1 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:07,000 [music] 2 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:11,980 ♪ Can't nobody hold me down ♪ 3 00:00:12,020 --> 00:00:13,205 ♪ I'm steady walking 4 00:00:13,245 --> 00:00:13,980 like I got ♪ 5 00:00:14,020 --> 00:00:14,826 ♪ Three commas 6 00:00:14,866 --> 00:00:15,980 in my bank account ♪ 7 00:00:16,020 --> 00:00:17,160 ♪ Living loud ♪ 8 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:18,980 ♪ So get your cameras out ♪ 9 00:00:19,020 --> 00:00:20,984 ♪ I probably do the same thing 10 00:00:21,024 --> 00:00:21,980 if I was you ♪ 11 00:00:22,020 --> 00:00:24,000 ♪ Looking at me now, now ♪ 12 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:26,980 ♪ Hmm ♪ 13 00:00:27,020 --> 00:00:28,980 ♪ Put up your lights ♪ 14 00:00:29,020 --> 00:00:32,000 ♪ And keep them flashin' ♪ 15 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:35,650 ♪ Don't ever put them down 16 00:00:35,690 --> 00:00:36,980 down, down ♪ 17 00:00:37,020 --> 00:00:37,980 ♪ Look at me now ♪ 18 00:00:38,020 --> 00:00:40,000 [music] 19 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:43,980 ♪ Oh ♪ 20 00:00:44,020 --> 00:00:44,980 ♪ Everybody go ♪ 21 00:00:45,020 --> 00:00:45,980 ♪ Oh ♪ 22 00:00:46,020 --> 00:00:47,980 ♪ Everybody go ♪ 23 00:00:48,020 --> 00:00:48,980 ♪ Oh ♪ 24 00:00:49,020 --> 00:00:52,980 ♪ Everybody go down ♪ 25 00:00:53,020 --> 00:00:53,980 ♪ Oh ♪ 26 00:00:54,020 --> 00:00:54,980 ♪ Everybody go ♪ 27 00:00:55,020 --> 00:00:55,980 ♪ Oh ♪ 28 00:00:56,020 --> 00:00:56,980 ♪ Everybody go ♪ 29 00:00:57,020 --> 00:00:58,980 ♪ Oh ♪ 30 00:00:59,020 --> 00:01:01,980 ♪ Everybody go down ♪ 31 00:01:02,020 --> 00:01:04,980 ♪ Every night is a holiday ♪ 32 00:01:05,020 --> 00:01:05,720 - You ready to go 33 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:06,980 Christmas shopping, Ho style? 34 00:01:07,020 --> 00:01:08,980 [laughs] 35 00:01:09,020 --> 00:01:11,980 ♪ Sing it out, loud ♪ 36 00:01:12,020 --> 00:01:12,555 - I don't like flying 37 00:01:12,595 --> 00:01:13,555 on small planes. 38 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:15,560 [exclaims] I need a Xanax. 39 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:16,960 - You didn't take one before? 40 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:17,480 - No. 41 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:17,980 - Oh. 42 00:01:18,020 --> 00:01:18,980 - I'm fine on planes, 43 00:01:19,020 --> 00:01:20,520 just not the little ones. 44 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:22,980 - We haven't even gone up yet. 45 00:01:23,020 --> 00:01:24,320 This is part of the contract 46 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:24,980 of being a Ho. 47 00:01:25,020 --> 00:01:26,254 You have to be able 48 00:01:26,294 --> 00:01:27,980 to withstand private jets. 49 00:01:28,020 --> 00:01:28,980 Mom, she's gonna throw up. 50 00:01:29,020 --> 00:01:29,980 Give me the Chanel bag. 51 00:01:30,020 --> 00:01:31,980 God forbid my Hermes. 52 00:01:32,020 --> 00:01:33,098 - I'm not gonna throw up, 53 00:01:33,138 --> 00:01:33,980 I just have anxiety. 54 00:01:34,020 --> 00:01:34,980 - Oh, okay. 55 00:01:35,020 --> 00:01:35,328 You look like 56 00:01:35,368 --> 00:01:35,980 you're about to throw up. 57 00:01:36,020 --> 00:01:37,341 - No. I have anxiety. 58 00:01:37,381 --> 00:01:37,980 - Oh okay. 59 00:01:38,020 --> 00:01:38,951 We'll be fine. 60 00:01:38,991 --> 00:01:40,000 - Stop talking. 61 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:41,980 One hour there and then one hour 62 00:01:42,020 --> 00:01:42,980 of eating and shopping? 63 00:01:43,020 --> 00:01:43,815 - If you go down, 64 00:01:43,855 --> 00:01:44,980 I'm going down with you. 65 00:01:45,020 --> 00:01:46,980 Does that make you feel better? 66 00:01:47,020 --> 00:01:47,980 - No, Judy. 67 00:01:48,020 --> 00:01:49,980 - You eat some food? 68 00:01:50,020 --> 00:01:50,980 - No, I don't want to eat. 69 00:01:51,020 --> 00:01:51,814 - Do you want champagne? 70 00:01:51,854 --> 00:01:51,980 - No. 71 00:01:52,020 --> 00:01:52,735 - Tequila shot? 72 00:01:52,775 --> 00:01:53,275 - No. 73 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,000 - She'll be okay. 74 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:57,542 - Lesley. 75 00:01:57,582 --> 00:01:57,980 - What? 76 00:01:58,020 --> 00:01:59,880 - Did you put your seatbelt on? 77 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:01,980 - No. Am I supposed to? 78 00:02:02,020 --> 00:02:04,980 ♪ Everybody go down ♪ 79 00:02:05,020 --> 00:02:06,980 - Cheers, Mom. 80 00:02:07,020 --> 00:02:07,980 - Jesus Christ. 81 00:02:08,020 --> 00:02:09,980 ♪ Woah ♪ 82 00:02:10,020 --> 00:02:10,980 ♪ Yeah, woah, oh, oh ♪ 83 00:02:11,020 --> 00:02:11,980 ♪ Woah ♪ 84 00:02:12,020 --> 00:02:13,980 ♪ Yeah, woah, oh, oh ♪ 85 00:02:14,020 --> 00:02:14,980 ♪ Woah ♪ 86 00:02:15,020 --> 00:02:16,980 - Welcome to Dallas. 87 00:02:17,020 --> 00:02:18,980 - Cheers to Dallas. 88 00:02:19,020 --> 00:02:20,980 ♪ If you feel it in your soul ♪ 89 00:02:21,020 --> 00:02:22,980 - So nice seeing you again. 90 00:02:23,020 --> 00:02:23,416 - Oh, good to see you. 91 00:02:23,456 --> 00:02:23,980 - Our Houston girls are here. 92 00:02:24,020 --> 00:02:25,860 - You look fabulous. 93 00:02:25,900 --> 00:02:26,980 - Thank you. 94 00:02:27,020 --> 00:02:27,918 - One of our favorite 95 00:02:27,958 --> 00:02:28,980 things to do as a family 96 00:02:29,020 --> 00:02:29,922 around the holidays is 97 00:02:29,962 --> 00:02:31,462 to have a girls' day out. 98 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:33,980 Go shopping, have champagne. 99 00:02:34,020 --> 00:02:34,650 Life as a Ho 100 00:02:34,690 --> 00:02:36,130 has a lot of advantages. 101 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:39,980 ♪ Let it let it ring out ♪ 102 00:02:40,020 --> 00:02:40,980 What do you think? 103 00:02:41,020 --> 00:02:41,980 - It's fabulous. 104 00:02:42,020 --> 00:02:42,980 - Lesley. 105 00:02:43,020 --> 00:02:44,760 This is Lesley Ho right here. 106 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:45,980 - That says Judy Ho. 107 00:02:46,020 --> 00:02:47,157 - No. I think this will look... 108 00:02:47,197 --> 00:02:47,980 - It's shiny and gold. 109 00:02:48,020 --> 00:02:48,980 ...so good on you. 110 00:02:49,020 --> 00:02:50,159 - I'm still learning 111 00:02:50,199 --> 00:02:50,980 what it's like 112 00:02:51,020 --> 00:02:52,045 to be married into a family 113 00:02:52,085 --> 00:02:52,980 with this kind of money. 114 00:02:53,020 --> 00:02:54,941 - This is Oscar de la Renta. 115 00:02:54,981 --> 00:02:55,980 It's very cute. 116 00:02:56,020 --> 00:02:56,959 - When they can spend 117 00:02:56,999 --> 00:02:57,980 whatever they want to, 118 00:02:58,020 --> 00:02:59,127 they don't even look 119 00:02:59,167 --> 00:02:59,980 at a price tag. 120 00:03:00,020 --> 00:03:00,325 They always hide 121 00:03:00,365 --> 00:03:01,960 the sale section in the corner. 122 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:02,960 When I was younger, 123 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:04,014 we really scraped 124 00:03:04,054 --> 00:03:04,980 for our pennies, 125 00:03:05,020 --> 00:03:05,986 and we always looked 126 00:03:06,026 --> 00:03:06,980 for sales and deals. 127 00:03:07,020 --> 00:03:07,984 Where's Judy? 128 00:03:08,024 --> 00:03:08,980 - Over there. 129 00:03:09,020 --> 00:03:09,559 - Of course. 130 00:03:09,599 --> 00:03:09,980 - Uh-hmm. 131 00:03:10,020 --> 00:03:10,929 - She never goes 132 00:03:10,969 --> 00:03:11,980 to the sale first. 133 00:03:12,020 --> 00:03:12,986 - I know. She does-- 134 00:03:13,026 --> 00:03:13,980 she doesn't like it. 135 00:03:14,020 --> 00:03:15,185 - Wastes money. 136 00:03:15,225 --> 00:03:15,980 - [laughs] 137 00:03:16,020 --> 00:03:18,980 ♪ If you feel it in your soul ♪ 138 00:03:19,020 --> 00:03:19,815 - Wow. Beautiful. 139 00:03:19,855 --> 00:03:20,980 - What do you think Mom? 140 00:03:21,020 --> 00:03:22,484 - Because it's shiny? 141 00:03:22,524 --> 00:03:22,980 - Yeah. 142 00:03:23,020 --> 00:03:24,980 Everybody look at you. 143 00:03:25,020 --> 00:03:25,461 - I know. 144 00:03:25,501 --> 00:03:25,980 - [laughs] 145 00:03:26,020 --> 00:03:27,219 - The dress that says 146 00:03:27,259 --> 00:03:27,980 "Look at me." 147 00:03:28,020 --> 00:03:28,980 - What are you wearing? 148 00:03:29,020 --> 00:03:30,980 - Silver sequins. 149 00:03:31,020 --> 00:03:31,980 - You look like a disco ball. 150 00:03:32,020 --> 00:03:33,205 - I like it. It's fun. 151 00:03:33,245 --> 00:03:33,980 - I love this. 152 00:03:34,020 --> 00:03:35,980 Yeah, it's, um, extra fun. 153 00:03:36,020 --> 00:03:37,980 - Yes. That's me. Extra fun. 154 00:03:38,020 --> 00:03:39,980 - I work so hard for my money. 155 00:03:40,020 --> 00:03:41,072 Just because you have it, 156 00:03:41,112 --> 00:03:41,980 doesn't mean you have 157 00:03:42,020 --> 00:03:42,980 to spend it like that. 158 00:03:43,020 --> 00:03:44,520 - I think that dress 159 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:45,980 is fabulous, girls. 160 00:03:46,020 --> 00:03:47,334 - You know what's fabulous? 161 00:03:47,374 --> 00:03:48,154 It's 75% off. 162 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:50,980 I like this fun over that fun. 163 00:03:51,020 --> 00:03:52,980 - I like this fun over that fun. 164 00:03:53,020 --> 00:03:55,000 [laughs] 165 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:59,000 [music] 166 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:03,000 Look at my mom. 167 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:07,980 - I can't get out of my brain 168 00:04:08,020 --> 00:04:09,036 that my mother-in-law 169 00:04:09,076 --> 00:04:09,980 called me a tyrant. 170 00:04:10,020 --> 00:04:11,151 - You know, I think Washington's 171 00:04:11,191 --> 00:04:11,980 been talking to my mom, 172 00:04:12,020 --> 00:04:12,742 because she told me 173 00:04:12,782 --> 00:04:14,642 that she thinks you're a tyrant 174 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:15,980 when it comes to Wash. 175 00:04:16,020 --> 00:04:16,980 - Me? 176 00:04:17,020 --> 00:04:19,401 But I wish Wash would explain 177 00:04:19,441 --> 00:04:20,980 to my mother-in-law 178 00:04:21,020 --> 00:04:23,980 how hard I work to be his wife. 179 00:04:24,020 --> 00:04:24,473 - JUDY: How'd you like that 180 00:04:24,513 --> 00:04:24,980 flying to Dallas for the day 181 00:04:25,020 --> 00:04:25,980 to go shopping? 182 00:04:26,020 --> 00:04:27,980 - It's great. 183 00:04:28,020 --> 00:04:28,738 I love Dallas. 184 00:04:28,778 --> 00:04:29,980 I would live in Dallas. 185 00:04:30,020 --> 00:04:30,578 - Do you think Washington 186 00:04:30,618 --> 00:04:30,980 would move there? 187 00:04:31,020 --> 00:04:31,980 - He said he would. 188 00:04:32,020 --> 00:04:33,980 - What's stopping him? 189 00:04:34,020 --> 00:04:35,678 - Mom and Dad, kind of 190 00:04:35,718 --> 00:04:37,000 holding him back. 191 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:38,980 - So that means he wouldn't go? 192 00:04:39,020 --> 00:04:40,000 - Not right now. 193 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:41,980 - Yeah. 194 00:04:42,020 --> 00:04:42,980 In fairness to Washington, 195 00:04:43,020 --> 00:04:43,908 I do believe 196 00:04:43,948 --> 00:04:45,980 that the amount of pressure 197 00:04:46,020 --> 00:04:46,894 that Washington 198 00:04:46,934 --> 00:04:47,980 has grown up with, 199 00:04:48,020 --> 00:04:48,826 the expectations 200 00:04:48,866 --> 00:04:49,980 that are placed on him 201 00:04:50,020 --> 00:04:50,980 as the oldest son, 202 00:04:51,020 --> 00:04:51,980 that he's struggling too. 203 00:04:52,020 --> 00:04:52,980 I feel like Washington needs 204 00:04:53,020 --> 00:04:54,040 that fresh start. 205 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:55,827 He's always 206 00:04:55,867 --> 00:04:57,980 in my dad's shadow, forever. 207 00:04:58,020 --> 00:04:58,843 My dad has made 208 00:04:58,883 --> 00:04:59,980 his name in Houston. 209 00:05:00,020 --> 00:05:00,275 Washington 210 00:05:00,315 --> 00:05:00,980 will never outgrow that, 211 00:05:01,020 --> 00:05:02,980 unless he goes out on his own. 212 00:05:03,020 --> 00:05:03,400 - I don't think 213 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:04,700 he should outgrow it. 214 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:05,705 I-I think he's just trying 215 00:05:05,745 --> 00:05:05,980 to live up 216 00:05:06,020 --> 00:05:07,980 to your Dad's expectations. 217 00:05:08,020 --> 00:05:08,377 - But to live up 218 00:05:08,417 --> 00:05:08,980 to my dad's expectations, 219 00:05:09,020 --> 00:05:10,131 he would need to get out 220 00:05:10,171 --> 00:05:10,980 of my dad's shadow 221 00:05:11,020 --> 00:05:11,980 and make his own mark. 222 00:05:12,020 --> 00:05:12,980 - You think Wash isn't ready 223 00:05:13,020 --> 00:05:14,980 to go off on his own? He's not. 224 00:05:15,020 --> 00:05:16,018 - Not necessarily 225 00:05:16,058 --> 00:05:16,980 that he's ready, 226 00:05:17,020 --> 00:05:17,980 but that he needs to, 227 00:05:18,020 --> 00:05:18,980 you know what I mean? 228 00:05:19,020 --> 00:05:20,044 Him waiting around 229 00:05:20,084 --> 00:05:20,980 till he's ready? 230 00:05:21,020 --> 00:05:21,980 That could be forever. 231 00:05:22,020 --> 00:05:24,980 - Well, I'm-I'm-I'm-- 232 00:05:25,020 --> 00:05:25,980 I just need a minute. 233 00:05:26,020 --> 00:05:28,000 [music] 234 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:47,980 [yelling] 235 00:05:48,020 --> 00:05:49,160 - You want cracker? 236 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:52,980 - Use two hands. Two hands. 237 00:05:53,020 --> 00:05:53,545 No, don't touch it, 238 00:05:53,585 --> 00:05:53,980 don't touch it. 239 00:05:54,020 --> 00:05:55,760 You're gonna ruin your nails. 240 00:05:58,000 --> 00:05:58,767 There you go. Perfect. 241 00:05:58,807 --> 00:05:58,980 - Mom. 242 00:05:59,020 --> 00:05:59,868 - A Ho Christmas is 243 00:05:59,908 --> 00:06:00,980 like a month-long event. 244 00:06:01,020 --> 00:06:02,382 I mean you got the caviar, 245 00:06:02,422 --> 00:06:03,980 you got the champagne flowing, 246 00:06:04,020 --> 00:06:04,980 lobster. 247 00:06:05,020 --> 00:06:05,818 It's beautiful. 248 00:06:05,858 --> 00:06:06,980 Everything's amazing. 249 00:06:07,020 --> 00:06:08,049 Why am I reaching 250 00:06:08,089 --> 00:06:08,980 into a hot pot? 251 00:06:09,020 --> 00:06:10,137 - You said you wanted learn 252 00:06:10,177 --> 00:06:11,377 how to cook lobster. 253 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:12,980 - The only thing missing 254 00:06:13,020 --> 00:06:14,980 is my family back in Oklahoma. 255 00:06:15,020 --> 00:06:17,980 - [speaks Vietnamese] 256 00:06:18,020 --> 00:06:20,000 Only if you approve, Aunt Tina. 257 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:21,530 I don't know what time 258 00:06:21,570 --> 00:06:21,980 you started today, 259 00:06:22,020 --> 00:06:23,571 but you know you're 260 00:06:23,611 --> 00:06:24,980 thirsty. (laughs) 261 00:06:25,020 --> 00:06:25,841 - I used to have a 262 00:06:25,881 --> 00:06:26,980 liquor store in the 80s. 263 00:06:27,020 --> 00:06:27,933 I drink everything 264 00:06:27,973 --> 00:06:28,980 in the liquor store, 265 00:06:29,020 --> 00:06:29,980 every single one, I try it. 266 00:06:30,020 --> 00:06:31,980 Beer, liquor, wine, even the MD, 267 00:06:32,020 --> 00:06:33,520 you know, those kind of 268 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:34,980 crazy, Mad Dog, thing. 269 00:06:35,020 --> 00:06:35,980 - There's some wine. 270 00:06:36,020 --> 00:06:36,980 - One thing I know, 271 00:06:37,020 --> 00:06:38,980 after I drink a lot, 272 00:06:39,020 --> 00:06:40,561 the best way is I eat 273 00:06:40,601 --> 00:06:42,000 a real good banana. 274 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:45,076 It's not green, 275 00:06:45,116 --> 00:06:47,000 but it's just nice banana. 276 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:50,000 - [speaks Vietnamese] 277 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:53,980 Hmm. That's the best lobster 278 00:06:54,020 --> 00:06:54,653 - I've ever had. 279 00:06:54,693 --> 00:06:54,980 - Thanks 280 00:06:55,020 --> 00:06:56,414 - for helping me make it. 281 00:06:56,454 --> 00:06:56,980 - So good. 282 00:06:57,020 --> 00:06:58,039 - Hey Ma look, this 283 00:06:58,079 --> 00:06:58,980 lobster's female. 284 00:06:59,020 --> 00:06:59,980 That's good, right? 285 00:07:00,020 --> 00:07:00,980 - Yeah. 286 00:07:01,020 --> 00:07:02,980 - In VIetnam female lobsters 287 00:07:03,020 --> 00:07:03,929 supposedly tastes better 288 00:07:03,969 --> 00:07:04,980 because you have the uterus 289 00:07:05,020 --> 00:07:05,980 and the eggs. 290 00:07:06,020 --> 00:07:07,173 And if they have eggs, 291 00:07:07,213 --> 00:07:07,980 it's good luck. 292 00:07:08,020 --> 00:07:08,523 The eggs don't taste 293 00:07:08,563 --> 00:07:08,980 that great to me. 294 00:07:09,020 --> 00:07:09,620 - You-you're not putting 295 00:07:09,660 --> 00:07:10,500 enough butter. 296 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:11,647 - On the eggs? 297 00:07:11,687 --> 00:07:11,980 - Yeah. 298 00:07:12,020 --> 00:07:13,083 - Supposedly, it's the first 299 00:07:13,123 --> 00:07:13,980 thing that's picked off 300 00:07:14,020 --> 00:07:15,980 of from the Asian supermarket. 301 00:07:16,020 --> 00:07:18,047 So for us to find 302 00:07:18,087 --> 00:07:19,980 a female lobster 303 00:07:20,020 --> 00:07:20,803 that's good luck 304 00:07:20,843 --> 00:07:21,980 because it's-it's rare. 305 00:07:22,020 --> 00:07:22,555 - And you look at it, 306 00:07:22,595 --> 00:07:22,980 how can you know 307 00:07:23,020 --> 00:07:23,980 it's a male or female? 308 00:07:24,020 --> 00:07:25,412 - For a lobster? I don't know. 309 00:07:25,452 --> 00:07:25,980 - [chuckles] 310 00:07:26,020 --> 00:07:27,980 - When you look in the tank, 311 00:07:28,020 --> 00:07:28,980 if the one looking at you 312 00:07:29,020 --> 00:07:29,980 it looks like it don't like you 313 00:07:30,020 --> 00:07:30,980 that means jealous 314 00:07:31,020 --> 00:07:32,980 that means it's female. 315 00:07:33,020 --> 00:07:33,449 But it one looks at 316 00:07:33,489 --> 00:07:33,980 you like it likes you, 317 00:07:34,020 --> 00:07:34,980 that's a male. 318 00:07:35,020 --> 00:07:36,980 - Oh. 319 00:07:37,020 --> 00:07:37,980 - I love females 320 00:07:38,020 --> 00:07:39,980 when it comes to-to food. 321 00:07:40,020 --> 00:07:41,005 - Washington always likes 322 00:07:41,045 --> 00:07:41,980 females, no matter what. 323 00:07:42,020 --> 00:07:44,000 [laughter] 324 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:45,980 - What about the soup, Mom? 325 00:07:46,020 --> 00:07:46,650 - You want it? 326 00:07:46,690 --> 00:07:46,980 - Yeah. 327 00:07:47,020 --> 00:07:48,233 - I'll get you some. 328 00:07:48,273 --> 00:07:48,980 - I love it. 329 00:07:49,020 --> 00:07:49,448 - Yeah, I love soup. 330 00:07:49,488 --> 00:07:49,980 - Give me the first one 331 00:07:50,020 --> 00:07:51,980 with all the chicken feet, okay? 332 00:07:52,020 --> 00:07:53,033 - Of course Washington 333 00:07:53,073 --> 00:07:54,273 gets the first bowl. 334 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:55,980 Of course. 335 00:07:56,020 --> 00:07:56,542 - First son is the always 336 00:07:56,582 --> 00:07:57,782 the important thing. 337 00:07:58,000 --> 00:07:58,903 - I can't help it, 338 00:07:58,943 --> 00:07:59,980 that's just who I am. 339 00:08:00,020 --> 00:08:01,500 - It's an Asian thing. 340 00:08:01,540 --> 00:08:02,000 - Yeah. 341 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:03,980 - Asian tradition, 342 00:08:04,020 --> 00:08:04,985 my brother Binh Ho 343 00:08:05,025 --> 00:08:06,105 is the oldest boy, 344 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:07,895 he's the one carry on 345 00:08:07,935 --> 00:08:08,980 the legend of the family, 346 00:08:09,020 --> 00:08:10,259 and then the next 347 00:08:10,299 --> 00:08:11,980 one is have to be a boy 348 00:08:12,020 --> 00:08:13,716 of Binh Ho to carry 349 00:08:13,756 --> 00:08:14,980 on the legend. 350 00:08:15,020 --> 00:08:17,103 When Hue had Washington, 351 00:08:17,143 --> 00:08:17,980 oh my god. 352 00:08:18,020 --> 00:08:19,451 She feel like she's 353 00:08:19,491 --> 00:08:20,980 on top of the world, 354 00:08:21,020 --> 00:08:22,726 because she have a golden boy 355 00:08:22,766 --> 00:08:23,980 for the whole family. 356 00:08:24,020 --> 00:08:24,881 First son is only 357 00:08:24,921 --> 00:08:25,980 to carry on the name. 358 00:08:26,020 --> 00:08:27,056 The first son is always 359 00:08:27,096 --> 00:08:27,980 the important thing. 360 00:08:28,020 --> 00:08:28,539 - I know. That's why 361 00:08:28,579 --> 00:08:28,980 when I was born, 362 00:08:29,020 --> 00:08:30,980 I was a disappointment. 363 00:08:31,020 --> 00:08:32,584 My mom always says-- 364 00:08:32,624 --> 00:08:32,980 - No. 365 00:08:33,020 --> 00:08:34,451 Yeah. My mom always 366 00:08:34,491 --> 00:08:35,980 says my dad told her 367 00:08:36,020 --> 00:08:37,042 you can't stop having kids 368 00:08:37,082 --> 00:08:38,462 till you have two sons. 369 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:39,980 Is that true, Dad? 370 00:08:40,020 --> 00:08:40,980 - Hmm... 371 00:08:41,020 --> 00:08:41,980 - Yeah. 372 00:08:42,020 --> 00:08:44,000 [laughter] 373 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:44,960 If my parents had to choose 374 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:45,980 between me and Washington, 375 00:08:46,020 --> 00:08:46,458 they would choose 376 00:08:46,498 --> 00:08:46,980 Washington all day. 377 00:08:47,020 --> 00:08:48,605 And it's always been 378 00:08:48,645 --> 00:08:49,980 that way. [sighs] 379 00:08:50,020 --> 00:08:51,486 - You did a great job 380 00:08:51,526 --> 00:08:52,980 on that spread, Judy. 381 00:08:53,020 --> 00:08:54,040 - The cheese bar? 382 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:55,966 - That's definitely one thing 383 00:08:56,006 --> 00:08:56,980 that Judy does better than me. 384 00:08:57,020 --> 00:08:58,248 Some things that 385 00:08:58,288 --> 00:08:59,980 females are better at. 386 00:09:00,020 --> 00:09:00,431 - Having babies? 387 00:09:00,471 --> 00:09:00,980 - There's somethings 388 00:09:01,020 --> 00:09:01,980 that males are bet--yeah. 389 00:09:02,020 --> 00:09:03,980 - More than that, tennis. 390 00:09:04,020 --> 00:09:05,274 I'm pretty sure 391 00:09:05,314 --> 00:09:06,980 she can beat you up. 392 00:09:07,020 --> 00:09:07,980 - What? 393 00:09:08,020 --> 00:09:08,980 Are you kidding me? 394 00:09:09,020 --> 00:09:10,000 - Yeah. 395 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:14,000 - I think so. 396 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:16,288 - She's trying to 397 00:09:16,328 --> 00:09:17,980 mentally mess with me. 398 00:09:18,020 --> 00:09:18,980 - I'm not trying, I am. 399 00:09:19,020 --> 00:09:21,000 [laughter] 400 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:23,862 - There's only one way 401 00:09:23,902 --> 00:09:24,980 we're gonna figure this out. 402 00:09:25,020 --> 00:09:26,000 - Let's do this. 403 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:27,612 - Set it up. 404 00:09:27,652 --> 00:09:27,980 - Yeah. 405 00:09:28,020 --> 00:09:28,980 Washington challenged me 406 00:09:29,020 --> 00:09:29,980 to a tennis match. 407 00:09:30,020 --> 00:09:31,349 I've been putting up 408 00:09:31,389 --> 00:09:32,980 with his shit for years, 409 00:09:33,020 --> 00:09:33,980 he's just trying to prove like, 410 00:09:34,020 --> 00:09:35,929 that golden boy status 411 00:09:35,969 --> 00:09:36,980 is deserved. 412 00:09:37,020 --> 00:09:37,980 And if he's gonna challenge me, 413 00:09:38,020 --> 00:09:39,460 I'm not gonna back down. 414 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:42,057 - Honey, do I have any 415 00:09:42,097 --> 00:09:42,980 caviar in my teeth? 416 00:09:43,020 --> 00:09:43,980 - You have one at the bottom. 417 00:09:44,020 --> 00:09:44,980 - Right here? 418 00:09:45,020 --> 00:09:47,000 - Gross. 419 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:51,000 [music] 420 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:54,430 - So what's been going on, 421 00:09:54,470 --> 00:09:54,980 my friend? 422 00:09:55,020 --> 00:09:55,744 - Not much, Sir. 423 00:09:55,784 --> 00:09:56,980 Taking care of the family, 424 00:09:57,020 --> 00:09:57,980 Christmas shopping. 425 00:09:58,020 --> 00:10:00,000 - Christmas shopping? 426 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:01,980 - Where are we going, boss? 427 00:10:02,020 --> 00:10:02,980 - Let's head to the gym. 428 00:10:03,020 --> 00:10:03,455 But we got to go 429 00:10:03,495 --> 00:10:03,980 to my Mom's house. 430 00:10:04,020 --> 00:10:05,049 She has something 431 00:10:05,089 --> 00:10:05,980 waiting for me. 432 00:10:06,020 --> 00:10:07,303 Just trying to get 433 00:10:07,343 --> 00:10:08,980 my mental state of mind 434 00:10:09,020 --> 00:10:10,485 right before this, 435 00:10:10,525 --> 00:10:11,980 uh, upcoming match 436 00:10:12,020 --> 00:10:12,980 I have with Judy. 437 00:10:13,020 --> 00:10:14,980 You know, physically, 438 00:10:15,020 --> 00:10:15,562 Judy really doesn't 439 00:10:15,602 --> 00:10:15,980 have a chance, 440 00:10:16,020 --> 00:10:17,360 but she's been messing 441 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:18,980 with my head a lot lately, 442 00:10:19,020 --> 00:10:19,955 and, uh, the gym 443 00:10:19,995 --> 00:10:20,980 helps with focus. 444 00:10:21,020 --> 00:10:21,980 - Yes, Sir. 445 00:10:22,020 --> 00:10:24,000 - Beautiful day, huh? 446 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:26,980 Hey, Mom. 447 00:10:27,020 --> 00:10:27,980 - Good morning, Ma'am. 448 00:10:28,020 --> 00:10:28,980 - Hello. 449 00:10:29,020 --> 00:10:29,980 [speaks Vietnamese] 450 00:10:30,020 --> 00:10:31,980 - Yeah. I'm gonna go exercise. 451 00:10:32,020 --> 00:10:32,980 - I have three kids, 452 00:10:33,020 --> 00:10:34,980 but only Washington 453 00:10:35,020 --> 00:10:36,980 like the Vietnamese food, 454 00:10:37,020 --> 00:10:38,980 that makes me happy. 455 00:10:39,020 --> 00:10:39,980 - Just put it right here. 456 00:10:40,020 --> 00:10:40,980 - Okay, go ahead. 457 00:10:41,020 --> 00:10:42,347 - Thanks Mommy. 458 00:10:42,387 --> 00:10:42,980 - Okay. 459 00:10:43,020 --> 00:10:43,724 - Be good boy, okay? 460 00:10:43,764 --> 00:10:43,980 - Okay. 461 00:10:44,020 --> 00:10:44,535 - Exercise, okay? 462 00:10:44,575 --> 00:10:45,415 - Thanks, Mom. 463 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:47,098 - I love you. Okay. 464 00:10:47,138 --> 00:10:47,980 - Love you too. 465 00:10:48,020 --> 00:10:49,980 I'm 99.9% sure 466 00:10:50,020 --> 00:10:51,412 that my Mom loves me 467 00:10:51,452 --> 00:10:52,980 more than my siblings. 468 00:10:53,020 --> 00:10:54,456 Most people say, oh, you 469 00:10:54,496 --> 00:10:55,980 love Washington too much. 470 00:10:56,020 --> 00:10:56,980 You made him that. 471 00:10:57,020 --> 00:10:58,980 But you know, what? 472 00:10:59,020 --> 00:11:01,000 Who has fun being a good boy? 473 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:02,980 Being a bad boy is way more fun. 474 00:11:03,020 --> 00:11:03,505 - Have a nice day, Ma'am. 475 00:11:03,545 --> 00:11:03,980 - All right. Thank you. 476 00:11:04,020 --> 00:11:05,980 - Oh. She's so sweet, huh? 477 00:11:06,020 --> 00:11:06,548 - I love your mom, 478 00:11:06,588 --> 00:11:06,980 you know that. 479 00:11:07,020 --> 00:11:09,000 [music] 480 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:12,421 - You really do 481 00:11:12,461 --> 00:11:13,601 go all-out, Lesley. 482 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:15,620 - It's my favorite holiday. 483 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:16,419 It's the best time 484 00:11:16,459 --> 00:11:16,980 of the year, I love it. 485 00:11:17,020 --> 00:11:18,460 - No. Just for the kids. 486 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:20,003 If it were me, I'd just 487 00:11:20,043 --> 00:11:21,363 go to Cabo on vacation 488 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:22,980 and call it a day. 489 00:11:23,020 --> 00:11:23,958 - You had to move 490 00:11:23,998 --> 00:11:24,980 the ribbons, Judy. 491 00:11:25,020 --> 00:11:25,390 - What? I was 492 00:11:25,430 --> 00:11:25,980 making them better. 493 00:11:26,020 --> 00:11:27,980 - [sighs] How is that better? 494 00:11:28,020 --> 00:11:28,500 - It looks good. 495 00:11:28,540 --> 00:11:28,980 - Less is more. 496 00:11:29,020 --> 00:11:30,980 - You're definitely not a Ho. 497 00:11:31,020 --> 00:11:31,980 - Why? 498 00:11:32,020 --> 00:11:33,000 - More is more. 499 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:35,980 Do you think Wash would like it? 500 00:11:36,020 --> 00:11:36,894 - Yes. He loves 501 00:11:36,934 --> 00:11:37,980 everything I like. 502 00:11:38,020 --> 00:11:38,980 [chuckles] 503 00:11:39,020 --> 00:11:39,735 - Sure about that? 504 00:11:39,775 --> 00:11:40,275 - Yup. 505 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:41,980 - Okay. 506 00:11:42,020 --> 00:11:42,625 - He's been working out 507 00:11:42,665 --> 00:11:42,980 a lot lately. 508 00:11:43,020 --> 00:11:43,980 - He's been working out? 509 00:11:44,020 --> 00:11:44,711 - Yeah, like 510 00:11:44,751 --> 00:11:46,011 playing tennis again. 511 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:47,442 - Huh. 512 00:11:47,482 --> 00:11:47,980 - Yeah. 513 00:11:48,020 --> 00:11:49,171 - He always thought 514 00:11:49,211 --> 00:11:49,980 he was better 515 00:11:50,020 --> 00:11:50,475 - than he really was. 516 00:11:50,515 --> 00:11:50,980 - He said that he went 517 00:11:51,020 --> 00:11:52,261 to the most prestigious 518 00:11:52,301 --> 00:11:52,980 tennis camps. 519 00:11:53,020 --> 00:11:53,980 - He went to tennis camp 520 00:11:54,020 --> 00:11:55,980 does not mean he played good. 521 00:11:56,020 --> 00:11:56,618 You can just-- 522 00:11:56,658 --> 00:11:57,980 anybody can pay to go to camp. 523 00:11:58,020 --> 00:11:59,000 - I don't know. 524 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:00,980 You both play tennis, right? 525 00:12:01,020 --> 00:12:02,004 - Yeah. But he's the one 526 00:12:02,044 --> 00:12:02,980 that got to go to camp. 527 00:12:03,020 --> 00:12:04,697 - You didn't get to go at all? 528 00:12:04,737 --> 00:12:04,980 - No. 529 00:12:05,020 --> 00:12:06,188 My dad didn't let me go, 530 00:12:06,228 --> 00:12:06,980 only Washington. 531 00:12:07,020 --> 00:12:07,980 - Why is that? 532 00:12:08,020 --> 00:12:09,000 - You know how he is. 533 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:09,000 We're raised 534 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:09,960 by the same parents, 535 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:10,980 but raised very differently. 536 00:12:11,020 --> 00:12:11,598 - I know, it's because 537 00:12:11,638 --> 00:12:11,980 you're a girl. 538 00:12:12,020 --> 00:12:12,525 - Don't you remember? 539 00:12:12,565 --> 00:12:13,645 He's the favorite. 540 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:15,980 Hi, Mom. Hi, Dad. 541 00:12:16,020 --> 00:12:17,000 - Hi. 542 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:18,980 - What did you bring? 543 00:12:19,020 --> 00:12:21,000 - I have food for you. 544 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:25,680 Every week I go buy grocery. 545 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:26,980 I cook, and... 546 00:12:27,020 --> 00:12:29,980 Wash and Roosevelt like it. 547 00:12:30,020 --> 00:12:32,000 I bring it over here for them. 548 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:34,980 - One of the reason my wife 549 00:12:35,020 --> 00:12:35,980 bring the food here, 550 00:12:36,020 --> 00:12:36,929 uh, to tell them 551 00:12:36,969 --> 00:12:37,980 she care for them, 552 00:12:38,020 --> 00:12:39,980 she love them, 553 00:12:40,020 --> 00:12:42,000 and make the family closer. 554 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:45,000 - Do you like her tree, Mom? 555 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:47,980 My mom is not the easiest person 556 00:12:48,020 --> 00:12:48,980 to get along with. 557 00:12:49,020 --> 00:12:49,703 Have you seen 558 00:12:49,743 --> 00:12:50,980 her facial expressions? 559 00:12:51,020 --> 00:12:52,980 - What do you think? 560 00:12:53,020 --> 00:12:55,000 - Do you like it, Ma? 561 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:58,000 - That means no. 562 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:00,980 What's wrong with it? 563 00:13:01,020 --> 00:13:01,757 - Light. It has no light here. 564 00:13:01,797 --> 00:13:01,980 - Lights? 565 00:13:02,020 --> 00:13:03,980 - Oh. I just got to plug it in. 566 00:13:04,020 --> 00:13:05,980 - Just plug it in and see. 567 00:13:06,020 --> 00:13:07,000 - Three, two. 568 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:13,980 - Who decorate it? 569 00:13:14,020 --> 00:13:15,980 - I did. 570 00:13:16,020 --> 00:13:16,980 - Lesley did. 571 00:13:17,020 --> 00:13:18,980 - You help her? 572 00:13:19,020 --> 00:13:20,004 - No, I, I, all I did is 573 00:13:20,044 --> 00:13:20,980 what she told me to do. 574 00:13:21,020 --> 00:13:22,075 - My Mother-in-law 575 00:13:22,115 --> 00:13:22,980 hates my taste. 576 00:13:23,020 --> 00:13:23,989 It's really hard 577 00:13:24,029 --> 00:13:24,980 to win her over. 578 00:13:25,020 --> 00:13:25,986 Do you want me to do 579 00:13:26,026 --> 00:13:26,980 your Christmas tree? 580 00:13:27,020 --> 00:13:27,980 [Hue laughs] 581 00:13:28,020 --> 00:13:29,980 - No. We got 582 00:13:30,020 --> 00:13:31,980 another baby girl. 583 00:13:32,020 --> 00:13:34,162 Bye-bye. See you later, okay? 584 00:13:34,202 --> 00:13:34,980 - Oh, okay. 585 00:13:35,020 --> 00:13:36,398 - It's a lot of pressure 586 00:13:36,438 --> 00:13:38,058 to live up to expectations. 587 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:39,712 - Oh, my God, Judy. 588 00:13:39,752 --> 00:13:40,252 - What? 589 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:45,980 Oh, my mom brought that? 590 00:13:46,020 --> 00:13:47,000 Why? 591 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:50,084 - I swear, every time 592 00:13:50,124 --> 00:13:51,000 she comes over... 593 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:51,000 - Yeah. 594 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:51,020 - ...she brings me 595 00:13:51,020 --> 00:13:52,980 a new Virgin Mary. 596 00:13:53,020 --> 00:13:53,879 I don't know if she thinks 597 00:13:53,919 --> 00:13:54,980 like it's gonna help my marriage 598 00:13:55,020 --> 00:13:56,980 or make me a better person 599 00:13:57,020 --> 00:13:58,000 or I don't know. 600 00:13:59,000 --> 00:13:59,490 - She just wants one 601 00:13:59,530 --> 00:13:59,980 everywhere you turn 602 00:14:00,020 --> 00:14:00,703 to remind you 603 00:14:00,743 --> 00:14:02,123 to be more Christ-like. 604 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:04,980 To be nicer to her son. 605 00:14:05,020 --> 00:14:05,980 - I am Christ-like. 606 00:14:06,020 --> 00:14:06,980 - Her poor son. 607 00:14:07,020 --> 00:14:08,219 - I have a collection 608 00:14:08,259 --> 00:14:08,980 of these now. 609 00:14:09,020 --> 00:14:09,980 - Where do you put 'em? 610 00:14:10,020 --> 00:14:11,000 - Look. 611 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:11,500 - Jesus. 612 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:12,980 - That's what I'm saying. 613 00:14:13,020 --> 00:14:13,530 - In your kitchen, 614 00:14:13,570 --> 00:14:14,470 you have three. 615 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:15,877 How many of those 616 00:14:15,917 --> 00:14:16,980 do you actually have? 617 00:14:17,020 --> 00:14:17,980 - Like, 20? 618 00:14:18,020 --> 00:14:18,918 - When I got married, 619 00:14:18,958 --> 00:14:19,980 my parents did not bring 620 00:14:20,020 --> 00:14:21,980 a Virgin Mary to my house 621 00:14:22,020 --> 00:14:22,929 because my mother-in-law 622 00:14:22,969 --> 00:14:23,980 had already bought 10 over, 623 00:14:24,020 --> 00:14:24,955 so it would have 624 00:14:24,995 --> 00:14:25,980 been unnecessary. 625 00:14:26,020 --> 00:14:26,980 Where do you keep them? 626 00:14:27,020 --> 00:14:27,980 - I put 'em in a bag. 627 00:14:28,020 --> 00:14:28,877 - You can't just 628 00:14:28,917 --> 00:14:29,980 leave them in a bag. 629 00:14:30,020 --> 00:14:30,980 - Why? 630 00:14:31,020 --> 00:14:31,980 - Oh, my God, Lesley. 631 00:14:32,020 --> 00:14:32,543 It's God, 632 00:14:32,583 --> 00:14:34,000 God belongs everywhere. 633 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:38,000 [music] 634 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:42,863 - I bought Judy 635 00:14:42,903 --> 00:14:43,980 her mattress today, 636 00:14:44,020 --> 00:14:44,394 because the four 637 00:14:44,434 --> 00:14:44,980 of them are sleeping on 638 00:14:45,020 --> 00:14:45,980 a queen-size bed. 639 00:14:46,020 --> 00:14:47,005 We have other guest rooms 640 00:14:47,045 --> 00:14:48,485 that she won't sleep in, 641 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:49,480 because she says her kids wake 642 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:49,980 up in the middle of the night. 643 00:14:50,020 --> 00:14:50,345 - Uh-huh. 644 00:14:50,385 --> 00:14:50,980 - So I felt bad, 645 00:14:51,020 --> 00:14:51,957 so I just went out 646 00:14:51,997 --> 00:14:52,980 and bought her, uh, 647 00:14:53,020 --> 00:14:53,980 a queen-size mattress. 648 00:14:54,020 --> 00:14:54,798 - Why did you 649 00:14:54,838 --> 00:14:55,980 buy her a mattress? 650 00:14:56,020 --> 00:14:56,980 I mean, you should've just let 651 00:14:57,020 --> 00:14:59,000 my Mom and Dad handle it. 652 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:01,998 - When was the last time 653 00:15:02,038 --> 00:15:03,418 you talked to your Mom? 654 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:05,980 (Washington exhales) 655 00:15:06,020 --> 00:15:07,058 Do you tell her 656 00:15:07,098 --> 00:15:09,000 your concerns and feelings? 657 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:10,980 - About what? 658 00:15:11,020 --> 00:15:11,980 - Anything. 659 00:15:12,020 --> 00:15:13,000 - About you? 660 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:13,540 - Uh-hmm. 661 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:14,980 - Sure. 662 00:15:15,020 --> 00:15:16,980 I do. I do. 663 00:15:17,020 --> 00:15:17,980 - What do you tell her? 664 00:15:18,020 --> 00:15:19,165 - Well, like, she knows 665 00:15:19,205 --> 00:15:19,980 what's going on. 666 00:15:20,020 --> 00:15:21,980 I mean, I can't lie to her. 667 00:15:22,020 --> 00:15:23,520 She lives two doors down, 668 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:24,960 and she's Asian. 669 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:25,980 Like, she can feel 670 00:15:26,020 --> 00:15:27,040 certain energies. 671 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:28,406 - Well, you know, 672 00:15:28,446 --> 00:15:28,980 Judy had lunch with her 673 00:15:29,020 --> 00:15:30,980 the other day 674 00:15:31,020 --> 00:15:32,266 at her house and your mom 675 00:15:32,306 --> 00:15:32,980 said something 676 00:15:33,020 --> 00:15:35,980 to her that really just kind of, 677 00:15:36,020 --> 00:15:37,460 didn't sit well with me. 678 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:38,980 [Washington sighs] 679 00:15:39,020 --> 00:15:41,000 She had said that 680 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:43,000 I was a tyrant. 681 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:45,583 - And tell me-- 682 00:15:45,623 --> 00:15:45,980 - I just-- 683 00:15:46,020 --> 00:15:48,000 --what that means to you? 684 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:50,980 - It's not anything good. 685 00:15:51,020 --> 00:15:52,603 - She doesn't mean it 686 00:15:52,643 --> 00:15:53,980 like that, Lesley. 687 00:15:54,020 --> 00:15:55,640 - So she had told you, too? 688 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:57,000 [music] 689 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:01,440 - No. She told--I just-- 690 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:02,020 - She told Judy. 691 00:16:02,020 --> 00:16:04,000 - I just told her the truth. 692 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:04,000 - I just told her-- 693 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:04,020 - Uh-huh. 694 00:16:04,020 --> 00:16:05,000 --how it is. 695 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:06,980 And she said that, 696 00:16:07,020 --> 00:16:08,100 I didn't say that. 697 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:09,828 My sister doesn't 698 00:16:09,868 --> 00:16:10,980 bullshit enough for me. 699 00:16:11,020 --> 00:16:11,852 Judy, she should 700 00:16:11,892 --> 00:16:13,152 make Lesley feel like 701 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:15,647 she's the super lucky one 702 00:16:15,687 --> 00:16:16,980 to be in our family. 703 00:16:17,020 --> 00:16:18,254 - So, when your Mom 704 00:16:18,294 --> 00:16:19,980 says something like tyrant 705 00:16:20,020 --> 00:16:22,294 that really hurts my feelings, 706 00:16:22,334 --> 00:16:23,980 you need to defend me. 707 00:16:24,020 --> 00:16:25,533 - I'm gonna go fix this problem 708 00:16:25,573 --> 00:16:27,313 and I'm gonna make sure that, 709 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:28,980 without making her feel bad. 710 00:16:29,020 --> 00:16:29,528 - Uh-hmm. 711 00:16:29,568 --> 00:16:30,980 - I'm not gonna tell her 712 00:16:31,020 --> 00:16:33,980 you made me go there, right? 713 00:16:34,020 --> 00:16:35,005 Did you make me go there, 714 00:16:35,045 --> 00:16:35,980 or am I just going there 715 00:16:36,020 --> 00:16:37,011 because I'm a good 716 00:16:37,051 --> 00:16:38,071 husband? Tell me. 717 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:39,529 I'm going there because I'm 718 00:16:39,569 --> 00:16:39,980 a good husband, right? 719 00:16:40,020 --> 00:16:41,052 - Right. 720 00:16:41,092 --> 00:16:41,980 - Okay. 721 00:16:42,020 --> 00:16:42,980 - You should be. 722 00:16:43,020 --> 00:16:43,980 - Look, I will go talk to her 723 00:16:44,020 --> 00:16:45,980 and defend your honor, 724 00:16:46,020 --> 00:16:46,385 - Thank you. 725 00:16:46,425 --> 00:16:46,980 - you know I will. 726 00:16:47,020 --> 00:16:47,980 But I want it to be authentic. 727 00:16:48,020 --> 00:16:50,000 I wanna get something out of it. 728 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:52,980 - Like what? 729 00:16:53,020 --> 00:16:53,955 - You know what. 730 00:16:53,995 --> 00:16:55,015 What I love most. 731 00:16:58,000 --> 00:16:58,980 That pink taco. 732 00:16:59,020 --> 00:16:59,980 - Ew. 733 00:17:00,020 --> 00:17:01,000 - What? 734 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:03,167 - I don't even like 735 00:17:03,207 --> 00:17:03,980 Mexican food. 736 00:17:04,020 --> 00:17:06,000 - (sighs) Babe, come on. 737 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:08,081 Just say maybe-- 738 00:17:08,121 --> 00:17:08,980 - We'll talk. 739 00:17:09,020 --> 00:17:09,641 - Okay. Fine, I'll do it. 740 00:17:09,681 --> 00:17:09,980 - We'll talk. 741 00:17:10,020 --> 00:17:10,862 ♪ Yeah you want what 742 00:17:10,902 --> 00:17:12,582 I got when I took a bite ♪ 743 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:14,025 ♪ Put 'em up, get a look 744 00:17:14,065 --> 00:17:14,980 because we wanna fly ♪ 745 00:17:15,020 --> 00:17:15,534 - If Washington's gonna 746 00:17:15,574 --> 00:17:15,980 go out and practice 747 00:17:16,020 --> 00:17:17,240 just so he can beat me 748 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:17,980 at this game, 749 00:17:18,020 --> 00:17:18,431 I don't know why 750 00:17:18,471 --> 00:17:19,671 I can't do the same. 751 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:20,960 Why are you making me run? 752 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:21,960 - (laughs) You gotta get ready. 753 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:22,980 - I know. 754 00:17:23,020 --> 00:17:24,739 I'm tired of these gender roles 755 00:17:24,779 --> 00:17:25,980 where everyone assumes 756 00:17:26,020 --> 00:17:26,598 that the man is better 757 00:17:26,638 --> 00:17:26,980 than the woman 758 00:17:27,020 --> 00:17:27,980 when it comes to sports. 759 00:17:28,020 --> 00:17:29,083 I wanna beat him just as bad 760 00:17:29,123 --> 00:17:29,980 as he wants to beat me. 761 00:17:30,020 --> 00:17:30,980 ♪ Cause we wanna fly ♪ 762 00:17:31,020 --> 00:17:31,818 ♪ If you need 763 00:17:31,858 --> 00:17:32,980 a little something♪ 764 00:17:33,020 --> 00:17:33,980 ♪ Tell me what you like ♪ 765 00:17:34,020 --> 00:17:34,980 ♪ Yeah cause I'm a bad bitch ♪ 766 00:17:35,020 --> 00:17:35,980 - Good job. 767 00:17:36,020 --> 00:17:37,000 - Good game. 768 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:38,462 That was a real workout, 769 00:17:38,502 --> 00:17:39,960 I'm sweating, I was like-- 770 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:40,406 - You'll be fine, 771 00:17:40,446 --> 00:17:41,000 you're gonna kick butt. 772 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:41,960 - I think I'll be fine. 773 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:42,020 - Yeah. 774 00:17:42,020 --> 00:17:43,820 So, how's everything with you? 775 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:44,466 I haven't seen you 776 00:17:44,506 --> 00:17:44,980 since Thanksgiving. 777 00:17:45,020 --> 00:17:46,194 - Busy. Just getting the kids 778 00:17:46,234 --> 00:17:46,980 adjusted, you know, 779 00:17:47,020 --> 00:17:47,588 because the holidays 780 00:17:47,628 --> 00:17:47,980 are coming up 781 00:17:48,020 --> 00:17:48,485 so, they have to 782 00:17:48,525 --> 00:17:48,980 split their time 783 00:17:49,020 --> 00:17:49,980 between me and my ex 784 00:17:50,020 --> 00:17:50,674 and stuff like that. 785 00:17:50,714 --> 00:17:50,980 - Uh-hmm. 786 00:17:51,020 --> 00:17:51,980 I hope they're doing okay. 787 00:17:52,020 --> 00:17:52,980 - Yeah. They're doing good. 788 00:17:53,020 --> 00:17:53,162 - Yeah. 789 00:17:53,202 --> 00:17:53,980 - It's just hard when they're at 790 00:17:54,020 --> 00:17:55,013 their dads and they 791 00:17:55,053 --> 00:17:56,000 have to come back, 792 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:56,000 - Uh-hmm. 793 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:56,960 - because, you know, 794 00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:57,480 that's the house 795 00:17:57,520 --> 00:17:58,000 they grew up in. 796 00:17:58,000 --> 00:17:58,000 So, I think once we 797 00:17:58,000 --> 00:17:58,960 go to the new house 798 00:17:59,000 --> 00:17:59,980 and they get adjusted. 799 00:18:00,020 --> 00:18:00,236 - Uh-hmm. 800 00:18:00,276 --> 00:18:00,980 - It'll be easier for them. 801 00:18:01,020 --> 00:18:01,980 - Yeah. It'll just take time. 802 00:18:02,020 --> 00:18:02,980 - I know. 803 00:18:03,020 --> 00:18:03,554 - Have you been able 804 00:18:03,594 --> 00:18:03,980 to meet anyone? 805 00:18:04,020 --> 00:18:06,258 Is it too soon right now, 806 00:18:06,298 --> 00:18:06,980 or what? 807 00:18:07,020 --> 00:18:08,677 - Um, it's not as easy as just, 808 00:18:08,717 --> 00:18:09,980 like, me dating someone, 809 00:18:10,020 --> 00:18:10,571 I'm happy, 810 00:18:10,611 --> 00:18:11,980 everyone's happy for me. 811 00:18:12,020 --> 00:18:12,301 - Yeah. 812 00:18:12,341 --> 00:18:12,980 - And, I mean-- 813 00:18:13,020 --> 00:18:14,317 - There's a lot of factors 814 00:18:14,357 --> 00:18:14,980 involved now. 815 00:18:15,020 --> 00:18:15,906 - You know how my 816 00:18:15,946 --> 00:18:16,980 family is like, now, 817 00:18:17,020 --> 00:18:18,008 if I brought it up everybody 818 00:18:18,048 --> 00:18:18,980 would have an opinion like, 819 00:18:19,020 --> 00:18:20,534 "Oh, he's good for you-- 820 00:18:20,574 --> 00:18:20,980 - Yeah. 821 00:18:21,020 --> 00:18:22,105 --he's not this, he's that." 822 00:18:22,145 --> 00:18:22,980 Especially Washington. 823 00:18:23,020 --> 00:18:23,980 I mean, one moment he's like, 824 00:18:24,020 --> 00:18:24,716 "You should date someone 825 00:18:24,756 --> 00:18:25,296 like me." 826 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:26,460 The next moment he's like, 827 00:18:26,500 --> 00:18:26,980 "Stay away from my friends." 828 00:18:27,020 --> 00:18:27,773 - [laughs] 829 00:18:27,813 --> 00:18:29,980 - So, I'm just like, "Dude." 830 00:18:30,020 --> 00:18:30,472 I'm gonna keep it 831 00:18:30,512 --> 00:18:30,980 to myself for now. 832 00:18:31,020 --> 00:18:31,280 - Good. Yeah. 833 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:32,960 - And try and figure things out 834 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:33,980 on my own. 835 00:18:34,020 --> 00:18:35,409 - Well, whoever it is, he's 836 00:18:35,449 --> 00:18:36,980 gonna have to be pretty strong 837 00:18:37,020 --> 00:18:38,064 guy to be introduced 838 00:18:38,104 --> 00:18:38,980 to the Ho family. 839 00:18:39,020 --> 00:18:42,000 - [laughs] You think so? 840 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:42,020 - Yeah. 841 00:18:42,020 --> 00:18:43,000 - Oh. 842 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:47,100 ♪ Watch out, watch out for me ♪ 843 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:49,980 ♪ I'm unpredictable ♪ 844 00:18:50,020 --> 00:18:51,980 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 845 00:18:52,020 --> 00:18:53,980 ♪ Watch out, watch out for me ♪ 846 00:18:54,020 --> 00:18:55,980 ♪ I'm unpredictable ♪ 847 00:18:56,020 --> 00:18:56,980 - I'm gonna go talk to my mom. 848 00:18:57,020 --> 00:18:58,400 I'm thinking to myself, 849 00:18:59,000 --> 00:18:59,903 "Mom did you really have 850 00:18:59,943 --> 00:19:01,623 to put me in that position?" 851 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:02,788 So, I got to go 852 00:19:02,828 --> 00:19:03,980 and settle things down 853 00:19:04,020 --> 00:19:06,048 and, you know, not have my Mom, 854 00:19:06,088 --> 00:19:07,980 like, go apologize to Lesley. 855 00:19:08,020 --> 00:19:09,336 - Is Lesley forcing you 856 00:19:09,376 --> 00:19:10,036 to do this? 857 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:15,980 - No, I mean, just--yeah. 858 00:19:16,020 --> 00:19:16,750 But my wife's 859 00:19:16,790 --> 00:19:17,980 gonna love me for it, 860 00:19:18,020 --> 00:19:18,893 because she'll think 861 00:19:18,933 --> 00:19:19,980 I'm defending her honor. 862 00:19:20,020 --> 00:19:21,980 My Mom's gonna love me for it, 863 00:19:22,020 --> 00:19:23,206 because she's gonna think 864 00:19:23,246 --> 00:19:23,980 I'm on her side. 865 00:19:24,020 --> 00:19:25,090 - What if she's like, 866 00:19:25,130 --> 00:19:25,980 "Nah, fuck that." 867 00:19:26,020 --> 00:19:27,022 - I can't show my mom that I 868 00:19:27,062 --> 00:19:27,980 love Lesley more than her. 869 00:19:28,020 --> 00:19:28,484 - Yeah. 870 00:19:28,524 --> 00:19:29,980 - I can't show Lesley 871 00:19:30,020 --> 00:19:30,980 I love my Mom more. 872 00:19:31,020 --> 00:19:31,203 - Yeah. 873 00:19:31,243 --> 00:19:32,743 - So, I defend her honor, 874 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:34,585 I smooth it out, then you know 875 00:19:34,625 --> 00:19:35,980 who taught me that, right? 876 00:19:36,020 --> 00:19:37,669 Binh Ho, my role model, 877 00:19:37,709 --> 00:19:38,980 he taught me that. 878 00:19:39,020 --> 00:19:40,488 - Washington and I are close 879 00:19:40,528 --> 00:19:41,980 and he really opens up to me 880 00:19:42,020 --> 00:19:42,555 and women do team up, 881 00:19:42,595 --> 00:19:42,980 and, so, there-- 882 00:19:43,020 --> 00:19:44,398 there's two against one, 883 00:19:44,438 --> 00:19:45,980 I mean, that kind of sucks. 884 00:19:46,020 --> 00:19:47,254 - I got to stand up 885 00:19:47,294 --> 00:19:48,980 for my wife. You know why? 886 00:19:49,020 --> 00:19:50,185 Because I ultimately 887 00:19:50,225 --> 00:19:51,980 have to live with her forever. 888 00:19:52,020 --> 00:19:53,557 I feel like Judy's hating on me, 889 00:19:53,597 --> 00:19:54,980 because it's like she's going 890 00:19:55,020 --> 00:19:56,071 through her shit, 891 00:19:56,111 --> 00:19:57,980 and she wants me to, you know, 892 00:19:58,020 --> 00:19:58,750 like, what do 893 00:19:58,790 --> 00:19:59,980 the White people say, 894 00:20:00,020 --> 00:20:01,801 misery loves company 895 00:20:01,841 --> 00:20:03,000 or some shit? 896 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:03,840 - I'm nervous. 897 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:04,940 - You got the courage? 898 00:20:04,980 --> 00:20:06,000 - You think I can do it? 899 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:06,000 - Yes, you can do it. 900 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:06,020 - Got the smile, is it good? 901 00:20:06,020 --> 00:20:06,980 - You can fucking do it, 902 00:20:07,020 --> 00:20:08,980 yes, you can do anything. 903 00:20:09,020 --> 00:20:12,000 [music] 904 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:15,960 - Who goes first? 905 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:16,265 - You. 906 00:20:16,305 --> 00:20:16,980 - You go first. 907 00:20:17,020 --> 00:20:17,380 - I go first. 908 00:20:17,420 --> 00:20:17,980 - It's a single one. 909 00:20:18,020 --> 00:20:18,753 - A single one. 910 00:20:18,793 --> 00:20:19,980 - Put that first, right? 911 00:20:20,020 --> 00:20:20,473 - But I wanna put the lowest 912 00:20:20,513 --> 00:20:20,980 or you wanna put the highest? 913 00:20:21,020 --> 00:20:22,980 - It's gonna take like 10 hours. 914 00:20:23,020 --> 00:20:23,906 - Calm down. 915 00:20:23,946 --> 00:20:25,000 - Don't worry. 916 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:26,417 - You need to put 917 00:20:26,457 --> 00:20:26,980 your mind in the game. 918 00:20:27,020 --> 00:20:27,980 - Do you wanna eat something? 919 00:20:28,020 --> 00:20:30,980 - No, I'm not hungry today Mom. 920 00:20:31,020 --> 00:20:31,980 - What's going on with you? 921 00:20:32,020 --> 00:20:33,980 - Oh, everything is great. 922 00:20:34,020 --> 00:20:34,472 - So, what do you 923 00:20:34,512 --> 00:20:34,980 got to talk about? 924 00:20:35,020 --> 00:20:36,000 - Huh? 925 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:36,000 - What do you got 926 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:36,020 to talk about? 927 00:20:36,020 --> 00:20:36,980 - Nothing. 928 00:20:37,020 --> 00:20:37,980 - Nothing? 929 00:20:38,020 --> 00:20:39,307 - Nothing. I just like 930 00:20:39,347 --> 00:20:40,980 hanging out with my parents. 931 00:20:41,020 --> 00:20:41,608 - Oh. 932 00:20:41,648 --> 00:20:42,980 - You play. 933 00:20:43,020 --> 00:20:44,517 - It's just hard to think 934 00:20:44,557 --> 00:20:45,980 right now, Dad, hold on. 935 00:20:46,020 --> 00:20:47,520 My dad always taught me 936 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:48,980 don't ask, don't tell. 937 00:20:49,020 --> 00:20:51,980 So, I'm gonna listen to my Dad. 938 00:20:52,020 --> 00:20:52,925 - Washington, you remember 939 00:20:52,965 --> 00:20:53,980 you were gonna say something, 940 00:20:54,020 --> 00:20:55,460 tell your Mom something? 941 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:57,336 - Do you have any food? 942 00:20:57,376 --> 00:20:57,980 I'm hungry. 943 00:20:58,020 --> 00:20:58,703 - Food? Yeah. 944 00:20:58,743 --> 00:20:59,980 I got something to eat. 945 00:21:00,020 --> 00:21:00,980 I need to get it. 946 00:21:01,020 --> 00:21:03,000 I support everything he do, 947 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:07,980 it's not a bad thing. 948 00:21:08,020 --> 00:21:09,000 - Finished? 949 00:21:08,020 --> 00:21:09,980 - Did what you need to do? 950 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:10,020 - Yes. 951 00:21:10,020 --> 00:21:11,980 - Yes. 952 00:21:12,020 --> 00:21:13,839 I don't wanna lie to my wife, 953 00:21:13,879 --> 00:21:14,980 but I love my mom. 954 00:21:15,020 --> 00:21:15,861 At the end of the day 955 00:21:15,901 --> 00:21:16,980 I know my mom loves Lesley, 956 00:21:17,020 --> 00:21:18,184 it's just that 957 00:21:18,224 --> 00:21:19,980 they're so different. 958 00:21:20,020 --> 00:21:20,985 So, I might as well 959 00:21:21,025 --> 00:21:21,980 just stop bothering 960 00:21:22,020 --> 00:21:22,980 with telling her about it. 961 00:21:23,020 --> 00:21:24,127 Make sure it doesn't 962 00:21:24,167 --> 00:21:24,980 have any sugar. 963 00:21:25,020 --> 00:21:25,407 - What are you 964 00:21:25,447 --> 00:21:26,587 watching your diet? 965 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,059 - Yeah, I wanna look good 966 00:21:29,099 --> 00:21:30,980 just in case, you know, 967 00:21:31,020 --> 00:21:31,980 I become single one day. 968 00:21:32,020 --> 00:21:32,980 - Why would you become single? 969 00:21:33,020 --> 00:21:33,722 - You know why 970 00:21:33,762 --> 00:21:34,980 I might be single again? 971 00:21:35,020 --> 00:21:36,980 - You're not patient. 972 00:21:37,020 --> 00:21:37,287 - What? 973 00:21:37,327 --> 00:21:37,980 - (Sammy laughs) 974 00:21:38,020 --> 00:21:38,361 - She learmed. 975 00:21:38,401 --> 00:21:38,980 You need patience, man. 976 00:21:39,020 --> 00:21:40,980 - Because you're not patient. 977 00:21:41,020 --> 00:21:42,090 - Because you and her 978 00:21:42,130 --> 00:21:42,980 are so different, 979 00:21:43,020 --> 00:21:43,980 so, I mean, same opinion. 980 00:21:44,020 --> 00:21:45,628 - But he doing a lot better now. 981 00:21:45,668 --> 00:21:45,980 - Okay. 982 00:21:46,020 --> 00:21:46,931 - I'm trying Dad. 983 00:21:46,971 --> 00:21:47,980 - He changed a lot. 984 00:21:48,020 --> 00:21:49,980 Washington, I love him a lot. 985 00:21:50,020 --> 00:21:51,980 I take care of him like a baby. 986 00:21:52,020 --> 00:21:53,443 That's why when he 987 00:21:53,483 --> 00:21:54,980 do something wrong, 988 00:21:55,020 --> 00:21:55,980 he come to me. 989 00:21:56,020 --> 00:21:57,980 (sighs) You have to talk to her. 990 00:21:58,020 --> 00:21:58,980 - She doesn't listen. 991 00:21:59,020 --> 00:21:59,980 - Do you listen to her? 992 00:22:00,020 --> 00:22:02,828 - I mean, not all the time, 993 00:22:02,868 --> 00:22:03,980 but I have. 994 00:22:04,020 --> 00:22:04,905 Uh, the thing is, look, 995 00:22:04,945 --> 00:22:05,980 our families are different. 996 00:22:06,020 --> 00:22:07,954 - Yeah. We winning. 997 00:22:07,994 --> 00:22:08,980 - [laughs] 998 00:22:09,020 --> 00:22:09,650 - What? 999 00:22:09,690 --> 00:22:10,980 - I'm Winning. 1000 00:22:11,020 --> 00:22:11,439 - He's winning. 1001 00:22:11,479 --> 00:22:11,980 - You keep talking 1002 00:22:12,020 --> 00:22:12,980 you didn't pay attention again. 1003 00:22:13,020 --> 00:22:15,015 - No, look, I have, uh, 1004 00:22:15,055 --> 00:22:15,980 I beat you. 1005 00:22:16,020 --> 00:22:16,695 - Too late. 1006 00:22:16,735 --> 00:22:17,980 You owe me 10 bucks. 1007 00:22:18,020 --> 00:22:18,980 - I don't owe you 10 bucks. 1008 00:22:19,020 --> 00:22:20,000 - Oh, yes. 1009 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:21,454 - Oh, yes. 1010 00:22:21,494 --> 00:22:22,980 - That's for lunch today, right? 1011 00:22:23,020 --> 00:22:23,967 - Yeah. You get a sandwich. 1012 00:22:24,007 --> 00:22:24,980 - You want to eat something? 1013 00:22:25,020 --> 00:22:25,415 - Yes. 1014 00:22:25,455 --> 00:22:25,980 - Apple? 1015 00:22:26,020 --> 00:22:28,257 What? No, something you cook. 1016 00:22:28,297 --> 00:22:29,980 I don't want no apple, 1017 00:22:30,020 --> 00:22:31,280 I can do that myself. 1018 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,980 [music] 1019 00:22:35,020 --> 00:22:35,980 - What's up babe? 1020 00:22:36,020 --> 00:22:36,724 - Hey, honey. 1021 00:22:36,764 --> 00:22:38,000 - Just came from Mom's 1022 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:38,600 and Dad's. 1023 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:41,030 - Did you talked to her 1024 00:22:41,070 --> 00:22:41,980 like we talked about? 1025 00:22:42,020 --> 00:22:43,770 - I don't wanna lie to my wife, 1026 00:22:43,810 --> 00:22:44,980 but when my Dad says, 1027 00:22:45,020 --> 00:22:45,874 "Don't do a half lie 1028 00:22:45,914 --> 00:22:46,980 when it's with your wife, 1029 00:22:47,020 --> 00:22:49,000 do a full lie." 1030 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:52,980 Yeah. 1031 00:22:53,020 --> 00:22:53,595 - Yeah. 1032 00:22:53,635 --> 00:22:54,980 - Yeah. (laughs) 1033 00:22:55,020 --> 00:22:56,347 She's all good. 1034 00:22:56,387 --> 00:22:56,980 - Okay. 1035 00:22:57,020 --> 00:22:57,980 - Everything's perfect. 1036 00:22:58,020 --> 00:22:58,980 - What did you say to her? 1037 00:22:59,020 --> 00:23:00,980 - Um, I told her that, uh, 1038 00:23:01,020 --> 00:23:02,980 you know, it was a little, 1039 00:23:03,020 --> 00:23:04,457 you know, disrespectful 1040 00:23:04,497 --> 00:23:05,980 what she said about you. 1041 00:23:06,020 --> 00:23:07,980 - You actually said that to her? 1042 00:23:08,020 --> 00:23:09,307 - Well, I mean, I said 1043 00:23:09,347 --> 00:23:10,980 it in a different way, not-- 1044 00:23:11,020 --> 00:23:11,561 - Uh-hmm. 1045 00:23:11,601 --> 00:23:12,980 - --exactly like that. 1046 00:23:13,020 --> 00:23:14,980 - You actually talked to her? 1047 00:23:15,020 --> 00:23:16,466 - Uh, I mean, we had to talk, 1048 00:23:16,506 --> 00:23:17,980 because we were playing cards. 1049 00:23:18,020 --> 00:23:19,534 - But you brought it up? 1050 00:23:19,574 --> 00:23:19,980 - Yeah. 1051 00:23:20,020 --> 00:23:22,980 I told her and she's-she's good. 1052 00:23:23,020 --> 00:23:23,405 - Okay. 1053 00:23:23,445 --> 00:23:25,005 - Yeah. She's really good. 1054 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:27,980 Do you believe me? 1055 00:23:28,020 --> 00:23:29,000 - I don't know. 1056 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:34,480 - Does it-- 1057 00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:34,980 - I'm home. 1058 00:23:35,020 --> 00:23:36,000 - Hey. 1059 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:39,007 - Why does it feel 1060 00:23:39,047 --> 00:23:39,980 so heavy in here? 1061 00:23:40,020 --> 00:23:40,703 - Y'all okay? 1062 00:23:40,743 --> 00:23:41,980 - We were just talking. 1063 00:23:42,020 --> 00:23:42,980 He just came back from Mom's. 1064 00:23:43,020 --> 00:23:43,541 - How was that? 1065 00:23:43,581 --> 00:23:43,980 - We talked. 1066 00:23:44,020 --> 00:23:45,980 - Oh, that's good. 1067 00:23:46,020 --> 00:23:46,980 - He said everything's fine. 1068 00:23:47,020 --> 00:23:47,980 - So, you're happy with that? 1069 00:23:48,020 --> 00:23:49,515 - I trust him. I mean, if he 1070 00:23:49,555 --> 00:23:50,980 says he talked to your Mom, 1071 00:23:51,020 --> 00:23:51,980 then I guess we'll find out 1072 00:23:52,020 --> 00:23:53,604 if she comes over here more. 1073 00:23:53,644 --> 00:23:54,980 - I was just over there. 1074 00:23:55,020 --> 00:23:55,448 I was over there. 1075 00:23:55,488 --> 00:23:55,980 - That's how I know. 1076 00:23:56,020 --> 00:23:56,167 - Okay. 1077 00:23:56,207 --> 00:23:56,980 - If she doesn't come over here 1078 00:23:57,020 --> 00:23:58,457 for the next week, then 1079 00:23:58,497 --> 00:23:59,980 I know nothing happened. 1080 00:24:00,020 --> 00:24:00,880 - Mom will be Mom, 1081 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:01,980 but I did talk to her. 1082 00:24:02,020 --> 00:24:02,241 - Uh-hmm. 1083 00:24:02,281 --> 00:24:02,980 - I thought we've moved on 1084 00:24:03,020 --> 00:24:04,000 from this? 1085 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:06,420 - Sometimes I feel like 1086 00:24:06,460 --> 00:24:07,980 Lesley's in the same spot 1087 00:24:08,020 --> 00:24:08,980 that I was in two years 1088 00:24:09,020 --> 00:24:09,980 ago in my own marriage. 1089 00:24:10,020 --> 00:24:11,738 My ex, you know, he wouldn't 1090 00:24:11,778 --> 00:24:12,980 admit to his faults. 1091 00:24:13,020 --> 00:24:14,561 And it's hard for me 1092 00:24:14,601 --> 00:24:15,980 to give her advice 1093 00:24:16,020 --> 00:24:17,202 that in the end 1094 00:24:17,242 --> 00:24:18,980 would hurt my brother, 1095 00:24:19,020 --> 00:24:20,938 or cause even more trouble 1096 00:24:20,978 --> 00:24:21,980 in our family. 1097 00:24:22,020 --> 00:24:22,980 - You look tired honey. 1098 00:24:23,020 --> 00:24:23,980 - I am tired. 1099 00:24:24,020 --> 00:24:24,812 - Dealing with Mom, 1100 00:24:24,852 --> 00:24:25,980 your sister, and your wife, 1101 00:24:26,020 --> 00:24:28,980 can't be easy right, Wash? 1102 00:24:29,020 --> 00:24:30,000 - It's tiring. 1103 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:30,020 - Your life? 1104 00:24:30,020 --> 00:24:31,000 - Yeah. 1105 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:33,507 - It can't be as tiring as mine, 1106 00:24:33,547 --> 00:24:34,147 or Judy's. 1107 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:35,980 - What? 1108 00:24:36,020 --> 00:24:36,989 I shouldn't have 1109 00:24:37,029 --> 00:24:37,980 ever Googled it, 1110 00:24:38,020 --> 00:24:40,183 but the statistics say 1111 00:24:40,223 --> 00:24:42,980 that 48% of married females, 1112 00:24:43,020 --> 00:24:43,724 that hang out 1113 00:24:43,764 --> 00:24:44,980 with divorced females, 1114 00:24:45,020 --> 00:24:46,980 will become divorced one day. 1115 00:24:47,020 --> 00:24:48,811 And Judy doesn't always have 1116 00:24:48,851 --> 00:24:49,980 a positive outlook 1117 00:24:50,020 --> 00:24:51,662 on her brother, and of course 1118 00:24:51,702 --> 00:24:52,980 in the back of my mind, 1119 00:24:53,020 --> 00:24:55,135 I'm like, "What the--are they 1120 00:24:55,175 --> 00:24:56,980 talking about right now?" 1121 00:24:57,020 --> 00:24:57,614 - Like I deal with you 1122 00:24:57,654 --> 00:24:57,980 and the kids. 1123 00:24:58,020 --> 00:24:58,513 - Let's not compare 1124 00:24:58,553 --> 00:24:58,980 how tired we are. 1125 00:24:59,020 --> 00:25:00,980 We're all tired. 1126 00:25:01,020 --> 00:25:02,040 - Yeah, but I'm sick and tired. 1127 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:02,980 - Okay, tired of each other. 1128 00:25:03,020 --> 00:25:04,000 - Oh, my God. 1129 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,000 [music] 1130 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:12,708 - I got Judy 1131 00:25:12,748 --> 00:25:13,980 in my head right now. 1132 00:25:14,020 --> 00:25:16,086 Just down the street, 1133 00:25:16,126 --> 00:25:17,980 helping my Dad out. 1134 00:25:18,020 --> 00:25:19,766 Judy's house and 1135 00:25:19,806 --> 00:25:21,980 she's coming into it 1136 00:25:22,020 --> 00:25:24,730 with like no enthusiasm, 1137 00:25:24,770 --> 00:25:25,980 she's not-- 1138 00:25:26,020 --> 00:25:26,774 I don't think 1139 00:25:26,814 --> 00:25:28,014 she's very grateful. 1140 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:30,236 - I mean, 1141 00:25:30,276 --> 00:25:30,980 put yourself in her shoes, 1142 00:25:31,020 --> 00:25:32,711 like, she's moving into it, 1143 00:25:32,751 --> 00:25:33,980 without her husband. 1144 00:25:34,020 --> 00:25:34,980 - Right. 1145 00:25:35,020 --> 00:25:36,980 - That's fucking hard. 1146 00:25:37,020 --> 00:25:37,906 - Yeah, it's hard 1147 00:25:37,946 --> 00:25:38,980 but there's a lot of 1148 00:25:39,020 --> 00:25:40,980 single moms out there, right? 1149 00:25:41,020 --> 00:25:42,980 It happens. 1150 00:25:43,020 --> 00:25:44,744 - It's way bigger than 1151 00:25:44,784 --> 00:25:46,980 what Washington is thinking. 1152 00:25:47,020 --> 00:25:47,786 It's about the 1153 00:25:47,826 --> 00:25:48,980 whole family dynamic. 1154 00:25:49,020 --> 00:25:50,646 Because as a Catholic 1155 00:25:50,686 --> 00:25:51,980 Vietnamese family 1156 00:25:52,020 --> 00:25:52,786 we're supposed 1157 00:25:52,826 --> 00:25:53,980 to just stick it out, 1158 00:25:54,020 --> 00:25:55,135 we're just supposed 1159 00:25:55,175 --> 00:25:55,980 to suck it up, 1160 00:25:56,020 --> 00:25:57,646 stay married or stay 1161 00:25:57,686 --> 00:25:59,980 in this fucked up situation. 1162 00:26:00,020 --> 00:26:00,598 And now she's doing it 1163 00:26:00,638 --> 00:26:01,478 all by herself 1164 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:03,391 with very little 1165 00:26:03,431 --> 00:26:04,980 emotional support. 1166 00:26:05,020 --> 00:26:06,674 - You know I never 1167 00:26:06,714 --> 00:26:07,980 told you this, 1168 00:26:08,020 --> 00:26:11,980 but when I left that energy job, 1169 00:26:12,020 --> 00:26:13,486 I was like in the back 1170 00:26:13,526 --> 00:26:14,980 of my Dad's, uh, house 1171 00:26:15,020 --> 00:26:16,000 living there. 1172 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,230 My Mom meets Lesley, right. 1173 00:26:19,270 --> 00:26:19,980 One time. 1174 00:26:20,020 --> 00:26:20,958 - You were living 1175 00:26:20,998 --> 00:26:21,980 in the back house? 1176 00:26:22,020 --> 00:26:23,000 - Yeah. 1177 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,040 And my mom's like, 1178 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:25,980 "Look Washington 1179 00:26:26,020 --> 00:26:29,000 if you marry this girl, Lesley, 1180 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:31,980 you don't owe me and Dad nothing 1181 00:26:32,020 --> 00:26:34,000 for the rest of your life." 1182 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:36,304 I was like, 1183 00:26:36,344 --> 00:26:36,980 "You only met her once. 1184 00:26:37,020 --> 00:26:37,416 What do you mean 1185 00:26:37,456 --> 00:26:38,716 I'm gonna marry her?" 1186 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:40,480 Like, why do you-- 1187 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:41,980 she's like, "Look, 1188 00:26:42,020 --> 00:26:43,980 in the past 32 years 1189 00:26:44,020 --> 00:26:45,457 you never listen to me, 1190 00:26:45,497 --> 00:26:46,980 look at where you're at. 1191 00:26:47,020 --> 00:26:48,700 Why don't you listen 1192 00:26:48,740 --> 00:26:49,980 to me one time, 1193 00:26:50,020 --> 00:26:51,819 and if things don't go well 1194 00:26:51,859 --> 00:26:53,980 I got your back, I always have." 1195 00:26:54,020 --> 00:26:55,132 So, that day I called Lesley 1196 00:26:55,172 --> 00:26:55,980 and I was like, "Hey, 1197 00:26:56,020 --> 00:26:57,161 why don't you move to Houston, 1198 00:26:57,201 --> 00:26:57,980 so, I could date you? 1199 00:26:58,020 --> 00:26:58,772 I don't got time, 1200 00:26:58,812 --> 00:26:59,980 I'm looking for marriage." 1201 00:27:00,020 --> 00:27:01,640 - That's how you asked her? 1202 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:03,451 - And three weeks later 1203 00:27:03,491 --> 00:27:04,980 she moved down and look, 1204 00:27:05,020 --> 00:27:06,980 look at what I have now, right? 1205 00:27:07,020 --> 00:27:07,647 It's a nice 1206 00:27:07,687 --> 00:27:08,980 insurance plan, right? 1207 00:27:09,020 --> 00:27:09,572 I got my Mom and Dad 1208 00:27:09,612 --> 00:27:09,980 backing me up. 1209 00:27:10,020 --> 00:27:11,980 - Fuck, dude. What? 1210 00:27:12,020 --> 00:27:13,000 - Yeah. 1211 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,000 I'm a spoiled rich kid. 1212 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,980 - Damn, should that be on TV? 1213 00:27:20,020 --> 00:27:20,826 - But I've grown 1214 00:27:20,866 --> 00:27:22,186 to love her over time. 1215 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:24,761 - I'm not saying 1216 00:27:24,801 --> 00:27:25,980 it makes Lesley look bad, 1217 00:27:26,020 --> 00:27:27,516 but I put myself in her shoes 1218 00:27:27,556 --> 00:27:29,236 and if my husband said that, 1219 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:31,409 the father of my two kids 1220 00:27:31,449 --> 00:27:31,980 said that, 1221 00:27:32,020 --> 00:27:33,340 I'd be fucking pissed. 1222 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:34,245 I mean-- 1223 00:27:34,285 --> 00:27:35,000 - We're still married. 1224 00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:35,720 We're happy. 1225 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:36,500 - Yeah. 1226 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:38,660 - Hey, sometimes some people 1227 00:27:38,700 --> 00:27:40,020 need a push, you know. 1228 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:42,980 - Yeah. I guess, that's true. 1229 00:27:43,020 --> 00:27:44,328 - Ultimately my Mom's 1230 00:27:44,368 --> 00:27:46,000 a great judge of character 1231 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:50,000 and, I'm not. 1232 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,739 Being married to Lesley has been 1233 00:27:53,779 --> 00:27:55,980 the best thing in my life. 1234 00:27:56,020 --> 00:27:59,980 My Mom can, um, live with peace, 1235 00:28:00,020 --> 00:28:00,980 because she's the one that 1236 00:28:01,020 --> 00:28:02,580 helped make that decision. 1237 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:07,000 [music] 1238 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:11,446 - Go Mommy, 1239 00:28:11,486 --> 00:28:13,980 go Mommy, go Mommy. 1240 00:28:14,020 --> 00:28:15,406 - Look, Washington's a great 1241 00:28:15,446 --> 00:28:16,980 tennis player. He may even win. 1242 00:28:17,020 --> 00:28:17,980 But the thing that matters to me 1243 00:28:18,020 --> 00:28:19,133 is that I didn't say no 1244 00:28:19,173 --> 00:28:20,193 to the challenge. 1245 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:21,818 - We settle this 1246 00:28:21,858 --> 00:28:22,980 once and for all baby. 1247 00:28:23,020 --> 00:28:23,980 - It's on, Washington. 1248 00:28:24,020 --> 00:28:24,980 - Yeah. 1249 00:28:25,020 --> 00:28:25,980 - You gonna serve first? 1250 00:28:26,020 --> 00:28:26,980 - I'll let you pick. 1251 00:28:27,020 --> 00:28:27,534 What do you want to do? 1252 00:28:27,574 --> 00:28:27,980 - Okay. I'll serve. 1253 00:28:28,020 --> 00:28:28,452 - You'll serve? 1254 00:28:28,492 --> 00:28:29,512 - You go get 'em. 1255 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:30,980 - Oh, Lord. 1256 00:28:31,020 --> 00:28:31,980 - You ready? 1257 00:28:32,020 --> 00:28:32,980 - I'm ready. 1258 00:28:33,020 --> 00:28:33,980 - You can do it. 1259 00:28:34,020 --> 00:28:34,607 - He's gonna beat himself. 1260 00:28:34,647 --> 00:28:34,980 - Be consistent. 1261 00:28:35,020 --> 00:28:35,435 - Uh-hmm. 1262 00:28:35,475 --> 00:28:35,980 - Powerful, 1263 00:28:36,020 --> 00:28:37,980 and then you just whip his ass. 1264 00:28:38,020 --> 00:28:38,362 - I got it. 1265 00:28:38,402 --> 00:28:38,980 - Okay. All right? 1266 00:28:39,020 --> 00:28:39,203 - Okay. 1267 00:28:39,243 --> 00:28:39,980 - I got money on you too. 1268 00:28:40,020 --> 00:28:41,379 - High-five, high-five. 1269 00:28:41,419 --> 00:28:41,980 - Oh. Yay. 1270 00:28:42,020 --> 00:28:43,487 I love gamble, and I think 1271 00:28:43,527 --> 00:28:44,980 it's the whole family too. 1272 00:28:45,020 --> 00:28:46,283 - I got a--I got a hundred 1273 00:28:46,323 --> 00:28:46,980 on Washington. 1274 00:28:47,020 --> 00:28:48,980 - Ah! 1275 00:28:49,020 --> 00:28:49,452 - Wanna bet 20, 1276 00:28:49,492 --> 00:28:50,512 I'm gonna bet 40, 1277 00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:51,480 just to beat the 1278 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:51,980 shit out of you. 1279 00:28:52,020 --> 00:28:53,207 That's it, that's how we do, 1280 00:28:53,247 --> 00:28:53,980 it doesn't matter. 1281 00:28:54,020 --> 00:28:55,562 We don't even care of the game, 1282 00:28:55,602 --> 00:28:56,980 we don't even know the game, 1283 00:28:57,020 --> 00:28:57,961 you talk about bet, 1284 00:28:58,001 --> 00:28:58,980 we bet. That's a Ho. 1285 00:28:59,020 --> 00:29:00,000 [music] 1286 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:01,980 [cheers] 1287 00:29:02,020 --> 00:29:03,230 - Come on sister. 1288 00:29:03,270 --> 00:29:04,980 - Get him, get him girl. 1289 00:29:05,020 --> 00:29:05,961 ♪ Pulling so hard 1290 00:29:06,001 --> 00:29:06,980 the devil prayed ♪ 1291 00:29:07,020 --> 00:29:08,008 ♪ I never back down, 1292 00:29:08,048 --> 00:29:08,980 I never back down ♪ 1293 00:29:09,020 --> 00:29:10,980 ♪ Don't get in my way ♪ 1294 00:29:11,020 --> 00:29:11,638 ♪ Don't get in my space, 1295 00:29:11,678 --> 00:29:11,980 don't kill ♪ 1296 00:29:12,020 --> 00:29:14,980 [cheering] 1297 00:29:15,020 --> 00:29:16,980 - When Washington was young, 1298 00:29:17,020 --> 00:29:18,486 I sent him to tennis 1299 00:29:18,526 --> 00:29:19,980 training in Florida. 1300 00:29:20,020 --> 00:29:20,980 - Good shot. 1301 00:29:21,020 --> 00:29:21,712 - Because I know 1302 00:29:21,752 --> 00:29:22,980 he have not good discipline. 1303 00:29:23,020 --> 00:29:24,582 So, I want those one who 1304 00:29:24,622 --> 00:29:25,980 train him to be good. 1305 00:29:26,020 --> 00:29:26,355 - Out. 1306 00:29:26,395 --> 00:29:27,980 - I didn't send Judy there 1307 00:29:28,020 --> 00:29:29,789 because I don't think 1308 00:29:29,829 --> 00:29:30,980 she need that. 1309 00:29:31,020 --> 00:29:32,980 She's strong already. 1310 00:29:33,020 --> 00:29:36,000 [music] 1311 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:40,000 - Good. 1312 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:41,980 - Ooo. 1313 00:29:42,020 --> 00:29:42,818 - Oh. 1314 00:29:42,858 --> 00:29:43,980 - Nice. 1315 00:29:44,020 --> 00:29:45,000 - Good job honey. 1316 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:45,020 - The focus baby. 1317 00:29:45,020 --> 00:29:46,980 (McKinley interrupts) 1318 00:29:47,020 --> 00:29:47,636 - I can't, I gotta play, 1319 00:29:47,676 --> 00:29:47,980 I gotta play. 1320 00:29:48,020 --> 00:29:49,819 This tennis match is like a 1321 00:29:49,859 --> 00:29:51,980 representation of our real life. 1322 00:29:52,020 --> 00:29:53,352 Washington's concentrating 1323 00:29:53,392 --> 00:29:54,112 on the game. 1324 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:57,037 He has Lesley 1325 00:29:57,077 --> 00:29:58,980 worrying about his kids. 1326 00:29:59,020 --> 00:30:00,062 - Go daddy go, 1327 00:30:00,102 --> 00:30:00,980 go daddy go. 1328 00:30:01,020 --> 00:30:01,215 - Shit! 1329 00:30:01,255 --> 00:30:01,980 McKinley go over there. 1330 00:30:02,020 --> 00:30:03,328 Me on the other hand, 1331 00:30:03,368 --> 00:30:04,980 I don't have someone there 1332 00:30:05,020 --> 00:30:06,161 who's making sure that they're 1333 00:30:06,201 --> 00:30:06,980 not running up to me, 1334 00:30:07,020 --> 00:30:08,487 and trying to give me hugs 1335 00:30:08,527 --> 00:30:09,980 in the middle of the game. 1336 00:30:10,020 --> 00:30:11,980 Go, go, okay, go, go. 1337 00:30:12,020 --> 00:30:13,141 - Come on Judy. 1338 00:30:13,181 --> 00:30:14,980 Stop trying to bail out. 1339 00:30:15,020 --> 00:30:16,207 - Okay, watch out for the ball. 1340 00:30:16,247 --> 00:30:17,447 All right. Let's go. 1341 00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:19,890 - There you go, 1342 00:30:19,930 --> 00:30:21,010 there you go girl. 1343 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,000 - You're an idiot. 1344 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,000 - Oh! 1345 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:29,020 - Good game. 1346 00:30:29,020 --> 00:30:29,980 - I won. 1347 00:30:30,020 --> 00:30:31,451 - Yay, Washington won. 1348 00:30:31,491 --> 00:30:32,000 - I won. 1349 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:34,000 - Ah! 1350 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:36,980 My son. Oh. 1351 00:30:37,020 --> 00:30:38,980 - I'll give Washington credit, 1352 00:30:39,020 --> 00:30:40,980 he followed through, he won. 1353 00:30:41,020 --> 00:30:42,980 [laughs] 1354 00:30:43,020 --> 00:30:43,774 It's probably 1355 00:30:43,814 --> 00:30:44,980 one of the few times 1356 00:30:45,020 --> 00:30:46,336 I've lost to Washington 1357 00:30:46,376 --> 00:30:46,980 in my life. 1358 00:30:47,020 --> 00:30:47,980 He needs it. 1359 00:30:48,020 --> 00:30:48,630 - Hi son. 1360 00:30:48,670 --> 00:30:48,980 - Hi. 1361 00:30:49,020 --> 00:30:50,232 - Hey, come here, come here. 1362 00:30:50,272 --> 00:30:50,980 - Play good, huh. 1363 00:30:51,020 --> 00:30:51,765 - Yeah. I had a good day. 1364 00:30:51,805 --> 00:30:52,305 - Yeah. 1365 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:54,894 - Oh, yeah. I'm in my element, 1366 00:30:54,934 --> 00:30:55,980 I love attention. 1367 00:30:56,020 --> 00:30:58,980 - Winner. Family win. 1368 00:30:59,020 --> 00:31:00,839 - I love proving people wrong 1369 00:31:00,879 --> 00:31:01,980 and I love to win. 1370 00:31:02,020 --> 00:31:03,220 Was it fun to watch? 1371 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:05,200 That was good right? 1372 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:08,980 - I want the Santa one. 1373 00:31:09,020 --> 00:31:10,065 - But okay, which Santa one? 1374 00:31:10,105 --> 00:31:10,980 We can sing it together. 1375 00:31:11,020 --> 00:31:12,000 Which one do you want? 1376 00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:12,020 Jingle Bells? 1377 00:31:12,020 --> 00:31:12,980 - Yeah. 1378 00:31:13,020 --> 00:31:14,980 ♪ Jingle bells, jingle bells ♪ 1379 00:31:15,020 --> 00:31:17,000 ♪ Jingle all the way ♪ 1380 00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:18,980 ♪ Oh, what fun ♪ 1381 00:31:19,020 --> 00:31:19,436 - Maybe these are my 1382 00:31:19,476 --> 00:31:19,980 favorite kind of moments 1383 00:31:20,020 --> 00:31:22,103 with my family, when we're 1384 00:31:22,143 --> 00:31:23,980 all together like this, 1385 00:31:24,020 --> 00:31:24,980 it makes me so happy. 1386 00:31:25,020 --> 00:31:26,980 ♪ Jingle all the way ♪ 1387 00:31:27,020 --> 00:31:28,261 I was raised to believe 1388 00:31:28,301 --> 00:31:28,980 that marriage 1389 00:31:29,020 --> 00:31:29,967 is the most important thing 1390 00:31:30,007 --> 00:31:30,980 and you do whatever it takes 1391 00:31:31,020 --> 00:31:31,980 to make it work. 1392 00:31:32,020 --> 00:31:33,307 When this is us 1393 00:31:33,347 --> 00:31:34,980 working through it. 1394 00:31:35,020 --> 00:31:36,328 I can't imagine going 1395 00:31:36,368 --> 00:31:37,980 through divorce like Judy, 1396 00:31:38,020 --> 00:31:38,753 I wish everyday 1397 00:31:38,793 --> 00:31:39,980 could be like Christmas. 1398 00:31:40,020 --> 00:31:42,913 ♪ Jingle bells, jingle bells, 1399 00:31:42,953 --> 00:31:44,980 jingle all the way ♪ 1400 00:31:45,020 --> 00:31:45,850 - Family hug. 1401 00:31:45,890 --> 00:31:47,000 - Good job buddy. 1402 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,000 - Oh, look at that. 1403 00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:52,980 - Here it is, open this one. 1404 00:31:53,020 --> 00:31:54,980 [music] 1405 00:31:55,020 --> 00:31:56,000 (camera click) 1406 00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:58,000 (camera click) 1407 00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:05,000 ♪ Oh, ooh ♪ 1408 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:12,014 ♪ Make it rain, 1409 00:32:12,054 --> 00:32:12,980 make it rain ♪ 1410 00:32:13,020 --> 00:32:13,980 ♪ I don't care ♪ 1411 00:32:14,020 --> 00:32:16,980 ♪ Because it's all the same ♪ 1412 00:32:17,020 --> 00:32:17,980 ♪ Oh, ooh ♪ 1413 00:32:18,020 --> 00:32:19,056 ♪ I'mma make the best 1414 00:32:19,096 --> 00:32:19,980 of any situation ♪ 1415 00:32:20,020 --> 00:32:21,018 ♪ Make it rain, 1416 00:32:21,058 --> 00:32:21,980 make it rain ♪ 1417 00:32:22,020 --> 00:32:23,220 ♪ I don't care ♪ 1418 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,980 ♪ I'mma be happy ♪ 1419 00:32:27,020 --> 00:32:31,000 ♪ No you can never rain on me ♪