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Welcome to Love is Blind.
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[soft music plays]
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I'm just finding myself,
like, thinking about you.
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There's a heart with your name
right in the middle of my notebook.
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[Nick Lachey] Here, you'll choose someone
to marry without ever seeing them.
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[Nick] I'm on one knee, and I'm asking you
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if you will marry me.
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- Yes.
- [Deepti] Yes.
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- Yes. Yes!
- Yes, yes, yes!
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Yeah, I'll marry you. [laughs]
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Let's go!
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[Vanessa] And if they accept,
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you'll see your fiancé
for the very first time.
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- Oh my gosh.
- ♪ Life is wonderfully beautiful ♪
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[Jarrette] Oh my God.
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[Vanessa] Together, hopefully,
you turn that emotional connection
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into a physical one.
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[Jarrette] That physical connection
we have
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is just as strong
as our emotional connection.
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I just show my love differently.
I think you have such high expectations.
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I'm done.
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I want you to show me
that you prioritize me.
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And I think the closer I get,
the more concerned I get.
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If there's someone else that
you, like, wanna be with, just tell me.
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[sighs]
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- I'm not fucking around.
- Oh, okay.
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I had things going on yesterday,
outside of meeting your family.
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I can't do this.
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[Nick Lachey] And in just four weeks,
you will be at your wedding.
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Will you say I do
to the person you chose sight unseen...
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I do, absolutely.
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...or will you walk away
from that person forever?
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[dramatic music builds to crescendo]
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[dramatic music plays]
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Now is the time
to decide if love is blind.
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[Nick] My vision for marriage is
two people that come together and decide
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that we're gonna spend our life together
and be together no matter what,
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through thick and thin,
good times and bad.
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And so it's a very serious,
real, lifelong commitment.
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[Danielle] I want Nick to be my husband
more than anything.
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This is the biggest moment of my life.
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[minister] Nick Matthew Thompson,
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do you take Danielle Jean Ruhl
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to be your wife
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as long as you both shall live?
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[dramatic music builds]
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[music fades]
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I do.
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[Wendy crying]
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I have no question whatsoever that you are
the person I'm supposed to be with.
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♪ Two souls sewn together ♪
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I'm glad that I found you,
and I can't wait to spend
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the rest of my life being better together.
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Thank you. [chuckles]
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♪ You're the one thing I can't lose ♪
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Oh, my beautiful girl.
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I now declare you to be husband and wife.
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Nick, you may kiss your wife.
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[cheers and applause]
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[man 1] Yeah, Danielle!
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[man 2] Yeah! Whoo!
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[Danielle] I'm so happy!
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[Nick] Me too.
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I'm sweating through my pants.
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So am I.
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♪ I will always fight
Always fight for you ♪
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♪ I will always fight
Always fight for you ♪
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[Wendy] Oh, I'm so happy for her.
It's truly what she wanted.
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[laughs]
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♪ I will always fight
Always fight for you ♪
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[Danielle and Nick chuckle]
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- [Danielle sighs]
- [Nick] How do you feel?
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[Danielle] So good.
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- I'm so happy.
- [Nick] Me too.
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I'm a married man.
I'm very happy. Very excited.
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Um, saying yes and committing
to getting married today to Danielle
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was a game-time decision
because I wasn't 100% sure
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that she was 100% sure.
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But it all worked out
the way it was supposed to,
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and that means that I'm a married man.
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And we have a whole life
of 50-some-odd years together,
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and I can't wait.
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- You're my husband now.
- You're my wife.
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[Danielle] This is the last thing
I thought would happen. It happened.
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We love each other
and care more about each other
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than we could ever express to anyone.
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And the thought of losing that
in the blink of an eye was terrifying.
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I'm just so happy
he came to the same conclusion.
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He is my person, and he is the person
I wanna spend the rest of my life with.
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And he thinks that about me too.
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Ah! [chuckles]
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Nothing better than that.
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I can't believe I'm married.
I'm a wife. I have a husband.
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This is everything I could've ever wanted.
So, love is blind, obviously.
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[laughing]
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I'm so happy.
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- Cheers.
- Cheers. [chuckles]
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To us.
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- For the rest of our lives.
- Yeah. [chuckles]
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- That's crazy.
- Ah!
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I'm realizing the rest of our lives.
Should've thought this through more.
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- I'm kidding.
- [both chuckle]
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♪ We can make it through, me and you... ♪
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I'm so happy.
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- [whispers] I can't believe this.
- I know.
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Congratulations to us.
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To Nick and Danielle Ruhl. [laughs]
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I love you.
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I love you too.
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♪ Prove it ♪
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[soft music plays]
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♪ Here we stand ♪
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♪ In the light of day ♪
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♪ And the world is at our feet ♪
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You know, coming into this experience
and starting this journey,
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I really wanted to find my perfect match,
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my soulmate.
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And now, it's my wedding day.
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Deepti, will you make me the luckiest man
in the world and marry me?
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Oh my God.
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Abhi, I never thought
that I would meet someone like you.
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And, oh man, I feel like fate
has just gravitated us towards each other.
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And a thousand times yes.
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- [Shake] Yes. Yes!
- Yes, yes, yes!
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- I wish I could hug you right now.
- [Shake] I know.
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- My gosh. And then some...
- Can't wait to see you.
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Oh my God.
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[chuckling softly]
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- Oh my God.
- Hi!
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- Oh, you're gonna be my fucking wife.
- You're gonna be my husband.
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Today is my wedding day.
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And so far, the day has been...
[sighs] ...surreal, you know?
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Getting picked up in a Suburban
and whisked away to the venue here.
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Right now, I'm excited.
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- [man 1] Yo!
- [man 2] Yo, yo! What's up, buddy?
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- Oh.
- [Shake] Oh!
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- Whoa. Got the squad. All right.
- What's up, man?
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- [Shake] Yeah.
- [man 1] Opa.
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- There we go.
- [man 2] Opa.
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How's your feeling?
Where's your mind at right now?
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This isn't something that...
you can be, like, 80% sure.
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You know, it's like,
you have to be 150% sure, right?
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What's missing?
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I don't feel that kind of instinctual
physical attraction that I feel like...
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So, is that the missing piece?
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Is that why it's not 100?
Is that why it's 20%?
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That is. That is.
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What do you think
you'll look like in 20, 30 years?
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- What are we gonna look like?
- He's already a silver fox.
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[laughter]
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If you're forever gonna be thinking
there's always something better,
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you're always a swipe away...
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Wouldn't you want somebody
that you're emotionally connected to?
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You're marrying the personality anyways,
to a certain degree.
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Connections like this...
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Once every ten,
20 years, maybe a lifetime.
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I'm an only child,
but today is not just about me.
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It's about Deepti also.
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They say you have to be selfish
and think about yourself,
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and I think that's true in many scenarios,
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but I also think, you know,
when it comes to marriage,
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that's... that's the day you stop
thinking about just yourself.
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So are you feeling excited,
nervous, scared, worried?
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Glass case of emotions, baby.
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That's what I've been saying
this entire journey.
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That's how I'm feeling. [laughs]
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This wedding day, I mean,
of course, means the world to me,
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because I've just always wanted
to find this happiness and my person.
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Not everyone's going to be
perfect for you, so you have to figure out
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what compromises you're willing
to live with and what you're not.
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And there's never gonna be
the perfect person.
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[Juhie] Right.
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So, it's like, you have to pick and choose
what values mean the most to you.
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- [Juhie] Right.
- [Deepti] Hi, Mom.
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[Gayatri] Hi.
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[Deepti] Hi!
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- [Gayatri] Hi. How are you doing?
- Hey.
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I'm good.
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I just wanna celebrate our love.
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I guess it's, like, one of a kind.
It's different.
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It's unique, but it is our love story.
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And I'm so grateful for my family
for being here and being so supportive.
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They are putting in so much effort
to make sure that I look beautiful,
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to make sure that, you know,
all the right things are at this wedding.
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And everything's just
so much more magical.
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Oh, there she goes.
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I love you. You good? Okay.
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Don't touch me! No, I'm just kidding.
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[laughs] You just wanna squeeze.
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I love you. Thank you for being here.
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♪ Just one step away
So close you can taste it ♪
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♪ No risk in our way
It's gotta be today ♪
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♪ Told you we'd be here
And we indeed here ♪
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♪ No matter how heartless
This darkness, gon' light it up ♪
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[Gayatri] The bride's most
important thing is a bindi.
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It's a significance of your days
will be brighter with me, and forward.
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[Gayatri chuckles] Mm-hmm.
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- Cute.
- Yeah.
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[Shake] It's the Chatterjees!
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- Hello.
- Hi!
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- Thank you.
- Hello.
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[Sita] Oh my God.
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- How are you, darling?
- I'm doing good. Yeah.
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- Good to see you. Yeah.
- You look good.
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Yeah, you know, I felt like
I had to go a little extra.
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- Yes.
- You know?
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If ever there was an occasion to go extra...
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- Sure.
- ...this is it, right?
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Yes, yes, yes.
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- [Deepti] Oh my...
- [chuckling]
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- [Deepti] Hi, Dad!
- [Venkateswar] Oh.
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How are you feeling?
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[Deepti] Good. Oh no, I got makeup on you!
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[Venkateswar chuckles] That's fine.
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- Gorgeous.
- [Deepti] Good? Yeah.
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I came into this experience
wanting to find my person.
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For somebody who loves me for who I am.
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Someone I can spend
the rest of my life with.
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And I've given it my all.
I've given it my 110%.
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I know what I'm gonna say today,
and... let's see how it goes.
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- I support in any decision you take.
- Yeah. We're always here to support what...
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We all are there for you.
Always. And always we will support.
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I want you to be really, really happy.
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And whenever you walk into a relationship,
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there has to be a commitment.
Lifelong commitment.
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And when you know that this is
who I'm going to spend the whole life,
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and when you feel it, that's...
that's what I want for you.
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Thank you. I love you guys.
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- Love you.
- I love you too.
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Thank you.
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[Shake] What are you guys thinking?
Curious what your thoughts are.
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[Debasish] Whichever way you go,
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I think you'll make a good decision,
right decision.
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You know, a wise man said that
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when you have to make
a difficult decision,
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the important thing is
that you make a decision.
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You know?
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As a husband, it's, uh, obviously,
you have to take care of your wife.
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She should be your good friend.
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Both of you should be able
to help each other.
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And good times will come.
Bad times will also come.
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So, you should be prepared for both.
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[Sita] If you do what's good for you,
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then you will be the best person
for the other person.
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Even though I haven't
consciously thought about it,
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I don't consciously think about it,
in a lot of ways, I am like you guys.
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You know? I mean,
you guys probably see it.
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This is... This is a new dimension of life.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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- It's a whole other level.
- [Debasish] Yes.
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It's a whole... Yeah.
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Yes. Yes. Yes.
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As I make this decision, it could go...
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[sighs] Really, I could
go either way right now.
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But what I know for certain
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is that we are celebrating love today.
258
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[drums playing rhythmically]
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[singing, cheering]
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- Hey!
- Hey!
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- Hey!
- Hey!
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[man] Hey! Ho!
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[Shake] This experiment, in a way,
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was to see if the emotional
could outweigh the physical.
265
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In the past, I have run away
from my culture and Indian women,
266
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but right now,
I'm just embracing who I am,
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and feeling very excited and at home.
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[cheers and applause]
269
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Wow, that was fun. Huh?
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- And now you can go and get the bride.
- Okay, sure. Thank you.
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Oh, okay. We wait.
272
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[soft instrumental music plays]
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Don't they look good, my friends?
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♪ I don't need any more proof ♪
275
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♪ I see it right in front of me
And no, there's no use ♪
276
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♪ You always get the best of me ♪
277
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♪ We find a way
Find a way to each other ♪
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Hi. [chuckles]
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♪ Everything we try goes round and round ♪
280
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[whispers] Oh man.
281
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Seeing Deeps coming down the aisle,
she just looked stunning.
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♪ No matter all the steps we try... ♪
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Stop crying. Oh my gosh.
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- [Shake] You look hot.
- [laughs softly]
285
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- [Deepti] Hi, how are you?
- Hey. You look amazing.
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- [Deepti] Thank you. You do too.
- [Shake speaks indistinctly]
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[chuckles]
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♪ We end up back to where we started ♪
289
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Today, Deepti and Abhishek are going
through the holy ceremony of marriage.
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[chanting in Hindi]
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[priest in English] Now is the time
to decide if the love is blind.
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[dramatic music plays]
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Deepti, do you take Abhishek
to be your husband to love and to cherish
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as long as you both shall live?
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I hope you know how much you mean to me
and the impact you've made on my life.
296
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But no, I cannot marry you.
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I deserve somebody who knows for sure.
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So, I'm choosing myself,
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and I'm gonna say no.
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[somber instrumental music plays]
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[Deepti] He's not the one for me,
because if he was,
302
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he'd make me feel like I was the one,
and he never did that.
303
00:17:05,524 --> 00:17:07,526
[exhales deeply]
304
00:17:09,403 --> 00:17:10,821
We're still good, though.
305
00:17:19,455 --> 00:17:20,748
Yo, this is a celebration.
306
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This is a celebration.
That's the last thing I'm gonna say.
307
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- Let's run it. Let's run it.
- [cheering]
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Here we go, baby.
Everybody up. Here we go.
309
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[drum music playing rhythmically]
310
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[Shake] Let's do it.
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Yeah.
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[somber music playing]
313
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♪ Light flows through the window ♪
314
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♪ The darkness calls from me to you ♪
315
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[Deepti] Hi.
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[Gayatri] My sweetheart.
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- I chose myself.
- I know.
318
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- I'm so proud of you.
- Thank you.
319
00:18:04,083 --> 00:18:06,126
We're gonna be partying
through till tomorrow,
320
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'cause I don't work till Monday.
321
00:18:07,711 --> 00:18:10,798
She will definitely be my friend.
She'll definitely be my friend.
322
00:18:10,881 --> 00:18:12,257
Are you sad at all?
323
00:18:12,341 --> 00:18:13,509
Part of me is upset.
324
00:18:13,592 --> 00:18:16,845
Part of me is upset,
but, like, it's a net positive.
325
00:18:16,929 --> 00:18:19,765
Like, overall, there's so much
more positive emotion.
326
00:18:21,225 --> 00:18:22,225
So...
327
00:18:22,684 --> 00:18:23,685
Yeah, man.
328
00:18:24,978 --> 00:18:27,314
- I just want you to be happy, okay?
- I am happy.
329
00:18:27,397 --> 00:18:30,400
- Just don't worry about anything. Yeah.
- I chose myself. I'm happy.
330
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- I promise.
- Absolutely. Absolutely.
331
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- I love you so much. Thank you.
- I love you too.
332
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That's my brave girl. My sweetheart.
333
00:18:42,371 --> 00:18:43,747
That's... [sobs softly]
334
00:18:45,666 --> 00:18:46,834
[sniffling]
335
00:18:48,127 --> 00:18:49,169
[Deepti] I love you.
336
00:18:49,253 --> 00:18:50,921
Yeah. You did good.
337
00:18:51,004 --> 00:18:53,048
It's probably for the best, man. You know?
338
00:18:53,132 --> 00:18:54,967
- She did her thing, and...
- Yeah.
339
00:18:55,050 --> 00:18:58,011
I would much rather be... Like, dude, I'd...
340
00:18:58,095 --> 00:19:00,848
Thank God
Thank God I didn't have to say anything.
341
00:19:00,931 --> 00:19:04,143
And, you know...
And, like, very transparent.
342
00:19:04,226 --> 00:19:08,063
I was the one that was more on the fence.
Like, you know what I mean?
343
00:19:08,147 --> 00:19:10,315
It's not a fun thing
to talk about right now,
344
00:19:10,399 --> 00:19:13,277
but if I would've said yes,
she would've said yes. Yeah.
345
00:19:13,360 --> 00:19:16,947
That's why I feel amazing.
We got... We avoided all that.
346
00:19:17,030 --> 00:19:19,199
I was like,
"Please be the one to reject me."
347
00:19:19,283 --> 00:19:21,743
Like, "I can handle it.
I can take it." You know?
348
00:19:21,827 --> 00:19:23,704
[chuckles]
349
00:19:23,787 --> 00:19:24,663
It'll be fine.
350
00:19:24,746 --> 00:19:26,206
Honestly, right now,
351
00:19:26,290 --> 00:19:30,127
I'm excited to just get back
in the normal swing of things.
352
00:19:30,210 --> 00:19:34,089
I wanna get back into my fitness routine,
353
00:19:34,173 --> 00:19:37,050
and, um, I have reservations
at Nobu on Sunday.
354
00:19:37,134 --> 00:19:38,844
So, things are gonna be good.
355
00:19:39,845 --> 00:19:41,138
I'm good. Don't cry.
356
00:19:41,221 --> 00:19:43,182
I know you're good. I know you're good.
357
00:19:43,265 --> 00:19:44,308
You're always good.
358
00:19:44,808 --> 00:19:47,686
Today she stood up for herself,
359
00:19:47,769 --> 00:19:49,813
and I'm so, so proud of her.
360
00:19:49,897 --> 00:19:52,399
She's not a girl who asks for a lot.
361
00:19:52,482 --> 00:19:56,111
She is a person who cares
for every single person, no matter what.
362
00:19:56,612 --> 00:20:00,908
And I think she deserves that connection,
and full commitment,
363
00:20:00,991 --> 00:20:03,285
and a lot more from him.
364
00:20:03,785 --> 00:20:06,705
So, there's nothing more to say.
365
00:20:06,788 --> 00:20:07,956
That's my daughter.
366
00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,083
- You gotta celebrate life.
- Yes.
367
00:20:10,167 --> 00:20:11,835
- Always be happy.
- I chose myself.
368
00:20:11,919 --> 00:20:13,359
- Let's celebrate that.
- Absolutely.
369
00:20:13,420 --> 00:20:17,424
I don't think he realizes
what he just lost.
370
00:20:17,507 --> 00:20:21,053
And a little time from now,
he's gonna look back and realize
371
00:20:21,136 --> 00:20:22,930
he lost the best thing of his life.
372
00:20:23,013 --> 00:20:26,183
And when that day comes,
I'll be long gone.
373
00:20:26,683 --> 00:20:32,022
To me, that's heartbreaking,
but I have to see my worth and move on.
374
00:20:32,689 --> 00:20:34,066
He doesn't deserve me.
375
00:20:34,149 --> 00:20:36,109
♪ Who calls it love? ♪
376
00:20:36,193 --> 00:20:41,073
♪ Who calls it love
Just to make me stay? ♪
377
00:20:47,037 --> 00:20:49,039
[intense music playing]
378
00:21:02,511 --> 00:21:05,430
[Natalie] I'm nervous. I'm stressed.
379
00:21:06,014 --> 00:21:10,477
Last night,
Shayne and I got into... a fight.
380
00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:14,398
It was a really bad one,
and he said some hurtful things to me.
381
00:21:14,982 --> 00:21:17,401
I asked Shayne,
"Do you think you, like, maybe
382
00:21:17,484 --> 00:21:19,569
had a little bit too much to drink?"
383
00:21:20,070 --> 00:21:23,991
And he just got really,
really angry at me.
384
00:21:26,535 --> 00:21:29,788
I mean, despite being
and getting into a big fight, I...
385
00:21:29,871 --> 00:21:31,206
I still love him.
386
00:21:31,290 --> 00:21:33,375
And he's, like, still my best friend.
387
00:21:33,458 --> 00:21:35,127
[sobs]
388
00:21:35,210 --> 00:21:36,253
I just, like...
389
00:21:36,336 --> 00:21:37,462
[crying]
390
00:21:37,546 --> 00:21:38,380
I don't know.
391
00:21:38,463 --> 00:21:40,465
[melancholy music plays]
392
00:21:43,343 --> 00:21:46,930
♪ Maybe you can tell me what I did wrong ♪
393
00:21:48,265 --> 00:21:52,144
♪ Maybe you can tell me that I'm crazy ♪
394
00:21:57,941 --> 00:22:00,902
♪ Maybe you don't forget
The things you told me ♪
395
00:22:00,986 --> 00:22:05,073
During arguments, everyone says stuff
they don't mean most of the time.
396
00:22:05,157 --> 00:22:07,284
[interviewer]
Can you explain what happened?
397
00:22:07,784 --> 00:22:09,870
I don't wanna talk about the fight, dude.
398
00:22:16,668 --> 00:22:18,670
You know, she's my best friend.
399
00:22:18,754 --> 00:22:22,758
The person I, you know,
see myself with the rest of my life.
400
00:22:22,841 --> 00:22:24,801
Ideally, I hope we both say yes,
401
00:22:24,885 --> 00:22:28,305
and, you know,
we start our new life together,
402
00:22:28,388 --> 00:22:32,351
you know, outside of, um, this experiment.
403
00:22:32,434 --> 00:22:33,643
- Shayne.
- Hey.
404
00:22:34,227 --> 00:22:39,483
♪ I told you I believe in love ♪
405
00:22:42,819 --> 00:22:46,573
♪ Lately I've been
Holding onto something ♪
406
00:22:47,532 --> 00:22:51,203
♪ Even though I know it's really nothing ♪
407
00:22:52,371 --> 00:22:56,166
♪ Maybe I need something to believe in ♪
408
00:22:56,666 --> 00:23:00,420
- What are you nervous about?
- Everything. We had our bachelor party.
409
00:23:00,504 --> 00:23:03,924
And then we got into
a little argument again, of course.
410
00:23:04,007 --> 00:23:06,301
[John] Why'd you say "of course"?
Makes it seem like...
411
00:23:06,385 --> 00:23:09,012
'Cause she'll find something wrong I do
almost every time.
412
00:23:09,805 --> 00:23:10,847
Um...
413
00:23:11,765 --> 00:23:16,853
But, yeah. Then from there, I basically
said, "With what you say about me,
414
00:23:16,937 --> 00:23:18,313
why would you wanna marry me?"
415
00:23:18,397 --> 00:23:20,941
I'm like, "I don't think
we should get married now."
416
00:23:21,024 --> 00:23:22,784
- I said that.
- [John] You said that to her?
417
00:23:22,818 --> 00:23:25,153
- [Shayne] Mm-hmm.
- It seems like you do have doubts.
418
00:23:25,237 --> 00:23:29,282
You don't wanna jump into something
if you know she's not fully committed.
419
00:23:31,326 --> 00:23:33,036
The argument between Natalie and I,
420
00:23:33,120 --> 00:23:37,124
I believe it stemmed from me
having to prove myself all the time.
421
00:23:37,207 --> 00:23:39,751
- Do you think I'm pretty?
- Do I think you're pretty?
422
00:23:39,835 --> 00:23:42,462
- Do you think I'm pretty?
- Are you fishing for compliments?
423
00:23:42,546 --> 00:23:44,756
- Mm-hmm.
- Not really. I'm just... [chuckles]
424
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:46,550
- See, honestly... It's so...
- Yes.
425
00:23:46,633 --> 00:23:49,261
Stop doing that.
I'm trying to have a fucking conversation.
426
00:23:49,344 --> 00:23:51,888
- [Natalie] Take your shirts off.
- Finally, she says that.
427
00:23:52,639 --> 00:23:54,307
Actually, put it back on. I'm good.
428
00:23:54,391 --> 00:23:56,768
You're a piece of shit. I'm just kidding.
429
00:23:56,852 --> 00:23:58,353
Oh my God.
430
00:23:58,437 --> 00:24:02,232
We all have breaking points and whatnot.
And, I had mine that night.
431
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:04,860
I never feel like I'm enough.
432
00:24:04,943 --> 00:24:07,279
Just know that whatever you do,
we'll be here.
433
00:24:07,362 --> 00:24:08,822
[John] Yeah. That's why we're here.
434
00:24:09,322 --> 00:24:12,367
[woman] When did you know it was...
When did you narrow it down to Shayne?
435
00:24:12,451 --> 00:24:17,664
I think what attracted me to him initially
is that he was so different from me.
436
00:24:18,373 --> 00:24:20,834
Like, he was, like, a lot more confident.
437
00:24:20,917 --> 00:24:24,671
What he was is what I wanted to be,
if that makes sense.
438
00:24:24,754 --> 00:24:26,548
- Yeah.
- Yeah, totally.
439
00:24:26,631 --> 00:24:29,426
[Natalie] And he just
made me feel, like, very reassured.
440
00:24:29,926 --> 00:24:33,638
[Shayne] I get those butterflies with you.
I get all the special feelings for you.
441
00:24:34,306 --> 00:24:37,851
This last week and a half
has been life-changing. I mean...
442
00:24:37,934 --> 00:24:38,934
[grunts]
443
00:24:38,977 --> 00:24:42,814
I can make it down on a knee.
[chuckles] You can't see me but...
444
00:24:43,690 --> 00:24:46,610
[sighs] I mean, I... I love you.
445
00:24:47,694 --> 00:24:48,904
I cannot wait
446
00:24:49,404 --> 00:24:51,990
to explore the rest of my life with you.
447
00:24:53,241 --> 00:24:54,241
So, Natalie...
448
00:24:55,952 --> 00:24:57,412
will you marry me?
449
00:24:57,954 --> 00:25:00,790
- Yes. Oh my gosh, of course.
- [laughs]
450
00:25:00,874 --> 00:25:03,376
- [Shayne] I'm so fucking happy.
- I know. Me too.
451
00:25:06,046 --> 00:25:07,797
- Hi. Oh my gosh.
- Hi.
452
00:25:07,881 --> 00:25:11,218
♪ This is your heart ♪
453
00:25:11,301 --> 00:25:13,053
♪ To break ♪
454
00:25:16,097 --> 00:25:19,017
- How are you?
- Oh my God.
455
00:25:20,519 --> 00:25:21,603
Oh my God.
456
00:25:21,686 --> 00:25:23,605
Oh my God. You... Oh my God.
457
00:25:23,688 --> 00:25:25,065
You look so good.
458
00:25:25,148 --> 00:25:26,483
[Nan speaking softly]
459
00:25:26,566 --> 00:25:27,566
[Natalie] Yeah.
460
00:25:28,527 --> 00:25:30,737
- Hi, Dad.
- Hello, my baby. [chuckles]
461
00:25:33,073 --> 00:25:34,073
[chuckling]
462
00:25:34,616 --> 00:25:37,869
- You look fabulous. Fabulous, my baby.
- Thanks. You look good, Dad.
463
00:25:37,953 --> 00:25:38,953
[Don chuckles]
464
00:25:40,497 --> 00:25:44,042
Everything's gonna work out.
I know it for a fact.
465
00:25:45,126 --> 00:25:46,920
- You know what I was gonna say?
- What?
466
00:25:47,003 --> 00:25:50,507
[clears throat]
Of all the things I've done in my life,
467
00:25:51,341 --> 00:25:54,177
being your dad
is my greatest achievement ever.
468
00:25:55,053 --> 00:25:56,053
- [sniffles]
- Really.
469
00:25:56,096 --> 00:25:58,390
You really make me happy,
kid, all the time.
470
00:26:00,183 --> 00:26:04,854
If this is what you want and you decide,
we're here for you. Really. Okay?
471
00:26:04,938 --> 00:26:05,981
Right.
472
00:26:06,064 --> 00:26:10,443
When you're making a decision like this,
do what your heart tells you.
473
00:26:11,111 --> 00:26:12,153
[Natalie] I know.
474
00:26:13,405 --> 00:26:16,074
- I'm so happy you guys are here.
- [Don] Of course.
475
00:26:16,700 --> 00:26:20,704
My baby.
Really, life is never boring with you.
476
00:26:20,787 --> 00:26:22,831
- I love it.
- [all laughing]
477
00:26:22,914 --> 00:26:24,833
- Thank you.
- [laughing]
478
00:26:24,916 --> 00:26:25,834
[Don] We're ready.
479
00:26:25,917 --> 00:26:28,712
- Okay.
- We're ready. Let's do this. Are we good?
480
00:26:28,795 --> 00:26:29,963
Yeah, we're good.
481
00:26:30,046 --> 00:26:34,509
Shayne is my best friend. I feel like
I can talk to him about everything.
482
00:26:34,593 --> 00:26:38,221
And just everything about him just,
like, makes me feel like a new person,
483
00:26:38,305 --> 00:26:41,850
and it's a feeling I want to feel
for, like, the rest of my life.
484
00:26:41,933 --> 00:26:45,061
But if I didn't build
the emotional connection
485
00:26:45,145 --> 00:26:46,646
with Shayne in the pods,
486
00:26:47,397 --> 00:26:49,941
I don't think we could've survived
the arguments we have.
487
00:26:50,025 --> 00:26:51,776
I would've absolutely walked away.
488
00:26:52,360 --> 00:26:56,990
My love for him just, like, forces me
to not do that, not walk away.
489
00:26:58,325 --> 00:27:01,202
- Good? Okay. See you there.
- [Natalie] Good. Okay, bye.
490
00:27:01,286 --> 00:27:02,746
[Shayne chuckling]
491
00:27:02,829 --> 00:27:05,040
- No, it fits.
- It does not.
492
00:27:05,123 --> 00:27:08,543
- Can you button this?
- I'm swinging in like Tarzan last minute.
493
00:27:09,044 --> 00:27:11,355
- Can you button this?
- I don't want any other guy to do it.
494
00:27:11,379 --> 00:27:13,173
- Is your neck too small?
- I think it is.
495
00:27:13,673 --> 00:27:15,216
- You got plenty of room.
- Do I?
496
00:27:15,300 --> 00:27:17,218
- Mine's way tighter.
- [Shayne laughs]
497
00:27:17,302 --> 00:27:19,846
But I'm not good at buttoning
other people's buttons up.
498
00:27:19,929 --> 00:27:21,306
Can you pop the collar?
499
00:27:22,223 --> 00:27:24,517
[both laughing]
500
00:27:25,935 --> 00:27:27,646
[John] I'm glad you're doing okay.
501
00:27:27,729 --> 00:27:29,981
Can you believe
this is happening right now?
502
00:27:30,482 --> 00:27:32,734
- [Brent] No.
- [laughter]
503
00:27:34,361 --> 00:27:35,570
[Shayne] That's perfect.
504
00:27:36,154 --> 00:27:38,365
[tense music plays]
505
00:27:53,421 --> 00:27:54,421
[sighs deeply]
506
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:58,885
You're gonna do fine.
You're gonna do fine.
507
00:27:58,968 --> 00:28:00,929
Just take deep breaths.
508
00:28:02,263 --> 00:28:04,140
[chuckling softly]
509
00:28:04,641 --> 00:28:06,726
- Both our palms are wet.
- I know.
510
00:28:06,810 --> 00:28:08,478
I'm, like, so sweaty and nervous.
511
00:28:08,561 --> 00:28:09,938
[both chuckling softly]
512
00:28:11,272 --> 00:28:12,565
Love you, love you, love ya.
513
00:28:18,530 --> 00:28:20,156
- Don't make me cry.
- [chuckles]
514
00:28:23,451 --> 00:28:24,451
[Shayne grunts]
515
00:28:46,683 --> 00:28:50,395
My biggest fear is that after our fight,
Natalie says no,
516
00:28:50,478 --> 00:28:52,897
and she can't let go of,
kind of, like, what happened.
517
00:28:52,981 --> 00:28:53,982
If Natalie said yes,
518
00:28:54,065 --> 00:28:56,651
I'd be the happiest person
in the world. It's all I want.
519
00:28:56,735 --> 00:28:58,963
I'll be the happiest person
in the world if she says yes.
520
00:28:58,987 --> 00:29:00,196
Up there? Oh boy.
521
00:29:04,451 --> 00:29:05,577
[dramatic sting]
522
00:29:06,745 --> 00:29:07,745
[exhales deeply]
523
00:29:10,373 --> 00:29:11,373
[exhales]
524
00:29:13,293 --> 00:29:15,295
[uplifting music plays]
525
00:29:40,779 --> 00:29:41,779
[Natalie sighs]
526
00:29:42,447 --> 00:29:44,073
How are you feeling? Huh?
527
00:29:44,157 --> 00:29:45,575
How are you feeling, babe?
528
00:29:46,075 --> 00:29:47,075
I'm okay.
529
00:29:49,162 --> 00:29:52,165
You know what,
like Mom says, speak from your heart.
530
00:29:52,707 --> 00:29:55,293
- It'll all work out.
- Okay, thanks.
531
00:29:56,085 --> 00:29:57,504
[officiant] Please rise.
532
00:29:58,421 --> 00:29:59,756
[inhales deeply]
533
00:30:05,053 --> 00:30:07,722
[Natalie] This is
the biggest decision of my life.
534
00:30:07,806 --> 00:30:11,309
Before this experiment,
I always led with my head
535
00:30:11,392 --> 00:30:13,061
and I always ignored my heart.
536
00:30:13,144 --> 00:30:16,397
I know in my heart
that I love Shayne so much,
537
00:30:16,481 --> 00:30:19,692
and I want to work it out,
538
00:30:20,276 --> 00:30:21,444
but I'm scared.
539
00:30:24,239 --> 00:30:25,698
[officiant] Please be seated.
540
00:30:30,411 --> 00:30:32,747
Who gives this woman
to be married to this man?
541
00:30:33,456 --> 00:30:34,456
I do.
542
00:30:35,750 --> 00:30:38,086
Shayne. Let's do this right.
543
00:30:42,298 --> 00:30:43,550
[Natalie chuckles softly]
544
00:30:44,509 --> 00:30:46,010
[officiant] Natalie and Shayne,
545
00:30:46,094 --> 00:30:49,722
you chose to be engaged
and spend the rest of your lives together,
546
00:30:49,806 --> 00:30:52,767
based on incredible emotional connection.
547
00:30:53,768 --> 00:30:56,980
And you decided
to get married sight unseen.
548
00:30:57,564 --> 00:30:59,691
Now is the time to decide
549
00:30:59,774 --> 00:31:02,569
if love is truly blind.
550
00:31:03,069 --> 00:31:04,237
[dramatic music plays]
551
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:06,322
Shayne James Jansen,
552
00:31:07,115 --> 00:31:10,869
do you take Natalie Nina Lee
553
00:31:11,995 --> 00:31:14,664
to be your wife forevermore?
554
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:18,585
It's so hard to describe
what we've been through.
555
00:31:18,668 --> 00:31:21,254
And I honestly... I just...
556
00:31:21,337 --> 00:31:24,841
I mean... [sighs]
I just want you to know that I love you.
557
00:31:29,262 --> 00:31:30,262
I do.
558
00:31:31,639 --> 00:31:32,974
A thousand times over.
559
00:31:34,350 --> 00:31:35,727
You're my best friend,
560
00:31:35,810 --> 00:31:39,272
and there's no one else
I'd rather do this with in my entire life.
561
00:31:39,355 --> 00:31:41,774
[soft instrumental music plays]
562
00:31:44,861 --> 00:31:47,071
Natalie Nina Lee,
563
00:31:47,572 --> 00:31:50,825
do you take Shayne James Jansen
564
00:31:51,576 --> 00:31:54,370
to be your husband forevermore?
565
00:31:54,871 --> 00:31:57,332
[tense music plays]
566
00:32:11,262 --> 00:32:13,973
I'm so glad
that we shared this journey together.
567
00:32:17,185 --> 00:32:19,062
I think we've grown a lot,
568
00:32:19,562 --> 00:32:22,357
as two people who have fallen in love.
569
00:32:24,025 --> 00:32:25,735
I know I've grown a lot because of you.
570
00:32:28,029 --> 00:32:29,364
But I don't.
571
00:32:29,447 --> 00:32:30,782
[dramatic sting]
572
00:32:36,496 --> 00:32:37,914
[Shayne speaks indistinctly]
573
00:32:37,997 --> 00:32:39,666
I'm so sorry.
574
00:32:41,376 --> 00:32:43,169
[softly] I'm really sorry, Shayne.
575
00:32:43,670 --> 00:32:46,339
I still love you,
and you're still my best friend,
576
00:32:46,422 --> 00:32:50,343
but, like, we have really big issues
to sort through.
577
00:32:52,387 --> 00:32:53,387
What?
578
00:32:53,721 --> 00:32:54,721
I know.
579
00:32:57,016 --> 00:32:58,017
[Shayne] Oh boy.
580
00:33:01,270 --> 00:33:02,271
[Natalie] I, um...
581
00:33:04,148 --> 00:33:05,316
[Natalie sighs]
582
00:33:12,991 --> 00:33:14,993
[melancholy music plays]
583
00:33:55,408 --> 00:33:58,244
- I'm really sorry.
- I know you are. It's not your fault.
584
00:33:58,327 --> 00:34:01,205
I can't be mad with what you decided.
I respect it.
585
00:34:04,375 --> 00:34:06,753
We can still try to work on this.
586
00:34:09,047 --> 00:34:12,258
I'm not closing the door on us.
I just think we need...
587
00:34:12,759 --> 00:34:15,053
Sure, I get it. But respectfully,
588
00:34:15,136 --> 00:34:18,347
I need time to think about this.
I need some time too. Okay?
589
00:34:19,557 --> 00:34:20,557
[sighs]
590
00:34:21,476 --> 00:34:24,437
You know, I'm sorry
that I said what I said,
591
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:27,273
but that's how I truly felt.
592
00:34:27,356 --> 00:34:31,110
We can talk about it later if you want,
but however this turns out is fine.
593
00:34:31,194 --> 00:34:33,654
So you're saying
you truly felt like you hated me,
594
00:34:33,738 --> 00:34:36,157
and I was the worst thing
for you at that moment?
595
00:34:37,241 --> 00:34:38,910
Do you want to do this right now?
596
00:34:39,535 --> 00:34:41,788
No, I was just...
Is that what you were saying?
597
00:34:41,871 --> 00:34:43,498
[tense music plays]
598
00:34:43,581 --> 00:34:44,624
When? Up there?
599
00:34:45,750 --> 00:34:48,503
I just didn't know
what you meant by what you said,
600
00:34:48,586 --> 00:34:50,296
you truly meant those words.
601
00:34:50,379 --> 00:34:53,049
I told you a hundred times over I didn't.
602
00:34:53,132 --> 00:34:56,344
I told you I'd have to live
with myself the rest of my life for that.
603
00:34:56,427 --> 00:34:58,221
I can't apologize more than I've done.
604
00:34:58,304 --> 00:35:00,223
I apologize every single
fucking time I can.
605
00:35:00,848 --> 00:35:02,975
And I told you I own it,
and I'll live up to it.
606
00:35:03,059 --> 00:35:05,645
I have to live with it
for the rest of my life. Okay?
607
00:35:07,021 --> 00:35:10,483
Before our fight, I was 100% sure
I was gonna marry him today.
608
00:35:10,566 --> 00:35:13,069
Like, today would have looked
so different,
609
00:35:13,569 --> 00:35:16,364
but saying that you hate someone,
610
00:35:16,447 --> 00:35:19,093
telling someone you're the worst thing
that's ever happened to them,
611
00:35:19,117 --> 00:35:21,911
those cannot be unintentionally said.
612
00:35:21,994 --> 00:35:24,872
I thought today truly was gonna be
the happiest day of my life.
613
00:35:26,999 --> 00:35:28,084
I think it's just...
614
00:35:28,167 --> 00:35:31,587
I got to a point where I just
emotionally could not do it anymore.
615
00:35:31,671 --> 00:35:32,713
[sighs]
616
00:35:32,797 --> 00:35:35,716
- I want to say sorry too.
- Don't apologize. That's how you feel.
617
00:35:36,217 --> 00:35:39,011
I don't apologize for how I feel.
I don't apologize for it.
618
00:35:39,512 --> 00:35:42,265
You don't have to apologize either.
All right?
619
00:35:42,348 --> 00:35:44,350
[tense music continues]
620
00:35:53,985 --> 00:35:55,653
I'm fuckin' hurt. I'm hurt, okay?
621
00:35:55,736 --> 00:35:58,865
I'm very hurt. I'm very sad.
What else you wanna know about it, man?
622
00:35:59,991 --> 00:36:01,409
I say what I say.
623
00:36:02,326 --> 00:36:05,288
I don't know.
I need time to process it, man.
624
00:36:05,746 --> 00:36:06,746
I don't know.
625
00:36:07,206 --> 00:36:10,042
It's just all blurred right now.
Like, what's going on?
626
00:36:10,543 --> 00:36:12,587
I'm sorry. It's all fucking blurred.
627
00:36:14,213 --> 00:36:16,215
Still love her.
Still think she's a good person.
628
00:36:16,299 --> 00:36:18,885
But you think I'm actually gonna
fucking come back to you
629
00:36:18,968 --> 00:36:20,469
after that kind of stuff again?
630
00:36:25,016 --> 00:36:26,851
What a fucking day.
631
00:36:28,978 --> 00:36:33,232
I still love Shayne and know
he was devastated by my response.
632
00:36:33,316 --> 00:36:35,484
Like, obviously breaks my heart,
633
00:36:35,568 --> 00:36:39,947
but I feel like a weight has been lifted
off my shoulders,
634
00:36:40,031 --> 00:36:44,869
and it just, like, affirms that
I've made the right decision for myself.
635
00:36:46,329 --> 00:36:49,207
When I was walking down the aisle
with my dad,
636
00:36:49,707 --> 00:36:52,919
I thought about how my dad
makes me feel so safe and secure.
637
00:36:53,002 --> 00:36:58,299
And it's because I know
that he always puts me in front of him
638
00:36:58,382 --> 00:37:00,301
and I can trust him fully.
639
00:37:00,384 --> 00:37:04,305
And I realized I just don't have
those same feelings anymore for Shayne.
640
00:37:04,388 --> 00:37:08,017
When I was standing at the altar
with Shayne and looking at him,
641
00:37:08,100 --> 00:37:10,603
I felt on edge and scared.
642
00:37:12,647 --> 00:37:15,483
For me, that was the moment
where I was like, "This is not it."
643
00:37:16,317 --> 00:37:20,529
I truly, truly loved him,
but I think love can only go so far.
644
00:37:21,364 --> 00:37:22,657
[grunts]
645
00:37:29,664 --> 00:37:33,584
♪ It's our time ♪
646
00:37:33,668 --> 00:37:35,378
♪ It's our time ♪
647
00:37:42,551 --> 00:37:44,095
[Salvador] Oh my God.
648
00:37:44,679 --> 00:37:47,098
I'm nervous, excited.
649
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:48,640
And...
650
00:37:50,434 --> 00:37:54,146
I'm just thinking about
how this experience opened up my soul.
651
00:37:55,064 --> 00:37:57,191
This whole experience
has definitely made me feel
652
00:37:57,275 --> 00:37:59,527
like I've dated the wrong way
my whole life.
653
00:37:59,610 --> 00:38:02,655
This has changed me a lot,
and made me a better man.
654
00:38:03,531 --> 00:38:07,576
Falling in love with you
has changed me as a person.
655
00:38:09,495 --> 00:38:11,747
Mallory, will you marry me?
656
00:38:12,248 --> 00:38:13,874
Oh my God.
657
00:38:13,958 --> 00:38:15,042
[chuckles]
658
00:38:15,626 --> 00:38:17,420
Yes. I will marry you.
659
00:38:17,503 --> 00:38:18,671
I will.
660
00:38:18,754 --> 00:38:20,506
- Oh my God, Mal.
- [both laugh]
661
00:38:22,133 --> 00:38:24,385
I love Mallory very much.
662
00:38:25,636 --> 00:38:26,512
[Salvador gasps]
663
00:38:26,595 --> 00:38:29,765
[Mallory] Oh my God.
664
00:38:29,849 --> 00:38:32,560
- I wanted to do something special for you.
- You're so sweet.
665
00:38:33,102 --> 00:38:36,814
♪ My fiancée is hot like Beyoncé ♪
666
00:38:36,897 --> 00:38:41,319
♪ A South Side girl that knows her way ♪
667
00:38:41,819 --> 00:38:46,657
[in Spanish] ♪ I'll be there ♪
668
00:38:46,741 --> 00:38:51,203
♪ For you ♪
669
00:38:51,871 --> 00:38:54,040
[in English] Falling in love
has really changed me.
670
00:38:54,123 --> 00:38:56,125
I'm vulnerable. My guard is down.
671
00:38:56,208 --> 00:39:00,921
But at the same time, I don't know
if I see that reciprocation from Mallory.
672
00:39:01,005 --> 00:39:03,549
Man, like, you're cool as fuck, man.
673
00:39:03,632 --> 00:39:05,801
- Did I look like what you expected?
- Yeah.
674
00:39:05,885 --> 00:39:09,138
I could see your fucking voice
behind the goddamn wall.
675
00:39:09,221 --> 00:39:10,348
[both chuckling]
676
00:39:10,431 --> 00:39:13,434
- Okay, JerBear.
- Are you ready to get married?
677
00:39:15,061 --> 00:39:16,937
Is Sal somebody
you'd go for outside of here?
678
00:39:17,021 --> 00:39:18,606
Um, no.
679
00:39:19,982 --> 00:39:21,567
After you spoke to Jarrette,
680
00:39:21,650 --> 00:39:25,363
I thought I heard you say that
we don't necessarily have to get married.
681
00:39:27,073 --> 00:39:28,073
It bothered me.
682
00:39:28,824 --> 00:39:33,287
And I say the same thing
about my experience with Mallory's family.
683
00:39:33,371 --> 00:39:36,791
I just want you to know that I'm being
very sincere with how I'm feeling
684
00:39:36,874 --> 00:39:40,336
and how I'm feeling with Mallory,
and I'd hope that we'd have your blessing
685
00:39:40,419 --> 00:39:41,921
to move forward.
686
00:39:42,004 --> 00:39:45,007
You know, I think it's not fair to judge
687
00:39:45,091 --> 00:39:48,344
on such a brief conversation.
688
00:39:48,427 --> 00:39:49,470
It's a big deal.
689
00:39:52,264 --> 00:39:54,809
I love her and I care for her.
690
00:39:56,852 --> 00:39:58,354
Mallory knows I love her.
691
00:40:00,189 --> 00:40:02,191
[soft instrumental music plays]
692
00:40:05,820 --> 00:40:09,532
[Mallory] Kind of can't believe I'm here.
It's very surreal, for sure.
693
00:40:09,615 --> 00:40:13,702
I'm surprised, like, in a good way
that I've gotten to this point.
694
00:40:13,786 --> 00:40:17,373
I'm definitely putting myself out there
695
00:40:17,456 --> 00:40:19,417
for love today, for all of this.
696
00:40:19,917 --> 00:40:22,420
It all happened
exactly how it's supposed to.
697
00:40:22,503 --> 00:40:24,130
[breathes deeply, sighs]
698
00:40:24,630 --> 00:40:26,632
- Hey!
- Hey!
699
00:40:26,715 --> 00:40:28,050
Hey, guys.
700
00:40:28,134 --> 00:40:32,138
I didn't know if Tiffany was going
to be supportive or even just be here,
701
00:40:32,221 --> 00:40:33,472
and be a part of this.
702
00:40:33,973 --> 00:40:37,810
My parents and my brothers
couldn't make it, but my sister's here.
703
00:40:37,893 --> 00:40:39,937
- [cork pops]
- [women exclaiming]
704
00:40:42,314 --> 00:40:44,984
Do you have any, um, fears today?
705
00:40:45,067 --> 00:40:47,278
Like, you worried about anything?
706
00:40:47,361 --> 00:40:50,698
I don't know.
Fears, I don't know. Not really. I'm just...
707
00:40:51,198 --> 00:40:55,911
Unless he changes his mind
all of a sudden, which could happen.
708
00:40:55,995 --> 00:40:59,165
Like this is a... It's an emotional moment.
709
00:40:59,957 --> 00:41:02,418
[Tiffany] Can you say
right now that you love him?
710
00:41:02,501 --> 00:41:04,503
Like, this is the person that you love?
711
00:41:04,587 --> 00:41:08,841
I do love him. I do love him,
and I care about him a lot. I'm excited.
712
00:41:08,924 --> 00:41:12,011
Like, this has been
an insane journey. I'm here.
713
00:41:12,094 --> 00:41:16,140
And through everything, I've been
100% honest about my feelings.
714
00:41:16,223 --> 00:41:20,895
And there's, like, so many qualities
that I, like, love about him,
715
00:41:20,978 --> 00:41:23,772
and that's why I've gotten to this point.
716
00:41:24,398 --> 00:41:29,028
All of my feelings and everything
are very true and genuine,
717
00:41:29,111 --> 00:41:30,111
but you know...
718
00:41:30,154 --> 00:41:32,573
[Tiffany] And you envision him
as a life partner.
719
00:41:32,656 --> 00:41:35,242
Like, you can see yourself in the fut...
720
00:41:35,326 --> 00:41:37,620
- For sure.
- Like 5 years, 10 years, 20 years?
721
00:41:37,703 --> 00:41:39,330
Like, you can see that?
722
00:41:39,413 --> 00:41:41,373
Yeah, I could.
723
00:41:41,874 --> 00:41:47,087
And that's, like, what makes me feel
really good about all of this. You know.
724
00:41:47,171 --> 00:41:48,797
So I'm good.
725
00:41:56,222 --> 00:41:58,224
Oh my goodness.
726
00:41:58,307 --> 00:41:59,433
[chuckling]
727
00:41:59,517 --> 00:42:00,726
[laughing] What's up?
728
00:42:00,809 --> 00:42:02,853
[woman squeals]
729
00:42:05,523 --> 00:42:07,942
It's your wedding day.
What's going through your head?
730
00:42:08,025 --> 00:42:10,319
- A lot, man.
- [man] Morning thoughts.
731
00:42:10,402 --> 00:42:11,402
A lot.
732
00:42:11,445 --> 00:42:14,073
But I'm excited. I'm nervous.
733
00:42:14,156 --> 00:42:17,159
I've been thinking about everything
that we've been through together.
734
00:42:17,243 --> 00:42:20,579
I've been thinking about...
you know, good and bad,
735
00:42:21,163 --> 00:42:23,457
how we've resolved our issues. How we've...
736
00:42:23,541 --> 00:42:27,461
Just kind of seeing everything that
Mallory and I have been through together.
737
00:42:27,545 --> 00:42:30,923
You know, like, I feel like,
at this point, I just... I want to see her.
738
00:42:31,006 --> 00:42:33,008
Just, like, I want to see
how she is today,
739
00:42:33,092 --> 00:42:35,594
and I wanna see, like,
how I'm feeling in that moment.
740
00:42:35,678 --> 00:42:38,764
- And then, just take it from there.
- Go from there. Yeah.
741
00:42:39,265 --> 00:42:41,392
I fell in love with Mallory in the pods.
742
00:42:41,475 --> 00:42:45,229
And everything between the pods and now,
743
00:42:45,312 --> 00:42:48,232
there has been challenges with reality,
744
00:42:48,315 --> 00:42:50,818
challenges with our jobs, with our lives.
745
00:42:50,901 --> 00:42:51,901
And...
746
00:42:53,404 --> 00:42:54,405
[sighs]
747
00:42:54,488 --> 00:42:55,489
Was it enough?
748
00:42:55,573 --> 00:42:59,785
I still feel undecided.
I feel like I need to see her.
749
00:42:59,868 --> 00:43:01,412
I need to see her in her dress,
750
00:43:01,495 --> 00:43:04,540
and I know it's gonna be
when she's coming down the aisle,
751
00:43:04,623 --> 00:43:08,419
but I know that when I'm there,
like, and I get to hold Mallory's hands
752
00:43:08,502 --> 00:43:10,337
and just voice how I feel,
753
00:43:10,421 --> 00:43:11,589
it'll all be okay.
754
00:43:11,672 --> 00:43:15,050
You're feeling more
like when you see her at the altar,
755
00:43:15,134 --> 00:43:18,137
then that's where you feel
like you're gonna know
756
00:43:18,220 --> 00:43:19,930
how you wanna move forward?
757
00:43:20,014 --> 00:43:22,182
- Yeah, I really think so.
- Okay.
758
00:43:22,683 --> 00:43:25,352
I love her and I care for her so much.
759
00:43:25,853 --> 00:43:30,149
I feel like at the end of all of this,
I will know that I have been
760
00:43:31,275 --> 00:43:33,819
completely in tune with what I'm feeling.
761
00:43:33,902 --> 00:43:35,821
- That's all that matters.
- [Salvador] Yeah.
762
00:43:35,904 --> 00:43:38,782
[Victoria] Obviously, we've met Mal,
and we feel good about Mal.
763
00:43:38,866 --> 00:43:42,536
Obviously, we're rooting for both of you,
but we're here every step of the way.
764
00:43:42,620 --> 00:43:43,662
- Okay?
- Yeah.
765
00:43:46,540 --> 00:43:48,375
- [chuckles]
- [chuckles, sniffles]
766
00:43:48,459 --> 00:43:50,836
- [squeals] We love you!
- [chuckling]
767
00:43:50,919 --> 00:43:52,129
We love you.
768
00:43:54,214 --> 00:43:56,008
- [Tiffany] Mal!
- [Mallory chuckles]
769
00:43:56,091 --> 00:43:58,594
- [Tiffany] Just getting your dress.
- [Mallory] Oh, thanks.
770
00:43:58,677 --> 00:44:01,972
And I'm about to make,
probably one of the,
771
00:44:02,056 --> 00:44:05,225
if not the, biggest decisions of my life.
772
00:44:05,309 --> 00:44:06,727
No pressure. [chuckles]
773
00:44:06,810 --> 00:44:11,231
I wonder if he's crying as much as me,
because we always cry, but probably not.
774
00:44:12,358 --> 00:44:14,985
[Salvador] I've never made a choice
this big in my life.
775
00:44:15,486 --> 00:44:18,947
I've been in an emotional up and down
all day today.
776
00:44:19,031 --> 00:44:20,391
[Mallory] You never know with Sal.
777
00:44:20,449 --> 00:44:23,577
He definitely always seems
to throw me a curveball
778
00:44:23,661 --> 00:44:25,287
or surprise me in some way.
779
00:44:25,371 --> 00:44:28,666
I got a mariachi band.
[chuckles] To sing for her today.
780
00:44:29,166 --> 00:44:31,001
So I hope she really enjoys it.
781
00:44:31,085 --> 00:44:34,421
[Mallory] I'm nervous, but I'm so excited.
782
00:44:34,505 --> 00:44:36,006
I'm excited to see him.
783
00:44:36,090 --> 00:44:38,842
He just always tends to, like, comfort me.
784
00:44:38,926 --> 00:44:41,053
I feel like what he usually does
is take my hand
785
00:44:41,136 --> 00:44:43,639
and just kind of squeeze it a bit
786
00:44:43,722 --> 00:44:46,767
to reassure me that it's okay.
787
00:44:47,685 --> 00:44:49,228
[Salvador] Feeling ready, man.
788
00:44:49,311 --> 00:44:53,399
Feeling ready to just walk down there
and see Mallory.
789
00:44:53,899 --> 00:44:56,276
She has already changed me as a man and...
790
00:44:56,902 --> 00:44:57,903
And I love her.
791
00:44:59,113 --> 00:45:02,449
[mariachi band plays "Wedding March"]
792
00:45:21,510 --> 00:45:24,972
- I can keep this, right?
- Yeah. Please. In fact, I'd like you to.
793
00:45:25,055 --> 00:45:26,055
[chuckles]
794
00:45:28,350 --> 00:45:30,811
[soft instrumental music plays]
795
00:45:51,290 --> 00:45:52,290
How do you feel?
796
00:45:52,332 --> 00:45:53,542
I feel scared.
797
00:45:53,625 --> 00:45:55,961
Just follow your heart
and everything will be fine.
798
00:45:57,212 --> 00:45:58,756
- Bye. I love you.
- Okay.
799
00:45:59,923 --> 00:46:01,925
- [sighs]
- [indistinct chatter]
800
00:46:09,975 --> 00:46:13,228
[Mallory] I don't have my dad
to walk me down the aisle, you know?
801
00:46:13,979 --> 00:46:16,774
But I'm ready for that next chapter.
802
00:46:16,857 --> 00:46:18,192
[exhales deeply]
803
00:46:18,275 --> 00:46:21,487
And I'm 100% confident in my decision.
804
00:46:23,363 --> 00:46:24,363
[woman] All rise.
805
00:46:29,745 --> 00:46:30,745
[chuckles]
806
00:46:32,164 --> 00:46:33,164
[chuckles]
807
00:46:50,432 --> 00:46:51,432
[exhales deeply]
808
00:46:54,394 --> 00:46:55,521
You look beautiful.
809
00:46:56,021 --> 00:46:57,231
You're so handsome.
810
00:46:57,314 --> 00:46:58,732
[both chuckle]
811
00:46:58,816 --> 00:47:00,234
[minister] Please be seated.
812
00:47:01,944 --> 00:47:03,862
Mallory Rose Zapata
813
00:47:04,363 --> 00:47:06,156
and Salvador Arvizo Perez,
814
00:47:06,657 --> 00:47:10,035
you chose to get engaged
and spend the rest of your lives together
815
00:47:10,118 --> 00:47:13,580
based on a deep emotional connection,
sight unseen.
816
00:47:14,873 --> 00:47:17,167
Mallory, before we get your decision,
817
00:47:17,251 --> 00:47:18,794
please share your truth.
818
00:47:19,795 --> 00:47:20,795
[exhales]
819
00:47:23,340 --> 00:47:25,050
Um... [exhales sharply]
820
00:47:25,133 --> 00:47:27,886
Sal... Salito...
821
00:47:27,970 --> 00:47:29,429
- Yes.
- Salsa.
822
00:47:29,513 --> 00:47:31,515
[scattered chuckling]
823
00:47:31,598 --> 00:47:35,602
From the very moment
I heard your voice, you felt like home.
824
00:47:36,728 --> 00:47:40,691
You've always made me feel
comfortable, safe, and loved,
825
00:47:40,774 --> 00:47:43,735
even in the hardest moments
when I didn't feel very lovable.
826
00:47:44,236 --> 00:47:46,154
You have helped me grow as a person
827
00:47:46,238 --> 00:47:48,574
and to be more vulnerable
than I've ever been.
828
00:47:49,616 --> 00:47:51,368
There's so much that I love about you.
829
00:47:51,451 --> 00:47:53,871
Your laugh, your gift to sing,
830
00:47:54,580 --> 00:47:55,747
your Sal-isms,
831
00:47:56,832 --> 00:47:59,877
your smile, your thoughtfulness,
832
00:48:00,460 --> 00:48:02,045
your love for your family.
833
00:48:03,755 --> 00:48:05,883
You're a beautiful person inside and out.
834
00:48:07,301 --> 00:48:09,219
I'm blessed to have you in my life.
835
00:48:12,472 --> 00:48:13,472
[sighs]
836
00:48:16,768 --> 00:48:20,480
Mal, I know that
I could not be standing here
837
00:48:21,607 --> 00:48:22,816
with anyone else.
838
00:48:24,902 --> 00:48:26,236
Getting to know you
839
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,030
and being vulnerable with you
840
00:48:28,113 --> 00:48:30,365
has literally made me a better man.
841
00:48:31,950 --> 00:48:34,703
I love you, I respect you,
842
00:48:34,786 --> 00:48:36,955
and I admire the person that you are.
843
00:48:37,956 --> 00:48:43,003
And I promise
to always be my truest self for you.
844
00:48:45,255 --> 00:48:46,673
I love you.
845
00:48:52,262 --> 00:48:54,056
Now is the time to decide
846
00:48:54,556 --> 00:48:55,974
if love is blind.
847
00:48:57,434 --> 00:48:59,227
Salvador Arvizo Perez,
848
00:48:59,811 --> 00:49:03,190
do you take Mallory Rose Zapata
to be your wife,
849
00:49:03,273 --> 00:49:05,859
to have and to hold from this day forward,
850
00:49:05,943 --> 00:49:07,486
for better, for worse,
851
00:49:07,569 --> 00:49:10,489
to love and to cherish
as long as you both shall live?
852
00:49:11,031 --> 00:49:13,158
[dramatic music playing]
853
00:49:24,378 --> 00:49:25,545
[shakily] I cannot.
854
00:49:26,088 --> 00:49:27,798
- [dramatic sting]
- [sighs]
855
00:49:34,846 --> 00:49:38,433
- I feel like I just need more time.
- It's okay.
856
00:49:50,654 --> 00:49:51,655
Bye.
857
00:49:51,738 --> 00:49:52,781
[sighs]
858
00:50:12,592 --> 00:50:13,592
[Salvador] Um...
859
00:50:15,262 --> 00:50:17,681
Guys, I don't even
really know what to say.
860
00:50:18,473 --> 00:50:19,473
I, uh...
861
00:50:21,184 --> 00:50:25,564
I feel like I just need to talk
to Mallory's loved ones and family. Like...
862
00:50:27,524 --> 00:50:30,235
I feel like I haven't had the time
to meet a lot of you,
863
00:50:30,318 --> 00:50:33,822
and I just wanna say
I know this was hard for all of you too.
864
00:50:33,905 --> 00:50:37,826
I can only give her my truest self
and my most honest choice.
865
00:50:37,909 --> 00:50:39,536
That's why I said no today.
866
00:50:40,954 --> 00:50:44,958
And I just thank you
for being here for us today.
867
00:50:47,502 --> 00:50:49,588
- Love you.
- We love you so much.
868
00:50:49,671 --> 00:50:50,671
I love you.
869
00:50:51,339 --> 00:50:52,591
[sobbing softly]
870
00:50:54,134 --> 00:50:56,136
♪ So let it hurt ♪
871
00:50:57,429 --> 00:50:59,431
♪ Let it bleed ♪
872
00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:03,769
♪ Feel it all ♪
873
00:51:03,852 --> 00:51:06,271
♪ Lose everything ♪
874
00:51:07,022 --> 00:51:08,648
♪ Let it hurt ♪
875
00:51:10,192 --> 00:51:12,527
♪ Just let it bleed ♪
876
00:51:13,528 --> 00:51:15,197
♪ Feel it all ♪
877
00:51:18,784 --> 00:51:21,703
- Hey... you.
- Hey.
878
00:51:24,581 --> 00:51:27,042
What's up? Are you good?
879
00:51:27,125 --> 00:51:28,752
- Yeah. Are you good?
- Yeah.
880
00:51:30,295 --> 00:51:31,379
[Mallory exclaims]
881
00:51:32,631 --> 00:51:33,757
There you go.
882
00:51:36,259 --> 00:51:39,930
I didn't wanna make the final decision
until I was here.
883
00:51:40,430 --> 00:51:41,681
I feel like...
884
00:51:43,350 --> 00:51:45,185
I feel like we said everything
885
00:51:46,019 --> 00:51:47,771
that we needed to say. I feel...
886
00:51:47,854 --> 00:51:49,898
I don't feel like anything is on my chest.
887
00:51:51,942 --> 00:51:56,780
In my heart,
I knew that you weren't 100% sure.
888
00:51:57,781 --> 00:52:02,953
Honestly, Mal, like,
I almost did take that leap with you.
889
00:52:03,036 --> 00:52:04,621
- Yeah. Mm-hmm.
- In that moment.
890
00:52:07,332 --> 00:52:10,335
[sighs] I don't know what
I would've said if I'd have went first.
891
00:52:11,294 --> 00:52:15,382
I'm not gonna lie. There's a part of me
that, like, maybe wanted you to say yes.
892
00:52:15,882 --> 00:52:18,426
Would you have said yes
to me if I said yes?
893
00:52:20,303 --> 00:52:21,303
I might have.
894
00:52:22,389 --> 00:52:25,976
I'm tough, but I'm also,
like, a fucking softy.
895
00:52:27,144 --> 00:52:28,061
Um...
896
00:52:28,145 --> 00:52:30,063
I meant everything I've ever said to you.
897
00:52:31,398 --> 00:52:33,275
Regardless of all of this, I...
898
00:52:34,943 --> 00:52:38,071
I hope that we can remain
in each other's lives, and...
899
00:52:38,155 --> 00:52:39,656
[Mallory] Mm-hmm.
900
00:52:39,739 --> 00:52:42,242
Is that what you want? Honestly, though.
901
00:52:42,325 --> 00:52:44,035
Like, do you want to keep, like...
902
00:52:45,579 --> 00:52:48,790
exploring a relationship with me or, like...
903
00:52:50,333 --> 00:52:52,377
Do I wanna keep exploring
a relationship with you?
904
00:52:52,460 --> 00:52:55,213
Like, dating, or what... You know, like...
905
00:52:56,756 --> 00:52:59,259
[sighs] I just need
to take a few days, yeah?
906
00:53:01,636 --> 00:53:03,972
Let's take some time
away from all of this.
907
00:53:04,055 --> 00:53:06,224
- Mm-hmm.
- And let's talk.
908
00:53:06,308 --> 00:53:09,352
- Yeah. No, I agree. I know. I get it.
- That's what I want.
909
00:53:13,940 --> 00:53:17,569
I think what we should do next is...
910
00:53:17,652 --> 00:53:18,820
[clears throat]
911
00:53:20,197 --> 00:53:21,239
...go on a date.
912
00:53:21,323 --> 00:53:22,949
[Salvador chuckles]
913
00:53:23,783 --> 00:53:25,076
[softly] I would love that.
914
00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:26,244
- Yeah?
- Mm-hmm.
915
00:53:28,455 --> 00:53:30,332
- You wanna get out of here?
- Uh, yeah.
916
00:53:32,417 --> 00:53:34,085
[Mallory] I know that I love Sal.
917
00:53:34,794 --> 00:53:36,338
I'm just so emotional.
918
00:53:37,631 --> 00:53:39,341
[sighs, sniffles]
919
00:53:39,424 --> 00:53:43,053
I've really just...
I've given 100%of myself, and...
920
00:53:44,554 --> 00:53:46,389
Like, just, I don't know.
921
00:53:46,473 --> 00:53:49,059
I was terrified of, like,
putting myself out there
922
00:53:49,142 --> 00:53:50,560
and getting hurt and I...
923
00:53:50,644 --> 00:53:52,771
[sniffles] I don't let a lot of people in.
924
00:53:54,105 --> 00:53:56,942
I don't know. I was, like,
fully going in there expecting
925
00:53:57,442 --> 00:54:00,320
that we were both gonna
kind of be, like, on the same page
926
00:54:00,403 --> 00:54:04,074
about, like, connecting with one another,
and marriage, and things like that.
927
00:54:04,157 --> 00:54:07,744
So, like, it's hard to not be
in your head and question everything.
928
00:54:07,827 --> 00:54:09,704
♪ Let it hurt ♪
929
00:54:10,372 --> 00:54:11,206
[sighs]
930
00:54:11,289 --> 00:54:13,041
♪ Let it bleed ♪
931
00:54:14,542 --> 00:54:16,544
♪ Feel it all ♪
932
00:54:18,213 --> 00:54:22,968
♪ Gotta hold on to that soul ♪
933
00:54:25,637 --> 00:54:27,681
- Well, we tried. We did try.
- We know you did.
934
00:54:27,764 --> 00:54:30,267
- I know that.
- We don't need for you to say anything.
935
00:54:30,350 --> 00:54:32,227
I feel like she took your words to heart.
936
00:54:32,310 --> 00:54:35,230
- [Daisy] I agree.
- I'm so glad you spoke to her family too.
937
00:54:35,313 --> 00:54:37,232
- That was really important.
- Very big of you.
938
00:54:37,315 --> 00:54:40,652
[Victoria] I thought that was
super respectful. It was a good call.
939
00:54:40,735 --> 00:54:42,615
- Yeah.
- We're not surprised that you did that.
940
00:54:42,696 --> 00:54:44,739
- That's so you.
- Yeah.
941
00:54:44,823 --> 00:54:46,825
Through and through.
We're so proud of you.
942
00:54:47,325 --> 00:54:48,159
Yeah.
943
00:54:48,243 --> 00:54:51,037
I feel like I was being very hopeful
in that moment.
944
00:54:51,121 --> 00:54:54,749
I love Mallory very much,
but I just needed more...
945
00:54:54,833 --> 00:54:57,085
I need us to build more trust
with each other.
946
00:54:57,168 --> 00:54:59,587
I needed more communication
with one another,
947
00:54:59,671 --> 00:55:02,424
and a better definition
of what our boundaries were
948
00:55:02,507 --> 00:55:05,760
and honoring those boundaries
for both of us.
949
00:55:05,844 --> 00:55:10,849
When I was there holding her hands,
I just... I knew that...
950
00:55:13,059 --> 00:55:17,188
whatever it is that we needed,
we needed more of it in that moment and...
951
00:55:18,106 --> 00:55:19,232
[sighs]
952
00:55:19,816 --> 00:55:20,650
Okay.
953
00:55:20,734 --> 00:55:22,444
That's why I said no today.
954
00:55:26,740 --> 00:55:29,451
[upbeat music playing]
955
00:55:31,036 --> 00:55:35,957
♪ Isn't this the part
Where I watch you walk away? ♪
956
00:55:39,127 --> 00:55:43,757
♪ Or is this the part where
I run after you and beg you to stay? ♪
957
00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:46,634
Today is my wedding day.
I'm getting married to Jarrette.
958
00:55:46,718 --> 00:55:49,679
Falling in love
with someone's soul is a real thing.
959
00:55:49,763 --> 00:55:51,806
♪ Say it to me... ♪
960
00:55:51,890 --> 00:55:55,560
[chuckling] What is...?
Is this my tire? These are mine.
961
00:55:55,643 --> 00:55:58,813
I love him completely as his whole person.
962
00:55:58,897 --> 00:56:00,440
[sniffs] Cute.
963
00:56:00,523 --> 00:56:02,859
It didn't matter, the outside things,
964
00:56:02,942 --> 00:56:06,780
and what he does
or what he makes or what he looks like.
965
00:56:06,863 --> 00:56:08,406
He has an amazing heart.
966
00:56:08,490 --> 00:56:11,326
I've never had someone
just be so empathetic.
967
00:56:11,409 --> 00:56:12,786
He has great character.
968
00:56:12,869 --> 00:56:14,412
How much were these? [laughs]
969
00:56:14,496 --> 00:56:17,540
I didn't think I would be here,
but here I am getting married.
970
00:56:18,583 --> 00:56:20,043
- Mmm.
- [soft music plays]
971
00:56:20,126 --> 00:56:23,046
This is not how I ever envisioned
getting proposed to.
972
00:56:23,129 --> 00:56:24,506
[laughing] I can't do it.
973
00:56:24,589 --> 00:56:26,383
- We're some weirdos.
- [Jarrette laughs]
974
00:56:26,466 --> 00:56:28,009
We're gonna be weird together forever.
975
00:56:28,093 --> 00:56:29,511
[chuckles]
976
00:56:29,594 --> 00:56:32,180
[repeating] Oh God. [chuckles]
977
00:56:33,932 --> 00:56:35,225
- [chuckles]
- Oh my God.
978
00:56:35,308 --> 00:56:36,476
What's up, babe?
979
00:56:36,559 --> 00:56:38,144
[both chuckling softly]
980
00:56:38,728 --> 00:56:41,147
[Jarrette] Oh my God.
981
00:56:41,231 --> 00:56:43,441
I came in here ready
to find love, find a wife.
982
00:56:43,525 --> 00:56:47,195
I feel like at this point where I am,
I think that is definitely enough
983
00:56:47,278 --> 00:56:50,031
for me to be like, "Fuck it,
I'mma take this leap of faith."
984
00:56:50,949 --> 00:56:52,158
You're so cute.
985
00:56:55,036 --> 00:56:58,039
It's the big day.
The biggest day of my life.
986
00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:03,169
I love Iyanna to the moon and back,
to infinity and beyond.
987
00:57:03,253 --> 00:57:04,295
[chuckles]
988
00:57:04,796 --> 00:57:06,172
- Hey!
- Hey!
989
00:57:06,256 --> 00:57:07,590
What's up, my boy?
990
00:57:07,674 --> 00:57:11,219
- [laughter]
- Hey, it's your day, man.
991
00:57:13,763 --> 00:57:16,766
Iyanna always stuck out.
The way we interacted with one another,
992
00:57:16,850 --> 00:57:19,602
I know this is gonna be real,
this is someone I can see myself with
993
00:57:19,686 --> 00:57:22,021
for the rest of my life.
This is the right decision for me.
994
00:57:22,105 --> 00:57:26,776
This is the biggest moment of my life,
but I've never been more sure in my life.
995
00:57:26,860 --> 00:57:28,570
- Mmm.
- You know, I pegged you for last.
996
00:57:28,653 --> 00:57:29,654
I ain't gonna lie to you.
997
00:57:29,737 --> 00:57:30,613
- Definitely.
- For real?
998
00:57:30,697 --> 00:57:33,575
I'm like, "He's gonna be
a 40-year-old bachelor."
999
00:57:33,658 --> 00:57:37,162
I thought Jarrette was gonna be
at the cookout, picking up babies,
1000
00:57:37,245 --> 00:57:39,247
and that's Uncle Jarrette over there.
1001
00:57:39,330 --> 00:57:42,041
♪ We can make it through ♪
1002
00:57:42,709 --> 00:57:44,127
This is like a perfect fit.
1003
00:57:44,794 --> 00:57:46,838
- [Iyanna groans]
- Come on, suck it in.
1004
00:57:48,089 --> 00:57:50,258
- ♪ Win or lose ♪
- ♪ Win or lose ♪
1005
00:57:50,341 --> 00:57:53,761
♪ Me and you, we can make it through ♪
1006
00:57:55,180 --> 00:57:56,890
- Don't cry.
- I'm gonna cry.
1007
00:57:57,515 --> 00:57:59,601
We'll get you some tissues,
so you're prepared.
1008
00:57:59,684 --> 00:58:03,730
I always say I'm a thug. I'm not a thug.
I'm a thug, but I'm a thug who cries.
1009
00:58:03,855 --> 00:58:04,731
Thugs cry too.
1010
00:58:04,814 --> 00:58:07,859
Hey, man, you ready
to really be off the streets?
1011
00:58:07,942 --> 00:58:10,945
Hey, they still gonna be calling.
You won't pick up?
1012
00:58:11,863 --> 00:58:14,824
I can't answer the phone.
"The subscriber you're trying to reach..."
1013
00:58:14,908 --> 00:58:18,036
- You're trying to reach... [laughs]
- [Jarrette] Everything is gonna change.
1014
00:58:18,119 --> 00:58:23,166
I have to make sacrifices not only
for my marriage, but for her happiness.
1015
00:58:23,249 --> 00:58:26,461
You know, I can't do the things
that I was doing as a single man.
1016
00:58:26,544 --> 00:58:28,713
- [Dejah] JJ.
- [Jarrette] I'm coming.
1017
00:58:28,796 --> 00:58:30,298
Bro, you look absolutely great.
1018
00:58:30,381 --> 00:58:33,009
- He trying to make sure he's right.
- [laughs]
1019
00:58:33,843 --> 00:58:35,720
- Yeah. Go, man, go.
- Man, go. Go get...
1020
00:58:35,803 --> 00:58:38,139
- Give your sister some love.
- [friends exclaiming]
1021
00:58:38,223 --> 00:58:39,766
[chuckling]
1022
00:58:43,019 --> 00:58:45,230
- [crying softly]
- [Dejah] It's okay.
1023
00:58:47,524 --> 00:58:48,566
Let me see you.
1024
00:58:48,650 --> 00:58:51,819
No, stop. Stop, stop, stop.
I'm fine. I'm okay.
1025
00:58:51,903 --> 00:58:53,404
[groans]
1026
00:58:53,488 --> 00:58:55,907
I'm a thug. Thugs don't cry.
1027
00:58:55,990 --> 00:58:57,534
[Jarrette sighs]
1028
00:58:59,244 --> 00:59:02,413
- This ain't no joke. This is today, like...
- I know.
1029
00:59:02,497 --> 00:59:05,333
I wanna make her
the happiest person in the world.
1030
00:59:05,416 --> 00:59:07,752
- It's a lifelong commitment.
- Yes.
1031
00:59:07,835 --> 00:59:12,173
I wanna make sure that she knows that
she's the only woman that matters to me.
1032
00:59:12,257 --> 00:59:15,093
- All right.
- I'm done. I'm retiring my jersey.
1033
00:59:15,176 --> 00:59:17,720
And that includes partying,
going to clubs.
1034
00:59:19,764 --> 00:59:21,724
Oh, hi!
1035
00:59:21,808 --> 00:59:24,018
Okay, I gotta hug you a little bit.
But just, like...
1036
00:59:24,102 --> 00:59:25,704
- You like the dress?
- I love everything.
1037
00:59:25,728 --> 00:59:28,106
[crying] Hey. I love you.
1038
00:59:28,189 --> 00:59:30,233
- You look handsome.
- Thank you.
1039
00:59:30,316 --> 00:59:32,569
- You look gorgeous, of course.
- Thank you.
1040
00:59:32,652 --> 00:59:36,531
You're just, like, gorgeous,
and you're happy, and...
1041
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:38,074
Thank you.
1042
00:59:38,157 --> 00:59:41,786
And parents say it all the time,
all this, "You've just grown up so fast."
1043
00:59:41,869 --> 00:59:46,499
But the time really does pass quickly
from a child to being a woman
1044
00:59:46,583 --> 00:59:50,878
and going off with... Jarrette.
1045
00:59:50,962 --> 00:59:52,297
- And...
- [laughter]
1046
00:59:52,380 --> 00:59:55,383
- He's still processing the fact that...
- Yeah, I know.
1047
00:59:56,301 --> 00:59:59,596
I mean, I just wish you
all the happiness. It's your day.
1048
00:59:59,679 --> 01:00:02,432
However it goes for you.
Let me know who I need to fight.
1049
01:00:02,515 --> 01:00:04,785
- If I need to fight somebody.
- I'll just give you a look.
1050
01:00:04,809 --> 01:00:06,019
- I got you.
- [Iyanna] I know.
1051
01:00:06,102 --> 01:00:08,646
- [Jennifer] Come on. Hold hands.
- [Iyanna] Okay.
1052
01:00:09,814 --> 01:00:12,294
[Jennifer] Lord, we just thank you
for today. We celebrate you.
1053
01:00:12,358 --> 01:00:14,819
We celebrate Iyanna and Jarrette
as they come together.
1054
01:00:14,902 --> 01:00:17,405
It's unorthodox,
and it's completely different.
1055
01:00:17,488 --> 01:00:20,533
But we thank you that your hand is
upon her life, that you love her.
1056
01:00:20,617 --> 01:00:24,245
Give Iyanna the strength to be who she is,
Lord God, who you made her to be.
1057
01:00:24,329 --> 01:00:27,540
Remind her that she is loved,
and that we love her.
1058
01:00:27,624 --> 01:00:30,209
To be completely honest,
I'm a little nervous because, obviously,
1059
01:00:30,293 --> 01:00:31,836
I want all the happiness for her.
1060
01:00:31,919 --> 01:00:34,797
So, it's just...
I'm not saying I'm against it,
1061
01:00:34,881 --> 01:00:37,759
but I'm also not saying I'm like,
"Yay, go ahead, get married."
1062
01:00:37,842 --> 01:00:40,386
I just think,
"Will he be there when she needs him?"
1063
01:00:40,470 --> 01:00:41,638
I don't know.
1064
01:00:41,721 --> 01:00:44,223
And it is in your son
Jesus' name that we pray.
1065
01:00:44,307 --> 01:00:45,600
- Amen.
- Amen.
1066
01:00:45,683 --> 01:00:47,810
- All right. I love you, baby.
- Love you.
1067
01:00:48,353 --> 01:00:49,354
All righty.
1068
01:00:49,937 --> 01:00:50,937
[sighs]
1069
01:00:51,397 --> 01:00:56,277
♪ Tell me, did you have some fun? ♪
1070
01:00:56,361 --> 01:00:59,864
He says he's gonna make adjustments,
but I haven't seen those adjustments yet.
1071
01:00:59,947 --> 01:01:01,491
[Jarrette] Iyanna, one thing she said,
1072
01:01:01,574 --> 01:01:04,410
"Better not show up to the wedding drunk."
I said, "All right."
1073
01:01:04,494 --> 01:01:08,581
- [AJ laughs] You don't know my friends.
- [Jarrette] Hey, let's do it, man. Shit.
1074
01:01:09,916 --> 01:01:10,916
[grunts]
1075
01:01:11,793 --> 01:01:14,962
And I wouldn't be able to see that
in action till after we say I do.
1076
01:01:15,046 --> 01:01:16,923
[laughing]
1077
01:01:17,006 --> 01:01:20,009
That's a huge risk.
That's a huge risk to take.
1078
01:01:20,677 --> 01:01:23,930
I just need more time,
and I don't have that.
1079
01:01:24,013 --> 01:01:28,393
So, I have to either take
a very, very large leap of faith
1080
01:01:28,476 --> 01:01:32,438
off a fucking cliff, or... just walk away.
1081
01:01:34,565 --> 01:01:36,984
- [dramatic music plays]
- [indistinct chatter]
1082
01:01:38,986 --> 01:01:41,114
- Are we ready for this?
- We're ready for it.
1083
01:01:41,614 --> 01:01:44,075
- Take your time.
- I'm trying to keep it together.
1084
01:01:44,992 --> 01:01:46,994
I'm trying. Okay?
1085
01:01:52,333 --> 01:01:54,377
It's all settling in.
It's all real right now.
1086
01:01:55,086 --> 01:01:56,754
It's the biggest day of my life.
1087
01:01:57,255 --> 01:02:00,842
I think the most important thing
for me is... Iyanna saying yes.
1088
01:02:02,635 --> 01:02:03,845
[laughing]
1089
01:02:03,928 --> 01:02:06,472
[cheers and applause]
1090
01:02:11,436 --> 01:02:12,562
Oh.
1091
01:02:14,897 --> 01:02:15,897
[Jarrette sighs]
1092
01:02:17,608 --> 01:02:19,777
[whispering] Holy shit.
1093
01:02:19,861 --> 01:02:20,862
Inhale.
1094
01:02:22,613 --> 01:02:23,865
Exhale slow.
1095
01:02:24,365 --> 01:02:25,575
I am shaking.
1096
01:02:25,658 --> 01:02:26,784
What is going on?
1097
01:02:26,868 --> 01:02:28,035
[Iyanna] Are you ready?
1098
01:02:28,119 --> 01:02:29,537
I'm as ready as I'm gonna be.
1099
01:02:29,620 --> 01:02:31,873
Probably not gonna let go
when I get down there.
1100
01:02:31,956 --> 01:02:33,541
Oh, don't make me cry. [laughs]
1101
01:02:34,250 --> 01:02:36,127
Everyone, would you please rise?
1102
01:02:39,172 --> 01:02:40,965
- Oh my God.
- All eyes on you.
1103
01:02:41,048 --> 01:02:43,848
This is weird. I've been to weddings,
and now, like, this is my moment.
1104
01:02:43,885 --> 01:02:44,719
Yes, it is.
1105
01:02:44,802 --> 01:02:45,802
Strange.
1106
01:02:45,845 --> 01:02:47,764
[instrumental wedding music plays]
1107
01:02:51,559 --> 01:02:55,521
All right. Don't let me fall.
One step. One step. One step.
1108
01:02:56,564 --> 01:02:58,274
Oh my God. [chuckles]
1109
01:03:10,995 --> 01:03:12,622
[Iyanna] Oh God.
1110
01:03:12,705 --> 01:03:13,706
[sighs]
1111
01:03:13,790 --> 01:03:15,041
[chuckles]
1112
01:03:16,834 --> 01:03:18,628
Oh my... [chuckles]
1113
01:03:21,506 --> 01:03:23,925
Please stop. Don't cry.
You're gonna make me cry.
1114
01:03:25,301 --> 01:03:26,803
[Tim] Please be seated.
1115
01:03:28,554 --> 01:03:29,972
- I don't...
- You okay?
1116
01:03:31,599 --> 01:03:33,810
- I'm better now.
- [Iyanna chuckles]
1117
01:03:35,269 --> 01:03:38,022
- Oh God.
- Who gives this woman away to be married?
1118
01:03:38,648 --> 01:03:40,316
- Her father.
- [chuckles]
1119
01:03:40,399 --> 01:03:41,609
You're so extra.
1120
01:03:42,109 --> 01:03:43,402
[chuckles softly]
1121
01:03:44,946 --> 01:03:47,281
- I need you to take care of her.
- I will.
1122
01:03:47,365 --> 01:03:49,742
- And be the best man you can be.
- I will.
1123
01:03:51,452 --> 01:03:53,329
- Love you, babe.
- I love you too.
1124
01:03:53,412 --> 01:03:54,412
Okay.
1125
01:03:55,873 --> 01:03:56,916
Okay.
1126
01:03:56,999 --> 01:03:58,501
[Tim] Friends and family members,
1127
01:04:00,920 --> 01:04:03,339
we have the pleasure
of seeing these two persons
1128
01:04:03,422 --> 01:04:05,258
present themselves before God,
1129
01:04:05,341 --> 01:04:08,761
for the purpose of being united
in the holy bonds of matrimony.
1130
01:04:09,637 --> 01:04:12,932
You chose to get engaged
and spend the rest of your lives together,
1131
01:04:13,015 --> 01:04:15,768
based on
an incredible emotional connection.
1132
01:04:16,269 --> 01:04:18,145
Iyanna, Jarrette,
1133
01:04:18,229 --> 01:04:20,022
please take a moment
1134
01:04:20,106 --> 01:04:24,026
and tell us what made you fall in love
with each other, sight unseen.
1135
01:04:26,612 --> 01:04:27,612
You...
1136
01:04:28,072 --> 01:04:30,491
Here we go.
I don't wanna cry. I'm not gonna cry.
1137
01:04:31,492 --> 01:04:34,537
[sighs] I feel so understood with you.
1138
01:04:34,620 --> 01:04:36,330
I feel so loved by you,
1139
01:04:36,414 --> 01:04:39,584
and that has never happened.
1140
01:04:39,667 --> 01:04:43,421
I've... I just feel like
I'm supposed to be with you.
1141
01:04:43,504 --> 01:04:45,339
You were made for me,
1142
01:04:45,423 --> 01:04:48,050
and I was made for you. [sobs softly]
1143
01:04:55,141 --> 01:04:57,518
- But don't...
- [crying] Sorry. I'm not gonna cry.
1144
01:05:00,062 --> 01:05:01,147
That got me.
1145
01:05:01,230 --> 01:05:02,230
Jarrette.
1146
01:05:04,317 --> 01:05:07,028
Iyanna, you showed me
1147
01:05:07,528 --> 01:05:12,199
that I'm able to be loved
the way that I wanted to be loved.
1148
01:05:13,701 --> 01:05:18,623
No other woman has accepted me
for who I am, flaws and all.
1149
01:05:18,706 --> 01:05:21,083
You took me and you cared for me,
1150
01:05:21,167 --> 01:05:24,086
you nurtured me,
and this all happened through walls.
1151
01:05:24,170 --> 01:05:25,254
[softly] Through a wall.
1152
01:05:25,338 --> 01:05:29,425
Through walls, and I knew
that this was something that was real,
1153
01:05:29,508 --> 01:05:32,678
something that was strong,
that can withstand the test of time.
1154
01:05:32,762 --> 01:05:33,971
[Iyanna] Mm-hmm.
1155
01:05:34,055 --> 01:05:36,182
And I know
that it's only gonna get better.
1156
01:05:36,265 --> 01:05:38,267
I can't wait to spend
the rest of my life with you.
1157
01:05:39,435 --> 01:05:40,645
Ditto, dude.
1158
01:05:40,728 --> 01:05:42,605
- [chuckles] Stop.
- That's incredible.
1159
01:05:43,105 --> 01:05:44,565
Oh my God.
1160
01:05:45,524 --> 01:05:47,360
Iyanna, Jarrette,
1161
01:05:48,402 --> 01:05:50,905
you stand together in the presence of God
1162
01:05:50,988 --> 01:05:53,532
to decide whether to face life together
1163
01:05:54,325 --> 01:05:55,785
as husband and wife.
1164
01:05:56,452 --> 01:05:58,287
Now is the time to decide
1165
01:05:58,371 --> 01:06:00,414
if love is truly blind.
1166
01:06:06,128 --> 01:06:07,213
It better be.
1167
01:06:07,922 --> 01:06:08,922
Jarrette...
1168
01:06:10,633 --> 01:06:12,009
do you take Iyanna
1169
01:06:12,093 --> 01:06:14,220
to be your lawfully wedded wife,
1170
01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:18,349
to live together
in the holy estate of matrimony
1171
01:06:19,141 --> 01:06:20,643
so long as you both shall live?
1172
01:06:29,026 --> 01:06:30,987
I do. I do. I do.
1173
01:06:32,613 --> 01:06:34,240
- Extra.
- I do.
1174
01:06:34,323 --> 01:06:35,574
[Tim] Iyanna,
1175
01:06:36,534 --> 01:06:37,952
do you take Jarrette...
1176
01:06:40,579 --> 01:06:42,748
to be your lawfully wedded husband?
1177
01:06:42,832 --> 01:06:46,168
Will you love him, comfort him,
1178
01:06:47,461 --> 01:06:48,796
honor and keep him
1179
01:06:49,964 --> 01:06:51,716
so long as you both shall live?
1180
01:07:01,225 --> 01:07:02,225
I do.
1181
01:07:03,853 --> 01:07:05,312
[guests chuckling]
1182
01:07:05,396 --> 01:07:07,523
Jesus. Took too long.
1183
01:07:07,606 --> 01:07:11,027
[Tim] I now pronounce
that they are husband and wife.
1184
01:07:11,694 --> 01:07:13,237
[Jarrette chuckles]
1185
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:16,866
♪ We fall in love
And it's straight from the heart ♪
1186
01:07:16,949 --> 01:07:20,536
♪ We fall in love
Every time our eyes meet ♪
1187
01:07:21,412 --> 01:07:23,247
- My baby.
- Oh.
1188
01:07:23,330 --> 01:07:24,957
[guests exclaiming]
1189
01:07:25,041 --> 01:07:27,001
[laughing]
1190
01:07:27,084 --> 01:07:29,295
Okay, ready? One, two, three.
1191
01:07:30,171 --> 01:07:32,381
[guests cheering]
1192
01:07:33,674 --> 01:07:34,675
[Tim] Everybody.
1193
01:07:37,303 --> 01:07:38,888
I now present
1194
01:07:38,971 --> 01:07:42,475
Mr. and Mrs. Jarrette Jones.
1195
01:07:42,558 --> 01:07:44,560
[all cheering]
1196
01:07:45,811 --> 01:07:49,398
♪ We fall in love ♪
1197
01:07:49,982 --> 01:07:53,360
♪ We fall in love ♪
1198
01:07:53,944 --> 01:07:57,615
♪ We fall in love ♪
1199
01:07:57,698 --> 01:08:00,576
♪ We fall in love ♪
1200
01:08:00,659 --> 01:08:02,912
- Cheers. Come here.
- What are we cheersing to?
1201
01:08:02,995 --> 01:08:06,540
Cheersing to us, cheersing
to the rest of our lives together.
1202
01:08:06,624 --> 01:08:10,127
Bro, the rest of our lives. I gotta stay
with you for the rest of my life.
1203
01:08:10,211 --> 01:08:12,505
- You ain't going nowhere.
- You ain't going nowhere.
1204
01:08:12,588 --> 01:08:13,422
Exactly.
1205
01:08:13,506 --> 01:08:16,467
- Glad we're on the same page.
- On the same page. That's good.
1206
01:08:16,550 --> 01:08:17,718
Mmm.
1207
01:08:17,802 --> 01:08:19,804
♪ Give thanks ♪
1208
01:08:20,346 --> 01:08:22,348
Yes, you can try...
1209
01:08:23,390 --> 01:08:25,226
♪ Thank you for the joy ♪
1210
01:08:25,309 --> 01:08:27,186
- I love you.
- I love you too.
1211
01:08:27,269 --> 01:08:29,605
I just married the woman of my dreams.
1212
01:08:29,688 --> 01:08:32,858
I'm fucking... I'm on top
of the world right now. Cloud nine.
1213
01:08:33,359 --> 01:08:35,319
You're so goddamn fine.
1214
01:08:35,402 --> 01:08:38,656
I ain't touched you
and hugged you in forever.
1215
01:08:38,739 --> 01:08:40,324
[Iyanna] Mmm. Liar.
1216
01:08:40,825 --> 01:08:43,702
I met my damn wife through a wall.
1217
01:08:43,786 --> 01:08:48,124
Not too many people can say that, not
too many understand that, but it happened.
1218
01:08:48,707 --> 01:08:51,961
I'm a married man. I'm a husband.
I'mma wear this shit with pride.
1219
01:08:53,838 --> 01:08:56,674
- I'm gonna make you so fucking happy.
- I'll make you happy too.
1220
01:08:57,383 --> 01:08:58,383
Got my back?
1221
01:08:58,926 --> 01:09:02,930
- Like a thong in a crack. Is that right?
- Like a thong in a butt crack.
1222
01:09:03,013 --> 01:09:04,932
- Yeah.
- [both chuckle]
1223
01:09:05,015 --> 01:09:07,268
- Got that booty crack.
- Cheers. [laughs]
1224
01:09:08,769 --> 01:09:11,313
Six weeks ago, I was completely single.
1225
01:09:11,897 --> 01:09:14,900
Completely single. And now,
I'm, like, a whole married woman.
1226
01:09:14,984 --> 01:09:16,026
I'm a whole wife.
1227
01:09:16,110 --> 01:09:17,945
This is the beginning of our journey.
1228
01:09:18,028 --> 01:09:21,198
We have so much more to do,
but, oh my God, this is a great start.
1229
01:09:21,282 --> 01:09:22,282
That's for sure.
1230
01:09:23,951 --> 01:09:26,287
♪ Give thanks ♪
1231
01:09:26,370 --> 01:09:29,290
♪ Give thanks ♪
1232
01:09:29,373 --> 01:09:31,584
♪ Give thanks ♪
1233
01:09:31,667 --> 01:09:35,212
- ♪ Thank you ♪
- [Jarrette] Mm-mmm-mmm.
1234
01:09:35,296 --> 01:09:37,047
- [somber music playing]
- Oh shit.
1235
01:09:38,257 --> 01:09:40,259
[Natalie] I truly still love Shayne.
1236
01:09:41,051 --> 01:09:43,554
I know that we will both recover
from this moment
1237
01:09:43,637 --> 01:09:47,057
and maybe things will bring us back
once we sort through our big issues.
1238
01:09:47,141 --> 01:09:50,019
Or maybe we'll go down separate paths,
and that's okay.
1239
01:09:50,686 --> 01:09:53,022
And it's not saying
the experiment didn't work.
1240
01:09:53,105 --> 01:09:54,398
It did. I fell in love.
1241
01:09:54,481 --> 01:09:57,193
For me, the door's still open,
if he wants it to be.
1242
01:09:57,276 --> 01:10:00,029
♪ I'm wasting away all my heart ♪
1243
01:10:00,112 --> 01:10:03,949
But it just wasn't right today.
1244
01:10:04,033 --> 01:10:06,035
♪ All my heart ♪
1245
01:10:07,661 --> 01:10:09,205
♪ All my heart ♪
1246
01:10:09,288 --> 01:10:12,666
I need time to process it.
Like, it's just all a blur right now.
1247
01:10:12,750 --> 01:10:14,793
Like, what's going on? I'm sorry.
1248
01:10:14,877 --> 01:10:16,503
It's all a fucking blur.
1249
01:10:18,923 --> 01:10:22,176
I'm very sad, but guess what, though.
I mean, I believe in it.
1250
01:10:22,259 --> 01:10:25,262
Love is blind. I fell in love
with her without even seeing her.
1251
01:10:25,346 --> 01:10:27,306
And, I mean, I still love her. But...
1252
01:10:28,933 --> 01:10:31,977
at the end of the day,
if it's meant to be, it's meant to be,
1253
01:10:32,061 --> 01:10:34,188
so it happened for a reason.
1254
01:10:34,271 --> 01:10:39,276
♪ Falling down ♪
1255
01:10:41,111 --> 01:10:45,324
♪ 'Cause I lost you ♪
1256
01:10:45,407 --> 01:10:47,034
[Salvador] I love Mallory very much
1257
01:10:47,117 --> 01:10:49,536
and I can only give her my truest self
1258
01:10:49,620 --> 01:10:51,914
and my most honest choice,
and that's what I did.
1259
01:10:52,539 --> 01:10:57,002
Not having that familial support
is difficult.
1260
01:10:58,420 --> 01:11:01,632
When I was in the pods with Mallory,
I fell in love with her,
1261
01:11:02,216 --> 01:11:05,052
but I feel like
there's more outside of that.
1262
01:11:05,135 --> 01:11:06,637
But is love blind?
1263
01:11:07,137 --> 01:11:09,682
Absolutely. I fell in love with that girl.
1264
01:11:09,765 --> 01:11:14,436
♪ It's not like we get one more try ♪
1265
01:11:16,689 --> 01:11:19,984
♪ This story that we can't rewrite ♪
1266
01:11:20,067 --> 01:11:25,197
[Mallory] There's a bittersweetness to it,
because this day showed me
1267
01:11:25,281 --> 01:11:27,658
that I do wanna get married.
1268
01:11:27,741 --> 01:11:32,329
♪ Falling down ♪
1269
01:11:33,122 --> 01:11:35,874
[Shake] I feel like there is
somebody out there for me.
1270
01:11:35,958 --> 01:11:40,629
This is maybe the only rejection
from a girl that I can...
1271
01:11:41,297 --> 01:11:44,675
I can be totally okay with,
and happy with, and happy for her.
1272
01:11:44,758 --> 01:11:47,845
♪ That hurt, nobody can take ♪
1273
01:11:47,928 --> 01:11:50,264
I'll find my person, and it's not Shake.
1274
01:11:52,599 --> 01:11:54,476
I have no fucking regrets,
1275
01:11:55,853 --> 01:11:59,690
but I guess love isn't always blind.
1276
01:12:01,233 --> 01:12:02,651
[clapping]
1277
01:12:02,735 --> 01:12:07,573
[man] Introducing
Mr. and Mrs. Nick and Danielle Thompson.
1278
01:12:07,656 --> 01:12:08,866
[cheering]
1279
01:12:08,949 --> 01:12:12,411
♪ You make me wanna look crazy ♪
1280
01:12:12,494 --> 01:12:15,164
♪ Like diving with my eyes closed ♪
1281
01:12:15,247 --> 01:12:17,124
♪ Crazy ♪
1282
01:12:17,207 --> 01:12:20,753
♪ Like free-falling, just let it go ♪
1283
01:12:20,836 --> 01:12:22,755
[Danielle] Six weeks ago, I was single.
1284
01:12:22,838 --> 01:12:25,049
Now I have a husband.
I'm married. I'm a wife.
1285
01:12:25,132 --> 01:12:27,176
This is more
than all of my dreams come true.
1286
01:12:27,259 --> 01:12:30,179
Love is blind. We've proven that
in so many different ways.
1287
01:12:30,262 --> 01:12:32,931
I cannot believe it,
but this experiment worked.
1288
01:12:33,015 --> 01:12:37,811
And now we're very happy and we have
the rest of our lives to look forward to.
1289
01:12:37,895 --> 01:12:38,937
Oh my God.
1290
01:12:39,772 --> 01:12:41,857
[all] Hey! Hey! Hey!
1291
01:12:41,940 --> 01:12:44,568
Hey! Hey! Hey! Hey!
1292
01:12:44,651 --> 01:12:48,405
I got married to the most beautiful woman
in the world. Do you see her?
1293
01:12:48,489 --> 01:12:49,656
All right.
1294
01:12:49,740 --> 01:12:52,076
She had me waiting
at the altar for too damn long
1295
01:12:52,159 --> 01:12:53,494
before she said "I do."
1296
01:12:53,577 --> 01:12:54,578
But listen,
1297
01:12:55,162 --> 01:12:56,455
this shit is well worth it.
1298
01:12:56,538 --> 01:12:58,332
- All right, baby.
- Oh my God.
1299
01:12:58,415 --> 01:12:59,249
[laughs]
1300
01:12:59,333 --> 01:13:02,711
♪ You make me wanna look crazy ♪
1301
01:13:03,379 --> 01:13:06,131
[Iyanna] I imagine
my future with Jarrette.
1302
01:13:06,215 --> 01:13:10,219
Us with three kids,
and just continuing to love each other.
1303
01:13:10,302 --> 01:13:11,136
[laughing]
1304
01:13:11,220 --> 01:13:14,139
[Jarrette] I'm glad God talked to my heart
and told me to choose Iyanna,
1305
01:13:14,223 --> 01:13:15,474
because I couldn't be happier.
1306
01:13:15,557 --> 01:13:17,893
It just goes to show
that love is truly blind.
1307
01:13:17,976 --> 01:13:19,228
The best part?
1308
01:13:19,311 --> 01:13:21,105
- What's the best part?
- When she said yes.
1309
01:13:21,188 --> 01:13:23,482
I was about to say when you said, "I do."
1310
01:13:23,565 --> 01:13:26,777
- 'Cause we're in it, for the long haul.
- Long haul.
1311
01:13:26,860 --> 01:13:29,071
- One and done.
- [muttering playfully]
1312
01:13:29,154 --> 01:13:31,990
- One and done. You can't take us nowhere.
- [squeals]
1313
01:13:32,074 --> 01:13:33,450
I'm sorry. I'm...
1314
01:13:33,534 --> 01:13:37,454
♪ That's just the way
You make me love you crazy ♪
1315
01:13:39,456 --> 01:13:41,375
[upbeat music playing]