1 00:00:05,922 --> 00:00:07,841 -["Gonna Do My Thing" playing] -♪ Let's go! ♪ 2 00:00:09,009 --> 00:00:10,844 ♪ Hey, whoo! ♪ 3 00:00:10,927 --> 00:00:14,014 ♪ Gonna keep on doing what I do, yeah ♪ 4 00:00:15,223 --> 00:00:17,809 -I have a question about our wedding. -What do you have? 5 00:00:17,892 --> 00:00:20,562 How involved do you wanna be with, like, the wedding? 6 00:00:20,645 --> 00:00:21,771 Very involved. 7 00:00:21,855 --> 00:00:23,273 Mm-hmm. 8 00:00:23,356 --> 00:00:25,483 I do wanna make some decisions on, like, you know, 9 00:00:25,567 --> 00:00:27,694 just flowers and food and cake. 10 00:00:27,777 --> 00:00:30,113 I welcome your opinions. I really do. 11 00:00:30,196 --> 00:00:32,449 "I welcome your opinions on our wedding?" What-- 12 00:00:32,532 --> 00:00:36,494 -"I welcome your opinions." -Yeah, our, hers, theirs. 13 00:00:36,578 --> 00:00:39,748 You know, this is like every girl's dream. 14 00:00:40,331 --> 00:00:43,209 So, it's like, you gotta, like, be cocounsel. 15 00:00:44,753 --> 00:00:46,629 You can't be the main. I'm sorry. 16 00:00:46,713 --> 00:00:47,964 Just for this. 17 00:00:48,048 --> 00:00:50,258 Okay, I get to choose our kid's name. 18 00:00:50,341 --> 00:00:53,845 -Nah. All right, middle name. -[laughs] You can be cocounsel. 19 00:00:53,928 --> 00:00:54,804 No! 20 00:00:54,888 --> 00:00:57,057 Okay, the boy. 21 00:00:58,058 --> 00:00:59,267 -Deal. -Love that. 22 00:00:59,350 --> 00:01:01,269 -["Lift You Up" playing] -♪ I wanna lift you up ♪ 23 00:01:01,352 --> 00:01:05,190 ♪ Love is, love is Love is, love is, love is love ♪ 24 00:01:05,273 --> 00:01:07,275 ♪ I wanna lift you up ♪ 25 00:01:07,358 --> 00:01:08,777 ♪ Ooh, I wanna lift you up ♪ 26 00:01:08,860 --> 00:01:13,239 ♪ We will stay together 'Cause love is love, is love, is love ♪ 27 00:01:13,323 --> 00:01:14,824 ♪ Is love, is love… ♪ 28 00:01:14,908 --> 00:01:18,036 Oh, my gosh! This is so cool! 29 00:01:18,119 --> 00:01:19,788 [Stephen] I thought you'd like that. 30 00:01:19,871 --> 00:01:23,041 -[Monica] I get it 'cause of the flowers. -[laughing] 31 00:01:23,124 --> 00:01:25,794 -[woman] Hey, guys. How's it going? -[Monica] Hi. Good. How are you? 32 00:01:25,877 --> 00:01:27,712 [woman] I'm doing great. I'm Hailey. 33 00:01:27,796 --> 00:01:30,548 And I'm here to teach you a pressed flower workshop. 34 00:01:31,299 --> 00:01:33,593 -Shut up! Oh my God, I'm so excited. -Oh! 35 00:01:33,676 --> 00:01:36,179 -So, yeah. We'll set up over here. -Cool. 36 00:01:36,262 --> 00:01:39,265 I can't just give her flowers now at this point. 37 00:01:39,349 --> 00:01:41,226 I gotta do a little bit better. 38 00:01:41,309 --> 00:01:43,311 I am so excited. 39 00:01:43,394 --> 00:01:44,521 I figured because, you know, 40 00:01:45,396 --> 00:01:48,441 I kind of forgot about the flower thing, 41 00:01:48,525 --> 00:01:50,318 but these are gonna last forever. 42 00:01:50,401 --> 00:01:52,320 -[Monica] Thanks, babe! -[laughs] Yeah. 43 00:01:53,279 --> 00:01:55,824 -[Hailey] Have you tried pressing flowers? -[Monica] No. 44 00:01:55,907 --> 00:01:57,742 -That's what we're doing? -[Stephen] Mm-hmm. 45 00:01:57,826 --> 00:02:00,829 [Hailey] You can take a sentimental flower, like a wedding bouquet, 46 00:02:00,912 --> 00:02:03,581 and you can preserve those memories forever. 47 00:02:03,665 --> 00:02:04,707 I'm so excited. 48 00:02:04,791 --> 00:02:07,085 [Hailey] The tweezers are there to help handle the flowers. 49 00:02:07,168 --> 00:02:09,504 -Cool. What's this for? -[Hailey] That would be for gluing. 50 00:02:09,587 --> 00:02:10,463 [Monica] Okay, got it. 51 00:02:11,089 --> 00:02:12,507 Ooh! This one's pretty. 52 00:02:14,717 --> 00:02:17,053 I'm about to go overboard with this glue. I know I am. 53 00:02:17,137 --> 00:02:18,847 That looks like a perfect amount. 54 00:02:18,930 --> 00:02:20,557 I'm used to gluing, like, little models. 55 00:02:20,640 --> 00:02:23,393 When you say little models, I don't know if people know what that means. 56 00:02:23,476 --> 00:02:25,311 -Do you? -[Stephen] Little plastic models. 57 00:02:25,395 --> 00:02:27,605 -I actually do. I play D&D as well. -[Monica] You do? 58 00:02:27,689 --> 00:02:29,482 He's very into it. 59 00:02:30,066 --> 00:02:30,984 It's fun. 60 00:02:31,985 --> 00:02:32,902 Ooh! 61 00:02:32,986 --> 00:02:34,904 [Monica] Wow. It's so pretty! 62 00:02:35,530 --> 00:02:38,741 It's not a competition, but if it was, Hailey? 63 00:02:38,825 --> 00:02:41,536 -Which one, Hailey? Which one? -I can't choose a favorite! 64 00:02:42,954 --> 00:02:45,290 -I like your color scheme better. -Fuck! 65 00:02:45,373 --> 00:02:48,960 But I do like how you've balanced your colors out across the whole frame. 66 00:02:49,043 --> 00:02:50,587 I feel like you voted for his. 67 00:02:50,670 --> 00:02:53,965 I'm used to winning the participation trophy in a lot of… 68 00:02:54,048 --> 00:02:55,049 [laughing] 69 00:02:55,133 --> 00:02:57,677 [Hailey] Your participation trophy is a beautiful piece of art. 70 00:02:57,760 --> 00:02:58,803 -Yes, it is. -Thank you. 71 00:02:58,887 --> 00:03:00,680 -I love it. -Thank you so much. 72 00:03:00,763 --> 00:03:03,808 -Yeah, this has been awesome. So cool. -[Monica] It's been awesome. 73 00:03:03,892 --> 00:03:06,561 I think that mine's prettier. 74 00:03:06,644 --> 00:03:08,354 You know what? You're right. 75 00:03:08,438 --> 00:03:10,190 -Thank you. -[Stephen] You're right. 76 00:03:11,691 --> 00:03:13,234 [Monica chuckles] 77 00:03:13,318 --> 00:03:16,279 -So cool. Yours looks so good. -Yeah? Thank you. 78 00:03:16,362 --> 00:03:19,199 -[Monica] I'm jealous, by the way. -[laughing] 79 00:03:19,282 --> 00:03:21,201 Flowers are nice, yes. 80 00:03:21,284 --> 00:03:22,994 But I'm sure there are people that are like, 81 00:03:23,077 --> 00:03:25,246 "If I do this, I'm gonna get laid. Cool." 82 00:03:25,330 --> 00:03:27,373 That is a great perk. I mean, let's be honest. 83 00:03:27,457 --> 00:03:30,710 If you do something right and you get rewarded with sex, like… 84 00:03:32,086 --> 00:03:34,881 Did I tell you? This morning, I did my Pilates class with Taylor. 85 00:03:34,964 --> 00:03:36,758 How are her and Garrett doing? 86 00:03:37,383 --> 00:03:40,136 Great. Taylor's dad is being similar to my dad. 87 00:03:40,220 --> 00:03:41,221 Really? 88 00:03:41,304 --> 00:03:43,806 Yeah, like, he doesn't wanna film, 89 00:03:43,890 --> 00:03:46,559 but he's, like, kind of a step further of like… 90 00:03:46,643 --> 00:03:48,937 You know, my dad's like, "I really don't wanna be on camera, 91 00:03:49,020 --> 00:03:50,563 but I'll walk you down the aisle." 92 00:03:50,647 --> 00:03:53,650 Seems like it's not out of a lack of support. 93 00:03:53,733 --> 00:03:55,443 -[Monica] He can't wait to meet you. -Yeah. 94 00:03:55,526 --> 00:03:59,405 Part of him is like, "Can't wait to meet this guy." 95 00:03:59,489 --> 00:04:01,616 "It sounds like he has a good head on his shoulders." 96 00:04:01,699 --> 00:04:05,203 But the more important thing is, like, "Do you love my daughter?" 97 00:04:05,286 --> 00:04:07,205 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 98 00:04:07,288 --> 00:04:09,624 My dad's also whispered to me a couple times on the phone. 99 00:04:09,707 --> 00:04:14,796 He's been like, "How do you know he's not a liar like your last boyfriend?" 100 00:04:14,879 --> 00:04:17,757 -[laughing] -"How do you know this guy's not a liar?" 101 00:04:17,840 --> 00:04:19,259 That's funny. 102 00:04:19,342 --> 00:04:20,510 How are you feeling? 103 00:04:20,593 --> 00:04:25,056 I am excited to prove to him that this is genuine. 104 00:04:25,139 --> 00:04:29,477 I feel relaxed for the first time in a while. 105 00:04:31,980 --> 00:04:34,232 I feel like this is where I'm supposed to be right now. 106 00:04:34,315 --> 00:04:37,193 -[pop music playing] -[vocalizing] 107 00:04:40,280 --> 00:04:41,864 Cheersing to… 108 00:04:41,948 --> 00:04:43,283 A good date? 109 00:04:43,366 --> 00:04:48,288 A great date and these flowers being in our new home forever. 110 00:04:49,038 --> 00:04:50,957 -I love you. -'Cause they're gonna last. 111 00:04:55,420 --> 00:04:56,546 Yum. 112 00:04:56,629 --> 00:04:59,507 -[laughing] -Eww! No, just kidding. 113 00:04:59,590 --> 00:05:03,303 ♪ Here we go I wanna get down, down, down… ♪ 114 00:05:03,386 --> 00:05:04,262 [laughing] 115 00:05:04,345 --> 00:05:07,223 ♪ So turn it up loud, loud, loud ♪ 116 00:05:07,307 --> 00:05:09,517 ♪ The only thing I've gotta say ♪ 117 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:12,020 ♪ I ain't gonna wait I want it now, now… ♪ 118 00:05:12,103 --> 00:05:15,815 -[Hannah] You're nervous. I can tell. -[Nick D] I'm not nervous. More excited. 119 00:05:16,691 --> 00:05:18,401 You're gonna see a bunch of cute pictures. 120 00:05:18,484 --> 00:05:20,403 You're gonna see my baby cheeks. 121 00:05:20,486 --> 00:05:21,863 -They were so fat. -Your parents. 122 00:05:21,946 --> 00:05:23,281 [Nick D] They're not here. 123 00:05:27,660 --> 00:05:29,203 -Welcome. -Hi. 124 00:05:29,287 --> 00:05:30,705 [laughing] 125 00:05:30,788 --> 00:05:34,834 Living with my parents could be seen as a negative maybe to some people, 126 00:05:34,917 --> 00:05:37,503 but I told Hannah from the jump, this is where I'm living now. 127 00:05:37,587 --> 00:05:38,796 [Hannah] Lots of pictures. 128 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:39,922 [Nick D] Yeah. 129 00:05:40,006 --> 00:05:41,424 You know who that is, right? 130 00:05:41,507 --> 00:05:42,759 -Is that you? -That's me. 131 00:05:42,842 --> 00:05:43,968 [Hannah] You were cute. 132 00:05:44,052 --> 00:05:46,137 -Told you I had fat cheeks. -Yeah. 133 00:05:46,220 --> 00:05:48,848 I was on that football journey until a couple years ago, 134 00:05:48,931 --> 00:05:50,558 so it didn't really make sense for me 135 00:05:50,641 --> 00:05:53,603 to rent my own place and pay rent while I'm gone. 136 00:05:53,686 --> 00:05:55,271 Who are these people? 137 00:05:55,355 --> 00:05:57,857 -That's my parents on their wedding day. -Oh, really? 138 00:05:57,940 --> 00:06:00,777 Yep. My dad was a stud, right? So was my mom. 139 00:06:00,860 --> 00:06:04,489 The fact that I have a really cool spot where my parents are still at, 140 00:06:04,572 --> 00:06:06,074 they like the fact that I'm here. 141 00:06:06,157 --> 00:06:09,077 If you wanna, you know, think it's embarrassing, that's fine. 142 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:12,622 I don't. I love my parents. I love my space. So it's good with me. 143 00:06:13,289 --> 00:06:15,375 -All right, show me around, man. -Come on. 144 00:06:15,458 --> 00:06:18,461 -You really are so Catholic. -Yeah. 145 00:06:18,544 --> 00:06:21,798 This is where my mom works, like, at this computer 24/7. 146 00:06:21,881 --> 00:06:24,300 -[Hannah] Lawyer at work. She loves Jesus. -[Nick D] Yeah. 147 00:06:24,384 --> 00:06:25,760 Uh-huh. 148 00:06:25,843 --> 00:06:28,346 -Does she know I'm not religious? -No. 149 00:06:28,429 --> 00:06:29,972 -[Hannah] Will she care, you think? -No. 150 00:06:30,056 --> 00:06:33,768 As long as she sees good values in you, that's all that matters. 151 00:06:33,851 --> 00:06:36,854 It's nice in here. So who cooks? Does your family cook for you? 152 00:06:36,938 --> 00:06:39,941 -Or do you cook for your family? -My mom usually cooks. 153 00:06:40,024 --> 00:06:42,402 But lately my parents have been like, "Make a meal for us." 154 00:06:42,485 --> 00:06:44,612 -[Hannah] Interesting. -You wanna say hi to Peeka? 155 00:06:44,695 --> 00:06:45,947 [Hannah] Is she a scaredy-cat? 156 00:06:46,030 --> 00:06:48,866 Yeah, she's a scaredy-cat. That's your new mommy. 157 00:06:48,950 --> 00:06:52,161 Hi, Peeka! Is that your Peeka's food and water? 158 00:06:52,245 --> 00:06:53,329 [Nick D] Yeah. 159 00:06:53,413 --> 00:06:55,164 Are you feeding Peeka or is your dad? 160 00:06:55,248 --> 00:06:56,958 [Nick D] My dad feeds Peeka in the morning. 161 00:06:57,041 --> 00:07:00,711 -I can't get up that early for her. -Nick, come on, you're 28! 162 00:07:00,795 --> 00:07:03,256 -[Nick D] My room is here. -[Hannah] You lived in the basement? 163 00:07:03,339 --> 00:07:05,883 -[Nick D] This is my old room. -This was your childhood room? 164 00:07:05,967 --> 00:07:07,427 [Nick D] Yeah. Check this out. 165 00:07:07,510 --> 00:07:10,388 -[Hannah] Have you read those books? -[Nick D] I read all of them. 166 00:07:10,471 --> 00:07:11,889 -Whoa! -For school or whatever. 167 00:07:11,973 --> 00:07:14,183 I actually have a lot of my clothes in here too. 168 00:07:14,267 --> 00:07:17,478 This was, like, my letterman for my football. 169 00:07:17,562 --> 00:07:20,314 You know, I got, like, a couple jerseys and stuff like that. 170 00:07:20,398 --> 00:07:23,317 And then look, this is my height chart, and that's 11. 171 00:07:23,401 --> 00:07:24,569 That's the last time I did it. 172 00:07:24,652 --> 00:07:26,904 I haven't grown much since then. That's cute, right? 173 00:07:27,655 --> 00:07:30,825 -[Hannah] When did you stop growing? -Uh, probably like 21, 20. 174 00:07:31,826 --> 00:07:34,287 Now you ready to go check out the nitty-gritty? 175 00:07:34,370 --> 00:07:36,038 -Oh, okay. -Right in here. 176 00:07:36,122 --> 00:07:38,332 -Big boy's room. -Yep, big boy's room. 177 00:07:40,334 --> 00:07:42,587 -Welcome to the dungeon. -[Hannah] It's big. 178 00:07:42,670 --> 00:07:45,423 You don't wanna, check and see, like, rummage through it? 179 00:07:45,506 --> 00:07:48,134 Oh, no, I have a feeling your mom cleaned it before I got here. 180 00:07:48,217 --> 00:07:50,720 Nah, she didn't clean this space. I cleaned it before I left. 181 00:07:50,803 --> 00:07:52,513 But I always keep it clean. 182 00:07:53,222 --> 00:07:56,434 But then, yeah, this is, like, my little living room space. 183 00:07:56,517 --> 00:07:59,479 -That's where I do my work, over here. -[Hannah] Got an office. 184 00:07:59,562 --> 00:08:02,523 [Nick D] When you need someone to call, Nick Dorka, Rice Properties Group. 185 00:08:02,607 --> 00:08:03,900 -Keep it, all right? -Yeah. 186 00:08:03,983 --> 00:08:06,027 In case you need a realtor, you know who to call. 187 00:08:06,110 --> 00:08:08,905 -I thought you were buying a house, Nick. -[Nick D laughs] I'm saying… 188 00:08:08,988 --> 00:08:10,031 -Yeah. -[laughs] 189 00:08:10,114 --> 00:08:13,075 And this is Buffy. This is my first stuffed animal. 190 00:08:13,159 --> 00:08:14,035 This is Buffy. 191 00:08:14,994 --> 00:08:15,995 Okay. 192 00:08:16,078 --> 00:08:17,497 Is this your closet? What's this? 193 00:08:17,580 --> 00:08:19,999 -[Nick D] There's a pool table in there. -The pool table? 194 00:08:20,082 --> 00:08:22,668 Yeah, but we just keep a bunch of shit in there. Yeah. 195 00:08:22,752 --> 00:08:25,630 [Hannah] Nick, you were like, "I got a pool table in my crib." 196 00:08:25,713 --> 00:08:27,882 -Exactly. -With storage on top. 197 00:08:27,965 --> 00:08:29,509 -Yeah, with storage on top. -[laughing] 198 00:08:29,592 --> 00:08:33,221 [Nick D] My dad and I though, we used to come down here every day and play. 199 00:08:33,304 --> 00:08:35,014 -[Hannah] Oh, yeah? -It wasn't this messy. 200 00:08:35,097 --> 00:08:38,184 And this is where the magic happens. 201 00:08:38,267 --> 00:08:39,894 -Yeah? -The magic that doesn't happen. 202 00:08:39,977 --> 00:08:41,395 -[Hannah] "Mom, Dad, shh!" -[laughs] 203 00:08:41,479 --> 00:08:42,980 "I'm bringing a girl home tonight." 204 00:08:44,023 --> 00:08:45,107 [Nick] It is odd, right? 205 00:08:45,191 --> 00:08:49,737 Like, I haven't had girlfriends that I bring over to the house, right? 206 00:08:49,820 --> 00:08:52,615 You're the third person who's ever kind of seen this space. 207 00:08:52,698 --> 00:08:55,576 But, um, I feel like this didn't go too bad. 208 00:08:55,660 --> 00:08:56,494 It's nerve-racking. 209 00:08:56,577 --> 00:08:59,080 I might be a little bit nervous, but I'm at the point with you, 210 00:08:59,163 --> 00:09:00,831 where you accept me for who I am. 211 00:09:00,915 --> 00:09:01,958 No, it's nice. 212 00:09:02,041 --> 00:09:04,877 But you were talking about, "I got a pool table." 213 00:09:04,961 --> 00:09:08,256 I was expecting this, like… I was expecting, like, a man's den. 214 00:09:08,339 --> 00:09:11,551 I was expecting, like, the pool table in the center and the liquor on the wall. 215 00:09:11,634 --> 00:09:13,594 -[Nick D] Liquor on the wall. -Yeah. 216 00:09:13,678 --> 00:09:16,931 -[Nick D] Nah, the liquor's upstairs. -[Hannah] I wish you were handier. 217 00:09:17,014 --> 00:09:18,975 [Nick D] Should've picked a different guy, babe. 218 00:09:19,058 --> 00:09:21,394 Can't mount a TV. Did you hang up that mirror? 219 00:09:21,477 --> 00:09:25,189 Yeah, I helped my dad hang that. Yeah. It was two. I actually did. 220 00:09:25,273 --> 00:09:26,941 How long have you lived in the basement? 221 00:09:27,024 --> 00:09:30,653 Probably, like, the last two years. 222 00:09:30,736 --> 00:09:33,823 -Where'd you live before that? Upstairs? -Yeah, yeah. 223 00:09:33,906 --> 00:09:36,325 Right after we do get married, 224 00:09:36,409 --> 00:09:38,077 it's gonna move pretty quick, right? 225 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:40,830 -Mm-hmm. -Like, we'll probably move right in. 226 00:09:43,833 --> 00:09:45,626 I don't think I'm moving into your basement. 227 00:09:46,460 --> 00:09:49,672 You're gonna be moving in with me, right? You're moving into my apartment. 228 00:09:49,755 --> 00:09:51,757 -You ready to move out? -Fuck yeah. 229 00:09:52,258 --> 00:09:53,676 [pop music playing] 230 00:09:53,759 --> 00:09:55,219 [laughing] 231 00:09:56,178 --> 00:09:59,473 ♪ Move, baby, move, baby, move ♪ 232 00:09:59,557 --> 00:10:01,809 ♪ Gonna touch the stars ♪ 233 00:10:01,892 --> 00:10:03,060 ♪ Gonna touch the stars… ♪ 234 00:10:03,144 --> 00:10:04,228 [ice rattling] 235 00:10:04,312 --> 00:10:05,730 ♪ Move, baby, move, baby… ♪ 236 00:10:05,813 --> 00:10:07,231 This is a little vibe. 237 00:10:09,775 --> 00:10:11,277 -[Marissa] Hi! -Hello! 238 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:12,820 Hello-hello. 239 00:10:12,903 --> 00:10:16,449 -These are my girls! -[laughing] 240 00:10:17,408 --> 00:10:19,118 [woman] Oh, my gosh, nice to meet you! 241 00:10:21,162 --> 00:10:23,414 -Let's do a cheers. -Okay. 242 00:10:23,497 --> 00:10:24,332 [Marissa] Okay! 243 00:10:24,415 --> 00:10:27,251 -Cheers to Marissa and Ramses. -Marissa and Rams. 244 00:10:27,335 --> 00:10:29,962 -[woman] God, nice to finally meet you. -Future Prashads. 245 00:10:30,046 --> 00:10:32,173 -[woman 2] Oh, my God. Future Prashads. -[laughing] 246 00:10:32,882 --> 00:10:35,426 Yeah, so how was everything? 247 00:10:35,509 --> 00:10:37,553 It's been going really well. 248 00:10:38,137 --> 00:10:40,139 -It's been so easy for us. -Yeah. 249 00:10:40,222 --> 00:10:43,017 -We keep talking about that. -It's been so easy. 250 00:10:43,100 --> 00:10:47,063 What are the things we need to focus on? 'Cause yeah, the marriage is coming up. 251 00:10:47,146 --> 00:10:49,732 It's a big decision. It's not something I wanna take lightly. 252 00:10:49,815 --> 00:10:52,610 -[Marissa] We've talked about everything. -[Ramses] A lot. 253 00:10:52,693 --> 00:10:55,988 We've talked about traumas. We've talked about finances, lifestyle. 254 00:10:56,072 --> 00:10:58,074 -Like, religion. -Yeah, religion. 255 00:10:58,157 --> 00:11:01,911 Last night was probably our, like, first moment that we had… 256 00:11:01,994 --> 00:11:04,955 -I don't know if it was a challenge-- -It wasn't a challenge. 257 00:11:05,039 --> 00:11:08,793 [Ramses] For you, I felt like it was a challenge talking about that topic. 258 00:11:08,876 --> 00:11:11,545 Yeah, we were talking about my military service. 259 00:11:12,797 --> 00:11:16,092 It was, like, the first time someone I was dating isn't like, 260 00:11:16,175 --> 00:11:18,636 "Your military service is amazing. It's the best thing ever." 261 00:11:18,719 --> 00:11:20,763 It's more like, "Well," you know… 262 00:11:20,846 --> 00:11:23,265 [laughing] If I were in the military, he would not date me. 263 00:11:24,266 --> 00:11:25,267 Oh! [sighs] 264 00:11:25,351 --> 00:11:29,021 If she were to go back into the military, 265 00:11:29,105 --> 00:11:31,649 would that cause a problem? 266 00:11:31,732 --> 00:11:34,026 -I'm not going back in, but what if I did? -Yeah. 267 00:11:34,110 --> 00:11:36,112 But if you did… but, yeah, if you did, 268 00:11:36,195 --> 00:11:39,031 I mean, yeah, that is, like, a line-- 269 00:11:39,115 --> 00:11:42,284 -That would automatically be divorce? -[Ramses] It's… 270 00:11:43,077 --> 00:11:43,994 It's… yeah. 271 00:11:45,955 --> 00:11:47,164 It's a moral thing for me. 272 00:11:47,248 --> 00:11:49,834 Your politics is, like, tied to your ethics, 273 00:11:49,917 --> 00:11:51,252 and that's something that… 274 00:11:51,335 --> 00:11:53,462 It's opposed to, like, who I am. 275 00:11:53,546 --> 00:11:55,339 Even though you love her and everything? 276 00:11:55,423 --> 00:11:57,758 -I love her. -Just because of that, end everything. 277 00:11:57,842 --> 00:12:00,219 I don't view politics and those type of things 278 00:12:00,302 --> 00:12:03,556 as something that exists in a vacuum. Like, just these ideas. 279 00:12:03,639 --> 00:12:05,182 Like, they affect real people. 280 00:12:05,266 --> 00:12:08,144 And I feel like it's a very… it's a morality thing. 281 00:12:08,227 --> 00:12:10,563 So if I'm joining the military, 282 00:12:10,646 --> 00:12:13,566 we're on a different, like, moral plane at that point? 283 00:12:13,649 --> 00:12:15,860 We're on a different moral plane at that point, yeah. 284 00:12:15,943 --> 00:12:17,862 -This was a part of her life. -[Ramses] For sure. 285 00:12:17,945 --> 00:12:21,031 And it is… I mean, I was in as well. 286 00:12:21,115 --> 00:12:24,702 -Yeah. -It's something to be proud of for us. 287 00:12:24,785 --> 00:12:25,619 [Ramses] Yeah. 288 00:12:25,703 --> 00:12:29,165 And everyone that we served with was, that was a huge part of our life. 289 00:12:29,248 --> 00:12:32,793 I have a… I mean, I'm so… I love the military. 290 00:12:32,877 --> 00:12:37,214 -[chuckles] So, like, I'm just like… -I understand all of this is very nuanced. 291 00:12:37,298 --> 00:12:40,509 I don't wanna make sweeping, like, judgments on people. 292 00:12:40,593 --> 00:12:42,428 If you've been in the military or anything, 293 00:12:42,511 --> 00:12:44,805 if you had friends walking around, like, MAGA hats, 294 00:12:44,889 --> 00:12:46,891 I wouldn't, like, immediately cut them off. 295 00:12:46,974 --> 00:12:49,143 I trust your heart and trust who you are as a person. 296 00:12:49,226 --> 00:12:50,936 I'm gonna trust that these are good people. 297 00:12:51,020 --> 00:12:52,313 Where are you from? 298 00:12:52,396 --> 00:12:54,356 -[Ramses] I'm from Venezuela. Yeah. -Okay. 299 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:56,650 And Venezuela has a very complicated history with the US. 300 00:12:56,734 --> 00:12:59,612 I've just been exposed to the other side of things a lot 301 00:12:59,695 --> 00:13:00,905 and to different views, 302 00:13:00,988 --> 00:13:03,824 even like when we talk about things like Palestine right now. 303 00:13:03,908 --> 00:13:07,912 It's just like, I'm on the… I always stand with people 304 00:13:07,995 --> 00:13:11,582 who are under the hammer of, like, US imperialism. 305 00:13:11,665 --> 00:13:13,292 I feel for those people, 306 00:13:13,375 --> 00:13:15,503 and so, like, it's hard for me 307 00:13:15,586 --> 00:13:18,714 to, like, see myself in the future 308 00:13:18,798 --> 00:13:21,425 with someone who is actively… 309 00:13:22,885 --> 00:13:25,054 -…being involved in the military. -Yeah. 310 00:13:25,554 --> 00:13:26,764 -It wouldn't work. -Right. 311 00:13:26,847 --> 00:13:30,059 We're aligned on everything except for the military. 312 00:13:30,142 --> 00:13:32,937 If you have a disagreement on what you want to teach your kids 313 00:13:33,020 --> 00:13:35,689 in the future and what kind of morals you want them to have, 314 00:13:35,773 --> 00:13:37,441 how are you gonna handle that? 315 00:13:38,067 --> 00:13:41,195 Even with religion, we're going to teach our kids about religion, 316 00:13:41,278 --> 00:13:43,197 but same with the military. 317 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:46,742 -That's what I was about to say. -I'm not gonna do what my mom did. 318 00:13:46,826 --> 00:13:48,702 She was like, "You need to go into military." 319 00:13:48,786 --> 00:13:52,081 If my child wants to go into the military, I will support them going in. 320 00:13:52,164 --> 00:13:53,749 -You as well? -[Ramses] That's the thing. 321 00:13:53,833 --> 00:13:57,253 I will instill certain values and certain things to them, 322 00:13:57,336 --> 00:13:59,839 but they're free to make those decisions for themselves. 323 00:13:59,922 --> 00:14:02,633 I'm gonna teach them I was in the military. I wanted them to know, 324 00:14:02,716 --> 00:14:04,635 like, that was part of my life. 325 00:14:04,718 --> 00:14:06,720 If there's a ship around, I wanna take him to a ship. 326 00:14:06,804 --> 00:14:08,681 I wanna be like, "This is what Mom did." 327 00:14:08,764 --> 00:14:12,768 I wanna teach them about, like, all that so they can make their own decision. 328 00:14:12,852 --> 00:14:15,187 [Ramses] I think that's what I've always come back to with us 329 00:14:15,271 --> 00:14:17,565 is just, like, we communicate very well. 330 00:14:17,648 --> 00:14:20,818 When we talked about philosophical things, talked about life, talked about exes, 331 00:14:20,901 --> 00:14:24,029 talked about future, past, it was always, like, very aligned. 332 00:14:24,113 --> 00:14:26,156 But I realized in the experience, 333 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:28,659 I realized when I was looking at all my past relationships 334 00:14:28,742 --> 00:14:30,619 that I was, like, allowing people in my life 335 00:14:30,703 --> 00:14:32,955 who I just, like, didn't line up morally with 336 00:14:33,038 --> 00:14:34,623 or our values weren't aligned. 337 00:14:34,707 --> 00:14:37,585 And it was like, "Maybe if I just go into this experience, 338 00:14:37,668 --> 00:14:41,797 and I'm just, like, 100% honest about, like, where I stand on everything, 339 00:14:41,881 --> 00:14:45,217 what I want my children to believe in and, like, how I wanna raise my kids 340 00:14:45,301 --> 00:14:47,136 and my future, what I want it to look like, 341 00:14:47,219 --> 00:14:49,930 I'll find the person who will align with that." It happened to be him. 342 00:14:50,014 --> 00:14:50,973 Yeah. 343 00:14:51,056 --> 00:14:53,142 -Which worked out. I'm very happy. -[laughs] 344 00:14:53,767 --> 00:14:54,727 I'm happy too. 345 00:14:55,352 --> 00:14:56,645 You do have a big heart. 346 00:14:56,729 --> 00:14:59,023 -And Marissa has a big heart. -Yeah. 347 00:14:59,106 --> 00:15:02,318 -Don't you start, Brenda. Don't do this. -[laughing] 348 00:15:02,401 --> 00:15:05,321 And of course, we're her friends. We want the best for her. 349 00:15:05,404 --> 00:15:06,447 [Ramses] Yeah, yeah. 350 00:15:07,615 --> 00:15:09,158 Brenda always gets me crying. [laughing] 351 00:15:09,241 --> 00:15:10,826 -[Brenda] I know. -[laughing] 352 00:15:10,910 --> 00:15:13,120 -Sorry. -[Ramses] Go ahead. Let out them tears. 353 00:15:13,203 --> 00:15:16,582 -[pop music playing] -♪ I promise you, I ♪ 354 00:15:16,665 --> 00:15:18,667 ♪ I promise you, I ♪ 355 00:15:19,209 --> 00:15:23,505 ♪ I promise you, I won't let you down ♪ 356 00:15:23,589 --> 00:15:25,716 ♪ I promise you, I ♪ 357 00:15:25,799 --> 00:15:28,135 ♪ I promise you, I ♪ 358 00:15:28,218 --> 00:15:32,640 ♪ I promise you, I won't let you down ♪ 359 00:15:32,723 --> 00:15:34,183 -[Alex] We're matching again. -I know. 360 00:15:34,266 --> 00:15:36,644 My dad, I mean, he's literally the only one… 361 00:15:36,727 --> 00:15:37,561 [Tim] Mm-hmm. 362 00:15:37,645 --> 00:15:39,396 [chuckles] …in the family that does not know. 363 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:42,775 -[Tim] You want me to talk to him aside? -Separately. 364 00:15:42,858 --> 00:15:43,692 [Tim] Okay. 365 00:15:43,776 --> 00:15:46,528 I want us, when we go in there, we're just gonna talk. 366 00:15:47,112 --> 00:15:48,864 "Hey, this is my man." 367 00:15:48,948 --> 00:15:52,493 "Have any questions? We are living together right now." 368 00:15:52,576 --> 00:15:55,788 "We did, like, a crazy experiment. Let me tell you about it." 369 00:15:55,871 --> 00:15:57,665 We can leave the proposal out. 370 00:15:58,165 --> 00:16:00,626 "We did an experiment to basically find our match." 371 00:16:01,460 --> 00:16:03,921 "And now we're testing to see if we can live together." 372 00:16:04,421 --> 00:16:06,465 -Da-da-da-da-da-da. -[Tim] Okay. 373 00:16:06,548 --> 00:16:08,592 -Then I'll talk him-- -No. 374 00:16:08,676 --> 00:16:10,844 -He cannot get up. We will get up. -[Tim] Okay. 375 00:16:10,928 --> 00:16:14,556 -Like, him walking is limited. -[Tim] Understood. 376 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:16,475 [Alex] So, me, my mom and my brothers, 377 00:16:16,558 --> 00:16:20,479 we'll get up, and we'll go out here. 378 00:16:20,562 --> 00:16:22,731 -Or somewhere. I don't know. -[Tim] Okay. 379 00:16:22,815 --> 00:16:25,109 -And then you can talk to him. -[Tim] Okay. 380 00:16:25,192 --> 00:16:28,112 Leading up to this, she was very stressed out about, 381 00:16:28,195 --> 00:16:30,948 "When you meet my family, are you gonna ask my dad?" 382 00:16:31,031 --> 00:16:33,075 "Will my dad find out? Will my dad say yes?" 383 00:16:33,158 --> 00:16:35,327 [Alex] That's why I have my ring off, 'cause I just want. 384 00:16:35,411 --> 00:16:36,245 [Tim] I get it. 385 00:16:36,328 --> 00:16:39,665 Alex's love for her family is the reason why I fell in love with her. 386 00:16:39,748 --> 00:16:42,167 Not the only reason, but it's kind of rooted in that. 387 00:16:42,251 --> 00:16:44,586 So meeting them is like meeting an extension of her. 388 00:16:44,670 --> 00:16:46,588 -[Alex] I'll see you in there. -[Tim] Okay. 389 00:16:46,672 --> 00:16:49,883 Meeting the people that the person I love loves, 390 00:16:49,967 --> 00:16:52,761 I hope they feel comfortable with where this process is going. 391 00:16:52,845 --> 00:16:54,930 -Hey. -Hey, hey, hey, hey. 392 00:16:55,431 --> 00:16:57,891 I was just with Tim. 393 00:16:57,975 --> 00:17:00,477 He's gonna come out shortly. He's still grilling. 394 00:17:00,561 --> 00:17:02,021 So you guys can meet him! 395 00:17:02,104 --> 00:17:03,772 -[Richard] Who? -[Alex] Hi, fam! 396 00:17:03,856 --> 00:17:04,982 Dad, come on. 397 00:17:05,065 --> 00:17:06,650 -[laughs] -[Zandra] I'm excited. 398 00:17:06,734 --> 00:17:08,110 [Alex] I'm happy to have you here. 399 00:17:08,193 --> 00:17:11,864 Especially y'all two, 'cause I haven't gotten y'all in a room for a while. 400 00:17:11,947 --> 00:17:14,491 I haven't seen Richard in a long time. 401 00:17:15,075 --> 00:17:16,785 -[Alex] How do you feel, Dad? -What? 402 00:17:16,869 --> 00:17:18,662 [Alex] About meeting Tim. 403 00:17:18,746 --> 00:17:21,290 -Is that okay with you? -Do I have any choice? 404 00:17:22,833 --> 00:17:24,043 Love you. 405 00:17:24,626 --> 00:17:26,587 -Love you. -[Zandra laughing] 406 00:17:26,670 --> 00:17:29,506 Dad, for real, like, stop. [laughs] 407 00:17:29,590 --> 00:17:31,550 [Richard] I'm interested in meeting him. 408 00:17:31,633 --> 00:17:34,011 I can't say I'm excited. 409 00:17:34,094 --> 00:17:35,137 Okay, that's fair. 410 00:17:35,220 --> 00:17:37,890 I do wanna go into, like, this whole experiment we did 411 00:17:37,973 --> 00:17:40,142 that we're currently in the middle of right now. 412 00:17:40,225 --> 00:17:42,227 -That would be nice. -That would be. 413 00:17:42,311 --> 00:17:45,439 He is someone that I am with, I've chosen to be with. 414 00:17:45,522 --> 00:17:49,526 We've had endless conversations about things, 415 00:17:49,610 --> 00:17:51,820 family, experiences, 416 00:17:51,904 --> 00:17:54,615 where we've come from, what's important to us. 417 00:17:55,199 --> 00:17:56,992 I picked him. He picked me. 418 00:17:57,076 --> 00:17:58,619 We do live here together, 419 00:17:58,702 --> 00:18:00,788 but I also wanna make sure, like, 420 00:18:02,164 --> 00:18:04,249 you guys feel comfortable with him as well, 421 00:18:04,333 --> 00:18:08,504 because if you guys don't like him, then I can't see myself with him. 422 00:18:08,587 --> 00:18:10,297 He's coming in right now though. 423 00:18:11,882 --> 00:18:13,133 -Good afternoon, everybody. -Hey! 424 00:18:13,217 --> 00:18:14,718 -Hi! -Hi! How are you? 425 00:18:14,802 --> 00:18:16,929 -Excuse me. Let me put this down. -[Ian] Sure. 426 00:18:17,012 --> 00:18:19,139 -[Tim] Ma'am, how are you? -[Zandra] Good! How are you? 427 00:18:19,223 --> 00:18:21,350 -I'm well. How about yourself? Tim. -Good. 428 00:18:21,433 --> 00:18:23,102 -Tim. -[Tim] Yeah, pleasure to meet you. 429 00:18:23,185 --> 00:18:25,187 -How are you? Good to meet you. -[Ian] Ian. 430 00:18:25,270 --> 00:18:27,481 -Hey, how are you? Evan. -I'm good. Tim. 431 00:18:27,564 --> 00:18:29,817 -[Tim] Sir. -Tim, how are you? 432 00:18:29,900 --> 00:18:32,611 -Well. Really happy to meet you, sir. -Nice to meet you. 433 00:18:32,694 --> 00:18:35,280 -Yes, sir. It's a pleasure. -[Alex] You wanna sit over here? 434 00:18:35,364 --> 00:18:36,198 [Tim] Of course. 435 00:18:36,281 --> 00:18:38,992 -You wanna tell them about yourself? -Sure. 436 00:18:39,076 --> 00:18:41,745 Yeah. So, I'm actually from Georgia, Augusta. 437 00:18:41,829 --> 00:18:44,832 I worked in a lot of different government jobs for a while. 438 00:18:44,915 --> 00:18:47,000 I currently consult with a government agency. 439 00:18:47,084 --> 00:18:49,878 Prior to that, I was in the Navy. I know I'm in a good place. 440 00:18:49,962 --> 00:18:53,632 So I start to look at what the next 32 years of my life are gonna look like. 441 00:18:53,715 --> 00:18:54,550 Okay. 442 00:18:54,633 --> 00:18:57,803 And so when you and Alex were talking to each other, 443 00:18:57,886 --> 00:19:02,141 you two figured that you were kind of on the same trajectory in life? 444 00:19:02,224 --> 00:19:06,228 Absolutely. So, like, one thing we actually bonded over was family. 445 00:19:06,311 --> 00:19:09,606 When I'm thinking of a partner, somebody I wanna build a life with, 446 00:19:09,690 --> 00:19:11,942 that's central, 447 00:19:12,025 --> 00:19:14,111 'cause ultimately what you come from 448 00:19:14,194 --> 00:19:16,321 is gonna dictate a lot of what you create. 449 00:19:16,405 --> 00:19:20,742 And everything that she came from seems so solid and pure. 450 00:19:20,826 --> 00:19:24,204 Family is really important to all of us as well. 451 00:19:24,288 --> 00:19:27,541 No, it's interesting to see, 'cause she is y'all's big sister. 452 00:19:27,624 --> 00:19:29,877 I had two big sisters, so I'm, like, a little brother. 453 00:19:30,460 --> 00:19:33,172 As the little brother, you're like a menace to society. 454 00:19:33,255 --> 00:19:34,381 -It's like a switch. -Yeah. 455 00:19:34,464 --> 00:19:36,466 Alex cares about us very deeply. 456 00:19:36,550 --> 00:19:39,803 -It's almost like a maternal instinct. -[Tim] Yeah, yeah. 457 00:19:39,887 --> 00:19:41,513 -I am-- -My kids. [laughing] 458 00:19:41,597 --> 00:19:45,267 That's something we have to work through, because I am so, like, "I got it." 459 00:19:45,350 --> 00:19:47,561 -[Evan] Exactly. -[Tim] She's like, "No, let me get it!" 460 00:19:47,644 --> 00:19:49,354 -So we're always-- -"Make sure when you…" 461 00:19:49,438 --> 00:19:52,191 -[laughing] Yeah. -Did you guys ever have an argument? 462 00:19:53,192 --> 00:19:55,611 -[laughs] Yeah, yeah. You wanna… -Yeah. [laughs] 463 00:19:55,694 --> 00:19:59,656 Our first disagreement was in Mexico. You know I talk a lot. 464 00:19:59,740 --> 00:20:01,617 When she is saying something, 465 00:20:01,700 --> 00:20:04,036 I have to learn to just receive it, 466 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:06,455 instead of being raw and telling her, 467 00:20:06,538 --> 00:20:09,208 "These are my thoughts," 'cause we're learning each other. 468 00:20:09,291 --> 00:20:12,586 -And you're committed to learning. -Yes. 469 00:20:13,337 --> 00:20:15,797 -That's half the battle right there, so… -[Alex] Yeah. 470 00:20:15,881 --> 00:20:16,715 [Evan] Yeah. 471 00:20:16,798 --> 00:20:18,217 -[Zandra] So, Tim. -Yes, ma'am. 472 00:20:18,300 --> 00:20:20,552 In the pods, was there one question that 473 00:20:20,636 --> 00:20:23,013 convinced you that Alex is the one? 474 00:20:23,096 --> 00:20:24,765 [Tim] I wouldn't say a particular question. 475 00:20:24,848 --> 00:20:26,016 There was a lot of moments. 476 00:20:26,099 --> 00:20:29,353 I found myself in, like, a very soft place where I felt very vulnerable. 477 00:20:29,436 --> 00:20:31,396 I've never cried so many times in my life. 478 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:32,898 -[Zandra] Really? -We cried a lot. 479 00:20:32,981 --> 00:20:35,192 -In the moment that we started… -Oh, my God. 480 00:20:35,275 --> 00:20:37,903 Like, the moment that for me was a big standout moment 481 00:20:37,986 --> 00:20:40,447 was when I was sharing a story about one of my sisters. 482 00:20:40,530 --> 00:20:42,532 -And we ended up crying together. -Aww. 483 00:20:42,616 --> 00:20:44,451 I have two sisters. Both of them passed away. 484 00:20:44,534 --> 00:20:47,704 And I had never just, like, cried with somebody. 485 00:20:47,788 --> 00:20:49,623 I always look at it through the lens of, 486 00:20:49,706 --> 00:20:51,833 "Who do I want next to me on the worst day of my life?" 487 00:20:51,917 --> 00:20:55,003 And in every way, up, down, left, and right, 488 00:20:55,087 --> 00:20:59,049 she is the person that accepts that and understands 489 00:20:59,132 --> 00:21:01,051 that holistic part of me. 490 00:21:01,927 --> 00:21:02,928 That's good. 491 00:21:03,637 --> 00:21:05,806 -[Alex] I know y'all hungry, so… -[Evan] Yeah, very. 492 00:21:05,889 --> 00:21:08,767 -Um, you wanna make the plates? -Yeah, okay. Are they over here? 493 00:21:08,850 --> 00:21:10,560 -Yeah, yeah, yeah. -So I made four steaks. 494 00:21:10,644 --> 00:21:12,646 -And I got chicken wings for y'all. -[Zandra] Okay. 495 00:21:12,729 --> 00:21:13,689 Cool, cool. 496 00:21:13,772 --> 00:21:16,525 -["Looking Hot" playing] -♪ Looking hot, yummy ♪ 497 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,778 -[Evan] Those look really good, man. -[Tim] Thank you. 498 00:21:19,861 --> 00:21:22,281 -Sir, does that steak look good for you? -Yes, sir. 499 00:21:22,364 --> 00:21:24,283 -Thank you. -Of course. Of course. 500 00:21:24,366 --> 00:21:26,118 [Alex] Waters. We have lemonade, sweet tea. 501 00:21:26,201 --> 00:21:27,369 [Richard] Lemonade, please. 502 00:21:27,452 --> 00:21:30,414 -So, Tim, if you don't mind me asking. -[Tim] Of course. 503 00:21:30,497 --> 00:21:34,459 -How long did you stay in the Navy? -[Tim] Almost eight years. I enjoyed it. 504 00:21:34,543 --> 00:21:37,796 Joining was the best decision of my life, and getting out was the second best. 505 00:21:37,879 --> 00:21:38,755 [laughing] 506 00:21:38,839 --> 00:21:42,342 I'm glad I'm out, but I don't regret it. Like, it set me up for so much. 507 00:21:42,426 --> 00:21:45,178 I learned so much. I saw so much. I did so much. 508 00:21:45,262 --> 00:21:47,306 [Alex] He's literally been everywhere. 509 00:21:47,389 --> 00:21:49,266 And he asked me, like, "Where have I been?" 510 00:21:49,349 --> 00:21:53,353 And I was like, "Well, one of my first trips out of the country as a kid 511 00:21:53,437 --> 00:21:55,439 was going to Scotland to see my family." 512 00:21:55,522 --> 00:21:57,774 And he's like-- You've never been to Scotland, right? 513 00:21:57,858 --> 00:21:59,860 -Never been. I wanna go. -[Richard] Beautiful. 514 00:21:59,943 --> 00:22:01,278 -Yeah. -Beautiful. 515 00:22:01,361 --> 00:22:03,947 -I'm a big golfer, so that's, like… -Oh my God! 516 00:22:04,031 --> 00:22:06,283 Yeah, and I love golf and whiskey. 517 00:22:06,366 --> 00:22:08,910 -So, like, Scotland is… -[Richard] Yes! 518 00:22:08,994 --> 00:22:11,204 -St. Andrews! -[Tim] Yes, sir. Yes, sir. 519 00:22:11,288 --> 00:22:13,332 I was born in England too. 520 00:22:13,415 --> 00:22:14,958 -Oh, really? -[Alex] And so was he. 521 00:22:15,042 --> 00:22:16,668 Yeah, I think she told me that. 522 00:22:16,752 --> 00:22:19,463 -[Alex] Another weird… -That is such a coincidence. 523 00:22:19,546 --> 00:22:22,132 [Tim] My dad was in the service at the time, the Air Force. 524 00:22:22,215 --> 00:22:24,551 So I was born at an Air Force base in England. 525 00:22:24,634 --> 00:22:27,137 -All right. -[Alex] That's how he got here too. 526 00:22:27,220 --> 00:22:29,139 Our grandfather was in the Air Force. 527 00:22:29,222 --> 00:22:32,434 So it was very, like, "What?" [laughs] 528 00:22:32,517 --> 00:22:34,895 [Tim] She tells me you wanted her to be the next Tiger Woods 529 00:22:34,978 --> 00:22:36,021 when she was a kid, so… 530 00:22:36,104 --> 00:22:37,773 [laughing] 531 00:22:37,856 --> 00:22:41,276 That's cool though that you, like, share that same interest. 532 00:22:41,360 --> 00:22:42,944 -No, yeah. -Yeah. 533 00:22:43,028 --> 00:22:47,366 -That's one thing that MS robbed of me. -[Alex] Mm-hmm. 534 00:22:47,449 --> 00:22:48,492 Yeah. 535 00:22:48,575 --> 00:22:51,411 'Cause he really would be out there all the time. 536 00:22:51,495 --> 00:22:53,205 -Yeah. -[Alex] Mm-hmm. 537 00:22:53,288 --> 00:22:55,749 So how do you guys feel so far, meeting Tim? 538 00:22:55,832 --> 00:22:57,501 -Very nice. -Yeah. 539 00:22:57,584 --> 00:22:58,502 Thank you. 540 00:22:58,585 --> 00:23:02,798 If you guys don't mind, I did wanna talk to Mr. Byrd privately. 541 00:23:02,881 --> 00:23:06,385 -Would all you be okay taking Roddy out? -Sure. 542 00:23:06,468 --> 00:23:09,304 [Alex] All right. BRB. See y'all later. 543 00:23:09,930 --> 00:23:10,764 Come on, Roddy. 544 00:23:10,847 --> 00:23:11,932 [Tim] Mr. Byrd. 545 00:23:13,517 --> 00:23:15,268 When Alex and I met in the pods, 546 00:23:15,352 --> 00:23:17,854 there really was that, like, deep connection. 547 00:23:17,938 --> 00:23:21,191 Before I even saw Alex, I knew Alex. 548 00:23:21,274 --> 00:23:23,985 And I decided that she's the person that I want to make my wife. 549 00:23:26,988 --> 00:23:30,575 But I knew how important it was 550 00:23:30,659 --> 00:23:32,786 for me to have this conversation with you. 551 00:23:32,869 --> 00:23:36,623 So, that being said, I read a letter to Alex in the pod, 552 00:23:36,706 --> 00:23:38,166 but it was addressed to you. 553 00:23:38,250 --> 00:23:40,794 So if you don't mind, I'm gonna read that to you. 554 00:23:42,337 --> 00:23:44,464 So, "Mr. Byrd, first and foremost, 555 00:23:44,548 --> 00:23:48,260 I was raised to begin all things with a grateful spirit, so thank you." 556 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:50,804 "Thank you for bringing Alex into this world." 557 00:23:50,887 --> 00:23:54,433 "Thank you for raising her and understanding what love is." 558 00:23:54,516 --> 00:23:57,561 "I'm blessed that we were both willing to bet on ourselves 559 00:23:57,644 --> 00:23:59,813 and find each other through this process." 560 00:23:59,896 --> 00:24:02,441 "You raised a kind, intelligent, driven 561 00:24:02,524 --> 00:24:03,984 and resilient daughter 562 00:24:04,067 --> 00:24:07,279 who became a place of warmth and comfort and peace for me 563 00:24:07,362 --> 00:24:09,156 almost as soon as I heard her voice." 564 00:24:10,157 --> 00:24:13,994 "Before I make any promises to her, I want to promise to you 565 00:24:14,077 --> 00:24:16,872 that I will treat her with the amount of respect and dignity 566 00:24:16,955 --> 00:24:19,040 that I would treat one of my own parents' daughters, 567 00:24:19,124 --> 00:24:21,126 which soon I hope to make her one of." 568 00:24:21,209 --> 00:24:22,377 [Richard sniffles] 569 00:24:22,461 --> 00:24:26,214 [Tim] "With the ultimate amount of respect and love in my heart, 570 00:24:26,298 --> 00:24:27,966 I would like to kindly ask 571 00:24:28,049 --> 00:24:30,886 for Alex's hand in marriage for a lifetime." 572 00:24:34,514 --> 00:24:37,434 [voice breaks] Well, I'm gonna gather my thoughts. 573 00:24:37,517 --> 00:24:39,644 [pop music playing] 574 00:24:44,232 --> 00:24:50,280 ♪ All of the things we believe in ♪ 575 00:24:50,363 --> 00:24:54,409 ♪ Are bigger than what we don't know ♪ 576 00:24:56,703 --> 00:24:58,163 She's my baby girl. 577 00:24:58,246 --> 00:24:59,247 Yes, sir. 578 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:01,500 We just met. 579 00:25:03,043 --> 00:25:04,753 But I believe in you. 580 00:25:06,463 --> 00:25:08,965 And I believe what you have written, 581 00:25:09,883 --> 00:25:11,301 what you have said. 582 00:25:11,927 --> 00:25:14,554 I believe that came from your heart. 583 00:25:14,638 --> 00:25:15,639 Yes, sir. 584 00:25:16,806 --> 00:25:17,807 And… 585 00:25:19,935 --> 00:25:23,230 I accept you as my son. 586 00:25:23,730 --> 00:25:24,564 [Tim] Thank you, sir. 587 00:25:24,648 --> 00:25:28,318 [laughs] That means so much to me. It really does. 588 00:25:28,401 --> 00:25:30,570 -[Richard] Oh, yes. -Yes, sir. 589 00:25:30,654 --> 00:25:32,364 You have my blessing. 590 00:25:32,864 --> 00:25:33,823 [Tim] Thank you, sir. 591 00:25:33,907 --> 00:25:36,034 That means a lot. It really does. 592 00:25:37,410 --> 00:25:41,623 I welcome you to our family. 593 00:25:41,706 --> 00:25:42,707 Thank you. 594 00:25:47,045 --> 00:25:48,630 Can't wait. [laughing] 595 00:25:48,713 --> 00:25:51,758 Please, go and give them the good news. 596 00:25:51,841 --> 00:25:54,344 [Tim] Yes, sir. Thank you, sir. I'll be right back. 597 00:25:56,846 --> 00:25:58,056 He said yes. 598 00:25:58,139 --> 00:25:59,474 [Alex] Yeah! 599 00:25:59,558 --> 00:26:02,519 -Come back in. He wants to share. -[Alex] Okay, can someone help me up? 600 00:26:02,602 --> 00:26:05,855 -["I Still Believe" playing] -♪ Let the bells ring out… ♪ 601 00:26:05,939 --> 00:26:07,023 [Alex] Hey, Dad. 602 00:26:08,567 --> 00:26:09,568 [chattering indistinctly] 603 00:26:09,651 --> 00:26:11,236 [sniffles] Hi. 604 00:26:12,362 --> 00:26:13,280 [groans] 605 00:26:14,030 --> 00:26:15,282 [Richard] I love you. 606 00:26:15,365 --> 00:26:16,533 [Alex] I love you too. 607 00:26:18,577 --> 00:26:21,496 -[Zandra] My new son-in-law. -[Tim laughs] 608 00:26:22,581 --> 00:26:25,750 ♪ I still believe we are family… ♪ 609 00:26:25,834 --> 00:26:28,169 [Alex] Oh, stop. I'm gonna cry. 610 00:26:28,795 --> 00:26:30,880 [sobs, sniffles] 611 00:26:30,964 --> 00:26:36,595 I was happy to accept him into our family. 612 00:26:37,095 --> 00:26:39,806 And I wish them nothing but the best. 613 00:26:41,057 --> 00:26:42,267 Where's my son? 614 00:26:42,350 --> 00:26:43,852 Meet your brother. 615 00:26:43,935 --> 00:26:44,853 [laughing] 616 00:26:44,936 --> 00:26:47,564 -How's it going? -Good to meet you again. Thank you. 617 00:26:48,148 --> 00:26:49,816 Brother-in-law. That feels good. 618 00:26:49,899 --> 00:26:51,568 -Right? -[Evan] You know? 619 00:26:51,651 --> 00:26:52,485 [laughing] 620 00:26:52,569 --> 00:26:54,487 [Zandra] I have no concerns about Tim. 621 00:26:54,571 --> 00:26:56,865 Tim seems like a really good person, 622 00:26:56,948 --> 00:27:00,410 and so far, the way they interact, love it. 623 00:27:00,493 --> 00:27:03,163 Love is like they've known each other for a long time. 624 00:27:03,246 --> 00:27:05,373 -All right now. -Okay. 625 00:27:05,457 --> 00:27:06,750 -[laughs] -[Richard] He got you. 626 00:27:06,833 --> 00:27:10,962 That's my baby girl, so I just want the best. 627 00:27:12,589 --> 00:27:15,634 [laughing] 628 00:27:16,885 --> 00:27:18,762 ♪ I still believe ♪ 629 00:27:18,845 --> 00:27:20,597 ♪ We can fix anything ♪ 630 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,515 ♪ Yeah, I still believe ♪ 631 00:27:22,599 --> 00:27:24,851 ♪ We are one family ♪ 632 00:27:24,934 --> 00:27:26,770 ♪ And I want you to see ♪ 633 00:27:26,853 --> 00:27:29,481 ♪ I still believe ♪ 634 00:27:31,566 --> 00:27:33,068 [Garrett] How long have you been here? 635 00:27:33,568 --> 00:27:38,823 I've been in this space for about six months now. 636 00:27:38,907 --> 00:27:39,741 Yeah? 637 00:27:39,824 --> 00:27:42,661 And it's kind of just been, like, the place that 638 00:27:43,286 --> 00:27:46,247 I've been, like, bouncing around to different cities, then I come back… 639 00:27:46,331 --> 00:27:48,708 -[Garrett] The bougie. -[Taylor] Corporate girly lifestyle. 640 00:27:48,792 --> 00:27:50,210 -[Garrett] Right before this? -Yes. 641 00:27:50,293 --> 00:27:54,756 So, now, this is like the main house where my best friend lives. 642 00:27:54,839 --> 00:27:56,883 And then I have, like, the basement apartment unit. 643 00:27:56,966 --> 00:28:00,303 [British accent] Are you ready to go down into my little English basement? 644 00:28:00,387 --> 00:28:01,971 -Do you want me to lead? -I got it. 645 00:28:02,055 --> 00:28:03,848 Help me grab my mail. 646 00:28:05,183 --> 00:28:06,142 [Garrett] Jury duty. 647 00:28:06,226 --> 00:28:08,353 -[Taylor laughing] -Late notice. 648 00:28:08,436 --> 00:28:10,563 -Mail order men. -[laughs] 649 00:28:10,647 --> 00:28:12,732 -Give me my mail. -[laughs] 650 00:28:13,358 --> 00:28:14,818 Ooh, I like this rug. 651 00:28:14,901 --> 00:28:17,195 I'm not even gonna look up yet. I kind of wanna like… 652 00:28:17,278 --> 00:28:19,906 Okay, well, we have a fake fig. Not okay. 653 00:28:19,989 --> 00:28:21,199 [Taylor] Kitchen. 654 00:28:21,282 --> 00:28:23,284 [Garrett] "Proceed as if success is inevitable." 655 00:28:24,994 --> 00:28:27,080 [Taylor] We have nothing in here. 656 00:28:28,081 --> 00:28:30,041 -Just a bunch of beer. [scoffs] -[laughs] 657 00:28:30,125 --> 00:28:32,794 -Okay, there's some protein shakes. -What am I looking at here? 658 00:28:32,877 --> 00:28:34,504 We have one thing of white wine. 659 00:28:34,587 --> 00:28:37,424 Protein shakes and beer. Like, what are we doing here? 660 00:28:37,507 --> 00:28:40,301 And the one thing of white wine for the occasional girl you bring over. 661 00:28:40,385 --> 00:28:42,429 This is a bachelor dude's fridge. 662 00:28:42,512 --> 00:28:43,930 [laughs] 663 00:28:44,013 --> 00:28:45,432 What is this place? 664 00:28:45,515 --> 00:28:46,516 Here we go. 665 00:28:47,100 --> 00:28:48,977 [Taylor] This is where you're gonna stay. 666 00:28:49,060 --> 00:28:50,437 [Garrett laughs] Wait a second. 667 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:52,272 [Taylor laughing] 668 00:28:52,355 --> 00:28:55,984 It's for the Bible studies that I host out here every night. 669 00:28:56,568 --> 00:28:59,279 I'm speechless. Jeez Louise. 670 00:28:59,362 --> 00:29:02,198 [Taylor] And this is my room. I've been living minimally. 671 00:29:02,699 --> 00:29:05,243 -[Garrett] That's why there's the label. -I forgot I had labels. 672 00:29:05,326 --> 00:29:06,828 Blazers and work clothes. 673 00:29:07,787 --> 00:29:11,124 -Some more hotel things I stole. -Like I'm about to marry a felon. 674 00:29:15,295 --> 00:29:17,130 -I like this place. -Thank you. 675 00:29:17,213 --> 00:29:18,590 [Garrett] Let's go to the couch. 676 00:29:18,673 --> 00:29:19,716 [exhales] 677 00:29:19,799 --> 00:29:23,344 We should talk about, like, how we wanna live after this. 678 00:29:23,428 --> 00:29:27,182 I think it makes a lot of sense just to, you move with me in Fredericksburg, 679 00:29:27,265 --> 00:29:29,434 figure out what we wanna do from there, but… [sighs] 680 00:29:30,101 --> 00:29:31,352 we should talk about that. 681 00:29:31,436 --> 00:29:34,022 You've never not lived in Fredericksburg, right? 682 00:29:34,564 --> 00:29:36,983 Other than college and this past summer 683 00:29:37,066 --> 00:29:39,068 when I lived at Virginia Beach for the summer, no. 684 00:29:40,069 --> 00:29:42,822 San Diego was always, like, a place that I wanted to. 685 00:29:42,906 --> 00:29:43,990 Like, I'm so excited 686 00:29:44,073 --> 00:29:47,327 that I got to see your family and your family's home, but I love San Diego. 687 00:29:47,410 --> 00:29:49,245 It's, like, where I wanna raise my family. 688 00:29:49,329 --> 00:29:52,415 It's somewhere that is really easy for me. 689 00:29:53,166 --> 00:29:55,919 I'm excited for us to maybe just go spend some time there. [laughs] 690 00:29:56,002 --> 00:29:56,836 Yeah. 691 00:29:56,920 --> 00:30:02,217 And get more of a feel for it before, like, you completely commit to it. 692 00:30:02,300 --> 00:30:06,554 -So I feel better about it. [laughing] -So you feel better about it? Yeah. Um… 693 00:30:07,138 --> 00:30:08,556 I like California a lot. 694 00:30:09,140 --> 00:30:11,309 It's just far from the family. That's the tough part. 695 00:30:11,392 --> 00:30:14,521 When we talked about it in the pods, I was like, "Yeah, I'm open to it." 696 00:30:14,604 --> 00:30:16,314 And then, like, as okay, 697 00:30:16,397 --> 00:30:18,775 now you and I got engaged, and I started to think about, 698 00:30:18,858 --> 00:30:20,401 "This is now something very serious." 699 00:30:20,485 --> 00:30:23,738 "Okay, how do I feel about it?" And I've sat with it for quite a while. 700 00:30:23,822 --> 00:30:25,240 You know, like, it's… 701 00:30:26,157 --> 00:30:28,576 I've made it clear that, like, I care a lot about my parents, 702 00:30:28,660 --> 00:30:31,621 and I care a lot about the experiences that they have in life too. 703 00:30:31,704 --> 00:30:34,499 And I know that they would love to see me 704 00:30:34,582 --> 00:30:36,584 with someone that I love 705 00:30:36,668 --> 00:30:38,711 and to have kids. 706 00:30:38,795 --> 00:30:41,381 And naturally, they wanna be a part of that. 707 00:30:41,464 --> 00:30:45,093 So hearing that I'm, like, considering moving to San Diego for this woman 708 00:30:45,176 --> 00:30:47,053 is, like, not exciting for them. 709 00:30:47,136 --> 00:30:48,054 [Taylor] Yeah. 710 00:30:48,763 --> 00:30:51,724 And therefore it's not exciting for me from that perspective. 711 00:30:51,808 --> 00:30:55,103 It's exciting for me because this is what I want in life is to be with you. 712 00:30:55,645 --> 00:30:59,107 So I'm very much, like, open to it 713 00:30:59,190 --> 00:31:01,985 and excited to talk to you about it and to potentially do it. 714 00:31:02,068 --> 00:31:03,069 Out of the pods, 715 00:31:03,152 --> 00:31:06,406 it seemed like moving to San Diego was something that you were excited about. 716 00:31:06,489 --> 00:31:07,323 [Garrett] Mm-hmm. 717 00:31:07,407 --> 00:31:09,367 And so, like, it is a bit of a surprise 718 00:31:09,450 --> 00:31:11,995 to hear, like, how much of a concession it is. 719 00:31:12,078 --> 00:31:12,912 [Garrett] Mm-hmm. 720 00:31:12,996 --> 00:31:14,664 And I wanna make sure that that concession 721 00:31:14,747 --> 00:31:18,376 is something that's, like, very much, like, appreciated 722 00:31:18,459 --> 00:31:19,794 and, like, worthwhile. 723 00:31:19,878 --> 00:31:21,880 And, like, I wanna make sure that your family 724 00:31:21,963 --> 00:31:25,300 feels like they're a part of our family. 725 00:31:25,383 --> 00:31:29,012 And I think we can be intentional about when we raise a family 726 00:31:29,095 --> 00:31:30,680 or just ourselves coming back here. 727 00:31:30,763 --> 00:31:31,598 Yeah. 728 00:31:31,681 --> 00:31:33,224 Still for work, luckily it's remote. 729 00:31:33,308 --> 00:31:36,978 But because I do federal affairs, like, I have to come to DC for stuff. 730 00:31:37,061 --> 00:31:40,732 And so it's never gonna be like we're gonna go to San Diego and then disappear. 731 00:31:40,815 --> 00:31:43,902 I want my kids to also have that, like, loving grandparent relationship. 732 00:31:44,569 --> 00:31:46,362 Um, not just once a year. 733 00:31:46,446 --> 00:31:48,531 Come Christmas, like, here's Grandma and Grandpa. 734 00:31:48,615 --> 00:31:50,909 They're like, "Who are these people?" I don't want that. 735 00:31:50,992 --> 00:31:52,410 -No. -I don't want that for my kids. 736 00:31:52,493 --> 00:31:54,495 My dad's gonna whip 'em in a frenzy. 737 00:31:54,579 --> 00:31:57,040 -[laughs] -And then send them home, for sure. 738 00:31:57,123 --> 00:32:00,001 Perfect. Perfect. I'm really excited to meet them, honestly. 739 00:32:00,084 --> 00:32:02,420 They're gonna be my kids' grandparents, you know. 740 00:32:02,503 --> 00:32:06,507 It's not just my parents. Like, I have a huge family in San Diego. 741 00:32:06,591 --> 00:32:08,676 And so, like, I'm so excited for you 742 00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:10,678 to, like, eventually get to meet all of them. 743 00:32:10,762 --> 00:32:14,390 I think, like I said, once I see all that, I think it'll make more sense for me. 744 00:32:14,474 --> 00:32:17,060 -Yeah. -So feeling much better about it for sure. 745 00:32:17,143 --> 00:32:20,813 Like, I think that this is definitely, you know, after sitting on it and saying, 746 00:32:20,897 --> 00:32:23,524 "I'm open to it, sure, but am I willing to actually do it?" 747 00:32:23,608 --> 00:32:26,819 I can definitely say that, like, I'm not only willing to. 748 00:32:26,903 --> 00:32:27,987 Like, I'm excited about it. 749 00:32:28,947 --> 00:32:30,323 I think you're gonna like it. 750 00:32:30,406 --> 00:32:31,866 [both laugh] 751 00:32:31,950 --> 00:32:34,035 -[Garrett] So you're excited? -Elated. [laughs] 752 00:32:41,292 --> 00:32:44,587 I feel extremely vulnerable right now because I'm leaning in so hard to you. 753 00:32:44,671 --> 00:32:46,756 And, like, I'm very sold on you. 754 00:32:47,340 --> 00:32:49,592 And it's scary to do that. 755 00:32:49,676 --> 00:32:52,053 -You are amazing. -You are too. 756 00:32:52,136 --> 00:32:55,014 You are absolutely perfect for me, and we're perfect for each other. 757 00:32:55,098 --> 00:32:57,558 If you change your mind or you feel differently, 758 00:32:57,642 --> 00:32:59,602 I'll end up looking like a fool. I'll be crushed. 759 00:33:00,687 --> 00:33:03,773 It's worth it, because if I don't fully lean in, like, 760 00:33:04,649 --> 00:33:06,234 I could lose you that way. 761 00:33:06,317 --> 00:33:09,737 And I'd much rather just, like, take the risk here. 762 00:33:09,821 --> 00:33:12,699 Yeah, sometimes I'm just really worried that 763 00:33:13,992 --> 00:33:15,576 you'll just change your mind. 764 00:33:17,704 --> 00:33:20,248 But I'm just really excited to do life with you. 765 00:33:20,331 --> 00:33:22,166 -I love you, babe. -[Taylor] I love you too. 766 00:33:23,584 --> 00:33:24,877 This shit's wild. 767 00:33:24,961 --> 00:33:26,462 -It is crazy. -Mm-hmm. 768 00:33:27,046 --> 00:33:28,131 It's very crazy. 769 00:33:28,214 --> 00:33:29,590 [pop music playing] 770 00:33:29,674 --> 00:33:32,552 ♪ If we're going to see them ♪ 771 00:33:33,094 --> 00:33:36,222 ♪ We're getting to the other side ♪ 772 00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:42,562 -There was a possibility, for sure. -Coming back to, like… 773 00:33:42,645 --> 00:33:44,564 -Unemployment. Yeah. -Not having a job. Yeah. 774 00:33:44,647 --> 00:33:45,732 I really did have a feeling. 775 00:33:45,815 --> 00:33:48,693 That's why the first thing I asked when I got on-site. I saw my foreman. 776 00:33:48,776 --> 00:33:50,319 I was like, "Do I still have a job?" 777 00:33:50,403 --> 00:33:53,197 And he was like, "No, like, you didn't hear?" 778 00:33:53,281 --> 00:33:55,616 Does suck, but I'm not stressing about it. 779 00:33:55,700 --> 00:33:56,993 You're handling it very well. 780 00:33:57,076 --> 00:33:58,661 You know, it'd be nice to be employed. 781 00:33:58,745 --> 00:34:00,246 But the longest you've ever, like, 782 00:34:00,329 --> 00:34:03,458 had to be in this position, you said it's like a week and a half. 783 00:34:03,541 --> 00:34:06,419 A week and a half, yeah. End of the day, I can't control it. 784 00:34:06,502 --> 00:34:08,921 -[Monica] Totally. Keep me posted. -So… 785 00:34:09,005 --> 00:34:10,506 -I will. -I got your back. 786 00:34:11,424 --> 00:34:14,427 I'll be your sugar mama, your baby mama. 787 00:34:15,970 --> 00:34:19,390 Thank you for that, by the way. I know that's a hard thing 788 00:34:20,308 --> 00:34:21,559 that I will never ask. 789 00:34:22,060 --> 00:34:22,977 So thank you. 790 00:34:23,561 --> 00:34:24,437 I got you. 791 00:34:26,564 --> 00:34:28,816 I mean, I am perfectly okay 792 00:34:28,900 --> 00:34:32,111 with you treating me like a piece of meat. I think it's hot. 793 00:34:32,195 --> 00:34:33,988 -[laughs] -[Stephen] I really do. 794 00:34:34,072 --> 00:34:36,491 You know, if I come in, and you're just like, "Drop 'em," 795 00:34:36,574 --> 00:34:37,909 I'm like, "Fuckin' let's go." 796 00:34:37,992 --> 00:34:40,328 -[Monica] I have a-- I'm not-- -"Yes, ma'am." 797 00:34:40,411 --> 00:34:42,997 -Yeah. -No, no, but I'm saying, like, if you did… 798 00:34:45,541 --> 00:34:48,127 -We've had great sex. -Yeah. 799 00:34:48,211 --> 00:34:49,670 No, we have, for sure. 800 00:34:49,754 --> 00:34:51,214 Sex is amazing. 801 00:34:51,297 --> 00:34:54,967 But then when you started, like, having concerns about the wedding… 802 00:34:55,051 --> 00:34:55,927 [Stephen] Mm-hmm. 803 00:34:56,010 --> 00:34:58,888 …it makes me be like, "Well, I'm not just gonna, like, 804 00:34:59,806 --> 00:35:02,100 bend over for my fiancé, who's now…" 805 00:35:02,183 --> 00:35:04,519 -You're right. -"…not sure he wants to get married." 806 00:35:04,602 --> 00:35:07,563 That's why we haven't had it, or else I, like, would have done it. 807 00:35:07,647 --> 00:35:09,023 [Stephen] I'm a man. 808 00:35:09,107 --> 00:35:11,692 You know, the wind blows in the right direction, 809 00:35:11,776 --> 00:35:13,361 and I'm like, "Fuck!" 810 00:35:13,444 --> 00:35:16,781 Women are a lot more complicated. 811 00:35:16,864 --> 00:35:19,117 -I don't know if it's that complicated. -[Stephen] It is. 812 00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:22,912 The difference is every woman has a different combination. 813 00:35:22,995 --> 00:35:25,289 But most women don't know their own combinations. 814 00:35:25,373 --> 00:35:28,000 -I know mine. -So they can't tell you what they are. 815 00:35:28,084 --> 00:35:30,086 Then you just kind of have to figure 'em out. 816 00:35:30,169 --> 00:35:33,548 Luckily, you're with a modern-day woman who will tell you. 817 00:35:34,465 --> 00:35:36,926 Talk to me. "Hey, little less of that, little more of these." 818 00:35:37,009 --> 00:35:40,638 -A little less butt stabs. -[laughing] 819 00:35:43,015 --> 00:35:44,100 [Monica] Yeah, yeah. 820 00:35:44,183 --> 00:35:45,226 Accident. 821 00:35:45,309 --> 00:35:47,645 I mean, you're into butt stuff. 822 00:35:47,728 --> 00:35:48,771 Like pegging? 823 00:35:48,855 --> 00:35:51,566 [laughing] 824 00:35:51,649 --> 00:35:53,609 I mean, it's cool. 825 00:35:53,693 --> 00:35:56,112 But it's not like, "I wait until 826 00:35:56,195 --> 00:35:59,532 my birthday to be lucky enough to have it" type situation, you know? 827 00:35:59,615 --> 00:36:01,868 -Yeah. -I'm saving my butt for my husband. 828 00:36:01,951 --> 00:36:02,952 That's fair. 829 00:36:03,452 --> 00:36:04,704 I mean, let's be honest. 830 00:36:04,787 --> 00:36:07,456 There's so many different things you could put your dick inside. 831 00:36:08,207 --> 00:36:09,959 Pineapple, bowl of macaroni and cheese. 832 00:36:10,042 --> 00:36:12,170 -Bowl of macaroni and cheese? -[Stephen] Yeah. 833 00:36:12,253 --> 00:36:13,629 -Have you ever done that? -No. 834 00:36:13,713 --> 00:36:14,547 I don't believe you. 835 00:36:14,630 --> 00:36:18,259 I think that the best sex. 836 00:36:18,342 --> 00:36:20,678 This is why it's so good with you. Good for a lot of reasons. 837 00:36:20,761 --> 00:36:23,764 But, like, someone who's just, like, obsessed with your vagina? 838 00:36:23,848 --> 00:36:26,809 I mean, that's what the main focus is, right? 839 00:36:26,893 --> 00:36:30,062 Is, like, the vagina. 840 00:36:30,146 --> 00:36:31,355 Sure, yeah, I'll take it. 841 00:36:31,439 --> 00:36:32,773 [Stephen] No, let's be honest. 842 00:36:32,857 --> 00:36:34,025 If I had a vagina-- 843 00:36:34,108 --> 00:36:37,778 Could you imagine being the first man with a legitimate vagina? 844 00:36:37,862 --> 00:36:40,114 I'd be able to compare now the difference 845 00:36:40,198 --> 00:36:42,783 between getting kicked in the nuts and giving birth. 846 00:36:42,867 --> 00:36:43,701 Okay. 847 00:36:44,368 --> 00:36:46,913 Giving birth is the only time a woman comes close 848 00:36:46,996 --> 00:36:50,583 to understanding what it's like when a man has a common cold, okay? 849 00:36:51,334 --> 00:36:52,501 Are you well? 850 00:36:52,585 --> 00:36:53,961 [laughing] 851 00:36:54,045 --> 00:36:55,296 Are you okay? 852 00:36:55,963 --> 00:36:59,091 God, I could win a Nobel Prize if I had a vagina. 853 00:36:59,175 --> 00:37:02,178 [sighs] This was so fun two minutes ago. 854 00:37:02,261 --> 00:37:03,095 I'm not-- 855 00:37:03,179 --> 00:37:07,141 -Like, I don't need sex, you know? -[Monica] Yeah. 856 00:37:07,225 --> 00:37:08,601 [Stephen] If you don't want to, 857 00:37:08,684 --> 00:37:11,479 I don't wanna make you feel forced in that degree in any way. 858 00:37:11,562 --> 00:37:13,189 -You would never do that. -[Stephen] Yeah. 859 00:37:13,272 --> 00:37:15,107 [Monica] You, like, let me take the lead. 860 00:37:15,191 --> 00:37:18,611 I just have to feel very safe in this relationship because… 861 00:37:18,694 --> 00:37:19,987 [Stephen] I get it. Yeah. 862 00:37:20,071 --> 00:37:22,156 You should be taking the lead in that department. 863 00:37:22,240 --> 00:37:24,992 You know, maybe not necessarily in the sense of, like, 864 00:37:25,660 --> 00:37:28,746 what people's kinks are into and, like, sub-dom shit, 865 00:37:28,829 --> 00:37:30,498 but that's a completely different topic. 866 00:37:30,581 --> 00:37:34,335 But as far as feeling comfortable and vulnerable and ready, 867 00:37:34,418 --> 00:37:36,003 yeah, like, take the lead. 868 00:37:36,087 --> 00:37:38,381 So, anyway, how about anal, huh? No… 869 00:37:38,464 --> 00:37:41,425 -Jesus. -[laughing] 870 00:37:41,509 --> 00:37:44,178 -["Light Me Up" by Alise Indall playing] -[vocalizing] 871 00:37:47,181 --> 00:37:48,474 ♪ Light me up ♪ 872 00:37:48,557 --> 00:37:51,269 ♪ Higher ♪ 873 00:37:51,352 --> 00:37:52,728 ♪ Light me up ♪ 874 00:37:55,856 --> 00:37:57,066 [Hannah] It's gross in here. 875 00:37:58,317 --> 00:38:00,152 ["Welcome to the Big Show" playing] 876 00:38:00,236 --> 00:38:02,655 ♪ Hey, welcome to the big show ♪ 877 00:38:03,281 --> 00:38:04,865 ♪ I work too hard, gotta get low ♪ 878 00:38:04,949 --> 00:38:06,409 ♪ How you wanna get low? ♪ 879 00:38:07,201 --> 00:38:09,161 ♪ I'm too cool when I sip slow ♪ 880 00:38:09,245 --> 00:38:11,247 ♪ Welcome to the big show ♪ 881 00:38:11,330 --> 00:38:12,832 ♪ I work too hard, gotta get low ♪ 882 00:38:13,416 --> 00:38:15,042 ♪ How you wanna get low? ♪ 883 00:38:15,126 --> 00:38:17,503 ♪ I'm too cool when I sip slow ♪ 884 00:38:19,046 --> 00:38:20,214 [Hannah] You look nice. 885 00:38:20,298 --> 00:38:22,591 [Nick D laughs] Thank you. You look nice too. 886 00:38:23,884 --> 00:38:24,760 It's gross in here. 887 00:38:24,844 --> 00:38:27,513 [Nick D] My shirt's smelly. I'm gonna change shirts real quick. 888 00:38:27,596 --> 00:38:29,765 Okay. These floors get dirty fast. 889 00:38:29,849 --> 00:38:32,059 I literally sweeped yesterday, and it's already gross. 890 00:38:43,029 --> 00:38:45,031 [glass squeaks] 891 00:38:46,824 --> 00:38:48,909 It already looks better. 892 00:38:49,493 --> 00:38:51,746 -I know. -I feel more at home. 893 00:38:52,330 --> 00:38:54,081 -What, that I cleaned? -[chuckles] Yeah. 894 00:38:54,582 --> 00:38:55,875 Thanks for doing that. 895 00:38:56,584 --> 00:38:59,295 -Yeah. -See now we're matching. You like it? 896 00:38:59,962 --> 00:39:02,590 So you changed your dress clothes to dress clothes? 897 00:39:03,382 --> 00:39:04,717 Same style, just different color. 898 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,720 -Are you going back out? -Just work. I'm gonna work, you know. 899 00:39:07,803 --> 00:39:09,930 -Zoom? -[Nick D] Maybe. 900 00:39:10,014 --> 00:39:11,766 I'm asking 'cause you dressed up. 901 00:39:11,849 --> 00:39:12,683 [Nick D] Yeah. 902 00:39:13,809 --> 00:39:15,936 Got two new buyer clients today 903 00:39:16,020 --> 00:39:18,606 that I have to talk to and connect with my lenders. 904 00:39:18,689 --> 00:39:21,233 -Will you take this out? Please. -Yep. 905 00:39:21,317 --> 00:39:24,362 -I've taken the trash out. -You took it out this morning? 906 00:39:24,445 --> 00:39:27,365 Oh, you're taking the trash out now, 'cause I asked. 'Cause I asked, Nick. 907 00:39:27,448 --> 00:39:28,699 -[Nick laughing] -Hmm. 908 00:39:28,783 --> 00:39:29,784 [door lock clatters] 909 00:39:36,665 --> 00:39:40,086 It's nice that if I tell you, "Hey, Nick, will you take the trash out?" You do. 910 00:39:40,169 --> 00:39:42,880 Or like, "Nick, will you get the stuff out of the dryer?" You will. 911 00:39:42,963 --> 00:39:45,007 But I feel like you should be able to do that. 912 00:39:45,091 --> 00:39:46,759 I don't wanna have to tell you every time. 913 00:39:46,842 --> 00:39:48,803 -I do take out the trash. -[Hannah] Yeah, you do. 914 00:39:48,886 --> 00:39:51,097 But I feel like today and yesterday I had to ask. 915 00:39:51,180 --> 00:39:52,723 For us and our relationship, 916 00:39:52,807 --> 00:39:55,935 I think it would be nice to have, like, things you do and things that I do. 917 00:39:56,018 --> 00:39:58,020 Yeah, I'm open to that. 918 00:39:58,104 --> 00:40:00,773 With trash, trash will be you. 919 00:40:00,856 --> 00:40:02,024 -You take the trash out. -Cool. 920 00:40:02,108 --> 00:40:04,902 Cool. Laundry, when you do laundry, you do my laundry. 921 00:40:04,985 --> 00:40:08,781 And then with Luna, like, she is my dog. She's my responsibility. 922 00:40:08,864 --> 00:40:11,659 I get that. But now that we're married, your responsibilities are mine, 923 00:40:11,742 --> 00:40:13,411 and my responsibilities are yours. 924 00:40:13,494 --> 00:40:15,996 -Yeah. -[Hannah] How often do you vacuum, sweep? 925 00:40:16,747 --> 00:40:18,290 [Nick D] Like, once every two weeks. 926 00:40:18,374 --> 00:40:20,668 You vacuum once every two weeks, Nick? 927 00:40:20,751 --> 00:40:22,378 [Nick D] Well, it's just downstairs. 928 00:40:22,461 --> 00:40:25,172 But I mean, you've been down there. I keep it very clean. 929 00:40:25,256 --> 00:40:26,715 I vacuum every single day. 930 00:40:28,050 --> 00:40:29,635 Do you think it's partly because of Luna? 931 00:40:30,302 --> 00:40:32,221 [Hannah] Well, Luna doesn't even shed. 932 00:40:32,805 --> 00:40:35,224 -Why do you vacuum every day? -Because it gets gross. 933 00:40:35,307 --> 00:40:38,310 My expectations are I vacuum every single day. I sweep every day. 934 00:40:38,394 --> 00:40:39,854 I dust once a week. 935 00:40:39,937 --> 00:40:43,107 Sundays are when I deep clean, where I scrub the walls, the baseboards. 936 00:40:43,190 --> 00:40:45,651 I wash my sheets. I do laundry I didn't catch up on. 937 00:40:45,734 --> 00:40:47,486 I clean out my fridge every two weeks. 938 00:40:47,570 --> 00:40:50,739 If you're out getting groceries, then just text me and ask me what I need. 939 00:40:50,823 --> 00:40:52,867 If I'm out doing groceries, text me what you need. 940 00:40:52,950 --> 00:40:56,203 If I do the once-a-week grocery shop where I'm spending $300 or something, 941 00:40:56,287 --> 00:40:57,830 I think we could split that. 942 00:40:57,913 --> 00:41:00,124 I don't think groceries will ever be that much. 943 00:41:00,207 --> 00:41:02,668 I've probably spent $300 on groceries a week. 944 00:41:02,751 --> 00:41:04,128 Groceries are expensive. 945 00:41:05,045 --> 00:41:06,755 -Financially, right? -Yeah. 946 00:41:06,839 --> 00:41:10,092 -You don't wanna join our account? -We could play it by ear. 947 00:41:10,176 --> 00:41:12,470 -For now. -[Hannah] Not a "play it by ear" person. 948 00:41:12,553 --> 00:41:16,140 'Cause, like, when we get married, if you're $50,000 in debt, 949 00:41:16,223 --> 00:41:20,811 or if I'm $50,000 in debt, your debt becomes my debt, right? 950 00:41:20,895 --> 00:41:22,855 -[Nick D] Yeah. -And my debt becomes your debt. 951 00:41:22,938 --> 00:41:25,274 Finances are a very important part in a relationship. 952 00:41:25,357 --> 00:41:27,860 It's a good thing I don't have any debt or student loans. 953 00:41:27,943 --> 00:41:29,111 I do have student loans. 954 00:41:29,195 --> 00:41:30,571 -You're not gonna pay them. -Right. 955 00:41:30,654 --> 00:41:32,698 But I mean, let's say something happened, like… 956 00:41:32,781 --> 00:41:35,659 -[Nick D] Yeah, I accept that. -It's a big deal, right? 957 00:41:35,743 --> 00:41:39,163 We'll keep separate bank accounts. Maybe when we have kids, we can join them. 958 00:41:39,246 --> 00:41:42,625 Or maybe we can have a separate joint account for savings, our travels. 959 00:41:42,708 --> 00:41:44,084 Or for our home. 960 00:41:44,668 --> 00:41:46,629 We'll split all utilities. We'll split rent. 961 00:41:46,712 --> 00:41:48,255 -Yep. -[Hannah] Who's paying the bills? 962 00:41:48,964 --> 00:41:52,176 -Are you paying the bills or am I? -What do you think? 963 00:41:52,259 --> 00:41:54,386 I think I'm financially more literate you are. 964 00:41:54,470 --> 00:41:59,266 There's nothing wrong with this. The only bill you have is just your car. 965 00:41:59,350 --> 00:42:01,685 Didn't even know you had insurance. Your parents are paying. 966 00:42:01,769 --> 00:42:05,606 So this is my question to you. Are you going to join my car insurance? 967 00:42:05,689 --> 00:42:06,982 Are we gonna pay that together? 968 00:42:07,066 --> 00:42:10,110 Are you going to continue to stay on your parents' car insurance? 969 00:42:11,237 --> 00:42:15,574 What would be the benefit of joining, being together on car insurance? 970 00:42:15,658 --> 00:42:17,284 That you're paying your own bills. 971 00:42:17,368 --> 00:42:18,702 I'm asking, when we get married, 972 00:42:18,786 --> 00:42:21,956 are your parents still gonna be paying bills, or are you joining them with me? 973 00:42:22,039 --> 00:42:23,332 I would join them with you. 974 00:42:23,415 --> 00:42:26,168 Your parents pay your phone bill. What's your plan with that? 975 00:42:26,252 --> 00:42:28,295 I mean, eventually, like, in the next year or two, 976 00:42:28,379 --> 00:42:29,880 I'll probably start paying for it. 977 00:42:29,964 --> 00:42:33,175 [chuckles] But as long as they wanna pay for my phone bill, I'm cool with it. 978 00:42:33,259 --> 00:42:35,344 -[Hannah] I'll keep my phone bill for me? -Yeah. 979 00:42:39,598 --> 00:42:43,227 -Why are you looking at me like that? -[Hannah] Because you're 28 years old. 980 00:42:43,310 --> 00:42:47,856 I've been on my own since I'm 18, so I've had to pay all the bills, right? 981 00:42:47,940 --> 00:42:50,693 I pay my car insurance. I pay my health insurance. 982 00:42:50,776 --> 00:42:52,444 Then I contribute to my 401(k). 983 00:42:52,528 --> 00:42:53,862 Then I contribute to my stocks. 984 00:42:53,946 --> 00:42:55,864 -I don't know shit about stocks. -[Hannah] Right. 985 00:42:55,948 --> 00:42:59,159 If you ever want to invest, let me know, and I can invest your money in stocks. 986 00:42:59,243 --> 00:43:02,538 [laughs] Stocks? I could give a fuck about stocks. 987 00:43:02,621 --> 00:43:05,207 -I can teach you. -Do you know about sports? 988 00:43:05,291 --> 00:43:08,627 -No, but money, sports, you know? -Okay, well, there you go. 989 00:43:08,711 --> 00:43:10,796 Yeah, we'll see about that. 990 00:43:10,879 --> 00:43:14,341 Does watching sports make you more financially successful? 991 00:43:14,425 --> 00:43:15,676 I don't think stocks does. 992 00:43:17,469 --> 00:43:18,596 What are stocks? 993 00:43:18,679 --> 00:43:22,057 Can't you lose money from putting money in stocks? 994 00:43:22,141 --> 00:43:25,019 When you're investing, you can be really risky, but you don't have to. 995 00:43:25,102 --> 00:43:27,646 You just put a bit of money in different stocks. 996 00:43:27,730 --> 00:43:30,774 Me, financially, I'm not stupid, and I don't have enough money 997 00:43:30,858 --> 00:43:33,068 to be high-risk, high-reward, so I'm low-risk, low-reward. 998 00:43:33,819 --> 00:43:36,780 Like, is your 401(k), is that intertwined with stocks? 999 00:43:39,491 --> 00:43:43,829 I don't know anything. I mean, I just never invested in stocks. 1000 00:43:50,294 --> 00:43:53,464 I think, like, a bad habit that I have is 1001 00:43:53,964 --> 00:43:55,716 I like things the way I like things, 1002 00:43:55,799 --> 00:43:57,885 and everyone else just can't do it as good as me, 1003 00:43:57,968 --> 00:44:01,513 which I know is wrong, because people do their thing that they wanna do. 1004 00:44:01,597 --> 00:44:04,266 You do dishes a certain way, or you do the bed a certain way. 1005 00:44:04,350 --> 00:44:05,351 And that's okay. 1006 00:44:05,434 --> 00:44:07,728 Maybe it's not the way I like it, but it's different. 1007 00:44:08,312 --> 00:44:10,522 I think we're both very ambitious people. 1008 00:44:10,606 --> 00:44:13,150 I think we're both, like, clean, which is important. 1009 00:44:13,233 --> 00:44:15,277 You have a good and kind heart, and so do I. 1010 00:44:15,361 --> 00:44:17,029 It feels like we're best friends. 1011 00:44:21,659 --> 00:44:23,619 [Nick D] I've accepted you for who you are, 1012 00:44:23,702 --> 00:44:25,496 but I'm getting used to it a little bit more. 1013 00:44:25,579 --> 00:44:28,832 I'm a very good listener. Like, I'm always going to hear you out. 1014 00:44:28,916 --> 00:44:31,627 I know sometimes you don't think it, but I would protect you. 1015 00:44:31,710 --> 00:44:32,544 I will. 1016 00:44:32,628 --> 00:44:35,255 ["Always and Forever" by Peter Verdell playing] 1017 00:44:35,339 --> 00:44:38,300 ♪ Always ♪ 1018 00:44:38,384 --> 00:44:42,054 ♪ Always and forever ♪ 1019 00:44:44,056 --> 00:44:48,894 ♪ Al-al-al-al-always ♪ 1020 00:44:48,977 --> 00:44:51,063 Hi! 1021 00:44:52,606 --> 00:44:56,110 I haven't seen you in forever. For a month. Over a month. 1022 00:44:56,193 --> 00:44:58,737 -[laughs] This is Tyler. -What's going on, sir? How are you? 1023 00:44:58,821 --> 00:45:00,489 -Pleasure to meet you. -Same, same. 1024 00:45:00,572 --> 00:45:02,074 -Got you a gift, man. -Wow. 1025 00:45:02,157 --> 00:45:05,411 -Let me guess. 1738. -Just a little something. Yes, I told him. 1026 00:45:05,494 --> 00:45:06,870 -That's a good start. -[laughing] 1027 00:45:06,954 --> 00:45:09,123 -[sighs] What's going on? -So… 1028 00:45:09,707 --> 00:45:11,959 -This is my one and only daughter. -[Tyler] Yep. 1029 00:45:12,042 --> 00:45:15,212 And from what she have described to me, 1030 00:45:15,295 --> 00:45:16,505 you make her happy. 1031 00:45:17,506 --> 00:45:20,592 What made you think she was the one for you? 1032 00:45:21,093 --> 00:45:23,721 She made me feel, like, safe and protected, 1033 00:45:23,804 --> 00:45:25,013 like, my emotions were safe. 1034 00:45:26,306 --> 00:45:27,683 Like, I'm able to open up to her. 1035 00:45:27,766 --> 00:45:29,935 -We talked about everything. -[Dickson] Okay. 1036 00:45:30,018 --> 00:45:33,439 Like, the deepest things that I've never opened up with people before about. 1037 00:45:33,522 --> 00:45:37,192 I was able to be free and be vulnerable, where I couldn't growing up. 1038 00:45:37,276 --> 00:45:39,653 It was like, "You're a man. Be tough, don't cry." 1039 00:45:40,237 --> 00:45:42,364 Then I get in this position where I'm able to cry. 1040 00:45:42,448 --> 00:45:43,991 She's like, "I love that for you." 1041 00:45:44,074 --> 00:45:45,659 -Where'd you grow up? -[Tyler] Pittsburgh. 1042 00:45:45,743 --> 00:45:47,202 -Pittsburgh. Okay. -[Tyler] Yep. 1043 00:45:47,286 --> 00:45:48,871 She was allowing me to just be myself 1044 00:45:48,954 --> 00:45:51,123 and tell her, like, about my family, how I grew up 1045 00:45:51,206 --> 00:45:52,958 and, like, how rough it was. 1046 00:45:53,041 --> 00:45:55,043 And she just accepted me for everything. 1047 00:45:55,127 --> 00:45:57,296 -Like, she's so genuine and so honest. -[Dickson] Uh-huh. 1048 00:45:58,297 --> 00:46:00,299 I'm not saying it 'cause she's my daughter, 1049 00:46:00,382 --> 00:46:02,176 but that's the total package. 1050 00:46:02,259 --> 00:46:04,762 -Yes, yes. -The brains, you know, everything. 1051 00:46:04,845 --> 00:46:06,889 -That's why I say she's strong. -Ride or die. 1052 00:46:06,972 --> 00:46:09,349 -Yeah, genuine. -Ride or die. She's gonna ride. 1053 00:46:09,433 --> 00:46:11,143 -[Tyler] Yeah. -She's not gonna quit on you. 1054 00:46:11,226 --> 00:46:12,978 Nah. I'm riding. 1055 00:46:13,061 --> 00:46:14,188 -[Dickson] You sure? -100%. 1056 00:46:15,230 --> 00:46:16,774 So what do you wanna do in life? 1057 00:46:16,857 --> 00:46:19,109 Like, business-wise, work? 1058 00:46:19,193 --> 00:46:21,445 So right now, I do, like, security specialist. 1059 00:46:21,528 --> 00:46:23,363 So it's a bunch of computer work. 1060 00:46:23,447 --> 00:46:25,407 -Reviewing procedures. -You're pretty smart. 1061 00:46:25,491 --> 00:46:27,993 -Nah, I'm all right, you know. -[laughing] 1062 00:46:28,076 --> 00:46:29,369 -How old are you? -[Tyler] I'm 34. 1063 00:46:29,453 --> 00:46:32,539 I was gonna say 33, but the day I proposed, I turned 34. 1064 00:46:32,623 --> 00:46:35,584 -Gotcha. That's a strong word, propose. -[Tyler] Yeah. 1065 00:46:35,667 --> 00:46:38,879 -Are you serious? Are you ready? -Oh, I'm very ready. 100%. 1066 00:46:38,962 --> 00:46:42,090 As a man, how can you protect her? 1067 00:46:42,174 --> 00:46:43,967 'Cause I'm turning her over to you. 1068 00:46:44,051 --> 00:46:47,221 Yes, of course. I'm not a cheater. I'm not gonna lie to her. 1069 00:46:47,304 --> 00:46:49,973 -Okay. -[Tyler] I'm sharing everything with her. 1070 00:46:50,057 --> 00:46:52,392 -Her emotions are protected 100%. -[Dickson] Okay. 1071 00:46:52,476 --> 00:46:53,852 Well, here's a big question then. 1072 00:46:54,603 --> 00:46:58,106 How do you feel about family, kids? 1073 00:46:58,190 --> 00:47:01,193 -Big family. I come from a small family. -Are you ready for that? 1074 00:47:01,276 --> 00:47:02,945 Oh, yeah, more than ready. 1075 00:47:03,028 --> 00:47:04,321 -[laughs] -[Dickson] You sure? 1076 00:47:04,404 --> 00:47:05,948 [Tyler] Yeah, I'm sure. Trust me. 1077 00:47:06,031 --> 00:47:07,282 He wants grandbabies. 1078 00:47:07,366 --> 00:47:10,494 So you'll be living not just for you no more. 1079 00:47:10,994 --> 00:47:13,205 -[Tyler] For my family, yeah, yeah. -For a legacy. 1080 00:47:13,288 --> 00:47:15,040 -I don't wanna sound biased. -No, yeah. 1081 00:47:15,123 --> 00:47:18,961 I've not asked you your question. What is it about him that you like? 1082 00:47:19,044 --> 00:47:23,006 He just made me feel safe enough to feel like I could be soft. 1083 00:47:23,090 --> 00:47:25,467 That was the first thing. And then after that, 1084 00:47:25,551 --> 00:47:28,846 just, like, the little things he does in, like, the real world 1085 00:47:28,929 --> 00:47:31,431 when we actually hung out Just, like, how protective he is. 1086 00:47:31,515 --> 00:47:35,394 He don't let me grab nothing. I'm like, "I got this." He's like, "No." 1087 00:47:35,477 --> 00:47:37,688 -Don't touch that door. -No door, no nothing. 1088 00:47:37,771 --> 00:47:42,943 You know, and it's so unfamiliar in our dating era 1089 00:47:43,026 --> 00:47:45,487 for our generation to be that way. 1090 00:47:45,571 --> 00:47:50,826 And, yeah, just the way that you love me is like 1091 00:47:50,909 --> 00:47:56,331 something that I didn't have in my past relationships, um, ever. 1092 00:47:57,499 --> 00:47:59,918 I don't take it lightly when I say 1093 00:48:01,503 --> 00:48:03,630 she's my one and only daughter. 1094 00:48:03,714 --> 00:48:04,923 I love her to death. 1095 00:48:05,007 --> 00:48:05,841 Yeah. 1096 00:48:06,425 --> 00:48:07,759 So this is serious to me. [sighs] 1097 00:48:09,094 --> 00:48:10,596 She should go away for a minute. 1098 00:48:10,679 --> 00:48:12,890 -Right. -So we can talk like men for a minute. 1099 00:48:12,973 --> 00:48:14,474 -You want a second? -Yeah. 1100 00:48:14,558 --> 00:48:16,184 -I'll give you a second. -[Dickson] Cool. 1101 00:48:17,060 --> 00:48:19,271 -I do have a big question. -Mm-hmm. 1102 00:48:20,188 --> 00:48:21,231 [Tyler] I love Ashley. 1103 00:48:21,315 --> 00:48:23,525 I really mean, like, truly. 1104 00:48:25,235 --> 00:48:27,821 -I thought I knew love. I had no clue. -Mm-hmm. 1105 00:48:27,905 --> 00:48:31,658 And nothing I feel like is gonna tear us apart. 1106 00:48:33,035 --> 00:48:37,122 So I've already asked her, um, because I proposed. 1107 00:48:39,207 --> 00:48:41,126 But can I have your daughter's hand in marriage? 1108 00:48:46,590 --> 00:48:47,883 Absolutely. 1109 00:48:50,260 --> 00:48:52,804 -Absolutely. The reason why? -Appreciate it. 1110 00:48:53,305 --> 00:48:54,306 She accepted you. 1111 00:48:54,389 --> 00:48:55,265 Yeah. 1112 00:48:55,349 --> 00:48:57,059 I want the best for her. 1113 00:48:57,142 --> 00:48:58,810 I want her to be happy. 1114 00:48:59,353 --> 00:49:02,272 And she does not make decisions lightly. 1115 00:49:02,356 --> 00:49:03,231 Yeah. 1116 00:49:03,315 --> 00:49:04,691 Like, zero. 1117 00:49:04,775 --> 00:49:05,609 Yeah. 1118 00:49:06,109 --> 00:49:07,736 I've spoken to you. 1119 00:49:07,819 --> 00:49:10,656 I'm reading you, and I'm looking at you as a man. 1120 00:49:11,448 --> 00:49:14,076 And beyond what you have said, 1121 00:49:14,159 --> 00:49:15,953 you have a lot of potential. 1122 00:49:16,036 --> 00:49:17,537 -Yeah. -I see it in you. 1123 00:49:18,038 --> 00:49:20,749 Become a better man that you want to be. 1124 00:49:21,375 --> 00:49:23,794 You know, 'cause the better you are… 1125 00:49:23,877 --> 00:49:26,505 The better she is. We all are. Yeah. 1126 00:49:26,588 --> 00:49:29,257 -So I have a vested interest… -Yep. 1127 00:49:29,341 --> 00:49:33,011 …to make sure you don't only succeed, but you excel. 1128 00:49:33,095 --> 00:49:34,012 Yeah. 1129 00:49:37,099 --> 00:49:39,351 Who am I to judge what makes my daughter happy? 1130 00:49:39,434 --> 00:49:41,979 Who am I to tell her how she's supposed to feel? 1131 00:49:42,062 --> 00:49:42,896 She feels good. 1132 00:49:42,980 --> 00:49:45,524 She's happy. I'm happy. 1133 00:49:45,607 --> 00:49:49,319 If Ashley starts talking a little bit differently besides this, 1134 00:49:49,403 --> 00:49:51,571 then Daddy's gonna kick into motion. [chuckles] 1135 00:49:51,655 --> 00:49:54,074 Until then, Daddy's gonna fall back. 1136 00:49:54,992 --> 00:49:57,077 -You know, we're talking about you. -Oh. 1137 00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:58,078 [laughing] 1138 00:49:59,705 --> 00:50:01,665 So you've got my blessing. 1139 00:50:01,748 --> 00:50:02,916 I appreciate that. 1140 00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:06,086 And-- God, I'm gonna get emotional. 1141 00:50:06,169 --> 00:50:08,005 [Ashley A] Oh, my gosh. This is crazy. 1142 00:50:08,922 --> 00:50:10,924 ["Breathe It In" by Joff Hale playing] 1143 00:50:14,386 --> 00:50:15,262 Oh. 1144 00:50:18,557 --> 00:50:20,017 ♪ The sun rises… ♪ 1145 00:50:20,851 --> 00:50:21,685 [Ashley A] Mm. 1146 00:50:22,394 --> 00:50:23,895 [Dickson] What the hell? 1147 00:50:25,188 --> 00:50:27,774 -[clears throat] Give me a second. Sorry. -Yeah, take your time. 1148 00:50:27,858 --> 00:50:28,942 [Dickson clears throat] 1149 00:50:29,026 --> 00:50:30,610 ♪ Breathe it in… ♪ 1150 00:50:32,404 --> 00:50:35,866 [inhales] So, it's a journey. 1151 00:50:35,949 --> 00:50:37,159 Yeah, I'm in. 1152 00:50:38,326 --> 00:50:39,995 I'm in the back seat. [chuckles] 1153 00:50:40,704 --> 00:50:42,372 ♪ Breathe it in… ♪ 1154 00:50:47,502 --> 00:50:48,420 [sniffles] 1155 00:50:49,963 --> 00:50:53,091 So y'all got my blessing, but this is my only daughter. 1156 00:50:53,175 --> 00:50:54,009 Yeah. 1157 00:50:56,887 --> 00:50:59,514 -Don't play. -[Tyler] Nah. I'mma take care of her. 1158 00:51:00,891 --> 00:51:02,309 Yeah, I look forward to the future. 1159 00:51:02,392 --> 00:51:03,518 Same. 1160 00:51:04,102 --> 00:51:05,937 ♪ Breathe it in ♪ 1161 00:51:09,816 --> 00:51:11,485 ♪ Breathe in ♪ 1162 00:51:19,159 --> 00:51:20,619 [Monica] I'm shocked right now. 1163 00:51:22,829 --> 00:51:24,456 [Taylor] I'm just so sorry. 1164 00:51:26,166 --> 00:51:27,876 [Monica] I just cannot believe it. 1165 00:51:31,505 --> 00:51:32,672 Have you met his family? 1166 00:51:33,715 --> 00:51:35,383 I was supposed to on Sunday. 1167 00:51:35,884 --> 00:51:37,803 I did find it really weird in Mexico. 1168 00:51:37,886 --> 00:51:39,805 We're at, like, the party, 1169 00:51:39,888 --> 00:51:42,349 and, like, he said to me, 1170 00:51:42,849 --> 00:51:44,810 "You know, in a year, when a bunch of women 1171 00:51:44,893 --> 00:51:47,145 are, like, in my DMs wanting to suck my dick…" 1172 00:51:47,229 --> 00:51:50,065 -And I was like, "Why would you say that?" -It's disgusting. 1173 00:51:50,148 --> 00:51:52,275 He went and did a sleep test last night. 1174 00:51:52,359 --> 00:51:55,403 Did he do a sleep test last night? I don't know. 1175 00:51:55,487 --> 00:51:56,863 [scoffs] He didn't sleep here. 1176 00:51:58,073 --> 00:51:59,574 It's really unbelievable. 1177 00:51:59,658 --> 00:52:01,159 I'm just so sorry. 1178 00:52:01,243 --> 00:52:03,620 [sniffles] You don't deserve that. You really don't. 1179 00:52:03,703 --> 00:52:07,374 I can't believe someone would say that and then do that to you. 1180 00:52:07,457 --> 00:52:10,544 -[Monica] And, like-- -[Taylor] I'm so sorry. It's disgusting. 1181 00:52:12,170 --> 00:52:13,839 It's fucking evil. [sobs] 1182 00:52:15,966 --> 00:52:18,552 -[Monica] I'll text you when I'm done. -[Taylor] And I'll come. 1183 00:52:18,635 --> 00:52:19,678 [Monica] Thank you. 1184 00:52:23,473 --> 00:52:24,683 [Stephen exhales] 1185 00:52:25,684 --> 00:52:26,726 [Monica sighs] 1186 00:52:36,820 --> 00:52:37,863 [Stephen sighs] 1187 00:52:41,658 --> 00:52:42,617 [exhales] 1188 00:52:44,536 --> 00:52:48,290 Reading those text messages filled with fetishes and coming. 1189 00:52:48,373 --> 00:52:51,293 -Like, it's disgusting, Stephen. -You're right. 1190 00:52:56,882 --> 00:52:58,091 No, you're right. 1191 00:52:58,175 --> 00:53:00,760 Stop acting! Like, "You're right." I know I'm right. 1192 00:53:00,844 --> 00:53:02,095 Say something else. 1193 00:53:02,179 --> 00:53:04,222 Why did you do this? Why did you propose? 1194 00:53:04,306 --> 00:53:07,017 Why did you come here? Like, who are you? 1195 00:53:09,853 --> 00:53:12,230 -Were you at a sleep test last night? -Yeah. 1196 00:53:12,314 --> 00:53:13,315 -Really? -Yeah. 1197 00:53:13,398 --> 00:53:15,984 Well… I don't know if I believe that. 1198 00:53:17,235 --> 00:53:18,403 [Stephen sighs] 1199 00:53:18,486 --> 00:53:20,030 At this point, um, 1200 00:53:20,113 --> 00:53:22,616 I don't think there's anything I could say that you would believe. 1201 00:53:22,699 --> 00:53:24,701 Is there something that I should believe? 1202 00:53:26,995 --> 00:53:28,997 [Stephen] Monica, I didn't pretend anything. 1203 00:53:29,623 --> 00:53:32,918 Yes, you did. You pretended to want to get married. 1204 00:53:33,001 --> 00:53:34,502 [exhales] 1205 00:53:35,086 --> 00:53:36,213 I wasn't pretending. 1206 00:53:36,296 --> 00:53:38,924 I did make a completely stupid mistake 1207 00:53:39,007 --> 00:53:42,802 while being drunk at a sleep test with somebody who texted me. 1208 00:53:42,886 --> 00:53:46,139 You were doing it today, Stephen. You texted her today. 1209 00:53:46,223 --> 00:53:49,893 And the really gross ones were today. So don't fucking lie to my face. 1210 00:53:49,976 --> 00:53:51,603 -Were you guys texting today? -No. 1211 00:53:51,686 --> 00:53:54,606 -You weren't? Let me see your phone. -I deleted the message. 1212 00:53:54,689 --> 00:53:56,858 -Of course you did. -I didn't wanna look at it either. 1213 00:53:56,942 --> 00:54:00,070 They started yesterday, and they went through today. 1214 00:54:02,906 --> 00:54:03,740 Uh… 1215 00:54:04,449 --> 00:54:07,118 I honestly don't remember texting her today, 1216 00:54:07,202 --> 00:54:09,120 because I knew what I was doing and if… 1217 00:54:09,204 --> 00:54:10,997 You didn't know what you were doing last night? 1218 00:54:11,581 --> 00:54:14,501 I did know what I was doing last night, and I know it was a stupid decision, 1219 00:54:14,584 --> 00:54:18,588 and it was coupled with the conversation that we had had last night-- 1220 00:54:18,672 --> 00:54:21,591 Don't you fucking blame me at all for you being gross. 1221 00:54:21,675 --> 00:54:25,220 I'm blaming my actions on myself based on how I took our conversation. 1222 00:54:25,303 --> 00:54:27,430 I am taking full responsibility for this. 1223 00:54:27,514 --> 00:54:30,100 -I'm getting my stuff, leaving you alone. -Great. 1224 00:54:31,685 --> 00:54:32,602 Before you leave, 1225 00:54:32,686 --> 00:54:34,771 I would like you to Venmo me the money you owe me 1226 00:54:34,854 --> 00:54:37,190 for me carrying your weight the last couple days. 1227 00:54:37,274 --> 00:54:40,110 If you wouldn't mind taking out your phone now to send me the Venmo. 1228 00:54:46,700 --> 00:54:48,368 -[cell phone chimes] -There we go. 1229 00:54:52,205 --> 00:54:53,581 I'm almost embarrassed 1230 00:54:53,665 --> 00:54:57,669 about how much of my, like, heart I've given you. 1231 00:54:58,753 --> 00:55:01,673 You were gonna, like, what, shake my dad's hand this weekend? 1232 00:55:04,134 --> 00:55:07,178 While you were planning on cheating? 1233 00:55:07,262 --> 00:55:10,348 -Like, I don't-- I don't understand. -[Stephen] I wasn't… 1234 00:55:10,432 --> 00:55:11,433 [hesitates] 1235 00:55:12,017 --> 00:55:15,061 [groans, gags] Sorry. 1236 00:55:15,854 --> 00:55:19,065 Ugh! You were, like, laying in a sleep test bed 1237 00:55:20,066 --> 00:55:23,194 texting a girl while you are engaged that you want to… 1238 00:55:23,278 --> 00:55:25,697 -Yeah, it's-- -…do dirty kinks. 1239 00:55:25,780 --> 00:55:27,449 -It was disgusting. -[Stephen] You're right. 1240 00:55:27,532 --> 00:55:31,453 I can't do anything to change this. 1241 00:55:31,536 --> 00:55:35,206 I will live with this. 1242 00:55:35,832 --> 00:55:36,708 Great. 1243 00:55:36,791 --> 00:55:41,463 I truly am sorry for hurting you, 1244 00:55:42,005 --> 00:55:45,425 for wasting your time, for coming on the show and… 1245 00:55:47,469 --> 00:55:48,887 doing this to you. 1246 00:55:48,970 --> 00:55:50,513 I shouldn't have come on the show. 1247 00:55:51,723 --> 00:55:55,393 What a selfish thing to say. What a selfish piece of shit. 1248 00:55:55,477 --> 00:55:57,604 You fucking put a ring on my finger, 1249 00:55:57,687 --> 00:56:00,023 and now you shouldn't have been on the show? 1250 00:56:01,066 --> 00:56:04,110 [voice breaks] I'm like-- It's just, like, taking that away from me… 1251 00:56:04,194 --> 00:56:07,155 Yeah, I definitely don't… 1252 00:56:07,238 --> 00:56:08,990 I definitely don't. I definitely… 1253 00:56:09,866 --> 00:56:14,537 -I definitely don't deserve much. -[sniffles] 1254 00:56:16,164 --> 00:56:17,165 I am sorry. 1255 00:56:19,376 --> 00:56:21,294 I will leave you alone now. 1256 00:56:23,129 --> 00:56:24,047 Um… 1257 00:56:24,756 --> 00:56:26,049 Yeah, okay. 1258 00:56:27,467 --> 00:56:29,469 ["Fight This War" by SATV Music playing] 1259 00:56:32,597 --> 00:56:33,723 [sobbing] 1260 00:56:35,517 --> 00:56:39,646 ♪ Battle-drawn lines, I do not need… ♪ 1261 00:56:39,729 --> 00:56:41,731 [sobbing] 1262 00:56:42,649 --> 00:56:46,945 ♪ We'll form shadows In through the light ♪ 1263 00:56:47,028 --> 00:56:51,908 ♪ The strength that I have Must not give you up… ♪ 1264 00:56:54,702 --> 00:56:56,538 [continues sobbing] 1265 00:56:57,831 --> 00:57:04,254 ♪ And I hear them call to fall in line ♪ 1266 00:57:05,088 --> 00:57:09,884 ♪ Fall in line, fall in line ♪ 1267 00:57:09,968 --> 00:57:11,970 ♪ Fall in line… ♪ 1268 00:57:14,139 --> 00:57:15,223 [Taylor] Hey. 1269 00:57:18,268 --> 00:57:19,269 How'd it go? 1270 00:57:22,856 --> 00:57:24,858 [sobs] I'm so sad. 1271 00:57:26,276 --> 00:57:27,444 [sniffles] 1272 00:57:29,112 --> 00:57:30,864 -[gasps] -I'm so sorry, Monica. 1273 00:57:30,947 --> 00:57:32,365 Thank you so much. 1274 00:57:35,160 --> 00:57:36,619 [sobbing] 1275 00:57:36,703 --> 00:57:38,830 I can't believe this is happening. 1276 00:57:41,416 --> 00:57:43,334 ♪ If love is blind ♪ 1277 00:57:43,418 --> 00:57:48,715 ♪ Now I see with open eyes ♪ 1278 00:57:59,851 --> 00:58:02,395 ♪ From ashes I rise ♪ 1279 00:58:02,479 --> 00:58:07,358 ♪ Now I see with open eyes ♪