1 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:06,150 (rock music) 2 00:00:10,171 --> 00:00:12,040 ♪ Can't nobody hold me down ♪ 3 00:00:12,060 --> 00:00:13,130 ♪ I'm steady walking ♪ 4 00:00:13,151 --> 00:00:16,150 ♪ Like I got three commas in my bank account ♪ 5 00:00:16,170 --> 00:00:17,181 ♪ Living loud ♪ 6 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:19,141 ♪ So get your cameras out ♪ 7 00:00:19,161 --> 00:00:22,130 ♪ I probably do the same thing if I was you ♪ 8 00:00:22,150 --> 00:00:24,211 ♪ Looking at me now, now ♪ 9 00:00:26,121 --> 00:00:29,141 ♪ Hmmn, put up your lights ♪ 10 00:00:29,161 --> 00:00:32,051 ♪ And keep 'em flashing ♪ 11 00:00:33,111 --> 00:00:37,030 ♪ Don't ever put 'em down down down ♪ 12 00:00:37,051 --> 00:00:38,161 ♪ Look at me now ♪ 13 00:00:39,111 --> 00:00:41,121 (funky music plays) 14 00:00:43,060 --> 00:00:43,151 - Come on, babe. 15 00:00:43,170 --> 00:00:45,041 - I am. 16 00:00:45,060 --> 00:00:48,121 ♪ Woke up with the feeling today is sweet like honey ♪ 17 00:00:48,140 --> 00:00:49,170 - We good, baby? 18 00:00:49,191 --> 00:00:50,051 - Yeah. 19 00:00:50,070 --> 00:00:50,231 (laughs) 20 00:00:50,250 --> 00:00:52,060 - What? Is the house- 21 00:00:52,081 --> 00:00:53,210 - It's been forever since I've ridden a bike. 22 00:00:53,231 --> 00:00:55,060 Oh my God. - Oh yeah? 23 00:00:55,121 --> 00:00:56,130 - You know how they say like, 24 00:00:56,151 --> 00:00:57,161 you shouldn't focus on something, 25 00:00:57,180 --> 00:00:59,130 'cause you're going to crash on it? 26 00:00:59,151 --> 00:01:00,121 - Yeah. 27 00:01:00,140 --> 00:01:01,161 (Lesley squeals) 28 00:01:01,180 --> 00:01:03,130 - (laughs) Honey, what are you doing? 29 00:01:03,151 --> 00:01:04,201 Wait, you know where the brakes are? 30 00:01:04,221 --> 00:01:06,021 - I'm about to hit you. 31 00:01:06,171 --> 00:01:08,070 No, I got the brakes. Okay. 32 00:01:10,021 --> 00:01:11,161 - Are you glad I got these bikes for us? 33 00:01:11,180 --> 00:01:13,051 - Yeah. I think it's something new. 34 00:01:13,070 --> 00:01:15,191 You know, we can do it together, and this is a good exercise. 35 00:01:16,130 --> 00:01:19,070 - My Mom told me, "Just marry that girl." 36 00:01:19,090 --> 00:01:20,191 - Mm-hmm. 37 00:01:20,210 --> 00:01:23,150 - That turned out to be the best decision that I ever made. 38 00:01:23,171 --> 00:01:26,221 Marrying you and listening to her at the same time. 39 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:30,191 - I know they say that you marry into the family, 40 00:01:30,210 --> 00:01:32,070 but I didn't realize 41 00:01:32,090 --> 00:01:35,191 that when I said my vows, I was saying it to her, too. 42 00:01:35,210 --> 00:01:37,150 - I think it's an Asian thing, right? 43 00:01:37,171 --> 00:01:37,221 - What? 44 00:01:39,041 --> 00:01:41,021 - You know, where you ask your parents, like, 45 00:01:41,041 --> 00:01:42,070 "What do you think?" 46 00:01:42,090 --> 00:01:45,030 - It's because we feel such obligation 47 00:01:45,051 --> 00:01:46,201 because they came over to this country with nothing 48 00:01:46,221 --> 00:01:49,111 and sacrifice so much for us. - Right. 49 00:01:49,130 --> 00:01:51,021 - And we've heard that our entire life. 50 00:01:51,041 --> 00:01:52,100 - (laughs) I know. 51 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:55,120 - You know, so then you feel like you kind of have to 52 00:01:55,141 --> 00:01:56,171 do something to make them proud. 53 00:01:56,191 --> 00:01:57,141 - Right. 54 00:01:59,030 --> 00:02:00,141 Does that bother you? 55 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:03,061 - Does it bother me that what? 56 00:02:03,081 --> 00:02:06,040 - That I married you, you know, 57 00:02:06,061 --> 00:02:09,120 and she kind of helped me make that decision, or? 58 00:02:09,141 --> 00:02:11,120 - I mean, I asked my mom, if I should marry you. 59 00:02:11,141 --> 00:02:13,021 - You did? 60 00:02:13,041 --> 00:02:14,220 - Yeah, except for it's- it's kind of the opposite though. 61 00:02:15,171 --> 00:02:16,191 - Really? - She said, 62 00:02:16,210 --> 00:02:19,081 "I don't know, he looks like a playboy, 63 00:02:19,100 --> 00:02:21,060 but if you want to you can." 64 00:02:21,081 --> 00:02:24,191 - (laughs) Is she... (laughs) 65 00:02:24,210 --> 00:02:26,041 (Car honking) 66 00:02:26,060 --> 00:02:27,191 - I'll race you. 67 00:02:27,210 --> 00:02:31,060 - Woo, chasing my wife. 68 00:02:32,071 --> 00:02:34,021 - You'll be always chasing me, honey. 69 00:02:35,051 --> 00:02:35,191 (Car honking) 70 00:02:35,210 --> 00:02:36,201 - What up? 71 00:02:37,141 --> 00:02:39,240 (funky music) 72 00:02:42,081 --> 00:02:44,041 (restaurant chatter) 73 00:02:44,060 --> 00:02:45,191 - I'm just glad we finally all four got together. 74 00:02:45,210 --> 00:02:46,160 It's so hard. 75 00:02:46,180 --> 00:02:48,041 - So, how was the holidays? 76 00:02:48,060 --> 00:02:50,021 - I went to Cabo for Thanksgiving. 77 00:02:50,041 --> 00:02:51,250 - Got it. That's why this tan's not going away. 78 00:02:52,030 --> 00:02:53,090 - You're not as tan as usually are. 79 00:02:53,111 --> 00:02:55,141 - I know. I haven't. I don't get to go to the beach. 80 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:56,111 (laughter) 81 00:02:56,131 --> 00:02:57,120 I've been hibernating, girl. 82 00:02:57,141 --> 00:02:58,180 - It's cause you always go to Vegas. 83 00:02:58,201 --> 00:03:00,071 - Yeah, that's right. - You inside the casino. 84 00:03:00,090 --> 00:03:01,150 - Yeah, I'm inside. 85 00:03:02,041 --> 00:03:03,041 - When my tan starts fading, I go to Mexico, 86 00:03:03,060 --> 00:03:05,051 but she misses that cha-ching sound. 87 00:03:05,071 --> 00:03:06,041 (laughter) 88 00:03:06,060 --> 00:03:07,081 - When I'm itching, 89 00:03:07,101 --> 00:03:08,101 something's not right. - Yeah, yeah. 90 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,120 - I mean, talk about cha-cha-ching. 91 00:03:10,141 --> 00:03:12,160 Like, when are you going to get on Tinder? 92 00:03:12,180 --> 00:03:14,120 - Like, I could swipe for you? - Me? 93 00:03:14,141 --> 00:03:16,021 - It's like a little Vegas slot machine, 94 00:03:16,041 --> 00:03:17,090 like do do do. - Ding ding. 95 00:03:17,111 --> 00:03:19,090 - I want to swipe. - We think you need to have sex. 96 00:03:19,111 --> 00:03:20,041 (laughter) 97 00:03:20,060 --> 00:03:21,220 - Oh, I'm having sex. 98 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:23,171 - Oh. -Uh. And... 99 00:03:23,191 --> 00:03:25,041 - Okay, all I have to say is, 100 00:03:25,060 --> 00:03:27,201 I'm satisfied. Is that enough? - Hold up. 101 00:03:27,220 --> 00:03:29,171 (Anna And Karen Mocking) I'm satisfied. 102 00:03:29,191 --> 00:03:31,160 (Laughter) 103 00:03:31,180 --> 00:03:33,171 - Now have you guys noticed a difference in me? 104 00:03:33,191 --> 00:03:34,180 - Yeah. - Yes. 105 00:03:34,201 --> 00:03:36,210 - Yeah. So I'm dating. 106 00:03:39,051 --> 00:03:41,100 - Like, like, you're talking like you're dating 107 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:42,160 someone seriously? 108 00:03:42,180 --> 00:03:45,071 - Uh, yeah. 109 00:03:45,090 --> 00:03:46,141 - Ooh, ooh. 110 00:03:47,141 --> 00:03:50,090 And shot time? So my timing is much more perfect. 111 00:03:50,111 --> 00:03:51,060 - It is. - And now it's going to be 112 00:03:51,081 --> 00:03:52,150 shot in Maine. 113 00:03:52,210 --> 00:03:55,111 - Cheers. - So you're dating...? 114 00:03:56,060 --> 00:03:57,071 Washington's best friend? - Is he from Houston? 115 00:03:57,090 --> 00:03:58,171 So we all have to know him. 116 00:03:58,191 --> 00:04:00,190 - Yeah, I'm dating Washington's bestie. 117 00:04:00,210 --> 00:04:02,030 - Channing Tatum? 118 00:04:02,051 --> 00:04:04,171 (Laughter) - I- I- I wish! 119 00:04:05,060 --> 00:04:05,180 - You think he likes Asian girls? 120 00:04:05,201 --> 00:04:07,030 - Probably. 121 00:04:07,051 --> 00:04:08,051 - Everybody likes asian girls. - You'll make him turn. 122 00:04:08,071 --> 00:04:09,021 You'll make him turn. - You're right. 123 00:04:09,041 --> 00:04:11,090 Everyone likes Asian girls. 124 00:04:11,111 --> 00:04:13,180 They just haven't had the opportunity. 125 00:04:14,171 --> 00:04:17,201 Uh, it is someone in Houston, and you guys know him. 126 00:04:17,220 --> 00:04:18,220 - Okay. 127 00:04:19,230 --> 00:04:21,021 - It's Nate. 128 00:04:21,100 --> 00:04:22,141 - Nate, Nate. 129 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:23,201 - Nate, Nate. Nate, Nate. 130 00:04:23,220 --> 00:04:24,251 - What? 131 00:04:25,030 --> 00:04:26,040 - We've known each other for 20 years. 132 00:04:26,061 --> 00:04:27,150 - 20 years. 133 00:04:27,170 --> 00:04:30,121 - I just feel like for so long, I've been, like, 134 00:04:32,170 --> 00:04:34,100 silently unhappy 135 00:04:34,121 --> 00:04:36,220 and not thinking of, and not being selfish enough. 136 00:04:36,241 --> 00:04:38,021 You know? I've- 137 00:04:38,210 --> 00:04:40,061 - Been a gift for yourself. 138 00:04:40,081 --> 00:04:42,241 - Yeah. I've been too considerate of everybody else. 139 00:04:43,021 --> 00:04:44,131 - I mean, we told you that. - At the expense of my own 140 00:04:44,150 --> 00:04:45,241 happiness. - Yeah. 141 00:04:46,021 --> 00:04:48,251 - So now I'm like, "Fuck everything. I'm happy." 142 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:50,210 - It's a little fast, but... 143 00:04:50,230 --> 00:04:51,180 - Uh! 144 00:04:52,030 --> 00:04:53,121 Hey, I'm 39. 145 00:04:53,141 --> 00:04:55,230 - I mean, to be fair, we all love Nate. 146 00:04:55,251 --> 00:04:58,180 So, it's not a terrible choice. That's for sure. 147 00:04:58,201 --> 00:04:59,230 - Thank you. - Yeah. 148 00:04:59,251 --> 00:05:02,050 - It's not like I met someone on Tinder. 149 00:05:02,071 --> 00:05:04,131 We've known each other for 20 years. 150 00:05:04,150 --> 00:05:06,251 We were married to other people during those times. 151 00:05:07,030 --> 00:05:07,220 - Cheers. 152 00:05:07,241 --> 00:05:09,110 - But we were still friends. 153 00:05:09,131 --> 00:05:13,061 Now that I'm divorcing my ex- husband, dating someone again, 154 00:05:13,081 --> 00:05:15,090 I feel like a teenager. 155 00:05:15,110 --> 00:05:16,030 - What'd your parents say? 156 00:05:16,050 --> 00:05:17,081 - About what? 157 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,040 - Are you gonna tell 'em? 158 00:05:20,251 --> 00:05:21,170 - Yeah. 159 00:05:21,191 --> 00:05:22,150 - When? 160 00:05:22,170 --> 00:05:24,021 - Yeah. - I don't know when. 161 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:27,100 I just feel like them even getting adjusted to the idea 162 00:05:27,121 --> 00:05:29,040 that number one, I'm divorced. 163 00:05:29,241 --> 00:05:31,150 You know, they're Catholic. 164 00:05:31,170 --> 00:05:33,100 And they were hoping that I'd be able to work it 165 00:05:33,121 --> 00:05:34,121 out with my ex. 166 00:05:34,141 --> 00:05:35,160 - Culturally, that's nice... I mean, 167 00:05:35,180 --> 00:05:38,170 we're supposed to show grit. 168 00:05:38,191 --> 00:05:39,210 - Yes. - Cause that's resilience. 169 00:05:39,230 --> 00:05:41,021 - Right. 170 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:43,230 - So, doing anything other than what any 171 00:05:43,251 --> 00:05:46,201 of our parents have endured is- 172 00:05:46,220 --> 00:05:47,251 - Giving up. - Yeah. 173 00:05:48,030 --> 00:05:50,251 - For my mom, I feel like, um, 174 00:05:51,030 --> 00:05:54,071 it's hard for her to see me be so different from her. 175 00:05:54,090 --> 00:05:55,071 - Yeah. - Oh, good one. 176 00:05:55,090 --> 00:05:56,121 - Yeah. - That makes sense. 177 00:05:56,141 --> 00:05:57,230 - It takes a lot of time for her to, like, 178 00:05:57,251 --> 00:06:00,131 wrap her mind around. Yes. - You're the only daughter. 179 00:06:00,150 --> 00:06:02,121 Yeah. - I'm the oldest. 180 00:06:02,141 --> 00:06:03,141 - Are you gonna to tell 'em? 181 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:04,110 - Yeah. 182 00:06:04,131 --> 00:06:05,110 - When? 183 00:06:05,131 --> 00:06:07,081 - Yeah. - I don't know when. 184 00:06:07,100 --> 00:06:09,170 (suspenseful music) 185 00:06:11,121 --> 00:06:12,170 (funky music) 186 00:06:12,191 --> 00:06:14,150 - I love it when you cook breakfast. 187 00:06:14,220 --> 00:06:17,170 - I always love it when you have time for breakfast. 188 00:06:18,131 --> 00:06:19,141 - I know. 189 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:20,201 Rare that I'm not working. 190 00:06:20,220 --> 00:06:21,210 - I know. 191 00:06:21,230 --> 00:06:22,241 Want some orange juice? 192 00:06:23,021 --> 00:06:26,081 Freshly squeezed for my beautiful lady. 193 00:06:26,100 --> 00:06:28,050 (laughs) 194 00:06:28,071 --> 00:06:31,131 So I was wondering, uh, my dad's retirement party. 195 00:06:31,150 --> 00:06:32,141 - That's coming up. 196 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:34,090 About a year ago my father-in-law had 197 00:06:34,111 --> 00:06:37,230 expressed that he was finally ready to be retired. 198 00:06:37,251 --> 00:06:40,150 We thought it needed a big celebration. 199 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:46,111 - It wouldn't be complete without, maybe, your parents. 200 00:06:47,111 --> 00:06:48,121 - My mom? 201 00:06:49,121 --> 00:06:50,230 - Yeah. Well, you know, 202 00:06:50,251 --> 00:06:52,251 my dad was going to invite your family, 203 00:06:53,030 --> 00:06:54,141 but I think it's better if I call them, 204 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:55,201 don't you think? 205 00:06:56,210 --> 00:06:57,191 Just to invite her? 206 00:06:57,210 --> 00:06:58,141 - No. 207 00:06:58,160 --> 00:06:59,251 - You don't think so? 208 00:07:00,030 --> 00:07:02,241 - No, because it has to be formally invited from your dad. 209 00:07:03,021 --> 00:07:03,181 - Right? 210 00:07:03,201 --> 00:07:04,230 - If it's something- 211 00:07:04,251 --> 00:07:05,251 if it's something that formal- - The Asian way. 212 00:07:06,030 --> 00:07:07,131 - then yeah. Like, the Asian way. 213 00:07:07,150 --> 00:07:08,081 You know how it is. - Okay. 214 00:07:09,201 --> 00:07:13,201 - My family sees the Ho's as a little less traditional. 215 00:07:13,220 --> 00:07:15,100 - You can call her, - Cause it's his- 216 00:07:15,121 --> 00:07:16,021 - but I guarantee you, - Cause it's his party. 217 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:17,081 she'll say no. 218 00:07:17,100 --> 00:07:19,210 I think the first time Washington met my mom, 219 00:07:19,230 --> 00:07:22,071 he said, "What's up?" 220 00:07:23,100 --> 00:07:24,061 You know? And for me, 221 00:07:24,081 --> 00:07:25,220 when I first met his parents, 222 00:07:25,241 --> 00:07:27,191 I bowed my head and I said, 223 00:07:27,210 --> 00:07:29,160 (speaks vietnamese) 224 00:07:29,230 --> 00:07:31,081 That's more proper. 225 00:07:31,100 --> 00:07:32,160 When it comes to our culture, 226 00:07:32,180 --> 00:07:33,230 there's things that you don't do, 227 00:07:33,251 --> 00:07:35,180 especially to a mother-in-law. 228 00:07:35,201 --> 00:07:38,021 [Producer] So will he ever recover from that? 229 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:41,180 - Slowly (laughs), which is why we see them once a year. 230 00:07:43,131 --> 00:07:45,160 - Well, that actually makes my life easier. 231 00:07:45,180 --> 00:07:48,210 I just wanted you to know that, you know- 232 00:07:49,081 --> 00:07:50,160 - Good morning. 233 00:07:50,180 --> 00:07:51,131 - Hey. 234 00:07:51,150 --> 00:07:52,111 - Hey Judy. 235 00:07:52,131 --> 00:07:53,191 - What are you guys up to? 236 00:07:53,210 --> 00:07:56,050 - Planning Dad's retirement party. 237 00:07:56,071 --> 00:07:56,111 - Yeah? 238 00:07:57,141 --> 00:07:59,131 - My dad's retirement is coming up, 239 00:07:59,150 --> 00:08:01,160 and you know what that means. 240 00:08:03,030 --> 00:08:04,090 I'm taking over, 241 00:08:04,110 --> 00:08:07,030 and I'm looking forward to being much richer. 242 00:08:07,050 --> 00:08:08,170 - You usually eat eggs with chopsticks. 243 00:08:08,191 --> 00:08:09,160 - Here. - You eat eggs with chopsticks? 244 00:08:09,181 --> 00:08:10,170 - You do it white people way. 245 00:08:10,191 --> 00:08:11,121 - I know. - We're acting like 246 00:08:11,141 --> 00:08:12,150 white people today. 247 00:08:12,170 --> 00:08:13,251 - This is white people breakfast. 248 00:08:14,030 --> 00:08:15,191 - So you guys have booked everything? 249 00:08:15,210 --> 00:08:17,251 - You know how capable your husband is. 250 00:08:18,030 --> 00:08:19,061 - I own this town. 251 00:08:20,030 --> 00:08:21,030 - Why don't you tell her how much you've done 252 00:08:21,050 --> 00:08:22,230 on the party and see what she says. 253 00:08:23,100 --> 00:08:26,251 - I got uh, I mean, I got shit taken care of. 254 00:08:28,061 --> 00:08:29,121 - He made a vision board for it. 255 00:08:29,141 --> 00:08:30,230 Is that not enough, Lesley? 256 00:08:30,251 --> 00:08:32,040 - Yeah. 257 00:08:32,180 --> 00:08:34,121 I got this, baby. Trust me. 258 00:08:34,141 --> 00:08:36,021 - Famous last words from Washington. 259 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:36,180 He's got it. 260 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:37,251 - I got it. 261 00:08:38,030 --> 00:08:40,030 - Great. You know who's gonna get the blame of it? 262 00:08:40,050 --> 00:08:41,251 Me. - Why would you get the blame? 263 00:08:42,030 --> 00:08:43,091 - Because your parents think I'm the responsible one. 264 00:08:43,111 --> 00:08:44,211 - Oh, really? 265 00:08:44,231 --> 00:08:46,021 - They're gonna be like "Lesley, why didn't you say anything?" 266 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:48,101 - You should just have your wife do it. 267 00:08:49,221 --> 00:08:53,060 - Being Washington's wife is a lot of pressure, 268 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:57,021 because I am the one that has to make him accountable 269 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:58,091 for his actions. 270 00:08:58,111 --> 00:09:01,170 His mom used to take that role on, 271 00:09:01,190 --> 00:09:03,131 but then now, because I married him, 272 00:09:03,150 --> 00:09:04,200 it's my role. 273 00:09:04,221 --> 00:09:08,150 It's a lot of pressure to help him 274 00:09:08,170 --> 00:09:12,101 and to watch him be who he wants to be ultimately 275 00:09:12,121 --> 00:09:15,021 and live up to his dad's expectations. 276 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:16,180 - At least I got a lot of potential. 277 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:18,141 - That's all I ever hear is potential. 278 00:09:19,050 --> 00:09:21,050 Okay, no, let me just handle the party then. 279 00:09:21,070 --> 00:09:23,021 - Yeah. I think it would be less stressful 280 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:25,121 for her if she knows she's in control. 281 00:09:28,251 --> 00:09:31,111 (Funky music) 282 00:09:33,101 --> 00:09:34,141 - Okay, what do you think? 283 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:35,141 That right? 284 00:09:35,231 --> 00:09:37,030 - Yeah! 285 00:09:37,050 --> 00:09:40,211 I think, uh, a lot of my ideas 286 00:09:40,231 --> 00:09:43,160 and some of your ideas, too. Together. 287 00:09:43,180 --> 00:09:48,040 - See now, we got the tv, a chandelier. 288 00:09:48,060 --> 00:09:49,121 - Yeah. 289 00:09:49,141 --> 00:09:51,150 - And we got our own alarm system and everything. 290 00:09:51,170 --> 00:09:53,251 - Dad, dad, you're not a real estate agent. 291 00:09:54,030 --> 00:09:55,021 No one's gonna, 292 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:56,141 you're not selling the house, okay? 293 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:57,190 (laughs) 294 00:09:57,251 --> 00:09:59,190 - Whatever belong to parent, 295 00:09:59,211 --> 00:10:00,050 belong to kid. 296 00:10:01,121 --> 00:10:04,150 So even I spend for them today, I spend them later. 297 00:10:04,170 --> 00:10:05,241 It's the same thing. 298 00:10:06,021 --> 00:10:07,141 I'd rather give them now 299 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:08,190 than left in future because, 300 00:10:08,211 --> 00:10:10,221 I can see what they're doing. 301 00:10:10,241 --> 00:10:13,251 But one, one day when I'm gone, I'm die 302 00:10:14,030 --> 00:10:16,070 I don't know what they do with my money. 303 00:10:16,091 --> 00:10:20,190 Here the key, you own the home, it belong to you, okay? 304 00:10:20,211 --> 00:10:22,111 - Yes. - You make your own decision. 305 00:10:22,131 --> 00:10:23,170 - I'm happy for you. 306 00:10:23,190 --> 00:10:24,180 - Thank you. 307 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:25,241 - I'm happy. - We're neighbors. 308 00:10:26,030 --> 00:10:28,150 - I feel like this house symbolizes 309 00:10:28,170 --> 00:10:30,040 my second chance at life. 310 00:10:30,060 --> 00:10:32,040 Unfortunately, at this point in my life, 311 00:10:32,060 --> 00:10:33,231 I'm not financially independent, 312 00:10:33,251 --> 00:10:35,180 because I decided when I got married 313 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:38,241 and had kids, that I would give up my law career. 314 00:10:39,021 --> 00:10:41,251 - Now remember that, I bought that house, 315 00:10:42,030 --> 00:10:42,231 for my grandbaby. 316 00:10:42,251 --> 00:10:43,251 - Mm-hmm. 317 00:10:44,030 --> 00:10:46,070 - Take care of your kids well, okay? 318 00:10:47,060 --> 00:10:48,251 - That's all I care about. 319 00:10:49,030 --> 00:10:51,121 So, I'm depending on my dad right now, 320 00:10:51,141 --> 00:10:54,131 and that's hard because that means he has a say 321 00:10:54,150 --> 00:10:57,180 in my life, you know? If I want to do anything major 322 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:59,131 in my life, I would have to run it by him. 323 00:10:59,150 --> 00:11:02,190 He's just the type of guy that says, "My way or the highway," 324 00:11:02,211 --> 00:11:05,150 and he would have no problems cutting me off right now. 325 00:11:05,170 --> 00:11:06,200 - Hmm. 326 00:11:07,170 --> 00:11:09,080 - Why are you breathing like that? 327 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:13,030 - Well, I know last week, 328 00:11:13,050 --> 00:11:13,200 -Mm-hmm. 329 00:11:13,221 --> 00:11:15,030 - you have the week off, 330 00:11:15,050 --> 00:11:15,241 - Yeah. 331 00:11:16,021 --> 00:11:18,160 - when your kids go vacation, 332 00:11:18,180 --> 00:11:19,241 - Uh-huh. - where you go? 333 00:11:20,021 --> 00:11:21,040 You didn't come to help him. 334 00:11:21,060 --> 00:11:22,251 - This is the first time in my life 335 00:11:23,030 --> 00:11:25,131 I have time away from my kids. 336 00:11:25,150 --> 00:11:28,030 I think I deserve three days off, 337 00:11:28,050 --> 00:11:31,080 so if I go on vacation, and I'm happy- 338 00:11:31,101 --> 00:11:32,200 - Who you go with? 339 00:11:32,221 --> 00:11:34,030 - I went with my friend. 340 00:11:34,221 --> 00:11:35,170 - The boy or the girl? 341 00:11:35,190 --> 00:11:36,131 - A boy. 342 00:11:39,170 --> 00:11:41,070 - You mean a boyfriend? 343 00:11:42,060 --> 00:11:43,030 - Yeah. 344 00:11:45,101 --> 00:11:46,180 (sighs) 345 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:50,251 (speaks vietnamese) 346 00:11:51,030 --> 00:11:52,101 ...and... 347 00:11:52,121 --> 00:11:57,131 (speaks vietnamese) 348 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:00,170 ...good. 349 00:12:00,190 --> 00:12:03,190 That's why the parent don't want kid to divorce. 350 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:05,160 (sighs) 351 00:12:05,180 --> 00:12:06,190 It's... 352 00:12:08,121 --> 00:12:09,231 very hard for me. 353 00:12:12,211 --> 00:12:16,141 - I know you were hoping that, uh, me and my ex 354 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:17,160 would get back together, right? 355 00:12:17,180 --> 00:12:19,211 - Yes. For your kids. - Yes. 356 00:12:19,231 --> 00:12:20,251 - Mm-hmm. 357 00:12:21,030 --> 00:12:22,150 - You think he's a good person to be with? 358 00:12:23,131 --> 00:12:25,180 - I, I don't live with him, I don't know. 359 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:27,150 - Okay. - You know him better. 360 00:12:27,170 --> 00:12:28,190 - And I will tell you, 361 00:12:28,211 --> 00:12:30,180 - But. - I do knew better, and he 362 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:32,150 is not a good person to be with. 363 00:12:33,030 --> 00:12:34,190 - But why don't you talk to me? 364 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:36,111 - Talk to you? 365 00:12:36,131 --> 00:12:37,180 - For three years. 366 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:39,121 - Yeah, cause I didn't wanna bother you, 367 00:12:39,141 --> 00:12:41,080 because I tried to deal with him. 368 00:12:41,101 --> 00:12:44,021 I tried, I hoped that he would change. 369 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:47,080 I told him, like, if you could just try to spend more time 370 00:12:47,101 --> 00:12:50,211 with us, have dinner, and be there with the kids. 371 00:12:50,231 --> 00:12:53,241 I would take all three kids meet you at church, 372 00:12:54,021 --> 00:12:56,060 he's still sleeping when I go home. 373 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:58,241 That's the kind of person he is. 374 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:03,160 So, I didn't know what else I could do. 375 00:13:03,180 --> 00:13:05,241 - You are, uh, 39 years old now, 376 00:13:06,021 --> 00:13:06,200 - Mm-hmm. 377 00:13:07,150 --> 00:13:10,021 - I hope you do it right. 378 00:13:10,091 --> 00:13:12,101 (suspenseful music) 379 00:13:14,170 --> 00:13:17,080 (Hip-hop music) 380 00:13:19,070 --> 00:13:20,211 (Door opening) 381 00:13:20,231 --> 00:13:22,040 - Hey, Lesley! 382 00:13:22,111 --> 00:13:24,050 - Tina? - Lesley, where are you? 383 00:13:24,070 --> 00:13:25,231 - I'm up here. I'm in the back bathroom. 384 00:13:25,251 --> 00:13:27,060 - Oh, that's great. 385 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:28,021 Perfect. 386 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:29,111 - What are you doing here? 387 00:13:29,180 --> 00:13:30,241 - I brought you some stuff. 388 00:13:31,121 --> 00:13:32,070 - What do you have? - For doing hair. 389 00:13:32,091 --> 00:13:33,030 - Oh, I need hair products. 390 00:13:33,050 --> 00:13:35,221 - I brought shampoo, moose, gel. 391 00:13:35,241 --> 00:13:38,200 I'm a hairstylist for 31 years, 392 00:13:38,221 --> 00:13:40,040 but I don't care about her hair. 393 00:13:40,060 --> 00:13:42,190 I just wanted a little scoop from Lesley. 394 00:13:42,211 --> 00:13:44,141 She probably have some information 395 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:47,141 about the guy Judy dating. 396 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:48,251 I want some info. 397 00:13:49,091 --> 00:13:50,231 How's everything? 398 00:13:50,251 --> 00:13:51,131 - Good. 399 00:13:51,150 --> 00:13:52,141 Be gentle. 400 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:53,241 - Have you talked to Judy lately? 401 00:13:54,021 --> 00:13:55,190 - Uh. - How's she doing? 402 00:13:55,211 --> 00:13:56,251 - I think she's fine. 403 00:13:57,030 --> 00:13:58,091 - I heard something but I'm not sure 404 00:13:58,111 --> 00:13:59,141 if you know anything or not, 405 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:01,180 but I heard Judy was dating somebody 406 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:02,131 - Right. - or seeing somebody. 407 00:14:02,150 --> 00:14:03,211 Is that true? 408 00:14:03,231 --> 00:14:04,231 - I have no idea. 409 00:14:05,180 --> 00:14:06,200 She's going out more. 410 00:14:06,221 --> 00:14:07,160 - Oh, wow. 411 00:14:07,180 --> 00:14:08,141 That's good. - Yeah. 412 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:09,091 - Woo! 413 00:14:10,170 --> 00:14:12,211 - In this family, information travels real fast. 414 00:14:12,231 --> 00:14:15,211 Everybody in our family is obsessed with Judy's love life, 415 00:14:15,231 --> 00:14:17,170 because that's the biggest thing that's happening 416 00:14:17,190 --> 00:14:19,060 in our family right now, 417 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:20,251 and we're just all a little bit nosy. 418 00:14:21,030 --> 00:14:22,040 Do you know who it is? 419 00:14:22,060 --> 00:14:23,211 - No, is that Caucasian, Asian or what? 420 00:14:23,231 --> 00:14:24,160 - I have no idea. 421 00:14:24,180 --> 00:14:25,121 - Uh-huh. 422 00:14:25,141 --> 00:14:26,131 You know, I'm kinda nosy. 423 00:14:26,150 --> 00:14:27,241 I just want to see how cute he is. 424 00:14:28,021 --> 00:14:29,060 Blah, blah, blah. 425 00:14:29,121 --> 00:14:30,170 So, come on! 426 00:14:30,190 --> 00:14:32,101 - I, I'm, I don't know. I'm telling you the truth. 427 00:14:32,121 --> 00:14:34,131 - You are her sister-in-law. - I know that. 428 00:14:34,150 --> 00:14:36,060 Did you come over here to torture me? 429 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:38,241 To, to, to, torture secrets or something? 430 00:14:39,021 --> 00:14:40,111 - She complaining. Blah, blah, blah. 431 00:14:40,131 --> 00:14:41,251 - Don't burn me! 432 00:14:42,030 --> 00:14:43,131 - I don't care how she feels. That's okay. She can handle it. 433 00:14:43,150 --> 00:14:44,200 She's a big girl. 434 00:14:44,221 --> 00:14:46,150 If you don't like to wash hair, that's fine. 435 00:14:46,170 --> 00:14:47,170 Just tell me about Judy. 436 00:14:47,190 --> 00:14:49,060 - I don't know anything about that. 437 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:50,091 - You sure you don't know anything? 438 00:14:50,111 --> 00:14:52,040 - I'm positive I don't know anything. 439 00:14:52,101 --> 00:14:53,241 - Ah, Jesus. - I keep telling you that. 440 00:14:54,111 --> 00:14:55,251 - Lesley doesn't know shit. 441 00:14:56,030 --> 00:14:57,200 Bye. Gotta go. Bye. 442 00:14:57,221 --> 00:14:59,021 - Bye. 443 00:14:59,241 --> 00:15:01,211 She didn't even leave me any products. 444 00:15:01,231 --> 00:15:03,180 You forgot your purse. 445 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:04,231 - Oh shit, yeah. 446 00:15:07,180 --> 00:15:09,221 (upbeat music) 447 00:15:09,241 --> 00:15:12,111 (train horn) 448 00:15:14,170 --> 00:15:16,131 (upbeat music) 449 00:15:18,241 --> 00:15:20,080 - That mirror is not made of plastic, Roosevelt, 450 00:15:20,101 --> 00:15:21,141 don't break it please. 451 00:15:21,241 --> 00:15:23,040 - I have a lot on my plate. 452 00:15:23,131 --> 00:15:27,080 I have two kids, a man-child, and 453 00:15:27,101 --> 00:15:30,050 technically I'm the only Ho with a full time job. 454 00:15:30,070 --> 00:15:31,251 Don't break my mirror Roosevelt. 455 00:15:32,030 --> 00:15:33,231 - I'm breaking it gently, Mommy. 456 00:15:33,251 --> 00:15:36,030 - No, do not break it gently Roosevelt. 457 00:15:37,021 --> 00:15:39,080 [Male Voice] Hello? Anybody home? 458 00:15:39,101 --> 00:15:41,050 Hi grandpa. 459 00:15:41,070 --> 00:15:43,080 - Hello Roosevelt, How are you? 460 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:48,080 - Lincoln, go give grandpa a hug 461 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:51,190 Lincoln! 462 00:15:53,190 --> 00:15:54,211 - Are you busy? 463 00:15:54,231 --> 00:15:56,021 - Just working Ba. 464 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:57,121 - Oh, I see. 465 00:15:57,141 --> 00:15:59,050 I know you're busy, but can you help with something? 466 00:15:59,070 --> 00:16:00,231 - Yeah, what do you need help with? 467 00:16:00,251 --> 00:16:03,231 - Okay. I bought for your mom an iPhone, 468 00:16:03,251 --> 00:16:05,070 I don't know how to set up the email. 469 00:16:05,091 --> 00:16:06,150 Can you do it for me? 470 00:16:06,170 --> 00:16:07,200 - Yeah - Here is my account. 471 00:16:07,221 --> 00:16:09,131 - Okay. Your phone bill? 472 00:16:09,150 --> 00:16:10,150 Give me a second 473 00:16:10,170 --> 00:16:12,021 - I bought it brand new - Lincoln, stop. 474 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:15,101 Well, now it's officially clear that I've taken the role 475 00:16:15,121 --> 00:16:16,221 of chief high in the family. 476 00:16:16,241 --> 00:16:18,211 It used to be Judy's job 477 00:16:18,231 --> 00:16:23,091 but his parents have leaned to me for more things. 478 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:25,211 They've asked me to do a lot more errands. 479 00:16:25,231 --> 00:16:27,231 I think it started because 480 00:16:27,251 --> 00:16:30,190 if I'm capable of taking care of Washington, I can take care 481 00:16:30,211 --> 00:16:31,231 of the whole family. 482 00:16:31,251 --> 00:16:33,070 It gets a little stressful. 483 00:16:33,091 --> 00:16:35,160 I can set it up later tonight when I get off work. 484 00:16:35,180 --> 00:16:36,101 Is that okay? 485 00:16:36,121 --> 00:16:37,190 - Okay, that's fine 486 00:16:37,211 --> 00:16:39,150 - And then I want to go look at a venue with you. 487 00:16:39,170 --> 00:16:41,050 I just want to get your opinion on it. 488 00:16:41,070 --> 00:16:41,190 - Okay, sure. 489 00:16:41,211 --> 00:16:42,160 - For the party. 490 00:16:42,180 --> 00:16:43,180 - I'm glad to go with you. 491 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:46,070 I did get my opinion and what I think 492 00:16:46,091 --> 00:16:48,050 - Yeah. Let me just finish this one case 493 00:16:48,070 --> 00:16:48,231 - Okay. Bye bye. 494 00:16:48,251 --> 00:16:49,160 Bye bye. 495 00:16:49,180 --> 00:16:50,150 - Say bye grandpa. 496 00:16:50,170 --> 00:16:51,050 Thank you. 497 00:16:51,070 --> 00:16:51,231 Gimme a hug. 498 00:16:54,070 --> 00:16:55,200 Alright, thank you. 499 00:16:55,221 --> 00:16:56,160 - Bye grandpa. 500 00:16:56,180 --> 00:16:58,131 - Hey, I'm singing a song! 501 00:16:58,150 --> 00:16:59,050 - Okay guys, 502 00:16:59,070 --> 00:17:00,040 be nice. 503 00:17:00,060 --> 00:17:01,121 ♪ Breaking a sweat ♪ 504 00:17:02,021 --> 00:17:03,160 ♪ Harder to breath ♪ 505 00:17:03,180 --> 00:17:04,191 [Judy] It's been ingrained 506 00:17:04,211 --> 00:17:07,161 in me my whole life that whatever I do 507 00:17:07,181 --> 00:17:10,201 in life, I should seek my parents' approval first. 508 00:17:11,021 --> 00:17:12,021 [Receptionist] Hi, welcome, [Judy] Good Monring. 509 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:13,030 - how are you? 510 00:17:13,050 --> 00:17:14,211 - Good, checking in for Doctor Winn 511 00:17:14,231 --> 00:17:15,130 - May I have your name please? 512 00:17:15,151 --> 00:17:17,060 - Judy Ho. H-O. 513 00:17:18,021 --> 00:17:18,201 - Doctor Winn will be right here. 514 00:17:18,221 --> 00:17:19,181 Please have a seat. 515 00:17:19,201 --> 00:17:21,140 - Thank you. - Yes ma'am. 516 00:17:21,161 --> 00:17:24,040 - I feel like the struggle for me is to kind 517 00:17:24,060 --> 00:17:27,120 of wash away everything that I've been taught 518 00:17:27,140 --> 00:17:29,080 since I've been a child. 519 00:17:29,100 --> 00:17:30,241 And I just want to look 520 00:17:31,021 --> 00:17:36,110 out for myself and my kids, you know, seek a new life. 521 00:17:36,130 --> 00:17:38,171 ♪ We'll get a little bit crazy ♪ 522 00:17:38,191 --> 00:17:40,161 - Ms. Ho? Come on in. 523 00:17:40,181 --> 00:17:42,030 - Hi Doctor Winn 524 00:17:42,050 --> 00:17:42,221 - How are you ma'am? 525 00:17:42,241 --> 00:17:43,251 - Uh, good. 526 00:17:44,030 --> 00:17:45,030 - You look nice. 527 00:17:45,050 --> 00:17:45,191 - Thank you. 528 00:17:47,161 --> 00:17:48,161 - Let's close the door. 529 00:17:48,241 --> 00:17:49,090 - Yeah. 530 00:17:49,110 --> 00:17:49,201 - Yeah. 531 00:17:51,070 --> 00:17:52,241 - Don't want people see in, what we're doing and stuff. 532 00:17:53,021 --> 00:17:54,030 - I missed you. 533 00:17:54,050 --> 00:17:54,151 - I missed you too. 534 00:17:54,171 --> 00:17:55,090 - Aww. 535 00:17:55,110 --> 00:17:56,201 - I know. I'm into that. 536 00:17:56,221 --> 00:17:58,161 - Let me tell you a secret. 537 00:17:58,231 --> 00:18:00,070 Yes, we are in love. 538 00:18:00,090 --> 00:18:02,070 Is this where you bring all the girls you're dating? 539 00:18:02,090 --> 00:18:03,211 To the exam room? 540 00:18:03,231 --> 00:18:06,021 - No, my office is being painted 541 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:07,181 so we can't use it right now. 542 00:18:07,201 --> 00:18:08,120 It smells pretty bad. 543 00:18:08,140 --> 00:18:09,191 - Oh. 544 00:18:10,100 --> 00:18:12,241 (kissing) 545 00:18:13,120 --> 00:18:16,040 They said my name was not on the list when I came in here. 546 00:18:16,060 --> 00:18:18,030 - It should be always on the list. 547 00:18:18,050 --> 00:18:20,120 - And I had to wait for like 10 minutes for you to come out 548 00:18:20,140 --> 00:18:21,090 - That was 10 minutes? 549 00:18:21,110 --> 00:18:22,021 I don't think it was 10 minutes. 550 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:23,151 It was like three, max. 551 00:18:23,171 --> 00:18:25,241 (both laughing) - Oh, good one. 552 00:18:26,021 --> 00:18:29,040 I feel like anything is possible. 553 00:18:29,060 --> 00:18:32,030 Like all the cliches in like a Nancy Meyers movie. 554 00:18:32,050 --> 00:18:33,171 I'm like, that's how I feel. 555 00:18:33,191 --> 00:18:35,130 Everything is right in the world. 556 00:18:35,151 --> 00:18:37,021 I thought you said you need to check my blood work. 557 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:38,021 You're worried about me. 558 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:39,021 - Someone has to worry about you. 559 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:40,140 - What are you worried about? 560 00:18:40,161 --> 00:18:42,251 - You have a tendency to eat a lot of, you know, Foie Gras. 561 00:18:43,030 --> 00:18:44,050 And you put butter on that. - Yeah. 562 00:18:44,070 --> 00:18:46,080 - You put truffle on that. - Yeah. 563 00:18:46,100 --> 00:18:47,140 - That's why I need to check your truffle level. 564 00:18:47,161 --> 00:18:48,191 (Laughing) 565 00:18:48,211 --> 00:18:50,201 I think that's gonna be ridiculously high. 566 00:18:50,221 --> 00:18:52,050 - It feels very natural 567 00:18:52,070 --> 00:18:54,090 and he feels like someone I can really trust. 568 00:18:54,201 --> 00:18:55,191 - I'll see you a little bit later? 569 00:18:55,211 --> 00:18:56,080 - Mmhmm. 570 00:18:56,100 --> 00:18:56,241 - Okay. 571 00:18:57,021 --> 00:19:00,080 (kissing) 572 00:19:00,100 --> 00:19:01,060 - All right. 573 00:19:01,211 --> 00:19:03,151 ♪ Baby girl I be like num num ♪ 574 00:19:03,171 --> 00:19:05,100 ♪ No double girl, I wanna bite off ♪ 575 00:19:05,120 --> 00:19:07,080 [Washington] So what do you think Sammy? 576 00:19:08,021 --> 00:19:08,161 [Sammy] I like it. 577 00:19:08,181 --> 00:19:09,181 - You hear that? 578 00:19:11,060 --> 00:19:12,030 ♪ When I see you baby boy ♪ 579 00:19:12,050 --> 00:19:13,130 The neighbors hate me, dude, 580 00:19:13,151 --> 00:19:14,241 They think I'm always like racing, 581 00:19:15,021 --> 00:19:16,171 but it's just my car. 582 00:19:16,191 --> 00:19:19,110 [Washington] At this age and what I've been through in life. 583 00:19:19,130 --> 00:19:23,241 I think I do have the potential to take over the company 584 00:19:24,140 --> 00:19:26,251 and that's very exciting for me. 585 00:19:27,030 --> 00:19:30,171 Look, there's Judy's house right next to my dad's. 586 00:19:30,191 --> 00:19:35,221 She's about to move there and dude, like never care 587 00:19:35,241 --> 00:19:40,171 about what my parents built or want to help take it 588 00:19:40,191 --> 00:19:44,040 to the next level or is it just going to be me? 589 00:19:44,060 --> 00:19:46,191 Cause you know, my dad's gonna, you know. 590 00:19:47,151 --> 00:19:50,050 Dude, I'm fucking Ben Ho Jr. 591 00:19:50,070 --> 00:19:50,231 That's my name. 592 00:19:52,100 --> 00:19:55,050 Alright. In our culture, it doesn't matter how bad you are. 593 00:19:55,070 --> 00:19:56,231 Like how fucking much you argue. 594 00:19:56,251 --> 00:19:57,120 All right. 595 00:19:57,140 --> 00:19:58,181 Like yeah. 596 00:19:58,201 --> 00:20:01,080 I fucked up a lot, but it has to go to me. 597 00:20:01,100 --> 00:20:02,050 Right. 598 00:20:03,191 --> 00:20:05,030 Don't you think so? 599 00:20:05,120 --> 00:20:06,211 - I don't know what, I don't know. 600 00:20:06,231 --> 00:20:09,090 Washington is entitled. 601 00:20:09,110 --> 00:20:13,090 He has a lot of room for mistakes 602 00:20:13,110 --> 00:20:17,140 and risks because the Ho family is rich as fuck. 603 00:20:17,161 --> 00:20:20,060 I don't really feel that'll ever end. 604 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:21,110 I'm just a part of it. 605 00:20:21,130 --> 00:20:22,100 And I'm just sitting here 606 00:20:22,120 --> 00:20:23,231 I'm just like, Aw shit. 607 00:20:23,251 --> 00:20:25,050 Like it's it's coming. 608 00:20:25,070 --> 00:20:25,201 It's coming. 609 00:20:25,221 --> 00:20:26,161 It's coming. 610 00:20:26,181 --> 00:20:27,211 I'm just rolling with it. 611 00:20:28,060 --> 00:20:29,050 - It seems stressful. 612 00:20:29,070 --> 00:20:30,080 But you know, 613 00:20:30,100 --> 00:20:31,140 - It's not that bad 614 00:20:31,161 --> 00:20:33,201 - Dude, it's not. 615 00:20:34,110 --> 00:20:36,221 Come on dude. Fuck that. 616 00:20:36,241 --> 00:20:37,211 (engine rev) - Just gun it. 617 00:20:37,231 --> 00:20:38,100 - Wanna Gun it? 618 00:20:38,120 --> 00:20:39,211 - Yeah. 619 00:20:39,231 --> 00:20:41,030 [Washington] Fucking people just need to live they're fucking 620 00:20:41,050 --> 00:20:42,060 life, dude! 621 00:20:44,151 --> 00:20:46,211 (uptempo music) 622 00:20:49,030 --> 00:20:49,181 [Lesley] You ready to see it? 623 00:20:49,201 --> 00:20:51,050 [Binh] Oh yeah. 624 00:20:51,070 --> 00:20:52,231 - I know this party is important to my father-in-law. 625 00:20:52,251 --> 00:20:54,110 [Attendant] Hi, Welcome to the Saint Regis Houston 626 00:20:54,130 --> 00:20:55,120 - How are you? - Nice to see you again. 627 00:20:55,140 --> 00:20:56,211 - Nice to see you. 628 00:20:56,231 --> 00:21:00,100 [Lesley] And then at the same time, it is confirmation 629 00:21:00,120 --> 00:21:02,191 that Washington is ready to take over the company. 630 00:21:02,211 --> 00:21:04,100 - [Attendant] And here's the Astro Saint Regis Ballroom 631 00:21:04,120 --> 00:21:05,231 that we've been talking about 632 00:21:05,251 --> 00:21:07,191 - [Binh] Thank you, Matt. - I'll be right outside if you 633 00:21:07,211 --> 00:21:08,201 have any questions. - Thank you so much Matt. 634 00:21:08,221 --> 00:21:09,181 - Thank you. 635 00:21:10,110 --> 00:21:11,221 [Lesley] What do you think? 636 00:21:11,241 --> 00:21:13,140 - Beautiful, - Beautiful, right? 637 00:21:13,161 --> 00:21:16,060 - Yeah. Fantastic. - I'm thinking 638 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:18,090 maybe like a garden party, you know 639 00:21:18,110 --> 00:21:21,191 it's like a formal, we can do like black tie 640 00:21:21,211 --> 00:21:24,060 and then you can have flowers hanging here 641 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:25,080 and then the band can go over there 642 00:21:25,100 --> 00:21:26,110 - Uh-huh. 643 00:21:26,130 --> 00:21:28,070 and then a big dance floor over here 644 00:21:28,090 --> 00:21:30,021 and then some cocktail tables 645 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,060 like high top tables over here. 646 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:33,120 What do you think? 647 00:21:33,140 --> 00:21:34,231 And then we can just have some, you know 648 00:21:34,251 --> 00:21:35,181 if these people want to sit down and eat, that's fine. 649 00:21:35,201 --> 00:21:36,241 - Yeah. That'd be nice. 650 00:21:37,021 --> 00:21:38,151 - You know, I want you to have the best. 651 00:21:38,171 --> 00:21:40,151 We're all ready for you to retire. 652 00:21:40,171 --> 00:21:44,050 And everyone's so happy to see that you've finally given 653 00:21:44,070 --> 00:21:47,130 up the reins and want to relax a little bit. 654 00:21:47,221 --> 00:21:50,231 - Yes. I know my kids love me. They want me to relax. 655 00:21:51,231 --> 00:21:53,211 But I don't feel... I'm not ready. 656 00:21:55,171 --> 00:21:57,181 - Okay. It's just- 657 00:21:57,201 --> 00:21:58,251 - Well, I'll tell you what. My daughter, 658 00:21:59,030 --> 00:22:00,221 she just got divorced. 659 00:22:01,130 --> 00:22:05,060 So she needs time to stabilize her life. 660 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:08,231 And with my son, it looks like he's immature. 661 00:22:08,251 --> 00:22:11,181 I gave him the chance, to handle some business 662 00:22:12,050 --> 00:22:14,181 but I don't see any good yet. 663 00:22:15,021 --> 00:22:17,191 So I don't think he's ready yet. 664 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:21,060 - This whole family is dependent upon the family business. 665 00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:25,030 So where does that lead us for the Ho family future? 666 00:22:25,050 --> 00:22:26,211 So what does this mean then? 667 00:22:26,231 --> 00:22:31,080 So you have doubts on your retirement? 668 00:22:31,100 --> 00:22:33,120 - I know you help my son a lot. 669 00:22:33,140 --> 00:22:34,130 - Yeah. 670 00:22:34,151 --> 00:22:35,241 You share with him all the problems 671 00:22:36,021 --> 00:22:40,030 and your share with him on the work here and the build up. 672 00:22:40,181 --> 00:22:41,110 But to me 673 00:22:42,241 --> 00:22:45,140 I wait for someday when my son and my daughter are ready. 674 00:22:45,161 --> 00:22:47,021 And I turn it over. 675 00:22:47,161 --> 00:22:49,130 But my kids are not ready. 676 00:22:49,151 --> 00:22:51,191 They need to show me they are ready. 677 00:22:52,030 --> 00:22:54,181 I'm sorry, but not right now. 678 00:22:54,201 --> 00:22:55,191 - But you're almost 80. 679 00:22:55,211 --> 00:22:58,021 Don't you think you should relax? 680 00:22:58,040 --> 00:22:59,140 - Don't know 681 00:23:00,021 --> 00:23:00,080 - Okay. 682 00:23:01,110 --> 00:23:03,060 My father-in-law confirmed what I feel 683 00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:06,050 like I've known in my heart all along 684 00:23:06,070 --> 00:23:07,171 that there are certain characteristics 685 00:23:07,191 --> 00:23:11,080 that Washington hasn't developed yet to run a whole company. 686 00:23:11,100 --> 00:23:13,130 It kind of woke up something in me. 687 00:23:13,151 --> 00:23:17,021 You know that I've also been ignoring these issues as well. 688 00:23:19,060 --> 00:23:21,231 (acoustic guitar) 689 00:23:21,251 --> 00:23:23,221 [Judy] This is nice. 690 00:23:24,060 --> 00:23:26,181 [Nate] Thanks. That's where I go to after work every day 691 00:23:26,201 --> 00:23:26,221 - Yeah? 692 00:23:28,030 --> 00:23:29,140 Is this what it's like living in Sugarland? 693 00:23:29,161 --> 00:23:30,100 (laughter) 694 00:23:30,120 --> 00:23:31,151 - It is like this, quiet. 695 00:23:31,171 --> 00:23:32,211 - One of the best Suburbs - No cars. 696 00:23:32,231 --> 00:23:33,221 in Houston. 697 00:23:33,241 --> 00:23:35,090 - Number four, I think. - Oh, 698 00:23:35,110 --> 00:23:36,251 - but it's so different from where I live. 699 00:23:37,030 --> 00:23:38,241 It takes some adjusting for a city girl. 700 00:23:39,030 --> 00:23:40,151 (laughter) 701 00:23:40,171 --> 00:23:42,060 - This isn't exactly the country, we have- 702 00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:43,161 - Um, compared to where I live, 703 00:23:43,181 --> 00:23:44,151 This is the country. 704 00:23:44,171 --> 00:23:46,110 - And it's nice and quiet here. 705 00:23:46,130 --> 00:23:48,201 - And my parents and my brother don't live a block away 706 00:23:48,221 --> 00:23:51,021 - And then come to your house anytime and knock on the door 707 00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:52,251 and say, if you're ready for dinner, yeah. 708 00:23:53,030 --> 00:23:54,090 - Are you worried? 709 00:23:54,110 --> 00:23:56,080 If you're over there he'll just show up suddenly? 710 00:23:56,100 --> 00:23:56,221 - Does he do that? 711 00:23:56,241 --> 00:23:58,050 (laughter) 712 00:23:58,070 --> 00:23:59,151 - You think my parents just show up at my house. 713 00:23:59,171 --> 00:24:00,231 Yes babe. 714 00:24:00,251 --> 00:24:04,110 Nate does not know what he's getting into, poor guy. 715 00:24:05,120 --> 00:24:07,050 I mean he has the master key. 716 00:24:07,070 --> 00:24:08,021 - Okay. Well now I'm worried about it. 717 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:08,221 I wasn't worried about it. 718 00:24:08,241 --> 00:24:10,110 Three minutes ago. 719 00:24:10,130 --> 00:24:13,140 - I tried to warn Nate before he started dating me. 720 00:24:13,161 --> 00:24:16,161 That being a part of this family is not easy. 721 00:24:16,181 --> 00:24:19,181 It's very complicated, but you know, when you're 722 00:24:19,201 --> 00:24:22,201 in love, you just don't think straight. 723 00:24:22,221 --> 00:24:24,151 - So how do you feel about Sugarland now? 724 00:24:24,171 --> 00:24:25,171 (laughter) 725 00:24:25,191 --> 00:24:26,221 They can't walk over here with a key. 726 00:24:27,130 --> 00:24:28,171 - Yeah. They'd have to drive. 727 00:24:28,191 --> 00:24:30,090 - Right? How would you feel if 728 00:24:30,110 --> 00:24:31,251 I ended up living there with you 729 00:24:32,030 --> 00:24:33,211 in the future or... 730 00:24:33,231 --> 00:24:35,030 - I wouldn't want that. 731 00:24:35,050 --> 00:24:35,161 - You wouldn't want that? 732 00:24:35,181 --> 00:24:36,040 - No. 733 00:24:36,060 --> 00:24:36,241 - Why? 734 00:24:37,021 --> 00:24:37,201 Because your dad owns it. 735 00:24:37,221 --> 00:24:38,251 - Yeah. - I agree. 736 00:24:39,030 --> 00:24:41,040 - I'm so indebted to him. - Right. 737 00:24:41,060 --> 00:24:43,161 - And he's not afraid of reminding me of that. 738 00:24:43,181 --> 00:24:44,040 - Right. 739 00:24:45,120 --> 00:24:48,151 - It's complicated being part of my family, 740 00:24:48,171 --> 00:24:50,251 even someone in Lesley's position 741 00:24:51,030 --> 00:24:55,251 you kind of just get solely sucked into this life. 742 00:24:56,030 --> 00:24:57,090 - What do you mean about that? Like- 743 00:24:57,110 --> 00:25:00,080 - Like had her own career, very independent. 744 00:25:00,100 --> 00:25:02,171 But even now, like she's in, almost in the same position 745 00:25:02,191 --> 00:25:05,030 as me. Where you're like living in this 746 00:25:05,050 --> 00:25:09,140 life that is almost totally dependent on him. 747 00:25:09,161 --> 00:25:11,151 And that he has a say in everything that's going on 748 00:25:11,171 --> 00:25:12,090 in your life. 749 00:25:14,161 --> 00:25:17,130 [Judy] So then why are you telling me all this? 750 00:25:17,191 --> 00:25:19,060 - One day I will tell all my kids, 751 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,100 but you're the first one I'm telling, 752 00:25:21,120 --> 00:25:23,181 Because I love you and I trust you 753 00:25:23,201 --> 00:25:27,070 and I believe that you can help Washington a lot. 754 00:25:27,090 --> 00:25:29,030 - Okay. But I feel like, 755 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,040 I feel like there's only so much I can do. 756 00:25:32,130 --> 00:25:35,070 - Tell you what, if you take care of him well, 757 00:25:35,090 --> 00:25:36,110 - Mm-hmm. 758 00:25:36,130 --> 00:25:38,100 you have him grow up and be more mature 759 00:25:38,120 --> 00:25:39,140 - Mm-hmm 760 00:25:39,161 --> 00:25:43,040 and I might be ready to retire faster. 761 00:25:43,120 --> 00:25:44,161 - Really is the whole future 762 00:25:44,181 --> 00:25:47,060 of the Ho family on my shoulders? 763 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,030 I have no idea how to turn Washington 764 00:25:49,050 --> 00:25:51,130 into a respectable businessman. 765 00:25:51,151 --> 00:25:52,241 Well, that's a lot on me. 766 00:25:54,070 --> 00:25:56,140 - Yes. But you are now part of family. 767 00:25:56,161 --> 00:25:57,171 - Okay. 768 00:25:57,191 --> 00:25:59,110 - So you're responsible for them, too. 769 00:26:01,070 --> 00:26:02,060 - Okay. 770 00:26:03,021 --> 00:26:04,151 (acoustic guitar) 771 00:26:04,171 --> 00:26:06,211 [Judy] We don't just have a typical 772 00:26:06,231 --> 00:26:09,140 parent-child relationship where I'm like, 773 00:26:09,161 --> 00:26:11,090 "Hi Mom and Dad, I'm coming over for dinner." 774 00:26:11,110 --> 00:26:14,140 It's more like, it's almost transactional. 775 00:26:15,060 --> 00:26:16,040 It's like a drug. 776 00:26:16,060 --> 00:26:17,100 Right. You know what I mean? 777 00:26:17,120 --> 00:26:19,130 You start with something little. 778 00:26:19,151 --> 00:26:20,110 Oh yeah, 779 00:26:20,130 --> 00:26:21,171 I'll pay for your wedding. 780 00:26:21,191 --> 00:26:23,070 The next thing you know is 781 00:26:23,090 --> 00:26:26,211 like, Oh, I'll help you put a down payment on your house. 782 00:26:26,231 --> 00:26:27,221 - You know-- 783 00:26:27,241 --> 00:26:28,231 I'll help you with your business. 784 00:26:28,251 --> 00:26:30,140 I'll help you in the next property. 785 00:26:30,161 --> 00:26:32,100 I'll get it. Help you get a loan. 786 00:26:32,120 --> 00:26:34,181 - But you know the good thing is I feel 787 00:26:34,201 --> 00:26:35,251 very independent from that. 788 00:26:36,030 --> 00:26:37,171 I don't need any of that, because I have 789 00:26:37,191 --> 00:26:39,181 my own house, my own business, 790 00:26:39,201 --> 00:26:43,161 you know, it's always been independent on my own. 791 00:26:43,181 --> 00:26:44,221 - And I don't want you to change. 792 00:26:44,241 --> 00:26:45,191 - Right. 793 00:26:45,211 --> 00:26:47,040 - That's what I love about you. 794 00:26:47,060 --> 00:26:49,251 The fact that you are independent, I was born into it. 795 00:26:50,030 --> 00:26:50,211 - Mm-hmm 796 00:26:50,231 --> 00:26:52,100 So I've grown up this way. 797 00:26:52,120 --> 00:26:53,151 - Right. 798 00:26:53,171 --> 00:26:57,080 - But I don't want you to get sucked into that. 799 00:26:57,100 --> 00:27:00,090 I am beholden to my family. 800 00:27:00,110 --> 00:27:04,171 I'm trapped by my dad's obsessive sense 801 00:27:04,191 --> 00:27:06,211 of like, I want to control everything that happens 802 00:27:06,231 --> 00:27:08,021 in my children's lives. 803 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:09,070 But at the same time I live 804 00:27:09,090 --> 00:27:10,211 in a two and a half million dollar house. 805 00:27:10,231 --> 00:27:12,050 Anybody looking in would be 806 00:27:12,070 --> 00:27:13,130 like, Oh, what is there to complain 807 00:27:13,151 --> 00:27:15,050 about? But inside looking 808 00:27:15,070 --> 00:27:18,181 out, you realize, Oh, you're in handcuffs. 809 00:27:18,201 --> 00:27:22,161 But being with Nate makes me hopeful for my future. 810 00:27:22,181 --> 00:27:25,110 Just can't believe we're finally here. 811 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:27,100 - That we're together. 812 00:27:27,120 --> 00:27:29,040 - Yeah. It's a long journey 813 00:27:29,060 --> 00:27:31,161 and definitely not the straight path. 814 00:27:32,201 --> 00:27:33,151 We should have some champagne. 815 00:27:33,171 --> 00:27:34,120 - We should. 816 00:27:34,140 --> 00:27:35,080 - And you got strawberries. 817 00:27:35,100 --> 00:27:36,060 - I did. 818 00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:37,241 I heard you like strawberries. 819 00:27:38,021 --> 00:27:39,040 - I like cherries better, 820 00:27:39,060 --> 00:27:40,021 but they're not in season. 821 00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:40,191 - You like cherries. 822 00:27:40,211 --> 00:27:42,161 - Make it happen, Nate! 823 00:27:42,181 --> 00:27:43,221 - The cherries? 824 00:27:43,241 --> 00:27:46,110 - Yeah, make cherries happen out of season. 825 00:27:46,130 --> 00:27:47,100 If I said that to my dad 826 00:27:47,120 --> 00:27:48,181 he'd have like a cherry orchard- 827 00:27:48,201 --> 00:27:50,040 - He'll do it! He'll do it. - Yeah. 828 00:27:50,060 --> 00:27:51,090 In the backyard the next day. - A cherry orchard. 829 00:27:51,110 --> 00:27:53,021 - A cherry orchard would be planted. 830 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,171 - I don't know what your dad does, but I can't do that. 831 00:27:55,191 --> 00:27:57,030 (laughter) 832 00:27:57,050 --> 00:27:58,040 - Cheers. 833 00:27:58,060 --> 00:28:01,021 - To 2020, a new decade, for both of us. 834 00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:02,021 - I think so, this is gonna be a good year for us. 835 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,201 ♪All I think about is you ♪ 836 00:28:04,221 --> 00:28:09,021 ♪ And I feel the day finally ♪ 837 00:28:12,070 --> 00:28:14,070 ♪ Mine ♪ 838 00:28:24,050 --> 00:28:27,021 (rockabilly music) 839 00:28:27,181 --> 00:28:28,211 ♪ Make it rain ♪ 840 00:28:28,231 --> 00:28:29,211 ♪ Make it rain ♪ 841 00:28:29,231 --> 00:28:31,021 ♪ I don't care ♪ 842 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:34,211 ♪ Cuz' it's all the same ♪ 843 00:28:34,231 --> 00:28:36,241 ♪ Imma make the best of any situation ♪ 844 00:28:37,021 --> 00:28:37,191 ♪ Make it rain ♪ 845 00:28:37,211 --> 00:28:38,241 ♪ Make it rain ♪ 846 00:28:39,021 --> 00:28:39,231 ♪ I don't care ♪ 847 00:28:39,251 --> 00:28:44,030 ♪ Imma be happy ♪ 848 00:28:44,050 --> 00:28:47,221 ♪ No, you can never rain on me ♪