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- [fireworks popping]
- [pop music playing]
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[Ramses] Beyond just
our connection we have…
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- Like, I feel the love.
- Yeah.
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You look at me, you're like, "This is it."
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- For real?
- Yes!
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- [Hannah] You have a good and kind heart.
- [Nick D] I've accepted you.
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I know sometimes you don't think it,
but I would protect you. I will.
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- [Tyler] I get to choose our kid's name?
- Nah.
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- Middle name.
- No!
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- Seven kids?
- [Ashley A] Not shaking on that.
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[laughing]
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[Garrett] You are amazing, and I think
you are absolutely perfect for me.
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[Taylor] Like I've known you for years.
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I feel like I said in the pods,
everything's just gonna get harder.
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You're going down in history
as the swaggiest punter-kicker.
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[Nick D] I appreciate that.
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I'm even more swaggy
when you see me in person.
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- Was I a hot commodity in the pods?
- We just talked shit about you.
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I'm a hot commodity. I wanna see
what these beautiful women look like.
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Nick!
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- Oh, she's jealous! Don't be jealous.
- [laughing]
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[Hannah] I'm a little concerned.
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We'll see how flirtatious he is
in the real world.
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♪ I know what I want… ♪
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[Garrett] Your father,
if I ask him for your hand,
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and he says, "I can't do it," you know.
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I wouldn't blame him. He doesn't know me.
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I need this in order to get to,
like, an altar in two weeks.
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♪ I can't take the pressure… ♪
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Did you guys ever have an argument?
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You know I talk a lot,
but he talks more than me.
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It's just making sure we're both heard.
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- You're military.
- Yeah.
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[Ramses] Were you ever really
into military men?
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- [Marissa] I was.
- Yeah.
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I don't regret joining the military.
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- Hmm. Okay.
- I'm feeling judged.
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♪ I can't take the pressure… ♪
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- Do you enjoy condom sex?
- [Marissa] Yeah.
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We could definitely
have condom sex, and it'd be fine.
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I need sex to be enjoyable.
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I'm not upset by you
trying to help a couple have kids,
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but they are your kids.
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This is something I should have known
before agreeing.
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[Tyler] I don't want this
to be the way our story goes
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or ends.
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- ["It's Automatic" playing]
- ♪ Shake, shake my stuff… ♪
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{\an8}♪ Light it up, like it's… ♪
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{\an8}- [camera shutter clicks]
- Three, two, one…
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{\an8}Perfect! Beautiful ring.
Who got to pick it out?
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- [Hannah] Nick did.
- [Nick D] She showed me the direction.
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- [shutter clicks]
- [photographer] Perfect.
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Great! You guys can hold hands down here.
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- [Hannah] No. Like this?
- [Nick D] Okay.
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[photographer] Awesome.
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- I think my arms are longer than yours.
- [laughing]
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[photographer] Let me grab it.
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- I'm like this. [laughs]
- I'm pretty sure you're taller than me.
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- Your eyes look pretty.
- [Hannah] Do they?
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[Nick D] Yeah. You have blocks
to put under my shoes so I'm taller?
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[Hannah] Confidence, babe.
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[photographer] Put your hands
around her waist.
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- [Nick D] She's taller than me?
- Like you're at prom.
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Not on her butt, right?
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[photographer] If you want to.
It's your guys' pictures.
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A few more…
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[camera shutter clicks]
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Perfect!
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- Okay, that's your guys' film.
- Cool!
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[Nick D] You picked
a good day to wear the heels.
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- [Hannah] I thought you were secure.
- [laughs]
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{\an8}So it was cool to get,
like, some cute engagement pictures.
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{\an8}We can look back on it, like,
"Remember we were so hot?"
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{\an8}[laughing]
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{\an8}- "Nick, remember when you looked good?"
- [laughing] Yeah!
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Show the kids.
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- [laughs]
- All right, I have your guys' photos.
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- Here is yours.
- Thank you.
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- And here's yours.
- Thank you.
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Oh, yeah.
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Wait. You can take this one.
I'll take that one.
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- 'Cause I read.
- You don't want--
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I read. I want this one for my bookmark.
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- 'Cause it's us.
- [laughs]
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You don't read. You don't need one.
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We'll get it framed. Little gold frame.
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No, these are great.
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- Look at this.
- Let me see.
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- [Hannah] I chose the best one.
- [Nick D] Look at that.
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- That one's going above the mantle, right?
- Yeah.
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[Nick D] Check it.
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This is right above the toilet. Yep, yep.
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- Because it's the most romantic, right?
- [Hannah] Mm-hmm.
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The toilet's the most romantic place
in our crib.
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Yeah, you know.
We're gonna be in there a lot, so…
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[laughing]
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- ["We Go Together" playing]
- ♪ All the way to kingdom come ♪
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♪ Around the world, around the sun ♪
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{\an8}♪ Wherever you go, I go ♪
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{\an8}♪ We go together ♪
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{\an8}- What's on your mind?
- Nothing.
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- Nothing?
- Nothing.
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{\an8}Are you concerned?
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{\an8}- Yeah.
- Yeah.
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It makes me worried that we had
one conversation last night
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and that got you really in your head.
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[Ramses] There's things
we discussed in the pods.
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And last night,
it felt like things were, like, shifted.
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Like, what specifically?
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You were, like, now switching
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from the three-to-five
that we'd spoken about to sooner.
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I was just kind of like,
"Is there anything else,
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you know, that's gonna…"
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I can imagine
things will change over time.
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Yeah, things will change.
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But, like,
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the big things, you know,
like, the real important things
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is, like, really what
I'm, like, really thinking about.
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It's good.
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It's all good.
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Let's go inside.
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[Ramses clears throat]
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[Marissa] I'm gonna use the bathroom.
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- [Ramses] Need a moment?
- [Marissa] I'm using the bathroom.
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- Oh.
- [Marissa] Oh, yeah.
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[exhales lightly]
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All right, what are
you gonna make? [sighs]
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Eggs with some feta, chili crunch.
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Okay.
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I forgot we had grapes in here.
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[laughs] Why are you looking at me?
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Because you're terrible at hiding
the fact that you're in your head.
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I'm not mad.
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- I'm not saying you're mad. Okay.
- I'm not mad.
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[Ramses] It's a lot. I know.
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[Marissa] Well, especially
the sexual stuff. It's like…
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I do understand, like, your concerns,
and they're valid,
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but it's also at the same time,
like, I'm clearly sick.
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I have a severe vitamin D deficiency
and the PMS,
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and just the fact that
I'm going back and forth from Baltimore.
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I feel like shit today.
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I don't want it to be something
where you're, like, not satisfied
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because I am a sick person.
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[Ramses] I'm willing to,
like, work through these things with you.
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[Marissa] Yeah, I just assumed
if you're sick, like…
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I wish I didn't have to explain why.
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The reason that I, like,
brought it up now is just, you know,
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we don't have a lot of time
before the wedding.
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I'm not saying that's gonna be an issue.
I don't think it'll be.
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I'll never try to put you in a place
where you feel forced to do anything.
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I don't need you to, like, feel
the pressure to try to prove anything.
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Before you walk down the aisle,
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are you gonna be expecting
to see something?
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This part of the experiment
was, like, really important for me
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because it's where we, like, make sure
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that we actually
do have the physical intimacy,
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the affection and everything
I desire in a marriage, and so, like--
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You're having doubts.
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It's not so much doubts.
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It's a big decision.
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Like, if we get married, that's it.
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It's like, "I want you."
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I don't want to sit here and go
through this again with anyone else.
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I just wanna make sure it's 100, you know?
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Like it's… that there's no, like…
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Especially something
as big as physical intimacy,
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I just wanna make sure
that that's right, you know?
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And it's not right.
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It started in Cabo. It was great.
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And then, now obviously,
you're… we're dealing with a lot.
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And so, like,
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sometimes you just don't wanna
be touched or you don't wanna be…
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which is, again, fine.
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I just wanna make sure that long-term that
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it doesn't look like this.
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I feel I've been
very affectionate with you.
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There's been just maybe three times
where I'm like…
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- "Lay off on petting me" or whatever.
- [laughing]
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I call it petting 'cause
that's what it feels like at times.
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It's just overstimulating.
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Yeah. And I get it.
Like, that's fine, babe.
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But it's really not fine
because you're saying it's not fine.
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[Ramses] Not saying it's not fine.
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It's, like, long-term, you know,
like, if that would be an issue for me.
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- Okay. Yeah.
- [Ramses] You know what I'm saying?
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I do.
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I feel like I've been
affectionate with you, so…
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Yeah. No, you have
been affectionate with me.
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I'm not saying you haven't.
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When I do give affection,
and then there's a "no" or--
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Do you feel rejected when I do that?
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Um, I mean, yeah, maybe a little.
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But again, I wanna be respectful of you
and where you're at.
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If that's not something that you want…
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I don't wanna come off
as if I'm just trying to, like, have sex.
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Like, I love you. I care about you,
and, like, I want you,
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but I'm just, like, I…
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It's a big decision.
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Okay.
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Can I, like… [laughs]
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I'm sorry. I know, like, if you don't…
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[Marissa] Yeah, it's fine.
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- ["Nothing Left To Say" playing]
- ♪ It's building up ♪
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♪ No stopping it, and I feel it… ♪
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Like, I still want to marry you.
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- Mm-hmm.
- I want you.
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- Um, just wanna be like…
- Yes.
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clear, you know?
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Did you know men always, like…
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A high percentage of men,
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when their wives get cancer,
they cheat on them.
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Your health becomes an issue
that I'm gonna want to go elsewhere?
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Yeah, that's gonna be an issue for you.
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Not even that extreme.
Like, postpartum, when you have kids.
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There's periods before you have the kid,
you're not gonna wanna be affectionate,
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and maybe after you have a kid.
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This is probably gonna come up
multiple times in our relationship.
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Is this gonna be an issue for you that--
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[chuckles] That's a fair question. Yeah…
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- Like, that's--
- That's a big thing. Yeah.
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- All right. It's fine.
- [Ramses chuckles]
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♪ My head, it's a mess ♪
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♪ Heavy in my chest… ♪
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[Marissa] I can't, like, control
how I feel. I can't control my body.
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I'm not expecting you to, like,
change or try to control anything.
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Like, I just…
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I just wanna have,
like, an idea of just, like,
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what our future's gonna look like.
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I'm just scared you're not gonna see this
through because you're worried about…
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[Ramses kisses]
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Like, I'm not on a ledge right now,
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ready to, like, jump ship, you know?
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Like, I still wanna marry you.
Like, I still want to be with you.
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I still imagine my future with you.
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- Okay?
- Yeah.
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♪ Oh, there's nothing left to say ♪
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{\an8}♪ If you're really gone ♪
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Hey!
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{\an8}- So this is my fiancée, Alex.
- Hi! How are you?
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{\an8}How are you?
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- Good.
- [mother] Nice to meet you.
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{\an8}- Nice to meet you as well. I'm Alex.
- Hello.
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{\an8}- Good to meet you.
- [Alex] You as well.
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So this is Alex, my fiancée.
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- Beautiful lady.
- Yes!
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[Alex] Thank you! Thank you.
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You know we call him Drake, right?
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{\an8}- Yes, he told me that.
- When people say "Tim," I always go…
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{\an8}You know, I'm thinking of him.
They say "Tim," I'm like, "What?" Yeah.
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- 'Cause that's Tim.
- [Alex] Yeah.
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His name wasn't supposed to be Tim,
but whatever. We're not gonna go there.
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[laughs]
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I really do like the idea
of the experiment,
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the pods.
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- And I won't just say because he's my kid.
- [chuckles]
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But Drake, he's really an awesome person.
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- Yeah.
- [Kim] He's a good person.
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The very fact that he opened up
and was able to talk, because he's…
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[Alex] He was very vulnerable.
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Sometimes, to me,
Drake's vulnerabilities can come out
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as almost like a separation type of thing.
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Have you seen that in him?
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- Yeah.
- [Kim] You have? Okay.
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He definitely gets that trait from me.
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Don't you feel like that?
Don't you feel like I get like that?
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Yes.
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[Kim] And was that hard for you
to kind of get used to?
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I'll admit, yeah.
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How do you handle that?
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It has been a little bit challenging,
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but I just give him
the time and the space that he needs.
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And when he's ready to come back…
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And I'll tell you,
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that part of it, as far as him
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separating and needing his space,
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that's just him.
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My husband and I have been married
coming up on 40 years,
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and we are totally different people.
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You can probably just tell
from sitting here
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for five minutes how different we are.
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But love makes it work
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if you are willing to give and take.
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Yeah.
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Is there anything you feel like
you would have to give up
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in order to be married at all?
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Um, I don't really see anything
that I would really be giving up
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besides my single life. [laughs]
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We are very serious
when it comes to marriage,
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and we want whoever Drake marries
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to feel that way as well.
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I don't want you to think
I am taking this lightly.
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We don't believe in divorce.
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I even said to Tim, or Drake…
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[chuckles] …that I understand
you're proposing to me,
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but I'm not even gonna tell my father
until you ask for my hand.
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Because I can't take that away from him.
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And if I don't have his blessing,
I cannot go through with this.
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- For us, whew! We've been through a lot.
- [Alex] Yeah.
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[Kim] But no matter how hard it was
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or how we processed it differently,
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the ability to respect his viewpoint
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and for him to respect my viewpoint
is what kept us
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and keeps us together, I think.
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I know your family has been through a lot.
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I really honor your marriage
and your relationship.
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My dad and my stepmom
have been married for 25 years.
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- And I know that marriage isn't easy.
- Mm-hmm.
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I just wanna make sure I have,
like, that solid partner-teammate that
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really isn't gonna, you know,
fold on any type of situation.
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I always can depend on them,
even if I'm really annoying him,
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or vice versa,
or we're just not seeing eye-to-eye.
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Like, that's still my husband.
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I still respect him,
and I'm never gonna turn my back on him.
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When I say, "For better for worse,"
I mean that in all aspects.
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If he can be your best friend.
Do you laugh more than you don't?
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- Then you're winning.
- [Alex] Yeah.
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- That's a win right there.
- Same.
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- [Tim] Mom and Dad, you wanna sit outside?
- [Tim Sr.] Yeah.
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- Yeah, sounds nice.
- [Tim] Get some fresh air.
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We'll be outside.
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I think she's a nice young lady
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that I think you
could spend your life with.
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What I see is,
you know, a beautiful person.
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- Yeah, I agree.
- [Tim Sr.] Inside and out.
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You truly felt that
before you met her in person?
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Yeah. We did bond
on so much of the deeper stuff.
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She is my first ever fiancée for a reason,
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but I don't think we're always in sync
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when it comes to some
of the lighter things
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and how we joke around.
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You know, I'm not physically affectionate.
Do not touch me.
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That's just how I am, but that's something
that she wants all the time.
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But if we just got in an argument,
I'm not gonna wanna cuddle. [laughs]
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I don't know exactly
what we're talking about,
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but when you are in a relationship,
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a marriage,
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you kind of have to, like,
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be open to what hurts your partner.
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Yeah, I get it.
340
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There's no one perfect.
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You're never gonna find perfection.
342
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When you talked to her in the pods
343
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and you got down on your knee,
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you were sure. You were there.
345
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I can't say enough.
346
00:16:12,554 --> 00:16:15,474
It doesn't matter
how long you've known somebody,
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you're still gonna have
to go through some drama.
348
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That's just a part of the process
of becoming one.
349
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It's not easy to become one
with two minds.
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Sho ain't. [laughs]
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You agree?
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[Tim Sr.] Yes.
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I do feel like you're ready for marriage.
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I do feel like you're ready for a family.
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And if you
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and Alex become a family,
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you're both our family,
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and you both have all of our support.
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[Tim] Thank you.
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I trust your instincts,
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and I trust your heart,
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and I trust your mind.
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So tell us where to be.
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Just don't be late.
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00:17:06,275 --> 00:17:07,693
[laughs]
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00:17:07,776 --> 00:17:09,653
- I like how you looked at him.
- [Tim] Yeah.
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[laughing]
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- ["Unbreakable" playing]
- ♪ We will never stop ♪
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♪ And when we fall, we will get back up ♪
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♪ Can't nobody bring
Can't nobody bring us down ♪
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♪ No, 'cause we're unbreakable ♪
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[pop music playing]
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{\an8}♪ What if tonight is all we have? ♪
374
00:17:33,302 --> 00:17:37,681
{\an8}♪ Will you choose another path? ♪
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♪ What if the end was a new beginning? ♪
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[Ashley A] When I say
that something is our superpower,
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I'm not being corny. We're just
really fucking good at communicating.
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[dog whines]
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{\an8}- What you crying about?
- She's sad.
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00:18:01,914 --> 00:18:02,790
She's sad?
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00:18:03,373 --> 00:18:05,375
[Tyler] She didn't lie on the couch
with me all day.
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00:18:05,459 --> 00:18:06,418
[Ashley A] Hmm.
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00:18:08,087 --> 00:18:11,673
Um, I don't hate you, you know.
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00:18:11,757 --> 00:18:14,343
- I'm just disappointed in you.
- Yeah.
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00:18:14,426 --> 00:18:19,181
And I am trying to navigate
a million emotions at once.
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00:18:20,933 --> 00:18:23,936
I'm not taking it lightly,
even that you're here talking.
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00:18:24,436 --> 00:18:25,896
Because you didn't have to come back.
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00:18:25,979 --> 00:18:27,898
- You didn't have to talk.
- Yeah.
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It says a lot about
how I feel about you and us.
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00:18:31,527 --> 00:18:32,402
[Tyler] Yeah.
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'Cause I don't think I would do this
in any other scenario.
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I do wanna give myself time.
393
00:18:39,576 --> 00:18:45,999
And the first step starts
with knowing more about that dynamic.
394
00:18:46,083 --> 00:18:46,917
Yeah.
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00:18:47,709 --> 00:18:50,462
I had a very close friend,
her and her wife wanted to have a baby.
396
00:18:50,963 --> 00:18:53,298
And they couldn't afford a sperm donor.
397
00:18:53,382 --> 00:18:56,218
I thought that was God telling me,
you know, "Help someone else."
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And it felt good.
399
00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:03,392
Do the kids know what you look like?
400
00:19:04,685 --> 00:19:05,894
Hmm, I don't think so.
401
00:19:10,107 --> 00:19:11,400
Well… [sighs]
402
00:19:12,067 --> 00:19:13,944
I guess the only thing we can do is…
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00:19:16,071 --> 00:19:17,573
take it hour by hour.
404
00:19:20,492 --> 00:19:21,994
So we'll try?
405
00:19:26,248 --> 00:19:27,249
Yeah.
406
00:19:30,294 --> 00:19:32,087
Yeah, we will give it a try.
407
00:19:34,798 --> 00:19:36,550
I still don't know how I feel about it.
408
00:19:36,633 --> 00:19:39,386
Yeah, I know.
That's why I said, "Just try."
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00:19:39,469 --> 00:19:41,430
I'm not asking you to accept.
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00:19:41,513 --> 00:19:43,599
If you stay here, I'll sleep out here.
411
00:19:44,474 --> 00:19:47,978
Like, seriously.
And I'll give you the space that you need.
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00:19:48,061 --> 00:19:51,773
If it gets to that point where you're
like, "I know it's not gonna happen,"
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I'm okay with that.
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00:19:53,066 --> 00:19:57,863
You could wake up the day of the wedding
and feel like, "I'm not doing this."
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00:19:57,946 --> 00:20:00,324
Or I could walk
down the aisle and think that.
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00:20:00,908 --> 00:20:02,034
Whatever it is.
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00:20:02,117 --> 00:20:05,787
If it's not yes, I can't be upset
because I know we tried.
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00:20:05,871 --> 00:20:09,499
I know you tried because I know
this is, like, a whole lot for you.
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00:20:09,583 --> 00:20:12,669
♪ I guess it's too late to say I'm sorry ♪
420
00:20:14,087 --> 00:20:16,465
♪ Never meant to let you down… ♪
421
00:20:16,548 --> 00:20:19,259
Really feels like
we've been together for years.
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00:20:19,343 --> 00:20:21,136
[Tyler] Feels like
we've been together forever.
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00:20:21,220 --> 00:20:22,137
Forever.
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00:20:23,305 --> 00:20:25,766
- [Tyler] I'm scared now.
- What are you scared of?
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00:20:26,934 --> 00:20:28,268
This not working.
426
00:20:30,604 --> 00:20:33,232
♪ I don't wanna say goodbye… ♪
427
00:20:33,982 --> 00:20:37,236
- Hmm.
- Told you. If this isn't it, this is it.
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00:20:37,736 --> 00:20:40,948
♪ Tell me what I gotta do
To make it up to you ♪
429
00:20:41,531 --> 00:20:43,825
♪ For what I put you through ♪
430
00:20:44,701 --> 00:20:47,287
♪ I just wanna let you know ♪
431
00:20:47,996 --> 00:20:50,916
♪ I don't wanna let you go ♪
432
00:20:51,750 --> 00:20:53,961
{\an8}♪ Every kiss you gave to me ♪
433
00:20:54,044 --> 00:20:58,006
{\an8}♪ Is in my memory
Like we were meant to be ♪
434
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{\an8}This is gonna be fun.
435
00:21:03,971 --> 00:21:04,805
{\an8}- Hi.
- Hi.
436
00:21:04,888 --> 00:21:07,140
- [woman] Garrett and Taylor.
- [Garrett] Nice to meet you.
437
00:21:07,224 --> 00:21:08,141
So nice to meet you.
438
00:21:08,225 --> 00:21:10,352
- [Taylor] Thanks for having us.
- [woman] Yeah.
439
00:21:10,435 --> 00:21:13,355
{\an8}- Get settled and we'll get started.
- [Taylor] Sure.
440
00:21:14,773 --> 00:21:17,651
{\an8}My dad gave me a bunch
of love letters from my grandparents.
441
00:21:17,734 --> 00:21:19,611
[Michele] Oh, wow, what a treasure.
442
00:21:19,695 --> 00:21:20,904
[Taylor] Yeah, a lot of them.
443
00:21:20,988 --> 00:21:23,073
So the one that I picked out
444
00:21:23,156 --> 00:21:26,118
from the stack of them
the day before our engagement happened
445
00:21:26,201 --> 00:21:30,580
was the one that my grandpa
was asking my grandma to say "yes."
446
00:21:30,664 --> 00:21:33,792
And it had all the words
that I was struggling to put together
447
00:21:33,875 --> 00:21:36,378
{\an8}into all the things that I wanted to say.
448
00:21:36,461 --> 00:21:39,631
{\an8}- My grandparents, they're no longer here.
- [Michele] Sure.
449
00:21:39,715 --> 00:21:42,217
But they were able
to be part of a really special day
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00:21:42,301 --> 00:21:44,303
in a different, like, cosmic way.
451
00:21:44,386 --> 00:21:46,179
And I think for, like, our wedding,
452
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it's also a way
that they can be part of it.
453
00:21:48,682 --> 00:21:50,517
Absolutely. May I see?
454
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,436
- [Taylor] Of course.
- [Michele] So beautiful.
455
00:21:52,519 --> 00:21:55,063
This is not something you see often today.
456
00:21:55,147 --> 00:21:57,566
- No, this is unusual, incredible.
- The digital world…
457
00:21:58,150 --> 00:22:01,028
Garrett and I have, like, kind of
busy schedules too sometimes,
458
00:22:01,111 --> 00:22:04,990
so we've been leaving letters
and hiding them so we can find it later.
459
00:22:05,073 --> 00:22:06,491
Just thinking of each other.
460
00:22:06,575 --> 00:22:10,120
So we were thinking of having
a letter-writing station at the wedding.
461
00:22:10,203 --> 00:22:13,332
And maybe, like, what we write today
could just be like…
462
00:22:13,832 --> 00:22:17,669
Like a motivator for it, maybe just above
and the letter-writing station down here.
463
00:22:17,753 --> 00:22:18,754
[Taylor] Yeah.
464
00:22:19,504 --> 00:22:22,049
Is there a phrase
in there that really strikes you?
465
00:22:23,759 --> 00:22:25,093
I think it's…
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"I don't want to leave you so speechless
that you can't say yes."
467
00:22:29,973 --> 00:22:31,641
[Michele] That is a great quote.
468
00:22:31,725 --> 00:22:36,563
It would be really fun
if you worked on that sentence,
469
00:22:36,646 --> 00:22:39,983
and, Garrett, if you worked
on the sentence that really struck you.
470
00:22:40,067 --> 00:22:40,901
[Garrett] Okay.
471
00:22:41,985 --> 00:22:43,362
Hmm. How do I wanna do this?
472
00:22:43,445 --> 00:22:46,406
Why am I overthinking how
to write an "A" right now? [laughs]
473
00:22:46,490 --> 00:22:47,866
You're doing great, baby.
474
00:22:47,949 --> 00:22:49,785
- [Garrett] Yeah?
- [Taylor] Yeah.
475
00:22:49,868 --> 00:22:51,828
- [Garrett] Are you peeking?
- [Taylor] No.
476
00:22:51,912 --> 00:22:53,622
I just know you're doing great.
477
00:22:54,247 --> 00:22:58,377
I'm wondering if we can do
something special for, like, your parents.
478
00:22:59,169 --> 00:23:00,462
Especially for your mom.
479
00:23:00,545 --> 00:23:03,340
She will appreciate that thought,
at the very least.
480
00:23:03,924 --> 00:23:07,469
She may not want to be part of it,
but we can at least talk to her about it.
481
00:23:07,552 --> 00:23:08,887
You think she might not come?
482
00:23:10,055 --> 00:23:12,808
She's struggling with it, but we
can do something that would be like…
483
00:23:14,935 --> 00:23:17,562
make her feel more a part of it
and comfortable about it, you know.
484
00:23:17,646 --> 00:23:18,480
[Taylor] Hmm.
485
00:23:19,314 --> 00:23:22,192
I'm sure she'll love to have you
as a daughter and will fully embrace that…
486
00:23:22,275 --> 00:23:24,778
- No, I know.
- …when that day comes, but…
487
00:23:31,284 --> 00:23:34,037
I would be perfectly happy just
to have you say you would marry me.
488
00:23:34,121 --> 00:23:37,624
- ["The World Comes Alive" playing]
- ♪ I will change this ♪
489
00:23:38,500 --> 00:23:42,796
♪ And the world comes alive ♪
490
00:23:42,879 --> 00:23:44,881
♪ You and I… ♪
491
00:23:45,465 --> 00:23:47,384
[Hannah] I feel
like I'm bungee jumping again.
492
00:23:49,219 --> 00:23:50,595
{\an8}[Nick D] Spider-Man over here.
493
00:23:51,513 --> 00:23:52,597
[Hannah] This is so fun.
494
00:23:52,681 --> 00:23:54,683
[Nick] Come on,
Miss Karate, you got the balance.
495
00:23:56,435 --> 00:23:58,603
Oh, my God. [laughs]
496
00:23:58,687 --> 00:24:01,857
- [Hannah] Hurry up! You're so slow.
- Holy shit. [laughs]
497
00:24:01,940 --> 00:24:04,109
Holy crap, that is crazy.
498
00:24:04,192 --> 00:24:08,572
{\an8}[shouts] That was so embarrassing.
I need to compose myself.
499
00:24:09,531 --> 00:24:11,408
{\an8}Yeah, that's gonna hurt. [exhales]
500
00:24:11,491 --> 00:24:12,492
{\an8}[grunts]
501
00:24:12,576 --> 00:24:14,119
I have a stomachache now.
502
00:24:14,202 --> 00:24:16,246
[Hannah laughing] Do your balls hurt?
503
00:24:18,331 --> 00:24:20,250
- [Nick D laughing]
- Okay.
504
00:24:21,168 --> 00:24:23,128
- [Nick D] Good job.
- [Hannah] Thanks.
505
00:24:23,837 --> 00:24:25,088
That was lots of fun.
506
00:24:25,172 --> 00:24:26,256
It was.
507
00:24:26,756 --> 00:24:29,426
{\an8}You led some of the time.
I led some of the time.
508
00:24:29,926 --> 00:24:32,345
- It's a team effort.
- Who do you think did better?
509
00:24:32,846 --> 00:24:35,307
I would say you, but I learned.
You showed me the way.
510
00:24:35,390 --> 00:24:37,392
Your icks are starting
to become just funny to me.
511
00:24:37,476 --> 00:24:39,102
- My icks? What was one of my icks?
- Yeah.
512
00:24:39,186 --> 00:24:42,272
Just you, like, you know,
trying to get through it.
513
00:24:42,355 --> 00:24:45,317
- And then I went through it with grace.
- Yeah, I did it wrong.
514
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:46,610
I did it way wrong.
515
00:24:46,693 --> 00:24:48,195
- No, you're okay.
- I know. [laughing]
516
00:24:48,278 --> 00:24:50,447
- I don't look like a dumbass?
- I'm just being hard.
517
00:24:50,947 --> 00:24:53,909
Yeah. You're starting
to accept me for who I am, right?
518
00:24:53,992 --> 00:24:57,287
Yeah. You think, like,
you're ready to get married in two weeks?
519
00:24:58,121 --> 00:24:58,955
Yeah.
520
00:25:00,081 --> 00:25:02,751
Meeting your family
and having that go well
521
00:25:02,834 --> 00:25:05,545
and then meeting my family
and having that go well,
522
00:25:05,629 --> 00:25:08,715
getting both of their support,
that was really important for me.
523
00:25:08,798 --> 00:25:11,009
I think it's nice to have family
and friends' opinions,
524
00:25:11,092 --> 00:25:13,303
but I don't really care
what anyone else thinks.
525
00:25:14,429 --> 00:25:16,348
My opinion is
the only opinion that matters.
526
00:25:16,431 --> 00:25:18,558
No one's making the decision
for me, except myself.
527
00:25:19,726 --> 00:25:21,102
- Right?
- Yeah.
528
00:25:23,396 --> 00:25:27,150
So you didn't really answer my question.
Are you ready to get married in two weeks?
529
00:25:27,734 --> 00:25:29,069
- Yeah. I said, "Yeah."
- Okay.
530
00:25:29,653 --> 00:25:30,737
I do wanna get married.
531
00:25:30,820 --> 00:25:33,490
You've made me realize
with some of your hard questions
532
00:25:33,573 --> 00:25:37,661
what I do need to work on to mature
and be able to get married, right?
533
00:25:37,744 --> 00:25:40,288
Because it's a big commitment,
no fucking joke.
534
00:25:40,372 --> 00:25:42,707
You've never really had
to think about anybody else, right?
535
00:25:42,791 --> 00:25:43,833
Now you do.
536
00:25:43,917 --> 00:25:46,253
I want you to be an active listener,
an active partner.
537
00:25:46,336 --> 00:25:48,880
I don't wanna have to, like,
538
00:25:48,964 --> 00:25:52,342
always have to be the first one
to start a deep conversation
539
00:25:52,425 --> 00:25:53,969
or, like, initiate sex.
540
00:25:54,052 --> 00:25:56,596
I think it's all about, like, initiative.
541
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,432
When we were in the pods,
you were talking about how much I read.
542
00:25:59,516 --> 00:26:01,726
You were like, "I'd love to read."
Have you read?
543
00:26:01,810 --> 00:26:03,395
- I haven't had a chance to.
- Okay.
544
00:26:03,478 --> 00:26:04,938
When I have free time…
545
00:26:05,021 --> 00:26:07,899
Maybe last night, instead of going
to watch the game, I could've read.
546
00:26:07,983 --> 00:26:10,694
- But, you know--
- Yeah. Priorities, right?
547
00:26:12,821 --> 00:26:15,699
There are little things, like in Mexico,
I couldn't figure out the lights.
548
00:26:15,782 --> 00:26:18,660
You got pissed when I couldn't figure out
the 50 fucking lights,
549
00:26:18,743 --> 00:26:21,580
but that wasn't,
like, a one-time thing, right?
550
00:26:22,163 --> 00:26:24,874
"Hey, Hannah,
you know where the disposal is?"
551
00:26:24,958 --> 00:26:25,792
[Hannah] Mm-hmm.
552
00:26:25,875 --> 00:26:28,003
You didn't say I was stupid,
but you're like,
553
00:26:28,086 --> 00:26:29,254
"Nick, you should know this."
554
00:26:29,337 --> 00:26:33,049
Sometimes I feel like,
you know, you do think I'm…
555
00:26:35,885 --> 00:26:39,139
maybe sometimes, like, a level below you.
You know what I mean?
556
00:26:39,222 --> 00:26:40,807
I just wanna be treated as an equal.
557
00:26:40,890 --> 00:26:44,227
I think you get treated like an equal
when you start contributing like an equal.
558
00:26:49,482 --> 00:26:51,735
I think when I'm hard on you
and say mean things, like,
559
00:26:51,818 --> 00:26:54,904
you feel like
I think that you're, like, below me.
560
00:26:54,988 --> 00:26:56,281
You're not as mature as me,
561
00:26:56,364 --> 00:26:58,658
or I think you're stupid
or dumb or whatever.
562
00:26:58,742 --> 00:27:00,619
And I don't mean
to make you feel like that,
563
00:27:00,702 --> 00:27:03,038
but sometimes I feel like,
at 28 years old,
564
00:27:03,121 --> 00:27:05,415
you should know how to do things,
so it just frustrates me.
565
00:27:09,085 --> 00:27:10,462
I'm not here to date someone.
566
00:27:10,545 --> 00:27:13,465
I'm here to actually have a person
for the rest of my life, you know.
567
00:27:13,548 --> 00:27:15,383
- Yeah. I'm the same way.
- Yeah.
568
00:27:19,721 --> 00:27:23,767
As long as I'm being truthful to myself,
569
00:27:23,850 --> 00:27:26,394
as long as I'm working
as hard as I can for you.
570
00:27:26,478 --> 00:27:30,649
As long as I know the end goal,
and we have that end goal in common.
571
00:27:30,732 --> 00:27:31,816
- Yeah.
- To get married.
572
00:27:31,900 --> 00:27:34,152
And I'm working towards it.
That's all I can do.
573
00:27:36,321 --> 00:27:38,281
Are you ready to get married in two weeks?
574
00:27:38,365 --> 00:27:40,825
I think I'm mature, and I'm ready.
575
00:27:40,909 --> 00:27:42,869
I wanna make sure
you're mature and ready for it.
576
00:27:42,952 --> 00:27:45,413
I've definitely, like, matured,
577
00:27:45,497 --> 00:27:47,791
I feel like, a good amount
since I've been with you.
578
00:27:48,375 --> 00:27:50,335
- Right? Without even realizing it.
- Mm-hmm.
579
00:27:50,418 --> 00:27:51,294
And I'm growing.
580
00:27:51,378 --> 00:27:54,172
Behind every great man
is a greater woman, you know?
581
00:27:54,255 --> 00:27:55,632
Yeah, for sure.
582
00:27:55,715 --> 00:27:57,592
I can always look into your eyes
and be like,
583
00:27:57,676 --> 00:27:59,761
"This is the woman I fell in love with,"
you know.
584
00:27:59,844 --> 00:28:01,680
- I like that.
- Yeah.
585
00:28:01,763 --> 00:28:03,264
♪ My future looks like… ♪
586
00:28:03,348 --> 00:28:05,225
[laughing]
587
00:28:05,308 --> 00:28:09,437
♪ My future looks like you ♪
588
00:28:09,521 --> 00:28:11,648
♪ You make me feel alive ♪
589
00:28:12,190 --> 00:28:14,526
[Marissa] I wanna talk to you
about the wedding planning.
590
00:28:14,609 --> 00:28:17,195
{\an8}I talked to the wedding planner today
while you were at work.
591
00:28:17,278 --> 00:28:18,905
{\an8}- All right.
- Let's go to the bed.
592
00:28:18,988 --> 00:28:20,323
Because I have a little surprise.
593
00:28:20,407 --> 00:28:21,408
- Voilà!
- Aww.
594
00:28:21,491 --> 00:28:23,284
- [Marissa] Rose petals.
- [Ramses] Rose petals.
595
00:28:23,868 --> 00:28:25,787
Okay, so we're gonna do boho glam.
596
00:28:25,870 --> 00:28:29,374
{\an8}- How does the glam come with the boho?
- The sophistication.
597
00:28:29,457 --> 00:28:32,502
{\an8}- Okay.
- Mother-son dance, do you wanna do that?
598
00:28:32,585 --> 00:28:34,963
{\an8}Yeah, that'd be cool. Um…
599
00:28:35,463 --> 00:28:38,717
- Are you doing the dance with your mom?
- No.
600
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:42,011
- Is it 'cause she doesn't want to?
- No, I think 'cause I don't want to.
601
00:28:42,095 --> 00:28:43,054
Oh, okay.
602
00:28:43,555 --> 00:28:45,640
[exclaims] Okay, go ahead, baby.
603
00:28:45,724 --> 00:28:47,267
[Marissa] She asked about our fathers.
604
00:28:47,350 --> 00:28:49,936
- We were both raised by single moms.
- Mm-hmm.
605
00:28:50,019 --> 00:28:53,148
Essentially, when your father passed,
and then my father decided to…
606
00:28:53,231 --> 00:28:55,191
- You know, leave.
- Right.
607
00:28:55,275 --> 00:28:56,860
Do you wanna honor your father?
608
00:28:56,943 --> 00:28:58,153
- So…
- Like a picture?
609
00:28:58,236 --> 00:29:02,490
I was thinking, like, in the entrance
where people are signing in or whatever,
610
00:29:02,574 --> 00:29:04,617
they can just, like, have his photo.
611
00:29:04,701 --> 00:29:06,369
Let's do that. Make sure I don't forget.
612
00:29:06,453 --> 00:29:08,538
Our parents are gonna
sit next to each other.
613
00:29:08,621 --> 00:29:11,124
- I think that's a good idea.
- I would love to not have an aisle.
614
00:29:12,876 --> 00:29:15,795
So we're just descending
from the heavens to the altar?
615
00:29:15,879 --> 00:29:17,505
- Walk in from the side?
- We could.
616
00:29:17,589 --> 00:29:21,217
Here's, like, where we stand, right?
This is the little altar.
617
00:29:21,301 --> 00:29:23,094
There goes me. There goes you.
618
00:29:23,178 --> 00:29:26,181
We have smiles on our faces
'cause we're getting married.
619
00:29:26,264 --> 00:29:30,101
You have hearts all around your head
'cause we're getting married.
620
00:29:30,185 --> 00:29:32,604
- You're gonna say "yes."
- Right. [laughing]
621
00:29:32,687 --> 00:29:34,898
- Okay, the point of this was…
- Okay, sorry.
622
00:29:34,981 --> 00:29:36,524
I hate that separate shit.
623
00:29:36,608 --> 00:29:39,736
We're bringing two families together,
two friend groups together.
624
00:29:39,819 --> 00:29:41,613
We're bringing two lives together.
625
00:29:41,696 --> 00:29:43,823
- Put it all together.
- Yeah, I like that.
626
00:29:43,907 --> 00:29:46,367
- Great ideas, baby
- You only get married once.
627
00:29:46,451 --> 00:29:47,285
Yes.
628
00:29:48,161 --> 00:29:49,496
- But also twice.
- Okay.
629
00:29:50,246 --> 00:29:52,165
- Right.
- [laughing]
630
00:29:52,248 --> 00:29:54,834
I want this marriage to look different
from your previous marriage.
631
00:29:54,918 --> 00:29:57,670
- No, it's definitely gonna be different.
- Yeah?
632
00:29:57,754 --> 00:29:59,923
But I don't want you
to be thinking of that. [laughs]
633
00:30:00,006 --> 00:30:02,091
I haven't been thinking
about your previous marriage,
634
00:30:02,175 --> 00:30:05,261
but when I sit here
and look at it like this…
635
00:30:05,345 --> 00:30:07,472
[laughs] …I did think
about your previous marriage.
636
00:30:07,555 --> 00:30:08,807
And so…
637
00:30:08,890 --> 00:30:11,684
I definitely don't wanna do any more
wedding planning without you.
638
00:30:11,768 --> 00:30:12,685
- I will say.
- Yeah.
639
00:30:15,897 --> 00:30:18,608
How are you feeling? How are
you feeling now? Let's talk about that.
640
00:30:18,691 --> 00:30:19,526
Um…
641
00:30:20,443 --> 00:30:23,029
- Obviously, I suck on my period, so…
- [laughing]
642
00:30:23,738 --> 00:30:25,490
I'm back to my normal energy level.
643
00:30:25,573 --> 00:30:28,993
- You know where I stand on affection and…
- Yeah.
644
00:30:29,661 --> 00:30:31,371
I think we kind of figured that out too.
645
00:30:31,454 --> 00:30:33,456
- [laughing]
- We did.
646
00:30:35,708 --> 00:30:37,585
We figured that out quickly.
647
00:30:37,669 --> 00:30:39,629
- Yes.
- Which is good.
648
00:30:39,712 --> 00:30:41,714
[Marissa] Now, you know, once a month.
649
00:30:41,798 --> 00:30:43,466
No, that's fine. Yeah.
650
00:30:43,550 --> 00:30:45,093
Well, yeah, it's fine.
651
00:30:45,176 --> 00:30:47,136
- Of course.
- But, yeah, like…
652
00:30:47,220 --> 00:30:50,390
Do you have any doubts right now
about us making it to the end
653
00:30:50,473 --> 00:30:52,058
and getting married?
654
00:30:52,141 --> 00:30:55,937
Um, I don't have, like,
any major doubts or anything.
655
00:30:56,020 --> 00:30:58,064
I think what I have right now
is just the normal.
656
00:30:58,147 --> 00:30:59,732
There's still stuff to plan.
657
00:30:59,816 --> 00:31:01,484
There's still stuff to figure out.
658
00:31:01,568 --> 00:31:03,570
- I have, like, those nerves.
- Yeah.
659
00:31:03,653 --> 00:31:06,656
But in terms of big-picture,
like, you know, doubts
660
00:31:06,739 --> 00:31:08,491
or things that I'm concerned about
661
00:31:08,575 --> 00:31:10,243
that would potentially make me…
662
00:31:10,326 --> 00:31:12,704
- Derail us.
- Derail us? No.
663
00:31:12,787 --> 00:31:17,917
I'm glad to hear
you're not having, like, doubts.
664
00:31:18,001 --> 00:31:19,210
'Cause I don't wanna seem…
665
00:31:21,004 --> 00:31:23,214
I'm gonna be honest.
I don't wanna seem needy.
666
00:31:23,298 --> 00:31:27,010
I'll probably need clarity throughout
until we make it.
667
00:31:27,093 --> 00:31:29,762
Don't feel like you're being needy
by, like, wanting
668
00:31:29,846 --> 00:31:32,473
to have some sort of clarity
about where I'm at.
669
00:31:33,057 --> 00:31:35,685
Do you feel sure about us getting married?
670
00:31:35,768 --> 00:31:36,603
Yeah.
671
00:31:38,062 --> 00:31:40,231
- Yeah, I do feel sure.
- Okay, you do feel sure?
672
00:31:40,315 --> 00:31:42,025
- Yeah.
- Okay, I just needed to clear that up.
673
00:31:42,108 --> 00:31:43,401
- I'm good.
- Okay.
674
00:31:43,484 --> 00:31:46,279
I see myself
at the altar with you, like, saying yes.
675
00:31:46,362 --> 00:31:50,033
I'll have nerves, but once I see you,
it just kind of melts away honestly.
676
00:31:50,116 --> 00:31:53,161
- I'm good. There's nothing to worry about.
- I hope so.
677
00:31:53,244 --> 00:31:55,038
[laughs] Yeah. No, honestly.
678
00:31:55,121 --> 00:31:57,874
- No, like, I do feel really good, so…
- Good.
679
00:31:57,957 --> 00:31:59,918
- Yeah.
- Yes, I feel good too.
680
00:32:00,418 --> 00:32:02,378
- Feeling pretty confident.
- Yeah.
681
00:32:02,462 --> 00:32:03,421
We'll be good.
682
00:32:03,504 --> 00:32:06,716
- ["Hold On Love" by Kari Kimmel playing]
- ♪ Don't give up… ♪
683
00:32:06,799 --> 00:32:08,426
- Love you.
- Love you too.
684
00:32:10,678 --> 00:32:12,931
[both laughing]
685
00:32:14,307 --> 00:32:16,309
- [Ramses] Mm. Mm.
- [kissing]
686
00:32:19,228 --> 00:32:20,146
[Ramses] Mm.
687
00:32:20,229 --> 00:32:23,816
♪ Hold on love ♪
688
00:32:29,697 --> 00:32:31,407
{\an8}[oven beeps]
689
00:32:31,491 --> 00:32:33,493
{\an8}[humming]
690
00:32:35,662 --> 00:32:36,746
{\an8}Mm. Mm.
691
00:32:43,169 --> 00:32:44,963
- What's up?
- Hey, how are you?
692
00:32:45,046 --> 00:32:47,298
- I'm good. How are you?
- I'm all right.
693
00:32:50,009 --> 00:32:52,929
- Let me know when you're ready to talk.
- I haven't eaten all day.
694
00:32:53,012 --> 00:32:54,514
Do you wanna talk now?
695
00:32:54,597 --> 00:32:56,182
You want me to sit over there?
696
00:32:56,808 --> 00:32:59,394
I mean, I would rather
talk to you intently. Yes.
697
00:33:04,190 --> 00:33:05,483
[sighs] Okay.
698
00:33:05,984 --> 00:33:07,110
What's up?
699
00:33:07,735 --> 00:33:09,612
- I have a lot to say.
- Okay.
700
00:33:10,196 --> 00:33:11,447
[Tim] Some things happened
701
00:33:11,531 --> 00:33:13,866
in regards to my parents
that I didn't really appreciate.
702
00:33:13,950 --> 00:33:15,034
Like?
703
00:33:15,118 --> 00:33:17,203
- Would you like me to tell you?
- [Alex] Yeah, for sure.
704
00:33:17,286 --> 00:33:19,080
I understood you were sleepy,
705
00:33:19,163 --> 00:33:23,042
but my parents drove up here
ten hours to meet you.
706
00:33:23,126 --> 00:33:24,919
And as soon as the cameras cut,
707
00:33:25,003 --> 00:33:27,922
you decided to go to sleep
at the first opportunity.
708
00:33:28,006 --> 00:33:29,841
These are the most important people
in my life.
709
00:33:30,425 --> 00:33:32,969
- And all I have left in this world.
- Mm-hmm.
710
00:33:33,052 --> 00:33:36,014
[Tim] And the choice you made
in that moment was to go to sleep.
711
00:33:36,097 --> 00:33:40,685
To me, it is telling, 'cause that's just
not a choice that I would ever make.
712
00:33:40,768 --> 00:33:41,686
Okay.
713
00:33:41,769 --> 00:33:44,772
I'm not here to tell you how to live
your life, but for me, that was not okay.
714
00:33:46,357 --> 00:33:49,277
[Alex] I was exhausted.
I like to take my naps.
715
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:50,903
We talked for hours about you,
716
00:33:50,987 --> 00:33:56,451
about what I would be to them as a vessel,
717
00:33:56,534 --> 00:33:57,535
as someone to lean on.
718
00:33:57,618 --> 00:34:01,998
If it really meant that to you,
I would have stayed up.
719
00:34:02,081 --> 00:34:05,293
I had been trying to communicate
with you all day during the day.
720
00:34:05,376 --> 00:34:06,627
- Can I stop you there?
- Sure.
721
00:34:06,711 --> 00:34:08,463
You say you were trying to contact me.
722
00:34:08,546 --> 00:34:11,883
I talked to you three times yesterday.
Then at five o'clock you texted me--
723
00:34:11,966 --> 00:34:15,470
- But you were asleep for most of the day--
- I was asleep for an hour.
724
00:34:15,553 --> 00:34:18,723
- We did not text much yesterday.
- [Alex] From five to six.
725
00:34:18,806 --> 00:34:20,558
[Tim] You weren't very responsive.
726
00:34:20,641 --> 00:34:23,352
No, no, no, no, hold on.
I don't appreciate that, because--
727
00:34:23,436 --> 00:34:27,190
- Would you like me to tell my side?
- [Alex] That's not true.
728
00:34:27,273 --> 00:34:29,233
Can I tell my truth
and then you speak yours?
729
00:34:29,317 --> 00:34:30,610
[laughs] Go ahead.
730
00:34:31,611 --> 00:34:33,404
Is that a possibility?
731
00:34:33,488 --> 00:34:34,739
- Absolutely.
- [Tim] All right.
732
00:34:34,822 --> 00:34:39,368
So I felt like I was not getting
responsiveness out of you yesterday.
733
00:34:39,452 --> 00:34:43,039
The only other conversation we had
was when we were gonna get to the house
734
00:34:43,122 --> 00:34:44,707
and what was up with your car.
735
00:34:44,791 --> 00:34:47,335
I just said,
"Congratulations, you got your car back."
736
00:34:47,418 --> 00:34:49,212
- "Keep an eye out for it."
- Right.
737
00:34:49,295 --> 00:34:51,923
I feel like even
the response to that was kind of…
738
00:34:52,548 --> 00:34:54,592
- When I said, "It's fine"?
- [Tim] Yeah.
739
00:34:54,675 --> 00:34:57,678
I was just saying "Keep an eye out
for your tires on your car." That's all.
740
00:34:57,762 --> 00:35:00,890
- Yeah. I didn't respond to that.
- There's nothing wrong with it, but…
741
00:35:00,973 --> 00:35:03,518
The point is that's the only conversation
we had that day.
742
00:35:03,601 --> 00:35:05,520
- Okay. You're working.
- [Tim] At that point--
743
00:35:05,603 --> 00:35:07,271
Do you want me to finish?
744
00:35:07,355 --> 00:35:08,856
I'm so confused.
745
00:35:08,940 --> 00:35:11,859
- What's wrong with that?
- I'm trying to explain. Trying to explain.
746
00:35:12,652 --> 00:35:14,779
- Would you rather explain or--
- Go for it.
747
00:35:14,862 --> 00:35:17,365
[Tim] All right.
By the time you called me,
748
00:35:17,448 --> 00:35:19,492
you were ready to talk to me on your time.
749
00:35:19,575 --> 00:35:24,330
And at that point, I feel like
if I haven't been talking to you all day,
750
00:35:24,413 --> 00:35:26,165
and now I don't feel like talking,
751
00:35:26,249 --> 00:35:29,627
you don't get to dictate
that now we talk on the phone.
752
00:35:29,710 --> 00:35:32,922
Okay. When I went to work yesterday,
it's a long day.
753
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:35,550
I'm interacting with people all day.
754
00:35:36,134 --> 00:35:39,762
I called you, and I let you know what
was going on in the middle of the day.
755
00:35:39,846 --> 00:35:42,557
Then I even texted you
when my car was back.
756
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:45,810
You're like, "Make sure your car is okay."
I said, "It's fine."
757
00:35:45,893 --> 00:35:48,396
You're like, "Yeah, well,
just make sure your tires are good."
758
00:35:48,479 --> 00:35:51,190
I didn't respond. Okay, I see it.
759
00:35:51,274 --> 00:35:52,817
I read it, and I received it.
760
00:35:52,900 --> 00:35:54,318
If you don't communicate that,
761
00:35:54,402 --> 00:35:58,072
"Hey, this really bothers me
that you didn't respond,"
762
00:35:58,156 --> 00:36:00,283
how am I supposed to know?
763
00:36:00,366 --> 00:36:03,578
Then, when you called me,
764
00:36:03,661 --> 00:36:07,081
I was asleep
because I had been running around all day.
765
00:36:07,165 --> 00:36:08,457
So I took a nap.
766
00:36:08,541 --> 00:36:10,418
And that's when I called you immediately.
767
00:36:10,501 --> 00:36:12,712
You said, "I don't wanna talk
on the phone."
768
00:36:12,795 --> 00:36:13,629
Okay.
769
00:36:13,713 --> 00:36:16,924
"Well, maybe if I expressed to him
that I do like talking on the phone,
770
00:36:17,008 --> 00:36:18,551
maybe it will change."
771
00:36:18,634 --> 00:36:20,595
No, it didn't,
and it wasn't me trying to dictate.
772
00:36:20,678 --> 00:36:22,430
I was just trying to explain to you,
773
00:36:22,513 --> 00:36:25,558
"Hey, this is what I like."
Just like you could have explained,
774
00:36:25,641 --> 00:36:28,477
"Hey, I didn't like that you fell asleep
while my parents were there."
775
00:36:28,561 --> 00:36:31,772
I get tired really easily. I don't know.
I'm not trying to make an excuse.
776
00:36:31,856 --> 00:36:34,442
With your parents,
I just talked to them for four hours.
777
00:36:34,525 --> 00:36:38,779
I didn't think it was that big of a deal
to go to sleep for an hour.
778
00:36:38,863 --> 00:36:40,031
I really didn't.
779
00:36:40,114 --> 00:36:42,992
But if it meant something,
you have to just say that.
780
00:36:43,075 --> 00:36:46,078
You never said anything.
I cannot read your mind.
781
00:36:46,162 --> 00:36:48,706
You want me to be this person
that is your wife
782
00:36:48,789 --> 00:36:51,667
that does everything by the book,
on your book.
783
00:36:51,751 --> 00:36:55,213
But I can't be doing everything
by the book unless you tell me.
784
00:36:55,296 --> 00:36:57,465
You have to communicate that.
785
00:36:57,548 --> 00:37:00,343
I am ready to listen.
I'm trying to understand you.
786
00:37:00,426 --> 00:37:03,179
Just like yesterday, when we were
on the phone, and I called you again,
787
00:37:03,262 --> 00:37:06,182
and you were like, "I don't wanna
talk to you because you don't listen."
788
00:37:06,265 --> 00:37:09,727
I felt very dismissed.
I felt very closed off from you.
789
00:37:09,810 --> 00:37:13,105
I was hurt. I started crying
because I don't understand what it is.
790
00:37:13,189 --> 00:37:16,275
You have to admit, it is not the same
from when we were in the pods.
791
00:37:16,359 --> 00:37:19,570
And I'm not saying it's all on you,
and I'm not saying it's all on me.
792
00:37:19,654 --> 00:37:22,448
It's both of us.
These are such little things.
793
00:37:22,531 --> 00:37:24,492
I am trying my hardest.
794
00:37:27,036 --> 00:37:31,499
[Tim] After reflecting on what
I really want out of life and a wife,
795
00:37:31,582 --> 00:37:33,668
I have to be honest with myself
796
00:37:33,751 --> 00:37:36,754
that the answer
between you and I, for me, is no.
797
00:37:43,469 --> 00:37:44,345
Okay.
798
00:37:45,763 --> 00:37:46,597
All right.
799
00:37:51,686 --> 00:37:52,812
If your mind is made up,
800
00:37:52,895 --> 00:37:55,523
I have many words
to say on what you're saying.
801
00:37:55,606 --> 00:37:57,566
- I'm here to listen.
- [Alex] Huh?
802
00:37:57,650 --> 00:37:59,777
I'm here to listen if you would like to,
but I said--
803
00:37:59,860 --> 00:38:01,862
Are you listening just to hear,
804
00:38:01,946 --> 00:38:04,490
or are you listening
as an open mind to move forward?
805
00:38:04,573 --> 00:38:08,119
I'm listening to understand.
I am always listening to understand.
806
00:38:08,202 --> 00:38:11,330
- I mean, is your mind made up?
- That is what I said.
807
00:38:11,414 --> 00:38:12,873
- Yes.
- [Alex] Okay. All right, cool.
808
00:38:17,211 --> 00:38:20,298
I told you I was gonna take
this experiment to the very end.
809
00:38:20,381 --> 00:38:25,344
And I did not take you meeting my father
and getting him that emotional so lightly.
810
00:38:25,428 --> 00:38:28,806
How dare you do that and then
just throw it away after two days.
811
00:38:28,889 --> 00:38:31,142
It's literally been two days
since you did that.
812
00:38:31,225 --> 00:38:33,477
Now you're ready to throw it away
because I fell asleep?
813
00:38:33,561 --> 00:38:35,354
And because I didn't text you?
814
00:38:35,438 --> 00:38:39,317
Honestly, yes, I took that
for your father very seriously.
815
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:42,862
Nothing has happened
to actually do the work to give it a shot.
816
00:38:42,945 --> 00:38:45,156
I feel like
you don't even see the things that I am--
817
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:47,283
- But have you tried? With what?
- [Tim] Absolutely.
818
00:38:47,366 --> 00:38:49,577
- Would you like me to answer?
- Yeah, for sure.
819
00:38:50,161 --> 00:38:52,038
- Am I gonna get to speak?
- Absolutely.
820
00:38:52,121 --> 00:38:55,833
All right, so you want me
to cuddle with you more.
821
00:38:55,916 --> 00:38:58,586
I intentionally rolled over
and tried to hold you
822
00:38:58,669 --> 00:39:00,004
in that tiny-ass bed.
823
00:39:00,087 --> 00:39:02,757
And upon asking you,
you didn't even notice.
824
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:05,051
- 'Cause I was sleeping.
- [Tim] What do you want from me?
825
00:39:05,134 --> 00:39:07,762
I don't think you realize
how much work I put in to do that.
826
00:39:07,845 --> 00:39:10,514
- To cuddle?
- No. For your family.
827
00:39:10,598 --> 00:39:12,016
I woke up at eight in the morning
828
00:39:12,099 --> 00:39:14,727
and went to the grocery store
and had to hunt down a bunch of stuff,
829
00:39:14,810 --> 00:39:16,896
season meat, figure out the grill.
830
00:39:16,979 --> 00:39:17,980
That was work.
831
00:39:18,064 --> 00:39:20,232
And after that,
I came back and did the dishes.
832
00:39:20,816 --> 00:39:24,153
If you sat here and grilled a whole meal
for my whole family,
833
00:39:24,236 --> 00:39:28,240
and I come back to dishes in the sink,
I'm not gonna ask you to do the dishes.
834
00:39:28,324 --> 00:39:30,117
I'm probably just gonna do them.
835
00:39:30,201 --> 00:39:32,495
Maybe I didn't communicate that, sure.
836
00:39:32,578 --> 00:39:36,540
However, if I have to communicate that,
I am not the one for you.
837
00:39:41,670 --> 00:39:44,423
Do not try to make it seem
like I'm not here doing my part at all.
838
00:39:44,507 --> 00:39:47,301
- We're not gonna spin it like that.
- Nobody's spinning anything.
839
00:39:47,385 --> 00:39:50,262
I've been given such a negative response,
840
00:39:50,346 --> 00:39:54,058
a temper tantrum sometimes,
like, an attitude.
841
00:39:54,141 --> 00:39:55,935
I just don't understand it.
842
00:39:56,018 --> 00:39:58,854
If it's about the dishes,
if it's about me going to sleep,
843
00:39:58,938 --> 00:40:02,650
if it's about a text,
all of that, it's a slap in the face.
844
00:40:02,733 --> 00:40:04,902
- Great. I'm glad you feel that way.
- [scoffs]
845
00:40:04,985 --> 00:40:09,115
There's a lot I could respond to,
but there is no scenario
846
00:40:09,198 --> 00:40:10,866
that I see myself standing there
847
00:40:10,950 --> 00:40:13,411
and saying yes
to making you my wife forever.
848
00:40:15,663 --> 00:40:16,997
And with that in mind,
849
00:40:17,081 --> 00:40:20,584
and I'm glad we can at least agree,
I don't ever wanna see you again.
850
00:40:24,713 --> 00:40:26,674
This was nice.
I wish you the best of luck.
851
00:40:26,757 --> 00:40:29,677
- [pop music playing]
- ♪ Oh, yeah, you lit the match… ♪
852
00:40:30,636 --> 00:40:31,512
Wow.
853
00:40:32,555 --> 00:40:36,183
♪ But that's what happens
When you play with fire ♪
854
00:40:37,309 --> 00:40:39,353
♪ Fire, fire ♪
855
00:40:40,396 --> 00:40:43,399
♪ Higher, higher ♪
856
00:40:45,609 --> 00:40:48,946
♪ That's what happens
When you play with fire ♪
857
00:40:49,905 --> 00:40:52,199
♪ Fire, fire ♪
858
00:40:52,908 --> 00:40:55,786
♪ Higher, higher ♪
859
00:40:58,247 --> 00:41:01,584
♪ That's what happens
When you play with fire ♪
860
00:41:06,630 --> 00:41:08,757
{\an8}- ["Born to Slay" playing]
- ♪ Hey! Hey! Hey! Hey! ♪
861
00:41:08,841 --> 00:41:12,386
{\an8}♪ I was born so I could slay ♪
862
00:41:12,470 --> 00:41:16,307
♪ Do it better every day ♪
863
00:41:16,390 --> 00:41:17,725
[Ashley A] I love costume parties.
864
00:41:17,808 --> 00:41:19,268
{\an8}[Tyler] You gonna be best dressed.
865
00:41:19,351 --> 00:41:20,769
{\an8}That's your hair things.
866
00:41:21,437 --> 00:41:22,771
{\an8}[Ashley A] Oh, perfect.
867
00:41:22,855 --> 00:41:25,274
- And it's real.
- What do you mean by real?
868
00:41:25,357 --> 00:41:26,484
- It's heavy.
- Yeah, no.
869
00:41:26,567 --> 00:41:29,570
- Your neck about to be hurting.
- I didn't come to play games.
870
00:41:29,653 --> 00:41:32,406
Ooh. Put these on.
871
00:41:32,490 --> 00:41:33,324
Okay. Mm-hmm.
872
00:41:33,407 --> 00:41:35,367
- Put them on right now.
- Stockings.
873
00:41:35,451 --> 00:41:36,702
[Tyler] Oh, yeah.
874
00:41:36,785 --> 00:41:37,953
[laughing]
875
00:41:38,037 --> 00:41:40,247
{\an8}♪ I'll ride with you, I'mma step back… ♪
876
00:41:40,331 --> 00:41:42,291
{\an8}[Taylor] Ooh!
877
00:41:43,792 --> 00:41:44,627
My dress.
878
00:41:44,710 --> 00:41:45,669
Nice.
879
00:41:46,253 --> 00:41:47,213
Nice, lovely.
880
00:41:47,296 --> 00:41:49,673
I'm glad it all came in on time.
That was perfect.
881
00:41:49,757 --> 00:41:53,761
I know this is really surprising,
but I don't often dress up like a flapper.
882
00:41:53,844 --> 00:41:56,222
[Garrett] I don't believe that.
I've seen the video.
883
00:41:57,056 --> 00:41:58,474
Oh, good, my beads came in.
884
00:41:58,557 --> 00:42:01,519
You should keep these on the entire time.
We're just gonna do--
885
00:42:01,602 --> 00:42:04,813
Just a blended outfit?
I'll give you the suspenders.
886
00:42:04,897 --> 00:42:07,983
- Yeah. It's 2022.
- Are you trying to choke me? Jesus.
887
00:42:08,067 --> 00:42:11,195
It's what all the, like, Gen Z people do.
888
00:42:11,278 --> 00:42:13,113
- Ow!
- [both laughing]
889
00:42:13,197 --> 00:42:14,073
♪ Set me on fire ♪
890
00:42:14,156 --> 00:42:17,409
♪ You can use me, abuse me
But can't make me cry ♪
891
00:42:19,453 --> 00:42:21,622
[Taylor] Are you excited
for our flight in the morning?
892
00:42:21,705 --> 00:42:25,167
Yes, I feel good.
I'm looking forward to meeting them
893
00:42:25,251 --> 00:42:28,045
and getting a chance
to explain how I feel.
894
00:42:28,128 --> 00:42:31,006
- Mm-hmm. Me too.
- I honestly don't feel stressed.
895
00:42:31,090 --> 00:42:34,301
- I will once I get on the plane. [laughs]
- My dad was just like, "Don't fuck it up."
896
00:42:34,385 --> 00:42:35,678
[laughing]
897
00:42:37,471 --> 00:42:39,640
Sounds easy. Can't wait to talk to him.
898
00:42:39,723 --> 00:42:41,934
- [pop music playing]
- ♪ Oh, yeah! Come and get it ♪
899
00:42:42,017 --> 00:42:44,228
♪ Come and get it
Come and get it, yeah… ♪
900
00:42:44,311 --> 00:42:47,231
{\an8}[Nick D] Nice. Okay.
Definitely giving Gatsby vibes.
901
00:42:47,314 --> 00:42:49,650
{\an8}- [Hannah] Exactly what I'm going for!
- I like it.
902
00:42:49,733 --> 00:42:52,528
I'm excited to see
everybody's outfits too.
903
00:42:52,611 --> 00:42:54,697
I think some people
are gonna want closure.
904
00:42:54,780 --> 00:42:56,865
- Really?
- [Nick D] I mean, yeah.
905
00:42:57,783 --> 00:42:59,827
- You know--
- Is there anyone you want closure with?
906
00:42:59,910 --> 00:43:01,662
It might be Katie.
907
00:43:01,745 --> 00:43:03,872
You know,
we matched up the first couple days.
908
00:43:03,956 --> 00:43:05,374
We were each other's "ones."
909
00:43:05,457 --> 00:43:09,295
And at that time, I was interested in her,
and then I just never saw her again.
910
00:43:09,378 --> 00:43:12,506
It's not like I need closure,
but, you know, it's a simple conversation.
911
00:43:13,716 --> 00:43:15,467
- True. Mm-hmm.
- You know?
912
00:43:15,551 --> 00:43:16,552
What about you?
913
00:43:17,052 --> 00:43:18,012
[Hannah] I'm good.
914
00:43:18,095 --> 00:43:20,222
- You're good? We're good.
- Yeah, I don't need closure.
915
00:43:20,889 --> 00:43:23,183
- I made a decision. I made a decision.
- Me too.
916
00:43:24,059 --> 00:43:25,102
[pop music playing]
917
00:43:25,185 --> 00:43:29,356
♪ I get this feeling
And it's taking over ♪
918
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:33,193
♪ Something about him
Makes me lose my self-control… ♪
919
00:43:33,277 --> 00:43:34,612
[Marissa] Hi!
920
00:43:34,695 --> 00:43:36,488
{\an8}Hi!
921
00:43:36,572 --> 00:43:38,699
{\an8}- We getting started right now.
- [Ashley A] Oh, my God!
922
00:43:38,782 --> 00:43:42,494
♪ I get this feeling
And it's taking over… ♪
923
00:43:42,578 --> 00:43:45,748
{\an8}- Hey! Look at my boy!
- [shouting]
924
00:43:46,290 --> 00:43:48,667
{\an8}- [Ashley A] That's a flapper!
- [Tyler] Hey!
925
00:43:48,751 --> 00:43:49,627
[Ashley A shouts]
926
00:43:50,252 --> 00:43:52,963
{\an8}I just wanna make it incredibly clear
927
00:43:53,505 --> 00:43:56,216
{\an8}that if other women
from your past are talking to you,
928
00:43:57,885 --> 00:43:59,303
you're just shutting it down.
929
00:43:59,386 --> 00:44:00,638
- "I'm engaged."
- Yeah.
930
00:44:02,014 --> 00:44:03,265
{\an8}- That's it.
- Shut it down.
931
00:44:03,349 --> 00:44:04,266
{\an8}- Shut it down.
- Easy.
932
00:44:04,350 --> 00:44:07,895
{\an8}Don't just leave them "unread"
or, like, even worse, "like" something.
933
00:44:07,978 --> 00:44:10,439
{\an8}- [Garrett] I totally understand. Sorry.
- Thank you.
934
00:44:10,522 --> 00:44:13,776
{\an8}It obviously didn't mean anything.
Like, I don't feel any sort of way.
935
00:44:13,859 --> 00:44:15,778
{\an8}I saw it this morning.
I didn't know how to react.
936
00:44:15,861 --> 00:44:17,237
I just liked the message,
937
00:44:17,321 --> 00:44:19,740
and I literally did not think
about it the rest of the day.
938
00:44:19,823 --> 00:44:22,701
She isn't anything to me anymore.
She's a person from my past.
939
00:44:22,785 --> 00:44:24,787
I know that it's not part of your life,
940
00:44:24,870 --> 00:44:27,414
but I do want you to think
about how would this make me feel.
941
00:44:27,498 --> 00:44:28,791
[Garrett] I hear that, 100%.
942
00:44:28,874 --> 00:44:31,877
[Taylor] Yes, especially someone
who has been cheated on
943
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:34,296
is putting an incredible
amount of faith in you
944
00:44:34,380 --> 00:44:37,132
and, like, believing
and trusting you completely.
945
00:44:37,216 --> 00:44:39,218
You're gonna be married in, like, a week.
946
00:44:39,301 --> 00:44:41,762
[Garrett] And I'm 100% here, 100% here.
947
00:44:42,888 --> 00:44:46,433
I don't wanna say it's okay right now,
because that just wouldn't be honest.
948
00:44:46,517 --> 00:44:50,229
It's just really bad timing that we had
all day to talk about this and now--
949
00:44:50,312 --> 00:44:52,356
Didn't think about it.
I should have thought about it.
950
00:44:52,439 --> 00:44:53,982
And that's the difference. I understand.
951
00:44:54,066 --> 00:44:56,527
Yeah, which kind of
scares me a little bit.
952
00:44:57,277 --> 00:44:59,697
Like, it's just… [laughs]
953
00:44:59,780 --> 00:45:01,240
I'm just-- I'm pissed.
954
00:45:01,323 --> 00:45:03,826
Well, the truth is
we have an amazing relationship.
955
00:45:03,909 --> 00:45:06,453
We have an amazing future ahead of us.
956
00:45:07,079 --> 00:45:09,665
I just missed something today.
957
00:45:09,748 --> 00:45:11,125
I need a little bit of, like,
958
00:45:11,875 --> 00:45:15,045
patience, learning and understanding.
I said it was gonna be this way.
959
00:45:15,129 --> 00:45:18,298
- I was gonna have some mistake--
- You're gonna get it.
960
00:45:18,382 --> 00:45:20,259
I've only had an hour.
961
00:45:20,342 --> 00:45:23,178
[chuckles] I know. I know.
It kills me to even see you upset.
962
00:45:23,262 --> 00:45:24,388
I'm, like, fucking…
963
00:45:25,806 --> 00:45:26,724
I know.
964
00:45:27,391 --> 00:45:28,392
We're gonna be fine.
965
00:45:28,475 --> 00:45:30,894
Just, like, if I'm upset
and I don't wanna talk about stuff--
966
00:45:30,978 --> 00:45:32,521
I wanna give you the space, but I--
967
00:45:32,604 --> 00:45:35,190
Because of the timing, we're screwed.
We're in this stupid thing.
968
00:45:35,274 --> 00:45:37,151
And I know you're upset.
It fucking hurts me.
969
00:45:38,152 --> 00:45:41,113
We're gonna work through it, be fine.
970
00:45:41,613 --> 00:45:43,073
- I just--
- Now is a shitty time.
971
00:45:43,157 --> 00:45:45,325
Now is a really terrible time.
972
00:45:45,951 --> 00:45:46,827
[Garrett] Yeah.
973
00:45:48,412 --> 00:45:49,413
I'm…
974
00:45:49,496 --> 00:45:52,166
You got this ridiculous lipstick on.
I can't even kiss you right now.
975
00:45:52,249 --> 00:45:53,292
No, you can't.
976
00:45:54,126 --> 00:45:56,795
- Let's go to the party.
- [laughing] All right, hang on, because…
977
00:45:57,921 --> 00:46:01,049
- I hate being mad at you.
- I hate you being mad at me.
978
00:46:01,550 --> 00:46:03,051
Don't do stuff, then.
979
00:46:03,135 --> 00:46:05,512
- [Garrett] You look fucking great though.
- Shut up.
980
00:46:05,596 --> 00:46:09,600
- ["Bad Girl Energy" playing]
- ♪ So hard-headed, got me twisted up ♪
981
00:46:09,683 --> 00:46:12,144
♪ With all of your loose screws ♪
982
00:46:12,227 --> 00:46:15,856
- [shouting]
- Oh, my goodness! Oh, my goodness!
983
00:46:15,939 --> 00:46:17,775
- [Ramses] G-baby!
- Hey!
984
00:46:17,858 --> 00:46:18,776
[laughing]
985
00:46:18,859 --> 00:46:20,360
Let me dap you up. [laughs]
986
00:46:20,444 --> 00:46:22,654
Taylor, I wanna eat you up,
spit you out. You look great.
987
00:46:22,738 --> 00:46:23,906
[laughing]
988
00:46:23,989 --> 00:46:26,450
[vocalizing]
989
00:46:26,533 --> 00:46:27,826
{\an8}♪ Yeah! ♪
990
00:46:27,910 --> 00:46:30,204
{\an8}- [shouting]
- Hey!
991
00:46:30,287 --> 00:46:34,583
{\an8}♪ Hey! I don't need no one to rescue me ♪
992
00:46:35,167 --> 00:46:37,711
♪ Got that bad girl energy… ♪
993
00:46:37,795 --> 00:46:39,797
[shouting]
994
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:41,799
- Hi!
- Ladies, what?
995
00:46:42,424 --> 00:46:45,093
♪ Bossin' through the city
With a brand-new lick ♪
996
00:46:45,177 --> 00:46:46,970
♪ A brand-new bag, a brand-new fit… ♪
997
00:46:47,054 --> 00:46:50,015
- You wanna go starfishing? What do you…
- "Starfishing"?
998
00:46:50,098 --> 00:46:52,142
- You know I can swim, right?
- [laughing]
999
00:46:52,226 --> 00:46:54,728
What is he talking about?
Don't fucking start with me.
1000
00:46:54,812 --> 00:46:57,439
[Tyler] Deep-diving for some seahorses.
Ain't that what you do?
1001
00:46:57,523 --> 00:46:59,650
- Starfishing, dude?
- [laughing]
1002
00:47:00,234 --> 00:47:02,736
- I hate their joy right now.
- Yeah.
1003
00:47:04,446 --> 00:47:07,157
Look, I'm not mad
that he wanted to end things.
1004
00:47:07,241 --> 00:47:09,243
But for you to end this engagement
1005
00:47:09,326 --> 00:47:11,912
when you shook my father's hand
and looked him in the eye
1006
00:47:11,995 --> 00:47:15,165
and said, "I wanna marry your daughter,"
you're a coward.
1007
00:47:15,249 --> 00:47:17,876
- So you're not gonna talk to him?
- [Alex] No. For what?
1008
00:47:18,377 --> 00:47:20,420
He said he didn't wanna ever see me again.
1009
00:47:20,504 --> 00:47:23,632
- Have you talked to her today?
- There's nothing else to talk about.
1010
00:47:27,052 --> 00:47:30,138
- I hope they're not talking about my shit.
- What's your shit?
1011
00:47:30,222 --> 00:47:31,807
- Oh, I didn't tell you.
- [Marissa] What?
1012
00:47:31,890 --> 00:47:33,684
Tyler's got kids.
1013
00:47:34,393 --> 00:47:35,727
- Yeah.
- [Hannah] What?
1014
00:47:35,811 --> 00:47:37,813
Yeah, he donated sperm a few years ago
1015
00:47:38,397 --> 00:47:40,691
for a gay couple that he knew,
and they have kids.
1016
00:47:43,151 --> 00:47:45,070
- He didn't tell you in the pod?
- [Ashley A] No.
1017
00:47:45,153 --> 00:47:47,656
I'm like, why would you wait
in this instance
1018
00:47:47,739 --> 00:47:49,533
until I feel like this to tell me this?
1019
00:47:50,701 --> 00:47:52,995
You're gonna be upset.
I think you'll get over it.
1020
00:47:53,078 --> 00:47:54,329
- Yeah.
- [Alex] I think you will.
1021
00:47:54,413 --> 00:47:55,581
[Ashley A] Here's the thing.
1022
00:47:55,664 --> 00:47:58,584
Every day, this man gets me coffee.
He brings me flowers.
1023
00:47:58,667 --> 00:48:00,419
He wants to stay up talking.
He fights for me.
1024
00:48:00,502 --> 00:48:04,381
And I've never had anyone fight for me.
And, like, I don't get sick of him.
1025
00:48:04,464 --> 00:48:06,967
When he's gone, I miss him.
It's not, like, a crush missing.
1026
00:48:07,050 --> 00:48:08,969
It's, like, a deep connection.
1027
00:48:09,052 --> 00:48:10,804
But to drop this is like…
1028
00:48:12,514 --> 00:48:13,515
{\an8}Meow!
1029
00:48:13,599 --> 00:48:15,684
- Monica!
- [laughing]
1030
00:48:15,767 --> 00:48:17,185
[whooping]
1031
00:48:18,896 --> 00:48:21,690
- Where's Stephen at? [laughs]
- Bro.
1032
00:48:21,773 --> 00:48:22,774
[laughing]
1033
00:48:22,858 --> 00:48:25,736
- [Marissa] I'm so happy you're here.
- I'm so happy I'm here too.
1034
00:48:25,819 --> 00:48:28,405
I talked to Stephen on the phone today
for over two hours.
1035
00:48:28,488 --> 00:48:30,073
Oh, my God! Tell us everything!
1036
00:48:30,157 --> 00:48:32,159
- [Hannah] Did he call or did you?
- [Monica] I called.
1037
00:48:32,242 --> 00:48:35,120
- We were able to talk through everything.
- Good.
1038
00:48:35,203 --> 00:48:37,706
And be in a good place.
There's no excuse for what he did.
1039
00:48:37,789 --> 00:48:39,750
But, like, he's a good person who…
1040
00:48:40,292 --> 00:48:41,710
- [Alex] Fucked up.
- Fucked up.
1041
00:48:41,793 --> 00:48:44,296
But you don't wanna see him, right,
like, dating-wise?
1042
00:48:44,379 --> 00:48:46,256
No. Absolutely not, 0%.
1043
00:48:46,340 --> 00:48:48,675
[pop music playing]
1044
00:48:48,759 --> 00:48:50,052
[cork pops]
1045
00:48:51,136 --> 00:48:54,014
{\an8}- [Garrett] Hey! Look at that boy! Bohdi!
- [shouting]
1046
00:48:54,097 --> 00:48:56,475
- Oh, my God!
- Jesus Christ, dude.
1047
00:48:56,558 --> 00:48:58,602
[Bohdan] What you doing? What's going on?
1048
00:48:58,685 --> 00:48:59,937
[Monica] Who is that?
1049
00:49:00,020 --> 00:49:01,313
- It's Bohdan.
- Oh, Bohdi.
1050
00:49:01,396 --> 00:49:02,606
- Hi!
- [laughing]
1051
00:49:02,689 --> 00:49:05,150
- Let me introduce you.
- [Monica] Hi! it's nice to meet you.
1052
00:49:05,233 --> 00:49:07,069
- [Bohdan] Hey.
- [Marissa] Nice to see ya.
1053
00:49:07,152 --> 00:49:09,780
It is interesting
seeing Bohdan for the first time.
1054
00:49:09,863 --> 00:49:12,407
{\an8}'Cause I did have, like,
a connection with him in the pods.
1055
00:49:12,491 --> 00:49:14,117
[laughing]
1056
00:49:14,201 --> 00:49:17,704
Hearing his voice feels very,
like, comfortable and familiar.
1057
00:49:18,872 --> 00:49:19,915
[laughing]
1058
00:49:19,998 --> 00:49:22,584
- ["Coco" by Photronique playing]
♪ I wanna go out tonight ♪
1059
00:49:22,668 --> 00:49:23,752
♪ We're dancing… ♪
1060
00:49:23,835 --> 00:49:26,588
{\an8}[women shouting]
1061
00:49:29,758 --> 00:49:31,259
[laughing]
1062
00:49:33,387 --> 00:49:34,554
[Hannah] I missed you.
1063
00:49:34,638 --> 00:49:37,849
I missed you too.
God, I'm so happy we can hang out tonight.
1064
00:49:37,933 --> 00:49:39,643
- Oh, do you wanna meet Nick?
- Yeah.
1065
00:49:39,726 --> 00:49:41,186
[Hannah] Nick, this is Katie.
1066
00:49:41,269 --> 00:49:44,523
- [Katie] Hello. So nice to meet you.
- What's up, Katie? You as well.
1067
00:49:44,606 --> 00:49:46,692
I know. This is, like, a little surreal.
1068
00:49:46,775 --> 00:49:50,237
{\an8}I've never met Katie before.
In the pods, I met her.
1069
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:51,989
I thought you were tall.
1070
00:49:52,698 --> 00:49:54,241
We did have a connection.
1071
00:49:54,324 --> 00:49:57,160
You know, the first three days,
we had each other ranked as "one."
1072
00:49:57,244 --> 00:49:59,579
- He's so cute. Yeah.
- [Hannah] Nick?
1073
00:49:59,663 --> 00:50:01,915
- Like, what do you mean?
- He's better looking in person.
1074
00:50:01,999 --> 00:50:05,836
- Good-looking in-person? Yeah.
- I mean that in the nicest way. [laughs]
1075
00:50:05,919 --> 00:50:06,920
No, it's totally cool.
1076
00:50:07,004 --> 00:50:09,840
- [pop music playing]
- ♪ This is the point of no return ♪
1077
00:50:11,758 --> 00:50:15,846
♪ Yeah, we've reached
The point of no return ♪
1078
00:50:15,929 --> 00:50:18,807
[Garrett] So, my ex-girlfriend,
the one from six-and-a-half years ago,
1079
00:50:18,890 --> 00:50:21,518
she texted me last night, and I responded.
1080
00:50:21,601 --> 00:50:23,812
I just said-- like, a like or whatever.
And then--
1081
00:50:23,895 --> 00:50:26,440
- Did you say anything back?
- No, I just liked it.
1082
00:50:26,523 --> 00:50:29,276
- I was like-- oh, no, I'm sorry.
- You responded to her?
1083
00:50:30,152 --> 00:50:31,528
[Garrett] So I said--
1084
00:50:31,611 --> 00:50:33,030
This is different.
1085
00:50:33,947 --> 00:50:36,074
- [Garrett] I said-- okay.
- Okay, let me see your phone.
1086
00:50:36,158 --> 00:50:38,201
- What did you say?
- It's over there. I can get it.
1087
00:50:38,285 --> 00:50:41,121
Can I get it later?
I can get it if you'd like.
1088
00:50:42,748 --> 00:50:45,876
So, I text her back, and, like, just said,
1089
00:50:45,959 --> 00:50:49,296
"Hey, I didn't tell you this,
but I met someone. I'm engaged."
1090
00:50:49,379 --> 00:50:53,091
And basically, "I don't think we should
continue sending messages."
1091
00:50:53,175 --> 00:50:56,470
"And I hope you have a great life.
See you later." Something like that.
1092
00:50:56,553 --> 00:50:59,306
- You did say that? Okay.
- Yeah, yeah, yeah, that was it.
1093
00:50:59,806 --> 00:51:00,640
[Tyler] Okay.
1094
00:51:00,724 --> 00:51:03,602
You told me an hour ago
that you only, like, "liked" the message,
1095
00:51:03,685 --> 00:51:06,688
and now you're saying
that you responded to, like, this…
1096
00:51:06,772 --> 00:51:11,068
objectively, like, connected,
like, reach out, something else.
1097
00:51:11,151 --> 00:51:13,862
Not just like, "I liked it and left it."
1098
00:51:13,945 --> 00:51:15,447
I just wanna be very clear.
1099
00:51:15,530 --> 00:51:18,909
[Garrett] Yeah, I didn't just--
no, I just said I wrote a response.
1100
00:51:19,451 --> 00:51:21,411
[Taylor] That's not
what you told me an hour ago.
1101
00:51:21,495 --> 00:51:24,039
[Garrett] We didn't get into specific,
"What was the response?"
1102
00:51:24,122 --> 00:51:26,416
But, yes, that is what I did.
1103
00:51:26,500 --> 00:51:28,335
- [Tyler] I think we should let them…
- Yeah.
1104
00:51:28,418 --> 00:51:31,046
I think that y'all should,
you know, have your space.
1105
00:51:31,129 --> 00:51:32,881
I would love a moment.
1106
00:51:32,964 --> 00:51:34,091
- No, 100%.
- Yeah.
1107
00:51:34,174 --> 00:51:36,760
No, no, no, I want my own, like…
1108
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:38,720
like, moment.
1109
00:51:38,804 --> 00:51:39,805
- Yeah.
- [Tyler] Ashley.
1110
00:51:39,888 --> 00:51:41,973
- Ten, 20.
- Yeah, I'll go with her.
1111
00:51:42,974 --> 00:51:44,976
Something, I'm saying.
1112
00:51:45,060 --> 00:51:46,603
This is, like, changing.
1113
00:51:46,686 --> 00:51:48,396
- It's just, like, crazy.
- [Ashley A] Hey.
1114
00:51:48,897 --> 00:51:50,732
- [Taylor] What the fuck?
- Yeah.
1115
00:51:51,316 --> 00:51:52,776
- It's weird.
- No, yeah.
1116
00:51:52,859 --> 00:51:54,653
- [Taylor] It's really weird.
- Yeah.
1117
00:51:54,736 --> 00:51:55,946
God damn it.
1118
00:51:56,029 --> 00:51:58,532
[Taylor, voice breaks] He's supposed
to meet my parents tomorrow.
1119
00:51:58,615 --> 00:51:59,741
[Ashley A] Yeah.
1120
00:51:59,825 --> 00:52:02,077
- [Taylor] Why'd you tell me like that?
- [Ashley A] Yeah.
1121
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:04,579
Omitting anything is a lot.
1122
00:52:04,663 --> 00:52:06,790
We don't have any time
to play these games.
1123
00:52:06,873 --> 00:52:09,960
I feel like he was around Tyler,
forgot where the fuck he was
1124
00:52:10,043 --> 00:52:12,254
and started telling all of the truth.
1125
00:52:12,337 --> 00:52:14,297
[Taylor] I just don't think
that this is right.
1126
00:52:15,966 --> 00:52:17,467
[pop music playing]
1127
00:52:23,974 --> 00:52:25,433
Weird hearing your voice. [laughs]
1128
00:52:25,517 --> 00:52:28,520
We both looked at each other,
like, "I know that person."
1129
00:52:28,603 --> 00:52:30,522
I literally was like, "Is that Bohdan?"
1130
00:52:30,605 --> 00:52:32,482
[Ramses] Y'all should have
a conversation now.
1131
00:52:32,566 --> 00:52:34,526
[laughs] Yeah, we can have that.
1132
00:52:34,609 --> 00:52:35,944
- What?
- Yeah, go ahead.
1133
00:52:36,027 --> 00:52:38,697
- Baby! Okay, yeah.
- [Ramses] No, no! Go ahead. Go ahead.
1134
00:52:38,780 --> 00:52:42,033
Okay, so was I what you expected
to look like when we talked?
1135
00:52:42,117 --> 00:52:44,661
- No!
- No? What were you expecting?
1136
00:52:44,744 --> 00:52:47,956
Okay, I always expected you
to be kind of, like, short and tiny.
1137
00:52:48,039 --> 00:52:50,041
- Oh, my God! Really?
- Yeah, I did.
1138
00:52:50,125 --> 00:52:52,544
- So when I saw you--
- A short, tiny person. Okay.
1139
00:52:52,627 --> 00:52:55,922
- Short, tiny, person. I don't know why.
- I'm glad I over-delivered there. [laughs]
1140
00:52:56,006 --> 00:52:58,425
I don't know why.
Am I what you thought I looked like?
1141
00:52:58,508 --> 00:53:00,468
[laughs] I guess
I expected you to be pretty.
1142
00:53:00,552 --> 00:53:02,470
[laughing]
1143
00:53:02,554 --> 00:53:04,973
- Yeah. That's a careful conversation now.
- No, no, no.
1144
00:53:05,056 --> 00:53:07,434
- [Bohdan] Because Rams--
- You can call me pretty.
1145
00:53:07,517 --> 00:53:09,394
- Rams will allow it.
- Okay, you're pretty.
1146
00:53:09,477 --> 00:53:12,856
Yeah, no, it is kind of strange,
'cause we dated almost till the end.
1147
00:53:12,939 --> 00:53:15,108
- Yeah, till the end.
- It was back and forth.
1148
00:53:15,192 --> 00:53:18,778
So it'd be like, one day, "It's Rams."
The next day, I'd be like, "It's Bohdan."
1149
00:53:18,862 --> 00:53:21,156
But I needed someone
more chiller, I think.
1150
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:24,075
- 'Cause we're both so, like, hyper people.
- Yeah, yeah.
1151
00:53:24,159 --> 00:53:25,911
Rams is like, "We're so different."
1152
00:53:25,994 --> 00:53:28,955
- I was like, "Okay, Rams."
- No, no, we have similarities!
1153
00:53:29,039 --> 00:53:30,749
You guys are so much the same!
1154
00:53:30,832 --> 00:53:34,377
But in terms of our personalities,
we're, like, very different.
1155
00:53:34,461 --> 00:53:38,215
Yeah, I was so nervous too
for, like, the breakup talk.
1156
00:53:38,298 --> 00:53:41,134
I know. When I walked in, I was like,
"What's up? How are you?"
1157
00:53:41,218 --> 00:53:43,595
- Her energy was probably different?
- Yeah, you could hear it!
1158
00:53:43,678 --> 00:53:45,805
- [Bohdan laughs] "Here we go!"
- Like, "Oh, fuck."
1159
00:53:45,889 --> 00:53:48,475
I think I looked at the camera,
I was like, "All right." [laughs]
1160
00:53:48,558 --> 00:53:50,060
Yeah, you know what's happening.
1161
00:53:50,769 --> 00:53:53,647
[Marissa] Seeing Bohdan,
it just feels like he's a friend.
1162
00:53:54,147 --> 00:53:56,191
No doubts about
my relationship with Ramses.
1163
00:53:56,274 --> 00:53:57,609
I made the right decision.
1164
00:53:57,692 --> 00:53:59,903
Seeing Bohdan really confirms that,
if anything.
1165
00:53:59,986 --> 00:54:00,904
[laughs]
1166
00:54:03,949 --> 00:54:05,450
- To the boys!
- I'm here for the boys.
1167
00:54:05,533 --> 00:54:07,077
One time for the boys!
1168
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:09,579
Nick's cute.
I told her. He's much cuter than--
1169
00:54:09,663 --> 00:54:11,498
- No, he is much cuter.
- [Katie] Yeah.
1170
00:54:11,581 --> 00:54:14,084
I feel like that sounds bad,
but I just said it, so…
1171
00:54:15,794 --> 00:54:17,420
[laughing]
1172
00:54:17,504 --> 00:54:19,047
- [Ashley A] How are you?
- We're good.
1173
00:54:19,130 --> 00:54:22,759
Like, this is the thing. I'm self-aware
enough to know my own flaws, right?
1174
00:54:23,343 --> 00:54:25,929
I think with him, sometimes
I'm overcritical, and I'm hard on him
1175
00:54:26,012 --> 00:54:28,348
because I'm so overcritical
and hard on myself.
1176
00:54:28,431 --> 00:54:31,351
- I'm working on that.
- He has things to work on.
1177
00:54:31,434 --> 00:54:32,602
- Yeah.
- We all know Nicky D.
1178
00:54:32,686 --> 00:54:37,732
Like, Nicky D has things to work on,
but I want him to see the fun Hannah too.
1179
00:54:37,816 --> 00:54:38,858
Yeah.
1180
00:54:38,942 --> 00:54:41,069
He's great to me.
And I love Nick. He's perfect for me.
1181
00:54:41,152 --> 00:54:43,405
But I think I could be
the best thing in the world for Nick
1182
00:54:43,488 --> 00:54:45,782
just because there's so many things that--
1183
00:54:45,865 --> 00:54:47,117
- You could show him?
- Yes!
1184
00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:49,160
Remember when in the airport,
you were like,
1185
00:54:49,244 --> 00:54:52,580
"I want you to try new cuisines.
I want you to try this, try that."
1186
00:54:52,664 --> 00:54:55,000
"You're, like, you're used to sticking
to the same things."
1187
00:54:55,083 --> 00:54:56,459
I was like, "Wow. Go, Hannah."
1188
00:54:56,543 --> 00:54:58,962
'Cause you could really
broaden his horizon.
1189
00:54:59,045 --> 00:55:02,424
I am! That's the thing.
He just hasn't had the opportunity to.
1190
00:55:02,507 --> 00:55:04,467
I think sexually too.
1191
00:55:04,551 --> 00:55:08,847
I think when he's had sex with partners,
he told me, like, with past partners…
1192
00:55:08,930 --> 00:55:11,266
It's just like that woman, right?
Where, like, you get off,
1193
00:55:11,349 --> 00:55:13,893
and you probably don't even think
to ask if she had hers.
1194
00:55:13,977 --> 00:55:16,563
Right? That's the thing,
is, like, we have to get there.
1195
00:55:16,646 --> 00:55:19,190
And the way we get there,
like, it doesn't come natural.
1196
00:55:19,274 --> 00:55:21,234
If we have to work for it,
we work for it, right?
1197
00:55:21,318 --> 00:55:24,237
When I've been communicative
for the past two weeks about what I need…
1198
00:55:24,321 --> 00:55:27,115
I told him what I need sexually.
If it turns me on and you don't do it,
1199
00:55:27,198 --> 00:55:29,075
you continue the same thing
that gets you off?
1200
00:55:29,159 --> 00:55:30,577
- Then it's frustrating.
- Yeah, yeah.
1201
00:55:30,660 --> 00:55:32,120
Because I wanna pleasure you--
1202
00:55:32,203 --> 00:55:36,374
- Like, "I gotta grab a toy."
- He is very jealous of my vibrator.
1203
00:55:37,042 --> 00:55:38,668
I haven't had sex with a lot of people.
1204
00:55:38,752 --> 00:55:41,671
But the people I've had sex with,
we've been very sexually explorative.
1205
00:55:41,755 --> 00:55:43,798
Nick's not like that, right?
1206
00:55:43,882 --> 00:55:49,387
And it's almost like
it's an 18-year-old sexualness.
1207
00:55:49,471 --> 00:55:50,805
Like, things gross him out.
1208
00:55:50,889 --> 00:55:53,099
Eating pussy is just,
like, not what he thinks about.
1209
00:55:53,183 --> 00:55:56,102
It's like, "Okay, well,
like, you need to realize
1210
00:55:56,186 --> 00:55:57,854
a woman needs pleasure
as much as the man."
1211
00:55:57,937 --> 00:55:59,647
Abso-fucking-lutely.
1212
00:55:59,731 --> 00:56:01,775
[Hannah] He doesn't like to eat pussy. Um…
1213
00:56:02,442 --> 00:56:04,069
- What?
- Yes.
1214
00:56:04,944 --> 00:56:08,448
And to fix sex that maybe isn't the best,
you communicate.
1215
00:56:09,032 --> 00:56:11,951
You have to be very careful
when you communicate sexual problems,
1216
00:56:12,035 --> 00:56:15,288
because for a man, it can be humiliating.
It could make them feel bad or pressure.
1217
00:56:15,372 --> 00:56:17,916
- Ego.
- Ego. Yeah, I don't wanna hit his ego.
1218
00:56:17,999 --> 00:56:20,710
So you have to be very careful
of the way you approach it.
1219
00:56:20,794 --> 00:56:22,962
But, like, he's learning.
That's the thing.
1220
00:56:23,046 --> 00:56:26,841
It's just like with Nick--
I really truly love that man.
1221
00:56:26,925 --> 00:56:28,259
- Aww.
- Like, I really do.
1222
00:56:28,343 --> 00:56:29,469
That's good to hear.
1223
00:56:29,552 --> 00:56:32,639
Sometimes I get frustrated with him
just because he doesn't…
1224
00:56:32,722 --> 00:56:35,392
He's not at the same level
as I am at understanding things.
1225
00:56:35,475 --> 00:56:38,395
And he wants to get there.
He just never had the chance to get there.
1226
00:56:38,478 --> 00:56:41,856
- ["Gatsby" by EMAN8 playing]
- ♪ You gonna be the best that I ever had ♪
1227
00:56:41,940 --> 00:56:44,859
♪ Only need it once
I'll be so attached… ♪
1228
00:56:45,735 --> 00:56:47,821
[laughing]
1229
00:56:47,904 --> 00:56:51,366
♪ I won’t throw you back, baby
You a catch ♪
1230
00:56:52,242 --> 00:56:56,246
- It's so nice to meet you. Nicky D.
- It's great to meet you too.
1231
00:56:56,329 --> 00:56:57,747
[Katie] He's in the flesh.
1232
00:56:57,831 --> 00:56:58,748
[Nick D] In the flesh.
1233
00:56:58,832 --> 00:57:01,418
- [Hannah] Think he's having a good time?
- Let's go sit over there.
1234
00:57:01,501 --> 00:57:03,753
[laughing]
1235
00:57:03,837 --> 00:57:06,506
- [Monica] Let them have a moment.
- Katie looks like she's lighting up.
1236
00:57:06,589 --> 00:57:07,882
Are you really my friend, Katie?
1237
00:57:07,966 --> 00:57:09,717
{\an8}[laughing]
1238
00:57:09,801 --> 00:57:11,386
{\an8}She goes, "Nick's really attractive."
1239
00:57:11,469 --> 00:57:14,889
I said, "Katie, you're supposed to be
my friend. You don't say that." [laughs]
1240
00:57:14,973 --> 00:57:18,226
She said that to me tonight too.
She was like, "Nick's really attractive."
1241
00:57:18,309 --> 00:57:20,812
- She said that he's more attractive…
- Should I kill her? [laughs]
1242
00:57:20,895 --> 00:57:24,441
…than her Instagram.
No, we can kill her, but we love her.
1243
00:57:24,524 --> 00:57:28,027
- [Hannah] I did love her.
- [laughing]
1244
00:57:28,111 --> 00:57:32,365
You were the guy
that was very smooth, charismatic,
1245
00:57:32,449 --> 00:57:35,285
the football player,
like, the athlete, right?
1246
00:57:35,368 --> 00:57:37,871
That is what I date in the real world.
1247
00:57:37,954 --> 00:57:42,500
And not to stereotype you and I apologize,
'cause this is 100% stereotyping.
1248
00:57:42,584 --> 00:57:44,419
I'm super chill.
Tell me whatever you want.
1249
00:57:44,502 --> 00:57:47,714
It was like, "This is the guy
you would date in the real world,
1250
00:57:47,797 --> 00:57:49,757
and this is why you're 35 and single."
1251
00:57:49,841 --> 00:57:52,760
I didn't care about your age.
You didn't care about my age.
1252
00:57:52,844 --> 00:57:54,512
We have a lot of similarities.
1253
00:57:54,596 --> 00:57:56,473
- [Katie] Yeah.
- I was really feeling you.
1254
00:57:56,556 --> 00:57:59,559
You can't help when you were born.
I can't help when I was born.
1255
00:57:59,642 --> 00:58:01,352
Um, but…
1256
00:58:01,436 --> 00:58:02,687
So you don't care about age?
1257
00:58:02,770 --> 00:58:05,190
[Katie] No, but you
have to understand, like,
1258
00:58:05,273 --> 00:58:08,610
for the past, like,
15 years, ten years, whatever…
1259
00:58:08,693 --> 00:58:11,154
- I have dated the same guy--
- It's been that long?
1260
00:58:11,237 --> 00:58:13,406
- [laughs] Damn, girl.
- [Katie] Over and over again.
1261
00:58:13,490 --> 00:58:15,366
Can't you date, like, someone else?
1262
00:58:15,450 --> 00:58:16,451
[laughing]
1263
00:58:16,534 --> 00:58:18,578
No, but I mean, like, the same type.
1264
00:58:18,661 --> 00:58:20,788
So why can't you accept
that that's your type,
1265
00:58:20,872 --> 00:58:22,874
and you just haven't met the right guy?
1266
00:58:23,458 --> 00:58:24,918
That's a great question.
1267
00:58:25,418 --> 00:58:27,587
- If that's your type, that's your type.
- [Katie] Yeah.
1268
00:58:27,670 --> 00:58:29,339
You can't hold that
against the next person.
1269
00:58:30,798 --> 00:58:33,176
Honestly, I was attracted
to you from day one.
1270
00:58:33,843 --> 00:58:36,721
I was like,
"Damn, Katie's always on my mind."
1271
00:58:36,804 --> 00:58:38,348
I know you gave me goose bumps.
1272
00:58:38,431 --> 00:58:40,099
You gave me goose bumps.
1273
00:58:40,183 --> 00:58:42,268
[Katie] In the real world,
you see all these people.
1274
00:58:42,352 --> 00:58:45,021
"Oh, hey, love is maybe not blind."
1275
00:58:45,104 --> 00:58:48,900
You were my number one
for three days for a reason, right? Like…
1276
00:58:48,983 --> 00:58:50,109
Same here.
1277
00:58:52,445 --> 00:58:56,449
I can literally look into, like, your eyes
and tell you're a beautiful soul.
1278
00:58:56,533 --> 00:58:58,284
- Like, you're a beautiful person.
- Thank you.
1279
00:58:58,368 --> 00:58:59,953
Like, you're super ambitious.
1280
00:59:00,036 --> 00:59:02,413
You're gonna make someone happy
as fuck someday.
1281
00:59:02,914 --> 00:59:05,375
You could, like,
honestly make me cry over that. Thank you.
1282
00:59:05,458 --> 00:59:07,168
I know you mean it. I know you mean it.
1283
00:59:07,252 --> 00:59:08,294
I mean it, right?
1284
00:59:08,378 --> 00:59:10,463
I'm super important on body language
1285
00:59:10,547 --> 00:59:13,341
and impressions and stuff like that.
1286
00:59:13,424 --> 00:59:17,637
Not in the "Looking at your IG."
'Cause your IG is beautiful, by the way.
1287
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:19,430
- Thank you.
- But you're super…
1288
00:59:19,514 --> 00:59:20,807
You're dope as fuck.
1289
00:59:20,890 --> 00:59:23,017
- Right? Like…
- [laughing]
1290
00:59:25,311 --> 00:59:27,981
- I was feeling you. I'm not gonna lie.
- Yeah.
1291
00:59:28,064 --> 00:59:30,525
- But you were the one that dropped me.
- I dropped you.
1292
00:59:30,608 --> 00:59:31,609
Why is that?
1293
00:59:31,693 --> 00:59:35,572
There is nothing I want you to take
personal from what I'm about to say,
1294
00:59:35,655 --> 00:59:40,702
but when it comes to, like, maturity,
I didn't think you were quite there.
1295
00:59:41,202 --> 00:59:44,581
I thought we got to a good point,
and then at the end, it was, like,
1296
00:59:44,664 --> 00:59:48,376
"My mom's friends fuck with me.
Like, older women really fuck with me."
1297
00:59:48,459 --> 00:59:50,712
I'm like, "Damn.
He didn't hear a word I just said."
1298
00:59:50,795 --> 00:59:55,008
- Yeah.
- And beyond that was the objectifying.
1299
00:59:55,091 --> 00:59:57,719
Like that date you were like,
"I just know you're sexy."
1300
00:59:57,802 --> 00:59:59,304
"I know you're this. You're that."
1301
00:59:59,387 --> 01:00:01,639
- I'm sarcastic. I like to joke around.
- [Katie] Yeah.
1302
01:00:01,723 --> 01:00:05,101
If you said something to me,
I'm like, "Damn, that's sexy."
1303
01:00:05,184 --> 01:00:08,104
I don't mean it in that way.
You didn't see a future in me.
1304
01:00:08,187 --> 01:00:09,897
That's totally fine.
1305
01:00:09,981 --> 01:00:13,568
But just know that, like,
I really liked talking to you.
1306
01:00:13,651 --> 01:00:18,156
- I think you lead with charm and charisma…
- Yeah.
1307
01:00:18,239 --> 01:00:19,949
- …too hard.
- Okay.
1308
01:00:20,033 --> 01:00:23,119
I think you're such, like,
a beautiful and a deep person.
1309
01:00:23,202 --> 01:00:25,455
- Yeah.
- I would challenge you to lead with that.
1310
01:00:25,538 --> 01:00:26,664
Okay.
1311
01:00:26,748 --> 01:00:30,084
I remember talking about your family,
and they just sounded amazing.
1312
01:00:30,168 --> 01:00:34,047
I know you are this person
that's filled with values.
1313
01:00:34,130 --> 01:00:37,634
I think you're this person
that's filled with a whole heart.
1314
01:00:37,717 --> 01:00:39,469
Lead with that, right?
1315
01:00:39,552 --> 01:00:42,513
Like, don't lead with like,
"I know you're so sexy."
1316
01:00:44,432 --> 01:00:46,851
I think that's a defense mechanism,
1317
01:00:47,435 --> 01:00:49,812
which is maybe
coming from a place of insecurity.
1318
01:00:50,688 --> 01:00:53,941
But I'm here to tell you,
like, you are the whole package.
1319
01:00:54,025 --> 01:00:55,652
You're fantastic.
1320
01:00:55,735 --> 01:00:58,905
And I love and I'm proud
of the person that you are.
1321
01:00:58,988 --> 01:01:02,450
And I'm proud of the growth
that you've already experienced,
1322
01:01:02,533 --> 01:01:05,119
'cause you're in a position
where you have a fiancée.
1323
01:01:05,203 --> 01:01:07,747
You guys are growing together.
You're also growing as a person.
1324
01:01:07,830 --> 01:01:10,249
That's the most beautiful part
about what we're experiencing.
1325
01:01:10,333 --> 01:01:12,377
Because I got to experience that
as a single person
1326
01:01:12,460 --> 01:01:14,671
and moving on until whatever is next.
1327
01:01:14,754 --> 01:01:15,630
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
1328
01:01:15,713 --> 01:01:17,131
I'm happy where I'm at.
1329
01:01:17,215 --> 01:01:19,342
I've learned to mature
and be socially aware
1330
01:01:19,425 --> 01:01:21,427
and, like, be aware of the words I say.
1331
01:01:21,511 --> 01:01:25,640
I've learned a lot
to grow as a man and mature.
1332
01:01:25,723 --> 01:01:26,891
I think the world of you.
1333
01:01:26,974 --> 01:01:30,228
I tell Hannah all the time,
"I can't wait to bro out with Nicky D."
1334
01:01:30,311 --> 01:01:33,564
[laughs] Just invite me
to a Ravens game, please.
1335
01:01:33,648 --> 01:01:35,066
Okay, we can do that.
1336
01:01:35,149 --> 01:01:36,859
[laughs]
1337
01:01:36,943 --> 01:01:38,861
["Going Down" by Black Red Gold playing]
1338
01:01:38,945 --> 01:01:40,947
♪ Down on the ground ♪
1339
01:01:41,030 --> 01:01:45,118
♪ Don't take me down to the… ♪
1340
01:01:45,201 --> 01:01:46,494
[laughing]
1341
01:01:48,579 --> 01:01:49,997
[vocalizing]
1342
01:01:52,458 --> 01:01:54,669
Now I feel you're like very angry at me.
1343
01:01:54,752 --> 01:01:56,003
I'm livid.
1344
01:01:58,131 --> 01:01:59,257
You lied again.
1345
01:01:59,340 --> 01:02:00,258
I didn't lie.
1346
01:02:00,341 --> 01:02:03,886
You said, "I just liked the message,
and I ignored it."
1347
01:02:03,970 --> 01:02:04,804
Yeah.
1348
01:02:04,887 --> 01:02:06,681
And when people are in front of us,
1349
01:02:06,764 --> 01:02:09,142
you're saying,
"Well, no, I responded to it."
1350
01:02:09,225 --> 01:02:13,146
I don't remember what I said.
It was more about, "This thing happened."
1351
01:02:13,229 --> 01:02:15,690
We didn't revisit, like,
"What exactly did you say?"
1352
01:02:15,773 --> 01:02:19,485
No, we did. We were outside,
and I said, "You liked it."
1353
01:02:19,569 --> 01:02:23,406
"I think that's weird that you
just liked it and you left ambiguity."
1354
01:02:23,489 --> 01:02:27,535
And then you didn't respond,
saying, like, shutting it down.
1355
01:02:28,077 --> 01:02:30,455
I don't wanna have to
go through your phone, Garrett.
1356
01:02:30,538 --> 01:02:33,040
I didn't pause to think,
"Let me tell you, like--"
1357
01:02:33,124 --> 01:02:34,751
- Exactly what happened?
- Word for word.
1358
01:02:34,834 --> 01:02:36,669
Well, the response. Yeah, I didn't--
1359
01:02:38,212 --> 01:02:40,339
- No, I did not.
- The whole thing is the response.
1360
01:02:40,423 --> 01:02:41,966
You said you just liked it.
1361
01:02:42,049 --> 01:02:45,428
The point was, like, for me to tell you,
"Hey, this person said this."
1362
01:02:45,511 --> 01:02:49,140
I will get past
you not fully thinking about this,
1363
01:02:49,223 --> 01:02:52,059
but then the fact
that your story completely changed
1364
01:02:52,143 --> 01:02:54,061
in front of other people,
1365
01:02:54,145 --> 01:02:55,772
how is that not upsetting?
1366
01:02:55,855 --> 01:02:59,108
You're saying there's a difference between
liking and actually responding with words.
1367
01:02:59,192 --> 01:03:01,360
I didn't think
there was a difference there.
1368
01:03:01,444 --> 01:03:03,905
and I'm sorry,
and I missed that detail. I apologize.
1369
01:03:03,988 --> 01:03:07,658
Those are facts. Those are not details.
I wanna be very fucking clear.
1370
01:03:07,742 --> 01:03:10,453
- Same thing. Okay.
- Those are facts versus details.
1371
01:03:10,536 --> 01:03:13,790
Liking something passively
is very different than being like,
1372
01:03:13,873 --> 01:03:18,169
I am actively responding to something
that you know is significant to me.
1373
01:03:18,252 --> 01:03:20,213
- There's not a difference.
- Is there a difference?
1374
01:03:20,296 --> 01:03:22,840
- No, there's not.
- How is there not? There's literally…
1375
01:03:22,924 --> 01:03:25,051
The details are the facts
of the situation.
1376
01:03:25,134 --> 01:03:27,929
I guess we have a difference between,
like, what facts and details are,
1377
01:03:28,012 --> 01:03:29,514
which, like, fucking sucks.
1378
01:03:29,597 --> 01:03:32,642
- This is a semantics thing. The point is--
- To you.
1379
01:03:34,227 --> 01:03:35,394
- To you.
- Okay.
1380
01:03:40,358 --> 01:03:41,943
The point is I should have told you this.
1381
01:03:42,026 --> 01:03:45,196
I should have told you
the facts of the situation.
1382
01:03:50,409 --> 01:03:51,285
Yeah.
1383
01:03:54,497 --> 01:03:56,374
I am so, so, so sorry.
1384
01:03:56,457 --> 01:03:59,418
[Taylor, voice breaks] You could
have done this an hour ago!
1385
01:03:59,502 --> 01:04:01,295
[Garrett] I should have,
and I should have.
1386
01:04:04,382 --> 01:04:05,967
I should have told you this morning.
1387
01:04:06,050 --> 01:04:07,176
I made a huge mistake.
1388
01:04:08,845 --> 01:04:12,348
It eats me alive
that you feel this way right now.
1389
01:04:22,567 --> 01:04:24,694
You're supposed
to meet my family tomorrow.
1390
01:04:34,537 --> 01:04:38,457
I told you how I need to be 200%
for you to meet my family,
1391
01:04:38,541 --> 01:04:40,543
but now I'm not 200%.
1392
01:04:41,043 --> 01:04:43,462
I fucked up, and I'm very, very sorry.
1393
01:04:44,589 --> 01:04:46,382
You said you had
to be 200% to see your father.
1394
01:04:46,465 --> 01:04:49,468
If you do what you probably
really feel like you wanna do and say,
1395
01:04:49,552 --> 01:04:50,761
"We're not going tomorrow."
1396
01:04:50,845 --> 01:04:54,098
[Taylor] If we don't go see my parents
tomorrow, we're not doing any of this.
1397
01:04:54,181 --> 01:04:55,057
[Garrett] I know that.
1398
01:04:55,141 --> 01:04:57,476
It's just too many
red flags, like, honestly.
1399
01:05:01,272 --> 01:05:02,273
It's just…
1400
01:05:09,447 --> 01:05:11,991
It's just too much
in, like, too little time.
1401
01:05:12,074 --> 01:05:13,868
Are you talking about the wedding now?
1402
01:05:20,166 --> 01:05:23,920
You can do whatever you wanna do.
That'll always be true.
1403
01:05:24,003 --> 01:05:26,547
Am I gonna fucking be
absolutely crushed? Of course.
1404
01:05:26,631 --> 01:05:28,466
I'll be miserable,
but I'll understand that.
1405
01:05:34,722 --> 01:05:38,225
It's just-- it's just really weird.
It doesn't really make sense to me.
1406
01:05:42,813 --> 01:05:44,315
I get what you're saying. I get that.
1407
01:05:44,398 --> 01:05:45,441
I'm the fucking problem.
1408
01:05:48,486 --> 01:05:49,487
I know that.
1409
01:05:51,197 --> 01:05:54,533
I'm still the person that you knew I was
before this happened.
1410
01:05:55,576 --> 01:05:56,953
It doesn't change who I am.
1411
01:05:58,329 --> 01:06:00,998
Doesn't change all things we've
been through, how I feel about you.
1412
01:06:01,082 --> 01:06:03,709
And I've shown you
all the ins and outs of me.
1413
01:06:04,293 --> 01:06:06,379
And it is who I am, okay?
1414
01:06:08,339 --> 01:06:10,341
This thing does not define me.
1415
01:06:11,425 --> 01:06:12,969
I'm pissed.
1416
01:06:20,476 --> 01:06:22,311
Don't not tell me things.
1417
01:06:23,729 --> 01:06:25,106
I tell you everything.
1418
01:06:25,940 --> 01:06:27,566
And you know that's hard for me.
1419
01:06:28,234 --> 01:06:30,027
I know you're sorry.
1420
01:06:32,029 --> 01:06:34,991
I'm just like incredibly exhausted.
1421
01:06:38,953 --> 01:06:40,162
And confused.
1422
01:06:42,498 --> 01:06:43,833
[Garrett sniffles]
1423
01:06:43,916 --> 01:06:45,042
I'd like to go home.
1424
01:06:45,126 --> 01:06:46,711
[pop music playing]
1425
01:06:46,794 --> 01:06:48,963
♪ This is when the tides will turn ♪
1426
01:06:49,046 --> 01:06:50,214
♪ It's a power ♪
1427
01:06:51,882 --> 01:06:54,468
♪ Turn it off, I'm gonna shut it down ♪
1428
01:06:55,386 --> 01:06:58,472
♪ It's a power
It's a power, gonna turn you off ♪
1429
01:06:58,556 --> 01:07:00,975
♪ This is when the tides will turn ♪
1430
01:07:04,186 --> 01:07:06,564
♪ I'm gonna, I'm gonna shut it down ♪
1431
01:07:16,615 --> 01:07:18,576
♪ This is when the tides will ♪
1432
01:07:19,577 --> 01:07:21,996
♪ This is when the tides will turn ♪