:10,156 --> 00:08:12,783 It doesn't matter. I'm gonna use the bathroom really fast. Sorry. 188 00:08:14,452 --> 00:08:17,413 -It's warm. I'm gonna take this off. -Yeah. 189 00:08:17,997 --> 00:08:21,292 I don't want you to think I'm mad at you for the unemployment joke. 190 00:08:21,792 --> 00:08:25,630 -Oh, dude, I have hard skin. -I thought it was a little funny, but-- 191 00:08:25,713 --> 00:08:28,257 'Cause Hannah would say something like that. 192 00:08:28,341 --> 00:08:31,761 You haven't been here, but she's giving-- She's been-- 193 00:08:32,637 --> 00:08:34,222 Not hard on me, 194 00:08:34,305 --> 00:08:38,100 but there have been multiple times where she's said something way more cruel. 195 00:08:38,184 --> 00:08:39,101 I can take that stuff, 196 00:08:39,185 --> 00:08:42,897 but, like, the 20th time, it's like, "Okay, like, I get it." 197 00:08:42,980 --> 00:08:46,108 That's been, like, my issue with her. 198 00:08:46,192 --> 00:08:49,487 -Like, she's fucking great, but also… -Yeah. 199 00:08:49,570 --> 00:08:50,988 …she'll say things, 200 00:08:51,072 --> 00:08:55,243 and then if I say the same level of thing back, it's like a problem. 201 00:08:55,326 --> 00:08:59,205 Right. I love her for who she is, but some of the things she says, 202 00:08:59,288 --> 00:09:02,291 it's like, "Fuck, like, that kind of hits home." 203 00:09:02,375 --> 00:09:05,002 You know what I mean? Like, it's hard to shake off. 204 00:09:05,795 --> 00:09:07,964 [laughs] I don't know what you guys were talking about. 205 00:09:08,047 --> 00:09:10,383 We're talking shit. Do you love Hannah? 206 00:09:10,466 --> 00:09:12,635 [Nick D] Yeah. Have you ever been in love? 207 00:09:12,718 --> 00:09:14,011 No, I hate men. 208 00:09:14,095 --> 00:09:15,096 Me too. 209 00:09:16,305 --> 00:09:17,431 Except for Nick. 210 00:09:18,474 --> 00:09:20,268 Hate me. As long as you love me, that's fine. 211 00:09:20,351 --> 00:09:21,894 [laughs] I hate to love you, babe. 212 00:09:22,478 --> 00:09:23,854 [Nick D] We've been here two hours. 213 00:09:23,938 --> 00:09:26,232 Yet, she hasn't said one compliment about me. 214 00:09:26,315 --> 00:09:28,651 Which is okay. Which is okay. 215 00:09:28,734 --> 00:09:30,403 Do you think I gave him a compliment? 216 00:09:30,486 --> 00:09:33,739 -I'm trying to think. -[laughing] 217 00:09:33,823 --> 00:09:36,492 -Nick, I think you're handsome. -Oh, my God. 218 00:09:36,576 --> 00:09:38,160 -I think you're patient. -Okay. 219 00:09:38,244 --> 00:09:41,747 I fell in love with you for a reason. So tell me what you love about me. 220 00:09:41,831 --> 00:09:46,085 Look, I love you don't have to change the type of woman you are for me. 221 00:09:46,168 --> 00:09:48,087 I like that you can handle things on your own. 222 00:09:48,170 --> 00:09:50,631 It's very sexy. I like how confident you are. 223 00:09:50,715 --> 00:09:52,049 Like, that makes you beautiful. 224 00:09:52,133 --> 00:09:53,926 [laughs] Okay. Go on. 225 00:09:54,677 --> 00:09:57,096 I love you. That really was nice. I needed that. 226 00:09:57,179 --> 00:09:59,807 -["Dive In" playing] -♪ I'm ready to dive in ♪ 227 00:10:02,101 --> 00:10:03,102 ♪ Yeah ♪ 228 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:08,107 ♪ Oh, I'm ready to dive in ♪ 229 00:10:10,484 --> 00:10:13,279 [Taylor] Last night, I was like, "Oh, my God, that's my man." 230 00:10:13,362 --> 00:10:15,197 [laughing] 231 00:10:15,281 --> 00:10:17,783 -With the situation? -Yeah, just how you handled it. 232 00:10:17,867 --> 00:10:20,870 I think the things I value about you the most are, like, 233 00:10:20,953 --> 00:10:23,664 how, I think, empathetic you are 234 00:10:23,748 --> 00:10:27,877 and, like, know how to say something in a moment that makes it better, 235 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:29,462 which I think Monica really needed. 236 00:10:29,545 --> 00:10:33,049 She was incredibly grateful. I was incredibly grateful. 237 00:10:33,132 --> 00:10:35,843 You handled it so maturely and gracefully. 238 00:10:35,926 --> 00:10:37,303 It was super hot. 239 00:10:38,721 --> 00:10:41,057 I don't think hating him is gonna make Monica feel better. 240 00:10:41,140 --> 00:10:42,183 She's gonna get through it. 241 00:10:42,975 --> 00:10:45,895 You heard her. She was like, "I want you to check up on him." 242 00:10:45,978 --> 00:10:47,813 I'm like, "Yeah, I will." So… 243 00:10:47,897 --> 00:10:49,899 -Yeah. -Which says a lot about her character. 244 00:10:49,982 --> 00:10:52,234 -She deserves to have a Garrett. -Yeah. 245 00:10:52,818 --> 00:10:54,320 Really, she does. 246 00:10:55,696 --> 00:10:57,031 You deserve to have a Garrett. 247 00:10:57,114 --> 00:10:58,449 [laughing] 248 00:10:58,532 --> 00:11:00,743 -[Garrett] I deserve a Taylor. -You deserve a Taylor? 249 00:11:00,826 --> 00:11:04,538 -Blonde international pop-star Taylors? -[laughs] 250 00:11:05,873 --> 00:11:08,584 -[laughs] -[Garrett] Oh, thank you. 251 00:11:09,669 --> 00:11:11,545 [Taylor] I'm excited to take you to San Diego. 252 00:11:11,629 --> 00:11:16,634 I appreciate the huge leap of, like, 253 00:11:16,717 --> 00:11:19,470 wanting to move to a new city across the country, 254 00:11:19,553 --> 00:11:21,931 away from, like, your hometown to be with me. 255 00:11:22,014 --> 00:11:24,350 Yeah, that was what my parents were pushing on was, like, 256 00:11:24,433 --> 00:11:26,018 and my mom's email was today was like, 257 00:11:26,102 --> 00:11:29,980 "Oh, wait, you're gonna marry this person, and we just met her." 258 00:11:30,064 --> 00:11:32,983 They wanna show me that they support me and all that, and it's just a shock. 259 00:11:33,067 --> 00:11:37,446 I struggle to tell you the things that my parents are saying to me, 260 00:11:37,530 --> 00:11:40,533 'cause it's not targeted at you, but it can definitely be taken that way, 261 00:11:40,616 --> 00:11:43,828 and a weaker person would, like, freak the fuck out. 262 00:11:44,662 --> 00:11:47,873 [Taylor] I'm not saying I'm taking, like, your mom's words to heart, 263 00:11:47,957 --> 00:11:51,460 but, like, there are I think moments I felt, like, 264 00:11:52,336 --> 00:11:54,880 pangs of insecurity that I'm not used to. 265 00:11:55,381 --> 00:11:58,342 I do want you to know though your parents' relationship, 266 00:11:58,426 --> 00:12:00,678 and the privacy of the conversations that you do have, 267 00:12:00,761 --> 00:12:05,182 I want you to, like, be able to have tough conversations about me, 268 00:12:05,266 --> 00:12:06,559 and I'm not part of it. 269 00:12:06,642 --> 00:12:09,854 -I don't take any of it personally. -Good. I'm glad you don't. 270 00:12:09,937 --> 00:12:13,065 It has nothing to do with you, you know. They don't know you. 271 00:12:13,149 --> 00:12:15,151 We just have to hope that we can 272 00:12:15,234 --> 00:12:18,654 convince our parents that we're of sound mind, 273 00:12:18,738 --> 00:12:21,323 and that this is real, and that the love I feel is real, 274 00:12:21,407 --> 00:12:23,284 and this person, that the love they feel is real. 275 00:12:23,784 --> 00:12:24,994 They are right for me. 276 00:12:25,077 --> 00:12:29,874 I just really appreciate you wanting to, like, come to San Diego, 277 00:12:30,833 --> 00:12:35,004 talk to my parents, especially my dad, who doesn't wanna be on camera. 278 00:12:35,087 --> 00:12:38,758 And it's not because he disapproves of this process. 279 00:12:38,841 --> 00:12:39,925 It's just not his thing. 280 00:12:40,009 --> 00:12:41,886 But to meet you in person, 281 00:12:41,969 --> 00:12:44,096 know that you're real, see that I'm okay, 282 00:12:44,180 --> 00:12:45,556 see how I actually feel, 283 00:12:45,639 --> 00:12:49,518 spend more time with the person who would be my husband. 284 00:12:49,602 --> 00:12:52,480 Having you ask for my hand in marriage, it's gonna make all the difference. 285 00:12:54,148 --> 00:12:58,486 I need this in order to get to, like, an altar in two weeks. 286 00:13:01,489 --> 00:13:03,240 So when I meet your dad, 287 00:13:03,324 --> 00:13:06,827 when I ask him for your hand, and he says, "I can't do it." 288 00:13:06,911 --> 00:13:08,245 I don't know what… 289 00:13:10,956 --> 00:13:11,874 So… 290 00:13:14,126 --> 00:13:16,086 -And-- -I wouldn't blame him. 291 00:13:18,798 --> 00:13:20,007 He doesn't know me. 292 00:13:20,090 --> 00:13:20,925 Yeah. 293 00:13:21,801 --> 00:13:23,093 He doesn't know us. 294 00:13:23,177 --> 00:13:24,261 I know. 295 00:13:24,345 --> 00:13:27,097 That is, like, a really big thing for us to think about. 296 00:13:27,181 --> 00:13:30,935 If you both of our families are not cool with the timeline, 297 00:13:31,018 --> 00:13:33,604 does having, like, a wedding make sense? 298 00:13:34,980 --> 00:13:37,775 Is that something that we can live with and overcome? 299 00:13:38,442 --> 00:13:39,610 I think so. 300 00:13:39,693 --> 00:13:42,530 But it is something we should, like, think about. 301 00:13:42,613 --> 00:13:45,366 Yeah. My parents, even if they said they're not okay with it, 302 00:13:45,449 --> 00:13:47,952 and they were not gonna go to the wedding, I would still do it. 303 00:13:48,702 --> 00:13:51,664 I love them to death, but they know I make my own decisions. 304 00:13:54,500 --> 00:13:56,794 I know how much it means to get your father's blessing, 305 00:13:56,877 --> 00:13:58,420 your parents' blessing. 306 00:13:59,129 --> 00:14:01,131 And so just the possibility 307 00:14:01,215 --> 00:14:03,551 of not getting it just scares the shit out of me 308 00:14:03,634 --> 00:14:06,720 because I just wanna be with you so bad. 309 00:14:06,804 --> 00:14:09,181 So it just, like, crushes me to think about it. 310 00:14:11,350 --> 00:14:15,521 I want your dad to say yes. 311 00:14:15,604 --> 00:14:21,402 -["Europa" by JT Ruff playing] -♪ I feel hopeless when I lose your love ♪ 312 00:14:22,444 --> 00:14:24,446 [vocalizing] 313 00:14:28,033 --> 00:14:30,870 [music continues] 314 00:14:36,208 --> 00:14:37,626 -Okay. [exhales] -This is it. 315 00:14:37,710 --> 00:14:39,503 Modern chic man cave. 316 00:14:39,587 --> 00:14:40,963 -[Alex] I like it. -[Tim] Yeah. 317 00:14:41,046 --> 00:14:42,214 [Alex] All right. 318 00:14:42,298 --> 00:14:44,967 I truly feel like once somebody comes and sees my space, 319 00:14:45,050 --> 00:14:46,552 they truly understand where I am. 320 00:14:46,635 --> 00:14:49,972 'Cause I think people's spaces tell a lot about themselves. 321 00:14:50,055 --> 00:14:53,267 That pot is actually from my great-grandparents' house in Georgia. 322 00:14:53,350 --> 00:14:55,185 The plane's from North Carolina. 323 00:14:55,269 --> 00:14:57,271 Winston Churchill, 'cause I was born in England. 324 00:14:57,354 --> 00:15:00,983 This is the last picture me and both my sisters took together. 325 00:15:01,066 --> 00:15:04,278 I am the type of person that everything has a place in space, 326 00:15:04,361 --> 00:15:06,655 but I also don't want it to intimidate someone 327 00:15:06,739 --> 00:15:09,074 that it is so put-together, I'm not willing to change it. 328 00:15:09,158 --> 00:15:11,160 I kind of put this together with 329 00:15:11,243 --> 00:15:13,662 in mind that this is where I wanna start my family, 330 00:15:13,746 --> 00:15:15,289 and now let's build from here. 331 00:15:15,372 --> 00:15:18,667 Dino nuggets though. That's a key staple of my diet. 332 00:15:18,751 --> 00:15:20,294 [Alex] What? The dino nuggets? 333 00:15:20,377 --> 00:15:23,088 -Yeah, the dinosaur ones taste better. -Where? 334 00:15:23,172 --> 00:15:24,590 [Tim] And this is my bedroom. 335 00:15:25,174 --> 00:15:26,133 [Alex] I love it. 336 00:15:26,216 --> 00:15:27,760 Here's the bathroom. 337 00:15:27,843 --> 00:15:29,762 -Mm-hmm. -This is your sink. 338 00:15:30,596 --> 00:15:33,682 Please keep your things over here on this sink. 339 00:15:33,766 --> 00:15:35,434 -[laughs] -[Tim] This is my sink. 340 00:15:35,517 --> 00:15:36,727 Okay. 341 00:15:36,810 --> 00:15:38,145 [Tim] This is the closet. 342 00:15:38,228 --> 00:15:39,980 -I got space. -Mm-hmm. 343 00:15:40,773 --> 00:15:43,817 [Tim] I don't know if I got space for all the clothes you claim to have. 344 00:15:43,901 --> 00:15:46,278 -It's a lot. It's a lot. [laughs] -I believe it. 345 00:15:47,071 --> 00:15:48,113 Look behind you. 346 00:15:48,822 --> 00:15:52,117 The king and the prince of the household. Prince Roderick. 347 00:15:52,201 --> 00:15:54,411 -[laughs] It's Prince Roderick. -You know what? 348 00:15:55,287 --> 00:15:56,830 It's definitely giving museum vibes. 349 00:15:56,914 --> 00:15:59,959 -The Churchill Lounge. [laughs] -[laughs] Okay. 350 00:16:00,042 --> 00:16:03,128 Definitely a very masculine home. I will say that. 351 00:16:03,212 --> 00:16:06,674 It is a modern man cave. That's what I'll call it. Modern man cave. 352 00:16:07,216 --> 00:16:08,550 -Yeah. -[grunts] 353 00:16:08,634 --> 00:16:11,053 So how do you feel like being in this space now? 354 00:16:11,136 --> 00:16:14,640 -Do you feel like it's something workable? -Yeah, no, it's very homey. 355 00:16:14,723 --> 00:16:17,309 When I come here, do I have a say in anything? 356 00:16:17,393 --> 00:16:20,062 -Yeah, of course. -We gotta change these couches. 357 00:16:20,688 --> 00:16:23,315 I'm not married to these couches, but I do like brown leather. 358 00:16:23,399 --> 00:16:24,733 Is that your dog's too? 359 00:16:24,817 --> 00:16:26,860 [Tim] Yes, my dog does have a couch. 360 00:16:26,944 --> 00:16:29,488 What is up with guys and La-Z-Boys? There it goes. 361 00:16:29,571 --> 00:16:31,448 [Tim] Look at this. Look at this. Look at this. 362 00:16:32,449 --> 00:16:34,702 -Could you imagine-- -My dad has the exact same chair. 363 00:16:34,785 --> 00:16:37,371 I'm so glad he does. Your ancestors dreamed of this technology. 364 00:16:37,454 --> 00:16:40,499 They did not. When they thought of making it, this isn't what they thought. 365 00:16:40,582 --> 00:16:43,794 This is making it. This is my ancestors' dreams come to life. 366 00:16:43,877 --> 00:16:45,879 [laughing] 367 00:16:45,963 --> 00:16:47,631 [pop music playing] 368 00:16:48,841 --> 00:16:49,883 How are you feeling? 369 00:16:51,010 --> 00:16:53,971 -A little anxious. -My mom's very protective of me. 370 00:16:54,054 --> 00:16:55,472 Like, not having a father here too, 371 00:16:55,556 --> 00:16:58,809 like, she feels like she needs to really fill in that role. 372 00:16:58,892 --> 00:17:00,561 My mom didn't, like, love all my exes, 373 00:17:00,644 --> 00:17:02,855 but that was mainly because they were, like, trash. 374 00:17:02,938 --> 00:17:05,441 You are very different from who I've ever dated before, so… 375 00:17:05,524 --> 00:17:06,692 I think it'll be fine. 376 00:17:06,775 --> 00:17:09,153 -It'll be good. -I love you and my family will too. 377 00:17:09,236 --> 00:17:12,865 -I'm sure they will. They'll see that. -They will. 378 00:17:12,948 --> 00:17:14,199 They're here. 379 00:17:14,283 --> 00:17:15,909 -[Marissa] Hi! -Hi. 380 00:17:16,952 --> 00:17:17,953 [man] How are you doing? 381 00:17:18,037 --> 00:17:20,414 [Quentin] Hi! Mucho gusto! 382 00:17:20,497 --> 00:17:23,292 -How are you doing? -Mommy! Oh, my God! 383 00:17:23,375 --> 00:17:25,294 [laughing] 384 00:17:25,377 --> 00:17:26,754 Here, meet Ramses. 385 00:17:26,837 --> 00:17:28,630 -How are you? -[Ramses] Hi, nice to meet you. 386 00:17:28,714 --> 00:17:30,340 -[Marissa] Here, Mom. -[Vanessa] Thank you. 387 00:17:30,424 --> 00:17:33,469 [Marissa] Oh, my God, we look like one big, related family. 388 00:17:33,552 --> 00:17:34,511 [laughing] 389 00:17:34,595 --> 00:17:36,263 [Quentin] How many siblings do you have? 390 00:17:36,346 --> 00:17:38,974 Just an older brother. We have different dads, but it's-- 391 00:17:39,058 --> 00:17:41,018 -[woman] Girl! Welcome to the family! -Yeah. 392 00:17:41,101 --> 00:17:43,103 -[Quentin] Preaching to the choir! -[laughing] 393 00:17:43,187 --> 00:17:45,105 -For real though. -Yeah, like, actually. 394 00:17:45,189 --> 00:17:47,191 All of our dads could make a volleyball team. 395 00:17:47,274 --> 00:17:49,777 -Yeah, literally! -The whole roster. 396 00:17:49,860 --> 00:17:51,570 [woman] Actually, they probably could. 397 00:17:51,653 --> 00:17:54,531 -One, two, three… -[Quentin] Three, four, five… 398 00:17:54,615 --> 00:17:56,867 [woman] Okay, no one's putting you on blast. 399 00:17:56,950 --> 00:17:58,952 You guys look like siblings. It's kind of weird. 400 00:17:59,036 --> 00:18:00,621 We don't look like siblings! 401 00:18:00,704 --> 00:18:02,456 I wanna say this on the record. 402 00:18:02,539 --> 00:18:04,708 White people date all the time, 403 00:18:04,792 --> 00:18:07,461 and they look like siblings almost every single time. 404 00:18:07,544 --> 00:18:09,755 I don't wanna hear you guys look like siblings. 405 00:18:09,838 --> 00:18:11,673 He wouldn't give me anything about his looks. 406 00:18:11,757 --> 00:18:14,843 -Well, that's what it's supposed to be. -He kept talking about his fashion. 407 00:18:14,927 --> 00:18:17,012 Which I have to say is kind of off. 408 00:18:17,096 --> 00:18:19,723 -Is it off? You're not feeling it? -Sorry. No, I'm not feeling it. 409 00:18:19,807 --> 00:18:22,559 -[Marissa] Don't listen to her. -The whole '80s breakdancing… 410 00:18:22,643 --> 00:18:23,602 No, don't-- 411 00:18:23,685 --> 00:18:25,562 -Like, little tail thing. -[Quentin] El DeBarge. 412 00:18:25,646 --> 00:18:29,399 -And the Jheri curl look from the '80s. -The Jheri curl? Not a fan? 413 00:18:29,483 --> 00:18:31,819 -Yeah, I'm not feeling it. -[Téa] We can't blame his hair. 414 00:18:31,902 --> 00:18:34,029 If that's what it's giving, that's what it's giving. 415 00:18:34,113 --> 00:18:37,491 What is it about Marissa that is so… 416 00:18:37,574 --> 00:18:40,619 Because there are tons of men that are infatuated with my daughter. 417 00:18:40,702 --> 00:18:44,957 [Ramses] I think with her personality, it's like anyone can, like, be drawn in. 418 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:46,250 I know that. 419 00:18:46,333 --> 00:18:50,212 Something I wanted in my life was someone who was, like, fun and playful. 420 00:18:50,295 --> 00:18:54,258 But the way we think, like, the way we, like, approach different topics, 421 00:18:54,341 --> 00:18:57,219 our communication style is, like, very good. 422 00:18:57,302 --> 00:18:59,638 She's someone who doesn't allow things to fester. 423 00:18:59,721 --> 00:19:02,641 -I mean, we had a moment. -That's gonna happen. 424 00:19:02,724 --> 00:19:05,561 She had to step away. She was like, "Don't touch me. I need--" 425 00:19:05,644 --> 00:19:08,605 -I did. I said, "Don't touch me." -She's like, "I need a moment." 426 00:19:08,689 --> 00:19:10,023 And I was like, "That's fine." 427 00:19:10,107 --> 00:19:13,402 Like, I wanted to give her a moment to, like, feel through her feelings. 428 00:19:13,485 --> 00:19:15,195 Just let her know I was there for her. 429 00:19:15,279 --> 00:19:18,615 But yeah, I think-- I'm glad we had that moment 430 00:19:18,699 --> 00:19:20,200 because it was all, 431 00:19:20,284 --> 00:19:23,328 like, glossy and beautiful in Cabo and in the pods, 432 00:19:23,412 --> 00:19:27,374 but, like, I needed to know that this wasn't just, like, an infatuation. 433 00:19:28,834 --> 00:19:30,711 I do want you in my life, 434 00:19:30,794 --> 00:19:33,213 and you're someone that I see, like, 435 00:19:33,297 --> 00:19:36,800 having, like, this really beautiful marriage and, like, longevity. 436 00:19:36,884 --> 00:19:39,011 At the end of the day, you see me for, like, who I am, 437 00:19:39,094 --> 00:19:41,430 and I feel like you feel the same way. 438 00:19:41,513 --> 00:19:44,141 -I feel very understood with you. -[Ramses] Yeah. 439 00:19:44,892 --> 00:19:45,893 Explain the book, Mom. 440 00:19:46,727 --> 00:19:51,440 It's been hard to afford albums throughout our upbringing, 441 00:19:51,523 --> 00:19:54,610 so everything is, you know, in that Rubbermaid container. 442 00:19:54,693 --> 00:19:55,527 [Ramses] Yeah. 443 00:19:55,611 --> 00:19:58,780 So Marissa's always asked me to have an album, 444 00:19:58,864 --> 00:20:02,159 so I went ahead and just put a collage of some pictures. 445 00:20:02,242 --> 00:20:03,911 I've never seen this! 446 00:20:03,994 --> 00:20:05,454 -Thanks, Mom. -You're welcome. 447 00:20:05,537 --> 00:20:08,123 -He had one that he showed me. -I love photo albums, yeah. 448 00:20:08,207 --> 00:20:10,125 -That's my dad. -That's me and your father. 449 00:20:10,209 --> 00:20:12,920 -That's your dad? -[Téa] My favorite photo of you guys. 450 00:20:13,003 --> 00:20:16,006 -[Marissa] My mom's favorite photo of us. -[Vanessa] That was your birthday. 451 00:20:16,089 --> 00:20:18,300 -[Ramses] This year? This is cute. -Look how happy I am. 452 00:20:18,383 --> 00:20:21,929 So this right here, which is real weird, if you look on the ornaments, 453 00:20:22,012 --> 00:20:26,475 we were so poor that I had to hand-make all those ornaments 454 00:20:26,558 --> 00:20:27,517 just to have ornaments. 455 00:20:27,601 --> 00:20:29,186 -'Cause we couldn't pay for them. -Yeah. 456 00:20:29,770 --> 00:20:33,815 That's amazing. We have a similar little angel thing we put on our Christmas tree. 457 00:20:33,899 --> 00:20:36,985 We were so poor, I didn't have mittens. I used socks as my mittens. 458 00:20:37,069 --> 00:20:38,195 It was so embarrassing. 459 00:20:38,278 --> 00:20:40,364 -You have the same exact smile. -[laughing] 460 00:20:40,447 --> 00:20:41,865 [Téa] She always was smiling. 461 00:20:41,949 --> 00:20:44,743 [Ramses] Y'all are so cute when you were younger, yeah. 462 00:20:44,826 --> 00:20:47,204 -I had a, you know, husband or whatever. -Yeah. 463 00:20:47,287 --> 00:20:48,288 [Vanessa] Then I divorced. 464 00:20:48,372 --> 00:20:52,793 At 35, 36 years old, I was taking care of four kids. 465 00:20:52,876 --> 00:20:55,963 I was waking up four o'clock in the morning, working, 466 00:20:56,046 --> 00:20:59,716 and then staying up till two, three, four in the morning going to nursing school. 467 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:03,470 She's gonna be a lawyer, but you know, she's always talked to me 468 00:21:03,553 --> 00:21:06,515 that she wants to take care of her baby 469 00:21:06,598 --> 00:21:08,100 when she has children. 470 00:21:08,183 --> 00:21:10,060 -Sure, yeah. -And stay home, so… 471 00:21:10,143 --> 00:21:13,146 You know, what's your plan on furthering your career? 472 00:21:13,230 --> 00:21:16,858 I mean, it's nice now that you have a job, but you know, things happen. 473 00:21:16,942 --> 00:21:20,654 -I thought about going back to school. -And what do you have a degree in now? 474 00:21:20,737 --> 00:21:24,324 [laughs] So I went to college, but I dropped out. 475 00:21:24,408 --> 00:21:28,704 The reason I dropped out is my dad passed away when I was 20. 476 00:21:29,204 --> 00:21:31,999 I just sort of lost sight of what direction I was heading in. 477 00:21:32,082 --> 00:21:34,001 Even though I didn't get a degree, 478 00:21:34,084 --> 00:21:36,295 like, I've always had a job. 479 00:21:36,378 --> 00:21:38,463 -I've always taken care of myself. -I totally get that. 480 00:21:38,547 --> 00:21:41,758 You live on your own here in DC. I don't think you're a bum. 481 00:21:41,842 --> 00:21:44,261 -She would not go for a fucking bum. -[laughing] 482 00:21:44,344 --> 00:21:49,641 But I wanna make sure that you're not relying on her law degree and her money, 483 00:21:49,725 --> 00:21:52,561 because if a kid is produced in this relationship, 484 00:21:52,644 --> 00:21:56,273 you don't want me coming up there, staying with you for a while, 485 00:21:56,356 --> 00:21:59,234 taking care of a kid because my daughter has to fucking work. 486 00:21:59,318 --> 00:22:02,654 Mom doesn't wanna come live with me because she thinks I'm evil, but-- 487 00:22:02,738 --> 00:22:05,198 -She is a bitch. -I-- [laughs] 488 00:22:05,282 --> 00:22:06,491 [laughing] 489 00:22:06,575 --> 00:22:07,534 She is bossy. 490 00:22:07,617 --> 00:22:09,036 -I am. -Yeah. 491 00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:11,955 -He's seen it. He sees me try to boss him. -No, I've seen it. 492 00:22:12,039 --> 00:22:14,291 -And we talked through that. -We did talk through it. 493 00:22:14,374 --> 00:22:17,252 [Ramses] It's not an issue, because I know, like, her background. 494 00:22:17,336 --> 00:22:19,880 He's like, "I know you're used to bossing around sailors." [laughs] 495 00:22:19,963 --> 00:22:21,882 She's used to having control and directing things. 496 00:22:21,965 --> 00:22:24,551 But you also gotta take control 'cause she likes that. 497 00:22:24,634 --> 00:22:26,636 He does. And that's why we butt heads. 498 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:30,766 I think I also wanted to mention I was previously married once. 499 00:22:30,849 --> 00:22:35,437 I got married young when I was 25. Um… 500 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:38,440 [Vanessa] That's not really young. I'm sorry. Twenty-five is not young. 501 00:22:38,523 --> 00:22:40,150 It was his high school sweetheart. 502 00:22:40,233 --> 00:22:41,485 So what happened? 503 00:22:41,568 --> 00:22:44,738 When you go into a marriage, like, you really discover a lot about a person. 504 00:22:44,821 --> 00:22:46,490 You're explaining a marriage to me? 505 00:22:46,573 --> 00:22:48,158 You know. Yeah, you know. 506 00:22:48,241 --> 00:22:50,619 So there was a lot of things, just, like, incompatibilities 507 00:22:50,702 --> 00:22:53,413 that we, like, learned about each other through that marriage. 508 00:22:53,497 --> 00:22:56,875 But the main thing that sort of drove us apart was, um, 509 00:22:56,958 --> 00:22:59,294 for me, it's just we were going in different directions 510 00:22:59,378 --> 00:23:01,213 in terms of, like, where we stood religiously. 511 00:23:01,296 --> 00:23:04,549 And I didn't think it was fair to her or myself 512 00:23:04,633 --> 00:23:08,095 to put her in a place where she wasn't happy. 513 00:23:08,178 --> 00:23:09,179 In that moment, 514 00:23:09,262 --> 00:23:13,475 I felt the most loving thing I could do for her was to allow her to-- 515 00:23:13,558 --> 00:23:17,104 -Did you both agree on divorce? -[Ramses] We both agreed on divorcing. 516 00:23:17,187 --> 00:23:20,524 It wasn't just you that you did for her. You both agreed. 517 00:23:20,607 --> 00:23:22,984 We both agreed that we were going in different directions. 518 00:23:23,068 --> 00:23:25,487 Honestly, you're making yourself sound like a saint. 519 00:23:25,570 --> 00:23:28,281 -I mean, "She agreed. You agreed." -[laughs] 520 00:23:28,365 --> 00:23:30,409 -[Ramses] We arrived at a conclusion. -Okay. 521 00:23:30,492 --> 00:23:32,452 Going into the pods, I looked at it as a benefit. 522 00:23:32,536 --> 00:23:35,705 Like, I've been there. Like, I understand what works for me. 523 00:23:35,789 --> 00:23:38,917 So, like, I have a clear mind as to, like, what I'm looking for. 524 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:40,836 I don't think it's that big of a deal. 525 00:23:40,919 --> 00:23:42,421 -Should it be? -[Quentin] Nor I. 526 00:23:42,504 --> 00:23:43,922 It's what it is. 527 00:23:44,005 --> 00:23:47,259 Beyond just, like, the paper, what does marriage mean to you, 528 00:23:47,342 --> 00:23:49,469 especially if you've already been married before? 529 00:23:49,553 --> 00:23:53,140 I think it's just the commitment to someone, to want to grow with them, 530 00:23:53,223 --> 00:23:57,644 to family, kids and share this world together. 531 00:23:58,228 --> 00:24:01,731 -I'm gonna go use the bathroom. -You wanna give Mommy a kiss goodbye? 532 00:24:01,815 --> 00:24:04,192 -I'm gonna be back, Mom. -[Téa] She's just using the bathroom. 533 00:24:04,276 --> 00:24:05,110 [Quentin] Totally. 534 00:24:05,193 --> 00:24:06,903 -I love you. -Love you too. 535 00:24:06,987 --> 00:24:09,030 -I love my book. Can't wait to look at it. -Okay. 536 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:13,493 -So, my big concern is that, you know… -[Ramses] Yeah. 537 00:24:13,577 --> 00:24:16,455 And I'm pretty sure she's told you in the pods that she-- 538 00:24:16,538 --> 00:24:20,333 we've had a very, you know, rough upbringing. 539 00:24:20,417 --> 00:24:23,503 They've had to fight to, you know, get where they're at. 540 00:24:23,587 --> 00:24:25,881 They've all went to college, They've all worked hard. 541 00:24:25,964 --> 00:24:29,301 They all live on their own. And I'm very proud of them. 542 00:24:29,384 --> 00:24:32,220 But to me, marriage is not forever. It would be nice. 543 00:24:32,304 --> 00:24:33,138 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 544 00:24:33,221 --> 00:24:37,851 It'd be nice if marriage lasts forever, but I don't believe in forever. 545 00:24:38,810 --> 00:24:41,563 Fifteen years, 20 years, God. 546 00:24:41,646 --> 00:24:43,773 It's happy when it's happy, and then it ends. 547 00:24:43,857 --> 00:24:46,985 -Mm-hmm. -You tolerate each other till it's over. 548 00:24:47,068 --> 00:24:50,780 I think that you and Marissa should do a prenup. 549 00:24:51,364 --> 00:24:54,242 She has worked too hard to get fucked over 550 00:24:54,326 --> 00:24:57,787 and has suffered from men fucking her over 551 00:24:57,871 --> 00:24:59,956 between her father, her stepfather, 552 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:03,251 to then get fucked over by her husband because he's not making enough. 553 00:25:03,335 --> 00:25:06,922 If you love her as much as you say you do, then you should have no problems 554 00:25:07,005 --> 00:25:12,302 having a prenup that you guys could walk away with no problem. 555 00:25:16,431 --> 00:25:18,391 I have no problems with, like, a prenup. 556 00:25:18,475 --> 00:25:20,310 I know the amount of work she's put in. 557 00:25:20,393 --> 00:25:24,314 Like, I know the amount of years she's put in to arrive where she's at. 558 00:25:24,397 --> 00:25:26,525 Like, I don't-- I'm not here for her money. 559 00:25:26,608 --> 00:25:29,528 -Like, I'm not here for-- -She don't have any money right now. 560 00:25:29,611 --> 00:25:31,238 -She's not done with law school. -Yeah. 561 00:25:31,321 --> 00:25:34,449 I'm not having my kids fucked over, but it's nothing against you. 562 00:25:34,533 --> 00:25:35,992 No. Yeah, I don't take it personally. 563 00:25:36,076 --> 00:25:39,204 If she truly loves you, cares about you, 564 00:25:39,287 --> 00:25:41,373 whatever all this is at the moment. 565 00:25:43,959 --> 00:25:45,877 You know, I feel like I'm dealing with her 566 00:25:45,961 --> 00:25:48,547 from high school and college love or whatever. 567 00:25:48,630 --> 00:25:50,340 And we're arguing a little bit. 568 00:25:50,423 --> 00:25:53,009 -But you know, this is serious shit. -Yeah. 569 00:25:53,093 --> 00:25:55,554 [Vanessa] And I'm not going through all this anxiety 570 00:25:55,637 --> 00:25:58,848 that I have to worry about my daughter on her wedding day. 571 00:25:58,932 --> 00:26:01,601 You know, I don't care what you guys do on the wedding. 572 00:26:01,685 --> 00:26:05,021 I do whatever. 'Cause I'm always gonna be there. 573 00:26:05,105 --> 00:26:08,567 She knows no matter what. I don't care what I do, whatever. 574 00:26:08,650 --> 00:26:12,153 I'm always gonna fucking be there for her. They all know that. 575 00:26:12,237 --> 00:26:14,114 Yeah, yeah. I'm 100% on board. 576 00:26:14,197 --> 00:26:15,991 Yeah, I don't care what y'all do after that. 577 00:26:16,074 --> 00:26:17,993 -[Ramses laughs] -You're welcome into the family. 578 00:26:18,076 --> 00:26:20,245 -As long as you make her happy. -[Ramses] Thank you. 579 00:26:20,328 --> 00:26:22,205 -Yeah. -[Vanessa] I'm gonna be there. 580 00:26:22,289 --> 00:26:25,000 Are you giving me your blessing right now? Is that what this is? 581 00:26:25,083 --> 00:26:27,377 [all laughing] 582 00:26:27,460 --> 00:26:28,920 -[Téa] Yeah, Mom. -[laughs] 583 00:26:29,004 --> 00:26:31,214 There ain't no blessing 'cause I don't believe in forever. 584 00:26:31,298 --> 00:26:36,177 I mean, whatever Marissa wants is all that matters to me. 585 00:26:36,261 --> 00:26:41,474 She's head over heels in love with you, I guess, so, you know… 586 00:26:41,558 --> 00:26:44,686 -Ten days, 20 days, whatever. -I know. It's hard to… 587 00:26:44,769 --> 00:26:48,565 I will say, out of all the partners she has, I do like you the most. 588 00:26:48,648 --> 00:26:53,069 -I can't say I like you. I met you today. -[Ramses] You need time. That's fine. 589 00:26:53,153 --> 00:26:56,448 Just the energy alone, I do. I feel like… 590 00:26:56,531 --> 00:26:58,867 I think you're gonna be a good brother-in-law. 591 00:26:59,451 --> 00:27:02,287 I'm back. Okay, what did they say? 592 00:27:02,370 --> 00:27:05,081 [laughing] You don't get her blessing unless y'all do a prenup. 593 00:27:05,165 --> 00:27:07,917 Well, I don't need her blessing, Mom. 594 00:27:08,501 --> 00:27:10,045 Are you gonna do the prenup, Marissa? 595 00:27:10,962 --> 00:27:12,839 I will decide those things. 596 00:27:12,922 --> 00:27:14,758 Just don't become billionaires. 597 00:27:14,841 --> 00:27:16,760 -Billionaires are unethical. -[laughing] 598 00:27:16,843 --> 00:27:19,763 [Ramses] If she wanted to be a millionaire, I was like, "Still not." 599 00:27:19,846 --> 00:27:22,891 I just want-- I wanna be a billionaire. 600 00:27:22,974 --> 00:27:25,935 -I don't look forward to hoarding wealth. -We can be a millionaire. 601 00:27:26,019 --> 00:27:27,020 [Téa] Sure. 602 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:32,025 -Can we get to the wedding first? -Did you give us your blessing, Mom? 603 00:27:32,108 --> 00:27:34,027 I don't know. You gonna do the prenup, Marissa? 604 00:27:35,820 --> 00:27:39,032 I will just tell you, you hurt my daughter, I will cut your balls off. 605 00:27:39,115 --> 00:27:42,535 ♪ Off, off with you I'm gonna cut you clean ♪ 606 00:27:42,619 --> 00:27:45,789 ♪ Cut ya, cut ya, I will cut you clean ♪ 607 00:27:45,872 --> 00:27:49,626 ♪ Cut ya, cut ya, I will cut you clean ♪ 608 00:27:49,709 --> 00:27:52,796 ♪ Cut ya, cut ya, I will cut you clean ♪ 609 00:27:52,879 --> 00:27:55,924 ♪ Cut ya, cut ya, I will cut you clean ♪ 610 00:27:57,592 --> 00:28:00,303 -[pop music playing] -[vocalizing] 611 00:28:06,976 --> 00:28:07,977 [Nick D] Thank you. 612 00:28:10,647 --> 00:28:12,482 Are you nervous? 613 00:28:12,565 --> 00:28:15,360 [Nick D] The scariest part about meeting Hannah's parents is 614 00:28:15,443 --> 00:28:16,569 I'm gonna be with them a lot, 615 00:28:16,653 --> 00:28:19,572 so if they don't feel comfortable with the type of guy I am 616 00:28:19,656 --> 00:28:23,034 or you know, how Hannah's feeling, this wouldn't work out. 617 00:28:23,118 --> 00:28:24,828 -Hello. -Hello. 618 00:28:24,911 --> 00:28:27,080 -Guys. -Hi, Mom. You look good. 619 00:28:27,163 --> 00:28:27,997 Thanks. 620 00:28:28,957 --> 00:28:31,710 -Hi, Nick. -Hi. Nice to meet you. 621 00:28:32,919 --> 00:28:34,838 -These are for you. -Thank you. 622 00:28:34,921 --> 00:28:37,507 -Happy belated birthday. Yup. -Thank you. 623 00:28:37,590 --> 00:28:39,634 -[Ryan] Where's my flowers? -[laughing] 624 00:28:39,718 --> 00:28:41,344 Next date, I got you. 625 00:28:41,428 --> 00:28:43,763 -I guess. Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you, Ryan. 626 00:28:43,847 --> 00:28:45,515 -How you doing? -[Ryder] Good. 627 00:28:46,349 --> 00:28:48,601 -You guys all look great. -Thanks. You too. 628 00:28:48,685 --> 00:28:49,686 You look hot. 629 00:28:49,769 --> 00:28:51,521 [laughs] She says, "You look hot." 630 00:28:53,773 --> 00:28:57,694 I got you a Capitals hat, 'cause I know you're into hockey. 631 00:28:57,777 --> 00:29:00,029 -[Ryder] Yeah. -I can't skate. You're gonna teach me. 632 00:29:00,113 --> 00:29:01,948 [Hannah] Ryder wants to get into football. 633 00:29:02,031 --> 00:29:04,325 -You're gonna have to help Ryder. -Okay, okay. 634 00:29:04,409 --> 00:29:06,077 You know what position you'd wanna play? 635 00:29:07,078 --> 00:29:09,372 -O-line or… -Kicker? 636 00:29:09,456 --> 00:29:11,583 [laughing] 637 00:29:12,375 --> 00:29:14,753 -Well, I was a kicker, so… -[laughing] 638 00:29:15,336 --> 00:29:18,298 -Trust me. It's just as cool. -Ryder's giving quarterback energy. 639 00:29:18,381 --> 00:29:19,215 I know. 640 00:29:19,299 --> 00:29:21,551 -I thought I was gonna hear quarterback. -Yeah. 641 00:29:21,634 --> 00:29:24,721 So did you know right off that you were interested in each other? 642 00:29:24,804 --> 00:29:28,141 She, like, set herself apart from the other 14 women… 643 00:29:28,224 --> 00:29:30,727 -My accent. -…that we were talking to. 644 00:29:30,810 --> 00:29:32,854 -I'm like, "Hey, y'all. I'm Hannah." -Yeah. 645 00:29:32,937 --> 00:29:36,149 But that's, like, the energy and vibe that I look for in meeting someone. 646 00:29:36,232 --> 00:29:38,818 She's very cool and easy to talk to and connect with, 647 00:29:38,902 --> 00:29:40,904 and it got a little bit deeper every day. 648 00:29:40,987 --> 00:29:42,030 He grew on me. 649 00:29:42,113 --> 00:29:45,033 -Yeah, he did. Dad did too. -[Ryan] I'm still growing on your mom. 650 00:29:45,700 --> 00:29:49,287 -That's how it works, right? -[PJ] I'm still not sure. It's been years. 651 00:29:49,370 --> 00:29:51,164 -[Ryan] It's a job in itself. -[PJ] It's work. 652 00:29:51,247 --> 00:29:52,957 -[Nick D] Yeah. -Yeah, it's not easy. 653 00:29:53,041 --> 00:29:56,544 -We've definitely had lots of highs, lows. -Yeah. 654 00:29:57,086 --> 00:29:58,254 -You know? -[Nick D] Yeah. 655 00:29:58,338 --> 00:30:01,299 I've realized that I need a strong woman in my life, like, for a wife. 656 00:30:01,382 --> 00:30:03,593 -I need someone who's gonna push me. -Yeah. 657 00:30:03,676 --> 00:30:06,095 [Nick D] I want someone to be very direct with me. 658 00:30:06,179 --> 00:30:09,891 I think that's a quality that I'm looking forward to having. 659 00:30:09,974 --> 00:30:13,770 Sometimes, you know, it could be a little too much. 660 00:30:13,853 --> 00:30:16,147 -I'm trying! -But she's getting better at it, you know? 661 00:30:16,231 --> 00:30:18,149 Are y'all not gonna grill him or what? 662 00:30:19,025 --> 00:30:22,195 -I don't know how to grill. -I just wanna talk. See what he's like. 663 00:30:22,278 --> 00:30:26,115 We can just talk. Get to know each other. They don't have to grill me just yet. 664 00:30:26,199 --> 00:30:27,659 I think you've grilled him plenty. 665 00:30:27,742 --> 00:30:29,994 [Ryan] I'm not sure what the point of grilling him is now. 666 00:30:30,078 --> 00:30:32,038 -I mean, it's done. -[Nick D laughs] 667 00:30:32,121 --> 00:30:33,998 Y'all have made your decision, so… 668 00:30:34,082 --> 00:30:35,625 I mean, it's not my decision. 669 00:30:35,708 --> 00:30:37,085 -Yeah. -I'm just Dad. 670 00:30:37,168 --> 00:30:40,004 Yeah, you're the one that has to be stuck with him. 671 00:30:40,088 --> 00:30:42,757 -Yeah, stuck with him. -For the rest of your life, not us. 672 00:30:42,841 --> 00:30:45,635 -Attached to him. Chained to him. -[laughing] 673 00:30:45,718 --> 00:30:48,096 -I'll be chained to her. -[PJ] Yeah, probably. 674 00:30:48,179 --> 00:30:51,266 -Whatever she says goes. -We know. [laughs] 675 00:30:51,349 --> 00:30:55,144 [Nick D] There's definitely things that we're both picky about, but… 676 00:30:55,228 --> 00:30:57,814 She has a little bit longer of a list than mine. 677 00:30:57,897 --> 00:30:59,190 I want someone to be very direct. 678 00:30:59,274 --> 00:31:01,442 I'm so perfect, it's hard for him to come up with things. 679 00:31:03,403 --> 00:31:04,988 -Are you being serious? -Yeah. 680 00:31:05,071 --> 00:31:07,073 [laughing] 681 00:31:07,156 --> 00:31:10,285 -I'm easy to fall in love with. -Oh, my gosh. [laughs] 682 00:31:10,869 --> 00:31:12,704 -Me too. [sighs] -[all laughing] 683 00:31:12,787 --> 00:31:14,163 [Ryan] Yeah, me too. 684 00:31:14,247 --> 00:31:15,790 [Nick D laughs] Yeah. 685 00:31:15,874 --> 00:31:18,334 [PJ] That's one thing my kids do not lack, is confidence. 686 00:31:18,418 --> 00:31:20,753 [Hannah] That's just how I am. My way or the highway. 687 00:31:20,837 --> 00:31:22,338 Like, I nitpick him. 688 00:31:22,964 --> 00:31:24,007 And I just can't help it. 689 00:31:24,090 --> 00:31:28,094 She always finds something with a guy. "Like, he does this, so I can't…" 690 00:31:28,177 --> 00:31:30,555 You know what I mean? So for her just to be, you know… 691 00:31:30,638 --> 00:31:34,392 -With me making it this far. Yeah. -[PJ] Then there must be something. 692 00:31:34,475 --> 00:31:36,978 I'm very overcritical of you, but we are getting married, 693 00:31:37,061 --> 00:31:39,856 so I just wanna make sure I'm sure when I say yes. 694 00:31:39,939 --> 00:31:43,067 -Relax. You seem very stressed. [laughs] -[Hannah] I am. 695 00:31:43,151 --> 00:31:44,694 -I'm trying to chill. -[Nick D] Yeah. 696 00:31:44,777 --> 00:31:46,195 I'm not chill though. 697 00:31:46,279 --> 00:31:48,114 [Nick D] No, she's great though. 698 00:31:48,197 --> 00:31:50,074 And you guys did a great job of raising her too. 699 00:31:50,158 --> 00:31:53,494 -[PJ] Thank you. -You're leaving her in good hands. 700 00:31:53,578 --> 00:31:56,789 I've always been someone to give something my all, whatever I do. 701 00:31:56,873 --> 00:32:01,044 School, football or a relationship, that's my teammate, right? 702 00:32:01,127 --> 00:32:02,962 So I'm always gonna be in her corner. 703 00:32:03,046 --> 00:32:05,924 -In life, you know, things get tough. -Yeah. 704 00:32:06,007 --> 00:32:09,052 -[Ryan] You need somebody to help you. -[Nick D] Your best friend, right? 705 00:32:09,135 --> 00:32:10,678 We need to be there for each other. 706 00:32:11,262 --> 00:32:13,389 Before we leave, Nick, don't forget to grab that hat. 707 00:32:13,473 --> 00:32:14,641 [Nick D] I'll go get it. 708 00:32:18,269 --> 00:32:19,562 [Hannah] Well, what do you think? 709 00:32:19,646 --> 00:32:23,483 [PJ] I like him. I mean, he's nice. He's polite. 710 00:32:24,067 --> 00:32:25,193 I mean, I like the guy. 711 00:32:25,276 --> 00:32:27,445 Do I know him? No, I don't know him. 712 00:32:27,528 --> 00:32:30,490 But he seems like his head's in the right place. 713 00:32:30,573 --> 00:32:33,076 I do really like him and love him, and I enjoy him and stuff. 714 00:32:33,159 --> 00:32:35,745 There's just, like, characteristics and things he does that… 715 00:32:35,828 --> 00:32:37,580 Well, Hannah, if that was the case, 716 00:32:37,664 --> 00:32:39,499 we would've thrown you out a long time ago. 717 00:32:39,582 --> 00:32:42,418 -Yeah. -[Ryan] You gotta overlook some stuff. 718 00:32:42,502 --> 00:32:44,587 You've gotta decide what you can live with. 719 00:32:44,671 --> 00:32:47,507 What is worth really nitpicking over? 720 00:32:47,590 --> 00:32:49,842 -What isn't? Let things go. -[Hannah] Mm-hmm. 721 00:32:49,926 --> 00:32:50,802 Chewing, chomping. 722 00:32:50,885 --> 00:32:53,763 I can't stand it, so Dad knows to eat in the closet. 723 00:32:53,846 --> 00:32:54,722 [all laughing] 724 00:32:55,306 --> 00:32:57,225 [Ryan] So, let those small things go. 725 00:32:57,308 --> 00:32:58,977 [PJ] Everyone's gonna have flaws. 726 00:32:59,060 --> 00:33:01,854 [Ryan] Somebody you can joke with. Somebody you can see yourself with. 727 00:33:01,938 --> 00:33:04,691 If he's gonna be treating you good, that's the most important thing. 728 00:33:04,774 --> 00:33:06,234 I'm glad you like him. I like him. 729 00:33:06,317 --> 00:33:08,653 -I'm stressed. That's just how I am. -[Ryan] I like him. 730 00:33:08,736 --> 00:33:10,738 -I got a lot going on. -[Ryan] Don't overthink it. 731 00:33:10,822 --> 00:33:12,073 But don't under think it. 732 00:33:12,573 --> 00:33:15,076 -Yeah. I know. -But it's what you put into it. 733 00:33:15,159 --> 00:33:18,621 I should be more in love, having fun. I'm just, like, stressed out. 734 00:33:18,705 --> 00:33:21,040 -You're the one with the blocker. -[Hannah] It's me. I know. 735 00:33:21,124 --> 00:33:23,418 It's not him. He seems pretty relaxed. 736 00:33:24,043 --> 00:33:25,086 You are like… 737 00:33:26,254 --> 00:33:28,297 -Am I really? -Yeah, mad. 738 00:33:28,381 --> 00:33:30,341 -You are. -Maybe I need a massage. 739 00:33:30,425 --> 00:33:33,052 You have a new friend to give you a massage. 740 00:33:33,136 --> 00:33:34,637 [Hannah] He wouldn't give me a massage. 741 00:33:34,721 --> 00:33:36,222 He won't even suck my toe. 742 00:33:36,764 --> 00:33:39,308 -Oh, God. -[laughing] 743 00:33:40,476 --> 00:33:43,229 -What the hell are you talking about? -[laughing] 744 00:33:43,312 --> 00:33:45,106 [laughing] 745 00:33:45,189 --> 00:33:48,359 -["Everybody Wants a Little Love" playing] -♪ Everybody just wants a little love… ♪ 746 00:33:49,610 --> 00:33:51,112 [laughing] 747 00:33:51,195 --> 00:33:53,823 ♪ I got a lot that I can give you ♪ 748 00:33:53,906 --> 00:33:56,617 ♪ And I could use a little bit too ♪ 749 00:33:56,701 --> 00:33:59,120 ♪ Everybody just wants a little love ♪ 750 00:34:02,123 --> 00:34:06,085 -All right, so don't go crazy. -[laughing] 751 00:34:06,169 --> 00:34:08,463 -I'm not going anywhere. -There's a lot happening in here. 752 00:34:08,546 --> 00:34:11,716 -Do I have to take my shoes off? -Yeah, you can take your shoes off. 753 00:34:11,799 --> 00:34:14,385 -I wanna see your home. Oh, Lord. -[Alex] I don't think it matters. 754 00:34:14,469 --> 00:34:15,344 What's happening? 755 00:34:15,428 --> 00:34:17,722 Ah, yes. [laughs] 756 00:34:17,805 --> 00:34:19,474 -You or me? -You go ahead. 757 00:34:19,557 --> 00:34:21,184 -All right, in we go. -[laughing] 758 00:34:23,770 --> 00:34:25,605 -Oh, my gosh. -[Tim laughs] 759 00:34:25,688 --> 00:34:28,566 -Wow. Okay. -Oh, my gosh. 760 00:34:28,649 --> 00:34:31,903 So when I was packing to leave, trying to figure out what I was gonna wear, 761 00:34:31,986 --> 00:34:34,739 then I couldn't decide, and then I couldn't put stuff away. 762 00:34:34,822 --> 00:34:36,908 -Yeah. -[Tim] Okay. 763 00:34:36,991 --> 00:34:39,368 I don't know how this happened, actually. I'm telling you. 764 00:34:39,452 --> 00:34:42,371 -I've been a hoarder of clothes and stuff. -I get it. 765 00:34:42,455 --> 00:34:45,541 I literally was like, "I have to get rid of so much." 766 00:34:47,877 --> 00:34:49,921 -You have a really big mirror. -I do. 767 00:34:50,004 --> 00:34:52,924 -[Tim] Too bad we can't see it. -Oh, my God. 768 00:34:53,007 --> 00:34:54,884 -[Tim laughing] -Tim. 769 00:34:55,510 --> 00:34:58,679 [Tim] Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry. Sorry, sorry, sorry. 770 00:34:59,639 --> 00:35:02,016 -[Alex] So you see these trash bags? -[Tim] I see 'em. 771 00:35:02,100 --> 00:35:06,938 [Alex] Okay, some of these I'm donating. Some of 'em I'm selling, 772 00:35:07,021 --> 00:35:09,774 and then some I'm keeping, but I have to go through everything. 773 00:35:09,857 --> 00:35:11,025 [Tim] Mm-hmm. 774 00:35:11,109 --> 00:35:13,486 I was cleaning this, so I never put these photos back up-- 775 00:35:13,569 --> 00:35:15,530 -Is this… -Oh, yeah. I love myself. 776 00:35:15,613 --> 00:35:16,572 [Tim] What's this? 777 00:35:16,656 --> 00:35:19,408 -I have a bunch of stickers. You want one? -Sure. 778 00:35:19,492 --> 00:35:21,869 [laughs] Can I put it on my fridge? 779 00:35:22,870 --> 00:35:24,747 [Alex laughing] All right, welcome to my home. 780 00:35:26,207 --> 00:35:27,583 It's weird. 781 00:35:27,667 --> 00:35:30,878 -What, being here? -I've never shown somebody my mess. 782 00:35:30,962 --> 00:35:34,048 For me to have this is just like, it's weird. 783 00:35:34,132 --> 00:35:35,591 [laughs] 784 00:35:35,675 --> 00:35:39,178 It's okay. Everything's fine. Especially, like, once you put stuff away. 785 00:35:40,138 --> 00:35:42,390 [laughs] Just fine. 786 00:35:42,473 --> 00:35:45,476 -Though in this mess, I feel at peace. -Mm-hmm. 787 00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:47,228 -Like home. -I get it. 788 00:35:47,311 --> 00:35:49,730 Like, I could fall asleep on the couch. I try not to. 789 00:35:49,814 --> 00:35:51,274 -Yeah. -But it's so comfortable. 790 00:35:51,357 --> 00:35:53,484 -No, this is, like, a comfortable couch. -I feel like-- 791 00:35:53,568 --> 00:35:55,486 [Tim] You know what would make this couch better? 792 00:35:55,570 --> 00:35:57,697 -Huh? -A reclining option. 793 00:35:57,780 --> 00:35:59,115 [laughs] 794 00:36:00,700 --> 00:36:02,618 -Hmm. -[sighs] 795 00:36:02,702 --> 00:36:05,621 [laughing] 796 00:36:05,705 --> 00:36:07,707 [pop music playing] 797 00:36:11,419 --> 00:36:12,545 [knock on door] 798 00:36:14,130 --> 00:36:15,298 [man] Hello! 799 00:36:15,381 --> 00:36:17,049 [woman shouts] Taylor! 800 00:36:17,133 --> 00:36:19,468 -This is Garrett. This is Garrett. -[man] Hello. 801 00:36:19,552 --> 00:36:21,262 [woman] Oh, I forgot about the ring! 802 00:36:21,345 --> 00:36:24,223 Nice job, Garrett. You been lifting weights recently with that? 803 00:36:24,307 --> 00:36:27,226 -This arm's really swole now. -A lot stronger? Yeah. 804 00:36:27,977 --> 00:36:28,978 Whoa, what is this? 805 00:36:29,562 --> 00:36:33,524 I brought you that from South Africa because I know that you love fish. 806 00:36:33,608 --> 00:36:36,319 -[Garrett] This is awesome. Thank you. -I heard a lot about the fish. 807 00:36:36,402 --> 00:36:37,945 [woman 2] There's some judgment. 808 00:36:38,029 --> 00:36:40,656 -But we'll work through it. -[Garrett] It's all good. 809 00:36:40,740 --> 00:36:42,742 She's still working through it. We can work together. 810 00:36:42,825 --> 00:36:45,244 -[Taylor] Should we sit? -[Darpan] Let's sit, yeah. 811 00:36:45,328 --> 00:36:47,413 Did you have any idea what Taylor looked like? 812 00:36:47,496 --> 00:36:51,167 No, I had nothing. It was very unique, and very Taylor, which I loved. 813 00:36:51,250 --> 00:36:53,586 -Perfect. -[Garrett] She wants to move to San Diego. 814 00:36:53,669 --> 00:36:57,089 [chuckles] And has no interest in raising a family in Fredericksburg. 815 00:36:57,173 --> 00:36:59,425 I'm glad you're being honest with him. That makes me happy. 816 00:36:59,508 --> 00:37:01,260 I was like, "Does he know?" 817 00:37:01,344 --> 00:37:04,013 It's a dream for me to, like, move back to San Diego. 818 00:37:04,096 --> 00:37:07,016 I thought I'd always have to compromise on, but finding someone who 819 00:37:07,099 --> 00:37:09,602 wants to make that dream happen for me is, like… 820 00:37:09,685 --> 00:37:12,396 And it's not like I'm making him move to like Azkaban. 821 00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:13,689 I mean, San Diego's amazing. 822 00:37:13,773 --> 00:37:15,483 It's just far from Virginia, 823 00:37:15,566 --> 00:37:18,736 and far from, like, everything you know and hold dear. 824 00:37:18,819 --> 00:37:20,196 I just worry about that. 825 00:37:20,279 --> 00:37:22,490 Like, do you feel like you might be making, 826 00:37:22,573 --> 00:37:24,367 like, a lot more changes than you would like? 827 00:37:24,450 --> 00:37:27,954 Like, you are going from Fredericksburg to San Diego potentially. 828 00:37:28,037 --> 00:37:30,998 You are giving up the work life that you've set up, 829 00:37:31,082 --> 00:37:32,083 your friends and family. 830 00:37:32,166 --> 00:37:33,960 Like, it kind of sounds like a lot. 831 00:37:34,460 --> 00:37:37,838 Before I met Taylor, I would've never thought I would have done these things. 832 00:37:37,922 --> 00:37:40,424 That's why my friends are surprised. My family's surprised. 833 00:37:40,508 --> 00:37:43,052 I've never felt anything like this. I never met anyone like Taylor. 834 00:37:43,135 --> 00:37:48,599 What I have with Taylor is far and above worth, like, giving up everything over. 835 00:37:48,683 --> 00:37:51,435 Working 60 to 70 hours. I need to scale it back to 40. 836 00:37:51,519 --> 00:37:53,813 I will give up the businesses, and they can buy me out. 837 00:37:53,896 --> 00:37:55,314 I don't want him to do that. 838 00:37:55,398 --> 00:37:57,692 [Garrett] But I told her, honestly. My mom was surprised. 839 00:37:57,775 --> 00:37:59,694 She was like, "You would really do that?" "Yeah." 840 00:37:59,777 --> 00:38:02,905 Honestly, Taylor's way worth giving up anything. 841 00:38:02,989 --> 00:38:05,491 And so for me, like, I just wanna be with Taylor. 842 00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:09,370 We are gonna start our own family and our own story. 843 00:38:09,453 --> 00:38:10,830 That's what I'm most excited about. 844 00:38:10,913 --> 00:38:14,250 I think that is, like, the holy grail of life. 845 00:38:14,333 --> 00:38:16,002 Like, I can't imagine… 846 00:38:16,085 --> 00:38:18,129 -I love you. -…doing anything else without her, so… 847 00:38:18,713 --> 00:38:21,424 I'm very, very happy to go wherever she wants to go. 848 00:38:21,924 --> 00:38:24,135 Knowing now what's in front of me with Taylor… 849 00:38:24,635 --> 00:38:27,555 [chuckles] …yeah, I'll throw it all away. I'm just crazy about her. 850 00:38:28,139 --> 00:38:29,890 This is an unbelievable feeling. 851 00:38:29,974 --> 00:38:31,684 An unbelievable future I see in front of us. 852 00:38:31,767 --> 00:38:33,853 And I'm so fucking crazy about her. 853 00:38:35,396 --> 00:38:37,023 [David] It's just, like, so interesting. 854 00:38:37,106 --> 00:38:39,608 Like, I've just been looking at you this entire time, 855 00:38:39,692 --> 00:38:42,778 and I'm like, "Wow, I've never seen you look at someone like this." 856 00:38:42,862 --> 00:38:45,364 -[Emilie] You look so happy. -[David] Yeah, it's almost scary. 857 00:38:45,448 --> 00:38:48,159 I'm just like, "Wow! Like, what have you done with our friend?" 858 00:38:48,242 --> 00:38:50,119 [Bridget] You know, like, the heart eyes emoji? 859 00:38:50,202 --> 00:38:53,497 You literally look like the heart eyes emoji right now. It's like… 860 00:38:53,581 --> 00:38:54,582 I love him a lot. 861 00:38:55,291 --> 00:38:56,917 -I'm really happy, guys. -[Bridget] Aww. 862 00:38:57,001 --> 00:38:59,712 [David laughs] I've never seen you hold hands with someone. 863 00:38:59,795 --> 00:39:00,838 [laughing] 864 00:39:00,921 --> 00:39:04,008 -Other than us! Other than, like, us. -[Bridget] Or touch someone's face. 865 00:39:04,091 --> 00:39:06,552 -Like touching someone… -[laughing] 866 00:39:06,635 --> 00:39:07,887 I was like, "What?" 867 00:39:08,471 --> 00:39:10,765 [Bridget] Who is she, and what have you done with Taylor? 868 00:39:10,848 --> 00:39:13,851 I know! It's, like, disgusting, honestly. 869 00:39:14,518 --> 00:39:16,771 I didn't think, like, going through this I was gonna take 870 00:39:16,854 --> 00:39:18,814 what I've been calling a "quantum leap." 871 00:39:18,898 --> 00:39:21,233 And he's like, "That's actually not that." 872 00:39:21,317 --> 00:39:23,944 That's cute. I like it. I think it's really cute. 873 00:39:24,028 --> 00:39:26,197 He's like, "That's actually not that far." 874 00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:28,074 -[laughing] -Oh, I love that! 875 00:39:28,157 --> 00:39:30,076 Quantum is very small, actually. 876 00:39:30,159 --> 00:39:33,913 Finally, someone to one-up Taylor on the science stuff. 877 00:39:33,996 --> 00:39:35,998 [David] Maybe your children will win Nobel Prizes. 878 00:39:36,082 --> 00:39:38,250 -[laughing] -[Emilie] Cheers, guys. 879 00:39:38,334 --> 00:39:39,960 -Yeah! -Cheers! 880 00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:42,588 -[Emilie] To love. -To Garret and Taylor. 881 00:39:42,671 --> 00:39:44,090 [laughing] 882 00:39:44,173 --> 00:39:46,926 -["In the Stars" playing] -♪ Baby, you and I ♪ 883 00:39:47,009 --> 00:39:49,345 ♪ We can shine so bright ♪ 884 00:39:49,428 --> 00:39:51,889 ♪ I know the constellation's ours ♪ 885 00:39:51,972 --> 00:39:54,433 ♪ See it in the stars ♪ 886 00:39:54,517 --> 00:39:56,727 ♪ Baby, you and I ♪ 887 00:39:56,811 --> 00:40:00,981 So, my mom, what did you think about it? What did you think, really? 888 00:40:01,065 --> 00:40:03,984 Um, I think it went good. 889 00:40:04,068 --> 00:40:05,528 She needs therapy. 890 00:40:05,611 --> 00:40:06,487 [Ramses chuckles] 891 00:40:06,570 --> 00:40:07,655 -Yeah. -She really does. 892 00:40:07,738 --> 00:40:09,824 The whole prenuptial agreement thing. 893 00:40:09,907 --> 00:40:11,617 What do you think about that? 894 00:40:11,700 --> 00:40:14,370 -I'm A-okay with that. I'm not… -I know. 895 00:40:14,453 --> 00:40:17,206 I'm not here for money or anything else. 896 00:40:17,289 --> 00:40:19,875 -So… -I don't have that much money yet. 897 00:40:19,959 --> 00:40:21,752 Yeah, but obviously in the future, 898 00:40:21,836 --> 00:40:24,338 we would be obviously in a different place financially. 899 00:40:24,422 --> 00:40:28,050 Again, like, even in the future, that's not what I'm here for. 900 00:40:28,134 --> 00:40:29,135 [Marissa] No. 901 00:40:29,218 --> 00:40:32,513 I think she does feel good about at least the conversation 902 00:40:32,596 --> 00:40:34,932 we had or, like, the energy she's getting from me. 903 00:40:35,015 --> 00:40:36,934 I mean, she's being supportive of the wedding. 904 00:40:37,017 --> 00:40:40,062 She hasn't at all been like, "Don't get married." 905 00:40:40,146 --> 00:40:42,064 But, yeah, I think she's fine. 906 00:40:42,148 --> 00:40:46,277 I know, like, my siblings are very pleased. 907 00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:47,361 [Ramses] Yeah. 908 00:40:47,445 --> 00:40:50,406 Do you think me meeting your mom will go like this? 909 00:40:50,489 --> 00:40:52,032 -Not at all. -[both laugh] 910 00:40:52,116 --> 00:40:54,535 Whenever there's family gatherings, I'mma need time to, like, 911 00:40:54,618 --> 00:40:58,080 get my mind right before I step into that space. 912 00:40:58,164 --> 00:40:59,790 I mean, it's chaotic as shit. 913 00:40:59,874 --> 00:41:01,292 -It's a lot. -It's a lot. 914 00:41:01,375 --> 00:41:02,793 All of you are like that. 915 00:41:02,877 --> 00:41:04,962 Are you gonna say no to me at the altar? 916 00:41:05,588 --> 00:41:07,381 -I feel great, baby. -Okay. 917 00:41:07,465 --> 00:41:10,009 -No doubts? Any creeping doubts? -No doubts. 918 00:41:10,092 --> 00:41:11,385 -No. -Any kernels of doubt? 919 00:41:11,469 --> 00:41:14,930 No, I'm good. I'm locked in. 920 00:41:15,014 --> 00:41:18,392 Okay, good. What's your timeline on kids? 921 00:41:20,144 --> 00:41:21,687 Three to five years still? 922 00:41:22,730 --> 00:41:25,274 [sighs] Probably closer, like, to four. 923 00:41:25,357 --> 00:41:26,775 Okay, we're getting married. 924 00:41:27,276 --> 00:41:30,237 A year from now, I'll be 32. 925 00:41:30,738 --> 00:41:33,574 -I don't wanna try having kids at 37. -After that. 926 00:41:34,825 --> 00:41:37,953 Yeah, at the very minimum, three years. 927 00:41:38,037 --> 00:41:40,331 -Not even two and a half? -Babe, what? 928 00:41:40,414 --> 00:41:43,709 -[laughs] I'm just wondering. -Where is this coming from? Okay. 929 00:41:43,792 --> 00:41:46,253 I want us to have time, like, just for us. 930 00:41:46,337 --> 00:41:50,633 I do need to talk to my doctor about birth control, then. 931 00:41:50,716 --> 00:41:54,428 Yeah, we can't play these risky-ass games. 932 00:41:54,512 --> 00:41:56,805 -Yeah, we're kind of risking it. -Yeah. 933 00:41:56,889 --> 00:41:59,517 I didn't really wanna go back on birth control is the thing. 934 00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:00,434 [Ramses] Right. 935 00:42:04,271 --> 00:42:05,231 [laughs] 936 00:42:06,148 --> 00:42:09,777 I mean, like, I don't want you to do it if it's gonna, like, affect you 937 00:42:09,860 --> 00:42:14,031 in terms of, like, your health and, like, your mood. 938 00:42:14,823 --> 00:42:17,743 I'll just have to wear condoms or something. I don't know, but… 939 00:42:17,826 --> 00:42:19,328 I mean, I think… 940 00:42:19,411 --> 00:42:22,248 [sighs] Like, that's what I wanna go with, I think. 941 00:42:22,331 --> 00:42:24,833 -Do you enjoy condom sex? -[Marissa] Yeah. 942 00:42:24,917 --> 00:42:27,711 -Really? -Some of my best sex has been on a condom. 943 00:42:28,754 --> 00:42:29,797 Huh. Okay. 944 00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:31,340 [laughing] 945 00:42:32,675 --> 00:42:35,094 I think we could definitely have condom sex, and it'd be fine. 946 00:42:37,805 --> 00:42:39,348 How do you feel about that? 947 00:42:41,850 --> 00:42:43,686 -[laughs] -[sighs] 948 00:42:43,769 --> 00:42:46,021 -Babe, this is bad! -No, but-- 949 00:42:46,105 --> 00:42:47,940 No, the thing is, like-- yeah. 950 00:42:48,023 --> 00:42:51,944 It's not-- like, I don't-- If I wear one, it's just not… 951 00:42:52,027 --> 00:42:54,280 -We can raw dog it. -[laughs] 952 00:42:54,363 --> 00:42:56,240 And like… 953 00:42:56,865 --> 00:42:58,951 We either have condom sex, or we don't have condom sex, 954 00:42:59,034 --> 00:43:02,454 and we accept the consequences of not having condom sex, which sounds insane, 955 00:43:02,538 --> 00:43:03,831 but it's the truth. 956 00:43:04,873 --> 00:43:06,375 I'm okay if we got pregnant. 957 00:43:06,458 --> 00:43:09,253 [laughs, sighs] 958 00:43:09,336 --> 00:43:13,299 -[laughs] What? -No, no, I'm just thinking through it. Um… 959 00:43:13,382 --> 00:43:16,218 Yeah, so I definitely don't wanna, like, put you in a position 960 00:43:16,302 --> 00:43:18,804 where, like, you're doing something that you don't wanna do. 961 00:43:18,887 --> 00:43:22,516 Okay, cool. So we can just agree to have condom sex from here on out. 962 00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,810 It's not really enjoyable, baby. 963 00:43:24,893 --> 00:43:28,147 Sex is supposed to be, like, mutually enjoyable. 964 00:43:28,230 --> 00:43:31,734 That's not something guys ever have the pressure of having to think about. 965 00:43:34,778 --> 00:43:38,157 Yeah, well, here's the pressure. I'm not gonna go on birth control. 966 00:43:40,951 --> 00:43:41,952 Okay. [sighs] 967 00:43:44,038 --> 00:43:45,122 Sounds good, baby. 968 00:43:45,623 --> 00:43:48,417 We need to do what we need to do, but I need the sex to be enjoyable. 969 00:43:48,500 --> 00:43:49,793 [pop music playing] 970 00:43:49,877 --> 00:43:52,921 ♪ I'll give you my all ♪ 971 00:43:53,547 --> 00:43:55,716 ♪ I know I could fall ♪ 972 00:43:55,799 --> 00:43:59,678 [music continues] 973 00:44:04,475 --> 00:44:06,435 Whoo! This is pretty exciting. 974 00:44:06,518 --> 00:44:09,647 [chuckles] It's not every day you meet your son's fiancée. 975 00:44:09,730 --> 00:44:11,982 Does it sound weird that I have a fiancée? 976 00:44:12,066 --> 00:44:16,195 -Yeah, I still need to get used to it. -[Nick D] I skipped the girlfriend stage. 977 00:44:16,278 --> 00:44:19,323 -[Lilian] Yes, exactly. -That's one of the things we were saying. 978 00:44:19,406 --> 00:44:23,202 I'm looking forward to seeing, you know, what my parents kind of think of Hannah. 979 00:44:23,285 --> 00:44:26,747 -[doorbell rings] -There's the doorbell. Whoo-hoo! 980 00:44:26,830 --> 00:44:29,208 This is very exciting. [laughs] 981 00:44:29,291 --> 00:44:32,503 I think my parents might be a little bit more nervous to meet Hannah 982 00:44:32,586 --> 00:44:35,130 than I am for Hannah to meet them. 983 00:44:35,214 --> 00:44:38,342 They're not used to this whole experience of me bringing someone home 984 00:44:38,425 --> 00:44:39,718 and me being in love. 985 00:44:41,887 --> 00:44:44,640 -[Hannah] Hey. -Welcome. [laughs] 986 00:44:44,723 --> 00:44:45,933 -What's up? -Hey. 987 00:44:46,433 --> 00:44:49,520 -You're carrying a lot of gifts. [laughs] -I know. I'm ridiculous. 988 00:44:51,271 --> 00:44:53,357 -Hi! -[Lilian] Oh, my goodness! 989 00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:55,359 Oh, finally! 990 00:44:55,442 --> 00:44:56,527 [all laughing] 991 00:44:56,610 --> 00:44:58,487 -[Lilian] You're beautiful. -Thank you. 992 00:45:00,906 --> 00:45:02,700 -Nice to meet you. -[Nick D] That's Mama Dorka. 993 00:45:02,783 --> 00:45:05,119 -Oh, you're beautiful. -Oh, thank you. [laughs] 994 00:45:05,202 --> 00:45:07,204 -[Nick Sr.] Hi, Hannah. -It's nice to meet you. 995 00:45:07,287 --> 00:45:09,289 -[Nick Sr.] Nick Dorka Sr. -[Nick D] Nick Dorka Sr. 996 00:45:09,373 --> 00:45:12,126 I gotta be careful with my makeup. Don't wanna get it all over you guys. 997 00:45:12,209 --> 00:45:13,377 [laughing] 998 00:45:13,460 --> 00:45:14,670 [Nick Sr.] Thanks for coming. 999 00:45:14,753 --> 00:45:16,672 -Of course. -[Nick Sr.] Been anxious to meet you. 1000 00:45:16,755 --> 00:45:18,424 [Lilian] Yeah, this is very exciting. 1001 00:45:18,507 --> 00:45:20,217 I know you really like pineapples, 1002 00:45:20,300 --> 00:45:23,053 so I got you, like, a pineapple salt and pepper shaker. 1003 00:45:23,137 --> 00:45:26,640 -[Lilian gasps] Oh, those are beautiful! -[Nick Sr.] Oh, that is really cool. 1004 00:45:26,724 --> 00:45:30,227 And a pineapple dish. If you're ever hosting, you can put your dips in it. 1005 00:45:30,310 --> 00:45:33,313 Oh, my goodness! This is absolutely beautiful. 1006 00:45:33,397 --> 00:45:35,774 And then I got you a dozen of your favorite golf balls. 1007 00:45:35,858 --> 00:45:38,527 -Nick told me you're specific. -No, thank you. 1008 00:45:38,610 --> 00:45:40,529 -That is really cool. -[Lilian] This is beautiful. 1009 00:45:40,612 --> 00:45:42,656 -This is really beautiful. -[Nick Sr.] My golf balls. 1010 00:45:42,740 --> 00:45:45,033 -[Lilian] So thoughtful. Thank you. -Thank you. 1011 00:45:45,117 --> 00:45:47,035 Of course! You guys are gonna be my in-laws. 1012 00:45:47,119 --> 00:45:48,662 -I have to go all-out. -[Lilian] I know. 1013 00:45:48,746 --> 00:45:50,581 -You're our daughter. -[Hannah] Yeah. 1014 00:45:50,664 --> 00:45:52,166 I was so excited to meet you guys. 1015 00:45:52,249 --> 00:45:55,085 [Nick Sr.] Such a different pathway to get here, but I feel the same way. 1016 00:45:55,169 --> 00:45:58,130 It's so exciting. We're so happy for you guys. 1017 00:45:58,213 --> 00:46:02,551 -Maybe you can help me finish up dinner. -[Hannah] It smells delicious. 1018 00:46:02,634 --> 00:46:05,888 Nick's been raving about your cooking, so I'm excited to try it. 1019 00:46:05,971 --> 00:46:08,056 [Lilian] Ooh! Let me see. 1020 00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:10,392 -Oh, very beautiful. -[Hannah] Thank you. 1021 00:46:10,476 --> 00:46:13,353 Your hands are beautiful. So you gotta model that ring. 1022 00:46:13,437 --> 00:46:15,314 -[Hannah laughs] Nick did good! -Very pretty. 1023 00:46:15,397 --> 00:46:18,817 I'll tell you what though. You guys are gonna have beautiful children. 1024 00:46:18,901 --> 00:46:21,195 -Beautiful eyes. Really? -That's what my mom said. 1025 00:46:21,278 --> 00:46:23,947 "They're gonna have beautiful green eyes like you, Han, yeah." 1026 00:46:24,031 --> 00:46:26,533 "Dark hair and freckles. They're gonna be so cute." 1027 00:46:26,617 --> 00:46:28,827 -I was like, "Oh, my God." -[Nick Sr.] Beautiful skin too. 1028 00:46:28,911 --> 00:46:31,288 -Thank you. -[Lilian] All right, I'm sorry. 1029 00:46:31,371 --> 00:46:33,832 -I have to finish getting dinner ready. -[Hannah] Okay. 1030 00:46:33,916 --> 00:46:36,001 -And Hannah's gonna help me. -Watch you? 1031 00:46:36,084 --> 00:46:38,629 -[laughing] Okay. We'll talk later. -[Nick Sr.] Bye, y'all. 1032 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,549 -He'll never leave, for God's sake. -[laughs] 1033 00:46:42,633 --> 00:46:44,885 -I'm so glad you're here. -Yeah, me too. 1034 00:46:44,968 --> 00:46:46,512 [Lilian] I'm really glad. 1035 00:46:46,595 --> 00:46:48,013 Let me tell you what we're having. 1036 00:46:48,096 --> 00:46:50,224 So I've got ropa vieja. 1037 00:46:50,307 --> 00:46:53,977 Ropa vieja is probably the most popular Cuban food. 1038 00:46:54,061 --> 00:46:56,230 -[Hannah] Oh, it looks delicious. -[Lilian] Yeah. 1039 00:46:56,313 --> 00:46:57,898 Maybe you can try a little bit 1040 00:46:57,981 --> 00:47:00,859 and see if you think it needs anything. 1041 00:47:03,403 --> 00:47:05,113 -No, it's good. No, it's good. -You like it? 1042 00:47:05,197 --> 00:47:07,407 Doesn't need more salt or anything. It's perfect, yeah. 1043 00:47:07,491 --> 00:47:09,952 -All right, you passed the test. -It's good. It's good. 1044 00:47:10,035 --> 00:47:11,036 [laughing] 1045 00:47:14,414 --> 00:47:17,125 Wow, Nick, I just met your fiancée. 1046 00:47:17,209 --> 00:47:18,669 That was so interesting. 1047 00:47:18,752 --> 00:47:21,588 -Interesting, right? -She's a wonderful person. 1048 00:47:22,089 --> 00:47:25,008 How'd she pick you? [laughs] 1049 00:47:25,092 --> 00:47:26,844 When I met your mom, 1050 00:47:27,511 --> 00:47:29,805 she forced me to grow in so many areas 1051 00:47:29,888 --> 00:47:31,932 that were uncomfortable. 1052 00:47:32,432 --> 00:47:35,102 I've grown so much, and I sort of see that 1053 00:47:35,185 --> 00:47:38,480 with your relationship with Hannah. 1054 00:47:38,564 --> 00:47:40,816 I can tell that she's gonna push me. 1055 00:47:40,899 --> 00:47:43,360 No matter whether it's trying new adventures, 1056 00:47:43,443 --> 00:47:46,071 trying new foods, be better at work. 1057 00:47:46,697 --> 00:47:49,241 You know, whatever it is, she's pushing me now. 1058 00:47:49,324 --> 00:47:51,034 [Nick Sr.] Good. You're growing up. 1059 00:47:51,118 --> 00:47:53,328 I love Nick, really. I know it sounds insane. 1060 00:47:53,412 --> 00:47:56,248 Like, in the pods and stuff, at first, like, 1061 00:47:56,331 --> 00:47:58,500 I was a bit scared about him because-- it's really funny. 1062 00:47:58,584 --> 00:48:01,920 He's not like that, but was coming off-- He's very smooth-talking, nice voice. 1063 00:48:02,004 --> 00:48:04,006 I thought he was just coming off as a player. 1064 00:48:04,089 --> 00:48:07,384 -Mm-hmm. -Nick, one time, he came into the pod. 1065 00:48:07,467 --> 00:48:10,137 -I call him Nicky D. "Hey, Nicky D." -[laughs] Nicky D. 1066 00:48:10,220 --> 00:48:13,515 And we called him Mr. Rico Suave. And he loved it. 1067 00:48:13,599 --> 00:48:16,727 -[laughing] Yeah. -He thought that was the best thing ever. 1068 00:48:16,810 --> 00:48:19,021 And Nick's like, "Hannah, I've got something to tell you." 1069 00:48:19,104 --> 00:48:21,023 I was like, "Oh, no. He's breaking up with me." 1070 00:48:21,106 --> 00:48:22,816 He goes, "I'm in love with you." 1071 00:48:22,900 --> 00:48:25,277 -And I was like, "What?" -Oh, my goodness. 1072 00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,487 -[laughing] -Wow. 1073 00:48:27,571 --> 00:48:29,281 Yeah, and I was like, "Really?" 1074 00:48:29,364 --> 00:48:31,867 He had said he's never been in love before. I was like, "Wow." 1075 00:48:31,950 --> 00:48:34,536 -And, like… yeah. -He's never ever said that before. 1076 00:48:34,620 --> 00:48:36,330 I was like, "I love you too." 1077 00:48:36,830 --> 00:48:38,999 And he, like, really opened up to me. 1078 00:48:39,082 --> 00:48:41,126 I was like, "Wow. He really can get very vulnerable." 1079 00:48:41,209 --> 00:48:43,462 We just had, like, the deepest talks ever-- 1080 00:48:43,545 --> 00:48:46,173 -I don't think he's done that with anyone. -Yeah. 1081 00:48:46,256 --> 00:48:48,926 He does not share all that much, 1082 00:48:49,009 --> 00:48:50,552 but he does feel deeply. 1083 00:48:50,636 --> 00:48:52,971 And he's a good person. 1084 00:48:53,055 --> 00:48:56,099 -I think he's got a really good heart. -He's a very good person. 1085 00:48:56,183 --> 00:48:59,353 I love Nick. He's got the biggest heart I've ever seen in my life. 1086 00:48:59,436 --> 00:49:03,273 He's such a genuine person, and he really cares for me, and it's just… 1087 00:49:03,357 --> 00:49:06,109 I had to grow up just a little bit faster than Nick. 1088 00:49:06,193 --> 00:49:07,611 I started working when I was 15, 1089 00:49:07,694 --> 00:49:11,114 and parents cut me off at 18 and stuff, so I grew up really fast. 1090 00:49:11,198 --> 00:49:12,741 When Nick doesn't know how to do things, 1091 00:49:12,824 --> 00:49:14,826 I'm very hard and critical on him about it. 1092 00:49:14,910 --> 00:49:17,955 I need to set myself back because we've had different ways of life. 1093 00:49:18,038 --> 00:49:20,332 Maybe because I know how to do, like, things, 1094 00:49:20,415 --> 00:49:22,042 and he doesn't, doesn't mean he has to. 1095 00:49:22,125 --> 00:49:23,752 He'll figure it out, and he will learn. 1096 00:49:23,835 --> 00:49:26,213 He just hasn't had to do it yet and stuff. 1097 00:49:26,296 --> 00:49:28,507 I feel like that's the only little setback. Nothing big. 1098 00:49:28,590 --> 00:49:30,842 I never have to worry about his loyalty, loving me. 1099 00:49:30,926 --> 00:49:32,886 I never worry about him doing anything for me. 1100 00:49:32,970 --> 00:49:37,057 And probably my kids have been pampered a little bit. 1101 00:49:37,599 --> 00:49:39,351 You wanna give your kids what you didn't have. 1102 00:49:39,434 --> 00:49:42,312 -Yeah, I get that. -It was all about sports with them. 1103 00:49:42,396 --> 00:49:46,733 That's one thing that I don't regret is all the time we spent. 1104 00:49:46,817 --> 00:49:48,944 -Yeah. -We went to every game, every practice. 1105 00:49:49,027 --> 00:49:51,697 Spent every minute with them, 1106 00:49:51,780 --> 00:49:53,865 and I think that's what's most important. 1107 00:49:53,949 --> 00:49:55,909 -They'll remember that, hopefully. -Yeah. 1108 00:49:55,993 --> 00:49:57,995 [Lilian] And I've asked him. In fact, I've said, 1109 00:49:58,078 --> 00:50:00,580 "You know, Nick, are you gonna do this with your own kids?" 1110 00:50:00,664 --> 00:50:01,832 He's like, "Oh, absolutely." 1111 00:50:01,915 --> 00:50:05,085 "Those are some of the best memories, is knowing you guys were there." 1112 00:50:05,168 --> 00:50:09,423 So I think he's used to being around strong women. 1113 00:50:09,506 --> 00:50:10,340 Yeah. 1114 00:50:10,424 --> 00:50:12,551 So he's never gonna say to you, 1115 00:50:12,634 --> 00:50:14,636 "Oh, you know, you're just a little woman." 1116 00:50:14,720 --> 00:50:17,723 -Never. Yeah. -He's never gonna say anything like that. 1117 00:50:17,806 --> 00:50:20,851 I would never think he'd say anything like that. He's just such a good human. 1118 00:50:21,601 --> 00:50:23,437 -Nick's personality matches mine. -He's a cutie. 1119 00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:27,149 He is a cutie. You may be biased. You did birth him. 1120 00:50:27,232 --> 00:50:28,442 [laughing] 1121 00:50:28,525 --> 00:50:31,862 I think she exceeded my expectations. I have to be honest. 1122 00:50:31,945 --> 00:50:33,655 [Hannah] Dinner is ready. 1123 00:50:33,739 --> 00:50:35,741 -[Nick] All right. -[Nick Sr.] All right, I'm hungry. 1124 00:50:35,824 --> 00:50:38,493 -First, I thought she was beautiful. -Beautiful. 1125 00:50:38,577 --> 00:50:40,454 And just so quick with a smile. 1126 00:50:40,537 --> 00:50:41,747 Very warm. 1127 00:50:41,830 --> 00:50:43,415 [Nick Sr.] Family person. 1128 00:50:43,498 --> 00:50:44,875 -Cheers. -[Lilian] Hear, hear! 1129 00:50:44,958 --> 00:50:46,585 And just so together. 1130 00:50:46,668 --> 00:50:48,670 I thought she's everything Nick said she was. 1131 00:50:48,754 --> 00:50:50,172 Yeah, and more. 1132 00:50:50,255 --> 00:50:52,632 -[Hannah] This is delicious. -[Lilian] I'm glad you like it. 1133 00:50:52,716 --> 00:50:55,302 -[Hannah] It's really good. -[Nick D] It is. Good job, Hannah. 1134 00:50:55,802 --> 00:50:57,554 [Hannah] I cut up the avocado, so thank you. 1135 00:50:57,637 --> 00:51:00,474 -[laughs] -She did. She did a great job. 1136 00:51:01,099 --> 00:51:05,604 I do think he's in love. I've never seen him so smitten. 1137 00:51:05,687 --> 00:51:08,899 The way that, you know, they look at each other and… 1138 00:51:08,982 --> 00:51:10,025 It's just different. 1139 00:51:10,108 --> 00:51:14,196 When you guys get married, who's gonna do most of the cooking? 1140 00:51:14,279 --> 00:51:16,740 [Hannah] I really enjoy cooking. Nick can be the griller, 1141 00:51:16,823 --> 00:51:18,116 and I'll be the cooker, you know. 1142 00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:20,619 [Nick D] If that's what you wanna do, that's fine with me. 1143 00:51:20,702 --> 00:51:24,289 He wants to be better. He wants to grow for her. 1144 00:51:24,372 --> 00:51:25,874 He wants to learn new things. 1145 00:51:25,957 --> 00:51:29,503 I've never heard him say stuff like that before. 1146 00:51:29,586 --> 00:51:32,130 Nick's a great person, got a good heart. He's a lovely person. 1147 00:51:32,214 --> 00:51:34,216 You don't have that without good parents and stuff. 1148 00:51:34,299 --> 00:51:36,885 I knew you guys were gonna be great, and you guys are wonderful. 1149 00:51:36,968 --> 00:51:40,806 Thank you. I can't tell you how great it is to have you in our home. 1150 00:51:40,889 --> 00:51:44,184 I mean, I see why Nick is in love with you. 1151 00:51:44,893 --> 00:51:48,605 -I think we're a little in love with you. -[laughs] That's so sweet. 1152 00:51:48,688 --> 00:51:50,107 You're really, really lovely, 1153 00:51:50,190 --> 00:51:53,902 and I would love it if you became our daughter. 1154 00:51:54,611 --> 00:51:58,240 I would just add that if it doesn't work out between you and Nick, 1155 00:51:58,323 --> 00:52:00,784 you're welcome to stay with us and Nick can go. 1156 00:52:00,867 --> 00:52:03,703 We've got rooms upstairs. Just don't stay here while I'm here. 1157 00:52:03,787 --> 00:52:04,621 [laughing] 1158 00:52:04,704 --> 00:52:08,125 -["Crazy" by Naomi Stone playing] -♪ I think I'll go insane ♪ 1159 00:52:08,208 --> 00:52:12,629 ♪ I'm crazy for the way you call my name ♪ 1160 00:52:13,296 --> 00:52:15,298 ♪ You're making me crazy ♪ 1161 00:52:21,304 --> 00:52:22,305 [exhales] 1162 00:52:24,641 --> 00:52:28,562 I'm not sure this is like a resolution kind of conversation. 1163 00:52:29,437 --> 00:52:31,398 "Oh, let's hug and pretend like nothing happened." 1164 00:52:31,481 --> 00:52:33,775 -[Tyler] Yeah. -Like, for me, this is not that. 1165 00:52:34,651 --> 00:52:36,444 You know, this is a big thing. 1166 00:52:38,655 --> 00:52:40,073 You know, I left. 1167 00:52:41,616 --> 00:52:43,285 I needed to separate 1168 00:52:43,910 --> 00:52:45,871 and get by myself 1169 00:52:45,954 --> 00:52:47,831 and just, like, get my thoughts together. 1170 00:52:49,708 --> 00:52:51,751 I just don't understand 1171 00:52:51,835 --> 00:52:56,798 how our superpower seems like it's not our superpower anymore. 1172 00:52:57,424 --> 00:52:58,300 Um… 1173 00:53:04,014 --> 00:53:07,976 I feel like we had, like, such great communication. 1174 00:53:08,476 --> 00:53:13,273 And I don't understand… how 1175 00:53:13,899 --> 00:53:17,485 two weeks before our wedding, you drop this kind of bomb. 1176 00:53:18,236 --> 00:53:22,199 Like, I'm replaying and thinking of every conversation we've had 1177 00:53:22,282 --> 00:53:26,077 where this could have been brought up, and I'm thinking, "Why? Why? Why? Why?" 1178 00:53:27,370 --> 00:53:30,790 We're talking about joining a union. 1179 00:53:30,874 --> 00:53:33,001 Like, merging lives. 1180 00:53:36,046 --> 00:53:39,007 This is something I should have known before agreeing to say yes. 1181 00:53:44,387 --> 00:53:46,306 [Tyler] The last thing I wanna lose is your trust. 1182 00:53:47,599 --> 00:53:49,017 Especially two weeks before marriage 1183 00:53:49,100 --> 00:53:51,645 when I've been running around screaming how we're getting married. 1184 00:53:51,728 --> 00:53:54,981 You've been running around here talking about how we're getting married, 1185 00:53:55,065 --> 00:53:59,986 but you've also been running around saying how you wanna have kids now. 1186 00:54:00,070 --> 00:54:02,614 And it's like, "Whoa, how did you…" 1187 00:54:02,697 --> 00:54:04,324 It's like, "How did you, 1188 00:54:06,284 --> 00:54:08,411 like, even talk about any of that?" 1189 00:54:08,495 --> 00:54:10,580 I just can't wrap my mind around it. 1190 00:54:11,581 --> 00:54:14,376 Without even considering your past 1191 00:54:15,543 --> 00:54:16,378 at all. 1192 00:54:18,421 --> 00:54:21,007 Like, we've talked about kids every day. 1193 00:54:26,346 --> 00:54:29,057 It's not "your kid." Kids. 1194 00:54:33,770 --> 00:54:35,313 But they are your kids. 1195 00:54:37,357 --> 00:54:39,234 And it's with someone that you know. 1196 00:54:48,034 --> 00:54:49,452 What are their genders? 1197 00:54:49,953 --> 00:54:51,329 Two girls and a boy. 1198 00:54:51,413 --> 00:54:52,330 Mm. 1199 00:54:54,457 --> 00:54:56,293 Now, that's what, three extra kids? 1200 00:54:56,376 --> 00:54:57,294 Like, that's wild. 1201 00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:01,464 Who are these people? I just feel like I should know that. 1202 00:55:02,382 --> 00:55:03,758 "Here's a picture." 1203 00:55:03,842 --> 00:55:06,052 "You know, here's this, that." I have nothing. 1204 00:55:06,928 --> 00:55:08,346 You've yet to show me anything. 1205 00:55:08,430 --> 00:55:11,683 "Here are the documents that say, like, I'm uninvolved." 1206 00:55:11,766 --> 00:55:14,311 Like, I need to know everything. 1207 00:55:18,064 --> 00:55:22,986 I'm not upset by you trying to help a couple have kids. 1208 00:55:23,862 --> 00:55:27,574 I think that's admirable in certain ways, but the issue comes in 1209 00:55:27,657 --> 00:55:29,909 with me feeling like I was not 1210 00:55:30,577 --> 00:55:32,412 getting the full picture of you. 1211 00:55:34,914 --> 00:55:37,917 And once you're not given the full picture 1212 00:55:38,001 --> 00:55:40,628 of something, it's hard to not question everything. 1213 00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:44,341 Me being a single woman before this, 1214 00:55:44,924 --> 00:55:46,843 to come in this scenario, fall in love with a guy 1215 00:55:46,926 --> 00:55:50,388 who has three sperm babies, 1216 00:55:51,306 --> 00:55:55,310 sperm-donor babies is a lot to absorb. 1217 00:55:55,852 --> 00:55:59,064 And the wedding is in, like, two weeks. 1218 00:56:03,651 --> 00:56:06,363 [Tyler] I wanna make it clear, like, what you're feeling is valid. 1219 00:56:06,446 --> 00:56:07,530 [Ashley A] Mm-hmm. 1220 00:56:07,614 --> 00:56:10,742 And just sitting right here, I'm not asking for forgiveness. 1221 00:56:10,825 --> 00:56:11,951 I'm just asking for a chance. 1222 00:56:14,037 --> 00:56:15,413 I would love to marry you. 1223 00:56:16,498 --> 00:56:18,166 I do want a family with you. 1224 00:56:18,750 --> 00:56:20,043 I would like you here, 1225 00:56:20,126 --> 00:56:22,921 and if you need your space, you got your space. 1226 00:56:23,671 --> 00:56:27,175 I'll get you whatever you need to feel comfortable and safe. 1227 00:56:27,967 --> 00:56:31,638 At the end of the day, like I said, I respect you, and I want you to be happy. 1228 00:56:32,389 --> 00:56:33,598 Even if you tell me that, like, 1229 00:56:33,681 --> 00:56:36,643 "I've thought about it, and my happiness isn't with you." 1230 00:56:37,852 --> 00:56:38,728 Because 1231 00:56:40,105 --> 00:56:41,940 I'll fight until you tell me to stop fighting. 1232 00:56:52,659 --> 00:56:56,121 We were… very happy. 1233 00:56:58,998 --> 00:57:03,628 But if we can't count on each other, what the fuck do we have, Tyler? 1234 00:57:06,589 --> 00:57:09,801 It's like, what do we have? Love? Is love enough? 1235 00:57:12,512 --> 00:57:15,473 For a relationship? For a marriage? I don't know. 1236 00:57:19,561 --> 00:57:20,520 [sniffles] 1237 00:57:26,234 --> 00:57:27,527 I really am sorry. 1238 00:57:36,744 --> 00:57:39,706 I didn't see this coming. Like, I didn't see this coming at all. 1239 00:57:50,550 --> 00:57:52,969 And it's so crazy, 'cause I was so sure. 1240 00:57:55,430 --> 00:58:00,268 -[pop music playing] -♪ This didn't go how we planned it ♪ 1241 00:58:00,351 --> 00:58:02,854 [vocalizing] 1242 00:58:02,937 --> 00:58:06,316 ♪ There's a hole inside my heart… ♪ 1243 00:58:08,401 --> 00:58:09,235 [Tyler sniffles] 1244 00:58:09,319 --> 00:58:13,072 ♪ I thought you were the one I can't stand it… ♪ 1245 00:58:16,201 --> 00:58:17,243 I'm sorry. 1246 00:58:18,661 --> 00:58:19,871 I love you. 1247 00:58:21,414 --> 00:58:22,749 [Ashley A] I love you too. 1248 00:58:25,126 --> 00:58:26,252 [sniffles] 1249 00:58:27,879 --> 00:58:28,838 [sniffles] 1250 00:58:33,259 --> 00:58:34,761 Just give me a chance, please. 1251 00:58:38,890 --> 00:58:42,519 I don't want this to be the way our story goes or ends. 1252 00:58:43,394 --> 00:58:46,397 ♪ Look at the mess you've made ♪ 1253 00:58:46,481 --> 00:58:48,942 ♪ Left me to pick up the pieces ♪ 1254 00:58:49,025 --> 00:58:51,486 ♪ Look at the mess you've made ♪ 1255 00:58:53,988 --> 00:58:55,865 [pop music playing] 1256 00:58:56,866 --> 00:59:00,495 [Ramses] You're the person I want for me. Like, I want it to be us till the end. 1257 00:59:00,578 --> 00:59:02,956 [screaming] 1258 00:59:03,039 --> 00:59:06,125 I can always look in your eyes, be like, "This is the woman I fell in love with." 1259 00:59:06,209 --> 00:59:08,795 -I like that. -Give me some beautiful grandbabies. 1260 00:59:08,878 --> 00:59:12,298 [Tim] I am somebody who loves you and is invested in you. 1261 00:59:12,382 --> 00:59:14,425 [Garrett] I can't wait to start a life with Taylor. 1262 00:59:14,509 --> 00:59:17,095 -Why are you laughing? -You make me happy. I don't know. 1263 00:59:17,178 --> 00:59:19,097 Taylor had, like, this quiet confidence. 1264 00:59:19,180 --> 00:59:21,808 She just gradually worked her way into my heart. 1265 00:59:21,891 --> 00:59:23,893 -I don't know. -What are you worried about? 1266 00:59:23,977 --> 00:59:26,354 We don't really have enough history. 1267 00:59:28,565 --> 00:59:29,941 Sex is really important. 1268 00:59:30,024 --> 00:59:33,403 Just trying to figure out long-term if that would be an issue for me. 1269 00:59:33,987 --> 00:59:35,947 My parents drove here ten hours to meet you. 1270 00:59:36,030 --> 00:59:39,492 As soon as the cameras cut, you decided to go to sleep. 1271 00:59:39,576 --> 00:59:41,786 [Ashley A] He's a sperm donor. He has three kids. 1272 00:59:41,869 --> 00:59:43,663 -Yeah. -[man shouts] 1273 00:59:43,746 --> 00:59:45,582 -[Marissa] Who is that? -[man 2] Bohdi! 1274 00:59:45,665 --> 00:59:47,875 -[Bohdan] Hey. -[Marissa] Am I what you thought? 1275 00:59:47,959 --> 00:59:50,420 I guess I expected you to be pretty, in my head. [laughs] 1276 00:59:50,503 --> 00:59:52,046 You can call me pretty. 1277 00:59:52,130 --> 00:59:54,257 Hearing his voice, it feels very uncomfortable. 1278 00:59:54,340 --> 00:59:56,551 -You're a beautiful soul. -Thank you. 1279 00:59:56,634 --> 00:59:59,804 I was attracted to you from day one. I really like you. 1280 01:00:00,388 --> 01:00:02,515 Hey, love is maybe not blind! 1281 01:00:02,599 --> 01:00:04,309 …feel accepted. 1282 01:00:06,019 --> 01:00:08,563 I just, like, don't wanna rush into a decision. 1283 01:00:08,646 --> 01:00:09,981 -I know you're not-- -That's it. 1284 01:00:10,064 --> 01:00:12,984 -I don't wanna go through your phone. -I'm not hiding anything. 1285 01:00:13,067 --> 01:00:14,777 [Taylor] There's just too many red flags. 1286 01:00:15,778 --> 01:00:18,823 -What conversation with Katie? -Why don't you ask her what happened? 1287 01:00:18,906 --> 01:00:21,284 -Are we mature enough? -Are you mature enough, Nick? 1288 01:00:21,367 --> 01:00:24,537 That's not my fault that she came up to you five times and said I was hot. 1289 01:00:24,621 --> 01:00:26,456 [Alex] This is not gonna be easy. 1290 01:00:26,539 --> 01:00:30,960 And there's literally going to be multiple times we're going to bash heads, 1291 01:00:31,044 --> 01:00:32,795 but we have to know how to navigate it. 1292 01:00:34,297 --> 01:00:37,634 [officiant] Now is the time to decide if love is blind. 1293 01:00:37,717 --> 01:00:39,594 [man] He's marrying a stranger to us. 1294 01:00:39,677 --> 01:00:41,429 [Vanessa] He hasn't accepted you. 1295 01:00:41,512 --> 01:00:44,223 -[Taylor] Don't know if I'm gonna do this. -[officiant 2] Please rise. 1296 01:00:44,307 --> 01:00:49,187 [Garrett] I'm not going to say yes unless I mean it, and I mean it forever. 1297 01:00:49,270 --> 01:00:51,814 [dramatic music plays] 1298 01:00:53,024 --> 01:00:55,860 -["Sinner or Saint" playing] -♪ Am I a sinner ♪ 1299 01:00:57,904 --> 01:00:59,614 ♪ Or a saint? ♪ 1300 01:01:01,699 --> 01:01:03,701 ♪ Consumed with love ♪ 1301 01:01:05,703 --> 01:01:07,622 ♪ Or filled with hate? ♪